cookiemobster13 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me. Explains why it’s not the same girl. Until he decides to put up a sugar baby for himself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/22 12:27 PM
7	Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you. It’s a hard place to crawl out of. Before online school was really a thing I got back into college - but the wait list for the college daycare was a year long. I had no options and my ex, as abusive as he was, had to work two jobs (that’s how hard he was willing to work to keep me trapped lol). I had to forgo school for several more years, and trying to enter the workforce while wrapping up my BA was difficult. I eventually landed in my career track by lucky chance. Now I’m a single happy camper…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/22 06:07 PM
11	Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you. I just had this convo with my cousin about her ex husband. When tax time came (they both worked he made way more) it was spent by him before it even hit their bank account. It was always what toys he wanted or what tattoos he wanted or he decided it had to be for down payments on cars. Never mind their girls needed coats, clothes and shoes that fit. Never mind she wanted to get them out of their shit rental and into a decent home. Her check went into “their” account, but she had to beg for the $…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/22 05:58 PM
20	Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over you I had a cop tell me “well I talked to him on the phone, he seems pretty upset about you breaking up, but he seems to really care about you and says he’ll leave you alone”. I had called the police in sheer panic because he was threatening to harass my bosses at work and he had stated in text “if it were legal I would beat your face in”.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/22 06:17 AM
11	What would you do if your partner doesn’t like thirst traps when you send them? Discovered an ex had followed tons of these types on his Instagram…I’d never thought to look at what he was following until after I after I broke up with him. I quickly decided after that I didn’t need to keep looking at any of his socials and blocked him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/22 10:36 PM
72	Don't tell him what red flags are a deal breaker for you I learned this the hard way. Exes utterly weaponized past trauma against me. I shared in the first place because it initially was reciprocal, it seemed. I thought it was bonding and deepening of trust, etc. Barf. Going forward, if applicable, my lips are sealed on trauma save for my therapist (likewise I’m done being therapist for damaged men).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/22 04:23 AM
28	Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks? My last ex was conversely preoccupied by how good he thought I looked (hey I agree I look good) but it was getting weird. The last night/fight we had together I was in shock and he was in smooth over mode and he randomly, out of nowhere, said “your abs are right and tight”. I wanted emotional assurance we were okay and that I was heard, instead I got praise for being a trophy. That’s all how I mattered to him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/22 10:26 PM
11	Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂 I needed this lolz so bad today 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 11:21 PM
35	Women leaving the dating apps My experience with OLD ran me into a cluster of cluster Bs. I think dating apps lend themselves to people with personality disorders that I am more than done dealing with.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 05:23 AM
76	Women leaving the dating apps Exhausting is the only adjective I can think of from my experience in OLD. I was on an old OLD (ha) account the other day trying to delete the whole thing and I realized my whole body was frozen stiff in ickiness. I had to actively engage in deep breathing and get up and move.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 05:14 AM
16	🤡 You and me both sis. I’m still trying to plunge my self esteem back from down the toilet hole.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/02/22 12:06 AM
5	Heartbreaking. Wife wants to spend time with lv hubby v-day weekend, gets ignored. He admits he’s trash but doesn’t want her with another man Something similar happened to me last year, I happily went all out for my ex’s birthday, paid for dinner, looked like a million bucks, even shaved. and he ruined it by being totally and completely miserable and I was home without him alone on a Saturday evening in tears. Yeah fuck these guys.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 08:14 PM