| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 82 | NVM Single DadsThat’s enough internet for the day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 10:53 PM |
| 91 | The amount of pickmes on reddit is too highClick on your avatar > click settings > click your username under account settings > deselect “Allow Direct Messages” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 03:56 PM |
| 528 | The amount of pickmes on reddit is too highTurning off direct messages is a good way to drop toxic pick-mes and level up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 03:17 PM |
| 88 | Men saying that women go on dates for free food is them admitting that they have nothing else to offer.I am loling at your edit. “If they want to find a man.” We have ZERO PROBLEMS finding men, any one of us could have five boyfriends by tomorrow. We are trying to find the GOOD ones. This is what these men don’t understand, there is an abundance of men & they’re so thirsty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 01:51 PM |
| 117 | Positive stories of finding a HVM or enjoying singlehood?I am married to a HVM so far (we have been together for 11 years, married for 8). I was in my early 30s when we met. Had our kids in my late 30s. There is hope. We met at a bbq hosted by mutual friends. I just never settled for low effort like my friends did. I would not entertain uneducated or broke men, men with a criminal record, men who liked thirst traps on socials, men with children, etc. And I have to say it’s worked out in my favor. I’m here because I’ve always been pretty naturally FDS … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:57 PM |
| 134 | We are taught that a woman's love is natural, and a man's love is validating. Do not for a second live by this lie.Damn. Every once in a while I read something here that absolutely blows my mind with its truth, and here I am again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 12:01 AM |
| 22 | Woman shuts down "nice guy" b.s. Love to see itHis face 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.I’d be willing to bet that she is the “spender” because she alone buys every single thing the kids and household need. It’s really easy to set a tight budget when you have no idea what all the kids require and how much it costs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 02:55 AM |
| 52 | This man really saw a woman’s standards of “has a job, showers daily, and has all his teeth” and came to the conclusion “nah, asking too much, men just can’t meet that”. If we lower our standards, there’s always someone trying to push them even lower.All I can keep thinking is “wElL aCtShUaLleEeEe…” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:23 PM |
| 21 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discuss“Psycho” = a woman who doesn’t want me, justifiably, because I have nothing of value to offer her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 03:11 PM |
| 24 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreThe fact that she has “cvmslvt” in her name tells you that she’s a libfem sex pozzy dipshit right off the bat. Wanting to walk down the street without being yelled at is so RACIST /s obviously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:17 PM |
| 24 | Abstinence is one of the most powerful weapons against scrotes.Great post. If something happens and I’m ever single again, I plan to take this advice 100%. How many times have I had to feel pain, stress about making an appointment, miss work and PAY, spend money on copay for an office visit and medicine because I have a UTI from having sex with some useless jackass? Too many. And that’s not counting the regular visits for birth control, and thank god I never had a STD scare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Let’s compare the meanest thing a woman has *ever* said to one of the tamer things a man has said to me. (Trigger warning)I signed up for OLD once more than a decade ago. A man messaged me to call me a bitch and threaten to kill me, then a few minutes later messaged me “wanna cuddle?” Id rather be called kinda ugly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 01:33 PM |
| 8 | If you still live your life around the mindset "But what would my future HVM think about this?" - you are still stuck in that Pickme mode.Agree. If we want a high value partner, we must be the reciprocal of that. I can’t expect to be crusty and have an amazing man to come sweep me off my feet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:53 AM |
| 46 | This comment section on Youtube reminded me of FDS. Keep brunching and treating yourself like the queens you are ladies. 💕So true. Men want all the benefits of a “traditional” wife with none of the hard work & providing. It’s hilarious really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 12:22 AM |
| 24 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.This was my mom for a good portion of my childhood. What she did was wrong and it created a toxic and unhealthy environment for me in many ways, but she did it because my father was a functioning alcoholic (e.g. he went to work every day, drank at home after we went to bed instead of being out at some bar, but was otherwise useless/not truly a partner) and she was exhausted and bitter from carrying the mental load of our entire family’s operations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 03:42 PM |
| 9 | interested to hear the thoughts about this post?Agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 01:34 PM |
| 35 | Make it make senseIts totally illogical. I also always roll my eyes at how getting a lap dance from someone you paid isn’t cheating, but engaging in the same behavior for free would be cheating 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 11:15 AM |
| 34 | Scrote whines about having no free time while his wife does all the work. Oh, and he’s cheating on her. 🤡LOLOL at the person who called him out 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 10:06 PM |
| 33 | Scrote whines about having no free time while his wife does all the work. Oh, and he’s cheating on her. 🤡The babysitter deserves every red cent she earns plus more, as I’m sure he doesn’t pay her much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 08:29 PM |
| 21 | A question in regards to single motherhoodI can’t tell you what it’s like to be a single mom, but as a married mom of two who was originally on the fence about having children and decided to go for it: you will not give a shit about losing out on potential matches. Anyone who would discount me because of my beautiful girls can get bent, I’ll never love anyone more than them. I believe the same is true for 99.9% of moms out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 11:58 PM |
| 9 | Husband Hates Wife: CEO Edition. He refers to his wife publicly as a "sucker", she asked HIM out, they dated for 5 years before getting married. This is his anniversary post after 12 years of marriage.Gross. Her dignity and self-respect is as far gone as his hairline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 04:55 PM |
| 49 | The Bite-Size Guide to Vet a Potential Suitor: What is he SAYING?Exactly the case for my husband. He’s never once said one of these things. Beware of any man making sweeping statements about his character, he is either trying to convince you he’s something that he is not or absolve himself of future guilt (“I warned you I was no good but you still went out with me”) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 04:59 PM |
| 67 | Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks?I had a guy break up with me after I had a nose job. I was already out of his league and he was dumbfounded by how much attention I got with him right next to me. I don’t think he could handle me being any better looking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 08:19 PM |
| 251 | 🤡Oh they understand the dynamics. They just want it to be handed to them on a platter instead of putting in effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 05:09 PM |
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