Uruzdottir Archive

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–	Why are so many women almost absolutely incapable of making or unwilling to make the first move? They didn't start being sex traffickers and such, so not Tate. But they didn't care about them, either. Ever date someone who you only hear from when they want something? Who cheats? Who dismisses your feelings and concerns? Who doesn't treat you as a priority? Who repeatedly makes shitty insulting "jokes" that are not funny, even after you've asked them to stop? Who doesn't care what's going on with you, or worse goes around gossiping about it? It was more like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 07:49 PM
–	Why are so many women almost absolutely incapable of making or unwilling to make the first move? The others were just regular guys, but they still took the women who asked them out for granted and started being disrespectful. :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 01:00 PM
–	Why are so many women almost absolutely incapable of making or unwilling to make the first move? No. I mean a couple of them were all-weather douchebags as a general personality trait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 12:43 PM
3	Why are so many women almost absolutely incapable of making or unwilling to make the first move? Not globally so, no. A couple of them were douchebags in general, but they were in the minority.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 03:05 AM
8	Why are so many women almost absolutely incapable of making or unwilling to make the first move? Back when I was in college, I knew several women who asked men out (asked them out irl, not on apps). Without exception, each woman was taken for granted and treated like crap in the resulting "relationship", until she finally got sick of it and ditched him. I don't know if it's that men can't value something they don't feel they had to "work for", if they're so desperate for a designated sex depot that they don't care if they even like the girl (much less see a future with her), if they can't r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/25 02:55 AM
3	Why is male sexuality offensive? It's because women are BOMBARDED with it from countless men, most of whom we are not remotely interested in, from pretty much the minute we hit puberty until we are far enough into middle age that we are finally, blessedly left alone. Show me a woman who doesn't have a siege mentality about male sexuality by the time she's 20, and I'll show you a woman who would make Quasimodo look like a beauty queen. I'm convinced that's at least part of why many women are drawn to bad boy types. If a woman's …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/25 10:03 PM
1	Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her job Just because someone is good at planning and logistics doesn't mean that they are obsessed with career advancement. Any even semi-competent admin or secretarial role could do this, and they are typically not considered ambitious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/25 05:45 PM
1	Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her job Because ambitious people need a spouse who isn't ambitious (or to be able to afford house staff) in order to singlemindedly pursue a career but still have a family. Somebody's got to be perfectly fine with minding the home front and taking care of the children while the other jet sets off to executive board meetings in Tokyo or where ever. If both spouses are ambitious workaholic types and plan on having children, they have two choices -- either get a nanny, or for one/both to sacrifice their ow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 08:02 PM
0	"Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women. Hardly. For a woman, include all of the above 1-9, then add uncomfortable shoes and clothing, as well as a lot of time and money wasted on makeup and far more elaborate skincare and haircare routines. Do you really think women look like that naturally...? LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 05:38 PM
13	"men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by women Living in squalor is not functional. The "rubbernecking the disaster" urge in humans is why those shows on hoarders are so popular. It's not exactly because they portray functional adults, lol. And no, being a grown person who needs someone around to take care of you and tell you what to do as if you were a child is not being a functional adult, either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 12:37 AM
21	"men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by women Why wouldn't they be looking for a relationship? Were you expecting "looking to be used for sex" instead?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/25 12:00 AM
12	"men need a relationship more then women" is one of the biggest bullshits said by women Or to lead them to being more like functional adults FIFY	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 11:57 PM
1	Redpillers think that women in the past were perfect, but they often just hid it better Nope, but apparently a lot of other people do. lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 09:38 PM
-4	"Chad" is less likely to be misogynistic than a sexually inexperienced man: A study found that the more sexually experienced a man is, the more biased he is towards women. The problem is, most actionable advice causes some kind of outburst in unwanted males, and doesn't help anyway because they won't follow it. Take a shower every day. Dress like you give a fuck how you look. Groom yourself like you give a fuck how you look. If you're a fatass, lose weight. If you're emaciated, gain it. If you have no muscle tone, try lifting something heavier than a can of coke every once in awhile. Your legs, arms, and torso should not look flabby as fuck like a scaled-up versio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 09:05 PM
15	Redpillers think that women in the past were perfect, but they often just hid it better Back before the internet (or worse, before electric lighting and television became common in homes), there wasn't much else to do for recreation after the sun went down but read and fuck. Having enough light to read consumed lamp oil, candles, and so on, which cost money. Fucking was free. No wonder they did it so much, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/25 01:51 AM
1	Today’s Version Masculine Ideal Is Undermining Boys’ Academic Success Agreed, but in a lot of families these days, there's something else missing too... a father at home who takes his belt off if his son is a disrespectful little prick to his teachers, or if he brings home a bunch of bad grades. It's amazing how much better boys do in school when that's the case, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 09:15 PM
15	Women, why do you scream so much when something bad happens? We did not evolve in this atomized mode of life we live today. Most of human history has been spent in closely knit tribes. If you live in that kind of environment, when all hell's breaking loose or something horrible is happening, screaming alerts all your kin and friends around that there is immediate life and limb danger present, and that it is crucial that it be dealt with immediately. Sort of a paleolithic "ALL HANDS ON DECK!" alarm signal. Just spotted an enemy raiding party sneaking into …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/25 03:44 AM
2	Why men who provide security are boring ? LOL, this. It's like guys who are physically unattractive and have no social skills -- but have rich parents -- bitching that only gold diggers are attracted to them. When being a metaphorical "passthrough agency" for familial wealth is literally the ONLY good thing about you, don't be surprised when the only people you attract are those looking to benefit from said wealth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 12:45 PM
3	Why men who provide security are boring ? I've never noticed a particular shortage of women shit-talking other women, be it their decision-making skills, their personalities, their mental stability, etc. etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/25 12:23 PM
1	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves How many couples do you see in real life, where the man is a great deal older than the woman? Two hundred years ago, it was not unusual. These days? It's pretty uncommon. How many young women do you know are dating middle-aged dudes? And as concerns commitment, you're wrong on that too. It's women who push hard for exclusivity, for serious relationships, and for marriage, while men have a longstanding reputation for dragging their feet, stringing the woman along, and just in general doing everyt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 01:19 AM
0	Red Pill Claims to Empower Men But Resents It When Men Truly Empower Themselves There are roughly equal numbers of young men and young women in the population, and same sex romantic relationships are still relatively uncommon compared to opposite sex ones. Given this, the figures you quote suggest to me that a lot of young women are classifying what they have with a man in their lives as a relationship and answering as such, while the young men they are with are thinking of it as a just a situationship/fwb arrangement and thus classifying themselves as single when asked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/25 03:35 PM
–	The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than men Reminds me of an old saying... "As babies, men spend 16 hours trying to get out of a vagina. Then, they spend the rest of their lives trying to get back in."	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:58 PM
1	Stop saying "just be yourself" to men When you keep not getting the results you want, why do you need someone to laugh and tear you down, in order to know that you probably need to adjust your methods? And it's not like self-help resources are hard to find.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 01:39 PM
2	Stop saying "just be yourself" to men Generally speaking, the person who has been buttonholed into listening to a whiner just wants him to shut up and go away, preferably without creating a scene. "Just be yourself." usually does the trick. Other phrases, like, "Get a therapist." or "Your social skills are shit, no wonder nobody wants to date you." or "You look like a homeless guy, and smell like one too. Take a fucking shower." are more actionable advice and might go some distance to solving the problem, but saying it will invariab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 12:44 PM
13	Men’s sexual desire has been socially castrated I wonder how it stacks up to the "pair bonding ability" in men, regardless of how many or few they have had sex with? Wonder if anyone has studied that? lol Looking at the culture though, phrases like "hit it and quit it", "pump n dump" and the like are not exactly phrases about lusty women bedding and then remorselessly dropping lovelorn men who really wanted a relationship. lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 10:18 PM
2	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men Not when they know they're going to get lol'ed at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 01:08 AM
2	Autistic women are not "better at masking" I think it's more that most women (even autistic women) are more willing to play along with the larger society in order to get something out of it than men typically are. Suppose there are two autistics, one man and one woman, both thirty years old, and each of them have Scooby Doo as a special interest. If the man is like most male autistics I've known, and the woman is like most female autistics I've known, it would go like this: Autistic woman: Might have one small Scooby Doo charm on her key…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 01:03 AM
0	Saying that romantically unsuccessful men have bad personalities is ableist Pretty much. They're angling for the sexual equivalent of DEI, lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 12:34 AM
1	Saying that romantically unsuccessful men have bad personalities is ableist whereas with neurotypicals their logic just doesn’t connect and they seem to be upset over nothing. That's a lot of how it feels to neurotypicals when they deal with autistics, also. Double empathy problem, I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 12:13 AM
3	CMV: These "Her" like AI experiences won't alleviate loneliness for men Nobody will know they have a subscription, unless they (probably ill-advisedly) mention it to others. So why would they be ridiculed for it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 11:39 PM
1	Saying that romantically unsuccessful men have bad personalities is ableist Ok, which is it? Half the time autistic men staunchly maintain that autism is just a difference in brain wiring (neurodivergence), and get really pissed at anyone who dares to suggest that it's actually a disability. The other half the time, when autistic men are socially rejected for acting like rude, selfish children who can't read a room, they want to cry "ableism"... de facto stating that autism IS in fact a disability, and implying that others rejecting them for acting like rude, selfish ch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 09:52 PM
1	Husband material Not willing to put forth the effort to actually learn something, apparently? Suit yourself. Stay ignorant, clueless, bitter, and wallowing in your victim mentality. Yeah, that'll show 'em.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 08:56 PM
1	Husband material I think you're a little too obsessed about some "20%" to see what's really going on here. Both sexes are suffering from the exact same problem -- to wit, the traits that people are evolutionarily hardwired to consider extremely attractive on a primal level are also the very same traits which ensure a stable, long-term relationship with this person will be virtually impossible. What women are evolutionarily hardwired to find extremely attractive is NOT the kind of guy that is long term relationsh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 04:06 PM
1	Husband material Hmm... this sounds a lot like the exciting, wild bad girl, vs. the reliable, responsible, modest (and let's be honest, usually boring by comparison) "kind of girl you bring home to meet mom." Coincidence? ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 06:34 AM
–	Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics If you don't have children, there really aren't any. Hardly anyone gets alimony anymore. If you are one of those tiresome narcissists who think that a 50/50 split of marital assets if it doesn't work out is "a risk that she'll walk off with my money", I refer you to my first post re: "If you have a problem with a 50/50 split" above.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/25 01:06 AM
1	Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics Not to the same extent. Buying a house together becomes a much bigger pain in the ass if you're not married. Filing taxes jointly, if it's cheaper that year? If you're not married, forget it. Sharing health insurance? Not if you're not married. If one is temporarily incapacitated and the other has to make medical decisions for the incapacitated one, it's also one hell of a lot easier if you're married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/25 01:30 AM
4	The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost always Back when I was in college, the women who changed boyfriends every week (lol) and tended to really get around were not particularly good looking. The overwhelming majority were average at best. They just had no standards for who they'd fuck, and would sleep with pretty much anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 04:19 AM
3	The advice “Choose better” is relevant and correct almost always Back then, people tended to live in communities which were smaller, more insular, or both, surrounded by those who shared their culture and values. Whether it was a couple in the foothills of Appalachia, a couple in an Italian neighborhood in New York, or a couple in a cornfield in Kansas, the man in the woman in each respective couple tended to share subculture, values, and expectations. What was expected of him by a wife was pretty much a 100% match for what he'd been raised to provide. What w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/25 04:13 AM
19	Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics I've noticed just in general on here, you've got a LOT of bitter, butthurt men who who don't even bother reading and responding to what others are saying. They mostly just want to reiterate their usual whining and moaning again and again ad nauseam. Gee, can't imagine why they're having relationship problems. /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 11:37 AM
11	Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics Try reading what I actually wrote, THEN respond. Just as in a business partnership, there is no "his money". There is no "my money", either. It's OUR money. And as I mentioned, I am the primary breadwinner. :P	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 11:32 AM
20	Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics 17 years and counting for me, and it's nothing like that -- even in the absence of kids to "keep it together" for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 09:30 AM
48	Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statistics If you have a problem with a 50/50 split, you don't understand what marriage is, nor are you ready to marry. (And I say that as someone who earns more than her husband's boss makes.) When you scrape off all the hearts and flowers stuff, candlelit whatevers, long walks along the moonlit whatever, sappy songs, etc. and look at it realistically, marriage is essentially a business partnership. It's Jack Smith and Lisa Jones each recognizing that they will get a lot further in life together than eith…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/25 08:54 AM
–	Women DO lie about their preferences, and research shows it. YES. It's like they literally can't grasp that you are simply not interested in him, and that you have no obligation to be interested in him. They can only understand that you've already been "claimed" by another man. You shouldn't have to lie to get them to accept the no. Sometimes I think that's why some women are attracted to "bad boys"... if the guy you're with is known to be an ass-kicker, even men who don't respect the idea that you've been "claimed" by another man will respect the very re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 09:24 PM
1	You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings. Men can only be ‘vulnerable’ in ways that still make them look strong, but the moment they express real genuine vulnerability, it’s seen as weakness. Why would ANYONE (male or female, doesn't matter) wish to display vulnerability any other way? Who wants to trumpet to the world that they are basically just fucking useless? If you act like that, whether you're a man or a woman, whether you're doing it TOWARDS a man or a woman, expect them to think less of you and/or for them to weaponize it at a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 02:44 PM
2	You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings. Regardless of sex, some people are just whiners. NOTE: I don't mean the very occasional venting. I mean people who constantly complain, oh woe is me, poor me pity me, the world has done me wrong, I don't like anything, everything sucks, everyone but me sucks, the whole world is out of step but me, etc. etc. If you're a whiner, then you need to suck it up and date other whiners. YES, you're going to have to take turns on who gets to host the pity party, and who gets to be the sucker invited to sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/25 02:23 PM
3	The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think. Me too! That would be great. :D It seems like the closest thing most people have to a "third place" these days is online, and that's really not the same. :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 09:16 PM
2	The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think. My grandfather proudly served his country fighting against the Nazis in WW2, and if necessity arose, I would take up arms to do the same. It sounds like you're basically arguing that men are not expected to be cowards, and that this expectation is unfair. Is that really the point you want to make? Lol. Not to mention, we haven't had a draft for over 50 years at this point...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 09:12 PM
3	The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think. God, this. I'm so sick of listening to them complaining about the draft as if that proves anything. We've not had a draft in half a century or more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 09:04 PM
4	The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think. There needs to be some sociological "third place" areas, somewhere that isn't home and isn't work, for people to talk, hang out, make friends, and so on. There used to be, long ago...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 05:49 AM
7	The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think. The funny thing is, you think it's any better for women. For me, there are generally one of two outcomes: Nobody gives a damn and I have to contend with whatever it is myself. Some thirsty creep pops out of the woodwork as if NOW is his chance, and starts trying to manipulate his way into my pants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 05:47 AM
6	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. It's very typical, I'm afraid. Jake: Men are providers. Sally: Ok... so, provide? Jake: No, you must be a gold digger. ---next relationship--- Carol: I've got a kickass job and make plenty of money. Don't worry about it, I pay my own way. Jake: Waaaaaah!! I don't feel needed!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 03:55 AM
2	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries My comment is obviously not about sex or gender, nor is the one I replied to. Rather, it is about the frankly idiotic assumptions people with too much money tend to make about life, particularly the lives of people with too little.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 03:52 PM
1	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries I was born financially privileged Yeah. I think we all can tell that already. Lol. And for every person, male or female, who is like your "girl" who came from that background and made it, there are a thousand who didn't, ten thousand who couldn't, and a hundred thousand who didn't even see it as an option in the first place. BTW, JD Vance was mostly raised by his grandparents, who were much more well to do than his drug-addicted single "mom".	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/25 02:07 AM
0	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries It's not a women or men thing. It's a privileged vs. not thing. Through this whole thread, you seem to just take it as a given that everyone has enough money for school, can afford to not work so they have time to attend school (a full time job and med school don't mix), do not have family demands on their time (children or elders they are responsible for) which don't leave enough time for college,, went to decent schools K-12 so they actually have a reasonable chance to succeed in more advanced…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 11:55 PM
0	The Patriarchy Is Dead In Most Western Countries Yeah, just keep telling yourself that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 08:42 PM
6	Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want them Find better friends. smh	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 08:37 PM
1	Whats a way for a man to understand periods and make it easier for women? Every woman is different. Some get the emotional "PMS" thing going on the last couple days before the period appears, some don't. Some get noticeably bloated, some don't. Some cramp, some don't. Some have a heavy flow, some don't. Some have an irregular cycle, some don't. It is thankfully no longer my worry, but back when I still had one, I didn't get the emotional "PMS" component, and any bloating was minimal. Even my husband could never tell when I was heading into a period. What I did have wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 03:02 AM
2	Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested. From what I've heard, when it comes to sex the bar for women is about as low as the bar is for men in relationships generally. It seems like men honestly believe that a woman who isn't constantly trying to hide her body, is fine with the lights being on, is willing to wear lingerie, doesn't just starfish, is willing to suck his dick, and wants sex more than once a month is an absolute goddess level, 10/10 epic lay. Frankly, that should be the average state of things, just like him treating her w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/25 02:44 AM
1	Is it common for women to have had a negative experience with an autistic man in their life? Gee, color me surprised... lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/25 01:51 AM
1	Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison. But that is EXACTLY what I was doing. You would get a far more positive response out of others if you improved your social skills. And random nonsensical accusations about boxing with ghosts or whatever, I will throw in the same garbage can because it belongs there. :) I was in a very large social group in college. It had nothing to do with "pretending" to be anything. You were simply a member of the group. (Honestly, I sometimes wonder if these guys who whine about "friend zones" and the like e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/24 07:48 PM
5	Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison. If you're going to high-handedly explain the topic to me, you don't get to complain when that same superiority and contempt is thrown right back at you. My ability to communicate is not the issue, it's you being so busy scanning for replies that confirm what you are already thinking that your brain goes -tilt- when you see something that doesn't. There was a man who cracked the code. I married him 17 years ago. Become friends with guy as part of a larger social group ==> learn about each other, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 05:04 AM
9	Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison. Can you understand English? Read it again. It explains it perfectly. The point is, if a man is not already in a relationship with me, I want NO -- absolutely ZERO, ZILCH, NADA -- sexual expression from him. Period. If he is... then all manner of dirty talk, touching, and so on is fine, at least in private. Not out in the middle of the street or at family gatherings, obviously. lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 04:43 AM
10	Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison. What you're missing here is there is virtually no chance that a catcalling woman would be able to physically overpower you and force you to have sex, whether you wanted it or not. A better analogy would be a big, beefy bubba with fists the size of christmas hams catcalling you in a prison yard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 04:16 AM
11	Comparing how Women view Straight Men to how Straight Men view Gay Men is an Incorrect Comparison. Speaking for myself... A man I am in a relationship with being blatantly sexual with me= appropriate and generally welcome. A man I am NOT in a relationship with being blatantly sexual with me = threatening, creepy, GTFO.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 04:10 AM
1	Men Should Use a Filtering System for Commitment Like Women Do for Sex If men want someone who will make a good wife, they will have much better odds with average-looking Betty than with "omg so hot" Stacy. Betty will make more of an effort to keep him around than Stacy will. Also, unless the guy she marries is definitely below average, Betty will know she's already hit the ceiling on what she could realistically expect to get partnerwise, and will be much less apt to cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 06:18 PM
2	Men Should Use a Filtering System for Commitment Like Women Do for Sex Rather than resenting this approach, men can take a page out of the same playbook. Men should develop their own filtering system: a counterpart to AF/BB that separates casual relationships (the "pump and dump") from those worthy of long-term investment (the "commitment girl"). Most men already do this, hence a woman being "the kind of girl you take home to mama" (commitment worthy), or not (pump n dump).	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 06:14 PM
22	Doing things for women makes them less attracted to you. What are you giving that you think is helpful? If it is unsolicited advice, then yes, nobody likes that so keep it to yourself. She's there to feel good, have fun, and get laid, she's not there to be "fixed".	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 03:28 PM
1	Do you think a younger woman is entitled to leave an older man she's been dating after he's spent? There are vows to love, honor, cherish, and forsake all others in there, too. If he is treating her like shit and/or cheating on her, he's already broken his vows. Why then should she be held to hers? I've never met a woman who divorced a husband who was doing his part in the marriage, treating her well, and not cheating on her. EVER.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 03:16 AM
13	Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects? I'm 48, and back when I was single and looking in my late teens and 20's, my husband was one of the few men that I knew anywhere near my age who wasn't a druggie, a jailbird, a deadbeat, a pathological liar, a drunk, a narcissist, had explosive rage issues, slept with anything that moved, more than one of the above, all of the above, or some other flavor of shit. Take my upvote.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 12:20 AM
1	What are your standards for men for friendship? To trash, perhaps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/24 04:56 AM
0	“The bar is on the floor” for the men women consider their dating pool, which is always men above them Maybe they should. At work, you're expected to show up on time, be clean and well-groomed, do your share, return calls/emails/texts promptly, and treat others with respect. That's not a high bar. In your personal life or your professional one, it's bare minimum. Frankly, if the only way someone can be arsed to behave that way is to have a horrible consequence (such as the potential loss of their livelihood) hung over their heads like a fucking Sword of Damocles, they are not fit to be part of so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/24 10:01 AM
0	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 I am not biologically capable of being such due to age, it's a moot point. Although when I was younger, if it was absolutely necessary for the survival of the nation or species (such as after something truly horrible, like nuclear war) I would have done my best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 10:42 PM
2	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 That they can make babies does not mean that they can't do anything else. It does not follow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 12:23 AM
1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 It takes a woman nine months to produce a child. A well-motivated man could sire a hundred children in that same time frame. Women of childbearing age are the limiting reagent, when it comes to repopulating after a conflict.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/24 12:21 AM
–	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are In high school, a so-called "nice guy" tried that little gambit on one of my friends. I advised her to not deny she'd slept with him, but to respond by saying he had far and away the smallest dick she'd ever seen. People started calling him Tom Thumb, and he shut up FAST lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/24 11:38 PM
1	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women The guy I asked out was someone I had never dated before. We knew each other socially, and I thought he was interesting and I had developed feelings, so I asked him out. And I was not the kind of woman who dates multiple people at once, nor was I interested in men who dated multiple women at once. To me, you were either seeing someone (in which case you were already taken as far as I was concerned) or you were single, in much the same way as you can't be a little bit pregnant. My MO was you get …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 09:54 PM
1	Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for women If she is not EAGERLY doing half the planning and initiating, she's just not that into you. Sorry dude. And regarding asking people out, back when I was single, I've been asked, and I've been the asker. Being the asker is easier by orders of magnitude. It beats all hell out of trying to throw all these finely calibrated signals so he picks up on it, but you don't come off as desperate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/24 06:21 PM
8	Men should generally never take dating advice from women. No, they're designed to make the person being spoken to feel a certain way. If it had anything to do with our feelings, we would instead say, "Stop whining, I'm tired of hearing it."	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 10:23 PM
2	Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to you And what purpose does this serve? Babysitting an overgrown child is a universal turnoff, at least for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 08:22 PM
-1	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. I don't see the difference in our definitions, yours is just from the perspective of the "recipient of nagging" rather than the "nagger".	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 01:03 PM
-3	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Wouldn't call that "nagging", that's just garden variety picking fights for the sheer fuck of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 01:00 PM
5	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. So you only care about your partner's needs insofar as she levies consequences for your indifference? That's not love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 04:39 AM
13	Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says. Nagging (i.e. someone repetitively voicing the same concerns) doesn't happen when they're listened to the first time they bring it up. Funny, that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 04:23 AM
2	How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not feminine enough? It answers the question, you'll find. I never worried about it, not even remotely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 05:35 AM
5	How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not feminine enough? Appearance wise, I'm feminine. (Long hair and the customary battery of womanly secondary sex characteristics (boobs, butt, etc.) Personality-wise and interests-wise, I am not "feminine" and frankly have no desire to be. Never did. I was very much a tomboy growing up, and my personality is sort of a strange fusion between nerd and thug, lol. Back when I was single and looking... if he wasn't at least as "masculine" as I am, I was not remotely interested in the first place. Thus, his opinion was i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 05:06 AM
0	Its not that women lack empathy. Too many men conflate coddling with empathy. It’s stereotyping my entire gender. So did asking men if they'd rather talk to a tree or to a woman. However, I've yet to meet the woman who got butthurt over how many guys picked the tree. Most women either didn't give a fuck, or were happy if guys wanted to whine for hours to trees instead (because it meant the guys wouldn't buttonhole some woman into having to listen to it), or even felt sorry for the tree because it couldn't get up and leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 01:47 AM
1	How would you feel if the guy you're dating was much more romantically/sexually enthusiastic with his ex-girlfriend? A man like that has given up hunting for the female unicorn (manic pixie dream girls that are also stable, responsible, and wife material). He is there because he thinks you'll be a calm, rational companion, a decent wife, and possibly good mother of children, not because of some grand romantic notions or being on fire for you sexually. He's making a deliberate, conscious decision to think with his big head here, not his little one, and his focus is operations and logistics -- a peaceful, functi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 05:55 PM
-2	CMV: Why are males more likely to stay in miserable marriages? Bingo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/24 01:55 AM
1	Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? Now you're just being silly. Do even you know what you're trying to say at this point? Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 05:58 AM
1	Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? Nope, just some honest advice. Leaving it up in case it helps someone. Back when we met (college) he was one of the few men I knew who wasn't perpetually bullshitting, pretending to skills he didn't have and knowledge he didn't possess, in order to sound impressive. His body and brain could actually cash the checks his mouth wrote. Most of the other guys could not, just empty boasting and pretense, and they reeked of insecure little scab, tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/24 12:32 AM
2	Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? Too many men think it has to do with how fat their wallet is. Outside of the extremes (the billionare CEO to the golddigger, or the homeless bum because he reeks of Loser to virtually everyone) it does not. The problem is not that women need self-improvement. They're doing better in school than men, attending and graduating college at higher rates than men, and are notorious for having more social graces, as well. The problem is that men need self-improvement, and no, women should not in fact be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 11:19 PM
3	Red pill men want tradwives but not gold diggers? I make more than my husband's boss makes, lol. And yet, my husband (a second dan black belt) has a speed, strength, and sheer physicality that I find very attractive. Meanwhile, I am a complete klutz, and my cardio is awful. There are more things to respect someone for than the size of their paycheck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 06:30 PM
–	Are we at the point where we can be honest about size mattering yet Lol... seriously? This is Socializing 101 level shit. Have you been screened for autism? There is a massive chasm between what people have a duty to say in the name of civility, and what people REALLY think. YES, women care about penis size, but it is considered cruel to say so straight out and so most will not. In other news, the checkout clerk tells you to have a nice day (but doesn't give a fuck if you have a nice day or not), your coworkers ask how your weekend went (but actually don't GAF),…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 07:13 PM
21	Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions. And the next thing after that, they're going to be bitching and moaning that their wives refuse to "put out" anymore. People of that caliber aren't very good at discerning cause and effect.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/22 11:33 PM
126	If he wanted to he would Or people who lie. When you say you're going to come to <wherever>, barring a MAJOR unforeseen catastrophe, I expect you to be as good as your word. Even with friends, I'm very much rule of threes in this... The first time you're not there, it might be a misunderstanding. The second time, it might be a serious mistake. The third time, you're a liar, and we're done.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/22 04:50 PM
1	TAKE UP SPACE, YOUR VOICE MATTERS It's not self-hate, it's a survival technique. ^^ This. At one point in my career, I had an abusive POS of a boss. I talked like I had to, in order to keep him placated until I managed to get a new job and get the hell away from him. Victim blaming = shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/22 09:19 PM
8	Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people". Some people have this stupid egotistical mentality that they're going to show Nature who is boss, and out in the woods, that's a great way to get hurt. You were wise, and personally I wouldn't hike with people like that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/22 12:09 AM
49	Ladies, what have been your experiences with dating men that have unresolved and untreated intergenerational trauma? At the first sign of a man acting childish to get you to act maternal, nope the hell out. This should be carved on the rock of Gibraltar. I have never seen parent/child dynamics operating in a healthy romantic relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 09:24 AM
2	🤡 Especially since you can't take away the masculinity of someone who has none. It might be old-fashioned, but imo real men don't sit around endlessly whining about a problem. If the problem can be resolved, they TAKE ACTION to solve the problem, then move on with their day. If the problem cannot be resolved, then they STFU and move on with their day. They DO know that people make pills for that, right? I can't stand whiny men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 09:13 AM
46	🤡 It’s super annoying how a lot of men blame feminism for their dating disappointments and fears. I'd make that stupid, irrational fears. They have nothing to be afraid of at all. Hell, when I was in my early 20's I asked a man out once, and it wasn't difficult at all. You just walk up to them, make some small talk, get a positive vibe going, then ask. Boom. Done. The process was about as fearsome and difficult as tying your shoes, and I cannot respect a man who does not have at least as much cour…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/22 09:22 PM
75	I’ve seen so many of these, the entitlement is real. No one wants to be your live in bang maid, especially not for FREE!! They’re hoping to take advantage of a woman in need, forget that women can room with eachother without the expectation of chores and sex. We don’t need men like this Never understood that. If I had a son who carried on like that, I would disown him the second I became aware of it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 11:03 PM
144	I’ve seen so many of these, the entitlement is real. No one wants to be your live in bang maid, especially not for FREE!! They’re hoping to take advantage of a woman in need, forget that women can room with eachother without the expectation of chores and sex. We don’t need men like this Makes it sound like he's got a toilet fetish or something. So gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/22 11:01 PM
14	I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening. When will men ever learn that HOW THEY FEEL is not women's problem to fix? If he's "too stressed and overwhelmed with work" then he needs to search for solutions and implement them -- change jobs, get some SSRIs, start some kind of meditation or workout program, or whatever. It's not her job to medicate his feelings with sex, it's his job to TAKE ACTION to solve his fucking problems like an adult. Meanwhile, she had a problem that nothing can be done about at all (death of her father), AND has b…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 05:54 PM
2	this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣 It's just a stupid game they play, so they don't have to put forth any effort. That's all it is, and all it ever was.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 01:47 PM
4	this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣 The only men who are threatened by masculine energy are the ones who don't have any themselves. It's a personal problem of theirs, and something they need to take responsibility for and work to fix. Attempting to blame us for their own personal failings solves nothing. And as usual with men, we're back to the issue of accountability. Strange how it always keeps coming back to that, isn't it....	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 01:36 PM
1	Love yourself enough to walk away. I am so sick of mental diagnoses being used as an excuse for bad behavior. A diagnosis is merely a clinical description of someone's behavior, affective state, beliefs about self or the world, and so on depending on the diagnosis. It is not an excuse to continue the same dysfunctional behaviors ad infinitum. Simplified to its essence, the argument runs like this: "I HAVE SHOUTING DISORDER!" "How do you know you have shouting disorder?" "BECAUSE I SHOUT A LOT!" "Why do you choose to shout so much…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 02:26 AM
19	Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating” Why is it that whenever "CoMmUnIcaTIoN" comes up, the only thing that actually needs communicated is, "You're a worthless asshole, and I can do better. Goodbye." right as she walks out the door? You can't TALK someone who has no empathy and is morally bankrupt into the manners, morals, empathy, human decency, compassion, sense of reciprocity, and so on that they lack. People like that don't respond to talk, they only respond to consequences. You see this same shit with so-called "walkaway wives"…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 02:02 AM
49	Journey into the oblivion! The angry scrotes in the comments are a nice touch 😂 They can dish it out all day long, but any joking in return, and OMG THAT'S SO HURTFUL NOT ALL MEN OH MY POOR LIL FEE FEES. It's pathetic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 05:13 PM
237	A Professor Wasted Her Time Interviewing 46 Men About Why They Cheat "Unmet emotional needs" = wife refuses to constantly kiss his ass and agree with whatever he says. Poor baby. Lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 01:29 AM
9	That time I walked out on a date after his first sentence It's projection. Men derive their value from throwing other men under the bus, that's what a lot of cutthroat competition devolves into. And LV ones will do damn near anything to get female attention.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 09:25 PM
73	Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬 the fact that he wants a live-in mother-prostitute I think a lot of men do, in the final analysis.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/22 12:48 AM
3	NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work. One way or another, you're going to work. The issue is whether you will have control over your life, or whether you will be forced to compulsively people-please your master, Sugar Daddy, out of fear of what will happen to you and your children if you don't.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/01/22 10:16 PM
2	As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behavior Isn't it strange how when women go through absolute hell, we're expected to just suck it up and get over it... but when men go through anything (generally stuff that isn't even a tenth as bad), then OMG TRAUMA and he expects a free pass on being a miserable, selfish asshole for years? I'm so done with that shit.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 05:40 PM
103	Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive? "Decided to quit my job and road trip for two months without any plan." This is the kind of guy who has the mentality of an adolescent and likely prefers the lifestyle of one, too. Irresponsible, reckless, immature, and extremely poor judgment. Red flag.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 07:16 AM
193	Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving him Me too. This is probably the easiest way to 'out' LV people. If a woman isn't being treated with at least as much respect as anyone would give to a random stranger and she objects to that, LV people will ALWAYS try to shame and gaslight her into just putting up with it. Kudos to her for knowing her worth.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 10:55 PM
28	Men who try and escalate things too quickly Or doesn't like using table manners. Lol.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 09:20 PM
30	Men who try and escalate things too quickly A lot of them are also narcissists. They come on STRONG in the beginning when they are love-bombing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 09:19 PM
19	Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental health Well, it would help if they had actual FRIENDS. You know, FRIENDS, the people who care about how you feel? Instead, they cultivate a hoard of 'bros'. Then, the 'bros' sit around, alternately ignoring each other and insulting each other. THIS IS NOT WHAT FRIENDS DO. MAKE REAL FRIENDS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 09:36 AM
1	Men’s “goofiness” and “clumsiness” is usually just laziness and lack of consideration There's legitimate forgetting... and then there's choosing to do something else because what you had planned is just not that important to you, then lying about it later to dodge accountability for making that choice. There's also passive aggression, which a lot of men seem to have... chiefly whenever anyone (horrors!) expects any sort of reciprocal effort from them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 09:03 AM
15	Men’s “goofiness” and “clumsiness” is usually just laziness and lack of consideration That's not just clumsiness, that's a lack of personal responsibility and a lack of maturity. She's being treated like a bangmom not a girlfriend, and shouldn't stand for it. I'm clumsy as hell, too. Difference is, I don't have the mentality of a toddler. So, I clean up my own messes, and don't expect anyone to make a second meal for me on top of whatever else they're making. Also, given my clumsiness, I have the sense to not eat anything messy (like saucy pasta) on the sofa in the first damn pla…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 05:29 PM
33	Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacity This also shows that men generally will interpret that rules made by women are optional, and that they can bend them. Which is a huge red flag right there. If he can't understand NO when delivered by a female... yeah, that goes down into all kinds of dark places, doesn't it. :/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 04:46 PM
133	Studying for a psych test. Thought you would appreciate this tidbit- postpartum depression in men is related to feeling “replaced by baby” 😭😭😭 They just like the control and the ego boost that being needed gives them, not the 'actually doing stuff for others' part.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/22 05:12 AM
91	Studying for a psych test. Thought you would appreciate this tidbit- postpartum depression in men is related to feeling “replaced by baby” 😭😭😭 It's like a four year-old who is sulky because he feels displaced as the apple of Mummy's eye by a new baby brother or sister. What is wrong with these guys? Why are grown men so NEEDY?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/22 05:11 AM
18	Men Abuse Women Who They Perceive to be BETTER THAN THEM That's why the only appropriate response to a begging ex on your porch is to double check that the doors are locked, call the cops to remove him from the property, and then go file a restraining order first thing in the morning. I don't care how much he says he's changed or seems to have changed, a leopard doesn't change its spots and deep down, he's the same selfish, insecure, ego-driven piece of shit he always was.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/22 04:49 AM
5	Purposefully doing things to drive up his gf’s utility bill…I thought I read it all 🤦🏼‍♀️ (repost!) Why is it so hard for them to act like adults? He's acting like spiteful little five year-old who is sulking because Mommy didn't buy him a candy bar when they were in line at the supermarket. Wtf.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 05:08 AM
17	Is He Negging You? 10 Signs He’s Trying To Secretly Destroy Your Confidence I've never met someone who shit-talks random passersby that way who wasn't a narcissistic POS. Ever. Basically, deep down they know they are a crappy person, and shit-talking the hairstyle of the rando walking over there makes them momentarily feel like they're maybe not the stinkiest and most worthless piece of shit on the pile that day. I'm not just saying in romantic relationships, either. Even in casual friendships, drop this person. Not worth it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/22 07:53 PM
3	Thank you thank you FDS Wow, what a loser. Why people like that guy think they're in a position to date is baffling to me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 07:55 PM
21	Female Dating Strategy Podcast BONUS: Prince Andrew Is A Sweaty Nonce I remember when I was a teenager, it was so difficult to find shorts that didn't basically make you look like some kind of pinup girl. Imo, shorts that barely cover your genitals aren't even appropriate public wear for adults, let alone young girls. Typical pickme: BuT TheY'rE cOmFOrTaBle! No, they are not. Having to pick your shorts out of your asscrack every two minutes is NOT comfortable, so stop lying about it. Thanks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 04:13 PM
7	The reality of being a woman today - and the fear of sexual and physical abuse that comes with it - is something that most men will never have to experience Exactly! If you don't want that kind of attention, StOp PrOVoKinG iT!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 03:57 PM
31	On dying alone: Hope you guys barred him from the facility and notified the rest of the family what he was doing. Unfuckingbelievable.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/22 06:08 PM
74	Bodyshaming and -negging: It has nothing to do with what you look like, but you NEED to leave at the first sign of it. Hope you responded, "You'd be perfect with a bigger dick."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/01/22 05:45 PM
14	"Women 32% more likely to die after operation by male surgeon, study reveals" I am lost for words... If you made an example of a few of these doctors, the rest might well get the message. People who don't understand the language of common decency and respect will typically understand the language of consequences, so that is the language which must be spoken if you wish to get the point across. Same with the so-called 'walkaway wives'.... i.e. when a woman tells her husband for years that she's extremely unhappy and _______________ (whatever she's so dissatisfied about) needs to change. It goes …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 12:08 AM
9	Happy New year lasses, and REMEMBER I would add... "She doesn't understand me." = STILL MARRIED "She's changed." = STILL MARRIED "We don't have anything in common anymore." = STILL MARRIED "We live like roommates." = STILL MARRIED	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 05:46 PM
2	First, your wife had a baby, not you. Second? You’re the problem. Show me the man who is whining as per the example in the original post, and I'll show you a lazy, entitled scrote who has dumped all the infant caring tasks onto his wife.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 09:00 AM
7	Yeah yeah I know the answer is just to leave, but this visual is hilarious! Good on you for not enabling that bullshit. :D	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/12/21 08:42 AM
9	Angry right now If you tabulated it for all forms of rape -- marital rape, date rape, acquaintance rape, etc. etc. -- I'd say that "3 out of 4" (75%) is probably a conservative estimate.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 11:41 PM
1	Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope. That guy should be behind bars for the rest of his life. WTF.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 05:28 PM
25	So he’s too “busy” to date, but not too busy to use you for sex? 🤔 She wants to know if she should move on? Move on from what, exactly? This is a series of booty calls, not a relationship. Sad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/12/21 05:20 PM
12	As I was reading this... I was thinking "He must be significantly older than her." But she handled it perfectly. 💅 👑 No shit. I'm grateful to finally be left the hell alone for the most part. Wish life had always been this way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/12/21 06:08 PM
4	Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to him I get so tired of seeing these absolutely amazing women being dragged down by lazy, useless morons. It's always the same endless tickertape of shitty excuses these scrotes give too, as to why they won't adult. And then when she gets fed up and leaves (which was invariably long overdue), the guy always wants to throw himself a gigantic pity party and blame it on literally everything but his own bad choices. It's sickening.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/21 11:52 PM
9	Even in Imperial Russia, where women had to get married, community dick and age gap relationships were avoided. Guess the term "fuckboi" hadn't been invented yet.... lol!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/21 04:40 AM
45	Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children? Because they don't understand right and wrong, they only understand consequences. They think their family won't levy consequences for unacceptable behavior, but they KNOW that people outside the family will. Rage at a police officer = arrested Cuss out the boss = fired Neg his coworkers = long, uncomfortable chat with HR Passive aggressive with coworkers = they return the favor and make his life hard. Gaslight clients = Clients take their business elsewhere = boss is pissed Pissy and insulting t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/12/21 03:35 AM
52	I thought for a long time that my male friends were actual friends, but everyone of them ended up trying (aggressively) to get me to sleep with them. So it's a NO for me. I can't imagine being as motivated by sex or frankly even as interested in sex as a lot of men are. If I walked into a room with a hundred men in it, I might find one fleetingly attractive, and that's about it. I don't look into that room and see a sea of broad shoulders, and jawlines, and muscles, the way men seem to with breasts, butts, and legs. Needy Neederson needs to calm the hell down and think with his big head for a change.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/21 10:47 PM
38	A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you? It's the idea women have a right to expect from men the SAME things men automatically expect from women ... I think that's what winds men up the most. Basic things like: 1) Good grooming. 2) Good hygiene. 3) At least somewhat attractive physically. 4) Mentally stable. 5) Responsible. 6) Doesn't cheat. 7) Does their share of the chores, and without being reminded fifty times as if they were a lazy kid with a dirty room. 8) Isn't selfish. 9) Doesn't gaslight them. etc.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/12/21 10:19 PM
1	If a man is this obsessed with slimness, he doesn’t deserve to have someone carry his child. He is also probably repulsed by pregnant women. In 30 years, he's going have hair everywhere (nose, ears) but where it should be (top of head). In 30 years, he's going to have a gut with ridiculous little stick legs. In 30 years, he's going to start getting that wizened old man look. In 30 years, there's going to be liver spots forming on his head. In 30 years, he will likely have horrible teeth... assuming he still has any teeth at all. But women are supposed to look past all that, while magically staying 20 years old forever... What dream w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/21 11:17 PM
5	The Truth in the replies to this tweet. If a man still needs a mommy to tell him how special he is every five minutes, he's too immature to be dating in the first place. Yuck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/21 12:06 AM
31	Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside. Only people with the mentality of children see a 'too cool for school' attitude as a good thing, so it kinda fits.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/21 02:06 AM
36	"Let's see where things go..." Men say "Let's see where things go." because they know that if they were honest, the woman would ditch them on the spot. "I want to have all the benefits of having a girlfriend -- regular sex and someone to whine to about my life. However, I don't want to have to think about anyone's needs or feelings but my own, and am going to try and get as much sex from other women as I can." ^^ THAT would be honest.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/12/21 07:58 PM
35	Older women of FDS, your wisdom is requested I've never known a relationship which started by the woman asking the man out which lasted. Not ONE. In every case, the man put forth little or no effort and expected her to be his bangmommy, while she ran herself ragged trying to keep the "relationship" afloat. Eventually, she realized what a miserable, worthless POS he was and dumped him, but not before he'd wasted a bunch of her time. NEVER ask a man out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/21 05:29 PM
87	I feel like there are no good men I'm quite a ways past 30, and it is so freeing. At my age, you're "supposed" to feel invisible, as if you never had any worth or value beyond making men's dicks hard. Me, I'm so happy to FINALLY be treated as a person, not an object to fap to. I wish it had always been this way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 02:45 AM
36	I feel like there are no good men I've heard the whole, "men have it worse because they can't express their feelings" line of reasoning before. People who think that conveniently overlook the fact that women aren't allowed to express their feelings, either. Instead, women are expected to put up a convincing pretense that we are feeling the "appropriate" emotions in a given situation, whether we are or not. I would find it a relief to be able to stand there impassively, rather than feeling pressured into enacting a bunch of insin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/21 02:36 AM
41	A short film on Gaslighting - Quite educational for those who haven’t gone through it and relatable for others who have gone through it. And if you're the kind of woman who refuses to allow yourself to be treated this way and whose dedication to reality is strong, then you're called "intimidating" and "scary". In malespeak... Intimidating = you will see through my bullshit Scary = you will hold me accountable for my bullshit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/21 01:08 PM
4	Men Who are Still Friends With their Exes I don't understand being friends with exes at all, male or female. If they added value to your life rather than subtracting it, would you have dumped them in the first place? No. The only exception I can think of would be if you two have shared custody of children.... but even that should be businesslike and confined to matters concerning the children only, not a friendship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 05:17 AM
95	Here’s What Women Say About Their [Male] Partners In Therapy I think that's why these miserable, gaslighting scrotes never want to go. Beneath the veneer of "she's just crazy" they put on, they KNOW the problems are mostly or even entirely their doing. They're afraid the therapist will see through them, and then alert the wife as to what a worthless POS he is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/21 04:09 AM
1	What are some vetting strategies to ensure a man won’t turn like this on you after giving birth? Maybe check if he ended up taking care of a much younger sibling a lot when he was a child. If so, he'll have some idea of the huge amount of care that babies and young children need, and won't regard ordinary behavior as a shocking, intolerable nuisance. Also, check for frustration tolerances in general.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/21 02:43 AM
1	If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you. I would also add... "I'm not collecting people." and "I'm a loathsome bastard." When men give the first statement above, it's always a lie. When they give the second statement above, it's always the truth. RUN.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 12:13 AM