PlumHot7169 Archive

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20	Straight from the horses mouth. NEVER share your past relationship trauma/problems with men because they will hold it against you. How poorly you were treated by men in the past will either make him resent you or he will use it as a bar for how much you are willing to put up with. I fear this is giving cues to lvm lurkers. Pretty sure my nvm ex used this. Bc he knew deep down he doesn’t gaf about any of his exes, bc they were only supply to him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 02:36 PM
116	Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂 This comment will be deleted (still not flaired) which is saddening bc what I’m about to say is important to those still on OLD. Note how Simon’s profile says nothing? Blank bios are the biggest red flag. Worst case scenario… they leave everything blank bc they will make up a personality to mirror and dupe the person they will exploit. Best case, they are so low effort OR their ego so fragile, they can’t even put a measly word in their bio. I had the unfortunate experience I’m still getting over…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 12:08 AM
9	Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂 SAME	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 12:02 AM
19	Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂 Yeah it’s not worth the boredom. Better to watch paint dry than to risk emotional abuse and manipulation by porn sick gamer bros looking for easy access to a bang maid.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 11:58 PM
6	Stick to your boundaries My ex said he was not like other men, too, when he told me went to Georgetown Prep and asked me not to judge him. So I didn’t and I yellow flagged it. Anytime now a man asks I don’t judge him for something he should be judged for… it’s a glaring red alert. Hint hint, this is the same school Kavanaugh went to. When man says they’re “not like other men,” they’re lying out their teeth. Self-proclamations are never to be believed. Put those words on mute. Did his actions say he wanted to know YOU, a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 05:57 PM
9	🤡 I feel like you wrote this for all the men I have had the unfortunate experience of meeting and encountering since the advent of OLD. This fits…Every. Single. One. Of. Them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 02:34 AM
6	🤡 Can confirm this. My NVM narcissistic ex claimed these bs things when we first started dating. I, being still naïve and not having found FDS yet, bought it and thought I could trust him bc he seemed “innocent.” He claimed he was “nervous to make a move on women, he didn’t know who was interested, was too shy/awkward.” The last schrödingers douchebag comment he said to me was “it’s not rape if you enjoy it.” I broke up with him the next week after a year of a nightmare trauma bond. He absolutely …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 02:23 AM
10	The Bite-Size Guide to Vet a Potential Suitor: Does he uses FILLER WORDS? Yep. Wish I’d listened to my gut on this. Vague compliments are flattery. Narcissists, nIcE gUyS, and just plain disingenuous douchebags flatter. Personalized compliments mean he sees you as a person, not as an object to fill his endlessly empty void.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/22 04:11 AM
8	I finally get it Sometimes men who don’t take initiative are just lazy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/22 08:20 PM
24	Guy wants to go on a date but wants me to pick a place and time. If you want to dumb fox credo, you can say “I’m used to guys planning the first dates. If it’s too difficult to do we’re probably not compatible.” See his response. Honestly I’d prob rather Blockity block block bc I don’t want to guide a lame horse to water. If he’s got any awareness, he’ll learn from it. If he doesn’t, he’ll get a pickme girl that is never going to be satisfied w his low effort.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/22 12:32 AM
55	The Queen behind TinderTranslators gets it. Absolute gold. So true. Their idea of kinky is dehumanizing and debasing women while being offended that they aren’t enjoying it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/22 04:06 AM
30	Ladies, I'm in desperate need for some advice. Please help!!! Agree w all this except he’s not that into you. Not about her at all. His objectification of women and saying disgusting racist shit is all about him being gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 02:16 AM
5	What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder? Hugs, I hope you’re getting help. Ppl with BPD can heal and grow. Bc the disorder is PAINFUL. W NPD and ASPD, they don’t care to change bc it serves them. I have the bpd trait of fear of abandonment. It’s fucking painful and extra horrific when you end up w someone w npd, bc all they do is abandon you, bc to them you don’t exist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 01:58 AM
1	What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder? Lol if he says anything really negative about his mom he’s probably personality disordered, too	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 01:52 AM
1	What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder? This was literally a list of the cons of my ex. It’s so hard to leave once you’re attached. Best to leave right away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 01:51 AM
3	What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder? Sorry to say this bc I’m sure there’s the rare case of a man being abused, but I think more often than not when a man claims a women abused her, it’s the other way around and he’s too mentally disturbed/entitled to even see it or EVER believe he could be at fault, bc how dare others.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 01:50 AM
1	What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder? Wish I’d known this. Exactly this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 01:44 AM
12	“Relationships are a mirror” - BS 🤡 Yes!!!! This reflection bs just keeps these shitty men from ever ever being accountable and keeps women over-accountable for what ISN’T THEIR ISSUE to begin with. Thank you. I’m so tired of pick-mes continuing to say no fOcUs oN YoUr PaRt, it’s about your own wounds. SURE, but sis, we ALL have wounds. Not all of us are gaslighting, manipulating and exploiting others bc of them. Just no. We can all increase our self worth as women. But unfortunately, there will always be shitty men wanting to sip…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 07:45 PM