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I agree. I don't like him he gives off bad vibes, like he is lacking the sincerity and integrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 09:26 PM
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I love living with just my kids! It's wonderful ❤ And the house is all to myself when they stay at their dad's, so I get to enjoy the much needed solitude also. I'd never cohabit with anyone, even another single woman, while I'm living with my kids. This piece and freedom is too delicate and too precious to compromise with a presence of another adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 05:31 PM
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My ex husband caused so much damage to the house, furniture and appliences during our marriage! It was so fucking ridiculous that my mother thought he was mentally deficient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 05:23 PM
8

Compulsively right swipes on everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 05:13 PM
79

The legacy part made me laugh out loud. The only legacy 99% of men can offer is androgenic alopecia at 30, severely photodamaged skin by 35, beer gut, ED by 40, high blood pressure, fatty liver, kidney stones and audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 01:55 AM
530

Somebody, educate this woman on the risks of living with a community dick, HPV, how it's not detectable in men and how her risk of cervical cancer is significantly higher than in women who live with men who have integrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 06:40 PM
572

Why eyelashes lol 😆 How is this cute? Would he appreciate if she gave him fake mustache as a gift? God, people are dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 07:05 PM
84

You reminded me. Long time ago, I briefly dated a man who was already established in his career, making 6 figures, while I was a nearly-starving student, working part time for a minimum wage. On a second date, a dinner, when the bill came I awkwardly god my wallet out because god forbid he'd think I was a goLdDigGer, even though that bill was half my paycheck 🤡 He let me pay for both of us and said, "Thanks for helping"... Thanks for helping. I, with my measly couple hundreds bucks to my name ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 09:22 PM
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and to continue with the sad self-deception that this low effort dude will someday become prince charming Any day now pokes turd with a stick but turd is still a turd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 02:21 PM
115

We don't just create life. We also sustain and maintain it, nurse and nurture, heal, love and establish emotional connections within and outside communities that last generations and promote cohesion and resilience. Men's only job is to provide protection and help with resources (women are generally way more resourceful anyway) to ensure a safe, hazard-free environment for their women and children. And they fail at that, refusing to be men and existing as parasites while feeling entitled to all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:38 PM
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Exactly. It's not as much about their physical unattractiveness (and most men are simply unkempt and poorly groomed, not objectively ugly), as it is about men being bad people, treating women as objects and lacking the basic qualities of humanity that every woman appreciates and offers in a relationship, such as kindness, care, generosity, gentleness, devotion, empathy and loyalty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:19 PM
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And also to prevent mass murdering by people like him. I read it as a threat. This individual is very ill and dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:07 PM
9

Salute to a fellow trail runner! 🏃‍♀️ I'd be absoluty devastated if my favorite trail was overtaken by an ex 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:23 AM
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"OMG, I totally forgot I was gonna go lay on my couch! See ya!" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:19 AM
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I think it depends on how he presents it. I would totally be hyped for him of he said something like, "OMG, I decided to try snowboarding too. So excited! I'd really appreciate any advice for a noob like me. Maybe one day I'll be good enough to join you." But I sensed from the OP that it went rather like, "I can't see you next weekend because I'm going to snowboard. I've heard it's fun."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:17 PM
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Congratulations on your degree! 🎊 👏 💐 🥳 It's a huge deal. Hope one day you'll meet a man who, unlike that parasite, will appreciate what you bring and share the beauty of this life with you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 09:27 PM
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As a lazy introvert who is also hard to impress, I'd rather shoot myself in the foot than go on a date just to score a free dinner 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 08:43 PM
458

Practice what? Wasting my time? I can accomplish that by starting at my phone all day without been annoyed by a man I don't even like lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 07:59 PM
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It's not a compliment. With the exceptions you've already mentioned, people say it to gently hint the other person that they are a dorrmat without saying they are a doormat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:55 PM
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The sound of his voice and his speech pattern. If he called me, I'd assume it's my 58 yo neighbor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:39 PM
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This 👸 You have to be unapologetically greedy with your time, effort and energy so you don't waste it and have enough to give only to those who really matter, such as yourself, your children, and your truly loved ones. Men have to earn this privilege, otherwise your time, effort and energy will be taken for granted, abused and wasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 07:22 PM
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I'm sorry, but I don't want to be "sexy" like her when I'm 70. She isn't sexy, she is tacky and borderline trashy, like the whole point of her existence is to get random dicks hard. No. Women are much more than asses and boobs, empty vessels that look fuckable. With age, women have so much more to offer than just looks, but for some reason this woman's main concern is to look sexy. And it's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 05:41 PM
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Mom is desperate to unload this liability of a useless scrote on some unsuspecting woman 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 05:35 PM
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He sounds 50 plus, almost a senior citizen, and his mom is calling on his behalf... Is he mentally deficient??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 05:34 PM
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I literally don't know any gorgeous woman, or so called "10/10" by scrotes, who'd participate in hookups/ONS. Most of them have have been happily married since college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:33 AM
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My grandfather met my grandmother when they were 18 and 17, respectively, and he new immediately that he will spend the rest of his life with this woman. He went through WW2, came back to her, built a house for her, became a highly respected member of a community, very talented not just in his profession, but also as an artist and a luthier. He went above and beyond to provide for his family. And he loved my grandmother till his last breath. She would always talk about their love, so tender and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 05:40 PM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 10:50 PM
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Those damn Birkin bags do real damage to human eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 10:15 PM
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I wonder if they're actually teen girls, already groomed into believing thay this is the way to get that luxury lifestyle that they can't realistically achieve through other means. Girls who brag on tictoc how they had sex with an old men for a designer bag when their mom wouldn't buy it for them. Or just sick pervs pretending to be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 10:03 PM
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It is absolutely beyond your control. You don't just need to meet him, the circumstances must be favorable for this relationship to continue for years and decades. Some get lucky, others don't. What I have learned so far is to be OK with the very real possibility of never meeting such person. Life is beautiful with or without a partner. Edit: I still think that dating is worth the shot, especially for women who want to have a family. And even if you don't want a family, dating is still fun when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 09:41 PM
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I'm talking about biological children. Not everyone is ready to adopt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:17 AM
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Agree, but until they develop, approve and inplement that artificial womb, surrogacy will be the only option for people who can't have biological children on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 12:52 AM
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"When we finally find someone to date, we should have a double date!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 05:49 PM
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I was set up with a man, we have never met before and were very much strangers, who took me to a restaurant where the bill for the two of us was almost $400. We only had one bottle of wine. If they have plenty of disposable income and generosity, they treat you like they'd treat themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 05:13 PM
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Judging by that steakhouse thread, those men who assume that women are after a free meal, well, they are projecting. Turns out, most of the reddit male population lives in such poverty or in such ill state of mind, that a $50 steakhouse plate is a luxurious feast to them and totally worth the trouble of getting dressed, getting hair done, getting nails done, putting makeup on, wearing heals, driving to the restaurant and spending hours with a stranger, potentially jeopardizing our own safety. An…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 04:45 PM
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But he taught her a lesson! Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 04:03 PM
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I just looked at that thread and he has convinced himself that she must be an escort. Because, apparently, only escorts like dining at stakehouses. There is also bunch of basement dwellers screeching that they make LOTS OF MONEY but $50 for dinner is not normal. She is a golddigger, a "foody call", red flag. Normal people only eat ramen off the floor and for a first date it is preferable to take her for a walk along a freeway and if you feel especially fancy, it is acceptable to go 50/50 on a on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 12:11 AM
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What is also bizarre is how those pickmies are attacking women with standards instead of calling out men who are asking wrong women for a walk in the field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 07:58 PM
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It seems like people beginning to lose social grace. Most aren't familiar with basic courtesy or etiquette, lack reading comprehension skills, can't read the cues, jump into conclusions and rush to give advice just for the sake of speaking. Reddit is the worst of the places to seek dating advice due to the high concentration of such socially awkward people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:44 PM
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Right? I take my son there because he loves stakes and I don't like cooking them. I'd never think it was too fancy for a date. Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:39 PM
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I shared a similar experience on one of the dating subs where people were discussing walk dates. I got so much hate from pickmies and scrotes! They told me that fancy princesses like me ruin dating for men with such expectations, and that I'm too closeminded for not accepting walk dates 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:33 PM
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My former coworkers were mostly men, many of them HVM and slightly older than me. I just began dating back then and sometimes would ask them for advice. They would always, always set me stright by telling me that anything less than a dinner in a nice restaurant or an event at a nice venue for a date is plain disrespectful. Disrespectful and I should never let any man to drag me down like that by suggesting a walk date or a dive bar. Those are fuck boys, looking for an easy lay. No decent man wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:26 PM
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They know whay they are doing. Eliminating competition for very attractive women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:21 PM
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So, how those great tips from reddit incels are working out for him? Looks like he is on his way to the incelhood and forever hand gf lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:06 PM
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Oh yes, they very much do know and do think! My ex used to hate traveling with us. I was pretty much living a life of a single mother while I was married. Disneyland trips, road trips, trips to the local parks - he was never there with us! And if he did join, he'd made sure to suck all the joy out of us. Now, that we have been divorced for over 5 years, he suddenly learned how to book cruises and vacations and whines that he'd love to go as a family because it's lonely to travel alone, or that I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:02 PM
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Yes. Also, in my unfortunate experience, men who insisted on a phone call before setting up a date would always, always turn that phone call into a sex talk or even become creepy. It gave me a strong aversion against phone calls with men I've never met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 05:45 PM
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This needs to be broadcasted for all women to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 05:40 PM
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You did great! When I was still on OLD, I was always suspicious of men who demanded we get off the app ASAP. It made me very uneasy but I couldn't articulate why since I wasn't familiar with PUA or redpill tactics. I used to tell them that I don't move off the app until after the first date, if it goes well. Some respectfully agreed, some fell off, and a small number threw a fit which got them blocked and immediately reported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 05:39 PM
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Could be a reason why she gets distraught when he watches porn. He probably insists on recreating degrading acts, such as choking, slapping/hitting her, or violent anal and causes lots of pain to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 11:16 PM
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What is he doing to his wife if sex with him makes her cry?? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 06:44 PM
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Whas that really a psychiatrist or a janitor who tried on his coat, got caught and proceeded to play along 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 06:25 PM
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100% this! But I think most women confuse love with initial infatuation and then, when their bad relationship progresses, with codependency and the fear of being alone. Neither of that is love. Infatuation and lust were sold to women under the disguise of love because real love is an effort. Real love is not abstract. It is a willful, conscious choice to prioritize the wellbeing of the other person despite any temptations, inconveniences or even hardships, to care and protect and to be the best …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 06:20 PM
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That's infatuation and conditioning of women to be the main caretaker who always gives, gives gives and gets nothing in return 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 05:48 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 07:34 PM
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Just respond with "I'm not gonna have time for this" and if they persist - mute them if you can't block for any reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:29 PM
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What movie is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:25 PM
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I wish she could sue him for tort but he is so broke, she'll have to take his kidney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:27 PM
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Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:20 PM
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I suspect that definition of "great" for women in such relationships is "he doesn't hit me" 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:13 PM
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If it's real, he is very mentally sick and so she is, just in a different way. The whole thing sounds like a fantasy of some perv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:21 PM
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"Like all of us" umm no. Not all of us are degenerates who piss themselves on public to get off on shame kink. Is she brain dead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:19 PM
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I fucken hate how low life of all sorts has adopted a bad habit of excusing their shitty behavior with anxiety, shyness and attachment theories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:15 PM
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He is not THAT spontaneous to extend his hospitality and courtesy to a stranger. Having sex with that stranger is fine though, as long as she doesn't get too comfortable and doesn't feel entitled to be treated like an esteemed guest. What a gentleman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:11 PM
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This is the way 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:42 PM
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Looks like she was scammed and sold a bootleg copy of Husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:41 PM
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My children never made me cry but my ex husband did all the time. It's so much better to be a single mother than a mother plus a wife of an incompetent asshole. Single motherhood can be tough and challenging but never, ever humiliating, physically exhausting and emotionally destroying and debilitating like bad marriage/cohabitation is. Love to all mamas out there ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 02:59 PM
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That sounds hopeless and depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 03:39 AM
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I really hope they are married! What would be her recourse in case they are not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 03:32 AM
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They didn't go through closing yet, so he is still the co-owner with the OP. That's why she is so worried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 03:30 AM
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I don't think it's possible to evict him until the deal is closed and it doesn't look like he is going to proceed with closing. He is still the owner. I'm afraid she'll have to wait for the divorce court to order the sale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 12:28 AM
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Beautiful women and beautiful bodies. While putting zero effort into looking half decent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:21 PM
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Not in one day, no. It might take generations. But I'm hopeful. To protect women we must criminalize solicitation of prostitution and outlaw porn. But true change will have to happen in the heads, which is a slow process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:18 PM
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I read it several times but still fail to understand what he is whining about and why he cares what her status was after HE broke up with her. Was he being a hemotional princess and expected her to chase him? Another strike of a "superior reason and logic" 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:14 PM
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I hear what you're saying but I was referring to the manhood as a whole. Those abusers would abuse anyone if there were no repercussions, such as a loss of a job. They absolutely do know that abuse is bad and porn is dehumanizing, they are not dumb. They just don't care and can't empathize. And that's exactly what my comment is about - knowing and understanding is not the same as caring. They need to learn how to care. At least now they begin to care about the damage that porn causes to them and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:07 PM
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Nah, they go above and beyond for a woman they really, REALLY want and feel that she will raise his status in the eyes of the bros, make them envious. It's not guarantee, however, that she will remain on a pedestal for very long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 08:45 PM
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This is how people with integrity and self respect reason and men like him lack both. They will deceive and string women along, even get into and stay in toxic, unhealthy relationships just to get some sex and domestic labor for free until someone better comes along. The "reasonable and logical" gender has no sound reason and no logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 08:32 PM
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He is saving money for his future dream girl. How dares she to demand he spends it on her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 07:03 PM
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That's my pet peeve too. My mother is one if those who thinks woman is supposed to train a man and blamed me in my husband's abusive behavior. Fuck that. If I have to train a man how to be a decent human being, I would rather not participate in dating at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:59 PM
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Next time he will "accidentally" break her arm then break her neck. If he can't control himself, he is a vicious animal that doesn't belong to the society and needs to be locked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:15 PM
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Agree. Men still have a long way to evolve into fully capable to empathize beings. It will take them a while to collectively realize and comprehend the damage that porn does to the whole society, not just their weener. If it takes putting an emphasis on their sexual function and brain damage to gain the traction and spread the word, so be it. It's baby steps but it's still better than stagnation and complete rejection of the idea that porn is harmful in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 04:46 PM
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And a rash on those thighs. There's always rash or acne. So gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:22 PM
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They don't think. It's a compulsive disorder where they get off on the fact that SOMEONE lays an eye on their dick. Remember those creeps who catch you off guard and open their coat to flash their junk? Same. But that was risky and online is safe, therefore we see more of this behavior nowadays. It's literally every second man that has this deviation, probably because they fried their brains woth porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 05:00 PM
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Wth, who broke her like that? He is literally asking a woman to shove his dick up her face and she is celebrating him for "politeness" 🤦‍♀️ Ma'am, would you mind me to flash my junk in front of you? Oh no, fine sir, I wouldn't mind at all! Please, feel free to air your weenie since I really appreciate your polite demeanor. How flattering! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:53 PM
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Very correct observations! For anyone interested in seeing the actual exhibits of those men and pickmies who proudly consider themselves "strong", "independent" and "cool" girls - check out any dating sub. I always cringe in secondhand embarrassment when I see them competing for the biggest 🤡 🏆 in the comment sections. "You need to date me! I'd never ask you to pay for dates, never ask you for affection or emotional support and will suck your dick on demand!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:34 PM
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Don't forget to call him a golddigger too while he pays bills and asks you to cancel your OF subscription. You know they love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:31 PM
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That's another oversexualization of female body types. After the rampant open and shameless anorexia kink we have this thicc kink that is misrepresented as the new beauty standard which negatively affects easily impressionable women to modify their bodies in creepy, insane ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:22 PM
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Support your king 💪💪💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:56 PM
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Hmmm, I see absolutely nothing unhealthy or unrealistic in active life style. Physical activity is absolutely necessary not only for a physical health, but also for a mental health, along with good nutrition. Unrealistic beauty standards are fake breasts, butt implants, removed ribs, filtered and heavily photoshopped photos, promotion of anorexia and obesity - everything that is extreme and inherently unhealthy. Those scrotes are either projecting, gaslighting or literally drive those women craz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:30 PM
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Slip in hot men's dms, tell them you are single, or in a dead bedroom, or your man is lame in bed and has microweenie. Accidentally let your man see. He'll know you are just joking and gonna be so happy that you share his hobby 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:16 PM
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They all think they are 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:23 AM
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💯 this. They think we'd miss their crusty community dick. We do not, never have and never will. Because after all, the vast majority of them are bad at sex, don't khow how to make love and can't please a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 08:37 PM
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Excellent thread. Very motivational and eye opening. Thank you, wise ladies, so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 06:37 PM
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Isn't it true? My ex father in-law, a Vietnam war veteran in his 80s, is always exceptionally well groimed, smells good and gets regular manicures and pedicures. If he can do it, any other scrote can do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 12:08 AM
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It is hard and sadly, most women will never meet a great life partner. That's the harsh reality of life as a woman in a porn sick patriarchal society. People tend to contribute their success to some strategy that they've employed or some quality that they posess and single people don't, but in reality it boils down to luck. It's like winning a lottery - you have to be at the right place at the right time to meet someone ready, available and compatible with you and who will appreciate your unique…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 08:37 PM
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I can smell the first picture 🤢 Scrotes like this completely let themselves go and reek of body odor, greasy hair and bad breath. Nothing about him is unfixable, like facial features or a height, for example. He is just gross because of his own laziness. And it is shameful. He should be ashamed of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 07:23 PM
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Data entry, flipping burgers and any other menial labor is guaranteed poverty, sometimes also physically demanding. The allure of SW is in the pushed false narrative that tricks young, naive and vulnerable women into believing that it's their way out of poverty or an easy way to make lots of money fast without actually working.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 05:17 PM
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Bingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 02:09 PM
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If we assume every man is automatically at fault, that would lead us to the presumtion that there are no HVM. That leaves us with no one to date. We have to be realistic. At a certain age, a man who has never been married is a much bigger red flag than a divorced one. There are, probably, some exceptions but they must be extremely rare. I see many amicable divorces among people of my age but I have yet seen a well adjusted, decent man without a peterpan syndrome who has never been married. There…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:46 AM
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Yep. My cousin is one of those women. She is on her third husband now, craving for an opportunity to cheat but can't because she lives in a small town and now has quite a reputation...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:36 AM
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They are actually scared that a hint of color would turn them gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:27 AM
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"Be patient with him and you might win his heart" 😂🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:57 PM
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Sisters. Attacks on this community will always happen, and sometimes angry manlets will try to single you out to harrass you personally. Don't give them such pleasure! Go to your account settings and turn off the options to message you, to chat with you, to follow you, and in notification settings - to notify you if someone mentions you. You can also block "Concerned messages" account. Scrotes breathe to get a breadcrumb of our attention, that's the sole purpose of their insignificant existance.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 11:26 PM
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She got everything. Everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:41 PM
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Or maybe, hear me out, maybe she is like my friend who has convinced her husband to divorce on paper "in case of a lawsuit" and transferred all rights to his businesses proceeds, all real estate and all money to her name "for protection" 😂 My ex haaates her 🤧 He is convinced it was her idea for me to yeet him out of our house when I couldn't deal with his bulshit anymore, as if he was some perfect husband 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:37 PM
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Sweet! All the best to you ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:18 PM
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Just gimme a chance goddammit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 10:18 PM
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Mine is a middle child, who is emotionally stuck at around 5 years old. The world revolves around her and she won't hesitate to throw a tantrum here and there or stonewall you for days. She is emotionally exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 07:00 PM
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TBH, she sounds like my mother. My brother and I are still dealing with PTSD. My dad, the kindest man I've ever known, had died in his 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 05:18 PM
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That's always the case!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 12:55 AM
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And she'd do anything to keep her status quo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 07:28 PM
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Trust me, they all know. Their friends know, everyone knows. It's never a secret to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 07:08 PM
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This is one of the many reasons I would never work in such an industry again. I got a whole new degree in geosciences to escape that world and will never be going back. I'd rather starve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:43 PM
21

It's a whole different world. They don't live by our standards. Those women know what and who they are living with. This is normal in their circles and they know their husband do and always will have mistresses. They are not the ones in power, otherwise they would not be in this situation. It's the deal that they make with their consciousness and their dignity for many different reasons. They know what they are doing and you won't be opening anyone's eyes there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:39 PM
36

I want to see a book for men on how to grow an ounce of personality besides ball scratching, porn and video games and evolve emotionally into an actual human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:16 PM
5

He looks and sounds like an abuser. Shrug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:09 PM
7

Oh god, that's a bunch of middle schoolers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:09 PM
30

Also, "clean" and "sober" which means drug and alcohol addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:10 PM
64

Yes, because he is forgetting that men are more financially irresponsible than women, and in most cases, a man is a liability to his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 05:28 PM
84

Exactly. That's why women nowadays prefer to stay single instead of marrying incompetent losers 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 05:26 PM
31

She desperately needs it to make sense, so she'll construct a ridiculous narrative to sooth herself. Because otherwise she will have to become single, and that thought is incomprehensible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:24 PM
45

She isn't? 😳 I sincerely thought she was a SW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:18 PM
20

Second hand embarrassment 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 07:44 PM
15

I agree with you 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 07:33 PM
53

I wouldn't even consider a relationship with someone who lives that far away. I understand that the problem is hypothetical, but think twice before entering a relationship that could potentially create such a problem in the future. When there's so much pressure to compromise in an attempt to maintain and sustain a relationship under inconvenient or difficult circumstances, there's a big chance that contempt and resentment will arise between the partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 07:14 PM
434

This is wolesome. We need more content like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 04:41 AM
111

Where did OP say she asked a man out or suggested asking one out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 12:06 AM
60

But he wouldn't hesitate to incert his precious penis into that random woman he hardly knows and risk contracting some terrible antibiotic-resistant STD or even HIV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 06:50 PM
7

I think all you can do is inspire people to be the best version of themselves. And of course, always ask yourself a question, would he be as supportive, forgiving and encouraging if roles were flipped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 01:25 AM
151

I remember the original thread. Some of them elaborated further in the comments on the circumstances of their breakups and later regrets, and holy shit, those women dodged a bullet! I felt bad for those who gave in and reunited with those dumpster fire losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 01:21 AM
74

Then he dumped her because she developed health problems and was deemed to be "damaged goods".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:34 PM
43

He absolutely should leave and not waste her time. She has realized she needs much more than he can offer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:27 PM
30

She sensed that he is not going to marry her. Too bad she didn't make the decision not to have sex way before they moved in together. Now it's going to be so much harder for her to get rid of him with minimal losses because after you have sex too soon, you can't put that genie back in the bottle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:26 PM
2

Thank you and hugs ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:30 PM
82

Yes. I've encountered quite a handful of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:28 PM
37

Poor delusional scrote thinks he is someone's "perfect person" despite his deranged fantasies lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:25 PM
60

Ugh, I can't stand this kind. Looking away, arms folded, short responses. These dates don't last long, I cut it short and leave. What's the point in wasting your time and energy on such unpleasant men? The minute you recognize the behavior - leave. Just say it isn't going to work and walk away. Let him steep in his own negativity and grumpiness, alone. Doesn't matter if it's assholeness or an Aspergers, it's not gonna work either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:50 PM
25

You see, finding an HVM who is also compatible with you and is interested in building a relationship with you is like winning a lottery of sorts. All the FDS wisdom can't materialize that person without a little bit of luck to be at the right place at the right time, and every time you meet someone and start vetting them, you hope that this time he will prove to be HVM. Vetting is like opening a Schrodinger's box. While we are vetting, that man is simultaneously HV and LV until proven otherwise,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:35 PM
18

Sunscreen, prescription retinol, good moisturizer and LED therapy do miracles to your skin in addition to good sleep, nutrition, fresh air and exercise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:55 PM
82

Just wanted to add that in no way we have "let go" of ourselves. We are athletic, well groomed, educated women with careers, who dress very well and aren't couch potatoes of any sorts. We just feel very comfortable in our own skin and honestly, couldn't care less if anyone would find us less attractive without the makeup in our day-to-day lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:52 PM
88

Me and all my friends have been mostly make up free for years. We do wear it sometimes for an occasion, but that's it. I can't be bothered with it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:15 PM
83

He raises his voice at you. It's enough to cut all ties ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:08 PM
65

It's just one giant red flag. And the fact that he lives near you now, with his anger issues, is very concerning. Girl, you need to start thinking how to safely get rid of this future abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:07 PM
27

My friend was groomed and bullied by her LV SW family to become a stripper at a young age. She was shamed for wanting an education and career. She cave in and spent a decade stripping. It was a very degrading and traumatic experience despite relatively good money. She met a HV future husband who insisted she stops stripping and goes for her dream degree. And she did it! She graduated, worked hard and now she is a successful business owner, making MUCH more while working less than she would ever …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 03:37 PM
2

I wasn't shaming anyone. Where did you get that? My stance is that fantasizing about fictional men is a fruitless waste of energy, which I personally feel strongly against, that's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 03:21 PM
4

I was talking about fantasizing outside of reading and other mental activities. To each their own and I prefer to spend my time actually reading, thinking and strategizing than fantasizing about some fictional man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 11:43 PM
-10

I think any fantasizing is wasting mental energy. I see zero benefits in occupying your mind with fictional characters when these mental resources could be used for planning actual goals and reassessing your strategies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 07:25 PM
58

Threat to humankind, actually, because they also hurt children, jeopardizing survival of our species as a whole. I'm convinced that our evolution has gone in the wrong direction, with males lagging way behind us with their propensity for violence, and it will cause our inevitable demise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 06:07 PM
11

Advice for pickmies to accommodate emotionally stunt men-children? When will these fragile, infantile men understand that healthy women do not want them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 10:40 PM
35

It's called Frmale Delusion Calculator. It's a toy for incels made by incels that has nothing to do with reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:05 PM
1

Agree on redundancy of some of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 09:04 PM
302

Yes. There was one guy, tall, handsome, very good manners, good career, and overall "there's nothing not to like" guy. But when I met him for the first time, I was immediately tirned off. I couldn't put my finger on why exactly, but later it became clear that he was a coward. That's his cowardice that I immediately picked up and was turned off by. I gave him a chance. Bad mistake. He threw me under the bus not once, but twice because of his cowardice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:12 PM
333

On one hand I agree, especially when it's about violence or death. But on another hand, I have learned so much about what men are capable of and what wisdom FDS ladies have that I have never even thought about. These posts opened my eyes on so many things! I'm much more cautious and aware now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:05 PM
2

I haven't received one since I blocked it. Used to get one like every day lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:01 PM
50

You can block "reddit care" messages 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:00 PM
105

Michelle Obama is one of the most beautiful women I've known.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:15 PM
33

I don't find it appealing at all when a man is so focused on sex that he has the need to read or write such content. I love good sex but my life isn't consumed by it. I wouldn't be interested at all in developing a close relationship with anyone for whom it's such an important topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:07 PM
3

I wouldn't even respond. He is negging you and acting entitled to an explanation 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:26 PM
343

Maybe it's his mom 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:23 PM
20

This. It's he who should be worried about sustaining the connection and progressing the relationship, not you, OP. It's should be his headache, if he is really interested in dating you and it's he who needs to prove he is HV. Hold your horses, let him show you a man that he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:21 PM
142

I'd pause and take a break from dating him (not others, though) until he relocates and settles in your area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:01 PM
34

These are the men we don't want to spend our lives with, so there is no need to play these nasty games. On the other hand, how would his wife not know his deception? How could she not know he never loved her and only married her for the convenience? Was he really such a good husband as he is telling the audience that she never questioned his true feelings for her? I want to hear her side of the story. I want to know that there were, in fact, red flags throughout their relationship that she has w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:10 PM
40

Fucking vultures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:10 PM
33

If this is what you like to do (go to bars) and wouldn't mind your SO spending his free time there, go for it. I personally can't stand bars, drunk people and men who make drinking a highlight of their day, so I'd never enter a relationship with a bar goer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:08 PM
24

They're like cancer - invasive, hard to get rid of, poisoning and sucking the life out of everything they infiltrate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:29 PM
31

Not even if things go down, but in case something happens to him, like disability, serious illness, death, or a lawsuit. The extra stash that belongs to you and only you will never hurt and those who feel entitled to it are pretty much predators who can't be trusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:21 PM
63

4.5 months plus breastfeeding! Give him some stutches down there, too, to keep his scrotum nice and tight for his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:18 PM
42

And read how he says, "I could have spent those money somewhere else." HE could have spent HER money. WTF?? He outed himself as a golddigger who planned to mooch off of her, making her spent every dime of her little salary subsidizing his bills and providing domestic work for free. Now he is screeching mad because he didn't suck her dry. He is a vulture. Without this parasite, she could have lived in a small studio that she could afford, pay her own little bills and save MORE than 22k without fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:15 PM
95

She already transferred her money to him (see the edit). God, she is f*cked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:05 PM
47

This. I've been trying to find a women-only meeetup in my area that is not strictly for lesbians (I am hetero) and that doesn't let men in, and it has been very challenging 😞 I was so excited about one krav maga for women by women meetup but to my horror, there were men in their meet up photos! Why the hell would those creeps attend a self-defense class for women and why are they allowed to participate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:58 PM
18

That would be stooping to their level and I refuse turning into a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:15 PM
7

I'm too lazy for this shit, so I just unmatch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:56 PM
19

Oh no, cabins are MUCH more expensive than hotels! Lol. And hot tubs are usually not in service during the winter months because it's hard to maintain them in freezing temperatures, at least where I usually go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:28 PM
76

I don't know. I have been going to the same area to ski for years with my family, also every time renting similar cabins with similar amenities. I would be going with my boyfriends on the same trips without even thinking it could look weird or would hurt any one's feelings. It's just a great area and I like to have the same comfort lever regardless of who I'm going with. Is it bad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:24 PM
135

U R jUsT JeALoUs !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:40 PM
89

Instant gratification syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:51 PM
31

I think he is mentally ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:51 AM
16

Church people. Why am I not surprised?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:13 PM
12

In my area, it's all retired senior citizens. It's their main entertainment. Many of them are very, very senior 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 08:00 PM
5

I think we are just playing with ideas here and trying on different approaches as if we were shopping for a new outfit. Here's this great idea of yours, it's like a beautiful dress, it works for you and other people, it suits you well. I like it, I try it on (mentally going through my options, my social circle, hobbies, etc.), but it doesn't really fit me (not compatible with my current circumstances). I could change my life, lose some weight, gain some weight, modify my body to fit into this be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 07:56 PM
2

Oh no, I'm not arguing your point, it's a great advice for those whose social life is permitting them to meet new singles organically. The foolishness I mentioned applies to me and me only since I am already very happy where I am and not looking to change anything. If I happen to meet an HVM somehow - great. If not - I'm absolutely fine with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 07:18 PM
45

Or with his mythical Dream Girl lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 06:00 PM
6

Absolutely. My life as it is doesn't create many opportunities for meeting new people. But I like my current life so much, I'm so enjoying it and already have such a great circle of HV friends, that forcing a change just for the ephemeral chance of meeting someone new who would happen to be an HVM sounds foolish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:45 PM
1

You're right. I didn't pay enough attention to that emoji.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:39 PM
23

The thing is, I wouldn't be playing. Apparently, I really am this clueless 😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:03 PM
32

I'd sincerely miss any and all of those cues 🤦‍♀️ Damn, now looking back, no wonder some of them called me a dork 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 08:02 PM
88

Am I the dumbest person here because I'd never infer it was about sex and would respond with a list of actual active activities 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:35 PM
42

They're all have been happily coupled for a long time, I asked 😄😑😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:26 PM
5

Well, it's very regional. Here, for example, we have an abundance of nurses and software engineers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:28 PM
47

Why is she mad lol. Did she secretly expect them not to be into each other, her friend to just lay there, rolling her eyes in boredom and her boyfriend saying Meh and fucking her exclusively? That would never happen lol and it's not the Hennessy to blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:04 PM
67

And their boyfriends believe them! And start acting like she is not enough and they are entitled to more pussy 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:01 PM
64

OMG 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:12 AM
339

Wait, aren't yoni eggs for women with incontinence after a childbirth? What kind of present is this? Wtf is he thinking???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:01 AM
116

We just went to the store and my son asked the cashier how many flowers they have sold today. She said it wasn't as many as usual on valentine's. I wonder why? I got myself and my friend tulips 🌷. Got another friend a cute personalized gift. We reserved a table for tonight at a fancy restaurant, and it's going to be a blast! Dates with my friends are always a guaranteed amazing time 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:21 PM
13

There.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:01 PM
12

"Home" does not necessarily imply a "man". My home is manless (thanks god!) but is full of children, therefore this meme is very much on point to me. However, if there's an average man in your home, you are just as replaceable. Prioritize work because it will save your ass when that scrote becomes useless/unbearable/suddenly desides he is too young and beautiful to be a famy man lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:11 PM
329

OP didn't lose shit. But she lost her job, her dignity and probably the place she was renting before moving in with him. Now she is unemployed and without any resources to move out. As always, women have too much to lose when dealing with scrotes like this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:49 PM
55

Instagram is not a dating app. Block everyone who you don't know and who doesn't offer interesting content. They are either bots, scammers, or dumb scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:28 PM
20

He is just eliminating his competition 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 03:26 PM
39

...and all of your promises to be kept. - this is the most triggering, the most hated and the most impossible expectation for low value people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:42 PM
26

She is pimping you. Act accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:39 PM
5

Take my love, queen ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:39 PM
5

You have a point. Most relationships and marriages are dysfunctional to begin with and only exist because a woman has low enough standards not to walk away. Of course, those men run as their appliances begin malfunctioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:37 PM
8

Beautiful words!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:19 PM
70

Men aren't capable of unconditional love. Many of them don't even like their own children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:12 PM
4

He must be that one family asshole who no one likes if even his own brother and mother are on his GF's side. Lile, shit, our dumb Kevin is homeless again lol that serves him well 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:32 PM
4

Your problem is that you still seek male validation. Sort this out, and only then will you be able to take care of yourself truly for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:10 PM
55

That's financial abuse. He is controlling and abusive. She needs to take him to court.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:27 PM
68

Yep. Those poor creatures will wither and perish without women's attention. They literally can't leave without it because they are void inside with no substance and no self awareness that would fill their existence with meaning. Lock your messages and chats, ladies. Protect yourself from filth. Let them die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 10:03 PM
25

NPCs! You nailed it! This is a terrifyingly accurate observation of how they see us when they suddenly resurface and expect everything to magically fall into place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:56 AM
15

She is kind of naive and uninformed, with nearly nonexistent dating experience. She doesn't even know what ghosting is. Somehow, she happened to be sheltered from all the negative experiences and is leaning towards lib-fem views I'm afraid that this is going to end very badly for her this time because she is almost desperate to have a child as soon as possible and it's not helping her to see clearly what she is getting herself into. But since we aren't really close, I can't impose my unsolicited…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:15 AM
30

There are always plenty of red flags that are ignored and overlooked because women are socialized not to notice them. Here's an example: an acquaintance of mine is trying to become pregnant with a guy who: Did not propose and there are no conversations about ever getting married but becoming a father is on his agenda. He watches porn A LOT, according to her. He "doesn't believe" in holidays and especially hates Valentines, and makes sure he is out of town, including Christmas and New Year. He do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:24 PM
306

I've read a story about one elderly gentleman who was similarly obsessed with one woman from his youth. She was his "one who got away." Then somehow he got a chance to be with her, but when they met the scrote went, "Omg, she is so old! She is not what I remember her to be" Their delusion is pathological. They are literally too dumb to take real action and go after that woman and too dumb to let that fantasy go when it's time to move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:31 PM
29

Ladies, unmatch such men immediately if this encounter happens on OLD. They will never, ever see you as a human being. Well-adjusted, good people do not turn conversation sexual with someone they hardly know. It's a societal boundary that no well-functioning adult in his right mind would cross when they see you as an equal, esteemed person. It should be a huge deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:31 PM
67

Yeah, I have been not opening the door since I was old enough to be home alone lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:18 PM
8

I gave my number when I felt like I wanted to continue dating him. After the second date I'd know for sure most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:46 PM
13

My experience on OLD was pretty good, honestly. Most of the men, with a rare exception, had good manners, had great conversation skills, and we had a pleasant time even if we weren't compatible or there was no chemistry. I was very careful at vetting them prior to agreeing to meet irl and wouldn't meet if there were any red flags. I only went on dates with men of my age with already established careers. No hobosexuals, party whores, peterpans, artists, etc. I had a very strict set of minimum qua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:01 PM
109

I've managed to get myself to size 8 (US) by the end of pregnancy, but then lost it all again down to 2 while breastfeeding. I was constantly eating yet always gungry as hell! It took me a while, like 5 years, to get to a stable healthy weight because those damn hormones, lack of time and little sleep can wreck our bodies in all kinds of weird ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:30 PM
34

My friend said one day, "We are not people to most of them, but some cute, entertaining pets" 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:22 PM
75

Omg, I used to work for Sotheby's. We did many marketing campaigns, so my photos (in a professional attire!) were everywhere with my contact information. I was constantly bombarded by scrotes, soliciting for sex and begging to "meet for a cup of coffee." They even posted on our FB pages. It was so embarrassing. I loved that job, but so happy that I decided to change my career and don't have to be subjected to such depravity anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 07:21 PM
155

I hope she listens to her mom and doesn't go back to him. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:59 PM
46

👸🥰👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:58 PM
270

I couldn't move during my first trimester. All I could do was lay motionless in a dark room. I thought I was dying! I was already skinny to begin with and by the time I got to my first OBGYN appointment at 12 weeks, I was underweight. Pregnancy is fucking brutal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:54 PM
60

This young woman is so lucky to have a queen of a mom! She immediately recognized an abuser in that SOB. I hope she terminates the pregnancy. Otherwise, she is tied to that abusive scote and his awful family for the rest of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:48 PM
1

Oh my god, I'm so sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:35 PM
17

Or maybe her emphasis was on lying 🤥 but he twisted it to make it about his height. He reads like an average lurking scrote with poor reading compression skills who become testerical each time 6' mentioned, regardless of context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:58 PM
39

That explains why during the lockdown we were bombarded by men reaching out, even those we could hardly recall talking to in some distant past. They were so desperate for a human connection!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:39 PM
26

I always say that common does not imply normal! It should be a common sense, but apparently, the lack of such is also normalized 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:03 PM
37

Tell their husbands too! Bet he'll shit his pants right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:58 PM
46

That pickmie forgot to add that it's such an honor to be used as a jerk off material by any scrote 🙄 What a beautiful collection of perves, predators and disgusting women without any self-respect 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:54 PM
316

Absolutely! Non-sexual affection is a very important sign of a man actually liking you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:12 PM
119

When I saw WHO was spewing hate about FDS, what kind of people they were based on their posting history, I was immediately sold! I just ordered a copy of Maus for the same reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:05 AM
9

How about they start smiling more, keeping a journal, writing down their blessings and being grateful for what they have instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:54 PM
11

Or maybe even try and create deep, meaningful connections and relationships with women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:50 PM
23

If you aren't ready to block and delete him for any reason, here is the strategy that worked for me multiple times: put him on mute and ignore his messages. You can send a one-word reply here and there or just leave him on read. If he throws a fit, tell him you are VERY busy. You are a different person now, remember? If he asks to meet you, say exactly this: "I'd love to, but I'm not going to have time for this" and do not offer any more explanations or excuses. He'll get a hint and will fall of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 07:37 PM
20

When GME began nosediving a year ago, there were so many dumb scrotes panicking that they were losing money that they literally stole from their families and had no way of paying back! 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:07 PM
40

I am a geoscientist and get very entertained when wackos start telling me how "scientists have proved" that the earth is flat. "Just do your own research!" 🤣😭🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:00 PM
113

I despise phone calls unless I initiate them, and let everyone know that it's a huge boundary of mine. Because on the phone, people tend to talk too much and it's not as easy to hang up as it is to stop responding when texting. I also won't get dragged into a meaningless, dumb texting. What I do is just shamelessly ignore them without any guilt unless it's something important. Most contacts in my phone are on mute and I only check my messages and respond when I feel like it. Highly recommend mut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:32 PM
54

If only pickmies would stop being pickmies 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:43 PM
38

This is such a basic etiquette rule. But for some reason, way too many uncultured swines have never heard of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:21 PM
42

I made this mistake twice and both times it ended badly. They don't change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:56 PM
83

I'd say, "too fishy to be sincere". Your gut will let you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:20 PM
200

Psychologists say 2-3 months, tops. This is how long it takes them to make a concrete decision and make their commitment known, but they do know almost immediately if you are it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:17 PM
96

No, it is not. He shouldn't be ashamed of needing temporary assistance. But he absolutely should be ashamed of being too cheap or of asking a woman on a date while he can't afford to pay for it. He should be taking his dates to where he can actually afford or not date at all until he has improved his financial situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:57 PM
14

This! While I was thinking about a thoughtful small gift for a guy I was dating for 4 month, he was distancing himself. I noticed and halted my excitement. Of course, he attempted to fade right before the holidays, and I cut him off. How convenient! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:51 PM
55

Oh god, I just posted the same 🤣🤣🤣 We are twins or something lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:19 PM
109

"Oh, no! Poor thing. You didn't have to pretend to be well off enough to date just for me! Here are the links to resources to get by for people like you, such as food stamps and cash assistance. Good luck!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:17 PM
4

But he will still live with her and take advantage of all mommy-bangmaid benefits while despising her, cheating (if lucky), and watching violent porn (for sure).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:30 PM
44

Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:00 PM
34

Omg, the audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:59 PM
50

I think this is it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:57 PM
325

Why are shitty men so obsessed with women being NICE to them? Fragile ego? Emotional volatility? Inability to deal with negative or even constructive feedback? Why are they asking for something that they have no capacity to give in return?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:14 PM
26

Or a gumam trafficking in general. Women are trafficked not only for sex but also as a slave labor and weapons ( such as suicide bombers).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:30 PM
3

7 yo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 05:49 AM
32

Honestly, that sounds like a generic scammer, not one particular stalker. You put way too much thought into it. Not worth it, even for the ego boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:44 PM
19

How do you know it's the same creep? Those romance scammers are everywhere and use exactly the same language, same stories, and are pretty much indistinguishable from one another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:45 PM
88

Hope she evicts that freeloader ASAP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:02 AM
123

I know of a family where the father is a compatible kidney donor to his child, but him and his pickmie wife tried to bullied wife's 18 yo sister to donate her kidney! She is a smart girl and cut all contact with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:01 PM
103

Only for my child. My bro, who isn't taking care of his own health, can figure it out himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:57 PM
218

That's true. I have a friend who is extremely beautiful, like top 1%, and she never, ever experienced low-effort dudes. They go above and beyond to win her over, knowing that the competition is fierce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:33 PM
18

He is hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:29 AM
24

They weren't speaking for months. She definitely had no intention of sleeping with him, he is just an acquaintance, a texting buddy. This whole "relationship" is in his head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:19 PM
256

I wanna see his face when she responds to his "breaking up" speech with "Whoa, dude! I thought we were just friends" 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:08 AM
7

I'd block him right after "Baby..." 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:23 PM
9

Because they want to have the disposable pickmie bangmaid at home to make their lives comfortable while they are looking for "the one".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:16 PM
30

I bet his mom knew what a scumbag he was and tried to warn her, but she wouldn't listen. I bet her friends and family also never liked him, but she thought they were jealous. There are always red flags, always!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:10 AM
3

Isn't it funny how they automatically associate themselves with the scum that FDS is teaching to avoid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:51 PM
42

And who had done some prison time for aggravated rape and assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:55 PM
11

Oh yeah, those clinics are more generous, lol. My dentist always gives me Valium, haha. But it was our local university that sent me home with years worth of drugs, that's why I was so baffled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:38 PM
22

I totally believe you because it is a proven fact that doctorsdo not take women's complains and suffering as men's, but I sincerely think it also depends on the location, institution and the doctor because I see the opposite where I live - overprescription! I've always been prescribed insane (in my opinion) and totally unnecessary amounts of pain medication for different reasons. My oral surgeon prescribed me a tons of narcotics after a minor procedure. My PA prescribed me some crazy drug for RL…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:00 PM
16

I have a feeling you were arguing with a bot in training.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 05:21 PM
33

He is hallucinating, obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:45 PM
99

"Autoswiper" lol. Tell me you are undesirable on OLD without telling me you are undesirable and have to blindly swipe on everyone in hopes someone accidentally matches with you 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:44 PM
10

Oh, I passionately hate that song!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:26 PM
173

I don't see them complaining about their heart ache. I only see them complaining either about their inability to get easy sex from anyone, about not being able to fuck beautiful women, about their shitty mind games not working, and about their cheapness and unwillingness/inability to court a woman and pay for dates. Women, on the other hand, share truly heartbreaking stories about being wronged, abused, harassed, ghosted, broken up with, slow faded on, and taken advantage of by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:01 PM
17

Also gold diggers, aka gigolos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:53 AM
10

Yes, you MUST stick to the dating schedule that isn't disruptive, allows you to have a stress-free date, and to still have time to relax and unwind from other obligations. No, the first date is not considered as time off because it's way more stressful for women than for men. When I was still dating, I'd only go on first dates during the week, right after work, so I wouldn't waste my time on getting dressed/putting on make up. I dress nicely for work in business casual, so I was pretty much alwa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:13 PM
81

Why do women agree to humiliate themselves by participating in such shit shows? 😒 What are they trying to accomplish?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:57 PM
36

And this, too. It's ugly no matter from which angle you look at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:51 PM
51

Oh god, here we go...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:49 PM
123

2-3 months is a magic number. It goes "ding!" and you wake up in a different reality where that previously loving, caring, attentive man doesn't exist anymore, and instead, there's this smug, lying, "very busy" person you hardly recognize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:14 PM
111

I have a bad feeling that some group of depraved individuals is going to attempt to push sex work as a mandatory requirement for receiving social services, such as EBT, housing, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:52 PM
15

"Shut up and take my money!" 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 11:01 PM
52

This is so spot on! Men are weak and aren't properly equipped to handle the pressure of power, influence and authority without becoming utterly corrupt and broken. They are like young children who haven't yet developed self-regulation skills - they will eat that Nutella with both hands out of a jar until they womit, throw a fit, pass out, then repeat. Most of them can't be trusted in positions of power for this very reason and aren't capable of having a common interest in mind. They can't create…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 08:55 PM
44

We are also thriving! 💪💪💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 07:15 PM
116

I wish you could post this to every dating sub, every Facebook group for single women. I see so many naive and gullible women getting taken advantage of online! This post would be very helpful to many of them. What do they ask? What's my favorite color, favorite meal. Boring, utterly banal, pedstrian, unimaginative. Being asked such drivel does not at all make me want to tell about myself. This is my huge pet peeve! I see this on OLD and in real-life situations. They ask shallow, meaningless que…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:23 PM
2

I also think it's a man who wrote it. A woman would rather ask her male coworker for a hug than hire a sw to fulfill that need. We simply don't even consider such an option while men do that all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:28 AM
22

"I thought we were cool." Hmmm, not like that! That's not cool, my dude, that's plain disrespectful behavior, which I'm not going to put up with. And their favorite "I was sooo busy!" C'mon, if you are not an astronaut floating hundred thousands miles away from Earth, you are not too busy to let me know that you will be unavailable for the coming week. Own your shit, guys. Don't assume we are too dumb to see through your bullshit. We also know that you know that you are full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:36 AM
20

Men after 50 are incredibly whiny, bitchy and hormonal due to the dropping testosterone levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:14 PM
166

They'll be on their death bed, still waiting to peak 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:06 PM
572

Oh. C'mon! According to them, they peak in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and even 60s! Lol. Poor delusional bastards. 🤧😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 06:53 PM
241

So much effort just to get his pp wet plus some antibiotic-resistant STD 🤢 I wish they were as enthusiastic about becoming better humans as they are about being a sad, slimy community dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 09:33 AM
55

Great post. If only they could read and comprehend anything longer than three word sentences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:24 PM
18

No doubt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:57 PM
322

49 yo who can't even write in his own language 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:03 AM
33

For scrotes like him, clitoris and female orgasm are a conspiracy, made up by evil feminists to confuse and terrorize them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:53 PM
292

Psh! Continue fucking your hand because you won't be able to even afford those robots, you silly, pathetic bolding anchovy 😂 The womanhood won't miss your kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:42 PM
19

She was 19 when a 45 yo pedo preyed on her. That's truly horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 11:59 PM
88

Oh, trust me, if not epilepsy. Those people will use any other excuse, a feature of yours, any detail in your circumstances to bring you down by suggesting you are too picky or too undesirable. Have kids? No good man will ever love you, settle for that alcoholic neighbor. Overweight? No good man will ever love you, settle for that creepy uncle's creepy friend. Have a PhD and looking for someone with a similar education? Too picky, settle for that unemployed neighbor. Have freckles? Too unique, s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:34 PM
12

Wait, what? They actually push you to daye people you aren't interested in? Do they get a referral fee or something? They need to mind their own business if they want to remain your friends. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:45 PM
151

Hey! He feels like 18 and everyone tells him he doesn't look his age. Don't be an ageist! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:37 PM
95

I thought Pandora was for kids, no? Like something my 12 yo would get for his girl friend with his own money 😑😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:01 PM
11

That's an amazing observation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:01 AM
110

It's like those men are becoming obsolete along with patriarchy. Good times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:18 AM
144

Many of us already do have families without a man. Happy, content families without an additional 200lb of dead weight who had demanded being fed before kids and got booted from the house 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:17 AM
47

Community dick literally = cancer because HPV! Stay away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:57 AM
6

Wow! That's fascinating, I didn't know that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 12:39 AM
10

This is 100% true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:37 PM
38

And this is the same species that used to hunt mammoths to feed themselves 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:30 PM
185

Projection, projection... Poor fool can't even feed himself without a woman, munching on stale fast food while whining that no one wants to adopt this parasite 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:45 PM
283

The servitude alone that women are socialized to is disgusting enough, but adding 5050 to it is plain insult. What a scam!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 06:05 PM
21

How do we organize to implement such education on a national level? I think it should be a mandatory class in high school with age appropriate information. Then, a college course as a part of a GE or IGETC to include a more mature audience that faces different challenges than highscholers. Because as an optional seminar, it would miss a large population of women who either wouldn't even know of its existence or wouldn't want to bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:51 PM
9

You don't have many options here, like literally only three: 1) Settle for a LVM. 2) Stay single and hope for a miracle that an HVM moves into your town AND will be willing to get coupled with you. 3) Move to a larger city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:55 PM
99

Also, it could be a pickme with one of those kinks, who felt personally attacked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:50 PM
18

Just say you're married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 11:52 PM
6

First and foremost, you need to build new habits and make fitness your lifestyle, not just an occasional activity. And it takes time! I think it will take about two years of consistent exercise to become a non-negotiable, permanent part of your life. Begin with exploring different types of exercise - lifting, running, swimming, yoga, zoomba, pilates - try them all! The goal is to find what makes you feel good (you need those endorphins to get hooked) and stick to it. Stick to it like your life d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:09 PM
111

Have you seen the circus in dating over certain age subs? Men in their 40s-50s, encouraging each other to date 20-something women because they "might want kids some day" and whining about "double standards" when young women run from them screaming. Their delusion is hilarious 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 08:38 PM
5

There was a video of one extremely dumb man filming a tornado from the second story on his house. The tornado was huge and when it riched the house, the screen went black but the sound of the house being demolished was recorded. The scrote survived with injuries, but his wife died. I bet he told her to stay inside instead of going to the underground shelter, and it cost her her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 09:04 PM
14

Just ignore. Say "no, thank you.", turn around and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:22 PM
640

Wait, she travels to him at her own expense, cooks for him with food she pays for, gives him sex, probably cleans too, doesn't get anything in return (no, getting fucked doesn't count) and gets berated by him for not doing it as often as he desires?? She is not his GF, she is his serf 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:03 PM
8

Ew, I can't stand people like him! Here is the tip that will help you to deal with asshats like this one: don't be afraid to say, "I don't feel like talking right now" and don't engage in further conversation. It's very effective! And don't tiptoe around them. You reminded me about one doctor who I had to see several times and who couldn't shut up during my initial visit, asking me pretty personal and invasive questions. I just said "I don't feel like chatting with you, honestly. Can you please …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:26 PM
179

Judging by his nasolabial folds (there's a lack of soft tissue), he is over 40. If he shaved his beard, his age would become more obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:07 PM
171

And sagging upper eyelids with drooping outer corners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:03 PM
335

True cuddling that doesn't lead to sex is very intimate and is only possible between two very close relatives (parent-child), with ypur pet or with your SO. Definitely not with someone you've just recently started dating or a hookup. "Looking for a cuddling partner" is a code for "looking for a booty call".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 05:59 PM
10

The best response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:26 PM
10

I prohibited my kids from texting me like this and insist they never do, even with their friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:36 AM
10

I automatically assume he is dumb and that's not the kind of people I want to associate with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 12:35 AM
41

Like my friend says, "I'm such an enhancement to my husband's image." I love her attitude 😂👸 Btw, they are both gorgeous and wealthy, and he spoils her and treats her like his queen because he does know that she is, in fact, his glory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:17 PM
33

Right. If you stick around, he'll prove to you that his poor judgment is capable of not only ruining his own life but also yours along with credit score, reputation, financial stability and sanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 03:25 PM
45

I live in a large city, and when I was on OLD my first question was, "Are you local or visiting?" Last thing I want to do is to entertain some tourist community dick 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:51 AM
8

" I'm such a cool bangmaid, why noone picks me 😭" 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:40 PM
253

I hope you are correct! I bet she is still a beautiful, graceful woman while he is already bold, overweight, whiny hormonal bitch with ED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:39 AM
13

Give them the list of the places you like and let them do the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:25 AM
19

They will continue chasing men if they buy the bullshit that "the right man will appreciate you eventually"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:52 PM
45

Of course they love it! They aren't lying about that. What they omit is the reason behind why they love it. It's not because they truly appreciate the effort and are willing to commit to that woman and to treat her with utmost respect. It's because it makes it so much easier for them to use and abuse us, to have a placeholder, to stroke their ego, to be entertained, loved and taken care of without giving anything in return. There's nothing not to love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:49 PM
12

I do not believe in "meant to be" or any other deterministic approach to life, but I do strongly agree with your message. Men move mountains for women they are interested in. If he is waiting to be approached and pursued, he is either an opportunistic user, the time waster, the lazy useless looser, or the coward one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:01 PM
7

Right? 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:54 PM
200

No man, who is really interested in you, will let you go 50/50 during the courting phase. He won't sabotage his chances and risk another dude wooing you with his generosity. You can always see it in his eyes when you offer to pay, the look is unmistakable - it's his adoration for you and pride in his ability to treat you and provide for you. Not because of the etiquette but because he sincerely wants to. If you don't see that look - he is most likely performing and will resent you later for not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:40 PM
47

Say, "sure, sure..." roll your eyes and walk away with a smirk 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:24 PM
7

That's my first thought. No way a scrote would describe his pp as tiny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:41 PM
3

His ex wrote it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:39 PM
33

A rotten wooden pole would be a more accurate description of an actual effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:33 PM
36

He looks his age. Who is he fooling, old, dusty slug?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:25 PM
410

This practice is so archaic and obsolete, it should cease to exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:34 PM
10

These screenshots do not reflect the essence of the book, neither do they convey the main message. Those are simply the quotes of random men that the author collected as an illustration of men's thoughts on dating. What you are taking out of it and how you react to it is up to you, but claiming that the author teaches women to perform for men or to mold yourself to the liking of LVM is a huge misunderstanding of the book. The majority of the book reflects sFDS principles, but you are not screens…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 10:49 PM
26

It does not. At least not in the book that I read. What it does say is not to have performative sex, not to fake pleasure, not to impersonate a porn actress in an attempt to please or impress a man, but to enjoy yourself amd be yourself. And if sex is not pleasurable or your partner is selfish in bed - he is not your man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 09:14 PM
44

In addition to turning DMs and chat requests, make sure you disable the option to follow you and the option that allows to search for your profile. I wish there was also an option to prevent tagging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:59 PM
2

Taking into account the fact that a woman has a terrifyingly high chance of being murdered by her man, the preference for a degree over a man is a no-brainer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:30 PM
52

What pisses me off is that media portraits such Georges as being capable of attracting ANY woman, yet alone a beautiful one 😂 Dude, that was some once-in-a-lifetime freak accident that a woman had considered giving you a chance, and you blew it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:24 PM
1

I can't see the original tweet for some reason. Who are they dragging? Edit: nevermind, I thought Water Technique was another queen celebrating a life without a man lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:14 PM
63

Yep. As one redditor said, "If she is pretty, you can slap any personality on her." Because they don't see us as humans with our own personalities, only as bodies with physical traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:02 PM
67

Even worse, if he is like this shallow specimen and says it's the shape of your left ear that is repulsive , what are you gonna do with this information? Chop off your ear and cry in shame? Lol Let them go and count your blessings because some scrotes can be extremely hard to get rid of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:56 PM
21

Yess! 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:51 PM
46

It is NOT about modeling yourself to male expectations. It is about AVOIDING certain men by not putting yourself into a vulnerable, dependent position, avoiding bad relationships, and first and foremost - weeding out useless, lying scrotes who will take advantage of you if you're not establishing strong boundaries. It is about how to be a HVW and entertaining only men who display HV traits. I don't know how so many women miss such important points of the book and see something completely differe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:46 PM
27

Smart woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:38 PM
4

Like my ex lol. That's why I pay a lot of attention to how they treat their children. It's part of my vetting strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:08 PM
6

Got it. I see your point now. Sorry, again, for misunderstanding, I read it as you engage in all sorts of unprotected sex except PIV and got confused at how it makes you feel safer, lol. I see how it's the best option if you don't trust condoms. We all decide for ourselves what risk is acceptable, and it was not my intention to make you feel like you have to justify your decision to protect your reproductive rights by all possible measures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 09:43 PM
37

The solution would be to withhold ALL sex, not just PIV. What's the point if they still get the access to our bodies, get oral, manual or even anal sex, and get to climax anyway? They do not care as long as they get to cum. For the change to take place, there has to be more comprehensive approach and more restriction on how men get sexual gratification from women than simple avoidance of PIV. We need to be less accessible and not engaging in casual sex, with or without PIV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:57 PM
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I apologize for the misunderstanding, but you said yourself in your post that you do oral and everything, and I assumed that "everything" includes anal. You were not clear on this part. Risk from contracting a sexually transmitted disease from oral is still pretty high but if your concern is strictly a chance of pregnancy, the condom would provide a sufficient protection. Therefore, I don't understand the avoidance of PIV with a commited, exclusive partner. Your risk of pregnancy with a condom i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:06 PM
3

They already do and I personally know of couple of scrotes who have more than one profiles for this very reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:18 PM
-9

I sincerely don't get it. Can someone please explain to me what's the point of her not having a PIV when she has oral, anal and let's men stick their fingers into her vagina? How can she claim that she is mitigating the risks of having sex when she gives full access to her private parts, and puts penises into her mouth, which is just as risky as PIV?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:12 PM
20

As a mother, I wouldn't date a man who is not a father because 1) he would never be able to relate to parents' struggles, and 2) he will want his own child one day and I am done. At my age, if a man has never been married or in a serious, long-term relationship, there's something seriously wrong with him and he is not a dating material. It is completely different for younger women though. Younger me would never date a divorce man or a man with a child because there were plenty of single childles…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:17 PM
24

She never said desire is unimportant. Quite opposite - she stresses the importance of it but makes the distinction between the fleeting desire of a narcissist and long lasting, loving desire of someone who is cherishing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:05 PM
9

Such a great video. Thank you for sharing! What a wise woman she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:03 PM
30

Cherishing does not exclude desire. Not in any way, that was not the point of her video. Cherishing includes desire and much more - the deep care for another person, the willingness, the ability to give and compromise that narcissistic desire can not, and does not do. Watch the video again, she explains it perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:02 PM
19

Mine are all blocked and fading into oblivion🍷💃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:27 AM
71

I think we are still waaayyy too far from implementing abstinence on such a massive scale that would affect decision makers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:14 AM
18

Yeah, I bet if you take a random sample from any community, you'll get a very similar representation of emotionally stunt men across the globe. While in some cultures they are socialized better than in others, they are still way behind women from the same cultural background.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:42 PM
21

Germany is very unpleasant outside at this time of year 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:32 PM
31

I don't think it's possible, unless you are willing to freeze your butt outside on a picnic or sabotage your safety by meeting at his place or yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:30 PM
61

I think it's much worse than insufficient socialization and toxic masculinity. I think they are behind us in evolutionary development. They are simply have not yet evolved emotionally to catch up with us and are still operating in the primitive framework, like other species, driven by animalistic impulses, unable to deeply connect with anyone and experience the world as fully as we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:22 PM
37

Honestly, it sounds like a romance scam. Drop his pathetic old ass and find yourself a hot french guy of the same age. Good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:15 PM
16

That's some creepy serial killer vibe lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:12 PM
11

I'm seriously confused who are they trying to attract there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 02:48 AM
24

I love OLD because somehow it gives some men a false sense of security and they are dumb enough to literally hold "I'm a dumb asshole" sign up on their dating profile 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:36 AM
74

Every single man that I know is on old, from 19 year olds to men in their 70s. Avoiding OLD only takes away the opportunity of seeing them waving their red flags right away lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:26 AM
45

Cowards who are so, so scared of responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:53 PM
8

I watched it looong time ago, it's hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:03 AM
62

So, she went through his mother's cancer with him, supported him, gave him a child and 5 years of her life and all she deserved is a ring with no word while she was vacuuming? What a slap in the face 🤦‍♀️ I'm offended on her behalf. And I guarantee there will be no romance whatsoever, only more resentment on her side and even more gaslighting from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 12:00 AM
55

He is selling content to other incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:22 PM
12

I think incel is more appropriate term here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:21 PM
28

I think that's a pimp trying to sell pornographic content to depraved kinksters. Should be reported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:19 PM
8

This is 100% a control issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:56 PM
2

Fuck the scrote, I wanna know what voodoo magic is in her towel!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:55 PM
12

This is true and so sad. Sad when you realize that your coworker or an acquaitance knows you better than your own SO. And for some reason you feel embarrassed when it becomes apparent to other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 06:18 PM
7

If your boyfriend doesn't grow a spine his daddy will ruin your relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:41 PM
14

Authenticity, that's the secret! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 04:56 PM
170

That could be a pretty good vetting strategy, actually! Just keep it a secret or sneaky scrotes will be like "what is porn?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 09:14 PM
138

I did. We were both in our early 20s and frankly, I didn't know it was something extraordinary to wait for sex. It was normal for both if us back then. We dated for months and he said "I love you" like few months before we had sex. We we have "sex" thought when we finally became intimate, we MADE LOVE. One of my older male acquaitances who was preying on me back then said, when I told him we were in love and dating with that guy of mine, "Wow, I don't think I could fall in love with a woman with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:32 PM
6

Oh, he started from afar, slowly turning conversation into this clown shit. It took me awhile to realize what he meant and when I did I couldn't stop laughing at the ridiculousness of his proposition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:45 AM
197

Ahahaha she reminded me of one 57 yo scrote at my friend's dinner party, trying to tlak me into becoming his side piece. I was 35. I laughed into his face and said I have a whole university nearby to pick and chose a young, hot guy if I decided to go "sex with no obligation" route. Why would I bother with an older, married man?? His face literally dropped. Bonus - he later admitted under the influence of alcohol that he had an ED but promised he was a "good toucher" 🤦‍♀️😂 The audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:51 PM
228

I used to do the dame but then I noticed how really interested guys always texted right after the date, beating me to it. Those who didn't text first but did respond to my text would prove later on to be a waste of time. So I stopped texting them first and those lukewarm ones filtered themselves out. I understand the inclination to thank them for dinner but some men take it as an invitation to an easy sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:33 PM
82

"And we never had sex" 🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:44 PM
151

Because he is saving himself for his "dream girl", the "love of his life", that surely will materialize any day now, while taking a tax advantage of a married man. If only that annoying place holder of a "wife" would keep quiet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:54 PM
17

Your dad knows what's up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:35 PM
218

I've noticed the same. Also, books Why Men Love Bitches and Why Men Marry Bitches explains in detail why HVM respect and seek out women who have firm boundaries and respect their time. Just like we despise community dick, they don't want a woman who has no standards and no self respect. Don't make exceptions for anyone, uphold your standards and boundaries or you'll pay with your wasted time or worse - LVM will take advantage of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:30 PM
25

Literally everything free! The entitlement is astonishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:22 PM
16

Oh, you mean 🤏🍄😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:21 PM
17

All my men were very neat and kept well maintained homes. I wouldn't bother with a slob 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:13 AM
408

So confusing. He never mentions what he brings to the table besides being ugly, broke and unable to get laid by local women. Also has a pet mushroom he keeps taking about 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:10 AM
55

I'm not on OLD at the moment but I do suggest supplementing your real-life connections with OLD to make sure you don't develop a scarcity mindset. Here are my observations of women who stick to dating without the help if OLD: When a woman is not exposed to a large number of decent, single, and ready to date men (and most women are not, it's just not possible for the majority of population), they tend to treat each decent connection with more enthusiasm and more hopeful attitude than those who fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:23 AM
-3

Honestly, I'm not forgiving of anyone drinking and driving. Men or women - it's equally bad. Same goes for bad manners and being inconsiderate. Just because he is LV she doesn't get automatically any points to counteract her LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:08 PM
12

I still find her classless. I'd nope out of there if my date was late, unapologetic and had more than one alcoholic drink on the first date. Those are two LV people and it doesn't really matter which one is a bigger turd here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:48 PM
39

Look, HVM value their time, politeness and common courtesy just like we do. I'm not implying that this one is HVM (he is obvioisly not, judging by his later complaints) but she is just plain trashy for being so late, inconsiderate and apparently a heavy drinker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:32 PM
10

One week is too long. Grad school isn't outer space, he still have plenty of time to send a short text. He is playing games or isn't interested.If I don't hear from a guy within one day after the first day, I block and delete. Don't make excuses for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 03:23 PM
74

Yep, "papa elon" will throw those peasants under the bus in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 09:48 PM
191

And that handful of men is comprised of such scum as sociopaths, abusers and cheaters. The rest of scrote-nation looks up to that bunch of crooks, admiring and idolizing them. That's their role models.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:43 PM
227

Great post, thank you for sharing! I just don't like that the blame is put on the modern feminism. It's the libfeminism - the ugly imposer, that is to blame for the excessive availability of women. Feminism, in contrast, is meant to make women way less accessible and way less susceptible to such deception and abuse. Feminism makes women self-sufficient, self reliant and independent of any male influence. We have a choice of whether or not to participate in non-committal relationships, hookup cul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:22 AM
67

Projecting. Creatures like this one can't really sustain a human-like existence without a woman, so he preaches this nonsense because he isn't capable of comprehending what it's like to be a real, independent and well-developed person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:15 PM
38

Beautiful comment, thank you! Lately I have been so envious of men - they get to experience relationships with loving, caring, wonderful women while we have to deal with so many lying, deceving, narcissistic scrotes, who have an emotional development of a cockroach, in hopes to find a life partner, a lover, a father of our future children. What a tragedy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:24 AM
5

I know nothing about her husband but she alone is such a huge inspiration! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:03 AM
37

How creepy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:00 AM
185

I've never dated average looking men and never will. He has to be at least as hot as me, otherwise why would I even bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:34 AM
60

What I find especially hilarious, If you keep reading the comments under such posts, you'll find quite a few pickmies who "brag" about enthusiastically jumping on every stray dick they find on OLD, calling it "liberating", and men calling these pickmies a "dream girl". Yes, the same men who commented earlier on the same thread how they throw their dusty dick into the crowd in hopes someone picks it up 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 05:37 PM
158

I had exactly the same switcheroo scenario after dating for 4 months, goddammit. For 4 months he was kind, warm, honest and emotionally open, so when when he switched and started fading, it was like he pulled the carpet from under my feet. I was sure if something changed he would be honest and would tell me right away. Instead he told me through text that he is "so so busy" and I'm expecting too much of him 🙄 "Too much" was me telling him that disappearing for a week without a word is not accept…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:26 PM
9

I'm all for snooping lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 12:00 AM
24

While background checks are useful to filter out criminals and low life, it won't show 99% of the depravity such as porn addiction, narcissism or kinks. Plus, I have never met a person with great career who has a criminal record and I wouldn't date anyone who isn't established professionally. With these peolpe who are smart and can hide their depravity very well background checks will be always pristine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 09:58 PM
77

That's right, people are so complex, you have to be very careful not to gleefully put anyone into an HV category way too soon. He could be a perfect gentleman, with a great career, financially well off, generous, with great hobbies, who treats you like a lady and helps those in need. He even volunteers in children hospital and animal shelter! HV man, at last, right? Wrong. He has a little secret folder on his computer with pictures of dead girls to which he masturbates every night. Or he is freq…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:37 PM
85

If roles were reversed he'd be out of that marriage like next day and reddit lowlife would say that's the right thing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:08 PM
58

I had exactly same experience! They all use the same shitty script lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:17 PM
140

We are toxic for not wanting to be raped, that's right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 07:38 PM
11

From my personal experience, men know very quickly that they can't risk losing you to another man. They free their time for me and show a lot of enthusiasm. So hell no, he wouldn't be suggesting you dating other men if he was excited about you. No matter how honest his answer appears, he isn't going to put an effort into dating you. What's worse in my opinion is that he subtly created this competitive environment so every time you go on a date with him you would be judged against other women tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 02:32 PM
104

And even then, he treats you well until he doesn't, goes beyond and above until suddenly drops all effort. They can literally change overnight from loving and caring to aloof and indifferent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:21 AM
10

I am gen X and we always confirm - friends, business lunch, dates, appointments, etc. Maybe it's a regional rather than generational phenomenon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:42 AM
16

Lol I used to tell them if they reached out too late or already from the venue, waiting for me: "Hey, I didn't hear from you confirming the date and assumed it was off, so I made other plans" 🤧😆🍷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:39 AM
1

Or wait for him to die off already 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:32 PM
44

He really hates her, doesn't he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:24 PM
3

That's satire, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:11 PM
21

I don't do super casual dates so I always wear something pretty because it puts me in the mood. I like to feel well-dressed and put together on a date, it's like a special occasion and another excuse to show off that new dress or those fancy shoes ))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:41 AM
1

Good call on not overinvesting too soon! I am very generous and love buying my loved ones gifts. And it's so hard for me not to extend my generosity and spend money on guys I'm dating too soon. I was dating someone for four months who appeared to be absoluty wonderful. His birthday was coming up in a couple of months and I planned as a surprise a shared experience to enjoy together as an appreciation that was nice, not too costly but not cheap either. However, I something in my gut, my intuition…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 06:27 PM
39

If they were socialized like women, many of them would die from embarrassment just by looking at their reflection or listening to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:02 AM
161

Way too many men are absolutely clueless and can't read the room or self-reflect. There was a thread on one sub where men talked about being rejected and they are so confused! Dude, if a woman after a woman looks grossed out by your appearance, seems to be creeped out by your approach, not laughing at your jokes and avoids your presence, the problem is you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 08:56 PM
867

There are two categories of people on reddit: those who think FDS is evil for stressing the importance of being financially independent from a man, and those who think FDS is evil for promoting being dependent financially and becoming SAHM. They switch their tune between those two options to fit their agenda of blaming FDS for anything they don't like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 08:31 PM
15

Omg, I had a man who I was madly in love with in my 20s. One day he left for a little vacation and disappeared for 4 month! I was so confused and devastated. When he reappeared I said, hey, when you disappeared, I declared you dead, buried you, mourned you, and went through stages of grief. I didn't do all that work for nothing! So please stay dead, where you belong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:17 AM
94

Men lie about their height, age and weight all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:31 PM
35

You give them attention which they thrive on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:27 PM
72

Threaten them to report them as CP content for sending a kid-size dick 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:26 PM
58

There are some remote villages that practice polyandgy in Tibet and Nepal. There this kid of arrangement makes sense and is vital for the survivorship in the hostile environment. It is usually two brothers who marry one woman and take turn leaving to the remote pastures and farms while another is at home helping wife with domestic work and kids. And even there, although rarely, there's some jealousy, contempt and drama, usually around sex and wife's preference for one husband over the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:04 PM
44

And she is assuming her role of an appliance why exactly? It's not clear in her cringy sad essay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:54 PM
39

It's not even cute. They literally just click on the suggested line without putting any effort into composing a personalized greeting and expect you to come up with an interesting and engaging answer, like a circus monkey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:48 PM
13

Don't! Unless you are in a committed relationship there's absolutely no need for your dates to have access to your social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:23 PM
110

I used to respond to those with "Excuse me?Do I know you?" 😆 I refuse to talk to anyone who can't introduce themselves properly and instead use those pre-written dumb "icebreaker" suggestions 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:20 PM
55

Exactly! They will become needy, sheep-like, emotional and sometimes even stalky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:31 PM
67

I think those are pickmies and scrote lurkers that downvote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:16 PM
97

These women have very low standards and convince themselves that they have been treated with utmost respect by their hookups and fuck buddies 🤡 They simply don't know any better because they are conditioned to receive breadcrumbs and demanding more is seen as unreasonable. They hate women with high standards and will drag them down by calling them prudes, "high-maintenance', judgemental, tedious, closed-minded, frigid, etc. They also tell men that they dodged a bullet when one of those women wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 04:14 PM
113

I say, it should be a default option. And a worthy partner would be just a pleasant bonus but never a requirement for a happy life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:55 PM
218

Also, When women earn more than their male partners, domestic violence risk goes up 35 per cent https://www.smh.com.au/politics/federal/when-women-earn-more-than-their-male-partners-domestic-violence-risk-goes-up-35-per-cent-20210329-p57ewb.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:53 PM
41

"Under 6 ft, no overweight" He is clearly scared for his stick legs, poor thing 🐜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:33 PM
5

Those are looser men who you don't want to have around. Let them have pickmies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:23 PM
98

I love South Korea! . Can't wait to take my kids there, they will be amazed with all the technological advances. And the food there, omg 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 04:28 PM
57

I think I know that man lol. It was a bizzare experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:39 AM
10

No. I don't give my number until after first, sometimes even second date. I couldn't care less if they get offended, my safety is my priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 05:35 PM
96

I thought about this phenomenon just recently. I've read way too many stories where men describe one of their exes as The One Who Got Away and as the love of their life. And it keeps bugging me that even though they say they regret losing that person, they made zero effort to try and actually be with that person. To change that aspect of themselves that lead them to losing that woman, to become a better person for her, to improve their lives in any way. They just give up. And I hink that these k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:37 PM
53

Hope he told her in a great detail what a fucktard his step son is. We need more men like the OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:30 PM
132

Ew. He made his "compliment" sound like if he is observing some entertaining cute animal in the wild and not a human being 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 02:26 PM
30

This. I was called tedious on another sub for wanting a vanilla sex and refusing to perform for porn-sick men. Most of my friends are also "prudes" and are sick and tired of this culture of degraded sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 10:39 PM
22

So true! There was one instance where a guy I briefly dated EXPECTED me to lash out with emotional paragraphs when he asked me why I stopped reaching out. He apparently became disoriented when I responded with "I'm too busy for this". Since he had a very different scenario already played out in his head, he just proceeded with his prepared gaslighting speech, claiming I was upset and expecting too much of him. It was so weird, like if he desperately NEEDED to label me crazy and emotional no matt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 05:20 PM
37

Doggie is for fucking, missionary is for making love. That's all you need to know 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:03 PM
71

Right? Any average woman, even an overweight one, is way, way more attractive than an average man. Women have more depth and more substance than men and generally are more interesting to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:25 PM
25

I bet he is creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:21 PM
34

It's amazing how much men are afraid of being alone. I have so many questions, so much to unpack here. I should made it a topic of my dissertation lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:20 PM
8

The problem is that men see everything, literally every single thing, that complicates their access to women as a violent attack against all men. They equate easy access to women with their ability to survive. Not just success, but actual survival, hence the suicidal whining of incels. FDS makes it harder for men to get all the benefits associated with women that they feel so entitled to. They are threatened by high standards and terrified that if this trend will continue, they will have to work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 09:39 PM
154

Please, please, please let it be her college creative writing assignment please 🙏 🙏🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 08:42 PM
7

Her whole account 😆🔥💪😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:07 PM
42

If something feels wrong or different, trust it! If there's a doubt, there's always a reason behind it. You might not yet be able to verbalize what exactly is the problem but your mind already knows it because it has subconsciously picked up on subtle cues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:56 PM
73

My intuition does weird, freeky things sometimes. I was called a witch a couple times because of it. One time I randomly opened my friend's drawer and pulled out a gift that she was hiding there to give me later. I don't go through other people's stuff, drawers, cabinets, etc. but that time it was like an irresistible urge and my hand just did it even before my mind registered it. It was so weird, she totally freaked out but we laughed about it, amused. Then it happened again a few years later. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:51 PM
10

I'm so sorry 😞 I know how it feels. We leave a part of our heart, our soul there, with the person that we loved and shared our life with. But and all they think about is pussy. Way too many of them are totally vain, shallow, empty creatures, void of anything that makes us human, driven only by desire for empty, meaningless sex. So disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:17 PM
4

Pickmies of reddit date the bottom of the barrel, undesirable men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:05 PM
21

I feel like we red different books. That book stressed out the same principles as FDS handbook does - not to rush into sex, to respect yourself and demand the same from others, not to get sucked in to games that men play, to cut contact immediately if there's any sign of disrespect or misaligned intentions, to be financially independent, not to disclose your dealbreakers to avoid manipulation, etc. I think even if one doesn't plan to date, this book is very useful as a guide to having strong bou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:18 PM
24

The point of the book it that sex should NEVER be performative. To actually enjoy sex without trying to impress a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:13 PM
7

I just voice my opinion when asked for one or casually say something like "that would be a deal breaker for me" without insisting they rethink their relationship. Any direct confrontation will only make them defensive for as long as they are wearing those rose-colored glasses. I am also very honest if I don't like the guy and I say so. I've blocked my friend's boyfriends before and explained why, so there were no hurt feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:07 PM
27

Ahaha, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:51 PM
37

Exactly. All is "empowered" by hookup culture is men's access to an easy sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:50 PM
424

Absolutely. What's so thrilling about sex with a stranger? Woo-hoo, there's a dick. So what? When it's so cheap and abundant, and you can have literally any quantity of it without quality, affection or intimacy, it makes zero sense to even bother. It's like eating from a dumpster or chewing on stale bread sprinkled with dandruff while trying to convince yourself it's caviar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:09 PM
34

If she has daughters she needs to run and take them as far away from him as possible. If he is into incest porn, he is already drooling and fantasizing about his daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:17 PM
127

Can confirm. My ex husband's friend had top secret clearance and used every opportunity to fuck escorts and regular street hookers. If a person has no inherent dignity or decency, the potential consequences will not stop them from indulging in degenerate activities. The pig will always find his mud puddle to lay in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:15 PM
26

I say no. He is either the man who asks a lady out or he is a coward who needs a mommy. He could also be not interested enough to take his chances but won't miss an opportunity to get laid if you take the lead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:50 PM
16

There was a discussion on another sub about paying for dates and one guy responded to another "So, you are dating the most adorable, kindest woman you've ever met and you will make her pay half the bill? C'mon! I'll never believe that" Here it is. If he is really, really into you, 50/50 will never cross his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:27 PM
16

Emotionally wounded community penis. Somebody, call the fire department! 😂😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡💀💀💀💀💀🔥🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:43 PM
9

We absolutely should be more selective! We are conditioned to give, and to love and to care but people will take us for granted without returning love and care to us. Like taking apples from a tree but not watering it or providing any care and maintenance. People only invest in something they consider to be theirs. They will take care of that apple tree if it's theirs but if it's "no one's" tree, they will happily keep coming back for the apples and won't do shit for it. Why should they bother? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:26 AM
45

I think most men are too afraid of being alone. At the certain age they will literally stick to anyone to avoid being alone, even if they hate them, and will suck their life out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:07 AM
153

Isn't it true? I just saw a thread on Facebook where men say that if they called out other men on their mistreatment of women, they would have no friends left. Makes you wonder...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:38 PM
9

The second one is a must read also 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:29 PM
29

❤❤❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:27 PM
95

Yep. That's why you must remain The Bitch throughout the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:56 PM
43

It is absolutely the bare minimum. There's much, much more vetting involved. That's the point of the book - not to invest yourself into someone who can't even give you the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:53 PM
131

Good question. Definitely something to think about. One of my friends is currently in this kind of relationships and it's going great. But it's literally the only one high quality, serious relationship that I currently see in my circle. So yes, these men who are willing and capable do exist but I'm afraid only a handful of us will ever meet one. You basically have to be at the right place at the right time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:51 PM
29

I'm very happy for them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:52 PM
388

The screen shots are from "Why Men Marry Bitches" by Sherry Argov.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 05:09 PM
2

This is just as cringy as the Fleabag. Please forgive me, fans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:53 PM
22

You 👏don't 👏 lose 👏 anything 👏 by 👏respecting 👏 yourself 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:51 PM
8

"We hate and despise you, but if you try to protect yourself from us, you'll end up lonely and sad" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:40 PM
102

For as long as their pps get hard it's fine! Rape, murder, torture, pedophilic fantasies are just harmless kinks, don't shame! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:00 PM
64

"Especially unborn" because the moment they are born their value diminishes and they can go fuck themselves, especially if it's a female 🙄🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:34 PM
3

C'mon, all they want is a young, attractive female who is not shallow and would see them beyond their age and physical appearance! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:03 PM
573

"Highly uncomfortable"? That's straight up criminal offense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:19 PM
10

That's what I suspected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:18 PM
36

Sometimes it's necessary to say what you want to say then block and delete. Because if you keep bottling up your urge to express your disgust with their behavior you are running a great risk of developing malignant tumors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:10 PM
55

I'd rather do OLD, honestly. I can't put my finger on what exactly is so revolting to me in the concept of speed dating, maybe it's because I'm an introvert and don't enjoy meeting many strangers at a time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:02 PM
39

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:58 PM
10

Long live, the Queen 👸 ❤🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:32 PM
11

Check out Man Who Has It All on fb - they flipped the script and it's hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 02:28 PM
0

Depends on the context. If he broke her favorite coffee cup and is asking for forgiveness - ok, she can consider taking him back 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:29 PM
65

She doesn't even occupy his mind. Like an appliance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:25 PM
86

And she doesn't even provide sex! Oh god, he is so dumb, I can't breathe 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:23 PM
35

Now, that's one extremely entertaining piece of "fuck me sideways or how one scrote became financially destitute by falling for a hooker slash scammer" 🤧🤧🤧😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:22 PM
8

Exactly! It's the same scenario, same behavior and the same script that they use. I sincerely think we live in the matrix and these men are some bad AI written by a group of early teens for a school project.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:16 PM
32

Yes, to discuss something interesting together, to soothe each other after a hard day, to laugh and playfully tease each other, to give support and encouragement before an important meeting or doctor's appointment, and so long, and so forth. If this is not what love and CARE is then I don't know what is. If I feel awkward and intrusive when I want to reach out because he made it clear he is bothered by daily communication - I'm out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:13 AM
17

Exactly 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 12:01 AM
25

It is a great observation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:06 PM
10

It's a great read, very pleasant and funny. Definitely worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:02 PM
238

One man, who I dated for months until he started withdrawing, told me that wanting a clear and consistent communication was too much and he couldn't give it to me. Notice how they are eager to talk to you daily when they are in love. The communication drops or doesn't even pick up when they are emotionally not very involved. They do this so they can maintain a situationship under the impression you have a relationship. It's manipulation and avoidance of responsibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:01 PM
98

I think it's a pretty good strategy not to tell upfront about your deal breakers and expectations to avoid this very manipulation. Just let him do his thing and speak his mind freely, without being afraid of spooking you. Your job is to bserve carefully and act accordingly. I got this idea a while ago from Sasha Baron Cohen and his Borat phenomenon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:34 PM
14

I bet she also was the one who made the initial move and asked him out because something something equality and men are dense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 04:11 PM
140

"Why Men Love Bitches" and "Why Men Marry Bitches" have whole chapters explaining why it's so important to focus on your own life and be financially independent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:27 PM
20

If you aren't dating him consistently and there's no indication that he is taking you seriously as a potential partner, then there is ABSOLUTELY NO PLACE for such messages from him. All terms of endearment should be reserved for those with whom you already have an established close relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:20 PM
17

I sincerely think that my life would be so much better, happier and healthier if I had this sub before I even turned 20 😔 But late better than never, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:11 PM
2

Beautiful! 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:54 PM
1

Ouch! I wonder why it was removed. Such an excellent write up. Unfortunately, I don't know of any other sub that isn't infested by incels and where your message would be perceived 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:31 AM
27

You have to publish this somewhere for all women to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:49 PM
64

Yep. If he doesn't make a move, he is either not interested or a coward. Neither is sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:46 PM
73

Men are absolutely NOT dense around a woman they really, really like. "Dense" is an excuse for those who want to maximize their chances by scoring an easy sex with women they don't find good enough to make any effort, therefore making them easily discarded after he gets what he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:45 PM
5

Many states prohibit recording without knowledge and permission of both sides. I suggest switching to text and emails, and, if possible, cutting off all verbal communication when dealing with abusers. This way you have a written evidence of harrassment and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:49 PM
24

Mail order brides are a great example. Sure, there are some that have a calculated strategy of getting the legal status and dumping the "savior" but way too many of those women sincerely believe in a fairy tale romance that a prince in white armor will save them from the destitute conditions of their country and they will live in a bliss happily ever after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:39 PM
455

He was just teasing me, playing hard to part with his possessions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:29 PM
8

Oh, they know very well (at least subconsciously) that they aren't shit, can't compete with decent men and have no chance at having a loving relationship with a high quality woman. Hence the need for dehumanizing and objectification - it's a coping strategy to fill the void.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:26 PM
20

High value women make them uncomfortable by being better humans than them, so they stick to pickmies because it's easier to treat them as subhuman and get that sweet taste of superiority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:17 PM
39

Omg, "you look great" comments from pickmies are so cringy, especially when it's a photo of an exceptionally ugly and unkempt, overweight scrote somewhere on dating sub 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:10 PM
85

You mean, using pussy for its main purpose? No way! 😱😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:55 PM
487

They even got married! Must be some scary voodoo shit 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:09 PM
3

Sometimes two great people just aren't very compatible. Maybe it will improve with time, maybe it won't. But if you find yourself getting more resentful and less content and fulfilled - you know what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:03 PM
5

What's up with auto mod? It's removing upvoted comments that contain no hate, no profanities or anything controversial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:59 PM
3

You are describing toxic behavior. Not all cowards, however, are behaving in a toxic manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:55 PM
9

Very important point, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:15 PM
9

Oh god, the secondhand embarrassment 🤦‍♀️😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 05:14 PM
46

Cowardice also impacts integrity in a negative way. Listen to his stories and pay attention to how often he says he is afraid of something that could easily be solved with some courage (such as standing up for themselves or others in various situations). It is important to understand, that any negative traits in a character will affect people around. Now, we all have our weaknesses and imperfections but we have to decide for ourselves which traits we are willing to accept in others and which are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:36 PM
1

She absolutely should have. But she has some pickme tendencies and didn't even fight for her share of his pension. I think she was secretly hoping he would appreciate her selflessness 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:06 PM
80

Aand he dares to call her a golddigger because she demands his child support check to be on time! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 02:03 AM
430

I wish he would return the appreciation and started picking up his shorts. But I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:57 AM
138

My friend made a mistake of adding her then husband to her credit card and he spent thousands of dollars on jewelry for his mistresses. Guess who ended up paying it off? I'm still so freaking furious about it. Edit: Omg, I'm having flashbacks now. When she discovered the $5000 charge on her card, she went to that store and got an explanation of charges. It was a diamond set. It was right before Christmas and she thought it was for her. She was so excited. Christmas came and instead of a set, she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:40 AM
9

That pick me sooo wishes he'd dm her so she could suck his dick in a parking lot but he prob considers her too old, fat, or ugly for him because his mommy says he deserves a 19 yo insta model 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:08 PM
13

Unpopular opinion - this personality test, as most others, is unreliable because I get very different results depending on my mood and the context to which I choose to apply those questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:18 PM
15

I think this is the correct observation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 02:16 PM
9

Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:31 PM
23

Girl, you are engaging in stalking behavior. Stop before you dug yourself a hole! Go no contact or he will file a restraining order against you and then you are fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:26 PM
50

Great post. I came to the same conclusion and have realized that my relationship anxiety is, in fact, my intuition and fine pattern recognition skills that alert me of red flags even before they become apparent. I'm acutely aware of every energy shift and pick up on very subtle hints of change in men I date. When everything goes smoothly I am content and secure, but then I'd suddenly start panicking internally but can't pup my finger on the exact source of my concern. I used to tell myself that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:20 PM
79

Nope, nope, nope! It's quite opposite. I regret getting involved with every single one of them. I like playing with different concepts and theories of time and multiverse/parallel universes. Sometimes I look at my old pictures and tell younger me at different stages of my life not to trust the guy I was in love with at that moment, not to get involved with him. To avoid him, he is not good, not trustworthy, and will only waste my time. Because there's a theory that time is not linear and I Iike …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:58 PM
124

He is obviously mocking single mothers 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:59 AM
169

He looks extra creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:37 PM
36

On the other hand, their admiration doesn't worth shit. It's absolutely worthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:49 PM
8

Very important observation! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:50 PM
11

If he is disrespectful in any way or causes you pain and heartache than it's appropriate to go cold turkey and ghost him to protect yourself. Block him everywhere and delete his contacts so you don't have the urge to reach out to him. If he confronts you un person at school, tell him that this is what you need right now and ask him to honor your decision and refrain from communicating from now on. You'll be in pain for a while but it surely will get much, much better sooner than you think. Good …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:48 PM
3

Communication is a skill that can be improved regardless of either you are intro- or extraverted. Introversion has more to do with how you spend/gain energy than with your communication skills. We, Introverts, spend energy in a company of people and recharge alone while extroverts are energized by socializing. You can still be engaging, fun and a great company while slowly draining your energy. You just recharge later at home. How you build the skill if being a good conversationalist is up to yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:39 PM
151

Those octopus males are not as deprived as human males: "They remained courteous throughout, however, as no instances of males retaliating by tossing things back at the females were observed."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:11 PM
7

Isn't it also easier to get a solid evidence on him if he thinks they are not after him? Or is it just a trick they use in books and movies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:26 PM
21

Recently I have been outright ignoring them, like if they don't exist. I can hear what they say, but if it's not something important I don't react, don't look in their direction, and simply walk away without any acknowledgement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:48 AM
43

Scrotes on reddit teach each other to "shop" for women in grocery stores, yoga studios, gyms, etc. And pickmies encourage them to do so because they hope they'd get some of that precious validation through sexual harrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:35 AM
13

One of my friends is a magazine-worthy gorgeous queen, also faithful and caring wife and a mother of three. When her husband tries to guilt her about spending too much on herself or their kids, she just raises her eyebrow and laughs with her amazing charm "What did you expect it would cost you to keep SUCH A WOMAN? If you don't like it, there's a waiting list of those who'll happily take your place" 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:53 PM
2

Oh god 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:34 PM
8

Too much work just to inconvenience yourself with a man in your personal space 24/7 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:32 PM
16

He wants to feel superior to someone and created a socio-economic class division in his own home. Now, that "lower-class citizen" is feeling exploited and justfully demands her fair share of wealth and benefits that should have been equally distributed among the spouses but have been withheld from her. Notice how he highlights his short career as a tradesman and attempts to downplay her accomplishments of getting a Bachelor's of Science in Nursing while working and having four goddamn children! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:27 PM
11

So true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:13 AM
58

It's OnlyFans. He is planning to pimp her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:24 PM
14

That senile fool is in a virtual "relationship" with a 19 yo? Sounds like an onset of dementia. Amy is so right, she needs to protect their assets because that sheep of a husband is about to be taken to the cleaners lol. Time to get a conservatorship lawyer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:18 PM
100

I hear you! I used to argue with my ex husband about this all the time. Like, why am I not heard or taken seriously until I become cold, mean and distant? Then I gave up trying to prove my point. It's not my fault that scrotes don't respond to kindness and politeness and need negative reinforcement to get the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:29 PM
449

It's in your own interest to get labeled as a Stuck Up Bitch as soon as possible. It's the best way to be left alone. Me and my friends had figured it out long time ago lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:11 PM
58

Sounds like a beginning of a Criminal Minds episode. Soo creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:00 AM
53

I have rejected some HVM because I wasn't attracted to them, and I have never regretted my decision. I can't force it if it's not there, no matter how good of a person they might be. There are many great people out there but not all of them are your match. Just like shoes - they might be high quality, excellent craftsmanship shoes to die for but not in your size and would only cause pain and discomfort if you insist on wearing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:27 PM
38

She needs to reevaluate her choices then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:21 PM
220

She ruined it for herself by attaching too much importance to his presence. It shouldn't really matter whether he comes or not, she still would have a great time with you. He, for sure, would go without her to spend time with his bros. Men don't usually sacrifice their fun time for a woman. This is why it's so important to have your own life, detached from your SO. Don't dissolve yourself into him, don't create that void that only he can fulfill. Enjoy your life with or without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 06:47 PM
10

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:31 PM
38

The loong, sensual eye contact is the biggest turn on for me! Also, very light touches, almost accidental.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:15 PM
603

Proceeds to verbally abusing women for suggesting he loses weight, takes showers and spends quality time with his dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:01 PM
75

Read "Why Men Love Bitches" and "He's Just Not That Into You", be more assertive and stop being too humble in a professional setting (I have a bad imposter syndrome and could never sell myself successfully, purposely minimizing my accomplishments and abilities, which is so, so foolish!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 04:07 PM
16

I can't tolerate conservative men, neither can I tolerate extreme liberal ones who push for "empowermen" throughsex work and anarchists kind. I stick to dating those whose views are very close to mine because I don't want to deal with men who might be voting against my rights in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:55 PM
37

I can smell him from here 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:38 PM
80

I think he is doing this to humiliate women on purpose under the "it's just a joke" sauce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:23 PM
68

Daniel Levy is always on point 😍 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:21 PM
103

Or he is just too greedy or too broke to travel by plane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:30 AM
161

I would be very uncomfortable with a strange man staying overnight in my house. Why didn't they saty at his place? She compromised everyone's safety and wasn't even going to inform you that he was staying in your house. If you didn't catch her, she'd do it again. You'd be in your right to evict her on the spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:50 PM
45

I read a wonderful quote a few days ago: If I'm too much then go ahead and find less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:38 PM
33

Maybe they should get a boyfriend then 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:36 PM
263

It doesn't even sound or look like he is joking. Look at his eyes, he is absolutely serious and is actually quite sad that he had to "settle down" with her because he didn't have much choice and didn't score his dream pixie girl. Hell, it's embarrassing to be his "girlfriend". Set his closet on fire, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:15 PM
382

My friend's younger sister and her friends invested in bitcoin when it was still super cheap and now they are buying themselves multi-million dollar homes with cash. This could be the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:09 PM
165

Actually, all really attractive guys that I dated (and dating one right now) are very down to earth and chill compared to insecure, manipulative and full of themselves less attractive ones. This seems to be written by an OK looking dude who overestimates his attractiveness and tries too hard to be a "chad" by creating this fake demand and drama around himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 06:57 PM
47

She is literally letting human trash to use and abuse her body and is proud of being their cum dumpster 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:47 PM
56

I know one woman like this. Her father was a prison guard who was regularly beating up his wife and daughters. They are all very religious, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 04:03 PM
13

I bet even her abuser husband is low key embarrassed of her 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:56 PM
19

No amount of vetting can predict the attraction in real life. He could be good on paper but outright repulsive face to face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:34 PM
92

I unsubscribed from all dating subs except one for this very reason. It has become unbearable to see all those incels whining, bitching and being testerical all over the place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 03:28 PM
16

A while ago a female NP dismissed all my symptoms as a mental health issue and that almost cost me my life. I'm sure if a male runner complained that a week ago he was able to run 5 miles and today he almost passed out from walking a few yards she'd take him way more seriously. She sent me to a mental health specialist instead because my shortness of breath, lethargy, very low blood pressure, back pain, weird rash and sudden hair loss was obviously just me being "too sad and anxious" 🙄 I was soo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:27 PM
151

Since it's mostly women who get publicly stoned to death so yes, it's mostly about women, you evil, selfish, dumb scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 06:47 PM
17

Of course, just not in a detail but enough to give them an idea what to look for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:29 PM
27

Disgusting! Is there a way to strip him off his doctorate? Like an ethics board or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:55 PM
61

Yes, I'm avoiding certain foods (personal preferences) and making sure there aren't traces of them when I'm ordering something. My HVM dates always remember in detail what I do not eat and make sure we go somewhere where I won't starve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 09:54 PM
16

What's the name of that channel? I'll report it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:54 PM
13

Please, report his and his girlfriend's accounts as harrassment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 04:53 PM
17

Wait, he masturbated to the point that now they have to amputate his dick? 😆 This should be a cautionary tale for all lurkers. And that woman should boot him out like yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:11 PM
22

Like Ben Shapiro, who thinks lubricated vagina is a broken vagina 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:57 PM
41

Let those losers entertain each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:51 PM
26

Loved the movie until the end where they ruined it by making the main character an exception. Also her friend who's partner kept her as a forever girlfriend. These exceptions went against the point that they tried to make and instead gave millions of women a false hope that they too could be an exception from the rule. I highly recommend the book instead of the movie. That author guy doesn't beat around the bush and tell the truth as it is. The truth is hard to swallow but is absolutely necessar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:19 PM
15

Every relationship and dating sub, literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:20 PM
16

Redpiller's wet fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:19 PM
70

Plus a handful of "feel good", encouraging stories on how similar situations turned into embarrassingly shitty "relationships" that they are so proud of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:12 PM
37

Thanks god, just birthdays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:18 AM
13

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:16 PM
142

No, there were too many straws to list lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:15 PM
12

💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:14 PM
69

HER child because he is there just for decoration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:10 PM
213

Next on Pickme TV: "As long as he is using toilet and not soiling his pants I'm happy", " If he breathes he's good enough for me" and other funny stories from our "How Low Can You Go" series 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 11:09 PM
397

My ex husband was buying plane tickets for our kids and he had to call an airline for help. The representative asked him for kids names and birthdays and my ex literally said "I have to ask my wife" 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:53 PM
17

Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:50 PM
17

Instead, they make themselves look even more stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 10:50 PM
325

Shit post. 100% some lurking scrote made it up to draw attention to this sub and to stir a shitstorm because no way our member would use the same username for her Instagram and FDS accounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:23 PM
27

A good romantic relationship definitely has its benefits but life can be just as amazingly good without it. Romantic relationship gives that unique closeness to another person that no other relationship can replicate because every type of love is different. We love our friends differently from how we love our children, our parents or our pets and we love our significant others differently from all of the above. All of these relationships are important but they can't replace each other. And somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:11 PM
50

How to tell you have no experience with women without saying the world incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:51 PM
79

I get so perplexed by how some women are willing to risk everything and travel to meet a stranger just for a chance of having a romantic relationship. It's so backwards, inefficient and awfully dangerous! There was one beautiful (she is a professional model) single mom in mom's fb group I'm a part of, she also flew to meet a man she met online. Well, he turned out to be much older than he said he was and as an extra bonus he was missing an eye. Yes, that gorgeous mother took a huge risk to fly t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:44 PM
216

If he is that helpless she should get a legal guardianship over him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:37 PM
23

The logic is simple - this is the closest he'll ever get to woman's private parts in his pathetic life. Beggars can't be choosers, so they'll pay for the chance to taste someone's anal and vaginal discharge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:34 PM
325

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:33 PM
3

Exactly. Everyone is super friendly and helpful, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 07:29 PM
39

My local MMA gym is very much woman- dominated. All the trainers are young men but the majority of students are queens )))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:08 PM
16

There's no lower vibration than a pickme who feeds off the scraps in hopes that her disgusting scrote will approve of her desperate attempts of being in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 08:45 PM
46

True. Even more, this is also true for all consecutive dates, even months into dating your guy because this is a great vetting tool. Watch for consistency, consideration and eagerness. If he drops his effort and doesn't confirm your plans - he is becoming too complacent, loosing his interest or pushing your boundaries to see how low you can go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 04:23 PM
9

She passed a shit test and he got himself a coolgirl who won't ask for anything! Woohoo! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 04:58 AM
61

The author makes it about her weight but it is absolutely not. I am super fit, long legs, conventionally attractive woman but had exactly the same experience as her. When I thought about it I asked myself a question, would I do the same to people? My answer was absolutely no. Then I asked myself, why wouldn't I do that to anyone? My answer is, because it would go against my principles and morals. It would have nothing to do with them, their appearances or other qualities and 100% to do with how …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:29 PM
91

They actually asked for my permission for a sweet young student to do a pelvic exam on me while under anesthesia. I was already terrified of the surgery so I said no but under different circumstances I'd definitely allow it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:14 PM
39

It's his responsibility to make sure she doesn't get pregnant. Take all measures possible, up to celibacy, if he feels so strongly about not having kids with this particular woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:02 PM
16

To me, religious automatically means NVM and spiritual is leaning to the same category. I sincerely doubt that men are capable of being genuinely spiritual. They just aren't evolved enough emotionally and mentally. I'm sure there are exceptions but they must be extremely rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:23 AM
263

I beg your pardon, but many of them old scrotes do have saggy boobs 😭🤣🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:19 AM
6

I'm 42.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:14 AM
11

Omg, I need to show it to my son as a precaution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:01 PM
32

I don't want to talk to strange men. It's too repulsive unless they are extremely hot and friendly. But even then I hardly notice them until someone else draws my attention to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:56 PM
53

Those are your hormones. I had a period like this in my life and it was intense! Self-pleasing and occasional casual sex didn't really do it for me. I was so horny all the time! The guy who I was seeing back then couldn't keep up and only added to my frustration.Then it slowly wound down and life became more satisfying without meaningless sex. I honestly don't have a solution for this problem. Maybe talk to your doctor and ask to check your hormones? My testosterone was slightly elevated and it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:52 PM
14

He is unbearable, tedious and boring. His texts gave me a twitching eye. You were way too patient, I'd bail after the first neg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:05 PM
3

You have a mouth, right? So use it to say loud and clear "I'm paying for my own meal only" and let that asshat to deal with the rest. It makes my blood boil 😤 Don't enable those golddiggers by being too meek to speak for yourself. This is exactly what they are counting on - the "politeness" and "niceness" of their victims. Don't entertain this shit and maybe next time he will think twice before pulling this trick on another unsuspecting woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:55 AM
34

Well said. My unbelievably gorgeous friend has always attracted lots of attention and the most scary part is that she also attracted powerful monsters who had lots of money, influence and connections. Thanks god, her mother also had money, influence and connections to protect my friend and keep her out of serious trouble, otherwise she'd end up either dead or abused by one of those old, rich, scary scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:53 PM
1

Why did I read this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 06:28 PM
23

This is prime example of a moocher, a leech, a blood-sucking parasite of a scrote. He tortures her while sucking up her resources and emotionally cheating online. So many years wasted on him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:12 PM
67

A bucket of it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:13 PM
382

Poor thing tries so hard to be logical and not at all emotional. Somebody, give him a participation trophy 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:25 PM
19

Looks like they have found each other. To each their own. You know how sometimes you look at the dumpster fire of a person with a seemingly lovely partner and think "who in their right mind would marry/date you" but then you get to know that seemingly lovely partner better and go "ok, nevermind. I see know" and slowly back away? This might be the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:53 PM
78

I bet it's old and moldy "men want a submissive bangmaid who always looks pretty and never asks for anything" type of "wisdom".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:39 PM
34

This is a full stop. One joke like this and I'm gone. I have zero tolerance for male violence and hell no, I will not entertain any men who thinks it's funny to joke about rape and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:17 PM
13

What the hell is wrong with him 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:13 PM
35

Most of them age pretty bad. It's so pathetic to see an old scrote trying to pass for a young guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:08 PM
22

I can't watch the video for some reason. I hope they called cops on the pimp "friend" and that creepy dude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:20 PM
28

Thank you, it was so funny to watch! P.S. Ladies, stay away from comments. Scrotes a maad! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 06:26 PM
74

His family doesn't know about her because if they did, they would be like, "Oh god, Jeff is doing his pedo thing again!" 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:56 AM
22

That's a very important point you made!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:18 PM
56

Right? They scream "this is something we can't control and you can't blame us for this!" Hahahaha it's all your fault, scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:43 PM
46

They have a very warped concept of happiness, respect and boundaries. They can't comprehend what makes a good relationship. Those breadcrumbs and sloppy leftovers that they get and no one else wants are good enough for them and they think wanting a full course, nutritious meal is unreasonable and extravagant. Many of us been there, begging for those breadcrumbs, thinking it's good enough. But then we saw that while we starve under the table, someone else is enjoying a feast just because they fee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:19 PM
44

Yes. It's objectifucation that irks me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:07 PM
69

How about I accept this "gift", take it home without trying it on and wear it for another guy who I like a little more then send a gifter "Thank you, we had a blast" note 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:06 PM
104

Oh yeah! They are tearing me up right now on another subreddit for pointing out the epidemic of porn addiction among men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:04 PM
46

Self reflection and acceptance of own mistakes are necessary for growth. You can't fix what's broken without realizing that something is broken. We need to see what we did wrong, to recognize our own patterns and develop a plan for improvement so we don't make the same mistakes in the future. This is the only way to make positive changes in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:02 PM
4

I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:58 PM
14

Judaism is also a patriarchal religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:57 PM
47

I'm with you, sister. I hate this annoying peddling of forgiveness. I'm convinced that this concept of forgiving your abuser was forged by church (patriarchal institution) so oppressed wouldn't destroy the oppressor and of course, most of the time such forgiveness was expected from abused women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 05:49 PM
24

It is a scientific fact that a life sucking LVM is the major contributor to a woman's deteriorating health and premature aging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:53 PM
33

They are so pissed over us having standards because they lose already limited options. We can chose who we date, they date whoever agrees to date them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:45 PM
42

Proud bitch here lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:08 PM
189

So depressing. I'm happy that I'm already done with marriage and having kids but my heart hurts for those who will get trapped. I don't blame young women for not agreeing to this patriarchal, sexist bullshit and choosing a single life instead. It's a smart choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:07 PM
17

Not THIS kind of "disability", sis 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:09 PM
53

Because it's easy and convenient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:17 AM
20

I'm sorry but she sounds dumb 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:16 AM
68

Marriage is more about legal protection for stay at home moms and women who make significantly less than their husband. But even then it's not guaranteed that a crooked judge won't take the side of a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:51 PM
89

He looks at murdered rape victims to jerk off a d she "doesn't want to shame" that psychopath 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:37 PM
5

I'd certainly prefer money than "wyd" 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:30 PM
7

It's a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:29 PM
42

Congratulations! 👸👸👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 05:23 PM
30

We should! But most women aren't socialized as her. My friend grew up with very wealthy, strong and independent mother so most men won't meet her standards and her reaction to nearly everyone approaching her is "Ew" lol. Plus, she hit a jackpot and married an HVM love of her life when they both were just 18. Girls that grow up in abusive families, in poverty or just in unsupportive environment won't have such high standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:41 PM
11

They have nothing to offer so they resort to stupid games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:57 PM
18

That's because they are cowards with no self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:55 PM
82

I have a friend who is more beautiful than 99% of population. She has been getting insane male attention since like 17 when she suddenly turned into a goddes (we have been friends since elementary school). And she always called out guys who were nice to her but rude to us, mere mortal girls, lol. Her standards are extremely high, it's hard to impress her and no one who behaves like that guy wouldn't stand a chance. She is the kind of person that is called Karen but in reality she just can't stan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:48 PM
685

I wish instead of entertaining him while he so rudely ignored you, your friend would ask him not to interrupt your time together. The guy is absolutely a tool but she also has enabled him by giving him attention while you were obviously uncomfortable 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:07 AM
2

No one has a right to look at my nudes against my wish, so yeah, I'd destroy them with whatever I'll have at hand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:54 PM
10

Was he like 5? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:49 PM
15

His parents need to take him to his pediatrician and get a referral to a psychiatrist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:53 PM
3

My point is that women need to stop tiptoeing around scrotes and start demanding respect loudly, fiercely and unapologetically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:50 PM
31

Women are conditioned to suppress their anger. She should have taken a knife and slice those photos and if that scrote made a peep, threaten to slice his ugly face into ribbons so he never, ever again has the audacity to do this to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 03:11 AM
10

Must change his sheets and make his bed. One guy gave me a tour of his home and his bed was a mess, with nasty sheets on that obviously haven'tbeenwashedin a while. It was so revolting 🤢, I had to stop seeing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:56 PM
31

Why would you want to date someone with a brain issue lol. Good job for not falling for his bait and switch tactic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:14 PM
16

He made it sound like it's some kind of a milestone he reached and is proud of. Reality is gonna hit him very hard when he realizes no one in their 30s, 40s or even 50s want his limp dick lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:37 PM
51

I think it's all of the above plus hormonal changes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:22 PM
86

Right? Right? I keep saying that there's something wrong with men after 50 and even the guy I'm dating said the same - they are extremely creepy, whiny and bitchy with zero self awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:20 PM
12

Perfectly said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:55 AM
95

🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:31 AM
123

This is why it's a bad idea to date outside of your social class. With such financial disparity come power imbalance, contempt and resentment. He is obviously lacking empathy, maybe even a psychopath, and no woman in his circle wants to date him, so he found himself this poor naive girl to take advantage of. And his disgusting family is just as sociopathic, so yeah, they probably have quite a reputation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 12:30 AM
14

Is he high or drunk? He sounds like he is hitting on another drunk adult to see is she is DTF and it's suuuper creepy because there's a child in front of him. His creepy predator voice sends shivers down my spine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:06 PM
17

I answer with "this is a topic for another conversation and I don't have time for this right now. Maybe next time." My pickme friends think it's super rude but I hate, hate invasive, personal questions and I'm hella tired of having to answer them just out of politeness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 06:00 PM
6

She should have executed her exit strategy in the beginning, when her ship failed to sail but no, she had to wait until it reached the bottom 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:24 PM
64

But did you see her boxes? 👀 There are literally three: must be male, have some brain activity and have a pulse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 05:21 PM
19

This is so bizarre! There is nothing controversial in your post (awesome, BTW!) to argue over. All of the points you made have a sound reasoning behind them and there's nothing that could be out of reach for anybody. Are some people really that lazy or just prone to an argument regardless of a topic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 03:27 AM
6

Anything, from crooked legs (mine are awesome 👌) to small boobs (they are small but I love them!). Just be creative and have fun )))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:55 AM
3

Yes, I'm referring to muscle spasm that cause tension and wrinkles. After dealing with mybex husband, I developed a bad glabella spasm, twitching eyes and a spasm in those muscles that pull your lips down, giving that awful permafrown look. Botox took care of it, opened up and relaxed my face. I don't look sad anymore and feel like a new person because I'm not reminded of abuse every time I see myself in the mirror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 11:50 PM
41

On one hand it's infuriating but on another I'd find it hilarious if someone used my bikini pics to sell crusty-dick-cheesy-balls-skid-marked panties to some dumb scrote would bury his nose into other scrote's stinch 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:47 PM
20

My ex unwillingly taught me this tactic. Young and naive me told him my insecurities and for the next 15 years he used them to hurt me on purpose. That pos tried to bring me down to his level by nagging, humiliating and embarrassing me. I grew a thick skin and became wiser. Now I hide my insecurities from everyone except very few awesome girlfriends and use fake ones to probe new people in my life for their inclination to use them against me. And now I have a real term for this, yey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:40 PM
38

I despise most of them but reserve my hate for those without a soul - pedophiles and psychopaths/sociopaths. I truly believe that some are born with a defect that deems them unsuitable for coexisting with other people in a society. Trash with human DNA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:30 PM
8

Don't agree on a date with a guy who looks unkempt or not up to your standards on his photos or irl when he invites you on a date. If he can't maintain himself on a day-to-day basis he won't change just for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:21 PM
21

I should have conserved my ex when he started drinking. If they can do it to an adult woman, enslave her like this and take a full advantage of her without any particularly convincing reason, we should be able to do the same to our deadbeat husbands in order to make sure they financially support their own children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:14 PM
181

Hating on any living thing is a red flag to me. I see all life as sacred and wouldn't get along with a man who hates anyone, especially cats 😻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:09 PM
2

Thirst trap, that's the term I've been looking for! 🤣 I don't understand the allure. Doesn't it become old - ass after ass, boob after boob, selfie after selfie, when there is so much fascinating, interesting content to follow? Seriously, it can only be explained by a mental illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:06 PM
3

Here, this is the only way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:59 PM
27

I don't flirt until we are already dating. End of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:15 PM
5

It's not always about aging. Botox also erases trauma left behind by abuse, stress and PTSD. Fillers help correct prematurely lost facial volume after a serious illness, such as cancer. And if some women don't want to look 50 in their 30 because of their unfortunate circumstances, they should be able to correct those issues without being shamed. Please, don't be so judgemental towards women who chose to expand their skin care beyond Vaseline and coconut oil. We aren't here to tear each other apa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:03 PM
36

Absolutely. But even with a carefree life gravity will do its work. Aging is not just wrinkles caused by stress and sun damage but also diminishing and misplaced soft tissue which can only be corrected with invasive procedures. Unfortunately, keeping such youthful look is costly and the cost will be getting higher with years, but I see absolutely nothing wrong with such corrections if one can afford it and the result are this stunning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 06:22 PM
7

If you think you owe anyone sex just for buying you a dinner - you are a part if the problem! Even worse, if you teach your daughters the same bullshit - they will internalize this misogyny and will carry on with such low self worth that is equal to a $20 meal. This is their price. This is what it takes to buy their body and dignity. Even prostitutes charge more. Stop this ✋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 06:16 PM
64

Or plenty of money for taking a good, thorough care of herself including relatively invasive cosmetic procedures (not necessarily a face lift, but definitely Botox and filler injections).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 06:08 PM
3

I check them all! Instagram tells a lot. And I'm not buying the "I'm just a good friend" bullshit when 99 percent of people he follows are women and there's nearly zero accounts with real content that would indicatehis his interests, such as art or science.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 06:05 PM
3

"How can a man resist? These sexy children belong to me!" God, I hate this kind 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:39 PM
8

"That stupid wife of mine is tempting me and my low-life buddies with this sexy children goddammit" 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:35 PM
5

Why are his daughters posing like prostitutes on a display? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:31 PM
5

I wish I did! I'll post it here if I find it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 06:24 PM
2

Not at all, that'snot what I meant. When we went to climb before covid, there were many people who needed a belay partner. Some of them were attractive/interesting. I haven't been there since quarantine and probably lost all my progress/upper body strength but would like to start climbing again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:29 AM
8

Her case needs an international attention and that judge has to be removed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:52 PM
84

Sure he will treat the new woman better. Up until he meets someone else, gets tired of her or gets too comfortable and will fall into his old habits. It's hard to keep pretending to be good if you are not inherently good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:42 PM
2

💪💪💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:53 PM
2

🎯🎯🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 05:52 PM
4

These men also can't find real women attractive anymore. It's a real disorder nowadays. There was a thread on Quora about this phenomenon and it was very disturbing to see how many men had admitted to be turned off by real women without filters and heavy make up. They know it's not normal but won't seek help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:09 AM
7

Great observation! Guys at work always tell me I look impeccable, one even said "you make everything look good on you because you have a class" while one LVM who I almost dated said I looked too professional and intimidating. Turned out he followed a ton of insta models and his dream type was that very sex doll, duh 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:02 AM
334

"Everybody tell me I don't look my age" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:39 PM
1

Oh, I see. Your original post sounded very different without all these details. You appeared rather annoyed with her becauseof her personal habits, i.e. hair removal. Her behavior is very inappropriate, I wouldn't want to have such "friend" nearby. I'm sorry for your loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:18 PM
12

Do you have a choice to meet those who live closer? I wouldn't date anyone who lives so far away because they would either expect me to travel to them eventually (not happening) or I'd have to host them at my place every single time (also not happening).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:27 PM
9

Yes, first date is a pre-date. Keep it short! No need to linger for hours with someone you just have met. Eat, observe and decide if he is a good candidate to start dating and spending more time with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:24 PM
4

"Ok, it's was nice meeting you and talking to you but I have to go." Then I get up, say my goodbyes and leave. No need to explain or make up excuses. In my experience, no one had ever acted aggressively or inappropriately so far but there haven't been an instance when I'd have to leave without finishing my meal. In such situation I'd probably say that I've lost my appetite and we should cut the date short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:19 PM
1

I understand that you've become frustrated with her. You probably weren't very close friends to begin with and her struggle with being a pickme was rather a burden to you. You aren't obligated to be friends with anyone and it's ok not to continue with people with whom you don't have a strong connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:09 PM
20

All three gave you very good reasons to block and delete them. Sorry that you had to be on the receiving end of the first two behaviors. The third one is just too dumb to even consider for another date lol. BTW, one of my friends had very suddenly turned into a version of your #3 and has been mentally declining since. We suspect there's an underlying health condition that causes brain damage of some sort. It's very scary to watch a rational, bright, educated woman to turn into a deranged lunatic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:19 PM
5

Yes! I went to a climbing gym pre-covid and it was super easy to meet attractive guys there because of the need for a belay partner. I was hoping to get strong enough for a bouldering and free climbing but have lost all my progress during a quarantine. Damn, I need to go back there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:10 PM
16

There's nothing less attractive than an insecure man. Insecurity always implies hatred towards those who make them feel insecure, and it only gets worse if not addressed and dealt with properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:05 PM
2

I don't quite understand, you dropped her because she removes her hair and is attracted to men? What am I missing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 06:00 PM
244

That whole page, god 🤦‍♀️ The collection of ultimate golddigging scrotes. What a shame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:02 PM
156

One of the million reasons I won't merge my household with a man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 07:01 PM
15

Don't give them the luxury of your attention. They are so famished, they literally don't care what your response is, they get high solely on the fact that a woman had responded to them. Shut your DM, let them starve to death!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:54 PM
17

This is my main reason , too. Rotation helps me to keep my feelings in check and not to over invest emotionally into one guy too soon. Falling in love with a wrong person could be disastrous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:14 AM
2

But I have always been like this. I could very easily become a spinster and very proud of it. Never wanted kids or marriage, but was kind of pressured by circumstances to get married, then kids came. So I might be in a very different position - been there, done that, now I'm back to my default (and favorite!) state of being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:28 PM
4

I just enjoy being single so much that finding a partner is the last on the list of my priorities. I love my singlehood! I have three men in rotation right now but I'm not in a hurry to become committed to any of them and just enjoy the pleasantries of courtship while I'm still vetting and contemplating if I even need a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:15 PM
10

I never understood the advice to look for SO in bars. As a person who doesn't like drinking and can't stand drunk people, I would definitely NOT find anyone there attractive enough. And I don't want a partner who's favorite pastime is going to bars 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 07:02 PM
11

Hell no! No way I'd go anywhere with a stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:57 PM
8

To be honest, I enjoy dating the guys that I like. I am very picky about who I go out with, so most of my dates have been excellent with rare exceptions. I love sharing experiences with smart, funny, attractive men who know how to treat a woman. We go to expositions, art galleries, concerts and museums. We share delicious meals and discuss interesting topics. I love seeing their effort and love dressing up for a date. Even if we aren't a match for any reason, I still enjoy their company. It's so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 06:46 PM
9

Looks like this one is capable of creating and sustaining deep, meaningful relationships, which means he has evolved beyond the majority of male species and has reached the lever of an average woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:44 PM
32

Where you pay for your own coffee 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:38 PM
81

I said that once. He was sooo surprised! "A therapist? Me?? Why??" Well, to address your god damn codependency issues, dummy. I am not trained to help anyone with this. They really lack self awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:19 AM
9

This is so sweet. Enjoy! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:14 PM
1

I watch ASMR to fall asleep. I love them! Never noticed any suggestive content but you never know how pervs see it. In no way I'm implying that your guy is a perv though, unless he is masturbating to those videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:13 PM
62

I was also banned from that sub for telling a psychopath to pause dating and get therapy ASAP. I was banned for "shaming mental illness" 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:46 PM
5

Sctotes be spending their measly paycheck on OnlyFans "girlfriend" while simultaneously shaming her by wearing this apparel 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:36 PM
240

"Want kids someday"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:34 PM
5

I love solitude. It's my favorite state of being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:57 PM
17

My ex ruined us financially and it took me years to get out of a deep debt hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 07:52 PM
56

I wouldn't get married and wouldn't pick that asshat as a father to my beautiful children. The guilt for doing this to them is going to haunt me forever. Don't have children with shitty men! Because you can divorce him, but they can't and will have to deal with him for the rest of his or their lives!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:18 PM
5

Great post! Try to communicate to those bottom crawlers and they run to reddit, screaming that their woman is demanding and "negging". Don't waste your breath on the dumb men. OP's tactic is the great when dealing with decent men, but for the majority of dumb fucks it won't work because they will pretend they don't get it or, if they are completely dumb, they will sincerely not get it, like those 50 year olds. That's your cue to abort the mission because somewhere along the road you've overestim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:11 PM
20

This. It's low self esteem. Her nightmare is to be left without him because she is convinced she will never find another one and ending up single to her in incomprehensible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:41 PM
95

Many years ago, when online dating just started gaining popularity, there was a forum where women shared information about depraved scrotes they met online. It was a great resource especially because back then people didn't figure out yet that it's better to stick to a local dating and were looking for love all over the place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:13 PM
21

Pick me! Me! Sombody pick me! Hello? Anybody..? Please... 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:15 AM
23

Gochu 🤏 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:26 PM
41

Absolutely! We treat our pets better than this man treated his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:19 PM
8

What a fool! 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:17 PM
197

That post made me cry. You share your life with someone, trusting them completely and what they do? They sabotage your health, poisoning you slowly as you question your sanity. Can someone who love you behave so maliciously just for the sake of an argument?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:09 PM
73

Is it possible to report that sub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:54 PM
5

The only "princess" in this situation is him. What a whiny little bitch 😂 Good job, queen! I can't imagine traveling for hours to meet a guy. It's so stupid. He is absolutely delusional if he thinks any attractive, smart, competent lady would agree to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:02 PM
10

Well, they aren't the ones who get attention from ugly, old, scary, threatening or nasty men, so of course they can't empathize. It's easy to crave attention from women because our attention means all the pleasant things while male attention is objectification and violence. You know how they react to attention from their own kind - it completely freaks them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:49 PM
7

Yes, I can see why she is so disappointed. He doesn't know her well enough, despite years of being together, to prepare the proposal the way she would appreciate. Parking lot? Wtf was he thinking? There's nothing to be grateful for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:17 PM
34

I'm very sorry that your love turned out to be a monster in disguise. Reminded me of that police officer who had a wife, multiple fiancée and a multitude of girlfriends. Where do they find an energy? That's definitely some kind of a mental illness, no healthy person would be able to sustain this level of sexual activity and deception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:01 PM
23

It reads like a standup. Hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:55 PM
11

Oh, I see. It is important to clarify what we consider a kink then. I don't see the simple attraction to hands or anything else in particular as a kink. In my personal understanding a kink is something that has to be present/experienced in a sexual act in order for that person to feel fully satisfied and without which the sex is boring and/or meaningless to them. It is a fetish and sort of an obsession. For example, I'm very attracted to a 3-day stubble. It drives me crazy when my guy has a stub…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:26 PM
74

42?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:02 PM
20

I should have elaborated that I agree with you that sexual incompatibility due to kinks is a symptom of a general incompatibility. Kinks are my pet peeve. Having kinks in my eyes is a character flaw because most people with kinks expect their partners to participate without questioning and with unconditional acceptance. Maybe there are people who don't expect their partner to share their kinks but I've never heard of, or met such people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:54 PM
20

Kinks. Any sort of kinks makes me sexually incompatible with that person regardless of how compatible we are outside of sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:43 PM
26

"The only people who have problems with my bar are the ones who can't reach it" 👸👸👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:32 PM
209

Seriously. I'm weeping for women and especially teenagers who are brainwashed to think selling their bodies is empowering. You can buy 70k Volvo without having to show your vulva to strangers. You can rent a 7k apartment in a high rise with an ocean view without having to shove objects up your vagina and anus. You can shop at Hermes without having strangers raping all your holes on a regular basis. You can have a beautiful, fulfilling life without selling your dignity for a few bucks. Wake up, r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:11 PM
31

Most enlisted men are dumb af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:02 PM
18

Nearly all military men that I've known were abusive, including higher-ranking officers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:02 PM
40

I'm not either but he is exceptionally horrendous looking nowadays. Jennifer Aniston is only 5 years younger but looks 20 years younger than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:50 PM
15

I bet he is already balding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:21 PM
59

Brad Pitt doesn't even look good anymore. I think he looks absolutely terrible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:03 PM
73

What for though? Why do you need a man who can't keep his dick to himself and is dipping it in every hole on his way to you? Picking up herpes and HPV on his way there. What's he good for? Taking up space and contributing to a mess? Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:46 PM
27

Ewww! Some women are truly dumpster eaters 🤢🤢🤢 Zero self respect and no concern for their own health. Who raised them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:43 PM
41

Especially if he jackhammers like porn taught him to 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:53 PM
76

Pencil dick, spaghetti arms and noodle leg guys left the chat 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:52 PM
117

Very interesting, I should look for the A spot, lol. I've always preferred penises with girth. Length isn't that important, but sufficient girth always makes me cum pretty quick. It's so, so pleasurable to feel the pressure of a nice cock all over my vaginal walls. So I agree, "size doesn't matter" is a complete bullshit made up by men with small penises.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:54 PM
45

💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:54 PM
5

You just made me cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:47 PM
13

True, but keep in mind that it's still not an indication of high value if he is lacking in other areas. My porn sick, verbally abusive, alcoholic, cheating and pathologically lying ex was, and is, very empathetic towards other's pain and will selflessly care for you when needed, cleaning your wounds, changing the dressings, cleaning up blood and puke, etc. He is also very generous, loves animals, comes to help when asked, good with kids and elderly, and so long ,and so forth. But I have a PTSD a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:45 PM
37

"Helps cleaning the house" makes me furious along with "helps with kids", "helps cooking", etc. I don't need help, I can hire help who won't expect sex from me. What a need is a partner with conscience who cleans the house he lives in, raises his children and cooks food that he eats just as much as I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:26 PM
33

They cater to men, so be careful. I'd stay away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:22 PM
2

I hope it's a satire meant to showcase the difference between expectations ($40k purse bought after 5 min on OF ) of young and naive women and reality (a $10 meal). Should be used as a cautionary tale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:40 PM
7

My 10yo child gets 14/hr by helping neighbors to feed hummingbirds 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:34 PM
57

Yep. Depends on their needs and wants at the moment. Very convenient 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:07 PM
17

Women need to understand that their bodies are in very high demand. I'm not even talking about their attention that men crave so much, just their bodies. There's absolutely no need NOT to be super picky about who to have sex with and there absolutely no incentive of having sex just for sex with a man who is less than what you want in a partner. Celibacy needs to be normalized. Hookup culture is a ridiculous concept that tries to normalize empty, unfulfilling rubbing of genitals with very high he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:04 PM
6

I can't judge because I see how easily I can get addicted to such activities. If I didn't have children I'd definitely be spending all my free time doing something extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:25 PM
42

Also be shat and spat on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:22 PM
42

So, he wants a mommy. Ok 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:46 PM
33

They don't care. They want the convenience of easily accessible SW and are willing to sacrifice their own children for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:39 PM
24

Long time ago, way before the FDS, I accidentally left a personal item on a guy's nightstand. I liked that thing and I wanted it back to save me a trip to a store to replace it, but I waited for him to mention it because I was curious to see if he will for precisely the same reasons that you so nicely listed here. He never mentioned it and I blocked him. There's no way he couldn't see it and the only explanation would be that he didn't know who it belongs to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:12 PM
52

What a fuken scrotum 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:56 PM
33

"We thought we've reached the bottom but then someone knocked from below"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:00 PM
6

By this imbecile logic, women also should be sleeping around with randoes and blame their SO, right? Like, dear husband, you are lacking a perfectly shaped big toe like this fine gentlemen has, therefore I had to fuck him. Also, you are lacking these fluffy mustache that these two handsome men have. I had to fuck them too, because of you, you bastard! You better apologize for not having something I find attractive at the moment or I'll have to fuck someone again. What a life 🙄🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:56 PM
141

18 and 42... what kind of parent would think it's a good thing? A predator parent, a pickme parent, or a parent with a Stockholm syndrome. I don't even want to comment on the other slides. That kind of depravity speaks volumes about the heads it comes out from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:42 PM
2

What a bunch of fools lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:45 PM
2

Oh, I see. Sounds fun for someone who needs company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:06 AM
8

Just curious, what's the point of a snowboarding meet up? When I snowboard, I hardly get to see my own kids around - we are all over the place, riding at our own speed, sometimes even separate slopes. I can't imagine it being a social activity that would give an opportunity to get to know each other. What do you guys do there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:54 PM
10

Here you go 👍🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:55 PM
3

Sounds like a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:53 PM
30

And yoga, which makes me furious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:52 PM
4

Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:43 PM
1

Wow 😳 Is she ok?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:39 PM
3

And dangerous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:36 PM
21

"Femininity" in its conventional presentation is a very patriarchal, artificial concept. Most of it is based on an image of an infantile, childlike woman who is inferior to a man in every aspect of her life and who always looks pleasant to the man's eye. Unlike men, women are not fragile, delicate flowers. We are badass! We are more resilient, more rational and logical, we are mentally stronger and often more intellectually advanced. We have empathy and strong urge to preserve life and to create…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:48 PM
13

"Dude, just let me eat!" 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:38 PM
20

I was sexualized by nearly every male family member except my dad, my brother and my aunt's husband. The rest were animals, including my mom's brother (a police officer, mind you). One had even try to rape me and when I complained, I was laughed at and was told "he was just joking".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:36 PM
63

I laugh out loud when women in those movies look with adoration at those unattractive and plain bad male characters and go like "Wow wow wow, you are so handsome/attractive/awesome, etc. etc." Hello, Mr. Director, take your meds because you are delusional as hell 🤣🤣🤣 I also feel bad for those actresses for having to kiss those elderly and ugly men for money and possibly some fame 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:30 PM
30

That's why I don't go to any outdoor yoga event that is in a public place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:21 PM
22

She can't call this animal her boyfriend. He belongs to jail along with his buddy. How brainwashed is she?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:18 PM
76

Especially in this context! He shared his "girlfriend" to be abused as an inanimate object. Its not like I support "vanilla" cuckold but this instance is just horrific. It's plain rape which should be reported and prosecuted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:15 PM
71

This is just as bizarre for me as if those women were bragging about being groped on a public transit. Male attention is cheap and annoying. It's not just worthless, it also can be dangerous. It's a nuisance bordering on a hazard. I would be sooo grossed out if strange ugly slobs were ogling my semi-nude photos and commenting in them. I sculpt and pamper this body not to be their wanking material! Only a very small number of carefully selected men get to enjoy it. It's a fruit of my labor and I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:08 PM
14

Yes. It's so, so wrong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:21 PM
69

I find children wearing make up and adult-style clothing to be very disturbing. I can't stand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:47 PM
61

Yeah. Start spamming him with porn with guys who look very different from him, with dicks much bigger than his, add emojies 😋😍🤤🤤🤤🍆🍆🍆🍆 and watch him freak out and run, whimpering, in an opposite direction, presumably to build more self-confidence 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:42 PM
84

Men expect 50/50 only from those women in whom they are not that interested. I mean, they are interested in having some fun but definitely not enough to try to impress, court, win over or seriously consider them as a potential partner. Men who are interested are scared of losing their opportunity and will never risk it by expecting you to pay. They have the urge to give and to prove their value to you because they know that if they won't, someone else will and they can't let that happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:37 PM
8

Those are men in their prime, right? Right 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:16 PM
10

Yes! They do that! They are that dumb and pitiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:13 PM
26

I love masks! But on the other hand, they hide my RBF and make me appear more approachable, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:12 PM
35

Lol I'm in my early 40s and when I take my mom out, guys in their 20s and 30s ask her permission to take me out, which is hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:10 PM
3

The most toxic concept among the "spiritual" community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:04 PM
58

Also, "what are you kinks" or "what turns you on". If you hear any of these from a guy you just recently met - throw him out! He is pushing your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:37 AM
13

Thank you! I think it's important to know that the actions of these brave men can have real consequences in the current environment. Women there desperately need support of men. This is not the "bare minimum", this is more serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:29 AM
87

I want women - only yoga studio!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:59 AM
319

Wow. I didn't even think about it in this light even though I have always been pro-choice. This is a whole different and very powerful point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:49 AM
20

Is it even real? It reads like a sick fantasy of a deprived mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:37 PM
12

They are genuinely stupid, sister. The "superior" gender is mostly dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:34 PM
30

Some of my coworkers are in their 20s and they have way more common sense and wisdom than our 40-50 yo coworkers. They are adorable while the older ones are creepy and full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:29 PM
35

They act the worst when they turn 50 - the most repulsive age for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:17 PM
55

Right? Over 45 yo look freaking ancient! So ugly. They can't even be compared to women over 45, there's a huge difference!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:06 PM
52

Such a great post! I'm very happy to see that younger generation women aren't falling for manipulative old scrotes! Even I, in my early 40s, date men in their late 30 because men after 40 start declining drastically, both physically and mentally. Probably because they are too delusional to realize the importance of self care as a preventative measure. I personally know a man you are describing here. He's almost 40, has never been married, no kids, no home, he rented a room with another fucktard …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:02 PM
11

So much truth! I also think that those men who are so adamant to see if there's sexual compatibility early on are infested with disgusting kinks and porn sickness. They have no other dimension, no understanding of social cues and nuances and are totally corrupted by the pursuit of physiological pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:26 PM
9

It speaks volumes about their priorities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:21 PM
24

A player! A time waster! A golddigger! A man hater! Pfff pffff 😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:20 PM
34

I'm very vocal about what I see. I blocked one dude and explained my friend why I did that - because he was complaining to me about something he didn't like about her. He is not my friend, she is and he has no right to shitbon her behind her back, and I will not tolerate this behavior of his. I told my other friend that her former fuck buddy, the complete degenerate and a fraud, will never turn into a prince charming and marry her and I don't want to hear about him ever again. I told another fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:26 PM
5

@dasturkey for president! 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:13 PM
1

Amazon. He got it on Amazon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:06 AM
17

That's my retarded ex. "For my birthday, I want this specific item". "Happy birthday! Here is a shirt I got for you. It's a maternity shirt even though you aren't pregnant or nursing, in a color you never wear, but I didn't know what else to get you" "Hmmmm" 🙄 "You are so difficult! I don't know how to please you!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:38 PM
26

Funny we I don't see them punching their male coworkers or strangers in a grocerystore, especially those who are bigger and stronger 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:33 PM
2

My favorite ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:31 PM
12

There are more underlying causes for falling birth rates than just millennial men traveling. Most of them can't afford shit. This is a class and wealth distribution issue, not just men vs women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:30 PM
9

Very true, especially about the eye contact. It has been bothering me for so long when I couldn't figure out what precisely was wrong with some men I was seeing and you described it so eloquently - it's that flat stare and grin. Huge difference from those who were sincerely in love with me and looked at me lovingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:15 PM
9

Girls, please don't argue. We are here for the same reason, no need to fight each other over semantics or interpretation of artist's intentions and/or their target audience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:04 PM
10

I like to pretend they don't exist. Blick, delete and never interact with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:54 PM
473

He is fucking other women? SiT Him DoWn AnD ExPlaiN tHat iT's a NO-NO! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:15 AM
29

Is it possible to post them in a single thread, such as this one? It's almost impossible to find a meaningful content now because of the multiple posts with dudes I couldn't care less for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 12:06 AM
37

Women are powerful! Just look at meaningful social changes brought up by strong, brave women. We don't just provide cohesiveness within families, we also hold communities together, bring innovation, provide support, boost development, improve economy, and most importantly - we do all this without resorting to wars, crime and violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:57 PM
27

Hope you sent him a dick pic 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:52 PM
18

It starts from the very beginning. When you are at that stage where you are comfortable at visiting him at his place, let him be the host and remain the guest. Don't give in to the urge to jump in and help him to prepare a meal or clean up afterwards. If I'm visiting the guy I'm dating, I expect to relax and not do anything except eating, drinking and being entertained. I let him show off his hospitality. If he is unable to treat me as an esteemed guest and expects me to do "wify" stuff for him,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:28 PM
48

That's a correct observation, sadly. We are being robbed off the feeling we are entitled to feel as any other living creature with enough of an emotional development. It's such bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:03 AM
5

Those friendships, develop during childhood, are the strongest and the most unconditional ones! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:00 AM
34

Perfectly explained!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:57 AM
10

Yes, I have childhood friends too but we pretty much stopped being close friends when we got coupled up. We are like relatives who don't really spend much time together but are still friendly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:44 AM
22

Always new that. Never had true male friends outside of romantic relationships. I can feel by every inch of my skin what they're thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:41 AM
57

Truth! They don't even hide the fact that they'd fuck their friend's wife. My degenerate ex would tell me how his degenerate friends always tell him, "dude, your wife is hot" like it was a compliment to him. He was so proud of it 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:39 AM
409

Why are women so afraid to admit they feel jealous? Like, your boyfriend is openly splurging on a "friend", trying so hard to impress her with expensive gifts you never, ever get from him, and you are worried someone would think you are jealous? Yes, I'd be jealous and I would be very vocal about it. I want to be treated like this too! You obviously can afford all this stuff, why don't you ever spoil me like this when I am the one who sleeps with you, I am the one who gives you my love, care and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:27 AM
113

I don't like men in their 50s. There's something very creepy about them. I think it's because at that age they have a hormonal dip where they develop ED and mental issues, so thry are trying to compensate which makes them so creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:11 AM
2

I don't feel sorry for her because she knows what she is doing and she is as much of a predator as those men she is catering to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:28 PM
48

I have a rbf and don't flirt unless it's a date and I'm interested but it never stopped men from hitting on me. Also, I have a friend who is extremely attractive, like real-life magazine model and she can be openly hostile to men. Guess what? That also never stopped men from desperately making a move on her. She is happily married though to an HVM. Those who are interested and aren't timid will approach you no matter what. HVM will find a perfect moment and will approach you respectfully, becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:00 PM
66

Preach, sister! As a woman who always have men in her orbit, with some being unable to give up their hope for years, I can swear by this wisdom. He isn't approaching you only because he is either not interested enough or too much of a coward and socially inadequate to make a move. Trust me, you don't want either of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:49 PM
31

"I'm sober and clean". Thankfully, I rarely see this in my area but used to see it a lot when I used to live in much cheaper city. It means they are an alcoholic and/or a drug addict, possibly with a criminal record.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:45 PM
11

I hope her child sues her when he/she grows up for exploitation, endangerment and exposure in pornogaphic context. I also hope that someone has the power to stop her from doing what she is about to do to her child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:58 AM
78

How unprofessional! I agree with a previous commenter - I'd be very concerned that if someone like him was present during my surgery. Please, do something to remove him from OR, if possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:20 PM
3

I was pissed that he ruined my peaceful Sunday 😆 I already didn't like him even before I kicked him out, but FDS helped me a lot to get rid of guilt and not to feel sorry for him anymore. Definitely a huge improvement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:12 PM
79

Eeeek the depravity! 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:07 AM
17

My ex stopping by on a very short notice this morning with flowers and gifts. Prior to FDS I'd think he was just nice but now I know that's just an excuse to controll me, to make sure I'm home and alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:02 PM
31

Happy mother's day! ❤ I also irk uncontrollably when I see women spreading the toxic "wisdom" about family hierarchy where they make their husband the top priority (after god, if they are religious) and children the last. I can't stand this. Why would a healthy, independent adult be the first to take care of and not the most vulnerable and helpless member of a family? Why would his needs and wellbeing be more important than needs of a child? "Please your hubby first, children should learn to pat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:50 PM
60

That's my ex husband!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:17 PM
7

To be honest, I would also ignore 70 calls from someone I broke up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:26 PM
1

It's not expensive, but costs more than pregnancy test. I'm not suggesting that it's a green flag if your guy sticks up on Plan B, just playing with the OP's idea of making him taking on a possible financial burden that is associated with outcomes of an unprotected sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:23 PM
112

Exactly. This taking out of context and twisting mentality is the reason why I can only be somewhat of a "friend" to men at work, where I uphold a very strict "I'm not dating at work" policy which I announce to every new male employee AND I have a leverage of sexual harrassment complaints in case someone crosses the line. And I can be somewhat of a "friend" to my friends' boyfriends/partners because that "friendship" is very conditional and is over as soon as their relationship with my friend is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:38 PM
14

Omg, yes! I have been trying to articulate this for decades and always get roasted by men AND women! Finally someone gets how I feel about male-female "friendship"... Sure, there are rare exceptions where a man would be a sincere friend without any hidden agenda, but most of the time, sadly, they are only waiting for an opportunity to fuck their female "friend".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:25 PM
3

Here, in US, they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:24 PM
7

Nope, nope, nope! Who'd fall for this? Make him buy it just because.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:21 AM
27

Plan B is more expensive, so make him stock up on those as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:20 AM
27

Simple "Ew" is more than enough lol. But complete silence is gold 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:55 AM
22

This is a great point. Not having to defend your standards and decisions makes life so much easier!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:53 AM
16

I've been called skinny bitch, stuck up bitch, blond bitch, tall bitch, loud bitch, and so long, and so forth. I rock! 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:10 PM
16

Yes! I can't stand that movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:03 PM
21

Omg. Poor women. I make more just by taking periodic profits from my crypto coins and I don't have to flash my coochie or lose my dignity in any way 😔 You are doing what government is supposed to be doing - providing women a way to sustain themselves without resorting to selling their bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:01 PM
5

I know, I wanted to block them all but can't even see them 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:56 PM
47

How can she claim that he loves her when he obviously does not and openly proves so? Also, how can you love someone who treats you like this? Why, oh why some women are like this? Who broke them? 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:23 PM
32

Right? RIGHT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:20 PM
2

Definitely. Why suffer in a dead bedroom at such a young age?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:10 PM
1

I don't know. His behavior is pretty consistent with other closeted gay men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:47 PM
42

Perfectly said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:30 PM
5

Sis, he is gay. I bet all those threesome activities he listed involved another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:13 PM
13

Absolutely! I have my own money, so if he can't give me love and can't evoke feelings of love in me I don't need and don't want him. It has to be both - love and financial, material security. Don't compromise and choose only one variable because then the equation won't solve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:53 PM
83

And when you finally get rid of him he'll be shocked to discover that he is absolutely alone because he is incapable of developing and sustaining lasting meaningful relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:36 AM
70

She dumped him, 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:01 PM
2

Poor guy, you can tell he can't get laid even if his life depends on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:53 PM
11

Women are so much more self aware and more disciplined! I see women all the time who lose weight while overweight men stay overweight forever and only grow bigger. And women have much more going on for them than men that makes them gain weight, such as pregnancy, child birth, menopause, hormonal changes, etc. Not to mention that any average overweight queen looks cleaner, healthier and much, much prettier than an average overweight man. Those are just gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:49 PM
26

I think it's pretty clear that he means to walk away from a scrote immediately before he sucks the life out of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:51 AM
24

Exactly! Also, "I'm not fat, I'm bulking up and will shed it off in the spring". Two springs later still fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:46 AM
14

Right? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:44 AM
3

That's the only thing that bible is good for. Also when there's a toilet paper shortage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:52 PM
69

Oh, 100% he is sleeping with that girl. The reason why that girl is so chill about the presence of OP in there is because she also has a guy on the side and they have had this arrangement with OP's "boyfriend" for a while. They just don't bother telling anyone about this "friendship".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 11:21 PM
358

Nothing strange about that, they are fucking. But let me guess, men there comment that she is insecure and overreacting because it's normal that a random womanl keeps her make up in your boyfriend's bathroom and also has his keys, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:03 PM
146

They are delusional, especially if they used to be in shape. They think they are just temporarily fat and tomorrow they will wake up in their old shape and form, therefore they "deserve" a fit woman because they are "visual" and that's what they are used to anyway. That's your typical entitlement of a gross, lazy scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:58 PM
2

Scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:51 PM
2

My acquaintance had paid a few grand for a matchmaking service someone recommended to her. They didn't contact her at all and didn't provide a single date in six months. They ignored her calls and messages. She finally asked for her money back and they blocked her everywhere. She was pretty much scammed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:52 AM
25

They aren't visual, they just lack impulse control and basic humility, that's why they ogle even little girls with zero shame or self awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:05 AM
17

All yoga dudes are either creepy or full of themselves. Or both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:36 AM
63

After watching several seasons of Criminal Minds, I'm convinced that everyone is capable of murdering their family with a butter knife. Some just pretend to be normal better than others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:28 AM
5

Huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:19 AM
2

I was surprised too because it was our favorite baer time oil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:14 AM
7

This is sarcasm. I thought I made it pretty obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:12 AM
56

It was so confusing! I felt something soft and warm in my hand and thought it was my mom's hand, so I squeezed it lovingly just to realize that's something else. Imagine my horror when I turned around!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:57 PM
43

Apparently his entertainment is more important than her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:56 PM
145

In one fb group, a woman shared her concerns about one old asshole of a man. She was going through chemo and was at the clinic for an infusion. The old man comes in to get his infusion and they sit him next to her. The man is extremely rude to nurses and everyone else. This woman was too nice and listened to his bitching how no one wants to talk to him there (duh). His mask is half way off, exposing his nose. He gets too close to her, talks nonstop and makes her uncomfortable. But even though sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:28 PM
136

Good! Always trust your gut. It's mostly elderly men who preyed on us when we were children by exposing themselves and one even creeped close enough to me in a grocery store to put his flacid dick into my hand when my mom wasn't near me. By the time I found her and she alerted the store staff he had escaped. Creepy men get even more creepy with age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:10 PM
54

Oh, you took his job too! Because he wouldn't be driving that uber and certainly would be a doctor if you didn't come to this country. Duh 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:58 PM
3

This but lavender also disrupts make hormone function. Plus birth control and hormone therapy that get into drinking water supply because there is no way to filter it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:50 PM
3

Lavender too. My son's doctor suggested removing all products with lavender from home. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.medicalnewstoday.com/amp/articles/321262
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:47 PM
24

Reminds me of George Bluth from Arrested Development when he lost his testosterone and began behaving and dressing like a woman. I think there's a hormonal disruption going on on a huge scale that fucks with their testosterone. I've learned from endocrinologist that lavender is capable of messing up male hormones and we have lavender everywhere now. Maybe that's the answer to all this whining and bitching among young men that usually happens when they turn 50 and their testosterone drops natural…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:28 PM
52

I think most of women are like this because of social conditioning. This "loyalty" is very dangerous. It's not loyalty, it's internalized manipulation of women by patriarchy to remain in servitude despite mistreatment and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:15 PM
13

Perfectly said. I'm the same. I mean I WAS the same but have learned my lesson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:10 PM
101

I usually block them but one somehow had escaped that fate and reached out like a year later. I responded with "have we met? I don't recall anyone with this name" 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:06 PM
2

Absolutely. My friend loves her wrinkles because they remind her of the fun she had had. I hate mine because they remind me of abuse and a serious illness. We all have different experiences and naturally, different motivations. And for as long as motivation is not to please an LVM, I'll lovingly support all and any ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:00 PM
96

Seriously, ditch the husband and get the pig instead - same stench but you can sell it for a profit six month later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:54 AM
1

Congratulations! This is a great accomplishment and very exciting to look forward to! Your bf is a ballast though. It is understandably painful to be disappointed in a relationship but you can't do anything about it, to make him the person you thought he was. The pain will eventually go away but the grad school will be with you and will enrich your life in many ways. Enjoy and best of luck to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:04 PM
23

Because they don't have enough decency to bear responsibility for their depravity. If they had that decency, they wouldn't pursue much younger women, especially teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:49 PM
29

I, 55 yo man, fucked an 18 yo but she turned out to be only 15 that evil bitch she really looked 18 she tricked me what do I do I don't want to go to jail waaa waaa 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:46 PM
18

Little boys can't aim. The older ones very much can but won't bother. The only way to teach them is to make them clean after themselves every single time with no exceptions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:31 PM
27

They are very proud of themselves, too - women for being "independent" and men for being "smart".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:55 PM
45

Growing old is a luxury that not everyone is granted. I embrace my age and never felt old or less attractive with years. However, I make a point to erase the trauma caused by my ex off my face with botox, fillers and other procedures because I don't want to be reminded of it and do not to be defined by it. Because when I look in the mirror and see those spasms and my twitching eye, I get flash backs. I don't want to be reminded of those horrible times and pain. Sisters, if you suffer from PTSD, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:24 PM
27

I say my social media is only for friends and family and he is neither yet. BTW mature (mentally) men do not ask for social media or snapchat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:11 PM
76

Translation: I now see her as a human, equal to a man, therefore I can't watch porn where she is objectified and treated as a subhuman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:07 PM
47

Coffee dates where she pays her half
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:58 PM
43

Poor girl isn't even a hooker, she is a beggar 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:57 PM
96

I hope that creep was arrested for an attempted kidnapping of a minor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:49 PM
10

I hope it's a satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:42 PM
66

Killed me, queen 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:39 PM
288

There's one simple answer to all these problems - vasectomy! 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:37 PM
24

Florida man look 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:23 AM
11

I try my best not to say what I see because people do not want to hear the brutal, heart-wrenching things about their relationships and people they are in love with. They will be in denial until they have enough and even if they secretly agree with everything we have to say, they will not admit so because a) ego, b) wishful thinking aka hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:35 AM
27

Right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:40 AM
511

"You'll end up single!" Yep, yep, that's the point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 11:02 PM
4

Nah, I'm good 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:35 PM
25

Usually women start snooping when their intuition tells them something is wrong. Sure, there are people who can leave right away, when there is a slightest doubt, but majority of women linger and need to have some kind of a solid proof that their partner is unfaithful and that they are not going crazy with their suspicions. If I hadn't snooped, I wouldn't know the extent of my ex husband's depravity. I'm glad I did and I don't really care about his privacy when he didn't have any concerns for hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:17 PM
6

It's a pandemic here 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:48 PM
5

Women are fun! Just be extra cautious with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:18 PM
10

My family are my children. My friends are either divorcing or also looking. Working from home because covid, everything is closed, no group activities. I'm completely out of opportunities and options 🤦‍♀️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:14 PM
4

Exposure plus luck it's all you need. It's going to be very challenging though right now, because covid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:12 PM
15

Every single guy that I've met who go to salsa are fuckboys. Every single one. Even married ones - those are cheating and shamelessly hitting on other women with no regards for their reputation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:10 PM
20

They also sign up for "women" activities, such as yoga, to prey on unsuspecting women. They share this advice on dating subs - go to yoga, look at their booties, pick one you like and strike a convo after a class. This is revolting and predatory behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:08 PM
10

Good job for setting your boundaries! Unfortunately, you can't win with an alcoholic. He'll keep relapsing and exploiting your kindness unless he goes through some serious rehab. He will torture you like this for the rest of his or your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:16 PM
36

Yes, the dating subs are full of this toxic advice! I try to stay away from those subs because most of the time I just get pissed and upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:00 PM
21

Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:31 PM
1

Sent you a message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:26 PM
5

I understand. However, she was defending him, saying he is a good guy just likes rough sex. There was a former law enforcement who told her to report him immediately but she kept saying her post was about ghosting and not about rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:20 PM
75

There was a horror story on one of the dating subs how one lady was raped by her date. The most horrifying part is that she was wondering why he ghosted her after raping her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:38 AM
24

And don't forget that you have to opt out regularly because they will override your preferences like every year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:01 PM
80

He is speaking truth. They are getting dumber and chasing pussy instead of leveling up with those educated young ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:00 PM
19

My friend with alopecia once accidentally showed up on a zoom meeting with her head uncovered. She is very self conscious about her condition because she started loosing hair at an age when it's very important for girls to look and feel good, so it is a deep trauma of hers. She called me completely freaking out. She turned off the camera right away but still was worried that her colleagues saw her head. She was asking what to say regarding her appearance. I said say nothing. Act like if there's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:05 PM
22

I really hope he is talking about calculus II which is much harder for many students than calc I or III. Also depends on a professor. I had one who was a mess - disorganized and all around bad instructor. Many students dropped that class but I found a loophole - I'd schedule a test on an alternative time and he would put me into an empty classroom alone with no time restriction and no one to make sure I wasn't cheating 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:39 PM
17

And he didn't even start thermodynamics, physical properties of materials and other fun stuff for engineers 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:32 PM
8

How the fuck does she have time on her hands?? Does she live in a different universe than him? Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:26 PM
49

I've met a guy for a first date who wasn't my type but appeared to have his shit together, good career, great manners and pleasant all around. I was on a fence if I wanted a second date because I wasn't attracted physically. Then, when we were leaving the restaurant and he was walking behind me, I turned back and caught him staring at my butt with a grin that send shivers down my spine. I was wearing a tight pencil skirt and he didn't just appreciate the view, but looked at it like it was alread…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:22 PM
7

Sweet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:05 PM
9

Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:10 AM
2

I think he is just dumb. I had my suspensions prior to this incident based on some things he said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:34 AM
12

Deplorables.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:09 PM
21

He started by saying he likes tattoos and sent a picture if his naked ex to show her tatto on her lower back. There was his cum on her back and he proceeded to tell me how he'd like to fuck me. Pretty gross, sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:05 PM
20

Omg I wonder if that's the same guy because he also told me he liked her tattoo on her lower back 😳🤔😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:03 PM
31

Same with their pics with hot girls on dating apps. It screams of "look at me! This is what I like and what I expect you to look like." I saw one guy who's main profile picture had a local gorgeous stripper with him lol. I know she is a stripper because one of my friends is a former stripper and I've met that girl at my friend's house on a few occasions. Those guys are so delusional, they think strippers and escorts really like them and that they have a chance of attracting similarly gorgeous wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:00 PM
17

They are obviously delusional enough to believe women love seeing their dicks in other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:53 PM
47

Messages there disappear when read, so there's no evidence of harrassment or anything else inappropriate or dangerous. It's the favorite messaging app for child molesters and predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:52 PM
41

Right? It's so disheartening when you meet someone who seems to be a great human being and then he does something like that. I'm always shocked and caught off guard because I tend to assume all people are sane until proven otherwise lol. Fortunately, most men I've dated were decent and the guy I'm dating now never sexts or disrespect me or other women in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:54 PM
15

I think they all do, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:29 PM
49

Sadly, I often see these suggestions made by women in parenting groups. Thanks god, there is a good amount of sane women who openly criticize such suggestions but still, it's sad and cringy to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:19 PM
151

Omg, I met a guy a few years ago who sent me a nude of his ex as an attempt of sexting. I was furious and asked him what if someone shared his nude pictures without his knowledge. He couldn't understand what was wrong with that 😱🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:17 PM
77

I wouldn't touch snapchat with a 6 feet pole and prohibit my kids from using it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:13 PM
1

Omg, what a misfortune for both you and him. I'd feel bad but just like you, I wouldn't be able to compromise THAT much. Bummer. Good point regarding making out though. It's easy to feel what's there during a good make out session and avoid future disappointment ))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:10 PM
31

From my personal experience, those that are aware of their shortcomings would try to trap me emotionally before we had sex. I know that FDS insists that we build a connection first before getting naked, but please, please do so without getting too emotionally invested because this tactic works well for guys who get dumped after sex, partially due to the fact that women get attached way stronger and way sooner than men and we have hard time letting go for such "petty" reasons. Delusional guys wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:14 PM
39

That's true. One guy kept bragging about his size and even took pictures at the very deceiving and flattering angle. In reality, his dick was smaller than average and also thin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:00 PM
89

Oh, the horror when I reached down, expecting to find an erected head pointing up and above the belt, and there was nothing! Lower, he said. Still nothing. Lower. There was something small poking out, like my index finger. I was mortified and confused 😕 Sex would have been hilarious if it wasn't so sad. He proceeded to tell me about his kinks and that gave me a good excuse not to see him ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:56 PM
103

Is she was smart, she would sell him to slavery or pimp him out to men instead of letting him pimp her out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:47 AM
137

He will pimp her too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:43 AM
4

Oh, you probably don't visit relationship subs much. Women do that all the time there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:38 AM
8

I do not have statistics for queer couples but you can't possibly deny that there are more hetero couples out there than there are queer couples. Your scenario is less likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:41 PM
5

Again, statically that's still less likely than man abandoning his woman. Much, much less likely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:31 PM
17

You can learn from scrotes like that, who are full of themselves, how to lie on resume and interviews 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:29 PM
3

"I am unique". 🤧 No, buddy, you are fugly 😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:27 PM
12

We don't see her facial expression. Maybe she is going 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:18 PM
4

Do you think it's more plausible that a woman would abandon a man because he has to go through mastectomy than a man abandoning a woman because she has to go through mastectomy? Statistically speaking, the chances of the first scenario are miniscule and we have a very solid reason to believe that OP is a woman with breast cancer and her male partner has abandoned her, not vice-versa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:34 PM
4

She should have pronounce him as "it". Like a shit, you now, it's "it", not "they".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:26 PM
6

So typical. I had to go through chemo and a guy who just recently confessed his love to me behaved in the same manner - lots of support for a few weeks and then slow fade. I'm thriving and kicking but that shit show of him slithering away like a coward certainly didn't make my recovery as great as it should be. It was hilarious to watch and cringy at the same time, like that episode of South Park where Eric Cartman thought he was a ghost and would slowly back away, doing those weird hand gesture…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:22 PM
1

One of my exes once said he counted 17 times. That's when I began suspecting he was mentally retarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:59 PM
31

"How many times did you cum?" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:35 AM
36

Yes! That's lame. What else do you, mr. Shy guy, expect from me? Converse with myself while you are trembling with shiness in a corner? Take you to the doctor? Propose to you? Ask your boss for a promotion on your behalf? Go to court instead of you to pay your traffic fine? I just don't like incompetent men and I don't want to be a mommy to a grown ass man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:55 PM
95

"Shy" guys are a huge turn off for me. They think they are nice guys while in reality they are self conscious cowards with poor social skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:50 PM
449

Seriously, women need to become more GREEDY and stop freely giving away their money, time, energy and resources to everyone around to the point of impoverishment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:40 PM
4

Fair point. It's just your original post left an impression that the public transport and Biden's initiative is the problem and we should restrict ourselves to personal cars for the safety reasons. I apologize if I misunderstood you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 04:46 AM
8

You point is valid. Male violence has proliferated all areal or our lives. But that can't mean that we have to shun public places, transport, activities, etc. because that's not the solution. As I said, the safety is a very important topic and absolutely has to be addressed. Maybe we need more police women or female peace officers patrolling stations and transport, maybe more surveillance or even social responsibility and solidarity to prevent harrassment and assault, maybe we need to make punis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:41 AM
11

That's corruption of young minds and should not illegal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:26 AM
23

I lived in Asia and Europe for many years and let me tell you, the lack of public transportation is a huge problem in the US. It's hideous and inhumane. And guess who is affected the worst by it? Single mothers, elderly and people with disabilities. The dependency on cars and the lack of walkable neighborhoods severely limit mobility for many people. Can't afford a car? Or worse - can't drive due to a medical condition? You are out of opportunities and pretty much fucked. Can't get a decent job,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:55 AM
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