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The wall was a made up term for men who wanted “revenge” from women in their younger years who rejected them. Most women are approached by men daily and have no Issues attracting no matter their age. Men truly believe as they get older they look better but judging on dating apps it’s the opposite. I’m mid 30s and apparently it’s old maid territory in my culture 🤣 But so far I’m always getting hit on and usually younger men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 09:26 PM
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Time is precious. You can get practice and advice from an older person you trust. Dating is an investment. I would find it a waste of time to get ready for multiple dates that won’t lead to anywhere. Think of the cost of an outfit , gas money , food and drinks. Can you imagine as a woman being stalked , harassed or abused because a guy found out you didn’t like him in that way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 02:53 AM
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Every country needs have a taskforce in dealing with these violent men, and include more women in investigations. When I worked admin at a police station, it was shocking that these abusers were let off and continued the cycle of abusing their partners. Most of the women had no idea of their behaviour until it was too late. The scariest part was that these mens families and friends knew about their behaviour but didn’t warn the women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:04 AM
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I think the issue is a lot of men think of themselves as high value. Men get annoyed with a woman’s preferences Because they can’t compete with it. Men forget women have eyes and can make their own money too. I once had a delusional man contact me online. He looked obese and unkempt and insisted I was his dream man 😂. I simply told him I have a type and have good taste in men ! I hate when you don’t find a man physically attractive you get insults thrown at you. So what is he’s a great guy or he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:47 PM
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Correct. A lot of disability organisations like to Use the word “Sexual Surrogate” in Australia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:59 PM
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This man wants to take up a woman’s time and attention for minimum effort ? How delusional is he ? Red flag for mentioning her private areas so casually. Also , does this lady looks like she needs to finesse $5? From my impression she’s looks like a successful woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 12:10 AM
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Besides all the naked women these scrotes decide to follow, it’s also the normal everyday women that receive disgusting messages from Married Men on Instagram. Everyday on the news you hear a female student or working woman harassed or stalked by these married losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 11:57 PM
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A guy who’s a boring texter will over text about nothing and doesn’t keep the conversation exciting. Sometimes I will tell a guy I’m not the texting type, but he is most welcome to catch up. I leave the ball in his court. My standards for texting is to be direct, staying safe and not wasting too much time. If I feel the texting is not going anywhere I just end up moving on and blocking that person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:17 AM
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Only underachieving men are bothered by successful women 😂 These men sit in their basic looking podcasts and think they know it all 😂. They talk with imaginary scenarios and gaslight women and think it’s the truth. A man with values and success wants a woman with the same traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:00 AM
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Yikes I know the feeling. Where I live it’s the case of Tent 🏕 life 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:47 AM
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Men in their 30s and 40s accumulated a lot of baggage yet they still feel entitled to younger women with no kids 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:47 AM
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It’s super creepy when married men want your attention while their poor wife is standing next to them ! I’ve lost count on how many married men stare at me while I’m minding my own business. Sometimes the wife / girlfriend look at me like I’m the bad one. I was dating a man who made it a bad habit of staring at women in public. So I returned the favour and started flirting and staring at attractive men , and he hated it 😂. Didn’t these men date enough before settling down ? Didn’t they flirt eno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:03 AM
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A lot of men are very methodical and manipulative when it comes to using their work to cover their time with prostitutes. Look at serial killers who were married men with families , they planned their entire daily schedule to precision to hide their deprivation. I live in a military & mining town and it’s always round the clock strippers and sex workers. Usually in smaller towns and cities it’s more discreet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 06:30 AM
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Low effort = low reward Older generations of men had no issue with pursuing women, No idea why it’s so scary for men of today. It’s mind baffling how men can spend money on sneakers, video games, shout their boys at the strip club and buy cars. Yet can’t understand the dynamics of women and dating. It’s super annoying how a lot of men blame feminism for their dating disappointments and fears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:02 PM
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I’ve come across a lot of profiles of men claiming to have a masters or PHD that are obviously too young (unless they graduated high-school at 10 years old 🤣) Too many charlatans, dj’s, business owners, travellers, pilots, teachers, military, IT, engineers, lawyers etc etc Men lie about their occupation to conceal the following hide their criminal history lie about a military rank hidden baggage like divorces and domestic violence records hide their location by claiming to be a traveller hidden …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 10:12 PM
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I feel your pain , I’m also in a town like this in Australia. I would never date a FIFO guy due to the money spend on strippers and drugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 09:42 PM
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She’s so selfish. If my boyfriend did this to me, I would be spending Valentine’s Day with someone else too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 01:31 AM
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The men know deep down that women are justified in their comments, but they will just guilt trip you instead. They are guilty of the things that women talk about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 11:14 AM
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Oh my gosh 🤣😂 He really thought he wasn’t going to get caught. Living in fantasy land.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 10:08 PM
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“Hey I thought you were dead” “Yeah I get that a lot”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 10:06 PM
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When I looked through dating apps, a majority of the men In their 30s were horribly ageing. That or they were older lying about their ages on their profiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:38 PM
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Nick Cannon looks unassuming, but I bet you he’s a psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 03:35 PM
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Im from Australia, and in my hometown we had local prostitutes endorse the sex decriminalisation bill. The prostitutes wanted to set up operations in our suburbs, which they claimed helped protect them. Our local community leaders and mayor all voted no. We didn’t want our local suburbs where families live exposed to violence, drugs and trauma that is associated with sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:22 PM
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He isn’t offering anything unique or satisfying who is he kidding. A young woman could make bank on her own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:00 PM
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I never understand why some women are too proud to ask for child support in the beginning stages of their babies life. The baby daddy is upset because he assumed the mother would always financially take care of his child. Stop having kids with men who don’t have the finances to provide for your family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:53 AM
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Belgium has a New Zealand embassy there, I find it hard to believe they had no other choice but to go to Afghanistan 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:27 PM
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Besides domestic violence, a lot of men have also resorted to criminal behaviour and public assaults on women are rising
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:11 PM
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This man has everything wrong going for him. He sounds like a typical 50 year old man who’s frustrated because his entitlement to younger women isn’t working out. How could he possible attract anyone with negativity, misogyny, lack of charm and personality? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:55 AM
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A lot of those red pilled podcasts don’t seem to advocate for mens mental health. Hard to feel sympathy for men complaining when a lot of them aren’t focused on themselves first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:41 AM
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Don’t have a choice ? Who is he to dictate that ? Never trust an ugly man with a Durag to educate you on marriage 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:39 AM
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Big Ed has a sociopathic personality. Other 90 day fiancé cast have been fired already , yet TLC is still co signing the Big Ed mess. YouTubers have been roasting the hell out of him and everyone enjoys it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:23 PM
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Exactly the reason why my block list is long 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:03 PM
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Amen ! Men are notorious for never ending texting and it’s up to us ladies to not except low effort. Men need to know that women have lives in the real world and we don’t owe our precious time texting all day. Men who text all day use it as a short cut way to thinking you have their attention. The only men I know who do this only want to dump their emotional baggage on to you. It’s ridiculous that I find a lot of men become anxious and aggressive when I don’t reply to their long texting sessions…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:28 PM
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Fair enough. I think single dads expect too much from single women at times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:32 PM
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The issues with delusional single dads is that they think they’re all high value and the exception. This is why they ignore a woman’s dating profile when she isn’t interested in single dads. It’s selfish to waste a woman’s time when you know you aren’t compatible. A childless woman’s first option will always be a man with no kids. It’s her dream and goals to be with a man she can create her own family with. As a woman with no kids , lots of single dads love women like myself. I’ve always suggest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:10 PM
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Childless women and single dads aren’t compatible. Even in your age group, you still have the choice to not deal with a ready made family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:48 PM
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A lot of single dads think they’re above dating single moms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:46 PM
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Most men see themselves as high value and the exception , which is why they ignore what women say in dating profiles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 05:42 PM
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I can’t wait for the day that scrotes can be automatically blocked on all social media apps and messengers in one go. The types of men who want your attention and have to have the last say are annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:00 PM
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What choice do Indian men have these days ? They outnumber women and are economically disadvantaged. Maybe it’s good they don’t marry at all with those attitudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:48 PM
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Yes a lot of them do 😂 I live in a transient city and a lot of my past dates would randomly message me online with the “hey stranger I’m in town” line. I usually ignore those messages for good reasons. A lot of my past dates were rude or I noticed a lot of red flags with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:07 AM
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Both options are equally bad first dates. A lot of single parents need to realise that bringing their young child on a relationship is bad etiquette and places pressure on their date. A single dad who does this is not ready for a relationship. He’s looking for a nanny and maid for his children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:56 AM
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Throw the whole hobosexual away 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 10:44 AM
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He wants everything but gives nothing in return type
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:36 AM
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I’m single with no kids and have a stable career. I’ve been told by lvm that I could be missing out on a good man with kids if I didn’t date single dads. This usually comes from men who have multiple kids with different baby mamas. No thanks…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:55 PM
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True. As soon as a man starts to behave in that way I mentally checkout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 10:53 PM
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I’m mid 30s and have taken care of myself that I often get mistaken for being younger. The nastiest messages from online dating that I’ve gotten are from men my age who’ve aged horribly 😂 I barely swipe right on men in their 30s because I don’t know for sure If they’re older and lying to everyone. Men in their 30s start to carry alot of emotional baggage from past relationships, that they think they can dump on you too. I prefer a man with all his hair and teeth and looks healthy is that too muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:33 PM
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Men can be brutal towards a woman’s physical appearance. But god forbid if women can’t have physical preferences in a man. A lot of men are in denial that their physical appearance is a reason they aren’t getting matches online. I’ve lost count of how many overweight and unattractive men have the audacity to get my attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 05:23 PM
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I have bad memories of my Uni days. Everyone assumes single women have their pick on campus , but ummm no it’s not like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 04:43 PM
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It’s mind boggling that men claim They become successful as they age, attract younger women , are better parents than single moms yet have no problem lying to us about their life. You’re right about not disclosing your preferences and standards to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:41 AM
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So true. Men are brutal when judging women, but they get all offended when women do the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:31 AM
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It’s almost like we can’t have preferences 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 08:28 AM
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Tell your sister to run! A lot of single dads lie to single women all the time about their kids. They know a lot of women won’t accept their baggage and choose to lie. He’s already demonstrated he’s not trustworthy and he has manipulated your sister. Its possible he could still be sleeping with the mother of his children too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:47 PM
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I’m from an indigenous culture where younger women were promised (arranged marriage) to a much older man. Since recent times it’s becoming rare with the women in my tribe graduating and obtaining stable careers, removing the need to settle for old dusty men 😂 It’s funny how men can have high standards in women that they themselves don’t hold. I’ve come across men who are offended that my standards in men is that he is healthy and takes pride in his appearance. I’ve even had men who’ve told me lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 12:00 PM
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Im from Australia and can’t believe alot of good looking men don’t seem to take care of themselves. The guys don’t have a self care regiment for their skin or hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:25 AM
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He’s offering coffee and thrift shopping so he can meet a lot of women in a short amount of time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:41 PM
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🤣 I had a male friend who would nitpick and always judge a woman’s appearance. One day he asked for my other friends phone number, so I decided he needs a taste of his own medicine. When he asked about my friends , I told him that he wasn’t their type (he’s balding and short) and that they want hot tall guys 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 12:22 AM
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I hate when pick-me’s shame another woman’s preferences in men. “Give him a chance” “It’s the inside that counts” “You’re missing out” “Stop being picky” “He’s a great guy” The fact that men can be brutal when judging a woman’s physical appearance and feel entitled to an attractive woman while they look the opposite tells you everything. I feel like the girl in the video is pitying the young overweight man than being genuine. Most young women prefer men of similar attractiveness. It’s also annoy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:33 PM
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Another two things to keep in mind is the men who always travel to Asia and military types. Western men who are always in Asia aren’t there for only travel but are encouraged by their friends to meet women there. Military men have always had yellow fever. I live in Australia and the the Asian woman fetish is for the wrong reasons usually. I’m multi racial but my maternal grandmother is mixed Japanese and English. I’ve had bad experiences when I’ve told A date about my ethnic background. I rememb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:23 PM
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The only male friends I can trust are the gay ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:02 PM
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When a man tells you this , it’s not your responsibility to stay and accept his behaviour. A lot of men who say they aren’t looking for a relationship are never satisfied. I’ve dated men like this and they end up unhappy in relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:16 PM
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He really means a trip to the kitchen 😂 If he was creative as he makes out , he would offer to cook with the woman. At 44 he’s a little seasoned to start a new family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:04 PM
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I live in a transient town, and a lot of online dating profiles sound like the post. As women we have to read between the lines and treat Every man online with discernment. These types of profiles are fantasy. They create a false sense of intimacy and romance in a urgency sense. I made a scrote mad when I refused to jump up and down for him just cause he had a “quick” trip in my city 😂 He made out that he was more attractive than he was. When I pointed out that my area already has enough attract…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:53 PM
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Community dick comes with a lot of baggage. A man who’s been around the block is disgusting. All those men who were once handsome and running around with other women , only want to settle down when they start falling apart 😂 I’ve refused to date a well known player who aged horribly and was ready to settle down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:27 AM
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I feel your pain. It’s a shit show out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:25 PM
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When I was in my 20s me and friends would get grossed out by older divorced men chasing us in bars 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:53 PM
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What gets me is with the ratios in favour of women, why are the men on those dating apps not making a effort to stand out or pursue women? What’s the point in matching with a woman and liking her photos and a man says nothing ? It seems like a lot of men say the same things on their profile and don’t bother with physical appearance either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:51 PM
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I believe men who have more than one child that they don’t provide for should have forced castrations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:54 AM
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If rape is inevitable then it’s inevitable for attackers to possibly be injured or face death for their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 07:50 AM
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A lot of men think just because they’re older they are “successful” and assume younger women want them. Older men pursue younger women and drain the life force out of them with all their baggage. Men are delusional to the fact that a young woman’s friends and family will find him a little weird or that the young woman deserves a younger hotter man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:02 AM
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Alcoholic men start at young age not during adulthood and starting a family. Very disrespectful to his ex wife and family. Alcoholics believe their own lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:43 AM
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I’d rather be a stay at home daughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:32 AM
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I’ve dated a man 9 years older than me in my 20s and he was late 30s. The differences were too much. He was always grumpy, set in his ways and treated me like a child. Older men bring a lot of emotional baggage to a relationship too. I hated that I was accused of checking out younger men my age all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 04:36 AM
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The men who are offended by FDS have things to hide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:42 PM
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I believe this post is deflection tactic. The male who posted this maybe guilty of abusing women in past and is hiding is from his “wife”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:37 PM
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A lot of Men will always relate their relationship failures to justify another man’s wrong doings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 07:52 AM
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Couldn’t agree more 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 07:29 AM
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These types of men still think they’re entitled to younger women with no kids 🤣 who are they kidding. I once chatted a guy on tinder who claimed he had no kids , and I pointed out the baby toys in the background of pics and a little hand cropped out as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:09 AM
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I guarantee his ex isn’t thinking of him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:04 AM
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Whoa the ladies ate him up in the comments section and rightfully so. This man enjoys wasting womens time but forgets the fact that he is ageing and it just looks immature on him. These men gotta stop lying about their ages online 🤣 He looks late 30s to 40s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 11:39 PM
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Pick up artists are super cringe. It’s so scripted and robotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 09:41 AM
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Men who use money as leverage over women weren’t taught how to treat women. Low value energy. Most of these Dusty’s have nothing to show for. Money can’t substitute character, reliability, values and choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:58 AM
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These men fail to realise a woman is only a gold digger if they allow it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:55 AM
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I live in a transient city so I’m used to Seeing dating profiles who lie about their location or are visiting temporary. I hated it when some guys would assume I’m Eager to see then straight away or they I would wait for them until they got into town. Don’t bother questioning these guys because you’re giving them ideas 😂 Just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:45 AM
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She’s mothering him. Look at how they communicate , it’s like a parent -child situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:39 AM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if Josh had experienced sexual molestation in his childhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:34 AM
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You just have to pay attention to a man’s incongruity. I would treat every man diligently and would never assume he’s special. It’s very important for women to look at dating objectionably and not emotionally. Most times a man would tell on himself 😂 Here are some things to look out for - he tells you he has options - he uses his financial status to attract women - talks about his exes too often - his career requires him to travel for long periods - his career comes into contact with alot of you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 03:10 AM
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They think they slick 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:29 AM
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Some guys have no shame. Some will ask “Who do you live with”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 10:42 PM
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Typical dusty 😂 This usually means a man is very insecure that a woman has surpassed him. He’s bothered that no single women want him 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 11:35 AM
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That’s so messed up. A man could create a whole fantasy life through his fake Facebook profile and trick several women at the same time! It’s up to a woman to remain diligent and vet a man and never trust his social media. What really annoys me is when a man cheats and his friends never say anything to the women. If Facebook is smart , they should allow multiple profiles to be connected to your personal profile too. For example if a man has a work profile it should verify his background and mari…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:40 PM
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I sometimes ask a man who his favourite female celebrities to get a clue on his taste in women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:26 PM
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As a young single woman with no kids and never been married, I would like my future partner to be the same and start on a fresh page. A single dad is a high risk - low reward relationship. Step parents get shitted on no matter what they do. I have many reasons why I don’t date single dads. Single divorced dads carry a lot of baggage that they place on the next woman they have a relationship with. Dating a single dad the ex never goes away. Dealing with the ex is a huge stressor in a relationship…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:21 PM
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A man who says he can’t cook chooses not to. In a lot of cultures it’s actually the men who cook the huge feasts for festivals and celebrations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:49 AM
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Most men on dating apps are delusional And act so entitled. I’ve categorised the worst types of men using dating apps I’ve come across Divorced player Serial baby mama maker Jail bird who assumes women are into bad boys Men who feel entitled to a woman’s body Polygamous scrotes Charlatans religious control freaks men with weird fetishes men who only post memes 40+ overweight depressed types men who only show their chests only in town for the night men who hide their kids and wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:41 AM
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Because men change when they become successful. Success to a lot of men means that women become disposable. Too risky to work hard and build with a man only for a another woman to benefit from it all after you’ve gone your seperate ways. Men rarely would have the patience to struggle for us so why should we for them ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:21 AM
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Same hook different fish 😂 Women don’t have issues attracting a man , if we want to be left alone it’s because we choose to. It doesn’t matter what you look like, you will always be a man’s type to him. Men who think they can threaten you because of your age don’t realise how women are never short of suitors. When I was in my 20s I was warned that as I get older i will be invisible to men. Now me in my mid 30s I get asked out by younger men and my Dms are full of messages 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:10 AM
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Why is a married man worried about what single women are doing in their beds ? He’s gaslighting single women so that he can comfort a lonely woman in her own bed 😂 He think he’s slick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 02:36 AM
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This sounds like an unhealthy work ethic and expecting a woman to accept the bare minimum from a man. Funny enough a man would never allow a woman who’s working hard to do the same to him. Only when it suits a man he will give his woman time, that’s not how relationships work. Just stay single. Men like this are selfish but manage to have time to sex up a co-worker while your at home waiting on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:42 PM
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The delusional is strong in this one. If a man claims to be successful and attractive in his own words, why would the government need to step in ? Why should our taxes go to men who can’t attract a decent woman ? It’s not logical to support this , because the money should be well spent on community issues and not on losers feeling entitled to a wife. It’s obvious his character is a major turn off to women and he manages to repulse them. He’s quick to judge women in society, but not see that men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:31 PM
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“Men age like fine wine” and “women are attracted to a man with resources” is another way for men to control a woman’s attraction preferences. Men who think like this are competing against younger or more attractive men. It doesn’t matter how much money a man has, him dating younger women still looks out of place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:01 PM
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If women could step up during war and take over society when the men were away, staying single is nothing to us women !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:19 PM
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I’ve been seeing too many black men being proposed too , what’s up with that ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:49 PM
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When did men become offended about a woman having standards in dating ? Walking and coffee dates are for stingy men who try to meet alot of women in short about of time as possible. If a man isn’t putting the same effort a woman is in dating, he’s not for fit to be in a relationship with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:23 AM
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It’s an outdated concept for men to still try impress women with their resources. A successful career, world travels and owning resources is also a woman’s domain. A man who uses his resources does so to control the attraction narrative against women. Women also desire a man they find physically attractive. Men feel entitled to think they’re better than a man who’s perceived attractive to women (Taller, Handsome) and ignore a woman’s personal preferences in a man. For some reason you cannot tell…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:08 AM
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A lot of men are oblivious to the fact that a woman could be a high earner herself or come from a family who is wealthy 🤣 Being stingy on a date doesn’t prove a woman is a gold digger. A gold digger can only be one if the man allows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:52 AM
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In my hometown alot of 30+ try to be playboys but it never pans out. No one wants to deal with their multiple baby mamas, poorly ageing bodies from alcohol and drug abuse and emotional baggage. Men are delusional to think they can still compete with younger men for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:41 AM
1

So true. It’s like men pick and choose how they want to treat you. A decent date is acceptable and a man shouldn’t be bothered by a woman who wants that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:13 PM
2

That elastic band holding for dear life 🩲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:08 PM
6

Men love blaming the world for their problems. A man could be a jailbird, a multiple baby daddy, broke or a player and still think he’s high value! LVM will blame their dating problems Problems on feminism , instead of choosing better or being accountable for their own actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:03 PM
6

Walking dates are lazy and low effort. A man offering a woman a walking date is creating a false sense of intimacy, as the public may view them as a couple. Or that the man is showing off a woman. Walking dates are also dangerous . You never know what your date is capable of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 10:01 AM
8

I always thought that a walking date is lame. It creates a false intimacy, in that it perceives the public that you’re both an item already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 09:54 AM
18

I’m half brown and black myself. I totally agree with your sentiments. In the sporting world especially, brown men will date and use white women to compete with white men. As soon as the money dries up or hard times come , brown men get dumped then go back to brown women. Colour women are seen as the clean up woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 09:47 AM
3

Yes he would’ve been a legend alongside Tina
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 12:36 AM
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Men are the ones pursuing older women. Younger men going after older women will admire her for maturity, stability and life experiences. Older men target younger women through manipulation, coercion, gaslighting, controlling behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:54 AM
9

The sad part of the Ike and Tina legacy is tainted by his poor behaviour. As talented as both were, people only remember their train wreck of a relationship. Ike could have been a superstar legend along side Tina if only he treated her right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:34 AM
20

I believe a better chance of a successful relationship with a man from a different culture is if he is born and raised in the same country as you. Foreign men seeking western women is a status symbol for them. They want to show their family and friends how attractive they are in getting a western woman. If a man expresses the desire to leave his country with the help of marrying a foreign woman then that’s a red flag. Things to keep in mind dating a man from another culture • Do you both agree o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:50 PM
212

Dating apps are just tragic. Where I’m from it’s mainly men who like fishing and drinking all day long 😵‍💫. And they think having a bushy beard and a dad bod is a personality trait. The entitlement is too much. You got young single dads who want to dump their baggage on childless women. It’s super annoying that older men are lying and hitting up younger women. A majority of men on those apps expect a lot from a woman without giving much in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:23 PM
16

Yes this should be a worldwide movement. Women boycotting nightlife and watch the revenues of bars and clubs go down. This should force the nightclub industries to wake up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 04:03 PM
61

I’ve witnessed the Golden Penis Syndrome during my university days. Men’s egos would blow up so much because they all thought they were special and rare 😂 Just because women all go to university and college, it doesn’t mean that they all are going for men in the same campuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 03:46 PM
9

You always have to be vigilant about men, because the potential for then having secret children is so high! I hate the fact that men lie about having a kid then emotionally trapping you into accepting their baggage. Men have no shame in letting the new woman help them with their child support issues. Since this man became a teen dad , he knew his dating life suffered and alot of young women wouldn’t have accepted him and his daughter. A lot of men are still intimate with their baby mamas 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:04 AM
44

Come to think of it , maybe 2012 is where it all went downhill 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 07:48 AM
271

She’s spot on. Men cannot complain about being friend zoned if they make no effort to be romantic. If men offer bare minimum dates, then I think it’s justified for women to turn their attentions elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:42 AM
29

Sometimes giving a man a second chance is too much to put yourself through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 12:19 AM
20

Whoa 🤯 this is delusional. It goes to show that older men really think they can compete with younger men. Why would a young woman find a 40+ attractive when there’s so many younger more fitter men there ? For some men success doesn’t come with age. In those “20 years” a man in his 40s now has accumulated baggage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:13 AM
96

Exactly. It goes to show that older men really think they can compete with younger men for women 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:03 AM
92

your ex couldn’t find anyone like you. That and no one else can’t stand their shit 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 07:48 AM
6

Come to think of it, I’ve never met a gay man who didn’t take care of his body odour 😆 Blue collar men seem to have the worst body odour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:37 AM
3

I wish dating apps would use the technology that allows men to scan their height , weight and age accurately on their profiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:02 AM
58

Men always make analogy to cars. They refer to women in miles, value, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 04:19 PM
17

Yes indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:15 PM
42

Forensics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:08 AM
1

Trust if there’s a new spiking trend it usually spreads to other countries fast !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:12 AM
3

Contact a Women’s Resource Centre or a Women’s Health Department in your area. Would be a good idea to get into a support group too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:02 AM
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I find it annoying how a lot of men will sexualise Or look down on a woman a profession. A lot of their assumptions are pretentious. For example I worked at a Police station as a Admin assistant then did a Criminology course. I’ve had a few guys make disgusting statements about female ejaculation or assuming I’m into bad guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:57 AM
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As a woman , you can never be cautious enough! Make no apologies for protecting yourself , it’s a matter of life and death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 12:18 AM
2

This is normal in military towns, whether a soldier is engaged, married or has a girlfriend. It’s expected that a soldier in a relationship if you stationed overseas will eventually end up in a foreign strip club. Seems more exploitive and power tripping if you ask me. Women going to see male strippers is more of a stress reliever and light hearted fun. More entertaining and high energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:18 PM
13

He has nothing to offer except a boring personality. I bet he has a lot of baggage he just wants to dump on a poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 01:16 AM
2

Yes that’s correct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:55 AM
33

Coffee dates are for men who try to meet a lot of women in a short amount of time without spending too much effort. Men will claim to try weed out “gold diggers” by offering coffee dates. But men don’t realise that coffee dates aren’t romantic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 08:04 AM
30

I used to date a military guy, and he knew I cooked. He once invited me out to the base and assumed I would cook BBQ for him and his buddies ! When a guy asks do you cook, he’s finding out what you can do for him. He should be offering to help you cook or you both cook together! In a lot of cultures it’s actually the men who cook big feasts for family or cultural events.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:51 AM
35

A maid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 06:35 AM
12

Let the 18-30 year old women enjoy their youth and be paired up with men their own age. Breeding with a 51 year old man is too risky and he has a lot of baggage he wants to dump on a poor young woman. He’s delusional to think he’s viable enough to breed with at his age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:05 AM
3

Long as your honest with him he should accept it. If it’s meant to be, everything will work out. If you feel you want to keep your options open then you should do that. I think it’s fair to encourage him to also keep his options open too. I’m a believer that doing this also takes pressure off you both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:41 AM
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Your first reaction about someone is usually the correct one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:28 AM
9

Poor darling she didn’t deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 11:34 AM
37

A walk ? Are we dogs now ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 07:58 AM
2

A man’s baggage becomes your baggage (if you Allow it ) 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:42 PM
6

For women it’s usually the first reaction is the correct one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:33 PM
22

From observation I’ve notice this. Abba & Preach attract a lot of red-pilled / Incel commentators on their channel. My impression is they are smart but a lot of their content is the expense of women. Culturally and socially black men (most times) don’t have healthy mindsets about their own women. From my perspective they subtly criticise women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:31 PM
6

He’s implying that he is the prize 😂 Its quite obvious that he has a lot of baggage to bring to a relationship and is wondering what poor woman is going to tolerate his bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:09 PM
33

You’re right. I tried Tinder and a lot of the men in their 30s and 40s are falling apart. Bad skin, beer bellies , balding , over weight. No idea how they would think younger women would be interested in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:42 PM
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The thing is 18-26 year olds aren’t interested in him. What does a nearly 40 year old man have anything in common with young women? A lot of older men online are delusional to think they can compete with younger more attractive men. These men want attractive women but aren’t attractive themselves. Student at Self Employed? So he’s an unemployed student ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:55 PM
56

Yes about Americans. Here in Australia our local soldiers and sailors are way taller than the US military types stationed here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:20 PM
5

Men who think like this love to drag you down with their baggage. It’s weird that a man is bothered that a woman has a life outside him. If a man doesn’t see your values , is he worth keeping around ? A career gives stability and financial freedom. Family and friends are worth your time. A pet is appreciative of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:17 PM
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So true. Bartenders love flirting with younger women and usually lie about being in a relationship as their job requires being single as appealing. Also a lot of bartenders are undercover drug dealers to supplement their income.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:52 PM
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Ghosting is the best way to protect yourself. If you were to reject a man face to face or explain yourself you possibly can be in danger. End of the day you don’t owe anyone an explanation. Women ghost for legitimate reasons. Whether someone is toxic , judgement, manipulative or bullying you - they are good reasons to stop communicating. Also if you are ghosting someone make sure you have safety precautions in place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:30 PM
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I feel your pain. I’m half Japanese and Latina. I get so offended when men assume I’m a maid and cook. Or the worst they have preconceived notions that Latinas are sexually available. Gotta be careful with fetishism and how it effects us women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:17 PM
33

Any ethnic woman of any demographic, men will always try to make porn off it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:07 PM
3

A lot of chefs have an unhealthy relationship with food too. Their profession triggers eating disorders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:17 AM
5

I worked at police station while living in a military town and yes I advise women to avoid them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:11 AM
11

I noticed a lot of comedians use embarrassing ex girlfriend stories for entertainment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:10 AM
1

I worked in Human Resources at a police station. Cops worked mostly unsupervised for hours , enough time to conduct extra marital affairs most times with female work colleagues. It was common to hear a male cop divorcing or on his 2nd or 3rd marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:03 AM
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12 at night ? That’s when his other woman is asleep 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:54 AM
20

These men need to go hire you know what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:35 AM
12

My experience dating a chef was that his relationship with food was unhealthy. He gained a lot of weight. Also trying to go out to a restaurant is a nightmare as chefs are picky about other chefs food .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:43 AM
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Facts. I worked in admin for a police department (Human Resources) and can confirm never date a cop ! They’re on a huge power trip. Many officers go for hours unsupervised and many juggle multiple relationships or cheat on their spouses. As for military they are high risk. They don’t trust women in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 11:05 PM
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Yes I live in a mining town. A lot of miners consume sex workers on their downtime and many are sexist. A lot can be highly abusive in relationships and abuse drugs and alcohol. Don’t bother being in a long distance relationship with them because they’ll accuse you of cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:41 PM
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I avoid men with these professions ; Male Strippers - insecure, jealousy Military - psychos , unstable, high stress Miners - mood swings, drug and alcohol users Chefs - arrogant , lonely Musicians - drug users, cheating , complicated Doctors - God Complex Lawyers - narcissists Pilots - cheaters , sexist Cops - abusive, high domestic violence rates Body Builders - aggressive , egotistical Athletes - cheaters, egotistical, Bus Drivers - cheaters, Mechanics - likely has a criminal record Actors - l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:31 AM
27

Speak with a lawyer about setting up a Trust fund.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:07 AM
36

It amazes me that men have all this time to text all day and night instead of doing something productive. It’s a lack of respect for someone’s time and very entitled to demand their attention. I had a guy once told me I was a “snob”. I told him I didn’t owe him anything and that he should talks to friends to dump his baggage on. When I had to work, study or travel I made sure my focus was on myself. I didn’t need to waste my time on mindless texting someone who manages to find themselves bored a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 06:19 AM
22

We are only ugly when it’s convenient 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:50 AM
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I could’ve sworn I’ve seen guys swiping away on their phones while their date went to The bathroom 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 03:48 AM
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Just from my experience, don’t state your dislikes in a partner on your profile. Especially if you don’t want a divorced / single dads, because men won’t mention their kids up front.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:38 PM
1

No surprises 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:25 PM
3

They use biology as an excuse but never a logical conclusion. No matter how many women a man can get, he’s not emotionally or mature enough to handle the stress, broken homes and angry exes in his path. Men like this end up financially depleted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:53 AM
2

I’m from Australia and lived near a refugee detention centre before the government started processing refugees offshore (nearby islands). It’s no surprise that I hear condoms are a priority over women accessing feminine hygiene products in detention. The male refugees are sadistic horn dogs. If they aren’t damaging facilities they are rioting or sexually assaulting locals ! I believe young male refugees should not be taken in as they cause too many problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:46 AM
2

New Zealand doesn’t really have a good reputation for finding good quality men. The guys from NZ are handsome but a majority are violent and offer nothing to a relationship. A lot of NZ guys are smart asses too. They can come off rude and disrespectful. I bet you anything a lot of those guys are hiding their multiple kids 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:26 AM
4

I’m from an indigenous culture that traditionally has men having two wives or multiple girlfriends. Surprise surprise these men can’t even keep one woman what would make them think they can keep many. These men are creating drama and broken homes bringing in women and children into their baggage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 09:15 AM
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Seems like speed dating has low success rates. According to a lot of women the men aren’t attractive enough or just not enough chemistry to ever work out. A local bar near me hosted a speed dating event and took pics for their Facebook page. It looked so awkward. Too many older men who were obese and bald were being paired up with younger women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:57 AM
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Men in their 30s claim they get better with age and have more money or look better then women in the same age group. These men don’t realise they bring baggage and can’t compete with younger men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:42 AM
10

Not surprised 🤭😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:24 AM
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I’m assuming he’s had a sidechick That doesn’t want him anymore , this was his last resort 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 09:21 AM
35

He’s obviously trying to meet as many women as possible with the least effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:57 AM
10

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:19 AM
70

Dick is all some have to offer 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:21 PM
536

Some fathers have this ability to put their first wives and children through hell and yet feel Entitled to a fresh start with the new woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:16 PM
109

Ugh I remember videos like these would end up on Funniest Home Videos 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 08:49 PM
200

Women are never left alone in society. We find happiness in our own spaces. Men project their Loneliness because they feel insecure with all that time on their hands. Lonely men will always say they are bored, but you barely hear a woman say that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:11 PM
4

Indeed, it’s amazing what we tolerate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 02:22 PM
5

I’m from a small town in Australia, and the local pub / bar next to my workplace started loosing business due to men’s poor hygiene standards. Alot of blue collar men would never refresh themselves and stink up the place. The complaints weren’t taken seriously until Women started going to the gay nightclubs 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:13 AM
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I feel your pain. I’m from a small town in Australia, and the men are handsome but make no effort in their appearance. It’s usually bushy beards , no perfume , smelly breath types 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 11:01 AM
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I’m from Australia too and it’s getting worse in my town 😫 The local pub had to refuse a lot Of men because they stunk the place up because they refused to change after work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:58 AM
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This is common growing up in military towns. Couples get engaged and married young and end up divorced early or mid 20s. By their 30s all that baggage they accumulated isn’t attractive in the dating world. The smart ones didn’t marry young and travelled the world building a career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:52 AM
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Im from a small military and mining town and the domestic rates are super high here ! Women shelters and refuge centres are always packed out. A lot of women prefer to be single , yet the men assume a woman’s standards are high because she’s “crazy” 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 10:36 AM
12

Some men will just want to dump Their baggage and blame the world for their problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:58 AM
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I worked in Human Resources at a police station. A lot of mechanics are known to have lengthy criminal history records.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:30 PM
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Goes to show that certain men will still be on the hunt even during a relationship. This is the result of settling down too early before you’re ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:15 PM
65

High risk low reward 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:40 AM
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If single dad‘s claim to be high value why do they still hide their kids? 😵‍💫🤣 A man cannot justify lying about his kids or being a deadbeat to a woman and expecting her to accept that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:34 AM
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As a childless woman I’ve come across so many profiles of single dads targeting successful childfree women especially on Tinder 🤣 These types of single dads are delusional. They expect too much from women yet offer little in return. Single dads need to stay single. This guy needs to stop looking for a new women and maybe work it out with one of his baby mamas. No childless woman needs his baggage at all. At 39 with 4 small children he can’t be so demanding of women, because in reality his dating…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:59 AM
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Check out any organisations or agencies in your country that may have a scheme for checking a man’s criminal history past. A lot of countries have a Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:42 AM
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A current affair in Australia know how to run criminal history checks with their own private investigators. it may also help if you have friends or acquaintances that work in the court system. Have you ever heard of Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme? This allows second and third parties to do background checks on a loved ones partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:32 AM
12

Our mothers and grandmothers would never have accepted such dates in their younger days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 03:36 AM
18

Yeah I’ve got a message from him but I blocked it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 05:33 PM
137

I’m from a town in Australia that always hosts young backpackers from overseas. Even though a lot of male backpackers are very attractive a majority work unstable jobs and live in a van or hostels. It always amazes me how some local women can quickly move in these guys into their homes. I once had a French backpacker ask me out then he wanted to know if I had a backyard so he could camp there 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 04:38 PM
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I worked in admin at a police station. The one thing Police women taught young girls in schools is to never be put in a situation where you’re isolated. If someone is disabled / blind and needs you’re help, just simply tell them you will get a security guard or an ambulance and see their reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:53 AM
17

I find it strange how LVM complain over a dinner date yet have no issues shouting their boys and paying for a bar tab 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 03:50 AM
19

Tell me about it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:08 AM
52

It’s like exes have a sixth sense when you’ve moved on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:06 AM
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I’ve seen this so many times on YouTube. A single mom “Should have chose better” meanwhile a single dads can do no wrong. No matter how much baggage or drama a man creates other men co-sign that behaviour and blame women. The worst is when men protect their low value friends knowing damn well they aren’t relationship material but continue to claim women are crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:04 AM
2

If you pay attention to their profiles , those guys still stay in the same dating apps way past the date they claimed to be leaving town 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:33 AM
2

Goes to show how delusional they are 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:27 AM
63

Soon as they dump their emotional baggage onto you with their sob stories it’s time To cut them Off Quick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 05:10 AM
106

There should be a technology that alerts you if someone uses your face for catfishing or revenge porn. It’s unbelievable that deep fakes can be created but not software to reverse image movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:36 AM
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That’s amazing and happy to hear that too. I’m not surprised that guys act that way. I just had a dusty guy who messaged me about my comment calling women crazy and delusional. Seems like some guys are easily triggered by successful women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:28 AM
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The problem with a lot of men in their 30s , is that they feel they need to punish women for surpassing them in achievements. The need to date a younger woman with less life experience tells you all you need to know. Don’t worry about your age keep in mind that women are always being approached and have a lot of options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:31 AM
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The scary part is , you can’t reverse image a movie with today’s current technology like you could with a photo. If this was available this would make it so much easier for you to prove yourself,If you were to become a victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 02:06 AM
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Low effort dates are a way for men to meet as many women as possible in a short amount of time. It’s not a woman’s duty to be a tour guide for a man on a dating site. That’s what hiring tour services is for 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:52 AM
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What’s up with bodybuilders? Seems like they love the attention from both men and women. Their ego is unbelievable yet so fragile. One local body builder in my town made a fool out of himself. Even him being attractive, he still managed to turn off single women 😂 This was because he was caught on Grindr and if you looked closely at his Instagram followers most were Transwomen. I used to be his friend. One day I asked him about a Grindr watermark on one of his pics and his response was he admitte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:37 AM
6

Indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:29 AM
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I’m a childless woman with goals and dreams in life, that doesn’t date men with kids. My standards I set for myself is to protect myself. I’m from a town where teen pregnancy and having multiple baby mamas and daddies is the norm. I don’t want the drama and baggage that comes along with that lifestyle. Often single dads will guilt trip childless women because of their past mistakes in relationships and they wish they could turn back time. Sometimes when you have standards people maybe be jealous…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:29 PM
14

Dick pics are a form of sexism and narcissism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:17 PM
61

Imagine if pedophiles got a hold of this 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 06:46 PM
1

Send him back to the streets 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:25 AM
4

I’ve dealt with an ex lover who used to think it was entertaining to try to pull my self esteem down. Not long after we split he married a new woman. Two years later, he messaged me to confide his wife ran away back to Korea and left their daughter behind 😯. He also told Me he was into heavy drinking and recreational drugs 😵‍💫. This post is so true ladies. I’ve had the last last laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:20 AM
11

No effort no reward. Once a week for a 4 months is not enough. It’s better for you to talk to other guys and keep going on dates, seeing as your not committed to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:40 AM
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It doesn’t matter how much ageing, baggage or delusional men get they still think they are high value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:23 AM
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On Facebook I messaged a high-school friend to inform him our classmate had died in a car accident. He thought it was perfectly fine , to invite me to his house while his fiancé was out of town 🤯 You know to “get to know me better”. He was never invited to the funeral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:48 PM
2

Activity dates are better reserved if you both have things in common and know each others physical abilities and boundaries. A lot of activity dates suggested by men are done so that they can show off to their dates 😂 Or a good excuse for their friends to tag along. Too many stories of people on dates getting injured or stranded in awkward situations because the activity date was too extreme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:27 PM
46

Intense staring is a form of manipulation to test your response. It creates a false sense of attraction and seduction. A woman should always keep her feelings in check and never dismiss if it feels too intense. Intense staring is like a non verbal version of gaslighting behaviour. Perpetrators of domestic violence relationships use intense staring to control and intimidate their victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:47 PM
13

Too many single men online want everything but nothing to offer to women. They have no shame stating they don’t want a relationship with women but expect your vagina on demand. Run away as fast you can from single men who tell you sob stories about their past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:15 PM
31

Yes indeed. Endless texting is low effort. A guy should know what he’s after. If he’s texting too much I simply don’t respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:57 AM
88

His ex girlfriend even said he was mentally ill 😳 yikes !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:49 AM
168

Back in 2009 when I was on vacation in Hawaii, I saw Jon Gosselin by himself at Waikiki chatting up young women at the beach and loving the attention (few months before he divorced). He’s totally different from what he portrays on tv. I remember his ex girlfriend saying he was mentally ill. Most of his relationships are drama filled. I’m starting think that his ex wife Kate had her reasons for behaving the way she does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:48 AM
81

I remind men that there’s a lot of eligible and more attractive men out here to snap them out of their delusional thinking 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:39 AM
3

It’s perfectly fine to step away from dating. A lot of men out here have nothing to offer, yet demand women have certain qualities that they themselves don’t have 🤣 I’m feel confident and satisfied for everything I’ve achieved, and self-care is top priority. I don’t feel I’m missing out on dating because of the lack of morals, common sense and quality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 06:37 AM
1

Irony ? More like fact. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 08:38 PM
9

Most guys will tell on themselves, you gotta just read between the lines 😵‍💫 Never fall for guys who tell sob stories on a date. Most times there’s a good reason why their ex left them. No ones baggage should make you feel depressed on a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:59 PM
31

My grandmother and mum always told me about the romantic dinner dates they went out on in their younger years. Why should I settle for less? Men who offer coffee as a date want maximum results with the least amount of effort. Dating is an investment. What smart woman out here would waste her time and effort getting dressed and driving / Uber her way for a cheap cup of coffee? I’ve never been on a coffee date with a man and don’t entertain men who offer. I quickly block and delete them. It tells …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 09:10 PM
7

Most logical thinking I’ve ever heard about choosing who we date 🙂 I love the analogy! Go for gold , set standards , choose the right qualifier , don’t accept bad behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:41 PM
6

Indeed ! Unfortunately this happens too often, thank god some waiters and waitresses are understanding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:00 PM
22

Oh lord 😂 A lot of men feel entitled to a woman’s time and body without little effort or incentive for a relationship. A lot of men exhibit low value behaviour and you wonder why they get friend-zoned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 04:36 AM
17

Men are always worried about money they don’t have 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 12:11 PM
173

Men only think that biological preferences only matters to them. Women also have biological desires. A tall attractive man gets the heart racing 😍 Men need to get over the fact that they cannot control what a woman finds attractive. Don’t be bullied into dating someone who doesn’t respect your preferences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:56 AM
53

You read my mind. Men can openly discriminate on a woman’s weight, height, career, makeup preferences etc. But as soon as a woman mentions her preferences for height in a man we are the bad ones!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:45 AM
67

I’m a tall woman and proud of my height 🙂 I don’t date short men because in the past shorter men showed their insecurities too often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:43 AM
95

Sometimes the abuse doesn’t stop when you’re broken up. Exes still think they can control you and drain the life force out of you if you let them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:38 AM
2

Despite being the grammar police you haven’t articulated yourself very well. 🤣 I haven’t told one lie in my comments and a few have agreed with me. I can sense anger towards women in your comments. Hmmm…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:32 AM
2

Most women don’t have careers and don’t get pleasure ? Or do you mean the women in your family don’t have careers ? A lot of men show desperation online towards women (sexual harassment, dick pics , vulgar language etc) and nothing to offer most women. Confession by projection ? Ummm you’re not a woman you admitted it yourself. Perhaps your own failing in relationships is why my post triggered you much ? 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:17 AM
2

I personally don’t mind my Facebook friends list as long they’re respectful and I like them. With Facebook its good to have standards and you don’t owe anyone a thing with Facebook. It’s smart to protect yourself online from people who don’t have your best interests. I generally don’t add exes, work colleagues, toxic family and friends or randoms. I also don’t display my dating life or relationships until they are serious on Facebook. Also I don’t indulge people messaging me trying to find out a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:48 AM
13

Women aren’t picking a man-child, men reveal their true character in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 06:00 AM
0

Single women who are happy single are usually financially stable so that throws your theory out the window 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:59 AM
1

The problem is all men think they’re high value no matter how much baggage and drama they bring to the table 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:57 AM
16

You’re smart ! Most of my married friends settled down very young and don’t seem happy. Women are happy single when we are financially stable and have a strong family and friendship support. Men bring nothing but headaches and stress to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:56 AM
5

Better to be happy and single then tolerate a bad relationship. Women generally are happier when they are financially stable and have great family and friends. Women have no issues landing a man and always have options with men. Men generally cause stress to women with their time wasting antics. Men will dump their emotional baggage on women and mostly cheat and lie. Healthy relationships aren’t there much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:52 AM
9

Yep ! If they aren’t dumping their emotional baggage on you they’re cheating or manipulating you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:48 AM
85

Better to be happy and single then be miserable with another human being 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:46 AM
25

If boys are a distraction in high-school they still are in college and University! Staying single during your studies is the best logical decision a young woman can make. Your focus, time and dedication is the best investment a young woman can do for herself. Don’t let dusty’s distract you with their time wasting tactics. It’s unbelievable that men feel like they can disrespect you while you’re on your way to getting higher education and build a career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:36 AM
25

Every woman dreams of having a romantic proposal. Deep down we all know she’s disappointed. 18 years invested and you get a piece of crumbled paper on international tv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:02 PM
9

Is that also the reason why a lot of older men lie about their age on dating apps ? 😂🤣😂 What power shift ? These older men really think they can compete with younger men and older women? Women don’t have issues being approached by men all the time , younger men are desired by younger women. Older men hang their insecurities and baggage on everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:30 AM
7

Right. Women don’t have problems attracting men as we get older unlike men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:54 AM
19

Don’t forget older men who are stubborn, boring and come with lots of baggage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:29 AM
4

It’s obvious, women in his age group have surpassed him and don’t tolerate his bullshit. Stuck in their ways means women his age have standards that he can’t meet. It’s obvious this man has not learned from his mistakes with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:18 AM
17

You’re right. I’m from Australia and a lot of our men especially blue collar workers have poor hygiene. I once dated a US Marine who was Latino and despite the hot weather in Australia, I loved the fact he stayed clean and smelled good all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:32 AM
4

This is common in Australia. Despite having access to mouth wash, deodorants and body wash men in my town (not all) are lazy. Some Of the local women complain about men approaching them with smelly shoes and stink breaths in bars and clubs 🤣🤢. One pub in my town even advertised in the newspapers that they would not accept unhygienic blue collar workers who don’t shower before they step in the club, this was after other patrons were complaining the strong smell from those men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 01:30 AM
21

In my culture we believe if a man has a lot of daughters or has beautiful ones , it means the man was a player in his younger days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:28 PM
28

Tinder surprises me everyday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 05:36 AM
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Goes to show that even married men are still looking for the next best thing 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:27 PM
3

You’re right. In fact no man thinks of himself as low value no matter how many kids he has or how he looks. There’s a lot of delusional men who still think they can get with young attractive childless women , when in fact those women have lots of choices😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:11 PM
4

Of course women don’t if the kids mother is already around what’s the point ? Step moms most times are unpaid babysitters and maids to their husbands kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:07 PM
6

Childless women usually prefer to date men childfree men as first choice. Dealing with a single divorced dads baggage is not easy and many Childless women vow never to date them Again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 01:02 PM
8

There’s too many of those on dating apps 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:30 PM
6

They have nothing to offer. Most are useless to even waste your time on. If they don’t know what they want it usually means they aren’t fit to be taken seriously and most women would disregard their profiles without a second look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:27 PM
10

Amen. These men have accumulated baggage and played many good women before and it’s pitiful and hard to feel sympathy for these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:25 PM
7

Men like this are delusional and have already passed up a great woman somewhere in his past. What gets me is men who are baby daddies, divorcees and former playboys still competing against younger or high value men for younger or successful women 🤣😂. Even the married men on dating apps are still searching for the love of their life 🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:04 PM
1

I’m a childless woman and I prefer to settle down with a child free man. I want to start a family on a fresh page and be a priority. Dating a single dad is setting me back from achieving my goals and dreams. I’ve never had problem with kids , it was always the ex that caused problems. Also dating a single dad his time and resources are limited. Many single dads don’t want to have more kids so where does that leave a woman want to have her own kids ? Single parents are more suited for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 03:49 PM
51

Sounds like almost every man on a dating app! Nothing to offer but their dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:37 AM
7

True. I’m from Australia and live near a joint US & Australian military base. The military guys some are ok for dating the rest I wouldn’t consider - a lot of them got a kick out of local women checking them out which causes fights amongst the local men. High rates of divorce, out of wedlock babies in other countries, anti- social behaviour and cheating and domestic violence is all too common in military towns. I remember working as assistant in a police department , the policemen I noticed were…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:36 AM
35

Daughters are pseudo parents to their own siblings in a lot of cases. Unpaid chefs, maids, and babysitters. This is very common in conservative cultures especially. I remember my best friend who’s since passed away, was from A large family of 13 along with her sisters took care of the house and siblings. Meanwhile her brothers were always out partying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:20 AM
18

Many guys these days have this backwards attitude that taking a woman on a decent date that doesn’t involve coffee or Netflix , means that a woman is a gold digger. I’ve heard guys say a cheap date is test to a woman’s true character 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:07 PM
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