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MINDSET SHIFTMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:51 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢Mountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:53 AM
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LESSON LEARNEDMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:11 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!Mountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:54 PM
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DISCUSSIONMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:24 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:38 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:25 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:36 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:28 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:00 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:03 PM
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STRATEGYMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:28 AM
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NAH, SISMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:39 PM
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STAY WOKEMountain_Nectarine_6/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:40 PM
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I just got banned from another subreddit for being on this one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:24 PM
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I just got banned from another subreddit for being on this one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:23 PM
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I just got banned from another subreddit for being on this one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:23 PM
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I never settle looks wise. I only date guys who I find attractive. I made that mistake twice and they treated me the worst. Negged the hell out of me. Date whom you attractive :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:23 PM
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I would have unmatched him after the “o nice” 😂 just a pet peeve of mine when men type like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:13 AM
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My ex knew porn was a dealbreaker for me and he adamantly insisted he never watched it. WELL GUESS WHAT. He is also a liar. He would lie about everrrrrything, even things he didn’t need to lie about. And he would still lie to me even after we broke up. Then I came across a Reddit post and it helped me start no contact and move on better— A liar is liar. Why am I expecting the truth from a liar? Anyways, I digress. My point is, he FOR SURE watched porn. I never caught him watching it or anything …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:24 AM
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What’s funny is that I thought of moving down to DC from NYC because dating (seriously) is easier down there 😂 I know a few women who did the move down to DC and they got hitched within a couple years. If you’re having problems in DC, you’re going to have problems anywhere else. I would say that you should move if you’re in the south/LA/NYC but otherwise, stay in DC. Or move to NoVa and more of the suburban area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:44 AM
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Bar is in hell because I’m glad he was honest instead of making her think she did something wrong. His reasoning is so disgusting, I hope it made her see how gross he is. But some people would only get jealous and resentful of the daughter :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:29 AM
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It’s okay ❤️ I’m so proud of you for telling us. It’s hard to let go of a trauma bond. I’m going through it right now with my abusive ex and it’s so hard because I have moments where I wish he would have just treated me with respect but I remind myself, fuck him. Who cares what a loser thinks of me. Who cares how a loser treated me. What matters is that I won’t let him treat me like that anymore. I won’t let this loser have access to me anymore. Stay strong. Cry and let it out. This guy sucks an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:06 PM
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It may seem like on social media that he treats the next girl “better” in the beginning (trust me, he’s not) but he will go back to his real self. He will put his mask on at first but he can’t keep it on forever. All of his bad traits WILL come back especially if he’s LV and doesn’t seriously work on himself (like see a therapist and such).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:18 AM
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So happy for you 🥰💓💓💓 this made me smile :) thank your sharing with us!! We love to see it!! How did you approach him about porn use? Do you guys live together? Did he have pictures of any of his ex’s on his social media? Did he ever talk about his ex’s unprompted in the beginning? How often do you guys see each other? Sorry for all the questions. These are all things I’m curious about for the next time I date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:10 AM
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I’m so proud of you for getting out. From the little bit you shared with me, this was such a toxic relationship. He sounds so emotionally abusive!!! LVM always put the responsibility on you. I’m so happy you learned from this and can share it with us so we know what to look out for too. He does not deserve you in his life at all. Good fucking riddance. What a piece of trash man. He’s already scum but on top of that, he asks “permission” to be scum to deflect responsibility? Spineless. My LV ex d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:19 PM
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Thank you so much 💞💞 I appreciate your support so much. Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:11 PM
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Thanks for sharing this and writing it out. My LV ex did this too and guess whaaat he overshared details about me to other people. Ladies- If he can disclose so much personal info about others, trust he’ll do it to you too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:11 AM
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I love this. So proud of your growth. His fucking loss. I can’t wait when I get to the level you are one day. Thank you for sharing 💓💓💓💓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:18 AM
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I’m saving your comment so I can continue to reference it. My standards used to be sooo low and even after I joined FDS, they were higher than before but still low but after being on this sub for longer, I realize it’s so important to maintain high standards because anything less is a waste of time and energy and those little things you let slide in the beginning actually ARE a big no! Thank you 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:05 AM
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To be honest, this comment stung when I first read it because I felt like you were throwing my past mistakes in my face. I completely agree with what you’re saying. Now that I’ve been on FDS longer, I see that glaringly clear. Current me would have blocked immediately at the drinks question and I cringe at the thought of me saying I don’t want to go on other dates. I’ll take it as a lesson learned and listen to my sisters here more. I’m still a work in progress and hope to grow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:01 AM
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I 100% believe women can maintain platonic relationships with former boyfriends but I don’t believe men can. You may not have romantic feelings for him anymore but honestly I wouldn’t be surprised if he still has some non-platonic feelings for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:45 PM
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We date for genuine long-term compatibility where we and our partners grow together whereas most scrotes date for sex and fun and lie about wanting a relationship to get consistent sex 🤢🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:05 PM
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YES!!!!!! This is why I love FDS because every other subreddit says it’s fine men stay in touch with their ex and say the woman is just insecure 🤡😂 no! We’re not insecure. We’re secure enough to know there’s no point and it’s unhealthy to keep in contact with an ex. Even a HVM would be like why the fuck are you still friends with your ex and why haven’t you moved on. Proud of your progress 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:02 PM
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YES 🙌 so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:34 PM
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Yes :( this hurt the most for me to accept. I had a feeling my ex flirted or had an interest in his one particular female friend but he said no way… then how come he liked her pictures on Facebook but not pics his other other girl friends posted? How come she kept snapping him photos and texting him? (because he was clearly responding and engaging with her) Oh and get this, they met once in person from a video game before we started dating. I was in denial at first but now I know he’s a scrote s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 07:32 PM
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So frickin true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:55 PM
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Thanks for sharing that stat. I wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of those marriages happened out of convenience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:46 PM
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This is so important and true. Scrotes have gaslighted women into thinking it’s okay to have a female best friend and close female “friends”…but it’s not. Not okay at all. Only LVM are like that. That doesn’t mean a HVM won’t have any female friends but it does mean their closest friends and a majority of their friends will not be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:27 PM
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Yes!! I see that every other post. I didn’t consider my ex HV when I was dating him BUT I did think “oh golly maybe he is!!” and got myself excited when really, I should not have gotten excited over that and instead thought “OK he has green flags. That’s the bare minimum. What else?” I hope we as a community stop referring to male partners as HV but instead, we reflect on HV behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:23 PM
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This. Living together might not even mean he really likes you but he wants someone to share living costs with, wants a bang maid, wants the safety and comfort of having your partner there with you all the time (potential sign of codependency), wants to look good in front of his friends, doesn’t want you to be able to to break up with him easily, among many more reasons. Moving in and living together is NOT worth it before marriage if you want to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:10 PM
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Yes this is so important to remember too!! A LVM will not think of marriage the same you may. It’s also a means for them to be deemed societally acceptable. That’s why we vet vet vet and never settle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:06 PM
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My LV ex and several other men confirmed this is true. He said living together and moving in is not a big deal for him. It doesn’t mean a man is thinking about marrying you if he asks you to move in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:52 PM
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This is horrifying. I almost fell into this trap when I was groomed by an older man (he lied about his age and I was VERY naive). But my sister thankfully found out. He was physically abusive and threatened to send my nudes to my parents and publish them online. It was hard to leave but my sister told me- it’s okay. My parents will understand and they will still love me EVEN IF he does all that shit and we can take him to court. I finally left. Thankfully he never published my nudes or sent the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:50 PM
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Tinder now has a feature to block people from showing up and seeing your profile based on their phone number. I’m sure cheaters love it but I like it too because I blocked my ex and don’t have to worry about seeing him. Try this feature if the app(s) you’re using has this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:54 AM
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THIS. When my POS ex cheated on me, I asked him why and he said I made him do it. Lol trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:28 PM
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YES!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:27 PM
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I dated a braggy guy who turns out his entire family pretended to be rich when they weren't and they all leased their cars....plus mortgaged their home, owned fake designer, always talked about price, asked "did you get that on sale," always pointed out strangers who were rich in their presence (very cringe), balked when the dinner bill came and would spilt it multiple ways (between my ex, his mom, and his dad when we all went out to eat...) ----- Also, I'm not saying only poor people mortgage h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 04:25 PM
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I lived in NYC pre-pandemic then went home to Connecticut and there are by far, so many more commitment-seeking men in the suburbs. You could try Stamford then you’ll still be close to NYC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:32 PM
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How is this funny??!!! What... the fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 09:23 PM
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What if we’re boyfriend and girlfriend, and I’ve already met his family?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:00 AM
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U bet he’s not even 4 but a 1 or 2...2.5 at best 🤢🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:27 PM
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My male ‘friend’ (I considered him a friend but it turns out HE wanted us to be more than friends) took me out to Olive Garden to celebrate my promotion. I later found out he used to date a minor...recently as an adult. We’re 25. Yeah he’s no longer my friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 10:07 PM
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Wow. Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:51 PM
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I accepted all of the above when I was younger. Now that I educated myself and I’m also more self confident and a follower of FDS, I will NEVER tolerate this disrespect again. I’ve learned there are HVM out there who don’t do any of the above but there’s so many LVM that it seemed impossible to find a man who wouldn’t do at least one thing from this list. 🤢🤮 almost all men are such trash. This should be the standard! But the bar is so low that even most men can’t meet this... 🤢🤢🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:36 PM
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She’s STUNNING. She’s also right!!!! 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:00 PM
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Whaaaat!!!! WHAT. I have no words except I’m glad he’s a thing of the past. Men are seriously something else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:46 PM
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My jaw dropped. WOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:41 PM
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When I was in college, I made a gift basket for my boyfriend at the time. I was so proud of it. I didn’t have a lot of money so I did the best I could. He had a lot of money though (trust fund kid) and instead of thanking me, he put me down saying that’s all he gets? He got me an expensive leather purse but he just gets that? It made me feel really bad. We eventually broke up because he’s addicted to porn and cocaine. He’s still in rehab.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:27 PM
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Hi love, the handbook says men need to ask you out within a week of matching and talking. I personally don’t wait 1 week. All the quality men I’ve dated asked me out within 3 days or less. Any date with a man who asked me out in the 5-7 day time frame turned out to be a waste of my time. Only dinner dates are acceptable. (OR a well thought out activity that is sweet and romantic and where he spends money but that is typically saved for later dates)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:12 PM
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Off topic but she has a really pretty chest area. It’s so smooth and acne free! I’ve always wanted to wear shirts like that. She rocks it ❤️❤️ necklace was a nice touch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:08 PM
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6 months?!!?? She has the patience of a monk. I could never wait 6 months. Men know in 6 months if they want to MARRY you, and they know within 6 dates if they actually want to date you and be your boyfriend. Hell to the no! Agreed that this was painful to watch. The man should and will bring up the DTR talk if he truly likes you and wants to be with you and pursue you. You will not have to do any chasing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:06 PM
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This makes me so angry I want to cry. What the actual fuck? He can fucking rot in hell. Not acceptable. Piece of shit fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:17 AM
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YAS QUEEEN!!!!!! Happy for you. Love this energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:04 AM
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I believe any cold approaches are LV. It’s what PUAs are encouraged to do. All they know about you is how you look and carry yourself. A HVM will care about more than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 03:33 PM
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This is so true. I only know one man with a micro penis (it was TRULY a micro penis) and he always told me to lose weight....at 120 lbs 5’3”. I was 19 and he was 25? 27? Red flag. I dropped him later. He’s still in college and hasn’t graduated. Loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:02 PM
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I love this post. Thank you for being you. Awesome analogy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:39 PM
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Fuck. I just realized I’m the abuser. 😐 I’ll have to work on this with my therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:23 PM
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💀💀💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:30 PM
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Hahaha I love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:22 PM
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I’ve dated a guy before who had women’s stuff in the shower and he claimed it was leftover from a previous relationship ...turns out he was still dating that woman. #cheater!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:37 PM
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It is for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 05:19 AM
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I’m actually glad you didn’t just block & delete because the is right here is enough evidence to go to the police. Please report him. He’s scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:54 AM
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Virtual hugs 💕💕💕 and I love you too!!! Even if we don’t know each other, I really want the best for you and I am sending positive energy your way. You have a kind soul and I know you will have true love one day. I know it. It’ll come ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:40 AM
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Yes I love your mindset 💕 If things were this good with him and he’s the wrong one, imagine how great things will be with the right one! Better sooner than later! With time, everything heals. Only way up is to get back up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:39 AM
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I’m sorry :( please know that you ARE enough. You are beautiful. You are a high value woman and you WILL meet someone one day who says it is there for him. Some people are not long term compatible with each other even if they are both good high quality people or compatible in the beginning. It doesn’t mean that one person sucks or whatnot. It just means you two aren’t the right match. I know it’s hard and I wish I had better words of support. Things will get better with time. I’m proud of you fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:37 AM
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I’m sorry :( better now than later!! Trash took itself out. You are worthy of a man who only has eyes for you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:10 AM
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May I ask what happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:09 AM
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In my experience, all the men who asked me this question “what are you looking for” ended up being LV. Could be confirmation bias but just throwing it out there. I feel like a HVM wouldn’t ask this because he seeks out HVW who naturally want a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:48 PM
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Damn. I’m sorry. This is frightening. Please carry a knife with you if possible. This man is unstable and socially inept and possibly dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:48 PM
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I agree. I’m 25 and my boyfriend is 24. While I was on dating apps, I noticed the guys who seemed to be the best looking and highest quality to be 23 and 24. After 25+, there were still a few but dramatically less and less actual good candidates. If me and my boyfriend break up, I will continue dating someone my age or younger than me, or at most one year older than me. My longest and best relationships have been with someone within a year or the same age as me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:59 PM
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I have no idea.... I just know she seems to be in a bad mood today and is taking it out on women here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:02 AM
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What’s your problem?? Stop attacking people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:02 AM
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Good article. She’s despicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:00 AM
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Summerisle7 wasn’t upset or angry at all. Ugh. This is disappointing to see you try to gaslight her. Not okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:36 AM
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Gross! Ultimate Pick Me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:36 AM
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Yassss happy for you 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:57 PM
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It’s YOUR body therefore it’s YOUR choice. My boyfriend has made it clear to me he’ll support me in any birth control decision I make. You’re very young and not only does he sound controlling, but he sounds LV. Against abortion? Yeah that’s not okay. Religion or politics is not an excuse. Woman bodily autonomy is extremely important and it sounds like he’s against that for all women, including you. It sounds like it’s his way or the high way, when really- he should support you and you guys make …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:55 PM
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Well said. This is absolutely true. Male entitlement is through the roof.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:52 PM
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150 lbs at 4’11 probably. Fat fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:50 PM
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She’s joking. This was funny 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:43 PM
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It depends on the guy. I’ve dated British men- like actually boyfriend/girlfriend- and they were trash and LV. But I am sure not ALL British men are trash. There’s millions of them... I think it really depends on the actual man. Will I ever date a British guy again though? No way. I’m American through and through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:29 PM
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Call the police. I would advice against getting personally involved. It may not end well for you. Next you hear them, keep calling the police and say you hear a domestic dispute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:27 PM
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For me, the most disrespect I’ve received has been from Latinos and Europeans and the most respectful have been American New Yorkers. Lol. I will never date or go on a date with another European or foreign man again. I like my men American. To each their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:48 PM
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If you’re dating someone officially as boyfriend and girlfriend and you’re out with your friends, who pays? The boyfriend for me and his portion, or do we spilt if the entire table is splitting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 04:18 PM
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Wait what’s wrong with libras lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:22 PM
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The Edit and smiley face at the end 😂 chefs kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:40 PM
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I love you 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:24 PM
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I don’t mean to sound classist but how can one be proud and boastful of making 60K? Why is he putting ‘only’ in quotes as if 60K is admirable? 60K is low... I should know because that’s how much I made when I graduated college.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:21 PM
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I would just make him do his own laundry and divorce his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:26 PM
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YES!!!! Yes to all of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:32 AM
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This reminded me of Joe from You on Netflix. He’s trash but this was still entertaining to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:30 PM
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😂😂🤣 I fucking love you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:00 PM
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I agree! 5 years makes sense if you met when you’re 18 or 19.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:42 PM
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Amen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:18 PM
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Weight matters a lot even if men/women say it doesn’t. Anything within 10 lbs of a healthy weight for your height is acceptable these days. But each pound you stray from the top of your healthy weight range, the number of potential matches drops significantly. It’s more than fine if you’re not thin or skinny. It just matters that you’re at a healthy weight range for your height. Now, let’s say you are within that range, how do you carry yourself? How do you dress? Are you put together? Are you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:04 PM
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This was such a mean spirited post. You don’t know his girlfriend. You only know what he’s saying about her. Why the hell are you putting her down and calling her a pick me when you literally don’t know her and have never met her? You’re feeding into him by putting down another woman and believing his words which could very well be lies. I can tell you feel smug that you think he likes you more than her and that’s gross in itself as well. Just no to this entire post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:37 PM
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I am glad there’s some men out there who will speak up for us without spewing libfem bullshit. Men listen to other men as unfortunate as that is. So hopefully more men will perk up and listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:38 PM
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I am 25. I met my first two boyfriends in real life, both at school and university. After college, I met my boyfriends through Tinder. I know people knock on online dating but it’s been useful for me and a time saver to be honest. My rankings: 1. Tinder 2. Bumble (pre-FDS though all my bumble matches were actually the most respectful and portrayed HV traits) 3. Hinge (worst app for me personally- didn’t find anyone I liked and worst dates ever) 4. OKCupid (eh a bunch of rejects from other apps) …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:33 PM
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I cut off all my LV friends and decided to start over. I met some great girls from Bumble and work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:46 AM
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Not every man treats a woman nicely. Yes that’s true. But there are plenty of men who do treat women nicely AND have the dick, wage, height, and looks. Why settle for a man who treats you nicely but doesn’t haven’t the rest? The base SHOULD be that the man treats you nicely 😑 anything less and that takes the man out of running. DOY. This pick me 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:45 AM
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This is wonderful! Thanks and best of luck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:33 AM
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Thank you!! I honestly agree. It’s just that that everyone here says I should hide my income so I feel like I should. I am just trying to do the best but feel lost sometimes and would like guidance from FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:23 AM
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Thank you. Do you recommend filing separately then or?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:57 AM
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Would he find out when it comes time to do taxes? That’s what I’m worried about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:52 AM
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I want to tell my future husband I make less than I actually do but I am worried he’ll find out when it comes time to do taxes. How can I hide my real salary from him without him finding out? Edit: also, great idea about the jewelry! I will do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:51 AM
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How do I have a secret savings if he knows how much I make? How can I tell him I make less than I do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:41 AM
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I don’t get it. How is this LV? Genuinely asking because I don’t get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:17 AM
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Yes block him ❤️You’re already wasting too much energy thinking about this. He doesn’t deserve that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:46 PM
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It sounds like you hate his guts. Why even keep him around? Read the handbook- get a vibrator instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:39 PM
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Fair enough! I see that and understand and will try to be more compassionate with my words and support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:15 PM
-17

We shouldn’t encourage each other to say things like “it’s nice to have met you” to a LVM but whatever. Done with this post and thread. Moving on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:14 PM
-39

You should have just blocked without telling him you two aren’t a match. Why did you say it’s nice to meet him? You’re still giving off shades of Pick Me behavior. Regardless, happy for you that you blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:22 PM
31

Love it! Interesting read. I can definitely see trash men being like this on purpose for the ego boost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:19 PM
85

Brava!! Very proud of you for standing your ground. 50/50 is NOT fair to women. Only men seek to gain something from it. Your explanation makes much sense. Not to mention, if you’re to have a baby with this man, then 50/50 should never exist because there is absolutely no price range on the cost of delivering a baby through your body
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:04 PM
22

😂🤣😂 family feud x’s - too funny!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:04 PM
22

YES!!! I completely agree. So many Pick Me’s are posting unwitty screenshots that are soooo annoying to read. Just block and delete 🤦‍♀️ unless it’s extraordinarily captivating and interesting to read. Ugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:04 PM
4

You said it very well! Yes that is my experience as well!!!! I was also branded as racist and classist by my extremely leftist LV ex when it was HIM who always made really uncomfortable remarks and I never agreed with him. Ugh I seriously hate LVM 🤢😂 glad we got rid of them and now they’re our EX
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:00 PM
5

I live in Manhattan and I’m 25, so I don’t expect other men my age to live alone. Granted, my ex was a trust fund baby so his parents paid for his own 4K apt and it was very nice that he didn’t have roommates. But other guys my age almost always have roommates in order to live in a desirable neighborhood and luxury building (rent is easily over 2K+) I would rather date someone who lives in a luxury building and has a roommate than someone who lives in a dingy studio in a bad neighborhood. That’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:53 AM
40

For me, my ideal man: - politically centrist, never voted republican, automatic no if he’s conservative, but can’t be too liberal or leftist either - not religious nor hardcore atheist - tall 6 feet+ - attractive face and hot body - cuddles - makes good money, solid six figures minimum - no porn, no following Instagram ‘models’, no onlyfans - not too active on social media but still has one, doesn’t have a car for a profile picture - cares about his career and family, has good relationship with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:15 PM
5

Completely agree. This text thread is embarrassing and not FDS at all. Why do I have a feeling OP is going to text him again..... 🤦‍♀️ nevertheless, I’m happy for OP she’s seeking FDS and hoping she actually dumps and blocks him because this guy sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:08 PM
16

I know 😔 I hate it. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:14 PM
104

I have a strong feeling it was her boyfriend and his friends. I hope he gets the death penalty. What the actual fuck. I’m so mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:53 PM
56

Ugh trigger warning needed. I hate seeing these kind of posts here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:48 PM
70

Yep! Funny enough, I was attacked and threatened the most when I was 110 lbs and 18-20 years old rather than now where I’m heavier and older. Men are fucking trash and pick on people they knew they can take advantage of in age, size, etc. fucking hate scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:57 PM
52

Uhhh lmao....what... LMAO WHAT 😂 I know this shouldn’t be funny but wtf?!!!! Dude needs to go to the psychiatric hospital. That’s gross and borderline animal abuse? Maybe full on animal abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:50 PM
26

Can’t make this shit up 😂 now that’s a hideous man. SCROTE ALERT!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:00 PM
62

GROSS. They’re LVW with a LV audience. All the guys I know who listen to that are extreme LV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:57 PM
18

I loved this!!! You have an amazing head on your shoulders and I commend you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:05 AM
10

It’s totally fine if you’re a teenager and he’s a teenager. It’s normal and expected you guys have snaps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:10 AM
15

I’m 25 and me and my friends still use it legitimately like Instagram story so it depends on your/his age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:08 AM
3

Yes!!! The $200K software engineers are so annoying and LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:57 PM
33

I love reading all of your stories and experiences because this is what I want and unless I get this level, it’s a no from me. I’m currently in a relationship and I called my boyfriend tonight to talk during my daily walk and our conversation only lasted 7 minutes because he wasn’t putting in much effort. He asked me if he could see me tomorrow. I said no. I was originally going to hang out with him during the week so we could finish watching our tv series but now I’m not going to see him until …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:28 AM
10

Actuaries don’t even make that great money. They don’t make bad money but their salaries aren’t anything impressive. They don’t break 150 and definitely not 200K. It sounds like you’re young. You’ll most likely outearn him with time. I’m only impressed if the men I date make over 120K at my age (25), and they must make over 170K if they’re older than me (like 28) and 200K (30+). That’s how much they should be making and there’s plenty of attractive men who make that and want to date me so if the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:16 AM
6

I’m proud of you. You’ll be so happy you dumped him because now you’re one person closer to meeting someone who does treat you right. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:09 AM
31

“😂 nah you’re not hot enough”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:06 AM
37

You should be shaven at all times even if the scrote hasn’t showered in days. (Like what the actual fuck 🤢)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:05 PM
24

My boyfriend is one year younger than me. I’m 25, he’s 24. My best relationships have been with men 1 year older or 1 year younger than me or the same age as me—ALL of my best relationships. All of my worst relationships had age gaps larger than a couple years. The larger the age gap, the worse off it was for me. 2-3 years different from me (younger and older) was eh but not the worst. 4+ years older than me was horrible. And I will never date someone older or younger than me by more than 3 year…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 05:47 PM
77

I’m so sorry for your friend 😔 fuck that ****! What the actual fuck? That’s a terrible roommate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:58 PM
48

This clears it up for me! I always thought of red flags as something bad but not worthy to abort mission. But you’re completely right!! A red flag means ABORT - jump off the freaking ship! I will be more careful with my language and evaluation of red flags. Thanks for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:54 PM
11

More and higher paying** than RPW. 100% I can bet my bottom dollar this is true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:47 PM
40

Not only are they sexist and misogynist but also racist!!! Nice! They’re such haters. But they drool over us in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:42 PM
47

YES I see this happening so often! Men/women shit on women for not solidifying commitment and exclusivity but also shit on women for not being “free spirited” and “empowering” themselves by sleeping with men on first dates and when they want to ....hypocrisy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:40 PM
45

Agreed! I have another reddit account that I use to give advice and share my thoughts on the other dating subs, and I LARP as a man because I noticed if I speak my mind as a woman then I’m automatically hated on and my advice is bad BUT I can say the same exact fucking things as a guy and people praise me for it. W a c k. At the end of the day, I’m still spreading and infiltrating FDS into other subreddits...even if I have to pretend I’m a guy smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:04 PM
168

That’s hilarious! We have boyfriends and husbands, AND the men we date are actually worthy and attractive unlike the scrotes that plague the rest of the world. They’re 100% jealous and SCARED. Oh they’re scared of us all right. Because we are other women’s competition (in Pick Me’s eyes) because we are confident, successful, and feminine, and we only accept the best of the best of men, which terrifies LVM because they’ll never get a chance with us- and we ARE what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:40 PM
8

She certainly can’t speak for us. Go enjoy being a pick me Morgan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:10 PM
27

This is so sweet. 100% true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:39 PM
55

cracking the fuck up at this meme 🤣 not at how depraved and disgusting scrotes are 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:06 PM
70

Amen!! Only scrotes will do this and then whine and complain about it. HVM vet just like we HVW vet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:03 PM
260

She looks exactly the same???!!! The photo is just taken with lots of light and exposure. What is he smoking -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:59 AM
8

YASSS!!!! Proud of you 👑👑👑 I love to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:30 AM
27

I respect you so much. I’m much older than you and it took me longer to realize the truth and FDS and I wish I had known it sooner because it would have saved me years of pain and heartache. I am so proud of you for realizing this much sooner. Continue to be the strong woman you are. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:24 AM
5

This is so scary!! I’m so glad you’re okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:58 AM
20

When you’re young, naive, and inexperienced, you don’t know any better so you THINK that must be what love is. The parents of these girls didn’t grow up with cell phones and easily accessible internet access so it might not even cross their mind to educate their daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:43 AM
11

He’s already been checked out long ago. Move on. Don’t text him. Texting him will give him an ego boost that you’re accepting his blatant disrespect and breadcrumbing. Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:40 AM
41

They’re 100% lying about their age. I asked one guy I met in person to see his drivers license and he wouldn’t show me. Not even joking....he said he was 33. LMAO SUREEEE! Byeeee next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:49 AM
16

The new wife is seething with jealously and insecurity. Only reason she did something that vile 🤢🤮 Just remember you divorced for many reasons. She has to deal with all that now and more. Good riddance! She can take your second hand trash. They’re so obsessed with you that they are marrying on YOUR wedding date 😂 she’ll never have her own wedding date. It’ll always be yours. I bet whenever they fight, he brings you up and says how you’re better than her in that moment and not like that. I 100% c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:43 AM
6

I’m proud of you! I’m glad you recognize your message was not handled properly but you’re on the right track and you have the right heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:38 AM
11

This is a brilliant idea! I love this and will use it if I need to. Thanks for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:56 AM
62

They hate us but want us but can’t get us so they hate us even more. They don’t respect their Pick Me’s. A lot of them even despise their Pick Me girlfriends, or worse—hate them to the point of murder. They WISH they could date HVW like us because we are feminine, we take care of ourselves, we are confident, and we act like we can live without them (because we actually can). These are traits that excite men but LVM/NVM are so lazy, worthless and pathetic that they don’t put in the effort and som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:53 AM
25

I am so fucking sorry this piece of shit turd exists. He’s so miserable and bitter about himself and his life that he wanted to bring you down to his pathetic depressing level. I can already tell from the way you write that you’re a genuine person. You don’t deserve this at all! And this POS knows that and is jealous of your happiness and self worth. Have you ever heard of a happy person doing cruel weird shit like that- sending messages to strangers on reddit about personal shit they post and w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:45 AM
82

Amen! My ex cheated on me and I was so insecure I was jealous of beautiful women. Now, I realize a HVM will act right even around the most beautiful, sexiest, smartest, richest women and i don’t need to compete against these women for a man’s attention. If I ever do then that man is trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:46 PM
13

Love this! Well said. I think our libfem brainwash bullshit we got spoonfed made me doubt if I can hate the other woman but you’re totally right! That’s my own prerogative! Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:43 PM
55

That’s sad... I hate both the cheating husband and the woman he cheated with. I know we shouldn’t hate the other woman but in this case, fuck her too. I hate cheaters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:06 PM
227

Men don’t change overnight. He didn’t take you out on expensive dates or vacations? He most likely doesn’t pay for his new girlfriend either! She probably pays for her own share or even both of them. I saw my ex’s venmo transactions when I logged onto Venmo and saw he charged his new gf for all their dinners/outings or she’d pay him. Like every little thing. I had broken up with him because he was cheap and stingy. Yeah no thanks!! Just remember you guys broke up for a reason and cheap men DON’T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 03:18 PM
4

I could but people at work/friends/non-friends would think I’m weird and I don’t want to tell anyone else about my stalkers (only my family knows) because people may view me negatively for it (When bad things happen to you, people will associate and remember bad things with you so I don’t like that). I personally don’t like people who are ‘weird’ or dislike themselves and I feel like changing my name now will reflect that if people don’t know why I did it and I am never sharing why I did it. And…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:19 PM
63

Cooks, police, marines, army - these have the most prevalent amount of LVM who are also psychotic and have addiction issues and mental illness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:27 AM
2

This is anti-FDS behavior. Get yourself...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:10 AM
14

I want to change my last name because I’ve had 2 stalkers in the past and it will help me form a new identity and make it harder for them to track me. Otherwise I’d keep my name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:09 AM
117

I had the same experience. Thank you for sharing this thought out piece. I stumbled upon that subreddit by accident last week and it plummeted my self esteem. It’s dangerous. Self improvement is great BUT that sub is more like self hate and reminds me of being a sister mental illness of eating disorders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:08 AM
11

Different cultures. Different genres and styles of music. Different audience. Different age groups. What is the point of this picture? These artists are not representative of Asia or the west.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:39 PM
62

You can keep going to dinners.... if he likes you, he’ll keep pursuing you. Bowling, Apple picking, Painting, Picnics, Kayaking, etc. You’re making excuses for him and showing shades of Pick Me behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:37 PM
12

Whaaat! I didn’t know this. Thanks for sharing. And I’m happy you’re better ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:36 PM
4

My boyfriend doesn’t “believe in it” but he still plays along whenever I bring up astrology. He gladly took a love language quiz and downloaded co-star because he knew that’s what makes me happy. I’m not saying he’s high value for doing that but it made me realize when a guy likes/respects you, he’ll do it if it makes you happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:32 PM
13

Some women have a RBF, some of us have a RSF — resting smiley face. I can’t help but smile almost all of the time unknowingly. That’s just how some of us are and it sounds like you’re also a naturally friendly person. There’s nothing wrong with that! I think it’s important to know you don’t NEED to smile though for others. But if you naturally do on your own then that’s fine. Also, it’s important to actually not smile when a scrote is being a scrote. They don’t deserve that 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:47 AM
9

I know I shouldn’t indulge myself but I order a lot of food and plop down and watch fun movies. I don’t do this often but when I’m alone on holidays? Hell yeah. Sorry :/ know that you’re not alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:05 AM
87

Intimacy =/= sex but notice scrotes always equate intimacy to sex smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:06 AM
10

😂😂😂 your response cracked me up. You’re very funny! Also 100% speaking the truth!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:49 AM
2

Well said! I said in my comment that there should be a spark but after reading what you said, I completely agree! By spark, I just mean attraction. Definitely agree!! And happy for you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:44 AM
4

100%! The spark is just one component, and one of the first things you should have in the beginning. Consistency, care, respect, etc are the rest and more important but only time will reveal and show those. ❤️ Edit: after reading another comment, I want clarify that I mean spark means attraction. It might not mean there’s fireworks on the first couple dates and honestly that’s probably a good thing because you’re still getting to know each other!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:41 AM
103

The childfree subreddit is chock full of women haters. They outright disrespect mothers and any woman who wants to have a kid. Like damn. I’m also childfree but why disrespect mothers? They love humiliating pregnant women, babies, and children but notice they rarely hate on ‘male breeders.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:33 AM
5

My sister was many of these. I miss her and I love her but I do not keep in contact with her anymore because she broke my soul. It took me a long time and I’m still trying to get over the hurt she’s caused me. She was the most LV and cruelest to me than any other LVM I dated. I hope she’s doing okay and she becomes better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:27 AM
28

By the end of date 2, you will know. If you aren’t excited and giddy for the next date then that means you’re not that into it and you shouldn’t keep seeing him. Some people on paper can seem like they’ll be a great match for you. Heck even in person, there may be decent convo and whatnot. BUT what matters is that spark. Chemistry is there or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:13 PM
5

For real I choked on my water 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:10 PM
9

This is a very interesting discussion. I’d love to hear other people’s experiences. I work in a female-strong industry (healthcare) and both men and women have been really kind-hearted people. It could just be the people I’ve interacted with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:07 PM
28

I’m so fucking sorry :( I hope the stars line in your favor this time around. He’s disgusting and I am so proud of you for getting out now. I know it’s extremely hard so major props to you for putting yourself first!! Respect is most important. Clean his ass in court!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:41 PM
41

I know we shouldn’t discount other people’s experiences just because it’s different from our own but this is literally not true. This had to be written by a woman-hating troll. What the actual fuck? I feel sorry for his mother and girlfriend and all other women in his life. Edit: also, I want to add- why the fuck would a colleague ask how he is? Coworkers =/= automatic emotional support. They are your coWORKers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:38 PM
-10

I would never date a man with tattoos. Tattoos are a sign of mental illness or narcissism (for me). It’s an automatic no for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:26 PM
23

My males friends told me they are primarily on tinder/OLD for hook ups and IF they meet the girl of their dreams then they would get in a relationship. Always remember men want sex FIRST, then may consider a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:41 PM
3

Just have a social life and go on dates with many men. I literally was too busy to notice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:37 AM
18

Yes because that’s a huge red flag... it’s been 2 full weeks and nothing? Block and delete. Men who actually want to date you will ask you out within a week. Moving off the dating app is unnecessary until you’ve met in person. You can video chat within the app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:16 PM
6

Mods need to delete this post. What the fuck is this. I actually hate you right now for spewing horribly false and dangerous ideology that harms women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:48 PM
6

I hope so! I read it as being nice and understanding of men but I like your interpretation better if it’s true 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:29 PM
38

I was just about to say that 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:39 PM
83

I hate this meme. Men are competent when they want to be. Tf? Women need to stop normalizing being disrespected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 02:37 PM
39

This is hilarious 😂 I love your wit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:45 PM
32

Love it. This is solid advice. Pornsickness is something I will not tolerate anymore. LVM can get fucked (not literally)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:45 PM
104

Gross. What a rude inappropriate woman, and her son sucks too. Dump them both! A HVM would defend you even against his own mom. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:43 PM
15

Yikes!! This man is a troll and can get hit by a dump truck on the way there. I’m sure he already looks like he’s been hit by one so no harm done. Edit: added a word lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:40 PM
38

YES! I completely agree. I’ve had the same experience when I was younger and I know thousands of other women have the same experience. Ugly men, particularly those who don’t have much going for them, are the absolute worst and will neg you until you’re broken. Ugly men are a no-go. They’re gross and disgusting and trash. I know it’s easier said than done but ignore their negs. They’re seething with jealously and are so insecure and bitter and hate themselves so they want to bring you down to the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:38 PM
6

I love this. I’m saving it in case I ever need to use it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:48 PM
2

This makes me so sad...wtf?!!!?!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:10 PM
2

Yessss! Well said and I completely agree. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:05 PM
17

Amen!! Some women have been replying to my post saying it’s fine to remain friends with an ex...one referred to her ex as her soulmate 😑 uh wat lol...smh. Future with me = no ex in present!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:02 PM
11

I love that!! I’m happy for you and yes I completely agree. There is absolutely no reason to keep in touch with an ex unless they have kids together. No reason whatsoever. I know some people have said under this post that they disagree but it doesn’t float my boat. I’m really happy to hear that you have HV husband. Now THAT’S marriage material!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:56 PM
5

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:34 PM
21

THANK YOU!!!! Well said. I would be mortified if anyone I dated referred to their ex as their soulmate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:18 PM
14

Agreed. Soulmate? Their ex? Okay...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:18 PM
8

To each their own. This is a dealbreaker for my personal self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:17 PM
17

I told him what my dealbreaker is. Didn’t expect or ask or tell him to unfollow/block whatever he did. My post is about my mild surprise that he did unfriend her, and told me explicitly those relationships are of the past to him. We are all here for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:15 PM
27

No you’re not the only one. That’s why on every other dating or relationship subreddit, people say it’s okay to remain friends with an ex or maintain a relationship. To each their own. This is my dealbreaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:13 PM
20

Gross. He sounds like he’ll argue about anything that you feel uncomfortable with. “Babe it makes me uncomfortable and feel disrespected that you watch porn” “LetS dEbaTe iT”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:19 PM
15

Your ex is your soulmate? Are you Tania from 90 Day Fiancé? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:18 PM
14

I don’t understand it either!!!! Pornsick limp dick assholes 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:17 PM
23

Thank you!!! I completely agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:12 PM
21

Yes thank you!!!! I know that some people want to remain friends with your ex but I don’t understand it and will never understand it or accept it. An ex is an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:12 PM
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Yep which is what I wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:38 AM
26

Definitely. If it does build resentment then so be it. That’s on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:37 AM
1

Same guy- A month so not long and not enough time to see if he’s truly HV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:29 AM
8

YESSS!!!! This is Queen energy. If you took him back at his pathetic weak energy “sorry,” he would have kept doing it and lost respect if you accepted him the way he is. Men who like you will contact you every single day. Proud of you 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:16 AM
2

I love this!!!! How long did you two date, how far in the relationship did he propose, and roughly how old are you guys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:13 AM
14

I LOVE THIS!!! I am so happy for you 🤩 this is fucking queen energy right here. This kind of breakthrough is what we are about! You are amazing and I am so proud of you for leveling up 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:11 AM
9

Yes yes yes!!! All of these are completely unacceptable and needs to be met with an automatic block. The ONLY time I would give a another chance is if he suggests drinks or lunch at a nice restaurant then I would nudge him that it’s dinner only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:08 AM
44

My cheating pornsick ex boyfriend did shit like this all the time. This is a nice gesture but always keep in mind EVERYTHING your guy does. Of course, this is sweet and goes to show all men CAN do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:06 AM
2

Hi, I would love the opportunity to provide advice if deemed appropriate. I have read the handbook and live, breathe FDS. Thank you for your consideration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:03 AM
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Outdoor dining at a nice restaurant. Only acceptable date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:02 AM
4

I love these ideas. Saving this post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:36 AM
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straight facts. As a Scorpio, I have coincidentally found that I just have an instant connection with Pisces and Cancers but god damn are they too spineless for me. Currently dating a Scorpio and it’s honestly the perfect amount of intensity for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 04:35 AM
73

Yes!! All they do is complain but not seek actual help....as in BREAKING UP. Having a picture perfect marriage and family on the outside is not worth your respect and dignity inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:06 PM
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That sub gives me nightmares. I don’t understand how women can live like that. I hope they find themselves because almost all of the women in that sub are being abused by NVM and worthless fathers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:05 PM
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This is not acceptable at all. You need to break up with him. Any HVM knows this is beyond inappropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:56 PM
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When I was dating, I never noticed when a guy ghosted me because I never invested in them. Do not emotionally invest in men until you’re exclusive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:49 PM
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This is stellar advice - the cool guys and girls may seem like they’re cool but they have their own host of problems! Just be yourself and enjoy your life at the end of the day :) I remember when I was younger I wanted to fit in so bad 😑 now I enjoy being my eccentric self 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:05 PM
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Do not put up with men forcing themselves on you whether physically or emotionally. You are a PRINCESS. Women truly rule this world. You are the gatekeeper to your body. So many men will do anything for you—don’t settle for LVM. Buy a vibrator if you need to. That would have honestly saved me a lot of heartache when I was younger instead of dating my shitty college boyfriend at the time smh. Focus on growing yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:03 PM
15

Your mutual friend sucks. You’re not in the wrong at all. Consider distancing from your friend as well. good job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:44 PM
24

Just block and don’t bother. Even posting this is giving too much energy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:37 PM
4

😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:35 PM
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This is SO Colt and Debbie from 90 Day Fiancé. Colt is a 30 something year old fat obese VERY-man-booby troll who lives with his mom and makes life a living hell for the women he dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:27 PM
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I fucking love this and THIS is true queen behavior. You radiate FDS and I love that you don’t tolerate fucking bullshit. I hope your man turns it around but if he doesn’t then good riddance! You’re amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:14 AM
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Amen! I met my boyfriend from Tinder as well. I bought Tinder Gold to see who liked me first and it cut down my swiping time. I highly recommend buying 1 month of Tinder Gold just to save time. He only asked me out on dinner dates and activity dates he planned and came to my area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:28 AM
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Proud of you!! It’s hard now but you’ll be thanking your stars you did it now than later. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:20 AM
14

Why is relationship in quotes? Was he your official boyfriend or not? Block this guy and move on!!! Are you kidding me? He’s clearly not into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:57 PM
14

I take a nap. Seriously I take a nap. Even if I can’t fall asleep, I close my blackout curtains and turn off the lights and lay there for an hour or two. I listen to Work B**** by Britney Spears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:02 PM
4

I haven’t but I’ll look into it! I’m so proud of you too ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:36 AM
5

Cold turkey 😫 I did it once before but picked it up after a brutal breakup with a LVM. Now it’s time I quit again and for good! How about you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:22 AM
10

This is 100% true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:37 AM
10

Well said. Thank you for sharing this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:30 AM
10

This is so true and applicable to all bad habits. I quit smoking cigs as of yesterday and it’s such a crutch for me but I keep reminding myself I need to be a HVW and that means no cigs! It’s my secret addiction. I will get over it... I will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:07 AM
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What is wrong with California omg NO!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:46 PM
10

This is very helpful. Thanks for the book recommendation! I will check it out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:34 PM
4

Sorry I don’t have the capacity to handle this. You need to go to the police. Period. You need to report him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:00 AM
9

You were raped. This happened to me too and I stayed friends with him to convince myself it’s okay until I finally saw a therapist and realized WTF I AM NOT OKAY WITH THIS! It’s not your fault. You need to report him to the police. Seriously. I know it’s hard but you need to. Or at least tell HIS mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:40 AM
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I don’t use Bumble at all. The same men are on Tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:22 AM
10

Noonlight though I’ve never tried it I use Life360 with my family - it tells you everything from your driving speed limit to how long you’re in the car to where you are and how long you’re there etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:35 PM
5

Thank you!! Well said. FDS or leave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:09 PM
6

Stop. Read the handbook. This is dumb. He’s not into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:50 AM
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What the fuck? This is highly not FDS. Ugh why are you here. I do mean this offensively because people like YOU are ruining this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:47 AM
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People need to read the handbook. It takes a couple hours at most! The bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:53 AM
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AMEN. It’s exhausting and sad and pathetic to see so many obvious Pick Me posts. Get a grip ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:52 AM
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Amen! My boyfriend does the same. Men don’t leave you confused if they like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:12 PM
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OMG I LOVE THIS!!!!! Aww queen energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:03 PM
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Ugh not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:12 PM
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I don’t tell my boyfriend anything about my anxiety but I’m 100% sure he’s picked up on it. He gets me to talk it out with him instead of overthinking in my head. I don’t share any insecurities with him on purpose but again, I think he picks up on it because he reassured me with words and actions. Men are quite intuitive when they want to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:47 AM
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My HVM boyfriend and I didn’t exchange social media until we became official but best be assured I google searched him beforehand 🤪 (lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:44 PM
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My sister and former best friend is a narcissist. I loved and and love her and miss her but gosh... no thank you now that I have boundaries and actually enforce them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:43 PM
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I am so happy for you!!!! You go girl!!! I know it’s hard at first but it’s worth it. You’re already leveling up and you will only get better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:56 PM
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That’s hella weird and unacceptable. I don’t wear a bra at home around my dad and both of my parents don’t give a fuck. Hell I could wear a bikini and they wouldn’t care. I’m sorry but your family is toxic and your mom needs to get over that. Continue to refuse. That’s unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:16 PM
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Move to the south! There’s a higher percentage of single HV black men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:46 AM
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Sexual market value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:22 PM
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YES from every woman I’ve talked to who is engaged or married, their significant other asked them out officially early on. When men know they want to marry you, they know. So happy for you 😍❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:25 PM
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I understand. What if you told him you don’t want to see anyone else and ask him for his thoughts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:50 AM
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My boyfriend asked me to his girlfriend 5 dates and 3 weeks in. That was after I hinted to him I have other dates but don’t want to see them and he got the hint and asked me out officially. 3 months is a long time. If he doesn’t ask out in the next week, you need to move on. Have you had sex yet? Does he use “we” or future language? This is important. Edit: have you had the exclusivity talk yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:25 AM
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YES! The hottest guys I dated all made me feel hot as well. The ugly bloke I gave a chance ended up cheating on me with someone on his level of attractiveness. Not trying to be catty but I was definitely out of his “league” in terms of looks and personality. And he knew it. Don’t bother giving Uglies a chance. They are insecure and have a complex and don’t respect you for lowering your standards to be with him. They DON’T treat you better- they treat you worse and neg the hell out of you. Only h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:32 PM
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So true!!! Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it and that’s always important to keep in mind ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:34 AM
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Thanks love!! I will!! I think I’m going to marry this man one day. I will give an update when that happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:11 AM
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We met on tinder! His first date suggestion was asking me to meet for happy hour near him that day. I replied saying HAHA NO! Then he tried again. And I said he needs to ask me out on a proper date. Then he straightened up his act from then on and only took me out on dinner dates. I think he started taking me seriously after I set some boundaries and standards. Whenever he did or said something I didn’t like, I made it clear. After the fourth date, I told him, “so I have other dates lined up for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:08 AM
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Wtf??? Men are such creeeps. FUCK OFF CREEPS IF YOU’RE LURKING. Get a life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:03 PM
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I started walking every day. Every single day. I walk 10 miles, rain or shine. I lost 50+ pounds in half a year. I went from obese to a ‘normal’ weight. Walking helps clear my mind and keeps my sanity. I fought for a higher salary. I sought a promotion and didn’t stop until I got it. I started caring about my appearance. I started eating healthy. On the dating apps, I immediately blocked and unmatched any man who suggested a low effort date like meeting in the park or hiking or coffee. There’s n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:16 PM
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“Just because”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:56 AM
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I saw a reddit comment in the dating subreddit and it was a 50 something man who said he is only attracted to women in their 20s and he’s not attracted to women his age. He’s single...not by choice. Scrote 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:56 AM
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And poor!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:32 PM
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LOVE IT. I love how shiny and blue your binder is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:00 PM
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Proud of you. This!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:04 AM
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Reddit hates women. Even the female redditors. That’s why I love this sub. I feel comfortable asking even stupid questions because I know you ladies have my support and best interest. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:53 AM
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Gross. That’s so embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:15 AM
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THANK YOU MODS!!! When FDS was gone for what seemed like eternity, I felt lost again. Thank you for seriously saving my life and making me realize I am worthy and a whole person ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:49 AM
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AMEN. I completely agree and thank you for understanding!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:54 PM
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Yes!!! It’s the way OP wrote and phrased her words. She was slinging very LV phrases and honestly they hurt. I completely agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:53 PM
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OP’s condescending language- Don’t want to STARVE myself on 1200 calories like other women Don’t want to RUIN my skin like other women Don’t want to HURT [MY] SKELETAL STRUCTURE with heels like other women These are all false and extremely judgmental and negative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:43 PM
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Thank you for explaining this. Well said. You’re very eloquent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:34 PM
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She’s tearing other women down like myself for enjoying wearing makeup a certain way, wearing heels, being a “girly girl.” I’m not down with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:24 PM
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1200 calories isn’t starving yourself. As a petite woman, it’s actually a standard amount of calories for myself. You’re coming across extremely judgmental and negative and you seem to hate/look down/be jealous of more feminine women. Your entire rant about makeup and heels honestly pisses me off. Let women enjoy things. You’re being one of those “I’m not like other girls.” Realize it doesn’t matter what men want....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:18 PM
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“I bet you believed it when your mom told you any girl would be lucky to have you” 💀💀💀FUCKING SAVAGE 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:10 PM
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LOVE THIS. Great excuse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:54 PM
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25 F. I expect/want a man to text me every day. It doesn’t have to be long but at least 1 check in per day when he’s courting me. He will initiate and I will not unless it’s to confirm plans. While we’re in a relationship, we’ll definitely be texting every day and it doesn’t matter who texts first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:07 AM
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I legit CACKLED. Y’all are too funny 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:17 AM
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I’m fucking proud of you. You are strong and I am not only impressed but I want to be like you. Fuck him. He sucks and you know your worth. Always keep your life going and keep seeing your friends and have your own routine even when you’re in a relationship so that a boyfriend adds to your life but breaking up with him doesn’t remove anything but himself from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:59 PM
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If he has a good income then a degree is not required.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:00 PM
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Same. My ex was raised in a two-parent household with a trust fund and ended up with a coke addiction and went to rehab many times. He doesn’t have to work and it shows...and not in an good way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:03 AM
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First off, I love the way you write 😂💛 you’re funny! You’re well spoken and well assured. You’re being way too nice to this guy right now. FUCK HIM. What the fuck? If someone did that for me, I would call multiple times a day and send them dinner money every day. He’s being a complete dick. I would NOT see him after this. He is using you. A responsible dog owner would have took him to the doggie hotel. He’s cheap and rude. You ARE too good for him. I seriously hate him just from what you wrote. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:27 AM
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I appreciate all of your help! Thanks. I will make sure I’m busy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:43 PM
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Very well said. Thanks 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:42 PM
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Thanks for the advice and all the tips. I really really appreciate it. I will do this!! That’s a great idea to make plans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:42 PM
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Block him and cut off all contact. It will be hard at first but you need to do it. It’s like any addiction- the first few days are the hardest, the first few weeks may still be hard, you may get flashbacks a couple months in, but eventually you just forget and you realize you’ve moved on. End all contact NOW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:11 PM
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Hey it happens! People come and go. You don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you. Around 4-5 dates is when guys know if they want to be in a relationship with you. Up until then, 5 dates really isn’t anything serious enough to be emotionally invested in someone. You’ll be okay :) Yes it may suck now but you’ll forget about it and have moved on a year from now and probably even sooner. Just because a guy rejects you does not mean you’re not enough. It just means you two aren’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:08 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:52 PM
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Thanks!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:35 AM
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A male troll HAD to write this 😂 it’s so unbelievable 😂 straight out of a porno
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:15 AM
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How long would be appropriate to get into a relationship (if you’re having 1-2 dates a week?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:13 AM
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Well said. You’re eloquent as fuck. Thank you for putting this into words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:07 AM
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Hahaha ILY!!! Too funny 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:03 AM
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All I said was- it was Pick Me attitude. You said she was being unreasonable in your personal opinion and said good luck sarcastically to her in finding men who don’t multi-date. That’s not very encouraging and doesn’t align with FDS because we don’t want just any ol’ man. We all have our opinions, you are entitled to yours, your opinion this time was downvoted for a reason. That’s all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:01 AM
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💀💀💀💀 facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:56 PM
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Exactly!! When I was browsed their subreddit for a few mins, all I kept seeing was them SAYING they’re a self improvement sub and that FDS is toxic but none of them explained HOW to self improve nor actual reasons WHY FDS is bad 😂 all talk and no walk. It was all bullshit PUA and smack tack about women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 07:52 PM
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Exactly 😂 they whine soooo much and claim they’re trying to help men but how??? All they do is complain about how they hate women and how women are the devil (literally)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:10 PM
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So I browsed the MGTOW subreddit just now and they are OBSESSED WITH us. We barely have any posts about them while they’re posting about FDS every day!!! 😹😹😹 I’m dead!! Stay pressed worthless losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:42 PM
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Thanks! I was able to view this way. My favorite comment is: If FDS actually wanted to give women strategies on how to trap a provider, they'd be telling women to act just like that. Instead it's all entitlement and bitchiness that men run screaming away from. THAT MEANS FDS WORKS!!! That means we push away MGTOW men!!! 🙌🙌🙌 thank god. We don’t need worthless men in our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:32 PM
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It says server error when I click on the link- I wonder if I’m blocked? Even though I’ve never visited that subreddit 😂 Anyway, thanks for summarizing and sharing! MGTOW men are all NVM. They’re complete trash and the worst type of men to exist because they’re worthless and also take others down with them so they’re even worse than worthless. That girl may not realize it but she’s better off anyway. JUST GROSS 🤢🤮 MGTOW men are so unlovable they have to manipulate women into loving them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:26 PM
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Ew wtf????! Of course he’s active in MMA and CSC. Ugh 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:22 PM
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It works for me (iPhone). Might be an Android-only issue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:21 PM
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Definitely not!!! Not as bad as girls-next-door local girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:42 PM
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Yes that’s how I feel as well!!! It’s a perfect distance for cheaters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:11 PM
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I recently bought swimwear from there. I wouldn’t buy actual clothing unless I was in high school or college since I am a working woman and can afford better quality clothing but I’m still not at that point in life where I’ll spend several hundred on a bathing suit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:43 PM
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We don’t allow Pick Me attitude here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:40 PM
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Oh I love that! Thanks so much 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:37 PM
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I’ve had LVM travel 2+ hours, and one even flew across the world and booked a nice hotel in NYC, just to see me. And even when I was not in the city, LVM have traveled hours to see me. At the end of the day, I want to date someone who lives near me. And long distance relationships may work for some but it doesn’t work for me. Does this really work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:30 PM
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Your sister and possibly mom too?!!?? Holy fucking hell I’m so sorry. Do you have kids with him? If so, do not let him see them ever again. If not, count your blessings. Those friends and family are demented. I hope they all burn in hell and your ex gets ran over multiple times. What the fucking hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:20 PM
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I didn’t watch the video but it’s disrespectful to you and for most of us, it does sting and hurt our feelings and THEY know that. If they cared, they wouldn’t do it. Period!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:16 PM
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What does gray rock mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:10 PM
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I fucking love you. 😂😂 You’re quick! I wish I could be that quick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:44 AM
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I know when you’re young, it doesn’t seem like age is a big deal. I used to be your age and dated older men. I thought older women were just jealous but I now realize and wish I listened to these women who were the man’s age. I have a lot of trauma and ptsd and know other women who were in these type of predatory relationships have it too. This is a significant age difference at your current age. It doesn’t matter once you’re older but at 20? Stick to 23 and under. Whether you realize it or not,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:28 AM
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No he’s the same as me. We’re both centrist leaning liberal. He was going on about the good and bad of each candidate and I just didn’t care at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:47 AM
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I glared at him and rolled my eyes and told him I was bored because he kept talking about polities and he immediately apologized and again the next day. Yeah you’re right. I like him and it’s messing with my head. If he actually liked me too then he would have asked already. I won’t block but I’ll delete this number and then block him if his next message isn’t to ask me out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:44 AM
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No worries, it took me until I became obese to gain this confidence. I had always hated my body before. Then when I lost 50 lbs, I realized I was taking my body for granted and I now finally appreciate that I can walk/move without pain. I count my calories too but it’s not a big deal if I forget to. If it does become a big deal then that’s def when it’s a red flag it’s an ED. Men are soooo idiotic and stupid and they shouldn’t be fat to begin with. Women need our fat to carry babies and do other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:00 AM
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Agreed! I haven’t posted anything since last year. I’m just over it to be honest. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:33 PM
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Good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:17 PM
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When I was thinner (your weight), that’s when EVERY guy I dated forced me to go on a diet and exercise regime as well!!! back then, I was also 18-21 and had very low self esteem so the LVM/NVM were vultures. Now I’m fat. I’m 10 pounds overweight and no guy dares to treat me this way because even though I’m fatter, I am more assured and confident in myself. I actually LOVE my body- it’s been through hell and back- and I won’t accept a man who doesn’t love it as well. It’s disgusting and sick how …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:44 PM
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Yes. Just know there may be LV people who try to bring you down and tell you discouraging things when you say you’re going back to school after dropping out. Fuck them! Even my own parents at one point told me I’m not smart enough to go back to school and that I was too old. Just know, the only person you need to report to and compete against is yourself. There will be haters and doubters and they might not even realize they’re doing it. I believe in you!!! Best of luck ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:32 PM
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Instant block. There’s no getting to fuck heads like this. I only allow them a chance to redeem themself if they ask something like “do you want to get food/dinner/drink?” and I tell them to ask again properly. Edit: and they always do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:28 PM
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You need to go back to school- it doesn’t have to be a 4 year university but it can be a trade or technical school. Very very high chance you’ll only keep meeting LVM in this vulnerable position you’re in. You’re not doing yourself any favors. I don’t care if it’s hard for you. Go back to school and graduate and get that degree. This IS life or death. If you’re not that great at academics then that’s fine! Go to trade or technical school. Beauty school, etc. What I love about this country is it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:20 PM
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I know men on bumble who say looking for a relationship when I KNOW they’re strictly looking to hook up. Take it with a grain of salt. But do still swipe left on ‘casual’ and ‘not sure’ because those fucks probably won’t even go down on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 06:42 PM
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😂😂😂 I love you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:08 AM
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SAME! this NVM told me i was a loser because i was still in college at 22 years old. i cried that night. two years later, i saw him on tinder and that fat fuck got fatter and uglier, and guess who graduated and has a better job now? (me)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:03 PM
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I feel fooled by Instagram once again because I had been thinking this entire time that it stood for Women Against Patriarchy and I googled it and it's legit Wet Ass Pussy -_- hahahah damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:13 PM
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This lady at my mom's church had a baby in her 40s (with a man in his 30s) and the baby was very healthy and is now a happy little child. Age means there is less chance of the baby being born AND the baby being healthy but there is still a chance it can happen (well until menopause).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:11 PM
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I have straight up left dates without saying anything before if the guy is being a jerk and unmatch them on the way out. THEY can pay. I value my time so it's on their dime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:09 PM
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I saw this too on the reddit main page and thought - damn I'm jealous (in a good way)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:06 PM
1

he’s a nice one!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:26 PM
4

“that’s what you look like every day” turn it around on them. fuck men. they know what they’re doing by saying this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:12 PM
49

it’s a neg. he’s criticizing your fashion choices. it’s like when people say “wow ashley graham is SO confident for walking the runway in lingerie” (because ashley graham is obese). get my drift? block and delete. he knows what he’s doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:11 PM
2

amen to that! better now then never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:06 PM
10

hell fucking yes. true. thank you- i needed to hear this. i won’t be going over there anytime soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:59 PM
6

i needed to hear this. thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:59 PM
6

agreed! i won’t be going over annnnytime soon. thanks ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:58 PM
4

Thanks for your advice. I won’t be going over until we are girlfriend/boyfriend status and I know him for longer. It’s just too risky and most men are trash even if some hide their mask for longer than other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:58 PM
181

the only advice a man gave me that was FDS worthy was from my landlord who is an elderly man in his 70s- he said, YOU are a princess and don’t you ever forget that. any guy is lucky to date you, not the other way around. now stop crying over some worthless guy and go enjoy your day other than that, pretty much NOTHING. all my former guy friends are trash and offered LVM advice since they’re also LVM and tried to take me down with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:44 AM
15

agreed! when i was a pick me, i was low value myself and surrounded myself with other low value pick me’s. it was so toxic and i ended all of those friendships. i have less friends now but the ones i have are more genuine and don’t do shit like let me get assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:04 AM
8

i love this- using this. thank you so much. i really appreciate your way with words ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 04:02 AM
20

reputation and image and to showboat for others that they have their shit together. fuck that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:48 AM
56

i fucking hate myself for listening to libfem bullshit when i was younger and splitting the bill when i was in college and the guy had a JOB. ew so over that bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:47 AM
34

war terrors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:47 AM
3

proud of you. you got this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:38 AM
46

and you can change that starting now ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:33 AM
6

YES haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:32 AM
7

amen. i’m not at my ideal weight yet but i still treat myself to nice clothes because i believe in taking care of myself now. clothes and feeling pretty and looking good make a huge difference in how i feel and act and how people treat me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:32 AM
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why are you talking to him then? he’s LV and will only bring you down. the more you keep talking to them, the more you’ll get emotionally invested which you already are by posting this. it may be hard now but it will only get more difficult. cut him out now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:29 AM
13

is this a friend? if not DELETE AND BLOCK. he’s not respecting your boundaries and therefore is a LVM. plus, the socially distanced walk is already low effort and LV. ALSO if he’s your “friend” then he’s a shitty friend and you should ghost him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:28 AM
12

I gained 50 pounds in 2 years after I broke my arm and ended a toxic relationship with a LVM. My self esteem was still high (or so I thought) but I could tell the men I was going on dates with weren’t as excited as before my weight gain, and were equally or more obese than me and I wasn’t attracted to them and they weren’t that attracted to me either but we both were going on these dates because we had no other options, and because I was obese, they weren’t putting out full stops as I was used t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:06 AM
53

Craig is a fucking loser dipshit. Fuck off Craig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:49 PM
2

hell fucking yes. true af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:11 AM
24

i’m 25 and every one i’ve gone on a date with lately has been 23 and 24 and they treat me soooo much better and more respectful than 30+ year olds. it’s such a stark difference. i don’t know if it’s the Gen Z thing or what, but i’m honestly never going back to dating older men again (maybe up to 28 but definitely not 30+ unless i’m 30+)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:50 PM
3

1-2x a week in the suburbs 2-3x in the city
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:07 PM
49

from the beginning- it’s a big deal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 06:06 PM
44

i’m sorry you had to experience this. fuck him. don’t bother even engaging with someone like this. happy for you that you blocked and deleted. he’s trying to make you angry. instead you can laugh at him that he’s so bitter and miserable he has to try to make someone else bitter and miserable too. YOU ARE QUEEN 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:52 AM
8

I fucking hate sick shitheads like this. This guy used to mail me handwritten and printed cards to my home because I stopped talking to him online .... we never met. He didn’t stop when I found his mom and sister and contacted them that he’d been harassing me. He FINALLY stopped when I reported him to his school and I got his professional account permanently suspended because this depraved idiot fucker spammed me from his professional account. We never even exchanged nudes or talked about anythi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:18 PM
75

i had always wanted labiaplasty growing up until recently. i thought about WHY i wanted it and it was years of seeing gross roast beef and ham pictures comparing women’s vaginas to deli meat. fuck that noise. my body is MY body and i’m loving it now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:26 PM
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Write an email to your professor or TA explaining this and even include articles and statistics. This will most likely help boost your grade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:57 PM
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