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Oh dear! Won't somebody think of the men? 😂🤪 This guys off his nut.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:38 AM
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It's written by a man. I didn't get to the second slide, I was like, this is bullshit ✋🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 11:35 AM
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I honestly cannot believe what is happening over there every day. It's juts pure chaos and regression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 01:17 AM
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And there are absolutely men who have no problems with casual sex and coercing women into pump & dump sex, but are suddenly "conservative" about abortion. Bahahah... are you kidding? That's most of them in those states.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 01:06 AM
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Who cares that your friends have boyfriends? My friend's who have boyfriends and even fuck buddies mostly have bad sex. I have had boyfriends and haven't had good sex since 2018. I just don't let them hang around to say I have someone around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 10:54 PM
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THIS. I despaired for awhile about my "bad luck" in dating or ever getting remarried, but my dating experiences have been atrocious, very underwhelming at the best of times and... I would never, ever be interested in any of my friend's husbands if they were single. Some of them are good guys, but just unsophisticated and unattractive and some are both those things AND awful husbands and fathers. I have one friend who brags about her husband all the time, but he says things like "if I was single,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 10:49 PM
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He also probably thought he was being rebellious, dating this heavily tattooed girl and that is parents would disapprove and that made his relationship exciting to him, lol. Then his girlfriend tattooed his mum, lmaooo! Fragile worldview smashed to pieces, too bad so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:33 AM
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THIS. This is my comment. Get the fuck outta here grandpa ✋🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:11 AM
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I feel your pain sister. I have a very slavic first name that I don't use in my native Australia, but I felt confident enough to use when I lived in New York. To their credit, most New Yorkers could say it right off the bat and the name itself was no big deal (where, it is in Australia, it's very "othering" here). However, after that, it was always assumed that I was Russian. There was a girl from Belarus at my workplace. We were just referred to as the two Russian chicks. I'm Australian born of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:04 AM
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Honestly, I hope his dick shrivels up and falls off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:38 AM
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Ding ding ding! This is the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:34 AM
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I love it when you ask them, "how exactly are you empowered?"... And they can't answer and then angry and call you judgmental, prudish and pious 🙃😂😂 Cool, I'll be that! ✌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:17 AM
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Any scrote that is eager to move in with a woman already has an agenda THIS!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Any dude you've been with for less than 6 months even broaching the subject is sus. You should be heavily vetting and HE SHOULD BE HEAVILY VETTING. If he's pushing the timeline along too fast in any way, ask yourself, why isn't he vetting? 🤔 There is no good answer to that question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:52 AM
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I'm offended because none of those women are ugly at all, particularly my personal favourite, Michelle Obama. WTF. I bet Rami looks like a horse's ass with a bacterial infection though 🤪 A lot of these internet dweebs with strong opinions have probably never touched an actual women and only think "beautiful" women look like fillered and photoshopped Instagram models. Newsflash, idiots: not even the insta models look like that, I live somewhere that I see influencers and women who adhere to the i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:47 PM
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I would leave her be, she sounds like she thinks she has life figured out because she's getting married. I can't stand those people. Sorry, but there is NO WAY I would marry someone I only knew for 2 months - you have no idea what issues could be lurking there. It doesn't even have to be anything dark and devastating about him, they could just be incompatible long term. I don't care if they knew each other from high school, this just adds to the illusion she has of familiarity. 2 months is NOTHI…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:29 PM
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You made the right call, I did a similar thing last year, ending a relationship that did have long term potential because the sex... let's just say, would never be fulfilling and the more I "tried", it started to become repulsive to me. You cannot force these things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:38 PM
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Like pigs flying, won't hold my breath! Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:23 PM
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Ugh, thank God this was the top comment. This is so fake and just idiotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:41 AM
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The average woman cannot be an incel. If you're a celibate woman, 99% of the time is completely VOLUNTARY. I could go to a bar and start pawing some random dude and giggling and batting my lashes, 100% if I allow it, we could be banging within hours. And that's not even with Tinder. They are ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:34 AM
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This is the beginning and end of the entire discussion. Zing! Thank u, next...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:28 AM
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I've literally signed on for less than a week maybe 2 times in the last year and I just delete in disgust within a week, within DAYS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:27 PM
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This is very accurate and giving me low-key rage/anxiety 😂😂🤪😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:26 PM
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Gaslighting someone who was in high school a year or so ago... What a BiG mAn 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:50 AM
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Sorry this happened to you. I had a similar relationship with a similar timeline and I thought it was probably good that he wasn't "sleazy" and trying to get in my pants straight away... Even though I don't believe in casual sex, I am a very sexual person and I did tell him on our very first date that great sex and sexual connection is important to me... So almost 3 months later when he tells me he has diabetes induced ED and can't fucking get it up, I was PISSED. Like what you said, WHY ARE YOU…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:06 AM
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This is the terrifying truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:37 PM
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Of course, murdering two people in cold blood is unforgivable... but not many people could withstand the humiliations and cruelty she was subjected to. I mean, the other likely outcome is that she might have killed herself. Her ex was a terrible human to do what he did to his family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:27 PM
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RIGHT?!! Always remember Betty Broderick. Never forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:22 PM
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"But babe! I've improved so much! Imagine what I'll be like in 5 years!" "Are you serious? I'm not going to waste 5 years hoping you'll be a better person, my purpose in life is not to help you become a better person." Me, to my ex-husband. I'm so proud of 27-year-old me. I didn't have great boundaries and clarity then, but I called out this bullshit on the spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:20 PM
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He's disgusting. Imagine being 26 and grooming, using and manipulating an 18-year-old. That is such a tender age and that is a HUGE age gap when the younger person is only 18, and he just mucked her around for years. If she was even that old and "legal" when they got together 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:56 PM
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This is the answer, lol. Fuck this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 10:51 PM
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What a very sweet, thoughtful human 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:50 AM
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but men who are generous with what they do have and are nice about it. Bingo! It's just a nice human quality for people in your inner circle to have. I have this with my friends and family. We are all so generous to one another and can't wait to pay and do nice things wherever possible. With men, it's very hit or miss (mostly miss).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:48 AM
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Agree to his dumb cafe and stand him up, lol. This guy would deserve it 💯👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:46 AM
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when a guy asks what you're looking for there's a good chance he's just checking to see what he should pretend to be that day/week/month. 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:48 AM
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You know what? Yeah it sucks. But this is why I don't believe in holding out for x amount of time or exclusivity, because it doesn't prove a goddamn thing. My measure of when to have sex is when I really, really want the sex. You can't trade sex for commitment, because you can have the rug pulled out from under you at any time, like this woman did. I also want to avoid players and men with a madonna/whore complex with fucked up ideas about women who like sex. Some men view playing the game until…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:45 AM
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He's a really sick puppy. I hope this all gets back to the company he ruined her chances with. This is misogynistic and hateful as fuck. It's criminal harassment, particularly with the doxxing. I hope he has criminal charges filed against him and it RUINS HIS CAREER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:21 AM
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I bet he asked her out once upon a time and she said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:19 AM
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Men love to underestimate womens ability. THIS. And then even when you're quantifiably better and recognized for it, they say you got the promotion, award or recognition because you're a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:15 AM
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It’s the hiring managers job to assess her skills/qualifications—not his. I didn't even think maybe she's improved, I thought, you are a fucking student yourself and it's not your place to assess other students and their capabilities. Men always think we don't know shit about shit, even when you're better at your job than them. I speak from experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:13 AM
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I can honestly say I do it for myself. Do I live in a place where appearances are very important? Yes. Have I had a lifetime of cultural influences in my life that have caused me to curate my look towards the male gaze? Of course. But I like to look nice. It's fun to dress up. I like my body. I workout almost every day and I definitely do that for myself, because it makes me feel great. Its me time. I genuinely enjoy it. Men like me bigger or smaller, it really doesn't matter... And that's the o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:24 AM
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Right?!! I felt so bad for her right away. I also thought, she likes you and thinks you're a good guy you lowlife numbnuts. This is what porn culture has given us. Young men that feel hard done by because a woman doesn't want to have sex with them right away, right this minute... Like, wtf did I just even read? I actually can't even imagine asking a guy I'd been talking to and felt safe with to walk me home and him telling me "your safety is not my concern" 🤯🤯 This is new. And just so awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:48 AM
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Oh my God, you would feel like your whole life is second rate and a lie. Every moment would be tainted. I'm not usually so catastrophic, but this would be devastating. I don't see how you can come back from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:57 PM
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Have you stopped to think of what type of person is in your environment? How can you attract good men if you're in an area where the majority are scrotes? 🤔 Everyone saying that no matter what, you can't derive your sense of self-esteem and value from men is EXACTLY 👏🏽 RIGHT 👏🏽 They don't matter. We have to break this narrative that we have to be partnered and/or be attractive to men. We fucking don't!!! We do not owe prettiness or sexiness to anyone. Fuck off. Men, if they have an options at al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:41 PM
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This is a massive red flag. Not only is it a major respect and boundary violation, but he humiliated and disrespected her on what is supposed to be the most special day celebrating their love and their lives together. And it's so aggressive! It's violent. What a marching band of red flags that is. I'm so happy she sees it as such and planning to leave him in the dust, where he belongs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:09 AM
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He responded with, “great, next year you can guarantee to expect nothing.” Whooaaaaa!!! DUMP. And what an ass to even assume he would be around next year, after a thoughtless gift and a comment like that?!!! I wasn't sure how this post was going to go, but you handled this perfectly. After 6 months, he should know you well enough to choose a thoughtful gift. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:17 AM
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That was a seriously weird response from him. Wtf does that even mean? After 1 month, he should know if he really likes you. Maybe he doesn't want to be official yet, but he should at least be really enthusiastic about liking you and only you and getting to know you further to see where this goes. Good call on not letting him waste any more of your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:12 PM
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I think his life will be filled with other men whether he likes it or not because of his attitudes, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:17 AM
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Haha... no idea! He's definitely a raging misogynist though. I went to a dinner with him once (and our mutual friends) and he spoke down to me about what I do for a living in the most outrageous way, lol. He told me he has friends who are "real" traders and pay to get up to the second market information and "have the screens and everything"...🤪 I was like, what the fuck do you think I pay for? Do you think I trade stocks on my little pink app in my glitter phone?😐 That was the moment I decided I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:58 AM
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The eye colour thing really does my head in, lol. I'm like, WHAT in the actual fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:53 AM
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This is my ex-husband pretty much. Held every penny spent over my head and tried to control everything. Then when I left and said "I'll sign everything away, I just want everything to be over"... He was offended. He said, "so you hate me so much you don't even want my money?!!"... Then he went around calling me stupid to everybody we knew, lol. My own family told me, but Tigre, hE's a gOoD pRoVIdeR 🤪 Imagine saying that to your 25-year-old relative when you know she's married to a controlling, v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:51 AM
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He's not a bad looking guy, definitely not handsome, but on the cuter side of average and in reasonable shape... Further to my point, his looks are not the problem, particularly in a city with such a heavy ratio in favour of men. He definitely needs A LOT of therapy though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:54 AM
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Just rereading this original post, what kind of an idiot dates people in their early 20's and then complains that: a) he can't have in-depth conversations with them... Uuuhh... Dude, they are in a much earlier life stage to you. Their opinions and ideas aren't going to be as nuanced or meaningful usually because they don't have life experience to base it off it and, b) call them naive. um, see "a" please. of course your 21-year-old girlfriend is naive, you dimwit. She's 21. c) no plans... um, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:51 AM
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Lmao... You nailed it! He really doesn't bring anything to the table, because he's also cheap. My friends and I are really generous with each other, and my friend has told me how he sleeps at their house all the time and she makes generous dinners, he drinks their alcohol... And then, when they're at a green juice stand, he turns around and asks her and her husband for $7 each for the juices 😂😂😂 He makes 400k a year! 🤪 He's just a classic, garden variety scrote, really 🙅🏻‍♀️😛 Throw the whole man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:36 AM
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This guy even complains that women he dates have the wrong eye colour. Like in addition to thinking a 26-year-old woman is "too old", he's also decided he's not interested in someone because they don't have blue eyes. He really wants a wife with blue eyes 🙄🤪 He's not even white, so I find that demand really off! He's just commodified this unicorn of a woman he wants to such a degree that it's really unsettling... I mean, this is a human being to share your life with, not the latest BMW with your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:55 AM
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Hahaha... Agree. It's the trash talking itself out. Bye bitch! 👋🏼 He's the friend of my good friend's husband, and my friend's husband makes fun of him to his face and tells him to give up and just import a mail order bride already. And, again, we live in a city where there are beautiful women everywhere you go and like, no men or one sloppy looking guy around. So, for this guy to have such a problem meeting a nice woman to settle down with should be a clear indicator that the issue is actually …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:44 AM
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I know someone like this as well. He's about 34/35 and in a city where the male to female ratio is OFF THE CHARTS in favour of men... He thinks 26-year-olds are "too old" for him, but wants a family before 40, and wants someone with a lot of education and a good salary, because he's also ultra cheap and stingy. Because girls in their early 20's making lots of money and/or who just finished a lot of school really want to give that all up to pump out babies for a very average looking 35-year-old w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 12:05 AM
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This dude really deserves to fall for someone doing the exact same thing as him. I would love to see the reaction when her true she age revealed. I wonder if he would "overreact" about her age then, or would it just be cool? Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:32 AM
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How to tell he's lying? His mouth is moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:18 AM
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😂😂😂👌🏼 https://imgur.com/W3Osakr.gif
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:14 AM
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This was amazing 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:59 AM
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When I was 14, I viewed 18 or 19 year olds as full on adults. Young adults. Which is what they are. At 14, your naivety is off the charts. I just cant fathom how susceptible to manipulation you would be to a 20-year-old man you thought was cute or cool in some way. I was 14 in 1993. There was no porn except some creepy videos your dad might have in the garage. Today's 14-year-olds have also been exposed to porn and depravity on the internet in general think and feel way more worldly than they ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:19 AM
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Seriously!!! I was like 24? 🤔34!!! At least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:13 AM
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I'm so glad you had so much support from your partner, the truth is that although traditionally men worked out of the home and did not provide this type of support, we used to live in villages with extended families and mothers of young babies almost always had a lot of support and NEVER did it on their own outside of very unfortunate circumstances. This type of burden on a mother of caring for a newborn completely alone is a modern phenomena. It's not "normal" at all. Even today, if you have fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:31 AM
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An acquaintance of mine had a baby via IVF last year and hired a night nurse and a housekeeper and her doctor told her that even though she's doing it "alone", she'll be waaaay more supported than the majority of mothers with partners. Absolutely correct, IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:27 AM
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When she rightfully leaves him, she'll be the heartless bitch who broke up her family and takes his paycheck, aka child support. Break out your baby violins! Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:25 AM
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He's very old, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:28 AM
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I was thinking the exact same thing and thinking how gross and pathetic it was, but I couldn't muster the brain energy to articulate it all, so thank you!!! 🤮🤮🤮 The fucking gaslighting and nonsense about male virility being endless and like this old geriatric is some raging lothario everyone wants is just mind-blowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:24 AM
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Imagine your dad is fully geriatric. Why would you do that to a child? Are you that desperate to be attached to superstardom and wealth? Ew. I met Mick Jagger in a nightclub in Miami around 2000. He was mid 50s and I already thought he was a creepy old fuck. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 09:17 AM
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I agree with you about blocking, but why do you feel the need to justify yourself to a teenager anyway? Who cares what they think??? 😂 Block block block blockity block! 😃👏🏼👏🏼🎊🚫🙊😅✋🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:28 AM
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WHAT There's absolutely no way in hot hell this guy should come on this holiday whatsoever. In my mind, that is reserved for committed partners only. Not some sexual, creepy dalliance with some guy that has an actual fucking wife! 🤯🤯🤯 Western culture has become so open minded, it's collective brain has fallen out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 03:32 AM
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I can’t imagine quality time being timed. I would feel so unwanted and like such a pest. Especially when he has so much time for his fucking kite and former students. The fucking nerve?!! I would have turned off the wifi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 09:51 PM
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Right?!!! I was like, WHY? 🤔 You're just some dude with a God-complex and a gambling habit. A dime a dozen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:29 PM
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Haha, yes! My favourite Clooney is ER Clooney or maybe Clooney as Booker on Roseanne. Both are 30+ years ago! The whole "men age like fine wine" is a mass gaslighting of women and such a total cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:46 AM
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Most of the ones 10 years younger than me look older than me. This is the truth! My realtor pursued me about 6 months after the transaction was over. He was a handsome guy and for some reason, I knew he was younger than me, but I didn't think it was more than 2 or 3 years maximum. He had terrible crows feet, even for someone in their mid-to-late-30's, which is what I thought he was (I was 38 at the time). It turns out he was only 30!!! And freaked out when he realised I was 8 years older, he was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:38 AM
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100% I struggle to date men my own age that don't look like I'm out with my creepy uncle. They're fucking gross. And they have the audacity to smirk and tell you men age like fine wine with their haggard faces and dad bods and penises that don't work. Bro, you are by no stretch of the imagination Clooney. Stop bringing him up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:32 AM
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It's much harder to bullshit someone your own age and, most 50-year-old women wouldn't have them anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:23 AM
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Hahaha... I'm 42 ✌🏽 I'm Kourtney's age. that might be why she's my favourite. I relate heavily to how unimpressed she constantly is and her endless sarcastic comments, lol. But yeah... it all started from a sex tape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:41 AM
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You might be too young. This was circa 2007, and the notoriety that came out of it gave the family the reality show in the first place. They just spun that notoriety and kept it spinning and spinning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:30 AM
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I used to actively despise the Kardashians because I don't like what they represent, I don't like the example they set for young women... oh, just be hot, objectify yourself completely, get plastic surgery from head-to-toe, fame and notoriety at all costs and don't do anything of substance. I still think they have had a net negative influence on our culture, to date. But... I have to acknowledge it takes a special kind of talent to remain relevant for this long, I actually DO like their personal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:28 AM
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Remember the time he cried and rambled on TV about how he wanted to abort North? That was something completely unhinged and should never have been in public for North to find either now or later in life. No one in their right mind would do that. I have empathy for Kanye's mentally illness, but Kim is not wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:20 AM
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Exactly, this is NOT snooping. And particularly finding out information about a basic fact like YOUR AGE in relation to someone you have been sleeping with for 6 months is not fucking snooping. He's lying about a fundamental fact about himself in order to circumvent a sensible boundary a younger woman might have about getting involved with age appropriate people and this young woman is worried that she is bad for "snooping". He's a liar and a predatory older man, girls please do all you can to p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:55 PM
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I have no idea where this idea of being required to explain yourself comes from Female socialisation and a lifetime of conditioning to "be nice" no matter what 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:50 PM
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Seriously, as someone who was married in my 20's and more or less single since then... I'm a happy camper, my life is great. Sometimes I miss intimate sex (the other kind is available freely... and ugh!!! No thanks!) and snuggles... but the peace I have from not having someone controlling and limiting and gaslighting me every step of the way is priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 12:08 AM
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this trap of family servitude. This is what it is!!! 💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:48 AM
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I remember having a corporate job in my early 30's and realising that all my married-with-kids female colleagues... woke up at least an hour before me, made breakfast for kids, made sure they were ready for school, usually also dropped them off and/or picked them up... went home, made dinner for a family, did dishes, other chores, made sure everyone did homework, showers, read stories and then finally went to bed... I thought... FUCK ALL THAT!!! I actually felt nauseated at the realisation. Even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 10:50 PM
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I have a crew of married-with-children friends who thankfully aren't like this, but one of them has a second crew of friends from a women's gym and they are all like this, lol... Everything is a cleaning competition about how spotless their house is and how intense they are about keeping it spotless, lol. When one of them, who has 5 kids, began "bragging" about how she vacuums her 2 story house 3x a day, I involuntarily threw my head back and lurched on the sofa, groaning loudly... and everyone …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 10:43 PM
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If he has any assets or a good salary, the lawyer might agree to be paid out of the proceeds. Also trusts are not as bulletproof as everyone thinks. At least not in my country. If the judge decides that the trust exists only for the beneficiary to evade their obligations, the judge can decide to distribute the assets accordingly. So get her to talk to a good lawyer so she can figure out what the laws are where you live and what she can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 11:53 AM
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Honestly, that's one of the weirdest and creepiest things I've ever heard, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 11:02 AM
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That's different, he's an oblivious creep trying to act like he's swimming in pussy and totally delusional that he can't pass for 28 whatsoever. Apples and oranges, darlin! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:41 AM
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That's what I was thinking! Not bad for 40-something. 28 my ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:39 AM
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I'm 43 and he looks like my peer, also he's latino so I'm like wtf happened to you man? Hard life? No sunscreen? 🤔🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:37 AM
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"at your fossil age" "Okay grandpa" 😂😂😂💀👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:35 AM
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Cannot recommend this book highly enough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 12:46 AM
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He had been married before but his story about why she left was “she never gave me a reason, she just packed her stuff up and left” Not to blame you in any way, but we all need to be aware that this type of comment is a 🚩🚩🚩MARCHING BAND OF RED FLAGS 🚩🚩🚩 It shows either an incapability or unwillingness to reflect and/or a deliberate desire to obfuscate the reasons their relationship did not work. Do not get into relationships with people who say things like this about their previous relationship(…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:44 PM
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Amen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:38 PM
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I learned very early on that bringing up our issues got me no where and felt even worse when he didn’t make any attempt to change. This can be an absolute maddening experience and make you feel really unimportant and hopeless 💔 I'm sorry this was your experience of marriage, but I'm happy you get to start fresh now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:37 PM
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BUT the important thing is, does he share? Does he give freely and gladly? Proud of being a provider for his family? And this is the whole thing for me with paying for dates. Is he generous? Can he provide? Particularly if you want a family, aside from general kindness (which being generous is a part of), this is probably the most important trait. I'm 43 and about 5 years ago I dumped someone who wanted children with me because he was miserly. I have and make more money than him and I never had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:17 PM
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In fact tbh attractive men are way less catty on women’s appearances in general Haha... I just made another comment this week about how I will only date attractive men for various reasons and this is another reason why. They are nicer in every way in my personal experience. As for the rest... Agree 💯👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:26 AM
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My ex-husband was a good-looking dude, but he would literally refuse to shower or brush his teeth on the weekend and then expect intimacy and say I don't really love him then... I never tiptoed around it. I was like, you're gross. I wouldn't touch you with a 10-foot-pole until you wash your balls and brush your teeth. Fuck your feelings. What about my feelings? I think it's hostile, cruel and disrespectful to attempt to subject me to your hot ass mouth and smelly body. I would be mortified to de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:42 PM
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We are literally screamed at that we're shallow if we're not turned on by any man. Meanwhile, they're out there openly giving ratings out of 10 and turning their nose up at the slightest perceived physical "flaw" if they think they even have the illusion of a choice, lol. If we say we like a tall man, we are nazi whores and its like a literal hate crime against men 🙃🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:28 PM
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The projection staggering. She offers a nuanced, honest, thoughtful and entirely understandable reply for why she lost attraction to her husband and THAT is the reply. She's describing real needs that haven't been met and frustrations and the reply is dismissed as "female talk", you're just a taker (paraphrased) and a selfish bitch (insinuated).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:16 PM
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Some people have suggested I'm superficial because I refuse to date unattractive men, but the thing is... it's what you said! They look like potatoes and have the personality of a fucking potato!!! So at least if I vet for looks as a prerequisite, just walking in the door on the first date, he's got that down at least. I followed the advice for years, dumpster diving for personality and value outside of instant chemistry and looks. BuiLdiNg aTtrAcTiOn 🤪 It doesn't work! And most of them are bori…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:58 PM
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I have thought the same thing! There are hardly any men in their 40's on OLD for the reason you said, but I will offer another reason... most people in their early to mid 40's are lying about their age, especially if they look ok and think they can get away with it. And especially men over women because they almost always want to date much younger. So all the 43-year-old men are saying they are 36, 39 or whatever and the rare dude that does pop up displaying an early to mid-40's age, is actually…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:40 PM
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It was either marrying any man with some money, or live as a slave, servant, prostitute or be plain homeless. Exactly. Even the pejorative, misogynist terms "spinster" and "witch" started out neutral or positive. Women spinning wool in London became independent and it became something women chose instead of marriage. imagine that! Women had one option and they chose it in droves over marriage to a man! Stay single forever... uuhhh Ok! Gladly!!! 🤣So they had to stigmatise it and make it something…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:54 PM
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Also, getting eaten by a shark in order to get laid, lmao! Too bad, so sad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:41 PM
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you lost a chance at the 50-50 dream life where you would contribute only the 0 of the 50? I'm 💀🤣 She said 0 of the 50, lol. Where is the lie? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:40 PM
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Everything I read about Keanu tells me that he's a beautiful human. We need more Keanus in the world 🙏🏼😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:43 PM
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Isn't his one of his most famous threads of advice to clean your room? CLEAN YOUR NEST!!! I never get tired of that nest joke 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:17 AM
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Particularly in this day and age where we are more educated and self sufficient than ever before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 11:15 AM
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Stay safe 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:28 AM
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I honestly gasped when I realised that the scars he wanted to see were your mastectomy scars. This guy is a creepy weirdo. Please be VERY careful. Is there anything more personal and out-of-bounds to ask someone in your position than to see THAT? Let alone someone who is a work colleague and has already asked you not to message them privately? I know you said you don't want to report him and you have your reasons for that. I'm not going to harangue you about doing so, but please do not underesti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:07 AM
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she'll care less than he thinks she will in the ways he thinks she will - men are delusional and have trouble telling the difference between types of attention so any attention = "she really liked me!!!!!" 🤡 Exactly!!! They always seem to think if they want you, you'll be ready to be in a relationship or marry them or whatever. They think they're choosing, lololol. Bro you are underwhelming as fuck and you don't meet my standards. Thank u, next 💅🏼 She may even feel more gross and angry about it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 05:06 AM
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He’s just trash Ugh!!! Agreed! I have literally never decided I don't like a man anymore because I didn't think he looked as good naked as I expected. That is superficial AF 😏 And I have been disappointed by how someone's body looks, but it just doesn't matter that much if I liked them enough and was feeling enough chemistry to get naked in the first place. I also got an insta ban for participating in that thread since I belong to FDS, lol. Whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 02:05 AM
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Am I the only one thinking that maybe the sex just wasn't good and she probably agrees and won't care? Lol. I NEVER have sex to secure commitment. That said, I only have sex if I really really want the sex, I'm really into it, I really desire this man and I want to enjoy him physically. Which is rare, in this day and age of low social skills and zero finesse, grace or charm. I do think it's generally good advice to wait to have sex, but you can wait to have sex and still get dumped. Happens all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 11:49 PM
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I think you've received some great advice, I would only suggest working on your personal beliefs about yourself and about dating and about life. I would choose some meditations on YouTube that work on self-love and self-worth. You don't need to look a certain way to be worthy of love, you are perfect and worthy NOW. You just need to believe it 💜 Also, when out there dating, try to think of yourself and defend yourself the way you would a beloved daughter. Would you let this absolute dumb fuck sp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:30 PM
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I haven't read the other answers, but if I have actually met you and I text you and you don't reply that day, that means you're not interested. Life happens, people have busy days, I know, but if you REALLY like someone, you're going to be checking for them, checking for their messages... If you really like someone, you're excited to receive their messages and reply in kind, or otherwise wtf are we doing here? 🤔 If I get any kind of vibe that you're not totally into me, I phase that dude right o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:54 PM
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I LOVE IT!!! 💃🏻👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 02:58 AM
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I actually know of two women in their 30s in my greater social circle who have had babies via IVF because they just do not want the hassle of a man. Edited to clarify: they are completely heterosexual women for whom dating in the last decade has been such a demoralising and repellant experience that their natural choice is to have children alone. One of them that I know better, hired help for the first 3 months and her advisor at the clinic was like "you will have way more support and a much eas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 09:30 AM
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I think these roles attract a certain type of person to begin with and then they are in such hyper-masculine environments where they are constantly traumatised by their jobs in various ways that they can't help but become these caricatures of toxic masculinity and dysfunction. One of my best friends is a musician who plays gigs in bars around the city and I felt like we really talked about everything, all the time... Lol... Well one day, she calls me and she's like "what are you doing??!!? can y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:43 AM
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Along with cops and men in military uniforms. I see you've learned the same lessons I have after being married to a Marine and then a cop (well, we weren't married). I see a uniform these days and run for my life in the opposite direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 11:25 PM
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Completely agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:39 PM
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When I was in my late teens I definitely thought 35 - 40 was "old" no matter how hot I was told someone was. I've talked before about going to watch Gladiator with some older female co-workers at about 20 and they were absolutely drooling over Russell Crowe who was about 35 in that movie. I just thought he looked like someone's athletic and vaguely cute father 🙄😂 No attraction for 20-year-old me whatsoever! Whereas now, I think someone over 35 and very handsome is peak attractiveness, but I'm 42…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:00 PM
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He was scrotastic as a young man with Kourtney. He was a terrible partner to her. He's even more scrotastic as a middle aged creep dating women much closer to his middle schooler son's age than his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:46 PM
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Seconding the recommendation of The Gift of Fear by Gavin De Becker. Do we have an FDS reading list? This should be on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:33 PM
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In most jurisdictions, it doesn't matter if you're not on the lease, you can't kick someone out without notice, period. If someone has been living with you, they're a resident. How is defined between visitor and resident, I'm not sure, but she had been paying half the rent and half the bills, she is a resident and she should call the cops on him for trying to evict her and her children illegally. Fucking asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:47 AM
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I hate to tell you this but he was stalking you and if it were me I would avoid that area for a few weeks maybe even months. I agree. I wouldn't go back for awhile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:35 AM
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Lol like Knocked Up 🤪 Unemployed, fat pothead gamer, Seth Rogan and beautiful TV presenter Katherine Heigl. In what universe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 11:21 AM
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Definitely not "more mature", if anything, in my experience, it's their true nature and intentions coming out. It's hard work to hold up a mask over a long period of time. Thank you for weeding yourself out. My garden is spectacular and immaculate. Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 10:59 PM
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You're exactly right, in my experience. I've lost several long term friendships in the last few years and while I've certainly reflected on my own behaviour, trying to figure out if it's me... It isn't. It's just different forms of assholery where "friendships" cannot continue unless one (i.e. me) accepts being a doormat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 02:39 AM
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Men act like aging doesn't affect them, but it does. It affects them just as much as it affects women. Further to this, there is a strong theory that the rise in autism is actually due to old ass sperm and fathers being significantly older in general, and NOT due to mothers being older. https://www.cityfertility.com.au/children-of-dads-over-40-at-risk-of-autism/ Put that in your pipe and smoke it, delusional scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:59 AM
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Honestly, I wish someone just explained to me about bad behaviour and respect. As soon as someone disrespects you or shows you they lie or manipulate, or lack integrity in any way, you should not get close to that person or just not have them in your life at all, if possible. I had a narcissist mother and a family in general that gaslit me and always blamed me for any conflicts in my friend group. Always told me to give people chances and look at myself. And that's the worst fucking advice ever.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:47 AM
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I once got chased down the street by a dude calling me "workout Annie" and gaffawing loudly about my ass in public. I completely ignored him. When he caught up to me he was like "yo, wtf is wrong with you, don't you speak English, I was talking to you"... I was like, in my haughiest Australian accent (this was in the Mission of SF, lol)... Not only do I not speak a word of English, I'm also a lesbian... 😂✋🏼 He looked stunned and disgusted while he computed in his little pea brain what that meant…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:53 AM
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I don't believe his parents are being "scapegoated" at all. They are answerable for a lot and deserve all the scorn they recieve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 10:30 AM
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I was coming to say this. No sympathy for his despicable family. If they had even a shred of integrity, their son would be alive and answering for his crimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 10:28 AM
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YASSSSSSSS!!! Glad you Queens are back 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 08:54 AM
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Haha, it is subtle and I am studying Italian because I would like to speak at an expert level, so I totally understand how these seemingly small nuances in language can change the meaning and trip you up. We take it all for granted in our native tongue. So that was the spirit in which I pointed it out, as a fellow student and lover of language 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:49 AM
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Exactly this. All my female colleagues (when I still worked in an office) were run off their feet, on the clock 24/7. Their day started several hours before mine, waking the kids, feeding the kids, dropping them at school and being in the office by 9 😏 Work all day, until at least 5 or 6pm, pick them up, prepare dinner... have a shower yourself? When does the housework get done? If you have a partner, he might do one or two things to "help", but the lion's share is on the female partner. Why wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:41 AM
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elder, not elderly lmao!!! it's kind of funny, you can leave it if you want 😂 but elderly implies 60 or even 70+, I personally wouldn't even describe people in their 60's as elderly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:17 AM
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Bahahahaha!!! AMEN!!! I love being in my 40's, I love everything about it and even though I know that looks aren't that important and it's how they objectify us our entire lives, I also still look good, bitch. The thing they use against us to make us feel terrified of aging and losing our value because of brainwashing and gaslighting our entire lives is a whole fucking lie, anyway, haha!!! Eat shit, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:03 AM
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THEY KNOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 12:18 AM
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There was a post just like this in Am I The Asshole the other day, I can't read the article so I don't know if it's referencing that! Either way... Oh well, too bad, so sad 🙄💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 09:18 AM
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MuSt bE fiT!!! 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:44 AM
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He thinks that rotten, worn out pickle in his pants is THAT valuable 🤪 Deluuuuded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:43 AM
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I am devastated. That footage of that girl sobbing uncontrollably was me in my marriage. I'm so sorry for Gabby's parents and loved ones, I can't imagine their grief 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:06 AM
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There were porn of women on ventilators getting raped WHAT THE FUCK??? 🤮 So just full on rape of someone not just vulnerable, but on the edge of death anyway. That is so dark and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:13 AM
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I was gaslit by my own dysfunctional family. Imagine telling your 20-something daughter/neice/grandchild that she should put up with a controlling, verbally abusive fuckface because hE's a gOoD pRovIDeR 🤪 Oh, and to further knock her confidence down, tell her she's never taken care of herself and furthermore SHE CAN'T (and she'll have to come home). I can't even fathom telling a young woman I love and care about such things. So toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:25 AM
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You know what, I have never been to Scandinavia so I didn't know that you could do that kind of thing there. I'm from Sydney and your bike would get stolen here too. And quickly. That makes so much sense and makes what happened to them even sadder since they were almost certainly very idealistic. I mean, if anyone needs it spelled out for them really clearly, DON'T go anywhere with a man you don't know where you are isolated and can't leave easily. Camping. His home. Even a park at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:38 PM
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The fucking audacity of this piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:13 AM
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I think it's most suspicious that she's been abandoned across the country and hasn't called any family or friends to help her out. I'm making the assumption that she hasn't used any bank accounts or used her phone either. All those facts are incredibly bleak 💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:12 AM
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I really want to avoid victim blaming, but I was in Morocco a week or two before those two Nordic girls were beheaded in the mountains and I couldn't understand what would make them think it was ok to go camping with locals they just met that day in Marrakech?!! I wouldn't do that in my home city. I just wouldn't go camping with anyone I didn't know very, very well. You are isolated and if they have any bad intentions whatsoever, you're totally at their mercy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:09 AM
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Wow, this looks sooo bad. In that link, her family refers to the van as hers, asking why he abandoned her and drove HER van back to Florida 😖 So, you're telling me she's been missing for over 10 days, hasn't used her phone or cards, hasn't called her family to figure out how to get home and they were seen fighting and HE drove HER vehicle back to their home state on his own?!! It looks pretty bleak. Sends a chill down my spine. Prayers for Gabby and her family 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 09:06 AM
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I am cackling!! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:59 AM
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I agree with this completely and can't stress it enough!!! There was someone I dated that I wasn't interested in for many, many important reasons regarding his character, but he was very handsome and we did have a great connection on a friendship level. There are just certain things to do with integrity that I saw early on (NOT what I'm about to tell you about him, even more red flags lmao!) and I decided we could never be anything more. So when we were trying to be friends, he was telling me ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:16 AM
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I don't really see anymore how regular naming conventions aren't just like The Handmaid's Tale. Almost all children carry their father's name. Female children only change their name when they marry, and they change it to the name of the new man they belong to (who is carrying the name of his male predecessors). We just get our own first name which gives us the illusion of our own identities, even though we always belong to the man of the house 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:57 AM
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I was married and I did change my name. I was in my 20's and I never really considered another option, but I always preferred my own last name to my ex-husband's. Soooo... After we separated, I started using my maiden name again. And we decided to try again and got back together, he was LIVID about the fact that I was using my own name. Lol. He gave me in ultimatum about it, but it really was never settled before we decided to divorce once and for all. It was an ongoing battle. I just didn't lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:35 AM
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My daughter seems like a baby to me at 24. Oh she totally is! I see girls in their early 20's like little baby colts, all shiny and sweet and often unsure on their feet 😍 The wall is the most ridiculous concept invented by the manosphere to gaslight women and make us insecure, nothing more. There's no truth to it. I'm so happy to hear you're thriving and living your best life! The decade doesn't matter at all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:14 AM
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Totally agree! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 05:34 AM
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Empathy and giving a fuck what the peanut gallery thinks about you are two very different things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:06 AM
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If my “prime” age in life was 19-22 or whatever arbitrary age weirdo men say it is That's your prime age for them to take advantage of you because you have no knowledge or life experience to call out their endless bullshit or spot all the ways they are deficient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:04 AM
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My grandma and several other older people, in fact, had told me that their 40's were the best years of their lives and when I was a teenager, I thought that statement was whackadoodle, but you know what? I can see why it might be true, haha. I'm 42 and loving it! Also, my 30's were pretty fantastic, I had a great lifestyle, great friends, incredible travel experiences. The two black marks were dating and men, I really despaired over my experiences there and the deaths of my beloved grandparents,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:00 AM
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Bahaha! Elvis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:07 PM
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I mean, it's pretty obvious you are a very poorly adjusted individual with emotional problems if you get off on hurting other people, or being hurt and humiliated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:42 PM
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For the first month, once a week is ideal for me. I don't like to be crowded by a new person. But after that, I would want to see someone I'm really into and bonding with more, 2 - 4x a week is ideal. Unless they were exceptional and had a really good reason this wasn't possible, I wouldn't want to continue seeing someone only once a week. The other thing is, if it's work commitments, I don't want to date a workaholic so that's a fundamental life view/compatibility issue in and of itself. Also, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:24 AM
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LOL!!! Puh-leeease grandpa, I need brain bleach just looking at your picture. You are deluded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:26 PM
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Fuck yes, I would! In fact, I say what I'm really looking for is a male me, lol. I can't find it! I'd love to find someone that is financially independent and enjoys a similar travel style to me, is open-minded and a great friend. I'm also funny and I have the cutest dog, hehe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:56 AM
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They pegging out here... Lmaoooooo!!! STAHHP!!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:26 AM
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Honestly this is mortifying. What an idiot she is. And she posts this 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:19 PM
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Unless we're talking about a really young guy (say under 25), I would say no, they absolutely cannot change. I think if you don't change that behaviour by a certain age, it just hardens into an attitude about sex and women that you have little incentive to change. These guys might marry, but I will never believe they are faithful. It's just way too easy these days to keep it going. Even if he has the best of intentions to "change his ways", what happens as soon as your relationship hits a rough …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 12:14 PM
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WHY are you swiping me? In what realm would we go together? And the thing is I guarantee they’d offer some cheap coffee date & half assed sex too lmfaoo wow so enticing sterile sex and cheap dates with a boring entitled man I really don’t find attractive.. Where do I sign? 🤣🤣🤣👌🏼💯💯 And if you expect more than this you're a gOLdiGger!!! 🤪 This is why I hate dating apps- swiping against men id never consider looking at in real life. Just to find a half decent looking serial cheat on there? Waste of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:49 PM
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They totally do! And there's nothing wrong with stretch marks at all. I have them. we've gaslighted ourselves into believing that stretch marks is a woman-only issue. THIS IS THE PROBLEM. And the laser focus and social acceptance of critiquing women's bodies. It usually comes from someone who has no business criticising anybody's looks anyway. It's always some ugly dude who insists he's entitled to a flawless supermodel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:49 PM
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I apologise 🙏🏼😹😹😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 11:39 PM
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She's made herself into a doe-eyed child and he's a "God", that's actually disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:17 PM
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I mean, she says he's a God and she loves being under him and he's smarter than her... She's brainwashed and pathetic. Even if you really did believe your husband knows best and is more intelligent, why would you feel the need to say these things about yourself, putting yourself down publically? It's grovelling and not a relationship model to aspire to in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:15 PM
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I'm sorry to say, your friend has no common sense. A man like that is loyal to no one. The whole thing is a big mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:28 AM
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We're the commodity 😏 In another way, when they complain about paying for dates and whatever, it's the same thing. They love all this bullshit about comparing dating to the financial markets or the animal kingdom, except when it's out of their favour. Then it's like, whhhyyy waaahhhh, it should be 50/50 boo hoo. No actually, it shouldn't be 50/50. Why should a woman pay anything to spend time with you? You're a very dull bird. Very few men get easy sex or get in free to clubs and what not becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:45 AM
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It's the same old adage! If it's free, you're the product 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:36 AM
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I know! You can't do that on a first date, it's ridiculous. You're totally unfamiliar with each other, so awkward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:37 PM
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Ahahahah... Great. And you're not getting another date with the best woman you've met because you're a cheap ass, skeazy pickup artist without any courtesy or manners. Just desserts. Enjoy them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:28 PM
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Oh God, he couldn't be more disgusting. And taking this woman out to stand in the midday sun in his smelly work clothes and talking incessantly about himself and his own interests for 45 minutes! What a bottomfeeder. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:21 PM
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Seriously, nobody his own age would put up with that whiny nonsense. He might have had a point of they were MARRIED. But they've been dating a year and she's 9 years his junior... Step off, bucko.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:28 PM
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Right?!! 😂🙅🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 08:48 AM
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the fog has lifted and he made his bed. I'm so grateful you left and see things this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:45 AM
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My ex did the same thing. HE MOCKED ME when I told him I was leaving (yes, I had been threatening for a while, then he would be super charming and nice for a bit, lather/rinse/repeat), said he didn't care, etc. But when I told him I had an apartment and all my things were packed in my car etc... He started bawling crying, like hiccuping and blowing snot bubbles and saying he can't believe it, suddenly accepting all blame, etc, etc. I was like... are you fuckin' serious right now? 😏 Pathetic... a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:43 AM
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It hardly made sense. Just a bunch of babbling nonsense. He's probably never been with a woman. It's not real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:46 AM
19

That was a good one! 👌🏼😂😂😂 I have no energy for this post otherwise, she should dump him. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:55 AM
27

Ahahahahahahahaha!!! 🎈🍾🍾🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:36 PM
89

Ugh God... Lurker dudes... Just no. If you need to ask a woman if you should delete her number because it's "one-sided", just don't send the message. Don't bother. She's not into you. If someone is into you, your messages are very welcome. They respond quickly, they're excited to hear from you. They initiate communication. It's not rocket science. Stop bothering women with your needy, passive-aggressive energy. So cringe. Sandra = 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:34 PM
21

the numbers are just tiny in comparision to the number of men who abuse women Exactly. Of course it exists, but the numbers and the gravity of the abuse generally pales in comparison, it's just repulsive to even make an equivalence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:11 AM
57

This will probably be an unpopular opinion, but while I agree with what you're saying, I'd also say that Gen Z (and younger Millenials, generally speaking) tend to label ALL questionable and problematic behaviour as "abusive". That's not to say problematic behaviours shouldn't be called out or that I don't think having firm boundaries is important, but calling everything "abusive" is hyperbolic and diminishes the gravity of the word. These guys are ABSOLUTELY doing that, the thing is I take most…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 02:04 AM
12

I actually genuinely enjoyed his company, we had endless conversations about all kinds of things, but he didn't want to be my friend only and the sex really was something I had to endure so it just wasn't going to work in any way and no one can say I didn't really give it a go - I tried to force myself through a third round. That's when I realised it just wasn't going to work. He also told me he snores really loud, lol. So I was like... The sex is bad and if he stays over, I'm going to be misera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:39 AM
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I dated someone for 2 months who was wonderful in every way... He was really nice to me, attentive, took me on nice dates... He was even very good looking. He looked like a well-known actor... But the first yellow flag was ZERO chemistry when we kissed. Could have been kissing my mother. Next yellow flag was that things weren't progressing sexually after many dates. In my experience both of these things equal bad sex, when it eventually happens... Well, I was right. It was just so bad. But, I pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:28 PM
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Can you even imagine reading that headline and instead of your takeaway being "wow, what horrific violence! and how extraordinary, brave and kind was that man to defend his friend?!!", your comment is something manosphere bullshit about being friendzoned 😳🤯🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:57 AM
33

I'm aged out at 42, lmao. It doesn't matter, I would never date someone that old (I'm no nursemaid) and I won't even date my own age if you look like my creepy uncle, which most of them do 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:53 PM
4

Agreed completely. I may or may not post my own reply, but co-sign yours totally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:12 PM
17

Ugh... NEVER put up with a man ogling other women and GIRLS in front of you. Teenage girls?!! Absolutely repulsive, creepy. What a creep. This is just an absolute dealbreaker. I wouldn't keep a man around who disrespected me like this. Do you see something you like? Because you can go with her. Bye. Get gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:08 PM
7

Seriously, they are so bad in bed, almost as a rule. Why would I give you access to my body? You can't or won't provide financially, you think coffee or "a walk" is a date (I have a dog, thanks) and you're a two-pump-chump who couldn't find my g-spot if I dropped a pin in Google maps. And they think they're "choosing"... 😂 I mean, not even in the coldest day in hell where pigs fly. What value do you bring? Please ask yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:37 AM
9

Be VERY WARY of the attentions of anyone older. At your age, "older" is a very small window. For a 17 or 18-year-old girl 3 or 4 years older is the MAX, if you're 19 or in your early 20's, then maybe 5 years is ok. As you get closer to your mid 20s, I would definitely relax those age requirements, but ALWAYS be wary of the attentions of an older male. What value does he bring? In what way does he make your life better? Actually, you should be asking that about any romantic relationship. Their va…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:41 AM
13

I've explained to men my own age that, yes, I'm choosing too. It's not just you that gets to say yes or no and I'm just like a lost puppy at the pound waiting for someone to pick me... And most likely, you do not measure up to my criteria 💅😂😂😛 The bar is in hell, and they know it. It's just astounding to me how truly shocked they are and the complete lack of self-awareness 😂 They think just because we live in a city where the ratio of men to women is highly in their favour, that every woman, esp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:22 AM
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Ghislaine Maxwell was the ULTIMATE pickme. I just watched a documentary about her life, I always wondered why a woman of her background would be in the relationship she was in and would participate in the activities she partook in. It made NO sense 🤔 I didn't really know anything about her before other than she came from a rich family and ran in elite circles in the UK. Well, once you understand her background, she basically worked for her father who was a crooked man and LIVED for his approval …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:00 AM
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One of my friends and I were discussing this just the other day. She and her husband are really good friends and business partners with this 35-year-old guy who they really like, but honestly... The dude is a red pill/misogynist. I low key didn't like him before for "reasons" and now with this new information I'm like, oh God, he's gross. He's a full blown scrote. He's single and delusional. He only wants to date women under 25 who look like Victoria's Secret models and he's decided now that the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:02 PM
21

Ahahahah! My married friends and their husbands lament this for me all the time! They're like, Tigre we would love to set you up, but all the single guys we know are gronks and sleaze bags! And their faces look like this 😦 when they're saying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:48 PM
3

Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:34 PM
13

Ugh! This sounds like my ex! He faked a personality for 6 months and then let out all his toxicity on our first overseas trip. I mean, one of the reasons he had a tantrum was when we went to a famous burger joint and chose each of our orders ourselves, he later actually said one of the reasons he was having such a bad day is he picked the wrong burger and mine had bacon in it and his didn't. I was like wtf??? Are you 36 or 3? 😳 At the end of the trip, after several mantrums and when we were just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:13 AM
4

Lagertha! 😍 She was my absolute favourite character in the whole Vikings series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:58 PM
18

Right? What a fucking absolute piece of shit. And he's proud of it 🙄🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:52 PM
10

he fixated on how “sexy” I must find him speaking it. Like get a personality man, it’s a language not a character trait. Lmao! That's exactly what this guy was like 😂 I mean, I literally asked him to stop and he wouldn't 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:29 AM
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He was just showing how ridiculous he is, it's a completely male thing to do to sexually fetishise women of a certain background and then go and learn their language in order to fuck them 😂 And then to put that on me because I'm interested in traveling to South America. Gee, must be to fuck South American men, why else?!! 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:25 PM
9

Lmaooo! I just wrote fuck off James in another comment 😆 There was only one James, but I'm so traumatised by him that I just seethe if I come across the name on a dating app. I couldn't do it to myself again. Imagine giving another James a chance and he turns out to be another complete fuckface? Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:57 PM
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I have a bad history with the name James, but mine is a tall, skinny hipster with a big nose, lol. Not even that hot! 😆 What was I thinking, ugh. Fuck off James!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:52 PM
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As a polyglot, I will reply, lol. I have an interesting anecdote about dating. So I speak Serbian and Italian, but I have a parent of each ethnicity and I can get by in Spanish speaking countries with my little teeny bit of Spanish and fluent Italian. I am interested in achieving an intermediate level of Spanish at some point, but I was planning a huge South American trip in 2020 and well, I don't have to explain why that didn't happen, lol. Anyhow... Around Christmas, I went on a date with a So…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 04:44 PM
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I’m so entrenched in my love of privacy living by myself, the man who does someday stay want marriage will be ticking ALL the boxes. I feel the same. My life is completely free and autonomous. I live in a beautiful apartment in a beautiful place and before Covid, I traveled often. I don't explain myself to anybody about anything and I cannot, absolutely cannot, make a single concession for some half ass, uninteresting person with a penis, it's like... What do I get out of this other than some sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:11 AM
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no it makes me even madder because if you’re going to pay to take yourself out, shouldn’t women get literally something out of the deal? Exactly. The sexual value of a man in comparison to the sexual value of a woman is LOW. Men are easy to fuck, women, particularly desirable ones for the average male are much less so. And they bring so little to the table. What do I get out of spending time with you? You're a dime a dozen. And now you think you shouldn't pay for dinner because of eQuaLiTy??? We…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:58 AM
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I would just keep it really simple and explain to him that the role of a man in the family is a provider and a protector. When he has a family, a woman will have to grow the baby in her tummy and will most likely be the primary carer of the child, so it's up to the man to provide for them because that's all he really can do - provide financially and help around the house. Dating is a process of getting to know each other and showing each other your values and attitudes and a good father is someo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:51 AM
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If that was your point, that's what you would have plainly said, instead you made it about his immigrant background, which shows your prejudices and you got called out. Besides which, he was a young guy before he got with Britney and actually, he's still relatively young. Those are the kind of jobs people in their early 20s tend to do. It's not a dead end, it's the start of their working lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:42 PM
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Why do you assume he had nothing going on but "delivering pizza" just because he comes from an immigrant family? Most Iranians I've ever met are well-to-do and highly educated, and I'm not from Iran, so they were all immigrants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 11:01 AM
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I think it's possible/probable that he was a renta-boyfriend like you say, but they have developed some kind of genuine affection for each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:59 AM
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but something about him makes me not trust him He's too good to be true. That's what makes you not trust him, and rightly so in most cases. I feel the same way about him. Like WHAT is the real deal about this guy? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:55 AM
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also the way a lot of women are told that they will die alone and be looked down upon by their peers if they leave. I mean, this is real. I'm 42 and had to date through the rise of the dating apps in my 30's and no matter what else I have going on in my life, for a lot of people the fact that I was single was the one constant, glaring, fact about me and the way a lot of women in particular, made themselves feel like they are better than me, lol. The fact is, I could have had a man on my arm, if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:25 AM
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When I asked why he couldn’t figure that out in the 15 hours I’d been gone he said “I deserve a break” and he meant it. 😧 Sis, I am glad you took out the trash. What a fuckin dead weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:09 AM
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I dumped someone for this reason. He was such a cheapskate and I paid more than half the entire relationship and then he's like, do you want to have babies? Uhhh... NO. Not with you. I could see my life clearly with him moving into my beautiful apartment, me carrying the child, raising the child and then he'd show up and be like, here's my HALF of the electricity bill... um, no fuck off, thanks. WTF else do you do? How can you possibly contribute when you cannot carry the child and you most like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:56 AM
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To be fair, often mothers DO try to step in and for many reasons, it doesn't work or makes it worse. I say this because my 30-year-old cousin got married to her boyfriend who is over 15 years older than her. They had been together since she was 18 and her mum tried for years to dissuade her, disapprove, talk sense... nothing. She even froze her mother out for years and moved to another city! They've repaired their relationship somewhat, but if you criticise her relationship, she'll cut you out. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:10 AM
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Exactly, I do not eat pizza unless I know it's going to be authentic and amazing. It's just not worth it to me otherwise and not something I crave. I guess pizza really is like sex after all 💁🏻‍♀️🍕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:10 AM
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Agreed. But I also have a strong preference for not being breathed on and sweated on unless it's really really good. Lol. No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:04 AM
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I'm Italian and vehemently disagree. There is plenty of bad pizza and i would prefer to avoid it at all cost!!! Bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:59 AM
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I'm 42 and I love being my age. There's something distinguished and sophisticated about it that I personally did not have at any other age. At my age, you've been around the block and seen some shit and cannot be messed with. That's why they attach a stigma to "older" women and fetishise youth, because older women cannot be so easily influenced and controlled and will NOT be putting up with your shit 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:53 AM
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Lol, I'm 42, I feel the same. I look in the mirror and remember my age and what that's "supposed" to be like and I just laugh and laugh. It's a joke! I just do my thing and don't worry too much, but it is shocking when someone refers to like, 28 or even 36 as "old", I feel confused, hehe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:38 AM
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Agreed. And there's a lot to be said about someone who understands how to mirror your text frequency and not overwhelm you with nonsense. No greater turn off! I feel like that behaviour is an attempt to monopolise my time and is super needy and insecure. I need space to think about how I feel and I don't like someone in my face 24/7 in the early stages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 12:08 AM
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Well I did say the average male. Of course it's fine to buy flowers for a man if he would really enjoy them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:13 AM
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why does nobody think to give men flowers and hugs To be fair, I feel like this is a ridiculous Reddit or at least internet idea. I could walk up to anyone I know, of all walks of life, all ages, genders and if I said "waaah, why don't men get hugs and flowers?"... They would laugh in my face. Maybe not the hugs, but fucking flowers? Ugghh, God, fuck off Reddit idiot!!! Ridiculous. Can you imagine presenting any average spouse, brother, father, male friend etc with FLOWERS? I honestly can't thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:53 AM
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I spent a lot of time in Italy, in Bologna in 2019 and I was shocked at how beautiful, natural and down-to-earth all the young girls were, and it's a student town, most women you see there are very young. I honestly haven't seen girls like that where I live for a very long time. It's like you said, very sad and insecure... And in my opinion, a little desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:23 AM
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Oh my God, exactly! It's soooooo common where I live and I think most prevalent with the 20-somethings. Most women my age just get botox, and yes some have overfilled faces, but with the 20-somethings, its every second girl. Especially if you go to a bar or a club. Not that I frequent nightclubs, but I went to my younger cousin's birthday and was cringing thinking I'm going to look like the old gal at the club... nope... I did not. All those filler faces look 35+ easily. Not a young fresh faced …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:24 AM
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I tell him to drop his pants and show me just how small I need to make it. Haha! Zing! Never heard that before, I love it 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:19 AM
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Thank God I look exactly like my father. No one would ever do this to us. Gross. When you compare pictures of him at the same age as me, it's like... Male version, female version. Exact. Lol. OP should just call it out right away, just answer "nooooo that's my dad!", she could even throw in a "ew, gross!" for effect 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:43 PM
13

Donald Trump wouldn't!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:41 PM
13

His nest! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:34 PM
13

I am pro-vax, but most people will live through the pandemic with or without the vaccine. The mortality rate is about 2% on average. /u/ConstantNurse I have had the same thought... look how upset and fearful everyone is of the bloody vaccine, but no one gives a shit about the BC pills being given to women the world over for decades with a much higher rate of bloodclots 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:00 AM
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Honestly, I refused to walk out of the house without a full face of makeup until I was about 30. Then I used to do it, but felt ugly, but just didn't care if it was a short errand or the gym, etc. Today at 42, I feel beautiful with or without makeup. I just look more glam with makeup, everyone does, but I definitely don't feel I "need" it whatsoever. I cannot imagine that 25-year-old me "needed" make up to be pretty. It makes me really sad how deeply insecure I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:35 PM
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Good for you, sis! The whole world trades on our feeling like we're not enough and feeling insecure, I love women who honestly feel like Gloria... "no, I know it"... 😂😂😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💃 That's the goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:30 PM
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Oh I never romanticised my ex-husband, but I did get sucked into his lovebombing, initially. He basically told me that he decided the minute he met me that he was going to marry me and "became" exactly the person he knew I would want to marry... and now that he has revealed the "true Vince", I am a bad person because I don't love the real him and I made a vow 😂😂😂😌😫 I was like, the real you is a controlling, needy asshole and you better bring the fake Vinny back or we are getting a DIVORCE, lol. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:51 AM
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Thank you 🙏🏼✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:59 AM
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Thank you. I'm grateful every day I was strong enough to leave. My marriage was the kind that ticked all the superficial boxes so from the outside could look pretty idyllic. You know, the perfect social media/Facebook showcase. A lot of people live like that. I can't do it. If someone looked great before they met you and suddenly looks sad and haggard after allowing YOU into their life, the problem is probably you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:45 AM
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THIS!!! I am 42 and have great aging genetics and also take care of myself. People routinely think I am much, much younger than my actual age. When I was 26, married and completely miserable I had hunched, tight shoulders and a pot belly from stress and not being "allowed" a gym membership, I always looked drawn and fearful and one day, I was in a supermarket and I saw a reflection and I thought "oh God, that lady looks so dumpy, sad and middle-aged!"... to my absolute horror, a moment later, I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:16 AM
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This is me on like, every date in the last 2 years 😂😂😂 I'm like... Please no... Staaahp 🙃😔🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:30 PM
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The one at the 10 second mark!!! 😆😛😂😂👌🏼💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 03:52 PM
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moaning like a walrus 🤣🤣🤣💀 edited to add this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OAVL61yeCYs lolololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:22 AM
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He's an classless imbecile if he doesn't know what he did wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:34 PM
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This is me already, pre-covid lmao! 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:10 PM
15

throwing a mantrum 🤣🤣💀💀👌🏼 This is amazing, lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:37 AM
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I don't treat men like trash. I treat trash men like trash. Bingo!!! 💃🏼💃🏼 If I throw a rock into a pack of dogs, the one that yelps is the one that got hit. Just saying 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 01:33 AM
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Right? I've never been dumped in a LTR. Sure, sometimes people I went out with a few times never called me again, but I consciously ended my marriage and every other LTR because what was on offer was just too lame, too little, too crappy. And I mean, I could have faked it and had the perfect Facebook family in my marriage. My ex was very handsome and a high earner, we would have had really cute kids. But he was super controlling, viewed me as his property and our marriage was always a game where…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:32 AM
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You will NEVER know what that feels like Feels like paying half, low effort dates, low effort sex, smelling like BO and cheetos 💁🏻‍♀️ Prove me wrong, Kyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:15 AM
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I told a man once that I don't speak English and I'm a lesbian with this look on my face 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:21 AM
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I went on a date at Christmas and I just wasn't feeling the chemistry or the way this dude kept trying to push past my boundaries and insisting stuff, so I declined a second date. We had talked on the phone and texted on WhatsApp and Insta, so when I told him I wasn't interested and blocked him, I actually FORGOT to do it on Bumble... I got like 3 giant paragraphs telling me why I'm wrong like its cute and he actually told me I expect a Hollywood romance and my expectations are too high 🙄🙄😆 I re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:02 AM
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He's probably a big huge ugly catfish. WTF is wrong with wanting to do a video chat first up? Both parties get to see the other. Great way to vet. Glad she was so swift with the BLOCK 👊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:53 AM
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I'm howling! This is me!!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I said what I said! Good night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:15 AM
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climate change or mental illness Lol, people commonly deny those things exist too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:23 AM
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I actually think it's a better example to make a point, because yes, you're right, people do deny systemic sexism exists, but if he used that example, they would just agree with the first part of the video and the point would NOT be made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:16 PM
29

Right? I was like, this dumb motherfucker!!! 🔪😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:13 PM
12

What is she even doing? Her whole Tiktok is about promoting her creepy age-gap relationship. He looks like her dad. He has a daughter her age? Ok, it may be legal but it's predatory and absolutely creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:11 PM
21

Vanilla is making a comeback 🤙🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:44 PM
8

I don't know why she's explaining herself to that piece of shit, he gives exactly zero fucks and never will. I hope his penis shrivels up and falls off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:25 PM
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"the door still being wide open". He's delusional ✋🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:09 PM
10

I LOVE THIS 😍😍😍 Why I don't date, in a nutshell 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:05 PM
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Being a good person in all ways is paramount in a partner. Exactly, personal integrity is the highest value. Character. Being honorable and kind. Using someone and stringing people along for years is none of those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:57 PM
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I honestly had no idea who this was supposed to be, but it looks COOL. Then when you look at the actual cartoon image, the level of detail and quality of costume and makeup is AMAZING 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:54 PM
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Right?!! I was a teenager in the 90s and me and all my friends crushed on celebrities like Jeremy Jordan, Joey Lawrence, we loved Tony Thompson from Hi-Five (💔RIP), AC & Slater from Saved by the Bell, Leo back then looked like he didn't even have hair on his balls and we loved him too, lmao! We did not like old ass celebrities that are 35+. We liked our own age range.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:02 PM
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I’m not really surprised he looks the way he does now. Me either! so what are the hopes for Joe Schmoe looking good at 50? Exactly! 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:55 PM
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Lol, I'm 42, but my dating sweet spot seems to be about 33 - 36. I know a lot of people say they don't look their age (lie to themselves), but in the last month, I had two people assume I was born in the 90s, so I usually get dudes sitting across from me from online dating trying to disguise their shock and asking if I am really 42 like it says. I mean why would I lie about THAT? To get into the search results of all the George Clooney and Brad Pitt lookalikes in that age range? 😆 Ugh. God. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:09 PM
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I remember when I was 19, I had this creepy early 30s colleague who used to follow me around at work making conversation, etc. One day, he decided to be overt and openly flirt with me and my reaction was to recoil and exclaim "ewww, as if!!!"... 😂😂 It was a very Cher from Clueless moment, lmao! He got really mad at me and told me that was really mean. I don't remember what I said, but I didn't feel bad. I thought, YOU'RE OLD AND UGLY AND YOU HAVE A LOT OF NERVE!!! I want to high five 19-year-old…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:59 PM
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x2 I would theoretically date my own age, meaning, my search parameters are for +/- 10 years, but I never do because they are old, flabby and I'm just not usually attracted to them at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 02:50 PM
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He's probably never actually been with a woman, this is just what he imagines it would be like with a bisexual woman in his porny, rotted out mind. That, or the "bisexual" partners he's had have all been paid. He leaves that part out because it ruins his flex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:59 PM
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This is what stood out to me. Absolutely revolting way to talk about even a hypothetical someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:55 PM
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At least if she had some moral support. Women are gaslit 24/7 about leaving relationshits by the people around them. I would start a GoFundMe if she needed it, but it doesn't sound like money is her problem, tbh. She needs to find the strength and strategy to get this piece of shit out of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:13 PM
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I don't have tiktok or I would send her a message! At least let her know about FDS!!! She needs to support to drop this douchebag NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:11 PM
28

my then 4yr old said "why can't you just be good and do what daddy tells you to and then we could stay and be happy" Thank God you left, isn't terrifying to think what lessons children internalise without our meaning to. I'm glad your daughter won't grow up thinking this is just what relarionships are like 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:51 PM
30

She is still beautiful. She just needs a divorce, a nap and some concealer. Agreed. When I was married, I was so miserable, I had hunched over shoulders, I looked haggard, I gained weight (I wasn't allowed to have a gym membership and I was gaslit about it like "you can go running!"... I wasn't a runner back then, I hated it, in fact... still don't love most of the time, lol). One day, I was in a service station and I saw a woman's reflection in some glass or a mirror or something and she looked…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:49 PM
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But also, she said he climbed in the bed with her (after playing video games all day ofc) and said to HER, "So are you going to apologize?" How is this guy alive? I'm getting enraged by every further hideous detail. Do we know where this woman is? Can we help her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:40 PM
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He'll probably cry and blow snot bubbles about how he didn't mean it and she shouldn't throw everything they have away 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:32 PM
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Without love and emotional and financial support, wtf do they have to offer other than sperm? I don't need you for anything, bitch 💁🏻‍♀️ This is what I think they don't get. They're so busy worrying about gOLdiGgeRs, that they haven't thought this through. In a family unit, if you do not birth the child, if you don't do the childrearing and you also don't provide financially, then wtf is your value in this equation? Men value sex, in a society where women do it all, we can always access sperm. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:25 PM
46

He's really cruel, imo. Gaslighting her with "I don't even know why you're upset" (yes you do), treating her like she isn't special or important or like their marriage is special or important. If you feel like that, why even get married again? Another toxic loser that needs a lot of therapy 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:12 AM
2

She deserves everything she gets. She needs the lessons. Gross. I just cannot... I'm literally shuddering!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:10 AM
26

I think there’s something deeper happening here. I agree. There was something deeply troubling about this whole chain of events, I don't have your insight into it from it mirroring my experiences, but I did feel creeped out by the strict policing of your daughter's clothing. Something is very wrong here, and I sincerely doubt it has anything to do with the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:43 AM
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Lol, I looked through him the other day at the gym and I'm not sorry. I just think... If he wanted to, he would 🤷🏻‍♀️ This idiotic thing went on through ALL of 2020, yes, the gym was shut down for months and then he disappeared for awhile, but what is the freaking point? I thought it was endearing at first that I make him nervous, but now I'm like... Dude, you are not 15, we are not in the 9th grade. I'm just assuming he's a creep with a wife at home now, that's why I looked through him and didn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:39 PM
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I literally had the SAME experience, except swap the train for the gym. I knew he was totally into me because the first time I ever saw him (and the next few times), he followed me around looking like this 😳😳😳 He was really handsome, but I'm like... You're a MAN, over 35... If you like what you see, you can walk over and say, hey I'm so and so, I've wanted to chance to come over and introduce myself, it's nice to meet you. And take it from there. He took FOREVER to finally speak to me and the di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:24 PM
29

Absolutely zero conscience or empathy for another human being who deserves to go about their lives without feeling threatened and fearful. He doesn't get that he's already done the bad thing and he's a bad and threatening person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:32 AM
23

I love it! It ended well for the female MMA fighter, but I agree, for most women, the best advice would be to drive to your local police station. Check mate bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:23 AM
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The fact that he lacks the empathy to understand how cruel it is to make someone so genuinely fearful and that that in itself is not "harmless" in any way, is like a marching band of red flags. This guy is psychotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:21 AM
11

As someone who was stalked like this on my way back to my BnB while on a trip fairly recently (2019), and I honestly feared for my life. I feel like I only got back to the BnB because I kept my extreme wits about me. If I hadn't noticed I was being followed early, I'm sure something terrible would have happened to me, but I noticed before I got off to a more isolated area. And then I waited and waited and made it obvious I knew I was being followed and I was very strategic about getting back to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:11 AM
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A-men to this 🙏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:09 PM
14

Lmao! Exactly. My ex-husband was active duty US Marine when we first married and we lived on base in the VA/MD area, so I was around people with high security clearances all the time. They don't talk like this! Lmao! Several times, I've had men try to flex military service/tough guy credentials on me and you should see their faces when I start asking specific questions about their service and explain my ex was a vet 😂😂😂 It's gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:43 AM
10

Scott Disick 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:39 AM
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Lmaooo! A "national security matter" 🤡🤡🤡 Will he be able to keep a straight face when he says this? Will the intended target be able to keep a straight face? This scrote is ridiculous. If you actually had a job like that, you would just say you're a government contractor 😂 What typical sleazy dumb ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:35 AM
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You handled yourself PERFECTLY 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:46 AM
17

This is really sad to read. I don't feel any pity for him, just his wife and their two kids. But I wish more people realised that having kids is not just the cute Facebook reel of toddler pictures at the park. Unless you're very wealthy or have a lot of family support, it limits you because everything will now revolve around the child and childcare. Which is fine if you completely understand that. But I don't think a lot of people really do. And then I have had a lot of older people (60+) tell m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:03 AM
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They exploited everything. Everything has been in their favour, they got the best of everything, own all the property and younger generations are supposed to pump out babies they cant afford to guarantee THEIR retirement??? ​ Ughhh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:10 PM
17

We hardly exist, lol. I get called millennial or boomer depending on who I pissed off that day 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:08 PM
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Some 60 year old wanker's opinion about how many kids I need to have to support his Social Security and Medicare entitlements is of no matter to me. Seriously, who gives a fuck! That anyone with half a braincell could write anything like that about millenials just galls me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:07 PM
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I find the screeching about boomers and their worries about the lack of workers to fund their entitlements frankly disgusting. Honestly, that part of the article I found just staggeringly ignorant, blithely idiotic. Millennials have had everything harder. They came of age during the 2008 crisis, late stage Capitalism, housing markets full of hot air, low wages. Most of them cannot buy a house, afford a family and now they're being blamed that boomers won't have the retirement they deserve? WTF d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:57 AM
17

It's really sad, my grandmother was the best person in the whole world, but she was very traumatised by World War II and she was also very traumatised by her mother's death. She had very poor coping skills. But I miss her every day, she was the closest person to me. Everyone who knew her, loved her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:54 PM
4

I'm glad you have your sister, it's a big thing. You will get there!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:02 PM
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It's a really difficult time, I say what I say to be supportive and encouraging, I hope that's how its received. Don't second guess yourself. Don't listen to gaslighting from other family members. Do it when you guys feel you can 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:48 AM
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I hope you leave as soon as you're able to, don't feel guilty and don't look back! I had different difficult circumstances, but I really wish I left my family as soon as I was able to. I'm 42, so I'm able to say that with a lot of clarity and hindsight. Saying that though, if you leave, please work hard and keep a disciplined life. Study, work, focus on your goals. Don't get caught up with partying, drugs and lowlife men or other vices. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:43 AM
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This happened to my grandmother. She was 1 of 9 children, second youngest and her mother died. She had to quit school to look after her brothers and father. She was 9 years old. This was in a small mountain village in Yugoslavia in 1933. And I guess its still happening in the west in the 21st century.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:37 AM
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I had an ex who was pretty cultured and superficially intelligent, but he really assumed I wasn't. I would try SO HARD to get him to talk to me about art and movies and literature, all things he was interested in, and he'd just shut me down, ignore me, treat me like I'm dumb and don't know anything. I was a personal trainer at the time, he would even mansplain exercise science to me! It's totally possible that this woman isn't as shallow and unintelligent as her husband thinks she is, his ego is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:48 AM
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I mean, it's also easy to "deny" myself because most of them aren't even good at it. So I'm not even tempted unless there extraordinary chemistry, which hardly ever happens. It's a moot point for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:44 AM
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Simpin' ain't easy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:00 AM
14

I totally agree - my ex-husband used to walk faster than me and was an inconsiderate prick. He wasn't even that tall, just 5'9, lol. I totally use this as a check of basic kindness and consideration, along with things like being rude to wait staff. Being rude to wait staff? Walking way ahead of me? Nope. You're out. One of my most romantic personal experiences happened to me a year or two ago with A FRIEND (who admittedly had a crush on me). We had mutual friends and had never met before and we …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:44 PM
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I couldn't watch past 10 seconds 😬✋🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:11 AM
13

Yah, I'm thinking it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:40 AM
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I went on a date at Christmas and the dude did THE SAME THING, kept creeping into my personal space, touching, trying to whisper in my ear... Ugghhh... IT'S A FIRST DATE, can you please BACK THE FUCK UP ✋🏼😏 He literally said to me, oh you're so on edge, you're not comfortable with intimacy 🙄 We're not intimate fucknuts. I didn't know you from a can of paint 30 minutes ago. Back off. Dude was so confused when I didn't accept another date. Circumvented 2 blocks to find a way to text me paragraphs …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:12 AM
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I've got 20 years on you and I honestly think people have dramatically lost social skills. It's hard for me to date younger men, not because I can't attract them (by younger, I mean up to 10 years, so there still in their 30s), but because their social skills are so poor. I can barely tolerate the dry conversation and awkward stops and starts and having to do ALL the work to keep thing's flowing and fun... And I'm really good at that due to various sales roles I've had over the years. I can make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:13 PM
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I mean, I can buy my own dinner. Even at the fanciest restaurant, sitting across from someone I'm not interested in for 2 hours is not worth the price of any lobster or caviar to me. Ugh!!! Can you think of many things more awkward or tedious? So no Todd, I'm not "using" your for a $15 pad thai dinner, you fucking cheap piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:52 PM
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you are really only looking for CASUAL SEX and the low-effort “date” you plan doesn’t yield NSA This is the answer. Yes, most women I know are tripping over the free dick available at every turn. That's easy for most of us, but most of us don't want that. Fulfilling connection takes effort and investment for both sexes. I bet if he wasn't so busy swiping right on every woman and sending a "hey" message and taking these women "out" on low effort dates in the park where he tries to get a grope in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:49 PM
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Bahahaha... I didn't even say that, but I actually say that ALL THE TIME irl... they think they're the prize 😳🙄🤣🤣 Trust me, they are always so shocked when they discover I don't want their dusty ass. Show me your value or GTFO 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:20 PM
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I accidentally forgot to block him off of one thing and I get these paragraphs. I mean, I would have gone out with him again if he could keep his hands to himself and just let me get to know him. He's 36-years-old. Not being an octopus on a first date is the most barebones basic manners and respecting boundaries, if you don't have that, I'm not teaching you, dude. Don't think you can be taught. Old dog, new tricks and all that. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:33 AM
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You realise those dudes are almost all neckbeards and incels, lol. They have absolutely zero business judging anyone's looks and should be absolutely grateful if the most average woman alive ever touches their shriveled, porn battered penis one time in their miserable existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:33 AM
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I do too, but they are all just like Neanderthals with no grace or manners, no finesse. Nothing about it is sexy. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:24 AM
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EXACTLY. They feel so fucking entitled to your body these days, it's disgusting. I deleted all the apps last year and then, stupidly, I had a relapse with Bumble at Christmas. I went on one date. I vetted him well and we talked for about 10 days before the date, but holy fuck. Dude could not keep his hands to himself. Just could not stay out of my personal space. It's a first fucking date!!! Back off! I did enjoy his company and he was attractive, but I was just so annoyed by having to fight him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:22 AM
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Lmao, I have flat out been called stuck up (by women!) because when I was online dating (deleted all apps 12 months ago)... And why? Because I insisted they had to prove they were worth my time. Take at least a few days to build rapport WITHOUT demanding my phone number, entertain me, show me your not boring... Set up a date somewhere convenient for me. Or I'm not going. I've had female friends aghast when I explain my process, lol. Prove to me why a date with you is worth the effort of getting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:09 AM
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Wow, that's effort. He really loves you and your family 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:54 AM
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I think if you know someone you care about making happy really enjoys something like flowers, he can at least get you flowers on freaking Valentine's Day. That's shitty. And a voucher for a dinner on another date? Why bother with any of it? He could just take you to dinner on another date. Flowers are not much to ask for. Seriously. Some people are raised with this is attitude that you should be grateful for be whatever you get. I wholeheartedly disagree with that sentiment, particularly when it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:49 AM
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It's really hard work as an adult. I feel like I really only began to understand the concept of boundaries post 27, and REALLY only got the full hang of things after 35 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:24 AM
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Lmao @ dusty ass 😆 Amen, sister. You're a great mum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:22 AM
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Thank you 🥰 Honestly, I feel like my age is just this abstract number at this point. I actually laugh when I hear it, but sometimes it freaks me out because I can't believe that is number attached to me these days 😳🙃🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:33 PM
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Thanks, that means a lot to me 💙 Lately, I've been asking myself if whatever I'm doing would please my 17-year-old self, lol. As long as it's not totally stupid, or destructive, I go and do that and it makes me GIDDY 👌🏼😆😃😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:19 PM
12

Lmao x2 🚀🚀💎👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:15 AM
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I turned 42 last month. I've always been conventionally attractive, but I definitely look better now. The wall is a myth. When I look at pictures of me in my 20's my face is plumper and I think I look sweet, soft and naive (and I was!). In my 40's, I've lost some of the facial fat and it's worked in my favour. I do take immaculate care of myself. I run 2 - 3x a week, I still go to gymnastics and I lift weights. I feel and see no sense of age in my body whatsoever. I am genetically blessed with g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:56 AM
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A man, I'm sure! 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 07:51 PM
2

Bingo! Reality check.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:10 AM
33

I'm another. I'm secular as fuck. And 100% rad fem and anti-porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:05 AM
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I wore full briefs with my leggings to the gym yesterday, and I thought about changing them for half a second and then couldn't be bothered. I will 💯💯 do the same today 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:01 AM
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Neither one of these women would ever give this scrote two seconds of her time. This is what I was thinking... As if she cares? As if anyone cares 😆 If this guy has any pull at all, it's only because he looks like he has money. It's certainly not his award winning personality. He's clearly a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:59 AM
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Wow, what a fucking loser. Imagine making the effort to tweet something like that thinking your opinion actually matters?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:56 AM
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> There is literally no point. Do I miss the physical affection? Of course, but the way things were going before I took my stand in life because of this place - it came at far, far too high a price. It isn't worth my freedom. This is why I'm not dating. It's like dumpster diving. You have to search and search for weeks and months to find something of even marginal value. I just prefer to invest my energies elsewhere. Simple as that. I miss physical affection too, but I can't be intimate in any w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:25 AM
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Pornography and the internet is seriously destroying society. This shouldn't be normalised, it's not "normal". It's really sad that young girls think this is a good way to make money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:16 AM
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I went on a date recently and we did get along really well, I just didn't want to make out with him or have sex any time soon and it was hard enough to fight him off just on that first date, which is why I didn't accept another and afterwards he was confused about why I didn't want to see him again. If he would just slow his roll and not make me feel pressured at all to get physical, I would have accepted another date 💁‍♀️ You can't get to know someone when they're always trying to fast forward …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:27 AM
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I hated 50 Shades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:17 AM
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Seriously I got told not to "blame" an entire community when AH is just abusive and it has nothing to do with BDSM. Oh fuck offffffff 🖕🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:16 AM
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They don't even offer that. I love sex but I don't participate in casual sex at all because a) I cannot tolerate the disrespect b) they're mostly bad at sex!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:11 AM
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Not that I agree with that paradigm, but they used to provide everything 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:10 AM
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Lol, exactly. Women were good little wifeys when the man provided EVERYTHING in the home. Why would I do that for you when you provide nothing and won't even take me on a nice date? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:08 AM
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9 YEARS?!! 😦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:04 AM
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Who are you to objectify and commodify another woman like this? I don't give a fuck what your ex and his cousin say and think about her looks (or you for that matter), she's a human being and her value as a wife and a person goes far beyond anyone's subjective assessment of her looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:03 AM
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Her comments are completely contemptuous in this really detached, creepy way and absolutely tone deaf. Whoa!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 08:53 AM
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When he's done with Grimes, she'll be nothing, and everyone knows it. What a creepy thing to say. Why would you say that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 08:46 AM
11

I used to be so confused about things, but these days I never listen to anything they SAY. I listen to what they DO. He actually couldn't stand me and I knew it, I just let myself be "confused" by his words and the sex. It's pretty sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:02 AM
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I have an ex fiance that I think just wanted to marry me because I was a curvy brunette with an exotic accent, but he actually hated me 😂😭😭 He wouldn't talk to me about anything. Everything he said to me was dripping in contempt. He was never nice to me. When I went home to Australia to visit my family and came back, not only did he not pick me up from the airport but he didn't even call me, return my calls or respond to my texts for a day and a half, and when I said "wtf"... He told me to stop …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:11 AM
5

A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:28 PM
4

Betty Broderick has entered the chat 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:23 PM
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And he took her to a PARK for 3 hours as a first date! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:59 AM
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You nailed it. This is the new "nice guy" schtick. All he cares about is sex and putting in the least amount of effort to get it. Garden variety scrote trying to pretend he's something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:57 AM
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And the first date was 3 hours in a fucking park. The nerve of this guy!!! Absolutely pathetic. She dodged a bullet. Can't even take her on a real date and gets pissy that she didn't want to talk about sex immediately. Loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:51 AM
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I mean, my instant thought was about his old ass sperm swimming sideways and backwards and bumping into shit trying to find an egg inside a Fleshlight. He is old and ugly and old sperm is just as problematic if not MORE SO than an old egg, so what the fuck ever dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:57 PM
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I second this. This covers about 80% of them, especially anyone who ever made a derogatory comment a woman's looks. Then it's like 95%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:36 PM
12

Right?!! I mean, I know a bum deal when I see one. It's that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:36 PM
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This is exactly why I dumped my last boyfriend. He couldn't figure out why I was so ambivalent about babies with him... Uhhh... The reason is, you are a fucking tight ass little bitch and you expect me to pay half for everything. Are you going to carry half the baby for 9 months? Are you going to do half the recovery? Half the nappies? Half the child-rearing and household duties? I don't fucking think so, Joe. Hence my ambivalence 🙄 The only thing he will do half of is continue putting his hand …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:54 AM
2

Absolutely beautiful flowers, they look like a drawing! Congrats on your date night, I love this! I should buy myself beautiful bouquets just because, too 💐😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:09 AM
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Thank you for putting that together, I guess it demonstrates the extraordinary privilege of our time that I'm flabbergasted most of these even needed to be argued. RBG was a truly extraordinary human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:33 AM
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What an amazing lady. RIP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:23 AM
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I'm still laughing!!! That's gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:13 AM
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I honestly howled with laughter at that line. That's what I'm here for, keep em coming ladies 🙏🏼😛🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:04 AM
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Right?!! I mean, girl... If he's your man and you don't know exactly where he is at 3am, dump him. He's already too much trouble. Get your beauty sleep 💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:58 AM
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I actually have a high libido, so I rarely turned down sex. But when I was married, on the rare occasion I didn't feel well and didn't want to have sex, my ex would insist and then get pissy that I wasn't "into it", when he's forcing me during a migraine. Or another time was after a looooong road trip and I just wanted to go to sleep, he had a complete tantrum because I didn't want to have sex and then he got mad that I was "just laying there"... I could barely keep my eyes open and this guy wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:59 PM
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How is any of this love? Why do women think they need men like this? I mean you can go to a sperm bank, make your life simple. What joy did he bring to her life? He sounds utterly contemptuous and this sounds like a dry, contractual business arrangement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:07 AM
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Right?!! Wtf. I hope a piano falls on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:04 AM
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Bahaha... Good God, I know. I talk about dating with some of my mother's friends who are 70ish and at that point, it's the night of the living dead 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:32 PM
4

Yes, it's happened twice on different dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:30 PM
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Wait til you hit your early 40's 🤦🏻‍♀️ I've been on dates where other men congratulate my date for snagging a much younger woman and he's had to tell them we are actually the same age 🤣🙄🤷🏻‍♀️ Usually if I date a man my own age, I look like I'm dating someone older and if I go late 40's, then it looks like my father. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:53 PM
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I got blocked on a dating site in my country because they said I was fake and they needed to completely verify my identity before unblocking me. I refused, because 1) I'm not fake or fraudster 2) I hadn't even messaged anyone yet, so what, someone just decided I have to send in my legal documents arbitrarily that no other member has to do, what an invasion of MY privacy. Go to hell. I mean, it was kind of flattering I guess, that my real pictures and whatever got flagged as being too good to be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:49 PM
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Don't be too hard on yourself. Your sister is amazing to run such a tight ship, but everybody is depending on her. If she sleeps in or lets one of the strings go, things will pile up, fall apart and guess who will have to do more work to catch everything up? That's a hell of a motivation. I'm single and live alone, if I leave the dishes in the sink after one meal or sleep in an hour, it's not really that big of a deal. If anyone is depending on me for any reason, I'm up like a shot and motivated…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:39 PM
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Aaaw, he's adorable! Dogs are the best. He's the goodest boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:31 PM
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I mean, I dated there before the advent of dating apps. They added a whole new level of fuckery to everything, IMO. The mindgames are a thing here in Sydney too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:49 PM
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This is exactly what happened to me. Someone was ranting in DatingOverThirty about some crazy poster who also posts here, so clearly she's out of her mind. I was like... Hmmmm... What is this sub, let me look 🤣🤣🤣 Never left, this is my first stop on Reddit these days 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:02 AM
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They say it's because she refuses to express any remorse, but you know what, I don't think she would have even recieved the max sentence if her husband wasn't who he was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:40 PM
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George was the quintessential LVM, lol. Remember when he got a toupee and then found out the woman he was dating was actually bald too and dumped her? Elaine: but you're bald too George: No I'm not (pats his toupee) Elaine: YOU'RE BAAAALLLD!!! Then she snatches it off his head and throws it out the window 🤣👌🏼 Edited to add the scene: https://youtu.be/eYSgk2oC3-s Typical LVM hypocritical behaviour. George Costanza is the perfect comedic caricature of this type. If he existed in 2020, he'd be a mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:58 AM
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All this and two more words: Betty Broderick. Fuck these guys and their precious ass "prenups".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:52 AM
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I actually lived in the bay area from 2006 - 2010, in SF from the end of '07 until I left... It really wasn't a great dating scene either, unless you were into super nerdy guys. I love San Francisco, I consider it my American home, but what you're saying about the dating pool there is right on... Sooooo many weirdos, obviously a lot of men there are also just into other men and then the tech crowd that supposedly makes it so "man heavy"... Are really awkward and have poor social skills, generall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:18 AM
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Haha, no, but I lived in NYC for 2 years in 2010/11 and I had no problem dating there at all. It's held up as a paragon of an awful places for women to date and I'm here to say Sydney is 100x worse than New York. So yeah, it's Sydney, Australia. It's just a weird mix of a ultra superficial, money obsessed culture here, very status orientated, a very transactional mentality in dating, uptight and very cliquey social vibe so its hard to strike up conversations when out and about... you just get bl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:39 AM
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And it’s funny how they think we would expect commitment after one date. Bro I don’t even know you. Dating is a process. I take longer to decide which dress to buy. Right?!! I've said as much to these guys too when they act like they're doing you a favour by considering you because they have so many choices. What makes you think I'm going to choose you as my boyfriend? Gtfoh. (I live in a city with many more beautiful women then available or even worthwhile men, and everyone knows it, especially…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:06 PM
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Yep... My comment was going to be because he wants to get his dick wet 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 11:03 PM
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I honestly don't even know what the fuck I just read, she sounds completely demented and not living in reality. And this is in GQ? The sad state of journalism in 2020, good God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:54 PM
2

Wtf, she dodged a bullet. Thank the trash for taking itself out, sis. Bye. What good man even threatens to raise his hand to you? He's a piece of shit. She was right to react in serif-defence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:46 PM
2

I agree completely, I just think after 30 you have more agency and less naivety to weigh up the pros and cons of a situation and decide if it's right for you and what you want out of it. Someone suggested to me I should date a lot older and my reasons for not doing so are exactly what you said, and also that I extremely rarely, like almost never, find older men attractive. Forgive me for flattering myself, but even when I date men my own age (early 40s), for one, I struggle to find an attractive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:55 PM
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I don't think anyone's saying he hasn't aged, he's just aged exceptionally well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:49 AM
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Why the fuck are people mad about it? I just googled them, they look GREAT together, and she's as smoking hot as ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:46 AM
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Agreed. I think once you're over 30 it really doesn't matter at all, although really large age gaps always raise eyebrows (like 20+ years). Ultimately, it's no one's business. It's just predatory when one party is very young and being chosen because their age is fetishised and they're easy to manipulate and won't call you on your plethora of red flags and character flaws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:41 AM
7

Exactly, is completely gross and abnormal and predatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:54 AM
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Do you know one single well-adjusted 20-year-old girl who dates 35-year-olds or older? I do not. Large age gaps are almost always predatory. You can't be "legitimately into" your own exploitation. And these men often don't want to date women their own age because they will be called out on their plethora of bullshit, and not even that, women their own age often wouldn't even date them. FDS women need to be educated about and weary of age gaps and how fucked up they almost always are, you obvious…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:42 AM
6

No muscle, sloping shoulders... Ewww... No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:33 AM
6

PREACH!!! ✊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:32 AM
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Really?!! The age gap is a massive red flag, much worse than the dad bod. I'm in his age range and I have opened up my Tinder preferences for amusement from 18 to 100 before, and whenever some kid in his late teens or early 20s superliked me, I cringed. They look like children to me. I just want to feed them milk and cookies and tuck them into bed, anything beyond that hurts my brain because they don't even look like proper adults to me. It's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:31 AM
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Right?!! Most of my friend group is married with kids and they all look immaculate. They take care of themselves and workout. One of them even has abs. Nobody is a slouch. We were all born in the 70s 💅🏼 One of them got separated from her husband last year and it was mutual, he's eating his words and actions now because he has a receding hairline, dad bod and I'm sure didn't get a ton of action on the apps, and certainly not with anyone of the aesthetic calibre of his wife, who is legitimately be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:24 AM
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Thank God women are waking up from all the gaslighting we recieve on a micro and macro level every goddamned day 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:14 AM
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Self-awarewolves 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:10 AM
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I'm watching this on Netflix right now and it's making me rage 🤬🤬 One of my friends and I were talking, unrelated to this, and we were saying how WE WANT A WIFE. Can you imagine how wonderful it is to have someone cook and clean for you, have your babies, raise your babies and organise and liaise with your social circle and extended family and all you have to do is go to work and bring home the bacon? The audacity not to fucking appreciate it, to have contempt for the person who completely MAKES…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:33 AM
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Right?!! Absolutely pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:40 PM
2

There's a lot nakedness and sex soaked imagery and scenes, but I don't remember any actual sex on camera.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:16 AM
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I think we should still at least present the evidence, some people will take it on board, but won't admit to your face that you were right or that you showed them something. It chips away at their misinformed opinion, even if they don't show you. I totally get what you're saying though, I have a vegan, antivaxxer friend and she flat out tells me she doesn't believe in science. So how can you argue with that? You can't. I just try to avoid the topic because she is a very old and very good friend …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 02:14 AM
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Maybe consider the fact that you're not special and nothing you do is actually remarkable at all. Step up your game 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 02:36 PM
2

I got completely attacked by the MRA brigade for essentially saying that you need to be attracted to your date and catfishing is shitty. Some dude said I was superficial, maybe if people like me weren't so superficial, people wouldn't feel the need to use fake pics 🙄😂🤦🏻‍♀️ Logic, ok? 😂 And the pile on of personal attacks began. One of the female mods who always had it in for me (and who also took over the whole sub) gave me 3 day ban, I told her she could make it permanent. Bye. I honestly didn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:37 AM
3

Let's draw the line at Gollum 😂😂 Don't go there, sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:57 AM
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Hairy Back and Moobs WHY GOD WHY?!! Kill it with fire! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:40 AM
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This is why I unsubscribed from Dating Over 30. They defend that behaviour and every post disintegrates into angry men picking on some woman and the pickme's acting like "the cool girl" elbowing each other out of the way to show how cool they are and take a swipe as well. I was a member when there were 3000 members, it used to be a cool space where you could discuss things in mixed company and get all kinds of different viewpoints. It hasn't been that for a few years now at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:57 AM
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Typical libfem nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:53 AM
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Right??!! I'm like wtf is she talking about with "expensive" elaborate salads? I mean, I eat elaborate salads almost daily, I don't understand what the issue is, lol. Eggs, veg and romaine mix are all cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:48 AM
4

Most of them don't want a girlfriend, they just want to get their dick wet 🙄 So raise your standards and don't allow them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:05 AM
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I think he meant he wouldn't "live in sin", you know... Shack up without marriage. I mean, that's the only thing that remotely makes sense. But that doesn't make much sense anyway. He's an imbecile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:26 AM
4

Bathe in their tears, ladies, bathe in their tears. Amen, Queen 🙌👑😁🤣🤣💃🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:54 PM
13

My favourite movie of all time is probably Steel Magnolias. I know every line, I laugh and cry so much through the whole movie every time, sometimes I only don't want to watch because I don't have the emotional strength. I mean it's really funny mostly, but Julia Roberts' storyline is really tragic. Ouiser Boudreax (Shirley McClain) is one of my favourite characters OF ALL TIME 😂😍😂😂💕 https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0098384/characters/nm0000511
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:50 PM
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Literally me in my marriage, lol. He cried snot bubbles the day I really left after actively mocking me in contempt for over 6 months about "bluffing". Then he told everyone he was blindsided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:40 PM
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men owe it to all other men to shame and hate women who do not fit that narrow attractiveness standard Uhhhh... because that hasn't already happened. It's called modern beauty standards and is controlled by men who control the markets and media, aka The Patriarchy. They actively shame us into being smaller, weaker (mentally and physically) and deeply insecure (obsessed with our looks) because it keeps us buying things to fix our "flaws" and desperate for validation via relationships with men. In…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:38 PM
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I deleted Hinge and Bumble yesterday after my first online "date" in ages because I'm just feeling the same. It's a waste of time. I wasn't excited about the dude and wasn't feeling any chemistry via messages, but he seemed nice and he offered to come to a coffee shop in my area, so since I had to just literally walk down the street and he was nice, I went (my friend irl convinced me to go). It was like a pleasant conversation at a party with someone you're never going to talk to again. I got ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:43 PM
21

Right? Who takes someone to a steakhouse specifically for a steak and then asks if you’re still getting a steak? So pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:39 PM
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Ugh!!! GoLDigGer!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:32 PM
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He's a classless moron. Have some respect and self-control you neanderthal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:37 PM
4

Exactly. Totally classless, dumb, boring human with nothing to offer mentally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:50 PM
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The point is that he's not HV. He seems HV because he looks good, has his shit together and is personable/intelligent/etc... But he's actually a fuckboy like any other. The moral of the story is: don't let your guard down so easily, don't be too eager and vet them. Vet vet VET.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:32 PM
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She did. It was 23 years ago, thankfully. She's still here and healthy and happy. He doesn't really have a relationship with his daughter, surprise surprise. She more or less despises her father and thinks he's pathetic. For all their jabber about parental alienation, I don't know a single person who is alienated from their father who was present, trying and an all around really great guy that just got a raw deal from his evil ex-wife. Not a single one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:56 PM
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I was coming here to say this. These are the gifts that porn has given us. This is what porn has normalised. This guy feels entitled to violent facefucking, I can guarantee you that at no other time in history has this been considered normal sexual behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:46 PM
4

Right??!!! Nothing more to say. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:44 PM
65

This exact thing happened to my aunt. She got breast cancer and her husband walked right out on her and their 7-year-old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:37 PM
6

I was coming to comment that I love her shoes! 🥰😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:59 AM
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What is wrong with people? I'm sorry that happened and I'm sorry about your friend. Lots of love to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:52 PM
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Could not have said it better myself. Yes, sometimes some of the posts and comments devolve into outright misandry, but I think in the context of like, fucking EVERYTHING, it's understandable 💅 Ultimately, our goals are good, healthy, loving relationships with good men. Or being happily single. Red pill's ultimate goal is gaming and manipulating women and using them for sex, completely invalidating us as human beings. There is no good outcome for a woman in Red pill ideology. You are just an int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:50 PM
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This is the truth!!! 😂🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:42 PM
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I love it, lol. Followed! 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:41 PM
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Well all this shit already happened to me, most of my family is dead... I really only have a mother and an aunt, no kids, no husband. My mother is a textbook narc who lives in another country anyway. It's not that bad. So what. Better than being with a LVM to complicate and frustrate your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:35 PM
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Don't convince yourself life is so limited. It's isn't. It's important to have standards, absolutely, but you can have all you want. Focus on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:46 AM
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It's Reddit neckbeard delusions in an echo chamber... Not reality 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:37 AM
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It's very much a Reddit thing. I also used to post at DOT, that's how I got onto Reddit. I'm tired of all the gaslighting about paying your way and "not all men" bullshit that goes on in there. Amongst other things. People IRL realise that women these days can and often do look amazing past 40. I live somewhere that everyone pays a lot of attention to their looks, so this is very true where I am. The myth that men age like fine wine lingers as a concept, but in reality, most women will comment t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:31 AM
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Actually avoiding men who say anything about your eating habits is usually a good idea. Bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:26 AM
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It's because the fit ones understand what it takes to stay fit! This is why I don't date ugly dudes. They're the most delusional ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:23 AM
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Their penis is also as big as her thumb too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:21 AM
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Lmao! Even Megan Fox didn't look like Megan Fox, she was a very pretty girl, but she's had her looks seriously tweaked to look the way she does today. She's had very good work done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:21 AM
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Right?!! As if Will and Jada were separated and Will motherfucking Smith was lonely in his bed by himself that whole time masturbating and crying 🙄😒😒 Plus, I've been hearing rumours since the 90s about their open marriage and swinging. None of this is new. They just had to address it because Jada's boyfriend spoke about it publically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:15 AM
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Imagine that 🙄😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:31 PM
6

As someone who got on to the internet for the first time in the late 90s, I love your username 😂💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:29 PM
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It's such a complete and total lie that they age better than us. They age like spoilt milk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:21 PM
5

Absolute shameless jackass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:45 AM
16

I'm the same way! I'm not physically attracted to other men while in a relationship. I can appreciate an objectively good looking man, but that's where it stops. If that's the definition, then I'm the same way. In fact, I'm the same way when I'm single. It's very hard for me to feel anything beyond mild appreciation for good looks if I haven't talked to you or had any sense of our personal chemistry. If you say something dumb/hateful/ignorant, all attraction evaporates! But yeah, in a relationsh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:58 AM
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I think it's normal, especially in long term relationships, to feel attracted to others. It happens 🤷🏻‍♀️ What is not normal and NOT OK is flirting, openly checking others out, hitting on others, any escalation whatsoever, porn... That is fucking disrespect and disloyalty and I will not tolerate it within a relationship. To me, it's about respect. Control your urges. Be an adult. Take responsibility for your behaviours. It's 2020... If you don't want to be in a committed relationship, then don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:54 AM
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Haha, right? I love my apartment in a security building. We have someone on site 24/7 and everything is monitored. Gives me peace of mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:41 AM
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This is my mother 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:37 AM
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I have a relatively high libido and have dumped two long term relationships because they were withholding sex as punishment. My ex-husband did that to me. Everything was a game and a powertrip. I don't talk to him anymore, but I used to enjoy asking him how life was with his downgrade 2nd wife, lol. This is a big part of why I've stayed single, I've met men I like... But they are often so bad in bed I just don't enjoy sex with them. Physical intimacy and true passion is one of the main things I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:17 AM
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I don't think that's true, I think a lot of people, men and women alike are understanding what a detriment pornography is to the individual and society as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:10 AM
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Breakingmom depresses me 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:04 AM
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I don't read it regularly, but it sometimes comes up on my feed and I'm reminded how much WORK relationships are and I'm thankful I'm so picky. Also, completely agree. Sex and physical intimacy are so important. When I'm in a relationship, I have a high libido (I don't enjoy casual sex). I have a pretty great life and lots of friends and people who love me, one of the biggest motivators for me to find a relationship is sex 🤣🤣🤣 I wouldn't even bother looking for a man otherwise. I have plenty of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:03 AM
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That gets my back up right away!!! I wouldn't have been able to hold back on telling them I'm definitely the one doing the picking, bro 😳🤣👊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:31 AM
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I have not heard that before and I really like it 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:58 AM
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Right?!! Long live the nest jokes 👏👏😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:54 AM
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I was coming to make a nest joke 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:53 AM
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Go to the gym and stand behind another man and stare at his ass while he’s doing squats. Just stand there and stare. Do this repeatedly every time you see a man at the squat bar. This is the answer. Do it, and watch what happens to you, motherfucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:10 PM
5

Or maybe, jerk, I'd like to decide if you're worth my time before I meet you? EXACTLY 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:34 PM
4

Honestly, I loaded up Hinge last week trying to have a good attitude about it and I got so OVER pushy males in literally one night. Like, I am not going to exchange two messages with you and then agree to a date or give you my number just like that. I want to see if there is a rapport first, nothing over the top... A couple days of communication. I'm not here to have a drink with every guy who asks just like that. It just kills the conversation when you're a couple messages in and it's "I don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 02:30 PM
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I love the answers other good women here have given you as to why things are the way they are. The only thing I would add since you seem to want to "avoid" a certain type of woman, is perhaps steer clear of the party girl. Find someone in your own circles, with similar values to you. There are plenty of smart, sensible young women with good values in their 20's. Women at any age are not a monolith. We are diverse. In my experience, the girls who tend to go through a bad boy phase are party girls…
/r/askFDS12/07/20 11:45 AM
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Really?!! She's 50. I don't know many 50 year olds that look THAT good. She looks terrific even in the less flattering photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:39 AM
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I've actually been pretty lucky with this for some reason... My ex-husband was an exceptional cook, ex-fiance was an executive chef (!), and ex-boyfriend from 2 years ago was a decent home cook. The rest have known enough to take care of themselves and prep a simple meal for me. I'm a very good home cook myself. I don't think it's acceptable for children not to learn basic cooking skills 🤷🏻‍♀️ It's a basic life skill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:00 AM
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Hey, I think my membership got denied? I sent it via Instagram and mine is public, so it's very clear that I'm a legit woman. I checked the code and I did put it in correctly, I tried to re-use it it says "access denied" 😳 It submitted it 3 days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:39 AM
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Seriously, I've never heard a man irl complain about stretchmarks. I got quite a few during puberty and they've faded at this point to the faintest silvery lines... I've never thought twice about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:32 AM
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I had a similar experience, I posted a picture of myself at the pool at the age of 9 to my Insta stories and some old creeper I worked with 10+ years ago that always makes creepy comments was like, "YESSS!!! Finally get to see you in a swimsuit" 🤦🏻‍♀️ I guess he thought it was a cute joke, but I'M 9-YEARS-OLD in the fucking picture and it's a gross comment! The other sad thing about that picture is the I remember hating that picture when I was little because I was already aware of "being fat" an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:51 PM
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Not just cheap... Uncultured and classless. We are not compatible 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:56 AM
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It was also posted on /r/choosingbeggars I mean, I don't like her response and listing all the ways she's "worthy", but she's right 😂 It's also so exhausting how pervasive this man-centric, pickme, libfem attitude is in life in general... Like, you expect a man to have any grace, generosity or chivalry at all then you sUpeRfiCAL and a gOLdigGer 🙄🙄🙄 One of my single friends IRL was complaining about how she went on a date and she doesn't drink, so all she ordered was a diet coke which was $2.50 a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:54 AM
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I agree. She was right to be turned off by Applebees, but her post was cringey AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:41 AM
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my cab driver puts in more effort than the clowns around here. Wow, this is the damn truth 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:39 AM
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I'm so glad you woke up, I was getting enraged for you reading about him inviting a hookup to his party and flirting in front of you and all the other shitty things he says and does. You deserve better. And even if better doesn't come along, you're better off free, self-sufficient and alone that with a deadweight man like that who disrespects you regularly and makes you feel like shit. He is unworthy of a woman like you. Good for you for seeing that 👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:28 AM
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Lmao... What is she going to say? What can she say? Okay is about right. You did your duty. She knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:12 AM
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Block! click 😂 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:08 AM
10

I was thinking this. Just sounds like emotional issues manifesting as disease, which is essentially what I believe all disease is, really. This one just seems more obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:05 PM
4

A smelly bird!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:57 AM
23

Honestly, it's really fucking funny, lol. "He loves his nest".... GTFO 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:56 AM
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Honestly, question number one is what has kept me single all these years. All of them are a net negative. All you get out of most relationships is social validation that you "have" a man in your life. Once you understand that bullshit trope for what it is and the misogyny that underlies it, there's no going back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:54 AM
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Whoa! GenderCritical got the boot 🤦🏻‍♀️ I sent through a request, I love this place, love you ladies ✊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:45 AM
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Do you want her to be your girlfriend or do you just want to fuck her? I'm really not clear on that even after reading your post. If its the latter, leave her the hell alone. It's obvious she's not interested in casual sex. If you actually really like her and want her to be your girlfriend, TELL HER. Ask her how she feels about you. If you're on the same page, become exclusive. Use your words. Stop guessing.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/20 10:20 AM
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I also had a cousin who would ask me with a panicked look on her face once a year or so "HAVE YOU MET ANYBODY?" 🤬🤬🤬 🖕🏼 The levels of anxiety these people produce!!! Thankfully she shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 05:55 AM
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My family did this to me too, encouraged me to just get knocked up... My grandma, God bless her, I loved her so much, but she would put the screws into me about how it was her one wish to see my child before she died 🤦🏻‍♀️ (She died in 2014).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:03 AM
10

I'm so happy for you! What a beautiful ring! This is the energy we women need to celebrate 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:40 AM
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Men say women are so boring, but all 90% of them ever do with their spare time is watch porn and play video games. I mean, my hobbies aren't grounding breaking stuff, but at least travel is cultural, the gym is healthy and socialising is another healthy habit , meditation... Damn, I'm a rather well rounded individual 😂💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:41 AM
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Right?!! Don't have sex with him again. Dump him. That's how you cOMuNiCAte with this POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:02 AM
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Dicks are a dime a dozen. Market value extremely low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:59 PM
46

"He took and took from me until I no longer existed. That's murder" Wow, I haven't seen this movie, but I might have to watch it. This really resonates with me about my marriage. This is why I tell anyone who will listen that marriage is a con for women. I was just expected to become this accoutrement to his life. He called all the shots. Anything I wanted or cared about was unimportant or unrealistic. It was always a no, not now, or even that's stupid and contempt. He used to sit smugly on the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:02 AM
23

Shame is a seriously underrated emotion in 2020 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:01 AM
15

NO YOU WON'T and I promise you, being alone is actually great. I know it's scary from where you're sitting, but you are better off without him and even if no one good enough comes along, you're STILL better off alone than with him. I've been married, I left, I never got remarried and guess what? My life is fantastic. I have a beautiful apartment by the beach, financial independence, I'm super fit, I have lots of friends, family, I travel a lot and do what the fuck I want. My life is way better i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:57 AM
1

It's pretty stupid because no one in the Anglosphere is drafted and many women can and do serve. On the other hand, using his logic, he should sit down since he's OLD AS FUCK so therefore also cannot serve and cannot be drafted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:25 PM
1

Really, are you this obtuse? It's both. It's not an either/or. Porn offers literally nothing good to society, not for the women who participate in it or the men who rely on it and become ever more twisted little greasy basement dwellers.
/r/askFDS10/05/20 03:24 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but I don't care so much about my partner having a huge wang. I've had mindblowing sex with an average sized guy and also with bigger dudes... Great sex is always some part chemistry, and some part technique and attentiveness, not so much size. You can't control chemistry. It's either there or it isn't. But you can learn to be a better lover and you can be attentive and sensual. The worst is some guy who thinks he knows some magic technique that his ex liked and won'…
/r/askFDS13/03/20 07:19 PM
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and nothing wrong with that if they don't mind the three inches or the dick that looks like a traffic cone 😂😂😂 I seriously come here every day mostly for the belly laughs! 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:08 PM
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