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18

I hate exes that come back and still want to entertain the same BS... and when I keep blocking they've either made new accounts or I find out theyre spreading rumors about me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 06:11 PM
2

The scary part about this development on the male BC pill is how many men are just dismissing it, nitpicking it and generally not even taking it seriously like they don't even take it seriously and that's scary cause as soon as it becomes available for humans how many LVM are going to lie about taking it. "but will it make my dick bigger?!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:55 AM
87

they always like to think they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:52 AM
1

I had an ex with a lot of those red flags too. I'm kind of pissed that dealing with a LVM like that makes me think that we're the ones that need therapy after dealing with them and having to adjust when it's the scrote that needs therapy way more. There's nothing wrong with us, it's THEM that's the problem with their behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 08:14 PM
-1

I have that racing chair :) the different between me and scrote would probably be who cleans it better cause those chairs are magnets for spills and dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 08:06 PM
1

I find IME that the men that want kind, sweet, nice women are usually the asshole, unkind, constantly crossing boundaries men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 06:37 PM
35

this.. it took me having my FT job, MONEY, uber or a car to walk away from bad dates where I don't feel like a trapped animal when my dates were being selfish and I determined it was better to not waste my time further and leave. What would happen with a woman who has no money, no means of leaving, not even public bus if she's stuck with a bad lazy man that can't make her cum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 04:56 PM
6

omg i am cracking up @ chicken scratch writing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:23 AM
123

I had a ex scrote/friend that I always wondered why he was so mad and angry, moody typical scrote behavior. His main complaint was that he wasn't getting enough attention, insatiable amounts of neediness, always wanted women's attention at all hours but it had to be good attention. The women had to be like happy clapping seals and provide good conversation for him to not be moody. Even needy of his moms attention. I'm not perfect either, I was pickme that time and stuck around against my better …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 09:04 PM
96

I am glad I exist in the same age as the internet to find out there's a lot of weak LVM out there for me to avoid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:31 AM
73

my dry spell is like what dates? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:11 AM
35

i cant find a man I can spend a few minutes talking to without going ick lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 05:02 PM
30

im a huge shit talker so guys always get mad at me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:56 PM
3

I watched the said interview in short tolerable pieces cause it was just too cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 09:34 PM
37

Coming from my perspective of someone that has lived in poverty for most of my life, I can honestly say it physically feels like life in general and circumstances just pressures me and forces me to live in that kind of arrangement (living with family rn). I mean I know it's obvious survival that living in a group unit means better chance for survival but I totally agree I would rather 100% live alone for most of my life, if not the rest of my life. This is why you see so many scary situations li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:03 PM
34

This made me realize my standards are impossibly high I wouldn't even entertain a single word after a guy suggests dinner at his place... but wow that's the best offer he has? I am not missing out on much not dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:25 AM
13

it sounds like what the people over at the rate me subs do, there are some obviously gorgeous women's pics (i often doubt they post themselves, it's probably other scrotes stealing and using their pics) and guys rate them like 4's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:47 PM
5

i mean they raised a shitty son, wonder if they're just trying to cover their own asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:40 AM
7

i think i was meant to read this post. I had an ex scrote suggest interest in anal. Dodging red flags out here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:45 PM
20

the only thing redditcares about is its scrote users feefees
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:36 PM
74

that guy is as funny as a wet blanket. Im glad im not the only one that finds her cringe. She posts a lot about her making waaay more bank$$$ than her bf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:56 AM
25

hip hop the fuck away from those guys are shit for brains. Those guys are the least attractive in my book and I will NEVER understand what pickmes find attractive in them. They always pose like they have money to attract women to them, but those mfers are food 4 less broke. I could spend an hour on POF in my zip code and get dm from those kind of LVM and none of their educational info is anything beyond "high school".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 01:50 AM
430

we are at a point where we can't tell men ANYTHING because they will weaponize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 01:41 AM
19

the whole man degrades with age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 01:39 AM
1

I grew up with similar mindset. I don't feel bad for spending all my youth and early 20's not dating at all personally because I grew up in a area where the men were butt ass ugly anyways. Think bald head latino cholos wearing their pants like soiled diapers cause their mommy's didn't teach them to use a belt. I grew up with a lot of brothers that also partake in that cUltuRE and I just thought it was plain stupid, seriously revolting how any pickme found those guys attractive enough to get play…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:01 PM
12

that is not funny at all that would give me a migraine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:28 PM
15

I hate when we vent our complaints about the type of abusive men we tend to attractive the common thing for people to respond is "well maaaaybe ur the problem/common denominator". Do not think that every single little thing is your problem, it's not our responsibility to get people to act right, we are not out here policing every little thing a man does, if he doesn't act right, I'm out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:54 AM
73

Can I be real, I did the same thing in College. I never explored other majors and just stuck to nursing even though it was SO not my thing. I tried forcing myself to just stick with it cause I mean that's where the big bucks are at. And that was almost a decade ago now I'm barely just exploring my options for another career but I'm almost 30 so kind of tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 11:45 PM
55

If they are that scared if women either they did something to piss the woman off that they think she SHOULD be upset and he should be scared. Or the guy doesn't want to be the one that fucks up and does nothing at all... lol Either way no decision is a decision right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:46 PM
63

what does jarvis recommend killed me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 01:56 PM
41

I used to work in home care and process MSW referral and transcribe the reporting. You are so right on about this line of work being undervalued. I'd say I was pretty efficient at that job. Funny, when I quit- according to a former coworker that stayed in touch with me mentioned that job replaced my position with a man. It took a man to do my job but the wage they were paying me as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:48 AM
30

ironic I see this post right as I had a heated conversation with my pickme mom where she basically implied a man's last name has value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:03 AM
19

well that is about the most fucked up evil thing I've read today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:58 AM
37

I have such mixed feelings about OLD but mostly negative because I feel gross putting myself into the pile of options for the gross men local to me to gloss over my bio. But at the same time, I'm naïve and want to hold onto some glimmer of hope that maybe I'm missing out on a good fun, positive time meeting someone HV by chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:24 PM
35

I ended a friendship because a guy friend was like that. Always asking me what I wanted to do then he'd say he'll only "half" pay attention cause he's also busy doing something. Like ok? Then you do you stop bugging me. Dating men wasn't any better, they'd always ask me to make plans for a date they'd take me on. Thing is, I'm more lazy if not the laziest creature on the planet. I grew up with a ton of brothers so I inherited being a potato. These guys would always hate how haphazard I am and ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:03 PM
14

i was looking for stuff to watch last night and totally skipped over this show, as I had just watched couple bits of Tinder Swindler and cringed but I might watch this tonight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:57 PM
40

this... make sure your accounts are secure and block him, scrotes can't stand when they don't get the last word or you start to move on and will try to pop up back in your life later. I deeply regret not updating my privacy on social medias.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:36 PM
19

I totally love this post. I felt the SAME way, I had a major pickme crisis a couple years ago where I thought hurrr I'm an academic/woman of science therefore I have to CHASE the things I want in this life including the "perfect man", something to separate myself from the uneducated mass of my pickme mom and family I got sick and tired of. I ended up chasing one dude and let me just say neeeeever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:31 PM
12

mfer can't even afford versace or hermes. I didn't even know what La Perla is yet this guy knows? I can't be the only one that finds it weird when men are more well versed about womens undergarments than a woman is... makes me think he's lowkey wearing it when no ones around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:44 PM
11

My mom is a misogynist. She's the most bitter, controlling, negative, miserable, woman hating bitch but somehow all the men in the family get a "pass" even when they've caused her physical harm, mental harm and disrespect her. Somehow she hates girls, women and daughters to the point where she even hates FEMALE animals like her dogs. She can't get along with other women even though so many times other women have extended an olive branch to her and try to show her kindness, even myself. Ironicall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:01 AM
8

I thought it was applebees that's the only place I've seen those touchscreens so far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:41 PM
5

yeah, We are much the same I also had an uncle I was close with that would give me grounded, down to earth solid advice about life and health, encouraging me to exercise, positive stuff. He also passed away at some point as I was entering my teen years. Weird how the people that are supposed to be our caregivers/strongest relationships of our parents give us the WORST advice. The life advice Ive taken from my parents have been garbage, it's like they don't know me at all. I shit tested my mom ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:53 PM
35

I had a shituationship for 6 months where he would often mope and whine about an ex of his when we were hanging out with me him and his friend so obv he'd mostly be talking to his friend. I figured his ex was pretty much his "dream girl" that he missed and idealized. So this guy would treat women pretty badly by being verbally and emotionally abusive, he hated when I would talk back and cuss him out too cause I wouldn't take that shit. It was beginning to get toxic and exhausting as it was becom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:35 PM
47

DREAD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:30 AM
218

This is why I never introduced any guys I was dating to my parents. They view me the woman as "evil" and my wifebeater lvm brother, they keep trying to encourage him to find a new gf. Those traditional parents or pick me moms want to see their daughters fail and be entirely dependent on men because that's their definition of us deserving "better".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:04 PM
27

theres a whole youtube playlist of these "husband lunches". It looks like theyre packing lunch for toddlers. They even write little notes for them like I see on tv moms doing for their kids when theyre off to school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:03 AM
79

Sounds like my dad. He had 6 kids and just expected the government to take care of us all for free. When I specifically ask him why he didn't pay for my schooling he just gets nervous, angry and shoos me away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:54 PM
6

I get that she's rich... and the pregnancy is ongoing and all that but.. could've adopted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:44 PM
28

I wanna add on this cause I also grew up in my hometown till around 24 y/o in a ghetto disgusting town full of drug dealers, poverty, skin head gangbangers so my options for men in my youth was... that. Basically had to be involuntarily celibate. Where I live now is becoming the same since it's getting populated by the same crowd that got priced out of my hometown. The decent looking men I matched with on OLD at the time always ended up being like 100 miles away from me it sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:19 PM
117

i notice a lot of the tweets at her baby announcement are guys being sad cause they didn't get a chance, implying they had a chance at all. I also still wonder why people are having kids right now of all times, terrible decisions all around. Whoever responded to my comment about god said be fruitsalad nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:06 PM
2

im unemployed and it's still a nope from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:50 PM
53

I can't really go through all the comments right now but I wonder if anyone caught how he has her basically be the guard dog and securing the house at night like... even if there IS a break in she's gonna be the first one spotted if something were to actually happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:10 PM
9

I never had any significant romantic relationships, but even the bad at sex FWB guys from pickme days would pop up contacting me again even after I'd block them and stop talking to them. Idk they never seem to offer anything worth regaining my interest, these mfers never show up with gifts, apologies, jokes, something, anything for me to entertain them coming back. Just muh dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 12:29 AM
15

i get these a lot, i thought theyre just bots? If those are real life scrotes then jeez.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:36 PM
34

What I find crazy is he still asks if anyone else has experienced similar things of totally destroying a good thing lol "has anyone cheated on their wife with the receptionist?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:34 AM
43

that's the type of guy that thinks customer service worker ladies are hitting on him for being nice to him but it's kind of a part of the job to be NICE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:23 PM
183

ughhh fuck that. Just because no one else wants my exes doesn't mean I should have to continue putting up with them. That's such a huge disrespect slap in the face to put so much work into moving forward only for the same garbage people to come try and come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:37 AM
5

scrote defeated by silicone goes brrrrr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:00 PM
2

I only hear about them every so often by my pickme mom and the criticisms towards megan are way more harsh when I read up on comments about her. Apparently she's evil, rude, self-centered, only looking to gain everything for herself, too faced, and much much more all because she doesn't accept the crap thrown at her to assimilate more into the Royal family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:30 AM
24

and this is why I want to get my CCW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:56 PM
2

itll be a cold day in hell before I put up with that kind of bullshit from a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:51 AM
1

i redid my wardrobe last yr with Abercrombie. Some of the loveliest tops and dresses from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 12:42 AM
17

When I dated there was always like a standoff of me waiting for them to mention birth control or condom plans. They would talk and talk about themselves for hours or ask me out for drinks/dinner but never about personal safety plans. Like they just expected me to bring it up or it was a last priority, I didnt want to be the one hounding them to wear protection..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:48 PM
31

This is why when I dated, it made me run away or instantly turn me off if a men acted like he really didn't like women or had closet tendencies like he was unsure about his attraction towards women. Made me wonder what else he's dabbled with and was ok doing with other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:44 PM
23

I can barely move out of my parents, no way in hell i look to date bums
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:09 AM
7

I don't have kids but I have a different perspective on the body expectations of women. I grew up being really fat and took a long time to get my self-esteem/health in line during most of my youth. My body isn't perfect now, however it might actually look like I've had kids. I worked really hard in my life to get my body to the way it is right now and not wanting kids/to experience pregnancy cause I don't want to stress my body out again with that kind of life change. I listen a lot to the women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:55 PM
34

They truly think it's them being romantic by letting the woman pick what she wants. I especially hate when they suggest going somewhere (usually back to their place) IMMEDIATELY like it could be 2am and they expect a date at the drop of a hat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:09 AM
4

one guy i had slept with was using magnum condoms when his situation didn't call for magnums. I had told him prior to agreeing on a date about condoms and he ensured me he purchased fresh ones... I had obviously felt it slipped off inside me I heard him in a goofy tone say ooooops and slid it back on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:26 PM
1

that doctor sounds like hes mad someone rejected his hugs and kisses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 10:52 PM
19

The ex-shituation LVM that used to neg me the most was the bitchiest, most whiney, average looking dude I've ever had the displeasure of speaking to. He would openly label women hot/not hot or whatever even though he was average looking and probably handsome at some point but a man's attractiveness for me goes down the drain when they start to act up. I miss when men acted manly in ways like fixing things, working out and holding kittens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 09:52 PM
58

This sounds like when dealing with narcissistic abuse where you can't tell your weaknesses/ANYTHING to someone, they just use it against you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 09:32 PM
5

I honestly can't see myself getting married. Every time I try to picture myself in a marriage situation like planning the marriage, talking to my spouse I always picture it as me being incredibly annoyed and stressed at <non-specific> spouse and having to end up doing everything by myself anyways. When I think about sex with a spouse I think of it as being unsatisfying and it being a hassle, I could take of myself quicker with my satisfyer. I would maaaybe loosely consider marriage if it was wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 11:17 PM
41

Even when I was in HS the boys were ugly... college.. after college... most dudes literally gone my whole life without any attractive eye candy man. Pretty much never had a crush. It's boring AF out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:18 AM
122

I look at my parents marriage as something I DONT want for myself.. if it can even be called a marriage. The woman cooks, cleans, handles all the critical thinking of finances, budgeting, puts up with all the men in the house bullshit, all just to pretend a train wreck = happy family. In latino culture, the woman handles eeeeverything just to be labeled the queen of the household meanwhile the men can act like machismo animals. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 11:34 AM
2

No it's not you not 'liking' nice people. I recently cut off an online long time friend that also happened to be a dude that behaved like that SO much. I got fed up. Every time he wanted to talk to me he wanted me to carry the conversation, make plans to watch things, his interests ranged from anime to video games 100% of the time. It was a purely platonic friendship too so I was like "dude, if YOU have plans and want to watch a movie or w.e let me know", then he would list "options" for us to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:22 AM
12

One guy I went on a whopping 2 dates during my pickme days, it wasn't anything serious so I ghosted him cause I just wanted to move on and continue exploring my options. One morning I was driving to work, there was a car driving in front of me very very slowly and the thing is I had a lot of driving anxiety at the time so I was like freaking out about needing to make my way around the slow AF car. He changed lanes and I caught up to that car and the ex was in there giving me an angry, upset, dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:36 PM
44

I never understood why the askwomen subs would have questions aimed AT women's experiences/opinions but the comments were filled with "well im a man so I'll answer anyways" it's so stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:50 PM
10

I went camping one time in my life and it was with my LVM brother and his friend. If you ever want to waste your time and feel like you're babysitting grown ass men, go camping with men. All they did was play like 10 year old boys- hitting each other, talking about disgusting sex acts they've had with women and talk about how every one of those women were the "one", they were unorganized AF and couldn't figure out how to book reservations or they drove aimlessly for hours not knowing where the h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:38 AM
9

unfortunately, they dont get any better getting closer to 30. They get worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:08 AM
44

I always take the big piece of chicken. If I don't get it first, I take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:01 PM
10

there's MORE men like this? wtf is happening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:45 AM
4

The jalapenos one killed me. A guy took me on a date to a casual restaurant and he peppered his entree dish for 15 minutes straight and warned me he does that all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:38 AM
171

there was a AITA post about a woman wanting a cake from a restaurant of her choosing for her bday. Her bf couldn't afford it so him and his daughter baked one for her The responses were so brutal and uncalled for, the mens responses were so fucking stupid. She's apparently a "horrible, entitled spoiled gold digging brat" for asking for a cake on her birthday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:21 PM
125

I saw that mentioned somewhere on the news, that guy is a sick pos. Yet somehow, women are the "emotional" ones when men like that always have to act out on their feelings... literally ANY feelings they have, violently. They just can't cope... and they won't go to therapy either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:49 PM
11

Louder please, for all of Reddit to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:42 PM
12

it's in your account settings on "chat and messaging", however I will note that I have both turned off on my account and still receive email notifications that some user will try sending "chat requests".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 10:35 PM
3

This. They act like they'll be spring chickens forever. They dont take care of themselves because it's on the wife to be the mommy, homemaker, everything meanwhile the scrotes are pounding their 5th modelo and complain the house isn't clean enough or they want you to cook like their moms. My 36 year old divorce brother comes home after work to prepare himself a nice bowl of tapatio potato chips and beers then complains no one cooks for him 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:51 PM
7

ew this is so gross and the lvm that don't care where they stick it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:55 PM
5

Personally, I started an OLD profile again and my headliner is quite bitchy along the lines of "this place sucks". Can't say I am having an luck finding quality looking dudes BUT it is funny the kinds of responses I am getting in my dms. Dudes negging me to stop dating other losers(ironically, much like themselves) and "pick" them, guys wondering why I'm single as if I'm somehow immune to being attractive and single. I sort of have a side project where I created one of those extremely low effort…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:17 PM
2

men watch too much anime, hentai and garbage shit that they think women turn into superheroes and should always be ready to lift a car off a baby.. or manbaby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:26 PM
4

this one hits so hard. The previous generations of our parents were ok treating women a certain way but now we are wising up and healing instead of accepting less than
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:01 PM
15

The one time I chased a man, he ended up rejecting me cause he was still very deep in not over his ex of like 5 years prior, a highschool relationship for him pretty much. A year or two I took that time by myself to care for myself, I was looking much much better than before and in a better head space, suddenly he shows up again wanting to "try again" but as FWB. I still walked away from this one. I don't really feel like chasing a man again, I got nothing out of it. I notice the subs full of me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:43 PM
2

does he think women are dogs and have to learn a wait command?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:33 PM
6

I'm kind of going through this and actually posted something similar in the level up sub. Like I've taken on so much in my life by myself and never really had a support system other than myself and had a lot of setbacks, failures, roadblocks whether self-imposed or not. I felt like I have "nothing to show". I just wish I had the financial independence already so I never.. NEVER ever need anyone ever again if I were to decide to remain single. But it's also not healthy that I'm so isolated and al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 02:11 AM
11

girl.. what in the hell???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:56 AM
6

what can I do to filter these men on online dating say I want to try OLD again? I have seen one case a woman would require men to fill out a questionnaire of sorts and she could review the answers, figure out who actually took the time and effort to answer honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 02:05 AM
12

yeah he ruined mushrooms on pizza for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:31 PM
1

yeah it sucks I guess there's no real solution to people that had to suffer either/or other than cutting out the toxic parent during adulthood. I've had connections where a friend grew up with a single mom and he turned out with some issues but he's making something of himself now. Meanwhile my family was really traditional and we're all fuck ups here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:10 PM
5

I feel like even though I had both parents present growing up, the behaviors of my lvm dad and pickme mom, me and my siblings turned out even worse they should've just left us we'd probably be better off AND have better opportunities. My lvm dad just wanted to create a little "farm" he can have temper tantrums on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:20 AM
25

of course he has to ask reddit cause he knows everyones gonna side with this scrotes bullcrap, anything to make himself feel better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:35 AM
8

Families with that type of thinking will bend over backwards to paint the LVM in a good light, always the ex or current woman in his life as not being good enough. People will say it's a cultural thing but is it really cultural when almost every culture treats their women like crap? Recently, my parents were encouraging my brother to do a good job fixing the plumbing on the kitchen sink because "who knows, he might find another lady"... like this dude is already divorced and treated his ex wife …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:21 PM
15

So true and often times when you realize they won't see just how they are being the problem, as soon as you, the woman, walks away they will call you the crazy one. I really want to normalize walking away from men without the risk of retaliation or violence. So many times I have tried to explain to men how they were wrong and why certain things were happening to them only to argue back and forth why they aren't wrong... and then when I leave they get mad for me walking away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:39 AM
6

ughhh as soon as she divorces him, leeches like him end up back in the dating scene and apps looking for step mommy bangmaid again 💀the circle of scrote life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:03 PM
6

throw him back to the streets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 07:32 PM
11

dude even in the worst of my pick me days I made sure guys picked me up on time, could host, pay for whatever. Had guys driving cross counties like 1 hr+ just to come pick me up. Never ever travel to see just a guy and not have him set up the accomodations...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 04:24 AM
22

Lol been celibate a year. My favorite in the casual sex days was the guys that claim they are sex gods and every woman they've been with would cum from just their dick... most disappointing hook ups ever. Most of the time they don't even TRY... ladies, save yourself the wasted time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 08:49 PM
18

I think somewhere around the time I was coming out of pick-me days and learned about the existence of FDS I went through the same thing where guys always kept expecting me to plan the dates, time, effort, conversations. It's absolutely not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 06:37 PM
33

Lol I got told this recently by my LVM brother when I was shit testing my family on just how misogynistic are they. He immediately blamed me for "picking the wrong guys" when I recalled how bad dating men is these days. Mind you, I never disclose my personal life to my family because I know just how much of a dick worshipper they can be. They took one instance they they know of and like why was the burden placed on me that I supposedly picked the "wrong" guy? Whatever happened to personal respon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 06:33 PM
109

My lvm brother would always complain and get upset that his ex wife put child support on him stating he would rather not have a "middle man" of child support and just give her the cash money directly to 'support' his kids. I don't think he quite grasps that his ex wife wants nothing to do with him and absolutely no contact but he still has an obligation to support the kids he helped MAKE. Meanwhile my pick-me narcissistic mom is always front row to give my brother ways to avert the Child Support…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:23 PM
31

The worst ones are the guys that think being 6' tall is an excuse for them to also be morbidly obese and live unhealthy life styles since being taller accounts for being able to consume more I guess idk.. I'm 5'2 so I don't really require a HVM to be over 6' but I also want to avoid dating short men because they are the ones most prone to being violent in my experiences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:11 AM
2

That is the favorite line my misogynistic family liked to use when they talked about the Gabby case, is what "Did she do?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:08 PM
7

I never understood it cause when I have supposedly "needed" a man they always complain and whine then I end up having to do it myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 10:53 PM
45

I stopped having sex since January of this year and honestly just resting. I'll admit I'm being super lazy lately doing whatever I want to or not want to do. It takes so much energy out of you to engage with scrotes who give 0 fucks for you even when you are being literally the most intimate with them. Either way, I'm just enjoying more time for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 12:55 AM
5

I'm hispanic and saw a lot of that toxic machismo behaviors. It really did turn me off not only from seeking to date within my race but I have a hard time relating to my culture and often seek friends/companionship more diverse cause I can't stand basically "my" people. Latino men will say they do certain things for their women and take care of them but their behaviors always cross a fine line of it being abusive but if you call them out on it, that's just the way they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:18 PM
3

That sounds a lot like my OLD experience of listing my preferences and guys would still match to send a attached message negging me about it. They can't stand not being given attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:33 AM
5

if theres one lvm out there thats gonna die alone because I won't succumb to my pickme past while I work on glowing up then nothing of value is lost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:05 PM
74

it's a sad day when a woman is called a bitch for doing something she does NOT want to do. I have been called a bitch and gotten into nasty arguments and fights over not just blindly complying with random men's requests or even the LVM in my family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:14 PM
48

but when I'm lazy everyone is screaming at me and getting on my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:13 AM
106

so sorry to hear that! you are not alone. i went through almost the same thing it's crazy reading that as if I had wrote it too. Hence my username actually lol. Hopefully you get to experience better brighter times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:11 PM
38

is she a lvm orphanage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 08:11 PM
23

i dont want to give away too much obvious info but my acct is more or less a throwaway, i snooped and know of a lvm scrote making his way through the university system on the back of academic dishonesty. Paying services for essays, homework, etc. Not sure of the details but to me that cheapens an education soooo much I can't believe the shit that gets accepted at a college level. So your lvm scrote experience, that guy is a total fucking idiot probably just snoozed his way through school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:39 PM
39

in my most severe pick me days, I found I was alllllways the one setting the dates, time and place and something always felt 'off' within me and it was the fact that these dudes acted like they wanted to be around me because I am genuinely a fun/funny/awk person but they were never the ones to make the EFFORT to do anything special for me. They'd just cop out with the "hurrr you deSeRveE someone better" like mfer why can't you be the "better" man then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:42 PM
4

i have bought a foam roller and a yoga mat recently, did some physical therapy exercises off youtube to help back posture. Can't say I see results yet cause it hasn't been that long yet but your back will feel like jello after it feels amaaazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:37 PM
22

the bad posture from playing on the ps5 for 12 hours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:24 PM
19

if a man needs a crutch for his dusty broken sperm he should probably not be breeding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:23 AM
46

if they don't like women, why can't they just leave us alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:27 AM
81

because they prefer more specific labels such as: creeps, pedos, abusers, stalkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:56 PM
46

I was JUST thinking that, I had no idea YSL even had anything jewelry or merch under 1k. I know they have the beauty line but that's like playing with YSL legos. The handbags are big money, I want one for sure- preferably buying it with my own money lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 01:05 AM
13

I have never actually been anyone's girlfriend but of the LVM I have been on a date with, I was just thinking about how all of them would at times mention their previous or various ex-gf's, or how long they've been dating at some point... and I often think well if he hasn't married any one of them they certainly aren't looking for that serious in me either. Lo' and behold after a bit of snooping on their social medias, they usually end up dating or sleeping around again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:45 PM
43

oh noes the terrible loneliness... all this free time and no stress. The horror
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:32 AM
11

Oof I felt that so hard. The son/your brother getting treated better than the daughter. It sounds like you overcame a lot on your own though, no one can mess with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:20 AM
46

What is it with older ladies trying to push everyone to date and chase each other or play really bad matchmaker lately? Like if someone wants to date ok cool, but should be one's choice. My pickme mom is in her 60's and yesterday while she was giving me a ride to the post office, she gave me this rabid judge-y side eye look when a "at first glance" attractive guy (I have reason to believe he was a firefighter) was crossing the street on his bike like she was expecting me to foam at the mouth and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 04:02 AM
6

There's sooo much I take away from reading that. He was happy and shitting rainbows when he didn't know about the secret funds stash because he 'felt' at that point she was in with him about everything tOgEtHeR. So if he did something stupid and went broke, became a bum, she has to follow suit and be a broke bum as well with him too. Then he found out about the funds and 'felt' hurt because she named it her "get out" money, she had to be more considerate about how to referred the funds as. It's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 05:56 PM
48

Reminds me of a video a guy took as a sort of "study" or troll video I dont know, but he went around areas of Beverly Hills asking people what they did for a living to afford luxury cars/super cars. This older lady stepped out of a really nice Porsche and when he asked her what she does for a living she responded "Huh? What I do for a living? I'm married".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 09:01 PM
2

Couldn't have said it any better myself. Pickme moms create LVM sons and push their daughters to a pick me lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 11:25 PM
2

Wtf... girl.. that is not her friend he is her enemy. So sad she is unable to see that, I feel less enticed to buy Fenty products if that's the message that gets sent out. And that was way before her success in cosmetics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 10:15 PM
13

I'm pissed because I come from a hispanic background where I saw both my parents bend over backwards to help my lvm brothers but it was always in situations where their marriages were falling apart or they were in and out of jail. But me being a female, the most times I needed support were in pursuing higher education. Those were the times my parents hindered me the most. It's like they had 0 idea how to help me achieve my goals anytime I'd talk to them about navigating the higher ed system. But…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:57 PM
2

he was inviting himself AND expected you to cook for him? wtfff send him back to his mother
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 05:37 PM
25

That sounds like the type of mom that would pick a gf out for her son and still be the one to say "no ones good enough for my little boy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 07:20 AM
24

sheldon cooper and amy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:31 AM
80

Whoever said money can't solve your problems, must not have had enough money to solve 'em 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 08:32 PM
21

I encountered a lot of profiles from men that were incredibly difficult to tell what he looked like. Have plenty of guys matched me that had so many filters on their PFP to intentionally make their faces blurry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:11 PM
156

Whaaat. Weren't they just posting pics on ig of them being a "happy family" and hanging out with Rihanna. This is disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 12:25 AM
15

is it weird the thing that bugs me majorly is the picture of the neat tidy bedroom? There's no fucking way that dudes home is THAT nice/clean and if that is what he's expecting.. boy he's in for a rude awakening. Wouldn't be surprised if all he can offer is a cramped studio apt, the kids sleep in a bunk and dad sleeps in his nest of clothes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:38 PM
26

say you wanted a trainer battle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:47 PM
1

I love how as soon as the fboys are identified, they try SO hard to reject being framed as fboy cause they know how bad it really is to be labeled as such. Actually did feel bad for some of the nice guys that did get sent home, now whether they are HVM or not IDK but would have been nice to see what kind of connections they could have formed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 06:14 PM
155

they think we are pokemon with base stats which sounds a lot cuter than it is I'm aware theres a rate sub where gorgeous women (somehow I think it's just dudes using womens pictures) asking everyone to rate their looks. Like model women being told they're a 5 by dudes that look like shrek
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:27 AM
93

Also why is it ok for men to be posting women's Tinder profiles and sometimes profile photos on reddit to shame? I constantly see men complaining and bashing women for their preferences set forth before matching. I notice women are more considerate when venting about their encounters. One of the reasons I stop using OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:29 PM
17

like the mini cans?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 06:26 AM
29

its always the lord farquaad sized dudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:27 AM
2

Ever since I started being more of a flaming bitch calling my family out on everything and telling them off they have stopped bugging me, asking me for anything and generally more peaceful to be around. It takes a woman being so fucking upset she wants to cut peoples heads off to act right, that's what men wants- to provoke a women into getting angry. When I didn't have a car and no one helped me get one, everyone was disrespecting me, dangling basic needs like a carrot. Now that I am more self …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:18 PM
42

yeah and scrotes say they dont like drama but they're the ones stirring it up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 10:31 PM
91

I feel like its so disrespectful on part of the exes to disturb your peace and them popping up again at their own whim. I like having my social media open cause I like pop culture and video games, online contests etc. Can't enter those if I have my shit on lock down, but then a bunch of past guys keep trying to "see how you're doing".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:23 PM
14

I had a special case where the guy offered NSA sex AND he wanted me to be the one to chase him 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:02 PM
9

On this episode of the Bachelor..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:43 AM
8

hell no... I don't think I can ever live with another man. Absolutely need to have my own place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:38 AM
61

she got picked like a booger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:19 PM
2

My mom gave me the nastiest angry face when I told her how smart my auntie was for never getting married. My 2 cousins are well adjusted functioning adults. My pickme mom popped out 6 kids. 1 died as baby and they just blame it as "shit happens", everyone else is homeless, jail, schizophrenic, and me just barely hanging in there. Pickme life leads to misery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:23 AM
1

I see how much my narcissistic mom has to grasp at straws to say why she stayed married to my dad who is so low value he put her through being homeless, always living in ghetto roach apartments, terrible jobs, popping out 6 kids and being a shit father. My brothers and dad call me stuck up, expect me to shit money and support them, emotionless, a bitch because I refuse to give them my valuable time anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:18 AM
3

wait till you read the article that was posted on the science subreddit a "whole" science study of whiny men crying that men need more than just their peepee touched to feel better and the list goes on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:08 AM
24

so basically she's crazy? wtf is wrong with her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 04:07 AM
28

If they are anything like my LVM brothers, there's a pickme mom behind the scenes telling her precious little sons "No one is good enough for her little boy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:59 PM
3

My parents are equal levels low value, they left their native country when they were very young. They're extremely codependent and toxic. My mom was a total pickme and dragged my dad down with her a lot with her emotional breakdowns and drama antics. My dad had a lot of anger issues he would exclusively take out on everyone BUT my mom. He worshipped pickme mom cause he was entirely codependent on her, he can't cook, take care of himself, clean or pay bills. He literally has never lived by himsel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:15 AM
25

yea you right though the way I worded it makes it sound like it should be pinned on the woman, more productive question would be like how can a woman identify or "vet"? on that type of behavior cause god damn that is gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:41 PM
79

please why do women keep having kids with these guys? they're not ready to be fathers. I was grossed out when my lvm dad would voluntarily pick me up from highschool long ago just to stare and creep at the girls wearing what they do. I'm talking like INTENSE glare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:36 PM
7

Reminds me of a nice coworker that would ask me why I wasn't dating or going "out there". I just chatted to her about my dating experiences and at the time I didn't have a car so priorities, right? Well this coworker later dated a cop/what are those cops called that work IN the main prisons (?). Couple months later she got pregnant by him, had their son, way later he dumped her and per the office gossip- he told her he didn't love her anymore and they broke up. When she'd come by me in the offic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:02 AM
12

I'm not even siding with the dude here or playing devil's advocate, but I would totally leave my mother to go for a beach day or lesser reasons, but that's because I can't STAND spending a single second with pickme narcissistic mom. That aside- It sounds like you have a good relationship with your mom and want to be by her side while she fights an illness, if the guy is well aware of that he should've apologized for being a disrespectful dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:40 PM
3

if her husband is that trash at grocery shopping might as well order from instacart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:59 AM
68

I really don't understand how $25 dinner = sex tonight. People are really that miserable about the cost of dinner or whatever costs are associated with dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 04:29 PM
37

then his momma can keep him no one will want him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:34 PM
16

they're both fucking insane, so perfect for each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:14 PM
52

Agreed so hard. I can never achieve the income needed to move out of my toxic family's home, my other option would have been to endure more abuse with LVM ex and move in with him- who knows how bad that could have turned out to be. It really feels/felt like those are my only options to escape whatever situation turns worse. People employed full time shouldn't have to feel like they are constantly needing to run from situations or feel like their shelter isn't safe and constantly having to move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:45 AM
5

i got better looking, he got a new gut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:26 AM
37

I feel embarassed being seen with a man my same height. Like what can he even do? I need someone to reach the top shelf. I never want to get tied down to a man shorter than 5'10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 07:16 AM
12

I saw young women at the department store last week that looked to be around 8 months pregnant and they look so sad and unaware. They'll be tied down for a lifetime with some LVM's kid. Meanwhile, the father of those kids are running around on OLD trying to score or complaining life is unfair to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:58 PM
9

My brother is LVM and has to pay child support for being a wife beater. He literally complained that "child support is too expensive, why is it you can pay 10 cents a day to feed a kid in Africa but his child support debt is huge?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:50 PM
45

I don't think I can twerk even if I tried. Late 20s but my back feels early 90's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:58 AM
39

hey sounds like me. In 2019 I was going on a ton of dates but always found myself exhausted at the end of them, I figured I was doing way too much. Obviously the pandemic blind sided us, I took to working through the pandemic as an essential employee and of course there was no dates. Come 2021, I told myself I was gonna spend this year just me, myself and I. No dates, sex, low effort men, men that expected ME to set up the dates like wtf wanting me to do everything . Ironically as soon as the ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:45 PM
22

don't threaten me with a good time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:07 AM
52

Nooo don't tell me Detective Pikachu is LVM Pikachu :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:25 PM
3

Is he at home injured because of riding rollercoasters?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 06:11 PM
9

wouldn't bother answering any dumb questions from that subreddit or the askwoman/men/reddit(which seems more like askmen 2.0) they just want to hear answers they like and give you crap for answers they don't want to hear even if its from the audience they're asking to :| so stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:05 PM
13

gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 01:56 AM
100

Really? That's sad. The bar is in hell AND men have lost their balls. All that remains is the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:08 AM
49

WTF did I just read? pls tell me this is fan fiction... a really bad fan fic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:35 AM
1

dodged that bullet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:39 PM
47

I remember being seated next to a kid in 5th grade I think? Boy was like a foot shorter than me and just randomly started rapidly punching my upper arm while the teacher left the classroom to do who knows what. I shrugged it off cause that kid was a munchkin even though we were the same age and grade. Idr exactly what I did in response but cause I grew up with a bunch of brothers, became a tomboy and I enjoyed being physical and roughhousing too, picked up on a lot of boy traits. Ever since then…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:38 PM
40

men: why are women avoiding me?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:56 AM
38

I would go to space but there's men there now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 10:29 PM
68

did he watch too much Handmaids tale?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:39 PM
137

god they sound like total virgin reddit incels "ha hA vajayjays"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:38 AM
20

I grew up super tomboyish and heavy into gaming. Worst thing I did was 72 hr binge no sleep. I met some friends but other than that I've grown out of it. I still follow the culture and social media aspects of it. I've also always been artsy so I follow some game franchises that are near and dear. What I hate is when men complain about being sleepy or in some kind of trouble at work because they refuse to put the shiny new game down to take care of it. It typically pisses everyone else off in the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:28 AM
52

Military specifically navy, cops, supervisors, IT guys, doctors, uhh can't think of more rn. It's a nope for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 04:14 AM
85

I have a theory that men don't initiate the divorces because they don't want to be the one at blame for pulling the trigger. They'd rather wait it out, do nothing to contribute to a solution, continue their behavior than look inward. At that point, they would be at blame for the initiating the divorce or surrendering/accepting blame for the downfall of the marriage. When women initiate divorce, omg they're horrible they DID something about their situation, we're blamed for it, why didn't she "wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:22 PM
17

Yes yes yes! Thank you for this. A couple of times I have been approached by single fathers and I do not walk, I RUN for the hills. I'm crazy, not stupid enough to take responsibility of another person's child. That is a huge non-negotiable deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 11:07 PM
11

I recently blocked a FWB that pulled that same thing with me, more or less. He suggested me and him meet up at a mall cause I was in town shopping and it was short notice. Told him I'd try to meet up again later, he expected me to coordinate EVERYTHING. Next time I was in town, different mall, closer to his place. I told him to meet up with me at x time at the mall cause I was doing a little shopping, then he ghosted me and gave me a bunch of excuses why he didn't feel like it. I blocked him the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 11:31 PM
6

I have a Queen sized mattress :D Certified Queen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:25 PM
7

You forgot the part where they also blame women for "attracting that type of men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:43 PM
6

I haven't lived by myself but that sounds scary. Honestly, I wish to be so rich I could live on a lonely island and never have to see another LVM ever again in my life but yeah sometimes we have to interact with others... in this case your situation. If there comes a time where I live alone with my own property you best bet I am going to be armed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 08:52 PM
4

how do these men skip the entire dating phase until marriage to show how truly psycho they are? that dude has a diva cup up his ass cause he's so full of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:22 AM
125

gift men a vibrator so the woman can finally get an orgasm. sounds about right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:23 AM
4

He buys her a shoe. A single shoe, 50% of the pair lmfao no thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 04:03 AM
12

Why doesn't he just stick his dick down the gun barrel and leave the poor woman alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:00 PM
2

I personally enjoy seeing posts of single women purchasing a home or huge purchases, cars, etc. Helps me think it IS possible to do all that without being tied down and codependent on a marriage or toxic family. A lot of the pickme questions/behaviors make me wonder how her homelife was. It all starts with the parents and the kinds of things they taught her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 06:44 PM
87

Step 1. don't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 04:13 PM
2

It was in the morning over voicechat, he asked me if I wanted to watch a video he found of a horse railing a dude. My voice cracked as I told him no I don't like watching animals get hurt. His friend joined us seconds into the conversation and questioned what kind of shit he's watching in a concerned tone of voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:39 PM
9

Sounds very narcissistic. He is just criticizing her left and right. Meanwhile he mentions 0 accomplishments on his end, lacks self-awareness, what was he doing the entire time she was out reaching goals? just rotting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:35 PM
8

Not a homeless guy, but a few years back my LVM brother tried picking a fight with a guy standing outside the hospital grieving a child I assume he lost just that moment when we were exiting the hospital. We were visiting my nephew who was born preemie and my brother and his ex-wife went to go see how he was doing, they got into an argument and LVM bro started getting heated and tried fighting "any guy that looked at him wrong". I pushed my bro away from the grieving guy like "what the FCK are y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:07 PM
14

omg this is another one. Run for the hills 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:50 PM
40

I don't want a guy that tries to get me to promise me or him will ever get "eMoTioNaL" then during the course of the relationship, he ends up crying more than I ever do. Also forgot to add: Doesn't watch weird gorey videos of animals being murdered in nature and just showing it to everyone. Doesn't watch barn animals having sex with men porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:43 PM
12

Does he work every Christmas because someone needs to fill the role of being the Grinch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:39 PM
2

I find myself with high libido at times but ughhh the local dating pool in my area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 06:05 AM
2

Like the guy that said he didn't want to bring his gf over cause he sleeps in a "nest". I really can't believe any of these stories anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 08:40 PM
8

This post did me in to start deleting all my OLD profiles. This is a bad episode of The Bachelor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 06:41 PM
1

Wooow holy delusional batman. Still asked you back to his place. Good call on the just ending the date for "work" though. He doesn't really take photos but he knows how to use Tinder and upload photos... even though when you upload photos there is literally the button to press to TAKE a current photo. OLD is so hard now, I notice an increase in men heavily using filters on their primary pics making it really hard to see what they really look like without the intense blurs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 08:21 PM
2

How did he respond on the date? He obviously knew he was lying, did he try convincing you to "look past" his age and try to play up other parts of his life? How did the date end? That must have been so awkward if you had no escape or were too nice to leave at that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:09 PM
5

What pissed me off about my Ex-situationship when we were catching up is how his one ride or die guy friend he claimed was his "only real friend". It felt like a HUGE betrayal and back stab to me because I tried being his friend first and foremost. Things did get sexual eventually which I am sure he intended, but for him to say that means he never considered me or any of the other women in our little group a true friend. I regret not running for the hills at the first drop of the red flag from t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 09:00 PM
73

They'll just say they're trying to "shoot their shot" or "maybe you'll give them a chance".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:57 AM
13

Agreed, like what business does a 40 year old man have with a 16 year old girl to want to start a "friendship" with her? I'm pretty sure a majority of the things she enjoys doing are things a 40 year old man has no real interest in. Make up, boys HER AGE, gossip, school?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:50 PM
15

That happened to me one time I was walking down a fairly busy street. I was checking out some office buildings cause I was looking for a job/drop resumes off. A super old dude in a red pick up truck busted a whole U-turn and sped onto the parking lot next to the sidewalk I was on to tell me I was a "very pretty girl". I was fucking terrified thinking he was gonna pull a gun or something abduct me. This dude looked straight up like the Cryptkeeper from Secrets of the crypt. Been whistled at, catc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:03 PM
32

Still remember my mom uttering the words that if a woman (she was probably implying/referring to me) wants a bf/husband or wants to start dating she has to learn to cook and clean properly. Like no, mom. I have to learn those things regardless of whether there is a man involved or not. She never grew tired of being a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:55 PM
9

he can't change a tire, bet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:29 PM
1

I don't have kids but if I did I wouldn't trust my mom for shit to take care of my kid. Like you said, you just don't know about his mom... or how she raised her son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:52 PM
7

thats why i like lizards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:15 PM
2

This guy could have said literally aaaaannything else other than come off like an asshole. Now he can be broke and remain single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 08:05 PM
2

That is so weird that the company is not replying to you. I initially had a knockoff one from Amazon that died on me. I contacted the company live chat rep and they offered to send me a new one and replaced it. The one from Amazon made weird clicking noises that the legit one didn't. That toy is a life changer and has kept me convinced to just stay home lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:39 PM
31

So, I don't remember the details but my mom did tell my brother off about his yelling at her. When my mom dropped her granddaughter off at the mom's place, according to her it was very obvious the mom keeps my brother and our side of the family at arms length. Everyone called him out about how horrible he is to her, unknown if the niece's mom knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:58 PM
100

My oldest brother was going through some tough times homeless, bumming it. He has a very pretty 12 year old daughter, my niece- and I think he has 50/50 custody(?), not sure what went on but his ex-wife obviously kicked him to the curb. Anyways, my niece was hanging out with me and my family for a weekend, cause my parents found out my brother takes my niece walking around the city, mall and generally learning how to be a bum cause he doesn't have a car or home, really disgraceful. My mom took m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:50 PM
41

this took me out. i'm done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 05:33 AM
7

I feel like invoicing my narc parents for all the damage. That stuff really spills into so many areas of your life it's almost scripted at this point that we end up dealing with abusive NVM. It would all be completely avoidable if parents actually parented correctly. Fixing and loving yourself costs time, money, effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:13 PM
28

Lol I am a lifelong gamer and I know back then I have done the same hours long sessions. I'm way too old and tired for that anymore but there have been exes that can't put up with me doing that to them either. Men were always constantly wanting my attention and hated being ignored by me for whatever raid or event I'd be doing. They don't like it being done to them, they turn into crybabies, get overly emotional. They don't like it done to them but the amount of men that ignore their wives and gf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:05 PM
5

Damn, if you don't mind me asking what you do for a living? Never mind dating, I am so into my bag right now. Single women being homeowners is real inspiring right now. I grew up surrounded by bums so this is a dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 10:56 PM
2

Honestly I wouldn't have even read all that crap if it appeared on my list just automatic left swipe cause of the beard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:58 AM
12

I actually do have a picture of myself a couple weeks after breaking up with ex vs pics of me now. I looked like complete shit before, a total train wreck like way worse than the lady in the op's pic to the right. Now I spend a lot of time doing things that I like to do and less stressed out. Took time to focus on my self-esteem. That's how I knew I was doing the right thing by walking away and focusing on myself when looking at the before&after pics, if it wasn't for my privacy I'd share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:52 PM
88

I was waiting for the day someone posted about Pickme mom's on this board. My mom is a complete pickme, loves male attention seeking. She always was there to bail out my brothers from their responsibilities to her grandkids/their own kids and ALWAYS gave their ex-wives a hard time because they weren't "woman" enough in her eyes. Her being a pickmesha AND a narc go hand in hand. My brothers are so low-value and straight disrespect her but she loves it. She washes their undies, cleans up after my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:59 AM
7

The female bird is clearly walking too fast and wearing headphones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:26 AM
3

I'm 28 and in the same boat. I don't feel as bad because a lot of the nice things I do have are things I have worked hard for and I am proud of it. However, I also love material things and that is basically my love language. The most I have gotten from any exes have been like a dinner from... BJ's restaurant :| or some appetizers from TGI Fridays. I used to love gift-giving with my bestfriends back in highschool or middle school. As I got older I was like "ok I want to be on the receiving end of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:07 AM
2

What's wrong with being single?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:51 AM
16

Own money, savings acct, pretty good credit, my own car. I pretty much taught myself to drive. Invested a lot of money in skin care and make up so I am absolutely glowing and looking amazing. All within the last 2 years after dealing with a verbally/emotionally abusive ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:35 AM
156

I often wonder how the women of Texas haven't collectively decided to refuse having sex with the men there. I would feel so unsafe pursuing dating or a sex life while living there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:01 PM
25

You are winning at life lol I love designer brands. I find when I wear brand name or even do my make up just a bit nicer, men tend to just stare. However, women always compliment me and ask where I got x or y :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:13 PM
117

Same! I feel like I did the dating around thing to just get it out of my system, especially true after an ugly break up. My friend even pointed out to me after I was telling them about it like "wow, so you were THAT bored?". The sad part becomes that even though you are just dating for fun... the men started to bore me. They all presented the same red flags even though I made it a point to date different kinds of guys from different backgrounds. All just to add some degree of separation between …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:41 AM
81

Guys that do this are so dramatic. So later on when they start dating someone new they can complain about how "his ex-wife left him broken and starting from nothing all over again" sob story. All he has to do is go to Target and buy some new shit, why is that so hard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:09 AM
10

He is off the rails, how is he even holding a job down at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:41 PM
4

I read through that thread! Most of those rejections weren't even that bad, but the men swear it was the most traumatizing experience in their life that the girl didn't go to prom with them or consider them cute. One dude even said he went as far as to corner a girl at the club into giving him a straight answer to her rejecting him. Dude is lucky he didn't get pepper sprayed or worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:38 PM
7

I swipe left on all cops and military guys. I am not dealing with that kind of crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:03 PM
29

Wtf dude is my age but acting like a toddler, throwing shit around. And this poor girl is passing herself around like a football, asking former bf to date other bf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:24 PM
1

Aww :( Make up allergies are annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:26 PM
59

She is so beautiful. I have been buying more Fenty beauty just to support her, plus the gloss bombs are amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:32 PM
7

hobosexual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:32 PM
1

Had a gaming acquaintance that actually told me that it might be me that is the problem in not finding a suitable guy to date because "I am the common denominator" in all of that. I don't think he understands what red flags are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 01:48 AM
20

Funny enough he showed me the screencap cause he wanted to bring up past shit. I don't know if he was trying to apologize, be funny, or ??. He wasn't being upfront on why he showed me it. The other guy in the convo was roasting/humiliating the ex-lvm of being "gay" for having a trend of women walking out on him for being abusive. Most notably, his situation with me being the most recent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:36 AM
79

Lol Over 2 years ago, I had made a move on my then ex-situationship. He rejected and we had a fall out. Fast forward to now, 2.5 years later, he dm me on IG wanting to reconnect, trying to make conversation with me about "How I've been". He made the mistake of showing me a screencap conversation he had with his friend about how he told our friend group at the time that he "rejected me after (me) made a move on him." Who knows what other garbage he broadcasted to everyone in his circle. His loss,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:07 PM
3

Asks for your phone number... but he couldn't use his phone for google maps.. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:02 PM
10

Screw all of that, take me to Hometown Buffet. I go all in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:13 PM
6

What did he even want to tell you? Unless someone was in danger and wasn't aware of the situation is really the ONLY reason I can think of to do something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:31 AM
17

In my naïve brain, to save this marriage the husband would ideally: Buy her something to make her feel appreciated, sit down and talk about how he found a marriage counselor they can work with, cook her favorite dinner, take over the laundry for a week(or month, damn), something to show her he can hold it down as well. IDK that doesn't seem like over the top sweeping her off her feet to fix their problem would fix everything but that would be a practical first steps, right? Either way this marri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:39 PM
6

How did he even get past the first date and they are considered to be dating "months later?" The behavior bothered her from the first date and now it is escalating. Is this what happens when women don't set firm boundaries on the first date? I have so many questions for the OP. Only because this gives me flashbacks to a lot of the BS my family has tried to instill in me about dating as a single woman. My mom is a life long pick me and would often say how "if she wants a boyfriend she better lear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:56 PM
9

Is she talking about a shelter puppy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 01:42 AM
3

Lol I was sad for like a week after my break up and started journaling cause that helped me cope both with the breakup and other stuff. I look back at what I wrote in the journal and it was pretty much a list of pros and cons of that ex (it was mostly cons, btw).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:21 AM
11

Crap... thats what I did today cause I do make up stuff... thanks for the heads up tho. 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:55 AM
34

Breaking sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:30 PM
46

Isn't it kind of obvious if a woman is sitting someplace alone and doing her own thing, she WANTS to be there left alone and unbothered? And the "pretending" to be doing something else because they have no idea how to follow up their creeper ways. Reminds me of the article about how to get a woman's attention when she is wearing headphones. Answer: LEAVE HER ALONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:35 PM
25

And honestly, even if he never asks for nudes, I wouldn't advise to share them anyways. I used to be really generous about taking nudes and sending them to whatever guy I would be talking to, but like men will fuck a chicken mc nugget. I know how I look naked, that is what I have a mirror for. And personally, hell even with clothes on people still check me out. It's sad cause, sure women think nudes are empowering and turn it into something "fun" and positive. Leave it to men to turn into someth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:21 PM
30

Yep. Raised in a household with the majority of family being men. My Dad and lots of brothers. All of them deadbeats, I remember my dad at one point when I was young- for some reason venting to me and putting me down about how "I can't do anything, I'll never be capable of anything". Fast forward to now, I am a lot older, bought my own car, taught myself to drive cause no one else did, was making money in a cozy office not breaking my back like they were at their jobs. Brothers are deadbeat LVM …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:32 AM
4

Back then, I met a dude off tinder. His profile said 28.. when we got to the restaurant we were talking and he showed me his ig page and various pics of his hobbies... random stuff. Later when he went to the restroom I got on my phone and found his page. Pic of a running marathon he did, it listed his place as a "36 year old Male". Disguised HVM, he was very attractive and put together imo but the red flags were low key.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:36 PM
38

I'm exhausted going through OLD. I feel like the only button available is the "nope" button anymore. When I do decide on a possible match to vet, the conversation is so dull or uninteresting to me. The amount of hyping myself up to muster the energy at the thought of meeting a new person, I end up just doing something by myself instead. Shop, take myself on a brisk walk date with my dog or go in the hot tub lol. Easier to just be single. Edit: Anyone notice the trend of dudes setting their age t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:29 AM
41

That's why certain men don't tell the truth and lie about really game changing facts. They know women will respond accordingly and usually results in having to walk away from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:39 PM
132

ALL of the self care 😍😍😍 and not a single LVM in sight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:43 PM
46

And that is why I carry a knife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:59 PM
6

And a Mc Chicken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:56 PM
32

Is there a way to report that type of behavior? Just cause it's an online classroom shouldn't mean he should get away with harassing the students.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:44 PM
20

Why is he standing behind what looks like a back alley behind some random apartment complex? This dude looks like he's gonna be waiting a long time to convince a woman to have sex with him at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:39 PM
137

I tried Hinge. The app designed to be deleted.. cause the options for men are 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:02 PM
15

I'm really really curious what the above conversation was. This looks like he was talking to himself for a good hour lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:43 PM
5

Lol this is how I view my ex-nvm. Dodged that bullet. I just think about how in the future there will be guys negging me about how I'll be 30 without having been married or any significant relationship anymore cause that is somehow a rEdFlAg to work on myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:54 AM
12

Some men have lost all shame. This is why I tell all my coworkers with a straight face I'm completely happily single when they ask why I don't date, if I have a boyfriend. The one coworker I had that would always ask why I don't date or "put my self out there, covid hasn't stopped her bestfriend!" had a baby with a dude that promptly left her high and dry before their kids 1st birthday. Our options for men this generation is a nightmare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:08 PM
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