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| 14 | How to spot a Deadbeat DadBeware that he could lie about this. It's easy for guys to push the narrative of "oh I've tried but my evil ex keeps my kids from me" card. Now, if he's not continuing to petition the courts that'll be easy to spot, but if he's truly in that situation he probably isn't focusing on dating to begin with. Court cases are public record in Florida, I was able to dig up my father's divorce papers from his first marriage in the 80s. This is a unique trait of Florida though. Not sure what the laws are l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 04:07 AM |
| 26 | I met a guy who said he’s poly but his girlfriend isn’t. Is this really a thing?There is a strong chance he's lying and she has no idea what he's up to. This is very common in the poly community, as much as they don't like to admit it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 03:35 AM |
| 42 | What Are The Signs Of Porn-Sick Men?Sending dick pics. First, it implies his assumption that you want to see it and it will evoke a positive response in you. This is an assumption reinforced by porn, in which a common plot is "I'll show her my dick somehow and she'll immediately want to have sex with me!" Second, if you're unlucky enough to receive such a pic you'll usually notice something interesting about the pick. He'll either need to rest it on the bathroom counter or prop it up with a soda can/another object for "size refere… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 01:59 AM |
| 303 | Had a guy lose interest because I told him I do not like to partyThey don't want wife material, that's the point. They want to fuck around while convincing themselves they have no other option because the "modern woman" isn't worthy of their love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 11:27 AM |
| 157 | The Pickme Paradox.Also notice how it's "empowering" for men to buy your nudes yet evil for us to want men to pay for the dates they invite us on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 12:13 AM |
| 102 | I didn’t listen to FDS, I got hurt.I understand where you were at that point in time because I've been there before. I nearly got myself in very dangerous situations because I was so intent to lose my virginity soon. FDS advice gets a bad reputation for being heartless or mean to men, but you've seen it comes from a place of self-preservation. Where was his concern for you? At the end of the day, we are the only ones truly looking out for ourselves. I'm glad you got out of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 11:55 PM |
| 63 | Can we stop calling them fuck boys and move forward to the simple and subhuman title of skank?Well guys have no problem attaching the skank label to promiscuous women. I'm okay with it. Welcome to equality, boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 02:26 AM |
| 287 | If I have to see y’all dog women out under the guise of levelling up one more time…A lot of us were in the place of these pickme women at one point in our lives. Empathy is a HV trait. A lot of these posts sound like the same pickme mentality seeking validation from a new audience. If you find yourself putting down other women to make yourself an more leveled up, you have more leveling up to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 02:14 AM |
| 31 | Gross how pornsick men can infiltrate non sexual parts of the internet (my yoga video disaster)Did he put a price tag on it? 🤣 Guarantee the price was inflated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:59 AM |
| 30 | Gross how pornsick men can infiltrate non sexual parts of the internet (my yoga video disaster)They get off on the nonconsensual aspect. Like you said, there's so much sexual content on the internet and they go for your yogo channel instead. They continued knowing full well you weren't happy about it. They WANT you to be uncomfortable. They're at the point of pornsickness that mainstream porn doesn't do it for them because the women depicted are willing. I'm sorry this happened to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:58 AM |
| 19 | MiSaNdRy Only Exist When Women Are Able To Control A Misogynic NarrativeReasons why I've been accused of misandry: -Not liking the resolution to a reddit advice post, where a man coerced his partner into aggressive anal sex and dumped her. -Not liking the porn industry. -Starting a subreddit about bad messages on dating sites. -Encouraging women to have boundaries. The patten here: Men are entitled to complete and unrestricted freedom in their dating and sex lives, even at the expense of women. To believe in any kind of restrictions, courtesy, or restraint is mIsAnD… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 11:16 PM |
| 14 | "Not all men" and intentional trauma triggers"I'm not one of those guys who beat women for no reason," as if their battery was justifiable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 11:10 PM |
| 466 | Another reason why you shouldn’t use dating apps: your photos can be used without your consent.Alternatively, this could've been a guy all along LARPing as a "crazy" woman. Guys love to make accounts like that and seek approval from other men. I'm sorry that happened to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 04:32 AM |
| 148 | Such an Important Idea. Stop accepting " I suck"My ex would say this on one of his many drunken benders. Eventually I got tired of his pity party and agreed with him. Then asked him what he was going to do about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 01:40 AM |
| 6 | OLD horror story... details in comments#1 is on point. I had an old fling come back more than once insisting he wanted to be "friends" and getting mad when I called him out. This was despite being shitty to me when we had the fling, constantly making last minute plans only to stand me up. The moment I stopped giving him attention when he surfaced, he slinked away. It's been at least 5 years since the last time I heard from him, so he's either given up or the drugs got him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:48 AM |
| 9 | OLD horror story... details in commentsSo apparently unmatching is now playing hard to get? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:46 AM |
| 14 | Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick meSure, but when it comes to my partner doing nice things to make me happy suddenly I'm not "entitled" to anything and he doesn't "owe" me shit. So much for 50/50. I didn't mind doing these little things for partners when they did nice things for me. Once they got complacent, it was a problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 04:09 PM |
| 132 | A New Vetting Strategy???Don't offer to be friends with guys who hit on you. 9/10 they can't handle that boundary and see your relationship as an obstacle to be overcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:45 AM |
| 10 | I don’t think what Will did was the best course of action or way to defend Jada. However I’m disturbed by the amount of people who antagonize her as a cheater; considering both of them agreed on an open marriage and have admitted they both have seen other people. They only praise woman who ‘stay’.This whole mess reminds me of my own open relationship experience. Years ago, I was in a FWB situationship with a friend. At some point he and his partner had a room available for rent and I wanted to move out of my family's house, so I took it. Then a while after that I met my recent ex. So I was in a relationship with one guy while having a roommate FWB. Both insisted they were fine with and happy with the relationship, but would proceed to be passive-aggressive toward me and hostile to each o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 09:42 PM |
| 492 | A post titled “would you date a porn star” on a popular men’s sub reddit"Send nudes" "Sex work is empowering, you should try it once you're 18!" "LOL I would never date a sex worker" "The modern woman is undateable, guess I'll be single forever." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 07:08 PM |
| 104 | He resents his wife because his ex texted himSo he couldn't make a single decision for himself and it's his wife's fault? Where's that aGeNcY men like to insist women have? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 06:59 PM |
| 40 | Bill Maher: Men are selfish pussies because feminist women made them that way!!!!!Notice how men's behavioral changes are all because of women, but when women talk about the behaviors we do to find partners, keep partners, make partners happy, not get beaten to death, and so forth suddenly we "lack agency." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 03:00 AM |
| 46 | getting closer to true 50/50 so he can also take a pill, men wanted 50/50 soSo not 50/50 because they'll never get pregnant or have any other physical consequences from sex. Even cons support is no detent, they can quit their jobs and mooch off someone else just to spite a kid they don't want or leverage the child to control mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:49 AM |
| 176 | Why “safewording” is not as safe as the kink community paints it to be. 💔 ‘consent’ here really doesn’t mean much when it comes to trying to claim it isn’t abuse. There’s an unhealthy power dynamic where the ‘sub’ feels like they cannot deny their ‘dom’ of pleasure through being put through torture.Don't worry, she can totally use a safe word with her head shoved under water. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:30 AM |
| 159 | Why “safewording” is not as safe as the kink community paints it to be. 💔 ‘consent’ here really doesn’t mean much when it comes to trying to claim it isn’t abuse. There’s an unhealthy power dynamic where the ‘sub’ feels like they cannot deny their ‘dom’ of pleasure through being put through torture.The number of "dominant" men who liked to punish their subs for using safe words when I was on that world was TOO DAMN HIGH. But it's okay because that was their kink, and we all know ones behavior is above criticism when we call it a kink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:30 AM |
| 16 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!Total porn addict. I imagine him insisting to his partner that it doesn't count as porn because it's a selling app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 09:02 AM |
| 22 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!My friend's now-ex partner lived to follow porn star pages and comment on them. He made one comment that he wished a specific porn star would be his girlfriend. This was on Facebook, where such comments frequently go to your friends' feeds. My friend replied to him ☠️ He barely worked and she paid all the bills, he spent his time playing video games and watching porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 09:00 AM |
| 190 | And I guarantee you men still won’t take the initiative for birth control, and put the onus on us.I read somewhere that men are less willing to put up with BC side effects because they don't have pregnancy as a consequence to weigh them against. It all makes sense now. Shame they can't see this as an alternative to being "baby trapped" and crying for "financial abortions." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 01:39 AM |
| 84 | Reading reviews for “Secrets of Playboy” is depressingly sobering for me. It’s a reminder that although some of society is on our side, so many lvm & pick-me’s still exist to victim blame/gaslight/further perpetuate the patriarchy. Why are evil dead men exempt from criticism? Hugh can burn in Hell.If these women had such a great deal, why don't these guys try it? Surely living rent free in a mansion with a big allowance and surgery paid for is enough to make up for regular abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 01:06 PM |
| 11 | Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people".Not all raccoons have rabies, but people avoid them all the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 02:27 AM |
| 64 | Why I DON’T EXPLAIN. On boundaries, disappointment, and self-shielding: You don’t have to explain to an emotionally abusive man why he isn’t allowed to hurt you anymore.Here's my simple guide to determining whether a boundary is something you need to explain. Do YOU need to be told not to do XYZ to someone else? Do you need it spelled out in exhaustingly simple terms on multiple occasions in hopes that you might finally understand? If no, you can rest assured your partner doesn't either because he is an adult at your level of intelligence. If women can learn how not to upset people without a dissertation, so can men. They're the logical sex, after all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 01:00 PM |
| 31 | Ok what is up with this man and sleeping hats?I now suspect they resent that she's putting in the effort because it's a reminder that they to could look better with some effort in their own appearance. It ruins the narrative that certain people are just naturally model-level attractive and they're ugly because genetics. Now they might be expected to do something about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 12:56 PM |
| 180 | Ok what is up with this man and sleeping hats?I remember this one! What is it with dudes wanting their partners to look good but resenting them for putting in the effort? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 02:27 AM |
| 144 | Foreplay is a chore? Nah babe, this man is a chore!"Don't worry though, I still want to put in that effort... just with literally every woman but you." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Men will be men... For them any woman who wants to be treated with respect is a phycho bitchI'd bet good money he got booted after one comment trying to say something crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 02:05 AM |
| 485 | When rape so normalised that girls joke about it happening to themStick a finger up his ass and you'll learn real quick that he understands consent just fine. (I wonder how many lurkers will report this for "threatening violence" with no sense of irony) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 02:53 AM |
| 18 | I sincerely hope the first TikTok here is not a real story. Had to attach some radfem clips at the end to cleanse my soul. When I was 14, I thought the way she did too. But I won’t let any libfem propaganda gaslight me any more about how the cycles of sexual re-traumatization are somehow feminist. 🥴I know what you mean. I don't want sex work to stay criminalized because I don't want to see women imprisoned for trying to secure food and shelter. But the whole sex industry is disgusting and those who pretend it's a fun way for women to be independent and empowered need a firm kick back to reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:42 AM |
| 17 | I sincerely hope the first TikTok here is not a real story. Had to attach some radfem clips at the end to cleanse my soul. When I was 14, I thought the way she did too. But I won’t let any libfem propaganda gaslight me any more about how the cycles of sexual re-traumatization are somehow feminist. 🥴I recently had a young woman retort "I literally work in porn but I guess I don't know what I'm talking about" after she tried to post in an anti-porn sub that I run and she got banned. The whole industry is rotten and these "independent boss babes" are just propping up predators but they're also only thinking about themselves and their wallets, so it's pointless to explain things to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:39 AM |
| 271 | Yes, you are. 💋Ladies, take notes. This is apparently how we're supposed to treat our partners when we suspect they are depressed. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 02:44 AM |
| 240 | I matched with a man on OLD and posted his ass on the local Facebook group for his gf to findYeah, that's very common in fetish groups. Guys feel entitled to explore their pornsick fantasies, but their partners aren't interested. So they get their "needs" meet elsewhere without blowing up the benefits their vanilla relationship still provides. Alternatively, they don't want to inflict their kinks on their vanilla partner because they know it's degrading and want to choose a woman they see as already tainted. I suspect this guy was among the latter, as the former like to talk about how t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 02:12 AM |
| 238 | The whole unmitigated audacity of this scrote. 🤢 I am so glad sis leveled up, adjusted her crown and LEFT.Why is he complaining? He wanted his freedom and got it. These boys need to stop crying about the consequences of their actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 02:57 AM |
| 11 | A joke eh?Equality means women have to do things. Get with the program. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 02:53 AM |
| 110 | This review for an odor removing laundry detergent….what the heck is wrong with your husbands health that led to this review????Ok but what detergent is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 05:31 PM |
| 36 | The Two Income HouseholdClearly they need a second job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 10:31 PM |
| 19 | The Two Income HouseholdI'm looking forward to seeing the dudes rage in all the other subs that crosspost from here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 10:31 PM |
| 98 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?Constantly using his dead wife for sympathy points and narcissistic supply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 11:42 PM |
| 41 | Women are always held to a morally higher standard than men. Men can coerce women into sex by paying for dates or even guilt trip them on 50/50 dates but God forbid women "use" men for a free mealAny woman who claims she does 50/50 to avoid "owing" a man anything is implicitly saying that access to a woman's body is worth roughly the cost of a meal. You can't change my mind, and I'm tired of debating supposedly female reddit accounts on this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 04:02 AM |
| 37 | Tell me you've never actually been in a relationship, without telling me:Cool. Go your own way and shut up already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 04:17 PM |
| 37 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a child"I was cool with 50/50 when it made my life and finances easier, but now that I might actually have to put up more money to match my wife's lost income, it isn't fun anymore and leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I shouldn't have to pay my wife to have my child, she should do it for free!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 10:58 PM |
| 25 | 🎶Let's just dress up infidelity and terminal self-centeredness with trendy vocab!🎶I remember when this was called "relationship anarchy." I guess that wasn't marketable enough? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 03:17 PM |
| 97 | Vet like your life depends on it, because it doesNot to mention his shitty "advice" would lead to the rapist being acquitted because he can then make a case that you "consented" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 401 | Why are men so fucking weird ?Imagine finding out that a guy is only nice to you so he can stick it to your friends he thinks are more attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 05:38 PM |
| 55 | Just a reminder that old age doesn’t guarantee male decency. He could be her grandfather!I agree, this does not sound like something a man born in 1954 would write. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 05:24 PM |
| 20 | Hmm, did this seem like an innocent question from him or am i wrong to possibly feel the ick?You're not wrong to feel that way, but explaining it didn't do any good. Anyone who asks a question like that won't care for the answer. You're allowed to like what you like and you're 100% right on that last sentence. Don't feel the need to explain yourself to men you don't want to date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 12:21 PM |
| 7 | Just remember LVM and scrotes will easily get dwindled by their “online gfs”The scams subreddit is full of dudes panicking that they feel for a blackmail scam that started on snapchat or dating sites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:53 PM |
| 59 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceHow did we go from "sexual coercion is bad" to "you must put out when dating" in the same breath? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:42 PM |
| 16 | Vetting is not new or unique to FDS. This movie came out in 1993, the scene presented as old-school wisdom. It was not met with backlash, and comments are in praise of the "door test." Do not be afraid to use similar tactics to see whether your partner shows qualities you want.Yeah, this specific test probably worked better in 1993. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:40 PM |
| 13 | Vetting is not new or unique to FDS. This movie came out in 1993, the scene presented as old-school wisdom. It was not met with backlash, and comments are in praise of the "door test." Do not be afraid to use similar tactics to see whether your partner shows qualities you want.Confession: I never have! Though lots of cars come with automatic locks now so depending on what he drives this might be obsolete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 02:38 PM |
| 80 | Vetting is not new or unique to FDS. This movie came out in 1993, the scene presented as old-school wisdom. It was not met with backlash, and comments are in praise of the "door test." Do not be afraid to use similar tactics to see whether your partner shows qualities you want."But she's not eNtItLeD to have her car door opened!" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 03:11 AM |
| 10 | Waiting for Sex: Not a Zero Sum GameThere's a certain type of man who's caught on to FDS principles and vow to behave themselves just long enough to get sex and ghost in some sick display of revenge. Fortunately I've only seen this sentiment in the redpill corners of Reddit, so it's unlikely they've been able to put this plan into practice. But you're right that a man with this line of thinking will show his misogyny in other ways. Just gotta keep your eyes open. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:06 AM |
| 42 | Just remember LVM and scrotes will easily get dwindled by their “online gfs”It's simple. The fake women cater to their fantasies. It helps when the mastermind behind said profile is also a man who understands the male gaze. The real life woman does not cater to LVM's fantasies in the same way because we are human beings with our own motivations beyond pleasing men. They're chasing their "dreamgirls" but in this case the dreamgirl doesn't really exist and never can/will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 01:00 AM |
| 58 | Queen Jess spitting sad facts todayThe biggest impact of MeToo was that it helped further the false accusation narrative. Predators managed to spin the knowledge that every woman had a sexual harassment story into "look at how many women are lying!" I hate it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 16 | Fucking idiot 🤡He forgot the "Dear Penthouse" at the start. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:46 AM |
| 57 | Man wants to have a kid with his wife's younger sister....the traditional way. This poor woman is actually confused about it. WHAT.Can't wait for the update where they've been fucking all along and the sister is pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 05:23 PM |
| 253 | Red pilled Twitter caught encouraging men not to wear condoms and thinks STIs are part of a government conspiracy to keep birth rates down🤡Well that one doesn't affect men, so they don't care/it doesn't matter. In fact most other STI/Ds tend not to affect men as much as women, so they can treat it as an inconvenience at best while also treating women as pariahs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 05:15 PM |
| 66 | Red pilled Twitter caught encouraging men not to wear condoms and thinks STIs are part of a government conspiracy to keep birth rates down🤡This goes beyond redpill. Emphasis on "western" birth rates + use of "nationalism" = not-so-subtle neo-nazis. Anyone who follows these types can go straight to the garbage where they belong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 05:13 PM |
| 12 | 🤡Look, if it's so hard for you poor men, nobody is making you do it. Just buy one of those sex robots you've been threatening us with and go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 04:22 AM |
| 217 | Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻♀️Yes, wait on your partner hand and foot at all times in hopes that maybe, just maybe, he'll send a scrap of kindness your way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 02:43 AM |
| 383 | Using your hobby to vet“LOL what’s your mile time?” “11-12 min depending on distance” “I can go faster” I just got an image of some dude trying to sprint an ultra and cackled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:15 PM |
| 12 | When they show themselves in the second message…. Boy bye.Before looking at the second pic I was thinking "he's about to suggest a walk date, isn't he?" Somehow he did even worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 04:52 AM |
| 138 | Textbook Terrible V-DayHe must've been really attached to that flat tire. He's still grieving! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:05 AM |
| 133 | Male depravity makes it to the front page.I lied about having a boyfriend to a guy hitting on me. His response was "he doesn't have to know anything." Yes, because even if I was in a relationship I'd totally jeopardize that for some bum hitting on strangers at a bus stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:55 PM |
| 139 | They use our Rape Kits as evidence against us: heads up!"If it's true..." Translation: "It's definitely true but I'm saving my ass in case it finally becomes official." Just one more reason why women are scared to come forward. Rape cases are already hard for the victims, now they have to worry about being implicated in a crime themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:24 AM |
| 275 | Sex work is EmPoWeRinG but you "have to face the consequences?"The worst part of this is the assumption that famous pornstars were formerly living a life of luxury and 100% chose the lifestyle. We are frequently hearing this is not the case: many of these pornstars were groomed into the industry as teens or children, and did not give informed consent, but "informed consent" isn't really the legal or social standard when it comes to sex, is it? It also plays into the narrative that human trafficking only happens at the fringes of the industry and bigger bran… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:03 AM |
| 218 | Imagine being so mentally weak that your entire mood depends on over-identifying with men who throw a ball around.With examples like this maybe they shouldn't be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:56 AM |
| 64 | Imagine being so mentally weak that your entire mood depends on over-identifying with men who throw a ball around.At the time of this comment they are three points behind. Truly a horrific performance. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:56 AM |
| 7 | "What do I do when a man give me expensive gifts/do something nice for me?" - Say "Thank You", Smile, and Feel Happy that He CHOOSE to Do It.Church of Satan, personally. But go with what's best for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 10:54 AM |
| 54 | "What do I do when a man give me expensive gifts/do something nice for me?" - Say "Thank You", Smile, and Feel Happy that He CHOOSE to Do It.This is going to be controversial, but in The Satanic Bible there is an extensive chapter on what LaVey calls "psychic vampires." These people are users who drain the life force and resources of anyone they can. LVM would be a subset of them. It's not uncommon for a psychic vampire to use tactics like this to get what they want. The recommended way of dealing with psychic vampires is very much like what you describe - smile, thank them, and walk away! They can't say anything without outing thems… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 11:19 PM |
| 34 | Instead of matching their energy, give them less.This reminds me of the time I met someone on OKCupid and started chatting sporadically. I say sporadically because he would literally respond no more than once a week at roughly the same time. He blamed it on his busy job in the medical field, that he never wanted to elaborate on for some reason. Anyway, I took him at his word, then decided if this was all the time he had to text he certainly wouldn't be able to put in the time to date, assuming he could even get to that point. I didn't even hol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 11:12 PM |
| 3 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀Someone's going to be a crazy cat dude in the near future 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 10:28 PM |
| 35 | "wait to have sex" labeled as "bad dating advice"...and all of the people in the comments applauding...To certain types of people, not going asking with hookup culture is sex negative. Saying no is sex negative. Having any boundaries at all is sex negative because it might interfere with someone else's access to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 10:24 PM |
| 47 | "wait to have sex" labeled as "bad dating advice"...and all of the people in the comments applauding..."The timing of sex doesn't matter but definitely start right now" These people don't even hear themselves. The idea of telling someone is a bad idea to wait to have sex leaves a bad taste in my mouth and directly contradicts the narrative of "consent" that sex positive people cling to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 10:23 PM |
| 212 | Man Triggered By My Post History On This & Similar Subs, Uses Slurs Such As "Whores" & "Faggot," Justifies Male Violence Through Evolutionary Biology, Sees "Legit" Pornography As Acceptable Due To Lack Of Explicit Trafficking (Missing Underlying Problem Of Misogyny & Sexualization Of Women/Children)He couldn't make a coherent argument to anything you said so he went after you as a person. But hey, he's taking an exam in a bit so you know he's "educated." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 03:10 AM |
| 155 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.Notice how the business hiring someone who is supposedly "bad at coding" is less of an embarrassment than hiring someone who showed her tits. But don't worry, he totally supports her career! Anyone who says that sex work is empowering intentionally leaves out the "for men." This man now has the power to deny her from getting out of sex work by blocking her chances of outside employment, for at least a little while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, take care of yourself because no man ever will!I can see critics claiming you weren't "entitled" to help in this situation. Technically, that's true. But relationships aren't about what you're "entitled" to, they're about doing things to show that you care. Whether you two were official or not, if he WANTED to be serious about you he had the perfect opportunity to act like it. But he opted out. I'd wager you would've happily done something to care for him if the roles were switched. He chose to ignore you, and thinks he's still "entitled" to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 02:40 PM |
| 42 | Cosby Documentary: "Sex Therapist" Sonalee Rashatwar Claims "Sex Negativity" Caused Cosby's RapesAll I'm hearing is that Cosby was so entitled to act out his fantasies he had the right to do so on unwilling victims in the absence of consenting partners. What's next? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:52 AM |
| 2 | FDS Books: On Edith Wharton. (LONG POST!)I haven't read Wharton in years. But I did read Summer and Ethan Frome. The protagonist of Summer was a young woman who fell in love with a newcomer to town and kicked off an affair with him. Meanwhile, her stepfather was obsessing over her and making not-so-subtle moves to make her his. She ends up pregnant by the newcomer, who by then is engaged to another woman and vanishes. Rather than try to find him and run off with him, because it would expose the affair and it's not proper, she opts to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 11:59 PM |
| 124 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.WTF is #10? "I pretended to like someone so I could get sex" "Hey, at least you were direct!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 10:58 PM |
| 79 | The title was « exactly why you should do coffee dates first »Tell me why he underlined bisexuality like it's a bad thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:47 PM |
| 195 | A guy brought up porn half a minute after matchingThat he's comparing it to YOUTUBE is so much worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:32 PM |
| 94 | Men will literally p1ss anywhere in public and are less demonised than women breastfeeding in public.It all has to do with male sexuality. Men are attracted to breasts, so having breasts out in public gives them thoughts, and we can't have that. But we also can't curb men's urges because they also want to push the narrative that "it's biology, therefore I can't control my urge to grope your boob" and therefore it's much easier to shame the woman into covering up and feeding her child in a bathroom. If more men had a pissing fetish, you'd see the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:12 PM |
| 52 | The way deadbeat fathers victimise themselves is wild."Why should I give anything to my daughter when I have two sons who can carry my LeGaCy?!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 10:15 PM |
| 14 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.I don't trust the word of sex workers while they're still in the industry. They benefit too much from perpetuating the narrative that sex work is fun and empowering. I remember a porn-addicted ex of mine would go on about his favorite porn stars and liked them specifically because they gave interviews saying they started out for "the sheer horniness of it." Men eat that shit up. They do NOT benefit from talking about the times they were coerced - sorry, "contractually obligated" to take part in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.I will gladly go fuck myself if it means this horrid industry dies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 01:22 AM |
| 26 | And she has no plan on divorcing him. Just wants to protect her cash. 🎪If he's deep in gambling debts, money will soon be the least of her problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 03:07 AM |
| 78 | Don’t ever let a man make you think you need him for ANYTHING. Women everywhere are raising their standards and LVM are getting desperate. This one in particular is trying to use fear and coercion to find himself a lower income wifeMeanwhile, there are a lot of underearning men out there. Do they need to step up and get married? Doubt it. Hope not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Queen, I hope you have already dumped this whining man baby. Of course, FDS is being compared to Nazis in the comments and they are all recommending man baby dump her.Notice how he was with her for 8 months and serious about her until he found this out. Despite being part of a group that's supposedly toxic toward men. If that were true, wouldn't he pick up on the toxicity sooner? He's either lying or the group clearly isn't as toxic as he claims. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:18 AM |
| 8 | Queen, I hope you have already dumped this whining man baby. Of course, FDS is being compared to Nazis in the comments and they are all recommending man baby dump her.Why are they anyways fixated on the 50/50 narrative? It's not like it's the only topic here. It's not even the most talked about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 02:27 AM |
| 86 | The Fantasy vs The Reality ✨I love it when stories have a happy ending. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 13 | Negs her, calls her response a meltdown, asks reddit if he is wrong or if she is overreacting.He thought it was "going well" because she was on call when he was ready for her attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 09:14 PM |
| 2 | 'The audacity': TikToker calls out man for requesting $4 via Apple Pay after saying he'd pay for their coffee date. She’s a Queen 👑! I’m Glad She Called Him Out. The Only Person Playing Games Was Him! $4 Coffee Dates Don’t Equate To Sex! He’s Just Upset, He Didn’t Get What He Wanted.😂Imagine thinking $4 was an acceptable "deposit" for someone's time. 🤣 Men wouldn't put up with that behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 03:32 AM |
| 9 | 'The audacity': TikToker calls out man for requesting $4 via Apple Pay after saying he'd pay for their coffee date. She’s a Queen 👑! I’m Glad She Called Him Out. The Only Person Playing Games Was Him! $4 Coffee Dates Don’t Equate To Sex! He’s Just Upset, He Didn’t Get What He Wanted.😂I can't imagine making the case that she needed to somehow compensate him for the $4 date. What would he expect to get that would be equal? Don't tell me sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:59 AM |
| 17 | One more reason to cut off men who watch pornOnly the questionable parts are acting, supposedly. Which begs the question of why the questionable parts needed to be acted out in the first place. Why put that in a medium intended to arouse if your audience doesn't genuinely find that arousing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:24 AM |
| 6 | Awww, this poor baby! Let’s guess what actually happened."All I had to offer my wife was sex and I couldn't even do that right. Clearly it's the dildo's fault!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Work is only okay when I (the man) benefit from seeing woman naked and abused. I’m sorry what???? Sex work is abusive towards women.Exploiting retail workers making hourly wages on the books? BURN IT DOWN Exploiting young women selling porn as independent contractors? Nothing wrong here. If you want to provoke a mob, speak ill of OnlyFans on that sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:57 AM |
| 24 | Cautionary tale - a man will literally take your kidney and cheat on you with no remorseNew vetting strategy: Date a man with an incompatible blood type. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:54 AM |
| 196 | Men are threatened by EVERYTHING. Why??There's an IG page I follow of a high school teacher posting funny clips of what she deals with at work. In one video she was confronted by a male student who claimed sexism because she was always giving girls "treats" out of her desk and never offered some to the boys. She then laughed and invited the boy to go pick out his own "treat" from the drawer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:40 AM |
| 69 | Men wanting to have sex with you is not the compliment you think it is! Men will have sex with a mcchicken sandwichThey absolutely think they're entitled to have sex whenever they want. That's why they resent women for saying no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:58 AM |
| 354 | Men wanting to have sex with you is not the compliment you think it is! Men will have sex with a mcchicken sandwichThere was a viral Reddit story a while back about a guy who kept a coconut in his room to fuck until it rotted. If you aren't familiar, don't look it up. With this in mind, I'd argue that sexual attraction isn't even a prerequisite for sexual desire. I doubt that guy was actually into rotting fruit, but the coconut was around when he was horny and hey, that's good enough. There's also a reason why so much porn today is blatantly violent. Lots of men "teaching women a lesson" and "dominating" wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 02:30 AM |
| 10 | Liberal Feminism is the PatriarchyHow many times have you seen a Reddit account claim to be a woman who LOOOOOVES porn, kinky sex, 50/50 walk dates, and the like so other women are just too picky? Or men commenting that their partners are such women? It's an attempt at conditioning. These women are on board and they're cool, why can't you be like them? It's no coincidence that these tenets of liberal feminism just so happen to align with what LVM want. You think the men screeching about how entitled we are to want a men who genu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 02:32 AM |
| 96 | Violence against women on the front page of reddit... check the upvotes and realize how many LVM are on reddit and how much they hate women... this is why vetting is so importantHey, you know all those posts on here where we laugh at all the men who get beaten down? You know the spinoff subs we made just to laugh at men taking a sucker punch? Yeah, me neither. But the rest of Reddit sure does love to see women getting beatdowns in the name of "equality!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockif you are not emotionally stable enough to not have a complete mental breakdown if someone say something about you and have to block them That's... quite the leap. Is that person okay? Mentally stable? It sounds like this type of person takes being blocked too seriously. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Creating a new feminist theoryI want to write about how the sex industry is harmful towards women, but I’m not sure if my prof will go “oh, but we can’t control women’s bodies 🤢”. You can write about how something is dangerous without controlling women. I can go on about how OnlyFans is a horrible, exploitative company but I'm not about to flog a woman in public for making an account. This is actually a common misconception when talking about feminism and a pro-libfem taking point used to shut down radfem discourse. It's wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 01:28 AM |
| 181 | What I hate most about reddit."Ah, a man of culture I see" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 3 | No Josh/Jason/James, sex work is not comparable to "Manuel" labor. Watch out for men who have no empathy for women's exploitation.If they're totally the same thing, why aren't they on OnlyFans? I'm sure there are plenty of men out there looking for naked men. What's that, you're not into men? Why does that matter? It's a job, and most women in sex work aren't really into their clients anyway. Just get that bag and go. Empowerment, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:37 AM |
| 30 | This is what people on reddit consider "heartwarming"-women doing all the emotional and physical labor for men while they have breakdownsQuick! Someone post a version of this meme with the sexes swapped and see how long it takes for the manosphere to scream "entitlement!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:29 AM |
| 122 | Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much pornThey'll claim it's twig biological instinct trying to find the best mate. Nevermind that 1) teenage girls are not at optimal child bearing age and 2) most of these dudes don't really want kids anyway. It's more about finding a naive virgin who will put up with their nonsense and let them pretend not to have responsibilities. They'll even say this, subtly, when they talk about older women with higher body counts being more likely to break up/ divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 04:22 AM |
| 83 | Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much porn"Oh yeah? Well I won't have sex with YOU because you don't look like (insert favorite actress or porn star here)!" "Okay, bye." "Wait why aren't you devastated?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 04:19 AM |
| 43 | Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much porn~Equality!~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 04:17 AM |
| 44 | Comeback For Lame Men Who Hypocritically Shame Hypergamous Dating And Or" Goldiggers" Whilst Beauty /Sex Digging and Using "Nice" Women They Deem "Beneath Them Looks Wise"There is something similar to this in the kink world. It's called findom. It should surprise nobody that it's universally despised despite such arrangements being fully consensual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:40 AM |
| 39 | Reddit does hate womenShe asked a question about his height. He got her name wrong when it was literally right in front of him and then insulted her. Yet of course, she's the one who will be demonized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Dating an alleged HVM who is separated/divorcedI understand the reflex to defend someone you care about, but there's honestly no amount of context that makes up for the fact that he's rushing into a relationship before his legal ties to a woman are severed. That it wasn't meant to be a serious relationship isn't helping. I'm not saying no, I'm saying not yet. | /r/askFDS | 04/01/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Dating an alleged HVM who is separated/divorcedOkay, if your marriage ended out of the blue would YOU get into a serious relationship three months later? I'm not sure if you wanted advice or validation here. Edit: you deleted this post, so I guess it was the latter. | /r/askFDS | 04/01/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Dating an alleged HVM who is separated/divorcedIf your marriage ended abruptly, would you immediately jump into another relationship? Why should there be a gray area for him? | /r/askFDS | 04/01/22 01:47 AM |
| 5 | Dating an alleged HVM who is separated/divorcedHe's been single for less than a year after his wife supposedly left out of the blue. He's got a lot of hurt to sort through and may be trying to rebound even despite his best intentions. I would wait on this until the ink on his divorce papers dries at least. There's no need to rush this, if he loses interest by then he was never your HVM to begin with. | /r/askFDS | 04/01/22 01:46 AM |
| 29 | I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchyWe're already there. It's extremely common for LVM to cite their "trauma" or "depression" as reasons to get out of anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Say “no” to breaks and open relationships!Wolf Hotel series by K. A. Tucker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 02:17 PM |
| 47 | Say “no” to breaks and open relationships!I just got done reading a series where the FL caught her fiance in the act cheating on her. He had the audacity to ask her to "wait for him" while he "sowed his wild oats" and promised he'd come back. Everyone around her in her religious, rural community was convinced this was a good idea and she should wait for him to stop being tempted by the devil and come back to her. Did I mention he was the reverend's son? Anyway, the story ended with her realizing her worth, falling in love with a billion… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 33 | Man tries to challenge my standards when I say walks are not datesI get what you're saying, and I agree. I'm actually a bit peeved at the moment because going by votes, apparently people think I agree with the idea that a woman owes a man sex for paying for her meal? But let's be honest, guys who suggest walk dates have no interest in "getting to know" the woman they're with. I stand by my comment that it's a shit test. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 06:18 PM |
| 101 | FDS angers Reddit at large, and that's how you know it works.In their minds, it's the woman's fault for choosing an abusive guy and getting abused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 06:15 PM |
| 58 | Levelling up man freeAnother factor in this is that once you ditch the loser, many of the mental blocks that held you back disappear with him. I broke up with my ex in October 2020. In less than a year after that, I bought myself a car, got a promotion, and moved into my own apartment. These were all things that absolutely terrified me before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:48 PM |
| 31 | Man tries to challenge my standards when I say walks are not datesIt's only "low risk" for her in the sense that he has that much less leverage to try and coerce sex out of her because "he paid." Edit: Why is this downvoted? I'm not saying I agree with it, I'm saying this is an expectation men have (and pickme women internalize). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:26 PM |
| 81 | Man tries to challenge my standards when I say walks are not datesThis is why you don't try to correct guys like this. He doesn't care that you aren't into the idea. His focus now is to "debate" and wear down your boundaries so that you'll accept something you don't want to do to make him happy. Walk dates are shit tests for this reason: it's an opening for him to see how little you'll accept for the privilege of being seen in public with him. If he were actually interested in doing something you'd enjoy, there would be no mention of a walk date. The ultimate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:25 PM |
| 39 | First, your wife had a baby, not you. Second? You’re the problem.Plot twist: his wife wasn't the baby's mother and that's why she won't touch him. "I cheated 15 months ago, babe! Get over it!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:21 PM |
| 91 | This should be how women approach sex. If he can’t make you orgasm he can’t get access. 💅🏾👑He says he's giving it his all. She says he's being too rough. It's pretty clear from that line alone he's trying to approach this like smashing buttons for a video game puzzle just so he can get the reward. I guarantee you he's not going to be any more attentive to her needs once he gets what he wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:06 PM |
| 69 | Angry right nowA certain type of man NEEDS to perpetuate the myth that rape is only ever violent, and certain coercive tactics aren't wrong. Because that's the only way they can get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:08 PM |
| 32 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsSome men even go as far to say if they were a woman, they would exploit their bodies for money. What's stopping them now? There's a market for male sex work. Why not get that money now? Oh right, because they know exactly how degrading it is to have to satisfy men sexually for money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:40 PM |
| 10 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsIf sex work were such a wonderful thing, how would there be victims for you to blame? They dismantle their own argument and don't even care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:39 PM |
| 121 | Reminder: Dont be with a man like thisMen: you think you're entitled to a paid for dinner date? women are gold diggers Also men: create a meme around your gf buying you an expensive and hard to find console. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 12:32 AM |
| 61 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Wait, so I'll have to work harder to gain the attention of a porn addict who sees me as an "it" to obtain and already prefers his hand or a robot? Count me out, you can stay over there. BTW, if a woman starfishes in bed with you is a sure sign she didn't want to fuck you anyway. Stop trying to coerce women into fucking you with no benefit to them and you'll never have that happen again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Read this if you’ve ever wondered “what if I gave my lvx a second chance…?”Damn, you were dating my ex too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 02:57 AM |
| 16 | Men being body shamed 😢Years ago, when I was on dating apps, I was also much heavier than I am now. A LOT of guys would send me degrading messages because I was too heavy for their tastes when they could've just as easily moved on. (This was before swiping and matching became a thing, FYI) I saw a lot of men I wasn't attracted to on there but I moved along, never dreamed of insulting them for not matching up to my physical preferences. Never dreamed of using them for sex or money when guys would blatantly tell me I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 10:46 PM |
| 36 | This is why venting is a must! And also, it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship because we can straight up get murdered. Some men can’t take No. Rip to these poor souls.Fault isn't a zero sum game. You should take precautions against predators because it's in your best interest to do so, doesn't mean the predators are any less to blame if they hurt you. In our culture it's more acceptable to fear bear and shark attacks than intimate partner violence, even though the latter is far more common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 02:20 PM |
| 101 | Lmfao didn’t we learn on an episode of FDS Podcast that this “curve” is actually scar tissue from excessive wanking? They’re reframing it, I’m wheezing.She looks thrilled. Anyway, interesting how the focus is on treatment for the older generation and no attention given to prevention for the younger crowd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:07 AM |
| 13 | Why do males not accept it if their SO's want to start an only fans account? While it's acceptable for men to watch porn?Wait, I thought porn was empowering? Why should she be downgraded for this? Just kidding, I know the answer. The truth is that our culture separates women into two types: future wives and sl*ts. This push to normalize pornography is solely to increase the pool of sl*ts for men to enjoy. This guy is freaking out because his future wife is switching teams and the guys are agreeing with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:40 PM |
| 23 | The Realities of Age Gap RelationshipsI do think the age gap becomes less of an issue as one gets older, but should always make one pause. A 10 year age gap has a much greater impact when the woman is 17 than when she's 29. When you're both established adults, the power starts to balance itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 12:24 AM |
| 52 | The Realities of Age Gap RelationshipsDoesn't DiCaprio exclusively date 20 somethings as well? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:41 PM |
| 47 | SeX iS eXpEcTeD - Man is trying to coerce9 woman to have sex with him and everyone is cool with this??I have seen some guys brag about it. Trying to get back at women who now decide to wait for sex but were less discriminating in their youth. It's still a common sentiment that if a woman is at all sexual in her teens/twenties she must remain so forever or it's not "fair" to the man she's with later in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 03:45 AM |
| 85 | SeX iS eXpEcTeD - Man is trying to coerce9 woman to have sex with him and everyone is cool with this??"I doubt a grown man is going to date a woman for 5+ months just to have sex and leave her" Meanwhile guys in manosphere subs are talking about doing just that to get back at women who "make them wait" while not being virgins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 4 | Do not let men rationalize/justify/explain sexual harassment because it’s *BiOloGy*The whole "spread my seed" narrative is insane. The drive to reproduce as many as possible is actually a strategy for prey animals, because they don't anticipate all of their children surviving to adulthood. Additionally, these same types will resist any and all attempts to collect child support anyway, so you know having loads of kids isn't really their goal. Just say you want to fuck without consequences and go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 02:51 AM |
| 7 | This is likely the darkest 'joke' in the entire sitcom and this guy is laughing about it happening in real life. Beware the man who laughs when women are in danger rather than report it to the police 🚩🚩🚩Hold up... isn't it the bouncers' job to keep the "underage chicks" out? Why is that happening on their watch, let alone often enough for them to joke about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 02:48 AM |
| 58 | Came across this in OLD today, respectful women must chase the man, ladies we’re doing it wrong 😂He's almost got it. You shouldn't MAKE a man chase you. He should either want to do it himself, or you're not meant to be with him. I say "almost" because I guarantee he's using this to mean "you should chase me or you're not a respected or respectful woman." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 02:12 AM |
| 89 | When I’m doubt, DO NOT give men the benefit of the doubt.Had this happen to me. A guy and I made plans to meet up, but he never showed. Never called or texted. I tried calling him, went straight to voicemail and the mailbox was full, so I couldn't even leave a message. I got a message from him a full WEEK later saying a friend of his was in the hospital with an ovarian cyst rupture. I was a clown back then and bought it, even felt bad for being angry with him all week. It wasn't until later (with several other standing-up instances in the meantime) th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 02:01 AM |
| 243 | Hilarious. Also, this is a genius move if you want to use a scrote bug spray.For some guys, the idea of losing their Reddit cred is the ultimate punishment. Listen to them talk about the "sexual double standard" on Reddit and they'll say it's biased against men because their misogynistic comments will get downvoted. Tell them that women routinely get harassed off of Reddit for making comments that hurt male feelings, and they'll celebrate it without making the connection. To them, losing imaginary internet points is worse than other people facing real harassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 01:39 AM |
| 127 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?A history of committing or being complicit in infidelity, especially if they're quick to justify it. My ex admitted on our first date he once cheated on his "abusive" ex-girlfriend with a younger woman he eventually left her for. (After knowing him better, I've since become suspicious of the claim she beat him, but that's another story) He would later tell me he was often the "other man" when his woman "best friend" had boyfriends who didn't treat her right. (Before we met...supposedly) The them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 01:36 AM |
| 9 | Anyone who uses porn is fucking terrible in bed, and it’s time to spread this message far and wideThe funny thing is men will frequently turn to porn when they're bored with their own sex lives and blame their partner for not being adventurous or hot enough. Women who don't want their partners watching porn are frequently vilified as jealous or assumed to be lesser partners because they can't sway their partners away from the stuff. But the idea that the man can't satisfy her and that's why they need porn to spice things up? Too far-fetched. Though our typical narratives around sex aren't to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Do not let this mentality make you more susceptible to manipulation, gaslighting, and other forms of abuse. You do NOT need to ‘see things from his perspective’. All you need is block & delete!In general, this is a good attitude for interacting with people. The trouble is when certain types of men use this narrative and twist it into "I know you're upset, but I saw it this way, so you should really see it this way too and stop being mad at me." It only works if the other person is willing to see and understand your perspective too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:37 AM |
| 17 | Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage jobYou didn't dump him for having a minimum wage job, You dumped him for having a difference in values. You are driven, he was not. You two were what the Reddit scrotes would call "incompatible." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:15 PM |
| 173 | The perks of dating multiple men before commitment (FDS art by me)"But it's different for guys!" And suddenly men hate equality again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 01:19 AM |
| 7 | Don’t Panic, Have a PlanNot quite on topic, but since you mentioned 2A, wouldn't it be in a more secure legal position due to it being an amendment that's been around since the dawn of this country? Also, justices serve for life. Wouldn't that be a protection against political backlash? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 07:48 PM |
| 7 | This had me howling!! 🎶Leave us alone, please leave us alone 🎶..He's complaining that these women are in their own beds and he's not invited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 10:59 PM |
| 15 | He’s perfect but needs the government to give him a wife 💀I'm convinced that every man who criticizes this group secretly (or not so secretly) thinks this way. There's no other reason why they would get so angry at the idea of women they don't know being more selective with their partners than previous generations. There's no reason they would rage at the idea of women they perceive as "entitled" instead of walking the hell away. There's no other reason why they would feel entitled to endlessly debate what women should want out of our lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 09:41 PM |
| 86 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Hey, give him a chance! He might be your soul mate despite having literally nothing you want in a partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:43 PM |
| 11 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Okay Daily Mail, now run an expose on incel terrorists next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:41 PM |
| 252 | If the genders were reversed..There is/was a meme circulating a while back that showed a woman being chased around a baseball field during a game because she snuck on and started grabbing players' asses. One of the comments underneath said something like "if the genders were reversed the guy would be locked up so fast!" ...yet you can clearly see the woman being pursued by authorities, so why were they complaining? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 01:47 AM |
| 105 | I present you the most useless man on planet earth!He mods a few subs and can't handle a job? Or any basic housework? Amateur. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 04:39 PM |
| 9 | Taylor Swift has managed to flip the 'nah I' m special, he will treat me different cos the last one was not good enough' pickme trope ( 🙄🤮🤮) onto men, bet they all thought they would not get a song calling them out on BS.Who are you kidding? They're all doing it so they can get a song. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 02:45 AM |
| 32 | What is your sexuality?Looking for women is surprisingly more of a hassle than dating men. Your options are basically 1) couples "looking for a third" 2) guys looking for wank material. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 02:38 AM |
| 45 | Exposure to pornography in childhood can lead to the worst of porn addiction. I don’t think this is happening on accident, either.I definitely think there's a conscious effort to create and target porn addicts. I mod a few anti-porn groups online, and they get their share of spambots trying to peddle their porn. You'd think porn accounts trying to market their stuff would seek out pro-porn stuff where they'd find a more receptive audience, right? But then I'd check out these accounts and see they exclusively target anti-porn groups, especially those for recovering porn addicts. They KNOW these groups are full of people wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 03:16 AM |
| 19 | Generalizations aren't wrong.On Reddit it usually comes across as "not all men but I'm DEFINITELY one of them" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 11:59 AM |
| 31 | Generalizations aren't wrong.For the type of man who complains about this, avoiding them and hating them are one in the same. They think by refusing to engage with them, we're denying them something they're entitled to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 67 | Do not date men who are “separated”.I want to emphasize the possibility that if he's still formally tied to someone (marriage, living together, even kids), it's very easy for him to jump ship and run back to the "ex" at the first opportunity. I actually saw this happen to a friend of mine. He was recently divorced and seemed eager to move on, but was texting the ex-wife the whole time. The second he had a chance to go back to the ex, he took it and cut all ties with my friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Why do they keep normalizing this gross behaviour????And this latest round of kids will be roped into 1) caring for their father's end-of-life stage and/or 2) burying him at a crucial point in their adulthood. Not to mention this woman dealing with being a young widow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 02:10 AM |
| 424 | Why Splitting the Check Isn't as Feminist As PickMes Think It IsMen did a fine job of convincing us that the key to being equals was us doing more and them doing less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 09:27 PM |
| 2 | I need advice on how to respond and keep my composure lmao. I thought I deleted all my dating apps because I felt burnt out and this person found me (my name is unique so not that hard to find me on instagram). I have school/work going on anyways to "make friends"You don't. Anything you say will give him more material to work with and an excuse to keep messaging you. He's not going to listen to no. Just block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:16 PM |
| 29 | curious why men send dick picsBut, but- that's how it works in porn! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 08:03 PM |
| 22 | Straight from the horse’s mouth: men who ask you to hook up with them literally only want you for sex. These comments were in response to a woman who was complaining about the audacity men on Tinder have in asking her if she “wants to fuck”I had an ex girlfriend in my poly days who bragged about it. But mostly it's a thing guys do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 05:34 PM |
| 22 | "Oh yeah, you want a man who brushes his teeth? I dated a guy who brushed his teeth and he kicked puppies for breakfast!"Additionally, these men aren't going to miraculously improve their mental health by being coddled all the time. At some point they need to figure out how to suck it up and brush their teeth in spite of it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 03:09 AM |
| 44 | "Good friend" sent me a dick pic "accidentally". He has a great partner too. Let this be a lesson to me for trying to play it cOoL instead of going nuclear at the first message.Nah, he just sent back a snarky reply that I was equally to blame for whatever went down, and that was the end of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 07:37 PM |
| 57 | "Good friend" sent me a dick pic "accidentally". He has a great partner too. Let this be a lesson to me for trying to play it cOoL instead of going nuclear at the first message.I accidentally sent a text complaining about my coworkers to my boss. It was meant for my bf at the time because I wanted to vent. That's the worst accidental text I've ever sent though. When I was dumb enough to send nudes, I triple-checked the recipient before hitting send. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 07:25 PM |
| 15 | As an essential worker, I’ve honestly met more male ‘Karens’ in my life than the stereotypical lady ‘Karen’So I work for a grocery chain. We've been hit with various supply chain issues over the years, from vendor changes to most recently pandemic fuckery. This invariably results in some customers being upset that the obscure item that they "buy all the time!" is out of stock. Generally speaking, the women were much more agreeable to apologies and a promise to call them back once the item was in stock, or even trying a similar item instead. Men tend to be much pickier and more aggressive in this rega… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:10 AM |
| 26 | Where to meet HVM?With the absence of social media and I assume OLD, you'll need to meet them IRL. Look for local meetups or volunteer events in your area. Maybe join some races if you're into that. | /r/askFDS | 02/11/21 12:19 AM |
| 157 | Did you guys see the house wife unpopular opinion post on front page?Which is so hilarious because this sub vehemently discourages the SAHM life. It's for the woman's protection: if she's financially dependent on a man, there's nothing stopping him from jumping ship when he feels like it and leaving her out on the street. So wanting to be a housewife is somehow evil, yet a subreddit that discourages being a housewife is also evil. I'm starting to think these critics just see women existing as evil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:31 PM |
| 91 | if you’re gonna get married they better talk about you like Stephen Colbert talks about his wife Evelyn McGeeA lot of men underestimate the companionship factor in relationships. You'll see FDS critics rage about the financial investment, the sex they're entitled to, and the effort they're expected to put in to maintain a relationship as if they're genuine hardships in a man's life. They'll talk about staying with women they don't like and aren't attracted to just so there will be someone waiting for them at home until their dream woman shows up. They'll also talk about the misery and loneliness they f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 06:46 PM |
| 8 | You should have a “hoe phase!”The part of my life where I dabbled in kink and polyamory was actually my lowest period. Sometimes I still think about a possible timeline in which my partners actually showed me respect, didn't ignore my existence until the wife was out of town, didn't get drunk and call me a whore on the regular and blame it on depression, didn't pressure me to reenact the various porn videos they were obsessed with, didn't constantly try to erode my boundaries in and out of the bedroom, didn't stay locked in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 238 | A man asked, "most men aren't bad so why don't women trust us all?" Here is my my reply:They are also quick to point out that because women are capable of doing the same acts, we should act like abusers are evenly split between the sexes. Nevermind that the vast majority of violent crimes are committed by men, never mind that one of the leading (male) abuse counselors acknowledges that domestic abusers are overwhelmingly male, we must treat women as if we are just as evil as men, because equality. I just saw someone try to defend revenge porn and deepfakes as not a gendered issue b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 03:22 PM |
| 61 | Had to read this in my English comp class.. immediately thought of you all ❤️❤️❤️ Mods, please delete if not allowed.Funny you bring this up, my English Comp class just had me read Kate Chopin's short story "The Story of An Hour." For those who aren't familiar, it's about a woman who recently learned her husband died in an accident and reacts with joy. Not even out of malice toward her husband but because she is finally "free." Keep in mind this took place in the 19th century, and a woman's life was very different from today. It ends with the husband returning home, having not been near the accident at all, an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 11:48 PM |
| 27 | One of the most bittersweet, but ultimately helpful realisations of my dating life: For a LVM, it isn't about you. Make sure that it is about you for the guy you're dating.I needed to read this today. Thank you. The first and so far only man I fell in love with was like this. I've come to realize I was just filler for him at a convenient time. I did not have the privilege of being my own person in his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 09:57 PM |
| 12 | "Men know women better"Honestly any man who cites "sexual market value" in any way or refers to dating as a marketplace just threw up the biggest red flag you'll ever see. There's no point in talking to men like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 09:50 PM |
| 33 | Be careful out there ladies: Comments under a tic tok about most dangerous people you’ve met- man kills wife, justifies it claiming infidelity. Men need to hold one another accountable, not justify violence and in this case murder.So when men cheat, are women justified in killing them? We are supposed to be equals, aren't we? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 06:05 PM |
| 32 | Make sure you are his first option. Men can fake and pretend you’re his #1 because they’re lonely, when in fact you aren’t the one they want.I've become convinced that I was little more than a filler option for my ex's dead wife or married ex-lover. Someone to pass the time until he drank himself to death or the ex-lover left her husband for him. Feels bad because I spent six years on the guy, but at least I'm rid of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:50 AM |
| 14 | Flip the scriptWhen did a woman's body become worth roughly the price of a cheeseburger, anyway? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 02:32 AM |
| 63 | Porn addict behaviour is looking a lot like alcohol addictionAs someone who has known alcoholics and porn addicts, this is exactly right. I've seen guys justify porn use by comparing it to drinking. Yet they'll insist that porn is an essential part of being a man, being sexually active, and they can't imagine life without it. If someone said that about alcohol, we would call them an alcoholic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 04:31 PM |
| 127 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsHe knows there are strippers incoming. He's pushing the blame on his friends early so you won't give him consequences later. You already know they disrespected one bride's request for no strippers. What makes you think they'll respect you? If you marry this man, you're coming after a lap dance at best. Remember that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:38 PM |
| 70 | Women are interchangeable, movie editionThat love plotline doesn't happen in the novella version of Bicentennial Man. Thankfully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 03:11 PM |
| 10 | Talk to your ex’s exSo he had three long term relationships before me. His late wife, who had died. His "crazy" college girlfriend, who supposedly abused him. And his high school sweetheart, who for reasons unknown did not want to meet me at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:33 AM |
| 103 | Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to itHe wasn't saying there was nothing wrong with his actions. He wanted her to know they weren't illegal, which is very different. Men like this have no problem breaking ethical and moral boundaries as long as they can dodge consequences. In fact, they enjoy it more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:10 PM |
| 14 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?I can enjoy them in certain contexts but I'm picky. None of the pornified stuff applies: don't push down on my head, don't fuck my mouth, don't expect me to be on my knees, don't shove it down my throat. (Some lurker is reading this and wondering how TF a blowjob would work without these things.) Even then it's more for the sake of giving my partner pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:45 PM |
| 30 | Talk to your ex’s exDamn. My ex was close friends with most of his exes. The only ones I was allowed to meet were the flings that he may or may not have been involved with still. His serious exes were all unavailable for one reason or another. Never put it together until now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | FDS is BACK!I still think you've misinterpreted what's going on here, particularly the bit about "no podcast discussion" but I'm not going to argue about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 09:15 AM |
| 2 | FDS is BACK!To add to this, I have a similar flair system on a few other subs that I mod to keep out the trolls. The nature of Reddit and the subject matter of those subs means throwaways are a common sight, meaning a lot of members of varying legitimacy have no karma or history to clue me in to who they are. More than once I've had accounts put on a good show in their history just long enough to get a flair and bypass the queue, then immediately start breaking rules or commenting crazy shit. You simply CAN… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 3 | FDS is BACK!what I have picked up from other subs Which other subs? Most "other subs" have a vested interest in making this one look as awful as possible, so I wouldn't take their interpretations too seriously. I didn't get the "very political and all criticism will be banned" vibe from the podcast or any communication from the mods. (Disclaimer: I missed the tweet in question before it went down.) But there's a difference between constructive criticism of FDS content and personal attacks/value judgments, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 12:51 AM |
| 1382 | Ummm. What?Apparently Elon and daddy dearest are not on good terms, and Elon called him "evil." Imagine being so fucked that Elon Musk thinks you're evil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:05 PM |
| 11 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyOP said wrong answers only | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:26 PM |
| 5 | I'm done with men shorter than meYou looked in a man's general direction. What did you expect? /s And they wonder why they get no attention at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 03:00 PM |
| 91 | I'm done with men shorter than meMen: snooping is literally the worst thing you can do in a relationship Also men: finds out where their dates work so they can show up unannounced and watch them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:41 PM |
| 4 | A friend of mine received this anonymous text this morning— for women in medicine it just never endsFrom porn, naturally. Not sure how old it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:01 PM |
| 3 | A friend of mine received this anonymous text this morning— for women in medicine it just never endsThat's what I'm gathering. I'm not familiar with the procedures surrounding med school and residencies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:01 PM |
| 199 | A friend of mine received this anonymous text this morning— for women in medicine it just never endsPlease tell me she has recourse for sexual harassment. This is appalling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 320 | A friend of mine received this anonymous text this morning— for women in medicine it just never endsIt means a petite woman, specifically small enough for him to throw/spin around during sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 45 | That’s all women are good for, porn genreThe fact that they're using porn to degrade her tells you everything about the inherent nature of pornography. No amount of "feminist porn" will undo what consumers really want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Sick of short males crying "discrimination"Short men don't get dates? Someone forgot to tell literally every man in my family. But they all have personalities outside of "angry short dude" so maybe that has something to do with it. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 09:20 PM |
| 62 | Never answer this question. Ever!It's a neg. The point is to prompt you into rattling off your resume in hopes of impressing him. It's really the most blatant neg you'll see. If a guy really thought you had nothing to offer, he wouldn't be talking to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 02:17 AM |
| 41 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.I get what you're saying. I do think we need more guys to sit down and shut up when it comes to feminist discourse, and I've met a surprising number who do. But men generally aren't good at listening to women, so it's a struggle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:14 PM |
| 114 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.I mod a couple of anti-porn subs and it's becoming so common for women to post about how their "openly anti-porn, radfem husbands" were suddenly watching porn the whole time. And of course NOW they're sorry and ready to change - as soon as the wife's got one foot out the door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:18 PM |
| 26 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Or hell, maybe nothing went wrong. Maybe it was a fun experience that she knows was risky and didn't see the need to repeat it. We don't have to go through trauma to adjust our boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Best dating strategy for women, is one that de-centers men.In theory, that's a great idea. In practice, that's an extremely simplistic approach to dealing with abusers that ignores how they really operate. They don't start swinging out of the blue. They take their time breaking down their victim and isolating them so they're convinced they're at fault and have no outside support system. It's rarely as simple as "just leave," and recovery after the fact takes time off the victim is lucky enough to get out alive. I'm glad to see you've never been in that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Best dating strategy for women, is one that de-centers men.I never said stop being in relationships but okay, go off. Lots of people are ignorant to red flags and talking about them is often discouraged in this very sub, among other places. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Best dating strategy for women, is one that de-centers men.So lets toss out psychopaths who laugh at the thought of dumping somebody in the desert. I'd be on board with that if we could reliably predict who these psychopaths are. They don't exactly advertise that, and it's not like Gabby sought him out knowing he would treat her this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 11:47 AM |
| 133 | This was so wild I couldn’t not share🥲 Thankfully most people were advising OP to ditch him.Oh, looks like my ex found someone new. Good for him. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 08:41 PM |
| 26 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileOoh, do you still have that link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:13 AM |
| 176 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileDeep down, he's not joking. People who make hateful or dark jokes like this really feel that way on a deep level. If you don't believe me, make a joke about men on Reddit sometime and watch the mob come after you for "disgusting misandry and hate speech omg holy shit." They think you're serious because they are serious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:23 AM |
| 310 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … Vile"If I cannot pressure a woman into sex, she deserves to die. Just kidding but not really" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:22 AM |
| 5 | Scrote messages to teach me a philosophical lesson excited to mention Gabbie Petito “but hey, at least my sex isn’t being murdered” 🤡You gave him a platform and the attention he wanted in a sub that's supposed to center women. There are other subs for this, or you could've blocked and deleted, but you chose to give him publicity anyway. Well done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:55 AM |
| 25 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesThe bulk of the critical comments were along the lines of "well maybe you should've picked better men," which was exactly what she said in the OP. Bonus shoutout to the guy who implied OP got attached to any man who showed her attention. Truth is, there's no such pressure on men to be the better men as described in this post, only shaming women for not being lucky enough to find one. And don't you dare think of holding to high standards and boundaries to find these better men, because that's exc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Porn actress on TikTok admitted that stopping a scene had consequencesIt's not the top anymore but I found it. Shame she still defends the behavior. Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Porn actress on TikTok admitted that stopping a scene had consequencesPlease link the video if you can. I just went through a few of her videos and she says the exact opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 11:26 PM |
| 14 | Porn actress on TikTok admitted that stopping a scene had consequencesDo you have a link to the Tiktok? Or at least the name of the actress? I'd like to see this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 09:23 PM |
| 29 | If you want a revolution, don't appeal to men in the hopes of getting them to see our POV. Instead, open other women's eyes to the stark reality of dating and gender relations."Posted on a subreddit based around men paying for your dates... these people aren't very smart" This is from a sub that I will not name, but loves to crosspost every post here to mock. And normally I don't like to give them attention, but here it's a good illustration of your point. They missed the point of FDS completely. They missed the point of this post. The OP paints all 192k members in this sub as selfish women overindulging on donuts. And you better believe it's deliberate. If they aren'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Can we please stop posting the messages we get from FDS Super Fans?Go to your settings, and I think it's under profile. It's a relatively new feature that rolled out, so it may not have been there the last time you checked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 02:15 PM |
| 12 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨"OK, dick." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 03:44 AM |
| 118 | Imagine tolerating thisNot the point here, but what is with his facial expression? Why the bottom-lip horse chomp? Is that supposed to be attractive? He's not the only one I've seen pose that way for photos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 03:39 AM |
| 15 | Oh shit here’s another one😆 Scrotes big mad about this sub and my activity on it. See my last 2 posts in this sub for more context.I guarantee you they don't bring this energy to actual incels' inboxes. They only care about what we do because they fear being the targets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 03:15 AM |
| 112 | Tell him you don't like to drink (even if you do)I've seen studies where upwards of 90% of men say they'd never rape but when asked if they'd fuck a passed-out drunk woman most say "yes". Do you have access to any of these still? Because that's horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tQuestion: does your first statistic refer to all homicides or intimate partner violence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tThis comment got you downvoted. PPD culture in a nutshell I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?At the very least he was using it as an excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:43 PM |
| 91 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?I will probably change mine for the simple reason that I'd rather share a name with my spouse than my father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:13 AM |
| 38 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?I had an ex try to pull CNC (consensual non-consent) game on me during sex. I was in pain and wanted to change positions, so I told him to stop. He said "no" and kept going until I said stop again with more force. His excuse was that an ex of his dumped him once because he didn't pressure her into sex when she wasn't in the mood, so OBVIOUSLY that's just what you're supposed to do every time. And he even told me this ex and her excuse were "fucked up," yet took that as the role he was supposed t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:37 PM |
| 14 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?Why aren't men told to "talk it out" if they want to slap/choke/whatever their girlfriends during sex? Why are they entitled to one free pass at whatever violence they enjoy? This isn't how consent works, you pornsick fucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 10:35 PM |
| 78 | Can't even shop in peaceDo guys truly believe that by being a disrespectful pr*ck they will get a woman to sleep with them? Believe it or not, this isn't always the goal. Some guys just like having the ability to irritate a woman they can't have. They want a presence in your life, even if it's negative, and they want to live rent free in your head. Gavin DeBecker kinda goes into this in his book The Gift of Fear when he talks about celebrity stalkers. This is the same on a (hopefully) smaller scale. In this case, he sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 10:16 PM |
| 88 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣My biggest criticism of polyamory is that it discourages any kind of working on your relationships. Oh sure, in theory there's supposed to be a lot of freedom and communication and no jealousy because everyone's happy and evolved. In practice? It's just like you described: a bunch of people with separate roles to fulfill in the person's life. That "nesting partner" with a great connection but dead bedroom? No need to address that problem, just go bang someone else! There might be a good reason w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 09:41 PM |
| 183 | Four years for choking her during sex. This is not okay.Even if his side were true, it communicates that kinky women are acceptable targets for extreme violence. Killing a woman during "rough sex gone wrong" isn't as bad as killing a woman in any other circumstance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:04 AM |
| 167 | Four years for choking her during sex. This is not okay.Not just that, I'm not convinced this was an accident. He was cheating on his wife, he was under the influence (in vino veritas), and he made no effort to get help after the fact. But because he could claim they liked "rough sex," he gets a reduced sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 227 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.Men: lol marriage is a ball and chain Also men: divorce is a literal hate crime and I get to murder you for even thinking about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:42 PM |
| 31 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.This should be stickied. I want all the critics of the group to see this message. This is the type of man you're supporting and encouraging every time you throw this group insert the bus and publicly proclaim you're "not like them" and believe in "equality." This is the incel you keep comparing us to. Where are our threats of violence? Why aren't YOU doing something to call out these clowns? Is "don't fuck these guys" really a more pressing concern than this or do you secretly agree that we shou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:41 PM |
| 14 | What should we call Male Karens? Darrens?How many reports does this post have right now? 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:46 AM |
| 58 | Beware of this type of men. It's one of many abusive types mentioned in Lundy's book, but I see this specific type very often lately, especially on social media.Yes, because they are the manipulators Bancroft warns women about and they need to change the narrative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 11:56 PM |
| 19 | To those completely new to FDS. You cannot "communicate" your way out of this patriarchal system. Level up and never settle."Communicate" is often thrown around as the ultimate relationship advice, and it's a trap. Does a successful relationship require good communication? Absolutely. But most relationships will ultimately fail, and often you will find that communication will do fuck all to save them. Every other relationship advice post on Reddit starts with "We had this conversation and..." and the advice is ALWAYS to "sit him down and communicate." What happens when you already did that? Clearly, communicate again… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 11:14 PM |
| 110 | Beware of this type of men. It's one of many abusive types mentioned in Lundy's book, but I see this specific type very often lately, especially on social media.Yup. My ex ticked all these boxes. Never passed up a chance to belittle his exes. He talked more about one ex's crimes of being vegan or *gasp* wanting to share a bed with him as if they were forms of emotional abuse. She FORCED him to step out by eating cheese pizza or having an emotional affair in her absence. You see, she wasn't a good cook or imaginative lover. She even grew out her body hair. Can you imagine? A couple of his exes got physical with him, supposedly. He thankfully never got vi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:57 PM |
| 80 | Came across this while doing research...Do you have a link to the article? I'm curious where that "too eager" quote came from. Was it her confession, the prosecution's opening remarks, some rando commenting to a reporter, or elsewhere? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Future Vetting Strategy: A man's willingness to fly/do any form of travel beyond road trips.This is fair. The Reddit post where I originally found the video said it was over a mask dispute, but that's not the most reliable source. And the video only shows part of the confrontation. Other reports say this individual was a vet having a mental breakdown, just got done beating up his girlfriend, was possibly drunk, but nothing definitive. But even if this story turns out to be different, it reminded me that there is a phenomenon of people facing long-term consequences over certain events t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:42 PM |
| 132 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...Why isn't he carrying 50/50 of the pregnancies? Some dude will want to chime in with "but he can't!" No shit. That's the point. Why won't he do something to compensate for this inability? He's obviously living this marriage on easy mode. 50/50 my ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:52 AM |
| 10 | 🙄He's not wrong, though. He just failed to specify the women they serve aren't you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:15 AM |
| 34 | It’s happened. We’ve reached the pinnacle of libfem logic.Yes, but let's focus on what really matters here: the right of privileged western women to sell pictures of their feet. (/s please don't kill me) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 01:55 AM |
| 22 | It’s happened. We’ve reached the pinnacle of libfem logic.Handmaid's Tale* Translated: "How dare these people oppose using women as private AND public property? You have to pick one!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 01:54 AM |
| 12 | How can WHO make things right with WHO??? My heart hurts for her 🙁If there WERE a bias against men in family courts, guys like this would be the reason why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 01:52 AM |
| 61 | No, Women Who Support Porn, I'm Not "Insecure".This. At no point in history has porn been this widely available. We are the first generations to grow up alongside omnipresent porn and are completely blind to the repercussions. Before then, it was rightly considered a perversion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:25 AM |
| 23 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugShe fumbled here. If you're going to tell the other woman, don't let the cheater in on your plans. I guarantee he was begging for Charlotte's silence long enough to spin the narrative in his favor. Likely that Charlotte is some crazy ex telling lies or something similar. And on that note, it's one more reason to be skeptical of any man who has "crazy exes" suddenly coming out of the woodwork. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:10 PM |
| 13 | The victim blaming pickmeisha. Could it get any worse?So what I'm understanding is that the first poster assumes all men are mindless sex-crazed animals who lack any semblance of self control. They can't control their urges at the sight of flesh, and therefore can't be held responsible for anything that they do. How sexist of her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:41 PM |
| 30 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!I'm sure FDS drives a huge amount of traffic to the site, and traffic means ad dollars. Losing FDS would mean losing a nice chunk of that revenue. It would be a real shame if something were to happen to this sub. So by all means, gentlemen, keep hate-reading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Excellent thread on why sex work will never be empowering, no matter how much libfems want it to be. It’s a man’s game.So what's your solution? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 04:58 AM |
| 59 | Need resources to show 22 year old friend that making porn on OnlyFans for money and “empowerment” isn’t a good idea...Here you go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 03:57 AM |
| 43 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyyTell me again which sex was favored as heirs to a given throne? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 03:03 AM |
| 100 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyyIt's recently coming out that the Plymouth shooter was harassing at least one 16 year old girl for sex online. He literally used the sentence "Am i not entitled to my big titty 16 18 year old GF?? " Note the use of "entitled" Redpilled bros are desperate to blame FDS for what happened, when really he just felt entitled to fuck little girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:43 AM |
| 230 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyyMen can murder their families and society will find a way to blame women for it. Don't tell me women are valued nore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 11:01 PM |
| 44 | Truth 💯 @che_guefarhanmale abusers, rapists, scammers and mysoginists "So, you mean all men?" Some guy on Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 02:20 PM |
| 33 | Well that was bound to happen🙄Another crazy part is that if she went through with it, pro-porn advocates will claim she "consented" and it's all okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 08:47 PM |
| 75 | Woman tells her Scrote boyfriend about a bad sexual experience she had; he is upset because that means "He had a big enough dick to hurt you, and I don't. :("A lot of men don't see sex as a mutually enjoyable experience, but something women will endure for men's pleasure. He was upset because she'll never sacrifice her comfort for him like she did this other guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:18 AM |
| 39 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usThey're based in Orlando IIRC. I think it was intended to be a shortened form of "safer" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:40 PM |
| 8 | Pick-me glorifies female oppression & slavery in the third world under the guise of protection of women."Loving" home? How delusional can you be? If she really believed a lifetime of being forced into domestic servitude was preferable to, you know, having rights, she would've shut up a long time ago. She's just happy a group of animals are preoccupied with victimizing another group of girls. A big chunk of the pickme mindset is "rape that girl instead." I take it all back. Looking at this "girl"'s twitter feed it is almost certainly run by a teenage male edgelord. Probably waiting for his turn to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:03 AM |
| 371 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usThere is Safr which is women-only but they're not doing rides at the moment except in emergency situations. I hope they open up soon, I'd love to be a driver for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:48 AM |
| 347 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usTo add to this: If a strange man asks if you have a boyfriend, the answer is always yes. I made the mistake of honestly saying "no" to a creepy guy at college and he got really pushy/flirty with me afterward. Did the same to who knows how many other women at the dorms, and I heard he raped a woman. Sometimes this doesn't change their minds, though. I said "yes" to having a boyfriend on another occasion and the guy's response was "well he doesn't have to know anything" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 12:46 AM |
| 86 | Ladies, please stay safe! This was couple of days before the British incel Jake took lives from people.In light of recent events, I'd like to remind everyone here that NOT ALL MEN are violent and hateful. There, gentlemen. You can ease up on the mass shootings now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 01:57 AM |
| 46 | PSA to the kinky pick-mes.When I was in the kink scene, I met a lot of submissive women attached to dominant men. Nearly all of them reached a stage where they stepped back and said "wait, where does the play stop and abuse begin? Because now he's hurting me all the time." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:35 AM |
| 5 | What do you all think about this?Why and how did they meet up on 4 separate occasions? One of them is trying to find the other and that's not okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:30 AM |
| 19 | In a post asking reddit to ban incel subs after an incel shooting in the UK, comments that FDS needs to be bannedThose mass shooting don't matter. Clearly, the real problem is that certain women have the audacity to have boundaries! Notice, despite the shooter saying he got his views from the manosphere, none of these guys want to admit their "responsibility" for what happened. Somehow we shoulder all the blame and men get to pretend they are children with no agency. If this is the case, why do they even run society? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 12:19 AM |
| 31 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.Anyone who tries to say that this sub is "toxic" because we don't date certain men instantly loses all credibility. You have men like this one who are losers of their own making, planning and committing crimes against women, and FDS critics look the other way or defend them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 11:24 PM |
| 91 | Breakfast first date?These are all reasons why I prefer lunch for a first date. But I'm also not a morning person. At all. This could also be a good sign that a man is able and willing to get up early to see you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 03:51 AM |
| 168 | ..did anybody see this?Guys like this love to talk about "if the roles were reversed" as if they weren't by default. So many male-run subs are everything these critics accuse FDS of being, and most of them are shielded from criticism because "it's just their opinion." Which is technically all that FDS poster shared. When a certain sub about "good men" gets in their crosshairs, I'll start believing their cries for "equality" are genuine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 01:06 AM |
| 13 | Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?)And what is he doing to appeal to her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 11:39 PM |
| 15 | “Sexual harassment should be normalized!” and other wtf scrote quotes from dates."Boundaries are meant to be pushed" "Oh good, I've been dying to try sounding and pegging at the same time. Up for some DP, scrote? That's the spirit." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 10:54 PM |
| 13 | “Sexual harassment should be normalized!” and other wtf scrote quotes from dates."Girls should come with a height limit. It's unnatural for them to be over 5'10". I might make an exception for you." Again, my 6'2" ass walked out on the date. I never want to hear dudes whine about women having height preferences again. I know it's gonna happen anyway, but still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 10:52 PM |
| 9 | “Sexual harassment should be normalized!” and other wtf scrote quotes from dates."I've seen all this amateur porn, so I KNOW people are out there having crazy sex." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 10:51 PM |
| 22 | Beware the “Mature Communicator”Oh damn. I had multiple exes pull this on me. In one instance, my most recent ex made a public social media comment to a friend of his (a ladyfriend he used to bang, but told me not to worry about) that he wanted to snuggle in her arms. When I called him on it, he pretended to forget about it and played it off as "banter." He also blew off a date with me once to see her because she was in town, but it was okay because he planned a last minute day trip to a theme park with me to compensate. Again… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 10:46 PM |
| 83 | Silly questionThe funny thing is, a non-predatory man who respects boundaries would never have an issue with a woman's precautions. Either they wouldn't mind (because it doesn't affect or inhibit them) or wouldn't notice (because they wouldn't come close to making a woman uncomfortable.) If a man takes offense at a woman protecting herself, he's exposing his ill intent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 151 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!Many guys in that sub mentioned this issue. You know you fucked up when those guys are calling you out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:48 AM |
| 66 | Today's crack-me-up - turns out even basic preferences like earning average pay and not being obese is statistically too much to ask (in the US). Stay strong, american queens!And clearly we must draw the conclusion that women are too picky and must settle for whatever we can get. Not that men fall short of basic standards. Why must I make concessions for mediocrity? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 02:46 AM |
| 960 | He absolutely despises her.Men when they're broke: "I thought we were a team!" Men when their partners are broke: "WTF? I thought you were an independent woman! What happened to equality?!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:23 AM |
| 23 | A supportive motherMaybe the son helped her out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:16 PM |
| 138 | A supportive motherI get the vibe of an older poster who's trying really hard to keep up with younger internet culture. But who really knows? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 04:39 PM |
| 22 | Men like to use nature to confirm their biases. But they hate it when we do the same. Here's a few I thought are worth mentioning.To add to this, many of the species in which the males procreate and run are prey animals. The idea is to have as many babies as possible because most won't survive. Humans aren't like that. Not only do we expect most of our young to turn into healthy adults, our offspring come out more helpless than most if not any other species. Therefore the best strategy for women is to choose the best mates possible who can and will stick around to provide and help raise the child. Men these days want to li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 18 | Women are crazy because they’re people?So his idea of a woman's bad behavior is... having a high opinion of herself. Which is definitely not a trait observed in men. Ok. 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 03:33 AM |
| 25 | Why do the manosphere and pickmes hate men so much?I just had a dude elsewhere claim that feminists want to abort male fetuses. No sir, that's what men do when they don't want daughters. Interesting how all their accusations are things men end up doing to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 12:16 PM |
| 406 | He really thought he did somethingIf men don't have to settle, neither do I. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:28 AM |
| 41 | Why do the manosphere and pickmes hate men so much?And if you think about it more, it stops being benevolent. See also: use of "simp" as a slur. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:18 AM |
| 97 | Why do the manosphere and pickmes hate men so much?All men are slaves to their biology. HOWEVER Not all men are sex-crazed rapists with no self-control. When a guy pulls the "not all men" card, the "but I'm definitely one of them" part is silent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:33 AM |
| 57 | STOP THE VANILLA SHAMING!I dabbled with kink and polyamory when I was younger. ALL of the women I knew in those circles had mental health issues. Myself included. As soon as I took a good look at myself and started working on my flaws, my interest in BDSM and """"ethical"""" non-monogamy went away. I want to be loved, not a lifetime of chasing NRE highs and getting whipped for someone else's approval. It's sad that this is frowned upon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:00 AM |
| 34 | Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡If you think about it, they're really saying our ideas are tame compared to what's in their heads. Small wonder why their haven got banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:19 AM |
| 140 | My boyfriend was making iced coffee and asked me if I wanted some. I said “No, thank you”, then he sat on the couch with his glass, I was like “Damn that looks good shoulda said yes” so he got up, went back to the kitchen and brought me the second iced coffee he had made for me.Why do you think they rage against paying for dates? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 12:36 AM |
| 314 | Aaaand this is why drink dates and coffee dates are a bad ideaThis reads more like a "don't get too invested too soon" lesson. A man this petty would cancel before a dinner date as well. Never waste half your day on a date, especially since this seems to be the first date. Her reaction is a little much. A better response would've been to block the clown and go enjoy yourself at the wine bar without him. Or just do something else she would enjoy. What are the signs she should look out for? I'd wager his communication was pretty low-energy from the start. Sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:08 PM |
| 43 | She says she hopes she won’t have to deal with this for years to come… sadly, she’s likely mistakenMy first thought was that if she didn't already have an alternate heir in the event of her passing, changing her plan in response to what her husband is doing might seem spiteful on the surface. BUT Notice how he didn't answer her question about what percentage is left to his son? I'd wager it's a lot higher than she expects. Which would mean he doesn't want to leave his spouse with much (or perhaps anything) after he dies, yet feels entitled to her entire 401k. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:54 PM |
| 351 | LVM Moocher!! Thank GOODNESS she got some solid advice in the comments to DROP! THAT! SCROOOOTE!Every time I see the "women use dates for free dinner" conspiracy theory I assume it's projection. Notice how she always does 50/50 but wound up nearly dating a guy who wants more from her. That's not a coincidence, guys like this specifically look for cool girls who are easy targets for more. Note how this was also an issue with her ex. So basically she's picking up a man she barely knows, driving him out of town, and paying for his meal. She has NO agency in this "date." I guarantee he'd take … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 02:42 AM |
| 26 | We need to call out men's entitlement more often.They will straight up say they want a sex slave before they even consider giving up porn. I've also seen "I'll give up porn if she gives up social media. No more thirst traps for validation." So much to unpack there, mainly the admission that they assume all of social media is for women to post thirst traps for men? Not to mention the isolation aspect of having to cut off half the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 01:11 AM |
| 14 | Beware of shady matchmakers, ladies.Ah, then I stand corrected! Had the reviews been glowing, it would be a different story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 07:13 PM |
| 23 | Beware of shady matchmakers, ladies.He could've written those reviews too. Don't underestimate the free time that single dudes have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:38 PM |
| 462 | Liberal feminism will be the death of womenThis woman could've died or experienced long-term effects for the "crime" of inconveniencing her man. This is another reason not to put up with bullshit from your partner or friends. "Nagging" can be a punishable crime in your relationship and your friends will take his side because you're "toxic." Can't believe she felt entitled to him texting her? I can't believe he felt entitled to POISON her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:05 PM |
| 26 | Beware of shady matchmakers, ladies.I would take that one further and suggest the man created this matchmaker persona himself, and "she" does not exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 05:18 PM |
| 12 | Pick-me goes on a date with a man who she exposed cheating on his girlfriend.Wait for her next Tiktok after he finds out he's cheating on her too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:57 PM |
| 48 | I seriously question when men on Reddit say they've been in an abusive relationship with a womanMy recent ex tells everyone who will listen how one of his exes went crazy and abused him. It wasn't long in our relationship before he started screaming at me and punching holes in walls. Thankfully I left before he put his hands on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:37 AM |
| 45 | I seriously question when men on Reddit say they've been in an abusive relationship with a womanMy friend moved out of her shared apartment with her now ex husband. Packed her shit and left in a few hours before he woke up. He filed for divorce first and made multiple comments that she "moved out abruptly" as if it was some heinous offense against him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:35 AM |
| 14 | I seriously question when men on Reddit say they've been in an abusive relationship with a womanI've seen guys describe physically abusive girlfriends in a way that painted them as so one-dimensionally evil as to be unrealistic. Example: girlfriend interrupted his video games to have sex. Had to badger him into sex. He relented and went upstairs. She changed her mind and said she wanted to talk. He got mad and tried to leave the room, but she stopped him by standing in the doorway and slapping his face while laughing and saying "you can't touch me, I'm a girl" Just, what? I'm not denying t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:31 AM |
| 41 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄It's okay to standard shame as long as it's women! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 15 | Lovely bit of standard shaming by TikTok Pickminique 🙄Men drag women all day long on social media, I don't know what world this lady is from or why she doesn't have a word to say about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 09:24 PM |
| 22 | The usual culprits at it with the fear-mongering again. If we all just popped out some babies for the terrorism plotting incels, deranged red pilled dweebs and paedophilic cheating porn fried scrotes, society would be magically better! 🙄I just saw a guy in another sub say that women are entitled c*nts if we don't want to spend 3+ days doing nothing with a stranger for the first date. Meanwhile so many women are making posts like "he's addicted to cp and vomits at the sight of me, how can I make this work?" I don't have any strong feelings about a hypothetically declining birth rate, but the hate is one sided. And let's not mention this fear mongering comes from men who for the most part DO NOT WANT TO RAISE CHILDREN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 03:17 AM |
| 5 | As much as I hate war, I agree with her response. And "a period"? 🤔. Yeah it's not like I pick and choose when menstruation begins each month.Fine, I'll use whatever excuse men have for their attitudes. shuffles deck, draws a card Guess I'm depressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 11:06 PM |
| 18 | This is why you protect your womb. This is why men's lies about the court system is bullshit. Ladies, always vet and vet ruthlessly. The world is against you, so be ruthless.“The court’s starting point was always ‘Why are these children not seeing their paedophile convicted father? Is the mother being unfair to the father?’,” Let that sink in and try to tell me courts are unfair to men. Lurking deadbeats, your "crazy" ex is not at fault. This guy showed up, you didn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 09:18 PM |
| 915 | Difference between a great man and a garbage"If she won't fuck you, let her die." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:19 AM |
| 423 | Men actually hate us. I found these comments on a video where they complain that women can’t find ‘economically desirable men’ and they tell men not to get married.That men chase the barely legal crowd until they croak is a strike against men, not women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:16 AM |
| 528 | 🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it...Beware of the "we're open but have a DADT policy." This is with near-100% certainty a cover for cheating. He wants to fool around but the wife isn't receptive to his "neeeeeeeeeds," so he does it on the sly and convinces his marks that keeping it secret is good for his family! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:14 AM |
| 156 | OF COURSE women initiate 80% of divorces.They'd rather risk life in prison than risk being single for the long term. They need someone to take care of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:06 PM |
| 16 | Return of the city scrotesIt's not just walking. I had four separate dudes in trucks nearly hit me the other day on my way to work because they just do whatever they want. I'm talking right turns at a red light without watching for traffic, nearly backing into me in a parking lot, slowing backing into a road and taking up both lanes so nobody can get around you. This isn't incompetence on their parts, this is "fuck you, I'm bigger and I can flatten you if I wanted" bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 02:20 AM |
| 54 | Question about Co-worker - Did I handle the situation poorly?Let's deconstruct this, shall we? he started joking about coming to his place and other more inappropriate (nothing overt, usually followed by "I'm just kidding" after making an uncomfortable joke - not sure if he realizes it's weird coming from a married man) He absolutely knows. If he didn't, he wouldn't rush to clarify that it was a joke. He also wouldn't do it more than once after getting shut down. This is called "testing the waters." He wants to see how receptive you are to the idea. "Wow,… | /r/askFDS | 17/07/21 02:06 AM |
| 14 | We don’t wear things for them! (Please wear your glasses though because you need to see 😂)When I first started wearing glasses, I bought two frames. One black and one red. One coworker I had insisted I should wear the red ones more often because they were "sexy." Guess which frames I favored after that. Oh, and that guy got caught harassing multiple female coworkers later on. (The company opted to transfer him to another store but that's a rant for another day) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:51 AM |
| 23 | When your white LVM ass thought that you found your Asian slave bangmaid in China, but they actually have standards over thereMy favorite part is where he's expecting love when all he planned to offer was self-serving dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:37 AM |
| 12 | Did I approach my triggers the right away?Your therapist would have a better idea of what's best than anyone here. But from my POV, your ability to recognize something that triggers you and taking steps to avoid is a positive thing. I hope you can continue your recovery to the point where you no longer need to concern yourself with these triggers. Good luck and enjoy your trip! | /r/askFDS | 17/07/21 01:24 AM |
| 236 | The new dating scam.Men are gold diggers. I guarantee you this will get cross posted somewhere and men will fall all over themselves to call her "entitled" for not wanting to pay more than her fair share. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:07 PM |
| 5 | She found cp on her husband's computer and is wondering if she should leave him 🤦🏽♀️women really are this brainwashed. She has two little girls with him.The automod message is a good idea! I'll take that into consideration. Thanks for answering 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:53 PM |
| 10 | She found cp on her husband's computer and is wondering if she should leave him 🤦🏽♀️women really are this brainwashed. She has two little girls with him.Hi. I think I mod the sub you're talking about. (OP posted in at least two subs) Do you feel there would have been a better way or place for someone in her situation to ask for guidance? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:52 AM |
| 85 | "If England gets beaten, so will she" when england loses a football match, the figure for domestic violence surges by 38%. Even if they win, it goes up by 26%.Hey mods, there's an "evil cackle" award on this post. In case you didn't know already there is a way to remove awards from posts and waste the trolls' money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 04:19 AM |
| 66 | Women deserve to cum tooI got into this conversation with some clowns on a certain pill sub. Apparently, men are entitled to use women as whole ass masturbation sleeves yet women must earn the privilege of an orgasm. You can't make this shit up 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:08 AM |
| 101 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”He abused this woman. He abused her to the point she didn't know which way was up for a time. She would've put up with so much of his bullshit and he's counting on reaching that part of her again. That's the only reason why she's his one that got away: nobody put up with his bullshit like this woman did. This new girlfriend is in the early stages of the same conditioning. I hope she gets out soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 09:48 PM |
| 15 | And people were praising his honesty 🤡🤡🤡.What do you think would happen if women were this "honest" with men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:55 PM |
| 122 | Not all men are bad. This is great news for women and bad news for the unwashed masses of Reddit.My favorite "not all men" message came from a dude who commented elsewhere that there was nothing wrong with taking creepshots because the women were in public. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 10:58 PM |
| 113 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matchesFunny how none of them were worried about running their kingdom when they were 21-22. Too busy whoring around, I'm sure. And now they want to settle? Where have I heard this before? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Why are men ridiculed for women's sexual dissatisfaction when Evolution did not select for women's sexual pleasure?And the ugly women still go unfulfilled, so I'm not buying the "women need to earn their orgasm" narrative from either one of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:50 PM |
| 353 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /sGuys like this see the sex acts as a measure of how much women like their partners. If we really like the guy, we'll do anything to keep them, including sex acts we're lukewarm about or even hate. Because we know the men like them and we want to make them happy. They may not even see it as "at our expense," because we're supposed to enjoy making our partners happy. It says a lot about how these guys think of sex. It's not an act of mutual enjoyment, it's an act of sacrifice to entertain men. In … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 08:30 PM |
| 118 | 33 women by 21. These are the men who will dunk on promiscuous women for a body count they were traumatized into and the sexual encounters they did not enjoy but endure. His poor gf, you can't turn a hoe into a husband (he's also active on cheater/porn subreddits lol)"My 18th body..." Also note it's "we trust each other" not "we're faithful to each other." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:17 AM |
| 2 | "6. It Doesn't Make Him Deviant" 🙄Thanks for the advice, "Cosmo Frank." Also, the photo he chose is from a movie about a LITERAL PORN ADDICT. Coincidence? I think not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 02:29 PM |
| 150 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?My ex kept mouthwash in his car and always had minty fresh breath when he saw me. Turns out he was hiding the vodka on his breath (or just drinking the mouthwash, I never found out which) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 12:02 PM |
| 47 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?Same with "I believe in equality." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 12:01 PM |
| 4 | Why are men ridiculed for women's sexual dissatisfaction when Evolution did not select for women's sexual pleasure?Blah blah blah irrelevant argument blah blah blah. You are the one who said men have expectations with their appearance. Therefore, not irrelevant. Getting dressed and putting on makeup doesn't entitle you to much of anything except a guy who got dressed, shaved and styled his ass hair. Did I say she was "entitled?" That has nothing to do with my point there. It also doesn't account for the men who don't do this and expect their partners to look like porn stars. Because it wasn't really a questi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 03:10 AM |
| 7 | Why are men ridiculed for women's sexual dissatisfaction when Evolution did not select for women's sexual pleasure?You can cry about it when men are pressured to wax and color themselves on a majority basis. Men have far fewer standards for their appearance. That work into one's appearance doesn't vanish once sex starts. And I've been reliably informed that men are visual creatures. So ALL women do nothing in bed? You ignored my question of what a woman should do to get her orgasm. Communication is important, and saying something like "I need you to go down on me" or "my g spot is here" counts as communicati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 01:26 AM |
| 9 | Why are men ridiculed for women's sexual dissatisfaction when Evolution did not select for women's sexual pleasure?The same cannot be said of men. Women face expectations to look a certain way before we even get to the bedroom. Hairless, made up but not too made up, not fat, tits and ass. Yet if a woman expresses the slightest physical preference for men it's ridiculed. Then you get to the bedroom, and there's the expectation to do extended blowjobs with deepthroat, fuck a certain way. Maybe the guy will give a couple of thrusts and be done. But the effort is certainly lopsided in favor of men. Men are damn … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 11:13 PM |
| 16 | Why are men ridiculed for women's sexual dissatisfaction when Evolution did not select for women's sexual pleasure?Well, yeah. Why should a woman do all the work of pleasuring the man AND herself if they're supposed to be having sex together? Why shouldn't he step up? Sex is a shared activity, not something she gives you to keep the peace. Otherwise she might as well stay home with a vibrator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 11:01 PM |
| 13 | Coercive Control: an "almost invisible set of behaviors that don’t fit within the widespread but misinformed view that domestic violence requires bruises and black eyes"There was an episode on this subject on the podcast a few weeks ago! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:50 AM |
| 497 | Scrote ShitWait until they find out women learned how to cook too. We aren't here to feed their lazy asses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 04:23 AM |
| 20 | SINGLE FATHER REFUSES TO DATE A SINGLE MOTHER! HE FEELS HE'S TOO GOOD FOR A WOMAN WITH KIDS!If you think about it, these types of men are admitting they aren't good enough either and hope you won't notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 03:57 AM |
| 19 | ' sEx wOrK iS EmpoWeRiNg 'And when society starts to move away from patriarchal norms and becomes less religious, women are convinced to do the same damn thing and call it empowerment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 09:24 PM |
| 6 | They don’t listen, they just deflect, lie and make it all about them 🙄I like how he backpedals with "I'm just saying there's a correlation, I'm not saying it means anything!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:53 AM |
| 19 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyLook. All guys wanna hump Daisy Duck. It's just biology. By setting this unrealistic expectation, you're eliminating almost all men from your dating pool. No guy will want to be with you if he can't hump random cartoon ducks at Disneyland. I don't make the rules. Anyway. I have a rule against dating widowers now. Not because widowers are bad people, but because I can't deal with another relationship where I'm competing with a dead woman for my partner's heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.Similar to caramel. Some vegan or "healthy" recipes will use them as a sweetener. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.Well I know what I'm doing for lunch on my next day off. This looks amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Women just need to lower their standards 🙄"Men aren't trolling for sex" "Men have options and aren't looking for soulmates yet" Make up your mind, dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:23 AM |
| 37 | Boundaries vs. Control.I'm not sure this will work. The men you're trying to weed out get uncomfortable at the mention of rape, not because they don't want to hurt their partners but they don't want the inconvenience and stigma of "getting metood." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:20 AM |
| 7 | Just one more reason to literally never put your nude/bikini/underwear pics anywhere online or give them to anyone. What an easy way to potentially ruin some poor girl's life or career while being an identity thiefI'm not surprised tbh. Scent is the strongest sense tied to memory. These men are almost certainly pornsick, they've spent a lot of time jerking it to porn by themselves instead of having sex. They've come to associate the smell of their own bodies with having sex, therefore the sweaty ball smell registers as sexy in their minds. I strongly suspect dudes who complain about vaginas smelling bad have the same thing going on. The vaginas are fine, it's just not the smell they associate with sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:18 AM |
| 101 | Boundaries vs. Control.That's another reason to hold fast to your boundaries. Too many guys treat them like a game to be negotiated. "No means no" had good intentions but got twisted into "if I can get her to stop saying no to what I want, that's consent." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.There's a common theme on certain AITA posts where the poster is clearly an asshole and makes comments that just digs himself further into a hole. I say "he" because this poster is male 90% of the time. The posts are always about a relationship and the comments demonstrate a further lack of self-awareness that shouldn't exist in people unless it's intentional. I strongly suspect these are trolls farming downvotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:23 AM |
| 18 | EXPLAINING WHY 50/50 IS BAD FOR YOUNGER GENERATION OF WOMEN (TEENS)Here are the explanations that works best for me: There are a lot of men out there who play the numbers when it comes to dating. They will go out with the women they can and filter them out later. Often they won't even vet at all, but opt to monkey branch and string along their dates until they find someone better. Their goal is to have something and keep "trading up" rather than spend time being single, because having a girlfriend means having access to steady sex/validation. You don't want to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 03:20 AM |
| 0 | This dude cannot be for real… actually I think he is and that makes it worse 🤢 [check comments for context]Then they'll do fine in the mines. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 09:18 PM |
| 23 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.The idea that family courts are biased against men is a joke. When men WANT custody, they get it. Even the ones who have no business getting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 12:51 AM |
| 153 | When they lie about their ages on dating apps and think we won't notice 😂just got a PM from an angry scrote saying it's sexist to call men by their genital tissue. OK dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Don't take it personally if you get banned from FDS. We ban a lot of people, it's actually very common.75% of the time when I ban users in the subs I mod (and it was the same in my brief tenure as an FDS mod) it was because they couldn't be civil in discussions. No such thing as respectful discourse, just straight to an argument. Predictably, they will try and fight with me in modmail. "I WASN'T BEING RUDE, YOU BITCH!" People just need to read the room. This group was never meant to be a safe space for anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 08:03 PM |
| 13 | Hypergamy is not evil, and I'm tired of pretending otherwise.Some men don't want families 🤷♀️ I say we oblige them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 16 | Finally met my HVM 🥰I thought you were going to tell me about a dog you just adopted for a moment! I was about to demand a pet tax. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:09 PM |
| 371 | "You can't let one bad experience color your perception of all men!" "Actually, most men I've met treated me/women badly" "If every man you've dated was a jerk, there is probably something wrong with you, you're the common denominator"Also watch them use their high school rejections as the standard for how all adult women behave ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 01:21 AM |
| 146 | 'Spiritual'/hippie menAlso look out for dudes into "tantric" sex. In my experience these are mostly pornsick guys looking to cover for their abysmal performance by delaying YOUR gratification and calling it spiritual. It also gives them a position to critique your personal needs and desires and claim that your body "should" work a certain way if only you'd do XYZ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 10:01 PM |
| 26 | I'm devastated. TW Caroline's murderer was her husband.I just looked this up. He's only recently been taken in for questioning. Certain papers ran with the sob story of him begging robbers not to hurt her and the baby trying to wake her mother. These same papers have yet to report on the case's developments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 01:09 AM |
| 15 | Has anyone else had this pop up on their Instagram feed being promoted by influencers? I don't even really know what to say. It appears to be a new dating app with a "bedroom feature" where you select your preferences.That's... not what pegging is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 12:47 AM |
| 15 | On porn and sex workWatching porn and enabling sex work just reinforces the idea that sexual gratification is a commodity that needs to be provided by women. As long as you participate in that, you cannot be an ally to women. And no, I don't give a damn about the women who "choose" to do sex work for the "empowerment." At best they're misguided, at worst they're contributing to the same system that turns all women into commodities to be consumed, fuels human trafficking, feeds hookup culture, and breaks down relati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 11:02 PM |
| 69 | Who else didn’t know there was only one convention to stop men from being allowed to kill and rape women ?Side note, conservatives in the US oppose bans on child marriage for the same reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:00 PM |
| 226 | To the guys lurking - stop shaming women with high standards.They keep reminding us that there are women out there who are lower maintenance and more easygoing. And hotter! They somehow know this without seeing my face, but whatever. If this is so true, why aren't you out pursuing those women instead of bothering us? Just go date them and be happy instead of raging in our inboxes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:58 AM |
| 30 | The popular saying "Sex is like pizza, even if it's bad it's pretty good" is proof that men just do not see the world the same way as women."Doesn't matter, had sex." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 06:04 PM |
| 47 | So many stories like this are popping up. I'm glad she's divorcing him.He wasn't joking until he realized he was about to face consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 46 | Straight from the scrote horse’s mouth. When you take shit from men, they look down on you. Reason number 162738382929201 to never tolerate their BS.I was in a 6 year relationship with an alcoholic, and I do believe this is exactly what he thought of me. All he had to do when he relapsed was cry a bit and talk about how stressed he was because my boundaries were shit at the time. Why wouldn't he steamroll them? He did find sobriety eventually, and AFAIK is sober today, but our relationship never recovered from that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 03:34 AM |
| 161 | So true. 😍 👑Men have lost the art of making themselves special. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:55 PM |
| 12 | 9/10 girls experience sexual harassment and sexism at school, but it’s not all men, right? 🤡It's just a "very small minority" (that we're not going to do anything about) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 10:10 PM |
| 42 | More leftist pussy policing & anti-reproductive choice rhetoric. Nice try Scrotes, but you can’t use Pride month to shame or bully women into sex with you. OUR VAGINAS, OUR CHOICE.This is the kind of thinking that killed August Ames. But they'll happily celebrate a woman's death so men can get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 11:05 AM |
| 38 | More leftist pussy policing & anti-reproductive choice rhetoric. Nice try Scrotes, but you can’t use Pride month to shame or bully women into sex with you. OUR VAGINAS, OUR CHOICE.Some straight men aggressively defend their heterosexuality too. It's misandry at its finest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | I'm so LuCkY ! My bf didn't leave me after I had his child ! The bar is in hell ! I feel sry for these young women .. ! Father leaving kids and mother is so common that she feels lucky ! ✋🙂Not the main point here but I love how the narrative is "you shouldn't have gotten pregnant" and not "you shouldn't have knocked her up." Men have more control over their sperm than we do over our eggs, but pregnancy is still our fault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:38 PM |
| 150 | A Question For Those Who Like to Interject “Not All Men” into conversations about bad men. Someone do the math.What these guys like to forget is that bad men don't treat other men the way they treat women. So when men say they've never met an incel, rapist, deadbeat, whatever, that's not a reliable source because these men aren't the targets of most predators. Back when I was in the BDSM scene, all the "dominant" men at the top of the social ladder would insist they've never met a predator in their midst. But this only tells you they either 1) aren't being targeted by these predators or 2) they ARE the p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 11:36 PM |
| 8 | FDS STRATEGY SPOTLIGHT: SATURDAY JUNE 5 2021Hey, thanks for the shoutout! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:43 PM |
| 26 | The random man I locked eyes with the other week shopping for cool ranch doritos and mountain dew 🥰🥰Don't forget "Where are all the..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 37 | Am I lesbian or do I just hate men?I've gone through "moods" sometimes where I was exclusively attracted to men or women, though I'm still bisexual. I wouldn't worry about it so much. Go after what you do like, and remember that having a small interest in men does not mean you have to go looking to date them. | /r/askFDS | 04/06/21 06:27 PM |
| 10 | The "Nothing To Hide" Feint.I'm looking forward to seeing it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Found in another sub. Think it fits here. LmaoWell I guess if it's good enough for Armie Hammer... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Found in another sub. Think it fits here. LmaoGreat, now the FDS critics will start saying we condone cannibalism. Thanks a LOT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:51 AM |
| 29 | Leaving the narcissistDo not wait for him to leave. He has no incentive to do so when you're paying all the bills. And if/when he finds out paying for him is a hindrance to you leaving, he'll milk that for all it's worth. Plan your exit in silence. You can go back home and work to get on your feet so that you can get your own backyard/beach house/whatever you want without relying on anyone else. I know it feels like a step backward, but you'll find it liberating to know he's no longer your problem. | /r/askFDS | 03/06/21 11:47 PM |
| 17 | Audacity of FathersI've heard of women becoming allergic to the baby while pregnant. So it's just a constant allergic reaction you're stuck with until the birth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:08 PM |
| 21 | NVM who think they can buy consent and free willIt's worse than that. They WANT the women to be miserable. That's why he would've withheld payment if she enjoyed it. That's not the service he'd be paying for. In his mind, she either unhappily takes his dick or she doesn't bring in money. She can't pay bills with orgasms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:05 PM |
| 9 | I hope she gets picked !Funny how we're all about "freedom of choice" until a woman sets boundaries in her life. If you're OK with your partner openly looking at other women for whatever reason, ok. Do you. So telling me I have to be okay with it too. Oh, and we all know it's not about whether he finds other women attractive. Stop minimizing the issue. The problem is actions, not thoughts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:02 PM |
| 20 | When the most basic requirement is exhausting.Yet I'm sure this dude's daily porn habit isn't exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:57 PM |
| 11 | Porn Addiction Is More Common Than Anyone Wants To AdmitThey always say the same things, too. Like an alcoholic repeating themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:26 PM |
| 53 | The audacity!And you're "lucky" that this guy is being upfront about his scumbaggery. Soooo many of them try to hide it or pretend to be "PoLy." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 03:13 AM |
| 32 | Guy (41m) keeps suggesting cheap first dates. Does this matter?It sounds like he's trying to test you and make sure you aren't a "gold digger." Give the handbook another look and next this one. | /r/askFDS | 03/06/21 03:11 AM |
| 15 | TIL: The Left Hates Women Having Reproductive Choice with Their Whole Being. Their new tactic is to smear Sexual Selection as “TERF and Nazi propaganda” with doctored screenshots. Did You Know Not Having Sex With Men You Don’t Want To is Eugenics?Say it with me, ladies. OUR WOMBS ARE NOT FOR PUBLIC ACCESS. I swear my contempt for the woke crowd grows every day. Men are not entitled to reproduction, women are not required to provide. No amount of screaming "nazi!" will change this. Fucking die mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 223 | Lib Feminism is a coping mechanism that doesn't actually change anything for women worldwide.That last line reminds me of an old Microsoft joke: How many Microsoft employees does it take to change a lightbulb? None, they just make darkness the new standard! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:47 AM |
| 41 | At least the cat won't care about the hair between your legs 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️One more reason to avoid bearded men then. How does that even happen? Do I want to know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:00 PM |
| 32 | At least the cat won't care about the hair between your legs 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️Wait what | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:19 PM |
| 47 | UNICEF Report Says Pornography Not Always Harmful to ChildrenThis was posted earlier in my sub PornHatesWomen. It was pointed out that the report's wording was vague and article about it misleading. The concern is that many reduces that are legitimate sex education can be labeled as porn by conservative leadership and banned in those groups. Essentially exploiting obscenity laws to stifle necessary education. Then again, it's also come out that there have been pedophiles in UNICEF, so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 07:56 PM |
| 12 | My gf needs space after i convinced her to let me pretend to rape her bc we're sooo kinky but she didnt say "banana" so I didnt stop, why is she upset???🤢🤡He knew she wasn't enjoying it. There's no way he didn't. He just enjoyed that she didn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:07 PM |
| 28 | It's discrimination against women that men's instincts are accepted while women's are not! Women are shamed for their instincts while men get a pat in the back for theirs 😣This is because nowadays, so many men have neither visual appeal nor social status/ resources. Yet we're supposed to treat them as head of household? No sir, that's a role you earn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:06 PM |
| 10 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"So at what point was I justified in saying "I can't deal with this abuse?" If his behavior is normal as you say, surely I should've just endured and been his free therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:50 AM |
| 10 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"Are you suggesting it was normal and acceptable for him to hurl abuse at me on that day and subsequent anniversary days because he would always be in mourning? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:37 AM |
| 209 | Always be skeptical of men's relationship woes on Reddit. When my ex persuaded me to do poly so that he could cheat on me, the narrative he posted to reddit was "my girlfriend manipulated me into opening the relationship so that she could get a sugar daddy"My ex was a widower, and I learned too late that he did NOT move on from the loss as he claimed. His wedding anniversary was a "trigger day" where he was absolutely inconsolable. I'd braced myself for him not being in the best mood and let him know I loved him and was there for him. What I'd failed to do was anticipate him falling apart the Monday before that date when he was alone (we lived some distance apart at the time), and give him a call. This prompted him to run to social media and compl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 6 | Please tell me I'm not crazy! If a man hits you once, it's over.That's what every abuser says. You're right. | /r/askFDS | 31/05/21 07:45 PM |
| 351 | 50/50 relationships will never be equalAnd he'll probably want you to get extra stitches for his pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Sometimes I wish I could yell at some girls that they deserve so much better… sighHow can you love someone who clearly hates you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 08:00 PM |
| 38 | Why you should ALWAYS check his follower list on Social Media!To add to this, check his Instagram activity if you have the occasion to access his account. Go to his profile, press the three bars in the corner, then press "your activity." This will show you every link he's clicked on through Instagram. So even if he isn't following models directly, he can search for them and click on their OF links or whatever, and they'll show up on that list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:28 AM |
| 19 | The "Woke" Men Who Still Want Housewives"I never learned how." If you can figure out how to jerk off, you can figure out how a soapy sponge works. Get to it, boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:30 AM |
| 25 | Basically All of Reddit vs FDSMeh. I used to feel this way once. But my self-esteem was in the gutter and this was my way of seeking validation. It doesn't work long-term though. Your partner WILL take you for granted and you still won't be fulfilled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:22 AM |
| 3 | “It’s not realistic for men to stop watching porn! It doesn’t hurt anyone! You’re just a prude!” Meanwhile this girl’s bf gets off on necrophilia 🤢He said that he felt so guilty about it, and he hated himself for it. Good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:34 AM |
| 11 | I saw this going around on Facebook with women swooning, I need a break from it 🤢Ladies, don't date a man who thinks you're worth $10 a fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 12:49 AM |
| 37 | The main subs on reddit...A lot of the men on this site just want an excuse to insult a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️# NotAllLibras | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 59 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️Cries in Scorpio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:38 PM |
| 181 | (Edited to stay within guidelines) Reddit is so mad at our sub! The comments only confirm the need for this sub and the community and support we offer. Scrotes can die mad about it.If only reddit held the same level of outrage for the actual redpill. Somehow we're held in worse regard despite not advocating anything other than staying away from certain men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:46 PM |
| 8 | Is having a male therapist a no?If you are comfortable with this therapist, give him a shot. You seem aware enough to recognize red flags should be give you any. It's not unheard of for people to switch therapists trying to find the best fit regardless of sex. | /r/askFDS | 23/05/21 03:25 PM |
| 15 | "My Ex accused me of rape"Bonus points if they mention "cancel culture." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:16 AM |
| 26 | "My Ex accused me of rape"They also love to inflate that 3%. So I want to point out that when this happens they're almost certainly lumping in cases in which the victim decided not to press charges, was intimidated into recanting, the case never went to trial, or there was an acquittal. Basically, anything that wasn't an open and shut case that resulted in a swift conviction is a "false accusation," and even then it's questionable. But then they also love to slam the woman for making the false accusation and call for her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:16 AM |
| 47 | A female only gym and scrotes are comparing it to segregation and racism. Im not jokingAnd that's the problem. They think they have a right to harass women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:39 AM |
| 136 | If men really wanted to be good boyfriends/husbands, there would be more communities on it. But instead, we get communities where men share advice on how to use women for sex and other benefits. The internet is a reflection of men's true priorities. They can't lie to us anymore.Incels get a pass for talking up (and often carrying out) plans to rape and murder. Because they're depressed, tortured, shy virgins. This group routinely gets raked over the coals for...being high maintenance. And walking away from men who don't want to meet our standards. Make it make sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:50 AM |
| 1 | FSW [Feminist Strawm*n] You can't decide if women making porn or empowering or bad, but you DEFINITELY know men only watch it because it hurts women. (Feminist crosspost from r/PornHatesWomen)You are literally saying "this is what you guys think, and its wrong" I'm not sure you know what "literally" means, but whatever. What I've gathered from here is that you ARE talking about the sub because we're dumb, but also not talking about us but all feminists in general. OK. Have fun with it. | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 18/05/21 03:36 AM |
| 1 | FSW [Feminist Strawm*n] You can't decide if women making porn or empowering or bad, but you DEFINITELY know men only watch it because it hurts women. (Feminist crosspost from r/PornHatesWomen)Then why use a crosspost from PornHatesWomen? You don't do that unless you want to put the group on display. If he wanted to talk about feminism in general, he wouldn't highlight a specific group. This isn't my strawman. Maybe OP should learn to present his case better. | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 18/05/21 02:59 AM |
| -1 | FSW [Feminist Strawm*n] You can't decide if women making porn or empowering or bad, but you DEFINITELY know men only watch it because it hurts women. (Feminist crosspost from r/PornHatesWomen)"I don't support the porn industry but let men support it every once in a while." Yeah I'll take my "misandrist" views over your hypocrisy any day, thanks. | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 18/05/21 02:39 AM |
| 0 | FSW [Feminist Strawm*n] You can't decide if women making porn or empowering or bad, but you DEFINITELY know men only watch it because it hurts women. (Feminist crosspost from r/PornHatesWomen)This is a crosspost from PornHatesWomen. Do not pretend it wasn't meant to start a conversation about that specific group. | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 18/05/21 02:37 AM |
| -2 | FSW [Feminist Strawm*n] You can't decide if women making porn or empowering or bad, but you DEFINITELY know men only watch it because it hurts women. (Feminist crosspost from r/PornHatesWomen)It took you three comments to drop any pretense of discussion, dig into my history, and start spewing nonsense. I'm impressed at your self control! | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 17/05/21 10:20 PM |
| -10 | FSW [Feminist Strawm*n] You can't decide if women making porn or empowering or bad, but you DEFINITELY know men only watch it because it hurts women. (Feminist crosspost from r/PornHatesWomen)No. Not in the news. In your news. I'm sorry if news in your area didn't cover Pornhub, GirlsDoPorn, or others. But I invite you to look it up if you're unfamiliar. The vast majority of porn is not made by sex slaves, nor is it at a hypothetical gunpoint. The kind of porn that *is* made like that is absolutely revolting and is completely indefensible. So what share of the porn industry being made up of trafficked and abused women would be acceptable to you? What steps do you take to ensure you a… | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 17/05/21 09:30 PM |
| 86 | Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big houseI feel the same way. Once I'm in a position to buy a house, I want 3 bedrooms minimum. My bedroom, an office, and a guest bedroom. I also want a backyard big enough to start a garden. I'm counting on doing this as a single, childfree woman. If I meet someone in the meantime, wonderful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:54 PM |
| -12 | FSW [Feminist Strawm*n] You can't decide if women making porn or empowering or bad, but you DEFINITELY know men only watch it because it hurts women. (Feminist crosspost from r/PornHatesWomen)They try to posit that the porn addicted male is in fact the average male. This is extremely incorrect. And yet every time someone criticizes porn usage in a committed relationship, there's a chorus of "every man watches porn, it's a need, it's completely normal!" They also take a "think of the wahmin!" stance on it, for instance focusing on what is considered "extreme" categories of porn vs what the average guy cranks one off to. Isn't it? The screenshots in that sub are typically taken from th… | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 17/05/21 08:47 PM |
| -10 | FSW [Feminist Strawm*n] You can't decide if women making porn or empowering or bad, but you DEFINITELY know men only watch it because it hurts women. (Feminist crosspost from r/PornHatesWomen)You can't decide if women making porn or empowering or bad, Allow me to make it less confusing for you: it's bad. Nothing in that sub you crossposted suggests otherwise. You suggesting we can't decide whether it's empowering is a strawman of its own. but you DEFINITELY know men only watch it because it hurts women. Another strawman. There are other factors at play for why men can't stop looking at porn. These are acknowledged if you look at the sub for longer than 30 seconds. | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 17/05/21 07:53 PM |
| 52 | And we‘re the toxic people...😒On one of my other subs, there were some guys who scrolled right past the numerous posts about women abused by porn and found a singular comment from a woman saying "I hate m*n." Guess what they took offense to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:16 PM |
| 192 | The very famous "sexual compatibility" NVM absolutely MUST check before committing and why it's a bunch of bull"Sexual compatibility" is LVM code for "is open to reenacting every porn fantasy I've ever had or will have." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 23 | Woman asks if she was wrong to tell her ex's girlfriend that he had 3 kids he abandoned. The first responders say yes absolutely, but the fact they are heavily downvoted gives me some hope.So the children he created are now "baggage and burdens." The first dude said the quiet part out loud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:15 AM |
| 84 | Oh, here's a great idea! Cover your drink! Scrotes will be furious, it helps with vetting AND surviving...If you even notice what she's doing with her drink, she's right to cover it. Men who have no intentions wouldn't even notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 12 | Truer words were never spoken. Whether you choose to use the portal or not.We need to stop giving dudes opportunities just because they DON'T have a vagina. A penis and a raised voice should not put one ahead in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 03:50 PM |
| 31 | misandry isn't real and men who say it IS are more likely to be dangerous.Misogyny is what happens when a certain type of man feels cheated out of the benefits that his one-sided idea of gender roles should provide him. Can't find a girlfriend that caters to his every whim and has no real desires of her own? Don't they know they were supposed to do that in the first place? "Misandry" is what happens when women are cautious around men, usually after meeting plenty of the above. Unlike misogyny, it doesn't start with hatred and bad faith. Actual misandry is what happens… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 03:34 PM |
| 96 | Men still harass us no matter what we wear cause it doesn't change what they know we have underneathI'm keeping my mask on for a little while longer because even if I'm vaccinated, randoms in public won't know that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:21 AM |
| 19 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.This shouldn't make me laugh, dammit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:11 PM |
| 110 | Nobody in the comments section pointed out the obvious, which is that he wants to f*ck this woman if he hasn't alreadyI like to play a game with relationship advice subs where I swap the sexes for certain posts and imagine how Reddit would react. With this one, imagine if she were the one to splurge on her male friend's birthday gift while spending considerably less on her own partner. Reddit men would riot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:59 AM |
| 16 | Some kind scrote reported me to Reddit Care for my last post. I guess I’m supposed to in crisis because I’m alone? Granny has some words for you.I asked my grandma this question once. Her answer was "No ma'am, I have no boyfriend. Once was enough!" She already married the love of her life and he passed when I was a baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 11:49 PM |
| 4 | What's up with him?It doesn't matter what's up with him. He pisses you off, next him. | /r/askFDS | 12/05/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | CoMmUNiCate they say because obviously she is the problem 🙄That person was awfully emotional about what someone else's boyfriend was up to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:12 AM |
| 5 | CoMmUNiCate they say because obviously she is the problem 🙄According to the post, he took pics on his phone too. So he took two sets of photos, one on each phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:12 AM |
| 4 | Scrote's GF can't meet the same standards as his anime sex dollThis is the endgame of those "I only watch hentai instead of porn because no real girls are harmed" boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:09 AM |
| 5 | I’m sick of pick me articles claiming their husbands infidelity made their relationship ‘stronger’The fact that men aren't encouraged to forgive their cheating wives should tell you everything you need to know about how "empowering" it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:01 AM |
| 62 | Notice how when a female celebrity cheat on her partner, all hell breaks loose, but if a male celebrity cheats, no one bats an EYE! It’s so normalized that you hardly hear about it..There's still an annoyingly persistent idea that a woman's worth is based on her ability to get and keep a man. And if the man cheats or leaves her, it's a failing on her part. This is why pickmes exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 128 | Notice how when a female celebrity cheat on her partner, all hell breaks loose, but if a male celebrity cheats, no one bats an EYE! It’s so normalized that you hardly hear about it..Some guys were saying "well what if it was Will with one of his daughter's friends? People would lose their minds over it!" As if celebrities don't already fuck around with women half their age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 03:16 PM |
| 12 | Sex pozzy dipshits keep writing male pandering articles like this making women feel like they have to say the “nice” thing instead of the ACCURATE thing about men’s penis size. Notice how young, Inexperienced, women are more likely to repeat the lie that size doesn’t matter.The problem with this "size matters" discussion is that men's ideas of how big dicks need to be are more influenced by porn. There are some size queens out there, sure, but the women who can actually work with a literal footlong, much less enjoy it, aren't as plentiful and men would believe. The average is, what, 6 inches? My ex was above that and was still insecure about having a smaller dick compared to other men. And speaking of porn, death grip from heavy masturbation leads to men losing sen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 02:49 PM |
| 252 | Notice how when a female celebrity cheat on her partner, all hell breaks loose, but if a male celebrity cheats, no one bats an EYE! It’s so normalized that you hardly hear about it..Cardi B got cheated on and mocked for it. People bent over backward to justify Offset's fucking around and crack jokes about Cardi's WAP. Then news Jada Pinkett Smith's "entanglement" and men acted like it was the end of the world. There was talk of cheating on their girlfriends as a show of "solidarity" with Will. And they were on a break! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 02:39 PM |
| 11 | MY BROTHER WANTS ME TO QUIT ALCOHOL. But he’s NICER to me when I’m drunk. LVM behavior from male family members???????The what and why of his behavior is irrelevant. You need to quit drinking regardless. You are literally killing yourself here. | /r/askFDS | 07/05/21 01:19 PM |
| 18 | "I don't want to be with men who haven't been through anything" - re-calibrate or no?It sounds like the main issues here were his poor boundaries and lack of respect for you. His upbringing may be a contributing factor there, but it's hardly set in stone and many people with good childhoods know how to avoid these character flaws. Vetting for character may be a better strategy for you than vetting for upbringing. The former is something you should be doing anyway. | /r/askFDS | 06/05/21 08:30 PM |
| 10 | "I don't want to be with men who haven't been through anything" - re-calibrate or no?How did this manifest in your relationship? I can see how a completely naive partner can cause friction, but simply having different perspectives on the world isn't necessarily a bad thing. I also feel it's strange to require your partner to have suffered at some point in their lives. | /r/askFDS | 06/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 251 | Can we talk about how insane and psychotic scrotes are about porn? Scientists, psychiatrists, people that work with porn addicts or sex offenders are expressing a very consistent narrative about the toxicity of porn...how it can destroy women, AND men. But men don't seem to care at all.I run a couple of anti-porn subs here, and I had to tighten moderation considerably because men can get so damn abusive in the face of anti-porn narratives. There's not a shred of critical thinking behind what they do, they just devolve into barely coherent personal attacks and rants about how we're evil and stupid. You'd think we took their heroin away or something - oh wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:01 AM |
| 2 | I think this is supposed to be a joke, but I’m certain there are men who feel this way.Imagine thinking this way in earnest and trying to kick your girlfriend out of her own house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:57 AM |
| 39 | We appeared in public again today. Mods did their job, thank you <3Imagine if we tried to "debate" with them in their subs with "reasonable" and "logical" arguments. We'd get shut down so fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:44 PM |
| 168 | We appeared in public again today. Mods did their job, thank you <3Screeching insults at women who don't pander to you is not "reason." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 07:45 PM |
| 14 | Pickmes are cancer to women’s liberationNo. You see, they have women in their government now, so they must fix everything immediately or inherit all of the failings of the previous administrations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:40 AM |
| 54 | "I want to leave, but we have kids."They're just as likely to be negatively influenced, if not more so, with everyone in the same household. That being said, parental alienation is a thing that family courts frown upon. I have no personal experience in this field, but you can talk to a lawyer about it when you're working through divorce and custody issues. I will say that just because your kids feel/think one thing now doesn't mean they won't come to their senses later. I hated that one year of my parents separating at the time be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 3 | I keep seeing a guy that looks like my ex around town and it's kinda freaking me out...You need to find somewhere to go. If not for you, then for your toddlers. Do you want them growing up learning this is how couples are supposed to be? My comments may sound harsh but it's not my intention. See if you can find a domestic violence shelter or other resources for battered women in your area. Between your husband and your stalker, you almost certainly qualify for something. | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 10:45 PM |
| 151 | Sad men defending women are seen as “simps”, “betas”, or “white knights”. These are the same dudes that want us to be traditional. Yet aren’t men supposed to be defending and protecting women? Ya know, actually being men?Men today want all the authority of traditionalism but none of the responsibilities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Nothing but factsI do believe sex selection is very real. But I also believe a lot of men who whine about it and Chads getting all the women could be more successful with a bit of effort. Oh, and Chad already puts in that effort. Sex selection is a cop out, you can't change my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:56 AM |
| 13 | I keep seeing a guy that looks like my ex around town and it's kinda freaking me out...OK, so you reacted poorly to an abusive ex violating his restraining order to contact you. That's completely understandable and should in no way indicate an affair to a reasonable person. Your husband is not a reasonable person. And judging by your post history, this is not the only time he's treated you poorly. Your husband is out of bounds and my advice stands. You should also go to the police with those texts if you haven't already. Your ex almost certainly violated his restraining order. Tel… | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 02:10 AM |
| 28 | I keep seeing a guy that looks like my ex around town and it's kinda freaking me out...Your husband's behavior is alarming. There is no reason he should be accusing you of cheating with the man who abused you and you have an active restraining order against. Shut him down and seriously consider whether you want to stay married to a man who respects you this little. | /r/askFDS | 03/05/21 01:35 AM |
| 123 | Scrote wants pity for getting dumped after stringing ex along for 10 years.He wasn't going to propose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 11:32 PM |
| 10 | On a post about rare conditions encountered by doctors. Imagine being unable to feed yourself because your wife died or divorced youMy parents should've divorced a long time ago, but my father won't leave because he'd literally die of his own neglect without my mom to take care of him. And my mother won't leave because she knows this and couldn't deal with the guilt. So I guess they're just going to tolerate each other until one of them drops dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:02 PM |
| 56 | I guarantee there will be comments saying “hAve a ConVerSatiOn” disgusting 🤢😡Boo fucking hoo, his needs weren't met. Ladies, if your partner NEEDS to put you through main and misery, fucking RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 02:03 AM |
| 7 | Childfree women, how do you go about dating with FDS principles?There are other reasons not to go 50/50. My main reason is a combination of 1) the person who initiates the date/does the asking out should pay because etiquette, and 2) I don't chase/ask men out. There's also an element of risk assessment and variance in time/money spent preparing for the date. I shouldn't have to shell out more just because my uterus isn't for rent. | /r/askFDS | 01/05/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | There’s a New Dating Website for Christian Men Who Hate Feminists and Soy BoysI've never studied the Bible in depth, but wouldn't this imply that women would have been able to live/survive on their own in Biblical times? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 03:03 AM |
| 15 | I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes.Wouldn't looking for the perfect man imply they're NOT dating for "foodiecalls?" They're giving these second-rate guys a chance, something they've been screaming about forever. It's not these women's fault the men don't measure up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:58 AM |
| 314 | Keep it up sisters! Toss the trash in the can and slam the lid.Men like this will go for any woman who gives them the time of day and later realize they don't see her as worth the effort they're putting in. But instead of looking for women they actually want to be with, they'll pressure these women they aren't really into to give them something in return for their attention. If he actually liked this woman, paying for the dates he invited her to wouldn't be a problem. He's dealing with his potential life partner, after all. But because he doesn't, he levera… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 05:50 PM |
| 23 | Sex Work Will Never Empower UsThe logic behind it was that we no longer had to be ashamed of our sexuality, that we wouldn't be branded as sluts and unloveable just for being sexual creatures. But sex positivity missed the mark by having women change our attitudes towards sexuality but not men. So now we're more sexual than ever before, while men hold on to the same regressive attitudes and still benefit from our sexuality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:39 AM |
| 69 | Adult Wednesday is a mood. Just smile 🥴These men should be grateful for the attention! Some people don't get compliments like this at all, you know. And like she pointed out, it's not like they're breaking any laws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:28 AM |
| 9 | Found my friend’s husband on tinder. Do I get involved?Just tell her what you found. He's not looking for friends. You don't go on Tinder for friends. If they're poly, she should already be aware he's looking. It won't be a big deal. He would also make it known on the profile that he was married. That's what poly couples do. If you talk to him first it'll give him more time to cover his tracks and paint you as the crazy one. What will be more awkward than you telling her is having her find out he's cheating AND her work friend hid it from her. Espec… | /r/askFDS | 28/04/21 12:46 AM |
| 17 | ⚠️The audacity of these men...I’m beyond TIRED. I had to block him. I just can’t understand why they think this is okay...⚠️Was he typing like that before he "showed his cards" or did he suddenly forget his English? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 12:04 AM |
| 10 | He’s just not that Interested?Stop worrying about what's on his mind. He isn't worrying about what's on yours. Whether he's interested or not, the fact remains that he isn't able or willing to give you what you need. It does sound like he isn't, but don't let the uncertainty stop you from pursuing what will make you happy. Side note, should you decide to end things and he suddenly ramps up effort again to "win you over," don't fall for it. It's a common tactic guys like to use to keep women on the hook until we're convenient… | /r/askFDS | 28/04/21 12:02 AM |
| 10 | Hobosexuals.You know what makes a far better "potential job connection?" Applications. Resumes. Fucking EFFORT. But nah, that would cut into his "trying to get laid" time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 11:46 PM |
| 20 | Just another Saturday morning on reddit. Yet more evidence that men are everything-diggers.Meanwhile, a woman expects a man to pay for the dinner he invited her to. Reddit loses its collective mind over the "entitlement." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 02:53 AM |
| 17 | Should I end a relationship over porn when he says he's quit?Also, she educated him on the sex trafficking and abuse that goes on in the industry, but that didn't stop him from going back because he "assumed that stuff didn't happen on mainstream sites like Pornhub," which I know is extemely stupid. Does he know better now? Or will he assume that the surface-level changes Pornhub made to their policies will fix the issue? Does he have any interest in learning more about this subject? It also concerns me that he conflates porn with masturbation as if you c… | /r/askFDS | 25/04/21 02:30 AM |
| 8 | Tiny quick vetting method: MEN AND CATSAlso, watch out for how your pets feel around a man. If your pets hate him, there are a few possible reasons for this. They may be picking up on their own intuition throwing danger signals. They might be picking up on YOUR danger signals that you may be ignoring or brushing off. (This is mentioned in Gavin de Becker's The Gift of Fear.) Or this can could be hurting your pet somehow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:14 AM |
| 41 | Reddit be likeScrote is too derogatory? OK, dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 15 | This will never not be funny.The next level includes a line-by-line critique of everything you say. Then it becomes word-by-word. Then he just starts hurling insults and feigning shock at your tone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 09:41 PM |
| 10 | Lord if this ain't some anti-women shit."Thank you for hurting him." Sounds like she doesn't love him either, she just loves the chance to prove herself worthy to someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 03:31 AM |
| 224 | 👀Can't turn a hoe into a husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 19 | Men are complex creatures....what?"I just found out my girlfriend's male friend has a key to her house. Am I right to be suspicious?" RA: "Totally, dude. You're not the boyfriend, he is. Drop this rotten woman." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:08 PM |
| 18 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡All test subjects said they ... felt victimized by rhetoric demonizing pornography. I've always wondered why people take criticism of porn so personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:08 PM |
| 113 | What's the WORST COSMO ADVICE you've ever seen on the topic of dating, sex, and relationships?Imagine a blowjob being so boring to a man you need to "spice it up" for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 01:21 AM |
| 68 | Coffee dates = $3 / hour bargain-bin emotional labourNow consider that at the end of this bargain-barrel date, he will hope for or even expect sex. The value of that date decreases the more you think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:11 AM |
| 52 | how to not be upset that no one wants meWe all have these days sometimes. What helps me is to stay busy with something. You don't want to be liked by 20yo men. It might look nice on the outside, but love and romance at your age are far removed from the real thing. You're more likely to have a temporary fling that will give you no fulfillment in the long term. This is time you lay the foundation for your adulthood. Focus on your studies and what you want to do when you graduate. Romance isn't important right now, but friendships are go… | /r/askFDS | 19/04/21 01:27 AM |
| 5 | The myth of the "cock carousel": male projectionMen provide the hypothetical "cock carousel" and resent women for hypothetically having access to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:25 PM |
| 327 | DO NOT SHARE NUDES IN NEVER EVER EVER.The whole "empowering" narrative is the biggest lie of the century. Sharing nudes is not empowering for women, it's empowering for men. To send a man nudes is to hand over the means to blackmail or humiliate you at any time he pleases. You will never get those pictures back. You will never be able to recall them. No man's attention is worth that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 21 | My fellow Bisexual ladies, how many of you are strongly considering starting to only date and pursue relationships with women?This has crossed my mind at least once. But unfortunately, my experience with finding women to date has been just as bad! There are a lot of poly or BDSM freaks near me, and so the dating scene is full of women already in relationships looking for a third to experiment with. And then there are men who just want to sext. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 02:18 AM |
| 28 | All you got to offer is dick and disappointment?Why do they think women are divorcing them? Do they really think we're dragging them into court for funsies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 02:00 AM |
| 4 | Ofcourse she cleans this..As someone who was in a serious ltr with an alcoholic...I honestly have no idea. But it's common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:39 AM |
| 26 | When Simple Things Are Ruined By MenI don't order spaghetti in restaurants anymore for this same reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:23 AM |
| 272 | Can we talk about entitlement in dating for a sec?One of the first bits of hate mail I got from posting here was from some college boy asking "what, so college students shouldn't date because we're broke?" You're absolutely right, bro. Go to class. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 12:40 AM |
| 13 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us""I'd listen to what women have to say" Refuses to listen to what women have to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:08 PM |
| 62 | This is NOT equality!"Do what works best for you." "OK. Man pays for dates, I'm not splitting the bill." "Wait not like that" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 20 | Plan B, abortion, and adoption are not convenient alternatives to pregnancyBut I'm SCARED! You should go get a tubal instead. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:42 PM |
| 8 | Plan B, abortion, and adoption are not convenient alternatives to pregnancyWhat irks me is that there are always a bunch of people insisting that women abort if their relationships fail because "the child will be a constant reminder." And heaven help the woman if she's raped. Some women would prefer that "constant reminder" in their lives as opposed to abortion. Terminating your pregnancy flat out isn't for everyone, and I say this as someone who would definitely abort if I got pregnant. Nor is it so easy to carry a child for 9 months only to hand it over to an adoptio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:42 PM |
| 15 | I am sexually liberated.I intend to wait an appropriate period before sex is on the table, insist on foreplay and condoms, and either leave or ask him to leave if there's any resistance. The last point is important - shutting down the interaction if they try to push back on your resistance. If he's got any inclination toward pickup "artistry," he will interpret you sticking around as a game he's supposed to play to wear down your boundaries and make you want sex with him. So if you're making out with a guy and he start… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:27 AM |
| 24 | I am sexually liberated.So I'm actually not having any sex right now, because I haven't met someone I want to have sex with. Toward the end of my last relationship, I wasn't feeling into my partner so I just didn't have sex and turned it down if he initiated. I'm not pressuring myself to have sex I don't want anymore. This post was mostly about me walking away from bad sexual behaviors I had in the past that were done in the name of sex positivity. One night stands are not recommended because your partners aren't vette… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 03:11 AM |
| 23 | Pick-me friendsWe need to reframe dating. The end goal shouldn't be to just find a boyfriend. We need to focus on finding the right men, and weed out guys like the above, so that women aren't caught thinking they need to hold on to any man they can grab. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 09:28 PM |
| 15 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexThese two look young. Why is an old dude inserting his opinions on their relationship and smugly lecturing about the importance of this young woman having sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:38 PM |
| 8 | I can buy my own damn flowers!We may have the same ex. Early in my relationship I made a bad joke about flowers being severed plant genitals. He laughed and took this to mean I hated flowers and would never want them. I later clarified that I made a bad joke and would actually like some flowers on occasion, and he laughed in my face. Accused me of "changing things on him." (As if I wasn't allowed to do that if I wanted to?) Anyway, the man who thought buying me flowers was some impossible chore saw no issue in buying a pot o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 10:58 PM |
| 17 | You did the right thing! ✨👑Thank you for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 11:55 AM |
| 58 | Things that make you go Hmmm..."You can't poke the bear like that." So you're saying men are animals? "... misandry! Misandry alert!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 11:55 AM |
| 179 | Things that make you go Hmmm..."Not all men!" Meanwhile, his post history is full of comments on rape porn and videos from known traffickers like Girls Do Porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:04 AM |
| 8 | I should really stop lurking around. From a post about age gap relashionships and how they aren't weird. Yes they are.I would love to save that second comment in the first screenshot for all of FDS' critics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:50 AM |
| 75 | "dating for a free meal"I remember this! She also dealt with harassment walking home. Surprisingly, the sub ripped him a new one for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:18 AM |
| 15 | "dating for a free meal"As if I would get caught in public with someone I didn't like for free food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 435 | Things that make you go Hmmm...But - but - some women say "scrote" sometimes and that's like, just as bad! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 60 | One of the most disgusting things I've ever readAre these the same women who wrote The Rules? The very Rules book that is on this sub's reading list? This is disappointing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | The false equivalency of pornography for men and romantic comedies for womenYou know, I just got finished reading a romance novel where the FMC almost exclusively derived pleasure from penetration. Penises, fingers, even oral sex consisted of tongue penetration. And she went from just losing her virginity to being trained for double penetration. There were a number of other things that made me think the author may not have female anatomy, but the author had a female name. Not sure why it didn't occur to me that might've been a pen name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Comments from a thread about a Tik Tok video talking about how hard OLD is for men. "Your nightmare is our dream."Umm sir, she said "unsolicited dick pics." Equality does not mean being sexually harassed by people you are attracted to. Prepare your inbox. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:35 PM |
| 218 | The unvarnished truth.Many of them PREFER the gray area. With the amount of porn out there categorized as forced, trickery, blackmail, sleepfucking, and so on, too many guys are just excited by the idea of taking sex from a woman who doesn't want to give it. These men are just mad about consent being defined because they're rapists and fear being held accountable for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:32 PM |
| 25 | jfc, even the comments are a goldmine, so it’s wrong to have standards???You're 27. You don't get to be carefree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:25 AM |
| 255 | Oh dear god...Notice how "people have different tastes" and there's nothing wrong with it. But the second she voices a preference he gets defensive and expects her to imitate his exes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:04 AM |
| 25 | Found on an Instagram meme page... women are waking up!"Date" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 05:55 PM |
| 44 | From Instagram. Speaks for itself - so much garbage behaviour gets dismissed by men and pickmes as "shyness".I wound up taking over all the dishwashing duties after an ex ruined multiple pans of mine by putting them in the dishwasher, or scrubbing them with brillo pads. He claimed he "wasn't good at using a sponge." Interesting how as soon as I started doing all the dishes the load of dishes doubled every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 15 | How do I search who the phone number belongs to?There are paid services that will tell you the name behind a cell number. I believe services like Google Voice add another layer of complexity though. At the end of the day, does it matter who this person is? You blocked them for a reason, whether they believe you or not. Block this one and move on. | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 04:30 PM |
| 52 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?I'm a tattoo gal. Men need to get under the needle a time or two before they get a chance with me. Beauty is pain, gentlemen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 11:03 PM |
| 8 | Please don't give them any more excuses..Men: We built civilization! We invented society! We can do anything! Also men: Nobody taught me how to cook, that's why I live off pizza rolls and root beer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.Hello, are you my twin? Nice to see a fellow Satanist on here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 13 | Words of wisdom.I keep seeing this comment but never got the details. What did he do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 15 | “This is the future that FDS wants!!” 😂I'll have two, please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 95 | Scrote can't stand a woman isn't attached to him. Well, TRUTH BOMB: he isn't attracted to her either! Bonus truth bomb: she has her pick of partners. He... doesn't.It's not our job to make sex easier for men. We're looking out for our best interests, not yours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 77 | My /61F) daughter (25F) is in a bad relationship (with 34M). Am I right in telling her to end it?You can tell her this man is bad news, but be prepared for her not to listen. You can't force her to end a relationship she's determined to stay miserable in. Your best bet is to remain a support system for her and remind her that there are plenty of men out there who are willing to dance with her AND not treat her like garbage. | /r/askFDS | 06/04/21 03:45 PM |
| 117 | A hard truth I've come to understand about 50/50:A man doesn't worry about 50/50 when he's with someone he genuinely wants to be with. So if he expects 50/50 from you, in his mind he's not getting anything else out of your company. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 22 | One more reason to avoid anxious men.I've found that when women have a mental health issue, 9/10 it's something we're working to overcome. When men have mental health issues, 9/10 it's "you have to help him" and "nobody cares about men's mental health." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:20 PM |
| 9 | One more reason to avoid anxious men.I'm so sorry you go through that and hope you can find some peace. And yes, what you describe is worlds away from what he was really like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 6 | I hate (priveledged) sex workersIt's tone-deaf. This type of sex worker can't see the industry beyond their own noses. Because they have the freedom to live and work as they please, surely that's the case everywhere? Women like this are the reason why trafficked women go ignored. Because the privileged sex worker is so prominent in our media culture, that's the voice porn viewers hear most. This vocal minority also gets more screen time because it's more convenient - the whole industry thrives on the lie that all the women lov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:33 PM |
| 111 | Why we don’t do clapbacksI want to point out that they'll still ACT like they want your response. They will blow up your phone demanding your time and paragraphs. There are a few reasons for this: So they get new chances to gaslight and argue with you, leaving you frustrated and confused. So they can get the chance to turn things around on you, making themselves out to be the victim. In hopes that you'll shut down and give in to whatever they want to do. Because your anger is funny to them. And like the OP says, it give… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:20 AM |
| 317 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”If men are such visual creatures and women aren't, why are men the ugly ones? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:09 AM |
| 22 | Just because I was a pick me doesn't mean I deserved LVM treatment right?Of course not. We don't discourage pickme behavior because it makes men misbehave. We encourage HV behaviors because it will filter out those men who would mistreat you for having lowered standards and boundaries. This man would've been LV for you regardless of how you acted, so his leaving was the best-case scenario. | /r/askFDS | 06/04/21 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Do you guys think that sex can be good even if you don’t orgasm?If the sex is good and I don't orgasm, that leads to frustration and discomfort. Why does nobody ask men this question? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:35 PM |
| 213 | I like good abs and I can not lie...I dated an ugly guy once because he was nice to me. It was the least fulfilling relationship I've ever had. To top it off, I frequently felt taken for granted. There are women out there who are attracted to the "fluffy" body type, but they're rare. Far rarer than the women who insist they aren't shallow. Ladies, you are allowed to hold out for someone you're attracted to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:06 PM |
| 26 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.Thank you for being a part of it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 10:10 PM |
| 110 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.The good news is that more Redditors are waking up to the dangers of porn. The bad news is that many of these Redditors woke up because they're addicts now, and are hiding behind recovery rhetoric without doing any of the work to actually recover. It's been a big problem in specifically anti-porn subs where addicts are coming in demanding "empathy" and attention after they spent their adolescence and adulthood dehumanizing every woman they came across. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:23 PM |
| 135 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.I run a couple of anti-porn subs and it always amuses me when some troll comes in accusing us of being religious nutjobs. I'm the complete opposite of a Christian, and a recent poll in one of the subs confirmed a large share of the users were atheists. There are plenty of reasons to despise porn beyond pearl-clutching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 09:21 PM |
| 21 | Left on read forever.1 isn't the best role model. She did cheat on her husband with a teenage boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:44 PM |
| 22 | Apparently struck a nerve with my last post. Dude chose to ignore the “FDS Humor” flair lmao...It's just a joke, bros. Don't you have a sense of humor? I love how making men feel sad is on par with rape and mass murder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 6 | The biggest problem with "sex positivity" is that it put the cart before the horse.Not to mention the panic around "false accusations" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:52 AM |
| 67 | People who say "redpillers and pickup artists are only a tiny percentage of the population, most men aren't like that"Contributing to this disconnect is the fact that predators will not interact with men the same way they do with women. While many of the men we deal with are predators, there are also tons of "not all men" who think that because they aren't witnessing the predation with their own eyes, it must not be happening that much. They assume we're exaggerating what's going on because the other men around them just don't act like that. Why would they? These "not all men" aren't the targets. This reminds m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Love her certainty and confidence.Ians should be avoided like the plague. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 08:26 PM |
| 9 | Love her certainty and confidence.I had a guy tell me Barney was his hero as he tried to neg me. I peaced out. Girl, it took me waaaaaay too long to realize you weren't talking about a purple dinosaur. Guys love the HIMYM Barney for his playboy lifestyle but completely miss that he went down that road after having his heart broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 08:25 PM |
| 7 | Men understand consent only when it’s about themI had an ex who was into that. Why can't he give it a try? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:57 PM |
| 8 | 14 year relationship TL;DR: age gap of 10 years 20sF 30sM, constant fighting, including violence, gaslighting, pregnancy, 3rd year together she "brought home another woman because she is not possessive", got cheated on and lied to for one whole year. Now he left her for another woman.He fucked with the lives of his girlfriend and his own child so he could chase new tail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:31 PM |
| 5 | I just have to laugh at this... Men practically created revenge porn, and don't give a dam about the victims.. But when it's a woman doing it she's JAILED.. 🙃 Yep no hypocrisy hereI'm glad society finally figured out that revenge porn is reprehensible. I'm sure they'll tackle the rampant revenge porn and "would you fuck my _____" problems on Reddit and Pornhub next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 04:25 PM |
| 28 | STOP 👏🏻PROCREATING 👏🏻 WITH 👏🏻 SHIT 👏🏻 MENHe's going to give that baby brain damage because his phone is more important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 11:18 AM |
| 21 | The best way for men to be held accountable is being called out by other men."Not all men are bad!" Time to prove it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 02:20 AM |
| 31 | LVM truly live on a different planet 🤡Let's assume this scenario actually happens for a moment. Notice he never makes a decision for himself. He lives according to someone else's whims and ends up miserable for it. This is par for the course for men who think they're oppressed and women are secretly running society. They think their choices are limited, but in reality they're limiting themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 02:11 AM |
| 295 | Mood for my fellow queens 💖Studies show single women are happier and live longer. So don't threaten me with a good time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 127 | Louder for the lurkers in the backAnd this "men are providers" sentiment gets echoed by men who can't/ won't provide and still expect the benefits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 02:40 AM |
| 80 | Saying that FDS is an echo chamber is like saying that group therapy is an echo chamber.This sub interrupts the greater echo chamber that is all of Reddit. That's why guys are compelled to come in here and "educate" us on the "other side" as if we aren't exposed to that already. We're thinking wrong and that's bad. They COULD just shrug and say we're "incompatible" with them, like they do to dismiss every woman who cries about their abusive, neglectful partners in advice subs, but we disrupt the narrative and that can't happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 01:09 AM |
| 8 | How do you feel about men since following FDS?On one hand, I'm disappointed in men in general. These LV traits are more common than I'd ever realized before joining this group, and I'm sick of hearing how "normal" it is to break your dick to porn and basically spend your entire life chasing your penis. On the other hand, I'm more hopeful that a certain type of man exists. The qualities that we're looking for aren't hard to cultivate. Men are intelligent creatures who can follow their big heads and show compassion for their fellow humans if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 02:28 PM |
| 78 | Allure Magazine Posts The Most Toxic, poorly thought out, male pandering, Sex Advice. Women’s magazines are pick me garbage.Maybe if we frame romance as a kink the media will start taking our desires seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 02:24 PM |
| 39 | LVM Narc ex sent me a handwritten letterHe doesn't care if you take him back. He wants to know he can still get under your skin and prompt a response when he wants one. If he can, you become his "supply" whether you want to be or not. Men often just want our attention, doesn't matter if it's good or bad. In fact, they'll often prefer negative attention as it's easier to get. Higher returns for lower effort. All he has to do to anger you is show up. (I've mentioned this on the main sub before, and it prompted lots of responses from tri… | /r/askFDS | 28/03/21 10:00 PM |
| 22 | What we're NOT gonna do is spread the "age is just a number" pedophile agenda by using feminist hashtags. The example pictures were cherry picked celebrity women with younger husbands. "Age is just a number" ONLY benefits men who want someone way too young for them. I can't believe it's normalized.My recent ex was 10 years older than I. We were compatible in many ways. But you have to wonder if I was on par with a 33 year old man when we met, or was he on par with his 23 year old girlfriend? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 616 | Taste of his own medicine!"That must mean you want to fuck all your female friends. So you can't see them anymore." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 45 | He E-Mailed me via school account, legit had a panic attack but what I'm scared of the most is my friends buying it (asking for advise)If he really cared about you, he would've respected your wishes after being blocked everywhere else. You're having panic attacks over this man, his feelings are irrelevant. You can't control what your friends think, but you can put up boundaries. No more talking about your ex with them, and reconsider any friendships with people who side with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 33 | gIvE nIcE gUyS a ChAnCe waaaaaaah"But I WANT IT NOW!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:59 AM |
| 374 | Why are some men so obsessed to keep women's standards as low as possible?Those same men would also pick a princess over a plumber so I'm not seeing the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:18 AM |
| 34 | I’ve had to use this so many times, sadly it doesn’t always work..I had a guy aggressively hit on me at the bus stop once. Tried telling him I had a boyfriend (I didn't) to make him go away. He looked like he was about to cry for a minute before saying "it's okay, he doesn't have to know anything!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 10:21 PM |
| 9 | Don't let a few months of good times lead you to years of unhappiness.My ex frequently called me his rock. My mom called him out and said no, she's your crutch. Glad we're both out of there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 12:12 PM |
| 31 | Anyone else look young for their age / have a baby face? How has this affected how men view you?I get more attention from ugly, older dudes. Especially back in my kink days, I'd get noticed most often by "Daddy Dom" types solely because I looked like a teenager. And these weren't the "distinguished older man" types, these were the "pretending a massive beer belly is a dad bod" types. I'm 30 now and still get mistaken for being in my early-mid twenties, which thankfully/horrifyingly makes me look "too old" for the old guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 09:24 PM |
| 82 | Don't let a few months of good times lead you to years of unhappiness.My ex used his depression as a shield too. There's a lot of talk about how nobody cares about men's mental health, but this "let it go and give him the benefit of the doubt" advice that's so common in advice circles isn't doing anyone any good. How is he going to deal with his depression in a meaningful way if his self-destructive coping mechanisms get swept under the rug? In the case of addiction, you have to let the addict reach their rock bottom before they decide to change - and that means s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:08 PM |
| 132 | Don't let a few months of good times lead you to years of unhappiness.Correct. They often pick a major milestone where they feel more confident that you're stuck. Examples: You just got married, you moved across the country, you're pregnant, you have child #2, you quit your job to be a housewife, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 17 | Let’s discuss: why do some people try to shame you for not wanting to be in a casual sexual relationship?Because it's taken as a condemnation of those life choices, which the person shaming you likely partakes in. I see this a lot in the childfree sub, where people get downright offended by someone else's decision not to have kids. The ones who get offended are usually single parents on dating apps or married guys always complaining about their family life. Our culture has adopted a narrative that if you're not actively celebrating and validating someone's life choices, it's a sign of hatred. Socia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:57 PM |
| 101 | This poor man's wife and family - but porn is a normal and healthy expression of sexuality 🤡Replace the porn in this story with heroin or some other drug and few will consider it a fun pastime to be enjoyed in moderation. But drugs would directly ruin his life, while porn indirectly ruins the lives of an untold number of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:29 AM |
| 13 | Would probably sprain my thumb from the force of that block and deleteThat's how it works in porn. Why not real life? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:41 PM |
| 20 | Saw this and thought of FDS. No surprises.The correct answer would've been to ask him to leave. This is funny though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 63 | Re-read the best seller "Memories of a geisha" after 9 years and I am shocked at the misogyny/pick me brain washing!Not to mention her sister was sold to a brothel because she wasn't a virgin. And Sayuri's future was nearly ruined because she was caught trying to run away. And part of her plot to win over the Chairman (he was titled Chairman instead of President in the version I read) was to have sex with a man she was repulsed by and get caught doing so. Edit: OH! And her paying off the "debt" she never asked for by selling her virginity to some disgusting dude. I could go on about this book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:40 AM |
| 357 | REMINDERSo men are threatening us with longer, happier lives? How kind of them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:35 AM |
| 65 | What would a world made by women, for women look like?I can definitely see men in general feeling more intimidated and vulnerable in a society where they hold no power. But I don't see how that could manifest specifically when walking home alone at night. Ultimately though, I don't think a society run by women would necessarily mean that men need to be oppressed. (Note I'm saying BE oppressed, not FEEL oppressed.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:21 AM |
| 178 | What would a world made by women, for women look like?On the last point, how do you figure? Why would a women-led society make men feel unsafe? We wouldn't be out raping and harassing men en masse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:33 AM |
| 19 | OH NO! I’ve been outed as ‘vanilla’ by some p*rn-sick scrote who says my sex life must be boring. Whatever will I do?!?!? #VanillaIsValidThis person actually thinks that women consent to real violence up to and including murder. He put his name on those words, and called you out for finding it disgraceful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 10:37 PM |
| 39 | Uh-oh, the scrotes found our podcast Patreon and are BIG MAD. "How DARE those evil bitches monetize their own podcast!!!" Misogynists don't see any value in anything a woman does, so when women receive money in any way shape or form, they freak out and call it "scamming" "grifting" "a cult" etc.Content creation costs time and money. I see no issue with wanting compensation for it. Maybe if/when these guys produce something of value, they'll understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:12 PM |
| 184 | This is what male entitlement looks like. In response to WhY DoN't YoU WoMeN JuSt CoMmUnIcAtE MoRe. Men don't freaking listen.Or, he knew it was strawberry and gave her banana out of spite. Another reason communication doesn't work: even when they listen, they don't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 02:24 PM |
| 45 | This has to be a joke...if it’s not this is reaching new levels of pick me status.Look. I appreciate a good man as much as the next woman. But this is not the audience for it. All this young woman did was gas up the average sub-par Reddit dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 89 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.It's one thing to have a hidden fuck-off fund. It's quite another force your own family into poverty while you hoard wealth. THIS is why marriage and divorce come with a division of assets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 159 | Woman asks men who are into exploiting their wives sexually for other men (wife sharing etc) why they enjoy it, gets this response. Imagine seeing your wife as a sex toy that’ll earn you brownie points with The Boys.I wondered why he was talking about that in past tense, then took another look at the thread title. So he pushed a cuckold kink on his wife and now resents her for it? Tale as old as time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 43 | The first time a new guy takes 24H+ to text, call, or reach out in any form? Don't bother acting chill, move on.Years back I was talking to this guy who only seemed to be able to send one message a week. I of course would respond immediately, like the good little pickme I was, and wait somewhat patiently for his response a week later. I soon realized he wouldn't be as available as I needed in a partner. So instead of nagging and pleading for more attention (because of course, he was very busy with work), I moved on. Figured if he really was that busy, he wouldn't miss me anyway. This man called me out on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 44 | When women get angry, we call out men for their behavior and speak out about why we’re angry. When men are angry, they resort to abuse, harassment, rape, and murder. My dear male lurkers, we are not the same. We would never do this to youThere is another facet to this story. The man who committed these murders was not "proud" like this boy claims. He was deep in porn/sex addiction and ashamed of it. He admitted to killing those women to remove the temptation to relapse from his life. It wasn't about getting "revenge" on these women for any perceived wrong, it was about him and his supposed obstacles. The boy who praises him here knows nothing about what happened or what the murderer was going through. He cares nothing for men in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:22 AM |
| 12 | Masturbating with pictures of Instagram girls. Probably is the “new type of porn”.Funny how young women are gaslit into thinking porn is okay, and men STILL find a way to violate their boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:15 AM |
| 9 | Not dating broke men isn't "mean-spirited." It's a matter of having you and your partner having your priorities in order.Funny you mentioned that, I woke up to a DM from some guy using the same analogy. "If you don't wanna date broke dudes, I have the right not to date fat girls!" Nobody said you didn't, bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:25 PM |
| 67 | On leaving partnersYes. I want to expand on this and say the only options for leaving aren't "run away right now" and "stay with him forever." A lot of women tend to fall into the mindset that because leaving right now would pose a serious hardship, they're stuck. It won't do to dig in your heels and insist "it's not that simple" when you have a long list of reasons to leave. If you can't leave tonight, put your ducks in a row to leave ASAP. And do some research, because you may have more options available than yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Why do people think women are being tricked/manipulated into casual sex?"She is reaping the benefits of the friendship at his expense." More like, she wants to stay friends because she likes him platonically but he can't handle talking to a woman without the promise of imminent sex. The alternative is to treat the guy like he no longer exists, but then they both lose out on a meaningful friendship and he gets to complain about how mean she is. Not to mention how lonely he is. If we cave, and give a chance to guys we aren't interested in, they start getting resentful… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 38 | He just ended things because I was making him wait for sexLet me guess... promoting hate? Harassment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:03 AM |
| 157 | Women are under no obligation to be inclusive towards people who are hostile to us. Calling us an "echo chamber" and whining that we "don't include opposing opinions" isn't going to shame us into changing our mind.All of Reddit is an echo chamber. That's why guys keep trying to come in here spouting the same old arguments and demands. But this group has no lack of diversity. Everyone here has different life experiences, cultural backgrounds, and it should tell you something that we've all come to a similar conclusion about modern dating. That being said, we still have varied tastes and desires beyond what's outlined in the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:53 AM |
| 8 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceThank you for posting this information. Truly eye-opening. Do you mind if I share it in another sub? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | What kind of twisted thinking is this? „If Sex Work wouldn‘t exist, men would be even more violent to women“ I‘m so tired of this BS that libfems spread to justify exploitation of women to „prevent“ more violenceHold up. I thought not all men were violent? Why does this person spew such misandry? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:45 AM |
| 7 | Where do I begin?And what did that guy do for International Men's Day? Google ironically does more for IMD on International Women's Day than any other day of the year: the vast majority of searches for IMD are on IWD. This dude probably found out IMD exists after having a meltdown on IWD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 03:40 AM |
| 11 | I'm tired of hearing men complain about how they're expected to "perform" in the bedroom.OR the few times they see a woman "orgasm" in porn she's overacting, so they think that's what the real deal looks like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 03:09 PM |
| 16 | I'm tired of hearing men complain about how they're expected to "perform" in the bedroom.Or even worse, that they've never seen a woman orgasm so they become convinced that we can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 03:05 PM |
| 83 | I’m in literal tears after watching this. This is what happens when you have male orbiter ‘friends’ but you start dating someone new 🤣🤣🤣🤣Gee, I wonder why his friends' boyfriends don't like him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 14 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckI want to hug you right now. Sorry for all you've been through, but I'm proud of you for taking the steps to leave now. Your "best years" are actually ahead of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:53 PM |
| 81 | If You’ve Forgiven Your Ex for Being Shit, but Not Yourself for Being “Stupid”. You’re Still Loving Him More Than You Love YourselfI needed to read this today. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:42 PM |
| 142 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckOh sure, with "thoughts and prayers." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:12 AM |
| 713 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckThe question of what tradwives plan to do in the event their husband dies or leaves is an uncomfortable but extremely important one. Especially if you have kids. If you spend the majority of your life with no property of your own and a limited skillset, you're gambling with your own future. It's not even about not trusting your partner - life can take you any which way it pleases, and nobody knows what will happen even two years from now. There were people living comfortably before March 2020 wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:54 AM |
| 15 | These middle aged men are dating teenagers, disgusting 🤢. They admit they do it because they're easier to manipulateIt's hilarious watching these animals fight each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:43 AM |
| 23 | PSA: Creating Non-Approved FDS Spinoff Subs will Result in a Permanent Ban on all FDS related subs.FYI the two lead mods (and I'm sure many of the rest) are WOC. I'm not sure where this idea that FDS caters mostly to white women came from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 02:13 PM |
| 49 | Does anyone else find it so hard and cringey when reading other dating subs?And in the case of men posting about how the women they're seeing don't put in so much effort, and doesn't make plans, and etc, the comments are usually in the vein of "dump her, she's entitled." Funny how in this supposed age of gender equality, we've shoved all responsibility on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:39 AM |
| 56 | Legitimately evil m*le tells his gf he *had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend himThere was a post on another relationship advice sub where a woman found out her boyfriend of 3 years cheated on her in a steamy ONS with his ex. She later found out he did it to get back at her for having a miscarriage six months before, and was on Tinder the whole time because he resented her for the loss of pregnancy. But once he got the hookup he wanted he was ready to make things work again. Thankfully, she left his ass. Men like this are evil. Men who defend men like this because men suppos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 92 | INCELS KILL. FDS DOES NOT.Reddit is full of incels who want to whitewash their subculture and demonize women. That's why any mention of incel-led crimes prompts a response of "no, they're just depressed virgins!" That's also why FDS frequently gets compared to incels despite the complete lack of crimes done in this group's name. Funny how we're supposedly exactly the same, yet face 10x the backlash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 12:01 AM |
| 80 | “Hi, what do you usually do when a stranger writes that you look great on a profile? 🤔” SAY IT WITH ME! We block and delete!"Oh, so now I can't even compliment women? What am I supposed to do now, start an actual conversation?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:26 PM |
| 6 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.The same people screeching about the prices of groceries when they live on a "fixed income" can't get it through their heads that kids are fucking expensive. Maybe if they'd pulled themselves up by their bootstraps when they were younger they'd have money to raise their own grandkids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:02 PM |
| 15 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menIt also proves that men want a "safe space echo chamber" more than we do. I can't count how many DMs I got from dudes demanding a ban from this sub so they would never have to see it. Nevermind that isn't how reddit works, but whatever. (If only there was a way to make a list of subreddits you DO want to see in a feed! Put it on the front page, even. Maybe Reddit will release that soon.) I'm a mod for the discord server and I recently started getting messages from guys demanding a ban from there… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 9 | Found the guy with weak chin in antifeminist group lmaoThat pic does look like a "just got out of bed" pic which isn't the best example of an everyday no-makeup look. And the average woman isn't rocking a red-carpet makeup routine every day. This was a horrible example all around. Not to mention these dudes would still kill each other for a chance to get with Cardi B, makeup or no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Found the guy with weak chin in antifeminist group lmaoWhat point is he trying to make here? Women wear makeup, therefore they must tolerate partners they aren't attracted to? If I made a post saying "guys with beards have no business complaining about makeup" these same people would lose their minds, but no, only women are the ones who need to compromise and lower our standards. How about these dudes go for women who wear less makeup, and women go for clean-shaven guys, and everyone's happy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:54 PM |
| 7 | Men need to stop thinking that porn is reality and see sexual acts performed in these scenes as an expectation.The only way romance novels could be comparable to porn is if they think the male love interests are degrading themselves by courting women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:54 AM |
| 58 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.So, lesbian erasure on their part? How homophobic of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:35 AM |
| 22 | Men need to stop thinking that porn is reality and see sexual acts performed in these scenes as an expectation.Funny how porn is a "fantasy" and the women are "just acting" but the second you get a guy into bed he's convinced women are into everything he's ever seen in a porno. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:31 AM |
| 8 | I guess this is my cue to delete bumble cuz I’ve finally seen it allDude, nobody cares if you want a woman to sleep around. The fallout won't hit you. Porn addicts - sorry, "kinksters" need to get over themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:29 AM |
| 257 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.I must be a very dedicated fake bisexual account. Most women are attracted to men, so of course, most dating advice for women is going to be about men. Why is this hard to understand? Not to mention there's also a similar sub for lesbians. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:17 AM |
| 175 | "A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex"Men don't have these risks when it comes to sex, or their risks are drastically lower. That's why they push for the idea that sex is NBD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:09 AM |
| 201 | "A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex"Like I'm going to take sex advice from someone with a wrinkled shirt and a Deadpool bust who can only bring himself to repeat the same two sentences. It's also so obvious that men's definition of HVM is different from ours. They think all a man has to do is collect a paycheck. You apparently don't even need to be attractive or well-groomed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:08 AM |
| 9 | What do you guys think?It's no secret that some women are attracted to this type of man. There are a number of reasons for this, usually tied to some kind of trauma that should be addressed. But it is a mistake to pursue a relationship with this type of man, and it's on women to recognize this self-destructive behavior for what it is and do something to avoid it. What's really disturbing is that a certain type of man looks at this phenomenon and thinks, "See? Women like being abused! That's why I can't get a girlfrien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 10:44 PM |
| 12 | Men think that it's WOMEN'S fault they're addicted to porn 🙄My new favorite Bible verse. Of course, it often gets ignored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 10:21 PM |
| 7 | Just had this DM'd to me. LVM can be found with degrees too.Then why do these same men get mad when we start raising the bar? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:52 PM |
| 45 | NVM afraid to be judged like he judges single moms, cry me a river. The *last* interaction I will ever have OLD, 7 months clean and a much, much happier life without it!"I don't deal with chicks like you" *Proceeds to deal with a chick like you* They really don't know how to walk away, do they? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:22 AM |
| 19 | One for the ages (2 parts).This is why it really doesn't pay to be someone's mistress. Some might get the high of validation that you're soooo desirable a man breaks his wedding vows for you. But when it all comes out he's going to go with the safe option (his existing family) and cut you loose. Affairs are for temporary fun, not new chapters. That, or he goes and gets a new mistress as soon as you two are official. This woman claims she didn't know, but she didn't exactly make the effort to find out nor did she have any … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Learning to Allow Yourself Be Treated WellLike a romantic version of the Ben Franklin Effect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:53 AM |
| 5 | Learning to Allow Yourself Be Treated WellFor the longest time, I thought this kind of HV behavior plain didn't exist, or it was inaccessible to me. That's a hard mindset to get out of, so I adopted similar tactics to show how independent and "easy to love" I could be. Enjoy your time with him! Too many men underestimate the importance of a woman's time and gratitude, then wonder why they're so lonely and in need of companionship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:52 AM |
| 34 | Why do they call FDS female incels?They stick to the "they're just bitter because they can't get a man" narrative as a cope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 69 | He was not amused and blocked meThey have social skills, they just think women online are exempt because we aren't really people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 08:57 PM |
| 10 | He was not amused and blocked meSo now the concept of consent is man-hating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 08:56 PM |
| 12 | Agree to disagree! The false narrative LVM tell themselves everyday!I can't help but notice how the "nice" guys who spend so much time trying to troll and harass women here are self-proclaimed incels. Never seen a confident, attractive man go on such a crusade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:07 AM |
| 9 | Is he a LVM?I agree, he's negative value. What about him leaves doubt in your mind? What do you think could make him HV? It's worth identifying that facade so you can see through it in the future. | /r/askFDS | 25/02/21 01:44 AM |
| 5 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️Something something public property vs. private property. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:15 AM |
| 6 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️Honestly I haven't heard anything on that phenomenon besides absolute disgust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:08 AM |
| 59 | This is why we don’t take the risk with LVM. Soon as he shows any red flags 🚩 DUMP HIM or you might end up this mans wife.Find his socials, find his wife, and snitch on him. If he really listed his employer it could be easy to find him on LinkedIn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 10:52 PM |
| 11 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️You are literally comparing the two right now. The topic here is whether women consent to prostitution. If you can't stay on that topic, there's a certain anti work sub that may be a better fit for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 10:08 PM |
| 25 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️I'm really tired of this argument. The degradation women experience as a prostitution is in NO WAY comparable to other jobs. I've never seen a woman have her life ruined because she worked at a McDonald's. Any other job has the opportunity for advancement. This is the narrative libfems push to convince puerile that prostitution is a job like any other. I'm disappointed to see it on this sub of all places. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 10:01 PM |
| 44 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️They will freely acknowledge that many women turn to proposition out of desperation. But instead of helping them by making other options available, they just... encourage the system and worry about "stigma." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 101 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️If sex workers are only in the business out of a need for food and shelter, how are they consenting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 4 | How to break a trauma bond?The first thing I did when leaving my ex was to move all my stuff into another room on the other side of the house. Even if you have a financial or legal constraint that makes walking out difficult, distance is still the key. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:13 AM |
| 29 | They always blame the mothers. Where were the fathers to teach their sons how to be a decent men?Men aren't held to their parenting duties, at least not as much as women are. They're given the pass to bounce at will by society, and they like it. This is part of why custody decisions favor the mothers: many times daddy dearest doesn't even try to get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:27 AM |
| 85 | I’m shook. Got told today “after you’re done healing I hope you’ll give me the chance I deserve.” DESERVES?? Because you got me flowers after I had deleted you and have not spoken to you at all? Lmao no. He’s so pushy and obsessive it’s creepy at this point.Sounds like the chance he deserves is none at all. Oblige his request by continuing no contact. | /r/askFDS | 23/02/21 01:43 PM |
| 33 | FDS women don't have high standardsSo, I don't watch porn. I'm not a criminal. I respect my partner and their boundaries, can cook and clean, I'm good in bed, and I bathe regularly. Oh, and I have a steady job. By the logic of these dudes, I'm a catch and deserve to be worshipped. But if I want the same in a man, suddenly I have high standards? It sounds like these guys think less of men by default. Surely they're capable of meeting these minimal standards? Honestly, I don't know why FDS critics hate men so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:28 PM |
| 9 | Men’s magazine glamorizes 20 year age gap between old scrote and beautiful woman for their “modern love” edition. 🤮He was 11 when he lost his virginity to his dad's girlfriend. And dad was a drug dealer. He went into great detail about it all in his autobiography but it's been a while since I've read it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 10:01 PM |
| 20 | Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespectI bet it went right over his head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:33 PM |
| 45 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️Their campaign only means they've assumed a man's default state is ugly, misogynistic, porn addicted gamer. Why these dudes hate men so much, I'll never know. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:13 PM |
| 12 | Should I make amends ?Don't be fooled. He isn't acting this way out of concern for you. If he had respect for you, you may not have broken up in the first place AND he would respect your wishes to cut him off now. Instead, he's chosen to blow up your phone and demand your presence by any means necessary. Reaching out to "make amends" will not have the effect you want. It will only communicate to him that being pushy and demanding will work to monopolize your time. All you can do is block him every time he reaches out… | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 09:39 PM |
| 9 | Don't ever "sext" a man, even if it is only messages. Because if that man ever rapes you, he will print out those conversations and show them to police, and the police will dismiss your rape as "consensual"Edit: to all the nasty scrotes in my inbox, this includes you. Yes, you. You're probably a rapist too. If they're more concerned with calling out you than your rapist, they absolutely are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:27 PM |
| 3 | I made a post about hating my course work and after a short convo about it I get a willy pic. Usually I block/delete this behavior but I just couldn't this time!You know he's just going to try his luck with the next woman no matter what he tells you, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?If I could remove one word from our vocabulary, I'd have a hard choice between simp and toxic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?"Simp." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:44 PM |
| 129 | YikesStop being so toxic /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:52 AM |
| 15 | QUEEN ENERGY 👸🏼 She caught her younger boyfriend lying about being with his coworkerAnd on that note, I'm not sure how my pointing out that a certain behavior or thought process is less than queenlike opened me up to all this criticism. It's not like I condemned her to LVW hell for eternity, I pointed out that she has more growth to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:04 PM |
| 15 | QUEEN ENERGY 👸🏼 She caught her younger boyfriend lying about being with his coworkerI'm not stigmatizing her, least of all for dating a much younger man. I'm pointing out that her directing so much anger toward the younger woman in the first place shows that she has much more growth ahead of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:03 PM |
| 50 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!Exactly! If he's even telling the truth, he probably goes into the act thinking all he has to do is show up with a big dick and women are supposed to spontaneously orgasm just by blowing him. A lot of well-endowed men seem to think this and put zero effort into pleasing their partner. The size of the ship may help, but you still need to know where you're going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:01 PM |
| 56 | When the tables are turned and she is comparing him to her own sex fantasies and habits no one is telling him he is insecure and jealous they are telling him she is gaslighting him and he should break up!This hits the nail on the head so hard I wonder if it wasn't actually written by a woman trying to prove a point about men's porn dependency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:59 PM |
| 95 | QUEEN ENERGY 👸🏼 She caught her younger boyfriend lying about being with his coworkerShe talks about being above competing with another woman for a cheater as if that was even an option. An actually mature Queen wouldn't consider it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:56 PM |
| 17 | Should I e-mail him a bunch of porn I collected for him on Valentine's Day?What you need to understand is that a porn viewer doesn't look at porn the same way we do. He'll get those videos from you and think it's awesome because his dick gets hard. It won't hurt him at all, because he was prioritizing those videos over being with you in the first place. | /r/askFDS | 14/02/21 03:01 AM |
| 92 | Cosmopolitan Magazine argues that cannibalism is acceptable nowFunny how the kink community is all "Safe, sane, and consensual" until one of their own gets outed as a predator. Then it's "that wasn't real kink." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:04 AM |
| 131 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?You don't want men like this anyway. They only go for younger women because they know they utterly fail at being an equal partner. This attempt to mold and "train" a barely legal woman is their way of saving face. These are grown-ass men still at an early 20s level LARPing as successful adults. Trust me, you're better off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:39 AM |
| 16 | Treat Every Man Like a Felon Until Proven OtherwiseSo this is easy enough info to find in the US. Does this also go for EU ladies? I'm in the US so I have no stake in this, but I'm curious. Your privacy laws are much tougher than ours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:08 AM |
| 117 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't."...sent from my iPhone" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:42 AM |
| 10 | Reddit is out of their minds. Her husband hit her and the comments are telling her it's okay because she said something rude to him.They aren't, OP mentioned she misread the comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 26 | Reddit is out of their minds. Her husband hit her and the comments are telling her it's okay because she said something rude to him.Curious, why did you downvote the person in #5 who said she didn't deserve to get hit and he shouldn't have hit her full stop? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:08 PM |
| 22 | Man sleeps with over 400 women and it broke his sexuality. I think it’s not just porn that’s the problem...And men have the audacity to pretend a woman is permanently broken if she has a body count >5. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Remember not to date or stay with a pornsick loser. Remember they can convince you that you like it too and that watching it together is your idea. Remember that they can ruin your life. Remember that sex with a pornsick loser is subpar at best, damaging or deadly at worst.Every single time I saw a "couple" profile in my kink days and on OLD, it was without fail run by the guy. It was always "we're a couple looking for fun and my girlfriend thinks you're cute." I'd bet the woman was only aware and willing in the situation in a handful of situations tops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:00 AM |
| 54 | Lmao sometimes I get notifications of what non vetted users comment on a post of mine before they get deleted. Stay mad out there.Some of them just can't handle not having the spotlight on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:52 AM |
| 51 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!Seems appropriate to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:40 AM |
| 152 | Lmao sometimes I get notifications of what non vetted users comment on a post of mine before they get deleted. Stay mad out there.I don't get the dudes who whine that this sub shows up on their front page. Reddit lets you curate your own front-page content, so you can fill it up with all the gamer memes and seduction nonsense you like, and you're bitching about whatever lands on popular? Not only that, but foaming at the mouth because a sub you don't like is popular. Keep crying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:39 AM |
| 322 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!I saw a comment on Halle Berry's instagram page the other day from a guy trying to tell her she was too full of herself and that's why she couldn't keep a man. Imagine being a nobody and telling Halle Berry she needs to lower her standards. You can't make this up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:19 AM |
| 565 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!It's funny because their first assumption is always that we're fat, ugly, and old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:07 AM |
| 47 | What is a HVM?The whole obsession with tall men amuses me. Short men can't get laid? Someone forgot to tell literally every man in my family. But I'm in an awkward spot because while I don't even like tall guys, I dislike short men with a chip on their shoulder even more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 2 | I cant roll my eyes hard enoughhttps://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/l5ppw9/must_read_new_rules_to_prevent_brigading_and_to/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 02:50 AM |
| 2 | I cant roll my eyes hard enoughThere have been rules posted about this recently, with stickied posts. A lot of people have been posting like this, and that's the problem, because now those people can cry to Reddit admins that FDS users are harassing and making fun of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | I cant roll my eyes hard enoughYou know, this is how subs get accused of brigading. So if you're trying to get this place banned you're doing a good job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 02:41 AM |
| 82 | LVM/NVM LogicStop running away from your kids and crying about "financial abortions" if you don't want kids raised by single moms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 03:23 PM |
| 442 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂There was an obviously fake post in a certain relationship advice sub where a guy found out his girlfriend was part of a "man hate sub" and asked what to do. He ultimately decided to break up with her, even after "confronting" her on her affiliation and being told she doesn't hate all men. The hive mind was more important to this guy than his imaginary girlfriend. No surprise. I thank that guy for introducing me to this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:11 PM |
| 48 | Banned for sticking up for FDS?If you reply to your ban message, one of the mods will see it. It may take them some time to respond though. They use a bot called Saferbot to pre-emptively ban users from certain subs that were known to brigade FDS in the past. The bot isn't sophisticated enough to understand your comment or post history. So you're not in trouble or anything, it's a misunderstanding for to an overzealous bot. Also I recommend avoiding defending FDS to groups like that in the future. Haters gonna hate and you'll… | /r/askFDS | 08/02/21 08:51 PM |
| 42 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?"Not all men" but women are still expected to cover up and be modest. Why would tempting men be such a widespread concern if only a small minority were bad? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:01 PM |
| 45 | Why 50/50 is a SCAMDo you have updated ones? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:36 AM |
| 41 | Thoughts on The Five Love LanguagesWTF. Gifts AND cuddles. This is not a multitasking situation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 04:05 AM |
| 15 | This shit 🤮Loving the comments blatantly telling him to rape her. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:57 AM |
| 7 | Let's Not. (Comments on a video about a ring made out of a coin and a broken glass)I had the "I'd just be happy if ________" mentality for a while, and all it did was attract bottom-barrel partners who wouldn't even meet that after a time. Put the bar on the ground and men will happily dig a hole to avoid it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:47 AM |
| 10 | Woman asks if it’s acceptable for her boyfriend to want to split the cost of her ENGAGEMENT RING. The highest voted comment is just sad. 50/50 is always a scam.Isn't it funny how women are encouraged to go above and beyond for their partners while men get a pass on the same energy because "50/50?" How is today's dating culture equal in the slightest? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:43 AM |
| 10 | This post on the front page makes me want to barfThis is either fake or he's leaving out a lot of details. Side note, it's funny how much guys lament not getting to see their kids enough after a divorce but seethe at the idea of child support. So you want to summon your kid whenever but you don't want them fed and clothed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:35 AM |
| 8 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.Yup. The escalation of addiction is well documented. What do you think happens when a man grows accustomed to watching tons of women have sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:16 PM |
| 81 | Good men do exist. Takes some digging, but they’re out there. Props to this man for what he did.Yup. Same with saying things like "those are boys, not men." It's lazy and a way to avoid holding other men accountable. Not to mention it puts pressure on women to avoid "boys" in favor of "real men." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 11:48 AM |
| 192 | Has anybody been following the Armie Hammer situation? When they say consensual BDSM isn’t abusive...Abuse aside, it's so one-sided. She was so worried about pleasing him, but he gives her pleasure no such consideration. It's all about how to be better for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 56 | Dita Von Teese breaks her silence on Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"She never denied being abused herself, only said that her experience with him wasn't the same as Wood's. I don't know why people here are picking her apart. It's not like she's defending him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:14 PM |
| 63 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.It sounds nice, but I can see that system getting abused easily. It seems there's no substitute for us women doing our own due diligence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 27 | Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity.Guys like this have no idea what "hard work" is. He went through the motions to become an electrician - great! It's not exactly coasting, but most people have to put effort into their careers and many people put in more time and money. Is this all he has going for him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:05 AM |
| 37 | Pleasuring themselves in front of youThose degenerates calling you a prude is a sure sign you're doing things right! | /r/askFDS | 04/02/21 12:21 AM |
| 77 | Pleasuring themselves in front of you20 minute blowjob plus long jerk-off session, and he still didn't cum? Sounds like death grip from porn is at play. (Another possibility would've been performance anxiety, had he not been bold enough to complain of blue balls the next day.) I will tell you that a lot of guys love the "refined, ladylike" ideal not because they want to take you home to mom, but to make you uncomfortable and "defile" you. I don't personally share your view that pleasuring yourself in front of a partner is like taki… | /r/askFDS | 04/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Yo??Do women actually respond to this? They do, and you just proved it. We need to realize that for guys, success isn't always about getting a date. They're perfectly happy with the occasional text, orbiting behavior, or even the knowledge that they pissed us off. It's not about an "endgame" for a lot of men, it's about knowing we exist in the periphery whenever they're lonely, have no "better" options, and feel like reaching out for a minute. You broke the cycle by blocking him, but he still feels … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Temp banned by FDS. Why does the mod team not link the problem comment, and how are users supposed to improve from silence?Well that was partly hyperbole, but the idea that 50/50 is a thing so you don't "owe" anything to a man after the date is pretty strong these days. | /r/askFDS | 02/02/21 01:50 AM |
| 43 | Is him forgetting about our date a red flag?He was doing something boring and forgot. If he were looking forward to a date with you, he would've been watching that clock the whole time he was doing something he didn't want to do. He's either lying or didn't want to do the date in the first place. I'm sorry. | /r/askFDS | 01/02/21 11:07 PM |
| 19 | Temp banned by FDS. Why does the mod team not link the problem comment, and how are users supposed to improve from silence?I can't say what exactly led to those getting removed because I can't see the full context. It could've been anything. What I CAN tell you is that there's been a longstanding effort by male trolls to infiltrate the sub, and they try this by using especially nasty language to refer to men. Again, I can't say whether this applies to that conversation or not. It'll look different for you because you can't often tell when your own comments are removed, but when I look at your comment history I notic… | /r/askFDS | 01/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 49 | Temp banned by FDS. Why does the mod team not link the problem comment, and how are users supposed to improve from silence?So I used to be a mod on the main sub. A few big details here: -The modmail is absolutely flooded. Not only is there the comment queue and flairing to sort through, mods have to deal with hate mail, death threats, people demanding flairs, people wanting to argue about their flairs, blatant trolls asking why they were banned, people trying to debate the legitimacy of their bans, etc. Your messages probably got buried. -99% of the time the ban reason is evident but people want to argue about it. I… | /r/askFDS | 01/02/21 10:39 PM |
| 17 | Interesting thought on "not all men."Wtf, you didn't even say all men would do that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 04:28 AM |
| 63 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...These are the same guys who cry about being "so lonely" as if it's the defining part of being a man. Maybe there's a connection? Consider fixing yourselves instead of going apeshit at the idea of a woman not putting out anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 09:40 PM |
| 56 | Lasting marriage and well mannered children is all what matters. Women are just a collateral damage produced for a sake of pp. Straight from the horses mouth 😏But show them one sub where women look out for their own interests and watch men lose their minds over the "bLaTaNt SeXiSm" Goes to show you the "misandry" accusations are completely false and an intimidation tactic. They're not standing up to injustice and inequality, they want to prolong it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 21 | Beware BDSM creeps. Their depravity knows no bounds.Also, it was somewhat consensual. She also did a lot of things to me…We were both toxic to each other Interesting... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:34 PM |
| 136 | Why aren’t people honest with their intentions ??This may sound harsh, but he wasn't stringing you along. He showed a complete lack of interest from the start and you were left initiating everything. You called him on not making you feel special, but what good does that do when you aren't important to him? Don't put this much effort into a man again. Give the handbook a look. | /r/askFDS | 31/01/21 01:55 AM |
| 29 | What in the pickmeisha hell is this clownery? The only thing I’m growing are my plants 🌱🪴Would he help you grow? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 15 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.Well I'm glad he's not bitter. He reminds me of a guy I went on one date with who wanted to text me allll day and panicked when I didn't respond fast enough. I had to remind him several times that I have a job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 11:58 PM |
| 92 | Organised Religion is the patriarchy’s weapon. The tenements are written by men for men, to help keep women under - and we willingly bow our heads and slip our own necks in the yoke. Look at the things you are taught criticallyInteresting how certain men will force modesty on women to ward off "temptation" while in the same breath deny that they are sex crazed animals. Men have pushed the narrative that they're led by their dicks for millennia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 03:50 AM |
| 86 | Cats, candles, wine and the golden girls??? SIGN ME UP 😍😍😍Why do they act like not being interested in us is some kind of vile curse? The only downside I see is that they still won't leave us alone, but feel compelled to tell us at every turn how unattractive we are. By all means, go your own way already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:04 AM |
| 19 | His GF refused to bow to him, so he tired to kill her.It's okay everyone, he has a mental illness and he said sorry at least twice. /s obviously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 12:21 AM |
| 8 | This man going viral as his many wives figure it out.Thinking with the wrong head, I'm sure. Though at this rate I suspect the little head also "knows" half of his hometown! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 11:44 PM |
| 12 | This man going viral as his many wives figure it out.He's the police chief of a small town? And he thought he'd never get found out? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 11:42 PM |
| 36 | They Tried it, We Denied itI'm tired of the pornsick masses dismissing every porn-critical viewpoint as being crazy religious fundamentalists. I'm the furthest thing from a God-fearing Christian and I can still see how disgusting and depraved the porn industry is. And many of these dismissals are coming from the USA, which last I checked doesn't forbid its citizens from believing in God. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:49 AM |
| 589 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!Women don't get dressed up and endure an evening with a guy they don't even like to get free food/a movie in their presence. I guarantee you the women who supposedly "used" him were genuine dates he failed to impress. We're supposed to put up with this nonsense but a guy can use a woman for sex and bounce under the pretense of "vetting" to see if we're "worth it?" Well vetting goes both ways, gentlemen. Welcome to equality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Petition to stop using the term "sex work"I've always used "sex work" as an umbrella term that encompasses prostitution, porn, stripping, pro-domme/sub "services," and anything else that may fall along those lines. Is there an alternative? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 03:40 AM |
| 15 | Found on another sub but I think it fits hereYup, this is what led to me trying harder with my troubled, mentally ill, emotionally abusive boyfriend. I wanted to be that "angel" of a girlfriend who fixed him and thought every outburst was my own failure. Of course, that's what they want you to think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 02:06 AM |
| 16 | Why do we seem to take rejection more personally than men?Another part of it is we tend to care more for those who would reject us than men do. Men are more likely to "play the numbers" and throw their attention toward any woman they can. They're either nonchalant or devastated by rejection based on how many prospects they think they have left. We're generally more selective with our romantic partners and less often have backups (not including orbiters that we'd prefer get lost), so being rejected hurts more. | /r/askFDS | 21/01/21 04:35 PM |
| 29 | What it says on the tin.I've had self proclaimed feminists (women) smugly tell me that allowing a man to pay for a dinner date is regressive because it entitles him to access to my body. That if I don't want to sleep with a man, I shouldn't let him spend a dime on me. Or they screech "but I want EQUALITY" as if having someone treat me to a nice meal means I'm beneath him somehow. It's more common than you think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 03:46 PM |
| 55 | What it says on the tin.I feel flattered! I planned on writing a longer post about this eventually but thanks for the signal boost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:27 PM |
| 3 | I took myself out all morning and only did what I wanted. Took as long as I wanted and ate what I wanted. Then I treated myself to a fancy new perfume and didn’t fuss over the price. 🤷🏻♀️ Done waiting for some LVM to treat me like I deserveI got myself their orange bitters for my birthday last November and it's amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 02:46 AM |
| 11 | I hate when men bring up men's issues when you talk about women's issuesIf he cares that much about single dads in Korea, why isn't he doing anything to help them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 11:50 PM |
| 14 | She’s sixteen...Yup! I went down that road too and men were first in line to shame me. After I rejected them, of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:36 PM |
| 18 | Ex bf's brother told me to date tall guys lolI don't get guy's fixation on their height and I'm pretty sure this "short man syndrome" is turning women off to short men more than anything else. Literally every man in my family is shorter than average (hello Italian heritage) and they have no problems getting into relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 43 | She’s sixteen...That's different, though. Your drug addiction doesn't give men boners. That's apparently how we're judging "safe" and "healthy" now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:00 PM |
| 11 | Kevin Samuels - “A woman who has had a baby has no right to make a “HVM” man wait for sex if she had the child with a “LVM” in the past”. My heart is breaking at this😭"Equality is a lie" Thanks for clearing that up, Mr. "Financial HVM." We won't worry about that equality nonsense anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:50 PM |
| 18 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.This is why society needs to have a conversation about what consent really is. Too many people think it's just getting to a "yes" by any means, or even a lack of a no. She was clearly coerced but in the minds of dudes like this one, he did nothing wrong. It's insanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:51 AM |
| 34 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends."Fun" fact: when I worked at a retirement home, at least 75% of the residents were women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:21 AM |
| 161 | He made his own bed! Once again me telling it like it is to Reddit men! Maybe it will cause a butterfly effect and word will spread? 🤷🏼♀️Why is it okay for a man to lie about his porn use, while women must disclose every single sex act she's ever performed prior to knowing about her boyfriend's existence? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 109 | This is nice but if you’re on a date at Hooters it’s already not going well.Every time I see this post make the rounds, there's always at least on bartender in the comments saying "yeah, I've never heard of this." So if you're ever in this situation, be advised this code probably doesn't work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 89 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’The irony of this is if dudes weren't so entitled about getting them, weren't otherwise selfish or demanding in bed, and washed their asses on occasion, they'd find their partners would be more willing to give head. But no, they gotta treat us like unwashed blow up dolls and wonder why our libidos tank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:54 PM |
| 167 | I love this series on tik tokLooking like a double popsicle 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 04:07 AM |
| 3 | YOUR pleasure is just as important as his, if not more. Act like it!I hear you! This is something I'm working on too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:32 AM |
| 4 | Woman asks rel_advice whether she has the right to be mad at her bf for not telling her that he has been with prostitutes before dating her. The answers will not deceive you. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢Yet these same dudes will lose their minds if a woman has a "high body count" prior to the relationship start and isn't upfront with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 12:51 AM |
| 16 | Is it possible to be a negative value man?He 100% turned off her alarms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:58 PM |
| 483 | Here’s The FactsRight? A man paying for my nudes is empowerment, but a man paying for my dinner is regressive? If he does the latter, he's entitled to get something from me? I'm starting to think these types of feminists really do see women as sex vending machines. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:01 PM |
| 38 | What was the last straw?He made a couple of comments regarding a coworker that made me suspicious. I was seriously contemplating and looking for ways to get into his phone/tablet/desktop to snoop. That was when I took a step back and realized how far gone my trust was, and that it'd never be repaired. It wasn't just the comments, of course. That was just the latest incident after years of triangulation and emotional abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:20 PM |
| 135 | She needs FDS (also her friends are rubbish)Here we see a "non-monogamous" man tricking a monogamous woman into marriage, betraying her trust, and her friends flocking around her to convince her it's okay. "Polyamorous" people are predatory. Absolutely no concept of boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 102 | Woman asks rel_advice whether she has the right to be mad at her bf for not telling her that he has been with prostitutes before dating her. The answers will not deceive you. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢I'd bet my left ovary he's still banging prostitutes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:04 PM |
| 21 | "Don't kink shame, don't you know there are women who ENJOY having their ribs broken? Lolol" 🤢🤮🤮Imagine being less offended by a man who wants to do you serious physical harm than by a woman who says "maybe that's not a good idea." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:34 PM |
| 7 | boy BYEOne of!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:15 PM |
| 225 | NSFW TRIGGER WARNING: Belle Delphine posts pics of herself being kidnapped and raped in a babydoll dress and Lolita shoes and continues to pretend she doesn’t see the connection to pedophilia.Look at her pretending she hasn't been pandering to the "barely legal" fetish for as long as she's been in the public eye. Gaslighting isn't just for LVMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:02 AM |
| 53 | This shit just wreaks of self hatred.If this was a comment about a girlfriend with toxic exes, Reddit would trip all over themselves to blame her for choosing the wrong men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:54 AM |
| 46 | The regretful LVM anthem (remember, they never change) - Bruno MarsMy ex actually told me how much our breakup reminded him of this song and how he should've bought me some damn flowers. But before then, it reminded him of his late wife and how he wishes he could've danced with her more before she died. They really don't change, and I'll always be the runner up in his heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 01:24 AM |
| 50 | Man in YT comment section explains why he won't reject a woman who makes the first move even if he's not attracted to herExactly. I've been in that position too and I've had conversations with "nice guys" where it became obvious they see a girlfriend as a friend they get to see naked. Nothing more. The idea of emotional intimacy is completely lost on these types. Maybe it says something about society and how men are discouraged from showing that form of vulnerability, but if that's the case, it's on men to encourage it again. But they're not doing that because it's easier to guilt women into doing that work for th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 131 | Man in YT comment section explains why he won't reject a woman who makes the first move even if he's not attracted to herThis kind of thinking isn't uncommon among men and it speaks to their complete lack of a support system outside of relationships. That doesn't mean women are obligated to step in, far from it. MEN need to start showing up for other men and cultivate friendships that don't revolve around sexual gratification. Men's mental health needs more attention than becoming the occasional anti-feminist talking point. But this is MEN'S issue to tackle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:09 PM |
| 80 | Peak pickme reiterating "men right, women crazy""Some relationships have different boundaries and that's okay. But your relationship has stronger boundaries than mine and that's bad." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:29 AM |
| 14 | O no hunnyAnd he stopped talking to her after she ruined his fantasy. She hasn't left him... why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:54 AM |
| 6 | “If he was abusive, why did you stay with him?”I knew my ex was ill. He had PTSD and he was depressed. He managed to convince me I was making his mental health simultaneously worse and better. I was making him suffer, but I couldn't leave because I was also the one reason he got out of bed and didn't kill himself. I stayed for so long because I felt an obligation to him, and convinced myself that one way or another he'd overcome the darkness and everything would go back to normal - or as close to "normal" as I deserved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:42 AM |
| 22 | And he decided to post this because...?At the start of my relationship with my now-ex, I made a stupid joke about flowers being "severed plant genitals." He cracked up and decided he would never buy me flowers because apparently, I hate them. In reality I was making that joke to cope with the thought process that nobody would give enough fucks to buy me flowers, but it's not like I could tell him that. Years later, after hearing a few more times about how he was so glad I was one of those girls who "hated flowers," I spoke up and exp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:07 AM |
| 100 | Excuse me, ma’am... MA’AM WITH THE PICKME ATTITUDE... Being flattered by objectification is not only harmful to you but all the other women out there.I had a whole reply typed out and then I realized there were multiple pics. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:54 AM |
| 28 | Introducing: Meme-Free MondaysThank you for this! I'm looking forward to see how it improves the subreddit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:40 AM |
| 168 | Ma’am. What exactly is the purpose of this ferine creature you call a “husband”? 🥴How many comments speculated that he was "depressed" and OP should "communicate" with him or consider counseling? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:23 AM |
| 7 | Where can I find the FDS handbook?It's on the sidebar of the main FDS subreddit. | /r/askFDS | 10/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 33 | What’s the worst gift you’ve been given by a LVM? Here’s mine. Story in comments.A random assortment of shot glasses, some chipped, from his own collection. Thrown into a box that was way too big for them so they rolled around and chipped some more. I got him a PlayStation store gift card and he had no intention of giving me anything until he saw that he got a gift, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:11 PM |
| 51 | Interpreting men's social media useAnd men have the audacity to complain about women's social media use. Apparently we're the ones seeking constant validation? Please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:36 PM |
| 43 | Saw this in r/niceguys of all places. "Your hurt feelings do not override my right to say no."It's the natural progression of porn addiction. Check the pornfree and infidelity support subs and you'll see a lot of posts about men who got bored with porn and moved on to dating/cheating sites to get the next fix. They're no longer satisfied with images on a screen and need their fantasies further out in the real world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:53 PM |
| 96 | Saw this in r/niceguys of all places. "Your hurt feelings do not override my right to say no."Not to mention, men do this too. Often while they're still in relationships. But it's okay for them because "it's just like porn." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 04:57 PM |
| 106 | So disheartening to see posts like these...gotta remind myself that Reddit is especially misogynistic and not reflective of all men, but like. holy shitAt least half of those comments were written by NEETs. I'm calling it now. Can't lose your job to COVID if you never had one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:25 AM |
| 19 | Men just automatically assume that because they took a women out once (with NO indication of dating) that they're dating now and deserves her.While I don't know how the guy here approached asking her on a date, this is a risk you take when you're wishy-washy about your intentions. If a guy wants to "hang out" and "see where it goes" or even "vibe" before making any move, they shouldn't be surprised when women keep their options open too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:30 AM |
| 50 | Most of the comments are praising him for COmMuniCatINg.There's nothing "mature" about telling your girlfriend you want to have a hoe phase still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:27 AM |
| 5 | Pornsick men will NEVER care for your pleasure. If your man loves porn, run for the hills.I will never forget the time an ex tried to spring a "consensual" non-consent kink on me in the middle of sex, while I was trying to stop him and get out of a painful position, because this one time an ex of his wanted him to do it. And he convinced me at the time it was an honest mistake and he hates having to walk on eggshells around me. I was so dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 09:46 PM |
| 52 | Boyfriend (m25) says FDS is making me crazy?He doesn't have to be evil for you to decide this isn't working. It sounds like not only is he refusing to put in the effort to grow, he doesn't respect your efforts and wants to keep you down with him. Keep reading the handbook and you'll come across the advice of "Don't fall in love with potential." You may think there could be something good here, but odds are he'll never reach the bar you want him to. People only change when they want to, and even then it's not a guarantee. What's more likel… | /r/askFDS | 09/01/21 09:08 PM |
| 73 | Boyfriend (m25) says FDS is making me crazy?You're listing a lot of red flags and a lot of excuses. What are the good things about this relationship that override the bad things in your mind AND you can't get elsewhere? | /r/askFDS | 09/01/21 08:47 PM |
| 8 | Pornsick men will NEVER care for your pleasure. If your man loves porn, run for the hills.I might be biased here because I have more of a squick reaction to men giving oral sex to women for some reason. I think because they're more likely to be obsessive about it than women. My impression is that they think it's an easy way to get access to a woman's body and/or their dick doesn't work. Bonus points if they're also terrible at giving head because they're copying what looks good on camera rather than what actually feels good to women. Obsession is a red flag on its own anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:44 PM |
| 7 | Pornsick men will NEVER care for your pleasure. If your man loves porn, run for the hills.That's a good question. From what I've noticed all his tend to scrunch their faces and close their eyes at the moment. I'd be more concerned if he kept his eyes closed throughout sex, but on its own I'm not sure if this is a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 56 | Asking for advice on Reddit hurts and confuses womenIt's simple: Reddit is dominated by men. And men generally aren't great at self-reflection and recognizing their role in relationship issues. They also hold on to the false narrative that men have a much harder time getting into relationships than women do. The result? Men trying to help their fellow man get in and stay in relationships at all costs, completely ignorant of how much they're fucking up in the process. This is why Reddit is bombarded with "Gee, I sure wish women would approach me f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:41 AM |
| 7 | A lot of words for "I can't pleasure women"Porn is bad for many reasons beyond rendering users capable of natural sexual interaction. But the hate that porn addicts have on vibrators is especially pathetic for one reason: vibes and penises don't typically stimulate the same areas on a woman's body. But I doubt these guys have figured out where a clit is or that women don't pee out of our vaginas. The idea of multiple erogenous zones in that area would surely blow their minds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:21 AM |
| 54 | Your friendly reminder that unicorn hunting and polyamory are one and the same. Both are bad news for you.I'm becoming convinced that "polyamory" doesn't actually exist and is an elaborate scam. Every single "poly" person I've met was in it to collect disposable fuck trophies. The whole narrative about free love and CoMpErSiOn is a lie they sell naive people to collect more fuck trophies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:33 AM |
| 64 | What happens after you throw the whole man away... (OC from my Bumble a few weeks ago, not sure how/why getting into a trash can and making that your profile pic would attract women??)He's hoping you'll look at that and see a man with a sense of humor. But in reality, he's just being honest about being trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:00 AM |
| 13 | Her boyfriend complained that she’s only spending $200 for his birthday after she already spent $300 on him for Christmas.Men are gold diggers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 99 | Here is a picture of the men who stormed the Capitol building today:Traitors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:26 AM |
| 33 | Understand? YoU’rE sOcIoPaThS, nOt NoRmAL!!In what world is porn comparable to a "romantic movie?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:54 AM |
| 193 | My ex was arrested marching on Washington today. Looks like the trash took itself out 🤦♀️"I meant to post bail, I guess I didn't by mistake!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:06 AM |
| 24 | A question to FDS members: why do you think there are women who are against FDS?When I first came across this sub, I was intimidated. The ideas here fly in the face of today's dating advice which I still thought was how things should go. In a perfect world they might, but this isn't it. I also had abysmally low self esteem at the time so the idea that I could be the prize someone wanted to be with was laughable. I didn't think I was the kind of woman guys would pursue, and I was in full pickme mode trying to secure some scraps for myself. FDS challenged a lot of what I knew… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:08 PM |
| 24 | Ladies, how much do men you date tend to spend on you, per month, during the early phase?I don't see why he's complaining. If he's not happy with the arrangement he can "communicate" or walk. Who cares what the custom is? What's he going to do, march up to his girlfriend and tell her the internet demands she spend money on him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 10:01 PM |
| 65 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.It only took me until 30. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 09:59 PM |
| 134 | This is the only correct response to this sort of low effort behaviourOMG you're so toxic. /s This is the difference between someone going through the motions to keep you vs. someone actually invested in impressing you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 11:16 PM |
| 29 | Some pickme from the New Yorker trying to sell us walk date as a romantic gestureWait, I thought were were supposed to be "progressive?" Why is she selling walk dates as something old fashioned? Old fashioned is supposed to be a bad thing, this is 2021! These libfems don't make any sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 24 | Maybe we should date gay men, they will treat us better than straight men for sureWhat kind of man is so afraid of being challenged he goes for a doormat as a partner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 50 | Maybe we should date gay men, they will treat us better than straight men for sureWait til you see the tweets from guys who think going down on a woman is gay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:36 PM |
| 8 | Imagine being this much of a pathetic degenerate. 🤢🤢🤢I've met this type of man. This failure to accept rejection no doubt spreads to other parts of his life. It leaves him unambitious, socially stunted, and generally unfulfilled. He'll never make the most of his life and will always be wondering how green the grass is on the other side not realizing he is perfectly capable of climbing over the fence and finding out himself. Rejection is a part of life. For EVERYONE. I don't know how the idea of a woman not returning your feelings became the ultima… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 22 | This would be a deal breaker for me. If he can’t do something so small, he won’t be able to do bigger more important things. Throw him out along with the oatmeal. No more settling for less than what we deserve! Kick him out 2021! ✊Funny but a waste of perfectly good oatmeal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:25 AM |
| 32 | My ex ran away the moment he saw me.Who cares? You won. | /r/askFDS | 04/01/21 02:10 AM |
| 8 | Sexual FitnessI second that book recommendation and several of the commenter's suggestions to masturbate and change your perception of your body. But what helped me the most was ditching the vibrator. My sex life before was entirely focused on my partner's pleasure because I knew if my orgasm didn't happen I could buzz out three of them later. That made sex less appealing for me. Worse, I looked at entirely too much porn in the past and the continued use of the vibe triggered the desire for more viewing. So t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:01 AM |
| 17 | The incel mods at r/AHS go “mask off” with the crazy - claim to have demanded we show them evidence of child porn, and that criticisms of porn make us akin to Misogynists, Anti-Semites, pedophiles, and NeoNazis & that we’re inciting “Masturbation Panic”. LMAO WUT IS THIS INSANE REACHOMG! You happened to say the same thing as a white supremacist said that one time somewhere on the internet. I bet you breathe air, too. Just like nazis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 11:52 PM |
| 9 | If you're considering becoming a sex worker, read this.Thank you for posting this. And it's not like sex work is sunshine and daisies. I don't think any woman today goes in with the intention of it being a long-term career path. Sex work chews up young women and spits them out, and we all know this. This post is from a former OnlyFans model and shows a harsh reality of the industry today. Women and girls deserve better than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:26 PM |
| 360 | At this point they could rename themselves as r/ThoughtPolice and I will see no differenceSo... they're unironically saying that not dating men is hateful? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:34 PM |
| 27 | Help! My BF thinks jackhammering his fingers is foreplay and gets pouty when I tell him to stop! Will cOmmUnICaTiOn fix it?Someone please explain to me why communication is apparently so complicated that women need to be extra-super assertive to get through to our partners? Why wasn't the first "No, that's painful" assertive enough? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 10:37 PM |
| 44 | In today's episode of "what object are we"...women are a benchpress machine!If only one could buy weights in a store. 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 17 | "it's just a fantasy! "Not just children. Why do they fantasize about rape, blackmail, and abuse? How and why does any of it provide sexual gratification? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:14 PM |
| 70 | Her gut is telling her the right answer, but the comments give the worst advice.He wants to try his luck once the world opens up and he can date freely again, but keep her on the backburner if no better options turn up. "I love you" should not be a moodkiller if you actually care about the person you're about to have sex with. Even if you aren't ready to say it back or it's too soon to feel the same way yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 07:54 PM |
| 31 | NVM thinks that girlfriend's PTSD is "selfish".Seeing how common this crazy ex-girlfriend phenomenon is makes me really doubt my ex's story of how he was abused and manipulated by multiple exes of his own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:35 PM |
| 60 | Dont Date Men Who Are Sports, Rap, Rock StarsI will add chefs to the list. Short fuses, drug use, long hours with low pay, and you'll never get a weekend or holiday to spend with them. Friendly reminder that discriminatory behavior in dating is not only allowed, but beneficial to you. Your vagina is not public property, no man is entitled to a chance to access it. Anyone who tries to tell you otherwise knows they cannot fit your standards and will never make you happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:22 PM |
| 5 | FDS made me realize my dad is LVM and I swore to myself that I would never date someone like himI was also a "daddy's girl" growing up and my father is a downright NVM. Lazy, apathetic, addicted mess who barely contributed to my and my brothers' upbringing. I think it's common for kids to bond to the more LV parent, and the common denominator is likely the lack of responsibilities. My mom was always the "stricter" parent who made sure we got good grades, got fed, did our chores, etc. My dad was the "fun" one who let things slide when he was in a good mood and told jokes that were funny whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:05 AM |
| 34 | Transactional dates = I buy food, you give sexSo, you were trying to solicit sex? Where I'm from, that's a crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 18 | Hey gurl. I’m an intersectional feminist. I’m also a shaman. 🚨🚨🚨Oh GOD I was unfortunate enough to get involved with a guy who practiced "tantra." It was basically a lot of extended foreplay FOR HIM that culminated in me giving him a hand job as he awkwardly fumbled with my panties. All his talk about wanting to pleasure me yet he barely wanted to touch me. He was also interrogative unreliable as hell after the first meeting so I never figured out if he was embarrassed or cheating. Maybe both. I don't trust anyone who claims to be into tantric sex now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:51 PM |
| 7 | The last time I dated anyone who wasn't my husband was 16 years ago, a man come over from spain (I'm mexican) just to see me and we didn't had sex, and now men think you don't need dates? Ok...Bro you can't even grow a beard yet and you think you're an expert on women? Calm down and fill out your college apps already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:01 AM |
| 57 | I'm curious if anyone else feels like this is a block and move on situationCorrection: he has a girlfriend. OP is the side chick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:47 AM |
| 24 | Low value men whine about women not playing the role of a therapist, calling us unempathetic for not letting them cross our boundaries in that regard. I explained to the idiots on how the healthy relationship works. :/Notice there's not an empathetic man anywhere near that picture ready to be there for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 03:37 AM |
| 18 | I can’t believe how the comments are encouraging this guy to ask for “consent”, he attempted to rape his GF when she was asleepIt's men like this who give the impression that men are sex-crazed animals. She rejected his advances more than once, resisted him entering her, yet he persisted because dammit he was horny. And at least three people are coddling him. One person who wrote that comment, and the two who upvoted. Tell me again why we shouldn't treat men as potential predators from the start? This is/was her boyfriend, someone she already trusted enough to date and nap undressed in his bed. And he still raped her be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 02:44 AM |
| 21 | How men act towards disabled and "weak" womenThis is awful. I'm sorry this happened to you. While not on the same level, I did have to deal with older creepy dudes trying to "help" me in classes when I was in culinary school. Of course, this "help" involved getting up close and personal, lot of touching, and including long-winded lectures on certain things to maximize the contact. A lot of this was due to me being a lot younger than these guys (19-20 at the time) and smaller. And if I didn't like the close quarters "extra lessons" they'd g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:36 AM |
| 9 | I love the “Here’s my hand with my new ring I bought myself” pics. This is my “here’s my hand with the keys to my new house I bought myself!” pic. Resolve to evolve, sis! Here’s to our new year!Thanks for sharing this. It never would've dawned on me that it was possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 01:19 AM |
| 224 | What are they even thinking when they send messages like this??Depending on the circumstances of what made him a source, that could jeopardize her ability to do her job. He may come under fire for talking to a reporter in the first place, and then she gets the reputation of a journalist who won't protect her sources. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:17 PM |
| 18 | The comments were full of women claiming they were such kind.Always say exactly what they mean? Then why doesn't this meme say "pick me PLEASE!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 01:41 PM |
| 2 | An open letter to the women of FDS from a fellow female 🤪Okay, men, you win. Not all of you are hateful or abusive. Most of you are nice HVM! ... There, I said it. Can you stop with the harassing DMs now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:05 AM |
| 20 | This just doesn't seem worth it.I get the feeling he just wanted a chance to reject the girl who rejected him first. He sounds all-around selfish and not above using whatever woman he can for his validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 50 | 🤮 this is the way he speaks about his wifeSince when has that stopped them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | She said what she said. What's crazy is men will have a problem with this tweet not realizing that it's a reality lived by their mothers, sisters, and girlfriends, but the irony is lost on them.You're absolutely right. My perception based on her comment was that she worked longer hours than he did, based on her expectations that he have dinner and laundry done every night. But I could've been wrong, abs this certainly doesn't apply to every relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:03 PM |
| 18 | This is 100% satire. That’s the whole point. It’s turning the tables around because women deal with this shit all the time and the comments on TrollX are a bunch of dumbasses virtue signaling against this woman."A girl wrote to me on Tinder calling me quite the catch cos I like nachos and It's Always Sunny, so I wrote back saying well if you're impressed by that you should see my dick and SHE UNMATCHED ME. I literally have no idea what women want." Reddit: "You were on Tinder! What did she expect?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:31 AM |
| 7 | She was at least 11 so he shouldn't face consequences for sexting her! If anything, she should be registered as a sex offenderTypically if you commit serious crimes by mistake, you still face consequences. The logic is that you should've been more careful. I see no reason why blindly sexting anything female-shaped shouldn't be discouraged. But men are so looooooonely. Which reminds me, loneliness hits men harder than women. You'd think these Men's rights posters who stand up for their friends so vehemently when convicted of crimes would exist as a decent support system in these times. But no, seems more like they're co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:26 AM |
| 3 | When ugly old men remove themselves from the dating pool >>>"I'm okay with women wanting equality as long as they don't acknowledge men's role in it or point out how I benefit from inequality. Let's keep it all hypothetical, please." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:22 AM |
| 240 | She said what she said. What's crazy is men will have a problem with this tweet not realizing that it's a reality lived by their mothers, sisters, and girlfriends, but the irony is lost on them.They're so used to seeing men as breadwinners and women as caretakers that it doesn't even register when the "roles" are flipped. This woman's tweets imply she works at least more than he does, if he does at all, but Twitter bros still expect her to keep up with the housework for some reason? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:08 AM |
| 12 | She was at least 11 so he shouldn't face consequences for sexting her! If anything, she should be registered as a sex offenderHe sexted a girl without asking her age or presumably seeing her in person, or he DID see her in person and thought a child was attractive enough to sext. Children shouldn't be lying about their ages and sexting grown men, but this dude definitely had it coming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:55 AM |
| 43 | I am speechless"Just do an open relationship!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:32 AM |
| 17 | Should I accept the request?Okay, so if you want dates it's counterintuitive to accept anything else. If he's not trying to explicitly date you, he's already showing that wishy washy behavior that you aren't interested in. What I'm trying to get at is you should focus on actions that get you closer to what you want, rather than some arbitrary standard that you have to accept XYZ because that's the culture. | /r/askFDS | 29/12/20 03:31 AM |
| 15 | Should I accept the request?...Yes. This is unnecessarily pedantic. Do you want meetups or dates? | /r/askFDS | 29/12/20 03:27 AM |
| 3 | So much respect for her father in-law for correcting his son’s behaviour!This has a staged feel to it. Also I don't think this is the first time I've seen this couple post a Tiktok video of their fights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:25 AM |
| 18 | Should I accept the request?I'm not interested with wishy washy guys. This is the only justification you need. You don't need to lower your standards just because you met a guy on OLD. I could make the case that you could raise your standards for OLD based on how easy it is for fuckboys to look genuine. | /r/askFDS | 29/12/20 03:23 AM |
| 6 | What in Fresh PickMe Hell is This?Oh look, more "poly" propaganda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:00 AM |
| 114 | Julian Casablancas, left his wife of 15 years for a 21 yr old roadie.There ARE men out there with a moral compass and desire for a family over the fuckboy life... but they're rare and this type is discouraged in modern society. This is why vetting is important as well as living your best life single. You might meet this unicorn, you might not, but either way you'll have a good life on your terms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:39 AM |
| 137 | Open Relationship?Open relationships also attract the most fragile people who don't want to change. There's a whole narrative around poly relationships being more work than monogamy, but in practice this work isn't really done. I was in a few poly relationships in the past and I noticed the whole friend group was interconnected emotionally and sexually. Everyone wanted to bang everyone else if they hadn't already, and maybe wanted to bang them again if they already had. The people involved also had deep-seated is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Women are constantly made to feel bad over their body count being pass 4 or 5 yet praise men for have 10+. It’s just complete hypocritical bullshitNone of these guys who panic over the divorce rate go into any detail on why women file for divorce. They just assume the woman wants to drag men into court for funsies. Maybe there's a study that supports it but they're too lazy to look for it. /s In all seriousness, the reasons why divorce happens is worth exploring. More men may find they contribute to the fall of the marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:45 PM |
| 105 | Please no more pampering menI had a FWB who would constantly refer to me as his "second girlfriend." (Open relationship. Not even once.) For his birthday one year, I made him his favorite cake. He ate that up and then had the audacity to ask where his present was. He didn't get a damn thing from me after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 53 | This is why it always makes me suspicious when men push for legalisation of buying sex. 1. You get to use the woman for sex. 2. You get to attack other women who object to that.Imagine if he put this much effort into being a good partner for someone. Then he'd have "physical intimacy" more often without having to budget! Also, what's with this coy language of "physical intimacy?" You don't want intimacy. You barely want to look at her. There's nothing intimate about paying a woman to give you an orgasm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:48 PM |
| 12 | Marry Christmas to all fabulous members if FDS!!!!Ah yes, the most toxic and hateful sub that one guy from MensRights ever saw in his life. I love it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 08:54 PM |
| 25 | Andrew Schulz’ incel fans taunt his ex-gf relentlessly over his “success” with a new Netflix show, trying to make her feel bad and ungrateful for leaving him. She reveals she left because of his insane abuse.Unfortunately, this is only going to encourage them. I hope she can find peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:21 AM |
| 29 | Ladies, when he watches porn sex with you is "too much effort." From the mouths of scrotes.The idea that women can have needs to be fulfilled in a relationship beyond just being in a relationship is a foreign concept for some reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:59 PM |
| 69 | Ladies, when he watches porn sex with you is "too much effort." From the mouths of scrotes."Girl (30F) I'm (29M) seeing doesn't want sex, but uses a vibrator" Reddit: "She's not into you, bro. Drop this rotten woman." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:58 PM |
| 29 | FDS helped me process the fact that I was groomedThis is why I said "people who called themselves feminists." I think feminism SHOULD condemn selling nudes, but that's a topic for another time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 94 | FDS helped me process the fact that I was groomedAm I reading this right? People who called themselves feminists supported a minor selling her nudes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 05:44 PM |
| 16 | Ex wants to stay friends ??I've been there too. It's hard to see when you're in the middle of things. If you're bad at enforcing boundaries, it's best to show and not tell. No more messages telling him you're done. You broke up, he can figure that out anyway. Sending him a message will just give him the opportunity to protest and whittle his way through your boundaries again. | /r/askFDS | 25/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 44 | Ex wants to stay friends ??I think you can see the pattern here. When he has a rough time, you're expected to cater to him (hence this recent ask) or exit his life (hence breakup). When you have a rough time, he's got too much going on and he can't deal with you. I don't think you love him so much as you love an idealized version of him that doesn't exist. Allowing him to "hang out" won't bring that version of him out, it'll teach him that being his real self will still get him what he wants - attention from you on demand… | /r/askFDS | 25/12/20 04:47 PM |
| 429 | Of all the Horrible Things I’ve seen from Men on Reddit, r/DeadEyes is the one that broke meI suspect that a lot of the guys saying "not all men" or "not all porn" are actually deep in denial about how prevalent this kind of abuse is in the porn industry. They think that because they're watching stuff they consider "safe," sticking to OnlyFans models and other amateur porn, that's what makes up most of the porn supply. They don't think to consider the amateur stuff is even revenge porn, or if they do, rationalize it behind layers of victim blaming. But in their minds, they're not like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:55 AM |
| 3 | I knew I was going to get attacked for saying this, but I had to. I hope she takes my advice.Is it time for Reddit's daily "woman sub bad" circlejerk already? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 50 | There's a huge chance he's the actual problemWhen we're surrounded by "psychotic" men, it's our fault for choosing bad men. When men are surrounded by "psychotic" women, it's still our fault for being "psychotic" women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 7 | They’re arguing about gender roles being irrelevant because women can open their own doors 🤔"Because if he does anything for you, he's entitled to payment!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:46 PM |
| 9 | They’re arguing about gender roles being irrelevant because women can open their own doors 🤔I can open my own door. I can also accept a man doing small things for me with grace. But smacking my hand so he can open a door for me? Nah, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:22 PM |
| 4 | What?She's admitting her only goal was to be someone's wife. Didn't matter who. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:21 PM |
| 292 | Lazy scrote who doesn’t want to work wants Reddit to help him convince his wife why it’s okay not to work.Imagine his panic if she suddenly decided she was anti-work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 25 | She had me in the first half...So she ruined all the work she did on herself for what? Fear of being lonely? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:04 PM |
| 50 | Just another day on r/dating 😳😳Don't settle, ladies. You know they won't if they can help it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:12 AM |
| 8 | It does make sense when it involves sexually arousing other people with your body and genitals, which doesn't happen in ANY form of work. END OF STORY.To be fair, I think Craigslist shut down that part of their site ages ago. But there's always OnlyFans! And of course they need to market this aggressively to all their bros, who should also be paying for subscriptions as a show of solidarity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Another porn addict scrote with unrealistic FantasiesRight? I get bored with it after 5-10 minutes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 16 | Another porn addict scrote with unrealistic FantasiesThe part about wanting to watch the video WHILE she gives him head is disturbing. It's like he's so close to admitting he can get off faster watching a screen of a sex act than from the sex act itself. Also, he's totally lying about deleting it right after. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:23 AM |
| 13 | Behold, a modern 24 year old man."Not anymore." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:22 AM |
| 6 | Excuse me, what? (Women who don't fulfill their man's sexual needs should expect him to fulfill them elsewhere)Okay, fine. Let him fulfill his bullshit "needs" somewhere else. But if he thinks he can do that AND come back to me, he's got another thing coming. This is just poly propaganda to convince monogamous people they need to be some godlike tier of partner or expect to be mistreated. Just say you want to fuck everything in sight and go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 30 | It does make sense when it involves sexually arousing other people with your body and genitals, which doesn't happen in ANY form of work. END OF STORY.Nobody's stopping them now, they can get in on that "empowerment" any time they want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:02 PM |
| 41 | It does make sense when it involves sexually arousing other people with your body and genitals, which doesn't happen in ANY form of work. END OF STORY.The warehouse worker doesn't open himself up to further abuse, a stalled career, and social ostracization for the scandalous work of warehouse work. The porn actress does. This concept of "selling her body" and the realities of sex work's stigma did not come from the anti-sex work crowd, mind you. These abuses come from the very group that encourages and enjoys sex work. They'll go on to abuse sex workers and point the finger at women like us for speaking out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:01 PM |
| 140 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.True. I've noticed when it comes to subs like RA, the default response is "communicate!" even if the woman says she's communicated these issues before. Then it becomes "communicate again," "you did it wrong," or "stop nagging, you're being controlling." I'm glad that doesn't seem to be the case here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:39 PM |
| 136 | Does she think she’s special or smarter than any of us for letting her man openly fantasize and ogle over other women?All this talk about whether something counts as "cheating" or breaks some objective rule of relationships is missing the point. If YOU aren't comfortable with something in your relationship, you have every right to set a boundary. And your partner can either respect that boundary or fuck off. There is no objective standard for how relationships are supposed to go, and acting otherwise only serves to gaslight women into dropping boundaries that are outside of what's trendy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:37 PM |
| 155 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.OP's girlfriend, if you're reading this - congratulations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:27 PM |
| 313 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.He thinks the relationship was going great because he reaped all these benefits: surprise gifts, an apartment he couldn't afford on his own, home cooked meals, massages, and so on. Not once does he wonder if she's fulfilled and happy, but she was probably doing all this stuff for so long hoping against hope that he might think to reciprocate. Of course, that didn't happen. He won't even move out on his own, his beloved mommy gf handed him a roadmap because she knows he'll drag his feet. And now … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:26 PM |
| 54 | #KickHimOut2020 Is Coming To An EndI did not expect at the start of this year I'd be breaking up with my boyfriend. But it was long overdue. I wasn't happy for a long time and that wasn't going to change as long as I was with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:21 PM |
| 46 | 😂😂Guys like this can't comprehend that sex isn't just a fun pasttime for everyone. Hell, it really shouldn't be for him. The risks are too great - higher for women, but not nonexistent for men. I wonder if he also has an opinion on "financial abortions." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 13 | And I cringe..Age is just a number when he has money ❤️ #explore #explorepage #viral #reel #reels #reelsinstagram Definitely not a choice I'd make, but it's pretty clear she's not in love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:20 AM |
| 78 | The teen boys at r/ memes want us to know FDS is THE WORST and should be sHuT DoWn. They cry out to god Reddit for help 😭🙏"Help, help, I'm being repressed!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 129 | 🤡 They just never stop, do they? Between the audacity to ruin a girl’s future and the pick me behaviour, idk what’s worse tbh.And she's right to say no. Addicts with deep pockets relapse all the time. As long as they know someone will shell out money to put them in rehab for a bit, they have that security. The precedent is already there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 08:08 PM |
| 8 | *sigh* ...I used to be active on Fetlife in my pickme days. You wouldn't believe (maybe you would) the stories people loved to tell about how they freaked out the "vanillas" by being not-so-subtly kinky in public. And anyone who pointed out how shoving their kink on strangers wasn't cool got mocked for being too conservative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:16 PM |
| 14 | Scrotes be like:Someone tell whoever tried to respond that "Also, what?" is not a response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:28 PM |
| 56 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"Interesting how supposedly "acting" scenes of extreme pain and disgust is easier than acting like you're enjoying the sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:36 PM |
| 17 | Hi Hoe, Hi Hoe, it’s off to WERK we goooo...Ask these guys who think sex work is like any other work if they'd ever date an escort or porn star. Watch them hesitate or outright say no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:09 PM |
| 42 | God, why can't women stop reading and cook and sex their men more? Thats all men want! They are waiting....I bet this is more of a "joke" exposing what he thinks is a double standard of men being shamed for their porn habits while women are allowed to read books. Because that's totally the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:09 AM |
| 92 | Men really do miss the days where a man could just forcibly impregnate a woman and then abandon her on a whim, leaving her desperate and penniless. This is why we vet ruthlessly."But I can't finish with a condom!" Even better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:01 PM |
| 9 | You can't teach someone to care about you.Someone elsewhere in the comments mentioned explaining her dietary preferences to a guy. That's an example of what I had in mind. Not that it's a "small" thing, but it is something you should be able to communicate exactly once. But if you tell your man you like strawberry Laffy Taffy and he shows up with a bag of banana, there's a problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:17 PM |
| 6 | You can't teach someone to care about you.Ouch. I'm sorry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 80 | B-but, Sex Work Is Empowering! [Journalist doxxes nurse trying to make ends meet with an OnlyFans]Did that woman really lose her job? I hate this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:29 PM |
| 25 | You can't teach someone to care about you.He was definitely pornsick and had the opposite of PE. He could go for hours and still need to jerk it to finish. He just wanted to recreate all his favorite videos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:56 AM |
| 27 | You can't teach someone to care about you.Surprisingly, no. It was the thing where the guy repeatedly enters and exits during sex. I need some kind of rhythm in order to enjoy sex and he ruined it every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:42 AM |
| 192 | It's almost as liberal feminism actually benefits men and that's why they like it so muchI want to see "prude" reclaimed the way "slut" was reclaimed by libfems. I shouldn't be dragged for not being sexually available to everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:15 AM |
| 75 | Remember: I miss you does not mean I choose you *~*~*~*~Funny as this is, warning him that she's going to send the girlfriend a screenshot is a serious tactical error. She just gave him plenty of time to build up a story about his "crazy ex" who is making up lies to split them up. If you encounter a cheater, definitely expose them. But DON'T tell them you're going to expose them. Cheaters are expert liars and manipulators who WILL beat you to the punch if you give them a chance. Also this girl is dating a confirmed cheater so she 100% doesn't respect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 139 | Men Who "Don't Know What They Want"And he only stopped because his heart was broken in the process. I guarantee you if he had a great time he wouldn't regret the hearts he broke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:25 PM |
| 283 | Another Failed Flex from the LibFem Logic FilesThe biggest problem with "sex positive" culture is that it only changed women's perception of sex. Men's views remained largely unchanged. Now we have a lot of women running around thinking "sex is just sex" and not a big deal. But men are still equal parts opportunistic and judgemental, and the result is that there's a larger share of women branded as "sluts" while men can whore around with their reputations intact. If I were a paranoid woman I'd say that was the goal all along. Stop rewarding … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:20 PM |
| 54 | You can't teach someone to care about you.Yup. I had one ex where I repeatedly communicated what I wanted and what things he did in bed I hated. He'd still do them anyway because "it's so hot!" and decided anything else I "communicated" wasn't a big deal so it was OK to disregard. Good luck with your new man! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 37 | I'm done 🙅🏻♀️💢💔The only way his excuse makes a sliver of sense is if he admits to actively sabotaging his marriage. He doesn't want to be a husband and father, therefore he ran off to fuck a younger woman and live the fuckboy lifestyle. This woman should oblige him. She'd be doing her child a favor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 8 | The "censorship" defense is already starting.Sadly dating sites don't ban scrotes for being scrotes. They make up the largest share of the user base AND are more likely to spend money on the sites. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:40 PM |
| 42 | The "censorship" defense is already starting.Nice distraction, bro. Payment processors can do business with whomever they please. This isn't "censorship," Visa and MC have no power over what PH does on their site. If PH is dependent on them to process payments, that's PH's problem to solve. It's the same logic that allows social media platforms to ban individuals from using their services. I wonder how the author feels about that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:05 PM |
| 75 | Is it just me, or do guys with huge dicks put in even less effort?Definitely. The best-endowed men I've been with were also the worst in bed because they thought all they had to do was show up. The best lovers I had were in the average range. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 04:12 PM |
| 12 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!"You'll never find a man if you're on FDS" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:51 PM |
| 11 | How to get him out.Then you'll unfortunately need to go through the legal process of evicting him. | /r/askFDS | 16/12/20 01:10 PM |
| 12 | How to get him out.You'll likely have to evict him. Is he on the mortgage/lease/whatever paperwork you have? | /r/askFDS | 16/12/20 02:40 AM |
| 34 | Men "In the middle of a divorce"Best case scenario, he's still got baggage from that marriage and is rushing into a new relationship to avoid being alone. You'd be a rebound. Worst case scenario, there is no divorce in the works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:33 AM |
| 57 | What an amazing story!In which certain men try to behave worse than wild animals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:35 AM |
| 98 | The day I coddle a grown man is the day I die. - I'm not my mother and I'm not his mother, period.My mother would have a stroke if I chose to marry a man like my father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:14 AM |
| 17 | Ain't that the truth💁♀️Or consider factors other than "will this benefit me and only me?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:37 PM |
| 46 | i could throw up. they really don’t care about us."I'm a woman and those stats are wrong. You know this because I said so." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:01 PM |
| 66 | Women are the solvers and the one to take responsibility. If marriage fails, is the woman who is held to a higher standard. Woman is to be perfect, although she will never be. Woman is to be limited, society tells her she should function through fear.I was just thinking about this today. Have a problem in your relationship? Just communicate. That didn't work? Communicate that being ignored hurts you. Still a problem? You didn't communicate the right way. Try it again. STILL not fixed? Why are you nagging so much? You must be controlling. Learn to be more chill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:12 AM |
| 45 | FKA Twigs has formally sued Shia LeBouf in a suit depicting details of domestic abuse she endured at his hand and he came has come forth to say "some allegations are false" to save face instead of taking full responsibility for his degenerate behaviour.His reaction is on par with your typical addict "confession." When they do admit to wrongdoing, it's because they're out of options to defend themselves. And even then it's about damage control. My ex was a master of this. He was literally caught sneaking off to drink in his car after he was supposed to get sober (recently hospitalized with cirrhosis, FFS) and he kept talking about how he didn't relapse THAT long ago. I'm surprised Shia hasn't brought up any trauma or tried to blame her - yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:27 AM |
| 42 | Excuse me whatOh, they totally want a LTR. They'll just fuck everything they can until they find it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:23 AM |
| 19 | Men are already putting pressure on credit card companies.Fetlife (a kinky Facebook frequently used as a kinky Tinder) has this problem often. Various businesses decide to stop processing payments for them based on obscene content. They always grumble, make some reluctant change to what content they'll allow, and/or find a new processor. The content that they've made very clear that they banned from the site only reluctantly? - Pedophilia - Beastiality - Scat - I think necrophilia? - Incest Each time the founders made it known that they didn't WANT to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:43 AM |
| 8 | Men are already putting pressure on credit card companies.They wish. Coomers don't realize an entire world exists outside of porn. Not processing payments for Pornhub won't kill the credit card businesses. Not even close. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 9 | Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft musicImagine this dude making all the decisions in your relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:50 PM |
| 27 | Men of reddit live in a fantasy where truth and lies are reversed. 90% of people who suffer from anorexia are women but I guess society is kinder to overweight women.So... we should feel sorry for men because their standards are lower? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:49 PM |
| 46 | Then they say they're the logical sex, oofThey're biologically programed to fuck everything in sight, so please cover up lest you distract them and trigger their desire to rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:36 PM |
| 21 | Mastercard and Visa stop allowing their cards to be used on Pornhub. Even credit card companies know what’s up.My understanding is that Amex already doesn't touch sites like this. Not sure about Discover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 10:47 PM |
| 31 | Men: porn isn't violence against women Also men: spams a women's sub with porn to "teach us a lesson"They tried the same with the anti porn sub I run. Spamming images of rough sex is funny, but don't worry, porn is totally respectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 14 | Message for male lurkers as well.That would make it more of a mutual thing, where you both give and get. Which is what I was trying to get at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:07 AM |
| 53 | Message for male lurkers as well.Too many people see sex as something a woman gives a man, or that he gets from her. It leads to entitled men and reluctant women. When more people realize that women can enjoy sex too, and actually ENJOY IT instead of enduring for the sake of "empowerment" or having to copy what porn stars do, there will be fewer dead bedrooms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:58 AM |
| 132 | FDS made me quit my Dollar Shave Club subscription! Here’s why you should cancel yours, too! — #DSCHatesWomenThank you for sharing. I'm also a DSC subscriber and was unaware of this. Not that I should be surprised as the company caters to men, but they got me during their brief "hey ladies, stop paying the pink tax and give us money instead!" campaign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:34 PM |
| 63 | Think this may be the tweet of the year!And we let them come back... why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:58 PM |
| 38 | Got a message from some scrote trying to argue that rape accusations are worse than rape. He sadly missed the irony in his message, that this is how so many women feel, every day of their lives. Blocked and didn’t reply.Also cases where the victim was too scared to go through with the trial or pressured to recant. I've heard of cases where the POLICE intimidated a victim into recanting because they didn't believe her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:26 PM |
| 208 | To the women who think we are equal to menNot to mention, the men who push for 50/50 because "equality" will happily take more than they give to you, while refusing to match your energy. They'll justify it by saying they never asked you to give so much anyway, and why are you keeping score? And don't think they won't notice or complain if you stop being so generous and match their energy. The modern 50/50 man is looking for an excuse to give less and get more. Men who want to provide and see their partners happy don't act like this. Unf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 18 | My ex is delusional - he thinks women want him!Well of course liars and manipulators want someone genuine. It's hard to manipulate and control someone who's even less honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:56 AM |
| 4 | This is what they really think of you.Men aren't mind readers, you know. Maybe some girls like it? Maybe women should be more open minded, you can't knock it if you don't try it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:56 PM |
| 5 | How many years do you count?The pun was intended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:05 PM |
| 14 | What is the worst case of pickme you've seen on Reddit?There's a good handful of women who go back to relationship subs to give updates to what were horribly red-flag relationship issues. I mean the initial situations were so bad that other redditors were skipping the "just communicate" stage of giving advice straight to "dump him," these stories are that bad. Anyway, the women like to come back months later with updates like "We fixed everything - and I have advice for you jealous single bitches who told me to leave! Teehee!" And then they respond … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:19 AM |
| 4 | Porn is ruining sex for women. So many men can't f*** properly 🤢. What's the point of being with a man that can't even please you in bed !?!If a man walked up to a woman and slapped or choked her without warning, it'd be called assault. But let him do the same thing while they're getting naked and she's in a much more vulnerable position, and suddenly it's on her to opt-out of any abuse. What happened to the consent narrative? You know, that idea that you're supposed to get consent from your partner before trying anything? Perhaps that's the logical conclusion of "no means no." You just keep doing what you want until you hear a no, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:15 AM |
| 2 | This was the second time he had talked to me this way while drunk and angry. THIS is when you leave ladies. Like my last post said, leave the first time.I recently left a recovering alcoholic who put me through similar abuse. I will tell you that even if he did magically decide to get sober and live the 12 steps success story, this kind of pain isn't going to go away. You're making the right call to walk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:07 AM |
| 13 | How many years do you count?Wait, no, I've been reliably informed that every single woman in this sub is 40+ and that's why they don't have a chance with the Apex Redditor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:52 AM |
| 4 | how abso effing disgusting is this? bad enough that a scrote would do this, let alone WOMEN blaming the victim!!! I'm beside myself! thankfully there are others who are just as outraged as I am.There it is. "If you don't CoMmUnIcAtE..." Why is communication on her? Why can't HE communicate that he needs to choke and beat a woman to get off, BEFORE he fucks her? Someone explain to me why, if communication is so important in interpersonal relationships, the expectation always falls exclusively on the woman and always after something happens that she doesn't like? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:47 AM |
| 398 | 😂🎯❤Pickmes: "Men and women are EQUALS! So act like it!" Also pickmes: "Remember to pamper your MAN, ladies!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | On a comment thread about Teddy Roosevelt having a strong maternal figure...wtfI'll bet you the first guy also believes in financial abortions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 34 | Imagine you man inviting you out to dinner on you ANNIVERSARY only to demand you pay half. And she cooks dinner for him 🤦🏼♀️Nowadays, I don't like how men don't cook their own meals. Some men act entitled, they want home-cooked meals yet don't wanna do traditional things and provide for those meals. --- In all seriousness, I'm appalled by the audacity of this man to make it to at least one anniversary while taking pride in doing absolutely NOTHING for his partner. He reaps the benefits for nothing in return, but she's the entitled one. OK bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:36 AM |
| 22 | r/PornIsMisogyny being problematic - a PSAPlease stop spreading misinformation about my sub. As I told you in DMs, r/pornhateswomen is a newer sub meant to replace PIM, which was the one overrun with trolls due to lack of moderation. PHW is actively moderated with no troll problems at this time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:44 PM |
| 86 | Men are being unfairly discriminated against as sex workers! Sex work is work! Men’s Rights! Inclusivity!If it's just sex, why do they have to be so picky? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:42 PM |
| 23 | FDS Isn't a Hate Sub, We're An Angry SubKyle's only mad that he didn't get the chance to use a woman first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:39 PM |
| 63 | Don’t you DARE kink shame him 🤡Notice how they're only ever remorseful after they have their fun and as soon as they deal with the consequences? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:46 PM |
| 161 | Don’t explain yourselves. It only gives them ammunition. JUST BLOCK AND DELETE. (Context in comments)Notice that saying no to him is "misandry." Men do love to throw around that word like it means something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:49 PM |
| 183 | Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNgThey don't even ask. They just keep pushing until they hear a no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:46 PM |
| 21 | PICKME gives women a piece of her mind.I'll give this "female" the benefit of the doubt and assume they're not a LARPing male. Why would a "female" take such offense at women like this? Why do relationships that don't involve her bother her so much? Why can't she treat her man like a king and mind her own damn business? Not only does she have to talk up her ex-friend's ex, but every man she's ever met in public? Wonder how her boyfriend must think of that, her looking at every man misty-eyed like she can do SO much better for him too… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:01 AM |
| 32 | On the fence about this guyThe age gap is worrisome. Even looking past that, his pros are surface-level and easy to accomplish if he wants to put up a facade. The cons are serious bad news. 10 months of dating and he's hitting you with the "commitment issues" line and staying on dating apps. You know he's playing with you. I could rant about his bullshit all night but I can tell you already sense it deep down. He "didn't mean it" when he said he loved you but "just realized it" when you were out the door? That's the behav… | /r/askFDS | 07/12/20 02:53 AM |
| 14 | non FDS mainstream humor. They know.Tamagotchi should be higher on fun, parakeets should be higher on effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 07:26 PM |
| 926 | Thoughts?"Someone's son." Someone's daughter just got manipulated but let's not worry about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 01:32 PM |
| 49 | I know we aren’t supposed to feed the trolls, but they make it so easy sometimesWhat do these guys think they'll be doing in a hypothetical fascist takeover? Do they think their lifestyle of vidya and porn from mom's basement is going to cut it? No, they'll still be expected to get a job and/or join the military and go off to war. They wouldn't last a single waifu-free month. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:41 AM |
| 159 | They say polyamory but they just mean cheatingWhy are women expected to roll over and "communicate" everything their husbands want, giving in to things men would never consider for their wives? And don't tell me "she can find someone else too!" - clearly she doesn't want that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 01:55 AM |
| 24 | Man expects wife to pay for HIS family's christmas presents, saying that she should "pitch in" because she makes more money ~ she's "negative" and "bitter" for refusing.And her post got shared on AmITheAngel too - AKA the "Let's make fun of people who've been gaslit and abused for so long they don't know which way is up! What's that? Call out their partner's behavior? Nah, that's no fun!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Black woman’s white boyfriend wants to do “race play” where she plays the slave and he the master, wants to know ifs she’s wrong for being uncomfortable with it, comments try to gaslight her that this is totally normally because mUh kInKYeah, it's pretty telling that guys these days are more concerned with whether she said yes in any context than whether she's actually enjoying what's happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 11:14 PM |
| 6 | Black woman’s white boyfriend wants to do “race play” where she plays the slave and he the master, wants to know ifs she’s wrong for being uncomfortable with it, comments try to gaslight her that this is totally normally because mUh kInKNotice how in every sentence he makes it clear that agreement comes first and then the act - if you hate the act and want to stop, you’re backing out of an agreement. Holy shit, you described my experience with kink so well. For all their talk about consent, the kink community does NOT like it when you decide something isn't working for you. And you'd be surprised how many "Dominant" men want to give their partners contracts and consent agreements ahead of any play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Black woman’s white boyfriend wants to do “race play” where she plays the slave and he the master, wants to know ifs she’s wrong for being uncomfortable with it, comments try to gaslight her that this is totally normally because mUh kInKI love how they're just assuming she's going to go along with something that's already giving her bad feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:24 PM |
| 6 | Black woman’s white boyfriend wants to do “race play” where she plays the slave and he the master, wants to know ifs she’s wrong for being uncomfortable with it, comments try to gaslight her that this is totally normally because mUh kInKMore gaslighting to keep women's standards and expectations low. She's not allowed to accept anything from a man without giving back in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:23 PM |
| 62 | A message from our male lurkers...NFSW account, active on incel subreddits, the content of his chat request 🤡I reject the premise of his statement. Paying for occasional dinner dates is a far cry from being 100% responsible for both people in a relationship. Do these dudes ever go outside? Have any real-world bills beyond takeout and OnlyFans? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:46 PM |
| 9 | Don't be deceived 🤡Shameless plug for this post I wrote a while back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:24 PM |
| 26 | Don't be deceived 🤡Great, why won't they date each other instead of lecturing us? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:23 PM |
| 23 | El cheapo LVM hand-makes crappy cheap gifts for partner but expects a PS5I'll ask again. Why are men these days acting entitled to PS5s when they refuse to buy so much as a cup of coffee for their dates? I don't want to hear any more of this "it's just a meme lmao" because it clearly isn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 17 | 🤮What does this even mean? It's the woke crowd that pushes for all young women to "empower" themselves by selling pics of their assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 04:07 PM |
| 5 | Clueless scrote in the dating over forty whining about how his "date" wasn't an "adult" because she didn't want to talk about his dick after only 1 "date". Then has the NERVE to advise the rest of us that he did HER a favor and DOING US a favor by putting PSA in the subject line.Oh no. You just reminded me of my worst OLD message. Your toilet awaits Dating in the BDSM community was a minefield. I don't miss it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Found this on steam, funny enough my ex boyfriend who was apparently against porn and this lewd stuff is now friends with the person who posted it. Oh and the comments is filled with women agreeing, like tf? Pick mes?Great, these dudes can get dressed up and fuck each other. Saves us women a lot of trouble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:33 PM |
| 6 | Rando PMs an active FDS member (me). Biggest takeaway here? To those women here wondering if they are GOOD ENOUGH: all you have to do is be a woman to be a prize. That’s it. Even the worst of the worst redpillers will tell you!But he's so lonely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:05 PM |
| 39 | Rando PMs an active FDS member (me). Biggest takeaway here? To those women here wondering if they are GOOD ENOUGH: all you have to do is be a woman to be a prize. That’s it. Even the worst of the worst redpillers will tell you!If they actually read this sub they'd know companionship isn't guaranteed for us. And I've never understood why the same people panicking at the thought of "maternity fraud" holds reproduction like it's some sacred thing closed to them. They don't even want it, yet it's the sole measure of how easy life is? Anyway, this guy messaged a lot of FDS members. He also admitted to me that he has no job and spends his days trolling FDS. So I guess he can live the easy life too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 04:40 AM |
| 219 | Please stop dating in reverse.If he knows you'll settle for walk dates and coffee before you're committed, why would he up that energy later? He's already getting everything he wants! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:23 AM |
| 14 | LVM/NVM thinks gift cards are an acceptable gift for GF. Thread is full of neckbeards defending him/telling her to cOmMunIcAte her needs to him.Gift cards are what you give someone when you don't know what they like. He never bothered to find out after 8 months of dating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:18 AM |
| 106 | Women are told they should know better and realize men are just like that. Boys will be boys. We are held responsible for managing it, but also expected to allow it to happen.But mention in passing that men are perverts and predators and these same men will scream "NOT ALL MEN!" They can't keep their biases straight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:15 AM |
| 54 | Clueless scrote in the dating over forty whining about how his "date" wasn't an "adult" because she didn't want to talk about his dick after only 1 "date". Then has the NERVE to advise the rest of us that he did HER a favor and DOING US a favor by putting PSA in the subject line.This reminds me of the pornsick losers I encountered in the kinky scene who called me "childish" when I didn't want to meet up and fuck them after a single "hello" message. They were usually twice my age and only looking my way because I had a "babygirl" look (As in, I was 19-20 and looked younger) Men like this took the "adult content" concept literally and now think adulthood is about having lots of sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 10:29 PM |
| 52 | Pedophile is angry his victim cheated on him and tells her mom. 11 year relationship starting when he was 18 and she was 12!Another comment mentioned he edited the post to say he wrote her age incorrectly and she's actually 29 like him. I have my doubts about that kind of typo, but even if true it makes him no less abusive. Some abusers will also get in close with the victim's family and help swing them to their side as an alternate way of isolating their victim. Because now the victim still has their family, but no support from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 07:33 PM |
| 10 | Pedophile is angry his victim cheated on him and tells her mom. 11 year relationship starting when he was 18 and she was 12!No contact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 240 | Pedophile is angry his victim cheated on him and tells her mom. 11 year relationship starting when he was 18 and she was 12!He was still abusing her. You don't kick your husband out, go NC, suddenly start the divorce process, and call him a "scary creep" for nothing. Why her mother was either unaware of the length of their relationship or condoned it is beyond me. I wonder if this was one of those scenarios where a pedophile groomed this 11-year-old girl and got the parents on his side to push for marriage. It would explain why he's still so close to the family and why she hasn't been as honest with her mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:19 PM |
| 12 | Why FDS doesn't talk about Man-Pleasing.You have to put yourself first, because nobody else will do it for you. I'm also not getting the assumption by critics that we do nothing to improve ourselves. Especially because this is usually by men who 1) jerk it to porn and/or troll all day(by their own post history and admission), or 2) spend their Redditing time in advice subs saying things like "sure this guy might be wrong in this specific situation, but you have no evidence that he doesn't care about her/do anything productive with his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 05:00 PM |
| 80 | Correct me if I’m wrong.. but isn’t this like textbook definition of a “pick me”? Was my advice really that terrible?I think you're right, but I really hate seeing people called pickmes to their faces. It does nothing but alienate them and put them on the defensive. Her reaction is not a surprise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Made me roll my eyes, more like 🙄🙄🙄You want the right to vote? You want to own property? Buy my dinner and let me punch you, bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:09 PM |
| 33 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?"I've seen all this amateur porn, so I KNOW people are out there having crazy sex like I want!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Peak male depravity and porn sickness.Be kind, maybe he's depressed. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:05 PM |
| 6 | Another man who wants to be babied 🙄Okay, then why are so many of these men trying to reenact what they see in porn? My ex wanted sex all the time, complained that by libido was lower, and swore jerking off wasn't the same. Then when I did agree to "mess around" with him he just wanted me to blow him while he put on porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 12 | Candace Owens is so cringyHarry Styles is involved somehow, so I don't think it's about lesbians. He got controversy lately for wearing skirts or something, so it's likely something something toxic masculinity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Straight for a man's thoughts.Good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 08:56 PM |
| 52 | We don't get to participate because of our views.And I'm sure one of the reasons they ban FDS users is our views on porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Your “value” on the market will NOT decline with age.And the funniest part is, these same men will frequently point to their own earnings and potential as markers of value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 12:59 AM |
| 20 | Their financial contribution isn’t needed, it’s deserved for what we can provide, how can they still not comprehend that?Funny how the armchair egalitarians who rage against this sub never have anything to say about these kinds of sexist comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:20 PM |
| 129 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?""I didn't think it was a big deal." Your daily reminder that "just communicate!" Is a cop out and shitty advice. He doesn't care about her feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:09 PM |
| 246 | I'll just be single then lolAside from how blatantly wrong he is, what's with the outright hostility Reddit dudes have toward women who want to be courted? They could easily shrug, say we aren't the women for them, and move on with their lives. But they can't. It enrages these people to know what somewhere, a woman expects a man to make the first move. And that man isn't even him. How could this be? Surely this woman needs to be reprimanded. "I want XYZ because ABC." "GO DIE ALONE IN A FIRE!!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:15 AM |
| 17 | Success storiesI boast a different kind of success: I'm single, having recently ended a six-year relationship that did me a lot of harm but I held on to in part out of fear of being alone. I'm much happier now, and focusing on my own goals rather than trying to fix something that was irreparably broken. I'm not against dating in the future, but I've got other things on my mind at the moment. I don't consider "success" in dating limited to "has a partner." You can be single and successful too. The only way you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 08:53 PM |
| 15 | If it isn't working out, a true HVM will break up with you swiftly and respectfullyA lot of this is due to another fundamental difference between HVM and LVM: The HVM has other things going on in his life than trying to secure access to sex. They will have fulfilling social lives and hobbies, and won't stress about being alone if they don't have a woman on call whenever they want. A LVM doesn't have that, so they need some kind of validation/sex supply on hand at all times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:16 PM |
| 34 | If it isn't working out, a true HVM will break up with you swiftly and respectfullyTruth. They can't handle being alone. So they'll put up with a relationship that doesn't make them happy for the sake of not being alone, while keeping their eyes out for better options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:14 PM |
| 9 | And guys wonder why they are getting ignored. I deleted the match already but I'm dumbfounded. My bio talks about my hobbies, things i like to talk about, my current goals etc. Him: 🚘🏎️🖥️✌️🤪You mean this isn't a dial-a-hookup service? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:13 PM |
| 17 | Raise your hand if you’re tired of hearing women being told to lower their standards! 👋Why not, ahem, be a respectful human being? Side note, are you trying to get this guy to claim our sub is harassing him? There's a reason people censor usernames when posting screenshots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:11 PM |
| 33 | In a fb group, someone told a story about being ghosted on the way to meet up for a date. The comments were full of women telling similar stories. These women give so much time and so many second chances, for what? Disappointment.It's even worse than that. SHE put HIM on HER booty call list. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 05:55 PM |
| 95 | In a fb group, someone told a story about being ghosted on the way to meet up for a date. The comments were full of women telling similar stories. These women give so much time and so many second chances, for what? Disappointment."It's good he told you what's up" two minutes before she was supposed to be there. AND she's marrying this person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:58 PM |
| 131 | What are your thoughts on this ladies, would you divorce him?Good. If you call your wife's bluff after days of refusing to acknowledge she feels hurt and disrespected, you're a special kind of stupid and don't deserve to be married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:56 PM |
| 7 | If women just stopped having children with LVM our society would have flying cars by nowHow did anyone read that description of the husband and decide it was the wife's fault for being overbearing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 35 | And guys wonder why they are getting ignored. I deleted the match already but I'm dumbfounded. My bio talks about my hobbies, things i like to talk about, my current goals etc. Him: 🚘🏎️🖥️✌️🤪Men go on about how hard it is to meet women though dating apps, but most of them will put in the absolute minimum effort when it comes to presenting themselves and carrying a conversation. I guarantee if they were more focused in their dating attempts they'd see better results. But that takes work and introspection, so it won't happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:31 PM |
| 34 | If you got a dick pic, it's your fault. Remember!How would he know? Men don't send dick pics to other men. They don't brag about sending them either. 9/10 men play it off as a drunk/horny mistake and pretend to be embarrassed about it they're sent and not received the way they want. So it's not like they're going to run off and tell their bros about flinging their dicks into every inbox they see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:28 PM |
| 39 | Newest LVM "friend" activity - nude beaches. I wish I were kidding.I know some nudists. The culture is 100% non-sexual (when done right, anyway. There are assholes in every group) and there are even families with small children who go there. That being said, going with coworkers is bound to be awkward. And pressuring the young, pretty coworker into going with you to a place where you're expected to be naked is disgusting. He will get booted in the future for inappropriate behavior. Mark my words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:08 AM |
| 275 | OMG I couldn’t help myself. He shouldn’t have snooped and he should communicate. And stop being so insecure! All women do this.Did he talk to her about being exclusive? How is she supposed to know that's what he wants? She's not a mind reader. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:07 AM |
| 15 | all women are p e o p l e. we are not your fleshlightsThis is my issue with the song "All About That Bass." I'm all for encouraging bigger girls to have confidence, but doing so because "boys like you better anyway" is 1) the wrong message to send, and 2) tearing down other women in the process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:00 AM |
| 28 | This is the same type of scrote who says “are you okay? You look sick/tired” to women IRL who go bare-faced. Fuck outta here.And that pic... remember when men made fun of women for doing "duckface?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:41 AM |
| 34 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.I have a feeling this wasn't an emergency situation or she would've described it as such. He just... didn't hold it for some reason. Yeah, that's a turnoff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:40 AM |
| 18 | "It's Just a Joke!"I've struggled with this too, but a deadpan "that wasn't funny" works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:47 AM |
| 82 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...Too much ambition, a high body count, and low loyalty, or in other words being what this loser wishes he could be, makes a woman low quality in his eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Gross jokesThe good news is that this "joke" has made the rounds on the internet for ages, so I doubt this actually happened. The bad news is that a huge chunk of Redditors actually find that funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 06:11 PM |
| 14 | Another cheating scrote. Online dating just festers with these men. ALWAYS stalk a man before a date!! Always. It is not 'creepy' like those on the sad sub datingoverthirty claim. It keeps you SAFE in a unpredictable dating world and ensures your time is not wasted.Now. Ladies - would a HVW send evidence to his girlfriend? Or leave it? Why is this always a question? Wouldn't you want to know if your man was sneaking around behind your back? Imagine if you were in this woman's shoes and the other women he was flirting with knew about you but decided they were "too high value" to tell you about it. Stop covering for cheaters. That includes confronting him first. You just gave him all the time he needed to cover his tracks from her. Well done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 05:10 PM |
| 9 | PSA: thank you FDA mods who go over and beyond 💛There's a message board on the website and a Discord server! See the sidebar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:28 PM |
| 34 | The language people use can be telling of what sort of person they are.I had men message me depraved sexual things and invite me to watch them jerk it on Webcam when I was 12-14 on Yahoo messenger. While I was disgusted, it wasn't until much later that I realized this wasn't the way normal men behave and these were predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:24 PM |
| 41 | Poly RelationshipsPre-FDS I was in such a relationship. I had my primary boyfriend and another dude. It fucking sucked. Both dudes were threatened by the other and it was all my fault. Ever had to calm down a jealous partner? Try doing it with two. They also don't see the difference between having two caring relationships and being promiscuous. They'll also have the underlying assumption that you're a whore who needs multiple dicks to feel satisfied. I eventually went monogamous with my boyfriend, and he was stil… | /r/askFDS | 28/11/20 12:17 AM |
| 22 | Ladies, please helpI personally consider addiction history to be a red flag, but even besides that: -Texts another woman and deletes her responses -Texting the woman you used to live with while doing drugs is a fine way to drag yourself back off the wagon -Mocks you for voicing your concerns -Puts you on the spot to think about whether you want to accept him - showing no interest in changing for your sake -Unemployed 42 year old living at home -You see the absurdity of this situation before hitting the submit butt… | /r/askFDS | 27/11/20 09:57 PM |
| 290 | As a woman, you’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.We're supposed to fuck them but not have babies. And remember, birth control is always our responsibility so babies only happen when women want free money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:09 PM |
| 12 | This holiday is a good reminder of how useless men can be when they go about life with low expectations.They have apps now so us peasants don't have to do our own shopping! Guess what kind of Instacart shoppers regularly come to me for direction... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:10 PM |
| 763 | Scrote vs KingNotice the first guy answered from a perspective of "Do I want to fuck this woman?" and the second answered from a perspective of "Does this woman deserve respect?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:15 AM |
| 5 | He bought her a $4k Louis Vuitton purse after their fourth dateI'm also curious about her financial situation. It's one thing to gift something like this to a woman who's also making 6 figures, but quite another for a woman making $30K/year, for example. If the latter, I'd definitely think of love bombing. Granted, I'm in the latter category so I don't know what dating is like for rich girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:29 AM |
| 97 | Gorgeous wife, directly asks for and offers sex, scrote upset and turns it down because it's not performative and titillating enough.This is most posters in r/deadbedroomI'll bet my left ovary what he really wants is for his model hot wife to act like his favorite porn star. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 09:17 PM |
| 7 | "HVM" who only want sons?Money doesn't make someone high value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:25 AM |
| 10 | "HVM" who only want sons?People are dragging you over the HVM comment, but I'm curious as to what metric you're using to consider men like Musk and your ex high value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:22 AM |
| 78 | So anyway, sex is not a needThat's great bro, then you can go fuck yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:07 AM |
| 135 | /r/againstdegeneratesubs made a change petition to ban fds lol scrotes madAnd yet, notice they don't wage similar crusades to ban redpill and incel subs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:57 AM |
| 13 | Poor men who have to go through this TERRIBLE thing of not having their international mens day recognised...us women will never understand the DEPTHS of this oppression...+ a shitty video of those amazing women privileges that make oppression we have been facing for centuries all worth it... eh...You know, International Men's Day came and went, and 95% of the acknowledgment I saw of the occasion came from women noting the lack of involvement from men. Very little from the men's side talking about their issues and what to do about them. I guess they're saving those conversations for next March. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 02:48 AM |
| 173 | How To Get A Man To Legally Claim A Child You Know is Not Biologically HisI assume part 2 of this guide is "how to force a rich man to impregnate you for that sweet, sweet child support money?" You know, since they also say we're just like incels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 53 | They're so close to getting it. And yet...I've heard guys insist with a straight face that patriarchy isn't real because they're expected to be in charge, have families, good jobs, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:56 PM |
| 95 | No walk dates, not even during a pandemic.Mr. Darcy had more money than God and was happy to provide for the woman he loved (and her sister! And his sister!) What excuse do these dudes have? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:20 PM |
| 12 | He told me to remove FDS because of the "toxic thinking and expectations"This goes to show you that the guys most likely to take issue with the message here are the ones who want to hurt and control you. I didn't see your previous posts but it sounds like he was stalking and harassing you at a minimum. Of course he's going to be against a group that shows you the warning signs and how to stay away from men like him. Also I had to laugh at "He told me that if i listened to some advice on the internet from reddit then maybe i should stop at my dream of being a lawyer b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:59 AM |
| 12 | This is what I imagine who most of you ladies here have to deal with. "The sex" lolI used to get a few from Iran. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:26 AM |
| 29 | Too many women retreat into gender roles because they're afraid of their potential.The real question is why did men stop doing anything? Sounds like she's worried about picking up the slack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:28 AM |
| 8 | I bet Clint’s WIFE doesn’t even know she’s in a non-monogamous relationship.So he copy-pasted his profile into his intro message? Nevermind, he's stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:24 AM |
| 29 | I bet Clint’s WIFE doesn’t even know she’s in a non-monogamous relationship.The biggest hint that he's actually a cheater? He only shares his married status with women he matches with, instead of putting it on his profile for everyone to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:26 PM |
| 12 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highWatch out for their child porn trolls, mods. It's only a matter of time. Thank you ladies for all you do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:36 PM |
| 41 | I think the f*ck notMore like fix him and now you're the broken one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:05 PM |
| 56 | FDS is a very specific dating strategy - if you don't like it get lostThank you. We're under no obligation to be inclusive of every dating strategy everywhere. If a woman decides something else works for her, she's free to talk about it somewhere else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:48 AM |
| 38 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.If men really think they can get themselves a housekeeper and nanny for cheap, why don't they? This "logical explanation" is just further gaslighting women into accepting abuse and I'm disappointed to see this woman fall for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 1 | BuT wHaT aBoUt MeN??This does not surprise me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:40 AM |
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