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If the other women he dated were very good at taking hits/slaps/punches from him, would you still feel like you’re failling if you couldn’t stand pain from him? You know, being the best at “everything” doesn’t mean much when that everything includes things like abuse, eating dirt, self harm, etc. Maybe it’s better to fail at those, don’t you think? Also, drop this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 11:58 AM
240

But men are sooooo haaaannnnddy, right girls? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:39 PM
21

Her body is protecting her from him. Run sis run !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:38 PM
40

She’ll eventually give up and try to get a “real job” and the scrotes who used to watch her will send her OF to the employer so she’ll constantly get rejected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:50 AM
8

Men who complain about this are not real men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:54 AM
658

He was salty his bro didn’t get the job so he went and ruined it for her. Anyway, just goes to show that sex work is never a good idea and that it systematically keeps you in a lower socioeconomic class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:29 PM
29

One guy onces reacted to me telling him I was in medical school and going to become a doctor (he asked me) by saying “oh, that’s so cool, I’ve wanted to become a doctor, but I gave up on it and did something else. But if we get together, I’ll have a doctor in my family” Guy, my accomplishments are mine, not yours. Hard pass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 08:19 PM
30

This is such a horror story. Girl im sorry you went through that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:14 AM
13

Did any woman shoot her partner (im not even talking separated here) after she found out he slipped and cheated on her? I’ll wait. And murder is never the acceptable punishment that you get to carry out for some reason on your ex/so because you feel like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 11:11 AM
8

Men are so cruel. I’m sorry you went through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:51 AM
14

When a bottle of liquid is more important than your significant other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:37 AM
20

I love seeing women step into their power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:36 PM
42

Honestly, I would do the same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 11:47 AM
28

Lol, let them drown in their own tears. Glad you got rid of him, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:43 PM
27

This is such a based drawing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:35 PM
32

A man so pathetic he doesn’t defend his wife. He doesn’t have masculine energy, he has pathetic energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:28 AM
16

Maybe I read the post wrong, but I don’t think they’re married. She refers to him as her “boyfriend” That poor lady
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:16 PM
17

They really do enjoy controlling women and being the ones to decide what’s reasonable for their needs or not, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:56 AM
114

Yes, focus your addiction on yourself, think about yourself more. Or you could channel your giving nature into doing charity work too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 09:23 AM
3

This pathetic excuse of fiction should be read in comedy classes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:40 PM
150

She is explained it so thoroughly, I’m speechless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:09 PM
12

I am not judging or saying this poor woman is at fault for this. What I want to point out here is that: come on ladies, there must have been some RED flags she missed before. I doubt that everything was amazing and then boom he’s the asshole scrote described here. I can assume she has seen him through other stressful moments in his life (other exams, etc). Wanna bet that back then he was as hectic and threw a fit similar to what she described here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 08:57 AM
3

Entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:44 PM
53

Another young woman wtih a whole life ahead of her failed by: -her parents who were supposed to protect her from his grooming (it’s heavily implied they met when she was younger than 22, since they were already married then) -the society who doesn’t question this age gap dynamic in order to appear “woke” and “open” (or worse, it encourages it) -the porn industry who has brainwashed this scrote into going after a “young 18 hot teen”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 10:55 AM
206

I thought this was a tip for talking to your child ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 10:27 PM
78

He thinks raising and nurturing his offspring is a chore, not something to be celebrated. Asshole, you’re left with your family, you should appreciate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 10:24 PM
25

You need to read “living with limerence” by Dr L. Living with an “in love” crush you can’t romantically be with is not healthy and it’s what has got you in the situation in the first place (I’m not blaming you, it’s easy to get swept up in our feelings when we’re in the thick of it and make bad decisions).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 11:05 AM
114

It’s important to recognize your preferences and establish boundaries around them! Good for you (from the post I understood that you don’t do them anymore)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:23 PM
28

I actually missed fds a lot. Glad to have you back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:42 AM
1

That woman is attractive… what are you trying to prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:44 PM
10

It’s better for the species if he doesn’t, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:42 PM
8

This is why we let them chase. What a waste of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 10:21 PM

They think not wanting to touch their dirty peen is a hate crime, lol. Let this man be, even though you explained it well, he just does not want to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:45 PM
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Remember, ladies, beautiful women can’t be smart and educated because they get by in life only by their looks !!!1!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:15 PM
3

Why are men so disgusting? This is a safety hasard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:25 PM
4

Wait, her natural voice is not the one she has in the videos, it’s edited ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:07 PM
10

I’ve heard that too, but it’s been years since they’ve been dating… kinda odd it took this long, especially since they’re both well off financially
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:03 PM
50

This is a bit unrelated, but considering you are so based when it comes to this relationship, do you have any info on Jenna and Julien’s relationship (Jenna Marbles yt channel)? I like Jenna and Julien but after I found fds, I started to find their long relationship without engagement a little weird… Julien seems like a good guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:45 AM
19

Misogynie runs so deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:38 AM
29

Not to mention that early hyper sexualisation like that is a sign of child sexual abuse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:27 AM
6

It’s in reading posts like these that I wonder if ppd guys have any grasp on social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 02:08 PM
9

Some people shouldn’t be giving advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:42 AM
15

They’re so sensitive and emotional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:46 AM
49

I think they’re trying to lure him out by saying this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:25 PM
13

If they’re the “forbidden fruit”, where are all the adult women giving 300$ Jordan sneakers to teenage boys??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 09:40 AM
3

You weren’t hurt by his rejection, in my opinion. His action just triggered your insecurity. What if he had rejected you because you had different views on children or maybe he wanted to move or you had different political views? What hurt you is your perception that his actions said “she’s a good person but too old to romance up”. If that’s the case, you can work on this with your therapist or in journaling self reflexion. By the way, 34 is still young. Edit: I recommend you read that book on l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:40 AM
21

After he said “Please don’t put this on tiktok” what he really wanted to continue with is “I want to abuse you in private” Edit: I know this is all fun and games on tiktok, but I’m worried he might take some physical action given how she keeps posting his voicemails. I hope she’s somewhere safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:29 AM
2

She’s still young. 30 is plenty of time to find a partner. She needs to get out asap. Send her the podcast: the first episode that explains what fds is about, and the two gail dines episodes. And read her some stories from breaking mom, enough to make her curious about reading it on her own. We can still save her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 04:52 PM
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There’s this guy I went to class with that’s been lingering in my head for the past few days. We were never together, nor did I like him. I think this book might help me get him out of my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:47 PM
22

Them: women don’t know what suffering means Meanwhile women: experiencing childbirth for hundreds of generations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:40 PM
60

Guyyyyy, highschool romances are meant to be silly little things we laugh and reminisce about as we get older, not things we bring with us in adulthood wtf. And he didn’t even have a romance with her, he had an infatuation 😬 who’s sleeping with this man, I need answers, how are they not seeing the red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 09:11 AM
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Women create life then nurture that life when it’s most vulnerable. They put a stop on their life in order to properly do it. If you don’t get this, it’s simply your problem. Not all women are hypergamous. If you’re not on the level these women aim at, why does it matter to you what they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:54 AM
2

You have way too much time on your hands. This sample of outliars doesn’t prove anything about the general population
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:47 AM
4

Because the woman brings unique value to the relationship that can’t be quantified or compared. People choose who they choose in the end. It’s up to them to decide what they’re comfortable with. I made my choices and I stick by them. To me it seems that this community is fully of crybabies who pat themselves on the back for the same insecurities, not having the courage to man up and say “i want this”. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:41 AM
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Why is she living with a boyfriend? The solution to this is simple: leave him and get rid of the headache
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:37 AM
1

He has to be more developed than me in a series of categories (eg. Money) and at least match me in other categories (eg. Fitness level, education).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 11:31 AM
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I’ll just add that in my opinion High value men are more selective as to what they find attractive and with who they’ll sleep with. All the while respecting those who are not his type
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:24 AM
9

Thank you for having the courage and the character to walk out on him and for having and enforcing your boundaries. You responded to the situation perfectly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:00 AM
1

Wow, this sentence “one third world country were society mentality is like a 100 years ago” tells me everything I need to know about you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 08:54 AM
59

This type of man doesn’t deserve a wife or to have a family. I hope this woman frees herself from the dead weight and raises her kids away from that horrible person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:50 AM
1

I will never ever build with a man, no matter how much the people around me advise me to. You’re either rich or not ready to date me. Sorry, not sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:40 AM
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Ehhh, I disagree with “make every man want you”. I read it and found it a really shallow book written by pick me. OP, I’d definitely go with “the gift of fear” and “why men love bitches” first. And sidenote, I think we have a recommend books tab in the sidebar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:13 AM
10

What a pornsick way to look at things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:45 AM
1

Dude, if you complain about this, you: 1) totally don’t get it 2) don’t have money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:41 AM
59

I’m the prize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:34 AM
11

Why are women coddling men so much? Like, I feel for the OP, but at some point, you gotta look at the situation rationally and figure out if you have a partner or a leach on your hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:23 PM
3

Yeahhhh, this sounds fishy. What kind of woman poster refers to another woman as “the best female for the job”? Sounds like an incel fantasy novel… Either way, your point still stands. No threesomes, especially not as “gifts”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:11 AM
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Oh my god… and I think we gained about 1000 followers overnight too !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:00 AM
1

You said success is actually ending up with one = with a relationship/not single. In response to that I said that settling for someone you don’t want leads to deadbedrooms/divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 10:18 AM
1

“Success is actually ending up with one” And you guys wonder why so many of your relationships end up being dead bedrooms and in divorce…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:43 AM
1

Well, weeding out the guys she doesn’t want is a success in itself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:14 PM
3

If anyone can, why are we having this discussion ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:00 PM
1

Why can’t obese women have high standards ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:31 PM
10

All that money and he can’t get a therapist, really ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 04:27 PM
171

Yeah, she had the interview of Elon’s ex wife on the internet to see how abusive he was and she ignored it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:28 PM
66

She’s looking for positive male attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 11:15 AM
14

I’m glad for you! Find the time when you feel most comfortable (and safe) to do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:39 PM
48

Lol, cOmmUNiCaTeee !!!1!!!1 What a load of shit. Examples like yours and the lady above show that fds is right about men’s insistance on “communication”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:00 PM
183

When they ask about how to fix their dead bedroom, they’re not looking for answers, they’re looking for pity and encouragement to cheat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:57 PM
3

They’re maximizing outcome for their pleasure. Get over yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:23 AM
2

Nah, you sound more normal than a hell of a lot of people on ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:57 PM
-1

Ya’ll are too obsessed with virginity. Any virgin ladies reading this know that high value men who are interested in you don’t care about this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:55 PM
15

What would you say to someone who has the emotional, hobbies, social, work part done and is healthy/fit, but unattractive and wants a 666 HVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:48 PM
5

They get off on women not feeling good during sex so I guess it’s a win for them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:45 AM
1

And people wonder why they get stuck in dead bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:44 AM
28

Such a simple and yet effective strategy, thank you for sharing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:41 AM
6

No, I was referring to the start of the relationship, the courting period where fds has the rule of no sex before 3 months at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:28 AM
3

They see it as “~~~ discomfort ~~~~” but I agree with you, totally. That’s why I added “” to the word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:26 AM
19

They don’t realize it’s not just nausea and vomiting, it’s also the pain of having the baby press on your organs, reduced mobility and higher risks of complications if you get sick from something else (eg. A simple UTI or one cholecystitis are very different in terms of treatment and risk when you are pregnant). And let’s not forget the unspoken rule of all the sacrifices you have to make for these 9 months (it’s more than that actually: getting your body ready the months before, then the pregna…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 07:46 AM
5

I’m not sure I understand your comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 07:38 AM
14

That’s how I think too! This is why I added the + after 3 months
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 06:38 AM
17

What book is this from ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:28 PM
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Exactly. They have no excuse to complain about the “no sex first three months” rule from fds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:28 PM
1

They don’t happen at the same time and generally, it’s different women who do this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:41 PM
1

I’m not attracted to you, I can tell you’re not looking for a friendship si your constant pushing is annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:40 PM
1

It’s when I read posts like these that I start to wonder if ppd men have ever interacted with a human outside in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 07:27 PM
1

Yeah, don’t listen to this guy. A lot of men are childfree and looking to remain that way. And what, do you all think they’re feminine soft boys? No, not at all, some of them are masculine just like you want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:41 AM
2

Who gets to decide if the woman’s authority is merited?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 01:38 AM
-4

Lol, men who think like this don’t deserve to be around women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 08:26 PM
10

I mean… you got into a shitty situation and you are surprised that it stinks? What else were you expecting? Sorry, but I have no sympathy for this type of people (which includes her and the couple)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:50 PM
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While I’m currently on a dating break due to being busy/working on myself, I think that I could open up once a man has been thouroughly vetted. I think relationships on that level (husband/wife) require vulnerability. The problem is that so many women give it too soon in a relationship, to people who don’t deserve it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 12:45 PM
1

I would feel neutral. It’s just an awkward guy who tries to have a random conversation. Then I’d think this guy probably has some deep issues that made him this “very shy and timid”, which he is not working on, so I’m not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:52 PM
1

How is taking care of your own child toxic, bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:41 PM
14

Dude, the women you interact with (assuming they’re not the same ones from your past) didn’t do anything wrong to you. Nothing. You’re taking revenge on them for what women did to you in your past. You’re so illogical, go to therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:30 PM
3

You have a lot of unresolved issues… you don’t need a young woman to manipulate/abuse, you need therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 12:26 PM
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Alright, I would have some sympathy if this was someone that had 20 years. But he’s fucking 40. Come on. How can he ask those questions at the end with such a detached and jumpy tone? Does he have NO SHAME? This is the sort of thing you hide and research on your own, only coming to people to demand specific things. Tbh, he just wants people to feel sorry for himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:51 AM
187

What a gold digger (And a shameless one at that)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:35 PM
117

Because they’re short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 12:03 PM
2

Yeah and the moment you don’t buy their bullshit, they turn into incel rage like you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:24 AM
4

Yeah, I don’t know about this one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:42 AM
11

Alright, I get the traits, but I don’t understand what type of actions they entail… What would a dark triad woman do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:07 PM
21

What is dark triad behavior? I never understood this term despite men often whining about dark triad women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 06:16 PM
124

Lol, she needs to take this story to her parents. I’m sure her dad would like to have a word with this scrote who is making her daughter suffer because he wants to take advantage of their money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 12:05 PM
1

Women don’t have a more fluid sexuality, that’s what you idiots tell yourself because you watched too much porn. It’s actually an insult both to outright lesbian and bi women to insinuate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:04 AM
-3

If you plan to get surgery anyway, why are you whining about it on reddit ? And there’s clearly a reason why you have problems with women. You need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:50 PM
1

No path is a guaranteed no success rate. And the entitlement of “I have to know something will turn out amazing before I begin working on it” is hilarious! None of the men you guys regularly praise ever thought like this: men who discovered laws, who wrote masterpieces and who built cities. If any actions makes you shatter like that, you have no business dating, you should be in therapy. No one who gets far in life thinks “oh, this didn’t work out, I’m a failure”. Do you honestly thinks it’s rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:59 PM
-1

You can worry about things you can’t change once you are on top of the things you can. Also, have you never heard of surgery? What are you trying to prove here really ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:48 PM
0

Lol, get off your ass and exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:20 PM
4

Lol, if that’s the case, why don’t men get off their ass and improve their value to be of worth to women? If they don’t want to because they’re lazy, well, that’s evolution for you. If they don’t want to because they don’t care about women, well, then what they do is not important. But they do care about women, don’t they? All these pathetic redpilled dudes only think about how to get women. All I see is pent up resentment 🤏😘
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 03:58 PM
0

Lol, you think that by “dropping all your baggage on them” I meant uncontrollably crying. Yup, proves my point once again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 05:48 AM
0

There’s a difference between being open/vulnerable to your so and dropping all your baggage on them/treating them as your therapist. Seeing from your post, it looks like you don’t get the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:53 PM
3

So many words, when all he wants to say really is: i cant find the clit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:29 PM
1

Oh my god, did you just complain about the fact that as a man you have to do the literal thrusting during sex? What in the world🤣🤣🤣 duuuude, dating problems should be the least of your concerns, you should just take yourself out of the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 03:12 PM

🤏
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:59 AM

What would you say are her feminine traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:35 PM
105

You know what? I love that when Raphael im Jane the virgin tried to pull this shit, Jane was like “we need to talk outside” 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:58 AM

Lol, you’ve never heard of old money families who generallly marry amoung themselves BECAUSE of the money. They want to conserve their wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:55 AM
3

How about you stop thinking with your dick and be more rational instead of cheating like a whore, buddy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:42 AM
1

Lol, why do you care so much if a girl is a virgin? Are you a virgin and saving yourself for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:39 AM

High status men DO care about the status of the woman they date. In what world do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:31 AM
1

Ah, the all so old self-defeatisr attitude of reddit !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:28 AM
0

I mentioned going to therapy first because that’s the most important first step. The rest doesn’t matter if you don’t do that. And most people know what working on yourself entails, so cut me with that sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:26 PM

You have no idea what hard is. Going to therapy is the bare minimum. Do you want women to fall from the sky for you? What are expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:00 AM

I’d get off reddit and go to therapy and work myself into being desired by women. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:05 AM
34

Ah, the scrotes and their creative writing again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:58 AM
26

Because women carry a baby for 9 months before even bringing it into the world, motherhood has kinda become (in society’s eyes) just a trait of women. That’s why when men say they don’t want kids, they’re generally respected, but women are told “she’ll change her mind” and other bullshit. Seeing as we are not in the 1950s-1980s anymore, I hope we can move past this misconception. Back then women existed just to have kids (and be a housemaker). But with development, we reached a point where women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 05:56 AM
65

These two need jesus… and a hobby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:58 PM
81

Envy is a powerful thing. Love how blind he is to the work she put into having those things turn out well. She needs better people around her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:47 AM
96

But, but, I thought anal is such a fun thing to do and kinky too 🤡 why are they complaining?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 07:50 AM
98

It’s impossible that he wouldn’t know. She’s preparing to take the fucking bar exam. She’s probably stressed out and it’s all she can think/talk of. But look at this trash acting as if he did “an oooppsie” teehee~~~~. No, asshole, no matter how you cut it, this is not just a slip up, it’s unacceptable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 06:01 AM
8

Hey, siri, file this under “shit men do with your nudes” and link it to “why I’ll never ever send nudes to a man”. Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 05:52 AM
12

I hope his dick falls off and he loses all his money 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 05:58 AM
2

I phrased it that way because I want to marry someone who earns more than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:53 PM
6

I’m not a troll account, I’m even in the discord. Sorry that I sounded a little rough in my replies, but I honestly didn’t like that so many women here immediately assumed I don’t have my shit together and that I’m not aware that rich doesn’t make high value. I know what high value is and I know what I want. If a rich man doesn’t treat me well or has any ridiculous demands or other red flags, I next him. I personally want the hvm I end up marrying to be rich. That’s what I want and there’s nothi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 02:48 PM
-2

What part of my comment says that I’m not on my way to have a great job? What’s up with these comments? I mean, the dislikes I get because lurker scrotes are salty but I thought fds ladies would have known better than to assume I don’t already have my thing going on. These comments are good for the female silent readers of fds who don’t know any better (about wealthy men sometimes being predatory and the relationship being unbalanced) so there’s that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:54 AM
2

Money won’t be a problem for me because I’m gonna have a good career. Obviously I’ll still vet and cut off at the first sign of disrespect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:51 AM
3

Why does saying I want to marry rich immediately mean I want to marry a LVM? That’s not it at all. To spell it out clear: I want to marry a HVM who is rich. There you go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 10:50 AM
1

I want to marry rich so I personally don’t see a problem with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 05:22 AM
3

So it’s just projection then🤣🤣 normal people don’t care about that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:20 PM
3

Humor me: what did he look like? Was he good looking? He doesn’t sound like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:55 AM
27

I want what I want and I’m not ashamed of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:52 AM
26

It didn’t have a publisher. EL James self published and it sort of spread by itself. Hollywood made a movie out of it because the book was worth so much money, it outsold JK Rowling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:07 PM
24

I personally love how the modes are in the process of pulling the sub back on track. Being self-defeating won’t get anyone anywhere, that’s a fact. They need to find a way out of the rut and they can use femaleleveulupstrategy for that. It exists for a reason!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:04 PM
17

Proof that radical acceptance is toxic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:08 AM
10

She’s his mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:35 PM
2

I’ve never looked at it this way because he’s my brother, not my boyfriend. His actions are pretty toxic, you’re right. Is this what the book “why does he do that” adresses? Or what book should I read in order to learn how to deal with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:23 AM
3

The odd thing is that generally he’s such a sweatheart. But when he gets angry/when we get into fights, he says some of the most hurtful things... Like reproaching to me a woman for carrying the groceries from the back of the house into the house (ground floor)...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:39 AM
5

I am holding up strong boundaries to him right now. He needs to prove himself to me. I just hope I’ll be able to keep this up when I return to our town
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:50 PM
4

Thank you so much for the reply. You are right, men shouldn’t keep tabs on what they do for someone else. Relationships should be sinceres, not transactional. Assholes are assholes and they don’t reflect my value, they just spread their negativity and aggression. I am a woman and that’s all I need to be treated like one. No, I never reproach to people when we fight...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:21 PM
8

I ask for help and I receive it. What am I supposed to do when during a fight for example, the guy starts reproaching me all he did for me? How should I react? My brother did this once during a fight. “i carried groceries for you!!1!” It hurt me so much. As if I wasn’t woman enough in order to receive things..:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:00 AM
7

He sounds like an animal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:47 PM
33

Facts are not homophobic. Also, no one said that gay men can’t donate blood. People love outrage culture, don’t they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:06 AM
44

Need to point out that this is valid even though you don’t as drop dead gorgeous as op
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 09:23 AM
3

I undestood it as you doing the videochat when you were 12
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 07:10 PM
16

I hate when people say “a gift is a gift, it should appreciated either way”. That is so not true. A gift is a reflexion of your relationship with the other person, how much you know them, how much you pay attention. By this logic, if someone with a nut allergy received a chocolate with peanuts in it, they should appreciate it because “it’s A gIFt!!1!”. No, mother fucker, you’ve known me for over a year and every time we go to restaurants, you see me grilling the waiter to make sure there are nu …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:48 AM
21

Oh my god, that scum has child porn of you. Holy shit, I’m so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:33 AM
25

But but !!!1! Women poke holes in condomns to baby trap studs with money and use them !!!1!!1 this post is sooooo fake, no man would ever make a woman do anything against her will, especially when it comes to bearing his kids!! And what man at that age wants kids anyway? He’s barely hit his prime years. A situation where the man wants kids and the woman not just doesn’t exist. Fake news /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:39 PM
10

So scum wants to experiment on his gf to see what a severe allergic reaction looks like in order to have some action in his life. How is dating better than being single?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:33 PM
3

What a fantastic well written post! Very insightful (and useful) to have this listen, especially given how it used examples of both men and women acting LV! I’d like to ask for a bit of advice regarding this passage : “It’s narcissistic and delusional to expect you must be the best looking most successful woman in the room always or ELSE everyone must feel the wrath of you. Start appreciating your own qualities and qualities in other ppl. It’s unrealistic and stupid. [...] Address your ego probl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:51 PM
4

If this woman had fds, she wouldn’t have gone anywhere near this man at the first sign of disrespect. This is why fds is important: it stops us from becoming victims
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:10 PM
1

He called out to his mommy 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:45 PM
86

It’s because their peanut brains can’t understand that the type of women they fawn over just don’t exist in the natural no effort way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:46 PM
7

Them: this Also them: watches teen porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:34 PM
11

In medicine we are taught that pain is subjective and to treat the patient according to how they evaluate their own pain. Scrotes can fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:25 PM
12

Honestly, the idea for your party is so bomb idk why people didn’t show up. And you’re making such great points! Makes me ask myself why I’m not celebrating more of my non men accomplishments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:22 PM
60

Short guys are so pressed about height because THEY have a boner for tall guys. They think it makes it so they can get women with much less effort and thus they get to sleep around more and thus they are more manly. Shorties are pressed because they don’t have the physical equipement to use multiple women, that’s it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:17 PM
35

This is coming from the same people who think porn is real sex and that the actresses are not faking it. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:44 AM
35

So basically... an anime waifu?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:27 AM
88

snip snip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:14 PM
14

I’ll never understand what type of logic men employ in terms of beautiful women and beauty products cost. Do they really believe that their “anime waifu” who looks flawless with nothing really exists in the real world? Just goes to show you that most men have no idea about the female experience because they don’t date or interact with “feeemaaales”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:12 PM
120

Honestly, this is one of the best answers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:02 PM
72

He wants her to support herself, meanwhile he unemployed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:00 PM
12

And I’d like to underline how RECENT this is. Scrotes like to say things like “yah, misogyny was a thing back then, but now women have equal rights with men so feminism is no longer needed”. Bruh. Look at this, this is reality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:31 AM
42

This is proof that when scrotes are saying “welll X wouldn’t be creppy if the the guy was hot !!1!!1”, they have no idea what they’re talking about. Yes, it is fucking creepy, no matter your looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:34 AM
2

I’m going on a trip next week, all by myself and I have no regrets about it !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:54 AM
18

I think what is causing this much distress is the implication that comes with not receiving these things: that you’re not beautiful or valuable. The first step in your transformation should be to consciously aware of this misbelief! Then you can unpack it. It goes without saying (here on fds) that women have inherent value and beauty to guys is much more subjective than they’d dare to admit (kinda like it is for women). Then, I’d suggest you to do some surprises/nice things for yourself. Just as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:49 AM
4

And to add to this: this type of behavior makes people more resentful towards the crowd of people the activists are trying to protect! It’s literally not doing good to anybody but the people whining in the spotlight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 11:32 AM
6

It is an insult. Who the hell thinks it’s appropriate to say something like this to your so???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:07 PM
59

Exactly, the man who made that comment is such a naive idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:07 PM
21

Honestly, seeing a piece of media REALLY depicting the beauty ideal and day to day look from another time would be so refreshing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:31 PM
96

For every scrote that leaves an angry comment, sends an idiotic messages, reports the post for hate speech, there’s an echo of Lilith’s voice saying: die mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:21 PM
23

To put it bluntly, his dick is broken. That’s it. He wanked so much to porn that it’s much more engaging to him to watch porn than to be with a real woman. Fried brain (and honestly? Laziness and comfort) makes him find porn more pleasurable than real sex. Quick question here: do you honestly think he wasn’t wanking it while you weren’t there to ask for sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:16 PM
3

It sounds as if she was describing having a dirty dog 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:54 PM
23

Exactly. This question serves as a nag only, nothing more. It’s something like “well, who do you think you are to demande all this stuff?”. I know who I am, idiot, and if you can’t see it and have to demean me into spelling it out to you, you can fuck off, I’m not interested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:31 PM
52

This post needs to be in the HANDBOOK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:15 PM
367

Lol, deadbedrooms is the most tone deaf sub I’ve seen. There was a man on there complaining about a deadbedroom and making himself the victim. Then his wife posted and explained that she had given birth not long ago and she was going through a difficult pregnancy. Men are so selfish. Honestly, this is why we vet. If he can’t control himself for a few months, how will he control himself when his wife is heavily pregnant/recently gave birth? These types of men are defected in my opinion and I want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:13 PM
10

What I wish people would get is that no one likes a people pleaser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:30 AM
84

I’m a savage so I’d just break up with him 🤣🤣 lol, but would be fun to do your suggestion before cutting the rope 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:28 AM
3

Lol, buying it today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:25 AM
3

💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:35 PM
196

Do ugly woman not have the right to enjoy themselves sexually? Is that what they’re saying? Dear lord
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:21 AM
177

This is the BEST (and only appropriate) reponse. Wish I could give you a reward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:20 AM
97

They are an example of depraved women. Yes, I have sex with my boyfriend. What’s your problem? And sweetie, at least he’s attractive, not some scruffy low life who has to pay for that shit. But sure, you’re living the life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:08 AM
120

No, he was hoping that the girl would do all the chasing, planning and coming up with ideas for dates... He thinks his ass needs to stay put and that if he’s the prize, women will come to him. Boyyy, do I have some news for him 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:07 AM
101

Lol, how can say that he’s above average and not that attractive in the same breath? They’re sooo logical 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:05 AM
21

Girl, I don’t want to be mean, but read the handbook and drop the dead weight. What he’s doing is NOT normal. 8 years and no ring? He doesn’t want you, you’re a placeholder for his “fantasy woman”. Heainttheone2021 👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:02 AM
68

Exactly, which is why I put it in quotation marks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:47 PM
9

“Girls, my boyfriend doesn’t rape me. Im soooo lucky, he’s such a catch!!!1!” /s dear lord save us all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:10 PM
424

He USED her and doesn’t have the decency to give her what she’s earned over the 8 years together (a safe future). Im so over these “self made” assholes who aren’t grounded at all in their perception of the world. She needs to cut her losses and move on. The way this is going, he’ll make even more money and dump her for his “dream girl”, which he will NEVER make work because he wants to impress her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:04 PM
9

These things are usually said by the biggest manwhores ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:57 PM
39

They are truly heartless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:01 AM
91

Honestly, the more they are into it, the better. Sex dolls can’t have kids so they’re taking themselves out of the gene pool while letting real women be. It’s a win win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:34 AM
91

How does the logical gender not realize this would be an important holiday for a new mother (especially one who went through a traumatic birth)? HOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:19 PM
100

May who wrote this tweet burn in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:10 PM
32

It’s almost as if they’re children, I swear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:23 AM
47

This sounds completely awful. I’m so sorry for you! I send all the healing energy to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:14 PM
36

Some heroes don’t wear capes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:01 PM
124

They always respond to this type of criticism with: “yes, that’s very true, all the more reason to legalize so sex worker can get proper health care and protection”. As. If. Nevermind how those aren’t given in already legal jobs, they can’t be given to sex workers because of level of deception that’s found in this industry, all the “blurry lines”. I’m tired of all these libfems and scrotes living in LaLa land who think any woman would willingly throw her dignity and have sex with the equivalent …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:55 PM
97

But you can get sex whenever!!!! With no effort!!! My peepee almost never gets wet /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:42 AM
159

They have a problem with women who love cats. Lol, imagine being triggered by meaningless shit like thsi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:15 AM
29

It’s excuses because it sounds better to say that, rather than their true thoughts aka “i’m disgusted by fat women”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 10:10 AM
171

Lol, they’re so emotional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:56 AM
61

But BDSM is soooo good. Stop being a hater !!1!!!1! It’s so kinky and fun. Why are you fds bitches such prudes???? Reee /S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:31 AM
9

odd proud noises
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:14 PM
6

So good to hear you took out the trash !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 02:11 PM
6

How can they be so heartless?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:41 PM
15

This. He is love bombing you. You need to cut him off (read The Rules for more info)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:06 PM
10

THIS. I need answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:12 AM
26

I’m pretty sure they didn’t even do that back then, lol. Men were kept out of the birthing room. Funny how even though they went to wars and spilled so much blood, they couldn’t bear to see their partner give birth🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:34 AM
53

Funny how they can engage in so much violence and be there for outright violent things like fist fights and theft, but when it comes to the only act in this world that is that painful but with a higher purpose, they start to complain. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:29 AM
64

There is not limit to their audacity. I hope it’s not his child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:26 AM
2

This is one of the best posts on the sub. You snapped, Lilith
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:30 PM
6

Therapy in a nutshell (youtube channel) has a video series about processing emotions. It’s very helpful, I recommend it !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:22 PM
165

I’m so glad her young fans are exposed to these facts through her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:20 AM
22

As you can see, they are very logical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:30 AM
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