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84

Absolutely! Those two are among my top three red flags. My third relates to porn and being pro-sex work. Nope, nope, nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 01:41 AM
2

Requiring monogamy from someone who doesn't want it leads to cheating and misery but it also should lead to breakups. That is core, fundamental incompatibility that should never be be accepted by the party who desires monogamy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 11:50 PM
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This should be the top comment. Your points were so cogent and well written. I wish I was half as articulate as you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 11:38 PM
31

If he's not seeing prostitutes but is keeping women through bars or dating apps or whatever then he could very well be lying and manipulating other women who might think he's available as a full partner. But wifey here with jewels and new purses and shoes doesn't care about those women, now does she?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 11:28 PM
1

Adding more garlic is usually a good thing but this dumb sumbitch probably heard something like that in his weekly men's rights group and now thinks he's really "hip" and "culinary" to say something like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 11:16 PM
1

Mark my words this guy is going to be the next Marc Lapine who killed 14 women at Ecole Polytechnique de Montreal in 1989 because they were feminists studying stem subjects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 11:14 PM
5

Yep, Larry Flynt claiming this was about free speech as an argument in as good a faith as those teenagers in Alaska arguing "Bong Hits For Jesus". That Joseph Franklin dude that tried to fix the problem of Larry Flynt was a murdering, white supremacist piece of shit but he did do one good thing. I mean, Hitler was well known for loving dogs so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 10:47 PM
10

Well, years ago I took a graduate level large animal reproduction class that had both a didactic portion and a lab portion and trust me when I say even something like that with students in their mid 20s had a majority of scrotes in it joking and making shitty remarks and the professors and teaching assistants did nothing. These jerks made near constant comments on how good the women doing semen collection would be in bed. This was a graduate level class at a university which one of the best vet …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 10:29 PM
12

Oh, come one! You mean to tell me a statue of Venus de Milo isn't the same thing as a clandestinely filmed homemade video of a woman being slapped, choked and called. "worthless dirty slut" by the man isn't the same thing? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 10:22 PM
122

This is an excellent point. Fifteen and 16 yr old teens could flip burgers at a fast food place and the enterprising, hardest working among those teens could work up to being assistant manager or shift supervisor before they even graduated high school. A 15 or 16 yr old stripper or prostitute would likely be routinely harassed" r-ped or abusing drugs before graduating high school. So these pro-sex work people should be asked which situation is best for the teen and why. They need to be pressed f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 10:10 PM
73

The only men that ACT as they're opposed to this type of thing are the extreme religious nuts and that's only performative. They secretly want a large supply of sex workers for their own consumption and that way they can secretly use the sex workers when they want to and then trash talk the women in the next breath. But yeah, you would think that the near universal support by men of something like this would cause feminists to take a closer look as to why the patriarchy would support such a thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 10:04 PM
4

Women DO have equal rights? I must have been in a coma recently. When the hell did that happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 12:57 AM
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Thank you! Absolutely! The much decried "liberal feminism" has done many good things for women. In today's world it may not be enough to maintain the status quo or to move forward but I get really tired of constantly seeing the idea of liberal feminism trashed here. These women trashing it have been able to advance their rights by standing on the shoulders of liberal feminists and now they're basically saying not only that's it's not good enough but liberal feminists are the enemy now. Everybody…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 09:53 PM
95

Normalization of this kind of bullshit really pisses me off. These people are always screeching about how kink shaming is so bad. I plan to start pointedly asking them if kink shaming is a bad thing then why is vanilla shaming acceptable? Another thing I'd like to mention tangiently to this -- I see a lot of song lyrics in today's popular music that glamorizes BDSM type stuff and choking, slapping, etc. I've noticed it in Doja Cat's songs, Latto and a few others. What is up with that bs? These a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 05:58 AM
247

I am just baffled by these people, esp women, who look down their noses at others and act like being "poly" or whatever bullshit is on some higher plane emotionally and intellectually to monogamy. If monogamy is smothering and repels these trashy men then all I can say is sign me up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 02:43 PM
58

Bradford Tuckfield, huh? Nice porn name, loser. I have never seen a better example of loser incel ideology dressed up as "data science". He and his unbridled misogyny can fuck right on off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 07:58 PM
68

Perfecting this "art" for years?! My eyes have rolled so far back into my head I think they're stuck. Yeah lady, porn is "art".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 01:50 PM
25

Yeah, I don't understand this post. She's been open about wanting another child and after finally being freed from that awful conservatorship she's married her long term boyfriend and is expecting. I'm happy for her to begin a new chapter in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 10:42 PM
5

I realize this guy is your friend and I don't know the guy from Adam but tbh I think you may be better off without a man like this as a friend. I think having a FWB is an individual choice that every woman should make for themselves but this guy appears to have some very misogynistic attitudes and views about women. The three women he is stringing along may each think they're the only one he's seeing. Men will often pretend to be in an open relationship but actually be lying to all of the women …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 02:32 AM
170

My piece of shit brother-in-law has always joked that he "slipped the doctor an extra 100 dollar bill" each time after my sister has given birth. He says this bullshit at family gatherings in front of everybody because he thinks he is so clever and the life of every party. My stupid sister always just laughs it off but she has always been the ultimate pick me girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 08:48 PM
2

I've got some weird hangups too. For me, differences in taste like that aren't too big of a deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 11:05 PM
16

I hate it when these poly people pull their "No True Scotsman" bullshit and claim that others aren't doing it right or whatever they argue to try to prove that being poly is so superior to monogamy. I see this same kind of nonsense with men trying to convince women to have anal sex saying it feels sooo good when it's done "properly". Bullshit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 08:15 PM
16

Joe Mangianello is one of hottest men I've ever seen. I hope he treats his wife well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 10:13 PM
98

This is a good example of the idea of telling a man "no" for something relatively minor early on in your relationship to see how they react. The guys you were interacting with were obviously the types where being told "no" was going to make them angry so it's probably best that they weeded themselves out as early as possible. Men who dislike a woman being assertive about her boundaries are always really bad news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 03:59 PM
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I hate this too although to be honest what I hate even more is when a man always invalidates your feelings. I dated a guy for several months back in college who when I would comment that I was cold, for example, always say "No you're not" and then claim it was "X" degrees and therefore I couldn't possibly be cold at that temperature. He also would do the sane kinds of things if I said I was hungry or thirsty. He'd tell me I couldn't possibly be thirsty because I drank a soda earlier or I couldn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 03:49 PM
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These men who watch porn nonstop and see strippers and prostitutes and spend money on OnlyFans are just scum of the earth. No woman should ever give a second chance to these pathetic shitty men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 10:12 PM
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He'll be cheating on her for real in no time. Men like this are never satisfied with one woman. They'll marry so they can have a housekeeper, childbearer and nanny, and a second income but I think when they marry they have no intention whatsoever in being faithful to one woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 11:11 PM
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Isn't it a great feeling when you're finally rid of men like that?! I had an ex and did those things as well and after I broke up with him I felt like this great weight was lifted off of my shoulders and that I could just breathe easy once again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:57 AM
114

Reading #2 and #3 has made me physically sick. I feel like I'm going to throw up. Damn these disgusting pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 12:11 AM
104

If sex work were like any other job then revenge porn wouldn't be an issue and a woman who was the victim of revenge could just shrug her shoulders and not think about it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:01 PM
25

Exactly. Both cats and dogs can learn appropriate bite inhibition at young ages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:24 PM
137

Tough shit, dude! Maybe he shouldn't have pretended to only want casual sex with the woman just to see how she would react because that sounds like what he was doing. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:11 PM
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Agreed. I also think it is of utmost importance to avoid any friendships with women who think porn, sex work, strip clubs or whatever are ok. Educating women on this is very important because I've realized many women either don't know the extent of how bad it all is or they've been socialized to be cool girls about those kinds of things. I think it's very important for women to believe that it's ok to stand up and demand that men not support these misogynistic and horrific industries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 04:14 PM
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Crazy how "kink shaming" is just sooo horrible and the worst thing you can do and yet I constantly see so many of these people vanilla shaming. If it's wrong to kink shame then it should be wrong to shame someone for being asexual or vanilla or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 07:04 AM
45

Bill Maher is like Leonardo DiCaprio in that he always dates women in their twenties. He did date Ann Coulter for awhile but she is nothing short of a damn ghoul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 01:30 AM
11

Who wants to bet me that this jerk says the same things and makes the same gestures to the toddler girls?! Anybody? Bueller?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:01 PM
54

Yep. That tells you all you need to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 09:33 PM
6

Oh, HELL NO! She can fuck right off with this bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 09:27 PM
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Thank you so much for posting this. I've dated my fair share of terrible men but fortunately haven't dated a man who was into bdsm and related nonsense. The person saying this has all been pushed by the porn industry was spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 10:50 AM
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I agree with you. It should've been handled privately. You can't just haul off and smack somebody on national television.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 09:15 AM
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You raise some great questions. It's also important to remember that there are a whole host of other pageants like Miss Teen USA and it's attendant state pageants for the men who want to go full on pedo. I don't know their age limits but I bet they may be as low as age 14.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 09:09 AM
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They're absolutely for the benefit of the male gaze and the system grooms younger girls to believe that their looks are the most important thing about them and that women should compete with each other for male approval. Im not as opposed to them as I am porn or other sex "work" but it's close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 12:12 AM
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Exactly. I'm nearly 60 and I could see women of my generation getting sucked into something like that and not being able to get out. But today's generation has tools to find information and gain knowledge about any subject that previous generations could only dream about. I hate to be somewhat unsympathetic but this idea of stripping or cramming to pay for college or grad school just never seems even slightly realistic. I wonder if any long term studies have been done with women entering sex wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 07:00 PM
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I feel terrible for saying this but I'm getting to the point where I don't even care if these women can't find non-sex work jobs later in life or if they get outed to friends and family. I know that's terrible to day but it seems like common sense that OF and other sex work could come back to bite you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 05:57 PM
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That age gap makes me think he probably has already found a much younger girlfriend and he's just trying to mess with his wife's self esteem before he dumps her for the girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 01:14 AM
55

"Aren't there laws for deformation?" Try being literate and/or proofread, dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:03 PM
50

I had a nasty break up with an ex because he knew I hated strip clubs and he went to one with a friend one night while I was working a 12 hr shift. It would be been really hypocritical for me to break up if I had once worked in a strip club or as a stripper but I had not done that. These pornsick bastards want to have their porn 24/7 but then turn around and disrespect women who have done that kind of thing. I feel sorry for the women getting caught up in these double standards but this should b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 11:16 PM
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That's one of the many ways they start grooming pre-teen and teen girls to spout the "sex work is empowering" bullshit. Those photos of those young girls are sickening. I've been watching the A & E series "Secrets of Playboy" and Hugh Hefner and that entire company were just vile. It's disgustibg the way Hefner and all of his pedophilic, misogynistic friends were able to get away with raping and exploiting so many women. I support women who are speaking out and trying to get out of these abusive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 10:35 PM
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As long as porn is easily available and essentially free for young kids to access 24/7 society is going to have issues with these things. Modetn porn may show people having sex but it's the exact opposite of "sex positivity". As far as kink shaming goes, you're damn right I'll kinksgame necrophilia, pedophilia and all of the violence committed against women in the name of bdsm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 02:47 PM
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Thats how I see it too. She seems pissed that women have to do this shit at all, not to mention backwards and in high heels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 12:18 AM
211

If this happens again please notify the owners of what he's doing. It's not just offensive, it's illegal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:38 PM
7

I'm sorry you had to deal with such a thoughtless jerk but I must thank you for sharing that story. I've had some similar situations with men and I'm going to copy your words and your style the next time it happens, if you don't mind. Your story has really inspired me and it's a fantastic example of what leveling up really means!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 07:37 AM
6

OMG that is the funniest thing I've seen all weekend! Your friend is a QUEEN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:46 PM
1

I'm petty and pedantic af so let me start by informing this scrote that a real man knows how to properly use an apostrophe when signifying something is plural vs possessive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:40 PM
4

This so-called dating coach is nothing but a big gaslighter. The mental gymnastics he showed in that piece were unmatched to other crap I've heard and read in a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:24 PM
95

What in the ever living fuck did I just read?! This miserable pervert probably started watching more incest and barely legal porn while his wife was pregnant and now bullshit like this seems completely normal to him. I'd be really surprised if he did not cheat on her while she was pregnant too - that's basically a rite of passage for these sorry bastards. She needs to check his search history and be very cautious about leaving him unsupervised with the newborn. It sends chills down my spine that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 07:42 PM
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Wahhhhh Where's my Mommy??? The mean females have declared war on muh tiny little crusty peen. I have needs and morals and I'm entitled to the love of all the virginal pornstars out there dying to have sex with me. WAHHH MOMMY HURRY UP AND BRING ME ANOTHER HOT POCKET AND A BEER. I'M ABOUT TO START A NEW ROUND OF CALL OF DUTY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 11:05 AM
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That's right, ladies! Sex work is work! Plus it's sooo eMpOwErInG. Jesus Effing Christ. In a way I'm glad this repulsive piece of shit posted this because pro-sex work people are always screeching about how the "workers" (read: rape victims) are tested regularly and always use condoms, blah blah blah. So this post can be cited as an example that the safety they proclaim isn't true, probably because this jackass paid more so he could go raw. That said though, scrotes like this will invariably bri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:46 AM
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I think it's going to take time and a lot of work to get many women away from the idea of paying 50/50 even when men are still making so much more than women but...one thing I am noticing a lot of women wising up to is not tolerating men who watch porn or have used prostitutes. I am really heartened by all of the women I've recently seen who refuse to accept bullshit like that. So we seem to be making quick progress in some areas even as progress seems slow in others. I'm not going to give up ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:52 PM
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First off this jackass writes like he's 15 years old. Secondly I don't take any guy seriously if he uses the term "friend zone" unironically. Thirdly I suspect before too long he'll be begging Molly to come back to his stupid parties. What a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:44 AM
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This is a fantastic post and was really informative for me as I was raised United Methodist but only because my mother forced me to go until I was in my early teens. I've basically been an atheist or agnostic my entire life - I sometimes vacillate between the two. One thing that struck me about both religion and Catholicism was how Mother Theresa has been so admired and praised for her faith and work. It was only fairly recently that I learned that she didn't really practice what she preached in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 06:01 PM
208

As far as I'm concerned any man interested in anal, even if he's ok with not doing it to me, is a low value man, no two ways about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 05:52 AM
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Men are allowed their preferences just as we are but negging is actually taught or at least recommended in many books and articles on teaching men to be successful with women so I don't give them the benefit of any doubt. If it sounds like a neg, then it's a neg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:37 PM
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My jaw dropped to the floor when she said that. I mean, seriously, I haven't heard that term used unironically in probably decades. Even the worst misogynists I know have the sense to steer clear of that bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:17 PM
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Yeah, you can tell she really thinks that was a "Gotcha" moment. What a dumb bint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:08 PM
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So if there are other misogynistic industries out there in the world then we have to be okay with the one industry that is by far the most misogynistic?! Progress against misogyny is often very slow and laborious so if we can weaken or eliminate misogyny in ANY industry then that helps all women. When her shift at the restaurant forces her to be choked, slapped or made to take 3+ dicks at a time then get back to us with your "all industries have misogyny" bullshit. I would think someone in her l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:05 PM
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I read this earlier today. I think both father and daughter suck. He obviously does because he's seeking out porn. He said that 40something men have "needs" but porn is not a need or a right or any of the other bullshit reasons people give to defend it. She's disgusting because she's doing porn and I did not get the impression at all that it was out if desperation so I'm going to hold her just as accountable. She probably thought she could make a lot of money while she is young but that is no ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 11:17 PM
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When they present sexuality as a "need" they are LITERALLY co-opting redpill, PUA and manosphere language who advocate that the government should provide men girlfriends so the won't go all Eliot Rodger on people. It's absolutely insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 06:22 PM
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I wish she had just blocked the guy the first time he brought fisting up. No debate, no arguing, just block the motherfucker. That's what I would do the first time a man brought up fisting, anal, threesomes or any of that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:17 PM
34

I'd go a step further and call it the Raping Industrial Complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 06:19 AM
109

This is an excellent post. I honestly believe we can win the proxy war against women that porn encourages. I've always been disguised by the step sibling and barely legal porn. We need to really confront women who support porn by asking if the age of consent is age 16 or 17 in some countries is it ok for those girls to act on porn? We need to get in people's faces on this subject with really specific questions to force them to truly think about what they're condoning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 11:33 AM
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There was a post earlier today on another sub where a stripper was remarking about how many of her regular customers often just want to talk and she had this smug attitude of how she's "an overpaid therapist" and it was just sooo enlightening to treat men as people, blah blah blah. Fortunately several people called her out about this including me and another woman who was an actual therapist completely roasted her. There were many supportive comments for her but I was heartened at the number of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:00 AM
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I think he just slept with two women and tried to with Susie because he could and he was banking on his top pick being able to "get over it". Thing is, Susie is a big pick me Miss Virginia pageant winner so her past illustrates she's not above debasing herself for men when it suits her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 07:55 PM
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People say bullshit like OnlyFans is "safer" and " more ethical" than traditional stripping or prostitution but women that do OnlyFans are still complicit in an industry that thrives on human trafficking, misogyny, objectification and rape culture. There is not one damn thing empowering or feminist about sex "work".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:18 PM
54

We've held almost all of the power historically as well as almost all of the world's wealth but WAHHHH when is there a Men's Day?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:36 AM
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There are far more of these cake-eating scrotes than we even realize. They like the security, benefits and social status that being married brings them but they also want to secretly chase other women and have affairs behind their wive's backs because MoNoGaMy IsNt NaTuRaL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:55 PM
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If a man watches or follows porn or other sex workers he is by definition a low value, shitty jackass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:47 PM
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We should be asking all of the men we know how they are balancing a career with raising a family. We shpuld be asking them when they plan to protest and march so that all rape kits are processed and all rapists tried and convicted. We should be asking them when they plan to protest and march for the ERA to be ratified. We should be asking them when they will start demanding that women receive equal pay for equal work. We should be asking them when they will be demanding that women have a right t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 03:51 PM
12

This is so heartbreaking. I hope she is able to take her baby and get the he'll away from this jackass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 05:35 AM
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I don't like this idea. Men will go on to feel more entitled to their idea of a perfect woman and will abuse those real life women who don't "measure up" to their standards. At brothels where men are allowed to use sex dolls the dolls are often very abused. The bottom line is that a man that wants to abuse women will find a way to do so and the AI robots will facilitate that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:19 PM
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It's also very important for a man to not automatically assume that you're mad at him if you seem sad or depressed. About 3 weeks after my parents died in a plane crash me and my ex were going to see a movie. I was kind of sad and being quieter than usual and my ex would not accept that I was just in a somber mood. He was convinced I was specifically mad at him and we ended up getting in a big fight all because of his insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:08 PM
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I think encouraging women to do porn and sex "work" is another backlash to women joining the workforce. Keep women desperate and in low paying jobs that they'll have to stick with because no one else wants to hire people formerly in these professions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 08:56 PM
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I found the matchbooks from all of the strip clubs he had been going to while I was at work all tossed into a little bowl in his apartment and I know for sure they weren't there when I helped him move into that apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:30 PM
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I'd like these jerks to exactly explain how some girls at an ice skating rink are expressing their sexuality. Are they expressing their sexuality when they're walking down a street and get catcalled? Are they expressing their sexuality when they're sitting in a high school or college trying to further their education? Are they expressing their sexuality when they're at a fast food job or waitressing when they're trying to earn extra spending money or pay for their education? No, they're just liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:00 PM
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Exactly! If he's in a US State where the age of consent is either 17 or 18 I love to see him pull that bs out on a judge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:52 PM
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It's always about power and control over a woman with these things. Your last paragraph is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:51 PM
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Heart and kissing emojis are far beyond any "understandable connection" to his ex-wife. She needs to leave his worthless ass so he can publicly make a fool of himself pining for his ex without her in the picture. Why do women accept this kind of nonsense? He's narcissistic as hell and is getting off by publicly triangulating these two women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:46 PM
110

I think you've got some problems if your husband is incapable of arranging his own pillow or taking off his own goddamn shoes but maybe that's just me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:39 PM
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"Too insecure and jealous" is their bullshit code for "has reasonable boundaries and the fortitude to insist they be maintained". I suspect a lot of this "poly" bullshit is being pushed by the porn and sex "work" industry so they can expand their profits as well as their misogynistic viewpoints.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:32 PM
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I'm straight but it doesn't surprise me about the lesbian subs. Im sure it's mostly pornsick bros just fetishizing lesbians. I was banned from the sex sub for asking another commenter how many raped or trafficked women were acceptable so he could have his precious porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:12 PM
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I think your generation of men will be better than my generation (birn in early 1960s) and those following will be better still. Progress is often slow and it doesn't always move in a straight linear fashion but overall things tend to get better. Where I weep for your generation and those beyond is with respect to climate change. I think that it's going to really screw over current and future generations and I'm ashamed that my generation and some before are the reasons why it's going to be so b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 12:44 AM
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Nahhh if he is grossed out by anal sex I consider that a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 11:52 PM
16

Yikes, I thought he sounded worth staying with over this but if he's trying to stick something up there then he still has an interest and that would be a no go for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 11:51 PM
4

This is my take on what you've described as well as my experience with anal. I would not stay with a man who said he liked anal or had done it with several women previous to our relationship. With the situation you've described I would proceed with perhaps a bit of caution but I would try to not let his past bother me much if you feel he's high value overall, you're in love with him and he shows signs of being happy to move on. Your boyfriend seems to have an attitude of "been there, done that" …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 11:46 PM
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This is an excellent post. Brava!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 01:27 AM
6

One good vetting tool is to ask what they think of the Access Hollywood tape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 10:31 PM
18

I dated a guy once who said he listened to Rush Limbaugh "because he's funny". Yeah, I don't consider it funny when someone is called a slut or a who're for wanting birth control cover to be included with health insurance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 10:14 PM
-14

Show me somewhere that womb is used with no correlation to religion or the Bible. I'll wait. Not scientific journals. Not news sources unless possibly in an opinion piece. Just Googling the word "womb" is nonstop Jeebus. Lots of thibgs don't "hurt anyone" but that doesn't mean they're correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:04 PM
14

Yes, I have been heartened lately seeing attitudes about porn change from "normal" and "healthy" to calling it out for the abuse and misogyny it illustrates. Change often moves slowly and we must continue to call out porn for the societal ill that it is and always has been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:48 PM
36

Your last sentence is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:33 PM
3

I don't think watching porn is technically the same as having sex with another person but if on a scale of 1-10 physical sex is a 10 I consider watching porn to be a 8.5 or 9. It's definitely breakup worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:30 PM
7

This should be the top comment. It's not the point but we must make it really personal for these people to continue to make headway against bullshit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:19 PM
12

Has anyone noticed that Ted Bundy, Charles Manson and Hugh Hefner all have striking resemblances to each other? They look like they could've been brothers. It's just creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:05 PM
-38

I'm going to keep harping on this: please stop using the term "womb". It is a religious term. The correct, scientific term is "uterus".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:08 PM
21

They're not regular moms, they're cool moms! This is pretty much the most pick me thing ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:07 AM
249

Porn has been illegal in Russia for several years now. I'm sure there are ways to get around it but I've seen this mentioned a few places elsewhere and people seem to mistakenly believe that PornHub is taking some brave stand here when they're not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:34 PM
6

What the hell did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:49 PM
33

God forbid these idiots listen to what a woman has to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:00 AM
38

Holy shit, I would ditch any scrote who brought up anal sex whether it was the first date or the tenth date. I am so friggin sick of these pornsick bastards trying to recreate their sick fantasies with what they watch yanking their tiny little peens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:29 AM
55

Jesus Christ, dating a 29 year old when you're only 18...what is wrong with these people?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 06:19 AM
623

Nope but I had a long term boyfriend start looking for a way out when I had a breast cancer scare in my late 20s. Luckily things turned out well for me and I kicked the asshole to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:24 PM
16

Ugh. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:29 PM
18

Honey, let's start with the age gap...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:20 AM
23

In 10 years or so she's really going to wish that she'd gone to college and gotten a degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 12:04 AM
92

One thing is for certain - you can always count on porn and sex "work" to lead the way when it comes to misogyny and abusing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:14 PM
146

Honestly I consider it a big red flag if a guy suggests meeting either at his place or my place for a first meeting. If he's so out of touch on just basic safety issues that women deal with on a regular basis he's probably out of touch on a lot of other issues that affect women disproportionately to men and I would seriously take a second to reevaluate whether he would ever be a good partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:54 AM
8

I know that I'm pretty old and out of touch but finding a relationship through dating apps has never had any appeal to me at all. I've never created a profile on any of them. I'd rather meet a man through work or mutual friends or hobbies. Sure, you run across many men who are trash but you can see them right away for what they are and do so many times before you even go on an actual date. I realize that these apps are not going anywhere but for me, personally, they just hold zero appeal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:26 PM
33

I dated a guy who got really mad at me because I scored higher than he did on a simple vocabulary test from a magazine. Things like that are a serious red flag, ladies. It may seem to be trite but if something like that upsets him or if he's mad that you're making better grades in school than he has you need to run far and run fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:57 PM
80

Yeah, once their wives get a hold of the credit card bill they start screaming "Fraud! I wuz robbed!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:17 AM
94

Another guy watching so many hours of porn that he can't cope with a woman that may look just slightly different from his beloved porn stars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:01 PM
43

They're always trying to co-opt language from the left to justify their disgusting views. It reminds me of the anti-vaxxers saying "my body, my choice".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 03:08 AM
29

That Code X stiff is very interesting. I'd be willing to bet there are other "codes" like that to cover for cheating in either whole professiins or in individual office culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:18 PM
28

"So what if she was raped or trafficked? She's hot and makes my flaccid little weenus hard?!?!" These are the men who would rape and assault any woman they wanted if it were legal to do so. And in many ways it basically is legal to do so because so few men suffer any consequences when they do rape women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:05 PM
38

I get really sick of this particular comparison. There is a big difference between working in construction or flipping burgers 8 hours a day and being raped and abused repeatedly so some scrote can jack off to "Busty Barely Legal Blondes Lose Their Anal Virginity To BBC" or whatever abusive bullshit is put out there exactly because these jerks get off to that very abuse. Also too (sic, I like to mock Sarah Palin for saying that) construction workers or fast food employees don't routinely end up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:59 PM
75

I promised myself I will leave a man who ever suggests having a threesome with another woman. Fortunately it's only happened 9nce and I then ghosted, blocked and deleted the worthless bastard. I'm thinking of doing the same if a man admits to having one in the past even. I think it says a lot about how a man views women and none of it good. This women is going to be writing asking for advice in a week or two about how to cope with the breakup of her boyfriend. Mark my words. It will be a painful…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:41 PM
219

Well, you know these poor wimminfolk just don't know their own minds. That's why we need a scrote like Jordan Peterson to tell us what to with our lives and how to think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:27 AM
-11

I agree completely. I liken a lot of these porn star women continuing to do sex "work" pretty much the same as someone who begins smoking in this day and age. There's no way that with the access to information that we have that someone doesn't know porn or smoking is bad for you and can have very negative lifelong consequences. If they don't know they should know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:20 AM
38

Nothing like mansplaining childbirth to a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:29 AM
68

I hope someday that there is a time where no woman has to turn to porn or other types of sex "work" because of financial reasons. Society as a whole would benefit so much of that were the case. Porn and sex "work" have always been an easy way to keep women as a whole oppressed and marginalized. I wish at least most women who support these things would realize that especially the ones who are making lots of money. A stripper might make several thousand dollars a night but it's only temporary and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:26 AM
34

This post reminds me that I really hate that Doja Cat song "Need To Know" with the "spank me, slap me, choke me, bite me" lyrics. This shit gets normalized through much more than just porn. I'll never buy any of her fucking music just for this shit alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:48 PM
22

If I live to 100 years old I'll never understand someone who "loves to be choked".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:31 PM
30

Wow, you really described that so well. That is exactly what my LV scrote of an ex did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:31 AM
12

Yeah, this is definitely targeted to women and it's just using scare tactics to keep women at home afraid instead of out in the workforce. They aren't telling men things like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:30 PM
15

I can't remember where I read it but I saw something a few days ago showing that OnlyFans is sending recruiters out to college campuses. They're handing out brochures that say "Get ahead by giving head" and other shit like that. This is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 08:47 AM
86

I feel badly she wasted so many years on a useless piece of shit but she is a next level bad ass role model for kicking him out and living her best life with someone new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:14 AM
38

This is just chilling. We have got to keep fighting the legitimization of porn and sex work. We can't give up. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:36 PM
41

This girl is great. I just wish that she'd find out the details if he's actually married and is he is tell his wife what he was doing so the wife can kick his ass to the curb too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 08:58 AM
19

I haven't read that particular book by Andrea Dworkin but I distinctly remember back in the 80s and my then-boyfriend who was a total scrote had a Penthouse magazine that was calling her a fat, ugly lesbian while in the very same issue they had this phony lesbian pictorial. Apparently lesbians were ok to them as long as the women met their definitions of "hot".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:23 AM
99

I've always thought it was hilarious, and by hilarious I mean vomit inducing, that strip clubs are called "gentlemen's clubs".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:06 PM
30

This jerk needs his ass kicked. I hope that poor girl doesn't wind up pregnant again when she sees her physician for her 6 week checkup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:12 AM
77

I wish people would use the term "uterus" more often than "womb.. Womb is a religious term and any time I see it I get creepy "Handmaid's Tale" vibes. It just a crazy pet peeve of mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:04 AM
26

Wow, I can't understand why this paragon of manhood can't find a date, much less a FWB. It seems like women would be all over him - NOT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:57 AM
49

That is freakin scary. Somebody is a Ted Bundy fanboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 01:34 AM
91

They're all gross but the cum rag takes the cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:55 PM
13

This is what reading Playboy or Penthouse from the age of 10 gets you. These men think they deserve a woman like that. They think they're entitled to a woman matching his description. It's not just violent porn with choking and slapping that causes men to feel this way. It's also subtle societal things that start when men are very young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:50 PM
3

You shouldn't be downvoted. It's the absolute truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:33 PM
17

The last one required she be a Republican. Hahahaha! Good luck with that you fat loser sumbitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 12:08 AM
102

She's both nuts and a product of broader cultural misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:31 PM
10

Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 08:12 AM
45

What a whiny crybaby. He probably goes around saying a variation of this same shit to any woman who won't date him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:35 AM
4

I've had comments removed for "low quality content" as well which I don't get. What standards do they use for the definition of "quality" and who are the arbiters of this? It really pissed me off because it seemed as though someone espousing a differing opinion here is going to be silenced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:56 AM
219

Apparently a woman who's done porn doesn't reflect the values of the company but all of the dude bros viewing and paying for porn is juuuust fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:42 PM
281

Yeah, he looked at her OnlyFans "just to check it out" and the fact that he then became a subscriber "proves his support for OnlyFans". Can this jerk be more of a hypocrite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:46 PM
15

I'm so sorry you've have to live with this mistreatment and abuse. I hope you are close to graduating or at a point in your studies or financially where you can leave as soon as possible. He sounds like an absolute monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:36 PM
10

I think I'd hold off on telling him about other men especially if you've only been dating about a month and a half. I just don't see a reason to even bring it up and I damn sure wouldn't feel guilty about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:15 AM
39

This is one of the most disturbing things I've ever read. She needs to get out of that relationship as soon as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 12:10 AM
4

Are you trying to imply that once you got your license to practice medicine you wouldn't be endlessly thrilled to provide free medical care for a man, his family and extended family and all of his friends?! The horror! What kind of woman are you?! ;-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:29 PM
7

You're right. I dated an orthopedic surgeon for about two months and he was the most egotistical, insufferable jackass I've even known.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:23 PM
88

Yeah, he's "had issues with jealousy in the past" because he's a lying, no good cheating sumbitch. The fact that she has to work harder so that he can pay child support is just the cherry on top of this massive shit sundae that's she's been eating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:16 PM
136

It's too late now but she should have aborted the fetus and then blocked and deleted this worthless piece of crap. The time and expense of trying to recover any child support from this scrote will not be worth it. If a man starts behaving this way early enough in a pregnancy I think the best course of action would be to terminate the pregnancy and then move on with your life asap. For me, at least, that's what leveling up would look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:35 PM
47

This was a good video and something she mentioned close to the very end stuck out to me. Referring to the Madonna/Who're complex. She used the phrase "wife you up". I've seen various iterations of that phrase a lot in recent years and it just drives me crazy. I realize that words and slang evolves over time but still the idea of wanting or not wanting to "wife someone up" seems very misogynistic to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 05:08 PM
70

Yeah, I don't believe it. He's just frantically jerking his tiny little weenus to some porn video of a guy getting a bj.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:09 PM
85

No, they have NOT won. I refuse to believe that. We're making slow but steady strides in showing people how bad sex work and porn is and we must keep on fighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:06 PM
8

If you really want to see unabashed arrogance, entitlement and selfishness visit the adultery sub some time. Hoo boy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:08 PM
13

LOL, I am laughing so much at your "fuck a rattlesnake..."remark! Seriously though, I am so glad you are rid of that scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:50 AM
13

I have 20 bucks that says whatever his job is he knew as soon as she told him her profession he realized she likely makes A LOT more money than he does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:35 AM
93

This is a great post. Thanks for pointing out of the tactics they use that are subtle or not seen as raising a giant red flag right off the bat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:11 AM
3

I'm not smart or creative enough but I wish someone here who is would make something like this to show how "choosing" porn or sex work is equally detrimental to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:06 PM
13

This is an excellent post. I, too, love to cook and would enjoy doing so with a partner as long as it wasn't expected that I do most of the work or bear the majority of the grocery expenses. I used to take cooking classes on a regular basis just for fun and when a date told me that he "was looking forward to critiquing my honework" I dumped his sorry ass. Im still pissed off to this day that he used the term "critique" and ge thought he was really being soooo smooth and flirty when he said that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:49 PM
6

I've been in a similar situation though it was many years ago. I'm so glad you've rid yourself of such a worthless piece of crap. I felt the same way with resentment and I really felt as though I'd been finally set free, or rather, escaped. It was wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 09:41 PM
38

Exactly. We seem numerous examples in real time every time they show reaction shots of the losing team in sportsball. Not to mention that the city of the losing Super Bowl team invariably sees a spike in domestic violence each year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:09 AM
128

Notice his upper age limit is still 3 yrs younger than he claims to be. Im surprised he didn't set a limit of about 18-25. Years ago I went on 4-5 dates with a guy I really liked and things seemed to be going well but he owned several rental properties and one night he mentioned that he had a young woman renter who had lost her job recently and that he allowed her to pay her rent for a few months with sexual favors. So I noped outta there really quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:00 AM
1

I'm embarrassed to admit that I'd never thought of this before but, damn, you are so right! Thank you for posting this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:17 PM
33

This is a tough one. I'm not sure what I'd do. I can remember running across some Playboy magazines when I was about 10-11 years old. I was horrified but back then I didn't have the life experience or even verbal ability to express how gross that made me feel. My father has been deceased for a long time but I'd like to think that if I'd had the same experience when I was an adult woman I would have at least tried to explain how shitty porn is, even in a so-called "classy" magazine like Playboy. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:51 AM
11

Good luck with the cats --- FUCK YOU, SCROTE! I know he thought that was a real sick burn but I'd take a cat over a piece of shit like that any day of the week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:53 PM
96

I used to work with a woman a year younger than I was (we were both in our mid 20s) and she and her husband were both from Mexico City. She would pack his lunch every day and if she forgot to put tortillas in his lunch he would blow up our office phone lines calling to scream at her. I felt so bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:38 PM
43

That is great to know. The Gen Z women I know are fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:32 PM
53

I know one who did the same His name was Brian and the daughter was Brianna but he joked about it was really about Brianna Banks. I can't believe his wife went along with that bullshit but she's a very submissive tradwife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:30 PM
44

Weren't you really, really flattered?! A porn star - wow, sooo sexy! That would've just melted my panties right off. rolls eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:28 PM
20

These pigs don't see it as depraved. He probably sees it as a really smooth line to use on women and I'd bet he says the same thing to hundreds of other women. It's not really a neg even - he compliments you om something that appears sincere then in the next sentence segues into sex talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:22 PM
66

And yet when his baby mamas want to date after their relationships with Nick have ended they'll be scorned and criticized for being single mothers as if that inherently makes them too much drama or unfit to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:39 PM
53

He's trash and so is Bre Tiesi. She's noted woman-beating druggie Johnny Manziel's ex and that tells you all you need to know about her taste and judgment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:51 AM
105

This story has really saddened me. It's heartbreaking to know that a gorgeous and accomplished woman such as she felt there was no way to go on. The disgust and contempt for women of all ages, but especially women aged 30 and up, is not only pushed and perpetuated by the manosphere but by society as a whole and it starts at birth. It's pushed by organized religion and by Hollywood's demand that women stay young forever while men are considered dignified as they get older. I think it's also heavi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:31 AM
69

And if she loves her 30s, and I think she will, she's really going to live her 40s. Trust me, I'm pushing 60. My 40s were the best decade of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:16 AM
4

But what about the job killing regulations, hengh?!?!?!!!11eleventy1!!!1!1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:11 AM
5

And it's going to get a helluva lot worse once Roe v Wade is overturned. Homicide is the number one cause of death for pregnant women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:07 AM
6

That is just sad that she laughs at shit like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:05 AM
4

Not only porn and sex "work" are misogynistic but so many mainstream Hollywood movies are as well. Case in point, a friend came over the other day and we watched the movie Dr T and the Women. Holy fucking misogyny! I was stunned, absolutely stunned. Not to mention being a native Texan and suffering through so many bad Texas accents. Looking straight at you, Richard Gere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:02 AM
4

I don't have much to add to this other than to say that this is absolutely, undoubtedly one if the best posts I've ever read on this sub. This should go into the FDS Handbook. I envy your eloquence. Brava!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:58 AM
3

They don't want to explicitly ask for consent because if they did so and the woman said "no" they later cannot insist that it was a misunderstanding about "mixed signals".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:43 AM
7

Well said. Some times it's really difficult to get an accurate picture of what someone really means when you're dealing solely with written text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:37 AM
85

I don't think you should return any gifts either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:24 AM
32

This has gotta be a Poe's Law thing, don't you think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:13 AM
1

I know that accidents happen, I've accidentally spilled all kinds of stuff on other people's furniture but this just seems to me like good old weaponized incompetence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:14 AM
15

You make many excellent points but the origin of the Madonna/whore dichotomy can be firmly placed at the foot of organized religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:02 AM
43

I used to know this crusty old bastard who, while in his 60s, only wanted to date women in their 20s and 30s. He actually did manage to date four or five such women but he wouldn't date them for more than a month or two because he was convinced they all were only dating him so they could "steal his Social Security from him". Yeah, right buddy! eyeroll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:21 PM
7

It's been a thing for a long time. I was coerced into doing it about 25 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:38 PM
4

I hate being pedantic but the proper spelling of the word is "paid", not "payed". Sorry, it just really grinds my gears. Otherwise, this post makes several excellent points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:29 PM
25

What is a door girl? I thought they always hired men to be at the door letting the patrons come in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:13 PM
18

I think this bullshit is an outgrowth of negging. Block and delete any scrote trying to pull this crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:03 PM
15

Porn and death grip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 05:45 AM
3

I'd bet that the men most likely to get "post partum depression" are the ones who pressured their wives to get pregnant in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:10 AM
9

I have a friend who really needs to read this. She's been very depressed and has always been the type of woman who would participate in a threesome as a "gift" to her boyfriend for his birthday or whatever. She just cannot muster up the self respect to refuse bullshit like that. Im so glad you are rid of such a low value man. Not caring if you have an orgasm would have done it for me but I'm glad you were able to free yourself of such a worthless scrote. I suspect he's going to have a hard time …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:43 AM
71

One issue that I vet men with early on is their reaction to the idea of this false rape charges bullshit. If they seem to be overly defensive about it themselves or overly worried about it they're gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:42 PM
7

As someone who's always had medium length to long hair the men who hate short hair on women and bigggg red flag wavers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:28 PM
2

I have a relatively unusual first name but it's not difficult to pronounce, you just don't see it very often. I had a blind date once start calling me "Darlin'" just a few minutes into our first date. Nope, not doing that. He was from the Deep South and I suspect he thought that he was being really charming but it actually was a big turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:18 PM
3

I'm not following the connection to liberal feminism here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:48 AM
7

Drake is a piece of shit. He's very good friends with notorious woman-beating druggie Johnny Manziel and that alone tells you all you need to know. I know Manziel and many people he associates with personally and he is just about the lowest value miserable excuse for a man you could ever meet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:31 PM
5

These crappy men also trash their wives and girlfriends for "not staying in shape" after having several kids or "letting themselves go". They use that bullshit to excuse cheating an emotional abuse. Meanwhile my sister has had five children, holds a full time job and has zero help around these house while her worthless husband is going to his gym 7 days a week. She has a college degree but never developed the critical thinking skills to realize that Conservative Christianity is actively working …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:20 PM
10

This should be a much higher comment. Women needs to always have an idea of what they would do if an accidental pregnancy takes place and frankly, I think an immediate abortion is the best choice especially in a situation like this woman's. An additional kid is only going to make her life more of a living hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:12 PM
2

I know every situation is different and it's hard for others to understand. I feel for these people. My mother was a terrible narcissist and thankfully my father fought hard for custody of me and my sister and won. This was in the late 1970s, no less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:03 AM
51

As someone who was surprised- proposed to with a ring, I hated it. I would've much preferred to shop for the type of ring that I liked and not just what the man decided was adequate. I also had two more years of college left and had made it clear I would not marry before graduation so it was very manipulative on my former fiance's part. Bottom line is I think whether or not the actual ring is purchased before the proposal can vary a lot from person to person. If a man proposes without a ring and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:42 AM
19

This is a great post. Unfortunately I learned these lessons years ago the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:33 AM
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Many seemingly HV men treat women they are sleeping with or want to sleep with very well. The tell is how they treat women that they don't find attractive or see as a potential partner and this would include family members. With all due respect I don't think your brother is as HV as you think he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:31 PM
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I feel like posts like this are always too broad. I consider myself both liberal and a feminist. That said, we need to fight hard against porn and the normalization of "sex work". I'm seeing more of my liberal feminist friends realizing that these things are detrimental to women and the true opposite of feminism. Many women realized back in 2008 that the nonsense spewed by a woman like Sarah Palin was not a good thing simply because it came from a woman. There's been a lot of good that has come …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:18 PM
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I know a lot of women who go on first dates like these and the man just talks about himself constantly and barely ask them anything about themselves. When they're that self-centered I just ghost them and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 03:10 AM
24

This reminds me - the best birthday gift I ever received was reading that Phyllis Schafly died on my birthday. Since then that has made me want to celebrate my birthday even more. Rot in hell, bitch!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:30 PM
40

Nope, two weeks to get to know someone is cartoonishly short. I'd be hesitant to marry someone I'd been dating seriously for two years depending on my stage of life. People dating for only 2 weeks and then the societal pressure to not divorce now, but especially back then, was a disaster for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:22 PM
7

Exactly. This is so freaking pathetic. I almost feel sorry for this woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:18 PM
32

Yes and so was anal sex. I remember many porn Stars in the 90s who were proud to say they didn't do anal. Nowadays they can't wait to degrade themselves or be degraded. Bullshit like this sets women back ages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:12 PM
74

Be cautious of men who neg other women when they're out with you as well. I dated a guy once that would point out things in other women that he didn't like either about their clothing or looks or whatever. First it makes it obvious that they're still checking out other women when they're with you and secondly they're trying to tell you in a roundabout way how they expect you to dress or look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:07 PM
6

To me he has always epitomized a guy with with a super tiny peen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:31 PM
4

First off, Mick, you weren't even attractive or talented when you were thirty five years old. What a fucking prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:25 PM
41

I saw that yesterday. He got completely roasted in the comments which I loved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:21 PM
111

I would break up with any guy who asked for a threesome or anal sex. I hope this girl will cut her losses and dump this jackass. Who needs shit like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:35 PM
5

Every guy I've gone on a blind date with showed themselves to be complete jerks within an hour or two of the first date. I have ended some friendships with people who encouraged me to go out with these jackasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 10:33 PM
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The powers that be do shit like this to keep women and girls poorly educated and financially desperate so they will continue to turn to sex work as a means of survival. All of this is under the guise of "supporting women" but this is just a way to keep women oppressed and treated as second class citizens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:50 PM
50

This is such bullshit. They should be holding education and job fairs to help women get out of these exploitative jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:31 PM
21

Your last sentence is absolute gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:25 PM
208

I've seen families where many of the men are much older than their wives and girlfriends. It seems to be part if their family culture, so to speak, and all of the men also tend to be abusive and controlling in these situations, as well. Go figure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:19 PM
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I am an atheist and I don't really care what any church or religion says about porn. It's abusive and degrading to women especially porn of the last 20 years or so. It perpetuates rape culture. I don't see how any woman claiming to be a feminist can excuse or justify porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:15 PM
42

I actually did this myself for my sister with her kids aged 13 and 11 at the time. Her worthless husband refused to even make sure they were fed and got to and from school for 3 days. He's trash but she just laughs it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 01:50 AM
95

Good lord, the clothes thing would've creeped me out and driven me crazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:59 AM
67

Yep, my ex-fiance cheated and when I asked him that same question he said that it's a woman's duty to "keep the family together". No. Fuck. That. Shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:38 AM
78

Is Playboy even around anymore? I thought they went of out business after their head pimp Hugh Hefner finally took a dirt nap. Regardless this guy had already looked at the girl's photos. He just wants other people to tell him it's fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:35 AM
22

I'm a liberal too in the vein of Elizabeth Warren and AOC and I hate porn and am opposed to sex work. I'm also an atheist so it's not a religious thing for me. More liberal women need to speak out about this topic. I applaud you for being one of those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:25 AM
9

Every woman needs to internalize this especially younger women in their teens and twenties. I wish that I had done so when I was younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:16 AM
73

He has two grandchildren through his eldest son and yet his child bride is going to have another baby. He's a complete creep but men wouldn't be able to get away with this bullshit if younger women weren't willing to date them. Regardless, it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:31 AM
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I'm nearly 60 and I would be ok with having a long term partner without marriage. I've never wanted to marry and I can't reasonably foresee that changing. I'm financially independent and no matter how good the guy marriage just wouldn't be a net benefit to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:13 AM
13

Why not both?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:57 AM
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He'll be in for a big shock when his girlfriend is able to find lots of other men wanting to date her and he's left at home jacking off to porn and playing video games. It will serve him right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:06 PM
9

Exactly. That is all this bullshit is about - a way to justify porn use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:03 AM
69

This is the bottom line. It IS demeaning and no matter their circumstances all women deserve much, much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:41 AM
5

People can really be groomed at any age especially if they are at a vulnerable timein their life. My parents were killed in an accident and I had some big troubles with my siblings when I was only 26. I was groomed by a 41 year old man at that time and it really made the situation I was going through so much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:49 AM
5

If someone asks for an open relationship they likely already have another person picked out that they want to focus their attention on. It's best to leave immediately then block and delete them. Anything otherwise is just asking for more heartbreak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:34 AM
22

Exactly. This sounds like a quality man here and yet there are so many comments speculating on his motives and saying no way in hell they'd date men who do this. Shit like this a big reason why this sub is compared to mgtow and called a hate sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:29 AM
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My brother-in-law actually volunteered to me that when their 4 kids were all babies he would deliberately pretend to be so sound asleep that he would never wake up to help feed or change them in the middle of the night. He was laughing when he said it like he couldn't believe my sister believed he didn't hear the baby crying. They're devout Southern Baptists and actually the example above is probably one of the least abusive and asinine things he's don't in their marriage. I've tried to get my s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:20 AM
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I don't have a strong opinion on this one way or another but one thing that I know with absolute certainty - Hugh Hefner and his ilk are/were the absolute gutter trash of society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:53 AM
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I'm glad she's been convicted and what I find so interesting is that in all of the news reports on this they show dozens of photos of her with Epstein and she is always hanging on to him or kissing him. He rarely, if ever, is shown kissing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:38 AM
75

Absolutely! We need to flip this bullshit on its ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:22 AM
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I dunno, I belong to a few liberal and progressive political groups where just about everybody is pro-sex work except me and when I've pushed back on the idea that it's empowering, etc I've actually been able to convince a few people to my way of thinking. It's not easy and there may be times when it seems we take two steps forward and then one back but things are like that sometimes. Personally I think raising consciousness of how bad sex work is for women is a far too important subject for us …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:17 AM
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Agreed. I don't ever want or plan to marry but if I did I would actually want to move in together after being engaged and I'd want to live together for a good 6-8 months just to make sure the man didn't pull any surprises before the actual wedding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 12:43 AM
32

She's going to really be depressed when she is over 30 or 35 and her nude pics don't bring in the money they do now. She'll wish she'd stuck with her veterinary degree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 12:34 AM
59

Having UberEats or Grub Hub deliver is not cooking. Fucking moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:12 AM
42

I'm gonna go far out on a limb here and say that no women should ever date a man who refers to women or sex as "pussy". That alone tells you he doesn't respect women and only sees you as a piece of meat or a sexual object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:08 AM
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If you go on a date with a guy who mentions a woman "nagging" whether it's his mother, ex-wife, whatever, that is a BIG red flag that he doesn't respect women. Proceed accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:26 PM
38

This is so sad. I've struggled with self esteem issues just like many other women but I can't for the life of me imagine agreeing to this kind of bullshit scenario.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:14 AM
24

One reason I can't wait for the pandemic to end is so all of these pornsick jerks will stop trying to groom high school girls to do this OnlyFans bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 11:13 PM
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Some dumb pickme woman was screeching at me on another sub because I said she was the asshole for hiring a stripper at a bachelor party for her fiance and another man but she didn't consult with the other man's fiancee. The other woman was seriously pissed off and disinvited the woman and her fiance from their wedding. Unfortunately it's not just men upset because women have standards. Lots of pickme cool girls are raging about it also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 09:34 PM
20

They forgot the "You're going to live alone with your 30 cats" bullshit. I'd probably top out at about 6 cats but otherwise it's wayyy better than living with some fat, balding porn-addicted scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 09:28 PM
51

I won't date someone who goes to strip clubs or has used prostitutes or escorts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 09:51 AM
211

Yep, any man I catch doing bullshit like this will get ghosted immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 11:28 PM
14

Sex work is not work, it's just sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 01:05 AM
23

I got into a big fight with a good friend of mine over this subject. She's been married for about 15 years and recently caught her husband watching porn. She asked him to stop and he refused. She asked him to watch it with her (even though she doesn't really like watching it) and he refused that as well. She even sought several counseling sessions to help her deal with the issue though her husband would not budge. I recommended she divorce her scrotacious husband but she's afraid to take that st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:44 AM
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That's great that she's speaking out about this especially on a misogynistic show like Howard Stern's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:30 AM
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I think it's pretty risky. Every man I've known whose father was a chronic cheater ended up cheating as well including an ex of mine. The ones who don't cheat will be in the vast minority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:08 AM
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I think a woman would have to be crazy to agree to this. I can't see any situation where this would turn out well for a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:05 AM
20

Maxim has always been trash. A man reading that magazine is just as bad as one reading Playboy or Penthouse. They don't even try to hide their misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 10:30 PM
12

I'm so happy for you. Your story will be an inspiration not only to your daughters but to women everywhere. Enjoy your new home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 10:24 PM
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I don't know but if I had to guess I would think the oldest profession wpuld be midwifery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 01:36 AM
7

That's a great sub. I highly suggest following it for both entertainment and seeing for yourself how dangerous and evil these types of religions are for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 10:25 PM
112

Absolutely! Cats are fantastic vetters of men. Never date a man who dislikes cats. If a man has bad allergic reactions that's one thing but men who dislike cats generally have issues with consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 10:15 PM
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I love numbers 7 and 9. And I don't see this profile as being bitchy, just direct and to the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:47 AM
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I'm glad you brought up the idea of marriage being hard work. It generally is hard work - for the woman. For the men, not so much. Men's lives usually get easier after marriage whereas women's lives usually get more hectic and chaotic. For these reasons and countless others I've decided to stay single for life. Dating a good man is fun but I can't see my life becoming better by getting married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 12:41 AM
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I'll probably get downvoted for this but what the hell is up with the name of that book? The Power Of Pussy, really? The title alone seems to suggest that a woman's power resides in her sexual organs. I may read the book because it's Bern suggested here but just from reading the title I would be immediately turned off from it otherwise. It sounds like it could have been written by an MRA or incel from that alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:21 PM
21

I was groomed by a older, married coworker after my parents both died in an accident. This shit happens all the time and it can really mess people up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:27 AM
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That's such a crazy self own I'm shocked it wasn't tweeted by one of the Trump men, especially Don Jr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:59 PM
4

If your man wants strippers for his bachelor's party you break the fucking engagement. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 12:48 AM
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You probably know or at least suspect this but I would bet this guy has several OnlyFans subscriptions himself - Why else would he suggest or think of such a thing? I would make 100% certain he's not a raging pornsick scrote before I continued to see him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 12:39 AM
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I would ask a guy to name three women, alive or dead, that he considers a role model for men or women. And make them women who are not his family members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 12:10 PM
6

She should've been looking for a good divorce attorney months ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:35 AM
23

Just a quick remark about something that bothers me when this topic is approached anywhere, not just FDS: the term "womb" is a religious one and religion shouldn't be part of the discussion in a country like the US. Try to remember to use the term "uterus" instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:57 AM
5

All I know is that I drastically raised my standards about 11 years ago and I have never, ever, not once regretted this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:57 AM
15

I'm just going to jump in here and say that once my boyfriend told me he had been thinking of his ex just a few minutes earlier when we had been having sex. He volunteered this information to me. We had a big fight, I left his apartment and we broke up. He may not have been physically cheating with her while he was with me but, in my mind, he was, for all intents and purposes, cheating. Not all cheating is strictly physical. There is such a thing as emotionally cheating and women who draw the li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:36 AM
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I had just read that before coming here. That guy is such a pompous jackass. I hope his wife leaves his arrogant ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:18 AM
35

What a whiny douchebag! I once had some scrote complaining about Kamala Harris being vice president and how feminists are taking over the USA blah blah blah and I just told the loser that once the USA has 46 consecutive women presidents he can whine about men losing power but until then he can stfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:28 AM
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Jesus Christ, she needs to kick this loser alllll the way to the curb! Fucker wants to hurt her cats and tells her she's only worthy as a cam model and she's losing her looks...hes abusive as hell. I hope she dumps him pronto.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 03:19 AM
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That woman is gorgeous. Hes the one who's punching wayyyy above his class. Someday she'll find a man who appreciates her so this jerkoff better enjoy her while he has her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:30 AM
6

Take it from someone who spend a lot of money doing this -- if there are shady inconsistencies in what he tells you or how he acts just save your money and leave asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 10:10 PM
31

This is tangential but shortly after college I dated a guy who got really, really pissed off at me because I beat him by two points on a silly vocabulary test in a magazine. He pouted and refused to speak to me the rest of the night without saying something petty and sarcastic so I broke up with him the next day. Ladies, do not hold back your intellect for a whiny, manbaby scrote who just wants to bring you down so he can feel superior or dominant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:45 AM
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He is such a colossal jackass but how messy can their home be with both of them working such long hours? He probably had to spend a whopping 10 minutes doing dishes and now he's all pissed off at her claiming she's being lazy. What a prick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:54 AM
5

I think Harry has grown a lot and evolved for the better since the days when he was younger and wore the Nazi costume. He's absolutely a better man than his father and even William.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:21 PM
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I think it should be a deal breaker if you're too far apart. How a person views politics tells you about their values and worldview. I would never date a man who wasn't a feminist in both words and actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:14 PM
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What she's missing here is that the guy probably has several side girlfriends he doesn't want to see the wedding photos and he never wanted to get married in the first place. I hate to say it but this woman is really dense. She should cut her losses, get a divorce and find someone who loves her and wants to marry her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 07:00 PM
8

The constant dark circles under his eyes creep me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:52 PM
11

So true. So damn true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:33 PM
53

These types of guys are always caught sleeping with a stripper or some "exotic dancer". In addition to that he needs to be taxed into oblivion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:19 AM
29

Beauty pageants have to be the most pickme thing ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:50 PM
40

I would dump a guy who primarily wants to communicate by text especially if we've already been on a date or two. If he really wants to interact with me he can make a damn phone call and speak to me in person instead of using lame texts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:49 PM
2

Thank you. That's a good explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 12:11 AM
36

The perfect scrote translation for pretty much any neg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 11:17 PM
1

I consider myself to be pretty liberal politically. I've always voted for Democrats and progressives within the Democratic party when I could but I am vehemently opposed to sex work and porn. Can someone explain to me why the term "libfem" is used here so much in a negative fashion? Honestly, I don't get it. Maybe it's because I've only taken science and stem types of classes in college and such, I don't know. I just can't imagine any American FDS followers voting for Trump or really anyone in t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:56 PM
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Not only do almost all religions benefit men at the expense of women but imho they should be taxed. Heavily. They're supposed to keep their busy bodies out of politics, at least in the USA, and they rarely do. Just look at how Falwell Jr, Franklin Graham, that evil snake Robert Jeffress and others are always hyping up the GOP. I live in Southeast Texas and there is a church on every street corner in my city. They use and benefit from police and fire services but don't pay taxes. Fuck that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:22 AM
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I doubt this morbidly obese pig can even get an erection. If he weighs 450 lbs his blood pressure is probably through the roof and he's probably diabetic and both those conditions don't spell success for a working peen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 05:56 AM
12

If you are childfree and have significant assets you'd be a fool to ever marry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:35 AM
136

I know a guy - a brother of a close friend - who is in his early 60s and is a big Trumper Republican. He's always posting shit on Facebook about ending Roe v Wade and saving unborn children, blah blah blah. My friend told me this guy had FOUR former high school girlfriends get abortions. He coerced them into doing so if they didn't want to and often had to borrow money from his buddies in order to pay for them. Two of the girls he impregnated were pregnant at the same time. He's now living with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:33 AM
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It's just astounding to me that it's possible, if not likely, that women's rights may be rolled back to what they were nearly fifty years ago. Greatest country in the world, my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:25 AM
75

Holy shit! Most of this reads to me like a parody of a disaster of a relationship. I'll give them two years before they separate and divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 04:17 AM
26

Yeah, that bullshit dichotomy needs to go the way of the dodo bird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:03 AM
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I'd bet anyone 100 bucks that he has OnlyFans and porn subscriptions that she probably doesn't even know about. She needs to dump this stupid loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 02:08 AM
85

Something that I find tangiental to all the crying and gnashing of teeth that these men's rights crybabies whine about - paying child support if they're divorced and have children. If a man complains and is resentful about having to support his children, run far and run fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 12:10 AM
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Cats are the absolute best judges of character when it comes to men. I had a gorgeous calico girl who lived the ripe old age of 21. If she was distant to any guy picking me up for a date I knew it would likely be the one and only date I'd go on with that particular man. When she knew a man was a good guy and was sincere in his affection for me she would rub all over them, purring away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:42 AM
4

I briefly dated a guy who often spoke about growing up poor and getting free lunches at schools, things like that. He then also bragged about what a pretty staunch Republican he was and since Republicans are the party always wanting to cut the social safety net and school lunch programs, etc I figured he was one of those people whose mentality was "I've got mine, fuck you" to those people born after him but in similar financial circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 03:35 AM
6

What a fucking jackass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:41 PM
9

It goes hand in hand with the idea that divorce is never an option for a couple. I have two married sisters with that mindset and their husbands have been abusive for literally decades because they know their wives are never going to leave regardless of whatever shit these guys pull.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:36 PM
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I broke up with an exi n large part because on a date one night I was in a quiet and kind of somber mood and he kept badgering me about "Why are you mad at me?". It was less than three weeks after my parents had died in an accident but he was convinced it was all about him. I didn't that kind of tone deaf shit in my life then or even now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:29 PM
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I remember reading a study in the late 80s that men are more likely to rate their partners as less attractive if asked to do so right after watching porn or a movie with very attractive women. I wish I could find it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 08:12 PM
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As I've said before on this sub, I dumped my fiance by giving him his ring back and telling him to exchange it for singles at the strip club he was going to while I worked 12 hour days every other weekend. The look on his face was priceless and I still remember it years later. It was one of the absolute best decisions I've ever made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:54 PM
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I'm glad you brought up the Playboy magazines. My now ex-boyfriend used to look at them in college when he and his roommates shared a subscription. He would then tell me how hot he thought Miss Whatever was that month which I considered a form of negging so after a few months of that bullshit I decided to just walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:26 AM
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These jerks think they're so cool and suave negging women they want to date and then wonder why they get ghosted. Dumb asses!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:10 AM
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I don't have an issue with men who masturbate when their partner is unavailable. It's the goddamn porn that needs to go for the reasons that FDS lays out. Porn is exploitative, unrealistic and misogynistic. If these men have to use porn to masturbate rather than relying on their imagination they are low value and not worth a woman's time or effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:55 AM
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Depending on their financial situations a lot of men like the one described by OP may have only slept with sex workers. So I don't think being a virgin at a later age is the only thing to be watchful about. There are many men who could have had enough sex with prostitutes that they could seem reasonably experienced. The one common thread between all these types of men with be copious porn usage. That's the giant waving red flag to be aware of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 01:06 PM
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Yeah, all these jerks who beat their chests and claim they would physically harm another man raping or assaulting women are just flat out liars. I had a similar experience at work once where a male customer became irate about something I couldn't control. My boss was not only right there witnessing the entire thing he was actually doing so while hitting behind a wall so the male customer couldn't see him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:16 AM
71

Exactly. Really "surprised". How could he have possibly known his groomsmen would hire a stripper?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:18 AM
15

I would tell your fiance that when he proposed marriage and you accepted there was a reasonable expectation of fidelity from that point onward and if he is using a bachelor party to interact with one or more strippers then he's just using that excuse as an acceptable way to cheat. More women need to call this bullshit out. Strippers are at best emotional cheating and often that actually turns into physical cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:16 AM
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Personally I am very, very opposed to bs like strip clubs because they are so prevalent and there seems to be this idea that it's just harmless fun which I disagree with. There is a lot of prostitution that goes on in these places and when it's a bachelor party almost invariably the prospective groom is going to either have intercourse with strippers or get blown by a stripper. I can't tell you what to do but I would seriously rethink your engagement and marriage if you think your fiance would e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:11 AM
117

I've loved cooking from when I was seven or eight years old and have taken cooking classes for fun for decades now. Years ago I was on a blind date with the worst guy ever and I mentioned that taking cooking classes was a hobby of mine. He then starts making what I assumed he thought were cute, flirty remarks such as "I can't wait to sample your homework" and shit like that. Oddly enough, these comments weren't even close to being the most offensive that he made that night. It was truly a date f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:49 AM
11

My jerk of an ex didn't want me to wear red nail polish because he thought "it looks like a prostitute".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 12:38 AM
21

Beware of men who love the James Bond movies and especially admire what a womanizer Bond is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 12:22 AM
10

She does and the hand gestures are insufferable too. She should take the money she spends at the nail salon and use it for an education. She's pretty but as soon as she opens her mouth you want to just throw your phone at the wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:16 AM
41

I'd dump my boyfriend in a New York minute if he said that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 01:25 AM
2

I know! I might even have a few dogs and cats to keep me company and show me unconditional love. The horror! Pikachu face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:47 AM
3

Yep, he's so close to figuring it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:44 AM
2

Well I'm destined to live alone for the rest of my life if that's what happens. And he's damn right that I value my pets, my career and my education far more than some jerk who's going to rag on me for aging normally like every other woman on this planet and expect me to clean up after his stinky ass like I'm his mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:43 AM
1

Well I'm destined to live alone for the rest of my life if that's what happens. And he's damn right that I value my pets, my career and my education far more than some jerk who's going to rag on me for aging normally like every other woman on this planet and expect me to clean up after his stinky ass like I'm his mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 04:43 AM
48

Okay so I decided to torture myself and watch the entire 23 minute video and, holy shitballs, this woman is a freaking loon! She has that same manic way of speaking the entire time and it reminded me of someone on cocaine. She gaslights Ms Rhodes about her very own lived experience - how fucking narcissistic is that? Lastly, she doesn't know the first thing about feminism or what it is supposed to mean or represent. She should be embarrassed that she put this online for the world to see especial…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:49 PM
36

Exactly. They want everyone else to be at least as miserable as they are, if not more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:37 PM
225

This is fantastic. I wish I'd thought of that back in my 20s and 30s when I was constantly bombarded with that question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:34 AM
51

Brittany speaks like she is manic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:31 AM
2

LOL! I love the documented sperm motility! My scrote brother-in-law who thinks he is the manliest man who ever manned had a low sperm count when he and my sister were starting their family and it was hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:14 AM
3

Hell, if his breath smelled like cheesy garlic that would probably be a vast improvement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:06 AM
7

Ammosexuals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:58 AM
14

That's what immediately came to mind when I saw this. That worthless Russian stooge pig was on national TV saying if Princess Nepotism wasn't his daughter they'd be dating. And the MAGAts hooted, hollered and voted him into the highest office in the land. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:50 AM
68

Being anti-porn and anti-sex work is being sex positive as far as I'm concerned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:35 AM
76

I known a few men who won't date women who refuse them anal sex and as far as I'm concerned they can find a woman that goes all in for that bullshit. Though I do believe that the idea of forcing a woman to do something she otherwise wouldn't do is very appealing to these jerks too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:31 AM
54

This is such bullshit. First off, the fact that he's now obsessive with having his phone pretty much tells her all she needs to know. She probably only knows a very small fraction of all of the shady shit he's been doing between porn and cheating with prostitutes or "sex workers" or whatever the fuck they call themselves. She may have known him for 20 years but she's only been married a short time and needs to cut her losses and leave this piece of shit before he gives her an std.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:07 PM
13

I know a highly regarded lawyer who's a partner in his firm and relatively well known in his field. There was once a woman who was at her job and a man she worked with went up behind her and pulled her arms back behind her (similar to how she would have been positioned if she were handcuffed) so he "could try to tell if her boobs were real or fake". This story had made the local news because the woman was pursuing sexual harassment charges against her coworker. This attorney I knew brought up th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:51 PM
10

Avoid attorneys. Really avoid any profession or particular job where traveling is a frequent requirement. I believe that makes a man much more likely to cheat and get away with it because they can use work as an excuse for their dalliance. I had an ex who once admitted that he liked to travel " because it enhanced his social life". He also admitted just out of the blue one night that he thought it was perfectly ok for a man to discreetly cheat once he had been married for several years and was p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:48 PM
29

My worthless brother-in-law used to openly laugh and brag about how he would pretend to be sleeping so deeply that he couldn't wake up to hear their four newborns when they were still sleeping in the same room. My sister knew he was pretending this and just let it go on because they're Southern Baptist and Jeebus would be very sad if she stood up for herself in the marriage or threatened divorce. The even crazier thing is that she did all the grunt work of raising their kids yet when Mother's Da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 05:40 PM
4

Another woman is suffering due to a creepy man who's probably been watching porn daily since he was 12. She'd better find a way to check if there are videos of her online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:15 PM
10

Yes, as usual these jerks expect women to solve all of their problems even the ones they've created themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:48 AM
16

I don't know if a tiny peen makes a guy more likely to cheat but a guy who constantly has to wave guns around screaming about his second amendment rights most definitely has a micropenis. Count on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 02:08 PM
53

I think men who watch porn are more likely to cheat than those who don't. For that reason alone I won't date a porn user.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:58 PM
64

I severed contact with a very toxic immediate family member years ago and my only regret is that I didn't cut contact sooner. Much sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:56 PM
24

I hate guns and at least in the US guns are thought of as this magical thing where a good guy with a gun miraculously takes out the bad guy with a gun. Women do need to take responsibility for protecting themselves but more guns is not the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:13 PM
2

This is the most pickme thing ever. In a few years this dumb woman will be either asking for relationship advice because her partner has been cheating or she'll be seeking support because she's grown insecure that her body is no longer as sexy as the porn stars her partner jerks off to. Have at it, bitch. Encourage him to watch all the porn he can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:35 PM
14

Honestly, I always thought that was a creepy thing to do. I can't imagine having a good friend die and then marrying that friend's husband. I don't see how getting married was necessary for Stevie to look out for her late friend's child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 04:22 PM
79

This is a tangiental topic and warning but in addition to avoiding porn lovers women should also make a mental note of what mainstream movies and TV shows a man watches. Back in the late 80s/early 90s (yes, I'm old!) I dated a guy who loved James Bond movies. He thought that Bond was such a cool, debonair type of guy because of all the women that Bond slept with. I never really followed those movies but one came out during that time frame where Bond was only going to be with one woman and the gu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:46 AM
37

I know they claim it's no longer practiced but this is why I hate Mormons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:51 PM
53

That phrase has always creeped me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:55 AM
11

In one of her recent TikTok videos she talks about "impact play" and how it's "mostly consensual". Yeah, what woman doesn't want to be slapped by her partner during sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:42 PM
30

Many of them also have to supplement their porn income by working as escorts too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 09:55 PM
11

I know a lovely woman married to a very hvm. They have 3 kids, a boy and twin girls. The wife is a veterinarian and is the primary breadwinner in her family. The husband stays home with the kids and is working on getting his master's degree to teach once the kids are old enough. Their situation works very well for them. I think it should be normalized or at the very least not stigmatized for men to be stay at home dads. Any given couple's circumstances will be different and if it makes better se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 03:02 PM
74

I'm an atheist but I think that's still a great sentiment. The most disgusting thing a politician has ever said about abortion was when Rick Santorum, on CNN, said that if a woman was raped and became pregnant that it was god's will and "she should make the best of a bad situation". If I'd had a gun when I saw that I would've been like Elvis and shot the tv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:38 PM
145

I had 4 great aunts, who are long deceased, born in the early 20th century. These women never married but together owned their own homes and a very successful business in their small Texas town. This was from around the Late 1930s until the 1980s. I always thought they were super cool and nice and yet my mother and my grandmother (who was their older sister) always referred to them as "old maids". That they were successful, career-driven women who didn't seem to want or need a man was considered…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:45 PM
5

Exactly. Look at all the movies with Richard Here and Julia Roberts. She's about 18 years younger than he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 12:19 AM
2

My younger sister, a devout Southern Baptist who won't ever consider divorce because it makes Baby Jesus sad, is married to the most financially abusive man I've ever known. Decades ago she and I got several substantial life insurance checks after pur parents died. One day she was at work and her husband was at home setting up his own business that SHE was paying for. The mail arrives an in it is a check for over $25,000 made payable to her. Instead of waiting for her to get home that evening to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:51 PM
25

I think if not taken to excess masturbation can be healthy for men and men. That said, if these jerks can't masturbate without watching porn and seeing women raped and abused then maybe it's best they not do it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:38 PM
4

I just saw a news story on this. This jerk most probably killed her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:29 PM
21

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:18 AM
25

This sounds to me like some red pill thing guys would do trying to keep a woman in a perpetual state of hysterical bonding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:06 PM
94

I have a news flash for this woman. Stripping is NOT sex-positive nor is prostitution. But hey, maybe her dad's pervy friends can go watch her perform and toss a few ameros her way. Also, I don't believe for a New York minute that she reports all of her income nor do I believe that all the girls work there because it's a "fun job".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 11:01 PM
17

And they're also notorious for having cocaine and myriad other drugs at those clubs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:52 PM
15

Yep, that dumb ammosexual motherfucker Chris Kyle took that guy out to a shooting range to "help" him deal with his PTSD and look how that turned out for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:45 PM
3

Tell your friend that she's a strong woman and she deserves to be loved by a HV man. This situation reminds of when one night my ex asked me if I ever fantasized about being with a previous man while we were having sex. He asked me this about 10 minutes after we had sex. When I told him no he then confessed that he was thinking about his ex just minutes ago when he was in bed with me. We broke up for about 3 days but he was able to convince me to get back together. One of biggest regrets is gett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:34 PM
66

My ex-fiance believed that few women are smarter than men and if they are, they should hide it as much as possible. He also believed that it's ok for a man to cheater on occasion if he gets bored but divorce-worthy if a woman cheats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 11:43 PM
15

I'm so sick of men acting like looking at porn is a goddamn need. That is such bullshit. Also I have a big news flash for people talking about how a man's attraction for women wanes as the woman ages. Women get bored and tired of sleeping with the same guy for years and we also get just as turned off by an aging man as they do with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:44 PM
2

I don't think they would disappear overnight because contrary to what they claim, they're not about scholarships when push comes to shove. It's ultimately about appealing to the male gaze and to men in general. There might be fewer contestants if the scholarship aspect was removed but ultimately these things are just entertainment for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:52 AM
15

Holy crap! Elizabeth Warren is my idol too. The people passing judgment on you were trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:39 AM
3

I don't think liberal feminists believe that women should support all women just because they have a vagina. I don't know any liberal feminists that support women like Sarah Palin, Lauren Boebert, Marjorie Taylor-Greene and other women of their ilk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:18 AM
17

I was on a first date with a guy and he asked me to come to his house the following day for a bbq. I couldn't do that because I had already promised my grandmother that I would pick her up and take her to my sister's home that day. My grandmother was elderly then and didn't drive beyond just the small town where she lived and my sister lived about 50 miles away. So I told this guy I had plans with my granny and he started pressuring me to change our plans and rearrange the plans that my sister, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:51 AM
13

OMG, duh! I am such an idiot! I didn't realize that "Madam" was part of her professional name and I assumed she was a "madam" running a brothel. My bad but I'll leave up my original comment so y'all can laugh at my stupidity. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:42 AM
-9

I love Octavia Spencer but come on, are we going to glamourize a freakin' madam here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 02:54 AM
87

These creepy ass men get these ideas about threesomes or poly relationships from porn where an ugly man like Ron Jeremy is going around having sex with unlimited quantities of hot, young women. They soon cannot tell the difference between fantasy and reality and begin to think that they, too, can have countless women lined up to screw them. Fortunately most of these "poly" people are also super pornsick so it's easy to just block and delete these weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:38 AM
31

They use the same bullshit allegation of iNsEcUrItY that the porn-obsessed people do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 01:20 AM
2

The only thing shocking to me about this is that this scrote didn't limit the woman's age to be under 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:55 PM
76

Yes, they're just like bratty children. They'll take negative attention over no attention at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 03:39 AM
10

Well our value as women is directly determined by our youth and beauty so these lovely men are doing us a favor by letting us know what our chances are with them. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:46 AM
187

This jackass has some very specific violent fantasies. He needs to be put on a freaking watch list before he goes full on Eliot Rodger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:44 AM
5

Exactly. Both men and women are socialized to prioritize what men want and it starts literally from birth. Men's needs and wants are the default and women are the "other".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:25 AM
15

You can tell so much about a man, any man, by how he reacts when a woman tells him "no" even if it's something like no, you don't need help carrying a bulky package.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:47 PM
9

Maybe I'm being crazy and paranoid but I think that Republicans will try to eventually make rape legal and even try to overturn the Griswold case that made birth control legal. That worthless bastard Antonin Scalia thought it should be overturned and there are so many judges that hold him up as a hero including Amy Coathanger Barrett.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:19 AM
8

This was a tough lesson for me but I'd advise my younger self to not be afraid to report my rape to the authorities and to not fear reprisal for reporting sexual harassment at work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:41 AM
43

Yep! A prime example being Brett Kavanaugh. He made it sooo clear during his confirmation hearings that he was a stable, dispassionate, even tempered jurist - by crying and screaming "I like beer!" and being rude and disrespectful to Senators Klobuchar and Whitehouse. I hate that sorry piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:33 AM
55

What's been annoying me lately is the idea that "empowerment" to women comes from their being paid for sex work, porn or whatever. Just because someone is being paid, even if they're paid well, doesn't mean they aren't being exploited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:27 AM
10

I swear, if you see a supposed woman on a sex or dating subreddit who claims to love anal sex more than vaginal or loves to be "face fucked" nine times out of ten it's going to be some scrotey asshole pretending to be a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:58 PM
9

Larry Flint was a total piece of shit and frankly, I'm glad he's dead. Same goes for Hugh Hefner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:48 PM
37

I'm very left-leaning politically and it drives me up the wall to see people arguing that being a construction worker or coal miner or whatever is the same thing as a woman working as a prostitute or having to give bald, overweight, greasy men a lap dance (or worse) in a strip club to pay her bills. It has nothing to do with religion for me as I've been an atheist since I was a teenager. I will never understand how so-called feminists put the male gaze and a man's boner over uplifting women out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 09:40 PM
191

I gave my ex-fiance his ring back and told him to exchange it for singles to give the strippers he saw after going out on night after we were engaged (while I was stuck working a 12 hr day). I don't regret that one bit. I'd do it again in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:53 PM
27

Thank you so much for posting this. I'm a liberal politically and I want to share this with several liberal friends who think sex work is a-ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:27 PM
21

Yeah, I don't see anyone thinking Gunther could provide the best sex of their life. He's fucking delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:11 AM
81

Her story has always made me so sad. The way she was abused and treated by the people who should have protected her as a young girl makes me think she never really had a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:25 AM
13

Add a few zeros to that number and it would be more accurate. :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:03 PM
15

My disgusting brother-in-law told my sister that he thought she had "a stomach tumor" when she wasn't back to looking like a swimsuit model 4 months after the birth of their first child. He's an attorney and doesn't know the first thing about childbirth recovery but he fancies himself to be quite the expert. Unfortunately my sister is the consummate pick me so with a total of three kids and countless verbal and emotional abuse she's still with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:50 PM
27

Sleep deprivation is literally classified as torture. I'm so glad you got away from that disgusting man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:38 PM
23

That's a great point. If there is constant conflict between FDS and pick me type women the only people benefiting from that are the scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:02 PM
11

I'm in my late 50s and thus old enough to remember how things were back in the mid to late 90s regarding porn. I was a borderline pick me back then being in my late 20s & early 30s and putting up with way more bullshit from me than I should have. I distinctly remember in the mid 90s most of the porn stars refused to do anal sex and would proudly proclaim that they refused that particular act. I remember this because my best friend at the time had a boyfriend and a brother who both were heavily i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:00 AM
6

I had a feeling this was going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:16 AM
15

This law has to be struck down as unconstitutional. I think Roe will be seriously weakened probably by next summer but, good Lord, I don't see how this can be upheld.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:11 AM
4

I have gotten criticism by women in my own family for wearing pants when they thought I should have worn a dress and for wearing soft, muted makeup instead of an "after 5pm" kind of look. Demands of performative femininity are often worse coming from other women. It is so frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 07:26 PM
4

That's a great example. Another one is Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta-Jones. Although Michael was married and had kids before he apparently was not truly committed to his first wife and chased anything and everything in a skirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 03:04 AM
18

I think that men with character and integrity are less likely to cheat but generally speaking, yes, I think the vast majority of men are only going to be as faithful as their options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 02:28 AM
-1

I agree with this but I wish they wouldn't use "woke" as an insult. Being or becoming woke is a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 05:32 PM
32

The fourth tweet is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:04 AM
5

You are so right! It's all one way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:01 AM
11

His "nagging wife" is so lucky to have this worthless motherfucker out of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 04:54 AM
15

I just read an article on Slate from today claiming that it's "cruel" to sex workers for Only Fans to start banning porn in October. It included a lot of pissing and moaning about how sex work is the only reason that OF become successful in the first place as well as claiming they're caving into demands from "crazed evangelicals". I've got a news flash for these jerks -- I'm very anti-porn and anti-sex work and I've been an atheist my entire adult life. I just about strained my eye muscles from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:09 AM
78

Bullshit just like this is common in Southern USA culture as well. My right wing nut job sister will fix her husband's plate, then once he's begun eating and needs more iced tea, for example, she'll jump up and get that for him too. He literally treats her like the wait staff at a restaurant. Once he's finished she'll take his plate to clean it up, get him dessert if he wants it and then finishes her own meal while he pontificates at the table about what a manly man he is and how straight, white…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 01:42 AM
25

Not to mention the fact that from a financial standpoint women are still only making 72 cents for every male dollar and the number gets even lower for women of color.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 12:07 PM
17

He's very talented. This reminded me of Sarah Cooper and her hilarious Trump videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 11:55 AM
14

Fuuuuccckkkk that and fuck you, Alan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:12 AM
6

I had a friend from work about 6 yrs ago tell me that she didn't care at all when her husband would watch porn every day and go to strip clubs with his buddies from work every Friday and Saturday night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 11:13 PM
11

Right! I'd tell that sorry sumbitch to die and die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:09 AM
42

Where are the dads helping out, you ask? Oh, they're napping, playing video games and drinking beer with their bros at a nearby pub. At least that's what my two zero-value brothers-in-law are doing. My parents were progressive people so I don't know how or why my two sisters settled for these jackasses. One of them has openly bragged about how he would fake sleeping too soundly to awaken and care for his four kids when they were infants because he knew my sister would do it instead. What a prize…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:06 AM
8

Thank you for making the point about gay men and misogyny. I know several gay men through work and one of my hobbies and while some of them are great guys and enjoy/appreciate women far too many can be very, very misogynistic. Though in my particular case it's because those men were raised as Southern Baptist and living in red states.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:56 AM
22

Holy crap, toxic monogamy culture! That's insane. I'm so glad that you've freed yourself from both a cheating ex and a friend with those toxic viewpoints.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:50 AM
1

Congratulations! I hope you and your future husband have many years of happiness, good health and love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 12:28 AM
17

My niece, who just turned 36 this year, married a guy 15 yrs older than her. They started dating about 5 yrs ago and she got pregnant but didn't realize it until she was about 5 months along. So they got married, she has the baby and then nearly 3 yrs later has another child. What saddens me about this situation is that she is well educated and nice looking. However, my sister (her mom) and brother-in-law are to of the most toxic people you'd ever meet. They've strongly encouraged age gap relati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:32 AM
6

Jesus Christ, defending a guy who can't be bothered to occasionally text his girlfriend when he's out is the pinnacle of pickmeism. And that sorry bastard should be in jail for drugging a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:03 AM
4

This is an excellent point to make. LVM hate it when a woman tells another man "no". Simone Biles had the audacity to be a strong black woman and prioritize her mental health over their demands for her to perform. Not only do these scrotes not give a damn about Simone they don't give a damn about any women. So they can just fuck allll the way off with their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:48 AM
8

Yep, I'd much rather stay single living alone with my pets than putting up with some asshole expecting me to cook and clean for him while he watches porn and goes to strip clubs with his stupid bros. And I don't want to hear anyone's bullshit about how men are visual or telling me I'm insecure and controlling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:34 AM
3

Be wary of men who travel a lot for business or work reasons. Often LVM deliberately work in fields where traveling is expected or common because it enables them to tomcat around and cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 05:33 AM
44

Fourteen year age gap! No, not creepy or predatory at all! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:50 PM
22

Add to that the crazy insistence by rightwingers that EvErYbIdY hAs a RiGhT tO gUnZ and it's a wonder these types of killings don't happen more often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 06:45 PM
289

Maybe this is wishful thinking but I think both men and women are waking up and realizing just how horrible porn, the porn industry and sex work is. I'm hopeful that the young women of generation z will not have to deal with so many of these pornsick men in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:27 AM
30

I think a lot of guys who are "pro-life" are actually very pro-choice as long as it's the man who makes the choice, not the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:53 PM
30

Exactly. US Democrats would be considered center right in many European countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:33 AM
4

I could be wrong and may be eating these words in a few years but I think the primary driver of the success of Only Fans has been the covid pandemic and once we can get the virus under control globally Only Fans will start to lose money and fade away. At least I hope that will be the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:52 AM
16

Yeah, whenever someone has thrown that line at me (I've been told I'll be alone by both men and women) I just shrug my shoulders and tell them not to threaten me with a good time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:30 AM
54

Brava! That was so well articulated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:13 AM
90

The idea that left and right have equal amounts of misogyny is a false equivalency. Sure, there are individuals on the left who are misogynistic but conservatives and the GOP literally make misogyny part of their platforms and policy goals (with anti-choice and opposition to equal pay as two examples).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:37 AM
28

I'm a white woman and I fully agree they're all racist af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:13 AM
7

Im surprised there wasn't a picture of one of my sisters beside the definition. She has been the quintessential pick-me for nearly 50 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:55 PM
113

This reminds a lot of reading in various relationship subs and you see so many of these moronic "polyamorous" or "ethical nonmonogamy" people complaining about relationship drama. I want to ask these people what the hell did they expect to happen? It's invariably some man whining because he wanted to open the relationship and now his girlfriend goes out with a different man each night while he sits at home eating stale Cheetos and furiously masturbating to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:24 PM
12

My jerk of an ex-fiance kept telling me I was insecure because he was openly flirting with another woman at a wedding rehearsal dinner we attended many years ago. I mean, my entire freaking family saw him doing it and commented on how he was behaving but sure, I'm just InSeCuRe. Fuck these low value scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:47 AM
82

Yep, you're so right. But I'd also be wary because a man asking this question is likely to be a very jealous one himself. If there's one thing I've learned about these scrotes it's that they project more than an IMAX theater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:48 PM
111

Yep, they're not only told that it's because a boy likes you, they're taught that a girl should be flattered that a boy likes them. Nobody considers that maybe a young girl doesn't give a flying fuck whether a boy likes her or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:18 PM
58

I love Jacinda Ardern. She is such a badass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:34 AM
185

Yep! Watch closely how a man reacts when a woman tells him "No".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:33 AM
119

I've always been a staunch Democrat but the Kennedy men were real pieces of shit in the way they treated women. JFK and Ted Kennedy were both notorious cheaters and Michael Kennedy was sleeping with the family babysitter before his fatal skiing accident. I wasn't old enough to vote until 1980 but I would be cautious about voting for any Kennedy politicians even today. I don't live in Massachusetts so it would have to be a presidential election where I'd be voting for one. Of course choosing betw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 03:26 AM
50

Viewing women as a depreciating asset is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 06:04 PM
407

This doesn't indicate avoiding any specific occupation or job title but I really avoid men who travel a lot for their job. I had a guy from about 10 years ago who actually admitted to me that he liked traveling for work because it made it easier to enhance his social life apart from his then-wife. I refused to see him again after that little tidbit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:21 AM
28

He can't help it. Men are just ViSuAl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:56 PM
24

I'm so tiredo of these "solve all your money problems easily by opening an Only Fans account" bullshit articles I could scream. When are we going to stop normalizing women doing porn as a way to quickly make "easy money"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:54 PM
3

Anything and everything Charlie's Angels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 01:56 AM
38

Beware if a man also has an intense, irrational hatred for strong female politicians such as Hillary Clinton or Kamala Harris. I'm already seeing lots of men on social media or coworkers and acquaintances who have mentioned how Kamala Harris is sooo "unlikeable". Fuck those guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:24 AM
180

This guy is going to leave his longsuffering wife, alienate his kids and then when he tells the poor young friend that he's in love with her she will likely be completely horrified and reject him. And when she rejects him he will then probably call her a fat, ugly bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:08 PM
4

Driving around endlessly in a parking lot looking for a close parking space when it's obvious the place you're going to is packed and the best thing to do would be park further away and walk rather than wasting time and effort looking for a parking space that no longer exists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:51 AM
35

This is a great point. I can overlook or forgive many things when it comes to dating but I will not tolerate a cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:39 AM
3

"Baby thimb" Holy crap, the cat was sleeping on my lap and now she's pissed off cuz I'm laughing so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:32 AM
3

Honestly, I'm not super picky about size if the man is high value. The crazy thing is I've had a scrote tell me after about 4 or 5 dates that I was going to have to get a boob job if we were to become serious. Bear in mind that I am a C cup and in good shape & this sorry mofo was in, at best, average shape and had a freaky looking belly button that kinda weirded me out. I know he couldn't help that any more than I could control my bust size but after he told me that I just replied by telling him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 02:27 AM
2

I think prenups are always a good idea. Even if you both are poor starting out in a marriage circumstances can and will change. Either of you could inherit significant money or maybe win the lottery. Trust me, you find out what a person's character is really like when you share an inheritance with them. Plus, I think it's better to delineate what household chores and childcare practices that will work for you best before you marry and definitely before you begin having children. These days women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:20 AM
5

Dafuq?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:14 AM
14

Yep! That skeevy motherfucker was taking a page put of Roy Moore's playbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:00 AM
9

I don't think you're paranoid and people may think I'm crazy for saying this but in addition to "modeling opportunities" used as grooming tools I personally believe that cheerleading in junior high and high schools serves as a grooming mechanism for these young girls. Plus many, many more girls can be picked for cheerleading in school as opposed to modeling jobs. At the very least cheerleading teaches young girls that dressing in skimpy clothing and provocative moves will get the approval from m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:48 AM
17

Few things piss me off more than being told by either men or women that a guy going to strip clubs is no big deal. Fuck that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:53 PM
50

Porn also encourages men to think of women as commodities and collector items.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:25 PM
9

I wonder how many women this worthless piece of shit has raped himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:06 AM
7

Watch the way he treats women who he doesn't want to sleep with. He should treat women he finds unattractive the same as when he finds them attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:57 PM
5

Always observe the way he responds when you tell him "no" over something trivial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:55 PM
32

Of all the terrible, misogynistic things that LVMs do, watching porn and using sex workers is the thing that pisses me off the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:47 PM
27

I've had the experience of having a guy with plenty of money try to date me and then get really mad and verbally abusive when I turned him down. When I was a 21 yr old college senior I met a 40 yr old attorney at a party that mutual friends held. I had a steady boyfriend at the time but he was unable to be at that particular gathering with me. So this scrote atty starts talking to me and we both played tennis so he asked me to play tennis one afternoon. We play tennis and afterward he starts try…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:51 AM
315

I absolutely will not date a man who watches porn or who goes to strip clubs or has hired an escort. I'm middle aged now but I have a sister who is 10 years older than I am and she married her superscrote husband when I was 13 years old. This jerk would constantly watch the Playboy channel and he would even send her off to the store to buy his Playboy & Penthouse magazines. It was obvious he just wants to rub this shit in her face and she claims it's never bothered her. After she had their first…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:28 AM
18

That's great but it's missing a "MeN aRe ViSuAl" square.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:09 AM
336

Yep, I used to have to work every other weekend and my (now ex) fiance decided to out out with a high school buddy of his who was in town that weekend. I found out a few days later that they went to a strip club so I gave him his fucking ring back and told him he could trade it in for some singles to give to strippers the next time he went to a titty bar. The look on his face was absolutely priceless! I've never regretted doing that either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:09 AM
11

And wave around guns screaming about their second amendment rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:52 AM
49

Personally I had a very bad experience with an orthopedic surgeon. I was fixed up with this scrote on a blind date back in about 2008. We met for coffee on our first date. He was ok so I agreed to a second date. Holy shit, that motherfucker asked me for a $20,000 loan on the 2nd date and when I refused he got really verbally abusive. Of course I broke off any contact with him after that but out of curiosity did some background checking on him. His medical license had recently gotten suspended be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:38 AM
132

And many, many women have experienced ALL of these things before they've reached the age of 21.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 04:18 AM
58

I don't have any children but I would be so proud of her if she was my daughter. I really think this upcoming generation of young women are going to go far in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 03:57 AM
3

Sorry, but the actual term for a female dog is "bitch" and really should use that term properly. I've shown dogs as a hobby for over 20 years and the female dogs are always referred to as "bitches" and nobody laughs or acts weird about it. Female dogs go into season twice yearly and only will stand for a male dog to impregnate them during a dew days during each heat season. Bitches will usually correct any male dog that tries to mount them outside of those days. That is the reason that the term …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:37 AM
5

I had a small measure of sympathy for Melania until she wore the "I really don't care" jacket to visit the children at the border and she began whining about how she's the "most bullied person in the world" to Tom Llamas. She may not be as big a piece of shit as her husband but she's damn close. There's a reason she's stayed married to him longer than any of his wives. She can go straight to hell as far as I'm concerned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:32 AM
1

WTEverlovingF? No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:11 PM
19

Only 66% of the work? I would've guessed it's closer to 75%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:49 PM
3

My college boyfriend had an ex that he dated right before me who told him that she only had male friends because all of the girls she came into contact with were "too jealous of her". The sad thing is that he actually believed this bs to be true. They broke up because she cheated on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:24 PM
10

That's just really sad. Maybe her husband has gaslit her into believing him watching porn is her fault but she doesn't have to turn around and try to gaslight other women into believing that trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:20 PM
41

The women are too "emotional" just drives me bonkers. Meanwhile Donald Trump would regularly melt the fuck down on Twitter on a daily basis when he was president and did so regularly even well before he was even running for president. Also, did any one see Brett Kavanaugh at the gearing after Christine Blasey Ford testified? He was crying, accusing the whole thing as "revenge from the Clintons", screaming that he likes beer and being rude and accusatory to Amy Klobuchar and Sheldon Whitehouse wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:24 AM
7

I wish that I wasn't an atheist and believed in hell because this worthless shithead would be roasting in there right now along with that sumbitch Larry Flynt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:41 AM
1

If he has 50 million guns or drives a gigantic pickup truck when he lives in the suburbs of a big city you can bet your bottom dollar he has a tiny weenus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:37 AM
21

I've had the same experience you have had with these porn sick men though, fortunately, I've only had these issues with a small number of ex-boyfriends (I'm now in my 50s). Surprisingly enough (NOT!) the men involved all characterized themselves as deeply religious (Southern Baptists). Porn and religion have been subjugating and demeaning women for a very, very long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:01 AM
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