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6

They're the ones who do these things to each other though? I've no idea why they keep telling us as if it's our business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 07:56 AM
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You frame this "generosity" as a good thing, but it's actually called "being a doormat" and it's precisely what is fucking us over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:01 AM
9

I'd rather eat glass LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:58 AM
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If a man asks a woman out to dinner, he should pay, no? He's the one asking after all, and it's men's role to pursue, simply because women provide and risk much more in a relationship just by virtue of being women and possessing the womb. I'm not sure why liberal feminists are so keen to ensure women have no understanding of their fundamental value and as such seek no compensation and insurance of investment from their historically unpredictable mates. You'd think they want to sabotage women as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:53 AM
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This is it, isn't it? Women don't actually have any genuine love for men, they just aren't allowed to have love for anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:21 AM
23

Congratulations demonic liberal feminists and conservatives, the latter worked hard to reduce the female psyche to a cowardly shadow of herself and the former managed to convince her that her body is a currency, a product that can be freely bought, sold and consumed. This is the result. Two sides of the same coin, deceptively opposite, both cooperating with the same goal of keeping women beneath men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:19 AM
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Most males are so repulsive-looking I'm surprised they can even look the average woman in the eyes. We're too nice to them, they remind us that we're not perfect but we never remind them they're far beneath average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 06:31 AM
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The dream is to have a high-paying job and security for yourself and get a rich boyfriend/husband that enjoys spoiling you with his own money. Financial independence doesn't make women men, or unworthy of being treated like ladies. If anything, it gives women the freedom to be feminine and receptive to male effort without the fear that comes with financial dependency. Women need to have their own money on the side for their safety at any rate, men simply don't experience the same risks, women do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 11:49 PM
145

The only damn thing that will limit men's aggression towards women is women themselves growing a backbone. We need to focus less on men and more on women and how to empower their minds from a young age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:36 PM
363

Comfort yourself with the fact that in recent years men like this are getting absolutely destroyed and abandoned by society. They're not necessary like they used to be, divorce and going no-contact are no longer rare or taboo measures. Adult males aren't a family's crowning jewel, or unconditionally loved in the way their mothers raised them to think they always will be. Violent tantrums and exploitation are still present, of course, but they're nowhere near as acceptable. Overt sociopathic beha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 09:31 PM
7

The world is a boy's club, and everything is easier for males because they suck each other's dicks all the time. A woman would never get away with this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 07:03 PM
2

Stay at home dad? Ignoring the rest, I have to ask if men have truly gone completely insane? Women get pregnant, women give birth, women breast-feed and are most needed by their infants for the first year of their life. Men are responsible for supporting, caring for and serving their wives and the mothers of their children during this vulnerable and crucial stage. Men aren't even male anymore, they're just unmasculine soul-suckers with tits and 5 different addictions. Their demands to be the bos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:59 PM
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Why do men hate single mothers so much, when most of the time it's because of men's failure to be fathers? Oh, is it because men know they will always come second in the relationship, and women's children will always come first, as is natural of course? Is it because they're living proof that males aren't a necessity, and not a legitimate part of a nuclear (core) family, but an optional financial assistant? Do they see in single mothers a potential we have ignored until now, albeit one that isn'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:44 PM
182

Males never want a chance to change, they just want to extend the period where they get to keep their slaves. They don't care about making their wives' lives hell until they're in danger of losing their bangmaids. It's all about them. It's all about their feelings, their second chances, their precious free time and career, their dirty underwear, their porn, their sexual satisfaction, their gaming time, and their right to be worthless, disgusting burdens to everyone around them. It's about their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:36 PM
43

Imagine not only dating, but marrying, a grown man who wastes his time gaming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 06:31 PM
41

Misogyny truly is just a tool for men to create an artificial value for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 11:10 AM
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I'm glad women are slowly realising that having a man isn't necessary and that being single is perfectly fine, if not better than the alternative in most cases. Men like this make themselves so easy to get rid of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 08:30 AM
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Funny how men who pick and trust the wrong women never end up raped and murdered, stabbed, mutilated and disfigured, riddled with bullets, melted by acid thrown on their face, cut into peaces and placed in plastic bags or found dead and half-naked in some ditch. It's like the issue isn't innocent people's lapses in judgement, or falling victim to clever manipulation and lies...it's like the problem is the extreme, systematic nature and frequency of male violence against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 11:58 PM
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The 50s man didn't deserve the 50s woman though? What's with feminists and FDS women subtly implying that men deserve female slaves for doing a fraction of the labour that they should do? That submission is even realistic, or comes naturally to women, or that it is earnable? Shouldn't men cater to, silently provide for and serve women due to women's fundamentally superior role as creators of the human species? I never hear of this take, funnily enough. They've reduced our expectations to the poi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 11:52 PM
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In a men's prison, everyone is a man, and the ones in power are men too. They're surrounded by people just like themselves, with urges and behaviours just like themselves, they're no pitiful victims of some sadistic third party. They're just men among men, big deal. A continuation of their privilege. Women's experience in real life, where a fundamentally different, predatory group of people has all the power, is infinitely worse than men's experience in prison. It's a disrespect to women to even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 11:44 PM
11

Maybe it shouldn't, though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 11:38 PM
23

Why are mentally ill people placed in the same category when the behavioural patterns of mentally ill women and men are wildly different? A person who commits an extremely violent act with mental illness being a contributing factor, be it family annihilation or a mass shooting, is significantly more likely to be male, to the point that the possibility for the alternative doesn't even compare. Women should avoid dating and marrying mentally ill men as a precaution. Political correctness doesn't h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 11:36 PM
11

This is beautiful, and how it should be. How unfortunate that it isn't, but progress is what's we're all about. Men should count their lucky stars they are considered parents of some value even though all the do is have sex. This is a priceless favour women do to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:56 PM
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Truly masculine men are repulsed by traditionally feminine women. Why would a well-adjusted and psychologically mature male want to partner and have sex with a woman that mothers him and treats him like one would treat a helpless toddler? Why would he even have child-like fantasies of honor and gaming bullshit instead of being a productive member of society? This is borderline paraphilic, males call themselves masculine when they're anything but, they're mentally stunted with the sexual urges of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 08:02 AM
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What does it matter. He's in debt so not even the pitiful ones want him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 05:41 AM
275

"His connection to his ex is understandable" 😂😂😂 You heard it here ladies, being emotionally cucked is just the normal female experience, swallow your pride and accept that men are shameless wh0res who never get over their exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:30 PM
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It's fitting, because men who say shit like this are usually secretly psychotic woman-stranglers, like the guy in the pic, and women who repeat these words are delusional victims of domestic abuse, just like the girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:27 PM
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This shit is disgusting, seriously. Women's nurturing feelings are meant to be directed towards their helpless little babies, which are among the most precious members of society, not hyperemotional, grown, hairy males twice their size. If anything, it's women that require comfort and nurture after being stunted and abused by men for so long, especially considering the fact that women do far more labour than men, inside their bodies, inside the house and even professionally. This male desire is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 07:32 AM
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Have you ever seen a human being try to convince an ape that the former is deserving of rights and liberty? No. I don't get how you can even bring yourself to try to convince males that "women are human". I feel ridiculous even writing this 😂 If women aren't human then what is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 07:23 AM
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Lmao at women thinking they can have high quality, 100% sincere debates with any man. It wouldn't matter if I was married to an exceptional HVM for 50 years and had 5 kids with him, debates and "serious" conversations with men are hardly something I'd call "high-quality". As I see it, males serve a specific purpose in women's lives, a particular minor role, more sophisticated conversations are something I take seriously when it comes to female friends and family members only. I have conversation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:18 PM
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Women demanding compensation from society and men for bearing 100% of the reproductive burden and dealing with pregnancy and childbirth is something that's long overdue. I foresee women taking advantage and leveraging their reproductive abilities in the near future. It's an extraordinary ability and potential source of power. It's a means by which we could center women in society also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:09 PM
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No, he's fucked in the head. As damaged by a porn-sick society as it gets. Imagine laying down to bed next to a man that enjoys fucking women in the ass, or entertains the idea. Tbh, It's also icky that he thought it was okay to say it. It goes to show how twisted society has become. Edit: I just read the second half of your posts...you have issues yourself. You aren't a man with a small dick to feel insecure about whether you'll satisfy your partner, you're a woman dating a male that thinks the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:31 AM
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Peaces of shit. I return their lack of sympathy and good faith tenfold, it's what they deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 11:58 AM
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We're all so isolated. There is no precedent of single mothers bonding with each other to help each other/raise their children together, even if it'd make things much easier. This isn't the kind of family society wants to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:02 AM
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3 young girls... In some ways men are so abnormal and difficult to understand, they're like aliens. They can act civilized and shocked at brutality like women do, and then hours later they do the most psychotic shit to their wives and children. Totally normal boys that are polite and considerate can display extreme depravity and evil if you overhear conversations they have with each other. Nice dads watch violent pornography with girls their daughters' age. Ordinary guys that do good collectivel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 05:37 AM
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I've noticed that women constantly make jokes out of their misery and fuck-ups. "When your husband wakes you up 6 times for specific instructions on how to change a diaper after you just finished a double shift from your third job 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭🤣🤣😂😂" I don't even pity them anymore lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:23 AM
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It is not surprising that violent pornography, which all pornography is, would be a contributing factor in bringimg out the worst out of men. Please do not forget, that women also consume porn, and they commit nowhere near a comparable number of violent crimes or violent sexual crimes, be it against children or women. There's two factors at play here, male nature, and exposure to recorded violence against women and objectification/dehumanisation of women and girls. It's also important to remembe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:20 AM
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This forum is riddled with damaged addicts. The people who respond to this post aren't neurologically healthy, hence their reactions. These comments are reminiscent of drug addicts calling drugs that create dependency insignificant because they're not heroin or Fentanyl or something. Fuck ups of society trying to lower the standards for everyone to feel slightly better for themselves. Yes, porn is good enough a reason for the termination of a relationship, it's not even a question. Watching othe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:12 AM
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One time a tall, exceptionally attractive and well-dressed man smiled at me and I felt my vagina literally twitch and my cheeks heat up. I didn't even know the former was possible. No decent-looking or average guy ever made me feel like that. I went from perfectly normal to feeling like a cat in heat in less than two seconds. We're deprived of so much because of how ugly and classless most men are. The good thing about that memory is that I didn't talk with him, everything goes to shit when they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:34 PM
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Damn, he gave you male validation about an issue surely all women cry to sleep over every single day, and you didn't immediately hop on his dick in gratitude? Poor guy 😕 Women are ungrateful b!tches these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:42 PM
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If men are too quiet about something, be it their intentions, political beliefs or profession, it's always for a reason. They know you won't like the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:01 AM
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I see, so a pornographic show about underage high-school kids having sex and doing drugs is meant for grown adults to view? Euphoria is fucked up regardless of how you look at it. Undefendable show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:58 AM
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It's trash. The narrator is an idiot, and the show doesn't make it obvious enough. It does nothing but give harmful messages to impressionable youth and glamorise harmful behaviours, because that's how it pulls in viewers. The fact that it pretends to be progressive and sophisticated while having a regressive impact on the viewers is the icing on the cake. "It isn't targeted at teenagers" Bullshit. "It isn't meant to be taken at face value" STFU "It's not the show's fault a lot of people lack cr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:54 AM
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Men who don't give a shit about their physical health don't give a shit about anyone else, family or friends. It's obvious, they're always the ones who burden their wives the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 09:46 AM
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I do think I'm owed chivalry. Of course males aren't owed to own female slaves with no bodily autonomy they can rape, coerce and abuse, even though strangely enough the irrational male sex often assumes it's equivalent. Anyway, if a male doesn't want to pay on the first date just pay your food and quietly walk away. The same way you would react if he displayed any kind of mental abnormality. There's nothing easier in this world than blocking a man and dating 10 others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:18 AM
9

Most men aren't "average", in the sense that they are comparable to the average woman. They wish they were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:06 AM
14

The males who cross boundaries and then act like confused victims are pure filth. I don't know how she wasn't driven mad with rage at this reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:00 AM
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Apparently this mfer is old enough to understand the difference between love and lust, but not between love and delusion. So fucking confused and stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:04 PM
6

Sorry, but having a fuckable husband is very high on my list, along with being treated respectfully. You do you though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:00 PM
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Your concern for your friend is admirable, but you really shouldn't care too much for people who don't really care for themselves. This is a mistake I see women here often making, reserve your emotional investment for those who won't squander it and don't take losers too seriously. Give a peace of advice or two, but after that just make sure to keep yourself relaxed and entertained.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:37 PM
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"First let me clarify about male suffering" You don't have to do this shit here, especially on a conversation about post-partum depression 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:33 PM
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"I'm not saying to be a wh0re" Shut the fuck up. The way scrotes casually use this word, in any context, with no expectation for repercussions is fucking criminal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:29 PM
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The world is full with idiots that get shat on every day with a smile on their face. Take no one seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:28 PM
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😂 My god, don't take this moron seriously. 2 months is nothing, and yet it looks like no one bothered to wait that long for her and she gave up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:27 PM
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Lol before they marry a guy women need to check their men's fathers' and uncles' hair just in case. Women do grow older just like men do...but their hair usually doesn't go anywhere...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:24 PM
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Both are kind of gross imo. Maybe when I grow older my tastes will change, but as a 20 y/o a full head of thick, fluffy hair is an absolute must in guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:21 PM
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They're not healthy men, and their sexuality reflects that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:59 PM
9

If he's temporarily emotionally unstable then he's temporarily not a HVM as far as women are concerned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:14 AM
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With the insane rates of male-on-female violence and abuse it's common sense that a woman should keep a large fraction of her money for herself and her safety. Nothing is more crucial in society that the financial independence and safety of women in the case of emergency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:11 AM
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Grown women give birth and have periods. Grown women would look at his little dick and erectile dysfunction and laugh at his audacity to present it to them. Little girls would be confused, inexperienced and won't know any better. This is why men who are damaged in some way hate grown, fully developed women and their biological functions and prefer very young girls. This is another aspect of male anxiety, they fear that they'll be considered completely subpar and unmasculine to mature women, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 07:06 AM
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They're not heterosexual exactly, but it's not like they're gay. They're damaged goods, sexually defective and pornsick. Their attraction towards women is twisted, pornified, and veering towards female children. It's not just that they're bad at sex, men who are straight but hate the natural female body are mentally and sexually damaged addicts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 06:55 AM
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That's why I don't even talk. Ignore, grey-rock, block, delete, ghost, avoid. Giving "closure" to males is a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:30 PM
63

...Your "partner"? The fuck even is a partner? You reproduced with this loser twice, without the security net of marriage. I bet she thought it was a useless peace of paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:25 PM
83

He's a coercive rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 11:00 PM
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The good thing is that none of them matter. Look at males for what they truly are and you'll be automatically immune to any and all bullshit, no matter how subtle or thought-out. No number of little games can fool the critical female gaze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 10:56 PM
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You don't know how Lundy Bancroft acts towards the women in his life. The things he says and writes aren't as groundbreaking as most women think, none of it would genuinely surprise most men. He really spells out common sense for abused women with a very damaged understanding of reality. Anyway, just because he verbally acknowledges certain things it doesn't mean he doesn't employ abusive strategies towards women in his life, and the same applies to any man who may seem "self-aware", which is ve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 08:01 AM
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Is he? I wouldn't want to be taught by a male who isn't aware of his own age. Women's incredibly low standards strike again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:32 AM
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Except that it is almost all men, and especially those that try to convince us they are not. At least snakes won't lie about how venomous they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:40 PM
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Women be like "I have this little issue, I don't like getting beaten/murdered/decapitated/strangled...yeah 😕 I know it's a little irrational, yeah I'm really emotional but please respect it okay? maybe? No? Aight."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:15 AM
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He didn't assume a damn thing. He wanted to meet you right then and there and he thought he'd get what he wanted by doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:37 AM
7

I don't have experiences with that. Why would I risk it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:35 AM
47

Pathetic. Men are on a mission to make themselves as unmasculine as possible, of course women would feel too repulsed to even respond to messages, much less allow men to initiate multiple dates. It's supposed to be difficult, it's supposed to be the role of males in dating, it's supposed to be a filter for those who can't cope with it. Do it, or don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:46 PM
65

Men also willfully ignore the fact that they're biologically more prone to addictive, reckless and violent behaviour, that at times results in them being homeless and without loved ones to turn to, in spite of all the advantages they have in a society tailored to them. There are genuinely unfortunate men, but all too often their misfortune is the expected result of their moral failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 12:00 PM
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3 full minutes of this loser coping and desperately trying to not feel like the doormat that deep down she knows she is. Oh you smiled and laughed instead of violently losing your shit? Wow, how scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:36 AM
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I used to think of my slothfulness as a negative trait when I was younger, until of course I grew out of it enough to put enough effort in myself and my studies to succeed and have a career that enables my lifestyle. Now my laziness is one of my most favourite traits, I use it to make my life easier and I couldn't find myself whining in such a forum even if I were dumb enough to believe that pseudo-independence bullshit. Literally can't be physically bothered to be taken advantage of. How can th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 07:04 AM
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Why would I? I'm the woman. He is the man. This lady is confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:53 AM
15

I've never heard a man mourn his dreams and ambitions because he wants to marry/possibly start a family. I don't care how unfair society is or how different the circumstances are, absolutely fuck that. He's a scrote anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:03 PM
222

It's hard to feel threatened by male manipulation when they're barely coherent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:00 PM
140

The Hollywood trope/stereotype of a jealous mean girl who tries to sabotage your life and happiness is true and it is just men. It's literally men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:55 PM
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99% of the problems women face is due to the fact that little girls aren't taught to say "fuck off" & "eat shit", If only metaphorically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:50 PM
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It's very strange to say but I think women...just exist more. On a sentient and sapient level. There's really no way to explain it. Men are capable of utilizing the human intelligence they've inherited from their mothers in a calculated way, as one would use a tool, but barring sexual/basic needs they're emptier inside. Negative, draining energy for the most part. Yin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:43 PM
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Why do women keep accepting burdens like they're getting paid for them? The dog is a problem? Re-home it. The male is a problem? Get rid of it. Focus on yourself, your children and cut off unnecessary baggage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:06 AM
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Men's love language being acts of service lol they've really completely emasculated themselves. They've made themselves of no use to women and then endlessly whine about how unwanted and lonely they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:37 AM
122

Make sure to point out male depravity to her when you encounter it. Raising daughters with love isn't enough. Their eyes need to be opened during their formative years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:35 PM
183

Men cause the moral downfall of society through sexual violence and paraphilias, which includes pedophilia, organized crime, corruption, domestic violence, mass murder. They decide what's normal, and they desensitize us to the most ugly aspects of male nature so that they're completely accepted and enabled in their depravity. After all this, they have the audacity to say that women are destroying human society because a teenage girl wore a bikini and took a photo. They say that we don't deserve …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:31 PM
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Women tend to "womenize" men. They assume men think, feel and act like women, or more specifically, like themselves. They see a potential in them that doesn't exist. In truth, we couldn't be more different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:21 PM
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I won't ever make the mistake of giving birth to a baby while some pos ex knows full well he's the father and has the freedom to invade my life. No way. Babies should only be had by single mothers by choice or women who have loving husbands they trust. Not in these weird complicated situations. It's one thing if things eventually go wrong years into a marriage, but she knew what she was walking into and could have easily prevented this situation. This male is kind of crazy and vindictive in gene…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:12 PM
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It's not even a question. It's so strange when women plead with men to be considered their equals. We can be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:02 PM
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Fuck NO. I'm not mentally ill, and it's objectively fucked up to call someone you love derogatory, misogynistic slurs. Violence in the bedroom has been normalized by the sickest among us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:46 AM
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I can't help but laugh at the fact that an old dog's peaceful death is considered the most tragic thing that could be shown on tv but a man raping a woman or a girl is just a casual scene thrown here and there. Men enjoy this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 11:36 AM
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Because they are creatures that were brought into existence for the purpose of sex and little else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:44 AM
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Sometimes real psychological phenomena are twisted by people with malicious intentions to fit a certain narrative, or in this case to deflect brame from the abusers to the victims.This doesn't make the original point necessarily wrong, although it does make people fearful of addressing it, which might have been the intention to begin with. It is true to a degree that children who grow up in abusive households have a distorted view of what's normal and may find themselves in similarly abusive rel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:43 PM
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I just realized this but being spoiled doesn't necessarily mean a woman will grow up to not tolerate verbal abuse from men, and verbal abuse is how everything starts. When I was around 10 I was sitting with my mother on the balcony, and we overheard the conversation of a young couple, our neighbours, who were sitting on the balcony next to us. They were just talking, until he called her a dumb b!tch in between laughs, and she laughed in response. My mother called her a moron in condescending dis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:25 PM
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I really don't understand this woman. If you feel off, then doesn't that mean this talk is a problem that needs solving? Why do you give a shit about what reddit losers have to say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:52 AM
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Are you sure about her upbringing? I was spoiled and treated very well by my mother and father and men who are even slightly unkind to me become immediately repulsive. There could be things you don't know about the environment she grew up in, things that she perhaps hasn't even realized yet and isn't able to articulate. If she's a good and dependable friend in every other respect then forgive this aspect of her but don't let it influence you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 08:40 AM
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Don't. They don't give one shit. If he funds you or your studies or if you're financially dependent on him just take the course of action that is the most beneficial to you and avoid confrontations. If he watches porn then he clearly isn't "kind". Don't be manipulated by the front men put on to humanize themselves. Just mind your business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:14 AM
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Sounds like she grew up in a toxic environment, and she likes the familiarity of it in relationships. This is not a well-adjusted person, suggest therapy in a sincere and friendly way but start looking for better friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:11 AM
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Why are these women always so surprised when their husbands act like brats? How would you expect a man who wants his wife to be his second mother to act like? A grown man? And she's laughing too. LMFAO, this moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:53 PM
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I can't believe anyone gives a shit about what the rest of Reddit says. Most of them are absolute sickos. Even if the reasons were actually insignificant, instead of small signs of more serious behaviours, dropping men for minor reasons would be nothing to gasp at. Just how overinflated is the value of men in people's minds? Most of them are clones of each other, and they're not exactly hard to get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:58 PM
81

Firstly, female liberation is safety from male violence, inside the house and outside. Even the reason why education and financial independence is encouraged in girls is so that they can protect their minds from malicious manipulation and their bodies from men's blows. Men are a more elevated class, their safety and humanity is a given. They seek knowledge and money so that they can be empowered even further, and explore the full potential of the human mind (or what they have available). They se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:49 PM
9

Men who ruin the vibes even a little are pos. No need to think about it further than that. He ruined the vibes? Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:58 AM
49

Do men think we're looking for friendship when we date them? Like if I only cared about personality and and not sexual attraction I'd date women, men would be the last thing on my mind. I'd hang out with a lizard before I'd consider them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:51 AM
13

Men aren't smart enough to even pretend they're not mentally defective on dating apps of all things. No shit they're struggling with dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:44 AM
2

Also, it doesn't matter? The fact that men can't fix their height, dick size or spontaneously grow hair doesn't make my pussy wet, so I don't get why they keep repeating that argument. Plus, so many women have died or gotten severely and permanently disabled on the operating table in order to be more fuckable in men's eyes. Men could easily go and have limb lengthening surgery if they hate being short, it being a risky surgery is no excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 09:41 AM
223

Multiple reasons, all irrational and selfish in nature. Men with sisters often times resent women more than other men, because they're typically outperformed by their sisters, which is normal, and develop an inferiority complex towards all women as a result. Men also hate women because they feel that their bodies don't entirely belong to them because of women. A big reason why men seek to sexually dominate women with violence is vindictive in nature, their extreme physical attraction, need and d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:38 AM
232

When I see snippets of men's podcasts/women mimicking them in mockery I can't help but salivate at all the potential women have to construct arguments for similar purposes, but in women's favour. The possibilities, and the evidence, are endless. Men have gotten so confident in spewing pseudo-intellectual nonsense and flawed evolutionary-psychology theories about women and dating because we never bite back. It's exciting to see this changing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:55 PM
48

I'll be very honest, I don't see why women should sympathize with men when men are their oppressors. This is especially true when you consider the fact that the vast majority of killers, mass shooters, rapists and pedophiles are men, regardless of the sex of their victims. Knowing this, when men tell women to sympathize with them it isn't just tone-deaf, it's sociopathic. Why would women care about what men do to each other? That's their own issue. It's what they do to us that's the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:49 PM
126

The male phenotype itself is a deformation of the default human phenotype (female). So if women are human, what are men? Deformed versions of us. This evolutionary anomaly occured to ease reproduction, not to become the boss of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 11:48 AM
74

Tbh, women's ideal male partner is incompatible with the reality of male nature. Trying to find a partner that is HVM by FDS standards is extremely difficult for this reason. We're looking for exceptions, and even those exceptions could act in unpredictable ways in a situation without consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 08:07 AM
347

Men? You mean the sex that owns the vast majority of land and funds and productive assets? The sex that is overrepresented and in full control of every scientific field and politics? The sex that made sure the world, laws, products, medicine were specifically tailored to themselves at the expense of women? The sex that can just sit back in a chair after work while women fulfill the roles of both the traditional husband and wife? Men are liars and attention-seekers who live life on easy mode. Wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 06:23 AM
128

Exactly. Just read about the rape of Berling and Nanjing of you want to find out what men are really like beneath the pleasant surface, If you can't already tell just by hearing them speak to each other. Everyone says that war brings the worst out of men and turns them evil when they're not, and yet no matter how much I searched I found nothing about female soviet soldiers committing crimes of equal gravity against the women and children of Berlin, or many other countries for that matter. Funny …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:42 AM
45

Men have all the power in this society to protect their sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 10:24 PM
138

Men can fuck each other. They don't want to? They're not attracted to each other? They don't want to get fucked? Well, women don't want all that either, but that doesn't seem to be a moral issue for those who demand the right to rape women. In certain countries and cultures of the past males used each other for carnal pleasure (as they do in male prisons) when women were unavailable to men, and relationships with women were strictly for reproductive purposes. There's no justice in women sufferin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:32 PM
44

Patriarchal culture is all about balancing. Men are fundamentally less valuable and wanted than women? Balance that out by ensuring women literally need men to survive and can't even open bank accounts by themselves. Create an artificial "need" for men, an artificial value for them by making them women's source of money. Brainwashing little girls into thinking marriage is a dream is the same thing. Men don't need to be manipulated into thinking that having a wife who cleans, cooks, provides them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:04 PM
11

Hatred is a feeling I could only muster up for an equal. Indifference and dislike are shallower emotions I feel towards those who are a lost cause to begin with. Every woman has the choice to be better, some chose not to. Others go out of their way to say that male enjoyment is more important that the systematic dehumanisation of women, and that's 100% on them. That's treason. Some women are the enemy of the female sex and hating them is natural.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:54 PM
36

Even if it's a man, pick-mes like this exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:25 AM
105

"provide them joy" Women. Women's bodies and minds, reduced to a means of providing "joy" to scrotes? I don't hate males, a lot of the time they're like malignant tumours. Problems, but not something that evokes personal and sophisticated emotions. But some women, like the one who wrote this tweet, I do hate. I hate them a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:46 AM
155

That's why women are encouraged to seek it from a young age. If it isn't romanticised and instilled in girls' brains as extremely important during their formative years they might grow up well-adjusted and realize it's practically worthless to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:49 AM
25

Something I've noticed before is the implication that a man being successful in his traditional male role makes him worthy of being a leader, or deserving of female submission. How come a woman being a successful mother and housewife isn't worthy of the leadership role? What makes a traditional male's accomplishments and contributions objectively superior, as to earn him the position of leader? What makes him greater than the creators and foundation of human society, which have been mothers for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:34 AM
224

There's nothing more repulsive than men who don't speak in a romantic and gentle way to their women. Boorish bastards who's only understanding of communication in relationships is to throw insults and casually cruel remarks their partner's way are so disgusting I can't understand how some women tolerate them. Framing it as humorous "roasting" is the cherry on top. It makes me wonder how out of touch these women are with their womanhood that they can bring themselves to fuck men with such unmascu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:21 AM
23

Yes. Men have been consistent throughout history in calling women evil for not wanting to get raped, beaten, murdered, and wanting knowledge. This is nothing new, and nothing changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:09 AM
25

Why do men have this fantasy where they realize their girlfriends are secretly on FDS? Do they read this sub and get subconsciously turned on or something? This is almost romantic angsty fanfiction. There's 0 chance a woman would share her FDS account with her scrote. How are they this dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:06 AM
291

"I'm ethically non-monogamous and partnered!" Translation: "I coerced, manipulated and guilt-tripped my fiancee over the course of several months/years until I broke her down enough to let me cheat on her. Now, let me use you "casually".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:00 PM
8

I'm 20 and I don't really like guys older than 23. It's not because they look bad (at least when they haven't began balding), but because they've already lost this cute golden retriever look I'm obsessed with. I'm always shocked when crusty and ruggedy 40+ y/o men that haven't even heard of the concept of skin care express sexual interest to me. Like how fucking dare they. I just glare and walk away silently but on occasion I've sworn vedy loudly in public. I'm trying to get my anger issues unde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 09:08 AM
12

It's because they're lied to on the internet that men age like fine wine and that their value increases the older they get. In truth young women are repulsed by older men and are occasionally only interested in rich ones for their money, so they repress their feelings of disgust. This is especially true for young women who were raised in poverty. An older man that isn't rich is disgusting and uninteresting to young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:57 AM
31

Baby trapping isn't a thing. It's a woman's business what she does with her womb or if she takes plan B after sex. Promises are meaningless when it comes to bodily autonomy. A woman is fully entitled to change her mind about what she wants in her womb at all times, and men need to accept this and stop acting like victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 08:48 AM
62

There's lots of young and older women who are still very naive and prone to self-sabotage. Just one or two recorded and shared instances of 19 y/os calling 50+ y/o men who hit on them ancient peaces of shit are enough to drive hundreds of thousands of men into a misogynistic rage. They share this stuff on isolated internet forums and call it ragefuel and demand literal child brides to brainwash before their "whor€ instincts kick in with puberty". The shit I've seen cannot be unseen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:01 PM
173

It used to be the age when women became harder to manipulate, but now it's 25 because younger women have been radicalised by exposure to the internet, pornsick men and male violence. These days the most misogynistic of men desire even younger, underage girls because 20 y/os have "become complete b!tches".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:33 PM
41

Almost every time a man is upset with a woman it's because of emotional reasons, mainly male anxiety and a hurt ego. "Logical" explanations, mental gymnastics and slanderous lies are later created out of thin air to rationalize and excuse their hostility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:41 PM
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He must have realized you're a woman. Often times men are cool with women around them until they realize that these female people defend their female interests...which conflict with his male interests. Usually men like this one are abusers behind closed doors and all of a sudden a neutral acquaintance represents a terrible possibility that could happen to him. If you left your husband for being psychologically abusive then his wife could do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:12 AM
112

Talking to pick-mes about the reality of male nature is like to talking to anti-vaxxers about the dangers of COVID and the necessity of vaccines. Don't bother, they're delusional and will never willingly step out of the protective bubble of their inner world. It's painful, it's scary, it ruins the vibes and it's much easier to pretend that you're the one in the wrong for causing them painful thoughts. Just keep them around for entertainment if you find their naivete bearable and have shallow con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:59 AM
21

That'd be a good thing, it'd make women wonder what about sex-work is so fundamentally humiliating and dehumanising to unite men in such a way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 08:16 AM
63

It'd be even better if women started cutting men off entirely for these actions, except if course on the matter of child support. Most men are dead weight, the sooner women realize this the better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:57 AM
43

That's what I wanted to say. Personally, men should generally shut the fuck up on this issue and only speak up to express their support for women/disapproval of violence and oppression against women if something is happening directly in front of them. The thing is, men have 0 incentive to go out of their way to mock misogynists or anti-woman thinking if they're not directly exposed to it. If he does this, it does seem performative or disingenuous. This meme is something you'd expect from a femal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:39 PM
162

Affirmative action for male sex-workers when? It's so unfair that there aren't as many tight and tender 18 y/o boys whoring themselves out in a desperate attempt to pay their student debts. If only society could let them know that it's perfectly acceptable and empowering for them to do so. There's so many "straight" married men who would love to fuck fresh boys on the side if it were more easily available, as history has shown a number of times. Such a neglected and valid source of income. We ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:29 PM
298

Lol men are a complete fucking joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:20 PM
145

Young girls, white or otherwise, jeopardising their future career and professional opportunities by having an onlyfans because libfeminism says it's empowering are also victims. They're just the dumbest victims among them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:18 PM
486

"I'm not the guy to take a woman's panties off and jam it in!" Translation: I'm not your usual rapist, I'm a coercive rapist. Now give me pussy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:04 PM
87

Feminism was never about supporting all women and whatever they wanted, I have no idea how it's been reduced to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 01:52 AM
191

Forum full of porn-sick braindead scrotes that can't be bothered to even wash their assholes properly: Yeah, your girlfriend is an ungrateful b!tch. This guy: I knew I wasn't crazy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 01:50 AM
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These words that you're using seem very abstract and impersonal. They're all products and creations of the male psyche. Porn and misogyny are manifestations of their soul and sexuality. Male children are simply absorbing behaviours that come naturally to mature men, there's nothing unusual about this. Should this continue unrestricted and without intervention and management by women? Of course not, we share this earth with men so it's in our best interest to limit the influence their uglier incl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:01 PM
-11

"They are socialized to get rid of their empathy from a young age" ...😂 Occasionally I see this completely braindead libfem take, although I quite rarely encounter it on FDS. Humor me, what's this insidious third party that's manipulating the poor men to reject and suppress these empathetic inclinations that are natural to themselves, to the point that they no longer have them at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:39 PM
125

No shit the baby comes first? This isn't just a "feeling" some men get. It's reality, it's how it should be. The bond between mother and child is superior to all others. Men are ultimately a means of having children, they provide the socially acceptable circumstances to start a family, and oftentimes the resources that are necessary. Of course the baby will always come first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:12 AM
9

...I'm getting very tired of this kind of response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:53 AM
62

Pathological is a perfect word to describe it. Males are collectively mentally ill and obsessed with the women and women's sexual anatomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:52 AM
40

Really, why do we keep treating male insanity as valid when it should just be laughed at and ignored?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:50 AM
73

Me neither, honestly. She's 32...like get it the fuck together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:23 PM
139

Not South Asian/Desi, but maybe arranged marriages? Men don't put effort when there's other people doing their jobs for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:02 PM
363

Women donate to men all the time, either willingly to their boyfriends and husbands or through coercion and violence inside families in certain countries. Men aren't dumb enough to return the favour. Not even a little. Their bodies are absolutely, indisputably theirs, they're not a resource to share with people who don't matter, or with people who matter. Those others can be strangers, the love of their life, their own children, it's irrelevant, men's personhood is sacred. Unlike women, men are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:46 PM
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I looked it up, and apparently he k!lled them to collect the insurance money (If this is the guy from California). He called to confirm that the companies wouldn't investigate claims that were made two years after the policies were purchased. The bastard barely waited two weeks after the two year period ended before k!lling his sons. He tried to k!ll his wife too along with them, but she survived. Men, stay classy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:06 PM
100

Antiwork is against worker exploitation, not work itself as a concept. That said the prostitution of women and children is the most horrific form of exploitation, so it makes no sense to be antiwork and pro-prostitution/sex-trafficking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:27 AM
90

Since she's a part-time nanny he says. No mention of whether he's planning to pay her for this service, obviously he isn't. Does he think taking care of babies for money makes a woman pathetic enough to agree to do unpaid cleaning services for some scrote's filthy storage unit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:39 AM
134

Women of FDS probably wouldn't talk to a guy like that, they'd block him and talk about him with other women. Basically, what we're doing. Men will always pleasure themselves to the thought of women paying attention to them, be it positive or negative. Nothing particularly unusual about this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:21 PM
24

I tried to watch it because it's so popular in my age group but I couldn't get through it. The cringe was too much for me. A lot of people say that the show isn't supposed to romanticise the lifestyle these young people live, but let's be honest. It does make it seem cool, flashy and glittery, and it's about teenagers in high school. They didn't even bother making it about freshman year college kids. Age restrictions and warnings are meaningless, they exist so that no one gets in trouble, the ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 07:43 AM
43

I'm not about to give the benefit of the doubt when "son of a b!tch" is one of the most common insults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 02:02 PM
92

The reason men have managed to advance so much in their careers is because women take care of everything else in their life. They're depriving themselves of this through refusing marriage, and this very good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 12:39 PM
192

I don't get what's the deal with men and marriage strikes, both in the west and other countries. Marriage was invented with the intention of binding women, and their wombs and labour, to men. Men don't want to marry? Ok. If anything, this will ultimately be beneficial to women and detrimental to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 10:14 AM
36

You know what? I thought I was straight but I'm starting to consider having sex with women. They're prettier, and generally nicer. Maybe I'll discover a better world there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 08:26 AM
348

It goes to show how unhinged men are as a collective. The male equivalent of women "roasting" men is killing women and leaving their bodily fluids everywhere. This is similar to how FDS, a place where women advice each other on how to avoid falling victim to male violence while dating, is considered worse than forums where men openly declare they wish they could decapitate women and abduct little toddler girls to rape and train into becoming slave-wives. Also, in the original song the female sin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 08:23 AM
596

Babies, children, pets, livestock, women, and now AI? Men will abuse anything that's helpless to stop them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:32 PM
66

Maybe masturbate shortly before you leave the house for a date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:27 AM
111

...you think men and women can be platonic friends? Personally, I'm more suspicious of men with far too many "platonic" female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 08:28 PM
83

Men who don't take proper care of their nails/hands. Also, men without a sense of fashion, especially those who wear baggy, casual clothing all the time. Excessively hairy armpits/body. Beards are extremely disgusting to me. Like why do you have fur on your face?? Face pubes are just as bad. Generally men who don't trim their body hair and don't clean themselves sufficiently. As for behaviour, men talking to me in the same way they'd talk to their bros, even when it's clear they're interested in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 08:08 PM
0

You can't "protect" yourself from this. Sexual compatibility is very important, in the sense that both people need to not only have a healthy understanding of sex, but a similar libido. I'm sure she's been feeling pressured to engage in sexual acts to please him, which isn't a good way to live at all. If a man wants a relationship with a lot of sex and the woman doesn't, the man needs to respect the woman's desires and boundaries and either adapt to her needs, or break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:55 PM
142

I don't understand how women can stay with men who suck at sex. How doesn't the sexual disappointment get to them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:46 AM
194

This is the kind of unfunny nonsense unwanted men flood the tinder subreddit with to entertain each other. At this point it seems like they're deliberately sabotaging their chances with women just to make other men laugh with the screenshot. No woman has ever genuinely laughed at this kind of lame "humour", as of course they can tell it's at their expense no matter how indirect. They're probably trying to attract men with these ads, since men are the ones who give money to dating apps. Men love …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 10:08 PM
172

This guy is 43, and judging by the men I've met that are of similar age, he probably looks entirely uninteresting, and a little gross. I'm younger than 25, and men older than 30 look non-sexual to me. I'm always shocked and offended when they approach me with sexual intentions. In my eyes, they fall under the category of furniture more so than that of "men", because they lack any sex appeal in my eyes. Perhaps if he took better care of himself, cut back on the whining and went after women from h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 09:59 PM
66

That's not a child, that's a deranged chimpanzee with an appetite for violence. Why are such psychos allowed to exist among us? This is the kind of male that goes with a gun to school and commits a massacre because he's not being treated like a god by everyone around him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:28 PM
124

Both women and men will always be attracted to spaces filled with women, even if it's about makeup. The only way to keep a forum female-only or allow the female perspective to dominate (in the same way the male perspective dominates the entirety of the internet) is by banning males altogether. I used the word males deliberately here. This is why they're so rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 07:02 PM
50

Sometimes I have moments of greater lucidity where I realize just how comically evil men are to conspire among themselves in forums and groups as to how strategically cause us psychological harm. It's so pointlessly malicious that it sounds absurd, but it's the truth. It makes me wonder why we bother trying to date them. So many of them are so ugly inside that it ruins your appetite. This anxiety and caution is also very costly on a psychological level. The simple knowledge that every man I go o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:56 PM
218

To be honest, FDS and radical feminism didn't change my viewpoints or the way I perceive the world in a fundamental way, but they did confirm a suspicion that I had ever since I was a child. It justified and emboldened these underlying feelings of disgust and dislike towards males and the way they speak, act, and think. It helped me understand in a more structured and sophisticated way a reality my gut and instincts always suspected, but that I never dared to openly think or even voice. The male…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:38 PM
234

Men are inherently shit leaders. Even the good ones among them aren't meant for the job, inside the house or in politics. Still, the reason they get away without even doing the simplest things properly is partially because people buy into the lie that they're too good for chores and meant for greater things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 11:00 AM
57

I don't genuinely hate men, and neither do most women. I'm mostly apathetic towards them. No positive feelings, but no extreme negative feelings either. That said, heterosexuality isn't a choice. Even if objectively men are creatures with no charm and beauty equal to that of women, the most carnal side of me still craves dick sometimes. This is nature's coding, the species must go on somehow. The conditions are that the male attached to the dick better be well-behaved, functional and aware of hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:25 PM
201

There's a recent obsession with denying the fundamental weakness of the human psyche. Much like the physical body, mental health is to a lesser or greater degree vulnerable to the influence of external stimuli. You can practice mental resistance, you can be resilient and think that you're truly unaffected, but this simply isn't true. It isn't realistic. People deny their inherent weaknesses and vulnerabilities, and the only result of this is that they're repeatedly traumatized. Their mental heal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 08:44 PM
7

Unironically so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:05 AM
187

When I see casual jokes of this sort I wonder how men would react if women as a collective started making unprompted jokes about committing violence against males. I think they would react way more than we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:08 PM
17

I've been hesitant to say this before, but there's something profoundly and viscerally repulsive about self-sabotage and self-abnegation. No degree of predatory or malicious behaviour can arouse the same kind of disgust from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:05 PM
56

Men are so lucky to have idiots like this walking around. Say what you want about males, they'd never allow themselves to be treated like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:38 PM
51

If only women saw the beauty in guns, and all they could offer them. As usual the sex that stands nothing to gain from equalizer weapons is obsessed with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:44 PM
55

I mean, I wouldn't mind getting hit on by a woman either, and I'm straight. But we're talking about men here, far uglier and more dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 06:38 PM
6

And men mock us and imply living the way we used to was better, uneducated and dependent on them. How about not doing wife/mother duties while men slack and advancing in our careers to make money instead? Why do we have to slave for men either way? Lol no, not me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 02:20 PM
273

This is my biggest pet peeve. Everything and everyone is male unless proven otherwise, and even when it's explicitly stated that the person/animal is female, people will insist that it's a he. This might seem insignificant, but it's just a way the fact that women are second class citizens manifests itself in people's minds. Half of the population, the default human phenotype, an afterthought in everything. We're barely mentioned as an existence when discussing history, literature, medicine. We'r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 12:52 PM
37

This may be controversial, but I lack the capacity to feel empathy for women who live in a world where investing in themselves isn't only possible, but a much smarter decision in every conceivable way, and yet still decide to pour their soul, money and effort in some random scrote instead. I know our upbringing predisposes us to a lot of behaviours, and I hope she learned her lesson and makes better decisions going forward. Still, I feel nothing for women like this. Actually, in a way I feel bet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 09:27 AM
8

It's not different. That's the funny part, nothing radical changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:17 PM
265

Date more, talk to multiple men. Filter out those who show inconsistent behaviour and show decreased effort over time, and avoid thinking about a specific guy too much. This is how this game is played. The fact that you wrote a whole detailed post about a specific inconsistent guy should give you pause. There's other men out there. The world is a sausage fest, and he isn't special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 11:26 AM
27

Of course they understand. They play stupid and use your behaviour as excuse to push boundaries and be rapey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 11:10 AM
20

Probably a redpiller who's been adviced to use this strategy to impress her by his redpiller friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 07:39 AM
413

Who tf pays these women to be the "cool girlfriend"???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:51 PM
158

Men, in tears: "Women have rights now" bawls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 06:08 PM
253

Why is it always implied that a man with medical issues should be tolerated even if he diminishes a woman's quality of life? I never understood that. Regardless of whether a behaviour is intentional or a medical issue, it still affects the woman, her health and her sleeping patterns, right? So why should she tolerate it? It doesn't make any sense, unless you consider the man's feefees to be the most important thing at all times. Objectively speaking, it's of secondary importance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:43 AM
30

Definitely fake, "she said she wants a high value man" This is male-tier social ineptitude. No woman, no pick-me, no woman in between FDS and being a pick-me would say that out loud to some scrote. It's something only a man would think a woman would say. It's fictional, but I'm certain there are many women who have broken up with their bfs because FDS opened their eyes and gave them courage to demand better for themselves, which is great. That said, this is fiction, shitty fiction written by a m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 10:28 AM
76

I think the male body just expires quicker by itself, they just accelerate the process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 10:15 AM
138

She'll either wake up or become a shell of her former self, burdened by years of accumulated stress and exhaustion due to bearing the "minor and insignificant" daily burdens of her husband and the rest of the family for most her life. These women get physically ill early and grow bitter towards others, especially towards other women who aren't as dumb as themselves. They just never get it, and if they do they then they do nothing about it and endlessly complain to each other. After their husband…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 10:12 AM
60

The day women should do 50/50 with men is the day when human society, culture, politics, sciences and reproductive biology itself do 50/50 with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 09:06 PM
20

This exactly why I will keep men and family strictly separated in my life. I'm thankful I am a woman and I have a womb to do whatever I want with and need nobody else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:50 PM
15

Is this you responding? If so, take a seat before a mirror and reflect on the time you wasted, and try to figure out why you looked at this creature and considered him worthwhile of attempting a genuine conversation with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:46 PM
19

Hasn't the theory that men's sexuality has evolved to have sex with multiple women been debunked? A man has a much higher chance of having children by having sex multiple times with one woman over the course of a long period. Women don't get pregnant very easily, they can't get pregnant at all times and a single man having multiple sexual encounters with a number of women has never been easy in natural circumstances. Sticking with one woman and becoming a team is more advantageous and gives him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:14 AM
102

I just can no longer find it in me to believe a damn thing men say these days. The way they write or speak only makes it harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:58 AM
48

No way, she didn't even rape or murder him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:57 AM
22

I don't see the problem with breathing some fresh air for a while longer. There's nothing dangerous out there for him, just men like himself. He's overreacting to the point of irrationality. I can't help but think he got on her nerves or creeped her out in some way, he probably deserved being left like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:55 AM
135

It's absurd to me how men are allowed to get away with saying such insane shit. Women do the labour of both the traditional wife and mother (which was already more difficult) and husband these days, while men only work. How dare they use the word equality against us? I can only attribute this to the lack of verbal defences of women. Women are overworked to the point of exhaustion and we don't even react when such comments are flung our way, hence why they say whatever they want without consequen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:51 AM
251

It's a subtle way of correcting your behaviour, either done out of a need for control, or out of insecurity. Either way, it's a red flag and it also ruins the vibe. I don't like being questioned or tested by men. Something women do is try to understand male behaviour a little too much. If a guy acts weird, just move on to another one, there's no need to do write several paragraphs on male psychology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:41 AM
504

"First-world" countries are criminalising female healthcare and women's fundamental human right to bodily autonomy and the "my body my choice" phrase is now being used to justify and enable sex trafficking and further dehumanisation of women. I hate this timeline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:21 PM
86

This shows how little logic and reason influences their thinking and behaviours. They are extremely emotional creatures that have limited capacity for abstract thought and introspection. Something you did made them mad, something as mundane as defending yourself, or rejecting aggressive sexual advances? You're evil, you're a b!tch, you deserve to get raped. Something made them angry? Something as insignificant as "losing" in a video game? Time to scream and shout and swear, time to punch holes i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:11 PM
12

On tinder? Might as well search for sperm in a trash can. You'll probably get fewer STDs from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:48 AM
58

Incels: It is a man's right to abduct and rape baby femo!ds, in order to train them to become proper traditional wives and slaves to their husbands from a young age, before their demonic female nature kicks in and they refuse to have sex with us. Incels: Femo!ds should be gathered up and systematically exterminated and violently raped and mutilated. We need a femo!d holocaust. Incels: Brave men who massacre women and commit mass shootings are actual saints we make artwork of and regularly pay re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 06:35 AM
21

I mean, women are meant to be natural born providers, for themselves and their children, not random scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 10:40 PM
20

First of all, what the even is submissive feminine energy? Feminine energy is anything but submissive, more similar to that of an employer with expectations than anything. Men that mimick female voices for whatever reason give me the creeps. As do men that deliberately deepen their voices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:59 PM
98

It seems like the brainwashing to become complete doormats is our punishment for seeking fundamental human rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:09 AM
39

Honestly? Yes. I know seeking marriage is a sign that a man is interested and committed, and that it's typically encouraged within a few years of dating in FDS, but from what I see around me men often seek to marry women they want to systematically take advantage of. Women they don't want to marry are women they want to occasionally take advantage of, just for sex. I look at marriages around me, at how even the ones that begin with "egalitarian" and genuinely sweet relationships, turn out, and I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 07:03 AM
23

Why would you ask a bunch of brain-damaged scrotes and pick-mes that have been beaten so much they can't think properly anymore such a question? You can fucking tell why the daughter allows herself to be treated like this, her mother is dumb as shit. Poor girl never had a chance. Hopefully she grows up to realize she's a victim of societal grooming and male sexual depravity and lets her mother know just how much of a failure she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:49 AM
155

Independence means that you can pay for your own meal, not that you will. Why can't they understand this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 06:40 AM
188

She's just a "relationship" to him. One that has become boring, but might be better than what he will find out there. He doesn't give one shit about the person herself, the unique individual he has spent 8 years of his life with. He's just wondering if it's practically beneficial for him to leave her and date casually again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:01 AM
72

People these days are so "open-minded" their brains have fallen out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:58 AM
30

The male gaze shapes even the way we think and perceive the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:03 AM
32

We need to ignore men's pathetic and irrational complaints that serve to distract us from real problems and start discussing the lack of compensation for the skewed reproductive labour of the female sex and its effects on women's health and career. Men infinitely benefit from becoming fathers in society while bearing none of the physical or professional burdens, men also benefit from the production of citizens and workers that keep their money flowing at female expense. So, compensation, inside …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:48 AM
101

Also, just because an older man is pleasing to the eye it doesn't make him sexually attractive. I can appreciate the rare silver fox from far away, but would I want those wrinkly hands touching me? F no :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:43 AM
20

If anything, since sperm is a such a cheap and easy product to get, shouldn't a woman do her best to find the highest quality available, considering all the effort and sacrifice that it takes for a woman to create a child?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:42 AM
23

I've read quite a lot on their redpill forums and they resent and discourage each other from listening to young women telling them they're too old to be hitting on them, or that they're their father's age. You can say it right to their face and they won't care, they'll just become angrier and more verbally violent towards young women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:39 AM
18

You're too generous, half of them get half-bald by 30 so they're no longer attractive at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:32 AM
107

Who tf goes to college to marry? Men can't deal with the fact they're no more than an optional passtime these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:52 PM
126

It goes to show how much men relied on female financial dependence and the slavery of the female sex in order to have a wife throughout history. Here's to hoping the worst among them resort to using each other as cum rags as they've done many times and in many countries where women were unavailable. This is how it should be. Women aren't toys to suffer the brunt of male sexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:48 PM
47

Making men feel anxious that I'll slip through their fingers is my kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 01:04 AM
112

This is why they hate it when women talk about it, because we discuss the harm done to the actual victims, women, not the perpetrators or enablers, who are typically men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 12:58 AM
80

It falls on deaf ears because men control the world and men have been our audience in society and the internet. FDS is a female-only space and rational takes are easily accepted and analyzed without scrotes derailing from the main point and screeching about either imaginary or self-inflicted male issues. Having women as our only audience is the only way to have constructive and meaningful conversations and debate, especially on matters with great conflict of interests between the two sexes, like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 12:55 AM
117

Why do women keep wondering how to "confront" scrotes they pick off the street? Just block him and move on, he's not even her boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:40 PM
4

One of the reasons homosexual men contract HIV and other diseases at significantly higher rates, aside from anal sex, is the fact that they have casual sex much more often with each other and don't use protection as much as heterosexual couples do (because the women insist, obviously). Unprotected, frequent anal sex basically skyrockets chances of contracting STDs. I'm really worried about the women being pressured to have unprotected anal by their boyfriends these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:33 PM
236

The easier something is to get, the less value it has. Men say that women have an easy life because we can get sex easily. It goes to show how easy men's life is that they consider sex to be such a important issue, but they're hypocrites and liars for pretending that sex with men has the value sex with women has. They know damn well it doesn't. The vast majority of men are utter shit at sex. Having casual sex is high risk and no reward for us. Women very rarely get to orgasm, they risk their phy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:28 AM
70

Too many women are identified with male ideas and interests, and as such have a misogynistic worldview. They're basically men in female skin, and their spaces reflect that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 10:16 AM
54

Well, at least we don't fuck kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 04:28 AM
23

Men hurt others out of inherent malice. Patriarchy, misogyny and oppression didn't fall from the skies to torment us all equally, they're all deliberately made tools that serve men's interests. There's a pervasive misconception these days, that human beings are born clean slates, and that all harmful behaviours are the result of experiences, or that they are all illnesses that can be cured. This is not the case. Human beings can be born inherently evil and malicious, meaning that they derive ple…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 04:25 AM
186

Men are simultaneously extremely resentful when they come across the undeniable reality of how visual women are and in denial about it in their day-to-day life. They act like the women who have physical standards and preferences are demons from hell. They act like we're nothing like how your average woman should be, low-maintenance, with no self-esteem or understanding of her own inherent value and no expectations or standards for men. They have a hard time reconciling a false, male concept of w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 04:19 AM
8

Hahaha, no need to warn me, they look completely unfuckable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:20 PM
170

I plan to do this. It's called being a single-mother-by-choice and it's becoming increasingly popular. At the end of the day, all you need to have a child is a womb and money. Men's contribution was always just money, so why not cut the middleman out if you're financially secure? Also, wanting to have a biological child by yourself is no more selfish than wanting to have a biological child with a man. Adoption is a great choice, but it's a natural female instinct to want to have your own baby. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:15 PM
9

What's the issue? Just replace him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:04 AM
227

Women are trained to think that being beautiful in itself is valuable, while men only view increasing their attractiveness as a practical tool to lure in women, a tool that becomes worthless once they have secured a woman, or in a society where women have little to no autonomy. This is also why a lot of them are ugly, unkempt and disgusting. They're too entitled to want to change for the sake of appealing to women, so they just boil in their anger instead. If the message that being beautiful def…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 08:00 AM
3

I get the frustration, but let's not reduce ourselves to using misogynistic slurs. I've never heard men calling other men scrotes over committing crimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/22 07:00 AM
28

It's almost interesting how they think their inner world is something to be valued.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/22 06:55 AM
21

If we had rights to properly exercise self-defence and used them well they'd think twice before harassing and threatening us, I'm sure. Men's greater physical strength should be taken into account in the matter of self-defence laws, but it never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/22 06:53 AM
121

If a man tells you nothing, assume he is addicted to porn and likes violent "sex". If he tells you he's into BDSM, assume he pleasures himself to real videos of women getting raped, harmed and murdered. If a man admits to watching gore videos, search his basement for rape slaves and skeletons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:44 PM
82

Lol you should see their reaction when a woman implies she might slightly prefer a daughter over a son when directly asked. They lose their fucking minds when women don't think they're always the main characters but men are allowed to prefer sons. Poor things would shit themselves if they found out women choose daughters over 75% of the time when they do sex-selective IVF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:40 PM
94

Because wanting to rape and harm children is wrong, but women are fair game. This is why no one cares about violence against women or sex trafficking and forced prostitution of women. Yes, a lot of women do also think like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:59 PM
91

Imagine giving birth to a wombless subcategory of the human species that speaks of you and your sex like this. I'd never reduce myself to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:55 PM
44

Having sex to avoid dangerous and painful retribution from the man is called rape. Marital rape is perhaps the most pervasive form of rape, be it physically forceful or coercive, which is why it's often legal and has been legal until the 21st century in many first world countries. It almost never is reported or even acknowledged as rape, even though it is. Victims not calling it rape of course contributes to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:47 AM
54

At the end of the day, didn't she clean the counter and get it dirty again? No mention of whether he cleaned it after, so I assume she did. No mention that he never used weaponized incompetence again, so I assume this obviously solved nothing. This is a pseudo-victory. A cute comeback that punches up at the man, but does nothing to solve the actual problem, it just provides temporary and empty satisfaction. Women need to stop using pseudo-victories and pathetic little comebacks to substitute leg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:35 AM
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Sounds like it's nature's coding at work. You have secured a safe and stable environment and resources for your survival and your potential children's survival. So practically speaking, dating is high risk and low reward for you. There's nothing to gain, and you also are mentally healthy enough that you aren't emotionally dependent on them. Few men have the capacity to enhance your life any further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:55 AM
106

Women are never forgiven for the slightest mistakes, but men are defended and protected for the most repulsive acts of depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:06 AM
12

Some of these seem to be the result of poverty or the oppression of women rather than simply there being single mothers. Of course this doesn't change reality that a lot of the time single mothers are terribly overworked and emotionally reliant on men, like most women, but these problems are sometimes exacerbated in their situation, and the children suffer for it. It should definitely be easier to raise children on one income. Money would solve most of these and lead to happier families in gener…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 07:02 AM
99

We really need to start openly talking about how fucking weird men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:21 PM
12

Yep, most het relationships are a microcosm of society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 12:46 PM
23

The reason this abusive system is in place is so that the blame never goes to the perpetrators, men. The culture of gaslighting and victim-blaming exists because otherwise the belief that men are superior or sane would be incompatible with an obvious reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:05 AM
26

The most unforgivable thing about most men is their utter lack of redeemable traits. If they're going to be delusional, stuck-up and psychotic they should at least be easy on the eyes or good in bed. I mean goddamn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:10 AM
44

Yes, because most prostitutes are women. It's obvious that women aren't ever forgiven for anything, even when the only people they harm are themselves. Everything that we're targeted for is our own moral failing. Women only get sympathy when they suffer by something men suffer too. Point out sex-specific oppression and watch "compassionate" people turn either casually cruel or dismissive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:04 AM
46

It's one of the few beliefs everyone intuitively understand is absolute insanity that's ultimately harmful to the female sex but doesn't dare speak out and just goes with the flow. It's just a few extremist, privileged nutjobs with an agenda and an onlyfans account who aggressively push their thinking. Just one private convo with most people and 90%+ will be reasonable and agree with you. Ironically of course most of the psycho supporters would never allow themselves to be touched by the repugna…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:32 AM
104

"If drugs are bad then why do people do them?? 🤪" Poverty, a series of small mistakes, trauma, peer pressure, mental illness, systematic oppression, lack of good parental figures, hostile circumstances etc. Same reasons as prostitution or porn. All of these disgusting activities and addictions, they are all symptoms of poverty and an unhealthy upbringing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:24 AM
243

It's funny how men think they can withhold anything. We don't need them anymore. It's either our way or single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:20 AM
110

The "sex work" industry is so exclusionary of men! We need to include them and brainwa-, ahem I mean encourage them to wax, shave, do extensive plastic surgeries and lose all pride in order to appeal to the male gaze and whore themselves out from a young age! Ruining their future career prospects is totally worth it. In the name of equality, of course. It's ok if they're straight and don't want to fuck disgusting old men, female prostitutes like them even less. We need to fight against the exclu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 10:30 PM
16

If anything, it's even worse for us because of the greater risk of getting STDs, the possibility of getting pregnant and the simple fact that we're women at the end of the day, not men. It's inherently traumatic for a woman to have sex with a man she isn't sexually attracted to, in a number of ways. Most men have the same disgusting body and genitals. They deserve each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 01:10 PM
31

Actually, ever since I started reading about modern feminism in South Korea and the unreasonable hatred and whimpy, whiny nature of the scrotes over there, Kdramas and male Kpop have lost all appeal. I still love Blackpink tho. Great art by the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 11:22 AM
70

I like tactful men who are considerate, masculine and elegant in their movements and manners. No woman likes men who act like reckless children, socially or otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:53 AM
12

They get FDS just right, but they know they can't actually say anything bad about women encouraging each other to not date abusive and dangerous men. This is why they have to make up lies to slander us. They constantly use posts from a subreddit by men that is meant to mock FDS, and they have the most absurd and conically malicious posts there. It has nothing to do with us but they don't give one shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:43 AM
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They could easily get sex from each other all the time if they wanted to. Oh, they're not attracted to each other? Women aren't attracted to men they don't want to have sex with either, but this doesn't seem to be a problem for men who complain about how little sex they have. They want women to force themselves to fuck them. We need to start encouraging rapey men to fuck each other and shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:39 AM
99

Especially his fear that women are leaving men behind. "We've already learned how to cook" Lmfao, ok, and we now have money to run the fuck away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:32 AM
17

Perfect HVM robots that are tall with big dicks and can make us orgasm and takes care of our children when???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:30 AM
22

Sperm is cheap, worth little and is easy to get, and so are men. It's not in their place to act like the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:25 AM
116

The human vagina is far superior for sexual intercourse, and it's actually the single and only human orifice that is intended for penetrative sex, with natural lubrication and several erogenous zones. It's a special kind of fucked up when a man wants to have anal sex with a woman, when her vagina is right there. There is an element of denial of her womanhood and sexuality inherent to this act that creates this desire in men. It's an act of spite. Men will easily admit to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:13 PM
113

Men wanting to have anal sex with women can't be normal. It's a huge red flag that something's severely wrong in their brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:03 PM
88

Why do men act as if they're not wombless?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 06:00 PM
29

She also deflects from her partner's malicious behaviour by focusing on her reactions to it, insisting that she can handle it, that she's in control, as if a relationship is meant to be a battle for dominance rather than an alliance. She insists that she's too critical to be manipulated, as if that makes the reality of her partner deceiving and manipulating her any less significant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:55 PM
67

True strength lies in acknowledging one's inherent limitations and vulnerabilities and consciously compensating and planning ahead for them. It's by denying her weaknesses that she falls so easily into his traps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:00 PM
15

I agree, but I never implied snooping is abuse. I was pointing out that women don't necessarily need tangible proof of their men doing depraved shit or cheating in order to break up with them for it. Often the strong incentive we feel to snoop is because of things our intuition has picked up on that we don't consciously notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:56 PM
45

Yep, I think they're also taking preemptive measures against future single-mothers-by-choice and women who don't want to share spaces with men in general. The purpose of patriarchy is to ensure women can't escape men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:55 AM
22

Thankfully, men who think like that are very hard to like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:52 AM
48

Dogs can be trained to listen to commands and even reliably complete specific tasks. Most men can't possibly be dumber than that. We definitely let them get away with using plausible deniability because we're too forgiving and they're often immature and sociopathic enough to take advantage of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:49 AM
51

I will never raise my voice at a man, lose my cool or nag. Men who force women in situations where they have to reduce themselves to a sobbing, screaming mess, or constantly voicing the same reasonable complaints, trying desperately to be heard, are absolute trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:44 AM
7

The most hilarious thing is when they wonder how they could get us "FDS femce!s" to date actual homicidal incels and psychopathic, rapist red-pillers. Do these idiots understand that FDS women are the least likely on the planet to develop relationships with such filth? The slightest sign of male depravity, negging or negative male energy and your average FDS lady has run, blocked & deleted and moved on to greener pastures already, preserving her energy and mental and physical health with great s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:35 AM
189

What a load of bullshit. She keeps babbling on about nonsense, he knows, I know, we know, like what? It's your boyfriend's job to gaslight the shit out of you with the most absurd male-tier logic and mental gymnastics, let him do it girl. Underreacting? Freaking out? She's so unreasonable that the only potential reactions in her mind are inappropriate for the situation, unless of course the normal reaction of breaking up for this perverted violation of trust and privacy is equivalent to "freakin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:24 AM
34

... We're literally trained to go against the most fundamental of female instincts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 04:40 AM
63

They want the freedom to rape, marry and impregnate 16 y/o girls, so calling their wives children more so reveals what they envision. A Freudian slip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 04:35 AM
53

Men lose nothing when they're rejected. Just hear them talk about women, we're nothing but a chance to score to them. Very often they're extremely confrontational and verbally violent after getting rejected, as if they want to punish us. Even in rejecting men, women are the ones taking risks with their safety and mental health, and yet everyone only cares about toxic men's "blue balls".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 04:32 AM
5

Hilarious question. The answer to when we should pay is never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:06 PM
57

People are either nice, or they aren't. Passivity and cowardice aren't signs of "extreme" niceness. He isn't nicer than most people, he's just passive, he's stupid and incompetent, he's irritating to be around and doesn't really act normal. Normal adults take initiative on occasion, especially men on dates with women. You will eventually grow to resent him, and for good reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:41 AM
36

You aren't actually expected to be honest with annoying people that pressure you. Just give dismissive answers or even straight up lie that you're casually seeing other people, or that you want to but you're too busy and have other issues you want to resolve first. Any excuse to get them off your back and avoid confrontation. If they get completely insufferable then they're kind of crazy and I'm not sure how a friendship can work out like that. It's absurd to me that a friend would pressure anot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:37 AM
95

Porn has smoothed out their brains. It's like they're half-conscious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:59 PM
464

Good on her for realising before having children with that man. A lot of women aren't as lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:14 AM
199

Men, unlike women, don't need to like women to want them in their lives. They'd really like it if more women pursued so that they could have more sex, but they'd think of those women as nothing more than desperate bodies to use. When men actually like a woman, they want to pursue her, and they want her to expect to be pursued in turn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:10 AM
158

Blue balls is god's punishment to men for being too horny. The should suffer it, and suffer it in silence, because they deserve it. On another note, mirroring is a beautiful thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:12 AM
539

Yes, the sex that does all the work in reproduction and takes far more risks in every conceivable way has greater value and will expect to be pursued. This is common sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:09 AM
40

Get the fuck out of here. We're not the "discussing violence makes it ok" crowd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:07 AM
110

Of course he doesn't care if he harms her. He does it all the time, multiple times a day, during what's supposed to be their most intimate and vulnerable moments. He regularly strangles her, and strangling a woman isn't that far from strangling a woman to death. It takes just a few more seconds to cut off blood flow to the brain, and you're out like a light. He beats her and strangles her when he fucks her. He doesn't give a fuck about her. When a man loves a woman, he doesn't do this even if sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:04 AM
115

He should be happy she chose to divorce him. This is the only good outcome to reducing a woman to a bangmaid and broodmare while you get to relaxedly spend your time, becoming a father to mutliple children just by having sex and enjoying a carefree existence while your dehumanised slave works herself to the bone every day. Men like this are legitimate psychopaths who truly see their wives as subhumans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:39 AM
6

Imagine even comparing the value of a woman's precious children to that of the most easily replaceable reproductive tool. What a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:15 AM
71

Men's input in reproduction can be kept in a small vial and bought from a sperm bank. They're not the gatekeepers of making families. I'm not sure they've realized that yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 06:59 AM
118

Meh, if the guy acts weird, just block and move on. No need to think too much about it, just find another one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:21 PM
10

Why do I always hear that women are allowed to express their emotions while men are not? Reality seems to be the exact opposite. It's girls who are told to act older than they are and suppress their anger and always be polite, even when they're being harmed or preyed on. It's women who are told to smile to please men's eyes and never be sad or angry or selfish. It's women who are basically trained like dogs to be an emotionally dead resource for those around them, but always with a fake smile to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:16 PM
7

What your female friends say is quite strange, I've never heard of this before. It's very much possible to be a good parent and also do other things in your life, be it have a career or a love life. As a matter of fact, if you limit yourself to an absurd degree you might harm your mental health and grow to resent your circumstances, as many mothers do. Actually, what your friends said makes me think they're referring to hook-ups which can lead to exposing children to multiple strange men who can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:56 PM
12

They never love that one person. They are emotionally shallow addicts, they want "relationships" with more women because they're just conquests to them. Video game accomplishments with which they can nourish their pathetic little ego, as they lack value as human beings and have no other meaningful skills or talents to pride themselves in. They need to be the lucky guy who gets to fuck many women, because that's simply how far their minds can go. Many of them don't have the capacity to experience…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 10:47 PM
9

They don't even look young for their age. They start to bloat and lose their hair by 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:23 PM
104

There's no such thing as "vanilla". There's normal sex, and there is violent and abnormal "sex" people who need to go to either therapy or jail engage in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 12:13 PM
6

As if he has the capacity to experience anything equivalent. Being a woman who's getting raped by a man is a nightmare they could never understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:27 AM
15

That rule is stupid. A 35 year old man has no business dating anyone younger than 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:24 AM
13

There are places in this world where violently raping little children on the marital bed is legal. There have been times where slavery was legal. Does whether or not it's legal matter in a world where pedophilic old males, like the one dating the young girl in the post, are the ones making the laws to suit their needs and beliefs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:21 AM
18

The reason she felt afraid is because this man is violent and a threat to her. "Resolving" the booze argument can't possibly be her priority, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:09 AM
424

"7 years, 2 kids and living together, what am I doing wrong?" This is exactly what you're doing wrong. You gave him everything already, and it's not like he cares too much about making you happy. Why would he even bother marrying you when you're already a wife in every way that benefits him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:59 AM
14

Why would men try to do better when they can just find spineless idiots like this one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:04 AM
11

Oooh yes, now I remember. Those twisted Tumblr aesthetics. I encountered plenty of that around the age of 13, when I thought I was extremely fat and ugly. I wasn't. One of the "aesthetics" is literally called "traumacore".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:11 AM
12

You'd think she told him to shoot the dog in the backyard. She specified she meant giving the dog a different household, you know, to people who want it and aren't allergic to it. Aren't you a little too eager to call this female domestic violence victim an asshole, even though she's anything but that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:10 AM
5

Right, so this guy lied to her and manipulated her just to keep her around, knowing full well that she would suffer from dog allergies, and she still trusts anything he says? Apparently, the poor guy has been "alienated", his ex-wife "brainwashed" his son to hate him. Yeah right, he seems easy enough to hate without any need for brainwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 12:02 AM
59

Pretty heads? They'd be much easier to tolerate if most of them weren't ugly as sin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:56 PM
20

Who does this appeal to exactly? It looks boring and kind of weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:54 PM
201

Most women "don't mind" not orgasming, so take most of what they say in regards to sex with a grain of salt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:52 PM
238

What happened to fondling while making out? Not every sexual/intimate interaction has to lead to sexual intercourse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:51 PM
12

This is fucking sad 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:47 AM
6

They bond over their mutual hatred of women and that's good enough even for men that are mortal enemies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:46 AM
7

Are "pocket vaginas" the logical equivalent of dildos? I don't think so. There's countless phallic objects in nature that aren't inherently sexual. There's no such object that imitates the nature of the vagina. There's a reason they're considered so disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:44 AM
42

Are you asking whether I would date a misogynist? Obviously not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 11:42 AM
6

Men are extremely obsessed with women. Even when they hate us, they're just as obsessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:15 PM
5

These men need to get a life. Imagine bothering to send messages to random women for having standards. There's MRAs out there that are a genuine danger to women's lives and fundamental human rights and no woman can be bothered to even look at their stupid forums, much less send messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:14 PM
53

I frequent antiwork, and I stand by what I said. The worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting beaten, raped and murdered, and that's something that's more often than not done by husbands, not employers. It's interesting that you're comparing a subreddit specifically against exploitation of workers where employees share their worst experiences with what is supposed to be a generic subreddit about housewives and moms. These two are obviously not equivalent. Like I said, I get where you're…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 02:43 AM
28

WHY do they have to make those fucking noises??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:28 AM
72

Let's be real, workers and housewives work themselves to the bone every day, but the former is an immensely better alternative. I don't even know how you can say they're no different. Being helpless to resist sexual assault, loss of reproductive autonomy, male anger and physical violence in your own home is a hell that isn't comparable to being taken advantage of as a worker. The visceral anxiety and the knowledge that there's no refuge, no safe place no hide from, it's a sobering and humbling e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 12:25 AM
200

They were the real damaged goods all along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:42 PM
35

You can tell they're itching to murder us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:12 AM
33

These comments mean that men should have the right to murder us because we aren't slaves who they can abandon to starvation and poverty after they've used us, our bodies and our labour and bled us dry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:10 AM
149

Fooling around and shouting like an idiot in the irritating way drunk young men do. It always reminds me of a pack of stupid barking dogs. Guys that act like this are no longer fuckable in my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:39 PM
29

Thing is, having a gun in the house is a great protection for a woman. Having a man + a gun in the house is the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:18 PM
14

I used that common phrase as an example, I don't actually think banning access to the great equalizer is a good idea for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:13 PM
23

Women are the leaders of the household though, men get the credit, while women make all the important decisions behind this scenes, financial and otherwise. This has been true in most societies, and in many cases it was openly accepted as such. It didn't matter in any meaningful way to women, since men were still the ones with the money, and that's all that matters. Men don't need to take orders, no one needs to take orders or "lead". Men need to take initiative in working themselves to the bone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:59 PM
19

I guarantee this 13 y/o "boy" will be eventually let free as a grown, physically strong male to torment and abuse women at his leisure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 01:15 PM
23

The problem is men's utter indifference. Women live with men who don't give a shit about keeping things clean, but produce a lot of waste and filth. These men don't give fuck about their children, they aren't going to feed them when they should, and they aren't going to clean after them and change their diapers when they should. These men aren't interested in preparing multiple, daily and healthy meals, they don't care about their own damn health. They won't cook healthy food for the family or e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 01:11 PM
227

Exactly. There's no "good guy with a gun". Men aren't protectors, men are the group responsible for the vast majority of violent crimes against women. We don't need their "protection", we need society to have no tolerance for their violent behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 08:57 AM
214

Men will go where women are, this is why some bars are free or have special offers for women. Perhaps this is the result of fewer women using dating apps?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 08:55 AM
27

How interesting. The image of a grown man crying over not "getting" sex awakened visceral feelings of aggression and revulsion in me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:38 AM
47

She could have been spending the 25th year of her life next to an attractive young man who can properly sexually excite, pleasure and romance her. Instead, she's wasting precious years of youth and beauty being the caretaker of some useless able-bodied idiot that can't be bothered to use his frontal lobe to make some decent lifestyle choices. It also seems she's forcing herself to endure sexual activity with the porn-damaged slob. Your body outright rejects the idea for a reason, dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:34 AM
25

Why can't women just accept it when their boyfriends all but publicly declare they don't fucking like them? There's lots of incentive for a man to be with a woman even if he hates her. Just come to terms with it and move on. You're difficult to buy for because he doesn't like you. It's extremely hard to buy thoughtful gifts for people you don't give a shit about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:24 AM
47

I can imagine the police and society blaming a woman for being stalked or harassed by a guy for "consenting" by giving her number "willingly".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:20 AM
4

I just run away pissed. If they follow me I usually scream and swear loudly. Has happened a few times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:19 AM
97

How about we just demand men do more? More housework, more childcare, bring in more money. All of it. They can't get away with doing less than half if the cards are stacked "against" them to begin with. It's only fair, considering their participation in reproduction doesn't go beyond sex, and yet they're still considered to be the superior parent and the "head of the household". Women have to experience pregnancy and childbirth, and all the consequences they have on their careers and physical an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:14 AM
66

It's because the girls who are nice to guys are usually naive and spineless and most men are vultures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:10 AM
86

They never get the wrong idea. They understand when women are simply friendly, they've even made a word for it "friendzone". They hate it and want to punish us for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 06:09 AM
6

Men, unlike women, lose their minds at the slightest power they gain. I really don't know why they're this easy to influence. Whether it is hormonal, or simply an intellectual matter, they lack the ability to look at the bigger picture and have limited capacity for abstract thinking, regardless of their academic abilities. Calling men the "logical" sex when they're this malleable and easily ruled by external forces is a joke that could only have been made by them. As a collective, they're as unf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 11:40 AM
42

Men have a great disconnect between the word "mother" and the word "woman". They really think their mothers aren't women, and that they weren't completely and utterly vulnerable in womens' hands once upon a time. This is the result of benevolent sexism, women have been "puppified" in people's eyes. This is why everyone is extremely surprised when women commit crimes against their children, even though in most cases they were forced against their will to have them and were used as an subhuman inc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:42 AM
6

The fact that you gave such a thought-out and rational answer to the "serial killer" question is what gets me. I'd have just said "run for the hills you fucking dumbass!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:33 AM
10

If it leaves a bad taste in your mouth then the image of the man himself is already "stained" in your eyes. Look elsewhere, it's not like we've run out of men. The vast majority of them grow to become their fathers anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:30 AM
18

What they're really thinking is "If that's what women want, then I will die alone" Time to invest all that money into male cosmetic surgery scrotes! The age of the walking male sex toy has finally come.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:20 AM
75

Fuck them and their "potential". What about women's potential, which actually exists? Who is investing and caring for it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 05:18 AM
183

It's called prostitution. What's with this tendency to rename harmful practices to make them easier to stomach. Same thing with calling strangulation "choking", even though choking is when food gets stuck in your throat, not when a man is violently restricting the blood flow to a woman's brain with his hands, risking permanent brain damage and even death in pursuit of his sexual gratification. "Sex work" isn't work anyway, not anymore so than forced labour, or child labour, is work. The 1% of pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:21 AM
49

It's always been the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 12:06 AM
138

What an unpleasant peace of shit. Insufferable men are a dime a dozen, why is she so desperate to keep this one?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:17 PM
25

Even then, it's a simple introduction, it's not a date set-up by a third party. This is too weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:42 PM
187

Weird as fuck. There's plenty of young men out there you could easily meet, this kind of set-up could only serve the interests of a male who can't organically meet women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:46 PM
21

I think it's a psychological self-defence strategy. They've got to think men can be victims too, because the reality that they're the pitiful dehumanised female class is too painful. It eats at your pride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:42 PM
454

Most men I meet are completely meaningless to me, so their assumptions, or any reaction from them, doesn't matter. You need to realize this too. It's women's misogyny and assumptions that annoy me, because I know other women have value, but I've learned to take their unpleasant behaviour in stride as well. Their twisted mindset does more harm to themselves that it'll ever do to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:04 PM
97

"Bitch", "Karen", "Slut", "Whore", "Skank", "Bimbo", "hole", "hoe", "female" (in the context of "men and females") So many sexist slurs that are used exclusively against women, and they are used so liberally and openly, in every single subreddit and real life, that they don't even realize it. "Femo!d", "Fo!d", are more recent additions that I've recently started seeing outside of outlier scrote forums. They're becoming more mainstream. "Scrotes" doesn't even come close to balancing out the hatre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 12:50 PM
29

A man told a woman he had hurt feefees and she didn't immediately drop on her knees to suck his dick? Despicable. Horrific. Female violence is out of control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:42 AM
27

Nothing actually. They're women's sweet baby boys. Women bled for these malignant tumours to grow and say things like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 07:44 AM
19

Then it is our responsibility to defend ourselves, our rights and our spaces in any way necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 07:39 AM
57

They're fucking demons. The concept of men needs to be separated from plans to have children for women. They aren't necessary, and they're dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 07:25 AM
126

One of the many reasons men live less than women, their arrogance and stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:24 AM
27

I'm just a year younger than you and this word evokes a trauma response in me for similar reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:51 PM
20

Yeah, I just had a knee-jerk reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:47 PM
36

Sex doesn't belong in this pyramid and it never did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 02:22 PM
56

How dare men say "bitch"? I couldn't care less if some worthless crazy stranger said it, but during a date or a conversation with me? It's despicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 12:53 PM
290

Sabotaging female progress and success in order to push mediocre males forward starts in early childhood. Little girls are used like resources and surrounded with those who drag them down rather than equals or those who provide an even superior example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 12:50 PM
42

Excuse me, is calling a clearly young girl "jailbait" appropriate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 12:47 PM
81

It's ridiculous logic, dehumanisation aside. They're more so interviewees while we're their potential employers and interviewers. Fish don't size up the fisherman in consideration of whether to go home with him. Men try to force a way of thinking that doesn't make sense because it makes them feel better, it makes them feel big and strong, and like they're the choosers of the game rather than the beggars. Their reasoning is emotion-based rather than logic-based, as if they're constantly trying to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 12:45 PM
81

My theory is that they can't conceive of human complexity when they lack it themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 06:20 AM
7

They're the same. Gay men and straight men are the same. They're all men to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:21 PM
9

He almost killed you, he strangled you, which is a crime, report him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:18 PM
5

Not the kind of commend I'd expect to see on FDS. I almost double-checked to see if I was on twoX
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:14 PM
4

Honestly? I want them to fulfill my desire for a fit, tall and attractive man that is civilized, modest and psychologically/sexually healthy. I want an honest relationship in which inequalities are compensated for and each of us are aware of our respective roles. This is very basic stuff, and yet there's almost no such men around, and serious relationships are almost always at the woman's disadvantage. On the contrary, I see a lot of women who carry themselves with grace and are well-spoken, emp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 06:11 PM
39

No woman in this world has male friends, although some are dumb enough to think they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:18 PM
425

"how good you used to have it?" This phrasing is beyond fucked up. It sounds like what an abuser would say to his victim, for her to be grateful that he didn't attempt to suffocate or torture her like other men would for amusement. Getting harmed and tortured is just a regular Tuesday for women. They talk about it so casually, in the same way their tormentors do. Like it's something funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 02:15 PM
1

An implication can be laughable. Hardly grounds to be wary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 10:34 AM
69

The most help a woman should extend a man is making a phone call to the police/calling for an ambulance, if necessary. That's it. They've taken advantage of women's kindness and naivete too many times to forgive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:38 AM
2

"I hope this is ok?" What, dying your hair?...This unwarranted wariness can't possibly be what FDS encourages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:35 AM
4

His statement is more so an indirect attack towards any woman that doesn't follow traditionalism. They don't actually care about purple hair itself, it's the newfound tendency of women to act out-of-the-norm that worries them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:34 AM
2

A Freudian slip, these types can't even hide their true nature, it seeps through their writing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:30 AM
23

Exactly. The issue that concerns us is how men act in their relationships with us, not the underlying issues behind their behaviours, that's their problems to solve and worry about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:26 AM
64

What's with this intense fear women have with "overreacting"? Who decided which reaction is appropriate and which isn't in a certain situation, and more importantly, why would we care? Opting out of a relationship with a male will never be an overreaction, regardless of the cause, because it's simply not a big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:24 AM
72

They don't assume women are interested, they understand how women work, but they use plausible deniability to knowingly make unwanted sexual advances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:21 AM
31

"make"? What's with all this strange language? We're not making anyone do anything, we're just attracted to men who act as men should. Men who have deluded themselves into thinking they're the prize, even though they're so cheap and easy to get, will naturally be undesirable to women. This is nobody's fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:48 AM
25

What is this stupid fucking post? You "don't necessarily disagree"? Really? "Harmless" god help us all, this man is aroused by the image of animal parts and sketched figures with exaggerated, child-like traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:42 AM
124

This seems like too much trouble for no gain. Most, if not all, male "friends" are actually two-faced peaces of shit with hidden intentions and depraved thinking. Male company is next to worthless, perhaps a woman should vet if she's looking for just one lifetime partner, but for "male friends"? Please. They should be acquaintances at best. Why the fuck would he ask for physical help from you and not other men anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:38 AM
73

I think they're lying most of the time. They exaggerate a situation in which they were partly, if not mostly, to blame and use it as an excuse to mistreat women. Men who have no personal experiences with women hate us the most anyway. Men who hate women with a passion haven't been hurt by any of them, that's how women work, except we often give the benefit of the doubt even though we shouldn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 03:55 PM
6

Those ages also had extreme sexual brutality and humiliation towards men and children (by men, obviously), and yet we don't see that on TV, now do we? Where does realism go in any scenes other than the ones where pretty, magically hairless women get raped by men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 11:04 AM
12

Imagine an interviewee asking his potential employer this question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 10:59 AM
75

No, it really doesn't. FDS is a mindset, and given the society we're raised in, it is exceedingly difficult to get into it. Most women can objectively tell the messages are correct and "adopt" ideas and concepts, but they don't really get into the FDS mindset and often relapse and make little mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 10:57 AM
35

Yes, what I meant is that a woman can't be considered both at the same time. I believe the opposite happened with Elvis Presley. Supposedly he couldn't bring himself to have sex with his wife anymore because he grew to "respect" her as the mother of his children. This male sickness of the mind is usually accompanied by a disturbing, emotionally incestuous relationship with the man's mother, and pedophilic inclinations. Truly vile creatures. Their brains are twisted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:30 PM
11

Perhaps they were content to act like that superficially because women couldn't escape them and they were free to rape/beat them inside the house. Now that women can open bank accounts and have more money, resources and rights men have gone completely mask off. I know this is a bleak perspective but with how almost all men used to treat (and still do treat) women inside the house I can't view the gentlemanly act as anything other than an act. Of course boys should still be trained to treat women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:24 PM
57

I think the madonna/whore complex is about viewing a woman as either a sex object or a flawless object to be admired. It isn't about viewing a specific woman as either of these two at different points in time. A woman is either a whore, or a madonna to men with this complex. She can't be both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 11:26 AM
1

Right, we've veered slightly off topic here. Rather than intuition, I should have said subconscious, or just that they know better but still fall for manipulative tactics because they want to believe the lies are true/ want to forgive the men they're with and as a result develop cognitive dissonance. Also, I don't see how viewing pictures of criminals would prove anything? Verbal and non-verbal ques, behaviours and direct communication have a huge influence over our assessment of a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:15 AM
4

As I see it, they don't even need to have any understanding of the nuances of human relationships and psychology, women don't need to be convinced to be manipulated by men, they actually are more often than not collaborators and assistants of their own manipulation. This is the problem we're facing, it's significantly worse than already abusive men studying psychology...to abuse even worse. As If that is necessary with such complicit victims. Yes, they know how women feel. This isn't a sign of e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:40 AM
108

What a useless, bitter scrote. The only thing he's good for is his money, and he can't even bring himself to contribute even though it's what defines him. Since there are so many successful women "doing it all", what the fuck are men there for these days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:12 AM
22

Personally, I think these are crumbs men throw to women for them to romanticise and forget their rage. Women would have lost their shit a long time ago if they didn't have the "romantic, chivalrous gentleman" myth to distract themselves with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:06 AM
22

This is a common misconception. Being an independent woman means that you can pay for your own meal, not that you will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 02:03 AM
170

Because they were never doing it for themselves. A mentally healthy individual eats well and takes care of themselves because they want to be healthy/look nice. They don't do these things as a strategy in order to secure a mate, it's just a nice bonus. Of course taking care of yourself in order to impress a partner is not necessarily a bad thing, as long as it a mutual feeling and not a primary reason you treat yourself well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 01:56 AM
5

That's the kind of thing you assume until you see complete morons successfully manipulate women with the most blatantly brain-dead logic and mental gymnastics. Let's face it, emotional manipulation is present in almost every male-female relationship and most men are dumb as shit and score low on both emotional and cognitive empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 12:39 AM
4

...How could research even prove such a thing? "Intuition" is pretty abstract as is, although it's a real thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:22 PM
44

They're evil, that's fact. Now how about we start combating the disease itself instead of "patching" the symptoms?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:33 PM
26

Exactly what I'm saying, most people are susceptible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 05:17 PM
127

Women are always coming to understand things only to remain perplexed and confused at the next, evolved wave of systematic misogyny. This tendency of ours to be reactionary instead of proactive and with delayed, passive responses won't ever get us anywhere. It reminds me of how ineffectively humanity deals with COVID, while the latter keeps creating new variants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:50 PM
63

Does studying psychology really help with being manipulative? I've heard of this before, but in my experience it has more so to do with the mental defences of the victims. There's women who tolerate mistreatment, even from stupid men with no understanding of how psychology works, and women who don't. It's a matter of listening to one's intuition, no degree of knowledge can fool intuition. One's intentions are always clear on some level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:44 PM
20

Controlling whether or not men play video games, or how much they play, is a bad thing, but not for these idiotic reasons. It's a waste of women's time. Just don't entertain men that are content to passively waste their lives in front of a screen. They're damaged in more ways than one, and frankly, this "controlling" behaviour is a job their mothers and fathers should have done. It's a pity, but it's not our problem to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:33 PM
11

Exactly. 100% of the problems women face is due to lack of power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:41 AM
22

The way I see it, women are very mad, but they have a hard time directing their anger because they lack an example. The radical feminist/FDS mindset is fought back against and "othered" very hard. It needs to become mainstream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:38 AM
38

You don't even have to resort to that in a world full of guns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:32 AM
2

In today's world, are women more often murdered and raped by men for issues tied to their sex, or to their race? Who's the number one abuser of women of color?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:38 AM
17

Nothing unusual about him. Just some scrote that's a little braver than the rest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:36 AM
59

I hate this mindset. Nothing will change until the female collective becomes radicalised. Everything depends on us. Men don't give a shit, have never given a shit and will never give a shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:34 AM
172

They are the demons, and we're the ones dealing with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:27 AM
46

The western world needs Megalia, seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:27 AM
74

Meh, they've gotta sleep at some point and an abandoned modern world must be full of pharmacies and weapons. Let's not forget who has a strong incentive to unalive the other one here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:16 AM
74

If a woman and man were the last people on earth, only the woman would remain, especially if the man gives her a reason to want that. I think this is quite obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:12 AM
53

I just realized why I was basically born an FDS lady. My mother is a treasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:08 AM
7

Yes, it's definitely very hard to see someone you love endanger themselves, but the thing is you literally can't help someone who actively doesn't want to be helped. Some have to learn their lesson the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:15 PM
77

Not one woman was willing to sleep with him a second time, hence why he had resort to becoming a community dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 02:28 PM
261

...Denim jackets? Just how much ridiculous shit will women have to do to be safe? This isn't how these issues are solved, this is pseudo-advice as to not directly address who's the problem. Demands for harsher punishments, law enforcement and open persecution of sex offenders will solve this, maybe even body-checks before allowance in spaces rife with rapists. Something must be done to the men who do this, they must be made an example out of so that others hesitate. Female-only bars is another w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 11:06 AM
39

But that's exactly what he did though? He didn't like her, he was disappointed but he still tried to get a fuck out of her and now he doesn't want to feel like the pos that he is. Luckily for him, Reddit is full of scrotes who like to comfort each other after doing disgusting shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:59 AM
37

I'll go a step further and say the patriarchy is the manifestation and product of the male soul. Male nature came first, and it gave birth to patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:18 AM
58

She's the one who needs help, not the reckless sister. This may seem harsh but women who endanger themselves and other women aren't entitled to help from the women they endanger just because the latter is more aware. Imo she needs to focus on getting herself the fuck out of there and protecting herself until she's able to do that. The whole family is nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 09:13 AM
14

I don't think that's equivalent. The issue between mothers and sons is entirely different, and it's the result of emotional neglect on part of the husband. There's a pervasive fallacy, that for every issue between the male and female sex there's an equivalent one where the roles are reversed, that it is similar or exists due to similar reasons, or has similar effects. This isn't the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 05:08 AM
228

He wasn't a monster. This is an important to note. He was a man. Just a guy. Some dude. Rapists? They're guys, someone's bros. Pedophiles that violate and cause irreparable damage to the mental and physical health of little girls? Regular men that walk on the same streets and enter the same buildings as you. Your family members. They're usually their victims' uncles, older brothers, brothers' friends, fathers' friends, fathers sometimes... Marital/coercive rapists?...yeah, "not all men" huh... M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:36 AM
18

Is it? Is it really? Would men put such effort over the course of thousands of years into creating a world that's fundamentally hostile to female life if they were protective over their daughters? I can't imagine mothers doing such a thing to their sons...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:20 AM
26

In the same way no woman would date a man who's friends with nazis and fascists we shouldn't date men who hang around with misogynists. As a matter of fact, the latter is more of a direct threat to women most of the time, especially now that women's fundamental human rights are under attack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:13 AM
10

"the sex is pretty great.." Right, I'm convinced. Since she sounds like the person to sugar-coat everything, especially for herself, I bet sex with this man sucks equally as much as the sex she's had with other men. Nothing particularly bad about it, is what she means. She sounds unenthusiastic but somehow desperate at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:06 AM
15

He says "no man" like it's a bad thing. Has he met men? Of course he has, he knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 05:02 PM
112

Is that the reason? I think women have a tendency to mistake men's possessiveness for protectiveness, and men go along with it because it sounds infinitely better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:54 PM
205

I know you like your male friends but make sure you can protect yourself from them as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 07:36 AM
10

Gets pregnant, gives birth, breastfeeds, risks her life and health under the thumb of an unpredictable and historically violent sex...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:17 AM
14

Yep, paving the way for future generations is the only thing we can do, not that I'm not enjoying it myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:07 AM
41

My understanding of FDS is quite different. I've only seen the pursuit of money be encouraged as a safety or success strategy for women, I've never seen anyone say that being rich is necessary in order to be HVW, or even HVM for that matter. A HVW is a woman who follows the principles of FDS, who pursues her own interests in all areas of life, isn't fooled by male tricks, prioritizes herself and her children over men and looks out for other women and girls. A woman who tries to become rich is a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 03:02 AM
19

Men could unironically say this out loud and half of the female population would agree that she's a b*tch for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:54 AM
6

Even if she believed whatever fiction he filled her head with, how wasn't she extremely embarrassed at this pathetic display? A grown man, breaking down in tears in public, while on an outing with her? Over seeing an ex that posed no danger to him, at that? I've never heard of a woman acting like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:52 AM
43

To clarify, I don't ship male characters. I used to be repulsed by heterosexual girls' interest in shipping male characters, as they usually had (and have) an inexplicable, malicious hatred towards female characters and male-female ships, and as a result I viewed it as paraphilic or born from misogyny, which it was in part. Instead of being disgusted forever I tried to understand why they feel this way, and these are the conclusions I came to. It's trauma, and lack of proper female characters. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:46 AM
4

That's really nice! You've become pretty good at lineart and anatomy, I see. You should try to add some colour! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:35 AM
188

Male fictional characters often have far more things in common with women's psyche than female fictional characters, or real men for that matter. This is why so many women and girls identify with male fictional characters, and why they project their heterosexuality through them, and ship male characters with each other. Internalised misogyny and learned repulsion of the female sexuality and body are other reasons. It's easier to ship two characters with identical male bodies when you have so muc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:28 AM
60

I absolutely agree. Something we often don't realize is that these women don't only justify male abuse against themselves, but also against other women. If she saw another woman's boyfriend verbally and emotionally abusing her for taking a damn piss she'd think his anger was justifiable and that she deserved it. That other woman could have been you, or me, and she would justify abuse against us and respect the male abuser's feelings of hatred and anger above our well-being. These women aren't ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 02:20 AM
44

We should do whatever we want and flip the script on them. We need to start talking about the crimes men commit, and about the undesirable, dangerous situations men create and involve women in. Women can do whatever we damn well please, why are men so violent? We need to understand just how little room to talk men have. They have no leg to stand on, no leverage or "safety net" to feel comfortable with talking back to us so openly. They're the entirety of the problem, from start to finish, and an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:37 PM
14

And yet, women still respect them enough to call them "men". They don't deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:30 PM
38

Why in the fuck would we care? Why are these morons so entitled? We don't have to give one shit about men's self-inflicted issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 01:47 PM
2

The meaning of the word femininity has been twisted and utterly destroyed by men and women who identify with their interests. We need to redefine this word completely, because it's not going anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:44 AM
57

Women in China are refusing to engage with the scrotes over there, resulting in many single men desperately trying to find wives and abducting women from poorer countries. Do you know what they call these Chinese young women that refuse to marry? Leftover women. This is intentional, it is a propaganda campaign meant to scare and coerce them into marrying, even though in truth men are the unwanted low-value sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 11:27 AM
25

Exactly, he's noticing the beginning of the end of hook-up culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:00 AM
167

Assuming anything and everything is male until proven otherwise is my pet peeve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:55 PM
69

They probably smell like ferrets, but they look nowhere near as cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:53 PM
142

Males contaminate every space they are allowed in. There can be no space on the internet that focuses on women or girls with males inside of it. It can't even be a neutral, equal space. I remember when rteenagers became rife with misogyny and it turned away female teenagers, who started a subreddit for themselves, named feemagers , but naive and kind as girls are they decided to be inclusive of males as well. They became majority male once again and had the same complaints. Women and men aren't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:48 PM
80

"She" is not like a child though. "She" will think you're either crazy, or a moron, and "she" will break up with you. What do men get out of writing fiction like this? A brief feeling of satisfaction at the thought of "besting" women through...doing ridiculous, immature shit? I don't even know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:08 PM
37

The fact that women's sexual behaviour holds so much weight is the original and main problem, and it persists to this day. It is men's sexuality that is extremely damaging to society, it results in the spread of disease, unwanted children and poverty, but none of this matters. This society and everything about it centers around male interests. Everything is about them and their control over wombs. All the rest, stereotypes, femininity, masculinity, tradition, chastity, morals, values, all of it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:05 AM
19

He just doesn't really like her all that much. No amount of communication can change that. At worst he'll grow resentful because she expects him to behave in a way that doesn't come naturally to him with her. She deserves to be romanced but you can't negotiate desire, and she needs to come to terms with this. Her worst mistake is having a child with a man who doesn't love her. It makes leaving him and moving on much harder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:11 AM
23

They really need to start using each other if they need an outlet for lesser sexual behaviours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 08:05 AM
109

Anorexia nervosa is the most deadly mental illness in existence, deadlier than depression or any other psychiatric disorder, and people still don't take shaming women for their weight seriously. Some men are so delusional and self-centred that they say women preferring bigger dicks does more harm to them when there are millions of women and girls in this world who shove their fingers down their throats to throw up and starve themselves to fit society's, often unhealthy, beauty standards, which m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:58 AM
6

Reminder, a woman shat this out and never rectified her error. Don't be like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:06 PM
501

This woman just casually saying that having sex with a man sounded like she was being horrifically tortured. As if it's funny, as if it's relatable and normal. I don't know who I'm more disgusted by at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:13 PM
5

I meant to point out that they also understand it with women on an intellectual level, they just don't care because they're not the ones who are in a vulnerable position and they play dumb to get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 01:02 PM
35

Right? I would have lost my fucking shit. It's like she disassociated to escape the gravity of the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 12:30 PM
13

That's really nice! Since this is oc, you probably shouldn't post it elsewhere, lest someone reverse-image-searches it and finds you on other social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:17 AM
17

This isn't true. They understand the concept of consent exceptionally well when a muscular gay man with a desire to penetrate them hits on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:07 AM
5

Girly needs to do a CT scan. There's probably a lemon-sized tumour squeezed in the decision-making part of the brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:01 AM
296

There's no chance this selfish prick gave good head. She's probably lying, to herself and to others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:56 AM
93

"why not?" Why did she casually gloss over that? What the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:54 AM
5

Something about sexual paraphilias and depravity eliminate any and all empathy I could have for someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 12:33 AM
15

"ThE DaRk WoRlD Of" Bruh, shut the fuck up and shed some light on the subreddits full of men encouraging extreme violence against women and sharing videos of them getting beaten and violated for entertainment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 12:28 AM
31

Because men exist for women, living without us is equivalent to experiencing hell for them. They project this desperate and selfish desire on us, but in truth men are significantly less important to women when we have money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 12:26 AM
48

Why does this moron care so much about a towel? You think your family will make fun of her because of a towel? This loser needs serious medication.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:54 AM
2

No, I'm not. I would never risk serious repercussions and charges over some idiot, but many would. She should know better that to insult people on such sensitive topics for her own good, but like you said she doesn't seem like someone who makes reasonable decisions. It sounds like you've reached a point where you're at too different levels to be friends anymore. On another note, I aspire to reach your level of chill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:43 AM
2

Does she generally speak like that? She might lose a few teeth one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:46 AM
31

I don't care about that anymore. The role of the main character and men are inherently incompatible in my mind at this point. So much literature has become boring to me that it's sad. We need more media catering to women and the female perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:38 AM
29

They're like drug addicts trying to get clean and failing, repeatedly. I don't pay them much attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:33 AM
22

Lol, yeah that's funny. Men can change their height too, there's a surgery for that. A lot of women have died or had permanent disabilities as a result of botched plastic surgeries, so what's the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:25 AM
91

Men are attracted to women, but that's the reason behind why they want to enslave us, it's not a deterrent. Women's sexual attraction isn't in fact more complex or emotional than men's, a lot of what we call female sexuality is in fact a compulsive traumatic psychological response. The more I mature and get rid of problematic ideas that were instilled in me, the more I realize that I was never actually romantically attracted to men, but I am sexually attracted to them and want them to act the wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 06:20 AM
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Oh yeah, I'm similar to you. What I'm saying is that this kind of advice won't actually help the majority of young women and girls, because from what I've seen a lot of them are naturally attracted to men and male company, and lack of advice and guidance on male nature and how to serve their interests in favour of "just don't have sex and avoid men" results in bad outcomes for most of them. Of course avoiding men altogether is the best choice for most girls, the problem is that they'll just go b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 11:33 PM
132

It's like most women are in a perpetual state of confusion and trauma. Have you seen Gabby Petito gaslighting her own self while talking to the Police officers? People like that can't stand for their own rights as individuals, much less for their entire sex. That's what I mean. Women are hurt and confused, they want to be left alone, they don't want to be challenged to view a reality that's way too different and shocking for them. They don't want to step away from the devil they know, because ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:59 PM
11

Did this come out wrong too, or is there something wrong with your way of thinking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:49 PM
22

This is impractical advice, it's like teaching abstinence. Girls have romantic and sexual desires and fantasies, teaching them to navigate their sexual/love lives as safely and cautiously as possible is much better for them than telling them to stay away from males until they're 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:46 PM
44

My mother warned me about manipulative and coercive strategies used by males before I was even a teen. She also taught me that pity wasn't a sentiment women were meant to feel for men. First time I heard the sentence "But you love me, so you'll do this for me" I knew what the little scrote was up to. I was 14, but I got mad as fuck and didn't fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:37 PM
22

What makes you think you're the only one who didn't want to have sex with him in spite of him being attractive? Didn't you scream and beg him not to rape you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:28 PM
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Do you know why this happens? Because unfortunately, most women don't resist oppression. They suffer from it, immensely, but they don't analyse the oppression they experience, they don't focus on the perpetrators and they don't strategize on how to best defend themselves and retaliate. This could be due to a different million reasons, ranging from upbringing, to psychological/sexual trauma and systematic brain-washing and whatever else. However, none of the reasons change the fact that this is r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:22 PM
102

Player? That sounds like a serial rapist. A lot of the time women are raped they freeze and disassociate after their initial boundaries and crossed and disrespected. It takes guts to confront a terrible reality and scream in the face of an ape twice as strong and big as you who wants to penetrate you against your will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:06 PM
65

Because they think they'll get the gentle treatment abused kittens with trust issues get. These tall hairy fucks think they'll get pity and sympathy for driving some poor woman crazy five years ago and calling it a "bad breakup". They also use it as an excuse to mistreat women, because deep down they know their actions are horrible, and they know they'll be judged harshly for it if they don't make themselves look like pitiful products of their environment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 06:02 AM
22

Male chicks grow up to become some of the biggest assholes on the planet, second only to men, but they don't deserve that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:58 AM
65

"So I thought ok whatever" This seems superficially inconspicuous, but I only ever see men talk in such a dismissive manner. And as a response to "girl problems"? Ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:50 AM
7

This reminds me of one woman who said she masturbated before going on a date to avoid having clouded judgement and not give in to sex. The men who responded to the comment were mad as fuck about it lol, it was surprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:40 AM
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Yeah, I know. This is my plan tbh, but I'd prefer if it was somewhat easier to comfortably live on one income and provide a little one with everything she may need and want without making too many sacrifices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:35 PM
50

Looks like you can talk back just fine, how about reserve the attitude for those who pressure you to date a man you don't like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:44 AM
87

When I step in shit, I don't frown for the sake of educating the shit to smell better next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:42 AM
27

When it comes to friends, it's quality over quantity. Otherwise I might have found myself dating some ugly man or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:30 AM
37

What's the issue? You seem to want to cancel, but then spew nonsense in the comments when others encourage you? It's simple, either go on a date with a man you don't feel attracted to, like the spineless people-pleaser you are, or grow a backbone for once in your life and find someone fuckable to date instead. People call you a bitch? Tell them to eat shit. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:27 AM
98

In my experience, men truly are vultures, not predators. They're cowardly in nature, but female impassivity can trigger a special kind of rage in them, regardless of whether they are your-average-guy-crazy or completely hate-crime-crazy. There was a Reddit post recently by a guy who complained because he asked a woman "which floor" when she got on an elevator with him and she didn't respond. You should have read the comments there... they're extremely vindictive. Women not answering them or resp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:18 AM
65

Yes, but the issue here is that I want children. I want to be a mom, I want to have a daughter to love one day. I really, really want this. The fact that men have made this financially impossible and socially unacceptable without some scrote to enslave you fills me with anger. The fact that I have to choose between professional fulfilment and the desire to become a parent if I want to maintain some meager quality of life is extremely unfair. All the perks are meant for men, even though women do …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:05 AM
155

I might be wrong here, but I suspect that women being meek and docile encourages them to become aggressive in certain situations. I've had "strong" reactions to strange men being creepy due to extreme anger before, which I put effort into not repeating, and they always looked shocked and did nothing as a response. There's been a few times I flinched, backed away looking scared or sat there doing nothing, and in these situations the man's aggressive behaviour escalated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:53 AM
436

Women need to spend less time wondering how they're supposed to react to certain stimuli and just straight up express the feelings it evokes in them. You feel disgust? A disgusted expression and an "Ew, you fucking creepy bastard" it is. Just ruin the "vibe", completely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 09:10 AM
162

How the hell are we supposed to date these shits? Men are undateable. And married life under patriarchy is equally impossible to deal with. Housework and childcare are both extremely crucial, and yet it's unpaid work and it leaves you completely vulnerable to abuse since you don't have time and energy to do paid work. If you do then life isn't worth living anymore, since all you do is work yourself to death every day while the man wins. Forget about friends, dreams or hobbies or even having a re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 07:43 AM
9

...How is she so calm? I'd lose my shit to a degree people don't consider possible for women if some ugly scrote shaved my head against my will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:41 AM
64

What's with women asking men to propose? Isn't that like proposing to them and getting rejected? She needs to accept the rejection and move on to greener pastures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:34 AM
469

Why does he keep saying it's his house? Isn't it their house, since they're married? Doesn't she get a say on who and how often people come over, since it's her house too? I've been experiencing visceral disgust towards men as of late. I don't even think dating them is a possible choice for me anymore. They repulse me. Imagine living like his wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 06:27 AM
27

She probably saw him as a pitiful child she was forced to take care of rather than a grown, mature man and needed a sexual outlet. Men tend to make themselves very unattractive and child-like in behaviour once they feel they have a woman tied down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:55 PM
2

Every single moment in a person's life is a matter of choice. The choice to take the path of least resistance, regardless of whether it's to your own detriment, or the choice to fight back against your natural inclinations for your best interest. The second choice is indisputably the correct one, but it's incredibly difficult for a mentally broken person with no guidance to take. It's a sad reality, but the human mind is more fragile than glass, and children who have been abused grow up to becom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:47 PM
2

That's not necessarily what I meant when I said irreversible. I meant that a person can't simply outgrow it or overcome it by themselves without putting effort into addressing it and resolving it. Furthermore, the experiences between the ages of 0-8 affect our future personalities, and predispose us to certain behaviours/thinking patterns in adulthood. Beyond that, it is in every abuse victim's best interest to acknowledge and try to heal their trauma, rather than allow its effects to further de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 06:38 PM
7

I'm not victim-blaming, but some frustration might have seeped out. It's also important to note that the things we experience between the ages of 0-8 permanently shape our internal world in fundamental ways. Little girls receive very harmful messages in regards to their sex, how it defines them, and relationships between women and men from their environment during this age range, and the effect they have on their psyche is completely irreversible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:45 PM
30

What we call "male potential" is male + female potential combined. Now they're left with less than half of what they had a century ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 02:06 PM
7

Can you stop talking about this shit in the way that you do? Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:15 PM
22

Unfortunately complaining and cussing won't solve this. Only women deciding together to exclude any man who doesn't help as much as any woman from the table, or excluding all men, will change this. Of course most women won't do this because they prefer getting fucked over and complaining about it instead. Even if one woman in every family wants to change things, the rest won't back her up but will still complain over being overworked. Still, in this situation I wouldn't have worked while the men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:00 PM
53

A lot of men are their mothers' emotional husbands. No, really, it's extremely disgusting. It's like you're intruding on an already existent relationship. In these situations, the intimacy between mother and son overshadows the one between man and woman. A man's family should have minimal presence and impact in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:45 AM
15

This is it, unironically. This is why men are so mad, all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:36 AM
16

The lack of bonding between women is responsible for this. There's always a barrier even between close friends and girls are taught to channel their romantic energy exclusively into relationships with men, even though most men don't have the emotional capacity to return it. This results in the emotional "starvation" of women, desperation and a scarcity mindset. This has nothing to do with sexuality, by the way. I am 100% straight but I still feel great affection for women in a way I don't, and c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:33 AM
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I agree with the sentiment, but I think there's a difference between "you're so brave for doing things on your own and showing initiative even though you're a woman" and "you're so brave for taking a considerable safety risk by travelling alone as a woman, since predatory men often target such women". The second is especially appropriate in more dangerous countries. It's shit that women's solo travelling options are more limited due to male violence, but it's reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:24 AM
7

Same. It gets ridiculous when I start declining invitations from friends so that I can do things alone. Of course I stop myself most of the time in order to socialize and see the people I care about, but I would have never thought doing things alone is scary for some. Having an occasional "Me day" is liberating in a very special way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:19 AM
31

It's always the same kind of woman falling into these traps. Mentally vulnerable and entirely unaware of danger and male nature in spite of having experienced the worst of it several times. The reason for this must start somewhere during childhood. I don't know what exactly happens to certain little girls that they end up this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:16 AM
9

Her first mistake is trying to understand what she did to warrant this behaviour. There's no such thing. Men are insane and their violent behaviour is always a hormonal and narcissistic act. She should just get out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:13 AM
65

Even J.K. Rowling used a male pseudonym at the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:09 AM
68

Maybe male potential is far more limited than previously thought now that women don't have to dedicate their lives to serving them anymore. We're no longer their "helpmates".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 08:08 AM
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There's no such thing as militant FDS. Following the principles of FDS is what balance is. Being a pick-me is an extreme reaction to an extreme system of male supremacy. Actually, I'd go as far as to say that FDS is on the softer side of feminism, as women here seek equal relationships with men that don't harm them in a world where men hate women and consider them to be subhuman. This requires an extremely optimistic and forgiving outlook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:55 PM
372

So, he saw you two cleaning and didn't help? Does he think his dick makes him too good to clean or something? Consider this a preview of your future marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 08:37 AM
33

Can you imagine how most men would react if you started complimenting other men's scent, hair, clothing and general physical appearance when out on a date, several times might I add? Can you imagine what their friends would say, or what Reddit would say to a post made by a man who had a woman do this to him? Manwhores are so accepted by society they get away with being blatantly disrespectful to the women they date without consequences. It's so normalized for them to let everyone know just how m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:05 AM
35

It's funny, they say "equal fights" but men kill women much more often than women kill men. What are they asking for exactly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 05:26 PM
752

Nobody ever informed him of his...subpar physical appearance, and this is why he has the audacity to make backhanded comments on a beautiful woman's looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:37 PM
36

Yes, it is crazy. There are many reasons women should pursue money, this isn't one of them. Also, signs and a gut feeling are all the proof you need to leave a cheating man. This is too much trouble and too much worry for some scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:51 PM
71

Maybe they're just dumb as fuck? I see women trying to analyse and understand men's actions as if there's some complex hidden meaning behind them, but personally I think the answer is really that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:14 PM
10

The moment testosterone kicks in sweet baby boys are no longer sweet at all. They are always female-like in behaviour until the moment male hormones change them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:34 PM
9

Only education and enlightenment can save you at this point. Read radical feminist theory and "Why does he do that" by Lundy Bancroft. If doing this doesn't change your mindset then I really don't know how to help you. The problem isn't some pathetic narcissist, the problem is your inability to mentally defend yourself against the attacks of such vermin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:28 PM
250

Men sabotage their own sexual opportunities as if they're being forced to be heterosexual against their will. It really does feel like some of them try to make themselves appear as stupid and undesirable as possible. I still haven't figured out why. Is it possible men are this bad at giving dating advice to other men? "Make yourself as unpleasant to be around as you can and say the dumbest shit that comes to mind at any given opportunity" You'd think this is what they tell each other before goin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:20 PM
219

This is what equality looks like, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:15 PM
216

No, the 5 years rule doesn't apply at all stages of life. The difference between the brain development of a 20 year old and 25 year old is quite significant. It isn't equivalent to the difference between a 25 y/o and a 30 y/o, and it isn't even remotely comparable to the difference between a 30 y/o and 35 y/o. The further along you go the less an age gap matters, but it still does, which is why it's important to not date men that are older by 5 or more years after age 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:02 PM
8

She said in one of her comments that she's the one paying all the bills, and if he doesn't get a job she'll drive him to stay with his parents. From what I gathered he's now living on her property without contributing financially. He's an irresponsible alcoholic who thinks he found someone willing to support him, and all he has to do is open doors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:39 AM
42

It's sad that a little kid even knows of this stuff, but it's better to learn about potential danger at an young age rather than come across it completely unaware. Little babies come across porn and their psyche gets permanently damaged because of it. In an age full of porn and sexual predators no mother can afford to let her children be completely innocent, for their own safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:24 AM
10

Giving the benefit of the doubt to a lvm that's only too happy to financially burden his girlfriend, to the point that you consider the possibility of a diagnosed condition, when absolutely nothing in the post alludes to it, and then being surprised when it turns out he's just an irresponsible peace of shit after all? Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:16 AM
162

This is how it goes. No good deed goes unpunished. You help another girl and she fucks you over for it. Either intentionally or due to neglect and naivete, most women's lack of understanding of how dangerous men are can endanger other women too. "Communication" my ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:52 AM
163

This might seem extreme, but I've observed men's behaviours and they can escalate from normal to extremely violent very quickly. This young girl interfered with her father's "sexual target", this could literally endanger her given that her father has obvious predatory and antisocial inclinations, as observed from his dating history. I thought my dad was nice and normal. I started calling him out on misogynistic behaviour at around the same age. From completely non-violent and loving for almost t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:15 AM
16

How do you go against the grain? Men's conditions and personal issues aren't even remotely important when they have a negative effect on the women around them. Dating and women aren't men's therapy. Whether or not he has ADHD or anything else isn't our problem. It shouldn't be taken into consideration imo. Whether a man acts a certain way out of deliberate malice or a condition doesn't matter, if it's not beneficial to the woman she has the right, and the responsibility to herself, to leave. I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:08 AM
6

Sounds like you're not married. Will you keep feeling this good when you're the main earner of your household, on top of being the one who gets pregnant, gives birth, takes care of children and does 100% of housework? Will "love" be enough when you're his slave, assuming he will continue being nice to you when he has you tied down to him, most men don't. You have nothing to lose now since you're not married or pregnant yet, so his incompetence is simply theoretical, but eventually it will ruin y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 08:02 AM
48

Yes, it is very strange. I've never heard of a woman complimenting the looks of other men on a date. Most men wouldn't like it if that happened to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:03 AM
7

Scum manifesto. Just kidding, books and essays by Andrea Dworkin and Marilyn Frye are a good start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:13 PM
11

Start reading books on radical feminism. No, seriously. The issue you have is strictly psychological, it's a matter of mindset and no amount of objective advice will actually help you if you don't become a master of yourself first. Reading radical feminist theory is an excellent way to just stop giving a shit altogether. The degree of knowledge and understanding that it brings you, the degree of power, it makes all these things meaningless. It makes individuals that you cognitively recognize are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:49 PM
37

No, they understand it just fine. They're playing dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:44 PM
23

Women are considered crazy exes for being victims of abuse. They called us "hysterical" for having normal human reactions like crying to an extremely misogynistic system that was basically slavery, while they casually massacre people with guns for no reason at all and call themselves the logical sex. I don't control my actions in fear of what they may call me anymore. I don't even take the fact that they have thoughts and opinions into account at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:41 PM
34

I seriously doubt there are many truly healthy families in this world. I thought mine was healthy but as I grow I keep remembering mild disturbing behaviour from my father that at the time I couldn't identify because I didn't have the knowledge and understanding I have now. Semi-imaginary HVM aside, men as they are in real life and women don't belong in the same household. Men most definitely do not belong in the same household with women and girls under the age of 21. Young girls are too vulner…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:30 AM
53

What's with the incest? I don't believe that overconsumption of porn can just create new fetishes without an existent foundation. It may tap into the most depraved aspects of male sexuality and bring certain inclinations to the surface, but it doesn't create desires that weren't there to begin with, because if it did then it'd do the same to women. Have men always secretly wanted to have sex with their sisters, daughters, mothers and nieces? Like dogs indiscriminately fuck their family members? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:08 AM
35

We need to start having extreme reactions to the slightest signs of male depravity and make a ruckus. We need to be heard. We need to de-normalize this shit and make them fear revealing this disgusting side of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:03 AM
26

Like Frollo from the hunchback of Notre dame. It's become a popular trope in fiction but it's true to life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 08:41 AM
9

What in god's name are even accusing me of? Have you lost your mind? If you disagree with anything I said then just clarify what the problem is instead of implying I'm racist for no reason whatsoever. Black men were an example, obviously. Patriarchy currently benefits white men the most in the western world, but this isn't true for every part of the world, and it hasn't been true for the entirety of human history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:51 AM
126

Why do you put up with this shit? I'd have left right there and there. You say your boyfriend is amazing but he sounds pathetic, honestly. He apologized and "acknowledged" it once you brought it up? Really? Wow, what a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:41 AM
11

I'm not talking about who has the most power in society, and the patriarchy and male supremacy is something that has existed in almost all civilizations in the world following the invention of agriculture. I can guarantee you patriarchy has existed and exists in every continent in this world, it wasn't specifically invented "for" any race of men. Patriarchal nations conquered and dominated over other patriarchal nations and populations, that's history. This subreddit is about something very, ver…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:35 AM
396

Porn has officially destroyed the male brain. They write out the most absurd porn scripts and other equally damaged men look at it and genuinely think it's a believable story. This is just plain sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:25 AM
2

It's like they enjoy the dynamic but feel uncomfortable when dealing with the "real" version of it at the same time, so they project it onto fictional men to separate themselves from it. I suspect this is the reason some heterosexual girls read yaoi exclusively, their idea of heterosexual sex and interactions is so twisted that they can't properly enjoy male/female relationships, not even in fiction. Some of them actually hate straight ships with an absurd passion that reveals some truly strange…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:22 AM
29

Really? Really though? Have you heard the demands men have for women in India? Africa? Even black men from the US, I've only ever heard from black women just how much is asked for them to sacrifice and silently put up with. Have you heard of men in Asia? Or south Korea specifically, since you're talking about entitled babies? Are you sure you're not mixing up slightly different topics here? White men do not ask to be obeyed and catered to by women more than other races, as a matter of fact weste…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:13 AM
2

To be fair she is talking about them. The men most eager to defend male reputation completely unprovoked are the worst among them, and they feel called out for very specific reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:31 PM
12

Women in general overworking themselves or enduring extreme suffering "for the sake of others" (100% of time it's because they're spineless people-pleasers). It's a realistic trope, but when there's several female characters that display this behaviour in a movie/book/video game with everyone treating it like it's normal, I just lose all appreciation for the media. I've grown so sick of this I can't stand these characters appearing just once anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:25 PM
5

I came across omegaverse accidentally many years ago when I was a young teen, but even then I could tell it was a concept born by extreme misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:19 PM
5

Maybe search for manhwa or romance novels by female authors instead? There's a lot of abusive content to shift through in both of these, but I've literally never heard of a fanfic that displays any kind of a healthy relationship, especially not on ao3. It's usually immature smut or insanely toxic relationships written by hormonal teenagers with weird fantasies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:16 PM
17

What the fuck even are these posts. Where am I? The rest of Reddit??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 11:00 PM
64

Men of all races hate women and their expectations with equal passion, not sure why you had to specify white men here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 10:59 PM
10

Yes, the human ability to reason is considered to be our greatest trait, but because of it we can be easily manipulated and fooled. "Logic" is often a subjective thing, and twisted thinking can easily become accepted using persuasive, "logical" arguments. Human intuition never lies, and it can never be fooled, never, not even once. Not by the greatest actor or manipulator in the world. It's a primitive kind of intelligence and humans can't outsmart it. Sometimes people don't listen to it, or are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 09:04 PM
35

According to men, not playing along with their grandiose delusions is women's greatest crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 04:08 PM
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This is one reason, but I suspect there's another and it is their position in the hierarchy. Some men think they're indisputably above animals so they feel free to "love" them, but they feel below women when it comes to the dating scene. This perceived threat and feeling of inferiority makes them very hateful and doesn't allow for compassion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 02:06 PM
20

Just tell people that's your crazy ex if they ask. He sounds completely insane anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:02 PM
184

It's important to note that some men love animals but absolutely despise women. That's because women can deny them what they want, like attention and sex. Women aren't helpless like pets are, they don't need men and can easily leave them. Also, men can't get on women's good side if they have no personality and good social skills, women have expectations for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:58 PM
188

A lot of men have an irrationally vindictive side to them because of how pathetic they are. They feel powerless and miserable in their day-to-day lives and they derive pleasure from seeing women, and anything that they believe represents them in any situation, suffering horribly. They get schadenfreude when they hear of women getting beaten, murdered, raped, strangled, decapitated and everything else that men do to us. That's how pathetic and weak the male psyche often is. It makes me dread the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:51 PM
19

Actually, the more I think about it the more certain I become that this exactly what's happening. The only reason men develop friendships with women is potential access to sex and sex is no different than rape to many of them. They interact with women in hopes of getting sex out of it, if a man is trusted by a woman that is docile, non-confrontational and prone to feeling shame he could easily decide to rape her when they are alone together and she's vulnerable. He can easily get value out of hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 12:42 PM
12

Ok, that's unfortunate, but would you want to be the girlfriend of a man with a female "bestie"? Men and women can never have an 100% platonic friendships with 0 sexual interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:21 AM
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Something else that has occurred to me is the possibility of men developing long-lasting friendships with women in order to gauge if they are good victims. Recently, I found a post, either on this subreddit or twoX about a woman who was raped by her male best friend of many years but didn't want to report him because she couldn't bear the burden of having ruined his life. She was shocked, and knew it wasn't her fault, but she still "couldn't bring herself to do it". I'm nearly certain that that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:15 AM
2

Why the fuck can't they just be normal??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:02 AM
8

Pregnancy and childbirth can't be divided 50/50. The extreme struggles women suffer in a male supremacist society can't be divided 50/50. In order to have value to a woman's life a man needs to compensate for all of this and go beyond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:59 AM
5

You'd think she'd be playing video games or hanging out with her friends all day while the poor barefoot hubby did all the work. Poor woman is exhausted due an organism attached to her womb literally sucking the life and blood out of her and there's no sympathy from her loser of a husband. She's doing 100% of the reproductive labour on top of EARNING MORE THAN HE DOES. He should be doing 100% of the housework on top of taking care of this pregnant wife completely silent. Men are fucking failures…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:50 AM
102

Male "humour" is being used to make light of male depravity and discourage retaliation and consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:29 PM
128

I never took male "friends" seriously enough to feel disillusioned or betrayed when they acted as males typically do, and generally always kept them at arms-length. Rather, I am shocked other women are genuinely surprised when certain things happen. Men are men, your male best friend of 10 years with whom you've shared your deepest darkest secrets could choose to rape you one day because sex matters to him more than you ever did and he doesn't care if you suffer because of it. This is an extreme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:19 PM
169

It's very amusing how men portray themselves as victims of an abstract third party that doesn't allow them to "show their feelings". If they live in a world were they "can't show their feelings", a blatant lie as it may be, it's because that's what they chose for themselves. Historically, they've been the ones with all the power to decide what's acceptable and what isn't, and they've always utilized this to their advantage. It's because of their lack of compassion that they fear showing vulnerab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:13 PM
16

Not just deep down, the Larry girl said "ten years and a kid down the drain" and then gaslighted herself back to being delusional within minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 02:46 PM
2

Check the downvotes, the truth hurts and that's exactly why nothing will ever change. None of the women who are complicit and their slightly more disillusioned sympathisers will ever change. I've also realized that men can't really oppress women without the latter allowing them to do so. Most women are content to reap the benefits of feminists' labour without associating with them, they actually avoid thinking about the matter altogether. They enjoy living in fantasy land where everything's fine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 09:21 AM
14

They realise this just fine. Men resent women for avoiding them. Many of them want us to be killed for it, they get schadenfreude when they hear of a man violently murdering a woman for rejecting him/avoiding him or breaking up with him, knowing full well she's objectively innocent of any wrongdoing. They don't think their stereotypes about women are true. God, they have women completely fooled, even FDS women. Men are far more lucid and aware than women are about the genuine nature of the relat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:55 AM
6

They're jealous and scared. Jealous because they wish they had girlfriends who acted this way towards them and scared because their girlfriends might see your relationship and raise their standards appropriately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:28 AM
155

She's a useful bangmaid with 0 standards and expectations. Very easy to hate but very useful to have around. For men, women like that are irritating little slaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:22 AM
44

He can't find a woman to strangle so he settled for his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:41 PM
30

I can't imagine liking a guy and rejecting him just to stroke my ego. To what lengths will men go to lie to themselves about why they got rejected? Scrotes, you're just fucking ugly! It's that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:40 PM
35

This is the exact reason I didn't move in with my ex best friend, even though she was by herself an extremely intelligent and honest person who contributed in my life in various ways, it was through her that I met some of the worst men in my life. She was a joy to be around, but she'd bring some superficially charming psychopaths over that I would never tolerate in my space. I truly wish I could find a young woman like myself to cohabit with. That'd be ideal, although adopting a sweet grandma al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:32 PM
40

It is the role of the female gaze to ruthlessly sort through males like they're factory products, and disregard the ones with defects as unfit for reproduction/distribution. This is exactly what female animals do in nature, no female of any species coddles and intentionally feeds adult males. Mothers chase out their own sons once they reach adulthood and are always happy to upgrade to a superior male for reproductive purposes. Males are meant to be taken from, not given anything to. They've ruin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:03 AM
173

I can't wait for this bullshit fad to die already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:49 AM
139

The envy men have towards women is not being discussed enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:40 AM
35

How do women live their entire lives without a clue about how men are like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:37 AM
122

Men really think women want male company just to be bffs who care only about "personality" forever. Delusional scrotes, your resources, physical traits and behaviours are all important in dictating your potential for fathering children and giving them a good chance. This subconscious biological incentive is anything but superficial, it exists even in women who don't want children, and it's one of the reasons a lot of children in this world can have a decent childhood. It's just biology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:55 AM
-2

Yes, I understand this. It does little to soothe my anger, because I also understand that these women indirectly sabotage me, and other young women and little girls. Participating in their own oppression makes women both victims and oppressors, so I can't view them as just victims either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:39 AM
-13

Yeah, that's what I used to think, and still think to a degree. They were set up like lambs to the slaughter. Nonetheless, I don't forgive them anymore, because nothing will ever change like that. You can disagree. The fact that I was raised in a traditional household with a ordinarily sexist father and passive mother and still became what would be considered an extreme radical feminist by the age of 16 also makes me think women have a hand in their own oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:44 AM
1

😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:11 AM
27

You have a point. Men in general really enjoy metaphorically shoving their dicks in everyone's face. They're obsessed with that ugly little sexual organ and think it's something funny to laugh at for the whole family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:10 AM
3

Two ways to go about it, in one you end up dead and in the other in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:04 AM
14

What skeptical? Just run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:03 AM
22

Imagine meeting some scrote who tells you he murdered someone in a bar fight and continuing to date him after that. Now imagine being shocked at this revelation. What a dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:03 AM
52

Can women stop hallucinating nonsense already? It's getting old. "MeN CaN't ShOw ThEiR FeEfeEs" GOD shut the fuck up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:58 AM
-27

This may be controversial, but these women have began to earn my ire rather than sympathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:56 AM
30

These days are nothing like the past. Experience has significantly less value than it once did, technology has drastically changed the world, human sexuality and human relationships. Older people don't know, but they think they know better because that's how it used to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:51 AM
114

Yep, why don't women who choose to be single start living together anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:48 AM
108

Not to discredit them, but have you read some of women's posts on relationshipadvice? I don't think this applies to the first lady who immediately called the police, but a lot of women literally refuse to acknowledge any signs of depraved behaviour from their male partners, even when they're the ones directly suffering because of it. A lot of them express "shock" when the man escalates the behaviour, shock that really has no justifiable reason for existing given all the previous red flags. Some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:45 AM
5

I'm heterosexual, but in an ideal world I'd find another HVW and raise our children together and share a powerful but platonic bond as co-parents. HVM? what's that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:57 AM
7

Let the bastard rot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:55 AM
32

This male malicious childishness is something I see and hear of frequently, and it really makes me wonder. What the fuck is wrong with them? It'd be one thing if they were just evil, but why act in such a stupid and cringeworthy way? Really? Chanting in public that "mommy is weak"? Men like this are literally unfuckable. No wonder incels exist. You see the same kind of idiocy all over their forums. They're completely incompetent and uncalculated in their malice. Dumbasses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 09:22 AM
3

Of course, the primary reason I avoid them is for the sake of my safety and sanity anyway. The average guy is more than enough to put both of them at risk as is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:39 AM
5

Secondary factors that are beyond one's control, or a factor that comes into play later on, like epigenetics, these things aren't that important when it comes to selecting a partner in the now. Having sex with a man with the intent to get pregnant is the equivalent of buying a vial of sperm. Important as they may be, what business do epigenetics have here? You're purchasing genes. If avoiding mentally ill men diminishes the chances of giving birth to children who will grow up to become mentally …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:23 AM
186

...do men even treat their daughters right? I used to think my dad was good but as I grow I keep remembering little things, from comments on my body, to sexist comments about women's intelligence, to him implying a girl my age was at fault for being murdered by a man, to him openly leering at girls younger that me in front of me. If a stranger or friend asked me how my dad is like, I'd easily respond that he's a good dad, without thinking of it much. But when I do think about it... All of this i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 07:04 AM
103

Think of them as mildy irritating, talking furniture you occasionally have to tolerate and your life will be much easier. It's also a more accurate estimation of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:57 AM
137

Pedophilia is an extreme version of masculinity. They are vultures, and the most pathetic among them fear women too much to consider even the most inexperienced and vulnerable among them prey. They pursue little children and teenage girls for this reason. Women's pronounced secondary sex characteristics literally turn them and their vulture-like instincts off. This is how pathetic and cowardly some of them are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:54 AM
24

To be fair, husbands are like the nr1 murderers of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 06:49 AM
8

Every single "argument" that is pro-prostitution falls apart at the slightest scrutiny. The reason this joke even got this far is as expected, it benefits men, so they don't care for it or are even in favour of if, and it harms women but women are women, most of them don't give a fuck until literally everything goes to shit for them. Most women are a sleeping, dormant population. They're like trained cattle, they waste their time and don't analyse the world around them. They have always been tre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:14 AM
14

Extreme mental illness in men is a red flag, period. We aren't equal opportunity employers, much as men wish we were. We have the right to exercise choice about who we allow between our legs and in our homes, especially given men's extremely violent and volatile history. As a matter of fact, not taking them as partners is a valid act of precaution. We also have the right to choose who gets to potentially father our children and pass down the extremely hereditary trait that is mental health. Men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:05 AM
50

Getting murdered by depraved males feels like the most insulting shit these days. I'd much rather get killed by women or get ripped apart by wild dogs, statistically unlikely as either may be. What a horrible and sad way to go for a young woman with so much more ahead of her. Evil lowly bastards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 03:55 AM
121

Honest answer? Because men are shit leaders, in the home and in politics. Their decision-making is questionable at best, they are mentally fragile, corrupt and superficial, and as a woman, allowing them to make choices that influence women and their rights is equivalent to shooting yourself in the face. Having money gives us a choice to select among the least dumb and socially maladjusted among a damaged male population to include in our personal lives. Having money also allows us to easily aban…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:20 PM
13

Same. I'll start doing my best for myself again and so should you. Good luck to us both :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:32 AM
17

Their minds go directly to the threesome porn category.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:25 AM
24

Women project onto men just as much as men project onto women. However, because women's nature is fundamentally good, they project these good traits and potential onto a sex that couldn't be any more different. This isn't a case of women seeing the good in men while neglecting the bad, they are straight up delusional about how the male psyche works altogether.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:16 AM
9

You say it like it's some hard thing. I'm two years older than you, men older that 24 are literally unfuckable even if I didn't have age requirements. The moment a wrinkly scrote attempts to make moves with his greedy grubby hands he's a peace of trash and I'll pretend he doesn't even exist. Simple. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be. They don't fucking matter. Just tell them to eat shit and fuck off if they touch you, problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:02 AM
108

You should only date once you feel better about your physical appearance, but you should keep in mind that this is more so a change of mindset than a change of your physical appearance. A beautiful woman can be just as insecure as a woman that isn't considered attractive, and she could also have body dysmorphia. However that doesn't mean that by taking care of yourself and further developing your "beauty" skills you won't feel better about yourself. Maintaining impeccable hygiene, including lots…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:54 AM
32

They can literally just fuck each other in the ass and save each other. They even have a pleasure spot up in their anus so they don't even need to switch positions for both men to survive lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:07 AM
4

Looked it up even though I knew it couldn't possibly be true, and I was still disappointed by the answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:06 AM
47

There is something fundamentally wrong with them that can be traced back to their botched and actively decaying genotype, but that only predisposes them to certain behaviours/ thinking patterns. What really triggers them is their experiences in the real world. Imagine being an entity whose entire evolutionary purpose revolves around sex and procreation, but you belong to the sex which completely lacks any real power in the dating game. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and reproduction, the two t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:01 AM
142

Men are completely insane and hormonal. This explains just about 90% of their illogical actions and behaviours. My brain matter can be put to much better use understanding other things, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 06:54 AM
5

Hm, "pick-me" is being used like a derogatory name, but it's actually a term that's descriptive of a type of behaviour women under the age of 25 frequently display, more than anything. "Not knowing better" and being victims of their own choices are both inherent to pick-mes. I do not think using the term appropriately is offensive or unfair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:05 AM
58

The world would be a much better place if women felt the same way about men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:46 PM
64

See how the "feminine" friend bravely went out of her way and risked retaliation to defend and protect a young woman, while the "masculine" girl was a pathetic coward who pressured her friend to drink from a questionable bottle of alcohol against her will, and then almost assaulted someone over it? A lot of "masculine" women identify with men due to the inferiority complex they have towards other women. They hate women, and bond over this hatred with men. You can see this in conservative women. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:33 AM
15

I don't know why people try to pretend that pedophiles are otherwise decent people that are afflicted by a disorder that has nothing to do with the inherent nature of their character. Pedophilia isn't cancer, it isn't something unfortunate that happens to random people and requires understanding and "treatment". Sexuality is the most honest manifestation of the human soul. This is why the sadistic sex that frequently commits crimes of extreme violence and dominance is responsible for 98% of case…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:11 AM
121

I have the feeling that girls who think guys are easier to get along with have poor social skills and very low self-esteem, even if they don't disparage women and female friendships. They're a little like those people who prefer dogs over other people, they can't handle communicating with complex equals and prefer simpler companions, who of course make themselves easy because they want something from them (sex, food, attention). Girls want nothing from other girls, so every interaction must be g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:51 AM
6

He knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:52 AM
9

The solution to this is female unity. We're a massive 50% of the human population with full control over reproduction should we will it, and they treat us like we're some harmless rats. The reason for this? We allow them. For some absurd reason, most women don't give a single shit about female solidarity and women's rights, while simultaneously they eagerly reap the benefits of the labour of women who do care. Every anti-feminist, or indifferent, woman wants to vote, not get beaten, have money, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:44 AM
152

...Not sharing the most intimate and personal details about one's family life with complete strangers is considered deliberate deception by men now? I thought this was just what people did. Being vulnerable when there's no established connection and trust is unnatural.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 10:36 AM
286

Marriage is a bad idea for most women, objectively and statistically speaking. However, men who are happy to have you as a forever girlfriend and don't desire marriage are generally considered lvm and simply aren't interested in investing in you/think of you as a placeholder. There's a conflict here that has yet to be resolved, and it is the result of pursuing a meaningful and egalitarian relationship with a man in a society that is fundamentally based on inequality and men's dominance over wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 09:31 PM
27

"Friendship" is supposed to be entirely platonic, from both sides, and that means there's 0 sexual interest, and 0 possibility for underlying sexual intentions. I can guarantee every single one of your male friends would gladly have sex with you if you gave them half a chance. I can't help but feel you're, to a degree at least, projecting your wholesome mindset onto men and your male friends. Their way of thinking is wildly different, and they almost certainly perceive you differently too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 09:19 PM
14

It can be mistaken for desperation and pandering. An attractive woman should have a multitude of men to choose from, excessively investing in one choice could possibly mean that there's something wrong. At least this is how they perceive it. Funnily enough, even the most pathetic of men who encourage the coddling still are mildly disgusted/embarrassed by this behaviour and subconsciously devalue women who act like this. Ironically, men prefer to be viewed as expendable by women and have to prove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:11 PM
3

Maybe find a mutual platonic friendship with a woman to channel this energy into? Or family? It's really a bad idea to act like this in a romantic relationship with a male...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:05 PM
17

There really are only two kinds of relationships to be had with men who are not family, it's either acquaintances or partners. The only in between is dating, and that's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:01 PM
22

"females"? Really? "Man's" Really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 07:54 PM
34

Ah... beautiful men in suits. My kink. Why is such a sight a rarity these days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 02:29 AM
15

Make sure to prevent any further interaction. Men don't have a need for "closure", and any attempt to communicate will be made with the intention of negotiation and manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:47 AM
24

Yes. These types always look ridiculous and dumb. They have no idea how they're perceived by others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:45 AM
51

Primarily and aggressively to male students I'd say, in order to make the ratio equal. All in the name of equality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:43 AM
129

Once you start viewing men as the flat and one-dimensional entities they are you no longer have the capacity to be offended by their actions and behaviours. This one is malfunctional? Block & delete. This one is prime dad material and benefits me? Progress. Nature made them to be sized up and criticized for their fatherly potential and resources, not for each and every single one of them to be a sentimental "soulmate" to each woman. They're an evolutionary means to an end, it's literally the onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:36 AM
65

What do you mean? They realize it better than we do. They keenly understand how cruel and evil it is, and how hypocritical they are. Don't expect them to be honest with us about it, because for some absurd reason women need verbal acknowledgement of wrongdoings from men to accept the obvious reality. Males don't want that, obviously. I don't know what kind of catharsis and closure women seek from men, but they should disabuse themselves of the notion that they'll ever get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:31 AM
115

Not viewing us as equals makes them extremely evil. It makes them demonic, actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:26 AM
112

I think it's simpler than that. They want women to interact with their dicks, digitally or otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:31 PM
11

Encouraged? The issue isn't that there isn't encouragement, in the same way that the issue with men isn't that there's no "communication". Neither group is willing to listen to encouragement or communication. For men it kind of makes sense, they're loyal to their interests. But pick-mes straight up receive advice and encouragement from every direction and actively choose to listen to none. It's amazing, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:27 PM
25

Damn, standards for men may be in hell but standards for women aren't doing that well either. She literally said she wants to "make it work", I wouldn't befriend her if you paid me for it. Also, the question I referred to in the first comment showed her desperate need for external validation. That's what being a pick-me is all about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:21 PM
5

Do these idiots think they're fucking with men? Do they think women are male-tier morons who violently retaliate when assaulted and have consensual, mutual streetfights that are considered mutual assault by law? Scrotes, you're not in kindergarten, you're getting sued and you'll go to jail if you ever pull that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:16 PM
76

"Would it be an over exaggeration to break up with him?" What? What does that even mean? Why do you even care? Just break up with the prick if you don't like him. I swear pick-mes have the dumbest questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 02:02 PM
356

"Power to him for being a shameless and disrespectful peace of shit" If men think like this then they shouldn't be surprised we call them scrotes. It's what they deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:43 AM
8

Huh? Where do you live? Do these freaks really exist irl, do they have the gall to be open about their idiotic lifestyle, and more shockingly than anything else, do they actually shame you for being...normal? Honestly, I'd just laugh at them like I would any weird sight and carefully walk away and forget about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:39 AM
43

Actually, women's position in the dating game is a position of power and choice. This is why men attempt to usurp it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:16 AM
52

When it comes to pick-mes, never give too much of a shit because there's no point anyway. Tell them to break up and explain once, succinctly, the reason why. If they react in any way other than breaking up then just stop giving a shit altogether. Ignore them, grey-rock them, give generic and vague responses when the topic comes up, do whatever except wasting your breath any further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 06:21 PM
59

...everytime you are dating a man, you should periodically ask yourself these questions, regardless of whether you want to have kids or not. "Would I want this man to be the father of my children?" "Would I want my children to be similar to this man? To share personality traits and behaviours with him? To have similar physical and mental health?" "Would I want my babies to look at and be permanently shaped by what's happening, and the behaviours their mother and father are exhibiting?" "Would I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 06:16 PM
117

Men are that meme with kid that's stepping on his own head with the hand in the boot. They are the ones with the funds, power and property. If they treat each other, and themselves, like shit, it's because that's just what they're really like in their hearts. It's not our fault or our burden to bear. We have no responsibility to be dragged down with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 06:00 PM
28

If a guy I'm dating buys lingerie once or twice among other gifts specifically tailored to my interests and does a wink-wink nudge-nudge type of thing..., then I might consider it acceptable...but openly requesting me to go buy expensive lingerie to wear it just for him? Get the fuck out of here. No shame, no respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:47 PM
43

They actually enjoy it. A girl just like that didn't want their subpar dick once upon a time, therefore all women and girls deserve to know how fear feels like. They really think this on some level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:00 PM
25

Might as well scream and lose our shit and blame men for it, they're completely at fault anyway. As long as female solidarity doesn't exist, we're going to be called hysterical on the internet no matter what we do. That will only stop when women are united against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 03:59 PM
8

There's one specific phrase that has made a mark on my mind. Something my mother used to tell me when I was younger. "If someone annoys you, kick them at the shin". I swear, it shaped me to be the person I am today, at the age of 14 I started kicking my older bf for touching me too much and trying to coerce me into sex and I broke up with him right after. Now I know better than to kick people, but the essence of the advice remains with me. If only other little girls received similar advice. Cost…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:10 AM
21

When cohabiting with a male, no matter how normal-seeming, the possibility of physical violence is a constant because of their superior physical strength and general insanity. The dynamic is always skewed, and a lot of women are too scared to establish boundaries because of the underlying threat of violent retaliation. Almost nobody will ever mention this, but this is why she won't delete them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:02 AM
10

When a woman wants to reproduce, every instinct in her tells her to find a mentally stable, attractive and hard-working male with resources, so that she can successfully raise her offspring and fully invest in them to ensure that they not only survive, but also thrive. Imagine going against the most inherent of human sexual and reproductive incentives, and then asking a forum full of porn-sick losers if you're an asshole for being leeched off of by a man that does nothing. No ma'am, you're not a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:57 AM
5

Male whores are the biggest plague in society. Everyone is so focused on shaming women for having average sexual lives out of misogynistic hatred but the actually disastrous effects of men's uncontrolled sexual lives are neglected. They spread STDs among populations like it's their job, they have violent and unprotected sex, sex with prostitutes and anal sex and then go and sleep with other unsuspecting women and give them horrific STDs. They can create several singe-parent households each and i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 05:27 AM
128

The sunk-cost fallacy is pervasive among women. Oh, you've been fucking up until now? Might as well continue fucking up then. This harsh criticism might get be downvoted, but most women are shit at cost-benefit analysis, it's like the concept completely escapes them. They're almost as bad at it as they are at accurately judging the characters of men. Literally fuck up by procreating with a shitty guy, and continue the relationship with him after you've realized your mistake because...???? You'd …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:44 PM
5

She really has no idea how men think and how they're like. She's prime victim material for predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:33 PM
4

What do you mean? You deal with them as you would with any other man. The most low-value of men is a man. The most high-value of men is still, just a man. Not something necessary, not something to worry about. Not something that you can't, or shouldn't live without. If it works well, it does. If it doesn't work well, then it still works well, because there's more men out there. If he rubs it in your face, then he isn't high-value. There's no loss to be had here. Your standards must be fixed, and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:24 PM
23

...Who the hell is raising these women and why aren't they teaching them to preserve their energy for themselves and their self-interest? It's like their parents go out of their way to create doormats for male narcissists. Lamps to the slaughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 05:19 PM
18

Keep filtering through them, and thank your lucky stars you have such a strong scrote-repellant. I know the constant disappointment can get to you, but it's a numbers & luck game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:36 AM
13

Was he even good in bed? Why isn't there any clarification on that. You said that you don't want to be a fuck toy, which makes me think that he didn't satisfy you sufficiently. Also, you slept with him on the first date and now he invites you to do it again, rather than suggesting a second date. Doesn't that rub you the wrong way at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:26 AM
32

Because they're homoerotic and heterosexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:13 AM
28

They understand this, the thing is they have two problems. One, they want sex, two, they don't want women to have sex with other men. This is why the stigma exists to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:11 AM
17

Then they aren't really friends, are they? Good for you if you're making use of them, because they're for sure hoping they'll get to make use of you one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:07 AM
15

Damn, women who think men are potential friends really think men are just women with male bodies. 0 cognitive empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:05 AM
156

I feel bad for both of them, but her sticking around if she's so dissatisfied and resentful isn't a good idea. We can discuss the moral implications of leaving a sick spouse all we want, this is no way for her to live and I'm sure he can tell she is disgusted by him. This is a non-lethal syndrome he can manage by himself anyway, not that it sounds like he does. Edit: Reread it, and why the fuck is she the one cleaning his shit up to ten times a day?? Just leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 02:05 PM
52

What's with the tits anyway? It's getting harder to find a man over 25 without them rather than with them these days. I mean, I'm trying to date males here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:47 PM
85

The way women talk with sincerity to these bottom-of-the-barrel males as if they're their intellectual equals is what gets me every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:00 AM
20

Good job. Next time (if you're unfortunate enough) just tell the scrote to kick rocks and don't waste your breath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:57 AM
74

Why do you think men have fought so hard to ensure women had no access to education and money for the majority of recent human history? They're keenly aware of how inherently undesirable they are, especially once their genetic material starts to expire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:52 AM
177

Men don't age like fine wine, they age like shit actually. It's their money that ages well and even that has lost a lot of value in modern times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:52 AM
7

It almost feels like most men are clones of each other on a mental level. Hearing them talk in real life or converse on the internet both give the same impression, they really are the most basic and repetitive creatures on earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:55 PM
79

I don't care if it's dangerous, I refuse to do this. If someone makes me think that violent retaliation to rejection is a possibility I'm not being nice to them, I cease to have any interactions with them whatsoever. Cutting off, blocking, deleting, ignoring, avoiding, grey-rocking. I've done it before and I'll do it again. Idgaf, I'm not walking on eggshells around some scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:49 PM
69

Nature made them unimportant, especially to women, so they have to make themselves culturally, financially, and religiously important by strategically handicapping women and forcefully establishing themselves as leaders. Their insistence that they're leaders is a psychological reaction to a reality the male ego perceives as cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 07:31 PM
38

An "alpha" male, is one that stands above other males, not one who dominates women. Women and men are on completely different levels as far as sexual relations go. The natural dynamic is not in men's favour, hence why they try to artificially skew it through restrictive legislation and the hoarding of resources. They've been going at it ever since agriculture was invented.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:28 PM
9

This strategy is completely fucked if FDS becomes truly mainstream lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:19 PM
133

Men are making an unreasonable request. It's impossible for me, or any woman in her heart, to look at the most respectable and competent of men and see a leader, as far as relationships are concerned at least. Women will never think of their male partners as leaders, or as the most valuable among the two, because they're not meant to be. They will be considered equal partners and caregivers, a member of a team, at best, and only if they're considered fitting for such a thing. This reality is onl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:38 PM
55

She isn't petty, she's just an idiot. Imagine wasting your time messing around with a worthless loser as if it's an infinite resource. Just tell the scrote to kick rocks, it's not like lazy men aren't a dime a dozen these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 03:29 PM
12

Poor Larry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 11:03 AM
8

...Do you think this extreme reaction to religious, conservative sexual culture, this male-serving, insidious sex-positivity...is intentionally engineered and pushed in mainstream media to steer women back to conservative, misogynistic values?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:39 AM
18

This is one of the main reasons, but there's also another one, horniness. I'm a young woman in my early 20s and I'm about as interested in sex as the average guy my age, but I decline any offers for casual sex or sex outside of relationships at all, because I know I have nothing to gain by sleeping with a guy who isn't emotionally invested in me and interested first and foremost in my pleasure. I think a lot of young women have the delusion that they can satisfy their sexual urges in the way men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 10:31 AM
86

They don't mistake a damn thing. They're not delusional or obtuse, that's a myth they've created. They're constantly on the lookout for any excuse that can offer them plausible deniability for intentionally pushing boundaries. Sometimes that excuse is their supposed lack of social skills, their "inability" to read body language, or even the woman's clothes and behaviour. "We're not mind-readers", "She asked for it".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:41 AM
41

Their brains are damaged. Aside from porn, weed, and video games, I have a theory that even excessively interacting with other men results in a slow decline of their intelligence and social skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:50 AM
183

"Power move would have been to keep going back to remind her" Look how upvoted this vindictive little comment is. Males may be scary, but they're more so spineless and pathetic. Remind her of what? Ah, that one time she rejected some loser while she was working? Does he think he's special in that regard? Women reject men all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 04:47 AM
356

Reddit isn't a balanced site. Can you imagine the kind of women that would look at Reddit, a website where the majority of users are damaged scrotes with porn-fried brains in their twenties and thirties, and ask for dating advice from them, of all things? It's not the kind of women that would attract or be attracted to decent and respectable men. It's not the kind of women that have any respect for themselves, or who are good judges of character. Reddit isn't a real life, it is a window into the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:37 PM
8

It's almost satisfying how they waste their time and energy just to get through to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:16 AM
90

Actually, men understand this to be fact more than women do. Please don't forget who is exhibiting the very deliberate and selective behaviour we're discussing, it's men themselves. They don't want us to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:13 AM
162

This is a fundamental difference between men and women. They froth at the mouth with hatred for us simply because we get to exist, while women just stop feeling any sympathy for men after they get assaulted, raped and murdered by them on a mass scale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:11 AM
81

Men's proneness to addiction and uncontrolled self-indulgence is one of the primary reasons there's more of them that are homeless than there are of women. Of course there are other reasons, but this is one. They act very aggressively when in shelters and refuse to conform to the rules and give themselves a second chance. Women who are homeless usually have had something in their lives go horrifically wrong, and almost always have been sexually abused or raped by men before. They suffer immensel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:08 AM
34

They can't open up and be vulnerable with each other because they know very well just how ruthlessly predatory men are. There's no "friendships" when it comes to men, there's no complex sentimentality and loving solidarity, it's all alliances of mutual interests and if they display weakness they'll get torn apart. This is why they fear being called gay or short so much, men like that are prey among predators. If you want to find out how male relationships really work underneath the pleasant surf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:49 AM
23

It's a wonder to me how some women take friendships with males seriously enough to feel betrayed when this happens. Sex is always the primary goal on their mind when interacting with women, even if their personalities are otherwise decent, it's like they're possessed. I expect nothing more from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:44 AM
23

I'm willing to bet most if not all of them were mildy disgusting-looking scrotes with either a balding head, tits, short stature, forehead wrinkles or a small dick, or had multiple of these traits. The ones who don't have room to talk as far as beauty is concerned do it the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:41 AM
1009

"because I have a very sensitive stomach" It's okay, you can say it's disgusting and that's he's a fucking abomination for even suggesting it, it's okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 06:34 AM
14

You've got a point but the thing is these men are a poor choice for those who seek a long-term partner because eventually they won't care about impressing their girlfriends/wives anymore and the women will be left to bear the burden of the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:12 PM
8

I would love to wear dresses and skirts more often, but I gain the courage to do it very rarely because of this reason. When I do I always wear very thin black shorts underneath, but I still feel anxious. This is the issue with every female space/service. Everyone wants women around them, everyone is inherently attracted to female energy. No one likes men, not even men like themselves. Unless you establish strict rules and boundaries no female-only space or service will remain female-only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 07:35 PM
7

And taxi/uber drivers. I've used either about 10 times in the last year, each time in daytime, I was always fully sober and normally dressed. I got creeped on 4 out of those 10 times. One time the scrote was batshit crazy and an even worse driver than most men. He would loudly scream at pedestrians and swear at other drivers as if violent retaliation wasn't a possibility in his mind. Another time, one of the four, the bastard was leering at me so openly he was barely looking at the road in front…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:25 PM
88

Men who are willing to invest in themselves, their appearance and their quality of life only or primarily for the sake of having more sex are the kind you want to avoid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:00 PM
4

Think of him like a drug. You're addicted to it, but it's bad for you. Block him everywhere and resist the temptation to engage with him for any reason. Try to fill up your schedule with productive activities/sports/hobbies/exercise and meetings with friends, or even dates. Avoid letting yourself think about it and make sure you have little free time. Decreasing exposure to the drug, distracting yourself with other things and taking care of your physical and mental health is a step in the right …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:36 AM
14

She literally found the man in his house with his whole family, mother of the child she didn't even know he had and all, and then wonders if continuing the relationship is a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:17 AM
18

I only get called intimidating after people get to know me, and it quickly changes their behaviour. I've had complete strangers in my university hug me out of nowhere and then apologize for their behaviour later on. The difference in the respect I receive before and after I spend more time with new people I meet is astounding. Being intimidating and commanding respect is most definitely a good thing for a number of reasons, and I only wish I could project my personality and demeanor through my a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 09:13 AM
207

The truth is, cheating can never be truly hidden, even if there is no physical evidence. This "feeling" women get isn't actually just a feeling, it is intuition, the subconscious picking up on non-verbal cues, changes in body language, behaviour and communication, things that can't be hidden no matter how good of an actor a man is. It's a finely crafted tool that has been tuned and perfected throughout the millions of years of human evolution, and it can't be fooled. In truth, whenever women fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:59 AM
29

I've seen them tell each other to post pictures with children and small animals to seem nurturing to women, so that could be why. It's certainly a step in the right direction from holding a dead fish and staring blankly at the camera, but it's still manipulative and inconsiderate to involve children in this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:06 AM
85

This lack of exposure to the female gaze through media also shows just how many men lack abstract thinking and cognitive empathy. A man showing me things that would only impress other men tells me all that I need to know about his intelligence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 06:02 AM
120

There was something wrong with your last boyfriend, he lacked toxic masculinity, yes, but he also lacked healthy masculinity in a sexual and romantic relationship with a woman, hence why it failed. Your current boyfriend doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:24 PM
83

It still wouldn't begin to compare to the trauma of being a woman and getting raped by a hairy, ugly humanoid that's much larger and has ape-like physical strength. It still wouldn't be justice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:17 PM
207

When was the last time a woman threatened a man with rape or murder for not wanting to get abused in relationships? It never happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:14 PM
13

Well, showing off is for people who have something to compensate for, so it makes sense for men to do it, but not for women. A woman who feels the need to show off to her male date is definitely very insecure. Some men may act like they want women to pay, but like you observed they're inherently repulsed by this behaviour, and grow spiteful because of it even if they enjoy the pampering itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 04:12 PM
13

Wait a damn minute.. could the first reason be why men want to pay begin with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:53 PM
21

Me neither, fuck that. Death is better than living under their thumb any more than we already do. Living life as human beings is infinitely better, and I only wish women would realize what they have to do to ensure a free future for themselves and their daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:43 PM
26

Honestly? I foresee an increase in isolated incidents of extreme male violence, specifically misogynistic in nature, an increase in domestic violence and femicide, a milder unrest and anger in the general male population, the legalization and normalisation of prostitution, VR girlfriends/realistic sex dolls. Probably also the rise of the alt-right. Terrorism. The general female population will be quite passive and indifferent to all this, and what I mean by that is that they won't be united, pre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:28 PM
29

As if most restaurants pay workers enough for them to give a damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:18 PM
54

It's so ironic how these women think offering to pay makes them seem strong and independent but it only shows the exact opposite. They haven't had an independent thought in their lives and aren't aware of their inherent value, much less strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:18 PM
2

You're right, you're right. In my country, being congratulated on a child's health is literally the most common compliment/positive comment that people give to parents of children, regardless of the age of children and even adult children. It happens all the time, between acquaintances, friends and relatives, and it's a remnant of an tragic past where children used to die all the time. If it weren't for this post, I wouldn't have batted an eye at his "healthy daughter" comment. It's like giving …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:03 PM
55

There's a very easy way to change this. Women can just choose to stop watching deliberately drawn-out and tasteless scenes involving violence against women and this shit will just never appear again anywhere. No one is going to produce a movie half the population will resent. I know almost all women hate these scenes, what we need is women to be in tune with their instincts. We're not a tiny minority, we're (at least) half the population and with great power we just don't use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:44 PM
35

Sounds like he was insecure about having dog-tier vision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:36 PM
49

I've started to think of this phenomenon in a different way. A lot of men are truly worthless and can provide no value to others, they are prone to addiction and become ridiculous and unproductive members of society. As a result they have no sexual success, as nature intended. It's significantly preferable for them to live in a fantasy land, assisted by fiction and technology, rather that remain in the real world and choose to fully utilize their mental faculties in order to find a solution to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:32 PM
196

What does "love" even mean to men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:45 AM
57

I agree with the second guy, women need to understand this and stop dating subpar men and instead go for their own types themselves. That man has no idea what he's wishing for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:44 AM
-5

I agree. He is not a HVM. I strongly dislike tactless men. Nevertheless, tactlessness is not malice. I have no clue just what kind of sentiment you're referring to here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 06:39 PM
63

No offense but in my experience the more a guy brags about how nice and morally upright he is, the more likely he is to be a straight up rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:02 PM
61

This enrages me more than anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:56 PM
-15

Let me get this right, you think women who celebrate their pregnancy on the internet and wish for a healthy baby are being inconsiderate to their friends who have pregnancy problems? At some point people's feelings are their own responsibility, and people, especially new mothers, are allowed to celebrate without feeling guilty at least on the internet. Obviously this situation is a little different, since it's his son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 03:50 PM
-19

Thing is, pregnant women almost always post on the internet to express positive feelings for their pregnancies, even if they don't do the same irl in front of their friends with fertility/pregnancy issues. The internet is more impersonal, but the fact that it's his son we're talking about changes things a little. He should have been more considerate for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 11:56 AM
13

No woman who is screaming in agony is having sex with anyone. She is being raped. This man is a violent rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 11:15 AM
4

I wouldn't say so, but it's not something that should ever be pointed out unprompted by either side, even though both know that it happens and it's basically the definition of dating. This is a sensitive topic and having to directly confront the reality of what the other person is doing with other people can ruin attraction or taint it, since dating is also a transitional phase between being strangers and monogamous partners. It's technically acceptable for him to do that, and it's acceptable fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 11:10 AM
-53

There's a lot to comment on in regards to his post...but being grateful for having a healthy daughter isn't it? I see people express gratitude for having healthy children all the time even if they have no other children who aren't healthy, so in my eyes saying that he's indirectly referring to his ill son seems like a stretch. But then again, the context is overall terrible and he's clearly a shameless and shallow pos so who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 10:57 AM
17

Yes, that's because "female" isn't technically really a sex, it's just being plain human, with men being male women in a way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:58 AM
25

Their most hilarious joke by far is that Eve was made from Adam's rib, when in fact the default human is female and women create and give birth to males. They're just constantly in denial about everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:07 AM
27

Are you sure it is specifically sexual contact that you're seeking? I think you probably just want human physical contact and affection. The solution to this is simple, find a close female friend who's in the same situation as you are and is open to cuddling. I think society views physical contact through a very male and sexual lens. The male gaze leaves nothing untouched and unspoiled. Our closest relatives, bonobos and even other apes and little monkeys constantly engage in platonic cuddling, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 08:27 AM
11

In your own house? I'd have lost it and called both my parents to get this prick off the property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:41 AM
4

Men are crazy. I don't know if it's the testosterone or the botched genotype but it's obvious something's wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:38 AM
17

Is having shit humour a biological male trait or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:33 AM
140

The people around you are miserable and pathetic. The only way to communicate with people who aren't on your level and try to drag you down is by being shamelessly dishonest in your conversations with them, at least on this topic. No one is entitled to honesty when they pry into your personal and sexual life and guilt you over your choices and preferences, especially not a bunch of tools who probably subject themselves to coercive rape with an ugly man on a daily basis. Lie about the reasons you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 06:28 AM
31

Well, the male mutation is a reproductive tool so it makes sense for it to work like this in many species. It also happens in humans, men getting sick more often and dying earlier, although it's clearly less pronounced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:44 AM
26

Same here. Men over the age of 23-24 are not even appealing to me. They age quickly too. It's hard to find a guy in his mid-twenties who neither has started to lose hair nor has deep forehead wrinkles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:37 AM
59

They keep screaming the word "masculine" but the only masculine thing about them is their secondary sex characteristics, and by the age of 35 they have started to slowly disappear. These days they get tits too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:35 AM
16

These men are going to be enraged about the future of financially independent and successful women in their twenties who won't even look at men over 30. I would know, I'm among those women and men don't take the "you're too old" kind of rejection well, not at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 05:31 AM
-2

If it happens, it's legitimate. I don't need further information on disrespectful behaviour. If he doesn't understand how avoidance of eye contact is perceived by others then that's a problem by itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 01:06 PM
2

...that's nothing like the friendships I have. The most I've heard from a close friend is "he and I sleep together".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:45 PM
6

Would asking make him stop doing it? I don't think so. There's no point in asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 12:42 PM
102

I'd much rather have a man to cook and clean for me. I'll be the the one who gets pregnant and gives birth. How come men who compensate don't exist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 08:11 AM
21

"Arranged" (meaning coercive or forced) marriage is intended to disable female sexual selection and slowly destroy the human species for the sake of men's feelings and the preservation of male supremacy. An abomination that goes against human rights and the will of nature itself, as far as I'm concerned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 03:09 AM
47

Because language and words have value, let's change the narrative. Reacting to these situations appropriately isn't even remotely "bitchy", justifiably or otherwise. All men intuitively understand what women want. If they ruin their own chances through laziness and incompetence then that's on them. They gave us nothing to work with and there's plenty of other men out there. They've not played their part correctly, they forgot who's the male and who's the female of the situation. There's nothing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:57 AM
113

This really made me realize we are second class citizens. The day an uneducated woman is still able to easily preserve her freedoms and autonomy will be the day we're equal with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:50 AM
26

Choosing to become a housewife is an objectively stupid decision in the kind of society we live in but it most definitely isn't evil. Men are hell-bent on working us to death. For as much as they suffer we have to suffer thrice as much, according to them. Rejecting part of that burden, whether through smartly rejecting 99% of men and marriage, or stupidly choosing to become a housewife, will have the same result. They'll hate you for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:44 AM
81

Autism? Maybe they deliberately avoid your gaze? Either way, I don't like this behaviour, it's quite unattractive and the reason they do it doesn't matter. I prefer men to look me in the eyes when I'm talking with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 02:39 AM
2

Trauma. So many women are traumatized by men and their addictions that they have strong reactions to things like video games, alcohol and the like. Video games aren't bad by themselves, and if done in moderation they are a nice way to pass some free time. Unfortunately a lot of men haven't heard of moderation and even call themselves "gamers". They're also often extremely sexist and neglectful/abusive partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:18 AM
70

Language is very deliberately and maliciously used here. They call us vanilla as if what we like is some subcategory of what constitutes healthy sexual behaviour. No, we aren't "vanilla". There's normal, non-violent sex and there's abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:12 AM
68

It attracts the most mentally fucked up people of society. Women who are comforted by self-harming in a sexual context and men who seek mentally vulnerable victims of abuse to "consensually" hurt further in pursuit of sexual satisfaction. It's insane how cutting one's self is viewed as a sign of extreme mental illness but if it's done to get some guy's dick hard it's just harmless fun that should be normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:08 AM
59

What do you mean next time? Who tf says "I'm into BDSM" to others? Lunatics? There's no way casually sharing that information is socially acceptable. I'd just blanch honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:04 AM
19

They just don't matter. They're for fun, and if interacting with them is no longer fun then it's a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 08:25 AM
40

As long as you have the controller and he's the one preparing coffee you mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 08:29 AM
30

Don't take it too literally. I got your point, I more so meant I disagree with the "most men are good" sentiment. I should have been clearer on that. I was referring to the rape of Berlin, a historical event that occured at the end of ww2, several books have been written about it, and there's a lot of eye-opening information on the internet that describes what happened. Men really treat the women of any "conquered" and vulnerable population the same, just because they can get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:54 PM
25

I'm just adding to it. Of course young women were targeted the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:24 PM
55

Just young women? They did the same to old women and little girls. No female human being was safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:10 PM
171

I disagree. Every single one of my childhood friends' fathers had laid their hands on their mothers' at least once. Some more often than that. Some every day. That's 7 families. My family was the only exception...was. Read about what German women suffered at the hands of Soviet soldiers in 1945 Berlin if you want to find out what men are really like when there are no rules and restrictions imposed on them. You won't see "most" there, you'll see "all". There's no need for replies to lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:43 PM
57

Most women who are pickmes have great traits, like kindness, beauty, intelligence and competence. This doesn't make them HVW. All women who are being emotionally abused by men are worth saving, but that doesn't necessarily make it possible, especially when it is emotional abuse. Her boyfriend sounds crazy. Coming up with nonsense to break apart close female friendships isn't something a normal man would do. I suspect he thinks of you as competition, or an obstacle to isolating her further. If yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 03:34 PM
171

Lol at the male's attempt to stake a claim to parenthood through his pathetic ejaculation while the mother contributed more DNA, created the child in her womb and gave birth to it. My guy, you wouldn't even know you are a father if this "Dutch slut" had decided you shouldn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 02:18 PM
18

All of this seems too complex and deliberate to me. Honestly I can't force myself to care enough to reject in specific structured ways. Excessively soft rejection and confrontational rejection are both unnecessary imo. I prefer the casual and matter-of-fact approach. "No sorry, not of a fun of that idea". "No, I'm busy". "Isn't it too soon to plan for that?". If a man misunderstands what I'm saying it's because of his absurd mental gymnastics. Not my problem and It's really not a big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:17 AM
19

They do. They act innocent and get away with it by feigning ignorance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:43 AM
67

I think they don't want to directly confront the reality that they have to literally give a desperate woman money in order for her to tolerate their repulsive presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:21 AM
45

This is somewhat irrelevant but the internet showed me just how terribly unfunny and boring male humour is. Due to lack of exposure I was convinced of the "men are funny" myth, how disappointing. It's like repetitive dialogue in a video game. They can't come up with something original and clever to save their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:18 AM
20

They definitely don't think that. Men know damn well that the more objectively attractive and intelligent a woman is the more likely she is to have high standards in regards to men and to be interested in attractive men only. They constantly prey on women's insecurities in order to lower their standards. Nothing that comes out of their mouth is to be trusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:12 AM
19

Women embracing their natural inclinations and selves is what is advocated here. Women's humanity is embraced here. If you prick us, do we not bleed? If you tickle us, do we not laugh? If you poison us, do we not die? If you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:47 AM
14

We live in the age of the internet and the great equalizer. Human beings dominated the planet not through their pitiful physical strength, but through unity, malice, and the intelligent use of the resources available to them. The future could be female If women wanted to, but if only a minority envisions progress while the rest are content to reap the benefits of the former's efforts without contributing, just so they can live in a fantasy land where men are not a threat, then of course women as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:42 AM
200

Accept that you're not at fault. This society made by men deliberately misinforms and misguides women, and goes out of its way to ensure that they are meek and confused and mentally vulnerable. Instead, you should be proud of yourself for breaking out of this mindset and becoming more true to yourself to the point that you feel entitled to better treatment and respect. A lot of women never accomplish such a thing. Accept the past for what it is and be proud of the progress you've made and reject…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 10:35 AM
2

That's exactly what it is. Men want wombs, but since they don't own them they dehumanise and turn women into a resource they can own so that they can indirectly have wombs. The power to decide who gets to reproduce and who doesn't is the most powerful tool in a society of inheritance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:39 PM
4

This rule has always been funny, since only motherhood is certain and has historically been certain. "Father" is more so an abstract honorary title. You can't be certain who the mother had sex with 9 months ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:13 PM
2

I was more so saying that the same thing applies to athletes. Why would female fitness influencers or athletes appeal to men? Obviously they should appeal to women. That guy's target audience was men, not women. There's no reason whatsoever that women shouldn't be interested in sporty and buff women, they just don't care as much, they don't even care whether or not the leadership of their country represents them or acts in favour of their interests. If women can't be successful individuals in sp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 02:09 PM
2

The reason why women in fitness and sport aren't as successful is also because women themselves aren't as interested in such things, and as such female athletes/ fitness influencers don't have an equivalent following and funding. Male solidarity is the same it always was. The reason why men support even men of lower classes is because they indirectly benefit from it. Keep it mind men always wish to dominate women as a class. The most powerful man who otherwise couldn't care less about the weakes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 01:15 PM
4

Being a tomboy has nothing to do with picking a lucrative career. Men hoard wealth and power to themselves through keeping stereotypically male positions male-only. That's what stereotypes and traditions are actually about, fairytales and nonsense with a single purpose : To make certain women don't have money and property. Unless we manage to get our hands on that money, we can have no power as a class. The rights women gained were only gained because they started working and making money. No ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 12:24 PM
1

Is eating food mirroring men because they do it too? Please, having power is a need, much like eating is a need. This need is felt by both men and women, but only men manage to satisfy it. Are we mirroring men by being human, having needs and seeking power? Are you mirroring men by going to school to learn how to write and joining a community that serves your interests? Those are things men do, you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:31 AM
5

Knowledge definitely is power, but you can't do a damn thing no matter how knowledgeable you are if you don't have political power, influence, property and money. Let's be real, unless women start adapting to the nature of this world we will never be able to change anything. We'll always be the underdogs, knowledgeable or otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 11:29 AM
2

Men shouldn't be mirrored or reverse-mirrored. Women should seek power, money and connections. If men are doing the same thing, it has nothing to do with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 10:32 AM
44

Exactly, they act like we can't find a dick with a condom in ten minutes if we tried. Women are so nice men have deluded themselves into thinking they have leverage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:37 AM
74

It's so fucking depressing that I'm comforted by the fact that 15% wasn't attracted to them. I'd like to see a study that shows a correlation between porn consumption and attraction to teenagers. I bet there is a relation there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:32 AM
105

Something that I've never said before is that I feel slightly traumatized by my father even though he was by all accounts a good father who never maliciously touched his daughter. I don't know what my subconscious picked up on that I didn't, but turning my back on him to do something made my hair stand on end and filled me with apprehension. He would also say I had a "nice figure" and a "beautiful body" when we were at the beach, and for a very long time I didn't want to even go with him because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:29 AM
53

Filth trying to normalize filthy behaviour. These bastards don't actually believe the shit they say, they just desperately try to convince themselves and the world that it's the truth by repeating it in a matter-of-fact manner. They also try to appear "reasonable" by acknowledging that it's unacceptable, while ironically they do nothing but endanger teenage girls by normalizing sexual depravity and pedophilia. This person reeks of malicious intentions and is rubbing his hands waiting for the day…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:11 AM
36

I've matured to the point that child-like men are inherently disgusting to me. I won't even start on those who make themselves look pitiful deliberately. These men aren't a danger to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 05:04 AM
0

What does "trying to emulate men" even mean? Do you seriously think that women who have similar lives to successful men are trying to amulate them? This sounds like something bitter men would say. We will never get social power as a group since we don't have political power, or assets and money. We're a weak population and when some pursue power the rest are like " oh no, individual women trying to emulate men isn't it!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:58 AM
20

...Women haven't been trying to beat men at their own game, you know that, right? A small 10% isn't "women", and it's most definitely not "trying". It's a fraction, a tiny fraction that doesn't stand a chance against the 100% percent of the male population and the 90% of women who passively enable male supremacy by stupidly sitting there and waiting for a white knight. What women lack is unity and collective effort. This is why we can't win, it's not because the methods are the problem, or the f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:26 PM
26

...What women should strive for is to gain power in order to stop being absolutely stomped over and shat on all the time. This is what caring about the weak and powerless looks like...because we fucking are the weak and powerless and vulnerable. Women dividing their attention and focus, pursuing "inclusion", caring about the "weak" (when ironically women themselves are the weak ones no one gives a shit about) and "equality" is the reason we're in this shitty mess. Women shouldn't "mirror" men. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:15 PM
29

You should have told him to get a penis implant so that you can feel him first. Men talk as if they don't have a hundred weak spots themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:38 AM
261

Sperm quality starts to decline after 30, to the point that men after 34 aren't even allowed to donate sperm in spite of any other qualifications. For a product that is so easily produced and found, why wouldn't a woman go for the highest quality available to her? It makes no sense for a woman to feel sexual attraction towards older men, it's just biology. Not to mention that in nature older males don't dominate over younger males, since they're weaker and less capable of attaining resources to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 04:21 AM
1

Exactly. The essence of males can be stored in a bottle and kept in a freezer. There's no need to ponder this question anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 03:52 AM
1

Male dogs try to kill the new puppies so that the mom is ready for mating again. I bet this guy was all nice and good until the focus of his wife was nearly entirely on the baby rather than him. He's like a little boy who suddenly had a new sibling and lost the main character status in the household.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 03:44 AM
36

Imagine enduring 9 months of pregnancy and hours of painful labour just to shit out one of these walking malignant tumours. Spare me, I'll have daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 04:16 PM
14

Stop assuming men experience "respect" in the way women do. To respect someone for them is to consider that person to be powerful. If a man considers himself pathetic he won't go for a powerful woman who'd tell him to kick rocks at the first sign of weakness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 03:50 AM
50

Because it's what they admire in themselves and other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:32 PM
1

Why does this notion exist when men are the ones committing the violent act almost always?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:51 AM
10

Unless there's some very serious cognitive dissonance going on, then no, obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:34 PM
3

Emotional regulation is beyond their capabilities. Perhaps it is due to an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex. It's a huge pity that women have to suffer the consequences for their shortcomings inside families.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:04 AM
4

Why do scrotes think they're our infants for us to feed? No female in nature prepares food for grown males. As a matter of fact the male gives food to the female more often than not. How gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:51 AM
243

Not even then. Men have feigned serious injuries before to get women to trust them, and later to rape and murder them. Ted Bundy did exactly, that, he took advantage of women's naivete and misplaced compassion. It's sad, but men have no one to blame but themselves. When has a woman ever feigned injury to rape and murder men and boys? Never, fucking never. Calling the police/an ambulance and going about your business is the best decision to make here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 02:39 AM
5

This was the inevitable result. An aggressive sexual movement would inevitably take place as the result of liberation from the chains of tradition. Women, vulnerable and naive, were thrown from one male-serving extreme to the other, but balance will always restore itself. Males had fun...until now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:50 AM
15

This shit doesn't work though. Women have said so many times that they don't feel good when guys say they like extra fat and being reminded of their excessive weight even in a "good" way. Who are these losers trying to fool? Each other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:41 AM
26

...little girls should really be taught about the dangers of choosing subpar men from childhood. What the fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 05:37 AM
230

FDS systematically encourages women to be financially independent and care first and foremost for their personal benefit and advancement. This is the exact opposite of what tradwives and conservatives want. The false idea that FDS is even remotely tied to the redpill goes back to the black/white way people view women. We're either whores or tradwives, so if we don't support prostitution then we must be bangmaids. Like no, we aren't in favour of serving men's interests, either as public or privat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 09:04 AM
1

Thing is, I felt a lot of empathy and understanding towards women like that, and I know that a great part of an adult's brain development depends on what they learn as little children (ages 0-7), and little girls especially are fed a lot of misinformation. A lot of that empathy diminished once I started to comprehend the degree to which women like that indirectly sabotage the entirety of the female sex, myself included. I agree that we should mind our language, but I don't think that the anger w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:56 PM
3

This is the result of there being too few female-centric spaces. FDS, the one that is allowed to exist, deviates from its original purpose because women who aren't that interest in dating but more interested in analysing general male depravity flock to it. There's no other space on Reddit to post stuff like that and have a lot of women engage and discuss without unwanted males screeching in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 04:48 PM
3

Mixed feelings aren't mixed at all, they're a very clear message from your intuition that something isn't right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:14 AM
8

You can just tell they view anything that is meant for women through a tainted lens. Nothing can ever be just for us, even if specifically pursuing our interests is the point of the subreddit. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:54 AM
19

I dislike it. Imo it's fine to think that someone is musically untalented, but letting others know so that you can low-key boast about what a great boyfriend you are to accept her anyway is lame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:46 AM
31

I'm starting to think that men would be far more successful in the dating scene if they spoke through appearances and actions rather than words. Just give flowers, dress well and talk little.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:34 AM
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