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6

This is important
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 01:27 PM
4

Nothing says confidence more than the “are you suuuure 🥺?!” move /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 01:24 PM
110

Unsweetened 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 12:57 PM
14

His neck looks extremely soft and white
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 03:06 PM
11

Girl, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 01:26 PM
38

I’m sorry that you initially thought anything about this person was HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:22 PM
7

You said it better than I could. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve heard “oh you’re a shy girl…” No, I just don’t like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 02:03 AM
229

So basically a guaranteed STD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 01:52 PM
1

Oh absolutely. I’m just saying if you’re going to have a fwb, it should at least be with satisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 08:54 PM
6

Otherwise, what’s the point of fwb then??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 11:22 PM
303

These are important guidelines, and I wish I had this guidance years ago. I’ve had a problem with creating fantasies, to the point where I had close people say to me “he was my favorite fake relationship you ever had.” It was bad. Getting off social media helped a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 01:32 PM
31

For the love of all that is holy YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 08:20 PM
60

👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:54 AM
8

To answer his mystery of why the sex disappeared over the years, well sir I suppose it’s because you’ve gotten fat and disgusting and abusive and repulsive in every way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 10:08 PM
51

When you make him feel like shit he will always beg for your approval
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 07:49 PM
49

Well, I DO already do number 1 sometimes, it’s actually really funny, I highly recommend it, and I do number 3 too , I have a Pinterest folder labeled “clean lumberjacks” It’s dudes that have clean looking clothes and beards that are fashion choices not laziness choices so they actually take care of it and give a shit. It’s my happy place 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 07:48 PM
16

You’re allowed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:53 PM
27

Smelling. Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:41 AM
25

I’m just embracing the real me more and more every day. My little quirks, the things that make me happy, listening to my inner voice, and trusting in the universe. I guess you could say focusing on inner peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 05:45 PM
53

Just read an article they welcomed baby number 2 via surrogate and their relationship is “fluid.” I’m sad for her really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:59 PM
9

The “LOL” at the end just gets me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:28 AM
59

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:52 AM
23

Ouch, this hit close to home. Glad I’m not the only one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:34 PM
11

Do they think they are unique? They aren’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:27 AM
24

THANK 👏 YOU👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:53 PM
-1

You don’t need to put yourself in a box and label yourself as dating or not. Online dating can be incredibly draining on the self esteem. Just because you’re not online dating doesn’t mean you’re not dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:06 AM
39

Proud of you sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:36 PM
2

I’d rather stick knives in my ears
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:27 AM
25

These morons confuse “pleasure” for deranged mental illness. Don’t get it twisted scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:10 PM
25

This is nonsense babble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 05:14 AM
78

Sloppy seconds is never a good place to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:56 PM
10

What a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:41 PM
80

They tell you to “take it easy” when you call them out on their molesty touching and forced intimacy. So many men do this, it’s repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 05:38 PM
43

That was painful to read, how did you even get through the dinner without leaving?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:05 AM
7

Girl, same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:21 AM
20

Gentle reminder- please do not use “clean” to refer to STI status. This infers that those with a positive STI status, including the very common HSV, are dirty. They are indeed not dirty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:16 AM
47

Women just can’t have their own space and autonomy, can they
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 06:32 PM
0

Just seems like a lot of wasted time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:00 AM
20

I’m proud of you for speaking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:19 PM
27

Even though real life is not much better, I think its best to stay off OLD. It’s not worth the countless disappointing interactions with low value strangers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:16 PM
8

I hope that horrid situation is over now! Unfortunately there is always another belly waiting to take his place right around the corner. It’s SO important that we be fully mentally and confidently armed to handle them. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:21 PM
30

Seeing so many WOMEN against FDS makes me sad for humanity. Like their brains are rotten
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:00 PM
94

They get mad at us for existing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:12 AM
38

Idiocracy comes to life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:20 PM
18

Right, the post divorce dudes once-every-four-months trip to the laundromat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:45 PM
123

These are the parts that pissed me off too. Didn’t want to “help” and “can’t control it” pfffft You mean you didn’t want to do basic functions of living. He can get bent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:33 AM
43

THE DINNER SHE PREPARED 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:35 PM
96

Let’s stop labeling toxic actions as “bEiNg aN aDuLt.” No one is entitled to your time, respect, or body. How is mirroring someone’s actions not being an adult? I cannot stand it when I read on other subs or hear from people that “we are adults” when justifying terrible behavior. Watch my adult self ignore you and walk away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:15 PM
2

Fart in Morse code 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:26 PM
8

All that grease from that fried chicken on a paper towel must have rotted his brain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:42 AM
8

Yes sis, exactly. I’ve dated, but only when it happened naturally and didn’t take up too much of my precious time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:39 AM
22

When a man says he’s still living with his wife and waiting on the divorce, 99% of the time this is news to the wife. That’s just a line they use to justify cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:36 AM
149

My ex husband got engaged the evening our divorce was finalized. And she posted that shit all over FB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:51 PM
6

Spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:22 AM
55

I ain’t fighting her because she is 1000000000% right, anyone who says differently is mentally ill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 09:16 PM
10

In the past when I’ve taken mens’ numbers and texted them first I felt desperate and pathetic. It’s along the same libfem line of “approaching first.” Nope. It makes us easy to them. If a man isn’t man enough to ask for my number and endure the risk /thrill of contacting me first, then he’s not a man I want to spend my time with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 02:32 AM
42

coming out of the bathroom and not washing their hands -ear hair -hitting it rich quick mentality, no realistic plans for the future -picky eaters. Grow TF up -dirty pores -dropping /breaking something and not picking it up -heavy breathing /moaning -bad teeth -bad posture -nasally voice -glazed over eyes when attempting a conversation saying “I hAve nO aSs HAR HAR” to justify their eternal plumbers crack and being unable to lift up their pants past their swollen beer bellies. On that note… -swo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 02:21 AM
17

This is great energy !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:39 PM
25

Isn’t that great 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 05:38 PM
75

Ugh Eff her. What does she expect being in an oPeN relationshit. At least chlamydia is curable. Wait until its herpes or worse 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 04:47 PM
9

If you have to ask, he’s not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 11:45 PM
89

Sigh. I just wanted to send you hugs. What they do is just sooooo awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:00 PM
16

Next time you are asked where “your other half is,” respond with “Im not a half, I’m whole.” 👑 it’s so empowering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:30 PM
23

My immediate thought after reading this was why couldn’t a 50 year old know about sunny? I have plenty of 50 year olds acquaintances who watch that show. What a typical display of male ego centric logic. Because HES not fifty he can’t imagine anyone else in existence being that age either. What a turd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:18 AM
25

This is why we never lower our standards to give men a chance. Doubtful it was type 1 diabetes. I will bet my life savings it was type 2 diabetes due to years of poor diet. Never ever ignore the red flags!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:13 AM
26

Being stoned and having to listen to some dimwit story is the ultimate torture!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:06 PM
9

How dare you EAT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:04 PM
144

No matter WHAT you read on the other countless dumb dating subs, or what ever lib fem agenda is shoved down our throats, a woman should NEVER pursue first. It’s not empowering, it’s not “2021,” it’s not taking charge. Men will take ego boosts over any type of morality. They will justify their shitty behavior, cheating on their wives, using you as a side chick, ignoring you, fuckboy-Ing around, because the woman pursued them first and “wanted” it. Please ladies do yourself a favor and stay off th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:18 PM
25

That’s what people say who haven’t experienced the hellscape that is OLD. It comes from a place of ignorance on their end. I’ve heard that garbage too. Listen to your gut and trust your intuition. OLD isn’t like finding a needle in a haystack, it’s like finding a needle in a landfill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 08:31 PM
4

Oooh so this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 02:03 AM
132

The word WE is such a huge 🚩🚩🚩🚩 You EARN “we.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:10 AM
22

When my NVM father passed, all he left us was losing lottery tickets and crippling debt and judgements due to his gambling addiction. My poor mother dealt with it for YEARS afterwards. Very sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:06 AM
7

Seth Rogan 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:04 AM
5

I was just typing the same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:03 AM
15

It’s a disease, I swear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:57 AM
65

Basically , yea. Aren’t they “besties?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:20 AM
82

Poorly drawn Keanu Reeves 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:19 AM
18

Pathetic really. I’m embarrassed for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 02:55 AM
43

I used to bartend, so when I watch this show I remember that old lifestyle, and a lot of it is spot on. I knew a guy who is the living incarnation of Dennis. Video camera and all. It’s scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 03:28 PM
24

How much I wish you could cry tears of blood on command like those weeping statues of Mary and just start crying bloody tears in front of him. STIGMATA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:13 PM
40

“Not all men. But most men. Indistinguishable from other men.” And men know about the grotesque behaviors of other men. This is why men go into “protector mode” for the women they love, their sisters and daughters. Ever seen one of those lame pictures of a father with a gun saying he will never let his daughter date? Because they know how deviant men can be. Sure, not ALL men. But most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 04:06 AM
8

Nooooooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 01:43 AM
4

I hope she doesn’t do it again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:45 PM
7

He’s been to one session, so now he thinks he’s woke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:35 PM
78

Well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:17 PM
67

People talk so much about pro -sex work, without actually knowing any sex workers. If they talked to some of these sex workers, and heard how absolutely shitty their lives are and what they go through, their attitude about how eMpOwErINg it is will change REAL fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:43 PM
9

Why are you do something you loathe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:28 AM
6

If you’re worried about a pandemic and disease, you really shouldn’t be meeting strangers. Lord only knows where they’ve been and what they carry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:41 PM
6

Whenever I see a woman saying they have no other way of meeting men besides OLD, I can’t help but think , there WAS a time before OLD you know. Women have been meeting men for a millennia before OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:59 PM
11

Being able to say “I’m not doing that” can be incredibly liberating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:40 PM
7

Came here looking for this comment. It’s an ABOUT YOU section. You are supposed to describe yourself, what makes you you. I can’t with these people who just talk about what they want from people as if other people are just commodities they can consume (well, they DO think that) They really must have no personality or depth to themselves at all. They just want and want and want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:30 PM
64

There is a video clip circulating the internets of a woman being called a Karen by a teenager who was terrorizing the neighborhood and who ended up murdering the woman’s husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:20 PM
2

Our trolls out there are critiquing this post HARD, saying that FDS is encouraging lib-fem and being hypocritical since no one is commenting to counter that. But THIS COMMENT RIGHT HERE and the ones below ARE. So lurkers, read this and maybe READ AGAIN. The majority of FDS’ers do NOT support taking our clothes off for validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 05:56 PM
38

Right?! Like who of any value would be swiping thru profiles while they sit on the toilet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:52 PM
480

“Any questions just ask” - I’m too lazy and thoughtless to have a conversation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:52 PM
97

Can’t stress this enough. YEARS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:37 PM
107

I’m glad to see I’m not the only one affected by the recent influx of posts proving this point. The posts are hard to read but prove the FDS point. It’s all too common and women need to wake up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:34 PM
21

Also, these numbers are downgraded and minimal. That’s just what they can prove. You can bet it’s more like 100 times more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:13 PM
84

This kills me. If he wants tips on dealing with anxiety, he should SEE A THERAPIST. Did you charge him 200 dollars an hour? The going rate for therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:11 PM
130

Because they see hiring a prostitute as accepting how absolutely shitty and unwanted they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:05 PM
73

This is exactly what we mean by “free therapist.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:04 PM
13

Not sure how it’s possible to be madly in love with someone you suspected of cheating but I hope this will be a learning experience for you. If it’s any consolation, chlamydia is curable with treatment. There are some of us who’ve been left with incurable infections that we will have for the rest of lives due to a cheating disgusting scrote. Good luck with your treatment and leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:42 PM
5

This is nauseating to me. Lesson learned. We have to go through it to understand why to NEVER do it again. Please don’t waste your breathe and minutes again. Should have blocked and deleted after his first message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:38 PM
70

And we as women being nice to them, for what? We gain nothing except harassment and potential danger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:56 PM
130

The nice for what zone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:39 PM
39

“Boy” 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 05:42 PM
33

Well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 05:13 PM
34

I woke up one morning with the same feeling. I decided to spontaneously message his “ex” and ask her if they were still seeing each other. Not only were they still seeing each other, she said they were trying to have a baby! From the timeline she told me I was able to figure out that he was coming to my place straight from hers, and vice versa. I RAN and never looked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 12:51 AM
76

This just happened to me 2 nights ago! But I was FDS armed. A friend and I went out and we share a favorite band, which is how we bonded. We put a few of their songs on the jukebox, start enjoying the tunes, and OF COURSE a full fledged scrote had the audacity to interrupt us during our obvious enjoyment of the music. As soon as the words “do you know…?” came out of his mouth, it was like my ears tuned him out and I turned to my friend and said “are you ready to get schooled ???” Like how dare t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 12:13 PM
30

I’ve spent the last 10 years trying to mourn it and give it up, it gets easier, but not much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:20 PM
54

And for LYING about who they really are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:19 PM
29

I just heard this last night! Was told I’m “picking the wrong people.” Uhhhhh, yes, ok it’s MY fault I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:18 PM
59

THANK YOU. Always need this reminder. Silence is golden 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:23 PM
61

Running. I’ve done this a lot when the feelings get overwhelming. Just put on a pair of sneakers and run out the front door. Tackle those hills. Go as far as you can. It really helps that frustrated bottled up feeling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:54 AM
84

Telling me he was a “big teddy bear” when he was really just a big fat slob. Also realized teddy bears are for babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 04:58 PM
107

I love how these guys try to lay blame on others because of the uncomfortable feelings they have. Well my dude, you feel inadequate because you are. Deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:47 PM
24

Yes, but when you meet a stranger from OLD, there is always an intention behind it. When you’re meeting someone naturally or to become friends there isn’t that underlying pressure of the possibility of an intimate sexual relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 12:20 AM
57

The glossed over look!! Like whenever I would talk about , you know… anything?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 09:00 PM
34

OLD in general gives me the ICK. Meeting ANY stranger gives me the ICK. Could be that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:54 PM
5

I’m glad to see a post about LOVE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:47 PM
19

I know it doesn’t help but I had the same thing happen. I still cry about it every now and then. But when that happens I tell myself it’s better than the emotional roller coaster of dealing with THAT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:42 PM
8

Please. This. We need to start normalizing saying “NO.” This is not to downplay the threat men pose to women. They are violent and explosive and unpredictable, they are the biggest threat to women. Women need to stop jumping through hoops to protect men’s feelings. Men, women, people need to learn that they can be told NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:19 PM
4

Common for online dating. Because they are behind a screen, they don’t see women as actual human beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 03:17 AM
43

Noooo!! Never ever threaten blackmail. That’s a crime, regardless of whatever shit he’s doing, he can still press charges against you, and that’s all the law cares about. Please ladies DONT EVER THREATEN BLACKMAIL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:38 AM
89

Nooooooooo!!! 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:36 AM
13

I’m in the same place sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:00 AM
13

Well , he MIGHT show up at your door. My mother met my father when he was the locksmith who came to fix her locks ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:58 AM
34

Because it’s all about him /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:32 PM
11

I don’t understand the comment that said him calling her a sl*t and h0e was insulting to HER meanwhile her using a racial term was insulting to an entire race of people… uhhhhhh… no. Him using those terms was insulting to an entire gender of people . This comment got awards?!! Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 11:43 PM
4

It’s important not to be scared to say this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:55 PM
5

This is also good advice for the women who already have had their children. I cannot tell you how many step -fathers /mom’s boyfriends I’ve seen completely overstep their boundaries and treat children terribly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:50 PM
2

I am so glad you are back. This was my only safe haven. I feel home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:24 AM
31

The “just scroll past” argument encourages people to just shut up if they see something they don’t like. That’s a very dangerous mindset, people should be able to identify things that are not right and speak their mind about such things. Telling people to just shut up and scroll past is dangerous and oppressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:17 PM
65

Time spent on Tinder is a waste. Your time is way more valuable than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 12:13 PM
144

This is why FDS advises against being friends with men/exs and also why the majority advises against OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:58 AM
229

Dang that’s a lot for 6 weeks. It takes me that long just to finish one thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:49 AM
12

Never ever run to keep up with a selfish scrote. Him walking fast ahead of you is incredibly rude. Walk your own pace always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 05:37 PM
52

They say, “we’re ADULTS” “its 2021!” “Just cOmMuNiCaTe”. Yea well my adult self is choosing to walk quietly away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:02 PM
64

Back in my bartending days there was a regular who used the N word regularly. He ended up marrying a woman he met on Tinder from Africa. I just can’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:38 PM
136

I had an previous woc coworker who told me stories about this happening to her, to the point where she was desensitized to it. It’s sad. They will literally fetishize and weaponize anything, even race. And we are supposed to respect these m-n who grab at the lowest hanging fruit, ha 🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:36 PM
16

I like this idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 09:00 PM
191

BEARDFISH 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:39 PM
535

I doubt the beard is a fashion choice. It’s more like an out-of-laziness choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:25 PM
32

Came here to say this. Avoid like the diseased plague they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 01:56 PM
174

And yet they put these words right in front of their fake pretend perfect couple social media photo posts that are supposed to brainwash people to make them believe they are a happy couple, and that you too could look THIS happy if you just struggle through it! The misery is worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 07:00 PM
16

Well, after the STI tests any way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:58 PM
1

These people don’t give a F about human life. If they did, they would support educating and providing health care for all human lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 04:36 PM
42

Oscar the grouch felt right at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:15 PM
93

But let’s keep pretending that OLD isn’t a disgusting cesspool of liars and cheaters, okaaaay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:45 PM
5

Has she tried cOmMuNiCaTiNg ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:48 AM
109

“I don’t know what to do about this” Yes you do. We all do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:49 PM
41

Someone pick her already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:49 PM
76

Truth. I know a big time scrote who makes a lot of self deprecating jokes about how small his dick is. This guy is legit the biggest and most unapologetic man whore. Nothing and no one will ever satisfy him or be good enough. He’s looking for some type of validation that will never be found.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:52 AM
30

An option that is easy to drop when the next, newer more appealing option comes along
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:01 PM
25

This. THIS needs to be posted on every thread and subreddit and forum online bombarding our women with this “approach men first” propaganda. The consequences can be deadly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 10:57 PM
38

Bad idea. The force is a giant bro team. It’ll get you nothing except stress and harassment. Been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:52 PM
21

It’s EXHAUSTING to keep reading the same thing over and over again, with everyone expecting a different result. Isn’t that the literal definition of insanity? FOR THE LOVE OF GOD Get off OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:45 AM
9

They all said they are 6 ft
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:36 PM
1

I HAAAAATE it when people use the “well it never happened before” schpeal. Yea, well, that doesn’t mean it can’t or won’t happen in the future. Just because you haven’t experienced it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. It only takes one time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:54 PM
6

I have several cousins /friends that met their partners through OLD. So I too had the same thoughts. “If they can do it, so can I.” And boy did I try. And try and try and try. But then I remembered what my father used to say. If you try to follow someone else’s path, you trip and fall, and get hurt. Someone else’s path is not your path. I gave it up for good almost 2 years ago and it has been such mental relief. Knowing men are swiping through my picture like a half second piece of garbage, wher…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:48 PM
47

“Renders us from TRYING” he says, cannot even be bothered to TRY, there is nothing standing in the way of TRYING, except their lack thereof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:37 PM
28

That’s a big NOPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:21 PM
38

Actions 👏 Speak 👏 Louder 👏 Than 👏 Words 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 12:55 PM
76

Ive told men I’ve met that I’m judging the F out of them 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:33 PM
47

And subconsciously hates him and herself for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 01:03 PM
5

It sounds like you want to break up with him but are having trouble reconciling that with the lib fem bullsh*t agenda forced down our throats our entire lives. Get rid of him. He sounds gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 11:49 PM
60

Closure is a myth. It doesn’t exist and we will definitely never get it from a guy. The only closure we can get is the closure we give ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 01:40 AM
120

Can I just add, I had a sex worker friend, who I always “didn’t judge” and “supported” because I too felt like I HAD to support sex work, because of the lib fem agenda. She would joke about fucking people’s husbands and leave me at the drop of a hat because of male attention and never let me get a word in or be supportive of ME because it was always all about her. She would make fun of people who make 14 dollars an hour yet lives off government assistance because she doesn’t show actual income. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:14 PM
20

As a Jewish woman I spent many years overlooking anti semitism in men while dating. They think they are sooooo clever. They aren’t. It’s the cheapest lamest shot they could take. It makes me sad for my former self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 01:06 PM
8

I mean, I guess, but isn’t the whole point of this sub, of Female Dating Strategy, to figure out how to love ourselves enough to love someone else healthily? To be with someone deserving of our love, and who loves us back the way we deserve? And being ok with not setteling for anything less? Anything other than that wouldn’t make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:37 PM
166

I’ve been seeing a lot of posts on other subs referencing FDS and how horrible we are and how FDS “essentially calls for the killing of men” (yes someone actually said this) We love men here. And we are heartbroken that they have sunken into a degenerate filth cesspool. We want them to be good, to be fulfill all their potential, to be outstanding valuable members of society and humanity. We want them to take care of themselves, to take pride in themselves and have respect and care for themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 02:51 AM
5

It’s not work if they aren’t paying taxes on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:20 AM
12

NO FAKE ORGASMS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:50 PM
14

Great advice. If you happen not to block for whatever reason, but also don’t save their number, when they contact you and you respond “who’s this” you can literally feel their ego shatter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:35 AM
40

I’ve got a “porn sick limp dick” one in mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:25 AM
6

Isn’t it so liberating??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:00 PM
15

I wish I could implant this in all my friends’ brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:34 PM
2

Honestly, the trick is to not give a fuck, because you’re so leveled up and in love with your life that a guy’s attractiveness doesnt change your behavior. Once you’re looking online for a person to validate any part of you, you’ve already lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:26 AM
5

That’s also an unfortunate symptom of online dating. Going out with a complete random stranger who has a 99.99999 % chance of being low value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:17 PM
9

How did you meet? Most of this information he should have known because he would have gotten to know you prior to asking /you accepting a date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:49 PM
39

Groooosssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:18 PM
5

👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 11:22 AM
32

Newburgh is one of the worst areas of NY. Highest murder rates per capita in NY. You couldn’t pay ME 900 a month to live there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 10:24 AM
9

Just throwing out there that you’re not alone in your preference. Many comments here defended gaming, and that’s fine. But you are allowed your preferences. Personally I don’t like video games and I’d never date a man into them. When I see a dude with a game controller , usually on their blue Tupperware bin they use in place of a coffee table, it’s an instant turn off. I have children who play and to me, video games take away from real life and are childish 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:55 PM
31

GIRL… I came back from vacation where I FRACTURED MY ANKLE and as I’m struggling limping on crutches IN A CAST a neighbor asked me if I “got any good dick on vacation” W.T.FFFFFF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:41 AM
22

It’s sad we can’t be happy because of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:39 PM
21

Oh yes, absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:44 PM
414

This is why female trainers only!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:48 AM
55

People seem to think growth is easy, but it’s not. It hurts, it’s painful, facing the truths of our lives does NOT feel good, shrooms have this amazing way of making us face the parts of ourselves we try to avoid. We don’t even know it’s there, lingering under the surface. I experienced it too, I’ve hated myself, slammed my fists on the floor, and cried so hard I felt like I cracked in 2. Once that happens there’s no going back. The only thing left to do is move forward, take things slowly, rein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:37 AM
9

The upwards facing selfie OLD profile pic so all I can see is your pimply no neck triple chin and can literally hear your scraggly mouth breathing ooooh yea sign me up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:35 PM
3

It is sad to know people encourage this under the guise of professionalism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:11 PM
3

WTFFFFF 😂 ….my dude, we are already a slave to the corporate world , why would anyone want to be MORE a slave , and to YOU no less. Gtfo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 05:10 PM
27

Got a “HB” on my birthday once 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:45 AM
14

Well said 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:46 AM
4

Ahh the green man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:35 AM
331

Ummmmm, you go girl ..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:07 PM
17

Can I upvote this a million times??!! Yes!!! Even their cover bands put on a great show and with great people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:21 PM
56

This makes me sad and I genuinely feel for the younger generation. I am in my 40’s and grew up in the grunge era, my favorite band of all time is Tool. They sing about expanding your consciousness and fostering the human spirit. I’ve dated all sorts of dudes before, but at this point in my life, I will only date a dude if they listen to Tool. If they don’t, I know I can’t love them. It’s that simple. I’m glad to finally have accepted this standard in my life that I should have never budged on 20…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:55 PM
143

So glad you said it. They say we are a bunch of fat pathetic cows cOmFoRtINg eAchOtHeR because we can’t get a man. First off, isn’t every sub on Reddit comforting eachother? And god forbid women lift eachother up through the shared experiences of the utterly most disappointing men. And we could get any dude we want. We chose not to because we don’t want to smell their unwashed ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:49 PM
64

‘Till he leaves her for his side chick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:56 PM
104

That is such a HIPPA violation , not only could he lose his job he could be charged! Totally violating and illegal, ugh I am so sorry hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:51 PM
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✋ sadly I have never met one as well. Not. A. Single. One. I used to think it was me, that I turned men “bad” and into assholes, that I brought it out of them, but I since accepted that it wasn’t my fault. I’d like to think HVM exist and are out there, but I’ve never met one either. I still can’t let go of the little hope though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:30 AM
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It’s clear that the daughter grew up listening to the father bad mouth the stepmother all the years after she left. If he didn’t, it would have just faded away and they all would have moved on. But scrotes love to blame women for, well, everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 01:56 AM
29

Doubt she was having an orgasm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:11 PM
14

This is very true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:13 AM
190

I never understood why people get so upset at the thought of judging. Judging is using our past life experiences to make better decisions for our future. Judging keeps people safe. Are we supposed to go through life blind? No thanks, I will be judgmental AF about everything thankyouverymuch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:52 AM
16

And it only gets better from here!! There will be “lulls” but remember that they will pass, and you WILL start meeting people in real life! It ALWAYS happens eventually. New people come along all the time, especially if you stay open to it! Remember that there is NO reason to ever give a disgusting STRANGER your time and attention, it would be better to do literally ANYTHING else. You’ve got this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 10:25 PM
24

He can’t remember because he’s legitimately brain damaged from the video games. The fact that she even has to use the word “chores” gives me instant cringe. Adults don’t do “chores.” Chores are a word we teach toddlers that are basic functions of living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:49 AM
12

I’m so glad I’m not alone in feeling this way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:45 PM
42

The emojis make me want to barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:42 PM
5

Well said 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 03:58 AM
3

The guy who murdered Lennon was a fanboi too, just sayin’. Weirdos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 03:43 AM
51

😂😂😂😂 waaahhhh my mommy and daddy MADE ME PLAY SPORTS wwwaaahhhhh 👶🏻🍼🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:25 PM
19

I have TWO friends who, when their husbands started courting them, surprised them by bringing them MULTIPLE coffees and treats and said “I bought a bunch of things off the menu hoping you’d like at least something.” If a man can do this then yes, he can buy you a tea. If he wanted to he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:13 PM
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And the “we are aDuLTs!!1” bs line they are always crying… yes we are adults but since when does being an adult equal now we have to cOmMuNiCaTe with you scrote and expose ourselves and frustrate ourselves when we KNOW it will get us nowhere… since when does being an adult mean we have to put up with bullshit?? We are adults which means we can walk away and don’t owe ANYONE an explanation and our time is valuable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 11:25 PM
13

I think the audacity gets WORSE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 12:12 PM
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Giiiirl, another gracefully aged chick here too , and the first time I was able to squeak out the words “but I’m not a prostitute…” simultaneous killed me and liberated me. I may not have said it loud and bold, but I said it, and it’s not the volume that matters but the intent. You are SO not alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 11:52 PM
37

Ah yes. Because women need to teach comprehension skills to grown men because they are mentally toddlers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:02 AM
46

Let’s be honest, there’s no 🦄 on OLD and the sooner women accept that the better off they will be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:59 PM
30

Yes. The repetitive part struck a chord in me. How many times can one keep going through the same thing, saying the same thing, experience the same thing, until you start to feel insane? My father used to say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. That stuck with me my entire life. Experiencing it myself and seeing my friends go through the same thing with men over and over starts feeling mentally ill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:48 PM
33

hE hAs sO mAnY gReAt qUaLiTiEs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 11:32 PM
25

👆👆scrotes take note
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:46 AM
8

I use 2 because IDGAF about what anyone says or does. I carry a rape whistle and cat claws on my keys so I always have some line of defense. I refuse to be uncomfortable or have to listen to nonsense just because dudes exist and want our attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:33 PM
233

Ew, don’t these people have like, jobs and responsibilities ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:15 PM
48

😂😂😂 guess I failed that test 🤷🏻‍♀️ I briefly dated a dude who admitted himself into a psychiatric ward, he asked me to “wait for him” and when he called me when he got out I pretended I didn’t know him. GTFO with that nonsense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 03:44 AM
7

Emotions are instincts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:04 PM
14

Yes exactly this, it was an accident at first but since she didn’t run away screaming he kept it going to see how far he could go until she called him out on his perversion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:29 PM
12

What kind of response do they expect? Ooooohhhhhh 😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:42 PM
7

Not a disclaimer, maybe you mean better worded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:56 PM
13

If it’s not specifically aimed and demonizing towards single mothers then I’m not sure the point of stating single mothers, instead of all mothers in general
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:45 PM
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Why specify single moms? Wouldn’t the same apply to any type of mom? I don’t think it’s specifically single moms, and we shouldn’t be demonizing single mothers as the root of this problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:16 PM
93

During my road trip last weekend I passed a roadside barn with graffiti that read “EMOTIONS ARE INSTINCTS” and those are true words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:21 PM
83

One time I visited a bartender friend. There was a delivery guy /patron there, making banter , because , you know, he thought he was a VIP because he delivered stuff there. Dude asks me how old I thought he was. He was obese, balding, and had hanging jowels like an old bulldog. I said, “um, 50?” He proceeded to FLIP out for the next hour until I left, because he was “oNLy 49, “ but turning 50 the following week, so I was spot on right. He was so incredibly rude and would not stop saying how he c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 11:58 PM
126

I once met the hunkiest chillest dude and we had instant chemistry. Problem was that he wanted me to do the chasing. We hung out a few times but then nothing…after not hearing from him for SIX MONTHS I get a text from him that I “should call or text him sometime” uh, or you could call or text me?? Regardless of how attractive or fun they are, it’s better for your mental health not to go through that emotional roller coaster of chasing them and then being tossed aside or treated cheaply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:09 AM
7

2 weeks before their wedding another friend who waitresses sent me a picture of him getting cozy with another woman at a table. She had her hand on his leg. It was definitely not his now-wife. 2 weeks. The audacity and shamelessness blows my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 01:40 PM
2

I’m sure there’s a great story on HOW you know this !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:25 AM
3

Love it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:22 AM
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This reminds me of my NVX. A few days after I dumped him , I heard from a mutual friend he was going out on a tinder date. Literal days. Could not have been more than 4. A few weeks later I was hanging out with the same friend when he called her to bitch about this girl, the friend put him on speaker (he didn’t know I was there and could hear what he was saying) talking about how this “bitch was crazy” and how he was going to have to “end it” and how he hoped she never met me .. (small town, kin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:18 AM
20

At least I’m not the only one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:44 AM
11

Underrated comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:29 AM
12

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:49 PM
17

There are so so many , and there is enough love for each and every one of us. The bounds of self love and the joys of life are endless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 04:06 AM
5

I’ve said it before to men, if you wanted a prostitute you should’ve paid for one. If you wanted secrecy you should’ve paid for it 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:29 PM
3

This is a very true statement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 02:40 AM
5

Oh yes I have a bat in every room , needle nose plyers under my mattress, and cat claws on my keys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:43 AM
4

I will never own or touch a gun, and my dog is a 12 pound pile of mush. There has to be another option
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:23 PM
21

Not just online either, I don’t have social media, but a few months ago I met a dude briefly at a school event for my child, he said he’d seen me jogging around town (uhhh creepy but ok, a lot of people do) and few weeks later hes on my security camera creeping around my place and left a note on my door. He figured out where I live which is even creepier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:04 PM
34

All the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:55 PM
17

Online dating sucks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:43 PM
5

We SHOULD judge. It’s called learning from our experiences. Otherwise we’d be blindly going through this world dumb and making the same mistakes over and over. Sorry but I’m using everything I’ve learned in my life to judge the fuck out of people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:44 PM
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THANK YOU for writing this! I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks this. I have a friend who is exactly how you describe and it drives me NUTS. Thank you for validating me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:44 AM
13

And IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR FOUR YEARS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:09 AM
9

So many Chris’s in my life I actually have them numbered 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:10 PM
24

Must drink coffee. For some strange reason I’ve been involved with more than one dude that didn’t like coffee, and they ended up being super scumbag weirdos. One thing I really enjoy and want to experience in my life is enjoying a cup of coffee with a decent value man. Also, no coke 🙅🏻‍♀️ learned that the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:06 PM
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I guess that’s a little disheartening. When I first came to FDS it was like a breathe of fresh air… In every other relationship and dating sub, and in life in general, it’s countless posts about oh gee meeting some degenerate online and wondering why this and why that… I was so sick of reading the same thing over…and over…and over again… I mean come on people, does no one LEARN ? You’re meeting a complete stranger and trying to apply your principles to them. Im sorry It’s like….a cognitive disso…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:02 PM
30

Besides all the good comments here about how it’s a manipulation tactic, etc, its WHINY, and when men whine like little babies it’s an immediate turn off. Ghosting is a common issue you find on OLD, I’m pretty sure FDS advises against the use of OLD, and this is one of the many reasons why
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 11:08 AM
16

Blood. Boiling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:42 AM
13

Ugh this makes my blood boil. I cannot stand it when women who have been married since they were 7 try to give me dating advice. I work with a woman who’s been married since she was 18, 25 years, and she tried giving me tinder advice! Uhhhh, just, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:16 AM
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I’m a chronically single single-mom but I would never say anything like that. Those types of statements can come from ANYONE. I’ve gotten those types of comments from women in all sorts of situations, single friends without kids , forever girlfriends, and now that I think about it, I’ve heard that the most from women who have been married for 30 years. Edited to add, whenever I’m chatting with friends about dating advice, I ALWAYS disclaimer myself not to take advice from me because , well, look…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:09 AM
7

Oh this hit home, I have a friend like this too, he’s an old childhood friend but I cringe when we chat and says stuff like this. He told me not to make a guy “wear a garbage bag on his dick.” I said “what about diseases?” And he said “girl, as if I didn’t already have every std out there.” Well, I guess that’s okay for YOU, but not for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:05 AM
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Gen-X’er here and my boomer mom is an old hippie. It’s weird seeing how she has so many years under her belt, but the brainwashing from her generation is strong. She fully supports me telling any man off and staying single instead of settling, yet at the same time she always initially gives men the benefit of the doubt and finds the littlest things to like about them. Until they always prove me right of course and end up being scrotastic in one way or another
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:51 AM
75

I’m getting this tattooed on the inside of my eyelids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:05 PM
15

This!! When it happened to me I could not stop questioning WHY did he pursue me so hard if he was just going to fuck around behind my back??! Why bother?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:06 PM
1

Are we still advising against OLD too? Great user name btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:41 AM
16

Online is online, you know? We aren’t real to them. It’s disgusting, and I am sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:38 AM
13

Introduced IRL or online? Genuinely curious, not that meeting IRL is better but if it’s an online first/only connection , they seem to dehumanize us even more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:36 AM
10

Is this someone you met on OLD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 01:32 AM
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I’ve said this many times before and I’ll say it again, I dated a disgusting POS pig-man because everyone around me told me hE’LL bE gOoD tO yOu - I had to hold in my disgust for him, and he cheated on me the ENTIRE time, raped me, and gave me herpes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:54 PM
8

With ya sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:15 PM
51

I’ll take Actually Orgasming for 200 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:43 PM
13

I’m proud of you for saying it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:41 PM
177

I just answer “old” and that usually does the trick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:33 PM
12

The diet industry NEEDS them to fail. That’s how they stay in business! Just like we don’t want to degrade our lives and bodies to be commodities to OLD, we too shouldn’t be commodities to the big diet industry. Liberate yourself !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:21 PM
15

It’s literally one sentence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:25 PM
6

RUUUUNNNNNN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:29 PM
24

“Just be positive!!” what shit advice. How about “just be realistic” and “not everything is going to work out your way and learning healthy coping is the only way to get through it”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:29 AM
31

LOLLLLL … says the guy who has aged sun spots on his gross ass bald head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:01 PM
14

My ex-husband took out his retirement and then filed for BS “spousal relief” with the IRS right after we divorced, so I ended up having to pay the several thousands of taxes he owed on that. Not to mention the 75k in lawyers and court fees for the years spent in family court. What a waste
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:40 PM
12

How is it 50/50 when there’s a baby 100% in her body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:32 PM
37

A 15 year old dropping some knowledge on us all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:57 PM
49

I can say with 100% certainty that he got her off ZERO times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 03:57 AM
3

If that wasn’t so sad and pathetic it would be hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:14 PM
6

Candle making ?! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:29 PM
16

Ugh, Awful. Just my 2 cents out of caution, as a fellow runner on busy roads, when a car stops for me to cross in front of them I NEVER cross, and wave them on. You never know when they could hit the gas, or a car can swerve around behind them or come from the other side. I definitely don’t trust anyone to have my life in their hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:39 PM
23

Sex should be a loving act between 2 consenting adults. Not a commodity to be obtained. No offense to you or your brother, but if someone doesn’t have sex because they can’t create that kind of loving relationship with another person , then they shouldn’t have sex. No one is going to die without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:53 AM
89

I can tell you multiple times where I’ve seen dudes in cars or delivery trucks WHILE DRIVING who have porn playing on their phone on the dashboards. WHILE DRIVING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:22 PM
36

God that’s horrible, but typical. I’m so sorry you went through that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:39 AM
5

1-this needed to be said 2-I like direct. No wiggle room for misinterpretations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:45 AM
2

“You just have to weed out the bad ones”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:43 AM
3

While they sit back and do nothing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:41 AM
3

Yup, and it’s the same with the older generation too, whenever relationships are brought up I get tinder pushed on me too, and my favorite line- “you just gotta weed out the bad ones”. Gross. Who wants to spend their precious time on earth willingly digging through literal garbage. No thanks, I’d rather spend my time doing ANYTHING else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:37 AM
3

EVERYONE DEFENDING OLD NEEDS TO READ THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:28 AM
2

THANK YOU for posting this. I see way too many posts questioning males shitty behavior starting with “we met on OLD...” Well, there’s your problem right there... these are literal strangers. I lose interest in reading any further on these posts because it’s all the same. There are no quality men on there, and if you believe otherwise you are fooling yourself. Dating apps don’t care about women’s wellbeing. Rape is reported all the time to them and they do nothing. I’d rather not be a commodity t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:25 AM
3

I LOVE the “how did you meet” stories!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 03:14 AM
7

Unfortunately this is very true. He would drag her through court and fight for custody just to hurt her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:01 AM
29

He doesn’t even hear her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:59 PM
9

OMGGG the feelings...Very rarely do I feel anything to these “is my husband retarded teehee” posts, but this one I felt a literal Guttural response, wanting to scream from my core. What a disgusting piece of lowlife garbage. She’s probably already back to work after 2 months because she needs to support the family. Throw him in the effing trash sis and get rid of that rotting dead weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:58 PM
50

This reminded of a scrote a few years ago, I was telling him I ran and was training for a half marathon at the time, he told me he ran the NYC MARATHON , so I responded “oh what was your time?” After a brief hesitation he said “thirty minutes” I was just like 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:44 AM
6

Oh thank you for this link, so valuable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:37 AM
5

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:25 AM
34

At first glance I thought this said you could tell that he’s rotted just from his beard and that works just as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:02 AM
7

Overcompensating much? WE GET IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:54 AM
22

My ex said “but I was never mean to you” after I dumped him when I found he was cheating on me and gave me herpes. Like that’s supposed to mean something?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:13 AM
35

Pleasing some dude’s dick is never feminist or empowering 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:03 AM
124

Ignorance may be bliss, but knowledge is power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:47 PM
3

DUMB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:06 AM
1

💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:54 AM
31

The “spinning plates” nonsense, I’ve heard that term around, they devalue the multiple women they are emotionally abusing and coercing into sex into an inanimate object .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 03:52 AM
16

Pleasing dick will NEVER be feminist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:59 AM
28

I haven’t met a dude over 40 who wasn’t a fuckboi supreme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:57 AM
7

I’ve started doing this and it’s saved my sanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:42 AM
22

Touché!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:40 AM
18

When they pay taxes on their OF or sex work income then I’ll give a sh*t about them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:20 PM
21

Be still my heart!! Swoon! 😍😍😍😍😘😘😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:08 PM
23

Welp, their comebacks surely changed my mind! How do I become empowered like them? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:29 PM
32

WYD... ohh the effort!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:58 PM
11

I HATE the “you think too much” line... it’s like, oh I’m sorry I comprehend things and have thoughts and you don’t 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:41 AM
2

I hate the “like an adult” shpeal. Well “like an adult” I can choose to make my own decision and NOT talk to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:29 AM
6

The guy that date raped me\gave me herpes texted me a “happy thanksgiving” once, while I was with my family trying to enjoy the day. The day felt sabotaged, and it became all about him. He stole my happiness and I was on high anxiety the rest of the day, especially because I ended up fighting with my aunt because she said I should have responded “thank you you too!” Uhhhhh 🖕🖕🖕🖕🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:23 PM
51

Never ever!! Your entire life will be ruined. Seen it happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:42 PM
54

And what about the folks who can’t /won’t move? The story has a very different ending
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:41 PM
147

Why do they feel like our birthdays /holidays are reason for them to reach out to us aka see if we will let them stick their peepees in us cause we all know that’s their goal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:42 AM
32

Oral herpes, you can get strains 1 or 2 orally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 12:37 AM
6

This is the damn truth and written perfectly. I will be saving this and reading it often. Never feel ashamed or guilty for wanting to feel GOOD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:50 PM
14

Yes! I so recently relate to this and it is liberating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:02 PM
57

SNORLAX 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:21 AM
16

This is a truth. You don’t sound bitter, to me you sound like a breath of fresh air, you sound honest and real and that’s something that’s severely lacking in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:50 PM
20

I needed to read this today, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:47 PM
31

My heart hurts for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:47 PM
54

They also don’t test for herpes on a standard panel, which is incredible considering you can spread it when you show no symptoms and more than half of the people who are carriers don’t know they have it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:45 PM
45

There are lots of posts on FDS about the closure myth. That’s all it is, a myth. We make our own closure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:55 PM
4

Honestly I stopped reading at “met him on OLD” which was the first sentence ...it always goes the same way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:45 AM
2

Or worse, looking back and saying “that’s how I got my STD”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:50 PM
24

You’re called ani-feminist when you say ANYTHING about how pleasing dick isn’t groundbreaking... music, singing, art, culture, literature, a human fleeting thought, literally ANYTHING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:43 PM
5

This energy !! 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:40 PM
20

Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:29 AM
26

I have learned this the hard way. I will no longer take the bait and give my texting effort just to end up hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:23 AM
9

100% certain this was intentional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:58 PM
38

I dunno WHAT they are talking about, I have never looked better, had clearer skin, healthier nails, thicker longer luxurious hair or more defined muscles, than when I’m NOT stressing out about yet another miserable dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:58 AM
78

A guy the other day said to me that his “ex was a bitch.” I replied “so? Bitches are people too. Bitches have rights. BitchPower ✊” I think I saw his brain explode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:53 PM
6

Thank you for sharing. It is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:49 AM
3

Yes. Yes. Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:44 AM
2

Sort of...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:33 PM
99

I spent my 30’s fixing the mistakes of my 20’s due to my dysfunction childhood, i also spent my 30’s building a solid foundation for my 40’s and the rest of my life. When I turned 40 there came a huge peace that came with moving on and leaving that all behind. We’ve learned from our life experiences and built a strong foundation. The only ones crying about a so called “wall” are scrotes who are just portraying their own insecurities about getting older. When THEY are 40 they hit the wall of losi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:44 PM
470

I’m 40. My life is JUST starting to get good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:31 PM
10

Brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:30 AM
3

I came here to say this. The world can watch me use my “binary rating system” and eff right off thankyouverymuch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:23 AM
27

This comes off as advertisement for plastic surgery. No thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:40 PM
11

Good job taking half a century to figure out you should wash your own shit stained underwear. Man of the year 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:00 PM
10

Always such understanding and compassionate women here xoxo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:54 AM
51

It still makes me a little sad to accept this, but applying and living FDS principles and the support of this incredible group of women has improved my life dramatically. If a man , or any person, doesn’t add value to my life, they aren’t getting in. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:22 PM
70

Sounds like an angel !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:16 PM
5

Biology = science. Science = facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:32 AM
42

I dated someone briefly who I wasn’t attracted to because I listened to multiple people telling me to give him a chance. He gave me herpes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:24 AM
23

The “ick” gave me herpes. That manifested into a VERY real disease. I am now forced to carry his “ick” with me for the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:21 AM
28

And you said you had GOOD experiences! Imagine being like me and a lot of other women and never having a good experience. For me it was non stop trash from start to finish. I refuse to be a commodity for someone to jack off to and to make someone else rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:40 PM
4

Fein is one of the authors of this so called “relationship bible”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:56 PM
35

Being financially independent keeps queens from degrading themselves on OnlyFans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:33 PM
8

Ew WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:42 AM
13

Yea, theirs, I’m pretty sure both of their marriages failed, I remember when Fein’s ended it was kinda big news
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:31 AM
1

Just ugh. I feel you girl xo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:44 AM
5

Who gives a fuck about his “disappointment.” No one cares one ounce about OUR disappointment with literally EVERYTHING EVERY SINGLE DAY. Such delicate little flowers these scrotes are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:26 PM
59

One day my ex and I came home from a shopping trip. One of the items we bought was a jar of roasted garlic (very pungent) I was getting into a shower I heard the jar break from the other room. Oh that sucks I thought to myself. When I got out of the shower, he was sitting on the couch, feet up, shattered glass and a pile of stinky garlic untouched on the floor, waiting for me to clean it up. That was the day I knew it was over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:10 AM
58

Closure is a myth. It doesn’t exist except for what we make it. Make your own closure ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:55 AM
67

Every time I have ever bought a man a thoughtful book or gift on a topic they claimed to like in conversation, I never got the opportunity to give it to them because they would ghost me. I’ll never buy anything for a man again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:15 AM
5

Didnt you read Sex Work for Dummies?? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:15 AM
11

This is true. I have a prostitute “friend” (I don’t like calling her my friend because it makes me feel dirty) and she will most often announce that she’s NoT A pRoStiTuTe!!!!!11 because she doesn’t advertise penetrative sex, but she DOES do that with several of her clients anyway. So they are lying to themselves as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:11 AM
17

SO grateful for the existence of FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:55 PM
36

Gentle suggestion- saying you’re “clean” implies someone with an STI is somehow dirty. Someone with an STI is not “dirty.” Considering the prevalence (about 80% of the population has some form of herpes) and shame /stigma involved in STI’s (which are usually passed on by a shitty scrote who lied about getting tested or never bothered) this is a term that need to die out because it stigmatizes STI’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:16 AM
58

Yea, the economy is bad. That is why I’ve always supplemented my full time job with side gigs. Im currently working nights at a gas station. I’d rather clean dirty gas station bathrooms than sell my soul and body on some shitty only fans page. Every gas station/convenience store/Home Depot place is hiring. There’s no excuse for doing only fans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:21 PM
12

I was given this advice by a lawyer when I was preparing for a deposition. It sunk in deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:22 AM
9

Saving this for forever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:14 PM
5

I understand her point is to complain about her husband, but I’m pointing out one of the flaws in her thinking and reasoning. Society has shamed single mom-dom as the worst type of life. Like your life is a failure. Being a single mom is not in most women’s plans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:12 PM
57

What hell is so wrong with being a “single mom” She says it at the end like it’s the worst type of fate. Girl, I’m a single mom , an ACTUAL single mom and me and my child’s life is WAY better off because we aren’t witnessing shit behavior, fights, arguments, I can live the way I want to, have a clean house, and I don’t have to spend my energy, emotions and my hard earned money on taking care of some man baby child. And we can afford to eat more than 57 cent boxed pasta (like she’s making in the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:53 AM
15

It’s so backwards. Kink - shaming, pffft please, it should be called shame-shaming. Kink has ALWAYS had an shameful undertone, that’s why it’s so “underground.” Now it’s so high above it’s untouchable? Uhhhh, no. Shame is real, and if people feel “shame” it’s FOR A REASON. Because deep down you know it’s SHAMEFUL duh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:22 AM
37

Back in my desperation / pickme days I once dated an overweight dude (because I listened to everyone around me chanting gIVe hIM A cHaNcE) After I dumped him when I found out he was sleeping with SEVERAL people, he once tried to get back with me and said “You know you like it” IN ALL SERIOUSNESS ... 😫🖕 good lord man, I had to hold my nose to keep from vomiting. No self awareness AT ALL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:45 AM
637

If👏He👏Wanted👏To👏He👏Would👏 never forget these words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:55 PM
6

You can’t teach a grown ass person how to care or feel empathy. They are supposed to learn comprehension when they are TODDLERS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:50 PM
4

Hard lesson to learn but people , especially women, have to accept that other people just don’t care that much about them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:48 PM
5

be clean ?!? 🖕🖕🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:49 AM
9

✋🏼 also relate and have been through something very similar, virtual hugs to you. You made it to him turning 18. You can breathe a sigh of relief. You can leave it all behind and let go of the guilt now. I know how heavy it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:34 AM
8

Great job! One year isn’t that long of an amount of time, so you’ve really accomplished a lot in just one short year! You’ll grow and get even stronger and life will get even better in the next year!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:15 AM
13

Very well said. There comes a peace with no longer giving a fuck and being a pickme. When you’re no longer stressing about impressions and the facade, it makes time with others much more enjoyable and anxiety free. This’ll be the next roaring 20’s for us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:09 AM
89

Banana flavor is always the leftovers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:55 PM
5

When I turned 40 the only wall I hit was one of no longer giving a fuck. It’s the greatest feeling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:05 AM
34

After I ended things with a guy because I found out he was still sleeping with his “ex” (and who knows who else) his response was “well I was always NICE to you!” 🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:16 AM
4

YASSS! I am still new to FDS and finally blockanddeleted yesterday. I’m struggling. The driving by/ coming into my work thing is one of my concerns. I worry about that. Reading this gives me strength that I can navigate this. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:59 AM
19

This. They say we need to cOmMuNiCaTe but what they really mean is they need us to teach their grown asses comprehension. Like toddlers. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:43 AM
51

And you know what? It’ll never be enough for these people giving unsolicited comments..I birthed 2 boys, but lost my first son many years ago, I don’t tell new people about him so if I meet new people and they ask me if I have kids I say 1 boy. I’ve been divorced 14 years. My son is getting older now. Im 40. FORTY. I STILL get comments, even yesterday, by a new co-worker “ooo you have to try for a girl. I’ll pray for you for your girl”. Like dude, my baby making days are long over. You don’t kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:59 PM
3

Get out of my way or I'm gonna shove!!! 🖤🤘
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