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| 4 | You're expiring sir 😂🤗Internalized racism is still racism. She sounds like she has some self hate issue. I’m Asian too and I won’t shit on Asian people just because of their skin color. That’s just pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:56 PM |
| 7 | You're expiring sir 😂🤗Why Asian men in particular? So Asian men can’t “go with the flow” at age 27 but all other races can? This is so much racist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:49 PM |
| 12 | How do I politely avoid a kiss on the second date if he tries to make a move?Just turn away/distance yourself from him when he tries to get close. He should be able to get the idea. If he still attempts to kiss you, he’s violating boundaries I find kissing on the second date super uncomfortable as well. You’re basically still strangers and it’s perfectly normal to not want to kiss a stranger. Don’t feel like you owe him anything. And it’s totally not awkward to just back off. If he makes a big deal out of it, then HE’s the one making things awkward | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 06:26 PM |
| 51 | Anyone else getting the "Coronavirus excuse" for cheap first dates?I’m in the US too. I still match and chat with people but I’m not meeting anyone irl. Anyone who tries to meet during this time is low value as hell. I’ve reported a couple of guys who got mad and defensive when I said I’d rather keep it virtual for safety reasons. Really shows what kind of people they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?Haha I know I was like wtf bro 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:25 AM |
| 33 | Why do men think we’re dumb enough to believe the lie of “I’m not here often/don’t check this app often, so can I have your snap/insta/etc?”They certainly don’t care about impressing you. My personal rule is I don’t give away my number/contact info unless he has proven he’s worthy of it. Asking for my number within 10 texts because you’re not here often? Nah. If you’re that busy for this app then maybe we shouldn’t talk at all. Recently a guy messaged me a month after matching with me and said it was because he doesn’t use the app much... lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:47 PM |
| 11 | He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?!He was probing your boundaries. The next step is asking for nudes. Block him NOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 93 | I said what I said 🙋🏽♀️Whenever someone calls me a girl, I call them boy back to them. Works great lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:44 PM |
| 8 | Girls who succeeded on online dating, I have questions!Not really. I’ve been on dates with quite a few men from OLD and no one has ever remotely mentioned hookup. I would say it definitely has something to do with the topics you talk about (before first date) and how you present yourself on the date. If you make them feel you’re a respectable person, then it’s not very likely that they ask you for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:44 PM |
| 45 | I feel there's a few red flags here from this 43 year old. Instantly wanted a meet-up after initial hellos that night at a lounge during a pandemic, long paragraph about not hooking up, and there was something off-putting about his "okay" and no follow up. What do you think?Sounds way too desperate in his first message. And he one worded you when you didn’t bite. Lol classic scrote move | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:00 AM |
| 6 | Question for people OLD right nowI second this. It’s unlikely to be jealousy since they’re total strangers. It is a manipulation tactic. The only guy who ever asked me this question before even meeting me turned out to be a love bomber with lots of insecurity low self esteem bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:19 PM |
| 5 | He’s not awful, but I will not be responding.You’ll meet guys who like dogs and actually have communication skills! I like to think “if they don’t have anything interesting to say before matching with me, they won’t have anything interesting to say after matching with me.” This helped me to ruthlessly hit the X on anyone who didn’t send a thoughtful message, no matter how attractive their profile seemed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 23 | He’s not awful, but I will not be responding.Match only with guys who not just like first, but message with their “like”. And not just any message, but a thoughtful message. It shouldn’t take them more than 5 seconds to craft a personalized interesting message if you have a good profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:25 PM |
| 17 | Dating in college - a waste of time?I did not date in college and it was the best choice ever. Focus your time on other important things. Make good friends, take more classes, study abroad if you can. The cons were when I went on my very first date at 22 years old, I was very inexperienced and naively overlooked some red flags. I wasted months on people that I would now drop without a blink. But since you’ve already read the handbook and strategies, I think you’ll be all good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:40 PM |
| 30 | I deleted the CMB app. 🤣Lmao this is so true. They just “like” everyone and flood your queue. And lots of old creeps in the discover tab (or whatever it’s called) tried to message me. I deleted after a week | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:30 PM |
| 4 | Which dating app do you have the most success on?I thought it was just my area but maybe not. You’re right it’s the lowest of the barrel, lots of creeps. It’s a shame that the question system is actually nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, misogyny at its finest. When can we stop blaming women for everything? If you defend women and fight against slut shaming, you risk being silenced and called names.Most men on any app see it as a prostitution app, some men even see Etsy as a prostitution app I’ve heard. I totally agree with you that OLD doesn’t guarantee you a HVM. You may swipe for months and not meet any. I’m not saying the comment on the screenshot is misogynistic because she didn’t believe OLD could work. She’s misogynistic because she blames women and equivalents “free prostitutes with no self respect” with having an online profile. Saying “don’t use OLD because it doesn’t work” and s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, misogyny at its finest. When can we stop blaming women for everything? If you defend women and fight against slut shaming, you risk being silenced and called names.Haha exactly! And now I and the other commentator who refused to shame women are labeled as “pickmeisha” lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, misogyny at its finest. When can we stop blaming women for everything? If you defend women and fight against slut shaming, you risk being silenced and called names.Backstory: in my post I asked for positive OLD experiences, and this “FDS Disciple” shamed tinder women in her comment. Not to say it was also completely irrelevant to my question. I even asked what app should a HVW in her opinion use, which she did not answer. She then made more assumptions about me and said “if I wanted casual sex”, even though I’ve never mentioned casual sex anywhere in my post or comments. Her comment was briefly removed by the mod (which, huge props 👏), but then was brought… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:12 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, misogyny at its finest. When can we stop blaming women for everything? If you defend women and fight against slut shaming, you risk being silenced and called names.This is definitely true. But I don’t think it’s fair to shame women for using OLD. Most women who try to find a relationship through OLD are fully aware of what’s out there, many just don’t have many other choices. It still doesn’t mean they deserve to be harassed or they’re “asking for it”. It’s still 100% the man’s fault if he harassed a woman, regardless of online or in a bar, regardless of what she’s wearing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, misogyny at its finest. When can we stop blaming women for everything? If you defend women and fight against slut shaming, you risk being silenced and called names.Yep it’s just an app. How an app is used is depending on the user. I’ve seen too many casual scrotes on Hinge even if it’s supposed to be a “relationship app”, and I’ve seen decent people on tinder too. Basically everyone is on every app and it makes no difference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Which dating app do you have the most success on?Yeah like if they let someone 10 years older than your age upper limit message you then what’s the point? There are very few users in my area comparing to other apps and every guy on there is either ugly or creepy. I like that it mandatorily asks you what you’re looking for and the question system is cool too. But the overall app experience is horrific | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 02:43 PM |
| 68 | Tinder LingoHahahahaha yes basically bragging about anything that’s not his dick = small dick Bragging about his dick = he’s a dick himself “Looking for someone empathetic” = I will abuse you “I value honesty” = but I’m not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 05:20 AM |
| 13 | Which dating app do you have the most success on?I feel so happy for you!! And a specific criteria also indicates he was serious. That’s really awesome! Now I’m feeling hopeful again :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:49 AM |
| 12 | Which dating app do you have the most success on?That’s great! Bumble was my favorite and I have met some nice people from it too, but the more I hear about male entitlement the more reluctant I’m towards it. Like in the past I would read their profile and message something interesting related to their profile, but now I just don’t feel like doing it anymore :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:25 AM |
| 167 | Ladies, I present exhibit A - the Friendswithbenefitsasaurus. Abundant in urban areas, he is a common sub-species of the Loserasaurus. Complete disengagement is the only way to stay safe from this species.“Let’s have sex and do activities, actually, without activities...” Lmfao I’d have more respect for him if he had the backbone to just say he wanted sex. Spineless loser 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:35 PM |
| 7 | Worst Pickme you’ve had to deal with?A friend from high school. I met her from our school band. She was very smart, pretty, and outgoing, and easily the most popular girl in my school. Then she went to an Ivy League university. Maybe it was the stress, she started acting very strange. She would call me at 2 am frequently and complain for hours about her life and everything. I tried to give her advice but she wouldn’t listen, only to call me again a few days later repeating the same problems. She was chasing a man who was at least 1… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:28 PM |
| 59 | If he says this it's a red flagLmao he should be grateful that his ex had zero standards and agreed to have sex with him at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:25 PM |
| 35 | Date= kiss me?!!!!! KiSs mE?!Report | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:23 PM |
| 19 | This Facebook group yall 😂My understanding is that she’s the “love of his life”, but he also has a “life of his love”, a “boo”, a “bae”, and a “best friend forever” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:16 PM |
| 45 | Two reasons why following the FDS principles saves you from scrotes:“It’s YOUR FAULT for not judging my looks and actually giving me a chance” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:52 PM |
| 11 | Don’t overlook ANY red flags even if he seems nice otherwise... Because if you see one red flag, there are 1000 more.You explained this perfectly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:56 PM |
| 76 | Women pay to listen to a male dating coach telling them to split the bill, yikes!He was also a PUA coach before realizing it was easier to profit off women... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:14 AM |
| 75 | Women pay to listen to a male dating coach telling them to split the bill, yikes!He’s the prime example of mansplaining. I fucking hate him. Can’t believe I watched so many of his videos and genuinely thought he could offer good advice when I first started dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:12 AM |
| 35 | Don’t overlook ANY red flags even if he seems nice otherwise... Because if you see one red flag, there are 1000 more.If he barely uses social media at all it’s fine... but if he purposely hides it from you, or refuses to add you when you ask, then it’s probably a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:48 AM |
| 17 | Why its important to date men that invest in you! we already spend alot of money being high maintenance💅🏾💁🏽♀️Tbh personally I wouldn’t want an overly hairy partner either. I especially hate massive beards. But if someone likes his beard, I totally respect that and wouldn’t see it as filthy (as long as he washes it). I would probably just find another partner. I shave my underarms and legs in the summer, but I have very sensitive skin and get irritations every time from shaving. Most of the time I just wear long sleeves and pants for the exact society pressure you mentioned, because women get harassed i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:26 AM |
| 54 | So I just signed up for okcupid and got this 2 seconds after I signed up, before I could even upload a picture or write a bio. Funny how this copy pasta scrote “read my profile” when I literally had no profile 🙄🙄🙄Dudes be like: “I don’t have the time to read your profile because I’m messaging 1000 other women on this site. Exactly why should I spend time reading your profile? Prove your worth” Dudes also be like: “I messaged 1000 women and got zero match. Must be my height. Women are so shallow” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?Oh lord 🤦🏻♀️ stories like this are exactly why I’m so wary of dudes who approach women in public. Like, I wouldn’t feel comfortable going on a date without reading his dating profile first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:33 AM |
| 49 | Why its important to date men that invest in you! we already spend alot of money being high maintenance💅🏾💁🏽♀️women get made fun of and excluded This is exactly why it’s problematic. And we don’t need more of that here. do you feel that opressed and offended by people preferring a feminine, put together look? I don’t feel oppressed or offended about people’s preferences. But I do feel oppressed that women get made fun of and excluded if they don’t look a certain way. this is like saying people feel oppressed by the fact that we have to shower and brush our hair No. Waxing legs has nothing to do with per… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 41 | So I just signed up for okcupid and got this 2 seconds after I signed up, before I could even upload a picture or write a bio. Funny how this copy pasta scrote “read my profile” when I literally had no profile 🙄🙄🙄It’s so manipulative. First of all he’s trying to make women feel bad by not even have the decency to “inform” him. Secondly, what is he trying to get from a no? Attacking her? Persuading her to just “give him a chance” anyway? I can’t even. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 03:29 AM |
| 31 | Men who suddenly lose interestYep more women need to realize this. Like how can we talk about him being “into” someone when he’s not even genuine? The whole “he’s just not into you” thing is just normalizing men’s flaky behaviors and killing women’s self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 03:15 AM |
| 80 | Why its important to date men that invest in you! we already spend alot of money being high maintenance💅🏾💁🏽♀️I don’t know. This kinda rubs me in the wrong way. Waxing your legs has nothing to do with your womanness and shouldn’t be a requirement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 03:05 AM |
| 216 | Okay... I’ll stay singlehappy wives cheated & abused Um I hope he’ll stay happy when he’s cheated and abused too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:19 AM |
| 58 | Men who suddenly lose interestYes this. I’ve had a few times when the guy was acting super interested only to “lose interest” as soon as he sensed I was not an easy f*ck. I also feel that “he’s just not that into you” is sooooo overused. And I really don’t like it because it shifts the focus on the woman and makes her feel it’s her fault, when in reality (most of the times) he was just faking interest hoping to get laid, and he was never interested in getting to know you at the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:15 AM |
| 30 | So I just signed up for okcupid and got this 2 seconds after I signed up, before I could even upload a picture or write a bio. Funny how this copy pasta scrote “read my profile” when I literally had no profile 🙄🙄🙄Haha I’d rather not match with him at all 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | The male expectation of women to be completely shavedI totally agree with your point. But I’d rather not waste my time being obsessed with scrote psychology. That would give them more attention than they deserve, and I’ve got better stuff to do. That’s why I think it’s important to educate women, and spending your time figuring out every detail of why scrotes do what they do is not the most productive way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:37 PM |
| 71 | How to Catch Impending “Situationships” Before it’s Too Late.This is so on point. I dated someone who said he wanted to be serious but “take it slow” only to find out he didn’t mean sexually. He bailed right after I denied sex and told him “I thought you wanted to take it slow”. Lmao clown | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 35 | The Spark: Do you think it exists? If so, what is it?I think the definition would differ from person to person. In my book it just means good chemistry. But if a guy puts it in his dating profile I would see it as a red flag too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:30 PM |
| 113 | FDS stance on posting revealing pictures on social media?I wouldn’t. I don’t need validation from other people and I certainly don’t want random creeps masturbating to my pictures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:55 AM |
| 21 | Supermodel hinge dating experimentYes this. A 5/10 guy wouldn’t dare to approach a 10/10 on the street but a 1/10 guy would. Ugly dudes are bolder online AND irl because they really have nothing to lose | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:45 AM |
| -16 | The male expectation of women to be completely shavedWe can’t force someone to change their opinions. Men with fetishes will still have these fetishes. Just like racists will be racists no matter what you say. All we can do is to warn women about trashy men and potential health issues. Best case scenario, all women put their health first and choose not to shave. But that’s almost impossible, and people have the freedom to do whatever they want with their body. Ultimately if a woman still decides to shave, the choice is hers. Edit: the shave face e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:01 AM |
| -14 | The male expectation of women to be completely shavedThis one in particular, no. I’ll just decide he doesn’t align well with my standards and move on. I don’t care if the real reason is porn, pedophile, or anything else. But if someone has a preference that’s actually interesting and doesn’t seem flat out problematic (example: expecting his partner to be artistic), I would be interested to know the reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:41 AM |
| 19 | Is a man that’s “popular” with women a lvm?I think a telltale sign is to see how many of those women are his “friends”. Good looking HVM get approached and chased by women too, but it’s unlikely he’ll stay “friends” with any woman who hit on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:11 AM |
| -11 | The male expectation of women to be completely shavedAnyone can have any standard or expectation they want, no matter how realistic or unrealistic it is. A woman can expect her partner to shave his face every day, and it’s totally fine. Men who like facial hair will simply not date her. But if she expects all men to shave their face and harasses strangers on the street for having a beard, then it’s unacceptable. Similarly, if a man wants his partner to be completely shaved, it’s his own preference and I don’t give a shit. I will simply not date hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:23 AM |
| 83 | Is a man that’s “popular” with women a lvm?Yeah fuccbois and pickmes attract each other Some LVM are “popular” because they string women along. A HVM would let women know when he’s not interested, but LVM won’t. That’s why good looking LVM are always surrounded by pickmes thinking they’d deserve a chance if they chase him hard enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:16 PM |
| 9 | Spotted: another gem on bumble.This picture smells like feet Oh wait those are his hands? Ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:29 PM |
| 16 | If you’re at the point where you feel this is necessary, just throw the entire LVM away sisCringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:27 PM |
| 21 | When trash identifies itself 🗑Long term fuck buddy so he doesn’t have to worry about std 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:26 PM |
| 24 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseNo HV person would try to meet in person during this time, especially if you’re in the US | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:49 PM |
| 11 | Ladies, we should all leave reddit at the same time and make the news.Let’s choose a time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Proof is in the pudding- you will NEVER win when it comes to NVM/LVMMen on purple pill are dusty incels you’d swipe left without a blink. Why waste your time arguing with them at all? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:32 PM |
| 47 | my(23f) boyfriend(21m) use f words when we argue, but he doesn't curse at me...If the usage of f words puts you off it puts you off. Also even without the f words, he sounds really stupid... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:29 PM |
| 50 | Thank you FDS. this is a screenshot of the type of 🤡s I dealt with before joining. I wanted him to take me to a restaurant and suggested a nice sit down place that was affordable and he wanted fast food and a hangout 🤭 now its just me and my careermore hanging out than like dating no? No no no I ain’t your pal, get outta here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:27 PM |
| 155 | People can actually change but there is no reason to entertain someone you forgive.He’s texting you at 1:38 am. Looks like he has no self respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Advice for employing FDS strategies in small/rural communitiesI don’t have experience living in a small community so I might be wrong on this, but I feel like since everyone sort of knows everyone, maybe meeting people through friends is a better option than OLD? If they behave shitty they risk losing their reputation too, and you save a lot of time swiping through uneducated bums. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:59 AM |
| 24 | When the veil falls...To be honest... I don’t think it’s very possible. Maybe it’s possible to start a relationship, but not in the long run. Empathy comes from experience. Someone who’s never experienced what you’ve experienced will not truly understand, relate, or empathize. And you’ve noticed this too. Eventually one (or both) of you will feel taken advantage of. Also this guy in particular sounds like a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:08 AM |
| 72 | “DoNt LoOk FoR a SeRiOuS rElAtIoNsHiP oN tInDeR”Because they are garbage humans. You don’t have to explain yourself to them. Just unmatch when their behaviors don’t match up to your standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:26 AM |
| 21 | If a guy tests your boundaries do you give him another chance?Cut him out for good. If he disrespects you once he’ll do it again and again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:22 AM |
| 5 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?I think you’re doing it right. Don’t order things you can’t afford on a first date, in case things turn out bad. You don’t want to be put in a vulnerable and dangerous situation where you have to be dependent on a stranger. But I am against coffee dates too. Because usually guys who ask you on a coffee first date are not serious. Do you go on a lot of dates? Maybe limit the number of dates you accept to and focus on quality? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:12 AM |
| 29 | 16 year old girl asks how to attract a boyfriend and this grown ass man replies with THIS. i’m disgustedI read his post history and he’s a 30 year old man dating how old you guess? 19! Fucking pedophile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?Tell him to stop. If he keeps acting rapey and you’re in public, try to make a scene. If he’s in your car, tell him to get out of your car or you’ll have to call the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:31 AM |
| 55 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.Yep and let’s watch reddit turning into the ultimate incel forum 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:20 AM |
| 4 | OLD Scrote gets mad I call him out for living in his friends basement at 34...you are nowhere near my type of woman Thank god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:26 AM |
| 7 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅I feel like if someone doesn’t want you because of your height and only prefers women a foot shorter than himself, there’s definitely some fetish going on, and you don’t want him anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:21 AM |
| 90 | Revealed he was in the middle of a divorce at the end of the date, only wants something casual, and then freaks when I don't immediately jump at the chance to see him again. LVM insecurity at its finest. What a "nice guy"... This is the third time he's checked on me within a 24-hr period.“Just making chit chat to help staying awake” Yeah he already admitted he was just using you to kill boredom. Your time worth more than that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:14 AM |
| 19 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅Hell I wish I was 5’10 so I could wear runway clothes like a high fashion model... Being fetishized is absolutely disgusting, be it petite women, tall women, or anyone in between. Many men fetishize petite women because they are secretly pedophiles. Someone wanting to fuck you because of fetish is not a compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:07 AM |
| 102 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅Idk I don’t want someone so tall that I’d look like a child next to him... Some of these extreme height difference couples give me a creepy and pedo vibe tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:20 AM |
| 389 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.If Reddit bans this sub I’ll stop using Reddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Need AdviceHe was either messing around, or he was waiting for YOU to ask HIM out. Lmao. Glad you dropped him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Need AdviceSame. I used to like bumble, but I can never look at it the same way again ever since I found FDS. I get it that the intention of bumble’s “women message first” concept was good, but it really turns out to be the opposite of their intention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:06 PM |
| 25 | The guy didn’t ask me for my phone number after the first date.That’s shady. Sounds like he’s not single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:53 PM |
| 14 | Did I make the right choice to cut him out?Yes you made the right choice. I have experienced the EXACT same thing before and I wish I did what you did. I responded in an “understanding” way because I was stupid and, well, I still regret it every time I think of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:30 AM |
| 15 | Share your CRAZIEST "hoover" / re-contact attempts?Same lol. This loser (not even an ex. He was a friend who wanted to date me, and then acted like an asshole when I rejected him so I had to cut him off) tried to add me on LinkedIn for 6 fucking years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:34 AM |
| 26 | Was my LVM ex secretly gay? I think he was in hindsight....He sounds misogynistic... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:10 AM |
| 84 | Dude is upset that his girlfriends wants him to pay his fair share of the bills because she makes more money than him.Good argument: she should stop dating losers. Find someone actually within her league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:28 AM |
| 14 | At what point do you stop a conversation (or, when does it become clear they aren’t interested)?Then he’s just boring. Your texts were much more interesting than his and he barely contributed to the conversation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:58 AM |
| 24 | At what point do you stop a conversation (or, when does it become clear they aren’t interested)?Lol I would have stopped responding when he began to talk about nipples and butt. But since it looks like you started the nipple conversation from the screenshot, his response doesn’t look very interesting (or interested). He’s boring at best, horny at worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:53 AM |
| 80 | Looking for a strong independent women but also reply within 24 hours or you’re toast. At least he’s self aware that he’s a piece of shit lol. 🤷♀️He’s too old to have that attitude 🙄 not saying it’s any more acceptable for college frat boys to have, but that attitude on this old gramp is extra hilarious and disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:38 PM |
| 52 | Guy on PP trying to convince me that expecting men to pay for dates is a bad strategy while admitting he would barely pay for a 9/10 woman. But why would I want to date a man who won’t pay because he thinks I am a 2/10? Lol! Just another reminder why you should never settle by splitting the bill!Exactly my thought. He is mediocre, he attracts people as mediocre as he is, but he thinks he “deserves” better. But he can’t attract anyone he considers “better”. So he has to “settle for” people in his league while complaining how mediocre they are. Oh well guess he will never be happy then 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 08:40 PM |
| 204 | Guy on PP trying to convince me that expecting men to pay for dates is a bad strategy while admitting he would barely pay for a 9/10 woman. But why would I want to date a man who won’t pay because he thinks I am a 2/10? Lol! Just another reminder why you should never settle by splitting the bill!Why would I pay full price to prove my worth to mediocre pussy? Then why would you go on a date with mediocre pussy? Yep probably because that’s the best you can get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 5 | My father on men who wait because they ‘have no expiry date’That’s awesome! Glad to hear :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 05:40 AM |
| 48 | Sexonlyzoned thanks to LVM scrotes!!!As if they’d get sex at all 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 02:04 AM |
| 33 | Just started chatting yesterday.. he's a bit vain (by his own admission) and was all about how he liked me already. I kept my cool and teased him a bit and then this.. at first I gave him props for being straightforward until I realized he was just trying to set me up for just sexLol I thought he was 20 or something from his fuccboi language... the older they are the more mentally retarded 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 11:14 PM |
| 44 | Just started chatting yesterday.. he's a bit vain (by his own admission) and was all about how he liked me already. I kept my cool and teased him a bit and then this.. at first I gave him props for being straightforward until I realized he was just trying to set me up for just sexHahaha lmao wtf 😂 he’s so lame like dude wtf are you trying to say? I cringed so much reading it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:56 PM |
| 9 | Block his assI think you can tell them, and then observe their reactions. If they try to use you as a free therapist, then you know they belong in the trash bag. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 59 | “Who knows what she wants”.It means he just wants to hook up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:01 PM |
| 52 | Block his assSeems like he was using you as an emotional dumpster. Paying for meal is much cheaper than paying for an actual therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:38 PM |
| 48 | My father on men who wait because they ‘have no expiry date’Yep came here to say this. The “no expiry date” thing is so not true. It is disturbing that even in 2020, some people still seem to wholeheartedly deny science. My father isn’t the most HV man I’ve known. He’s not my role model nor my hero. But at least he’s educated enough to always choose science over some dumb bs propaganda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 09:10 PM |
| 32 | Who should initiate a conversation if someone tried setting a guy up with me?He should message you. Honestly if he doesn’t reach out in 3 days, I would just unfriend him and tell my cousin he doesn’t seem very interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 06:12 PM |
| 43 | I came across this profile on one site where you can meet people around the world. I honestly thought he was joking but later he messaged me, and I realised he didn't...He has to be joking right? I mean why would he message you first when he’s got all these messages from other women waiting for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 06:09 PM |
| 50 | My LVM father, ladies and gentlemen.It is racist. Not sure if all white males are the reason of everyone’s problems but whoever posted that paragraph is part of the society’s problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:01 PM |
| 2 | I wonder how many independent successful women are gonna find his company enjoyable... I’m guessing zeroBecause they can’t think of anything interesting about themselves. About your second point, I’m guessing if he’s lucky enough to get a match and the woman is just as boring as himself (because A: no interesting women would swipe right on him and B: there really isn’t anything interesting about himself from his profile except that he’s a dbag) he wants her to entertain him by coming up questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:03 PM |
| 65 | So he cares about “personality”There’s nothing wrong with valuing personality. All HVM value personality. The red flag here is he claims he does. I find that someone actually valuing something can be very different from someone claiming they value something. And oftentimes when men go all the way to tell you they care about something, they’re lying. Because they wouldn’t feel the need to make a point if they actually care about it. Example 1: you want a man who cares about feminism. But if a man tells you he cares about femin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:08 AM |
| 39 | When a man “WYD” you to death?Nothing. Nada. Block him if you haven’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:57 AM |
| 44 | My response to him would be to pay a FUCKING CLEANER out of his own WALLET. Ladies get your man or you will be stuck like this woman who refuses to divorce his lazy stank ass. Love just isn’t enough for me to degrade myself in a relationship where I’m legit acting like a maid. FUCK. THAT.Your expectations are not too high if you want your husband to at least do SOME household chores lmao. Growing up my dad has done the majority of cooking and chores, and he isn’t even THAT high value. Also, every friend I’ve discussed this topic with said their dad did the majority of, if not all, household chores in their family too. I honestly don’t know anyone whose dad doesn’t. It’s the bare minimum. Males are physically stronger so naturally they should do more than 50%. If everyone around … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:47 AM |
| 34 | Never give them the benefit of the doubtThat’s fucking gross. We are conditioned to believe if someone doesn’t “get the hint”, it’s because our hint is not clear enough. It took me long to realize this is not true. They totally get it, but they’re just being assholes. You can be very clear and tell them no directly and some rude people still won’t take it for an answer. Tell him to stop harassing you or you’re calling the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:43 AM |
| 40 | 30% of men are now sexually inactive but please do tell us all about how all that sex would be waiting for you out there if it weren’t for your wife 🙄True. Imagine taking advantage of someone’s naïveté/vulnerability/mental illness and being proud of it. I’d rather these women be gold diggers because at least they wouldn’t be taken advantage of for absolutely nothing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:32 AM |
| 93 | 30% of men are now sexually inactive but please do tell us all about how all that sex would be waiting for you out there if it weren’t for your wife 🙄Yep just because old creeps find young women attractive and actually have the audacity to approach young women doesn’t mean they’ll actually have any luck with it. It’s funny scrotes don’t see the difference between “I find her attractive” and “she finds me attractive” I’m in my 20s and I wouldn’t consider anyone 3 years older. Specifically I wouldn’t in a million years date a middle aged man, no matter how handsome he is. Also I don’t care about money so even if he’s the richest person on earth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 03:08 AM |
| 84 | Never give them the benefit of the doubtI find pushiness to be the biggest turnoff. They just don’t respect your boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:49 AM |
| 32 | I wonder how many independent successful women are gonna find his company enjoyable... I’m guessing zeroIkr? He’s fucking 27 and still sees himself as a child 🤮 fucking gross. He seriously needs a therapist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 15 | [Copy pasted] Sad truth, Pickmeisha in the making? : teenage girl wants to "find a boyfriend" to rescue her from abusive parentsI’m worried for her. I feel that she’ll be used and abused by men with malicious intentions. She’ll just switch from one abusive environment to another | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Don’t take OLD too seriouslyHaha I don’t even remember his name anymore 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:05 AM |
| 1 | He thinks he’s a real catchHaha now I think of it, all the very close (very platonic too) male friends I’ve ever had (actually just 2) are INTPs as well. Both are very genuine people with almost childlike minds. It’s hard to describe but it feels like having a brother when you’re both 5. I can’t imagine having this kind of relationship with any other type. Dating wise INTP guys can suck, but they suck in a different way than INTJs. I’ve noticed INTP men’s common problem is that they’re lazy and indecisive, like they would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:04 AM |
| 2 | He thinks he’s a real catchHaha thank you I guess I’m a genuine sweetie then 💕 I totally agree with you and I think you’re 100% on point. Those are honestly my thoughts too. I’ve dated all four INxx, and INTJ men are the worst. It took me quite awhile to realize. I gave them the benefit of the doubt because INTJ women are one of my favorites... but finally realized INTJ men are essentially different from their women counterparts. They tend to be so entitled like no tomorrow. Weirdly enough, I think INFJ men are pleasant i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:25 AM |
| 2 | He thinks he’s a real catchYeah tbh his bio gives me more of an INTJ vibe than INTP. I absolutely love INTJ women, but INTJ men are the worst. They’re arrogant af and think they matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:52 AM |
| 74 | LVM putting down other women then complimenting? GrossIt looks like a neg. Like dude, you really think women are gonna respond to that? 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Don't Dress Like a SlutYep blocked her long ago! Your post just reminded me of her because she literally said the same thing 😂 and extreme pickmes like her definitely exist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Don't Dress Like a SlutI once had a super pickme friend who literally said women should stop going out in public. Like I told her I was approached by some creeps on the street (I was wearing a winter jacket and jeans), and she said I was “totally asking for it” ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 10:48 PM |
| 6 | Traveling South east asia as east asian womanAnd how is this related to racism? Not sure I understand what you mean | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 10:27 PM |
| 12 | Traveling South east asia as east asian womanI think it’s because racism is just common and normal there. They grew up with it. Their moms and dads are racist. Their teachers are racist. No one thinks racism is a problem and no one educated them. That’s why I avoid all European men. Because how could you find someone not racist, when he grew up in a racist society, where his family, friends, coworkers, everyone around him are racist? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 07:57 PM |
| 6 | Traveling South east asia as east asian womanThat’s awful. I would honestly avoid all of them. Of course #NotAllEuropeanMen but when racism is too common there, I don’t have the time and effort to distinguish one good man from thousands. Also if someone wants to have sex sooner than you’d like because “it’s their culture”, that’s total bull shit and just laughable. No it’s not his culture. It’s because he’s horny and cheap enough to use “culture” as an excuse to get laid. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 07:51 PM |
| 48 | Traveling South east asia as east asian womanWhen I traveled to Europe I’ve noticed people there are so much more fucking racist compared to the US. Like randos on the street would shout broken Chinese/Japanese words at me. In restaurants too. So many times the waiter would ask “how do you say [...] in [chinese / japanese / korean]” out of nowhere. Even in Michelin star restaurants. Even in the more “developed” and “liberal” countries like Norway and Finland. So fucking annoying. You did awesome by reporting that racist horny ass! He deser… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 07:06 PM |
| 23 | He thinks he’s a real catchI have no idea either. I’m guessing he’s a sugar daddy except that he pays with his lame dick instead of money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 14 | He thinks he’s a real catchMaybe because bumble attracts more of them? Tinder attracts more of the trashy type and bumble attracts the pretentious type | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:09 PM |
| 18 | NO NO NO NO 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️Um by “boss bitch” she means MLM boss babes. Because I don’t think she’s ever talked to a real successful woman CEO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:20 PM |
| 31 | Dating as a black woman on dating apps be like..Ew creepy and gross 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 05:49 AM |
| 28 | How do you get a guy to put in more effort?Came here to say this. If he’s already disappointing you he likely won’t change. No matter what you do, don’t chase him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:36 AM |
| 31 | Some women desperately need FDSIf you have to suck dick in order to keep a man, then you have serious problems... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:06 AM |
| 42 | pick me spotted.Lmao of course everyone is their own person, but I can choose who I want to surround myself with 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 03:02 AM |
| 7 | In case you forget, men are the logical ones.🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 11:03 PM |
| 104 | Didn’t mention anything about having kids/had “doesn’t want any” in his profile, and the humble brag sprinkle of “hehe I have so many women interested in me!” was laughable. Unmatched.lol this smells like a red pill incel. I just hope his son doesn’t grow into someone like him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:05 PM |
| 23 | “Were you raised by wolves?”Girl did we match with the same guy??? I once matched with someone who rapidly fired question after question and it felt like an interrogation. Questions like “what are you looking for here?” “What did you study?” “What are you doing for a living?” “Have you dated Indians before?” (Because he’s Indian) “What’s your hobbies?” “What’s your goal in 5 years?” Jesus fucking Christ. And he replied so damn fast. Before I could type “what about you”, he threw three more questions to my face. And yeah he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | This man is balding at 26 yet he’s still full of SCROTACIOUS AUDACITYI was thinking that would prevent dusties from shooting way out of their league. Or crazies who made 10 accounts and liked you 10 times “in case you didn’t see it” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 06:56 PM |
| 36 | Sudden realization that my close friends are pickmes and put me second to dick. Where to find other than online during Covid?I met most HVM and HVW friends at school. Something I’ve noticed is that many of them did not think of dating until after college, like myself. We just focused on other things we found more important, such as taking more classes and traveling abroad. Not saying people who date in college are necessarily low value though - a good friend of mine dated someone for four years throughout college, but she is very rational, and did not let him impact her decision making. She was always able to put her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | This man is balding at 26 yet he’s still full of SCROTACIOUS AUDACITYI really think when you X’d on someone who liked you, Hinge should let them know. Because Hinge let you know when they liked you. It’s borderline harassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:14 PM |
| 39 | This man is balding at 26 yet he’s still full of SCROTACIOUS AUDACITYHinge is full of these lowlifes it’s not even surprising. Have you reported him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:37 AM |
| 24 | Warning: The Pickup Artists are outWhen I was 19 a PUA followed me around for half a mile (I was walking) trying to make conversations. I was clearly uncomfortable but he just wouldn’t leave. The street was crowded but no one did anything. And he wouldn’t leave unless I gave him my number, which I refused, but he wouldn’t take no for an answer. Luckily there was a police station nearby, and THAT was how I got rid of him. Oh and he claimed he was 32. ON THE STREET HARASSING A 19 YEAR OLD. That’s your average PUA. Fucking predators… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 12:24 AM |
| 29 | I matched with this guy on Tinder back when Corona happened. Now that things are open I figured he would ask me out for dinner or something, nope, dude wants to chat on the phone all the time. I never have to go back and forth like this. Called me immature when the immature one was him 😂Matthew Hussey definitely had that line, and I’ve seen it on several other coaches’ blogs too. “Pen pal” and “challenge” are like high frequency dating coach words... just so cringy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 07:48 PM |
| 28 | Humble men of MatchYou know what? He probably is the top 1% because he can spell and write completely sentences, and doesn’t post a bathroom selfie. The bar is so low now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 07:38 PM |
| 56 | I matched with this guy on Tinder back when Corona happened. Now that things are open I figured he would ask me out for dinner or something, nope, dude wants to chat on the phone all the time. I never have to go back and forth like this. Called me immature when the immature one was him 😂He copied that pen pal line from some incel “dating coach”!!!!! I swear it looks so damn familiar. And the “challenge” line because it was under the title “How To Challenge A Woman” and he forgot to change to his own words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 07:27 PM |
| 10 | How do you shift your mindset of being attached too much on looks?Then I don’t think you have to shift your mindset at all. You don’t have to date anyone you’re not physically attracted to. You also don’t have to date someone with a broken personality just because you’re physically attracted to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 07:20 PM |
| 5 | How do you shift your mindset of being attached too much on looks?Are you attracted to them because of their looks? Or because they were abused? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:53 PM |
| 33 | Idk if right now is a good time to be in a relationship,.I'm not in a good place. Meanwhile he persued me for 9 months...He’s trying to bullshit you. RUN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:17 AM |
| 40 | is it weird to not want to kiss an OLD 2nd date?Definitely not weird. You gotta do what you feel comfortable with. If a man loses interest just because you don’t let him get physical during the first two dates when you’re still basically strangers, he’s probably not looking for the same thing as you anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:14 AM |
| 3 | I feel traumatizedHa! He does seem crazy. Just wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 01:49 AM |
| 21 | No contact with ex for three years randomly reaching out and sending flowers 👎I wanted to say the same. Silence is an answer. You don’t owe anyone a verbal no especially when many people think no means try harder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 01:40 AM |
| 3 | I feel traumatizedGood idea! I didn’t think about that. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Should I unmatch this one?He sounds racist and dumb as shit. You have every right to feel offended because he has zero class. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 14 | HVM and his group of friendsDepends on his relationship with those friends. If they are his closest friends, then I’d be wary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:01 PM |
| 10 | I feel traumatizedI didn’t match with him so I have no way to send that message (unless I dm him on social media which would be weird). I would have to like his profile to actually do that, which I did not. I know he liked me because some apps like Hinge let me know who liked me. But you’re right I should start taking screenshots for evidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:15 PM |
| 83 | Must Watch/Listen. “Men who value and respect their wives don’t marry down because they feel co-equal. Marrying down implies that they feel superior.”Finally! I really don’t get it when so many people here say their goal is to marry up. I have no wish to marry up because I don’t want someone who marries down. I don’t want to marry down either. I want someone who is an equal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:41 PM |
| 8 | Looking at other womenI guess both? I’ve never dated anyone for more than three months and none of the men I’ve dated have done this to me. Honestly I don’t think I would tolerate checking out other women at all. If it’s a date, then boy bye no more dates with you. If it’s a long term relationship, I would probably communicate with him once, and if he persisted, bye as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:41 PM |
| 7 | How do you feel about approaching a guy first?also 9/10 when a guy pursues you first you know he’s probably doing the same with a bunch of other women. O...Kay? Not sure if I get the logic here. When a guy doesn’t pursue you first he’s probably pursuing a bunch of other women too... except you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:00 AM |
| 70 | Looking at other womenExplain my ass “I’m dating two men. You are dumber but he is uglier. Who should I dump first?” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 06:54 AM |
| 29 | Looking at other womenI honestly don’t know since I’ve never experienced this... and I can’t imagine what if. But an acquaintance said that once her situationship “not a boyfriend” checked out a woman in front of her and told her he would like to fuck that woman. And my acquaintance only acted more pickme towards him after that 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 06:47 AM |
| 16 | Stop telling me I’ll change my mindLol I wasted my best years on education so I can actually afford to not settle for second best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 06:37 AM |
| 32 | How to handle people pushing their pick-me views on you?You don’t. Avoid talking about topics that you know they will disagree on. If they initiate the topic, I would just smile and pretend to agree with them. There’s no need to argue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 06:28 AM |
| 24 | Apparently I am too hash. Does that even make sense?Same here. You’re not extreme. Most guys I’ve met still keep in touch daily after making plans for the date, so there’s usually no need to confirm. If he goes silent after planning the date, I lose some interest immediately. AND if he doesn’t confirm, then boy bye 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 01:15 AM |
| 4 | It's getting more expensive for scrotes to use women for sexI’m happy okcupid is making an effort to raise the standards 😂 this will for sure weed out cheap casual bums off their platform | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Any advice about toxic male friends?If someone doesn’t act like a friend, he/she is not a friend. Applies to everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:11 PM |
| 34 | Who Pays On A Date? What Women MUST Do!Yep it puts you in a vulnerable and potentially dangerous situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 05:39 PM |
| 7 | Men only take me seriously when I look “hot”I’m sure you’re beautiful with or without makeup, but pornsick scrotes think a no makeup “down to earth” look = low maintenance. But you don’t want these scrotes anyway. The same scrotes might low key hint at sex at your full glam hot profile (instead of flat out asking). Run if they do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Is it a turn-off knowing someone you’re dating for weeks is still actively looking for others?I agree with you 100%. It’s hard to find one man I’m interested in, but I try to keep my options open (although it usually just means swiping through trash endlessly). Is there a timeframe that you don’t find unacceptable if he shops around, like before the first date? Or is it unacceptable ever since you start to talk? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 05:18 PM |
| 9 | Is it a turn-off knowing someone you’re dating for weeks is still actively looking for others?Thanks sis ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Standards and abundance contradict each otherYou described that mindset perfectly! I feel fulfilled in my life too and would not date anyone unless he will make my life better than it already is, but I just feel unbelievable whenever someone says they easily keep a roster of 4 HVM at the same time. If it happened on me it would be too good to be true, like, i can’t even imagine in my dreams being attracted to 4 people at the same time... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:38 AM |
| 28 | Is it a turn-off knowing someone you’re dating for weeks is still actively looking for others?I have no problem opening up to other options, but it’s just a turn-off when say, my friend said she matched with him. I think that’s the opposite of impressing me tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 06:20 AM |
| 16 | Is it a turn-off knowing someone you’re dating for weeks is still actively looking for others?Did you have the relationship talk after deleting your app? Ideally I think it’s the best when you just naturally decide to both delete your apps, but in reality it’s always been the opposite with me. Maybe because I didn’t act super interested? I don’t even know why. One time I dated someone for two months and he still regularly updated his profile. I felt kinda insulted by it so I dropped him 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 05:13 AM |
| 38 | Men only take me seriously when I look “hot”I have a mixture of “hot” formal photos and everyday photos, and most guys have been very respectful. I agree with another commentator that when you didn’t use your most attractive photos, scrotes assumed you didn’t have many options so they felt the audacity to insult you. Just don’t agree to dinner dates on your “hot profile” from the same scrotes who insulted your “everyday profile” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:42 AM |
| 69 | How women are standard-shamedChoosing beggars want to have their cake and eat it. They’re just mad because they don’t meet woman 1’s standards and can’t afford woman 2’s lifestyle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:12 AM |
| 12 | Do any of you struggle trauma bc of your ex ?I had a similar experience. It was traumatic, but now it doesn’t really affect me anymore. I have zero respect for that ex and I will not let his shittiness affect my future dating life. If anything, it let me know that dating someone recently single is a huge red flag. Just don’t do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:03 AM |
| 91 | At a shoe store now and heard this pick me wife say to her sulky LVM husband: "if you don't care how these look, the why did you come along?"When will these women learn to leave the scrotes at home? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 28 | After five years together and no ring, I broke up with him and got myself my own diamond!So pretty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Standards and abundance contradict each otherYou’re certainly not the only one. Looking from the other way, I’m glad you left bad relationships so now they can’t hurt you anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:51 AM |
| 4 | Standards and abundance contradict each otherGirl same. I don’t even care about dating up. I just want someone who meets my level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 12:07 AM |
| 9 | Stopped responding because overly complimentary and boring men are uninteresting to me.. then he hits me with this.That’s some next level audacity. Also texting at inappropriate hours = automatic no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Guys on OLD asking to prove you're realOh gosh I didn’t say I put my full name in my dating profile! I didn’t list my company name either, but I’m saying you can find me pretty much just with my first name and school name. You can find most people with just that. I actually search my dates on LinkedIn just to confirm their identity. If I can’t find Michael the 26 year old Harvard grad on LinkedIn, then I’m not going out with him. If I find him but he didn’t go to Harvard, I’m not going out with him either because I don’t tolerate lia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Guys on OLD asking to prove you're realI mean, I use my real name and real school in OLD. Just because lots of people lie doesn’t mean i should. I hold myself to the same standard i hold others. And you know what, I’ve never met anyone from OLD who catfished like you had met. Do you want to date “Michael” from Harvard for a month only to find out his name isn’t Michael and he didn’t go to Harvard? If you don’t want to be truthful, it’s up to you and I get why you meet guys who aren’t truthful either. If you don’t put any information … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Guys on OLD asking to prove you're realI don’t know about you, but I thought it was standard to be 100% truthful in the profile. Also I’ve listed my school and job so it’s fairly easy to find me on LinkedIn. If a guy asked me to prove my identity, I would think that A) he does not expect truthfulness to be standard and B) he can’t do basic research | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:44 PM |
| 51 | How much, if at all, does a guy's past sex life matter to you? What behaviors or details would be unacceptable to you? Is dating guys that have not dated before the safer option? What do you do if you can't get over one event from an otherwise perfect man's past (before you were together)?I generally wouldn’t date a guy who used to have casual sex. Furthermore, if he ever had sex with hookers, that’s an absolute dealbreaker no matter how perfect he seems otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 04:42 PM |
| 22 | Standards and abundance contradict each otherHappy cake day! I’m the same. I still look for other people, but just never actually had a roster because 99% of candidates get next’ed within a day 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 04:28 PM |
| 12 | Should I tell her?It seems she knows what’s going on. I would tell her once and leave it there. Whether she takes action it’s up to her. Your friend is a grown woman after all and she is responsible for her own life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 04:17 PM |
| 11 | I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycleThat response is 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:57 PM |
| 17 | Guys on OLD asking to prove you're realExactly! Like when you’ve already exchanged 10 texts talking about your hobbies and then he asks if you’re a real... guess how many digits his IQ has 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 08:05 PM |
| 19 | This man is a joke, and gross, and I don't know why I'm wasting my time explaining things to him.“Innocent look clean and tasty” Wtf. Does he talk to his mother like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:34 PM |
| 20 | Guys on OLD asking to prove you're realYeah no decent person would ask that question in the first place. It’s just rude and dumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:33 PM |
| 25 | Guys on OLD asking to prove you're realLol if he only matches with bots, there’s a reason. If other humans don’t want him, you probably don’t either 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.I think toxic people like to approach people who seem nice and easygoing (thus more willing to put up with their bs). And they would try your boundaries at first. If you don’t say no, they push further and further until it becomes abuse. There’s nothing wrong with being easygoing, but it’s important to establish your boundaries in the very beginning. If they don’t respect it, cut them off. You will make high quality friends naturally, if you remove the negative people from your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:21 PM |
| 31 | How do you deal with guys who look down on you?It seems like they’re projecting. They think you’re stupid because it’s them who are stupid. And you’ve noticed that they’re not smart enough to comprehend certain things too. So why not date someone who meets your intelligence level? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.I had an extremely toxic friend before (details in another comment somewhere on this thread). And my other friends told me that the reason she was friends with me was because I put up with her bullshit. Why didn’t she abuse others? Because others would have left the very moment she became toxic. I didn’t have the courage to leave, so she abused me. I don’t know about your personality or anything, but if you feel you always attract toxic people, then maybe there’s something about yourself that en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:32 AM |
| 51 | A reminder that Tinder is a place for scrotes in arrested developmentHahaha I’m laughing now Kind of a big deal = I have weight problems People know me = I am the town bicycle 🚲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.No worries! I totally understand your point of view. I think that since women are often taught to be soft, we are often taken advantage of (by all genders!) and we really need to be assertive sometimes. I was too afraid to cut people off in the past as well. I let a toxic friend abuse me for years. We lived in different time zones and mine was 3 hours ahead of hers. She would oftentimes call me at 2 am (which was 11 pm for her) to complain about the same things over and over. And each time she w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 02:51 AM |
| 3 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Yes, you came off as condescending and entitled. But since you apologized, let’s move on to the next part. While it’s nice to find resources to someone who’s abusing you, it’s definitely not necessary, and a woman is not doing anything wrong if she decided to just cut off her abusive friend for good. For example: suppose a woman is abused by her boyfriend. He has commitment issues, self esteem issues, all kinds of issues. And the reason he has those issues is that he was abused as a kid. The wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Thankfully, all of the comments agree any guy who refuses to use protection is a total loser. Pleasantly surprised here. Sis kicked the guy in her story to the curb 🙅🏻♀️I’ve never been on the pill and will not be either. Relationship or not, condom is a must unless I decide to be pregnant. It seems to me this guy cares more about getting himself STD than getting women pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 01:01 AM |
| 7 | Ugh just totally turned off right away 🙄Sis, don’t lower your standards just because the majority of men are low effort. Is Hinge popular in your area? When I used Hinge, about 60% of people who “liked” me sent a message. Some messages were ridiculous or boring, but maybe 1 out of 5 messages were thoughtful enough to have a convo with (that makes roughly 1 out of 10 who ever sent a like. Putting the attractiveness of their profile into account, I would match with 1 out of 20 who liked me). Yes sometimes I wouldn’t match with anyone ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 12:56 AM |
| 16 | Thankfully, all of the comments agree any guy who refuses to use protection is a total loser. Pleasantly surprised here. Sis kicked the guy in her story to the curb 🙅🏻♀️The guy in the comment says he wears condom unless he’s in a relationship. Which means A) he has casual sex (with condom tho) and B) relationship means no condom for him. I don’t know if this is high value tbh. But he’s for sure better than the bottom of the barrel who don’t wear condom with hookups | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 11:28 PM |
| 28 | Ugh just totally turned off right away 🙄I mean.. he already proved his low effort by only “liking” your photo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 11:13 PM |
| -3 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Ok first, I did not put words in your mouth the above comment or any “other comments” and second, I have voiced my opinion clearly and whether you (or anyone) choose to agree, it’s up to you. I have no wish to make you agree with me if you don’t, and guilt triping and gaslighting are not good ways to start a discussion. So if by “having a discussion” you mean that, then no thanks. Again my opinions are clear. I said what I said. The post flair is not “discussion” anyway and I have no wish to dis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:16 PM |
| 3 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Absolutely! And if helping yourself first is a “controversial” opinion here, so be it. I don’t care about what toxic people think just like I don’t care about what incels think 🤷🏻♀️ my audience is HVW and women who strive to become HVW. And as long as my post is helpful at all to my intended audience (which, from your comment and other HV comments I’ve seen, it is!), that’s all what it’s for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:04 PM |
| 2 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Thank you. Yes, some people are self-absorbed. Have you read what they wrote? Them them them it’s all about them. That’s why they don’t see a problem draining others emotionally. Because the world revolves around them. We need to protect our own mental wellbeing. And that includes cutting out people who don’t reciprocate. Doesn’t matter how they defend themselves - they will try to guilt trip you and tell you it’s your responsibility to take care of them (because don’t forget it’s all about them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 1 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Exactly!! They encourage their sons to treat women like trash because A) they treat themselves like trash and B) they treat their friends like trash. Otherwise who would have raised those horrible men? HVW and HVM parents? 😂😂😂. You said these types of females often get a pass, yes. But don’t forget it’s not the HVW that give them the pass. They usually don’t get a pass from HVW. They get a pass from each other. Just like incels get a pass from each other. Example: when an incel said some misogyn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:19 PM |
| 1 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Lol have you been the toxic friend to others? No one wants to be abused so no one should abuse others. And being toxic to friends by emotionally draining them is abuse. No one wants that. The comments here are not saying we should leave friends who are in abusive relationships. We’re saying we should leave friends who emotionally drain and abuse us. Or are you saying it’s ok to abuse others just because you’re a victim from abuse too? I’m saying everyone should put themselves first and if that m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:59 PM |
| -1 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Given that she confirmed she’s been the toxic friend to others... makes perfect sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:40 PM |
| 27 | I do not owe you a date just because I’m single !The trash takes itself out! Anyone who thinks that way is extremely misogynistic and don’t deserve a chance with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 05:59 AM |
| 10 | And here we have a classic neg!Got a penny bro? 💰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 05:45 AM |
| 1 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Toxic friends are NV because they bring negativity to your life. Luckily I don’t have friends like that now. I had a few when I was younger, but dropped them long ago because I decided to not put up with toxicity. And my life has been much happier ever since I cut them off. I only made this post to bring awareness to other people who might find it useful. Being in an abusive relationship does not equivalent to NV. Being toxic does. And it’s not my responsibility to perform rehabilitation for the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 05:24 AM |
| 43 | Lord help this woman 🙏Ok... so does it mean 27 bj and 5 anals? Or 2 bj and 5 anals? Serious math problem. Can’t be bothered to care about her story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 05:08 AM |
| 4 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Yep. “I have been abused” isn’t a get out of jail free card for being shitty. Just because you’ve been abused doesn’t mean now you can abuse others. I’m fairly certain everyone has more or less experienced abuse at some point of their life. The difference is, some people decide to play victim and blame all their failures on the abuse, while some people decide to focus on themselves and level up. I’m glad your friend is cutting off her toxic friend. No one wants or needs that much negativity in t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:46 AM |
| 3 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Maybe they think they wouldn’t find anyone better if they left their NVM partners (which tbh is true. Trash with trash. NVM with NVW.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 11 | We need to set boundaries with toxic women too. Don’t waste your time beating a dead horse. Some people just can’t be saved.Yes!! Put YOUR mental well-being first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:28 AM |
| 27 | Some men just want women that come with dramaAbsolutely! Usually people are attracted to what they’re similar to. But shit tier men are attracted to everyone and everything 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:22 AM |
| 10 | Wait until he finds out I can do calculus!! *Ladies, I’m not overreacting when I say this bothered me, right?*Eww. You’re talking about vaccines and suddenly he gets horny. Ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:55 AM |
| 3 | This whole post.. but that last line after it’s clear she’s unsure/uncomfortable😐Hm unless he has multiple girlfriends at the same time. Otherwise he wouldn’t pull the “asking gf to do whatever” to other women because other women aren’t even his gf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 12:19 AM |
| 62 | Why do guys open by saying this? 🤢🤢Lol who cares why he said what he said? Unmatch this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Become the bachelorette yourself, don’t fight for a man’s attention.Hahahahaha this is a scrote dude not a sis 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:21 PM |
| 7 | This whole post.. but that last line after it’s clear she’s unsure/uncomfortable😐She will (hopefully) learn from her failures. Or maybe not. After all many people like this can’t and won’t be saved. They will complain about their problems and ask for your advice. You give them very thoughtful advice in every possible way but they just disregard it and keep doing things their own way. And then they come back to complain about the same problem again. At the end of the day you’re just their emotional dumpster. Sooo...don’t even waste your time trying to save them. And I know sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:17 PM |
| 19 | This whole post.. but that last line after it’s clear she’s unsure/uncomfortable😐After reading the last line... yeah some people just can’t be saved. Please stay with him so he wouldn’t do this to other women 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:00 PM |
| 8 | every apology from LVM everLol I’ve actually only used that once 😂 Funny that the first and only time someone ever said “sorry you feel that way” was in an academic setting. A girl in my class pulled that shit on me because I disagreed with what she said. Then I responded with that. Minus the “no one cares” part, but it still made her face turn green 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 40 | The second they question your boundaries, standards, value, expectations, and start decreasing their effort TRUST their actions. There is a message in the way someone treats you, just listen. Life is too short to waste on LVM that feel emasculated by your radiant spirit! Take your dignity and go!Lmao you aren’t too smart, too beautiful or too strong. It’s them who are too dumb, too ugly and too weak. And you don’t need a man with big hands. You don’t need a man with small hands. You don’t need a man at all smh Edit: of course this was written by a man wtf 🤮🤮🤮 stop telling women what to do, Michael | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:06 PM |
| 6 | Can a relationship survive without sexual attraction?Yeah and to OP - in your countless earlier posts, whenever people told you to leave the relationship, you would argue with them and say “but one person can’t satisfy all your needs?” or that your bf was actually good and that you feel you’re the one that’s not good enough for him. So...why? What exactly are you looking to hear? I can’t understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 09:02 PM |
| 7 | Am I talking to a true HVM or a LVM in disguise?He doesn’t have a college education - I would automatically write him off from this. But different people have different standards and if it’s not a problem for you, read below: If you feel something is off, trust your guts. He’s trying to get your sympathy by telling you his high school sob stories. Also he didn’t work hard as he should because this and that? He’s blaming others for his own failures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:54 PM |
| 16 | A little levity but entirely HVM behavior lol.lol is this praiseworthy? I thought this was normal. I would cover up for anyone if she’s with me and my family. I have actually done the exact same when a friend visited my house as a kid. It’s basic decency to not make your guest embarrassed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:10 PM |
| 55 | every apology from LVM everMy go-to response to “sorry you feel that way” - “I don’t feel anything. I’m just pointing out what you did. Whether you want to improve yourself is up to you. No one cares.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:01 PM |
| 66 | I can’t decide which one is more shameful here...the girl, the guy, or the parents letting this happen.The trash parents. I’m genuinely sad for this girl. Her parents made her a pickmesha and she’s ignorantly happy about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:56 PM |
| 62 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaperJesus. These are some real beggars | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:53 PM |
| 31 | Why is it that when a woman expresses that a guy is treating her poorly, men assume that she’s aiming out of her league?Projection. They’re salty because men try to shoot out of their league and get zero/negative response all the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:26 PM |
| 27 | Meghan Markle: Lessons in Not Tolerating Disrespectknowing her heritage, her deigning to even look down at this family of peak white trash makes me think less of her, not more. Totally agree. This was exactly what I thought, when I first heard about her (which was after her engagement. I knew nothing about her before that). As a POC myself, I know that any POC with some self-respect would not marry into a family that outrageously disrespected and exploited your ancestors’ blood and bones. Disgusting to even think of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 32 | Meghan Markle: Lessons in Not Tolerating DisrespectI’ve heard similar things too. Literally no one has a single nice thing to say about her ever. I don’t understand why people idolize her either. Just because she married way up? So a woman’s value is defined by her marriage now? Meh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:27 AM |
| 2 | This was his opening message. What did he think he would achieve?It is worse than tinder! Everyone, I mean literally everyone on hinge is also on tinder. And yes it’s easier to vet on tinder because at least the trashy people don’t feel the need to pretend that they’re not. The only thing I liked about Hinge was that it encourages you to report... but it doesn’t do shit because they always come back with a new account the next hour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:15 AM |
| 41 | Dinner + “Movie” = SexAbsolutely! Do whatever YOU want and don’t give a shit about what others think, as long as you’re not inconveniencing others. Bring self defense items if you feel they might be useful. Tbh I never thought this was a problem until I started to browse Reddit a few months ago. I’ve been to dudes’ houses quite a few times in my life. Some of them were dates. Some were friends. There were times I stayed for days at male friends’ houses. No one has ever done anything inappropriate in the slightest. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 02:32 AM |
| 40 | Online but won’t respond?Girl, drop him. He’s not interested in talking to you. You’ve done everything you can. Now don’t text him again and if he texts you, I wouldn’t respond. He has lost his chance for good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:23 PM |
| 11 | Wants kids someday but writes like this? 🥴🥴LVM!!Undergrad degree? Lol probably from University of Hard Knocks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:11 PM |
| 306 | Dinner + “Movie” = SexLmao he did “everything right” so he’s entitled to “at least a kiss”? r/niceguys Also “defenetly” lololol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Hinge’s “most compatible” algorithm is totally wrong and racist. It doesn’t seem to be based on your usage data as they claim to be.The good thing about tinder is you wouldn’t know who liked you unless you like them too. So even if some low tier men swiped right on your profile, you wouldn’t be notified. But Hinge lets you know each and every guy who liked your profile. All the uneducated despicable ugly males who “swiped” on you would go to your “liked you” queue and you have to manually remove them one by one. Truly disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:53 PM |
| 6 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.Lmaoooooo they must be really triggered because they’re also barking up 6-figure dudes with their (at most) high school degree and inability to write a complete sentence 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:38 PM |
| 8 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.Lol there’s probably a correlation between their audacity and their inability to get into a college. The common denominator is their stupid deluded brains. I don’t know why you’re downvoted. Someone’s mad I guess 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:55 PM |
| 22 | "Not all men are like that"Not all 14th century rats 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:06 PM |
| 126 | This type of gaslighting is still abundant on mainstream Reddit subs. WTF is this absurd comment??A wild mad incel appears! The mad incel uses “Gaslight”! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:04 PM |
| 9 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.Yeah small differences can be nice. I’ve always thought you have to be at least 80% similar to be compatible. And the 20% of differences allow both of you to learn new things. But huge differences like “you earned a PhD from Harvard he barely graduated high school” or “you like reading alone and he likes parties” are a big disaster and in no way will you complement each other if you’re THAT different 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 22 | A rant about my mother's "dating advice" and her pickme ways.Just be yourself and talk about what interests you. If they’re interested too, great. If they’re not interested, they’re not for you. Anyone who suggests you pretend to be someone else in dating is projecting their own failures on you. That “you take him to a museum he takes you to a hockey game” thing makes zero sense. Why reluctantly go to a hockey game when you can find someone who also likes museums? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 04:25 PM |
| 14 | How many women have you dated that you need to include all of these disclaimers?If women disappear when he asks them out, chances are he’s being inappropriate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:04 PM |
| 4 | Something i learned while using OLD for yearsOh you’re right! It should be “your attractiveness determines the highest quality of people you can attract but not the lowest”. But I think the lowest of the low males feel entitled to everyone? They feel entitled to top models and they feel entitled to women not so attractive. If you act aloof, it will repel some of them because they will just move on to the next female animal they see, right? And since they cast such a wide net they probably don’t have the time and effort to shoot down everyo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | I waited for 30 seconds to make sure he read that, and unmatched! 🙌🏻Hahaha on point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 05:28 AM |
| 15 | Where are we likely to meet HVW friends?I’ve met most of my friends from school. They are truly amazing and I’m so happy to have known like-minded and high value people like them. Not everyone from school is HV, like another commentator said. But like attracts like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 04:59 AM |
| 213 | "I'm looking for monogamous and serious minded but for a girl who's cool to start casual [so I can put in next to zero effort and then easily leave when I find someone I like better]"“No hookups! Serious FWB only!” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 03:45 AM |
| 41 | Just a pickme's hot take on the South Korean feminist movementHot Korean men ain’t got no interest in her. They have standards too 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 03:40 AM |
| 23 | I waited for 30 seconds to make sure he read that, and unmatched! 🙌🏻My thought is either some women (you know, his female counterparts, the boring kind who can’t hold a conversation just like himself) reply to it, and the conversation goes like this: “nothing much wbu” “nothing lol what’s your snap” and then they exchange Snapchat. And then they might sext or exchange nudes because neither of them know how to hold a proper conversation. Orrr, he’s had less than 5 matches in his whole life and genuinely doesn’t know how to be attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 03:34 AM |
| 17 | Male friendsSorry to hear about your mom. I want to let you know that having real friends who happen to be male is very normal. That’s what friends are for. I have some male friends too and they are very good people. None of them has said or done anything that a female friend wouldn’t say/do. From your post I can tell you’re a HVW. You know your standards and you know who you want to be friends with. I’m not even surprised that your male friends are respectful, good people too. Like attracts like. You are w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 11:42 PM |
| 11 | Should women thank their date for the dinner or other expenses?If a stranger holds the door for you, do you thank her? Or when a waiter takes your order because it is his job, do you thank him? If your answer for both questions is yes, then absolutely. If your answer for any question above is no... then you do you, and I have no advice or you 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Have any of you ever been in an argument with a man and he keeps pressing for you to over explain your side until you feel crazy?Personally, I haven’t. But I imagine if a man kept pressing after I had already explained clearly, I would think he’s an idiot and leave. I’m not wasting my time debating with idiots. Like everyone else said, what he’s doing is emotional abuse. He wants to manipulate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Totally my type 😍 /s😱😱😱 The difference between one human and another is greater than the difference between a human and a rat, I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:55 PM |
| 8 | Why do (older) men have trouble telling apart “I am attracted in her” from “She is attracted to me”?Yeah exactly. They are unable to think in other people’s shoes. I’ve known a few people like this (both women and men, and not in dating situations). One common trait they have is they can’t read non-verbal cues, like you mentioned. Like they wouldn’t know they’ve offended you unless you say it directly. Seems very psychopath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:52 PM |
| 8 | Why do (older) men have trouble telling apart “I am attracted in her” from “She is attracted to me”?Your organs, including your brain, deteriorate as you grow older... 😂 But seriously, I don’t know if this is an old men problem. I’ve met 23 year old men saying the same crap. And not just men. I’ve met women behaving like that too. I think it has something to do with their inability to empathize - and that’s because they’re either narcissistic or they have low IQ preventing them to think in other people’s shoes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:35 PM |
| 15 | Totally my type 😍 /sGuess how many matches he’s ever got from bumble 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:24 PM |
| 9 | 😳Only incels lurk on women’s dating subs and get mad. Get a job, bud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:21 PM |
| 5 | This guy (M, 36) I am talking to does not believe in abortion. Abort mission?Drop! He thinks he’s owed sex and your womb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Grandma Hattie is totally a pickmieshaDestiny sounds bitter af. Probably because the best restaurant a man ever took her on a date is McDonald’s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 32 | Girls, so I'm trying this new game on Hinge called 'have the audacity of an average white man ' and it seems to be going down a TREAT lol! 10/10 recommend. Scrotes be knowingNeg him! Tell him something like “you look ok in your picture but the angle just doesn’t suit you” 😂 or if he listed his job, tell him that his job is meh and that anyone can do it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Hinge’s “most compatible” algorithm is totally wrong and racist. It doesn’t seem to be based on your usage data as they claim to be.Now I don’t use Hinge either! Trash app. When I used it and as soon as I saw a new “most compatible”, I would remove him asap. Otherwise they would 100% like my profile 🤮🤮🤮 like just because the app is trash and recommend me to them, don’t they have their own brains?! Ten times zero chance is still zero 🙄 and ten times negative is more negative (in a way that it turns a “no” into a “fuck no” - kinda like when someone way below your league superliked you on tinder) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 02:38 PM |
| 64 | Something i learned while using OLD for yearsTotally agree! I’ve been using OLD for a year now and most people I’ve interacted with were respectful. Tbh I haven’t really experienced those crazy entitled scrote texts like I’ve seen posted here - although it made me so angry to know that somewhere out there, some deluded males think it’s ok to harass women with those pathetic texts. I’ve felt that although your attractiveness doesn’t determine the quality of men you attract (you can be very attractive but some deluded ugly men might still ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 04:18 AM |
| 23 | Yes, perfect opener for all the other women to go "pick me pick me" so that random people you don't know validate your date's hotnessHmm then he must have an ugly personality to match it up. People tend to date within their leagues. Otherwise what is he trying to say? That he has very low standards? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 47 | NVM doesn‘t even try...Army = automatic no 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 11:13 PM |
| 154 | Yes, perfect opener for all the other women to go "pick me pick me" so that random people you don't know validate your date's hotnessIf he dates someone so ugly that random people feel the need to comment on it, he’s probably not much more good looking himself 🤷🏻♀️ birds of a feather | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:35 PM |
| 29 | An unpopular truth all girls should know: if you are considering casual encounters, only go for the hottest guysIt’s natural selection! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:48 PM |
| 23 | Could the feelings I have about my relationship be a result of BPD?I’ve read some of your other posts and I think you’re on the right path by seeking professional help. Most of us here are not professional therapists and we can’t diagnose your mental conditions. People have suggested that you leave the relationship and focus on yourself. I see that you’re not happy with these advice, and you want to convince people to give you different advice. At this point, I really don’t think you can benefit much from making multiple posts about the same question here. Peop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Significant age gap relationships. Why I dont like them.Oh god ew. Friendships with pickmes are never worth it. They add zero value to your life at best, totally ruin your life at worst | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:46 AM |
| 35 | "Meet up" "Hang out"Yep. They are the ones who expect you to pay for your own tap water AND have sex on the first date. That audacity 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:17 AM |
| 6 | Significant age gap relationships. Why I dont like them.I had a 24 yo friend who dated someone 32... and I quit being her friend🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:13 AM |
| 78 | are men ok?He’s too ugly and he doesn’t get more than 2 matches. Because if he had more than 2 matches, he wouldn’t write essays trying to argue why you shouldn’t like yourself 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:10 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on last minute dates ?No | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:05 AM |
| 25 | What do you do when a man who isnt your type is trying hard ?Never give your number to someone just because you want to shut them up. Because it will do the opposite!!! It’s painful to read stories like this 🤦🏻♀️ But since you already gave him your number and he’s now harassing you... block him or tell him to stop harassing you. If it doesn’t work, tell the HR. If it still doesn’t work, call the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:03 AM |
| 53 | A 16-year-old girl stabbed her best friend in the back because she thought she wanted to steal her boyfriend.Another reason to not be friends with pickmes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 04:57 AM |
| 19 | How to respond to this? We had a great time. He was super respectful and sweet but he started responding less and less due to a backwards school schedule and a few other problems.Don’t reply. You already said bye, and he said bye, and that’s it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:35 PM |
| 110 | Why do men's pants have such big pockets? To hold the audacity...“I just noticed I texted the wrong [name]...who’s this?” Lmao this is a sad neg. Nice try though. I could smell that desperation from the screen 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 03:57 PM |
| 15 | Going on date with guy who isnt my type ?Um, probably not. If you’re not attracted you’re not attracted. Just because most people don’t meet your standards doesn’t mean you should lower your standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 03:47 PM |
| 5 | No pictures of himself and a copypasta beating around the bush about what sounds like some kind of sex cult thing, lovelyYou can only imagine his face is more laughable than this word vomit 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:00 AM |
| 26 | No pictures of himself and a copypasta beating around the bush about what sounds like some kind of sex cult thing, lovelyLmaooo I feel like OkC is full of reddit incels who are unafraid to write an essay about their unsolicited opinions, but too afraid to show their face 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 03:51 AM |
| 134 | Just why.Once a desi pickme tried to convince me that rape culture is “natural” and “they’re just being nice by showing their interest”. Just why? And who told you I wanted creepy cheap interest? Pickmes like them have made other desi women’s lives harder than they already are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 03:45 AM |
| 139 | Can't afford glasses but can afford a new carThis shameless old gold digger is tryna scam off someone 7 years younger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:43 AM |
| 41 | Y’all! Snort came out of my nose 😂Omg he’s way too delusional to think any confident and intelligent “female” would want anything to do with him. Not even those who are intelligent but lack confidence. Not even those who are confident but unintelligent. Someone dumb and lacks confidence and extremely mentally unstable, maybe 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Fear of “glowing up”?I don’t know exactly what you mean by “glowing up”, but you definitely don’t have to talk to anyone you don’t want to talk to. And they don’t have to be rude. It’s totally fine if they’re polite but you just don’t want anything to do with them. Just tell them you’re not interested in talking to them. Or ignore. Personally if a stranger approaches me in public and it makes me uncomfortable, I flat out ignore. If they’re very polite and don’t make me uncomfortable, I politely tell them I gotta go.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 09:51 PM |
| 16 | He didn’t call me for our first “online date” so I blocked& unmatched him. He messaged me on whatsapp- should I give him a chance?That’s a lot of words. And he started every sentence with “I”. Don’t even waste your time to read that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 8 | One-linersUnmatch. I never entertained those boring shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:53 PM |
| 32 | Text god website? So dude made some interesting points but number 3 made me go 🧐 he also mentions women like ‘primal animal sex’ like the fudge that’s supposed to meanLmao sounds like they’re teaching men how to behave if they want women to leave the date early 😂 debate with her all the time sexually harass her talk about her breasts And boom! She’s guaranteed to leave within 10 minutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 08:27 PM |
| 15 | Being upfront about wanting a HVMHmm, I don’t know. I feel like women who ask that question have different intentions than men who ask that question. From my observation, men who ask that question early on are 100% fuckbois. What they really mean is “who should I pretend to be in order to get free sex from you”. I totally agree that forcing him to wait for sex weeds out the liars. But I feel like you don’t have to show all your boundaries with words. You don’t have to write an essay about what you want and don’t want. Showing w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 15 | Cohabiting before marriage?a good husband would take over some household chores if the wife is tired or sick. No. A good husband would take over some household chores even when the wife is perfectly healthy. If I were a wife, I wouldn’t pay 50/50 and I wouldn’t do all the household work. It seems that you think it’s a wife’s responsibility to do all the chores (unless she’s sick or tired). While I think a lot of LVM will agree with you on that, I really can’t agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Cohabiting before marriage?Well if you believe a wife should be a free live-in maid, then I have nothing to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:20 PM |
| 6 | Cohabiting before marriage?For sure. By wife perks I didn’t mean “bangmaid” - although lots of LVM think they’re the same. I just meant “benefits of having a wife” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:14 PM |
| 12 | Me: a mentally and emotionally tired black woman; Him: a white man with no understanding of boundariesReport his ass. It seems that he feels superior as a white male by spamming around questionnaires to black women. He is racist asf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:09 PM |
| 14 | These boys really don't know how to sell themselves...Pineapple pizza Jim Pam 🚫🚫🚫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 9 | I have created an HVM. You're welcome, ladies.The message made me cringe so hard. It reminded me of someone I rejected in 2013 and haven’t been in contact thereafter. If he suddenly texted me with that exact message “just to catch up and say thanks”, I would have felt very weird. He sounds either extremely narcissistic or up to no good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:59 PM |
| 32 | Being upfront about wanting a HVMYou don’t spell your standards out. You sit back and observe. Also, anyone who asks “what are you looking for” before the first date is up to no good. I would not reply to that question at all. If he asks that question after we’ve known each other for a while, I would reply something generic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:45 PM |
| 26 | Cohabiting before marriage?I would do it after engagement but before marriage. Before marriage because it’s crucial to test out our living habits before actually getting married. After engagement for the reasons everyone else mentioned. Men want to cohabit with their gf ASAP because A) they want the wife perks without a wife and B) it’s harder to break up & move out once you live together, so you tolerate more of his shit. Every cohabiting couple (just bf-gf, no engagement) I’ve known has lots of issues. The women always … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:42 PM |
| 25 | All the comments are about how they’d rather get lettuce instead of flowers because they can eat it. So they’re okay with $1 lettuce as a 1 year anniversary gift...lmaobecause they can eat it And she’s the one cooking it! Surprise! 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 03:20 AM |
| 51 | Lol the 'nice guy' approach of men way below your leagueHAHAHAHAHA I’ve written a dating profile for him (and he’s only on dating sites like Hinge or okc where he can send unwanted messages to women without matching with them): My love language: physical touch and emotional intimacy I’m looking for: not just sex. Maybe a relationship if everything turns out well I’m the type of texter who: will reply in seconds. No drama I’m weirdly attracted to: cute girls lol Most adventurous thing I’ve done: playing video games for 30 hours straight lol My greates… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Playing dumb is IT!Or better, just blocking him without replying anything 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:20 AM |
| 13 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitYou’ve already talked about this issue with him and he didn’t do anything effective. He’s made it clear that he didn’t care. I don’t think communicating again would be useful. Just leave his low value ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:16 AM |
| 24 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitOmg yes calling exes crazy is a huge nope. You are your social circle. And if someone decided to be in a relationship with someone that crazy, then it makes me think he is also crazy. Birds of a feather lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 01:10 AM |
| 19 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitYep exactly. Having your partner telling your ex to leave you alone is extremely low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:59 AM |
| 30 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitBut obviously blocking doesn’t work because she’s using different accounts. Again it is his job to deal with her and so far he failed to do so. You shouldn’t have to worry about this at all, if he was a HVM. Feel free to leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:09 PM |
| 77 | I’m trying my best not to lose my shitIt’s not your job to deal with her. It’s his. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:55 PM |
| 50 | Don't let anyone ever pressure you into saying yes to something you do not wantThis woman in the picture is a real queen. DO NOT accept the ring and return it later. Someone who tried to manipulate you into saying yes will manipulate you into keeping the ring. Think shops with shitty return policy. You bought a defective product. You want to return it but they just won’t let you. You took photos and videos but they still refuse to let you return or refund you. In the end you’re so exhausted so you keep it. It’s easier to refuse the ring at the first place than trying to re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 41 | Don't let anyone ever pressure you into saying yes to something you do not wantMaybe because it also embarrassed his parents for raising such a shitty son? Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:03 PM |
| 69 | Do friends who have made sexual advances toward you deserve an explaination as to why you're cutting them out?Lol, no. They’re not your friends. The “friendship” is one sided. You see them as friends, but they certainly don’t see you as a friend. Don’t mourn over someone who doesn’t see you as a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:58 PM |
| 11 | The Economics of SexI think the video forgot to mention something. It mentioned: A) there are more men than women in the “looking for casual sex” category; there are more women than men in the “looking for marriage” category B) therefore men can afford to have as much casual sex as they want before settling down I don’t think A by itself implies B as the video suggested. A would only imply B if women in the “looking for marriage” category don’t have standards and are agreeing to casual sex. It could be that they be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 08:50 PM |
| 4 | FDS thoughts on starting a business with your boyfriend/significant other?Like everyone else said, big nope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:37 PM |
| 18 | Be careful out there ladies! This guy was acting creepy on tinder so I unmatched. Despite me having different versions of my name on Tinder and FB, and living in a big city, he found me on Facebook and messaged me.That’s so not ok. I know FDS suggests ignoring and blocking all the way, but in this case, if he kept harassing you, I would let him know that I’m ready to get the police involved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:03 AM |
| 51 | When I first saw the comment I thought it was a joke.... then the picture. #CancelMen2020Wow. I hope she sees this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:54 AM |
| 7 | Don’t take OLD too seriouslyYeah true. Friend of a friend is for sure more serious than randos because he risks losing his reputation if he behaves shitty. But I feel like people you meet at events, bars, bookstores, etc (people that you don’t have mutual friends with) are in the same category with OLD guys and they might take longer to vet because they don’t throw their red flags upfront. Edit: There was a guy I met at a reading club that I attended weekly before the pandemic. He tried to hit on me but I low key rejected … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 04:41 AM |
| 38 | Don’t take OLD too seriouslyUm the majority of guys off dating apps are also emotionally unavailable, and it’s harder to tell because they don’t lay all their baggage up front. It takes me 2 seconds to write someone off from reading red flags on their profile, but it’s impossible to notice those red flags within 2 seconds of interacting with the same person in real life. Idk about your age and maybe that plays a factor, but OLD is a normalcy for younger people. It’s just a platform to meet people. Every single person I’ve … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:09 PM |
| 97 | **LVM; it’s not even always ‘a taste of their own medicine’ it’s just saying ‘enough is enough’“why didn’t you just tell me to stop??” Wow what a man baby. You already told him to stop and even if you didn’t, it wasn’t your job to teach him how to behave. He deserved a huge pepper spray on the face. He had that coming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 08:25 PM |
| 42 | What the actual fuckAnd if a woman is dating a short man, she’s either into kids or...into kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Would you ladies ever ask a guy out on a date?Hahaha i laughed so hard at the picture 😂😂😂 If we’re in a relationship, maybe. Otherwise no. Asking a guy for a date doesn’t do you any good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:18 PM |
| 181 | He loves God but he loves hitting women moreWhat the fuck! Report him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 6 | He also said women shouldn't wear t-shirts when they go out. 🙄Loserrrr. I would block at the first message. Hope you blocked him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:08 PM |
| 26 | [update{Guy who refused to split the billHahaha “why aren’t you meeting those girls anymore?” Because those girls realized they’re better than him in every way and stopped putting up with his bs 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:04 PM |
| 6 | Why do lots of LVM think they’re going to be rich and you’re going to end up poor, ugly, and regretful for not picking them?Revenge fantasies. And they’re stupid enough to say it out loud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How to block a guy who has your phone number?First of all, why would you give him your phone number at all if you were afraid he might be inappropriate? But anyway, just block. If he texts from his friend’s phone, block that number as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Is this normal for a HVM to say?Ew creepy. It isn’t even normal for most LVM to say. I imagine a NVM or ZVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:51 PM |
| 39 | Lvm looking for a bjReport report report | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 02:45 PM |
| 5 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayYeah this is my concern too. I know for sure that Bumble will put them back in the pool if you unmatch them. Not sure about tinder though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:19 AM |
| 6 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayWhen someone says they can’t get a date I suppose it’s because they’re too unattractive for anyone to like them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:14 AM |
| 12 | Hinge’s “most compatible” algorithm is totally wrong and racist. It doesn’t seem to be based on your usage data as they claim to be.Most of them are. A few of them are not (but they made it clear in their profile that they fetishized my race). And ew. I’m sure all the non-Asians on an Asian dating app have a fetish. Why are they poisoning the minority communities with their fetish? I feel like they shouldn’t be allowed on minority dating apps. Like you must be Asian in order to sign up for an Asian dating app. It’s called East Meets East not East Meets Weebs 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:32 AM |
| 16 | Hinge’s “most compatible” algorithm is totally wrong and racist. It doesn’t seem to be based on your usage data as they claim to be.Lol funny they have race filters but not height filters (not for free users anyway) 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:20 AM |
| 13 | Hinge’s “most compatible” algorithm is totally wrong and racist. It doesn’t seem to be based on your usage data as they claim to be.I live in a major city and there are some well-mannered, well-educated and attractive people on the apps... like 1 in 2000. But yeah most of the time dating apps are an insult to your eyes. And Hinge is worse than Tinder because at least Tinder doesn’t try to convince me I’d be “most compatible” with uneducated racist neckbeards 🙄 It gives unattractive people false hope, yes, but I find it extremely hilarious that some people seem to think they have “access” to you just because you’re on the sam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:13 AM |
| 47 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?If they don’t send a first message within your desired timeframe, they lose their chance with you. Unmatch them if it makes you feel better. If you’re messaging back and forth and the conversation tends to go in a way you don’t like, don’t reply anymore. OLD or not, most people are low effort trash. You gotta get used to ignore people who don’t deserve your attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:53 PM |
| 81 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?You’re* 🙄 Girl, don’t message them first. They’re not worth it and you’re giving them more audacity than they already have | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:30 PM |
| 13 | Hinge’s “most compatible” algorithm is totally wrong and racist. It doesn’t seem to be based on your usage data as they claim to be.Right?! I feel like they’re purposely trying to match the most attractive women with the least attractive men for whatever reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:19 PM |
| 12 | Hinge’s “most compatible” algorithm is totally wrong and racist. It doesn’t seem to be based on your usage data as they claim to be.You’re right. And the most compatible thing gives the bottom of the barrel losers more audacity to harass women 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 10:21 PM |
| 31 | BlockingLol reminds me of a post I saw here yesterday about a guy using a new number to text OP just to tell her she hurt his feefeez by blocking him... 😂😂😂 that’s why we need to do what’s best for us and not give a fuck about their petty feelz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 10:11 PM |
| 23 | DON'T.“NO hOoKuPzZ! FWB oNLy! 🤡😜” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 09:06 PM |
| 30 | Hinge’s “most compatible” algorithm is totally wrong and racist. It doesn’t seem to be based on your usage data as they claim to be.Yeah I totally relate. I have a graduate degree and 80% of “most compatibles” they suggested were uneducated unemployed racist neckbeards. Those are the people I’ve never come across in my social circle and never will. Just what the fuck. Maybe they believe education is useless to women and that top tier women are good matches to shit tier men. Plus the racist part. That makes Hinge both sexist and racist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Is waiting to kiss someone an unreasonable standard to have?You don’t have to do anything you’re not comfortable with! Personally I don’t feel comfortable kissing anyone who’s not exclusive with me, and I stick to my boundaries. They either cater to my boundaries or they leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 07:19 PM |
| 13 | No thank you.Omg hinge is full of trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 142 | OP’s boyfriend manipulated her into thinking she had body odor, because his dad thought him how to neg womenHe is a piece of shit and his father is also a piece of shit. Surprised there were someone willing to fuck his father. If someone tells me I have body odor, I’m gonna kindly ask him to fuck off and find someone who doesn’t think I have body odor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Ladies! How many red flags can you spot in this one-sentence bio? 🚩🚩🚩It’S iMpOsSiBlE bEcAuSE aLl gIrLZ aRE cAtFiShES wHo lOoK LiKe a 3 iN pErSoN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:13 AM |
| 15 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolOh haha I didn’t know that! What a blow to their fragile ego 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:32 AM |
| 256 | LmaooooMy degree lets me buy whatever I want whenever I want. It gives me more happiness than those 200 randos who super liked me on tinder will ever do 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 12:21 AM |
| 34 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolLmao hurt him again by blocking him a second time then!!! Serious question though - how did he know he was blocked? Was it on iMessage? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 24 | 😬I hope she has enough self respect to drop him (although I really doubt it since she seems to think it’s funny) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:00 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, how to react to this? Details in comments.Yep ignore and block! He hasn’t met you yet, should you expect him to prioritize you? YES. First of all he doesn’t even respect you. You deserve respect and basic human decency regardless of whether you’ve met him or not. Second of all, even if it’s someone who has basic human decency, he should also prioritize you if he wants to pursue you. If someone doesn’t prioritize me, I take that as a sign of disinterest and they’re out. Especially if it’s early in the relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:41 PM |
| 6 | Let's count all the red flagsI stopped reading at the age gap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:32 PM |
| 5 | He also told me he cheated on an ex but he was “just being a guy”Sure he’s veryyyy picky, but I’m sure anyone who fits in his standards is way out of his league and won’t talk to him at all 😂 He is one of those stupid unattractive men who like my Hinge profile every day only to make me roll my eyes and vomit in my mouth 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:30 PM |
| 46 | HVM behavior 👏🏼Maybe she prefers Dior jewelry than all other brands. Maybe brand names and designs give her more happiness than quality. I don’t think it’s a HV behavior to attack on someone’s tastes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:12 AM |
| 12 | He asked me to pick up the check and I caved. Help.Hahaha 👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:11 PM |
| 10 | How to tell you're being fetishized for your race?I feel like if he’s white but grew up in a predominantly POC area, unless the POC population of that area is more than 90% (and suppose that means only one type of POC), I would still feel something’s off if he only dates one race. If he has a step parent of a different race and that results in him only dating that race, I’d say it’s a fetish. I’m not familiar with Eminem at all so I can’t say anything about his dating life or whether he has a fetish. is it important to factor in why he has that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 64 | He asked me to pick up the check and I caved. Help.Yeah I’ve done the same! I can pay for my own meal, but if he lets me then he’s out. I’m not gonna have a debate/explanation with him and in public about who should pay on dates. Every guy who let me pay turned out to be an incel too lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:46 PM |
| 12 | He asked me to pick up the check and I caved. Help.Yup same. Explaining yourself about this will only make him add you to his “horror dating stories” to tell his buddies about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:37 PM |
| 41 | He asked me to pick up the check and I caved. Help.You: I still don’t understand. Please explain? Him: well I paid for this round so it’s only fair if you get the next one. And then he’ll tell everyone that he went out with a “gold digger” who played dumb just to get his money. I would probably just say “ok” (like OP did) but find an excuse to leave before the next round | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:33 PM |
| 29 | How to tell you're being fetishized for your race?If all his exes are your race then he 100% has a fetish. Or that he says he’s ultra interested in your “culture” (I’m not talking about those who have a PhD in cultural studies. I’m talking about those who don’t know shit and only talking about it hoping to get your interest. It’s so insulting). Or that he talks about races all the time. Or he says nasty things about your skin color (e.g. “chocolate”). Last but not least, if you feel something is off, trust your instincts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:10 PM |
| 49 | I just learned from AskMen that men don't need to wear sunscreen! Because women are attracted to older men. I realized I actually am attracted to men who look like thisWho’s attracted to skin cancer? Also all my male friends know to wear sunscreen. Some of them carry sunscreen everywhere they go. Guess they’re not rEaL mEn then 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:35 PM |
| 47 | Another day, another woman with standards is shamed by LVM and Pick Me’sDon’t give a f about what LVM and LVW think. You’re not dating them anyway so their opinions don’t matter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 07:30 PM |
| 34 | 🧐🧐 Don’t let yourself or your daughters be involved with a man like this (or your son be one)… pedophiles exploiting the vulnerable minds of young teens via an age gap.Lol yep! And they’re despised by girls their own age... cus when I was 20 and saw boys looking like that I would immediately think about bums and increase my walking speed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 07:28 PM |
| 10 | Scrotes deny being predatory and encourage large age gaps!Omg yes you said everything I wanted to say... just because something is common doesn’t mean it’s good. Cigarette is common. Racism is common. Low IQ and lack of education is also common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:17 PM |
| 9 | Addressing the 'tough love' commenting in the FDS community.I agree with the OLD part too. Many times I saw people commenting “OLD is low value” / “if you’re on OLD you’re cheap and easy because you’re willing to meet with total strangers” / “it’s OLD what are you expecting”. No. It’s just a platform to meet people. And the whole “cheap and easy” BS can be said about irl too - because they’re willing to talk to strangers who approach them in public. Also, I think I’m a HVW myself. And if I’m on OLD, there are probably HVM who use OLD too. I vet carefully… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 01:58 AM |
| 7 | Sounds like his mama didn’t teach him how to behave.Aunty, come get your crotch goblin please!!His mama probably disowned him already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Oh manlets and their requestsYep when a broke nobody does it, it only makes him look more like a homeless bum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 04:11 PM |
| 11 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*Wow what an ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Lmaooooo what a catch 😂😂😂Lol I once matched with a guy who claimed to be a movie connoisseur and he only knew American commercial films. 😂😂😂 And he was like “yeah I grew up in the US so I haven’t heard of international films” 🙄 unmatched right away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Lmaooooo what a catch 😂😂😂I don’t mean to disrespect any of those countries. What I mean is, there are lots of Americans who like to claim they’re a mixture of 6 cultures or so, while they never left the US, can’t speak anything except English, and know nothing about any of those cultures. And he sounded like one of those people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 02:22 PM |
| 192 | LOL Andrew is already being a total stick in the mud about commitment and Tommy is taking me out immediately at a set time and placeI hate it when men want to get something immediately from you without getting to know you at all.. desperate as fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 05:19 AM |
| 6 | Lmaooooo what a catch 😂😂😂He’s too neckbeardy to be traveling abroad at all. I bet he never left the US. Those flags are more like he’s looking for women from those countries, or his mutt “heritage” lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 05:10 AM |
| 5 | How long to wait before for OLD match to initiate conversationHahaha tbh I write off 95% who didn’t message within a day of match too, but said 3-5 days just to be safe 😂 now I think of it, 24 hours is a better advice. But unmatch whoever you want whenever you want! If you feel them sitting in your match list is an insult to your eyes, unmatch their ass 🚮🚮🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 04:06 AM |
| 8 | How long to wait before for OLD match to initiate conversationI’m not quite sure what you mean but if you’re wondering about initiating yourself, don’t do it. If you mean “how long do you wait before you write them off”, I would say 3-5 days. If a guy matched with me but waited for 3-5 days or more to message me, I automatically discard that message unless he has a legit reason such as traveling in space 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:31 AM |
| 8 | Dating in times of CoronavirusGirl idk... I wouldn’t consider meeting in a pandemic HV. I have not met anyone for more than 3 months and don’t plan to do so anytime soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:17 AM |
| 46 | Do you respond to men’s texts that are statements with no questions about you?If it’s a long/interesting message and I like him so far, I might reply ONCE. But if he follows with a statement again (two statements in a row), I won’t reply because then it feels like I’m the only one carrying the conversation. As for your situation, I wouldn’t reply. Not only because his text doesn’t warrant a response - it also shows his lack of interest. I wouldn’t entertain someone who’s only halfhearted about dating me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:14 AM |
| 30 | Why did I let boredom convince me to swipe on OLD. 🤦🏻♀️Lmao “there won’t be contact anytime soon” I bet he will text “hey” in 5 days 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 12:53 AM |
| 33 | A lot of great points were made on my last post to stay off apps geared towards plus sized people, so I'll be deleting this one. But the audacity of gross scrotes when I swipe through makes me need eyebleach.Hahahahaha how about these two fine gentlemen have sexs with each other | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 12:51 AM |
| 21 | The day before our first date! He’s been asking me out for weeks and now he reveals himself!!Lmaooo if he’s worried about being catfished, chances are he’s the catfish. It’s projection 😂 But how come this lil rat hid himself well in weeks? I’m really surprised because usually scrotes can’t put on a facade for more than 3 days Edit: typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 09:38 PM |
| 61 | Oh manlets and their requestsI can’t understand middle finger pictures. Just why? Who are they trying to attract with that attitude 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | I Said This Before and I'll Keep Saying It, No One is Entitled to You Giving a Clear "No." YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO STAY SAFE!This! If you want to cease communication, cease communication. You don’t owe them a “I don’t think there’s chemistry”. Your actions tell that. Irl I think it’s a good idea to always carry something for self defense. Scrotes get mad when you say no, scrotes get mad when you ignore them, and scrotes get mad when you’re indirect. Basically they get mad unless you say yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:23 PM |
| 37 | I refuse to be with a man that cannot keep his own house clean.And this guy said he liked my ass 😍😍😍 my domestic beauty is a bonus 🤪🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 02:09 PM |
| 10 | I refuse to be with a man that cannot keep his own house clean.She might think he’s a hater because I loVE hIm hAtERz gO aWAy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 02:03 PM |
| 198 | I refuse to be with a man that cannot keep his own house clean.A pickmesha’s comment section is a reflection of the LVW she is. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 04:03 AM |
| 7 | How do I put an end to excessive compliments?Lol some people just can’t write a complete sentence without typos/grammatical mistakes 😂😂😂 Either that or they just don’t think anyone reads profiles (and that’s because they don’t read profiles themselves!!!) Anyway blank profile = automatic nope 👎🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 04:00 AM |
| 7 | How do I put an end to excessive compliments?Yep if he can’t bother to read your profile he doesn’t deserve your time! Also it’s one thing to not read profiles, and it’s another thing to not read your profile and mock you about it. That’s just rude af. I would have reported him if it’s a serious dating site. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 9 | Boyfriend fed her cumcakes as just a joke 🤮What the fuck? I would feed him shit brownies and kick him out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:40 AM |
| 9 | How do I put an end to excessive compliments?I don’t reply to “hey how are you” or other generic openers. I saw your edit and I think it is a hard no if someone just likes your photo/prompt. Hinge gives them the option to comment on your profile and start a conversation, and they simply choose not to. Anyone who likes my profile w/o a message can guarantee 100% that they don’t get a match from me. To answer your question, I would continue a conversation if their message is unique and thoughtful, shows that they’ve read my profile and genui… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:30 AM |
| 26 | How do I put an end to excessive compliments?Yeah if you feel it’s insincere then it is. They’re just horny. Usually I just ghost/unmatch. But if I’m feeling spicy, I reply “tell me something I don’t know 🙄”, see their reaction, and then ghost/unmatch no matter what their reaction is. They’ve already proven their worthlessness by sending horny compliments in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 01:22 AM |
| 7 | Attention all dominant women, what are your thoughts on somewhat feminine soft boys?Do you mean shy guys? Or passive as in they don’t initiate? I’ve only dated shy and introverted guys and they always initiated conversation and dates. My point is, if a guy is interested, he will initiate, no matter how shy he is. If someone only replies but doesn’t initiate, he’s not interested. I used to give some guys the benefit of the doubt because “he’s just shy and maybe it’s my turn to initiate”, but it was never worth it. They were just not interested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:28 AM |
| 7 | Attention all dominant women, what are your thoughts on somewhat feminine soft boys?Yah same. I’ve never liked the macho type. But “soft boy” isn’t an excuse for being passive. You gotta vet them like everyone else and don’t overlook red flags just because they’re somewhat feminine. If he doesn’t initiate, is passive, etc, then you know it’s a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:12 AM |
| 23 | Energy ParasitesSome people are just toxic. They act entitled because they think they’re the center of the universe. They see everyone else as tools. They text you because they want validation. They pretend to be nice to you because they want reciprocation. It’s all about them. I hope you didn’t reply to him. He was either playing mind games or he was bored and wanted some quick and easy attention from you. When he gets what he wanted (“power” or attention), he will ignore you as ol’ usual because he never care… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 09:28 PM |
| 7 | Pickme's are gonna pickme. I half expected the guy to write "tips fedora" as well. 🙄lol who cares about what some rando anonymous reddit guy thinks. He can call FDS whatever he likes, but that’s not gonna make him less of a pathetic incel. The fact he was mad about which sub an internet stranger posted on proves he’s a sad human 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 07:29 PM |
| 19 | Did anyone else used to think they were high libido just because that’s what men like?Lolll I’ve always known I have a very low libido and I’m very open about it. I never had unwanted sex with anyone. Yes I’ve experienced a few times when the guy I was dating tried to push, but I was firm about no. I don’t care about what they like. They either respect it or they can leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 07:14 PM |
| 30 | Pickme's are gonna pickme. I half expected the guy to write "tips fedora" as well. 🙄If that’s a real woman then I’m sorry for her 🙄 I always have a hard time telling apart pickmes and incels on the internet because they’re all the same 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 07:01 PM |
| 28 | When is it safe to start initiating contact with a man?Agreed! I made the mistake by initiating conversations with guys I wasn’t in a relationship with, and it was never worth it. Almost every time they started to lose interest & put in less effort the very moment I texted them first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 04:56 PM |
| 39 | Ladies, the bar continues to be so deep beneath the floor that it is in HellReport-worthy. Don’t you just feel insulted when someone like this likes you 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 04:49 PM |
| 77 | When "doing the dishes, talking a walk, trimming his beard" are considered romantic 🤢“I get up at 5 to put on my excessive makeup and costumes and make him a huge breakfast with special latte. He reciprocates by brushing his teeth sometimes.” Pickmes gotta pickme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 10 | OKAY WTF sexual harassment thru FaceTime?You could try looking his number up. It’s very possible he called random numbers just to harass them. Never pick up video calls from unknown numbers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 07:33 AM |
| 32 | Found on craigslist in my cityEven if this dumbass hired someone, he would be reported for catfishing. Lol stupid af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 07:22 AM |
| 149 | This is messed up on so many levels. This is not ok. He raped her and she needs to report itHe groomed her. Holy fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:02 AM |
| 23 | I was disappointed this OP thought this was sexy, but the first comment said everything I wanted to say. Glad to see smart women on other subs!Hahaha the comment section is more wtf. Pickmes screaming their desires for this scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 12:01 AM |
| 35 | Scrote Realizes that dick is low value on OLD: Post from r/hingeHahaha at least this dude realizes why just “liking someone’s photo” on Hinge will almost guarantee him zero match at all 😂😂😂 I wonder why he still hasn’t been banned by Hinge if he’s looking for “fun nights” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 22 | Guy from tinder - the distanceYes multiple red flags! Besides asking you to meet in a pandemic, he also wanted you to take public transport (no ventilation and high density of people - the best place to get sick). And he had the audacity to ask you to travel all the way to his city. Pandemic apart, if he was remotely decent, he would have asked to travel to you. Or find a middle point at least. He has no respect for your health and your time. Edit: just read your post again and he got offended because you didn’t want to take… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 11:40 PM |
| – | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.Yes sis!!! This sub helped me so much holding to my standards and not texting LVM. I would have made a clown out of myself if I didn’t have you ladies’ support 👑👑👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 11:27 PM |
| 11 | I was disappointed this OP thought this was sexy, but the first comment said everything I wanted to say. Glad to see smart women on other subs!Ikr? I bet he doesn’t even graduate high school | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 11:19 PM |
| 16 | Second disappointing man in one week. My major, apparently, is cute.Hahaha that too! A racist sexist scrote I met in college who harassed me for years studied marketing. And that was because he couldn’t pass Calc 1. Lol dumbass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 10:20 PM |
| 28 | So ladies, I have a red flag, identifying activity.First of all how did you attach multiple pictures? I don't know how to post more than one 😂 and the red flags I spotted are: he sounds creepy asf. "you look sweet beautiful cutie" EWW NOPE. He sounds horny. aside from punctuation and typos, he's entitled af by proudly stating that he thinks it's a woman's job to take care of him. I know this is probably not PC but is he Indian? cuz he really gives me that vibe lol "I'm bored entertain meeeee" "don't hate me if I'm rude or sexist. I warned you" "… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 10:14 PM |
| 21 | Second disappointing man in one week. My major, apparently, is cute.Lmao he sounds like he studies history. Or philosophy. Vomit. Bye Felicia 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 09:52 PM |
| 43 | What a keeper. Wish I could find me a man like this. 😍He meant “the mom”. Though I would kick his weed ass out of my house if I were his mom. And I love how he uses depression as an excuse 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 09:45 PM |
| 9 | I couldn’t be more insulted whenever something like this happened. Also dude claimed he’s 6’ and looking for “something fun”. What were they expecting when they liked my photo? Get lost. 🙄😡Omg you’re so right. Creepy ugly low value men on dating apps shooting way out of their league gives me the exact same feeling of being sexually harassed. I feel physically disgusted and literally want to puke whenever someone 10 leagues below like this showed up in my notifications | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 09:34 PM |
| 20 | Even during a global pandemic / national uprising they want to get their rocks off ... on POSHMARK.Hahaha I’ve done that irl too! Fuck em | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Even during a global pandemic / national uprising they want to get their rocks off ... on POSHMARK.👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:39 PM |
| 51 | How many red flags can you spot in this 1 tinder bio? From start to finish, all sorts of wrong, yuck🤮Lolll I love this. I haven’t read other comments yet so sorry if some of those are repeated. Here they are: “No time wasters” - he is prob the biggest time waster Dude couldn’t differentiate : and ; 5’11 is not a perk. Tattoos are not a perk either. “I’m hilarious and ridiculously good looking” - dude, you have pictures on your profile. Let your pictures speak whether you’re good looking or not. No one cares if you think yourself is ridiculously good looking. From this line, I only read “I’m bor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:32 PM |
| 110 | Even during a global pandemic / national uprising they want to get their rocks off ... on POSHMARK.Girl... don’t reply to “can I ask a question”. It will 100% be something lewd. If they really had a legit question, they would have asked right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:18 PM |
| 7 | I couldn’t be more insulted whenever something like this happened. Also dude claimed he’s 6’ and looking for “something fun”. What were they expecting when they liked my photo? Get lost. 🙄😡I did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 12 | Is it just me or do guys who are into you off of Tinder/Bumble move on reallyyyy fast if you don’t respond?I never message first on tinder. And I don’t respond to generic or boring openers. Those clowns weed themselves out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?Exactly! What was he expecting when he texted, after ignoring me for more than a week? He should expect to be ghosted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?He was probably not as great as you thought he was. Yes he wanted you to put in more effort. But instead of communicating it with you, he chose to play mind games. Do you want someone who can’t voice their needs properly? I say good riddance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 08:41 PM |
| 32 | Rejecting a LVM like a bad bitch 😏🍹Yep. Silence is a message. If she wanted to reject politely, no is a complete sentence. It was painful to read her long paragraph trying to explain herself to him. All these “I’m smart and I’m complicated. I’m like blah blah blah” NAH SIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:35 PM |
| 9 | YOOOO DO Y'ALL WANNA READ THE RED FLAGS I MISSED WHILE I HAD A CRUSH?That was so painful to read. I’m sure the difference between someone like that and a decent human is more than 1%. He does sound more stupid than a chimp. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:28 PM |
| 96 | What you can expect from late 30 somethings.Late 30s and talks like this? Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?I already explained my perspective and what I meant by that sentence. If you just don’t want to believe, it’s up to you. I don’t care what it sounds to you when I already explained clearly and I don’t care what you choose and choose not to believe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?Yep I’m not gonna reply at all! He lost his chance a week ago. And I’m grateful you ladies helped me see it more clearly. Thanks for sharing the story. It may sound weird, but I don’t wear makeup to impress others. I wear makeup because it makes me feel more confident. If I’m in a relationship with someone, then he will see my bare face most of the time, but nice clothes and makeup really helps with my self-confidence when I’m talking to strangers (date or not). But I absolutely agree with you, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 10:15 PM |
| 29 | How to tell a guy a 'walk in the park' doesn't live up to your date expectations.Tbh... I wouldn’t tell him. I would just write him off. He has proven his low value by 1) suggesting to meet in person during a pandemic and 2) suggesting a low effort date. In my opinion “walk in the park” dates are lower value than video chats during these times. I would ghost him at best, block him at worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?Yes he’s from OLD. He first asked for a video chat after 2-3 days of talking, but I wasn’t comfortable since I usually like to vet for longer before agreeing to a date, and I feel video dates are too low effort from their part (because we still need to spend time on makeup, hair and stuff but they basically need to do nothing). So I told him I would like to talk for longer, which he was respectful. We texted daily for 2-3 weeks but he didn’t plan anything else. Then the conversation just fizzled… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 05:17 PM |
| 10 | Is this LVM/NVM behavior?Ew. He’s not a LVM. He’s a NVM. Honestly I would do the same as you and just leave. He doesn’t deserve any explanation. If your friend is willing to tolerate this shit, then I feel sorry for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 06:54 AM |
| 22 | Men never listen to me - especially detailed questions.Lol same. He got mad when I was right and he was wrong. Lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 06:51 AM |
| 11 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?Hahaha truth. I once dated someone who literally told me he checked his phone every 5 mins. And he would take hours to reply to my texts. Lol all scrotes are the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 06:45 AM |
| 3 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?We were just talking for a few weeks and haven’t met in person. So there weren’t any expectation. But like you said, I feel that he hasn’t prioritized me. Men are supposed to put their best selves during the early stages and if he already made me feel like an option, I can’t imagine anything good out of it. But I might be wrong since I never gave a second chance to anyone who disappeared for 3+ days lol. Would you be more lenient if no expectation was set? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 06:37 AM |
| 6 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?Lmao that audacity. Now I think of it, I would never disappear on a potential partner for a week and come back later. If I’m interested, I wouldn’t disappear at all. If I’m not interested, I would disappear for good and not string them along. And everyone knows no one is batshit busy these days unless they’re essential workers (which he is not). I didn’t reply and will ghost his ass for good! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 5 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?Thank you sis! ❤️ I will lose 100% of my respect for him if he has the audacity to come back again 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 7 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?You’re right... if they’re truly busy they would have mentioned that beforehand, not after. The only reason I can think of is he was talking to someone else and it didn’t work out, so he tried to find some validation from me. So gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:50 AM |
| 24 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?Yep you’re right he probably only came back to me because someone else ghosted him! If he’s interested he wouldn’t disappear for a week. If he’s HV and not interested he wouldn’t reach out again at all. The only explanation i can think of is what you mentioned, and he’s looking for validation. Ewww so gross. I’m not the recycling center and I don’t want someone else’s leftover. Will ghost his ass for good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:46 AM |
| 36 | Ladies: Do you tell men you’re in a relationship with about beauty treatments you do?I personally haven’t done beauty treatment/plastic surgery etc, but I’m very open with makeup. If they ask, I will always tell them the truth. I won’t say “oh I’m not wearing any makeup” when I am. Makeup is not something I’m ashamed about and if a man has problems with that, we’re done. Same as beauty treatments. If you feel like you have to lie about your beauty treatments, then the relationship is probably not good for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 09:34 PM |
| 13 | Pickup Artists Will Always Be Pathetic (Cringe)Lmao he looks and talks like a PUA that approached me on the same street TWICE, a week apart 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 10:46 PM |
| 26 | Pickup Artists Will Always Be Pathetic (Cringe)These women were too nice! They even answered his questions and explained to him smh I’ve experienced the SAME thing. A creepy PUA approached me and my friend and said the same shit (“oh you have a 911 iMpoRtAnT conversation?”) when I told him we were having a conversation. Then I said “important or not, I said we were having a conversation and we would prefer you to leave.” Dude was speechless and called me rude. Lmaoooo 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | In your opinion: What kind of mistakes and hiccups could a HVM possibly make, as opposed to the mistakes (red flags) a NVM/LVM exhibits?There might be things that irritate me but don’t irritate others, and vice versa. However, I don’t believe in “hiccups”. It either fits in my standards or it doesn’t. If someone does something problematic, then it’s a red flag. Maybe they will change in the future, but it’s not my responsibility to change them. I can only assume they wouldn’t change and ask myself if I’m ok with it as a continuous behavior. Edit: I also hate the word “hiccup” when it comes to problematic behaviors. Sounds very p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 40 | LVM (specifically white) are uncomfortable talking about issues the concern the oppression of any minority.I’ve seen white males writing “I care about minorities” on their dating profiles while looking for a threesome. It’s beyond disgusting. And it’s always them - “male feminist”, “I care about minorities as a white male”, “ethically open relationship”, “open-minded aka poly” always go together. I don’t really have any white women friends either. Many of those I met in real life seem like extreme pickmes who put male validation before everything. Race does not play a factor in who I want to be frien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:25 PM |
| 41 | I Don’t Want to Date Men Who Are 10-15 Years OlderThey know what they’re doing. They’re just embarrassing themselves. They know they’re approaching someone young enough to be their kid. What are they expecting? You don’t owe them any explanation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:21 PM |
| 26 | LADIES I NOTICED SOMETHING IN MENYep the trash takes itself out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:14 PM |
| 24 | Maybe more women will listen to this because it's a guy, but I know most of us already know this from experienceIt’s refreshing to finally see a man telling the truth. Very rare of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:03 PM |
| 135 | LADIES I NOTICED SOMETHING IN MENWhen you back off when someone says he only wants casual, it means you have self respect and you know that no means no. When a man does the opposite, it means he thinks no means try harder and he doesn’t respect other people’s boundaries or himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:59 PM |
| 8 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveI roll my eyes whenever some guy writes “I’m 6’x so you can wear your heels” in their profile 🙄 Big left swipe. whether I choose to wear heels or flats, it’s solely depending on my own mood. It has nothing to do with some dude’s height (or ego to be exact) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:50 PM |
| 16 | The difference between standards and value (are good looks synonym with high value?)I totally agree. Your standards are your own, while value is universal. Standards are about what you have (or what you want someone to have) and value is about what you do. I’m also sad to see when some people here associate height, money, etc with HV/LV. Someone can say she only wants to date a 6’7 model who makes $800k per year and that’s totally ok - they are her standards. Even if she’s ugly and only makes minimum wage. She is entitled to her standards. How possible is she gonna date someone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:44 PM |
| 76 | He went for a kiss after I told him I wasn't interestedHe knew you weren’t interested but just wanted to “shoot his shot”. That’s sexual harassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 04:04 AM |
| 89 | Hell no. I worked my ass off through the toughest of times to get where i am, there is nothing wrong with wanting a financially stable man and breaking it off if he cant build a financially stable life with melol this is so problematic. It assumes women can’t own properties. I’m not gonna abandon my own car to sit at the bus stop with someone. If a guy can’t keep up with the lifestyle I’m having now when I’m single, then he’s not a good match. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:36 AM |
| 63 | Honestly just thought this was so funny, I mean what else do you say back to that? Of course I am beautiful 100% of the time!!I would not say anything back. The beautiful question sounds like a neg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 50 | Ladies.. this “advice” 🚩This is actually good advice for those who can’t take no for an answer. The scrotes who have the audacity to ask for “another chance” after I CLEARLY rejected them should all read this. Like find someone within your league and stop fucking bothering me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:55 AM |
| 13 | What would happen if all women using dating apps... stopped? 🤔Same. I have zero interest talking to strangers when I’m out in public and tbh if someone approaches me on the street, I automatically assume he’s a PUA. It’s true that 99% of OLD is trash but it’s the same with real life. Also LVM are better at hiding their red flags when you meet them irl. I’ve known people from real life who seemed decent, until I came across their dating profiles that were full of red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 08:31 PM |
| 10 | You guys, I'm laughing... this man got a WHOLE ASS LIST OF REQUIREMENTS. This isn't a dating profile, this is a job description.There’s a correlation between scrote-ness and audacity. I’ve noticed the most unattractive men seemed to have the most audacity/delusions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:56 PM |
| 14 | What’s the most cringe/worst/corniest line you’ve come across in a dating profile?“Not gonna message first. If you don’t send first message in 24 hours I will unmatch. And sorry I don’t have time to reply to all your messages.” From a guy that’s a 3/10 at best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:47 PM |
| 22 | Nominee for Pickmeisha MVPHahahahaha I wanted to say the same... age is just a number and mortality is just some statistics 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:50 PM |
| 27 | Told him I don’t cook for boys and that I don’t like giving massages... he won’t be getting anything from me. The audacity! We have only been talking for 4 days.Wow. Just wow. I don’t recognize the platform but I would either unmatch (if you’re talking on a dating app) or say “lmao who do you think you are” then block (if you’re talking on a messaging app) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:43 PM |
| 29 | This guy sent a DM complimenting a picture of mine. I said thank you and I appreciated it, then he jumps to this... no thanks bud!Lol I would say “yeah you’re right I don’t want to [......] with you.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:20 PM |
| 18 | This guy sent a DM complimenting a picture of mine. I said thank you and I appreciated it, then he jumps to this... no thanks bud!Yep. You don’t want to hang out with him. He’s right on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:17 PM |
| 31 | DON’T BE BORING.... Proceeds to be the most basic fuckboy imaginableIt’s projection 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:24 PM |
| 26 | DON’T BE BORING.... Proceeds to be the most basic fuckboy imaginableLol the Jim Pam pizza pineapple shit is not a personality. Or maybe it is. It tells people how boring you are 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:19 PM |
| 7 | Lol. How about no?Ew. Yeah lying is a huge red flag. No matter how trivial or harmless the lie is. It says a lot about the person’s character | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 08:08 PM |
| 28 | Came across this profile on Tinder - these type of men think they're funny, but it's honestly just very disturbing!That’s a huge copy pasta. I love how they’re stupid enough to think it works 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:26 PM |
| 20 | Lol. How about no?Ikr 😂 like get some education buddy 🙄 now I think he lied about his school too 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:19 PM |
| 64 | Lol. How about no?He first said I was the only match he got, then started talking about how I was not like “everyone else” he matched with. The “not like other girls” part is a huge red flag too, but the lying part is what disgusted me the most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:17 PM |
| 6 | How dare a woman waste my time by interacting with me in a non sexual way?Tbh... I didn’t read that. What I read is the opposite - he didn’t want her to interact in a non-platonic way because he thought she was hitting on him by sending those stuff. They are weird things to send to a friend. I don’t send those to female friends and I would feel weird if a female friend texted me lots of duck selfies/talked about her body and her hair all the time too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 03:28 PM |
| 15 | Reminder: shut up engagement rings are a thing. An engagement does not mean you are immune to LVM behavior. A LVM can be hidden for YEARS under a HVM mask and engagement is the PERFECT time for a man to use "building a life together" to justify LV behavior or pressuring you to lower your standards.Omg that audacity 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 09:30 PM |
| 75 | Imagine having this level of audacityWow. I wonder why his gf still hadn’t cancelled him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:40 AM |
| 18 | I thought I was saying a HVM until he got drunk and "dumped" me (minutes after telling me he loved me and saying goodnight), then immediately regretted it. Dumped, blocked, and deleted. As hard as it can be, I deserve better. Damn, it feels good not settling.What the fuck is this whole shit? He seems batshit crazy. Glad you blocked his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:39 AM |
| 12 | OLD is still trashI would unmatch him. No explanation needed. If he suggested coffee, I might give him a second chance depending on how inexperienced he is, since the internet is telling men that coffee dates are the best first dates and he might just be clueless, but walk around dates = nope 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 3 | No does NOT mean try again later!🤣🤣🤣 if they see this, I want them to know that they’re pathetic af lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 08:15 PM |
| 4 | No does NOT mean try again later!lol same. There was a scrote that I talked to for 2-3 weeks and he liked me again on the same app after a few months. And another scrote messaged me saying he wanted to “try again” a month after I clearly told him I wasn’t interested in dating him and wished him good luck. It’s just hilarious scrotes won’t take no for an answer. Like, can we have some self respect, bro? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:54 PM |
| 13 | No does NOT mean try again later!I have experienced the EXACT SAME THING. I think either they just blind swipe on everyone without realizing you’ve matched (and unmatched) before, or they genuinely don’t think you unmatched and stopped talking to them = you lost interest. Either way it’s stupid af and a massive eye roll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:31 PM |
| 94 | When a dude claims to be your friend and that he cares about you but only texts you to tell you he’s been incredibly horny. So what? What do I have to do with that?Then he’s not your friend. I despise it when people use the word “friend” so liberally. Friend means friend. Friend doesn’t mean acquaintance. Friend doesn’t mean someone you find useful. This applies to both female and male. I have one more rule for male friends though - if they have the audacity to say or do anything other than platonic, I lose respect for them and they’re not my friends anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:14 AM |
| 23 | Is it just me or are guys more eager than ever to meet up without even a conversation first?That’s why you don’t reply to low effort openers. Never worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:58 AM |
| 25 | hilarious- for the Pickmeishasuh account uh insurance annuity Uhhhhhh excuse me what????? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:55 AM |
| 126 | The 3 times I made the 'first move,' and why I'll never do it againYes it’s never worth it. Most men won’t reject you when you make the first move, not because they’re interested, but because they’re scrotes. They’ll just use you as a placeholder while looking for someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:51 AM |
| 11 | [Advice] How do you portray yourself as fierce and unassailable in public?I think the most important thing is be confident and not giving a shit. Then the fierce vibe will come naturally. It doesn’t matter if you’re short. I’ve known some short and strong women that you could just feel the “I take no shit” vibe when you walk close. Also carrying self-defense items helps A LOT. When someone approaches you, be very curt. Don’t worry about being “rude” when you’re not. And it’s ok to ignore when they’re clearly PUAs/scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:41 AM |
| 21 | Why does this seem like propaganda for being polygamous? It’s really annoyingI have no idea who the fuck Harry Styles is, but since you said it’s a Snapchat ad, it must be that they paid Snapchat for the exposure (and Snapchat agreed to feature it). I didn’t know Snapchat was this low. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:25 AM |
| 3 | I was harassed by a creepy old man in a shop and no one did anything to stop itNext time something like that happens, make a scene. Tell him what he does is inappropriate LOUD and make sure everyone else notices. Maybe take out your phone to record it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:17 AM |
| 27 | Why does this seem like propaganda for being polygamous? It’s really annoyingStupidity is growing in popularity these days, which is great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:07 AM |
| 115 | Why does this seem like propaganda for being polygamous? It’s really annoyingyou have the thought, Do I want to be poly? No, I don’t have the thought. And no I’m not interested in bonobos. I’m not interested in giving any bonobo the time of the day by hearing them talk either. That audacity made me laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:05 AM |
| 42 | Finally found my HVM ladies!!! 🤗 He's totally into talking about feminism with his homeboy and didn't even mean to let me know about it. Hello hubby 😍Hahahahaha reminds me of those “Blah blah blah blah blah oops I didn’t mean to send this but pressed send too quick” IN ONE TEXT 😂😂😂 He’s insulting your IQ, OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 11:05 PM |
| 9 | It’s almost as if they try to take the least flattering photo possible 🥴Same. Every time I open tinder only to swipe left on a hundred uggos ... such a waste of time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madBecause they have no friends to take a picture of them. And they think it’s gay to take selfies in public. So that leaves with car selfies and bathroom selfies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:07 PM |
| 4 | 4chan scrote creates a rating scale for women... of beautiful women who someone are not up to this man's standards...No wonder why they say even a 2/10 woman won’t look at them... lol. Because they would be negative on this scale | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:04 PM |
| 38 | Ladies, take note.1 - what the f is he drawing on the pancake? 2 - if he negs in his bio, imagine how much shit he would be if you matched with him 3 - “don’t know yet”? Coward can’t even say casual 4 - “moderate” again coward can’t just admit he supports trump | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madLmao I’ve never seen the fboy expression on someone this ugly! Ewww his brows make me 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 04:53 PM |
| 8 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madPoor kids. Imagine growing up with your dad, mom, and a bunch of “uncles” and “aunts” that are “best friends” with your mom/dad one day, but you may or may not see again. However this dude gives me a feeling that his wife doesn’t know he’s poly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 07:15 AM |
| 13 | Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doingThis. Because of the “anxious poor victims!!! Avoidant bad!!!” stereotype that books and media portray, I was always very self conscious and blamed myself whenever some issues happened in dating. I’ve dated an anxious guy who ignored my needs while asking for more and more it almost suffocated me. I felt exhausted, but I kept thinking it was my fault. I kept telling myself “I only feel exhausted because I’m avoidant...maybe I should be more considerate.” And I never DARED to ask anything of him.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:49 AM |
| 3 | Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doingbut I just want you to know that some of the dynamics that this attachment style can create have the ability to inflict lasting pain on yourself and others. This is. Like I said, OP (and many others with an attachment style other than secure) is aware and improving on it. You are literally blaming her for her attachment style, which likely formed in her childhood and she can't easily change. Edit: if you still can't see how that's blaming her, maybe change "avoidant style" to your own attachment… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:15 AM |
| -2 | Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doingYou blamed your ex’s shitty behaviors on the attachment style, and concluded OP’s attachment style can cause pain to herself and to others. OP posted this because she’s aware that her attachment style isn’t the best in the world, and she’s looking for improvements. You commented that you couldn’t relate and couldn’t give advice, and that you had bad experiences with this particular style. I don’t see that helpful in any way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doingSome of the dynamics that the anxious attachment style can create have the ability to inflict lasting pain on yourself and others too. Any style other than secure have that ability. And that’s 3 out of 4 attachment styles in total. Also, a securely attached person can be shitty too. Does that mean “some dynamics that secure attachment can create have the ability to inflict lasting pain”? If you can’t relate to this post and can’t give advice, good for you, but no need to shame the OP just becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:51 AM |
| 24 | Avoidant attachment style - what's helped me and what I've been doingDismissive-avoidant here. Thank you so much for the tips! ❤️ I couldn’t agree more with #1. We can only have a healthy relationship with a securely attached person. I tend to attract anxious guys in the past, so now I’m more aware of anxious behaviors and run when someone seems like they may be anxiously attached. We probably won’t start relationships with another avoidant person because none of us would need each other, so that leaves us with anxious and secure. And we just gotta weed out the a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:46 AM |
| 41 | Why would he do this? Why would he disrupt my peace knowing that I would be pissed.Maybe he only reached out and said he liked you because he was just dumped and needed some validation. Who knows. He sounds like a shit mess, and he’s not your friend. He basically used you. Friends don’t use & dump each other like tampons. He’s not your friend and you shouldn’t see him as one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:19 AM |
| 8 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madThat’s a good idea! But it can’t be popular and secret at the same time :( unless it requires a real female ID to log in, but then it wouldn’t be anonymous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 04:55 AM |
| 42 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madI’ve seen that shit on 22 year old’s profiles too... scrote-ness doesn’t believe in age 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:46 AM |
| 24 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madLooks like his wife is the bread winner and he’s a “home husband” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Game time!!! Imagine you’re getting these messages, which one would make your eyes roll the most? Rank them from worst to least worst 😂Lol my fav is when you like their profile and ask a question, instead of answering your question they just match. Rude as fuck. I made that mistake one or two times and quickly learned to not like anyone’s profile at all 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯Don’t blame yourself. It’s not your fault that someone abused you in a relationship. It’s 100% the abuser’s fault. And you’re not stupid or blind - if you were, you wouldn’t be on this sub at all. The comment section is pretty awesome and I believe they have pointed out all the red flags I spotted! Have fun reading 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:43 AM |
| 21 | That’s a no....Fat neckbeard ☑️ Forehead cracks ☑️ Desperate af ☑️ Grammatical errors ☑️ “Just joined” ☑️ Bingo!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:15 AM |
| 119 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madI report them every time but it doesn’t do shit. They always pop up with a new profile the next day. Even Hinge doesn’t do much. There’s someone on Hinge with an extremely vulgar profile (“looking for someone to braid my p*** hair”) that I reported and removed at least 50 times, but he always ALWAYS pop up again within the next a few hours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:59 PM |
| 48 | Is it just me or is this crawling with red flagsLol I’m 32 but I hide my age so younger women like you can swipe on me Fixed it there. Also his first message is full of red flags. I would not respond at all Another thing is, if 32 is not within your range, then he must have lied about his age to tinder as well, because otherwise you wouldn’t see his profile at all even though he hid his age. Regardless, I like how he threw at least one red flag🚩 in every sentence 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:33 PM |
| 18 | Is it just me or is this crawling with red flagsThe “hold on one second” strategy is genius! I should have used it on the last scrote who asked me to compliment him because he “needed some validation”. I just unmatched but I’m still kinda insulted by that audacity... your strategy would work wonders on him 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:28 PM |
| 80 | As the flair say, roast a scrote! Sure let me date someone who admits they are “hard to date” WTF!1 - looking for mommy 2 - “I’m an asshole but that’s ok BeCaUse iM a GuY” 3 - sounds like lots of baggage. No thanks 4 - idk why but he just gives me an uneducated vibe. Did he graduate from school of hard knocks? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 09:03 PM |
| 15 | Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯You got it! Only ZVM and NVM act like if they’ve survived 3 dates with a woman then they’re entitled to sex. They think women owe them sex - otherwise women just “waste their precious time”. Lol. You can just sniff their bitterness and desperation because they’re so desperate to get some | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 06:06 PM |
| 39 | Praise!So true. I completely ignored dudes in my teenage and college years, and those were the most fulfilling years in my life. I learned so many things and traveled to so many places. Ever since I started to date things have been going downhill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 04:28 PM |
| 28 | Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯Also him literally listing 9 requirements made my eyes roll. That attitude screams baggage to me. I agree they do better in real life because they likely don’t throw all these shit when you first meet them. There’s a guy i know from real life that I thought was a decent person, until one day i saw his dating profile that was very similar to this one. I know he probably had baggage from our interactions, but I didn’t know he had THAT MUCH baggage. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Game time!!! Imagine you’re getting these messages, which one would make your eyes roll the most? Rank them from worst to least worst 😂Haha chad got unmatched as soon as he sent that message 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 04:48 AM |
| 5 | Game time!!! Imagine you’re getting these messages, which one would make your eyes roll the most? Rank them from worst to least worst 😂2 is probably a copy pasta from some PUA forums... one of those “tOp 10 mEsSaGeS tHaT gUarAnTeE yOu sUccEsS”. If someone sees me as temporary, I see them as never. But maybe pickmes respond well to it because it gives them a chance to prove they are not like other girls? And about #1... I’ve known some pickmes but even if they’re pickmes, they hate deteriorate terms. I can only imagine the lowest of pickmeshas not being turned off by his language. He gave me a predator vibe that he’s looking for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 8 | Game time!!! Imagine you’re getting these messages, which one would make your eyes roll the most? Rank them from worst to least worst 😂My rankings (most 🙄 to least 🙄): 1 - he should wash his mouth in the toilet bowl 6 - I have 6 good photos and 3 interesting prompts he could comment on to start a conversation, and he chose the laziest way possible. 4 - it’s funny he thinks I’d be impressed by that. Plus, I fucking hate the word cute 2 - the audacity made me laugh. You think I’d talk to you for two weeks? Lol. How about never? 3 - just a very basic copy pasta 5 - hmm at least I’m glad he noticed that I’m not interested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 12:16 AM |
| 14 | Game time!!! Imagine you’re getting these messages, which one would make your eyes roll the most? Rank them from worst to least worst 😂Haha thanks I hope to see more roast a scrote posts from other people too 😂 And I agree, #1 is definitely the worst. I’m having a hard time ranking the rest though because they’re all kinda petty 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:54 PM |
| 28 | Game time!!! Imagine you’re getting these messages, which one would make your eyes roll the most? Rank them from worst to least worst 😂It’s Hinge, where guys can comment on any part of your profile (a photo or a prompt), but they can also just “like” without a message. The laziest thing a guy could do is to just “like” your photo without attaching a message to it, which this guy did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:49 PM |
| 23 | Me and my friends got harassedI bet their moms are ashamed of them. Better to raise a dog than raising sons like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Why are they asking for pictures?This is so true!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:35 PM |
| 14 | Why are they asking for pictures?Once a man on Hinge kept asking me for more pictures because he wanted to “make sure what I looked like” when I had 6 good non-selfie pictures in my profile. I told him 6 pics should give him an idea of what I looked like, and he asked for my social media MULTIPLE TIMES (“What’s your Instagram? Oh you don’t use Instagram? How about Snapchat? No? That’s ok... You must have Facebook right??????”) I got annoyed so I googled his name... and you know what he catfished about his education! He graduate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:34 PM |
| 54 | Why are they asking for pictures?No good will come out of it. If you already have plenty of photos on your profile, it’s really disgusting when some rando ask for selfies. Either they want something to masturbate to, or as another comment said, they’re putting a foot in the door and will ask for other things if you agree to this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:46 PM |
| 11 | #1: not your typical 22 year old but his bio matched his looks #2: good luck with that, broExactly! He seems like one of those who blame women for not cOmmUnIcAtInG and spelling everything out for him. He cAn’T rEaD yOur mInD! 😂 Though I’m more inclined to believe the reason he can’t tell if someone likes him is no one ever liked him... 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:09 AM |
| 17 | #1: not your typical 22 year old but his bio matched his looks #2: good luck with that, broI’ve frequently seen guys who say they’re 25-27 look like that, or sometimes worse than that (deeper forehead cracks etc). But 22? That’s a new record. Oh and also I’ve noticed more than 90% of the “just joined” profiles on Hinge look like couch neckbeards. Vomit. And yeah guy #2 sounds entitled and delusional as fuck... (#1 and #2 are two different profiles, sorry for the confusion) And I think you’re right he never sees the signs because no one finds his entitled ass attractive lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 10:39 PM |
| 31 | "I accidentally slept during the night because our baby kept waking me up and my poor husband who plays video games for 7 hours every single evening had to interact with her :( he's such a good dad! Am I the asshole?"He turned off the baby monitor so he wouldn’t hear the baby? What? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:40 PM |
| 11 | After he revealed he isn't actually a welder, he's saving for school.Lol he is so full of himself. “idk I feel this I feel that I feel it might be right idk idk I feel like giving this hinge thing a shot idk i feel I’m being interrogated idk if I said something that might have offended you idk just sayin” 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Is this real life? I can't even make this shit up.What the actual f? I can’t believe this shit. He sounds like a psychopath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:55 PM |
| 4 | I need help....Call the police and tell them you don’t feel safe with this harassment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:53 PM |
| 4 | Pickmes are honestly dangerous to womenClown comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:47 PM |
| 8 | Planned to go horse riding Thursday. First date. Did I over react?I wanted to say the same. Wtf is his grammar? It’s so painful to read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:43 PM |
| 18 | After he revealed he isn't actually a welder, he's saving for school.idk I just felt I’d give this a chance Anyone who says that is a loser. Run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageYou’re right... Profiles with attractive pictures and no bio are likely incel catfish too. Pathetic. Fortunately (or unfortunately) men in my area are uglier than average, making it easier to spot a catfish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:37 AM |
| 4 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageIt is a catfish! I reverse searched and that picture belongs to an actor/model named Froy Gutierrez Cheating incel couldn’t be more pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:09 AM |
| 4 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageSince he used someone else’s picture, I wouldn’t be surprised if he was just trying to match with Snapchat premiums sext and exchange nudes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:17 AM |
| 32 | This text was from a LVM I got tied up with about a year ago. He wasn’t even my boyfriend and bolted as soon as he got his notch. He was later accused of rape. Words are meaningless. Look and learn. Believe actions only.Yikes it looks like a copy and paste he sent to everyone...fake as shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageNo, Steve is a model, and Froy is also a model. That picture is Froy. Google him and you can see his other pictures. Froy is not a catfish. He has an IMDb page actually... just google his name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:29 AM |
| 5 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageLol sorry for the layout. Should’ve drawn a line in the middle or something. That’s the only collage app I have and it’s meh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageNo worries haha! The photo is stolen from another model named Froy Gutierrez. Not sure when that pic was taken but he’s 22 now. The cheating scrote had the audacity to catfish with someone’s photo at least 5 years younger... gross. I can only imagine the real Philipp behind the screen looks like Franky. 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:59 AM |
| 20 | Would you date someone who’s has morally gray ethics ?Same. Reading this made me mad. They stole $1000 worth of stuff and pretended they didn’t? What the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:39 AM |
| 72 | If he wants to marry you... HE’LL ASK!If he doesn’t ask after 5 years he won’t ask after you have two kids with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:37 AM |
| 11 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageWait I’m confused... you mean “Philipp” is the catfish? Franky is the fat guy on the left. Philipp is the cheating guy on the right. Edit: ok so I did a reverse search. Franky isn’t the catfish. Philipp is the catfish. And his real name is Froy, not Steve. Although they look very similar. I was really confused when you said Franky was a catfish because all his photos are bad and he really doesn’t look like a typical fashion model | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:24 AM |
| 7 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageI get what you’re saying... I just think it’s unbelievable because usually models post high quality pictures online and everything in this “Franky” profile was low quality couch selfies. Unfortunately I’ve already blocked him for “not interested in this person” Mind sharing Steve’s Instagram handle? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:01 AM |
| 38 | Would you date someone who’s has morally gray ethics ?Tbh... it seems they are both trash. She stole your stuff and he was ok with that. Yep. Sounds like they’re compatible. And no I wouldn’t date someone who steals, lies, cheats, whatever. Simply because I don’t do those shit myself and I don’t want a partner who would potentially get me into trouble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 12:34 AM |
| 155 | Ppppiccckkk meeee. This is disgusting. Who told this woman she needs a man this badly? TRIGGER WARNINGWhat the fuck! For a moment I thought “punish him traditionally” means secretly killing this bastard. If not, get him arrested instead of posting online! Wtf is she thinking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 12:26 AM |
| 51 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageLmaoooo he says he’s 25!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:52 PM |
| 17 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageHaha and “no outside opinions allowed”... lmao why is it that the most unattractive men have the most unhealthy crap? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:52 PM |
| 43 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageWait seriously??? He had 5 other trashy selfies tho... And what does he model for? Tractors? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:49 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?Hahaha it’s always the inexperienced and clueless dudes who try those delusional dumb shit. Sad. And when a woman doesn’t take their shit they get mad, because iT’s gUarAnTeeD tO wORK it’S fEmAlE pSYchOlOgy lmaoooo I totally agree when you take no shit from men, you give off this “don’t fuck with me” vibe that will repel most losers, which is fucking cool especially if you’re in bars. I had a pickme friend that I used to go to bars with, and we (she) got approached by bald old uncles all the fuc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:47 PM |
| 12 | Left: textbook red flags (can you tell what they are?) Right: ...... Quiz: guess left dude’s ageI’ve noticed ALL the “just joined” profiles on Hinge during the quarantine are like that, both look-wise and bio-wise. 🤮🤮🤮 I don’t think he’s trying to impress anyone. He’s probably just trying his luck and will get salty after a few weeks because he gets zero match | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?Yeah guys who claimed to be feminists are huge red flags. But the ones I met didn’t claim to be... they talked like completely normal and decent people until the check came. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:11 PM |
| 3 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?That whole PUA shit is stupid. Anyone with a 3-digit IQ can see through that shit. It’s funny scrotes spend thousands of dollars on PUA “training” thinking it would work. They might have better luck spending that money on a shower gel or something 😂 And yeah they’re so easy to sniff out. Guys influenced even the slightest by PUA have this loser vibe around them. You can just tell how insecure they are because their faked confidence is different from real confidence. I fucking hate the “power gam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:49 PM |
| 8 | He hasn’t asked me one question about myself yet, or even made me laugh. Why are we even talking about meeting yet? Clearly just interested in one thing overall. No thanks ✌️Yep... I would stop responding when he mentioned Netflix and chill. No need to explain yourself to some rando scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:21 PM |
| 29 | He hasn’t asked me one question about myself yet, or even made me laugh. Why are we even talking about meeting yet? Clearly just interested in one thing overall. No thanks ✌️His follow up question be like: “What’s your snap?” “What’s your insta?” “Dtf?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:19 PM |
| 13 | Don’t miss out on your chance with this perfect catch who’s probably gonna neg you 24/7 since “the media got y’all gassed up” 😒That’s a solid 5 IQ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 08:16 PM |
| 26 | Has the Online Dating Fish Bowl gotten worse since Coronavirus?Can confirm. I’ve been using OLD before corona and now (not looking to meet anyone now, just looking to chat), and the quality deteriorated so much during the quarantine. Most of them have something like “quarantine and chill” on their bio. So you’re right a much higher % of scrotes are active in OLD than ever. Also, if you use Hinge, it has a “just joined” label next to new profiles. And ngl 100% of those just joined profiles look like lazy couch neckbeards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 06:01 PM |
| 71 | Ever notice the reasons men have as to why they hate women, are because of other men?they have nothing of status to pass on True!!! And they get salty when their wife wants their kid to take her last name. Like excuse me bro? You ain’t a baron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:50 PM |
| 12 | I figure it out why men hate when women are single!Looks like he belongs to the niceguys sub 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?That’s good to hear! So perhaps the problem is not OLD or PhD students, it’s the people I’ve met with. How do you vet during those 2 days, besides the obvious red flags (e.g. low effort replies, bad grammar, boring, problematic opinions, etc)? Are there specific questions you’d ask them to help you decide? Is there something they say that’s not necessarily a red flag, but will make you decide you don’t want to meet them? I’ve met people off Hinge and Bumble, and I usually talk to them for at lea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:43 PM |
| 8 | On the topic of cheap rings, here's a quick collage I made browsing Etsy for about 10 minutes - 9 different solid gold engagement rings for under $300. No CZ, no sterling. All it takes to find a beautiful, quality budget ring is a few minutes of effort and 0 trips to pandora.comLol I don’t know and I don’t care. The commenter asked for opinions and I stated my opinion. If someone gets salty about my personal opinion and standards, that’s not my problem. And yeah I agree if you’re a prince, then your heirloom ring probably means more than an average joe’s stepmom’s aunt’s ring. But most of us won’t marry princes and most men who use heirloom rings use them for the exact reason you mentioned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:15 PM |
| 17 | On the topic of cheap rings, here's a quick collage I made browsing Etsy for about 10 minutes - 9 different solid gold engagement rings for under $300. No CZ, no sterling. All it takes to find a beautiful, quality budget ring is a few minutes of effort and 0 trips to pandora.comI would say no. I don’t want to wear someone else’s jewelry as my engagement ring. It’s not about the money. It’s about the effort. If his family want to give me a heirloom ring as a gift, I would be very happy but not as an engagement ring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 12 | On the topic of cheap rings, here's a quick collage I made browsing Etsy for about 10 minutes - 9 different solid gold engagement rings for under $300. No CZ, no sterling. All it takes to find a beautiful, quality budget ring is a few minutes of effort and 0 trips to pandora.comHard no. Why? She’s not engaged to her family so it doesn’t make sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:50 PM |
| 12 | Where is a good place to meet a potential HVM?I agree! I frequently went to a golf course with my parents as a kid and saw lots of openly sexist disgusting men. Ever since then I’ve associated golf with creepy men 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:41 PM |
| 4 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?I’m in one of the major cities and OLD is just as bad. I once went on a walk in the park date with an Ivy League grad w a good job. He got himself a cup of water from the water fountain and talked about his love for Biden for two fucking hours. He also seemed like he went on PUA forums because he completely went silent after setting the date. I wasn’t ok with it, but I still went because he checked in with me a day before the date and I didn’t want to be rude. Fuck. That scrote you met seems red… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:36 PM |
| 4 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?Lucky you! Did you meet men irl? I use OLD so maybe that’s why... so many entitled and petty LVM. I am on the east coast and my age range is 22-26 (but I make sure they’ve graduated college). they’re either in grad school or working a good job. I really don’t think money is the problem. It’s their mindset. I’ve met Ivy League grads with really good jobs who asked for separate checks... maybe they just have the male feminist mindset (I really believed in those equality shit when I was in college … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 07:06 AM |
| 10 | I was talking to men about how they don’t do enough skincare and they started saying sunscreen isn’t necessary, and this guy said if it’s cloudy then you can’t get sunburnt 😂😂Idiottttt My parrot is smarter than him 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:55 AM |
| 32 | As a white guy you should be thankful I give you attention...As a white guy, his grammar is wrong. Perhaps English is not his first language but if it is, no wonder why he’s broke af and working at a thrift shop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:47 AM |
| 48 | *Ahem* reddit is 69% male, so women are automatically marginalised on the main subsLol I got a notification some scrote replied to this comment, but it doesn’t show. Probably got deleted before it could post. Thanks to the mods and auto mods 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:10 AM |
| 4 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?Couldn't agree more!! You said everything I wanted to say! Were these men from OLD? They were! And I get the same feeling that they were too socially inept and simply clueless. Especially the PhD students. There was a dude who greeted me with a handshake and I could hear his voice shaking...So you're right they have no fucking clue and they're just trying their luck out of their leagues. And if they're lucky enough to get a date with a HVW, they still have no fucking clue. But I've noticed singl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:51 AM |
| 138 | *Ahem* reddit is 69% male, so women are automatically marginalised on the main subsThat’s also why people with a remotely feminine username get harassed by thirsty males here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:55 AM |
| 9 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?Wtf does “scratching my head here” even mean? But I totally understand the feeling. It sucks when you vet someone for long and think you’re compatible in many ways, only to find out he doesn’t even want to spend a meal on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:42 AM |
| 16 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?Omg right those losers who want to meet you FAST are probably entitled bitches who want you to pay for their Starbucks as well... luckily I prefer to vet for at least a week before meeting anyone so those scrotes get rejected because they can’t hold a conversation for more than 2 days 😂 I have found academic LVM (with PHD’s etc) are more prone to this Good point!! Now that I think of it, EVERY PhD student I went out with expected me to pay! One time my card didn’t work because that restaurant di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:39 AM |
| 8 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?Tea Party Trump Republican Funny part is, most male feminists identify themselves as liberal. Many of them don’t wear “male feminist equality empowerment blah blah” on their sleeves so it’s hard to vet, but they just expect you to pay at the end of the date... I will never date a trump supporter but I won’t date liberals who believe in separate checks either 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:25 AM |
| 18 | What would you do if you went on a date with a male feminist / how do you weed out male feminists before meeting them?I had a very FDS-like mindset before knowing this sub (that’s why I relate so much to everything here! ❤️) but the only difference was, I always insisted to pay for my part on first dates, thinking men wouldn’t feel entitled to anything physical if I paid for my own food - but obviously that wasn’t true. Things like that didn’t bother me as much before, but they bother me now that I think about them. There was a time I really liked a guy and we were compatible in many ways, but he asked for sepa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 55 | What’s the thing about FDS that you struggle the most with ?Same. I assumed others had positive intentions just because I had positive intentions, and I thought they must be the same. In reality it’s just not true. Just because you treat others with kindness doesn’t mean they will do the same to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:29 AM |
| 6 | I saw the post about “begging for a pandora CZ ring” and decided to look up that exact same ring. Sadly it’s not a joke 😥Exactly. A man isn’t gonna respect you more just because you insist on 50/50 or refuse his diamond ring. And yes it’s not about the money. It’s about the investment. He doesn’t need to buy a huge diamond ring if he’s a low earner. A nice amethyst ring is just as good as long as it shows he cares. I’m so glad you pointed out the difference between money and effort. Lots of people seem to think they’re the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 11:01 PM |
| 54 | When even your brother shaming your body because you have natural big breastsMom should have slapped him when he said “I’m just sayin” POS doesn’t even apologize for what he said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 10:15 PM |
| 14 | Will a LVM ever treat subsequent girlfriends better?Whether they treat new girlfriends better... who cares? A LVM is a LVM. Once you decide you want nothing to do with him, why give a shit about how he behaves in the future? And if you’re asking about someone you start to date - the number of his exes is not an indicator of how he will treat you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 10:11 PM |
| 25 | Am I a gold digger? I need brutal honesty.I agree. He should be generous but the OP should be financially independent and not expecting him to pay for her groceries. If he pays for her groceries, good, but OP shouldn’t feel entitled to it. Tbh I think it’s a red flag that the bf asked OP for the $80 back, but it’s also a red flag that the OP felt entitled to that money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 10:06 PM |
| 27 | How should an HVM react when you make mistakes?Seems like he either lacks social skills or he’s manipulative. When I’m hesitant about someone’s behavior, I ask myself if I would do the same if I were in their shoes. Would you give him the silent treatment if you were him? If the answer is no, then you’re better without him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 09:56 PM |
| 7 | Called. Out.Ewww what even is that 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 08:57 PM |
| 2 | I saw the post about “begging for a pandora CZ ring” and decided to look up that exact same ring. Sadly it’s not a joke 😥I wanted to say the same! Looks like she glued them on her skin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 07:24 PM |
| 16 | I saw the post about “begging for a pandora CZ ring” and decided to look up that exact same ring. Sadly it’s not a joke 😥imagine it getting cloudy in a few weeks because it definitely will 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 07:01 PM |
| 19 | I saw the post about “begging for a pandora CZ ring” and decided to look up that exact same ring. Sadly it’s not a joke 😥Can’t agree more. Those are the same LVM who judge women by whether they “hit the wall” yet they can’t prove their own worth. I once went on a date with a LVM. I have a multi-thousand dollar diamond ring that my parents gave me on my 20th birthday, that I wear every day since. LVM asked if it was a real diamond and I said yes. Then he said “then I guess you probably won’t bat an eye on Pandora crystals?” I never went on a second date with him but now I think of it, I can imagine him getting a Pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 06:43 PM |
| 28 | I saw the post about “begging for a pandora CZ ring” and decided to look up that exact same ring. Sadly it’s not a joke 😥They’re now doing this just because they can. If one woman won’t accept a cheap CZ engagement ring, there are plenty of pickmes who will. You don’t even need to pay £60 for a ring. Someone will happily take a £50 one. Oh and a £40 over there! £30! CZ are much longer lasting than diamonds and brass is far more valuable than gold! Pick me! Pick me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:23 PM |
| 89 | I saw the post about “begging for a pandora CZ ring” and decided to look up that exact same ring. Sadly it’s not a joke 😥These are just a few reviews among many more, along the lines of “my boyfriend got this for me as an engagement ring” Another review said she preferred this ring over “thousand dollar rings” because she’s practical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 04:36 PM |
| 92 | My LVM ex just sent me this, probably thinking it was cute. Find someone who can express entirely how they feel about you.I can only imagine high school kids sending this meme to one another. So childish 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 04:29 PM |
| -2 | One of the top comments: “me considering this at 15 👁👄👁” Lord this generation is gone.. Girls are objectifying themselves more than ever.Sorry for the snark then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Being asked on a date "too early"Yep you giving them your number only means you agreed to give them your number. It doesn’t mean anything else. You don’t owe them a date just because you let them have your number | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:46 PM |
| -4 | One of the top comments: “me considering this at 15 👁👄👁” Lord this generation is gone.. Girls are objectifying themselves more than ever.Oh well, the ones I have are absolutely not trashy. They may not “scream” logos but the logos are definitely not hidden. Thanks for the downvote just because I said I had designer items btw 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:40 PM |
| 60 | A PickMeisha in the wildA Pandora CZ ring? And she begged for it? Lmao I hope it’s a joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:36 PM |
| -8 | One of the top comments: “me considering this at 15 👁👄👁” Lord this generation is gone.. Girls are objectifying themselves more than ever.I have quite a few items from those brands and trust me they are not trashy as they seem on those videos. You can look classy or trashy with those items depending on how you present yourself. It’s not the items that are trashy. It’s her and the way she presents them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 03:25 PM |
| 38 | 20 year old female with a 60 year old males. Into BDSM. Still lives at home and relies on her parents for financial support and not this scrote 🤡If I were her mom I would tell her to move out and stop financially supporting her. Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:52 PM |
| 3 | I know the quality of men you attract has nothing to do with your own attractiveness, only the quantity - but I feel so insulted whenever some neckbeard like this with a high school education “liked my photo” on HingeSome of them are just sad. They just want to collect matches. If they get a match, they feel as if their goal is achieved. And they’re too sad to start a conversation or anything. There was this dude who matched with me on several apps but never messaged so I unmatched him, and then he “liked” me on Hinge again. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 02:47 PM |
| 3 | I know the quality of men you attract has nothing to do with your own attractiveness, only the quantity - but I feel so insulted whenever some neckbeard like this with a high school education “liked my photo” on HingeI’ve seen all possible combinations of that sentence 😂 My dog will like me more than you, your dog will like me more than you, my dog will like you more than me 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:28 AM |
| 5 | I know the quality of men you attract has nothing to do with your own attractiveness, only the quantity - but I feel so insulted whenever some neckbeard like this with a high school education “liked my photo” on HingeThat’s a copy pasta! I’ve seen that at least on 10 different profiles.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:23 AM |
| 29 | Men age like rotten food 🤢That’s so stupid and they’re just wasting everyone’s time for the extra left swipe 😂 you know when a 5’6 dude lie about their height while still putting group photos on his profile? It’s like bro if you’re 6’0 then everyone else in that pic is 6’8... 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:24 AM |
| 92 | One male’s version of leveling upI kNoW hOW tO TakE cArE oF MyseLF LIkE a nOrMaL hUMAn adUlT wHy nO woMan LiKE Me????? WoMMiN shAlLoW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 12:57 AM |
| 7 | Being asked on a date "too early"I’ve done this too! And usually they revealed their red flags within the next day or two 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Being asked on a date "too early"Thanks! I think you’re right. Explaining and educating doesn’t change anything. Syncing time and milestone wise is important. I’ve only had good experiences with men who asked me out not too early and not too late. I’ve always found incompatibilities with those who asked early, after chatting with them on the app a bit more. why isn’t he on day 3 asking you what your meeting someone preference are? Unfortunately I’ve never met anyone who asked that. They either try to ask me out before I’m comfo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 11:25 PM |
| 38 | Many of you girls decided you’re fine with being single forever. But how do you feel fine with never having a family / biological kids?Being single doesn’t mean you can’t have kids. I’m perfectly fine with sperm bank. Better quality and easier than finding someone in the wild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:40 PM |
| 49 | Hahahahhaha he genuinely thinks this is trueI wouldn’t worry about that. Single HVW and HVM are rare and picky at any age - because they know their worth. And because the HVM is picky, he would always choose to pursue the 30-yo HVW over someone 10 years younger. Otherwise he’s a creep and not a HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:36 PM |
| 143 | Hahahahhaha he genuinely thinks this is trueA man 30-40 looking to date a woman in her 20s IS NOT ATTRACTIVE!!! It’s creepy as fuck and pedo as fuck. Why do scrotes think it’s natural for some middle aged uncle to date a college student? It’s not, and it’s very low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Being asked on a date "too early"What if his “too early” is different from your “too early”? For example 2-3 days is not too early for a lot of men and women, but I personally prefer vetting for 5 days to a week. In this case, would you think it’s a bad idea if i told a man I’d like to talk more when he asked me out on day 3? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:19 PM |
| 6 | Being asked on a date "too early"I would love to see more insights on this topic also because most of the time someone asked me out, it was too early for me. I know plenty of women prefer to be asked out within the first day (or first 3 days) of messaging, but I’m just not comfortable with that. So here’s my experience: if they ask me out within their first 5 messages(10 from both side), that’s an auto nope. I don’t even care to explain to them. if they ask me out after we’ve texted a bit (2-3 days) and I am somewhat interested… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Woman who was on “Catfish” three times finally snags her a man 🤡Having unprotected sex when she has no plan to have a baby is a trash move imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:48 PM |
| 7 | I know the quality of men you attract has nothing to do with your own attractiveness, only the quantity - but I feel so insulted whenever some neckbeard like this with a high school education “liked my photo” on HingeHaha reminds me of studies on illusory superiority. More than 90% men consider themselves above average in attractiveness. 🙄🙄🙄 Their already stupid brains are fucked by porn and drugs, making it impossible to estimate their near-negative chance with attractive women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 98 | For real?Not gonna judge his looks but I would unmatch at the first “hun”. He🤡sounds🤗like😆a🥳fucking💐hunbot☀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:30 PM |
| 41 | What are the benefits of going no contact?You go no contact because you are better without him, and you don’t want him back in your life. The benefits are: it helps you remove him from your thoughts it helps you remove him from your life Don’t feel bad about “ghosting” scrotes. He lost his chance with you and he is not entitled to another chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:22 PM |
| 8 | I know the quality of men you attract has nothing to do with your own attractiveness, only the quantity - but I feel so insulted whenever some neckbeard like this with a high school education “liked my photo” on HingeSo true. I used to manually “remove” everyone 10 leagues below me from Hinge as soon as I saw them because I KNOW they would like my profile, or worse, send some stupid messages if I didn’t block them. And I totally agree Bumble’s “women message first” feature is exhausting (and also makes some men entitled). Tinder is just a shit hole. 1/10 profiles are report-worthy and I’ve even seen dick pics on some profiles. But at least you won’t be harassed by scrotes you didn’t match with. I’ve never he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:16 PM |
| 10 | Let’s play a game! Rate these messages from most eye roll worthy to least eye roll worthy. P.S. I unmatched all of them. (6 is on Hinge. I usually don’t match with guys who sent “like” w/o a message because my profile is well-written, but made an exception. But of course he didn’t deserve it)Are you me??? I had the same answer except swapping 5 and 6. High five!!! 😂 And no I didn’t mention anything about roommates in my profile. In fact I never had a roommate. #4 was weird as fuck, cheap as fuck, and lazy as fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 05:42 PM |
| 17 | I know the quality of men you attract has nothing to do with your own attractiveness, only the quantity - but I feel so insulted whenever some neckbeard like this with a high school education “liked my photo” on HingeNEXT them unless they proved otherwise! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Let’s play a game! Rate these messages from most eye roll worthy to least eye roll worthy. P.S. I unmatched all of them. (6 is on Hinge. I usually don’t match with guys who sent “like” w/o a message because my profile is well-written, but made an exception. But of course he didn’t deserve it)By the way my prompt in #3 got cropped out. In that prompt I mentioned a foreign city, and he asked if we could go together after covid ends 🙄🙄🙄 My rating (most 🙄 to least🙄): 2, 1, 3, 6, 4, 5 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 05:26 PM |
| 31 | Why do you desire marriage?I think if you are already in a long term relationship, then marriage is better than perma-girlfriend status. But I’ve never desired a long term relationship and I still don’t. If I happen to meet a HVM, that would be nice. If I will never meet someone who will make my life better than the one I’m having now, I’m happy with being single too. I think most people here are content with being single and don’t desire a mediocre marriage over singledom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 05:16 PM |
| 14 | Let’s play a game! Rate these messages from most eye roll worthy to least eye roll worthy. P.S. I unmatched all of them. (6 is on Hinge. I usually don’t match with guys who sent “like” w/o a message because my profile is well-written, but made an exception. But of course he didn’t deserve it)Personally, because i have three well-written prompts and six interesting non-selfie pictures on Hinge (which are lots of conversation starters), I only reply to messages that are interesting, unique, and related to my profile. I’m more lenient with tinder because my bio there is short. But I still won’t reply to generic copy pasta shit. A question about one of my photos would be nice. TLDR: anything that shows he read my profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 04:59 PM |
| 110 | Why do so many men spend money and thousands on e girls or cam girls like 30 dollars for belle delphine bath water but you see stories of guys Not even wanting to spot 2 dollars for their girlfriendBecause they think they already “have” their gf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 04:10 PM |
| 65 | I know the quality of men you attract has nothing to do with your own attractiveness, only the quantity - but I feel so insulted whenever some neckbeard like this with a high school education “liked my photo” on Hinge“I can actually hold a conversation” = wyd cool haha just chillin I don’t believe in quarantine lol wanna fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 04:06 PM |
| 18 | I think you mean you want a servant, NathanHe’s too old to be a sugar baby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 03:11 PM |
| 14 | He’s lucky to get ONE chance with you. NEVER give him a second.So true. The opportunity is earned. It’s not something you give away like candy. No one is entitled for an “opportunity” to court you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 03:01 PM |
| 46 | Really hoping that this is a jokeBig toe that hasn’t been washed in months | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:53 PM |
| 22 | HVM setting a shining example for his family/friendsJesus fucking Christ has the NVM “friend” ever heard of comma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:49 PM |
| 33 | Fabian Thylmann, the pornsick pig and founder of Mindgeek, the worlds biggest porn enterprise. Let that face sink in, lmaoReal neckbeard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:42 PM |
| 24 | Thought we could all use some more discussion of green flags.I agree these are the bare minimum. Every LVM I’ve dated checked all these boxes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 02:30 PM |
| 20 | Woman who was on “Catfish” three times finally snags her a man 🤡She’s not a pickme she’s plain garbage 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 05:26 AM |
| 5 | This isn’t your average red flag profile but red flags EVERYWHERELack of nutrition 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 12:49 AM |
| 53 | LVM using the age-gap dynamic to underperformI think it’s a backhanded compliment. I would be happy to hear “you’re mature for your age” if I were 10 years old, but it really isn’t a compliment if you’re an adult. Because for adults, age and maturity are completely unrelated. Plus, no mentally mature young woman would be willing to date someone that old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 12:26 AM |
| 143 | LVM using the age-gap dynamic to underperformTranslation: “She’s mature for her age” = she’s insecure and dumb enough to date someone older than her dad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 12:09 AM |
| 17 | Dudes posing like they are the prize 🤣🤣🤣*NSFW and also *NSFL (not safe for life)Report report report 🤢I’ve literally seen a 2 inch dick pic on someone’s profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 12:06 AM |
| 13 | Are ignorant pickme’s happier?I don’t think so. Ignorant or not, no one truly feels happy when treated without respect. She might justify her LV partner’s behaviors by telling herself that all relationships are like this, that you gotta make compromises in relationships, that her partner is actually quite sweet because he Venmo’d her 50 cents on her birthday. She’s more likely to convince herself that she’s happier than all the single people out there, but at the end of the day, she’s not treated with respect and she knows. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 05:41 PM |
| 12 | LMAOOOO imagine thinking women are responsible for men being trash. Then imagine thinking compassion and empathy from women makes them less trash. Then imagine these dudes thinking women’s empathy should result in sex otherwise we “tricked” them.Lmao stupid selfie. immediate left swipe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 03:26 PM |
| 23 | What was your turning point to follow FDS?I always offered to pay for my half and was happy with it, until one day a scrote asked me to pay for his food as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | I think he targeted me in his dating profile“Don’t bother if you’re a bot” is the stupidest shit I’ve seen 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 03:10 PM |
| 17 | No, I do NOT have a minute, you already HAD 2+ years!Yep no one asked to be his friend. He was just looking for free therapy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 07:13 AM |
| 3 | This isn’t your average red flag profile but red flags EVERYWHERECould be. Or maybe Brooke friendzoned him. I think it’s kinda weird to “talk to” a girl in his dating bio unless he’s hung up on her (but he is weird regardless) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 07:09 AM |
| 6 | This isn’t your average red flag profile but red flags EVERYWHERE“Sometimes” = I don’t work out “Never” = I don’t work out and I’m proud of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 07:02 AM |
| 49 | Isn't that....what do you call it....a girlfriend? Kinda like a relationship?What the fuck that poor grammar disgusts me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 05:52 AM |
| 107 | I’m just learning this exact lesson! OP is wise in her ways. Where are you ladies on differentiating the two?True! Attraction ain’t worth shit. Especially attraction from men is low value and abundant, like dicks and like men themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 05:01 AM |
| 3 | This isn’t your average red flag profile but red flags EVERYWHEREI think the whole first paragraph is dedicated to his ex, that he won’t talk to his ex first unless she reaches out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 04:20 AM |
| 3 | I think he targeted me in his dating profileHaha looks like your weekly dose of eye rolling are subtle... I just posted the screenshot of the scrote who mentioned his ex’s name! Most hilarious profile I’ve seen in a while 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 02:07 AM |
| 56 | This isn’t your average red flag profile but red flags EVERYWHEREI would eat a hat if ANYONE swiped right on him P.S. At least his grammar matches his education level Anyone noticed he literally put his EX’S NAME in that bio? Smh that’s some next level scrote move | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 02:00 AM |
| 19 | I think he targeted me in his dating profileMaybe they can attract pickmes who are eager to prove that they are not like the other bitch who hurt him 😂 Have you seen a lot of profiles that seem to complain about a particular person? I’ve once come across a scrote that literally wrote his ex’s name. It was quite eye opening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 01:56 AM |
| 10 | Tall attractive guy in good career shows he‘s just trying to get laid and I’m way too quick to prove myself by putting more effort into the convo, more at 8Mel Thompson. Her youtube name was “[husband]’s wife” before he broke up with her. But I think they’re back together now because she mentions him from time to time? Anyway I think she’s a great person but she sounds like a pickme when it comes to her husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me or are OLD guys awful at conversation?Same!!! One scrote even had the audacity to tell me to download snap AFTER I told him I didn’t have snap and wasn’t interested in getting one. Like yo bro who do you think you are? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 12:36 AM |
| 18 | Tall attractive guy in good career shows he‘s just trying to get laid and I’m way too quick to prove myself by putting more effort into the convo, more at 8Ew I feel bad for his pickme ex. A beauty YouTuber I’ve watched shaved her head and she sounded like a pickme, so maybe that was the case for her as well 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:21 PM |
| 27 | Tall attractive guy in good career shows he‘s just trying to get laid and I’m way too quick to prove myself by putting more effort into the convo, more at 8Hahaha on point. They tell you they don’t use this app much and still change their profile every other day 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 11:14 PM |
| 77 | Tall attractive guy in good career shows he‘s just trying to get laid and I’m way too quick to prove myself by putting more effort into the convo, more at 8He sounded boring as f but idk if I followed through... was he gonna send some lewd truth or dare? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:50 PM |
| 8 | Woman gives up on dating because she can’t find a man to meet her standards. Cue the scrotes telling her to lower her standards!Can’t downvote enough that mad scrote who tried to argue against other’s preferences in novels🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:56 PM |
| 9 | DATE PARTNERS, NOT PROJECTS 👏🏻Her eyes creeped me out so much like 🙄 I bet she works at daycare because she knows how to communicate with toddlers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:43 PM |
| 24 | I wish ill-will on the man that blew up negging as a pick-up technique.I would not match with him seeing the “nice legs” message. The only time I saw a lewd message like that was from someone 10 years older than my maximum age filter. I don’t even know how he got past Hinge’s age filter. Fucking disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:35 PM |
| 12 | WTF is up with all those passive aggressive profiles? (#4 is not exactly passive aggressive. But he’s very clown-like)Usually ESL don’t make those stupid mistakes. I’ve notice that 100% of the dumbasses who can’t differentiate your and you’re do have English as their first language. And they usually can’t speak anything else 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 04:10 AM |
| 12 | Is it just me or are OLD guys awful at conversation?You’re gonna get hundreds of messages and there are some men that are able to message and text And after two weeks and 2-3 dates, when they think they get my attention, they start to breadcrumb me while updating their dating profile every other day 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:58 AM |
| 25 | Is it just me or are OLD guys awful at conversation?If a guy asks for your snap there’s a 90% chance he’s looking for nudes. If a guy puts his snap on his profile there’s a 100% chance looking for nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 03:40 AM |
| 26 | Is it just me or are OLD guys awful at conversation?talking to multiple women You mean sending “hey what’s up” to every match and see who replies. And “lol cool what’s your snap” when a pickme replies to his first text | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:53 AM |
| 6 | WTF is up with all those passive aggressive profiles? (#4 is not exactly passive aggressive. But he’s very clown-like)Low IQ and poor education | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 01:36 AM |
| 20 | WTF is up with all those passive aggressive profiles? (#4 is not exactly passive aggressive. But he’s very clown-like)Mr #4 says hey is ok to start a convocation, well, wish him good luck on that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 11:41 PM |
| 25 | WTF is up with all those passive aggressive profiles? (#4 is not exactly passive aggressive. But he’s very clown-like)“I’m boring as shit and can’t hold a conversation but if you stop messaging me, it’s your fault and YOU ARE ONLY WASTING MY TIMEEEEEE” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 11:39 PM |
| 36 | Girls as young as nine are seeking surgery on their genitals because they are distressed by its appearance. Biggest Influencer? PORN!What the fuck? I’m pretty sure I hadn’t even heard of the word vagina when I was 9 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:00 PM |
| 65 | How to Tell if He's HV/LV/NV for YouI always hold men on a higher standard than women, and it’s been working well. I fucking hate dudes who take/post selfies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 09:56 PM |
| 49 | The guy didn’t confirm the date. So I didn’t meet up. What’s your policy on this?Wtf. I don’t know if anyone else feels the same but if a man goes silent after setting up the date, I lose interest. It gives me the vibe that he’s only after one thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:46 PM |
| 25 | Why can't LVM get over you???O. M. F. G. That email is so painful and embarrassing to read. But I agree with the others that he’s gonna take your reply positively and see it as an ego boost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:40 PM |
| 16 | On today’s episode of why are men™......🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 03:03 PM |
| 56 | .....Pickmeishas evolvingOmg that’s embarrassing 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | A history of ”succesful” longterm relationstips is not a metric of anythingYep. Having a history of long term relationships doesn’t automatically make them HVM. It could also mean their exes are LVW who had no standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Now I just want to laugh 😂Yeah it really does. Their audacity is disgusting. But besides the audacity, either they blind swiped on everyone, or they masturbated too much and really didn’t remember. 🙄 How did you know they liked you on tinder though? Did you buy premium? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Now I just want to laugh 😂Haha I pressed that ❌as soon as I could. No attention from me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:14 PM |
| 11 | Now I just want to laugh 😂Ugh what a turnoff. Run at the first “send a pic” request | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 05:54 AM |
| 17 | This is your average male on purple pill debate. Why argue with them or give a shit about what they write? 🙄Don’t forget the biggest joke - he thinks he’s unique 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 11:59 PM |
| 11 | This is your average male on purple pill debate. Why argue with them or give a shit about what they write? 🙄Lol I think he’s lying about his height because he ain’t gonna meet anyone irl anyway I really can’t understand why fuckboys use that emoji. Do they think women like it? Cuz it irks me so much whenever a guy uses it. Makes me want to drop them ASAP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 11:43 PM |
| 237 | Haven’t you been paying attention? I’m not interested!Lmao he thinks he’s qualified for a home husband? Better cook three meals per day for me with no repetition, wipe my bathroom, and brush my shoes. If he accidentally puts too much salt in one meal, he can fuck off. I’d rather hire a male maid than this useless bum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 08:10 PM |
| 12 | "FDS isn't a good dating advice". Any thoughts about this post and its opinion about the FDS ?Totally agree! I wouldn’t argue with them or even read their faulty debates. Those are the people I swiped left without hesitation anyway and if I don’t give them more than 0.1 sec on tinder, I don’t give them the time of day on reddit as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 07:29 PM |
| 133 | "FDS isn't a good dating advice". Any thoughts about this post and its opinion about the FDS ?This person assumes settling for LVM is better than being alone, which is not the case. His logic is: FDS tells you to have standards, but most men won’t ever meet those standards, and therefore you either end up alone or settle. Which is true on its own, but he assumes both settling and alone are bad (“doesn’t work” in his words), which is wrong. I have no wish to read anything from the purple pill sub. Most people there are incels and I don’t give a fuck about what they think. They are the one… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 07:19 PM |
| 9 | What men really mean when they say they like women who initiateAnd somehow their dumb ass think the girl should be thankful for that one date vs no date at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:54 PM |
| 14 | Found this. 😂🤦♀️Anytime someone asks what something in my bio means when they can easily google it, I ignore them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:42 PM |
| 12 | Don’t feel bad about ghosting LVM. Cuz they don’t feel bad when they ghost you.There are also men who kill women who let them down gently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:28 PM |
| 11 | Don’t feel bad about ghosting LVM. Cuz they don’t feel bad when they ghost you.I’ve been insulted by letting them down nicely too. It’s not you, it’s them. They insult you when you ghost them, and they insult you when you don’t ghost them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Beauty and the MehI would shit my pants if I saw that creepy blue smiley in a forest 😱😱😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:56 AM |
| 7 | Beauty and the MehLeft side: woman who has “hit the wall” at 30 Right side: man who primes at 50. Bald and ugly and fat but he deserves a beautiful woman because he’s a nice guy and has a shiny personality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:23 AM |
| 22 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsYeah I get 100% what you’re talking about. Gross as shit. I despise anyone who has a mixed babies fetishization. Fuck em The worst thing is, when we start to date someone outside our race, chances are they automatically assume we are like those shameless Asian girls. They just assume we will worship them and they respect us less. Sometime I feel like I have to be extra assertive, or even borderline rude, in order to weed out creeps smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:18 AM |
| 10 | Dude tells me we shouldn’t waste each other’s time after I asked if his family is accepting of him dating outside of his race/religion??Don’t feel bad about yourself! It’s not embarrassing at all. You’re just leveling up. Block him if you can. If for whatever reason you’re unable to block, just don’t reply no matter what he says. He already proved himself to be an asshole and he does not deserve a second chance even if he texts you something nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:01 AM |
| 55 | Dude tells me we shouldn’t waste each other’s time after I asked if his family is accepting of him dating outside of his race/religion??This stupid fuck tried to gaslight you. He literally blamed you for bringing this question up, and he sounded rude af. You deserve better. If he reaches out again in the future, ghost his pathetic ass all the way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:34 AM |
| 5 | “Exclusive” is the biggest scam of our dating world today - women who aren’t sold on total FDS, please at least consider this standardI did not, and I don’t think I needed to. He did not have the best intention and he seemed to only go after WOC when he’s white (a huge part of the reason I was ashamed of him). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:28 AM |
| 36 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentstrashy loser men go for us because we seem naive or inexperienced This makes me so angry. We need to vet more rigorously than other women because we are more easily targeted by predators. And know that most men who approach us don’t have the best intentions. Take no shit from men and run from the very first red flag. It’s sad to see all those Asian pickmeshas who have zero standards and somehow they made our dating scene much harder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 04:22 AM |
| 79 | Slid into my dms and I told him we can have a threesome with my friend. He drove 50 mins in DC traffic to where we were... we sent him to a comedy house cause he's a clown. Tried to blame us for ruining his gf's life because we sent screenshots. Full story in commentsTrashhhhhhhh Why do those trashiest of the trash guys all seem to have an Asian gf? As an Asian woman I feel both sad and offended | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:57 AM |
| 10 | “Exclusive” is the biggest scam of our dating world today - women who aren’t sold on total FDS, please at least consider this standardHaha never again. Now I would rather be lonely than wasting my time on someone subpar 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 11:38 PM |
| 23 | “Exclusive” is the biggest scam of our dating world today - women who aren’t sold on total FDS, please at least consider this standardI was once “exclusive” with someone, but that was because I was ashamed of him and didn’t want a bf like that. He didn’t meet my standards in many ways, but I guess I was just lonely and he gave me his undivided attention. I didn’t tell anyone about him. None of my family or friends knows about his existence. If a guy does the same, I can only imagine he’s ashamed of being with you and only sees you as a temporary thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 11:24 PM |
| 29 | Is this a red flag if the guy doesn’t have a lot of relationship experience ?I don’t think so. It would be a red flag for me if a 22 year old guy had years of relationship experience lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 11:20 PM |
| 157 | Permanently Banned from r/relationships simply for participating in FDSNo wonder why that sub is full of incels who tell women to give ugly “nice guys” a chance 😂🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 11:19 PM |
| 86 | Pure GOLD StrategyEw. That’s fucking gross and insulting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 09:48 PM |
| 58 | Pure GOLD StrategyWhat was he asking though? I truly don’t understand 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 09:22 PM |
| 49 | Being with bisexual menI have not dated a bisexual man and don’t think I will. It doesn’t mean they don’t deserve love, though. Bi men / mentally ill men / ugly men / men with small dicks all deserve love, but that doesn’t mean it’s my responsibility to date them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 08:48 PM |
| 17 | AlcoholicsIdk about drug addicts but with alcoholics, usually they tell you. Many alcoholics aren’t ashamed by the fact they’re alcoholics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 08:11 PM |
| 16 | Whyyyy? He's cute, has a good job, and good taste in music. I can't with this.Unmatch this fattie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:47 PM |
| 5 | No More OLD For Meif you’re responding, most men view it as you flirting right back This!!! When I first started OLD some guy sent some stupid question and I said no, and he said “Are you flirting with me? Here’s my number!” 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 03:03 PM |
| 5 | Is there any saving my friend? In a relationship with a man 16 years her senior.Maybe just tell her something like “I don’t think this relationship is good for you” and if she deflects it, don’t say anything more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 04:01 AM |
| 13 | So I know this isn’t the absolute worst but still😭 Are they trying to make walk dates a thing now?Ew he looks like he has bad hygiene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:24 AM |
| 34 | Women, you are NOT a fucking play thing.Ew. Fuck that clown. He’s not worthy of anyone and if I were his mom I would be so ashamed of him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:21 AM |
| 101 | Sweet justice.LMAO I didn’t know rich = can’t handle losing 30k 😂 laughing so hard at that audacity and that ignorance now 😂😂😂🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:10 AM |
| 95 | Women, you are NOT a fucking play thing.That audacity is disgusting 🤮 and he sounded as if women of his race would gladly marry him🙄. Hopefully no one puts up with his bull crap again in the future | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:06 AM |
| 15 | Is there any saving my friend? In a relationship with a man 16 years her senior.From my experience... no. Pickme gotta pickme. There’s nothing you can do to change her, and she might even hate you for it. A college friend of mine was in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship with a NVM at that time. He was total trash. He literally told her that he didn’t give a shit about her and was only in it for sex, but she was just obsessed. Everyone in the friend circle tried to tell her to leave, that he was no good to her life, etc, but she ended up hating us all. So... … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 106 | Why can't a guy just admit he doesn't like you?Because they want to breadcrumb you and use you for an ego boost while they actively seek other women. That’s why we need to cut them off when they start to exhibit low effort behaviors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Just gross. Glad he puts that right on the profile though - easy rejection.Report him to hinge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 10:09 PM |
| 58 | You can always rely on me. Except when I’m too busy or don’t want to when you’re most vulnerable, then I’ll just let you know. 🙄That’s a lot of words. 🙄 Translation: you feel free to reach out to me if you want, but I may or may not give a shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:42 PM |
| 8 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalGirl I once saw a profile saying “no time to reply to all your messages.” And I’m not being rude but that guy is ugly, balding, fat and creepy af. Lol I bet he barely gets a match in a month let alone messages 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:53 AM |
| 21 | A queen said so!!!Not worth it. 10/10 times they will say something stupid and disgust you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Remember ladies, don't swipe right because "he seems nice"I read somewhere that you’ll get shadow banned if you swipe right on everyone or if you swipe left on everyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 05:45 AM |
| 43 | A queen said so!!!I did it once, and that clown said “I’m extremely smart and handsome.” So I clicked on his profile to see his average joe bio and (at most a 7) pictures again and unmatched this stupid fuck 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:00 AM |
| 9 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalI think you’re right! And then they will tell their incel circle that women are shallow and the only reason they don’t get matches is they’re not a chad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 03:13 AM |
| 23 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalI did! The other 3 were just stupid but he sounded like a fucking criminal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 12:07 AM |
| 21 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalI can’t imagine any of them having a 3-digit IQ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:37 PM |
| 87 | A queen said so!!!Yep this isn’t a job interview 😂 if they’re trying to make you prove yourself, they can fuck right off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:17 PM |
| 28 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminal“I travel a lot” “Never been outside the US” Lmao why are they being so stoooopid? ignorance is a bliss I guess 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:15 PM |
| 11 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalMaybe they all go to the same pua forum 😂 I laughed so hard at the first sentence “we will match” because that’s a fat lie 😂😂🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 10:47 PM |
| 30 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalOmg. Copy pasta from where? “10 tinder bios that will guarantee you success”? I can’t 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 10:27 PM |
| 18 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalYep I laughed sooo hard at #2. He’s basically saying he’s a clown 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Thank you sir who is 15 years older than me and completely ignored the first line of my bio that said “No hookups”, very coolhe takes his mom to it 😂😂😂😂 how old was he? What a clown 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 09:39 PM |
| 36 | 1. Lawyer who can’t properly use grammar 2. A real king. I have no words 🤮 3. Classic “I’m a 3/10 but I only accept 9s and 10s” 4. Fucking criminalI bet he graduated from school of hard knocks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Thank you sir who is 15 years older than me and completely ignored the first line of my bio that said “No hookups”, very coolWas he serious? CMB is trash, yes, but it still ain’t Uber plumber I deleted it after 4 days because I got free premium and saw all the unattractive scrotes that were flooding my “liked you” queue. Plus old dudes who shamelessly messaged me in discover. I felt so offended 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 09:17 PM |
| 211 | A queen said so!!!Yep!!! “Tell me something interesting about you” = instant UNMATCH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Thank you sir who is 15 years older than me and completely ignored the first line of my bio that said “No hookups”, very coolCMB is greedy as hell. Their algorithm is also trash. Worst app ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Got asked on a date, but I'm suspicious that the guy hasn't moved on from his high school crush.That’s good! One way to move on is to tell yourself that you don’t like him. What you like is a fantasy you built in your head. We always tend to idealize people, especially if we haven’t met them yet. Regarding why some guys just can’t get over a high school crush, I think it’s the same way as desiring something you can’t have. And those guys are usually very aggressive because they just want to “win”. Avoid this kind of guys, because they value their lil pride more than anything else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Thank you sir who is 15 years older than me and completely ignored the first line of my bio that said “No hookups”, very coolEw. It’s one thing to encourage people be more “open-minded” by stretching their filters by 1 or 2 years, but 30 years? What the fuck. CMB’s algorithm is completely trash imo. It encourages men to like everyone, and thus flood women’s queue, so they can make more people buy their premium. The first 2 days I joined CMB, I already had around 50 likes in my queue (which would take me 9 days to go through them without premium). I got a week of premium for free so I could see my queue. And guess what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 08:25 PM |
| 16 | Thank you sir who is 15 years older than me and completely ignored the first line of my bio that said “No hookups”, very coolExactly! It gives men a chance to harass women who have zero interest to hear from them. I haven’t used okc, but I’ve used cmb very briefly and received messages from men 10 years older than the upper bound of my age filter. Absolutely disgusting. Then I saw an article about the cmb founder being a pickme so it made sense 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:10 PM |
| 68 | How long can a man go without contacting you?In the past I’ve had guys disappearing for a whole week only to pop up later asking how my week was going 🙄 and they were just attention seeking I assure you If this guy disappeared for 3 days without explanation, he’s not worth your time and energy. There’s nothing such as “bad texter” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:02 PM |
| 10 | Thank you sir who is 15 years older than me and completely ignored the first line of my bio that said “No hookups”, very coolIs this okc? I absolutely hate apps where anyone can message anyone regardless of their filters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 06:45 PM |
| 5 | In your experience, have most guys just been interested in your looks?In my experience, since I use OLD and vet rigorously, most people I went on a date with have a unique personality. They made me feel they were actually interested in whatever topic we were talking about, and my opinions on such topics. I don’t know if they were actually just interested in my looks. Even if they were, they did not blatantly show it. I’ve had a few awful dates where the scrote tried to sexually assault me / just boring as fuck. And those were all because they pushed me to meet bef… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 04:18 PM |
| 15 | Going with the theme of another post I just saw: Imagine having a baby with someone only to immediately realize they’re a LVMSounds like he’s both egocentric and has daddy issues 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Got asked on a date, but I'm suspicious that the guy hasn't moved on from his high school crush.I don’t know where you live, but do not meet people when covid19 hasn’t been completely eliminated in your area. Asking someone on a date in a pandemic is NVM behavior and should be a huge turnoff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 04:05 PM |
| 7 | Remember ladies, don't swipe right because "he seems nice"Then I would only swipe 1/1000 and get shadow banned for it :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Why just whyIt will be here eventually :) I’m 23 and in grad school. I feel that based on how people interact with each other, grad school is more like a job than college, and OLD is pretty much my only way to meet people. I know friends who met decent guys on tinder, but none of them worked out. People keep telling me that not all guys on tinder are looking for hookups, and I believe it, but it’s too much pain looking through 500 trashy profiles to maybe find a decent one. I get what you mean. There might … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Why just whyIt still hasn’t posted but I’ll read it as soon as it posts! Thank you so much ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Why just whyI think you’re right. I live in one of the most educated cities in the US and tinder in my area is a shit hole. Textbook red flags. Ngl over 95% of tinder profiles here have one or more of the following: middle finger pictures, school of hard knocks, open relationship, just looking for fun, let’s quarantine together, flat out misogynistic, or something lewd The other 5% have minor red flags here and there. I swipe right on 1 in 200-500, and most of my matches are like this, lazy af and can’t hol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Why just whyI like Hinge a lot more, but the user base is too small. Tinder is a double edged sword because on one hand it has a lot more users (and everyone on hinge is also on tinder), on the other hand it has way more non-recyclable trash both in percentage and in numbers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:42 PM |
| 5 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”Nah he’s a penis, because he’s hyper sensitive and likes to be stroked 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”No, I live in one of the most expensive and most educated cities in the US. I guess tinder attracts the worst scrotes. I don’t see any middle finger profiles on bumble or hinge, but there are lots and lots of them on tinder. I have exaggerated a bit but tinder really feels like red flags everywhere. If someone doesn’t stick out middle finger or “school of hard knocks,” then chances are he’s “just looking for fun”, “let’s quarantine together”, “come over if you thicc”, etc. I still use tinder bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:19 PM |
| 4 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”It’s funny they think bugging women multiple times to get a pity reply means anything. It’s truly sad their ego relies on other people’s pity 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”Thank you! I only replied to that double text out of pity, and he ain’t worth my pity from now on 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”Did you reply at all? Lol it’s funny how scrotes just can’t seem to grow up. No wonder how they’re miserable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”Will do! By realizing I only replied to his double text out of pity, I already threw 90% of him out of my mind. I will go for a walk later and totally forget about him! Thank you :)) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”Thank you! I feel much better now. He was being pathetic by double texting me and no one cares about his pitiful opinions 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”Thank you! I feel much better now. He was being pathetic by double texting me and no one cares about his pitiful opinions 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”Yeah now I feel so stupid. What should I do to stop feeling stupid? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 02:49 PM |
| 9 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”yeah he probably just wanted to bait out a reply and gain some “pride” back. I really thought he was better than this, but guess not. What can I do now to stop feeling stupid? Also it’s really not that easy to chat with even 3 people at once. I’m on the apps and swipe 1 in 200-500, because the quality of guys is just that bad. Most of them stick out their middle finger in their photos and the rest are either “school of hard knocks” or “in an open relationship”. Out of the very few people I match… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 02:42 PM |
| 14 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”Yeah. I don’t know wtf I was thinking :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 02:35 PM |
| 10 | Update to “communicated my standards but nothing changed.”My laptop just doesn’t have a block option. Otherwise I would | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 02:24 PM |
| 99 | And here is an example of a scenario FDS has trained me for...any newbies care to list the reasons why I will not be responding to this text?Reason 3: he wants to meet during corona 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 06:33 AM |
| 28 | God if only I was more confident in talking to women online and in real life I'd have so many more dates.And by “confident” they mean pushy and not taking no for an answer 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:32 AM |
| 9 | I saw an abusive ex on tinder 🤢🤢Oh fuck. That’s fucking pathetic of him. I don’t think tinder really block predators because it’s so easy to make new profiles. Even “serious dating” apps like Hinge don’t take reports as seriously as they claim. I’ve reported a racist on hinge over and over only to see him re-popping up every 10 minutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Is it a new trend scrotes put a kissing photo in their dating profile? I’ve seen a few of them but this is the lowest of the low. Leave a one-word review for this 😂Yep lmao this is the most “artistic” kissing photo I’ve seen on a dating app. There are quite a few scrotes who post close up make out pics on tinder 🤮 dunno wtf they’re thinking about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:07 AM |
| 9 | I saw an abusive ex on tinder 🤢🤢Thank you 🤗 I relate so much. One day I was standing outside a restaurant waiting for a friend, and saw a guy who looked just like that ex. I immediately felt physically uncomfortable and walked away. Tbh I still don’t know if it was him, because that restaurant was one of his favorites 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:28 AM |
| 11 | I saw an abusive ex on tinder 🤢🤢Hope tinder blocked the guy who assaulted you. I didn’t report my ex. I just swiped left without clicking on his bio. It was too traumatic to see his picture and I really didn’t feel like scrolling through his bio to find the report button | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 03:18 AM |
| 9 | I saw an abusive ex on tinder 🤢🤢He wasn’t physically abusive. He’s just a manipulative narc who abused my naivety and emotions. I don’t think tinder will do anything about it. I’ve reported people on tinder and bumble before only to see them making a new account the next day :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 03:03 AM |
| 5 | Is it a new trend scrotes put a kissing photo in their dating profile? I’ve seen a few of them but this is the lowest of the low. Leave a one-word review for this 😂Yeah that’s an automatic left swipe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 38 | Men on dating apps these days are in poly relationships, aren’t looking for anything, and be looking like this...49? Omg 60% of the guys who claimed they’re “27” look like this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 01:29 AM |
| 4 | Is it a new trend scrotes put a kissing photo in their dating profile? I’ve seen a few of them but this is the lowest of the low. Leave a one-word review for this 😂As genuine and vulnerable as a tiny dick pic 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:52 PM |
| 11 | Is it a new trend scrotes put a kissing photo in their dating profile? I’ve seen a few of them but this is the lowest of the low. Leave a one-word review for this 😂Haha no. This is Hinge the serious monogamous relationship app | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 08:58 PM |
| 89 | Superficial men and comparing womenThey’re negging you. They want you to feel like trash and lower your standards. Fucking pathetic. True friends want you to be the best version of you and if they’re doing the opposite, they’re not your friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:15 PM |
| 3 | This is my new bar, minus the marijuanaWould be perfect without marijuana | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:11 PM |
| 9 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..Yeah I get it. I was just trying to explain how “dating an ugly guy” would be different from someone who doesn’t care about looks vs someone who does | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 04:02 AM |
| 6 | Why just whyThat question itself is boring and lazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:59 AM |
| 30 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..But why is it bad to value looks? Everyone values looks to some extent and even ugly scrotes write “don’t swipe right unless you’re 9/10” on their dating profiles 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:56 AM |
| 27 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..I think it will be different in that case. If you don’t care about looks, it means you don’t value looks. And when you date a HV plain looking man you’re not compromising your standards, because looks is simply not part of your standards. But in OP’s case, she’ll compromise if she dates the same man because she values looks and he doesn’t have it The logic from the man’s part is probably the same though because he only knows you are willing to date him, but he doesn’t know your reason (whether i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:49 AM |
| 6 | Just wear the heels dudeHaha no, are you? I just really loved that song as a kid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:27 AM |
| 77 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..Why do you want to do that? Just because you pity them? But they will not see you as a savior if you give them a chance. They will think they deserve you because of their kingly personalities and take you for granted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:26 AM |
| 28 | Just wear the heels dudeHaha I especially loved it when boys sing “all you will see is a girl you once knew” in Don’t Cry For Me Argentina 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:23 AM |
| 16 | Translation: looking for a pickme to bear my 7th child when it’s her first child 🤮🤮🤮🤮Really? Then maybe we have different aesthetics. I think he looks kinda creepy 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:19 AM |
| 23 | Why just whyHaha actually his profile looked decent. Otherwise I wouldn’t swipe on him 😂 He listed an Ivy League school and all his photos were good quality. No selfies. His bio was not rude and tbh he’s the best looking dude I’ve seen on tinder in a while. Buuuuut, good on paper still doesn’t mean he’s not a shitty person. I think guys in my area are just low quality in general | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:15 AM |
| 43 | Be more selfish and less tolerant.This is so true. It is despicable to be selfish when everyone else is altruistic, but it is not a bad thing to be selfish when everyone else is selfish. That’s the only way to survive. And we live in the latter world. The media portrays selfless women as normal and selfless men as virtuous smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 73 | Aggression test: exact same questions, exact same answers - different results depending on your sex. Men who score 36 are normal, women who score 36 are causing difficulties and should seek therapy.Wait but on the left side they both say average is 18-38? What the fuck this scam test isn’t even consistent with itself 🙄🙄🙄😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:37 PM |
| 34 | Posted an image of my icecream and this guy just starts shitting on me. And they wonder why hot girls never date themStupid incel can’t spell 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:07 PM |
| 19 | Translation: looking for a pickme to bear my 7th child when it’s her first child 🤮🤮🤮🤮Oh I see. Even with that fake hair he looks like an old creep who masturbated too much 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:59 PM |
| 32 | Translation: looking for a pickme to bear my 7th child when it’s her first child 🤮🤮🤮🤮I think he has little to no hair. He’s hatfishing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:51 PM |
| 28 | Translation: looking for a pickme to bear my 7th child when it’s her first child 🤮🤮🤮🤮True. He’s truly delusional 🤮 I think the only thing he can compare is his appalling looks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:42 PM |
| 56 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?I think he’s taking you for granted. He wants the gf benefit while putting in minimum effort. He is convinced that no matter how shitty he is, you’re gonna respond to him anyway. Before I cut off the guy I was dating, I did the same thing - taking hours to reply and being succinct. But he did not change. I did not reply after he took a whole day to reply to my last text, and it’s been 5 days he never reached out again. Oh well 🤷🏻♀️ There’s no such thing as being a “bad texter”. If he was really… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:27 PM |
| 95 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?You clearly communicated your standards and he couldn’t meet them. It’s not that he’s clueless. He knows clearly what he’s doing is subpar, but he just doesn’t care. I’ve experienced something exactly the same as you, except that I haven’t dated him for 7 months. But everything else is the same - he showed he cared early on, and then he only got in touch 1-2 times a day. I communicated but nothing changed. So I decided to cut him off and save myself from the disappointment Just distance yourself… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 06:54 PM |
| 56 | People that force talking everyday.From my personal experience: don’t be nice to a guy who exhibited the slightest sign of pushiness. Don’t be friendly to them. Don’t say you want to be friends with them. They WILL turn nasty to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:20 PM |
| 3 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinEThat’s so disgusting. That’s probably the reason they even poison “serious dating” apps like Hinge. I think some of them just want polygyny, and they can’t tolerate when their gfs also sleep with multiple men. Another interesting thing I noticed is that poly guys on dating apps usually don’t have well-paying jobs. Maybe because rich poly guys would just label themselves as sugar daddies instead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:12 AM |
| 83 | It’s only beginningTranslation: I’m looking for hookups | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:50 AM |
| 5 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinEYep and often times they’re not decent looking or mentally stable themselves But what if they’re just looking for extremely mentally unhealthy women? So that they can manipulate her by calling her crazy if she doesn’t agree with every bs they do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:47 AM |
| 9 | I broke up with my BF, I thought was a HVM, because of things he said 7 years ago (Screenshots)You definitely did the right thing and you know it. 🙌🏻 your ex sounds toxic, both the screenshot and the fact that he pretended to agree with everything and did not have a fucking opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:14 AM |
| 11 | With online dating, I really recommend waiting a few days before giving a new guy your social mediaIdk maybe they’ve watched all the porn out there? Or they just want to feel sPeciAl by having access to something that’s not accessible to others 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone feel jaded if a guy calls you attractive/hot?Haha luckily (?) I haven’t experienced that. I’m Asian and there aren’t many Asian celebrities here in the US. If someone dares to compare me with the very few Asian American actresses that look nothing like me, then they surely have a fetish and can fuck off. But I get what you’re saying. It’s very lame and low effort. It’s like they’re willing to say and do any bullshit just to get in your pants. So much desperation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 02:58 AM |
| 54 | Early signs he's no good in bed or with communicationThis!! Or if he said he’ll call at 8, but called at 9 instead and did not explain anything. It may sound petty but it’s a huge indicator of his personality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 01:39 AM |
| 16 | With online dating, I really recommend waiting a few days before giving a new guy your social mediaYeah SO MANY guys ask for snap/ig within the first day of match. Just fuck off 🙄 You did the right thing by blocking them. They’re not worth any benefit of the doubt. There were a few times I tried to explain to them that I’d be happy to add them after getting to know them more but not now, and they fucking insulted me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:30 AM |
| 20 | With online dating, I really recommend waiting a few days before giving a new guy your social mediaThey stalkers. Super creepy. Blockkkk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:21 AM |
| 10 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinEWe need to make a poly red flag list some time 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:19 AM |
| 25 | Cleaning inspo videos are toxic. They normalize women cleaning up after their slob kid's and husband's messes.I don’t get why these women don’t have any self-respect I know an extreme pickmesha who posts on social media all the time about cooking, cleaning, serving her boyfriend, basically treating him like a king. She takes pride in it. She think she’s flexing by posting those stuff because it shows that she has a boyfriend, and thus she’s automatically “better” than those who are single Don’t call these women out. They’ll only think you’re jealous why aren’t the husbands teaching their kids to respect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:14 AM |
| 41 | Cleaning inspo videos are toxic. They normalize women cleaning up after their slob kid's and husband's messes.I feel the same way. They encourage the idea “women should be cleaning the house while their kids and husband sit there do nothing”. But those who post the videos are pickmeshas anyway so they probably don’t see it as an issue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:40 PM |
| 136 | With online dating, I really recommend waiting a few days before giving a new guy your social mediaAsking for snap = 🚩 Asking for selfies = 🚩 Pushy = fuck off Usually when they ask you for more pictures they just want jerk off materials. Don’t send them any. Especially when you’ve never met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 09:26 PM |
| 17 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinEThis one is actually not that ugly! I’d say 5/10 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 09:22 PM |
| 19 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinEPale ✅ Not muscular & a little chubby ✅ His hair looks natural tho and no visible piercings/tattoos. But I do agree lots of poly people have dyed hair and piercings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 09:21 PM |
| 6 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinEHahaha yup he has the same hair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 09:16 PM |
| 30 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinELove being in nature = I’m gonna ask you for a walk in the park date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 08:19 PM |
| 62 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinEI think this kind of relationship attracts extreme pickmes because they like the feeling of constantly fighting over a man. And if the man picks her, she feels as if she proved her worth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 08:18 PM |
| 27 | No HoOkuPZzz I aM a SerIoUz peRsOn loOkiNg fOr a loNgtErM cOnCuBinESo he’s looking for... a concubine, right? I can’t understand 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | "Monogamous" men on OLD looking for female "friends" but can't show their face?!🤮🤮which website is this? Okc? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 07:39 PM |
| 13 | "Monogamous" men on OLD looking for female "friends" but can't show their face?!Yup I saw lots of them on tinder. “In a loving monogamous relationship” “just looking for some fun” “will send picture if you’re a good fit” Oh and I bet he’s not 35. And his name probably isn’t Paul either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 07:29 PM |
| 56 | Just one of the manyyyy chats I’ve gotten in regards to my The Wall post.Ew. Don’t respond to those stupid fucks. They aren’t worth your time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:41 PM |
| 115 | If the “squishy” girlfriend junk wasn’t enough, they’ve also made an actual MOMMY girlfriend stereotype. Does it get any worse than this?!you dumb fuck That’s right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:10 PM |
| 10 | How to stop pain shopping?You can try hiding/muting him if there’s a way to do so. That way you don’t have to block him but you won’t see his posts either. I just recently had the courage to unfriend an ex from every social media (after discovering FDS). Before that, I didn’t have the courage to block him so I just stopped using that social media altogether. I’m not a social media person so it wasn’t a big deal to ditch it altogether. But if you’re a social media person, I highly suggest you to just block, or at least hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:08 PM |
| 17 | “I just want to provide my opinion on it...” It’s a damn stop smoking sub. And we need your fetishized opinion?“If you have questions just ask” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:45 PM |
| 41 | Cry me a riverHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHA wtf he smoking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 02:47 PM |
| 47 | Does anyone feel jaded if a guy calls you attractive/hot?Yeah it’s so annoying. Same as beautiful/gorgeous. It’s like they have no better thing to say. Especially when the guy is basically a stranger. If all you have to say is to comment on my appearance, then thank you sir I don’t want to talk to you. I have a mirror and it’s good. However, it would be a totally different story if a woman or a child calls me beautiful. I would be very flattered. I also wouldn’t feel too annoyed if the guy is someone I’m dating / a good friend. My point is, if it’s ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?Ew yeah a huge sign of scrotes is that they take pride in stupid things 🤮 glad you left that clown! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:25 AM |
| 42 | Approximately 90% of women on relationship adviceShe had me at onion ring 😂😂😂😂😂 thanks for the laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:09 PM |
| 7 | How to Create High Dating StandardsThank you!! I really needed to hear that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 10:08 PM |
| 24 | I hope she gets picked ☺️🤞I feel like tinder has already become a free prostitution platform. You’re on tinder and you expect effort? Wow wHaT a ChOosY bIAtcH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:55 PM |
| 26 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?Yes yes yes!! If you’re a guy and you wash your face with cleanser, change your clothes every day or smell nice, they mock you and think you’re gay. They’re so proud of their ugly and dirty bodies because they think it’s a signal of “masculinity” 🙄 I feel like even if a woman doesn’t care about her appearance, at least she does the bare minimum such as washing her face every day. But most men don’t do the bare minimum. I don’t give a fuck about the Kardashian’s and tbh I don’t find that kind of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:51 PM |
| 10 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?It’s depressing. And what the fuck is up with those middle finger pictures? I don’t even know who they’re looking to attract. I once asked a guy what was up with his shitty nonsense bio. He said his bro wrote it for him while drunk. So...yeah. They don’t even try. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:20 PM |
| 64 | LVM caught in the wild.What. What. Whaaaaat da fuuuuuq | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 08:46 PM |
| 25 | Just further indoctrinating the idea that men doing the most basic human actions is something praiseworthy. Why exactly am I blessed? Because he knows how to vacuum a fucking carpet?Omg a pickme I know literally posted that on social media! Except changing aspirin to tap water 😂😂😂 The bar is soooooo low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 08:23 PM |
| 52 | I hope she gets picked ☺️🤞Oh wait! If nudity becomes more common, it will be more difficult for her to make money! Because that means more competition! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:28 PM |
| 94 | Woman wants to know if she's the asshole for putting puppy pads around the toilet because the 30 YR OLD GROWN ASS MAN she calls a boyfriend keeps pissing all over the floor. I FUCKING CANNOT, Y'ALL.MaScuLIniTy 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:25 PM |
| 27 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?You’re lucky if you find 3% guys in your area attractive. The attractiveness of guys in my area is a lot lower than average. More than half of them point out their middle finger in their profile pic. If by any chance a guy does not have a middle finger pic, then he must have a bad bathroom pic/dad bod/alcohol in every pic. On a good day I swipe right 1/200, on a bad day, zero. It’s such a waste of time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:23 PM |
| 46 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?Omg! From where I live, half of the guys aged 22-25 proudly state on their dating profiles that they have a dad bod. As if it’s a personality. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:17 PM |
| 16 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?Sameeee. I thought I must be “demisexual” or something. When I told some of my girl friends about it, they were surprised and said they did not experience the same thing. Like, they can look at a picture of a hot dude and think “I want to fuck him” There was only one time I ever felt some sort of physical attraction on a first date, and it was just “he’s good looking I want to spend more time with him”. Far from intense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:11 PM |
| 38 | My pickmeisha bff is pregnantpickmes rarely make good friends anyway Agreed! It’s sad to see those pickme women losing all their good female friends over a trash man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 06:04 PM |
| 166 | Am I going crazy or are men starting to look worse and worse?It’s not just you noticing this!!! I used to think men on dating apps look old because they were lying about their ages, but then how can sooo many people lie about their age? I think OGJammies is right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:01 PM |
| 4 | TruthApology & no change = manipulation No apology & no change = simply don’t care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:23 PM |
| 10 | Man gets mad that wife has the AUDACITY to sign her OWN name on lunch notes to his daughter instead of HIS.Oh you’re right I mistook that for preschool I did not attend kindergarten in the US and where I was from kindergarten started when a kid is 2 or 3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:53 PM |
| 31 | Man gets mad that wife has the AUDACITY to sign her OWN name on lunch notes to his daughter instead of HIS.She said she’s been packing step daughter’s lunch since she was in kindergarten, let’s say 3 yo. Which means they were dating no later than 20F/27M and could be as early as 17F/24M (suppose they met before the daughter was in kindergarten) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:10 PM |
| 14 | Simple but TrueOnce a OLD match said he believed birth control should be mandatory to high school girls to prevent unwanted pregnancies. I told him it was dangerous to do so due to the side effects, and this clown said “yeah like all drugs there are positive and negative side effects”. Like excuse you?? I can’t even | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:28 PM |
| 31 | The comments were like “he did what she asked, what’s the problem?” 🙄🙄🙄What a piece of useless trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:08 PM |
| 5 | He works at lawn care and talks about grass... sounds about rightHahaha wut. What do they sell? Mowers? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 01:51 PM |
| 31 | Pickmeisha wants to know if she can turn her emotionally distant Fuck Buddy, with whom she has rough, dehumanizing & degrading sex where he calls her a “whore and a slut” into a “real boyfriend”. Sex Columnist: wEll DiD yOu CoMmunIcaTe?APplY nO cONtAcT rUlE fOr 30 DaYzzz aNd ThEN rEaCH ouT tO HiM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:45 AM |
| 29 | FDS, please give me the strength to leave my boyfriend of 6 yearsSunken cost fallacy is a bitch and I know it’s hard after you invested 6 years of your life in him. However you’re still young. You haven’t wasted all your 20s on him. You still have 40% of your 20s! If you stay with him, it will only get worse and eventually that 40% will be used up also. He will NOT change. It’s not too late to leave him now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:40 AM |
| 37 | The Health Authority for the State of Oregon tweeted out how to have sex during the Coronavirus Crisis. Apparently people need to be told not to eat anyone’s ass right now.Oooh it’s not porn, it’s cOnNeCtInG SoCIalLy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:14 AM |
| 18 | The Health Authority for the State of Oregon tweeted out how to have sex during the Coronavirus Crisis. Apparently people need to be told not to eat anyone’s ass right now.Or more accurately, not to eat anyone’s shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:13 AM |
| 11 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?The waitress was there and I could see the WTF on her face. I was too shocked to say anything so I asked her for separate check, paid for my meal and left. I think that dude made a typo in his profile. Instead of empathy he should write looking for generosity. That’d be more accurate 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:03 AM |
| 5 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?I was really shocked too. Like excuse you bro what? 😮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?Haha yep! Basically take anything they say with a grain of salt. Actions > words and oftentimes what they say is the exact opposite of what they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?I don’t date women, so I don’t know how it would look like in a woman’s profile. However, I feel that: Men don’t really care about what you write. They are shallow and only care about your pictures. If you write something that’s a huge red flag to them (e.g. “I have 8 kids”), they might be wary but otherwise they don’t give a shit about your bio. So although I’m not 100% sure, I doubt listing it on your profile would make them wary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:43 AM |
| 11 | Is there a better response than “sorry it was a mistake”? I did not reply and just unmatched btwHaha lots of scrotes are dumb enough to actually send money! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:28 AM |
| 34 | Is there a better response than “sorry it was a mistake”? I did not reply and just unmatched btwHahahahaha or “because I thought no one else would swipe on you” 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:26 AM |
| 26 | Is there a better response than “sorry it was a mistake”? I did not reply and just unmatched btwYep. I’m just laughing cuz what did he expect with that opener 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:20 AM |
| 11 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?I’ve noticed that: if they say they’re looking for empathy, they’re looking for victims if they say they’re empathetic themselves, they’re trying to get sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?Haha yep it almost seems like they’re stating the generic obvious to put on a facade and they don’t want you to find out their true self, which is full of red flags. You’re right something that don’t just benefit him is a green flag, unless he wants you to babysit his dog 😂 I read that post too. I think if he says something like “must have a sense of humor” or “must understand my sense of humor” then it’s probably an excuse for his shitty behaviors but simply seeing humor as a priority is ok bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 01:37 AM |
| 13 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?Tbh I have this weird feeling that if a guy says something that seems obvious (e.g. “looking for someone genuine/empathetic/loyal”) then it’s a red flag because he’s looking to take advantage of those qualities. Is there a quality that if mentioned, is not a red flag? Maybe humor? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 01:01 AM |
| 14 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?Omg yes 😂 there was a guy who kept saying how he felt a “genuine connection” and vulnerable, that he didn’t usually feel that way blah blah (and we hadn’t even met!). And then he asked if we could go on a first date, hit it off, make out and have a “sleepover”. I said no. LMAO 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:42 AM |
| 65 | I don’t typically go on tinder because of profiles like this. There’s something about this type of profile/person that genuinely scares me.Many people say he looks like a young Marlon Brando I say he looks like a typical incel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:20 AM |
| 17 | What’s the difference between a LVM and a NVM?LVM means he brings low value in your life (not a lot, but still positive) NVM means he’s toxic and drags you down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 12:03 AM |
| 20 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?And also “tell me something interesting about yourself” as a first message when you already have a well-written profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Funny 1st date story to lighten up the mood... also an example of why LVM/NVM have no excuses for their behavior.Oh I get your point now! I was thinking “what a weirdo” and saw that line, and I thought “wait are our expectations for online guys that low now?” But yeah now I see your point It was a funny story! 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?Yep you’re right. I should have at least mentioned it to remind everyone else reading my post to NOT go on dates during this time. Jeez. I’m surprised by the amount of people who just can’t stay at their damn houses. Like why putting your own life and others lives at risk? Is that an “edgy” thing or what? Seriously can’t understand what tf is going on in those people’s minds. Sorry for the rant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:49 PM |
| 12 | Funny 1st date story to lighten up the mood... also an example of why LVM/NVM have no excuses for their behavior.At least he wasn’t insulting or getting sexual with you? I thought that was the bare minimum. All of the guys I went out with were at least respectful at this level. You really should vet carefully BEFORE meeting with anyone. I can’t understand why people would agree to a date within just a few messages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?Haha I should do that too once the virus is over! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:28 PM |
| 15 | He works at lawn care and talks about grass... sounds about rightFemale “entrepreneurs” = MLM Male “entrepreneurs” = weed dealer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:27 PM |
| 53 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?The walk date happened last year. I was fucking stupid. And guy #2 asked if I wanted to pay for his meal I truly have no words. Actually guy #2 was the reason I discovered FDS. I never minded paying for my own food but asking me to pay for him? Wtf. After that date I started to google on people’s opinions about who pays what, and stumbled upon FDS by accident. So I should thank him lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag when a guy says on his profile that his favorite quality of a person is “empathy”?Those were last year & early this year. I’m definitely not going on dates now. Sorry should’ve clarify that I did not mention the disclaimer earlier because I thought it was common sense to assume no one’s going on dates now and that these happened before corona. But apparently that’s still not a common sense smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 10:57 PM |
| 22 | Are you ever disappointed when a prospect shows he’s LV?Yes. When that happens it’s disappointing because I thought he was different, but in reality he’s just another LVM. And depending on how long you’ve known him you might already wasted time on him as well. Sunken cost fallacy is a bitch, but we just have to leave when they reveal their LV selves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 10:13 PM |
| 8 | “You didn’t care if we used a condom during sex, so why would a pandemic stop you from wanting to hang out?” -NVMWh...what?! He’s of negative value to the whole society. Glad you blocked his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:23 PM |
| 98 | Never date men that are "cheap" in their mindset ...I feel bad for the fiancée. She wasted years on this pos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:20 PM |
| 6 | College and acceptance of prostitutionIt’s a matter of definition. By “voluntarily” I mean proceeding from one’s own choice or consent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 07:13 PM |
| 68 | College and acceptance of prostitutionNot all prostitution is a product of human trafficking. Some people (yes even minors) voluntarily sell their bodies because they need money to survive, and can’t get money elsewhere because of the corrupted social welfare system. People need to stop masquerading desperation as fucking “empowerment”. It’s insensitive and disgusting as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:13 PM |
| 162 | Telling men that I don’t have a Snapchat saved my lifeYep. Asking for snap is a red flag imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 05:24 PM |
| 13 | Fiancé disappointed she didn’t get the ring she was assured she would, so future BIL (and all of Reddit) calls her a gold-diggerTotally agree. Rich people don’t get rich out of stupidity. Dude needs to do more research on wealthy people and their lives before writing this piece of fiction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 03:57 PM |
| 8 | Fiancé disappointed she didn’t get the ring she was assured she would, so future BIL (and all of Reddit) calls her a gold-diggerYep also she graduated from UCB but only makes 4-5k/year? I’m reluctant to believe that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 03:42 PM |
| 8 | Fiancé disappointed she didn’t get the ring she was assured she would, so future BIL (and all of Reddit) calls her a gold-diggerI think he meant she wanted a 5 carat center stone. And the whole ring would be 7 carats if they kept the same side stones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 03:40 PM |
| 7 | Fiancé disappointed she didn’t get the ring she was assured she would, so future BIL (and all of Reddit) calls her a gold-diggerI think what OP meant is: They got her a 2.5 carat center stone, but she wanted a 5 carat center stone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 03:36 PM |
| 12 | I communicated my standards but nothing changedYou’re so damn right. By responding to their late ass texts, we were rewarding their subpar behavior and feeding their egos. They probably thought “I can ignore her for hours and days, and she’s still gonna reply to my texts” so they put us on the back burner and drink with bros/talk to other women instead. It might be a petty thing to cut someone off when they got busy and replied late once, but it is reasonable to dump them if they’ve established a pattern. No one deserves to be put on the bac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 03:39 AM |
| 20 | I communicated my standards but nothing changedThank you for sharing your experience! How dare these men do that and still expect us to stay with them? So much audacity. And you’re right I just feel really offended. Not just because he took too long to reply (he finally replied after I posted this. Literally 24 hours lmao). I’m offended because I took so much courage to step up and communicate my wants, and he basically ignored that as well. Thanks for letting me know it’s ok to feel offended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 03:10 AM |
| 76 | Scrote @ the beachSisters don’t forget it’s eMpoWerInGgggg to show boobs at the beach 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 11:09 PM |
| 23 | Natural beautyWhy would you want to date them if they blatantly wrote that on their profile? I am all “natural” by their definition but I would instantly swipe left on those profiles 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 10:17 PM |
| 183 | Gigi Engle: "Sex on the first date is the only way to live" and "the main reason you're not banging someone on the first date is that you're afraid of being slut-shamed & not getting a 2nd date." Nah sis, I just have more respect for my body then to let randoms in it. Keep your shit sex and HPV.Lol the same could be said about her. The main reason she’s banging everyone on the first date is that sex is the only thing she has to keep a guy’s interest & no one wants to spend time with her unless she offers her pussy 😂🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 09:50 PM |
| 27 | Female PhD candidate is a club dancer at night because she does not get paid enough as a graduate student, another woman calls this empowering...Oops I lost my ass then 😂 But you’re right she’s free to do whatever she wants, doesn’t mean it’s empowering. Something you’re proud of doesn’t necessarily mean empowerment. I might have cleaned my bathroom and be proud of it, but it doesn’t mean cleaning bathroom empowered me in any way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 36 | Is it just because I don't ask?I’ve never trusted a man enough to feel comfortable to ask for money and resources, but I think in general, while asking may play a small factor here, a more important factor is whether this person cares about you. Teenage me never ever asked my parents for money. They always gave me more than enough. I kept telling them that I had enough money and really didn’t need more, but they kept giving me more so I could “treat myself better”. If they care about you, you don’t need to ask. And vice versa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:38 PM |
| 81 | Female PhD candidate is a club dancer at night because she does not get paid enough as a graduate student, another woman calls this empowering...I bet my ass this poor student is only doing the dancer job to afford a living, not out of her interest or “empowerment”. Whoever sent that tweet is either insensitive or stupid as fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Is jealousy a pickme trait?I mean you don’t have to physically leave them if you can’t. You can try to “tune them out” like ms Tilly said. When someone says something toxic, pretend you didn’t hear and just don’t give a shit about them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Pathetic... Yet another way for “men” to absolve themselves of responsibility for their actions.Good luck!! When you do move out it will be 100x better I’m sure :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 07:24 PM |
| 14 | Is jealousy a pickme trait?Yep! If you find you’re constantly being judged/envied by people surrounding you, it means they’re not the right group of people you should be with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 07:20 PM |
| 14 | Is jealousy a pickme trait?Yesterday I gave a death glare and the mean girl up and down look to a boomer who coughed in public without covering her mouth 🙄🙄🙄 But jokes aside, jealousy surely is a pickme trait | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Tip for those who use OLDOh pardon me, I forgot to mention that those profiles I saw actually said “include [word] in your first message”, both on bumble (where women have to message first) and on tinder But yeah it is the bare minimum to read someone’s profile before messaging them and this is a great strategy to weed out those who don’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 07:02 PM |
| 16 | Tip for those who use OLDShows he not only expects women to message him first, but also demands high effort messages. Same as “not gonna reply to hi” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Is being called 'cute' less of a compliment?See it this way: yellow fever dudes don’t care about your background or your past experiences not because they’re more open-minded, but because they don’t see you as a person. They don’t care about getting to know you. They just see you as a sex toy. Edit: keep your standards high. Don’t feel like you only deserve old dudes or white trash just because you’re divorced. You deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:30 PM |
| 23 | Tip for those who use OLDGirl I’ve literally seen that line on some guys profiles!!! OMFG the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:42 PM |
| 30 | The Frisky Wants Us All to Learn How to Give Foot Jobs From Porn Stars. Because nothing screams female empowerment like more objectification and performative sex.science No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:39 PM |
| 12 | Is being called 'cute' less of a compliment?Hell no. If he has a fetish, then he does not truly respect you as a person. I’m Asian too and I’ve briefly dated a guy like that. He had lots of gentlemen qualities otherwise...but just no. Fucking gross. Girl if you’re new to the western dating culture, stay away from white guys. 9/10 times they have an Asian fetish. It really disgusts me to my core. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Is being called 'cute' less of a compliment?Are you Asian? As an Asian myself I’m always extremely disgusted by the word cute. Every time someone says that to me, I want to vomit. I feel like for non-Asians, it’s probably just another halfass negging word. But for Asians it’s extra gross and screams fetishization. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:24 PM |
| 8 | 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️Haha yep he couldn’t tell the difference between their and there 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:14 PM |
| 11 | Is being called 'cute' less of a compliment?Maybe he only recently realized he had a fetish? Anyway I think calling you cute obsessively & kissing head & saying he liked short girls are creepy af Edit: any of those things by itself is probably not so bad, but 🤮🤮🤮combined together | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 03:11 PM |
| 11 | 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️Judging by the nonsense he said and his appalling profile picture, I believe Richard N Komi is a rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:51 PM |
| 13 | Is being called 'cute' less of a compliment?Yeah I get the same vibe from reading this. Ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Pathetic... Yet another way for “men” to absolve themselves of responsibility for their actions.Then it seems both their mothers and their fathers are shit parents. The parents feed them but don’t teach them. No wonder why they become bitter hateful incels | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Don't you love it when men try to tell you have no idea what you are talking about when you say your negatives experiences with men? (RANT)They either get the hint and become a better person, or they masturbate alone and complain with other incels that no women want to spare a fuck with them 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 01:33 PM |
| 17 | Don't you love it when men try to tell you have no idea what you are talking about when you say your negatives experiences with men? (RANT)Seems like they’re insanely delusional and just can’t think straight, because absolutely nobody wants to fuck them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 05:32 AM |
| 32 | Exercise: Send multiple men the same text and see how they replyHahaha omg 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:46 AM |
| 27 | Man wants new GF to foot half the bill for him and his two kids. Throw the whole man awayWhat does twin flame even mean and how is it different from soul mate Truly don’t understand 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:38 AM |
| 21 | HVM do exist 🦜Oof you right. I thought it was a ham | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Input on NVM Comments/ActionsHAHAHAHAHA I thought exactly the same!!! lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:32 AM |
| 14 | Input on NVM Comments/Actionsok so it seems you already know he's trash and he's the problem, but you're still feeling bad because you want to understand why he acted like that way. I will help you analyze his NVM logic here. he was just lying in order to get what he wanted, aka sex tryna gauge how cheap you are so he could manipulate you him taking advantage of your money same as 3 seeing other women or not, he just didn't want to invest time with you he might truly be sick, but how he reacted ofter was rude as fuck yeah..… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 04:31 AM |
| 65 | Pathetic... Yet another way for “men” to absolve themselves of responsibility for their actions.Don’t worry sir, your kids will despise you and stop talking to you as soon as they can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 02:42 AM |
| 79 | HVM do exist 🦜For a moment I thought the white bird was only flattering the bald bird so the bald bird could let him have the meat... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:19 AM |
| 61 | This piece of shit sent me two videos of women he was fucking from behind, telling me I should have been in their places. He probably filmed them without their consent. Absolutely disgusting.He looks like 5’6 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:12 AM |
| 22 | So if I get correctly a girl either swallow cum or rub it on her face,while being grateful for it????I looked this artist up and she’s a woman. I have no words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:54 PM |
| 27 | So if I get correctly a girl either swallow cum or rub it on her face,while being grateful for it????What the fuck? Which pathetic scrote made this crap. I’m vomiting Edit: ok so I looked this artist up and she’s a woman. Ew. Fucking gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:23 PM |
| 40 | Dislikes texting, but has no problem with messaging app?I’ve never used kik, but I heard lots of people use it to hookup / sext with strangers. So I think the reasons could be: he’s on kik all the time, possibly sending dicpics, so he responds to kik messages faster because he has that app on all the time he wants to send you inappropriate messages but he feels reluctant to do that over text | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:20 PM |
| 9 | ...or cut your d off so you’ll never have to use condomsEither he wants to attract extremely insecure pickmes, or he was on drugs when making that profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 4 | ...or cut your d off so you’ll never have to use condomsYep probably every single one of them. Ew. I absolutely don’t kiss on first dates. Who knows where the fuck their mouths have been. Not until exclusivity has established. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:10 PM |
| 52 | Remember, men will lie about anything to get what they wantHahaha omg they’re really tryhards aren’t they 😂 the moment you turn down sex = the moment they reveal their true colors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:05 PM |
| 123 | Remember, men will lie about anything to get what they wantThis is so true. I wish I knew it sooner. I learned it the hard way :/ This clown I dated for a bit last year pretended we were similar in so many ways. So many ways like I never lived until today. oh god why haven’t I met anyone like you? We are the same soul in different bodies! He talked about wanting a serious relationship, marriage, all that shit. And after I turned him down for sex because it was only two months and I wanted to take things slow, guess who ghosted me? LMFAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 10:50 PM |
| 15 | ...or cut your d off so you’ll never have to use condomsOh fuck. Glad you dropped him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:21 PM |
| 35 | ...or cut your d off so you’ll never have to use condomsSadly there will be women believing his crap. Or cool girls who take pills so that their fuck buddies don’t have to use a condom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 08:22 PM |
| 33 | The image that comes in mind whenever a guy messages/calls and answers with a long HEYYYYYYY or starts saying "youd be surprised by how good I can do you in bed" or "well I'm depressed but my penis works just great!" 🤡🦚 boy bye! (The guy is a stock pic)I’d rather give my attention to a real peacock. At least it’s pretty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Avoid women who use infantilizing language to normalize men's bad behavior and cruelty.Yup I think you’re right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 07:21 PM |
| 94 | I can’t fathom the fact that this exact type of men are my neighbors, coworkes or a part of a friend group I’m in. This is why men can’t get a sense of the experience women face even remotely; they will likely never in their lifetime feel this unsafe, hated or belittled by a woman.Yup he’s hoping to attract pickmes who would do anything and everything to prove that they’re “not like all the other fake girls” And at the same time he’s swiping right on everyone 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 07:17 PM |
| 325 | Things men say cus they refuse to come to terms with the fact that they’re really attracted to other menThe distance between the tip of your penis and the root, good sir, is also barely an inch apart 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 05:49 PM |
| 11 | Are these red flags?Red flags everywhere! sexual comment early on “it’s cool to meet a girl so chilled” did not change his behavior after you clearly communicated your boundaries He apologized and seemed embarrassed and put a nice facade for a little longer. Did he show more respect to you? No. He just changed from “I’m gonna sext this chick right away” to “oof this chick is playing hard to get. Guess I need to pretend to be nice and send 10 innocent texts before sexting her” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:59 PM |
| 11 | Avoid women who use infantilizing language to normalize men's bad behavior and cruelty.My mother is a strong person otherwise but unfortunately this is how she talks about my father and grandfather. “Your dad is like a kid. You just have to put up with him.” “Your grandpa is like a kid. There’s no way to change him.” I’ve been hearing these bullcrap ever since I had memories. She asked me, a toddler, to put up with those man babies. And I still remember thinking “I’m a kid too. why should I tolerate their behaviors just because they’re ‘kids’?” Last week she talked like that again… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:48 PM |
| 57 | Ain't that the truth“I’m trying so hard” “I never spent a cent on my children for 7 years and now they just won’t speak to me” “Why but I’m trying so hard!!! I just want to speak to my children!!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:37 PM |
| 19 | 15 Men React To The Idea Of Taking Their Wife’s Last Name After Marriage aka don't give men like this the time of your dayI rolled my eyes at #15. His wife’s maiden name was not as unique as his so she took his name... mkay? He’s trying to dodge the question (and his true thoughts) by pointing it to something else. What a coward 🙄 I tell ya what, my last name is fairly common but I ain’t changing it for no one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:27 PM |
| 18 | 15 Men React To The Idea Of Taking Their Wife’s Last Name After Marriage aka don't give men like this the time of your dayHe’s an only child, so what? At most it makes sense that he doesn’t want to change his name, but why would you change your name because he’s an only child? Not sure if I understand. But it’s your name anyway, and you have every right to do whatever with it. You do you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:21 PM |
| 47 | Men are afraid women will use them food, women are afraid men them for their bodies. 🙄And plenty of LVM consider texting more than 10 minutes “too much” investment but sex isn’t 🙄 They be like “if an online match doesn’t agree to go out with me within 3 texts she never will, and why waste time texting her if she’s never gonna meet me” SO FUCKING LAUGHABLE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Confront men about your standards vs. just leave. Where’s the line?Thank you! :) I agree. Oftentimes people say “it doesn’t hurt to tell him what you want” but it really does. If he’s LVM, it lets him know how to put on a better facade. This is exactly what I worry about. It seems we are similar in texting haha. The only difference is I’ve never met anyone who came back with higher effort when I withdrew attention. They either mutually fade, or they double text with something a little high effort once, and if I reply they quickly retreat to low effort again. Wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Confront men about your standards vs. just leave. Where’s the line?Yeah I totally agree with you. I wouldn’t bother explaining when a man suggested coffee either. If he’s under 23, I might give him the benefit of the doubt by saying I don’t like coffee (which is true). If he suggests a better date then great. If he asks “how about drinks instead?” then boy bye. What’s your opinion on texting though? Would you bother explaining when a man takes 10 hours to reply to your texts when he’s definitely not busy? Or would you bother explaining when his texts become too… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 04:29 AM |
| 10 | Confront men about your standards vs. just leave. Where’s the line?Haha wtf? He’s basically saying “I can be rude but if you’re rude to me then you’re childish” Guess his momma didn’t teach him well 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 02:32 AM |
| 74 | God I love this! I hate mornings and men that expect you to wait on them hand and foot....sorry if it's a repost. I'm just so tired of being expected to be happy and functioning in the morning....mornings are stupid.Lol I don’t fucking know how my house smells like 9am Saturday. Never woke up that early. But if a guy I’m dating can get up at 9 to smell the house, he should as well make me breakfast 🙄 Not gonna marry a guy who can’t even make me food and clean the house | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 12:10 AM |
| 37 | Confront men about your standards vs. just leave. Where’s the line?I was reading the FDS handbook and there was a post titled along the lines of “let him know when he disappoints you” In that post, the OP said she confronted when a guy texted her late night to come over & join him for pizza, while he already started eating pizza. I certainly think that’s common sense. You don’t ask someone you want to date to come over and eat leftover pizza with you late at night. But the OP decided to communicate with him rather than just leave. So idk. I feel like people hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 08:36 PM |
| 24 | Men who are threatened by your beauty.Yep avoid them like plague. If a guy tells you he’s not worth your time and attention, believe him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:24 PM |
| 51 | Men who are threatened by your beauty.Omg yeah that’s exactly why you shouldn’t date down. They will only play games with you and try to bring your self confidence down. I once dated someone like that. He was attractive tbh, but he had mental health issues and was insecure all the time. He kept saying things like “one day you’ll know I’m worthless and you will not want me anymore” although I was kind and supportive to him. And he constantly played games to make me feel bad. It was too much crap. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:15 PM |
| 6 | The bar is so low, however he didn’t pass it!His brother is so freakin handsome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Guys don't approach me nowI’m not overweight, but I have similar experiences. I got approached in gym clothes with messy hair and no makeup on. When I dressed nicely, then I got approached by no one. Good riddance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:34 PM |
| 16 | Men inherently derive pleasure from CRUELTYThis is so fucking painful to watch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:08 PM |
| 67 | Can't wait another month for her to be available because of a pandemic“A couple girls he could fuck that stayed nearby” Sounds like his tinder matches And his tinder profile probably says “ethically open relationship” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:05 PM |
| 11 | And men aren’t trash (with a bunch of overused Future memes in the comments)🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 02:59 PM |
| 10 | When a man wants you, he’ll let you knowOh lord guess I’ve never met anyone that serious. My “relationships” never lasted for more than a few months :/ And quarantine definitely makes things weirder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:15 AM |
| -4 | When a man wants you, he’ll let you knowYeah wondering the same. Also should we just leave in silence if he hasn’t committed during this timeframe or should we let him know about the timeframe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:04 AM |
| 75 | Beware of men who call themselves feminist“I’m a male feminist 🙂 I won’t buy you a coffee at our Starbucks date because I don’t want to pressure you 🙂 I will wait for you to text me first because I want you to feel empowered 🙂 also can we have no strings attached sex it’s 2020 🙂🙂🙂” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:25 AM |
| 20 | Beware of men who call themselves feministAnd more often than not they have some sort of racial fetish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:19 AM |
| 9 | I came across this gem of a profile today and just had to share!What the fuck. I hope it’s a troll. Otherwise, I hope he sees a doctor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:15 AM |
| 20 | When a man wants you, he’ll let you knowAfter the first month would it be different? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:10 AM |
| 47 | Whenever a guy tries to open with the "you're beautiful" or "how are you"I thought “cute” “beautiful” and “gorgeous” were nice words before joining the apps. OLD made me hate those words. So. Much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 06:05 AM |
| 12 | Do HVM even exist?I think they exist. A close friend of mine from college had done so many things that checked the HV list. Not just to me, but to everyone. We were strictly platonic so I don’t know how he would be in dating, but he’s just a genuinely kind and selfless person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 10:01 PM |
| 123 | “Can we be fwb after quarantine?” NoHigscholl 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 09:43 PM |
| 33 | When she doesn't hear from her FWB (sexual acquaintance) in 8 days, she starts to think he doesn't want her! NAH, YA DON'T SAY!!! ???I seriously can’t understand why some women would agree to be in FWB situations. If they just want to fuck, isn’t a vibrator a better option? If they want emotional intimacy, FWB isn’t gonna give them that either. So why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 06:50 PM |
| 2 | pickmeisha anthem 🙃 (and ofc it's written by a scrote)Ew what did I just hear 🤮 Come on a my house, my house, I’m gonna give you a huge slap on the face 🎶🎶🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 03:25 PM |
| 16 | Guy on TinderLMAO if he’s just an average guy, chances are he doesn’t get more than 5 matches in two years. He was just negging you and tryna bait a response from you. Pathetic 🙄 Edit: Tbh I would be turned off by his first message too because it seemed like a slight neg & I generally hate it when people call me gorgeous. Like duh tell me something I don’t know 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Going to a guys house at 2am....Hahaha what ‘bout McDonald’s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:55 PM |
| 47 | Why unattractive men feel to entitled?They watched too much porn. Or anime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:35 PM |
| 8 | Going to a guys house at 2am....Luckily I haven’t experienced any booty calls, so I don’t really know. I guess that depends on your relationship with him? If he’s relatively a stranger, then he’s probably up to no good. But I’ve been at close guy friends’ places midnight-3am and they didn’t get weird at all. We just chatted about random stuff. Now I know it’s very unlikely to have real friendships with guys, but they were all respectful and never made a move on me. So... I guess it depends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on men who have a past of dating single mothers?Yup I think being intimidated by women’s success is a huge LVM trait. They want to dominate the relationship and feel important. Instead of improving themselves to actually become more important/valuable, they prey on the weak. I like to fuck with their fragile egos it’s so much fun 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 11:14 PM |
| 9 | My boyfriend is HVM and he is 15 younger than meHmm I guess if he makes you feel secure and confident and good about yourself, then there’s no need to cut him off right away. Just be very careful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:43 PM |
| 4 | These are from the same person. What a neckbeard. Also he certainly doesn’t look 24Yup. Those military dudes never cease to surprise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:30 PM |
| 7 | My boyfriend is HVM and he is 15 younger than meOh that’s good :) You said all his ex girlfriends were older. I would be very cautious. I think it’s very possible he fetishizes older women. Has he brought up the age gap a lot? (e.g. generalizing older women, generalizing women his age, making jokes about older women, etc.). If he makes generalizations based on age, then I would say it’s a red flag for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:25 PM |
| 34 | My boyfriend is HVM and he is 15 younger than meperhaps because I’m old and I had a low self esteem Please work on your self esteem first! :( see a therapist or something. I don’t have much insight on your relationship but you really gotta work on your self esteem first. If you have a low self esteem, men will sense that and take advantage of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 10:00 PM |
| 30 | Study: 70% of men agree it's acceptable to lie to women and say you're in love with them to have sex with her. 80% of men think they shouldn't have to use any birth control. And 90% of these men said abortion was wrong.90%? What the fuck. Is there any information about how the sample was selected? Like did they do the survey in a catholic school? I certainly hope it doesn’t represent the overall population, but wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:46 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on men who have a past of dating single mothers?It’s disgusting they take advantage of poor & desperate people like that. I do agree that lots of guys don’t want to date you if you’re more independent, educated, and well-traveled than they are. I’ve been on first dates with quite a few guys who were put off because I’ve been to lots of countries, know multiple languages, and shop at high end places (ofc I bought everything with my own money, but they were just put off hearing that). I could just see it on their face. Fucking hilarious and pat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:32 PM |
| 14 | Thoughts on men who have a past of dating single mothers?I’ve heard that some fuckbois only seek single moms because somehow they think single moms = easy no string attached sex. I don’t know exactly why, just heard that a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:21 PM |
| 25 | i think i need advice on a potential red flag situationYeah I agree with everyone else here. If his ex was crazy and he wanted to leave her, why on earth would he make her pregnant? Jesus fucking Christ this dude has issues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 06:01 PM |
| 8 | Is dating an older man really that bad?I agree with keke. Another thing I wanted to point out is he’s 33, so even if he always wanted to date younger women, it wasn’t really possible a few years ago because he would be dating minors. So just because he hasn’t actually dated someone much younger, doesn’t mean it’s not something on his mind. And yeah 4 years is a lot in your 20s. I’m 23 and wouldn’t personally consider anyone 26+ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:49 PM |
| 34 | Is dating an older man really that bad?I personally wouldn’t. The fact a guy wants to date someone much younger, by itself, is a red flag for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:11 PM |
| 35 | Written by a true pickmeisha. Why is this behaviour accepted, but only for men? I cannot see anyone thinking it would be okay for a woman to spend hours ignoring their partner and children.Change “video games” to “porn” and it still holds true for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:04 PM |
| 27 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandSame. A stupid white boy in hs once said to me “you’ll change your name when you get married anyway” and I told him to fuck off and that I ain’t change my name for anyone 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 04:11 PM |
| 79 | anddd... blocked!!!“I’m sorry can I get a sexy pic sorry for bothering you can I just get 1 sexy pic sorry I HAVE PRIDE I will block your number and never text you again but can I see your boobs please just 1 pic sorry I HAVE PRIDE AND SELF RESPECT” lmfaooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 04:02 PM |
| 12 | just ended it with an emotionally manipulative sack of shit... Already found a replacement tho! Stay strong, Queens! 💅Oooo same! Chocolate peanut butter is heaven 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:01 PM |
| 11 | Husband is upset that his wife had a double mastectomy due to breast cancer, is masturbating to big-breast porn, and is pushing her to have breast implant surgery DESPITE THE FACT THAT SHE IS NOT IN REMISSIONI’m not sure what a “boob man” means but I’m pretty sure your husband there is a trash man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 01:59 PM |
| 12 | 35% of men in study admit raping female animals. Most many times over years. 30% group rape. All articles are primarily concerned that the rapists could be more likely to develop penis cancer. GOOD! Fuck men's sympathy for rapists. THEY DESERVE FAR WORSE.Hillbillies from all over the world rape animals. Hope karma gets back to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:18 AM |
| 32 | 35% of men in study admit raping female animals. Most many times over years. 30% group rape. All articles are primarily concerned that the rapists could be more likely to develop penis cancer. GOOD! Fuck men's sympathy for rapists. THEY DESERVE FAR WORSE.lol probably the same in the USA if not more Just because they did the research in Brazil doesn’t mean it’s a “Brazil thing” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:11 AM |
| 11 | “Seemingly no reason” hmmmYep and if they’re rude on tinder, you know they’re trash no matter what decent facade they wear on “relationship” apps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:41 AM |
| 22 | “Seemingly no reason” hmmmTrue! Guys on bumble are also on tinder, and they think they are the prize on bumble. I’ve seen so many bumble profiles saying “not gonna reply to hi or what’s up” 🙄 like bud I’m swiping left on ya anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:10 AM |
| 28 | Husband upset that wife is tired after 65+ hour work weekEw what a pathetic piece of shite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:50 AM |
| 37 | Man upset sex worker doesn’t actually want to have sex with him for real and just for the money.Thanks! So he wanted to buy sex and now he wants to buy love? What the actual fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Men are so scummyHaha what I hope he’s a troll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:23 AM |
| 97 | Husband upset that wife is tired after 65+ hour work weekSo they had their first child when she was 23 and he was 31... 🙄 old trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:22 AM |
| 51 | Man upset sex worker doesn’t actually want to have sex with him for real and just for the money.The post is deleted already but I laughed so hard at the title 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 01:58 AM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020You go girl!!! This sub gave me the strength to finally unfriend an ex on every possible social media | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 01:31 AM |
| 1 | My mom always brings up the fact that back when my great grandma was young, if you didn’t marry before 25 you were “an old maid”.Thank you! :) she’s one of the strongest women I’ve known. She’s very successful in her career, and takes no shit from anyone. I’m really glad to have her as a role model 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 01:21 AM |
| 40 | “Seemingly no reason” hmmmI reported someone for asking for a hook up, and since then his profile popped up every single day (I removed him every time since then but the next day he would pop up again, so it must be that he’s constantly reported by other women and making a new profile every day) lmao scrotes never learn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 12:45 AM |
| 10 | Reposting cause there’s more now, learn from my mistake and don’t even tease a guy who wants you to go skinny dipping as a date and calls you materialistic when you ask for a nice dinnerI would block him when he first asked for skinny dipping | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 11:42 PM |
| 31 | Why don't women like me? I call them beautiful! Dating is hard.And he thinks the only reason women won’t talk to him is that he’s not 6’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 05:53 PM |
| 24 | Do LVM treat women differently based on their attractiveness level?Really not. Just notice what they say behind women’s back and you’ll know. A LVM acquaintance of mine was once involved with two women, let’s call them Anna and Belle. Anna was unfortunate an extreme pickme, who chased after the LVM after he rejected her. Belle was a lot more attractive, and LVM was pursuing her. LVM’s comment on Anna: “she’s so fucking ugly I don’t even want to fuck her.” LVM’s comment on Belle: “yeah she’s ok I want to fuck her.” So... not very different 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 05:43 PM |
| 14 | “ 5’8 ““Graduate degree” and can’t properly use commas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:22 PM |
| 16 | A hilarious conversationOh I guess most dudes in my age group (22-26) are fuckbois and haven’t had very serious relationships... their pictures are usually pic with ex/pic with multiple women/fish pic/beer pic/lame selfie If he’s the only person in the picture and it was taken by someone else, 9/10 times he’s holding a fish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 06:23 AM |
| 71 | My mom always brings up the fact that back when my great grandma was young, if you didn’t marry before 25 you were “an old maid”.Lol my mom is the opposite. If you got married before 25 you were “bad at academia” 😂 But yeah, just ignore it every time she mentions the old maid shit. I have some aunts like that and I just smile and politely respond with “ok yeah will do” and forget about it afterwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 06:10 AM |
| 20 | A hilarious conversationRight. That leaves us with... the fish pics and the beer pics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 05:47 AM |
| 64 | An ex contacted me out of the blue today... I’m almost insulted that he thinks I’m this stupid.Omg wut I know you shouldn’t reply at all, but I kinda want to text him “this is your dad motherfucker” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 04:51 AM |
| 19 | A hilarious conversationOh, that too 🤦🏻♀️ what are some ways to tell if a picture was taken by his ex? Besides the very obvious ones like a restaurant candlelight dinner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 04:46 AM |
| 54 | A hilarious conversationYeah I think it’s a PUA tactic. To create sCaRcItY 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 03:43 AM |
| 28 | Never forget that this is what we’re dealing with...they’re not sexual Um sure they aren’t 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you efficiently communicate your standards and let a guy know that you prefer to be called instead of just texting?Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 12:10 AM |
| 16 | Just ewEven if he’s open to all WOC, that’s a huge red flag too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 10:36 PM |
| 215 | To be fair he looks like a catch“Men reach their prime at, like, 80. And we’re only going for women under 30 because of fertility 😜” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | “LoVe YoUr HaIr If ItS yOuRs” me and my hair will be ignoring you. Half the shit black women deal with. They try to tear us down by any mean necessary yet men still fall at my feet and that won’t stop.Yeah I mean you can hate particular persons because of their behaviors, but if someone generalizes and hates an entire race, that’s a red flag for me. I’ve no respect for them, men or women. Because if they don’t respect themselves, why would anyone else respect them? I’m glad you’re a strong person now and respect yourself! Keep your head up <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 10:21 PM |
| 18 | Quarantine boredom doesn’t mean you need to lower your standards for conversationsWtf that’s horrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:29 PM |
| 29 | Just ewI hope they kick his clown ass out lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:18 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, help save me from myselfOh I see. Well if he insulted you once, he’ll for sure do that again and again. Don’t tolerate that behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 39 | PSA: "Cooking together" is not a date.Lmao I once saw a guy that said “I make excellent cookies, so even if the first date doesn’t go well, at least you get something” 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 WHY JUST WHY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:31 PM |
| 37 | In another episode of Things Men Say When Bored in Quarantine 😒 Story in comments“I know I fucked up. But it was six years ago. And I already said sorry! If you still can’t let it pass then you have issues.” Someone that I stopped talking to five years ago kept sending me shit like this 👆🏻 I never replied and now he’s still trying to add me on every possible social media 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:28 PM |
| 21 | Ladies, help save me from myselfWhat do you mean by he can’t express interest using “big boy words”? I know it’s easier said than done, but if you already find yourself seeking excuses for him, then he’s not worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:19 PM |
| 39 | The reason you've been negged explained hereI almost puked when he said his little niece was “manipulating” him K whatever you say bud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 07:12 PM |
| 51 | Just ewYeah ik. That’s a fucking lame excuse and doesn’t cover up the fact that he’s a pathetic person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 05:29 PM |
| 139 | Just ew🤮🤮🤮🤮If you want something that doesn’t look similar to your mom, go fuck a tree No respect for these clowns | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 05:26 PM |
| 85 | PSA: "Cooking together" is not a date.True. Any guy who mentioned “homemade meals” on their dating profile is an immediate left swipe from me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:46 PM |
| 160 | r/datingoverforty filled with bitter middle aged men as the comments in the post shows. All MEn OvER 40 OnLY DaTE 20 YEaR OLds yOu StOOpid BiTcH!But women who are 25-35 aren’t gonna date them LMFAO. Just because they are looking for younger women doesn’t mean they’ll get what they look for 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 10 | Some of the finest gentlemen I’ve seen on tinder recently. The last 2 profiles I don’t even know where to highlight 🤮🤮🤮Ngl he’s barely a 5... his pic got cropped out because I don’t know how to post more than one picture here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:10 PM |
| 9 | Some of the finest gentlemen I’ve seen on tinder recently. The last 2 profiles I don’t even know where to highlight 🤮🤮🤮Haha he thinks he can cast a wider net by claiming to be all four at once 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:00 PM |
| 471 | The busty blonde took her own life , check out her nudes .... how awful is this!?What the actual fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:40 PM |
| 154 | Is this supposed to be funny or insulting? Ugh, online dating.That “kinda sad I didn’t see a message” shows he’s clingy and manipulative af 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:25 AM |
| 77 | Men who say they dated "models" and "strippers"They’re talking about the bots they matched on tinder who asked them to buy their Snapchat premium | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:21 AM |
| 2 | I have an avoidant attachment styleI’ve been using OLD but tbh 99.9% men there are just trash... some are fun to talk to for a while but I haven’t met anyone worth having a relationship with so far :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:04 AM |
| 3 | I have an avoidant attachment styleI guess any attachment style other than secure has problems, just different types of problems :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:39 AM |
| 1 | I have an avoidant attachment styleHmm if he’s an extrovert, then it makes sense now. Extroverts gain energy from people and introverts gain energy from being alone. So naturally he wants you to be more open about your thoughts and feelings and everything. The very few extroverted men I’ve talked to all seemed that way, and they made me exhausted. I almost exclusively date intp infp and infj men now because they seem more understanding and less pushy (not intj though. intj women are amazing but the men are mostly assholes) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 03:34 AM |
| 125 | “LoVe YoUr HaIr If ItS yOuRs” me and my hair will be ignoring you. Half the shit black women deal with. They try to tear us down by any mean necessary yet men still fall at my feet and that won’t stop.I have no respect for anyone who hates people of their own race. They think it makes them cooler because they’re “not like other [insert race here]” but nah they’re just pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:39 AM |
| 53 | The Inevitable LVM reach out: don’t fall for it, they need their egos topped upOMG. Is that their new tactic or something? What a sad person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:32 AM |
| 32 | Meet up during a pandemic?Seriously more than 50% of the guys on tinder put various versions of “let’s meet up during the quarantine” 🙄 they are part of the problem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:11 AM |
| 28 | Quick Question Ladies... Is it ok if the person you're in a relationship constantly checks out other people when you're in public?You’re right that’s just disrespectful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 11:53 PM |
| 59 | OMG yes YTA for giving a fake $300 ring and a half ass proposalThere’s a comment saying “marriage is about love not rocks. Find a girl that will marry you with a ring pop” 😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 11:37 PM |
| 183 | OMG yes YTA for giving a fake $300 ring and a half ass proposalTbh... I don’t even think it’s a lab diamond. Lab diamonds are much cheaper than natural diamonds, but not like dollar store cheap. If the band is 14k gold at least and the whole ring is $300, then my guess is that it’s cubic zirconia. Even moissanite costs more than that. Reminds me of a post I saw weeks ago about this guy getting a $5 engagement ring from amazon and putting it in a Tiffany’s box. So the woman took it to Tiffany’s for customer service and got really embarrassed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 10:11 PM |
| 3 | I have an avoidant attachment styleDo you know what type he is? I feel like INxx’s are drawn to the arts, theories, and the meanings behind things, but for other types, not so much. Extroverts are draining and Sensors are more interested in practical matters than ideas. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 07:15 PM |
| 5 | I have an avoidant attachment styleWhen you’re talkative, what kind of things do you talk about? I can be talkative with people about my opinions on random shit, but I find it very hard to talk about feelings. And sometimes even if I forced myself to open up, to them it was still not enough. It seems to me that when people say you’re “quiet,” they actually mean you’re private. You could be very talkative about random things but to them you’re still “quiet” because you don’t let them get to know you deeply. And yeah I’m INTP haha.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:53 PM |
| 23 | I have an avoidant attachment styleSame here :( I’ve been told I’m “mysterious” ever since, like, 14 years old. I keep 90% of feelings to myself. Like completely to myself, that I don’t even feel the need to communicate them with family and close friends. There were a few times, guys I started dating asked why I couldn’t open up more. It was not that I did not trust them enough. It was just that I didn’t feel the need to be that vulnerable with anyone. I have a fairly good mental health and I don’t feel lonely being alone and kee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:29 PM |
| 52 | Oh! Oh! Pick me! Pick me! Please pick me! 🙋♀️👋 Honestly, this girl needs an intervention.Oh well, good for her. She can have all the LVM ZVM and NVM no ones gonna compete with her 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 05:49 PM |
| 63 | My sister just sent me this 😂Haha I smell a 5’8 guy there 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:13 PM |
| 13 | Fed up with a man child!He sounds very lazy. And if he says yes to everything but never initiates, I’m thinking he has a gf/wife and is cheating on her. When his wife finds out, he’s gonna be like “oh we’re just friends! We’ve never done anything, and look, she’s the one kept asking me out!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:10 PM |
| 83 | ""WoKe""" dating advice from Male RedditorsIf you leave him you’re INSENSITIVE and DISCRIMINATIVE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:53 AM |
| 9 | Men are delusional. Don’t let their delusions drag down your self confidenceI feel ya! I’ve recently adapted this mindset: Is Harvard insulted by the large amount of applicants who clearly don’t qualify but still applied just because they have nothing to lose? Probably not. So we shouldn’t take it personally either ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:34 AM |
| 5 | How do you efficiently communicate your standards and let a guy know that you prefer to be called instead of just texting?Will do! Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:18 AM |
| 6 | How do you efficiently communicate your standards and let a guy know that you prefer to be called instead of just texting?You’re right. I should just state my preference clearly and leave it at that. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:17 AM |
| 5 | How do you efficiently communicate your standards and let a guy know that you prefer to be called instead of just texting?The phone screen is a good idea! Sets the tone early on too. Yeah I’ll just tell them I prefer calls instead of asking them to call me every single time. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:13 AM |
| 10 | How do you efficiently communicate your standards and let a guy know that you prefer to be called instead of just texting?Will do! Thanks!! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:03 AM |
| 12 | How do you efficiently communicate your standards and let a guy know that you prefer to be called instead of just texting?By early on, do you mean like before the first date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 01:55 AM |
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