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22

My ex did a number on my self esteem, as did my brief 1.5 week jaunt on OLD - and getting ghosted. I know I’m very attractive and intelligent, so I got confused. I’d rather focus on myself than a man aching to give me an STD and mediocre sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 07:19 AM
9

I need to remind myself of this, I’m feeling crushed because the guy I had a great first date with and scheduled a second date with, went silent the day before and after I asked him what was up he told me he’s “sick” cancelled, and proceeded to ghost me for two days. So I guess that’s the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 05:14 AM
80

Hell no they don’t! And who has the time?? Why is he expecting her to train like she’s competing in a bikini body building competition?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:44 PM
6

Yeah I think its disgusting and when I see young girls wearing it, I cringe because its sending a message to adult men that they’re into porn culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:42 PM
192

Oh this poor woman. I have no doubt she’s probably extremely fit already, he’s pushing her to internalize his body dysmorphia. Let me guess, he probably has porn addiction she doesn’t know about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 11:32 PM
39

My ex husband fit these perfectly. Once you’re exposed to a narc, you never go back. Leave at the first sign when you’re dating someone new. Its really not worth the heartache and headache.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 12:47 PM
17

They know good and well all the ways they hurt you, they just don’t give a damn enough about you to stop doing it or rectifying the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:40 PM
4

Ew why does this look like my ex wrote this by hand. All women I know have beautiful handwriting. Why do men suck at handwriting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:34 PM
231

Ah yes, the porn sick scrote who doesn’t understand that foreplay is essential for arousal. He just wants to jack hammer randoms. And she’s standing in his way 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 10:24 PM
352

She knows the solution to her question, she’s just not ready to admit that its been over for a while. You gave him 2 kids without legal entanglements. Why would he marry you now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:20 PM
122

He pulled a Machiavellian power move while she was on the verge of death and expects her to put up with it. That’s her child she almost died having. Scrotes never seize to horrify me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:37 PM
309

Why do podcast losers think we give a fuck about their conceptions of femininity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 05:01 AM
3

Whewwww the desperation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:53 PM
46

I remember a red flag I overlooked is how much nicer and engaging my ex used to be when I was dressed up, wearing make up vs when I was bare faced and casual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:24 PM
5

Ahhhh!! My shiny toy isn’t shiny enough! He only liked her as a trophy. She stopped dressing for the male gaze and he lost it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:20 PM
5

Ughhhhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:56 PM
244

Why is he degrading his so called beloved partner. What the fuckboy is this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:51 PM
22

Correct, I’m in the process of divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:45 PM
87

So did mine, eventually told him that I’d never have chosen him if I knew he’d turn out the way he did. That shut him right up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 09:46 PM
180

I remember telling my brother in law that my husband had emotionally withdrawn from me. And his advice was for me to “seduce him” WHAT THE FUCK?! I was completely shocked. The problem wasn’t me or my seductiveness. It was my husband was infatuated with an office pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 08:56 AM
8

I mentally prepared to lose our mutual friends, but I was smart enough to create my own circle of solid girlfriends before I left him. So when I announced my divorce to my friends, they became a supportive network of girls. They helped me get through the darkness by going out and helping me find a place to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 08:51 AM
7

I legit use animal enzyme cleaners on all sorts of stains. Its really effective, more so than shout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:29 PM
18

Body odour is a huge component in my personal vetting. If you stink, especially from the mouth, you’re done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:24 PM
4

Uhm. That’s revolting.. sis.. what the fuck 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:22 PM
53

I knew it was coming 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:10 PM
93

My ex husband got off on the fact that the more he withheld the more I begged etc., it was so toxic. He noticed when I withdrew and stopped giving a fuck about what he did and started plotting my exit. I didn’t give him the pleasure of seeing any of my emotion when I told him I was divorcing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 09:50 PM
72

This is the god honest truth, the minute you break down they will double down on their abusive withholding. It just feeds their ego. I learnt this the absolute hardest way. Just go, they usually fall in line and do what you’ve been begging for when you’re completely done and have nothing left to give them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 09:43 PM
28

I went to school, landed an executive level job, get to fly business class internationally and earn 6 figures - none of it requires me selling my body at any point. All brain power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:22 PM
14

Don’t ever feel bad about working 5 days a week. These crazy chicks like to make people feel bad, but they’re literally getting their 🐱 pounded by zvm strangers for a coin. And trying to gaslight you that they’re somehow better than you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:17 PM
16

I clap back hard without mercy too 😂 I live for their shocked faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:15 PM
35

Oh I love this 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:12 PM
5

It is societally accepted that men can trick, coerce and abuse women for sexual conquests. But women are not allowed to have any expectations of material exchange for their time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 09:20 PM
10

I know of a guy who posts his daughter very actively on IG, but rarely if ever posts his very beautiful wife or mentions her on SM, his profile is private so I know its not a privacy issue. A while back I couldn’t figure out whether he had separated, but then I saw a glimpse of her on a insta story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 07:36 PM
110

I once offered to help my friend settle into college in another country, I flew with her to help her after her scrote bf didn’t apply for a visa in time. I did it because I love her and she was stressing out on how she was going to do all the transfers by herself. She didn’t have to ask me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:03 PM
63

He dehumanizes all women and her standalone trait is hailing from Africa. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:59 PM
52

This is precisely the profile of a man I avoid with a wide berth. If you give him the time of day, he loses respect for you 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:56 PM
46

This is repulsive. He’s talking about women as if they’re a metric and he’s conducting a performance review. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:50 PM
33

This is exactly how I found FDS. It tore out my heart to realize it was over and futile to try and fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 10:54 PM
2

She could pull guys efortlessly and he will struggle to get a dm back haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:35 AM
1

Oh girl, he basically broke up with her and she doesn’t have a clue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:32 AM
51

Yeah.. what a jack ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:25 PM
202

My ex’s career took off and he straight up told me his main priority was his career and that I would never come first. He informed me that my presence was redundant and more of a hindrance. I filed for divorce the next day. He told me the truth and I had no choice but to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:07 PM
153

Once you’ve built him up he will think you are beneath him and will leave for the woman he feels he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:02 PM
43

My ex deployed this line of reasoning. He left me abruptly because he was unhappy, but never discussed what was causing it or what we could do to make it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:02 PM
36

They do everything they can do remain unhappy and cite stoic philosophy on why emotions are meaningless. And basically being an emotional martyr is honourable. My ex was this way. Purposely avoided making decisions that would lead to happiness amongst us. He just liked being an angry hostile POS towards me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:00 PM
78

Yup when I was being a massive bitch to my ex during our separation, he would fight harder to win me back. But when I’d calm down and be sweet, he’d lose interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:56 PM
60

Ugh I can’t stand Esther Perel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:53 PM
95

This just made me feel so depressed. Imagine how coldly he must have treated her all these years. Tolerating her presence, caring for her like a family member he occasionally has sex with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:49 PM
88

I’m screaming hahahaha she didn’t get the memo to cut it short, dip and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:34 AM
127

Dating to marry a decent partner no less 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:32 AM
149

Come fully formed, I’m not raising a son and a lover. Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:30 AM
11

My ex grew up with parents who went through a contentious divorce. One parent had severe mental health issues and unalived themselves in very traumatic way, the other was completely emotionally unavailable and didn’t believe in therapy. They took him in but neglected him as they moved on with a new nuclear family. As a result my ex is dealing with a lot of unresolved childhood trauma that manifested in emotional unavailability and covert narcissism. He wasn’t sadistic, just really callous and se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:59 PM
9

You need to be everything on demand and be completely unquestioning. Its simply not possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:49 PM
8

He was doing it to overwhelm me with domestic chores, a spiteful way to get at me. I have a great job with flexibility, it was just a nuisance if the house got dirty. The joke was always on him though because I’m very efficient at cleaning so I’d have things tidied up in 20 mins. But he’d never offer to help or start cleaning up without prompting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:42 PM
57

Tale as old as time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:31 AM
23

Oh yes! I put the pieces together and realised he is a covert narcissist. It all aligned with his perpetual victimhood and hero complex. His ego cannot cope being outed as the villain, so I had to shoulder the responsibility of filing for divorce. He got to play the “woe is me, my evil wife left me” All whilst conveniently leaving out all the ways he drove me to my mental breaking point. I posted on another thread the other day that much like your ex, mine would leave the house filfthy to spite …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:37 AM
30

It’s so difficult even when there’s no overt abuse. Codependency is what keeps us trapped. My ex knew exactly all the things I needed from him to feel happy and secure in order to grow as a person in the relationship. And guess what, he purposely withheld from me. Because he was too cowardly to be the one to tell me it was over. I think he rationalised it as, if I mistreat her and withhold the things she needs long enough, she’ll get the message and leave on her own accord. I kept waiting for hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:22 AM
4

His gaggle of offspring are only impressive to lvm and pickme’s. HVW are completely put off by this behavior. They’re both tainted goods imo. Lack integrity and have commitment issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:25 PM
40

Agreed! I’m not taking on men’s unresolved emotional traumas. Sort them out professionally, and date when you’ve healed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:51 AM
129

Sunk cost fallacy and she stupidly bore his offspring so she feels compelled to make it work with his dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:41 AM
116

This man will never learn. I honestly felt like my ex would purposely leave the house even more trashed for me to pick up after him because he resented me so much. He’d literally pile clothes in front of the laundry machine for days if I didn’t wash it. God I’m so glad I left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:40 AM
82

Don’t send her a gift😕 she doesn’t deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:50 AM
56

I gained 10 lbs with my ex because he would stress me out and had atrocious eating habits some of which I participated in. Junk food feels really good when you’re going through emotional turmoil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:27 AM
12

Stares at Nick Cannon and Future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:09 AM
6

Men should take responsibility for their fertility. If you don’t want to have kids until you’re 50, freeze your sperm, get snipped and go on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 02:08 AM
8

Every single one of my girlfriends who acts like a cool girl regarding casual sex has been used and sex shamed by men. I try talking them out of it because they’re lovely and beautiful. They enjoy sex and attention, they think that by behaving as men do, it will foster genuine connection - but men always leave after they get what they want. I only know one couple that started as FWB that ever ended up successfully married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:52 AM
29

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:12 AM
144

Its honestly exhausting reading these scrotes lamenting over how they’re called out for being despicable partners to their s/o.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:10 AM
25

Reading this story led me to audibly gasp and whisper “what the fuck” multiple times. I cannot even fathom this disgusting level of betrayal. I feel so bad that she’s pregnant at this time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:26 PM
3

This made me audibly say “what the fuck?!” Pickme’s are the absolute worst. Sort your own shit out ma’am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:30 AM
6

They feel ashamed when they know you’ve been there to see them when they weren’t shit. They will ditch you so that the new woman doesn’t know all his dirt. And only fawns at what he’s become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:56 AM
3

✨no✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:53 AM
12

I just started laughing. He would shit his pants and his brain would shut down in real life. Pathetic keyboard warrior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:46 AM
10

Hmmm, projecting much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:44 AM
3

Fan fiction be like 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:00 AM
1

How sick and sad, you don’t even need to spend money on overt gestures. You can just be present and do something sweet for your partner to show them you care for them ffs. If a man dislikes vday, its a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:58 AM
11

Anyone reading this, I got the bear app for notes and tucked / hid it into an folder in my iphone and it has a lock on the notes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:45 AM
2

I did this, I would take note of what he said/ did and how it made me feel. I had ALOT of notes by the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:44 AM
1

Hellllll naw!!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 she’s gonna look up outta the pickme fog one day and feel hella embarrassed by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:32 AM
1

They always start out with “he’s amazing and supportive “ bih.. is he though? Because he kinda sounds like a self righteous piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:27 AM
6

Makes me sad because I realise my ex husband never did anything to make my life easier, towards the end he actually used to do passive aggressive things on purpose. When called out he would gloat that he did things to annoy me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:21 AM
23

My ex kept pushing me away and when I suggested separation he seemed relieved. That was until I asked him to drop me off at the airport. He was fine the whole ride until we pulled up to the parking lot, suddenly he got really emotional and begged me not to go. Mind you this guy encouraged me to separate from him and take a job in another country. I was completely horrified and told him to knock it off. He treated me horribly for months but once the realisation of me leaving him kicked in, he sta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:00 AM
18

He couldn’t think ahead.. how do men thrive in careers but falter so horribly in relationships…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:53 AM
3

Pilates, weight training, cooking and hiking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:47 AM
68

OMG yes! When my ex was in very good physical fitness pre covid, an office pickme was openly crushing on him. He took that as an invitation and unceremoniously dumped me during the pandemic. Joke was on him because he got lazy - lost his mass and got pudgy couldn’t see her anymore due to WFH. Now no one gives him attention, and I know it eats him up inside 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:23 PM
54

Correct, when my ex decided he had settled down too soon and didn’t play the field enough. I went from being his soulmate, love of his life to being his worst regret... His ideal mate is out there, I don’t think he’s ever going to find what he truly is looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:19 PM
10

Once you dehumanize women, you don’t feel bad when you say and do heinous things to them. This is a terrifying mindset to have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:55 AM
22

If you’re ugly with a terrible personality and suffer from entitlement issues. You’re gearing up for a very lonely life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:49 AM
6

Yep!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:48 AM
16

Considering they’re destroying their serotonin receptors with excessive porn consumption, I’m assuming they cannot be happy at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:47 AM
8

By the same logic, yes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:41 AM
21

That goddamn chicken sandwich lives on in infamy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:40 AM
8

This is really horrific to read, but somehow the visual of a pimply incel scrote furiously writing this down and feeling super accomplished when he presses enter made me laugh really hard. Please by all means stay the fuck away from us. Do the gene pool a favor and let your line die out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:38 AM
49

The solution is for her to spend her 20s carefree enjoying life and dating HVM. She’s being set up for failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:34 AM
19

I raised an eyebrow at motel too. Excuse me sir, I hope you have insurance that covers damage to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:27 AM
10

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:26 AM
21

And they say men are the logical sex.. what the fuck. He threw a mantrum 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:24 AM
1

Thank you Queen. He tried to win me back after he realized I was completely done. It was too late. I couldn’t go back after how he had treated me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:21 AM
1

You’re right. It is rude, thoughtless and self serving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:17 AM
187

Ew men really are hobosexuals, am I the only one that feels that if a man wants to pop up for dinner its chivalrous for him to bring the groceries necessary for the meal? Groceries are expensive AF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 10:58 AM
28

Yeah the girl comes across as chill and friendly. I want to believe her neighbors would have her back if he pops off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:08 AM
11

Men who betray you like this are NOT your friends! I do not keep male friends only acquaintances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:58 AM
4

Not ready to date yet but you are so correct! And actually not drinking while dating is a great vetting strategy! You can assess whether he’s respect of your boundaries or whether he is pushy, forgetful or inconsiderate regarding your preferences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:55 AM
18

They absolutely understand your needs and know exactly what to do to make it happen… they just.. don’t. Before I filed for divorce my ex forced me to make my own birthday plans for dinner, didn’t buy me a gift, flowers, cards or anything.. and had an attitude all night. I received more love from my girlfriends, they treated me to a surprise lunch and showered me with affection. It was such a jarring contrast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:46 AM
4

I really wish I had fully understood this before getting married. Getting divorced sent me down a really painful emotional spiral. I’m still healing, I am not ready to date until I truly understand who I am and what I need in a partner once healed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:43 AM
14

And God help her if she starts doing the same shit to him. I hope you lands on her feet and runs fast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:39 AM
13

They really do, it’s so disgustingly pervasive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:37 AM
4

Throw the man away, what a pissy asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:34 AM
7

Omg I’m trying this tonight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:54 AM
19

Oh no baby!!! You gotta laser they only like porno 🐱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:53 AM
48

He only brushed his teeth in the mornings 😳 No he wasn’t always this way, he just got spiteful and gross towards the end. He knew it revolted me and he was trying to get me to leave on my own so he could play the abandoned husband victim card. I was stuck trying to get together as much money before I could leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:47 AM
373

My ex developed halitosis towards the end of our relationship. He refused to address it other than brushing his teeth and using mouthwash when I complained. Here’s why his breath stank 1. Poor diet of sugary snacks and beer 2. Lack of regular dental cleanings or dentist visits in general 3. Barely drank water 4. Didn’t brush at night 5. Never flossed 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:19 PM
49

Absolutely scum behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:10 PM
2

Owen the sex predator wants you to pay him to be assaulted and harrassed…. Ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 10:14 AM
37

I cannot afford a prostitute, thus my offering of 5 dollar coffee and no orgasm will suffice in this trade 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:47 AM
18

Thank god he played himself. I refuse to give 99% of men the time of day for good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:43 AM
107

This makes me nauseous especially since I’m flying overnight next week. I can’t sleep if I’m seated next to a strange man. It weirds me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:33 AM
27

There’s a particular STAHM who posted in another mom sub how her husband yanked out her iud, uses reproductive coercion, abuses her behind closed doors and has convinced that he’ll win sole custody if she divorced him and thus she feels she cannot leave him, who really needs to read this. Her story broke my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:59 AM
39

The problem is that it’s considered morally and ethically questionable despite being legal. It will always raise uncomfortable questions about character when OF creators turn to more formal work environments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:19 PM
295

OMG No!!!! He doxxed her?! WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:17 PM
710

There’s a lot to unpack here, between the misogyny, fear of competition, questioning her intelligence, aptitude and merit and fear of her outperforming him. He doesn’t want her to level up - he wants her to stay in her OF bubble. She doesn’t deserve it in his mind. He probably thinks she only got it because she’s hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:52 PM
5

Unfortunately I think he was just being plain manipulative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:13 AM
13

Women generally don’t leave / give up easily, so I 100% believe she tried and it didn’t work out because of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:48 AM
128

I was so confused why they kept trying to portray him as a heartthrob scientist, his lipped were chapped the whole movie and he looks bloated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:34 AM
33

Idgaf how old, that’s assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:29 AM
56

LVM love to masquerade as wealthy individuals. Be wary if he wears a lot of designer labels, doesn’t have a verifiable LinkedIn and claims his family is very rich. I once knew a guy who claimed his dad owned a mansion in star island Miami, I just pretended I believed him and he would try to clown me as if I didn’t see right through him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:02 AM
40

Bingo, I read this and shuddered. My ex wanted to do the same nasty things and never reciprocated oral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:58 PM
26

Oh boy, whose gonna tell her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 11:54 PM
19

I just had a scary thought, I’m pretty sure this guy has a weird porn addiction, what if he’s trying to get custody of the daughter to groom her into something heinous. Ughh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:02 PM
9

Ma’am unless he has IBD why is he constantly in the bathroom if not to jerk off and get away from his family?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:58 PM
79

Single dads are completely off putting to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:53 PM
277

I am familiar with the culture and part of the reason why I refuse to date / marry within it. They’re super misogynistic and their madonna/whore complexes are insane. Especially once you become a mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:48 PM
3

I guess my way of vetting would be to stay “oh I love kids (which I do) and watch him admit he has them, and initiate the slow fade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:36 PM
6

That case broke my heart, the cops botched that investigation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:25 PM
6

Oof my ex developed chronic halitosis due to his diet and refused to address it towards the end of my marriage. I stopped asking him to go to the dentist, and I’m cackling at the idea of him opening up his mouth on dates, work meetings and being known for his stank breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:23 PM
5

I personally believe that any tattoo from the neck up is a no-go. Automatic dismissal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:18 PM
6

Preach! I did long distance, worst mistake of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:16 PM
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I’m currently in the midst of a divorce, so for practical reasons we’re at minimal contact. When we separated the first time he love bombed me and disregarded my no-contact request, he hoovered me back in. A few months before the second separation he had begun icing me out by not calling or texting me during the day (he would voraciously text his work friends instead) so by the time I left him, he was quiet and didn’t bother checking in on me. He had chewed me up and spit me out, so thankfully o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:27 AM
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RIP to this bright young lady. I personally would’ve run away if he approached me. I read the story and there were so many red flags. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:07 PM
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Oof you saved her a lot of headache!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:04 PM
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It was high key cringe because she’s playing cool girl by pretending she’s OK with never getting engaged or married. And she let it slip that he fully sees through her but it isn’t happening for another 2 yrs while he finishes law school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:53 PM
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This sub has given me the confidence and confirmation to just get up and bounce if a scrote reveals himself during a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:51 PM
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YES QUEEN !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:48 PM
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I’m dead at him triangulating you from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:46 PM
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I got nauseous reading this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:44 PM
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Meanwhile, if he spent hours at the gym getting swole, and she requested he do less of that. He’d throw a fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:40 PM
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Absolutely do not put down your beloved horse. Dump the unsupportive needy man instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:36 PM
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They’re so toxic, they will drive you insane with little cuts and jabs and force you to break it off to preserve your mental health. And in the end they spin their victim narrative and you’re the heartless aggressor who left them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:44 PM
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So one of my acquaintances has been dating a perpetual student - went from BA to MA currently doing his JD, for 10 years. He hasn’t given her so much as a promise ring. She was gushing over him at dinner to another friend and I had to hide my face because I was cringing. She’s in for a rude awakening when he dumps her after graduation and moves on with someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:47 PM
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I cannot stand the cringey movies he makes and lvm love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:29 PM
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That dumb shit didn’t even realize that all his favorite media is made by… animators LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:22 PM
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I just want to say I appreciate you lmao, I love when you can do 3D design renderings for homes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:16 PM
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Exactly! If he was HV he would praise her for her talent and admire her creativity. I have a friend who is excellent at drawing and I big her up every time I see her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:14 PM
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OMG I just started laughing out loud, and he probably equated it with hentai or some shit hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:12 PM
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I would be so impressed if I met an animator! Clearly she gets paid to be a creative, what the heck! I’m glad he showed his true face. Her clapback was delicious 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:09 PM
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Damn and thats when she realized her brother is a nvm. He should’ve defend HER. What a shitbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:06 PM
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They get bragging points and their ego is sustained by propagating their “lineage”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:56 PM
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If that dog bites the kids, it’ll somehow be her fault for not training it correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:55 PM
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How much you wanna bet he just likes being the fun dad and does fuck all in terms of childcare. Men have babies for clout and social points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:53 PM
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Oh no girl, he gave you the most stubborn and loud as fuck dog.. with babies in the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:50 PM
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My ex once slipped up and said in a disgusted tone “I have too much empathy for people” as if it was a bad thing and hated about himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:48 PM
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To piggy back off that, if you feel energized and socially satiated by interacting with others (even when he’s around) and when you’re alone with him you feel deflated. It’s a sign to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:41 PM
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I highly recommend watching videos by Dr. Ramani on youtube that delve deeper into personality disorders, especially narcissistic personality disorder. She’s been an amazing resource, her series on covert narcs explained my ex’s behavior in detail I was so stunned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:38 PM
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They somehow become so scorned and go out of their way to demolish you. They absolutely HATE it when you come out on top. My covert narc ex did and said the absolute cruelest things to me when he decided he was done with me. And when he saw that I was resillient he would ask me dumb ass questions like I was an alien. One of them was “what makes you happy? Why are you always so positive?! Is it toxic positivity?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 01:02 PM
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Scorned narcs can escalate into family annihilators. Its really terrifying. I’m always so sad when I read that NVM turn violent and abusive when women get pregnant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:57 PM
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Yeah I had to stop reading, it’s just too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:59 PM
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What’s truly sick is when they ask for a divorce or cheat, you walk away and they get what they want. They’re still angry at you for granting their request. YOU wanted to be single?! Why are you angry at me for not wasting each others time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:55 PM
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He wanted to destroy her for whatever petty reason and was expecting to have his ego nourished by watching her grovel, suffer and wither away and ultimately beg for him to take her back because she couldn’t cope without him. His mindset is so bizarre, you acted like you hated her, blew up her life and when she comes back better than before, he’s mad. Why do they do this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:50 PM
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Lmaoooo I can’t do it, the cringe is too strong. I’m seeing lots of my friends post about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 08:41 PM
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Once the switch flipped for me I couldn’t see him the same way and the love I felt dissipated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:18 AM
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Beautiful and intelligent 👏🏼 Go on Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:49 AM
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This happened to me!! I’m so glad I’m off of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:47 AM
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This is very disturbing 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:41 AM
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There’s no coming back from it once you know the truth. In anger my ex also told me his biggest regret was marrying me, I was so hurt and insulted. I didn’t force him to ask me. Unfortunately, an admission like this spells the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:27 PM
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They truly don’t understand that we don’t get aroused at the idea of fucking our dependents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:04 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:57 AM
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I have a pickme acquaintance who wont stop talking about her ex who dumped her due to long distance and is running back and forth to a guy who blatantly uses her for sex. She refuses to listen to what FDS talking points I have to say. She’s a lost cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:54 AM
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So basically his nasty ass watches sketchy teen porn with the sound on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:52 AM
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Thanks for sharing that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:52 AM
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So your son got mad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:58 PM
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This man creates 2 per year minimum. He’s tied with Future. I guarantee he’s going to have 15 kids in the next 5 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:55 AM
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You know damn good and well that with his work schedule and career he doesn’t have the ability to spend any meaningful time with all of those children and develop a father-child bond with them, much less with their other siblings. That’s really embarrassing. He basically created a bunch of single parent households.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:50 AM
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When I was 10 or so, I saw a heart shattering documentary about widespread child sexual abuse within the Catholic church on TV. It was following survivors as they recounted their stories and tried to hold the establishment accountable. To see grown men and women weep at how they were violated and how no one protected them turned me completely off from any and all organised religion. I vowed I’d never let my own children fall prey like that. I am appalled how organized religion especially the Cat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:40 AM
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It’s only now as an adult that I fully understand why my parents tried to shelter me and why they were so protective of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:34 AM
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I recently went clubbing and I noticed that I wasn’t getting the same amount of attention my younger looking friend was getting. For a hot second I self doubted my attractiveness, but then I realised where I was and that I wouldn’t want any of these lv guys anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:12 AM
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I am so deeply sorry that this happened to you. I cannot even fathom how disgusting that must feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:49 AM
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Gen Z girls also need to wake up and stop posting thirst traps on social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:47 AM
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I was legit dissapointed that she chose HIM to impregnate her like sisssss you have access to some of the most handsome hvm men around. What are you doing with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:43 AM
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Yeah, she chose to get pregnant by him for sure. He’s dusty to me though. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:40 AM
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Personally I think she chose the wrong baby daddy. But it’s her choice and no matter what happens between them, her child will always be good as she has a very involved family and is set for generational wealth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:38 AM
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Yep I use my “starbucks name” when I meet strangers. Sometimes its safer especially when it doesn’t pan out. I’ve explained my reason when I’ve gotten to know people better and no one has ever given me shit about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:20 AM
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I have been saying this for years!!! HVM don’t do this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:15 AM
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I want to have children as well, and I’m also considering adopting if the right person doesn’t come along. I might also freeze my eggs just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:11 AM
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Unfortunately we will never know. But she was clearly in so much emotional anguish when she made this heartbreaking decision to end it all. From all appearances she had everything in her life going for her. That’s why its easy to speculate that anxiety over her age may be the reason. But I don’t think thats the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:06 AM
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She was such an tenacious intelligent beautiful woman. Someone to truly look up to, and it’s heartbreaking that despite her successes academically and professionally she still struggled with her mental health. I wish her loved ones lots of healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:01 AM
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Always have a job or side hustle if you’re a SAHM. Men will gladly tell you all the ways you aint shit for daring to be a homemaker and a hands-on parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:37 PM
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Oh I love this LMAO the way those redpill podcasters talk about women is so disturbing. The clap backs from women have been hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:15 AM
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50 K in a place like San Francisco or New York City won’t get you upwardly mobile. In my home country in Northern Europe 50 K is a very good middle management salary and gives you a significant leg up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 01:26 PM
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Did he think women were thoughtless objects bumbling through life. So you basically told on yourself about having an underdeveloped intellect and the insightfulness of a cockroach. Interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:00 AM
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He’s in the love bombing stage trying to rope her in. His true character will come out soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:19 PM
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I took him back after 8 months of separation. He begged, pleaded, future faked, made huge promises and grand gestures.. I went back and then I was met with extreme hostility, tension, agitation and passive aggressiveness. He was angry I came back and the cycle continued to escalate until I filed for divorce. So no, they will lie and manipulate you but it will be WORSE when you go back. I learned a very valuable lesson to never ever look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:10 PM
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What an uncaring piece of shit, I’m so sorry this happened to you. You deserve so much better. I hope you heal your heart ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:43 PM
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My ex turned real passive aggressive and hostile once I sensed he fell out of love with me. It was so odd, he was so cold and bad at masking his seething rage towards me. I had to leave and it was hard trying to figure out an international move back to my home country during covid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:39 PM
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They always do, future faking like crazy. They get tired of pretending within 6 months, is my personal experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:16 AM
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💯 they’re perpetually the victim, and every slight against them is carried for eternity. I was my ex’s therapist. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:15 AM
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I have the displeasure of divorcing a covert narc too, and my god he’s had such a horrible effect on my health. Being with him led to chronic high cortisol, weight gain, adult acne etc. Once I stopped caring about him, initiated the divorce and went minimal contact - I started to feel like myself again. But I’m scarred from the toxic non-verbal passive aggressive moods he would be in. Breathing extra heavy, staring angrily at me from the corners of the room. It gave me anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:12 AM
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Yes absolutely, he became more of a victim. And his attitude, entitlement became more pronounced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:06 AM
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She also happened to have worked on the musical he starred in. There’s pictures of her at some event for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:56 AM
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Yep! I remember that my friend is flexitarian leaning mostly to vegetarian, so when we go somewhere I always pick a place that has mostly vegetarian options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:34 AM
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I feel this so hard! I’m also on a health journey trying to eat well, and he could have sent you something super nice like fruit or organic chocolate, maybe something from a local shop where you’re at with your needs in mind. And he did.. this. He’s known you for 6 months. Bold of him to assume that he’d be around another year. It seems lazy and passive aggressive. You did right to remove him from your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:21 AM
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Men will do and say anything to feel aroused and excited by a strange new play thing. This man had it all, so did my ex. Wasn’t good enough. He too had FOMO. He’s been steadily finding out that his fantasy dream girls don’t want him 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:08 AM
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The baby doesn’t deserve the scorn, he’s an innocent whose going to have to shoulder the burden of lifelong resentment from his half sisters. I really hope he turns out OK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:02 AM
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And they do minimal self improvement before hitting the dating scene. My ex got a hair transplant but refused to get therapy, eat clean or hit the gym as rigorously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:20 AM
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All that mattered was busting a nut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:14 AM
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The family friend probably comforted her and love blossomed. Oh well 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:26 AM
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This is such a common story, I remember a movie with Natalie Portman being the mistress turned wife and how miserable her life turned out after marrying the old scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:20 AM
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If you’re crying and sad over a man in his face, sometimes it makes those fools feel powerful and desired by the fact they’re eliciting such a strong response out of you. I finally understand that Beyoncé lyric from a song years ago where she said you’d never see her cry. It sets you up for some fucked up mind games. Once I stopped crying and being emotional when initiating divorce from my ex, he remarked how cold and calculated I was being. He was just mad he wasn’t getting an ego boost from my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 01:14 PM
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Ugh my dipshit ex said the same, I owed him because we were married. He never bothered turning me on for it, just ramming me till he was done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:52 AM
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She is a nanny therefore he is owed her free labour 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:39 AM
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My ex detonated our marriage over an overeager office pick me, and when covid hit and he couldn’t see her irl. He tried to make it work with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:48 AM
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Most of them have rank breath too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:41 AM
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I have seen men speed swipe IRL not even looking at the pictures. Just anyone can get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:37 AM
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OMG that’s brutal 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:36 AM
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Aww such a sad scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:35 AM
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That’s so rude and he simply doesn’t get it. So let him be, he’s doing fantastic warding off women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:33 AM
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I immediately thought of him too, considering he does stage play and has an equally famous sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:14 PM
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YES OH MY GOD!!! They crave validation from their male peers so badly. It’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:40 AM
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Not surprised, its only a matter of time before sex dolls become conjoined with AI. They’ll do even more abusive and inane shit to those objects than they already do to human women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:30 AM
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Lmaooooooo I’m using this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:22 AM
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Thank you for this! I’ll be checking each of them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:16 AM
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His face, his style just ew no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:09 AM
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He could have gotten a very beautiful moissanite for less than 4 K with a larger sized stone. My ex totally fumbled my engagement ring, it wasn’t my style or taste and he didn’t care when I expressed concern about it 🤡 It’s a sensitive topic for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:05 AM
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Lmaooooo you just described my ex husband. To this day he really thinks he did good by me, despite me having dressed him down multiple times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:50 AM
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Just no, don’t do that to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:49 AM
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I don’t even remember most of my highschool days, I had way more fun at university
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:46 AM
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Just a warm body 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:39 PM
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What the FUCK 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:03 PM
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Lmaoo after I read this, I was just waiting for it to crop up here. This woman’s daughter is out of her goddamn mind if she thinks she can get “mommy” to pay for her pos married bf. Be irresponsible on your own dime sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:06 AM
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Yeah he was just straight up looking for sex. He was goodlooking but a complete scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:03 AM
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Lmao I was unmatched after a dude suggested I come over to his house and I countered by saying I wanted to get coffee first and get to know him before diving into bed with a stranger. I just deleted the app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 02:48 AM
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He tried so hard to destroy her from downplaying her professional achievements, negging her body, emotional neglect and finally infidelity and financial abuse. The NDA with the wife he remarried and divorced twice must be ironclad because I have no idea what he must have put that woman through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:34 PM
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Footlocker employee 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:39 AM
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She has horrid taste in men, her ex was a total psycho too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:31 AM
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I’m convinced this relationship is not going to last, he’s love bombing the heck out of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:30 AM
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The funniest shit I’ve ever read has been on FDS. The women are hilarious and witty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:19 AM
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I have so many questions, namely did not file joint taxes?! Did they go 50/50 on everything. Why did they even get married?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:10 AM
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Oh God why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:06 AM
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He fucked a rando in a musty car , and still believes he’s the prize. He’s a tramp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:55 AM
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He’s giving me big “i want to speak with the manager” vibes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:54 AM
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My ex admitted this by saying he doesn’t want to have sex with women who don’t genuinely desire him, i.e. like a sex worker. He prefers the ego boost of a woman lusting after him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:51 AM
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Lmao she flipped the script and he’s left mad and confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:42 AM
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Burgers, pizza, beer cereal and candy. They start eating like this around high school and never stop unless they enjoy body building or genuinely enjoy cooking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:37 AM
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Young men have atrocious diets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:25 AM
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OMG! That guy has the absolute worst voice on a man I have ever heard, its UNBEARABLE! And I consider him a super scrote, especially when he went after that girl on tiktok telling men off for approaching her at the gas station. “Men fear being rejected” well women fear being raped and murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:23 AM
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Omg this made me chuckle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:42 PM
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I just saw this article! I don’t understand the lengths this man went through to future fake his unsuspecting mistress, why not actually divorce your wife and let her be free?! Had it not been the mistress it would have been the wife that he would’ve killed. And for what?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:40 PM
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This had me wheezing and in tears. I will definitely be using some of these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 11:22 PM
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They get a momentary high of feeling chosen and like the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:48 PM
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Look your egg preferences isn’t to my taste, however if you were a guest in my home. I’d damn sure make it the way you like it lmao. I don’t get why men ask questions and get offended by the answer and then try to mansplain why you’re wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:38 PM
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Oh hell no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 12:46 PM
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He couldn’t even bother wishing you good health. It was all about “muh penis”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 09:18 PM
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I usually need an extra day to recover after the holidays end. It’s overwhelming!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:45 PM
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I’d rather use the wand than a deflating 🍆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:07 PM
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A toxic relationship will erode your self esteem and mental health if you let it. It did that to me for a while. It took everything out of me to finally leave him. What got me out was admitting to myself that there was no hope and I didn’t love him anymore. Once I fell out of love, things moved very quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:03 PM
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It was abusive. And even after everything he’s done he denies it being abuse when I have confronted him. He instead thinks I wronged him when I started standing up for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:00 PM
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There were so many so it’s very embarrassing for me to admit, but they emerged over time and not all at once. He was very calculating and never overtly abusive. I’ll list the major ones that stand out. Negging about my physical appearance Mansplaining ( I have a law degree and graduated with honors, but he always wanted to give his input especially if it was a subject he was passionate about and we both knew what it was about, he would become quiet and have no response if I spoke with authority …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:48 PM
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Fuckkk no! I’m so glad I guarded my womb. I’m still under 30 so I hope to have a child with a suitable hvm eventually. My family really pressured me to have his baby, despite knowing our marriage was declining rapidly. I couldn’t stomach the idea of coparenting with him no matter how badly I want to be a mother one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:25 PM
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In hindsight I overlooked red flags because I was a pickme back then. But essentially, one day he got angry at me and started calling me names and the downhill descent began. Suddenly I was the root cause for all of the misery in his life and I had to go. I have since realized he’s a covert narcissist and he began love bombing, devaluing, discarding and hoovering in cycles. It was really bewildering how one moment he despised me and the next he couldn’t let me go. He got really nasty and uncarin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:19 AM
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I bought into the marriage lie and I left it hating my ex to my core. He dropped his mask 4 years into our marriage and it took me another 2 to snap out of my pickme mindset and finally leave. Towards the end he stopped communicating with me, would intentionally leave the house extremely messy for me to clean up and had overbearingly negative moods that affected my mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:01 AM
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Not quite but he would make fun of or chide me for my mannerisms and then copy them. I couldn’t ever quite figure it out. Edit: but the sense or self criticism is spot on! I experienced this too. But it was really him that was unsure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:15 PM
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I left out the best part, he said this confidently in front of a group of my really beautiful and intelligent girlfriends expecting us to fawn at his sexual prowess like men would. But instead we all went “EWW THATS DISGUSTING “ and started making jokes about him. This man was so embarrassed, and never tried flirting with us again. Shit, he could barely look us in the eyes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:13 PM
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Yes! Men flirting with me was somehow big kudos to my ex. I realized after our marriage ended that he viewed me as a bragging point amongst his friends as in, look at this hot intelligent woman I bagged. And other men openly commented on it all the time to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:05 PM
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Hahahaha I cannot, here honey a man found you attractive eat extra cheesecake my love 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:56 PM
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Getting a mani/pedi, cooking myself a lovely dinner and drinking some champagne.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:48 PM
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“Her children”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:46 PM
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Had a male acquaintance in college share he had slept with over 100 women and I was horrified and asked him straight up if he was diseased and if he remembers the names and faces of the women. He said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:27 PM
9

He successfully disassociated the sexual act from the person. Bravo you 43 year old loser. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:26 PM
12

Oh wow you described my ex husband completely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:19 PM
1

I’m going through this right now. I genuinely feel like I’m broken. I got out of a relationship that had a lot of coercive sex and emotional abuse. I’m waiting for my libido to return because I want to feel normal again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:21 AM
44

He had something truly awful planned for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:18 AM
673

My theory is that they are narcissistic and eventually begin to resent you because they think they can do better and they resent you for being flawed (everyone is to a degree but that doesn’t matter to lvm)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:37 PM
9

Yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:26 PM
8

Its absolutely detrimental to their physical and mental health. I take solace in knowing LVM get limp dicks and may not actually ejaculate inside women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 04:06 AM
24

This! Its as though their ego of being a fertile man clouds their judgment completely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 03:48 AM
19

Oof hard pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 09:55 PM
14

He chose a grounded wholesome woman in Hollywood to have a family with and got bored basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:56 PM
24

I’m laughing so hard, that is super tacky. I feel bad for his kids. They’re going to have a wild time once they google their dad and the divorce saga.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:18 AM
25

Yes! I couldn’t help but think they nailed the casting for it. Turns out he was just playing himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:17 AM
56

The bathroom I described was the communal bathroom in a house full of male roommates. It was revolting. I didn’t even mention the floors covered in dust and body hair 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:49 PM
61

I have no clue! Its repulsive and it’s not like their parents didn’t teach them to clean. They know how, they just really don’t get bothered by it. A man’s bathroom is a staph infection waiting to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:07 PM
231

Dirty bathrooms without fail, imagine beard hair trimmings and clipped toe nails all over the bathroom sink, mineral and fecal stains on the toilet, pee puddle in front the toilet. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:03 PM
253

He was trapped? More like SHE was trapped with an alcoholic gambling addict and serial cheater who had the audacity to fuck the kids’ pickme nanny!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:59 PM
43

Exactly 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:40 PM
40

You’re just too emotionally available, he sees you as low effort validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:37 PM
50

💯!! After getting financially abused by my ex. I am taking note and practicing extreme caution in whatever relationship I enter into next. I won’t sell my home, I’d rather rent it out to someone and no man is moving in with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:09 PM
25

In hindsight I ignored the warning signs because I was conditioned to be a pickme by my cultural upbringing, my parents also had a problematic marriage so I interpreted some behavior as par for the course in a relationship. He discarded me after he had a series of personal and career successes. I was blindsided and hurt. He was getting gassed up by a 3/10 office pickmeisha. Suddenly there was a lot of blame shifting and I was the reason his life was shit etc. I gave him what he wanted by leaving…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 08:59 PM
110

Of course this disrespectful POS is ready to discard his loyal dutiful wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 08:45 PM
22

Oof she’s gorgeous. This dumbass probably thinks that just because he got someone out of his league. He can get someone even better. This is what my ex did. Tried to replace me with a downgrade pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:05 AM
7

Pay attention how men talk about sexy “celebrities” and porn stars, they love denigrating them and seeing them nude but consider these women as inherently valueless as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:55 AM
28

I never understood this show and I thought the women were pickmeisha’s before I even understood the concept in FDS terms
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:38 AM
12

If a scrote can’t even pay a measly 5 dollars for a drink.. it’s time to pack it up and go back home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:22 PM
3

I hate that show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:25 PM
17

😕 Men are so fickle. Meanwhile we stand by them as they gain weight and go bald.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:16 PM
64

The one that sent me was “at your BIG age” hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:10 PM
1

This shit had me cackling 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:09 PM
27

My parents were low level hoarders, it caused me to seek out minimalism as an adult in my living spaces. I can tolerate a little bit of mess but I feel compelled to tidy up before going to bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 09:17 PM
64

Yup, my ex once proudly proclaimed he washed a hand-wash only pan I had left in the sink in a hurry before I went on a worktrip. He said it as though he expected praise.. that’s what you’re supposed to do..as an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 09:09 PM
3

First, I wish you a full and happy life now that you are free and your eyes are open! Second, I cannot fathom why men take such risks and gamble their own health? My ex refused to go see a GP for an annual check up or a dentist for his persistent halitosis. He also refused to seek out therapy for his depression and childhood trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:33 PM
23

He wants her to be defective so bad, but unfortunately he basically described an intelligent, loving, caring mother and upstanding member of their community 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:53 PM
2

I know a stay at home dad and his kitchen sink is always full of dishes. Guess who has to do them when they get home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:50 AM
34

He got what he wanted, a plushy lifestyle and still wants more? He has a hole inside of him that no material goods can fill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:26 AM
63

They want to be catered to! Men nowadays want to be treated like “kings” at the expense of women. It’s the reason 50/50 is so pervasive in dating culture. You have to be everything (wife, girlfriend, mother, career woman etc) and expect nothing in return. If you become a mother expect no help, if you want to be a career woman expect to foot the bill for the nanny and the mortgage. Meanwhile he just wants to play games and receive enthusiastic sex regularly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 08:14 AM
43

Oh yes 100% I knew my relationship was in troubled waters once my scrote ex started complaining about Christmas gifts for me whereas previously he was generous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:05 AM
79

He hates her. I bet its because he wants to bang a pickme and his wife is standing in his way and will rightfully take half in the divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:58 AM
40

Emotional misery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:56 AM
73

I’m struggling to understand as well, what EXACTLY is he mad at? I bet he resents her because divorcing her will cost him half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:56 AM
80

You just described my stbxh. He HATED me so much, resented me for much of the same reasons as this scrote. He supported me through grad school and was extremely resentful of being “the man” who supports his household. Emotionally pushed me to my limit by being moody, stonewalling and forced my hand to file for divorce once I couldn’t cope anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:53 AM
6

😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:40 AM
35

I remember, I couldn’t get over the fact that he intended to hurt her so badly. It was so evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:06 AM
4

I felt the identity crisis and opted to keep my maiden name, and boy all these years later I’m grateful that I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:13 AM
55

I exclusively seek out female medical practitioners. I’m unapologetic about it too. The care has been amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:07 AM
57

This scrote legitimately believes he is the prize!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:46 PM
6

So pre-covid I used to work in an industry at an executive level where face-to-face meetings were held all the time. I’d have to dress the part, and when I’d get drinks afterwards with my colleagues or friends LVM would always approach me to tell me that I looked like I was very sophisticated and high-maintenance, or too classy for them. And it was almost as if they had reverence for the fact that I was completely out of their league. I always found it so bizarre that they approached me to tell …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:34 PM
3

True, I meant as a shit test to see what he responds. But OP should next him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:20 PM
5

I mean in that they judge me and lectured me on my expensive purchases, as if it affects them. It was so obvious jealousy and envy. Really disgusting, for someone to call me shallow and stupid with money for owning a luxury handbag. Meanwhile little does he know I have an extensive investment portfolio and said luxury handbag is now double what I paid for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:18 PM
3

What is the correct real time response when this is lugged at you ? Smile and nod, block delete after you leave?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:46 AM
3

I have actually slept with female strangers in bed due to a school conference, and it was extremely respectful experience LOL. We both slept so still and barely moved or snored at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:33 AM
7

I find it so disgusting when I see it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:12 AM
22

Tell him a different spot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:10 AM
3

I’ve had lvm count my pockets when they see my expensive purchases
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:00 AM
1

Nope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:28 AM
7

They’re so boring!! They never want to go out and do fun activities around the city or experience new restaurants. I do my most adventurous things and have the funniest conversations with my girlfriends. My ex’s idea of having fun was going to a crowded bar, watching sports, playing video games or going on a one off hike every 3 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:09 PM
15

A lot of these men resent their wives for not being like their favorite porn stars or god forbid look regular in house clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:16 PM
17

Shit that made me feel tingly too. The care and competence are sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:12 PM
7

Oh my god I’m struggling with that feeling that maybe being with him in a sexually unsatisfactory relationship broke me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:04 PM
15

How revolting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:51 PM
14

Lmao sounds like my POS ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:47 PM
14

Between the bad physical hygiene, lack of sexual effort, assistance in housework and childcare and triangulating women with porn stars. Men become a burden to women and yet they expect us to be horny barbie dolls - always ready to service them. The dead bedroom men cannot see their own faults or shortcomings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:46 PM
7

He will have a shallow pick me who fleeces him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:31 AM
3

I am screaming 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:30 AM
5

It’s shameful that with all the money and access to top notch nutrition and personal training.. he looks so dumpy. Leo always looks bloated and dresses like Adam Sandler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:19 AM
18

He will not do the same for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:54 AM
69

Another reason I don’t post revealing photos of myself on the internet. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:53 AM
7

You mean living like a bum? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:26 PM
26

That despite all my virtuous personality traits, intelligence and beauty, men have repeatedly love bombed, devalued and discarded me. I’m always competing with some fantasy girl, they’re just waiting for to come along. Being a pick-me wasn’t serving me at all. I realised I receive deeper and more meaningful affection from my interactions with my female relatives and friends. I also find it easier to make and keep female friendships no matter where in the world I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:38 PM
132

I absolutely hate it when men decide to neg you about shit you can’t control, in my case my height. Its like they look for ANYTHING to make you feel bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:22 PM
268

The way I laughed at this 🤯 BIH get out of here and your non holey eyes hahahaha 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:16 PM
130

My default is to just neg them back harder. Wow you like craft beer.. yeah that’s unique 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:42 PM
62

Oh god I know exactly what you’re talking about, that seething rage they have for you when you’re just simply enjoying something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:40 PM
8

Please anonymously report this to the police. That is not ok, he groomed his daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:35 AM
6

I feel this way too, it’s as if the risk out weighs the reward. My ex showed his true face years into our marriage. FDS has helped me evaluate men with a microscopic focus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:34 AM
4

This is actually the dream of so many no value scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:21 AM
3

He’s repulsive to me, I don’t understand the appeal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:17 AM
129

Yes how dare the “average woman” have standards and see herself as having value and merit in this world, not all of us want to be used as mere cumrags and baby factories without a voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:47 AM
10

Lvm will resent you either way, no matter who provides. But yes Chris Rat is out here embarrassing the hell out of his new wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:37 AM
1

The audacity to assume that he as a chance in hell with you. NOPE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 05:07 PM
6

This could never be me, oh my god. I’m praying someone dm’d her this sub. She deserves better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 05:01 PM
13

He just realized that the other friend is miles out of his league and he got exposed for being a dusty man baby, hence his mantrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:57 PM
50

Yeah I caught that too. My ex stopped inviting me to his work happy hour, despite for years asking me to come. He was flirting with the office pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:00 PM
7

💯 I agree with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 06:50 PM
110

She’s a victim of his scrotery too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:19 PM
201

Every day I see new tales on this sub of men completely treating their partners as sub-human and nuisances. It’s really starting to dawn on me on how disposable men think women are and how marriage vows only seem to be taken seriously by the women in those relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 02:18 PM
26

First, my condolences. I am sorry for your loss. I don’t think you should have to hide that you’re deeply mourning the loss of your mother. You love her profoundly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:03 PM
14

I like this mindset, I feel like I have a lot of stuff to work through in therapy and that sharing it with my therapist is safer and allows me to heal in a non-judgmental bubble. You can enjoy a relationship without the pressure and expectations of your partner having to “heal you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 11:57 AM
10

This man needs to manage his health and eliminate trigger foods completely and clean up after his revolting self. I’m sorry to this woman, but seems to me like she should cut and run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 07:38 PM
3

He threw a tantrum and tossed a hairbrush at me because I didn’t make him breakfast one morning. I hadn’t slept well the night before, and I told him I wasn’t making breakfast the next morning, after I asked him why he did that. He said he didn’t take me seriously, and was mad when I followed through. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 07:12 AM
1

LMAO I’m not surprised at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 07:07 AM
3

Yep happened to me and it was insanely painful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 07:03 AM
10

If a romantic interest starts talking about BDSM or other kinks, I’m out immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:08 PM
50

Everything he said was off putting but joking about the demise of your marriage is really twisted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:08 AM
22

I can see her trying to cling on to him, but he’s going to cheat probably with a costar in t-minus 3 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:07 AM
161

I too was like 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:49 PM
26

Idk what that final gesture meant, but I felt that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:46 PM
39

First time I saw this, I about died from laughter. Leo D is emotionally stunted and a mega scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:43 PM
453

It’s to put their wives in their place, oftentimes these women are considered fashion icons or really well received curated image celebrities. And good ole hubby’s gotta knock em down and make them look not so great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:40 PM
89

He could have a whole salon team at his house within minutes.. come on now… we’re not in the Great Depression 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:39 PM
86

OMG WHY DOES HE THINK NEGGING IS PEAK COMEDY? I would be livid. Katherine, girl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:37 PM
24

I suppose its a joke.. at her expense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:34 PM
5

Damn right 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 08:33 PM
182

He will forever be a dumpy dude to me. I remember him from when he looked fat and mediocre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:58 AM
646

Oh man, that post was so cringe. I feel bad for her, she probably thinks its quirky and funny that he’s overtly negging her. “Haha this broad does everything for me, I can’t even schedule a flower delivery and have my assistant buy her a gift.. am man!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:52 AM
2

Oh god, I associate thrush with babies 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:39 AM
15

My ex was really into replicating porn, but refused giving head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:04 AM
2

Lol jokes on men because women are encouraged to use spf, vit a & c as well as moisturizer and preventative treatments such as botox. We end up looking restful and healthier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 04:50 PM
2

I’m an excellent home cook, and its one of the reasons my scrote ex hung around. He was getting restaurant quality food daily.. precisely because my mom taught me how to cook and be a dumb ass pick me 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 04:43 PM
5

He lives on in infamy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 05:49 AM
13

The risk is worth the endorphin rush to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:23 PM
10

The loose man in my friend circle loves bragging about chicks he bangs and being single. But he’s always super eager to third wheel with the wholesome emotionally stable couples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:53 AM
5

Yeah, I can never see myself going back on hormonal birth control to avoid pregnancy. So casual hook ups are out of the question for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:47 AM
18

My friend cries about how she’s lonely and men are trash, but allows them to masturbate using her body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:45 AM
32

Yeah I never understand hook up culture. Especially hollywood pushing narratives of going home with a sexy stranger you met at a bar. How do you know he wont torture, rape and murder you. Or he will secretly record you ? It never sat right with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:42 AM
9

Lol my friend who is peak hoe phase at the moment, will often call me and complain about how lonely she feels despite having lots of casual sex with random hot guys. She receives more emotional intimacy from me than her sex partners. Edit: she’s a 3rd wave libfem, I’ve tried talking FDS with her. She doesn’t agree with all of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:36 AM
120

I’ll never forget the dude who boinked a McChicken, gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:29 AM
87

If I have learnt anything about men, it’s that they will do anything to get off. Even if they hate themselves afterwards or don’t even enjoy the experience while its happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 05:27 AM
6

Ugh most married men I speak with are miserable. They depict the woman as a dreadful nag and are low effort losers. Its like, if you’re so miserable… why don’t you legally end the marriage and go on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:52 PM
6

Negging doesn’t work on me because I had two rude brothers growing up so I know how to clap back hard. It’s always funny when men try though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:40 PM
7

I had a “friend” who went full on PUA in high-school and became so rude towards me because I refused to give him romantic attention. I dropped him quick, I did not tolerate him insulting me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:33 PM
3

Even pre-FDS, men who insult me are automatically dismissed and unworthy of my attention/time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:23 PM
2

This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:21 PM
3

Oh please, its always boohoo men have it hard and we’re superior. If you’re so superior why can’t you make time for repeat appointments with your barber, or save for the surgery?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:20 PM
1

What an emotional troll. He even had the audacity to suggest she had an OnlyFans. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:05 PM
4

Baby, you’re getting played. RIP to your self esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 06:01 PM
2

God help the next man who says this me, I’ll be clapping back by commenting on how his death grip destroyed his wee wee. I’m not getting pregnant for you, sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:59 PM
11

OMG they literally have no tact or empathy! Geeeeez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:47 PM
6

I stopped talking about weight with people because I know its fraught with emotion. I hate it when people talk about mine, so I purposely avoid upsetting other people about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:45 PM
30

God this gave a flashback, when my ex would come into town, I’d deep clean my house as if HRM Queen Elizabeth herself was coming over. When I visited him, he left a pot of 3 week old mac and cheese fermenting in the sink for ME to clean. I wish I could slap my former self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:24 PM
25

This woman just summed up all the answers to that question. I always thought it was such a lv insidious question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:21 PM
12

This 100% is my brother. I love him, but he offloads all the childcare to my mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:17 PM
22

I had been getting pressured from both sides of the family to have a baby. And I really do want a child, I’m fully aware of the commitment, hard work and physical/mental/financial sacrifices that come along with being a mother. The reason I’m child free atm is because my scrote ex would be a kodak dad, and would put 0% effort in. He once told me he would never prioritize family over work, because his work is more important and gives him a sense of fulfillment. 🤡 My in-laws wouldn’t have been hel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:07 PM
27

Oh what a fucking loser. Let him destroy his penis and dopamine receptors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:32 AM
37

I learned this lesson the hardest way possible, I toughed it out in full blown pickmeisha panic. I tried to be what he wanted, and ended up as a husk of myself. I know I was a good wife and a good person. He was just shopping around waiting for something better to come along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:21 AM
280

That’s what came to my mind as well. Horrible ridiculous advice to prime young women to be “sexually liberated”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:07 AM
94

This is 100% libfem pick me logic. Jesus, what happened to self-worth? What kind of porn logic message does this convey to younger impressionable women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 06:06 AM
21

Its “hard” for them because their default diet is beer, liquor, soda, junk food like corn dogs, oreo’s, doritos etc. Meanwhile women are drilled from childhood to practice moderation in order to stay slim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:59 AM
3

His dumb ass probably thinks of a spartan race.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:54 AM
22

Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 12:13 AM
60

I have difficulty reconciling that you can be simultaneously a high power competent professional at work and a fucking bumbling idiot when it comes to housework. I remember berating my ex about how shitty he vacuumed the carpet and he said “well I DONT KNOW HOW TO DO IT” My guy, are you dumb.. my two year old nephew does a better job with his toy vacuum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:57 PM
220

So basically he’s going to neg you to death and is absolutely in no way a nice person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:34 PM
20

They express anger, aggression, resentment and bitterness all day every day. But refuse to cry 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:31 PM
9

He doesn’t respond to text or phone calls.. they still think we’re married. Honestly, if he doesn’t go or send a gift, that’s not my responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:23 PM
19

This is why I sometimes get angry with my own mother for allowing my alcoholic dad to physically abuse us. It has left deep psychological scars in my siblings, she does an about face when I tell her that the childhood abuse is the reason we all hate our dad, and her by association.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:50 PM
44

Lol I’ve been trying to get my ex to contact his cousin who keeps contacting me about her wedding. I’m giving up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:36 PM
3

I realise my parents instilled the ideology that struggle love is normal. They fought constantly, threatened to leave each other.. but always made up. Despite the terror and stress it brought onto us kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:09 AM
89

Anyone who gives you shit for looking out for your safety is low value and predatory. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:20 PM
8

Or they’re binge drinking in bars with their fellow scrotes, prowling for pickme’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:16 AM
5

Omg I didn’t realise that I had been placed near the disruptive bully since 1st grade, somehow I always got in trouble when I would talk back to something mean my bully said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 10:51 AM
42

They really love to focus on what they don’t have, instead of what they do have. Love and support is not enough. They need to stroke of their ego constantly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:20 AM
28

I just got a flashback to when a guy I was talking to asked me to bake him an apple pie because I had told him I made it from scratch with my mom… I said no, and found it weird to request it from someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:58 AM
42

I recently realised this, now that I’m closer to 30, I don’t get hit on as much as when I was younger. It was always by predatory men. I once had a man cross the street to come walk ans talk to me, and he insinuated he thought I was a young college girl and it turned him on. I told him to buzz off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:45 PM
90

He’s gunning for child support, and I guarantee that child would grow up in squalid conditions and raised predominantly by that man’s mother. I hope the judge dismisses his suit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:37 PM
21

It really throws me into a tailspin whenever I think about how pervasive porn consumption is, and how it’s going to be extremely difficult to find a man who doesn’t consume it in some way, shape or form. My ex gave himself ED, he would go soft so fast, it did a number on my self esteem for a while. I realised later, its because he was porn sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:31 AM
13

My ex did this to me, but FDS helped me realize he did me a genuine kindness. I’m going into my 30s with lots of money and I’m planning on moving to the UK for my grad degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:58 AM
13

This, my ex legit recently compared himself to Chris Hemsworth, and I told him he looks more like a taller Danny DeVito. He was crushed, oh well. So was I when he went after the office pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:52 AM
21

This book should be mandatory reading for all young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:18 PM
11

LOL I’d be wiping my tears of joy with those crisp dollar bills. 💵 Wanna bet he cheated, and is salty he has to pay for the consequences of his actions?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:50 AM
6

Meanwhile he’s aging like spoiled milk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:47 AM
17

Men want everything and nothing at the same time. A revolving door of willing barely legal teens who simultaneously want nothing from him and shower him with love, validation and copious sex. Its a fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:44 AM
15

YES!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:33 AM
9

He just outed himself, and is he triangulating her against… HERSELF?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:30 AM
13

It was extremely jarring to see a rapid shift in behavior. He recently admitted he started resenting me two years into our marriage… I was speechless. Like a typical man, he blames me for his shortcomings and how I’m holding him back yada yada. I’m strategizing my exit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:14 PM
6

Meanwhile you’re like “chile… anyways 💅🏽 “
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:10 PM
19

I was 27 and going through hell in my marriage. I learned that my perceived HVM was a NVM all along. His mask just slipped 4 years into our marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:59 PM
18

They expect women to settle for crumbs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:55 PM
17

This man wanted her to immediately submit into pickmeisha mode. The entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 05:51 PM
2

He’s not ready to admit he probably has a sex and porn addiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:24 PM
4

OMG why is he so hung up on a relationship that ended over 13 years ago 😂 Has he not met anyone interesting since?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:53 AM
7

My dear, you’re stronger than you think! Please don’t drop the charges against him. Stand up for yourself and for what is right. You deserve the world. Don’t allow him to manipulate you and hurt you anymore. I’m sending you healing energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:39 AM
5

I’m about to walk out of my marriage with absolutely nothing, and I’m ok with it because my freedom and happiness are worth more than being stuck with a sour resentful scrote for the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:10 PM
1

An office pick-me led to the destruction of my marriage. She was coming onto him strong, my ex got arrogant and decided that he could “do better.” Led me down a path of hell for 18 months. I came out of the fog through FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:31 PM
2

Be all those things for THIS? This type of neckbeard ? Nahhhhhhh thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:05 PM
49

Or when I basically pointed out to my ex that poop water splashes their balls. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:25 AM
4

LMAO its so funny how this scrote thinks that my human anatomy is supposed to offend me or make insecure. Just no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:24 AM
38

I’m scared for her daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:19 AM
36

WHAT? I had to do a double take. Holy shit, why would a woman stay in such a relationship.. they’re roommates at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:17 AM
26

Run as fast as you can. Any man that downplays sex abuse of a child is done in my book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:13 AM
6

This is another reason why I guard my socials, and refuse to post seductive bikini pics. So my orbiters from college can jerk it? No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:16 PM
4

A friend of mine joined OLD and paid premium to see who swiped on her. She was shocked when she found her male co-worker had swiped her, when she saw him the next day he was chatting with her like nothing happened😂 turns out he turbo swipes too after she casually mentioned the app. She was so horrified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:11 PM
2

LOL YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:08 PM
1

Tell me you’re desperate without telling me you’re desperate 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:07 PM
15

lol exactly!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:39 AM
732

What the hell 😂 dude admit you want to regress to your childhood 😂 This is such bizarre behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:31 AM
91

And if you do give birth, mitigate stretch marks, torn genitals with sheer mental willpower and be ready to service him within 3-5 business days. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:01 PM
35

It’s always us, never them. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 09:58 PM
96

Tell him to take more 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:53 PM
44

OR he pulls an uno-reverso like my stbx scrote and tells you he resents you for having “kept” him in a monogamous relationship in his 20s, and what he really wants to be is community dick in his 30s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:29 PM
9

This tiktok is iconic 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:51 PM
3

Its funny how they out themselves with hatred even when we don’t want each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:42 PM
134

Lmaoooo he really said “let us pray for you queens” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 08:09 PM
2

Oof I felt this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:29 PM
14

You’re absolutely right. But damn, fuck that PA scrote. I hope she gets out soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:49 PM
88

I’m such a petty bitch, I’d dunk all his electronics in the tub and throw out all of his sex toys, his clothes and top it off with changed locks while he’s at work. Wanna see your kids, talk to my attorney and drop the kid off at nanna’s house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:39 AM
2

She’s a lost cause. Keep being a clown sis 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:27 AM
24

Holy shit that is so humiliating… that’s not funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:21 AM
11

Lmaoo that sent me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:47 AM
6

A man masquerading as a woman wrote that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 02:46 AM
66

Why can’t he just do it, just to do it without wanting his dick sucked after. Good god. You churned out the kids, take responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:24 PM
130

I just saw this video! I was shocked. I’d file an annulment the next day. Sjeesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:35 PM
29

I have met people like this and I couldn’t stand them. They’re like a caricature of a pornified woman. No depth at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:59 PM
20

My guess is that most men start consuming porn extremely young, and it’s a gradual descent into nastier and more depraved content.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:52 PM
130

It’s never enough. The most beautiful, smartest and kindest women in the world get cheated on. Men always think they can get better even when they have the best already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:09 AM
37

So I looked up this hypo sissy because I was thoroughly confused. And nothing about the imagery was even remotely erotic or arousing. I thought it was gross and quite depraved. I can see how this causes a manic descent into even more perversion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:04 AM
297

Lol my ex-husband basically. He threw a life of stability away to “find himself” ??? He’s white, able-bodied, privileged and lives in The United States and has a job of influence. He also gave himself ED watching weird porn 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:43 AM
106

Reading this made me actually laugh out loud and gasp in horror 😂 What the fuck is wrong with men for real. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:40 AM
31

LOL I’ll be damned before I snuggle my ex’s musty scrote shorts with gratefulness. No ma’am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:31 AM
6

Lmao I posted on a divorce forum once. And I had scrotes DM’ing me and begging me to help them through their divorce. I told them to get a therapist and to fuck off. I’m going through my own personal hell, why do men feel entitled to use me for their emotional labour!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:56 PM
15

I can guarantee his presence gives off predatory energy and thats why women around him get nervous. Gift of fear, lean into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:57 PM
23

LMAO he can go fuck himself that disgusting scrote. He’s permanently banned from your life. Keep him away from your daughter at all cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:14 AM
2

Gee I wonder why it isn’t working out with the mother(s) of his kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 12:03 AM
36

OMG I’m so glad I’m not the only one who is thoroughly creeped out by these types of “photographers”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:32 PM
69

Ugh in my marriage it was 80 % me doing the domestic and emotional labour. And he expected a trophy when he did his paltry 20% putting away dishes, vacuuming or taking out the trash. I always had to remind him to do it too. He got a cat, and claims its his now that we’re separating but guess who has to clean her shitbox ?? He somehow doesn’t care to scoop her shit and mitigate litterbox odors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:29 PM
35

Women are not ice cream flavors wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:17 PM
13

It makes me laugh tbh. These dumbasses broke their own dick and dopamine receptors in their brains. Way to go dummy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:47 AM
64

But had she run his ass over like he deserved, she would’ve been wrong. I hope this piece of shit is rotting somewhere never to be found, because fuck him. RIP Gabby. The system failed you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:39 AM
31

I got this one too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:27 AM
70

Lmao is this my ex husband??? Porn kills men’s erections and they don’t even realise. How is a woman’s body supposed to keep up with your death grip??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:24 AM
58

This case has taught me to center myself and behave coldly like a man when interacting with law enforcement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:17 AM
70

I wish so badly she left his raggedy receding hairline having ass down by road and drove off into the sunset. Unfortunately, this scrote snuffed the life out of a beautiful soul. It breaks my heart. She didn’t deserve this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 02:07 AM
155

She’s a pickmeisha, it’s sad. She’s surrounded by LVM, her dad had a secret family too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:32 AM
274

Men barely see women as human. They show more love,care and affection to their male friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:19 AM
217

Honestly I lost faith in men when that donkey cheated on her, one of the most celebrated artists in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:11 AM
67

I created a second account and disabled messaging/chat. Scrotes can scream into the void 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:17 AM
105

I also echo this sentiment, if you get sexual gratification from children, you’re a defective human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:34 PM
3

Thats disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:26 PM
54

The audacity of this baldheaded mongrel. He killed her, without a doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:05 PM
8

Not “Hey Sister 💀”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:04 PM
65

I agree. It breaks my heart for her. She’s a 10/10 beauty, brains, wonderful personality. But her religion keeps her tied to her lvm fiancé.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:01 PM
43

Its infuriating how men buck childcare responsibility. As we move for our careers oftentimes we don’t have the “village” anymore to help raise kids, it always falls on the women. And if you’re lucky to have family around to help you - you’re truly blessed. You’re also shamed if you hire help 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:51 PM
94

Girl I’ve tried! Our entire friend circle HATES him. She’s devout religious and he’s from the same sect and he has a similar ethnicity and they went to undergrad together. So she’s not willing to let him go due to their “perceived” compatibility. She’s going to outshine him every day of her life and still think he’s the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:42 PM
73

I know two men who are gold diggers and one of them is an ambition less househusband and the other one is brazenly gearing up to be. The women they’re with are amazing bright intelligent women who come from families with wealth. One is a PHD researcher the other one is about to graduate from an Ivy League law program. I’ve often sat slack jawed at how these bums ride the coattails of their partners and despite being house-husbands contribute diddly squat to the household management. These women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:34 PM
134

Oof I have a friend in her final year of law school. Super accomplished young lady plus she comes from a silicon valley tech family. She’s with a SUPER scrote gold digger who comes from the same religious background as her. He has openly stated he’s waiting for her to work up to being a partner in a law firm, earn 6 figures and he’s going to become a house-husband. Mind you, this guy is rude, label obsessed and a devout gamer. He works in a dead end tech support job and has no career ambition of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 07:23 PM
2

For special occasions I book a room in a luxury hotel, I schedule a deep tissue massage and visit trendy hotspots and eat my favorite foods - free of judgment! On my way back I’ll pick up some dessert and watch on-demand TV in bed. I’m planning on visiting Milan and Florence next winter to do exactly all those things with my bestie. We love dressing up and wearing fabulous coats, bags and shoes etc! Other days I just pick a nice cafe or park and read a book, or take myself on a scenic walk liste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:41 PM
1

Reading FDS has been enlightening and it made me reflect deeply on my own contributions to the situation I found myself in with a lvm scrote. This sub helped me confront my social/cultural pickme conditioning and it led to much needed personal growth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:25 PM
15

Ooffff I’m about to send this to my ex since he wanted to call me a golddigger, meanwhile I was his therapist for a decade FOR FREE. The countless hours I have heard him droning on about the same 5 traumatic things. He snapped when I shouted at him that I didn’t want to hear it anymore and to go seek therapy. Ofcourse he refuses 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:10 PM
4

I CAN TREAT YOU REALLY NICE 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:05 PM
18

I have very adorable children in my family, and the thought of this usage of their likeness makes me want to vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:51 PM
5

More reasons for why I remove male orbiters from SM and keep all my SM accounts private.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:51 PM
6

I kept my name, and thank god I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:46 PM
2

I find that men have a very cavalier attitude towards their health in general. And they damn sure don’t care about their sexual health or that of their partners. STDs and STIs are still rampant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:28 PM
3

After he put me through hell while I was awaiting my spousal visa in order to be with him (saying he wanted a divorce, hated providing for me etc) and when I got it (- mere month after he started his nonsense) arrived in the country and came home 🤡, he looked me dead in my eyes asked me why I came because he thought we had been separated 🤡, I cried, and after he consoled me he tried to initiate sex. I was a fucking idiot for staying, I’m plotting my way out now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:44 PM
3

What an asshole, he could have made some basic food like macaroni with veggies and protein for his kids. But no.. what a failure. I’m glad you ditched him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:36 PM
1

What an ass! My stbx lvm told me he had been getting loads of female attention (women just gazing at him) a few weeks before he went nuclear and asked for a divorce. I was like wtf when he said that. But I realise now its because he had gotten a bodybuilder physique and a good haircut. Joke was on him because shortly thereafter the pandemic hit and his gym closed down and he became fatter and lost most of his muscles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 06:17 PM
6

He was inappropriate, but he refuses to admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:36 PM
5

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:09 AM
3

I’m in my late 20s and I don’t feel like I am in my final form yet. It takes time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:19 PM
6

You’re dead on with your description of the house. I left for a business trip and when I came back that’s exactly the state my house was in, especially the cat urine smell. He always liked to claim it was HIS cat, yet somehow I was always deep cleaning her litterbox and sweeping up her cat litter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 07:43 AM
1

I was in an LDR marriage, ended in flames. Just don’t do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:55 AM
7

I went back 8 months after he he told me he didn’t love me and we were incompatible. Guess what, he told me the same shit all over again. Getting divorced now 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:53 AM
54

Ngl he is kinda ugly and Oliva Munn is a desperate pick me. Goodluck girl, he’s gonna leave you in 5 seconds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:28 AM
10

THIS!!!!! 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:32 AM
48

Ugh I had a problem wherein he would be in a bad mood, but instead of talking about it he would suffocate me with his negative energy. Short answers, heavy breathing, tense jaw muscles etc. And no matter how much I prodded, or tried to eleviate the situation. I was somehow wrong for asking what was bothering him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:29 AM
1

Waaaay to fumble the bag. He’s a powerful billionaire and somehow she’s still a struggling artist signed to a label. Deeply tragic! She’s also doing the cool girl 50/50 dance with him, while their child lives in her house and Elon pops in occasionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:34 PM
12

FDS sets me straight every time I want to go back to my former pickmeisha days. I’m so happy for you! Stay strong and amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 05:53 PM
24

Argh this made me actually scream! My stbxh literally compared his workplace infatuation pickmeisha to his late MOTHER when she was young. I got really upset with him, 1. Thats gross, and 2. The girl was not nearly as beautiful as his late mother 😂 ( and for bonus, less attractive than me) He got really butt hurt when I called him out on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:23 AM
3

This 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:38 PM
5

Girl, I have been burnt badly. And now I am completely following your footsteps. Men must add value, but never subtract from my quality of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:29 PM
4

Ugh my stbxh proposed with a thoughtless ring - a style I would never pick or want. He knew exactly what I wanted. But got what he liked instead, and I was supposed to swallow it and accept it. We fought about it constantly, as it was a really sore point( yeah I was a pickmeisha in “love”) Once the divorce is finalized, I’ll get myself that beautiful emerald ring I’ve always wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 06:22 PM
64

What exactly does she love about him?! Horrifying 😵‍💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:55 AM
14

Holy invasion of privacy wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:28 PM
14

Oh lostntiredd I am so sorry you are going through this, that must be so incredibly difficult and painful. I’m appalled how he lied to you in such a heinous way. I am sending you a virtual hug, good vibrations and lots of strength to get through this. You will emerge from this nightmare smarter and more resilient! I decided If ever I choose to remarry in the future, I will demand to see tax returns and sign an ironclad prenup. It’s more about protecting yourself than about your partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:29 AM
91

I no longer seek out male professionals in medical settings for shit like this. My gyno, dentist, gp are all female. And they are amazingly intuitive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:47 AM
41

This man really thinks he’s a catch 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:44 AM
207

Fraud, misrepresentation. She has a good case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:56 PM
295

annulment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:49 PM
27

There’s always an undercurrent of sexual tension stemming from the scrote. I don’t keep male friends anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:44 PM
23

Oof this one hits where it hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:17 PM
50

I get such visceral disgust reactions whenever I read these 50/50 horror stories. I’m always taken aback by the lack of empathy on behalf of the scrotes. They literally do not care about their partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:59 PM
16

I personally think that a lot of what you think you respect about them is just PR fluff stories and strategic marketing. Like OP says, unless you know them personally, it’s hard to make such an assessment. The public image of musicians is often carefully cultivated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 02:03 AM
11

How blessed you are to have such an amazing virtuous father!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 11:05 PM
11

My stbxh refused to let me add a dog to our household. He didn’t want to deal with the responsibility of walking it and picking up for it. Despite the fact that I knew he would neglect these duties and push it onto me anyway. He couldn’t cope with the perceived expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:50 PM
4

I will be borrowing this phrase from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:44 PM
2

When I tell you I literally moved across the world to be with this trash bag, and left behind my family and upward career mobility. At first I grieved the loss of children I would never have with him. Now I realise I’m better going at that alone because men as a collective are more of a burden and low value. In many ways he set me free. But it took me a long time to come to terms with this reality, FDS has been a a godsend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:45 PM
37

He is the local sewage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:42 PM
10

Not yet, but I’m tempted to next time I see it. I’ll report back eventually 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:37 PM
59

Big trend in L.A!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:33 PM
92

I lost it when I read pegging omggg 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:32 PM
2

Yes, it’s such bizarre behavior. I see it over and over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:23 PM
2

Khloe Kardashian needs to read this in particular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:10 PM
3

This comment was a harsh reality check about the depravity of men. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:09 PM
16

This shitty man needs to learn about a handheld bidet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 06:42 PM
10

This!! My stbxh hit a bit of success and went full scrote and asked for a divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 01:05 PM
51

My stbxh threw me this line after 5 yrs of marriage. He said “ I’m not sure what I want in life” yet I was the first thing he got rid of in order to find himself. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:52 PM
3

Absolutely correct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 10:24 PM
121

Whats even worse is when men neg women about the same material things they want. Oh you want a sports car? You must be a shallow gold digger. What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 12:39 AM
9

Lmaooo this is my husband atm. Trying to get out as we speak. Watches porn, dead bedroom. Confused why I’m not interested anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:22 PM
4

LOL SHE PLAYED HERSELF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:41 AM
13

I’d run so fast I might break my ankles. This girl is in for a world of pain if she gives into her pickme urge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:51 AM
29

The best thing I did was create this throwaway and closing DMs. Thank you for this tip. I blocked the bot immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:39 AM
464

So instead of focusing on self improvement he decided he needs to hurt people to feel better. May he rot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:30 PM
3

I had a college classmate (total scrote) proudly tell me and my group of girlfriends that he had slept with over 200+ women. You should have seen his face when all of us recoiled in disgust. He really expected us to be impressed. Instead we found him absolutely repulsive and started laughing at all the diseases he must carry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:13 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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