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The_Cat_Empress/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 01:25 AM
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I totally get what you mean, it's really scary out there... This may be my "looking on the bright side" inclination but I saw an interview where some guy was like "I like Mad Max but I don't want to live in it." so I feel like a lot of American men will just starve lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/22 07:36 PM
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I love her soooo much! And this may be just me, but that picture of her BF doesn't make him look too good. He seems supportive and sweet but something about his clothing made me think "she can do so much better lol" That's just me though...Queen deserves the best and is proof women are hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/22 02:27 PM
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My handyman Dad would shudder at such a sight lmao. Youtube is free people!! USE IT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 08:26 PM
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Lady isn't so bad but nothing makes me cringe more than "sweetheart." And unfortunately I've heard men refer to women as "b*tches" with not a care in the world...and when you call to it how it's dehumanizing/derogatory people look at you funny. It's bothering because there are no offensive words for men as there are for women...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 08:17 PM
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YO! I've been thinking about this with the Amber/Depp thing going on too. I've heard people saying that Depp's "life is ruined" and TBH in this misogynistic culture I am pressing "X" to doubt on that. Friggin' rapists are let out with a slap on the wrist, you think a beloved yet drug addled actor wouldn't be accepted back with open arms?? Too many couples are toxic in Hollywood and the fact Amber seems to be getting the spotlight and "poor Johnny" ignores the fact more women than men don't survi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 05:12 PM
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"Vice grip cum claw" This is hilarious!! I'm sorry you had to go through this but it's such a visceral image I couldn't help but crack up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 04:57 PM
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This is a movie my family loves but I haven't seen it all the way through! Totally interested in watching it again! Thanks for the post! I can't wait to watch it with an FDS lens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/22 01:41 AM
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Damned if you do, damned if you don’t! People are shamed for being a virgin or not! At this point it shouldn’t matter unless you’re comfortable at this point. I’m sorry you felt so pressured. [hugs]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 01:19 AM
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That dude sounds so porn fried he can't distinguish that nudity =/= to sexuality or sex. WTF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 04:01 PM
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"She's going out with her gIrLs tonight, so let me aggressively mark her and show her that I don't trust her not to get dicked by every man in sight ehehehe" It's like it's some kink of his...and the fact she is looking at him like "WTF?" is telling... Is this supposed to be cute?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 03:54 PM
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despite proof that he has been committing sex crimes. EXCUSE ME?! she walked in on him cheating on her with TWO teenagers I'm about ready to get the flamethrower...WTF?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 11:35 PM
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I barely read through this because it's so painful...what's the damn point? If she's making this post then she's bothered by it. If she wants to get ahead she should start squirreling away some money now. Unless this was an oPeN rElAtIoNsHiP the only benefit this scrote is giving her is money, and that's it. When he loses interest what on Gaia's green earth will she do? "I've been with my husband since he was flat broke" HEYO!! Edit: This being a LARP makes me feel way better, you ladies are sma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 11:24 PM
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Hollywood is a tar pit. It's full of nothing but degeneracy down to its roots. The way they treat children and women is enough to make you sick- you can even see that old man neck skin going on!! How is she even attracted to him??? He doesn't even have a beard to cover that old man neck!! Shame on you Nick!! How does he not have an empty milk carton?? Guys like to joke about "eggless" women so I think we should shame old scrotes back for their audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 11:13 PM
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That shit makes me so fuzzy haha. When a guy is genuine and adores the ever loving heck out of the women it's great. No creepy "I'm gonna get what I want from you" or invading her personal space...just a dude bringing his lady flowers and it makes me smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 11:03 PM
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It's probably because men are stupid and don't realize that they are projecting. They think since THEY have it easy and can just pump and dump that women can do it too. It's why most of their fiction that mentions sex never has foreplay or mentions contraception. Women biologically have a reason to need to be secure and safe, whether children are involved it doesn't matter. Women need to know their SO can be safe and secure, especially when it comes to intimacy. These community peens have no reg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 10:59 PM
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These old ass scrotes are ALWAYS looking for women so comically younger than them it just makes me so angry and tired at the same time...I'm TIRED!!! "Until you are comfortable enough to share the bedroom" Where do these men find the audacity? Is it in Hell where the Bar is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 10:52 PM
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That's actually great, because women on here have said they've dated chefs and didn't get a fancy meal cooked for them ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:37 PM
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"there's nothing bad about a man who wants to make his gf feel hot and sexy" Yeah no. "Hot and sexy" has been twisted and perverted. If any man of mine bought me lingerie I would dump him flat. If he can't buy me something he isn't willing to put on and test to see how comfy it is then I don't want it!!! "this is why men don't do shit for women any more" when have you ever???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:36 PM
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"They don't know what work actually means" There it is ladies! Minimum wage gives you minimum effort lady...and anyone else get a creepy feeling looking at that bouncy ball machine? It gives me "liminal spaces" vibes...No wonder they needed their BFs around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 02:51 PM
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Why can't men just do the obvious and break up? He wrote a stupid Reddit post complaining about how incompatible he is with his GF and is sticking around?? And how much do you ladies want to bet that if he DID get a "party girl" he'd Madonna/Wh*re her into oblivion and make her feel horrible! Men get with a introverted woman who is healthy and has a bedtime and whine that he's wasting time. It just makes me feel bad for the women in the relationships, I bet they want a well adjusted responsible …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:59 PM
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"Have their cake and eat yours too" is such a fantastic way of putting selfish LVM...I just...👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:51 PM
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A man's penis will always find a way to force itself into women's spaces. You're 200% right about the "hate speech" thing, but what also chaps my booty is how libfem women talk about "girlboss" and "girl power" and then their songs promote sucking dick...what?! And JFC you can't go anywhere on the internet without someone reciting the same tired mantras, usually by penis bearers... Thanks Greg, good to know you don't give 2 shits about women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:46 PM
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I'm gonna press X to doubt that he was r*ped...he sounds like an abusive piece of shit, so I don't believe ANYTHING this f*cker says. JFC I'm so sorry you had to deal with that...it's horrific and you deserve better. TBH I think you should go to therapy first before having a FWB situation, but that's my opinion...it sounds like you went though a lot of trauma!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:36 PM
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50 Shades was a pile of trash garbage but I can see the appeal. Women want a hot rich guy to take care of them and lust after them and buy them nice things...but 50 Shades also wrapped it up in a shit bow of abuse, stalking, disguising abusive kink as sExY and not respecting boundaries. (honestly I think women latched onto the story because women are thirsty for men who are generous) I think in the movie Anastasia was like "Why do you have to punish me?" as Christian was giving her a damn contra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:24 PM
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It's either that or something they want you to do for THEM. "Yeah I like being stepped on and crushed" and then they have a needy ass desperation for you to fulfill those needs. It doesn't matter who the "sub" is...it's always women doing the work..-_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:17 PM
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Happy cake day! And yeah! I watched two of the Hellraiser movies and like how they are seen as vicious and evil instead of "sexy kinky gang." I'm sure kinkmeshas of both sexes would say it's a story from a sexually repressed bygone era, but the dude was onto something with the Cenobites. "We aren't like that! The sUb hAs tHe PoWeR" And then you look at their BDSM pages and see the "subs" are mostly women...HMMMMM. I'll definitely have to check out the Warhammer Dark Elder stuff, I love fantasy s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:07 PM
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"Yes, I'm kinkshaming" [standing ovation] 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 02:01 PM
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"Okay...I'm confident that I don't like partying and clubs!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 01:58 PM
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This this this. It's like saying "oh well you haven't found the right man who can do an*l" sex acts are sex acts and men can fk coconuts and get off so IDK why men are so obsessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 07:56 PM
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Being human doesn't make you LV lmao. You're probably used to the high stress environment that the "decompression" stage feels isolating. This may just be me as a chronic hermit crab but I think you need to take more time to yourself! If it become unbearable and you need friends to talk to then go ahead! But you also need time to yourself sometimes and there is nothing wrong with that...it can be jarring because you'll have to listen to your own thoughts lol. The fact that you are acknowledging …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 06:17 PM
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Nope, you're just being treated like a Queen. I'm sure you do SO many things in the relationship that you don't even notice. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 06:09 PM
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IDK why people get so mad when we say "believe all women." My Dad was talking about some basketball player who was "accused" and got irritated when I said I believed the woman. Like...worst case the man gets accused and not much comes of it like usual...Men's lives aren't rUiNeD like we'd like to believe (TOO MANY men get a slap on the wrist), and "false accusations" are rare and what would a woman have to gain by lying?! I dunno ladies, are the "false accusations" really bad enough? And even if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 06:07 PM
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"To the people that feel hurt about this, I’m not even talking about you!It also tells me that some people are projecting themselves and their insecurities from this post." You got it sis, it is exactly this. And since it's Reddit of course they will blame the woman for the divorce. A L W A Y S.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 01:06 PM
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The left wants to eliminate women's spaces and the right wants to eliminate women's bodily autonomy. Why are these stuffy old men always the ones speaking for women? TBH, you DO hear mothers say stuff like "Oh goodness I could never abort" yes Jan, that's great...but what about the many many MANY poorer women who can't afford a child...and more importantly, don't want one?? The foster/adoption system is already so clogged up that these pro-lifers never think about where the baby would go after! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 02:25 AM
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It's better to live without a child than a child that is unwanted. Those women have no reason to feel guilty, but it's such a burden...if only their religion would tell them it's not their fault they were born a woman..and that they don't deserve the shame...:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 02:16 AM
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Even if you have an increased risk of CANCER it's still the case. Just ask my sister with the shit she has to put up with...it's so beyond stupid...and it's WOMEN saying this stuff too! "What about your husbandd??" Who the hell cares?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 02:13 AM
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Completely forgot about that b*tch... Even in his old ass geriatric age he thought he was hot shit...disgusting...he was what helped porn become mainstream...f*ck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 02:09 AM
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. Women inevitably believe if they can shake their ass or fellate dick better that they'd be respected by men and never cheated on. Ugh, you're 200% right. It seems like the music has only gotten worse in this regard...where do they get this mentality? Has it ever worked? And can we stop this lie please??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 01:55 AM
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My Dad may not be perfect, and is mostly emotionally unavailable for me...but I can say with utmost certainty he loves my Mom. My Mom was such a weirdo when they first started dating that my Dad wanted to take her out somewhere nice and she wanted to go to Wendy's. LMAO If he wanted to he would... I'm sorry you had to deal with a shitty father...it's not easy to deal with the neglect and abuse he put your through. It's horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 01:47 AM
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I’m not a fan of dramas/modern TV (GoT especially) so I have no desire to watch Riverdale but a review of it? Sure!! However that Vampire Diaries review is definitely going to be watched because my brother and sister love that show and I never saw the appeal. Now that I’m an evil rad-fem I just see predatory men and women who get brutalized. NO…THANKS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 05:45 PM
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Just saw that video and it was fantastic. "Are you okay? Do you need a KitKat?" is golden and I'm stealing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 03:48 PM
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"pErFecTiNg tHiS aRt FoRm" Lordt...let me tell you how tired I am...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 02:32 PM
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IDK I think she looks fantastic... Scrote was probably terrified other men would look at her and see how attractive she was. What a douche...I hope the last pic is her finally waking up to how shitty her BF is and she dumped him. Why would any woman put up with this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:29 PM
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LMAO yeah! I’m torn between “this is horrible” to “this is unbelievably funny” all the time. He may be cringe, he may be obnoxious. But his reaction to his fanbase never fails to make me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 01:36 PM
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Men will message you just to ruin your day. They are such petty little shits lmao. Good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:35 PM
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I’m just happy he didn’t try anything or try to hurt you. I’m honestly glad you showed him a lesson because men who can’t keep their hands to themselves should have consequences. Plus you were more in “defensive” mode. The audacity to just grab you. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 05:38 PM
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Joji AKA PinkGuy knew about his toxic fanbase and was terrified. LMAO. Still, he did a good job summing them up in just a few seconds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 05:06 PM
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The Aladdin one just makes me lose it because it reminds me of the "Film Cow" animation that rather crudely points out how much of a scrote Aladdin is. "I just want to lie as much as possible to convince her to sleep with me, I just think she's like crazy shallow." and "I clearly don't have any respect for her intelligence" it's fantastic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 03:02 PM
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THANK YOU. I love Mulan to bits, but Queen deserved to be Empress of China and I will die on that hill. She did more for China than the wrinkly Emperor ever did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 02:57 PM
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I like how the sequels tried to humanize Anastasia instead of keeping her in the "evil step-sister" role. I haven't seen the movie yet, but Cinderella, despite being a gorgeous piece of animated art...just sits weird with me now just like you. Didn't even think about the "little" part...Ariel IS 16 which...hello? Teenage pregnancy shouldn't be encouraged lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 02:56 PM
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The only "b*tch" is the man who threw a CHAIR AT YOU WTFFF???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 02:42 PM
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"At this point I feel like if God exists he is a mysogynist." LMAO I've come to this same conclusion sis...this is why it makes me angry when religious women go on about Allah or Jesus being for women and I'm like "Er...about that..." George Carlin said it best, "Looking at the results I believe no woman ever could or would f**k things up like this...no contest" "Most issues men have are caused by other men and then blamed on women." Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 02:31 PM
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This may be my cynical side (don't let it stop you though please) but I can imagine calling a man out for grabbing your butt in public will only get the bouncer to not believe you. Assault is assault and should be punished, but in this world it doesn't usually get believed. Still, it's better than brushing it off and being uncomfortable through the whole night. Especially the restraining order thing...no matter what if you get sufficient evidence then the judge is an idiot for ignoring it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 02:25 PM
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Omg the more you talk about it the more I want to watch it. I’m so glad it exists because I’m sick of media seeing men as the main focus. Even media with women have men take control and take up the most space. ECH Men: Why don’t women make their own media?! Women: Okay! Men: [reees]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 07:08 PM
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I'm seeing mixed reception for that movie and the fact it's bold enough to talk about periods makes me want to watch it. Seriously! How can anyone hate a fluffy red panda running around? That's adorable as hell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 05:53 PM
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Lawrd let me tell you how exhausted I am of the "stuffed in the fridge" trope that literally uses violence against women or a brutal death to embolden the main hero. It happened in The Killing Joke...(the writer regrets writing this so much lmao) and it STILL happens. Like...seriously, Black Widow in Endgame was one of the few female characters and she gets killed off...I'm EXHAUSTED!! And not only is there the "misunderstood loner" but the LIE of the fkboy like Tony Stark and many MANYYY other …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 05:50 PM
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[violent shudder] I mean there’s a joke song called “white girls fk dogs” but horrifically enough it’s more like “white MEN fk dogs” Zoosadism is a thing and I mostly try not to think about it too much….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 06:18 PM
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I can’t believe it took this post to make me realize that “riding the CC” is a fetish because it’s literally a woman riding the man. They don’t imagine women as “starfish” or “getting the cunnilingus like a dingus”. It’s this filthy porn shit. Barf. It’s kind of awful how it takes women going through the risk of pregnancy (whether they want the child or not) to be seen as human. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 06:15 PM
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YOO! I've seen too many damn times in media where the guy just leans in and kisses the woman without asking. No wonder guys are so confused about women having brains and boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:25 PM
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He's definitely scratching his head about that one "wHy dId sHe bLoCk mE?!?" LMAO Ignore WELL SET boundaries and you get blocked. Die mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 01:20 PM
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I don't even like kids but I got a twinge of "mama bear" when you said ugly scrote verbally abused the daughter and called her all kinds of vile things. If I had a daughter and any man insulted her he'd wake up with no teeth I stg. Massive Queen shit to her for standing her ground and calling him a b*tch. Absolutely is going to do fine in life, proud of her. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 12:14 AM
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First off, good job for acknowledging that there are things you need to work on. Seriously! This is a great thing. What isn’t great is that scrote making you feel insecure. And IDK it’s kinda creepy he would bring up her age and weight…it makes me think it’s his type. Big yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 06:59 PM
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JFC so she frickle fracked some scrote in the next room and expected you to be okay with that?! Sorry, but I’d dump her ass too. Shame on her for cheating!! No excuses! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 06:47 PM
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We need to flip the script and call it “free sex strategy” for men. Cause Gaia I am TIRED of these men complaining!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 06:39 PM
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“The way a mother is expected to love her child” Putting it like that makes it MEGA gross tbh. It also shows that men are incapable to loving unconditionally. No thanks!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:40 PM
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“Got a match with an attractive GIRL” Any one else get annoyed with this?? How hilarious is it that she gave him a carrot and he swatted it away like “hOw AbOuT wE gO tO mCdOnaLds?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:35 PM
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I get it's a joke, but I've seen women talk about pegging on here multiple times and it just fills me to the bottom of my being with ICK. Men rarely wash their asses...and this pornsickness has brought it about as yet ANOTHER way to give men pleasure. But I get what you mean...OOP probably bugs his wife to wear lingerie too! Awful. And you're right that these men are awful with sex workers. They want to jack off to a hot woman but if she turned around and asked him to fk her he would be like "Ew…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 02:36 PM
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Unless he's got a six pack I can wash my laundry on then what is the point?? Dad bod with a gnarly happy trail? NOOOO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 02:31 PM
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Sounds like the type of man to lick everywhere but the clit for 2 minutes and think he’s the master of oral. I'm glad I wasn't drinking my coffee then because I would have spit on my keyboard. THIS IS IT!! Awkward massage too...no wonder she's not interested!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 02:28 PM
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Hot take: ✨Misandry doesn't exist! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 02:24 PM
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"to touching my arm" GORL. I started flailing, NO! What is it with these creeps being unable to keep their hands to themselves?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 02:21 PM
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No need to apologize because I’m SO HAPPY that you know about the band!! 😭✨ Yes it is!! It was the first thing I thought about when I made my username! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 09:08 PM
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Urgh, it doesn't surprise me they would rent a woman's womb for one of "their" children...disgusting and vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:04 PM
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How does he not have an empty milk carton at this rate? JFC I feel bad for that potential child, he REALLY looks his age, disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 06:00 PM
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I live for the Himbo energy and I love it! Totally agree with the fact that these men are so rare...I felt like a dork clapping to his comment but it was just so fantastic! CALL 👏 HIM 👏 OUT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:46 PM
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Shieeeet, if I made that much money I'd spoil the sh*t out of my loved ones. "It makes me feel objectified" HAHAHAHAHA!! 😂 What an absolute Queen, I hope she dumps him and knows she can do better with someone who's willing to be generous and not 50/50 her. Why can't stingy scrotes like these just be single and date themselves?? I don't get it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:41 PM
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For example, forcing a book on you, you didn’t ask for then demanding it back 3 days later expecting sex??? Wait a damn minute...I THINK THIS HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE. Some creepy scrote from college I think? OMG I know of SOMEONE who kept trying to force something on me and would NOT take "No thank you" for an answer! AAA! And can someone explain the term "leading him on"? Of my 84 years of life it's always baffled me...and it's usually referring to women "leading him on"...it's so gross and it's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:36 PM
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" I don’t want Chester who collects marbles…" I'M CRYINGG!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:30 PM
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"Wait...I have to work on a personality??" [Windows has shut down due a problem :( ]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:27 PM
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"Hatred of men" Full stop... Because being pro-woman and against men having their thumbs in ALL our businesses ALL THE DAMN TIME is mIsAnDrYy. I don't call myself feminist any more because they've allowed men into it...and I'm sick of it. Every time women get a tiny space carved out for themselves, a little cozy home, people (mostly women) cry out "What about the men?? What about their rights??" Until women stop getting trafficked from across the globe and have their boundaries repeatedly questi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:22 PM
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Though it's weird she would think her sister is homophobic, she's 100% right on feeling that way about her sisters husband. It's so humiliating! The guy at the end was perfect though, he was a breath of sanity and my exact thoughts manifested...I'm just here clasping my head in horror...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:11 PM
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It was kind of funny until the reality came and stole my wig... JFC that was sobering at the end...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:57 PM
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You can't have a relationship without trust...and you certainly can't keep one for long when you RESENT him. And she has every reason to resent him!!! He should be taking care of her and the amount he makes in comparison is staggering. These men want to keep women dependent and weak...it's heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:33 PM
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[LOUD RETCHING] All of these are disgusting... But a caveat with the last one despite the fact I agree is that cartoons for "kids" are FARRR more mature than most "adult" shows. How far have relationships gone down the shitter if people think hugging stuffed animals and being cute with your partner is out of the ordinary? "Love and care" should be all relationships is right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:26 PM
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This is equivalent of a woman lightly shoving a man and him going apeshit and punching her. What part of pinning her down did they not understand?? What the hell is wrong with the Internet that they are like “gIvE hOmIe a BrEaK!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 02:53 PM
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I do so love happy beginnings!! Also sticks to the men that women deserve less than they want. Proud of you sis!! ✨💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:00 PM
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I can hear the scrotes argue that his laugh was a “nervous laugh” and he just didn’t know what to say. However, the fact he turned on a dime and immediately went into rage mode just sounds like he’s showing off. His marriage is in shambles and instead of getting a divorce like any sane person would, he wants to save face. (This is me guessing though, I can definitely be wrong) This relationship is NOT goals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:08 PM
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I definitely believe this was written by a man. It gets needlessly aggressive and women have a way of talking and even writing stuff online..this is a scrote male fantasy IMO. If it isn't, then GOOD GRIEF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 04:53 PM
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Funny thing is…and by funny I mean horrible…I read somewhere on here that a woman got turned off by her husband because she felt like his mother. So even being less overt and explicit with it it turns women off. That makes sense since being attracted to your own kids is gross and unsustainable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 04:48 PM
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All hell would break loose. And it's really telling how disabled women are seen as a fetish category and their only means of making money is "sex work" whereas disabled men get to be the consumer. It's so ass backwards...I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 04:38 PM
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why aren't they all quitting their careers en masse and switching over to easy-mode?? I love this comment with my whole heart. You are 2000% right! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 04:35 PM
102

As Lilith from the podcast has said multiple times...the only thing men understand is CONSEQUENCES. Men cheat...they get thrown out and rolled to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 04:29 PM
112

That last sentence makes me vomit a little... Makes me want to cut the leash and be like "BE FREE!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 04:20 PM
55

"DDLG is tHeRaPy, it helps women go through their trauma!" I've heard this argument before...and it just bothers me to no end. You can have stuffed animals and cuddle time and learn to become emotionally mature...heck, this is the "softer" version of people "un-potty" training themselves...these fetishists are regressing and it is a horror show. And it's mostly women and their gross "Daddys"...just ANOTHER thing men can use to infantilize and belittle women...and even if it was "Dom Mom Little B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 04:18 PM
105

Cue Japanese man who k*lled women for "looking too happy." We. Can't. Win...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 11:44 PM
65

Men treat women they don't find attractive like sh*t...at least women usually ignore unattractive men or let them down easily... Women have to deal with the fear of violence when they reject a man. Men just get their fee-fees hurt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 11:43 PM
11

My sisters new BF tried arguing with me when I said “weaponized incompetence” and ever since then I’ve kinda seen him differently. Lol Other times he would argue about little things so he’s seen as right and I think one time he said “devils advocate” once, or something along the lines of “not all men.” NOPE NOPE NOPE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 05:24 PM
47

I thought he just got an ED but now I can’t un-think this now! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 03:11 AM
28

4ch*n is such a toxic disgusting and vile place it needs a hazmat label. What good is “freeze peach” if men are going to insulate and prop up the worst in humanity? Hell, there was one woman who trolled 4ch*n by saying she’d show her breasts if they bought her pizza. Idiots did, and she basically said “lol nope”. Being vile degenerates they didn’t take no for an answer and literally STALKED her and caused her flight to be delayed by hacking into the server or something. It could be a false convo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:34 PM
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Exactly!!! My first friendships ended quickly because they became toxic, so it’s hard to trust after that. It’s easy to be “one of the guys” when the boys you know growing up we’re incredibly nice because they wanted a piece of you. (FDS helped SO much with this mentality) As for the women/girls with abusive mothers I can totally see them leaning more towards men despite the fact finding a good male friend is hard. This may just be my experience but EVERY male friend I’ve had made it “weird” at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:02 PM
69

Ayo, this pansexual shit makes me so damn uncomfortable...that and "qu**r." It's all for ""boring"" people to deny the fact they have a normal sexuality...be it homo or heterosexual. Nothing wrong with it...it's like saying you're demi/sapiosexual. Just extra words to complicate things...sexuality isn't complicated!! You either bang or don't. "It'd work if the b*mbos were celibate at least" This catering to men thing just ALWAYS turns out sour for women...like free love in the 60's and this Libf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:49 PM
21

"We grew up with all types of fear mongering beliefs" Yo! My Mom was on for a while about not wanting to go through menopause because she was afraid she would just become a saggy hag or something? I'm sure there are ways of keeping bone density and all that but the looks?? That and the scrote lie of "the biological clock." I think we need to normalize adoption...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:36 PM
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Oof! It cuts but it's true. The only way to be free is to de-center men from your life. It's probably super easy for introverts like me, but the more sexually interested and extroverted women may find it hard...especially if they want kids! I'd like to see more posts on marriage minded FDSers leveling up...it's hard for all of us tbh, internalized misogyny is also a thing that needs work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:32 PM
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I'm sorry, but if he's 30 and saying he's "not ready for marriage" then what he really means is he's not ready for marriage with HER. It's so damn insulting I want to gently shake OP and say "F*CKING LEAVE!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:25 PM
4

She even STILL makes him food. What an absolute ANGEL. Holy crap what a NUMBSKULL. It’s called an APOLOGY. Do men even know what an apology is?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 10:44 PM
20

JFC I'm so sorry you had to deal with that...that's terrifying!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 03:00 PM
33

UGH! This reminds me of how in some media the "hot and rich" guy is also an abusive POS, and women set themselves up for failure by thinking the poorer unattractive scrotes will treat them better. I know it wasn't your case, but I just think...Why can't women have the hot rich guy who is ALSO kind and generous?? Now THAT is a fantasy story women need to write about lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:56 PM
28

"Because the dusties can't let the dust collect on their video game console." I wanna be her best friend...I love every single one of these Queens. <3 "Today's Grandpas are too busy creating red pill podcasts" [slamming table] YES!! These are so on point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:51 PM
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Bruh. Not only does his posture reek "sad sack" but he can't make up his mind on having his shirt tucked in!!! If you want it tucked in tuck it in all the way man!! ARGH! And this ain't the cute hipster unkempt, this dude looks like he rolled out of bed. Ick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:44 PM
18

I hope you dumped those friends...that would put a bad taste in my mouth. WTF?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:41 PM
56

This just makes me want women’s only public transport. Reminds me of a story a YTer was saying about how some scrote was listening to his music loudly on his headphones during a bus ride. And his headphones were around his neck and not on his head. Wtf?! A woman sharply told him to turn his music down and of course he spent the whole time complaining (aggressively) about the woman to the YTer. Not only do you have men watching porn on public transit but scrotes bothering you when YOU want to lis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 02:34 PM
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I'm a sucker for perfectly cut scenes, this had me rolling. Only attractive man is the one willing to call other men out lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 04:34 PM
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QUEEEEN. I’m just applauding you for your bravery. I’ve seen other comments of yours and admire you! You’re the type of older Queen that I look up to. IDK what possesses men to be complete dickwads to larger or even overweight women. But you have every right to get them when you can. Keep 👏 squishing 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:38 PM
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Not from the UK but was thinking the same thing! I don't know dip about finances in the US but I've been watching a channel on Youtube called the "Financial Diet" and so far she's given me a lot to think about. Good luck with your search Queen! The sooner women learn about money the sooner we can live better lives!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 02:34 PM
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I am short AF, so I get super walled and quiet when a man is yelling or being crazy. You are SOOO badass for being like "Did I stutter?" and standing up for yourself...I wish I could do that! I'm glad it turned out in your favor and no one else messed with you, you put yourself in a risky situation dealing with this weirdo and got him to finally shut up lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:50 PM
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I can relate to this...recently got followed and screamed at in my car by some old scrote. Even though my brain came up with reasoning you CAN'T say anything to an irate man...they will find any abuse to hurl at you it seems...I'm still reeling from it honestly despite being a few days ago. (my hands are cold typing this haha) The best thing is to put distance between yourself and wall off, if he gets louder find a place with people around. "Never try to defuse the bomb" is right because these i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:44 PM
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YO! As soon as someone is on their phone then it's a clear indicator they aren't interested. Heck, when my family does this and I've given them my full attention I say "Do you hear me?" and they are like "yeah yeah...I'm listening" This is very good advice for someone you DON'T want to talk to...seriously...I'm cracking up imagining the guy doing the Animal Crossing babbling noise and you're just staring at your phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:31 PM
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I sHrIeKeD. The "condolences" hit my funny bone like a hammer. I love you ladies so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:27 PM
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Next time a man does this to you, start crying and asking to lay on his shoulder. He'll NOPE out of there so fast his body will be a blur lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:25 PM
9

Reminds me of hair towel woman! I'm a little mad she didn't give us a happy ending by saying "and I dumped his ass for that." LOL so I'll pretend she did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:10 PM
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Family: Techschool we are so sorry for you loss!! T_N: [pretends to dab eyes] Yes yes...even though he was verbally abusive and never picked up after himself...I d-do miss him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 07:31 PM
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With all the resources at our fingertips and information out there about men I wonder the same thing. Louis CK, the horrible scrote he is had a very good point about women dating men. He said something along the lines that men are the most dangerous animal women interact with and they still go out with them. Like going out with a bear and being like “this is fine!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 02:02 PM
38

It’s pathetic lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:12 PM
137

What a psycho. These men always find the barest slight as a reason to go off on a tirade. Good riddance scrote! Die mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 06:52 PM
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“Is this norma-“ NO GAIA NO ITS NOT!!! This man needs to get dunked in holy water what the hell?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:41 PM
37

I’ll buy it! 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:22 PM
13

LMAO it’s so funny to think of the woman’s perspective and think “damn dude, she just didn’t want your ass!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:14 PM
32

I stan their music, just not the singer himself because he ain’t even cute and is talking about loving a woman in one song and then threesomes the next! LOL “When I’m f*cked up that’s the real me” heyo he’s being hOnEsT. Songs slap though…😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:09 PM
14

Anyone who comments on someone height with no shame is LV. And him taking that woman’s picture?! Barf!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:05 PM
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OMG YES!! I honestly want this to be a new weekly thing where we dissect music and how it’s harmful/scrotey. My favorite scrote song that comes to mind that I love AND hate is Chase Atlantic’s “Too late”. It’s basically about the main scrote giving drugs (molly) to a woman and she’s cheating on her BF for the main scrote LMAO “had your girlfriend at my house for 2 days/think it’s obvious the reason she stayed with me” (🙄) It’s pure scrote fantasy. “Never trust a b*tch” I’ve changed to “never tru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:00 PM
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This is very inspiring! So happy to see you working on yourself! We love to see it! If you don't mind me asking, how do you like Bookkeeping? I heard it's a good way to start out somewhere if you don't have many skills...since I'm an artist and don't have any real life skills I've been thinking of getting into it. Just curious! I think working on you mental health is the top priority though, you can do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:58 PM
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I looked up pictures of him and see 0 appeal... He looks like any old scrote you can find, plus he's a comedian so those guys are hit or miss when it comes to women. A lot times they are usually misogynistic...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 04:36 PM
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TBH Jokers backstory changes a lot so it’s hard to keep up. I’m K*lling Joke he was just an average joe who got kicked around and had “one bad day.” In Dark Knight he was a mysterious (possibly) military man who just wanted to stir the pot because it was fun. Earlier iterations like in Keatons Batman he’s a mafia leader and does acts of vandalism. Joker tends to lean towards the political climate at the time and shouldn’t be idolized but prevented. Like a dark mirror. His abuse of Harley is just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 03:02 PM
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Funny thing is Fight Club was supposed to be seen as toxic and men latched onto it for the wrong reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 02:55 PM
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I was legit going to say this was a “Queen Shit” line!! Men idolize sociopaths and I just want to be confident like Cruella lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 02:53 PM
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It's okay to have a preference I guess...but since he's a man I get suspicious as always. Some brown/mixed men see lighter skinned women as "prizes" and since he's a popular figure it's sus for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 12:35 PM
5

Be mindful of the soil you grow hydrangeas in because depending on the PH you can get either pink or blue!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 12:13 PM
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"She's not allowed to my parties until she learns to enable my sick behavior" Fixed it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 11:54 AM
9

Gaia forbid you go against the shitty industry built by men on the backs of women's abuse. HEAVEN FORBID IT!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 01:58 AM
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I friggin' SCREAM laughed. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 01:55 AM
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On the outside it may seem like no big deal but cutting the BS...WHO is birthing this child? That's right, OP is. Not the family, not the husband, not the BIL they seem to only care about. She has every right to be angry because it's HER CHILD and SHE has the most say in who names the baby because no one else is bringing him into this world! What an asshole the husband is, playing a switcharoo with OP last minute. This is proof you marry the family as well and to VET VET VET!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 09:07 PM
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I'm sorry for what you had to go through sis...:( People (more importantly women) don't need religion to live moral lives. Religion is a dogma that brainwashes gullible masses to believe in some book men wrote thousands of years ago. And if you argue and say you haven't has some divine proof or an angel didn't visit you in your sleep then something is wrong with YOU. YOU didn't pray hard enough, YOU were immodest, YOU were unfortunate to be thrown into a world created by an incompetent narc fath…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:23 PM
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My Mom had a major Holocaust and genocide, so...the reading she had to do was brutal. I remember this was one of the books she had lying around and I have no stomach to read it...I can't imagine, it's probably the worst of the worst. Even after reading all that horror I said that women can't go out alone in alleys and she's like "Short men can get assaulted too!" No Mom, I'm talking about SA!! Men don't fear for their bodies at the rate women do!! nOt aLl mEn. Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:05 PM
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I just finished the Watchman graphic novel series and even with all it's faults and scrotery it DID shine a light on one of the characters (The Comedian) impregnating a Vietnamese woman and trying to bail. After she confronted him (violently) he shot her...I hate that character with a passion because he got to live to a ripe old age and was seen as "sympathetic" at times...disgusting... Where in these scrotes training regimes tell men NOT to rape women? Even now the SA rate in the military is ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:59 PM
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We are happy to see it Queen! Thank you for sharing your experience, I'm sorry you had to endure all that pain, but know that you have us as well! (for the time being if Reddit doesn't boot us off) Good luck on your journey! Proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:42 PM
40

Men who say they want to punch women or get aggressive at all have issues and need to be avoided. Glad you dodged that bullet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:01 PM
5

bragging about me paying everything and him having a white woman pay his way. Colorist, and a POS? Can you tell me where the dumpster is you threw him out in so I can dump my banana peels in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:50 PM
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I saw your warning, knew it was going to be tough and still read it. Shit like this makes me want to vomit...his wife was HV, cleaned, had a good job and he got the privilege of publishing books. I bet after he thought he was hot shit. FFS This is horrifying...those poor kids...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:49 PM
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Men are a cross that we choose to bear and they should remember that HOLY...SHIT...THIS IS PERFECT! <3 Men need to earn their keep or they will not be kept. Yaaaaas!! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:43 PM
13

Not only that but the wives are sex on tap for their men... It's like being a sugar baby but with added responsibilities if children get involved. Yuck, NO THANKS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:37 PM
13

AHAHAHAH! I'm imagining that goofy gold star that says "Congratulations, you tried"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:31 PM
12

F*ck that guy. He deserves this 🖕 I'll give him three more! 🖕🖕🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:23 PM
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THIS THIS THIS!!! 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:21 PM
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This is horrific... Barely out of puberty and men have to be disgusting degenerates... Reminds me of how in Afghanistan they can't even leave the little boys alone and they are forced to dance for old ass men. The child brides are just another thing that makes me want to trash these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:53 AM
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That's weird, because usually Ovarit is better than that...it's a shame about the women in the comments being Pickmes. I'm seeing more FDSers there so it gives me hope! However, the fact there are multiple studies showing men lean towards young girls is terrifying...how come we never hear more about this?? Is this real life??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:38 AM
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This is an adorable story NGL. I'm glad you didn't see too much but I just love the way you told the story...your Dad and the manager screaming "nOooOoo" in slow motion as you super speed into the room! LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 01:28 AM
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The Beatles friggin' said it for Christs sake! "Can't buy me love!" And it's true! Gaia, this shit is so depressing...I hope she returned that gift and bought herself something nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 12:51 AM
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Thank you!! 👏 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:09 PM
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I stg the lesbians I hear about are so badass but guarded. They are used to dealing with societies shit so they don't take it. It probably makes things even harder so it's definitely not your looks. You're beautiful! Don't worry about that! And if you're insecure at ALL you need to take care of YOU first. You got this! BTW, your username sounds delicious...FDSers have the best usernames I love it. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:03 PM
24

FDS meetup when?? I'll bring the brownies and ice cream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:56 PM
29

"BUT because 99.9% of straight men are trash, I honestly feel like your chances of finding a HV woman aren’t much lower than that of the average straight woman looking for a man!" [wheeze] I was thinking the same thing. She's going to have a better time, and if it doesn't work out I feel things will be less awkward. Women are much safer to be around IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:54 PM
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"Average women" just looks better than the average man IMO. Unless they do a reverse Family Guy I ain't interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 12:36 PM
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"Best of all, is he annoyed by our needs or wants to stay home during a heavy period and thinks we should just hold it in?" Damn, I wish I could hold it in! Then let it out in one fantastically horrifying mess... That and I wish women actually synced and it wasn't a coincidence...Can you imagine? An FDS get together where we roast scrotes and bond over our ability to give birth that these womb envious men seem to be obsessed about. Any man squeamish about periods is LV full stop!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:41 AM
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Damn I'm happy I read to the end so I can start slapping on my rubber gloves... Queen has every right to feel comfy in her skin and I'm sure she's stunning as hell! But the "I feel like I'm living with a homeless woman" took the cake for me. Now if you'll excuse me, I'll be visiting this mans house with a plunger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:31 AM
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These piss babies get mad they can't get laid but what makes me angry is the fact the judge didn't take you seriously.. WTAF???!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:20 AM
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So women are here cooing and coddling their PIED BFs and husbands while women get yelled at if she isn't wet? Nah fam, get your dick fixed. Women are expected to stroke their partners ego and assure them everything is okay, when women STILL aren't orgasming at the rate men do. You hardly see men stopping before sex to ask if anything hurts or if he needs to slow things down. BAH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:10 AM
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I STG these men are like: "Hehe she make my PP hard...Grug like." Anything else?? Hello?! "Beauty fades but dumb is forever" Right back at you pals, your wife is going to look good even as she ages and you're going to still be thinking with your junk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:24 PM
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[slapping table] YES!! I've been feeling crappy and emotional today but this makes me feel so much better, and not so alone! People always say "humans are social creatures" but like...most of the time I don't want to be bothered! And most of time it's them dumping on you and when you open up just a little they make every effort to show how uninterested they are after you were patient and listened. So done with this... Being invisible used to bother me but now when someone addresses me I'm all "w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:09 PM
12

IKR?! I need a bot to just automatically like every comment because so many of them resonate with me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:55 PM
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Yo, I said that I couldn't have kids to an older woman and she said "You can adopt!" We can't win, I STG. And men who even breathe the "your eggs are dying" need to get the UNO reverse card that men's semen ages too and when they hit their 40's they are going to be cumming dust. Have fun with a dysfunctional milk carton Jerry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:54 PM
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Gaia forbid you even criticize a video game he likes. Women are shit on for femininity and called catty while men are screeching at each other while they play video games. At least yoga makes me comfy and I'm not getting screamed at for going in the wrong lane BRANDON!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:48 PM
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COPA-COLA HAHAH! And yeah! I've read another comment she may be a gr00mer but theres a weird kink thing going on...I can't imagine it either, even a guy a few years younger than me makes me feel like an older sister to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:06 PM
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"He talked about how he wants to murder and r*pe women bUt At LeAsT hE'S hOnESt" I'm getting tired of that phrase!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:01 PM
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Yeah!! She had me in the first half not gonna lie...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:55 PM
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"I don't want my man feeling uncomfortable and not do my wIfElY dUtIeS" Okay, that term is so disgusting and makes me want to vomit...and also, TOUGH. If his solution is to cheat on you and watch a dudes balls in his face on his screen then that's HIS issue. It's hilarious how Queen has a simple video and this woman has to go on a diatribe...but proves us right by saying the industry she works in undervalues her... Sis doesn't even sound convinced at the end!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:54 PM
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My mind just goes to leaving the planet tbh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:46 PM
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It's so vomit inducing how these men immediately point at a womans appearance/how many tattoos she has before listening to what she actually has to say. Even if she's spewing sex posi bullcrap you can still listen! Men will scrutinize women no matter what so we might as well go crazy and do what makes us happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:13 PM
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Some women have even gaslighted themselves to think they love being degraded/used like an inanimate object only because of what everyone around them says they’re supposed to enjoy. [eternal screaming] Yo, too many young girls/women are like "i'D lEt HiM cHoKe mE" STOP IT...GET SOME HELP. I don't care if iT's A jOkE, it's horrible and damaging!! They associate being attracted to a hot man with abuse I STG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:48 PM
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It does make me wonder if a large majority of men are just gay and in denial. It really does. THIS!! So many men can see a woman they think are hot and then turn around to their homies like "HUE HUE sHoUlD I sMaSH?" So many men are homiesexual and lying to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:31 PM
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Pros of vibrator: - doesn't watch porn when you are out of the house - stays hard and doesn't have ED - doesn't give STD's/get you pregnant - doesn't cheat on you with your younger sister ETC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:22 PM
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TBH my own personal experience is I wasn't even taught about it...how the heck many girls aren't even told that it's okay/safer than the alternative? Men and boys are too busy watching pixels on a screen...it's just seen as "something guys do." Women and girls sexuality? OH NO SHAMEFUL! I blame the church...it seems to shame everyone but mostly girls for anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:16 PM
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Never had sex because in this modern age it seems like there is no such thing as courting. I refused to settle for a man who I wasn't interested in and lo and behold, nothing happened! Then I see other peoples relationships and how horrible and abusive it can get and now I don't feel safe! "how some idiot is upset his bangmaid won't let him do disgusting things he saw in porn to her" If we didn't laugh we would cry...there are TOO many men who think like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:06 PM
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There IS a third option….the “bro/invisible woman.” Probably just another version of the Madonna tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:52 PM
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Where is the hot muscle man making the sorority girls their snacks? Oh that’s right, men wouldn’t put up with this…so neither should you ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:46 PM
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“16 is also the legal age” I wanna throw up. Anyone else?! Anyone else have a horrible feeling about this?! No it’s obvious, he’s gr*oming her, but I don’t wanna believe it. That poor Mom!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:03 PM
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Can’t even spell Astronaut correctly. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 04:05 PM
5

NTA. Just dumb. Don’t give that much money to men!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 01:20 PM
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Shit like this makes me fan myself and cry lmao. Anyone else get happy for people? It gives me hope in this world tbh...it's so rare though. Vet for the men who will love you like this ladies! IDK what the problem is for scrotes to understand...why be in a relationship with someone you don't love??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 12:11 PM
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[shakes table] THIIIISSS!!! ☝️☝️☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 04:54 PM
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I don’t get it either!!!! He called me “brother” once too so I was only a BRO to him. Yeah okay, whatever weirdo. 😂 Oh and he also had a forever GF that helped pay for the house. GOOD LORDT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:57 PM
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“I don’t trust men involved with tarot” Holy crap this was a dude I used to be acquaintances with at work. I thought he was pretty chill and cool but after a while he was showing scrote behavior and did subtle negs. Barf. He also said something like “I got a new house and if you want to stop by you can…my girlfriend isn’t there…not trying to be weird about it” LMAO you made it weird now! Stopped talking to him not that long after lol. What is it with men and tarot? I didn’t even know that was a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:48 PM
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TFW you’re your own worse enemy for not wanting to be in excruciating pain….wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:30 PM
39

They….they do realize people need to be drugged to take a whole ass fist right? Hell there was one gay dude who made it his whole career and he looked dead inside…so is it even worth it at this point?! Wtf?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:29 PM
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You’re totally right! The “but we are FAMILY” thing is only words. Have they been there for you emotionally? Agree with the houseplants thing too, they give me life and positivity…I love them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 03:35 PM
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[puts mansplain glasses on] So you see…you know, but women…so the womens need to have a job but not a better job than me. But she also has to have enough time to stroke my ego but she’s gotta have the natural look but wear no makeup. She’s gotta love beer but be a size 0 and not fart. And she’s gotta do everything I ask but also leave me alone….but when she wants stuff she’s so damn CLINGY! Seriously, it’s not hard! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:26 PM
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"The guy wrapped his arm around my shoulder" EWWW! I get so aggressive when men touch me. Especially the back and shoulders, it's such a power move and they KNOW it. Why are men so gross that they can't keep their hands to themselves?? And to add to it he thought dissing other women would impress you! Boy bye!!😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:17 PM
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"I am learning that I am a walking eulogy A tombstone in a sundress A tragedy in the making." JFC this gave me chills... The last one needs to be a poster for daughters everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:11 PM
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So a comment below got me thinking about the sexes that receive the transplant and I keep getting articles saying female organs are more likely to be rejected by male bodies. The percentage goes up or down depending on the age of the donor and the organ in question but this kind of makes me laugh for some reason. It's like nature is saying "Don't do it sis" Plus there was another story where a man dumped his GF after she gave him her kidney, so like...don't...just don't. Unless it's your Dad or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 02:04 PM
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People can only meet you as far as they’ve met themselves [staring at the wall] That's really profound...damn... And you're 220% right about men not knowing what the hell they want. Career gal? Oh she's only in it for the money. Gold digger? Oh she want's MY MONEY. No job? She's lazy. Single mom? W*ore. They talk endlessly about women and their own stupid opinions and I just want them to swan dive into the nearest dumpster and leave women alone... "there will always be a group of men that are re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:18 PM
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See...I was skeptical about that too!! If he was 35 and she was 30 that's not much of a problem...but in your 20's your brains haven't even settled in yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:08 PM
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It's a good thing that you wrote this (even though Reddits format made it hard to read), but it's better for you than for him. Most men don't even bother reading walls of texts, he'll probably read the first paragraph or sentences and come to his own conclusions...either getting mad or going into panic mode. Like you said, the problems won't go away, and you staying is bad for YOU. You're on a different wavelength and we are proud of you for leaving...it must be so hard though... Keep your chin …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 01:03 PM
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Personally I have hairy pits too. BUT. That is no reason not to scrub. They say it wicks sweat off better but these dudes have no chill and let their grime pile up… Soap is cheap as hell and we have hot water in our homes. These men need to live in the swamps if they keep acting like literal children with their stench. “Shampoo is for c*cks” Nah man, you’re gonna be the c*ck at this point because you won’t get ANY women smelling like that!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 12:07 AM
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“No need to be b*tchy” F*ck this guy first of all. Why are these men such ogres? Did they ID as Shrek so much they have to smell like him?!!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:36 PM
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Is…is this a fetish or something for these men?! How can they smell that awful and not care? We don’t live in Victorian England, we have SOAP!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:30 PM
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🤢🤢🤢 Walking petri disk. AUGH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:27 PM
65

[waving sage] BEGONE FOUL DEMON SMELL!!! ✝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:25 PM
45

Gaia….I really hope she isn’t sleeping in the same bed as him… Swamp ass smell. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:24 PM
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Baking soda doesn’t work? That’s an intense smell then! But more importantly…I’d rather be washing a dog smell then a grown ass man!! The hell?!?! She’s basically his mother at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:21 PM
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It sounds very fascinating!! I love doing yoga and sustained yoga poses can be fun, a bit wobbly, but fun! I’ll look into cold therapy as you suggested! This is why I love this subreddit, so many helpful tips!! You ladies rock! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 07:12 PM
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Thank you for this post... It's very beautifully written and has some good core elements to it. In dating it seems a lot of people forget about themselves...the part about taking cold showers was interesting, I'll have to look more into that. Gaia bless you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:08 PM
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I can picture his smug face and it makes me want to punch my monitor lmao. Good job capturing this dude so well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 04:24 PM
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"Now they're shitting on women for having careers!" Reminds me of the Kinkmeshas who are like "yOu sUcK d*cK fOr fReE" First of all, I don't suck d*ck periodt. 💅 Second, having a stable job with medical insurance and upward mobility isn't a bad thing AT ALL. Too many women are exploited and underpaid, at least get into something where you don't have to spread your bootycheeks and regret it later down the line when you """lose value""" and can't get a real job. Women never lose value, I'm just sp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:20 PM
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Hell yeah sister!! A good face wash, some moisturizer and essential oils makes me feel f r e s h. I hope more women go for a minimal makeup routine or take “face breaks.” Your skin a giant organ and soaks that stuff up. Not good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:57 PM
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✨JUST DON’T✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:35 PM
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3000% this. I think men who raise their voices usually have anger issues. This man seems dangerous. Idk something seems off about him moving so close…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:35 PM
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First off, your English is very good! Secondly, judging by your initial feelings and how you are even here in the first place I think you can guess what most of us would say. Use your gut please…this guy is rushing intimacy, putting pressure on you by moving close by and kissed you without asking. It’s hard to cut things off but if you’re unsure, pump the brakes. Take things slow and think about this. You’re very young, and there is no rush!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:31 PM
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Even the terms “big boobs” and “doggy style” sound pornsick. That’s just another way to break down intimacy and make it into a thing. When it should be a private affair between people who consent and love each other. It’s all a mess…I don’t think porn can feasibly exist without women being abused in some way, even if it’s the “soft core” stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 06:59 PM
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We can speculate all day, I just think it’s weird he was so obsessed with abortion when it’s YOUR body he literally tried to violate. Sorry you had to deal with this…and it’s hard…”I wish I saw the red flags”. Hindsight is a scrote! I’m just glad you’re here and safe now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 02:23 PM
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Stories like these are why I don’t believe men ever need help from women. What disgusting monsters, I’m so sorry you had to go through that dear…:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:57 PM
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Manipulative rapist. It makes me sick. And people say men can’t baby trap women, and this is the worst way to do it. FFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:34 PM
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Hahahaha that last sentence. Honestly women need to break down their relationships in this way. Makes you think “wait a minute…”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 01:31 PM
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“Females of the Earth” [Kanye voice] Shut the f-ck up I will f-cking LAZER YOU. Men like this give such horrible vibes that no wonder women don’t want them. I basically stopped reading after fEmAlEs. Seriously…I hope this guy never touches a woman ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:19 PM
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Omg I could cry, what an absolute QUEEN!!! Jóhanna Sigurðardóttir is apparently an out and proud lesbian too, she gets more and more badass the more I read about her!! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:49 PM
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LMAO it's not possible because so many older women look WAYY better than him. He looks like a melted gumdrop!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:42 PM
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"sTaY wOkE KiNgS" I CLAPPED AND LAUGHED, it's true and it's so goofy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:19 PM
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Are you joking??? This boy is grade A levels douche bag, what the hell. Not only did he abandon her, she. had. APPENDICITIS!!! That isn't a stomach bug that is "you're done if you don't go to the hospital now" levels of crap and I've heard it's PAINFUL. He needs a good k*ck in the plums so he can feel a modicum of pain she's feeling...JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:01 PM
15

Makes me want to buy a roll of stickers and paste it in random areas lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:56 PM
14

I would have even more questions... Actually, no, it would mostly be statements and a majority of them would be different iterations of disgust even if it was a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:50 PM
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I'm SO proud of you first of all. You've done the first step in realizing that your relationship is going downhill and making the good decision to bail before you're financially tied. It's a good thing the mask dropped now and not after the wedding! (sorry about the deposits though...that's annoying..) Now it's time to get angry and keep reminding yourself why you're leaving. It may get easy to fall into the "it's not all bad" only to keep the bandaid on longer. You deserve happiness and you're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:42 PM
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200% agree. These soft boys are so unappealing!! Oh LORDT don’t get me even started on how when a man is even SLIGHTLY nice about a woman. “Hurr hurr he’s a SIMP” Another word that scrotes adopted along with th*t and Karen. I’m so damn sick of these ass-clowns. Another one is “p*ssy whipped”. Men nowadays would be LUCKY to get that way with a woman. It means his life is still marginally better on average than the single men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:46 PM
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An apple a day keeps the LVM away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:22 PM
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First off, ew. How tasteless and insulting. This hits just as hard as when you’re talking about DV and someone pipes up “nOt aLl mEn” Shush. TBH I used to think it was progressive for women to propose…like…how come men get to do everything?? Can’t women do “men” things? FDS changed my mind because now I see women proposing as being the breadwinner and doing all the work… Not only do you have to cook and clean and birth the child but you also had to propose!! How exciting!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 04:05 PM
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Not your entertainment. Not your sex doll. Not your rehabilitation center. These scrotes need to get this hammered in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 12:46 PM
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Might as well put clown makeup on because I feel like I’m in the damn circus with these men. “I like the natural look!” Yeah that “natural” look takes a long time to do dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 12:44 PM
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In the warm spring-like weather of my room I felt a chill reading this. Holy...shit...this is so disgusting I want to cry...there's too much to write out how messed up this is. How can a man be this evil??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 03:00 AM
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I am so relieved to see someone else say they hate it too I wanna give you a huge hug!!! Omg all I ever hear in my family is that stupid joke. It got old!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 12:27 AM
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"Trauma bond is a fucking b*tch and can turn rosey colored glasses to PITCH BLACK" This is so true! I've been the observer of a lot of relationships (I've learned SO much here!) and it's hard to convince someone they are screwed until something horrible happens. Even then, some women STAY after the fact! He could openly insult her or make her angry and she makes endless excuses... I'm so damn picky that if a man told me to shut up, gave me any hint of a neg, or even uses a TONE I'm jumping out t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:06 PM
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IKR?? Some men be like: "Let me tell you something about women" No...how about you shove that comment up your ass buddy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:01 PM
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Only gold digging men are insulted by another man spoiling his SO. LMAO "hOw dArE yOu HaVe A bF tHaT gIvEs YoU nIcE tHiNgS"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:53 PM
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Can't eat a damn banana in public...hell! You can't say ANYTHING sometimes without it devolving into "that's what she said" crap. Then when you point out that it doesn't make sense/isn't funny then you're seen as an unfunny k*lljoy. This is courtesy of my brother btw, I don't get how some people can make EVERYTHING about sex. It's so repulsive! No wonder kids are so confused, their subconscious is flooded with sexual imagery, violence and stimulation that there is no filter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:50 PM
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The only weight she should be losing is the scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:00 AM
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How friggin’ sad is it that she has to ask “is this normal?” NO. IT ISN’T.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 01:58 AM
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Sounds like a nice house that’s burning down. Jump out the window Queen! I’ll lay a mattress out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:44 PM
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JFC Please please be careful leaving and make sure you get some help. It’s like the list didn’t end…it kept going and going and he just got worse and worse. Good riddance, what a horrible little man!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:41 PM
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Men have testosterone. They have NO excuse other than that they are lazy and drink too much beer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:36 PM
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Pretty LV Imo If men don’t treat women with respect they automatically become LV. He can be HV with his charities and obvious crime fighting but I’ve rarely seen him written to treat women well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:48 PM
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Unfortunately, Batman can be a massive creep depending on the writers. Like how he has sex with his best friends (Gordon’s) daughter as BatGirl. Like real life he uses his rich boy privilege to shield him from being a decent person, usually when it comes it women. I’m sick of it!! All these super hero’s have to be s*uts apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:45 PM
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OMG I saw this and immediately thought it would fit right in here!! Stanzi is hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:01 AM
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They always ALWAYYYYSS talk about men this and men that, but they never concede that women also need things too...and men almost NEVER stick with a woman when she is going through hard times. Usually it's after they've been married for years, and that's rare. And the "never humiliate him" is so goofy...you can't stop him from feeling humiliated. Heck, I "humiliated" my Dad by calling him cupcake. Men are so goofy! "Women are not rehabilitation centers" needs to be put on a shirt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 11:54 PM
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Preferably not in picture form either since the comments bring up a good point about the nudes being leaked. "You want a thirst trap b*tch? Come home and catch any clothes cause I ain't taking a picture!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 11:39 PM
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Right???? This mans been with this woman for 25 YEARS. Of COURSE he’s going to have lingering feelings, it’s natural. But he’s also unable to separate himself from her…they are EXES for a reason. He should have taken time (LONG time) by himself to be his own person…instead he dragged another poor woman into his spiral. Its. So. SAD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:00 PM
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LMAO I almost forgot about the “we’ve been spiritually married for 2 years” And I’m spiritually a millionaire in a castle with tons of cats. Miss me with that spiritual crap. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:31 PM
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If he took one second off his wee-wee and peeked behind the curtain he would see sexual assault, harassment, belittling, judgement, negging, financial abuse, weaponized incompetence etc etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:22 PM
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[filing nails] B*tch then don't waste your(our) time! Date your homies and f*ck off. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:19 PM
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Just commenting to give you a hug Queen! We've got you, and we care here...this is probably the most supportive place on Reddit IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:08 PM
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Apparently asking for equity is tAkInG sHiT fRoM mEn. "So ladies...we gave you the right to vote...and we pay you less but still pay you. Now let us b*at the shit out of you because you seem to be getting too comfortable..." It's terrifying that men think this way...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 03:00 PM
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I couldn't listen to any more after he said "I could b*at you up." Only thing making it better are the comments roasting him...I was about to leave in a sour and upset mood but "I didn't know Smash Mouth did stand up" was what did it for me. lmao Seriously though, why are the short men built like fridges the biggest scrotes on the planet? Not just a scrote but an abusive creep. People need to keep an eye on him...this dude isn't well and needs to be kept far away from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:57 PM
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That "no" really brings out the bullshit from some men. Controlling and "parental" men have their hackles raise and they are like "hOw dArE yOu!" LOL I'm so happy you are getting you "no" muscle working...a lot of women need this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:47 PM
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Handbook worthy Queen!! This is so beautifully put! Thank you for this post! 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 02:33 PM
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If emotions are so weak then why can’t men face them? Men are so WEAK. SO WEAK!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:49 PM
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Crying = emotional, hysterical, ew Anger = all good, justified, brought it on themselves, cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:48 PM
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As a Queen once said: “no human hasn’t had a complex thought unless they are a robot”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:47 PM
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Ew WTF?! I knew looking at the dude he was a pile of trash but the fact they took the time to add makeup makes me angry. “Oh hey she’s emotionally and physically abused, but we gotta make her hotter!!” F*CK….OFF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:54 PM
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“With or without you” Men who are focused only on work and can’t spend time on a RELATIONSHIP…something that needs to be nurtured…just doesn’t make sense to me. Like, why bother? It’s more effort and time you obviously don’t have. Unless it’s all just a thing to get their D wet. If that’s the case then women need to steer clear. Only heartache and neglect down that path!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:50 PM
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JFC the audacity knows no bounds. Why can’t he look for a woman his age who doesn’t have kids? Oh right…because they are ToO oLd and won’t put up with his crap. Nah bro! YOU look like crap! Men in their 40s usually go downhill fast. Wtf was he thinking?! No thoughts! Head empty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:44 PM
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I don't know much about Elden Ring but I hear it's popular among Dark Souls fans...meaning it's a grinding open world game...meaning he's gonna be tapped out of the relationship and glued to his TV. It just adds another layer of "ick" to me...like he's gonna be smelly and stuff because male gamers are gross and she's just all "Oh he's so funnyyyy uwu" Oh, and I want to yeet the words "nutted in me" into a volcano...ECHHH!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:01 AM
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I’m crying. IM CRYING AND NODDING. Lesbians get so much crap and can’t even have their own damn space. Gay men NEVER deal with this bullshit as much. So many damn women’s groups…taken over. I hope our lesbian sisters come here more and find a home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 07:37 PM
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[loud shudder] I don’t wanna imagine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 07:24 PM
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“We have been spiritually married for 2 years” Oh GIVE ME A BREAK. This man is a dweeb….I’m impressed with how Queen was able to get out of the emotions of pregnancy and BAM! Into problem solving. She’ll do just fine. <3 Oh shoot I missed the later part: “the fact she made decisions so independently” OMG WHAT A SCROTE. You can’t go 50/50 on pregnancy!!! She’s so smart!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:35 PM
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This is cartoonishly evil. Men think other men don’t speak like this obviously haven’t met a woman who had to deal with this trash. FFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:15 PM
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Man-Bot 2000 Made by women…FOR women. Having a bad day? He will listen to you vent and nod, only speaking to affirm that yes, that man passing you on the highway WAS a douche. That woman at the office talking behind your back? Giiiirl you know you’re the best. Man-Bot has 20 different settings and attachments, and can scour the Internet for recipes. He’s programmed for YOUR tastes ladies! More importantly…he’s machine washable, biodegradable and has a 50 year warranty! (Shut up and take my money…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:07 PM
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I get what you mean but why would they want a smelly real woman? I’m just confused because we know women are great but some of these icels complain about every bodily function a woman has. She has hair she has thoughts and *gasp boundaries!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:08 PM
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Yo!!! I saw that last part on here or somewhere else close to here. It’s so damn messed up!!! Robotics have come a long way from what I was thinking….who knows when commercial robots are available? $5000 to Jack off into plastic lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:05 PM
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Good point!! They are so damn annoying. Want women with huge tits but don’t realize to get that “bigness” you have to add stuff. It’s not like they can inject women with whale blubber or her own fat. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:02 PM
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It’s so annoying how these men are so hard wired to say derogatory things. It’s like “You were SO CLOSE!!” If more men were like him and actually held their bros accountable I’d be a happy lady. I hope more guys get the wheels turning and do something about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:04 AM
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Hilarious and terrifying is right. But wanting to cheer things up my brain imagines ads online like “We MUST ban P*ssyMaster 3000!! It’s destroying the planet and our little boys” LMAO. Honestly I don’t think artificial wombs will be any time soon at all, and robots are silly and stupid at the moment and only do what they are programmed. And not to do a whataboutism….but I’ll do it…cause I’m a dweeb. We always talk about men getting their jollies off and their peens but never hear about women wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:57 AM
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That’s another thing… I want to see FDSs thoughts on “sex robots” for men in the future. Sure the gross men will leave us alone, but if patriarchy has taught us anything it’s that if men don’t have a use for something they throw it out. Like you said 🎶 only time will tell! 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:12 AM
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LMAO this reminds me of a conversation a while ago where I wanted to be born in the 2080’s instead of the 80’s like my sister wants and I was told I was dumb. If time machines were a thing I’d peace out to a future world and hope it’s like Star Trek…but better! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:09 AM
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“He would sit and cryyyy about how he felt so dirty” LORDT. This is what happens when you play stupid games! “I’d rather be lonely than repeatedly traumatized” exactly! But it’s also for your physical health too. Like you said, they don’t GAF. No problem! I like frogs and my Mom loves them so I think of my Mom. I’ll have to send her that picture because it’s sweet and made me audibly go AWWWW!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:20 PM
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Preach it!! I’m glad to see you turned out safe and clean…its just so selfish that men think only of their orgasms and not the health of the person they are with. Why even men? I STG. Also your PFP is ADORABLE!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 04:35 PM
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I’ve seen this woman’s content and love her to pieces. The fact that SHE fell victim to a nasty scrote shows that we are ALL capable of being manipulated. Like that weird cult that gives you just enough attention and then starts asking for your credit card info, these men start asking you to lower your boundaries. The most precious thing of all are your boundaries ladies….cherish them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 04:11 PM
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This may just be me but I think getting tested is seen as taboo because it shows evidence that the woman has had sex. Big shocker eh? But you also have to tell doctor and put it on your medical records, which is pretty humiliating. Even though it’s all these things, the right thing is to encourage women that they are okay and it’s not usually their faults….normally it’s men’s nasty unwashed peen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 04:06 PM
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Funny about that!! I was just thinking about how can we take artists seriously if the women they talk about might not even be real! Is this how he really feels? And if it’s bad and scrotey like The Weeknd then it’s doubly yikes. But it makes me giggle thinking about a grown ass man talking about his “b*tches” and he goes home and doesn’t have a single woman in his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 02:15 PM
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Exactly. It’s a dick waving contest I didn’t damn well sign up for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 01:27 PM
47

Ugh. I told my Dad the sexual assault rate is high in the military and got the “iT hApPeNs EvErYwHeRe” crap. Who’d think a place that asspats men while simultaneously stripping them of their brain and personality would turn them into basically animals? That’s the only explanation I have, I just know my sister was horribly scarred and SAed in the army and it’s a legitimate issue. And women are also physically weaker and men know this. Women can’t run on the battlefield and carry her 200lb friend …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 01:25 PM
55

AYO I said people who do this crap frequently have to have diapers and people were shocked. Mostly I heard it happening to gay men but I’m sure it’s happened to women before too. It’s a horrible life, how is it worth it? The vagina heals and can expand and contract, it’s the best option and men just scoff at it. Blegh. I blame porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 01:17 PM
20

Urgh. This just skeeves me TF out. Like even stimulating HIM just sounds porn sick to me. But more importantly, women just have better options. The vagina self lubricates and cleans. It’s just the more PLEASANT option. Why do men even WANT to do that? If porn has taught them anything…it’s to cause women pain. And it is 200% NOT for you. Like the comments say, your gut is the main Queen here she knows best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 01:08 PM
61

As someone who doesn’t care about my butt and hips and may be asexual (so I offer nothing to men and they do zip for me) it’s so awkward when a guy you know pursues you and keeps talking about his ass thing. Like…b*tch go away I’m eating!!! Beauty standards change every decade, so we need to just lock arms and appreciate our lovely brains. The positivity I like is “gee I may not like my stomach, but it sure keeps my organs in place”. It’s silly but our bodies are ours like you said, and they are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:31 PM
85

“The women they draw/write can’t exist in this world”. Gaia, let me tell you how tired I am. I’ve seen too many damn fictional stories where the men are well rounded and have emotions and women have to be neutered. Wouldn’t want to upset the boy-os if a woman starts crying eh?! The drawings are the worst too. Women have the same body shape and face. Even if they have darker skin they are always “attractive” while the men have have an array of features. I could go on for two hours about this… “In…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:24 PM
7

Guys like to believe all women have “that one ugly” friend. But honestly I see a lot of women with overweight or “unattractive” friends because they’ve been friends forever. You think they would dump their sister because scrotes have a warped poo brain? No!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:06 PM
11

Proof that men don’t have to attracted to you to have sex with you. Animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:03 PM
3

What a jackass. How much you wanna bet the women he cOuRtEd aren’t even unattractive? Men over-value their own looks so this dude probably looks like an ogre lmao Besides that, he also pumps and dumps these women instead of just staying single. F*ck this guy. Men think only hot tiny models get pumped and dumped but this guy? Ugh. No woman is safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:01 PM
20

“I’ll do it when I do it” It’s so frustrating!! It sums them up really well, can’t be assed to do it when you need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 07:56 PM
3

Yes!!! We can get Budweiser to sponsor the show and it can donate the proceeds to women’s shelters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:11 PM
11

"Honey...sometimes this world is too much...it's more than I can handle and I don't know what I want to do with my life. I've been cycling through jobs and they leave me resentful and-"(just reaching out into the void for emotional support or a simple "it's gonna be okay") And he's like: "Have you tried turning it off and then on again" after a minute of radio static. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:06 PM
77

I can imagine this is the type of man a woman finds after being with "Mr Sensitive." She's emotionally drained from Mr Sensitive constantly sucking her time and constantly asking for more, so a "simple mAnLy mAn" will be more easy right? Then she realizes that she's got no chemistry or connection, the interactions are hollow, dinner is boring and when whimsy or wonder sparks up in her he gives one worded or evasive answers. "Meat and potatoes" guys are also usually sexist and play devils advocat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:02 PM
14

I always thought I was "simple" and didn't ask for much... It wasn't until I was more honest with myself and realized that...no...I have emotional needs and want to be taken care of and loved. These men aren't "simple"...human beings aren't simple because they aren't robots. And they are most likely emotionally deadened/constipated men who bail when you have a cOmPlEx eMoTiOn...or rather "I don't have the emotional maturity to handle this hysterical woman" Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:57 PM
29

EXACTLY! Men and women...want sex and intimacy...Women have sex = child. (when men are the CAUSE for all unwanted pregnancies because they can't do without their precious orgasm) Burn her at the stake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:51 PM
12

They just friggin' adopted her when she was left high and dry because of a scrote... I'm crying...this is so great and I'm so happy the family was sweeter than the man she married...<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:38 PM
13

Urgh that's so sad to see Queen. Not you but the fact you wanted to GET IT OVER WITH...HOLY- I'm glad you're laughing about it now but this straight up sounds like assault...maybe I'm being dramatic and you were just bored lol, but NO women should deal with this! These chuckle f*cks think one thrust of their wee-wee is enough to give women an orgasm. FFS What a joke!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:35 PM
54

[man looks out rainy window] I understand women now... [goes back to jerking it to porn]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:27 PM
18

Honestly I've seen so much abuse women go through on this site and in general that kicking men in the plums wouldn't be enough to erase the millennia of trauma... I'm def all for lining up rapists and pimps and abusers and having their victims have a good ol' kicking...can you imagine how cathartic that would be??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:26 PM
18

This is why I don't feel guilty for lumping most men together. You want to coddle your fellow man and leave shit like this alone? You want to asspat your homies while he treats women like trash? No. You're NOT a good person dude...if you actually cared you would wisen up and DO BETTER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:23 PM
58

Women/girls just can’t get a break. Instead of being a kid she’s forced to do free labor just like thousands of other girls. This makes me want to kick that man in the groin. How dare he?? Once a scrote always a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 01:08 PM
20

“Single mothers need dick too” Ugh. The way these pricks talk about women. Instead of “she needs someone to love and support her” they talk about “MUH PENUS “ GTFO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 01:05 PM
23

Problematic as he is, George Carlin has a good point about the First Ladies being condescended to. Michelle could have done so much more if they gave her room. I’m personally not a fan of the Obamas but my heart goes out to Michelle. Ugh. It’s a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:11 PM
9

See???? Men blame women and s*ut shame them when it should be the other way around!! BillyZaneJamaalMikey-boy it’s YOUR fault for not wrapping up!! “Gold diggers witch power” I cackled!! There is no sympathy in my evil woman heart for men who throw money at “sex workers” (usually abused woman). HEHEHE. 👿
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 09:09 PM
28

Pictures like this are so freaking adorable. My heart can’t handle it!! They are both stunning people but the connection they have is so sweet! Thanks for sharing! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:09 PM
71

Yeah he deserves to get dug if he’s gonna treat women like that. Good on the Queens for sucking him dry of money. I only have so much sympathy for men…I don’t care if they come from poor backgrounds if they are gonna turn around and treat women like shit. Like you said, play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:20 PM
54

Not only that, she was in and out of consciousness. Did she go limp and fall asleep? Was she incoherent?? JFC when you break it down it gets worse and worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:18 PM
49

“We we’re on very uneven ground” This…this is disgusting. Beyond words. How can you see a woman throwing up in the toilet and get it up? How can you be a disgusting perv to feel up someone so vulnerable. I want to give OOP a hug…she has a lot of issues and the alcohol just made it worse. JFC this is horrible. She needs help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:15 PM
88

That’s very harrowing…. Women NEED boundaries for their own protection and the fact it’s getting rarer and rarer scares me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:11 PM
115

Proof that idiots shouldn’t have that much power and money. It’s like a smoke trail of suffering. They “live it up” and abuse women along the way. Ech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:03 PM
204

It’s so cute because there is a progression of her gaining weight over the years and his smile never changes. You can tell in his eyes that he loves her. He may have played a fk boy in film but how he treats his wife is anything but. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:59 PM
242

Men do over sell their looks tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:52 PM
365

“Ugly wife” B*TCH STFU. Those women had their life sucked out of them to support their husbands business and emotional crap. FFS. The only rich guys with harems are degenerates. Though can you imagine a rich woman like Oprah having a harem of hot dudes? Consenting adult men? Men would lose it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:51 PM
28

Again, I will gas up my Mom, she’s a diabetic wound care surgeon and deals with necrotic flesh. This woman is insane (in a good way) and watched surgeries while she eats. Men are babies and squeamish…men need to suck it up and accept that women can be fantastic surgeons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:57 PM
9

Just like the “free love” movement in the 60s IT DIDN’T GO SO WELL. For women I mean….men had all the sex they wanted. “They’re not owed chivalry because they are women” Into the trash you goooo~ 🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:52 PM
8

SAME. I don’t trust uncut men any more. For me it was a video…IT WAS SO DISGUSTING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 10:12 PM
13

And humiliating too!!! It’s one thing to get it on your arm or foot it’s another to get it near the genitals AAAA!!! I sure hope this scrote is helping her pay off her medical bills because FFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:27 PM
8

Foot fetish? Femdom? I don’t have an exBF but I have an ex friend who was into that. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:19 PM
39

"I like women I like women I like the concept of a woman I like to take that concept and reduce it to an object I like to take those objects and put 'em in my videos Have them shake they jiggly bits so they looks like h*es" ~ Reggie Watts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:35 PM
39

There are too many men like that here of any race...it's the personality type that offends and grosses me out the most. So persistent and aggressive. But he aggression could be taken by some women as better than weak men who stutter to ask you out. To me it's obvious how misogynistic these men are but I weep for the women who take their nasty ass bait... You see some women who are cute and funny and look at her man and his pants are sagging and his face has pubes....GORL!!! WTF ARE YOU DOINGGGG?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:31 PM
15

​ I get morbid curiosity but my heart can't take that shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:25 PM
37

YO I YELLED. WTF?? Men's peens are so gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:23 PM
41

MRSA and sepsis are no friggin' joke. My Mom works in wound care and it can take you out in a heartbeat...JFC I'm glad OOP is okay!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:21 PM
33

It's always the fat guys who complain about weight JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:18 PM
123

"Love your imperfect body! I like your skin! I'm an ass man!" [looks like a bean pole with scraggly facial hair]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:12 PM
17

Proof that the hot guys are just as nasty. Blegh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:57 PM
3

Totally. 🥂 Queen deserves SOMETHING out of this prick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:54 PM
20

THIS ONE MADE ME RETCH LMAO. Good one!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:48 PM
89

Even if they are they need to get over it. I’ve rotted and had mushrooms grow on me and embraced it. These fkers slick back their nonexistent hair and say “still got it”. No Bobby, what you got is issues and women ain’t got time for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:22 PM
99

“Nature is kinky like that” ✝️ Outta here with that!! Outta here!! [waves cross]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:19 PM
38

Unless she wants a specific type of multigrain bread then WTF?! If he gets lost then ASK. They change the layout here all the time. Sometimes it takes looking goofy and wandering around to find what’s on the list. Don’t spent too much time there though because you’ll buy 50 different types of chocolate…like me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:17 PM
44

200% Pickmes seem to peddle the same snake oil that benefits men…I’m just tired of that! Ain’t nobody got time for that! We gotta look out for each other because men sure as hell ain’t lining up to help us out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:13 PM
145

Ugh. I feel you sister. Some days I get soft and want to cuddle up with someone and have a good life with that person. Most of the times I do this in a place of loneliness and a lot of Queens here have a good network of friends so they don’t feel the need to fill in that gap. However, like you said, a lot of modern men don’t seem CAPABLE of love. They don’t seem capable of getting off their damn phones to listen to you talk. It’s a sad thing and I’m just trying to get to the point where I don’t …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:04 PM
2

Exactly!! Holy crap when you break it down it just turns to shit. Even if she wasn’t some hottie the fact women put so much into the home and breathe life into these scrotes spaces is enough. She is enough and great and this man just wants more. Always about the man but she could be downing margaritas at a beach somewhere. UGH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:50 PM
7

“With a smirk on his face” I just want to throw my phone at a wall I can PICTURE IT. AAAAA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:10 AM
9

Oh yeah because we totally like crying eh? It’s not like we are emotionally reacting to this crap. Some men think tears are manipulative…BAH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:09 AM
6

Oh shoot, there was a post recently where some scrote demanded thousands of dollars from his stay in GF because it was financial abuse that she was saving money??? It was blindingly ridiculous…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:04 AM
8

I’ve heard nothing but good things about that show. I’m more into action stuff but I’ll have to give that one a try! And it’s funny because sometimes the gay couples are pretty wholesome. I mean there is a lot of trash and some are horribly manipulative…but there’s almost never any abuse because I think a lot of women write these stories. Lmao WHO KNEW?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:00 AM
14

My Dad knew immediately he wanted to marry my Mom. If he wanted to, he would!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:55 AM
72

I think there was literally a comedy sketch on that. It shows how messed up this all is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:53 AM
33

We can’t have boys objectify women in the BADDD WAY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 12:53 AM
28

Reminds me of a video where a woman was complaining there isn’t “good” lesbian porn and her solution is…[checks notes] porn. A woman responded to it like “she says it’s degrading and awful but you know what else is? Being choked by a penis”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:53 PM
13

[sees picture] Like…first off NO. Secondly…they look like such nice ladies. Can’t they do better things with their time and have a knitting community or go rock climbing?! This is so horrible and embarrassing UGH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:50 PM
55

“Until you experience your first labor pains and push out a baby THEN we can talk home boy!” [block]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:48 PM
57

Translation: Men can’t have a mindless sex doll. I swear to Christ this stuff is so r*pey. I hate it I hate it I HATE IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:47 PM
14

True true. This may just me thinking back on how I was shamed for being “too moody” and the only solution is to “cut it out.” You’re right about men being empty…it can’t all be “just the way they are.” Time and time again whenever someone is emotionally deadened it either trauma or it was intentionally cut off. It also makes it hard to relate to others emotionally too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:11 PM
57

It's funny how Key depicts these women as megalomaniacal weirdo's instead of PickMes who think they are doing a good thing. Either way the sketch is hilarious, I still think Peele's best work is when he's with Key. Another subtle thing is Peele's stance being stupidly wide to the point of nearly stepping on "Mother Majesty's" feet, little touches like that are amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:51 PM
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Happy to see the creepy degenerate incel getting downvoted to heck. Honestly "bruh" is the only good way to react...just stunned silence and judgement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:48 PM
31

Thing is that "go getter" attitude works for her and probably not for you. It's like after you have a bad day she tells you to smile or something. Gross. The ruthless Queen thing is fine I guess but it's not for every woman. I can see the appeal of detaching from relationships and sex but you know you! And you are fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:40 PM
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Sounds like you two are incompatible. If she thinks 2 MONTHS is too LONG then she has different plans. You can keep her around as an acquaintance or at arms length just to be sure, but I'd start distancing myself from her...if you want a good solid friendship, then next her. People in this "fast paced city" need to slow the fk down then...because taking things too fast is bad and you can find yourself colliding into a wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:34 PM
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I saw the post too...it got popular and I was so ready to comment "TraffickHub did one good thing" but I didn't want to deal with the drama llama that would come out of that. Another thing PornHub did was environmental stuff...jerk off for the trees I guess? The point is it's all a joke...men care more about their precious porn site than the abused women...sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:29 PM
29

Do it. If you value this friend you gotta (respectfully) slap some sense into her. The dude is a pile of stinky red flags and she is too enamored to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:18 PM
2

I don’t want a meathead, but I do want a guy who can protect me. THIS!! As for global events it makes me angry, because as I've said...it's just men waving their dicks around. War is the biggest dick measuring contest ever and innocent men are caught in the crossfire. Bloodthirsty men are the ones who run towards it I've noticed....they seem like "brave men" but most men in war need a justification and reward for why they put their necks on the line. But that's a whole other bag of potatoes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:15 PM
2

Balls are WEAK AF. We need to normalize ovaries because they are WELL PROTECTED. I got a wall of skin and tendons protecting me and you got a dangly pair of plums like a target...WEAK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:09 PM
10

security is telling me to leave because I'm causing a disturbance. Shit like this makes me want to lose it I STG... It's lonely but having women in your life is more beneficial. I hope you are okay, it's horrible what you had to go through. [hugs]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:02 PM
1

?????!!!! What. A. PRICK. Fuck that guy! Seriously!! I'm so glad you are okay Queen but JFC...what a spineless prick for bailing on you. And giving you attention after? Warm and then cold? What a soulless bastard. Edit: I'm giving hugs to any Queens who want it in the comments section...adding a heated blanket because some of you need it. Love you all and stay safe please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:53 PM
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Even worse is he was REWARDED for this!! Men wax poetic online and get accolades...if a woman did this she would either not get as popular or get hellfire set upon her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:33 PM
62

Yeah, it's not the same with women now that I think about it. Women are conditioned to stay into relationships they hate and could be abused...men though?? Usually they are just greedy or settle despite being unhappy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:31 PM
150

This is why men (especially women too) shouldn't settle... Like...how hard is it to wait? Wait until you find that person, NOT to string someone along??? Just...what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:29 PM
127

Yeah!! We need to hear HER side! She's probably a sweet older woman who takes care of people and goes above and beyond to make everyone feel safe and happy...what does OOP do??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:25 PM
178

This is fantastic! Thank you! I never thought of "love" as "affection-peek-a-boo" very well put. As for that Esther woman good GRIEF. I can't imagine caring for someone and trying to awkwardly flirt...because if my man flirted with someone in front of me, I'm gone in the blink of an eye...POOF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:23 PM
75

LMAO look at all the awards. I don't know a single thing about love but FDS gave me a new perspective that it's "good work, communication and stability." In our culture it seems boring eh? But the latter is tentative attachments or even straight up toxicity. This man has sometime fantastic with his wife, is not appreciating her like she deserves and something tells me he's going to get desperate and cheat... I don't trust that a man who longs for sparks will go gentle into that good night. I wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:16 PM
113

"wE gOtTa hEaR bOtH sIdEs" YEAH? And how is that working out for XX Chromosomes? Not well, and it's a cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:08 PM
38

IMO, in a post slavery society we need to do away with racial slurs all together. It's like calling women sexist slurs, it just shows a society that hasn't grown up past the name calling stage no matter who uses it. But back on the male entitlement...[snort] it's just DUMB. "Mommy Mommy, I got depwessed because I nutted in a woman and realize my life is going to change" I get it...having children is hard, but I have next to no sympathy for men when it comes to this because it's...a non-issue to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:07 PM
51

"No Dan, you're not pregnant, you're just fat."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:58 PM
47

OMG that post! I was so angry but also amused and confused... Like sir? Where are you going to put the tampons SIR?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:57 PM
145

If any man is traumatized after seeing vaginal blood then he is weak and shouldn't be reproducing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 02:56 PM
35

Oh for sure. I’m not knocking women for enjoying it TBH. I see it as far less of an issue. When you compare actual trafficked women to just teens or women fantasizing about dudes kissing in (most of time) loving ways it DOESNT compare. That “mutually beneficial” thing is on point. If you look at the other side (barf) of the straight animated porn (hEnTaI) you see it almost like IRL porn. So much friggin abuse and women pretending to orgasm. FML I just think women get shamed for seeking out more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:30 PM
72

The mousepad dude is definitely a weeb. How unprofessional. Ugh. All these guys sound LV and gross. Stuff like this makes me nervous, it’s like having a naked poster or a porn account. You don’t know if he’s gonna be a scrote and take it out on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:47 AM
2

Yo! Me too Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 01:36 AM
54

Pure audacity. Men just love “teaching those wh*res a lesson” fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:41 AM
117

The only thing I can think of that isn’t even in the same field or damn ball park is like…yaoi? Like women aroused at fictional men having sex. Gorl, if you want to see prime time assmad it’s the men who realize these women exist. You’d think “oh gee, gay men in IRL porn are abused too” yeah they are…but holy hell the number on women is horrific. Staggering. Every single body part on a woman is commodified and cut into pieces…it’s depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:29 AM
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[cackles at salty scrotes downvoting this] Scrotes can’t handle a little thought experiment? The reality is women are trafficked into porn and all sorts of horrors ALL the time. Die mad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:21 AM
6

Same sis...same...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:07 PM
47

THIS IS WORSE THAN THE NEST. WE HAVE A CONTENDER FOR THE NASTIEST SCROTE LADIES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:06 PM
5

Damn it's a bad time to be eating rn. "I'm not sure how to deal with this" I have one word...flamethrower...burn it all down including the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 05:03 PM
67

"Waaaaahhh WAAHH Women are so eXpEnSiVe" Bruh, then date yourself!!! SMH. These men systematically do nothing and think they are so special, that they are the magic penis. They don't address their fellow mans issues and take credit for the "good" that men have done when they ain't done jack shit. STFU man...pay your own bills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:25 PM
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I mean, good on the men for trying to protect you but who they protecting you against...OTHER MEN. You have the "good men" who shield women from r*pists and the r*pists themselves...And military women are at a HUGE risk of SA. Hell, my sister is a statistic and had to go to therapy for years because of it...it's horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:16 PM
24

Boils my blood too. Men wave their dicks around and try waving women over like "Hey c'mon baby! We are fIgHtInG tHe gOoD fIgHt" No Jason...fk off, I didn't ask for this sh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:12 PM
27

Looking around at these American men I am NOT impressed... What makes these scrotes think that these women will get with them lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:10 PM
27

TFW mans got nice hands and forearms tho. ✨😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:24 AM
28

“BuT wOmEn ChOsE tHiS jOb aNd Its sO eAsY” First off, if it was so easy more men would do it. Secondly, sometimes, heck…a LOT of times women don’t choose having children or it’s foisted on them to do all the home labor for tHe lEgAcY. It’s so insulting that men whine about SAHMs being couch potato’s when you see it physically age mothers all the time. Ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 04:22 AM
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UGH it’s so terrible how these men see women in general!! If these men need support so damn much they need therapy!! If there is trauma then women shouldn’t mop up the messes MEN CREATED. Men’s issues, men’s problems men’s wars!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:42 AM
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Definitely…. My Mom had a major in Holocaust studies, and I barely read her article on the abuse of women and it turned my stomach. Men think they are owed women because they “fight the good fight” and leave. “Comfort women” were around to “boost morale”. When you break it down and realize it, it’s the same old thing…War is pure Patriarchy. The biggest dick waving contest ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:35 PM
96

This is why “MuH lEgAcY” should be thrown out the window for women. Too many people care about the mans opinion when it’s women’s bodies at risk. Not only that but he wasn’t there for emotional support when the infant was in the NICU. I hate this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:29 PM
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“When it didn’t work out with her he downloaded dating apps” [LOUD WHEEZE] F*CKED AROUND AND FOUND OUT. Seriously though…my heart breaks for her. How can she be disgusted with him and then sTiLl LovE him??? P*ssyTown would be closed for business with him FOREVER. And I DO hope she does that. “He was a lazy father and I accepted that” When are these women going to learn not to procreate with such losers??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:26 PM
29

Considering how much sexual and emotional labor sis had to do I’d say she earned it. All OOP did was whine on Reddit and corner her. And like the comments here say he could be leaving out some things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:21 PM
24

B*tch doesn’t deserve a CENT. ITS👏HER 👏 MONEY. JFC If the legal system wasn’t so messed up I’d say she needs to lawyer up if he considers ditching her after getting the money. Nothing says “I’m the victim” like taking someone else’s hard earned cash and bailing. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:19 PM
24

“To keep his scrotum nice and tight for his wife” I laughed way too hard with this. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:03 PM
76

Better a poor man wiling to give you everything and the shirt off show back than these nickel and diming scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:02 PM
28

Men can have all the power and make double the amount you do and it’s STILL NOT ENOUGH. 50/50?! With what?! You want her in the poorhouse dude? And who does the chores?! JFC these entitled men. Just BE. SINGLE if you’re going to be a prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 09:00 PM
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Exactly!!!! And good GAIA FORBID if you want women to join!! Then misogynists come out of the woodwork and cry that “the wimmins ruin everything.” TBH I don’t believe in following a doctrine that has treated women like sh*t for centuries but women DESERVE at least the option to be a priest. Can you imagine if a female Pope came along? The testerics will never end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:20 PM
7

As I say a lot here, ain’t that a peach? These women try to get away from the violence and male depravity and STILL get it. This is why “sex work”….just DOESN’T WORK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:59 PM
3

HMMM...[hand weighs] Live with parents whom you trust and raised you...or some complete stranger who you don't even know doesn't eat with his damn mouth open...HMMM. Jokes aside, I'm glad you stuck with your intuition. You are right, even if he's a rare sweetheart of a man, you don't know him and you have MANY reasons not to trust him!! Good for you OP! Proud of you sticking with your intuition!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:24 PM
37

EUGH. At this point doesn’t it just become ridiculous?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:16 PM
21

Oh LORDY. Some of these guys go extreme and want you to kick them. That is horrible too!!! Yeah doing gentle things and caressing is great but the kink community came around and took steroids and was like “NOW CALL THEM A SL*T” NO THANKS. I’m not very sexual, I like hand holding and sh*t so maybe I’m not good at this stuff. But I just think kicking or hurting someone you love is bad. Plus male “subs” can turn into needy weaklings and that is SUCH a turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:12 PM
21

Thankfully I only got a gay man telling me how beautiful I was and to DUMP HIS ASS!! I kinda stopped but FDS content like this is the only reason I haven't deleted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 05:51 PM
62

It’s horrible that my internal thoughts are “women can’t wear form fitting clothes anymore.” Men are such animals they can’t contain themselves and women have been told all the time that they have to police their own clothing when MEN shouldn’t stare!! One time a young woman at my job came up to me asking if her shorts were too short. Lo and behold her male “friend” said they were too short. I got angy and told her that she was fine and they weren’t too short. Even though my job is casual you ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:47 PM
12

I was JUST gonna say “Okay Jesus, can you walk on water too?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:26 PM
60

This makes me so angry. I’m so damn friggity friggin SICK of a traumatized woman PLACATING these little shits. She was RAPED. Show some goddamned compassion and don’t make it about MEN, THE CAUSE OF MOST WOMENS SUFFERING. Are we going to have to give stats now? Are we going to have to give the astronomical numbers showing marital rape and DV? The perpetrators being men by a landslide? Stuff like this makes me want more female spaces just to give double deuces to these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:23 PM
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If these “mAlE fEmInIsTs” cared so much about the cause they’d respect that we need our own damn spaces. Men for thousands of years, priesthood, Freemasons blah blah never felt GUITY for not letting women in their groups. “Gee boys, it’s a real sausage party here, I think we should let some women in to get their feelings on our boys club” Nope!! Never happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:16 PM
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Surrogacy exploits women even if it’s paid. So this fker wants a cheap way out of his “problem” and dummy ADMITTED to just doing her sister. Super happy she noped out. This is why you vet ladies!! Dummy ripped his mask off to get with a shiny new thing, HELL NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:13 PM
20

Please!!! I want to see this go down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:09 PM
32

This may be my tiny self coming out but I’d like to have “power” over a 6ft man. But that’s like a Great Dane letting a chihuahua “win” in wrestling. Lol It’s only the power the let you have though, because they can always turn around and take control back with force. That’s what scares me. It’s a lot of trust involved, and most men I’ve read about here ignore “safe words”. It’s a mess! And the slapping? How can a man expect someone who loves him to call him degrading sht? It’s terrible…a HV per…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:07 PM
31

I. AM. GONE. This whole situation has me ROLLING. Is it bad I think she has a good point? Minus the voting thing I guess? I don’t care, just do the “women fix society thing.” If I was in the booth nearby I’d be listening in with rapt attention. And he still wants another date. This is why I don’t take “she was CrAzY” seriously because men have sex with anything I STG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 03:39 PM
164

Yeah…imagine financially ball and chaining yourself to a man who dislikes you at best and hates you at worst. YEESH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 04:45 AM
9

The 2nd lady was the one planning the “date”…barf. And can we take an aside that no man would read her essay? I just imagined his next comment negging her lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:43 AM
2

Queen: Hey OLD, this dude sent raunchy messages and another guy called me a litany of slurs because I said no to a coffee date OLD: BAH. [hand waves] Queen 2: Hey isn’t this the same guy that serial dates and refuses to use a condom? OLD: BAAH!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:10 PM
2

Definitely. She has a book called “The Healing of Human Disconnect” and she’s covered it many times on her podcast. I can’t think of a specific video off the top of my head but I recommend her stuff. She talks a lot about narcissism but also about childhood wounds and parental bonding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 08:01 PM
10

That's the main reason I find oral so disgusting...vagina's self clean...men have ONE JOB and don't do it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 02:02 PM
4

I hope KZ enjoys his STD's I really do... And what a friggin' MORON. He does the typical scrote thing by putting ALLLL the onus on WOMEN, the person who isn't the cause of unwanted pregnancies. Good...grief...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:59 PM
5

I’d only give him lessons if he was handsome and has lots of money and approached in a kind way lol Other than that next his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:23 PM
37

[slicks hair back] Finally! I’ve achieved hotness! Honestly most of these dudes are superfans. There’s no way they would kick up a stink if they didn’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:23 AM
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Rule of thumb, usually if his shirts off he's a dum-dum. This woman's laugh SLAYS ME. I love her. TBH I thought he was going the angle of "if men treated women the way women treated men then DAMN, men would be nice!!" Wow! Orgasm gap closed! Women paid what they are owed and treated well! I can dream Queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 12:51 AM
2

I would definitely like the Discord handle because honestly, it's better for both of us not to open that can of worms. Us Radfems get sh*t on the moment we say something even NEUTRAL about things. I've heard (from here tbh) about the anti-feminist movement going on in Korean. Ain't that a peach? Women get mistreated all over the globe and whenever women do a "Fine, I'll do it myself" men just can't handle it! I'll have to check out some of those Manhwa, I hear they are less misogynistic towards …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:23 PM
44

Anita got so much hate. I followed the train on not liking her just because I was following misogynists at the time...it wasn't until I watched a video talking about the needless hate she got where I switched gears. It just goes to show that when a woman says "this stuff is harmful and indicative of patriarchy" you get SuperFans coming out of the woodwook crying "WOMEN RUIN EVERYTHING AND MY GAMEEESSS" It's so damn toxic...ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 07:20 PM
5

EXACTLY! Girls ARE groomed by teachers or older men and they are so pornified they think it’s hot too! I can’t help but laugh when men call things “matriarchies” because society give women free alcohol or “privileges” them. But never look deeper as to WHY these things happen or any nuances that it’s not so great and porn isn’t an empire run by women. BECAUSE THEY👏DON’T👏CARE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 01:14 PM
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JFC what a prick! I don’t think I got a message like that but I did get a suggestive one that OKC was like “this may be harmful” I’m all “bruh…that frick they don’t allow photos to be sent”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 02:02 AM
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Put out that phrase in big letters on YouTube and have it said by a "right wing" (libfem in disguise) woman and watch the views pour in. It's disgusting, and men lap it up eagerly because they hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:28 PM
55

I just don't know how they wipe themselves with those nails...personally I find them interesting and weapon when things get bad but women "catfighting" about nails is peak petty... We have girls getting their genitals cut off in other parts of the world can we please band together and fix these things first???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:27 PM
77

QUEEN. I'm so glad I wasn't drinking coffee because I would have spit it out my nose. AIM FOR THE STARS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:22 PM
257

[FDS women, supporting each other and being a shoulder to cry on and working on healing past relationship traumas] "OmG iT'S sO tOxIc" When Reddits like "degrading holes" is still a thing... I hate it here sometimes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:19 PM
23

I made a purely troll account on OKC, but now I'm feeling extra gross when you put it like that. Damn! The only time online dating sort of worked was my Aunt but that was on AOL back in the day...and men weren't as addicted to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:45 PM
25

With this ratio, these women could each have their own harem LMAO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:42 PM
23

JFC that's horrifying. These men are such animals, they can't keep their sticky hands to themselves...UGH. Sorry you had a bad time...:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:33 PM
60

Men: I put money in this Tinder machine and no sex fell out!!! Other men: I want a loving relationship with a hot 20-something and all I get are wh*res.... Fooled by bots and ravenous, these men are lazy but also desperate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:32 PM
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Not only have they been assaulted, there are stories about them being m*rdered!! We need to get the "success stories" from these apps and do a "risk/reward" analysis to even see it's worth it. My guess is not, but it's good to get the info out there to help these young women out. The dating apps (apparently, I only go on for the lols and dead fish) also have fewer women going on so it's like feeding yourself to a pack of starving wolves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:29 PM
46

That age-gap made me audibly scream "EWWWWWW" YO. WHAT THE FUK. Let this coomer talk to himself in a corner and DUMP HIM. JFC these girls are dating so young!! These gross men snatch them up, it's disgusting!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 11:59 PM
58

"It's like being a little bit pregnant" That's hilarious but also true! And women need to think "Do I do X?" so maybe if women are porn sick or watch a LiTtLe porn then...ick...whatever...but if you don't? Then what's the excuse? Women who don't watch porn shouldn't tolerate men cucking themselves by watching another man fk every day. GROSS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 11:55 PM
56

I can hear a scrote now saying "It's not even comparable, smoke causes cancer!!!" Excessive jacking off fkes your dopamine receptors and gives you "I broke my dick" Peyronie's disease.... We also need to normalize saying we don't like watching possibly abused/trafficked women perform degrading sh*t on camera.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 11:51 PM
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It's hard to take it seriously either because men think it's a flex if the "hot teacher" wants to F them when they are just kids. NO! It's MESSED UP!!! I can't imagine dating someone that young, baby faces gross me out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 11:48 PM
20

This is a weird post for FDS IMO. We don’t know what the wife was like before the post or if anything changed. I just don’t get it? Why doesn’t he take the kids and leave like we always say if it was a man? Heck, there could be thing he isn’t telling us (it’s all his perspective but we don’t see the wife’s side) but on the face of it IDK why he’s going to Reddit to scream and not leaving if he’s so miserable? Why doesn’t SHE leave? Maybe it suddenly hit her that she hates being a mother? I’m spi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:54 PM
104

Scrote: Let’s do an*l today babe. Her: Okay bend over! 🥰 Ridiculous!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:03 PM
98

I used to think it was unequal treatment or women just weren’t studied. The easier option is to just admit men get away with too much degenerate sh*t. Blegh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:55 PM
214

“My BF haS tHe sAmE kInKs” How much you want to bet it’s not that he likes being choked while going down on her? The crickets tell me everything…f*ck this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:52 PM
97

Sex toys can’t get you pregnant…just sayin’ 😂 The audacity of these men to think we are that desperate for mediocre PP. LAME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:48 PM
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Of course! I shut my DMs off because of scrotes but I’ll figure out a way to shoot you a message! 💞 That “Debbie Downer” thing is something we can’t even help!! “Well gee Lisa, it’s not my fault porn is a problem that no one wants to address.” Oh goodness right?! Media nowadays (heck, for a long time) aimed at adults don’t seem to be very mature. Some of it can be downright harmful (GoT IMO) but children’s media can be incredibly mature despite being “jUsT fOr kIdS”. An example is how I watched …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:02 PM
20

I mean…I met you so that gives me hope!! We do need to find more Radfems and stick together. We are a small group and seen as insane by a patriarchal world. And it’s okay if you don’t want to talk about the show, most shows nowadays are too sex crazed for my tastes anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:46 PM
15

This woman's man not only hates her but I'm actually getting pretty scared for her... Her relationship is so down the hole that she's posting on REDDIT...And FDS ironically enough taught me Reddit is the worst place for advice most of the time... JFC, I got chilly reading this. "Be GrAtEfUl" She needs to laugh in his face and LEAVE, because this clown runs a circus of scrotery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:35 PM
49

Wh*res like that man I hope get their penis blown out from STI's. And it was her FIANCE!! UGH!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:10 PM
29

"It's so hard to find Radfem women IRL" [sobbing] Yes...I'm the only one I know. I have no idea what show you're talking about but I can guarantee the fanbase is mostly male...innit always how that works? FFS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:56 PM
105

"First off I want to say he is a really great ma-" Nope sister...nOPE. That's when it plummets into a cliff...SO many posts on FDS show this to the point it's becoming kind of funny...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:51 PM
333

"He holds all the power and all the boundaries and you hold nothing" Lady this made me go "OOOOO!!!" in realization!! That and "they don't know how to build houses no more" got me good. Women like her are the only reason I keep going on TikTok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:42 PM
7

“I opened up to her about the physical and emotional abuse at the hands of a narc” Yo, even if it actually happened?!?! I told my sister I was afraid of relationships because men are the most dangerous to women and she gave me the “NoT aLl ReLaTiOnShIpS” That sh*t REALLY happened. How awful!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 01:39 PM
8

Instead of talking about how teenagers can legally be together or something they rub their grimy hands together and think “that could be me 🥺” Absolutely DISGUSTANG!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 01:25 PM
6

There needs to be an anonymous line to send tips to the police. That’s fuked up and he needs to rot for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 01:23 PM
7

That “what aboutism/X do X” (usually women brought up when men are the causes of issues…every…damn…time) is such a spook and a fake. Women CAN do it yeah, but the perpetrators are mostly male. I’m so sick of this crap being derailed. Men love salivating at the thought of female pedos and ignore the boys hurt by men. FFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 01:22 PM
4

One scrote even admitted to 15 being the most fErTiLe age and it’s okay because girls mature before boys. This guy was a “dating coach” and obviously and degenerate sex pervert and a misogynist. More men need to say the quiet part out loud, and they usually spill it when their buddies do some coaxing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 01:16 PM
7

The the thought that a “wh*re” wouldn’t touch these scrotes is just [chefs kiss]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:21 AM
17

“Me and my three eggs” You can tell this was written by a dumb scrote lol. Men are stupid enough to believe that women’s eggs just fall out all once we hit 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:18 AM
12

That's so fascinating!! This is the stuff that isn't talked about much and I'd like to know more if you have any more info! I've read about the Mosou and wish there were more smaller pockets of society like that everywhere!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:31 PM
19

Congrats! And you put this very well...the niceness won't last long!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:27 PM
25

"If you're getting defensive then I'm probably talking to you" QUEEN!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:21 PM
32

First off...her eyes are STUNNING!! "I'm not going to throw the whole man away" Sweetie please...You have CHILDREN...for your mental health in the long run, LEAVE. JFC these men just need to live with each other at this rate because if they think they can foist the SHOPPING all on one woman then it's pretty pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:13 PM
20

Only scrotes deserve such an insult...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:08 PM
93

YESSS!!! I mentioned to my Grandma (Dads side so less cool) years ago that I think male rapists should be castrated and BOOM, "WhAt aBoUt tHe FeMaLe RaPiStS" Where Grandma?? WHERE ARE THEY??? Another thing is DV...uUUGh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:07 PM
9

They can get an orgasm WITH all that crap. Men are so annoying. JFC they are so selfish I stg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:49 PM
24

We need to put the pressure on men because women can only get pregnant once a year. Men can impregnate women all the time. Unplanned pregnancies are all on men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:43 PM
36

You know I’m glad she was “rude.” It gets the mask to fall off faster. Nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:07 PM
17

I’d like to see at least ONE relationship work out. I got some scrote commenting on one of my comments about polyamory saying he was in a gay poly relationship and I couldn’t comment but want to say “how’s that gonna work out in a few years?” 💅 You rarely see older people in these relationships…probably because it’s exhausting having to juggle multiple people. Even a third person is way too much. IDK how they do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:48 PM
24

TO THE STOCKS WITH HIM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:41 PM
38

It's good to be grateful but it's so harmful too. I was told to "be grateful" when I was depressed so I'm 3000% sure women have been told this in their sh*t marriages. "Be GrAtEfUl hE tAkEs CaRe Of YoU" Oh yes, thank you for the crumbs sir!! Do you know where the Queen posted on "coercive contact?" It sounds really interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:33 PM
40

Honestly I feel like I don't give ENOUGH love to people... I'm seeing posts all the time of women who've given so damn much and are so generous and smart, talented amazing, one of a kind and it makes me feel blah. Not about them, but that I just don't measure up. It's never enough, not enough time, not enough love...anyone else struggling with this? Could just be me. Besides my gripes, you're 300% correct...so many mothers and go-getters give their time and energy to so much and barely take a br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:27 PM
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I say ALL of them. If we de-sexualize the breast then we’ll be one step in the right direction….unfortunately this dream of mine is sadly not happening any time soon unless we figure out the porn and well….PATRIARCHY issue…. And women with mastectomies are shown online topless, so I’m confused as to what the issue is? Is a “male” chest less offensive? Is it the “boob” part? Men have boobs nowadays so like…what’s the issue?!?! I mean “moobs.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:12 PM
13

Ugh. I’m totally for it because I see breasts s non-sexual however my views are fudged because in our porn sick society I can’t trust men to keep it down enough to let women BE free. This crap wasn’t so much of an issue before porn I believe. I’ve seen so many fat men with tits bigger than mine happily take their shirts off. You’re right that it’s younger women doing it too. I want more older women to be free too!!! If my neighbor can let it all hang out then I don’t see why women can’t. But I’m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 03:04 PM
40

This makes me so angry! I was watching some scrotes talk and one of them tried misleading the audience like “the DV is high for men but women instigate it? I dOnT kNoW I CouLd Be WrOng” I used to let stuff like this slip but not any more. DV is a serious issue and men butting in like “wOmEn aBuSe toO” it harms the MANY women hurt. And it doesn’t take long to google this stuff. OP is a prick and needs to stop Capitalizing Every Word. JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:57 PM
46

Yeah women just out here, lying all the time...JFC these men are so WEAKKK!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:11 PM
53

Men who diss hardworking and underpaid foodstaff need a kick in the groin. What a POS, glad you gave him the boot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:06 PM
1

When people are at different stages in their lives they need different things!! It’s a lonely road but so much better than crying and being miserable with someone!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 01:13 PM
11

YOUR home...YOUR rules Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 07:41 PM
92

I actually got the "not all men" reaction on Twitter and people piled on him. My specific was concern was traveling and assault..."not all men" doesn't make me trust men more! Men who are empathetic to women's concerns is a green flag...the "not all men" thing is the kiss of death for a conversation to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 07:27 PM
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"But you're not that skinny" These men are SO DUMB!! They think negging really works?? Boy...get out of here with your smelly self with the holes in your shirt pits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:33 PM
23

“If I confess my sins at the altar of the woman I dicked over maybe she will forgive my transgressions?!” You: Boy BYE. [kicks out]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:30 PM
6

I read posts like this to check myself to see if I'm "the bad friend" but when the list started getting longer I felt bad...I'm sorry you had to deal with this woman belittling and degrading you. My issue is I cut things off immediately. I got a "no bull" attitude so I've never "communicated" things...why should I? This person and I are obviously not working out. SO happy you cut her out. Friends are supposed to be there for you and compliment each other...and why would anyone be friends with so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:15 PM
131

"He was a perfect gentleman" [press X to doubt]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:55 PM
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What in the unholy scrote hell is this?? This is like an onion...it's so full of layers, it's stunning. It seems like a fetish thing with the mom/husband thing...the fact he confessed so much also seems unreal. The fact their assets were divided well and OPs Dad being a trooper was nice though...the true HV man of the story was the Dad. I have a hard time believing this...it's soap opera levels of horrible relationship drama, no wonder OP is getting health problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:08 PM
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Yeah!! I kind of laughed when she said homosexuality was frowned upon and lesbians were only a means to serve the man in the end and was like “OF COURSE!” You never hear about harems of men serving one woman. Never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:57 PM
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Andrea Dworkin wrote about the "free love" movement in the 60's and how women thought instead of being in on unequal footing things would balance out... It didn't go so well...men had orgies and insisted on having ALL THE WOMEN. Seems like it's just the "free love" movement all over again but on steroids and broadcasted on the internet! Yuk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:36 PM
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I'm starting to think I'm fuking asexual with how I feel about men and just...sex in general. There's so much kink talk and the thought of pregnancy and STDs just dried up anything that even sparked in me. I think I'm beyond "vanilla" I'm freaking...shaved ice! And the young women/girls who buy this stuff? Gaia help us, there is a cornucopia of posts here with the woes of the younger generation...I weep for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:31 PM
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This is totally the way to go, but I can see where OP is coming from. I've never experience this myself but FDSers have said women get attached to men through sex and bonding and poor OP was probably reaching out for comfort. I get what you mean though...she made way more money than him apparently and did this all on her own. Props! But it's scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:21 PM
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This is why men should have no say in pregnancy... I don't care!! Men don't bleed every month, men don't cry at the pregnancy tests or throw up every morning...this is heartbreaking...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:17 PM
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I totally agree but the weight is a caveat for me only because I try to take good care of myself (if depression permits) and if there is an obese man I’m not interested. But teeth and skin can show health issues and men need to take better care of themselves in general. Men don’t need to be gym bros to be healthy…the only thing to do is to start SOMEWHERE. It’s hard but worth it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:15 PM
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Wow…I may sound like a Nun but this is why women this young need to take a few more years off sex to vet. Because JFC this boy is so immature and gross. Oh and never ask Reddit for sex advice because she’s basically throwing herself to the wolves. Hope she listens to her gut and bails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:56 PM
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“Men also like young fertile women” You see, it’s MY time of the month and I DON’T WANT THIS. It’s so nasty!! Men who talk about younger women can’t help but salivate at the thought of gnawing their necks in. Just a “unused” vessel to do their demon sh*t on. My message to these men is to die seething at the thought any woman is too good for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:15 PM
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The only time this works for me is the angler fish. The female fish is enormous and scary AF but the males are tiny. The males seek out the females relentlessly and their main goal is to bite onto a female until he fuses and just becomes a pair of gonads. Then again it’s a pure dominance thing. The female fish is just such a Queen she doesn’t care and can have as many male angler fish as she needs. Bahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:11 PM
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Ive been admiring hairlines since FDS hit it home with me and a good hair style does wonders for a man. Men need to maintain their damn hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:07 PM
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“Am I being wro-“ NO. NO YOU ARE NOT. As Lilith said in the podcast it’s humiliating to put a TON of effort into your looks and get a grimy man on your arm. Don’t they feel embarrassed?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:05 PM
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Agreed. Poor OP did all the labor for this scrote and has to eat the costs while her ex is living large. Gaia it makes me so mad….She needs to look out for her mental health in this trying time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 02:03 PM
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Bro ain’t even cute, where do these men get these horrible ideas?! That’s financial manipulation on top of just being a prick. If she had anger issues that’s one thing but just judging by his stupid face I bet her changing the intonation of her voice is what gets her a “deduction”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:29 AM
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I’d be be worried about the actual takers tbh. 😵‍💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:40 PM
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That sounds like a recipe to end the friendship too. Damn. Guys know they wouldn’t sustain a friendship if they saw their boy had better dick than them LMAO. At least that’s how I see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:39 PM
72

I was thinking this too!!! Pornland suggests anything can go but WOOPS. Looks like male pandering wins again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:37 PM
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“She’s over there moaning like it’s the best dick in her life” When I tell ya’ I WHEEZED THOUGH. I feel for this woman Pickmeism and all but GORL. She can tell a story funny! Probably to hide the immense suffering…damn what a scrote though. If she doesn’t dump him because of this imma be incredibly angry. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:35 PM
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Yeah, a lot of people/women in general downplay their feelings and don’t even acknowledge they’ve been hurt. Hurting sucks but shoving it in the corner doesn’t so anything to help it…I honestly think this stuff builds over time and is why we get sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:11 PM
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Post apocalyptic world without men? Wow, I actually like that idea...no r*ping and pillaging out of the wazoo, just women trying to find tampons or places with clean drinking water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:04 PM
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This scrote is proof what porn does to the brain. They are like animals!!! Listing women off like cuts of meat at the deli...f*ck off!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:01 PM
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These cops be like: Police: [look at the picture of a disheveled man coked out] hmmm...he looks fine...this WOMAN however is being pretty sus. I can't believe I have to praise Gaia someone is dead...thank Gaia you're free...I hope you can get your record expunged and it'll be just a bad memory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:54 PM
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There has to be a law on misuse of law enforcement to turn the tide in OPs favor. Get her well deserved UNO reverse card back at that scrote for being a POS and calling the POLICE WTF??? These men are insane!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:50 PM
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Those searches are so HUMILIATING!!!! This poor young woman!! OMG I want to hug her so badly! What the hell is wrong with that BF?? POS...I'm pissed off and shaking...there's no justice I swear!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:47 PM
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There is a psychological disconnect when people are on their phone. Imagine pouring your heart out to a therapist and she just whips out her phone...a psychologist named Dr Judy even does this during her lessons to prove a point on how damaging it is in social interactions. If anyone notices this, the only option is to not talk to them just like Queen who refused to "cOmMuNiCAtE" and rightfully so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:40 PM
8

Ah yes...the "put a band-aid on the bleeding wound" way of dealing with things....ugh...it's so depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:35 PM
10

Yeah...there are no women lining up to date the "hikikomori" men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:31 PM
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It's insane with how the stories like yours pan out on FDS...and it's sweet! It may be rare but some people just "know" who they want and things happen organically...I'm happy it worked out for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:27 PM
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"Sex with her had always been amazing...not for HER I think, but I had a great time" Eugh...this d00d. She was practically a CHILD when he got together with her. I wouldn't be surprised if she's with someone closer to her age...good for her! I hope she has a chance to heal from what I think was a horrible/disappointing experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:20 PM
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Homosexual. Just kidding, I’d call them porn sick TBH. I don’t get it either though, this whole ass thing came out of nowhere and it’s so gross. If they kept it to themselves that’s one thing but it’s all you ever hear. Kink positive, ass stuff, strangulation, spanking. Any erogenous zones that don’t involve humiliation seem to be avoided, you never hear about men being enthusiastic for cunnilingus. (Gynophobia makes sense IMO) Any man who isn’t private in general about his sexual interests and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:46 PM
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Ugh EXACTLY!!! I don’t know even wanna think about the junk they got going on down there because vaginas clean clean…these men’s penises? URGH. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:53 AM
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I’m glad Queen! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:27 PM
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Scrotes talk about women asking for “open relationships” aLl tHe tImE but I feel like the times I’ve seen it mentioned by a woman it’s because her emotional needs aren’t being met. He even admits she deserves someone better!!! She should take that as a clue and bail. That poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:21 PM
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YES!! “Hurr hurr. Vaginas smell like fish” Um, if it does that’s concerning? Maybe get your STI ridden penis checked scrote! I never hear a widely spun “joke” about penises smelling bad other than the SIZE of it. Good point on this stigma AGAINST vaginas when asses are well…do ass things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 07:18 PM
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We need to nurture attitudes like this. I thought I was dead inside but, this does give me a little hope. :,)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:45 PM
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Anyone else bothered by the fact he didn’t take her to the hospital anyway?! Like, they admit people with stuff up their damn rectums…I’m sure they wouldn’t judge if he explained it was kInKy. (I wish we could call the police on men like this…) The fact she’s all “I’m alive still” is so terrifying and I’m kind of mad she’s just so okay with it…when I should be mad at her SCROTE BF STRANGLING HER!! 🤬 And she’s worried about brain damage?! Gaia please….the kids are NOT okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:31 PM
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MAKE IT MAKE SENSE!! They talk about a*al and eating ass all the time and we are like “lmao that’s pretty gay, please date your homies” they are like “EW NO” like?!?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:27 PM
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Thanks for saying EXACTLY what I was going to!! You’re right! It’s so damn depressing and she says she has general anxiety…I’d imagine she has some issues and is trying to cope with it with degrading sex. It’s depressing. Ugh And FDS has helped me come to the conclusion that any man willing to hurt you even if you beg for it is not a good man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:24 PM
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That’s funny how you found it!! It’s funny because how I found FDS it was a random video on dating on YT (a silly cartoon avatar head guy, I know, cringe) and how this dude was trying to find love in hookups and felt empty inside. Me trying to be open minded I wanted to see the “other side” with men and then he mentioned FDS and the common misconceptions associated with it like “yo a woman talked about a man being SAed and those women banned her, this place is harmful to men!!” 🙄 I didn’t even b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:41 PM
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Man handles the finances is a great way of putting it. You’re right…imagine wanting a nice practical thing and you get it for a day that supposed to show their love for you. UGH That ain’t love sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:34 PM
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Yeah the “they” irritates me. Like bro, you don’t know the sex of your partner? Just kidding, it’s most definitely a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:29 AM
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I mean…it’s a good investment IMO. That’s just me being cheap though…if someone gifted me a vacuum on a romantic day I’d send it back and dump the butthole. Then use the money to buy chocolate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:24 AM
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I just want to pass that guy while eating ice cream like “ah yes, the entitled male…fascinating” [slurp] not my problem. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:57 PM
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We need to yell this from the heavens because women are conditioned to wanting children from a very young age, some are even wishy washy and just assume it’s something that just happens. The “life script” of you will. Too many people out there have children and come to regret it…I wish women realized that it’s a choice and not an obligation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 09:53 PM
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We are sending you love back Queen!! You handled it so well!!! Have some hearts and take some time for yourself. I’ll send you a piece of strawberry cake. 🍰💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:28 PM
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NGL the guy on the bottom right went from 0-100…the rest of them can kick rocks, especially Drake. Comments are making me re-consider though because some say men have poo beard and that crushes me. I always liked the look of beards and now I need to add “must condition and scrub beard” to my list of things I want men to do. DISGUSTANG!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:19 AM
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I was expecting something weird or funny and I got something cool. Thank you! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:39 PM
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Yo, you are on point...I didn't even think of it like that. Yeesh! "Mmmph, let's go on a hike...I'm really fEeLiNg It" Hahaha NO. [sees username] So what about the forest? :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:29 PM
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All this planning for dates is also signing you up for a needy manchild in the future. Any man who isn't willing to do basic sh*t like plan and ask questions he's not worth your time. Great post Queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:25 PM
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I was about to be like “why is this on FDS? He’s looking for a male work buddy” And then I saw his preferences and threw up a little. What a POS!! Why TF does he want an attractive women who also doesn’t want to date hi- eh fk it. I give up on turning my brain into pretzels over this scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:41 AM
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LMAO they seriously need to be honest and call it "Lonely Perverts Bar." Don't Redditors asspat men for being honest? "Ayo I hate my woman she so ugly" and they're like "Hey he's being honest" Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:13 AM
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Sorry but I had to laugh... Mostly because it's true and it's SO RIDICULOUSSS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 04:08 AM
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"Fat" women just look 200X better than most of these men...so many of these dudes are gross and don't hold fat well like women do. The audacity though "Hey...we have a complaint that means nothing...let me WASTE YOUR TIME" 👏👏👏👏👏 Applause for past you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:25 PM
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Yo, I saw that tweet but want to keep my tweeting to a minimum because I'm on the down low...how I'd respond: "Nice that you threw in a little sexism there with the boxed wine and cats, hilarious and original. Men DO tend to overestimate their looks and skills..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:20 PM
33

My emotional ass is so happy you found such a great man....😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:14 PM
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"I never dated" [fans self and cries] I thought I was the only oneee!! I feel you on this...you said you pursued the men you liked and are SPOT ON that any man not interested (especially if he dates you out of 'pity") won't lead to a happy relationship. IDK if you think like this, but this is why I never dated men who were interested in me because I'd "feel bad" because it's kind of insulting to the other party to date someone out of a weird obligation. Thanks for this post...I don't feel so alo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 03:10 PM
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“He’s been released” Any ladies want to board my women’s only space ship? I’m tired of this planet….I don’t want to live here any more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 02:22 PM
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They do that with bachelorette parties too, it’s so immature and gross. “I bought this rainbow chakra quartz that I wave and it gives us sexual energy…it cost me 500 dollars but I got a cute tote bag too~” Sis, no amount of chakra energy is going to heal the unfortunate state of your mans genitals. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:23 AM
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I thought the SAME THING. Even if girls aren’t camming and “just” watching porn i feel they are more shamed in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:03 AM
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I’ve heard of that argument before but no freaking kid is going to look for “eDuCaTiOnAl” porn because he’s going to look for the degrading crap. Even if there are videos about how to put a condom on or whatever all I hear is how there’s no boundaries and they never talk about pregnancy or consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 05:00 AM
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“I want free-range porn please…something where the actresses are in their natural habitat?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:55 AM
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This is why I’m terrified of my nephew finding that crap when he gets older….There’s no other way of putting it but that porn is awful and exploits women. Lmao “ethical” porn…yeah no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:54 AM
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Plant lover here. I agree! More trees, fewer kids and dumbass parents we need!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:28 PM
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I'd still dump her as a friend, but that's probably just me... If a friend does something horrible or just gives me a bad vibe then I dump them hard, rather be alone than deal with someone who's got no remorse. 👻 So happy things were resolved though, you have no idea...things could have gotten so bad fast. "I also bluffed a bit and promised to call her mother to describe how her daughter is basically a brothel madam, and frankly, I think it made her more frightened than legal threats 😂" Damn! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:31 PM
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It's just like the guys in poly "relationships" where they want their GF to only sleep with them while they swing their community peen around... NO THANKS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:27 PM
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"when it’s common knowledge that he fingered one of the interns at an office party." [beyond disgusted face] It's insane how getting even a little dirt on these men can make their lovey dovey persona put on them fall apart...and you're right!!! It's always the woman in the relationship gassing her BF up and when you look at him he's just a LV scrote. YEESH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:22 PM
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I didn’t get the guide too!! I find it sexist as hell. Mine is a binary. Yes or no and no inbetweens. Men are petty enough to date a “3” and hate her and think she’s unattractive but still bone her so men’s rating systems are stupid and garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:56 PM
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He also rates women 1-10 which is disgusting and peak Reddit. He’s probably not even attractive. Plus he calls women “chicks” and I don’t like when men do that. :/ it’s weird women can call women chicks and it doesn’t bother me but men? Ew. This guy exudes TRP energy, no wonder he’s single. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:48 PM
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Good. We don’t want him. Put him back in the box and ship him to the ocean. 😂 And he says she can’t be under 5’9” but 120 is too skinny. I don’t have a calculator but when your shorter it works but 5’9” is too tall for that. Any smarter nutritionist Queens could figure this out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:40 PM
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Bruh, just buy a robot at that point. No woman like this exists. Periodt! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:35 PM
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I'm totally not about to ugly cry over this fking post... I've been called moody my whole damn life, and I feel so stifled and unheard. "There she is taking up too much space, with her laughter, her curves, her honesty, her sexuality. Her presence is as tall as a tree, as wide as a mountain. Her energy occupies every crevice of the room. Too much space she takes." This is the woman I want to be friends with, someone who is undeniably themselves and just IS. Don't be "perfect" ladies...just BE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:10 PM
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Women are so (apparently) simultaneously dumb that they can't have leadership positions yet they have the capacity to be scheming and playing mind games on the poor wittle men. Ah yes...my ultimate plan...fk getting a job, time to be EVILLLL~!!! >:]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:00 PM
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"men are more intuitive and sensitive than women, and don't use these abilities for evil like women do" [insert Woody laugh] BAH! This amount of "BoyMom-ness" and dick worshiping is making me nauseous. I just can't imagine being this off the wagon that you would throw your own kind under a bus. Men keep with their own and can be petty as hell, and if she took two seconds of self reflection and worked out her own hatred she would probably crumple into a ball because of how men fked her over. Copi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:58 PM
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The last guy is fudging his weight numbers LMAO THE AUDACITY!!! He's so damn picky about his preference he basically wants a sex robot and maid. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:45 PM
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Exactly! My Dad loves the heck out of my Mom but she can’t force him to do anything. (Even though he listens to her more than any of us) He mentions sometimes how his father had strokes and it sort of runs in the family….and he’s there snoring like a airplane taking off. Broooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 03:34 PM
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“Die in a ditch” These men are sociopathic JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:10 PM
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Awkward Friend Zone: they are amicable enough that you rejected them but still harbor feelings for you years down the line, which turns to resentment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:08 PM
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Another double standard is men don’t feel obligated to be attracted to “ugly” women and yet they don’t connect the dots and think “hey maybe that cute friend of mine isn’t obligated to date me either.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:04 PM
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Thing is that he doesn’t do anything of the sort like compression socks. Only thing that seems to be an issue is the loud snoring occasionally that may be sleep apnea. I’ve seen his hands and they look fine, and I heard the reason people should be wary of soda is because it metabolizes like alcohol in the liver. I think for NOW he’s okay my Mom would throw his ass to a doctor because she’s a diabetic surgeon but honestly I think he needs to take better care of himself and cut the soda out. Who k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 02:01 PM
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Got really asked this once and I just stated the facts that I was a Radfem. He was basically like “EH?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 12:40 AM
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Ugh. Exactly. And you’re fine!! My Dad and I aren’t the closest but we aren’t enemies or anything. We are just pure opposites and I keep my distance t times because he’s not an emotional guy when I am VERY emotional lol I understand the “f*ck you Dad” train honestly. The “raised by narcs” Subreddit is insanely depressing to read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:13 PM
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“Shit shat shit” Bahahahah! But yeah I kind of care to a degree. He’s my Dad and the fact he drinks soda all the time doesn’t help, a straight shot of sugar makes anyone’s liver go bad. Especially a man in his mid 50’s. Id like to bring it up and be all “hey, can you please get that checked out?!” But he doesn’t have good insurance apparently and has to go to another state. Plus he’s a stubborn mule. Sorry to rant it’s just a weird thing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:34 PM
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Yo, this made me think of my Dad. Pure biohazard in the bathroom, it's disgusting. His gut is hard like a rock and my Mom (who is basically a doctor) doesn't see a problem with it...uGH. MEN HAVE NO EXCUSE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:51 PM
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"She's pretty horrible at coding" This is why these professions are behind a gate...he prevented her from getting some needed experience and a way out of the "sex work" industry. IDK why I though OP was just a PickMe until I read the comments and the fact he subscribed to her. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 08:19 PM
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She BEGGED him to stop!! How ca someone keep going? How can he be this evil and blame it on her?! This is so disgusting. I hope she posts an update soon when she can. This poor woman has been through so much….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:51 PM
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Your thrifting game sounds on point. I love it. I could learn a thing or two from the Thrifting Queens on here!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:37 PM
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Kayaking sounds fun. And I’ve never been horseback riding before. Slow dancing in a parking lot? Baking?! NAWW I’m half expecting “go to the laundromat” or “grocery shopping” on this list lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:31 PM
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Ugh. I’m so damn TIRED OF THIS. I hope Queen continues to receive treatment and when her scrote of a husband comes crawling back she can give him a nice healthy kick in the balls. F*ck this guy. I hate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 03:18 PM
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Exactly!!! And women are great at being empathy but I get the feeling “soft” for this woman is smiley agreeable and just inoffensive. And by “inoffensive” I mean not to raise your voice 2 decibels or put a boundary in place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:15 AM
37

Ewwwwww!!! I knew he was weird but now my disappointment is immeasurable and my night is ruined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:12 AM
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Leo is so gross and his “Dad bod” isn’t cute. I like Joaquin as an actor but he gives me scrote vibes which is heartbreaking. If he married a woman his age I’d respect him so much more. :( And how is that woman an “ancient cougar?” She looks his age!! And I bet in a few years he will let himself go like Leo and she can get a newer man at 50 and still look amazing lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:07 AM
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This makes me not trust friggin any male of any age. Especially with my unconscious body!! Where do these kids learn this crap? Yeah sure he was a kid but that poor Mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 05:02 AM
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Hahaha!!! This is actually making me think “damn am I “masculine” or is ever guy who was interested in me just weak?” Good test would be to lift heavy crap around a man. If he doesn’t offer to help or sits aside while you do all the work HE. AINT. IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:54 AM
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“If you need help being soft-“ ✨ No thanks! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:51 AM
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Ughhhhh!! I’ve heard of that too! It’s so messed up that someone has to take care of someone emotionally after something that’s supposed to be beneficial to both partners. Like “hey babe, I know I just whipped, gagged, spat on and called you derogatory names….but I’m gonna get you a soda because you were such a champ…and clean up the blood UWU” Maybe it’s not this extreme but porn sick scrotes don’t have a limit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:28 AM
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I’m fully convinced men like this have no souls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:18 PM
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Not only is it gross what comes out after but the aggressiveness is another thing. Men never get gagged on a vagina. OP sounds tired as hell and disappointed with everything this scrote does. I feel bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:15 PM
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“Face fking” is a literal porn category and as soon as he mentioned an*l and butt stuff FOR HIM I check out. 🖕 this guy. Or don’t because he’d like it too much. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:12 PM
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Exactly!!!! I don’t believe any man who “thinks of the children” and then turns around and calls girls slurs. You’d think that movie would have opened people minds. I was just like “this isn’t new…and it’s depressing”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:20 PM
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Also regular fishing given the fact so many men have dead fish in their bios...ech
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:19 PM
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There needs to be a flavor beyond vanilla to describe women like me who don't even like BJ's and sh*t. Like...plain cream flavor. Because if an*l and ch0king and sh*t is "vanilla" then kissing and holding hands must be air or something...JFC we need a priestess to come and wash these kids' souls from this depravity...it's not healthy!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:14 PM
22

"Are you feeling okay" Y'all, this is why I come here. Queens supporting Queens. Scrotes say FDS is so TAHXIC but never see comments like these...we got something beautiful here and I'm proud of you all...[sniff]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:07 PM
17

OOOOH! Or dye your hair funky colors. Men HATE it when women express themselves in a "different" way. And I don't get why men say "natural is better"when aCHUALLY women have a full face of makeup that looks "natural."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:04 PM
9

YESS! WORK IT! This energy is so pleasing to see! We need women to just OWN IT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:00 PM
33

I'm so glad we live in an era of sweatpants and...just pants in general. I've never seen a woman look bad in jeans and a t-shirt...that may be my "women are the more beautiful sex" bias though lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:58 PM
16

You do you Queen. Women spend way too much money on nails, waxing, botox, lingerie and other crap and it's honestly annoying. I was just thinking how men never once shaved their legs and yet they are seen as worthy of love and respect and when women don't shave? Oh well, she's a gross unwashed feminist. The double standard is what did it in for me honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:56 PM
81

In Satan's buttcrack lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:50 PM
25

This reminds me of a review of "Cuties" when the iron was still hot and the reviewer kept calling the kids sl*ts and it really really bothered me. Anyone calling any female person a sl*t bothers me to no end but ESPECIALLY younger girls...disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:49 PM
11

I just think they are weird and ugly but now I’m doubly scared. That poor woman, she must have been so scared all the time. Ugh. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:38 PM
8

Glad I’m not the only one getting “ew” vibes from this dude. Dead porn eyes too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:36 PM
13

What the fuk he even doin’ in dere?! I thought he was renovating or laying tile down, then I realized he’s probably watching p0rn. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 02:29 PM
4

"He thinks I should put her down" Anyone else get a sick feeling in her stomach reading that? "Other insane horse people" Okay she should just stick to her tribe and dump this scrote...win/win!! Funny how she did everything in her life to cOmPrOmIsE and he STILL wanted more...what an absolute joke...I hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:21 PM
22

Those same creeps up and defend that behavior like "Heteronormity is the real problem and we do things differently" AKA that Milk fellow who had sex with 15 year olds argued "wE dO tHiNgS diFfEreNt" which is a load of crap. Honestly I've never seen gay men complain to women to help with their problems but they also don't address the problems like you've mentioned. (it's hard to talk about!!) I'd stand with any man calling other predatory men out, we need to get the word out all across the board!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 07:17 PM
2

"It's like they're so averse to vulnerability they just utterly shut down." Not only that, but they are disgusted by it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:57 PM
1

That's terrible you had to get a hysterectomy!! It must have been very bad to warrant something so extreme. I hope you're recovering well OP. You're a real trooper and I hope there are no complications after...again, it's very extreme to get a whole organ taken out!! That scrote literally has no clue and is an ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:54 PM
75

GOOD POINT. I hope this Queen enjoys her car that she doesn't have to share any more and the money she won't have to spend ferrying that loser to and from work. Hopefully she can treat herself after this bullsh*t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:36 PM
15

This guy is such an asshole. He wanted to not only "teach her a lesson" he also called her a bum and a moron. This Queen has every right to throw his sh*t to the curb...F that guy. Also pleased his brother called him the asshole...and wait "her pettiness??" He's the one reading like a petty person, especially the "everybody that wanted us to break up got what they wanted." PFTTT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:32 PM
7

Yeah!!! You can get good clothes provided they aren’t stained. Name brand stuff too! My Grandma and I do these outings sometimes but since COVID hit she’s been tentative to see me sadly. I want to go to the thrift store and look at the furniture now haha. As for a date though? It just makes me think of Laundromat, grocery store “””dates”””. Like wow, how romantic…we are in the produce aisle…maybe you’ll go halfsies on my groceries while we are here! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 02:46 PM
24

I lost some and feel like my anger is the only thing that went up LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 05:03 AM
63

Yo, I LOVE thrifting. But that’s stuff I do with my Grandma. If a potential life mate came along and did the same I’d just think he doesn’t care and sees me as only cheap and nothing else lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:57 AM
5

“Should I brush it off and accept” [leans on hand] You must be new here. Once there is a man who cheats on you with Insta models and asses on the screen it’s NOT gonna get better. Sure the good memories are there but the main thing you need to take away is the distrust you feel and let that fuel you to break up with him. I just don’t get how scrotes do everything with their GFs and have a great relationship and still watch porn. The fact he also gaslights you on the fact he watches that trash is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:53 AM
2

Any man who says "look at the body on X" are trash and need to be treated as such. Applauding your Queen moment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:27 AM
1

"bUt ShE'S a LeAdEr AnD lEaDeRs HaVe To Be StRoNG" Yeah, but there's nothing wrong with grieving over the loss of your home... I love the OG trilogy but now that I think about it every-single male in the series is trash, even Han. Everyone says Han is sexy but even though the actor is attractive his character is really...kinda r*pey at times...:/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:17 AM
1

OMG I didn't even think about this and now I'm wheezing. 😂 Not only does my gorl Leia get her planet poofed but she's forced to wear that stupid fking bikini thing...barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:13 AM
70

This is beyond gross and humiliating I wish I didn’t read it and I want to swoop in and save that woman. JFC
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:54 PM
11

This may be me being disgusted by BJs in general but if anyone woke me up for that I’d either kick his ass out or sleep on the couch. The rest of the story is just… [ETERNAL RETCHING] 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:51 PM
55

“While I envision slapping my-“ Full stop, slam the brakes….this man is a psycho. I would never hang around anyone IMAGINING that. Sure it’s in the mind but I don’t trust these men to not take it to the second step.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:40 PM
15

Stomach churning. The guy who dragged his GF outside knew what he was doing. I hope the severe pickmes in these stories find us and learn never to get dickmatized again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:37 PM
33

I was thinking baby trapping too!! It’s so scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:26 PM
8

Even with all the trauma of childbirth and 2 damn kids this man has the audacity. Plus she’s his forever GF. Sounds like hell, a better dog is a Golden but this guy is baby himself with boundaries he couldn’t handle it. When will men learn it’s women’s bodies that are pumping out the kids and a full “NO” should be a full sentence???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 02:23 PM
3

I read somewhere that the same characters for "woman" is also in the characters for "noisy" as well...(I could be wrong it's been a while) Japanese is a rip-off of Chinese and has so many meanings but I wouldn't put it past Japanese men to create a language that spites women as well... It also reminds me of the Buddhist hell where women who d*e in childbirth are forced to go to a hell where they wade in blood and get bitten by bugs for eternity...FFS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:27 PM
35

Just by listening to the scrote I can tell she’s out of his league lmao. Hopefully she sees this while painting her nails or something and thinks “damn, so glad I dumped his ass after” 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 06:05 PM
7

Another negative term for cats and women is "Cat house." Completely forgot about that term until my Dad brought it up...🙄 I STG leave women and cats out of your filthy mouths men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:54 PM
10

Good riddance to your Mom, seriously...I'm just stunned at how awfully she treated you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:50 PM
20

I'm not a fan of laughing at others misery but I'll make an exception for this mother. Years down the line when she's moved on and cut her Mom out I can imagine her narc of a Mom being like "yOu dOn'T vIsIt AnY MoRe"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:44 PM
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"Her BF is a great guy, he wouldn't cheat on her or hurt her" [wheezes in bare minimum] 😂 Edit: Holy sh*t imagine hating your daughter so much that you want her to be miserable with a loser guy who can't even cook...I went from chipper and praising this Queen to being totally pissed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:37 PM
5

I can just imagine him blaming everything squarely on her. "No babe, she was coming on to ME" What a scrote...sorry you had to put up with that nonsense...:<
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:29 PM
17

JFC I'm so sorry that happened to you. The audacity on blaming it on you...these men never turn inward and think "Maybe I made some bad choices" Absolute scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:22 PM
6

"Do you get to the Cloud District very often? Oh, what am I saying, of course you don't."―Nazeem These men be like "if I up my experience with these fEmAlEs then I can SURELY win her back!" And we are here living in the real world like "Yeah, how about nO??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:17 PM
5

FDS always brings out the sympathetic crying part out of me...JFC This post is so sad I want to hug OP so badly...all while hissing at her husband. What a horrible scrote...why are men so evil? And far be it for me to feel bad for the husband (he gets no sympathy from me) but wouldn't it be exhausting to keep this up for so long? How can you have three children with a woman you just think is "okay????"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:08 PM
11

There was an article I read about BC for men in the form of cream. Imagine how coddled men are to slap on a cream and solve their unwanted pregnancy problems. While women take BC pills that do everything listed above. Since men are 100% responsible for unwanted pregnancy then they should be 100% responsible for the birth control. I said what I said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:56 PM
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I heard about this too on a stupid Reddit theory video no less! Someone also mentioned how women choose men who are distant from their relatives as possible and (I think) BC messes that up. Natural pheromones and sh*t. I'll have to look more into it, but just like seraphine I'm laughing my ass off at the thought of a woman stopping BC and waking up one morning like "eWW"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 03:53 PM
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It’s so messed up when it’s spelled out like this. He wants a perfect mommybangmaid therapist robot but in order to get a woman like that she’d have to be desperate and he resents her for it. It’s so messed up, good post but it’s depressing as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:34 PM
116

And I’d be thinking “damn this Queens got STANDARDS” before my dumbass catches on its a fake post. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:24 PM
150

If I ever go on a date imma go in sweats and a t-shirt just for the lols Seriously though, maybe this is a good thing because these men are all congregating to tell on themselves. If the magical HVM exists he’s shaking his head and going back to whatever important thing he needs to do, because HVM have no time to pretend to be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:22 PM
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LMAO I would do that too as a way to blow off steam at how infuriating it is that someone close to me watches porn. This post also reminds me how other Queens have mentioned how back in the day porn was harder to come by. The fact American men are so porn fried and it’s so normalized just shows how far things have gone down the toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:23 AM
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The mere thought of my Dad watching porn is such an unsettling concept that I can’t imagine how gross you feel OP. I’m so sorry!!! If you ever confront him that’s fine, but honestly we all know he’s going to deflect or make excuses. Any man who watches porn habitually is a LVM…it sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:21 AM
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Personally, I can't wait to turn 30 so I can finally move to the mountains and become an evil harpie witch that sells potions for exorbitant prices and curse wayward men. Okay joking aside, the article is heartbreaking. She had many years ahead of her and I can't imagine the abuse she faced with pageants and having to stuff herself in some impossible mold. How much you want to bet the people calling her ugly were cave trolls themselves? It's so messed up...IDK what she went through but no health…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:37 PM
2

Anyone notice the lack of votes or is it just me? "-asked the front desk if any of them would enjoy the cookies because they were received by an ex-boyfriend and unwanted in my space." This is some QUEEN. SH*T. Artificial flavors, sugar and seed oils ARE harmful to the body, maybe not immediately but being health conscious is not harming anyone...and it's so insulting that he sent her trash cookies and later said "oH wElL yOu wOn'T gEt aNytHiNg ThEN" What a POS...it's like handing a diabetic per…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:17 PM
1

Men who try to manipulate you into working out, wear certain clothes and police what you eat... Aw, HELL NO! Men like that need to throw themselves in the trash can where they belong...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 07:11 PM
2

I'm proud of her for doing what she wanted and losing weight. It sucks how no matter what people do in the public eye there will always be a ton of criticism...but she's doing what is best for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:53 PM
1

Good point. All I hear about no the reverse end is men going to clubs and either getting sh*tfaced drunk or using women sexually...FFS Oh, and cheating...lots of cheating...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:45 PM
3

I can't get over how much of a badass she is. Sure, she dealt with his abuse for over a decade but she managed to kick him to the curb and keep her house that SHE OWNED. This golddigging h*e then hired a hitman so HE could get her house...and as the story goes she fought for her life and survived. She's so awesome!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:42 PM
1

Damn it's so sad these 5'7" guys think their height is all that matters...that's a really 5'6" way of thinking you know? They put their 5'5" feet into insoles and think women can't tell or are idiots....they are so insecure about their height that they forget women also care about personality and whether they have a full head of hair more than the fact they are 5'4"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:37 PM
2

Oh crap, I remember this story!! I forgot about the part where she was a professional nurse... Obviously her LVM husband saw that and immediately saw dollar signs...she was a Queen through and through and this man sought to end her rather than level himself up. Pathetic!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:44 PM
3

You already ate the dragon! They have every right to fear you! BooOOoO~👻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:29 PM
21

IKR?! You turn around and men of all ages are watching porn or doing redpill shit. It’s nauseating!!! It’s a mental sickness that THEY need to cleanse themselves. Us ladies need to work on ourselves! Together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:28 PM
2

You could fill in "woman" with any type of group and it would still be eye-wateringly stupid and offensive. "I'm starting to see gay people as human" Wow, how generous of you!! I hate it here sometimes...And instead of working on himself with this "revelation" his first thought is "relationships" or rather how to get into a woman's pants. FFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:24 PM
2

Even if your brother was gay I can rest assured that most gay men are too busy salivating over Henry Cavil or some other hot actor. You'd think with how homiesexual these men are they would be flattered if a man was looking them up and down...Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:20 PM
2

If I had a dollar for every time I saw a "it's making me uneasy" comment or post I'd be a rich woman. Women need to start honoring that uneasiness and stop pandering to these men who more likely than not don't give two F's about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:10 PM
2

Honestly with all the overweight men I've seen they don't even try to lose weight! They constantly complain how they don't get women but have muffin-tops and bad skin. Some look full blown pregnant, and I'm NOT attracted to a balding pregnant man! And what peeves me off the most is men have hormones specifically designed to make them burn fat more efficiently and hold less fat. Yet they STILL don't work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:07 PM
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First off, you’re doing amazing for yourself and we love to see it!! As for the “vibe” you’re giving off, honestly I don’t blame you and just blame men lmao. It’s not you sis…just keep batting them away. You’re very young and have a lot of years ahead, keep doing what you do and know not to settle!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 02:11 PM
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“Most of y’all are scared of insects” This f*cker better not be talking about women. Because I’d be grabbing the broom and shooing away any insect INCLUDING him. Boy BYE. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:29 AM
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I thought that too but I doubt this hobo could afford a lawyer. In a just world they would look at the fact he dumped her off with no regards to her safety and take her time. Either way, I'd still pawn it as payment for damages...serves him right for being a psycho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:04 PM
2

OMG Thank Gaia that older couple was there to help her out!! She seriously needs to just sell that stupid watch...harsh? I don't care. Call it payment for him royally f*cking her over in another damn state and kicking her to the curb...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:01 PM
16

RBF is such a sexist thing created by men for the sole purpose of insulting women. Now that I'm off my soap-box, I say you shouldn't worry too much about it. Personally I like expressive people because they add much needed spice to everything, and a good "disgust" face is great to disempower men. (if they even look at you...lol) We all want to be the perfect "ice queen" but our personality comes out, and it's exhausting to keep up a cold front forever. It seems to me you're well on your way if y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:16 PM
26

Never seen a hairy armpit or bushy eyebrow in these shows though... Really topples over these stupid arguments men come up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:55 PM
12

My Mom works in the medical field as well as a surgeon. Not only does she have to put up with so much BS and is exhausted as hell, but she has to deal with other male surgeons yelling at her and sexual comments from patients...it's disgusting and makes me angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:54 PM
16

[shaking table] I friggin' LOVE posts like yours!! The energy is fantastic!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:26 PM
29

It really starts at a young age doesn't it?? My nephew is constantly told to quiet down because he says too loudly. We could have a regular conversation and he just starts yelling. Good on your for teaching these girls a valuable lesson! We all can learn to speak with our chests even as adults! "Little baby haflings" I freaking love it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:24 PM
12

"Maybe I'm a prude" SHHHHHHH! You're not...sssshhhh. "Went to a guys house to do bags of coke" Hell no!! This lImiTlEsS lifestyle is so risky and these 30 year old dudes should be thinking about their future or maintaining a good job rather than wild hedonism. Hard drug users also RARELY seem to get out of the scene and have a shitton of emotional baggage. I'm sure his ex saw he left and was so used to his behavior it was just business as usual...what a joke lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:18 PM
5

It really shows how privileged men are to just up and leave unplanned and have a couch to sleep on without any fear. And anyone who likes travel has some kind of money behind it...planned events are expensive as hell. So any one who says they love travel don't think about people who can't afford it, and if you can't travel to Cancun or whatever then you're "lame."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:13 PM
13

"He never wrote back to my 6 paragraph message" Can we all collectively shout at the rooftops and say: "If he wanted to he would sis." This is a great example of why cOmMunIcAtInG doesn't work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:05 PM
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"You end up on a scrap heap" Makes me wonder what those FEW privileged OF creators are going to do when the buyers stop and they run out of money. "It's 95% women but make up most of the famous, high profile, senior positions" I fking hate it here....so many men using the backs of women to get rich. It's pure evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:54 PM
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If it weren't for the horrifically toxic male environments, I would rather be an underwater welder and risk Delta P than deal with constant wear and tear. Men see nursing as a cushy job but overlook the sexual harassment and abuse they face. It's heartbreaking....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:49 PM
72

I agree. A lot of women here disagree but I think if men can have their cake then women should have the option to live free from men if they choose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:31 PM
61

Scrote: What do you mean I can’t guilt trip, bully or coerce women into sex??? What am I supposed to do?! Learn how to seduce women?! Wack!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:11 AM
31

It’s very chilling when you put it that way. I’m sure it can be argued she’d have some pocket money, but that just seems like an allowance to keep her from running off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 04:08 AM
14

“Bu-buh f*males live on easy mode because they get all the sex they want and free booze and-and compliments!!” Honestly, if anyone lives on easy mode it’s men. They have the privilege of being male and the extra physical strength and act like weak babies. Women really did crest safe havens because no one else would…women take care of so much in society and don’t get a bit of thanks. I stg I can’t stand these men putting their issues on women’s shoulders all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:23 AM
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[FDSer posts about past relationships that damaged her self esteem/SA’s or violence at the hands of men] “FDS iS sO tAhXiC”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:14 AM
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He PLANNED IT. Not only did she give him ONE JOB, he fudged it so badly and ruined a possibly expensive and perfectly good cake. The fact he held her face down is scary...people may think it's oVeRrEaCtInG but the main thing that makes me furious is she gave him a SPECIFIC request. I've heard many women's marriages not lasting long after their husbands smashed cake in their face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:08 PM
62

Ick... This whole thing got me right in the gut...it got me because it's 1000% true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:40 AM
4

I really hope this isn't the case... Funny thing is a dude talking about dating life on a YouTube mentioned FDS and that's how I came to find this wonderful place. It's ironic, because I wanted to "see both sides" in dating and ended up ditching that video to see the hOrRiBlE mAn HaTiNg SpAcE and haven't left since...idk what kept me here but it was like a breath of fresh air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:35 AM
23

Honestly the fear and heartache earns you that comment! Seriously though I laughed VERY loud with that. He deserve to lose more than his hair TBH. Jerk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:33 PM
20

“She baby trapped me” Here’s the part where we throw our heads back and laugh at the lies ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:16 AM
10

Yes this! I tried bringing up spousal abuse being a concern of mine in marriage and relationships and I'm always met with the "bUt nOt AlL ReLaTiOnShIpS ArE lIkE tHaTTTT" I remember watching a video where some butthole said "Women are the instigators of DV" Are you serious????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:14 AM
8

Welcome to the "dark side" Queen! I'm proud of you for looking at the ghost of PickMes past and instead of doubling down and hating FDS you rose above it all! Most women don't even do that! Posts like these make me so happy to be a part of this community...it gives me so much hope for women all around I could cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:11 AM
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"I guess next time I won't be so damn accommodating" HELL YEAH SIS! Like...I'm sorry you had to deal with this asshat, but the silver lining is his arrogance blew his mask off clean his face and he spilled everything. DIPSHIT! Hopefully she takes this time to heal and when he comes crawling back after gaining the weight back she just laughs in his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 12:35 AM
11

Reminds me of that stupid meme where men would pick our dumb flaws in super attractive women. Like "2/10, nose too pointy, weird ears, would not bang" Just gotta laugh at their pathetic attempts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 12:29 AM
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Hah! I never really watched that show but I do remember the Amazonian-like all female race. There was a short story written by a woman called "Sultana's Dream" and it's basically a utopian future where women rule everything and men are kept indoors during the day. It's fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 11:53 PM
38

I skimmed this after the “aNaL iS mY KiNk” crap reared itself in his whiny diatribe. I’m sure she can sense he’s cheating on her in his mind with his pst exes and feels it in the way he looks at her. She is probably feeling like crap and demoralized because her scrote of a husband doesn’t do anything intimate besides asking for sex. And with stories like these you don’t get the whole picture. How often does he ask for degrading sex? Does he even contribute to the house or chores?? These men feel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:16 PM
34

Especially since she JUST BIRTHED THEIR CHILD. I hate it here sometimes….the scrodacity is too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:09 PM
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Good call Queen. Men who "cross that bridge when they get there" irritate the hell out of me. Just because things haven't happened yet doesn't mean you can't strategize and discuss things...isn't that the freaking point of a partnership and a relationship???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:40 PM
2

Women better snatch him up before his 30's and he develops a beer gut...LMAO Then he won't have anything to gloat about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:31 PM
3

Twirl in the wind of the 2nd circle of Hell where they belong. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:23 PM
2

This just reminds me of a youtube scrote named Mumkey. I never watched his videos because he's a sexist prick, but essentially his own undoing from his youtube "career" was because he wanted to cheat on a very sweet woman who was WAYYY out of his league. He wanted a fk buddy and a mommy and after they both dumped his ass he went on a desperate Tinder binge and broke his account...😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:17 PM
5

That whole "you hate dogs thing" is such a shit argument. I don't waste my breath or energy on scrotes like these but if I could find the words in rebuttal that aren't "STFU" I'd say "So you think it's okay to refer to women as non-human?" Probably sees women as such...not human...unlike his immaculate gym-bro ass.../s GTFO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:13 PM
4

I would deadass consider a man as husband material who did blacksmithing ngl. There's a lot of work that goes into it! It's fascinating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:08 PM
11

Come on, you know it’s hard to think clearly while you’re writing with one hand. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:39 PM
15

Definitely a lie on the contraceptive pills….men can’t get pregnant so no dang pharmacist would give him that. Also JFC dude. No one wants to read your freaking fan fiction, it’s such a damn lie and it’s gross! Women aren’t turned into horny machines during or before their period! It probably happens but most of the time women just want to be left alone. FFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:38 PM
7

Lmao this is why I don’t date short men despite being short myself. So angy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:24 PM
44

That’s such a DARVO holy crap. When men whine about assault or threats from women I have to laugh, like what is the smaller woman going to do?! Glad you got out sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:16 PM
23

JFC right?! Like I’m crying dude!! You come to ME and face ME or leave me alone!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:12 PM
3

“Hmm. She must have forced him to take POV shots of his peen, seems legit” I get emotions clouding your judgement but holy crap this woman is ridiculous lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:05 PM
6

“He sent me pictures of his privates” LORDT. I threw my head back and groaned in pain with this sh*t. And IDK why but I keep thinking that he fed her lies that you were a crazy stalker and her PickMe ass ate it up. I’m not defending her atrocious behavior, it just popped up…too many women give men too much leeway and demonize the “eViL wItCh” 🙄 You did a good thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:47 PM
6

“They aren’t ready to hear the truth” All I can hear in my head is the classic “YOU CANT HANDLE THE TRUTH”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:40 PM
7

100% this. It’s a shame the woman OP was trying to help showed such hostility. That crap can hurt, especially when your only “fault” is trying to help someone out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 07:37 PM
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“He insulted my decorating” I really hope you wheeled him out to the curb after that….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 05:36 PM
14

TBH I still live with my Dad but me and my sister take care of ourselves. We cook for ourselves and our Dad would keel over if we made him any food because he’s a picky eater from Hell. (Thank goodness because I’m not cooking for a grown man) Most men stay with their parents for convenience, I stay because I’m broke lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 05:36 PM
3

Love this energy Queen! 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 05:26 PM
2

Funny enough, just looking at the numbers and how many women were in the "sex work" industry told me all I needed to know that this is fked up. So suddenly women are hellbent on spreading their buttcheeks for no reason? Why the sex disparity?? "Women eNjOy iT mOrE" Okay Stephen, then watch the pornstars who got out of the industry and get back to me on that... "Leftist bros seriously need to put their dicks away" Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:07 PM
2

"It is not our place to judge" See, this "holier than thou" libfem crap is why I'm so against this narrative. They don't take a peek beyond the veil and see that we don't judge women for "selling their body"...we feel immense pain and sympathy for the women who are trafficked and abused. "You're gross plain and simple, fix yourselves" How about you fix some grammar lessons to know the difference between "here" and "hear"? Oh, and your porn addled brain... These men are so deluded, they don't car…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:01 PM
7

Exactly! The only person I know in my whole family who said he wanted to get a vasectomy was one male cousin. I enthusiastically supported him and he was surprised I supported him because everyone else was confused. Everyone is so baby brained that the thought of a man taking precautions, even when it does the least amount of harm and can possibly be reversible just shows how deep the misogyny runs in our world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:52 PM
12

I just imagine her flicking her hair and walking off and this b*tch just reeing and crying because he got told off. Seriously I’m with her though, what a scrote. Men who complain about women’s ages or calls them old are LVM. PERIODT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:07 AM
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I don’t get it though, after a while buttholes never close or tighten like vaginas do…. These men are so dumb lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:41 PM
3

Bruh, I get so mad when women ask me this, or assume that something is wrong with me when I say I don’t want kids. The other kick to the ovaries is “well you’ll change your mind” I’m approaching my 30’s lady….there’s no cHaNgINg My MiNd. As for the woman who was desperately buying baby and children’s clothes I feel really bad for her….I hope she gets help. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:39 PM
185

Pretty great that NoFap is getting traction now because men are realizing this sooner, however instead of talking about how porn abuses women they just care about their “precious bodily fluids” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:08 PM
167

One Queen here called Pyronies “I broke my dick disease” and it’s true and kind of hilarious. It’s hard to feel bad for men who masturbate to porn like it’s an Olympic sport, I hope they all find solace in the fact they will never please a woman. Hopefully they pat each others asses and leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 10:06 PM
8

Again!! Alba Flores is stunning!! I think I may just be bias because I think a majority of women are more pleasant and beautiful to be around and so many men even “attractive” have dead porn eyes. Lmao men can be so stupid, they think “does peen activate?” But you could put a bra on a tree trunk and some men would think “hey she look really thicc” This is why I don’t care any more about the male gaze…😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:54 PM
40

See, this is what makes me mad about men. Women can be generally beautiful even if she has “ugly” features. You could compliment her in genuine heartfelt ways and men pick them apart like “too skinny, wound not bang.” STFU man she’s my friend and I love her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:58 PM
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Last time I gave a men compliments they either ignored it or said “I know.” Men need to STFU about compliments. We will only reserve them for the people we love and our friends thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:55 PM
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sticks single pinkie in “UWU SO GUD!” I’m gonna retch in the corner brb. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:52 AM
201

I've heard of enough H*ntai to know that men also think women lOve straight up jackhammering with no foreplay and just c*m buckets with NO stimulation. Floppy knob included lmao 😂 "It's okay bby, your Pyronies disease makes the pleasure better 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:40 AM
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This is so stunningly pathetic I can just imagine you laying there with the most bored expression of your life. How you didn't just start cackling in his face is beyond me...sorry about the pain and bleeding though. UGH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:32 AM
35

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:56 PM
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I guess these women are going to just free bleed then. What are they gonna do?! Maybe if they do that the men will get grossed out and give the women their damn tampons back. I wanna stick two in my eyes after reading the pure scrodacity of this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:47 PM
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This makes me want to cry and hug her. What a POS. I don’t get how she could have a child with such a disgusting human being, she needs to LEAVE. It’s like her logic brain is coming out of the fog with “how could he be in a relationship with me and still think I’m ugly?” Because he benefits from you and is a leech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:42 PM
58

JFC, buying marriages and shit shouldn’t be a thing but it is. Glad you got out!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 09:33 PM
30

Scoopity scoop!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:55 PM
11

This Caleb guy looks like every other dudebro I've eve seen... He even has the dead porn eyes...EW!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:14 PM
16

I just hear Reoux's voice in my head saying "So imagine a average/balding middle aged scrote handing you the bill and saying with folded hands 'be happy you're getting any attention'." and I'm cracking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:30 PM
56

This is actually what terrifies me most about dating and sex. Not just the risk of pregnancy and STI's but the fact these scrotal recalls can't even keep their mouths shut to their bros and bring the M/W complex up. Shaming women, YET AGAIN. I've heard too many "muh dick" stories at random with no warning on the Internet alone to not trust these fatherfkers...listen buddy, no one wants to hear about that woman or how you got blown in an alleyway behind Taco Bell...STFU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:17 PM
4

Like another based Queen commented on another thread, it's like a bunch of women fighting over for the trash can you are wheeling out to the curb. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:12 PM
10

Yo! Same! Any plain Jane on the street would look at that fker and scoff, and she SHOULD. These middle aged men I've seen can carry 10 children in their gut alone...it's astounding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:09 PM
5

Backstreet boys hair flip?!?! Women get told they are "too old" to wear x/y so we need to start shaming these middle aged men. I also want to shame any man for wearing his baseball cap wrong... YOU LOOK DOPEY DUDE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:06 PM
11

I'm with Lizzo in sending hugs your way...thank Gaia you left that awful place. People like your mother don't deserve kids and should be sterilized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:58 PM
18

I read an article recently about the impact of the pandemic on African women and how the slow steady progress they made for women went down the toilet... FGM also increased and so did unwanted pregnancies...(obviously men don't do sh*t there like help clean and cook because it's a "woman's job") It was a horrible depressing read...real, but depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:56 PM
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OMG the audacity. "Hey babe, after we're done cleaning up my sh*t...and my us I mean you, I'll lay some newspapers down and you can ride me ;y" How about you go eat dirt dude!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:34 PM
14

High fives for celibacy until marriage! I laughed VERY hard at the "test the merchandise" because she knows dick is abundant and low value! Gaia bless her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:18 PM
49

Reminds me of another story where the woman went out for a hookup and the guy went crazy and pushed her out a window. He was seen later on some alley cam eating pizza... He got off by blaming her and that he was defending himself and that SHE was crazy. I think another lawyer wasn't happy about it and opened up the case again, but it's stories like these that make me terrified sometimes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:07 PM
3

"Congratulations, you played yourself!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:26 AM
10

I'm fking peeing myself over this image....😂 I just imagine some woman rolling the trash can to the curb and some ninja's jumping out and doing complicated flips and shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:26 AM
5

Personally I hate that...any time someone says it I softly say "Don't insult his mother...she's a nice lady" I say "Son of a prick" much better, and much more accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:01 AM
12

The Gabby Petito thing just makes me think of a a stupid YTer who made a poll like "Do you think she deserved it" (Y/N) and the mere fact that he put that poll up just shows me how un-empathetic men are...and if you say basic stuff like "I think men need to do better" your seen as a feminist freak...FFS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:57 AM
4

Right??? Before he was paying for both and now he has someone come along and help him pay for some of it. B*tch should be grateful she helped out with his bills! UGH!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:49 AM
18

What I don't get is why he seems so attached to the stupid fireplace thing when he admitted it was ugly and the lower costs i heating show they didn't even need it. She should throw the thing at his feet or outside his window just before she dumps his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:42 AM
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"bEcAuSe sHe WaNteD tO gEt RiD oF iT shE CoUlD eAt tHe ExtRa CoST." What a prick!! Just this sentence alone makes me hate this guy,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:37 AM
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I remember a dude named Sargon (Gaia I can't believe I watched his crap once) making a video about AI and completely disregarding it as "feminist propaganda" but being on FDS has made me think that this stuff doesn't happen for no reason. Men like to poo-poo the mistreatment of AI as superfluous and dumb but this is just another outlet for men to abuse women. I doubt they would talk to a male robot in that way, and most robots are designed to be female any way so it really makes you think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:27 PM
11

I'm with you. It's like a forensic scene...body part everywhere and you have to piece it together. IMO this stuff happens in childhood but we can't know unless there is a study, and IDK about you but I don't want to personally talk to these men...men who want to be "stepped on" are wimpy and give me the creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:13 PM
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Women defending their men like that is admitting men are animals that can’t control their own urges. If I was the friend I would have dumped the scrote and been like “yeah so my BF is trash and can’t keep it in, wanna watch Spider-Man?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:06 PM
40

I was thinking about that too... Imagine in the same comment section where we console a SA survivor some jackoff is getting off to it...Disgusting... Thank Gaia we don't allow scrotes here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:00 PM
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EXACTLY!!! We aren't some sex-posi dominatrix. We vent about men who ain't shit and treat the women they are supposed to care for like shit! Maybe he knows he sucks and has got some weird paraphilia based on it. Whatever! These men think being pro-women is anti-man so I don't care what they think anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 02:57 PM
32

I love happy endings!! Yours and Kindreds stories give me the warm fuzzies! I love how instead of the GF getting resentful you both dump the scrotes asses. LOVE IT! 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:36 AM
13

Whoa! You nailed this on the head! Perfection! 🤌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:39 AM
10

Okay, borderline p*do "women hit the wall earlier and earlier" aside (ick) I'm just gonna say it... Most women just look better than men even as they age...They just do! I've seen far too many fat older men...it's gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:37 AM
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Yo!! I noticed him saying his Ex was abusive too and rolled my eyes. She’s either abusive or crazy. And if she’s pushed to the proverbial wall and lashes out suddenly it’s all on her. BULL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:10 AM
13

Honestly him being that stingy when most people would k*ll to make that much money makes me want to throw him out myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:54 AM
12

You think he'd take the hint, go to therapy work on his diet and change... NOPE...these older men know they can't do better and would rather stubbornly dig their heels in the ground!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:52 AM
2

👆YESS!!! 👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:50 AM
10

Honestly I think a lot of these ZVM and NVM all go to the same p*dophile class...JFC they're so nasty!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 03:49 AM
6

I want to give you a hug sis. That is so terrible. How dare these older scrotes be so immature?! You’re the most mature one out of the lot and I bet they’ve bullied others like them. A toxic work environment doesn’t last, hopefully you can find a better job and leave them in the dust. Fuck them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:25 PM
36

I like the term “Homiesexual” but you’re 100% right. The “I got her already” is such ick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:11 PM
13

200% agree. People also need to understand that ANYONE can be manipulated. We all have weak spots and areas we need to work on. Shrugging off and saying someone getting manipulated is just a dumb person is just wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:02 PM
10

HAHAHA! Thanks for the levity because I was really getting upset. I was going to say “ghoul” but “boiled penis” is even better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:59 PM
32

Just…depressing how little punishment he got.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:57 PM
71

I’m just here stunned and wanting to cry? I feel SO BAD FOR HER. This is beyond terrifying….the depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:53 PM
45

Good lordt I hear American women being seen as the most feminist, ugly, butchest women in the world. They don’t know there are plenty of women who will kick in them in their can for suggesting 50/50. Another Queen commented that she lives in the Middle East and has no choice and it’s only the libfem brainwashed women who chose the dustiest men. What a shame!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:10 PM
49

Having a secret fortune is a Queen move if I ever saw it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:06 PM
13

[shaking table] YESSS!!! ☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:03 PM
7

Can your Dad teach these LV scrotes out there? He sounds very wise!! We need more good men out there to teach younger men to do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:01 PM
20

YESSS!! I’m on the opposite end and would rather bawl my eyes out in front of a man than have sex with him. BTW your username is fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:53 PM
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That’s awful that happened to you. This is another reason hook up culture scares the crap out of me. Too many dirty community peens out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:46 PM
5

Lmao HOW ROMANTIC!! “Hey I don’t want to take care of you, I don’t wanna take you out…I just want you to go 50/50 and watch Netflix with me” Is he serious?! Why hasn’t he found a male roommate?! Wack!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:11 AM
2

Yes yes yes!! 1000% agree with you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:05 AM
27

I saw a comment once that men will keep women pregnant and exhausted so they won't leave and it looks like that's the case here... It's so depressing, and the mother is awful for enabling her son's shitty behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:47 PM
3

Beatrice: "Oh so she got herself pregnant?" Besides that stupidity, this is heartbreaking to see...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:45 PM
109

OMG YES. M3n: Whoa lmao she’s got Daddy issues hurhur Us: B*tch you got parental issues too and want a Mommy. Stfu It makes me so annoyed. These people don’t sit down and think “damn, it really is sad these men think they can leave their kids like that”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:16 PM
7

QUEEN 👏 SHIT 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:11 PM
24

Love? Warmth? Compassion? What's that? "Tsh, don't ask for so much! I didn't give that to the other kids, why are you so selfish?" You hit the nail on the head, LV fathers are just as bad as any other man. We need to stop making excuses for these men and either go low contact, grey rock or cut off completely. It gets harder for these men to change the older they get, and if you try to cOmMuNiCaTe you'll just be bleeding a rock for any emotional depth, warmth and comfort you may desperately need.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:05 PM
4

LMAO Past you had her gut instincts on point and you didn't listen! Glad you got out though, what a mess! That guy is a real POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:50 PM
15

Thank Gaia nothing came of that mess! These gross AF men smell vulnerability and attack like a gross vulture, but you're right that therapy can help with the underlying issues as to why women could be attracted to older men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:44 PM
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IDK how Pickmes throw our sisters under the bus like that. This woman can be painted as an "evil harpy" but she still deserve the barest of respect on being another human being. The bar is so low sometimes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:37 PM
18

2000% agree with you! Also, your username is hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:33 PM
27

1000% agree. These scrotes only think about “muh dick” and never think about the consequences further down the road.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 02:39 PM
4

“I’m well respected” As you damn well should be! Congrats Queen. Glad you flicked this butthole out of your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:50 PM
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“I want my BF to play ball in the back yard with me and fill in that void my Dad left!” And then men look at her like she’s weird but there are men out there accepting cars and PS5s from their girlfriends. FFS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:41 PM
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This made me throw up a little. Good job!! The fact women take care of and go above and beyond and STILL have sex with these men is astounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:37 PM
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I was literally told the other day by my Dad that I was crazy for having needs and “I treat everyone the same why do you have to ask for so much?!” Like you said, I’d rather be alone than with someone who makes me feel unloved and unwanted!! Maybe I am selfish, whatever! Gotta work on ourselves Queens! It’s an uphill climb! We can do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:35 PM
34

The idiot could have flushed it down the toilet or something. JFC she’s wrong but he’s an asshole for wanting to hurt her. Not only does she have to deal with horrific pain in the WORST place…but these buttholes are laughing at her and siding with the man as usual. Ugh. Edit: Nevermind to the flushing thing. Just like…burn it? IDK. Still an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:31 AM
42

Imagine wanting to get impregnated by that man. Eugh. Barf. Whether it’s love or desperation if she deadass did that I’m wincing in pure pain. I was hoping this was a meme or something but…nope…male depravity at its awfulness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:26 AM
45

Lmao good one. Hopefully at the bottom of a well so we can close him in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:23 AM
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Good point. He still has a huge weight and well…male difference compared to that older woman though, kid or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:47 PM
10

I just imagine you eying him up and down and giving him a good disgust face. LMAO. “Oh that was supposed to impress me? Uh huh…” 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:28 PM
9

I’m so so glad you dumped that butthole and how you handled the situation. It was probably really tough but the fact you broke it down well and analyzed it is a good reason for me to get that book! You did so well! I’m proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 08:03 PM
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That’s a biggest “kid” I ever saw. Unless he’s a giant 16 year old I don’t believe this sh*t. That poor woman. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:49 PM
7

Ouch. When you put it like that it’s horrible. Good point though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:39 PM
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Reminds me of my Dads co-worker saying “there’s this one guy who is great at his job but he thinks his wife should stay at home despite having a good career….but other than that he’s great!” No. If a man can’t treat the women in his life with respect and dignity and part amicably then he is not a good man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 07:28 PM
3

Looks like a sparkly snowflake!! So beautiful! Congratulations!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 03:27 PM
51

LMAO. The court was probably reeing like “Nooo! It’s the woman’s job to take care of the KEEDS” Gaia bless her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 03:22 PM
56

AMEN. Men get such accolades for doing the bare minimum and I bet you they get more pats on their asses for being single fathers. Women are blamed for the PREGNANCY as well! “Oh you should have known better!! How could you do this?!” Hello?! Honestly it’s internalized misogyny when women blame their mothers and never even consider the sperm donor. These women should be more angry at him!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 03:18 PM
38

First off I would NEVER “not all men” a post. You have real grief and pain associated with this program. I never knew how bad the misogyny is but honestly I’m not surprised. All the adverts and people talking about mention men’s issues and stuff, you never hear about women. Also the part where the woman said you should pray for that r-pist should eat a bag of these 🖕🖕🖕🖕 Religion is just a way to make women docile and it’s horribly patriarchal. However, I’m so happy you’re far from that awful pla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:28 PM
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“Who will take out the trash?” LMAO THE AUDACITY. It’s one of the easiest jobs in the house JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:16 PM
81

I shouldn’t laugh as hard as I did when you gave him a taste of his own medicine. You’d think men would grow some empathy and think “Damn this hurts…wow I should stop doing that to this person I’m with”. But they never do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:49 AM
57

This is why future mothers need to vet extra hard. Idk why people are saying she’s better off alone when she’s basically doing everything herself?? She needs help even after she tosses divorce papers at the scrotes head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:43 AM
35

I hope she can find someone to help care for the kid and ditch that scrote weight FAST. It’s not going to get better…IDK how she didn’t see the signs before but it seems like the mask slipped after they had their kid. JFC I am starting to hate her husband too lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:39 AM
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Imagine if she turned the dildo on him? MFer would get violent. Why should she have to tell him something so obvious? Oh yeah, it’s because men watch porn and they think a holes a hole. Thankfully she doesn’t do hookups but it took a horrible experience to change her mind, which is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:33 AM
40

Military men would be crying at the state of that bed...because if they can do one thing right, it's make a pristine bed. I STG these men need "House Husband training."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:27 PM
25

I was thinking that too! No drunken handsy men, just me and the girls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:24 PM
50

Isn't it funny (and by funny I mean awful) that these men draw women who are suffragettes as "ugly" and "hag-like?" Like one poster literally had the woman change the bones in her face at 40. Doesn't it just chap their asses that some real feminists are the ones they want to date/f*ck? Makes me think of how women have the freedom to dye their hair and get tattoos and giiiirl, men never shut up about how "women make themselves ugly now." STFU Brian...men are always gonna complain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:23 PM
8

I’m throwing my arms up too because I like video games and as much nerd stuff I can handle. (I don’t get obsessive like knowing all the races in Star Trek) and you’re SPOT ON with the basement dwelling!! Even if they have an apartment the basement dweller is a mentality I STG. You keep being a Queen too!! And thank you!! I love reading posts like yours! Gets me fired up!! 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:14 PM
25

JFC that’s horrible. Glad she got out and r*pist got ostracized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:16 PM
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First of all 👏👏👏 And any men who say women have an "expiration date" are looking at exhausted Moms who gain weight because of depression and how they don't get any help ever from their LVM man-child husbands. Women have their value and stripes, and it's insane how time and time again women glow up simply by ditching the scrotes in their lives. The porn and videogame addictions are why I'm scared to death to even start dating...so many men my age are looking at 30 and realizing they ain't getting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 04:08 PM
1

Holy crap, foraging is so fascinating! I want to know more about it and you know a whole lot, are there any books you recommend to start with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:45 PM
44

"I didn't think she'd be annoyed with the trophy wife comment" Should have stopped at "I don't think" because this loser has no brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:15 PM
16

I'm in tears. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:08 PM
18

I don't condone corporal punishment but a good sound talking to and some boundaries are in order. Guy is probably that 40 something year old man who "wants kids someday."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:05 PM
34

[raises hand] A teacher literally told the class he had a dream I messed something up really bad. I was so hated by this guy I lived rent free in his head...I wish I had to spine to tell him off but I would have started crying lmao. Education is messed up...there was rarely a teacher I liked and most were jaded and miserable because their job sucks and they don't get paid enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:03 PM
19

So we just gonna call cheating a fancy word and leave it at that huh? The person responding is an idiot...the Mom had the right idea and shouldn't have even asked lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:58 PM
75

IKR?! Only relationship I heard of where the woman had multiple men ended up having a really creepy guy in the fold. Polyamory never works...Poly people always say if everyone consents blah blah but where's the happy healthy Poly couples??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:56 PM
27

Hell, my parents wouldn't even pay for a vacation for us any more. And with the stress of being with a "bad boy" she'd HAVE to take a vacation! LMAO!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 02:50 PM
3

LMAO!! When you said “vampires” I just imagine the dudes eyes crossing and an echoing voice in his head saying “V a m p i r e” It’s one thing (like you mentioned) that really irks me about male feminism is how they never mention women in impoverished countries. Always about the peen and never about the FGM going on. If I were to try and talk about it to someone I think my head would pop off in anger because they ALWAYS like to throw the “boys get m*tilated too!!!!” (FFS) Nice mentioning the dude…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 05:05 AM
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Isn’t it a shame how women are so scared to accept good people we kind of write off good things? You always have to get sure, but you also have good instincts and know when things get fishy. We are here for you in good times and bad times sister. :,)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:20 AM
7

I gotta listen to her because I loved that pod episode! Good suggestion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 01:44 AM
11

Thank you! 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:18 AM
54

I was literally having a loud argument with myself on my drive home about how I feel like I'm going nowhere! If there are any self-help podcasts out there I'd love to hear them because I'm kinda struggling right now. Thanks for the post, it's the reason I haven't lost heart yet! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 11:27 PM
5

Shit sis....you got my crying over here!! 🥺 That is so beautiful and I'm happy you found each other!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:10 PM
18

Thanks Queen! I really needed this! Hope you have an awesome day/weekend~ 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:08 PM
29

He looks like such a goblin, ew!!! Men who settle with beautiful young women deserve to get drained...honestly any woman willing to put up with his geriatric ass deserves to dig him. Not only that, but the bubbling misogyny under the surface from years of music business? Blech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:06 PM
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If they start calling you sexist terminology (men are rarely called "SWERFS") the conversation is over. These men just can't think past their peens can they?? "Oh I don't think being abusive to your partners and promoting an abusive cult of BDSM is in the best interest of women" "POLYAMORY IS GOOD AND VALID REEE"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:53 PM
17

Men just love to roll up their sleeves and debate...it's why there are so many damn podcasts or videos on YouTube of men just reeing at each other. IDK if I'm just old but I shut down and always get angry and negative with that stuff. If they don't agree with you they will never agree or even compromise. That's when the relationship is dead. Women are so much better and kinder and don't get aggressive and mean (usually). Indeed, the bar is in hell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:50 PM
11

Honestly, that's what I would do!!! Ain't nobody got time for that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:44 PM
13

My sisters BF always has to be "right." And he does it in a "I know way more than you" kind of way. Ick. One time he said something along the lines of "devils advocate" and I just started shutting him down "Nope, I'm not doing that, don't you dare do that" Can't remember what the conversation was about...something feminist related? He also tried to argue with me about "weaponized incompetence" and got pedantic about the phrasing and I realized this guy is a dick and my sister can't choose men fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:42 PM
5

And men wonder why we call them golddiggers...LMAO Good for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:30 PM
20

This guy is not only cheating (emotionally for now) but he's making his wife feel unwanted, undesired and she even notices how pretty the younger women is... Of course she's "pretty" because our society favors barely legal adults. Like other comments say, this man hates her and is looking for a way out as soon as she needs more help because of her surgery. No different than the men who leave when their wives get cancer. Disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:17 PM
25

This makes me so prickly mad I want to punch a wall. You did a great job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:12 PM
19

“Touching the small of your back” I had some creep do this to me at work and it seriously triggered something in me. Now I keep my eyes on these men in case they ever want to touch me. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 09:47 PM
72

Ugh, seriously!! The recent FDS podcast episode mentioned kids being exposed to porn and how it’s messed up. But what’s even more messed up is how the people producing it (mostly men let’s be real) literally don’t care about who they hurt. “Think about the children” is mocked but I’m thinking of them more and my heart aches for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:29 PM
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Can't watch movies with my fking Dad because he always falls asleep and snores like a freaking drowning walrus. And even if these men have sleep apnea they never get it checked out or use their damn CPAP machine!! "It's so uncomfortable!!" They sell nasal strips too! These men don't care and deserve every stroke they get because of their incompetence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:28 PM
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"It’s funny how in every other context one person depriving another of sleep over a prolonged period of time is considered a form of torture" Holy shit you're spot on!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:19 PM
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Augh...the boner thing made the whole thing 1000x worse... F*ck that guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:16 PM
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Their boyfriends...with crumbs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:10 PM
176

Literal children watch this stuff. I'm still horrified and sickened by it...I never knew it was this bad...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 09:07 PM
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That cat is freaking adorable...kind of a lie to use it in a meme made by a man because there's no way he's that cute and precious lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:41 PM
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JFC that's horrible. The men in my house have the opposite issue where they use a TON of toilet paper! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:39 PM
21

This is actually fantastic! I need to learn how to be a good listener and speaker but it seems people either see me as an emotional dumping ground or completely turn off when I bring up my own concerns and issues. It's definitely a balance! That's what good friendships call for and I'm here for it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:36 PM
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"How dare women have f*cking boundaries, needs, dreams and reproductive rights?!" [cries in body pillow]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:27 PM
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Occasionally I still listen to their music but it's hard to feel bad for the dude when he talks about "bring your friend along" (typical LV porn addicted scrote stuff) calls women derogatory slurs and in the next song scrotally wails about how a woman left him and how he's not over her LMAO. "Patron Saint of LVM" YESS! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:24 PM
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I'm wheezing because this is also true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 08:15 PM
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☝️☝️☝️ This. Even men who just shrug porn off are gross and part of the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:44 PM
13

He may not be an ex (would you even call that a date?!) but seriously?! Men call women the “crazy” ones when this guy flat out tried to run you over! I’m glad you’re okay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:42 PM
15

Grandma nooo!! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:37 PM
9

I wanted to second on the weed and drinking thing. Sitting in a strangers car is so nerve wracking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:36 PM
3

Holy shit. This guy told on himself SO MUCH throughout the whole “date.” I call it a miserable affair. And he says you’re mean?! The dude was demanding about paying, right out of the gate talked about OF and tried to kiss you. Reminds me of the LVM I’ve met…they just don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 01:34 PM
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Even in a lesbian/gay relationship the pregnancy is one sided... Lesbians can't go full seahorse and half the pregnancy, and in gay relationships, forget it! It's usually surrogacy which uses poorer women and exploits them...You can't win! Unless we start growing babies in pods women are going to get the full brunt of the trauma in childbirth...another reason creating a family should NEVER be 50/50. I'd argue childfree couples shouldn't even go 50/50 since men usually make more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 10:54 PM
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And when you try to say how traumatic it is on women’s bodies these baby crazed women don’t even care. I think a subconscious then fully conscious reason I’m childfree is the horror stores my Mom would say. Hell she almost DIED when she had one of us. It’s no joke…and women not educating themselves on this issue and hand waving it makes me so angry…there shouldn’t be such a pressure to “lose the baby weight.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:12 PM
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Can’t be sanitary for the crotch regions….ow!! Imagine the chafing. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:22 PM
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Pasties friendly? The female nipple isn’t sexual and made sexual by treating it like some holy thing. I could rant for hours but, seriously?! This sexualization of women “by choice” would have been a “oh it’s okay if a woman does it” before FDS. Now that I’ve thought of it and become even MORE anti-porn/SW I can safely say, NO. It’s such a PickMe mindset…just because women do it doesn’t make it right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:20 PM
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“Active in her 50s and he’s an old fuck” Hahaha. You described my parents and their age gap isn’t even that stark. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:10 PM
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Glad you keep no contact. Just…this whole shituation is ew. 🤢 “oMg sHes aGoLdDigGeR” (some scrote would say) And your Dad is a youth digger. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:08 PM
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Oh hell nah. Some women here are okay with dating younger men (not THAT much younger) but 10 years either way is horrible. Even a couple years skeeves me out personally. Your Dad wanted a Mom and these younger guys are needy as hell. You can’t win I STG. Also waiting on him hand and foot and bringing him breakfast? Should have served divorce papers. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 01:04 PM
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🤔🤔🤔😂 You’re right though…😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:58 PM
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How can women be bored, screaming, annoyed and heartbroken in these relationships as STILL STAYYY??? Help me make it make sense!!! I also feel bad for your Mom despite the PickMeness….that age gap is gross. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:56 PM
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I guess the adverts telling these men how “manly” they will be if they scrub their balls with Dr Sasquatch didn’t stick eh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:49 PM
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Unless man is an oil spill or a biohazard, he shouldn’t be using Dawn!!! WTF?! Mans got mushrooms growing off his pits SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 12:47 PM
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“She said it was good” LMAO I doubt it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:54 PM
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Why do these men agree to have kids when they can’t even be arsed to do have the childrearing? I know FDSers suggest she leaves because it’s better than dealing with a scrote but being a single mother to two young children? It’s too much, and I feel bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 09:57 PM
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👏👏👏👏 [applauding the Queens in the comments] You're all fantastic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 05:09 PM
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Ugh this made me cry. This is an amazing example of “if he wanted to he would.” Gaia bless him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:06 PM
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Brings a tear to a grown woman’s eye. That’s great your Dad stepped up to the plate. I hope my Dad does the same for my Mom. Knowing them I’m confident he will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:04 PM
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Just like your great Aunt my Grandma never had another romantic partner after Grandpa died in a car accident. Thing is I don’t think Grandpa was too great of a man since it was his alcoholism that did him in. People say men die shortly after their wives or women die shortly after their husbands die. Honestly I think it depends on how close they were. The father in OPs story is disgusting. He probably wanted to leave his wife when she got cancer but knew it would make him look bad so he monkey br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 04:01 PM
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Who's saying this? Certainly not us. If this was a joke post I'd get it but anyone saying this crap is the same needs to get their head checked. Heck, a popular "dating coach" or whatever came out to be a massive creep by saying 15 year old girls were at their "peak" in maturity...some of these men seriously need to be locked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:56 PM
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LMAO agree. It would be insane if anyone got upset calling him ugly…some men defend literal monsters. It’s ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 02:55 AM
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"Ted Bundy was never good-looking at all, plain at best." Yoooo THANK YOU!! Always annoying when people heap the "Oh he was soooOoo handsome!" when the man looks alright or just meh. Even watching clips of him he gave me 0 "charisma" vibes. He was a total geek.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 03:07 PM
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People always complain about women having multiple BFs as child abuse but never talk about Dads/Grandpas/Uncles being addicted to porn... So sorry you had to deal with that sis....that's horrific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 02:50 PM
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Movies, animation and books? I wanna join! 🥺 Seriously though, congrats! No one even considers that OLD can be addictive in a way and a trouble to push away from. Glad you got off that crazy bus!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:56 PM
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☝️☝️☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:34 PM
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[TFW you’re attracted to large/tall men] It sucks sis…cause you’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:33 PM
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“Male presenting” No mate, it’s MEN. But at least he’s honest, and it’s a shame women have to feel this way. Maybe it’s another good vetting tool to see if he gets angry when you say you want to be safe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:29 PM
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The only weight she needs to lose is that scrote. It’s so heartbreaking when women internalize this hatred of themselves and don’t realize it’s the sh*tty mans fault. She probably doesn’t even have fat and if she did it’s none of that dudes business. SMH!! 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:55 AM
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They can't stand it yet men go on about not wanting to date single mothers constantly. "i dOn'T wAnNa rAiSe SoMeOnE eLsE'S kIds" PFT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:06 AM
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If FDS has taught me anything, it's that a LOT of women are smart, emotionally intelligent, good with money, empathetic and loving whereas the scrotes that try to breach the gates are petty, defensive, rude, and despicable. It just seems like there are no good men left...all I get is sh*t from these scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:02 AM
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"Overall, I'm happy to be average looking, and while yes, I could play up my looks, I just don't care enough to. I prefer to be invisible and left/let alone when I go out in the world." As someone who got nothing but either negative or LV attention from men I feel this from my core. Women either have to conform to beauty standards to "stand out" or "become invisible" and both have their advantages and disadvantages IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:51 AM
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After a really abusive message I got I really needed this. His deadpan delivery is fantastic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:25 AM
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"bUt EvErY wOmAn wAnTs KiDs, iF sHe dOeSn'T sOmEtHiNg Is WrOnG wItH hEr" [internal screaming] I'll get behind him and you push!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:34 PM
22

Peyronie-curve of a guy You ladies are so f*cking creative with these insults that I need to write them down! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:31 PM
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[smashing NOPE button with this comment]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:30 PM
5

Pure revulsion swept through my entire being reading that... ECH!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:28 PM
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THAT. IS. HORRIBLE. If he wanted to he would!! JFC she has KIDS with this toddler man! Nagging isn't abusive...calling him names is abuse, giving him the silent treatment for weeks is abuse... I hope she finds a way out soon...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:23 PM
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TBH I blame the Internet for causing those conspiracy theories. I doubt flat earth crap would have gained traction if it didn’t have the Internet. The skeletons in the closet though? Definitely agree. Or if he’s not on the Internet at all then he’s very VERY OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:11 PM
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JFC sounds like it. These men go out into the world and instead of working through their shame and issues they thrust it on other people. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:05 PM
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Hahah! I was going to say this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:59 PM
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LMAO he just became a house goblin with the quirks of being annoying. Hopefully you yeeted him out of your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:22 PM
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Ew, was he really polyamorous? I think he was just a s*ut who wanted to sleep with as many women as possible. That age gap is so gross, sorry you had to deal with that. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:08 PM
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Homeboy literally looks like a toe. Edit: Men make rude comments about women all the time. Scrotes mad about my y comments as usual. Edit Edit: If this guy is as cool as the other ladies are saying and he deadass does stuff FOR women then homeboy is a good man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:37 AM
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This. ☝️☝️☝️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 04:28 AM
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I really need to start calling 20/30ish year old women dating men their fathers age "Age-chasms" It stirs up emotions of discomfort and malcontent and I'm here for it. Edit: Thank you mods for flicking that commenter. To the scrote who commented their snarky reply. 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 03:53 AM
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LMAO I get that you were 6 but my brain made it all cartoony and the cat yowls and puffs up as your Dad screams in pain. I hope the cat or you weren’t hurt because of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:14 AM
14

As usual, you are the best at giving the TL;DR to this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 02:04 AM
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I know a VERY young woman at my job who's 24 and her BF is 46 I think? An older woman I talk to every so often pulled the "she's an adult" thing and I wish I would have said "barely." Thing is, this young woman is also a PickMe because she makes endless excuses for her sh*tty BF and she's religious so "Oh he does so much" "I'm such a sinner" [cringe] Don't get me started on how he's an ex-con... I've tried telling her "you roll your eyes when you speak about him and he gives you sh*t...I don't t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:50 AM
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👉👈 Sh*t I need to work on some things..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:36 AM
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I think I may have Avoidant tendencies so this is a mood! I refuse to even associate with people who don't text me in a timely manner! Lets GOO! AvoidAvoidants/GetConnected2022!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:31 AM
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I really need to start calling 20/30ish year old women dating men their fathers age "Age-chasms" It stirs up emotions of discomfort and malcontent and I'm here for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:17 AM
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Oh lawd sis, SAME. Even if he's younger than me by 3-5 years I'm like "Honey go back to school!" I don't know how the "cougars" do it...it's so off putting! I can totally see why men do it though...muh GENES!! Muh feRtIlE wOmEnS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 01:14 AM
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Yeah!! I forgot about that! But you’re right, stupid TRP taught men that they should be pricks to women they are attracted to. Oof the negging. It makes me so mad!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:58 PM
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Agh. Nerdy men are the worst… Totally get what you mean, but unless you absolutely HAVE to work with them I would avoid them. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:26 PM
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This is a great post, but also heartbreaking. I’m sure many women here have tried to see men as inherently good and wanting to connect as much as we do. Scarcity mindset is a disease…it seeps into everything and everyone like black mold. Nothing is good enough and you aren’t enough, you aren’t worth anything and you gladly take disrespect because it’s either that or being neglected. It’s sucks…that poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 07:13 PM
3

I know revenge prn is a crime but men should be punished for sending unsolicited dck pics. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 06:58 PM
3

HAHAHA THE AUDACITY. He came crawling and begging back. I hate when people do that…AFTER THE FACT. If they wanted to treat you better they would have made an effort!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 06:57 PM
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I hope An knows men aint sh*t and can find peace with that. I always like the “unpopular” women because they don’t fit the mold. It’s sad that Kang has Pickme tendencies but seems cool and different! These women are all awesome, I may check this show out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:23 PM
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I had a gut feeling he wasn’t attracted to you and that’s why he treated you like sh*t. What a prick!!! Men really have no respect for women who they aren’t actively trying to fk. And what a shame!!! So many good women turn to the dark side for these male “friends”. That age gap is HORRIFIC. I’ve vowed never to have any male friends but especially if they are THAT OLD. So sorry you had to deal with that, and it sucks to cut people out but you have to keep your sanity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 03:03 PM
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Thanks so much for this comment! I find it very easy to "close off" in public settings nowadays. I've gotten so used to my shell that it's fused with my skin. However it's also made any good or bad signals muted...I just don't know how to work on it since, like OP, I don't go out much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/22 03:32 PM
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FML. A Youtuber I like covered this story and it's just rage inducing how the scrote tried to play off like he loved her and was regretting what he did... That f*cker needs to rot....that poor woman was so scared... And damn that friend for not helping either...I think she should be charged too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/22 03:23 PM
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"Resting b*tch face" doesn't exist! You are tough and ready to kick ass! I love the "upped my murderous aura" though! Seriously though...did this neanderthal think yelling randomly will warm you up to him?! Thing is it's probably worked before. Damn these men are getting desperate!! "Maybe I should stop talking to women" YES PLEASE. 🙏 Happy New Years to you sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/22 03:12 PM
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(weird psych-- because ba.tterers dementedly believe their victims wield life and death power over them) ?????? The logic is so out there...eugh! Like a b*ttered person can just up and defend themselves? And I've noticed "revenge cheating" showing up in even the shows I like and it's so pointless...just LEAAAVE!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:24 PM
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☝️👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:18 PM
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"Two beautiful, conventionally attractive women in lingerie doing feminine things." Straight up, this is why I can't STAND newer shows and sex scenes...it's uninteresting and I get uncomfortable and usually skip it. Now we need to separate nudity and sex...however...vulgar?! Really?! I'm conservative and avoid that stuff but GoT had MULTIPLE sexual assault scenes and straight up r*pe and they call this vulgar? "Sensual touch and kissing" You know what? I think men are going back to ape-times whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:15 PM
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Hehehe. That’s fantastic! Serves them right for their stupid “muh LAAGACY!! Muh SUNS” crap. And they do nearly NONE of the child rearing. My sisters NVX suddenly came out of the woodworks to ask for his son at a SPECIFIC AGE. LVM don’t care about their SONS most of the time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:04 PM
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This is such a good post Queen! And it's good to think about! Happy New Year Queens! I hope 2022 is a better year for us all and we get one step closer to our level up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:15 PM
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Yo! I thought going to NY during the holidays would be neat, but NYE?! Hell no! Shuffling through a crowd, runny nose from the cold, trying to find your car, traffic and coming home at 4-5AM tops? Ew. Sounds like a sh*t experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:51 PM
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[deadass thought it was a nudist thing for a second] oh...it's worse...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:43 PM
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When I was rolling into Rule 34 every so often (I was bored lol) the common thing was that whenever there was "guro" a MAJORITY of men thought it was gross. There are only a small-ish minority of men who find this stuff arousing. It's part of the human condition to find dead and decapitated things disgusting. I'm getting worried that more and more men will just get desensitized to more and more violent stuff, it's always questionable with why someone would want to draw such brutality towards wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:37 PM
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And then men get angwy when you prefer women over men. "Oh that female composer is really making strides for sex equality!" "WhY dO yOu cArE aBoUt ThEiR gEnDeR" I wish more men were this self aware though...hopefully he will get better at catching himself and change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:32 PM
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LMAO I didn't even comment and I got banned from Feminism. What clown sh*t! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:49 AM
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Urgh, goosebumps. That is so scary!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:46 AM
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Gavin de Becker would be so proud of you sis! JFC, that is so terrifying though!! Thank Gaia you got out safely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:44 AM
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Ewww really?! FFS it's like FDS is handing me men I thought were HV and squishing them before my eyes...fuk. Can't get a moments peace with the LVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:38 AM
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[lifts wine glass] I've been re-consuming media from my teenage years too! Not as insightful as Kitchen Nightmares UK! It's crazy how we can spot patterns now! Gaia bless FDS! 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:36 AM
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With all that p*rn you think they would have discovered it by now... Lmao what am I saying? They just don't care!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:32 AM
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Gaia, what an asshole for threatening you with poverty like that!! So proud of you for standing up for yourself sis!! Edit: To the scrote that called me “spoiled mutt” 🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 03:24 AM
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Last time I walked with a scrote in college he talked the whole fuking time and wouldn’t shut TF up. So no…I want some damn effort! And sounds like he told on himself that walk dates are low effort ways of creating false intimacy. Meh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:52 PM
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Judging by the fact they were together for 8 YEARS before they got married they either hate each other secretly, are into porn (barf) and are already thinking of ways to sPiCe ThInGs Up…or just the dude hates her and he wants to slide off into open relationship-land. It’s just gROSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:09 AM
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Hahaha. I imagine him flirting with the water cooler now. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:06 AM
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I thought “threesome” but this makes WAY more sense at to why the husband “celebrated.” They were together for 8 YEARS…so she was bound to be forever GF if they didn’t marry…probably already bored with her. JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 04:01 AM
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“He high fives me, gets me cheesecake and everyone in the restaurant clapped!” Like…I’m glad he didn’t blow up in man-rage a dude flirted with her but what was reason the husband was ecstatic about his wife receiving a flirtatious comment? Is he bisexual and hoping to get a threesome some day?! Either way it’s pure cringe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:56 AM
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Not only that but the punishment for r*pe is so pathetically small it may as well be a slap on the wrist. If we threatened men with castration I bet the r*pe rates would plummet guaranteed. And I know we are going to get the "OMG ThInK oF tHe YoUnG mEn" Yeah I thought about them...and they are disgusting and deliberately hurt another human being...✂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:09 AM
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JFC...I wanna give past/present you a hug for enduring that. It must have been terrifying...I'm so sorry...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:05 AM
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“Bought him a car” [spits coffee] BRUH. NOOOOOO!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:20 PM
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Since lab grown diamonds are of the same structure as in the ground “real” diamonds I see no “fakeness” about it. But you’re right on how unethical most mining for diamonds are. Heck, the material used in solar panels in mined in Africa and the people are unbearably poor. I’m more interested in diamonds being used in machinery and it’s practical use rather than a thing I put on my hand but the overinflated price IS ridiculous since it’s just super dense carbon. That’s just me!! There are prettie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:12 PM
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Congrats on the level up!! That’s so awesome you and your husband are in a good place financially. And it’s important that more people follow your example to show others that plenty of people can live fulfilling lives without children!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:23 PM
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This! Not only that but some scrotes believe that when you hit 30 you are “eggless” and an old croon and will just have cats. At this rate I want to become the “old spinster” so they will leave me alone. “Oh she can’t have kids, poor baby!” [cries in stacks of money] Yes please feel bad for me!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:44 PM
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I tried the waters and said “what if I’m a lesbian?” (It’s not a choice but I’m just giving an example) “That doesn’t mean anything! That means DOUBLE the babies” You. Can’t. Win. It’s especially infuriating when you argue with a MAN. I need to nail the “No” and stare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:40 PM
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Omg this has happened to me before. “Do you have kids?” “No, I can’t have them” “What about adoption” “Maybe” ITS A NO LADY!!! And one guy with the audacity of 100 scrotes said “You’ll change you mind” Like my bodily autonomy didn’t mean sh*t. People like that make me angry and I refuse to associate with anyone who doesn’t respect women’s choices. “That’s who I must be as a woman” It ISNT. But people are so over fed on this life script thing that if you don’t follow it by the book then something…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:34 PM
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“If I could I would” JUST DONT. This is pure patriarchy and it’s SAD. I never see men congregate and talk about selling and degrading themselves for cash. And I don’t care if it’s “mild” stuff like OnlyFans. The Internet is a helhole and if you get the wrong whiff of attention or a spiteful BF you can kiss any future jobs goodbye. Horrible!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:26 AM
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Same here sis! But once you realize videogames are a surefire way to fk up your sleep schedule you have to make a concerted effort to back away. If I can pull away from the Minecraft every night so can some other dusty scrote! And I have no patience for knitting and couldn't get the hang of it, but if a woman was knitting constantly and made a ton of sh*t from it I'd kinda be impressed NGL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 06:55 PM
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[shaking table] I was thinking that too!!! How sad is it that the ONLY time she gets affection is through sex?! Yeah affection that benefits HIM. Manipulative POS is RIGHT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:40 PM
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That's f*cking tragic...I wish she could get a break. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:30 PM
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I'd rather have the wish list then trash junk I don't want, but I get what you mean. Sometimes I put stuff on my wish list that I forgot about and don't even want...sometimes the best gift is a promise to take time together, to care for you and listen. Even my LV brother thinks the holidays should be about being together. (before he proceeded to tell us he was traveling alone next year LMAO)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:29 PM
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Lmao these are good points. If any man buys you this sh*t buy him a bottle of lotion and be like "You are on your own! BYYYEEEE" 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:27 PM
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I've been so sappy and emotional lately...this made me tear up lmao. Man gets the sh*t kicked out of him and STILL says he cares...THAT'S A MAN!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:23 PM
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"He offered to quit having sex" He KNOWS she's in love with him...what a POS. This is why men who don't like lAbElS squick me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:20 PM
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Ugh. Knowing the fact that men abuse vulnerable women I’m saddened but not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:31 AM
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"I ask for an allowance of my own money" Excuse me? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:17 AM
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Holy sh*t, really? I've read about the "hysteria" crap but were the doctors penetrating these women? JFC, thank Gaia they invented vibrators!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:10 AM
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three double hula-hoop Twister cornbread [spits cookie crumbs] I'm gone. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:08 AM
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"The sex robots are coming" Oh thank Gaia...I've been waiting for my SexyMax to come in the mail...at least he does the dishes and listens to me vent about a bad day instead of scroll on his phone! Seriously though...the sentence about taking "p*ssy" out and dining it so gross...he ADMITS he uses women for sex and doesn't see them as human. "I like p*ssy and don't mind the work at all" B*tch DO YOU??? Sounds like you absolutely hate it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:44 PM
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OMG I want to make a post about a video I saw that got HUNDREDS of awards and some of the comments were like “Average FDSer” and the pure male rage is kind of funny but also scary. All the woman was doing was stating her standards and unlike men we don’t froth at the mouth and screech when a woman says what she wants. It’s so SAD!! LMAO. And these men are all kids too! The fact it got SO many likes and awards just shows me how spoiled men are. How so many subs peddle this hatred of women so men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:29 PM
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I wish we could gather in a room and give her a standing ovation. She handled this so well!! 🎉👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:09 PM
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I can hear the scrotes now. “Omg ThAts NoT RiGhT heS pRobAbLy DePrEsSeD” Bruh….women manage whole ass households with post party’s depression. She sure as hell SHOULD be able to take at least the tablet back!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:08 PM
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THIS is why you don’t sign a lease with a man. She obviously had the house under her name and this waste of space scrote was just sucking her energy. I hope she gives us an update on her life scrote-free! How exciting!! I love the fact she’s got a “catio”. 🥺💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:05 PM
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I should totally watch season 1 and only season 1. I’ll pretend it was a very good one off series lmao!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:27 PM
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They’re like those tiny dogs!!! Hahaha!!! So short and full of anger. I mean I have no leg to stand on because I get angry too but some of these men are more wide than tall. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 05:23 PM
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Well it’s a mixed bag honestly. I HAVE seen comments here and there about the whole “women and children first” and men seeing it as some matriarchy. TBH I also have seen the raging hatred for women as well in TRP and it makes me want to stay out even more. I could have sworn I saw on a “men don’t get compliments enough” thing (probably a Reddit thread, I’m trying to keep away for my sanity now) a majority of people were saying that women get SO many compliments and failed to realize that a lot a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:12 PM
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I'm living for the comments saying they are happy and get to eat whatever they want with no one to share with and just loving the holidays. People see it as weird when women want to do stuff alone but there is no shame! I kinda wish I was alone on the holidays considering how crazy my house gets! 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/21 04:36 PM
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Oh sh*t whaddup! My sister is obsessed with the charcuterie and we did it Thanksgiving AND Christmas. Whats your favorite wine? My sister says pairing fig and strawberry jam with the cheese and meat is good but I wasn't a fan lol Hope you enjoyed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/21 04:31 PM
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My face lit up when you were like "I'm going to vet harder for the sake of my own happiness" Hell yeah sister!! ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/21 04:18 PM
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RBF is such a stupid and sexist term. (not calling you stupid, I just hate it with my whole entire being) Men don't get called sexist terminology as much as women...you are stern and rightfully angry! Oh, and this "climate" of dating is that men can't get away with forcing their nasty peens into women's mouths or coercing them into sex all the time. TRP talk about how women are constantly showered in affections but it's all lies and scrotery. "I’ve dealt with multiple rejections just fine so the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 07:22 PM
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Reminds me of how I was recently talking about how women have more of a risk going outside in a dark alley than men and my Mom is all "What about smaller men blah blah" and I'm like "Yeah but will they get sexually assaulted?" "Probably!" Nope. I cut that convo off, I'm tired of women's issues being talked over in favor of "wHaT aBoUt mEn?!" The reason this sh*t is still around I believe is because women keep making concessions for men when they barely make a blip on the radar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 07:16 PM
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"Spending the rest of our lives together? Sounds pretty uncomfortable" YES!!! Personal comfort should be your #1 priority Queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 07:10 PM
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lmao HE HAS STUFF OPEN!! Good riddance! What a MESS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 07:07 PM
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NTA but a young woman who was GROOMED AT 19 WTF?! Her BFs daugher should have NOT invited him JFC!! 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 01:02 AM
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First off EWWWWW to all that noise! Visions?! Wanting to fk your Mom?! I would see RED if some scrote said that about my Mom. You do NOT do that to my Mom!! (even though she has PickMe tendencies) I really hope you didn’t send nudes and if you did you deleted them because scrotes share that sh*t. 🤢 And no problem sis! We got your back and support each other! Happy Holidays to you too and so glad you’re free from that d*ckwad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 12:55 AM
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I physically jumped, I STG EWWW!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 12:49 AM
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"I'm 58" [SPITS SELTZER] BRUH...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 12:47 AM
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Urgh, him insulting you like that makes me angry and I want to give him a full blown wedgie...what a SCROTE!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/21 12:00 AM
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Ew, gross I can't stand Jake Gyllenhaal. Some women think he's a total heartthrob but I guess since after seeing him in Nightcrawler I can't unsee of how much a creep he is... I know creepy characters aren't creepy IRL but I've been seeing a lot of parallels lately... We need to shame men more for huge age gaps, it's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 11:57 PM
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"-they'd quickly have no balls" QUEEEEEEN!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:25 PM
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EW GROSS. I'm so glad you stood up for yourself and left his house! I hope his GF follows your example and leaves him too. I hope you can rest and find things that make you happy dear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:17 PM
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Every time I hear about "man-cave" I just think of that commercial with the "She-shed" and I'm sad her she-shed burned down! We all need a "she-shed" lmao. No degeneracy and 100% US!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:46 PM
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"tHiS eVIL wOmAn kIlLeD tHeIr cHiLd, DOeSn'T hE hAvE a SaY?!" No... Seriously, men have next to 0% of the effort involved in pregnancy, I'll say it a million times. I'm so happy that woman cut it off at the knees and chose her OWN life rather than become a slave to both the man AND the child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:50 PM
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I couldn't watch further than "I like to please my husband" and after I looked at that dude's weird goblin face...EW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 03:21 PM
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“Let’s call him B” B for B**ch. FOK THAT GUY EWWW! I know this is probably hindsight but I would block anyone complimenting me sexually even as a joke. Friends don’t do that. Especially male friends because they KNOW how it sounds!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:07 PM
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Block your inbox! These scrotes are always butthurt and always waiting to shove their entitled beliefs onto us and abuse us. Your mental health will be better off if you block and delete always sister!! We got you here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:03 PM
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My Mom was the one who wanted 10 kids but honestly whoever on either side wants that many kids are juvenile. (tbh my mom was a kid when she wanted kids). They don’t think through the strain financially and physically having that many kids will bring. All my moms pregnancies were horror stories and being the youngest Id have not cared if I died as a very premature infant. The father is rarely around and the mother is ALWAYS saddled with the child rearing. It’s too many kids and having ONE is too …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 02:00 PM
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Even my sisters NVX would still be down when she was pregnant (believe me I didn’t ask she brought it up). So any man turned off by pregnancy are WEAK IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:53 PM
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This whole post is a YESSS but “sex isn’t an object to be gifted” is SO GREAT!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:45 PM
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Hell yeah!!! I wouldn’t either because men insist on doing it IN your mouth. And I’ve read it’s disgusting. Just the thought grosses me out. 🤢 And women are expected for men not to reciprocate. Women need to stop doing this porn sick stuff. It’s gotten out of hand!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:42 PM
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That is SO DISGUSTINGGG!! I’m sorry but coercing/forcing you to give HIM pleasure but also reminding you?! And punishing you if you didn’t do it? Why are men…what are they even. Physically turns my stomach. I’m SO glad you got out of that sh*t. I hope you were able to heal from that. Not to be dramatic but that sounds traumatic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:37 PM
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“Damn you’re so cool that makes you sexy, Marry me?” That’s a nope from me dawg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:08 PM
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[raises arm too and gives you a high five] “BUt iTs tHe ThOuGhT tHaT cOuNtS!” Yeah but he didn’t THINK THO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:18 PM
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Like an episode of House but they're doing a differential diagnosis on the death of his marriage. I'm crying...😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:20 PM
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Imagine being a woman who isn't into perfume or jewelry and you got that AND it was LAST MINUTE...WEW. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:08 PM
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Lawd, my heart. She suggested this gaming man-baby move in with HER and SHE support HIM!. Thank Gaia she realized she was being stupid (to be fair it happens to the best of us) and left that clown. She has leveled the hell up and should be ruthless with men now. Men have no shame in dumping women after they make their big break so she shouldn't either!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:57 PM
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Good point but ours is conveniently pointing down more and can land safely in the bowl. I don't want to think too hard about this but I'm assuming if this guy has normal shaped balls the angle would be compromised... .🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:52 PM
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This is hilarious but also kind of sad. No thanks for the micro-peen! 🤏🤏🤏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:48 PM
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#AllBreastSizesAreGreat lmao I'm so happy someone posted this. These men have the smarts to get though space training and all the rigamarole that entails and STILL have a low enough self esteem that they need their PP's pandered to. It's like a grown man redesigning the tubes and being like "Who's got a big penis! YOU DO CHAMP!" 😂 Do their space buddies watch them pee or something???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:45 PM
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You're not missing much, there's only SOME good FDS-like creators there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:39 PM
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I can't even enjoy my stupid dumb mobile app game without new designs pandering to the male gaze...it's like there's a "waifu" of the week!! (send help) I want to honestly make a post on the male gaze in anime and how men are spoiled rotten with EVERYTHING being catered to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:29 PM
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I'm a big supporter of women being able to have their shirts off when it gets hot out and not be heckled or shamed. However, thanks to our disgusting porn filled society not only are breasts put into the "horni" category, I wouldn't put it past men to take pictures of a woman and shame her. I like clothes, I love my hoodies and sweatpants and I prefer colder climates because not only do I feel cozy I don't have to see middle-aged men with their gross man breasts out. Just sayin', if Joe down the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:25 PM
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“Beta bucks, Alpha f*cks” UGH. You just reminded me of this horrible thing again. I hate it so much. TRP is such a cancer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:09 AM
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He he. Tell yourselves that scrotes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:03 PM
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Men like to shame women for their "loose vagina's" so if they can't stop then I say we bring on the shame for these scrotes...💅 And to any lurkers, vaginas aren't able to get broken like your sad PP's and can go through a whole ass childbirth and still reshape itself. Die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:09 PM
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[LOUD WHEEZE]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:06 PM
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The RP "manosphere" communities always complain about "not wanting to raise some other woman's kids" but honestly your post made me think how this is a big fat lie. Women have statistically done more of the domestic labor and child rearing for ages...so these men saying they don't want to "raise her kids" aren't even going to be raising the kids because the mother has been a single mom for the longest time and all he has to do is basically show up... Best case scenario he helps raise the kid and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:04 PM
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First off I LOVE your username...secondly I'm just getting heated about the thought that for FOUR YEARS this clown didn't think to include you during the holidays!!! Congrats on dumping him but holy crap...what a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:51 PM
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Your energy is fantastic and I wish I could emulate it! (I don't think I can match the wit...I'm too slow lol) I give off the "angry bee" energy, "don't touch me" but it also is because I'm small and can be taken advantage of easier if sh*t hit the fan. The last paragraph is something women need to be taught more about...what is positive selfishness and what is negative selfishness? I feel more women are guilt tripped into showing any selfishness an punished even though they are looking out for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:47 PM
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I get what you mean but she can just not dress up, get her "free dinner" and leave? Then again, she doesn't deserve the sh*t he will spew during the "date"...it would probably be full of groveling and excuse making. "I'm sOrRy I hAvEn'T bEeN pUtTiNg In EfFoRt" [dumps food in grocery bag and leaves his ass]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:16 PM
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EXACTLY!!! And I’ll add on that it’s not hard to see physical cues or read someone’s mood. (At least get the more obvious things figured out) Yeah we aren’t mind REEEEders but if someone frowns or shows a disagreement it’s not hard to ASK what’s up and be attentive. If they ignore you or act stupid they don’t care and like you said! Just DUMP DUMP DUMP HIM IN THE TRASH!! 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:07 PM
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👆👆👆👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:00 PM
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"wHaT dId yOu eXpEcT?" [screaming] Yes ladies, please be scared of going outside and living your damn life. It's your fault men are animals and can't control themselves when they see a vulnerable woman at night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:59 PM
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No joke, I feel like the gifts will be sh*t anyway. At least with money you can buy a nice thing for yourself lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:55 PM
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"This isn't right" Damn straight it isn't!! I'm so sorry you had to deal with this sis!! But you're here and you dumped him! Doesn't mean his lack of initiative and awfulness doesn't still hurt...I'm giving you virtual hugs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:53 PM
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"Went out on a first date with a military guy who said he was family oriented." Military man??? Oof. As for the man in the city trying to trick you into a walk date it's Queen sh*t you were like "NOPE!" and had a nice dinner by yourself lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:32 PM
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Judging by these comments I'm starting to think Ursula was right about human men not liking when women talk... 🙄) is women "run their mouth" but lately all I ever hear is men projecting and talking over women and it's a constant noise noise noise!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:24 PM
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👆👆👆👆👆 I LOVE THIS ENERGY!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:17 PM
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That last part reminds me of how a YTer I like was talking about a Zen lesson. The teacher presents a stick and tells his students if they said it was real he would beat them with it, if it wasn't, he'd beat them still. If they refused to answer he would still beat them with the stick. It's a "triple bind" where all the options are futile and you lose. As the YTer points out "the abusers present you with a stick and ask you how you want to be beaten" and the only way out is to break the stick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:12 PM
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Honestly I don't get why she's still with this guy. She's obviously on another planet and he's complaining that she's "rich." I bet he was holding out hope he would get some money from her lmao! "Team player" Yeah there is no "team" in pregnancy bruh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:23 PM
5

I bought myself some early presents, I've always wanted a weighted blanket!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:19 PM
215

LMAO this isn’t related but your comment made me think of the dude complaining his GF wasn’t making him orgasm. Like he couldn’t handle not getting what he wanted and was going to break up with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:21 AM
11

No problem sis. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:46 AM
35

You should just pick up the phone and dial the police on the spot lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:43 AM
86

“If I look cute now I’m going to be ADORABLE in a second!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:42 AM
33

YOOO! This happened to me too!! A younger guy (ew I don’t like younger men) was like “you’ve got a young aura about you” BARF. I think he was also the guy who told me he dated a woman in her thirties. (ok???) This is why I don’t tell men my age anymore….
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:41 AM
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