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102

At this point I'm not sure if the bar exists at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 04:19 PM
2

Polyamorous by Chris Fleming starts playing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 01:26 PM
9

Right? This is why we date and vet more than one man at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 09:20 PM
5

That is why I don't want to be treated as an equal. I want to be treated better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:32 AM
12

I LOVE this. I hated the "lower your standards" trend. The only difference between us and a male face isn't the beard. "LOwEr YOuR sTAndArDs bECaUSe y'All dON't LoOk hoT wiTH a bEaRd fiLtEr. 👁️👄👁️"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:26 PM
11

Thank you. I am so sick of the pickmeisha pity party going around this sub. Can we hold grown women accountable for the things they do and support? Can we stop giving women a free pass on hating women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 03:49 PM
44

Yes, some do. It's nothing new that they don't value themselves and other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:53 PM
90

Why? Because they don't care about your experience. They are obsessed with THEIR experience. A very important part of sex is visual stimulation but men decide to look like trash. Yet they want you to look like a pornstar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:38 AM
5

What kind of "accident"? What was your protection method?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:31 AM
172

I live in a Middle Eastern country. Women here work, cook, clean, raise children and men still say women bring nothing to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:54 AM
63

I don't believe that the average healthy grown man could fall asleep without their control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:22 AM
7

I could never love a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:25 PM
9

You took the word out of my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:11 PM
21

To be honest while I still think the things they do are horrible, I at least respect them more than pickmeishas. We are the ones with the clown paint on our faces. 🤡 They're not even trying to be subtle while lying. They don't try to be cunning while gaslighting. Pickmeishas will eat anything up anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:53 PM
3

The advice is clearly "delete and don't reply", why are you asking again? You know what to think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:17 PM
6

My friend is the same kind of person as yours, and I'm scared of writing about my resentment for the possible reactions I could get. Because apparently w0MeN muSt SupPorT oTheR wOMen. Well, she's not exactly supporting me by treating LVMs like gods and making sure that our culture stays misogynistic. She's not helping other women by bearing the child of a man who calls her every 10 minutes to see if she's wearing something revealing, or spending time around men. A bald, old man who doesn't have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:25 AM
76

If you aren't employed, do you pick a place and start working there hoping that one day they will pay you? No. Do not do the same with men. Always make sure that the fruit of your labour is secured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:56 AM
295

He understands, and doesn't care...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:16 PM
3

Wow I will never be a bangmaid, so sad! 😭😭 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:43 PM
26

I thought I was asexual. But the truth is... MEN UGLY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 04:54 PM
2

"What should i do?" Read the handbook maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 12:42 PM
5

I don't feel bad for her because it's not just HER life that she is destroying. After all those red flegs she still thought she was the exception and he was going to treat her differently. No, she knew. Still she chose to ignore because then she won't have a man. He kicked them out and sadly poor newborn will pay the price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 11:30 AM
18

I think about this all the time. I love this sub but the posts make me think: "Okay, there are shitty men. Now what? Where is the strategy? How to find those who are not shitty? Or do I have to stay alone forever? Am I not going to experience anything positive for the rest of my life?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 05:55 PM
10

It's scary that women also can be this misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:39 PM
31

What a queen! 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:51 PM
52

A man's taste in memes is so important. Dark humor, violence and sexual stuff = 🚩. I wish we had a post about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:29 PM
2

I couldn't watch because I felt embarrassed...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 07:49 PM
3

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:05 AM
19

It would be naive to say that this is not about numbers. Many of us die without encountering one HVM in countries dominated by women-hating religions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:17 PM
16

Where are you from? Is the culture promoting NVM? Mine sure is so I don't want to get my hopes up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:56 PM
2

We need this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:40 PM
12

The sad thing is, he is not losing. He is getting full benefits while we suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:36 PM
71

Speak for yourself, hun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 06:24 PM
10

Girl, you can live without a man. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:26 AM
1

The toilet paper with ribbons... AHAHAHAHAA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:20 PM
17

It pains me that we created this mess. Women also influence their children more. You can see that children are mostly shaped by their mothers even if the father is a HVM. Pickmeishas are choosing the easy way, dating some random LVM and creating delusions about his behavior to feel like he is prince charming. Sadly, HVW are paying the price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:12 PM
4

They are both clowns tbh. At least he is getting something... She is getting nothing but a wasted life. I feel sorry for the child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:42 PM
3

It's because he doesn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:56 AM
2

When I look at my pickme friends and their relationships, the man isn't even coming up with excuses. My friends are doing it for them. It's endless delusion. Actually, most of those men don't even care enough to gaslight my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:54 AM
14

I'd rather get sued than be dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:01 PM
21

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:20 PM
53

True. My father only stopped physical abuse after I got to a point where I had nothing to lose anymore and was ready for a physical confrontation. Speak in their language. If they break a finger, you have to cut one. cough Metaphorically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:05 PM
44

We gave them too much, and now they think they can behave this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:54 PM
3

Nothing wrong with putting pickmes down: life will put them down if we don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:44 AM
1

He's great and so funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:08 PM
4

Exactly what I had in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:14 PM
2

Maybe validation? I don't know for sure but I think the payout is emotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:37 AM
7

In nature, females are responsible with reproducing and males are with providing and peacocking. But when it comes to us, women do all of it. Waxing my body and plucking my eyebrows don't feel good. Walking on high heels doesn't feel good. Having makeup on my face feels so bad. Having long hair is so uncomfortable. I won't pretend to like doing these things just because the outcome makes me feel less ugly. I do all of these to be considered conventionally attractive and I expect men to give the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:52 AM
6

I don't expect men to be rich, I just expect them to earn more than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 11:20 PM
17

I'm so glad that this is being talked about. I feel endless anger towards my mom for letting a manchild beat me for years but it's almost never validated. Everybody -even people in this sub- talks about how men should have done better, but what about women? I believe this sub is helpful because it changes women, not men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:51 PM
9

As a child of a pickme mother and an abusive father, I'm here to say that this is absolutely true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:41 PM
38

Same here, I don't understand. Seems like living with your head deep in the sand is easier than facing the truth. Although we all have to face the truth someday, and it can be too late when that happens. For me, putting your foot down means filing divorce papers in this case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:33 AM
8

I wish to get out, but sadly our economy is just as screwed. I guess my only chance is to focus on getting laid. Though I don't wish to touch a scrote; not now, not any time. For reference, I live in Turkey. You can see that we are just behind India in this article: https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2020/03/04/opinion/women-unpaid-labor.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:40 AM
22

This gave me a lot of willpower. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:41 AM
7

It's good to know. Thank you. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:37 AM
5

I know. (I said that it's better than wasting your life for a manchild just now.) What I'm talking about is experiencing absolutely nothing your whole life sexually. Is it something any of us could do if we were surrounded with LVMs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:15 AM
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I get the idea. But dying a virgin? I don't know. I'm young and my awareness of LVM at this age costs me a lot. It's better than wasting my life for a manchild but I have to live without experiencing anything at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:53 PM
43

Does that mean never having sex until you die? I live in a country where LVM is the standard. Honestly this thought scares me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:29 PM
19

Thank you! 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:34 PM
73

I loved this. 💖 Can you please write the name of the movie when you post scenes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:32 PM
122

Plan the date, pay 50/50, spend hours and money to get ready... At this point I am taking myself to a date, not him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:14 PM
2

He is doing it because he thinks he can get away with it. If she doesn't leave him, his plan will work and she will be awarding him for lying. Then she will keep thinking why men are liars. Her sister: 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:57 PM
7

Don't be harsh on babies, at least they are cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:53 PM
5

There's something Marilyn Monroe says in a movie: "A girl being pretty is like a man being rich." Personally, I never claimed that I'm doing it just for myself. I may have grown to like beauty (a big part of it is because of the pressure to be artificially beautiful) but I know what I do serves men. That's why I never pretend the outcome is "all natural". If I did that, I wouldn't be able to ask men to give the same effort in different ways. Society doesn't only want you to look pretty. It wants…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:39 PM
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Bold of you to assume I don't know anything about this issue. I have gone through physical and mental abuse because my mom was a Pickme. She ruined my every chance in life by letting an abusive men into our house. If Pickmes don't care about children getting beaten and living with the fear of death every day just to end up with several mental illnesses, I don't see the point of having empathy for them. We are responsible of what we accept. Men won't act better if you let them get their way. They…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:21 PM
4

They compliment what serves them. They compliment your beauty, cooking and cleaning skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:23 AM
2

They know it is strange. They don't care tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:34 AM
3

I don't like the "They pressure you because they don't know men ruined their lives." approach. I'm sure many of you don't want to accept this but, they know. Older women know they lived an awful life. We always remind each other of how men aren't stupid and they just don't care in this sub, but women aren't stupid too. They want you to choose the same path so their life makes sense. It is selfish and horrible. Don't fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:03 AM
28

Add looking unrealistically pretty while doing all of those to the cart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:48 AM
18

"I think u have some deep insecurities..." It is not me who thinks no men will ever commit to me so I just pretend I like polygamy and it's mUh cHoiCe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:39 AM
72

Men choose women who spend money on their looks, then shame them for doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:33 PM
16

I'm sorry for the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 12:31 AM
141

Says this while living in a place that looks like garbage dump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:51 PM
7

I know the point of this post is his cringy behavior but imagine your boyfriend giving his number to the girl who asked for it in a bar and telling you it's because he was "open to be friends". Am I being crazy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:19 PM
1

It's not even love if there is no respect, effort, understanding, etc. It is lust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 10:06 AM
61

Ironically, this is the reason why they are disrespectful. Take a look at his perspective: He is SO important that his mom is doing his work for him. 😒 Now, why wouldn't he be disrespectful to you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:00 AM
13

I heard from someone who had a business that women didn't complain about low wages as much as men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:30 PM
53

When did wasting food become "etiquette"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:40 PM
32

If he wants me to not finish my plate, he needs to buy a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:39 PM
7

What kind of excuse is that? She could catch a d*ck whenever she wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:09 PM
16

If he tries to minimize what he did saying "It's just a plant!"; tell him it's not the plant, it's what you did for the plant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:34 PM
31

They couldn't anyway since they weren't even children at the same period of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:24 PM
7

Isn't it obvious that Tinder is for sex? I mean the icon of it is literally a flame. I never thought people would use it to find dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:55 PM
6

I am not fighting for shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 11:16 PM
8

I agree, except the romance between them being rushed part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:45 PM
5

What is your opinion on Tiana?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:58 PM
42

Judge me for this but I probably would have sex with other men and tell him that other men didn't have a problem getting it up after seeing my butt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:53 PM
3

You're absolutely right. But I still prefer to have sex at least once before marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:07 PM
6

True. But he should still be good in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:44 AM
3

The idea sounds fine but I have some other thoughts: 1. What if he has a micropenis and you learn after you get married? 2. What if he sucks in bed like the men you mentioned and you learn that after marriage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:25 AM
7

He says he doesn't want a relationship. Simple. No need to play his girlfriend to convince him that you are "girlfriend material" and then go crazy because that is not happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:15 AM
26

"Oh no! I'm going to have to face the consequences of my actions!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:59 PM
69

My friends were going through the gallery of a guy friend who liked me (I'm not his friend, he gave them the phone and he was near us) and there was nothing out of the ordinary. I said something like "You guys are amateurs, look at the hidden files!" and they did. We found a disgusting video in which he filmed private parts of girls while they were walking. What's shocking is, my friends kept talking to him like nothing happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:50 PM
85

A red flag is a red flag. I don't care if he's young; raising him is not my responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 07:10 PM
7

I can't be sure if she thinks that or if she's in denial. Can people be THAT naive? Maybe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:01 PM
24

I live in Turkey and I never even had faith in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:31 PM
26

He's breaking things, you said. I stopped reading. He's doing it for the feeling of hitting "you". But since that's unacceptable, he's harming objects instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:42 AM
4

Please let this be a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:52 AM
34

Tbh I'd to the same as her, especially since you like to compare his girlfriend to yourself. Doesn't look like you intend to be his "friend".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:32 AM
9

You shouldn't feel uncomfortable to say NO in public. If he asks you in public, he should be ready for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:27 AM
2

No one should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:46 AM
1

The egg doesn't swim to the sperm. Men are hunters, let them hunt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:09 AM
1

In fact, telling women to choose better guys is exactly what we do here. Telling men to be better won't do anything. No one pays 40$ for something you sell to 20$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:43 AM
2

I'm sure it's not his first time. I'm sorry for the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:35 PM
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