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| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldThen comes the delusion and jealousy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldExactly lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | The logistics of dating as a man.Download Eventbrite in the App Store! The app will show you all of the upcoming events in town and you can search for specific events that require RSVP’s. I’d like to say most are free (yoga classes, opening receptions, street festivals, seminars) but the bigger events are $-$$$. I just found a fashion show on there a few weeks ago and had the time of my life!! I also found a free Pilates class that goes on in a luxury resort near me 🤌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | The logistics of dating as a man.Going to the dog park doesn’t require money or status and most fundraisers are free to attend. In fact, most of these things are free to attend. If you’re looking for a quality partner you can’t be afraid of a small investment. You are one step ahead of other men that refuse to go out or attend an event because of pessimism. Andddd if you don’t have money you should be working on that before you look for a woman (unless you’re looking for a woman with money). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 12:39 AM |
| 3 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldPretty much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldHave you had a sugar baby before? If it interests you do your research and go for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:26 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldNot anti at all, I just feel they deserve more for what they do ya know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:20 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldDo you have social skills? Can you talk to women in bars/club environments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:17 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldEw! Do you get off on bickering with women online? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldChurch works in some aspects, it’s a good place to meet like minded people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:08 AM |
| 3 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldAww I’m so sad :( you are so high value! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldHave you tried Tinder? Many people use it for FWB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldWhat do you recommend I do? Should I marry someone like you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:03 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldTrue, I have met many but they were already taken, I guess I’m just broadening my horizons because I have the chance to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 05:00 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldI’m not American I just live here lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:58 AM |
| 3 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldThank you! I’m heading out this summer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:02 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldWhat exactly are you looking for? Cheap sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 04:02 AM |
| 8 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldYup it really is hard dating as a black woman on top of being traditional, my mom is traditional and married a traditional man so I’ll probably just leave the US to find a good husband who isn’t fat, selfish or obsessed with porn like American males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:50 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:38 AM |
| 9 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldMust be nice Where do you live if you don’t mind me asking? I’m in the US and I appreciate the liberation and not being raped if I step outside alone but I also don’t appreciate how hard it is for traditional women like me to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 02:47 AM |
| 4 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldSugar baby is just an underpaid hooker with less boundaries and more desperation You’d be better off with a regular escort or two tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 02:45 AM |
| 13 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldIf you can afford hookers for your entire life and they make you happy I say go for it I wish prostitution was legal for men who just want sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 02:42 AM |
| 3 | The only people that truly win in today's dating market are high value menA lot of people meet their spouses at work, there are doctors all around you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | The logistics of dating as a man.This is not a gender war I’m simply giving unfiltered suggestions to men that need help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:00 PM |
| 8 | Education is the best dating strategyWomen do not throw themselves at men like this, these guys turn into sugar daddy or mail order bride types OR they go the other way around and go after women for their money and 50/50 them in the name of hard work lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | The logistics of dating as a man.How would I know that? 🤣 Are you specifically looking for a virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 4 | The logistics of dating as a man.Yoga classes, dance classes, wine tastings, fundraisers, investment classes, music/food festivals, private events, sporting events, dog parks, tennis centers, museums, car shows and even church are all places I’ve connected with healthy, single, attractive women around my age (mid 20’s). Why do men think it’s so hard to meet and find women outside of the bar and gym? I feel like most don’t even try to go out alone anymore….yelling at a woman down the street will never ever work and a cold approa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleThat’s hilarious but look on the bright side, you’ve lived this long :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | How effective is joining clubs, volunteering ext for finding women ?I think it’s very effective and most men do not take advantage of the readily available for a relationship women in these spaces There is nothing but single beautiful women in the activities I part take in (yoga classes, volunteering, wine tastings, my tennis club and my church group) but I honestly rarely see men nowadays going out alone to meet women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleI like all of your points. Men that peak later in life are usually attractive for far longer than those that peak early on. Channing Tatum is very very far from the average middle aged man so that example is kind of 🤣 silly I also think high value men are extremely rare and on the decline, do you think it’s appropriate to make examples for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleUpper mid 40’s? Why don’t you just say 47 🤣💀💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleWow that’s disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:37 PM |
| -1 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleThis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:36 PM |
| 6 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleA LOT of 40+ men in the US are not anywhere near what you’re describing (tall, attractive, wealthy) so they go to poor countries to buy a young wife with low standards As a young woman I like to date the spectrum (25-50) but this fantasy men have that states all young women want them once they hit a certain age bc FeRtIlITy is totally hilarious 😂 I live by my college campus and let me tell you how many 40+ men live here going out SAD hitting on 17-22 years old at the local bars lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:33 PM |
| 38 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleThey don’t want to talk about this!!!!! Like being single until 50 is NOT normal for this imaginary HVM. Most women I know stay far away from these men that aren’t in a relationship ever but suddenly want all the 20 year olds when they reach a certain age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Average people follow Societal Norms (And judge others by them): Age Gap ExampleSo a 45 year old man is cool dating a 19 year old because they’re both legally adults? And there’s no abuse or manipulation going on because she’s over 18 That’s so awesome 👏🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Sex life of a high value man?Or maybe the girls don’t actually like him and he uses that as a funny excuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/22 03:44 PM |
| 9 | Sex life of a high value man?Right, there’s no way any of the girls he dates would actually like him outside of fame There’s also a reason why his relationships don’t last more than a few months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Sex life of a high value man?Hate to break it to you but you aren’t high value, just community peen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Women love it when men impress themLol are you going to ask her to split the check with that effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Comparing Height Preferences to Expected Baseline - A Simulation vs. Surveyed DataAww an offended short male, proves my first statement. I LOVE tall men :) Have a great day shawty, don’t forget to look up at the positive things in your life ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Women love it when men impress themLike what? Give me examples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Comparing Height Preferences to Expected Baseline - A Simulation vs. Surveyed DataAt least tall men can reach the top counter lmao Still never dating a short male again 🤣 I’m 5’8 so I’m good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Women love it when men impress themWhat do you want a woman to bring to this table? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 02:40 PM |
| 0 | Women love it when men impress themHow is paying for a dinner you asked a beautiful woman to go to considered “wallet leech” IME I have never met a man that didn’t want to pay for something as small as dinner, tickets to an event, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Women love it when men impress themOP please don’t argue with these miserable single men that hate women with standards. Nothing you say will make them change their perspective. ALL women like men who are successful and admirable, they hate to hear it because they’re neither 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Women love it when men impress themIt’s not kinda weird to like men that impress you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 02:27 PM |
| -1 | Comparing Height Preferences to Expected Baseline - A Simulation vs. Surveyed DataI’m still not interested in fat men but I appreciate the insight I do not respect fat women either because looks are our currency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 11:48 PM |
| 8 | Comparing Height Preferences to Expected Baseline - A Simulation vs. Surveyed DataI wouldn’t get with a fat person either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 11:05 PM |
| 4 | Comparing Height Preferences to Expected Baseline - A Simulation vs. Surveyed DataI will never date a short man again, the raging insecurities are too much for me (I’ve dated two before and the self sabotage was through the fucking roof) 6ft plus for me 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Women are having less sex than Men (as of 2021)I mean I don’t know about need if a woman were to say she needs sex I would assume she has very high testosterone levels Want, yes because of course we want to please our partners but we don’t need to trick on, lie to, manipulate, pay $,$$$, sneak etc to get it because we don’t need it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | The Male BurdenAsked for help from who? Where is this statistic coming from please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 02:56 PM |
| 3 | The Male BurdenTHEY don’t care about their own feelings dear 🤣 Men are the ones telling each other to shut the fuck up and man up while us women literally beg for an ounce of emotion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 12 | The Male BurdenMen refuse therapy and talk to their bros about sports, tits & beer instead of getting help then blame society for not caring about their feelings like????? Make it make sense pls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever been pumped and dumped?Yes and no? He was 36 and I 21 Tried to convince me he was 31 when we met (it actually worked because he was in impeccable shape) Tried to convince me that he loved me in order to sleep with me (my dumbass fell for it) After 3 months of his bs he ended up breaking things off because he thought I was immature and got another 21 year old a month later lol Was in therapy for 6 months after that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Women are having less sex than Men (as of 2021)Newsflash! Women do not need sex we need money and security | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Maybe.. I honestly didn’t know people used sex to determine whether or not someone is good enough for a relationship. I guess I’ve been doing it all wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Questions for those who MGTOW / WGTOWThey act more single than single men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.I’m 25 too and I’m from California, was also there last week 🤣 I don’t think I’ve ever met a man there that wanted a relationship as opposed to sex with ig models | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Who gets more benefits from marriage: men or women? Discussing common misconceptionsWomen: she has protection, provider (unless husband wants her to work and pay bills) if there is divorce she is compensated for her looks/youth being stolen but it will be very very hard to get with a new man if she is older (40+) Men: social status, earning potential increases, children, legacy, and wife takes care of him when sick. If he is divorced he may have financial troubles if he didn’t enforce prenup but it will be fairly easy for him to marry if he is in shape/not bitter or an alcoholi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness and loneliness is on the rise due to rigid hegemonic masculinity and economic declineI love older men that are Established In shape Have hair Confident/not ashamed of their age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Going to the gym won't really change muchWrong as fuck I will take a gym goer over a fatass any day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Women. What percentage of men do you meet in your regular day to day basis that you are attracted to?Today I went to the gym, grocery store, Pharmacy, gas station, grocery store again in a different part of town and post office. I saw a total of 3 attractive men (not fat, 6ft, full head of hair) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.I’ve never heard of that before, May I ask your age & city? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Oh sorry But yeah I know promiscuous people (most being men) and I just don’t really keep any as close friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Nope I’m in the west coast I just don’t hang out with promiscuous people, is that weird? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: If you want a relationship with a woman, why do you want one? What do you want that relationship to look like?I love this answer! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to stop having sex with their husbands after marriage?Says who | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 11:25 PM |
| 7 | How common is it for women to stop having sex with their husbands after marriage?Maybe she’s tired of cleaning up after him, serving him and still paying his bills. Those things usually change a woman’s sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to stop having sex with their husbands after marriage?How long after marriage do husbands start drinking beer like water and refusing to wash their ass unless wife tells them to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 04:29 PM |
| -1 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men areOkay babe 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 07:40 PM |
| 8 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men areThis is what I said 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 04:34 PM |
| 15 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men areDUH Because if women aren’t picky as F*CK they will literally be abused and left to be single mothers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Why should women partner up with their equal, where did that rule come from?You heard me baby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Why should women partner up with their equal, where did that rule come from?Absolutely this Hopefully prostitution becomes legal for them. Giving it 5 years max | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Why should women partner up with their equal, where did that rule come from?Can you tell it’s past my bedtime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 08:07 AM |
| 15 | Why should women partner up with their equal, where did that rule come from?It came from men wanting sex from a woman who will also pay half their bills duh Women naturally want to cater to men so they forced this idea that if we split every bill and suck the dong like a slushee on a hot summer day we will be so happy about not dying alone with 600 cats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.THIS I am also a very fckable woman as are the majority of my friends, all of which have encountered these same issues with males. I don’t know any woman that looks for sex for fun but maybe I’m in the wrong social circle? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 07:38 AM |
| 3 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.Are you a male? Do you think young women seek out men to manipulate them? You are entitled to your opinion but you shouldn’t have one on a topic that does not pertain to you…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 07:35 AM |
| 0 | Has there been any adverse affects to female sex positivity in your opinion?THIS When I tell a man I’m dating that I want to wait he ghosts me almost immediately but who doesn’t love when the trash takes itself out lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Has there been any adverse affects to female sex positivity in your opinion?I am female and I am not and will never be a sex positive gal. I’m fairly introverted so hookups and such have never interested me BUT I will never judge my girlfriends for participating. What I have noticed is that there is no joy in the lives of my girlfriends that participate is sex positivity/FWBs. They all catch feelings for these men that just want sex and end up jaded and heartbroken. It’s absolutely horrible to watch over and over again which is why I will never engage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:34 AM |
| 4 | How important to you is a woman’s relationship to her family, especially her father? And women—how important is a man’s family life to you?We do not get to choose who births us We do not get to choose who raises us We do not get to choose to be adopted or left for dead We do not get to choose to have support and millions of dollars of inheritance What we do get to choose is how we navigate life AFTER we grow up and how our behavior will change the world around us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:31 AM |
| 0 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.That is excellent, I am here for expressing yourself in a mutually beneficial, healthy way! I’m guilty for chasing damaged goods but think about it this way, all women are born to be loving sympathetic nurtures, we all think we can fix you guys! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:12 AM |
| 0 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.No I want a tall man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:07 AM |
| 11 | Why High N counts are Red Flags in both genders but moreso women.I love the accountability but please for the love of god don’t go breaking any young girls hearts for sex Hire sex workers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:04 AM |
| 2 | The ManChild is brough up as an Insult, Articles are written for Women to avoid him. Yet those ManChildren are prevalent and evidently score relationships. What are their benefits?Mommy-wife that will take care of him because she has natural feminine instincts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 05:31 AM |
| -1 | CMV: It is nowadays Men, not Women, who are held to unrealistic body standardsLiterally all men have to do is not be fat, go to the barber and wear sunscreen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction?What is a dad bod to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 07:47 AM |
| 12 | Is being skinny as a guy that bad for attraction?Skinny men are the BEST because they don’t blow up to be extremely fat when they turn 40 I honestly believe skinny men are most attractive when they don’t drink much and lift weights moderately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 07:46 AM |
| 5 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menSocial acceptance I’m guessing? It’s very dangerous to be openly gay in most of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 06:05 PM |
| 54 | Women over 25 don't like 'feminine' looking menA twink is a gay man Why would a woman date a gay man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Working out? I’m pretty bias because I worked in a gym for years but I will tell you that you have to want to workout in order to be consistent. Do you feel happy when you’re looking at yourself in the mirror naked? Can you post photos of your meals on your Instagram? Do you have a lot of energy throughout the day? Nobody can force you to go to the gym but what helps a lot of people get started is signing up for classes (spin, yoga, HIIT, etc.) at your gym. Whenever I’m feeling like eating poorl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?Okay lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/22 01:36 AM |
| 0 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?You can be insecure without letting everyone know. Women find insecure men extremely unattractive. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard a man complaining about his height right in front of attractive available women. This is why I only go for tall men because they are typically more confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | When people parrot that "dating is a numbers" game, you damn well this is only because we're living in an atomized societyThis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | When people parrot that "dating is a numbers" game, you damn well this is only because we're living in an atomized societyWhat does that have to do with casual hookups? Let them girls get they bag!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 03:16 PM |
| 1 | When people parrot that "dating is a numbers" game, you damn well this is only because we're living in an atomized societyPretty much all of the men I’ve dated have shamed me for not participating in sex without commitment/marriage. It’s interesting because they were all religious af (Mormon, Jewish and Christian) so I expected them to be a bit more understanding. None of them were players or ‘pimps’ at all, just fairly attractive average guys with average jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 03:03 PM |
| -2 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?No A lot of short men are very insecure about their height, I’ll take a secure tall man any day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Are there any women that feel like they struggle getting sex?Yup! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Are there any women that feel like they struggle getting sex?I’m talking about flirting, what are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 03:39 PM |
| 34 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?AND STILL splitting that rent 50/50 and busting it open every night lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingExactly! I’m not sure why it’s a problem to be in that field when a lot of people are also mentally ill but seek no treatment. I think psychologists, social workers, therapists, etc are saviors! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:20 AM |
| 5 | Are there any women that feel like they struggle getting sex?Absolutely dear. Everyone does, especially men! It’s only appropriate to return that energy bc EQUALITY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:16 AM |
| 0 | Are there any women that feel like they struggle getting sex?Who said that, me or you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Are there any women that feel like they struggle getting sex?It’s hard to describe but women have a sixth sense when it comes to attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingI’m glad to hear your perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 07:43 PM |
| 12 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingBut a good majority of these comments are directed towards women….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 07:34 PM |
| 8 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in America.Are the women attractive/quality? Maybe your problem is not your looks, after all, not being fat isn’t the surefire way to get a girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingMental health issues are very common though I’m sure you speak to people that you wouldn’t even suspect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 07:31 PM |
| 20 | Are there any women that feel like they struggle getting sex?I’ve never struggled getting sex, I have never been into hookups or casual affairs but I get countless offers consistently, it’s extremely annoying. At the gas station, at Target, when I’m rushing back to work from my lunch break, at my favorite restaurant, during a layover, at the gym….. The REAL struggle is trying to get a male to commit before/without sex. I’ve noticed even below average males expect sex before anything else…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 06:46 PM |
| 21 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingI don’t understand this thread sometimes Men want women to work like men and pay their 50/50 because equality But what jobs are we allowed to have without being deemed as ‘undateable’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingMental health provider? Isn’t that just as hard/rewarding as nursing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 06:30 PM |
| 14 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingEvery job requires a form of lying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | What sports or hobbies that a potential relationship partner might have attract you the most?Tennis Running Hiking (but nothing crazy) Painting Dancing/musicians Gardening Cooking Absolutely no gamers or day traders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What sports or hobbies that a potential relationship partner might have attract you the most?All of these 🤌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Statistically speaking: Getting married is financially reckless for wealthy menNo way. How many swap outs have you done? Where are you finding these young hot women? Do you feel happy with your life and yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 04:26 AM |
| 4 | Statistically speaking: Getting married is financially reckless for wealthy menHow long have you been married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 04:17 AM |
| 12 | Statistically speaking: Getting married is financially reckless for wealthy menAre you wealthy? How do you know this is true pls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | I think the vast majority of frustration and anger comes from.high expectations. We need to work on lowering that for general happinessIf you want prostitution to be legalized you should talk to your governor, petition and protest! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateWomen are not “privileged” women are women and men are men. We all have our own roles and just because you have different roles than the opposite gender does not mean you’re more or less privileged. Sounds like a gentleman has never tried to court you before, let me guess, you’re a ‘career woman who don’t need no man!’ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 06:27 PM |
| 3 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateI’m not single and I’m not looking to marry just because someone pays for dinner. The delusion…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 06:25 PM |
| 6 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateI’ve never met a man that wanted me to split bills and pay for dates, how does that make me at fault when they’re doing the approaching and courting? 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateWhen I go on a date I bring a positive attitude and a beautiful outfit. I’ve literally never met a man that wanted me to pay for any dates, first, second or 50th. It’s not like I’m demanding anything, I’m sorry for attracting gentlemen?? And since when did men and women get treated equally? Just because women can vote and work doesn’t make us “equal” Bye bye now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 06:06 PM |
| 2 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateThat’s why I go out with my friends and we split the bills evenly 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 03:02 PM |
| 4 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateNope I’m actually a traditional woman in a modern world! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:04 AM |
| 3 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateThose are the best type of dates 🤌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 06:19 PM |
| 11 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateTHIS I’m not in the gym everyday getting ready to split dinners with men that want 3rd date sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 06:04 PM |
| 2 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateThis is definitely how it should go for a 2 day date not a 2 hour date lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 06:01 PM |
| 20 | You should pay for what you order when going on a first dateNo thanks LOL If I want to split bills I’ll go out with my girlfriends or gay guy friends, I also take turns paying the whole bill with my friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/22 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Men in your 20s, how do you feel about older men competing with you in the sexual marketplace?Think $$$$$ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Men in your 20s, how do you feel about older men competing with you in the sexual marketplace?Rich/tall/good looking American men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Women have no clue how much effort men put into achieving a top physiqueTHIS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Women have no clue how much effort men put into achieving a top physiqueThe bar isn’t “lower” it’s just in a different area You still have to have a proper diet and exercise regularly in order to be skinny & it still takes a lot of effort like of course you can be skinny but can you be skinny and toned? Skinny with a great butt and no cellulite or flappy arms? Also visible abs on a woman isn’t “required” because they are a sign of strength which is considered to be a masculine quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 07:35 PM |
| 59 | Women have no clue how much effort men put into achieving a top physiqueEVERYONE, man or woman has to work years to attain their dream physique. I’ve been a personal trainer for 3 years now and it still shocks me how people think they can just jump on the treadmill for a month to get their bikini body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 05:25 AM |
| 10 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Trim your beard Find something to be passionate about Don’t talk about your exes, sex or porn to a woman you’re interested in Please wash your fucking hands Don’t be afraid of going out alone without the bros Pick up lines you see on Tinder do not work 99% of the time Hold the door open Don’t expect sex just because you’re paying for things Dress accordingly (don’t show up to a 5 star dinner in sweats or jeans) Stay calm Workout | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 09:09 PM |
| 4 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaThat’s my city too Really if you’re any in shape feminine woman 18-60 in my city you will not have a hard time dating/marrying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaDuh, half of their income comes from hubby 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaThey were probably skinny when they met Or maybe she works to much to have time to workout, (one of the common excuses I hear) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaMen are supposed to chase women, that’s why it’s not easier for guys. Look on the bright side, you are naturally stronger, faster and get paid more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:14 PM |
| 14 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaSAME It’s like I’m some sort of rare species 😂 My friends aren’t even fat and they still drool over my body because I work out but of course when I ask them to join me at the gym it’s crickets lmaoo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:12 PM |
| 7 | Obesity has decimated the dating market in AmericaI love this overweight trend in the US because if you workout you’re automatically attractive And if you’re attractive AND not fat you’re never paying for anything when you go out, it’s amazing 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | The way some women here on PPD describes their S/O is so unflattering and insulting that if they read it they’d break up with them on the spotMen don’t need to be attractive in order to find a wife, they need to be masculine providers in good health | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingI think I worded that incorrectly 😅 but anyways, nice job for staying in shape! A lot of people don’t have the same healthy mindset which makes it harder for them to find a mate as they grow older! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingWhat made you come to that conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingI guess I’m about to be useless in a couple years, how dare I not have a child, waste of woman 🙋🏾♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingThen it’s waahhh my lazy bitch girlfriend can’t get me hard, I know what I need, a minor! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingEvery mans prime is mid 30’s huh? Last time I checked a good chunk of males started showing signs of balding at 27 There are men in their prime in their 30’s just like there are women in their prime in their 30’s. It’s all about experience and a healthy lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingI don’t think you read my comment correctly lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingIf we’re being realistic, do you think men will be happier that way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingYou’re right, all men should be single and never look at women at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:03 PM |
| 10 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingYou can’t please anyone on TRP They’ll call you useless because you’re a young woman with a child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingTHIS Some guys want to have as much sex as possible until mid 30’s hit and women are no longer attracted to them (unless they have money or high status) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:21 PM |
| 10 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingI think most men want “stable relationships” with the sexual consistency of their flings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingTHIS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:18 PM |
| 8 | If you desire a traditional man or woman, you better be traditional yourselfPosting a photo in a bikini is slutty? I think 99% of the women I know have atleast 3 photos of themselves in bikinis on their socials…..I guess we’re all sluts 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | If you desire a traditional man or woman, you better be traditional yourselfI am traditional. I was raised to be a homemaker/housewife but do you know how HARD it is to find a man that has traditional values? Do you know how hard it is to find a man that won’t dump you if you don’t have sex within weeks of dating? One that will provide without question? I’m blessed to be attractive and I don’t plan on altering my traditional standards but dating while looking for a traditional man is very tiring, they’re all already married! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 04:57 PM |
| 0 | If women don’t want to be approached at the gym, the grocery, the bar or in the dms - where are guys supposed to meet women?I love it when men approach me when I’m doing regular things, I don’t just look good for fun!! The only time I think it’s annoyed to get approached is when I’m in a bad mood or in a rush. I also don’t think you should talk to women at the gym unless you’re a pro athlete or Chris Hemsworth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSooo no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHave you ever been in a healthy romantic relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe need a hard reset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHousework, raising children and a career? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEveryone is allowed to have standards, thank you for your input. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadInteresting Do you also need her to take care of the home and have your children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI love your flair 🤌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHmm well nowadays the majority of men in the west want a working wife that splits bills, has the babies, works full time, takes care of the home and takes care of husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you specifically go after women in the same field as you? Are you attracted to women with careers because you want her to split your bills? I am intrigued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoes anyone here disagree with 50/50 culture? I think it builds resentment for women which leads to divorce. I was also raised the traditional way so I may be biased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShopping and spending money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:24 AM |
| 2 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderWhy are you really single? You sound perfect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 05:52 AM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderIt’s women’s fault that he’s single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderHow old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you care about a guy's "number" if so what ranges are do you prefer?Exactly, men are supposed to approach women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 02:26 AM |
| 0 | In a society where beauty fads come and go, what beauty standards do men actually care about?Um what? 16 is a child… Why doesn’t your “proximity” start at 20? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Younger women, do you agree with the pretty boy aesthetic being attractive to women at all? And to what extent do you think that redpillers are right about what women want?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 01:05 AM |
| 3 | In a society where beauty fads come and go, what beauty standards do men actually care about?16? That’s a kid dear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Why go through a hoe phase instead of getting an LTR?I think they’re talking about men sleeping around not women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Why go through a hoe phase instead of getting an LTR?I’ve honestly never craved casual sex, like ever. It’s only satisfying with someone you’re in a relationship with but that’s just my opinion. I love male attention/adoration if it’s coming from a quality man otherwise I’m good with the vibrator 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Is there something wrong with nice guys and what exactly ?Men that call themselves nice guys are nice in their own heads | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | TRP and FDS both seem to really hate men and women, yet they still want the very people they hateI hate working out but I still do it because I need to and I feel amazing after | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockI love muscles The ‘dadbod’ shit is what really needs to die | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 12:42 AM |
| 2 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestLife is somewhat easier with a man especially if he’s rich/intelligent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestI hope so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Highest SMV Male CareerWhy is cop on this list pls that’s not a normal job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 02:56 AM |
| 47 | Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you.They won’t find her attractive but they will have sex with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestMany men aren’t on psych meds because they rarely ever go to therapy or work on their trauma 🤷🏾♀️ Also men out earn women because they are naturally supposed to be providers, they don’t have to take months/years off to breastfeed their children and their bodies were literally created to work hard. Think with your brain babe 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:20 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestYes I do see couples everywhere lol But remember, a significant amount of people get married for tax purposes and children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:15 PM |
| 3 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestThese standards are typically held for women that have the necessary requirements to hold the standards in the first place (I.e. a famous model marrying a famous actress) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestLOL How DARE you have sex with 2 men while I fuck the whole town twice over including all of your friends Before you ask yes I do know men like this and I stay far far away from their type. I work with one of these types and the other day he complained about not being able to find a good woman after bragging about hooking up with a different girl every other weekend at his favorite bar (he is also a single parent)….it’s like watching a sitcom 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 06:11 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestThis. Women have power to live alone, leave the house alone, vote, have successful careers and so forth. With the support of friends and family being a single woman in the US is a lot more fulfilling than ever before. I almost feel bad for the few men of quality looking for traditional wives. I think the only women that get into relationships nowadays is to have children but then again it’s becoming more normal to be a single mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 05:19 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestSame here, have a boyfriend or two is nice to fix things, travel and go out with but aside from that I’m good. I believe AI relationships will take over in the next decade or even sooner. Have you seen the movie HER? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 05:14 PM |
| – | The rapid societal decline in sex and relationships is solely due to women's lack of interestWhat did you do to these women that made them batshit crazy? I’m assuming “nothing” right? 🤣 A lot of men nowadays that demand traditional relationships do not have what it takes to sustain one. Relationships are obviously not one sided but many of you fail to realize that what you put in is exactly what you get in return. Just saying 🤷🏾♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do red pillers want to date women when you guys hold such negative views on us?They don’t want to date women they want extremely hot sex slave cleaning lady that says nothing all day and cooks like Gordon Ramsey every night and never ages past 22 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANBecause that only happens when the guy is attractive or rich | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 03:39 AM |
| 3 | American Culture is Simultaneously HYPERSEXUAL and Sanctimoniously PURITANPeriod. They don’t want to hear this though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?Omg I had to force sunscreen and daily moisturizer on my ex, his skin would literally GLOW each time. Unfortunately he didn’t care to do it for himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 5 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?Moderators are white, they don’t really care lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 05:03 AM |
| 2 | What features make a guy physically unattractive?Fat Short Bad skin Beer gut Thin lips Balding/bald Yellow teeth Weak jawline Bad posture Caveman beard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 04:52 AM |
| 1 | What's worse in your mind a 20 year old fucking a 16 year old or a 45 year old fucking a 20 year old?r/agegap has entered the chat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?And their solution is to get mail order brides | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 08:19 PM |
| 5 | Women's PHYSICAL REQUIREMENTS for attraction keep rising as she approaches 30No I am not lol Are Asian women the only women allowed to be unapologetic about their standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Women's PHYSICAL REQUIREMENTS for attraction keep rising as she approaches 30No, US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/22 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Younger women, do you agree with the pretty boy aesthetic being attractive to women at all? And to what extent do you think that redpillers are right about what women want?I’m attracted to tall, masculine men who are healthy and well groomed. I’m 5’8’ so I lean towards men that are 6’1’ or taller. They don’t have to be muscular or ripped but as someone who loves fitness I expect them to be able to participate. I also loooove beards so a thick but trimmed beard makes me melt. Never really attract bald men or short men but I do not automatically cancel them out. I honestly haven’t been into ”pretty boys” since high school but I see the hype about them. They’re good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 03:39 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on Young Men not dating till they are 30 and established?How is your mental health? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Young Men not dating till they are 30 and established?Yes, right after therapy I guarantee you that people in happy relationships wouldn’t be anywhere near this thread yet here we are lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Young Men not dating till they are 30 and established?The ones that go without it become alcoholics, murderers and addicts Prove me wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 04:38 AM |
| 11 | What are your thoughts on Young Men not dating till they are 30 and established?That’s called escorts and prostitutes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 04:34 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on Young Men not dating till they are 30 and established?I have dated 2 of them and I can confirm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | If it doesn’t make sense for a man with a certain amount of income/resources to be in a monogamous relationship, then it doesn’t make sense for a woman with a certain amount of income/resources as wellEveryone in this sub needs to be in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Working out, for yourself or to become attractive to others?Both. HVM like in shape women and I would like to be married to one someday. If you let yourself go while young it’ll be very, very hard to turn around as you age. I also believe in body positivity and as much as American media likes to promote fatness there is nothing positive about being overweight. Looking at yourself and feeling genuinely happy is the best thing for your mental health. I also have diabetes in my family (even though most of us are slim/average) so if I don’t work out and eat … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 03:29 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Young Men not dating till they are 30 and established?”21 year old models” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/22 02:04 AM |
| 15 | Women's PHYSICAL REQUIREMENTS for attraction keep rising as she approaches 30WHY is this group obsessed with making women who hit 30 feel like shit? I don’t understand this “wall” thing and have never heard about it in real life but then again all of the women I know that are in their 30’s are beautiful and married lol. As someone in their 20’s I do not care about physical attractiveness (crushing over a cute boy is for teenagers and high school). In my culture, you must choose a man for his ability to provide, masculinity and health. Is this consistent projection from 3… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 06:14 PM |
| 5 | There are only 3 ways to really succeed in the dating world as a guy: Extreme risk, hard work, or luckNo it isn’t lol…. If women don’t get married young we’re pretty much fucked. You can talk about degrees and all that jazz but how many ladies actually love to work or ”grind” in their careers? The only thing men have to lose is a little money which can be made back immediately whereas time and youth are the most valuable thing for women. BUT I will say this, if you’re a woman born into a wealth, royalty, etc you are lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Where have all the good men gone?Not every woman will be attracted to you and that’s totally normal. The way you used her living situation and aging face to start off your comment is…telling… Your finances sound great and women love tall men but are you mentally healthy? Have you ever had a long term relationship? Do you approach women or vis versa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 10:05 PM |
| -1 | Where have all the good men gone?Girl: I am not attracted to you, I just want to be friends Guy: Bitch friend zoned me!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Where have all the good men gone?Yup They get taken off the market QUICKLY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Where have all the good men gone?Chad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Where have all the good men gone?I completely agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Where have all the good men gone?Why do you think the mother gets custody rather than the father? Also need a source for your divorce statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Where have all the good men gone?It’s kind of funny because Western men literally raised us 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Where have all the good men gone?Good men or “high value men” get taken off the market quickly. There is no good reason for them to return to dating, unless their partner cheats or dies. Unfortunately the dating pool nowadays is filled with men (I know not all but a lot) that prefer hookups, no commitment, and soft core porn over long term relationships because it’s easier but this also creates developmental issues (emotional immaturity, insecurities, addictions, etc.) leaving them in a cycle of serial dating or rotational dati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 16 | Where have all the good men gone?I think young women can relate to this statement just as much as middle aged women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 05:12 PM |
| – | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketThis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 07:04 AM |
| – | FDS couldn't exist in a healthy dating marketThis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 07:00 AM |
| 2 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 03:20 AM |
| 19 | If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman?A lot more women care about their looks compared to men. They take care of themselves far longer than most men do (extends their lives too lol) so of course they look better than their counterpart. Money can play a huge role in the relationship (he’s paying her to date him, he has a high profile, sugar daddy situation, etc.) She may like him for his personality which is funny to hear but absolutely not impossible to find. Making a woman smile is the best thing a man can do but many fail to reali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 03:19 AM |
| 3 | What are some arbitrary things that make you immediately swipe left?https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.fatherly.com/love-money/police-brutality-and-domestic-violence/amp/ https://www.channel4.com/news/more-than-100-women-accuse-police-officers-of-domestic-abuse-alleging-boys-club-culture https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thecut.com/amp/2021/09/gabby-petito-body-cam-cops-fail-domestic-violence-victims.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 7 | What are some arbitrary things that make you immediately swipe left?Mmmm domestic violence and narcissism yummy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 04:24 PM |
| 10 | What are some arbitrary things that make you immediately swipe left?-Nothing in bio (what’s the point?) -Shirtless pics -Photos holding fish (I understand it’s a competitive hobby for many but the only people that care about fishing is other men) -Every photo is him at his buddies wedding (this could honestly be good or bad because I know a lot of men that rarely take photos) -More than one dog picture…..we know what you’re doing sir lol -Cops 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 -Let’s see where it goes/here for a good time not a long time (please save time and hire an escort) -“I’m {inser… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 03:22 PM |
| 5 | Explanations for the high male to female ratio on dating appsHonestly might as well book an escort, if you’re just looking for sex with a girl out of your league for free….. Good luck lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her?This is exactly what I say to men seeking poor wives, it doesn’t always work out like their fairytale unless they’re actually rich but in that case they wouldn’t have to seek wives in 3rd world countries right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her?Targeting poverty stricken women for marriage may seem like a good idea but then I think about 90 day fiancé lol What are you going to do when your SE bride to be finds out you’re actually a loser? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her?What are women supposed to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Why does it take alcohol for most women to engage in casual sex?Because most men are very very bad at establishing attraction and getting women in the mood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?Bless you 😩🙏🏾 Brb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?This convo 🤣 omg I need money too I’m literally homeless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?I’ve never met a woman that went to the gym to get hit on. As a gym goer that’s actually the rudest thing you can do especially mid workout. A lot of people wear cute/sexy clothes to the gym because the clothes were made to be worn there and they want to look good. Hence the many, many mirrors! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4A In terms of dating, do you regret being being born in the here and now rather than another era or culture?Are you Mormon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?Lol You should want to be mature in hopes that you’ll find a girlfriend and it sounds like you’re having a very hard time doing so. If something makes you uncomfortable then the right thing to do is communicate your issue or simply leave. I never said being shallow is acceptable but what exactly do you gain from being rude to someone you are no longer interested in? Why not spend your time chasing those ‘other fish in the sea’ ?? You aren’t doing yourself any good by being negative and the fact … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?I was dancing with my girlfriends at a bar a few months ago and I gestured at this guy sitting alone that was staring at me ALL NIGHT LONG to join in. I leaned over and encourage him to dance with just me or one of my GORGEOUS friends, he giggled and literally replied “I’m short” I rolled my eyes and walked away slightly disgusted. Not a single person mentioned his height, he was actually well dressed and in decent shape but he chose to make it an issue all on his own and I’m sure that’s not the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 11:36 AM |
| -1 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?Yeah no, if you’re insecure about something you need therapy, not a girlfriend. Being intentionally rude isn’t cute, just immature and the last thing that would attract any woman. Be well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 11:11 AM |
| 0 | What standards are TOO high?Hey I’ve had covid since the 31st I’m a bit behind 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a WomanExercise, even when you don’t feel like it get out there, jog, hike, bike whenever you get a good chance Try something new/Go somewhere new as often as you can, try to make a friend there! Meditation, at least 5-10 minuets of it instantly puts me in a positive mood. I like to meditate as soon as I wake up and right before bed. Have gratitude, think about everything you have and how far in life you’ve come, this is the first step to receiving MORE. Relationships are important but you have to be i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 03:57 AM |
| -2 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?‘Hot, skinny women’ would definitely care. Asking anyone their weight is a strange question as weight fluctuates constantly. Height on the other hand does not change at all for years. I suggest you work on your self esteem since this seems like a sensitive topic for you. You’re not doing any good being negative about your unchangeable qualities and women do not like men that aren’t confident & secretly disrespectful. Period. I have dated my fair share of short dudes and they were the only ones t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 12:07 AM |
| -2 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?They don’t understand, you’re wasting time explaining lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?That would be a rude question to ask anyone, male or female regardless of context. If your issue is not wanting to date someone fat you should easily be able to tell by their photos. If you suspect them of being overweight why would you engage in the first place? It’s also hard to tell someone’s height by their photos and if it’s not in your bio then you shouldn’t have an issue being asked (bumble and hinge have a height setting for this exact reason). A lot of men don’t understand that women ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 11:48 PM |
| 4 | Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a WomanYou need therapy not Reddit. Please do not date anyone until you have resolved the issue of losing your ex. Your negativity will resonate in your next relationship big time and it will just get harder as you build up resent. You are more than capable of finding your match, you are young, but are you willing to make the necessary life changes to do so? Or do you just expect the ‘perfect’ woman to fall into your lap tomorrow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 0 | What standards are TOO high?THIS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 06:26 AM |
| 0 | What standards are TOO high?It’s okay to be gay, it’s literally 2021 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Not exactly in America…. Being physically unhealthy is actually widely excepted here. When I tell some of my peers that I work out everyday and enjoy healthy eating I get asked “why?” and “for what?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Is dating really that hard in western countries or are incels delusional and not as attractive as they think they are?How is that going for you? Have you found any success? Do you use certain strategies to make sure you are compatible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’m kind of confused, I’m obviously not a doctor but how can a person be fat and healthy? Although it is considered normal, being fat isn’t natural to humans or really any species (when you see a fat dog or bird what is your first thought?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:44 PM |
| 110 | This idiot asks "how do you rate yourself on a scale of 1-10?". And she responded with the best 5 o'clock news voice 🤣, while roasting him in the process.Okay but why are so many black men so rude to black women? I rarely see this in my parents country, is it an American thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Both women and men know what to do to be more sexually attractive. They refuse to improve though.That’s wonderful, best of luck with everything! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Both women and men know what to do to be more sexually attractive. They refuse to improve though.That’s perfect, as long as you’re happy! Just know that unless you are planning on marrying a hookup it will be very hard for you to find a relationship when you are finally ready :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 07:18 PM |
| -1 | Why are men here so obsessed with the 80/20 rule and the okcupid study?But that solves your problem of not getting laid doesn’t it? OLD isn’t getting any better…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:01 PM |
| -3 | Why are men here so obsessed with the 80/20 rule and the okcupid study?If “getting laid” is an issue for these men why not just hire a sex worker? Everyone leaves happy and nobody is mislead into a horrible relationship 👍🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Both women and men know what to do to be more sexually attractive. They refuse to improve though.Any bar slut can hook up with a guy that buys her drinks, how are your relationships with these women? Are you married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | The Duality of WomenYour name explains everything sir | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:06 AM |
| 3 | The Duality of WomenShe’s at the gym, what is she supposed to wear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | instagram / tinder experiment resultsYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.That’s an interesting takeaway but I’m not in a rich neighborhood….and I’m clearly not married…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 12:28 AM |
| 28 | Older women, please stop making posts about why older men should stop dating younger women, men don't care.As a young woman I am not attracted to old men, nobody I know is and I find it quite strange when I get approached by one (where is your wife sir??? Leave me alone) I feel like a lot of men make up this myth about young women thirsting over them because they’ve always wanted to f*ck barely legal girls (I blame porn and Leo DiCaprio types). In reality most men pair up with women closer to their age….. Also, where are these older women crying and complaining? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Is dating really that hard in western countries or are incels delusional and not as attractive as they think they are?Where do you meet women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.Same. I have to come off as extremely friendly and approach first if I want to date which typically works but backfires in the end (they end up being super insecure 99% of the time ugh!!) It’s a hard knock life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:58 PM |
| 4 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.I want to see this too please, I don’t use tik toc but would love references. I don’t really ever see this happening with POC women it’s typically the men in my area that exude self hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 02:49 AM |
| 6 | And now for the forbidden topic: Women have massive racial preferences in dating, men by and large don't.I agree I am attractive, not ‘rachet’ or ‘ghetto’ have a decent job and live in a pretty good area but I still find it very hard to date I mostly get stared at rather than approached and when I do get approached (usually by white men) they become very weird… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 02:44 AM |
| 39 | [deleted by user]Unpopular opinion: being fat is not attractive A lot of people do not prioritize their health at all and choose “body positivity” and although we should ALL love who we are and the way we look I do not agree with happily being overweight because truthfully nobody overweight is happy. What I don’t agree with is your statement about women being fatter than men. How often do you see an in shape gorgeous woman with a man who cannot see his feet over his belly? How often do you see it the other way a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:41 AM |
| 10 | Queens, what are your plans for NYE?Sleeping and crying bc I have covid 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 11:43 AM |
| 1 | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?When women say they like older men they mean older than them not old enough to be their dad. I don’t know where this fantasy of middle aged men getting with hot, available, women in their 20’s comes from (Leonardo DiCaprio?) but it needs to stop sooner than later. It’s not realistic and unless you have boatloads of wealth and are extremely handsome or famous it’ll 99% never happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 05:36 AM |
| 1 | If there is so few women who are fit for LTR, a tiny % of women are swamped with offers from HVM. Who are these women?Um I’m a young woman and I can confirm that I have never chose a 40 year old over someone my own age and I don’t know of any women in my life that would. Whenever a man in his 40’s approaches me I typically assume the worst lol like where is your wife and kids? What mental issues do you have sir?🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 05:32 AM |
| 11 | This sh*t right here!!I never befriend men for this exact reason. The second they do something nice for you it’s sex time…..especially if you’re an attractive woman!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Have any of you ever known a man who initiated a split with his partner WITHOUT getting into a new relationship right away?I suggested therapy to my ex and he then told me I “don’t belong in his future” 2 weeks later he is sending money to his exes, collecting their nudes and just recently found a new girlfriend 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:46 AM |
| 8 | Online dating just to practice or learn FDS?That last line 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 My other favorites are “must be 18-25” and “looking for a girl that has her shit together” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 06:28 AM |
| 58 | 50/50 trap, listen to this queen!Everyday I wonder why men impregnate women and expect them to go to work to take care of them….. If you cannot afford children on your salary why are you having them? Why not be single? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 06:28 PM |
| 16 | Wife’s message to husband on TinderHe looks so boring how do men like this get married to gorgeous women pls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 21 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersMake it make sense….. The amount of times I’ve been called a nasty sexist bitch because I expect men that are interested in me to ask me out and pay for the date…..laughable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 07:31 PM |
| 9 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersFunny that you say that….. One of my ex friends would complain DAILY about how the men she dates use her for her money even though she’s the one that chooses to buy them expensive gifts, give out money loans, etc while she works 2.5 jobs (and they all ended up cheating on her too haha). It’s so sad because she’s so beautiful and only 25 years old but the self hate is so deeply engraved that only intense therapy can fix her. She also loves to mention how women that go on trips with men are disgus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 07:29 PM |
| 94 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersThese 50/50 women are the female version of scrotes. They’re literally ruining it for the rest of us that actually like men being men. Why would you not want your man to buy you dinner? A mess….. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?How do you fill the father figure role? Do you work? I don’t have children but I would like to have one eventually, I’m just afraid there are no good men left…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 12:50 AM |
| 163 | “The sex lives of college girls” a new disgusting HBO specialThe way the media forces women to make sex the center of their lives is absolutely mortifying. Hookup culture is only getting worse….. Crossing my fingers the next pandemic is caused by STDs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 01:11 PM |
| 13 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.Jake from State Farm 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 07:19 PM |
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