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3

Lol. So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/23 04:55 PM
29

All the guys here being like oH bUt sHE ConSenTed. Yeah. Kind of like when men used to say that a woman's "no" actually means "yes" and you should try harder. Fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/23 09:24 PM
10

LOL ways to "safely" abuse people? Rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/23 09:22 PM
23

Then it's time to think why tf you want to strangle people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/23 09:20 PM
0

Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/23 09:17 PM
12

Pfft. Yeah. You don't have anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/23 01:59 AM
8

Absolutely! You'll get your flabby ass dumped because she'll see right through it. Glad I could help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/23 10:44 PM
39

Guys that use ChatGPT to write love letters to their gfs are really fucking pathetic and deserve every offensive slur applied to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/23 04:59 AM
10

Lol yeah. The most pathetic post I've ever read on here was yours, so I guess we can bond over that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/23 01:51 AM
3

I wonder how many incels got their panties wet from reading that headline 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/23 01:49 AM
0

Awww poor thing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/22 10:20 PM
20

What do you think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/22 09:51 PM
8

What is with boys having victim complexes about "never being touched" by a woman? How the fuck many women get rejected all the time for not being above 7's? Lmao. Then if the woman does get picked by a guy, that guy ends up putting his hands on her hence all the domestic violence cases and how ever many true crime cases where the guy ends up murdering his wife/gf. And it's you're, NOT your for fuck's sakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/22 04:36 AM
17

Yes exactly. That threw me off as well. I don't believe Zanab is malicious. Insecure? Yeah, and she needs therapy. But why is she getting punished so much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/22 05:41 PM
46

100% agree with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/22 11:06 PM
1

I really like Brennan but I also womder if he's too good to be true 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/22 09:48 PM
5

Also when men approach women with the mindset that they should be following a script. I remember seeing a post somewhere else on Reddit where the guy who originally wrote that post started staring at a random woman at the bus stop and would not break eye contact with her because, according to some manosphere dating gurus, breaking eye contact first shows "weakness" on his part. Bruh what? And he was even getting all mad when the woman just glared at him back because he was acting inappropriately…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/22 05:43 PM
45

Women can usually pick up on a man's intention: if he's a porn-fried perv, he'll only see women as sexual objects and act accordingly. Approaching women as actual people that you want to get to know for their personalities will yield better results. Sometimes, you'll get rejected but that's fine because you're not going to be compatible with everyone; it works the same way with friendships too. If you get all mad about it and start religiously following red pill/ PUA tactics while also denigrati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/22 12:20 AM
27

"Happy wife, happy life" as they used to wisely say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/22 06:37 PM
9

Now now. No name calling here young one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/22 07:54 AM
21

Second this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/22 07:52 AM
5

She looks amazing even today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/22 09:37 PM
19

Everyone keeps saying they're this amazing couple but he made her wait like 10 years or something before proposing🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/22 09:55 PM
8

What do y'all ladies think of William? Is he any better than Charles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/22 07:29 PM
3

Great episode!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/22 02:45 AM
8

Yeah seriously. Why do they keep desperately trying to get our attention if they hate us so much? It's sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/22 02:11 AM
3

Yeah, cause they just hanging out here on reddit being angry all day 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/22 02:09 AM
6

You can literally smell their nasty incense from the lame replies they type 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/22 02:07 AM
38

The most useless men are the ones who hang out here on FDS reddit everyday to harass the women with their lame ass zingers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/22 02:04 AM
54

Agreed. And guys that sleep around are a bunch of nasty-asses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/22 04:09 AM
13

Wow you actually have a lot of time in your hands to do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/22 04:03 AM
15

I'm not an incel, so no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/22 04:02 AM
21

🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/22 09:34 PM
3

So what is your job anyways? And how much is your annual income?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/22 05:09 PM
8

Poor baby. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/22 04:56 PM
7

Funny how I never mentioned my personal experiences, yet a random redditor assumes my personal experiences. Typical reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/22 04:29 PM
602

Good. Hookup culture is one of the worst things that society came up with. Zero benefit for women but all the consequences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/22 12:32 AM
40

I will never trust another man who says he hates pizza 🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 03:50 AM
8

Nobody disrupts you while you are working can decorate your place exactly how you want *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 05:21 PM
12

He's a health nut but does takeout? Huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 05:17 PM
3

I'm in the same position rn so I don't have any great advice lol. I just try to smile a little more when I talk to him and find oppurtunities to get his help and to make to clear I appreciate his help when he does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 03:13 PM
5

😂😂😂 I'm cackling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:47 AM
18

Why don't these fools learn some motherfucking grammar?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:12 AM
190

They wear us out so thin with us being career women + full time housemaid + mom of the decade + perfect insta trophy wife/gf + pornstar that literally any type of massage feels good lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 10:35 PM
86

Yeah, I give men the glaring side eye when they're in the women's lingerie section
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 10:32 PM
20

The sooner we all stop rewarding these deranged scrotes, the better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 07:34 AM
233

Women are also stereotypically shamed as being overly emotional and iLloGiCaL, yet men are the ones throwing temper tantrums when women ask for mutual respect and autonomy over our own bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 05:58 PM
144

OoooOooooH she doesn't like party all the time!!! Shes so boring! Wahhh I can't fucking stand these types of guys. And HE'S 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 12:14 AM
67

"The issue is when women perceive the payment as an obligation as opposed to a kind gesture. Entitled vs. appreciative. No one owes anybody anything!" he wrote. Okay, then consider this: WE DON'T OWE YOU SEX AFTER 3 DATES. BOY BYE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:24 PM
14

Even worse, I noticed that within the first hour he and I had started texting, he had written a post about meeting a young woman and how much he looked forward to making her squeal. 😱😱🤮 You dodged a bullet, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:33 PM
18

You don't know how much I needed this reminder. Thank you so much for this, queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 06:09 PM
43

I agree that having a child can be beautiful but: We have to do most of the work for raising the child but the man doesn’t exactly do nothing. They work to provide which carries it’s own level of stress. They’re also responsible for protecting us, the children and our home. Is pretty idealistic. I think the problem a lot of women have is that men won't even pay for dates, let alone help provide for the family. They're also the ones to throw women under the bus when shit hits the fan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 04:41 PM
45

I love this. Your grandparents sound amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 05:58 PM
156

I know they call us the "free dinner strategy" even though we've been the ones cooking for their asses since the beginning of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 05:39 PM
195

I also ended a decade-long "friendship" recently that felt fairly one-sided. Won't go into detail, but constantly getting taken for granted while his other buddies were given priority over me... yeah. I'm tired of this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:47 PM
2

👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 04:52 PM
8

Omg his grammar is atrocious. Sis throw him away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 05:14 PM
118

Yes, also call them sensitive snowflakes whenever they're even slightly offended by anything: tell them it was just a joke even though you were being 100% serious. This is your time to shine! Be flaky as hell and come up with nice excuses like you were too busy to text back even if you weren't busy that day<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 05:10 PM
6

That's amazing and I love that for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:21 PM
15

You might also consider uninstalling the Husband 1.0 program! I heard the new_boyfriend.exe has wayy more features and actually works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:20 PM
10

I see you met my ex :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:14 PM
294

Idk how women kept their cool in an era rife with blatent misogyny and insults thrown at them everywhere they went.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:10 PM
16

Because she probably followed the "well meaning" advice to just gIvE tHeM a cHaNCe, which this guy would also probably have no problem telling his little sister to do. But now, he gets to be a self-righteous hypocrite and resent women for making mistakes that society pressured them into doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:50 PM
16

Yes, me too. Please know you're not alone. Even now, so many people try and convince me otherwise, but I'm slowly stepping into my self-worth and we all need to do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 03:06 AM
37

Let's all say it together now: Divorce his ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 04:41 PM
33

If he's such a great guy, then maybe focus on raising the damn kid instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:14 PM
116

Must be great to be a man. You get praised for the most absurd things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 06:12 PM
15

Ma'am, this is a Wendy's
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:48 PM
11

Haha. You described my mother..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 05:56 AM
34

Scrotes: women need to take responsibility for men's actions! They knew what they were getting into! FDS: exists to promote boundaries and awareness for women Scrotes: misandry!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 04:39 PM
13

I used to hate those stupid "i love boobies" bracelets everyone wore. Oooh, but it's for charity! Yeah, while also reducing women to just body parts. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 04:31 PM
13

Thisss. This right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 11:50 PM
1

I meant as in he should get professional help, not look for a relationship to be emotional dead weight in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:46 PM
18

A worthy investmemt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 11:09 PM
9

Yeah I've sort of been in her position before.. if it were me, I would approach her as a concerned friend. Honestly, she will probably get upset if you say anything and not want to hear it, but maybe she could at least start thinking about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:54 PM
31

But it's like they know that women don't always know but are shamed for having the "what are we" talk because then we are labeled as too needy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:22 PM
8

You only speak facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:59 PM
71

Ok, so when most guys state that "she knew" as if it were an absolute fact, it usually means he knew but just assumed the woman he's with can read his mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:49 PM
91

Definitely. Yall deserve top dollar if you have to put up with their crap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 02:32 AM
196

The right woman is probably a therapist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 01:53 AM
23

Like, it's literally just a name, yall. Those people (except the wife) need to chill tf out Edit: yall! I finally got my first reddit cares mesaage!!! I finally made it! LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 05:25 PM
122

Um barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:16 PM
4

Awesome, ima start supporting it then lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:13 PM
36

Yeah... I'm terrified to ever have a son of my own. Society seems to find ways to hideously corrupt most boys no matter what you try to do to instill good values in them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:08 PM
10

Pics or else he's the asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 06:57 AM
80

Maybe FDS should take the fine as fuck fridays and turn it into its own sub so that there's at least one subreddit dedicated to objectifying men on the internet lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:45 PM
28

And yet, scrotes continue to criticize FDS for promoting boundaries, which are meant to reduce said baggage💼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 04:52 PM
55

He could....i dunno...propose..???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 03:14 PM
46

Sis, yes. For me, makeup is for dates and other special events. Most guys don't earn the pleasure of seeing me that dressed up anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:14 PM
30

The intense disappointment I would feel if I ended up with an adult son like this.. sometimes I hope I'll only have daughters in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:09 PM
14

Awkward queens rise up 👑 And thanks for the post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 06:29 PM
41

Remember when men dressed in nice suits when they went out? The good old days... so distant, even boomers barely remember those times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 06:17 PM
52

DONT FORGET VIRGIN LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:28 PM
111

Yes, maybe the wall is actually the barrier that scrotes keep hitting while trying to get to us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 05:10 PM
152

Don't forget that they're hella logical too, which is why so many of them are passive-aggressive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 05:07 PM
22

Yeah. I've yet to receive 95% of those benefits so how do i redeem my "women live life on easy mode" coupon card?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 05:01 PM
42

I've had to watch the male members of my family get coddled and recieve the emotional support they wanted while I was told to suck it up when I was growing up. How much fucking nurture do they fucking need?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:52 PM
27

"Spiritually married" 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:35 PM
65

I don't think men as a whole changed that much. The reason why more men aren't out here blatantly harming women is because there are laws that will make them pay consequences (those consequences should be tougher on men imo). Just look at the misogyny in current developing countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:18 AM
7

Well, good thing he outed himself. Hopefully he keeps this up telling everybody about it so that all women can know to avoid him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:07 PM
36

Now they've moved on to saying that we're killing their good vibes if they sense that we not happy with something they did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:41 PM
10

True true true 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:38 PM
17

Yes! He's so...dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:43 AM
45

Ngl, I always thought there was something off about him too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:41 AM
36

Yes, my brain also broke when I read that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:37 AM
31

Male, late 20's, dresses like a 16 year old. Will take your food without asking. Will demand gifts as a form of affection, but will be miserly when it comes to spending money on you. Swipe left if you expect real dates. Let's talk about his problems! (But none of yours) Also comes with drug and alcohol addictions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:27 AM
18

Degenerates---all of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:30 PM
32

It's funny --LVM know exactly how much they lie to women, but it never occurs to them that so-called Chads are also lying to them. Great point! I often read how men lie to each other about the amount of sex they're actually getting. So once again, male issues are self-inflicted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:26 PM
62

Lurking bros, how easy must your lives be if all yall worry about is sex? Also, GET A FREAKING SEX DOLL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:23 PM
55

Apparently men need sometime and sex to know "the women has right intentions and wouldn't just take advantage of him". ...by letting the man take advantage of the woman? Lol society... Anyways, I would reduce the time spent with her imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 05:21 PM
57

Yeah, I'm also wondering what he meant by "awful"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 05:17 PM
163

Deepti is a Queen. That's all I have to say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:21 PM
271

Just hearing the sound of a woman's voice makes these guys think: "oh, sHe's iRrAtIoNaL so she doesn't know what she's talking about!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:44 PM
9

Jfc men can be such trash. The husband is talking about the whole thing like it's some kind of routine procedure-- no big deal... riiiight?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:09 PM
45

"A girl after my own heart..." Boy stfu🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:36 PM
73

They're telling us that they don't read or understand women's body language. That they ignore out clear signs of interest and attraction. That our flirting and invitations to engage mean nothing to them. This is basically it. They don't actually pay attention to the nonverbal cues we give off. They're always just assuming things. If you give them a polite smile a couple times, they think you're throwing yourself at them. If you give off uncomfortable body language, he just takes that as an invit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:12 PM
45

What in the delusional fuck is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:04 PM
37

So what are some of those things LVA wouldn't do that your partner does for you? I'm taking notes 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:02 PM
14

He probably talks that way to his poor daughter as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:21 AM
77

My habitat is a scrote sanctuary, but hopefully one day I will!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:59 PM
199

Male logic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:56 PM
41

Girl you need to gtfo of that relationship. His feelings are easily hurt, but then proceeds to direct blatant insults at you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:14 PM
8

I'm convinced those people are energy vampires. Even if you do make an effort to be more "fun" they'll still find something wrong with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 11:16 PM
36

I used to really struggle with this, especially in high school and in my early 20's. I've always been shy & quiet, but once I'm comfortable with someone I open up a lot. Unfortunately, most of the kids I was around just expected me to be the one to approach them and be this charismatic personality for their amusement. I didn't do this, so in came all of the name-calling and ridicule. These days, if someone claims to get bored easily, I just lose all interest in them. There's an abundance of thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 08:14 PM
55

I feel like it's the way they were raised. Boys get enamored with love and praise without putting much effort into things. Once they win something, they can move on to the next thing. At the end of the day, mom is waiting at home to wait on him hand and foot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:48 PM
35

I guess i could use knitting (which I do enjoy) to see what responses I get 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:42 PM
58

True. I would enjoy coffee/walk with a husband, but getting to know someone..eh.. most of the guys I've met haven't been great conversationalists and I've been really turned off by that. Hours of awkward conversation with a stranger while walking around a park fills me with dread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:13 PM
135

🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:47 PM
102

It makes no sense because dates should be fun for both people. Coffee or walk dates are boring as shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:43 PM
115

It definitely came off as denial
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:32 AM
30

I know he was impulsive, but when you're constantly tight on budget you tend to be more careful of things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:30 AM
55

Imagine being so rich, you could smash a 4k tv without second thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:21 AM
141

😂 you're not lying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 08:15 PM
35

If you have a lot of casual sex, your brain will make less dopamine and oxytocin because it is traumatic for the body to create bonds and then break them shortly after. So it protects itself by not bonding anymore when having sex. That's honestly so sad. Idk why people choose to do this to themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 06:22 PM
750

Then get a freakin sex doll!! Leave us tf alone!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 05:31 PM
53

I truly hope she wakes up (no pun intended) and leaves his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:13 PM
62

Someone tried to do the same with me where he made extremely vague plans and checked in last minute. I didn't even enjoy his company all that much (we met in class), so I cancelled by telling him I wasn't feeling good. He was more hurt by me cancelling than he was worried about my health so I blocked him lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 07:02 PM
89

Thanks. This was gag-worthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:56 PM
32

That's so sweet for her! I really hope every one of us can find who we're looking for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:55 AM
18

A work of art 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:55 PM
19

Now imagine the number of women who did the same because of men's absurd standards for beauty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:47 PM
35

I just started watching Love Is Blind: Japan and it's crazy how all the women (all in their 20s or 30s) look so youthful and glamorous while pretty much every guy over 30 look so crusty and unattractive. It's like... who's really hitting the wall here? Us or them? Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:38 PM
45

For real though. A lot of guys in my area will let the door slam in your face, knowing you're right behind them, without even batting an eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:25 PM
25

Thanks for your response. I wanted to know because I'm terrified of meeting someone else who might do the same to me. My ex did a few of those things under the guise of "good intentions" and I really don't want to go through it again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:56 AM
49

Hey, I'm really curious, but what did that anxiety look like for you? And what were they doing that triggered the anxiety?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 11:52 PM
56

I've only just gotten started, but my boundaries are better and overall I just feel better about myself in general. I'm going to stay optimistic about finding the right man for me in the meantime and stay patient
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:10 AM
47

Wow what a dickwad. She's "horrible" at coding but she passed the test, right? That means she's more than capable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:34 PM
14

Wow we women really can't feel safe anywhere can we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:02 AM
19

If men don't act like men, who will? Edit: jk, but they do need to step up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:18 AM
205

Posts like those ones make me want to join the nunnery for the rest of my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:15 PM
33

Sis, even if you did find someone it's still not a guarantee that you'll be with him for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:33 PM
15

Soooo.. he says the gf is the moron, but his ineptitude caused him to miss 2 whole days of work? Idk man. It doesn't sound lOgIcAl at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 05:39 PM
14

Old dusties' drivels?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:32 AM
74

So I suck at flirting, and was wondering if yall had a way of subtly showing your interest without it being too much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:36 PM
12

He also uses therapy as a get out of jail free card to avoid accountability for his actions. He is a POS who has no empathy for women while constantly victimizing himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:15 PM
94

That's such a great point actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:40 PM
43

I thought he changed but he was even worse than before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:20 PM
372

Do these people's personalities ever go beyond just sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:45 PM
75

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:18 AM
40

Nooo i wish they'd leave her alone. She's such a queen❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:26 PM
118

"Assertive" = bitchy & not gf material apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:46 PM
127

Tf is he talking about? Dudes will literally fuck anything so his entire point is moot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:43 PM
2

Just wanted to say that your experiences closely resemble mines. I teared up reading your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 11:18 PM
33

He wants to talk about feeling disposable? Lololol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 07:06 PM
7

Fuck that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:18 AM
59

There was something about him that mildly repulsed me, but here was this man every woman wanted: what was wrong with me if I wasn’t attracted to him? Damn, this is why we need to learn to respect our own feelings & intuition. You're either attracted to him or you're not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:53 PM
6

Hi, welcome! I'm glad you made it here. You went through a horrific experience with him and I'm sorry that happened to you. Don't blame yourself for missing the red flags, you wanted to believe the best in him and unfortunately women are taught to blindly trust everyone they come across. None of us can change our past, unfortunately. What we can do is let the pain of those experiences guide us to make healthier choices for ourselves starting now. Please learn to forgive yourself and acknowledge …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 07:02 PM
28

Men boycotting marriages are just advocating an incel lifestyle. They're playing themselves lol. I doubt those women would want to be married to them if they had other life oppurtunities to pursue. When are guys going to wake up and tune in to their lOgIcAl sides for once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 06:43 PM
17

Domestic abusers should get a mark on their public record kind of like child predators do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:09 PM
25

Referring to women as "chicks" Needing to remind themselves that they are indeed adults, i.e "i'm a man now so I should take my life a little more seriously." Standing behind me and resting their chin on my shoulder. Mf get off my back I'm not your momma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:15 PM
44

Even pre-FDS this is what dating always seemed like to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:18 PM
34

Ngl, that was terrifying..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 06:33 AM
7

However, everytime I tell him things that I learned from FDS (I never tell him it's from FDS, just a way I value myself and have learned to see relationships), he gives me crap for it and act like I'm asking for too much from the men I date. Hmm.. I obviously don't know your brother, so take this as just a guess, but I think there is a chance that he also tells his gf she "asks for too much" in their relationship. They might seem happy, but she might also have been gaslighted into compromising m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:02 PM
3

Congrats!! Here's wishing you both a happy marriage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 06:32 AM
58

"I'm a dirty pig and need a live-in bangmaid"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:31 PM
81

They also call us "free dinner strategy" as if we weren't the ones, historically, cooking for their asses already for millenia lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:21 PM
31

Men who hate on female dating strategy, why even try dating women if you hate them all and only use them for hookups? Why not just get a sex doll instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:13 PM
32

They tell us we'll hit the wall or die alone if we don't just accept things as they are. Just fear mongering aimed towards women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:55 AM
14

"Hi professor, I have a question: what's the point of men again?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:39 PM
374

How did they even get married in the first place? It sounds like he never even gave a shit about her wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:45 AM
18

I'm better at horror than smut haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:38 AM
34

Ooh.. i shivered 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:49 PM
70

"We went out on a date to get coffee, just to keep it casual. We had a great conversation when we first matched on OLD, so I was really looking to get to know him better. As we stood in the coffee shop, he turned to me, giving me a full view of the massive stain on his sweatpants, and opened his mouth to speak. 'Let's go 50/50.' He says to me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 07:58 PM
85

Holy Mamoa. I did not know about any of that stuff. I hope the wife can move on and live in peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:59 AM
29

I believe he knows what the right thing to do is, but he is turning to the brigade of incels to pat his limp dick and tell him that it's okay, he doesn't need to man up and take responsibility for his decisions, She's the entitled one, after all...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 10:48 AM
87

Or my ex: Goes on rant about how I "make everything about me" so now he's upset, and how that makes him the actual victim in this situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 03:00 AM
46

"Sorry bro, I'm already in a committed walking relationship with my dog." 🐩💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:48 AM
153

Regardless, who the fuck has the time to try to figure that out? Men.. men do becauase they're the ones coming up with all the manipulation tactics in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:42 AM
178

I lurked on a dating subreddit for my city once and saw so many comments from dudes wanting to pump and dump the women they go on "dates" with. It made me sick. But oh yeah. They're the real victims here, aren't they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:13 PM
13

It's okay. She'll come around to the dark side eventually lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 05:08 PM
243

At one point he said "I just feel like you don't know how beautiful you are." And I said "No, I know. Thanks though." And he seemed genuinely offended lmfao. I was literally sitting in front of a mirror and I looked like a snack bro. Why are you getting mad that I know my beauty? This killed me lol. I just imagined him having that suprised pikachu look on his face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:35 AM
54

I don't particularly like the lifestyle the Kardashians promote, but I did admire the way they were able to capitalize on their fame and make themselves into a household name. People kept calling them talentless for years but it takes A LOT of talent to stay relevant for as long as they have. I think it was awesome that Kim decided to go back to school despite already being comfortable financially. She's pursuing a passion. I do feel bad for how much shit the public gives her. I don't think she'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:17 PM
120

Breakfast is some half-assed eggs and burnt bread here you go honey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:40 PM
84

This guy sounds whiney as hell........😴🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:35 PM
61

We're just jealous that crusty old (🤏) dicks are chasing our daughters...? What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 07:54 PM
3

The average scrote Is the only real mote In our dear God's Eye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 09:30 PM
9

We obviously have to be more concerned about the man's needs! What will he do if he's single?! That would be so embarrassing for him! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 09:25 PM
63

I know we shouldn't rely on other people to "save us" per say, but I think it's extremely important that the man you're dating goes out of his way to consistently defend you and make you feel protected without you asking him. It shows that whatever is affecting you affects him as well, which means he is empathetic to you as a person. I need to say this for myself because my ex never stood up for me while we were still dating. I kept begging him to care but in the end, unless it was also affectin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 08:50 PM
22

YUP!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:43 AM
7

She's too good for him. Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:33 PM
20

For some reason I hated having my ex sleep in the bed with me. I always wanted to shove him off just so I could have the whole bed for myself. So I feel you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 12:40 AM
9

Oh no I feel the same for sure. This show is definitely a nice change from all the trash reality shows out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:37 AM
78

Weird. I was eating eggs when I saw this post. Must be a sign from the universe or something!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 08:31 PM
106

I wish i could be as savage as her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 08:28 PM
6

This was hilarious, yet so painful to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:50 AM
84

If he was actually confident about his height he wouldn't have gotten super defensive lol. Also, every guy is apparently 6 ft. tall, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:46 AM
17

You know that no one is ever going to want to marry you, right? Lol!! Even when do DO enter relationships with them (become their mommy bangmaid) they STILL won't marry us. What drug are they all on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:39 AM
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In another post he wrote: Marriage let me down. First things first, yes I made mistakes, we both did, but we both agree there’s nothing major. My wife of 11 years is simply done. Our family (with one son, 7) needs to be broken up for her to be happy. Her words. Our son will have to suffer for her to be happy. Constantly victimizing himself and then stating that their son will have to "suffer" for her happiness. He was probably driving her to an early grave with this attitude. Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:08 AM
6

He screwed me over again after i took him back. It's fucking me up mentally. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 10:28 PM
64

I don't see what's wrong with Zendaya being presented as an outcast and dressed more masculine? I'm a pretty feminine woman now, but when I was in high school I was definitely more of a tomboy. Do we want to keep insinuating that only hyper feminine women should be able to date a HVM? I was thinking the same honestly. I'm tired of the whole "women need to look glamorous all of the time even just going to the grocery store" expectations society had for a long time. Sometimes I just want to wear j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:47 PM
38

Same... i felt especially pressured in HS because my friends were hooking up with older (read: creepy) guys and making it sound like it was the best thing ever. They kept asking about my sex life and I started getting all FOMO about it. I regret giving into peer pressure but oh well, lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:18 PM
3

O_0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:26 PM
60

Umm okay honey... who is the one giving birth to all your children? Not you surely?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 09:15 PM
15

Just a thought to all the kinky scrotes that happen to see this comment: For the love of God. Can you guys just fuck off and buy your own sex dolls? Don't settle for us! Leave us TF alone!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:47 PM
85

Unfortunately, they'll probably just evolve their tactics kind of like a virus does when there's a vaccine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:20 AM
31

Well Apple always said to "Think Different" 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 07:00 PM
5

Fuck yeah!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:42 PM
33

I think peace on earth is when men have their ***** removed :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 06:39 PM
72

If men were body-shamed as much as they say they are, more of them would be getting cosmetic procedures done.🤷‍♀️ Just a thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 09:20 PM
42

If you ever make a dedicated post expanding on this comment, I will be eternally grateful to you🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 08:02 PM
6

I'm sorry but fuck Steven lol. Olga was such an angel the entire time putting up with his behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 08:01 PM
34

They were high school sweethearts and he’s never looked away from her. He still brags about how pretty his wife is to strangers. Your dad gives me hope😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 01:15 AM
18

Damn, patrick dropping those truth bombs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 05:30 PM
166

That last one tho..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:34 AM
2

He was slowly making me an alcoholic back then. Then he pushed me to do weed and kept talking about wanting to do harder drugs with me. He knew that I hated cigarettes but started smoking around me anyways. Since then I've become more or less a straight edge but I wouldn't want it any other way. I need to start taking better care of my health ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:41 AM
17

Yep this is how we'll spot each other 😎🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:20 PM
4

Have a fake number memorized! Be in a rush to leave so he doesn't ask you to make sure you got his text/call on the spot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 07:39 AM
131

"Get some action in real life" Okay how about promoting the mindblowing view that women are people and want to be treated as such? What's with the objectification that's still pervading society that women are just there to be bedded? How about telling young men to find hobbies other than fucking with women? I'm glad he's speaking out about porn and all but still...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 11:55 PM
7

Ah yes. Every scrote's dream girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:08 PM
9

Those 12 year old boys really do be thinking they're so edgy and shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 06:54 PM
26

Ew their facial expressions don't even match up with his smile sliding down his weak chin. Poor woman was probably blindsided by this asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 05:55 PM
45

If you even mention anywhere else on reddit how women deserve to have standards, so many of those guys lose their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 04:07 AM
44

Sis I can't even
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:16 AM
14

These are cute!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 09:18 PM
226

Okay so boys hate our more feminine qualities and want us all to be not like the other girls but then say they WANT the girly girl aesthetic? They want schrodinger's woman. Can those guys just buy their own sex dolls and leave us alone? Honestly. 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 06:36 PM
5

I was actually planning on reading book 3 eventually but it does sound pretty disappointing lol. Thanks for the heads up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 05:06 PM
15

This smells like one of those thathappened posts to me.. idk. Almost as if some lonely basement-dwelling scrote wrote this trying to fuck with everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 04:51 PM
118

It's so true. Women are encouraged to just give the guy a chance while the guy will automatically reject a woman in 0.999 seconds flat for the most miniscule flaw and even say they are "justified" in feeling that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 02:47 AM
10

Lmao. The husband's such a jackass. My question to these scrotes especially on reddit is this: If your broke-ass can't financially support your family AND you're too cool to even try and protect them during some kind of disaster, what are y'all even good for? I mean was the husband going 50/50 with trying to keep his family safe?? Or was he just standing outside like a total moron?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 08:40 PM
42

Holy fuck. I'm so sorry that happened to you. That sucks that at least one of your friends couldn't have at least waited for you before leaving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:59 PM
231

Do men have a different concept of time than we do? Like, it's fine to string a woman along for 5+ years with the mAYbe they'll get married "someday" but 5 MONTHS without sex and they cry like little babies? What the actual fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:26 AM
1

Aww your kitty is so cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:26 AM
17

This actually makes so much sense. It's like they want to live out their power fantasies or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:46 AM
18

Don't mind at all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:44 AM
50

I love it. Maybe one where the goblin's like "have fun with your cats" while we're actually having fun doing that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 10:28 PM
57

Damn the same is always happening to me. I can't talk to a lot of guys my age like normal people because they always take it as me "flirting" when all I usually do is talk about the class or job we're in and I have to.. God I'm so frustrated for that woman in your class
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:58 PM
92

1 hour later they probably started crying about how no woman will throw themselves at them to touch their pp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:55 PM
98

I do want to get married.. but yeah.... he's going to have to be really fucking amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:18 PM
7

True but when guys have so much authority in so many situations it becomes his word vs mine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:37 PM
22

I understand this but I still get too many guys thinking that I'm flirting with them when I'm not. It makes it so hard especially when I need to work with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:41 PM
5

5 minutes? The food's already cold by then lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:22 PM
31

let's talk about the way that everyone is expected to be fun and funny all the time especially in order to obtain or keep employment. Maybe if they weren't expected to always be "on" and come up with interactions with people that they otherwise have nothing in common with then they wouldn't say as many things that you perceive as stupid. I feel this hard and have to agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:34 PM
21

I would message him that i watch Real Housewives religiously just to annoy him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:58 PM
15

These redditors are something else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 10:47 PM
76

The last guy who rejected me (after 2-3 months) told me (unprompted) I was "really funny, but not the right kind of funny." What the fuck does that even mean? Omfg. My ex used to say something similar to this. The hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 05:19 PM
15

I can't take most of those songs seriously anymore. Especially when they start accusing their exes for "wronging" them in some way. It's like bruh, you must have done something first that made her act that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 05:11 PM
19

Listen, i dont always get along with my momma but she comes before everyone else 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:31 PM
187

New phone, who dis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:27 PM
23

Same here sis. We should form a FDS clan and start raiding people lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 09:52 PM
80

Foreal though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:30 PM
21

No. We just don't want to talk to your ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:28 PM
49

Wtffff. This is why I don't fucking post pictures of myself anymore ugh society is fucked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:01 AM
69

Anne Boleyn was a cultured and intelligent woman. She had her reputation ripped apart and was beheaded because Henry had bad seed. There I said it. It was all his fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:52 AM
24

God they really have nothing to live for lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:47 PM
138

Wtf is wrong with men these days lol who tf makes this shit up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:41 PM
48

Poor hardworking mens... working "overtime" to chase tail that doesn't belong to his gf/wife :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:06 PM
10

being girly = bad i thought women weren't oppressed (meanwhile I was constantly gaslit & emotionally abused) guys were easy to get along with, unlike other women it must be my fault if he suddenly starts acting very cold towards me. It was up to me to go after him and show him how I feel and it's my fault if I don't fix things The older I get, the less I'm willing to put up with other people's bullshit. FDS has been so instrumental in helping me realize that the shit other people were putting me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:58 PM
37

Not gonna lie, from that first pic I thought he was Colt from 90 Day Fiance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:06 PM
5

Sis, I know it's hard but you ARE worth it. The fact that he added you shows that he still cares what you think but you don't need to give him the time of day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:13 PM
15

OMG. His marriage is in shambles, plagued by issues, blah blah blah. He feels so sorry for himself but does nothing to try and work on his marriage or get a divorce. It's like guys just expect the hand of God to swoop down and fix all his problems. But since that's not going to happen they resort to bullshit like this wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:05 PM
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Ok, so even if you acted as low maintenance as possible and treated your scrotey partner like a king they'll still find other ways to take their insecurites out on you. So what should we be doing instead? Just sit there and keep getting gaslit? This is ridiculous. And how long has mainstream media scrutinized and ripped women apart for not looking and acting a certain way? Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:52 PM
23

Oh no... these women are so RUTHLESS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:45 PM
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I guess women are seen as more "humble", easier to get a long with, and down to earth if they claim the "low-maintenance" title. But even IF that were true, guys don't even actually appreciate their gfs/wives for being that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:36 AM
40

Women aren't even allowed to be "low maintenance" lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:30 AM
13

Sure but I could take better pics than him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:42 PM
35

I went through the same exact thing in my last relationship sis. He would also make all of these promises he wouldn't keep (like the marriage thing) and either not do it or do the complete opposite. Eventually, when he realized I didn't trust him as much anymore, he would guilt trip me as if I was a bad person assuming bad things about him so I kept letting his behavior slide. Ugh. He wasted so much of my time though. To this day, he probably still blames me for everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:52 PM
75

Oh no. My wife made us a shit ton of cash that will help pay off our newborn's college career. Whatever am I going to do??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:26 AM
20

Can this woman be my mentor please??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:33 PM
7

Sis I struggle with this so much. I want to get on your level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:29 PM
9

"What do you bring to the table?" I bring donuts and the ability to ghost people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:13 PM
70

Guys are so unfunny these days, they constantly resort to punching down on women. When they are told to have a sense of humor, they interpret that to mean ridiculing other people. Why are they like this? Then they turn around and say women can't be funny wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:53 AM
12

Queen energy👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:00 PM
135

This is a big "nope" from me, chief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:57 PM
68

I'm going to go a step further and say that LV people do this. They love to judge and label things they don't understand or empathize with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:19 PM
29

This is cracking me up. 👍👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:05 AM
9

I shit you not. I once concisely, and very articulately explained to my ex something that he did that bothered me and why it bothered me only for him to state that "I don't say anything" to him 3 minutes later.🤯🤯🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:46 AM
42

I guess I'll come out and say it, but I used to be in love with this guy who I thought liked who I was as a person. I was unintentionally low maintenance because I didn't have the self-esteem to look as good as the other girls + my mom has big pickme energy sometimes lmao and I grew up with that mentality. Anyways, this guy I guess decided he didn't like me anymore, and I still vividly remember some of the insults he hurled at me, mainly pertaining to my "daintiness" and being a little girly. It…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:17 AM
7

So, in short, I did not like the film for the most part because all of the men were relatively passive while main-character-woman (sorry, forgot her name) kept throwing herself at them all. The desperation and overly big gestures kept making me cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 06:24 AM
24

I might do another post on poly-vegal theory which is that our nervous systems are constantly vetting for safety and small signs like vocal patterns convey significant messages. Please do! I would be very interested in reading about this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 06:13 PM
29

They really are though. A lot of the signs pointed out in this video are basically men's normal behavior lmao https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gETtG1IHAyU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 04:30 PM
90

"I can see her future buying dog and cat food" Yeah. It's either that or a future buying dog and cat food, buying baby food for the 3 kids the wife is forced to have, buying food to feed the manbaby of the husband that can't feed himself, spending money to pay off those racked up medical bills from all the stress that being with manbaby brings. F*ck off and bring on the animals. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:27 PM
53

That compromise is essential-- which it is, but it seems like it's usually the women doing most of the compromising. Edit: i spelled "compromise" wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 12:51 AM
101

I can't believe she had to explain herself in one of the edits about why she is buying makeup. The woman barely has any time or money for herself and people seem to be shaming her for that...? Also, she IS working. She needs to look put together when she goes to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:35 AM
17

The bar is so low, not even Satan goes there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:58 AM
29

Time to throw out that dustpan I used to sweep up all their dust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 04:54 AM
130

Few things women ask for: Respect loyalty keep your dick in your pants The bar's in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:57 PM
72

Or like when you do tell them stuff and they immediately forget what you said 0.5 seconds later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:17 AM
6

The other day I saw this video on youtube basically about whether women's standards "are too high" (🙄) and one of the comments was this scrote making fun of these women saying something like, "don't worry. You could always go to petco to adopt those cats when you can't find a man!" But it's like after reading posts like these, I feel like I would much rather sign up for that petco membership and take those cats rather than deal with guys like these for the rest of my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:24 PM
64

I saw this post too. I don't like the language he used: "she didn't fuck me" like he was owed sex. I viscerally felt sick reading that. I just can't wrap my head around why women would want to go within 10 feet of someone like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:09 PM
13

Even listening to most Top Hits today is hard when you actually pay attention to the lyrics...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:21 PM
5

He actually ended up stealing money from another friend's mom while he was at their house, so that probably would have been the best way to deal with him ngl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 10:12 PM
85

Lmao. I remember one time when I was still in HS, my older brother's friends came over to our house and one of them walked in on me playing my ps3 in the living room. He had this disgusted look on his face and he went to my brother's room and started proclaiming what I was doing as if it was a crime for girls to play videogames. God what a dweeb. I'm glad my brother no longer talks to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 04:38 PM
127

"I think this is spot on!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:56 AM
21

Thanks. This was gag-worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:55 AM
37

🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 12:13 AM
44

Oh for sure. My ex's older brother took his gf (at the time) to a haunted house and when they got jumpscared, he ran off ahead and left her behind to walk through the rest of the rooms by herself. They didn't last long after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 03:18 PM
3

That's awesome and I'm glad to hear he is able to make the most out of his life (it's never easy to do). I really do believe it's what you take out of your past experiences. Some people take responsibilty, some never grow past just blaming others for their own problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 01:34 AM
56

I'm pretty sure this is "The Wall" I thought LVMs will eventually hit. It's the realization that they were the ugly ones all along... inside and out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:12 AM
85

And he says this after his gf helped him through his car accident after only dating 6 months. He really thought she wasn't worth it after that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:21 AM
11

That pick-up artist sure aged like fine wine, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:38 PM
41

"The Wall" a lot of these men will hit will be a wall of bricks. "The Wall" we'll probably hit is one made out of cheap plywood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:08 PM
261

I'll add one of my own: 7. Being overly critical of me, then telling me that I need a thicker skin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 01:51 AM
190

I just forgot why I wanted to get married in the first place?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 06:24 PM
9

He considers porn to be therapeutic lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 06:04 PM
86

Yeah. "Nice guys" but they condone murder. Give me a break🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 05:49 PM
534

Completely shocked and upset honestly. I feel that he should answer for what he did, and explain ( at least to the Petito family) what escalated things to the point of murder, but unfortunately we will probably never have any of those answers. RIP Gabby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 06:29 AM
2

A dedicated day would be cool too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 03:29 PM
119

I really wish there was a FDS moderated subreddit focusing on movies and other entertainment. I wonder how many movies and shows would look completely different with the FDS lens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:01 AM
10

Wow what a badass! unmatches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 12:48 AM
38

I think they know what women want. It's just not the same as what the LVM want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:33 PM
6

My ex used to pull that one on me. At that point, I was already adapting my busy schedule to accomodate his. Side note: he was unemployed and wasn't doing anything else like going to college so he didn't actually have any real obligations. Nothing I did was ever enough for him so he would occasionally send me those reddit posts that basically stated "Men needs compliments too" or "Men need to feel needed by their wives/partners".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 05:01 PM
10

Wow. At least he gets to feel good for a couple minutes about weirding out a woman. But his pp will remain untouched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:52 PM
8

Hey Queens and thanks for making this post OP. I relate to a lot being said here. I definitely feel the pain of not really being accepted anywhere no matter how hard I tried in the past. I try not to be too hard on myself (the rest of the world does that anyways) and I try to focus on things that are fulfilling to my life. I suffer from a lack of boundaries so I feel like I need to work on that in the meantime while learning to accept and respect myself as a person. It feels good to know that I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:23 PM
97

And this one comment: I was with you until “girls take hours to get ready so guys should pay” thing. That’s absolute garbage. Lmao. But I bet you this guy would absolutely trash his date for not wearing a cost-heavy amount of makeup that took hours to apply if she showed up to the date in jeans and a tshirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:41 AM
53

He says the only thing he has is his career but he actually has a whole ass family. Tf is he on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:32 PM
20

Well, I mean we're classmates so zoom was just easier and I don't really like giving my personal socials to people I'm not close to. We've already met in person but he keeps trying to hangout with me (like pushing me to go out somewhere and eat with him or talking about personal things ) instead of focusing on the work. We were just talking on zoom about hw and neither of us had cameras on anyways but he kept trying to push me to turn mines on even after I said I didn't want to. Yes I do get som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 04:02 AM
26

Umm ladies... if a guy you're talking to on zoom or something keeps trying to get you to turn on your camera... could that be a sign of pornsickness or something else weird?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:41 AM
53

I think sweeping generalizations about women as a whole without any facts or data to back up their statement. Like, "why do all women do x?" or "why are all women like y?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:43 PM
9

Wut..? He could just, you know, get to know women just like anybody else? Thanks. This was gag-worthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:37 PM
10

I'm sorry. But I don't think I could ever allow my son (if I ever have one) to treat my house like a rotating door for numerous random women. That just seems so disrespectful to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 04:25 PM
2

I felt this post deep in my soul🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:00 AM
49

I've made it a point not to talk to any guys (except close family of course) after 8pm anymore. That time is just a personal preference but anyways, idk why guys think it's cute to try to text/chat with classy women at night... it's not!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:02 PM
2

Yesss🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️ I'm so glad this subreddit's back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 03:29 PM
6

Damn straight. I want to be proud of whoever I marry but I don't want my life revolving around his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 05:22 PM
6

Just to put in my own 2 cents but I love this subreddit and it's probably the only real space online where I feel free to express myself. That being said, I've also noticed the heavy amount of content towards male depravity and I think it has been affecting me negatively. I see a lot of comments by other members here saying that they are turned off by men and don't want to date them---which is fine by the way---but personally, I do want to keep dating men and get married eventually. I am just ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:41 PM
8

Marvel at my logic, fEmAle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:44 PM
4

Sis, he vetted himself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:29 PM
18

People will only see what they want to see. The reason why I love FDS is because I've been through mistreatment at the hands of men so I know what they are talking about when they say to avoid LVM. We don't need to "tailor" our personalities. We need to be true to ourselves and make clear what we want out of any relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:27 AM
1

What he was doing right there is straight up harassment. And these dumb scrotes wonder why we go out of our way to avoid getting near them. NO we don't want to put up with your intimidation tactics. We just want to live our lives like anybody else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 03:19 AM
23

Not a fan of Laci Green but that's cool. FDS is getting out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 11:12 PM
1

10/10 Totally subverted my expectations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:43 PM
1

Ok here's mine * We dated a little over 5 years * he was unemployed for about 3 years while we dated * Dresses like a 16 year old (he's 27) * obsessed with drugs, especially cigarettes, alcohol, and weed. * Didn't even have the desire to move out of his family's home (back when i was very pickmiesha and I wanted he & I to move in together) * Always hiding behind me like a little child when we were out in public. * Had to ban him from ever driving my poor beat-up car ever again because he started…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:16 PM
11

Gross. I'm glad I don't fit this guy's bill. I don't want some guy with large pubic hair on his chin checking me out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:19 PM
1

Steps 2 better communication with the scrotes: 1. Gaslight yourself 2. Suppress any emotions you have towards literally anything 3. Recognize that you are still self-absorbed🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 05:30 PM
1

And at midnight??? Are you fcking kidding me? I've made it a point not to talk to strange men past 8pm lmao. I'm not sacrificing my sleep for those jerks anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 04:48 AM
1

..."squick"...?🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:37 PM
8

That last part reminded me of my ex🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:01 PM
2

That was my ex to a "T"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:30 PM
1

That boy talks about how "90's men" were real men but was probably born in 1998 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 08:29 PM
1

This story screams fake to me but idk...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:14 PM
1

Scrote: downplays the importance of attending a wedding with his wife planned a year ago Also scrote: throws tantrum on how wife is downplaying staying home to watch some football game on t.v
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:01 PM
2

I was raised the same and to never complain. And if i start getting mistreated by the man, I obviously "deserve" it because I somehow provoked it by being too emotional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:24 PM
2

Women are usually the ghostwriters to men's success apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:21 PM
1

What do you ladies think of how some women will call their S.O their "Husband" even if they weren't even engaged yet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:46 AM
1

I can't read that shit. Those red pill boys need to go touch some grass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:31 AM
1

Well, like, maybe the guy should develop better listening skills?? Some empathy too, while they're at it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:27 AM
1

I mean, that's cute and all, but did he propose to her with an actual ring at some point...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:15 AM
1

Get paid a lot to do squat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:09 AM
2

He talks over the woman when she tries to interject. He gladly lets the other man interject and even responds to what he says...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:07 AM
1

I always come across other women who are either my height (5"2) or shorter so I'm sure there are plenty of them that woudn't mind dating a guy that's 5"3, 5"4 or whatever. What these guys need to do is maybe open their eyes to all of the gorgeous women already surrounding them, rather than automatically discounting them as "ugly" just because they don't look like flawless IG models...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:04 AM
1

Down with the oppa✊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:28 AM
2

Same!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:29 PM
92

And all these sick scrotes care about is the fact that she technically 'consented' although she likely didn't realize the emotional/physical trauma it would cause her later on. If all women/girls knew full well what they were getting into + the consequences, I doubt we'd ever consent to anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:28 AM
1

She was probably relieved that it didn't go anywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:34 PM
1

What? I thought patriarchy told me these words are too big for my little woman's mind???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:29 PM
1

I like your username 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:25 PM
12

Sis, 7 whole years... I know what it's like because i was in a similar position before with my ex. I know I loved him a lot and was willing to stick by him through thick and thin. But there comes a time when you have to realize that he just doesn't feel the same way towards you. It's heartbreaking but I hope she'll get the wake up call that she needs. She deserves better. She deserves a nice, fat big diamond engagement ring if that's what she wants. She deserves someone who really loves her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 06:14 AM
2

Which kdrama was this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 09:28 PM
7

Ain't that the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:40 AM
10

If only Harry gave my ex this talk when he wouldn't budge after 5 years. Or not. Fuck my LVX 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 01:28 AM
1

Then he probably tells his scrotey friends that she isn't cOmmUnIcAtInG anything to him, so how is he supposed to know what she wants?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:51 PM
7

Ima start treating men like they're property straight up. Let's see how that feels!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:20 AM
1

He's seriously reminiscing not having had a high number of gfs but he's MARRIED. scrotes never be thankful for anything!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:16 PM
23

I am deeply upset by this news. I was watching some of these body language youtube channels analyzing brian's behaviour and basically saying that they don't believe he would do anything wrong, especially murder his young fiance, and how believable he comes off as, etc. I truly believe his family knew and are trying to cover for him, therefore making themselves complicit in her death. How infuriating. Gabbie deserved better. MUCH BETTER. We all do, in fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 12:53 AM
1

Meanwhile, scrotes' dictionary contains about a hundred different ways to verbally degrade women and girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:42 PM
7

Behind every man is a string of exhausted women that acts as the scapegoats for all of his problems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:54 PM
1

Same girl. My mind was blown just reading some of the bare minimum 🤯😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:49 PM
1

Oh nooo... i have a friend who used to ask me that all of the time😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 04:25 PM
40

Women are looked down on the minute they're born. We constantly have to prove ourselves and work at least twice as hard, if not more, to show that "see, we CAN be as smart or as hardworking as men." We are forced to compete in unfair games and are used to the constant rejection. Guys have a hard time just asking a woman out because they are so afraid of rejection. I agree that they have been coddled too much and now they can't handle living in reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 05:16 PM
28

I just can't🤢. If he's such a family man, why doesn't he just focus on his kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:44 PM
14

I would rather go pick up the dog shit that's all over my neighborhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:02 AM
5

Yeah ok. Messages like those need to be reported. The guy sounds unhinged and is threatening violence against others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:03 PM
51

If only this could be a nationwide campaign so that we can all level up and force men to step up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:53 PM
6

and basically anything bad entering? Like scrotes, for instance?😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 04:01 PM
1

I struggle with this a lot. I still shave down there but sometimes I wonder what it would be like if I just let it grow back. The first time I shaved down there was because of swimsuit issues as a teenager and I didn't want guys laughing and getting grossed out at me. There was a time in my early 20's that I let it grow back, but then this scrote that I thought was interested in me saw me down there and told me to shave it because he didn't want to touch it lmao. My LVX was also grossed out by a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:52 PM
44

LVM: "women should stop complaining about being in shitty relationships and choose better men" Women: ok. chooses HVM LVM: not those men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 04:02 AM
27

It really angers me that some of these men will accuse women for loving on "condition", then also say that if he gets her shoes, she better do whatever he tells her to do. Like, as if we were so mindlessly desperate that we will put up with their shit for some shoes and a couple of dinners. Seriously, this guy would probably take his gf out maybe once or twice or something in their entire relationship and be like "you owe me!" for the rest of her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:35 AM
92

One of my favorite things about FDS so far is their members' sense of humor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:45 AM
2

First, everyone would benefit from going to therapy. Idk why a lot of people refuse to drop the negative stigma already. Second, guys feel entitled to dump all of their problems on us (especially on their S.O) but when we do the same, we are labeled as whiny and our insecurities are used against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 03:50 PM
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