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| 39 | I love it when these men reveal themselves right away;As soon as I read “lone-wolf” I knew exactly where this was going. Cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 01:48 PM |
| 36 | Reading reviews for “Secrets of Playboy” is depressingly sobering for me. It’s a reminder that although some of society is on our side, so many lvm & pick-me’s still exist to victim blame/gaslight/further perpetuate the patriarchy. Why are evil dead men exempt from criticism? Hugh can burn in Hell.This first review made me think “tell me you wanna ride HH’s dick without telling me.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 276 | Have you ever walked out of a first date and why?Ladies, ladies, please. It’s both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 08:56 PM |
| 203 | “How do I ask my boyfriend to stop beating and strangling me?”Sounds like they were both virgins who had learned about sex through porn. Now that she’s realized that the porn ideal isn’t actually… humanizing she’s coming to her senses (slowly but still). Hopefully she leaves him for someone who sees her as a person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 07:10 PM |
| 182 | 🤡I love how all of mens trouble are the fault of the patriarchy that they invented and continue to support. Yet they refuse to see that? Like okay weirdos. You literally invented the system and are still mad at it lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 07:01 PM |
| 36 | Would a HVW make nice with an ex’s new girlfriend for the sake of the kids?Okay, socially I’m not sure what you should do (although definitely teach your kids about stranger danger and encourage them to keep being honest with you!) but legally I think you need to get a lawyer involved. Plenty of people get it in writing that the other parent is not allowed to bring random without their consent. The fact that he’s hiding her and not telling you when she’s gonna be around your kids is so alarming to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 04:05 PM |
| 174 | If he can't plan a date, he isn't worth going out with in the first place.Bold of you to assume he’s good enough to even be considered mediocre in bed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 05:47 PM |
| 8 | Are sororities high value?I think you should encourage her to analyze the things that made her uncomfortable. Why do these things make her uncomfortable? Are they things that would push her out of her comfort zone in a good way (like she’s shy and this will make her socialize more), or are they things she’s deeply/morally uncomfortable with? I think answering those questions will help her figure out what to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:26 PM |
| 117 | For anyone watching love is blind, a huge narcissist is in the show...Shayne..He has such “frat guy energy”. Notice how he’s CONSTANTLY asking for compliments. He’s also constantly throwing “jokes” at people but the moment people joke about him he gets all defensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:16 PM |
| 185 | I'd leave. Straight up would not make it down that aisle if my man was dressed like thisIt should be a crime to waste a catholic wedding like this! I’m actually surprised the priest went along with it, they’re allowed to refuse to do the wedding if they feel like the bride or groom aren’t taking it serious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 213 | Feeling grateful that I’m not embarrassing myself this Valentine’s DayLol. Why would she think his friends would tell her? They’re loyal to HIM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:43 PM |
| 126 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!This was the first thing I thought of as well. He doesn’t want to have to do anything for Valentine’s Day so he’ll try circling back afterwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 05:11 PM |
| 18 | Valentine’s Day Gifts if you’re in a relationship ?I think if you’re just a few months into the relationship it’s practical to give him something small but useful that you know he’ll like and a card. It’s sweet but not too much and doesn’t require much effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 03:36 PM |
| 91 | When you move in with a man that doesn't even respect youI think the person you replied to meant the gf lost a lot not the guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 08:12 PM |
| 369 | 22F dating a 34M finds out he co-owns a house in the suburbs with a woman sharing his last name - If he’s making excuses for you not to see HIS house even though he’s seen yours, there’s a reason.Ah. I was in that comment thread. We all kept telling her he was probably married and she kept claiming there was no way. I’m glad she decided to actually check and found out the truth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 05:29 AM |
| 25 | Apparently, to some pickmes, opening doors is a grand romantic gesture worthy of sex. And of course, someone calling this out gets downvotedI’ve encountered at least one guy (off the top of my head) who got mad at me for holding the door for him? Keep in mind this was a complete stranger, I was just doing the polite thing and he snapped at me that I “shouldn’t have done that” as he was about to walk through. I still regret not slamming the door in his stupid face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 12:11 AM |
| 80 | If you ever want to get over an infatuation/crush, just check their Instagram follow listGirl, where were you during my teenage years 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 06:17 AM |
| 2589 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.“Guys I don’t hate sex workers! I jack off to them all the time okay! Anyways… I tanked a woman’s career opportunity because she’s a sex worker lol” this fucking guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:39 PM |
| 40 | I have received many angry dms from men because of this sub in the last 24 hrs wtf? Anyone have privacy tips, this is getting grossDid he really threaten to off himself because this subreddit exists? The men we warn people against here are rapist and abusers. Shows you what these guys think about themselves. Some people really do need to go outside and like, touch some grass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 04:08 AM |
| 192 | Remember this post everytime you feel guilty dropping the guy over seemingly "small" issue. Men won't tolerate even 0.000001% of the crap they put us through.Wait. Was this on the AH sub? Because if you’re referring to the one I’m thinking about then OMG. That’s why he was using a baby voice??? I need to find the update! Edit: I found the update (shout out to google). And omg. It really was all a bet for a fucking baseball. Plus the sub moderators wouldn’t let her post an update unless she sent them videos the husband had secretly taken to prove he was following the rules of the bet. Anyways, at least she ended up leaving him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:51 AM |
| 310 | No words…This really upsets me because it seems like he gave her this dog in a sort of “a kid would be so much easier so let’s just get one of those and ditch the dog” type of way. It’s so fucked up to use a living being in a manipulation tactic - especially since I’m assuming the end goal was to get rid of the dog (after all, she’s struggling with the dog and already has 2 kids, how is she supposed to handle another baby on top of all that?) I doubt her bf helps with the anything. Also I realized as I w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 03:46 AM |
| 71 | Remember this post everytime you feel guilty dropping the guy over seemingly "small" issue. Men won't tolerate even 0.000001% of the crap they put us through.Not to be controversial but I’d dump her over this. Like that shits so annoying. I wouldn’t be able to put up with it 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:53 AM |
| 109 | I love her…. He does realize that being an animator has been considered a job since like, tv started. Right??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:43 AM |
| 209 | I love herYou’d think her own brother would be one of those people. It sucks when even your own family members are LV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:42 AM |
| 13 | A good vetting strategy is to share a FAKE pet peeveIt’s essentially what the OP of this post said. Another example would be to make up a fake insecurity like “I don’t like my nose “ and then see if he uses that against you. Example : he starts negging you about your nose, comparing it to other women’s noses ect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:39 PM |
| 140 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄Nah. Women like that don’t actually get picked. Men just use them and forget them by the next day. It’s the saddest thing about these type of pickmes tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 05:03 AM |
| 102 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)Omg I googled myself after seeing this comment and my info actually popped up! That’s so scary! This comment should honestly be it’s own post so we can all go get our info off these creepy websites | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 03:05 AM |
| 57 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)I don’t think you’re being overly paranoid at all! There was twitter thread a few months back where a women was talking about how someone tried to break into her room and the hotel staff tried to pretend nothing happened. After checking reviews she saw it was a common occurrence and that sex trafficking was high in that area. Being as safe as possible is always a good thing! And you’re advice is really good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:01 AM |
| 51 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)Horrifying! I’m glad they ended up leaving. I always park face out because it’s convenient but I’m glad it also adds to my safety! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 12:03 AM |
| 40 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)Same. Thankfully I’ve only used Uber twice and nothing happened but I was weary the entire ride. I shared my location with three people the entire time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:50 PM |
| 119 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)To add to your list of body parts to target - a hearty punch in the throat should allow you enough time to make a run for it. Most people don’t expect it and it knocks the wind out of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 24 | I had no idea you ladies are so hated. I’m curious what other subs I’ll be auto banned fromI think it’s the sub where women go to complain about their shitty husbands that they refuse to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 05:03 AM |
| 132 | Thinking of dropping my LVF friend because of her cheatingDrop her. But before you do message her girlfriend, send her screenshots of the flirty tweets and song lyrics. If you have texts from her saying she’s gonna dump her send those too. Also tell her the backstory of her relationship with these “friends” because I doubt she actually told her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 07:04 PM |
| 81 | Woman goes on Judge Steve Harvey to “sue” fiancé of 15+ years for not marrying her.Steve Harvey is low value but he’s the kind that admits stuff we know on FDS. Like he’s talked about how men are only friends with women because they wanna sleep with them and how men know right away if they actually wanna date a woman. Weird guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 05:15 AM |
| 100 | Pickmes really need to shape up and get a clue 🤢And has never slept with a man who was good in bed. Although I’m assuming “she” is really a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 10:00 PM |
| 29 | Makeup: How do you ladies do it?I think you’re over thinking it. As someone who has anxiety it’s a trait I can identify with so I’m not judging you. Still… not everything has to do with men. Every time a woman puts on mascara or gets her nails done it isn’t because she’s seeking male validation. Sometimes people just wanna do stuff because they want to! If you don’t wanna do that kind of stuff then don’t! But don’t shame people who do. Also, stop sitting around grappling with this. If we all sat around thinking about ALL the t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:47 PM |
| 7 | Makeup: How do you ladies do it?Honestly plenty of men could use a nice under eye concealer because they do look TIRED. People are allowed to like what they like. I don’t see why you’re so mad about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:36 PM |
| 46 | Where do my FDS ladies like to shop?Honestly never underestimate thrift shopping - you can find some real gems! And remember the phrase “quality over quantity” get classic staples that you can use throughout the years. I also recommend you check out as many shopping places around you and determine which stores are right for you personally ( as far as style and price range go). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 03:52 AM |
| 521 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?These two try waaaay to hard to be edgy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 02:08 AM |
| 41 | That would be instant ICK for me followed by my departure and blocking everywhere. If he is doing something this gross in front of you, imagine the filthy shit he's doing secretly 🤮I have…. So many questions. I probably don’t want to know the answer anyways but still what the fuck???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 05:35 AM |
| 29 | A man rant from a main sub... he admits right at the beginning he moved her in ASAP as a nurse and a purse. His complaints about her are extremely mild and every comment is telling him to dump her 🤣Yeah I don’t feel bad for either of them tbh. It’s a toxic relationship and the toxic stuff is coming from both sides. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 06:29 PM |
| 71 | A man rant from a main sub... he admits right at the beginning he moved her in ASAP as a nurse and a purse. His complaints about her are extremely mild and every comment is telling him to dump her 🤣Ah so he moved in with her thinking he could take advantage of her (because he assumed she was some kind clueless girl) and then she pulled out the uno reverse card and showed she’s just like him. Now he’s mad he’s stuck with someone who treats him the way he wanted to treat her. Sucks to suck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 06:22 PM |
| 310 | So.. if she’s so important to him why aren’t they married after 7years? No one in the comments brought that up. People in the comments are betting the brothers relationship won’t last as long but at least he knew he wanted to marry his bride within 2 years.A lot of people in the comments are like “oh they’ve only been together 2 years? Bet they won’t last!” As if though the guys whose been stringing his gf along for 7 years is the better guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 04:46 AM |
| 256 | So.. if she’s so important to him why aren’t they married after 7years? No one in the comments brought that up. People in the comments are betting the brothers relationship won’t last as long but at least he knew he wanted to marry his bride within 2 years.Seriously, I wouldn’t be thrilled to invite a girl my brother is just stringing along to my wedding. I’d feel bad for her but that’s it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 04:44 AM |
| 135 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.Up next: bread but … sliced??!!!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 04:26 PM |
| 15 | Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope.That’s my general understanding of it as well. But I assume this is more of a mental situation. Like “well whose going to want me know except him” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 05:55 PM |
| 109 | Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope.Stockholm syndrome exists as a form of survival. If the victim can’t escape their situation they have to find a way to make it okay in order to continue being mentally “okay”. I’m not saying this is the exact situation here since she can physically leave- but I don’t think she realizes that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 03:42 PM |
| 50 | Check your male relatives; they might not support you in your time of needUnless it applies to a male family member whose an abuser. Suddenly “family first” is all they can think of | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:32 PM |
| 19 | Seriously, what a QueenAgreed. Sadly the huge stigma against abortion also plays into it. Even people who are pro choice can be guilted and shamed by a society that places so much importance on the whole thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:08 PM |
| 266 | Seriously, what a QueenI wish most woman did this. Stop having children with shitty men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 04:08 PM |
| 119 | Need your opinions: is this guy I met LV?I mean… people who wait until marriage do exist. Just because society expects men to do whatever it takes to have sex doesn’t mean that they actually do. My point here is that you don’t really know why he’s a virgin and that is where the answer to this being a red/green flag is. Although if him being a virgin makes you uncomfortable then maybe you should just pass and find someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 03:50 PM |
| 105 | No matter what anyone says, sex work has nothing to do with respectWow, talk about an insiders view! For some reason the most shocking thing to me is that apparently when you click those “sexy singles near you” pop ups it actually takes you to a website instead of just giving your computer a virus. The rest checks out with how gross all those websites are. It also made me think of David and Lana from 90 day fiancé. I always suspected that what you described was the general situation and TLC managed to find the girl in the pictures and pay her to show up for the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 02:28 PM |
| 36 | The kids are gonna be alright! (Scroll for comments)Yeah it’s a screenshot of a post on ticktock and the comments on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 09:00 PM |
| 44 | If he’s late he might be avoiding to pay!I hope you paid for yourself and then left before he came back out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:34 PM |
| 74 | Do Pickmes imitate their boyfriends?I haven’t experienced abuse from a pick me but I know what your talking about. I’ve noticed they tend to pickup whatever “personality” traits their LVM have. A former friend of mine has devoted herself to essentially being her bfs mini-me. She now shares the exact same taste in music, shares all his political beliefs, and at one point she was even dressing in the “girl” version of his outfits. It’s honestly disturbing. I think it all just comes from how insecure pickmes are. They don’t believe t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:28 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?I honestly wouldn’t mind changing my last name if I had a bland one; like smith (no offense to any smiths out there). But I already have two last names (in my country we hyphenate) and they’re both really pretty so I’m keeping both and there’s no way I’m tacking on a third one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:45 PM |
| 32 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?Not the person you replied to but hyphenated names are the norm in my country and I think it’s the simplest solution | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:42 PM |
| 18 | Friend completely ignored me at her wedding. Should I block her?I mean I think it’s kinda weird you expected to have the brides attention on her wedding day (it’s kinda of a busy day) so the wedding thing alone isn’t bad. However, the fact that she’s been blowing you off for so long is a good indication that you should just drop her. I would see what she wants to talk about, just to make sure she’s not in danger but if she’s just calling to complain or whatever you should just ghost her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Inspired by the Anne Boleyn post, what other women in history were done dirty by men?Yeah I’ve seen it. It’s hilarious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 03:06 PM |
| 108 | Inspired by the Anne Boleyn post, what other women in history were done dirty by men?Catherine the Great. Granted she does have “great” in her title so she wasn’t done as dirty as some of the women in this thread, but still. She did so many great things for Russia, including educating girls (noble girls only, but hey, you do what you can with the time period). She was a true leader who had the respect and loyalty of the men around her. She managed to take the throne from her incompetent husband and become one of Russias most beloved rulers despite being German. Yet…many people j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 77 | Even in a best case scenario with a seemingly “ok” man, age gap relationships still suckIf he’s such a great guy why couldn’t he find someone his own age? Why did he have to groom a child? (Let’s face it, 18 is practically a child). These are the questions she should be asking herself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 08:17 PM |
| 60 | The main character is catfished by some ugly guy but she eventually falls in love with his “personality”. Safe to say this is my least favourite film everThey wouldn’t end up together but they sure would become good buddy’s! And then he’d end up with the hot girl in the pictures! Yay Hollywood! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 06:40 PM |
| 60 | I see posts like this weekly - thank god the comments unanimously say GTFO ASAP. But how heartbreaking that this woman WITH AN MBA has resorted to CAMMING and is putting up with this for some scrote she's dated for 5 WHOLE MONTHS?!?!?!??!That’s the part that gets me the most. She’s choosing to stay but those poor innocent animals don’t have a choice. I’m so mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 10:44 PM |
| 102 | Started watching Shrill on Hulu and one of the main characters is a LVM.Just a heads up that the handbook doesn’t say plus size women shouldn’t be dating. The handbook says you shouldn’t date until you’re confident with yourself and that you should always strive to improve. In the case of the show Annie definitely shouldn’t be dating anyone, she has such low self esteem and that’s why she dates such a LVM. And while I hate to say it, Annie honestly isn’t a HVW. Not just because of her self esteem but because of a lot of her character traits. She’s pretty selfish. Al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, can you help me interpret these yellow/orange/red flags?Yeah I personally wouldn’t be happy if someone just grabbed my phone out of my hand (even if I was showing them something) it seems rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 04:42 PM |
| 225 | Shawn Mendes dumped Camilla Cabello and called the relationship “stale and complacent”… this happened conveniently after she gained weight and publicly spoke about her cellulite, fat and stretch marks. Coincidence?Honestly I just assumed their relationship was a publicity stunt. Whenever I think about them I just remember that video of them walking super slow so the paparazzi could get good pictures of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 10:54 PM |
| 30 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.I wish I had an award to give you because YES!!! I’ve also been poor and you know what, it’s awful. Money makes life better!!! Why would I be with a man who chooses to be a bum? Men in my country will work any job (even selling oranges on the street) if it means being able to put food on the table. Yet modern society wants women to settle for freeloaders who won’t get jobs? I don’t think so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:30 PM |
| 19 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.Exactly. It’s better to be alone and taking care of yourself vs being in a shitty relationship and having to take care of a partner who won’t take care of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:25 PM |
| 45 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.The amount of times I have seen (on a certain subreddit) something along the lines of “I buy my boyfriend gifts worth hundreds of dollars year round but he doesn’t believe in the gift industry so he doesn’t get me anything back, am I allowed to be mad?”. It honestly makes me want to cry for those women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:24 PM |
| 10 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.I’m not bashing thriftiness. Just because I like the nicer things in life doesn’t mean I’m not willing to budget. There’s a difference between being conservative with money and being down right cheap. Buying someone a $5 engagement ring is just cheap and it’s not even practical. Plus I’m assuming you don’t go around telling men that you’d be great full even for a shoe string as an engagement ring? And yes that’s literally something I’ve seen someone be proposed with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:19 PM |
| 148 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.While that was the original definition the word “gold digger” is now thrown around at any women who expects, well, pretty much anything. If you expect for a man to pay for dinner you’ll be labeled a gold digger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 04:59 PM |
| 66 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beAnd I will be taking a break from the internet for a while because WHAT THE ACTUAL F*CK Edit: btw are we allowed to cuss on this subreddit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 02:10 AM |
| 70 | How do you deal with HVM that know they have options?I agree with everyone’s advice here but I want to throw something else in: You need to work on your self esteem. You should not be entering the dating world with a “I’m easily replaceable” mindset. No one wants to be with someone whose insecure and you shouldn’t be looking at other women as competition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:59 PM |
| 85 | Fawning like "How are you single?"/"You sound too good to be true!"/"Are you real?"Not to mention they’re trying to get you into the “not like other girls” vibe. Which is gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:53 PM |
| 157 | Guy I was talking to defends his misogynistic comments and covers them up as banter and jokes with his friends and tells me if I won’t accept him then to leave which I did. I can’t accept him for who he is because I don’t reward pornsick, misogynistsYeah sorry if I came across as rude. I wasn’t trying to be judgmental. It’s more of a friendly criticism. We’ve all been there and it’s honestly painful to see this happening to other women. But that’s why we’re here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:49 AM |
| 709 | Guy I was talking to defends his misogynistic comments and covers them up as banter and jokes with his friends and tells me if I won’t accept him then to leave which I did. I can’t accept him for who he is because I don’t reward pornsick, misogynistsIn all honesty you shouldn’t have even asked him to change. You should have just dropped him. Don’t go around begging men to be better! You also shouldn’t have kept responding to his messages or explaining yourself. Next time you notice a man being misogynistic and pornsick just stop talking to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 03:42 AM |
| 87 | are guys allowed to roster date?The rule in FDS is to keep a roster until you have the conversation and officially make it official. I don’t see why we shouldn’t expect HVM to do the same. I’d personally feel like a hypocrite. Especially since you two have only gone out on one date. However I agree with the commenter before me that after roughly a month both people should know if the relationship is going anywhere or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 01:34 AM |
| 7 | Just saw a guy entering the subway with a bag of laundry…I mean… when I was in college I would sometimes go do laundry at my moms house. It’s free and you don’t have to be hovering around the laundry room in case someone steals your stuff or takes it out of the machine so they can take your wash. (Can you tell I’m an anxious person?) I just think it’s weird you made such intense assumptions about a complete stranger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 01:15 PM |
| 56 | I was shopping today and saw this. Looks like they now make a giant mug for desperate women to broadcast to the world how pathetic they are.Me when I see a cat 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 11:03 PM |
| 62 | Found one in the wild!A love story for the ages ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 03:28 AM |
| 39 | Ummm. What?Well now we know why Elon hates his father so much. Because wtf 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:55 PM |
| 140 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyThe best way to keep a man is to flip the script and oppress them for centuries since the beginning of civilization. Also something about them making us sandwiches?? Edit: I’m glad so many of you are on board with my elaborate plan to get sandwiches!!! Mwahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 04:21 PM |
| 201 | Poor PickMe did a dang photoshoot 🤦♀️It’s sad a tree had to die for that to be printed on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:00 AM |
| 25 | Pickme: a cautionary tale (long read)Children can tell when their parents aren’t happy with each other. They internalize it and are very likely to pursue relationships that are just as bad if not worse. For the sake of your children (and yourself) you need to leave. Stop being a cautionary tale and take charge of your life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:04 AM |
| 68 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.I think they briefly dated years ago and then they reunited like, 3 months after he was seen with his ex again and that’s when he proposed. Then they wonder why their marriage is hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 11:55 PM |
| 77 | I think all women should have height requirements actually. 😌Sadly it sounds like a teenage girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:35 PM |
| 38 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡If you listen closely you can hear the sound of a pickme claiming she would LOVE that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Guy Shows A Provider Mentality. Some Women are Like "Yes, DO It!" Other Comments Show a PickMe Deprived Mentality - Ladies, Learn to Embrace Being SpoiledIt’s just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is to fall in love with a poor one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 03:33 PM |
| 76 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperworkNo you don’t understand, he takes care of her when she’s sick!! How selfless!!!!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 08:28 PM |
| 83 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.Didn’t she say something about how she felt she was giving away her life (bodily autonomy?) or something else along those lines by getting pregnant? I honestly don’t think that’s a healthy way to look at having children. Like I’m child free because I would see it the same way. Edit. Btw I’m not saying that’s what she said in the post you linked but I think she said it before | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 12:11 AM |
| 238 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.I was waiting for the part where she drained his bank account and ran off or something to that equivalent but no. They’re married lol. She’s a terrible scammer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 07:45 PM |
| 252 | One of the MANY things I’ll never do for a man: compete for him. You think you found better, then go!!!!!! Please!!! Get as far from me as you can!!!!! Feel so bad for this woman…If she can gather proof she can get them into serious trouble. Affairs in the military are basically a crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:25 AM |
| 24 | How about noThere’s men who wouldn’t pick up the tab at McDonald’s!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:24 PM |
| 454 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?Yet they never take nude pictures of men. Don’t they deserve to have something they don’t see within themselves captured in photos? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:19 PM |
| 14 | Thoughts?That or this is a way to harvest strangers kidneys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 12:35 PM |
| 397 | Imagine tolerating thisYeah I was so confused when people were talking about how empowering that album was. Like, she stayed with him? What’s empowering about being cheated on and putting up with it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 02:34 AM |
| 7 | Husband misses old body from when wife had an eating disorder :DThe wife still has an eating disorder. Sorry but it’s hard to even care about your point of how shitty this man is because I’m just concerned with how out of control this woman’s ed is. Binging is not the solution to purging. I hope she gets help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:51 PM |
| 14 | My EX’s phone called me.Is it possible for you to change your number? I know that can be inconvenient but if you’re worried he’ll keep calling it’s something to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:37 PM |
| 223 | FDSers who are married to or dating HVM, what brought you here?I think there’s no time to stop vetting. But mostly I enjoy coming to this subreddits because it’s like the only women centered space we have (on Reddit) it’s nice that we can give our opinions without being bullied by lvm and pick-mes. We don’t have to put dumb disclaimers like “not all men” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 09:43 PM |
| 82 | Man Stands her up, lies about it, then floods her inboxOP for the love of all that is good and holy please update when she posts the moms voicemail. I have to know what she said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 11:21 PM |
| 88 | RANT: WHY do men feel the need to change their gender to "female" on dating apps?Right! I was going through bumble BFF and like 3 dudes popped up! I thought it was so weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 03:53 PM |
| 26 | Thank you mods! But I missed this sub.Does her therapist want to sleep with the husband? That’s the only logical answer here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 01:25 PM |
| 428 | Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid.This is just so embarrassing for both of them. Especially her. Imagine literally being Barbra the builder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:00 PM |
| 91 | Texas has an anonymous tip line for reporting abortions.I just sent them a picture of Ted Cruz and wrote “this persons existence is an abortion” I’m definitely my target audience when it comes to jokes lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 52 | Had a HVM and lost him☹️I mean they started dating at 19 and as far as we can tell op is now 24. Personally I think 24 is too young for marriage . We have to remember we all have different ideas of when the right age for marriage is for ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 08:23 PM |
| 33 | Had to share this 😩It’s not even a date lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:29 PM |
| 302 | Had to share this 😩Every time I catch myself looking over my shoulder and clutching my keys and mentally preparing myself to fight for my life while walking alone; I just remember all the poor men who are sometimes expected to pay for a woman’s meal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 08:28 PM |
| 20 | I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮Imagine thinking you’re beneath a man. Couldn’t be me smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:13 PM |
| 185 | Is she high maintenance tho?Ugh I hate that women have to put in the disclaimer of “I’m not even materialistic/ a gold digger”. So what if you are?? Material things can have meaning/simply be nice to have. Money matters in our society. I’m tired of people pretending it’s bad to like money and material things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 83 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.I think you can disagree with a particular action but respect the people doing it. So like you, I don’t agree with sex work but still respect sex workers. It’s not their fault, their just doing their best to survive in a messed up economic structure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 03:07 PM |
| 167 | Imagine needing pixels to get in the mood..And even if he doesn’t know he’s literally had 6 years to figure it out. So it still comes out to him just straight up not caring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 01:40 AM |
| 10 | Another date, another lessonJust checked it out and realized his response was to a pickme who can’t comprehend that having a job and being a decent human being are the bare minimum to begin a part of society but do not equate being a good partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 03:13 PM |
| 5 | I hope she got picked 🙄Wait, are you saying you don’t see the big deal with food? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 12:08 AM |
| 9 | I find nothing wholesome or cute about this. I will not be bribing a man to marry ne, not with toys or anything else. He will be glad to marry me or we will not be married at all. Childish.She does realize she can do better right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:51 PM |
| 32 | Ladies, I have officially become a born again virgin, thanks to the logical gender!That is such a dumb reason to drink. Like they do realize all colleges make you do small courses (they’re not classes just a video) about drinking/drugs/discrimination/and sexual assault right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:34 AM |
| 37 | Fun role playing with a stranger 🙄First off, ew at “fun role play”. Secondly, what does he expect the response to be? Pretty much everyone would be like “no I’m not” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"In all honesty I am named after my mother lol. Although it was my dad who suggested I be named after her so idk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:18 PM |
| 51 | Textbook example of LVM we talk about here, I think we need to rescueAt least they have big dicks, yet porn obsessed men never hold themselves to THAT standard. (I know men can’t change that, but they hold women to the standard of looking like a pornstar while they themselves don’t even have the one qualification) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:11 PM |
| 92 | “He has Bi Wife Energy”I love how when they encourage their wife to look for a third it always means another woman, not another man. It’s almost as if though they’re fetishizing bi women 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:05 PM |
| 31 | This went VIRAL on FB and everyone was calling it cute and praising him. She deserves better.Ah the not so subtle-subtle backhanded “compliment” that are really just there to tear you down. Here I thought my grandma was the only one who could do it so boldly on Facebook, but I guess I can add this guy to the list. He really sat there like “I didn’t wanna actually be with her or do anything with her but she did so much that I did this half assed thing after all her begging. Lol” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:17 AM |
| 161 | "Sex work" is human trafficking.I would like to hop on the part where they mention that most sex workers are forced into it through trafficking or simply don’t want to do it. Because that’s a very important part that is often glossed over. Libfems always talk about the sex worker who LOVES her job and finds it empowering (🙄). No that girl isn’t real, the only reason why they take the job is because it puts food on the table and we live in a society where women are constantly told that sex work is this glamorous thing that’ll m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:00 PM |
| 232 | When I talk about FDS concepts with other women, I don't even acknowledge that what I am saying is controversial at all. I just act like it's normal.The fact that it's such a normalized thing to the point that young girls are looking forward to their 18th birthday just so they can make one is disgusting. I don't want to trash sex workers because they're just casualties of a messed up system but it's not empowering, it's dehumanizing. It's like, why is the main way for young women to make a good profit through sex work? What happened to wanting to grow up to be a doctor or lawyer? Sorry, mini-rant over. This is just something that drives me u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:05 PM |
| -13 | Which part don't they get?And that type of thinking is literally turned around on women by anti-choice people all the time. It’s the “don’t spread your legs” trope. Everything you’re saying has been used against women for centuries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:36 PM |
| -15 | Which part don't they get?So, a man and a women having consensual sex is wrong? If you don’t want to have sex that’s fine but don’t act like everyone else who does it is inherently wrong. That’s such a weird thing to hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:28 PM |
| -11 | Which part don't they get?Yeah, it does sound incredibly anti-choice. While I agree with the standard point of men not getting to decide if the women gets to keep the baby or not, I highly disagree with shaming people for having consensual sex. Are people who don’t use birth control when they don’t wanna get pregnant dumb? Absolutely! But literally everything you said is what anti-choice people say, they just flip it on women. (Not to mention that birth control can fail but that’s an aside). Instead of shaming people for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 17 | Which part don't they get?Hard disagree on “tightening up abortion laws” that’s dictating the rights someone has to choose what to do with their own bodies. Women have already suffered through that through out all of history, why would you want to go back to that? We don’t get to decided what a “valid” reason for wanting an abortion is. If someone wants one simply because they don’t want a child that’s valid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Which part don't they get?Honestly I thought I was gonna get downvote but I had to say something. (Hell I might still get downvoted to the ground) but I stand by what I said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 10 | Which part don't they get?This is the type of argument anti-choice people use against women who want abortions. I get the point you’re trying to make but this isn’t the way to make it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 150 | Imagine feeling bad for cheating scrotes who abuse and exploit your body AND use you for free therapy sessions.She’s especially dumb if she’s counting on these people for rides home? There is no way this isn’t actually a man pretending to be a woman- no woman is that dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Guarantee he watches porn.Thank you! People are allowed to not wanna date someone for whatever reason and people should definitely NOT stay with someone who lies to them about something as simple as their job (or anything really) if OP knows some context behind this that proves this person is in the wrong she should have posted it instead of just this screenshot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:51 AM |
| 216 | That update tho 🙌Am I the only one wondering where she bought a whole claw machine? And how much would that cost??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!The a- hole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!At least the plastic didn’t turn your finger green? 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 111 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!And she was talking about marrying him in a heartbeat years before they dated? Hmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:55 AM |
| 84 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!I would make a joke about how the price is way more then he’s willing to pay but I’m just baffled that there’s such a thing as a Tiffany’s paper clip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:53 AM |
| 104 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!That’s how it came across to me as well. She wants validation as well as cool girl points and knows that the only place she’ll get it is on the internet, particularly somewhere where men are rampant. She got what she wanted - all the comments were calling her friends and family materialistic and telling her how wonderful she is for accepting scraps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:49 AM |
| 10 | Whose child is this? And she proposed at her brother’s wedding of all places?! 🤦🏽♀️ please do not mistake this as “gEnDEr EqAuLiTy” 😑He kinda does look ashamed 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:01 PM |
| 16 | Lindsay Bluth Fünke of Arrested Development (2003). LVW/pick-me. Throws herself at men, marries a man to piss off her dad, neglects her child.In fairness the whole point of the show is that the entire family sucks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 04:51 PM |
| 39 | Woman gets hit by a car, boyfriend looks back and continues on peddling 😟I know that was honestly the more shocking thing to me, that person just committed a crime! That’s a hit and run! I hope she got the license plate so she can sue their ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 23 | These are the men who want you to be honoured they let you be in their presence.Okay I have to ask, what’s wrong with ordering a small beverage? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 9 | Recently posted on here and got a new follower, one look at the post history and yup, it was a scrote that likes to keep tabs on this subYou know they’re not. Besides, I’d be less surprised if these types of guys were the ones causing the cold cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 08:49 PM |
| 2 | **TRIGGER WARNING** Here is a sick piece of shit, 44-year-old male, going after a 13-year-old girl. Luckily, she sets him up and police bust his ass. Hopefully, he gets it in prison, low life SCUM.It’s Mista G Dubs, he has an entire playlist called “the predator chronicles” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 03:40 PM |
| 39 | **TRIGGER WARNING** Here is a sick piece of shit, 44-year-old male, going after a 13-year-old girl. Luckily, she sets him up and police bust his ass. Hopefully, he gets it in prison, low life SCUM.There’s a YouTuber who watches these and roasts the hell out of the predators and he went in on this guys for continuing to eat the pizza. It was so funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:04 AM |
| 23 | Legal advice OP says she was convinced against her will to have a blowjob, some scrote tries to gaslight a sensible comment. The audacity.You know why he said she accused him of rape? Because he KNOWS that he did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:46 AM |
| 29 | Woman explains how men ruined My Little Pony for children (mostly girls) by making it hypersexual and catered towards a masculine aestheticIt’s like what they did to the Bo Jack horsemen show. Like the main character is supposed to be this in-depth look at an incredibly flawed character with trauma and shit but LVM look at it and are like “that’s me!” And think it makes them cool when the show is telling them that it isn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:54 PM |
| 6 | A Man Sends Hookup off With a Bag of Doritos and $40 - PickMes on Twitter: 😍😍😍😍😍😍He’s not treating her like a hooker!! Hookers get paid better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 03:19 AM |
| 21 | How my best friend's bf took her away from meNor should she be. Good riddance to the pick me friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:55 AM |
| 25 | If you have to publicly brand him, he’s not the one sisI wonder if the people who buy these shirts think someone’s really gonna stand there in public and read it. “Like ey, hold still so I can read about your gf because it’s obviously important” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:55 AM |
| 31 | Time traveler??And they have the audacity to get mad at women who wear makeup because it’s “deceiving” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 11 | Time traveler??Eh, the outfit alone wouldn’t give it away for me. It’s a pretty neutral style | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:44 PM |
| 89 | The final boss PickmeishaI understand being a pick me - most of us have been there. But being a pick me for internet points??? That’s a whole other level of sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:18 PM |
| 31 | The comments were full of women claiming they were such kind.Lol. It’s actually the same thing in the U.S. . Men are statistically worse drivers and we all know it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Would break up with someone if you bought them $300 xmas gift and they got you nothing?I’d take the gifts back. I’m that petty idc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:18 AM |
| 112 | Busy business woman always choose lvm on hallmark movies.I’m not gonna lie. I LOVE those movies. My friends and I watch them and just tear them apart. It’s a really fun thing to do because there’s just so much to make fun of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:11 AM |
| 14 | My ex telling me I "have" to talk to him. I only reply if its about our son.But he is crying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:18 PM |
| 8 | My ex telling me I "have" to talk to him. I only reply if its about our son.Someone broke out the thesaurus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:17 PM |
| 9 | Pickmeisha auditions?Oh no! Her male BFF is bothered by people saying they hate men. I’m bothered by the fact that men are in charge of our reproductive rights, that guys like Brock Turner (the rapist) get off Scott free, and that statistically when a women is murdered it’s usually her male partner. But yeah, sorry for the emotional stress it’s causing him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:23 PM |
| 9 | Pickmeisha auditions?“Good morning! My dick!” Oooops wrongs sub 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:19 PM |
| 5 | All the pick me’s in the comments agree.. meanwhile I can’t be bothered to raise a grown man. NextGross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 10:35 PM |
| 15 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡FDS is literally about weaving out LVM and not putting up with their bull. It’s also about being HV ourselves. This means recognizing when other women mess up (as well as ourselves). I feel bad for iggy but at the end of the day she chose to have a baby with him, he’s never had a great reputation and is acting the way he always had. The only real victim here is the child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:05 PM |
| 24 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡Idk why your being downvoted for implementing FDS ideals. We literally focus on finding the right partner and weaving out the LVM and NVM. Iggy didn’t do that, I feel bad for her but I doubt this man was able to ever mascaraed as high value. She knew who he was when she planned to have a baby with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:01 PM |
| 27 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!Of course he stayed. It was already 2 am and he was tired, I’m sure it was easier for him to sleep there and not have drive back home until the morning. He wasn’t even being sweet -he was just using her for convenience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:39 AM |
| 20 | I have no words... Hope she will leave and get him arrested.PLEASE tell me people are telling her to dump him and take legal action | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:17 AM |
| 194 | A man taking responsibility, we love to see it!Bare minimum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:29 PM |
| 71 | He bought himself a gift and pretended it was also for her and she still described him as a great guy and she felt bad about having to call him out on it.I love this! We really need to start publicly shaming LVM. I would have gone on social media and called his ass out. Like everything she wrote on her post I would have put on Facebook and tagged him and all his family in it. Idc I’m tired of shit men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:46 AM |
| 16 | Men who cry wolf really irritate me - if you want therapy seek it but don’t compare it to “therapy is for women”.So.. he’s mad at us... because he stopped taking the therapy that was offered to him, at his own free will? Make it make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 02:45 AM |
| 21 | Guess which comment was written by a man...nobody takes 10 years to decide whether they want to marry someone. Absolutely nobody.My aunt was with my cousins father for 12 years! They got married, had my cousin, and divorced within two. I always think about that when people take more then 5 years to get married | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:05 PM |
| 44 | Just NVM ThingsThat so didn’t happen lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:08 AM |
| 7 | Tag yourself, I'm Satan's Girl (as an aside though this could also read as an old-school criticism of libfems now that I think about it)Sounds like a gal I wanna be friends with 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 25 | r/NiceGirls is mad we don’t respond to thinly veiled sex attemptsSomeone who simply asked “how is this a nice girl?” Is getting downvoted. By this point that sub just hates any woman that says anything lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 09:10 PM |
| 13 | El cheapo LVM hand-makes crappy cheap gifts for partner but expects a PS5Homemade gifts, if truly thoughtful, can be amazing! A friend of mine made me a needle point picture last Christmas. It simple and fits my aesthetic perfectly and is currently hanging in my apartment. She put thought into it and what’s more, she made it to fit my taste. But the guy in the OP doesn’t care, there’s no effort and it’s clearly not made with the OP in mind. And on top of all of it he want expensive gifts, talk about balls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:46 PM |
| 52 | El cheapo LVM hand-makes crappy cheap gifts for partner but expects a PS5She said in a comment that they’ve already combined finances so... And he apparently earns more then her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:39 PM |
| 187 | El cheapo LVM hand-makes crappy cheap gifts for partner but expects a PS5I’ve been on that thread, there are a few suggesting that but the majority are telling her to laminate a picture of the PS5 and give that to him lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:38 PM |
| 81 | This makes me so sad 😶I’ve never dated a gamer but every story I hear is a nightmare. I don’t get what could possibly be attractive about a man like that tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 01:07 AM |
| 17 | LVM/NVM thinks gift cards are an acceptable gift for GF. Thread is full of neckbeards defending him/telling her to cOmMunIcAte her needs to him.On top of all this can we also talk about the fact that he apparently took the necklace back after his break up with his ex. That’s so tacky to me. I recognize she may have given it back but with his attitude towards gift giving I doubt it, and even if she did there’s no reason he should still have it. So gross, I also doubt he’d be laughing if the OP only gave him gift cards from now on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 12:53 AM |
| 48 | OMG I couldn’t help myself. He shouldn’t have snooped and he should communicate. And stop being so insecure! All women do this.Okay but I’m dying at her excuse, and the fact that he’s dumb enough to believe it? I’m screaming lol 💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:27 AM |
| 22 | Hate to see itAll I got from this is that even he knows he’s ugly. She didn’t even mention it but he tried to justify is ugliness lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:20 AM |
| 57 | No way this wasn’t done on purpose so she’d never ask him again...Honestly by this point it’s hard to feel bad for people in that subreddit, they will do everything under the sun to deal with their relationship except leave . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:02 AM |
| 91 | That moment this woman discovered she is with a NVMPlease tell me people are telling her to divorce the loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:22 AM |
| 2 | My comment got removed because I used the word “man child”. I honestly can’t by this pointYes it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:10 PM |
| 15 | Sounds like a dude I knew in college. He said his body count was between 60 and 80 something and I could help but think how many of those women he actually got off.I hate to break your bubble but for the majority of history it was assumed women couldn’t cum. The majority of men have never cared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:47 PM |
| 26 | This has to be the worst tinder profile I’ve ever laid eyes on. This man is a walking red flag.He probably thinks he sounds “cool” and like a lady’s man 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 08:04 PM |
| 17 | Shoutout to the bare minimum! ✌️Basic human decency, woooo!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:10 AM |
| 2 | I hate this so much. Saying someone must have a mental illness because they’re lazy & useless is so insulting to people with mental illnesses. Scroll for storyThis is a really important point that’s usually ignored. I’m pro legalization myself and weed certainly has its medical benefits, but it’s still an addictive substance. And just like any other addictive substance it can ruin people’s life’s, even if it’s not in “traditional “ way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:50 PM |
| 16 | I'm speechlessIs that even a flex? Like I doubt prostitutes are taking their clients to the nicest part of town. Basically he admitted to living in a shit area, yeah? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 06:12 AM |
| 17 | I hate this so much. Saying someone must have a mental illness because they’re lazy & useless is so insulting to people with mental illnesses. Scroll for storyExcept Reddit ALWAYS jumps to this conclusion. Not to mention that it’s been 7 years, if it’s that deep then the people around him would know it. Assuming that he has anxiety and giving him a break for his actions (or lack of) is enabling . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:29 AM |
| 4 | My abusive NVM ex and his perfect girlfriend are the best lesson I ever receivedI have to ask, can you have someone like your sister reach out to his new gf and tell her what happened? Since you can’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 04:41 AM |
| 13 | I hate this so much. Saying someone must have a mental illness because they’re lazy & useless is so insulting to people with mental illnesses. Scroll for storyYeah I think the top comment said something like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:39 AM |
| 30 | Thanks for completely ignoring the history & relevance of IWD to show you’re a “cool chick” 🙄And ANONYMOUS men at that! These pick me’s are desperate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:05 PM |
| 8 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!Yeah the whole relationship seems to be him not wanting it but her insisting SO hard. In his mind he’s settled and some day he’ll leave her for the one he actually wants | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:52 AM |
| 72 | Saw this and thought of y’allGod I hated that ending! He legit messed with his “friends” life’s and manipulated his way in and still got the girl? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:00 AM |
| 41 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!I like how she tries to paint it as him trying to do it for her! No boo, he just didn’t want you, not even in the beginning, it was a joke but she took it seriously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 04:42 PM |
| 76 | Imagine feeling this entitled to women's bodiesMy biggest flaw 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:26 PM |
| 65 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.What the fu*k are they waiting for? Their engagement is almost old enough to drink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 06:28 AM |
| 112 | I wheezed reading this 😂🙅♀️He 100% messed it up on purpose. Probably so she won’t have any expectations of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 02:47 AM |
| 11 | THIS is why we don’t date men who insist on going dutch!! He’s the gold digger!!!Keep in mind the friend isn’t paying for her, but he’s also not expecting her to pay for him and he’s got a leg up on the boyfriend because at least he’s willing to pay for himself at an upscale restaurant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 05:21 AM |
| 5 | THIS is why we don’t date men who insist on going dutch!! He’s the gold digger!!!Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:15 AM |
| 54 | THIS is why we don’t date men who insist on going dutch!! He’s the gold digger!!!But remember, the minute she’s willing to pay for it completely he’s suddenly down for these new experiences! Suddenly the fact that money is being “wasted” doesn’t matter! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:56 PM |
| 41 | THIS is why we don’t date men who insist on going dutch!! He’s the gold digger!!!Sadly she doesn’t realize she’s a place holder. Thankfully people in the comments are trying to talk some sense into her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:53 PM |
| 84 | THIS is why we don’t date men who insist on going dutch!! He’s the gold digger!!!Omg not only do I know which one you’re talking about but there are others like it that I can recall!! That is so gross to me, like it’s clearly that they just view those as disposable relationships! I don’t know what kind of heartless jerk it takes to do that tbh. If I had the money to help someone close to me I would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:52 PM |
| 109 | THIS is why we don’t date men who insist on going dutch!! He’s the gold digger!!!Exactly. The fact that he never pays for her shows he’s not truly invested, why waste money on her when he’s just waiting for the one he actually wants to be with to show up? When the relationship ends he’s didn’t lose anything, not even money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:46 PM |
| 4 | And I will not be stopped!!I’m so glad to hear it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:23 PM |
| 4 | And I will not be stopped!!We’ve gotta have each other’s backs! And you’re awesome too girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:23 PM |
| 14 | And I will not be stopped!!I’m so glad you’re sharing this with your friends! It’s important to show girls there’s a safe space for them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:22 PM |
| 112 | And I will not be stopped!!Don’t date in high school, it’s honestly a waste of your time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 05:38 AM |
| 22 | You can literally be Beyonce and still be devalued by LVMShe’s talented but I don’t find her to be a mind blowing talent, and yes, she’s a pick me by fds standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:47 PM |
| 30 | Why did he ask these questions?Girl. Stop engaging with men like this, you’re just playing into their games. There’s no room for politeness with these types, just block and move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 10:36 PM |
| 16 | I thought this belonged here.I’m childfree too, and it’s stories like this that make me think “Yup, if I ever get pregnant I’m definitely not telling the father and just getting an abortion”. Because frankly, I’m gonna get an abortion regardless so I can at least not waste the time where they try to convince me otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Grab your glass of wine girls. AUDACITY of this scrotes broke my triggerometer.I hope (if this is real, which it isn’t) that she’s just waiting for him to croak so she can get all his money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 09:39 PM |
| 10 | Maybe one day they will get itI wasn’t aware that I had made the claim that all pickmes could be reformed? I also wasn’t aware that I had put all of a mans blame on women? But okay lol. I guess when people are being shitty we should just give them a pass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 07:38 PM |
| 6 | Maybe one day they will get itThe problem is that that 16 year old grow can grow up to be a pickme, particularly one of the very dangerous ones who help men do bad stuff to other women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:37 PM |
| 52 | Ladies, look out for each other! We are all queens, and we need to support each other as suchThe only part that I didn’t like in this post is that she told the ex everything. She should have ghosted him because now not only will he hide the behavior better from the next girl but he’ll tell her stories of how crazy his ex’s are and he might retaliate against the ex who has proof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 03:52 AM |
| 28 | What’s a pick me man called??Or philosophy because it makes them feel #deep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 03:45 AM |
| 7 | On the ground outside...It was on a twitter thread (at least that’s where I saw it) I’m on mobile so Idk how to link but I actually posted the twitter thread on here a while ago, you can find it in my posted history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:23 PM |
| 477 | On the ground outside...I once read about a girl who took her date to Mickey d’s (he insisted) he ordered a ton of food (she paid) and then he asked her to take him to his apartment real quick to get something, he went in and just... never came back out. I think about that story often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:23 AM |
| 12 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.I’m confused, did she know about the vasectomy? If so why did she stay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 04:45 PM |
| 54 | Just sayin'You’re being logical. Men like that don’t wanna use logic - unless it’s to make us seem too “emotional” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 13 | What is the worst suggestion for a date you have ever had?I think they’re asking because it would have been even worse if he kept your pay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:31 PM |
| 7 | Let them miss you (non-dating related)Yes definitely listen to yourself! For some reason your conscious is telling you this person isn’t good news. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:03 PM |
| 43 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.I like how instead of him asking her what he can do to improve her sexual experience he’s like “omg how can I trust her now?? My EgO!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:24 PM |
| 19 | She thinks not wanting a ring that was meant for someone else and was found on the GROUND makes her “materialistic” y’all I can’t anymore 💀He respond with a “okay love you “ she’s probably over the moon right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:39 PM |
| 14 | She thinks not wanting a ring that was meant for someone else and was found on the GROUND makes her “materialistic” y’all I can’t anymore 💀Yeah I don’t know why it’s so hard for some people to just take time to be single and work on themselves, because she desperately needs to work on her self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 07:49 PM |
| 50 | She thinks not wanting a ring that was meant for someone else and was found on the GROUND makes her “materialistic” y’all I can’t anymore 💀Exactly. She clearly has low expectations so there’s nothing for these guys to even pretend to wanna meet. They know she’ll say yes regardless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:47 PM |
| 99 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!Bold of you to assume he’d marry her. She’s got forever girlfriend vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 10:39 PM |
| 16 | Self Care DayHonestly you should change your number, this woman is incredibly obsessed with you and insecure, she’s not gonna leave you alone but that’s not your problem. I think you should also look into a restraining order (save all the texts and everything) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:44 AM |
| 121 | I’m dying....Dude really thinks a lesbian wants to have a threesome with him, lesbian tricks him into just letting her bang the girlfriend insteadHonestly Delilah seems as bad as OP. Hopefully the gf finds someone who genuinely cares about her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:33 AM |
| 28 | Lazy, low-effort "date" suggestions got me like...Move on to the next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:28 AM |
| 24 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.I think by “proposed” he means “asked out”. I think he’s from a country where English isn’t the primary language | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:06 PM |
| 42 | "I will kill us both"Good luck escaping with your dog OP. Hopefully you have family near you. Btw I would recommend either ghosting entirely or having people you trust when you tell him you’re leaving (and leave right after) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 43 | "how to talk to a woman who is wearing headphones" - don't“Hoping that if she’s polite enough you’ll leave her alone and stop harassing her “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:01 PM |
| 15 | Frustrated to no end with my pickmeisha friendThis is so true. When I stopped being a pickmes sounding board my life improved so much, toxic people will emotionally drain you and for what? So she can keep chasing shit men? Trying to help someone who doesn’t really want it is pointless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Frustrated to no end with my pickmeisha friendYou joke, but I’ve heard of men who don’t. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:14 AM |
| 92 | Why 50-50 men make undesirable partners: The hidden ugliness of the 'equality' mindsetIt’s a fact that a man who isn’t interested in you will ask to split the bill or pay for the whole thing. A man trying to impress you would be ashamed to ask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 10:42 PM |
| 24 | “I usually paid on the first dates because I was the one asking them out. That simple.” - another pickme in the commentsI haven’t always gone out with HVM but even the ones who turned out to be jerks paid for every date. Only a man who is straight no value will ask you to split it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 01:44 AM |
| 142 | "I don't want someone that doesn't want me"OP I’m not sure if you’re the one who downvoted u/socalqueenofcheese ‘s comment or if someone else did but she’s right. You got WAY to into this guy after only a few days of texting, one phone call, and one date. Even if he genuinely was looking for monogamy something tells me (by his response) that he sensed how attached you were getting right away and no one wants that after one date. Remember that FDS advises that you keep your options open and keep seeing other guys until things are official… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:54 AM |
| 11 | Pickme's gonna pickme. "Your feminism isnt inter sectional enough". Do these pickmeisha's even know what feminism truly means? Feminism incorporates the position that societies prioritize the male point of view, and that women are treated unjustly within those societies.For all her talk about supporting other women she’s never had a problem criticizing other women for the tiniest of things and saying they’re not “woke enough”. She’s pretentious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:52 AM |
| 24 | Daily reminder to NEVER SETTLE!Yeah like that’s creepy unless the poster gives some context that makes it okay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:06 AM |
| 57 | Please tell me this is not real - whyyy would anyone EVER take that man back?Yeah I read some where that they’re relationship has improved in quarantine because there’s no other women around and his friends aren’t there to be a “bad influence”. Lol he’s gonna cheat on her as soon as restrictions are lifted. Heck, I wouldn’t be surprised if he was secretly texting someone right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:27 PM |
| 16 | Pick me begging for male approval and validation with a post about why she thinks it’s wrong to call out men for being the trash they are, with a heavy heaping of male ass-kisseryI doubt she has a boyfriend tbh. This is next level attention seeking from men. She’s probably never been picked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:25 PM |
| 13 | Why is it so hard for men to show interest in you and hold a proper conversation?!You know you can just... leave right? I’m not trying to sound sassy because I know we’re taught to be polite and just wait out things like bad dates but walking away is 100% an option. Men have no problem walking away from a situation that doesn’t suit them and neither should we. In the middle of these dates you can make up an excuse or simply state “hey I’m not feeling this I gotta go” although obviously that might be dangerous. I suggest you simply say “hey I promised to meet a friend at (a ce… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:14 PM |
| 21 | Just no!Imagine confessing to the world that you can’t feed yourself. Embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:57 PM |
| 42 | How do you deal with threatened Pickmeshas who see you as hostile competition when you're with a man or men she likes?On top of this pickmes can be dangerous as hell. There are pickmes who will kill or turn a blind eye to terrible crimes just to get even the slightest praise from a man. Pickmes and LVM attract each other more often then not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 74 | Being creeped out is perfectly validDid your dad try to excuse him after that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 63 | Being creeped out is perfectly valid*and kill black people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:31 PM |
| 30 | Married pick me mom friend said the part above the original post...no wonder she’s settling for her LVM husband🤢Agreed. I personally do like cleaning but I get angry if things start getting cluttered. This would cause me to have a meltdown so I doubt she would actually “love” having to be around that mess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:43 AM |
| 72 | A good reminder to NEVER trust a male to be responsible with birth control 🤮This. I don’t want children and neither does my boyfriend but honestly I don’t think I’d tell him if I got pregnant. I wouldn’t want to risk him getting all emotional over it. I’d just get an abortion and move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:36 AM |
| 207 | It’S biOloGiCaL male strikes againWith men like this is just like to clap back with “and it’s biological for women to seek out the best provider so get the fuck away from me if you’re not rich” Oddly enough they don’t seem to understand the biology then 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Block, delete, on repeat.He only sent one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:38 AM |
| 6 | Imagine bragging about this sh*tI think this is more about emotionally tricking someone (like making a girl fall in love but all he wanted to do was get in her pants) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:35 PM |
| 3 | Imagine bragging about this sh*tNVM have no sense of shame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:33 PM |
| 78 | (Ex) boyfriend called me while cheating last nightPersonally I think you should block him. If he feels so passionately about threatening you he’ll find a way. Although make sure to let people know what happened and to keep an eye out for you. That way if he tries anything there will be people who can back you up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 05:40 AM |
| 8 | I'm super closedminded bc I hate paedos, guys 😔 I should just get over my rape and stop using it as an excuse to be bigoted towards this oppressed minorityCould very well be both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:39 AM |
| 10 | Help, is he flirting/cheating/crossing the lineHonestly I think just the fact that you’re feeling insecure here should tell you all you need to know. Do you want to be in a relationship with someone who you’re always feeling insecure and jealous over? On top of that it sounds like he would not hesitate trying to get with her if he were single (heck, even if he is in a relationship he might try it) you don’t need that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:34 AM |
| 39 | I had stumbled on this profile a year ago and sent this to my friends, I found it today while looking back on the group chat - I figured you ladies would love the horror. PS he was as bad looking as could be- proving that men have too much confidenceGlad to see that since the scrotes can’t comment they’re downvoting instead lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 38 | I had stumbled on this profile a year ago and sent this to my friends, I found it today while looking back on the group chat - I figured you ladies would love the horror. PS he was as bad looking as could be- proving that men have too much confidenceSome men think that having a penis makes them god despite how mediocre they may be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:00 AM |
| 43 | I had stumbled on this profile a year ago and sent this to my friends, I found it today while looking back on the group chat - I figured you ladies would love the horror. PS he was as bad looking as could be- proving that men have too much confidenceHis penis is the all mighty! A girl should be honored to essentially be his sex doll!! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 30 | I had stumbled on this profile a year ago and sent this to my friends, I found it today while looking back on the group chat - I figured you ladies would love the horror. PS he was as bad looking as could be- proving that men have too much confidenceSadly this was on a college campus so he’s an adult. I’m kind of hoping someone who hates him made this profile but at the same time I wouldn’t be surprise if he legit made it himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 5 | This is just sadI think he just wanted the benefits that come if you have dependents | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:05 PM |
| 181 | This is just sadBut that person doesn’t know her situation!! That lady was 100% a forever gf who got “lucky” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 05:03 PM |
| 123 | This is some big Pick Me energy...Why would you advertise this on social media? It’s just embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:23 PM |
| 14 | The Girl From Avril Lavigne’s “Sk8er Boi” Responds 18 Years LaterThe article is fake. It’s under “short imagined monologues” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 03:39 PM |
| 25 | Third marriage, blames everything on ex wives, willing to leave kids. One big red flag.They interviewed the first wife and she clarified that their marriage actually ended because he met the second wife and got her pregnant. She then said he dropped the second wife when he met this chick... and she’s pregnant so. Yeah, definitely a pattern with this cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 03:57 PM |
| 31 | KHLOE THE CLOWNNot to mention he was also physically abusing Pamela Anderson. That poor girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 10:33 PM |
| 17 | Self respect must always come first, never stand to be treated like this!Seriously, why does he have the same look on his face as the fish?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 194 | How are LVM always this delusional? 😂This is what happens when ugly guys get a chance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 50 | Men like to complain about women misrepresenting themselves on OLD. Check out this massive level of facetuning 😂He’s got crazy eyes!! Also why does he look like he wants to sell me Herbalife or any other mlm?? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:39 AM |
| 47 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?I’m gonna tell myself this is fake because believing it makes me sad and grossed me out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Should I tell her?If she’s already caught him and decided to pretend it wasn’t what it was I don’t think you should tell her. It’s a little wrong but I think it’s best if you’re able to remain in her life until she either sees the truth for herself or he leaves her. Although I advise you to distance yourself from her a bit for your own mental health, pickmes have a way of dragging everyone around them down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 7 | Should I tell her?That’s why you should take that into consideration if you plan on telling her. Keep in mind I said it would be the moral thing to do - I didn’t say it’s what you SHOULD do. Is there anyway you can help her catch him? That way she finds out but she doesn’t hear it from you. Also has she caught him cheating before? You mentioned he’s publicly humiliated her before. If she’s caught him before I honestly wouldn’t say anything. I know that’s wrong on my part but after a certain point she’s just letti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 39 | How much, if at all, does a guy's past sex life matter to you? What behaviors or details would be unacceptable to you? Is dating guys that have not dated before the safer option? What do you do if you can't get over one event from an otherwise perfect man's past (before you were together)?Personally I just hold men to the same standards they hold me. I’m not gonna judge a man if he’s had casual sex in the past - because so have I. But if he judges women based on their history I don’t want him. I do agree with other on this thread that if he’s paid for sex it’s a deal breaker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 05:54 PM |
| 23 | Should I tell her?I think morally you should tell her, but don’t expect her to leave him. Honestly there’s a chance she’ll drop you instead. I think you should take that into consideration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 05:49 PM |
| 69 | Typical pickmeisha profiles be likeThis whole thing is so try hard. Why does this seem like a man who hates her wrote it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 09:02 PM |
| 19 | Relationship advice succesfully pressured this woman into doing a sex act she hates with her entitled, predatory boyfriend. There are no words to describe how sad, sick and disgusted this makes me.I like how he waited until AFTER she let him do that to her to tell her he could no longer see her in a positive light. What a piece of shit that guy is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Kinkmesha claims she’s “nOt LikE oTheR GiRlz” and enjoys acting like a pornstar. Friends tell her this is strange. Kinkmesha comes on the internet for validation from porn addicted internet strangers. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️I’m not judging too harshly because she’s clearly young and inexperienced. But yeah, the whole post was very much “look at me I’m so cool! Do I get male validation now???” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:58 AM |
| 16 | Do not let men with bad intentions play devil's advocate with you. Most of the time, they're hiding behind a facade of being "rational" to cover for their sexist, ill-informed opinions. Call them out everytime!To me there’s topics where there’s just no argument for the “other side”. Certain things just aren’t debatable, for example: the holocaust was bad PERIOD. There’s no argument, the other side is wrong. It’s the same thing for the BLM movement. Black people shouldn’t have to live with the possibility of getting shot by a cop for no good reason. That’s it, anyone who debates that is an ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 39 | Why do men's pants have such big pockets? To hold the audacity...It sounds like the type of flirty-teasing you see in movies about teenagers where the person who wrote the script doesn’t know how teenagers actually talk to each other. “Omg Dillan you’re such a brat!! 🤪😜😝” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:28 PM |
| 23 | I say, "It's mine bitch, it's just your turn. see yourself out."That’s gotta be the biggest mood killer in the world “who’s your daddy” like sir, don’t you dare bring my father into this conversation wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:26 PM |
| 6 | When I first saw the comment I thought it was a joke.... then the picture. #CancelMen2020Nah if you did that he’d try to set up a three-way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:11 PM |
| 12 | What the actual fuckHonestly I was thinking insecure woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 01:03 AM |
| 57 | You’re not going to get that ring sis, runI always find it weird when people have no problem going into the life long commitment of having kids with someone but refuse to marry that person. Like, why would you want kids with someone you don’t love enough to marry? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:21 AM |
| 4 | How to tell you're being fetishized for your race?Personally I think people are allowed to have a type and that tends to include race/ethnicity. So a pattern of consistently dating a certain type of person isn’t a big deal to me but I do understand why people are saying to watch out if all his ex’s look like you. It’s like, it’s one thing to be attracted to people of (insert ethnicity here) but it’s another thing to ONLY date people of that ethnicity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:38 AM |
| 3 | How to tell you're being fetishized for your race?I’m totally making an assumption here and I could 100% be wrong; but are you Asian? The things you’re describing are really prominent with guys who get really into anime and begin to fetishize Asian women because they think they’re more submissive. If so I say straight up avoid men who are into anime, obviously not every man who watches anime sees Asian women that way but the majority of them do. I’m of a different ethnicity that tends to get fetishized a lot and I’ve learned to avoid a certain … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:32 AM |
| 67 | When ever a guy age 30+ says “Ive never been in love” it is a huge red flag (for me). Usually he has commitment issues or has created a fantasy relationship in his mind that reality will never match up to. NEXTAnd yet if a women says her love language is gifts she’s a gold digger! Scrotes are gonna scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:47 AM |
| 26 | LOL Andrew is already being a total stick in the mud about commitment and Tommy is taking me out immediately at a set time and placeAnd it’s even better if she’s a virgin so she never learns what good sex is and he can make her do porn stuff! Also she can’t go to college or have any friends, she has to be 100% reliant on him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:02 PM |
| 41 | LOL Andrew is already being a total stick in the mud about commitment and Tommy is taking me out immediately at a set time and placeOf course not! She has to be between 18 and 28, he wants kids of course (that she’ll raise pretty much on her own) and it’s not like women over 30 can have children!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 01:58 PM |
| 63 | LOL Andrew is already being a total stick in the mud about commitment and Tommy is taking me out immediately at a set time and placeAndrew sounds like the kind of guy that peaked in high school and won’t be ready to settle down until he’s in his late forties and waaaay past his prime lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Forever GF abandons her children for 2 years to be with the bf that burned down their house/killed their dog and is surprised son doesn’t like him. Says she’s dumping him after getting backlash but refers to him as the “love of her life” in comments.Dang, I just realized I could have put this under the “Forever GF tales” tag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 01:39 AM |
| 28 | We deserve more. In other news, the world is roundYeah a lot of guys get labeled as HV just for being decent human beings. Like it’s always nice when someone is a decent person but that’s the minimum for everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 02:01 AM |
| 52 | When "doing the dishes, talking a walk, trimming his beard" are considered romantic 🤢I think it’s worse that she’s only 2 months into the marriage. I’ve never been married but I’m pretty sure that’s supposed to be a honeymoon phase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 01:48 PM |
| 3 | How do you exude femininity?Fun fact, if you’re a woman (and I’m assuming you are since men aren’t allowed to post in this sub) you’re already feminine and exude it by merely existing! Watching videos and reading books isn’t really gonna help because you’ll just be trying to imitate something you’re not. Be yourself, it seems like what you really need is to learn to be comfortable within yourself. Get to know yourself and I guarantee that once your happy with your self and aren’t trying to be someone you’re not people will… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 03:37 AM |
| 59 | iM a pROuD PICKME!Well tell her to come to this subreddit and we’ll make fun of her too! That way it won’t just be men laughing in her face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 17 | You breakup with him girl! He has no respect for youThis is slightly irrelevant from the overall post but I have found that any man who refers to sex workers in any degrading term is a POS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/Keep in mind I’m not saying you shouldn’t be polite- just don’t try to make people like you. I wanted to clarify that since I just realized I didn’t put it in my comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:44 AM |
| 12 | What's up with men afraid of cockroaches and bugs?Yeah, I think the thing that creeps me out about them is how tiny they are (although seeing a giant bug wouldn’t be better), I can just imagine them crawling around everywhere like in my nose and ears. I’m not gonna judge someone for being scared of the same thing I’m scared of lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 11:02 PM |
| 9 | How levelling up has affected me socially :/You said towards the end that you try really hard to be liked by the women around you and you’re wondering if you should stop. Yes, you should stop. I’m not gonna speak on the character of the women around you - maybe (as many have already pointed out) they’re jealous of you, or maybe their personalities just don’t mesh with yours. People can sense when someone is trying too hard and it puts them off from that person. I think you should just be yourself and let them say what they will. Look for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 10:14 PM |
| 10 | Scrote stumbles across posts his SO made about him on FDS. Scrotey outrage ensues!Yeah, if someone kept posting complaints about her boyfriend she’d eventually get shamed for not leaving him. This isn’t a “Rant about your shitty boyfriend but never fix the problem” sub. You either level up or get roasted for being a pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 07:11 PM |
| 42 | Nominee for Pickmeisha MVPHe was like “ yeah, yeah, whatever you want. Now get off the stage so this chick can put her tits near my face!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:19 AM |
| 76 | Nominee for Pickmeisha MVPThat’s like, beyond trashy. Also imagine everyone at the strip club - the workers trying to do their job, the men who are trying to see some strippers - and then this random chick proposes to a man who could be her grandfather. Lol wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:13 AM |
| 256 | The downvotes I get for saying that grabbing you gf's ass and saying you'd like to fuck her isn't foreplay. Guess what? Apparently sex doesn't require foreplay every time! I'll know in ten years when I've had more sex. Honey, I've had more than 10 years of bad sex, that's why I'm saying this 🤣So that guy has never given a woman an orgasm for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | That’s a no....That took a couple of reads before I figured out wtf he was saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 03:36 AM |
| 13 | Roommate is dating the lowest of low value men, any advice on how to get her to realize?I definitely think it’s better to just separate yourself from her like the other comments are saying because people like that will just drag you down (women with that low self esteem can rarely be helped, they have to see the light themselves and they’ll emotionally drown anyone who tries to help). However, do you know what your other roommates think? Do you think they’d back you up and tell her that you’re not comfortable with the way he treats her and while you guys respect her right to be in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else get turned off when men want you to beg for something?Do you know what he meant by “the long game”? Because that’s such a weird thing to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 06:45 AM |
| 1 | The AUDACITY!! Anyone else from that sub remember this post? It haunts me, like WTFThat’s very interesting, thank you for answering | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | The AUDACITY!! Anyone else from that sub remember this post? It haunts me, like WTFI have to ask, do you remember how you justified that to yourself ? Like how did you look at that situation and justify staying? (Unless you broke up with him for it) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:08 PM |
| 42 | If he wants to marry you... HE’LL ASK!Why don’t they realize that if a man wants to marry you he’ll be eagerly planning the proposal? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:25 AM |
| 47 | The AUDACITY!! Anyone else from that sub remember this post? It haunts me, like WTFOh please, there’s no way that guy even pretends to care if she orgasms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:16 PM |
| 111 | The AUDACITY!! Anyone else from that sub remember this post? It haunts me, like WTFTrue. He stole her food and all she asked for in return was a sandwich- that girl was already used to his greed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 10:05 PM |
| 108 | The AUDACITY!! Anyone else from that sub remember this post? It haunts me, like WTFIn fairness to that particular subreddit he was torn to pieces. It was a unanimous YTA ruling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 09:55 PM |
| 77 | The AUDACITY!! Anyone else from that sub remember this post? It haunts me, like WTFAnd all she asked for pay back was a SANDWICH and the POS didn’t even wanna get her one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 09:50 PM |
| 43 | The AUDACITY!! Anyone else from that sub remember this post? It haunts me, like WTFI feel like he must have been a troll but there are people that selfish and terrible so 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 09:48 PM |
| 5 | My mom always gets so upset when I tell her, I won’t marry a Muslim dude even if my life depends on it. I’m sorry if I offend anyone, but as someone who spent years studying the religion, the whole thing is super misogynistic when it come to women.Nah it’s probably some shit justification like “her love for her husband and children takes up all the spots!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:45 PM |
| 11 | As a white guy you should be thankful I give you attention...Seriously, I don’t endorse even responding to these men but she put him in his place so beautifully! Everything she said was savage asf and all he had to clap back with was one weak word. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:43 PM |
| 324 | As a white guy you should be thankful I give you attention...“Bark, bark, now move” Iconic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 06:43 AM |
| 9 | Hahahahhaha he genuinely thinks this is trueThe majority of men like this don’t even end up being successful- they end up on their parents couch smoking weed and trying to chase any young and naive girl that they can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:20 PM |
| 83 | Talk about completely missing the point.I’ve heard of cultures where at a women’s bachelorette party female members from her family (and her soon to be husband’s family) give her jewelry so she can pawn it in case she ever has to leave him . That’s what this post made me think of, for generations women have been so oppressed by men that we had to come up with unsaid escape plans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:26 AM |
| 68 | What dating an LVM/NVM causes. Yes this is the same woman.I’ve seen her in the botched subreddit. Her before is beauty goals for so many women, this is so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:07 AM |
| 15 | Another example about how men could murder someone, but a woman stealing a piece of gum is just as bad (AITA post)Well the good thing is that the judgments have changed to NTA and all the YTA have been downvoted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:12 PM |
| 13 | PSA: Stop trying to date during the pandemic. Nothing cute will come of it.I like how in the article it says “if they get married some day...” lol no. They’re not getting married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 08:39 PM |
| 20 | Why is feminist media so invested in pressuring women into "maintenance sex"? Why, in the era of #MeToo, are we still being told to ignore our internal warning systems and engage in sex we don't want for the sole benefit of men? How about we pressure men into being more fuckable so it's not a chore?I knew there was an actual word for it but couldn’t remember it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 07:19 PM |
| 24 | You are a woman, sureIn fairness to you the writing did come off as some man role playing. It was essentially “as a fellow female I think men are right and women - I mean us, are wrong!” I thought it was man as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 07:18 PM |
| 50 | Why is feminist media so invested in pressuring women into "maintenance sex"? Why, in the era of #MeToo, are we still being told to ignore our internal warning systems and engage in sex we don't want for the sole benefit of men? How about we pressure men into being more fuckable so it's not a chore?I’m glad you said it because the first thought that popped into my mind was “Rape. That’s rape.” But I also don’t want to minimize rape since there is technically consent (sort of) in what the article is suggesting. But yeah, it’s rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 06:56 PM |
| 6 | “Sure I pay the majority of the bills but like, he gets me nice gifts during the holidays!” Wtf else is he doing with all the money he’s saving???You literally just answered your own question on why this is here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 6 | “Sure I pay the majority of the bills but like, he gets me nice gifts during the holidays!” Wtf else is he doing with all the money he’s saving???He doesn’t have to pay 50/50 but he should be helping out with his fair share. I honestly wouldn’t have liked this if the roles were reversed either - in this post I talked about a comment where she said she trusts him 100% and refuses to get a prenup, I’d call out a man for that as well. He’s saving a lot of money by letting her pay and I doubt all that money is going into gifts. She’s wasting her money and inheritance on him while he’s probably only using a paycheck or two on her. No job pays … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:51 PM |
| 9 | “Sure I pay the majority of the bills but like, he gets me nice gifts during the holidays!” Wtf else is he doing with all the money he’s saving???But- but... he gets her nice things for her birthday and Christmas !!!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 02:26 PM |
| 6 | WTF is up with all those passive aggressive profiles? (#4 is not exactly passive aggressive. But he’s very clown-like)Yet they all seem desperate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:05 AM |
| 6 | WTF is up with all those passive aggressive profiles? (#4 is not exactly passive aggressive. But he’s very clown-like)1 wasn’t remarkable either way. 2 was odd. 3 was the most annoying. And 4 was... idk even know, just desperate for human contact I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:05 AM |
| 115 | “Sure I pay the majority of the bills but like, he gets me nice gifts during the holidays!” Wtf else is he doing with all the money he’s saving???Someone pointed out that her parents are just worried and she should get prenup just in case. She was basically like “oh no I trust him 100% and prenups are insulting!!”. I straight up told her she’s naive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 12:20 AM |
| 5 | I saw on purplepilldebate "do men hit the wall?" and of course, many claim women were the only ones who did. Do men know that they aren't immune to ageing ?I’m not from George Clooney’s generation and I actually don’t know what he looked like in his 20s (I’ll google it) but I do think he’s attractive, like I don’t wanna hook up with him or date him but I recognize that he’s conventionally attractive. George Clooney is classically handsome and I think that’s why his name comes up when we’re listening off attractive men. He’s the exception for his age tho, not the rule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 09:08 PM |
| 47 | HVM remodeling his sister’s room. Proof men are capable of doing great things for women in their life.This is so heartwarming. He put in so much effort and didn’t half ass anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 54 | .....Pickmeishas evolvingIn looks maybe, but a girl that insecure doesn’t have a league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:19 PM |
| 47 | Excuse me, what in the actual fuck?Yeah but like, why help the victim when you can just arrest them and put a bandaid over the situation? Going after the pimp requires more effort and you don’t even get to fuck em first! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:13 PM |
| 30 | Men with kids...The tricky thing about this is that you also don’t want to be with a man who just... left his previous kids and isn’t their life’s. That’s essentially setting yourself and any kids you have with him to be left behind as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:04 PM |
| 15 | Whilst this may be true in many cases, people will always find a way to blame women for men’s actionsI'm not the person you replied to, but the term "mommy's boy" isn't referring to a man who has a healthy relationship with his mother. A mamas boy doesn't have boundaries with his mother. She coddles him and raises him to be a man child/emotional partner. It's really gross how a mamas boy is basically a baby and a surrogate husband for his mother. The mother is usually a narcissist and makes relationships with these men hell, she'll always hate any women he dates and he'll always choose her over… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 02:42 AM |
| 31 | Doing this is CANCELED! #KickHimOut2020It's so sad that so many of us can look back and relate to this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 03:42 AM |
| 139 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣I like Chad, he always gives you a high five and a beer at frat parties and then you watch him and his buddies fail at beer pong but it’s fun because they’re having fun and joking around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:42 PM |
| 16 | Am i the only one weirded out by grimes and Elon musks dating thing?This is exactly what I wanted to say. They’re both fake woke and seem so pretentious to me. Their relationship actually makes sense since they’re very alike, although I don’t think it’ll last. Two people like that will always crash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:14 PM |
| 13 | Quality LVM- good news, he’s single now ladies!She actually says he’s very familiar with her clit so like... idk if he doesn’t realize that that’s the clit or if a whole opens up when we pee? It’s hard to think like an idiot lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:06 AM |
| 44 | Obviously it’s his wife fault he can’t open up. I’m betting she wasn’t even condescending, watch out for overly emotional men who will make everything someone else’s fault. This was on a post about a man who thinks women pee out of the cl*t so his gf laughed at him.Seriously this whole thing comes off as whiny. If his wife did mock him it’s probably because he’s always painting himself as a martyr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 01:50 AM |
| 34 | Woman wants to know if she's the asshole for putting puppy pads around the toilet because the 30 YR OLD GROWN ASS MAN she calls a boyfriend keeps pissing all over the floor. I FUCKING CANNOT, Y'ALL.Nah, dogs can be trained, this idiot can’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:00 PM |
| 34 | The comments were like “he did what she asked, what’s the problem?” 🙄🙄🙄I have higher expectations of my ten year old brother tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:28 PM |
| 15 | Husband plans Emma-themed quarantine birthday for his Jane Austen-loving wifeThis is incredibly sweet of him! It’s especially nice that since he doesn’t know much about the topic he went and asked people who would know, too many men let their pride get in the way when it comes to asking for help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:15 AM |
| 9 | Bradenton woman arrested for not reporting her daughter was being raped, police sayHe is being held accountable. No one is holding her accountable for his actions, she’s being held accountable for HER actions (or lack of action). I don’t know how to explain to you that she’s as terrible as he is for allowing the abuse to continue. No one is blaming her for what he did, we’re judging her for not doing anything despite the fact that she knew what he was doing. She could have informed the doctors when she took her daughter to get checked. I’m sorry but this isn’t a case of misogy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:52 AM |
| 17 | Bradenton woman arrested for not reporting her daughter was being raped, police sayI think the reason why the rapist isn’t brought into the spotlight is because this particular article is about the mother and how horrifying her actions in this are. Paint it however you want, make whatever excuse you want for her but at the end of the day this women allowed for her child to be raped. That’s all there is to it. She knew what was happening and she allowed it to happen. Children are born with only two people in the world who they can trust and this girl in particular only had her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 01:28 AM |
| 37 | I don’t typically go on tinder because of profiles like this. There’s something about this type of profile/person that genuinely scares me.AND Marlon Brando! I guess you could argue that the Beatles looked somewhat alike because of the haircut? (It’s a flimsy excuse but it’s there) but Marlon Brando looked NOTHING like them, so which is it? This guys delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 01:17 AM |
| 2 | What’s the difference between a LVM and a NVM?Thank you! This is the type of explanation I was looking for, well said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 01:11 AM |
| 9 | What’s the difference between a LVM and a NVM?It’s “Negative value” although it can also be used as “No value” but that’s basically what ZV is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:05 AM |
| 41 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?Guys who just have “if you wanna know anything about me just ask” are so fucking boring and have no personality. He’s gonna make you do all the work. Just putting that in as one of the ones I see as a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:39 PM |
| 62 | I took action !!!You’re way more mature then me, I would have dropped him from the Netflix and sold the PS4 controller lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 01:40 AM |
| 179 | I would change this to say “how to vet a guy to see if he really likes you” versus “how to get any guy to like you” (convincing someone to like you is PickMe behavior) but the overall message otherwise is in line with FDSI think the title she put on it is actually a good one because it attracts pickmes. Pickmes are the ones who need to hear this advice the most | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:38 PM |
| 4 | Imagine dating a guy this useless?? YIKESWho is raising these incompetent men?? And who in their right mind is dating them???? By this point the people who are coddling him and letting him get away with this are worse. He’s a grown man, if he can’t do this stuff on his own he’s useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:06 PM |
| 64 | UPDATE: Should I warn a woman that’s about to marry my LV ex that he’s been flirting and saying inappropriate things to me?You know what they say, “You can lead a horse to water..., but you can’t make it drink” At least your conscious can be cleared, she knows what she’s gotten herself into so whatever happens now is on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:32 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about momma's boys?I think there’s a difference between a man who has a healthy relationship with his mother and an actual mamas boy. A mamas boy doesn’t have boundaries with his mom and there’s a very co-dependent relationship there where the mother basically makes him her husband. It’s really disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | This thread on Twitter where women recount the brokest things men have done to them. If a guy tries anything like this walk away and ghost him!I gotta ask. What was his explanation for gifting you a stolen fork? Did you tell your coworkers about? I assume they asked you what the special gift was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 10:08 PM |
| 8 | How to gently let a man down who you are not physically attracted to?Give him a gift as a thanks . Make sure he knows it’s a thank you gift | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 09:24 PM |
| 13 | Dude thinks being sex trafficked into porn is a privilege females have, is mad that men don’t get the same “opportunity”Eh I wouldn’t blame liberal feminist on this one. That guy seems like an incel. Incels don’t care about women at all, that’s why he said he doesn’t care about the women being trafficked. All incels care about is sex so to him anyone getting laid - if it’s consensual or not- is lucky. The bitterness is intertwined with the fact that he can’t get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:38 PM |
| 14 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?Honestly I think it’s all just an infatuation. At least with the guy I wrote about it was. Like he was infatuated with me at one point as well as his ex, but as soon as we returned the feeling he was over it. The girl he was(possibly still is idk) in love with rejected him right away; before I even came into the picture. I think you’re right with the whole “trying to be deep thing” and I also think it’s their ego, since the girl rejected them she becomes “the one who got away”. But it’s not real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:56 AM |
| 38 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?Ooof okay, I’m cringing just thinking about it but here it goes: I spent every second of everyday waiting for his texts thinking we were building a relationship, two months into us “talking” he got a gf which he neglected to tell me about, I found out on the third month. I actually did cut him off and block him when I found out, but sadly I was weak willed and came crawling back within days. This man strung me along for like TWO YEARS. I saw him roughly 5 times in those two years, we live in the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 04:41 AM |
| 4 | If a male I'm getting to know does or says something unacceptable or hurtful that shows him to be low value how do I stop the urge to waste my time and energy going off on him or trying to get themto understand when I need to just block him and keep it moving?This is what I do whenever if feel the urge to respond to anyone who is pissing me off but know that i shouldn’t. Take a deep breath and ask yourself “is this person worth it?” Is responding worth the stress? Is it really worth it to respond just to have them say something dumber? No. They’re not worth the headache, they’re not worth the time it takes to shell out a response and they’re not worth the energy it takes for you to properly come up with a response. These people will not be affected b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 08:44 PM |
| 28 | Nah, sis .....that 52 year old man you are talking to on OLD is a DEAD ENDI actually like what a lot of commenters are saying . They’re telling her that it’s not worth it and how a relationship with that age gap isn’t gonna really work. Like people are being honest with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 08:12 PM |
| 6 | What do you think about guys that say that women are more beautiful without makeup and that they prefer "natural" women?I think it’s straight up pretentious and shows how self absorbed they are. Because honestly, who the fuck cares what they think? The men who say this just wanna seem woke and they think that they’re opinion matters and that women around them will be so relieved to hear it because OBVIOUSLY women only wear makeup to impress men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 04:13 PM |
| 39 | An ex contacted me out of the blue today... I’m almost insulted that he thinks I’m this stupid.This isn’t even clever “so I was going through old text” “don’t even know who this is” is he so stupid he can’t even remember one conversation he had with a specific person? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 11:57 AM |
| 14 | This thread on Twitter where women recount the brokest things men have done to them. If a guy tries anything like this walk away and ghost him!He pulled such a shitty move. The gall of that guy would have pissed me off beyond words, I’m glad you’re not willing to put up with that anymore though. I’m sure most of us have had embarrassing moments while dating shitty men, it’s pretty unavoidable when you’re in bad company | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:37 AM |
| 31 | This thread on Twitter where women recount the brokest things men have done to them. If a guy tries anything like this walk away and ghost him!Lol so he just expected you to show up with the whole picnic? Like the dude invited you out and expected you to do all the work and then thought his zero effort would get him laid? Ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:16 AM |
| 13 | This thread on Twitter where women recount the brokest things men have done to them. If a guy tries anything like this walk away and ghost him!LVM hate men who are even decent towards women because they don’t want us to have any expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:14 AM |
| 9 | This thread on Twitter where women recount the brokest things men have done to them. If a guy tries anything like this walk away and ghost him!You’re an icon lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:12 AM |
| 22 | This thread on Twitter where women recount the brokest things men have done to them. If a guy tries anything like this walk away and ghost him!Wait he hopped the fence? (Btw I’m so envious right now I’ve always wanted to go to Versailles) did they catch him? I’m a little confused by your wording. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 09:50 PM |
| 36 | This thread on Twitter where women recount the brokest things men have done to them. If a guy tries anything like this walk away and ghost him!There’s a variation of men who ordered a ton of food for themselves and then made the women pay for it. I would of walked out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Women who don’t want to marry or have not married: what place do men have in your life sexually and romantically?That sounds so nice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:10 PM |
| 8 | Not to spill your secrets to menI’m not sure, I was never in that position, but honestly, no. I don’t think I’d ever tell him. I’d just be vague. Like “I’ve had (insert real number) boyfriends before” and let him come to his own conclusions. But that’s more because I don’t consider my sexual past anyone’s business besides my own. It has never occurred to me to ask a man how many women he’s slept with so it’s a turn down when one asks me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:07 PM |
| 17 | Women who don’t want to marry or have not married: what place do men have in your life sexually and romantically?I have to ask the big question, what type of design do you have in mind for a neck tattoo? Or are you still trying to find the perfect one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:26 AM |
| 18 | 90 Day Fiancé: Tom and DarcyIt was interesting to watch him call out her pick-me ways though. Like he pulled out her chair or something and she started crying and going on about how amazing that was and how much she appreciated it and he was like “I pulled out your chair it’s not a big deal”. The dude definitely sucks but I did get a chuckle out of him calling out her low expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:23 AM |
| 191 | LVM are always lyingI once saw a vine where the girl tells a guy “You men are always lying, what color is the sky?” And he says “blue!” And she goes to look out the window and the sky is purple. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:10 AM |
| 33 | “LoVe YoUr HaIr If ItS yOuRs” me and my hair will be ignoring you. Half the shit black women deal with. They try to tear us down by any mean necessary yet men still fall at my feet and that won’t stop.But he put in so much effort in his introduction! Don’t be greedy and demand more from him! Just sleep with him already! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:55 AM |
| 88 | Not to spill your secrets to menHell I don’t think you should even give a man your sexual history. Even if you’re a virgin when you meet him they’ll find a way to use that against you. A low value man will think he “owns” you if you sleep with him, especially if he’s your first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:45 AM |
| 12 | Oh! Oh! Pick me! Pick me! Please pick me! 🙋♀️👋 Honestly, this girl needs an intervention.The crazy thing is that people joking around on the internet is what triggered her. She wasn’t having a discussion with a friend or anything like that. No, it was some funny tweets and videos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 11:45 PM |
| 19 | Oh! Oh! Pick me! Pick me! Please pick me! 🙋♀️👋 Honestly, this girl needs an intervention.She really tried to paint herself as some sort of martyr. “Oh I know all these OTHER women HATE men, but I don’t, I will defend men to my dying breath!!!” LVM and NVM are gone take her for a fucking ride when she goes to college. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 11:42 PM |
| 92 | Probably thinks he's a champ for providing for his pregnant gf and sonThat is some low human trash shit right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 10:12 PM |
| 19 | Stop giving them a chance or letting them think they have oneI think this is important. Just because someone who isn’t your type tries to ask you out it doesn’t mean you should laugh in their face and list all the reasons you’re too good for them. It is hard to ask someone out and unless they’re rude and insistent after you’ve already said a polite “I’m not interested” they don’t deserve to be degraded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious.It seems to me like the the prenup she had him sign was pretty cut and dry. As in “you don’t get any of my money and I don’t get any of yours if we divorce”. After all not only did she demand the prenup she had her lawyers look at it 3 times and even record him signing it. To me it seems like she made sure to make it so there were no loop holes for him. Which is fine, I get wanting to protect herself. but now he has money too, and the prenup that protects her from him taking her money also prote… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious.Yeah but that’s my point, the OP from this post is the one seeing it that way but it’s not what the guy from the actual story sees it. The better question is to ask why this OP thinks the guy is seeing his fiancé as a good digger, I’m sorry if that’s what you were trying to ask but it seemed like you were agreeing with the OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 04:14 PM |
| 16 | Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious.The guy in the post isn’t calling her a gold digger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 03:56 PM |
| 72 | Guy sees fiancé as potential gold digger after he came to inherit new money. I am being downvoted for stating the obvious.OP, he’s not calling her a gold digger. The difference is that he agreed to the prenup that she wanted when she was the one with money, but now that he has money she wants to get rid of the prenup. I’m sorry but just because she’s a women doesn’t mean she’s in the right here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 03:26 PM |
| 60 | A dude not meeting your standards doesn't always warrant a clap backI saw a post on another subreddit where a guy on tinder was going off on the girl who just kept replying to him. Yes, the guy was very much an incel and pathetic but in my opinion it was low of her to keep replying to him. People were making fun of him (rightfully so) and praising her for her responses. But really she just waisted her own time responding to him and that was obviously what he wanted. Don’t fuel these men, don’t make them think their worth your time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:06 PM |
| 12 | Some weird man pretended to be a witch who cast a spell on me just to get my snapchat. Yep.Someone who can’t get laid lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 03:54 AM |
| 5 | GF gets tattoo despite her bf "forbidding" it, all NTA votes downvoted heavilyWait did he break up with her? I saw this post a few hours ago and there wasn’t anything there about him dumping her. She said it’s been a few months since it happened and he just doesn’t touch her feet or like to see them anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Apparently sex is supposed to be painful for the person being penetratedI’m in a good relationship now that kind of just happened (as in I didn’t chase him or anything) and honestly if I could go back in time I’d avoid the majority of men I encountered. It’s better to just focus on your self, if a relationship happens then great! If not, well there’s worse things then being single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Apparently sex is supposed to be painful for the person being penetratedYup. The person I replied to said something like “rough sex is supposed to hurt and so is vanilla sex, the only type I could imagine not hurting is oral” and it’s like seriously? None of those is supposed to traumatizes your body! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 04:09 PM |
| 10 | Apparently sex is supposed to be painful for the person being penetratedMen never fail to terrify me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 12:36 PM |
| 69 | KinkMeisha fights with Gynecologist who tells her to stop having Anal Sex before she irreparably hurts herself.Yup. I actually did a rant based off the comment section of that post. Too many people were like “all types of sex is painful! That’s how it’s supposed to be!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 02:16 AM |
| 6 | Why do men always keep ghosting me without a answer?Could you possibly provide a screenshot of a conversation you had and then got ghosted after? Because while people on this post are bringing up very valid reasons for the ghosting (they can sense you’re not gonna sleep with them right away, they’re just doing online dating for the ego boost) it is weird that they all ghost you and go out of their way to delete you from social media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 86 | The scrodacity of this guy!Imagine if a women made a post like this but it was basing men off the money they make. “Women of Reddit who have settled for a man who brings in an average income. What is it like? Do you ever wish you could have married someone whose rich?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 01:35 AM |
| 4 | LVM disguised as HVMYes. None of us are trying to shame you for what happened and there’s no point in feeling bad for what happened. Take this as a learning opportunity. Good luck on your FDS journey! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 11:48 PM |
| 12 | LVM disguised as HVMHey OP I just want to add on to this advise and give you a bit more details. People usually take around 6 months to start revealing who they truly are so while it’s not bad to think that someone could be HV in two months it’s not a good idea to assume that they are. Also you never wanna tell a man you haven’t known for a very long time (and absolutely trust) that you’ve been cheated on. Sadly that tends to give LVM ideas and they’ll try to test you. It’s also important that you heal from the wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 11:27 PM |
| 9 | A story of the worst PickMesha I ever met in my life and how her behavior made her life harder and life harder for women around herShe single white female-d you. It’s so disturbing, hopefully you no longer have to deal with her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:19 PM |
| 127 | Husband stalked wife until she married him, but she had no idea... this gave me the CREEPSOmg. Not only does she need to leave him immediately but she has to tell his brothers fiance all of it so she doesn't get trapped too!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:31 PM |
| 3 | When Pickmeisha is embarrassed but she choose her LVMYeah in the post being referred to the cousin who the BIL was in a relationship with ended up addicted to drugs and moving away. Clearly there was a lot going on there and it seems like the incest was 100% a part of it. It also reminds me of that women serial killer who was sleeping with her brother when they were children. She grew up and became a drug addict, a sex worker, and of course a serial killer. I think she had been abused by her father throughout her childhood or something like that. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 03:57 AM |
| 10 | “I’m over her bro”Well obviously the new guy tracked him down on all his social media’s in order to stalk him and taunt him. Obviously. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 01:38 AM |
| 20 | Too hot to handleLol I’m watching it right now! The guys use the cheesiest lines. It’s like wow, did these dudes not age out of their high school mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:52 PM |
| 29 | When Pickmeisha is embarrassed but she choose her LVMI saw it earlier and it was gross how many people were basically saying “well it’s legal in these many states! YTA” Like gross. I didn’t know this many people were cool with incest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:46 PM |
| 26 | “I’m over her bro”I like how his story is slightly different. Like in one the guys she’s with now sent him pictures but in the other one someone sent him pictures of them together. This guy is butt hurt and is probably hiding how he actually found out because it most likely involves him social media stalking her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 10:30 PM |
| 11 | Just because you had a baby with an LVM, doesn't mean you need more of his sperm!I doubt it. In order for True to know her brother Khloe would have to acknowledge that she was the mistress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:13 PM |
| 14 | Ladies, please raise your expectationsI hope she wakes up ASAP. The child should not witness this because it might grow to think that this is the proper way to think your partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 02:50 AM |
| 54 | This how we move from now onYeah I’ve never had to send “paragraphs” to someone who genuinely liked me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 11:24 PM |
| 48 | Ladies, please raise your expectationsSeriously he could have cooked her a romantic dinner and proposed with an in budget ring. He could of even suggest a small chapel for the wedding. It’s not that hard to be even at the most basic level of thoughtfulness. But not, he won’t even do that for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 11:23 PM |
| 30 | So tired of seeing the glorification of older men with younger womenThe facts are that when a relationship has a significant age gap there will always be an imbalance in the power dynamic. It doesn’t matter how much the couple likes to pretend that the young person is “Like, SO mature for their age”. The fact remains that the older person has an unfair advantage in life and relationship experience and can use that to manipulate the younger person who is more naive in comparison. I’m sure SOME relationships with age gaps like that can work but those are the excep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:24 AM |
| 2 | As Cher once said “I love men. I think men are the coolest. But you don’t really need them to live.” I just don’t believe women should allow themselves to be used by men. (Not) sorry if that makes me a hypocriteYeah that’s why I just took a screenshot and declined the chat. I knew engaging him would lead to nothing but wasting my time. I just wanted to share this on here because I know plenty of other women on this sub get these types of messages and would be able to relate to the giant eye roll I did when reading the message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Completely willing to ignore all the things men demand from women: I hope she gets pickedPeople who are secure in themselves don’t feel the need to bring others down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:28 PM |
| 146 | Women are waking up 👏👏Yup incels will be cool with her knowing her place but still trash her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:01 AM |
| 28 | Completely willing to ignore all the things men demand from women: I hope she gets pickedLV men like to imagine that we do so they can justify their hatred for us. She’s trying to pander to them because those are the types of men she allows into her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 10:44 PM |
| 40 | Woman gets called “nothing but a mouth to use and abuse” by her fiancé and “ideally doesn’t want to be told to break up with him”I wouldn’t be surprised if he physically abuses her and if he doesn’t yet he definitely will at some point. He has zero respect for her and if she marries him she’s legit agreeing to a terrible life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 10:23 PM |
| 70 | Woman gets called “nothing but a mouth to use and abuse” by her fiancé and “ideally doesn’t want to be told to break up with him”I honestly stopped reading about halfway through. How anyone could be in a relationship with someone who talks the way he does is insane. That guy straight up does not see women as people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 10:20 PM |
| 94 | Completely willing to ignore all the things men demand from women: I hope she gets pickedSeriously I’ve never sat around with my friends and made fun of man for being short or having a small penis or whatever. I’ve never even looked at a man and been like “he’s ugly? Time to treat him like he’s less then me!” But plenty of men do that to women they don’t find attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Avoiding me?We’re not the ones adding to this. We’re literally going off what YOU told us. The difference between how we’re seeing it and how you see it is that we’re looking at it objectively - you’re the one adding to it because what we’re saying may seem harsh. I’m sure you are very pretty but that doesn’t matter. You could be Beyoncé and guess what - you’re still not gonna be everybody’s type. Besides, a guy that old isn’t going for someone so young because he’s looking for a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:59 PM |
| 61 | Wife is so impressed and showers her husband with praise because he's...bakingLook. On the one hand I think it’s good that he decided to try something new. That’s great! People should be taking this time as an opportunity to try new stuff! However the way she talks about him - like he’s a child- that’s what makes this cringe worthy for me. It shows how low HER expectations for her husband are and how infantized he is in her eyes. It’s sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:37 PM |
| 45 | Avoiding me?Drop him. He’s either playing the game or not into you, either way it ends with you chasing him and being dropped the second someone he deems better comes along. Men know what they want and they don’t play games or act busy when they’re genuinely into you. Sorry but he’s not intimidated by you - he’s just not interested. He’s keeping you around to stroke his ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:52 AM |
| 73 | Que??? This is pickmeishsa behavior?Why does this seem like something a man would write lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 04:06 AM |
| 130 | Can you even?!Honestly that man is LV regardless. The whole “I’m concerned about her sexual past” thing, despite the fact that HE’S the one who cheated on his wife. The “you need to take an STD before we sleep together but I don’t because I don’t think the clinics here are good enough for me”. That man is pure trash and not worth whatever she’s getting from the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 01:26 AM |
| 52 | Why shouldn't you get what you give?This is one of those things that we subconsciously grow up with that I hate the most. From such a young age we are brainwashed to have this sense of guilt for ever being demanding in any way. It’s this mentality that robs so many women and young girls of their best years because their busy putting up with stuff they shouldn’t have to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:47 AM |
| 30 | As if being single is a disease 🙄That’s the crazy part, she’s NOT dating op. He wanted to date her. I doubt she said that last part of “I was thinking it could be you but not anymore “ or whatever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:23 PM |
| 29 | The title is "female predators/pedophiles aren't talked about enough and it really pisses me off"Ever notice that when women do sexually abuse boys (and the men aren’t insisting the boy should be proud) they act as if the women is some temptress who lured the boy in and took advantage of him, after all he’s just a boy, how would he know better? (don’t get me wrong this narrative holds a certain amount of truth) BUT when it’s an older man who takes advantage of a girl; they say “well.. she should have known better. Didn’t her parents raise her to be smart enough to watch out for bad men?! Al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 06:04 PM |
| 11 | Your partner’s friends disrespecting you is 100% because of the way he speaks to them about you.Honestly that guys was extremely LV and I wish I had spotted the red flags, he was very good at hiding them but they always show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 05:26 PM |
| 23 | Your partner’s friends disrespecting you is 100% because of the way he speaks to them about you.I didn’t have this exact experience, but when an ex of mine told me he smoked he followed it up with “ I guess you want me to quit huh “ Is smoking gross and dangerous ? Yes, but I’m not about to tell a grown ass man what to do with his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 03:41 PM |
| 16 | Lets talk about famous PickmeishasLol right back at ya | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 04:18 AM |
| 44 | Lets talk about famous PickmeishasActually I think she did an interview where she said she didn’t want kids. It’s one of the reasons why her and Brad Pitt had a strained relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:31 AM |
| 52 | Lets talk about famous PickmeishasI might get shit for saying this because people love her, but.. Jennifer Aniston. She dates low value men all the time. At some point we have to hold her accountable for willingly dating LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | I don’t care if you think it’s normal or what shade of pedophile you identify as. You’re still a creep you pedoAh my bad I misread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | I don’t care if you think it’s normal or what shade of pedophile you identify as. You’re still a creep you pedoI know he had at least 2 siblings, His older brother Arthur and a sister who I assumed was younger then Henry no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 03:01 PM |
| 16 | What are some signs he JUST WAS NOT THAT INTO YOU that you wish you would have seen as a Pickmeisha?You literally didn’t have to call me out right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 05:35 AM |
| 37 | The number of times I almost abandoned my girlfriends bc of a LVM is scary...Sadly we’re conditioned at a young age to believe that love is the end all goal for women so you can’t fault a lot of them for truly believing that the filtered half love they get isn’t worth all the misery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 06:56 PM |
| 141 | I don’t care if you think it’s normal or what shade of pedophile you identify as. You’re still a creep you pedoUgh. The one that annoys me to no end is the “younger women are more fertile!” No you idiot you’re just a pervert who wants to pray on young vulnerable girls. Oddly enough this logic doesn’t apply to them, they genuinely believe that their sperm is good until the day they die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 06:53 PM |
| 37 | Choices... The Pickmesha and Corona Virus editionThat man would leave her anyways. Like even if he’s LV, I don’t know anyone who would stay with someone like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 02:56 PM |
| 10 | This has got to be a joke. Who in their right mind is waiting 18 damn years for a ring....I know I’m not 🙅🏾♀️🤣Okay. The whole 18 years and in a box of chicken nuggets thing aside... the McDonald’s chicken nuggets aren’t even good quality (that’s right I said it) they look like plastic and their texture seems.. off. I’ll admit I haven’t had them since I was a child but I wasn’t even impressed then. I guess he was sticking to a theme though; Cheap and not worth the wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 10:23 PM |
| 40 | I‘ve seen many pickmeishas.. but what on earth is this?Yeah I couldn’t finish reading it either, I hate to talk about another person like this but the whole thing is just so.. pathetic. The op is taking so much responsibility while seemingly ignoring the fact that the husband and his mistress are the ones who should be feeling terrible. Again I didn’t finish it but I’m assuming she’s not putting any real blame on either of them. People in the comments are saying she’s such a sweet person and doesn’t deserve this but the truth is that she’s a doormat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 06:39 PM |
| 13 | “No” is a complete sentence - Something I wish I had known soonerI don’t think this is saying you’d be the asshole in the eyes of others per say, it doesn’t even mention other people. However we as a society (and this falls harder on women) are conditioned to at least pretend to be great full when someone does something that is technically perceived as polite. So while her peers might not view her as an asshole she might feel a conditioned guilt for not accepting this “kind” gesture- despite knowing that is not what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 04:21 AM |
| 7 | “No” is a complete sentence - Something I wish I had known soonerThis is wonderful! Thanks you I will add these to my list of must reads! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 02:59 AM |
| 102 | “No” is a complete sentence - Something I wish I had known soonerAnd if you put a drink down and walk away or look away from it for even longer then two seconds that is no longer your drink. Those two are very important lessons that everyone should know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 11:20 PM |
| 81 | “No” is a complete sentence - Something I wish I had known soonerSeriously if someone had told me this a long time ago I wouldn’t have spent the later part of my teenage years hating myself for putting up with some debasing stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 10:26 PM |
| 11 | Best way to spend time being quarantined?I hope you informed your boss. Anyways, as many people have suggested you should definitely do some spring cleaning and donate stuff you don’t want/need anymore (after you’re no longer ill obviously) and maybe do some baking and watch some old movies you’ve always wanted to watch but haven’t gotten around to. And seriously please do report that guy, he’s putting life’s at risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 05:40 AM |
| 13 | Girl’s “sweet and caring” bf of 2 mos stabs his roommate right after she leaves after they drink... she blocks his Snapchat but leaves him unblocked on her phone in case he needs to apologize 👀🙄😩🤬 SIS.Honestly when I saw that I assumed two things: 1. The story broke on the local news or something, hence a comment from the police (a weird one unless they live in a small town but still). And 2. He’s white. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 03:55 PM |
| 15 | Being with a LVM can KILL YOU in more ways than oneArticle: NASHVILLE, Tenn. (WKRN) — Two people found dead in a crashed car on Friday morning off of a construction road on the 400 block of Old Hickory Blvd. in West Nashville are believed to have been murdered after investigators say the two were both shot. According to Metro Police, 33-year-old Holly Williams and her estranged boyfriend 36-year-old William Lanway were found dead in the car by a construction worker. The car, a 2005 white Acura sedan, had struck a tree after going off the road an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:32 AM |
| 27 | UnacceptableI think the 165 for a women is also dependent on her height. I’m on the shorter side so 165 would definitely be too much weight on me but someone whose like 5’6 or so would be fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 01:04 AM |
| 12 | Can't believe this 🤦♀️I was thinking of this as well. I went out to eat with a friend and her boyfriend and he paid for BOTH of us, I would have been weirded out if he’d only offered to pay for me and not his girlfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:21 PM |
| 31 | Can't believe this 🤦♀️I think it’s more like he want to bang Emily and she’s playing him like a fiddle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 06:18 PM |
| 23 | To All Black FDSers: You are not crazy. The BS starts young!Honestly this does seem like a bit of r/thathappened but at the same time it’s not hard to see that a lot of black men do treat black women (especially if they’re very dark) terribly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 10:05 PM |
| 21 | Apparently, my sister and I are "shallow" because she doesn't want to date a guy and I'm telling her she doesn't have toTell your sister to set one of them up with him. If they think he deserves a girlfriend just for being nice then they can do the job 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 06:38 AM |
| 15 | This is a lot of words for "I expect sex on the first date and refuse to buy you dinner."This is long speak for “I’m a virgin and if I’m not I definitely fuck like one!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 08:02 PM |
| 19 | LVM behavior in the wildThat was gross to watch. Like he straight up slammed that door in her face like she wasn’t there. At least the idiot didn’t ask for a prenup so when they get divorced she’ll be richer than she already was on her own | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:02 AM |
| 12 | Friendly reminder that men are on such a high horse when it comes to beauty that their opinion shouldn’t matter to youI just went and looked and the most popular ones of women (who are GORGEOUS) are rated as like, a 7 at the highest? It’s honestly insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 02:31 AM |
| 74 | Friendly reminder that men are on such a high horse when it comes to beauty that their opinion shouldn’t matter to youYup. It’s weird because I recently saw one of an attractive guy -like classically good looking- get rated lower than an average/below average guy. Honestly I’m pretty sure that sub is just for ugly guys to trash good looking people and make themselves feel better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:27 PM |
| 52 | Friendly reminder that men are on such a high horse when it comes to beauty that their opinion shouldn’t matter to youSeriously even without makeup she looks good ! Men love to have extremely high standards for women! I bet the guy who made that comment is boringly average at best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 08:21 PM |
| 55 | The so called pressure from society men are talking about is just regular life.It’s always annoyed me how they complain about shit like “how the draft only applies to men! That’s so sexist!!” Like, who do they think set those kinds of rules?? Literally the “sexism” that men complain about was set up by men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:51 AM |
| 5 | Nope. A man who’s interested will post you on social media, don’t try to justify their actions like thisI don’t think this is something that really needs to be discussed. You shouldn’t have to ask him to post you, he should just wanna do it on his own. It just says something if he doesn’t. Look on this posts comments where one user talks about how her ex never posted her but posted his previous girl all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 8 | The Nice Guy Trope, ExplainedI love this channel! They do amazing analysis’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:24 AM |
| 14 | This might seem like a strange question but as an adult, how do women go about making friends with other women. I seem to not have gotten the hang of this and am trying to level up. I know I would be a great friend. I just seriously have no idea how to go about it.I’m not op but I also struggle with this. How do you take it from acquaintances to friends? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 01:32 AM |
| 18 | Bieber really had me out here looking stupidOooh yeah another example is Jolene by Dolly Parton which is a great song but it’s also the song of a super insecure women. Like if you have to beg someone not to take your man (which is also something you should take up with him not her) then he’s probably not really your man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:05 AM |
| 13 | Bieber really had me out here looking stupidSame dude! Oh well, I blame the type of infatuation only a preteen girl can have with a celebrity heartthrob | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 30 | Bieber really had me out here looking stupidFirst of all there’s no need to hate on others music taste. Second of all this song came out a few years ago. Not all of us were grown as women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 24 | My ex was visibly frustrated that I disregarded his existence after I ran into him at the gymI’m so sorry. It’s horrible that such a terrible person ever got to step into your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Applying FDS to platonic friendships tooLol do we have the same ex best friend? Is she also a pick me who can only talk about herself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:49 PM |
| 141 | My ex was visibly frustrated that I disregarded his existence after I ran into him at the gymThis is great and all but please tell more on the situation with the cat, you got it back right? Sorry I’m a cat person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:39 PM |
| 7 | I hope this is fake because you’d have to be just as crazy to not be making an escape plan ASAPIf it’s real I can really think is that she’s posting it on twitter as a joke but is hoping that someone calls the cops for her or something? Or she’s leaving some sort of trail as possible evidence in case something does happen (and let’s face it with a man like that it definitely will) at least that’s what I hope she’s doing and that she doesn’t genuinely believe that any of that is okay or normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:59 AM |
| 12 | I hope this is fake because you’d have to be just as crazy to not be making an escape plan ASAPThat’s why I said she should be making an escape plan. She needs to get out but of course it won’t be easy so she needs to be careful and take the best course of action- but she 110% get out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:56 AM |
| 89 | LVM drops hundreds of dollars on a 60 inch TV but gives his fiancé with a low quality $80 engagement ring. The ring is already falling apart and when she expressed her concerns he said it’s her fault for not taking care of it.I found it so sad that she had to start off the post by saying she’s not a gold digger. Like seriously why are we treated like gold diggers any time we want anything materialistic and above the price range that some cheap ass man finds reasonable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:05 AM |
| 22 | These “my boyfriend was terrible on my birthday, am I an asshole for expecting him to not be terrible on my birthday?” type posts are causing me PHYSICAL PAINSo many people on that subreddit really let themselves be pushed around by their partners. It’s honestly distressing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 11:48 PM |
| 28 | Pickmeisha’s Valentines Day“Okay technically she finally got tired of him and left but that still counts!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 04:58 PM |
| 29 | Disgusting.Nah his music hasn’t slapped since the early 2000’s. I’m not even sure he’s made anything since then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:42 AM |
| 110 | Woman seriously wonders if she’s wrong for pointing out that her husband is useless for not knowing where his own kids go to schoolAlso apparently it’s a small town and there’s only 4 schools and he reminded her to get the laundry after she posted. The audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 12:11 AM |
| 19 | Saw this gem on askreddit, what a nice fellaOr he didn’t care about her allergy because he wanted sea food | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 05:25 PM |
| 25 | When men talk about equality I truly wanna laugh.Yup in every discussion about feminism men will be like “WeLl tHAT MEans I CaN HiT a WomEN” and it’s like, why is it that when you think of being equal your first thought is hitting us?? Not to mention plenty of them already have no trouble doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 05:40 PM |
| 27 | My fiance (28M) asked me (25F) to deny we were engaged to keep his friend (28F) from hurting herself, how do I handle this situation without making myself the villain?Honestly I’m questioning if she’s as crazy as he claims. I think she’s still seeing him and thinks their in an exclusive relationship. That’s why he’s asked op to stay away from her and deny being engaged to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 08:26 PM |
| 8 | Should I confront the guy who spread lies about our "relationship"?I would take screenshots and expose him for the liar he is. Of course I’m of the petty type. I guess the higher road to take is to block and ignore him since confronting him won’t do anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 04:41 AM |
| 18 | “ Words don’t matter actions do “although ....I think this is a common thing that trips girls up. They think “we’ll he says he doesn’t want anything but he acts like he does so he must secretly want a relationship with me!” But no, either he’s polite or trying really hard to get laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 17 | And this is somebody who asked me to send him TWO (!!) body shots of myself! The audacity!! Moobs and bald head! And he wants a body shot to make sure I’m skinny enough for him lmaoLol no that’s a dope profile tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 05:25 AM |
| 184 | And this is somebody who asked me to send him TWO (!!) body shots of myself! The audacity!! Moobs and bald head! And he wants a body shot to make sure I’m skinny enough for him lmaoHonestly we should all aspire to have the self confidence of this man. The audacity never fails to astound me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 04:05 AM |
| 23 | Finally met a HVMEven for a high schooler that’s bad, I’d at least expect a teenage boy to being willing to take his date out to a fast food place or something. Walk in the park seems more middle school | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 50 | If guys have anything, it’s unearned confidence. Ladies, build up your self esteem!One time I was hanging out with a guy (this was a long time ago when I didn’t have much of an ego) and he had a book on his nightstand called “how to deal with having a big penis” or some shit like that. Anyways a bit later I see his penis and... it’s tiny, like shamefully so, and he has the audacity to ask me if the book is right or not... bro I got the fuck out of there so fast. The amount of ego men have for just being men is astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 07:53 AM |
| 10 | the subject is dogs, not your illterate coomer fantasiesUmm what did you expect people to say about a flower/mountain? I mean both of those things are insanely sexual and kinky! Duh /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:27 AM |
| 23 | Evan dumps "forever girlfriend" of 10 years, proposes to someone else in 6 months. Never be a forever girlfriend (Temptation Island)Yeah the new girl sounds like such a pick me and also like she wants to be sooo different from other girls just because she didn’t own rings before so she’s obviously “such a boy”. She’s definitely a good target for a guy this LV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 06:37 PM |
| 14 | NEVER allow a man around you when you are in a weakened state.Ugh what a disgusting piece of shit that guy is. I hope things work out for you. Hopefully he’ll get what he deserves. Also I’m glad you talked to the police because who knows if he’s done it before or will again. At least if they don’t do anything right know they’ll have this report on file and if he assaults someone again it’ll be proof against him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 18 | NEVER allow a man around you when you are in a weakened state.Did you show the police the text messages? Those could be used as proof, particularly when he said you won’t remember anyways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 06:04 PM |
| 17 | Don't know if this has been made a post already, but hey ladies in awesome relationships with HLM, can we hear about your success stories and how you did all the right things for yourself to win the mega jackpot relationship boyfriend lottery? :) Let's inspire some folks!Honestly? I didn’t really have to do anything. We clicked immediately and he pursued me from then on. I knew he was high value from the start because despite having to travel a lot when we first started talking he still stayed in touch as much as he could and brought me back little things I would mention (example: I collect mugs and mentioned that I always like the shirts they sell as souvenirs so he brought me a mug and shirt from every place he visited). It just fell into place naturally, I’ve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 07:43 PM |
| 26 | LVM asks for advice on suing his GFYeah no lawyer would take this case and even if someone did this idiot would be laughed out of the courtroom by any judge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 05:59 PM |
| 16 | What do I do about this LVM Fuckboy infesting my friend group?Okay I’m not an expert so think about my advise in depth before taking it, but try mentioning to the girls he’s talking to about the others. Like go to girl A and casually mention to her about how things seem to be going between him and girl B. (Yeah he and girl be are really getting along and they might get serious soon) If they’re smart they’ll talk about and it may unravel that he’s talking to more girls. Of course if you’re close to all these girls you can just privately let each one of them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 05:37 AM |
| 7 | Lol no the F we ain’tI wanna assume she was joking but the sub where I found this - oof, the comments were full of pickmes going “omg totally! I would do this for my man all the time!” It was sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 12:08 AM |
| 12 | and then there's this assholeAll the hoops he’s jumping through are insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 10:34 PM |
| 14 | Gone Girl: “Cool Girl” Monologue (Book) - Gillian FlynnOooh there’s this cool channel on YouTube called “The Take” that does analysis on various topics and one of the most recent ones was “The Cool Girl” and they talked about this exact monologue. It’s really good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 07:46 PM |
| 17 | What helps you stay strong?It’s important to picture your future. That way if say, you’ve just cut someone out of your life, you can see the positive impact that decision has/will have. It’s also nice to think of all the good things happening, even the small ones that we usually take for granted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 05:08 PM |
| 15 | Why do men cheat on their partners with less attractive women?Lol so he was trying to make her feel better with “guys like having ugly girls as side chicks, so you have that going for you!” ??? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 06:07 AM |
| 9 | Any tips on how to glow up?I’m seeing a lot of good advice on here and just want to throw in my two cents. Quality is important. I myself am pretty frugal but I’m learning not to compromise on certain things like self care items and make up. That’s not to say that you can’t find good things for a good price but while a body sugar scrub may seem like an unneeded expense it can make you happier because it’s a special thing you’re doing for yourself. I guess that’s my main point - don’t be afraid to splurge on yourself occas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 04:23 AM |
| 20 | I thought you could appreciate this find“Remember ladies you have a father, possibly brother, uncle, nephew-“ etc. Yeah, and non of them would want me to settle for such a nincompoop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 09:03 PM |
| 70 | Men have high standards while expecting women to settle for lessAlso, like on a genetic level it’s what we’re supposed to do. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:49 PM |
| 26 | Cringe!Wtf does the last sentence even have to do with anything lol. I know there’s a lot to unpack here but that just threw me off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 05:38 AM |
| 42 | Thoughts on prenup?Prenups are supposed to benefit both parties, I’m pro prenups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 04:00 AM |
| 24 | "You can pick our second date"Pretty cocky of him to think you’d want a first date, let alone a second one lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 03:56 AM |
| 12 | 31 year old man is trying to date me (20 year old), red flag or nah?I agree with everything you’ve said and I just wanted to throw in that he could be married and looking for a quick fling. The amount of married men who do this is astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 02:46 AM |
| 5 | The lack of solidarity among women sometimes breaks my heartJust make sure he actually gets it. Also he should maintain check ups after, I’ve heard stories about women getting pregnant even after their partners have gotten snipped. It’s rare but still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 01:50 AM |
| 39 | The right response 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼Granted I’m a straight women but if I start watching a video and the guys got a small one it just takes me out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 10:32 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, what to do when a man reveals a micropenis?Nah, I’m pretty sure you can at least feel the marshmallow a little bit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 12:54 AM |
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