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| 59 | Any allies out there? A small rant about this 'society'Ya I feel strongly about this sexual degeneracy which is brushed off as me being old fashioned. Before I graduated highschool I knew a couple students, boys and girls, who had sugar daddies I shit you not. I truly think this society is going to crash and burn soon or 10 years later. I'm tired of it all. I'm tired of an oversexualized society. It's not liberating or quirky, it's just gross and pathetic to witness at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 01:41 PM |
| 98 | losing friends ever since accepting FDS valuesYou didn't do anything wrong, this is going to happen when you adopt FDS values or any self help values really. Its like growing up in an abusive childhood, receiving therapy and beginning to heal, and realizing how many toxic people are truly around you that will drop like flies. She asked you for advice, you told her the truth, it's on her to digest that and see what she wants. She can keep getting played if she doesn't like it. 🤷♀️ it has happened to all of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 01:33 PM |
| 123 | LVM infiltrate our spaces constantly and I’m sick of it: A Case StudyYou need to block and delete your friend, and tell her husband that she cheated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 02:09 PM |
| 42 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseI believe they are aware how ""unfair"" the dating world is and they are trying to force it in their favor. They hate not being in control, not having the world catered to their wants and needs. They know women can be as picky as she wants, and they hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:03 PM |
| 29 | Have you ever witnessed/experiences a LVM turn to a HVM?Why did you link your other account? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:47 PM |
| 92 | Men have such rancid energySorry the title made me audibly laugh. That is scary and my suggestion is to make a fake persona that'll fool them. Document and report, but when they complain say something like "ugh I wonder who. probably some angry feminist who thinks everything is harassment!" so they don't suspect you. Request an escort to your car if needed, carry pepperspray or anything that can be used to defend yourself. If they genuinely threatened you with those (I can't tell if they did or its one of your fears) then… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:37 AM |
| 45 | How to deal with men who want to be “orbiters”Just say no. You will be seen as a bitch whether you like it or not and you have to become comfortable with that because they do not care about your comfort. And stop giving out social media. Male workers will ask for my instagram and I straight up say "Nope." that's it. Don't care about what they say after. Say you don't give out socials to coworkers/customers because it ends in drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 05:18 PM |
| 214 | The Consequences of The Male Birth Control Pill"people with uteruses" Yeah this article isn't worth my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 09:21 AM |
| 101 | Being anti-porn is not enoughYep. Men largely do not care about women, they didn't care about the women being r*ped and drugged and beaten. But only when their dicks stop working and their hair is falling out, then it's a problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 08:15 PM |
| 2 | for the love of god stop explaining yourselfI'm sorry you have to go through that! I had a bout of fear for awhile when i rejected a scrote and he would prank call me every once in awhile because he knew where I lived. felt much better after moving though I don't know if you're able to do that right now. that narrative only serves to benefit men and brush off their stalking attempts 🤮 ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | for the love of god stop explaining yourselfI wonder about that too. maybe you should reach out to one of them on Twitter? I guess they see it like they are not personally interacting with the scrotes and just making fun of x interaction with other women? I don't listen to the podcast too much honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:57 PM |
| 11 | Will Smith’s Slap, Protecting Black Women and My Own Experience Being Unprotected by Black Menthis is what pisses me off about everyone's reaction we JUST had multiple threads where black women spoke about the aggressions they face and how NO ONE protects them, not even their own race. I had a discussion about it with my bf who I consider HV and he was also shocked over everyone's reaction. he saw it as protecting her honor and he would not let someone disrespect me like that. WHAT is LV about this? honestly I get hints of classism in my gut over this and I can't explain why. I personall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:45 PM |
| 42 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Nah I couldn't care less about a man defending his wife's honour (by slapping another man. typically we see abusers target/intimidate other women) while all those little pedophiles and rapists run free in Hollywood. maybe it's the difference in our culture, but I would respect a man who defends my honour through a simple smack after I am humiliated by a large crowd and other audiences. Again he and his wife have been the laughing stock for years and years. This is no surprise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:29 PM |
| 24 | for the love of god stop explaining yourselfhave you read the gift of fear ? your reply reminded me of when the author spoke about male stalkers; the only way to get rid of them is to ignore them and any sort of acknowledgement whether positive or negative only encourages them. apply this to all lvm! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:20 PM |
| 26 | for the love of god stop explaining yourselfthank you : ) Wow so he's always the perpetual victim in whatever story he tells! thank you for this addition | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:18 PM |
| 937 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymorebig surprise she has an OF and spends her time arguing with "swerfs" and "racist radfems". just another braindead twitter account not worth mentioning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)thanks! i appreciate your pov as well; this thread was very educational. its incredible, but also sad, that so many women itt pointed out how this is a woc thing and op is one based off of her mentioning "vocal fry". it tells us this passive aggression towards woc is way too common..gives me something to look out for so we can better support other women! christ that's insanity?! pure insanity. some people cannot keep their ugliness to themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:42 PM |
| 22 | What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally?It's nice to see someone with a similar point of view on drugs. in my eyes drug use down to marijuana is low value because I was raised in a drug addicted household. no way am I allowing that around myself, or my possible future kids. if you're not straight edge, you're not for me and i don't even understand the use of it anyways. like, nothing else in this world hits as good? traveling? anything? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:39 PM |
| 107 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?Was waiting for this comment, thank you. And people saying he laughed, even if it wasn't a reaction of bring uncomfortable..He saw that his wife was unhappy and immediately changed his tone on the joke because she didn't like it. That's a red flag now? Listening to your wife's body language? They've been a fucking laughing stock for years ever since their open relationship came to life, they're probably tired of it. This entire thread is mostly an overreach. Him getting physical is up to the per… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)true, some people are just bitter as hell. to expand on what you mentioned with men pitting us against eachother; giving my perspective as a white lady i definitely feel like it's because low value men see non-white women as "exotic" or "fiesty" and treat white women as "there's the bland white lady i marry for convenience, with no hips or curves like non white women". and instead of calling out the fetishization of woc, they internalize that message and see woc as their competition and seek to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:18 AM |
| 73 | Don’t let men (or women) shame you for leveraging your looks.If you choose to have it, use it. If other women choose not to play the performative femininity game, uplift them as well. non conforming women shouldn't be punished | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 11:07 AM |
| 111 | I couldn’t find the original source of this text unfortunately, however I felt like this has to be shared. I was groomed into ddlg as a minor & am still unlearning the collective gaslighting from the kink community. Daddy dom/little girl or caregiver/little is not harmless. It glorifies pedophelia.I don't pay attention to usernames but I've been really enjoying the recent threads posted. even if it's a picture like this, it sparks interesting discussion. and you are a part of that, so thank you! i don't understand how people cannot connect the dots to how creepy and harmful ddlg is. and big surprise, there's a lot of abusive men in that group too. constant "daddies need to listen to their little's safe word!" girl he's getting off to you acting like a hypersexual 4 year old. I used to som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 10:53 AM |
| 48 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)That is so weird and interesting to me that younger white women would be so callous to women of color given that so many of them preach blm and such. but then again I'm not surprised; I have met a few racist white women. sometimes I forget women can be just as shitty as men lol. I'm so used to the asshole in question being male absolutely psychotic that some of those women literally push you in markets ? christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 09:32 AM |
| 98 | Exactly why do women hate on each other? (Especially for seemingly no reason?)honestly I do not think too deeply about it because men and women can just be judgemental assholes sometimes, or maybe she is just having a bad day or whatever. whatever is going on in her mind is not your problem and I'd just focus on what you came there for and still continue to be civil and nice. I go through this a lot because I have selective mutism so people assume I'm a stuck up bitch when in reality I physically cannot bring myself to talk in regular social situations. I don't consider m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 09:27 AM |
| 19 | Not suprised.Glad to show you the light of Valerie. I understand where you're coming from and agree. Personally I wear my heart on my sleeve so the contempt shines through. Hard to push away rage, it's been my sole source of motivation lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 05:30 PM |
| 81 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.they need it because if all women walk around like offensive porn stereotypes or caricatures then it's much easier for them to pass (to other people). this new bimbo fad reeks of performative politics. why put effort into educating yourself and other women about our oppression when you can just dress "pretty" and delude yourself and others into thinking you're doing it for a cause? why girls and women keep picking up these bullshit self objectifying fads instead of putting an effort to enforce r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 53 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.Nah he did this on purpose. She looks "defeated" so that tells me he has a habit of kicking her down. I hope she leaves him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 05:54 PM |
| 29 | Ted Bundy and the power of pornThis is why I told my bf we're going to be seeing a lot more sexual violence(and violence in general) in the future. Men are groomed into sociopathy and dehumanization of women. I wonder how this all is going to play out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 02:35 PM |
| 53 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 55 - Can Men And Women Be Friends?Looking forward to listening to this one when I get the chance. I'm a firm believer of the idea that men and women cannot be friends. Mostly because of men who will put up a facade for literally years just to get the chance to do something with you. Men are opportunists. There's the occasional pickme that targets taken men to feed her self esteem as well. Anyways I will never have a male friend again. It's women or nothing. I've had 14 year friendships down the drain because theyre actually male… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 55 | Horrifying levels that scrotes stoop to...that's a heartbreaking story, but i am upset at how much OP is beating herself up for not listening to mark. saying she let herself get gaslit? so what are we supposed to do? listen to our boyfriends or not? damned if we do and damned if we don't. atleast mark wasn't a scrote about it and I hope they did press charges. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 12:39 PM |
| 41 | Trigger warning for violence against young girl. Little girls can’t even walk home, nor exist : without being sexualized and preyed upon by evil males. I don’t think people like this deserve a psych evaluation because his crime is inexcusable. Praying for baby girl’s recovery. Poems by Sumaya 🖤from an outside perspective it's hard not to notice the special hatred that black women get. it seems like you can't do shit without being called unfeminine, ghetto, loud, unloyal, etc especially from other black men. a black man dies, it's the front page. a black woman dies, her family is barely keeping up trying to get her noticed and the case goes cold anyways. you have the double whammy of being black and a woman. crazy what people say around you when they think you're a "safe race": white m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 12:33 PM |
| 138 | I'm really interested in how society in your country/culture 'discourages interactions in social spaces'!we have that southern hospitality so..definitely not discouraged at all and you're the weirdo for being a little introverted, especially as a woman who wants her own space. you are so true this is 100% male fantasy and the scrote thinks real life is a movie lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 12:20 PM |
| 60 | How to get rid of this school girl crushSuch a good point!! "Oh I know this great Pho restaurant, can I take you sometime? When are you free?" but he DIDN'T | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 12:06 PM |
| 32 | Twelve Everyday Sexist and Misogynistic Things That Men Need to Stop Doing Right NowThey should rename this list to "Twelve Everyday Sexist and Misogynistic Things Men Won't Stop Doing Because They Don't Give A Shit About Us" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 12:04 PM |
| 31 | Don't describe yourself as kind or empathetic to men.Yeah these questions seem almost a bit adolescent haha. Like the scrotes that ask to play 20 questions. I feel the conversation should flow naturally where you can't stop hitting different topics to discuss instead of "uhh...so .. describe yourself in 3 words..." from some boring scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 12:01 PM |
| 65 | Beware “The Harem” EffectSometimes I think I know it all then you ladies throw a new red flag to look out for and I'm like, damn! Love it. Ugh I'm going through this at work. Mostly women, some men. The new boss is a tall white guy who is conventionally attractive. I'm not under his spell so; I can't say anything about him because like you said, they're his pickmes. He's "cute" so they defend him. He brought in a lot of new changes that people don't like, and I mentioned this to one of the female lower managers..God..… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 11:58 AM |
| 26 | Men really believe masturbating into a woman is sex, otherwise how can masturbating be more fulfilling than sex with a condom? YikesWooow, you are a person with vagina too?! We do have a lot in common! Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 11:47 AM |
| 35 | I needed to share this with people who would understand how fucking insane this reel is. Half the comments were men going "Well does she open the door for HIM too??!?!" The bar has been vaporized to dust and we've got front row seats to the circus.That would be a dream. You are def right, nowhere else do you get this special breed of stupidity and misogyny besides incel forums. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 49 | I needed to share this with people who would understand how fucking insane this reel is. Half the comments were men going "Well does she open the door for HIM too??!?!" The bar has been vaporized to dust and we've got front row seats to the circus.woman thinks date with man off of tinder is gonna be the usual shitty date until he opens a door for her and she's very impressed over the bare minimum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 11:31 PM |
| 120 | Men really believe masturbating into a woman is sex, otherwise how can masturbating be more fulfilling than sex with a condom? Yikes"people with vaginas" almost like there's a word for that...what was it again? weehmin..? wermen? wombyn? shucks, I forgot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 11:30 PM |
| 28 | Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people".You are right, that is definitely a valuable message. Yeah that or FDS comes off as harsh to them unfortunately. Haha I feel that word has lost all meaning at this point, or it never had meaning in the first place. Just an empty insult at this point : P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 08:06 PM |
| 108 | I needed to share this with people who would understand how fucking insane this reel is. Half the comments were men going "Well does she open the door for HIM too??!?!" The bar has been vaporized to dust and we've got front row seats to the circus.What do you mean?? Do you know how much effort he put into opening that door for her???? He could've strained a muscle!!!! Clearly she should be swooned by his effort because other men wouldn't open a door for her! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 07:55 PM |
| 108 | Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people".Women should stop arguing with men, or trying to justify themselves to them. It's not that they don't know, they don't care to. Stop arguing with males, stop giving them the time of day. I stopped arguing with men a year ago, and they get so pissed off because they want to waste your time and watch you jump through hoops to justify your trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 06:57 PM |
| 116 | Made a mistake and fell backwards. Devastated and need help with feeling grounded back into the real world. “If he wanted to, he would.” has never hurt so bad.Well let yourself cry it out and let yourself be angry. We have all been there, so there's no need to feel shame although it's hard not to. If I could go back in time and save myself from being groomed by all those older men, I would've. But all we can do is appreciate the knowledge we have now, and try to help other women and girls like us. Sometimes I still feel anger and want revenge, but at the end of the day what's happened has happened and we can't change the past no matter how badly we wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 06:56 PM |
| 16 | Why I DON’T EXPLAIN. On boundaries, disappointment, and self-shielding: You don’t have to explain to an emotionally abusive man why he isn’t allowed to hurt you anymore.God we can't get this through some women's heads enough. Amazing and needed post, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 01:09 PM |
| 150 | Can you be a HVW and date (reasonably) older men?I feel like that's just the process of weeding out LVM. There are a LOT of LVM in this world, like..A LOT. It's pretty normal that you feel like you should seek out older men because you have your shit together and the men you keep meeting at your age don't. I used to think that as well and then I just realized we have a scrote epidemic so that's why. Personally I will never feel comfortable dating a man 2+ years older than me, but that's your call. If you choose to widen your age range please k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 01:05 PM |
| 3 | No comment.Yes that is one of the hottest debates you will get when it comes to Ovarit. You aren't sure if you're arguing with a woman or wasting your time with a male. Keeping it female only is definitely possible, I just wish they were honest and said "we don't have the manpower or the time to invest in this at the moment." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Mom gives “Husbands in Training” course to her sonsI didn't hear any mentions of explicit acts in the quiz itself, I assumed it was something like "porn causes x amount of damage in y" sort of quiz. It doesn't make sense for her to include acts if she found porn to be so damaging? I could be wrong. His repeated disdain for it made me suspicious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 01:00 PM |
| 8 | 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩Wife has a baby AND health issues and her "wholesome man" can't stay committed. What was the percentage of men again who cheated/divorced their wives after she got sick? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 10:51 PM |
| 201 | Mom gives “Husbands in Training” course to her sonsCrazy how an industry ripe with r*pe and trafficking is the one thing he defends. I feel bad for his mom, she doesn't know that after all that effort he still has traces of scrotery. And her husband needed the damn training too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 267 | I’m begging...please! End the cultural idea that husbands are an extra little kid women have to drag along and care for - if he’s not making your life easier/better, drop him off at this “day care” and never pick him up again.Hold up- Who's paying for his drinks? Hell nah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?LMAO I need to rewatch king of the hill omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 35 | Porn sickness is a slippery slope, this woman needs to take her daughter and LEAVEShowed my bf and he said call the cops. I agree with him, guy probably has some shit on his computer! This is the most fucked up post I've seen. She needs to get out for her daughter's safety..Was the thread deleted? I can't find it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?According to google it's potency lasts for a long time, it's just the pressure that reduces over time so it's a good idea to replace it every 12-18 months. Very great question, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?Yay! Glad you and your friends found a new safety tactic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?I totally forgot about that post! I love threads like that, I feel like I learn something new every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:34 PM |
| 10 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?A needle??! That's psychotic and terrifying. They refuse to let us protect ourselves. They are like a parasite that will go through any length to meet their host. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:33 PM |
| 22 | No comment.Yeah I know some women were there for genuine reasons, but I got the ick after they banned some more well known feminists for no good reason. It seems you can't put all your cards in one "feminist" site. You just have to take a little bit from all of them. What were your reasons if you don't mind sharing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:39 PM |
| 51 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?Thank you for all this valuable info! Very true on your last part, oh my god. Even the skinniest, shittiest diet scrote overpowered me before and it was terrifying. Thankfully nothing happened, but it goes to show that you shouldn't underestimate a man. Even if his diet is beer and fast food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 10:13 PM |
| 102 | No comment.I believe the most foul thing I read on that site is a comment from a woman settling for a misogynistic husband because it's the "best" she'll get and "all men are like this and I wanted kids." Like, sperm donors? Be a single mom? That site is littered with self defeatist pickmes. Yes I agree, FDS was a validating breath of fresh air. There's no "whataboutism" it's purely ours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 07:06 PM |
| 52 | No comment.Definitely! A lot of disappointment stems from us assuming that Ovarit is a purely feminist website when it's GC first. And that crowd attracts a LOT of grifters who also want a safe space to complain about a certain movement. Being a feminist and being GC are two different things and I no longer look for deep feminist analysis on Ovarit. I like your last point a lot and I found that to be true when going into those spaces like..Yeah we're oppressed..Ok what are we gonna do besides seethe in a r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 07:02 PM |
| 24 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?🤣 I wanna become a walking weapon too soooo bad but classes here can get expensive. Thank you for your suggestions! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:59 PM |
| 95 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?This is all awesome, thank you! I wanted to comment on your 2nd to last point with the guy who has fixated on you. An LVM I know says he targets the women he finds most attractive in his classes and asks to be study buddies so he can ask them out later. Keep your study buddies female if you can. Men are opportunists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:58 PM |
| 500 | No comment.I remember when I tried out Ovarit for a short time and a woman posted basically what you posted; a chart of data showing that a majority of men have pedophiliac tendencies. The comments were filled with pickmes demanding a source. Another poster linked everyone to the study which found it to be legitimate and the thread devolved into disgusted women and women grasping at straws. Shortly after the thread mysteriously disappeared. I DM'd the woman who posted it and asked what happened and she sai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 04:40 PM |
| 84 | Horrifying TikTok trend where boys and men joke about going on a date with a girl or woman and describe how they would murder her.I feel you. I'm actually going to talk to my bf about us having kids in the future again because I'm now learning towards not wanting them at all at this point. Before then I couldn't wait to be a mother. Get a daughter, she's most likely going through the same trauma as you or worse. Get a son and there's a high chance he could be polluted by all the scrotes in the world. Best thing to do is not play the game at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 04:36 PM |
| 234 | Horrifying TikTok trend where boys and men joke about going on a date with a girl or woman and describe how they would murder her.You know, I thought I had it bad as an early 20s woman. But these teen girls are in for a hell of a ride. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 12:43 PM |
| 89 | New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorism threatThat argument is so fucked up and even more when OTHER WOMEN argue for it. Like other women, or women they deem insignificant should be fucking sacrificial lambs for angry, abusive, entitled men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 07:57 PM |
| 112 | New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorism threatLove this comment and I agree with you. Love how you specified it as "pro female gun ownership and training" instead of just "pro gun ownership". We need to take the initiative to pick up tactics and habits so that we atleast can empower ourselves with a fighting chance. Some women who cannot own a gun due to their country's laws or are just uncomfortable with it should still take self defense classes and carry a weapon they are comfortable with. Get creative..If pepper spray isn't allowed, carr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 07:56 PM |
| 17 | The Awakening is Hard.It really hit hard, how much society hates women. It was even worse when I tried to share my newfound knowledge with women and get this; LVM agreed. Men themselves said yeah, no man that likes you will take you on a fucking walk date and so on. It's the women that argued with me. I already knew it subconsciously how riddled in misogyny our society is, but the "sisters" complicit in their own abuse stung much more. There is pretty much no female solidarity, and we would be a lot farther if we had… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 07:49 PM |
| 146 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭Pickmes play mommy and think it earns them any kind of respect. I was like that once, cooking for male friends. Big surprise- they still see you as an object to try and fuck. The way some of these women are acting is just pathetic and demoralizing. And yes, I say that about my past self too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 05:24 PM |
| 36 | I’m the girl who exposed him to his long term girlfriend. I believe he has more victims.You don't want your control back, you want revenge. You are, understandably pissed that he played you like a clown. You getting your sense of control back is putting your food down and blocking him ONCE AND FOR ALL. Your sense of control returning is NO LONGER ENTERTAINING THIS MAN, focusing on yourself and THERAPY. And you are not doing that. You want revenge, you want to destroy every current and future relationship he has. That is understandable because he's an abusive man. And you alread… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 08:58 PM |
| 37 | When men in professional settings treat you like sh*t when you don't wear makeup. I'm sorry, was this supposed to be a date?!Same here, never saw a need and hated the texture so I never wear it. I have my dark circles out in full force, fear me! Lmao Whew interviews are a serious pain in the ass. I was also ignored for the woman who chose to engage in performative femininity. No hate to her, she is a victim of our society. Male interviewers would straight up ignore me and flirt with the other woman. "Oh what's your ancestry you look so unique, very pretty. Where did you get that bracelet? Haha.." Your store director… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 02:52 PM |
| 7 | in response to "female decision calculator" here's a scrote delusion calculator and a response siteThank you!!!!!! I didn't know how to put it into words; Like I knew it was misogynistic and gave me the ick, it was degrading to women. It tells us he doesn't bother having respectful conversations with women unless he can get something out of them. But that wasn't good enough of an explanation for me, it's much more hateful like you put. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 02:38 PM |
| 10 | in response to "female decision calculator" here's a scrote delusion calculator and a response siteAnd you are spot on. I was never attracted to him in the first place so yay me! But he would go on and tell me shit like how he wants his first child to be a son, name it after himself, and have the son take care of his younger siblings like he had to. I pointed out to him that 1. You don't even take care of your siblings, you just sit on your ass and get drunk on stream and 2. That is highly narcissistic and abusive to your first son. His response "Nvm you don't understand" I don't want to LMFA… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 02:36 PM |
| 110 | in response to "female decision calculator" here's a scrote delusion calculator and a response siteSeriously! I had one guy tell me "You're perfect, you're like one of the bros. I can talk to you about anything." Grossed me out so much. Go fuck your bros instead, for the love of god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 10:01 PM |
| 15 | FwB is worse than being fuckzoned. It's being fuckzoned plus friendzoned.This FWB situation you describe sounds exactly like modern dating! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 09:54 PM |
| 47 | Sisters, I beg you... please STOP posting screenshots from other subs, which offer no advice and only highlight disgusting bullshit that men do. WE KNOW these clowns exist. WE DON'T need to see it here all day every day. I feel like leaving this sub because of it. 😫Yeah I think there's a HUGE difference between showing us that men are aware of what they're doing and showing us some random old pervert. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 07:11 PM |
| 273 | Just a reminder that old age doesn’t guarantee male decency. He could be her grandfather!I could have gone my entire life without reading that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 03:49 PM |
| 15 | Is it just me or do all your pickme libfem friends also just CHOOSE to have no ambition and low paying jobs?Really weird that my comment was auto-deleted. There was literally nothing in there that suggested violence against women or any incel buzzwords? Anyways. Honestly, yes? But I also tread this topic carefully to avoid coming off as cla**ist (Maybe that was the word?) because some of the women I know genuinely cannot help their situations and would do better given the opportunities, so I won't include them in this. Sometimes I wonder if, because they are stuck, that they feel they can't do bette… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 03:44 PM |
| 66 | Men who hide their political views from youLol the funny part is they say that as if it's an insult. Same energy as scroties who go "y-y-you misandrist!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 01:51 PM |
| 31 | Men who hide their political views from youIt's a really good way to weed out the nutty conspiracy theorists. If they don't give you a straight answer (ex; "oh well you know, it's really complicated..") or, for example this one scrote that just told me how Actually Ukrainians are eager to have Putin take over Ukraine and a few Ukrainians opposing it are not the majority. I'll keep that in mind as I look at the civilians who were literally burned to death from Putin's missile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 01:48 PM |
| 126 | Men who hide their political views from youThere's also men who genuinely do not identify with either political side, do not watch the news or pay attention to anything, and cannot give you a good answer on "whats your politics?" and you have no idea where they stand until you ask VERY specific questions like "What's your opinion on abortion? Are you for or against it?" "How do you feel about feminism?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 01:45 PM |
| 64 | Why does it take posing as a female for some males to believe us about the misogyny we deal with? I do like the bottom two comments… (Repost with trigger warning for the horrifying top comment, I’m sorry for forgetting)Lol the day they start calling out their bros, fathers, uncles, etc is the day I believe anything that comes out of their shit-encrusted mouths. They aren't calling out their best buddy for saying a rape joke, they dismiss the rapist at their workplace going "oh it was probably a mistake, you know rape accusations happen all the time (rape accusations account for less than 4% of rape cases and out of around 165 rape cases; only 2 - 4 will be prosecuted)". They KNOW how bad it is and they turn th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 01:41 PM |
| 61 | 🚨PSA: More than 70% of communication is non verbal. Communicating with your partner isn't going to change anything. Your non-verbals are clear already!People preach as if verbal communication is the only form because how can we call women over-dramatic if they get put off by his body language or any other form of communication? How he communicates with other people, who those people are specifically (his MALE coworker vs FEMALE coworker), his body language, etc..if you legitimize looking at the small details, how can scrotes call us overdramatic??! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 03:46 PM |
| 38 | Coming straight from one of the most deranged serial killers of all time. Here’s another reminder to stay the hell away from men who watch porn.Yes, men consume porn and become more violent. Women use it as a form of self harm in a way. It's a crazy world out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 12:47 PM |
| 52 | My ex tried to follow me after I told him I was moving. Now he’s stuck in the cold mountains and I’m elsewhere 🎉I feel like it's glossed over how scary this entire situation is when it's brought together. I'm pretty sure you're aware of it. But wow, your ex was so angered that you were leaving his circle of control that he uprooted his entire life just to stalk you. Thats terrifying. I am very happy you didn't settle for a subpar school either. congratulations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 12:45 PM |
| 4 | Straight from the horse's mouthI agree with your response to this the most. She's in a relationship and he is forever bitter she won't just dump him/lite ghosts him. It definitely comes off as a "I want her just to say I got her" thing. She's very gorgeous and kind, and he told me every guy wants to bang her so it's def an ego boost attempt as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:34 AM |
| 0 | Shitty Scrote Bus DriverYou know you won't scam people, but does he know? He doesn't know you. You're a stranger to him. I get your anger, it's probably embarrassing too, but I can't see anything to go after. Being a bus driver is a shit job already and I wouldn't be surprised if he's jaded by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:00 AM |
| 245 | Never go backThere weren't even red flags, it was just blatant abuse and the girl's family didn't do anything. Didn't do anything about her dating an older man either. Why? Just said "It's weird". Their sister/daughter was being abused and groomed right in front of their eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:57 AM |
| 41 | My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym todayThey're about 12 - 13. That would make him around 30-31? IMO 22 and 30 are completely different life stages and I still find it disgusting. One is fresh out of college and the other is an established adult usually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Straight from the horse's mouthSame!! Another thread just reminded me of another thing he said so I'll have to update this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Straight from the horse's mouthDrop those screenshots (if you want) cause I am so curious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:20 PM |
| 89 | Please don't approach anybody's grown-ass son...Yes, I've had male acquaintances admit that they find it pathetic. One said if a woman ever proposed to him, he would laugh at her and tell her to get up. Said it was pathetic despite giving her brownie points for being sooo progressive. If he isn't chasing you from the start, he never liked you from the beginning. Women who pride themselves in making the first move are clowns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:16 PM |
| 68 | My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym todayHell nah he still hit on a young adult half his age. He needs to stay in his age range. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:09 PM |
| 124 | Dating has no second chances. Stop giving them!Lmao I don't understand this modern attempt at being the "better person" and befriending your exes, and what a good person you are for still being friends with someone like that! No, bye?? There's no reason to be friends with someone you were emotionally and possibly physically intimate with, and any normal future or current partner would be uncomfortable. Conspiracy theory/Most likely true and not a theory: This whole "be the better person" and "forgive your abusers" bullshit is just trying t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 01:08 PM |
| 53 | Straight from the horse's mouthI love how you can smell the bullshit when they accuse women of being psycho/clingy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 11:31 PM |
| 19 | Straight from the horse's mouthI think it's in the handbook? It's been awhile since I read it and I have poor memory lol. Many queens do facetime before meeting irl to see the chemistry and how he holds up a convo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 11:29 PM |
| 125 | Straight from the horse's mouthIf the shoe fits.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 03:24 PM |
| 211 | Straight from the horse's mouthYa I was really shocked and confused. I'm thinking its just his misogyny? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 03:24 PM |
| 203 | Scrote Takes Out His Girlfriend to McDonalds for Valentine's Day, "Rewards" Her A Year Later for Tolerating ItOh my god he's so hideous??! Some queens in the comments made a few remarks here and there about his experience, but I didn't expect him to be so UGLY??? She is so beautiful, and she's dating this Guy Fieri minion?! I literally gasped and covered my mouth when he flipped the camera. GOD!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:17 AM |
| 57 | Even girl friends can be energy vampiresI'd also add that even if they seem super nice and supportive to you, look towards their actions and what they say specifically. I had a girl friend who, I would vent or try to talk about literally anything, there was pretty much no effort on her behalf to continue the conversation; It's only when she initiated and it was about something relating to her is when she could talk non-stop. There's also dismissive sayings like "Ohhh yeah, that sucks..[changes topic]." And look to when they want to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:37 PM |
| 25 | 21yo woman and her 30yo 🚩 homeless boyfriend 🚩 has moved in to her home 🚩within 2 months 🚩Definitely a good point!! I forgot about that hard headed attitude we all have when we're so young. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:31 PM |
| 28 | 21yo woman and her 30yo 🚩 homeless boyfriend 🚩 has moved in to her home 🚩within 2 months 🚩Very good point. It's easy for me to see how obvious it is he's using her, but like you said, a lot of us had to learn the hard way. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:30 PM |
| 540 | When they show themselves in the second message…. Boy bye.LVM always turn things sexual. Please block and delete the second he does this, ladies! Huge difference between wanting to love and please you, and being a small brained horndog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 06:43 PM |
| 190 | 21yo woman and her 30yo 🚩 homeless boyfriend 🚩 has moved in to her home 🚩within 2 months 🚩At first I wonder how dumb can you get, but I see her mom wasn't a very good role model either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 06:40 PM |
| 70 | This is why I refuse to date single fathers. Being childfree keeps certain drama out of your life.This is facts and definitely not unique to the black community! My white father would spend the entire weekend with me for maybe 10 minutes total (I'm still being generous) as he spent most of his time talking to my mom, getting her drunk, and taking her to the bedroom/take photos of her. If he had me for the weekend, he would dump me on his girlfriend's kids (Yes he cheated on his partners all the time) and do the same get her drunk + take advantage of her routine with the mom. I'm confident my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Low effort men rantThat's all so lame and REALLY inappropriate for the workplace. Personally I would be open to reporting this behaviour because to me a job is no place for this kind of unprofessionalism. I'm here to do my job, do it good, get that check, and go home. This is all up to you though and how comfortable you are doing something like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:58 PM |
| 66 | Men always have made fun of me. They’re miserable!Yesss, LVM love to tell on themselves. I get how you feel, a few scrotes loved to call me autistic in a derogatory way because I didn't fit the societal norm. Didn't play COD or other FPS? I'm "cringe" and "not a real gamer." Put on nailpolish? "Awww someone's a girly girl!" Enjoy drinking coffee with milk and sugar? More negging. It's like any little thing you enjoy, a male has a problem with it. They are obsessed with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:49 PM |
| 72 | 👏 Never 👏 Stop 👏 Vetting 👏Fr. Their need to go into hardcore pornography and eventually act out the urge of experiencing it in real life and not just videos online reminds me of serial killers. A lot of men into the sissy stuff remind me of Buffalo Bill. I feel FDS is still in her baby days, but I am so excited for the moment it goes truly mainstream and the average woman has an idea of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:43 PM |
| 83 | This kinda chaos is what happens when people believe to live in a dream-world where sex means nothing and men don't cheat (emotionally or sexually)Same..Even in my deepest pickme days I would not have the gal to do this to myself and didn't even allow female best friends. She is very porn sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:38 PM |
| 6 | The term Pickme gaining traction? thoughts?That's a good point and I hope it stays that way. I've been seeing women call out other women for being pickmes on my insta feed too and they are met with a lot of aggression and disbelief. I am seeing a LOT of women comment "weaponized incompetence" under those videos of women bragging about their useless husbands, so I am very happy about that. It's slowly gaining traction.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:36 PM |
| 186 | If you can't see any good reason not to date a man with a female best friend, LET THIS BE IT! Selfish pickmeisha got stood up, so she ruined another womans valentines day. To add insult to injury, she & this mans girlfriend are related 🤢Ain't no way..Please tell me the comments are calling this out? I don't have a tiktok so I can't see. Please Lord give the girlfriend everything she wants and more, because this is the most disrespectful thing I have ever seen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | What Do You Ladies Think Of The Following Films? | My boyfriend dislikes all of them, but I do find it a bit of a cOiNcIdEnCe that all of them ~happen to have~ female leadsHonestly have never seen any of those films; but what specifically bothers him about those movies? Are his complaints sound? Like is he whining about the plot, the relationships and interactions between characters? Or is it unreasonable complaints like "forced diversity"? How does he feel about the movies with female leads that you listed like Fargo and Studio Ghibli movies? My boyfriend either didn't like or care for any of those movies, but he liked other female lead movies and cartoons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 47 | Love is blind JapanThat's horrifying and insane. My heart goes out to all the women in Korea. Is the marriage/birth rate falling there as well? Are more women opting out of dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 09:19 PM |
| 98 | “She doesn’t bother to pretend she’s not being raped and that makes my pp sad”Lmao, in all honesty all the scrotes jerking off about their post-apocalyptic fantasy will probably be excited to commit a lot of horrors towards women if it ever gets to that point. They'll act all helpless while you do everything, then take advantage of you when all is said and done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 09:18 PM |
| 65 | This is how "decent" men contribute to the bar being so LOWYes, they all benefit and they're also huge pussies. Men are terrified of conflict with other men because they know they'll get their asses beat. They have no moral compass and want to protect themselves, he couldn't care less about his own family's safety- Only his and his comfort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 09:15 PM |
| 129 | Love is blind JapanOmg I've heard Korea is INSANELY misogynistic and women will lose their careers over being outed as feminists. Didn't one woman take her own life after being outed as one? All I know is that Korean feminists are badass as hell and I hope things get better for y'all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:55 PM |
| 86 | Love is blind JapanThis thread is so interesting. I'd love to read an essay on the dating scene from a Japanese woman and the insane amount of incels in their society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Something icky to laugh about tonight. We were talking about planting grass for our cats and ofc he had to make it gross and awkward. My intuition was telling me from the start he was weird, but societal gaslighting told me to give him a chance merely bc he was giving me attention 🤷♀️. Blocked.I have no idea why men act like they're funnier than women when their jokes are just coom-brained humour. Talk about male moment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:51 PM |
| 13 | The term Pickme gaining traction? thoughts?I like it, but I am also concerned it's not for good reasons. I would like it to be popular just to push more women and girls into the concept of self-respect and standards, but it seems it's just a general misogynistic shaming-women-for-anything-they-can-is-fun! thing. Like how 'Karen' started out as shaming insane, entitled customers or racists and it just turned into a "silence any woman who speaks out about literally anything" type of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:50 PM |
| 260 | “She doesn’t bother to pretend she’s not being raped and that makes my pp sad”Tbh I'm just waiting for the inevitable collapse of civilization. Massive inflation, housing bubble, birth rate falling, climate change, general degeneracy in society now. Something's gotta give eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:48 PM |
| 106 | on personal space in general and in datingYep, a lot of men have no concept of personal space and simply go wherever they want because they are entitled and feel the world is theirs. Everyone else is just collateral damage. I don't move out of the way anymore. If someone is way too close I'd say you can just elbow them. I'd have guys take up way too much space when I'm on the edge of a bench or whatever and I just elbow them or tell them to move over aggressively. Although I don't know if that's easy for everyone, I'm just a naturally a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:46 PM |
| 31 | Male depravity makes it to the front page.I feel very validated in my attitude to be assholes to men whether or not they have a girlfriend now. We save our energy for our fellow women and that's it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:42 PM |
| 156 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯Scrote grooms 18 year old at 26 and then cries because his walking fleshlight found someone else? I feel bad for the young woman, I hope she realizes what a predator he is. I'm very happy she found someone, hopefully around her age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:40 PM |
| 103 | Never Forget: Men will stop at nothing to chase their DreamGirl. If you know or suspect you're not her, then disengage immediately.Yep, I've met guys who admit they do what your semi-crush is doing because they like to manipulate or "confuse" (in their words) the woman so she wonders if he likes her or not. It's literally just a game to them. No matter how much reddit scroties cry about CoMmUnIcAtIoN, if he isn't giving you the world in the beginning, he never will and you are just a placeholder for his dick. edit: Random but I've been in a similar situation. I didn't actually like him, but he would do the hot/cold thing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:37 PM |
| 20 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!Someone is showing his son this stuff then. The son actually went out of his way to find it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:22 PM |
| 22 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!Lmao. My partner and I agreed when we have kids, they're not doing anything online until they're much older and we can have serious talks about them. I plan on getting a couple anti-porn books, books about body image and stuff for them as well. FDSers who actually have kids, do you have any advice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:20 PM |
| 11 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.Goes to show that you can have all the socially attractive traits, your personality also matters. No one wants an insufferable scrote! (Also he is probably not as attractive as he thinks.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | "Are you a feminist?" How do you answer this?I know right? I've seen plenty basic "you go girl!" or something else, literally less than a sentence. Although sweet, is still low quality content. I'm going to keep reposting my comment lmfao. My comment was removed for "low quality content" (I don't see how it is) so I'm reposting it. Such a good response, thanks for this! What do you say when they press you for more details? I'm hesitant to say "I'm a radical feminist"because they suffer a lot of r.ape and violence threats from men and men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 07:46 PM |
| 4 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitJesus christ, how can you have such little self respect? I can't even feel bad for her at this point. What an absolute fucking loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:40 PM |
| 5 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.I skimmed past that lol. I have a short attention span when it comes to male drivel. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:26 PM |
| 22 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.I hope he's an ex-friend now..Lmfao out of "support".....Okay sir | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:25 PM |
| 116 | On what men do with nudes of their exes, majority responds “they are mine to do what I want with.” This is the entitlement they feel towards our bodies. LADIES DO NOT SEND NUDES EVER do not even watermark as those can be removed with photoshopAnother reason to NOT send nudes is that OTHER MEN WILL STEAL THEM. EVEN if you are in a current relationship and nothing bad is happening, your partner has your nudes on his phone or computer. I have heard MANY stories of their guy friends helping them with a computer issue only to say "Ohhh curiousity got the best of me" or flat out admit they thought their buddy's girl was hot so they snooped through his files and copied YOUR nudes onto their flashdrive. Maybe your partner passed out dr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:21 PM |
| 546 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'."I don't have anything against onlyfans, but I do have something against onlyfans...Anyways" Man wanted to keep his boys club a boys club, and did whatever he could to make it that way. I don't believe him about her being a worse coder. My gut is telling me she either rejected him, or hurt his ego in some other way by possibly getting a better grade or more recognition from a professor and he threw a tantrum over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:05 PM |
| 166 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesFR! The amount of skinny gamer men with a pudgy stomach I've seen is so gross. Do SOMETHING beneficial for yourself atleast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:02 PM |
| 65 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.I hope she's okay. I would wipe my ass with a cop's words, that's how useless they are. As another commenter said, a good amount are wife beaters themselves. Also many FDSers here have commented about being stalked by policemen they rejected/no longer wanted to date to a point where they had to move out of their town. ACAB | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:00 PM |
| 9 | Found an amazing new podcast! The Wandering Womb PodcastFinally a good radfem podcast that is also on spotify! I have been looking for some, but it's so difficult. The videos I find on youtube often don't have good mic quality or are honestly a bit boring. Thank you OP for the recc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:12 PM |
| 471 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.He got what he wanted and now he's throwing anything out there to make her "inconvenient emotions" stop. So sickening..Is there an update? Did she leave him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:08 PM |
| 17 | Classic RedditGod the degeneracy starts this young? I forgot about all the stories I read on 4chan when I was some dumb 14 year old. A TON of men talking about when they were young boys they would sexually assault some family member/friend/friend's family/any woman in their sleep. A lot of young boys stealing their mom's or sister's panties to sniff and jack off into. For those of you going "4CHAN DOESN'T REPRESENT ALL MEN!!!!!!! ITS A BUNCH OF NECKBEARDS!111" Yah fucking right. It's a super popular site that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:57 PM |
| 30 | HVM will have no issue with taking accountability for their actionsBe careful of men who DO "let you win" just to shut you up. You can tell the difference because HVM will show through their actions (for a long, consistent time) that they did take you seriously vs. the LVM who will go "Yeah..You're right..Maybe I am xyz..." then do the same thing again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:51 PM |
| 74 | Some of these aren't even dates 🤦THIS. Whoever made this list watched too many manic pixie dream girl movies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:45 PM |
| 81 | The unique relationship dynamics of baby boomers and how they shaped today's twentysomething LVMThis explains why every divorced father in his 40s+ lives in the most bizarre, foul circumstances. I had never seen my father who was maybe about 45+ at the time ever clean or cook. Going over since he had weekends sucked. His house was filled with roaches, and cigarettes were littered around the toilet. Dinner was frozen taquitos or Mcdonalds. Complete with a mummified opossum in the vents. He eventually sold the house and replaced it with an already furnished condo. His 30 year old son is the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:41 PM |
| 85 | I have the absolute lowest value male dad, and I want to vent for a bitI'm sorry and I know how you feel. If it's possible to get a job and save up, then become roommates with friends then please do so. Or if your university has student living then utilize that. Anything that gets you out of the house will be the best improvement to your mental health. If you can of course, I don't know everything about your circumstances. For your safety have a knife (or any sharp object) any mace or something that can be used to disable him at any time and hide it on yourself o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:36 PM |
| 395 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Lmao they always do that, be purposely obtuse to mask the details. "Men make up of most suicides" Actually women attempt way more and choose methods that don't inconvenience another person like the mess of a gunshot. And they never tell you WHY men do it. I wish I could find the post where a woman a part of a facebook page for grieving widows said that the majority of the reasons why their husbands killed themselves was because they were about to go to jail, or were caught doing something with c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:34 PM |
| 840 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Yess as someone who spent a lot of time in male dominated areas of the internet this is VERY common. Even if these men "heal" from break ups, I've had men admit they would leave their 10+ year marriage for that woman. I wish every woman understood that: Men will marry you and not love you. Men will seek a host just for a hole, they are parasites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:16 PM |
| 5 | I caught my father watching porn. How should I address this?Holy grooming tactics batman! If it makes you feel better, you saved a LOT of money going to community first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:10 PM |
| 58 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄Oh jeez don't remind me of the My-Relationship-Is-So-Gay women who are nonbinary mtf demisexual ace and they just date some boring white guy who's there for the coochie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:05 PM |
| 7 | My friend says "I don't like men that are kind to me, they're boring, I like my men a little bit toxic" how to respond to her? She keeps ending up with trashy men, and when they use and discard her I'm the first person she comes running to and I'm sick of it😩Like others said it's best to move on from her. If you want to be kind you can tell her the friendship is over, she needs therapy, etc. Not your responsibility though. People like that, despite their history, need to be the ones to realize they need help first. No matter how obvious it is or how much you yell it in their faces, they won't listen to anyone but themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 01:58 PM |
| 36 | I wonder why he wants to date someone 10 years younger than him…Congrats! Her boyfriend is a pedophile! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 01:51 PM |
| 15 | Found on another sub. I was grossed out by how many people thought this was so cute and #couplegoals material 🤢Eeeeww. I make my bf's lunches, but he works more and obviously pays more of our bills/and whenever we go out to eat. If it's not enough to fill him he just buys something along with it, never complains. He knows it's a privilege to have someone prepare him a meal every time he works. This is so embarrassing. She thinks its cute that she basically revealed that her husband is a toddler. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?Lol what do they do when they don't even have a good personality then? The only thing powering them is their audacity at that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?I guess that's another part that hurts? It's hard to explain, but I don't want to be seen as a sexual object by these grotesque men. Knowing that they'd fuck anything and anyone and I fall into that criteria is very insulting. Like they are so beneath me that they should not even have a crumb of audacity. Seriously the most repulsive one out of these guys was an alcoholic scrote who didn't drive, didn't have his own place, didn't cook, didn't clean, didn't have any hobbies. No interest in arts o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?This is true!! You see this pushed in TV shows all the time as well. I always hated King of Queens and shows like that, because the husbands were always out of shape and hideous while the wives were stunning. I feel it's a combination of that and their unchecked ego that gives them the audacity. Awesome response, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 06:32 PM |
| 12 | Men will literally p1ss anywhere in public and are less demonised than women breastfeeding in public.YES. When guys do it it's "guy talk", when women do it they're annoying harpies gossiping and creating issues. We have one department at my job where it's all males, 1 woman. I am constantly hearing drama the other guys make because 1 is an overt narcissist, and the rest don't know how to communicate AT ALL. It's never a calm sit down and discussion on why xyz upset them, or if they're doing okay and how can they improve it's always passive aggressive ignoring, leaving work early which fucks ove… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?Lol it's funny because they want us to be single, miserable ugly hags so bad, but nah..I'm just here chilling with my babe..Working and going to school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 16 | This makes me so angry - a male primary care doctor(!) refuses to prescribe contraception because apparently basic women's health is "just not something I want to practice"I'm so tired of religious fanatics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 03:02 PM |
| 56 | Strippers are finally coming out with the truth. Faithful and respectable men DO NOT go to strip clubs. you’re not a ‘cool girl’ who lets her man go hang out with strippers. You’re just a fool who is getting playedWhat makes me sad is the women who actually live through it are ignored. The actual strippers and the prostitutes and trafficked women who try to educate the rest of women on how dangerous and horrible these jobs are, on the depravity of men, are just ignored for the sex positive sex work is work bullshit. It's the same logic that antivaxxers have; Why ignore the nurses,doctors, or scientists with ACTUAL EXPERIENCE and WENT TO SCHOOL FOR THIS when you can get all your info from some random dipsh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:59 PM |
| 36 | Beware of men who repeatedly turn conversations sexualYes and in my experience those type of men are more likely to sexually assault you. They are absolutely rotted in the brain so they have no concept of boundaries and will use any opportunity to touch you whether it's a "harmless hug" or other. Don't let these crusty creeps anywhere near you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:56 PM |
| 322 | I think he told on himselfMen LOVE the idea of dominating a woman. That's why they have those fantasies of breaking a feminist. When I browsed male extremist forums they had this weird fantasy idea that "feminists" are actually "in love with being dominated. they love being choked and spit on by an alpha male." these morons didn't realize they're not speaking about actual purely for women's rights and taking down the patriarchy women, they were encountering sex posi liberal "feminists". Anyways! They see it as a badge … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:53 PM |
| 8 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?Haha I never thought about this because it's just normal to me. This city has a lot of druggies, wifebeaters, etc and other crime that comes with a city x100 thanks to loose gun laws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 11 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?That's true, also the worst part is I'm not even seeking a partner. I already have one. These men approach me at my job, used to be coworkers or at school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 77 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?Lmfaoo that's a perfect nickname for them. That is another good reason why it's so important for us to work through our trauma so we don't fall victim to these losers- these vampires just need 1 drop of trauma to show and they're already calculating 100 ways to manipulate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:27 PM |
| 115 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?That's true, they do fuck mcchickens and go out of their way to make DIY fleshlights. Lord have mercy on the women that haven't found FDS yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:26 PM |
| 39 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?Oh definitely dude. They loved how I knew how to cook and be a Responsible Adult basically. I even had one call me a milf(?????) Definitely some hardcore Peter Pan Syndrome going on with these men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:25 PM |
| 42 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?Thank you 💖 💖 Lord I'm trying, it seems every generation of men gets worse. Like all those men I described are in their 20s. I've heard teenagers now are absolutely insane and even more incel-y. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:19 PM |
| 151 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?Even when I think I'm making mental progress, I can still take a step back. So glad I made this thread to have y'all queens put me in check. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:12 PM |
| 191 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?Thanks sis, I needed to hear this. I wonder when I'll stop being shocked by their audacity. I know it's there, but it still gets me sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:07 PM |
| 199 | Does the quality of men you attract affect your self esteem?I blame Adam Sandler. He's giving these bottom of the barrel men some hope. Wish they would take the energy they put into being gross, and simply improve themselves. But that's too much to ask now! Honestly if my partner and I break up, I'm going to remain celibate. These experiences have my uterus packing her bindle and running away at the thought of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Men who give unsolicited feedback during dating?Because a normal response would be "same here, I can't wait to see you!" and not criticizing you. Treat yourself to something nice, because your gut just saved you from a manipulative LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:50 PM |
| 51 | reported naked images of women taken via a hidden cam and this is what reddit responds! i'm so enraged! is there anything we can do against such subs to stop them from circulating images that nvms fap to?Yes ma'am, this is how the (most popular, most subscribed sub) "jailbait" got taken down. Reddit is littered with pedophiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:47 PM |
| 51 | It's Time to Let Go of Your Toxic Female FriendshipsYup. I had a dear friend who I really did not want to cut off, but I was sick of her "men are oppwessed too" bs and her creepy chaser boyfriend. He was in his late 20s? Generic chubby, short white guy who lived with his male roommates and would leave her to comfort his "female" friend. She was having an argument with him and literally gave him MY number so I could "help" her. Girl what? I just blocked her and moved on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:44 PM |
| 42 | Why are women hated so much by men?And cats clean their asses while men don't always.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:10 PM |
| 25 | In the Spirit of Valentine's Day..Its not a "fuck off" gift, but the first thing that comes to mind is the guy, who despite knowing I have a boyfriend, gifted me earrings. I don't wear earrings. They were some cheap $20 ones that his mom picked out too..? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 35 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorI notice a lot more men using their totally legit ADHD diagnosis as an excuse to be a lazy slob or pervert. I and many other people have ADHD, yet we still manage to not be total bums or sexually harass women. Who woulda thunk? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:26 PM |
| 5 | You've heard of men with podcasts: meet the ladies with a podcast (today's episode: balding)Don't forget not beating your dick so hard to porn every day you end up with premature balding. Eating a good diet, not doordash and hot cheetos and alcohol..I would never date a bald man lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:16 PM |
| 39 | Men literally have no empathy for women: A case study on prostitution and pornThis is why I feel 0 empathy for men, I don't care for them and wouldn't blink twice if they got hurt. The only man I save that energy for is my bf since he's a legitimately good human being. I'm glad your boyfriend has the balls to call out those scum of society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:09 PM |
| 29 | This is a ‘high value male’ ladiesHell nah someone come get their deranged uncle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:09 AM |
| 341 | On "Roasting"This reminds me of my coworker. He took much glee in roasting women. Not men, always women. He loved hitting up his ex randomly just to instigate fights and poke fun at her suicide attempt which he called "roasting". When his fuckbuddy called things off and said she wanted real love and a happy relationship, he "roasted" her to hell AKA punished her for wanting what he will probably never experience in his miserable life. Said she's unlovable and a degenerate. He was very excited to tell me all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 02:17 AM |
| 5 | A forever girlfriend I metI'm so sorry you went through that, but I hope you find comfort in knowing you're not the only one. Yeah I agree with you, she's better off. She just needs time to realize that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:44 PM |
| 17 | A forever girlfriend I metNah we already have one of those in a different department. This specific guy is 100% all talk no walk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:42 PM |
| 132 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.I think it's projection because most men don't have a personality beyond Netflix, gaming, and going to clubs. Most men I interact with have that lifestyle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:07 PM |
| 80 | Being single protects men from drama and politics, ladies. Leave them alone.Idk why men preach about the toilet seat being up as a godsend. Like, it's a toilet? Lol. I find single men like that have no personality. They spend 2k on a gaming computer and think Apex, a shit diet, and whatever recent cape hero shit movie they see makes them a huge catch. Snooze! My partner writes, draws, collects music and posters, likes to work on cars, and plenty other shared interests..But you get dudes like Antonio or Kyle who work their 8 hour shift then come home and play video games… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:06 PM |
| 8 | A forever girlfriend I metIt's that perpetual victim complex hardwired into scrotes. Can't tell them anything without them crying like a baby. I'm sure she knows, she's VERY nonconfrontational. I can 100% see where she's coming from because I was in the same situation for and I feel really bad for her. They go to the same school so there's added stress for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 02:37 PM |
| 38 | A forever girlfriend I metWas that his first crush or something? I notice a lot of men have oneitis for some high-school crush years and years ago like some obsessive, pathetic weirdo. No idea why a lot of men can't move on from high-school in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 35 | A forever girlfriend I metResponded with the tea, have at it queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 02:33 PM |
| 75 | A forever girlfriend I metHaha, I'll try to remember all of it in this response. He's like the stereotypical scrote. People here would tell me to report him or something but he brings entertainment and I'm not really bothered. Males aren't worth that energy at this point. Told me if his homies were cheating, he wouldn't care and wouldn't tell the girlfriend. He says his homies are more important than anyone else basically. A guy had a crush on a woman at our job, she rejected him. The guy seems normal, but this scrote is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 02:31 PM |
| 51 | we need to talk about being overly visible, then invisibleThanks, it's all in the past now. He is a massive pervert AND a porn addict. Had boxes filled with mags, and loved to watch mother/daughter porn. Watch out for porn-watchers, they might turn on your own daughter someday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:49 PM |
| 84 | we need to talk about being overly visible, then invisibleCongratulations and good job on all your hard work. I am happy you are happy, safe, and loving your body. I was an early bloomer so I got breasts in the fourth grade and later my period in the fifth. After I "grew" the harassment I can remember and mostly faced was from my father who referred to me as "tits on a stick". He loved the beach and always tried to get me into bikinis. Specifically when I was 14 and lived with him in his condo near the beach for a month. Not a week went by where I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | In my country, a father killed his 2 special needs sons, dumped their bodies in a canal, and caused the police to go on a manhunt. Yet, the top comments on Facebook are people sympathizing/rationalizing the father’s behavior. Even when men murder, society excuses their behavior.Oh yup. I try to avoid the comment sections in news articles because its filled with male apologists. They'll call a woman every slur in the book, but a man? Poor baby! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.I love reading these posts that make it to the front page of reddit and its just thousands of scrotes seething. Love seeing a woman take no bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 03:00 PM |
| 53 | My bf is sending me memesYour bf sounds based af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Makeup: How do you ladies do it?I don't wear makeup and I don't give a shit about how people perceive me in regards to that. If you choose to do so, then go for it as long as you recognize it's a misogynistic beauty standard imposed onto you by men even if you choose "unconventional" makeup methods you are still directly funding that same industry. It is not for us, and it never was. I will have girl friends that will take the time to put on their makeup and I don't view them as lesser. It's when women view it as a necessity a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 02:58 PM |
| 11 | The Adorned Woman is AdoredNO idea why this is getting downvoted. not only is OP shitting on women who don't engage in performative feminity, she is actively victim blaming women who don't as well. it's pretty obvious she is using this dressing up as a security blanket, blaming her own clothing? OP work on your internalized misogyny and seek therapy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 05:20 PM |
| 111 | OP is ignored by her boyfriend at a friend's birthday party because he was busy speaking to another woman all day. Comments told her to just talk to him. Proceeds to make a bunch of excuses for him as well.Agree and disagree? I totally understand when she said that they were talking about topics or people she had no knowledge on. That is really difficult to work with. Seriously, though. Your boyfriend can't introduce you to his apparent bestie that he has inside jokes with? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 04:03 PM |
| 100 | OP is ignored by her boyfriend at a friend's birthday party because he was busy speaking to another woman all day. Comments told her to just talk to him. Proceeds to make a bunch of excuses for him as well.I tried to DM or send her a chat request, but she turned all those options off unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 04:02 PM |
| 335 | OP is ignored by her boyfriend at a friend's birthday party because he was busy speaking to another woman all day. Comments told her to just talk to him. Proceeds to make a bunch of excuses for him as well.Seriously. And people are saying her own social issues are "her problem and not her partners!" What the hell happened to two people being a team in a relationship? You know. Supportive, loving, etc. These people sound downright miserable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!Ok and? My boyfriend doesn't even need a safe word, he just reads my fucking body language/face like a normal human being. Where's his cookie for doing that? Un fucking believable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Is the collapse of the middle class producing more LVM?this comes off as very classist. lvm are scattered throughout income classes. my boyfriend and his family lived in poverty and his mom still depends on foodstamps/other government assistance programs and he is very HV. on the other side while my mom was living in poverty, my father is upper middle class and he is a NV drain to society. red pill/LV rhetoric is being picked up lightning fast by middle/upper class men as well. trash is scattered throughout any group of man, and i dont believe our f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsHe beat around the bush and I didn't fully understand what he was getting at The worst of it came at the last 10 minutes of the session I did not pay for it, he is an intern therefore it's free Any more condescending questions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 12:44 AM |
| 8 | Woman killed by apartment maintenance man, who had a key. We need to push for a Miya Marcano law. I was always scared of this happening.Horrible. That's a huge fear and why I always keep the top lock, locked so that they cannot get in when I'm home. But some women don't have this option unfortunately. I knew a woman who passed out naked on her bed after a shower, and maintenance men let themselves in to take care of her work order (instead of leaving after seeing a sleeping nude woman). Shes been terrified since because she doesn't know if they took pictures or did anything. It's very scary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:24 PM |
| 22 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsSee this is what I wanted, not a spiel about understanding "human sexuality" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:44 PM |
| 16 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsYes I'll be speaking to my main therapist when he comes back and their supervisor. My main therapist was the one that suggested him while he was on leave because I guess he believed that this guy is passionate and a fine fit although young and inexperienced. Can't hold that against him though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapists😕 It was fucking aggravating. I could not get a word in to speak my thoughts, especially when he brought up the severely disabled point. He just kept talking. It felt more like a lecture than therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsGod you are right with this one specifically. He wanted to go deep into one of my most painful traumas (loss of a friend) and work on that and I ended up crying and said I'm not ready. He then congratulated me on asserting a boundary. I don't know, they're there to help you, but going into an open wound on the first session didn't sit right with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:38 PM |
| 40 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsFr what kind of "relationship" is that? Sex is not a right. Men aren't owed our bodies no matter what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:35 PM |
| 189 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsIf it makes yall feel better it was free because he's an intern 🥴 Change your major son | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:33 PM |
| 24 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapists🤢🤮 What is it with red pill men crying over women with tattoos? That's so ugly of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:32 PM |
| 100 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsThe treating my boundaries as flexible threw me off so hard and got me mad asf. He tried to bring up religious based repression and I'm not even religious at all. Trying to connect it to trauma and it's like no. What about porn is even a part of ~natural sexuality~? it's a man made, manufactured oppressor. I don't want to understand what makes men go awooooga tiddies!!! in their brains when it comes to porn I do not care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:31 PM |
| 311 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsIf there's anything positive I can take from it is that my disgust and cancelling of all future appointments shows a lot of growth in my own self respect and boundaries. Typically I would start doubting myself and if I'm actually the problem, but not this time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:52 PM |
| 52 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsI am so sorry for your horrible experiences. That therapist is a piece of garbage and I hope he got reported into oblivion for enabling an abuser instead of helping a very obvious victim. That's interesting, I always heard that therapists were just people looking to solve their own problems, but was hoping it wasn't actually true lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:50 PM |
| 75 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsYou're right. I went into that session for comfort and validation and I ended up playing miss fucking professor. What a joke. Female therapists, female doctors only now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:48 PM |
| 38 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsThank you for the recommendations I will look into that ❤️ I'm glad you have a great therapist. My main therapist never involved his personal opinions either, but this whole situation has turned me off from male therapists either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:47 PM |
| 130 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsWhen I'm done with my therapy break I will actively seek out a nice feminist lady therapist. 😵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:46 PM |
| 157 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 31 - Female Political Strategy: We're Coming For You (feat. Elle)Okayyyyy listening to this podcast now, typing my thoughts as I listen. - Elle refers to the hosts (grown women) as a "great group of girls" - "If you're not a liberal when young you're heartless, if you're not a conservative when old you're brainless" Uh. - Elle's views start shifting after joining the military (heard this one before) - Calls herself a gold star republican despite being pro-lgbt/pro abortion, etc. What? Do you know what republican stands for in the US? Cause it's not pro wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 18 | At what age did you realize male validation means absolutely nothing?Don't be so hard on yourself, it was what you were socialized to do and now you're finally breaking free of it. Be proud of yourself for realizing it so soon as well. I think I realized it at the same age. Years of browsing 4chan, redpill websites, youtubers, then getting into radical feminism all came to a head and I realized "men are fucking dumb, aren't they?" Years of reading "I guess I'll fuck this fat chick I don't like just so I lose my virginity", "I lost my virginity to an escort becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:07 PM |
| 26 | A form of negging new to meHe sounds obnoxious and knows how to bring an entire room down. I had a scrote do this to me at work, then either ignore me or just call me "Hey..What's up" he would do absolutely anything to avoid using my name. Just walk up to me and go "hey", stare at me until I realize he was talking to me. These men are freaks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 10:54 PM |
| 97 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.God I'm so tired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:07 AM |
| 53 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.Scrote is doing this for pure entertainment and loves the fear he incited in her. What a waste of human space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:06 AM |
| 236 | My HV bf drove 4 hours round-trip to pick me up because I *might* be uncomfortableYeah guys will bring down other men and call them "whipped", "simp", "pickme" because they're angry that another man hasn't drunk the scrote juice and is raising standards for a woman or other women. If a guy immediately has that reaction that's a tell-tale sign that he's a LVM and only telling on himself! I'm glad you have an awesome husband that takes care of you! That is very sweet of him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 10:08 PM |
| 9 | The amount of hate former porn actresses receive for speaking out is interesting to say the least…I can't stand these videos, the treatment the porn actresses receive from the hosts and commenters always makes me sick. At the end of the day those women are still human. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:54 PM |
| 180 | Block and delete👆👆👆👆 Even if you block immediately after, that last zing is still a reaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:27 PM |
| 11 | What are your thoughts?🤨 I feel if it was genuine and not for internet points he wouldn't call her singing "shit". He wouldn't even think it was bad, just that he loves to hear her voice. "I love listening to you" vs "You sound like shit but I love listening to you" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:15 PM |
| 70 | Racist scrote had it comingWhat work has he been doing against racism? Genuinely curious. What work has the white male engaging in raceplay, saying derogatory, racist things to a woc, done for racism? Does he think he gets a free pass to do this shit because he hires (1) poc in his company or something? I'm assuming that's what he thinks is "hardwork" This is the dumbest shit I've read. I hope he has been fired and exiled from all personal and work circles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:11 PM |
| 29 | If he wants an*l sex from you, chances are that he has the potential to be, or is, abusiveThey either want to recreate a porn scene, or they want to cause you pain. I've seen somewhere where men like seeing women in pain so that's why they prefer anal. HVM will have no interest in it because it doesn't cause you pleasure and also poo 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:18 PM |
| 62 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 YES!! It should be recognized as a form of mental abuse 1000% I have lived with LVM, and LVW who did not do their fair share of cleaning at all and I actually had a few mental breakdowns over all the things that needed to be done while juggling a plethora of other responsibilities. Knowing you have so much to do and knowing you will lose out on sleep and have absolutely no time to yourself is horrible. The burn out is real and I've unapologetically raged (with tears) when I ended up bein… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:20 PM |
| 29 | Scrote father goes to dinner with his daughter, enjoys insinuation that he’s dating her 🤮There are a lot of terrible fathers out there, mine included, but it makes me happy to know there are women out there who actually have good fathers. I am glad you are one less woman who has had to deal with a creepy dad. It's a unique kind of violation. I like hearing stories of nice dads though! Always warms my heart :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:15 PM |
| 30 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.It's the most obnoxious shit, but I understand why women cling onto it. Men have normalized "see hot person and fuck them immediately". No matter how many times people try to rephrase it, it's just a normal healthy relationship. I think a lot of people just want to feel special or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:09 PM |
| 27 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.Yes that's normal. By claiming demisexuality is real you are normalizing hookup culture. Majority of women dont have a waterfall pouring from their pussy at the sight of a hot man, they need to know he's a good human being who they can connect with as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:08 PM |
| 185 | HVM Traits You've Noticed in the WildI'd like to add that make sure he has that energy for women as well. If he never compliments a woman in a nonsexual way, that's a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:48 PM |
| 223 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.Women please stop calling yourself demisexual because you crave literally a normal relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 246 | A bit of weaponized incompeDanceIt's pathetic that every time a vid like this is made by other men, the comments are flooded with asshurt men calling HIM a pickme/simp (From what I've seen on instagram) Men really hate it when other men become "traitors" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:22 AM |
| 148 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsThis is neat! I appreciate all the effort you put into gathering and organizing your data. Cops and military men are statistically backed as well so no surprise they're #1 to avoid. 40% of cops engage in domestic violence (and that's just the ones that admitted it), and we all know the high amount of rape and sexual assault in the military. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:18 AM |
| 55 | The number one danger in women’s lives is men they knowWhy would we give advice for men to not harm women? Why would we give them advice on how to do the absolute bare minimum of human decency? I hate when people bring this up and that "teach men not to rape" because it gives men an excuse. It still implies ( to an extent ) that they're just simply poor, uneducated babies who didn't know that it's morally unjust to cause harm to another human being! 🥺 That sounds so fucking dumb. It's not our responsibility that men cannot exercise what is not even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 05:20 AM |
| 112 | So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men:I'm seeing a temp therapist (male) while I wait for my other therapist to get back from personal business. I was pleasantly surprised when he brought up the title. He said we're in a "new phase, because men have to work to impress women now instead of being able to force them into a relationship." after he brought up incels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 05:10 AM |
| 274 | OH MY GOD????Man acting like he's the prize 💀 Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 05:05 AM |
| 52 | FDS is and will always remain a dating sub first and foremost. Any suggestions to rename the sub or redirect its focus will be removed and offending users bannedNo you're right they sound super fake in a some 40 something year old trying to sell you an MLM scam kind of way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:51 PM |
| 64 | FDS is and will always remain a dating sub first and foremost. Any suggestions to rename the sub or redirect its focus will be removed and offending users bannedThat or they target certain women and tell them they're acting like "pickmes" or "LV women". I notice narcissistic men do this thing where they take the one trait you do not want to be and go "you're really acting like (bad trait)!" e.g personal example is my mom's a bad person and narc dad would go "you know, you're acting like your mother right now" in an attempt to get under my skin. a woman would most likely ask you questions about your thought process and try to tell you of alternative pers… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:47 PM |
| 45 | Yep! Men are truly disgusting!It was more like he was bragging about it, but you're probably right in that he wanted to do that as well. So true, they are childish lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 02:43 PM |
| 187 | FDS is and will always remain a dating sub first and foremost. Any suggestions to rename the sub or redirect its focus will be removed and offending users bannedThat would explain why I've been seeing some weird ass or hostile users. Some are super obvious like the "woman" complaining about fat people at her job. I'd be wary of #girlboss-ish posters too who are too enthusiastic with the "YASSS GIRL!" comments. Like no critical thinking or adding to a post ever, it's just constantly supportive no matter how questionable the post is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:21 PM |
| 33 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?If I was flung into the dating world probably; doctors(typically egotistical assholes), yoga instructors, chefs (the only ones I met are cokeheads), "entrepreneurs" (most are bums), psychologists and therapists, cops (wife beaters/misogynists/racists), streamers (self explanatory), lawyers.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:17 PM |
| 182 | Yep! Men are truly disgusting!And when they aren't doing some repulsive act like spitting on the ground, their lack of morals disgusts me. Male coworker randomly comes up to me and says "I had a one night stand with this girl and her name was so beautiful I told her I was gonna name my daughter after her" Ok? Wonder how your wife will feel about her child being named after your one night stand. Scrotes are filthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:12 PM |
| 125 | I’d show you the comment I was responding to, but he deleted it. Called out a misogynist and he wrote an essay in response.The amount of grown men that seethe over that one girl who rejected them in middle/high school is too damn high. Men will literally build their personalities off of the little girl that did not share her cookie in kindergarten. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 06:59 PM |
| 115 | What is so hard about respecting people’s time?"I was raised on the premise that if you're on time, you're late" girl SAME!!! THIS MAKES ME SO MAD TOO!!! I like to show up 10-20 minutes early, and I don't expect the other person to get there that early. I just like to. But I do expect you to get there either on time or a few minutes after (I understand things come up, just PLEASE communicate). I asked mutual friends of my boyfriend and I if they felt like swinging by to grab some dessert I made. She said absolutely, she'll be there by 3. Sou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | My coworkerYeah I agree with you, the negativity on any nice post is ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 03:08 PM |
| 477 | And y’all are still using OLD?🤢 Reminds me of scrote behavior I witnessed on my break. 1 scrote was checking out women on whatever app while his friends made comments about them. One struck out to me, a woman was smiling in her pic and the scrote called her a "horse faced bitch". Him? Overweight, balding, tangly unkempt bearded white guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:26 AM |
| 60 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysHow old are you and what age range are you aiming for now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 07:04 PM |
| 56 | Weekly Reminder: OLD is trashMen also advise other men to swipe on "no hookups in bio" women and say "that's what they all say, you can still pump and dump" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 05:16 PM |
| 12 | Everyone in the comments was congratulating him. I'm so confusedYou are spot on, he sounds like a narcissist. My narcissistic folks would do that shit allll the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:33 PM |
| 18 | Daily reminder: IF HE WANTED, HE WOULDGirl it's two years 💀💀💀 That's still very short to me. What the hell. I'm pretty sure (don't feel like double-checking) even the handbook suggests 2 years as the minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:44 PM |
| 10 | The most painful part of heartbreak is realizing that he’s never truly loved you. He might’ve even hated you. How to cope with it?In this case the best revenge is living a good life for yourself; filled with self love and happiness. If a scrote already hates you, he's going to be even more bitter if you're living a good life without him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:41 PM |
| 89 | The OP thought the whole event was "funny." I call it the troubling journey of a Pick Me.Can't be mad at her, this is just pathetic. The lack of self respect she displayed in this post further inspired me to put myself first more than I already do. Guy was actively fucking with her, she was nothing but "lost puppy entertainment" to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:38 PM |
| 94 | Illinois bill would allow women to sue men over unwanted pregnanciesLmaooo this was such a satisfying read. Thank you queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:35 PM |
| 278 | Everyone in the comments was congratulating him. I'm so confusedWtf that response. Literally who gives a fuck? Like that commenter said, congrats for doing the bare minimum? Scrotes are so useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:34 PM |
| 60 | Traits and tenets of high-value womenI really like this! One trait that I feel should be emphasized is certain personality traits. Toxicity/hatefulness - This is not to be confused with anger. A lot of FDSers are women who are finally "allowed" to be angry or air their grievances in a patriarchal world without unnecessary male interruption. This isn't written for the benefit of a male partner, more like your every day interactions with anyone. A HV person is not hateful; they do not engage in bigotry (homophobia, fatphobia. I use… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 10:08 PM |
| 26 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)Sounds like I'm not missing out on anything! What a loser lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 09:48 PM |
| 88 | It amazes me how many men don’t take responsibility for their sperm.And then they say "well the women should choose better men!" How about men be better? Keep your willy in your pants 🤷♀️ Drain his wallets for child support, queens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 09:20 PM |
| 50 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)Who is he? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 06:27 PM |
| 70 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌No ma'am...That has pickme written all over it. Unfortunately.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:17 PM |
| 121 | If ever in doubt, ladies, read this.The men in that thread are so creepy. They sound like serial killers devoid of any parental love. I honestly think they should be cstrted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:35 PM |
| 28 | Sick of short males crying "discrimination"😂 Yeah everyone in the class ended up never talking to him. Can't say that approach worked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:31 PM |
| 50 | I am SO pissed right now, I can't even see straightI think it's time you establish boundaries. "One more wrong thing, and I block and delete." "It's coming, just a matter of time." "if he apologizes and promises, I'll keep chatting maybe" It's time to have some self-respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:41 PM |
| 197 | Sick of short males crying "discrimination"They're so annoying anyways. In one of my college classes we had to do introductions and this short scrote's began with him talking about how short he is. Thanks for announcing to the class how insecure you are. Even then I would be fine dating a guy under 6'0 (I am rn actually) since all I want is for you to be taller than me. Not a hard thing to accomplish since I'm 5"3. But most guys under that height are so insecure in the most annoying ways that they're unbearable to be around. As if their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 02:53 PM |
| 6 | The truth about why my male family members have taken the redpill.The auto mod drives me nuts. Seriously I don't know what else to remove??! Was it the emphasis on the hetero part of the cousin that made you think that? I didn't agree until I reread the post and was like "OH! Odd!" Anyways! Yes I agree with you. They all can't be repressed or pedophiles. The more mainstream redpill is mainly hetero misogynists, but once you take a "deep dive" like on 4chan then it's blatant pedophiles who say women are ruined after 16 due to riding the [censored word for the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:49 PM |
| 78 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.I feel this happens a lot with youtubers. Pewdiepie is a nasty pornsick scrote who puts no effort into his life, while Marzia is a beautiful, hardworking woman. Same with Ethan and Hila. I always found Ethan sooo physically repulsive, I have no idea how Hila can stay with him. She's taking care of their baby and has her fashion line? She's definitely doing the most, while her grotesque looking husband drools over Belle and whatever pornstars he invites onto the channel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:39 PM |
| 90 | Saw this on insta today. How cool is this? I've never taken Bcp's for the same reason that they fuck around with your hormones. Same for the morning after pill.Because they're like "I don't want a knife to my balls that's sooooooo scawyyyyyyy 🥺🥺🥺🥺" even though it literally takes 5 minutes. Basically males are weak wimps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:16 PM |
| 69 | Will Smith reaches his "Fuck-it 50s"I was just about to bring up, "Wasn't his wife cheating on him?" That's really interesting how he let scrotes demonize his wife. Those same scrotes are gonna praise him for being a player. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Is he your boyfriend or your man?Jesus christ I saw that comment. What the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:00 PM |
| 99 | An Ex bf keeps looking at my LinkedIn profile👁️👁️ That is a mentally unwell man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 12:57 AM |
| 151 | An Ex bf keeps looking at my LinkedIn profileWait girl what happened with the cat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:57 PM |
| 65 | A study found that those working in creative industries are 3 x more likely to suffer from mental illness, with 60% of participants reporting suicidal thoughts. Is this why men have targeted their brainwashing at liberal feminists in creative industries?Interestinggggg thread. Bouncing off of another commentor (and basically saying the same thing she said) liberal feminism is infesting us at both a creative and corporate level. It's the "safe" feminism that doesn't allow men to reflect on their wrongdoings so that's going to be the most popular kind. The views I'm seeing from women over mental health lately in this sub is kind of odd. I hope another commenter can put it into words for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 08:10 PM |
| 231 | Is he your boyfriend or your man?Men are straight up telling 50/50 pickmes that they're getting played, and they STILL won't listen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 08:08 PM |
| 168 | Hinder: A Dating App for Emotionally Unavailable Men (full New Yorker link in comments)These posts are coming for my life. I knew a virgo man 4/20 friendly who shut down whenever I criticized him. He didn't do improv, but he still had no career or real life goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 12 | He knows he's making you feel uncomfortable and he likes itI am really sorry that happened to you..I understand the shame, fear, and disgust you felt at that time. When I was six, another first grader made eye contact with me and rubbed his genitalia while smiling, then laughed at my disgust. I also remember being even younger and having boys maybe a year older than me pulling up my dress and laughing. It starts so young, as young as six. They would steal my toys, rip them, and laugh at me because they knew I wouldn't do anything. (Was mute and had seve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsI know some women have had great experiences with male gynecologists, but omggg I could never feel comfortable with some random scrote handling me. This is why they have to have a nurse in with them and can't be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:15 PM |
| 70 | I will stop “generalizing” men when THEY stop using, abusing, and killing women. When THEY stop treating us like disposable source of labor. I will stop when MEN start ruthlessly policing & holding OTHER men accountable for all the shit they do to women.So ridiculous that men equate money and personal belongings to murder and rape. Another projection when they call women "materialistic". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:09 PM |
| 24 | Found out a man I went on 2 dates with with was married (and not divorced 4 years as he said) by searching public records online! Here's how to do it.I wanted to dig deep into a part of your post that is SO important for women to realize how manipulative men can be and what they'll do afterwards. "I asked about his living situation, he joked "well I don't have roommates." If you ask a question like this, and his immediate answer is NOT "I live alone", "I have a roommate", etc but a playful dance around the question like what OP was given then that is a RED FLAG and he will use it against you later. I can tell you right now that if OP did no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?It's weird because some women I meet do have FDS mindsets, but still engage in pickme behavior. Social conditioning is a hell of a drug I guess! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:56 PM |
| 9 | What's up with the dislike towards MBTI?It's on the same level as astrology. It's pseudoscience. It is fun, I liked taking the tests and I like making astrology jokes or seeing who is what, but it's not something to be taken seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 01:42 PM |
| 14 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?Oh heck, I'm sorry about that. Your daughter will come around though, it's in our nature to be "whatever mom" no matter the age. 😂 Might take her some time but she'll need to find out on her own, all you can do is let her know you support her and you're there. Once you start paying attention, misogyny is everywhere. I have a lot of men roll their eyes, call me dramatic, misandrist, etc. But we're not here for them and they're only mad we see it for what it is. We can find fulfillment in taking c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 05:28 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?That's so sweet I love to hear this!! You and your friends are amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 05:25 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?There's a joke I see occasionally where it's basically your only friend when you're old (like 80s) is your partner and it seems that's becoming more and more true every day 🥴 I'm sorry to hear what you're going through, especially with people you've known for so long, but like you said, you definitely deserve better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Coping with the early stages of a breakupYes, obviously. But service animals are for, what I am assuming, physical and mental issues to which they can assist for. I am assuming that OP is possibly under such mental distress that she could benefit from seeing her options with a service animal. So I do not understand the hostility, perhaps I need to put a big explanation next time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Coping with the early stages of a breakupWhat? It sounds like she does need it, no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:46 PM |
| 26 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?❤️ Same here. I thought I was weird because I never had close friends growing up, and was always the lonely kid. When I did get close to those friend groups I realized they just sweep bad or questionable behavior under the rug. If they all had strong morals and stuck to them, none of them would be friends with eachother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:41 PM |
| 33 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?Whew I gave up on male friends a long time ago 🥴 You're basically a free dating coach to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 35 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?It feels so many people don't have strong morals or care about them. 😕 It's demoralizing, but a good explanation of the degredation of society. When you can barely find anyone with strong morals, it's no wonder everything's going to shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 31 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?Ugh I get what you mean. That shit is seriously heartbreaking to witness. I had a friend like that as well and it was BAD. She fucked atleast 2 of our managers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:32 PM |
| 33 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?I like this comment! I did doubt myself so much with these friendships, especially friend #1. It's so nice to be able to trust your intuition now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:30 PM |
| 41 | Anyone else having trouble making new friends after FDS?Yeah you described it really well. Waking up and realizing how off-putting ? these friendships are. It's just so much negativity because these women are in relationships with LVM and there's always something to complain about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:29 PM |
| 21 | Stay safe, my UK sisters😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂 Yoooo why they mention catboy kami as an alt right influencer? The guy that dresses as a cat maid and sucks ginormous dildos on stream???? LMFAOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 09:31 AM |
| -1 | Coping with the early stages of a breakupDo you think you can try and get a service animal? Apartments can't deny a pet if it's a service animal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 09:29 AM |
| 123 | Very weird pre-date invite condition/terms given. Thoughts? Anyone else come across this before?Ok..Not into the dating scene and even that seems like too much words as well. What kind of text is "Yay let's meet as long as you're open to both mental and physical connections?" A HVM would just say "Great! What days are you available?" Sounds like he's jumping through hoops to sound deep but will end up using you for sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:28 AM |
| 123 | Pervert pretends to film wife at the beach but is actually recording woman in bikini behind her. Trash. Things like this are why I thank my lucky stars everyday that I never married or reproduced with a scroteAnd he has no idea how old she is. She could be as young as 14 even. But men don't give a shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 10:33 PM |
| 125 | Men will act like they’re philanthropists when they’re not rude to ugly girlsI remember arguing with a guy over this in my pre FDS days. I asked him why can't he treat people with basic respect and decency? It's the bare minimum to any relationship. He said they haven't done anything to deserve it. What exactly is a stranger supposed to do? So..Basically, huge entitlement issues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 02:53 PM |
| 96 | The importance of being clear with/having boundariesSo they know how disgusting they're being. Also I'm so annoyed whenever men say "Omg she's just like a bro!" Go fuck your bros then. If that's what you want so bad let your bros buttfuck you or something instead of projecting your homosocial tendencies on me. Sick of that shit. I'm in "male dominated" hobbies and I hear it all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 08:23 AM |
| 27 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyHey there, pickmes of reddit. It feels great having a boyfriend that doesn't watch porn or wank, because the only time he wants to get off is with me. And we both have an orgasm, because he cares about my pleasure. I feel great every day knowing I'm not a doormat to a guy, and that he makes sure my every need is met because he loves me. When's the last time your scrote put effort into your birthday? SiNcErElY, a WoMaN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:08 PM |
| 55 | “Men always complain about being friend zoned, but do they know how much it hurts to be fuck zoned? As if our friendship only had value to him because of possible sex?”Yup. That's why I'm strictly no male friends. One straight up told me "I only started talking to you because you're hot". "Let's just be friends" never works out. In my case they emotionally manipulate you to hell and back, or ghost you thinking you'll be that forever backup. Get lost. I didn't even want you in the first place! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 02:48 PM |
| 7 | Vetting Using Pandemic RhetoricYou guys are the backbone of humanity and we appreciate your efforts so much. I am really sorry you have to deal with this clownery. Always put yourself first and remember to take a spa day or a few for yourself ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:43 AM |
| 38 | Stay away from damaged goods - porn addictsUgh you just reminded me about my own LV father 🤢 Total psychopath late bloomer who loved to use and abuse women for his entertainment. I went up the attic once and he had 2 tub sized containers filled with porn magazines, and his search history was "milf/daughter" porn. Any lurking woman reading this..Please dump your porn watching scrote, it only gets worse from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:34 AM |
| 289 | We can't even have subreddits that are clearly for usThis happens to every "female" dominated subs. Or what should be female dominated. Still mad that a subreddit dedicated to busty women's issues is regularly raided by perverts, though not surprised. The only contributions scrotes make is "does this make me fuckable to you females?" "can I fuck you females?" and "I'm now one of you females, can I fuck you?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:21 AM |
| 112 | The 'Harmless' man I dated and the mutual guy friend that advocated on his behalf. Why men close to us can be dangerous toomen will defend the most degenerate men based off of a 5 minute conversation they had off of a mutual interest. the reason why they're in power is that they let slide the most disgusting, bottom of the barrel behavior whereas most women would cast away these repulsive women. it's a look into the low iq/no morals mindset that a majority of scrotes possess but it's really unfortunate isn't it? because it goes 2 ways: yes marks friend knows how bad he is, he doesn't care. he doesn't respect you. he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 08:09 AM |
| 60 | Vetting Using Pandemic RhetoricEven with antivax vs vax debate, who do I trust more? The nurses and doctors with YEARS of medical experience, going through medical school, dealing with this shit in person almost every single day? Or some bald white man ranting in his truck on some low quality instagram reel. Plus it's basic human decency and respect. The mask is not just for me, it's for the comfort and safety of those around me. Same with the vaccine. Sorry about your LV friend and LVhusband, she sounds like she's under th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 12:19 AM |
| 14 | Cringeworthy :/Oh haha I'm blind wtf. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 12:10 AM |
| 39 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.I kept expecting him to say something like "and then she dumped him a week later!" but 💀💀💀💀💀💀 LMFAOOOOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:47 PM |
| 219 | Pickme Logic: I know he's a player and I'm already sleeping with him but will ignoring his texts get him interested in more?Well bless her soul and I hope she finds the right path soon instead of thinking she's "playing" him by already sleeping with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:46 PM |
| 28 | Cringeworthy :/I don't get it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 31 | I don’t really have words for this one.Yikes, sissy hypno porn. That woman needs a divorce ASAP because this shit ain't getting better. He's probably gonna start stealing her panties and bra to wear as well, and well, some of you ladies know the rest. This poor woman, her husband is genuinely fucked in the head no turning back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:00 PM |
| 17 | A review I saw. The fact the other adults at the table didn’t say anything is disheartening.Yess!! The woman who stood up to him is a badass and a great role model to those kids. Yet all the fathers/husbands did was sit in silence. Very telling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:57 PM |
| 34 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.The biggest thing is they dress as if they have no personalities. My shoes are dirty and written over, jeans ripped, etc but that's the punk look I adore. (Minus hygiene..Hygiene is very important of course lmao. Please take regular showers) You go out and you see a generic guy with generic t shirt and jeans and sneakers, balding head. If you asked him what he does for fun it would be some variation of "drinkin with the boys and playin games". I think men in general are largely boring, they have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:55 PM |
| 11 | UPDATE: Newly Separated Scrote doubles down on his mantrum, hilarity ensuesOmggg his mommy defending her poor wittle boy is the cherry on top of this manchild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:01 PM |
| 139 | Funny?? - women are treated worse than pets.It's creepy when men give reasonings for hating cats/liking dogs. I like both, but men will be like 'i HATE cats they never wanna be around you. dogs are happy to see you no matter what" Oh you only like the submission and no boundaries with certain dogs? Can't stand that other animals have boundaries? Totally not a red flag, totally | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:32 PM |
| 8 | Just realized my brother and I were raised differentlyEven then I think it's weird men need an incentive to clean, or they need a parent to tell them. When I saw my parents clean I thought "Ok, I need to do this too." and just did it. Just did the dishes, cleaned my room, etc. I don't remember needing to be paid for it. Scrotes are just a different breed of laziness and stupidity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:31 PM |
| 26 | anyone here ever just declared war with a man?What is the difference between declaring war and establishing boundaries? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:21 PM |
| 424 | There’s no way these ladies are serious…🙃that shit is so disrespectful and pathetic, even in my pickme days i would not stoop so low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 02:21 PM |
| 120 | Beware the hobosexual and other bumsThere are that many?! New(probably not) bare minimum requirement: have a job. No, streaming is not a job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 02:06 PM |
| 45 | Gabby's Friend Speaks paints a different picture of Brian- the controlling behavior and abuse started early!In every relationship the red flags are always there, people just choose to ignore & normalize it. I'm glad her friend said something. I'm tired of hearing these "poor boys suddenly snapped!" they were fucked up from the beginning and everyone knew it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:05 PM |
| 188 | Example #141203 of why you should PROTECT YOUR WOMB! Even the guys who seem nice can be full on scrotey sperm donors. Does he have kids? Does he keep in contact with them? Does he abandon his children and then throw pity parties about it?The red flags are shining through in his shitty pity party post. The kids never initiating contact. Children love their fucking parents and it's the hardest thing to cut contact with your parental figure. If someone says their child/ren don't talk to them, that's a major red flag. "What I can afford to gift" Weak guilt trip I've seen better 3/10 Signed "Your father" is the most disrespectful move. Not, "dad" it's "YOUR father". It's a subtle neg that reminds the children that THEY came from HI… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on family therapy between an emotionally unavailable, LV father and adult daughtersLolll no offense taken, you're spot on. It sucks, but it's pretty much normalized now. I don't know anyone that does have a good relationship with their dad. It seems in this day and age its more bizarre to have a good father than a bad one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:51 PM |
| 16 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...Wow, so I should've went a long time ago lmao. But would the ER even take us seriously? Doctors are notorious for dismissing women's pain. Either endo or ovarian cysts plus an infection sounds like absolute hell. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:40 PM |
| 142 | LVM admits he often doesn’t like particular woman but seeks her as ego boost to feel good enough to pursue more women...So what FDS was saying all along? Do you ever miss, queens? This is so pathetic. They just see us as a tool for their ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:38 PM |
| 57 | Reminder: Korean men spend more time and effort on their appearance and are generally more polite, but they are no different from men in other countries. My (Korean) fiancé sent this to me this morning and said, "I'm embarrassed to call myself a Korean man if this is how men here are acting."Dressed as the JOKER? This is some...Man..How are these ladies not just whooping his clown ass? 💀 Get on his level and dress as batgirl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 12:16 PM |
| 23 | A “real woman” and he isn’t joking 🥴This is satire. He's mocking single mothers on dating apps. Redpillers love to humiliate single mothers for a plethora of reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 12:06 PM |
| 13 | Thoughts on family therapy between an emotionally unavailable, LV father and adult daughtersIf he did go; Would he actually see his errors? Correct his behavior? Or would he sit there, put on a show, then bounce? While we didn't go to family therapy, my father (apparently) went to therapy and because he's a psychopath/narcissist, manipulated the therapist into believing he's the victim: "The THERAPIST felt bad for me! They said your mom was CRAZY!" He is a grown man and has had all the time in the world to ponder over how he had treated his wife and daughters. Do not waste time to even… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 11:54 AM |
| 74 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...I am very happy you found someone who took you seriously and now you're getting help for this pain. The societal gaslighting on women is extremely harmful and appalling. I am also finally going to the doctor's for severe period symptoms such as disabling back pain to where I can't work, vomiting, severe mood swings. Always told myself "I can push through, it's nothing" until someone finally said "That's not normal" All our lives we're told we're overdramatic towards anything, so society doesn't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 11:49 AM |
| 55 | 911 Call Released - Witness saw Gabby Petito being "hit" and "slapped" by Brian on August 12thFuck the police 👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:41 AM |
| 104 | “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink”I saw that on popular and didn't bother to read the comments because I assumed it would be scrotes circlejerking over evil wahmen. The title made it sound like he only wore them when he did yard work, so he purposely worded it in a way to make her look bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:33 AM |
| 229 | LVM don't just hate women. They hate HVM too.Whenever I look at the comments on a vid of a guy doing something kind to a woman, it's fillleddd with those type of comments. Calling them simp, saying she's gonna cheat on him, etc. Men are such miserable little creatures | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:27 PM |
| 17 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menShows that it doesn't matter what your perceived privilege is. Women as a class, as a whole, are entirely fucked. Those (male) cops bonded over their misogyny. She didn't have a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 12:03 PM |
| 168 | A very close friend of mine is considering staying with her forever boyfriend who has been cheating on her for 5+ years.It sounds like she feels as if she has no choice as she's financially dependent on him. It gets scarier when you have 2 kids. Does she have family she can stay with while she gets back on her feet? This is why you do not become financially dependent on any scrote. If you're gonna be a SAHM you need a steady income either way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 09:43 AM |
| 76 | Thank you ladies for your amazing support ✨🦋✨A mother protecting her daughter AND warning other parents? We love to see it! Your daughter is so lucky to have a mom that cares so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:22 PM |
| 76 | Just scrotey thingsFor real, I'm not vegan, but men throw the biggest tantrums over meals that don't have meat on them. Remember that whole MEAT BRO BACON ON EVERYTHING SUPER EPIC phase all men with shitty beards went through? What the fuck was that lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 02:17 PM |
| 101 | Female psychologist wants to normalize Stay-At-Home DadsI've only seen this work once with my brother, because he earned less than her. He did all the cooking, cleaning, taking care of their son ofc, making her lunches, paying the bills on time, literally any issue he was on top of it. Basically all she had to do was work then go home and relax. I highly doubt the majority of men have that will. They'll probably leave the house a mess then complain that she doesn't help him enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 09:32 AM |
| 42 | Anyone notice guys get uncomfortable if you want to stay at home after kids?You are right, they lack loyalty and the importance of a healthy, close family. Maybe consider 2nd generation men? My boyfriend's parents are immigrants, but he still has those strong family values and "taking care of the woman" attitude that his parents instilled into him. You have to be careful and vet well though because this doesn't always guarantee those values. You could get the type of guy that thinks you're his slave instead, because mommy dearest let him do whatever he wanted while simu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 09:25 AM |
| 186 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueit's a narcissist thing. My father would do that after I "disrespected" him so he felt in power again and also to humiliate me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 10:17 PM |
| 57 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.Really? She's a little girl and he goes "heh sex parties huh?" I don't know what happened between your kiddo and some older guy, but bringing up whatever incident as well is absolutely creepy and inappropriate. I hope the FBI raids his roach den and checks out his computer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 04:17 PM |
| 15 | I keep having to delete posts I make on other subs because creeps look through comment history and find out I'm on FDS.A bunch of "women's only" subreddits have been overtaken by men, modded by men, etc. As far as I know FDS is the only true female only subreddit from the posters to the mods | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 12:24 PM |
| 73 | Really worried about the Gabby Petito situation… ladies, please be careful out there.Yeah I understand this feeling. It's going to sound really self objectifying, but as a single woman you are just a hint more vulnerable than a taken one. I know I'm safer when I go places with my bf because other males will see me as "owned" or don't want their ass beat for saying dumb shit. Compared to the times I went out by myself or with a girl friend I was followed, we were cat called, gotten unwanted free drinks and predator stares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:01 AM |
| 175 | Saying she post on FDS isn't an insult to me, there is a reason this is my main account IDC.This is how I feel when men call me a misandrist. That word has as much weight as a piece of paper lol. Like they just respond "Misandrist." Ok and? Am I supposed to care? Reddit user called me a misandrist I'm currently shaking and crying irl in real life oh my god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 01:47 AM |
| 32 | I keep having to delete posts I make on other subs because creeps look through comment history and find out I'm on FDS.Much love and respect to you and other ex muslim women. Whenever a video of an ex muslim woman either simply existing or speaking about the religion pops up on my feed, it's filled with so many men sending her vile, misogynistic hate. edit: Aren't there cases of family members finding these women after they move overseas and killing her? I could've sworn I've seen articles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 01:08 AM |
| 142 | Defending yourself against men who want you to be a pickmeSounds like he's looking for a fight. I'd just ignore him, like literally say nothing. You can't say anything to these types of males without them having a fit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:09 PM |
| 95 | If the sex was bad: don’t you dare tell him he did a good jobYou are 1000% right. I would lurk the advice board on 4chan and there was always a thread along the lines of "I'm afraid this girl will #metoo me. I pressured her into sex/Did things to her while she was passed out and now she doesn't talk to me" They blatantly say what they did, know it's wrong, are only scared of facing consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 02:47 PM |
| 70 | If the sex was bad: don’t you dare tell him he did a good jobMen will do anything BUT get true consent and make a woman orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 01:00 PM |
| 32 | Green flag - thoughtful, non-sexual giftsLmao enjoy! To make it more gross he told me him and his mommy went and picked them out for me. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:16 PM |
| 71 | Green flag - thoughtful, non-sexual gifts😂 It was an eyeshadow palette with 4 or 6 colors? I don't remember too well. The earrings were some cheap $15 ones as well. I told a girl friend about it and she happily took the "gifts" off my hands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:11 PM |
| 265 | Green flag - thoughtful, non-sexual giftsGift giving is a pretty good vetting process. No gifts at all = Throw him away Sexual, or gifts that really only benefit him = Throw him away Gifts that don't benefit him, but are to no use of you or you obviously won't use = Throw him away Gifts that are useful to you, related to an interest you have, or that you mentioned in passing (that a LVM would forget about) = Green flag I had a scrote gift me earrings and makeup, both that I don't wear. He was only looking for quick "good boy" points to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 222 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the VictimIt's interesting how men are always like "we can't call the cops when women abuse us! they always arrest us!" and then you read stories like yours....Yeah, men lurking: Shut the fuck up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:55 PM |
| 43 | A Text from an Ex. Have a field day, Queens.Lmaooo I couldn't remember if it was and said fuck it + adjusted for inflation or something 🥴 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 02:43 PM |
| 13 | FDSers who are married to or dating HVM, what brought you here?He sounds like a very kind guy! Same here, and I'm glad I'm surrounded by women who understand these struggles. Congratulations on getting out of that tradwife nonsense too! The self-respect and confidence is so amazing. I love the power of shutting down toxic people, indulging in my own self interests and improvement, all without guilt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 02:19 PM |
| 32 | Mommy complexThank you, glad to say now I know this and I'm picky with who I let into my friend circle. He was a self admitted narcissist so he gave me the red flags on a silver platter, but that was back in my pickme days lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 12:24 PM |
| 5 | The bar is in hell and I am so tired of itWait that's why I've been seeing that flair? I thought it was some ironic joke flair? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 12:17 PM |
| 196 | A Text from an Ex. Have a field day, Queens.What's expensive for him? $2 sweet tea from McDonald's? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:51 AM |
| 35 | Does anyone else feel let down by the nofap movement?Omfg 💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:51 AM |
| 54 | Does anyone else feel let down by the nofap movement?You can't be too careful. I found porn when I was not older than 7, from a dress up game. Thank you for actually being competent parents and protecting your children from that sick shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:47 AM |
| 118 | Does anyone else feel let down by the nofap movement?It's honestly hilarious how a movement dedicated to not beating your dick off somehow went alt-right and started spouting that shit. "Women can smell your masculine scent, I've made eye contact with multiple women and they smiled at me." Men really are braindead coomers. Or some guys using their nut as perfume because they think women will be "attracted to the masculine semen scent" helpppp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:43 AM |
| 81 | Mommy complexThese scrotes are so weird and creepy. It's insane how fast they get attached to you, and when you pull away they're genuinely offended because "mommy doesn't want me??" I never dated this scrote, but befriended him. Once I was hanging out with my boyfriend and his family, and the scrote was blowing up my phone. I texted him wtf? And he said he wanted my attention is all, I'm the only person he has (a lie). Always demanding attention like a baby, wanting to be cooked for and taken care of. I jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:40 AM |
| 536 | A Text from an Ex. Have a field day, Queens."Hey sister" 🥴🥴🥴🥴 I don't know why this bothers me. Why an ex calling you a sister? "I need a woman to perform emotional labor on me" Was he a hobosexual? Since he said he don't want none of your money lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Avoid using OLD to meet menSounds about right..Lead a (male) horse to water and uhhhhh he destroys society 😭💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:27 AM |
| 2 | This woman I reached out to on a sub wants your thoughts and opinions on her situation.I was a bit confused too but I think maybe she wanted perspectives asap without waiting for mod approval? Or she tried but was confused on why her post was removed. I didn't think to ask 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:26 AM |
| 22 | Avoid using OLD to meet menAyo what the fuck? Can they use that same energy to fight their porn addiction or something.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 01:34 AM |
| 9 | My therapy after reading so many shitty stories about LVMWoo! Also I know I probably don't have to tell you this, but for any other woman reading this who is also interested; It's very important to be understanding and patient with them. Don't pressure them to browse FDS, don't tell them "how did you not know this was bad?", etc. Simply let them know that this resource is available, softly point out what the guy did was bad and how it effects you and what he is most likely trying to do, validate her feelings..If she wants to browse FDS that is her cho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 232 | FDSers who are married to or dating HVM, what brought you here?even though I have my HVbf, I was still a pickme. I was antifeminist, actually watched those redpill videos on how women should treat her man, excused uncomfortable behaviour from male friends (thinking he would pick up the hint I'm uncomfortable. No, he's betting on my passivity.) and other horrible traits. FDS and radical feminism allowed me to understand why this behaviour is wrong, establish healthy boundaries, and basically understand why scrotes are the way they are. I also stick around be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 10:25 PM |
| 427 | She made a PowerPoint about strippingWhen I saw this on my insta explore I did an act of self care and kept scrolling without finishing the video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:59 PM |
| 20 | Its a murder!What the hell, when I opened it up and saw that photo my mind immediately thought "Oh, is this a photo of a father and his daughter?" Nope..That's a woman and her fiance?? I know it's unlikely, but I really hope that poor woman is actually alive and soon brought back home..What a disgusting human being that man is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:11 PM |
| 8 | I don’t know if a political add is allowed but this just made my blood boil.I sat here for a good minute wondering what to type. Still not sure what else I want to put. I am disgusted and horrified though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 05:02 PM |
| 88 | This woman I reached out to on a sub wants your thoughts and opinions on her situation.34 is incredibly young! Scrote propaganda on "you lose your appeal at 25" is so disgusting and keeps women settling for trash because they think it's the best they're gonna get since they're "old" in nvm eyes. It's also interesting how it's okay for him to snoop, but not her. Rules for thee and not for mee ol headass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 01:43 PM |
| 212 | This woman I reached out to on a sub wants your thoughts and opinions on her situation.For realll!! All of the red flags seem so obvious, but it shows how easy it is for a man to gaslight you into thinking YOU'RE the fucked up one when he is literally going through your shit unprompted and prepping to cheat on you. That's scary asf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 01:40 PM |
| 36 | Never respond to street pick-up. There's too much evidence on them approaching multiple girls weekly to get free sex. No, you're not special.Oh my goddd that's so trashy lmfao. Imagine just trying to exist in public and some little RP scrote bothers you. Reminds me of the 4ch*n post where a guy hit on over 100(?) women in his town and he became known as the town's creep, resulting in women avoiding him or giving him death stares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 01:00 PM |
| 49 | Avoid using OLD to meet menAlso it's really, really risky. They have your name, photo, they can stalk you easily. (Which is also a good reminder to make all your social medias private, if you have them). Never underestimate a seething scrote trying to get his wiener wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 12:57 PM |
| 21 | My therapy after reading so many shitty stories about LVMThat's so horrible! I'm glad you're here with us now! Thank you for that response, it helped reassure me that I'm doing good. You are sooo right that the advice on those subs are ATROCIOUS. one woman's boyfriend got a sex doll and was preferring sex with it to her, and scrotes in the comments were actually mocking her: "So you're feeling insecure over an inanimate objects? Who's the issue here?" Like, if I was a witch I would cast my BEGONE SCROTE spell and banish him to the shadow realm. That's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 12:30 PM |
| 24 | My therapy after reading so many shitty stories about LVMI say something along the lines of "Hey, I'd like to invite you to [link]. it's a community for women only, supporting and helping eachother identify toxic traits or red flags in current or potential relationships." Then I either send them a link to an FDS post that is most similar to their situation, or I give them my opinion on their situation. I don't use FDS terms though, for example if their SO possibly cheated and told OP "oh you're crazy insecure this is stressing me out". I'd tell them s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 12:27 PM |
| 16 | My therapy after reading so many shitty stories about LVMYes most of the time it's a positive interaction. A few don't respond, but it's mostly good. Thanks, I hope more queens get interested in doing this! I've been wanting to make stickers to put in public too, but I have no idea how to do that. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 12:20 PM |
| 9 | My therapy after reading so many shitty stories about LVMThat would be fun! I know there's already an FDS discord but that takes awhile to get into | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 12:18 PM |
| 19 | Have You Met Stupid People Who Are Praised as Brilliant in the Office? How to Harness This DynamicThis was an interesting read.. Do not worry about other people's perceptions of you, or how you can warp them to your benefit. This sounds highly manipulative. Be confident, successful, and hardworking and the path will show itself to you along the way. Do not worry about what other people are doing in this situation. How people perceive her is not your problem, honestly. Maybe it's annoying that other women don't get the same recognition, just compliment those women yourself and let them know… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:33 PM |
| 113 | A woman asks for advice on her husband's porn addictionI know we read so many articles and posts about this all the time, but it never fails to horrify me. I feel so bad for these women. From the destroyed self-esteem of never being loved or desired by their husbands, to being used as a fleshlight and people just gaslighting these women; "You need to support him" "Don't get angry he never satisfies you! You need to stay in the relationship and suffer!" To the man giving himself erectile dysfunction because he can't stop deathgripping his wiener to t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 02:11 PM |
| 17 | AI Deepfake app allows users to face swap women's faces into porn. There are also one where they can digitally remove your clothes. Lo and behold this kind of thing gained popularity on Reddit and was said to be created here.Men are disgusting and this is horrifying.That's most men. I know sooooo many who refused to go to therapy because "this is just how I am, and if you don't like it then you can find a guy who doesn't do xyz" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:01 PM |
| 32 | If he makes fun of you for going to a community college, he ain’t the one.Lol and if he makes fun of you for even going to college..Throw him away. I had a NVM call me a "try hard" because I worked hard at my job and was in school. Tried to convince me it was a waste of time and he was soo irritated that I thought he was an idiot lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:46 PM |
| 15 | What YOU do wrongI agree with everything but the first one. I wear what I want and regardless what I wear, LVM will fly around. It doesn't matter if you wear your v-neck and jeans or a skirt, it's all about how you carry yourself and your personality. If you seem week mentally, that's all they need. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:41 PM |
| 149 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?Lol scrotes on reddit are the worst for relationship advice. These are just pornsick men who see this as normal/protecting their own kind. In my pickmeisha using bdsm as trauma cope days, my boyfriend refused to slap me. He said that's too far, he doesn't like hurting me..That's normal. Not creepy scrotes wanting to beat the shit out of their gfs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 12:55 PM |
| 460 | FDS is not the place for you if you’re not willing to examine your own attitudes, beliefs and behaviours✅ Also it's okay to take breaks from FDS. I've seen a (small) amount of posters take these values a little bit too far and mix it with their own narcissistic traits. e.g misinterpreting a regular conversation, putting themselves on a pedestal in a snarky and toxic way (value yourself, but don't mock the people around you), having sour grapes towards other women's positive experiences... There's LVM, there's also LVW..None of us are perfect, we are all working to be the best versions of ourselves… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 12:53 PM |
| 24 | Competition Among Women: Myth and RealityDivision = Stagnation, in terms of working towards equality Supporting your sisters is inherently anti-scrote. Scrotes want to see you divided. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 11:07 AM |
| 15 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.I wanna say it is, but some posters are genuinely women. You can sort of tell when it's an undercover man. Someone posted a statistic showing that basically most men are pedophiles, and a lot of commenters argued with OP saying they need to see the study, what was the sample size, etc because this is outrageous. Well a couple commenters posted more details to the study and confirmed what OP posted and...Mods deleted OP's post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 08:57 AM |
| 7 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.👏👏👏👏👏 Very important fix | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 08:55 AM |
| 50 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.💀💀💀 I mean I enjoy going on there still. No place is perfect, and I love all the resources and kind, smart women in there. But sometimes I read a comment and I'm like...where am I again? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 07:24 PM |
| 238 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.Thank you for this post. This is what has been aggravating me about Ovarit specifically lately. It has so many bright, lovely ladies. But it also has a lot of pickmes who think their nigels are a special case, or that they just need to be kind! And explain to men why xyz is bad! This is gonna be rude, but most scrotes think women like this are fucking morons. PLEASE get it through your heads that a "little bit of misogyny in every man is a given" and you "have to settle" is NOT the right way of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 07:04 PM |
| 42 | Can't even shop in peaceI'm very sorry this happened to you! Usually the managers will be standing near the front and overseeing the front area as well if you can't wait for a cashier. There's also business areas if your grocery has one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 06:46 PM |
| 226 | Can't even shop in peaceWhat the fuck. Next time you NEED to go to the cashiers and ask for a manager and let them know a man is stalking and harassing you around the store. This goes for every woman here. You need to report this behaviour!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:27 PM |
| 23 | Ladies how do you feel about mother’s who pick out girlfriends for their sons?Oh lord this is horrible. Your mothers are basically pimping yall out. One time we went to a restaurant, and my mom tried to insinuate that the waiter (likely over 20) was hitting on me (12 years old at the time). These women are broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:36 PM |
| 9 | The Top 10 Professions With the Most PsychopathsEverything about this guy I know makes sense now. Wouldn't call him a psychopath, just repulsive.You know, the gamer that makes rape jokes, forgives manipulative men who hurt women, etc 🤮 Looks lik a greasy murderer too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 12:46 PM |
| 17 | A Man and Sexual Harassment (?), + I'm not crazy right?Oh yeah based on his response he definitely did more than "ask about a tattoo on his weenie". He ain't telling the whole story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 09:25 AM |
| 61 | Don’t be fooled by pickmes who seem to attract a bunch of menGod I know a girl like this 🥴 She uses any excuse to drop potential girl friends. Hanging out with her in a group was unbearable because she's 4"11? and never stopped bringing it up. Constantly saying "teeheeee im soooo small I have to wear kids shoes lol! normal shoes don't fit me uwu" Like I'm short too but girl..Please..Enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 09:23 AM |
| 32 | Dailymail degeneracyUgh I didn't like this becoming an article only because I knew the girl would be dogpiled....silence for the boy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 09:18 PM |
| 70 | Vent: Pick me relatives are absolutely depressing why the hell are you valuing male validation over your sexual and physical health?Stop talking to her. You've given her advice, she won't take it. Bad parents is not an excuse. She needs to hit rock bottom and realize how fucked her line of thinking and life is, then take the steps to fix it herself. No one else can do that for her, not even you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 04:57 PM |
| 37 | When a guys says he is a good listenerThis is so true!! Especially the part about them being active via text, but barely speaking in person. I knew a guy like this and he was boring asf, literally nothing to contribute to the conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 62 | Women growing out their body hair IS an act of bravery in western society, insensitive fucktardMen will gaslight you by telling you "you don't have it worse these women in OTHER countries so stop complaining" to keep you away from making any more progress. Societal pressure to remove all your body hair so you resemble a prepubescent child solely targeted at your gender IS an issue. It's an attack on society and the rising attempt to normalize pedophilia. (No hate, I shave, but I have issues with certain textures and my own body hair rubbing against me is one of them. If you do it for cosm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 09:35 AM |
| 10 | Keep your professional reputation inviolate. Do NOT pursue workplace romances.Same here! It always sounded like cheating to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 09:31 AM |
| 91 | Beyond basic: Examples of HVM doing extraordinary thingsWow! I am so glad you have such a HV partner that puts in not just effort towards you, but towards your loved ones as well! As much as I love to shit on scrotes, lets not be negative assholes. It's very important to always vet our partners no matter what, but it's also okay to relieve some of that negativity and enjoy the positive aspects of a HV relationship. It is okay to gush about a partner going above and beyond. Will he turn out to be a LVM sooner or later? We have no idea and either he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:39 PM |
| 367 | Help I’ve Become Absurdly Hot Since I Got Married and Now I Want to Dump The Only Woman Who Ever Wanted to Fuck Me So I Can Become The Porn Star Of My DreamsLmaooooo why do scrotes always include a "tragic backstory" as if it justifies their bullshit. "i was waised in a vewy stwict weligious household and felt sooo much shame for my body and smex, thats why i SETTLED for my stupid bitch wife and need to divorce her after OVER TWELVE YEARS to have lots of sex! uwu" Amazing how he says HE SETTLED FOR HER, when it sounds like SHE settled for him. I can already tell that no one is actually hitting on him. He's just pornsick and probably misinterpretin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:29 PM |
| 62 | Keep your professional reputation inviolate. Do NOT pursue workplace romances.This post is so important it should be stickied! Also avoid "work husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend" nonsense. That will lead to drama. One of you will eventually want more (usually the guy, who will push your boundaries). Do NOT let them cross physical boundaries by giving you back rubs, hand on the shoulder, etc. Work whatever is essentially lite cheating since there's flirting/taking care of eachother with no physical affection. If a guy says he has a work wife/gf that's a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:08 PM |
| 48 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣To me it sounds like these poly scrotes are pornsick. They want a girl for every scenario (e.g the sexy nurse, the sexy maid, etc) They're seeing these women as another porn video to look for, if that makes sense. Also poly scrotes are always ugly as sin lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 09:51 PM |
| 88 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣She's setting up her kids for a life of toxic relationships. That's fucking selfish. I lose pity when the children get involved in the parent's toxicity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 09:49 PM |
| 4 | [A LOVE LETTER] Thank you all for helping me escape my batterer.I'm so happy you're safe and on your way to success now ❤️ It's such a scary and hard process, so please be proud of yourself! We're glad you're here ❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 04:34 PM |
| 404 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?Now that's a guy that "hit the wall". He was sooo attractive in his 20s and now he looks like some greasy man baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:51 AM |
| 429 | I just found his alphabetized nudes from previous relationships. Mine included.Girl are you aware of how creepy that is? It's bad enough that he saved them, but alphabetically organized?! Delete all the nudes, go into the trash/google photos/files and make sure those are deleted as well. He is harvesting your bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:00 AM |
| 17 | Reminder: Men will lie about anything, including their sexuality!It seems basically like "Be wary of men, and more men = more risk." I've heard another reasoning being that straight men are already largely unfaithful, being bi just widens the pool for said man. But I can see that erring on the biphobia side because an unfaithful man will still be unfaithful, regardless of sexuality or who he can get his hands on. Anyways! I see your point. Thanks for the clarification. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 10:43 PM |
| 31 | Reminder: Men will lie about anything, including their sexuality!Oh yeah. One of the guys he did "questionable things" with worked with us as well and would regular touch his ass and flirt with him. But I wouldn't call him bi, I don't think he had a genuine attraction to anyone in general. He just saw people as something to use for whatever he needed. I see that a lot though, women refusing to date bi men. Why is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 08:53 PM |
| 100 | Reminder: Men will lie about anything, including their sexuality!Ugh I understand..One of the ZVM that was going after me did gay for pay. Luckily I had decent coworkers that actually pulled me aside and said they saw two (known) gay men leave his place. You'd think, oh that doesn't mean anything. Until he told me that he "Did questionable things for money at one point" and he will "never tell a soul" what he did. He didn't know I knew. He wouldn't be pressed for cash if he didn't blow it all on alcohol and video games. What an absolute degenerate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 9 | For women of color/ minorities, be extra careful of fetishization or familial racismSame here! It just boils down to deflection. "She doesn't want me because women prefer [exact opposite trait complainer has]". It allows zero self reflection and puts the blame on women instead of men actually "going their own way" and improving themselves. Same here... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:08 PM |
| 2 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?That's something I'm still struggling with :(. I have made the occasional female friend, but we either drop off because we just don't have similar interests or vibe well enough. Or they use me for something then bounce (I just had 2 female "friends" like that I recently cut off). I do feel bad about it sometimes, but ladies on here say that dating is just like finding friendships. You have to vet and deal with a lot of trial and error which makes me feel a bit better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 04:08 PM |
| 19 | For women of color/ minorities, be extra careful of fetishization or familial racismI used to browse 4chan when I was younger (Yeah I know, miss younger pickmeisha self felt so edgy..I appreciate the perspective it gave me on male degeneracy though) and would see non-white men develop this bizarre insecurity complex over not being white and would divulge in racist, alt-right propaganda. It was a running joke that a certain extremely racist, white supremacist board actually had little to no white posters. It was bamboozling. That pretty much sums it up...A skinhead and a minorit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 04:05 PM |
| 12 | Powertools aren't hard to use. Full on Elle Woods-ed a person today.Men love to brag about how they know how to fix cars and shit, but I was legitimately not allowed to learn how to change my oil or ANYTHING because "ladies don't learn about that stuff, it's for men and dykes." (word for word, from my family). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:50 PM |
| 21 | I'm ready to make the bald lurkers cry.I'm so tempted to make a burner and link a tiktok vid to FDS now lmfao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:48 PM |
| 2 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?It's always the most stank men that pull the most shit. It's okay sis, I used to be a very lonely introverted girl who only knew home too. Don't be too hard on yourself, be hard on the scrotes that knew more than us and took that as an opportunity to hurt us. The scrotes I attracted were absolutely repulsive as well, jesus christ! One was some white, balding dude who never clipped his yellow toenails or any body hair..Barely showered, small dick, mental illnesses that he refused to get help for.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:46 PM |
| 24 | For women of color/ minorities, be extra careful of fetishization or familial racismYou know what's weird about that last part? White men think they're the biggest victims on earth because they don't get to disrespect minorities and women..But I've seen this behaviour from non-white men as well, particularly towards black people. They are so irritated that the media is "pandering" to black people now AKA non-white people are finally getting representation and their own unique experiences shown. Yet the reaction towards it is similar to a white man crying because he saw a minori… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:45 PM |
| 144 | "All ages considered!"Who doesn't want to be financially abused and groomed by a geriatric scrote who thinks he's hot enough to snag a barely legal or underaged girl to keep chained in his shithole- I mean mansion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:32 PM |
| 47 | I'm ready to make the bald lurkers cry.Haha I always see scrotes crying about women being picky over height. I honestly want to see some seethe over balding. I would never date a bald or balding man, I straight up told my partner if he was going bald I'd break up with him. I don't care how long we've been together, balding men does nothing for my pussy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:14 PM |
| 50 | For women of color/ minorities, be extra careful of fetishization or familial racismFacts. If he won't call them out, he's enabling them. Silence is violence. I know for a fact my family would make racist jokes at my bf's expense and that's one of many reasons why they are not in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:34 AM |
| 134 | For women of color/ minorities, be extra careful of fetishization or familial racismWhite men have such a massive victim complex it's exhausting. I don't blame you at all for this. Every man needs to be vetted for racism, but white men are especially bad with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:33 AM |
| 21 | My brother is becoming more and more low value and I'm so disappointedUnfortunately there is nothing you can do. If you want, you can support your sister in law. Call him out on his bullshit whenever you're over, let her know that his behaviour is not okay and she deserves better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:30 AM |
| 191 | short women. be extra careful about men's "pReFeReNcEs" for your body type.Lmao @ how defensive he got over fetishizing how "weak" your friend is. LVM love whatever can let them easily assert dominance. Creepy how the only thing nice he can say about her height is related to exerting power over her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 05:48 PM |
| 17 | Cops don't give a shit about our safety. Full evidence and these clowns say there's "not enough information".Being rich doesn't save women from male oppression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:45 PM |
| 62 | Porn use literally damages your dopamine reward systemI'm kind of curious, does this affect women the same way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:43 PM |
| 138 | ‘Sex isn’t difficult any more’: the men who are quitting watching pornI have a feeling men won't give a shit about that aspect. They already know the women are being abused. But as soon as it personally affects them, then it's an issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | The “pleasures” of male “friends”…It's just a waiting game for them. Doesn't matter it it's 2 months or 2+ years. What a loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 87 | Cops don't give a shit about our safety. Full evidence and these clowns say there's "not enough information".The only people cops care about are rich white men 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 07:59 PM |
| 3 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Even looking back on it it makes me feel so disgusting. That all sounds soo exhausting, but no shame to you. Society really pressures us to date shitty men or "give them a chaaaaance!" I didn't want to date my first boyfriend, but he got his crew to pellet me with "you should date him! he's such a nice guy!" "he's so great, date him!" Yeah that relationship was irritating, but I'm glad it was so short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 11:02 PM |
| 113 | Anyone else thinks advices from tradwives are terribleThey are out of their mind when they say society doesn't value feminity. I still get called a lesbian because I don't perform feminity all the time. Anyways tradwives and pickmes are two sides of the same coin. Massively insecure women trying to feel unique to fill the low self esteem void. No disrespect, we were all there once. That's just what it is. You shouldn't bother listening to any of their advice, it's not worth our time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:28 PM |
| 75 | Guys Always Seem to Think I’m So in Love with Them I Won’t Cut Ties, Even When I Hated ThemFor real! these weren't average 6/10 guys either, they were bottom of the barrel. Ugly on the inside and out with absolutely no redeeming qualities. It started affecting my self esteem actually? Like what's wrong with me that ZVM are flocking towards me? You are probably right, but part of me thinks it's mostly their whack ass ego. One guy that was attracted to me had 0 life skills, can't cook, can't clean, can't hold down a job, malnourished, insecure, narcissistic. Like, why? Get away from me.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:45 PM |
| 166 | When you are not attracted to a potential HVM... SighIt happens, girl. We're only human. He may be a HVM, but not the HVM for you. Physical attraction is very important in a relationship. Atleast you got some real life experience on what to expect from a man, now to find one that does it all and is attractive to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:34 PM |
| 313 | Guys Always Seem to Think I’m So in Love with Them I Won’t Cut Ties, Even When I Hated ThemLol this Not to be a dickhead, I'm not a model, but some of the guys that thought I'd be interested in them has got me feeling insulted. Like I'm in shape, in school, have a full time job, 401k, etc. Why is some malnourished, alien looking drop out hitting on me? Why is some 5"2 unemployed goblin who dropped out asking me out? Men overestimate themselves to the extreme, it's offensive at times lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:31 PM |
| 23 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.Yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:23 PM |
| 8 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Holy hell I am so fucking sorry you lived through that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 09:28 AM |
| 11 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?It's kind of hard to explain. In my experience (and some other ladies) psychopaths, narcissists, etc have this "stare". It's not like a creep stare where a guy is undressing you with his eyes. It's more like a "I'm watching you. You are my prey. I am analyzing your every reaction to figure out how to manipulate you next." To me that is a narc stare. There's other stares that can probably be mixed in with it. Personally my sister was abusive (untreated bipolar disorder and some degree of sociopat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:19 AM |
| 96 | Some 'men' chime in on who should pay...Lol men only care about gender equality when it benefits them and their wallet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Other Women distancing Themselves from Single WomenEeeugh. I used to try to invite my HVbf when I went to hang with this girl. He had the sense to politely decline every time though. That's a huge bummer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:26 AM |
| 3 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Lmfaooo this made me smile 😂 They never expect it too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:22 AM |
| 43 | What makes YOU so amazing??!What a sweet thread and a break from my own negativity lol! I never think about all the good I'm doing now, just what I COULD be doing. I am strong, hardworking. I come from an abusive childhood, kicked out by both parents, severe neglect, etc. Despite it all I'm getting my degree, have a job I enjoy, making connections for a future internship, etc..My father said I would be a loser bitch and I'm proving them all wrong by leading a happy, educated life and treating my loved ones good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:21 AM |
| 65 | Guy takes his girlfriend out to a fancy place to celebrate their anniversary. Films her while she's enjoying her meal to test and see if she'll pay at the end without any drama.(spoiler- she's a classy lady, and this could possibly be their last anniversary🤣)Hold on for a sec. What the fuck was that mac and cheese? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:15 AM |
| 108 | I must eat my words, he is not a HVM now that I see clearlyHe sounds like a grade A piece of shit. Man can't even do the bare minimum of picking up his socks and washing his stinky ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:12 AM |
| 175 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.Wasn't Mulaney supposed to be a good noodle? It seems every single male celebrity is shit. Even Bob Ross is a shithead, he cheated on his wives multiple times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?I'm sorry you went through that. Congratulations on the self-improvement and healing! It's definitely not easy. I've never heard of that sub before, it must be a cesspool of LVM?? Now I'm imagining some reddit dating app..Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:02 AM |
| 12 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?I hope you didn't take that as questioning your judgement, I was just at disbelief at how disgusting he is. I definitely understand you with being considered easy prey, and the lovebombing and gaslighting bit, it's so insidious. Learning to prioritize our gut feeling is the most important thing a woman can do for herself Crazy that this is not the only comment that has a scrote who wanted to pass on a sexual disease...Did not know it was that common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:59 PM |
| 9 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Bless the girlfriend that is about to be met with a broken dick alcoholic gamer scrote. Seriously streamers are a different breed of LV. I'm glad your bf is open to improvement! Good luck to you both : ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:54 PM |
| 5 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?It's okay girl we have all done things for a scrote that we're ashamed of. You are not lesser for going above and beyond, even if it was for someone that didn't deserve it. Congrats on learning to set firm boundaries! That is a VERY important skill, I know this now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 16 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?LMAOOOOOO A LITTLE GREMLIN? What do you think would happen if you fed him after midnight lmfao Eww the second scrote sounds absolutely repulsive. Worse than mister Gremlin. Patchy beard, stank, and a broken dick? You should revel in the fact that you will never be as repulsive as that scrote. He'll probably be like that forever while you can only go up from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:47 PM |
| 19 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?I hope his momma is okay, good lord. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 11 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?I will never get over how creepy it is that men still willingly date/stay married to women they admit they HATE or have contempt for. They're little freaks god damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:43 PM |
| 8 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Lord smite the man that lets his woman walk through snow. The emotional labor is REAL. It was such a game changer realizing that I don't have to be in a relationship with a man for him to use me as emotional labor, even fucking male friends will expect it! The audacity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:42 PM |
| 11 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Men who say women can't love are projecting and liars. We do the most for so long for the ugliest bumfuck scrotes (well, not anymore. Thanks FDS!) Whenever you are comfortable and feel 100% queen. Not 99.9999%, but 100%. It might not happen in a year or two, or more. But all that matters is in the end is that you're happy and healthy! Good luck on your journey! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:39 PM |
| 8 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?That's so obsessive and just wow! What losers. You're right, he had the narc stare, but my friends told me "Oh he just stares because he's so in love with you." I knew it was that creepy narc stare, but I brushed off that gut feeling. Oof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:35 PM |
| 50 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Punched a wall?? Because he was "so happy"?? He wanted you to have HIV???????? Que?? He sounds absolutely psychotic. That's terrifying. I'm so so glad he's out of your life, though I'm sorry you had to go through that in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:34 PM |
| 17 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?I'm so sorry you went through all of that. Good on you for working hard in therapy and the journey to self love and healing. Narcissists are terrifying, evil creatures. My father is a sociopathic narcissist and he would hit up my email every once in awhile after his wives would divorce him looking for entertainment. Blocked his email. They will never apologize or see the error of their ways, they're not worth our time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:31 PM |
| 17 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Wtf who could spew so much hatred towards a baby? That man is sick in the head. What he did to you is horrible, no one deserves that. Good on you for working to create a peaceful, healthy life to not only you, but your baby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:28 PM |
| 11 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?You can say that again. That's why I'm not nice to men no more LMAOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:27 PM |
| 11 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?I love love love the self improvement!! So happy for you, you put in all that work and now you're the happiest you've ever been! We love to see it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:26 PM |
| 20 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Fuck em, they're forever scrotes and you're forever improving and becoming the best version of yourself you can be. I think you won in the end. Also what's with all the rich assholes making their broke women suffer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:25 PM |
| 27 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Oof. That last part stuck out like thorns. If it helps, I once gifted my ex (was completely broke, didn't have a job at that time) some of my old somewhat rare games. He later dumped me because he "didn't feel like we were dating" e.g I wasn't "girlfriend"-y enough despite it being my first relationship. Yeah I actually cried over him..He had a girl best friend.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:24 PM |
| 7 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Ugh he sounds insufferable! Glad the trash took itself out in the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:21 PM |
| 16 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Ugh the things they'd say, knowing it gave you that gut feeling of "This isn't right", but you ignored it or wasn't sure what to say. I had another LVM friend who admitted he was a narcissist and put his girlfriend through what was basically emotional abuse, but he still said she hurt him. He later broke some serious boundaries by hugging/touching me when I didn't want to be and wouldn't take no for an answer. Atleast we're not alone, girl! It's a teaching moment ♥ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:17 PM |
| 17 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Hold up a book??! I am always ready at the opportunity to support a queen! Let us know when it drops! Oh yes, I was very embarrassed while typing this. Even though it's FDS, I was afraid someone would blame me or shame me. Wow that sounds horrible what you've gone through! But you are not alone, and it was never your fault. We definitely relate to your pain and fuck society for refusing to see the pain LVM put us through. I'm excited for your book ♥ ♥ ♥ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:15 PM |
| 5 | Evidence A: Don’t spare these fools any sympathy or play Bob the Builder and take chances on a cheater! They will always throw it back in your face. These men will use you as a stepping stone whilst broke & promise you the world only to cheat on you with younger women when they hit bigMoney makes the world go 'round. In every day life from politics to the store you shop at to your relationships..People think the woman should stay with a man because even though he's a piece of shit, he has money. I hope this woman finds a good therapist and a better support system. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 09:47 AM |
| 62 | Cry me a riverMen do this all the time, and it's annoying. They have a term for it, "oneitis". It's The One + itis (like some sort of disease, because it is). Not specifically for some random highschool girl they glanced at 10+ years ago and played make believe in their head, but for any girl they obsessive over and deem "The one" despite not making a move at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 09:09 AM |
| 16 | Other Women distancing Themselves from Single WomenI've never heard of this phenomena..Personally I don't care if a girl friend has a man or not. I absolutely cannot stand double dates. I'm here to spend time with YOU, not your man and vice versa. That's weird as hell imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 08:58 PM |
| 59 | My first experience with a phone screen, FDS-style.Ahh sounds like he was pretty LV, calling himself boring so you do all the work in the conversation. That shit is annoying. If you are boring then do something to make yourself interesting, but LVM don't know about fun, fulfilling hobbies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:20 AM |
| 41 | Thoughts on TexasIt sucks. I really want to move out of this state. Some women are talking about a sex strike, but that's a small population of feminists and I don't know if it's enough to actually kick off. There are some prolifers for various reasons they have, none to justify it of course. Don't know if that'll work. There must be a lot fewer abortion providers who are scared to even try due to that snitching website (that's now being kicked off of it's domain and the form to submit is apparently down), and o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:16 AM |
| 184 | My mother’s analogy on BDSMDamn, your mom sounds like a wicked smart lady. I'm sorry that happened to you though, I hope you're doing a lot better now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:12 AM |
| 64 | I finally left.This is probably one of the worst things I've read on this subreddit, due to the sexual assault and abuse he inflicted on you. The "I want it to hurt" bit was especially disgusting. Please understand it's not your fault. Do not undermine yourself when you speak about your "naivety". Is it naivety or the expectation to be treated like a decent human being? The absolute bare minimum? You are not stupid, and feeling ashamed is normal. We are all ashamed of tolerating blatant abuse to an extent, but… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:32 AM |
| 23 | Ladies, we need to talk about this...Good point, all she talked about was babies and toddlers..Man she was obsessed..Wrote poems about having a baby, pursuing a higher education in something solely for children (not teaching), got a part time job as a daycare worker..I could barely talk to her without her butting in with her baby fever. She does have a ton of dogs haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:14 AM |
| 19 | UK scrotes are angry. I highly urge everyone on this sub to go watch Reggie Yates' documentary on the explosion of the redpill movement in the UK on YouTube called 'Anti feminist movement, men at war' *****TW Sensitive/upsetting topics are discussed in this documentaryWow I did not know this! Forgive my ignorance! Is Canada still safe though? 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 12:11 AM |
| 61 | UK scrotes are angry. I highly urge everyone on this sub to go watch Reggie Yates' documentary on the explosion of the redpill movement in the UK on YouTube called 'Anti feminist movement, men at war' *****TW Sensitive/upsetting topics are discussed in this documentaryGoodness, why? And they're not even attractive! I've seen pictures of your men and they really ain't it...When Tom Hiddleston is in costume for Loki he looks cute, but beyond that...Not a lip in sight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:21 PM |
| 57 | They aren’t even hiding the fact that they want to be babied into adulthood. 🚩MOMMY ISSUES🚩Talk about Oedipus Complex...Lmao one straight up called me a MILF. I have no kids. Everyone experiences their 20s differently. You're still getting your shit together so I wouldn't be too hard on yourself. Plus like you said you avoided loser guys lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:19 PM |
| 140 | Ah, the classic “Passive Reciprocation”My (LV) coworker literally told me that he views women proposing to their men as "embarrassing" and he would "not take them seriously." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:14 PM |
| 57 | UK scrotes are angry. I highly urge everyone on this sub to go watch Reggie Yates' documentary on the explosion of the redpill movement in the UK on YouTube called 'Anti feminist movement, men at war' *****TW Sensitive/upsetting topics are discussed in this documentaryNo, but that sounds absolutely horrifying. UK ladies should just move to Canada or the US already. I'm reading so many horror stories from the UK, lord! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 246 | FDS, why is it that men are such psychos about women having standards and boundaries? Our super fans in particular are just nuts.I wouldn't stress yourself out trying to figure out the male mind. It's very basic It all sums up to Narcissism Not seeing women as humans They know we have valid reasons, they just don't care. They want what they want. It's hard for a lot of women to understand this, because we're naturally or groomed by society to have empathy and respect. You expect that from LVM and then scratch your heads as to why they don't return what is basic human decency. LVM are just subhuman narcs. In a world that b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:11 PM |
| 159 | They aren’t even hiding the fact that they want to be babied into adulthood. 🚩MOMMY ISSUES🚩Tf 🤢 I'm considered the "mom friend" in the group and that energy is a MAGNET for scrotes who want you to cook, play therapy, and basically solve all their problems because they don't want to face adulthood. Like sorry scrotey, you're not 8 years old playing sega while mommy warms up your chicken nuggets anymore..Grow up. This shit is sooooo unattractive and creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 10:07 PM |
| 76 | Scrote tried justifying sex work to me on Reddit.Next time don't bother arguing with men on reddit, they don't care to listen to actual women; only what makes their wiener hard/benefits them. Majority of men on reddit are NVM and not worth anyone's time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:41 PM |
| 6 | I found out what I want to do in life and you can tooHello fellow comp sci queen! What keeps me going is our presence makes women like us more comfortable. If we quit only because it's a male dominated field, we're only hurting other women who are too nervous to jump in. You got this 💪 Let's make computer science female dominated again girl!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 07:05 PM |
| 11 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.Very true. It's so horrid that so many called you a slur you had to write off the whole race, wtf is it that common?! Personally I've been raised by a racist white family who felt very comfortable throwing around slurs and telling me not to racemix. It's creepy and objectifying. I can't get the hots for them knowing what they're comfortable saying around another white person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 06:59 PM |
| 106 | Ladies, we need to talk about this...This is true. I know a woman who is strictly pro life because she projects her own desires for children onto all other women. It's honestly obnoxious, I want kids too, but this lady is obsessed. Like, calm down. Anyways..Sickening that there is not even an exception to rape and incest. I wish we were as wild and angry as Mexico's feminists who literally set fire to a police building.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:30 PM |
| 34 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.I need to remind myself this. I believe white men are way more likely to be LV, but I have to remember all men regardless of race fall from the same misogyny tree. 🤕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:27 PM |
| 31 | I’m really curious to know..Don't give any man a piece of your time at all. They don't care about you and you'll feel disgusting afterwards. Especially older men. Trust your gut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:20 PM |
| 45 | I love you FDS!!I'm so glad you're free now ❤️ I hope you cut off those other people too (seriously? your fault HE CHEATED AND ABUSED YOU?) Those people aren't worth your time either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:19 PM |
| 28 | True Crime DiscussionI'm convinced places that make it illegal to carry even pepper spray are anti woman. This law only hurts vulnerable women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 6 | What to do when you see a Pickmeisha receiving terrible advice on other dating subsI didn't know you could invite people to subs, usually I DM them or chat with them. Thanks! In excited to save some ladies now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 01:22 PM |
| 109 | What did I just read? Glad she kind of wised up, sad she did it way too late. A forever girlfriend with his baby, self admitted mommy #2, he's an "entrepreneur". Basically a walking pickme & NVM stereotype all in one post.Lord give her the strength to ruin his life as he did hers, and for her to find the way to FDS so she can fully realize how fucked up this situation is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:30 AM |
| 32 | What did I just read? Glad she kind of wised up, sad she did it way too late. A forever girlfriend with his baby, self admitted mommy #2, he's an "entrepreneur". Basically a walking pickme & NVM stereotype all in one post.Kind words but this isn't me! lol I found this post via popular page on reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Dating a man who's never been in a relationship- and the awkwardness that ensues. I need perspectiveYeah I get what you mean. My boyfriend was 19 when we met, and I'm his first relationship. I had a "boyfriend" in HS, but you know how highschool dating is. You hold hand for 3 months then suddenly break up, so I guess he's my first too. It all depends on you, and what you want from a relationship. If you're not "keen" on teaching him or guiding him in the right direction and would prefer a man who has some vague idea of what you probably want already, then he might not be for you. Personally … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 10:54 PM |
| 12 | Times you need confort are good for vetting...Making YOUR PAIN about THEM is also a red flag. "Oh I wish I was there to take care of you </3", "I feel so bad you're in so much pain I just wanna hold you", "Seeing you hurt makes me feel so badddd." I'm sorry about your loss as well. Fuck COVID and all the irresponsible douches that don't vax or wear masks. I almost lost my five year old nephew because of it. Take care of yourself and take things slow, queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 02:26 PM |
| 45 | Letting men off the hookOh yeah it was a huge mess. Ethan (the guy) groomed Alice when she was 15 (he was 25) and was emotionally/physically/sexually abusive towards her, and multiple other girls when they were 15/16. Alice left the band and came out with her story, the fans were split into those who supported her and her new solo career, those who thought she was lying to kickstart her solo career. Ethan made multiple fake aliases to manipulate fans into hating her, was secretly a mod of the subreddit/discord, and all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 11:53 PM |
| 66 | Letting men off the hookWoooo I hate this shit too. Any crystal castles fans know what happened, but despite multiple women saying the dude groomed, raped, and abused them in multiple ways speaking up...He still has rabid fanboys begging for a new album. The guy himself said he thinks the fans are idiots and cashcows, and for the ones begging him back, he isn't wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:49 PM |
| 84 | FDS Going Private For Monthly Cleanup - Sept 1st and 2ndWhatever helps! I cannot imagine how fucking stuffed y'all's inboxes are from complaints, requests, and especially hate mail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:09 PM |
| 125 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.That's the most fakest, over the top pretentious bullshit I've ever read. God, I can't roll my eyes any harder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:00 PM |
| 22 | Protect yourselves against vengeful and bitter lurkersBe careful of what subreddits you browse on your FDS account as well. There's an option where the subreddits you browse don't show up on your profile. If it does, scrotes can figure out where you live if you look at your city or state's subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:29 AM |
| 424 | I’m glad that pick me’s are getting called out on just how crazy they soundAnd for what? A guy that can't cook or clean or make you cum. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:22 AM |
| 2 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesI told one I'd have to start charging him and he fucked off 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesYeah I'm such a pickmeisha that's why I post here and have zero male friends and refuse to have them and denounce men so much in my posts. Try again sweetheart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:17 AM |
| 23 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesTf are they gonna do? Have a heart attack mid way? Old crusty ass scrotes think they're 25 still | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:58 PM |
| 13 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their lives😂😂😂😂😂 You're amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:57 PM |
| 38 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesEh it's a lose-lose situation. Give them attention, they wanna fuck you. Ignore them and establish boundaries, they wanna hate-fuck you. 🤕 Some shit, huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 50 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their lives"I'm faster than them" 💀💀💀 I'm just imagining out of breath geriatric scrotes LMAO Seriously, old dudes fucking love negging. An old supervisor at my job got so giddy after he found out I have a knife on me. Can some incredibly smart and amazing queen explain why old men love it when you disrespect them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:42 PM |
| 49 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesI honestly believe if so many men weren't homophobic or had internalized homophobia, violence against women would drop a tad bit. Not a lot, but still a noticeable amount. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:26 PM |
| 130 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesThey don't love their wives, do they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:25 PM |
| 72 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesYeah I don't hide any disgust or differing opinions, I grey rock (except with that one dolt that wanted my opinion on his wife and the dinner issue. He said he wanted to know how a "normal person" would react to her. Tf) The shitty thing is I've done this at other work places and guys will still catch feelings because they like how 'fiesty' you are. It's a genuine lose lose situation and all I can do is keep logs of what they've said to me just in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:00 PM |
| 136 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesThat was emotionally exhausting to read, I don't even want to think about actually experiencing it in real life. Glad you managed to shoo him off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:58 PM |
| 67 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their lives👍 Already doing that, thank you though. There's only one guy that sets alarms in my head, the others aren't triggering those alarms. They're more like random flies that buzz around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:56 PM |
| 59 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesHaha I definitely don't hide my disgust, yet they still come back. I've been grey rocking, there's this one guy that doesn't let up though and my gut is giving me warning signs. I'm just keeping a log of everything just in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:55 PM |
| 4 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 25 - Age Gaps & Old Man Peen + Old Scrote Hits NVM BingoThis was an enjoyable podcast to listen to. It gave me flashbacks to getting groomed constantly as a teenager in an abusive, neglectful home. Worst one was a 28 y/o who was unemployed, lived with his mom. I didn't know how to break up with someone so I just lied and said I cheated, he got pissed and said "I put my other relationship on hold for YOU!" I had no idea what was normal or healthy, he spoke to this woman about dating me and she gave her "permission". Actually I'm not sure if it was a w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:40 AM |
| 260 | Twitter finds an FDS post and scrotes are madWelcome!! Lol that's amusing she's the psychopath because she doesn't want to go through the emotional turmoil of a self admitted unstable man. Shame on that poster for not being miss mommy therapist! If pickmes want to go through that hell then more power to them I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:16 AM |
| 6 | Future Vetting Strategy: A man's willingness to fly/do any form of travel beyond road trips.If it wasn't this, it'd probably be something else then. Lol the woman I know is doing that exact thing. He refused to get vaxxed and she's pissed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 08:38 AM |
| 56 | Future Vetting Strategy: A man's willingness to fly/do any form of travel beyond road trips.This just made me think of a new vetting strategy: Ask his opinions about the vaccine and mask mandates. Most of the outbursts and violent reactions have been from men. Most refusing the vaccine are uneducated, egotistical men. I've had a shocking amount? of LVM at my work proudly boast about how they told someone at IKEA or whatever to "fuck off" when asked to put on a mask. L/ZVM will believe in that conspiracy bullshit over bill gate's chip/gubbament controlling their bodies (Lmao how does it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:56 AM |
| 300 | I caught my husband watching porn and kicked him outWow congratulations! You're working, in school..Did all the cleaning, cooking, remembering all appointments and social duties, all while getting bad dick..Yeah that nostalgia will dry up faster than a drop of water on the pavement on a hot summer day. Once you live alone you will truly, truly realize how much you were doing and how much a LVM stressed you out. Congratulations to new beginnings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 15 | Aileen Wuornos is often compared to Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer in terms of the heinous nature of their crimes. That’s because of cultural misogyny, victim-blaming, and legitimate hatred of women.Aileen did nothing wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 93 | I want to burn my eyes 🧍🏽♀️Uhhh yeahhhhh not the most stable job out there, and a tad embarrassing. "Oh what does your boyfriend do for a living?" "He makes animated porn" 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:54 PM |
| 8 | stay woke ladies🙁 I truly don't understand these girls when it's that blatant. The guy you described is literally screaming "It's me! I am the human embodiment of a red flag!" and she still jumped in there. It's sad, sucks. But it is what it is. edit: Forgot to mention the low self esteem one also ghosted me whenever she got a new LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 22 | stay woke ladiesI tried bringing 2 of my ex girl friends to FDS, but unfortunately they were too deep in the pickme mindset. One watched porn for ideas, called FDS cruel and was offended over us being antiporn. Yeah she's with an ugly chubby scrote who always picks his buddies over her, and he has a small wiener to which she admits it does nothing for her, but she "loves him". The other has such low self esteem, she pity dates any scrote that gives her attention no matter how little effort they put. I chose to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:31 PM |
| 47 | ‘Guy friends’: the real evil men?All guy friends are are manipulative predators waiting for their chance to strike. In my experience guy friends have assaulted me, tried to create doubt in my relationship so they can sneak their way in, etc. Any woman or girl who insists their sPeCiAl guy friend is totally different and not like THOSE guys! is only kidding herself. If he can get away with it, he will do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:15 PM |
| 49 | First date: let’s watch a movie on discord!It's insane that your life is like this because men cannot treat women like humans. I am very sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:12 PM |
| 6 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?I don't know. It's exciting, but also scary. We will be seeing a spike in violence. My boyfriend and I debate whether or not we still want children in the future. We would love to be parents, but we don't think it's fair to bring children into this kind of world. Not to mention, everything else happening. Climate change, capitalism, terrorism, declining birth rate, etc. Everything is slowly dying. Everything happening now has been years in the making, and we are just now beginning to see the c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:34 PM |
| 210 | Wife Introduces Serial Cheating Husband to FearThe power in that statement is so hardcore and admirable. I feel bad for her, but I'm excited for her new beginnings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 05:53 PM |
| 45 | Watch how LVM react to you caring for childrenYes 100% You see this issue with LVM all the time. It's ok to not want to date a single parent, but look at WHY they think that. If they don't want to with the reason being "You'll never be her top priority, only her child/ren will be" then run for the fucking hills because he's a narcissist. OF COURSE a mother is going to priortize her CHILD over some random dick. It's her fucking child, flesh and blood birthed from her body. But men think they're so important, that their comfort and needs are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:25 PM |
| 8 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.They don't wanna pay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:40 PM |
| 68 | So close...Yes!! I think of that quote every day, because you see examples of it every single day. Everywhere you go. It's always a woman's fault, even when she isn't there. They find a woman to blame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:24 PM |
| 598 | So close...God the intense backtracking to baby man children on reddit, "No no no sweetie you're still the ultimate victim I swear!! Evil women and feminists are behind it all!! Hold on while mommy warms up your bottle!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:48 PM |
| 22 | Why do some men still pretend they don't know the difference between mutual interest and creepy stalking?The difference to me atleast is you already established contact with the guy, and are actively talking vs you two never speaking, a guy getting your contact info from someone else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:46 PM |
| 166 | Why do some men still pretend they don't know the difference between mutual interest and creepy stalking?Even if I'm attracted to the guy I would NOT like any of that. And I would not like the person who gave out my info to someone they don't even know if I like or not. If you're incapable of walking up to me and striking a conversation or simply asking for my number, then don't try. Don't sneak around people, digging for my information. That's fucking creepy. Be an adult and use your big words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:39 PM |
| 472 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.Whew I love your strength! You said it perfectly. Although I'm not sure if a guy would ever actually listen and work on himself, or just project that rage onto another woman. I'm glad you shut him down quick. Not only is it childish, it's unfair to bring that mess into a new relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 01:23 PM |
| 60 | How to tell that he’s pornsickThank you for this post, I found it very interesting! Is there a way to identify a pornsick man in every day life? Some queens mentioned the dead inside/porn sick stare where a scrote is looking at you as if he's undressing you. I can't see the difference with this and the narcissistic stare (maybe there is no difference? Two apples on the same branch?) It was fun to compare that list to my boyfriend who doesn't watch porn at all. He used to when he was 14, then "grew out of it" (his words). H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 12:51 PM |
| 38 | I came back to Reddit just to post this meme I mentioned in this week's FDS Podcast. Enjoy 😊Ummm hold on. This is the 40 year old that said he was in his prime? When the podcast was talking about him I don't know why I expected...more? No 20 year old woman would touch him with a 20ft pole..Speaking as a 22 year old woman. 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 12:25 PM |
| 59 | It's not him being turned off, it's mecomplicated words? LMFAOOOOOO What is he? A fucking idiot? Poor widdle man cannot comprehend big words, it makes his brain hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:02 PM |
| 54 | Remember ladies, any man who makes being liberal or a feminist part of his dating persona is a wolf in sheep’s clothing👏👏👏👏👏 Silence = enabling the behaviour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 03:13 PM |
| 147 | Remember ladies, any man who makes being liberal or a feminist part of his dating persona is a wolf in sheep’s clothing100% and to bounce off of another comment you made; they NEVER "educate" their male peers, they only brag to women about how Totally Feminist and Sex Posi! they are. When's the last time you heard a "male feminist" educate his male friend over the harmless effects of porn it has on WOMEN (and not his broken pp) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 02:50 PM |
| 330 | Remember ladies, any man who makes being liberal or a feminist part of his dating persona is a wolf in sheep’s clothingYes! Men cannot be feminists, only allies. When men "become" feminists, we get "feminism" that only serves their best interests. (Pro sex work, pro pornography, pro 50/50 even though they make more than us) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 02:25 PM |
| 245 | Research proves men are not the heroes they claim!Holy fuck...When the MUGGER, the one breaking the law, is a morally better human being than your own family... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:42 AM |
| 74 | Some guy asked for my number while I was walking my dog at the park today and his first date suggestion was: "we should walk our dogs together."Men are so annoying and pathetic. Infiltrating other spaces just for a chance of a crumb of pussy. Some lift not even for themselves, but just to get women's attention. It's like scrotes have no personality beyond "hrrrr get pp wet" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 08:34 AM |
| 24 | Had a HVM and lost him☹️Call around places and ask if they offer therapy from interns for a free or reduced cost. That's what I'm doing (I almost lost my HVM because of my own unresolved trauma) Take care of yourself and work hard to be the best version of yourself you can be. Good luck sister, it'll be a journey but we're here for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 91 | Texas has an anonymous tip line for reporting abortions.What in the absolute misogyny is this shit? Bogus crap sent. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 39 | How are you all coping with the world?Yeah I also think it feels like we're regressing, and I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little scared. I just try to surround myself with like-minded individuals, I don't befriend men or give them an ounce of my time beyond formalities anymore. I keep myself armed, and don't usually travel without my boyfriend. Not on purpose, it's just we like to go everywhere together. The times I do go on my own I get harassed though. Taking breaks from news and other feminist sources is also important, else … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:14 PM |
| 297 | He still keeps sex vids of him and his ex but going through his phone is the bigger violation of trust... 🤡Lol this is some clownery. A lot of guys do this, and lie about deleting your nudes. The only body a man should enjoy is his current partner, he doesn't need mEmOrIeS of his ex's titties. That's sus and creepy he has a little collection. 🤢 Don't buy the "I forgottt it was there babe" excuse either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:45 PM |
| 28 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!That's insane how desperate they are to harass women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:44 PM |
| 40 | An empowered class of people does not have to beg and scramble to maintain control of their means of survival like this.Unbelievable that there are young women out there thinking that selling your pussy for the price of a happy meal while being relentlessly degraded and disrespected by men is empowering. These girls need to see who exactly benefits from this pro trafficking nonsense, and it's not them. Not the prostitutes being raped, not the children or immigrant women being smuggled and abused. Peak internalized misogyny. Maybe it's easier to hide behind libfem ideals instead of facing the grim reality of a wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 37 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!Yeah we need throwaway accounts because Scroties follow the usual Male Violence Pattern and send us rape and death threats. It's an unsafe idea to have our personals connected to FDS ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:42 PM |
| 8 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itThank you! I never watched that She-ra reboot, but I appreciate the character designs not being over sexualized at all. The fan base scared me away from SU though 😅 Usually they're great! But I have no idea why they would shut someone down when they admitted that they have no idea what they're talking about??! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:36 PM |
| 68 | Male Neurodivergent PANDERING, and my seething resentment about itThank you for this post. I'm not diagnosed yet, but one of the lovely ladies here gave me a link to a resource to speak with a therapist after doing an assessment. I haven't done it yet because I've been swamped with work and now school. It is SO frustrating and if you have a shitty childhood like me, you doubt yourself so much. I constantly ask myself; could this be autism, adhd, or trauma? I've had autistic women and men with ADHD TELL ME straight up that they think I'm on the spectrum and my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 21 | The sex industry is the most Racist and discriminatory industry there isI'd also like to add to your comment that this applies to pickmes who watch porn to get "ideas" on how to please their man in bed. Not only are you sourcing something that isn't realistic, it's sad you can't just simply enjoy each other and have to resort to porn to "spice it up". You just end up objectifying yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 02:36 PM |
| 32 | I've found an easy way to suss out men on OLD almost immediately.Next level vetting 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!That sounds like an actual nightmare. These kinds of women are dangerous 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:17 PM |
| 175 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!I honestly can't feel any sympathy for her. The red flags had to be bright in the beginning, and his disgust and contempt for her is so glaringly obvious and she just laughs it off. I mean, I guess that's all you can do when you're baby trapped with a broom closet scrote. I wonder what brand of antidepressants she's on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 02:51 PM |
| 189 | Sometimes I feel a little bad being single and then I read something like this and know I’m better off😂Imagine how hard she's been beaten down, gaslighted, etc to even ASK this fucking question? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 27 | Boundaries in bedLmao "ruined an intimate moment" what's intimate about ripping your scalp off? What a clown. Thank God he stopped and threw himself away, saves you the energy. My boyfriend is hyper aware of my body language and general vibe and always asks if I'm okay during sex. I'm always surprised he knows before I can even say anything because I don't think it's obvious. It never kills the moment, I think it improves the mood actually because wow! He cares about my comfort and orgasm! I love it! REAL intima… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:05 PM |
| 53 | Welp this proves it.I'm kind of convinced atleast 1/4 of raging misogynists are just repressed homosexuals. Nothing wrong with being gay at all, I know men treat other gay men very negatively. Maybe some violence would be reduced if men were more accepting of homosexuality and not tiptoe around their desires (ex: "it's not gay because the guy is dressed as a girl bro" Yes I heard this excuse..) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 09:07 AM |
| 20 | Broke up with a seemingly HVMAt the end of the day this is your choice, but I think it would be a good idea to abstain from dating until you are 100% confident in yourself. Dealing with narcs is a whole nother world and you are constantly learning new things about yourself. So glad you trusted your gut! Never trust a man who rushes things, he has a plan and it's never usually a good one. I get the feeling he was waiting to trap you via marriage or pregnancy and then reveal his true colors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:07 PM |
| 185 | I blocked and deleted ...We are very happy for you, this is not an easy thing to do. I went NC with both my parents and although it'll get lonely sometimes, the peace of not having two narcissists in your life is truly bliss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:04 PM |
| 164 | I broke up with my boyfriend because he uses p0rnAs a daughter of a porn addict, thank you!!! I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:45 PM |
| 69 | Truth 💯 @che_guefarhanThe only difference is women have the humanity to not go on mass murders and rampages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:36 PM |
| 61 | Here’s a small compilation of TikTok comments from women waiting for a ring- never settle your standards for a LVM.A woman I know was with her current guy for 10 years, one kid, no ring. Only proposed after she got pregnant with their 2nd kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 76 | Men have no ability to emotionally regulate because society has been coddling their feelings from the moment they were bornThat's funny...That's the same thing men say about women. Could it be? Male projection once again? Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:47 AM |
| 4 | BLOCKED & DELETED...but first, lemmi school you lil boy. This scrote said he was "surprised a WOMAN knew so much about cryptocurrency", demanded to not be called a 'noob', then had the audacity to ask for investing advice. Did I make my queens proud?Just came here to rant about cryptocurrency. I'm so tired of every guy talking about it now. A good investment, yes, but you only care because of the gamestop fiasco and you want to be "in the know". I have this coworker asking me all the time "So....Are you into crypto?" If I had a dollar for every time some guy asked I wouldn't have to work anymore. Some scrote straight up showed me some app he downloaded to "play stocks". I asked him what some of it meant and he said "I don't know lol" 😐 Mayb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:46 AM |
| 8 | Not Every Woman is HV, Obviously- But We're ALL Better Than Your Average ScroteYeah when I read the title this is not what I expected lmfao. It's important to respect your body and mind, but putting down other women in such a brutal manner over their physical traits is not it, and it's not helpful to those women. OP maybe you're frustrated since you mentioned work, perhaps your patients aren't honest to themselves or you. But that's their problem and life choices, not yours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:41 AM |
| 16 | Not Every Woman is HV, Obviously- But We're ALL Better Than Your Average Scrote🥴 This was off to a decent start but it feels more like a rant about fat women than scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:21 AM |
| 57 | I reported a comment where a dude confesses that his friend confessed to “looking at pictures” Reddit says there’s no violation. WHAT?!?!?!A couple reddit mods (and an admin? I think) have been popped for being pedos, so this is no surprise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:04 PM |
| 305 | I don’t even know where to start.What the hell? This is one of the most bizarre, chaotic posts I've read from this hellsite. Woman needs a lawyer and a thirst for revenge. Bless her soul I hope she's okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:00 PM |
| 59 | Be careful who you have children with…Guy looks like a loon. I still want to know why incels always blame the parent that stayed, it's even worse she just beat fucking cancer and it doesn't matter. Her own son stole her life away. Also I'm tired of the mental health excuse. It's serious, but there are so many women and men at their lowest that don't do any of this. He has no excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 30 | I used to love sexOf course! ❤️ I wanted to put 80% but I didn't know if I was mixing that up with the unwanted sex statistic!!! Those two statistics together make it all worse, ugh. I'm excited for your self love journey! Stay strong queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:58 PM |
| 59 | If anyone gives you a backhanded compliment or neg at the start of a conversation, walk away...This reminds me, a guy just randomly stopped my co-worker and said "You need to lose some weight" completely out of the blue..Normalize pepper spraying men for speaking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:51 PM |
| 225 | I used to love sexWow, thank you for this post! It's very personal and very true. Hookup culture cannot replace the intimacy of sex between two people who genuinely love eachother. You are right, it's almost radicalizing in a sense because these men very blatantly see you as miss fleshlight #295. I believe in a study I read, the majority of women during these hook-ups did not experience any orgasm. In a book I just finished, it's quoted that "Studies have found that women who participate in hookups have lower sel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:45 PM |
| 42 | What do you all think of this story? Full description in the comments.I don't think there's anything wrong with it, it's a sweet gesture. If he constantly compares you to her, then it's unhealthy and you need to remove yourself from the situation. But it is ok for them to have love and celebrations for a now deceased partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:16 AM |
| 39 | Sisterhood is resistance!!10000% I lost an ex friend like that once. He love bombed her and she cut us off after us criticizing his blatant red flags. It's depressing. To add to that last bit, the only affection she receives is his approval (love and attention) after she is isolated by him, so it becomes addicting. He is all she has and she becomes emotionally dependent on him. Very sad and common unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 01:14 AM |
| 117 | Sisterhood is resistance!!Women spot red flags that their friends don't notice, so men have to isolate and divide women so their "prey" doesn't escape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:39 AM |
| 18 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /s💀💀💀💀💀 This man is even shittier than we thought then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:30 AM |
| 106 | I have never met a HVM in the context of dating… how common is this?Nope. I met my current and long-term boyfriend (we aren't married because we met young like 18/19, I don't believe in marriage til after 25 when your mind is fully developed) via a friend of a friend. To be honest we both have work to be done, I know FDS frowns upon this, but to me he's a HVM. We're still learning how the world around us works, and compared to guys his age he's much better. This doesn't apply to older FDS users because..the men available to them are already grown and should alre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:26 AM |
| 66 | The "I have a boyfriend" lie and my personal issue with itA lot of times this doesn't even work for me. I do genuinely have a boyfriend, but they think they can either be: My "dirty little secret" First of all: no. Second of all, the guy that asked me this was some short, fat, greasy neck beard so I was even more insulted. Why am I gonna give up my handsome, sweet af boyfriend for your willy wonka's factory worker looking ass? They do this weird thing where they act like we're friends and then they suddenly unload their feelings on me "I've never met a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 10:13 PM |
| 8 | Again. Single dads will use younger women for childcare.Single mothers have to worry about predators while single dads have to worry about finding mommy #2 to unload all parental responsibilities on 🥴🥴🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 09:30 PM |
| 6 | Weak uterus?????????????????????????? ???????????????????????????????????????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:52 PM |
| 140 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sUhhh isn't it the other way around anyways? My boyfriend always makes my plate if we go somewhere, like his family's house. Or is it a cultural thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 06:16 PM |
| 11 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleThank you!!!! Im looking into it right now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 03:34 PM |
| 30 | FDS are female incels 🙄Yeah it's all bs and they know it. They think women denying them sex is the same as sex-based oppression and violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:11 PM |
| 25 | So I'm deleting my Facebook. A strategy?Yes, I took a year break off of all social medias. Deleted them all. I was also tired of everyone having access to me, so I gave my number to a few acquaintances/friends and deleted. If you truly wanted to speak with me instead of sending me low effort memes, there it is. It was also an easy way for me to "unfollow" people without fear of them making drama over it. I just recently made an instagram account again ONLY to follow my family to see my baby niece/nephew. No one else knows about it, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:05 PM |
| 13 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usI keep posting in this thread lmaoo I'm sorry, but so many stories are reminding me of shit. At my job you can either pick up your items, or we have delivery drivers pick them up from us to deliver to your doorstep. A lot of us are small females. You cannot trust the men at your work either. One of girls took out an order to give to the delivery driver and he went on to tell her "You're a pretty little girl, how old are you?" Was disgusting and horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:48 PM |
| 28 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usThe way men of all races have beef with certain women for being "race traitors" is sooo creepy and extremely sexist. Nothing says "you are the property of MY RACE" like men seething over you making your own choices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:42 PM |
| 59 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usWheeeeeeeeeew, they always have a wife. I had a lyft driver give me the whole spiel "Wow you're so beautiful. You're a pretty girl. Do you have a husband? Kids?" I was like "Umm I'm too young for any of that?" then he asked my age and said plenty women my age have kids. Hell nah. I asked him about his wife and he reluctantly told me about her then went back to bragging about how many famous people he gave rides to. At the end of the drive, he begged me to take off my mask so he could see my pret… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Don't settle for a guy just because he has a few HV traits, while still making you miserable.Thank you! Yes, omg that would be a good post: Why do so many men have main character syndrome? I mean, we know the answer to that, but it would still be entertaining reading all the stories of egotistical scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 6 | They don't know him like you do.Very good point! In the end, women always seem to get the short end of the stick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:32 PM |
| 12 | They don't know him like you do.Isn't it funny that they think they know you both, yet they always take his side. It's tough because yes, you can't be mad at them. But also yes, you can be mad at them for not realizing they're not the ones dealing with his floppy wiener. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:32 PM |
| 12 | They don't know him like you do.2 hours and she thinks she knows the guy??! What an absolute dolt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:30 PM |
| 15 | They don't know him like you do.Lmfao slewer slide All their issues are because of other men and they STILL expect feminists to be miss mommy and solve all their problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:29 PM |
| 78 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleI'm currently trying to get a diagnosis for adhd or autism (I'm not sure which one but autistic women I spoke to said I definitely seem autistic) and the guy thinks it's because of my traumatic past. It's so fucking frustrating. My past caused a lot of things, but I feel so strongly about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 11:31 AM |
| 82 | They don't know him like you do.Scrotes like to boast about how genuine and better male friendships are, but most of them are pretty shallow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 11:42 PM |
| 21 | They don't know him like you do.Tbh I've only seen this in family cases when the guy is extremely mentally disturbed (like murder territory). Friends probably, or they don't think it's a big deal because it's not happening to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 11:41 PM |
| 70 | Guys that date women similar to their female relativesLet me know what you find 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:45 PM |
| 306 | Guys that date women similar to their female relativesPeople have been saying for years that her brother is a creep..Am not surprised with this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:17 PM |
| 10 | Don't settle for a guy just because he has a few HV traits, while still making you miserable.I am really happy this post is able to help some women, thank you for your comment! It sounds like he wasn't much of a treat at all, very far from a HVM. Enjoy the peaceful future without a crazy scrote like him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 10:12 PM |
| 26 | Don't settle for a guy just because he has a few HV traits, while still making you miserable.They always seem so sweet in the beginning 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:41 PM |
| 22 | Don't settle for a guy just because he has a few HV traits, while still making you miserable.I'm sorry ♥️ It's really difficult and also scary! But it's like, you have to really imagine if this is what you want to deal with for the rest of your life. Can you see yourself, for over 40 years, every single day of those years, waking up and living with this person and their behaviour and actions? (If you want them) do you feel comfortable having children with this person and are you confident they will live up to not only the expectations of a parent, but as your partner as well? That line … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:40 PM |
| 140 | Believing your gut feeling the first time is crucialDefinitely. And remember, trying to be a cool girl is a LOSE LOSE situation. You don't give him a chance? You're a mean stuck up bitch. You give him a chance and he hurts you? Well, obviously you should've seen it coming and you're stupid. Be unforgiving, be relentless. Society will spit on you either way so you need to look out for yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 08:37 PM |
| 287 | She's a 35 year old mom, he's 58 grandp..dadShes 35?! She looks 21 in the pic which made me puke inside before I read the title 😰 Still weirded out. After their kid grows up, she'll get to change his diapers next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Welcome to FDS!I would love a flair, please vet this lady! 🙋♀️ edit: thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | When you’re thirty but there’s no difference between you and a teenage boy who just discovered his penisWhy do they think having no personality and watching porn is cute and quirky? This is why I can barely hold a conversation with most men nowadays, they're all boring AF and can't shut the fuck up about that one girl that rejected them a century ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Women and social media activismMen will make fun of women for any little thing. I notice it a lot too, they love to shit on women for trying to bring awareness and actively do something about an issue. I honestly have no idea why, beyond "women". They just hate it because we are women. Just like they hate girls for liking boybands: they're girls. Or "VSCO girls": they're girls with an interest. Men hate women and any little thing they enjoy, they make fun of them for it. Just because they're women/girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 02:39 PM |
| 56 | Paedophilia is NOT a "sexual preference". It is an inherent disorder/retardation of psychosexual development that invariably calls for institutionalization.Very, very interesting and informative post. Thank you. Although I have to say the only solution to pedophiliac thoughts is castration or being put down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 01:02 AM |
| 155 | For The Lurkers And FDS Members Who Wonder Why Men Are Banned Here....I LOVE that it's women only. Men are so egotistical that they HAVE to butt in and give their two cents when No one asked It's not about them Safe spaces for women are being invaded by predatory men, it's so incredibly important that FDS is scrote free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:58 AM |
| 741 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.This feels like a form of prostitution. It's so fucking creepy how she "thought of the best female" and listed some traits as if Rose is an object. The "best female" to have her NV husband use.. The people calling it a coincidence are either dumber than a bag of rocks or sinister little assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 11 | The narcissistic LVM stare. Has anyone else noticed this while vetting in person?Yes it got me so wtf. I do respect one coworker for going against everyone and warning me that he wasn't good. It was a weird situation all around, actually haha. Have some work gossip: A gay coworker was really into him and talked shit about me to the LVM, and the LVM didn't say anything just laughed. Good coworker told me a good man that likes me would never do that. Also apparently he's gay for pay 💀 It was a whole mess, glad I don't work there anymore and no I never got with the LVM. He cree… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:05 AM |
| 74 | The narcissistic LVM stare. Has anyone else noticed this while vetting in person?Holy fuck YES. This one particular LVM that really traumatized me had the exact same state you described. His eyes were black and soulless. People were like "omg he's so into you!", but that was NOT a loving stare. That was a predator stare, a psychopathic stare. He was a huge psycho and lied about 2 different family members dying to garner sympathy from me, lied about being assaulted to get out of work, constantly lying. He was obvious about it too and everyone knew, but he thought he was some … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 07:56 PM |
| 120 | Jesus Christ how is this not banned already. TW r**eWhy does the UK seem like a third world country for women now? Are y'all okay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 01:01 PM |
| 2 | In a post asking reddit to ban incel subs after an incel shooting in the UK, comments that FDS needs to be bannedDon't you know? Women denying men their time and bodies is like, Literally MURDER! won't someone pwease think of teh men???! 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:44 AM |
| 5 | A few safety tipsWhy does it seem that the UK wants the women there to be as vulnerable as possible? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:42 AM |
| 11 | Violent deranged men be like...I just don’t getttt it- why do women stay away from me 😢Our primal instincts & creep radar goes off for solid reasons😬😬😬 My father was like this. He's a described late bloomer by his mother, and never got any girls while his brother was always the "cute one and had a truck full of girls all the time". My father specifically targeted vulnerable women; single mothers, often with substance abuse issues and manipulated them to hell and back, cheating on all of them and causing them to have mental breakdowns. I witnessed him many times taunting them on the phone and muting it just to laugh about it with me. My ther… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:36 AM |
| 14 | What's the most insane thing you've heard from a pickme friend?I feel like a lot of those women are victims of SA and use it as a way with coping and to reclaim their body. This is super common in my experience, unfortunately. Claiming to fight the patriarchy is just another way to justify it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 04:54 PM |
| 6 | What's the most insane thing you've heard from a pickme friend?The mental gymnastics liberal feminists have to do never ceases to amaze me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:47 AM |
| 183 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!Yep. When I worked at a restaurant, all the guys were huddled around eachother in a circle, why? One of the guys was sharing nudes of a girl that he received. I had a guy friend telling me about how hot his ex was, and he pulled up her booty pic to show me. Nevermind what the girl would think, she's not human to him. I fully support going through your husband's electronics as well. When I was an avid 4chan user (I know) men made threads where they swapped nudes of their girlfriends and wives cal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:42 AM |
| 4 | This is what LVM do to women…they break and push them to the point of suicide. Can we help this woman?I hope she leaves him and finds a great therapist. It's sad that she felt this was her only way out, and divorce wasn't on the list. This poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:35 AM |
| 26 | SNOOPING 101I don't give a fuck if this is considered toxic, every woman should snoop. I've seen you men, I've been in your groups. I know you share nudes of other women with your bros, I know you steal nudes of women off of other people's phones. None of you are sneaky, and we always know when something is up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:50 PM |
| 85 | let’s talk about itBecause it's a just bullshit if it's only applied to men, but if you are able to apply it to women as well then it's totally valid and real! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Hells Kitchen, The Lies Men Tell and Women Supporting WomenYes! I love the energy an all female group brings. When it's just us ladies at work we are laughing and having fun. The second a scrote walks in he makes everyone stressed out and uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 02:07 PM |
| 116 | "I went to a doctor and he said it's normal because I'm stressed all the time!"Excuse me???! StepSister and fake rape???? DDLG??? WHY are scrotes obsessed with stepsister porn? This strikes a particular nerve as my brother raped his stepsister. She turned into a fucking mess and has been ever since. But scrotes don't care about that, only what makes their peepee hard. Let's see how long it takes for him to crave the real thing and not "fake rape". Honestly they should be put down at this point. They disgust me. They're like roaches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:32 PM |
| 41 | Men are jealous of women's successOmgg the deja vu! I had a NVM, who had a crush on me, tell me to quit my job and he'll take care of me! On what salary? You're a server at some shitty restaurant 💀 He always felt threatened over the fact I was going to school and made it seem like it was no big deal with "school is a waste of money you can just learn all that on the internet" LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:14 PM |
| 13 | Here’s how our ‘critics’ analyse dating and offer advice to fellow blind mice lmao. Low value men who have ZERO stake in the dating field and resort to sterile mathematical calculations as to work out why their last 27 dates didn’t call back....oh I’m sorry- I mean ‘used them for a meal’ ofc 🙄Why even waste his energy on this shit besides wanting to flex on how SmArT he is? What a complete moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:41 PM |
| 13 | It is NOT elitist to treat your friendship as an exclusive invitation to the world’s most important club. How “pickmes” reproduce toxic behavior. On “Pickme” energy, “friendship” breadcrumbing, digital boundaries and vetting other women for friendship.really important to add that you need to ask yourself what you bring to the table in terms of a friendship. adding this because I've been getting used so much lmao I'm arguably well off more than the average 22 year old as I make a lot more than min wage, have a 401k and am VERY careful with money. a lot of people will see that stability and go "oh I want some" I cut off a lot of pickmes who used me to try and get a better job (hard to get into my work without connections, I got lucky), therapy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:25 AM |
| 4 | FDS was just featured in the Guardian! The article is fairly balanced and no mention of f3mcels or other such nonsense. FDS principles are becoming more mainstream 🥂 🥳very very exciting! I hope this article attracts hundreds more women to fds ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:58 AM |
| 26 | Think with glands ladieslord this makes me sick how blatantly predatory they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:57 AM |
| 157 | I don't think men are capable of seeing us as humans, everterrifying, isn't it? I wish all women had this realization. I have my hv boyfriend and we both love eachother, but that's the end of my love and respect for any man. majority of men are narcissistic, unable to feel empathy or consider the perspective of anyone but their own herd. the "women have a sheep mentality" is merely projection coming from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:54 AM |
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