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pearlspaghetti/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:06 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYpearlspaghetti/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:40 AM
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pearlspaghetti/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 03:02 AM
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pearlspaghetti/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:07 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYpearlspaghetti/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:58 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYpearlspaghetti/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:19 AM
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RANTpearlspaghetti/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:20 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGpearlspaghetti/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:02 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESpearlspaghetti/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:21 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESpearlspaghetti/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:24 PM
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Not sure either. I understand what you’re saying, it feels like dogs can sometimes be too receptive to people and can have a lot of misplaced loyalty, even in abusive situations. I find cats are a little better at asserting their boundaries right off the bat. That said, I absolutely love dogs and cats equally. My sweet old girl (black Lab) passed 3 years ago, but now I have a kitty. Both are incredible animals in their own ways, just different. Plus you have to account for general personality di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:27 PM
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Wow, just read your edits. ENRAGING!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:55 AM
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Omg! Now this fucker knows where she lives. Ugh. TW: I remember a while back, someone posted a video from Russia that showed a good samaritan beating the hell out of a rapist. His victim was elderly, I’m talking at least 70+. Her screams were haunting and gut wrenching. Her clothes were ripped open, she was bloodied and had dirt on her smeared on her face. It made me want to throw up. The rapist was probably only in his 20s or 30s. Thankfully someone intervened, but too many women aren’t that lu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 11:41 PM
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Very possible, but the psychology behind them negging women is still the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:55 AM
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We’re not supposed to have one. Poopoo icky for dicky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:44 AM
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“Bussed a u turn as soon as she saw me inda alley” uh yeah, no kidding? Any time I see anyone in an alley at night I naturally avoid them and the entire area like the plague. This is a reality for women. The best part is, we’re taught from a young age that we MUST do our “due diligence” to protect ourselves from predators, and then when we take precautions we’re still shit on for being hyper-vigilant. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. This guy is a fucking psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:01 AM
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That’s amazing, congratulations! LVM will stop at nothing to convince us we’ll fail, so pathetic. The proof is in the pudding though and you’re absolutely crushing it. I’m so proud of you! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:55 PM
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That makes me thrilled to hear! Cheers, sis! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:22 PM
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Sadly 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:17 PM
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Honestly, it was horrific to watch, it could have easily killed her. Does Uma still suffer because of the injury? His total disregard is enraging!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:08 PM
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Tarantino radiates nuclear level scrote energy. No wonder so many LVM think he’s a genius and adore his films.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 04:17 AM
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“Why can’t I just be enough for him?” Because he’s a selfish pig? Poor girl. Her self-esteem is in the dump and it’s constantly exacerbated by his sexual manipulation. Men like this are Dementors and just exist to destroy women’s happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:57 AM
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Um, I don’t think you understand. Clearly you’re a spicy, exotic Latina who dances sexy Cumbia at ALL times, even while casually walking down the street and in the kitchen when you fix me a homecooked meal. /s I swear, these racist, fetishist morons 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:48 PM
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Sounds like you dropped a lot of dead weight - good riddance to them all! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:57 PM
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returned to his mother 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:58 PM
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For real. If your driver is a LV piece of shit, it’s pretty much like being trapped in a cage with a hungry lion. This is why I’ve just stopped using it, even when it would be more convenient for me than driving. I’d rather inconvenience myself than endure getting hit on, being bombarded with questions about my life and feeling vulnerable the entire drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:10 PM
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Ooof lol, I recoiled at her reply 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:03 PM
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Been there, babe! You’re doing great, okay? Coming out of an abusive relationship is a rollercoaster of emotions, but you can only take it day by day. This is a time to channel all your energy toward yourself and learn how to delight in the things you love again. You got this! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:45 PM
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Count me in the club! So nice to see other INFP FDSers lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:08 PM
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A nice set of britties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:07 PM
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These guys are everywhere. Before I met my boyfriend, I was really warming up to a guy I kept crossing paths with in my circle of friends. When we started talking more over a few weeks, I saw potential and he honestly seemed like a decent guy - smart, nice, worldly. As we talked more often though, it was becoming obvious that he was seeing me through Not LiKe OtHer GirLs glasses just because of my ethnicity. Didn’t take long before one day he sent me a popular alt-right meme about my country, th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:14 PM
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Old-fashioned Christmas cookies are the best 🥺❤️ This is a genius idea. You get to enjoy a variety of cookies without having to bake them all yourself. I find baking too many kinds can be taxing, I get annoyed at about 2-3 types. Stealing this idea for this year, thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 10:16 PM
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Okay, this sounds like the best Christmas ever. Also, a cookie swap is such a cute idea! How many different types did you end up with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:23 PM
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Don’t worry, they’re pretty much sterilizing themselves. Some of these guys are in their physical prime and can’t get an erection to a woman in the flesh. There’s probably 70-year-olds out there with harder erections than most 25-year-old pornsick losers. At some point, they just have resign themselves to a life of porn and MGTOW because they know real sex will be impossible with a raging ED - all attempts at intimacy have failed. It’s hilarious to imagine their male ancestors surviving literal …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:30 PM
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That’s for when he finally invites one of the 4 sons under age 5 that he bred with different women over for a weekend. He’s showing us he’s a good father. What a King! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:16 PM
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If a person expects to be loved UnCoNdiTioNaLLy, that’s your cue to avoid them. They’re flat out telling you they’re prone to heinous behavior and expect you to tolerate every step of the way in the name of unconditional love. It rarely extends the other way, though. Any person without their head up their own ass knows that conditional love is normal and reasonable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 02:08 PM
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🚨Emotional incest alert! Emotional incest alert! 🚨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:57 PM
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Same! Someone referenced it as “the worst place on Reddit” and I just had to see what this big, bad, terrifying corner of the internet was all about. Apparently, I had unknowingly been applying FDS principles to my life before I even knew it was a thing. Stayed because I have never been able to find so many women on the exact same wavelength in one place and FDS is still important even if you already have a partner. Thanks, scrotes! 🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 11:15 PM
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😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 05:58 PM
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Did anyone see the video posted in another sub the other day of the Taliban coming to abduct a little girl for “marriage” (rape and slavery, let’s call it what it is) She was screaming and crying and desperately clinging to her family while a grown man 3x her size was ripping her from them. I bawled my eyes out. It keeps replaying in my head. I can’t understand that level of depravity and cruelty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 01:02 PM
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Speechless. It shouldn’t shock me, but it always does. Be vigilant ladies. May all the victims rest in peace. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:33 PM
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The amount of Chris Watts apologists there are is disturbing. I watched a few compilations of Shannan’s MLM social media videos hawking random products, and plenty of amateur youtube psychologists in the comments (mostly other women, sadly) were calling her a full-blown narcissist and they could see how “Chris got pushed over the edge.” Don’t get me wrong, I loathe MLM “Hun” personalities as much as the next person, but apparently that means she deserved to be murdered in cold blood? It’s clear …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 05:32 PM
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For real. Women are constantly made to feel ashamed and defective for being single mothers. Typically it’s the sperm donor who walks out, doesn’t want to assume any responsibility for their kid, and yet it’s the woman who is denigrated and stigmatized. You just know this loser isn’t at all involved in his kids’ lives, he oozes total deadbeat energy and tells on himself. Yet, he’s so damn confident and entitled that he’d turn his nose up at a single mother, despite having a whole ass army of chil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:37 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:57 PM
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So much. The girl is literally a doctor and she settles for some dusty ass criminal bum. People romanticize their eDgY relationship, but it couldn’t be more of a cautionary tale. Hell, she even gets murdered by her scrote’s emotionally-incestuous mother in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:26 PM
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Lol, right? All you “won” is a scrote who settled for you and disrespects you right to your face. He’s telling you what he thinks of you. If he had a chance with any of those girls, he’d drop you yesterday. This is the same logic Cool Girls use when their scrotes go to strip clubs - “he comes home to me!” yeah after a night ogling other women, getting lap dances, and maybe a couple of paid extras. No shit he’s gonna come home to someone who cooks for him, cleans for him, washes his laundry, afte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:28 PM
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Giving yourself an erectile dysfunction at 23 because you’ve watched too many other men having sex and effectively destroying your ability to ever have a sexually satisfying relationship with a real human. A coomer’s dick is their undoing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:27 PM
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LOL. creating jealousy plots These are the same guys that say women are too much drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:12 PM
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So true. If someone said they had fantasies of holding down a puppy, restraining it, beating it, then raping it, people would rightfully freak out and want the guy on a watch list. But when a woman is the one being brutalized? Nothing to see here! Perfectly normal and healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 01:08 PM
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Kevin is a -27/10 I looked up Kevin Samuels and found some experimental human/thumb hybrid with tiny shoulders wearing a blazer made from dining room curtains staring back at me. The audacity of this scrote calling any woman average. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 12:08 AM
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They’re more than happy to objectify women but also want brownie points for managing to convince a woman that it was her idea all along. They frame their objectification as a show of support, as if they’re not at all benefitting from it. No, no, they’re “feminists” and merely there to cheer her on in the best way they know how - with their dicks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:14 PM
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This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:19 PM
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A subreddit for women to share their living spaces and ask for decorating advice, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:05 PM
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What I thought 2021 would be like when I was a little girl: hover cars, futuristic smart homes, robo pets, etc. What 2021 is really like: Anal and pussy gummy bears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:45 AM
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Gross. Leo will eventually be 80 with his foot half in the grave, own a defective penis that withered and died eons ago, but will still want a 20-year-old girlfriend. Even then, scrotes will be like iT’s jUst BioLogY! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 08:17 PM
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They simp because he’s living out their dream of having a never-ending stream of girlfriends that get younger and younger, as he gets older. It’s hilarious that so many scrotes cite Leo as proof that men “only get better with age” when, apart from women dazzled by his celebrity status, no one really finds him attractive anymore. Female celebrities have do absolutely everything in their power to defy the aging process to, at best, have people say they look good for their age. Leo out here looking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:50 PM
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Fucking disgusting. Any piece of deviant garbage that has a father/daughter fetish shouldn’t ever be allowed to breed. If you find anything even remotely tantalizing about a father/daughter relationship, you’re a failure as a human. Every scrote with this fetish deserves to be found out and cut out of their daughter’s life for eternity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:03 AM
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“Ayelmaoden” 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:15 PM
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It’s alarming how common it is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 03:10 AM
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Omg, poster child right there. Interestingly, I was reading how men in emotionally incestuous relationships with their mothers have a high rate of porn and sex addiction. They tend to avoid dating because they subconsciously see it as a betrayal to their mother. So they turn to porn or sex workers to fulfill their sexual desire, without any of the intimate attachment of a proper relationship. Coltee is constantly going on about how much he loves and needs sex. Hell, even when he has women way ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:16 PM
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Positions of power are so alluring to depraved, predatory men. It’s just easier to assume that any man in the political sphere is actually a charlatan who’s ready and willing to exploit his position on behalf of MuhPenis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:40 PM
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I think it depends what angle they’re playing. My scrote ex would break his stuff, but only so he could guilt trip me afterward when he had to buy a new phone, controller, or clean up his place after he tore it apart lol. Then for weeks I’d question how I could send him over the edge like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:06 PM
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When the pickmes realize their scrote husband ain’t shit, they invest 100% of their effort into making their son into the husband they never had. Being with their son is akin to being the “other woman” in an affair. These little “princes” grow up with zero backbone where mommy is concerned and her needs will always come first. 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:52 PM
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Right? The friend did come forward like 3 years after their death though, when the murderous scumbag offered him money again in hopes of having his parents murdered for life insurance money. I guess the friend “remembered” that critical piece of information at that point. I mean, I’m glad he came forward at all but talk about too little, too late. The coward, Robert Duke really hoped he could wipe out his whole family and live his best life. RIP Liana and Erik Duke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:50 PM
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I was watching a true crime show a while back, one of the cases was about some demonic piece of shit that pushed his wife and his own 5-year-old son off a cliff. He absolutely despised being married but hated the thought of having to pay child support if they divorced, so he decided murdering them in cold blood was the best solution. He was also in a “relationship” a 13-year-old child at the time. Didn’t see that coming 🙄. He lured his wife and son up to some cliffs under the pretense that they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 08:16 AM
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Holy shit. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 04:39 PM
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Wait, wait. What’s the nest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 02:36 AM
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You’re smart to not divulge anything to them. This is exactly what happened to my boyfriend’s aunt in Mexico 20+ years ago. Her and her abusive, cheating “husband” (wasn’t really, but everyone acted like they were married) finally split after she couldn’t tolerate his bullshit anymore. He of course threatened her over the years to prevent her from moving on and he was especially bitter because they had a son together. Eventually though, she decided she deserved happiness and started dating again…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:38 PM
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The audacity lol, he cheats and still expects you to fork over the gift after the fact. I know LVM have always been shitty, but this generation of scrotes really take the cake when it comes to their embarrassing, child-like entitlement. “But, but…you promised, mommy 😔” - they’re ingrates and spoiled brats, not men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:42 PM
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Yet they constantly deride us for our use of “queen.” We call other women “queen” when they do something that exemplifies how much strength, self-respect or love they have for themselves. Men? A guy admits he essentially cucked himself with porn and suffers from an ED at the ripe old age of 23 and it’s big KING status lol. The bar is so fucking low for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:23 PM
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Lmao, spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:08 PM
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I don’t know what’s sadder, if he’s using this as a way to get back in the picture just to show her what she’s “missing out on now”, or if he was honestly that tormented for being let down gently by someone who wasn’t interested? Kind of reminds of that scrote who sued a woman for the price of a movie ticket because she texted and walked out of their date. The fragility is unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:22 AM
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That movie is so gut-wrenching. Watched it once years ago with a friend who was going through a bunch of Stephen King adaptations. Haven’t thought about it in a while, but if ever a movie portrays how just miserable a disgusting NVM can make your and your children’s lives, that’s it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 12:10 AM
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That’s just revolting. Wow. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:17 PM
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Here’s another simple way to avoid disappointment: don’t settle for someone who “doesn’t have the capacity” when you can just find someone who does. Women are always encouraged to stoop down to meet scrotes at their level instead seeking out men who already reach theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:15 PM
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Is she seriously fucking asking? He even admitted she shouldn’t have seen those. It’s really no wonder such an alarming amount of children experience sexual abuse - we have a world full of heinous predators and people who are either oblivious to glaring red flags or ones who very intentionally ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:18 PM
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ominous banjo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:39 AM
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And when we create an exclusive space to learn how to the protect ourselves from the likes of such creatures, we’re deemed the most dangerous, inflammatory and hateful sub on this entire platform. Nevermind that there’s people here that literally idolize murderers like “Saint” Elliot Rodger and spread wickedly misogynistic ideas - no, FDS is by far THE worst. It’s infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:37 AM
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Something out of Deliverance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:23 AM
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Right? A person who sees their marriage as sacred wouldn’t consider any kind of arrangement that has the potential to make their partner insecure. Even if their spouse never vocalized any insecurities, anyone with an ounce of emotional intelligence could see how this could be disruptive. If we pretended for a second that him and the ex are just two mature adults who have absolutely zero unresolved romantic feelings for each other (doubtful 🤡) it would still be wildly inappropriate. A person who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:17 AM
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“Then I found out she’s planning on staying with us” - lol, so your husband gave the go-ahead without even consulting you on whether or not you’d be comfortable to have his ex-wife sleeping in the home you share? Any man with even a shred of respect for his marriage wouldn’t entertain such an arrangement, let alone agree to it without asking his wife. I don’t care how amicable a split is, it’s a big nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:11 AM
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I guess somewhere in between having an emotional affair with his first cousin (whom he later married) and abandoning his children, he forgot to cite her contributions. Einstein was a scrote of the highest order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 01:33 AM
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Scrotes will call themselves foodies if they had Korean BBQ for a company lunch once 2 years ago and watched a few episodes of an Anthony Bourdain show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:42 PM
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Oh God, I read it so fast I just saw “wife” and “birth”. A lesson in actually reading something thoroughly before commenting. 🙈🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:44 PM
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Women carry a baby for 9 months, endure sickness and all kinds of bodily changes, then in the end they still have to go through one the most mentally and physically challenging experiences in their life when they give birth. This fucking loser couldn’t sacrifice one day of his time to support his wife and witness the birth of his own flesh and blood, he’d rather watch people drive cars in a loop. He’s so shameless, he thinks it’s funny and worthy of advertising. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:22 PM
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Yup, once a scrote messaged me to tell me I’m just tormented because I’m about to hit the wall at 24 and my value effectively decreases every year after 25. Imagine thinking a woman who’s lived a quarter of her life is now worthless, worn out, and should be discarded because they aren’t sexually desirable anymore. Then they wonder why we think so many LVM are secretly pedophiles. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:30 AM
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❤️ Oh, wow, you’re too kind! I’m glad I was able to make you laugh, but I’m sorry that it had to involve such visually disturbing content 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:16 PM
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No one can convince me this guy isn’t the result of some kind of highly classified government experiment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:15 PM
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It looks like dough that’s been punched after rising. “Men never hit the wall” “men age like wine, women like milk.” - cool, this guy’s geriatric asscheeks would like a word with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 05:12 PM
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Right? It seems outrageous that she could really be that oblivious? At “best”, she had horrendously bad judgement. At worst, she knew and didn’t care. Don’t get me wrong, he’s the predator and I’m not trying to minimize that. But it’s painful knowing that this girl (like too many others) was failed on every single front.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 09:14 PM
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Yup, it’s women that are routinely classed as being hysterical and men are hailed as stoic and immune to emotional displays. Imagine being so unstable that watching people kicking a fucking ball around sends you into such an unbridled rage that it results in you beating your innocent partner black and blue. How a man accepts defeat in any arena in life speaks volumes about his character. If a man gets violent over something so trivial, how will he react to actual life stressors?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 02:01 AM
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Right? The fact that this poor girl is asking for advice instead of just fleeing in self-preservation after a confession of this magnitude says everything that needs to be said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:57 PM
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Lmao, that had me cackling. It’s like, trust me buddy, it’s not because you lack sexy booty shorts that no one is checking you out 😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 04:31 PM
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You just articulated everything I’ve been thinking and feeling perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:51 PM
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Omg, I’m so sorry about what your mother went through. What kind of degenerate beats a woman ever, but especially when she’s at her most physically vulnerable? It’s unthinkable. Some of these “men” are the lowest of creatures. Honestly, I really used to want to have a big family. I’m one of 4 siblings also, grew up in a completely dysfunctional family, so my dream of having a lot of kids was probably in some way supposed to be a “redemption” for everything I experienced. However, lately, I want …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:39 PM
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That’s heartbreaking. She was in total physical and mental distress giving birth to their child, and this lowlife uses it as an opportunity to humiliate her. No wonder she called out for her mom, she literally provides more support from beyond the grave than her living, breathing, scrote of a husband. Also, the MIL 🤦‍♀️. I wish these women who just live to encourage their sons’ shitty behavior toward their spouses would just acknowledge that they wish they could be the one married to them and fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:23 PM
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Me too 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:51 PM
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“It’s staring to sound like a YOU problem” lmao, yeah let’s entirely disregard the sexually explicit messages he still keeps from exes (multiple apparently), the photos on the nightstand and other inappropriate behavior that she had to reluctantly accept, and let’s just place the entirety of the blame on her and her “trust issues.” He gets a free pass because he has cognitive issues as an addict and how he deals with his exes is just who he is lol. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:40 PM
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Yes, my people also have a well-known monastery on Mt. Athos. We’ve known a handful of men who’ve gone on a pilgrimage there. Some of these guys are complete NVM; alcoholics, cheaters, abusers, you name it. But heaven forbid a woman should step foot on the soil and defile it, tempting the monks by…existing! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:39 PM
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Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think a person is ever completely fine with it. Obviously you don’t just forget someone who was that important to you and erase their entire existence from your memory, it’s something you carry forever. But in this case, I think there’s a distinct difference between grieving them and cherishing what you had in a healthy ways, versus “moving on” yet remaining so inconsolable that you berate your new partner for not navigating such a delicate situation exactly the way y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:00 AM
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Unreal. I can sympathize that it must be absolutely traumatic to lose a spouse, but a person has absolutely no business dragging an innocent party into a relationship when they clearly haven’t healed fully from the loss of their partner. It’s selfish as hell. Stay single until you know you’re truly ready to move on and you know you’re genuinely emotionally available enough to give your new partner your full heart. That kind of healing takes so much time, but LVM don’t ever seem to have the patie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:39 PM
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Please, please consider leaving sooner rather than biding your time. I know you feel trapped and are waiting for what feels like the “right moment”, but domestic abuse can escalate at any moment and there might not be a later. You don’t deserve this. At all. I don’t know where you live, but do you have any trusted friends? Are there any local organizations that work on behalf of victims of domestic violence? Please, I urge you for the sake of your mental and physical well-being, try to leave as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 06:07 PM
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That literally hurt my heart to read. To think the last years of her life were spent in this utterly cruel, perpetual hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:27 PM
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1) A crusty old loser desperately trying to hold on to his lost youth who feels validated by strangers actually entertaining the possibility that he could be with a much younger, much more attractive girl. 2) A crusty old pervert that secretly harbors a disturbing sexual attraction to his own daughter. 3) Or both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:04 PM
11

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:14 PM
60

And you just know he’s low-level smug about that matted ball of wiry pube hair, like having a beard is a legitimate personality trait. He leaves it unkempt but probably still oils it with some cognac and tabacco scented garbage to make him feel SoPhIsTicaTed and like he’s even doing something. Meanwhile, his ass stank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:23 AM
6

Especially on FDS, where we have a whole mob of dedicated scrotes who spend disturbing amounts of time hate reading the subs lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:05 AM
6

Happy Birthday! It sounds like you had an absolutely incredible weekend feeling truly adored and surrounded by those you love. The roses are just stunning! 🥳🎀🌸💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:27 AM
37

Wow, how dare she? She talked about cadavers once, for a whole 10 minutes! It’s completely unreasonable for her to not expect her boyfriend to immediately sexualize them and then develop a disturbing paraphilia. 🙄 Leave it to a scrote to instantly shift the blame of his degeneracy onto someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:14 AM
286

Their idea of empowering us is via noble things like: encouraging us to sell ourselves on the internet for their viewing pleasure (only when we’re not their girlfriend, though), convincing us that allowing them to enjoy our bodies without any commitment is fun and liberating (regardless of the inherent risk to us), and not KiNk ShAmInG us when we’re performing sex acts that only serve their porn-fried brains. A LVM wouldn’t spend $3 on an education initiative for underprivileged women, but they’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:07 PM
69

For me it was fashion, in general. I have always loved dressing up and have been a bonafide girly girl my entire life, but once I started dating my scrote ex, it was a part of me that he eroded while together. He constantly made me feel like the most shallow, superficial, and vapid person for wanting to dress nicely, put on heels, or dare to have my eye on something…gasp designer. When I think about it, he managed to shit on pretty much all my interests that weren’t officially sanctioned by him.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 04:41 PM
22

Wealth doesn’t automatically make a man high value, however no man can be high value without being gainfully employed and financially responsible. Now that doesn’t mean he has to make 6 or more figures, but he certainly has to have a good work ethic, take pride in what he does, have high standards in executing his work and be financially responsible. These are all traits that will spill over to other parts of their life and speak to their character. Laziness is not high value. Lack of drive is n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:47 PM
21

7 kids, I was totally unaware! For some reason I thought they only had one or two - their lives must be a living nightmare right now. I can’t fathom how she could allow this monster around her children? Why on earth hasn’t she left him?! He already molested his own sisters, he had child pornography in his possession, it’s only natural to assume he might abuse his own children too. Absolutely horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:43 AM
26

Wait, she’s still with him after the molestation revelation and the child porn charges?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:53 PM
5

How the hell is this not an immediate “pack your bags and never look back” situation for her? What is she even trying to rationalize? The guy literally thinks it’s okay to genitally mutilate women and also thinks it’s perfectly acceptable to murder a woman for not being a virgin (including a potential future daughter.) Meanwhile, there he is having premarital sex with his girlfriend of 9 months. The hypocrisy is enraging. Also, lol at: As most just think European girls are sluts. But he didn’t. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:21 PM
77

First of all, huge hug and I’m so glad you found us. We absolutely don’t hate sex workers, we hate that sex work is lauded as female empowerment, when it’s just another malicious facet of the patriarchy meant to deny, abuse, disenfranchise and dehumanize women for the sole benefit of men. I know you’re overcome with so many emotions, it’s had to process them all once the figurative veil lifts, but I just want to tell you that 1) you matter and you are loved 2) you aren’t “contaminated” 3) your l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:51 PM
2

Sad, isn’t it? Proof that for LVM, our value is only ever measured by our ability to tantalize them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:15 PM
47

LVM operate in extremes, it’s hilarious. On one hand, if their partner said they’d like to be appreciated once in a while with tokens of affection like flowers, jewelry, or whatever thing they like, they’d immediately deflect by suggesting love and appreciation shouldn’t be expressed through monetary things. They’d lose sleep over their GoLdDiGgeR girlfriend potentially coming after the $53 in savings they’ve amassed over their entire young adult life. But then on the other hand, these are the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:57 PM
9

Agreed. My dad is a LVM on so many fronts (verbally abuses my mother, extramarital affairs, never pulled his weight beyond what he had to for us to survive even though my mom did all that and more, etc.) but he affirms that having daughters is better. Why? Because “girls always do more for their parents”. Some men prefer daughters because they only see value in them as future caretakers, while also expecting nothing from their sons. I have a sister and two brothers, you can guess who my parents …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:16 PM
38

I can’t get over how much Matthew Perry looks like a Bob’s Burgers character. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:30 PM
9

He was negging her so that she wouldn’t go through with it. Typical hypocritical LVM with a Madonna-whore complex who thinks he’s entitled to lust after the women he’s completely reduced to sex objects, but wouldn’t want to date that kind of woman. He’d also lose his shit if other men lusted over his girlfriend the way he does with other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:31 PM
138

Sad on so many fronts. The wife forced herself to be the CoOl GirL and had performative sex with another person in order to satisfy her husband’s obvious pornsickness. Meanwhile, the other woman thinks she’s out-cool-girled the wife because it’s incomprehensible that a woman would cry over seeing her husband performing oral sex on another person right in front of her. Like does she honestly think the wife was really down for it? Both women lose, but the dirty scrote leaves more depraved than eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:20 AM
31

This rendered me entirely speechless. I literally have no words to express how vile this person is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:19 PM
7

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:23 PM
116

“InCoGniTo MoDe, am I right, boys? 😎“- someone’s fat, balding husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:36 AM
8

I could easily use 4 bedrooms! I could use the extras for a home gym, an office/guest room, and a giant walk-in closet/budoir. I don’t see how it’s unthinkable that someone could utilize all that space as a single person! No one ever asks men why they have 5-bedroom homes when their living room is furnished solely with a camping chair and a wooden crate they use as a leg rest. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:00 AM
33

Scrotes can walk around 3 days unwashed, with poo buildup in their crusty taints, smelling like a jar of rancid pickle juice in a manure pile, but some pickme somewhere would still be like “I just LOVE a man’s MuSk!” lol. Meanwhile, men won’t go down on a healthy, freshly-washed vagina because “iT StINkS!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:40 PM
3

It was pathetic lol, but I was a full-blown pickme so I accepted all the clownery 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:23 PM
5

Absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:58 AM
88

Can’t be with a mfer who only eats chicken nuggets 100%. My scrote ex had the palate of a fucking toddler. He would write off an entire cuisine just based on a passing glance or a smell without ever trying it. Any time I ever made him something traditional to my culture, it’s like I fed him something I scraped off the bottom of a dumpster. Keep in mind, our cuisine is simple, rustic and doesn’t utilize any ingredients that would at all be considered polarizing or exotic lol. Just by being “forei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:55 AM
80

It’s like they don’t even research why this sub was created. It’s like when they call us female incels or “legbeards” as if there’s any kind of legitimate comparison. None of us have any trouble attracting people wanting to sleep with us. Any one of us could walk down a major street and have at least one man cat call us, proposition us, or worse. It’s so unfathomable to these hyper-sexual (yet emotionally and physically impotent scrotes) that our existence doesn’t revolve around a desperate ques…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:23 AM
54

They never bank on women leaving. When they finally experience that loss of control, they spiral. What sad, demented creatures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:55 PM
11

It’s normal to grieve even if it was a terrible relationship, just allow yourself to ride the whole spectrum of emotions without expectations of how you should be feeling. You made the right choice. Life is too precious to sacrifice your happiness for someone so, so unworthy. Now it’s all about pursuing your joy and ensuring your emotional and physical well-being! Congratulations!🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:53 PM
186

Obviously I couldn’t ever say with a straight face that I have it as hard as some of our sisters as a white, heterosexual woman living in the West - that would just be absurd. I know there are great privileges afforded to me that too many other women don’t have. But nonetheless, we all experience oppression to various degrees by sheer virtue of being born women. Which is why it’s so important for us to unite as women, first and foremost. To listen to each other’s experiences (whether they’re sha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:32 PM
43

That’s fucking weird babe Yet, it’s not weird at all that you feel so disturbed and probably even a little threatened by it, scrote. These pornsick LVM are so twisted from all the pedophilic incest porn they watch, they start to subconsciously see women’s own fathers as legitimate competition. The fact that he hasn’t stopped “teasing” her for days shows just how heavy the jealousy is weighing on his depraved heart. “DaDdY is only reserved for MeeEeEEEeE. If you won’t call me dADdY, you won’t cal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:39 PM
4

Disgusting, psychotic pig! I’m feeling absolutely livid for you and I’m so, so sorry you had to experience that, it’s beyond dehumanizing. Men have zero clue how terrifying it is to not even be able to assert the most basic personal boundaries without the very possibility of being attacked. Again, I’m so sorry! hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:18 PM
157

Why is this place such a cesspool of degenerates? I wanna vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:38 AM
24

Lmao, I had to look up a “polycule” was. I’ll never understand polyamory, just stay single and then have whichever sexual partners you want, what’s the point of this weird, convoluted network of defined romantic relationships? I suppose the idea that they’re these counter-culture revolutionaries out here destroying NoRMs is half the appeal to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:35 PM
18

When will they learn that a pair of revolting man titties is no safeguard against cheating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:12 PM
150

There’s just something so pathetic about a man in his prime that completely lacks any vigor and vitality (obviously barring legitimate disability/illness.) This generation of men was reared on junk food and energy drinks, and their physical activity is mostly confined to gaming and masturbating. They’re just so impotent in every sense of the word. I like masculine men and part of that for me is knowing that my partner is physically capable all-around. Men seem to think they’re the only ones with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:57 AM
57

The half inch of her exposed upper neck was just too tantalizing for him. Mourning be damned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:59 PM
71

That’s gentlescrote to you, madam!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:52 PM
85

My scrote ex was like 6’3” and still somehow managed to eat and masturbate himself into an overstuffed-sausage-shaped Lurch with a beer belly and fupa. It’s like dude, you’re young and can probably eat over 2500 calories and still maintain a healthy weight doing absolutely nothing. His hair was always greasy and looked like he took nail clippers to it, and his pube beard was always crusty and unkempt. How the fuck can you be so sloppy? Their lack of self-respect and self-care is revolting. Meanw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:50 PM
71

Too bad I’d rather stick my fucking nuts in hot tar than ever tell a girl “I love you” again This is where he hopes that a girl will take the bait and want to know just how and who destroyed his tender little heart. No, no, I can fix you Tyler. Please, use my body while I try to address the root of your emotional fragility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:33 PM
18

He literally looks like a Bob’s Burgers character 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:20 PM
235

“Sigh unzips” gets me heated. I swear, it could be a post about anything from filet mignon to a triple homicide, and there’ll always be that one scrote who thinks he’s achieved the absolute pinnacle of humor by writing it. Then there’ll be the chorus of other scrotes laughing and being like “dAmN iT, tAKe My UPdOOT” 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:24 PM
82

I’m so sad that women have to constantly reconstruct being on the receiving end of pathetic, low value behavior as a great learning experience. Yeah sure, we learn a lot, but we’re pressured into always taking it in stride with a big old smile on our face. The second we’re actually angered by low value behavior, we’re instantly painted as bitter, too demanding, or unhinged. We’re forced to be PR agents for our own upsetting dating experiences, we literally have to spin everything into being pala…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:53 PM
53

Right? Anytime I can recall picking up the slack for someone or having to go out of my way to put out fires because of someone’s incompetence, whether at school or work, it’s mostly been a mediocre man grossly overconfident in his abilities. Oh, but they love the narrative that women are “catty” and “pure drama” in work settings, so the stoic, LoGiCaL men have to get down to business while the women just sit and devour each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:22 AM
45

Got hard when a child called him “daddy” I literally recoiled reading that. Oh, but the defenders will insist that porn is perfectly “healthy” as long as you’re not addicted. Yet, a once-innocent word uttered by a literal child is enough to give some of them a Pavlovian sexual response. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:29 PM
194

They see capability as an inherently masculine trait. A woman that is fiercely intelligent and capable is defying her femininity, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:34 PM
54

Same. I got that awful vibrating feeling in my chest watching this. They’re such vile hypocrites. Any little baseless suspicion of disloyalty and you’re in for hours or days of being berated, put down, and gaslit. But when they actually do the things that they themselves would consider cheating, it’s just fucking dandy. Ugh. Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:18 PM
8

Sadly, it’s honestly starting to head that way 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:24 AM
13

That many men also do on a regular basis or the “barely legal” category wouldn’t be so popular “Other degenerates do it all the time! Why did my fine, upstanding husband have to pay the price? More importantly, why does my life have to be full of anxiety and inconvenience after knowingly marrying a sex offender? How is this fair? Also, can you guys stop worrying about the kids? I KnOw ThE SiGNs of SeXuAL AbUsE.” This is one of the most insane things I’ve ever read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:52 PM
24

You don’t know my husband and you don’t know me. I love when a person airs out the sordid details of their obviously dysfunctional relationship and then gets indignant and defensive when outsiders suggest it’s just that lol. Like what were you really hoping for sis, puppy pad recommendations for the $4000 couch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:16 PM
60

Woman: I want a man with a mouth, eyes, ears, a nose, some arms, some legs... Man: Haha, wow, have fun dying alone bitch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:07 PM
364

Wow, I wasn’t even aware of this. I’m not at all surprised that male porn users don’t care about the victims in the videos, but it does perplex me that they care so little about the effects on their own minds and bodies, considering how disgustingly selfish they are. The writing is on the wall. Porn turns men into pathetic, impotent shells of human beings. Only when it’s too late will they realize they forfeited truly intimate relationships in favor of emptiness. Imagine being in the prime of yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:52 PM
78

You’re SO awesome, honestly! You’ve lifted a huge burden off another woman’s shoulders, and I have no doubt she’ll remember your great kindness and pay it forward to another woman in need one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:32 AM
165

In the words of Nelson, HA HA! Don’t get me wrong, normally I don’t like to see anyone lose their home. But if you don’t care that videos of underaged trafficking victims being raped flood your website, then I don’t give a fuck about the home that was built on the abuse and degradation of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 08:06 PM
59

That is so heartbreaking. What infuriates me is that porn is one of the only addictions I can think of that doesn’t have a stigma attached to it (outside of religious circles.) Any other addiction is almost unanimously frowned upon; hard drugs, alcohol, smoking, food, you name it. Porn is the only one we’re constantly gaslit into accepting is “healthy”, “normal” and something that’s just inherently a part of human sexuality in the modern age. From top to bottom, porn is just an endless chain of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:34 AM
16

I don’t blame you, honestly! I’d feel better just going outside than being relegated to cleaning up a disgusting mess I didn’t create. Scrotes always bank on women getting so frustrated that they just resign themselves and pull up their sleeves and do it themselves. The fact that they can live in these conditions so unbothered is disgusting. There’s people in that live in abject poverty with zero running water, no sanitary products, etc. that still have pride in their space. To live in privilege…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:49 PM
2

So beautiful! This made my heart swell. I honestly can’t express how thankful I am for the sisterhood we have here. To come into a space that’s free of judgement, where people don’t invalidate you or your experiences and genuinely want the best for you is nothing short of life-changing. You’re all so amazing. 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:24 PM
69

“I can’t even fap to her, so unrealistic!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:52 PM
4

Well, after all, rape is “merely inserting an object into a body.” This piece of shit would probably feel humiliated and violated getting a prostrate exam, but reduces raping women into nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:25 PM
7

What about children who get raped? Let’s see their fucking thesis on that one. Ugh, livid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:07 PM
2

😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:38 AM
7

I’ll never understand people who cheat with someone and then willingly enter a long-term relationship with them after. The amount of suspicion stemming from the total disregard for fidelity must eat them alive, but frankly it’s well-deserved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:42 PM
10

My Mucin-ex 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:02 PM
115

Then once he’s been working at Carl’s Jr. for a year and has a whole $300 in his savings account, he’ll start dating his 16-year-old coworker because you’re “smothering him” but she makes him “feel like a man” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:29 PM
26

Sexually deprived husbands I think she meant sexually depraved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:02 PM
77

They’re SO fucking fragile, it’s in unreal. Point out anywhere they fall short and it’s automatically “emasculation.” If they lived even a day in a woman’s shoes they would be reduced to a screaming puddle of tears and sperm by noon. If you don’t feel like a man, it’s because deep down you know you aren’t one - it’s not because someone reminded you to wash the kids, Brandon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:44 PM
65

The fact that he’s not at all humiliated by that arrangement says it all 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:02 PM
167

“My ex-wife emasculated me. She was always taking charge of everything and totally undermined my ability to lead. My new girl trusts me as her CaPtAiN” as he types from the damp, dark hole he shares with 20 varieties of fungi and 3 species of house centipedes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:40 PM
8

That’s good to hear and thanks for the added insight! Like you said, I’ve just seen the performative pandering by men (the ones who call themselves “FeMiNisTS”) so much on social media that I’m always initially skeptical of their true intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:29 PM
359

Lmao, try to fix a man’s credit and it won’t be long before you’re paying off his side piece’s handbag lol. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:57 PM
66

Honestly, it all just starts to feel like pandering at some point. Like why are grown men even addressing seas of young girls on a platform overwhelmingly used by minors? They don’t need permission from some guy who looks old enough to be their grandfather to reject some creep’s advances. Men are always inserting themselves into our spheres and even when they seem to have “good intentions”, it’s not without some undertone of a weird savior complex. Like go educate young boys on how to be decent …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:47 PM
18

This is a great question and something I wondered myself. I’m 24 and have zero interest in getting married until I’ve attained a level of income I feel safe with and have decent savings. Realistically, I won’t achieve that in the next year and I don’t feel comfortable entering a marriage until I’ve safeguarded myself to some degree. I love my boyfriend and if he continues to be the HVM he’s been so far, then of course I want marriage. He’s brought it up, but more in a “imagine when” kind of way,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:02 PM
24

Right? Those are worst and I never understood how people aren’t horribly embarrassed to publicly declare that the groom had to be dragged into the union. The fact that it’s culturally accepted to joke about having to force a man kicking and screaming into marriage is just disgusting. Especially when you consider that men are the ones who ultimately benefit the most from marriage. I wonder how people would react if the roles were reversed on a topper? They’d immediately assume the bride is defect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:02 PM
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Yep, and a lot of men are in emotionally incestuous (or called “covert incest”) relationships with their mothers, particularly the ones that have fathers who are addicts, philanderers, and abusers. While nothing sexual actually happens, the son basically takes on all the emotional duties of a spouse and in a way becomes a surrogate husband. It’s a very disturbing dynamic that spells disaster for any relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:57 PM
7

Ooooh! Is that a moonstone? I adore them, gorgeous choice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:37 PM
53

Right? While I’m definitely not undermining the fact that depressed people can let their surroundings go through absolutely no fault of their own, it’s not a symptom of depression if you’ve just always had a total disregard for keeping up your home - that’s just a culmination of bad habits nurtured over a lifetime. The audacity he had to suggest you move in and pay to live in a stank-ass, roach-infested dump. Oh, but he changed a tire for you once? Why didn’t you say so?! The fucking cheek! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:36 AM
573

And yet they always minimize the amount of work women put in at home. If it’s so easy, why do you all live like dirty little goblins? Maintaining a presentable home is easy when it’s someone else putting in the effort, but the second they’re alone they can’t even bother to clean a bathtub that’s one spore away from growing fucking mushrooms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:35 PM
5

Just the thought of their nasty little hot dog buns contracting while they try desperately to pump away makes me gag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:04 PM
51

Same! The thick, sturdy legs are gorgeous, and the cake is out of this world too lol. An unexpected delight in a world full of men with literal Hank Hill asses. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:16 PM
107

I’m a large working hands, thick veiny forearms, broad shoulder, dark eyes/hair, immaculate facial hair, juicy lips kinda girl. I like when a man has a physique that just shows he works hard physically in his daily life (not the gym bro look), the complete opposite of the literal sloth that was my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:42 PM
59

Wow. I’m seriously at a loss for words, I’m so sorry you went through this and truly hope you’re on a path to healing. There’s honestly no position of power they won’t abuse, absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:00 PM
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Yup, but if a woman has dares to have high standards and vets a man to ensure he’s a good partner, father, and provider then she’s shit on too. Obviously, I can’t speak for a community I’m not a part of, but just as an outside observer I’ve never seen men direct as much vitriolic, venomous hate toward women for having high standards as they do to Black women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 06:11 PM
35

“The last woman I opened a door for looked angry and didn’t immediately have sex with me! I’m never doing it again! And FeMaLeS wonder why chivalry is dead! >: [“
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:58 PM
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Lmao, scrotes be 30 years old and still waiting on someone to “teach them how to live.” It’s amazing how they’re capable of using the internet to find every kind of depraved porn under the sun, but Todd can’t consult Google to figure out how to wash his cum-crusted sheets and pillow waifu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 04:09 PM
57

Their sexual pleasure comes before anything. NVM have zero qualms inflicting pain, trauma, or destroying a person’s life (hell, even their own) for the sake of their crusty penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:57 PM
103

Meanwhile, apart from opening the doors, this is all mundane shit women with families are forced to do countless times daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:48 PM
145

This is the one that got me especially heated. They’re so pathetically void of any modicum of empathy, it’s infuriating. Imagine being resentful at just the thought that the marginalized, desperate woman you’re paying to sexually abuse views you as an “object for money”. The reason “their sweetness, friendliness and femininity gradually diminishes away to uncover a colder more unappealing personality” is because she’s literally dissociating as you’re dehumanizing her. Fucking pigs, I swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:42 PM
31

Big hug I relate to so much of what you went through, my first real boyfriend and sexual partner was my scrote ex, so I felt incredibly enmeshed with him despite all of his disgusting behavior. He’s the one that actually broke up with me, so my desperation and pickme meltdowns were nuclear level lol 🤡. Luckily, it’s the best gift he could have given me! After years of healing, focusing on all aspects of my personal well-being (and lurking FDS) I’m an entirely changed person. I’m also with a wond…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:31 PM
13

Sinus infections be damned! She single-handedly resurrected her crumbling relationship from the dead with just one shot of semen to the nose. She’s such a SpIcY SaVaGe CoolGirl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:43 PM
14

Welcome back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:18 PM
39

She seems genuinely proud that her last-ditch pickme effort managed to hook him again. She doesn’t seem at all disturbed that the only thing that reignited his interest in their relationship was offering him a new way to degrade her sexually. That’s so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:13 PM
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👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 03:04 PM
33

Yup! My scrote ex’s friend once showed us his lame ass pics from Comic-Con and then pointed out a girl in cosplay who he said “should not be wearing that” in literal disgust. She wasn’t even big, not that it mattered, but even if she was 300lbs she could wear whatever the hell she wanted. This coming from a literal 350lb neckbeard. I called out his hypocrisy, but he tried to excuse it by saying would never do cosplay unless he actually had a body type believable enough to pull off a character co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:17 PM
52

Yup. Hoping for empathy from a person who fundamentally lacks any compassion is like trying to squeeze blood from a stone. They can’t give what they don’t have to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:07 PM
135

When you’re with a LVM you learn pretty quickly that you can’t confide in them or turn to them for any kind of meaningful support. At best, they’ll offer only trite and superficial advice, at worst they will weaponize your struggle against you and make you feel like you’re unhinged, defective, and a burden to everyone around you. The worst part is, when you’re so enmeshed with a LVM you don’t even realize that a majority of the time they’re the ones responsible for your depression. Ask me how I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:39 PM
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Men will have full blown “dad bods” but then not hesitate to criticize a woman about how much she “let herself go” after having a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 08:49 PM
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It’s so dehumanizing and vile! Apparently it’s not his first rodeo either, he shit himself on a flight the year prior too, so it’s clearly some kind of disgusting fetish. Thankfully, this literal shitstain no longer walks the earth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:54 PM
15

A follow up article reported on it! Link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:45 PM
98

No doubt. Men who seem fixated on the idea of visiting Thailand yet have no apparent appreciation of the culture automatically out themselves as degenerates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:21 AM
45

Cheers! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:11 AM
191

Good news, he’s already dead! He died on a trip to Thailand. Hm, I wonder what a fat, old, white pervert who can’t even walk under his own crushing weight was doing on a “beach holiday” in Thailand? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:33 AM
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Ha! So true. My father claims he can “make and fix anything” but turning on an oven? Doing a load of laundry? Seemingly impossible! Or rather, it’s just easier if the lowly womenfolk do it for him. At Christmas dinner my mom asked him to grab some drinks from the other fridge in the garage and he told her “you have daughters”. This after we just spent hours slaving to make a gigantic feast, not to mention the days of preparation (making hundreds of cookies etc.) beforehand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 01:03 PM
32

This is why I don’t allow men into my personal sphere anymore. When the scrote ex and I broke up years ago, all my “friends” decided to come out of the woodwork to hit on me, flirt, and ask me out. It was so disheartening thinking these guys were legitimate friends only to discover their sexual advances were just laying dormant until the ex was out of the picture. Apart from my boyfriend and male family members, I have very little interaction with men, except the obvious colleagues that I’m forc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:13 PM
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“Given the difficulty of proving that a minor was forcibly or violently coerced, only about 1 percent of such cases result in convictions.” What proof do they fucking need? How the hell can a child give sexual consent to an adult? It’s always coercive by way of power imbalance. So in France they don’t allow citizens to vote or drive until they’re 18, but they also apparently think girls much younger than that are cognitively and emotionally able to give sexual consent to grown ass men? This poor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:55 AM
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Yup, and later abandoned her and their schizophrenic son (who lived in and out of asylums his entire life) to go marry his...first cousin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:19 AM
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Honestly, the only famous man I can think of off the top of my head that wasn’t embroiled in some kind of weird scandal or wasn’t just a generally shitty person is Mr. Rogers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:47 PM
8

Did we date long lost twin brothers or something? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 07:43 PM
15

Wait, what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:39 PM
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It is infuriating, scrotes always cite their contributions to various fields as proof of their superiority - “weLL wHaT haVe wOmeN doNe?”. There’s really no telling what women could have done if they would have had the chance to. Likewise, there’s already no shortage of incredible achievements by women despite all the adversity we’ve collectively faced, not to mention the said plagiarisms, stolen ideas or inventions, etc. The same scrotes that have the audacity to say that a woman’s only functio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:38 PM
6

Oh, how gorgeous and thoughtful! The colors are making me desperately wish it could be Fall already, my soul lives for this palette!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:24 PM
25

In their mind they can be ugly as sin, but if they’re tall their height magically transforms them into an irresistible stud. My ex was tall but was out of shape and built like a overstuffed sausage with a pot belly lol, he really fixated on his height though and I suppose my heels detracted from that. Current bf is shorter and infinitely more attractive with a nice body that’s just the result of his physical job and being generally active. My ex’s day would consist of porn, video games, Netflix …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:20 PM
23

What a sweetheart! It’s definitely not a little thing when someone takes time to understand what’s important to you and then makes the effort to treat you in a way that’s uniquely you! So, how delicious was it? 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:28 PM
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I’m 5’9” too! I never really felt especially tall, for my ethnicity I’m about average. Scrote ex was 6’3” and definitely didn’t like my heel game despite being significantly taller than me. My HVM now is only about half an inch taller than me but he enthusiastically supports all my fashion choices (even if it means being taller than him) and showers me in nothing but compliments. It feels glorious to no longer have tone it down for the sake of someone’s pathetically fragile ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:20 PM
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I know we’re not supposed to respond, but I would have hit him with “heartbreaking? Whoa, calm down, you sound emotionally unstable” - since they love to characterize our perfectly valid feelings as unhinged, but have no problem being unjustifiably extra when it comes to trying to manipulate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:01 PM
307

“No thanks” “This is HeArTbReAkInG. I was so looking forward to using your body and then disposing of you when you’ve served your purpose 😔”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:58 AM
13

I’m so so sorry for your loss, your partner sounded like a truly wonderful man, I can’t imagine your grief right now. I’m certain you two created a beautiful life together filled with love, incredible memories and a wonderful legacy. Sending you all my love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:56 AM
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“I hope you don’t mind my completely selfish, one-sided proposal, but would you wanna keep my dick wet for a little while before I take off to another city in a couple of weeks?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:46 AM
61

This is disgusting and you deserve so much better than a person who has assigned you value only based on your ability to turn them on. You carried a child for 9 brutal months, and instead of being in awe of your strength and beauty, he shames you for the natural changes your body has undergone. Listen, you are always ready to wear beautiful lingerie - if not for his pathetic ass, then for YOU. You are beautiful and you are in no way inadequate. He’s the inadequate one, his ability to love and be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:27 AM
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I bet it was a calculated move on his part, he probably encouraged her to dress down so it would subconsciously play into the “she doesn’t put effort in for her man anymore” bullshit excuse that a lot of people use to walk out of their marriage. She’s a beautiful woman and out of his league, frankly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:09 AM
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Can we give a round of applause to the amazing mods here who actually care about our safety? You ladies are incredible, thank you for working so diligently to ensure there’s a safe space for us to speak our truth without being silenced or harassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:02 AM
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Right? It took me all of 5 seconds to find the gritty details, and you’re telling me a company that was looking to employ this person never did as much as type their name into Google? That’s pretty much standard procedure these days. The fact that they’re pleading innocent by way of incompetence to deflect from the truth isn’t making them look any better, lol. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 11:57 PM
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Proves that all it comes down to with LVM is ownership. They don’t even care about the horrific circumstance, the mere idea of someone else getting to “have” what is “theirs” is enough for them to see their partner as defective goods. It’s heartbreakingly pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:23 PM
84

I’m speechless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:12 PM
75

Ha, apt timing - I just got my first one today! He claimed I’m mentally ill, have daddy issues, won’t get a man because of my standards (I already have one lol) and must be fat and ugly because good looking women don’t spend their time on Reddit (ha you wish). I looked at his history and it’s mostly stories he wrote centering on some kind of bizarre testicle torture fetish he has. The term scrote has never been more appropriate! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:38 AM
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Scrotes: Use forgetfulness as an excuse to not remember their partner’s likes/dislikes, important dates, or picking out thoughtful gifts for said occasions. Also Scrotes: Can remember a woman they saw at 7-11 for 3 seconds in such vivid detail that they can spend the rest of the night repeatedly jerking off to all the parts of her body they found attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:57 AM
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Imagine having a brain so crippled by pornsickness that the mere sight of a woman’s legs in public is enough for you to have to run home and furiously masturbate. He’s vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:59 AM
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I hate disingenuous pickmes that come out with these over-the-top displays where they pretend to plead with women, but are really just pandering to the scrotes they know are watching. She’s really hoping some guy will see her struggling to breathe with her fake indignance and think “wow, she’s definitely not like all the other bitches who’ve hurt me!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:48 AM
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Disgusting. No one wakes up one day and just decides that someone shitting in their mouths would be a good time. But scrotes will still swear up and down that porn isn’t a never-ending spiral into depravity and brokenness. Then they’ll argue that they “can use porn in moderation and still have a healthy sex life”, but needing to go back to porn when you have a sexual partner/s just proves that there is a consequence - dissatisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:20 AM
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Definitely wouldn’t feel spammy to me! I love flowers, so it would be a joy to see your creations weekly. Plus, there’s no better place for us to encourage talented women than FDS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 11:49 PM
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😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:39 AM
78

It sounds like a scrote pickup line: “I wanna execute your situation” 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:21 PM
54

Yeah, let me be polite to all the men who have given me inappropriate “compliments”, glared at my body, followed me without even saying anything, and made me feel unsafe walking down the street, entering a building, or just shopping in Walmart at night. They absolutely, 100% deserve my courtesy. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:09 PM
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Are there any floral arranging courses in your area? You clearly have a natural eye/hand for it and the way you talk about flowers is full of such joy and passion! Maybe after Covid restrictions are lifted you could try your hand at one as fun way to see if it’s something you’d like to pursue in a deeper way. Please share your beautiful arrangements here whenever you’d like, this was a delight! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:39 PM
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His bit is audacious but it’s nothing new, frankly what’s more upsetting is all the women in the audience all-out hyena cackling as he’s standing there insulting them to their face. Maybe they feel safe because of their age, or perhaps they’re already married, but even still there’s no guarantee that you won’t ever enter the dating scene again. Your partner can leave you or even die prematurely, and then what? Would you agree that you’re automatically inferior goods from “TJ Maxx?” Disgusting. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:15 PM
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Looks like we have a budding florist on FDS, this is so stunning! Such a vibrant and beautiful bouquet for Spring, I instantly smiled just looking at it. This is precisely why we don’t have to compromise. Anything they can give us, we can give ourselves. A man saying he’s “not a flower guy” is one of the most pathetic excuses for plain old thoughtlessness. Since when is a gift to be given with the gift-giver in mind? That’s like one of us saying, yeah sorry but I’m just not a (insert hobby here)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:59 PM
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That’s amazing, congratulations! We’re all proud of you! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:48 PM
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Imagine if a woman called her scrote’s friends “sexy ass”. The ego meltdown would be Chernobyl level. Their hypocrisy is absolutely insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:02 PM
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Honestly, deleting social media was one of the best decisions I ever made for my mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 01:57 PM
13

Listening right now! “Mucinex troll” is officially becoming a part of my vocabulary lol.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:12 PM
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We all do! But like you said, modern porn has normalized hairlessness. It’s just the audacity of these scrotes who are probably 20x hairier acting like the hair on our bodies is vile and even unnatural that gets me heated. That said, I still wax and shave to get rid of all my body hair, sadly. Old programming from my scrote ex porn addict who constantly shamed me if I missed a couple of days in the routine. I’m a dirty blonde with southeastern European heritage, so my body hair came out thick an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:00 PM
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Why can’t it be both? He probably fetishized Asian women and other woc and was used to seeing them brutalized in his peRfecTly heAtHLy abuse porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:25 PM
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And this is on national TV, imagine what the full extent of his narcissistic abuse is like in privacy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:17 PM
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Lmao. I won’t lie, I find hair on men attractive. But it’s next level when men hair-shame women when some of their ass cracks look like shag carpets glued between two hot dog buns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:55 PM
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“I’ll pray for you” wow! Really taking the high road there after you just abused and threatened her on camera, you fucking psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:51 PM
14

I’m so sorry for all you endured. I’m thankful that you helped a woman in need, counsel and encouragement from another survivor must have really assured her that she was making the right choice in that moment. Thank you for your compassion and willingness to help a stranger in their time of desperate need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:41 PM
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Excellent response! I’m curious how many upvotes he got? I find when a man expresses an opinion that embodies FDS ideals, people are more open to it and at the very least give it some consideration. If one of us were to post the same response, we’d receive an onslaught of ridicule claiming that it’s unreasonable, etc. Then one look at our comment history in FDS would be the final nail in the coffin because, you know, we’re apparently a hate group lol. 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:48 PM
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Libfems, tell us again how “sex work” is empowering to women when THIS is one of the horrible realities. I’m enraged and disgusted. Those poor women. They were no doubt trafficked, like most women in these “spas”. What a cruel end to an already cruel existence. Rest In Peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:16 PM
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Yup, I just subscribed a few days back. It’s nausea-inducing. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:54 PM
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Lmao, nope it was everyone’s and everything’s fault, apart from his clearly expired sperm. He even went as far to believe that someone was putting witchcraft on them due to envy lol, which he of course remedied by seeing someone who could combat it. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:42 PM
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My boyfriend’s sister just had a baby girl not too long ago. Her husband’s disappointment when they found out they were going to have a girl was absolutely disgusting. She’s in her early 30s and he’s 40 something, they had quite a lot of trouble conceiving (I wonder why?) - he was always on her for not eating right, not doing this or that right, picking on whatever insignificant thing he perceived as contributing to their infertility. The labor was also fairly traumatic for her, so she’s not wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 02:12 PM
20

Damn, I can feel his mouth-breathing from here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 12:19 PM
58

“The attack was entirely out of character” “low-risk for reoffending”, he just showed you his character! Low risk for reoffending? Maybe he’s just getting started, especially with that pathetic slap on the wrist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:02 AM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 04:06 AM
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The members here who are currently celibate are celibate out of their own volition. We’re dodging scrotes left and right, having to fight off unwanted sexual advancements, and even turning down wanted sexual encounters with attractive men out self-respect and refusal to accept their toxic behavior. Likewise, plenty of us are in relationships with HVM (myself included). They can call us incels or whatever other term helps them sleep at night, but on some level deep down, they know we speak truth.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:59 AM
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That’s precisely why FDS is so dangerous to men and it’s basically been experiencing an ongoing smear campaign from its inception. It’s helped so many of us wake up to the fact we don’t have accept this kind of behavior, and just because something has been normalized doesn’t mean it’s right. I’m so excited for you and all the amazing things you have to look forward to! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:48 AM
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❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 10:40 PM
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Wow, that’s awful and frankly abusive. It’s not just on her to avoid pregnancy. I hope he’s also wearing condoms etc. should her birth control ever fail, but I’m certain that’s not the case. If the fear of having a child before you’re ready is that intense, either use all possible methods to prevent it or just don’t have sex at all because nothing is 100%. It blows my mind that he freely admits he’d just bail on her and their child if that ever happened. I hope she sees the light before she’s le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:17 PM
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Okay, I’m SO excited for this. Thank you ladies for working hard to make this happen, I can’t wait for the first episode! Thank you for being a voice to women who’ve felt ostracized, abused, or even just guilty for wanting basic respect and dignity. Thank you for showing us we all deserve better than the lie they’ve brainwashed us into accepting. Cheers to success! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:11 PM
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or that people can stay faithful “People” or you? Bleh, poor girl. She’s in for a world of heartache if she stays with him. Sometimes the red flags are so obvious, but once we’re ensnared we do everything we can to ignore them or excuse them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:58 PM
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Yup! My scrote ex would flip on me whenever I’d tell him I got cat called, “why didn’t you tell him to fuck off?!” and then get angry suggesting I like the attention. Uh, no genius, I’m not about to berate a person twice my size while I’m alone and vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:45 PM
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He could’ve cheated. He did cheat. He crossed a sexual boundary that you explicitly expressed you were uncomfortable with. It’s funny how pickmes and scrotes are all for people defining “their own terms” of what’s acceptable in a relationship, usually to justify polyamory and whatever else, but if you consider viewing pornography infidelity then you’re no longer setting boundaries you’re just being a controlling, insecure harpy. You’ll get through this though, sis. I know it’s so hard and scary,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 04:24 PM
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What a queen! She’s living a rich and fulfilling life on her own terms. She’s radiating joy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:34 AM
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What an inconsiderate, selfish buffoon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:12 AM
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Judging by the dirty mirror, broken blinds, and laundry shoved haphazardly in the corner, it wouldn’t be a stretch to think he’s the type of guy that would shit in his hands and then smear it on a surface.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:03 AM
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I feel a special kind of rage when a man tries to dictate how a woman should modify her body for his pleasure. Most of these guys can barely handle a common cold without being reduced into blubbering babies, but would happily pressure their girlfriend into getting breast implants or other augmentations, despite the medical risks and painful recovery. Women aren’t your sex dolls. Please just invest in a real sex doll and we’d all be happier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:01 AM
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“I know I’m lucky to be appreciated by my husband” sis, what? It sounds like he’s using you as an off-brand substitute for the real object of his desire, the actress in the porn videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:43 AM
24

He’s disgusting in every way it’s possible to be disgusting lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:35 PM
41

Gay deer. I can’t. 🤦‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:33 PM
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What a load. They’ve been brainwashing women to lower their physical standards since time immemorial. Think of every movie in existence where a girl is in pursuit of a cute, popular guy only to discover that he’s a vain, narcissistic asshole and the guy who’s really the catch is the far less attractive nerdy best friend. They’ve been trying to get us to associate good-looking, in shape men with poor character forever. The reality is, LVM come in every shape, size, and level of attractiveness. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:26 PM
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I want her to join so mods can give her a special Ass Garbage flair. 😭 What snakey fucking “journalism”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 05:06 AM
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No, no, how dare you. How dare you for not putting up with psychological torment and financial abuse. How dare you for prioritizing your well-being. You’re supposed delight in the struggle! You’re supposed to embrace every sleepless night! You’re supposed to plow through every time you felt like your trust was violated and your heart was broken! You’re supposed to be the stoic caretaker to the person who’s setting your world on fire and sit and smile as everything around you burns to the ground.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 03:52 AM
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“Your Honor, I don’t need this 60-day court-appointed rehab. I refuse to define myself as a heroin addict. As far as I’m concerned, my relationship with heroin is completely normal, harmless, and healthy.” It’s hilarious how that would never float with any other kind of substance abuse, but as long as your drug of choice is porn, you’re good! He’s an absolute idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 12:46 AM
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Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:13 PM
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Imagine your main concern about your future profession being how to navigate trying to fuck the girls there without jeopardizing your career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:02 PM
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What a scumbag, I’m really sorry. I guess the pregnancy temporarily rubbed his ego because MuH LeGaCY, but like you said, he’s already anxious about her post-pregnancy body, which is telling. He probably realized he doesn’t even want this, and he’s already dreading it before he even has to assume any real responsibility in raising the child. What an absolute loser, thankfully that’s a bullet dodged. Honestly, I used to really want kids, but the more time I spend here the more I’m afraid. I want …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:59 PM
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No words. Instead of being overjoyed at the thought of his own flesh and blood being brought into the world, instead of being thrilled that 9 months of his fiancee’s physical and mental discomfort will soon be over, instead of the excitement of a brand new chapter of his life starting, he’s relieved that he’ll find his human fleshlight attractive again. Actually, that’s wishful thinking. He’ll probably secretly or openly resent her for her post-pregnancy body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:37 AM
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Right? Would you break up with a girl who’s a teacher? What about a girl who’s a lawyer? How about a nurse? If sex work is so EmPoWeRiNg and it’s just a job like any other, what’s the problem? He’s fine with objectifying women, but he’ll be damned if strange men objectify his woman. Not because he cares about his girlfriend’s well-being, not because he hates how women are routinely dehumanized and women can only be on the losing side of sex work, it’s only because she’s his property and her sexu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:29 AM
11

Modern scromance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:18 PM
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So he pays for absolutely nothing and at the end of the month he still asks to borrow money from her? He’s either hiding an addiction beyond the gaming one, or has a mistress he’s funding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:25 PM
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Right? I’ve known so many guys who just love May the 4th or Pi Day, but celebrating our achievements, commemorating women who’ve passed, or highlighting the plight of women all around the world? Unacceptable! Why do yucky, stinky vaginas get a whole day for themselves?! >: [
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:00 PM
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Beautiful image, I’m tearing up. Ladies, all we have is each other. Even HVM can never truly understand our collective experience. This is why we so desperately need to protect, uplift, and love one another. We’re all we have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:57 PM
10

I’m going to start calling these women Ghislaine Maxwell-s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:52 PM
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Thanks, Queen! I hope all you lovely ladies have an incredible day - you deserve it! 💕😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:47 PM
2

Same, once I finish work I’m going to pop over and buy flowers for all the amazing women in my life! In my pickme days I probably would have been thinking “but when’s InTerNatiOnal ScRoTE DaY >: [“ 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:44 PM
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Wow. I mean, I figured there had to be major dysfunction in his past, this stuff is rarely an isolated thing, I think it’s fairly safe to assume he experienced this same cycle of abuse. His grandfather and father sounded like monsters. No excuses for perpetuating the abuse, though. I’m curious to know what kind of details he shared with people about his childhood? Or if he painted them as being normal, well-adjusted people? They’re a clan of degenerates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:31 PM
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The end had me in tears, that poor girl, the pain and simultaneous relief in her voice is so heart breaking. This woman is a true hero, she was not going to let this perverted fucking monster just walk away with her. He could have easily turned on her and attacked her, but she was relentless - she put a vulnerable little girl’s safety above her own. I want this woman to be decorated with friggin’ medals and a crown for her heroism because she’s a queen of the highest order. I honestly believe in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:09 PM
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If your priority before making a lifetime commitment to someone is throwing a glorified orgy to celebrate your last night of “freedom” then you should reconsider being in any relationship at all, let alone marriage. If you couldn’t even spend the night before your wedding without making MuhPenis™ your priority, chances are the next 50 years aren’t going to be a successful showcase of your fidelity and self-control either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:14 AM
10

Thanks, had no idea those were a thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:56 AM
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I was wondering if it was a reference to something too, it’s so weirdly specific. Total degenerate. If this is what he’s advertising publicly, imagine what he’s like behind closed doors?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:23 AM
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Oh no, divorced American women are after Piers’ precious British royals and they’re absolutely powerless against their wiles! Also, how shitty is it to compare a woman of color to someone who was rumored to be a Nazi sympathizer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:41 PM
413

I wonder how many male students will be attending this ultra eMpOwErInG seminar on entrepreneurship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:16 PM
11

BuT mUh PeNiS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:49 PM
121

I cried too, watching her lioness instincts kick in to protect a vulnerable girl and then seeing her overcome with relief once she realized it was fake was so moving. Sisterhood is imperative, we need to protect each other. We’ve all needed her at some point. This is also why LVM spend so much time finding ways to pit us against each other, it’s divide and conquer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:36 PM
55

Scrotes are convinced that everything from basic hygiene, normal self-care, to dressing half decent is gay. Ironically, the only thing they’re never worried about making them seem gay is their preference for anal sex. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:46 AM
14

I saw his grave when I visited New Orleans a few years back, he purchased some plots and has a small pyramid-shaped tomb already waiting for him. It’s in the same historical cemetery where Marie Laveau is buried. He’s a total scrote, but it was pretty cool nonetheless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:30 AM
56

It’s because they don’t want regular women. The root of all their anger is the knowledge that their 10/10 non-existent dreamgirl who’s a composite of 20 different edited pornstars and IG models, would theoretically never give them the time of day unless they were a “Chad.” They’re not willing to compromise their standards, but they’ll be damned if a woman has similar ones. It’s hilarious because in pretty much every relationship I’ve seen (with my ex included), the women have objectively been fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:19 PM
53

For real, I’d always be so timid about bodily functions around the ex. The thought of having a sudden bout of stomach problems gave me so much anxiety, if I had any inkling whatsoever that I might have an episode, I avoided him at all costs. I just knew with his maturity level and porn brain, a situation like that was probably enough for him to be repulsed by me forever and I couldn’t shatter the mystique for my scrote 🤡. I also knew he’d probably use it to humiliate me for the next century, so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:00 PM
84

Fucking revolting. Go wash yourself, you dirty slob.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:29 PM
39

My jaw literally dropped, that’s just beyond dehumanizing and disgusting. I’m an idiot to even be shocked by how racist people are, but even still it’s mind-blowing at times. I’m so, so sorry you had to experience that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 04:13 PM
3

Not caring what people think is essential to our well-being, honestly. I love that you’re happy and living life on your terms! Thanks for being a lovely person and genuinely delighting in the happiness of people that are close to your heart. When you’re surrounded by people who are genuinely thrilled for you when things go well in life, it motivates you all the more to pursue your happiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:55 AM
3

Holy smokes, what a woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:41 AM
237

“If he does actually delete them, they’re gone forever.” Uh, yes. That is literally the whole point of deleting something, scrote. So it no longer exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:24 AM
216

“My Captain”, da fuq? I can’t with these weird-ass titles pickmes bestow their scrotes with for a mild sense of importance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:09 AM
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It’s so weird, they’re shallow as hell but they’re also somehow able to throw all their “standards” out the door for a chance to get laid. Like, they can rhapsodize all day about their favorite pornstar’s features, endlessly sing their “perfect 10” ig dream girl’s praises, and literally pay money to see some girl they obsess over on OnlyFans. They’ll tear down and humiliate a girl they find repulsive, but if the curtains were closed and she was down, they’d have sex with her. I think that’s the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:02 AM
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One thing I’d like to apologize for was silently resenting (almost to the point of hate) other women because they were pretty on top of all their other amazing qualities. My scrote ex made me so insecure with his cheating, emotional/physical/sexual abuse, and porn addiction that I had the worst self-esteem possible. The presence of a gorgeous woman made me instantly sink into some state of self-loathing panic, worrying my scrote would compare us, fantasize about her, and decide he’d rather be wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:13 PM
3

Thank you so much for your kindness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:56 PM
18

All these civil interactions on FDS warm my heart. I know respect and courtesy shouldn’t wow me, but I’m so used to Reddit being a place where everyone is confrontational and ready to fight for an opposing view. Y’all are the best! 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:48 PM
95

Wow, he’s incredibly thoughtful and so, so talented! Whenever she needs an outfit for any of life’s special moments, dad will be working hard to make something beautiful that she can cherish forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:43 PM
4

I felt so embarrassed :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:56 PM
51

The wife apparently does OnlyFans. I think he does too, lol 🤦‍♀️. I remember him plugging her account, casually throwing it out there that she does full frontal and anal pics/videos, like it was no thing at all. He was entirely nonchalant, as though he was offering a coupon code for protein powder or something. He’s completely uninterested in her. My guess is she probably started an OnlyFans as a sort of bandaid for their obviously dead bedroom. She probably longed to feel desired, or maybe even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:53 PM
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These guys might as well be comparing their girlfriends to anime cartoons. As pathetic as it is, some already do. There’s this YouTuber scrote known for his “controversial” (psychotic) personality who I’d always see making the rounds back when I was plant-based. The last time I saw a video about him, he was shamelessly admitting that his standards are so high that he can’t even get off to regular porn anymore. He has to watch hentai, because the girls (keyword, has a schoolgirl obsession) are li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:43 PM
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Omg. Poor girl. The proposal videos were bad enough, but this scrote clearly gets off on humiliating her. This girl needs an FDS intervention. The sheer audacity of that turtle-ass looking loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:15 AM
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“He’s been not proposing for like a decade” oof. Edited: Holy shit, he claimed he was planning something for like six months and was waiting for the perfect time (the proposal video is like a year old). I just went through their other videos and 3 months ago he pranked her by slipping an engagement ring on her finger while she slept. Savage af. This is why you don’t have kids with a man unless you’re married. You know in her heart she’s stuck between keeping the family together and bailing to fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:00 AM
30

Hey now, if you edit a color photo of a girl’s exposed butthole into black and white, it becomes ART.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:48 AM
68

“My girlfriend just got out of an 8-week coma, only to discover that her grandma who raised her had passed away during that time and our cat Roxy also went missing. She came home from the hospital yesterday and has been moody ever since. She’s impossible to console and I don’t know what to do. I haven’t had sex in two months, so this hasn’t exactly been easy on me either. When she rejected me for the second time today, I just lost it and told her if she wasn’t willing to have sex with me I’d fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:48 AM
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Lmao! Painfully true. Don’t forget the pickmes who have to chime in with their obligatory Cool Girl™ comments: “I’d NeVeR let my boyfriend leave my house DiSsATiSfiED. I would have done whatever you wanted, then deepthroated you in the car ride back home too 😏” Then cue the orbiters responding with something obnoxious like “marry me.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:51 PM
184

Forget dating subs, I’m finding it hard to read any of the subs at all anymore! You could be in a sub dedicated to the most innocuous thing ever, and you’ll still have to deal with scrotes finding a way to make it about their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:26 PM
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Same! He wasn’t adventurous at all when it came to food and it was a huge put off. It’s one thing if you’re a picky eater and don’t make a big deal about it, but he’d literally twist his face and moan like a toddler if confronted with some new taste or texture he didn’t like. One time I made him a pastry from my culture (which is SO tame, literally just dough and cheese lol 🤦‍♀️) and he spit it out like I fed him a fresh turd. He did the same to some traditional Christmas cookies I made. After t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:21 PM
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There’s no words. That poor, sweet girl. What twisted, wicked logic. His daughter being with a man he disapproved of is apparently dishonorable, but him murdering her in one of the most disgusting ways possible and then parading her dismembered body around town apparently restores this lost honor?! Absolute psychopath. He needs to be cut up into little pieces and flushed down a toilet like the piece of shit he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:48 PM
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Girl. The accuracy of that description. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:34 PM
50

He’s obese, far from masculine and wearing corny ass dad clothes circa 2002. Who the hell is he to suggest that women “shouldn’t give men a reason” to be like the tempted boyfriend in the meme? He’s literally revolting in mind and body. Like, your wife probably hasn’t been aroused by you in a good 20 years and a single touch probably makes her body violently recoil in disgust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:31 PM
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Yup. It’s ridiculous, some men can get sexually aroused by everything from animals, inanimate objects, to literal children. No one would ever be stupid enough to argue that kids, the most vulnerable and powerless members of society, have power over pedophiles. Arousing a man isn’t power. If it was, the world would look completely different because it would literally be the easiest way to seize power over a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:19 PM
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“They say it’s because it gives them power over a man” Pleasuring a man sexually is not power. If you feel powerful pleasing a man, it’s because you’ve been brainwashed by scrotes and libfems to think your sexuality is the only thing you can weaponize for an upper-hand in an unfair power balance. Unlike men though, we don’t want a power struggle, we just want mutual love and respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:30 PM
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So gross! It’s like they do their best to make sure pornographic content seeps in everywhere. Even in a space you think you’ll be safe in, it eventually pops up. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:16 PM
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Agreed, there’s zero empathy in his responses. His voice is void of any affect whatsoever. The fact that she also alluded to a prior incident at Tropical Island is chilling, it’s definitely not his first rodeo fucking up family trips. He needs serious intervention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:23 AM
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Right? We just want to avoid being treated like utter garbage, so we happily encourage singlehood unless we find someone who meets our reasonable standards of respect. Meanwhile, incels literally think it’s their natural right to claim us regardless of how little they have to offer in way of a good partnership. Our community just encourages us to avoid them. Their community encourages them to use us human fleshlights, and if we don’t want to comply they literally want us dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:17 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:01 AM
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My bets are he did it to show his fellow furries that their community is under attack. My guess is he’s trying to equate his plight to the discrimination people with other legitimate sexual identities face. Sorry, David, but your mom begging you not to bring your stuffed animal fleshlight to the family vacation at Tropical Island is not oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:59 AM
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“Stuffed lover” sis, I can’t 😂. It’s like she asked him to cut off his own arm, that’s how indignant he was about it all. Scrotes are so petulant, if he can’t violate his stuffed tiger then he wants zero part of this excursion. Tropical Island sounds like a place I would have dreamed of going to as a kid, you think he’d be appreciative of a family that makes an effort to make fun memories together. Fried porn brain destroys everything that is good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 02:17 AM
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Same, I used to really want kids but the more I become aware of how dire the times really are, the more I reconsider. I’m starting to believe that even excellent parenting won’t be enough to combat the truly depraved things they will inevitably be exposed to, either on the internet, their peer groups, or wherever. It’s honestly depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:43 PM
143

How much you wanna bet he has an alt account on deadbedrooms where he bitches about his wife not wanting to make any effort to be intimate anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:17 PM
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On YouTube there are some more supportive comments, I guess because other furries were coming to his defence. On Reddit where this was posted on another sub, people are overwhelmingly in support of the mother. I guess “furry” isn’t a protected legal status on Reddit like rapist or pedophile is. Apparently, scrotes on Reddit draw the line at bestiality. Who would have thought? 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:05 PM
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But, but...his neglected penis! Why is no one thinking of his neglected penis?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:49 PM
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Exactly. He can’t have sex with her anymore. He actually has to work a job he hates to make up for lost income, instead of the job he loved which was only possible because his wife was the high-earner. His mom moved into their space, they can’t travel, he misses his friends, and he can’t even bond with the kids he forced her into having. He sprinkles her pain here and there, but all I’m hearing is “me, me, me.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:44 PM
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Literally. I’m so livid reading this, I’m practically shaking. “our lives are ruined now” no, just no. You destroyed HER life. You don’t get to be on the pity train. You’re a selfish, despicable monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:29 PM
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The apathy in his voice was so unsettling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:24 PM
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Apparently he “can’t play the normal son”. What’s interesting is, this was posted in another sub and everyone is taking the mother’s side, saying the pain in her voice is heartbreaking, saying how selfish he is, etc. I guess it’s only because he’s a “furry” and that’s not their “kink” of choice. But I wonder how differently they’d react if the mother found a stash of barely legal rape porn instead? I bet they’d call her a prude, a religious tyrant, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:13 PM
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“How dare this vile succubus try to seduce me by feeding her starving, screaming newborn in public?! I think I can see the vague outline of her breast from under the scarf she put over herself for privacy! Looks harder Her husband should be embarrassed to have such an attention whore for a wife!” Then proceeds to go home and masturbate to 7 hours of breastfeeding/milking porn until he passes out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:48 PM
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So true, lol. All of my favorite rom coms that were reserved for pamper nights or my sappy, daydreamy kind of moods are basically tainted now. Every female lead seems to be various degrees of pickme, and the plots invariably center on her just comprising all of her reasonable standards for the sake of “true love.” Nah, sis! 💅🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:40 PM
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“Because feminism in Denmark is so awful men are avoiding relationships like the plague” lmao, sure. Men are fixated on us to the point of obsession, they’re never not trying to be in some kind of relationship with us, even if it’s just sexual. Whether they’re “going their own way” or trying to be a pickup artist, whether they’re a fake flag-toting feminist, or a serial killer in the making; we live in their heads rent free. In some way, shape, or another their lives revolve around us. Women hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:06 PM
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100%. I find most mothers are essentially single mothers anyway, even if they do have a spouse. Growing up my mom did everything. We immigrated, so my mom worked various jobs to make sure we established ourselves here. However, when my father’s work hours ended, my mom’s just kept going. She’s the one who cooked, cleaned, did laundry, grocery shopping, kept up with anything school related, extracurricular activities, doctor appointments, etc. It wasn’t until I was about 10-11 that my sister and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:33 PM
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My ex was my first real boyfriend and first sexual partner at 18. One time during sex, he held a pillow over my head while he was on top and pushed it down with what felt like all his strength. I panicked and tried my best to wiggle my head out, but I couldn’t. He only let me go once I started kicking my legs with everything I had in me. Why’d he do it? According to him, he was “just curious how I’d react”, as if it was just some fucking science experiment I was supposed to be willing to be a pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:23 PM
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This sub is life changing. It feels so good to be around like-minded women who don’t invalidate your experiences with libfem drivel and make you feel like you’re the problem for not being x enough. As much as I hate that we’ve all endured similar traumas, it’s a blessing that we can speak so freely about our shared experiences, commiserate, and also encourage each other as we heal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:05 AM
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It’s so disgusting that we can all relate to this, isn’t it? I just want to tell you that none of this was ever your fault, you absolutely do not need to feel embarrassed. He’s the one that should feel embarrassed for being a disgusting, vile, predatory human being. Consent is NOT consent if you’ve been bullied, coerced, manipulated, threatened, intimidated, gaslit, guilt-tripped, or shamed into pushing your sexual boundaries. Fear is never a part of healthy intimacy. I hope you’re slowly healin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:32 AM
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Yes, you are incredible! Also, how exciting that you’re learning to drive - in no time you’ll be experiencing a whole other world of freedom. Just a protip: make sure your crown is properly affixed to your head when you have your window down while driving. Don’t want it flying off and hitting a scrote in the face 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:16 PM
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“Looking for a cuddle buddy”. I’d just send him the directions to his nearest Build-A-Bear workshop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:49 PM
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This used to be all of us to one degree or another! But now that we’ve seen the light, we’re too busy being queens who respect ourselves (and our sisters) too much to compromise or be gaslit by overt sexism that’s been rebranded as “progressive.” 😌👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:39 PM
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Apparently, despite also having two eyes, women are not visual creatures. A special shoutout to the pickmes who validate their LVM’s uNiQuE bIoLoGIcAL NeEds with sentiments like: “I watch lesbian porn with my boyfriend all the time. My boyfriend likes it and it keeps things exciting!” “Yeah he looks at gorgeous girls in public. I just look at them with him. So what? He’s married, not dead!” “My boyfriend and I go to strip clubs together. Getting lap dances is fun! Loosen up” In every case, it’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:29 PM
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Okay wow, where has this channel been all my life? Thanks for the recommendation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:52 PM
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I bet zygotes are capable of better art than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:55 AM
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EW. The fact that he only referred to you in these creepily infantilizing terms really gives insight into the type of character he is. I mean, as if the pathetic, half-assed kindergarten card wasn’t enough. You deserved SO much better. It kills me that so many amazing, dynamic, beautiful women have poured out our full hearts to undeserving scrotes only to get nothing but pain in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:52 AM
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It’s shocking the lengths they’ll go just to be unfaithful. They’ll invest all this energy into sneaking around and leading double lives and no point do they consider it would have been better just to stay single. But they have to have it all, to the point of destroying women and even themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:08 AM
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Exactly, you don’t erase every last trace of yourself before you leave for a longterm stay somewhere else. Cheaters can usually only fool women when they properly compartmentalize, ensuring that important parts of their double life don’t ever intersect. But, bringing your mistress into the inner sanctum, the home you share with your wife, and her being none the wiser? Sounds ridiculous. She knew and didn’t care, the husband properly even told her his wife was with her parents so it was safe for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:36 PM
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I also call bullshit about her not knowing that he was at least in a long term relationship. You’re telling me when she stayed at their place on and off, there was nothing about their home that tipped her off that there was a woman and another person living there at some point (son’s old bedroom)? Apart from finding some photos stashed conveniently stashed away in a drawer? What a cliche, lol. The fact that she actually wanted to stay with him and wasn’t completely horrified that he’s a complete…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:43 PM
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It’s truly pathetic! Of course it’s reasonable to want emotional/intellectual/sexual compatibility from a partner, but that’s why we’re supposed thoroughly vet a person before making a lifetime commitment to them. He prioritized his sexual pleasure and ego, then has the audacity to act like his wife pulled the rug from under him by not being the personality match he wanted - even though he freely admits he knew this from the start. Somewhere between all that iNcReDibLe SeX, he decided to ignore …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:13 PM
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Dear Prudence, I married a woman that looks exactly like the pornstars I’ve fantasized my entire life about from behind a computer screen (I’m a computer scientist, AMA.) And just like those pornstars, it turns out I have zero respect for her too. When I made her my human fleshlight based solely on my physical attraction to her, I wasn’t thinking about our emotional or intellectual compatibility. As it turns out, she has since betrayed me by not knowing how to program, preferring The Real Housew…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:27 PM
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Hey now, his mom only gives him a $50 weekly allowance for food. He needs to thoroughly vet a woman before he deems her worthy of a full fine dining experience at Applebee’s. There’s a lot for him to lose if he doesn’t play his cards right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:55 AM
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Same! How the hell have unsolicited dick pics become socially acceptable, but no one would hesitate to call being flashed by a random pervert in public a crime?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:37 AM
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I just made the mistake of looking up a few clips on YouTube. Some of it’s worse than I remembered. The child abuse scene is just horrid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:18 AM
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Omg, I watched it for the first time a few years back and I still had nightmares - I can’t even imagine how you felt at 10! The premise was really interesting and some of the visuals just blew me away, they were so stunning. But it’s an incredibly disturbing film, at some points it’s nearly impossible to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:53 AM
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Officially deeper than the Mariana Trench.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:36 AM
44

Full on serial killer from the movie The Cell vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:34 AM
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You’re absolutely spot on. Most women are introduced to it in a coercive way that they’re gaslighted into thinking was entirely consensual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:04 PM
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“Consent. Consent. Consent.” Consenting to “kink” doesn’t magically absolve it from being wrong. What if a white male’s “kink” was racist role playing with women outside of his race? If his partners consented to having racial slurs thrown at them during sex and they consented to acting out disturbing scenarios that are horribly racist (slave girl/master) - is it not rooted in racism anymore? Does it make him any less racist? Of course not. So then, how the hell does consenting to being tortured …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:46 PM
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How much you want to bet he’s going to weaponize this against the women he sees in the future? “I have a hard time trusting women because my last girlfriend broke up with me and then stole all my stuff.” He wanted to fight for one, insignificant thing when you were going to be more than generous and allow him to keep everything else? Fuck him, serves him right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:31 AM
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Absolutely. I don’t really think most of us intentionally seek out men that are less attractive in hopes of them being faithful. Instead, they seem to have a long list of appealing non-physical qualities, and it’s those attributes that end up forming the bulk of our attraction to them. Conventionally attractive vs. attractive to me can be two wildly different things. I was genuinely attracted to my ex at the time. But looking back, it’s like damn sis lol. 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:39 AM
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“He won’t cheat on you cause no one else wants him”, HA! Yeah, maybe they won’t find a physical partner to cheat with, but they’ll surely be cheating in different ways, salivating over porn, flirting with women on ig, masturbating to their pillow waifu that was modified with a fleshlight or some other such degeneracy. Objectively, I was way out of my ex’s league and he even acknowledged it, but that was still no safeguard from cheating (among other things). I fell in love with him as a friend fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:11 AM
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Seriously! If you have even the most rudimentary knowledge of your partner’s likes and dislikes, you could still buy them a relatively thoughtful gift. LVM come up with any excuse to hide the fact that they simply don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:41 PM
87

“Smoothbrains” 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 06:28 PM
7

It’s only good for a man when he hates women, it’s only good for a woman when she also hates herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:39 PM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:53 PM
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It’s a brilliant and thought-provoking video, yet the comments are pure trash. Like you said, more than half are about the “sexy” personification of the grim reaper. I swear, the second they’re tantalized and turned on, the rest of their brain just shuts off. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:33 PM
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Thank you for modifying it. Please forgive me for overlooking something so obvious. I apologize to anyone who may have been triggered because of these images, I’m seriously sorry ladies :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:20 PM
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I’m so sorry :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:18 PM
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Please, please forgive me. It was completely stupid of me to ignore how triggering this is :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:17 PM
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No matter the situation, scrotes will always exhaust every possible avenue to try and make it the woman’s fault or paint her as some vindictive witch trying to destroy the DoTiNG FaThER’s life. What a bunch of cretins. She deserves so much better than that disgusting, selfish pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:56 AM
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It’s so painfully sad that it had you had no one step in for you when you were in danger, and despite that, it never stopped you from being the one to raise concern for others when they needed it. Thank you for being who you are. It’s sad that there’s so many people who convince themselves they’re individuals of integrity, but when it comes down to it, they’d sacrifice any woman’s well-being as long as it meant not looking “bad” in front of their friends, acquaintances, or even perfect strangers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:18 AM
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VR and violent rape porn is a scrote’s idea of paradise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:28 AM
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Their degeneracy knows no bounds, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:27 AM
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Perfectly stated. Enjoyment does not = empowerment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:11 PM
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I’m gonna go out on a limb and say it 100% smells like a dirty hamster cage in that godforsaken thing. The last time it probably saw clean water was when his mom threatened to take away his LEGOs if he didn’t wash the crust off it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:04 PM
115

We’re SWERFs because we don’t want to see any woman used, abused, humiliated and dehumanized? Or help feed into a system of degradation and misogyny? I think Libfems missed the memo that feminism is about the equality, advancement and well-being of women. That can look different for each woman, sure, but never will I accept sexual exploitation as an intrinsic facet of female empowerment. When sex is commodified it doesn’t matter if you’re a girl on OnlyFans or a woman being trafficked, men still…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:56 PM
174

It’s not even that, it’s the fact that he created this really bizarre means of avoidance. I’d be less weirded out by a man who just doesn’t make his bed than a dude who thought he gamed the system by zipping himself up in a sack at night 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:34 PM
82

I bet he thought he’d have a throng of brown queens just rushing into his DMs after that one. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:21 PM
42

Honestly, women are unstoppable when they’re able to live free, untethered to a scrote and in pursuit of their own happiness. In the West we’re fortunate that marriage isn’t crucial to our survival, a luxury that so many of our sisters in developing nations don’t have. I’m so glad it turned out differently for her, even though it’s the exception, sadly. Your aunt is a remarkable woman, reading her story made me tear up. Her farm also sounds like a paradise of all things delicious. Thank you so m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:13 PM
288

Imagine being a grown-ass man sleeping in a bag just to avoid the basic task of making your bed in the morning lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 05:40 PM
56

Sis, what? You’re still with this jerk? Take out the trash! You deserve better than to have your partner constantly body shame you and lust over other women. If he wants a certain type of woman, his pathetic, crusty ass can go find one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:47 PM
6

Gorgeous! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:47 PM
78

“Deformed body” I can’t. You heard it here first, ladies! The natural aging process is now considered a severe deformity 😂 Ugh, Balkan scrotes make me ill. They grow up the apple of their mother’s eye, they’re doted on their entire lives, even if they routinely screw up, the entire family has to coverup their pathetic transgressions to save face. When they’re ready to settle down after years of using women, they expect nothing less than perfect 10 virgin model who will replace mommy, so they can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:41 PM
7

There’s just no winning with them, sis. If we express our femininity to the fullest, they bombard us with a million reasons why we need to tone it down (“professionalism”, safety, “sending wrong signals”, being shallow, etc.) If we reject traditional elements of femininity, then they resent us for being “masculine” and subsequently fetishize women who they see as overtly feminine. The takeaway is, we have to dress for ourselves because they will always contradict themselves. Embrace every bit of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:28 PM
27

Lmao. “It...it talks!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:33 PM
11

OoOoh, another Kibbe queen! I’m a Soft Dramatic, so it’s a whole mood 💅🏻. My ex would throw jabs at me for loving fashion, for a time he managed to convince me I was shallow and that fashion as a whole is trivial and stupid. Even beyond fashion, he always had me second guessing and feeling embarrassed of most of my interests (though I suppose that was the least of all his transgressions.) With my current boyfriend the difference is startling. I’ve grown a lot as a person and don’t need anyone to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:12 AM
64

You’re an amazing, selfless, and beautiful person. The fact that you stayed (at your expense) to protect a vulnerable child is heartbreaking, and it’s thinking of stories like yours that enrage me when men suggest that women are selfish and only seek their own gain. In reality it’s the opposite and we too often sacrifice ourselves for the sake of others, going above and beyond the call of duty. Here’s to a beautiful new life, you deserve only the best things! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:23 AM
12

Exercise. Whether it’s a leisurely walk in the park, spinning, or just dancing in my kitchen, physical activity instantly makes me feel good A pamper night where I go beyond the daily self-care and really luxuriate; I pull out my “silk” robe, light candles, do a hair treatment, soak my feet, etc. Watch a documentary on Netflix or read, preferably true crime or anything relating to the narco world. I also enjoy anything pertaining to food culture. Focusing on learning something new that’s both ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:23 AM
90

Listen, he comes home. TO. ME. Yeah, it takes like 40 minutes of him giving his 🍆a violent friction burn before he can muster a slight erection, but he’s in MY BED HONEY. And sure, once it’s inside me it instantly shrivels into a flaccid slug and then he needs to choke me within an inch of my life and call me his greedy CoCkSluT to get it back up, but who’s keeping YOU warm at night? Fine, I’ll admit he spends a lot of his money on his favorite teenage gamer girl’s OnlyFans and has never once bo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:28 PM
74

He looks like a mummified corpse that’s been reanimated via some ancient spell. He’s so dry and leathery I bet his balls feel like a cat’s tongue 👅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:53 AM
15

It’s because modifying body hair is seen as inherently feminine, and in their minds there’s nothing more worthy of ridicule than being like a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:46 AM
2

Two months of what sounds like textbook postpartum depression and already the “love, tolerance and attraction” is dead. Their selfishness never fails to amaze me. She’s at her lowest, most vulnerable point, and all he’s worried about is her lack of sexual appeal. Give him a couple of more months and he’ll be cheating and telling the side chick that his wife is crazy and treats him badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:38 AM
522

Imagine the scene. It’s a Denny’s. He orders a single serving of mozzarella sticks for both of them to share, it’s all he can afford with the money he has left on the gift card he got for Christmas. He made sure to neg her the entire walk in the park so she’ll be too insecure to eat anything more than that anyway. He strokes his patchy pube beard and talks about how hard it is to find respectful women these days, ignoring her as he simultaneously scrolls through his ig feed full of half naked wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:37 AM
59

Ed looked like a whole ass Weeble and yet still had the audacity to make snide remarks about everything from Rose’s breath to her body hair. I love how he was just quaking in fear at the prospect of her exploiting him...as he sexually preyed on a single mother 20 years younger than from an impoverished country. Okay, eggman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:01 PM
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