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| 2 | She spent 804 days in Iran prison charged for being a spy for Israel (her husband’s from Israel), and he got involved with her PhD supervisor. Didn’t even talk to her when she was released, just ghosted her. Men do leave women when we need them the most. Be careful ladies.Please tell me you were married and this wasn’t a boyfriend No judgment it just would make this less awful that you did it for your vows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 11:54 PM |
| 18 | "If He Wanted to, He Would"Not even. When I was 14 my boyfriend would take me to the movies and real restaurants, like our hometown Italian or sushi place. We never went on a coffee date, that’s boring to teenagers lol (teenagers please chime in). He would also take me out for ice cream and mini golfing, things like that. We had break over the same periods too and he ALWAYS bought my snacks at recess. I didn’t buy a single bag of chips for myself all ninth grade. He worked with his dad on Saturdays helping out at his busi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Bf looked up his ex on insta? Should I be worried?AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | How can I move on from being used and ghosted after sex?AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Is the fact my boyfriend had many one night stands and a few casual relationships make him low value?AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do I get attached to guys so easily?AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Please, everyone especially WOC please just have a look at this.crossposting not allowed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Does he sound like a LVM? Shall I walk away?AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Opened up too much to soonRead the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 06:13 PM |
| – | How do you handle the "I'm a virgin" talk with guys?Are you waiting for marriage OP? You don’t mention and that would change the approach I guess. Honestly, I would just have this talk when you feel everything else is great enough that you would have sex with him. When you’ve decided it in your feelings and rationally too. Just vet vet and vet, and if successful, if you feel that way about him, then I would bring it up. Before that I don’t see the point bc as someone said you may attract fetishists or guys who will just play the role until they g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 06:05 PM |
| -1 | Is anyone else getting reminded of their ex narc during the Heard Vs Depp trial?How are you so sure the reactive abuse isn’t Depp then? You have no idea who these people are. Do you personally know them? If you watch the trial you can see they are both absolutely insane and manipulative. I have critical thinking skills - I don’t side with a woman just because she’s a woman. They are both nut jobs. Women can absolutely be abusers as well. In this case, from what I’ve seen they both are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 11:35 AM |
| 317 | Is anyone else getting reminded of their ex narc during the Heard Vs Depp trial?Both of these people are abusers. Neither of them is the victim of the other, they are both perps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 01:45 AM |
| 108 | An Ode to Living Alonetell me you're since divorced please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 01:28 AM |
| 116 | An Ode to Living Alone "Are you mad?" "No what lol why?" "You seem mad" "Why would I be mad? Im fine" "okay then annoyed, you seem like something's bothering you" "Im fine what are you talking about" "You know what? Im not going to argue with you. I don't have to deal with this". True story. Edit: I actually just tend to be a quiet person. When I’m relaxed i just kind of enjoy the quiet? I just chill. I don’t need to be performative all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 01:26 AM |
| 255 | An Ode to Living AloneNobody makes passive aggressive comments to me. Nobody complains about my attitude, or my tone, or my face. Nobody comments on me eating too much, not working or exercising enough, or allegedly spending too much. I can order a 🥰bucket of fried bbq chicken and a pound of coleslaw and enjoy it by myself while I watch nostalgia shows in peace, without judgment. Nobody double-dipping their slobbery utensils in the cream cheese, hummus or yoghurt and contaminating all the food. Not worrying about the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?OP I removed this because it goes against rhe handbook and if women aren’t telling you want to hear, you claim it’s verbal abuse or bullying. None of your post and your coping to the replies is FDS aligned. If you want people to tell you to go for it, to create a scenario where you can make this guy become interested in you despite the fact that he has signaled no interest, where people will tell you it’s eMpOwErInG to ask men out first and to shoot your shot, or alternatively, play passive game… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 11:43 PM |
| 107 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?Men never ignore women they’re interested in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 01:37 PM |
| 31 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?If HE’S not flirting with YOU first, if HE hasn’t signaled his interest, he probably isn’t that attracted or interested in you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 01:37 PM |
| 23 | I ended my relationship - A cautionary tale to ALWAYS VET and ALWAYS FOLLOW FDS STANDARDSThe first one is all I needed to read. I learned that one the hard way too! Proud of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 02:46 AM |
| 3 | It's always the "men aged like wine, women aged like cheese" narrative with these scrotes 🙄Ok so if “This is just our biology” makes sense that women prefer men with resources, banging bods, successful careers that show they also have brains to pass on to our kids and of course money money money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 02:45 AM |
| 2 | What is wrong with these dudes and these age gap relationships. She's 27 he's 58. There's literally 3 decades between them. He was my age when she was born 🤮🤦🏽♀️.Make depravity on Mondays only and requires quality submission statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 12:55 AM |
| 4 | Dealing with being purposefully celibateYeah I was literally still 33 the last time I had sex and now I am already 35 but what can I do lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 07:28 PM |
| 28 | Dealing with being purposefully celibateI haven’t had sex since January of 2021! 💀 But proper, mind-blowing sex, since about October of 2018 🥴🤒🥴🤕😮💨🥴🤒😮💨🤕 My only tip is to not let yourself go because nobody’s seeing you naked! Seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Red Flag???Askfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 03:43 AM |
| -1 | I met a guy who said he’s poly but his girlfriend isn’t. Is this really a thing?AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Make Photographers Are Usually PervertsMale depravity only on Mondays, OP. Feel free to repost then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 02:03 AM |
| 34 | This Post Will Probably Offend You.This is a fantastic point well developed in the Rebecca solnits book “all the single ladies”. About how single, unmarried women were really the leaders and propulsors of most rights movements since the 20th century. From civil rights to blacks, to consumer advocacy movements and labor rights, women were the brains behind them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 02:38 AM |
| 69 | What Are The Signs Of Porn-Sick Men?Because vagina muscles had too much grip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 02:32 AM |
| 196 | What Are The Signs Of Porn-Sick Men?I knew a porn sick scrote on the other hand that could only come with extremely light touch. It was annoying as f. Basically a gently licked blow job, like, a lick job. Needless to say he couldn’t come in a vagina. I wonder how he masturbated, with one of those feather dusters? I never asked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 12:12 AM |
| 91 | What Are The Signs Of Porn-Sick Men?1) They are just somehow not there. You can sense an odd absence from them. 2) Ask him to send you their favorite porn clip and he sends a blowjob scene 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 12:10 AM |
| – | PSA: A high value man will not be into BDSM.AMEN. Usually these men will suck in bed because they haven’t the slightest clue about how to pleasure a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | How to get over a breakup?This is a good topic and you are welcome to make a more general posts about tips for this :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | How to get over a breakup?AskFDS The contents of this are personal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 12:54 AM |
| 2 | He could have killed her too. Imagine if they were in a private placemale depravity only on mondays with commentary. can repost then op | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 11:31 PM |
| 3 | this drama going down with Farida should be a reminder that men are not our alliesMale depravity posts only on Monday! Removed but feel free to repost then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | I didn’t listen to FDS, I got hurt.Good for you but you absolutely shouldn’t be lifting three times a day Talk a personal trainer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Incel and Elliot Rodger Fanatic Pleads Guilty to Stalking Charge After Terrorizing Harassment Campaign and 'Sickening Threats'Male depravity is only on Mondays Can repost on a Monday WITH commentary or strategy per the rules No negativity dumping allowed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Asked out by the same guy twice: please help me FDS, you’re my only hope.AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 07:29 PM |
| – | OLD advice: When things move onto the texting stage, get his number before you give away yours.This is terrifying. Also, get a burner texting app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | I am on the fence between initmacy only or dating???Askfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 02:50 AM |
| 149 | Demand what you ask forThe woman in this story isn’t a queen, in my opinion this is pathetic and needlessly cruel. He’s just a poor waiter trying to do his job. Im with the lady who told you this story. Imagine getting snippy with a waiter because you haven’t yourself the slightest idea of how to read or interpret a wine menu, nor the common sense to google it. Her trailer showed. Yuck. Edit: I thought about how many times I’ve asked waitstaff what best thing on the menu is and they’ve said the things they like. It’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 09:25 PM |
| 31 | What characteristics are you looking for in a partner?I prefer men who are highly educated, even better if they have a prestigious, elite education like myself. But I can respect self made men of any kind, as long as they are not crass and their absence of pedigree doesn’t show. Not going to sugarcoat it or pretend this isn’t a high factor of my most initial vetting of a man. 🤷♀️ I know this isn’t a guarantee of hv, but since the question is what kind I’m drawn to, this is one my bare minimums. Even if his education is just from an okay place, I c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 08:32 PM |
| 15 | how to make men give up on (controlling) youI did the same!! And he did and he paid more than 1k just for a convo 💀 to beg for me to take him back Jokes on me though because I wasted an extra year of my life and ended up humilliated 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Protect your wombs even moreRemember scope of sub . External content must have strategic commentary or quality submission statement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 03:29 PM |
| 90 | how to make men give up on (controlling) youBe like “actually you know what would help with my stress/anxiety/whatever? If you could cover this bill/mortgage payment/money I owe my mom” Literally make their stupidity cost them For every problem present him with a money solution and the lvm will scram or at least stfu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 02:11 AM |
| 0 | High-value actions that stood out to youI was talking to a guy I liked and had a little chat about shows and I told him I liked euphoria and he asked something like “Is it really good? Isn’t it just tits and drugs?” And I replied immediately “you follow a bunch of thirst trap accounts with their tits out, what’s the problem with a show doing it?” and the bare minimum was that he said “yeah but it [euphoria] is teenagers that’s weird” (!) and we had a brief exchange about it where I said it was “kind of gross” and desperate to follow t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | My semi-attractive neighbor (not gay seen him with women) is super nice to me and gives me stuff without trying to hook up with me and I don't know how to feel about it.AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 08:37 PM |
| 2 | I want your honest opinion (even if I know it already)askfds subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Gets Back With His ExAsk FDS sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | is it ever too late to start a dating rotation? or is there a deadline and what to do you do when you miss it?AskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:30 PM |
| 1 | i really need you adviceAskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:28 PM |
| 108 | Subtle signs a man is going to be a terrible fatherA actually subtle one: double dips into the food and put in back in the fridge. For example, he will dig his spoon into the peanut butter, eat it, then sticky his slobbery spoon back in the pb jar, repeat and then store. Anyone with half a brain cell that was not raised by feral animals should know you can’t do this. It is a major food safety offense, if you double dip eat the whole thing in one sitting The red flag is this: let’s say he was ignorant and raised wrong, and didn’t genuinely know t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Slow fade - advice (delete if not allowed!)AskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Is this a fair ick?AskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Am I am just uptight? Is this really not a big deal?AskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I am in the deepest depths of pick-me hell - I have been considering going back to Mormonism because of itFemale level up strategy subreddit or AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:54 AM |
| 36 | How do you perceive big d*ck energy?Can confirm that last bit. Dated a guy with massive big dick energy and a wee 4-inch pecker 🐦🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 11:28 PM |
| 86 | U.K. news: priti pratel plans to roll out a national register of domestic abusers that alerts women when they open a bank account or buy a house with a domestic abuser. There several issues with this, I’ll explain belowThis is an extremely interesting idea that I never would have thought of. What I fear in a dystopian not so far future is that this will somehow be used against women to claim they assumed some sort of risk when moving in with a known offender. Though you can’t legally consent to abuse (yet, but can’t you really if so many get off based on the woman supposedly agreeing to being strangled?) I wonder if from the damages point of view there will be an issue of assumption of risk… Likewise, will it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 11:13 PM |
| 4 | The amount of pickmes on reddit is too highOP (and others) we don’t have a rule against low quality posts, it’s against low effort posts. The quality will be determined by the members when they interact with the post (or not). As long as you or anyone makes a good faith effort to contribute something to the community, even if short, it is welcome. And as long as it abides by the rules, obviously. Rules Iike advice being beneficial so women, not going against the handbook, framed within the scope of the sub, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | should I just give up?AskFDS is for personal questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 02:28 PM |
| 0 | She had sex with a dude who wasn't even her boyfriend and was sexually assaulted, but he's great when he's not drunkIt’s been removed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 01:31 PM |
| 104 | NVM Single DadsThat’s not a creep. Leo DiCaprio is a creep. This guy is the p word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 02:41 AM |
| 1 | want him back after pushing him away on the first meetingAsk FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Am I in the wrong for expecting more ?Ask FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 10:28 PM |
| 475 | NVM Single DadsWhat - and I cannot stress this enough - THE FUCK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Need support blocking and deletingAskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with LV male relatives talking badly about my divorced mom?AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 04:15 AM |
| 141 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.Your roommate isn’t charitable, or maybe she is, but she is certainly part pick-me too, acting like a handmaid pimp in this situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Opinions?AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 09:44 PM |
| 2 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.I have no idea who this person is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | He’s ghosting meAskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 05:48 PM |
| 251 | “Dick is low value and abundant” - finally, a lesson learned.You have no idea how much I love reading the posts of ~older~ women on this page. You are a very good writer and I think what you’re saying is very common. The ugly duckling syndrome, when you still feel that way inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 05:43 PM |
| 113 | What if a HV man broke up with me because I was acting stupid/LV?This is a good topic and something I haven’t really seen discussed. This happened to me when I was young, and it’s definitely possible. HVM don’t enjoy dating a woman who’s being LV because they aren’t there to take advantage of the woman and they like to get along and not have unnecessary problems. That said, no one is perfect or irreplaceable and if you pushed away a good one, there are more out there. I believe the key to determining if this was your case is that a genuine HVM will not turn a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Should i call this off?AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever witnessed/experiences a LVM turn to a HVM?Yea but not with the same woman. Once a man disrespects you there is no going back, regardless of how you reacted to the disrespect. In his deepest of hearts, he won’t respect you anymore if you stick with him or take him back. He will only change when he grows up or finds a woman he cares enough about to not fuck it up with. If he fucked up with you, you weren’t that woman. Because if he wanted to he would. Most men can be at least negligent about women they know are not their dream girl, kinda… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | do HVM ghost?This is AskFDS material Just because it’s titled as a general question doesn’t make it so. Feel free to make a general discussion post on the topic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 12:18 AM |
| 229 | Positive stories of finding a HVM or enjoying singlehood?The day seems so long in the best way! On my day off, like a Sunday I wake up so excited that I can just enjoy myself all day. Take my dog on long walks, work on my art, watch old nostalgia shows, have a delicious lunch, browse the internet in peace, order delicious dinner, it’s like all my time is mine because my mind is entirely with me and not focused on a man. I love that i can just enjoy myself and not worry about what’s happening or what’s going to happen in my relationship. They were maki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Why my disgusting boss did after getting rejectedAskFDS is the sub for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 06:58 PM |
| 124 | If he wanted to he would(*platonic) Except that he’s a man, not a girlfriend. Don’t chase men for anything. If you do they will think you have the hots for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:14 PM |
| 28 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.We do remove and send to AskFDS. Report if you see them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 47 | If he wanted to he wouldSounds like you were doing the chasing. Good job blocking, maybe refresh your memory with the handbook? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:03 PM |
| 33 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Without knowing what post you’re referring to, I would venture that it wasn’t the positivity that made folks skeptical but rather it probably sound like “bare minimum” to a lot of people. Which is fine, it’s nice when men behave with competence and decency in a relationship. I say this because I often see comments that are praised for things that are genuinely HV, of men going above and beyond for women and the womens families. But bare minimum is fine, nobody is going to diss it, unless it’s po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 03:21 PM |
| 16 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.They will be available on Mondays as long as they come with an effort on behalf of the OP for strategic commentary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:54 PM |
| 53 | Mini-tip for vetting (OLD)Well now I see it. Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:33 PM |
| – | Ladies, beware! If a man is stringing you along in a years-long relationship that’s heading nowhere, he doesn’t really want you.Are you kidding me? We just posted the rule about this AND the sub name isn’t even covered. It’s not the first time I warned you about the antibrigading precautions, I did just yesterday too. We could lose the whole sub over this. Your whole history here is practically what we’re trying to weed out. OP, you are out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:21 PM |
| 15 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Screenshots need comment. Use your discernment for the amount of explanation and analysis needed to make a quality post depending on the content you’re sharing. Original content is preferred (text). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 02:19 PM |
| 25 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Everything is welcome, at any time, as long as it doesn’t break the rules and or is restricted like this. Rules here are negative, in the sense that they say what can’t be done. We don’t have positive rules, indicating what should be said or posted. That’s on the community and on the cultural moment. Feel free to post the content you would like to see, as long as it doesn’t go against rules. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 01:56 PM |
| 16 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Feel free to make a post of you haven’t yet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 01:49 PM |
| 59 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Good point. So I guess the best depravity would come from news articles and real life stories. Not just scrote behavior but actual depravity that shocks the conscious of society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 01:42 PM |
| 22 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Feel free to make a post if you haven’t yet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 01:10 PM |
| 328 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in response50-70 for an anniversary 😮💨😮💨 Eta had this woman not cut this guy off now, she would be on Reddit in 3 years complaining about her live in scrote making double than she does yet they split 50-50 and she is spread too thin Once a cheapo always a cheapo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 12:49 PM |
| 37 | FDS subreddit is NOT a landfill for depraved male content.Low effort is never allowed. Report it when you see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Should I respond to him when he texted me after 4 days?AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 04:49 AM |
| 45 | A decent strategy guide to land a man /sTip #47262: Whenever he disapproves of something you did or said apologize by saying you’re sorry he feels that way. If he keeps nagging for a ‘real’ apology, explain to him that the only reason you did what you did is because he did that one thing first, or he drove you to it. Lastly, let him know you will not allow him to police your actions to fit “his TrUtH”. Tip #47263: If he’s pissed because he caught you lying to him, make a big stink about how you only did because you were afraid of his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | A decent strategy guide to land a man /sYou can make a post about whatever you want as long it complies with the sub rules and does actively go against handbook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 03:19 AM |
| 14 | A decent strategy guide to land a man /sWanna download my app again just to try this for kicks 💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 03:17 AM |
| 8 | A decent strategy guide to land a man /sEww weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 03:15 AM |
| 29 | This example is pick-me nonsense. Stop faking it ladies. There is no such thing as “taking too long”. Men expect orgasms regularly, why can’t we? If you had fun, but didn’t get to climax - you can still tell him you didn’t finish, had a good time & would appreciate him doing more in figuring it out.This is so true 😔😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 03:11 AM |
| 2 | The Consequences of The Male Birth Control PillMy biggest concern about this is the hiv and other std carnival that will ensue with this straight men Imagine men feeling the security that they won’t get a woman pregnant? Why use a condom at all ever? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 03:07 AM |
| 2 | 50/50 Cautionary Tales Part 1 : "Something feels weird here"Per the rules posted in October, a comment with strategy or insight as to what we can learn from a situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick meA comment. In the rules posted in October please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Pick female doctors whenever possibleThis is missing both the strategy commentary or submission statement from the op but more importantly, breaks site wide rules against brigading - everything reddit has to be blocked out. Op you need to read the rules before posting again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick mePosts that are screenshots require a strategic statement or commentary from the op to remain up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:49 PM |
| 2 | 50/50 Cautionary Tales Part 1 : "Something feels weird here"Missing submission statement form the op. Can’t just paste a screenshot. Needs strategic content to go with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Escort only moaned because he paid her. Hope he gets the therapy he needs, but I rly hope his wife will leave his toxic ass too. Many comments are advising him on how to hide his fucked up secret or justifying his infidelity & saying the marriage can be saved. Received ‘the wholesome award’? WtfPosts that are screenshots need to be accompanied by a strategic or insightful submission statement with an analysis of what we can learn. Otherwise the sub turns into a male depravity watch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:44 PM |
| 10 | I think I finally found the HVM character in Gilmore Girls 🐾🐶She’s really a fake everything with her activism. I don’t think celebs have to be activists but Taylor embraces everything when it’s already mainstream to support - like lgbtq, and people act likes she’s so darn woke. I do respect how she sued a guy who groped her. She doesn’t let anybody fuck with her, but I don’t think she’s anyone to admire aside from becoming filthy rich and working hard. But her rhetoric and persona are super toxic imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 05:18 PM |
| 0 | When women being vulnerable by sharing their bodies is just their research. Comments congratulate him for scoring 4 out of 67.This needs a submission statement with strategy or insightful content. Removing for low effort screenshot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 03:58 PM |
| 6 | For the first time, I can’t think of a caption.Screenshot posts require strategic commentary or insightful submission statement. Yes we all know men are depraved but what is the lesson here? What is the structure of power or culture that enables this and how can we protect ourselves. Similar analysis were made with the case of gabby Petito. Disturbing examples form real life are okay to show as long as there is a practical reason. We’re not gonna gain anything If we spam the sub with articles and posts of abuse, incest, trafficking, feminici… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 03:57 PM |
| 34 | I think I finally found the HVM character in Gilmore Girls 🐾🐶“Im not like other girls” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 02:23 AM |
| 63 | I think I finally found the HVM character in Gilmore Girls 🐾🐶I forgot how much I hated this show when it was on. I didn’t have a word for it then, but now I know it’s peak INLOG. Same as to why I couldn’t place why I hated Taylor swift and it’s that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 01:35 AM |
| 16 | Straight from the horses mouth. NEVER share your past relationship trauma/problems with men because they will hold it against you. How poorly you were treated by men in the past will either make him resent you or he will use it as a bar for how much you are willing to put up with.Me too 😩 but something tells me we’ll have another chance to use it 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 03:01 PM |
| 38 | Straight from the horses mouth. NEVER share your past relationship trauma/problems with men because they will hold it against you. How poorly you were treated by men in the past will either make him resent you or he will use it as a bar for how much you are willing to put up with.They don’t care they hurt you lol if you got hurt you’re just collateral damage to him living his best life You can’t guilt them into caring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:03 PM |
| 22 | Straight from the horses mouth. NEVER share your past relationship trauma/problems with men because they will hold it against you. How poorly you were treated by men in the past will either make him resent you or he will use it as a bar for how much you are willing to put up with.I guess but then how can I can get him to tell me about his? I figure just lie 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 01:47 PM |
| 178 | Straight from the horses mouth. NEVER share your past relationship trauma/problems with men because they will hold it against you. How poorly you were treated by men in the past will either make him resent you or he will use it as a bar for how much you are willing to put up with.How I can make this believable lol I’m 35💀 I do genuinely downplay the seriousness of any relationship I had, I’ve actually said “we were very committed but we were more like brother and sister” its so confusing to them they don’t even ask about it further If you ever want to burn a man while dumping him, refrain from showing your true feelings and complaining about how badly he’s treated you, just go cold but cordial for a week or two then sit him down and give a spiel about how he’s a nice guy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:24 PM |
| 330 | Straight from the horses mouth. NEVER share your past relationship trauma/problems with men because they will hold it against you. How poorly you were treated by men in the past will either make him resent you or he will use it as a bar for how much you are willing to put up with.The only salvageable thing about this post is that this guy realizes it’s a him problem not a her problem. I think the answer is that just as women have internalized misogyny, men do too. Like, they have externalized misogyny obviously but also internal. We are ALL brought up conditioned into blaming the woman for whatever goes wrong in her life. It’s male contempt for women that they believe whatever a man does to a woman, she somehow brought it upon herself. That’s what they mean “she picked t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:19 PM |
| 23 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.I doubt that making 20k a year she can afford to live alone though. I didn’t say anything relationship wise I referred to her situation living wise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 10:47 AM |
| 3 | How I sleep at night knowing no man is cheating on me, lying, hiding things, scheming for ways to undermine me / get my money, drooling over instapics of another woman, watching porn, dragging me to his buddies...!talking to his ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Recently awakened, need advice for upcoming dateAskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Nonstop beatdowns this week. Need some advice from queens.AskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Recently got out of a long-term relationship and attempting to level upAskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:57 AM |
| 470 | Positive for chlamydia- the audacityThis made me spit my hot cocoa out in LAUGHTER! 💀 now i gotta change my pajama shirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Love bombing/narcissist?You’re fine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Love bombing/narcissist?Please report then when you do :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Love bombing/narcissist?AskFDS is the sub for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:36 AM |
| 170 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.Genuinely would rather move back in with my mom and dad and live out our days together than suffer though this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:35 AM |
| 156 | Men are two-faced & will say one thing to you & a whole other thing about youNext time get the dime. They’re gonna talk anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:17 AM |
| 146 | I did it.Oof that last part is painful. I had a serious ex and I look at pictures of us and we were just so mismatched. People must have thought the same. Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:32 PM |
| 393 | I did it.Proud of you. I love how you can break down what must have felt very complex and have the clarity for the right decision. Curious why your fam didn’t like him and why your friends said no chemistry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:15 PM |
| 6 | Genuine question: how can a woman maintain the hope that there really are good men out there?You need to mentalize yourself that men are people too (I know) and there are a few out there, but it’s a true possibility that you will not find one so your only job is to make sure you don’t settle, whether knowingly or unknowingly (fools gold). If your question is “how do you believe you may find a hvm for yourself?” The answer is it’s unlikely you will but as long as you don’t get ensnared by a bad one, you will be okay and your life will turn our happy and just fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍Im not joking but one time I had a flight cancelled out a midsized airport while in Nigeria for a wedding and I got a little bag just like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:33 AM |
| 50 | 63 year old scrote with 38 year old woman expecting a 7th child together 🤢🤢. Good luck sis!What poor Ireland Baldwin did in a past life to deserve this must have been really something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 12:20 AM |
| 44 | TL;DR: her 'hack' is buying Tinder Gold to change your location and minimising small talk by, I assume, inviting men on a date.I would kill to live in London. What do you call a greencard in England? maybe I should try this and see if some guy will mail-order me there… 🤔 Edit: also, “not waste time with small talk before meeting”? So like, vetting? 😵💫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:28 PM |
| 41 | My boyfriend shared a funny video that i didn't find funnyI used to have a finsta where I made book reviews and once reviewed a science fiction book called Herland (written by a woman, pioneer of sci fi in the early 20th century), about an all-female utopia. It touched on themes like our exploitation of nature, division of labor, male/female roles and approaches to society. This was all Included in my review. I asked my then-bf to like and comment on my post, to get it rolling you know, and he did. Except his comment (though not passive aggressive at t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:56 PM |
| 7 | What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally?Exactly. If someone asked me to buy drugs for them I wouldn’t even know where to start, like I don’t have any dealers number? Id like to keep it that way too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 02:27 PM |
| 0 | What does FDS think of Will Smith hitting Chris Rock to defend Jada Pinkett Smith?He did it for the cameras. Their marriage is a train wreck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | My male coworker is being a jerk. Need advice on how to proceed aka: Can you notAskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:07 PM |
| 115 | What do you think about seemingly HVM doing psychedelic drugs occasionally?I think man or woman doing drugs is low value. Controversial but even consistent marihuana use does a number on people, in my experience at least. I am convinced that you can completely see the dimming of the lights in people after years of steady marihuana smoking. I like men that are sharp and with it, and that know how to relax and unwind without substances. And that’s considering that marihuana is a more ~benevolent drug. But a man who does psychotropics? Stimulants? Tbh fuck that. I am too … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 07:48 AM |
| 74 | The tinder swindler 2.0Yikes! A típ to everyone even if you become separated from your purse keep your essentials on your person, whenever you are traveling or at an unfamiliar place. Your credit card and ID can be stuffed in a pocket or bra; your phone shoved down your pants - really . In case you need to make a run for it without your bag you’ll just lose your fancy bag and expensive makeup. Recently a ukranian model I follow made an appeal that her carry on bag had been stolen at an airport in Europe and it had her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:06 PM |
| 4 | Stop dumpster diving through other women’s garbageYes. A lot of women end up not marrying because men strung them along for years dangling the marriage carrot and they wanted to settle down/were in love. But these men had the choice and didn’t marry those women nor another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Stop dumpster diving through other women’s garbageI’ve thought about this so much esp regarding divorced men. How could he leave his literal wife over a rough patch /who the hell leaves the mother of their children, versus, he must have done something truly awful for a woman to leave the father of her children/break up her nuclear family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 01:05 AM |
| 16 | I couldn’t find the original source of this text unfortunately, however I felt like this has to be shared. I was groomed into ddlg as a minor & am still unlearning the collective gaslighting from the kink community. Daddy dom/little girl or caregiver/little is not harmless. It glorifies pedophelia.Imagine being involved with a man like this, making things official, getting married and then Having a fucking little daughter with him 😩😩😩 this beggars belief | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Ever read Queen Bees & Wannabes? How have you experienced catty, LV pettiness from pickmes in your life?I am a woman of color and I’m also part of a persecuted minority, so both. That’s irrelevant to the pertinence of this post. No one should Pat you on the back for telling off a guy over email and hurting your own self. Just because you’re a WOC doesn’t mean LV behavior (that encourage other women to go around telling off their childhood bullies over email) will be validated. One of the rules of the sub is that all advice (or lessons learned) has to be beneficial to women. If your story isn’t con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Ever read Queen Bees & Wannabes? How have you experienced catty, LV pettiness from pickmes in your life?Wait what You emailed a guy who used to bully you in elementary school, as he is ready to go to law school? Sis whaaaaaaaaat He didn’t block you because he’s scared he blocked you because wtf I would have blocked you too 🥴 What did you think you would gain from that? Work out your hurt with a therapist, don’t jeopardize your reputation over a childhood bully. This whole story sounds very immature and resentful and I can’t place how it’s relevant to the sub. If people have wronged you it’s on you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 03:13 PM |
| 14 | Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to sayMy ex started to fact-check everything I said. Literally every comment about even inconsequential matters would be googled on the spot, in front of everyone, after loudly proclaiming his skepticism of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 02:23 PM |
| 16 | Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to saySame here. He would even yell or call me names and when I made a huge deal about that, he would say I had always been treated like a snowflake and no one had ever been “real” with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 02:20 PM |
| 74 | RE: OnlyFans - an unsustainable model in and of itselfWhere can I read about this? 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Can Anyone Help Explain This to Me?AskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Podcast recommendation: "Probably Cancelled Podcast"Interesting I never read the description but it’s great ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 15 | Scrote whines about having no free time while his wife does all the work. Oh, and he’s cheating on her. 🤡Baahhhahaha I feel for this woman who married such lazy ass I work 10-11 hour days FROM HOME and on Saturdays I work half a day (about 5 hours). I also have to bill my hours meaning I can’t “bullshit” like this guy calls it until it’s time to clock out. instead I literally have to account for every fucking minute I work (literally with a timer on my computer where I log each task). When I used to commute it was an hour each way and all I could muster was ordering takeout at night but I was on my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Podcast recommendation: "Probably Cancelled Podcast"I am a fan of this podcast as well but it’s the opposite of what you describe: it’s political, socialist pod that sometimes addresses liberal feminism. Not the reverse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 12:55 PM |
| 0 | 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩This post needs a strategic submission statement. We’re not here to just shame women. OP feel free to add the strategy content and repost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 11:15 PM |
| 16 | epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ringStatistics show most women do want to marry actually. And it’s not your “your” chirríen, it’s his children too?? If you were married it’s not yours and his asserts it’s both your assets. That’s why you shouldn’t marry a poorer man. The downsides of potentially divorcing are not worth it for the average woman to forgo marrying in favor of shacking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Men know this is what they watch and they don't care. They keep this horrifying industry alive. Never date a man who watches porn. TW:rapeOp you need to block out the subreddit as well. Goes against brigading rule. Feel free to fix your screenshots and repost WITH strategic or insightful commentary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 02:56 AM |
| 114 | epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ringThis isn’t about inflation or money. I was engaged once, and the marriage license cost $25 dollars. We could have hit the courthouse the next day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 3 | I matched with a man on OLD and posted his ass on the local Facebook group for his gf to findWhy are you on a fetish app? Trying to find a hookup? Are you trying to get assaulted or killed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 12:40 PM |
| 9 | Yes, you are. 💋I think they may be more at play here and this guy is entirely clueless and selfish to realize it. The fact that she didn’t want to go out for a date night after so long and instead wanted take out, maybe she has anxiety from pandemic still? Maybe she is depressed. This man is useless to think it’s just a grooming/dressing issue. His wife may have become legit agoraphobic (I know people who have a lot of issues of going out again when restrictions eased) right under his nose during the pandemic … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 11:48 AM |
| 21 | I understand the sentiment of this post was to tell women it is not our fault when a man has erectile dysfunction. I like many of her sketches. However, I think she forgot a lot of men also have (PIED) Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction... May I ask FDS sisters, how can we best tell the difference???It’s not about policing your desire or why you felt the need to do it. Feel free to DM whoever you want sis. This is just about the rules and enforcing them on the sub to keep it women-only. I’m not banning you, it’s a mistake but it’s a warning to everyone here to not reproduce the comments they receive from men on our posts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 12:03 AM |
| 34 | I understand the sentiment of this post was to tell women it is not our fault when a man has erectile dysfunction. I like many of her sketches. However, I think she forgot a lot of men also have (PIED) Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction... May I ask FDS sisters, how can we best tell the difference???If men aren’t allowed to post or comment, you pasting his comments for him defeats the purpose entirely. This is not okay and for anyone reading this, this is a warning. Don’t let yourself be used by men to bypass the rules or YOU will face the consequence of being banned. 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 11:58 PM |
| 212 | I understand the sentiment of this post was to tell women it is not our fault when a man has erectile dysfunction. I like many of her sketches. However, I think she forgot a lot of men also have (PIED) Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction... May I ask FDS sisters, how can we best tell the difference???The difference between what? Caused by porn and not caused by porn? It doesn’t matter. The only erectile dysfunction you can tolerate is from you 65 year old husband of 30 years, who you shared your happiest years with and had an amazing sex (and general) life with. Everybody ages. But a guy you’re dating? Your 35 year old husband? Nah sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | The fake proposal -- anyone else?There is no way to slice this to make it make sense. I mean this in the nicest way possible but take this propaganda to the wedding planning sub where the wedding industry will benefit from keeping women on the hook and planning and paying for weddings for years. That’s not what this sub is about and it’s HORRIBLE advice for women. This is basically advocating for women to be forever girlfriends, albeit glorified with a ring. Here, we prioritize women’s benefit and absolutely nothing good will c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | He’s taking forever to text back. I want to block him.No problem. Feel free to repost there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 11:39 PM |
| 9 | Guy on IG admits he’s a gold digger with this post 🤮No both-siding allowed. This tweet completely disregards womens well known contributions to a marriage and family that a man can’t make. So there is no point in comparing male financies to female finances because there is so much more to the joint venture that is marriage than finances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 11:38 PM |
| 1 | He’s taking forever to text back. I want to block him.AskFDS is for personal questions This is general discussion sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 11:36 PM |
| 7 | The fake proposal -- anyone else?Reading this just took 2 weeks off my life expectancy 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 11:38 AM |
| 6 | The fake proposal -- anyone else?If you’re too young to get married, you’re too young to get engaged. Engagement isn’t another stage of dating - it’s the planning-the-wedding stage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 11:37 AM |
| 2 | The fake proposal -- anyone else?Engaged for “maximum” Five years ??? Lmaoooo Engagement is how long it takes to plan the wedding, not to keep dating. Absolutely no to this. You need to read the handbook. Edit: how does this have 87 upvotes? Guys NO. This is not it. I’m sorry, I know it encourages discussion but this comment is gaining traction so I’m removing to not appear it’s an endorsement. Anybody here who believes being engaged with a ring for five years needs to stop and re work through the basic materials. Ultimately, i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 11:33 AM |
| 29 | The OP gets her exes head above water and wonders why her new boyfriend is mad. Put yourself first, stop being "cool", and let a guy manage his own finances. It was never up to you to SAVE him in the first place!Unfortunately I have an ex who did something similar for his ex. Would give her loans and never get paid back, he was totally okay with it. Five years after their break up. They had just dated (not ex wife or kids). She wasn’t even a dead beat she had a normal job but I guess if this guy would give why not take it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 11:03 AM |
| 13 | Big yikesWouldnt even give him bone marrow ngl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 10:08 PM |
| 42 | From the tinder subreddit. I have no words.“Why you wanna fist me? Is your dick broken or something?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 10:05 PM |
| 206 | A joke eh?Mens idea of equality is women doing the man’s work for him. That’a the real 50-50: it refers to the man’s half. So the woman does the half she would normally be expected to do anyway (emotional labor, sexual performance, child bearing and rearing, pressure to look good and be entertaining) but now instead of the man doing his own half, they split his half between the man and woman! So now she pays half the bills, does half the pursuing, plans the dates, so it’s actually a woman doing 75% (her s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 02:47 AM |
| 7 | How can you tell if "My ex was controlling, abusive, crazy..." etc is the truth from a guy?Unless she’s in prison for whatever he’s accusing her of, I’d rather give my benefit of the doubt to a random woman woman than to a random man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How would you feel if your partner said they were open to a threesome?Askfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 08:33 AM |
| 248 | If men in a war zone can manage this, your pathetic ex has no excuse…IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 01:31 AM |
| 74 | How to tell a guy texting is boring and you’d *hint hint* (or very directly) like to move onto calling/facetiming/talking in person? Should you leave it up to them to progress? Texting is feeling like a chore but the conversations are good. Not into false intimacy anymore.You don’t. Either he does or he didn’t. Even if it’s a cOmMuNiCaTIoN sTyLES diFerEnCe, you can’t date someone like this because you will spend your whole relationship trying to get him to make you feel heard, paid attention to, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 12:46 AM |
| 156 | How do I avoid men coming up to me?SCOWL at them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 11:51 PM |
| 19 | Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners?Controversial but i had a short lived affair with a married colleague (like 2 weeks long) about 6 years ago and even though I was engaged since, deep down I’m off the marriage kool aid directly because of that And when I traveling for work virtually every male colleague who was handsome and smooth enough to cheat, did so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 08:39 PM |
| 11 | I hope I’m not the only one who raised my eyebrows with a bit of concern at the age gap here. I hope for her sake he is HV, but FDS has taught me to be wary and some of the commentary made me sick…They look into each other’s eyes and burst into tears of joy? Lmaoooo That’s like wedding day shit, not everyday life. Genuinely never hope to live this it is while other level of emo and cringe. No flex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 11:22 AM |
| 117 | Subtle signs of misogynyMakes comments about women not being able to get along amongst themselves. Ie. “Girls are fake to each other”, “girls are catty” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 01:52 PM |
| 20 | Finding out one of my “good” male friend is a scroteYou keep saying he gets angry? But if you want to argue with men to that point, it’s a free world. Personally I could think of a million better ways to spend your time, but you’re not asking for that, so Btw the sidebar clearly explains we’re not here to argue or educate or change men. For anyway who’s downvoting me lol He’s not stupid and he knows it aggravates you, there is little chance he wasn’t trying to be provocative for attention. Negative attention is still attention and you validated h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 03:31 PM |
| 20 | Finding out one of my “good” male friend is a scroteWhy would you even argue with a man? Serious question. You “fought”? Only couples fight. Do you have some sort of unresolved attraction between the two of you? Good that you know so you can drop him but for the future, don’t argue with men. Just let them say their shit and smile and nod and then remove yourself from their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 01:05 PM |
| 0 | I don't know if I did the right thing.Askfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 12:48 PM |
| 25 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childIt’s pathetic that he keeps calling her his wife when she isn’t. Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Can an LVM turn into a HVM later in life?It depends why he’s low value and his age. Changing from 17 to 30, sure. Changing from 26 to 38? From 35 to 50? Lmao hard no. Passivity can change, like laziness, being a teen who just spends all his time online etc. He can probably snap out of it with some goals and some freedoms in college. Being a yeller, a manipulator, a cheater, never ever. Assholes don’t change they rest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 12:52 PM |
| 78 | Hmm, did this seem like an innocent question from him or am i wrong to possibly feel the ick?If you spell out to men what you’re “looking for” you’re giving the Manual to play you . Be vague and let them show who they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 12:42 PM |
| 77 | Hmm, did this seem like an innocent question from him or am i wrong to possibly feel the ick?Does your profile say you are feminine and want a masculine guy to pamper you or where is he getting this from? If it does, YOU ARE BLASTING A MEGAPHONE for red pillers with this language | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 11:18 AM |
| 107 | "I appreciate modesty in a woman" - says the man who watches porn.“I don’t like slutty women” - the man who wants to so-call facefuck you, or put it in your ass like a gay man, or have a threesome with you, etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 11:12 PM |
| 13 | Imagine being this uselessOr this abusive that you want to make sure your wife is still at home or not talking to anyone else on the phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 06:08 PM |
| 39 | HVM and HVW in pop culture?Original charmed the first 4 seasons (maybe 5th) is filled with HVW! This show is underrated feminism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 01:33 AM |
| 254 | Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad.As the years go by I can’t help but conclude that the problem with a lot of men is that they just cannot be happy. Cannot and will not. Imagine having ZERO COMPLAINTS about your wife in 30 years and “realizing now” you don’t love her like you should. What kind of “man” stays with a woman he’s not in love with anyway? Nobody had a gun to his head. The cowardice and exploitation of this is something else. For many things in life you choose your own path when you choose your attitude and instead of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:56 PM |
| 3 | SAHM vs career.This post is too personal and not general discussion. Belongs in AskFDS. Feel free to make a general post about these potential two paths (out of several) for discussion! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 02:45 AM |
| 175 | If he wanted to he wouldNarrator: she was the side chick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:44 AM |
| 17 | is planning the same weekend trip with a different girl one year later an issue?Is this like a family cabin he has access to? In that case not weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 05:47 PM |
| 46 | Women who implement FDS are "groomed, hot, successful, with standards", says FDS-hating manThe girls do sound hot esp Savannah 🥵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Beware of Males that claim to have no social mediaFacebook for people 40 and above yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 06:05 PM |
| 7 | Never Tell Men You Live Alone. Protect Your Space, LadiesI want to add never let a man know you own your property! Say you rent it. If it’s fancy/luxurious say you got a deal from your former boss or distant relative who was moving and wanted to rent the place to someone they trusted. Dont let them calculate your bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:34 PM |
| 4 | Beware of the solo male traveller to certain regions of the world.Yeah I did this and blew my career I have a job now and I make good money but yah I blew my career at the age of 34. I will be 36 soon and am not even close to recovering 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:31 PM |
| 6 | Beware of the solo male traveller to certain regions of the world.I’m not gonna say white women are whores, but if a significant segment of women are conditioned that they must put out 3-5 dates in, then it’s genuinely easy pickings for these men. If they can go to North America and spend money on Taco Tuesday as a first date, a Friday dinner, and Saturday drinks/club then end up at home… it’s a fantastic deal for men who just want to get laid. I would say mainstream culture in America at least encourages white women to sleep around and for practically nothing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:23 PM |
| 8 | Beware of Males that claim to have no social mediaWhen you show me a man who makes decisions to protect his mental health (like quitting porn) I’ll believe it. Until then, I would respectfully say you are projecting women mindset/intentions onto men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:14 PM |
| 5 | Beware of Males that claim to have no social mediaI was thinking about this and also i think there is social media that is age appropriate. I am 35 and to me a 40 year old man having Tik tok is a massive massive massive red flag. Having instagram is kind of pushing it tbh (though not for a woman). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:12 PM |
| 20 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂Now this is just fantastic. The most authentic representation of the female experience I’ve seen in a long time. Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 03:48 AM |
| 13 | Stick to your boundariesBetter yet reply lol to that and to everything else he ever says interjecting a “wdym” and when he explains go “lol” again Im kidding block and delete is the way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 09:24 PM |
| 26 | Stick to your boundariesWooooooow I did not see this coming. What a desperate jerk. Please tell us if you responded or just left on read or what. I actually would have said “you know what I agree. Lose my number” and then let him freak himself out and spin in circles with no reply and then block him. Yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 06:20 PM |
| 39 | 🤡Lmao ignore? Also he says 80%… so homeboy should just aim for that other 20% of women. That is PLENTY. Go sit pretty for them, bat his eyelashes for them and wait for them to tap their lap for him to come cuddle on it. But why complain or pine for what you can’t have? Knock yourself out with the 20% and leave the rest of us alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:10 PM |
| 9 | LITERAL Queen Shit! 👑👑👑This is a good point. Their relationships with everyone unraveled as well. They spear to be really chaotic and codependent in this “us against the world/everyone is against us” dynamic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | LITERAL Queen Shit! 👑👑👑Lmao that was never me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 02:51 PM |
| -2 | LITERAL Queen Shit! 👑👑👑Actually I’ve seen you argue quite often on here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 02:34 PM |
| 66 | Beware of Males that claim to have no social mediai dOnT dO sOciAL mEdiA 👖🔥 Bonus points if you pulled him off a dating app 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 01:28 PM |
| -8 | LITERAL Queen Shit! 👑👑👑Surprised to see there are still Meghan stans in 2022 🙄 She is absolutely LV and always has been. As is her wimp husband. She’s just really good at victimizing herself in the media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Never Tell Men You Live Alone. Protect Your Space, LadiesYah just go ahead and copy because i approved this one so it doesn’t get lost In The old ones Let me know if it happens again with other posts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Never Tell Men You Live Alone. Protect Your Space, LadiesI don’t see what’s wrong with it, go ahead if you want I’ll check and approve it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Never Tell Men You Live Alone. Protect Your Space, LadiesIf you want put it up Ill approve it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Never Tell Men You Live Alone. Protect Your Space, LadiesI don’t see anything - we ban slurs but also incel terms. Whats NLOG? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Never Tell Men You Live Alone. Protect Your Space, LadiesThis si a good post! I was reviewing your feed - you should re share this now that you’re flaired | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:14 AM |
| 12 | I met another FDSer in the wild! We are growing as a community!Straight outta fight club lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 04:07 AM |
| 11 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.Lol thanks I’m glad it inspires | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 03:31 AM |
| 9 | How do we vet men to ensure that they actually like themselves, have genuine self-esteem and self-worth?I’ve found that men who were dumped unexpectedly (to them, at least) by women they admired, take such an ego hit that they never really get over it and the hit is very much in their manhood/self worth. For men this is one and the same. Men cannot handle rejection, it stays with them for life and most will take it out in other women but some against themselves. Another possible one is men that are too self-made. Rags to riches, came from nothing, etc and now are successful. The impostor syndrome … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 02:16 AM |
| 90 | How have your female friends and family members reacted to FDS when you introduced it to them? What are the ones who rejected FDS doing with their lives now?The only one of my friends i introduced didnt pan out she stayed on her libfem shit and still trying to get picked by a 32 year old scrote (she’s 38) who has been sleeping with her and another woman for the past three years My friend is too conditioned, like stereotypical corporate millennial female that pays on dates and the such. Like my mom says, if you have the money treat your girlfriends or your family but you don’t pay to get fucked (essentially saying you don’t pay for the person you’re … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 02:12 AM |
| 16 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.The kids point is very interesting. I can’t stand babies and don’t find them cute or adorable at all. To me its a huge drag whenever someone brings along their baby but it’s like what can you do you know I’ve never asked to hold anyones baby either. However I think kids are a blast (think 7 and up) and I would definitely delight in actually raising kids of my own (not just caretaking a baby/toddler) well into adulthood. So it would be easy for someone to think I’m not Interested in motherhood wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 02:04 AM |
| 18 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.It makes me happy that it serves you! 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 01:52 AM |
| 26 | I met another FDSer in the wild! We are growing as a community!It’s like fight club when bob runs into “Cornelius” and spills about having found a new club and they are so giddy about it this hasn’t happened to me but I would love it so much Unfortunately all I do is work so I never run into any new women to make friends with 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 01:25 AM |
| 47 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.Love to see it! I lived something similar though I was unmarried still, except I didn’t secure a job back home but did have savings luckily and a great support system. The guy left for work and i cleaned the place not only of any trace that I had ever been there but also spotless. Then I yeeted myself out of there straight into an Uber to the airport and across the continent. Was literally landing on the east coast by the time he realized I was gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 12:57 AM |
| 47 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.Of course. That’s why I talk about f*cking off or GTFO out of someone’s life. Confronting men is never advised. Especially face to face you never know which man can turn violent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 12:54 AM |
| 30 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.This is the sort of dating situation I had in mind. When you’re past the dating stage itself and are in a consolidated relationship and he starts to take a turn for the worse. Well done on you for sticking to your guns and not going back. My only comment to what you said is that “you were attached and it was difficult but it shouldn’t be” is that it’s supposed to be difficult in your feelings because you may even love the person and you were invested in Your past and future, but the action canno… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 12:52 AM |
| 106 | The Bite-Size Guide to Vet a Potential Suitor: Does he uses FILLER WORDS?Oh yeah they’re also so out of touch with their moms as a person An ex’s parents had a nasty divorce after 20 years of horrible emotional abuse by the dad and my ex one told me matter of fact it must be hard for his mom to see his dad with his new wife (divorced 20 years already mind you) meanwhile the mom always telling me she “felt nothing as if she had never even known him at all” and “how crazy that was given that she was suicidal when they were together” lmao They really even project on the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 11:52 PM |
| 26 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.Please tell us your story of how you GTFO spectacularly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 11:42 PM |
| 31 | FDS: From minimizing dating disappointment to averting life-derailing disaster - Or the power of sticking the hell up for yourself.I agree! If you have a list of sorts you can check back in on, it’s easier to trust yourself to make decisions because it’s not just a passing feeling that something is wrong but instead you actually have a baseline for what it is that’s not working. For a lot of people that are more facts-based I think this is a great approach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 11:41 PM |
| 321 | The Bite-Size Guide to Vet a Potential Suitor: Does he uses FILLER WORDS?Since all men love their mommas I find a good question like this is to ask what they like the most about her. One of my exes hit me with: “Are you kidding me? My mom is a SAINT. She literally always put everywhere before herself. She always helps everyone and never complains and never asks anything in return”. Whooooooahhboy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 11:39 PM |
| 24 | I am just so... disappointedSo proud of you. This is what we love to see! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 11:36 PM |
| 14 | POC women: How does abuse cross cultural communication patterns and values?It’s not a question of abuse versus culture. Because it can be both. If it’s abusive it doesn’t matter if it cultural or because of a personality disorder. What matters is the end result not the cause. If you feel unhappy or mistreated in anyway, it’s not your job to get to the bottom of why it’s happening, it’s your job to split like a 🍌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 11:33 PM |
| 57 | Big oof. This whole thing made me cringe really hard. This is why we don’t chase or be too forward without properly vetting. The wrong men will get the wrong idea, their entitlement doesn’t have limits.Are you effing kidding me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Leaving a HV man to pursue career dreams - anxiety, sadness, hope and excitementIf he wanted to, he would. If you were the woman of his life, he’d commit first, make it official and then take a few monta to sort the logistics and join you. But all of this with a ring on your finger. You’re not it for this guy. Sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Leaving a HV man to pursue career dreams - anxiety, sadness, hope and excitementThis sub isn’t for personal questions thats ask FDS. That said , if he was HV he wouldn’t shack up before marriage. Or he would commit to you and come along and help you achieve your goals. You would never have to choose between a hv man and your life because he will fit right in with your life and projects. That said, two years, shack up, no commitment and he’s ready to let you go? Doesn’t sound like either of you were the one. Also - this guy would make you pay the lease penalty because you’re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 01:22 PM |
| 240 | Using your hobby to vetBUT YOURE NOT THAT SKINNY 💀💀💀 But honestly if that is the thought process of men, based on the questions that arise for them and their “logic”, no wonder the world is in the state it’s in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:40 PM |
| 38 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.Oy 😵💫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Bring back - fine af friday flairUse search bar function | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Signs of Cheating: How to spot them?I believe I answered your question, unless you meant to limit only to active current behaviors that could otherwise be innocuous but added together indicate cheating. I don’t think a “sign” had to be something presently suspicious - it can be a fact. Like the person previously having cheated, especially if they cheated on YOU. To me, a sign of cheating isn’t necessarily a present behavior that doesn’t add up, it can be PAST behavior that points to only one thing in the present - because everythi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:36 AM |
| 57 | LVMs can turn you into pathetic pick-mes.Don’t be so surprised. They literally force women they don’t even know to have children that aren’t even theirs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:41 AM |
| 12 | 21yo woman and her 30yo 🚩 homeless boyfriend 🚩 has moved in to her home 🚩within 2 months 🚩her mom says go for it? This girl Is going to spend the next twenty years learning horrible lessons the hard way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:39 AM |
| 69 | Signs of Cheating: How to spot them?I want to say that FOR SURE sign of cheating is if he ever cheated on you before. Sis you don’t even have to wonder. If it is a guy who already cheated, the answers is yes he cheated/is cheating /will cheat. Cheaters never change | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:50 AM |
| 64 | Pornsick Scrotes Want Their Money Back!Love to see them get it where it hurts 💸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:48 AM |
| 13 | The occupation of men on OLDI can only speak for the US northeast but most high achieving high status men, especially those from a privileged background, value status in a woman as well. So I agree with you it can be an issue to date too much above class. Most of these guys even if their wife becomes a sahm, will want her to have some sort of fancy credentials. There’s no reason for a guy like this to date a babe out of the local community college, if he can date a babe from the rowing club. Personally I believe that men t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 04:13 PM |
| 41 | This girl's boyfriend objectifies and body-shames her vagina and redditors tell her he's just a pussy guy and it's a compliment. This is why you never ask relationship subs for advice; they are teeming with disgusting LVM/NVMCloseted? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 02:40 PM |
| 55 | What is up with men saying they want someone who is passionate about something?On OLD things don’t mean what they mean in regular life: ambitious = will fund my startup career oriented = 50-50 family oriented = will dangle the marriage 🥕 outgoing/passionate/don’t be boring = expects you to be performative and entertaining. Same if opens convo will bullshit question like “tell me something you’ve never told anyone” or “tell me your goals for 2022” 🤮 positive/gOoD vIbEs oNlY = will never consider your feelings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 01:11 PM |
| 126 | Male Scrote tried to silence meNot the same but reminded me that once at a lunch with other people I had to Kamala my ex with “IM SPEAKING” so he would not talk over me 😵💫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 01:08 PM |
| 101 | The occupation of men on OLDCode for broke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 01:06 PM |
| 21 | The occupation of men on OLDWhy are you looking for a mid range guy specifically ? Are you sure this isn’t a projection of the lie discussed in the podcast regarding the belief that uglier men will treat you better? Do you think a male nurse will treat you nicer or more fair than a surgeon? They will not. Why aim for average sis? If all men have the potential to turn on you and ruin your life, at least secure the bag. I think most guys with average jobs you can just tell if you’re savvy enough. In the app I used, most men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 01:03 PM |
| 51 | FDS DIVORCE TIPSThe best thing you can do you did and is signing up for legal aid. Secondly you need to take more consults with attorneys, most will give you a free consultation so shop shop shop around until you find someone who is willing to help you maybe with payments that start after. But don’t pay so much for consults. Diluting assets is tricky but it doesn’t much matter if you have good attorneys that can track it down because at the end of the day, he did it in anticipation of divorce and any judge will… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 11:23 AM |
| 22 | Just saying that I would like *his* to mention *her* in the description… also the #1 point in *hers*… nah, sis you’re AMAZING (treat her well JO we’re watching)Never heard of the guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 02:44 AM |
| 5 | Why you can’t take men seriously…Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 02:41 AM |
| 161 | Dump him firstWhy are you trying to make this guy feel better? Let him be annoyed for life and not be able to get closure. And yes it’s the ego and dumping a guy first takes balls of steel and will mess with him for life. Bonus points if he thinks you’re bluffing and goes along with it and then you do in fact ghost him lmao Then not only is he dumped and feeling rejected but feeling like an idiot too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:50 PM |
| 23 | The term Pickme gaining traction? thoughts?My gen z cousins use pickme all the time. They are between 14 and 19. The younger ones literally roast saying “who are you trying to get picked by?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts? How would you debate that? Seems like it's from a male perspective?!Op your submission statement is pending. Per rules posts that are screenshots requirement statement promoting discussion or with insight/strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | The hypocracy of men.Posts that are screenshots must include a quality submission statements that promotes discussion or is insightful. Not just posting something and expecting it to be discussed by others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 01:49 PM |
| 6 | He showed up at my door last nightReport this guy to the non emergency line. This is wrong on so many levels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Discerning high value among the retiredYou would benefit from reading the handbook. There is so much more to letting someone be as close to you as they would be in a relationship, than how kind they are. Also this is too vague. It’s actions actions actions. Not abstract qualities like “kind”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Discerning high value among the retiredI love this post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:25 PM |
| 3 | What Do You Ladies Think Of The Following Films? | My boyfriend dislikes all of them, but I do find it a bit of a cOiNcIdEnCe that all of them ~happen to have~ female leadsDid his ex like these films or something? Unless this guy is some sort of intense filmmaker or specialist in the field or whatever, hating so hard on films is weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:24 PM |
| 40 | They use our Rape Kits as evidence against us: heads up!When 23andme was super trendy when first coming out I was gifted a kit and I outright refused. I feel for women who trusted the system after being assaulted but this just goes to show that handing over your dna in any situation will come and bite you in the ass. If the chances of a prosecution/conviction are so damn low, is it even worth it to report? 💔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Shyness or Fooling Around?Read the handbook and post this on AskFDS please . This is general discussion sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Racist male depravity and the women who enable it smfhRemoved because sub names and usernames must be covered or cropped out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:03 PM |
| 75 | So, who else is on a post-valentines dumping spree?Hitting himself in the head? Nonononononono You are right in deciding you can’t breed this guys genes. A lot of the crazy Carries on. You are tough for what you’re going through and how you are coping. Stay strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:02 PM |
| 84 | Thoughts? How would you debate that? Seems like it's from a male perspective?!I think this is a good point to make because it shows no matter how your own self esteem may be like at a given moment, you deserve to be respected and valued. Even if someone falls out of love with you or whatever, you always deserve kindness and consideration at your personal lowest. I dislike the reverse because it victim blaming: “if you don’t love yourself you’ll keep drawing guys that do this to you”. “If you don’t respect yourself men won’t”.🙄 To a degree you teach people out there how to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:00 PM |
| 154 | Male depravity makes it to the front page.Why do you want to talk to random women if not to hit on them/date them? Like why approach strange women If you want to be friends you can’t start out lying either ??? This guy is a psycho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:57 AM |
| 78 | Heartbreaking. Wife wants to spend time with lv hubby v-day weekend, gets ignored. He admits he’s trash but doesn’t want her with another manI agree with you. And I don’t think it’s being a pickme when it’s your marriage you’re trying to make work. Especially when there’s ostensibly no clear abuse and you can legitimately believe it’s a rough patch that you can get over. Trying to get through to your spouse isn’t the same as trying to get picked by the guys on dating apps. What the limit is? I don’t know and I can’t say. For everyone is different. Here? We’ll know it when we see it but I don’t think we should shame a woman whose husb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 06:47 PM |
| 6 | How'd You Find FDS?I genuinely think someone from gender critical dmed about it Rip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 06:07 PM |
| 11 | Feeling grateful that I’m not embarrassing myself this Valentine’s DayGenuinely hope she’s cheating and just posting all this love to throw him and every else off 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 19 | They can’t STAND not taking credit 😂😂This is hilarious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 05:58 PM |
| 188 | Heartbreaking. Wife wants to spend time with lv hubby v-day weekend, gets ignored. He admits he’s trash but doesn’t want her with another manHe is absolutely cheating, just at his moms house and his bros are covering. When he says she deserves someone better and doesn’t know why she’s still around, he’s actually telling her to go ahead and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 05:56 PM |
| 789 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!The fact that boyfriend seems more shook than her about what happened speaks volumes about the socialization of normalizing our own abuse. She’s lol-ing about this? Jfc someone reach out to her mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:00 PM |
| 2 | He wants to move in togetherRead the handbook; Personal questions go on AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 06:25 PM |
| 34 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Did you block him too or just delete in case he comes back? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 86 | Incel saying the quiet part out loud: we’re not people to them.How can someone be happy with this mentality? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 06:01 PM |
| 0 | How To Stop Being Insecure About Your Body? I Don't Want To Waste My 20's Hating It.Female level up sub better suited for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 02:40 AM |
| 38 | Women can be very kind to each other. I'm tired of society acting like were only catty to each otherAre you kidding? The only people who have helped me get my life back on track after any man messed it up or any man caused me problems or disruption have been women. It’s just scrote propaganda to keep us divided | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:16 AM |
| 4 | What's your phone numberYou should pay for a burner number (app) so you can get their actual number and background check it. I don’t know how but I’ve seen comments on there about reverse checking someone’s phone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Hey look FDS, I made it, I made it! 🎶Congratulations but you can never consider you out of your pickme ways (not you in particular just anyone). If you don’t keep putting in the mental, emotional and mindset work in, you’ll revert as soon as an opportunist turns up. Don’t let your guard down, even against your own self. Good luck to you and well done | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 06:53 PM |
| 3 | 22F dating a 34M finds out he co-owns a house in the suburbs with a woman sharing his last name - If he’s making excuses for you not to see HIS house even though he’s seen yours, there’s a reason.OP sorry this is a good post but you need to crop the names and subreddits. I had to remove it. Feel free to crop and repost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 06:50 PM |
| 51 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄Imagine thinking so highly of yourself that you can put something like this in words yet believe your obstacle with the opposite sex is your looks 🤯 Edit: also “raise my upper lip”? what lips? this guy needs an entire lips transplant… twice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 12:40 PM |
| 9 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereAnd That’s why you need to dip as soon as you read 50/50. If you had stopped reading right there, you would have spared yourself the rest 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 12:11 PM |
| 6 | No coffee dates no walk dates no drink datesOh no the make out was outside of my building 😮💨 like on the doorstep wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 02:45 PM |
| 8 | No coffee dates no walk dates no drink datesIt was at the end of the date, we had had lunch in the sun then lion king but yeah not the vibe that’s what made it awkward like in the street in front of everyone blocking foot traffic lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 02:20 PM |
| 13 | No coffee dates no walk dates no drink datesOh gosh I went on a picnic first date once and it was a blast! We had sugarfish in Central Park and saw an afternoon showing of the Lion King. Didn’t go out with him again because he came on too strong and made out with me at 4 pm lol like… is this because you just spent 500 bucks? Lmao too bad because he was cute and tall but I didn’t like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 12:58 PM |
| 11 | al i can say is… jfcYour comment is otherwise okay but we don’t use incel language/terminology here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 12:54 PM |
| 16 | "What do I do when a man give me expensive gifts/do something nice for me?" - Say "Thank You", Smile, and Feel Happy that He CHOOSE to Do It.Even if we assume everyone HAS To have a price, your price for sex certainly has to be higher than half of a 300 dollar dinner (because he ate his half) because otherwise wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 12:48 PM |
| 35 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvotedSame what I thought. It’s like “I wasn’t planning on sleeping you but then you showed up and we’re a dead ringer for Jason Momoa” 🥺😮💨🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 12:45 PM |
| 33 | No coffee dates no walk dates no drink datesI can eat 2 rolls of fancy sushi at the fancy sushi placein about 30 minutes, same amount of time as a so called coffee date, if it’s about the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 01:27 AM |
| 19 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.Spoiler: It’s because he’s nuts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:22 PM |
| 7 | How can I politely explain to my friend that her match-making business is rubbish and I don't want any part of it?Do you even know this “friend” in real life or is she an internet friend? Even if you’ve known her for twenty years this screams SEX TRAFFICKING TO ME WTF GHOST THIS WOMAN and delete her from any page where she might have access to you She’s not trying to find you a husband and she ain’t no matchmaker either. She’s trying to pimp you out. Open your eyes sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 04:43 AM |
| 6 | Are most high value women “doomed”?Act like you’ve reclaimed it and then the feelings will come . If you wait to feel ready, you will never feel ready. Bravery is doing what you know needs to be done, even if you’re scared. The confidence will come once you’ve done it and the dust has settled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 03:14 AM |
| 25 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.This is way way way too much energy spent psychoanalyzing a guy who met ONE MONTH ago. If you want to vent or rant for 7 pages by all means do so, but there’s nothing to gain examining every little detail or convo with a guy to see what went wrong and why he did what he did. Write a novel about how he’s a POS but not trying to get answers to “why did he stop liking me” when you really kind of didn’t know each other. Guard your emotional and mental investment in people you barely met. This exclus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:14 AM |
| 5 | Are most high value women “doomed”?This IS the best news! and it will change your entire view of yourself and what you are capable of going forward | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:09 PM |
| 14 | Reminder that this is the common behavior of husbands. Vetting is lethal and so is depending on someone other than your romantic partnerThere should be no higher shame, this guy shouldn’t be able to show his face at the town supermarket or post office without getting nasty looks and told off by real men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:07 PM |
| 32 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”.Nobody here is attacking you or judging you. Rather, your husband. We may not know him but we certainly know the type. The sexual neglect, the porn inspired sex acts, the selfishness, the -everything- really, your story mentions are nothing new under the sun and it’s what we discuss here day in and day out. You are welcome in this space. I invite you to read what you wrote: you enjoy being degraded by him? Idk how he manipulated you into thinking this is hot but you are carrying his baby you ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:22 AM |
| 22 | this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣The best advice is free (like here). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:33 AM |
| 55 | Age Gaps in the MediaOrson fry is filthy rich and the old money kind. Well done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:30 AM |
| 56 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Imagine being a presumably healthy, reasonably still-young male, with a lovely healthy wife who loves you and clearly cares about you, and thinking it’s too much work to make her come. They don’t deserve us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:10 AM |
| 21 | Are most high value women “doomed”?With men, Never put in more than you’re getting out (Save that for your kids if you ever have them). Maybe that fear will evolve into something else if you are mindful of not putting yourself in a position where you are the one with the most to lose. Ensure that even if you “lose”, you somehow always win with men. Financially, logistically, whatever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:17 AM |
| 18 | Are most high value women “doomed”?Linking other subs is not allowed here. But you can google the words and Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 11:50 PM |
| 39 | Are most high value women “doomed”?Please link me the study where this is biological because I think It’s sociological - it’s the socialization of fear and fear is the mind killer 🏜🪱 You are free to not engage, but don’t opt out because of fear. You only get one life, but it’s a personal decision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:39 PM |
| 48 | Are most high value women “doomed”?I’m flattered 🥺I’ll make a post ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 07:58 PM |
| 149 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves"I think you make a good point that applies to the majority of men, which is they genuinely believe they are entitled to women of certain qualities and virtues they don’t even come close to. Be it virginal and modest while they are herp-ridden porn addicts or a fit 11/10 babe when they themselves have never worn a slick of sunscreen on their faces and can’t touch their toes with straight knees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 07:51 PM |
| 156 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves"Madonna-whore complex truly has no religious or ethnic bounds. It’s everywhere with these men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 07:42 PM |
| 89 | Are most high value women “doomed”?The most sobering sub in existence indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 882 | Are most high value women “doomed”?I believe the hardest part of FDS and being high value isn’t even subscribing ideologically, but becoming ruthless in your evaluation and ACTIONS of cutting men loose. I think many of us here above a certain age can confidently say for a fact things never get better once they’ve soured, so you can be as “hv” as you want, but if you don’t have it in you or don’t develop the guts to DIP ASAP, then yes you will be doomed and all this time you spend on the internet hyping yourself into FDS will rema… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Narc NVM Friend and flying monkeys.So you start off by admitting this post shouldn’t be here but because YOU “want to reach as many women as possible”, because it’s “very important” to YOU you decide to post something you know doesn’t fit the sub. In other words, because it’s something YOU want, you think that little disclaimer is enough to justify breaking the sub rules? What if everyone did what you did? The rules are there for a reason. This sub is collective for the collective benefit. Removed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 11:55 AM |
| 102 | I’m 37, I might be single for ever — and I’m happy with thatWhen I make a genuine assessment of my life, I’ve never been happier with any man (even the nicest, most in-lovest) than I’ve been when single. Life is just richer without a man, but that’s probably just me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 06:27 PM |
| 31 | Women are interchangeable (seen on IG)🎢😮💨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Is this supposed to be cute?Low effort post and original is probably a troll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm acting like an idiot around my crushRead the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 11:55 PM |
| 87 | I love herWonder what kind of job this loser has that can’t afford a real restaurant for one date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬I wish I saw the World with the unabated optimism of this guy ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:39 PM |
| 98 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬This made me smile and I’m not being sarcastic The absolute entitlement OMFG 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣 its almost innocent, dare I say wholesome in its delusion It’s like…. BLESS HIS HEART 😆😆😆 A sucker like this is gonna end up tied to his bed frame in his underwear and getting everything including the windows blinds and AC unit stolen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 01:15 AM |
| 55 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!My worst nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 9 | Rihanna & Her Pregnancy AnnouncementOkay he’s gorgeous and by all accounts head-over-heels for her but he was literally confessing 2 years ago on the radio that he had his first orgy at 13 and was now a sex addict wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:45 AM |
| 13 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.I realized I wrote weekly and it’s biweekly no wonder you were horrified :) fixed it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 25 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.Oh No it’s not that bad luckily it’s relative because I’m in a high paying profession (law) but I fell down the pay grade ladder - or rather re entered below 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:51 PM |
| 104 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.I took close to two years off during pandemic (because of moving to my ex fiancé, then pandemic hit then unraveling of the relationship, etc) and with top tier graduate degrees and solid 5 years of specific post grad experience, got a job paying about 110k less (-80k + variable bonus) than I did before pandemic. It’s not even remotely close to worth it. You can never anticipate the kind of hit you’ll take. And you will very likely come to rely on yourself only all over again. And I work about 95… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 12:05 PM |
| 17 | Learn from me (and looking for some moral support after my breakup)It’s also a way to get gaslighted and to teach a man to tell you what you want to hear and how to okey-doke you while he keeps doing and getting what he wants. And then you can fight about it again in next weeks session. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:15 AM |
| 4 | Learn from me (and looking for some moral support after my breakup)Addition advice is to not try to take a guy to therapy just to save a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:08 AM |
| 80 | Learn from me (and looking for some moral support after my breakup)The details of your situation are more suited for AskFDS. That said, couples therapy is for married people who have family and spawn and finances intertwined and have spent loving, happy years but things turned to the point of needing mediation. Couples therapy for a dating relationship or an engaged relationship is an absolute no go. Just break up. Likewise if one of you needs therapy in order to maintain the relationship. Just end it. If your issues are complex and impactful enough to negative… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 02:25 AM |
| 102 | Men who give unsolicited feedback during dating?Negging, or preemptively triangulating your with a fantasy version of yourself so you always work to live up to it. In this case it’s a neg by saying: game show buzz sound wrong response, try again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 11:35 PM |
| 33 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorIn the podcast episode with Lundy Bancroft (my favorite episode ever!) he explains that adscribing men’s abuse of womeb to their psychological issues (like how common it’s become to call every abuser a narcissist) removes accountability from them and from society as a whole that generally produces men that are or can easily turn abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 06:47 PM |
| 52 | Pregnant New Zealand journalist stranded by quarantine rules says she turned to TalibanYah ok something tells me they are both idiots who did this with some idiotic exposure/clout plan in mind Can’t stay in Belgium? I doubt she was threatened with deportation and if she were, she would be deported to her own country. Even THEN she would be deported probably to anywhere BUT Afghanistan. Id rather stay in a civilized country illegally than go be “legal” in a freaking war zone Also isn’t NZ a common wealth country? Couldnt she have gone to the UK? Canada? Ultimately she didn’t need a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:32 PM |
| 111 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪Another example of men taking women’s express requests, clear boundaries and rules as suggestions. Also: “let go”??? So anything you do or restrictions you keep are what, you being uptight? You’re inflexible? Now it’s about how you live your life huh? See where this is going? Next you’re a control freak. Next youre obsessed about food. It was about what he did then all of a sudden it’s about you and how you react. ↩️ You are well rid of this schmuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:21 AM |
| 5 | A Curated Selection from OLDPolyamory and similar bullshit is so noxious it’s burned in my brain from when I filled my applications to become a resident then naturalize in this country (US), there’s dozens of question boxes you have to check yes or no of things you intend to do in the US, things like: promote terrorism, try to overthrow the government, participate in paramilitary activities, practice polygamy. Going on two decades of this and STILL remember going WOW, I guess this is something that truly threatens social o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 02:24 AM |
| 858 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacitySame. I used to fill out the bio in my profile and have since stopped, but I used to include “no divorced men” and the amount of divorced men who would write me acknowledging other parts of my profile was insane. This also shows that men generally will interpret that rules made by women are optional, and that they can bend them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:53 AM |
| 15 | What do *you* think a pick-me is, and why do you think you used to be one?I think just because someone referenced an action from what they consider their pickme days, doesn’t mean it was just a mistake or one action. Obviously, for the purposes of sharing an anecdote on Reddit someone will just share the one pertinent event. I really give women credit that when they refer to themselves as having been pickmes, they’re thoughtful about it and not basing it off one single event they may be sharing on that thread. Also you seem to be projecting hard and judging that other… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:25 PM |
| 3 | I asked my boyfriend what he would do if I decided to keep the baby - was his answer a red flag?Oh you’re telling OP to “CoMmUnICaTe”, are ya? lol I was close to removing this because it goes against the rule of all advice being beneficial to women, but I left it in case the commenter would like to explain how she sees that going down. What is a successful outcome of this conversation? Ladies NEVER sit a man down and ask him to lie to you. Never ask him any variation of “did you really mean what you said?”. You’re a SUCKER and a SCHMUCK if you do that, because it’s just you asking a guy to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:05 AM |
| 8 | Dating strategy: If you're single, carefully cultivating a group of male friends is a great way to vet for mate compatibility and secure resourcesThis is too much energy to spend on men. But I get you on principle. Thing is it’s not worth the effort on the off chance that men will show you something that may or may not apply to others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 11 | “Do You Like Kids?”, Being Used to Judge if You Are a Bitch or a Nice PersonI loathe kids. With their sticky hands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Another reason why we don’t do coffee datesIf it’s $2 ride he can meet her in the city. ???? also just because it’s cheap doesn’t mean you go men in another city | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Another reason why we don’t do coffee datesManhattan to fucking Hoboken? Sis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 03:41 PM |
| -1 | “AITA For Buying My Fiancée A Lab-Grown Diamond And Refusing To Exchange It For A Natural Stone?” What does FDS think? Disclaimer: Article is pretty old, but found it on my feed. Comments are saying that he should leave her…😩You can’t resell a lab grown diamond. Id dump him. 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:32 PM |
| 75 | 'He proposed and a few days later we went ring shopping'I think he can express he wants to marry you and you can AGREE to get married, and then the next day or next few days (say, that weekend) go choose a ring, try some on irl, maybe pick something out and he can return to buy and then surprise you with a proposal. I don’t see the problem in ring shopping together after agreeing to marry, but you’re certainly not engaged until you have a ring and have been proposed to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:20 AM |
| 22 | If He Wanted To, He Would 💍Well good luck in this new chapter to you both! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 65 | If He Wanted To, He Would 💍Wow that’s really interesting. I have many questions lol Regarding being friends before, did you ever find it odd did that he didn’t pursue you at first? As if he ended up settling for you? Or if he did why weren’t you into him initially? As for your relationship, Was he also dating those 6 months, like was he faithful to you at all during that time or he was free to date/sleep with others as well? Was he okay with you seeing other men and do you ever wonder if there was a component of him “want… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:23 PM |
| 267 | If He Wanted To, He Would 💍Congrats. Six months ago you posted about starting to actively date again. Did you know this guy beforehand as a friend or if you met him then, how are you confident he’s not just shown you his good side for 6 months? Is he an ex or something? Were you exclusive this time or did you have a roster these six months? What gives you confidence that you have a good measure of who this man is and what he’s capable of enough to tie yourself to him? Genuinely curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 07:35 PM |
| 127 | Is He Negging You? 10 Signs He’s Trying To Secretly Destroy Your ConfidenceMy ex began fact-checking casual things I would mention in conversation. As in he would literally pull out his phone and google whatever I just mentioned, even if was something in my area or expertise or something casual. He did constantly and eventually started doing it around other people, as if he had to verify everything I said because he was in disbelief. This started practically overnight btw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 03:48 PM |
| 86 | Guy is sexist and racist, shocked that makes him an assholeThis guy is 26 finishing his damn bachelors with a girlfriend who is 25 and almost done with her phd. He will never, ever do better than who ever this girl is. Hopefully it ends soon ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most idiotic thing a LVM has ever told you to avoid accountability?It wasn’t even Thots but literal eligible women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 06:18 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most idiotic thing a LVM has ever told you to avoid accountability?He didn’t eat pussy because I never gave him massages | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | What’s the most idiotic thing a LVM has ever told you to avoid accountability?Lmao same I confronted him about following random women on Instagram despite he having just agreed a few weeks back that we wouldn’t and he barked at me that I was “obsessed with social media” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 01:22 PM |
| 5 | Looking for some positivity10 kilos is a LOT by any measure! Well done, happy for your improved lifestyle 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 03:41 AM |
| 190 | This made me throw up in my mouth just a littleWhy can’t men just be normal? Why can’t they have their kids at normal age (under 40) so they are fit and healthy to raise them, so they stick around to be there for them thoughout their lives. Why can they just be normal and if they find in themselves in the dating pool when they’re older just find a woman their age? Or around their age? There just as many available women in all age brackets Is being normal really that much to ask Imagine being 30 and your dad is 88 😢 he’s not gonna be around f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 02:25 AM |
| 230 | Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much pornI had a boyfriend who did not like bare cat for the reason you’re saying. He hated it said it creeped him out and felt women should keep at least some hair to not resemble a plastic doll or a little kid. He also said it was icky when it grew out, like stubble on a man’s face, and better to just keep it normal. Edit: he also wondered aloud why wax if it must be so painful and why not just shave on the sides. Bless his heart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 01:55 AM |
| 0 | In need of queenly supportAskfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Advice for Moving In with a BoyfriendIf you’re desperate to leave your parents now (but for whatever reason can’t move out alone and this guy is your exit), imagine living with a guy who makes you more or equally miserable as your parents, and having to suffer until you can’t take it anymore and then run back to your parents. If i were you I’d focus my energies in moving out on my own and being independent. Fear and desperation is the worse combination possible to move in with a man. You are certain to live to regret it. A HVM woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:17 AM |
| 36 | Trust him, he’s worth it5’8” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 01:04 PM |
| 8 | Reminder: Dont be with a man like thisI thought this pic was one of wholesome posts about buying a ps5 for yourself :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 12:39 PM |
| 9 | Do older ( 40+ ) HVM exist? And how do I find them?I am 35 and I don’t date divorced men. At this point I am severely put off by men who had a whole wife (or worse a whole family) and blew it. It’s my personal prejudice to blame the man fully. I don’t give men the benefit of the doubt. Every single divorced woman I’ve men since I was a child, has been a normal lady. At least in appearances. Nice, attractive, with it. But with divorced men, you can pretty quickly see why their wives left him. The nutty or arrogance or incompetence is obvious. I m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:59 AM |
| 66 | How soon is too soon to go to a man's homeWhy would you accept to go to a man’s house, to “watch a movie” with him and cuddle on the couch in the dark if you don’t want to have sex with him? Date him in broad daylight/nightlight. Go to places and events and activities. The only male house you should be “chilling” at is your established boyfriend’s. Not a guy you see on and off some weeks. And also 3 dates is not the same as 10. At 10 dates a guy should know if he wants to go steady. Any man inviting you over without being boyfriend and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:25 PM |
| 2 | My FDS post gets shared across another sub, and now my inbox is flooded. HELP.In our security recommendations pinned at the top, we suggest having a burner for FDS where you disallow messages and chat requests. You can turn yours off at any time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Advice Needed: My HVM Boyfriend has turned into a LVM with griefAskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Sickening. Pornsick to the point of HEADLESS women being sexy.Sub is still visible. Removed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This is a good and thoughtful post but belongs in female level up strategy. There’s nothing in here about dating strategy . Try the other sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:24 AM |
| 19 | Even in Imperial Russia, where women had to get married, community dick and age gap relationships were avoided.What a find 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:58 AM |
| 166 | These scrotes and their manipulative psychological warfare are becoming obsolete. They are beginning to understand that they are not the prize and women don't care to be involved with NV/LV males just to say "I have a man".Smiled so hard I cracked my mud mask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 03:55 AM |
| 3 | This is why venting is a must! And also, it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship because we can straight up get murdered. Some men can’t take No. Rip to these poor souls.I’ve read about this. This is a “good” one, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 12:41 AM |
| 29 | This is why venting is a must! And also, it’s hard to leave an abusive relationship because we can straight up get murdered. Some men can’t take No. Rip to these poor souls.How do you vet for murder? Aside from having kil led someone before or having beat them. Kil ling or harming animals. Okay. What else? This one is failure of the system not of the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Umm, that’s called sexual assault?? Tf, just cuz ur married doesn’t mean he can treat you any way he wants. That subreddit is a shit show.Posts that’s are screenshots require strategic or insightful commentary. Rules from October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Hovering attempt. Need suggestions for the responseAskFDS is the sub for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | What did he say? Oh wait, I don't care ^_^ (FDS art by me)I will print these and make a coloring book for myself 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Be kind to yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know. Most of us learned the hard way what we are now sharing. Going forward you are better prepared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | First Date in a Few Days, Need Help!Askfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 12:55 PM |
| -1 | Thousands of comments of women's experiences giving birth with shitty partners under a meme about a dude Shushing his wife giving birth. This one in particular got me. THANK GOD I am never pro creating with a man.Posts that are screenshots require insightful or strategic commentary from the Op. rules posted in October. Removed for low effort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | A Case Study in BLOCK and DELETE. Men are not our friends.Posts that are screenshots require strategic or insightful commentary from the OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if he's "the one"?How long did you date for before marrying? Curious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Help! Any tips for dealing with interfering colleagues?AskFDS of female level up strategy subreddits This is a general discussion dating sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Healing and taking my power backAskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 11:37 AM |
| 1 | ‘He cheats on me and doesn’t respect me but we have an incredible bond!!’ SMHPosts that are screenshots require strategic or insightful commentary with submission. Rules updated and posted in October. Feel free to repost after 3 day ban with commentary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 10:15 AM |
| 14 | Do you have any male friends?I have one since teenage years but since FDS I’m not as close to him, he is an amazing and well connected professional, and very based guy who gives great advice so he adds value for my life. As for his personal life I couldn’t give a f but ask to be polite and make small talk, but we mostly talk about life/business/strategy for things. And not that often either. Maybe every two months unless something comes up. Acquaintances and group friends I have a bunch but I never call to check in on them … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 01:10 PM |
| 13 | He resents you for being “ugly”, for reminding him that he’s not high status.Bezos was never in poverty lmao Him and his wife went to Princeton and they met working at a hedge fund. Amazon was as much hers as his, that’s why she got billions in the divorce. She didn’t even have to fight for it, it was just hers. She didn’t “selflessly help grow his business”, it was her business too. She’s now filthy rich because she also put 25 years into it just as he did. And she didn’t get stiffed AT ALL. Last year she was the 12th richest person and number 1 richest woman in the wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Current mood...🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️Removed because promotes a scarcity mindset. Memes are allowed but humor posts here encourage growth and can be self-deprecating but not defeatist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Askfds is the sub for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Besides the obvious red flags the people in the comment section are justifying the bf’s actions. Claiming that it’s his apart so he gets to SA this girl. And surprise surprise the main people saying this are scrubs and pick Mes.OP posts that are screenshots require strategic or insightful commentary to be up. Feel free to repost with a submission statement of what we can learn from this or that encourages CONSTRUCTIVE discussion. If it’s a rant you can use the pickme tags, cultural misogyny tags, etc, but you MUST develop your own post, not just share images of another sub/site. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | This woman needs a rescue mission from being gaslighted into the comments… imagine if a woman hid a kid from her husband? she would be shamed to hell….Remove the sub name from the screenshots and include strategic commentary or insightful analysis as to why you are sharing this or what we can learn from this. Screenshots dumps for the sake of them are low effort - not allowed. Feel free to report with submission statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]We have a very clear rule against low effort posts. You have several posts that look more like tweets. We do have a flair for shower thoughts for sharing short statements that encourage discussion. These must provoke insight or be strategic in some way. Please abide the rules or be banned, but stop spamming low effort posts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Did weight loss + plastic surgery make men treat you better?We have a very clear rule against low effort posts. You have several posts that look more like tweets. We do have a flair for shower thoughts for sharing short statements that encourage discussion. These must provoke insight or be strategic in some way. Please abide the rules or be banned, but stop spamming low effort posts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:03 PM |
| 90 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?Breaks agreements or promises if you fight or have an argument. Ie. He asked you to come to his cousins wedding two months ago. Two weeks ago you had a fight over whatever and he uninvites you. Or you asked him to post a picture of you guys and he agreed and when a few days go by and you follow up, he says he’s not posting it until it feels natural to him you, but he hadn’t said anything until then Basically any guy who says he’s gonna do something but then doesn’t because his mood changed or mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 1 | I’m (F, 26) struggling to overcome a traumatic situationship one year on. Any advice is appreciated!Askfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:52 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Met him on tinder 2 days ago. Wtf.Posts that are screenshots require strategic commentary or insight. Feel free to report with strategic submission statement. It’s in the rules update from October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:50 AM |
| 1 | This book summary sounds like a LVM’s wet dream. Either written by a man or a pickme fo shoPosts that are screenshots require strategic commentary or insight. Feel free to report with strategic submission statement. It’s in the rules update from October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:50 AM |
| 1 | You really can’t explain anything to them. Clearly dodged a bullet. I don’t think you understand the concept of respect my dude. Also, no one calls men “males” like they do women “females”. Never lmao stfu clownPosts that are screenshots require strategic commentary or insight. Feel free to report with strategic submission statement. It’s in the rules update from October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:50 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Female level up strategy subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:49 AM |
| 2 | I need reassurance that I made right decision leaving himAskFDS is the sub for personal questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Who knows what this poor girl was told when she was 18-19 to do porn…Posts that are screenshots require strategic commentary or insight. Feel free to report with strategic submission statement. It’s in the rules update from October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:46 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]AskFDS is the sub for these. This is the general discussion sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | I don't know what to do. My partner of 3 years seems too.... Perfect I guess.AskFDS is the sub for this this is a general discussion sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Making better decisionsAskFDS is the sub for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | This is why I hate Freud. (Oedipus complex)Posts that are screenshots require strategic commentary or insight. Feel free to report with strategic submission statement. It’s in the rules update from October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Talk me off this ledge!AskFDS is the sub for personal advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:43 AM |
| 1 | They had sex before marriage, but after marrying he treats her like this??? Whats going on? A real NVM // (let me know if I used the wrong flair)Posts that are screenshots require strategic commentary or insight. Feel free to report with strategic submission statement. It’s in the rules update from October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Is anyone else sick of seeing YouTube recommend these types of videos to you?Posts that are screenshots require strategic commentary or insight. Feel free to report with strategic submission statement. It’s in the rules update from October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:32 AM |
| 1 | 'Tis the Season for Max Scrotatiousness... Ho Ho Ho!Posts that are screenshots require strategic commentary to remain up. Feel free to repost with a strategic submission statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:30 AM |
| 5 | How to get guys to plan dates when they are the one traveling to you?You don’t GET men to do anything, either he does it on his own and you keep seeing him, you date him, you marry him, stay married to him, or you stop seeing him, break up with him, divorce him. The kind of effort a guy puts into dates naturally shows what he thinks his role in the relationship is. That’s the expectation he accepts for himself and he will always fall back To that level. If he doesn’t have the initiative you need, he’s not for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 02:17 AM |
| – | I need advice about workplace sexual harassmentOP you have a picture of yourself - full face frontal - on a Harry Potter sub. I also see you added many comments with info that can make you easy to identify including your location and not generally, family info, work info, specific job you have, etc. This sub can make you a target of a lot of hate online and in real life. It is no joke, the kind of threats we receive here. I advise you check our safety recommendations and I suggest you do a wipe of this account and start afresh, with a throwa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:55 AM |
| 7 | Here are a few OLD phrases to look out for as a High Value Women:Can’t wait to try this irl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:46 AM |
| 6 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersThe ridiculous thing about this is how little worth they’re placing on their body then. It’s like, I probably wouldn’t let a date casually pay off my mortgage because I’d suspect this is a compromising gift. But dinner? A new phone? A new laptop? Maybe a couple of mortgage payments if we’re dating and I’m in a spot? Absolutely. It’s not for sale but if it were, it certainly wouldn’t be for the price of dinner, a bag, or an iPhone. Letting yourself be treated is the mindset of a well/adjusted wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 07:25 PM |
| 25 | Here are a few OLD phrases to look out for as a High Value Women:“Looking for an xxxx, xxxx, INDEPENDENT, xxxx woman” = looking to go 50-50 Any version of this: career-oriented, ambitious, etc. Imo These things don’t mean what they normally mean in an old profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 01:31 PM |
| 6 | I need advice about workplace sexual harassmentI think this man will hurt you sooner than you could ever expect. He has escalated insanely in two months. If i were you I would hit the road immediately, go back to wherever I came from (your town or family) and file both a police report and a report at work. Make the biggest stink possible. This guy isn’t just harradssing you he’s already assaulted you and clearly lives in An alternate reality of his own where he doesn’t fear management in the slightest. First you get physically away from him,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 01:13 PM |
| 20 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsAffair in 3… 2… 1… glad this woman is getting ready to leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 01:02 PM |
| 49 | Here are a few OLD phrases to look out for as a High Value Women:A guy asked on OLD me how a gorgeous girl like me could be single and I said “oh I’m not single I’m poly just branching out wbu” (I’m not poly) and he unmatched lol Update: a guy I was talking to for a couple of days asked if I wanted to get off the app and talk on zoom. 💁🏼♀️??????????? I said no, I use zoom for work you don’t use regular apps? He asked “like WhatsApp?” I said “idk but zoom seems something like a cheater would suggest so bye” and unmatched. Come to think of It I shouldn’t have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | We're not about that lifeOP posts that are screenshots must include strategic commentary from the OP, basically a strategy or insightful submission statement. It’s in the rules from October. Feel free to repost with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:40 PM |
| 4 | The post says it all. If he’s too “stressed out” to talk to you he’s not all that interested sis.OP posts that are screenshots must include strategic commentary from the OP, basically a strategy or insightful submission statement. It’s in the rules from October. Feel free to repost with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Pick me! I’m cool! I don’t need a man to put in effort! Pick me!!OP posts that are screenshots must include strategic commentary from the OP, basically a strategy or insightful submission statement. It’s in the rules from October. Feel free to repost with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:39 PM |
| 4 | This has got to be one of the worst cases of "I don't think my boyfriend is toxic, he's just _______", well in this case, a freaking demon. I thought I saw it all, guess not!OP posts that are screenshots must include strategic commentary from the OP, basically a strategy or insightful submission statement. It’s in the rules from October. Feel free to repost with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:36 PM |
| 1 | This is too funny 🙄If his success is with or without me why would I stick around and support him? So he can take the bag and run? No. Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Dog bites man because girl is screaming during sex and his reaction makes him a “keeper”?A guy I dated that was following his exes and random women on social media, accused me of being obsessed with social media when I told him I wasn’t okay with that and demanded he stop or we’d be done (now I don’t even ask I just end it). The darvo was unreal. Actually snapped and told me I gave social media too much importance, that it wasn’t even real life and that it wasn’t healthy to care so much about it. We dated in the first place because years ago I had an Instagram linked to my old and h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Dog bites man because girl is screaming during sex and his reaction makes him a “keeper”?Should have called him gay in return because fucking in the ass is what homosexual men do. Or a pedo because wtf does this guy even think, that children won’t have anal but adults will? What a gnarly messed up thing to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Queens Bringing the Bar Out of Hell (FDS Art by me)Someone needs to make an Instagram filter with this little floating 👑 🥺🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 01:01 PM |
| 2 | When pickmes parrot LVM propagandaI dance awkward and clunky 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 12:42 PM |
| 14 | Emotional terrorists will put your life, health, AND beauty on the line.What a thoughtful response thank you! I’m quite intrigued by the part about bloodwork, as I’m wondering how to discern the shift from a manageable anxiety towards a sort of systemic disregulation of your literal freaking nervous system. This must be common in situations of long term chronic abuse and I wish there was a way to ask for “a test” for it. Probably all those hormone glands get crazy and such. Have you read the book the body keeps score? I’ve got it but haven’t made the time to read it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 03:00 AM |
| 18 | Emotional terrorists will put your life, health, AND beauty on the line.What is a good resource to determine if it’s your nervous system that’s messed up and how to fix it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 11:04 PM |
| 12 | I don’t have a car and I live with my mom but if you pick me up and cook for me I’ll send you to rehab (respectfully). Found on a Facebook group I’m in and… wow I’m so glad I’m married.This is like Molly Bloom on crack 😵💫😮💨 Edit: from Ulysses by James Joyce https://poetrydispatch.wordpress.com/2008/06/16/james-joyce-molly-blooms-soliloquy/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 11:00 PM |
| 602 | Wonder why he stuck around for 3 dates... Just when you think men can't get any worseAt least he didn’t string her along or sleep with her and then dump her. The lesson I take away from this is that when a man rejects you, don’t dig for the reason. It’s nothing you want to hear and it will hurt and not be constructive at all. If everything was going right but there’s something in your behavior that turned him off, what are you gonna do with that info, beg him to take you back? On the flip side if it’s nothing you did but he just doesn’t feel that way about you, like this guy, do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 03:10 PM |
| 0 | An increasing number of women are paying alimony to LVM husbandsYou’re not the first person to post disinformation about prenups on here based on allegedly anecdotal evidence. Nobody should be taking legal advice from strangers on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Judging women for loving animalsThis guy really couldn’t fathom that we domesticated these animals for companionship? Literally we give them food and protection and shelter, in exchange for their company. The fact that a scrotes cant comprehend this shows how beyond selfish they are, that at their very core, they can’t even grasp legitimately transactional relationships. That’s why they think that you have to do the housework, have a day job, pay 50-50, raise the kids, give him blowjobs…. And he pays his 50. They can’t fathom … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | An increasing number of women are paying alimony to LVM husbandsThey can’t. Read my above comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:17 PM |
| 1 | An increasing number of women are paying alimony to LVM husbandsCompletely false. I’m an attorney and at least in the United States the vast majority of prenups stand no matter how unfair (“inequitable”) they are. Traditionally some courts would modify prenups that were inequitable at signing only, but if it ended up seeming unfair in the future too bad. Presently most courts don’t even consider if it’s inequitable or not. They just care that there not be fraud, namely in the form of one party not disclosing full information about their assets or liabilities… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 12:16 PM |
| 81 | US-based women who are actively dating/in relationships: Protect your wombI want to add to this that even if you are taking abortions pills you need to be somewhere where you can get access to healthcare. It’s not particularly dangerous in itself but when you take an abortion pill I believe you take two (the abortion pill itself and one that encourages contractions to expel the contents of the uterus) and if for whatever reason you don’t respond to the expelling pills, you need to have a manual “cleanse” at a hospital, you don’t want to be camping or in the middle of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 12:28 PM |
| 7 | US-based women who are actively dating/in relationships: Protect your wombSome *genetic screening is available before the amnio timeline - it’s called cvs chorionic villius sampling, very useful if you have reason to believe you may have some translocation (I think 11:22 is 1 in 500 people who have it) you can likely get this done out of pocket though. I think it can be done at around 10-12 weeks. If someone knows more feel free to expand. But commenting in case someone may be interested in keeping their baby but has a risk of genetic disease - know there is earlier t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 12:21 PM |
| 509 | Never beg a man to marry youNow I’m wondering if this guy “travels for work” and he has a whole family some place else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Mom said something that really bugged meShe’s right about the rotation though. That said, even though she’s your mother you are old enough at 27 to have to justify your romantic choices to anyone. Just kill the topic when it comes up, and that’s that. Find you peace and live it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Annoyed with How Pressured Women Are Not to Be Angry or Bitter After a BreakupIf you are dealing with a man who can’t control his reactions to his feelings, and you manage to control how he feels, you will certainly wrap him around your finger. The problem is that you wouldn’t want to be with a guy like this long term because if you can push his buttons like this, someone else can too 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 03:08 PM |
| 21 | Annoyed with How Pressured Women Are Not to Be Angry or Bitter After a BreakupI do think women as class need to learn it because of this: If you can’t separate your feelings from your expression of those feelings, whoever can trigger your feelings controls you. Im not saying women have “an obligation”. I’m saying it’s in women’s best interest to control their emotional expressions radically, because it’s what society uses the most again us. If some women want to freely express their feelings, to whomever caused them, as they feel them, with no plan or strategy or regard a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:53 PM |
| 212 | Male friends and brothers will 'pity' my bfI know a guy who thought simp was a way of calling someone stupid, like “simpleton” and he said “that’s not nice” 🥺 I thought that was so wholesome and damn the bar is in hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:28 PM |
| 48 | Annoyed with How Pressured Women Are Not to Be Angry or Bitter After a BreakupI agree there is no “should” when it comes to feelings. But women need to learn to separate their feelings from their external expressions. As long as you are not gaslighting yourself, or staying silent and not defending yourself, whilst being smeared and lied about, I really think going silent cold turkey, dead pan, no reaction is the path. Save your tears and outrage for the divorce judge. Let the guy never see it coming. Men use our emotions against us, never forget it. The less emotion you g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:23 PM |
| 156 | Annoyed with How Pressured Women Are Not to Be Angry or Bitter After a BreakupPersonally, I’ve never felt pressured to act okay after a breakup. I’ve faked it because to me it’s more important to not give a man the satisfaction. So anything he can see, hear or find out about me, will reflect that I didn’t care, I don’t care and am unlikely to care in the future. To my close circle, of course I will vent and ruminate and let it out, but to the world it will look like I am cold hearted bitch. And I’m okay with this. I’m not afraid to express my anger or hurt and I don’t fee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 50 | I will let you guys tear into this one 🤣 keep in mind that the screenshots are NOT from a dating app so that makes it even worse. This app is solely for writing letters to people in different countries and making friends“Habitual liars”? So it’s okay to lie sporadically, gotcha 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Have you dated a man that can actually clean up?Actually all of them Kept a clean house. But! One had the messiest car - not dirty with food or smelly but just dry cleaning, work tools, an old lap top, scarfs, you name it. It was so annoying. Supposedly he hadn’t emptied it out because he didn’t have the time and COVID had the car cleaning places closed 🙄🙄 this same guy had a spotless home but he would double dip his dirty spoon in the hummus, cream cheese, etc and put back in the fridge. He would also wear the same jeans for days, repeat soc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Woman asks if it’s unreasonable for her to have boundaries over porn, Internet tries to shame her. Also, note that she does EVERYTHING for this man.Posts that are just screenshots must include insightful or strategic commentary by the OP, that other women can learn from, or that genuinely encourage discourage based on contribution by the OP. Feel free to repost with commentary. Rules were posted a month ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Even your knickers aren’t safe from themPosts that are just screenshots must include insightful or strategic commentary by the OP, that other women can learn from, or that genuinely encourage discourage based on contribution by the OP. Feel free to repost with commentary. Rules were posted a month ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:29 PM |
| 71 | Model Christy Giles Found Dead at 24 - three men dropped her dead body outside of a hospital after drugging her and her friends during a night out. THIS IS WHY YOU DON'T TRUST MEN AT ALL.I believe this language is because there were reports of heroin in their systems but neither of them were users Edit: yeah looks like the husband told some press that there was heroin in christys system but she obv didn’t do heroin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:51 AM |
| 38 | Model Christy Giles Found Dead at 24 - three men dropped her dead body outside of a hospital after drugging her and her friends during a night out. THIS IS WHY YOU DON'T TRUST MEN AT ALL.Some sources are saying there was heroin in their systems so I get what you’re trying to say, that they weren’t doing heroin. I believe her husband also said that neither of the girls would ever do heroin voluntarily so it was forced on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 12:51 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about a man opening up and telling you he goes to therapy on the second date?Was it court mandated? 😬 Just ask him what he likes the most about it and if it’s what he expected. Make it casual while you maybe doing something else. Ask if there’s anybody in his life who he thinks would benefit from therapy, if it’s all it’s cracked up to be , if anybody was surprised to hear he was in therapy etc. I don’t think it’s a red flag to mention it depending on your circle. Depending on location tons of people men and women are into self care and well, young people today are more … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 08:34 PM |
| 36 | women - vet, vet, vet! because you don't want to be married and with children to a man that thinks like this! motherhood penalty & fatherhood bonus exist! inquire about their thoughts on the labour force and what they think are the sources of wage inequality!I “help” raise the child ?? This guy is a lazyass. I feel bad for his parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:50 PM |
| 57 | FDS is NOT categorically against OLD.It also perpetuates a false sense of control in women, as if there’s a checklist of things you need to do/avoid that will guarantee you find hvm. As if meeting him through friends or him paying for dates and vacation make him HV. As if somehow it’s protective. It’s exactly how OP puts it- most men are low value, regardless of where you find them. Don’t think because you met him in your church group he’s somehow better than a guy on OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:56 AM |
| 33 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”This is correct. Communicating is asking men to tell you what you want to hear. Edit to add: of course you can “communicate” in the literal sense, but remember communicating is more for telling someone what you want them to do (I want to go on vacation can you take me? Can you call me on the drive home on the days we don’t meet In person, so i don’t stay up late to catch up?) not for telling how you want them to behave or treat you (can you please not call me names when we argue? Can you reply t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 06:38 PM |
| 84 | Telling women to “just communicate” with their uncaring, oblivious, self centered partners is the advice equivalent of asking, “Have you tried turning off and back on again?”This is a good reflection but to me the equivalent of turning on and off would be an ultimatum or dumping somebody until they self-correct. For instance, I dated a guy who was in touch doing favors and nonsense to his long term ex. Once I became aware of this I told him I wasn’t okay with that, that I don’t entertain any of my exes much less am chummy with them. He stated I wasn’t going to control his friendships and who he could talk to or not, etc. So I dumped him. Right? turned off Then he ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 04:25 PM |
| 38 | What's acceptable in terms of expressing interest in semi-social non-OLD settings?Women don’t express interest. They only reciprocate interest to the degree he expresses his, and in accordance to the ebb and flow of his own. Picture a seesaw and if he doesn’t move then you don’t either. If he moves a little you move a little. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:12 AM |
| 18 | Her Persistence Paid Off: How many red flags can you count in this wedding announcement?I missed this one! 🤕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 12:26 PM |
| 54 | Her Persistence Paid Off: How many red flags can you count in this wedding announcement?I get the vibe that the ex-wife ran this announcement 🤭 and did it just right Edit: a topaz ring 😩❤️🩹❤️🩹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 12:21 PM |
| 27 | The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post.I think if you pulled the guy off online dating, or straight from the street into your life then yeah it’s too little. But if you know him socially for a longer time (you’ve heard the gossip about him, his baggage, etc) then 6 months in your 30s is good to propose. Set a date for six months later so it will be a year. I am 35 and I don’t see myself dating a guy for two years. Not even for marriage reasons, it just really seems boring to me. I feel like after six months it’s more of the same? Eit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 12:11 PM |
| 4 | How do you establish financial independence?Just because you don’t trust your parents doesn’t mean plenty of us don’t trust ours. And no where in the rules does it say the sub is for perfect advice. If something doesn’t work for you then simply disregard it. There are plenty of us who trust our nuclear families with delicate things such as livelihood and backup plans. Personally my parents haven’t had a creditor in 20 years, so “creditors” are not a concern. Could they fall into drugs and spend it all? Sure but that’s not realistic for a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 04:28 AM |
| 6 | Sisters: They are publicly and actively supporting the overturn of Roe v. Wade. They would sooner put us back in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant than recognize us as humans with choice. How will we protect our rights?I agree it’s unlikely because the arguments don’t stick. Luckily people that oppose it are making moralistic arguments but is certainly passed constitutional review - as is today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 02:11 AM |
| 23 | Another stage of the vetting process- are they there for you in times of grief?Tbf, I also cut people off with not a peep again. I left my fiancé while he was at work. Moved out he never saw or heard from me again. The cognitive dissonance in this guy whom I was extremely loyal to and tolerant of all the way to the bitter end, trying to work things out no matter what… I bet he still doesn’t believe I was a bitch capable of leaving him cold turkey all along. In fact, in one of his emails he kept raging about other people talking me into leaving him lmao Nobody did. But he u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 01:22 AM |
| -1 | How do you establish financial independence?Well I thought it was obvious that if you don’t trust your parents don’t give money to them. Guess k need to spell it out for you so: if you don’t trust your relatives don’t follow my advice because if you gift them cash they don’t have a legal obligation to “gift it back”. Hope this clarifies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 12:06 AM |
| 51 | Sisters: They are publicly and actively supporting the overturn of Roe v. Wade. They would sooner put us back in the kitchen barefoot and pregnant than recognize us as humans with choice. How will we protect our rights?Maybe you didn’t watch Amy Coney Barrett’s confirmation hearing last year where she very clearly, in several different ways, stated that she does not consider Roe v Wade to be settled law. In her view (which is arguable) the fact so many people consider it legitimately up for constitutional debate means it’s not settled. The fact that a suit would be filed against it, in good faith, with some potential merit based on honest, sound legal arguments that are not patently offensive to our zeitgeist.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | I just saw this in another sub..Posts that are screenshots require insightful commentary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Saw this on a tiktok about a universal help signal. She has good intentions, but I can't help but think this could end up being dangerous for girls it's supposed to helpFeel free to repost with comm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Update to needing support to leave my boyfriend once and for allAskFDS subreddit. This is a general discussion sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Saw this on a tiktok about a universal help signal. She has good intentions, but I can't help but think this could end up being dangerous for girls it's supposed to helpPosts that are images require strategic insight or commentary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Good non-misogynist financial advisor firm?Female level up strategy is the sub for this . This is dating sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 198 | Grown ass 30+ year old men taking highschool/college girls way too seriouslyTheir target audience who buys their content is probably loser insecure young men vulnerable to manipulation and hate indoctrination. Well-adjusted normal, healthy 30soemthing men aren’t the customers of these guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | If he proposes to you with a Ring Pop, he is not a keeper.The reply to this is correct. Removing. Feel free to repost with strategic or insightful commentary that others can learn from/discuss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:41 PM |
| 316 | Is Taylor Swift a “Forever Girlfriend”Taylor swift will be worth a billion dollars before she’s 35. She’s absolutely better off never marrying. None of Taylor’s peers are in the same level as her. This relationship has been super private so Taylor will probably turn up married with a baby. She’s no dummy. Whatever she wears or does in public is curated. That said, she didn’t seem ti take any crap when she was younger. The reason she had so many boyfriends and so many exes to write songs about is that she dated a lot and had no troub… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 11:58 AM |
| 19 | "Do you want to hang out sometime?"“What do you mean? I am, I’m hanging out right now” “No, with me. Together”. “Oh, nah, I prefer to hang out with myself”. Leave him to re read that exchange all day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:24 AM |
| 53 | Love Story that You Find InspirationalThe late RBG and her husband | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:23 AM |
| 10 | How do you establish financial independence?Anything can be lost. Id rather my parents lose it than lose it in a contentious divorce. Better to just gift it and have it off your hands imo. Investments you make while married are generally marital. There are no guarantee and obviously some people may have irresponsible relatives so theyre better off not doing this. But if your parents/unmarried siblings are reliable and trustworthy, I’d rather gift my sister a q few grand every few months to help with “her student loans”. What’s he going to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:52 AM |
| 116 | [deleted by user]Not to mention having beautiful kids, which will increase their chances of success in life because the world favors and prefers the good-looking! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:57 AM |
| 105 | How do you establish financial independence?Having a job (active income). This will also give you mental independence as you’re not occupied with busywork which men really don’t respect. Having a source of passive income entirely independent form him ie. Like rental property in your family’s name. Having savings that only you can access. Squirrel way money/put assets in the name of your mom and dad, younger unmarried sister etc. Having credit that you can pull on immediately if you need to get back on your feet or something. If married do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:42 AM |
| 9 | Why LVM don’t care about creating single momsIf I married a man with kids, I assume I eventually will have them on my own at times. I’m their stepmother?? It’s not watching. It’s parenting/step parenting. If they live in my house I’m responsible to them to a degree. I don’t mind watching them if they’re my step kids. They’d be my family. Geez I assume if a hv marries a man with kids she understand she has has a parental role, the role of a step parent. It’s real and I’ve seen it successfully in my own family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 04:16 PM |
| 8 | Why LVM don’t care about creating single momsYes I’m okay with a woman who’s not related to my kids watching them and I also believe she can care about them lol ??? If it happens it happens and it always can. A hvm can find a hvw as a second wife whether you divorce or die. If I trust him enough to have kids with, I trust his judgement to pick a mate or stay single I also do trust other people to watch my kids, if I have them. What am I supposed to do? Be with them 24/7? I don’t want to be that kind of parents. As long as it’s appropriate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 11:05 AM |
| 11 | Why LVM don’t care about creating single momsThat’s what I wrote. If both parents are hv. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 04:11 AM |
| 36 | Why LVM don’t care about creating single momsI’ve considered this as a potential advantage of divorcing. Instead of the man having his cake and eating it, you’re divorced and you split custody 50-50. Maybe two weeks with you and two weeks with him? Then you have your kids for raising and quality time but also you get a massive break from them. And the man HAS to pull his weight financially and logistically. If he’s a hvm, he’ll also find a good second wife that can be a great asset to your kids even in case something happens to you. Maybe … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 03:47 AM |
| 4 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.Np feel free to repost it there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 07:05 PM |
| 4 | I’m tired of doing emotional labor, ladies.Ask FDS is the sub for this . This is a general discussion sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:37 PM |
| 127 | LV partners who ask to see us in VERY specific lingerieSend him a link to the website so he can see how expensive it is. Ask for the cash then buy some similar looking cheap, low quality garbage from VS. Profit. Put that extra grand in your rainy day/emergency fund. You’re welcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 04:24 PM |
| 8 | The Bar is in Hell ExpressionsNYC was filled with these during the summer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:51 PM |
| 162 | What HV behavior looks likeCompare to all the men packing the last planes to leave, while leaving behind all the women and children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 12:39 PM |
| 52 | More of a Reason Why Blocking & Deleting is So ImportantiT’s gOd’S pLaN i GuEsS I sure hope god isn’t real because if he is this scrote gave him a stroke 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionThey were already married, so in sickness and in health? :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:15 PM |
| 7 | The manosphere line that men hit their peak in their late 30s and 40s is a biological lie - male fertility begins to decline once the man is over the age of 34.Guys about 30 look way too young to me too! 🤦🏻♀️ might as well be fresh out it college | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:07 PM |
| 18 | Guy I was talking to defends his misogynistic comments and covers them up as banter and jokes with his friends and tells me if I won’t accept him then to leave which I did. I can’t accept him for who he is because I don’t reward pornsick, misogynistsYou weren’t asking him to change sis. You were asking him to tell you what you wanted to hear. Lucky for you he didn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:29 PM |
| 53 | Guy I was talking to defends his misogynistic comments and covers them up as banter and jokes with his friends and tells me if I won’t accept him then to leave which I did. I can’t accept him for who he is because I don’t reward pornsick, misogynistsToo much words and you set yourself up for failure. I’ll explain: not only should you have blocked and deleted him asap, not engaged after he said what he said, but instead you were serving on a silver platter the opportunity for this guy tu lie to you. You’re literally asking him to tell you what you want to hear. Which in this case, is the opposite of what he’d just said. In writing. Most women aren’t so lucky. Most men won’t admit to labels, won’t admit to wrongdoing and won’t admit they won’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 05:34 AM |
| 8 | The manosphere line that men hit their peak in their late 30s and 40s is a biological lie - male fertility begins to decline once the man is over the age of 34.I mean I didn’t feel that way when I was 14 I really don’t remember when but I think since I was an older teen I did think late twenties celebs were the hunkiest but a 35-year old was too old? I really can’t recall but I’m certain it changes as when I was 15 I certainly found a certain 15 y/o 🔥 but now I obviously do not. It’s hard to really say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:09 AM |
| 65 | The manosphere line that men hit their peak in their late 30s and 40s is a biological lie - male fertility begins to decline once the man is over the age of 34.I always took it to mean they reached their desirability peak on account of their “providing abilities” being Their allegedly biological attraction. I never thought they actually meant their physical peak lmao clearly the best specimen in anything is a 27-29 year old man 🤌🏻chefs kiss Edit. I’m 35. I’ll stretch that age to 31-32… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Unprotected SexAskfds subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 07:16 PM |
| 40 | Recommendations on where to get background checks done on someone?Truthfinder but I pay. It’s not perfect, but it does have a history of physical addresses and email accounts they created (though some may be wrong) so you can check for profiles with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you reassure a man that you interested?You don’t. Read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Remember that BDSM stands for bad dick shitty menPosts that are screenshots must include stratgey or insightful commentary by the OP. Mods posted rules and warning early October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Woman posts date experience query. Male responds.Posts that are screenshots must include stratgey or insightful commentary by the OP. Mods posted rules and warning early October. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How to stop letting my self worth and confidence depend on other people? How to increase my self esteem?Female level up strategy is the sub for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Don't know where else to go with this but it has been weighing on me for monthsAskFDS is the subreddit for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:06 AM |
| 39 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...Basically. And according to the homeless man he had been waiting previously while chatting through the window with two guys on a motorcycle that was parked. Parked just talking to the driver through the window. He saw them turn away a few passengers too. Could have been just a crazy guy on the street but since they are invisible people just do whatever and pay them no mind.. and the drivers reaction well. Who knows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:35 AM |
| 56 | Share your experiences with violent homeless men. I'll start: he punched me in the face on public transport...Luckily my only experience with a homeless man was so far incredibly benign, to say the least. He was a literal hobo in rags who stopped me from getting in a taxi on the street when I was about 20 and explained that the taxi was denying other passengers get in until I came along and that they had been engaged with a motorcycle who was probably around. He said initially he thought the taxi had been called by whomever they were waiting for so was suspicious when I (a 20 year old girl) was about to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:53 AM |
| 176 | Judging women for loving animalsYour sister told you you “have no one”? Lmao good thing you have that dog then because yikes I’m an only child and once my parents die I’ll have no one. Loving animals is used to put down women because it means you’re not doing labor for men or other women. Physical, financial or emotional labor. They know you’re not giving another man kids and raising them. You’re not 50-50ing a man. They know you’re not beat down with exhaustion and exploited that’s why they can’t stand it. They know you live … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:21 AM |
| 30 | Do not refrain from running a background check, snooping his phone, or showing up uninvited — trust but verify. Which tactics have you used to check his credibility?As soon as you get the passcode make sure to store your fingerprint or Face ID as an ADDITIONAL print/face, so you can access the phone in case he gets fresh and changes the passcode | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 11:02 PM |
| 28 | FDS theories confirmedLmao saaame down to the the FINALLY IT WAS WORTH THE WAIT 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 05:30 PM |
| 18 | Waiting tables tonightWho cares what they think? You know your body isn’t for sale and if it were itd be for waaaaaay more than the price of sushi and drinks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do after dumping an LVMAskfds subreddit This is general discussion sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 08:21 PM |
| 150 | It doesn’t serve me to tell people that I’m happy not having had children.What is selfish about not having children? They literally don’t exist. Where do you draw the line - just having one is selfish against your second child that doesn’t exist? Or because your only child would be “alone”? But what about just having two, is that selfish as well? Next time someone says you’re selfish, look at them with a deadpan blank expression and ask “what do you mean?” When they fumble be like “I don’t understand” and just let them dig themselves into a hole until they stop Edit: … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 07:23 PM |
| 15 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?Then what are you getting from him? Anything else you can get from your girlfriends and family. Did you have privacy when you did it? (As in no roommates outside or something). Id day it could be first time awkwardness but imo that wouldn’t impact his erection, just the speed. Give it one more weekend and if it’s not great then just be friends (if he’s a nice man he may have nice male friends you meet a year or two down the line). Don’t stick around more than that. A solid, reliable erection is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 12:59 PM |
| 21 | Chris Pratt continues to be the worstThe guy I heard was Russian actually! But Chris Pratt isn’t so…. Edit: Russian American, born in America but family Russian and Ukrainian and grew up in that culture. But born and raised in Brooklyn 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 08:56 PM |
| 184 | A real "Cool Girl" is one who turns down Leonardo DiCaprioIsnt she gay though Edit: looks like now she identifies as pan sexual but back in the day (2014?) I remember her distinctly being out as wlw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:09 PM |
| 32 | "She's a cool girl" is not a compliment!Maybe he’s gay and overcompensating? I’ve heard guys brag to their friends about this but NEVER go home to brag to their parents about this because what (and I cannot stress this enough) the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 04:07 PM |
| 76 | "She's a cool girl" is not a compliment!Wait your brother came for school break to regale his sexcapades to his family? Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 12:48 PM |
| 937 | Chris Pratt continues to be the worstWhat’s with American men using the word “give” like this? Recently I heard the gossip of an acquaintance whose marriage is in the dumps talk about how his wife “won’t give him sex”. Maybe I find this wording so disturbing because English isn’t my first language but it definitely throws me off whenever I come upon it. Gave me a daughter? No! We HAD a daughter. Gave me sex? No, you HAD sex. Is this a language issue or am I right to read something sick into this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 12:42 PM |
| 5 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionI guess it’s the same mistake her mom made. Going for a Hollywood guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionShe’s a cute girl from a good family, she was young, she had money, connections, she could have found a great age appropriate baggage free educated nice guy, instead she chose this washed up chump, who isn’t even funny? Honestly with her background and not being hideous, she could have had her pick of ambitious accomplished guys. But nooooooo This pisses me off so much 😮💨😮💨😩😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 06:22 PM |
| 11 | Why Being Called "Wife Material" or "Girlfriend Material" Isn't Always a Compliment, Especially If It's Said To You By An LVM - A lot of the times, they are projecting qualities like unwarranted excessive deference, humility, obedience, bangmaid duties onto their "ideal" wife or girlfriendThe “No” 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:19 PM |
| 6 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionClipping toenails? My dad wiped my moms ass for a month after she fractured both her wrists in a biking accident. Yet to this day my mom makes him go to the backyard to clip his toenails because she can’t stand the sound or the sight of them flying everywhere. Edit: I asked my mom it was for a week after her accident but principle stands! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 12:14 PM |
| 266 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.🥺why do they hate us like this 😔😞😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Can Dropping Out Of College Be A Good Idea???This is more suited for AskFDS subreddit. This is a general discussion sub. Post it over there. That said, don’t drop out of college. Especially if you are in a third world country where upward mobility is a lot more reduced and safety nets tend to be insufficient. Push through and get your degree, especially if your parents are supporting. You won’t regret having a degree. Again, the less advanced the country the more classist people tend to be and not having at least the piece of paper will ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:01 AM |
| 5 | Help me figure out my strategy...Askfds is the subreddit for questions this is a general discussion sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:50 PM |
| 30 | Healthy things to do when you’re horny but have no partner? 🤔 (Other than the obvious)What about a martial art to burn that energy but learn to channel it actively? Tae kwon do is quite learnable as an adult | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:47 PM |
| 13 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionIs this clown trying to be like Ryan Reynolds? What a delusional clown. They don’t even have a quarter of the clout. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Advise/Support neededAskFDS is the subreddit for this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Is this a sign of an LV man?AskFDS is the sub for personal situation questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]AskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Nothing since the first kissAskfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Nothing Since First Kiss...Askfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 21 | FDS IS OFFICIALLY 200K STRONG!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🌈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 05:35 PM |
| 9 | When an ugly man is otherwise HV you can overlook it. I just wish men could.I’ll pass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:01 PM |
| 137 | Men avoiding eye contact during conversationsNerves. Guilt. Negging (manipulation), to make you chase their approval and attention. Trying to make you feel unimportant. You’re saying something that’s not to their liking so they withdraw (withhold) and don’t engage fully in order to show tacit disapproval and condition you to not do again what you’re doing/Not bring it up again. Don’t respect you. Thinking you’re stupid or beneath them. You’re being annoying and can’t take a hint that the conv is over? If these men are from work, consider t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Post this in AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:56 AM |
| 120 | Did you guys see the house wife unpopular opinion post on front page?Same 🤠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 09:48 PM |
| 127 | Dating When You’re Young/Not Intending to Marry YET?lol you’re not “taking away a hvm from women who do want to marry” If you date a guy, it get serious, he wants to marry, you don’t, you will have incompatible goals and he’ll go find someone else to marry. Just as you would do the same if it were reversed . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | At a crossroads of where to go in lifeAskfds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 08:56 PM |
| 151 | Men and grey hairIn my age group (30s) it’s mostly guys expecting you to be super fit while they are anything but. For now I only have about 6 grays but one time my serious ex literally pointed one out at lunch with his family 🥴 it was something a literal kid would do like LOOK YOU HAVE A WHITE HAIR HERE and pulled on it. You could see his parents die inside. Same guy who told me that it was a hygiene issue for women to groom their brows. Like???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend accused me out of nowhere that I'm trying to "feminize" him. I was so stunned I did not know how to respond.AskFDS This is general discussion sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]AskFDS . This is a general discussion sub not persons advice ask there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | need advicePost on askfds this is a general discussion sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Ending an emotionally abusive relationshipAsk in the AskFDS subreddit. That’s the place for personal questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 04:47 AM |
| 20 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?Any tattoo that isn’t completely covered up when wearing shorts and a polo. So no calf no forearm no neck and absolutely no face or hand tattoos. Hand tattoos are some prison gang sht to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 04:44 AM |
| 151 | Celebrity forever girlfriends & baby mama culture cont’d…I personally witnessed zany start trouble in a bar in NYC this summer. The people he was messing with were classy enough to not respond and take care of the situation. He looked like he was off his face on drugs and his accent was horrendous. I did not expect a guy that looks like that to speak how he spoke it was beyond off putting. I was projecting on him lol I had never seen him speak | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 04:38 AM |
| 22 | Don't Pretend That Rats Don't ExistWaiting for the jezebel follow up where they accuse FDS of equating men with rats !!! 😄😄😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 02:25 AM |
| 13 | Does he accidentally break/ruin your things? Or is it covert domestic violence?Even today if I leave stuff at my parents house she’ll toss it with some bs excuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 05:43 PM |
| 21 | Do not take me to a horror movie as a date 🚩Unrelated but do you know a good resource to watch only horror online? About 8 years ago there was a huge site devoted to horror going back to the 60s and they took it down for piracy. Do you know a current one? Even if paid obv | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 05:34 PM |
| 29 | What are your thoughts?You don’t know what she lives like, just what she posts. Theres a chance she’s hypergamous and showcases this stuff on social media to let other guys know to not even bother if they can’t keep up. Maybe she chucks them at 6 months once they don’t propose or she realizes they’re not it, and shamelessly moves on to the next one. We should all keep it moving at all times, now, Whether you post about it is another thing but like others said, focus on improving your life. There’s much more to drawing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 01:08 PM |
| 102 | Does he accidentally break/ruin your things? Or is it covert domestic violence?Just realized my mother did this constantly 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Post on askFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Post on AskFDS subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Post on askfds subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:31 AM |
| 39 | The self-aware LVMAh, this must be the covert narc those YouTube videos talk about! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 01:37 AM |
| 269 | Men Who are Still Friends With their ExesNo. If it’s just the one, they haven’t let go especially if they’ve ever been on and off. If it’s several, it screams narc harem. I absolutely don’t tolerate this because I was the chump caught in the middle of two maladjusted individuals before, and I was clueless for about a year. He actively lied though. Regardless: Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 11:58 PM |
| 554 | Upholding boundaries around porn/sex work/strip clubs is not insecure. Actually, it’s the opposite of insecure.There’s nothing more secure than dumping someone who violated your boundary. Instead of explaining, negotiating, showing your hurt and basically begging someone to take a second chance at respecting you. And if that boundary is minimized by society, and you’re going against the grain by enforcing it, time and time again, even if it means you end up alone? That takes self esteem of steel. Security isn’t just unmatching idiots on OLD as soon as they say something stupid, it’s throwing the whole ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 8 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupWhat a doozy. Stay strong! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:01 PM |
| 49 | What are your ladies’ opinions on finances when moving in with a boyfriend/fiancé/husband?Boyfriend and fiancé and husband are not even close in range. Moving in with a boyfriend is a recipe for disaster. Talk is cheap. He’s your fiancé when you have a ring, everybody has seen the ring, it’s posted everywhere and you have a date. The only situation I can see to move in with a fiancé is when logistics demand it: like you were long distance and now need to plan a wedding together. You are so, so young if I were you I’d enjoy your freedom. Live in the dorms or with your friends. Unless … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:53 PM |
| 19 | Beware of neggingOnce you’re married? Not entirely kidding. Just have a semi realistic fake one that doesn’t look that fake and add him on it. Personally I regret ever adding any of my serious boyfriends. One of them hacked my ig (I think by duplicating my number thus resetting the password) I never found out, this was while we were still dating mind you. Another one and I had a disagreement about an artwork (yes literally) years after we broke up and I blocked him on everything but he found the handles of some … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:35 PM |
| 175 | Beware of neggingOr any line that is unnatural (you wouldn’t say it to come on to a girl at a bar) or forces labor/performance on you, like: “If you could wake up anywhere tomorrow where would it be and why?” (No hi, no nothing. Literally this as the first line). 🥱 Unless you’re my best friend and we’re blazing as we stargaze in a field, don’t ask me shit like this. Please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:28 PM |
| 107 | Beware of neggingIt would be funny to have a fake instagram with just the same pics you have on your OLD profile and let these guys follow you there. Edit: if you do this make sure to create it with a new email, that doesn’t link to you in any way, don’t add your phone number, don’t tag places, or follow people from your real life. Don’t send yourself stuff from that account either, in case they hack it. And make sure to block these guys from your real accounts as soon you get their username, so you don’t appear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:05 PM |
| 6 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupYour poor freaking kids! I thought you were about to say their dirty clothes or something. Gosh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:59 PM |
| 47 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.Thank you. I just want to say for other people reading that I wasn’t prepared to leave at all but I did. There is no perfect time to leave, unless you count yesterday. I was in disbelief for a long time, about how he could turn on me like he did. Still, though I’m happy and dating and would never want him back, it’s just a mindfuck of cognitive dissonance. As for telling him anything, he knew exactly how he was being a jerk to me. I believe he was just too much of a coward to break it off and in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:15 PM |
| 94 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.It’s just a token red pill term. We don’t apply, use or promote red pill concepts here, but learning the vocab for yourself is useful as a dog whistle so you can better spot men who suscribe to that mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 04:02 AM |
| 229 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.It’s indispensable to raise awareness about negging. It can happen at any time in a relationship and if you aren’t wise to it, you’ll just think it’s a criticism or a thoughtless comment. I had a serious ex and in our case, only once we were engaged and moved in (previously LDR) did he dare neg me. At first I believed I was maybe realizing he was truly an idiot (that was another reckoning) and then it hit me: he was negging me. About 3 weeks before I left him I was in the kitchen in leggings and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:19 AM |
| 17 | Are you okay with your male partner only having female friends?HA! I love this poll! It fixed my night as soon as I saw the results | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 02:58 AM |
| 498 | How to you feel about the idea that "most men don't marry the woman they love the most. They marry the woman that’s around when they’re ready to marry."I think this is very common, in fact I woke say it is the norm for men who end up marrying many years after they’re financially stable. But if they are in love, most men just need to be stable for a year or two to pop the question. If you’re dating a man that’s pushing 40 and he’s been able to provide for a wife/family since he’s 32… you ain’t the one. Idk if this makes sense. But men fall in love just as much and just as hard as women, and if he was in love when he couldn’t provide, or could pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Timeline advice?Post this on AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:48 PM |
| 71 | Woman comments “we Stan a short king” on random videos on Tik Tok. Men take the bait every single timeThe background music 🎶 looool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 06:46 PM |
| 189 | Thanks to r/FDS I was able to walk away from a BDSM obsessed man! Thank you so much!I hope a guy tells me this one day so I can deadpan ask him “what’s rimming?”, watch him squirm explaining and I’ll be like “EEEEWWWWWW!!!! You want me to WHAT!?!” And shame him so hard. Because imagine looking a stranger in the face, a stranger you’re trying to romance and saying to them you look forward to them licking your anus. That’s fucking disgusting. I’m not looking to catch E. coli by way of scrote butt. Might as well stop washing my hands every time I wipe. Yuck. Jesus take the wheel w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:59 PM |
| 51 | I wouldn't touch that guy with a ten foot stick after he pulled this kind of shit. He agrees to pay first date if she pays for the next, she ends up being footed with a bill 4x what he paid.An older man I hadn’t even dated but knew *through work offered to pay a 4k higher education course for me once. I absolutely took him up on his offer and was just extra nice to him going forward. Id text to check in - when I changed jobs, when pandemic began, when wild protesting was going on in the US summer of 2020. Never beyond a friendly acquaintance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 04:51 PM |
| 34 | Nothing but the audacity.You need to study the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 02:41 PM |
| 32 | Men's hair turns white faster then women's do. Idk how the world still believes we age fasterSMV is a red pill term. This language isn’t welcome in this sub. We don’t use these concepts here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 2 | I think I’m being stalked. Should i tell him i have a boyfriend?Delete nothing. Save as much evidence as you can. Request they don’t contact you and never reply after that. Don’t block them so they can dig themselves into a bigger whole, maybe even threaten you. Go to police now, don’t wait, so you can build up a trail. Insist at the police. Even if they dismiss you keep insisting. Lastly, post this on AskFDS subreddit where it fits more than here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 10:43 PM |
| 52 | PSA: Beware of “no shave November.”I’m down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Why did he choose her over me?OP this post is suited better to AskFDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 01:25 PM |
| 84 | Flirting tips + dating when not ready for marriageAll of these things you mentioned are you approaching the guy and initiating, whether directly or indirectly. Even if indirectly, ya relationship that starts off with you initiating will be nothing but trouble. My recommendation is to read the handbook and the top rated posts on the sub. A couple of times over. You will see that FDS isn’t for when you’re ready for marriage, it’s not a man-catching strategy lol it’s for life. And it will be crucially so once you’re vulnerable within a marriage, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Narc Speak Handy Pocket GuidePosts with screenshots must have strategic or insightful commentary from the OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 02:30 PM |
| 20 | My little garden - some musingsI’m starting to think this is more common than we would think…. As is every complaint on this sub… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 10:54 PM |
| 21 | My little garden - some musingsOh I wish. Id taken him back a year in 🤡 gotten engaged and it took me an extra year to dip for good. Luckily COVID meant actual wedding was pushed back 😩in that second year we were together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 21 | My little garden - some musingsYeah maybe it was a neg and I didn’t catch on lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 10:28 PM |
| 35 | My little garden - some musingsI think it is manipulative and abusive like you say. A way to claim youre so ungrateful, and at the same time, it was a way to keep me small? During lockdown we hung out daily with his retired parents and siblings, and though I’m just basic at guitar I’m quite good at singing and writing songs with it! So I’m sure they would have been impressed that I tended to be good at a bunch of random things (cooking, sports, etc). Like I wasn’t a gym goer, or super fit, but I was good at sports if that mak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 10:13 PM |
| 37 | My little garden - some musingsSince I moved back to my own city, I got my old stuff including my own guitar back and I’ve definitely used it some :) As for the makeup the jokes on him because since I left so soon after that he didn’t even see me use it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 10:07 PM |
| 99 | My little garden - some musingsMy ex fiancé was supporting me while I got Licensed to work where he lived. He took me on trips, dates, gifts, phone, Botox, etc. You name it. Shortly before we split it I had been asking him to get me a guitar (literally off Amazon, about $200) just to mess around since I wasn’t working and everything was shut down during lockdown, and I was tired of doing my nails/being online/watching Netflix. One day, we were talking to his brother about a guitar I could borrow (I actually play and write son… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 09:54 PM |
| 8 | Buzzfeed pushing dangerous LV shitId rather waste time and have sex with a guy I connected with thus far, than put out to a freaking stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Should I be happy for him or suspiciousPost this in ask FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you give your phone number to a guy before meeting for the first time?I can’t take credit for this! The pair linked in the comment is iconic for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Ask FDS - that sub is more appropriate for your question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:16 PM |
| 95 | Family Matters. Pay close attention to his expectations for you joining his family, and pay equally close attention to his expectations for him joining your family.Your last question speaks to me so much. This was a big reason I left my ex fiancé for good. During 2020 (US election/pandemic) I got to know a side of his family that scared me for my future kids precisely for the reasons you state. I started to seriously wonder if we had kids and I died, would these antivaxxers/election conspiracy theorists/increasingly xenophobic idiots raise my kids? Fuck that 🙅🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 03:32 PM |
| 51 | Would you give your phone number to a guy before meeting for the first time?Get an app with a burner number for online dating so you can swap and get their real number and use it for a background check. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 01:40 PM |
| 30 | Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a job“I’ve already given up so much to spend time bonding with my kid and working on this marriage”. A grateful man that deserves to be blessed with a loving family and a good career should be thinking “I’ve sacrificed bonding time with my son and with my wife, in order to provide better for my family”. Men never cease to amaze me. Also, I pray that if I ever marry my husband is anything but the type to go on freaking Reddit for life advice because wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 01:52 AM |
| 6 | 10 Vetting Questions for Your First Date“What’s the most unfair/untrue someone has ever said about you?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 01:46 AM |
| 6 | Pre-nupsSo if you’re a just random person on the internet why are you talking about prenups as if you know the first thing about them? And making bold matter of fact assertions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:55 PM |
| 63 | Always use a sperm bank - no matter what...Imagine being religious enough to be a homophone but not enough to not actively create a single mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:56 PM |
| 25 | Pre-nupsThe biggest protection a woman can have within and after a marriage is not a prenup or a post up but her own separate means of generating income ie. a job. Men on the internet love to complain about divorce rape and how women get half of everything but if this were true, would there be so many struggling divorced mothers? Consider that if you have a prenup/postnup there are men out there who would rather hire a hitman to kill you rather than pay you a single penny. You have no way of knowing if … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 06:17 PM |
| 8 | Pre-nupsAnyone who wants to sign a legally binding contract needs a lawyer to determine if it’s in their best interest and how to go about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 05:46 PM |
| 16 | Pre-nupsIf the parties to a contract (like a prenup) can legally consent to it, it is presumed valid and the contract will stand unless a party can prove it shouldn’t. It’s a contract like any other and courts are eager to apply the will of the parties and hold them to it. Do not take legal advice form people on the internet PLEASE. Always get a lawyer. Remember that laws vary by jurisdiction so do not get any ideas about prenups from movies, tv shows or anecdotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 15 | Pre-nupsWhy do you keep posting misinfo you clearly know nothing about? It’s dangerous to spread this kind of info on a woman’s forum. Prenups are NOT easy to break (see my previous reply to your other comment) and courts do not absolutely go 50-50 at all. In the untied states, the majority of states apply equitable distribution (which is not 50-50), meaning it’s a “fair” distribution and generally people make out in proportion to what they put in. Do NOT expect that for every year that your 70k-earning… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 05:22 PM |
| 49 | Pre-nupsThis is not true and it’s dangerous misinformation. You can’t just “say” you were pressured. Prenups are very hard to get thrown out. Traditionally prenups could be thrown out bc of fraud duress or unconscionabillity (extreme unfairness). Duress is almost unprovable in this day and age (not even threatening to call off a wedding suffices for most courts) and don’t get me started on unconciousnablilty- nowadays most courts in the US allow unfair prenups to stand as long as there was no fraud. Eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 05:12 PM |
| 15 | Bachelor in Paradise CouplesI would love to see this! Do you have a YouTube clip handy or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Just a reminder that negging is not always going to be so forthcoming, these scrotes get intricate and creative because they are cowardly and hoping not to completely miss out. I mentioned in my bio that I’m a writer as well as my intelligence being clearly communicated block and delete guys.Noting more exciting than getting to know how a hot girl experiences the world, huh? So he wants to read the equivalent of your diary instead of idk GETTING TO KNOW YOU? this screams narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Read until the end, you won’t regret it. 😭REMINDER: if you post a screenshot/video, you MUST provide insightful/strategic commentary in the comments. Repeated violations will result in a temp ban. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Removed rule 6. The rules are pinned/screenshot posts require strategy comment on behalf of the OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Why didn’t this guy approach me?Ask FDS, that’s the sub suited for this question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Men believe they are entitled to their best women. They can be broke old short fat bald and they still think they deserve a beautiful woman. They can be failures, toxic, boring and still believe they deserve a brilliant fascinating woman… to do their laundry and have their kids. Don’t focus your energy or thoughts on how to motivate men to do anything. Not to ask you out, not to level up, not to propose, not to be better. Find a new and better man, that’s it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This is for AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 18 | Once upon a time I dated a scrote to get over an HVMYes you knew him as your work colleague obviously and you were friendly. Im referring more to believing you loved him without dating him. Natalie lue has podcasts! But a book on fantasy relarionships that is excellent too but she has hundreds of episodes that are all on point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 11:50 AM |
| 83 | Once upon a time I dated a scrote to get over an HVMSettling is the enemy of happiness. That said, Natalie Lue from baggage reclaim has amazing stuff on fantasy relationships. I recommend it because of the language you used (being “in love with my HVM”) because it’s so important to reflect on how we can build up a person and fantasy in out head, and even come to believe we are in love when in reality we don’t even know them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Post more suited for AskFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 12:05 AM |
| 36 | "You will end up 40, alone and desperate, because you so stuck up". A teardown of one of the most common negs out there.For every woman that is unmarried at 40 there’s a 40 year old man that isn’t either. Except he’s probable miserable, incompetent and blaming women for everything. Single women thrive, men cannot cope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 10:51 PM |
| 70 | Men don’t always marry the woman they love the most: a n insight from an OLD convoWhen I left my ex who was giving me the runaround about setting a wedding date (2 years into the relationship), he sent me a disgusting, aggressive email where he berated me for leaving, for my impatience and claiming I had been the love of his life. But at NO POINT did he ask for another chance, at NO POINT did he apologize for the runaround and embarrassing me with everyone we knew because of it, at NO POINT did he ever say he missed or loved me. In fact, it was bizarrely telling that 3 weeks … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 10:43 PM |
| 22 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Ask him what makes it ethical or not and feel a piece of your soul die | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:43 PM |
| 40 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"Lmao my grandfather was exactly 52 when I was born | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 29 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"50? That’s a stretch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 09:27 PM |
| 66 | FDS stance on BDSMNot directed at you but darn I cannot with this author. Sally Rooney is a pickme who writes books for insecure women who think they’re too good for Botox and who think reading Sally Rooney is a personality trait. It’s glorified romance novels for women who think they’re too good for actual romance novels and fancy themselves “intellectuals” and are confused as to why the world doesn’t find them fabulous and fascinating. Every single narrative in her three books is a pickmes wetdream- Sally Roone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 81 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?“So you agree? Porn is unethical?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 05:11 PM |
| 7 | Who do you think is a High Value Woman TV female character?I’ll check and Prue was my most favorite! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 04:23 PM |
| 277 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditThis guy sounds so nice and normal. Can’t believe he got 50 downvotes. I’m also low key touched that he’s 36 and married to a woman 5 years older - the bar is so, so low. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:08 PM |
| 426 | Just a reminder that negging is not always going to be so forthcoming, these scrotes get intricate and creative because they are cowardly and hoping not to completely miss out. I mentioned in my bio that I’m a writer as well as my intelligence being clearly communicated block and delete guys.So this guys thinks you should just have a livejournal about your thoughts and feelings? Also: “nothing more fun”? Send this guy a link to six flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:03 PM |
| 95 | Who do you think is a High Value Woman TV female character?The female characters in Charmed (the original). Even phoebe who starts out immature and sloppy grows into her own and levels up personally and externally. Imo this show is an underrated feminist gem. Again, the original. Edit: as for the ones you said, Gabrielle solis was a cheater with a teenager🥴 so, a predator. and Christina yang was very bitter. I don’t think these are HV examples at all. As for Samantha, I would say a HVWs inner circle can’t be made of lvw because that’s contagious. And th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 10:55 AM |
| 36 | Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to itSomeone should ask if taking money from the wallet of a passed out scrote is theft. Maybe then they’re empathy will kick in (jk it obviously wont!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 11:02 PM |
| 39 | New friend invited her boyfriend to hang outI wish I had a straightforward answer for all the sick ways predators operate. Maybe you can google some human trafficking resources and especially (if you can stomach it) watch some YouTube videos of victims telling their stories. You will be surprised at how normal their situation seemed - until it didn’t. It’s certainly not stories that you would be like “Well duh!”From the beginning. There you will see how the tactics run the spectrum, and it would look like actual physical force is not even… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 10:14 PM |
| 125 | New friend invited her boyfriend to hang outBe careful with new “friends” who bring their “boyfriend” around you and even more so if he flirts with you in front of her. If she even hints at being okay with it, you may be dealing with a trafficker/he is her pimp. Don’t let the the fact that there’s a middleman who is female let you lower your guard. She may just be a recruiter especially if she works at a place where she gets to know young women who open up about their lives, problems, etc in a place that gives safe space vibes like a beau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:48 PM |
| 3 | A story of LVM and a forever girlfriend: woman in Russia begged her boyfriend to marry her for 35 years and he does… after he temporarily loses her as a free maid.I agree that Stalinism was a mass murder regime. But why do you associate the cultural problem of Russian men with communism? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 06:34 PM |
| 17 | First OLD DateThere is a good post on here about not telling guys you know barely your weaknesses and one of them includes not advertising the fact that yo may be new to town. It’s worth digging for. You don’t mention if you are really alone in this town but I’d advise you lie to them and make up an uncle + his family or something so these guys at least think you have a solid support system, not to mention having them believe someone would be alerted if you went missing. Id go as far as saying my relatives li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:54 PM |
| 36 | Never settle for “Fine”You’d be surprised (not pleasantly). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:20 PM |
| 175 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?Is this guy out of the closet yet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 01:42 PM |
| 52 | Concepts that need to be retiredThe logistics of a relationship may take work. Ie. Scheduling, work-life balance, responsibility assignment (dividing house care and child care), and coordinating household things that would you normally just decide alone like finance allocation, where to vacation, what to do for holidays, with whose family, etc. But getting along shouldn’t take work. Respect, fidelity, boundaries with the opposite sex, being considerate, being transparent, showing gratitude to your partner and appreciating them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 01:35 PM |
| 292 | What true sexual liberation actually isTo me, sexual liberation is not needing to have sex or perform sexuality to have a roof over my head and food on the table. This is peak sexual liberation. It’s not having to legalize a sexual relationship with a man through marriage in order to live decently in society. It’s being able to be celibate if i choose to and that doesn’t mean I’m shamed, belittled, kicked out of my house. It’s basically not having sex if I don’t want to. Not reproducing if I don’t want to. Things like this. Being lit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 11:49 AM |
| 410 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?I think if you are in a happy, committed relationship, where things are going good and you feel all around treasured and adored in your relationship, a lot women will have fun doing it for a while for the other person, as part of a holistic sexual experience. I think enjoying something on its own is a whole different category and a blowjob absolutely does not qualify. If you’re single and celibate will you masturbate? Probably. Will you fantasize and wish you had somebody to have sex with? Sure.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 11:15 AM |
| 20 | Talk to your ex’s exI tried to do this and I guess the chick in question realized things weren’t so peachy (we were ldr so I didn’t have references of the guy) as I was thinking of leaving him and figured she could warn me off better than anyone, and she jumped at the chance and started trouble. Within 2 months me and the guy had broken up lmao and they dated (“tried again”) for not even 2 months themselves She had been a forever girlfriend (from like 23-29) but after digging it was clear they messed around for yea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 10:13 AM |
| 4 | I was shopping today and saw this. Looks like they now make a giant mug for desperate women to broadcast to the world how pathetic they are.😱😱😱😱😱😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 11:08 PM |
| 22 | Catch me if you can 🏃🏽♀️I think it would be more strategic to try and find someone with a similar “international” lifestyle (like through your work) than looking for regular guys with roots, hoping that they will just up and leave it. I think most men that are in love will do this once and start over in a different place, but not sure how many men or women will be willing to live a life where they move every few years because of their spouse (like a military lifestyle?). Potentially I see the spouse that moves the fami… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 05:52 PM |
| 30 | Catch me if you can 🏃🏽♀️Why are you attempting to date internationally and not local? Genuinely curious. Maybe I’m confused but your post reads to me as if you’re trying to find a guy from a different country that’s willing to move to yours? Not sure I’m following | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 04:16 PM |
| 395 | So I just discovered what demisexuality isWhat I think of this topic is that women need to be critical of labels and categories that aim to tell them what they feel. We should ask ourselves what we gain from these labels, how constructive they are for our growth and if they cannot be used against us eventually. Id never heard of this term but personally? It just reminds me of how low the bar is. Now there’s a subcategory of people who need to like someone’s personality to want to have sex with them? This should be the default. Maybe I’m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 20 | having and defining your own standards is a great first step, but keep going!!! don't stop there.I think what you propose is a useful exercise, to discover what the underlying trait is that attracts you. However, be careful to not rationalize yourself into settling by mistaking some of these things as mutually exclusive ie. “I like rich because I actually like competent” might be “no, I like rich AND competent, as opposed to rich-because-lucky or competent-but-poor”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 06:21 PM |
| 7 | Other than Dinner dates what are some FDS approved first dates?Something that takes planning, costs money, isn’t an excuse to see you in a swimsuit, public and “decent” (ie. Not a club with table service). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 06:18 PM |
| 9 | Found one in the wild!As per rule 6 adding a strategy comment: I know that few men bother to write out a bio in online dating. I would advise you to write one to deter men as a first filter, and also to only match on men with bios. Once I put in a bio, I got the same amount of matches but a LOT less men actually reaching out with a message, and those that did were not “how’s you’re weeked going?”-ing me to death, but rather got some sort of thoughtful response. Another reason is to remember men tell on themselves, li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Man gets praised for finally deciding to do a 15 minute operation but only after his partner went through the hell of inserting an IUD after almost dying of complications and mentioning removing her eReminder that when posting screenshots, going forward, the post should be accompanied by a strategy comment by the OP in order to stay up and open (Rule 6). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | This post will probably be removed.I agree with critical discussion being necessary and healthy. However, the recent drama start s with someone posting a weak meme dissing the hosts and shaming the entire sub, for having Elle on the podcast. If there were grievances about the podcast, the best place for everyone to talk about it would have been the podcast post. But turning against the sub and making these broad character assertions about the hosts, mods and sub itself is hardly constructive, it’s just provocative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/21 01:15 PM |
| 65 | Mod appreciation postI think you noted the biggest flaw in some peoples assumptions - and it’s that we’re all somehow American. The USA isn’t the center of this planet and its politics aren’t certainly representative of the world at large. There are many countries with their own “conservatives” where abortion access isn’t even an issue. In fact a lot of these countries are developing (like in Latam) where things like vaccines and abortion are a non issue and people cringe at how Americans are obsessed with virginity… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I go out with this guy?This isn’t strategy and is suited for r/askFDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Found one in the wild!I think this is the most important comment we don’t see enough of! Thanks for pointing this out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:20 PM |
| 9 | Found one in the wild!Take a hike lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:18 PM |
| 82 | Hey scrotes, don't want women to be so hard, tough, and difficult? Stop making things hard, tough, and difficult.I want to be married with a husband that i trust and stays with the kids while I travel solo and take a break from them all 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 03:06 AM |
| 45 | One thing I learnt from my Narcissist ExI had just been thinking about something similar a few days ago! In general, I realized that women are confident but men are entitled and it’s a crucial difference. Men as a class genuinely believe they know better, deserve better and are entitled to authority, respect, admiration and deference. And they believe that for anyone to give them a “no” that person better have a damn good reason too and probably also be a man. I was wondering precisely about how much I could accomplish if I just went … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:52 AM |
| 85 | Scrotes flaunting being brokeImagine being so broke that you don’t have $500 disposable for an fun activity, yet borrowing for something like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:44 AM |
| 278 | Found one in the wild!“Liberal guy, looking for the same”? I hope he finds the sweet, liberal hunk of his dreams! 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:37 AM |
| 140 | Found one in the wild!“I’m gonna gossip to everyone we know about you and triangulate you, paint myself as the suffering good guy whilst going behind your back to complain about you and then claim is was just advocating for your mental health because, you know, we’re all so worried about you.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:35 AM |
| 39 | Ladies: have you ever had a successful walk, coffee, or drink date with a HVM?For a first date I’ve always been asked to dinner . Even by men who turned out to be terrible (manipulative, arrogant, verbally abusive, etc.) but at least they paid. At first and during: took me on vacations, helped with bills, gifts, etc. I’ve honestly been asked to coffee by male colleagues, possibly with the precise intention of making it not seem like a date. For example, a 30-60 minute coffee chat in the afternoon to catch up/gossip/network and such | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:21 AM |
| 66 | Ummm. What?Just like Woody Allen. Maybe this situation is a lot more common than we are led to believe, it’s just these are high profile people. Terrifying and single mothers should always be weary. Imagine someone grooming your child from the age of 4. At least, grooming. Yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 26 | Incredible Story. Friend’s Relationship Not What It SeemsYou’re asking what you do is say just keep the door open for a listening ear. She is a grown up woman and I wouldn’t advise her to leave him, even if she comes asking for help just this reason: if he is so controlling and abusive as this situation shows (because he’s managed somehow to intimidate her into supporting the lot of them), he may retaliate against you if he feels you’re alienating her from his sphere of control. He’s made no effort to hide his disdain for you and someone like this, co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:57 PM |
| 34 | Ummm. What?Not to mention Elon is idolized by so many young men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:10 PM |
| 170 | Hurt feelings on InstagramAll I’d see is the woman who sleeps with this baldy and waits for his cyalis to kick in, while I just get paid 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:17 PM |
| -1 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeTake it up on the political sub then. If it doesn’t exist, feel free to make it. Or ask the hosts. Id like this one to remain a dating sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:15 PM |
| -1 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeYeah maximum benefit when it comes to dating individually. I didn’t join this sub to fight the patriarchy, I joined to get examples and strategies to adequately filter the men I date and know when they’re taking advantage of my good faith. That’s it. Why are people trying to act like the sub is more than a dating sub? Go start a sub for overthrowing the patriarchy then. I’m not here to change the system I’m here how to learn to operate within it, for my best interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeIt’s a dating sub to maximize female benefit in dating situations. No one is trying to overthrow anything here. It’s about getting wise to mens collective bullshit in order to avoid them in dating situations, not change them. No one here is trying ti change men or change the system or the game. Or maybe you are, and maybe they should make a separate sub for that. But this here’s a dating advice sub - It’s not that complicated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:04 PM |
| -18 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeIf you thought the objective of this sub was to mobilize women to end the patriarchy, then you should have read the handbook and the wiki, which clearly delineate what the sub is for and about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeElle said she was in favor of abortion. Which isn’t really the bigger picture point, but she did say it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:50 PM |
| -16 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeIf you say so! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:46 PM |
| 5 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeIs FDS about ending the patriarchy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:39 PM |
| 8 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeIf someone made a thread attacking the episode, others are entitled to make a thread defending it or defending the hosts or the sub in general. What we need is a META tag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:28 PM |
| 15 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeThey didn’t just “not like” the podcast. They literally accused the hosts in a comment of grooming us into conservatism. They shamed the hosts as well as Elle, who regardless of her beliefs, came on to speak in good faith. Who are you trying to get picked by? The OP on that thread and the other cancellers? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeCompletely agree. I even got cursed at by the OP after commenting on the thread after which I promptly blocked + deleted her 🤷♀️ And tbh, OP was just proving the worst arguments against the left: that they’re intolerant and jump to cancel. I’m not right wing by any stretch but damn if they’re not right about cancel culture being out of control. I’ll drop FDS the second they give a platform to men too, a soft of “all sides” scenario. Even the most conservative women are still women and shouldn’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:15 PM |
| 5 | real intimacy is so hard to findMissionary is my favorite position 🥲🥲🥲I’m as vanilla as it gets! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 32 | I just saw a show about headhunters and it made me think of matchmakersI think the matchmakers point is valid but in general headhunting for C level executives isn’t done secretly to avoid looking bad, even if a C executive is leaving for something better or willingly, for reasons of ethics and compliance a 3rd party is engaged to bring in the candidates. It would be extremely shady for a board to start calling in candidates themselves. Most legit companies, especially publicly traded companies, are mandated by their own bylaws to procure candidates for certain pos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?The absolute most he can afford, and if he can only afford $500 he’s not ready for marriage sorry From some men in some professions a *respectable ring would be 10k, but coming from a different man anything less than 100k is an insult. Depends on his means if you ask me. It should show sacrifice and commitment because that’s what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:23 AM |
| 9 | 120k of us marched across the USA in support of women's rights:What? And so what if Elle is conservative or right wing in some things, she can still be listened to. We can’t just alienate women because they have certain different beliefs. She didn’t even sound that black and white about it, in fact she said she was in favor of abortion. And yes people can have opposing views at once. I myself consider myself pretty progressive but I absolutely do not support biomen in womens only spaces. Some people would call me a terf and fake progressive and a hater and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:11 AM |
| 9 | 120k of us marched across the USA in support of women's rights:My impression is that she was giving examples of the one-liners that the right/left drop as a dogmatic high ground. But the subtext was right wing and left wing. For example, the equality argument can be used by the left dogmatically to assert that if a biological man identifies as female, he should be allowed into a woman’s bathroom or sport. Because EqUaLiTy and because of No DiScriMiNaTiOn. I think that statement should be taken in context because the criticism of the right was obvious, but i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:50 PM |
| 262 | Poor PickMe did a dang photoshoot 🤦♀️This girl is a babe and obviously has a sense of humor (completely misguided here) I am 🤯??????? If this guy had a half a brain cell and half the cleverness, he would have gone along with this and proposed during the shoot just to shock her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Racist scrote had it comingAccording to him it’s raceplay. As far as we know, he just went on an authentic racist tirade and is trying to play it down as a kink. The neighbor probably knows better too. On top of being racist, this guys thinks everyone is plain stupid too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:34 AM |
| 19 | FDS is featured on JezebelWhoa whoa whoa They actually took random quotes from individual comments/posts and laid them out like some fds dogma? This is just nuts from a journalistic point of view | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:20 AM |
| 2 | What are some red flag books, movies, music, shows, stand up comics, podcasts/YouTube channels for men?Jordan Peterson. Ben Shapiro. Being a Tucker Carlson or Hannity fanboy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:00 AM |
| 15 | Never go camping alone with a man. This woman could have died. (Reposted because pictures are broken)So you’re saying he was a grown man building a tree house within range of his parents wifi. Got it 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 06:46 PM |
| 9 | Never go camping alone with a man. This woman could have died. (Reposted because pictures are broken)She should sue him for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 22 | I'm not sure what to think of this guy I've been on 4 dates withI have an arbitrary rule for not dating divorced men, especially if they had kids: My belief is that for a woman to leave the father of her children, something extremely serious had to have happened. Women tend to have a very high tolerance level and a lot of us will try absolutely EVERYTHING (several times over) to keep our nuclear family unit together. It there was not a single critical incident, then the guy must have been an absolute nightmare/dread fest on a daily basis for her to leave him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Don't tell men about your traumaI agree with this. Especially since there is a living, breathing human being out there that is the “secret”. I believe it would be entirely different had she gotten an abortion - she doesn’t have to tell him anything and she can take her own secrets to the grave. But there is 28 year old woman out there that’s her bio daughter 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:28 AM |
| 7 | Trying to find a female subreddit directed towards Latinas but can only find porn…Let’s learn something else like KARATE! 🥷 It’s triggering because their disappointment suggests just that: that you are underwhelming in demeanor, mannerisms and energy? You’re literally starting out triangulated against their projection of you. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:10 PM |
| 98 | Trying to find a female subreddit directed towards Latinas but can only find porn…I am Latina and built like a stereotypical one and men get stroke-face when I tell them I can’t dance at all and don’t really like to try MUCH LESS IN PUBLIC. I can barely follow a beat to clap 🤷♀️ I am completely devoid of rhythm and don’t care for dancing either, though I enjoy music and singing. The look on their faces is as if I’d told them ive never tried an ice cube in my life or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:44 PM |
| 113 | WOC be careful fetishization is real....Too true. I’m Hispanic and a few years ago hooked up with a guy (we didn’t make it past some crappy foreplay bc I could tell he was inexperienced and mostly he had a 🔎🥜🚫) and a couple of days later he told me he had been disappointed at my “shyness” because he always expected latinas to be super hot. Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:44 PM |
| 26 | What should a women do in their 20s to avoid regrets in their 30s and 40s?Make friends with older, HVW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 8 | Beware of the type of abuse of men withholding the fact that they are infertileIf love to see a source on this not that I don’t believe you ofc but intrigued! Is this worldwide? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:11 PM |
| 28 | Beware of the type of abuse of men withholding the fact that they are infertileA literal monster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.I get it but security is also for working royals, not once you’re not working. Years ago the detail was also cut for Princesses Eugenie and Beatrice and it was well documented that Andrew threw a FIT, because of the loss of status that implied. For 10 years they’ve been paying their own security. Why would Harry and his son need government funded security if the rest of his cousins don’t? Neither Andrews kids nor Edwards kids not Anne’s have security. Anne’s kids don’t even have princely titles … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:03 PM |
| 43 | Beware of the type of abuse of men withholding the fact that they are infertileI wonder how many infertile men are really out there %wise. Running into two of them? Damn. Poor woman. Just out of curiosity do you know how she found out he was keeping this from her? I ask because there’s always a chance someone didn’t know the were infertile. I ask not to give this scrote the benefit of the doubt but more wondering how do men find Come to discover they are infertile if not by actively trying to get a woman pregnant and then determining it’s them and not her? From your post i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:52 PM |
| – | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.The royal family primarily work with national charities - it’s hardly pretentious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 07:01 PM |
| – | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.Her show had one season left and it was a b-list cable show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 06:53 PM |
| – | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.How was his kid treated differently? Only grandchildren to the monarch their the title of prince/princess. Williams children do because the Queen issued a letters patent for it given that George was in direct line of succession. Once Charles become King Archie could have had the title of prince but not before before he’s not grandchild to the monarch, only great grand child. Same reason princess’ eugenies baby isn’t a prince. Or why both of Zara Phillips aren’t either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 22 | "Not all men, but enough men" stop letting men paint you into a corner by accepting their already false statements.There was a great post on Ig referencing ticks and lymes diseases. When someone says WATCH OUT FOR TICKS! THEY CARRY DISEASE! no one says “oh wait but not ALL ticks”, no. Because we know that enough ticks carry Lyme disease and Lyme disease is a serous enough risk to not even expose yourself to the risk because you can’t really know which tick does and which one doesn’t so ultimately it’s rational to avoid ticks at all costs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:16 PM |
| 7 | Is this true?And he lays the pressure by talking about “God” in every video - I watched a couple and HATED how he kept saying things like “don’t try to get him back unless you’re sure this is your husband” ???? Not your actual husband but potential husband.... so encourage a wild fantasy whilst you’re already broken up? Does it get more dysfunctional? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:14 PM |
| 20 | He paid you for sex and you are happy about it? Yikes.Honestly this just reads as the tweet of a salty girl who got dumped and is trying to get her ex’s attention with an outrageous, poorly executed humble brag. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:44 PM |
| – | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.I mean he didn’t give a whole kingdom. By the time Meghan came along he was way down the pecking order, and especifícally, the order of succession. I believe the opposite: in this case Meghan is the negatives toxic influence who isolated this hapless fool. He had a career in the military and they had their pick of causes within the royal family. Someone from the UK can surely clarify specifics but they had it good and by most accounts, they wanted the benefits (titles, security, mansions, estate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:41 PM |
| 85 | What would a world made by women, for women look like?Have you read the book Herland? You can find it free online in pdf it’s literally a book about an all women utopia and the mindfuck for the three men that stumble upon it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 32 | This has to be a joke...if it’s not this is reaching new levels of pick me status.“They become this gentle angel” I wouldnt know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 11:45 PM |
| 131 | “Unplanned pregnancy” Men will trap you with a baby. Then you never finish school and end up being reliant on them. Stay vigilant queens!She should say OK, then get the abortion and pretend she miscarried. So this dude doesnt hurt her or damage her reputation and tell everyone she’s an abortion having whore. Wait a week, tell him he reminds you too much of the baby you lost and dump him forever and ever. With crazy people it’s better to sometimes play dumb and lie because you don’t know the extent of their retaliation when you take control back from them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.I can’t find an archive of this post! Can someone share it if they find it? I’d love to read it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | I subconsciously kept a little extra weight (10lbs or so) on me so I could walk alone and feel safer.Thanks for your kind response OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:40 AM |
| 26 | Men be like: Don't sleep with drunk girls. Not because they aren't able to give their consent freely, instead it's to avoid a "false rape allegation".I mean if rape weren’t illegal in the first place it would be rampant. Edit: more rampant. We would be raped at least once a lifetime. Probably as children too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:11 PM |
| 108 | How to deal with mentally challenged LVMsYou need to request in writing to management to be relieved from attending to this particular client. Be as respectful as possible and write them that as they know, the person makes you uncomfortable because x y z and it’s make you anxious as well as keeps you from focusing on your performance. Write that even though you know they talked to him, this conversation didn’t work clearly so you would like to be reassigned. By putting this in writing you force then to act before this guy shoots the pl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:31 PM |
| 108 | Advice from a divorce lawyer - on Love, Marriage and FeminismThank you so much for your time and effort to translate. Your highlights are spot on! Saving this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:51 PM |
| 21 | Men that don’t perform oral sex. Giant Glaring Red FlagOral sex is vanilla lady. Do you think giving a man a blowjob is some sort of fringe sex act? Same with eating cat. Not obscure at all. Edit to add: it’s not because of being a vainilla. My ex who didn’t eat cat proposed anal many times until I asked him “what are you, gay?”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 14 | Men that don’t perform oral sex. Giant Glaring Red FlagThis has been my comments on here. They’re either gate or hate you to the point where they loathe your sex organs as you put it perfectly. Of , he hates you personally or doesn’t give a flying f about you personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 14 | Men that don’t perform oral sex. Giant Glaring Red FlagI love when someone posts this because it was one of my first posts on fds. I also believe they are gay. Men that don’t eat pussy have to be. I said to my ex: I don’t eat pussy because I’m not attracted to women but if I were, I obviously would. I also think that they hate you deep down. Not just their gay part, but actively loathe you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:37 PM |
| 153 | Anyone notice how toxic masculinity has now become the ultimate excuse against bad male behaviour?What happens to women is women’s fault. What happens to men is society’s fault. Women’s dysfunctions are their own (miserable) fault. Men’s dysfunctions are the fault of the society that has failed them. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | From HV to NV, a short story.Exactly this. Thanks for the name for this, definitely will refer it like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 12:33 PM |
| 263 | From HV to NV, a short story.I can’t upvote this enough. My ex had been increasingly abusing and antagonizing me left and right to get me to react. Then he started provoking me deliberately in public, like in front of his parents, addressing me in a way he knew I didn’t like, but to someone else would sound maybe off but ultimately harmless. But he and I had discussed at length why I didn’t like to be addressed that and he began doing it in front of his mom, the only explanation is to see how I would react and possibly lose… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:18 PM |
| 3 | A man doesn’t have to call you a bitch to be a misogynist.Oh yah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:42 AM |
| 95 | Came across this today I have no wordsMy ex told m me he preferred when I waxed my brows/plucked them, but not because they looked better or suited me better but because it was “more hygienic”. 🙄 Also one day we were commenting about an innie or outie vulva (prompted by an online show when they mentioned it) and he seemed confused and I asked him what the difference was. He said that the innie was tighter (nevermind the vulva has nothing to do with inner vaginal muscles). He was 40. Ugh 🥴 good riddance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 02:34 PM |
| 11 | Something about this is utterly horrifying to meTherapy for the kids because of what they may have heard, am I reading this right? Subjecting children to watch or hear you having sex is a form of sexual abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:49 AM |
| 23 | Ladies, if you find yourself in such a situation, you now have the perfect answer.Came to comment this. Smile and coyly say OKAY BUT I PICK THE GUYA and if he doubles down then just say “no babe really i already picked one of your friends” and then avoid answering and never mentioning anything again. If he points out you ever said this, gaslight him into oblivion. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Straight from the horses mouth.I am wondering maybe someone can clarify: can you be on the deed without being on the mortgage? Like he takes a loan to pay for it, and him, you (on the paid off part) and the bank (on the rest) are on the deed as owning the house or impossible? Just curious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Old letters from LVM? Photos? Clothes? Burn themSure but you can’t exactly take it to a pawn shop in an emergency and you can’t easily conceal or move around with tens of thousands of dollars of bags. Jewelry can be made liquid cash in the same day. You can keep huge amounts of money represented in jewelry in safety deposit boxes all over and none would be the wiser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 7 | She wrote me a poem!We don’t need them scrotes :,) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 01:31 PM |
| 13 | Old letters from LVM? Photos? Clothes? Burn themAlways get valuables as gifts. And I mean real valuables as in gold or platinum jewelry. Not a Chanel bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 01:29 PM |
| 2 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO.No your fingers look really pretty as does your nail shape. Practice makes perfect with those things! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 11:54 PM |
| 4 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO.On another note, you have really pretty fingers :) He could have written that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 4 | I found out my boyfriend paid for pornhub premiumI applaud you and not just for standing your ground with porn, but for walking away from a man who is willing to lie to you if he can’t get away with it. If he had lied over something less critical for you, after so many years and how in love you must be, if May be harder to walk away. What you are doing takes guts It is probably the hardest type of decision you will ever make, because it’s also about knowing what somebody is capable of (deceit) but the first time is the hardest girl: after now … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:37 AM |
| 9 | Age related fertility decline is a gaslight lie used against women. Health & sperm count is what matters.I have no source it’s just anecdotal suspicion but I believe all the chemicals have wrecked the people of current children bearing age. My grandmas on both side had children into their 40s (40 and 42) and I know plenty of friends whose mothers were already of that generation having kids up until late thirties. But now I follow by curiosity An Instagram page of women struggling to conceive and one time they did a poll and HALF OF THEM WERE BELOW 30. Omfg. It’s self selecting but still. Thats it, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:30 AM |
| 24 | 84k subs and how does this even exist?But it’s pink 🙂🔫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:21 AM |
| 49 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsThis comment hit me in a way like I hadn’t felt in a while. This is real life. This could be any of us. Financial independence cannot be stressed enough. My souls aches for this poor human being. The betrayal in all of this just gets worse and worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:16 AM |
| 6 | You’ve heard it here, ladies. Women who are rightfully critical of men ruined feminism 🙄THE AWARDS ON THIS!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀😭😭😭😭😭😭 Did my ex write this? 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 8 | Write a list of all the reasons why your ex is awfulI was just about to say what you finished with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:37 PM |
| 247 | He was not amused and blocked meThis is the cringiest thing I have seen in 20 years on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:40 PM |
| 17 | Write a list of all the reasons why your ex is awfulGirl i started doing this after I left my ex it hasn’t even been a month since I walked out and I have 153 items on a note on my iPhone🤯 Every day I’ll remember something else and put it. What was I even This list is the best thing I could have done. In my next rs I will start on day one and put it on his tab 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:04 AM |
| 80 | Had to share because it made me crack up! Can’t even offer to but me a whole meal!He didn’t “lose out” on his tournament to the point where it affected emotionally. He actually went out, enjoyed his night, had fun, ALREADY HAD DINNER OBVIOUSLY, even played games, saw his friends, flirted with girls.... and now wants to have sex before bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:51 AM |
| 14 | Write a list of all the reasons why your ex is awfulI go to bed at 10. Max 11. Come with me at 9, but don’t try to wake me at midnight or later. F off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:27 AM |
| 35 | Write a list of all the reasons why your ex is awfulTo your 3. And 6. 😱😱🤯🤯!: I told my ex I didn’t want to have sex without foreplay it wasn’t good for me, it was lame and also hurt. I would go to sleep a solid two hours before him and he would try to poke me when he came to bed. He stopped having sex with me and I asked what was up and he said I always rejected him. And I said absolutely not it’s just that it should be seductive, with foreplay, etc. I said why you don’t come to bed with me a few nights at the same time and we can fool around in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:39 AM |
| 239 | Had to share because it made me crack up! Can’t even offer to but me a whole meal!to SPLIT a molten lava cake Probably just had dinner with the girl who handed him his ass at ping pong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Don't waste a single second of your precious time on someone who doesn't respect your boundaries. Dump him. You can do a lot better.Thank you your response OP :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 110 | Don't waste a single second of your precious time on someone who doesn't respect your boundaries. Dump him. You can do a lot better.Wow the manipulation “If you don’t like me or hate me just say so but don’t GIVE SUCH A WEIRD UNREALISTIC EXCUSE” Guy you are NOT the Excuse Police to say which reasons are valid or not. I’m hypersensitive to these things after my last relationshit. I find it beyond triggering and it really scares me, like it’s puts me so much on edge you can’t imagine. Even though it seems such a minor thing you can just laugh off but I just 💥 after the psychological abuse I endured, when somebody says somethin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Vet ALL the men in your life. Even the ones you won't consider dating.Is there a registry for this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Vet ALL the men in your life. Even the ones you won't consider dating.Op this is amazing thank you!!! Maybe someone can pin it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Lionel Richie is dating someone young enough to be his daughter..After what Scott did to his daughter damn I saw online people projecting some brains onto this man saying he was playing the long con by welcoming Scott and not isolating his daughter from him. So he could keep her close and keep her trust until the Scott phase ran out (wasn’t it like 3 years though?). Basically bring strategic about it. But I guess it was just that: projection. A man who saw nothing wrong with this predatorness (what’s the word I’m thinking?). And she’s not young enough to be h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:29 PM |
| 4 | This man has the audacity to just walk into a woman’s house uninvited! But she fought back!Her poor dog is so friendly :( but then he catches on and snarls at the sicko :) In the US the woman would probably get charged and have to pay a lot of money for injuring a guy in this situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 46 | Vet ALL the men in your life. Even the ones you won't consider dating.Is there any way you could make some time to help together a guide on how to use online resources for vetting for safety? 🙏🏻 I know it’s a lot to ask but maybe I doesn’t have to be just OP but we can build a guide and pin it? For example which public registries to check first, which are free resources, which are paid but legit and what you could use these for, reverse searching numbers... etc. Also tips from the ground like the own form the detective which makes perfect sense, I mean “rape and s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 05:15 AM |
| 51 | The tea is piping hot. Video by @hellysangel on Tiktok.Same as men who don’t eat pussy but want to stick in your ass..... sounds pretty gay to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 09:14 PM |
| 12 | The High-Value Aunt I never knew I had.This is a great story all around but damn your dad sounds like a mensch lucky you guys Not sure how many people would do that male or female. That’s a real one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 140 | Please talk some sense into me *age gap*You need to read the handbook. Yes the age gap is terrible and you can do so much better. And also, you say you want to approach this guy yourself? Let this guy be. No man should Make you feel this desperate, for any reason. Study the handbook and embrace growth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 10:17 PM |
| 56 | Relationships may take work and effort at times, but you should not be working and sacrificing just to get the BASICS (love, respect, consideration, etc). Know your line and what it will take for you to fold and walk away, and stick to it.I would include commitment as a BASIC. Proportionate to the time of the relationship and the individuals, and both their means. Your 35 year old boyfriend of two years not proposing is not giving you the bare minimum for adults at that state and age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Two pieces of advice regarding marriage and childrenNot dismissing you but I personally wouldn’t have kids for my kids. They can have a dog, they can make all the friends. But if I have a child and decide I want another (off chance) the last reason would be my kid to have a sibling. It’s more if I want to raise another and visualize myself with two depending on how things have gone in my life and relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:07 PM |
| 29 | Two pieces of advice regarding marriage and childrenI wish more women would actively envision themselves as a mother to one child only. First, I think it’s takes away of the pressure of having a child without a man, and it can seem more viable. Second, even if you’re married, with one kid you can split easy but two or more.... I wish we had stats about how many women actually go through with divorce after they have a second child. Im an only child and loved it, my parents marriage is great and they have they own life that doesn’t revolve around m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:26 AM |
| 6 | What do you do to show yourself extra love and care without spending money?Untangling your hair which is a huge thing for me and the first thing to go and the last to come when something is up with me. Even at my less shitty points in life I could go days without unknotting it. Now I make a big point of doing it morning and night 🥺 I think yoga is peak self care (for me). The actual benefits but also the satisfaction of having done it one more day I adore. What about facials or nail care or hair care? Someone noted meal prep as a form of self care for them which I thou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:23 AM |
| 11 | I disappointed myselfFirst of all don’t be too hard on yourself. You didn’t kill anyone girl and today is another day. Secondly, it sounds like rationally you knew what to do but a part of you drew you in the direction of certain actions that weren’t in your best interest? Respectfully, I think this may be worth discussing with a counselor or a therapist. I’m not one, but off the top of my head, perhaps you are conditioned to give sex/your physical self “in exchange” for nice treatment? Maybe your subconscious or so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:43 PM |
| 20 | Saw this screenshot on facebook with the caption "When will women understand" and then, a lot of LVM tagging their gfs. Worst part? The girl in this post is a professional voice actor, really pretty, really positive and talented person in other ways :(¿Qué es esta mierda? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:04 AM |
| 106 | I told his girlfriend.I think you did your part but if this guy is dangerous as you say, and like she said he literally attempted to kill her, it’s not in your best interest to go out “for revenge”. For you own protection, you’ve done more than enough. I would try to get as far away from this individual as possible. Remember in a lot of cases, the betrayed partner and the cheater end up killing the affair partner. Poor girl but these people sound extremely toxic. If he was able to turn all the flatmates against your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:54 PM |
| 37 | A woman's night out with her new boyfriend takes an unexpected turn: Never let this happen.I never want to date again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:54 PM |
| 142 | Why We Can't Seem to Escape Male Sexual Exploitation--It Goes This DeepYour reflection on replacing the female orgasm with pain has shocked me. It’s absolutely true. Before, a man would make a woman surrender through seduction, through pleasure (think of characters like Don Juan or Casanova). Now, they just submit them through pain and violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:21 PM |
| 66 | Why We Can't Seem to Escape Male Sexual Exploitation--It Goes This DeepTwo things stick out to me from what you said: the implication that selfish/lazy “lovers” who just care about their pleasure and not yours, who only care about getting off but not the intimacy of the sex act, are engaging in a form of sex exploitation. 🤯I know we talk about being treated as a human fleshlight sometimes, but the way and context you worded it with here really stuck in my brain. I wholeheartedly agree. Secondly, the fact about women facing death in childbirth through every intercou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:14 PM |
| 331 | Why being single is preferable over dating for many women- especially when unlearning pickme behaviours.Unrelated but this is goddess hair 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:07 PM |
| 18 | Likely going through a breakup with boyfriend of seven years. Need support.Same, same, same and same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | When I finished my thesis and was handing it in, I also posted DOB, length (in pages) and weight to my Facebook timeline, intendedly making it sound like I just gave birth to a baby.Now I want to write something just to do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 3 | FDSers in NYC, what’s it like?This whole story makes me happy for you and I’m sure you will do great things for yourself! But I have to say, it was all very serious then as soon I saw “roller skating” my heart lit up with warmth and I physically smiled in real life. Delighted for you and wishing you all the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:57 PM |
| 10 | PickMeisha proudly catering to men on OLD.I really hope you’re right 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:08 AM |
| 20 | Y'all hear that...??Is this a man in a woman filter? Because I can’t really fathom a woman saying this. Basically it’s settle because you’re not 100 yet. This should have some sort of warning because this is probably one of the most annoying things I’ve seen in my life. What’s with the 4x speed of speaking? Ugggghhh reminds me of a narcissist nagging mother for some reason cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:07 AM |
| 20 | Katherine McPhee is pregnant with this 70 y/o man. She is 36. What do these two even remotely have in common? Just ew.That’s literally what you sign up for in marriage. In sickness and in health. For richer and for poorer? Yeah? Ok then sign here 🖊 ☝🏻 that’s marriage. Jfc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:01 AM |
| 87 | Don't ever "sext" a man, even if it is only messages. Because if that man ever rapes you, he will print out those conversations and show them to police, and the police will dismiss your rape as "consensual"Im sorry this happened to you. You couldn’t have prevented it either then nor in the future. Only men can prevent rape by not raping. You did more than your best and you’re very brave. That said, I believe you’re right and probably a year ago, when all those cases of guy killing girls during “rough sex” were coming out, someone mentioned either here or ig or I really don’t recall, about texting a guy or posting everywhere that you do not consent to any sort of violence or choke play or dangerous… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 03:13 AM |
| 36 | Katherine McPhee is pregnant with this 70 y/o man. She is 36. What do these two even remotely have in common? Just ew.He was a horrible husband to Yolanda! Completely invalidated and gaslighted her during her struggle with Lymes disease. Gar-bage. Anyway I think she equally creepy something about her screams fake and she wasn’t as successful as she could have been she’s kinda washed up so she made it with this loaded guy. And Loaded is an understatement. But she could have found something better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:46 AM |
| 33 | PickMeisha proudly catering to men on OLD.Not me, but I am low key getting “take me on vacation so I can post but-not-selfies”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 09:10 PM |
| 34 | PickMeisha proudly catering to men on OLD.Mine is set to metric so it shows everyone in metric. Edit to your edit: doesn’t it just scream “comma haha”? More like “I don’t take selfies but i laugh at my internalized misogyny as if it were a joke, and when I laugh, I’m too good to ‘lol’.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:49 PM |
| 27 | PickMeisha proudly catering to men on OLD.Jswipe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:48 PM |
| 56 | Wife of Queens Proud Boy arrested in Capitol plot wants a divorceRegarding the thumbnail, I read an article a few weeks back about if wearing a mask below your nose is the new man spreading, where men basically disregard everybody else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:25 PM |
| 130 | Why are the hideous guys the most audacious?Your mistake is assuming any guy out there doesn’t think he’s OBVIOUSLY ATTRACTIVE sis :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 12 | Your Future in an Age Gap RelationshipFlossing is critical. Not flossing should be a huge red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:02 PM |
| 10 | Your Future in an Age Gap RelationshipRight If anything I’d choose to wash the streets off me before bed than wash the sleep off me. But I can’t bring myself to go out in public without a shower 🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:01 PM |
| 28 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.DAMN some men really do hate women don’t they? If only they brought this enthusiasm to something positive tsk tsk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 28 | Valentine’s Day “gift” from an LVM💪🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 102 | Valentine’s Day “gift” from an LVMAbsolutely thought the same. He’s spending it elsewhere or more importantly, doesn’t want to give her anything to post so the other girl can see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:20 PM |
| 149 | Valentine’s Day “gift” from an LVMGirl if you’re gonna talk about me on the internet at least tag me 🥴😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:19 PM |
| 332 | I asked men why don't they accept compliments from other men...Women even compliment each other on their physically attractive traits, without sexual attraction. This just proves that women are genuine, we behave and see others as persons, worth vocally appreciating, worth being told things about them that make them feel good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:53 PM |
| 46 | This is an actual life size model of a clitoris. This why DICK SIZE MATTERSSomebody said on here a few days ago that “if dick size doesn’t matter why don’t they make 4 inch dildos” and I honestly think about that sentence every... day... I keep wanting to caption a fully unrelated pic with it on Instagram or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | This guyha i learned the hard way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Valentine’s with my HVMI love that you gave him a card. Not being sarcastic, it’s a meaningful token of your affection and rightly proportional (as in less) to the material efforts the man should make. Congrats and enjoy! Good luck :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 11:48 PM |
| 4 | Happy V-Day ladies! Fulfilling my dream of a rose petal bath & chocolate strawberries..Those are some big 🍓! Hope you enjoyed. Maybe make this a Sunday night thing ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 07:10 PM |
| 35 | a lot of men really hate women. these are replies to a post about period symptoms.Not the same but your one sentence about cognitive dissonance reminds me of what I’ve always thought: ostensibly straight men who don’t eat pussy either aren’t so straight or deep down hate you/women. The Only two reasons to be repulsed by the magic that is cat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:08 PM |
| 30 | 50/50 Relationships are NOT equal. It’s a SCAM, ladies.I want to downvote this so hard but I won’t :) good (awful) find op | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:22 AM |
| 90 | This guy“Not broken”: so she doesn’t know any better and *I** can break her*👹 “Career oriented”: so she pays 50-50 “Wants a family”: at least 15 years younger than me and willing to childrear while paying that 50-50 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:32 PM |
| 386 | The LVM on Valentine's Day“To those asking why I didn’t plan it this year...”? People are garbage and everyone is the worst. This gaslighting i swear has taken 10 years off my life expectancy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:28 PM |
| 45 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?No actually the good gets better and the bad gets worse. Connections (to me) feel more genuine, it’s more authentic, the love runs deeper and feels at least legit. The bad just becomes exhausting because (again, me) I’m finding that men will shit test you when you least expect it and you’re left like “damn why you gotta force my hand like that? Really wish you hadn’t done that 🥺”. I’m fresh off a very serious breakup so I just may be more sensitive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:07 AM |
| 11 | Women please take note!Why not both though? Decent flowers can be like 40 bucks it’s not gonna break the bank | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:13 AM |
| 45 | Is it just me that takes not even putting a ? At the end of a question as a sign of laziness and low value?What about the “you’re”? lol Should have replied: “my secretly amazing what?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:10 AM |
| 7 | COSMO wants y’all to know that Armie Hammer’s Cannibalism Fetish isn’t the problem here and people are “distorting” it. Because nothing screams “safe and sane” like Cannibalism Play.I stopped reading once it started on the blood play 🤮🤮🤮🤮😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:11 PM |
| 34 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?The title on this changed my full outlook on life like 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:06 PM |
| 78 | What are you ladies opinion on this? Do men deserve a material gift? I think that Valentines day is for us Women and my presence is the present! I don't like the idea of going big... My Lv ex wanted us to be set on a (equal) spending limit for both of us. Never againIf he’s a low effort man you shouldn’t be with him in the first place. Imagine waiting a whole year to be wined and dined and gifted and treated. God forbid your birthday is in February as well then he’ll say it was for both 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:38 PM |
| 80 | And this is why you never buy a house without getting married first!This lady needs to lawyer up and move to an undisclosed location *before this guy KILLS HER to get her half of the House. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:41 PM |
| 50 | More dating coaches rubbishThe only useful thing I’ve ever heard these coaches say is to go No Contact after a breakup. Sadly it’s geared towards GeTtInG yOuR eX bAcK, but having done it (both the no contact and the ex back) if you do it right it changes you for the better (in my case I never really believed in my relationship again and almost a year to the date of reconciliation it imploded again for good). But the cold turkey, cut off, focus ruthlessly on the pursuit of your own goals is a great strategy. Even if the in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Ex sends me this message, 11 months after we broke up 🤔 BLOCK AND DELETE!This reads like he had to hit a word and/or character count to be able to send this message.... Barf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:11 AM |
| 24 | How to NOT date women in 2021!!The upvotes on this 😩😩😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:24 AM |
| 119 | It’s a beautiful ring but it took 20 years and a 10 year old child? That’s sadSure hope it means they stated dating at 13 and Anyaliese is their pet African gray parrot 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Book recommendations that aren’t self-help? (Preferably fiction)You can find it for free online! That’s how I read it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:21 AM |
| 68 | Surely linger dating/"courting" period before marriage is fine if you're young and/or still a student?25 is not 20. At 25 people are old enough to get married or engaged. At least to me but I’m 32 going on 33 so. Edit to add: in 2 years you’ll absolutely be within conventional marriageable age (27 for a woman) with an eight year relationship under your belt..... you could date your boyfriend for 10 years and break up at 29 and he’d still have time to date around and settle down at 34-35 with a 28 year old.... while you’re 34-35 wondering why you spent so many years with him. I am being objective… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 12:48 PM |
| 5 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.I also think you should run Indoors :( sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:09 PM |
| 183 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.Don’t run that route at all and report him to police please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:09 PM |
| 10 | The audacity! Be my carer while I wither away and put aside all our money for my mistressJesus fucking Christ I actually can’t sleep now and have anxiety from this like I feel it in my chest holy f | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:26 AM |
| 76 | The decency: “I have a wife and a gorgeous kid but you’re georgous”With the state of men you’re lucky he outed himself as being married. I fear a lot of men will just say no and then say “you asked me if I had a GIRLFRIEND not if I was married. If you’d asked me if I was married I’d have said so, I didn’t lie you just didn’t ask”. I hate it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:04 PM |
| 24 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕I’ve commented somewhere here before that men really will hate anything that makes women happy smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:21 PM |
| 67 | No, I am not okay with my boyfriend having female friends and I’m tired of pretending I am to seem “chill”.What you’re describing screams emotional affair and triangulation (which is abuse). But I do think it’s normal for HVM to have female friends. Female friends who vouch for them, know them, and they aren’t BEST friends and certainly aren’t each other’s go-to persons for issues or whatever in their life. Just friends. More than acquaintances but wouldn’t go out his way to meet her at ten pm, doesn’t cater to her, and most definitely don’t mutually confide in about their relationship troubles. A ro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:21 AM |
| 34 | Why do I need gifts from a LVM when I can buy my own?Because it’s not the items it’s the validation you get from them. It’s possibly also you projecting that guys or people care about you because they get you gifts, maybe this is your love language or maybe you feel like material items MUST mean they care, right? Btw i think giving someone hints or straight up telling them what to get you if they ask should not make you feel bad. It’s very practical and it still shows care. Just think about it the other way: your HVM has a birthday coming up, woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:18 AM |
| 14 | Scrote refuses to acknowledge true intentions (even to himself) and abandons personal standards to cheat on wife.I also wish to be seen for more. But you have to earn that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:55 PM |
| 11 | Case study: the horror of Christie Smythes crush on Martin ShkreliYa she’s a freakin nutter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 32 | So I just rewatched Bridget Jones (don't mind me, just sharing my thoughts)I wouldn’t say this is it. To me, it’s more Bridget growing into her own and stopping being a pick me, for example, she ultimately rejects the fuckboy character(Daniel cleaver) when she doesn’t need his validation anymore and sees past his external charm and realizes he doesn’t add anything to her life. She becomes successful at her work and derives her confidence from that, no guys needed, and only then she can appreciate a HVM Mark Darcy for his internal qualities and they get together. To me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Excuse me, what? (Women who don't fulfill their man's sexual needs should expect him to fulfill them elsewhere)You should always be prepared to deal with if someone cheats and I agree with everything you said! Your comment contrasted with the post, really just made me think that people that cheat will do it when everything is great, whereas people who don’t cheat, will stay faithful even if everything is bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Study: “Preference for pornography with masturbation was found to be significantly associated with erectile dysfunction”YOU DONT SAY 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:20 PM |
| 6 | Just think of the relief the ex wife must feel. How utterly embarrassing for everyone involved.I fins suing your own parents who took you in more embarrassing. The fact that it’s over porn, it’s just revolting. Poor parents. I want to think they have other normal kids and this was just the maladapted sicko. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:58 PM |
| 12 | I understand she's happy but damn, what kind of loser husband does she have who doesn't care whether she climaxes or not?? As long as he gets his, all is well 🤬effortless? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Man tells girlfriend to run $400 worth of errands then refuses to pay her. She doesn't want advice on the boyfriend.He did get a card and a Sephora gift card to put in it when we realized the gift wouldn’t make it that day. My post is about showing up without a gift “empty handed”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:16 PM |
| 18 | Man tells girlfriend to run $400 worth of errands then refuses to pay her. She doesn't want advice on the boyfriend.How do you know? Really lol tell us your examples And yes I think if you go out of your way to protect your mans reputation with shit that impacts you (like the fact that he is rude to you sometimes for example, or he’s always behind payments and paycheck to paycheck) no one will believe you when shit hits the fan. I know all people men and women have their faults but if you are embarrassed and try to save face by pairing your guy as a PrInCe nobody will ever buy that he was anything but the pic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:07 PM |
| 3 | So many d***s on AITA today (they're OPs or dudes mentioned in the post). Have arranged from least terrible to the worst of the worst. Six posts and I had to take a break. Why are these men even in relationships??? Break-down of each in comments.Oh I see it sounds like he put mess on top of the counter after she put the meds and that’s why he knew to look in the trash? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:01 PM |
| 2 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”I mean my first thought is what the hell did you do to her that drove her to literally end her life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | So many d***s on AITA today (they're OPs or dudes mentioned in the post). Have arranged from least terrible to the worst of the worst. Six posts and I had to take a break. Why are these men even in relationships??? Break-down of each in comments.All are disgusting but the one about losing the dogs meds in the mess, if I’m reading it correctly, the girl in the story doesn’t work? My personal opinion is it both people work, they should split chores but mostly hire help. But if there’s one person with a day job and the other one doesn’t have an actual job or actual school, a bigger share of the housework should belong to this person whether male or female. When I moved in after long distance with my partner when we prepared to marry (alrea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:52 PM |
| 78 | Man tells girlfriend to run $400 worth of errands then refuses to pay her. She doesn't want advice on the boyfriend.Honestly even wife stuff isn’t getting the guys gifts unless he has a really good excuse. When my partner and I were already engaged for his sisters first birthday that I would spend with her (we had been long distance so I had seen her only a couple of times) I ordered her not even $25 worth of stuff.... from Amazon. Not kidding. I wasn’t working as I had just closed the distance and moved where my bf was, but I did order well in advance these really cute organic sheet masks with trendy colors … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:28 PM |
| 22 | Man tells girlfriend to run $400 worth of errands then refuses to pay her. She doesn't want advice on the boyfriend.Imagine physically going the shops during a global pandemic for this and people like this. I sure hope she’s at least in Australia or New Zealand or another place that’s not plague infested like the rest of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:23 PM |
| 77 | R/LadyBoners has NO taste 🤢 what’s with the crusty old white men??Lol that’s Colin firth. A successful, handsome, talented and by all accounts kind man. Just because he’s old doesn’t make him “crusty”. He’s an Oscar winner and OBE ffs lol and a consummate activist for indigenous peoples rights. He’s a catch if there ever was one. He’s also a dedicated father who’s second marriage unfortunately I believe ended with infidelity on part of the woman but I remember they maybe trying to reconcile. I kinda resent just showing an older man like some low value crusty j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:08 AM |
| 7 | I hate how common this is on this sub :/ guy thinks two minutes of rubbing is enough to lead to penetrative sex. It sounds like a horror show; she's told him MULTIPLE times to do more and he just "shuts down" on her. So f***ing manipulative 😡I straight up told a guy when he started getting too comfy in the relationship: IM NOT READY. I clearly told him “it sucks for me” when I’m not ready, this is a moodkill and it’s super lame for me and I turned around and went to sleep. The next day at dinner at a fancy place I actually brought it up out of nowhere and said fr it’s the worst sex of my life when the foreplay is lacking, do you want to be the guy i have the worst sex of my life with? But I said it with a charming smile and joked ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Another example of sunk cost fallacy... 'but its been two years!'The nasty part about his response is that she would still be alive and he ate her limb. Like how can you look at someone in the eye after you literally ate them? But probably a scrote who would scoff at the thought of some people eating their placenta... 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:48 PM |
| 9 | Another example of sunk cost fallacy... 'but its been two years!'I asked my man this question once and he was digusted and said even if we were in a plane crash and he was the only who made it and had to eat human flesh to survive (like that movie about the soccer team?) the last person he would touch would be me. Edit to add: I meant that he did say he would do it eventually, but only after eating other options I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:36 PM |
| 5 | LVM movie red flags! 🚩I am a woman and my favorite movie is fight club. I can quote it almost word by word while watching it. I love every single one of chuck palhniuks books - fight club (even the movie) is about so, so much more than “violence”. It’s literally about mental health and coping mechanisms (or rather, snapping) in a degraded consumerist capitalist society. The protagonist is brilliantly self aware (eventually) and there is a LOT to learn from both the movie and the book imho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:50 PM |
| 31 | Got a notification that my 10 year old daughter also blocked my ex without my prompting 🥲🥰Hi these aren’t properly covered we can see your ex’s full name and you guys’ first names. I recommend you delete and post again properly blocked out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:23 PM |
| 17 | How can I know if a guy is dating me because he wants western citizenship?If you really want to move to the west, move there and then date a guy there. Otherwise you’re just wasting your emotional energy and accumulating baggage imho. You also risk fALLiNg iN lOvE and then wanting to stay where you are for some scrote instead of moving along with your goals. Tbh, dating someone - wherever you are - with the hopes that they will also want to move with you isn’t realistic. I think your best shot is to move where you want to be and start the rest of your life ASAP. Good … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:03 PM |
| 18 | I keep projecting every negative possibility on any guy who expresses interest in me.If you really want to move to the west, move there and then date a guy there. Otherwise you’re just wasting your emotional energy and accumulating baggage imho. You also risk fALLiNg iN lOvE and then wanting to stay where you are for some scrote instead of moving along with your goals. Tbh, dating someone - wherever you are - with the hopes that they will also want to move with you isn’t realistic. I think your best shot is to move where you want to be and start the rest of your life ASAP. Good … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Men: “Just give us a signal you’re open to being approached!” Women: “Ok, how?” Men: “Ask us out”Thirteen attemzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz......... ..... ..... ..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:16 PM |
| 6 | Ex fling decided to give me unsolicited dating advice 2 years after the fact“To answer how long you must wait?” Did you make a sm post about waiting for something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:03 PM |
| 4 | How to manage finances once you’re married?Hiding assets is good if you’re not married or planning on ever getting divorced. In the event of a divorce you’ll have to disclose everything you have and if you don’t, most courts penalize heavily for failing to disclose assets. It’s literally presumed to be in bad faith and that’s a situation you don’t want to find yourself in. Imagine if your husband did that. Marriage is marriage and assets can’t be hidden sorry. This is bad advice and it could make an already difficult divorce immensely ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:56 AM |
| 7 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man away😩😩he’s 28. I mean if he were 15 it’s like... understandable to have somebody have a talk with the kid but at 28? Jfc it’a hopeless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:11 AM |
| 3 | Trash took itself out 🗑I may be in the minority here but I don’t find this #LVthings or consider him trash. He literally did the right thing and was honest with you. He straight up told you you deserve more, basically to have someone interested in getting to know you, and that since he wasn’t that he wouldn’t want to meet anymore. Low value would have been to say he doesn’t want anything else but sex, but still insist you come over. The fact that you were willing to go to another city to meet a guy from an app was eas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:47 PM |
| 22 | That's how LVM treat women for hookups“She got pissed off out of nowhere” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:16 PM |
| 17 | Standing up to LVM everywhereGood for you but I would advise against confronting or calling out men you don’t know. Some may literally come at you and assault you or worse. I think it’s not worth it. Imagine Road Rage but Male Rage everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Random dating advice on the Prepping sub? They know what's up and majority of comments tell the girl to dump her boyfriend!I’m beyond the looking crazy now. Whenever people give me dirty looks I just think to myself “no worries, you die” and that’s that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I made you all a guide to the PERFECT walking date outfit - just to keep it nice and "casual" for him 😉Ha this is good You should only accept a walking date if you’re into HIKING and even then, the only reason to ruin the peace and quiet of nature with a man, is if it a man you trust so he can deter any other men that would attack you on the trails. Sad but true. I love hiking btw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:07 PM |
| 5 | Random dating advice on the Prepping sub? They know what's up and majority of comments tell the girl to dump her boyfriend!Your in laws are my dream. I used to be radically against civilians having weapons, I once went to a gun range for “fun” and didn’t even go through with it because I found the crowd very off putting. However, with all the societal strains this year has shown us, I think I’m ready to take the next step in my prep and learn how to use weapons/begin to buy weapons - not to have in my house in the city (major city) but rather to protect my bug out location. Gotta secure a bol first lol I swear I did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:56 PM |
| 27 | Random dating advice on the Prepping sub? They know what's up and majority of comments tell the girl to dump her boyfriend!I also belong to this sub since before coronavirus (I was interested in issues of r/collapse) and I found that far from panicked, fringe freaks, the people on this sub are some of the most critical thinking I’ve seen on this site. Most of them know the world will never relate, and will always treat them as if overrracting, but they investigate into their own sources and have their own opinions. Without being jaded they are quite practical: advise to not keep your eggs in one basket, to not let p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts on dating younger men? Current thoughts: they always want someone younger and it puts you at risk of waiting for him to grow up/supporting him/always unsure if he is secretly pining for a younger woman...Change my mind.Ha but really a 33 year old with great bone structure and money to burn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:54 PM |
| 57 | Thoughts on dating younger men? Current thoughts: they always want someone younger and it puts you at risk of waiting for him to grow up/supporting him/always unsure if he is secretly pining for a younger woman...Change my mind.Not worth it. It will be a waste of your time. Unless you’re 45 and divorced already and want to have a hunky 33 year old boyfriend instead of a 50 year old scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:38 PM |
| 11 | Upon learning that a close friend of mine had died, I get this dm from a scroteThey disgust me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:44 AM |
| 46 | The future daughters of FDS!What if pickle juice is the antidote to the libfem pickme kool aid hmmm must try... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:36 AM |
| 49 | "Men don't really get better looking with age". Tell us something we don't know!Most men don’t even look good in their youth, how could they “get better” with age lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:34 AM |
| 106 | When you complain about a beautiful woman for using barely perceptible filters in her pics, it would be a good idea if you didn't look like a sex offender kicked out of a Mennonite community yourself.Okay op but that second pic deserved a nsfl tag as a warning 😨 dont do us like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Saddens me more than I can sayIt’s more than discretion but there is an element of human interpretation, which refers to what you hear as justices being “textualists” or “originalists” and things like that. They are just different doctrines on constitutional interpretation. Laws are still made in Congress. What is referred to in the mainstream as “law” that comes out of scotus is basically the courts determination on issues of “judicial review”. Judicial review is nothing more than an exam on the constitutionality of statute… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 23 | Saddens me more than I can sayI have an unpopular opinion on this: but I believe RBG had no moral duty to resign to let Obama fill the seat. Her appointment was for a lifetime, and she took and oath to uphold the constitution and justices should remain apolitical. Her oath was to serve the court as long as her health and mind would allow, and this is what she did. Her constitutional and legal duty was to uphold the LAW never to guarantee any policy or to ensure that “Democrats kept a seat”. Not only did she have no duty to a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:49 PM |
| 11 | Saddens me more than I can sayActually the point of lifetime appointments is far from keeping precedents stable, it’s to guarantee the independence of the justices. This is literally the stated purpose. If they don’t have to worry about what comes next after they leave the court, they don’t have to do any favors or fear no one. Imagine going into the court at the age of 40... meant to leave at the age of 50, with kids, tuitions, mortgages still to pay. You’d have an incentive not only to not make enemies while there, but rat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:44 PM |
| 42 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???This girl looks really young to me (maybe because I’m 32) like she looks like a straight high schooler imagine broadcasting your sexual activity like this online :( I would ground her so much and take her phone away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:08 PM |
| 32 | Why you're not insecure for caring about Instagram activityF30 with M30 partner of 12 years I had to do a triple take sheesh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:04 PM |
| 165 | Lie #1: We can’t have a man with BOTH money AND a good personality. Lie #2: A man being broke means he has a good personality.Men who are broke are also stressed and resentful. I think men with means are more likely to be positive, relaxed and thus will treat you better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:03 PM |
| 16 | Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing.Looks like he missed out this looks incredible good on you! That said, this example (not to do it) is in the first few pages of Sheri Argov’s book 🍿 it’s an amazing read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.I replied this months ago here and I can’t remember in relation to what, but my belief is that men arbitrarily hate anything that makes women happy. No matter how small or harmless or wholesome, they will find a way to knock it, mock it or ruin it. They just hate to see us have a smile on our faces, enjoying ourselves minding our own business. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:13 PM |
| 25 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteNot even the worst of men argue this anymore! At least not from what I’ve seen online .. If anything (if we make a major stretch) it should be more like married couples should be one vote together, as a household so as to not drown out the single voters. What’s the point of unmarried women not voting at all? I mean come on. The whole thing is indefensible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 10 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteOh you’re kind I didn’t mean by you! It’s not triggering content it’s just me I’m kinda sensitive and all the political gaslighting taking place recently everywhere I look sometimes distresses me 🙊 it’s a quite good post for sharing and it really beggars belief. Really makes you wonder if it’s really men that oppress us and how much of that is the complicity of pickmes like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:39 PM |
| 30 | Pickmes arguing women shouldn’t have the right to voteI found this really triggering 🥺 maybe it’s lowkey gaslighting? Like there’s so much wrong in it that I couldn’t even begin to disect it because it makes me really anxious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:29 PM |
| 6 | He would consider HIS OWN CHILD to be a toothless ratWow that really came out of nowhere. Remember that old Gladiator movie? When they’re in the arena and the emperor (Joaquín Phoenix) has to choose whether someone lives or dies? 👎🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:26 AM |
| 20 | How to remain HVW while still being anti-marriage / childfree?I think first you need to sort out why you don’t want to have kids. Is it like you say at first that you don’t want to be stuck with a partner who doesn’t contribute? Or is it because there’s nothin in return like You say in the second part? These are two very different reasons and I think it’s worth it to get to the bottom of your feelings. The first scenario, of being stuck alone with your kids can happen to anybody and not just because of a lvm. Your spouse could die. They could leave you and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 16 | FDS hitting 100k but men STILL be like...You know I’m thinking about this and I’m really wishing it’s code for drugs or something....”take you to a field” idek but the more I think about it the more disturbing and confusing the whole thing becomes 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Who pays for a date? A men's website gives their answer.Im not familiar with the site but this seems solid advice: if you’re interested in being more than friends with the girl, pay. If you want to hint you’re not, split the bill. Pretty straightforward and yeah makes sense. Friends (regardless of gender) can split checks - dates don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:34 PM |
| 48 | ‘.... some occasional hole’ 🤮🤮🤮🤮This poor pup looks like it’s being held hostage 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:07 PM |
| 43 | Today I saw a crackhead panhandling for over an hour and then using that money to buy his girlfriend a meal at A&W. Dear men: you have no excuse. If a literal beggar is happy to provide for his girlfriend then so can you.This is a great story and so damn true. As least the girl crackhead knows her crackhead has at least one job - providing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Yet another LVM who will be damned if he allows the woman he claims to love to feel special by having a nice wedding, committing to her officially, and making sure that all their friends and family know it.Starting off marriage with a “financial burden”? Bruh tons of people can afford that and more. I’m getting really sick of broke men giving opinions... f these poors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:02 PM |
| 9 | NOW THAT'S WHY WE SHOULD VET THEMThis is guy is nuts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 06:31 PM |
| 5 | There are men out there proposing like this. Yet, Pickmeisha over there still claims to love her onion ring and ‘wouldn’t want it any other way’, because TrUe lOvE. Quick reminder that if a man truly loves you, he will put effort in such a special moment.Ahhh I’m always happy to come across this again :) this guy did so good and so fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Have there been any HVW or Pickmeisha’s who have positively impacted the standards you have for dating?And old coworker who was 20 years older than me. We are still very close and she has a happy marriage - hid all her bonuses and salary increases from her husband, and her sister has an account where she actually stashes her hundreds of thousand of dollars no joke. She’s bought property in the name of her mother and sister. Her husband own a law practice and makes really good money and was home every afternoon with their kids while she worked at her dream job. And btw, KFC for dinner even every n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:49 PM |
| 8 | Saw this on my fb feed this morning. Had a good laugh and thought I’d share.It took me a second to get this and was like “what’s wrong with wearing Gucci 🥺” lol Thank you someone for pointing out that #girlboss is full pickme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:22 PM |
| 12 | This post by a husband thanking his wife for their children. How many green flags can you spot? Wow a husband who appreciates his wife for giving life. Treats her like a queen.I think it depends on how the man uses social media. If he’s a guy that shares his activities, hobbies, trips but also personal things like his friends and family, then he sure as hell should share you. I had this issue with my partner early on but fortunately it was resolved to my liking. He wouldn’t post us after about 10 months of dating and I ended up dumping him because of it (we were long distance since the beginning so to me it was the one shared space we had to present ourselves as a cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 46 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑In mine it still is! Sushi and drinks is the default... actually I drink because my partner drives :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:00 AM |
| 213 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑Well done anonymous girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 12:32 AM |
| 6 | Gosh! I feel bad for the girl. She is too much into it while the guy wants to run offPoor guy. The girl isn’t “too much into it”, she’s an abusive psycho on every possible level. Even quite likely sabotaging his interviews with the stress, as abusers tend to do. No one deserves this. My sympathies to this fella. 26 is not a teen but it’s still quite young (to me) and nobody prepares you to deal with this level of manipulation and extortion in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 63 | She redefined being a lady.A happily married queen with a loving family. When she was appointed to DC her husband and her moved down from New York. His career followed hers because she was the ⭐️ - though he was quite successful in the private sector throughout his life. Believe it or not, when she was about to be nominated for SC a crucial segment of vocal and prominent feminists weren’t on board because they considered her too conservative. It was her husband, Martin Ginsburg, who basically lobbied these leading women’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:47 AM |
| 2 | This HAS to be a bit, right??What killed me is him saying he has “a ReAlLy qUiCk WiT” then turning up with that idiotic comment baaaaahahahahaha They’re all garbage honestly Also: “Hawt” this guy is a full neckbeard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Read and learnGlad somebody said this. 75k? I mean it’s honest work but goes to show you: broke men are the cheapest. Date rich, marry richer. I say: first filter should be guys with money that are willing to spend it on you. Second filter (out of the rich guy Pool) should be genuine good guys who treat you well and appreciate you. Why second? Because if you out the nice guys first you’ll end up falling for a broke-o with a heart of gold. Not worth it. Because all men even the nicest have the potential to tur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Even non sexually, scrotes are scrotes...What the fuck did I just read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 14 | I stopped caring, told a man *exactly* what I expected, and I’ll be damned. It worked.Remember that you speak with your actions and not words. If you tell people what you want, they’ll tell you what you want to hear. The only way to see if he’s willing to walk your walk is to not miss a beat in your step. Don’t negotiate expectations verbally. You do it by withdrawing your presence from his life when he steps out of line even slightly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:57 PM |
| 5 | Tomorrow is My BirthdayI’ve thought about it too! I think it’s nice it it’s the day before because everybody else will be laying low and if someone fucks with you in your actual bday it doesn’t matter because you already “had” it and it was great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:28 AM |
| 5 | Everyone has an irrational fear. What is yours and how does a LVM exacerbate it?Don’t apologize! 😘😉 and yes never let a lvm near you because gahh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:26 AM |
| 14 | Everyone has an irrational fear. What is yours and how does a LVM exacerbate it?Fuuuuuuqqqq man I don’t have any sort of piercing but this visual somehow triggered me so bad my that it’s is now my biggest fear as well congrats | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:14 AM |
| 4 | Was I raped?Just to add: make sure you are physically safe before you report him. If you can’t don’t go back home for a few days but stay with family somewhere he doesn’t know. He may come after you. Call the police non emergency and ask for instructions on how to report him and specially ask about keeping yourself safe throughout. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:11 AM |
| 55 | Tomorrow is My BirthdayI knew a woman a bit older than me who for years led everybody to believe her birthday was another day than the real one. Not sure how she pulled it off with her SO (she had been divorced once and refused to marry again but was shacked up with her long term middle aged boyfriend) and she always spent he actual birthday doing something special by herself. Not friends not family just herself. And she was quite popular too, she would get bday invites and whatnot for the whole month. One year could … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:07 AM |
| 4 | I guess true love really can existWut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:09 AM |
| 11 | Scrote of the dayAt least he’s honest 🤷🏻♀️ and doesn’t seem offensive in the expectations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:44 PM |
| 10 | What’s the general consensus for meet and greets?The only meet n greet I’ve ever heard of is with celebrities like before a concert or show. I’m 32 so... that does this even mean? Sounds like even LESS than a coffee. With covid going around? Not worth it. Better get a nice outdoor meal while the weather still allows and take a bunch of leftovers home for the next couple of days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Any ladies that dont drink, smoke or do drugs?See? There are several things you can talk about to showcase your awesome personality. But don’t pressure yourself about answers - you’re not in an interview he is :) you focus on having fun and being your delightful self | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Any ladies that dont drink, smoke or do drugs?I don’t smoke or do drugs. Im 32 though and I used to smoke cigarettes but quit at the age of 23. though I drink, even When I was younger my social life never consisted of drinking activities like going to bars or clubs. Every man I dated included my partner knew that I loathed staying up late so I hated clubs. I also get nervous that a fight or shooting will break out i really get jumpy in places where people are all intoxicated and crowded. Most HVM will respect even if you do smoke/party/drin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 01:31 PM |
| 10 | If he doesn’t improve your life, you don’t need himThis is true. My partner is great but has some ridiculous flaws over which I almost cut him loose several times when we were dating. For example, he’s a yeller when he’s mad and ive always absolutely loathed that. As close as I ever was to straight ghosting his ass, i reminded myself that he generally made my life better (with his love, companionship, believing in me and supporting me, ya da ya da etc) and that it had definitely started looking up since getting with him. I moved to a better coun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:44 AM |
| 9 | My mom said "maybe he was kidding". I just told this jerk that I've been medicated since 14 and now I'm suicidal. Not suicidal, but will be when my meds run out.This is what the male depravity tag was made for. I hate it here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Field report - too focused on my looks?🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️😬😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 47 | Field report - too focused on my looks?Omg I saw this comment from inbox not realizing which sub and was like WHICH FUCKING SCROTE IS WRITING ME 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:27 AM |
| 9 | NEVER AGAINI get your point but I love pillows like this 😬 my mom saves them all for me and I get them when I go home!🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ I have “good” pillows just for show or my partner but for sleeping I like the old flat ones (as long as they’re not lumpy obviously). I put them under the regular pillows and it’s barely raised lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 04:02 AM |
| 50 | Field report - too focused on my looks?This sounds like those 50 year old Indian guy on Facebook memes lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:57 AM |
| 8 | Not inviting dad’s side of family to your wedding - acceptable?Just when I read the title of your post I knew the answer: it’s your wedding. Invite who you want and exclude who you don’t. You need anybody else to agree (unless it’s somebody in the grooms side). You come first second and third. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeisha friend starting to irritate meThen why are you watching his stories sis? Pay no mind to his life and block him and ask people to not forward his stuff to you or bring him up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:54 PM |
| 23 | For real though*my bills Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeisha friend starting to irritate meI read your respond again and thought it would be useful to recocomend to stop following a guy who beat you. Stop caring about his life and stop letting look at your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:06 PM |
| 13 | Pickmeisha friend starting to irritate meHow do you know they didn’t meet before or aren’t texting? I hope it’s no true but I will give you some loving advice: NEVER EVER vouch for anybody except yourself. You never really know someone or what they capable of until you find out the hard way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:05 AM |
| 45 | This snaggle toothed little bitchSometimes (like right now) I’m extra sensitive and vulnerable for other reasons and this just makes me sad 🥺 why do some men hate women? 😞😞 why do you speak like this to someone you don’t even know? ☹️ why do you try to make someone feel bad and put them down for no reason? Imagine a female profile insulting men like this. It doesn’t happen. The scary part is so many of them actually think like this it’s just that this one said the quiet part out loud 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:51 AM |
| 47 | Pickmeisha friend starting to irritate meSounds like she wants to fuck him, or is already and is trying to make sure you guys aren’t in touch and you really are done with him. Worse: they’re in touch and she’s somehow agreed to groom you to take him back and is doing his dirty work for him. She isn’t your friend. Drop this person out of your life Immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:54 PM |
| 4 | When was the last time a man you didn't know helped you with your groceries/lift something heavy/held the door for you/ complimented you on something OTHER than your looks?The only other guy that walks his dog with a face mask on in my neighborhood is a little younger than me (seems about 27) and he’s a hottie and always gives me the head nod. We always see people at the nearby park walking dogs without masks I guess they assume they’re “outside” and not “gathering” but still we are all around the same area and it means you have to go out of your way to avoid them because of the walkable trails on the park. It’s quite annoying. The other day the guy and were stand… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:11 PM |
| 21 | Nope.Glorious. I pray this happens to me one day and I can drop this line! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:25 AM |
| 5 | Never let yourself forget the true nature of menOmg being single from Your family too! I can’t believe this you are so strong. I’d love to hear more about how you cope with literally everybody betraying you you are so strong 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:23 AM |
| 33 | His true colors have been revealedGood riddance. Cops and military are wife beaters and wife killers. Find yourself a nice doctor, teacher, lawyer, banker, electrician, postal worker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 17 | Never let yourself forget the true nature of menWhat the 🥺🥺🥺 Please share your story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 11:14 PM |
| 39 | Never let yourself forget the true nature of menNever heard of these people but here’s the story: “Alfie Boe 'secretly dated another woman while married' https://mol.im/a/8660363 “ Married men don’t “secretly date”, they have affairs because they are scum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:20 PM |
| 10 | Treat yo-selfI was scrolling down and the jerky didn’t show up until half way through and it out a huge smile on my face! Not even kidding. This is some wholesome shit op it moved me because as a single girl I used to do the same 💕 enjoy 👏🏼 down to the beef jerky ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:29 AM |
| 13 | What does talking mean in a friendship mean?There’s no need to be patronizing. something about ops post strikes me as her being on the younger side, and possibly also sheltered. I think a more constructive response would be to direct her (and us) to something specific on the handbook that has a more direct relation to her questionZ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:27 AM |
| 32 | Watch out Queens! There’s a sociopath targeting/conning women in the Chicago area through OLD and social media. I’ve seen his profile and I’m 2 states over!Ya this guy looks nuts You should cross post this in the Chicago sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:59 PM |
| 16 | Thoughts?No because it’s already a mans world and we’re just living in it. We already are in the vulnerable position where the world is rigged in men’s favor in every possible aspect. Grfo with that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:09 AM |
| 82 | Known this guy for years and he hit me up out of nowhere this past June, in the thick of this pandemic, for this pathetic exchange. Keep in mind, he is fully aware of my toddler daughter and the amazing HVM I've been seeing since I was pregnant with her.This is a new low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:17 AM |
| 13 | Ladies, please for the love of GOD do not have children OR marry a cheater! Don’t ever take back an ex - EVER. This woman took back her cheating boyfriend after the first year together. Now 5 kids later it’s ramped up online again. He had the AUDACITY to blame her for finding out.I have nothing absolutely against men sleeping with men. Im never gonna tell someone what to do or who to like. Everyone can do what makes them happy. But I don’t ever want to sleep with one who even used to do it in his past, it’s crazy that we have to explain this. Next thing you know some woke pickme will call us bigots and say a mans sexual past is none of our business 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 05:52 PM |
| 51 | Where's The Lie Though?Or what he follows on social media! 🤥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:49 PM |
| 34 | Pickme's are the saddest people on the planet. Tragic.I don’t get it. Is this a post just putting down other women some of which very possibly just don’t know better? This post is just another way of saying “I’m not like other girls”. It doesn’t make us better to put down or point out how other women “fail”. Try to be constructive if you’re gonna point something that can actually be learned from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:28 PM |
| 2 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsI mean if you’re unhappy with the behavior it equally gets you nowhere to be quiet about it or stop pointing it out... and i feel it’s more detrimental. It’s one thing to feel terrible because somebody else disregards your feelings and you keep clashing with them over it, but I feel it’s a whole different ballpark of nullifying yourself when something does bother you but you silence yourself Personally if a I barely knew a guy and refused to comment on it for my own self dignity, I’d rather brea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 16 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsThis was absolutely worth standing your ground on. I in fact broke up with my fiancé over it when we were first going out. We’d had a talk about him following randoms, he agrees he won’t. Like around 3 months pass, we’re going to a rough patch and he followed a couple of skanks and when I confront him he explodes that I’m not gonna tell him who to follow. And I’m like welllll that wasn’t your tune a few months ago so be gone thot. Literally came crawling back after q few weeks, deleted any and a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:57 PM |
| 10 | Do Looks Matter For Attracting a High Value Man? Why Doesn't FDS Focus On Improving External Beauty?I think the quality of men also increases. There are no guarantees about a man - ever - but I think guys with status and profesional success or prestige, will want the best looking women they can find. Guys don’t make it big to drive a Ford Fiesta. A lot of these guys will be genuine HVM. Chances are a lot of success comes from good qualities - responsibility, discipline, teamwork, etc. Does is guarantee that? No of course not. But guys (like women) that are dependable and consistent in life ten… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Do Looks Matter For Attracting a High Value Man? Why Doesn't FDS Focus On Improving External Beauty?Of course I did, and I actually also answered the question posed in the title. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:53 AM |
| 17 | Sicko of the day award goes to Randy (: Why cant you be 10x younger???Exactly so he totally thinks a 30 year old should be down for a 60 year old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:24 AM |
| 29 | Do Looks Matter For Attracting a High Value Man? Why Doesn't FDS Focus On Improving External Beauty?I think if we understand a high value men as one whose qualities MUST necessarily include the willingness and the ABILITY to provide, looks do matter. No guy who works hard is gonna be with a woman who looks like she let herself go. Doesn’t mean you have to be perfect but I think looks do matter. Especially men who aren’t just solidly able to provide but guys that are prestigious or have status, you should strive to look your best to attract a guy with a lot of options. He may have the best hear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:16 AM |
| 12 | Sicko of the day award goes to Randy (: Why cant you be 10x younger???The worst part is you’re probably 20, and this man in his sixties wishes you were 30. Now if you’re 50 and he still thinks you’re too young then damn my bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Cool Story BroMy jaw dropped in real life reading this I wish I was kidding my mouth literally dropped open | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 12:02 AM |
| 9 | Creative men of TinderReminds me of the spot I miss when I shave my cat in a hurry Happens about once a year and it’s sooooo annoying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:09 AM |
| 47 | If i could pass any knowledge for future generations is this. Lowering your standards is never worth it.Thats why you shouldn’t date ugly dudes all men are dogs some just more hidden down than others or have more restraint So if you’re gonna bother at all date then hottest and richest you can get | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | The bar is lower than low for men.Thats all you need to say lol makes perfect sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 8 | The bar is lower than low for men.It’s interesting to me that you say NL is full of pickemeishas. I’ve always had the impression of NL being a more “civilized”, egalatarian, modern place, which would mean less pick mes and more feminists. Could you share a bit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:56 PM |
| 6 | The bar is lower than low for men.Imagine... someone dox this idiot and report him for immigration fraud. Pretty sure entering a country on a non-immigrant status with the intent to actually immigrate is enough....” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:55 PM |
| 14 | After the first few weeks my boyfriend had been coming over to my house, he said, "If I'm going to be spending this much time here, I should definitely be helping out around the house."Same. Sounds like a guy parroting woke quites about hOw tO bE aN aLLy. Could be manipulative but also we could be wrong. Is there any chance the guy is maybe autistic/has some sort of aspergers and doesn’t trust himself to read the room OP? And maybe that’s why he wants specific verbal confirmation? Good luck OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:50 PM |
| 18 | LVM no having job potheadThis is mental illness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:50 PM |
| 123 | Never let a LVM know that you are angry with him. Men simply don't fear female anger in the same way that women fear male anger. In fact, men seem to actively enjoy it.Like Sherri Argov says: men don’t respond to words, they respond to no contact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:53 AM |
| 25 | Come on Brittany, you are better than this...This was likely made by a disgruntled ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 111 | What The Sex-Worker Industry EnablesSex work is inherently exploitative of women, so it’s hardly relevant if you’re “mentally developed” enough for it. Just like working for working at Chinese of Bangladeshi sweatshop it’s not relevant the level of agency. Some “work” by its conditions or by its very nature, remove any real hint of agency a person could have. There is no such thing as positive or healthy or empowering sex “work” because it’s dehumanizing. You can’t built a career in prostitution and come out of it in 30 years happ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:21 AM |
| 18 | Imagine going out of your way to play your own damn self like thisI think you may be right but I also think it may be authentic in the sense that’s it’s a man grooming his wife and is trying to get other women to recommend how to do it best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Imagine going out of your way to play your own damn self like thisThanks for you comment. If I may ask what draws you to the right wing and how do reconcile women’s issue in such a “conservative” framework? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Another day, another “I wasted my life waiting for him to propose” post. We need a Forever Girlfriend flair 🤦🏻♀️Maybe have kids in 5 years? He’ll be 34... but so will she. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 17 | The first and last date I ever had with this dude was sometime last year...I actually forgot about him until he messaged me today.It’s long since become a pandemic bruh Try to keep up yeah? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 22 | AVOID THIS AT ALL COSTSWhen I was dating my partner we were long distance and I had domestic help 3 days a week. At his house I used some baby powder and left a bunch sprinkled on the floor before we left - I honestly believed the cleaning lady would tidy up once we were away for the weekend. He had told me a few days prior that she had come over. He asked me to clean it up please and I said “sure but won’t the cleaning lady do it?” And I found out the cleaning lady he hired didn’t come regularly but just before I vis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Pick-me garbage with 24 AWARDS saying women are ungrateful and we just don't know how to talk to menAnd it’s stomp, you illiterate PickMe (the OP). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 01:19 PM |
| 10 | Pick-me garbage with 24 AWARDS saying women are ungrateful and we just don't know how to talk to menSo we need to walk on eggshells and manipulate men like we would little kids? Got it. You know how you’re not supposed to ask a toddler if they want vegetables but instead ask if they want peas or carrots? To make them feel like they have all the agency? This reminds me of that. The emotional labor is fucking real and has to stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 01:17 PM |
| 41 | I don't even know where to start...🤦♀️I have no idea about these cultures but when I read ~dubai/Qatar dudes who care for their looks, the picture that came to mind was Rihanna’s ex boyfriend 🤩 don’t know his name but damn was he an Arabian prince (literally). And not just hot but super stylish too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 01:14 PM |
| 5 | I’m moving to another country and started selling stuff in my room to help with shipping costs and whatnot. Found some gems from my pickme days 💃Unless it was a divorce, I would keep it to myself. If you tolerated it before ultimately breaking up, at most, I would say there was ONE incident and it was over on the spot. I think this justifies a post itself and you will get a lot of point of views here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:30 PM |
| 26 | I’m moving to another country and started selling stuff in my room to help with shipping costs and whatnot. Found some gems from my pickme days 💃Oh i thought you had bc it look exactly like an Instagram story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 8 | "I don't play games I'm straight"Yo i cringed at this sis I’m sorry You bring up the word date. Your trying to bait the date. Add this emoji 😬. He’s says he’s “fine with dating” and you reply that “of course” you’re interested. You’re doing the pursuing here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:31 PM |
| 60 | Think long and hard about this. When has putting a man before you ever positively affected your life? You have the upper hand, ‘edit and delete’ things in your life accordingly!Look at nature: the female animals are brown and plain. The males are colorful and bright and put on displays of skills to get the females to mate. Why should humans be different? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:28 PM |
| 96 | I’m moving to another country and started selling stuff in my room to help with shipping costs and whatnot. Found some gems from my pickme days 💃Happy you got some money out of it, but I’m sure the exes in question couldn’t care less. If I may, I think it’s anti strategic to admit publicly you dated guys that “forgot your birthday”. It shows weakness to other men (and women) that you’ll put up with less-than-ideal behavior. Image is everything and SACRED. Don’t let anybody from your future know you were neglected (or abused) or in general, treated like anything other than a queen in your past. Trust me, it will really change how people o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Men marry at the RIGHT time, not the right PERSONWell it’s the forever girlfriend that is talking about “being loved the most” instead of the girl he married. I think being a forever girlfriend requires you making it known to the guy you want to marry and him resting on his laurels or outright deceiving you by putting it off for no good reason. But - Dating, even for a number of years, and ultimately deciding you both grew apart or that you don’t fulfill each other anymore, isn’t making someone a forever girlfriend. even if it’s just one party… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:19 PM |
| 23 | Caption:’This is why I don’t take her out anymore’ bf complains of her taking a picture of her food 🙄Your last part made me think that this guy should actually be happy that she brags about being treated nicely by her man. It’s sweet and it actually gives her something to be happy about and possibly some girls would think “oh wow she’s really lucky”. This should be an incentive for this guy to keep doings things right. Somebody commented that he’s bitter and I agree! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 04:18 AM |
| 2 | I hope he picks youTextbook 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 04:14 AM |
| 125 | Caption:’This is why I don’t take her out anymore’ bf complains of her taking a picture of her food 🙄And the upvotes too! Men are just plain haters, man. ANY innocent thing that makes women happy they’ll have a problem with smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 68 | A minute of silence for our fallen sistersAll the actually feminist subs are being banned. We should consider ourselves warned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:10 PM |
| 49 | I hope he picks youA few years back in a group someone made a flesh light joke and one of the girls there said she didn’t know what it was. Acted dumbfounded and made them explained and was visibly disgusted. Afterwards she told a couple of us she knew what it was all along. She was a general queen. I think feigning innocence in these topics works in your favor both to draw out the creeps and abusers, as well as to delineate clear boundaries with non abusers. Example: Him: “I saw an article someone shared about ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:09 PM |
| 24 | He got what he deserved!Thank you for explaining! I am old and didn’t get it. What a chump! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 12 | Men marry at the RIGHT time, not the right PERSONI edited it out because it’s not highly relevant to the point and I can make it without it: my point is that I don’t believe HVM will marry someone if they’re not truly in love. They have no need for that and they can definitely find a great woman. If a guy had the means to marry (like he’s no in university still) and he didn’t, sorry girl but he jus didn’t love you enough. He was just dating you but when push came to shove, he realized you weren’t the love of his life. HVM don’t just let the lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:49 PM |
| 92 | Men marry at the RIGHT time, not the right PERSONThis may be an unpopular opinion, but to me, this mindset is nothing but a cope that forever girlfriends tell themselves to be able to sleep at night. HVM don’t marry out of convenience (they don’t “settle” in any aspect of their lives) and a HVM who is crazy about you WILL marry you. And he’ll do it within an easy, elegant timeframe. You’re not gonna be 30 dating for 5 years and all your relatives asking when you’re gonna tie the knot and pressuring the guy. That’s not how HVM roll when they’re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:16 PM |
| 3 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.Omg did you even know the guy at least? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 38 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.I wish there was a sub for sharing screenshots or stories of blowing up guys with their current partners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:32 PM |
| 18 | Just thought we all deserved a good chuckle this July 4th. Woke up this morning to this from a 7 year abusive ex.this is the most mercury retrograde riding off the Venus retrograde thing I’ve seen in my life Vomit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:30 PM |
| 11 | Your current male partner and ex partner are more likely to murder you than anyone else.Commenting again with this thought: You know how we always read that the most dangerous moment for a woman is when she’s leaving her male partner? And given how little (comparatively) it seems that it’s an EX husband, that just goes to show you that if you manage to make it out you become exponentially safer. Maybe once there is an actual divorce a guy has really let it go/you go? Well most guys. That said, the ex boyfriend or ex fiancé is WAY above... so it’s a scary thought if only at the very… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 06:25 AM |
| 8 | Wish this was satireHow are you sure it’s not though ? Just asking can’t tell from the a screenshot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:57 AM |
| 24 | And they wonder why they never get matches.I too am triggered. Did his ex make this profile though? lol that would be funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:57 AM |
| 32 | Your current male partner and ex partner are more likely to murder you than anyone else.The murder for hire is probably also the husband 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Travelling for a man...You say you’re seeing this guy but is her your boyfriend? If it’s your actual boyfriend you should feel comfortable with him coming to your house, not embarrassed and he should definitely try to help you in whatever way he can. If you are both young and without much means, surely he can help you with tyding up or doing non-professional repairs. A guy shouldn’t be leaving a mess in your house whenever he comes over, just as your girlfriends wouldn’t. Now if you’re embarrassed of your place, you d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:10 PM |
| 8 | *update* I’m tired and going go to sleep but it’s funny how I’ve been called a gold digger for saying that the woman should get a soda on a date if she wants one.Honestly both your replies were hilarious 🤣 The wall of monster cans had me rolling but the “aycheemvee” was pure spongebob 🤦🏻♀️ god I hate them so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:15 AM |
| 14 | How do I get over my fear of being "settled for"?As I understand it it’s a multiple-front manipulation technique where men plant the “dread” of leaving you to get you to behave in compliance. You nag, he leaves the house. You don’t have enough sex, he implies or shows you there are women willing to sleep with him. It gets pretty dark because it becomes systematic so you never complain or protest and are always pleasing. I recommend you google something like: “how to use dread red pill” and go from there it’s 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:52 PM |
| 10 | 😒 Oh yeah we're jumping at the chance to be taken advantage of by an older, cheating, scummy power-hungry LVMSomebody set him up pretend you’re 16 then get him to meet and report him to the 🐖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:28 PM |
| 13 | FDS inside jokes 🤡Him: But i dont kn- Me: AND IM TAKING YOUR HALF OF EVERYTHING TOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:27 PM |
| 6 | FDS inside jokes 🤡Meta 👏🏼👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:26 PM |
| 18 | MeN aRe sO oPpReSseDThis is my favorite 👏🏼 Can’t wait to say in real life: “sounds like men need to pull themselves up by their bootstraps” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:18 PM |
| 38 | How do I get over my fear of being "settled for"?The first thing you need to figure out is if you’d had these feelings of inadequacy in other relationships or in your life in general. If so, you need to work on your self esteem hopefully with a therapist. But the reason i say this is because even if you say or feel you bf is a HVM, men are experts are subtly planting insecurity on you. Red pillers do it explicitly, they call it “dread”. But other guys may do it consciously or unconsciously in a manner that’s harder to identify. So the second i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 01:14 PM |
| 8 | (Copy and pasted) (Long post) Wife is blatantly stonewalled by her husband and still doesn’t know if she should leave. What else is there to discuss? He won’t respond to you anyways. Just leave. No more excuses.“I can be a lot. I talk a lot”. 🥺🥺 hes your husband he should be delighted to talk to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 12:46 PM |
| 12 | pick me spotted.If a guy already had female friends of years h shouldn’t be expected to cut them loose because of you. However, I believe committed men shouldn’t be meeting women friends one and one without you, and if you can’t make it he should reschedule. I guess it depends also on the chick in question, and your personal intuition and level of comfort. If there’s some girls birthday party and all his friends are going and you for whatever reason can’t, I think it’s fine. One on one, no Another one: friends … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 12:03 PM |
| 31 | They wouldn’t, why would you ? (don’t mind the use of « female », yikes)Oh yeah. Men wouldn’t let us get away with half the shit they DEMAND we put up with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:50 PM |
| 7 | I hope she never takes him back. The comments on this thread were absolutely disgusting. 🤮I mean.... it’s not like the guy was pushing her to shave fully. He says himself that he could care less, and that it’s basically her choice and he likes it how she has it now. Personally I also prefer a man fully shaved for oral, not because I’m a pedo. Much like the fellow in this post I definitely don’t mind some hair there and it’s not like I can’t tell a grown 🍆 from a prebuscent one, especially on a man who is clearly otherwise grown and obviously matured sexually (beard, chest hair, every… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:31 PM |
| 9 | They literally have nothing better to do with their lives to think and ask questions like this? Depravity of men, so fucking disgusting.To be fair, it could be a 13-year old boy who asks the question. There’s everything on Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:23 PM |
| 10 | My HVM opened my eyes to the horrors of the porn industry.This sounds like a guy with sound logic and sound principles 👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 06:34 PM |
| 16 | Stopped responding because overly complimentary and boring men are uninteresting to me.. then he hits me with this.😂😂🏅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:46 PM |
| 3 | is going blonde a good idea?this topic is extensively discussed on r/vindicta - re: blondmaxxing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 01:18 PM |
| 19 | This article should be a lot shorter, “if a man regularly yells at you, leave”The only thing i would take away (and that’s a stretch) from this is that de-escalating is an amazing skill that everyone should know. But it’s NOT the woman’s burden to learn to de escalate in the face of disrespect. However, keeping your composure when someone else is losing their shit is not only HV and classy, but it’s also powerful as f because if gives you leverage going forward as the “rational” one - which is a huge mindfuck for men. Also, if you always keep a cool head and never show yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 8 | Is lockdown a valid excuse for him not to take me on a date?If he were being strict about lockdown and having people over then it would be fine if he just wanted to keep talking over FaceTime or whatever. Clearly he isn’t super strict if he’s willing for you to come over. Ps. Don’t “date” during lockdown. And don’t meet a guy that sleeps around unless you want to catch 🦠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 02:17 PM |
| 12 | Eww... he thinks this is a funny birthday present?!I can appreciate that this implies that a stereotypical girlfriend uses your money and runs up your credit card. Still but ykwim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:16 PM |
| 7 | Meghan Markle: Lessons in Not Tolerating DisrespectSo like they met twice? Once a chance encounter and the second at a charity ball game? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 05:00 AM |
| 14 | Meghan Markle: Lessons in Not Tolerating DisrespectIt’s not that she didn’t correspond much. It’s that it was zero. She had never engaged with tons of the a lista she invited and nobody really close to her side was there at all. It was all celeb guests that she didn’t know, met there or only barely knew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:42 AM |
| 17 | Meghan Markle: Lessons in Not Tolerating DisrespectA cable show is a day job. There are tons of more glamorous non-show biz jobs, when compared to whatever status she had beforehand. She was a working actress, sure, but hardly glamorous. It’s also documented that she invited a lot of A-list celebrities to her royal wedding (like Oprah and Serena Williams) whom she had never met before. This absolutely screams desperate and non-genuine to me, two non high value qualities. But nobody has the absolute truth and we can learn something good from all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:19 AM |
| 19 | Meghan Markle: Lessons in Not Tolerating DisrespectI’d be interested in hearing what others think that supposedly makes her high value. That she’s biracial? That she married a prince? That she was a minimally successful cable show actress who was never going to make it big? I guess having a day job is a valuable ability/trait. I really can’t figure out for the life of me what is it that people find admirable at all. I feel like everyone just projects their own fantasies on her but I’ve never seen or heard of her doing something of value but inst… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:09 AM |
| 48 | Meghan Markle: Lessons in Not Tolerating DisrespectThis is probably the most unpopular opinion on this sub but Markle is the opposite of hvw to me. Nobody has a single nice thing to say about her, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Teen Vogue is marketing sex toys... Their primary demographic is 12-17yo, and don’t you have to be 18 to enter a sex shop? Why are magazines so comfortable pushing this kind of content on underage girls?trying to teach your child to masturbate the pain away instead of cutting? Maybe the mom is the problem here because freaking w o w | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 01:09 AM |
| 48 | Survivor of domestic abuse starts dating a man who reveals himself to be a past abuser. Several people in the comments tell her “maybe he’s changed”“Called the cops on himself” yah shhhhuurrrrr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 01:05 AM |
| 7 | This was his opening message. What did he think he would achieve?Should have replied with: 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 01:04 AM |
| 40 | Dinner + “Movie” = SexHa! He put the to watch a movie in quotes “ “ himself I have no respect for men anymore it’s not even hate it’s something else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you ever been in an argument with a man and he keeps pressing for you to over explain your side until you feel crazy?Thank you for sharing this - is never heard of the term 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:32 PM |
| 9 | Have any of you ever been in an argument with a man and he keeps pressing for you to over explain your side until you feel crazy?Is the Pope catholic? Seriously they do this to tire you out so you give up or concede, get you to say something else they can focus on instead, aggravate you enough that you snap and they can turn on you for “your reaction l” instead the issue. Quite possibly, to also be able to claim you “doing it again”. Nagging. Being difficult. The usual. Give these men no benefit of the doubt ever. They know exactly what they’re doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:41 AM |
| 81 | Should women thank their date for the dinner or other expenses?Lol you should always thank someone when they gift you or do something for you Thanks absolutely a given. Showing genuine appreciation is 💯 HV behavior, and though HVW expect to be treated, they are appreciative of the guys continued investment. Expectations are different from entitlement, and thanking people - men, parents, friends, women, strangers - shows you’re gracious and were raised right :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:19 PM |
| 25 | Downvoted for pointing out this guy didn’t bother to disclose a child to his GF until four months in - even as a “sperm donor”, he took an active role in her life, and just didn’t bother to tell GF until they’d been dating for a while. Vet vet vet ladies. And everyone’s calling this guy a hero 🙄Women actively not disclosing that they have kids to men they barely know or are barely acquainted with, is something I’ve always been in favor of because of pedos. Nobody plays the long con better than a pedo. Gain your trust, be a father figure to your kids, watch them while they support you “pursuing your goals” all the while grooming them or straight molesting them . I fully support women not disclosing on dating profiles or early dates that they are single mothers - too bad for the scrotes … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 04:56 PM |
| 22 | Imagine how tired we areI’m ready for the asteroid to hit this planet 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:23 PM |
| 63 | Downvoted for pointing out this guy didn’t bother to disclose a child to his GF until four months in - even as a “sperm donor”, he took an active role in her life, and just didn’t bother to tell GF until they’d been dating for a while. Vet vet vet ladies. And everyone’s calling this guy a hero 🙄4 months to spill these beans? Naaaah sis 1 month would have been okay to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:15 PM |
| 5 | Teen Vogue is marketing sex toys... Their primary demographic is 12-17yo, and don’t you have to be 18 to enter a sex shop? Why are magazines so comfortable pushing this kind of content on underage girls?This is teen vogue though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:29 AM |
| 21 | Teen Vogue is marketing sex toys... Their primary demographic is 12-17yo, and don’t you have to be 18 to enter a sex shop? Why are magazines so comfortable pushing this kind of content on underage girls?I understand your position but that’s not my argument (some will end up xxxx so might as well yyyy). That would imply that masturbation is the lesser evil of something. The question is also: can underage teens legally NOT buy sex toys at all, or can they not buy them IN A SEX SHOP? I doubt it’s illegal to sell sex togs to a teen. As for Teen Vogues broader agenda, obviously I wouldn’t know.... as I haven’t been a teen for 13 years! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:46 PM |
| 22 | How to respond to this? We had a great time. He was super respectful and sweet but he started responding less and less due to a backwards school schedule and a few other problems.There’s nothing to respond. I mean, he responded to you, very clearly and also kindly. The conversation is over :( sorry if you had your hopes up but this is the least we can hope for. You did the right thing by being explicit though, and he responded transparently and decently. At most, since he mentioned the pandemic, something like “thanks, stay safe!” Would have been appropriate, to be diplomatic. But not anymore. It’a been too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 108 | Teen Vogue is marketing sex toys... Their primary demographic is 12-17yo, and don’t you have to be 18 to enter a sex shop? Why are magazines so comfortable pushing this kind of content on underage girls?Masturbation is normal and healthy and all (most) kids will do it eventually. Personally, I think it normalizes getting in tune with your own body and it’s a whole generation possibly being more demanding and having higher expectations when it comes to their own pleasure. Masturbation is a part of sex education, and as long as it not framed in a male-pleasing agenda, I think it’s fine. At a sex shop you can find actual depraved shit. Gag gear, bondage, etc. This doesn’t seem that bad to me. It’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:30 PM |
| 34 | Why do men's pants have such big pockets? To hold the audacity...Coronavirus will be gone one day, but guys like these will remain 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:06 PM |
| 2 | School of AffluenceThat’s the one!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys prevent pregnancies?If I were you I would get an iud and never tell my partner (or partners, because it lasts several years). Pretend you can’t take any hormonal birth control so they always always use a condom. But I would lowkey have my backup method in place because there a lot of crazy psychotic men out there who try to impregnate women on purpose against their wish. Reddit has tons of posts like this. Often they succeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 8 | Another woman faces possible infertility due to disgusting male cheating on her before their wedding.“I have not strayed in 2+ years” yeaaaaaahhhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:56 PM |
| 18 | Wow, manipulative jackhole takes job in Australia without telling gf of 5 years or parents. Tries to gaslight gf reaction.“I thought she [gf] would be supportive but if not she wouldn’t act up because she’d be trying to be on her best behavior in front of my parents”. Direct quote. This guy is so manipulative I’m disgusted. It’s also triangulation (look it up in the context of narcissistic abuse). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:49 PM |
| 7 | School of AffluenceI also feel like she has no substance like: what does she do for a living? What did she used to do? Where does she draw on? There’s just so much relatable content that comes across more genuine and yes I really like Asha C (sometimes she’s a little too young for my demographic like some topics don’t apply lol but that’s okay that’s on me not her 👵🏻) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 03:47 AM |
| 7 | Gosh, it must be so hard living like that! Maybe if he smiled more...My bf is 5 7 and I’m 5 8 on a good day 😂🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 03:45 AM |
| 4 | School of AffluenceSo I think a content that could increase your elegance in the long term is Shannon ables. She’s not a “women’s blogger” she’s more of a lifestyle blogger based around the idea of a serene, elegant, lifestyle that has beautiful things as well things of value - material and non material. Basically, living a life based on quality and not quantity. Everything from relationships to cooking to interior design, to mindfulness, to becoming cultured, to learning in what to invest your money, time and ene… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:05 AM |
| 34 | Gosh, it must be so hard living like that! Maybe if he smiled more...A jacked short guy is so cute though 🙊🐥🐥 (someone tag OP who is a total incel in the making) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:56 AM |
| 50 | “You’ll be single a long time” - this guy“Beamer because I have no tv” Jaaaaayzus... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:44 PM |
| 47 | School of AffluenceI think a lot of her stuff is arbitrary and focused on external. To be honest I don’t consider her a hvw, to me, she gives more the vibe of russian escort TRYING to be elegant. I don’t know what it is? the botched fillers, the weird speech patterns... I feel like if you focus on this external factors you’re only setting yourself up to be used. I don’t buy what she’s selling 🤷🏻♀️ but that’s just me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 09:39 PM |
| 46 | I am not saying it IS rape, but I can’t be the only one that thinks hiding use of porn on purpose when entering a relationship is rapey behaviorConsent is about willingness + capacity to consent to the sexual act. Otherwise would you say that someone you sleep who you thought was a millionaire and then you found out they were broke, would you consider yourself raped? To me this far-reaching argument endangers the very concept of consent. Consent is a very specific thing, that we shouldn’t extend to being “wrongfully” seduced. If you sleep with a married man unknowingly, and you wouldn’t have done it had you known he was married, that’s … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 09:31 PM |
| 9 | How the medias label unconventionally attractive women and unconventionally attractive men 🤡I get your point but i just want to point that she’s not a single mom. She did get married pregnant to him (after dating for about 3 years) and they have 2 children together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:57 AM |
| 8 | How the medias label unconventionally attractive women and unconventionally attractive men 🤡To be unconventionally attractive first you have to be attractive (him). Saoirse, is a beauty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:55 AM |
| 6 | A depraved warthog using physics to justify pedophilia.I want a hat with this! to go with my shit eating grin Edit: or a facemask with this! 😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:52 AM |
| 2 | What am I supposed to want from a boyfriend or husband?Well then.... there’s your first step :) work on yourself (it’s a never ending thing I know 🤦🏼♀️) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:16 AM |
| 14 | I'm having troubles with my boyfriend and I'm so anxious about seeing his family after lockdown.I second the other poster but, I do want to say that flirting with your ex behind your bfs back is not hv behavior. You should extend the same loyalty you expect from your boyfriend and if you have such bad doubts, then end it, but don’t put the both of you through such a negative experience. Just as we’re not stupid, guys aren’t stupid. We are all going through stressful times and maybe a dating break could be more in order. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 09:33 PM |
| 21 | What am I supposed to want from a boyfriend or husband?We can’t tell you what you’re supposed to want. But I think a good starting point is to analyze your non negotiable values in a man, and then figure out what can go and what can’t. For example, to raise kids is it more important to you a man that will be present, hands on, always there for the kids (breakfast and dinner) but isn’t highly ambitious professionally? Or would you prefer a guy that isn’t so hands on, catches up with the kids on the weekend but provides for a very high status and fina… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 09:31 PM |
| 8 | He also said women shouldn't wear t-shirts when they go out. 🙄Which lesbian hurt you bruh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | LVM complains that his girlfriend asks him to assist her with cooking healthy meals for both of them after she develops a passion for cooking. LVM doesn't feel obligated to help her out. Comments are also a dumpster fire.You’re pickme for siding with him! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:54 PM |
| 1 | LVM complains that his girlfriend asks him to assist her with cooking healthy meals for both of them after she develops a passion for cooking. LVM doesn't feel obligated to help her out. Comments are also a dumpster fire.I think the way this guy tells it it makes a lot of sense. It’s not that he refuses to eat healthy or support her in healthy eating, it’s just that every night she cooks for 2 hours and he doesn’t want to do that. It’s not like he’s expecting her to cook for him while he does nothing. Or that he wants her to stop doing what makes her happy. He just doesn’t want to have to do it himself every night because he doesn’t find it fun. The title from OP says he doesn’t feel obligated to help her out af… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:51 PM |
| 104 | Haven't we all passed through this situation? LmaoYou guys are finding tall guys? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:52 AM |
| 30 | Dear teenage girls: Stop idolizing these average-looking Tik Tok famous dweebs. Apparently these are the top of the top. They have inflated egos and think they are gods due to their high follower counts. You could find cuter boys at your local vape shopGuys... that bag the groceries 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:34 AM |
| 3 | They really do think we're that stupidThe one next to the guy in the blue circle, center! The other one may also be because he seems to have some sort of conmemorative league ring? 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 07:55 PM |
| 47 | They really do think we're that stupidThe Michael Phelps one 💀💀 (he’s 6 4) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 07:42 PM |
| 21 | Am I right to ghost a guy for breaking quarantine?I 120% agree with you. Nevermind that black people (and to an extent Hispanics) are dying are alarming rates from covid, but this performative activism at a time where the very lives they seek to protect are possibly more directly on the line, shows a huge lack of discernment and critical thinking. That and the black square all over social media, drowning out the actual hashtags that mattered... I think yours is going to be an unpopular opinion. And as you see, any deviation from the hive mind g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 04:36 PM |
| 33 | No thank you.I’m expectations? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:52 PM |
| 12 | Age gap role reversalIm not saying this is your case at all and it sounds like you’re really lucky but I can’t not at least mention that a lady who worked with my mom years ago had similar situation (she was like 55 the guy 35 or whatever). Doted on her completely, was “against porn” and wasn’t attracted to the “overly sexualized sluttt look of young women” today... what stands out to me is that he was a TOTAL gym rat too... working out daily, turns out this guy was on the DL (gay). On the other hand there’s the del… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 05:56 AM |
| 18 | I have to share because I'm absolutely enraged🐷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 05:56 PM |
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