Should I tell her?

PossibleCook · 2020-06-20T17:49:54+00:00

I think morally you should tell her, but don’t expect her to leave him. Honestly there’s a chance she’ll drop you instead. I think you should take that into consideration.

mightbethrowawayyy · 2020-06-20T16:17:20+00:00

It seems she knows what’s going on. I would tell her once and leave it there. Whether she takes action it’s up to her. Your friend is a grown woman after all and she is responsible for her own life.

glittersparklesglitz · 2020-06-20T16:14:01+00:00

Chantelmorris345 · 2020-06-20T18:35:12+00:00

You can tell her but its up to her if she wants to leave him or not all you can do is remind her to know her to know her worth and that he’s never gonna change smh. Sadly I’ve been friends with women that were dating trash guys but they refused to acknowledge their bullshit. They would say “you gotta stay down” even though i would literally tell them that if you did the same he would be gone smh.

throwmefaraway85 · 2020-06-20T16:58:11+00:00

Yes. Definitely.

TomCats6 · 2020-06-20T17:14:11+00:00

Yes. Wouldn't you want to know the truth?

FurryBellyButt0n · 2020-06-20T22:40:46+00:00

The fact that you had to ask here gives me the impression that you were not going to tell her or feel like you shouldn't.

Why do you want to protect a "good guy" who mistreats a friend? He is most likely being a "good guy" to you because he is a cheating POS and wants to have a chance with you too.

I guarantee even if you are "mutually" friends with both of them, he is a "good guy" because he is a scumbag that sexualizes his female friends and isn't really your friend.

You see how depraved he is to her and you are not immune to his depraved treatment either. Let the trash (him) take itself out.

Why do you feel compelled to not tell her? What does this man provide you that is making it so damn difficult for you to do the ethical thing?

Is it really that hard to let go of his male validation? Is the attention you get from this "good guy" worth more than allowing a woman to be mistreated by them?

Yes, you could potentially risk loosing her as a friend if she is upset with your information but she could also find out that he did this and also be upset that you were complacent in not speaking up?

Title	Should I tell her?
Author	emmgdac
Upvotes	24
Comments	13
Date	June 20, 2020 12:57 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hclvi6/should_i_tell_her/
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