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Maingurl · 2022-02-21T17:05:02+00:00

"If men as a whole would ignore women for a year..."

Boys, please make it a TikTok challenge.

Leave us alone. We'd love it.

Madholley · 2022-02-21T16:35:13+00:00

OMG YES. When will they stop throwing themselves at us?? Sign me up for that world!!!!

ultblue7 · 2022-02-21T17:19:49+00:00

Yeah no tried that. Chased my ex and begged him for a relationship. Gave him everything and tried so hard to fit to every part of his lifestyle. Left my pride in the dirt begging him for attention and tried CoMunICatInG. That got me dumped like a stranger on the street and probably cheated on. Never again. There is no reward for chasing a man except utter humiliation and mental anguish.

LeaveMeAlone__308 · 2022-02-21T17:40:42+00:00

Okay do it!! Leave us alone FOREVER, suckers!

I assure you men, we wouldn't be banging your doors for your glorious dicks!

myheartisfulloflove · 2022-02-21T23:34:26+00:00

“It’s wrong when everyday women expect to have men pay for the dates, we should fight back by paying professional maids and prostitutes with that same money in our pockets.”

Do they hear themselves????????

Sallou9 · 2022-02-21T17:25:08+00:00

Lol I would rather have to do those 5 things than the things women have to do:

The insane amount of maintenance regarding appearance, fashion and grooming.

Being afraid for our physical safety and making ourselves vulnerable by agreeing to date a man

Doing a lot of emotional labour even early on

Having sex: all risk no reward

Etc

Buggy1218 · 2022-02-21T16:43:58+00:00

When will men realize the risks a woman opens herself up to in regards to dating men?

First of all, I’m not saying all men of course. HV men exist and we appreciate them.

However, for the vast majority- I would say 80% at the very least 1) Are only feigning interest to get laid, 2) Have abusive or manipulative tendencies, 3) Expect you to work full time while maintaining the household chores alone, 4) Are complacent losers with no ambition, 5) Have no interests outside of games and anime, 6) Lack personal hygiene, 7) Literally hate women. I think you get the picture, though I could go on.

We’re not mad, we tolerate men, we want to find a HV partner to share life with. But men don’t realize that all the reasons listed above are why we don’t settle for low effort.

Maybe if they didn’t spend all their time and money throwing their community dick around, pursuing one woman they actually care about wouldn’t seem like so much work.

millennialpink2000 · 2022-02-21T16:50:30+00:00

These comments from men amaze me. They LOVE being men because they reap societal benefits, but then they freak out when they're expected to ACT LIKE MEN and ask women out, as is the natural order. This is cafeteria manhood

DuchessDurag · 2022-02-21T17:02:31+00:00

Low effort = low reward

Older generations of men had no issue with pursuing women, No idea why it’s so scary for men of today.

It’s mind baffling how men can spend money on sneakers, video games, shout their boys at the strip club and buy cars. Yet can’t understand the dynamics of women and dating.

It’s super annoying how a lot of men blame feminism for their dating disappointments and fears.

modernmedusaa · 2022-02-21T23:08:48+00:00

Male delusion.

This is the exact problem

Boring unremarkable arrogant men trying to act more than what they are

Abusive and selfish. Cocky attitude. Low effort.

Yet expect women begging at their door for their community pornsick penis that can’t make us orgasm

Hahaha dream ON.

So sick of these loser morons expecting women to kiss their asses.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2022-02-21T19:06:12+00:00

It's such a lie that only the "top" men get women. All my boyfriends were average or below average in looks, and none had money. I'm sure none of the women my worst ex cheated with were driven crazy by lust, they just got fooled by his liberal nice guy shtick. I think something similar is true for most of the women I know. Lots of broke, ugly dirtbags get a chance in their twenties, they take it for granted, and then whine after their luck runs out.

ItsFreezen · 2022-02-21T18:34:08+00:00

Just admit your too lazy to date and have a girlfriend. No one is making you.

BoneCode · 2022-02-21T17:09:58+00:00

I have a cleaning service that cleans my house every two weeks. I pay them $260 per month and it’s a steal.

I don’t think they’d agree to have sex with me each visit for $140 extra.

Also… they always tell on themselves. They don’t want a relationship with another human being. Our entire value is housekeeping and sex. Then they complain that women don’t like them.

Spittens · 2022-02-21T17:10:37+00:00

The egg does not chase the sperm.

lolmemberberries · 2022-02-21T23:06:47+00:00

I think most women would love it if lazy, desperate, undeserving men stopped throwing themselves at them and feeling entitled to their time, attention or bodies while offering nothing in return.

august-27 · 2022-02-21T20:20:31+00:00

I love how men can spend a millennia with their feet on our necks, subject us to all kinds of abuse and still want us to recognize ~how hard it is for them~ lmaoooooaoaoaoao

Pryras · 2022-02-21T18:56:01+00:00

If you left women alone they’d be a whole lot happier and probably wouldn’t even entertain men after the fact. Their absence won’t be missed lol

PinchePescadora · 2022-02-21T17:42:45+00:00

Then they complain when we’re not submissive enough. Bunch of goddamn head cases need to get it together.

alylei31 · 2022-02-21T17:26:08+00:00

It's funny how they say women would be begging them but men make up most dating app users too lmao. They will say this and then be the one begging you in private for sex nah sis

cryptohobo · 2022-02-21T19:13:16+00:00

In the OLD platform I’m using it shows the row of men I matched with (they liked me first) but who still haven’t messaged me. I have to delete them after a couple days because it’s embarrassing to match with a man who acts like a princess. Seriously, I don’t even find them attractive once I’ve reached that point.

greeneyesrosylips · 2022-02-21T22:58:49+00:00

Oh the ultimate inc*l fantasy in the comments from the second slide... They're utterly pathetic.

kumquat_fds · 2022-02-22T01:12:07+00:00

😂 Men can dish it, but can’t take it. Women need to act, look and think a certain way but the second even a tiny gendered expectation is put on a man, ITS SOOOO UNFAIR 😢 WE REALLY DO LIVE IN A SOCIETY🤔

Also, before you performed the extreme physical labor of leaning in for a kiss, I’d already Googled you to make sure you weren’t a sex offender. But go off!

aquietsword · 2022-02-22T01:12:29+00:00

There's already barely any work to do. You match on old because you've swiped right...and the vast majority of women don't swipe right on everyone like the sad scrotes do. If you aren't a trash bag after that it's nearly a guarantee that you're going to get a yes. The vast majority of the idiots don't even plan the date. Men are so coddled and fucking stupid if they are seriously still crying about this shit.

c_a_t_lady · 2022-02-21T18:47:14+00:00

After a year women would be asking men to fuck them? Yes, of course. Because as we all know, throughout history, most sex strikes were held by men.

Most men would simply give up before most women would.

spinsterchachkies · 2022-02-21T16:49:04+00:00

I’m so bored of this whining. I wish it was normalized for men to be manly again. So sue me for being insensitive to gender roles. If he doesn’t approach after all the work I do on my appearance and signs I give him I assume he’s not interested or a pansy and I don’t want him anyways. We wouldn’t be compatible. He would need someone that prefers a submissive guy.

Hhjjuuy · 2022-02-21T18:36:23+00:00

Honestly men who think that men make the first move are probably just rapists. They're telling us that they don't read or understand women's body language. That they ignore out clear signs of interest and attraction. That our flirting and invitations to engage mean nothing to them.

They will happily (or unhappily I suppose) approach and escalate with women who have shown them absolutely zero signs of interest and not only think this is fine, think that they are the victims in this scenario.

Constant-Wanderer · 2022-02-21T19:52:10+00:00

Haha I fucking WISH men had the ability to stop chasing women for a year. Life would be so much more pleasant without the constant “Um excuse me, I have a dick if you would like to use it” reminders, and the “gOtTa sHoOt mY sHot” fucking morons.

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2022-02-21T19:04:27+00:00

What in the delusional fuck is this?

aintshitsweett · 2022-02-21T17:13:50+00:00

Women would beg men for attention? HA I can breathe & men would think its a invitation to fuck me. Women don’t need to beg because men already the ones begging.

pickadaisy · 2022-02-22T06:38:26+00:00

HAHAHAHA THEY THINK WE CAN’T HANDLE A YEAR WITHOUT SEX.

Someone poll the group. Let’s see how many of us chose celibacy the last two years. 😂🤔

slayeroftruth · 2022-02-21T19:36:27+00:00

Am I suppose-to care? We can't even leave drink alone for short amount of time, so they don't spike it. Men are terrible at being decent to women so much that basic behavior is seen as incredible: https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=-jpmsTLsATs

thewetdog_ · 2022-02-21T20:10:43+00:00

Lmao ignore? Also he says 80%… so homeboy should just aim for that other 20% of women. That is PLENTY. Go sit pretty for them, bat his eyelashes for them and wait for them to tap their lap for him to come cuddle on it.

But why complain or pine for what you can’t have? Knock yourself out with the 20% and leave the rest of us alone.

Mcccy · 2022-02-21T20:53:23+00:00

Women are literally scared they're gonna get MURD£RED ON FIRST DATE.

AyemHerself · 2022-02-22T04:22:13+00:00

Look, if it's so hard for you poor men, nobody is making you do it. Just buy one of those sex robots you've been threatening us with and go.

Zurflu · 2022-02-21T20:27:54+00:00

We don't chase men because we know they are mostly incapable of saying no to sex and will happily fuck women they don't like and aren't attracted to. "Chasing men" will literally turn you into a nonprofit charity prostitute.

bananaslim1917 · 2022-02-21T16:36:57+00:00

yes, yes i do expect you to do all that, and you’ll be paying for every date, not just the first few. and they think hvw are just gonna show up at their door and beg them to fuck?! with their lack of effort and reciprocity in bed?! couldn’t be me 😭😭😭

FUBARfromLSA · 2022-02-21T18:34:22+00:00

Oh wellsies.

corkymuu · 2022-02-21T16:43:53+00:00

Men don’t do jack shit, what’s he going off about?

hologothic · 2022-02-22T05:26:54+00:00

I'm not trying to generalize here, but don't most men view women that pursue them as weird and needy? The ones that act like this guy are just looking for something convenient and low effort, not anything that's actually substantial. As long as he gets consistent sex and emotional support it likely doesn't matter who the woman is.

scorchedsouI · 2022-02-21T19:46:41+00:00

Pathetic. Men are on a mission to make themselves as unmasculine as possible, of course women would feel too repulsed to even respond to messages, much less allow men to initiate multiple dates.

It's supposed to be difficult, it's supposed to be the role of males in dating, it's supposed to be a filter for those who can't cope with it. Do it, or don't.

mojbuja · 2022-02-21T18:08:18+00:00

As a woman who's gone long periods without sex, I have to say that the longer I abstain, the less I want it. Their theory that women would beg for it does not ring true. At least not for me.

EnvironmentalGroup15 · 2022-02-22T00:58:53+00:00

Men always want women in some sort of traditional submissive role but never wanna take on the traditional provider role.

ferociouslycurious · 2022-02-22T04:28:38+00:00

They are so effing lazy. And if you make the mistake of marrying one he will blame YOU for HIS laziness. BTDT

thinktwiceorelse · 2022-02-21T19:36:55+00:00

But...but...what about BiOLogY?

thisisausernameee23 · 2022-02-22T02:52:13+00:00

Women risk getting murdered from strange men, or worse, on the daily when they date and the amount of time we often put into looking pretty for said date is crazy.

Plus wtf is he talking about most or AT LEAST half of women pay 50/50 or are fine with low effort dates like coffee or going to the river anyway.

Our standards are collectively on the ground we expect so little from the other sex. They're just not gonna be satisfied until they don't have to do anything and women just flock to them by the dozens.

Plus, usually what happens is men put in more effort for the first few months and women put more effort in for the rest of their lives together.

We do the planning of vacations, events, parties, we do the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, we take care of the kids. Which is a full time job on its own AND we pay have or more of the damn bills.

For decades. The least these fuckers can do is try harder for the first few dates.

Men want the absolute world and anything other is unfair and selfish. No wonder they think they're so oppressed. They don't realize what they have until it's gone.

ceramicunicorn · 2022-02-21T22:03:36+00:00

Ok. There are a lot of women here eager to see the men pull off that sex strike, where they stop pursuing women for a year.

So who’s gonna do it? Who’s gonna LARP as a dude trying to organize this? “He” could even start up a subreddit for this!

Rosetint_myWorld77 · 2022-02-21T17:13:12+00:00

Poor baby, that must be so hard for you... look how much you have to go through... how ever do you persevere?

excusemeILY · 2022-02-22T06:54:23+00:00

Men who complain about this are not real men

idestroythingsfora- · 2022-02-22T11:55:55+00:00

I wish men as a whole would ignore women for a year. Please guys listen to him, he actually has the right idea (for the first time in his life), I'd pay you to do as he suggests

millions_ofpeachs4me · 2022-02-21T20:11:47+00:00

Men hate it when women pursue them or make the first move. It sets up a biologically-reversed pursuer-distancer dynamic that leaves them feeling like they have a loser woman all over them, even if she’s an absolute catch.

All I hear is “I want sex and attention but I’m lazy and insecure. Time to lay that at the feet of women. Time to do literally anything except self improvement.” 🤡 is right.

Somewhat related: this is why effort from men is so important. The coffee/walk guys are throwing their low effort at any girl who so much as glances his way. Maybe the men should take the lead on ditching that shit strategy and spend a bit more time on one woman they actually want? Just a thought. They’d be far more focused and energized rather than chasing ten different leads to nowhere.

Objective_Ad7771 · 2022-02-21T20:29:44+00:00

Lead the conversation? Omg sure... Give me space to talk and do not interrupt every sentence and I'll GLADLY lead the conversation.

sewingmachinesavior · 2022-02-21T22:12:49+00:00

Oh dear, he’s missed his mark. I expect men to pay for every date forever. 😂

moonseekerinflight · 2022-02-21T19:40:47+00:00

I never was the type to pursue a man, and I've never been sorry. There have been a few I liked, and knew they really liked me too, but they wouldn't take a chance. They dropped little hints, then sulked like babies when I didn't immediately start humping their leg. Time would go on to prove that they were low effort in pretty much every other aspect of life. Their relationships never worked out. And I bet they still can't figure out why, no matter how much their wives/girlfriends cOmMuNiCaTeD.

Dstar538888 · 2022-02-21T20:57:27+00:00

The thing about this concept tho is that these males don't just want any old woman approaching them...they specifically want to be approached by the super model-looking women and fail to realize that those women have several men pursuing them and therefore don't need to approach men....I used to have a friend who would approach men all of the time, and I'm not trying to be mean, but she was not conventionally attractive and would get used and manipulated by these males all the time...men don't appreciate women who approach them first... they think that those women are desperate and often take advantage of them until someone better comes along....

bambina133 · 2022-02-21T19:33:42+00:00

Omg what! Lol if we were left alone we would be perfectly fine

pukebrains · 2022-02-21T17:26:35+00:00

Men have a lot of crazy fantasies, but this one is probably my favourite. They really think that:

1) they’ll be capable of leaving women alone and not bothering us (which can be possible but with the way their brains need short bursts of dopamine it would be too hard for them)

2) that women actually enjoy the attention from random men and we’re just pretending not to, and that one day we’ll be crawling back for it

But we all know neither of those scenarios will never ever happen

Mari_Mari_Mariana · 2022-02-21T19:53:10+00:00

Men these days don't have to do literally nothing to get most things in life as daddy and mommy will do everything for them. Many are even proud to be NEET. If there is one thing their parents can't buy for them is a girlfriend. They have to find one by themselves and it requires effort.

As you see, the guy isn't even complaining about how expensive it is. Just that it requires effort. He has to risk rejection, has to make an effort to impress and might fail at the only thing they aren't (yet) entitled to. So they attempt to convince society (other men and LibFems) that they really have the right to have women throwing themselves at them.

mentalgymnastics928 · 2022-02-21T20:57:41+00:00

Men just cannot get over the fact that women are the sexual selectors of the human species. They refuse to accept that, biologically, we have a lot more to lose from having sex (mainly because of the possibility of pregnancy). With the advent of IVF, a woman no longer needs to settle for a subpar mate. She can go to a clinic and choose from the best of the best. Women need men less and less these days. They bring very little to the table and as time goes on, they bring less and less. They need to be perfect in the areas where they are still useful in order to secure a mate and most of them simply are not up to the challenge.

ladypsychosis · 2022-02-21T21:17:45+00:00

This is why the only other subs I look at are dog photos. Reddit is just filled with misogyny that’s not worth looking at.

RecoveringPickMe0621 · 2022-02-21T22:21:57+00:00

"Making the first move"

Oh, is that what the creep who honked and whistled at me while I was walking to class was doing?

Take your attention, we didn't ask for it

ashley-spanelly · 2022-02-22T16:08:11+00:00

So I get to worry about you literally stalking or murdering me after aforementioned date, but the idea of you thinking of something up for us to do it’s just too much to bear?

Fuck all the way off 😂

Lykmt · 2022-02-21T19:26:47+00:00

I think initiating as a woman in a hetero relationship would only lead to major losses for the woman. For starters, a man who’s used to chasing women will only see a woman who initiates as low hanging fruit and a quick lay. He will think of you as defective or lesser than for taking that first step. He will also stop putting in any effort as he knows you’re more than capable of initiating and planning and making him feel loved without him doing anything. So as a rule, it’s best to avoid being the first to initiate and plan things especially if you’re just starting. Otherwise you’ll find yourself slaving away, begging for his attention, used and abused in all kinds of ways then dumped as soon as you ask for some reciprocation or commitment.

Don’t be that woman.

Ivimaiden · 2022-02-21T22:06:50+00:00

If men as a whole would ignore women for a year, they would be at your door asking you to please fuck them and give them attention

LMAO, this might, and I make emphasis in that might , work only on 20's girls. However, it just doesn't work that way. In reality, we would all be like "aah, such peace and tranquility, finally I can go out without being annoyed, hit on, or stared at", "it's a beautiful day" (music playing). In fact, the E.T.'s would come down to earth and tell us "we've observed the behavior of your men, and we have concluded that now you have evolved long enough to become part of the galactic federation, welcome dear friends", etc.

In all seriousness, the guy who wrote that fails to understand that women don't work that way, we would not just become hunters and chasers, desperate for sex and attention. This guy does not know how women are.

These-Ad-5925 · 2022-02-21T18:21:44+00:00

The DELUSION is beyond me 🤣🤣 LMFAOOOOOOOOO

luzsalta · 2022-02-21T19:47:49+00:00

This gave me a “nice guy” vibes ☠️

Screamingskittles01 · 2022-02-21T20:52:56+00:00

The only pressure I see regarding a man is when he pressures me into having sex lmao.

natasha_throwski · 2022-02-21T21:11:58+00:00

I will gladly make the first move, pay for dates and the rest.

Once I grow a dick with balls in place of my vag.

Specialist-Ebb7606 · 2022-02-21T17:35:40+00:00

400 dollars a month is hella chump change ... like add a few zeros, and then maybe

Salt_Satisfaction · 2022-02-22T15:16:44+00:00

It's only an unpleasant effort if you feel like you have to and not because you want to.

I chased men I was interested in and although I was nervous, I was more excited about them saying yes, being able to talk/spend time with them, how everything was coming together for them to start liking me... etc. This is not a good strategy for women as people in FDS know, but the point still stands.

That's because I actually liked them, not because I was doing it out of obligation by following social conventions to get a boyfriend.

If he wants to stop feeling like this, he should stop going after women he's only lukewarm towards, or maybe even women he just wants sex from.

It's only a drag if you're not in love/falling in love with the people you're chasing.

He seems to think that women often step back because we're lazy or passive. No, it's to evaluate if the man has good intentions and if he's good for us, especially on OLD where they're total strangers.

purplegiraffe3893 · 2022-02-22T00:39:47+00:00

Lol come on what bull shit. This isn’t true anymore. So many men out in the minimum effort and don’t pursue. Currently in a situation with a guy that after asking me out the first time his put in no effort to do anything

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Date	February 21, 2022 4:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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