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It's like they're trying to cast a spell with the amount of times they repeat these lies...but males aren't the ones with that kind of power lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 02:37 AM
297

Y'all. I've randomly met a lot more lesbian couples recently and I'm so jealous lol Men out here are really dating women they don't even LIKE. When are women like this? It's always a list of legitimate red flags followed by "but I love him," meanwhile this manboy has a wonderful parner and is bOrEd. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 12:58 AM
29

Puke green isn't the color we're looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 10:20 PM
203

I think there's a line, but it's also something I would judge on a case by case basis. I wouldn't say that just having a sex scene makes something the same as softcore porn, but networks like HBO do often cross the line for me. A porn insider's perspective won't change much for me. Lots of people in the industry might say that shows like this are basically porn because they want to make porn even more legitimate and mainstream so they liken it to something widely accepted that doesn't latch nega…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 05:14 AM
26

I'd read this story 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 07:24 PM
101

First one is important in the work place, too. Especially as more women enter influential roles, don't judge men based on potential. This already happens and they already get jobs for no good reason because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 08:21 PM
36

Can someone confirm the cheating? I thought they were in an open relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 08:14 PM
94

Men ruin everything. I was browsing offerup and some scrote from a state I don't even live in put up a dick pick and it showed up on my feed. These men are for the sewers and for some reason they insist of being part of normal society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 07:50 PM
387

He'll revisit this joint account himself when she starts making more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 10:02 PM
140

These men never find women who are also cheap and boring high earners. They find women who embrace the joys of indulging the senses and suck the life outta her while keeping their money squirreld away just for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 02:00 AM
644

My siblings and I used to play fight a lot, it never led to anything like this. No one EVER retaliated like this against something obviously fucking playful. It disgusts me when scrotes take their gf playing around like this and escalates to actual fucking assult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 09:52 AM
562

I can't imagine asking the question in the first place. If I made a salary that supported a whole family and got me a 12.5k bonus, I can't imagine even asking how my parter was going to allocate the 200 made from their hobby. The only way this happens is if you don't actually love the person and don't actually appreciate what they contribute to the household. The comment about how being a full time mom is work and is in some ways harder sounds an awful lot like what "progressive" men have learne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 03:10 AM
1

I consider myself to be spiritual and do belive in reincarnation, and as a result of that karmic connections. However, these are just connections and can be good or bad and can be romantic, platonic, or familial. I don't really believe in a destined and divine romantic connection that you are meant to experience. That's something I haven't experienced and would have to experience to believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:09 PM
4

Maybe distract your brain with happy chemicals that have nothing to do with this guy. Like getting some sunshine, some physical activity, stuff like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 10:01 PM
54

Honestly, I think the only reason so many men are pretending that they are civilized adults and that Will was completely wrong is because he defended his wife. If Chris had been making jabs at Will himself over the years, and if he made a low blow about a medical condition Will had, we'd be hearing different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 09:43 PM
45

A friend of mine would cockblock often. Once to this guy I was in a situationship (🤡) with, he was irritated. I didn't mind then and I don't mind now. We cockblocked for each other lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:52 AM
117

Sorry, this is kind of off topic, but I was browsing other sub posts about this incident and it's wild how the usual "dOn'T kInK sHaMe" vibe of basic reddit goes out the window with this couple. Everyone has something to say about their open relationship and Jada having other partners. How unsurprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:26 AM
52

🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/22 10:36 PM
21

So it's impossible for men to get dates but also so hard not to cheat once you have a gf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 09:21 PM
1

I'm part way through and this guy is such a low life. Also, I thought that a certain amount of money could be gifted and not taxable? If I'm not wrong about that this lawyer that "joked" about just getting married needs his ass handed to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:17 AM
325

The lame reasons he loves her isn't even uncommon among men. Imagine if the majority of women casually said "I love you because you pay the bills, babe." They would call it abuse or hate speech without hesitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 09:30 PM
17

I also really liked her, as a character. But I never tried to emulate her and I don't look up to her the ways guys do to the joker. Personally I haven't seen women idolize Amy in the same way men do with male villains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 06:30 PM
147

I remember when all the clowns were rooting for what's his face from Breaking Bad. You don't see women looking up to Amy from Gone Girl. Also, pay attention to how men talk about characters that are shitty (not in the Joker villain way, but in the asshole Andy from The Office way). Time and time again, when there's a male character that's easy to shit on, men will talk about how the writers ruined the character, how the asshole behavior is definitely out of character, actually. When it's a woman…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 08:34 AM
96

He's not the bright, is he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 09:21 PM
81

They are far too ugly for this sort of arrangement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:00 AM
53

Notice how he didn't bring up how well he takes care of himself? If he did even a tenth of what she used to do, he would absolutely bring it up. This man is out here just bringing nothing to the table but his plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:28 AM
13

The vaccine delayed my period by a week and I didn't hear a word about it anywhere besides reddit for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 08:04 AM
47

Yup. I didn't want texas gun culture to rub off on me since I grew up in a state that feels very differently, but with stories like this I'm pro female gun ownership as well. And training for gun handling and mental preparation. Especially for liberal women, the reprogramming feels important. I'm trying to get my mind to accept that if I decide to use a gun in self defence ever, it's to immediately use it. Hesitation is what gets weapons used against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 08:09 PM
8

To think that the misogyny that porn props up doesn't carry over into men's day jobs and personal lives and affect other women and society as a whole...must be nice in 🤡 world. What's that Gatsby quote about being a beautiful little fool again...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 07:38 PM
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Remember when that chris dude accidentally posted a dick pic on insta stories or something and a whole fucking army of people flooded social media with wholesome posts so it was harder to find the original picture? Everyone agreed it was wrong to go looking since it was an accident? But when female celebrities get literally HACKED, or even Camila Cabello's recent clothing malfunction, people don't give a fraction of that kind of support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 07:31 PM
295

I honestly don't think any man on earth would do what she did. They just gleefully take your money and time and then move on and never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:05 AM
101

My man sure would sleep with a random woman he doesn't know though. Because men don't see sex as them giving anything, just taking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 08:34 PM
412

Meanwhile men leave their wives when they get sick. Idk how empathy and love can be so different between men and women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 06:12 AM
68

This is shit sad men say to try and manipulate women into not putting themselves first and staying dependent on men. Dumb indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 03:31 AM
42

It's their only real issue in a patriarchal society. Which is telling as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:43 AM
39

That's fair. But I'd get resentful if I ended up having to take care of the sheets problem like the reviewer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 08:05 PM
204

The amount of manipulating the bdsm community does simply to protect fucking predators is wild and so disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 01:19 AM
171

It's funny because in my eyes the Birkin is losing its social value recently. The extreme exclusivity is a huge part of the bag's appeal, but now it seems like every moron with money has one if not multiple. Interesting that men now give a shit, maybe the male lv essence just seeps into everything they touch lol. Also, the woman who inspired the bag was complaining about not having a practical bag for all of her things and found that the Birkin didn't actually meet those needs. The bag isn't all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 11:51 PM
37

I remember the guy I was sort of seeing at the time mentioned "No Strings Attached" out of the blue and said it was pretty good. Looking back it's just a reminder that when scrotes are on board with something, it should raise flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 11:01 PM
18

Men are braindead clowns and yes, it disgusts me. A lot lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 08:11 PM
54

So men are attention wh*res and we should just be cool with that? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:17 AM
14

I think the instinct is correct. Our gut tells us men can change at the drop of a hat so we think living together will uncover hidden lv tendencies before marriage. What's hard to understand without women only places like fds is that this is ALWAYS the case, men can screw you over at any time and you have to vet for the duration of the relationship. The instinct is there, how some women handle it isn't the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 09:15 PM
82

A scrote asked me to drive him home after a date once because he had walked. It was a drink date too (wellllll before I knew better). The low effort and low value only got worse from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:33 PM
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I've seen this happen in bars in real life. The conventionally attractive friend is never shocked lol, women see right through this if it's a game. Or they aren't even slightly bothered because what you're doing is going after women "in your league" which is normal. This post is so sad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:28 PM
83

Nice to see but damn I'd hate to be a parent like this with a son like that. Feels like even good parents can't battle society's insistence of allowing dickheads all the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 01:31 AM
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Rescue mission? She should absolutely report him, this WAS rape. Reddit males will never support rape victims because the majority of them would/have done the same. It takes a fraction of a brain cell to know that a puking woman CANNOT FUCKING CONSENT. Scrotes are such cancer on society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 10:59 AM
10

Pos gold digging scrote is a parasite and somehow she's thinking she messed up??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:57 AM
54

So alpha that he's immediately triggered
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:47 AM
72

Who wants to bet she's been cooking his meals, washing his clothes, and playing therapist affording him the ability to focus solely on his career and increasing his income? All so they can go 50/50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:11 PM
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I'd answer honestly. I'd give a vague answer if I was giving my answer first so the guy doesn't just mirror me, but he's already told you. He could still be lying, of course, but that's what vetting is for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:27 AM
23

I fully agree with the thing you didn't say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:31 AM
21

There's already barely any work to do. You match on old because you've swiped right...and the vast majority of women don't swipe right on everyone like the sad scrotes do. If you aren't a trash bag after that it's nearly a guarantee that you're going to get a yes. The vast majority of the idiots don't even plan the date. Men are so coddled and fucking stupid if they are seriously still crying about this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:12 AM
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They're sick. Every time there another thread somewhere criticizing pedos they come out of the sewers talking about how the legal age is some wildly young age in their country. As if that makes it any less disgusting and fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:17 AM
21

Do you guys have cameras? I'd absolutely post his meltdown online so everyone can laugh at his small dick problems lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:34 AM
171

OH MY GOD. lol the image she used and Mr. Businessman over there was just like yup, this is the one. And is he paying less than the federal min wage? Hahaha. And he'd MOVE STATES?? It gets more and more insane. First he's just a software dev but don't get it twisted, he's actually a bloackchain developer. Could just get a business card printed to feel important or whatever. It can say whatever you want. But becoming a laughingstock is much better I guess 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:13 AM
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This makes sense. I think it's what makes it hard for some people to fully agree with the rule book at first. In some sense we conduct our own dating experiments and some people need a sufficient sample set of asshole men before they start accepting that certain behaviors are in fact red flags. The nice thing about women only spaces is that we can share our stories and contribute to a collective sample set of hundreds of asshole men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 10:34 AM
30

HAHAHAHA. This man has not a single ounce of success but is looking to exploit women in order to finally get somewhere with this "startup"....it's almost like they know that they aren't shit and men exploiting their wives or partners is how they get anywhere in life. DON'T lift up broke scrotes, ladies. Build your own damn company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:54 AM
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Sadly I'm not surprised. We need a database for trash men like this. At least warn other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 09:21 AM
12

Ah, yes, to support his father. Thats why he stays with his dad even though he's in this relationship now. Oh wait. Why why why can't women see through these hobosexuals?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:52 AM
340

I thought males were against tests in relationships? Or is it just when women do it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:43 AM
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The only men I've had ask something along these lines are the simplest of scrotes. Essentially, they are incompetent at social interactions and want a woman who has a job, family, friends, and that one passion they will talk about without prompting from the scrote. He doesn't have to ask deep or thoughtful questions to get to know you because ideally you are so into your "passion" that you fill in awkward silences without any effort on his part while mostly letting him speak about himself. Men w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:21 AM
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He has that much audacity with that face? Amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:43 PM
70

These men are more braindead than flat earthers. I don't think there's any hope for them. I just hope that they all die sad, alone, and sooner rather than later. There's no fixing lvm that are so damaged. They're mentally and emotionally weak and refuse to operate using any amount of logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:59 AM
71

He's not working. And only an idiot thinks he's trying to find one even a little bit. So he has all the time in the world and still plans nothing. And she calls this give and take. 🎪🎪🎪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:36 AM
53

Really hope she figures out what a useless man looks like before she ends up committing to this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:24 AM
173

A single flower because he stole it from someone else's garden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:00 AM
2

I think in a perfect world (only HVM in existence) this would be true. Considering that the majority (save for mental health struggles) of our issues is a result of nurture imo, then nurture should be able to shift it. However, in today's world not loving yourself as a woman makes you a mark for shitty, shitty LVM. This probably works for males though. With the amount of pickme and barb the builders in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:32 PM
10

Oh noooo, if it isn't the consequences of male actions. Fuck off you entitled loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:06 PM
16

This scrote is really thinking through being a homewrecking piece of shit? Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:50 PM
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Dude is literally an idiot and still thinks he deserves an opinion on a woman's body. Classic male on earth. And now she thinks it's her job to educate an adult man??? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 12:38 AM
27

Ladies, get your man shitty heart shaped candy in the name of equality! Jk, leave that moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 11:13 PM
54

These men are professional limbo players and somehow they aren't embarrassed 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 11:02 PM
27

Oh wow I didn't know this. How vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 05:34 AM
245

Lol, take him to the barber on your first date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 02:16 AM
10

Kanye is legit so sad and pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:05 AM
14

He's sounds damaged and undateable. I'm also a night owl, but when friends or family visit for an extended time I stick to a more normal routine so I'm not acting like an inconsiderate scrote. If I were living with a partner I'd make similar changes since the world doesn't actually function on night owl time and it makes more logical sense for me to compromise in that area. That being said, I'm very tired of women not listening to men who tell them who they are. Stop thinking that he will change…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 12:00 AM
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The coworkers that I've absolutely adored over the years have all been women. Two older women and two closer to my age in particular stand out. I'm not saying there's definitely a correlation, but it was always interesting to me that the older women were girl moms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 08:14 PM
48

I doubt this even happened. He's just trying to attach her image to this story. Yet another scrote that belongs under the prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:36 PM
34

Why do they get creepier by the day? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:43 PM
219

Men will refuse to do anything if they so much as get a papercut. Yet, selfishly demanding sex after childbirth is somehow not all that uncommon. Such horrible people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 11:21 PM
9

I really do wish all LVM would follow this list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:36 PM
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I honestly feel like this is some sort of cool girl/pickme psychological self defence. They aren't in a place to de-center men from their lives and only focus on HVM, so they are still dealing with LVM and have to engage in a way that's the least likely to make them feel like a victim of shitty men. So they also treat sex like it's just sex, and they also objectify everyone, and they pretend like they're fine with it because they can call it "sex positive," and well, positive is in the name. It'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:20 PM
107

The most comfortable and safe thing sure feels like not jumping into bed with a virtual stranger. It's starting to piss me off how the libfem crowd insist on acting as if we live in some sort of utopia where misogyny doesn't exist. Like some twisted version of "dress for the job you want" except in their case it's just putting women in danger. Behaving like men actually respect women and female sexuality won't make it so you dummies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:04 PM
98

This man acting like some 10 minute convo has a bigger impact than whatever trash media he's letting his son consume is such terrible parenting. I'm more and more likely never to have children by the day. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:35 AM
93

My narc ex held up his phone as if to take a pic when I was changing one day. It was a "joke" which meant that actually he was just a fucked up human and I wish I left sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:25 AM
34

This is true. I know a good amount of millennial women that aren't married and never have been. In some cases the emotional longing for that nuclear family just isn't there because a part of them realizes that it's not actually that great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:34 PM
26

Oh wow, I never thought of that. I'll have to do some research on how to prep for a pressure test sort of situation. Thanks for pointing that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:51 PM
33

And yet the company image is a-ok when it hires men pathetic enough to subscribe to a woman's only fans and then use that knowledge bar her from other work? Men are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:32 PM
23

Bingo. That in combination of finding women that seem generally open and trusting and kind. Like it's maddening to watch how they got taken advantage of, but I bet the qualities that led to them being swindled are also qualities a lot of people would love in their friend/partner. I noticed that the first two women went straight to HIM when they saw info about him. Their first instinct was to see what he had to say instead of keeping the upper hand that they had while they figure out next steps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:14 AM
14

I was shocked! I wish they talked about why he wasn't charged with any of the fraud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:01 AM
4

This sickening excuse for a human is only posting to reddit so all the neckbeard men can tell him that he's not at fault. He's absolutely part of the cancer that is shit men and he has literally no worth as far as I'm concerned. All of these zero and negative value men are the most worthless creatures on earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 07:20 AM
3

Why do they care what we think? Aren't we all super unhealthy, femcel, leg beard, basement dwellers? Aren't we the women they wouldn't date anyway? And seeing as women aren't the ones shooting up men due to lack of sex, how exactly are we responsible for any of their untreated mental health issues? I sometimes wonder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:22 AM
16

Oh. So THIS is why men shit on "horse girls." By nature of their hobby they don't have unlimited time to dedicate to manchildren and they don't like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:00 AM
59

Huskies are on my "beautiful dogs but no can do" list for a reason. Frankly, any new puppy on top of the work of two little kids would be a no for me. And besides all that, I'm floored that a grown adult man would give a puppy as a gift, that's not how adding a pet to your life is done. That's how dogs end up in shelters. This is 100% some sort of childish, passive aggressive tantrum and if the dog ends up needing to be rehomed he will blame her even though it's 100% his fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 04:45 AM
37

That's a dope job, he's obviously jealous and completely not worth any woman's time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:20 AM
33

We should actually grapple with the fact that COUNTLESS women are forced to move past sexual harassment because society doesn't take it seriously, and COUNTLESS women never report sexual assault because their accurate cost/benefit analysis tells them that it's most likely not worth it. We should grapple with that. Because in an idyllic world these monsters would be behind bars at the FIRST instance of boundary crossing behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:16 AM
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And this is why we call them scrotes. All of this is vile and yet doesn't surprise me. Stick to every single one of your boundaries, ladies. That'll keep the majority of this shit out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:59 PM
33

"It's a red flag that you saw through my bullshit and found proof to support your claim."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:26 PM
32

If he had stayed with his ex, he would instead be complaining about how he wants to open the marriage because he's never been with anyone else. This guy is just a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 09:55 PM
6

Oh, don't let this get to you. I've seen ass ugly men hitting on gorgeous women, they have no clue because places like reddit tell them it's all about their personality and confidence lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:34 AM
16

Hope those sons are the only ones taking care of him when he can't wipe his own ass one day. We all know how that's likely to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 02:06 AM
21

Men want women to have boundaries with all other men but him. He is supposed to be so irresistible that you let him trample your boundaries. SO glad you didn't give him any more of your energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:47 AM
88

This is the shit journalists should care about. Not how FDS is against "50/50."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:15 AM
78

To anyone who is a secret gf for cultural reasons, ask the guy if anyone else in his family has married outside the culture or if he would be the first. If he would be the first move right along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:13 AM
31

It's also endlessly frustrating to me though. Women have had many issues with male behavior since the beginning of time, but we're never taken seriously by men and pickme women. Then, when we decide that social self defence is in order and hit back, the same men and pickme women cry "wow if the genders were reversed this would not fly" AS FUCKING IF they haven't been reversed this whole time. It's insane to see the lack of awareness males have, but I see that kind of thing ANY time a woman decid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:11 PM
41

It's easier to say fds is toxic than to admit that we're right. Fds criticizes pretty much every step people there take to get to the point of venting about their terrible husbands to other people with terrible husbands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:32 AM
605

Imagine being so emotionally and intellectually underdeveloped. No confident woman will find this man even remotely attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:26 AM
161

Yup, checks off their box of "petite woman who can't even tell has evil height preference" too 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:09 AM
11

This feels stolckholm syndome-y. Like being forced to survive in this world by partaking in an industry that abuses you and the only way to mentally survive is to sympathize with your nasty abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:15 PM
108

If you're sensitive to certain ingredients it can really mess with your gut health. This feels insidious on his part, like step 1 before becoming slug guy. Good on you for moving on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:06 AM
54

I'm sorry but your description of this guy has me hearing TSwift's 🎵 There's nothing in my brain 🎵 loop lol. I'm not convinced that a gf decorated space would remind him of her after they break up, I don't think his brain processes things that deeply 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:58 PM
56

Grown ass men still want surprise blow jobs in their car? There's so much more wrong with this guy but that part was extra special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:47 PM
58

Every comment like this from a male belongs in the choosing beggars sub lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:56 PM
289

Right? The last line had me raise my eyebrow, too. Men love taking conversations women started (body shaming, equality in general, etc.) and using it against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 10:07 PM
143

Wow. This makes so much sense. I've always wondered why so many men throw a tantrum online about how they were "vulnerable" and it got them nowhere in a relationship. It makes so much more sense when you realize it's because they see the whole exchange as transactional. Which wouldn't even cross our MINDS because how often are we vulnerable with men who just gives us a "that sucks" and a subject change? So. Often. They're so fragile that they honestly can't handle a fraction of what women just s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 08:06 PM
4

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. I think resources and info should be shared, but don't stress yourself out trying to make someone understand. That part is done on an individual level when they're ready to listen. Helping shouldn't disturb your peace, imo. So simply sharing info and then leaving the situation seems to be a good middle ground for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:54 PM
15

Have you responded yet? If blocking isn't working, you can try a basic "who is this" and see if you can get a name. Then pretend to be a dude and say this is a new phone. And then report the guy so there's at least a paper trail on him. BUT he also sounds fucked up so a new number might be the easier/safer option for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:37 AM
83

I don't even get this complaint. If you have standards then don't lower them and complain to the internet about matches you don't like. Wtf? Those poor women probably had the shittiest dates because this guy got desperate but still thinks he's better than everyone that isn't a 10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:32 AM
54

A thread of men patting each other on the back about their self-infliced ED is almost comical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:26 AM
136

Woman: has boundaries Manbaby: stop having a BrEaKdOwN 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:18 AM
230

He literally belongs to the streets. On the bright side, she'll come to her senses soon and he has no claim to any of the furniture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:12 AM
46

No woman on earth would agree to this, right? I really hope that's the case, in which case I'd tell op it's perfectly fine to ask her to clean his storage unit. Keep those flags bright red my guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:19 AM
19

It boggles my mind that he wrote all that out and still doesn't feel like an immature manboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 12:07 AM
45

This is obviously some snowflake scrote's brain dead take on a show popular among women. It's like a reflex for the sexist male sheep of our species: if women like it then find a reason to hate it. And of course a man murdering women isn't hate-worthy in scrote eyes. Also a PSA. Use mansplain and manspread for everyone, ladies. Use it like a gender neutral term. You know, like Karen seems to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:51 AM
655

So, bottom scrote basically just admitted that he sucks in bed? Weird flex, little guy. Also, top scrote also doesn't sound like he knows what he's doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:17 AM
16

So little that it's basically a slap on the wrist. Interesting how scrotes think it's only women that get this particular treatment in court. I do wonder if male projection is some sort of defect in their literal DNA because they all seem to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:36 PM
13

If you're sucking the life out of a woman like this scrote, you should pay double. That's literally the only thing you bring to the table, what do you expect? Mommy telling you that you're special doesn't actually mean shit, Christopher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:28 AM
211

I'll wish bad for him then. I hope his dick turns to ash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:17 AM
334

It's 100% his responsibility to ask for consent before he does something to YOUR BODY. Otherwise he is a rapist, as that man is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:13 AM
34

So weird to me this comes from the younger generation. I mean there's still push for things like body inclusivity because seeing the same apparent "standard" for beauty was, ya know, damaging. It just sounds like ignorance talking because there's a lot of nuance that I don't think was considered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:08 PM
70

A guy did a similar thing to me at a CLUB. I didn't want to dance with him and instead of the usual 180 into calling me an ugly cow or something he made a comment about how I must not be very smart 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 07:05 AM
658

The male egos and personalities in CS are fucking atrocious. The socially inept stereotype is there for a reason and yeah, a lot of the time there's a good dose of racism and sexism thrown in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:34 AM
12

So I watch clips from people like Trevor Noah now and again and it's so wild how I legit just don't laugh now that there isn't a live audience cueing me to find something funny. I just don't laugh at the vast majority of these jokes anymore because men literally aren't fucking funny. I was just silly little sheep for a while lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:51 PM
46

Lol, woke enough to respect the gay community, not woke enough to respect women and treat them like people. Cool cool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:47 PM
45

The default is female in any negative situation though. I purposely do the opposite whenever I can lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:36 PM
61

When women write men I can tell because they magically have depth and empathy and shit 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:34 PM
21

If they're that stupid and/or selfish I pretty much immediately get the ick and there's no potential for sex ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 08:33 PM
393

Yo that man should be in jail for being the reason I had to read this 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:18 AM
94

Another carefully presented manbaby post that shows, yet again, how kids aren't the real stressor for women. It's the useless scrote that hitches his wagon to someone that doesn't know better yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 12:54 AM
152

This is one thing fds taught me that I had NO idea of before. I'll only be scheduling appointments with female doctors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:11 PM
55

That's a completely normal response to me. What I tend to come across are men that have a weird amount of hate because "she's only famous because of her sex tape and has no real talent froths at mouth." Nevermind the fact that a 20 somethings sex tape was leaked in the first place and how fucked it is that everyone watched it. And nevermind the fact that it obviously took a lot more than just the tape to remain relevant for so damn long. They really just hate that she was able to take that momen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 10:15 PM
144

The way someone reacts to Kim's name being brought up tells me a lot about who they are (even more so if they're the ones bringing it up lol). Immediate hate from any man is a red flag to me because they almost never follow the family and have no incidences they can point to to show why they hate the Kardashians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:09 PM
22

Reddit comments really do highlight that men don't go to college anymore, huh? The full blown stupidity is amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:55 AM
49

Once upon a time a scrote tried to convince me to do a naked bike ride because it would be a "liberating" experience. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:10 AM
377

"I didn't like her but had sex anyway, but it turns out she only wanted sex too?? Like she didn't even care about me as a person?? Wtf reddit incels, she's a total bitch, right?" Hahahahahahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:54 AM
17

Lol this guy. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:44 AM
22

Lol, I bet he listed his "height" in his bio and she decided to call out the bullshit. Why are the short kings always entitled liars?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:26 AM
9

This is why I don't give a fuck about any man I don't personally vet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:51 AM
35

Ahhh, handyman and home appraiser, apparently. Multi talented scrote lmao. So basically he's a full gold digger and she's hinting at this issue by bringing up how much everything costs. She needs to find a better man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:05 PM
31

They don't care about women standing in their power. They care about feeling empowered while pandering to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:00 PM
22

I have an old photo of me as a kid on my wall that I do the same thing with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:15 PM
50

He's a rapist. If you don't listen to the first no, you are a rapist, scrotebro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:04 PM
271

Funny how when women try to encourage more women into STEM the men cry about how it's ridiculous to encourage, not fair, etc., and yet they'll join in on encouraging women into porn. They don't advocate for our safety, our education, our financial independence, but they'll advocate for this. Does the libfem crowd not realize this or do they not care?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 11:20 PM
21

They are entitled and selfish. Ultimately, they want the world to work in a way that will always benefit them. Not in a way that is fair and just. They want the option to walk out on their family with no social fallout, so they support other scrotes in their trashy low class behaviors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:37 PM
102

The amount of people defending the bf in the comments was peak reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:15 PM
32

Wild how the incel subs have been around for so much longer and I haven't seen any similar post about the blatant misogyny. Wonder why? Is it possibly because men ain't shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:13 PM
28

Why are they forever so pressed? They've already "profiled" us. Just don't date the women in that profile and you should be golden, no? Why screech like a cock? I understand that reddit men are stupid, but this stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:56 PM
13

This almost feels like someone's creative writing exercise with how apparently "perfect" this guy is. A man that "needs" to stick his dick in your asshole isn't some upstanding, winner of a guy. He's too emotionally stunted to ever feel real love since porn has fucked his entire brain. Bullet dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:31 PM
32

Good luck with the sex robots. Pls don't come back 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:19 PM
201

I'm sorry, but calling this geriatric pedo her "boyfriend" over and over again making my whole body cringe 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:56 PM
158

I didn't know about jakes personal life but he still always gave me creepy vibes. I guess scrotes are getting easier and easier to spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:49 PM
268

I don't nag. I'd just stop dating the useless man 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:25 AM
10

"Companion" lol, so he's not interested in dating to find someone to build a life with and possibly marry. Just a woman he can use until he's ready to leech off another woman. Ok, Brad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:45 AM
178

Men will be unattracted to women they (hopefully) loved enough to marry and have a child with because she gained some pregnancy weight AND YET they get their nuts in a twist when single women who owe no loyalty to them have preferences that they don't meet. Fuck this scrote husband and everyone like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:09 AM
125

Somehow the SCROTE ended up pissed off and she's worried about bringing up his actual fucking actions??? He belongs in prison for rape because he is a fucking rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:58 AM
101

Men don't deserve the love and work and support that women give. Or anything good, really. All they do is destroy the good thing they're gifted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:41 PM
80

Ah yes, the dream of a Super Blended Family. I'm so envious of that unsheltered life lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:07 PM
72

I hope that scrote rots in a cage like an animal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:13 AM
43

Being a lazy prick is already bad, but his pissy attitude is so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 05:11 AM
34

If this is his attitude then she dodged a major bullet. I read so many stories where women with weath are leeched off by men. If he won't pay for dates he will definitely be trying to get his nasty little hands on her money one day. And how convenient that men are told to decide whether or not a woman is a "team player" as early as a couple dates, but women are encouraged to not be critical about anything until it's too late and she has kids with a deadbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:19 PM
11

I hope that scrote is miserable as fuck and completely alone for the rest of his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:36 AM
150

Same where I live. All the poly and partnered men are hideous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 08:25 AM
97

Exactly. Morons can tell me again and again how women are allowed to express all our emotions freely, but it'll always be bullshit. We have a set of shit that's approved, another set that's ok but will stupidly affect how all women are perceived, and another set that will get active hate. The approved set barely includes anything. Which means so many women shove so many emotions into a box, to the point of gaslighting ourselves into the approved emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:35 AM
122

Sounds like this happened before and on the way to their vacation? In any case, for some reason, it seems that scrotes love to ruin trips for women. Going on a trip together is a way to vet, but ALWAYS have an escape plan for yourself. If you get stranded mid road trip, on a layover, or in a new country you need to have a full plan in place. Men are vile, women aren't to blame, but it's best to be prepared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 12:02 AM
116

Before absolutely everyone was talking about crypto, a guy mentioned he was into it. We had a short conversation about crypto/block chain and he was so surprised I was familiar with it. I guess other women just hate investing and making money in his wee little head or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 10:35 PM
39

This IS inspiring! My mind is already brainstorming activities that would yield better results if I do them solo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 10:29 PM
272

A ho phase for a man feels like a time period where he decided it was ok to use women for sex. Despite how prevelant hookup culture seems, I don't think women leave benefitting in any way and men know this. They just ignore that fact and think that not making promises absolved them of any wrongdoing. He's a scrote for the sewers in my book. Also, saving nudes of random women is disgusting to me on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 07:37 PM
39

Ah yes, the law. If a bunch of gross ass men decided this was legal at one point, why think critically for yourself and stand for your beliefs? No no , must act like scrote sheep instead and just post on reddit so you feel like you've don't all you could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 07:25 PM
228

By "surprised by" I hope she means "revolted by" and "turned off by"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 07:20 AM
268

Never feel bad about judging a man by his friends. It's a very good reflection on who he is. This man and every one of his friends is trash. We see all the time in fds when women start leveling up they start questioning ALL the people in their lives. Men who don't get rid of their trash friends are telling you who they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 09:35 AM
570

Fucking YES. Every guy I know who has ever painted his nails was basically just an "I'm not like other boys" attention whore who was exactly like other user assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:57 AM
2

I don't think the numbers would be in my favor. However, if I were a man looking for a woman, then yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 02:29 AM
84

I'm not on it, but I imagine it's similar to reddit. Can be trash unless you are strategic about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:39 PM
53

It's too easy for a guy to do this just for the ego boost of having women call/chase him. Intentions could be good, but it's super easy to PR spin bad intentions into good ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 07:35 PM
84

Exactly! If we're the cause of all their emotional turmoil, why not stay away completley? Is it perhaps because they know deep down we add SO MUCH more to their lives than they do ours?? We all know women that are single and thriving. But all the single men i know are either pornsick or constantly dating. Like they really can't function without women around in some capacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 11:03 PM
305

I don't give guys chances anymore, but back when I did the ick would always eventually show up when I realized that the guy I was dating was actually super unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:24 PM
147

Easy solution to your annoying ass screeches, scrotes: don't get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:20 PM
295

I tend to date more in the spring and summer because that's when I get out more. In the fall and winter I get wrapped up in the holidays and family and personal goals. Also, I don't trust cuffing season lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 09:45 PM
30

Why am I even shocked anymore at how repulsive these males are?? Not only is this an insane, selfish, entitled request, but he doesn't even offer anything to help her stay fit. No promises of a personal trainer and personal chef and nanny so she can stay healthy. In fact, she's expected TO TURN DOWN promotions for the sake of his dick? 🤡🤡 Timmy was given gold stars just for existing and now he thinks he deserves whatever he wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:50 PM
5

Newborns look weird af. Not only is this man too stupid to realize that, he turned his anxieties into her problem. And honestly, he's probably the cheater if his mind immediately jumped to that conclusion. This woman just stood in front of that bullet like it's no big thing. Terrible husband, and now most likely terrible father. Poor kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 07:35 PM
13

Have a laugh. Still won't date a man that needs yet hasn't gone to therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 10:53 AM
55

He must have such low self esteem if building a relationship slowly isn't enough for him and he CRIES when he doesn't get sex. It has ONLY been 5 months, she potentially still knows shit about this guy and yet he starts manipulating her for sex. He should use his grown man legs to walk out of her life because she deserves better. Imagine the other times in life where he will make HIS lack of patience HER problem. Pregnancy lasts 9 months, imagine being pestered for sex by this man while you're l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:31 AM
313

Wait, what? This is a code word? But men are so sTrAiGhTfOrWaRd and don't play gAmEs and would NEVER expect you to just read his mind that he really just wants sex. I'm so bewildered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 08:48 PM
50

This is important to get out. A lot of women still aren't aware of the "spiritual" shit value male. And the more laws around drug use are relaxed in liberal cities, the more services like this could pop up in the US and potentially put women in a bad situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 01:06 AM
3

I have one. It happened naturally pre fds for me and I think I just got lucky. We have a weird amount of overlapping interests, and I can talk to him about fashion and makeup if I felt like it. One thing that's different for me is that I feel like I can be physically closer to my girlfriends. We're a bit of a hug-y, cuddle-y group and I just wouldn't do that with a guy friend. Also, there's a specific kind of girl talk that will always just be for the girls, at least for me. I will say I don't s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 09:04 PM
97

Yeah, I think this is the better approach. I'm pretty positive if money changes things for him, she'll notice right away. Then all she has to do is block and delete. No point in dragging out a relationship only to find out the man is a gold digger. And honestly if she's this hesitant, I bet he is parasitic and she's picking up on the signs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:21 AM
23

I would like to be on her team. I really would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:46 AM
52

This reads like satire, and it's a super fucked up world when you're not entirely sure if it is because men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:09 PM
89

I remember when I first started watching this show I had this weird flashback to an ex of mine. He had mentioned the show and that he liked it but I hadn't thought much of it. Turns out a lot of his mannerisms match those of the shitty men on the show. He fully watched and idolized the trash behavior that you're supposed to be appalled by. So now, when a man says he likes Always Sunny, I treat it as a red flag until proven otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 09:08 PM
38

Don't give him any explanation. You don't owe him anything. Glad you walked away immediately!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:34 PM
37

I'm so disgusted by this man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:32 PM
56

He's chasing a feeling he probably doesn't even really understand. That's stuff you do in your teens. You weren't the problem, you're just dating someone immature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:28 PM
13

Is this OKC? Can you not see the age range men set anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:39 AM
19

I bet he thinks he's so qUiRkY and UnIqUe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:40 PM
2

No to kids. Most likely no to the divorce too but I'd think about it depending on the situation. I've never been married and don't have kids so my preference is the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 09:59 PM
75

Didn't get to the comments but she did nothing wrong. No idea what there even is to hate lol, besides the scrote intruder? Probably just the weak sad bois that want to be the princesses getting mad in the comments section.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:33 AM
82

Yup, men thinking women are some "mystery" to solve is a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:05 PM
22

Until men with actual ambition give up their careers IN ORDER TO support their wives, and children, and manage the household the way women do this is pure idiocy. 1 out of every 1000 SAHDs probably do the equivalent to what a SAHM does. I really wish more women would realize what men are really like. It's up to us to not give parasitic scrotes the smallest opportunity. Don't date the hobo-pornsexuals. Can't turn that shit into a househusband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:35 PM
122

I think men are more irrational because of this. Refusing to acknowledge your emotions doesn't make them go away, it just means they affect your decisions and you don't even know it. Feeling and processing your emotions means you have control and a clearer head. This is 100% on them, I refuse to use society as a reason that they've never developed this skill (they love to pass the blame to society though). Feeling and processing emotions doesn't mean you have to display them, you can do this wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:55 PM
34

Lol, men just being men gives me random shit to be proud of that I wouldn't even have thought twice of before. I love that I'm successful without being useless in every other way. I love that this is a no brainer for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:29 PM
64

My mind also boggles. Like, he needs to immediately get the fuck off and apologize, but instead he hits her with a WHY NOT and she casually answers?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 08:02 AM
70

Sometimes they just don't know 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:59 AM
62

Age gaps were fine Waiting X amount of days before having sex was arbitrary and "playing games" (this was a big scrote talking point on reddit at one point. Idk if it still is) Feminism should consider male problems because the patriarchy is bad for everyone I wouldn't mind supporting a SAHD An nice engagement ring isn't that important, it's the LoVe that matters Coffee dates/drink dates are fine because they are quicker/low stress and splitting the bill made me a "good feminist" I should give n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:52 PM
5

I'm curious if the reddit males decided to support this cheater or call him out like he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:17 PM
8

So we have a much less vulgar way of saying "don't stick your dick in crazy" and that makes us the baddies? Oh no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 10:13 PM
11

Literally nothing. I feel like this is just society's way of offloading a pretty big responsibility onto women. If women don't play therapist, then governments will have to actually give a shit about mental Healthcare being accessible and affordable. If women don't feed men then they'll get fat off fast food and create an extra burden on society. If women don't manage male personal lives and offer sex on the regular then men have a harder time climbing up their career ladders and that disrupts w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:54 PM
83

We have to do the work of a single woman whether or not we're in a relationship these days. Why wouldn't we opt for the scrote free version of life if that's the case?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:10 PM
296

I used the think "I thought about doing this sweet thing but didn't get around to it" was cute because I stupidly applied "it's the thought that counts" to situations a little to liberally in my younger days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:26 PM
30

Oh interesting! If that's the case and he's truly trying to watch out for his gf he should have warned her properly and booked a hotel room instead of staying at the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:33 AM
1107

This feels more fucked up than he's trying to present it as. As if he really thinks other people are going to notice the hair towel? More like he wanted to make her feel insecure without the one thing she uses to make her hair look good. He wanted to disrupt the one ritual of hers that he noticed. To throw her off balance while on this trip away from home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:57 AM
99

I have no idea why I've seen this kind of video MULTUPLE times. Who are these people? Is pickme propaganda that strong? This is bonkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:30 AM
97

I'm naturally not interested in male led media anymore. It's repetitive and unoriginal so much of the time. I do appreciate the fact that books featuring female leads get published with way less friction than television and movies. I think that played a role in how I started seeing the bullshit in society sooner rather than later. I read a lot of books with a variety of leads and didn't frame everything through a male lense. At least not as much as I otherwise might have. People that think "smal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 01:59 AM
14

Fucking. Yes. They are so blind and stupid I'm completely over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 09:28 PM
13

Yeah, men aren't that smart or funny. They laugh when other men make light of heinous behavior so it gets a pass from society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 09:21 PM
19

"Unintentionally"...right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 08:32 PM
15

Literally sit down and think through and WRITE out your boundaries. Then, in any given situation, stop the situation at the boundary before your actual boundary. This way, if people refuse to listen to you saying no, you aren't emotionally harmed yet since your actual boundary hasn't been crossed, and now you know you're dealing with a garbage human. Also, I think strong female representation in media is so important. We acknowledge this about racial representation but women are so fucking often…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:49 AM
192

Someone in fds said something like "women are an oppressed class that are (largely) biologically attracted to their oppressor" which I think massively complicates things for women's rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:12 AM
206

As a WOC, fully agree. It's why I've made issues affecting women my top priority. In my community, MOC wouldn't think twice about shitting on women, so fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:05 AM
86

She says it with zero hesitation, no need to think about it. I love it 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:09 AM
250

I've always been on the fence about kids because I do really like them but for many reasons I also worry about it. However, men consistently showing their whole ass makes it easier to lean towards no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:07 AM
11

High value men are determined by their character which takes time to vet. It means literally nothing if you date someone less attractive than you. That person may be hv or may not be hv, but dating up doesn't magically change a man. And you should always date someone you're attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:00 PM
1

This kind of just implies that the kink community is shit at respecting safe words? The literal one thing they all claim should be respected? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:27 AM
421

He's going to have a hard time when he realizes whoever he ends up with probably feels like they're settling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:24 AM
611

It's always talk about "two consenting adults" until those two adults are consenting to something that doesn't dehumanizing the woman. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:23 AM
77

Really thinking that if you're an ambitious, career oriented woman there is no benefit to tying yourself down with marriage. It's just too risky with how manipulative, self centered, and unambitious men are. So often you don't know the truth about them until its too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:20 AM
15

Scrotes essentially marry whichever woman is willing to settle for them simply so they have access to sex. A great sex life doesn't mean anything if porn is prioritized over your feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 08:57 PM
32

Not to mention the weird amount of them that have decades old "lucky" underwear 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 08:44 PM
56

Quick rant. I've noticed recently how ideas that were originally seen as feminine have to be rebranded for them to be taken seriously. Especially see it in any self help or spiritual advice. People will time and time again say "I know this sounds a little woo-woo or hippie, but look at this rich white man who tried it and swears by it!" If the "woo-woo" thing keeps working for people, then maybe just admit that women have an intuition that men will never fucking have and respect that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 08:43 PM
57

Lol, he literally says how hot he found the whole (likely bullshit) scenario but people are "poor babying" the scrote? Classic neckbeard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:30 AM
21

Wtf, men are shitty every fucking day but a teen girl "provoked" a grown scrote?? Men don't deserve to breathe honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:38 AM
24

SAME. I fucking knew it and hated every dumbass that was more than happy to let their misogyny run wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 06:30 AM
282

I get this vibe from a good amount of married men. They won't admit it because they're cowards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 04:22 AM
268

Or parasites. Sometimes they manage to latch onto a healthy, vibrant woman and they'll suck the good energy right out of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 03:14 AM
95

Those men should be put down like the dangerous animals they are. But of course the justice system will protect the cockroaches of society at every turn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 01:24 AM
138

Scrotes are so predictable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:59 PM
37

The other difference is that you know all this information because she loves him and RESPECTS his contribution. The reverse hardly exists. Men would just complain about how much money their wife spends or how much wine she drinks regardless of all the WORK she actually does and so no shit women are going to fuck right out of that arrangement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:41 PM
4

He pulled so much nonsense outta his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 09:36 PM
227

Tell me men are the biggest attention whores without telling me men are the biggest attention whores. What a full body cringe moment lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 08:43 PM
240

The RBG documentary maybe? Her husband seemed to be her biggest supporter from what I remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:42 PM
688

If a man lives like this he doesn't respect himself. And there's no chance that he respects any woman who puts up with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:54 AM
160

All I can say is thanks to the fds community for knocking the clownery outta me. I used to give ugly guys "a chance" but not anymore. Recently downloaded tinder to see how I'd feel swiping through and can legitimately say that I find maybe 1 out of 100 men attractive, if that. Seeing through the lv of it all is a gift. Won't be using tinder to actually date since it's full of the actual sewer rats of my town, but now I feel confident to meet people out and about without worrying as much that I'l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 03:18 AM
29

This is legit hilarious to me. I'm my case, and for many women I know really, we're the first generation with an actual CHOICE. My grandmother didn't have one at all, and my mom only technically had one. But really the cultural pressure didn't give her much of a choice either. But I do have one and it's so fucking telling how once we can look at the reality of men and decide whether or not they're worth our time the answer so often is fuck no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:38 PM
38

Oh yeah. And the end where she had to do the Big Gesture with the stupid signs made me roll my eyes so hard. I watched since I like Nina, but for sure it was full of red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:41 AM
25

The comments saying how great she is for saying yes before she realized there was a real ring 🤢 Tell me you have nothing to offer a woman without telling me you have nothing to offer a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 08:31 AM
79

Right up there with "come by if you want." LOL, pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 09:33 PM
18

Letting a lvm be a sahd is honestly stupid. Maybe that sounds harsh, but it's true. Their "standards" for everything is lower than that of women, they say it all the time. Our standards for how clean a home should be is just naturally higher so it's our problem and not theirs....why on earth would this low value mentality be any different when raising kids? A low value man will NEVER raise your kids the way you would and it benefits no one to let him be a useless burden on the family. Don't proj…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 08:01 AM
32

This is infuriating because you KNOW the scrote isn't getting the same kind of advice. No one is telling him to just get married instead of throwing away a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 09:00 PM
462

Male personalities match their unwashed assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:51 AM
26

Honestly, this just reminds me how amazing fds actually is. In my clown days I would have cared about this, but now all I can think is how much better than these scrotes I know I am. And I know that the majority of us here would drop a manchild like this at the first instance of bs. Idk how pickmes can keep living the way they live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:54 AM
2

HAHAHAHA. This whole ass manipulative bag of dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:54 AM
30

Not surprised in the slightest, but still beyond disgusted. Dave Portapotty has always been and will always be dogshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:12 PM
384

I remember browsing one of the bdsm subs a loooong while back and it seemed like every time there was a post where someone was clearly assaulted and looking for guidance everyone there would bend over backwards trying to absolve the man. It was the woman's fault for not establishing a safe word even if she wasn't into cnc and the words "no" and "stop" still fucking meant those things. It was her fault if she tried to physically stop him instead of using her words. Her fault because "that's not w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 12:06 AM
75

I like dance as well. Even a solo heels class or something. Something physical and sensual without sex. Coupled with a cute romance novel. Option 2 is to venture into incel territory and immediately be turned off for the next few months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 11:50 PM
4

Yeah, I think it's a "joke" in the "haha I'm not serious but kind am" way. Don't think it's satire calling out shitty relationship dynamics though. Super doubt that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:00 PM
7

Dude, is fds on the same wavelength or something?? I don't even follow chris but was randomly looking at people on insta last night and decided to see what he was up to. Saw that post and immediately thought of fds. Also she apparently routinely clips his toenails or something? Like...🤢 do that yourself my guy. I was so irritated I went to the vote link in his bio and voted for black widow lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:28 PM
439

The gym scenario played out with me. This old dude fucking insisted on spotting my squat and tried to get my number. Mentioned kids my fucking age like it was no big deal. I was beyond disgusted. This pedo shit isn't a joke. It's a global fucking problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:33 AM
17

I get this in a way. I remember being out with a guy at a show and this other guy started hitting on me. I was pretty uncomfortable and tried engaging as little as possible and eventually made an excuse to go to the bathroom. Dude I was with didn't do a thing. I know if my girlfriends were there, they would have 100% stepped in to make sure things were cool. I didn't feel very attracted to him after that even though he was pretty chill otherwise. And I don't even need someone getting all aggress…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 08:28 PM
38

This domino effect is how it happened to me, too. I remember my lv ex doing this weird lip biting thing that I think he thought was attractive; before the ick I'd just not focus on it much but after it just made me throw up in my mouth a little every time it happened. 😭 His rotation of 4 shirts. The filthy house. His victim mentality. The fact that he was so out of shape. It all just hit one after another. I can't remember what the trigger was, but thank god I woke up lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 08:07 PM
178

Basically you have to marry a scrub. Then you get pregnant. Then, even though you out-earn your scrub husband, you give up your awesome job because he's the man of the household and you should be home with the kids. Then in a divorce you deserve nothing because you didn't work. Then he doesn't fight for custody, but tells everyone the courts were against him. This is the only SAHM arrangement reddit approves of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 01:29 AM
44

Sexist, racist, homophobic "jokes" just means that he's sexist, racist, and/or homophobic. VERY few men use humor to make insightful commentary on these topics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 02:05 AM
115

I'm in nanowrimo mode and in my head she's smiling because she poisoned his cup of coffee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 08:15 AM
68

Sorry, it's a dating hazzard. If I'm taller than you then the top of your shinny bald head could temporarily blind me while crossing a busy street or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 12:47 AM
299

These are the kinds of men that will settle because they are lonely and not that attractive and then some pickme will say yes to the onion ring proposal because she's "low maintenance." This is also why we don't ask men on dates, they will say yes just because they don't have any other options, not because they like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:11 PM
6

I had your experience. I think it's why I stopped going. It's too expensive if all they're going to do is listen to me talk lol. I'm pretty introspective so I was hoping that there would be more guidance and a bit more of a hands on approach. I'm good at not taking other people's opinions and making them my own, but when I'm working through something it helps to hear it. I do hope to find a therapist I like at some point though because I think mental health should be part of regular Healthcare a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:38 PM
42

Oh WOW. The previews made it look interesting and I had it on my watch list, but no thanks. I had this same problem with the Boys on Amazon prime. The fish dude gets sent away after being exposed, and then he deals with random shit but almost in a humorous way and it feels like it's meant to humanize him as well. It's been a while so I don't remember the details, but a lot of the neckbeard redditors ended up rooting for his character...so yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 07:13 PM
15

Ask up front and THEN ALSO watch what he does. He can say the right things and he can do the right things, but if those are two different things then I'd feel like he's just throwing "good boyfriend bahvior" against a wall to see what sticks. He should know what matters to him and his actions should follow through on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:42 PM
126

Men are unhinged when they can't handle their emotions. I will be getting a gun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 07:29 PM
69

I didn't but the only possible scenario that isn't terrible is that he realizes how shitty and sexist most men are and cuts them out when they're toxic. But like, this would never be the real reason lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:07 AM
425

Yet, telling women to leave men at the first red flag is hate speech. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:02 AM
170

Reddit is full of those toads that think this would work for them...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:01 AM
243

"Make her like you by demonstrating that there's nothing to like" lol, idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:17 AM
52

Wrong, scrotes. She did nothing wrong. He is the equivalent of shit on a subway. Hope he rots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:40 AM
359

Definitely something to watch out for. And unlike other bad behavior, I've noticed that men won't necessarily tell on themselves in this case because they're trying to convince themselves that they aren't settling. So they'll basically lie to your face because they refuse to admit it to themselves until the damage is done. Ask about exes. Ask about other regrets in life. Trust your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:34 AM
86

Wonder if Queen Pickme has problems with the male population in ever other sub in existence referring to women as "b******"???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:25 AM
124

Yet different standards of sexual frequency is nOt mEeTiNg hIs nEeDs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:23 AM
179

It is ridiculous to ask for a more expensive ring. If it isn't offered in the first place, it's best to walk away. My sofa cost more than what this man wants to spend on a ring that symbolizes their commitment and love. He's probably going to be a complete nightmare if she marries him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:10 AM
34

I would also call this a red flag. And I think it's always advisable not to talk about red flags, just walk away from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:03 AM
12

Without FAIL women seem to want to split or cover the bill because they would "feel more comfortable." Paying for their fucking safety. And men do it as some sort of "green light" to cross sexual boundaries. These creeps need to come with a warning label.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:55 PM
14

Hobomales and pickme women have been brainwashing women for a long time now. I'm glad women are sharing stories everywhere these days, it's then that women who don't have much experience realize it's a pattern in men not a one off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:32 PM
12

It's sick how long they can lie for. 6 years?! This man's behavior and sudden change turns my stomach. Complete monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:38 AM
19

Per the law of Male Projection, sounds like this idiot is admitting that they want to legalize prostitution for selfish reasons. But we knew that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:42 PM
24

Well I hope that poor boy nice guy broken man gets life in prison. Keep his hysteria and lack of control behind bars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 06:37 PM
127

She said she didn't want his creepy ass company multiple times. This is peak women communicating while MEN DON'T FUCKING LISTEN. Fuck that intrusive, predatory scrote and every pickme defending shit behavior. Honestly could he be more creepy and annoying? I wish she caught his face on camera, women should see what trash looks like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 10:29 AM
31

Right? So afraid of being friend zoned but will offer an endless supply of coffee dates and park dates. They aren't hot enough to be so stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:00 PM
21

I personally classify it as things that your average woman would not explicitly ask for as well as things that indicate that he really listens to you. We all know the stories where women explicitly ask for: Effort on valentines day/birthdays/holidays Help around the house with chores Help managing children Actual foreplay Flowers Etc. So to me those things don't really count. Also, hv behavior shows in the way he does the small things. How does he engage with you in conversation? Is it a bunch o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:30 PM
61

They already hardly take care of themselves, then pickmes go an marry some geriatric with most likely more issues to take care of. I'll never understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 06:57 PM
188

Even your garden is scrote free. I love that for you 💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 10:36 PM
56

I think this is also why there a disconnect for many men and women in platonic friendships. I'm generalizing, but I know many women who have had male friends and wouldn't cross the line because they fear ruining the friendship. I don't know many men that behave the same, and I think it's because the level of respect isn't the same. If they fuck up a friendship, it's fine because they hardly had respect for it in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 10:34 PM
140

Abusive pos, muderous man tries to pretend that he was the victim. I'm not surprised anymore, they literally all do this. Sick as fuck swine, these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 11:32 PM
6

I think the idea is that he should be acting as if you're exclusive well before bringing up labels. He should not be attempting the ho life, only to realize no one else wants him so he decides to be exclusive with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 09:00 PM
5

The men are braindead. I've heard this too but in the same breath the mouth breathers will cry oppression if you ask them to open a jar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:44 PM
6

Well, Christopher, I know men like you hate taking accountability for your actions, but let me assure you that they are your own and she did nothing to deserve being murdered. I hope your shitty emotional regulation keeps you warm at night because you will die alone ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:37 PM
21

Can't turn a hobosexual into a husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 08:32 PM
167

Oh wonder how their sense of humor holds if someone makes a joke about fun sized men and their fun sized dicks and their fun sized net worth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 03:29 AM
7

I'm so tired of this bullshit narrative that women are socialized to be emotional or whatever. We didn't grow up in some safety bubble where our emotions were celebrated, we all grew up in the SAME SOCIETY that links an outward display of emotions to weakness. WE DIDN'T SOMEHOW ESCAPE THAT. A vast majority of women I know I've never seen "be emotional" and yet they still understand empathy. And what's the takeaway here? Does she think we should just have sex when we don't feel connected because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:31 PM
24

FUCK this shitbag scrote. Men like this are disgusting and need to be behind bars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 09:18 PM
8

Bring it back to yourself and how you would react. For example, if it was your best girlfriend would you let her handle a creeper by herself? I wouldn't. If you had a fight would you rage throw shit against the wall? I wouldn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 10:14 PM
91

That softboi type is the opposite of the aggressive asshole type and neither are attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 06:11 AM
275

Man: Gets taste of what women have been dealing with for centuries. Man: Cries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:22 AM
10

When Dave's actor left I would have been fine with them bringing in any other brown haired boy and calling him Dave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 08:04 PM
5

Depends. I find dicks kinda ugly in general, and so many men to be unhygenic, so as an act on its own its not something I think about. But in a committed relationship with an actual hvm I wouldn't mind it. I'll also say that I've dated guys that I don't find physically attractive before and the whole thing was massively unappealing. So physical attraction is a big part of enjoying it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:34 PM
27

Forward to his employer, maybe even show the email+sender for the world to see...idk, just ideas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 07:08 PM
311

Tell me you dodged a balding bullet without telling me you dodged a balding bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 08:29 PM
8

Thanks to the ladies that always point out how men are really trying to flip the script and become the prize when that's the furthest thing from the natural order of things. It's so obvious now and it just gives me the ick when I see it happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:10 PM
33

I honestly think it's physically impossible for women to have few enough braincells to relate to the audacity of scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:35 AM
200

How are men this stupid? Like honestly it's appalling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:03 AM
18

Would never think of saying these things outside the bedroom. Is heard outside the bedroom. Rasict, pos scrote is stupid. How unique.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:37 PM
15

I swear I've felt the same. Previous scrote bf wanted to go on a trip out of the country. Said he could cover expenses if I couldn't. I'd already traveled within Texas with him and initially liked the idea, but the more we planned the weirder I felt and eventually had my first ever panic attack about it and decided not to do it. Looking back on all the red flags, I get deeply creepy vibes from the guy and I'm so glad my body slapped some sense into me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:06 PM
242

Hmmm, wonder how the scrotes would react if we were as unempathetic? Like, maybe those college ball players that agreed to shitty deals knew what they were getting into and don't deserve to make more money? Maybe the ufc bros with head injuries deserve no sympathy because they consented?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:16 PM
7

Never explain decent human behavior to pigs like this. Just block them. I guess you can laugh at how gross they are first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:41 PM
249

THAT SeLf eMpLoYeD 38 year old? Hahahahahaha, ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:32 PM
6

You know when there isn't a single drop of truth in someone's rant so you don't get offended? Yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:17 PM
125

The desperation amuses me lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 12:43 AM
17

This is where 50/50 bs is leading people. It turns into 100/0 real quick. Extremely controlling after she has a baby....honestly why even risk having kids with men anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:14 PM
26

This man sounds so boring and exhausting. Leave him, take Tito, meet a new man lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 07:08 PM
5

Men really overreact to fds. We aren't out here trying to change you, scrote. We're adjusting our behavior and hoping to change pickme behavior. If you want to walk date at a park or mall, keep making those suggestions. We aren't telling you to stop. You want your floor mattress and dirty house? You got it. You want to death grip your little guy? Sure. We just don't want to date you. And that's not the hate crime you think it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:58 PM
5

So even on that count we are more logical than them. We know lvm and nvm come in all shapes and sizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:39 PM
34

These anti individual freedom people really are wild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 06:19 PM
86

That poor child is going to grow up to be embarrassed of his own father. No way that man turns out to be a decent father. These men are revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:14 AM
191

Lol @ his username. You know he must be insecure as FUCK if his reddit alterego is Derek. And I also love it when they prove the necessity of fds without even realizing it. Scrotes like that are the poison, fds is the antidote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:52 AM
31

I was going to say pretty much exactly this. I used to be like her back in my clown days, but short guys have such a complex I've changed my mind about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:59 PM
62

Can we bring back gossip? The whole community should know how disgusting this man is. He should feel like a scrote when he walks outside because he is a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 06:47 PM
51

And her ass KEEPS THEM?? 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 03:26 AM
176

These men are gross for sure, but to go a little off topic, notice how none of them are worried about the fabled "hallway" vagina? It's because there's no such thing. For men sex with women feel so good they behave like human garbage to get it. If you're not enjoying yourself his mediocre dick is the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 07:26 PM
238

He's always been king scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:39 AM
16

Definitely noticed this too. I don't want kids and don't date single fathers, but this kind of fishing for pity thing guys do is so childish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 10:05 PM
252

That's the face she wants to wake up to every morning? Is she from a small ass town without many options or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 02:19 AM
114

Why does some scrote she is casually dating even know her income? So many wrong things here...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 05:45 AM
18

I have never regretted not asking a guy out. Not once. If there was mutual interest but he was spineless, then there is no longer mutual interest lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:33 AM
23

Just watched. It's peak white men looking for a way to play victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 09:08 AM
34

I've had these moments, but looking back on it now I realize that it was just because they were always lvm. I just didn't have the kind of relationship with them that would have exposed that sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 11:38 PM
26

I've been questioning how terrible the world could get when smart glasses become a thing, but honestly being able to post video and shame creepy scrotes will be great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:20 PM
23

He's an abusive, worthless piece of shit and she should leave. It's that simple. And of course, self proclaimed "good guys" defending an abuser. #yesallmen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:14 PM
185

Woman thinks men have emotional depth. More at 6.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:46 PM
18

Lol, no control over it? Have you tried adjusting your diet? Supplement after supplement? Getting hormones tested? Have you tried Rogaine? Have you tried microneeding or those hair caps? Maybe exercising more? Hair transplant? Have you actually done anything, Reginald? No? Right. So, anyway...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:28 AM
128

Men are emotionally and mentally disfigured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:10 AM
735

Oh 😬 This is weird. Why would he have to brainwash himself into liking guys if he were actually gay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:42 PM
24

Of course they would get triggered over what's clearly a joke. They need a sense of humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 11:37 PM
38

Yeah, that's true. It's ok to vent because these people definitely do exist. It gets sketchy if you enter "I only have guy friends" territory. I have some really solid guy friends, but they still could never hold a candle to my female friendships. It's just not the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 07:42 PM
2

How don't men not feel absolutely worthless BUYING SEX?? The jokes about people joining Greek life as a way to buy friends have been around forever, but men straight up buy a fake ass intimacy and traumatize women and everyone looks the other way? Being so undesirable that you try to buy sex is pathetic, not caring about the sex worker you are exploiting is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:49 PM
1

You know if it was her acting like that then men everywhere would be screaming about how abusive it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:34 PM
31

I think she might be talking about what society thinks good mothers should look like (not sexy/sexual thanks to the Madonna whore bs), but like, it's a lose-lose when you try and fight that within the framework of the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:56 AM
3

Tbh those edits make him sound rapey and dangerous, those women must be picking up on a vibe. What a little scrote baby. Fuck these mra feelings, protect yourself because the police will just give you an anxiety diagnosis they pulled out their ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:34 AM
295

If he died I wouldn't be sad 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:24 AM
55

This is so stupid. Who the hell wants their loser sperm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:22 AM
27

They looked like they were having SO much fun. Loved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:34 AM
193

Maybe this is also why these parasites let filth build up in their own homes - thanks to "boy chores" they're only used to doing chores a couple times a month rather than daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:45 PM
236

And honestly, fuck those useless cops. The red flags were there, but I guess it's better to robotically quote the definition of DV and pretend that scratching in self defence is the same as abuse than it is to use the critical thinking skills you don't have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:39 PM
58

Pretty much all the other dating subs need a healthy dose of critical thinking skills. If the mods want to call fds a hate sub, reason won't change their minds. They're pretty stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:33 PM
10

Wonder how old this guys is? I notice men throwing themselves this kind of ridiculous pity party when they realize that death might be a slow process for them (they see another male in their life dying of cancer or something) and they won't have people by their side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:07 PM
34

More like "the one that I stayed with too long" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 10:36 PM
124

This is so true. At the very least it'll trigger something in your brain and you'll be put off by lv behavior. There are two instances where it was so obvious to me, even in my pickme days. One was two separate dates with two guys at the same place. The date involved a somewhat competitive activity. The first guy planned the date, paid, and was competitive enough to keep it fun. We dated for a while after that. The second guy had no intention to plan anything so I mentioned that same place since…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:57 PM
29

Can't fix his broken dick. Why settle for that? Just move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:38 AM
24

Men have mayyybe a tenth of the intuition and observation skills that women have. Their opinions on body language and if someone seems of or not literally don't matter. Trust yourself and other women that haven't been brainwashed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 07:26 AM
3

I would make another account but I just don't use the rest of reddit all that much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:17 AM
14

Lol, are people fucking stupid? They see this video from the END of a relationship where it's likely that the woman has died as a direct result of the boyfriend's actions (either murdered or abandoned) and they think she's the problem?? More like she finally started unraveling due to his abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:04 AM
14

Cheugy felt like another way to talk shit about what women like. People would list a bunch of old trends for women and one guy thing and call it even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:44 AM
13

What else would you call a male acting like a scrote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:36 AM
20

When his breasts produce the food supply we'll talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:13 AM
26

And when you make sure to include coercion, I'd bet that 90% of men classify as rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:29 PM
26

Can't wait til that scrote is in jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 06:25 PM
24

Oh wow, I never even thought about that but it makes so much sense. Everyone expects better behavior from women and let abuse from men slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:40 PM
107

It's wild to me how hung up on this they are. Men won't date ex porn stars, they won't date women who are too tall or toooo short, women with bad teeth, overweight women. If we had their hairline they wouldn't look once let alone twice. They won't date certain races of women, claiming that they aren't racist it's just a preference. On top of that, they've already brainwashed libfems into thinking that sex work is empowering, that a 50/50 financial spit is equitable, that coffee and walk dates ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:27 PM
93

I remember a post where an older guy was talking about how he was going to retire before his wife because she hadn't prioritized her retirement savings. He was totally fine with enjoying retirement without his wife being able to join. I'm pretty certain her side of the story would talk about how she prioritized her family, but whatever. Point is, men will find a way to use women whether they do or don't have money. Don't let that happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 08:00 PM
3

"It's different" when she started looking for evidence of shady shit because in his case there was actuall shady shit to find. Don't blame yourself for having the correct instincts. You did exactly what everyone should do in a situation like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:48 PM
33

If only pigs would go after rapists rather than rolling around in the mud with them. If only they wouldn't re-traumatize women trying to get justice. If only the legal way of taking control of a bad situation was accessible. But no, women are driven to do shit like this to work through trauma inflicted by creeps/rapists/abusers/pedophiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 08:43 PM
279

Meanwhile if the roles were reversed he'd probably just leave her due to the "stress." Also...surgery isn't great but does throat surgery make it so that you can't do shit for yourself? I've had coworkers back to work shortly after hip replacements, bypass surgeries, and oh yeah, childbirth. This level of infantalizing yourself is such a turn off, it's amazing if she doesn't have the ick at this point. And if she has lost attraction, scrote baby will find a way to blame her for the dead bedroom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:37 PM
21

If that's the kind of guy he is, then whatever woman he ends up with is taking an L for the team. The only time I feel down about rejection is if I actually did something to cause it and then I work on that thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:59 AM
299

Men are so emotionally broken it's nuts. And instead of therapy or anything healthy, they just decide that their rotted mental state is just the norm. Full time 🤡🤡 out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 01:42 AM
290

"One person can't fill all your needs"....well yeah, but don't we normally just have friends to fill that gap??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 07:39 PM
256

He should have used his idiot brain and offered to pick up stuff for you. But you didn't even make him do that, you asked for what you wanted and still he couldn't act like a partner. This is what the "just communicate" camp doesn't understand, if you have to communicate basic human decency you've already lost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 06:55 PM
77

Oh fuck that's gross. 10 years old??? Hollywood needs to purge all the garbage men and start new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 06:55 AM
93

I really don't get why they cling to that bs so hard. I mean, wouldn't that mean men should be doing all the courting and all the work in dating? And wouldn't it make sense that all women are naturally going to go for the tallest, most financially secure men? But that's absolutely not the reality of the world lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 09:30 PM
15

Quick rant because the idiocy out there is insane. What the FUCK is it with men who pull the "if the roles were reversed" card in situations where the roles have been reversed for decades?? They could not make it any clearer how they've been the coddled sex for centuries and now that they are getting the slightest taste of their own medicine they can't handle it. Women making jokes at their expense, for ONCE, really turns them into a bunch of scrote babies and it's not cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:27 PM
69

Omg yes! Even before fds, "new to town, show me around" scrotes were a major turn off and I wouldn't swipe right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:18 AM
91

Some men really do reach peak scrote levels of audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:42 AM
63

Yes!!! It really, really isn't hard. Just be careful if you're dating and naturally take care of things when you see a problem....probably not a issue for most in fds, but if you still easily fall into inequal divisions of labor, don't add YET EVEN MORE to the labor women do that men thinks magically happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:40 AM
7

I see both sides. It's great to share knowledge but at least in the US there's a problem where we take things from other cultures, turn the capitalism dial all the way up, and don't pay respect to the culture it came from. Spirituality and breathwork are pretty divorced from how a lot of people practice yoga where I live. But on the flip side I'm glad that the knowledge of the practice is out there for me to learn from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:25 PM
42

It's not you. Men are just FULL of shit. I got stopped at a grocery store a little while back. No eye contact. Mask on. This scrote AT LEAST 10 years older than me (extra creepy because I look younger than I am as well) stopped me during my grocery run to make small talk under the bullshit excuse of "you look familiar." The inevitable can I have you number followed. And when I said no the dumbfuck was like "oh do you have a boyfriend?" To which I said no lol. If you didn't smile this guy still w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 11:21 PM
8

I would try and make it through the rest of what I paid for and then definitely leave reviews on his business. I honestly wouldn't ask this of friends let alone a client.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 10:20 PM
55

If he wants to leave, let him go. If he comes back, let him go again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:33 PM
269

Translation: "you haven't even talked about any of your kinks yet, are you even interested in me taking advantage of you???"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:41 AM
49

Oh yeah. It's like a bunch of mean boys use tinder just to turn around and post shit on reddit for male attention, which is what they really lust over. Daddy issues maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:50 PM
76

Well, when a scrote and a pickme love each other, sometimes they make a mini version that they don't raise to have common sense or any semblance of mature emotion. Then we're left with 30 year old scrote babies that want everything and offer nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:39 PM
2

I don't even remember that plot line. Guess I wouldn't include him, then. Not sure how I feel about Shawn since I remember even less of him. Really is hard finding examples of hvm.
/r/askFDS05/09/21 06:07 AM
2

It's so old and it's been a while but I think Corey from boy meets world grew up to be a good guy. And I wasn't watching with an fds lense but maybe the main guy in manifest. Umm...it's so hard to think of them lol
/r/askFDS04/09/21 11:15 PM
241

Shouldn't embarrass HIM????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:44 PM
2

The Office
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:08 PM
106

Don't want to ruin your day with a my little side story here, but the brainwashed go overboard with consent - even in regards to murder. TW: weird serial killer shit. A while ago I watched a youtuber discuss a cannibal who had the desire to murder and eat someone but only with their permission. He found a guy. The guy wanted to eat part of himself as well before slowly bleeding to death or something. So that's what happened, Mr. "I eat humans" chopped off this guy's dick and they BOTH ate it and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:59 AM
689

So so many CW shows romanticize toxic relationships. They love that shit on that network lol. Also Jim and Pam. Both were pretty meh as people individually, but after getting married it felt ridiculous. Letting your wife take care of two kids alone while you're off doing your dream job isn't the noble sacrifice scrotes tried to pretend it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 10:54 PM
43

Lol, dating a guy like this is just embarrassing for everyone involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 10:44 PM
19

So many words that don't make sense when he should just say "well I'm a trash person and I don't care about women I just pretend to."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:38 PM
7

Could not have said it better myself. Libfem hosts of these shows is what made me stop listening. Women have to be saints to get sympathy while men can be actual garbage and people will find a reason to feel sorry for them or explain away their shit behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:31 PM
231

I would topple over in my heels from laughing so hard if I saw this shit in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 08:10 PM
31

I think you can define femininity in a way that works for you. I feel the most connected to my femininity when I'm alone in nature, for example. Relaxing, naked in a hot spring, not a heel in sight. Or getting my hands dirty in the garden. A raw, earthy version instead of the glam version. Even though I like a glam vibe every now and again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 02:41 AM
79

I think even LVM like to feel needed, they just hardly like to actually do the work. Back when I used to freindzone LVM (rather than cutting them off completely) I used to purposefully not ask them for help. I noticed that it always bothered them enough to comment something along the lines of "well you could have asked me to help with x."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:10 AM
364

This is why men keep saying that they don't care about a woman's education. They're trying to be manipulative because what they really mean is that they care a LOT. As in they super prefer she doesn't have one. Because an educated woman correlates to a woman that can support herself. And men hate that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:51 AM
336

The whole time I was thinking that man is not 5'9"....and then the end killed me lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:41 AM
12

Men are miners. They'll extract everything from you until you have nothing left. What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine is how they think. It's suuuuuper selfish and gross, women aren't like that. I wish more women would wake up and realize their manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:00 PM
21

We should give out something that's the opposite of the Darwin awards. For incredible idiots that keep themselves in the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:43 PM
102

I think we'd weed the majority of men like this out. In her story he made her feel bad about her debt and they are a 50/50 couple. That's enough for us to walk away. Deception like this tends to come with other signs that fds would call red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:35 PM
153

*finally runs out of band gig stories and stares blankly at you because he doesn't actually know how to have a conversation. Cries to reddit about women expecting to be entertained by men, treating them like dancing monkeys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 12:37 AM
885

Mhmm. Yeah, ladies. Take notes on what a gold digging man is like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:31 PM
182

I can't stress enough how easy it is to replace a scrote with a vibrator. Like, why deal with someone like this??? Has he EVER even actually turned you on? Made you feel like you had an actual PARTNER? He contributes 30% max and claims 50% like your typical scrote. We all know men project onto women, every bullshit quality they have they try and twist around and make it seem like women are that way. But an EQUALLY infuriating thing is women projecting onto men. Projecting our love and care and h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:57 AM
23

I'm sure women this naive are out there too, but I HIGHLY doubt they would blame the man at all. They'd be racking their brain trying to figure out "what did I do wrong" and they would probably let slip the creepy sex shit he pressured her into trying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 03:09 AM
10

It absolutely should go without saying. If that's not the case I leave without saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 11:52 PM
18

The scrote in the comments is also a manipulator. Despite that guy's lack of brain cells, the rest of the world realizes that there's isn't an expiration date on set boundaries. Once is enough. She said no once, and that holds until she verbalized otherwise. The scrote in the story obviously knows this, which is why he had to resort to manipulation to get what he wants. That guy is just selfish, entitled, and manipulative. I'd be embarrassed to call someone like that my partner. And that friend …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 11:47 PM
18

Honestly, neither I nor ANY woman I know care about virgin men. Like what does it really matter to us to make fun of them, they just aren't on our radar at all. It's men fucking shit up for everyone else like always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:57 PM
198

You have scrotes selling scam courses left and right but she posts follow along workout videos and gets harassed?? Why are men so weak and JEALOUS??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:48 PM
55

It outs gaslighters too. The last time I used this the scrote insisted he didn't say what I remembered but he worded it differently and meant something else entirely. Nah, my memory is on point and that landfill of a man was trying to revise sexist remarks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:19 AM
6

If she's desperate enough to propose hopefully she proposes with an onion ring and he's nothing but enthusiastic and grateful because love conquers all, including standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 09:39 PM
7

His values are fucked. So heartless. And for 2500?? Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 08:40 AM
308

They just like to boo hoo about "women and children first" as if they are so disadvantaged in every aspect of life because they saw it in one movie once not realizing that they're all cowards and no one actually expects them to be heros because they don't have it in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 06:41 AM
36

So, we're doing them a favor by only dating hvm that we actually desire. But they still hate fds because the REAL study would show men want to be desired while being objectively undesirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:18 PM
30

How do women not get the ick after dealing with shit like this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:13 PM
65

Haven't seen it yet, but a fourth is worse than I thought. Male leads have recently stopped interesting me completely though, I'll gravitate to a female protagonist every time. And if the options are shit I'll grab a book because the options are far better for women. When I was younger and thinking about what kind of career I wanted, part of what I wanted was an industry where I could help move women in the industry forward. So I figured engineering was legit being more male dominated. As an adu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 08:02 PM
19

Wow, every single male in this story is trash. From the husband to the police to the creepy scrote. The sad thing is that this is exactly how this would play out for many women. Imagine if men had to deal with this kind of lack of support on a regular basis. They would malfunction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:28 PM
268

Her instincts are right and scrotes are going to talk her out of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 08:31 PM
56

I mean, you're allowed to be a coward dude, the word fits your actions so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 09:14 AM
394

Oh wow. The macabre point. A guy has tried that with me before, bringing up questionable topics completely out of the blue. I could never put my finger on why it always bothered me SO much but this makes a lot of sense. Thanks for this post OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:59 AM
45

I didn't understand the power of block and delete at the first red flag until doing it. I used to clap back a lot to stupid behavior because I can outwit the men that try and smooth talk out of it. But you realize that you can't out low value these men. If there's one thing they're better at, it's that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:10 AM
281

So, you know how a lot of what men say about women is just bullshit and more so applies to them? I think trophy wife is one of those things. I mean, what does the average man add to a woman's life? Nothing besides giving her the ability to say she has one. Not the ability to say she has a kind, loving, capable, supportive man. Never that. Just A man. And the sad part is they aren't even hot a majority of the time because so many women are afraid of seeming shallow. So pickmes are just pampering,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:11 PM
84

Basic science. Much like heat rises, low value likes to sink to the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:55 PM
4

Is this satire?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:01 PM
69

Omg king, what a natural eye for interior decorating. Exactly what I see in my head when I think "cozy" 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 06:19 PM
14

Honestly it's starting to feel like I'm in a badly written dystopian novel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:15 PM
12

Just another person chiming in to say I've felt the same shift over the last couple years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:57 PM
6

My favorite group overall (men and women) are the dancers! As long as guys are there for their love of dance, not to meet women. And my other comment talks about why I'd say bjj/maa has potential. But the general idea is to take what you're passionate about and drill down into subgroups to see if you find patterns, and then interact more with groups with the best people. Like if you like photography you have a lot of different personalities that also like it, but looking at people who focus on n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:08 PM
47

It's a subtle vibe I get. Def not dripping with toxicity or anything, but at my gym it feels like the group of dudes you'd eventually end up in couples counseling with. Like they consider themselves to be mature so they'll have conversations and are open to counseling, but in the end things don't change. Unless it's you that changes. And I do think region makes a difference here, so I want to emphasize in my area this is the vibe I get. Edit: I think part of my criteria I didn't fully realize be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:08 AM
19

Even when I am dating, these days I just say no because thats my answer independent from my relationship status. It doesn't tend to be a curt "no" though, because for some dumbfuck reason I find men try to reason with that? So it's a softer no for people that seem chill/just shooting their shot, and a 🥴🤪🙂🙃 kinda no when they have the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:00 AM
60

From my personal experience, if you're focusing on "general population" areas (old, gym, grocery store, vacation) you're playing a numbers game and it's just perseverance and luck. And you can't identify any potential patterns either. If you go a little more niche, hopefully, you can maybe correlate hv traits with interests. One example is narrowing down the gym category. My basic gym is a mix of too many types of people. I also have gone to places like climbing gyms, crossfit gyms, dance studio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 11:40 PM
50

We do straight up alchemy magic shit in our wombs and all men do is support that process. Then we guide those children to be functioning members of society. Sounds like feminine energy is meant to create, transform and lead. If that means creating a beautiful home, cool, but that's just one option. Honestly, it feels like the designed structure of the patriarchy had to come in with it's laws restricting women and it's boys clubs and it's fuckery because the natural order of things is the exact o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:47 PM
306

Say no to old sperm lol boggles my mind that men truly belive every damn thing on this planet ages but somehow their swimmers are pristine forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 08:22 PM
20

Hvm won't think like this. The only answer is to not care about or give the time of day to lvm. Vetting is so so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:39 PM
32

This insane shit is how you end up with vigilante justice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:32 PM
49

It's irritating just reading the slow boundary pushing he's doing. People thinking they are somehow entitled to your time is a pet peeve of mine, glad you didn't let this slide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:14 PM
167

You should post his name and face so we know which prick to avoid...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 05:58 AM
54

If animal crossing can "fill the void" of this whole ass man being unavailable....sis, why are you dating a potato?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:54 AM
24

If earth doesn't have a flag yet it should just be a massive 🤡 face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:49 AM
86

I bet her intuition had been nagging her. Why else suggest something so stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:59 PM
62

I like to say women's brains are like CPUs while men's are like GPUs. They need exact instruction and then they can do that one thing well enough, but thats it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:51 PM
11

I'd send one of these 🤏🏽 before blocking lmao. Sorry you were subjected to his 🤏🏽🤡🍆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:18 AM
47

These men see sex as transactional. It's disturbing for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:00 AM
31

What do you even say to whole ass uneducated delusion like this? Must be one of the ones that didn't attend college...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:26 AM
42

💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:19 AM
59

He's demonstrated his lack of intelligence, so all I can see happening is that he won't have any idea that he's actually targeted a pickme (it's not like we advertise fds in the real world) and after his childish games she'll eventually find her way to fds. Like, are they all this stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:17 AM
23

Oh yikes 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:31 AM
30

My petty ass would change my last name if it was his and call him sperm donor for the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:44 PM
8

I can see why scrotes would be concerned since they only know what it's like to have bad judgement. But fun fact: women have good judgement and we should keep that shit up forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:39 PM
12

Maybe he's born with it, maybe it's misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:30 PM
122

She could be a no makeup wearing influencer in the motherhood space or food blogger space and he'd still say the same thing. Men constantly find ways to pretend they are better than women, pickmes will fall over themselves agreeing to be the cool girl, then men will pretend it's just women being "catty" to each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 06:14 PM
66

I'd consider this brunch/breakfast spot specific, but we have great spots where I live so for me it would work. I always try to consider myself in the guy's position if I'm trying to figure out how I feel about something. For example, if my best friend was in town and only had time to do one thing with me, would the guy's suggestion even be considered? I'm trying to show someone a good time and to talk and have fun - brunch totally works but not every brunch spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:17 AM
15

Lollll, is this common? This happened to me where the guy tried to frame it as "cute" to go shopping with him for clothes for a wedding. I love fashion and shopping with girlfriends but nothing bores me more than picking clothes for men. I did not agree to this errand date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 02:44 AM
27

If the roles were reversed we would actually get locked up for being rapist/pedo/abusive pigs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:31 AM
3

May all the scrotes and pickmes find each other and die mad together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:28 AM
7

Not to mention, girls are conditioned to think this kind of relationship is ok and a teen dating an adult is fine if they "consent"...boys may fantasize thanks to being pornsick, but it's not normalized for them outside of porn like it is for girls. One of my childhood friends ended up in a relationship like that and thought it was ok. Never reported it but she now has issues thanks to that vile man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:53 PM
22

I can't get over how selfish and entitled this scrote is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:30 AM
27

Ok so I don't believe a word of this....but the fact that this is this man's sick fucking fantasy - that his crush is reduced to working at a brothel and magically has to screw him because he buys her time - it's fucking sick. Whatever incel pos posted this is emotionally, mentally, and physically repulsive. I hope that girl he's obsessed about is safe and far away from his garbage self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:21 AM
41

I hope he rots in prison. Disgusting scrote of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:15 AM
124

Honestly, thanks to the conditioning from birth (society simultaneouslylifting up LVM and trying to erode self confidence in women), I find a lot of women already are "genuinely" attracted to men less attractive and less accomplished than them. If on top of all of that a woman has to talk herself into being attracted to a guy, something is very wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:23 AM
11

Do we not do this with our friends? So many times I'll walk them to their can and then they'll drive me to my car. And we check in to make sure everyone got home safe. And NOBODY HAS TO ASK FOR THIS. It's such a small thing and the right thing to do. Do men have no self respect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 07:47 PM
22

So, it looks like my vibrator was worth every penny lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:14 AM
5

If you really feel pressured to give a reason (a decent man will not badger you for a reason though) just say something vague like you enjoyed his company but you don't feel the romantic chemistry. Men and most pickmes have a harder time reasoning you out of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 11:46 PM
5

Ayyyy, Portland! Unfortunately the men are really yikes. At least the geography is breathtaking! It really spoils you in that regard, enjoy it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:02 AM
10

Scrote: "where are you from?" You: "your past" You: block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:44 AM
30

Ah, yes. And then she's the "Karen" for complaining about food that's not even hers and the waiter would probably cry to the internet about how some woman was so controlling she complained about her date's meal. Fuck that. And honestly, LVM out here get their nuts in a twist when a woman asks for help opening a jar or grabbing something from a high shelf. I've seen them fully froth at the mouth talking about how that's "inequality" favoring women (lol) and YET we're completely expected to baby a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:08 AM
27

I have a somewhat hard to pronounce name, how men handle that when we first meet tells me a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:54 AM
57

Clown Wives. Coming to TLC on Tuesdays, 6/7 central.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:15 PM
63

I'm sure the pictures and map are a joke, but the problem is real. I know so many men that "do their part" by grocery shopping and they'll pick up the wrong item (e.g. tomato paste instead of canned tomatoes), the wrong brand (despite having seen and eaten all the food on the list because it's in the damn kitchen), forget items completely, etc. It's not cute to be incompetent, but men just keep trucking along like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:10 PM
5

The one thing that makes me happy about this is that you know he's been dead weight this whole time. I'm excited for how unburdened she's going to feel now that she's out. The glow up from simply removing people like this from your life is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:05 PM
27

lol fuck Waste of Space Jared
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:03 AM
156

*Nods aggressively*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:44 AM
132

Imma just keep playing in our pig pen here, ladies. Definitely better than dating a creepy unwashed ass having dude 22 years older than me and pretending that it's all fine lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 06:42 AM
24

Play childish games, win child prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:58 PM
43

When men don't have a willing pickme audience to laugh at their "jokes" on cue it really becomes obvious how they are so deeply not funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:52 PM
9

I'm completley disgusted by this man. What a completely useless partner. Hope he gets dropped by the wife and the "friend" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:20 AM
29

Honestly that was fucking irresponsible of the coach. I NEVER rolled with brand new white belts as a white belt....they are always spazzy if they are men. Generally a coach or at least a higher belt would roll until they get the dumbassery smacked outta them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:15 AM
14

Correct me if I'm wrong, but when Katie opened up about her dad and separately opened up about her sexual assault he seemed quite emotionless. Then, when the other guy opened up about his wife passing Greg was all tears and hugs. It was that moment I was pretty fucking sure this guy was shit. The kind of man that doesn't empathize with a woman's struggles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:12 AM
12

If only they were smart enough to pull it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 10:01 AM
7

Ok, so I apologize for even engaging with the Bachelor...it really feels like LV shit to watch it at this point, but I have to vent about the absolute ABSURDITY of the pickme behavior that's going on because of the last episode. It's like all the desperate libfem pickmes of the universe came together to defend this bland white man after he displayed MANY toxic AF behaviors on the episode. It's pretty fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:05 AM
19

Maybe a clown sticker every time she gives him a prize for being an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:42 PM
43

I'd drop those friends and see if the drugged woman feels comfortable pressing charges. That animal needs to be in a cage. Men all over the globe just get away with being complete shit humans and I'm so tired of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:51 PM
93

Sleeping arrangements always reveal how selfish and childish a man is. My asshole nvx would always crank up the ac at night so he could sleep. I naturally run cold, which he knew, and he never once even offered an extra blanket. In fact he mancried about me "hogging" the blankets in my sleep at one point. (Ladies, if your "problem solver" bf doesn't just solve the damn problem by getting another blanket for himself, he's a dumbass and a scrote). I stayed way longer in that relationship than I ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 01:57 AM
187

And thus begins the projection of "the wall" onto women 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 12:10 AM
2

That man is a complete worthless piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:10 AM
1

This shit is the stuff of nightmares lol. At least, I guess, the woman is a writer. For my sanity, I'll chalk this up to being crazy pants for the sake of her writing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:56 AM
2

This mentality is always sickening to me. It isn't about sexual incompatibility...because this would have been discussed prior to the gf mentioning it if it were. This is about "you did it before with someone else so I deserve that, too". Pure disgusting entitlement. They don't even have any logical consistency. Time and time again scrotes will talk about how they "used to" pay for dates but since they suck as people eventually got rejected they no longer pay for dates. They are allowed to chang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 07:31 AM
2

Mhmm. Gave an ex a taste of his own stupidity. Didn't acknowledge anything he didn't verbally communicate even though I'm very perceptive. He did not like it one bit. I just don't date scrotes like this anymore, having the social skills necessary to read the very basics a person is trying to non-verbally communicate is important in a lot of different areas in life and I won't date a socially unskilled man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:51 AM
5

Crazy to me how noodle dick scrotes across the world manipulate in the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:36 AM
14

HAHAHAHA. The unearned confidence and delusion of men, in action. They literally waltz through life thinking their shit don't stink and people will very rarely call them out on it like this. I bet all of these scrotes would rate themselves an 8+ in looks too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:19 AM
161

She should countersue for olfactory assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:12 PM
16

They really are SO much easier than men try and make them sound. It's pretty wild. I can't imagine what they would sound like if they truly contributed 50% to all domestic labor. Scrotes are so babied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:19 AM
13

I was never on those other subs, so I'm unfamiliar with them and I'm not trying to defend any rule breaking on this sub, but I just want to say that the path to FDS dating isn't really a clean jump. I think there's an initial grieving/anger process where you may see a lot of the unloading of negativity and anger because of what women have dealt with in past relationships. I think it's helpful to a lot of people before they can move on from that and start actively changing things in how they appr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:33 AM
14

Oh, look at FDS being right again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:40 PM
59

And despite the weirdly close relationship to his mother, these boys will learn model most of their behaviors off of their father and you end up with a bad partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 10:48 PM
143

I was just thinking about this. There seems to be more and more men that have caught on to what the "right" things to say are. They talk about splitting chores equally, claim that they don't "just" want sex and want a connection, claim that they do most of the childcare and are fine with that, claim that consent is important to them...etc etc, all the things that sound right. It's a big shift from not too long ago where the majority would be bold about their sexism and just claim that they were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 01:34 AM
21

Another reminder of why I'm so THANKFUL for this community of women. Past pickme would have been moronic enough to actually check this out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:15 PM
8

It's just misogyny. If a man refers to any woman as a gold digger, correct or not, it's a red flag for me. He can die broke, mad, and single since he's most likely all three.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:11 PM
89

I was just browsing the sewers of reddit and some handmaiden of the patriarchy mentioned FDS and how it's so embarrassing for her as a woman and she would never feel the need to call men scrotes. Like? There's no way she hasn't seen how casually ALL of the rest of reddit talks shit about women. That's the DEFAULT. But a small group of us push back and we're the problem. They want us to "all genders matter" our way into shackles masquerading as equality. This explanation helps, but it's still min…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:00 PM
5

This is the kind of martyr shit too many women do and I really can't respect anything about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:39 PM
26

And if you responded in any way while asleep/half asleep they gaslight you into thinking they did nothing wrong. These are RAPISTS and MANIPULATORS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:25 PM
87

You know, maybe girls physically mature faster than boys and changes in the brain can happen faster than boys (as far as I was taught), but the generalized statement of "girls mature faster than boys" was so irresponsible of whoever the hell made it mainstream. It's only ever used to justify predatory shit like this. There is nothing mature about a 19 year old refusing to listen to the concern and experience of the people around her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:43 AM
2

These are the same NVM that cry about not getting custody of their children and how uNfAiR the courts are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:16 AM
2

Men are ignorant to the point of being a liability and a nuisance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:04 AM
6

Exactly. It's mighty convenient that when men date a bunch of LVW, they reason that out to be because "all women are like that/all women are b******", but when women date a bunch of LVM they reason that out to be because women seek out assholes and we just love dating douchbags and the nice guys just get left behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:56 AM
2

I agree with ALL of this. The LVM I dated last talked about a lot of fucked up "good old days" stories (racist, sexist, and criminal behavior)...and never once did he reflect and tell the story in a regretful way. It grossed me out but my pickme side brushed it off. Complete mistake. He wasn't magically a better person because he lived a few more years and looked less attractive; he was the same scrote, just saggier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:47 AM
1

These assholes really want to steal a woman's 20's and 30's because they're "finally" ready to have a family and think they can just pick up a human incubator off the streets. His 20s were probably full of fuckboi shit and he has the audacity to think that a 20 something woman should cater to him rather than live her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:36 AM
48

Are there any traits that seemed to be common among men that tried to buy sex? I'm wondering if FDS strategies would filter them out in normal dating or if they are more manipulative than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:14 AM
15

I swear something extra weird happens to the pickme brain when she pops out a son. It's borderline icky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:02 PM
14

I have no idea how he still has the support of the absolute majority of people on youtube. If that exact same scrote personality was in a female body, there is ZERO chance that he's be a top creator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:58 PM
18

And if it was the better deal in this whole patriarchal setup, men would have claimed it for themselves and made women bring home the money. But they did not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:44 PM
11

Oh wow, does Germany know how to make men carry the child for half the pregnancy and then contribute to half the labor? Can the US get that tech?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:41 PM
160

He deserved to be arrested for committing a crime. He's lucky this is all that happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:10 PM
3

Men approach bumble like it was made specifically to make dating easier on men and not so women could guard more against weird guys lol. In my personal view, I tend to see feminine sexual energy as receptive and masculine as projective. I don't have all of one and none of the other, but in romance I lean feminine. Men on bumble also lean feminine. They know women have to initiate a conversation, but they also want her to woo him, want her to ask him out, take him to dinner, and pay since she did…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:24 AM
2

He does this stupid little experiment and then has to post about it. Typical thirsty for attention male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:09 AM
19

They're easy enough to have a casual good time with. Just hanging or whatever. They are not that great for deeper conversations though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:49 AM
2

The stock market is a little volatile right now, so if you do invest there just be aware of that and don't let it freak out out too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:14 AM
2

I don't have exact answers but check out youtube too. I know there are some creators that cover things like how ADHD presents differently in women and they talk about their personal experience, I'm pretty sure I've seen something similar around autism but can't be sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:08 AM
3

I think your concerns are valid. If you have a provider that you feel comfortable isn't judging this, I would definitely ask them the next time you're in for a checkup. In the mean time, maybe leave it blank? And only inform your healthcare provider if anything out of routine care is needed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:04 AM
4

I came across an old thread on a male specific sub about the worst thing they've overheard about themselves. SO MANY grown ass men are holding onto a memory of a high school girl calling him weird/creepy/loser/etc. Like, SUCH a weird thing to hold onto into adulthood, but here they are talking about the b**** from hs who said he was weird. Of course they go on to insist how they were so nice and kind and yet they were treated so bad lol. Honestly, it was so eye opening. These scrotes are so so w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:59 AM
2

He couldn't even pretend to be high value long enough for one date. The men out here are pathetic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:52 AM
2

Scrotes in long term relationships demand fucking paternity tests and yet act appalled when a new partner wants an STD test done. The men don't deserve air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:44 AM
6

Women can give men a taste of their own medicine, it's not hard to come up with things they would lose their shit over. We're just better people so we don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:32 AM
1

Last time I complimented a man I regretted it. It inflates their ego like crazy and all of a sudden a 4 thinks he's a 9. Also, women are simply more beautiful. If that hurts the feelings, tough shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:13 AM
16

I wonder if this is why men gatekeep humor so much. If we collectively used it against them they would die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:32 AM
9

There's a show on freeform right now about grooming. There's a grooming warning before the episodes. People still go out of their way to defend the gross pedo and blame the teenage girl in the situation because they're fucked in the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:14 AM
14

Agreed. Bees don't try and convince flies that honey is better than shit or whatever lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:12 AM
8

I'm sorry, but this kind of thing is actually a yellow flag for me. Especially if he brings it up himself. Generally speaking, it can be manipulative. To see how you react to the conversation, to gauge where he might be able to take advantage. That kind of thing. He could be fine, but don't let your guard down one bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:55 AM
51

He's a leech on his family and then has the audacity to manipulate and twist the situation so he can be mad at his wife??? Yet another anecdote telling FDS that we are correct to prioritize generous HVM and not scrotes like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:08 PM
100

His tone really implies that he doesn't think he did a damn thing wrong. Mummy and daddy obviously don't hold him accountable for anything. This poor woman threw herself in front of a moving bullet and I hope she realizes it soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:00 PM
6

These men are objectively lower than dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:50 PM
4

How cute, the attention seeking man wants a gold star for doing the bare minimum. Let's have all the pickmes go out of their way to help him and clap for him even though google is a thing or he could pay a hairdresser to help and educate. What a moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:48 PM
15

You can't bring children into that marriage, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:37 PM
8

These idiots posted an "apology" on insta that basically turned themselves into victims. Men being men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:28 PM
31

Menstrual cups changed my period for me and I will not go back. If some pigeon dick EVER did something like this he would fucking regret it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:04 PM
3

Keep your eyes open when apartment hunting! It's possible to find reasonable rent prices, but it's certainly a hunt. Make sure to look at people renting out their condos and such too, apartments will change their prices often to track with the market, but some condo owners are more concerned with finding the right tenant and prices might not be as high. Moving in the fall/winter may get you a better rate for an apartment. Or if you're in a college town, at least before students start to move bac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:49 AM
1

So it's def fake right? What's up with the youtube comments on such a fake vid? Good luck to the pickme desperates that would be so happy with some low effort bs proposal like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:33 AM
4

OMG. I remember watching this before finding FDS. I could not get over the absolute clown shit that woman was saying. She and those men have some fucked up issues they need to sort out with a real therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 06:20 AM
100

Mhmm. Screw taking off my clothes, the only thing I need to take off are all the damn hats I feel like I need to wear. It's basically impossible to be the career woman, the mother, the mother to a grown man, the housekeeper, the therapist, the manager, etc etc without negative consequences to our own mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:52 AM
56

She straight up said she'd just get her own ring (pls no) and he's still not satisfied? LOL. Plus, this isn't just a "gift" you bucket of ass. It symbolizes a proposal for marriage. In any other proposal in life, people put in their BEST effort. If I draft a business proposal for a client, it's not going to say "you get what you get and can't complain." The ring is an indication of the kind of life you intend to have together, and so far it's the kind of life where you can get what you want out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:37 AM
104

The way people have been brainwashed blows my mind. Women are simultaneously discouraged from exploring their sensuality and femininity but encouraged to be "sexual." We are attention w**** and full of ourselves if we think we're beautiful. God forbid we post a selfie just because we look good and feel good. It always needs a caption expressing the fact that we know how self absorbed it is, but like, don't worry I know it's shallow so it's ok this one time. Oh, but we're also attention w**** if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:55 PM
11

There may be some women out there that have the emotional makeup and personality to be fine with casual sex, but it's the smallest percentage. This nearly always does not end well for women and it has the added negative of ass garbage men thinking they are entitled to/deserve NSA sex with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:48 PM
9

That's a good point! When it first came out insurance wouldn't cover it for men for some asinine reason. I forgot they changed that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:32 PM
84

This is controversial in all the other young liberal circles, but we need to not sleep with slutty and irresponsible men. They can't get tested for HPV still, as far as I know, and if they sleep around they probably have it. It's not fool proof, but it's one way to screen. The STD that can give us cancer is the one they don't get tested for since their dicks are unaffected. It's not a coincidence that scrotes on reddit have been trying to push the idea that body count doesn't matter and it's iMm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:03 PM
9

Ooo, does it work well? What's the brand? I'm going to be living alone soon too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:57 AM
237

Yeah, I thought of guys that you want to avoid. But I can definitely see men using this to cheat more effectively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:12 AM
85

Someone legit cross posted this saying FDS needs to be removed. It's SO eye-opening that our freedom is what threatens them most. NOTHING stated here should be controversial but the looneytoons on reddit act like we're trying to poison the water supply or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:55 PM
3

Please sign this oath in blood, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:46 PM
8

Dick pass in action. We need to start a naming and shaming database for women everywhere. Look up a man before you ever agree to a single date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:36 PM
51

I'm just throwing this out there, but for the longest time I've had that feeling that men have this primal instinct that tells them that women who are voyagers of their own spirituality, who lead other women to their discoveries, who don't listen to traditional, off the shelf teachings are mighty dangerous to them. It's one of the things that feels SO tightly controlled even still, but a lot of people don't question it too much. There's obviously a lot of practical and political power that comes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:22 PM
123

Interesting thing I've noticed: the same scrotes that complain about women being too needy, or women not really being independent because they asked a man once to open a jar? They really hate it when you legitimately like doing things for yourself and don't ask them for help. Deep down they are children who want a mommy to do everything for them, but they also want a woman who makes them feel "masculine" without expecting them to actually follow through on anything. It's so bizarre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:32 PM
206

#2 reminds me of one of my exes. We were planning to do a day trip somewhere but he didn't care about it at all really. So I took the time to figure out a few places to go and explore for the day. Last minute he unilaterally decides he wants to do something else so that's what we were going to do. I was pretty pissed at the time but didn't make a big deal about it. After the relationship ended it was one moment that really stuck out to me, even though he did PLENTY of other really scrotey shit. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:26 PM
19

You don't even have to be specific with the question. Just favorite shows/books/music. You want to know what they're consuming the most. It's most likely all males and problematic ones at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:50 AM
1

So, a minimum of 64% of men aren't worth our time. Noted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:15 AM
6

Luckily I don't think their bs fooled many women. They really wanted us to believe that even though their asses looked like pancakes and their hair follicles were yeeting themselves off their weird shaped heads they still had nice young sperm. LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:06 AM
3

I'm not sure what their plan is, honestly. So many of them are legitimately stupid but think they're smarter than women, so it would probably floor them to know plenty of women here can code. We already have another website. We'll literally just migrate and continue exactly as we are. At least I will. There's very little reason I come onto the garbage fire that is reddit otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:36 AM
6

If anyone is ever tempted, just visit some of the OLD subs around here and it should immediately turn you off lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:04 AM
5

Agree on occasional burnout. I have a lot going on right now, but once it's settled one of my big focuses will be fostering relationships with HV people. I think that's the one tangible positives people can get from this community. It sucks but it opens your eyes and you have the choice of what friends you let into your life. So many women in my life actually have anti-woman thought processes that they've never taken a look at. I don't know why I let it all slide for so long, but I don't think I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:42 AM
4

Nope, that is indeed a bad man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:33 AM
37

Exactly. This is the kind of man you leave without an explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:29 AM
37

I'm actually still training myself out of this, but not laughing at unfunny jokes is so satisfying lol. They get so defeated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:27 AM
36

Ah yes, man in a wig "comedy". It's low hanging fruit I guess. They're too stupid to make the social, economic and political atrocities of today manageable with humor, so they default to sexism. Also because they're sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:26 AM
7

That's a mighty big and fragile ego that's he's worried about bruising if he can't handle you doing what most people do when they're just dating. Also, are you actually casually dating other people? One benefit of that is for moments like these when a guy is particularly sensitive and unreasonable and cuts things off you aren't as bothered because you have other dates to look forward to. And of course, dating the FDS way means you have a complete and fulfilling life already so small stings like …
/r/askFDS02/06/21 11:36 PM
6

I think the person on the right lower portion is white?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:56 AM
5

Wow this is honestly a new weird low in the kind of shit women put up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:54 AM
2

Yep, saving this video
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:34 AM
3

Men so readily blame their personal problems on the rest of the world while women will go so far as to take other's problems onto themselves. It's wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:22 AM
19

And that host immediately being offended on behalf of the son because Ramsey said something about his name. Nevermind the sexual harassment. That wasn't that bad, right guys?? He was just trying to have some fun! Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:41 AM
5

This is why spaces like this are so important. We have women of all ages here contributing their experiences so other women don't do what they did. Also, just women. That's the MOST important thing and also why we're so targeted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:25 AM
2

As if being a photographer means you couldn't possibly be a creepy rapey asshole? PLus that looks like a basic point and shoot camera...like???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:15 AM
7

You know, men left, right, and center these days complain about PC culture and how they can't make jokes anymore and feel like they literally can't speak, but women have been living that life for decades. I wonder where we would be if women were allowed to be cunning and ruthless like Cleopatra in today's society. We let terrible fucking men into positions of power every day but we not only assume a woman can't do the same job, we actively prohibit women from developing the characteristics that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:29 AM
2

So like, when he comes crawling back, hard pass that trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:51 AM
10

Why didn't she get me a ring, and kneel to propose to me?? Why don't I get to be the princess?? Lol, what a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:33 AM
4

I'm actually so amused by this bold faced lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:48 AM
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Weirdly, I think this is partly why sometimes women stay with crappy men. Like they understand this subconsciously, so when their partner does something gross like not wash his own ass, she feels embarrassed and defensive because that reflects on her. So when she posts on reddit and people call him a disgusting child and tell her to leave, she gets defensive because those comments on some level feel directed at her as well. And then the knee jerk reaction is to try and fix the man rather than le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:32 AM
18

I wish I had knows this too. I probably wouldn't have really got it pre-FDS, but still lol. And I think the best thing you can do is to own your past. Be confident enough in yourself now so that you can still love and honor who you used to be without feeling bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:52 AM
4

He needs to be able to pass on the two dollars to his name to someone, ya know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:43 AM
8

I second the blondes and gingers thing. It's not totally terrible if they have brown eyes, but something about light eyes and then blonde or ginger lashes/eyebrows is a no for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:40 AM
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It's funny, very few men read for fun but they hate the idea that reading is stereotypically classified as a "feminine" hobby by a lot of people (saw the outrage on a thread in a male centric sub). They can't stand a hobby associated with greater intelligence being associated with women even though they gladly associate things like STEM with males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:35 AM
6

Women are sensitive because actual victim blaming is stupid. People swung in the most idiotic direction when they started telling women to dress more conservatively and be less trusting or whatever. Assholes intentionally muddied the waters so we can't have a productive discussion anymore without people getting upset. It's not about that. It's not about changing your personality to become "less appealing" to a predator. It's about adding to your skillset so you have the eyes of a hawk and can se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:29 AM
50

Can't risk being called cRaZy or eMoTiOnAl now, can we? We have to calmly address the situation when our partner is acting like literal swine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:28 AM
41

I swear they do this shit on purpose too. To see what women will put up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:25 AM
1

I wonder if there were any previous signs showing how fried his brain is. Men love to wait until a woman is in a vulnerable position before really letting shit like this start, but sometimes there are little things. We need to normalize calling out scrote behavior publicly and then leaving scrote men. He can put a ring on his little ass dick and live happily ever after with the only thing he actually cares about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:16 AM
4

Omg this is how I feel too! But I also just say heterosexual lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:30 AM
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This is very true. "Liberal" sexists just want to carve out a group of women that they are "allowed" to hate when really it's just regular old misogyny. Can't hate POC women because of the POC part. Can't hate LGBTQIA women because of the LGBTQIA part. Straight white women it is. Conservative sexists aren't better, but at least they're transparent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 01:16 AM
21

If you're on one of those neighborhood apps you can post this story there so other people know to look out for weird creepers in your complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:03 AM
8

Men are so used to getting attention for being the most basic braindead bores. This will be fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:54 AM
20

The title isn't even man hating?? How easily triggered can these people get??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:50 AM
15

The one I watched was on a separate channel as a collab video. The couple probably shows up on his channel at some point, so if you see a man and woman visit his town that's the channel it's on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:33 AM
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There's this guy on youtube who bought an abandoned small mining town. A lot of it is cool but then he shows you the actual brothel that existed in a town meant for just mining. And apparently there were tubes of toothpaste at only this location. I was so grossed out. Really goes to show that men have been disgusting forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:18 PM
6

I must vent. So when I watch tv shows I also check out subreddit discussions to have a space to talk about it. But lately, a lot of them have been so bad. And one particular flavor of bad is how the pickme women come out in FULL FORCE for some of these shows. The Good Girls sub is literally infested with people drooling over the legitimate bad guy who murders people just because he's hot. He's actually a terrible fucking person but everyone there loves him and hates anyone that gets in his way o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:18 AM
2

It's so eye opening to see how low value the men are that get triggered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:52 AM
1

Can you DM me the name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:37 AM
5

Boyfriend offers to take pics of cousins. Reddit: Why don't you just ask him to take your picture. The men here are so stupid. And to any lady that needs to hear this: sure, taking pics like this could possibly be the most innocent thing in the world. But anything like this that rubs you the wrong way is THE ONLY red flag you need. You are probably right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:30 AM
2

A lot of times these trash bag men will pursue and build trust with women before bringing up their age. By the time someone realizes the creep they're dating is 10 years older, they feel like he's a good guy because he's been manipulating the situation from jump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:26 AM
2

I'm pretty liberal and never wanted a firearm before. But males have made me change my opinion on that. Self defense is everyone's right. I will be protecting myself and if a man threatens me I won't be hesitating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:18 AM
3

I don't get what happens to pickmes...any FDS lady would not only be pissed but most likely deeply turned off and disgusted. Leaving would be easy. He can keep fucking the plastic doll all he likes after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:06 AM
1

Oh wow. What an absolutely shitty father and human being. Your poor choices in life don't become the burden of your kids and partner. Unbelievably selfish of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:02 AM
4

Dated a tech guy once and got the weirdest vibes from him which later transformed into me seriously thinking he's a pedo. To the point I considered reporting him. But I had no proof, just the ickiest feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:52 AM
2

I hope he never advances in his career. That's the kind of behavior that people should remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:38 AM
13

Don't you worry, there's basically no chance any woman has looked twice at that man. I'm so certain he will die a virgin lol Imagine if women had a list like this...Must give me access to all retirement funds. Bonus if naturally circumcised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:27 AM
26

Men are dogs. I haven't seen a man I'd want to sleep with since FDS lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:18 AM
35

All men out here straight up demanding participation trophies is pathetic. How do they not feel small and pathetic when they're this affected by simple rejection? They need to humble themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:10 AM
41

Yesss. No more dad bod, more of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:58 AM
74

Lol. No. Men try to publicly Karenify any woman that has the wrong look on her face. We can call out creepy, predatory. pervert men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:50 AM
11

I'm trying to convince myself that this is a long con troll because I can't fathom a woman actually believing this shit....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:42 AM
172

I'm sorry but this is stupid. You don't get points for letting yourself be used.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:31 AM
104

My last RELATIONSHIP was basically a pity relationship. I didn't think he was physically attractive but gave the relationship a chance. Never. Again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:22 AM
29

I'm another hate reader hahaha. It's just me, relaxing with a book, and then angrily yelling at the book. I don't have a book rec, but I'll give you my method of finding recs! Go to goodreads and read the reviews on the book you just read. Find a review that a) has similar opinions as you and b) has the book shelved. Look through that person's shelves to see if she has books she reviewed and liked. Idk if you can search for shelves in general, but if you can then "book boyfriend" is something th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:18 AM
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Men can hardly use it right though. So since women have to do all the work just to get off, size absolutely matter. It's all about that goldilocks dick lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:08 AM
23

Hollywood is definitely predatory and I really wish it wasn't part of the EmpowermentTM storyline for women to explore their sensuality publicly for a world of creepy men to see. But the creeps have decades on these young women and I bet it feels like such a confusing landscape to navigate. There's a meme going around with the message that the Billie's transformation is a woman claiming her autonomy; just because she used to wear baggy clothes doesn't mean she has to forever. But I think autonom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:05 AM
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Is publicly shaming creepy men that police won't handle finally becoming a trend because I'm HERE FOR IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:59 AM
58

This is so disgusting. They worship their little breakfast sausages but can't even keep them clean???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:56 AM
8

It's a hate crime for women to share any personal anecdote where the man is behaving poorly or criminally. You see all the time where men will try to villainize their partner that shares her issues with her husband with friends or family. They froth at the mouth and call it a violation of their relationship to discuss private matters (read: abuse) with people outside the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:48 AM
5

Looks like she dodged a cannon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:39 AM
11

Is he really saying that a picnic is out of his comfort zone??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:31 AM
3

On the off chance that this hobosexual is physically attractive, he won't be for long. Then he's ugly, broke, and unambitious. It's like men get arm candy and women get arm charities. Why? Whywhywhy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:12 AM
20

Honestly, they've been the exact opposite of safe in my experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:25 AM
32

What worked for me was to look back and and take account of the times men actually protected me. Was it the time my guy friend's buddy was being an ass to me? No, said guy friend was somehow a mute and just let it happen. Was it one of the times I got too drunk on a night out in college? No, girlfriends had my back every time. Was it the time I was sexually assaulted and the men in my life protected me? No, I had to pick up my own pieces. Was it the time a man paid my rent/tuition/bills? No, I'v…
/r/askFDS05/05/21 06:52 AM
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AS IF that scrote has ever bought a woman flowers or a present or taken her to dinner. It's always the poor boys that complain about doing the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:18 AM
38

Well I like tall men because they aren't bitter and sad like the short ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:27 AM
31

It's literally the most free shit on the planet because so many people want nothing to do with it lmao. Mr. 5'7, barely literate, hunchback of the reddit back alleys can KEEP HIS SPERM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:37 AM
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Do it. Hating on all things astrology or new age is just another new flavor of misogyny. Hurts no one but men will scrote babble about how terrible and iLloGiCaL it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:32 AM
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Hahahaha, men literally can't handle shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:15 AM
12

Ah, the old coal miner example courtesy of MaLe LoGiC. Well, if coal miners are selling their bodies for money, then so are jazz dancers I guess. Which means those dancers have it just as hard as coal miners? I bet that would make a scrote's eye twitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:55 AM
13

Even then, male celebrities definitely get nipped and tucked and botoxed. Gossip mags just don't tear them apart for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:47 AM
5

Finally someone said it! Dicks aren't cute. I used to feel so weird on other subs where women (or men cosplaying women) would go on and on about how they love dick and how seeing a naked man actually turns them on. I've never had that experience. Clothed men are so much more attractive than naked men. I swear the stereotype of women not being visual creatures is there because we don't have much to look at lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:55 AM
47

They just live in their own little realities don't they? Silly idiots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:32 AM
23

Something stupid that they love shitting on that never made nay sense to me was women using the dog filter on OLD. I mean, I don't know of any women that exclusively used the dog filter on OLD photos, it would be just one out of a bunch, but scrotes are very, very triggered by this. I'd understand if there were no good pics, but that's unlikely from what I've seen of women's profiles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 06:23 AM
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Oh man, there was a post on a OLD centered sub where a woman was asking if men found tattoos attractive because she wanted them or had them or something. What the fuuuuck is it with women caring what some neckbeard on reddit thinks?! I just couldn't get over that post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:51 AM
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This realization is something that actually empowered me this quarantine. It really hit me that even the "good" men I know don't have it in them to stand up for the women in their lives. Men are either too weak or too toxic to do any sort of protecting. Meanwhile I have that kind of support from my female friends without even hinting at the need, and I've provided similar myself. It just showed me how useless men really are. I treat men how they deserve to be treated now that I see their nature.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:23 AM
13

This goes for practically anything that is stereotyped as feminine and then demonized. Ask yourself why, because chances are, it's to silence or hurt women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:44 PM
11

Does your uni have those end of term reviews you can give on instructors? I would call this shit out if you have that opportunity. It's little things like this that over time erode a woman's self confidence which somehow translates to "women just aren't good at X" while propelling all the men forward for having dicks.
/r/askFDS02/05/21 09:33 PM
7

Whenever I feel like I have info that might benefit someone, I try to gauge receptivity first. If it seems like they are determined to make their own mistakes, I kind of just have to back away. At that point I have to make a decision on how much I want to interact with that person if they are refusing to better themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:01 AM
54

So, his last wife got real gems. This is actually pretty important because it translates to him investing in a relationship that didn't work out, so this time around he's tweaked his cost-benefit analysis. He isn't giving her a ring out of love and respect and the desire to grow together. He is giving her a ring because he basically has to if he wants to propose, and he's investing just enough so that a) she says yes, and b) he ultimately gets more out of the deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:51 AM
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Thanking my lucky stars that I'm naturally too particular about jewelry to have this specific pickme tendency lol. I love jewelry and buy myself pieces that I love. If some bro's fake emerald can't compete with what I own I just wouldn't wear it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:39 AM
3

In some perfect utopia women would be able to make music about sex and it would be fine. But our current landscape is wayyy too complicated for that to be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:15 AM
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Not past the first date. It was a trainwreck from start to finish by FDS standards. But my clown ass wasted another few months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:05 AM
3

It sucks that all she could do was call him out and report him to planet fitness. Men are so nasty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:02 AM
39

I'm so thankful FDS yoinked any interest in bdsm right outta me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:29 AM
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It's not even just that. I hear story after story where once people are a few months of dating in, everything shifts entirely and it's the woman pushing the relationship forward. She initiates the DTR talk. She makes a point to schedule dates out so they aren't always home. She makes a point to make plans with each other's friends or family. She makes a point to build a friendship with his friends. She will probably bring up marriage. And then bring it up again. And again. All they are expected …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:15 AM
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So glad you found someone who respects your business! I also just want to throw something our there for any ladies that want tattoos and also believe in metaphysical/esoteric spirituality and what not - vet your tattoo artist to the best of your ability. This person is spending hours inking a permanent image onto your body and you will be bleeding throughout. It's a pretty vulnerable position physically, but also spiritually. You might not want someone with bad vibes doing your ink just because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:04 AM
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HA. He calls a woman being a SAHM for 20 years not wanting to go back to work in her 50s abusive. You give men new vocab words like that and they toss it around like they do their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:20 AM
10

Never will I ever Brenda the Builder some ass garbage. I don't date men that I'm low key embarrassed of anymore so I don't feel an urge to help them level up lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:48 PM
9

I also think part of the allure of joking for men is the control. If they can get a room of people to laugh at a r*pe, sexist, racist, whatever horrible thing joke, they have control over that room. They can also establish a sense of hierarchy within that room depending on who their jokes are targeting (a lot of male comedians don't actually "punch up") so of course they wouldn't want women to have that same kind of power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:41 PM
12

Sounds like a bunch of profiles that should be screen capped and saved so I have a reference on men to avoid in my area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:27 PM
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I, and I think a lot of people here, use FDS as a way to vet a life partner. When you take that into account you have to make some assumptions on what the course of a relationship might look like. Most likely, as it stands today, a lot of women will do the majority of domestic labor. Even guys who think they do 50/50 do not actually do 50/50. And of course things like childbirth/nursing is 100/0, which then leads to larger gaps in income. So if early on in dating he set the expectation that fina…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:40 PM
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I mean, rejection isn't bad...but maybe send in your manuscript to an agent, audition for a play, apply to a higher paying job, code your first app and try to get users to pay for it, or run for office. Why do people frame rejection and spontaneity as something unique you can only get from asking a man out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:41 AM
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Lol, libfems and the manosphere are committed to misunderstanding the standard of dating generous men who are financially responsible. Somehow that translates to only wanting rich chads or something? Interestingly, I just saw a convo on another sub where some dude was looking for the "equivalent" of "women not dating poor losers." The answers were: fat women, ugly women, single mothers, and drumroll please...sex workers. Yup, having an only fans and "commodifying sexuality" was a hard pass for t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:41 AM
2

Was a cat and bottle of wine part of the membership package or something? I never got mine. Is there a number I can call?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:57 PM
1

What a piece of work. Like a literal ball and chain. Glad you could return the defective product back to the manufacturer though, sometimes you have to try and resell on craigslist or something and it's hard selling junk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:49 PM
38

"Bringing nothing to the table but your plate" as they say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:09 PM
10

I've been through periods of time where I wasn't dating because I wasn't happy with my current situation. Like I had a job because I needed one, but it was below my skill level so I was looking for a better one and didn't want to date until I was happy with where I was in my life. I literally can't understand people that chose to date when there is no stability in their lives at all. It's so wild...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:08 PM
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We don't have enough words, frankly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:28 AM
31

Funny story. I got into a period of learning about Lilith a while back. Podcasts, videos, articles - whatever was easy enough for me to get my hands on. Just days after that I came across FDS and for the life of me I can't remember the specific reason that brought me to this sub, but it felt like such a weird coincidence to find an actual woman only community on reddit at that time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:01 AM
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BUT WAIT, there's more! If you buy a girlfriend today, for the same price as 50% of a coffee date, we'll throw in the PR bonus! Your new mommy girlfriend will highlight all your good deeds on social media (don't worry, she'll remind you what to do) and never speak of the insane narc shit you do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:48 AM
13

Oh wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:14 AM
3

I'm not forming a solid opinion here, just rambling random thoughts a bit, but idk how to feel about "reformed" cool girls. I think there's the group that really gets how fucked up things are and they change, but then there's this other group. It feels like they, with experience, start to see first hand how being the Cool Girl doesn't benefit them as women, but instead of truly uprooting the internalized misogyny, they just gerrymander the boundaries of which group of women they are superior to.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 04:09 AM
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I think the main FDS should eventually split into "I'm new and I would like the echo chamber to reiterate the abundance of LVM and why we don't accept them because the rest of the world is a very strong echo chamber claiming the opposite" and "I no longer over-empathize with men and don't date anyone for their potential I'm just here to level up further."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:12 PM
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This is timely because I must vent about something insane related to the fact that women handle basically the entire household and their full time jobs. I don't get onto the asshole parts of reddit much anymore, but I did today and after having been on FDS for a while, something stuck out to me. Men use their wives and kids as a point of sympathy SO often. And I used to buy into it. The whole, "I have a wife and two kids and I work full time AND I'm working so hard to learn new X skill to better…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:59 PM
14

You're telling me the scrotes that love getting drinks as a legit first date somehow get bamboozled by women that aren't legally able to even get into bars??? They know. They are grown ass men who are predators that know what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:29 PM
17

What the absolute fuck. I'm so sorry you had to live in an environment like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:20 PM
169

Came to say JUST THIS. The only correction I care to make lmao. They can think what they want about the rest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:13 PM
3

My stomach drops just watching it. I hope she's doing ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:36 AM
6

Men should just cut them balls off. Jk lol ...unless???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:21 AM
31

Cute as can be. The way women should act. Not angry and speaking up for themselves, no. That's bad. When women have emotions outside of happy we must stop them. Fuck this guy. And he's right, I don't know him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:31 AM
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Honestly, I think few people come here without having dealt with how shitty men can be. Part of what I want for the world is strong, smart women who are never negatively affected by men, but we're not there yet. Anyway, all that to say is that most people have an eye opening moment that might get pretty dark before they start to truly change. I'm thinking this was your moment. And it sucks but it will be ok. It's going to feel brutal because I suggest not dating at all for a long while, but it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:16 AM
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I have no words...this is a nightmare that she willingly walked into
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:08 AM
4

Same. These days if a man can't contribute to your wealth or influence he's essentially dead weight. Since it's hardly likely that he will contribute to your spiritual growth or happiness in any meaningful way. She fucked up marrying him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:44 PM
1

Imagine being ignorant to how useless men are and being scammed into marriage with a pos like this. Talk about ball and chain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:26 PM
6

I'm sure if the gender swapped version was as commonplace, these scrotes would sing a more whinny tune.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:13 AM
26

They don't even meet the requirements of a typical gold digger. They aren't younger, attractive, child free, sexually satisfying men marrying older women for money. They aren't even useful enough for that. They're baggage. Crusty, vampiric baggage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:09 AM
7

The very definition of a fucking scrote. She should plan an escape and plan to wring every last possible cent from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 11:01 AM
26

Huh. Well if you're overreacting then it's probably not a big deal and you can tell all the adults in your social circle about it just to innocently see how they'd react?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:51 AM
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Men hardly carry shit. Who the fuck is this ass clown? What kind of sad person from a marginalized group spends their time wondering about how to make life easier for the privileged class in society?? Straight clown awards out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:43 AM
11

Is there a way to put his face on blast along with this message? On tiktok or something? The authorities are hardly helpful, but the court of public opinion outside of where you live might have something to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:54 AM
35

I've been taught that it is responsible so spay and neuter animals, so that's what I do with my pets. What's with men being purposefully irresponsible and childish? I watch one of those dog training shows sometimes and the trainer has this problem with some men. They have these aggressive dogs that are difficult to train and refuse to get them neutered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:19 AM
12

Or do yourselves one better ladies: buy yourself a nice ass ring, throw yourself a nice ass party, and if you don't get married at all you'll save massive amounts of money in the long term. Every dollar you spend on a scrote is a dollar lost. Every meal you cook for him and the laundry of his that you do is an opportunity cost. Taking care of the children he will absolutely pressure you to have is a career hit. I've seen more men drop their debt onto a woman than the opposite. The hit your menta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:07 AM
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Is that sub basically just full of males posting as women or do you with actual women post there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:47 AM
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I scrolled a few other news posts about this when it happened and it was nothing but sympathy. Fucking why? I legit remember a single somewhat catchy song of his. Other than that I remember the homophobia and misogyny and crimes. The same people so sympathetic about his drug addiction turn around and talk the wildest shit about Demi Lovato's addiction and probably hellhole of a childhood being a Disney star. Addiction is a hard thing to beat and I have sympathy for that, but aside from that he s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:26 AM
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Oh yeah, there's nothing different about gen z boys, they're all trash too. The massively unfortunate part is how gen z girls are brainwashed to think they're on equal playing field. They go out of their way to be "empathetic" to male problems and don't even see the sexism towards women. This feels massively problematic because at least as a child I had eyes and I realized that things were fucked up because I could see it. It feels like they don't see it anymore, not until it's too late, it's wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:03 AM
45

Holy shit she married a pedo and doesn't even realize it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:56 AM
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I've done what this man is trying to do. Except I worked full time, cooked for myself, cleaned my apartment, managed my classes, and wasn't a whiny scrote about it. He's not just an asshole, he's a pathetic failure of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:52 AM
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lol, this is what happens when some idiot thinks his opinion needs to be heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:37 AM
7

Ah, to have a complete embarrassment of a man and cancer to society represent your country. Name a more relatable experience. These parasitic men all need to be six feet under.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:12 AM
2

I don't have a word but this reminds me of those male finance "influencers" that flex so hard but they're broke AF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:10 AM
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I'm not even religious but let's all hold hands in a prayer circle and energetically invite that woman to FDS. God forbid he ever worm his way back into her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:01 AM
11

Lol the entitlement is real. Just don't date then? We won't miss you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:55 AM
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Not to mention the word "wh*re" - I'm not a fan of either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:26 AM
10

"I know I looked like and acted like a paper bottle, but we never sat down to have The Talk, so that's on you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:15 AM
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His legacy is Facebook and he looks like a de-shelled mussel. All that money and he's still not a cool kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:09 AM
10

I'm the same now too. During the metoo peak I was worried some weird shit was going to come out about Mr. Rogers or Bob Ross or some shit. Men really fuck it up for other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:54 AM
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I agree. Chris brown used to make alright stuff I'd listen to, but I haven't listened at ALL since all that came out. And I keep adding assholes to that list. We've never had more available content before in history, it's completely doable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:44 AM
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Can't upvote this enough. This shit is like wanting a prepared meal but ending up with one of those Blue Apron boxes. And instead of giving it away immediately and getting what you want, you put all this work and time into it. But then you get too tired of the process and just hand the full ass meal to someone else. Except this is worse because men will purposefully be shitstains and never apply what you said because you called them out on their inadequacies and now they're angry and pretty like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:24 AM
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Even with this method, be careful. A lot of moms coddle the fuck out of their sons. It's easy to love the person that washes your laundry and cooks for you well into adulthood. Pay attention to relationships with sisters and other women in their lives. His reaction when a woman says "no" is a big one to pay attention to. How do they react towards a woman when she calls him out or disagrees with him or asks something of him? Does he love his mom but his female manager or coworker is a terrible pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:57 PM
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Oh, I didn't think of that. It might be years old...I assumed it wasn't since it sounds like one of those stories that would spread like wildfire on here. Either way I hope she's ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:43 PM
7

I hate when men ask for regular pics, let alone nude ones. I'd rather not willingly cater to the male gaze. They nasty. I do think the female form is beautiful and we shouldn't feel ashamed, or lose our careers, or be dehumanized for being open. Unfortunately we're all in the wrong timeline for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:26 PM
70

Should this be a rescue mission? She sounds almost sympathetic at the end there. This man 100% should never be around people again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:09 PM
34

Manchildren syndrome. Where men fake being the biggest victims in society. But, if they want me to say all penises are beautiful I'll say it. They're all beautiful. The small ones. The noodley ones. I'll write a poem about them if you want. I just won't be fucking those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:03 PM
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This is what really got me out of pickme date thinking. Why the hell was I factoring in "potential to keep date as short as possible" into the date equation?? Because I was agreeing to date shitty men and a part of me knew it. I wanted an out because my standards were too low. So now I use the dinner date rule for many reasons, including reinforcing the idea that I should only date men that I'm interested in spending actual time with. And honestly, if you have nothing to talk about, it'll be a p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:33 PM
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I used to think like that person replying. Never did it ever lead to finding a good man. I haven't been on OLD for all of the pandemic, but once I start dating again things will be different. Also, on top of being cheap, coffee dates are low effort because men tend to have a "date spot" where they take all their first dates. No interest in what you might like and a plan to make the date special. Just the most convenient coffee shop location for him becomes the date spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:15 PM
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Oh no. Their own medicine feels bitter upon their tongue. Women have been trying to be the "bigger person" while explaining to men the sexism we face is valid for a while now. We've tried to lift ourselves up in order to create equity between genders, and men don't support that. It's actively blocked. They'd start a war in order to keep "their preferences" if they had to. Fine. If it takes dragging men down to create equity between genders, then ok. And this is how that feels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:15 PM
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I got heated yesterday on another sub where there's a tv host named Chris being dragged for racist behavior. The post called him a male Ellen. I realized how fucking annoying misogyny is on top of being damaging, I felt so tired of it all. Trash men don't have to be the "male" version of a problematic woman. Trash men are trash on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:51 PM
2

Just men being men. The final form of boys being boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:18 AM
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Men in my family didn't even bother washing plates or making tea. And yes, all the women have full time jobs and some make more money. I have literally no respect for any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 06:55 AM
6

MEMES?! Men have no sense of humor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:20 AM
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Without a doubt the fantasy of the guy is probably better than the reality. If the fantasy is harmless and just nice to daydream about on occasion, then let it be and just realize that it's not reality. But if it's a problem, one actionable thing you could try (that isn't dating other guys) is to figure out the specific qualities you liked about the guy and start building that in yourself. Sometimes it's easy to build up someone from your past because the dating scene is abysmal. I understand th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 02:13 AM
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I think this is partly why Bridgerton was so popular. We haven't had much like it in a while. So many people are starved for romance in movies because the reality of scrotes is so bleak lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:51 AM
1

No boys getting hurt or men getting hurt with a following because we aren't the ones sick in the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:43 AM
3

The bio alone was a hard pass for me and then the picture came.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:38 AM
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Are they legitimately blind and stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:13 AM
11

"Here's a very obvious attempt at trying to manipulate you and the situation so it seems like you were the crazy asshole and I was a wounded but now thriving victim. If I don't hold tightly to the anti-realities I create in my mind I would have to face the likelihood that no one will be around to toss my aged, wrinkled scrote six feet under once I die. I really like to pretend that I'm not miserable and alone and likely to die that way. Thank you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:57 AM
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I'm continuously blown away by how entitled men seem to be. How they push propaganda about men being "better." How victimized they want to paint themselves. How a combination of those things are meant to hold onto the power they have within the patriarchy. I was scrolling through the goodreads recommendations for mystery/thriller books and read through some of the comments below. Someone claimed that the abundance of female authors recommended was "toxic femininity." It didn't even occur to me t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 12:23 AM
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If you've cut off sexist male relatives or friends from your life and at some point you decide to mention this to the person you are dating, pay attention to how they respond. If they immediately jump to trying to find holes in your reasoning, needing to be convinced that you weren't overreacting, dodge that bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:04 PM
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Rant away. I've noticed this exact same thing for years. A man could say "I've finally learned how to wash my ass" and get upvoted and awarded. It's nauseating. And I've noticed men lifted up beyond what they deserve in female spaces too. You see it on youtube pretty clearly. The gaming, tech, finance, comedy spaces are dominated by men as prescribed by the patriarchy, but the fashion, makeup, design, cooking spaces are super likely to lift some random man to the top as well. Women make it easie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:15 PM
10

If I found out anyone in my life went to a prostitute I would immediately go no contact and give no fucks about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:17 AM
3

Honestly, having to pretend to be interested in some old dude's edited stories where he probably is always the angel sounds just as bad as fucking wrinkled dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:08 AM
11

Before men could get away with ignoring the word "no," but now that women are speaking up about enthusiastic consent they've just made it uncool to say the word "no" or have boundaries in general. A quick shift in strategy and essentially nothing has changed for the abusers in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:58 AM
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Mini random rant: among all the things this sub talks about in relation to sex work, something else that recently started to irritate me was how judgement has always been centered on the worker. I was stupidly on another sub and people were purposefully using terms like hooker, prostitute and whore as a "correction" to someone saying sex worker to specifically be disrespectful. Saying things like the women in the scenario are dirty, etc etc. Meanwhile the buyer is so anonymous when judgement is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:38 AM
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And men complain about those shelters for not allowing men. It's really clown world out here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:13 AM
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Let's normalize gossip again. So that Brenda can tell Sally to tell Martha that Chris is shit in bed and a shitty human overall. Save us all a lot of trouble if we actually had a "grapevine."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:51 AM
2

Whatever man wrote this is pure trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:51 AM
7

The scrotiest shit I read today lmao they're so pressed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:34 AM
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Oh noooo, we won't be placemats you say?? And men might leave us alone? What can I do to stop thisssss??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:13 AM
2

Huh. Maybe I should conceal carry, act drunk, and then defend myself properly when someone from the massively entitled scrote population tries to fuck around? Is that what they're trying to tell me to do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:07 AM
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I watched a video of theirs a long time ago and immediately got gross vibes from the guy. I'm glad David is being called out, but that doesn't mean I like Ethan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:53 AM
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Reddit is basically a massive safe space for problematic men where they can exaggerate every perceived problem so they don't have to admit that they were born into massive privilege that greatly contributes to whatever little success they have because they really aren't that great or special or smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:44 AM
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They don't push male birth control but they want to push this shit? Every man that advocates for this should volunteer their bodies for male birth control trials or just keep their mouths shut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:12 AM
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It's a low bar but I'm proud of myself and those of us here that have never thought like this or have stopped thinking like this. I hope she can find someone to help her through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 12:48 AM
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Imagine if it was a woman that kept her debt a secret until the engagement. Imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:43 PM
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Women are also generally very good at picking up subtle hints in body language, we can tell when something feels off. Men admit time and time again that they are idiots that can't do this. They NEED to verbally ask for consent. And men haven't been conditioned from birth to be the accommodating gender. To not make a scene. To keep the peace. Ask whoever you want for consent, but don't try to make it sound like men are the ones afraid of boundaries being bulldozed during sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:37 PM
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I dont know how to tell this guy that cold blooded, non self defence murder is definitely always wrong and it can't be explained away by the mean words people might say that hurt a man's feelings. Also, mighty interesting how a few "stereotypes" can alter a man's behavior to the point of murder but playing first person shooter games every day and watching violent porn are just quaint little harmless hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:47 AM
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Men want like minded men to succeed and get into positions of power so they can keep this global boys club going. We need to encourage more non pickme women into entrepreneurship imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:18 AM
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I also didn't bother! I felt like they tried playing up the sexual tension at the expense of building the female characters and I just couldn't keep going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:11 AM
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Ask around for footage, someone must have something on camera. Report him. Fuck his shit up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:06 AM
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Damn, they really need to start being kink inclusive. What if I like dominating men by having full control of their credit cards? Or porn that depicts male castration of all lvm and only the hvm get to have sex? Or maybe I like to hear him say that women are intellectually superior than men and society has made it this far thanks to women? Maybe the kind of sex that really turns me on is the kind that covertly disempowers men over time while they are made to think its empowering?? Are those allo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:50 AM
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What a sad, pathetic man. He sounds like a terrible role model for a child and yet he insisted on keeping the child because of his ego. Probably thought she would be around to do all the work since men are so used to getting their way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:23 AM
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Epathy led/society focused careers (teaching, mental health workers, caregiving, social workers, etc) would get paid way more. Rape kits would NOT go untested. And rapists would actually see the inside of a cell for an extended period of time. Women wouldn't be called attention whores just for doing cool things or speaking up about our experiences since we'd be recognized as people on a daily basis and it wouldn't be "odd" for a woman to be seen as a complex person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:17 AM
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Fds gets criticized all the live long day and we don't react like that. They're mighty triggered for a group of people so sure that they're the liberated ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:49 AM
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"I don't mean to reduce a woman to a car, but I completely lack empathy and don't really care about her so what do you expect from me?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:53 PM
22

The most imaginative work of fiction I've read all year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:33 PM
53

Blink twice if your bf told you to make this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 11:31 PM
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There are so many reasons to actively work to dismantle these harmful stereotypes, but there's one that finally clicked in my mind recently that I want to bring up. At least for me, it hit me that my internal belifs about others applied to me as well, at the very least on a subconscious level. My brain isn't actually going to separate how I see myself and how I see the world. So if I think that only corrupt assholes end up successful in this world, I'm essentially barring myself from success unl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:55 PM
21

Oh fuck that. I'm of the opinion that women can absolutely eviscerated men with our words if we want, in a way they really couldn't keep up with if we all just left behind any pickme tendencies. If you can't take it don't dish it, play stupid games win stupid prizes, etc etc. 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:08 AM
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I feel like it's a creepy control thing. Reasons don't matter too much, but making this request annoys me to new levels. Post fds this is a personal block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:01 AM
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Damn, women really are dumpster diving for men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:55 AM
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I can't think of anything completely fds friendly, but these I would rewatch. Dead to me - dark comedy, focus of female friendship Halt and catch fire - drama that focuses on early tech, balanced cast with early focus on some men, but the women are actually important and not just the token representation Veronica mars - some triggering content so just check in advance, but it focuses on a bad ass, witty investigator. She makes poor choices when it comes to the guys she likes though...so yeah Gil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:42 AM
3

This really isn't even a joke. I was on wsb today and there was a post about doing something "nice" like the dishes or laundry as a way of managing emotions after a bad day. Something nice. Can you believe that? As if being a functioning human is going above and beyond. After losing a ton of money no less. Maybe the general lack of emotional inteligence in males is why AI is taking so long to feel human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 08:16 AM
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He's done over the mention of an open relationship, which I'm betting she brought up in order to "shock" him into realizing he wants to marry her and never have an open relationship. He was absolutely looking for a legitimate out this whole time and never actually cared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:58 AM
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When you're a good person with empathy you have to experience a lot of this shit before you realize that some people are that terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:32 AM
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It can be a number of things, but some I've noticed: 1. Wanting to create a hierarchy among women in which they are somehow on top 2. Being brainwashed into thinking men actually have it so hard so this feels like women taking advantage of a man (and we all know women will police other women but men don't police other men) 3. Having an intuitive understanding that women are seen as a collective rather than individuals, then this is coupled with gold digger propaganda and women try to shame other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:22 AM
12

Can someone file an official complaint with the authorities in charge of evolution? Because men still having ape ass is a real problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:16 AM
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You know how your starting salary at a job is important because a raise isn't really a guarantee? And how typically your work situation only massively upgrades when you get a new one? Men are the same way. Standards up front are key. And the only way to fundamentally upgrade the relationship that isn't working is to get a new man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:40 AM
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Just as an aside, I've seen comments where men talk about pretending to live somewhere and suggest a "halfway" point that's actually in their town. If your date suggests something low effort, I wouldn't be surprised if he made up a few alternative facts in order to trick you into driving to him. Just another reason never to entertain LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:07 AM
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I used to listen to a show like this too! It always rubbed me the wrong way that the female host would also take the guy's side 9 times out of 10. Idk if it's the same show, but on mine the only person that seemed to kind of empathize with the woman in situations like this and call dudes out when they were being creepy was the guy in the background that laughed a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:45 AM
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You have to maintain the idea that it's effortless. Applies to food choices too, you have to be a size 0 but eat like a dude. They all "love a girl that eats real food and not just salad" on a date but don't you dare have a few extra pounds. It's so idiotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:26 AM
4

The entire globe is geared to favor men. If you have male privilege, and especially cis white male privilege, and still manage to be a complete scrub...then you ain't the one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 01:03 AM
5

Not all ken are like that. Some are worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:53 AM
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I hit the wall last year. A literal wall that knocked some much needed sense into my head and now I don't associate with shitty men (people in general really). Small men hate the leveling up that comes naturally to a lot of women as we age by demonizing the ages where massive change occurs. They hope it'll scare people into sleeping with or settling for lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:19 AM
9

Easy enough to find and tag an employer on Facebook. If he even has a job, which is seriously unlikely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:06 AM
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So simply put and completely true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:02 AM
6

Just like their height, their dicks, and their looks - they overestimate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:48 AM
8

This is so true! If I had a penny for every "my gfs pet loves me more than her now" story 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:41 AM
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Women staying with crusty ass men when they could do 1000 times better proves the exact opposite. There must be a word for the ways these men project every last terrible quality they have onto women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:05 AM
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I have a feeling the more fds becomes popular the more male mods will censor speech that goes against their best interest. Try to control the narrative as much as possible so people keep thinking casual sex is the norm. The massive male ecochamber on reddit was the only reason I thought any of this was normal before fds. As always, thank god for the mods here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 05:37 AM
3

When you have a face like that and still have the audacity. Do women find guys like this actually attractive? Is that why they think they can get away with LV shit like this? I see nothing attractive. Not before or after he opened his mouth. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:41 AM
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They want SO BAD to have all the power and also be seen as the true victims of this world. No, dear buttcrumbs, getting kicked in the balls is nowhere near as bad as childbirth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:13 AM
5

You know whats less embarrassing than honest work? Being a completely useless leech!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:03 AM
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Oh nooooo, they think we care about what they have to say? Bless their hearts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:05 AM
8

They find a new way to be completely disgusting every day. I really doubt that they have any humanity at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:48 AM
13

I read your title and thought "honestly, man hating is part of the self improvement" - if this place is benefitting so many women in a similar way, then I think we're onto something. It's hard to explain, but I feel a deeper psychological shift thanks to FDS just by feeling so fucking seen and safe here. And that shift is snowballing into massive improvements irl for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:56 AM
23

Seeing this right after the post about that incel being sad that he can't get sex because he's too broke...I'm dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:45 AM
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I hated those edits back when I was on main reddit. Honestly, I wouldn't mind more female only spaces in the real world too. Like a ladies night at bars that is literally women only. Or a women's only room at the library (my library gets hella creepy dudes sometimes). We can do a men only version too since you know they'll complain even if they have no desire for those spaces lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:42 AM
10

Oh boy I hope this isn't real...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:35 AM
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Sounds like something an abuser would say. As always, safety first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:43 AM
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Not a CHANCE of them noticing anything if it wasn't for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:29 AM
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She can be a scrote too, then. Women can be scrotes too, let's make it a gender neutral term like b*tch supposedly is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:53 AM
10

We don't date men that haven't gone to therapy to do their own work and that means we "hate men." But men literally target women with "daddy issues" to exploit them for "kinky sex" and it doesn't even cross their minds to think twice about how sick that is. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:37 AM
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This makes sense. It has a good deal to do with what they aren't taught. They aren't taught to constantly look over their shoulder and to be on constant defense in the world. They aren't taught to hyper-focus on their bodies from a young age. No worries about shorts that are too short or tank tops with straps too thin in middle school. They aren't taught to be overly careful of everyone else's feelings turning them into people pleasers. The list goes on...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 12:50 AM
4

Max age is recommended because that's what insurance covers. Nothing to do with if the vaccine will benefit you as far as I know. Just a matter of sexist policy because older women should be good married women who trust their partner implicitly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:25 PM
5

AND they pretend like that means they're fine. Dated a guy who tested negative for a regular screening. It later came up that his ex had HPV so most likely he got it too but since they can't test it for men it doesn't exist and isn't worth mentioning, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:22 PM
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I agree, as a woman I wanted to reclaim it, and I used to say things like "yes b*tch" in a fun way with friends. But as a woman in the society we live in, I feel like it doesn't make sense. Maybe I'm in a bubble, but I haven't noticed that people start using a new racist word every few years. However, the same isn't true for derogatory terms towards women. Men always come up with new shit. When gen z started casually using the word "thot" as a new way to shit on women, it really started to feel …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:06 PM
5

Imagine feeling in your gut that men really ain't shit and you decide you have to manipulate women via a reddit post to keep more women from realizing the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:38 PM
4

When I tell you I gasped out loud...this poor woman I feel so bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:50 PM
3

Indeed the exact sentence that got me thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 10:08 AM
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"If all feminism upheld the patriarchy like libfem, then we wouldn't have a problem!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:59 AM
2

Honestly maybe FDS should do this. I'd volunteer my time to the coding aspect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:11 AM
1

Not to mention the site "the dirty" where post after post trashes women with the occasional man thrown in here and there. And it's been around for over a decade I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:10 AM
2

I do love it when I can put a face to a scrote. Fuck this pathetic asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:01 AM
9

Next thing you know they can't handle their bottled up emotions and somehow blame women for not playing therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:21 AM
2

The hard to get narrative - I have no idea how that's such a common idea. I literally have never EVER known a woman or girl to do this. Men are absolutely kidding themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 07:18 AM
3

I think the ideal scenario is where he reaches for the check right away and literally says something along the lines of "let me get it." I feel like that gives you the opportunity to be thankful without having to offer to split out of politeness. But that rarely happens. What I did pre FDS was keep the conversation going. If he didn't reach for his wallet in a non-awkward amount of time (something you just have to feel out), I would reach for mine and that would be that. I wouldn't see the guy a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:30 AM
1

Mad yikes. How is this real?? I'm suspish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:24 PM
49

Tell him he should have communicated that expectation before the trip because you're not a mind reader. Then block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:57 PM
52

Oh look, our daily reminder not to fuck with small, insecure men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:46 PM
177

Ladies, this shit happens more than you think, and I honestly think it comes back to men wanting to control women. I know a few CF women who have dated men that were on board with it early on and then get pissy about it later. They don't actually want to be a father, what they want is the woman to be so in love that she changes her values for her partner. That's what this man wanted. Probably with a little jealousy about her career thrown in there. Nothing but selfish intentions. And if you do w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:23 AM
30

That stood out to me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:14 AM
6

I love this! And I definitely encourage you to try everything you have the slightest interest in. Post breaking up with my nex and pre-covid, I went to a filmmakers meetup in my city. I almost didn't go for all the reasons people tend to talk themselves out of things, but I did end up there. And the whole thing felt magical...it was completely new to me and I didn't think I'd like it that much but I loved it. I want that feeling back once we're out of this pandemic, and I want it for everyone el…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:10 PM
5

This comes across as someone trying to feel good about their personal life decisions by trying to make them popular life decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:58 PM
14

This is obviously such a cope but I wish it wasn't. All those commenters absolutely should stop pursuing/having sex with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:36 PM
4

You know the idea about being the main character in your own life? We apparently weren't given that right. It was always about shining the light on someone else, being the best supporting actress. And apparently, the only way we can be the main character is if we're the villain. Personally, I'm fully ok with that role thanks to the community of women here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:15 PM
15

I've definitely had similar thoughts. It's yet another reason I love FDS so much. If men continue to be so deeply problematic, then all I can do is shift my focus to women and try my best to get us as a group to want better for ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:26 PM
1

I hope so. I absolutely have my doubts about that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:52 PM
33

I mean, go for it. It's like an anti trophy wife, at best. You're so unattractive, broke, and generally unpleasant that no woman wants to be with you and here's a doll that symbolizes just that for the world to see. The average man really doesn't understand social hierarchy, does he?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:05 AM
72

I don't think these men care about what's in the best interest of children. They just care about their dollar store genes being passed on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:00 AM
205

Grown men will make fun of TEEN GIRLS for liking and doing regular teen girl things. It starts so young. I don't understand how they aren't embarrassed to be that way, it obviously must stem from deep insecurities to target an entire gender for no reason at all. Let alone children of that gender.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:54 AM
10

Hip hop/rap is becoming super unappealing to me for this reason. I used to love it as dance or workout music...but now I try to be careful about what specific songs I pick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:40 PM
177

I apply some advice here to friendships as well. At it's core this place is about not entertaining people that negatively affect your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:16 PM
6

When he can't take care of himself one day, I hope he doesn't expect his kids to visit him or care for him. I have a feeling none of this is going to go the way he thinks, and I hope this woman doesn't take him back when he comes crawling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:42 AM
3

Oh yay. Liberal women needing to make sure they consider equality from a man's perspective after a dv charge so they don't seem too feminist 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:22 AM
33

Lemme just go vomit on your behalf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:01 AM
11

Feels like classic repositioning of a problem women are having by making it about how sad he is about the situation. So even if there are women that are starting to feel like there's more truth than fiction here, now they will instead concern themselves with how men are feeling about it. Also, a lot of posts here are reposts from other subs of bad behavior. We aren't painting them as monsters, they do that themselves. And the reposts are quite low when it comes to "shitty man example" posts beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:47 AM
11

Is this like a Flintstone's car??? WTF is the big deal about driving to see his gf? I hate this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:58 AM
15

So many women think they're dating when really they're attending "meetings". lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:52 AM
2

This makes me so mad for the women in your field. What the actual fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:45 AM
16

Exactly what I was thinking. They could just leave her be and not date her if they're so worried about it, but no. They're SO invested in changing her, to get her to lower her standards. Is it as simple as crabs in a bucket or is it way more messed up, idk, but I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:38 AM
2

I'm just watching now and the way he manipulates is pretty wild. And the way he loses his mind about keeping the relationship (i.e. his bad behavior) private??? I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:50 AM
15

They mad. They sad. They ugly. Then they get madder because in their heart of hearts they know FDS is the inverse of incels. They are involuntarily celibate and sad about it. FDS is voluntarily celibate and magically become happier as a result lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:19 AM
14

I was drinking "give him a chance" Kool-Aid when I dated a guy with brown bedsheets. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:14 AM
2

Does his emotional range match the size of his dick? I wonder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:57 AM
3

Here's one. It'll probably show similar videos in the recommended videos once you watch one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:24 AM
1

I wish I was there just to cheer you on from the sidelines like it's a football game or some shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:47 AM
37

Oh ryan, you fucking clown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:21 AM
69

I'm thinking about my list and they all watched the office on repeat, had an inflated ego because of their opinions on beer and music (why???) and...that's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:12 AM
49

Mr. Man Taint can call it whatever the fuck he wants. I'll still wait to have sex. Because being pressured into it too early did 👏🏽 not 👏🏽 serve 👏🏽 me 👏🏽 Mostly it led to me keeping shit men around way too long because there was an artificial closeness. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:54 AM
3

Ask during the date to split the bill, scrotes. Communication is key, after all. Don't throw a tantrum after your failed dates like a little boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:59 AM
1

Imagine a man proving to you that you dodged a cheap ass bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:49 AM
43

Just in case someone needs to see this. Youtube took me down a storytime rabbit hole of women talking about weird encounters that they think were probably a sex trafficking setup. Ladies, trust your gut and don't be afraid to be rude. Society conditioning women to be nice is the most fucked up thing. Watch some of the videos if you have time, it got me thinking back to incidents I thought were just "scams" but could have been wayyy worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:36 PM
57

Literally no one here is stopping them from going their own way forever. But thats not what they want. Mgtow is more like "men pretending to go their own way but really they want pickme women bending over backwards to prove themselves as worth dating." Fuck that. Boy bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:32 PM
10

I thought you guys were going to be 15 year olds with the burger king date...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:10 AM
3

This is the kind of man that cries about men's rights because his wife got custody of the kids he didn't really want custody of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:36 AM
17

That's what I was thinking. You just know that he's so far removed from any man that actually fought in war, yet he brings it up as if he's personally defended his country. Meanwhile every human has a mother that went through labor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:12 AM
69

They keep saying younger generations aren't having children. They might want to consider this, tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:10 AM
34

BTW I don't think we're allowed to link to other subs? Maybe edit the post just in case?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:07 AM
196

Women aren't allowed to explore THEIR sexuality. Only the sexual flavor of the hour, as decided by LVM. Be it virginity or violence. This is a tale as old as time, we just have to be stronger in our convictions. And it's why fds is so hated - it helps women stay strong. I hope she realizes everyone in the comments and her bf can go fuck themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:06 AM
4

Every once in a while two very low value people meet and it's the beginning of a dysfunctional love story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:58 PM
47

Feels very choosing beggars to me. The amount of men crying about their dating/sex life makes me think this man is actually just an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:53 PM
29

The real pink viagra is turning shit men into HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:41 PM
8

No saying like that for boys? Guess I could have been kneeing them in the balls with zero push back all these years?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:39 PM
7

Full facts. I've known stupid enough men that let this come out of their own mouths. "Women my age are too damaged/have too much baggage."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:31 PM
50

I mean, I think its a good thing he doesn't like real women. Leave us the fuck alone you weird creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:26 PM
5

I guess he's also implying that the quality of men has been in the gutter since the dawn of time. Not wrong there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:21 PM
3

I've always loved creative hobbies, but I've just started getting more into learning art history and such. Anyway, something I've noticed over the years is that men in my experience tend to like the explanation of "maybe it doesn't mean anything" - talking about literature, poetry, and now I'm learning, famous artwork as well. It's always a dude I've noticed that makes this point like it's a good one. They really do lack emotional depth and the ability to interpret meaning out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:57 PM
8

At the end of the day it's plain old misogyny. His stomach would still turn if it were men being tortured/degraded/used in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:49 PM
4

This is all obviously LV, but it shouldn't affect any of us here. If they want easy sex then they are free to go looking. They know where the door is. Lock that shit behind him and then block/delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 02:21 AM
5

No his ass don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:17 AM
23

Men refuse to listen to the facts. I always see them trying to talk their way out of this aspect of their privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:44 AM
31

The kind of man that wants you to approach is the kind of man that doesn't wash his ass and is going to have you second guessing yourself on a reddit relationship sub. These men belong to the streets, let him run wild with the rats and shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:33 AM
5

Dated an ugly one and he was boring and a shitty person so 🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:23 AM
11

Does this man realize how fucking small, insecure, and stupid he is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:22 AM
1

Shrivel dick, no thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:04 AM
61

Identifying red flags and signs of abuse in relationships needs to be part of sex education. It wouldn't fix everything but it would be a start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:58 AM
10

I hope it's not really his baby. His swimmers aren't exactly youthful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:33 AM
7

Constructive: leave women alone. Criticism: you ain't shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:05 AM
4

This man is snowflaking because he's second priority after his own fucking CHILDREN. What a truly disgusting human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:03 AM
5

Little do they know the actual value of a male compliment. The only thing that hasn't seen a single gain in our decade long bull market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:50 AM
8

No, fuck that. She did something AWESOME. That's a small, sad, scrote of a man. She's clearly good at achieving goals, she should aim to make hella more money than him and then see the tantrum his pathetic ass throws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:40 AM
6

Men can pretend for a long time. Ask his sisters if he has them. At the very least they'll probably lie worse than him. In my case I'll tell you straight up that his status is lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:35 AM
12

Right? This behavior is only an issue if women allow it in their lives. They act up, you leave, you're still a queen. I see no problems lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:26 AM
2

Is this shit illegal yet? Should go on their fucking records.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:23 AM
13

Ciara is beautiful. Chris over there has dick so far down his throat he wouldn't see a gorgeous, successful woman if she stood next to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:08 AM
2

Why the hell is he pushing this idea that you didn't say thanks? Was it not gushy and extra enough for him or something? So he had to block it out completely?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:44 AM
15

Take the money out of it. Do you still have a relationship? How does he engage emotionally? Does he cook your favorite meal just because? Does he want to know about your problems and your windows? Does he volunteer for charities? Contribute to his community?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:27 AM
15

Sometimes misery loves company. Consider if they truly want the best for you because they might not. Typically, I think about it for a second and realize that I wouldn't have done what they did if I were them. Then I distance myself from shitty people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:53 AM
3

There's no way he doesn't know this is disrespectful. His true colors are coming out now that it's been a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:36 AM
11

Best advice ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:31 AM
6

You know that man is going to make her miserable :( why why why have babies with men like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:50 AM
16

Imagine what your life would have to look like to karma farm on askmen or some shit. I would never lmao. Karma farm away, boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:00 AM
23

I would love to see a picture of the contents of that gift basket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:32 AM
52

Yeah, I think legitimately hot guys can get away with a netflix and chill first date seeing as the bar is still in hell. Sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:51 AM
7

Is there something in the air? I got a text from a guy I went on ONE date with maybe 4 YEARS ago. And it ended bad because he wouldn't stop trying to convince me to see him again and I yelled at him. This is before I knew how awesome blocking and deleting is, thank God that finally sunk into my brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:45 AM
2

Maybe it's worth testing out? Do the thing with your whole heart, get your hopes up about a fun day and let it happen. Tell yourself you are worth it and the relationship is worth it. Don't let your doubts in for the day. And then reflect on how it all went the next day. Maybe you're just not into holidays like this, but maybe your past is really getting in your way and has wormed its way deeper into your mind than you fully realize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:12 AM
7

This is awful. I don't want to suggest anything wild since I don't know how much power he has in the workplace. Limit contact as much as you can and stay safe. This guy is fucked uuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:01 AM
9

Congrats on all of this. Working on your mental health and self improvement is legit hard work and you should be proud!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:52 AM
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If this is real, how embarrassing for him. If this is staged, how embarrassing for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:46 AM
10

There may be an argument for you can't be smart/successful and a pickme at once. Catering to LV men takes up too much time and energy for no ROI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:38 AM
21

You see, men have two brains. And those with a small penis have the unfortunate side effect of a very, very small second brain. All interactions with women are conducted through this second brain and leads to very embarrassing moments for the men in question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:36 AM
32

Those girls would never hook up with him. But if they wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:15 AM
102

Rape and cold blooded murder (not talking about self defense) are some of the crimes I'll never forgive. Go through the justice system and serve your time, but I don't care. Every fiber of your being is trash to me, forever. I don't even want your body buried in the fucking ground after you die because the earth deserves better than filth like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:08 AM
9

They think it'll offend us like it offends them, but we have confidence that's been earned through working on ourselves and not putting up with LVM. Frankly the majority of men are low value, but the majority of women are not. That bothers them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:23 PM
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Because in their minds the ultimate responsibility is on the woman to get an abortion. They start shitting bricks if the woman doesn't actually want that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:10 PM
18

I think it's such a selfless thing you're doing! Men that don't see it for what it is are basically taking the trash out - let them go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:05 AM
67

I think I've always been FDS intellectually, but haven't always been the best at putting it into practice. Low effort dates, splitting the bill, and giving second chances were things I did despite my brain yelling at me. I think the libfem voice was loud and I was listening to it. I didn't practice blocking shitty people, that's something I'll do going forward. I didn't need this community to wake me up too much, but I think it's an important place for me keep these new promises to myself. I'll …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:00 AM
2

Seriously can't remember the last time I asked a man to do anything. I have google and I'm better than every man I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:16 AM
6

I do agree. I just wonder how do you help someone that's this far into some awful shit? When they are no doubt part of communities that see no wrong with something like this under the bullshit of "two adults consenting" and "no kinkshaming."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:03 AM
6

This reminds me of when I made fun of some game on tv, some sarcastic comment about how awesome the guy must be because he can sports well. My negative value brother called that misandry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:49 AM
3

But it's women that can't keep a conversation going. Lmfao, these men are dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:41 AM
21

That sweet, sweet cocktail of male delusion and male privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:39 AM
11

I'm not a mom and I don't really plan to be, but this double standard always makes me rage. The praise that men get for following through on the responsibility they signed up for and the lack of criticism for being dead beats is astonishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:16 AM
21

Oh, you want to give the daily example that men set a name or something? Let's call him Chris. Chris is teaching me that men ain't shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:38 PM
2

Trash men protect other trash men. That's how they get away with heinous behavior with a slap on the wrist, if that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:50 AM
4

Trust me girl, men that treat people badly are the kind of trash that can't be upcycled. I guarantee there's nothing fundamentally different about him as a person, he's probably just incrementally better at hiding it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:15 AM
5

I've absolutely noticed this over the years. The best course of action for me has been to realize that they're essentially idiots and I don't give a flying fuck what comes out of an idiot man's mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:46 AM
10

When they come this fucking hard, this fucking sideways you KNOW you're doing something right as a woman. This hate only convinces me that there's no greater freedom than not giving the time of day to LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:40 AM
12

Why do these dogs insist on proving FDS women right? They hate that we think HVM are an endangered species and then turn around and say the most trash things without blinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:03 AM
11

Lol, she deserves every fucking cent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:58 AM
12

I already know scrotes be sickening. But this is just proof poitive that we as a society are fucking failing our girls if they grow up to be women that has it in them to put up with shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:34 AM
8

It's hilarious seeing it written out like that. Those are literally the only things that makes us "not feminists" - not overextending financially in a society structured to give men the majority of wealth, not thinking female bodies on sale for the lowest common scrote is a good thing, waiting to have sex, and actually judging men on what they bring to the table rather than some vague possible potential we see in them. This is the least offensive shit. I'm not sure why they care so much anyway, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:03 AM
40

WHAT?! Imagine being so fucking useless you force your wife to shut down the business that supports the damn family. Honestly, for every woman that dodges a bullet there's another that steps right in front of a cannon ball. I feel so bad for that woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:32 AM
17

Every. Time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:06 AM
10

I'll have to check this out just for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:05 AM
2

My jaw is on the fucking floor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:27 AM
5

These men are pigs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:56 AM
46

Don't stop looking for the right therapist. Some honestly suck and could do more harm than good. Be critical there because it's important, but don't give up on it. Good luck 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 01:29 AM
4

Tell 👏🏽 me 👏🏽 about 👏🏽 it 👏🏽 lol A legitimate female only space on reddit has done wonders. I was on the libfem kool-aid before and it makes it so hard to properly stand up for yourself and other women when you have to consistently consider how that "femiinist" image comes across to men. Is it inviting enough? Does it include men enough? Maybe we should make it sexy since sex sells? Meanwhile toxic men go on their women hating diatribes without a second thought to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:11 AM
2

If I'm remembering correctly, that post just said girth. Which could mean liking little needle dicks OR thiccc dick. My, my how they project.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:03 AM
2

Interestingly enough, I feel like the tower card in the tarot is a good representation of what this sub does for people. It shakes up a lot of shit and rocks your world a lot if you're not ready for it, but you come out the other end so much stronger and better prepared for the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:36 AM
3

I also got the scrote vaccine and am no longer triggered by them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:32 AM
5

Men have been spoiled by receiving unconditional love, support, and attention from women for a long time. FDS advocating for women to not consider romantic love as unconditional love gives them a little taste of what women deal with and they don't like it. Standards is oppression to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:28 AM
22

ALL PROJECTION. I once went on a few dates with a much older dude that "didn't like dating women in his age range because they have baggage." Yeah, he had an ex and a CHILD in another state that he pranced away from and also was an ex con (coke dealer or something). Also lied about his age to me on OLD until we were actually on our date. Reddit can villainize FDS all it wants, my ass staying put.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:01 AM
4

I'm sure other people have said it here, but if you ask for a test or have symptoms dismissed or any other kind of fuckery, MAKE SURE to ask Dr. Asshole to write it down and date it in your chart that you asked for something they refused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:02 AM
9

This pisses me off so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:00 AM
2

I remember when a friend of mine got engaged it was at the breakfast place she would always go to with her partner. And like, not that cute of a place considering all the options we have in my city. It was so...blah. He didn't even have a plan for someone to take pics or anything, some random person decided to do that at the time and those are the pictures she has. She was thrilled though, because she's very much a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:01 AM
2

JUNGLE ASIAN AND THE N WORD?!?! I just.... Glad you left that filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:12 AM
4

My HVM bff also never yells. Not even in general. Not even at the tv. I've never even seen him with an attitude. Such a rare thing, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:41 AM
6

Not only have they stacked the deck so they dominate the industries that society deems important, but pickme women seem to fall over themselves to include them in traditionally "feminine" spaces. If a man goes into interior design, fashion, makeup, etc. it always seems like they get nothing but support and praise, even if they're flat out untalented. I'm not saying there aren't some men that are talented in these areas and deserve recognition, I'm just saying if they got a fraction of the push b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 07:30 AM
23

I remember when fb was first a thing my friend circle went through the phase where we were "married to" our best girlfriend. Even now I think about how much more rewarding it would be to build a home and family with my best friend instead of a guy based on all the guys I've known. But yeah, still straight, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:50 AM
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Atwood's quote comes to mind, "you are a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur." I think we've all been socialized to prioritize our looks. Even without the direct male gaze the concept of the male gaze still remains in many situations. BUT I think we do have our moments where we snap out of this and do see the beauty in ourselves that doesn't depend on society's standards. Also, I think there's room for debate on how much of that socialization is tied to the male gaz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:35 AM
4

Imagine if the roles were reversed. Like women decided to turn the mistreatment of American vets as a "let's specifically remember that female vets are also mistreated" problem. Fucking imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:41 AM
73

While powerful to use as a tool, it's still annoying to hear that men equate the two. For one, a group of women bullying a man is practically a nonissue. We're so socialized out of it, that's the whole problem that I'm seeing. Also, men catcall women unprovoked. Women hardly get together to laugh at a man's face, and even more rarely would they do so unprovoked. Not to mention that if any person had to pick rape or ridicule, I don't think they would pick the former. Men will never understand the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:30 AM
7

🎵 Scrotes are scum 🎵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:03 AM
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YES. I feel like I'm taking crazy pills when I rant about the way society pushed and then demonized this "mean girl clique" idea. The idea of women going to the bathroom together also saw its day of ridicule. And the "cool girls" that I know stopped doing it. Anything women do in groups is demonized because that's where we are so so powerful. Behavior like this isn't mean, it's protective. Groups of girls aren't automatically catty, they're likely protective. Teens in general have a lot of matur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:53 PM
8

All I'm seeing is that the guy in the post is a rapist and the guy commenting is a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:30 AM
22

I can only imagine. They already hate the "idiot husband" trope in sitcoms. Despite the fact that it's basically true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:24 AM
269

Bingo. 27 is too old when you're looking for your next victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:19 AM
15

I hate the hypocrisy so so much. Thanks for the award 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:00 AM
15

If it helps, I know people that had all the experience but never learned or grew. You definitely still have time. And keep the journaling simple. You can't control the fact that a lot of men don't have basic decency, but the point of building your intuition is to be able to guess pretty well if they fall into that group almost just by observing them. Write down the basics about them, what you talked about, and anything bad or good that happened. You'll eventually notice some patterns that will h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:15 PM
114

Men: I can beat a professional female athlete with no training or any kind of conditioning whatsoever. Also men: Are you kidding? A petite FeMaLe is just as threatening to men and men are the true VICTIMS in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:52 PM
58

I can't address everything I want to right now, but I'll give you the strategy I'd use if I were you. 1. Stick to brunch dates and lunch dates. In your specific case I would think daytime coffee dates might be ok because you don't need to look for a HVM right away, for me the first step would be to build your experience. For a lot of us these crap dates are part of the experience that builds intuition on when things are off about a guy. 2. Journal about your dates. Sometimes you aren't even posi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:48 PM
1

I love a happy ending 👏🏽👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:30 PM
18

They just prove over and over again how not worth it they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:05 AM
136

They straight up said shit like this when that psycho with the manifesto went around and killed a bunch of people because women wouldn't sleep with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:03 AM
8

The fact that he keeps attacking the concept of her getting therapy is fucking telling. Not to mention laughing it off when she tries to legitimately talk to him about it. This man is a fucking rapist. He belongs in a cell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:50 AM
14

Lol this guy is a prick and massively stupid on top of that. Fathers don't need gold stars in order to keep parenting. Parenting their children competently is their fucking job. Not to mention, you were able to have a "fun KFC weekend" with your fucktard father and remember it fondly because your mom did the actual adult work of giving a crap about keeping her kids healthy the rest of the year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:01 AM
47

I'm convinced the lack of women in the field is why we have so many cold cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:48 AM
10

Thank god for this community. I'm watching people's takes on YouTube and all I see are the same old "it's just a fantasy," "consenting adults," " don't kink shame" bs. Go back a few years and my brain would have accepted that maybe it's not a big deal. But no, it's gross and creepy and dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:34 AM
24

I have zero doubt that there is at least one man out there saving only fans pics just to ruin someone after they leave that scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:54 AM
37

So many comment about going back to not washing their hands in post Corona times. They make it sound like they're joking but they aren't. This pandemic has thoroughly turned me off the whole group of them, tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:40 AM
8

I've never looked at it this way....fuck that's dark
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:06 AM
3

One or two years...how ever will I know what that's like? Surely a pandemic where I haven't so much as spoken to a man online should have me feeling such despair as this? But then why do I feel so great? Why am I thriving? Gosh, those poor men truly are the victims of society. To be so mentally and emotionally weak must be so hard in the harsh climate of 2021. I shall write to the incoming first lady at once. In hopes that this worthy cause takes her time and energy during her stay at the white …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:48 AM
14

Not much has changed in some households...speaking from experience. Minor rant incoming, this exact dynamic is something I've fought my family over since I was a kid. It barely changed anything but I felt less like the bad person for not doing the "girl chores" as time went on because I had an argument that couldn't be argued against. Then my pickme sister in law comes through and fucks everything up by playing into this exactly. All of my fighting back and she just reinforces all these toxic dy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:34 AM
9

They want to be victims so bad, I honestly think it might be some kind of disorder. Is this something narcissists do? Play the victim when they are in fact the problem? So many of them think this way too, it's mind blowing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:20 AM
3

That's rape. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:52 AM
1

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:37 AM
56

And you know scrotes will somehow try and defend this absolute horrid, sick shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:32 AM
3

Trying to communicate with a man is like trying to use homeopathy to cure cancer. Just cut that tumor out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:18 AM
7

I was irritated 10 minutes in with that sex against a tree scene...like, why is something depicted as "enjoyable" always actually uncomfortable irl for woman??? Plus all the rest of what you said. I'm on the first episode and had to come here to vent lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:36 AM
6

HA! These are accurate takes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:20 AM
5

I used to pay close attention to this on okc way back when I was on it. If the guy didn't have female writers/protagonists/singers in their lists of favorite books/movies/shows/music it was a reddish flag, at least. Needless to say, most men had simple scrote tastes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:58 AM
1

God, do I love it when they advertise their stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:38 AM
3

I don't even care if this trend is satire...it's stupid. Aren't jokes supposed to punch up? It's one thing if the pickme gf thing was properly exaggerated for the right affect, but I bet she cooks for him in real life?? Except now he gets to call her a bitch? Like, WHAT???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:27 PM
4

Female sexuality is empowering, and straight up powerful as well, but selling it to trashy men who don't give a fuck about you or respect female sexuality ain't it. I'm in favor of protecting sex workers but I'm not in favor of supporting the industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:01 PM
42

The first time I heard of the word "butterface" was when a guy in my dorm was talking about an actual woman. He had the audacity to straight face tell me what it meant when I asked. He's now bald (with a head shape that doesn't help at all) and fat. He would hate this joke and get his nuts in a twist over it. It's the karma of it all that makes me smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:51 AM
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I think it boils down to a couple things. 1. The timing in the man's life, and 2. The general conditioning women go through to please men. So what I bet happens is that a man finally reaches the "wife and kids" checkbox on his to-do list (once the career feels secure and after the fboy phase OR once he hits a dead end and doesn't know what else to do) and he kind of instantly ends up with the best woman in the dating pool at that time. And because women are so conditioned to go out of their way …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 07:06 AM
11

This reminds me of that story where some athlete knocked out his gf in an elevator because she pushed him or something? And then dragged her out and every worthless scrote on reddit defended it by claiming "self defense." Makes me think I need a gun so I can practice their brand of self defense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:30 AM
2

I wish a master list of every man that ever bought sex was released to the wild. Need that cheat sheet because as much as they push women to consider this shit empowering they will never admit that they've bee a john.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:23 AM
1

I wonder if she gets 4 hours of solid sleep a day. Let alone 4-10 for a hobby. Sheesh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:11 AM
9

Too true. It's funny because I really think women are naturally better at it too, yet they'll forever refuse to learn from one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:00 AM
8

Please tell me you don't try and teach them shit so they can piss away their cash on options they don't understand?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:49 AM
6

Your life sounds dope af. I'd be interested in any reading recs too, if you have any favorites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:41 AM
13

Said all the basic fboy things you can think of. And I believed it. Until it came up that I wasn't ready to have sex, then all of a sudden he "wasn't ready for a relationship."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:02 AM
7

We need FDS Fairytales for Little Girls with real life lessons like these
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:22 AM
7

I belly dance. I feel very "in my power" as a woman when I do, so I love it. Performing kinds ruins that, the male gaze just fucks everything up lol. But I still love dancing solo or with other women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:19 AM
4

Red pillers and mgtow were able to spew their toxic shit all over the place since the beginning. But FDS comes along and all of a sudden it's all a problem. Funny that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:15 AM
13

How do women stay attracted to this shit? How??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:35 AM
12

I'm on board with this. On past accounts I'd waste my breath in other subs arguing with the lowest men about their sexist and racist opinions. I'd "give guys a chance" that didn't deserve it on dating apps because of the insane "poor men" propaganda. The best thing this sub did was get me away from wasting my time. Those people exist. Period. They will always exist. My job is to keep them out of my life because we don't fuck with that kind of energy in this house. There is nothing better than th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:28 AM
3

Lol why are men so disgusting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:03 AM
8

Huh, I always wondered why creepy old guys would go to clubs for 21-26 ish crowd...never considered that it's probably scrotes with red pill delusions of suddenly being considered hot to young women 🤣 Oh boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:58 AM
19

Don't get married, but like also don't have his baby or live with him either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:43 AM
3

And on the flip side, don't stop yourself from doing/saying things in order to keep the peace or impress a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:08 AM
4

Oh hell no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:10 AM
9

It's always the stank nasty men with these stupid ideas in their tiny little brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:26 AM
7

These stories always make my skin crawl. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:20 PM
9

Men: Be clear and communicate, we aren't mind readers and are denser than rhino shit. Also men: Obviously tinder is for hooking up, it's in the invisible rules. You don't have to write it in your bio, it's implied. And if a woman says no hookups in her bio, obvs she just wants sex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:13 AM
3

Oh, you don't know? Women are never funny. When they say something that triggers you, it's because they are definitely being rude. Men are always possibly joking. You can never be mad at what they say until you communicate your concerns and they brush them off because obviously it was a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:22 AM
3

Exactly. You don't magically start talking to people well out of your age range as a highschooler. I have a younger sibling and I still hardly engaged with people that much younger than me while in high school because we had actually nothing in common. You CAN TELL that you're speaking with someone that much younger. These pedos and apologists are vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:34 AM
4

Some dumbass implied it could be a typo before someone else corrected him. Like she's working more than full time, 7 on and 7 off (medical field implied there I think), and you think she meant to type 40,000?!!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:48 AM
2

You are not alone! One thing I find useful when it comes to past mistakes is applying the lessons learned to build up the confidence that now you are well equipped to protect yourself in that area. Kind of like immunity - your body gets sick and builds immunity to those pathogens. In this case you're building emotional immunity. Start small and enforce boundaries that you know you have. Reflect on those moments where you enforce boundaries and feel good about your personal growth. And then rinse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:15 AM
3

They probably expect her to plan a fun little trip to lulu lemon and invite him along to enjoy the view like a fun, cool girl. Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:33 AM
25

IMAGINE if the roles were reversed. She'd be labeled a gold digger and a psycho in a second. But seriously, I've never seen a woman actually have the audacity. No, instead they find men that are projects, work day and night on them, and if somehow that man makes something of himself she might think that they can live happily ever after. And that's when scrotes will turn around, call her a gold digger, and find someone new to bang. Men are FAR WORSE than what they consider gold diggers, they don'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:06 AM
28

Please lord give these scrotes their sex dolls and send them all to Mars.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:02 PM
13

Right?!?! I see the way children are taught being blamed a lot on why boys are falling behind, but isn't that how it's always been? Like before girls were even allowed to get an education?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:00 PM
4

I feel like that's even more reson to be selective about it. Like, you're either attracted to their height or not. If it's a no move on because it can't be changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:43 PM
13

Also pay attention to who they choose to criticize, valid criticism or not. The majority of men pinpoint wrong things that women do, but never have the same energy for men. I'm seeing so many men incredibly critical of VP Harris for example, and not a thought about how our actual soon to be president has made unfavorable political decisions in the past as well. They go so far as to downplay Trumps influence over the past few years. It's sick and low value as fuck. Meanwhile I see women actually …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:33 PM
9

And if you have a problem with your partner watching porn, you are the problem and it's just a fAnTaSy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:49 AM
8

Second this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:58 AM
10

OLD is filled to the BRIM with man whores. I deleted it a while before covid started and resisted the urge to download again through lockdowns. Gave me time to realize what a blessing it is to be strict about keeping trash men out of my life. The peace is priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:49 AM
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I once referred to my ex talking shit about people as gossiping and he lost his mind. It's only shameful gossip when women do it, apparently. Not surprisingly, he's a sexist and most like racist shitstain. Just knew how to hide it in the beginning, but it eventually oozed out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:07 PM
4

Sure, lots of men are shallow and will only go off looks, but plenty aren't. Without knowing you personally I don't have insight on what might be the reason, but it can be anything. For example, Seattle is known for having a high number of single guys, but the city is also knows as being an "introvert city" where people stick to their friend groups a lot so I wonder how many men even ask out people they don't already know. I guess my best advice is to pay attention to all the variables and build…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:15 AM
2

Damn are they stupid or what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:30 AM
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