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I think it’s a great idea to bring on a 3rd host. Reaux & Savannah, I love you but we need some fresh perspectives, particularly from someone who is still active in the 2023 dating scene and willing to share their stories/lessons. Lately I just don’t feel like I’m learning anything new that actually contributes to how I approach men & dating. I want less “Love is Blind” and royal family commentary, more strategy & radical feminism & politics. Also really liked the career series, it was super inf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/23 07:09 PM
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Thought the title sounded familiar. This episode was posted on the patreon back in December. And there was no bonus episode this week. Hope everything is okay Reaux & Savannah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/23 01:08 AM
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Absolutely loved June as a guest! She’s really articulate and made some great points, hope to hear more from her on the pod!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/23 06:53 PM
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As with many other content creators who ask for compensation for their labour.. FDS makes free episodes (main FDS podcast) and optional bonus episodes that you pay for (on the patreon). This was a bonus episode. Some people enjoy the content and are willing to pay a bit extra to get access to bonus material. Clearly, other people like to grow out their armpit hair and take contrary views as a personal attack, making negative assessments of content that they didn’t even bother to consume. Reaux d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/23 08:33 PM
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Did you actually listen to the episode? The title was a throwaway comment but in the episode she actually gives a nuanced and reasonable take… and she doesn’t claim that anyone is better for shaving vs not shaving…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/23 08:44 AM
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At this point he’s just targeting intellectually disabled women, right? Like I’m not trying to be mean or victim blame, all the fault lies with him, I genuinely just think he’s targeting vulnerable women with low IQ / low financial literacy. It’s really quite sad and not that entertaining to me, tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/23 03:05 AM
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I wondered that too. When Savannah was off the podcast for a few weeks to recover from her surgery, the other hosts were quick to explain her absence and put the listeners at ease. Lilith being gone with no explanation makes me think she either quit or was kicked off the pod. And now the others are trying to sweep it under the rug like nothing is wrong? Really? After I’ve been listening to Lilith’s voice for over a year and feeling like I’ve gotten to know her? Really disappointing. Edit: I reme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/22 03:24 AM
6

Where's Lilith?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/22 06:04 PM
11

Where's Lilith?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/22 08:39 PM
5

Is the FPS podcast coming back? I’m loving the roasting content lately but I miss the deeper, goal-oriented political discussions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/22 05:00 PM
2

You’re an awesome mom. Because you were so proactive in advocating for your kid, he will have a much better quality of life. It’s crazy how one “small thing” can have such a snowball effect. The structural throat issues create airway issues, which creates cognitive issues, which create behavioural issues, which creates more cognitive issues, etc… not to mention the detrimental effects on craniofacial development. Mouth-breathers end up with abnormally long faces and recessive chins/poor jawlines…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/22 06:48 PM
52

My catholic religion teacher used to talk about how the husband is supposed to be the head of the household; if the husband and wife can’t agree on an issue, then she has to just acquiesce to him because “someone has to be the leader and God decided that it’s the man”. Any pushback to this idea, i.e. what if he doesn’t know what’s best, what if he has substance issues, what if he is abusive, etc any number of reasons he might not be the ideal decision-maker was just met with a naive “weLL tHaT’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/22 05:09 PM
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Yup nobody will ever convince me that a 50 y/o dating a 32 y/o isn’t creepy af… or an 80 y/o dating a 47 y/o… Date people your own age, you weirdos!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 02:25 AM
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Like the “half your age plus 7” formula to justify 30 y/o grown men dating 22 y/o girls who have not yet had the chance to fully develop their frontal lobes and experience the world outside of college lol 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 07:04 PM
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Yay! I feel like I'm in the same boat. Recently landed an exciting new job that I'm super proud of. Traded in my dingy basement apartment in bumfuck nowhere, for a bright spacious condo in a vibrant city. Financially independent of course. I feel like I'm pretty much done processing my traumas, mined them for all the lessons I can. And now the navel-gazing has gone on long enough - I'm ready to allow new people into my life, including a partner. The next step in my level-up journey will be (iron…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 08:52 PM
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“Men care about men” in the sense that they want to uphold a patriarchy that increases or maintains male sexual access to women. Men such as this author HATE that women are starting to have higher standards and reject casual sex, because one day it might mean that he, a mediocre male, will have difficulty accessing sex. So they subject us to this sex pozzy drivel to selfishly maintain the status quo. They will frame it as an appeal to collectivism and the “greater good” when it comes to women re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 07:43 PM
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Could never be okay with that. If he’s willing to expose his wife to higher risk of STD’s and cancer, that’s evidence he doesn’t love her or care about her well being. He also has a sociopathic attitude towards women, “ gaming” and discarding them after sex like they’re garbage. I just couldn’t love a man like this, knowing his heinous treatment of other women. The audacity of thinking he gets to be community dick, while also having a devoted wife/family. Fuck you, cake eater. Also lol @ “nothin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 07:11 PM
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I would also completely disregard any male advice when it comes to sex and dating (with the exception of Lundy Bancroft and others who actually educate us about abuse). As a general rule, men do not have women’s best interests at heart. Men care about men (and their peens)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 12:40 PM
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We “teach” them by leaving. It’s on them to connect the dots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 08:57 PM
315

Exactly… they know, they just don’t care. So stop giving men the benefit of the doubt. They KNOW they’re being invasive, creepy, and threatening… because they wouldn’t behave that way towards other men (who they see as equals)! They’re just taking advantage of the fact that women are socialized to prioritize male comfort, and we’re physically weaker etc. They’re not stupid. These same men are making business deals and performing surgeries and defending theses. They know that yelling and interrog…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 12:49 PM
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When I first started listening, the way I could tell them apart was: Reaux often sounds like she’s smiling and/or on the verge of laughter and her voice has kind of a musical quality to it? whereas Lilith is usually (but not always) more serious sounding. “That’s just how I be” is a Lilith-ism haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 04:05 AM
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I say this as a Lilith stan… as in, if she started a cult I would probably follow her lol… but yeah she does tend to dominate conversations in a charming yet masturbatory way. Tbh I think she has narcissistic fleas, kinda like a Shallon Lester character. I don’t particularly like the way she hints at major past traumas but then leaves us kinda hanging, like why even bring it up if you’re not going to share. Then interrupting Savannah, and apologizing for interrupting her, but then continuing to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 03:00 AM
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Ehh, the healthcare system in Ontario has collapsed (nurses fleeing the bedside due to blatant disrespect and unsafe conditions) and the conservative government is using this to justify moving towards privatization of healthcare. So right now our healthcare is cheap trash, soon enough it will be expensive trash. So maybe go to BC or NB or something lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:15 AM
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I was mostly creeped out by the way Daphne was portrayed as this innocent, doe-eyed debutante with her childish frilly dresses... meanwhile she's having wild bareback sex in public, literally screaming with pleasure after 10 seconds of penetration and minimal foreplay. Not to be madonna/whore complexy, but it was a weird juxtaposition, almost pedophilic. Like gratuitous barely-legal porn set in Regency era London. I mostly enjoyed the show (costumes, set design, music, and some characters were q…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 08:16 PM
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If he doesn't make the first move, then the relationship simply wasn't meant to be. He's either uninterested, passive, overly anxious, or has something else going on. Not a mate. Women making the first move is how we end up with opportunists and passive reciprocators. Guys who think, "I could do better.. but I'm bored and have nothing else going on... so might as well entertain/fuck this girl for a few weeks/months/years until this no longer serves me." And I'd personally rather not be someone's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 05:30 PM
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SPERMOIDS 💀💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 05:24 PM
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Very true! When women play devil's advocate, it's to dive deeper and gain a well-rounded perspective on a controversial topic (see: Reaux on the podcast!). Often when men play devil's advocate, it's an attempt to justify their own actions and views that are harmful to women. Literally, advocating for the devil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 05:18 PM
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Ok so I'm conflicted on this, because while yes we need to be aware of male depravity and protect our daughters, but this is the second incest post I've seen on here in 2 days and it honestly is making me sick to my stomach. I come here to learn dating strategies. I don't want to read this. What is the strategy here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 03:31 PM
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Yeah how is this 50/50? Sounds more like 95/5 (if I'm being generous and assigning his "companionship" a value of 5%)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 02:11 PM
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💯💯💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 08:47 PM
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It's a false dichotomy. You can encourage your friends to leave their shitty boyfriends, while also being there to wipe their tears. You can lift her up, and validate her experience, while also tactfully and honestly giving feedback on her situation. In a good friendship, you should be able to respectfully challenge each other, even if it sometimes means "feeling bad". Why must we avoid "feeling bad" anyway? Those are precisely the conversations we need to be having. Both to escape abusive situa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 05:44 PM
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YES. They say they love strong women, but they don't. They like to conquer strong women (because it's a boost to their ego), and then bring her down to his level (because it's fun/stimulating to take women down a few notches). Or just discard her, if that's too much work (because women are not people, so why bother).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 03:08 PM
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It is such a clear cut example of abuse/ overuse of force. Just impulsive, animalistic retaliation. How are people defending this rabid asshole? Imagine if they had children, and their toddler play-bit him on the arm. Would he cannibalize his child too? Jesus. She’s very lucky the bite wound didn’t get infected. This could have caused SERIOUS damage. Hope she’s up to date on her tetanus vaccination. E- now it looks like all the abuse sympathizers have had their comments hidden. 95% of people are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:32 PM
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Why are some people so invested in lowering the standard? Like what is the psychology behind this. Why does male access to sex trump women’s (very reasonable) desire not to be around unhygienic men? Cause that’s essentially what they’re saying, that men are the priority and fuck what you wamen think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:03 PM
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Prior to this debacle, I was unaware Jada has alopecia or that she’s sensitive about it. All Will has succeeded to do is draw attention to her condition, and make himself look like an ill-tempered, violent, impulsive man. The way he initially laughed was kinda creepy too. Plus Will Smith is a Scientology cult member, so you know he’s not right in the head. E: Thinking about this in a more general sense... men immediately going for physical violence to "defend a woman's honor" is pure scrotery, I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:34 AM
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People are calling her an asshole because…. she dared to SIGH and ask her husband for help. This grown man needed to be explicitly told that large knives are dangerous around toddlers? Lol pathetic. For real, what is the point of reproducing with men who need their hand held through the most basic tasks of daily life. Not to mention his total lack of empathy for her pain. 🗑🗑🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 10:37 PM
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“Hey listen, I had a really awful day today. I’m starving and exhausted and I can’t focus on what you’re saying. Do you think we could talk about this later?” That’s literally all he had to do. Raging at the people you’re supposed to love is not okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:56 PM
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Exactly…. Create the problem and then sell you the solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 08:35 PM
6

Not the R Kelly adultery slow jam 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:40 PM
12

Yeah no, a “high quality man” is not going to love me and treat me right, just because I strung together the perfect combination of words in a fucking text message lmao Just another snake oil salesman trying to profit off women’s insecurities
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 04:37 PM
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Men who love Kanye or find his recent abusive antics “hilarious” are waving major red flags as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:17 PM
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I do think that HVM get the "ick" from women with low self esteem and other problematic traits. That's part of what makes them HV - they have actual standards, as well as the decency to gently let women down, so as not to waste anyone's time or inflict trauma. However none of the guys in this article seem particularly high value lol. None of them actually loved or cherished their girlfriends in any meaningful way. To them, their girlfriends were simply placeholders, emotional outlets, sex toys, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 02:37 PM
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Men: ugh all these women in my dating pool have issues and baggage Also men: heh I love scooping up younger women, traumatizing them and giving them future baggage Make it make sense They don’t think of the long term issues they’re creating for the women in their community. They deplete their own dating pool through their fuckery, and blame women for it. Also, why is “having expectations” inherently a bad thing? I certainly want my spouse to have (reasonable) expectations of me. I wouldn’t want …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 05:17 AM
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He lead me on for months, made all these amazing promises and then slowly faded away. He was my first and it was a problematic “relationship” in many ways (age gap, long distance, porn sickness) but still my hopes were high at the time and my heart was broken. I deleted his number and unfriended on Facebook. Fast forward 2 years, I get a random message request on Facebook from him, letting me know he was in town for the weekend and wanna meet up at xyz hotel? Proud of my pre-FDS self for ignorin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:38 AM
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They really can’t comprehend that perhaps we want money for the sake of having money and buying nice things for ourselves. All that matters to them is sex, and they don’t perceive us to be humans with higher-level desires, so OF COURSE they assume that our motives are simply sexual just like theirs. Classic projection. We’re just living our lives bro. We have our own motives and life accomplishments. You are irrelevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:08 AM
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That’s what gets me too. These guys are physiotherapists, doctors, lawyers, sales project managers. “Normal” functioning members of society, educated and attractive, loved dearly by their female family members and friends, but who just so happen to be sexual predators behind closed doors. Their misogynistic attitudes only become apparent when you dig deeper. Safer to just assume that any given man ain’t shit until he proves otherwise over time. I too am taking a break from dating while I develop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:10 AM
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There’s more at stake for us so we definitely need to keep a couple steps ahead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:04 PM
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We all pay in some way. I’ve paid in my feminine upkeep, youth, attention, presence, emotional labour, bodily integrity, and innocence. I leave the safety of my home to meet a male stranger, I am potentially exposing myself to violence. Men who don’t GET this are either naive or delusional. The man can sure as shit pay for my meal. It’s the absolute least he can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:15 PM
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It feels like peeking behind the curtain at the wizard of oz. These men put on a whole ass show by “wooing” us, future faking, sweet talking etc but don’t fall for it! They do not see us as human, they don’t love or cherish us. We are just a means to an end - sexual gratification, an ego boost, that’s it. So give them nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:57 PM
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Definitely don’t comment on their videos or engage with them whatsoever. It will only prompt the algorithm to show you more of these types of videos, which will get depressing af and only bolsters their platform. Just report and keep scrolling. Though I will say, I love watching roasts of those podcasts (Drew Afualo!!). Reminds me there’s sane voices out there, it’s not all doom gloom and misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 06:39 PM
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The ladies were spot on in their assessment of philosophy scrotes lol. This one philosophy major I know labels himself a “free thinker”🤮he is an anti-vax, convoy-supporting, Facebook-spamming, domineering argumentative mong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 02:21 PM
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I fully believe that “The wall” is a psyop meant to inflict stress and insecurity upon young women, creating fear of “time running out” and compelling us to settle for mediocre men. Overall this serves to increase male access to women while we’re young and easily manipulated. I wish I spent less of my 20’s feeling stressed about my 30’s. What a waste of mental energy. My life is objectively better now, and I look the exact fucking same lol (but even if I looked older, who gives a shit… I’m human…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 04:40 PM
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Yeah she lost me at the “personality disorders don’t exist” and her anti-medication stance. Sure Jessica Taylor has a PhD but she is by no means a medical doctor and she stepped out of bounds IMO. There should’ve been a psychiatrist present to challenge her points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 06:17 PM
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They’re not stupid. They’re constantly observing us, and making calculated decisions. They call themselves “visual creatures” after all! My first “partner” watched me very closely. He commented on how I was “shaking like a leaf”. He heard me hyperventilating. He saw how limp and zoned out I became. That didn’t stop him from isolating me in his condo for 3 hours and doing his fucked up porn routine on me. He may notice that something is “off” in your body language, but will conveniently ignore th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:49 PM
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Exactly.. if you see a woman vomiting in a toilet, you give her some privacy.. or if you're close with her, you can hold her hair back and offer her some gravol or water. You don't penetrate her. These scrotes really see a human being in a state of vulnerability and instead of thinking "I need to protect her", they think "wooo! time to get my penis wet!" It's so incredibly fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:58 PM
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They literally reduce us to “clits” and “cum guzzling whores” and then become ~shocked pikachu~ when we want nothing to do with them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 06:15 PM
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They reach age 28-32 and realize they've hit a fork in the road: they need to either get married, or split. The ones who do get married always seem to have something "missing". She generally loves him more than he loves her. There's no real passion or partnership. He prioritizes his buddies/career/hobbies/rest over everything else. It's depressing for sure, cause she genuinely thinks she can't do better and she's scared of being single :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:02 PM
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He also used to have “sleepovers” with his young teenage fans. rapist scum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:15 PM
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He's a failure of a man, a genetic disappointment. Normal heterosexual men enjoy the pursuit of women. It's fun and rewarding. Sure approaching a woman may be nerve-wracking, but a man will muster up his courage and fucking go for it because it's his first step towards creating a legacy. If you can't be brave, be a leader, and provide for your woman, then what fucking good are you? You get weeded out of the species.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:09 AM
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I love how men can spend a millennia with their feet on our necks, subject us to all kinds of abuse and still want us to recognize ~how hard it is for them~ lmaoooooaoaoaoao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:20 PM
9

For Real. Why Do People Type Like This? It Doesn’t Make What You Have To Say Any More Important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:02 PM
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They literally have SO many strategies to avoid impregnation... Pull out. Wear a condom. Vasectomy. Oral. Outercourse. Abstinence. They know where babies come from, and they are aware of all these strategies to avoid creating a pregnancy. They just CHOOSE not to utilize any of these strategies because they are selfish and only care about muh penis/muh orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 11:33 PM
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Don’t want to be a father? Then don’t ejaculate inside a vagina. It really is that simple lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 07:58 PM
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Too many scrotes forget that childbirth is an extremely serious, life or death matter. Imagine dying of an amniotic fluid embolism alone in the hospital while your sperm donor scrote watches the Super Bowl. Unbelievable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 07:37 AM
10

Yeah she needs to stop dating and focus on her mental health. Seems manic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:30 PM
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These men are so shortsighted and impatient. Like cool, you saved yourself $30, but now you've just guaranteed that you'll never get a second date with me. Their strategy is so contradictory too. Like, you say you don't wanna marry a woman who's "damaged goods" and yet you're happy to damage the women in your community through your peasantry and easy dick, thereby depleting your own dating pool. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:09 PM
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The sad thing is, I bet she staged this entire photo and planned out the caption thinking it would be "cute" and he just went along with it. This is some of the most blatant self-degradation I've ever seen... literally calling herself a broodmare... (broodcow? idk farms lol) 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:54 PM
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100%. I’m not an ob/gyn but I feel like there’s gotta be a better way to deliver a baby besides ripping it out and crippling the mother for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 11:46 AM
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Yo this is so true. One guy I was dating (pre-FDS obviously) tried to do the slow fade with me, and when I gently confronted him (basically just a quick text “hey are you still interested in seeing me, no hard feelings either way”) …. he sent me a huge paragraph about how our last date felt “forced and awkward” and he literally wished me “good luck with the cats”. It was SO HARSH. And for no reason!!! I cried for hours. So yeah, if a guy is trying to do a passive aggressive rejection/slow fade, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:34 AM
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Some men really have nothing to offer besides their dick. At least they are honest about their intentions and easy to weed out. Much prefer these guys over the ones who love bomb and string you along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:59 AM
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A friend of mine had a 4th degree tear. Her baby had the cord wrapped around it’s neck, and the doctor reached into her vagina with both arms and PULLED baby out. Later she ended up having a prolapsed uterus/vagina and required a hysterectomy. she’s still having issues years later. She can’t lift anything heavy or “bear down”. There’s nothing holding her vaginal vault in place. She has chronic pain. She will need surgery to attach a mesh that will connect her vagina to her tailbone (sacrocolpopl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:39 AM
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WOW, a 52 year old angry misogynist who writes at a 6th grade level and is under 6' tall... sign me right up!!! 😍😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:27 AM
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This is an important point. Gray rocking is a strategy for dealing with narcissists you can't escape from (e.g. you're living with a narc parent and financially dependent on them). Gray rocking is basically being as uninteresting as possible, so that the narc gets bored and moves on to another target. You don't give a narc the silent treatment. This will only enrage them further, putting you at risk. A major lesson here should be: don't drive alone with a man you haven't vetted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:28 AM
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She expressed her boundary and he deliberately violated it, knowing she has a trauma history, all for his own amusement. Psychopathic behaviour. Good on her for not wasting another day with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:49 PM
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They really think that the "trauma" of being "used for dinner" is on the same level as the trauma of having your body & soul violently entered and then discarded. Not trying to play victim olympics, but honestly these guys are so obnoxious. It's fucking $30 bro get over it.. you don't know suffering. If anything we're doing you a favor by not wasting any more of your time on a dead-end courtship. Now you have the freedom to take another lucky lady to olive garden!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:22 PM
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The ladies did an excellent podcast episode addressing this topic - ep 33 "How to level up your pick-me friends". Strongly recommend giving it a listen. Sometimes you can help your friends level up. But other times, you need to recognize that your friends are having a toxic influence on your life, and it's time to cut your losses. Your post resonated with me, though. I spent so much of my life thinking that I was the problem. When I realized that all of my trauma - all of the bullying, verbal ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:37 PM
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YES! Plenty of men in healthy relationships somehow manage to save up money, go to the gym, eat a healthy diet and pursue their hobbies. Sounds like these meme farmers have trouble with time management... shocking. Also LOL @ the fridge full of healthy fruits & vegetables (as if) and the "no one eats your food" gloating. High quality men are quite happy to share resources with their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:11 PM
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This is exactly it! FDS says: cut off the men who aren't a match Redpill says: manipulate and fuck any woman who will "let" you Our philosophy doesn't hurt anyone. Their philosophy is sociopathic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:33 AM
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Years ago I used to frequent the redpill subreddits and this put a lot of misogynistic ideas in my head. I really bought into the idea that women hit a wall after a certain age, that youth and beauty are a woman's most important qualities, that I need to prove to men that I have all the proper feminine traits (i.e. I am emotionally supportive, I can cook and clean, have a nice body). Most disturbingly, I saw myself as ~better than the other girls~ because I was making an effort to be desirable t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:02 PM
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He fucked around and found out. Don't wanna get exposed for your shitty behaviour? Then don't do shitty things. Men who callously discard women after sex deserve to be called out and avoided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 10:03 PM
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I love whenever Reaux brings up the hilarity that is the Incel community. The currycel/ricecel bit made me CHORTLE. Can you guys expand on this in the future? Pleasssse tell me more weird incel-ism's so I can laugh without having to peruse their forums. The comment on female feticide/patriarchy in India was also very timely, considering recent events with rapists "boycotting" marriage lol. Would love to hear you ladies delve deeper into this topic in the future!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:47 AM
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Haha yep... Woman: expresses anger and breaks up with man Man: responds with domestic violence, destruction of property, and attempted murder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 08:43 PM
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My "ick" sport is martial arts. Karate/MMA guys like to think of themselves as "disciplined" and "technical", when in reality they are super toxic/aggressive/coercive. They go after what they want without regard for who they damage in the process. Very redpill mentality. If your hobby involves pinning people down and hitting/kicking them, I feel like that should be a red flag of bigger issues lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:42 PM
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Yes! Like tell me you peaked in highschool, without telling me you peaked in highschool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:34 PM
6

Lol this guy had zero interest in learning how to do art. In fact I'd go so far as to argue that most men have no genuine desire to be taught anything by women. But I agree, strange men asking for favors right off the bat should always be a red flag. They're taking advantage of women's natural predisposition to be helpful and kind... all with the goal of extracting your sex/company. I also didn't like the way he shoots off these manic rapidfire questions. Teach me?? Whatcha say?? Favorite crayon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:56 PM
132

BuT mEn aGe LiKe FiNe wInE 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:21 AM
4

💯 if a date somehow corners me into paying 50-50, I can guarantee that'll be the last time the cheap scrote ever sees me. Walk straight into my car, lock the doors, block & delete, start the engine, drive home lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 10:02 PM
44

I work as an RN and I’ve met many capable, dedicated men who doted on their sick and dying wives. Good men are extremely hard to find but they’re out there. Have to have some hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:25 PM
170

He’s decomposing and he’s doing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:23 AM
22

LMAO @ Lilith firing a guy for masturbating in the work bathroom. That little moment killed me. These coomers have no shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 01:25 AM
7

Might want to edit your spelling. I assume you mean to refer to the blogger Violent Acres… and not the infamous predditor ViolentAcrez who created the absolute worst subreddits (jailbait, creepshots, etc) and is the antithesis of feminism…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 08:46 AM
15

He shows a fundamental lack of understanding of the female experience. If he can't grasp that it's unsafe and scary for women to be out walking in a secluded area with a stranger, what other simple things does he struggle to wrap his head around? At best, he's clueless and cheap. At worst, he wants to isolate you & do crimes to you. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:39 AM
40

This is the truth. And it doesn't matter if they're a high level executive, a healthcare professional, or an A+ university student. They will try to convince you to go raw and/or do anal. They think with their penis. Whatever makes the peepee feel good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 01:21 PM
40

Zero sympathy for scumbags like this. If you don’t want to be accused of being a statutory rapist, then don’t put yourself in a situation of acting like a statutory rapist! Literally just… don’t do things that rapists do! Taking a young drunk girl home, not verifying her age, and then ejaculating inside of her, is a thing that a rapist would do! So don’t do that! Wtf it’s not that hard!! But we all know that it’s not a matter of this guy being “dumb”. He knew exactly what he was doing. He didn’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:42 AM
142

YES. I am so proud of this younger generation of women for resisting the social conditioning that tells us we have to nod and smile when men flirt with us, so as not to make them feel rejected/uncomfortable. At that age, I definitely would have done the awkward giggle and "thanks!", while feeling nauseous and dying on the inside. Even at 30 it's a struggle to undo this programming. Fuck these men who think they can corner us into giving them approval points. It's plain disrespectful and honestly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:45 PM
641

HAHAHAHA you treat women like shit, you forfeit access to our wombs! You don't deserve to procreate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:08 PM
24

Traditional "men's chores" like mowing the lawn, repairing odd things around the house, changing the tires, etc. are pretty flexible and can basically be done whenever he has the time and energy to get around to it. If the task is not completed in a timely manner, sure it may be annoying and inconvenient, but typically no one's gonna truly suffer. In contrast, traditional "women's chores" like cooking and cleaning are time sensitive and unrelenting. If there's no food, the family goes hungry. If…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 08:25 PM
21

I really like the 'prompts' on Hinge because it gives you a chance to weed out guys who lack creativity and intelligence. The whole purpose of the prompt is to show some personality and humor, but basic dudes will take it so damn literally. For example: "I know the best spot in town for _______". This prompt should be an opportunity to share a creative date idea or hobby or literally anything that conveys you as a dateable person. But instead dudes will just write one-word answers like "BEER!". …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:20 PM
3

"Take my breath" is quite literally about choking a woman to death during sex. You see, he really wants to indulge her fantasies, but he doesn't want to be the one to pay the price! Plus she's way too young to end her life :( What a pickle Abel has found himself in! It's also his second song where he references "heat between her thighs". Why is he so gross?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:01 AM
120

The self-burn is great, but I'm also laughing at this logic of "because I haven't seen it with my own eyes, it must be impossible" Does he also not believe in... gravity? viruses? the round earth? the great wall of china? His sexual partner count is definitely higher than his IQ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 01:35 PM
6

The ladies of the podcast actually explored this whole topic of men insisting they know best, when in fact they know nothing. It was a bonus episode called “Wrong and Strong”. Too funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 02:00 PM
83

It might've been a valid threat a few decades ago, when we couldn't open bank accounts or sign a mortgage without men. But now? Being single forever isn't such a scary idea, at least if you're privileged enough to live in a first world country where basic women's rights are afforded. I have no problems meeting my physiological and safety needs. I manage my own finances. Emotional needs are met through healthy relationships with friends and self. Sexual needs are valid, but even those can be met …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:52 PM
20

Certainly it was written as satire; we're supposed to see Dennis' wide eyes and intense jaw clench, and laugh at the absurdity of his brazen sociopathy. For me, the crux of the matter is that Dennis says the quiet part out loud. Dennis isn't unique. Plenty of average "nice" guys happily set up opportunities where women will feel pressured to have sex. Maybe it's not on a boat... instead maybe it's his condo late at night in a strange city, and you have no way of getting home, and he's significan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 11:53 PM
72

Dennis also made that awful "because of the implication" rape joke. (If you're not familiar, basically he's talking about how getting a women to have sex with him on a boat in the middle of nowhere is easier 'because of the implication' that she will be hurt/raped/killed if she says "no".) When that episode came out, people actually made memes and t-shirts about "The Implication". Like people genuinely found it hilarious that women could be isolated and pressured into sex. I wonder how many dumb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 05:34 PM
26

The year is 2021. When will people learn that it's not socially acceptable to comment on other people's bodies? I don't care if you're complimenting me, it's rude as fuck. How does the saying go? If the person can't alter something in 2 minutes or less, don't point it out. If something is stuck in their teeth, sure let them know. People do NOT need to hear your thoughts about their muscles, tissues, or bone structure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 05:57 PM
1

Eh, I don't see the point in hiring a PI, when the vast majority of sex crimes and abuse go unreported. All the guys I've dated had squeaky clean records, generally contributed to society and even had leadership positions in their careers/community, but they still managed to treat me like shit, and I'm sure they've gone on to treat other women like shit. There's no proof of anything, the only record is in my brain. There is literally nothing for a PI to uncover. Save your money, trust your insti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 05:41 PM
9

This- he's not proud of her, and that in itself is gut wrenching. Something all my friends in healthy relationships with HVM have in common: their men absolutely show them off. Not only is there a whole ass facebook album of their wedding, but there's little posts of all the life events leading up to it... the birthdays, trips, date nights, family pics with the new puppy, etc. He wants everyone to know how lucky he is to have this beautiful woman by his side. Honestly if my boyfriend has a socia…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:32 PM
3

Yup. Never attribute to stupidity that which is adequately explained by malice. These men know exactly what they're doing. They choose to use and manipulate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 11:07 PM
37

Is he really suggesting that men are entitled to women's trust? Does he legit have a brain injury or some cognitive deficit? YIKES Trust is earned. Over a period of time. Show me that you are acting in good faith, you respect me as a human being, you add value to my life and don't abuse me, and maybe one day I'll trust you. Why should I blindly trust a random man when he is statistically unlikely to bring me joy. Just speaking from experience... 100% of men I've dated have disappointed me in som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 12:46 AM
34

I never really thought of how weird a question that is, or how I'd respond to it. Of course I can cook dude, because I'm a functional adult. Duh. I also pay my bills, wash my bedsheets, and book routine dental appointments. It's not that impressive and you should also be doing these things... and this relevant to us dating how? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 07:56 PM
19

If they go to the doctor and end up being diagnosed with an illness, they might have to (gasp!) take medications regularly, go to follow-up appointments, and change their diet/daily routines. It's pride (I'm managing perfectly fine!) and laziness (it's too much effort to change my lifestyle). To be fair, this attitude isn't exclusive to men, but definitely more common in men, if that makes sense. It also sometimes just makes them feel good to whine and suffer obnoxiously over minor illnesses, li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 04:14 PM
12

I love this. That's exactly how it should be. Two adults comfortable and respectful and communicating with each other. I was heavily influenced by libfem/sex-pozzy rhetoric and I pressured myself to go along with certain situations that weren't good for me. Looking back, of course I was scared... these guys were basically strangers. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 11:05 PM
166

Pre-FDS I faked orgasms as an attempt to bring the [unsatisfying, painful, gross, never-ending...] encounter to an end. Because I didn't have the voice to say "I'm not feeling this anymore, let's stop". Or I was scared of what would happen if I asked them to stop, and they didn't. Yay rape culture!🚩🚩🚩 Now I'm all about picking a partner that makes me feel safe enough that I can express my needs honestly. Hasn't happened yet, but one day... HAHAHA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 03:07 PM
47

LOL watching You through the lens of FDS has been eye opening. Bragging about not using phones/social media/watching TV is a huge red flag for psychopathy. Like what are you trying to hide scrote? Do you think you are just soooo intellectual compared to us iNsTaGrAm ThOts? He even brags about not keeping up with the news, so he is a simpleton in addition to being a psycho. The worst combination!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:16 PM
88

Was just gonna say this! Buddy doesn’t ever unwind with a TV show?? Not every hobby needs to be “productive”, it’s ok to just kick back sometimes. He’s either a liar, or one of those narc hustlers who looks down on people for the crime of enjoying the passive consumption of entertainment. Incompatible, I would’ve blocked after that first text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 02:30 PM
14

Just be careful with bumble premium; I paid for my subscription but then changed my mind a couple months later, and I could not find the "unsubscribe from premium" option for the life of me. Their customer service was useless. It was either a) continue to have $40 withdrawn from my account every month, or b) delete my entire profile. I went with option b. Felt like a total scam and I didn't even meet anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:17 AM
68

Standing ovation for Reaux's point at the end re: launching an offensive. No more standing idly, scratching your head and wondering "why do men do that? whyyyyy can't they be nicer to us?". Start making tangible efforts to improve your life, build self esteem, demand respect and enact consequences. If he doesn't respect you, walk away. It's that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 10:58 PM
177

Giving yourself the ick is key. I imagine the target of my limerance shuffling along in his boring hometown, with his receding hairline and pot belly, getting drunk all alone and perving on younger girls (like he did to me). It also helps to think about where YOU were in life when you imprinted on this man, and what did he represent to you at that time in your life. For me, I was 20 years old and travelling for the first time, at the very start of my career, naive and insecure. He was older and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:46 AM
45

I have to believe there were a series of red flags before this behaviour emerged. There’s no way a decent man just starts stealing his baby’s food out of the blue. I can’t. What a fucking nightmare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 05:14 AM
71

You find it necessary to force yourself to laugh at his “jokes” (he gets mad or hurt if you don’t). He seems amused by your discomfort. You feel compelled to “go along with” his ideas; it’s his way or the highway; you’re not sure how to safely disagree. You try to rationalize his behaviour. You know your true family/friends wouldn’t approve of his actions, so you find yourself preemptively “defending” him. That sinking feeling in your chest. Your heart pounding. That overwhelming nausea every mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:48 AM
57

Another nail in the coffin for why nightclubs should be avoided by women. While travelling I went to a nightclub where I was groped by a patron, and soon after sexually traumatized (I can't yet admit that it was the R word) by the bartender. Learned recently that 8 years prior, a woman was kidnapped and murdered by a bouncer from this same nightclub. Who knows what other shady shit has gone down. And this is just ONE inconspicuous club. I believe that the nightclub industry attracts the lowest v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:20 PM
21

He had the best self-own of the group too. "Sometimes the women keep looking at the clock. That's a real buzz kill." Lol you're so bad at sex that these women, who are being paid, can't even pretend to not be bored. Guess what Dung boy, it's also a buzzkill when men treat you like you're just a warm hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 06:37 PM
1

Requesting a newbie flair 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 04:33 PM
54

Will never forget a conversation I overheard between some dudes at the gym. They were all raving about how "awesome" it was that one of them, a 38 y/o dude, was engaged to a 28 y/o woman... how when he's 50, she'll be only 40; when he's 60, she's only be 50, etc. I just thought that was so weird. No mention of any other aspects of their relationship, or her qualities as a human being. Is she kind, intelligent, honest? Meh, doesn't matter, as long as she's ~relatively youthful~ Like that's really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 11:56 PM
27

"I'll let you know about our date closer to the day of... it's just that I have this big project on my job site on Tuesday... also my landlord wants to come over tonight and meet with me about extending my lease... oh shoot, also tomorrow I have to be up at 5am for a 6am personal training session... I know you didn't ask me any of this, but I feel the need to send you this wall-of-text because I'm a GOOD GUY and I don't wanna waste your time or anything!" [immediately ghosts]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:37 AM
10

I dated a guy briefly, he ended up using and ghosting me, but during the "fun getting to know you" period I kept developing these super itchy rashes on my arms. It was like patches of hives that would come and go. Nothing else had changed (laundry detergent, soap, environment, meds, everything was exactly the same). I never had those rashes before or since. I am convinced it was some subconscious biological reaction to this shitty guy, like my body knew he was trouble before my mind registered i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:54 AM
14

Men, if you can't afford the measly $35 to take a lady on a date, then you shouldn't be dating. Get out of the dating pool and get a job, jesus christ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:37 PM
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