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| 19 | Little reminder about "red flags"A lot of women think it's unfair not to explain. They don't understand that they're helping to build a scrote, not a better man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 325 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetence"That's what she gets for dumping the kids on me. Besides, shouldn't she have made sure they couldn't reach it? Everything is her responsibility, why can't she understand that???" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 09:59 PM |
| 49 | A reminder that you have more power than you thinkThey've been telling us forever to keep our legs closed and pick better men. Then when we do they have a meltdown. I've never been on OLD, but bread crumbing would have never worked on me. I'd just assume they weren't interested and move on. Men self sabotage then blame women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 12:19 AM |
| 32 | New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorism threatExactly. And that's why we must maintain the right to bear arms, even if it means they have them too. They'll have them anyway, regardless of the law. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 08:57 PM |
| 91 | New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorism threatI have literally been told by liberal women that we shouldn't be allowed to use guns against male attackers because we don't have the death penalty for rape. Better to seek medical attention after and get therapy than to kill the poor confused man. How in the world did you break free from this mindset? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 08:03 PM |
| 175 | New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorism threatThey consider touching women to be harmless, because 'women are dramatic over nothing'. That carries over to the touching of children, because 'women lie and are hysterical'. They might believe it and take action if there was a male witness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 07:59 PM |
| 60 | Can we talk about how hard it is not to internalize the message that it’s a woman’s responsibility to “keep her man interested”?There is nothing you need to do to keep a man's attention and affection, besides being yourself. It's exhausting and pointless to go overboard trying to 'meet his needs'. Men cheat on the hottest women in the world, women that would literally do anything for them. They do it because they can, not because she's defective. A man with a check list and a wandering eye isn't worth your time. He can't love you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 11:10 PM |
| 22 | Well… you chose him!To add one more, I got a lot of this when struggling financially after leaving my abusive ex: "Don't ask me for help and advice! You left your bread and butter!" My fucking bread and butter. Really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 11:51 PM |
| 6 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youThey won't see it that way. "Why are you complaining now when it never bothered you before???" Then they'll accuse you of being controlling. Don't fall for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 10:28 PM |
| 54 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youYou're right, they don't. When my twelve year old granddaughter was molested by her mother's boyfriend, the police called it he said/she said and refused to arrest him. Wouldn't even make him leave the home. But told the mother if she didn't take her three kids and leave in the middle of the night, they'd take them away from her. Why? Because she reported an unsafe situation, and SHE was required to act on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 09:42 PM |
| 13 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youWait until she has any expectations of him. He won't be happy or satisfied with her either. Oh, and watch for him to come crawling back to you when it happens. He'll remember what you used to do for him when she starts 'nagging'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 09:37 PM |
| 26 | Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners?I wouldn't worry about it too much. Most men that do that want you to know. And then you throw him away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:39 PM |
| 99 | Why is "do literally anything other than a coffee or walk date" so hard for so many men to handle?Yep, any man that uses the "she's bitter" line can kiss my ass. You just know he's going to start talking about cats next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 12:33 AM |
| 5 | 🤡I never was the type to pursue a man, and I've never been sorry. There have been a few I liked, and knew they really liked me too, but they wouldn't take a chance. They dropped little hints, then sulked like babies when I didn't immediately start humping their leg. Time would go on to prove that they were low effort in pretty much every other aspect of life. Their relationships never worked out. And I bet they still can't figure out why, no matter how much their wives/girlfriends cOmMuNiCaTeD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 07:40 PM |
| 11 | Signs of Cheating: How to spot them?Trust your intuition. If you think he's cheating, he very likely is. And I'll tell you something I didn't used to know. You don't have to prove it to take action. You don't need a license from him to dump him. If you are uncomfortable in this relationship, just leave it. He would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 11:43 PM |
| 241 | Even Men Are Tired Of Men...What do I bring to the table? My appetite! Is that audacious? So is the question, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:45 PM |
| 8 | Why he will punish you for giving him second chancesWhen you give a man the benefit of the doubt, he gets all the benefits and you get all the doubts. It really is better to be a bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 08:46 PM |
| 50 | Men’s “goofiness” and “clumsiness” is usually just laziness and lack of considerationI bet he never forgets the things that are important to him. Does he forget to go to work or meet up with his friends? Forget about a concert he bought tickets for? I'm sure he doesn't! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 07:53 PM |
| 30 | Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.I would rather live alone with cats than be anywhere near this dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 32 | First, your wife had a baby, not you. Second? You’re the problem.He knows why. I'm sure she's explained why over and over. He just wants strangers to give him permission to cheat. You can tell a man how to fix the problem, and he'll wait forever for you to stop being 'broken'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 07:27 PM |
| 109 | A man who values you and wants you, will move mountains and go to the ends of the Earth for you... for NOTHING in return but your Divine Goddess presence. You are to be doted on. No matter what is invested, no matter what they do for you, you owe nothing.Imagine the frothing rage this post has incited in lurking scrotes. And yet they know it's absolutely true for 'The One'. Meanwhile, they think they're entitled to a mommy bang maid until they find her. And "She Better by God bring something to the table!" When a man asks you what you bring to the table, he already has contempt for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 07:20 PM |
| 50 | A man being honest is the bare minimum. Do not let men manipulate you into believing they did something noble by telling you the truth.I bet he wants to settle down with a woman with no baggage that's at least a decade younger than himself. No broken women, please, and no more than a couple of previous relationships in her past. And of course he gets a hall pass if she 'lets herself go'. I bet he's ugly too, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Pay Attention To Where His Eyes LandMen do more deliberate looking when they're out with a woman. He wants her to see him looking. He needs her to realize he has options, and doesn't take her seriously. That's supposed to make her drool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 04:56 PM |
| 77 | If you won’t bother checking the FDS handbook before posting your question, at least ask yourself this…I went out alone a lot as a young woman, as a way to treat myself. There was nothing sad or weird or brave about it. It was fun getting away from the house, kids, husband, and even my friends (mostly stupid pick me's). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 08:44 PM |
| 13 | A refusal to engage: How I came to terms with the reality of porn"It's like trying to fill up a pasta strainer with water. You can't." Thank you, thank you, thank you. I've been looking for those words my entire adult life. That's EXACTLY what it's like trying to keep a scrote satisfied. You can't! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 08:01 PM |
| 183 | Men Have No Friends and Women Bear the BurdenThey are literally punishing women because they don't have access to their mothers in this way. A lot of men really hate their mothers, and not necessarily because they deserve it. They just view them through the eyes of their abusive fathers. "It's Mom's fault that Dad was angry all the time. Why couldn't she just SATISFY him??? I'll never let a woman hurt me like that!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 07:38 PM |
| 205 | Do not date men who are “separated”.Men separate from their wives and break up with their girlfriends in their minds all the time (just haven't gotten around to telling her yet). And while they are 'separated' or 'broken up' they feel free to see other women. They are being 'totally honest' with them too. Then they get back together with their wives/girlfriends (again, in their minds, no need to trouble her about it), and have nothing to confess. It's not like they were actually cheating! They were broken up, she just didn't need … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:34 PM |
| 26 | LV partners who ask to see us in VERY specific lingerieI learned not to wear lingerie with my first husband when he literally ripped it off of me. I paid for it, not him (he never bought me anything). And no, seeing me in it did not make him lose control. It was obviously something he'd seen in porn, and thought he was supposed to do it. So he grabbed the material over my breasts, deliberately ripped all the way down and around until it was in two pieces, then threw me down and fucked me. Like it was disposable gift wrap, and I was a fuck toy. I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 07:32 PM |
| 11 | No man is ‘seemingly HV’ — he simply did the bare minimum on the first couple of dates. Stop labeling men HV too EARLY on!Dickmatized, lmao! I never had any that was that good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 08:26 PM |
| 39 | Reminder: Nobody is nicer than a man trying to have sex with you for the first time.Yep, because a lot of men see sex as something dirty. Well, dirty for women, anyway. They can get up from you clean as a whistle, but you are soiled. Because you 'let them'. I'll probably never be in another relationship because of my health problems, but I wish I'd known this when I was younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:14 PM |
| 75 | It doesn’t serve me to tell people that I’m happy not having had children.It's better to grieve not having kids than to be sorry you did. I wasn't sorry when they were little, mind you. But they became more and more selfish as they grew up, and I seldom see them or their children now. I've asked them to be brutally honest about why, and they have nothing. Deer in the headlights stare. Busy, something something mumble. But I become Darling Mommy when they need something. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy. I know it sounds crazy, but I think they were jealous when … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 07:03 PM |
| 66 | My hairdresser told me...Also, beware people who pretend to be afraid to disappoint you. It gives them an excuse to lie to you, while enjoying your misery. He wasn't at all afraid to disappoint me. He lived for the thrill of getting away with it, while cowering and pretending to be terrified. "See? You make me have to lie to you! See how angry you are?!" But I was angry about the lie far more than the things he was lying about (usually). The really awful things he wouldn't even bother to deny. Because 'they were normal … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 628 | “Men aren’t loved unconditionally, women are”Ooh, I like him! How often does a guy even get it, let alone say it? And to call it like I see it, it seems that men get far more unconditional love than women do. That's because we 'owe' it to them, but they don't owe us shit (of course). We have to earn that 'love' every day by being perfect in appearance, tone, deference, and service. And even THEN they reserve the right to be dissatisfied. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 06:23 PM |
| 12 | No one inherently HV or LV. We are what we repeatedly do.NEway, I hope this hypothetical previously HVM gets dumped by his new 'soul mate', lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 05:41 PM |
| 36 | No one inherently HV or LV. We are what we repeatedly do.My thoughts? Women don't get these excuses. If they ever do anything bad, then they've always been bad. Women don't reserve the right to become low value when life gets difficult. If anything, they dig in and fight harder than ever to prove themselves. What choice do they have? A man that decides to have an affair and end his marriage twenty years into it has always been low value. Because he always knew he had the option. That's what gave him the strength to be 'high value' for as long as it se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 05:25 PM |
| 51 | Does he accidentally break/ruin your things? Or is it covert domestic violence?Oh God. When I was a little girl, me and my sister were given baby ducks for Easter. The day after, I woke up and found mine dead with a broken neck. No one knew what happened (right), and I just needed to get over it. The next morning my sister's duck was also dead. Even my pick me mother couldn't call that a coincidence. She forced my stepfather to confess, and of course the poor dear didn't know why he did it. He was very sorry though, and that was that. He was also molesting us regularly, wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 04:41 PM |
| 10 | PSA: For the love of God, STOP faking your orgasms ladies!Oh, there are so many things I could say about this subject. But I am curious if any of you have had this one disconcerting experience. He's doing it right, either with his fingers or during sex. And you say "Yes, like that, don't stop." Then the asshole presumes you're about to blow, and starts jack hammering you instead. Just when it was STARTING to feel nice. Then absolutely races you to the finish line. AARRRGG! And OF COURSE he wants you to say you came. Because he tried as hard as he could… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a jobThis is SO TRUE, and yet they still resent their wives. It seems nothing makes a man happier than being unhappy. It gives him an excuse to cheat! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 08:50 PM |
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