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15

Imagine being so bad at sex that your own wife has to fake a headache to avoid you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:19 AM
9

This has really changed the way I look at this. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:53 PM
69

mUh LeGaCy 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:15 PM
17

Reigning by myself BECAUSE of FDS 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:44 AM
36

I'm going through this now and gotta admit, it's very confusing 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:43 AM
32

Plus you can't just stop and call the police while being abused ... that will only escalate the abuse and make him angrier. I've been in that situation and there was no way I was risking calling the police, I fear what would happen inbetween the phone call and them arriving. We need to have a discrete way for contacting police, like texting, or having a trusted friend you can text when something happens and they can call for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:33 PM
82

Men are in the bathroom that long because they're watching porn and wanking it lol...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:14 PM
315

Okay I won't 🙂 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:45 AM
63

Euf, wish I still had my free award to give this 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:26 AM
18

I'm screaming 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:28 PM
1

🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:24 PM
36

I think he meant the toy she has was bigger than a Pringles can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:29 PM
25

This might be a hot take, but I actually hate hair on men's bodies and wish they shaved like we do. It's so gross when they lift their arms and you see their greasy pit hair with crusty deodorant 🤢 I think I'd find men more attractive if they shaved and groomed like we do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:43 AM
31

You touch me you 🔪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:15 AM
19

I was a cleaner for many years while trying to put myself through school. I cleaned the homes of wealthy people and their children (doctors, lawyers, lottery winners, etc...) I often wonder how much further ahead I'd be in life if I not only had the time back from not working a minimum wage job that took a huge toll on my body, but if I grew up as one of these children who not only didn't have to work, but didn't even have to think of these menial tasks. They just came home to a clean house and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:40 PM
19

I went to an orthodontist, I heard that some of the aligners you get online from somewhere like Smile Direct don't move the molars, so might have a different outcome. That might not be bad at all depending on your teeth though! I had too much crowding to go that route unfortunately but I think it's a good option for many people (not to mention cheaper). I currently have Invisalign and I'm beyond happy with it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:04 AM
146

Lol at the comment about how radical feminists mock "healthy" relationships because we're incapable of maintaining one 🤡 I've noticed by the comments they don't really understand what we mean when we say "pick me's"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 12:14 AM
5

I consider myself demisexual and it sounds like you're similar to me (but note you can be bi and Demi at the same time, so no need to change flags haha, just add) I always felt so alienated because my friends would have celebrity crushes and I've literally never felt anything for any person that I haven't developed an emotional connection with. I used to struggle with demisexuality because I don't really consider it a sexuality per se, but I've come to realize that my friends growing up did have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:19 AM
51

I'm a PT too and I decided that my business will only cater to women. I do not want to deal with men at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:52 PM
37

Can confirm, I'm one of them 💃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:29 PM
8

What???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:16 PM
8

Just saw this on insta, I'm loving the revival of the FDS page there 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:12 PM
22

I think it's r/banfemalehatesubs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:40 PM
9

I hated Barbie with a passion growing up and refused to play with her But I feel like I NEED these right now. I'm so in love with them. Why weren't these around when I was a kid 😭 I always felt so alienated from women because I wasn't into typical "Barbie" and looks-based stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:12 AM
19

How'd he react? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:23 PM
3

🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:14 PM
18

I think I'm the odd one out who actually loves the memes too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 12:39 AM
2

Do it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:42 PM
52

YES, all of this 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:37 PM
50

I might get hate for this, but I understand why men wouldn't date a woman who does stuff like this. I would never date a man if he did sex work or had an Only Fans, so I hold myself to the same standard, but don't judge those who choose to do it (even though I don't agree with it or think it's empowering for women). I just have different values for a relationship for myself. I think it's valid for a man to turn down a women because she does OF. But I also don't watch porn... Now if a man watches…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:56 PM
7

Me too! I adore older women with grey hair, there's something so powerful and beautiful about it. I can't wait til I can rock that too, I'm only in my 20s but I think that's going to be a good time of my life when it comes 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 03:36 PM
27

This is why women need to stop gushing over men who do the bare minimum. No one would rave about a woman taking kids to the park
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:41 PM
14

Trump supporters got mad that he didn't win, stormed to Capitol building while the were counting the electoral votes. Basically trying to stop democracy because they're butthurt their racist leader lost the election. Thankfully, they were able to save the ballots before they got them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:28 PM
8

Most likely, but the more they do this the more it becomes normalized to other men who might genuinely take it on. It's a start at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 12:12 AM
91

Wonderful explanation! I hope this message becomes more main stream in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:23 PM
33

I agree, even if the people who post these things are hypocritical, at least the message will get out to people who will genuinely consider it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:18 AM
15

Is there a way to read it without subscribing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:11 PM
135

I'm a personal trainer. Got over 90% on my exam, from an accreditation that's known as being one of the hardest in the industry with a high failure rate. Mansplained very basic information from a guy who failed his PT test and has yet to retake and pass to become a certified trainer. Thinks he knows everything and every time I see him tries to explain things to me that I already know thoroughly. His ego is wild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:46 PM
9

"he wakes up every day and goes to work" Wow the bare minimum 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:52 PM
333

We're really just collateral damage on their "journey"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:24 AM
107

To be fair this is a joke, this guy makes videos of him doing over the top things to be cheap and gets refered to as "cheap Tok" Not saying it's not problematic and probably extends to his personal life (these thoughts are coming from somewhere)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:49 PM
7

I'm in love with that ring!! It's so beautiful and looks so gorgeous on you 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:03 PM
68

Yes, we need to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:58 PM
11

This is so beautiful ♥️ I'm so happy for you, I have tears in my eyes. I hope all your future Christmas' are this amazing, it's sounds like your daughter is a wonderful HVW ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:02 PM
19

When my best friend died my bf yelled at me for always being upset 🙃 whenever I'd cry he'd freak out, lock himself in the bedroom and give me the silent treatment until I came crawling back to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:41 PM
1

I introduced my friend to FDS and now she has an image from here as her phone background saying, "dick is abundant and low value" Changing lives one lady at a time ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:55 AM
13

I can't find this video, maybe the reports got it taken down?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 04:23 PM
19

I told her from the beginning not to entertain him, this is what happens 😂🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:05 AM
17

If someone wants to go off grid and live off the land, all the power to them. Honestly, I do get the appeal of that kind of lifestyle, but this guy probably has no idea how much work is actually involved in that. But you don't get to do it at the expense of someone else. You don't get to sit at home and live in a regular house paid for by your wife's labor while you explore your hobbies and let her slave away to support you. It's disgusting that he's even considering that as an option ... it's n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:26 AM
41

I hate when guys say they want a girlfriend because they "love women" We know exactly what you mean, and I bet these ladies could see right through him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:10 AM
134

One time my friend was talking to a guy who randomly messaged her on Facebook, and he sent a selfie ... from his bathroom ... and there was shit in the toilet 💩 Can't make this stuff up 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:13 PM
8

Whoa where do they have fish at Wal-Mart still? I haven't seen that since I was a kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:07 PM
35

Oh, sweetheart, no....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:23 PM
64

If they think this sub's hateful towards men, they should live as a women for a day and see what we have to put up with on Reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:27 AM
28

I always read these, look back at the title, see "husband," and then my heart sinks She's got a long road ahead of her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:24 AM
8

Right? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:20 AM
19

I became a personal trainer and started my own fitness business, but good try 😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:04 PM
218

This dude is on a STAGE and has an oily af face and clothes that look like he pulled them from a dumpster Where the HELL do they get this audacity from?? He should be lucky if a respectable women even looked his way Ladies, STOP giving men attention they don't deserve. Keep those standards high, or else this is the result
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:57 PM
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Anyone know a good post to show a pick-me/cool girl type as a gateway into FDS? I shared the sub with her and she said thanks, but I feel like she's not reading here yet so I've been trying to find a post that will hit home. She went through a breakup 2 days ago with a typical LVM (2 year relationship) and I really want to help her without generically throwing the whole sub at her again because I know it's a lot to take in. She's very much entwined in libfem ideology
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:06 AM
7

This would also be good for r/femalelifestrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:48 PM
42

That's a lot of words just to say, "but muh pee pee"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:19 PM
5

That woman is absolutely gorgeous He be projecting 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:21 AM
3

Would you be able to DM me as well? Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:08 AM
15

I'm happy that my taxes can go to someone who needs it through no choice of their own. If he doesn't like it, he can go live in the wilderness where taxes done exist and fend for himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:01 AM
11

I literally heard a guy do this from across the river last night and was thinking the same thing. It's disgusting When I was a kid, I tried to copy a guy when they did that and was told it wasn't ladylike. So I stopped Well, it ain't gentlemanly either. It's disgusting, but men are encouraged to be disgusting, sooo 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:56 AM
11

I don't have experience with sex work, or have friends who are sex workers, so I hope you don't mind me asking ... Is the negative experience more common than the positive one? And if so, by how much would you say? Are a lot of the workers saying they like it, but are in denial? I'm curious what the experiences are like from someone who's been there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 12:04 AM
38

I laughed more than I should have at this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:20 PM
62

I dont like hair on men tbh. I think I'd find more men attractive if they shaved like we're expected to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:28 PM
2

I'm still in my 20s but look forward to when I go grey so I can rock it 💃 I LOVE natural grey hair!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:13 PM
27

How about get off the porn sites and work on other things in your life now? They've been given a prime opportunity There's so much to do and see in this world, why spend it jerking off in front of a computer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:47 PM
123

Can someone help me with my sexuality? I know I'm attracted to men But I just ... don't find men attractive. Ya feel? 😫 Anyone else? Like their overall vibe, intellect, grooming skills ... I'm just so grossed out all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:19 AM
11

I always think we should put our fellow women first. If a man is married, you are indirectly hurting another woman, even if it's technically him that's doing it. Do not participate. It's LV behavior in my opinion, knowing that another woman will be hurt from participating in such a relationship. You're also furthering men's depravity by giving him access to you, inflating his ego and making him think it's okay to go around hurting women and that his attempts at cheating will actually work. Cut t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:28 PM
2

😂😂😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 06:53 PM
64

I don't know what we'd do without our mods ♥️ by protecting this space you have have saved so many women and we are so appreciative of the work you do every day. If I had gold, I'd give you all of it!! You are changing the lives and narratives of women all over the world. There are not enough words that can express our gratitude for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:54 PM
44

It's not that we don't like them, it's that we believe liberal feminism still focuses on serving men. Everything libfems promote serves men - "empowerment" comes from being naked, showing your body, having sex with random men, "free the nipple" ... I have never seen liberal feminism promote empowerment through providing for oneself, owning a business, personal development from within, etc ... Maybe they do sometimes, but overall, their message is still very male-focused and gives rise to the pic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:50 PM
6

Guess today I learned I experienced domestic violence for years ... I always thought it had to be harm done to your person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:54 AM
14

I have never heard something less funny than this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:49 AM
23

The greatest lie of the patriarchy was convincing women that providing and taking care of themselves isn't "feminine" Men like our boy Randy here rely on this to control and manipulate us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:40 PM
74

You can't tell me men aren't predatory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:34 PM
71

Omg I love her 😂👏 Edit: just realized she filmed this while driving 🤦🏼‍♀️ girl, no...watch the road
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 07:17 PM
16

We're radical feminists They're liberal feminists The feminist subs are ran by men. Men like liberal feminism because it serves them. Radical feminism does not, it serves women. This is why they hate FDS so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:15 PM
3

Can someone link this woman here? 😫 I don't know what thread this is from I honestly believe she is probably in danger.... If not immediately, some day. This is not okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:12 PM
35

This is nuts....is that last guy seriously basing his career on how many women he can try and sleep with? Can you get anymore pathetic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:08 PM
10

Oh, ladies, always remember ... dick is abundant and low value 💅 YOU are the prize, not him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:08 AM
47

Do they ever stop and wonder WHY girls don't like them? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:02 AM
7

Thank you so much! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:41 AM
24

I'm starting a business and I've been pricing branding. If someone bought it as a gift for me, I think it'd break down in tears at the thoughtfulness of it. It's been so hard to do on my own coming from a poor family with no business experience, but I'm persevering But no, my soon-to-be-ex makes sure things are split 50/50 down to the 6 cent fortune cookie he bought for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:16 AM
78

🚩 age gap 🚩 porn sick 🚩 fragile ego
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:07 AM
33

If you cheat, you don't actually love the person. The thought of being with someone other than my partner is physically disgusting to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:29 AM
1

Maybe it will be hard ... but won't it be harder if you stay? Do what you know you need to do ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:20 PM
60

It's the eyelash as facial hair for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:52 AM
7

Oh my goodness ... I'm so sorry ♥️ that is so heartbreaking that you had to go through that. That honestly was one of my worst fears that my mom or my dad would pass, and I'd have to go through that trauma again ... It was a motivating factor for finding my own place. My heart goes out to you, you did not deserve that at all, I hope you are doing better now ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:58 AM
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Technically were weren't married, but 7 year relationship. He worked for 2 out of the 8 years I knew him, always promising and making me hang on that we was going to get something but never did. Being the provider in a relationship of that long kills attraction. I worked 50 hours/wk and came home to a sink full of dishes, nothing clean ... I had to be the "man" of the house and fix things when they broke, plan vacations and pay for them (eventually he'd "pay me back," still waiting on $500). Bil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:46 PM
10

Because they lose respect for you for dating someone like them They think low of themselves, so if you're saying someone like them, what does that say about you? It's ridiculous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:06 AM
22

The fact men can turn someones race into a fetish f'ing disgusting They don't see us as human, just porn categories
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:42 PM
132

I will never date a man who watches porn. The are completely undateable in my eyes. Why would I be with someone who locks themselves in the bathroom to beat himself to other women, when I could just be alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:32 PM
36

I don't think they're more mature, they just seem more mature when you're younger because you're in a different place in your life. A 35 yo guy with a stable job and place to live probably seems mature when you're a student who just left home for the first time, but it's really just the bare minimum for a functioning adult. Looking at people from my highschool, the ones who were immature then are still immature now, 10 years later, so I don't really buy the whole "maturity" thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:10 PM
120

Young women listening, never give older men the satisfaction of using your body. They are scum and don't deserve to be anywhere near you, you are SO much better than them, find a man who actually deserves you. Tired of seeing these crusty old degenerates get what they want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 06:18 PM
59

Gregg probably doesn't realize that he's the one driving his wife crazy Aren't men the ones who start wars? Have you seen the emotional outbursts of Donald Trump?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:54 PM
19

I'm a prude and proud 💁🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:47 PM
32

Seriously, why are kinks and fantasies an expected thing? I just want to have sex that is based on mutual love, attraction and respect. I don't have a kink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:02 PM
48

I was with a guy and his girlfriend when he found this out in his 20s. We were laughing that men know so little about women's bodies.... then lo and behold....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:24 PM
9

He's looking for a mommy 🍼 not an adult relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:07 PM
20

I love you, that's boss haha 👏 I'm sorry you had to wait a whole year for something that didn't work out though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:30 PM
31

THIS, so much. This is why I have an issue with the body positive movement sometimes. The emphasis is still on our looks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:09 PM
8

I honestly don't think I ever want to date a man again. God they disgust me, if you think this is funny there's something seriously wrong wrong with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:04 PM
21

FDS mods are the BEST 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:06 PM
29

Men will say they want a woman who is natural, but act disgusted when a woman doesn't shave her legs/armpits Which is it? 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:29 PM
4

FDS rescue! 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:28 PM
90

Maybe if a man's broke he shouldn't be having sex 🤷🏼‍♀️ 100% of pregnancies are caused by man's ejaculation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:31 PM
54

Don't call me out like this plz 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:42 PM
10

Mood 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:41 PM
9

Please make this a post!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:48 PM
6

AOC is gonna be the first woman president, calling it now 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:46 PM
3

I love Jodi Whittaker's portrayal of The Doctor in Doctor Who. She's the first woman to play the role and the man-babies threw a fit, but it's been so refreshing seeing one of my favorite TV characters be portrayed by a strong, intelligent woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:16 PM
3

Still in my 20s, but so far I've just keep them as surface level friends ... they are not bad people, but we mostly just talk online now casually/occasionally. We both have our separate things going on, so it doesn't invest my time or energy at all, so I have no problem with things as they are. If I got pulled into drama or emotional labor however, I would probably feel different and pull away, it's not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:09 PM
6

The fact they think we're incels lmfao 😂 Would you like to take over my Instagram account and see how many thirsty men I have to ignore on a daily basis? On my friggin business page? That doesn't have a single risque picture of myself? Trust me honey, it's voluntary They can't handle the fact that we think being alone is better than being with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:38 PM
23

Men with high body counts are undateable, the biggest turnoff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:26 PM
22

How much do you want to guess that her mental health issues are either caused or reinforced by this loser after 9 years? I struggled with mental health my whole life. At 25, a doctor said she doesn't think I have anything wrong with me mentally, but that my feelings and reactions were reasonable responses to the things that were happening and have happened to me in my life, and any normal person would have those reactions. And guess what? She was right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 05:08 PM
11

Ohhh that's good 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:50 PM
18

I'm getting second hand embarrassment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:29 PM
28

Dang can't see it on my Samsung yet 😂 they better get on this quick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:14 PM
34

Ah yes, a prime display from the ViSuAl CrEaTuReS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:28 PM
9

Such a mood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:18 PM
94

I love you 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:15 PM
15

So what percentage have no grammar skills?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:54 PM
23

Age gaps never end well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:54 PM
1

I would love this 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 06:57 PM
32

I hate pet names likes honey, baby, sweetie ... If a guy says this right away to me, red flag, I'm out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:40 PM
10

Yep, I fell into that trap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:33 PM
33

I saw it linked from r/whereareallthegoodmen lmao. They were whining about a post here, little did I know clicking that post would change my life ♥️ That sub is such a cess pool of LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:41 PM
15

🚩 yep, to me it is. It means they're desperate, so likely no other woman in their life wants to go out with them, so they turn to random women in the street. It also means they likely care only for your looks and not personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:38 PM
2

Thank you so much for sharing this ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:24 PM
229

If he don't love me like Gomez, I don't want him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:13 AM
119

But I thought men were visual creatures 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 10:10 PM
124

Back in the day most men didn't get a chance to "spread their seed," women only mated with the top men and the others were sol lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:31 PM
159

Don't remind me please 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:30 PM
86

Who wants to bet a pornsick man made this 🤓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:26 PM
11

This ... this is a joke right? I'm gonna have to go to the OG video to investigate... Edit: not a joke 🤢 I thought it was an entry into the pick-me Olympics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:29 PM
22

Oooooohhhhhhh 😂😭💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:21 PM
8

Madonna-Whore complex 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:53 AM
12

Men have openly admitted to developing crushes and obsessions with women that gave them compliments for YEARS after the fact From something as simple as saying they like their shoes or shirt This can be dangerous for women, a strange man can read way too much into it and follow you home because he thinks you're leading him on. They are often so incapable of telling the difference between being nice and flirting. EVERYTHING has to be sexual for them, it's so annoying. Can't even say hi or have a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:07 PM
19

I've heard they do it on purpose, delate and recreate their profile so that the matches refresh and they have another shot at girls that previously swiped left lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:06 AM
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So many parallels to my life 😭 8 year relationship, first relationship, know I need to leave.... I struggle because he's not working and can't support himself. Which is why I need to leave, he's only worked 2 out of the 8 years we've been together (don't ask why I've stayed so long...I'm dumb...but FDS has shown me the light) I feel bad because he has a lot of childhood trauma and is a nice person most of the time. But I can't be with someone with no work ethic, drive, or ability to handle any m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:03 AM
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Has anyone used a diaphragm before? I've never used hormonal birth control, refuse to, and have always used condoms in the past But to be honest, I would like to try without condoms since it feels better (I would be doing it for me). I've tried different condoms and I find them uncomfortable and eventually it starts hurting I'm only intimate with a long term partner, so not worried about STIs Does a diaphragm with spermicide combined with the pullout method offer adequate protection? Anyone have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:52 AM
48

Whooooa wait a minute.....this is Leo???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:38 PM
9

"It's easy to get laid when men have no standards" DANG I'm stealing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 05:13 PM
4

Dang sis, you really had to call me out like this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:28 AM
53

Lol comments that say "as a m*n" automatically get flagged, happened to me once 😂 it's to stop men from commenting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:47 PM
2

Thanks for posting this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:45 PM
3

Preach, sis! 👐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:19 AM
4

This is great advice, thank you very much!!! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:49 PM
11

So if you recognize this pattern and you happen to be the "next girl" that they DO invest in quickly, is that a bad place to be in? Will they eventually go back to LV behavior?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:16 PM
15

Omg I love this idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 07:31 AM
11

Oh they're amazing! I love Alissa with Arch Enemy especially. And I absolutely adore Floor Jansen of Nightwish, she's such an inspiration I love metal, especially the woman in metal, because it promotes strength, values and resiliency, instead of the majority of other genres that just go on about sex and relationships. Nothing wrong with those genres musically, but lyrics are important to me so I've found I've gravitated to metal mostly. It's certainly made me a more confident and secure woman h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 12:25 AM
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This is why I listen to metal 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:27 PM
23

"insignificant other" omg that's so fitting, I'm stealing this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 05:49 PM
18

Lol what?? That's a thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:09 PM
2

Oh totally, sorry if I came across too far in the other direction. I can't stand that either, sometimes you just wanna dress up for yourself and the comments like that from men are annoying af Men tell us not to wear as much makeup but then go for the girls who are literally wearing just as much makeup, but in more neutral shades so it looks "natural." They don't even know what natural is. What they think is natural is still literally a full face of makeup, it's hilarious to watch. I also don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:17 PM
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I'm honestly okay admitting that I wear makeup for others. I do it for the social benefits, because unfortunately wearing makeup is considered "default" for us. If makeup had no social benefits, I wouldn't waste my time on it or my hair because I feel I could be doing other things that bring me enjoyment with that time. Ever since going back to work after lockdown, I no longer wear makeup to the office and noticed no other woman I work with does anymore either (small office), when before I used …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 03:03 PM
4

ADHD here! 🙋🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:06 PM
3

Boys will be boys, but guaranteed this type of man wouldn't be MY boy 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 12:45 AM
9

What these men don't get is that we're attracted to the EFFORT that these "richer" men are putting into the dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:05 AM
21

This is fucking disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:39 AM
70

The average guy can barely brush his hair lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:41 PM
19

Don't worry, English is my only language and I didn't know that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:48 PM
72

You are a QUEEN, I love you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:58 PM
342

Married men live longer and have better health outcomes than non-married men. Married women are the opposite, having worse health and dying sooner than single woman. They need us so much more than we need them. Any time a man jokes about getting tied down or losing his freedom makes me cringe so bloody hard. It's pathetic and such a joke lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:56 PM
61

I can't stop laughing at work, thanks hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:20 PM
12

She shouldn't be asking if she's the asshole, she should be asking which lawyer to go to for the divorce papers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:20 AM
34

Exactly what I was thinking!! It sounds like she carried it down in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:01 AM
2

Are you me? This hits home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:06 PM
30

This is my favorite thing ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:52 PM
2

Thank you for this ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:20 AM
48

If you're alive, it isn't too late ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:24 PM
135

I'm crying, how amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:16 PM
13

No sex before commitment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:48 PM
1

Omggggg I can't believe what I just saw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:52 PM
8

Came here to say that 🤣 all those runs usually give medals to every participant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:18 PM
4

I've been thinking about this for a while, thanks for putting it into words I don't have much to add but interested in seeing what others think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:29 PM
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My phone's on full brightness and you can actually see through the blacked out one at the top
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:33 PM
2

Hahaha I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:24 AM
39

It's not like cafes or restaurants exist or anything that he could go to to wait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:26 PM
72

That's also why she had to say that out loud, when love wasn't even mentioned. She's trying to convince herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:24 PM
91

I AM the table 💃🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:08 PM
27

Exactly 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:36 PM
287

Narrator: but it was, in fact, the fault of his own...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:45 PM
12

Oh no, not the fReE sPiRiT woke bro 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:38 PM
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I don't. In my opinion you're paying ridiculous amounts of money just to make yourself unhealthy. It's not worth it. I'm a personal trainer so being healthy is important to me and my career. I would never date a man that drank, smoked or did any kind of drug. That's just my preference and I'll be alone before I ever compromise. If someone ever pushed my boundaries by trying to get me to try something, I'd walk out on them right then and there. That's so disrespectful. It's not like I've never dr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:58 PM
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What a long winded way of saying he's a primitive man-whore All I can picture is a fedora-wearing neckbeard sitting and writing this with a feathery quill 🤣 m'lady He's trying so damn hard to sound sophisticated, it's pathetic What a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 04:39 PM
35

The first flag was "confirming" the date with the sunglasses emoji
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:58 PM
15

Sounds like you're married to a delusional porn addict. That rarely ends well... Someone mentioned he might be insecure because he lost his job and can't fulfil his masculine role, so he's lashing out at your feminity. While that might be true, that's a weak excuse for abusing your wife. I think he's more of an asshole than he may have let on in the beginning. No good man would tear down their wife because of their insecurities. They would buckle down and make a plan on how to get back into thei…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 03:34 PM
5

Love this idea! I haven't done much yet myself so I'm probably behind you, but trying my best to learn and build a portfolio
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:52 AM
89

She got a point but put the damn phone down while driving That's some low value behavior girl 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:00 AM
62

Her nails are probably worth more than that ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:56 AM
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Sis, you already know what to do 👏 we're here to back you ❤️ go find someone who actually loves YOU, not the idea of you, and not what you can do for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:56 PM
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Ever notice how defensive men get when other men do anything to make themselves more attractive? They'll lash out and call another man gay just for taking care of his appearance. And don't get me started on men wearing makeup. I honestly think they hate it so much because they hate the thought of men having to do what women do every day to be conventionally attractive. They love what they have going where men don't have to do anything to themselves, yet women have to constantly think about how a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 10:01 PM
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He's just a primitive degenerate enslaved by his biological desires, trying to make excuses. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:08 PM
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That's what black pill feminism believed before the sub got banned. They laughed at us for believing that any man could be HV I still don't know where my opinion on that lies tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:20 AM
3

I'm only cold and detached towards men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:19 AM
3

Ugh 🤢 I'm so glad you said EX
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 05:30 AM
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The whole "men are visual creatures" is only a cope that gives them a pass to objectifying women. When they say they're visual creatures, what it really means is they're primitive creatures. They are not visual creatures. If they were, they'd put effort into their appearance. They'd see the dust or the dishes and dirt piling up at home and tidy it up. They'd decorate their homes like woman do and make sure everything was visually appealing. You never see "men are visual creatures" as a reason to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 04:03 PM
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The fact he defended her instead of acknowledging and putting your feelings first tells you all you need to know Edit: now that I'm thinking about it, the fact they were friends before, and that he pursued you so aggressively, is making me uncomfortable and wondering if there are ulterior motives at play If it were me I'd be out of there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:51 PM
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Yep! That's exactly what happened to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 02:15 AM
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Yeah, I don't really agree with this one ... if they were both always on the same page as wanting no kids, this is pretty shitty for her to do and almost comes across as reproductive coercion. It's her body and she can do what she wants, but this man is not at fault (unless he chose to have unprotected sex). He made his intentions clear from the start it seems. As a childfree woman myself, I'm always thankful I have the option because this would be an absolute nightmare and destroy my life goals…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:08 PM
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Can confirm, I thought I liked it but now that I've found FDS and worked through my shit more, I find it appalling. I'm worth more than being treated like that and deserve a relationship based on mutual love and respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:20 PM
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She could have sped up the process of him realizing this by dumping him 25 years ago They only learn when they don't have you anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:58 AM
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I will never date a man who watches porn again. Instant LVM in my eyes now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:47 PM
8

Yes, girl!! 👏♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:36 PM
38

Good riddance, the trash took itself out 😂🗑️ I honestly can't wait til I'm 30 tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:31 PM
26

Exactly!! It's everywhere...and is especially disturbing in examples like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:27 AM
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Notice how they always have to put emphasis on the woman's looks when describing her? "A man had three BEAUTIFUL girlfriends." I know it's kind of a given in this example, but pay attention to it, and you'll see it everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:03 PM
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When we think of predators, we often think of creepy incel type men. But this man is the very definition of a predator, and we need to be just as careful when this predatory behavior is presented in this "package"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:00 PM
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No, no, no, no, no ... do not see this man under any circumstances, cut all contact. This is all wrong in many different ways and waaaaay too many red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:47 PM
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Check out r/childfree and r/fencesitter Edit: also r/regretfulparents if you want to see that side of things as well, since parenthood is often portrayed in a positive light
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:15 AM
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You mean all of them? Lol. People act so shocked when I tell them I don't watch TV or movies. Why would I when all it is is LVM and pickme women everywhere save for the rare example? I'd rather invest time into starting my business than wasting it being brainwashed by media to think I need to be insecure and settle for any man I can get lol. Women, never forget that you are the prize, no matter what media tells you. Men are the ones who have billion dollar industries because they can't even get …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:09 PM
21

Ugh, great ... I was honestly looking forward to becoming invisible and not having to deal with it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:02 PM
5

This was the laugh I needed today, thanks 😂😂 that poor woman though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 08:48 PM
49

As a personal trainer, I'm really not sure how I feel about this....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 02:57 AM
3

Yes. Definitely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 04:58 PM
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I'm currently in a relationship, so this is hypothetical if I were to date. I wouldn't date someone who has had one night stands/casual sex or has paid for sex (either in person, cam girls etc). I also wouldn't date someone who watches porn because so much of it normalizes abuse of women, and I couldn't trust someone who derives pleasure from women's abuse. As for number of people he's been with, I don't mind as long as they were all genuine relationships. I would be hesitant to be with someone …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 04:54 PM
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You're only 40, you're still so young! So many more years and life left to build everything that you want to in your life ♥️ I'm proud of you for seeing your worth and getting out of that situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:29 PM
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It's true, and hilarious really. It's so weird looking at our society....women are the ones who are in the most demand, sperm is cheap (as is evident by the demand of porn, onlyfans, etc) yet apparently we're the ones brainwashed into thinking not having a man is this terrible thing? They're the ones who are desperate for us lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:10 PM
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Right? Being single is not an insult lol. Sad society has ingrained that into us so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:21 PM
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I wouldn't make any quick decisions. Try and work on your mental health first for a while and reassess later as it can very much be some underlying issues and unresolved trauma within you, if your partner is a good man, and if that's the case you'll have these same issues no matter what relationship you get in to. Can you maybe spend some time without him for a while, such as living elsewhere or taking a vacation, to get away and clear your head? Are you maybe feeling stagnant in other areas of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:29 PM
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This behavior is some of the lowest of the low. Girl, you're beautiful, have an amazing job, friends, and I bet hobbies. You deserve someone who loves and appreciates you and is committed to your relationship, not a low value slave to his primitive instincts who gaslights you when you call him out. You already know are worth so much more, that's why you had to ask ♥️ Dump him and never look back
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:22 PM
7

Perfect 🤣🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:01 PM
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You were probably stunning and he felt the need to neg you in order to take you down a few pegs to get to his level, because he knew he had no chance otherwise. NVM will do that. He knows you're better than him otherwise he wouldn't need to tear you down lmao. If he was at your level, he would have complimented you and tried to initiate conversation. Don't let NVM like that win, that's what they want because they know they have no chance with a girl like you 💅 If anything, I'd view this pathetic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:50 PM
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Me too!! I always felt so out of place, but after discovering these subs everything changed ♥️ I have so much more peace now and life feels so much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:37 PM
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The LVM in the comments saying this doesn't happen because they've never experienced it lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:50 PM
25

Preach 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:32 PM
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LMAO that happened to me last night. I was on a video call with my friends, and one of their boyfriends showed us his FY page and it was literally all half naked women. He kept scrolling and that's literally all it was. He was showing us to complain that "just because he's a guy, instagram thinks he wants to see all these women." I had to bite my tongue...like no, the FY page doesn't go by gender, it goes based on your history lmao. So pathetic. Me and my friends pages were filled with gym/fitne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:41 PM
3

Ugh :( okay that's sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:22 PM
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I looked at the original post and there's an edit saying they only recieved one submission (audio, not even video) in two months. Lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:18 PM
13

Ugh, the entitlement, I swear 🤮 thank goodness you're here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:41 PM
15

Me too! I had actually started to believe the shit they posted there, because that sub, MGTOW, and a few others was my first exposure to all this "pill" stuff, so I only got the men's side. I found this sub through them, and through extension radical feminism, and it has literally changed my whole life in less than half a year. I honestly don't know what I would have done otherwise. I'm finally growing and levelling up in my life in the way I know I'm meant to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:56 PM
28

She was absolutely stunning!!! Their coping was pathetic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:51 PM
7

This was excellent! Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:47 PM
2

I agree 100%. I think I take issue with the general tone of this sub that overweight = ugly, worthless and P&D material. The reality is there are a lot of great people who are overweight, but also a lot of the type you mentioned. Same with smaller people, there are all kinds. Weight is not a good indicator of personality. If it's not what you find attractive that's totally fine. But not all overweight people think they are above everything and deserve everything like the post here implies. Regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:16 PM
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I know, it's not right, see the reply I just sent to someone else on this thread. People shouldn't be judged on things they can't change and I don't think it's right to make them feel subhuman for it. My bf is 5'5", he didn't get to choose that, but that doesn't make him any less of a man. The only people that have given me grief for dating someone shorter is other women. But I also think some of it has been ingrained into us by society, women are hyper self conscious about their looks, and feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:08 PM
3

I don't agree with everything that's posted on FDS, I'm there for the general support of not to put up with abuse from terrible people, and to recognize these situations when they happen, as well as the behaviours that are indicative of these types of people. I don't believe name calling and putting people down is productive. Constructive criticism can be necessary sometimes and people need to recognize their flaws and work on them (regardless of gender), but I don't agree with being inflammator…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:01 PM
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I'm a 5'7", 135 pound personal trainer, and FDS member 💁🏼‍♀️ so....alrighty then Sitting here on my exercise bike having a good laugh For the record though, even if an obese person is not your "taste," they still don't deserve to be made fun of. That goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:55 PM
8

What's the sub? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:37 PM
3

I would tell her. Put the information out there and she can do with it what she will and make her own decision. At least it won't be on your conscious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 04:19 PM
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There's no way someone should be in debt making 180k a year at 37 years old. That is a huge 🚩 Unless there is a VERY good reason that this is the case, it's more likely that he is extremely irresponsible with money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:35 PM
4

Femoiselle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 04:56 AM
31

Okay but why was he not with her when she was burying her mother?? What kind of partner of 3 years just skips that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:09 PM
1

What happens 5 years down the road when she gets older and you're no longer attracted to her because of her age?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:26 PM
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Lmao that's what I was thinking reading that 😂 I'm in my late 20s and I know myself and the women I know would not be interested in anyeone in their late 30s or 40+. Reddit is hilarious sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 06:08 PM
12

I'd also be careful about staying with a family member or friend if he knows them/knows where they live. When he realizes you're gone, he might go to all the places he thinks you might be to try and find you. I think you would be safer in a shelter, where they (might) have security and where he won't be able to find you easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:56 PM
2

You do you, fam
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:14 PM
0

🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:07 PM
2

Summarized very nicely, thank you 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:08 PM
1

There are multiple studies that show that the children of fathers over the age of 35 have more health defects than younger father's, I'm not trying to cherry pick, I just don't have time to go and gather a whole collection of journals for you. I've read a bunch of them to come to this conclusion, not just the ones that affirm my stance. If you have any modern journals that counter this, I am open to reading them and changing my mind. I base my opinions on facts so if you can prove the facts stat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:01 PM
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Men absolutely have the same clock ticking as women. Sperm quality starts to decrease after 35 and keeps declining, and can cause health issues to the mother and child, as well as many of the same conditions that are associated with older women having children Edit: going to copy and paste what I said below to someone who thinks I'm just "coping": Nah, just science. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/05/190513081409.htm From the article: "The study also found that older men struggled wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:07 PM
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I've seen this a lot more recently....I don't know if it's because the online spaces I'm a part of now highlight these stories, or if there actually is a shift happening. Most of the women in my life are still "pickmes". But I really hope it's the latter!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:19 PM
21

Truth 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:22 PM
15

Who wants to bet the boyfriend has no problem watching threesome porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:13 PM
8

Thanks for posting this! Really interesting read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:12 PM
6

That's really interesting about dairy and gluten, I've never heard that, do you know where you heard that from? I'm interested in looking into it
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 02:08 PM
3

Oh, jeeze 😂 see that's actually a good thing because you won't have to waste time talking further to these people to realize where they stand. I'm not interested in being around anyone who thinks all women need to conform and live their lives to their standards. If you can't respect that people have autonomy and different tastes/beliefs than you, then you're not someone worth investing time in. It's fine if you don't want tattoos, but these generalized stereotypes they keep spewing are so ridicu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:25 PM
3

Care to enlighten us?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:50 PM
4

I've been on the fence for years about getting one meaningful tattoo, but that's honestly one reason that's been pushing me to just get it lately lol. It'll be a good filter. It's funny how much it pisses some people off and it'll quickly get rid of the types of people I don't want in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:46 PM
1

Sorry I don't have a recommendation, but I think you might also like a sub that was created from this sub called r/femalelevelupstrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:21 PM
11

👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:09 PM
46

Is there even a male version of Cosmo? I don't recall ever seeing a magazine for men geared towards pleasing a women and building a relationship with her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 01:48 PM
13

That bead of sweat rolling down his chest in the second picture 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:18 PM
22

Yep. Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:06 PM
14

Why on your profile do a lot of your posts say you're a 35 year old man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:00 PM
7

I am a woman...maybe they didn't realize that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:16 AM
17

My lived experience has shown it to be true. I opted out for the first 22 or so years of my life. The difference in the way I'm treated now is like night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:21 PM
9

Thank you :) I honestly thought I'd get downvoted so I appreciate that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:54 PM
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I think what a lot of men don't realize is that most of the time it's not about your natural/genetic looks, it's about the effort you put into yourself. You don't have to be the most attractive guy in the world, but we want to see that you put a bit of effort and thought into how you present yourself to people, because that also translates into the effort you're likely to put into other things in your life (like a relationship). By effort I just mean basic things like grooming, hygiene, and wear…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 03:09 PM
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If you haven't already, you should check out r/childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:38 AM
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Thanks for sharing this. My friend had this happen to her a few weeks ago and I think the training she had done with a personal trainer saved her life. The bruises were awful....her entire stomach, all the way up her arm, and on her neck where he tried to strangle her. Thank god she managed to get a good kick to the balls and ran away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:12 PM
2

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:56 PM
4

Everyone here has great points already so I won't reiterate them. But think from his perspective too. Why would someone so accomplished be dating people who haven't even finished school yet, and have no experience in their career or life after school? You're an accessory and status symbol to him because you're young and pretty. I'll guarantee he brags about it to his friends and uses it as leverage. The relationship isn't about his love for you, it's about using his status to chase and get young…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:48 PM
17

Too accurate lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:14 AM
5

I'm also 28 and childfree :) definitely check out the childfree sub if you have a chance! I've become so much more confident in my choice because of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 01:15 AM
9

Love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 01:05 AM
18

You are amazing!!! Reading this makes me so happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:35 PM
49

What a fucking mood
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:21 AM
10

Sickens me 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:39 PM
88

As if she's not gorgeous?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 07:37 PM
46

She's all done up and he doesn't even look like he could be bothered to comb his hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:03 AM
168

I was working 50 hours a week this summer and always came home to dishes in the sink, disgusting bathroom, nothing cleaned at all.... And he was unemployed the entire time. Literally had an explosive fight eventually because he was "too tired" to do any housework and I should be understanding of his needs 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:08 PM
36

Exactly what I was thinking. Respond with grace and confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:17 AM
28

Agreed. I think it's easier to view this from the outside and see how awful it is, but when you're that deep in gaslighting, not to mention mental health issues, it can be near impossible to see the truth without an outside opinion to wake you up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:12 PM
12

Omg....the ones with $20 bills 😂 cracks me up. Even the hundreds lmao. Buddy that's not a flex when I've got far more than you. If you're gonna try and show off at least show some stacks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 01:19 AM
9

Omg that's hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 01:38 AM
11

I never dated in middle/high school and I'm so glad I didn't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:31 PM
6

I've personally never cared about height and have no problems dating someone shorter than me. I'm 5'7" and my current partner is 5'5". I also have a larger bone structure than him, so yes, we do look a bit weird together. But I care about more about how they treat me and how we get along in the relationship than any physical attribute he has no control over, I'm over caring about image and what people think about me as long as I'm happy and fulfilled. Life's too short. And the only hate I've eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:00 PM
1

♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 12:58 AM
50

I'm actually proud of the guys in the comments there. They seem to realize just how bad the situation is and want to change. I wish them the best. It's scary how much of an impact porn has on everyone involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 03:13 PM
14

Do men not know there's products made specifically for that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 03:55 PM
48

And his friends actually supported it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 01:06 PM
8

Thank you ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 01:47 PM
7

I love Black Opium by YSL, but for some reason lately I've been playing it up in my head thinking it might smell a bit too ... masculine? I don't know why, I think I just get too self conscious about myself. Do you think it passes as a nice feminine scent that people like? I personally love it but I worry others don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 01:46 PM
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He was probably just looking for a hook up, and when it didn't happen, ghosted. Nothing about you whatsoever....they'll try and act interested and nice to get what they want, until they don't. Don't take it personally - take it as a compliment that you'll no longer have to waste time or effort on someone who isn't worth it. The right person will want you for you, you just gotta keep trying. I'll bet there's nothing wrong with you at all, so please don't feel self conscious over this. If this is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 01:54 AM
9

r/vindicta
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:00 PM
5

Lol, you're uncomfortable with who he follows on Instagram, so YOU have to delete it? How does that solve the issue? He's absolutely gaslighting you and that's incredibly immature behaviour from a person in their 40s. Damn. It's the equivalent of a child sticking their fingers in their ears and screaming so they can't hear what you're saying. The fact that he's following a bunch of those young models, and dating someone in their 20s at his age, is a huge red flag. There's nothing wrong with a la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 08:55 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 12:41 AM
11

I think I read this differently than some people here. From what I understand, they had been casual for four months. After those four months he asked her to be exclusive. She said she needed the weekend to think about it, went and slept with the other guy, then told him yes afterwards. I don't think he was upset she was seeing/sleeping with other people during those casual four months. He's upset that she purposely delayed giving him an answer to his request for exclusivity for the sole purpose …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:42 PM
22

Especially after he gets mad and you're alone in a vehicle with him. You never know what he might try...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:13 PM
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