| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1036 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬 | MALE DEPRAVITY | FDS-MAGICA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:03 PM |
| 735 | Is the collapse of the middle class producing more LVM? | SHOWER THOUGHT | FDS-MAGICA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 05:28 PM |
| 239 | Forever GF finally done after being forced to care for BF's stinky slobbering furbaby | FDS-MAGICA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 12:08 AM | |
| 6 | When an ugly man is otherwise HV you can overlook it. I just wish men could. | SHOWER THOUGHT | FDS-MAGICA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:00 PM |
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| 23 | Jordan Peterson Goes Testerical Because Sports Illustrated No Longer Cares About His Geriatric Opinion (PATREON)I made this account specifically to use FDS. Now it means nothing. Maybe Famicom Disk System. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/22 10:59 PM |
| 10 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.RIP reddit FDS ☹ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/22 06:33 PM |
| 12 | How To Be More Safe Online & How To Protect Your DevicesMaybe you should let guys onto your wifi and use monitoring software to see what sites he connects to? Some of us who are especially computer competent can find a way. how the turntables! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 03:59 PM |
| 29 | How do you handle the "I'm a virgin" talk with guys?Do you masturbate? I think that counts as "experience". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 06:46 PM |
| 140 | Have you ever wondered why women sports fans follow men’s sports teams without ever questioning why we don’t follow women’s sports on mainstream media and sports venues?They need to bring back the short shorts in men's basketball | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 10:01 PM |
| 37 | What is wrong with these dudes and these age gap relationships. She's 27 he's 58. There's literally 3 decades between them. He was my age when she was born 🤮🤦🏽♀️.With celebrity guys I kinda get it, like maybe it's been your lifelong dream to have sex with Nick Cage, whatever. But sperm quality degrades over time. Old man sperm makes it more likely your baby will have DNA errors. It's not worth the risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 09:54 PM |
| -54 | Wishing a Happy 20th Anniversary to One of the Best FDS-Approved Rom-Coms of All Time: My Big Fat Greek Wedding!I'm glad you enjoyed this movie, but I'd like to warn others that it's not for everyone. How do I put this... it's the kind of movie boomers love? Is that too harsh? I saw MBFGW in the theater when it came out, and it's the worst moviegoing experience I've ever had. It was a packed theater and I was in the center of a row so I was trapped there and couldn't escape to walk around outside. Everyone was roaring with laugher, but I wasn't. I never thought it was funny, not even the stupid windex gag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 02:27 AM |
| 21 | PSA: A high value man will not be into BDSM.What I wonder is why Christian needs to drag a "normal" woman into his world of debauchery. It's like he's got to defile a woman or make her uncomfortable to get off. Finding a like-minded person wouldn't give him the power he wants. [Or more likely, it's so the reader/author can insert themselves into the story playing the role of an demure innocent so they won't feel bad about reading smut (because patriarchal programming dictates that women should never overtly be sexual)]. But IRL, man who i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 06:28 PM |
| 33 | My dad is a LVM and I feel bad for my motherYour mom should ask for a divorce before he does. Encourage them to go to counseling so that they can figure out if they want to remain married or not. Neither of them are happy it seems. It must be a huge bummer to find out that your dad isn't who you thought he was. He is a man. You may just have to accept that. ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 06:14 PM |
| 95 | Feelings of loneliness is realYes, I too feel lonely, but it's a double edged sword. A couple years ago I had a roommate and after they moved out I remembered how much I loved living alone. Even though I could use the money I won't get another roommate. My solitude is worth every dime and I can afford it. When I get lonely I enjoy fantasies of being with a man who loves and cherishes me, while remaining conscious that a guy like him may not actually exist. I'd rather be safe and alone with my fantasy guy than at risk with a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Hot Take: Marvel/DC Superhero culture is doing to men and boys what Disney did to women and girlsThis is what Martin Scorsese really meant when he said that comic book movies are not "cinema." They don't have anything to say, they don't make you think, they are just escapism. They're not art. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 02:37 PM |
| 185 | OLDs are literal hellThe worst part of OLD is that you often have to pay for the privilege of browsing crappy profiles and getting PMed by creeps. I'm never subscribing to this crap again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 02:23 PM |
| 205 | No fault divorce is now available in England and WalesHold up-- in 2022? Really? Holy hell, I had no idea that they didn't have that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 02:21 PM |
| 29 | Reminded me of the podcast episode y’all did on the Pick Me Disney Princesses 🤣In a way, Eric's written the way women are written in a lot of stories intended for men: he looks pretty, he exists solely as a goal for the protagonist, and we know literally nothing else about him. That's OK. It's nice to have a male in the story without it being all about him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 09:18 PM |
| 30 | Reminded me of the podcast episode y’all did on the Pick Me Disney Princesses 🤣Why did Disney have to make the brunette princess a kidnapping victim with an ugly prince?? Because Belle likes to read so making her a blonde wouldn't be believable. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 09:13 PM |
| 8 | Reminded me of the podcast episode y’all did on the Pick Me Disney Princesses 🤣That's something I never really understood about this movie-- If you wish to become a prince and your wish is granted, you are a prince. So that's not a lie, but in the movie it's treated like it's some kind of deception. What's the point of getting a wish granted if your wish still isn't actually granted? Of course in the end Aladdin does become a Prince via marriage, so maybe the story was the long route to granting Aladdin's wish by making Aladdin earn his wish and Genie knew that all along, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 09:06 PM |
| 144 | "policing of emotions"?When I was sad and was crying because my cat died less than an hour ago he yelled at me and told me that my crying was making him feel bad. I still remember the words he said "Why are you always so selfish? Don't you know how shitty I feel when you cry like this." Holy fucking shit :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | "policing of emotions"?Whenever I argue about politics with my older republican cousin, he acts super calm and smug the whole time, as if this is some kind of game where if you get mad about anything you lose. I, unfortunately, just get angrier and angrier as he says dumb shit like "homeless shelters have places for homeless people to charge their phones! They're not poor!" and "Republicans don't hate gay people! Name me one time where Republicans have discriminated against gays." (I name one, and he says "that's the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 08:52 PM |
| 5 | Is it just me, or is OLD getting even worse?I paid a subscription fee for 2 years an online dating site and I stopped logging into it after 2 months because it felt so useless. What a waste of money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 06:28 PM |
| 87 | J.Lo and Ben … ultimate pickme?I reckon it might be because of Affleck's status. He's a wealthy high-profile man, not some architect or fashion-designer no one has heard of. Celebrity dating is so weird; it's like modern-day royal lords and ladies. It's not exactly something you can compare to the lives of us peasants. I also suppose that dating when you're famous is difficult when people think they know you but they don't know you and some of them want to use you just because you're famous. Thus Ben would seem like safer bet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 06:16 PM |
| 118 | TAKE UP SPACE, YOUR VOICE MATTERSI get it, but phrases like these are actually helpful when you're around people who do not like it when you're direct with them and have the power to make you pay if they want. Customers, bosses, etc. "Kneecapping" our own language has a purpose. Sometimes you have to be... diplomatic. It's not self-hate, it's a survival technique. Especially when you're working around boomers who do not like it when underlings challenge them, because how dare you and millennials are so disrespectful blah blah b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 07:02 PM |
| 15 | Like…I know it’s bad, but I didn’t know it was THIS bad.I have to admit, I am impressed when I hear about men who don't cheat because the bar is indeed in hell. But what do they want? A doggie biscuit for positive reinforcement or some shit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 07:48 PM |
| 39 | interested to hear the thoughts about this post?OK, so what I'm hearing here is that men are shitty. That's what it boils down to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:22 PM |
| 29 | This is why you should NEVER be the breadwinner! ultra huge red flagYears ago I broke up with a boyfriend because I could see that he had no real career prospects or ambition. He's still living with his parents now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 03:12 PM |
| 148 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭This really ought to at least be a named unpaid position that you can put on your resume as an extracurricular activity. Work like this deserves to be credited but it almost never is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 05:18 PM |
| 74 | Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners?This is the true conclusion to FDS: The only winning move is not to play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:57 PM |
| 13 | Imagine All the Productive Things She Could Be Doing with Her Time Instead 🤦♀️Nobody says that about sitting around watching TV all day. Video games have been around for 50+ years and continue to rise in popularity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 02:27 PM |
| 101 | Absence is your best, most declarative weapon against men’s misogyny.In the movie The Irishman women characters are not very present at all, and some feminists were angry about that. But their absence was the sort of the point. The main character is a violent, toxically masculine person, but the women in his life exercise a different kind of power. They are not on board for his criminal lifestyle, and thus, they're not in his life. In the end, he gets what he deserves: nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 01:32 AM |
| 80 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childI love this woman and her binders. The problem with 50/50 is that what men think is 50% is not the actual 50%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 400 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerMelinda dumped Bill's ass, not the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 04:49 PM |
| 76 | 🚨PSA: More than 70% of communication is non verbal. Communicating with your partner isn't going to change anything. Your non-verbals are clear already!Guys on the autistic spectrum have trouble with this because their ability to read non-verbal cues is literally impaired. But it's not ableist to have expectations. Are they honestly trying? Do they show concern when you finally have to overtly tell them what you feel, and do they listen when you talk? If they're not putting in any demonstrable effort to compensate for their disability, then it really is just an excuse. I know this because I am on the autistic spectrum. It's a huge struggle to p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 29 | Women's Body SaviorI'm a lifelong fat girl/woman, and I absolutely hate myself. But I never let men manipulate me because of that. I dumped my perpetually-broke BBW-fetish boyfriend too. I at least have a minimal amount of self-respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Euphoria: libfem propaganda or thoughtful series?PIED Can anyone tell me what this means? I feel like I'm 100 years old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 04:39 PM |
| 28 | Even a "pet peeve" like refusing to go to the doc for regular check-ups can be lethal. Be ruthless when setting boundaries and standards!No, I believe it. I look at reddit's popping sub sometimes and every week there's NSFW posts with video of pimple popping on private areas 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 88 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..There have been some legendary gross-out stories on reddit, and it seems to me like this story is trying way too hard. I don't think it's legit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 07:07 AM |
| 19 | Pickmes in the media and the perpetuation of misogynyThese are the sort of people who say that if you don't lock your doors at night you deserve to get robbed or if you leave your purse on your car dashboard you deserve to get it broken into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 03:44 PM |
| 19 | “Do you know how much more successful I would be, if I had a wife?!” - highly recommend her new Netflix special!"bUtTeR eMaILs!!!1111" (trump flushes documents down the toilet) "This is fine." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:44 PM |
| 46 | Happy Galentines 💜How big is vegeta anyway? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:32 AM |
| 327 | Scrotes are really running out of excuses to shame women for their sexual livesI wonder if male self-esteem is linked to sex, though? The male stereotype that to be a real man you need to lose your virginity and the more sex you have with more hot women, the more masculine you are? That would explain a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 07:11 PM |
| 341 | I love herBeing an animator was my DREAM JOB. She actually has that job, and he s***s on it. Get fucked, scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:11 AM |
| 84 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.Sometimes I hope that posts like these are just fakeposts, but they all sound real to me. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:40 PM |
| 14 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!♪ You'd be better off lonely at Farmers Only dot com ♬ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 03:59 PM |
| 20 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬It's a shame that craigslist is dying, because I hate Facebook marketplace. It's so disorganized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 03:25 PM |
| 47 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬BBW = Big Beautiful Women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 12:57 AM |
| 99 | The title was « exactly why you should do coffee dates first »Sure, we can go on a coffee date... to Panera, where you'll be buying my coffee, salad, soup, and a muffin. $20. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:17 PM |
| 42 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!I would bet that the ex-GF didn't want this guy. They didn't have a chance to get back together. He is just bitterly regretting his choices and choosing to feel miserable-- which is what he deserves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 04:21 PM |
| 30 | 'Strong evidence' links pandemic job losses and new victims of domestic violenceAnti-vax, anti-mask nutters have pointed out domestic violence like this as a reason why government mandates to quarantine were bad and hurting people. But they are just saying that to support their "muh freedumbs" ideology, not because they actually give a shit about victims of domestic abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:59 PM |
| 58 | The slow normalization of pedophiliaI think the left wing progressive part is where it lost me. Progressives aren't going to support pedophilia. You're right. The idea that the left supports pedos is a smear made up by republicans to discredit progressives, going back to the days of "if we let gays marry then what's next, marrying rabbits?!" There's also a connection with Pizzagate and Qanon bullshit about the Dems running a pedo sex cult to feast on child blood to live forever or some crazy crap. Anyway, lets not help them out by… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:13 PM |
| 124 | He lied to this woman (and pretty much everyone else) for TWO YEARS and, of course, she's the problem.Indeed. I do not believe this post for a second. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 02:12 AM |
| 5 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.Joy is too strong a word for that. "Joy" is something holy. Something whole. Having good sex is just happiness. And yeah, being happy has value, but it's not joy. A person who uses term "joy" like that probably doesn't know what it really is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:40 AM |
| -12 | Marriage is not an accomplishment. Focus on leveling up!Never? don't know about that. Consider all the effort you have to put in to finding the right man: the vetting, the waiting, the learning, the work you put into leveling up... I think it would be OK to call it an achievement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:23 AM |
| 95 | On "Roasting"For some reason I don't understand, guys often relate to each other by busting each other's balls. I'm guessing because it's easier for them to communicate that way instead of having honest emotional relationships. So then you put them in a room with a woman and they think they can just treat you the same way they treat their guy friends and you're supposed to be OK with it. But they need to grow up and realize that it's not "gay" to have real emotions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:15 AM |
| 84 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪He demonstrated that he doesn't really know you or care to know you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:07 AM |
| 2 | The Movie Star and Me: Very Well-Written Account of a Big-Time LVM Actor Messing with a 23-Yr-Old Intern's MindThat seems very likely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 04:35 PM |
| 38 | He’s just like every other man I’ve met, except this one has a working machine of complicit enablers.People elsewhere on reddit think the movie star in question is Jake Gyllenhaal. Sounds plausible to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 04:33 PM |
| 392 | Scrotes don’t know what they wantStupid LVM saying they don’t want commitment but still expecting all the benefits of one. See, turns out they do know what they want after all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:40 PM |
| 85 | Guy I dated thinks a woman should design and furnish his new apartment. Proudly establishes he WANTS to be a project.That's just a lazy guy. Do you have interests? Do you care about literally anything? Then you can do home décor. Hang your posters in frames and put your football / Anime / Videogame shit on display shelves. Done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 08:52 PM |
| 193 | Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him powerPower does not corrupt, power reveals, because it's not until someone becomes able to do what they always wanted to do that you will find out what it was that they always wanted to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 08:28 PM |
| 1094 | Pretend you can't cookSome of us don't have to pretend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 11 | When a Boyfriend Has LVM/Pickme FriendsI think everyone has a lot of friends from when we used to be kids or teenagers, and statistically, a lot of them are bound to grow up into LVM/pickmes during adulthood, and as long as we're not close to these types of people anymore, then it's okay. Exactly. It could just be that they've been friends long enough that they are just used to each other. It's hard to make friends as you get older, so I guess it's hard to cut ties with people who aren't actively being terrible friends. I have some L… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 03:13 PM |
| 12 | This trended on r / starter packs with a lot of men gaslighting women’s experiences in the comments 🤦♀️I tried to explain this concept to my older brother and he got all defensive like "Why are you so into this man-hating thing?!" He has 2 teen daughters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:47 PM |
| 14 | Of course we already know these two are dysfunctional, but still had to share. This is disgustingThat sounds like a de-gloving injury waiting to happen 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 07:35 PM |
| 75 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.It might be hard to do that if your husband or ex-husband is sabotaging your progress by letting the boys do whatever they want, painting you as a mean nagging harpy so that he can be Mr. Fun Cool Dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 06:33 PM |
| 70 | Have you noticed there are more snoring men than women?My brother in law was prescribed a CPAP machine and of course he doesn't use it because it's too hawd to sweep with. Enjoy your brain damage, pal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 01:43 PM |
| 45 | Saw this on a popular subreddit and it grosses me out that chivalry is dead and they are promoting women engage in masculine behaviors. Don't we earn less anyway?I buy stuff for my broke friends because they're broke. If a guy makes more than me, I ain't buying him shit because he should know that I make less and respect that a $30 steak isn't loose change to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 03:16 PM |
| 87 | Libfems failed to protect us and romanticised the wolf's den.Like a broken clock, that shithead Camile Paglia is sometimes right. Misled by the naive optimism and “You go, girl!” boosterism of their upbringing, young women do not see the animal eyes glowing at them in the dark. They assume that bared flesh and sexy clothes are just a fashion statement containing no messages that might be misread and twisted by a psychotic. They do not understand the fragility of civilization and the constant nearness of savage nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 04:15 PM |
| 35 | Just got banned from relationship advice for my comment asking her to join us hereThere was a sub on reddit for literal female incels, and it wasn't even a hateful place but it still got banned. I guess women just aren't allowed to complain? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 07:34 AM |
| 29 | Rejecting men is harder on women than menI broke up with my BF years ago but we're still friends. I feel as though I'm supposed to be grateful to him for not taking revenge on me or something-- for doing the very bare minimum of being a friend. Even men who don't rape or murder benefit from those who do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/21 07:57 PM |
| 18 | Do older ( 40+ ) HVM exist? And how do I find them?No, men are garbage. Yeah, it's tough to find single guys my age who aren't broke or divorced or looking for a mommy for their kids or a bangmaid. Now that I'm getting close to 40 it's clearer to me now than ever if that a man doesn't have his shit together by 40, he never will. But I'm happy that I didn't meet these guys at a younger age and ruin my life alongside them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/21 12:13 AM |
| 7 | Forever GF finally done after being forced to care for BF's stinky slobbering furbabyThat sub is, unsurprisingly, female-dominated, and has regular posts similar to this, I've only been to that sub a couple times, but I think you may be right. Not all men have the empathy and/or domestic knowledge to understand how to meet the needs of an animal in the home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 07:26 PM |
| 50 | Forever GF finally done after being forced to care for BF's stinky slobbering furbabyBut the woman is still an asshole for trying to make her asshole bf get rid of the dog... ...that was purchased without her consent and to which she's allergic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 05:59 AM |
| 119 | Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children?Yep, they hang up the mask at the door with their hat when the come home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 12:01 AM |
| 59 | 50/50 trap, listen to this queen!It could be worse. Some women do all that but as forever girlfriends instead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 10:02 PM |
| 30 | When a man acts as if him being empathetic is some rare gift and not a normal thing everyone should have, I always think of this memeUgh, I have a (gay) guy friend who been saying for years that he's an empath and that whenever other people feel emotions around him he feels them too, but intensified. He literally means that in a magical psychic sense. At least he doesn't think he's an 'indigo child'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 04:50 PM |
| 104 | The more I read, the more I am getting sure that I really don't want to have to do anything with men.Some outsiders think FDS is a failure because it doesn't always result in dates. But actually, it's working perfectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 03:28 PM |
| 64 | single womenI know where you're coming from. Thanks to the way women are socialized, even the most self-focused still organically shift their life to suit their mate. It's not their fault, it happens so naturally. While women are definitely socialized to be caregivers, I think the real problem is that men are inherently lacking in empathy and are socialized to be that way too. They're the ones with the problem. Women wouldn't be improved by becoming shittier people. I got into an argument with my older brot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 07:37 PM |
| 252 | single womenalso, i really think this is why bitter and unhappy women push relationships onto other women so much (and shame singledom) alongside men. i think they're privately envious of single women's freedom, peace and power and it bothers them to see something they can't have. Recently, my father literally called me "bitter" because I'm so negative about men. Meanwhile, my mother is wallowing in her (voluntarily) untreated depression, complains 24/7, and says her life didn't turn out the way she wanted … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 07:21 PM |
| 86 | There are only double standards (vent)It's OK to be anti-capitalist and still participate in the system because that's what we're forced to do to fucking survive. And it's OK to ask your SO not to drag you down lest you mangled in the gears of the machine. If this man truly understood capitalism, he'd know that the penalty for not participating is death. https://i.imgur.com/Kz76yrq.png | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 05:03 PM |
| 93 | I feel like I can't trust menThis is the thing I can't stand most about men and how they regard women: they think of them as accessories and indicators of their success rather than people. Women are expected to stand by their man or whatever. Men are expected to upgrade when they can "do better". Yet it makes me even angrier that the ability to simply buy high-status mates is not available to women in the same way. Fat bald old LVM can get girls with 10/10 looks so long as they have status and $$$, but a fat ugly old woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 04:42 PM |
| 22 | “How to Cure a Feminist...pretend to share her beliefs”, published in the Maxim magazine. Beware Ladies, vet the men claiming to be advocates.Take a good hard look at step 2. This is why make-up and heels and other trappings of femininity are not pro-woman in themselves. They exist to make you pleasing to men. Even if women think they have claimed these things for themselves and are doing it for themselves, they're still giving men exactly what they want. Remember that 'pretty girl picks up a book and becomes plain because she's smart now' viral cartoon that made a lot of libfems angry because pretty girls are smart too? This magazine… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 05:37 AM |
| 118 | Need your opinions: is this guy I met LV?My friend thinks she could set me up with him but warned me that he’s a virgin. My gut reaction is that this is a major red flag. Why is a 24 year old guy a virgin? What’s his issue? Call me old-fashioned, but I see this as a green flag. Having sex is not a rite of passage required to become a man, and that kind of thinking leads to the predatory scrotes we commonly see, desperate to boink anything any way they can or else they think their balls will fall off. You know, the goTtA gEt LaId mental… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 03:44 PM |
| 370 | If a man is this obsessed with slimness, he doesn’t deserve to have someone carry his child. He is also probably repulsed by pregnant women.This isn't about being "healthy". Wow, I feel so bad that this woman wasted 5 years of her life on this scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 03:28 PM |
| -1 | Do you have any male friends?My best friend is a gay male. I also have an ex-BF who is currently my friend, but we were friends before starting a relationship. I broke up with him. In some ways, I'm thankful that he doesn't make advances or act weird when we're together, but that's another "the bar is in hell" aspect of men: I have to be tHanKfUL that he doesn't harass me after dumping him. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 44 | 50/50 (FDS art by me)A mixture of annoyance and entitled smugness 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 12:01 AM |
| 17 | The reactions I received when I used to talk about being a sugar babyMy older brother is a Republican and told me last week that only mentally ill people become homeless. 🙄 So I think some scrotes have a skewed view of the issue simply due to them have less capacity for empathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:20 PM |
| 29 | Scrotes really trying to make camels more “attractive” by cosmetic intervention. This is how far beauty standards have gone.We have "show" animals in the US and county fairs and etc. and they are judged by aesthetic criteria. It's not just camels: https://www.upi.com/Archives/1986/01/13/Cosmetic-surgery-used-to-fix-show-animals-looks/7307505976400/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:13 PM |
| 87 | 'Tis the Season for Max Scrotatiousness... Ho Ho Ho!scrotes: no fatties! also scrotes: what's a diet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 08:08 PM |
| 98 | This is why we block and delete, it’s as much about preventing our own harmful acts in a moment of weakness.Please tell me this is fake. I want so much for this not to be real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:08 PM |
| 7 | Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage jobI too broke up with a guy who was nice but had zero professional impetus. At the time he was unemployed but wouldn't even apply for minimum wage jobs because he felt it was beneath him. 🙄 I feel stupid. I made the right choice, right? You did. I'd be more likely to just say yes to a guy who does any kind of work, at least enough to cover him on my workplace health insurance (lol America sucks) but even I know the bar should be higher than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 09:04 PM |
| 67 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?My brother's in-laws got divorced after age 60. This weekend my brother defended his cheating father-in-law's shitty behavior by telling me that his wife had said she didn't want to have sex anymore. I said "oh, I see..." as though this was a reasonable complaint. No. It's not. That woman was not obligated to have sex with her fat toad-faced grumpy alcoholic boomer husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 03:34 PM |
| 64 | Porn is the worst template for what real sex is: an exampleShe was young then v😐v | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:23 PM |
| 142 | Porn is the worst template for what real sex is: an exampleA friend of a friend of mine was asked to oink like a pig during sex. She eventually broke up with that guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:12 PM |
| 180 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?Men have it just as bad as women because of all the pressure to be strong and in charge I'm a girl gamer! I like video games and RPGs! This makes me unique because other girls never ever like these things! Things that are for girls are stuuuupid and girls are stuuuupid for liking them. Makeup? The color PINK? Purses? No way! Only doing guy stuff makes you smart! Getting plastic surgery is morally wrong. [I still won't do it, but I won't judge you] The Bible doesn't say anything bad about women a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:19 PM |
| 31 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?It's not that bad... but it's not something I want to be associated with 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:05 PM |
| 245 | Things you used to find romantic before FDS?I am fat and my ex-boyfriend (also fat) was into Inflation Fetish art. I thought this made us an ideal couple. 🎈🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 07:56 PM |
| 59 | Live action Cowboy Bebop won't dress Faye as scanty as original, actress speaks outThat's good to hear, but the live action Cowboy Bebop is still going to be terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 03:16 AM |
| 7 | Is it crazy to have a goal to make enough money to hire a PI to vet?Be your own PI. Some of the techniques they use can be learned by us regular folks. Ordering a background would probably complete over half the job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 10:43 PM |
| -2 | When David Attenborough is asked about how his wife's death affected him, all he could bring up was how his daughter had to move in with him because he can't cook. Timestamp 16:40-17:50. This man is often thought of as a HVM because of his loves for animals. He is not.Don't you accuse me of defending men like a pickme. I'm just aware of history and how much things have changed in the past 100 years. For fuck's sake, the guy is over 90. Maybe you found a few kings among them, but that doesn't change the overall culture of a generation. Shit, I remember seeing a WW2 documentary where they interviewed some guy who was kid when his mom got killed in a bombing and he talked about how he never cried about it because people just didn't do that. Like WTF? Times were … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:31 PM |
| 21 | When David Attenborough is asked about how his wife's death affected him, all he could bring up was how his daughter had to move in with him because he can't cook. Timestamp 16:40-17:50. This man is often thought of as a HVM because of his loves for animals. He is not.A very very old British man declining to talk to strangers about painful feelings in his private life? My word! He's not even a boomer, he's older than boomers. Back then, didn't they ship kids off to boarding school at age 8 and beat them with rods if they showed emotions or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Your kinks aren’t quirky, this is abuse!Her lips disturb me in all the pictures. It looks like she got them plumped to get those blow-up doll "d*** suckin' lips" men seem to like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:25 AM |
| 102 | Always google a man you’re interested in, use the tools we have now.Google isn't enough; go to the library and get on EBSCO and LexisNexis and ProQuest and whatever other databases they have. The pastor at my parents' church (not mine) was a former cop who choked a black suspect to death. Pastor told everyone he was innocent. I looked up the text of the case and found that he probably wasn't. He still got off with just being fired, not murder (because ACAB), but was very angry about his termination (as if getting away with murder wasn't enough). I never went to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 05:43 PM |
| 30 | Men rarely think they are the problemThe family will filter information to hide LV behavior in their men too. My Gen X male cousin is getting divorced (again!), and my parents are talking about the terrible things my aunt and uncle say she did. Meanwhile, I'm trying to figure out what's really going on, because we are only ever going to hear the story from the perspective of my cousin and his parents, not the wife's. I'm sure everyone thinks my cousin is an angel. But I'm willing to wonder if that's true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Is the collapse of the middle class producing more LVM?this comes off as very classist Definitely, I know. Part of why I asked about all this is because I want to know if my personal experiences reflect modern reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Is the collapse of the middle class producing more LVM?To be completely honest I do think there is classism in this post. Definitely, I know. Part of why I asked about all this is because I want to know if my personal experiences reflect modern reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 61 | Is the collapse of the middle class producing more LVM?“The rugged individualism we’ve been forcefed by beneficiaries of corporate-socialism has ruined the sense of community” I interpret this to mean that in America we have a fantasy that people pull themselves up by their own bootstraps and becoming successful by working hard and thus deserve to be rich... while also forgetting that these people often had benefits that made it possible for them to do these things. Forgetting that capitalists become successful by exploiting others. So even poor peo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:24 PM |
| 74 | Is the collapse of the middle class producing more LVM?Thanks for pointing all that out. You're quite right. I wouldn't glorify the Boomer generations values and culture. Oh, I know. My parents voted Trump, which I see as a betrayal because they were pro-union democrats before that. Boomers and their regressive beliefs enrage me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:15 PM |
| 62 | Western males are growing less useful for society, so they are lashing out in odd ways. Thoughts?Men like to talk biOTrutHs about women to prove that they are inherently inferior to men, but if we're looking to biology for value, it's men who are the most worthless in the modern age. Men could fight wars and die because they were expendable. To make more lambs you only need a few rams in your herd, but you need many more sheep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:28 PM |
| 120 | Chelsea Handler Says Boyfriend Jo Koy Has 'Renewed My Faith in Men': 'Never Settle'I've often experienced a phenomenon where falling in love with someone makes them look more beautiful, even their flaws. I don't think that's a bad thing-- It's just attraction that originates in a different way. The part of it that makes me angry is that men are never encouraged to do the reverse for women, while as little girls we're fed the whole Beauty and the Beast story and "beauty is on the inside" and told that we're bad people if we judge ugly guys unfairly. I think this is another one … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:18 AM |
| 151 | I know a pickme had to swipe right on him. 🤮For real. Here's a great scrote story: Egyptian pilot flies to NYC on the reg, so he has affairs there plus sexually harasses and exposes himself to guests and hotel staff many times. Eventually the airline says he can't fly to the USA anymore because he's making them look bad. The NVM, angered at being finally held responsible for his actions, decides to deliberately crash the plane into the ocean on his last flight, killing everyone. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/EgyptAir_Flight_990 On top of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 03:02 AM |
| 15 | Men who thump their fists on the table when trying to 'emphasize' a pointAnd lets not forget the all those holes in the drywall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 08:57 PM |
| 73 | If he tells you to swallow his cum, tell him to swallow your period blood :)And that's how you find out you're dating a vampire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 08:55 PM |
| 32 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.On the flip side of this, I see my non-materialistic nature as a survival skill. I can manage money like a grown adult and I understand how to spend it wisely. There's nothing "cool girl" about it with me. When my clothes get too old to wear, I use them as cleaning rags. My ex-BF made fun of me for it-- just one of the reasons he's my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 08:35 PM |
| 44 | Another reason why we should never date men who don’t clean and proactively manage their health: this woman’s husband has poorly managed IBS and she’s getting shamed for being disgusted (“IN SICKNESS OR IN HEALTH!”) because he makes her clean up his literal shit.I think she's not in love with him and is in denial about it. Her revulsion is not her being a bad person because she lacks empathy for someone with a medical condition, but her true feelings bubbling to the surface. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:39 PM |
| 85 | Didn’t realize this sub would cause me to be bannedYeah, that happened to me more than once. It's the reason why I made this new alt account specifically for browsing FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:52 PM |
| 17 | Does anyone have any articles pushing back against sex positivity?You're not wrong. Camille Paglia is absolutely awful. I won't defend her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 09:57 PM |
| 286 | An observation regarding hair loss in men versus womenA woman at the company where I work developed severe alopecia and actually just let it go bald and stopped wearing wigs. She's married and otherwise pretty, too, sometimes wearing headwraps but still making it obvious she has no hair. I'm in awe of her. It's the biggest, boldest thing I've ever seen a woman do IRL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 07:48 PM |
| 50 | Does anyone have any articles pushing back against sex positivity?Camille Paglia is a very controversial person and an old-timey feminist; personally I don't like her but sometimes she's right. This article here burned itself into my mind years ago, despite her. Basically, she says sex-positive feminism doesn't protect women because it denies the dark truth that men are in control and are inherently predatory, not be trusted. https://time.com/3444749/camille-paglia-the-modern-campus-cannot-comprehend-evil Misled by the naive optimism and “You go, girl!” booste… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 07:41 PM |
| 160 | Not to be a downerMy suggestion: get excited to die alone. This. And that's OK, because even if you got married you'd still die alone because males tend to die first (esp. if you marry a guy like 20+ years older than you-- like WTF did you think was gonna happen?) People sometimes have kids expecting them to be their retirement plan, but they are not obligated to do that and might not have the means to support you. As for me personally, when I broke up with an unmotivated "nice guy" years ago, I was literally say… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 04:59 AM |
| 36 | Happy for Britney Spears for getting her freedom.Back when she was a huge star I looked down on her and slut-shamed her to hell. Thought she and her music were stupid. But looking back on it, I was wrong to just judge everything at face value. There was more going on than what I thought, and I respect her much more now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 07:10 PM |
| 118 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.Sometimes I think I don't hate men. Then I see posts like that and remember how detestable they really are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | if you’re gonna get married they better talk about you like Stephen Colbert talks about his wife Evelyn McGeeSaving this comment for future reference. Very well worded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | if you’re gonna get married they better talk about you like Stephen Colbert talks about his wife Evelyn McGeeYears ago when I found out this guy was a HVM IRL, I fell in love. Please don't ever lets us down, Colbert. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:26 PM |
| 94 | Just landed a 6-figure job with a new company. 💅🏼That being said, capitalism still has some problems in that accumulating wealth is the only way to have value as a person. It's the only way to have a choice and a voice. But don't hate the player, hate the game, as they say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 05:42 PM |
| 34 | PSA: More reasons to turn off your “chat” feature if you’re a user of FDS.I went so far as to create an alt account specifically for FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:30 PM |
| 27 | Truth in humor?😬On the other hand, men desperately trying to hang on to their hair can get pathetic. If they go too far they might end up with Trump hair (if that can even be called "hair"). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:30 PM |
| 7 | What are your ladies’ opinions on finances when moving in with a boyfriend/fiancé/husband?You seem really adamant to move in with this guy despite our advice. But if you're going to do that, it seems there is one more thing you can do: A cohabitation agreement. https://www.moneycrashers.com/cohabitation-agreement-living-together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:27 PM |
| 21 | The "good old days" weren't good for Grandma. Now we know better- suffer for what?Additionally, it wasn't until 1975 that the concept of the No-Fault Divorce came to the US. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No-fault_divorce Previously, a couple couldn't be divorced unless you could prove one of them cheated or beat the other or was infertile, etc. With no-fault divorce, you can just leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 02:44 PM |
| 57 | Had to read this in my English comp class.. immediately thought of you all ❤️❤️❤️ Mods, please delete if not allowed.Some pickmes are doing just that without getting married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 09:46 PM |
| 128 | Married men live longer because of female care, this is well established and stories like this are not uncommon. Why is it that we hardly ever hear about a woman whose life was saved because of her husband's care and attention?I remember an episode of Dr. Phil ages ago where a couple were having marriage problems because the wife was sick with something and while interviewing her (fat, bald) husband about it he said "I didn't sign up for this." I don't know what happened next because I changed the channel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 09:41 PM |
| 10 | Safety when dating men: Memorize a fake numberOK, but if the fake number is in service it can cause a random person to have to talk to some creep they've never met for 30 seconds and they never asked for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 04:32 PM |
| 14 | Watching Sweet Home Alabama after FDSThe writing credits on this movie are both men. Not a surprise. Also, it's written for middle America, who want to see their country white trash values praised over them high-falootin' rich city folk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 75 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:It's no coincidence that women used to be forbidden from education, and still are in some backwards parts of the world. Men know that if women get smarter, they won't be the docile beasts of burden that they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 05:10 PM |
| 102 | "You will end up 40, alone and desperate, because you so stuck up". A teardown of one of the most common negs out there.40 is getting pretty close for me, and I'm more thankful than ever that I broke up with my lazy boyfriend years ago. He's still living with his parents and still doesn't have a real job. > My cat won't try to make me miserable to lift itself up Well, I get yelled at every day, I've been peed on, barfed on, bitten, scratched, and he refuses to eat the life-saving prescription cat food I'm giving him because he wants fancy feast, etc... but he's worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:39 PM |
| 119 | Pick-mes Who Try to Act Powerful or Like BossesI think these kinds of women have been taught to believe that it's a woman's responsibility to do all the emotional labor to maintain the relationship, and if she ends the relationship it will be a failure for her. Self-sacrifice is virtuous to her, so she's proud of all that she has endured. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:53 PM |
| 15 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileWow this guy's nose is UGLY AF. Those nostrils, fucking EWWWW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:30 AM |
| 5 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimBootlickers: but if we defund the police then who will protect you? Us: the same as it is now, no one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 08:08 PM |
| 33 | Avoid using OLD to meet menI actually paid $200+ for a 2 year subscription to one of the popular OLD sites. I don't regret it because you really can't find out what these sites are like until you pay (it's a deliberate trap) but I probably won't be doing it again. Trying out OLD has made me feel more comfortable with being alone. Every scrote who has PMed me has been broke (the perpetually unemployed type) or creepy or both. When looking over these profiles I literally feel a physical tightness in my throat, like I'm goin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Access to better mates isn't enough to motivate people to grow upFDS women know that, to men, all women become disposable eventually, and that's why they take steps to protect themselves . TRP men are just mad that the tables have turned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Access to better mates isn't enough to motivate people to grow upFDS women. Abusive, manipulative vampires that dump them anyway for a better looking man and take them to the cleaners in no-fault divorce court. If your spouse cheats that is not no-fault. Also, it's long been men that dump women like garbage when they start looking old. Men are only butthurt that they aren't rich enough to do it sooner. This is what makes relationships with modern men undesirable no matter how easy it is to achieve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 02:35 AM |
| 5 | Access to better mates isn't enough to motivate people to grow upThe halcyon days that men are truly yearning for are when women were barred from going into certain professions and being leaders, and the concept of the "no-fault divorce" did not exist. It was never about women being motivated to be thin or pretty because they wanted a man, but because they were denied the economic stability to fucking survive. Now that women can support themselves, a man has to be a better choice than a cat and Netflix, not merely better than starving in the gutter. And that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 7 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsIf I ever get serious with a man I'm going to run a credit report and background check, and if he whines about it he's not The One. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 03:23 AM |
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