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| 168 | Women vs men | SHOWER THOUGHT | Objective_Ad7771 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 03:53 AM |
| 51 | Cheers sis! You doged a bullet and his MGTOW friend | QUEEN SH*T | Objective_Ad7771 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchy in japan | DISCUSSION | Objective_Ad7771 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm doing a presentation on porn and how porn affects the brain | QUEEN SH*T | Objective_Ad7771 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 12:22 AM |
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| 350 | Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter.Here we have a male speciment discovering the phenomenon called a mid-life crisis. After his profound and "logical" examination he decided to indeed ruin the life of his partner only to become bitter in about 5 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 10:01 PM |
| 773 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?FDS isn't popular amongst men and this platform has a male majority. FDS might get hate but hey. Do we really care? I would rather get bullied on reddit by a nobody than being mistreated irl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 04:18 PM |
| 183 | Have you ever witnessed/experiences a LVM turn to a HVM?My current bf had a LVM period when he lost his mom. Smoking weed, watching porn, being miserable. We weren't together at that time (we didn't know each other). But we had a talk about it and the main thing that got him back to his HMV self was indeed himself. Self reflection and discipline. If I would be with him back then I'm not sure if it would help. I don't believe you can change a LVM it has to be sincere change from the inside not just to please you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:16 PM |
| 136 | 'Men age like fine wine' 'Women hit the wall'It's more like men's confidence ages like Coca-Cola. You know if you add mentos to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 11:39 PM |
| 42 | I have no words for the way other subs invalidate womenReddit has a male majority. That's why these opinions are ALWAYS biased. Also taking in consideration the amount of "cool girls" on here it would be suicide to take advice from them seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 06:53 PM |
| 74 | A post titled “would you date a porn star” on a popular men’s sub redditIt is terribly hypocritical from them I agree. On the other hand many pick me's are being "saved" from doing sex work this way. At least the sheer hypocrisy has one bright side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 07:14 PM |
| 11 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discussI'm sure I'm not the first or last person to develop anorexia because of chasing beauty standards. So yes chasing those standards is unhealthy af. Working out for yourself? That's a different story. That's the healthiest thing that you can do and even better when you enjoy what you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 09:20 PM |
| 34 | Has any1 else noticed the Playboy label being plastered all over “trendy” clothing brands… it makes me so uncomfortable this is being marketed in an already porn saturated generation. Both PacSun and Urban Outfitters proudly promote these products despite historical misogyny. It gives me the ‘ick’.Some people bullied them for pulling stuff like this. To play devils advocate it was kinda deserved. 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 09:03 PM |
| 112 | Has any1 else noticed the Playboy label being plastered all over “trendy” clothing brands… it makes me so uncomfortable this is being marketed in an already porn saturated generation. Both PacSun and Urban Outfitters proudly promote these products despite historical misogyny. It gives me the ‘ick’.I've seen people wearing p*rnhub logos on their sweatshirts in high school. Not to mention the "ahegao" hoodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder?Nope. 99% of encounters were LVM but I made one good friend there so it wasn't a total waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 11:36 PM |
| 32 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24I hope his d*ck falls off... Also I hope that Molly finds a better friend even tho that means that a lot of women will get played. Some pickmes gotta learn the hard way tho... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:58 AM |
| 13 | Scrote Bingos from the red flagsIf only ex cropped out. I've seen men cropping out their current gf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:19 AM |
| 68 | I understand the sentiment of this post was to tell women it is not our fault when a man has erectile dysfunction. I like many of her sketches. However, I think she forgot a lot of men also have (PIED) Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction... May I ask FDS sisters, how can we best tell the difference???If someone is too stressed to F then he will know and he will tell you BEFORE (also if he's tired, sick at the moment, not in the mood, physically exhausted etc.). That's how he's supposed to communicate that's what a HVM would do. If it's the alcohol - it's always better not to F while being wasted (better for both parties). A glass or two of wine should not have any effects on healthy men tho, if so then it would happen veeeeeery very rarely. Medication. Yeah. Can happen but that also means th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 12:20 AM |
| 232 | SWer finds out her dad watches porn. Calls him vile and disgusting. He doesn’t get why and neither does Reddit.Dumb and dumber & the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.... There's nothing more to add. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 05:28 PM |
| 108 | Suspicious?He was looking for the "most toxic subreddit" and someone ofc commented FDS. So a troll who wants controversial content for his podcast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 04:57 PM |
| 77 | The fake proposal -- anyone else?My ex tried to propose to me after I broke up with him (after a 2 year long relationship full of mistreatment, lying and some cheating). He was trying to "save" the relationship that way lmao (meaning I would be a forever fiancé with a cheapass ring). Also I was 18 at the time he was 20!!! We started dating when I was 16 ffs. Of course I want to be chained down by an asshole in my 20s /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 01:49 PM |
| 17 | Confused about our relationship - DESPERATE for helpSounds like a headache to be around. Girl let me ask you two things: are you happy? Do his good qualities really overshadow the obvious shit-show he's "bringing to the table"? If either of these two questions are a "no" then it would be beneficial for you to drop him. It might hurt but it would probably happen anyway + the longer you wait the worse it'll get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Man OK with 50/50 relationship as long as it's to his advantage. But as soon as it barely compensates the woman, it's transactional and gross. Notice, they're "spiritually" married 🙄That sounds like a smart woman... Apart from being in a spiritual marriage what the hell? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | How have your female friends and family members reacted to FDS when you introduced it to them? What are the ones who rejected FDS doing with their lives now?Pick me mom: dating a married man. He will probably never divorce. She's not a mistress I think since she met his kids. I don't have much info. She seems happy but the relationship is joke. He is nice to me and my brother but eeh I have a pretty neutral relationship with him. She's a wonderful mom so I don't despise her or anything but I just don't understand. Also it's motivational for me - I know what mistakes I have to avoid so I don't end up in such a joke ass relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:46 PM |
| 19 | 🤡Lead the conversation? Omg sure... Give me space to talk and do not interrupt every sentence and I'll GLADLY lead the conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:29 PM |
| 29 | Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻♀️This pick me ass didn't notice that we have years and years of proof that this strategy doesn't work? My mom was an angel, she treated him like a king 24/7 and she got cheated on anyway? How romantic. And a quite common thing too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 12:24 PM |
| 28 | Using your hobby to vetWoW is not that bad if he doesn't play insane amount of hours everyday (basically if he has some self control). Also you can vet in WoW - is he ganking players? That's a red flag honestly (for me a huge one). Will he explain the game to you and start from level 1 with you? Or will he keep his maxed character so he can flex on you and make the whole game boring af? Also it's expensive and not everyone can afford a subscription (as a student I sure can't) - will he help money wise because he wants… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 04:18 PM |
| 28 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.Let me guess he's a 7.5 max with the confidence of a 10 and a dick that's a 2? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:46 PM |
| 5 | How many of you ladies have found HVM since following FDS?Many green flags but It's still not decided. So far it's on a good way for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:56 AM |
| 17 | Man Triggered By My Post History On This & Similar Subs, Uses Slurs Such As "Whores" & "Faggot," Justifies Male Violence Through Evolutionary Biology, Sees "Legit" Pornography As Acceptable Due To Lack Of Explicit Trafficking (Missing Underlying Problem Of Misogyny & Sexualization Of Women/Children)The first paragraph screams : don't read just delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:50 AM |
| 4 | Some of these aren't even dates 🤦My pick me ass declined a VIP ticket to a concert once 🤡 also concerts are thrash unless it's VIP/golden/platinum honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:22 PM |
| 354 | Women are interchangeable (seen on IG)How many times do I have to explain to these losers that jerking off to pov bj porn is not getting head lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I caught my father watching porn. How should I address this?Depends on how good your relationship is. If you would feel comfortable you could tell him that it's a very abusive industry etc. A few men actually don't know about these aspects but most of them do and they don't care. If you ain't that close with him I would just drop it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 04:18 PM |
| 168 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorAs someone diagnosed with ADHD I can confirm that it doesn't make you act like an asshole. That's on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:18 PM |
| 193 | People in the comments are debating whether or not this is a good thing 🤡Women have it the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 08:15 AM |
| 24 | Man Sues Woman After She Refused To Have Sex😂Best part: men in the comments really think a 50 year old mediocre looking dude would have shot with a pretty 27 year old 😂 keep dreaming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 08:12 AM |
| 171 | Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.Idk man. Women have valid reasons to sort men like: damaged until proven otherwise... Yet we don't? After seeing posts like this I'm saying that we definitely should tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 07:09 PM |
| 79 | Is it really worth trying to help PickMes?Some pick me's are just pick me's because they think that's what you HAVE to be to get a relationship. And some pick me's genuinely believe men deserve women for the bare minimum. There's a difference. Some of them are worth saving but never pressure them too much. Just put your advice out there and leave it. A person is responsible for their own happiness after all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 12:13 PM |
| 103 | Are men seriously trying to normalize erectile dysfunction now??? 😬😬Porn is the equivalent of smoking in our generation. It will take them the next 10 years to figure out that it's not healthy and another 10 years to actually start doing something about it. In the meantime we will have an epidemic of men with erectile dysfunction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 07:25 AM |
| 15 | he has abs and attends uni, so because of this he believes he should be drowning in attractive women. proceeds to whine for several paragraphsWhat the hell is he talking about? If he isn't a 0/10 or just looking like a complete loser then a pick me will always swipe him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Apparently not wanting to be assaulted in the bedroom is "vanilla".Vanilla is the best flavor anyway 🌺 vanilla ice-cream, vanilla parfums and vanilla sex 🌺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 11:33 PM |
| 26 | Not having children in this pedophilic society.I'm gonna adopt so I can give a little angel some hope in this world. So she doesn't end up with a pedo or abuser or a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:31 AM |
| 30 | Today I was told to be less professional at work...Oh god that reminded me of a recent news article in my country where a woman (a police officer) got told to get a psychiatrical exam done because she wouldn't accept or dismiss mistakes done by her boss (a scrote obviously). Like the hell??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 11:00 PM |
| 72 | Always be vetting: Scrotes will make you their forever girlfriend, message other women while you pay the bills, then dump youI hate the way he wrote it - it sounds like we're supposed to feel sorry for him. Ain't gonna happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 02:52 PM |
| 66 | Germany Is About to Block One of the Biggest Porn Sites — WIREDThis made my day 🌺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 03:17 AM |
| 4 | Women get judged & picked apart from head to toe while the bar is set in hell for men but lord forbid we say anything about their dicks 😒 Nah, we need to hold them to the same standards!When will pickmes learn that positive reinforcement is pointless when dealing with men? Do you think he will stop body shaming you when you stop first? Seriously? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 05:08 PM |
| 451 | There's a comedian's bit where he says "if someone is paying you minimum wage, what they're saying is 'this is the lowest I can get away with, but I'd pay you less if I could'". I think grown men who say they are into 18 year olds are the same way and I want to screamA few years ago my mom told me that most men are pedophiles. Thanks mom for keeping it real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 01:31 PM |
| 5 | Cheers sis! You doged a bullet and his MGTOW friendProbably... But if it's not fake then I'm glad for the queen. The trash does take itself out sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 02:20 PM |
| 62 | WHAT IN THE PICKMEISHA DID I JUST READ? 🥴5% of looks and 100% personality vs. 5% of looks and 0% of personality. Yeah we still better than most men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Translation: “I have no plans for my future but I will abide to yours until I find the next best thing”Ew kid, that ain't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 03:48 AM |
| 87 | “Boost your confidence by humiliating yourself and subjecting yourself to constant male rejection.”The rejection part is a tactic to boost/gain confidence (getting used to rejection, training to overcome the grief of rejection and so on). On the other hand it can give an ego boost to the person you're asking out (in this case) and holy molly we don't need more overconfident mediocre men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 03:27 AM |
| 52 | A 3 part story of Why We Avoid ScrotesLol yet he would complain if she named the most expensive restaurant in the city. Just say you're broke and go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:42 PM |
| 6 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Thank you so much Lilith. FDS loves you, we love you. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:59 PM |
| 14 | Men threaten us with "you'll be forever single" while our dating pool is THIS....no thanksWell stay a virgin who jerks off 24/7. Not our problem love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 52 | They were together for 8 years and wants a ring worthy of wearing the rest of her life. Most comments are calling her a gold digger...surprise surprise 😒 How much do you want to bet he won’t find anyone else & comes back crying on her doorstep? 💅🏻I'm sorry but 140$?😂 What the hell? I'm middle class and a student and still could afford like 5 of these rings and still be financially stable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:45 PM |
| 58 | Beware of video games: An insight into the misogyny of gaming culture and tips on how to vet men who like to game.My bf started to game and it's going downhill. I thought we will mainly play together since I love the game (WoW) - nope after he comes home he eats and goes for gaming (I'm talking 5 hours of gaming straight) I have to study during that time or do literally anything else productive (no wifey stuff tho - miss me with cleaning or cooking for 2). Gonna leave soon if something doesn't change. Sad stuff he would be perfect apart from this sh*t. Guys who get easily addicted to stuff like gaming are a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:33 AM |
| 200 | Text and talking are cheap ways to build faux intimacy with a woman! Make it expensive for him to waste your time.🌺Ah yes dick the cheapest cut of meat. Loving the energy🌺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:15 PM |
| 47 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"I don't hate the product I hate the consumer. Like sure suck dick for 5 bucks we don't care but the men who give you the 5 bucks... Gurl they trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:52 PM |
| 8 | The anime obsessed🚩🚩I think it's good they have sex dolls and whatever to satisfy their perverted brain since they won't breed - these men in japan have 0 interests in having a family and that's the ultimate win for women - no degenerated genes = no degenerated men. It's natural selection all over again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:09 AM |
| 36 | The anime obsessed🚩🚩Hentai and ESPECIALLY hentai mangas are even more violent than normal porn ffs. F*cking gore, torture, murder everywhere - not to mention that a good chunk of horror mangas are just fetish art. Disgusting and horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:30 PM |
| 19 | This has to be the funniest and most pathetic thing I've read.As a former "young girl" (I'm 20 but I'm sure that's too old for them by now) I can confirm that nobody wants to date pedophiles. thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:42 AM |
| 3 | Don't you love it when you call a guy out and his come back is "oh you're on Female Dating Strategy, make sense why you have an attitude?" 🤣Yeah probably not - we're on Reddit after all 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 02:13 AM |
| 9 | Don't you love it when you call a guy out and his come back is "oh you're on Female Dating Strategy, make sense why you have an attitude?" 🤣Reply with: "Oh you have a penis makes sense why you have only shitty hot takes and unpopular opinions" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 02:08 AM |
| 13 | Tell me about your HV first date with someone who did, in fact, turn out to be HVLiterally booking a table at the most expensive dinning place in the city (he's not super wealthy but had some savings for special moments/trips) - I didn't came (I was a pick me and thought he wants sex afterwards and I have periods so I'm not going). He wasn't mad at all - we rescheduled and at the dinner I explained why I didn't come the first time and he was so confused and explained that he wouldn't care and his main goal was to get to know me better. Then he asked me if I want to stay at t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:13 PM |
| 5 | An FDS guide to tradcon intellectualismI "pulled" my bf by "intellectually" challenging him on Petersons terrible ideas while getting shit faced in the proces. Luckily it was a treat for me and he's no longer a Peterson fan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Men are most attractive in their 20sI literally know only ONE guy that is attractive and is 45 + he's super nice (a HVM to his wife) but I know a shit ton of 40 yr bald, poor hygiene scrotes with a beer belly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:15 PM |
| 20 | Three German Men Market a Hot Pink Glove to Dispose of Period Products Like a Doggy Poo BagOh boy they gonna be surprised when women decide to rock up in a hazmat suit everytime they want sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:12 PM |
| 3 | FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!That could be a pretty tricky situation with Brittany Venti. It would give the podcast a lot of exposure for sure but her fans.... Eh you don't want their attention - a bunch of "FDS-superfans". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:59 PM |
| 11 | Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes?My former pick me personality would say: to get them more interested. To hell with that mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:40 AM |
| 287 | Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wildVanilla is the new "kinky" and I can't complain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 10:52 AM |
| 53 | A 49 year old man has an ✨epiphany✨ and people in the comments thank and praise him for his 'insight'🙌 and give him lots of awards 🏅🏅🏅Wow he is starting to realize that he should carry his own weight in a relationship. Wow. Amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:37 AM |
| 14 | He says he is all for “enthusiastic consent” but his whole post is putting women down for not wanting to have sex and being upset when their partners turn to porn.If he doesn't make a woman cum it's his fault she cheats with someone who makes her cum. Same shitty logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:22 PM |
| 9 | Ladies - consider splurging on an expensive gym membership!True to that - I've been literally told by a 40 year old scrote I shouldn't do pull ups because that's too "manly" in a cheap ass gym. Idk why he is he caring about what a 19yr is doing with her body anyway. In the more expensive gym I go to now there's more women and I love that fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 160 | 🙄 There’s literally no pressure on men because the bar is in hellYeah I'll take both thanks - financial stability and a nice ring + wedding. Can't meet that criteria? Don't expect me to stick around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:26 PM |
| 6 | Why does every keep recommending therapy?Not all people are going to give you respect and basic decency. That's not a thing anyone can change but the people themselves. You can do your part and be decent and respectful to people yourself and maybe you'll inspire someone. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/21 11:57 AM |
| 21 | LVM truly live on a different planet 🤡Oh that surely happens a lot. Source: trust me bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 54 | Found out he watches porn, kicked him out at 1:30amAww that sucks. I hope you will feel better soon sis. You made the right thing 100% and you know that. I applaud the way you stand by your principles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 08:10 AM |
| 10 | MEN ARE DISGUSTINGHello (a MD student here) please I have a question since I'll be doing supervised practical courses (I don't know what to call it in English) and I have been wondering how do you shelter yourself from sexist comments from patients? What to do when a patient disrespects you? And how to cope with potencial sexism from doctors? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 09:29 PM |
| 15 | How to prevent myself from getting sucked into the red pill, MGTOW?You must start to distinguish how women act IRL vs on the internet. A cliché thing to say but : the internet f*cks with people's mind A LOT - it could help to give yourself a break from the internet. People on the internet and especially on sites where you're practically anonymous (like reddit) behave completely different than irl - it seems like people would vent their toxicity freely (which on one end is good since it's a good way to vent the toxic things out but it also makes it seem like peo… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/21 01:13 PM |
| 9 | How do you feel about men since following FDS?The worst thing I realized is that men are less moral than women on average and it grosses me out. Also FDS made me cherish my HVM boyfriend even more than I did before - if for any reason I would become single again I totally wouldn't rush to meet more men since the vetting process is time consuming (but necessary). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:55 PM |
| 5 | Can you confirm that personality matters?Looks will get you to be more noticeable but in a relationship (meanly in a long term relationship) it's the personality that pulls it all together (on both sides). Also there's people who just forget about attractiveness of other people when in a relationship (bcs love still exists). | /r/ExRedPill | 26/03/21 03:22 PM |
| 27 | Ok, is anyone else tired of how people are pushing the idea of open relationships today?If my partner would tell me that he wants on open relationship I would open the door for him. Boy bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | How you guys went from redpill to exredpill?It's a vicious cycle for a lot of people. My advice is that you have to understand that it isn't objective truth - that's why it is hard for many - they're feeding you statistics, science and stuff that is hard to argue against making it seem like the realest reality that can exist. It is not - they misinterpret things, post only statics that help to prove there point and so on. Once you realize that their stats don't correspond with reality you will have a better time getting TRP and blackpill … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 6 | I'm An Incel. Ask Me Anything.I agree with the comments under the vid that if he didn't have this nasty mindset he would be able to get a gf with ease - maybe a pickme but he might be some persons type. Just go to therapy bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:49 PM |
| 6 | Do you think fixing some of mens issues might also solve a lot of females issues?I personally don't think so - maybe completely destigmatizing psychiatrical and psychological help might help. But even wealthy and self fulfilled men behave like sh*t towards women - from sexual assault to murder. I would support fixing men's issues (depending on what exactly do you mean and if it doesn't cross out any rights for women) but I don't think it would fix women's issues nor help to trim down sexual assault or rape in a major way. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 6 | Her replies in the comments show the pick me behaviour. I am mad. She is teaching other women wrong ideasBruh I'm not his manager | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Is all people do is have sex?Get a hobby that is not centered around sex whatsoever. Reading? Drawing? Whatever. Get out of social media - do an internet detox. People like to flex with how much sex they're having ESPETIALLY on the internet. Irl you can just say change the topic let's talk about something else. It's about your own mindset - being bothered about sex. Normal people don't think about it as much as you would think - you must be surrounded by some toxicity that draws your attention to it. I hope you get better e… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else cringe at red pill terminologyBig yikes. Clean up your room how many times you want but don't stick your nose into other people's relationships. It's that simple. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/21 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else cringe at red pill terminologyhttps://www.jordanbpeterson.com/media/on-the-new-york-times-and-enforced-monogamy/ It's not advice but it is an idea from Jordy himself. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/21 02:39 AM |
| 3 | I don’t where else to post this so I’m just gonna post here.Female dating strategy on reddit - it's a very hated sub (especially by redpillers but it helped me a lot) | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/21 06:36 PM |
| 0 | I don’t where else to post this so I’m just gonna post here.I would recommend you to check out FDS - there's some solid advice but then again don't take everything there to heart. There are things you mind disagree with but also tips on how to shelter and protect yourself from possible abuse/gaslighting - and how to avoid the "bad kind" men. Also there are stories from members that highlight the good aspects of men. After scrolling down your profile I noticed we have pretty similar interests - if you want to talk about this topic or other topics please d… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I don’t where else to post this so I’m just gonna post here.Also usuall hook up dates are what? 50/50 Coffee dates? Walk-dates? Netflix and chill? I think that is something that they can easily budget if they want "free" sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 5 | And hobbies you’ve picked up as you’ve leveled up?Gym/working out, studying (more than just for school), bass guitar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else cringe at red pill terminologyJordy's fan-boys take a lot of what he says quite too literally. Please be aware that even when he is a extremely intelligent person and get his point across very well (in a understandable manner) his die hard fans still misinterpreted him and somehow end up on the red pill anyway. Anyone who gives some sort of lectures on psychology and human behavior should defo advice their audience that they should use their critical thinking and don't take these words as a gospel and objective truth that ap… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/21 03:49 AM |
| 11 | A clown in his natural habitatAnd here we see the prime example of a monkey brain running on full capacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:11 PM |
| 3 | On the wallYou "hit the wall" when you stop caring about your own physical and mental health. Why TRP thinks women hit the wall at 30 is because most women around that age have children and need to focus their care on their children rather than to focus on themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/21 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Why didn't we ever learn about warrior women in school? Our history books were exclusively about men. I would have loved to play 'warrior women' with my friends instead of playing house :(That reminds me of high-school: me and my friend group LARPed as a royal family who's head was our empress, her husband and the pope was our gay friend he also had a second wife that was the prime minister and minister of finances and I was their son also the head of the secret inteligence and the leader of the army (I'm a woman but they wanted to call me son so bad so I just rolled with it - in fact it became my nickname). Whenever we had a bad experience with guys we would call them peasants o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:25 PM |
| 17 | I finally broke up with him, thanks to FDS.Stay strong. It may hurt a while but you deserve better. You know you do - that's why you did and we are proud of you. Lvl up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 21 | Welp! Now the incels on a famous greentext posting website have found us. RIP mods’ inboxes 😭Me and my gal pals - so we can amuse ourselves by the stupidity of men also to stay informed about shady things they pull. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 40 | MeNs InFiDeLiTy Is DiFfErEnTBiology said: bruh your genom should be dead by now. Why you still here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 05:29 PM |
| 21 | How do you deal with hatred of men?Take a break from social media. It amplifies shitty things (all media do). Instead do some self care. Focus on your health (I suggest martial arts to blow some steam off), education (the motivation is simple: you will be more confident when you face a mansplainer) or whatever takes your mind off of people in general. It's not because you want to be okay with the injustice - it's because you don't want to let it tear you down. You can also start to think about what exactly you can do to advocate … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:57 AM |
| 100 | [TRENDING] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+703 subscribers today; 176% trend score)Vice basically gave us a free shout out. How nice of them ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:00 AM |
| 77 | Even the men on Twitter are defending FDS over Dominque. Regarding the whole Vice article, this was one of the responsens on the Vice twitter. Meanwhile not a single person has been patting her on the back and told her she did a great job- quite the opposite.I'm cheering for male lurkers that actually take some advice from here. You're doing a great job! Level up bro! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 11:26 PM |
| 18 | Have any of you ladies actually gotten an orgasm from men?2 out of 10. Both long term partners. Casual sex is a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Choose Your Fighter: The “men comparing women to inanimate objects because they cannot fathom women as being any more than just objects for their own gratification” edition!If women are supposed to be virgins till marige and men should be players. Does that mean they should fuck themselves? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 12:32 AM |
| 6 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"Haha okay I'm fine with humanity dying out like that. Women will single-handedly save the environment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:29 AM |
| 21 | “Hi, what do you usually do when a stranger writes that you look great on a profile? 🤔” SAY IT WITH ME! We block and delete!Greetings fellow Czech💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 07:13 AM |
| 8 | Found the guy with weak chin in antifeminist group lmaoShe looks cute what the hell do they mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 8 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!I don't know how to feel about this. I don't know if she realized that if she let's a person treat her like that from the beginign it won't get better. She's just showing him that she has 0 standards. If he won't spent something on a nice ring she's gonna have a cheap wedding, cheap presents, cheap everything that has to do with her. So I hope that she at least saves money herself so she can eventually gtfo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:59 PM |
| 23 | Men think that it's WOMEN'S fault they're addicted to porn 🙄If porn wouldn't exist they would have to use their imagination - that's some serious brain workout maybe that would help them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Idk what to think anymoreThe vast majority of women may be like that. That just means you aren't compatible with the majority of women. It's normal - it isn't easy to find the right partner for anyone. The women I know are like 10% the type of hypergamy where they would gladly cheat, 70% hypergamy in the sense of looking for partners "out of their league" (in terms of attractiveness etc.) but they wouldn't cheat, 20% totally realistic in their standarts and don't care about money or status. And all of them have options … | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/21 10:03 AM |
| 6 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsNever getting kids or a shared bank account like fuck no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Leaving the red pillTry to focus on your self for a while. Set criteria you want to fit in: calm, kind or anything you find as positive aspects of a person. Imagine the person you want to be and make a plan how to accomplish that. Start small but think big you can do it. Find hobbies that will allow you to ignore genders in general let it be sport, art, science, books anything that will benefit your mental health. Try to focus on mastering or getting really good at that hobby. Possibly cut out social media or limit… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/21 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Why do Redpill/MGTOW lifestyle coaches encourage men you only have sex with women under 25?True to that. I wish people could just not follow everything like a gospel. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/21 01:23 PM |
| 7 | Why do Redpill/MGTOW lifestyle coaches encourage men you only have sex with women under 25?I'm a FDS-er and we encourage women to date men around their age. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How do I make female friends?Oh alright:) | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/21 08:23 AM |
| 3 | How do I make female friends?I would suggest that you start with something easier like online friendships. You can take your time to respond, think about what you're saying etc. or you can be bold and literally tell people(women) that you have poor social skills right from the start (not as the first thing ofc). Bare in mind that not everyone has understanding for people with low social skills but on the other hand it shows that you're human. Also let them choose the topic, go easy on controversial opinions/topics, learn ho… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/21 02:13 AM |
| 4 | Liberal feminism and its ZVM supporters. Ladies, it's time for resistance.The best part is that when you google Coomer it's basically his profile pic... Just more accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:47 PM |
| 18 | Liberal feminism and its ZVM supporters. Ladies, it's time for resistance.Isn't that guy literally called Richard Coomer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:12 PM |
| 80 | These guys are around us, ladies.These made me laugh really. Some individuals just like to tell on themselves yeah? The guys that are in my friend group + my boyfriend are actually human beings with emotions and not just walking talking ball sacks like the authors of these bullshit statements. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 8 | Examples of HVM or healthy relationships in media?Moxie and Millie from Helluva boss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:12 AM |
| 112 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.Gaming like other things can become easily an addiction. People don't want addicts (like drug addicts) in their life yet they tolare this addiction - even when it can be as unhealthy as a drug addiction (apart from overdosing). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:24 PM |
| 24 | He forced her to buy him a PS5 for Christmas, but claims that SHE'S the materialistic one! Nah, sis. If you see this... take your PS5 and leave him!Since the girl who this is about obviously found this sub then I would like to say: Hi! Welcome to FDS!💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 07:31 AM |
| 42 | YikesHuh wonder why guys become incels. It's forever a mystery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 07:21 AM |
| 61 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏Mean and popular? Yes please 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 10:03 AM |
| 12 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.I think my new kink will be kink shaming and pick-me shaming. This is nuts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:10 PM |
| 4 | I am sick of the normalization of dangerous fetishes!I just hope that guys like that aren't gone or taken. I wish you luck tho. And god please beware of liars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:54 PM |
| 7 | Top popular post of today on whisper lol my friend sent this to me 😂 now more women can discover this amazing group 💕Mean girls vibes 💅 you can't sit with us scrote💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:31 PM |
| 5 | I am sick of the normalization of dangerous fetishes!Sadly the majority of men watches porn. If he at least has the manners to stop when in a relationship I'm willing to accept that. But you do you and never settle for less queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:05 PM |
| 38 | I am sick of the normalization of dangerous fetishes!Strategy: When you get comfortable to talk about sexual stuff with the guy- be very eager about wanting to know his fantasies and fetishes. Ask him what porn he watches and try to sound like you don't mind/are interested (sometimes you have to be a bit manipulative to get him spill the truth). If you come across anything that you think that crosses the line (even slightly) then get out. It only can get worse. Also if possible date a guy that is totally cool about giving up porn in a relationship… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:18 PM |
| 3 | if women don't like bad boysBecause bad boys were romantacizes. It's the fantasy of a bad boy but most women would back off if the guy would be actually a bad guy. It's like rape fantasies - good in theory (fantasy) but big nope in reality. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/21 11:56 AM |
| 2 | What’s your opinion on Jordan Peterson?I'm more amazed how willingly guys listen to each of his ideas. It's obvious that a lot of his fans have daddy issues and other males need a smart sounding male so they can finally take advice from someone. More than his ideas I was fascinated how well he can "manage" his audience and manipulate them into actively seeking out his content. As for me personally I enjoyed his biblical series to some extent - as a non Christian I wanted a fun introduction to the Bible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:20 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think of this? (My personal opinion is in the comments)My dad just gave me a prime example what kind of guys I want to avoid. He's one of the most LVM I've ever met. My mom literally told him: She's looking for guys that are the exact opposite of you and you're the reason why - thanks for that I think she'll be very happy in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Who do you know a men:women is redpilled?I've went with a few redpilled guys to high-school and it's pretty easy to spot them. Just ask about feminism - if the answer is it ruined society/we don't need femism then bingo that's a redpilled person | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/21 12:01 AM |
| 8 | What made you become red pill? And why did you leave?Honestly I (19F) wanted validation and attention. I was jealous, envious, competitive for male attention and the easiest way to get the attention was just to agree with them. The thing that made me snap out of it was school - I discovered that I'm quite talented in scientific and technical subjects - it shifted my focus away from people and it felt frikin wonderful and super freeing. Also science is still a male ruled field - I've encountered sexism face to face (especially at competitions) and … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/21 11:50 PM |
| 10 | For ex red pill women: Nobody's coming, and nobody gives a fuckI agree with everything but the love, honor and obey part. Love and honor yourself and obey your intuition/desires/wishes. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/21 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Sounds like LVM logic: “Do the bare minimum”My partner is 100% perfect for me. I would say that objective perfection doesn't exist yet subjective perfection does. My ex on the other hand was "good enough" and the experience was rather unfulfilling in contrast with my current boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 11:42 PM |
| 196 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"No I'm sure he was sober but I blame sexulization of nurses and his small monkey brain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:59 PM |
| 464 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"A guy once told me I should just become a nurse because doctors are older and not as attractive as nurses. Guess who's in med school getting that MD degree? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 11:17 AM |
| 72 | If women are naturally golddigging, hypergamous, shallow wh+res like the scrotes say...how come we can't just blame mUh BioLogY like men do?I always answer to the it's muh biology argument with: bruh biology said your genom should be dead by now guess what? Times have changed maybe you should too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:45 AM |
| 44 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.Just sent to my friend group 😊 I'm doing my part 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Women vs menI'm not surprised haha. Thanks for the input and links! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Women vs menI totally agree with you don't get me wrong. I just think that even this stupid stereotype will not only be dismantled but also will favour women by saying: women can do anything while men struggle with empathy and nurturing for some reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Women vs menExactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Women vs menOn the other hand it's an awesome motivation right? To make them mad by being smart, educated and surpassing them in their own field. Negative motivation is still motivation 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Women vs menThat's why they decided to limit our opportunities we would completely supas them - and they would get redundant real quick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:38 PM |
| 31 | Women vs menThat's true but we have to step up the game - let's conquer STEM, law, medicine and make it the jobs associated with women not men 💪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about guys who watch anime?There's some good stuff coming out too! Kimi no na wa, beastars (kinda on the edge with the scenes/topics but it's overall very well made), hxh, Koe no katachi, mob psycho (it's a huge reality check made into an anime), death parade or Carol and Tuesday was just adorable. This comment just turned into anime recommendations but if you ever feel like watching newer anime try to give these a shot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 12:31 AM |
| 32 | Damn straightDamn that me. I went though a convo (that dumb ass allowed me to) found nudes from his best friend (simultaneously his frikin ex). He advocated that he didn't respond/didn't hit on her so I texted her. It took me a frikin month to dump his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:01 PM |
| 23 | What do you think about guys who watch anime?It's not that far from dating a gamer. Yes I can be friends with them we have a few interests in common, similar humor etc. But that's it. They're often lazy, obbsesed with just and only anime/games, porn sick and often out of touch with reality. Of course if you came a cross someone who's decent try to watch anime with him that he thinks is worthwhile/his favourite anime (you can tell a lot by his taste). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:21 PM |
| 27 | What do you think about guys who watch anime?As a weeb myself I would not date a fellow weeb - I have a lot of anime fans in my friend group but I would never ever date them. Male anime fans in a nutshell: good friends but terrible partners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:08 PM |
| 7 | Armed and dangerous?You can use anything as a kubotan. I usually carry Peper spray and a knife (makes me feel safer) + a kubotan pen thingy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | This one speaks for itself...At this point I believe that women shouldn't be striving for equality but for superiority | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | And I will not be stopped!!Ask about how he views feminism/female problems- you might stumble across a few red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 01:46 PM |
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