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6

Biodegradable sex toys?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 02:01 AM
5

My legit fear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 11:22 PM
93

But when I say “if someone did that to your daughter you wouldn’t like it” they’re ready to fight lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 12:31 AM
1

Males in the wild know if they’re not coming correct the FIRST time around, they know they’re not coming at all 😅😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 05:13 AM
5

Plus he has numerous kids. I don’t think he’s sorry at all lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:59 AM
8

🤡shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:58 AM
9

I used to think if I recycled the same guy for sex that my body count would remain lower lol🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 03:24 AM
2

And that’s why I left 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 04:45 AM
3

I used to believe that going 50/50 would spare me from being treated differently 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:52 AM
35

That last sentence!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 10:36 PM
7

The pandemic was the fuckbois time to shine. They couldn’t take us out anywhere, only wanted to come over, and depending on where you live, they’d invite you over for a “walk date.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:40 AM
16

Yesterday, I thought about how much living with my parents is a blessing. I don’t have a place where scrotes can use me for a place to stay 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:16 AM
12

There’s not much to choose from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:16 AM
2

Why I left my ex. He STILL thinks it’s about money😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 06:07 AM
1

I love how they have a primitive instinct to impregnate; but not to provide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:41 AM
6

Or even if they say they’re looking for a “relationship.” They use “relationship” as a cover to get sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 01:32 AM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:25 AM
25

And are STILL failing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:05 AM
6

What kills me is that they want barefoot and childless women but can’t afford to take care of themselves. Damn a woman/family. He had NO stability. Men stay worried about the wrong shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:19 AM
3

"Most men stay with their parents for convenience, I stay because I’m broke lol." Same but I dont plan staying forever lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:59 AM
33

One Minute Man is still one of my bops at 31 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 11:42 PM
3

My dad did some corny shit like that for my bday party on the home videos of looking at women's asses WHILE MY MOM WAS PREGNANT WITH MY BABY SISTER! I told him my moms better than me cause I would have grabbed HIS camera and started doing dick shots of other men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 04:51 PM
28

They're so HEmotional!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:42 PM
23

Oh trust me Im NOT! My son might be 8 but I told him: make sure you're financially stable before pursuing anyone, women don't like broke men, and I'll disown him if he makes a child and doesn't take care of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 10:36 PM
17

Or they'll see it as a competition to where theyre like "well if he do that, I can top him and outdo him by being worse." It's sick. But if we treated them like their ex's, it's a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 05:01 PM
28

His mom (after i left the relationship because i found out that he was a pedo from someone else and not her) "If he hurts himself, I'm gonna make you pay!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:45 PM
103

Number 2 is EXACTLY why I dumped my ex. I'm black and hes white/mexican/and native American. This fucker stated that "you're not my type. I usually date pretty white girls or Mexican girls." So i asked him "well why dont you go after them?" He didn't have an answer. Maybe his preferences can help him while hes down bad. I REFUSED to stick around and I wasn't gonna let him use me to be his come up girl im doing better in life than he is so that he can smile his "preferences" faces. His delusional…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:28 PM
93

BYE!!😂😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 02:49 PM
97

Its embarrassing in person; but to publically put it on fb is even more embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 02:42 PM
22

Hell, even if the bm arent famous, the bc will still ride for them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 03:51 AM
1

If theyre acting like this, they deserve to be pillow biters lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:19 PM
1

And they'll get mad at you because you dumped them first 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:12 PM
3

"If I stayed, I wouldve always been the breadwinner forever." And thats why I jumped shipped myself!! ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 03:43 PM
8

This is EXACTLY why I dumped my ex. He could ask his boss to front him for weed; but not take me on after driving almost 2 hours to see him. He also lied about the company going under as an excuse as to why he couldn't plan anything. Come to find out that the company was going under was a lie per his boss. And I got tired of it. So I told him I needed a break (him in a low voice) "so youre breaking up with me?" As a pity move. So yeah, I went on a date with someone, posted it, and he's commented…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 12:01 PM
6

Thats why Im out of favors. I work hard for what I have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:20 PM
5

Youre right! I am! If men weren't sexist, I wouldn't be. What's good for the goose is good for the gander!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 05:48 PM
25

Right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:30 PM
1

I know his egghead ass aint shittin on ol girl! The gumption!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:12 AM
4

💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 04:43 PM
16

Then if you get into a relationship with them and youre holding them accountable to whom they said that they are, youre the problem. They'll say youre expecting too much or you make them feel inadequate. Ok well stop going after women who are out of your league then. I cant stand that shit. Males always cry about the shit they get themselves into to make YOU feel bad😒. Theyll also get mad at YOU for not letting them play with you or take advantage of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:14 PM
29

Impoverished predator?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:28 PM
19

I wish someone told them that being pathetic isn't a flex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:36 PM
32

Neyo is a douche. He told his ex fiance to get her tubes tied while he ran off and got another woman pregnant and started a new life with her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:34 PM
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Then when I bring up biology in terms of men leading, protecting, and providing all of a sudden im a golddigger lol. Men want to lead everything; but can't lead themselves to a job application nor common sense🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:02 PM
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If they have any teeth 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:40 PM
16

My ex said I was "bougie" because I said I wanted a 3 bedroom house lol. Yeah I know I look bougie to broke men who can't do shit for me. The same person who said "I made him feel less than a man" because I told him "if something happened to my car, you wouldn't be able to come get me." Cardi B said it best "broke men don't deserve p*ssy."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:31 AM
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I recently went back and forth with a tik toker. She made a post about how women need to let men open up. I stated that men need to seek therapy. She said I "misunderstood" her. I didn't. I know EXACTLY what she said and I know that men need professional help that they're unwilling to seek.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:29 AM
7

Of course after the relationshit began, he stated that he made his wife lose her job because he came by and lost his shit. I asked her about it the other day before I went to court and she confirmed that he did. After I broke it off recently, in hindsight, I see why he wanted to know where I worked. I'm glad he doesn't have a car. My restraining order was granted for a year! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:24 AM
3

So long, shitter💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:18 PM
6

Too bad none of the on lookers had a gun....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:42 PM
21

My ex smelled like spoiled milk🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:02 AM
30

And a murderer😳😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:04 AM
31

Every dude that treated me like trash smelled. There was one ZVM I met on pof years ago not only was he horrible, but he smelled like he had HIV. I had to cry my way out of sex with this guy to get him to back off. The police are STILL looking for this guy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:03 AM
10

Like the only thing that these dudes have in their name is Facebook and a criminal record. I'm not impressed 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 02:08 AM
8

It sounds like she was gaslighting you and she fell flat on her face...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:51 AM
6

I couldn't imagine being so pathetic for sex that I think its a flex....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:35 AM
6

It's hard to find people irl because no one knows anyone or the guys only want sex. I need more...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:33 AM
12

I tell them "animals in the wild know better. No excuse will ever be good enough."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:27 AM
29

I bet they have NO problem asking for free sex either. So yeah, open that wallet boy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:23 AM
1

Sometimes it's before 3 months😅🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:47 PM
2

He assaults and kills women and now he's locked up forever with MEN! I'm glad that animal is locked away forever! I hope someone takes his asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:45 PM
1

I would have laughed in his face lol😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:38 PM
2

Start lying to these males!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:33 PM
2

My ex really asked me have I slept with people on my Facebook before him? I told him no🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:33 PM
1

Then when you leave, they wanna come back!!🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:32 PM
2

Guys are literally like "Well if he fucked you over, why can't I?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:31 PM
2

As a mother, DO NOT HAVE KIDS!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:29 PM
3

I HAAAATTTEEEE these guy's families! They're the worst!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:26 PM
1

Oh look! It's my dad😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:19 PM
2

Shes a lot better than me because ain't no fucking way..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:58 PM
1

I had a guy that I considered a "friend" for years. I've declined his advances for years. I went to high school with his wife and every time they had a problem, he'd run to me. Once, (while married) he said "I wished I married you." I'm thinking to myself "baby you never stood a chance."🥴 Back in 2019, we agreed to meet up for Starbucks to catch up. They had already began the separation process. Of course, I had to pay for my own coffee only for me to be bombarded by "Why won't you date me like …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:08 PM
2

I just found out that my ex is a child molester. HIS OWN MOTHER DIDN'T TELL ME!! I had to find out over Facebook messenger from someone he knows. His mom and him both said they didn't tell me because they knew I wouldn't date him. I had a feeling that I couldn't fully trust him on top of him showing signs of control and manipulation. I thought he was good when I ran his name. I ran his birth name and nothing. His adopted name was where his charges are. And of course his family said that he's inn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:42 PM
2

I have a few disorders as well; but I've NEVER went out of my way to fuck someone's life over; but these males are worse off than me and I can't/won't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:02 AM
1

And I would have cheated back and said "Because I can" and I would have left him. I'm sorry but I just can't let cheating slide. If we were married and he cheated, im taking half and suing the mistress🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:43 AM
2

I told my dad right in front of my grandparents that if I was my mom that he would have been gone 20 years ago. A lot of people think I'm 24 but I'm really 31. I don't let males age me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:39 AM
1

Yall are KILLING me talking about his jelly roll ass!😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:34 AM
1

I was going back and forth with a woman on tiktok about men needing women to talk to etc, I said he can go find a therapist and she stated that I "misunderstood her"🙃 I told her women are NOT emotional dumping grounds for men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:00 AM
2

We would have been fighting! I would have knocked him clean out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:33 PM
5

Get your grubby lil hands off me, peasant!😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 11:30 PM
34

Don't be a black single mom🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:59 PM
95

Even some pick me ass mammy black women believe black men should be protected at ALL costs. Moreover, a lot of them are "race loyal" meaning that no matter how he treats you, you still choose black men over everyone else. Those type of women don't value themselves at all....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:17 PM
173

And the older one is bigger as in "she let herself go"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:51 PM
225

As a black woman, we don't have quality options in men. Shitty black men and shitty white men. There's no one out there. I BET you money that those are the same type of black men who expect unquestionable loyalty while they abuse us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:22 PM
4

His parents need to put their foot down ASAP so they're not raising an entitled, sorry ass loser!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:05 PM
29

They make serious efforts to be creepy and wonder why they aren't landing matches and cry about it. You won't accept my shit treatment and I'm ANGY!! 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:50 PM
64

Neil DeGrasse Tyson distant unsuccessful cousin😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:48 PM
7

Theyre like "you are what you attract." K well if thats the case, why can't I meet a guy on my level? Not one of those sorry mfs can't answer that question🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:26 PM
7

I would have kicked my son's ass! I don't play!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 05:21 PM
31

Sounds like my story; but no one- not even my family reported him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:59 PM
26

They think it doesn't make them look desperate; but it does lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:55 PM
20

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:01 PM
4

What a fucking loser! It's a damn shame they provide nothing, are worthless, yet expect women to put up with their shit. I bet they'll never propose this bullshit to other men because it's all rooted in control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:48 PM
11

Divorcing is a problem? He needs to be happy that your mom didn't put a bullet in him like she outta have😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:37 PM
49

I would PAY to see that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:33 PM
116

Like that time I put "Dustphobia" on Facebook and my low earning ex thought I was talking about him. I said "if it don't apply, let it fly." 🙃 He was such a fucking cry baby. He had NO business being with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:26 PM
10

One band, one sound! Don't do anything you don't want me doing because I'm not that trustworthy! NEVER be afraid of giving men a dose of their own medicine!🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:17 PM
4

Me too! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:54 PM
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😭😭😭😭😭 I'm SUPER weak!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:24 PM
6

The latter. It's a case that stems back from 1979 that stated women cannot withdraw consent after the fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:30 AM
26

A few years ago, our governor made it legal to withdraw consent at anytime. It's damn shame that this has to be a thing. NC can be so backwards 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:51 PM
14

I'd rather not marry than to marry wrong🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:32 PM
7

Yeah...especially when they're trying their BEST to get you pregnant early on. Scrotes will do ANYTHING to control women. I made him wear condoms even though he didn't want to despite being "Catholic" and "PrO-LiFe" and giving me a guilt trip sob story about and ex having and abortion. These dudes are desperate for control and even dumber for trying with with you and you already know how it ends. They're so damn defective 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:23 PM
6

No wonder why they would get pissy when I said "Really?" When they say "I LoVe YoU" Lololol!! My ex literally hung up on me, blew my phone (called/fb video changed me, and left about 2 voice mails BEGGING me to call him back!!😂😂😂😂😂 Only to realize him making harassing phone calls would lead him to me filing a restraining order. I left him when someone told me about something that he KNEW for a fact I would have blocked him for automatically. "If someone shows you who they are, believe them." - M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:33 PM
2

shaky voice "ShE wOnT lEt mE sEe tHe kIiiiidddss!!!" 🥴🥴 Then the mom told me why😳 These scrotes are the main character's in their own story...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:22 PM
3

I bet you he tries to coerce women into fucking women without a condom🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:56 PM
75

Like my lvm ex saying that because he said and I quote "You expect too much!" When I left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:53 PM
3

That's why I have no problem doing them dirty🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:50 PM
3

They can't tell us what they don't know 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:49 PM
1

Ooooh weeeeee!! The times that my ex would preach to me about "UnCoNiTiOnAl LoVe" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:44 PM
1

Yeah I'm DEFINITELY gonna judge you if you failed to tell me that you're a sex offender🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:41 PM
11

I left my sons father at 7 months pregnant. Then a couple of years ago he asked me "Do you remember when we used to be friends?" I'm like "Yeah, but we're parents now." Lol he really thought he had a lifetime of access to me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:25 AM
5

"DoNt jUdGe A bOoK bY iT's CoVeR!" Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:01 AM
6

I LOVE watching that stupid ass smile fall off of their faces! Stupid questions get stupid answers 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 11:38 AM
2

And some will hate you for helping them🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:58 AM
5

And I believe that certain men will claim to be pro life so they can trap you with a kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:03 AM
7

I remember my ex would complain and argue with me over some of my Facebook posts by saying I'm a "man hater." I said "you don't see me up in arms when you're talking about women because I know it's not applicable to me." "If it's a lie, they'll laugh; and if it's the truth, they'll get mad." -My grandpa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:12 AM
14

My ex always said that manipulative shit "it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission." I beg to differ because if you hurt me, you meant that shit and you're punishment is losing me. You've lost your good standing with me. You didn't give a fuck, so why should I? Being in my life is a privilege- not a right...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:38 PM
11

This reminds of my recent ex who failed to tell me that he is a registered sex offender; but didn't tell me because "It was a long time ago." 🙄 He left me numerous voice mails from him crying to cussing me out. Calling me "white" and simple for filing a restraining order and that I'm "simple minded."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:27 PM
8

Pssst: this is how you prevent dead bedrooms!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:32 AM
91

But when YOU tell them love is transactional, they don't wanna pay up🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:43 AM
26

Thats crazy that your energy just noped the fuck out lol. It was like "Nottt Todaayy!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:34 PM
22

And they rationalize their shitty behavior. Im not ya mama!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:32 PM
5

I wouldn't have been emotionally abused had people not lie to me like this from childhood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:55 PM
93

Crybabies lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:47 PM
91

They just do stupid shit and that alone makes them untrustworthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:46 PM
14

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:55 PM
3

As soon as I read that, I knew that things weren't going to bode well for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:04 PM
3

North Carolina has a waiting period of being separated for a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:03 PM
51

I was gonna leave my ex before my birthday (I wish I did). Covid happened and the kids mom had to move in with him and his family. I came over one night before leaving town. The morning after, he dumps me over text. He thought he was gonna have his family back; but she's a lesbian. Now he doesn't have anyone😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:36 PM
1

What I really hate? When people tell you to "choose better" and its "YOUR fault you picked them." Like it's not our fault that these guys are shit and apparently it's a pandemic within itself. No woman wants these dysfunctional HEmales🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:22 PM
1

What's the name of the documentary?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:43 PM
9

What woman in her right mind wants to fuck that?🙄😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:37 PM
4

I wish they knew it made them look sick!🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:41 PM
5

Even if he's obsessing over her negatively, please leave! Hes more than likely not over her. My ex would trash his kids mom but he was still in love with her. But he can't be with her because she's married to a woman :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:14 PM
6

Because "HoNeStY"😒🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:27 AM
6

A pre-heated hot dog roller💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:26 AM
11

I deleted my OLD because lvm kept asking me to come over 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:02 AM
2

😒😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:53 AM
13

And its like being desperate for sex is cool. I had to let an fwb go according to him because sex is an opportunity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:32 AM
3

My ex kept pushing me to send them since the beginning of the "relationship." Despite him sending me his, I told him that I would NEVER send him any of me. Glad we're over!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:28 AM
3

I hope it does!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:24 AM
25

"Bees make better suitors than most men." Well that STINGS!🙃🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:39 AM
7

Our culture is dick centered because having a shitty man is better than no man. And it's ALWAYS the woman's fault- no matter what. And those are the SAME people that tell us to "pick better;" and yet when we do, we're shamed for wanting better! This shit boils my blood!😡😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 07:14 AM
3

The only thing they have is the audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:51 AM
5

Dudes like that deserve to be tree ornaments! Let the hanging begin! Dead men can't fuck up twice! grabs popcorn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:50 AM
5

Thats ALL he deserves to eat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:48 AM
12

Sorry Miss. Lois, I'm not interested in abuse🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:48 AM
7

Imagine being proud that you're a LOSER! These dudes have very weird flexes. And losers like these have daughters🙄. They'll tell them that all men are dogs while simultaneously telling women not all men are like that and to "choose better." They don't want their little girls being a "ViCtIm"🥱🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:46 AM
5

Thanks for telling the world that you're an insecure rapist 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:42 AM
12

And asks for their "body count." 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:41 AM
4

Its the thrill of lying and they shouldn't be allowed to breathe the same air we do...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:40 AM
5

Ya until I go on a date with someone else then you're gonna tell me that IM disrespectful. True story🙃🙃🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:26 AM
9

And a lot of them use their kids to get laid because they're too cowardly to be honest. That's when I say "i hope your daughter's dont meet a pos like yourself" and watch their blood boil LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:49 PM
28

Even as a single mom, I dont want to date a guy with kids because they come with too many problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:35 PM
6

It means responsibility 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:25 PM
2

I did and blocked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:34 AM
4

Casual Carl and Fuckboi Frank? I'm DEAD! But yeah, same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:28 PM
4

I never understood this. I don't have time for the drama😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:22 PM
17

There was a meme floating around that said "Ladies, are you able to afford the same dates you ask men on?" Im like "Yeah, but im not going to. Lol" So many guys flamed me🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 08:12 PM
75

Like is being disrespected not a good enough reason for you to stop? Now I feel like guys have turned it up a notch by making you their "girlfriend" but in reality, you're just another fuck buddy to them because they're too pu*sy to take rejection. I had to end one recently. If all you have to offer is dick, you're boring and you make my pussy dry. Men don't know anything about being a man. I shouldn't have to pay for your incompetence...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:15 PM
17

And thats why i feel that I ALWAYS have to be on alert with men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:03 PM
5

If you hate yourself, why bother me? Leave me tf alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:45 PM
3

They stay cockblocking themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:25 PM
6

My ex I met on POF used his kids as bait and tried to make his kids mom jealous...but she got married to a woman and his plan backfired 💅🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:23 PM
12

Ehh...Facebook dating his how I busted a guy last fall. He realized I wasn't giving up the goods, declined his kiss on the first date, and kept trying to convince me to come over because his roommate was gone. Then days later got into a relationship. We went on our date in November. They've been "dating" since October and you think i wasn't gonna tell ol girl? I sent her the screenshots. And he seemed like the type that would fuck black women in private; but date white women in public. She broke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:21 PM
4

As a fellow North Carolinian, I can concur🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:32 AM
11

35? More like 45 lol🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:20 AM
4

I remember being taken advantage of by a 24 year old at church at 17. And i remember we were talking one day and he's like "I like you because you never ask me for anything." At 30, i find this very insulting and at 17. I thought it was a compliment 🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:25 AM
19

noted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:51 PM
1

This is why I can't take dudes seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:32 AM
3

Broke and ashy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:56 PM
8

I was thinking about this earlier and I thought to myself "If I'm the man AND the woman I this "relationship," why can't I peg you?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:34 PM
1

Same! My little sister had mentioned his name earlier and I was like "ooohhh yeahhh, him!" Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:32 AM
1

😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:28 AM
2

Its ALWAYS a fucking Dan!🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:26 AM
3

I cringed HARD when my ex mentioned females😖😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:26 PM
5

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:49 PM
82

A strap on tho?!?🥴 DEEEEECCCEEEEAAAASSSEEDD!!!😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:29 PM
114

Sorry dude! Some of us like to get our backs blown out😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:24 PM
11

At least he knows to stay in his place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:46 PM
4

I'll be like "Have you put a ring on my finger?" Him: "No." Well there's your answer to your question and get the fuck out of my face lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:34 PM
2

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:26 PM
9

Eww! A Hebrew Israelite 🤮🤮 those "men" are awfully misogynistic! Sorry girl :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:19 PM
5

Anal is for husbands (thats if I feel like it) and I don't see a ring on my finger lol. You can't let them have complete access to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:15 PM
5

Omg😳😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:58 PM
6

Posts like these make me TERRIFIED to be decent to men..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:57 PM
7

Its like they pathologically get off on it🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:55 PM
7

church shout
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:54 PM
4

Literally my worst fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:53 PM
5

Some are just as fucked up if not worse in their 40s🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:46 AM
12

It makes me want to peg them🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:29 AM
31

We must have had the same fwb. He pissed me off so I wrote "Date night was awesome!" on Facebook all while on my bed. He wasn't too happy about that LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:31 PM
44

I always side eyed that page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:59 AM
9

(Me bringing the meat grinder to the table) And nothing of value was lost...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:35 PM
8

Hes null and void🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:32 PM
24

If it's not up to my standard, I'm not doing it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:02 PM
4

Almost like my last relationship. I had checked out by Valentine's day; but he was still spending his money and I never paid for dates. I was THRILLED that we were over! He broke up with me over text not to my face the night before and i told him the feeling was mutual. I decided to have drinks on the beach :) And his plan to get his kids mom backfired so I was even happier! chef kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:23 AM
2

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:31 PM
15

Thats exactly how I feel! It's very hard to want men when they behave in depraved ways and guilt us for not wanting no parts in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 11:53 PM
2

You know they can't deal with rejection lol. I couldnt imagine what it's like to lie for sex LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:14 AM
32

All of that money and no common sense🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:52 PM
3

Itkindais? Itskindanot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:44 PM
44

What a fucking asshole!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:43 PM
31

What's even wilder is that there are women who cosign for them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:37 PM
17

Thats why I say "Unless youre dating men too, nothing I say will make sense to you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:36 PM
12

Some don't even have that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:12 PM
2

And men think you're easy because you are a single mom🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:06 PM
22

I had an ex fwb (we also saw each other outside of sex) get mad at me because I aired him out on Fb to warn other women about him because he was very manipulative and very abusive (he never put his hands on me). He reached out to me last year and asked why didn't I leave quietly o.O? Um why wouldn't I look out for other women? Now when you go to Google his name, you cant find his mugshots or anything else about him. And there are some things he said straight from his mouth so I know he can't get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:08 PM
5

Then will shame you for not wanting to deal with them🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:01 PM
24

Its a shame that men want to do everything under the sun but be a man🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 04:03 PM
10

Exactly! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:33 PM
31

And they think it's "LoGiC"🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:17 PM
16

Their penis is what defines their self worth/esteem because that's how they receive their validation. Its a tragedy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:14 PM
11

If a guy thinks I'm desperate to have him, that says more about him than it does about me. People treat you how they feel about themselves...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:14 PM
13

"I'll be upset if shes also fucking other men because it hurts my ego"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:54 PM
2

He used his kids to get to me and let my guard down. Karma was waiting in the wings. He was still in love with his kid's mom but she's married to a woman (she's living with him and his family temporarily due to covid) and he still didn't get his family back LOL! I told him not to play with me because he would lose. But I guess he was stupid and had to play himself to find out that i wasn't lying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:16 AM
7

My lvm ex would ask "Why are you doing this?" I ordered him a book Like showing him affection was a problem. Then come to find out he was a liar and future faked with me when he could have just been honest months before. It makes me not want to be a decent human nor a loving woman anymore to men. I'd rather be alone now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:05 AM
6

When he questions your affection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:34 AM
7

It was called "dontdatehimgirl.com
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:29 PM
4

If it don't apply, let it fly🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 04:05 AM
17

I legit forgot my exes name one day🥴. Mid way through the relationship, I had to remind myself everyday that I had a boyfriend, his name, and what he looked like I guess I really just didn't give a fuck lol🥴😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:28 PM
5

But remember a LOT of guys use their kids to get relationships because that's their method of getting sex. It's a very perverted way to get sex because they have poor social skills and they lack integrity. Their approach is very Ted Bundy-esque "Oh help me because no one won't date me because I have 3 kids" and they usually introduce their children very early on to suck you in. My ex did that early on and I should have known that was a Soviet's Union worth of red flags right then and there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:40 PM
13

"And in today's society where men don't even have money, what good are they to women? Men are selfish, delusional and illogical like that." But apparently, I'm delusional. I tell men that "Unless you're dating men too, you dont know what the fuck you're talking about..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:23 PM
4

I've been saying this for years; but people think I'm a man hater because I want to be treated well. They've got me allll the way fucked up. I have standards. Get the hell over it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:18 PM
11

Louder for the "You are what you attract" people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:10 PM
5

That's why I dont feel bad about my ex (before I knew the relationship was based on lies) having the taste of another man's dick in his mouth (before we were official but still) and he still couldn't get back with his kid's mom. You wanna treat me like shit and stick around? You're gonna suffer the same🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:24 PM
17

Cue the guys who say "Im an introvert"😒🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:42 AM
27

As an NC native and resident, I wish she believed that she could get better. These country bammas aint shit! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:53 PM
48

So over a 2100 mile drive for some dick? Nah this REALLY ain't it sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:50 PM
4

SAVAGE!!!😂😂😂 noted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:43 PM
11

I stopped reading at 36 y.o. man. If he hasn't learned to manage life by now, HES A FUCKING LOSER!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:05 PM
6

It makes them look like wild animals to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:46 PM
2

I know that feeling all too well about feeling that a man won't step up because someone else didnt have to. As I'm starting to level up, if he can't treat me like a woman, it registers in my mind that he's a piece of shit and not worthy of my time. Men have this weird thinking that "If she took shit from someone else, then I can do the same to her" and thats the wrong type of thought process with me because I will ghost the dude. Start thinking that you dont need to be saved from men because a l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:39 AM
4

Even if you give them a son, the dad will still neglect him..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:01 AM
6

Love and Basketball
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:36 AM
13

I told my ex not to play me because he would pay for it. He thought he was gonna get his kid's mom back...she's married to a woman (pre covid) and thought he was gonna get her back! 😂😂😂😂😂 Guys are dumber than I thought. No good deed goes unpunished!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:50 PM
15

I too am a POC 30 year old single mom. My son is 7 and his dad is barely involved. I was done with him during my pregnancy and I thought I was safe because I met him in college. He was hitting me up for sex last year. And because I won't sleep with him, he won't see his son. He hasn't been around since last October and he didn't even call or show for his son's birthday in June. I try to forget that his father exists because it breaks my heart that he refuses to grow up. Im in school as well as w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:07 PM
33

And this is why my ex lvm never got my nudes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:46 PM
2

Sorry! Im not into princess play! (treating men like THEY'RE the prize)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 12:37 AM
2

If a guy asks you "What are you looking for?" How would you respond? I wouldn't know how to respond without feeling that I gave him ammunition against me. this happened last time with my lvm ex using his kids to manipulate me (future faking)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:04 PM
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