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| 21 | What characteristics are you looking for in a partner?Like many ladies mentioned like attracts like. So someone introverted, empathetic, having a good degree and job in STEM, gym and fitness enthusiast (I love endurance sports and hiking and lifting would be nice to share those), reading books, self help and should NOT want kids. Yep, Imma die alone 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 04:13 PM |
| 21 | What characteristics are you looking for in a partner?I value the exact same things as you and I'm 25 and I am unsure if I will come across an HVM ever. I am trying to be happy by myself and slowly getting out of the conditioning that you need men to be happy but damn sometimes I still get lonely and an LVM looks enticing. Why is there such a dearth of good men? Are they all taken? Sometimes I wonder if its me. How do you reconcile that this is systemic rather than personal and the idea that one might never come across an HVM? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 04:10 PM |
| 68 | Men talking about ex's physical attributesOh my God I feel terribly for your friend, these thing really can do long lasting damage yo one's self esteem. Like the reason he didn't like me enough was because of my small tits. I can relate to this. My ex constantly looked at women of a certain physical characteristic when we were together, like conspicuously, as if he was announcing it without really doing it. Thankfully I dumped him and when I had the urge to change myself through surgery I stopped myself and got therapy instead. Which is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 11:06 AM |
| 16 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.100% agreed, same with my parents. My mother is SAHM and I never once saw my mother having to ask for me. That's an extremely alien concept to me, you're sharing literally everything but money is where the man draws the line? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 06:59 PM |
| 121 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetenceI know right it's like 50 bucks. The thing is men who just pick the after shave that's closest to them in the store won't even understand how heartbreaking this is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 06:54 AM |
| 9 | Red flag - A man who likes to pit women against other women.Male validation is like an illicit drug So true. Reminds me about something Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie speaks about in "We should all be feminists", We raise girls to see each other as competitors Not for jobs or for accomplishments Which I think can be a good thing But for the attention of men And boy do men abuse this. One of the guys I dated ALWAYS said how me being Conservative with my choices (aka not sleeping on the first few date) was so refreshing, "so much better than the other girls". An… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 07:10 AM |
| 58 | Big yikesThis is SO true. Something my mother perpetuates too with her toxic femininity. Constantly growing up she reminded me how women have to always sacrifice, to "keep her man". I'm still unlearning years of brainwashing. It's extremely hard but will be worth it. Keep at it ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 05:03 PM |
| 16 | Confused about our relationship - DESPERATE for helpAs someone who was in a toxic relationship at 20 that lasted three years too long, I felt deja Vu reading this. Sis, the only regret I have is I didn't end it after one year. I am thankful for you to have found FDS now and I had found it then. Listen to the queen advice here and please end it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 10:05 PM |
| 47 | Anyone else want to get married less the more you see married men leering at you or other women in the company of their partners?This just happened to me this evening in the metro. A man kept looking at me, very conspicuously and when I looked at him to meet his eyes, he smiled rather than divert his face as if he wanted me to know he was looking "on purpose". After two stops, as he gets up to leave he finally looks away to his other side -- to help his pregnant wife/gf up. Damn men are just awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 09:44 PM |
| 62 | Brooklyn 99I love B99 it's so funny and different in the sense it combines my two favorite genres, crime and comedy. Honestly, I love Jake and his sense of humor but he's sometimes too immature for a 30 something, you know. Especially for Amy, who's so incredibly conscientious and mature. I feel like it'll be hard to raise a family with a man who himself refuses to grow up. Terry is very truly an HVM, you're right. The very contrast to him are Scully and Hitchcock. In one episode, and this helped me unders… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:24 AM |
| 23 | Men make up these stupid excuses for their behavior because they are spoiled and never called outIt's so unfortunate but true, women are nothing but numbers to them. Vessels to get their dicks wet in. Or keep them around for convenience sake as emotional outhouses. So you shouldn't feel bad about looking at them as dinner opportunities :)) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 06:35 PM |
| 22 | Men make up these stupid excuses for their behavior because they are spoiled and never called outHaha the tall ones don't have to be beggers 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 06:30 PM |
| 39 | Man OK with 50/50 relationship as long as it's to his advantage. But as soon as it barely compensates the woman, it's transactional and gross. Notice, they're "spiritually" married 🙄Hahaha me too! I got way less invested after spiritually married. Gosh how come hippies like that earn that much after tax🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 09:24 PM |
| 169 | I’ve been taking notes to learn how to trust myselfThis is something I struggle with a lot. This nagging feeling that something is wrong. Unfortunately I have trained myself for 20+ years to ignore it. And everytime I did ignore it, it came and bit me in the ass. And the worst part is I tend to dress obvious red flags as yellow ones (aka giving him the benefit of doubt). Please don't. A man you met some days/ weeks ago is 100% a stranger. He does not deserve your trust. HONOR YOUR INTUITIONS over him. Your intuitions have been with you for your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 04:22 PM |
| 20 | Is it just me or do all your pickme libfem friends also just CHOOSE to have no ambition and low paying jobs?Omg I have noticed it too! Even if they have good jobs, they have no ambition to do better. For eg, because they were intelligent they got into a good university and consequently got a well paying job but then they are content with it. Not looking for the "next best thing" because they are constantly occupied with breaking down "mixed signals" from men lol. Funny how much time gets cleared out when you live by "if he wanted to he would"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 03:22 PM |
| 34 | Why does it take posing as a female for some males to believe us about the misogyny we deal with? I do like the bottom two comments… (Repost with trigger warning for the horrifying top comment, I’m sorry for forgetting)I'd second this. This was very triggering even with the warning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 11:51 AM |
| 136 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerThat mentality is why you aren't rich, boy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 03:27 PM |
| 44 | Successful dating experienceI honestly find it incredibly difficult to find someone on my level, atleast on OLD. They either have a lesser degree or lesser job (sorry don't mean it in a condescending way) and definitely don't meet me on level with my hobbies / working out / discipline. It's rather despondent out there so I totally relate to what you're saying. It indeed is lonely on the top. I'm extremely sorry about the intimate experience you've had, frankly this is what scares me a lot too. I've not been intimate in the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 03:24 PM |
| 76 | This is why you never stay with a man who expresses interest in anal. What he really wants is to hurt and humiliate you.I am so sorry it happened to you. My toxic ex, who I was in a relationship with for the longest would coerce me to do anal all the time until one time he slipped in "by mistake" and endlessly gaslit me. He would push my boundaries physically all the time under the guise of "I am just SO attracted to you I can't help myself". I have had guys do this a lot, unfortunately because the above was my first relationship, it has disillusioned me into thinking, if a guy is physically into you, he won't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 01:04 PM |
| 43 | Even a "pet peeve" like refusing to go to the doc for regular check-ups can be lethal. Be ruthless when setting boundaries and standards!One of those days you regret being literate. * | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 03:30 PM |
| 26 | Am I the only one who's starting to believe I'll never be loved?Can I add something to this? I have been doing some inner work and I have realised that growing up a lot of stock was put into looks. I grew up insecure about my nose, my arms, my thighs because my mother viciously pointed out the defects in me and sort of alluded to how no man would find me attractive because my nose isn't narrow enough (she's a very sweet lady otherwise and I believe it was genuine concern from her side that she said so). Anyways, I have worked hard on everything I can control… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 03:14 PM |
| 159 | Middle aged men who “don’t know yet” on dating appsBecause "don't know yet" sounds better than "I am looking to only fuck you and ghost you OR if you're lucky keep you around until it's convenient to me * finger guns * ;) " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:35 PM |
| 36 | If you could write your ex's Tinder profileMale, 30, big biceps but delusional about height (I think I am 3" taller than I actually am). Surely that doesn't matter because I can impress you with my house, job and blatant lack of personality? I am the man and I love guns and beer and sports. Looking for a trophy wife, education immaterial because she'll have to eventually stay at home and raise my kids. I don't think women should have the right to vote and I as a white male am the actual disadvantaged class of society and have it the toug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 12:05 PM |
| 208 | If they don't list in their OLD profile what they are looking for (relationship or casual) it's never for a good reason. This is from one of the OLD subreddits. OP is confirming my beliefs in the last screenshot.Yeah wtf is not a hookup but also casual, not a relationship but also a connection. The fuck? You don't wanna do anything but expect regular support and sex. Wow, what a generous arrangement coming from a man entrusted with taking care of a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 11:56 AM |
| 55 | The results of applying FDS to my dating since having moved.I am curious, as someone who recently moved to a new (big) city as well, and refuses to get back on OLD, how did you get asked out aka where did you meet guys? I am pretty introverted so my hobbies outside work include the gym or reading at home lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 08:36 PM |
| 19 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceWOW you're right, it's time I learnt to draw boundaries with women. They can be as toxic as men. As feeding into the patriarchy as men themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:49 PM |
| 21 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceThank you, I am arriving at the same conclusion! Will need to next her😅 It's amazing how much FDS and FLUS has taught me to draw boundaries with respect to ANY kind of relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 05:46 PM |
| 43 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceI think she's saying that having a man wait for 2 months is taking advantage of him lol! And that he needs to have sex with you to know he ACTUALLY likes you ahaha and YOU need to have sex with him too to find out yOU aRe SeXuALLy ComPaTIBle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:57 PM |
| 126 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceOH true! I actually wasn't the victim at all, I was like "my way or the high way". But damn may be subconsciously I see of myself as having been dumped? Thank you I am going to be more careful about how I frame it to myself and others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:30 PM |
| 103 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceOh my gosh, I felt the exact same way speaking to her, like I was some kind of traditionalist prude. Infact when I told her I get emotionally attached to men after sex she explains how I have to be stronger and separate my feelings from my hormones and "get back out there". It's weird for me to accept because I met her through her brother who's like the epitome of HVM, he's an exceptional collegue with great work ethics, a great husband and even a better father. I suppose siblings can be very di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 427 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceOmg I never considered it. I just assumed women would relate to men being manipulative but I guess I'm still naive. Thanks for pointing it out!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 130 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceOh wow that's a very interesting perspective. She can't help my career in any way, so may be I'll reduce the time I spend with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:19 PM |
| 191 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceOh 2 months of having met 🙄 she apparently gets impatient in weeks because sex is that important to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:18 PM |
| 25 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceYes, she's certainly not gonna be receptive but will try to talk me out of it which is worse. She's the "liberal feminist" kind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:12 PM |
| 78 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceYou're right. Her ex boyfriend who she broke up with weeks before meeting this guy, bought a flat (obviously without her name on the deed) but she helped him decorate and renovate the whole place and then they broke up "mutually". So I shouldn't speak with her because she is indeed making me question my standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 04:12 PM |
| 303 | Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad.I read this post too and it absolutely broke my heart. Imagine reading this after 30 years of being in what you imagined to be a healthy, loving, respected relationship. This man is absolutely immature and frankly a coward. Posts like this make me absolutely terrified of being with a man, let alone marry them and bear their children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 11:21 AM |
| 58 | Baldness is DadnessTHAT is the thing, the double standards. Women must look pretty and hot. Men can look like "dad's". These are the men who then divorce/cheat on their wives for actually having a baby and going through a mother f-ing pregnancy. Double standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 08:16 AM |
| 59 | This Woman Dated a Man for 2 Years Without Ever Meeting His Family, Friends, or Seeing His HomeThey make demands and we respect them. They set boundaries and we respect that. But wait for a woman to make demands.... Men will try to get what they want. Wow truer words haven't been spoken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 08:06 AM |
| 78 | I have no words for men who are excited about the opportunity to pounce on Ukrainian refugees who are in a vulnerable position and having to flee their country and leave family behind. NO words.Gosh I hope these women stay safe from these men, I hope they find FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 8 | Men hiding women they are dating : Sex and the City (spoilers)I was wrong, you were right😅 I corrected it. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 04:21 PM |
| 37 | Men hiding women they are dating : Sex and the City (spoilers)Oh agreed this show has been exhausting. I am literally more tired this week than usual because of these women's constant bitching about men. I'm stopping now haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 42 | Men hiding women they are dating : Sex and the City (spoilers)Oh ofcourse not, I agree with you. I wish people in general weren't shallow, because looks fade. It's just the dichotomy that bothers me that it's socially acceptable for men to be visual while women are actively trained to not be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 04:18 PM |
| 108 | Men hiding women they are dating : Sex and the City (spoilers)Oh my gosh you're so right. And even married, they were never the happiest, they always fought especially with Howard's low income and him being a child with household chores. Poor Bernadette, she DID deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 04:17 PM |
| 46 | I just got dumped mid-abortionI am so so sorry this happened to you, I can't even begin to imagine how awful it must feel. Listen you might not know me, but I am sending you all my well wishes and prayers. I am here for you, infact let me know if you'd like to speak (my chat here is turned off but surely we can figure something out). Honestly, men disgust me at this point. I can't with them, I just can't. Please do not take it personally, this isn't about you at all, it's about them. Their egos. Their inability to handle a r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 01:29 PM |
| 180 | when men have nothing else they have the audacityOh my God, just when I was getting disgusted by humanity, we hit new lows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 06:43 PM |
| 126 | Falling off of the maskYep, he was willing to do God's work of giving OP his dick during her trip. What a generous man. \s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 10:14 AM |
| 95 | Waiting for Sex: Not a Zero Sum GameThis is a great perspective. I was under the impression that "you make him wait for 6 months" but NO! It's you that's doing the waiting, not him. YOU wait until YOU are sure he's the one. This is such a shift in power balance. Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 10:12 AM |
| 202 | Above all, FDS has taught me to value my time. Following FDS would have prevented this from even happening imoOh or that you want to get married within a month and want to have 5 kids, 3 boys and 2 girls and your mother will move in to help with the babies. "YoU'R bIoloGIcaL CloCk IS TiCkInG!!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 07:04 AM |
| 45 | guys who say they don't know what they are looking for on oldTrust me the number of men who were 30 and had "don't know yet" on their profiles put the society to shame! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 12:38 PM |
| 15 | guys who say they don't know what they are looking for on oldHaha I love the way you put it and honestly based on MY pickmesha days, it'd think it's hopeless optimism and nativity. "May be I'll be an exception." Girl you deserved the heartbreak 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Even JORDAN PETERSON knows how bad online dating and online porn is for women. Don't accept these things.Same girl, same! We should be friends 🙃 Because the men I tried to be friends with who followed JP, have done anything but betray him and me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 08:13 PM |
| 35 | Even JORDAN PETERSON knows how bad online dating and online porn is for women. Don't accept these things.You can't believe the number of men I've met on OLD who be like swearing by JP. (Young white men). Like read his books, follow him to the T. But when it comes to contextless sex... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 05:51 PM |
| 26 | Stick to your boundariesHahaha I love this, you and I both sister 😎 Let the society kink shame! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 06:06 PM |
| 47 | Stick to your boundariesThe unfortunate part is a lot of these scrotes STILL operate with receding hairline. I question how devastatingly society fails those women who choose to sleep with these men so they think they can continue to act like this. I wish more and more women would find FDS and stop pandering to these awful humans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 06:05 PM |
| 75 | Stick to your boundariesThe EXACT same thing happened to me, the guy and I literally shared same values he even said he doesn't want to rush into anything and sex is better in a relationship (I made it a point to NEVER say I was waiting for ANY kind of commitment to have sex). But after 2 months of me not sleeping with him, mask dropped and so did he (citing very similar reasons as yours). I totally get what you said, the feeling that someone was lying to you the entire time, sucks. Really does for me. But I am SO happ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:55 PM |
| 117 | It only takes one wrong guy to ruin your entire life.YES. I always thought oh well I'm dating him "in the meantime". It's so destructive. I read the book, "you were not that into him either" and it made me rethink my in the meantime attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:23 PM |
| 194 | 🤡Okay do it!! Leave us alone FOREVER, suckers! I assure you men, we wouldn't be banging your doors for your glorious dicks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 05:40 PM |
| 2 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.Oof that's a tough one, infact women aren't adviced to do it since it takes next to nothing to please a man. But I have seen several such cases happen when guys didn't mind no. If he's really into you and thinks you're the one, he would surely not mind waiting because marriage will be in his radar anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 12:26 AM |
| 33 | Tale as old as timeThis is amazing, thank you for sharing! I totally got that introverted energy so I wouldn't enjoy doing a lot of things that "help you come in the same circles as men". But the hobbies that I do have, I can still run into guys there and that is even better because then we'll genuinely have something in common, and wouldn't take up a lot of energy unnecessarily! The thing about women talking is great advice, hadn't considered it! I wish you all the best as well! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 08:39 AM |
| 478 | Tale as old as timeI felt really bad for her, especially in the end when she says, how three guys did her dirty. It sucks, doesn't it? Every time a guy flat out lies to you or disrespects you? Even if you don't sleep with them and they leave, I still can't help but take it personally, imagine how worse it'll be to have slept with them. It makes me lose all hope of actually finding a decent man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 11:42 PM |
| 24 | Using your hobby to vetEXACTLY 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 08:44 PM |
| 3 | "Vetting is exhausting"Gosh this was amazing, I needed to hear that. While I am great with keeping my boundaries I still very much struggle with enforcing my intuitions. Thanks for reminding me to listen to her! Saved this. Also, handbook worthy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 07:41 PM |
| 195 | Using your hobby to vetHahaha oh my God the number of times I have heard "lifting is more fun"! I know, how is it relevant to THIS conversation?! Men think it's a badge of honor that they lift and not run. Huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:59 PM |
| 71 | For the laughs, ladies! Now men are calling us "entitled" for wanting the bare minimum!Perfect gentleman -->> took her to McDonald's very Friday 😍😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 03:57 PM |
| 61 | This is why casual sex is a big no-no. Thoughts?I can't even. I'm inclined to say, the majority of men on OLD be it hinge or tinder are like this. Either they simply don't care OR they don't (can't) care about the women THEY MEET ON OLD. Men are sick -- they lack empathy to a degree that is concerning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:00 PM |
| 81 | This is why casual sex is a big no-no. Thoughts?Let's do this! We can link it to the official FDS. These men need to be stopped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 12:42 PM |
| 6 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!Wallet snatchers hahaha! I have never tried going to a bar to meet men! could you please give us some tips, Like do you go alone? What time would usually be the best? And really, do men approach women like they show in movies?! Also I don't drink, will it be awkward to still go in! AND where do you sit, table or the bar? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 05:32 AM |
| 16 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!"WhY Buy THe wHeN yoU cAn GeT tHe mILk fOR FrEe." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 05:29 AM |
| 18 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!I understand, I had the same belief as you until a couple weeks ago. But I don't get ANY men worth rooster dating either, that match my standards that is. I would swipe for 1-2 hours each day AND probably have 1/2 profiles to swipe right on. It's wasted effort for me. I could spend those hours in other activities to get better returns. If it works for you, I wish you all the best!! But it's not for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:43 PM |
| 25 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!Exactly!! There's no game. The cost of sex should never be zero for men, they will not only not appreciate that (and consequently you) but rather begun resenting you for making it easy for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:37 PM |
| 44 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!I wish ALL women would join FDS AND boycott the apps. Casual sex is a SCAM for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:35 PM |
| 48 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!Literally not once. In the beginning they appear may "different" and I'm almost considering "well may be OLD isn't that bad" and every single time they show their true colors sooner or later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:35 PM |
| 43 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!Totally!! I mean where is the game? When the woman swipes right on a guy she has already shown her interest (and in the man's eyes, given consent too?) It takes away ALL the fun of the chase. And Gid forbid if you swiped before and the man knows that, he'll pretty much match with you for convenience sake and to sleep with you one time, in his head doing God's work for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:33 PM |
| 17 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!You're so right, it's sorting through trash -- you might get a nickel or even a dollar once in a while but you will undoubtedly get dirty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:29 PM |
| 17 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!This 100%. Dating apps >> free prostitution. The cost of sex should NEVER be made 0. I hope more women understand that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:32 PM |
| 10 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!Agreed, OKC is bad! I was on it for a month last year, the quality of men depressed me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:29 PM |
| 76 | Let's leave dating apps behind this month : who's with me!Girl, same! I have moved countries thrice so far and I have no social circle so I decided to try OLD. Should have just started at men in the metro 🤣 I'll try to spend my OLD hours, reconnecting with friends, creating a better network, going to meet-ups, museums, gym and if my anxiety allows it, high end restaurants by myself! Let me know if I missed anything! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 03:27 PM |
| 58 | Textbook Terrible V-DayMy parents are married for 30 years and my father bought my mom a fitness watch after doing all the research and discussing all possible options with me (I'm a huge fitness nerd) and picking the best one starting a week prior. That's because since retirement my mom has gotten into walking a lot. 30 years ladies. Men who pick out Walmart chocolates in the literal honeymoon phase -- well there's a demo of how the future will be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 06:15 AM |
| 62 | Feeling grateful that I’m not embarrassing myself this Valentine’s DayHaha, if that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 05:16 PM |
| 159 | An example of a LV Valentine's day gift. The bar is so low, that she's so excited about receiving this "gift" 🤮It's something that should be brought for the home WITHOUT a special occasion. Why do I feel like the man handles the finances for the house and the poor mother couldn't buy her much needed Dyson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 06:19 AM |
| 58 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!You mean he had someone else on the side? Wouldn't be surprised coming from a guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 24 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Girl exactly, exactly! He invited me to his place way quickly too but said he regretted doing it and didn't know what he was even thinking! I feel bad about the rejection for the same reason, coming from a dude who's beneath my league. Honestly we women should have the confidence to be shallow -- this men certainly have the confidence to not only pursue but also reject better women. :/ Happy Valentines day! Enjoy the cupcakes, I'll certainly check them out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 06:25 PM |
| 65 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Queen shit girl, high five! 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 06:07 PM |
| 27 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Yes girl. Yes. You know it in your guts! You can say something to the effects of, "I am sensing some confusion from your end and that's totally fine but I think I will need some space because I really feel like I need to be treated better than that!". Just never give them the power to feel like they need to be pursued/ chased because trust me, no man deserves that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 05:43 PM |
| 51 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Hahaha oh thank you, thank you for saying that! I keep thinking wondering if he's relieved I didn't say anything mean/nasty but eh, I don't care! I'll definitely post it if he does re-enter my life but it's highly unlikely, but if he does, I'll be sure to make him feel worse! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 05:41 PM |
| 54 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Girl believe me, I'm the same way, I'm not assertive either in the sense I should have ended it with him when I was having doubts (I just kept thinking "may be"). I suppose it's something society teaches women to be. Thank you for saying that, I love to see us ladies pulling ourselves up with our bootstraps as these men who are clearly beneath us disrespect us. And growing from it. Can you imagine the strength it takes? We as women can do this, I'd like to see a man handle a rejection like us. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:44 PM |
| 326 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Oh wow I didn't even see it. You're right the way he kept saying "but you are looking for an LTR, right? I'm open to it, but the slowing down really got me thinking". Hah! "You're Open to it"?! Bitch if you're not absolutely excited about it, you can keep walking on! It's as if he wanted me to say "no let's keep seeing each other and see where it goes!" Damn, thanks I hadn't blocked him yet but now will block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 40 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!You're right, the sadness and anger will come crashing down! Gosh, I'll try to be kinder to myself during that -- thanks a lot ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:34 PM |
| 72 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Yes and thank you! I'll also wear my pink outfit to work and look like a snatch! Those who don't get to see it --- it's their loss really! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:33 PM |
| 207 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Thank you so much. FDS has honestly helped me like no women figure in my life has (unfortunately all of them have been pick mes). Past me would have been single and devasted after a call like this, now I'm single and relieved! Honestly, FDS taught me it's all about self preservation in this world -- look after yourself, every thing else is secondary. Forever signed up for this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:32 PM |
| 88 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Oh gosh that's so true! Thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:30 PM |
| 116 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Thank you!! I marched right out after the call and bought me a bouquet of red roses that I always wanted to receive but never did from the LVMs I dated! They look rather gorgeous in my living room :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 155 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Yes girl! We beg for no one's attention, we don't need to! This shakes them up and they start to question themselves 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 406 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Thank you!! I wanted to laugh and say "thank God I didn't sleep with you"! But I decided to stay dignified instead. These men don't even deserve our sass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Valentines Day is an Excellent Vetting Opportunity....don't let it go to waste!Reading this after a year and I am in the same boat as you, I was wondering what ended up hapenning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 09:34 AM |
| 39 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.EXACTLY! The moment a guy even remotely alluded to being disinterested, I'm done. "Oh cool, sure!" And deleted. My dignity is waaaay more important than any half assed reason he might conjure up. Nah, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:59 AM |
| 13 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.Oh my God are you me from the past! Thank you for sharing your experience, I'll be on high alert -- one more week (this is week 7 lol) , if commitment doesn't come up, I'm cutting my losses! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:57 AM |
| 131 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.That's a great observation, it was practically saying "you're not like other women to me, baby" how exciting. (I needed to hear point #3 haha I was almost doing that with someone!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 09:06 PM |
| 66 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.I'm so sorry it happened, men are depraved really. It's not you, I swear, it's their porn sickness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:55 PM |
| 145 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.Oh I must have missed that, but that's very fair, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:49 PM |
| 418 | A man will date you for weeks, have you be exclusive with him JUST to have sex and leave as soon as he gets it. This scares the hell out of me about dating, I wonder how one can vet this kind of behavior.Oh WOW this is amazing! And you know, even if he does assume we are waiting for a relationship, you NEVER have sex immediately after getting into one. Wait I'd say atleast a month to see if he's keeping up his efforts or if his mask falls. Do other couple stuffs (like meeting friends) BEFORE having sex. If a man is ACTUALLY serious about you, he wouldn't mind waiting at all. Infact he'll appreciate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:45 PM |
| 45 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesTHIS and it's SO much easier for men to put on muscles compared to women because of the testosterone -- they can just increase their calories and lift weights ffs. It's not that hard, the latter (I do it too). AND women can't do this because they'll put on fat if they increased their calories. Stop equating women having abs with men having abs. 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | About dating multiple men simultaneously : the etiquette?Aw that sucks 😅 thanks for the heads-up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 7 | About dating multiple men simultaneously : the etiquette?Do you think because there is an age gap he should have asked me sooner? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:03 AM |
| 19 | About dating multiple men simultaneously : the etiquette?Oh my god, you're right! I am having like house dates (like go back to my place) after dinner the last 3 times. The excuse was it's too cold outside these days. THAT'S why I'm falling for him, the physical closeness even if it's not sex. Thank you! I'll ask him to come up with date ideas that can be done in public during the winter . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:54 AM |
| -2 | About dating multiple men simultaneously : the etiquette?Thank you, just to add I am 25 and he's 30. I would like to get married someday certainly and from what I've been told him as well. EDIT: I'm curious. Why did I get down voted for this, is it the age gap? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:02 PM |
| 76 | About dating multiple men simultaneously : the etiquette?Haha I probably should just go on a run! You're right, we are just dating and exclusivity hasn't been brought up by any means! You're right, I only know him for a month and a half I suppose I'm not keeping my heart on a lockdown! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 09:34 PM |
| 37 | About dating multiple men simultaneously : the etiquette?Thank you, I agree I am probably just getting too attached to this guy. In your opinion, what is a reasonable timeline to expect a guy to ask you to be exclusive? I mean after which you should just cut your losses and move on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 09:26 PM |
| 21 | Ladies, what are your experiences with a covert narcissistic ex after breakup?My ex during college was a narcissist, he never let me break up with him, he would harass me and my friends until I gave in. I moved out of the country after finishing my masters, almost as a way to get away from this guy. A year later he reaches out from a new number and says he's visiting my country as a tourist so can I let him crash at my place and show him around. 🤡 Anytime I get a text from an unknown number I worry it's him. I have moved again since (to yet another country) I stopped usin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)Yours seems off too (good!) I turned my on for the time being so you can hit me up :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)I'm sorry they are not but I'll DM you, I turned them off when I got hate messages from scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 08:02 PM |
| 30 | Men say they don’t want whores for wives but in the same breath will say they expect sex in return for a $35 meal on the first date. I mean why else would she be going to this strange man’s house?I totally agree with you, it's SO refreshing when trash takes itself out. These LVMs think we can't pay 15$ for our dinner like seriously MF? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 07:11 PM |
| 50 | The Phantom Ex - when avoidant men pine for a past loveThis is amazing, makes a lot of sense. Thank you for sharing, I think it is handbook worthy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 12:19 PM |
| 8 | Dirty Talk in the Sheets: Yay or Nay?I agree with a lot of comments here that day dirty talk doesn't have to be demeaning at all. Sometimes when the guy says how hot I look or how much something I am doing is turning him on is extremely hot imo. I do enjoy if the guy can verbalise his passion. But the moment it gets derogatory, I'm dry as the desert and out of the door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 12:10 PM |
| 6 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)with I am a programmer too, could you tell me how one can reverse engineer a phone number? Edit: I ask because the guy I am going out with has zero internet presence -- no social media, not even linkedin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 08:45 PM |
| 315 | He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom?Exactly that is so so scary. Clearly the girl has invested her youth with this dude and I can't even imagine just how hard it'll be for her to now walk away. These kind of men scare me off of relationships like nothing else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 09:24 AM |
| 85 | If he doesn’t lovingly and passionately kiss you during sex, he does NOT love you.God this fucking sucks. I've been on the same boat. My ex kissed me SO passionately. Cheated on me THRICE 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 07:28 PM |
| 62 | he has abs and attends uni, so because of this he believes he should be drowning in attractive women. proceeds to whine for several paragraphsThis. THIS! I am a woman and I get a few matches in months that are actually WORTH going on a second date with. May be 2 in 6 months. And I'm not complaining because THAT is the nature of population in general, you wouldn't meet tons of people you find attractive and they find YOU attractive and you're compatible. And just because you're on OLD the sample space wouldn't magically change. God, these men, rather than taking everything personally and crushing their little egos with, if they just fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 06:40 AM |
| 50 | A disussion about men's heights and lies thereof with my HV fatherYou said it so well. No one loves liars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 01:44 PM |
| 182 | A disussion about men's heights and lies thereof with my HV fatherI am happy you found it useful, we women are often so agreeable that we try to avoid conflicts and accept wrong behavior that we'd never perpetuate ourselves. We must stop doing that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 11:18 AM |
| 29 | A disussion about men's heights and lies thereof with my HV fatherExactly! Very grateful, and we owe it to our future children, the same privilege. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 11:17 AM |
| 29 | A disussion about men's heights and lies thereof with my HV fatherOh my gosh, it's SUCH a common thing. And you see, these men are teaching us to now look for heights before going on a date. There was a possibility, we would have chosen them otherwise had they not blatantly chosen to lie or even omitted that info. Thankfully we are out before we got more involved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 11:16 AM |
| 49 | A disussion about men's heights and lies thereof with my HV fatherYou're right! And such men do exist, just gotta weed through a lot of Z/LVMs to get there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 11:12 AM |
| 121 | A disussion about men's heights and lies thereof with my HV fatherI totally agree with you. He and I had a lot of common interests but I had a majority of those interests listed on my profile, who is to say he is not faking it? I am questioning everything he told me and I can't be with someone I can't trust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 11:11 AM |
| 107 | A disussion about men's heights and lies thereof with my HV fatherExactly. I wish the guy hadn't lied, I'd still have picked him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 10:45 AM |
| 129 | A disussion about men's heights and lies thereof with my HV fatherExactly. Height is such an inconsequential part of you, it's not even a figment of your personality unless you kae it as such. Women wouldn't even care if men didn't blatantly make it a thing of their ego. For eg, from now on I'll closely screen what height a man lists on his profile and if he didn't match it, immediately end the date. Thank you for taking advantage of my trusting nature and feeding into your insecurity to create the self fulfilling prophecy, guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 10:40 AM |
| 167 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔This made me cringe so much. I feel like not being intimate with the wife and then showing the smallest semblance of sexual interest (having a wet dream about your SO shouldn't be this rare of a deal, right?) is an obvious manipulative technique. Imagine accepting he played you and then proceeding to "give him the best BJ of his life". Girl, wake up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:03 AM |
| 6 | Redpill/PUA tactic: breaking the touch barrierOmg thank you for this -- it happened to me very recently. I went on a first date with this guy who at the pretext of helping me cross the road put his hand on the small of my back. Then he proceeded to touch my knee casually while making conversations. I am very very averse to being touched to I imediately communicated my discomfort. unbeknownst to that, he completely took me offgaurd and kissed me on my lips and I thankfully pulled away in time before he could stuck his tongue out -- he litera… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on waiting until marriageI understand I'm too late to this conversation but I had been going through this dilemma myself and wanted to scroll through past FDS posts. I wonder, how has your experience been asking men about their sizes? Do they get defensive or say some rude (as they usually do about their heights). Overall, would you still recommend waiting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 13 | Paying on dates, are we discouraged to go 50/50 on just the first date or first few dates?Wow this makes sense, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:15 PM |
| 41 | Paying on dates, are we discouraged to go 50/50 on just the first date or first few dates?Id say it was his idea. The pick me in me was like, "let's split" and he said "not at all, thank you for offering but I will take care of it". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:14 PM |
| 13 | Paying on dates, are we discouraged to go 50/50 on just the first date or first few dates?This means not to offer either right? It makes me slightly uncomfortable when I don't (pick me habits I guess) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:31 PM |
| 110 | 'Body count': Do people count and what even matters?The stereotype is used interchangeably based on how it suits the context best, I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 07:31 PM |
| 4 | A "compliment" that men need to stop usingOh God 🤦🏾♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 11:09 AM |
| 16 | When posting here have you gotten Reddit Cares messages from scrotes because they’re big mad?Just today I got more than one Reddit care messages and multiple DMs from scrotes (one of which thankfully was blocked by reddit because it had "downgrading language") because a post from FDS was on this cringetopia page. I had to change my settings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 04:59 AM |
| 57 | What Do You Guys Think About People Playing Matchmaker?Omg yes. Happened to me a month ago, a male "friend" sold his LVM friend so hard on me, the guy was literally 10 years older to me, out of shape, smoker and I went on a date in which he violated my boundaries (trying to get physical). Needless to say, I am not friends with the former guy anymore and I'm never getting set up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:13 PM |
| 6 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.One of my exes cheated on me with my (ex) best friend. And they say not everyone experiences true love :') | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 03:45 AM |
| 15 | Do you have any male friends?I do have one male friend and we hang out 1:1. Like get dinners or watch movie even. Now, so far in my 24 years I hadn't had ANY male friend who'd make me comfortable enough to hang out with them in such close setting but this guy is exceptionally HV. I totally believe he'll make a great BF or husband for some woman. There is no awkwardness with him at all, and I'm actually rather blessed to have met him!! I have zero feelings for him romantically (like no chemistry) and I am sure he feels the s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 12:18 PM |
| 146 | I came across this exercise from FDS recommended book "the power of pu*sy" and it had me a bit stumped! Would love to hear you ladies' opinions, if you'd wish to share! *WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEN?*The bar is so low that it's not in the audible frequency range anymore for humans :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 06:40 PM |
| 76 | I came across this exercise from FDS recommended book "the power of pu*sy" and it had me a bit stumped! Would love to hear you ladies' opinions, if you'd wish to share! *WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEN?*GIRL, please read the book before jumping into dating game again, it'll blow your mind! You'll realize with the amount of success we women have, we don't need men, they need us. We must navigate the dating game keeping this in mind. Fuck the guy who "doesn't want to put labels" (not literally, ofcourse!). Know your price and ask it unabashedly! All the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 05:53 PM |
| 51 | I came across this exercise from FDS recommended book "the power of pu*sy" and it had me a bit stumped! Would love to hear you ladies' opinions, if you'd wish to share! *WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEN?*Hahaha oh yes I agree. Then you must ask from something more in a relationship, no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 05:38 PM |
| 9 | I came across this exercise from FDS recommended book "the power of pu*sy" and it had me a bit stumped! Would love to hear you ladies' opinions, if you'd wish to share! *WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEN?*Oh I totally agree with you, it's very subjective! But I thought this would spark an interesting discussion nevertheless, you know to understand what women at large are expect from men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 05:37 PM |
| 36 | I came across this exercise from FDS recommended book "the power of pu*sy" and it had me a bit stumped! Would love to hear you ladies' opinions, if you'd wish to share! *WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEN?*Men at large! It's so weird, we think men think like us but fucking hell they don't! This book is blowing my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 05:36 PM |
| 47 | I came across this exercise from FDS recommended book "the power of pu*sy" and it had me a bit stumped! Would love to hear you ladies' opinions, if you'd wish to share! *WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MEN?*After giving it much thought, I came up with: I would want a partner who would take care of all my needs and respect me (aka a healthy marriage). I would want stellar professional growth and have the men around me (I work in a male dominated field) respect me for my talent and the work I put in (so I don't need to work extra hard to prove my worth). I am an artist and would love to kickstart my passion on the side and I'll probably need help though I'm not exactly sure how. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common arguments (Part. 3)I needed this. Thank you, OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 07:35 PM |
| 9 | "Trust is the most valuable thing you can give away"Oh wow that's such an interesting perspective! You are right, men are inherently incapable of forming meaningful relationships, I feel like this is why women have more impetus to succeed, if we are assertive and less self sacrificial, don't you think? It is an interesting line of thought, thank you for pointing it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 06:41 PM |
| 2 | "Trust is the most valuable thing you can give away"She is amazing, I totally agree! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:35 PM |
| 6 | "Trust is the most valuable thing you can give away"You're welcome! You'll enjoy the show, if you have time, give it a try! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:35 PM |
| 30 | Should I still go out with this man tomorrow?Honestly, in this market, you gotta be harsh and ruthless. Next him, girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 01:01 PM |
| 40 | Should I still go out with this man tomorrow?Agreed, if this is how he's gonna be for the very FIRST date, imagine how he'll be in a relationship. He can't even be a man and pick a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 01:00 PM |
| 5 | 👏 DO NOT SLEEP WITH SCROTES WITHOUT PROPERLY VETTING THEM, LADIES 👏Oh yes, agreed after dating them for a considerable time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:15 AM |
| 15 | 👏 DO NOT SLEEP WITH SCROTES WITHOUT PROPERLY VETTING THEM, LADIES 👏EXACTLY. He used her because he knew he didn't like her and still had sex. There are highly voted comments on the post about how he should just tell her "he's still not over his ex"🤦🏾♀️ Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 11:02 AM |
| 7 | How to stop thinking I need a man in my life?I do sometimes feel alone and crave intimacy, since I am against hookups relationship is the only way to get any physical intimacy. How can one account for thatm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | How to stop thinking I need a man in my life?Oh my gosh I am literally putting off my professional certifications because I can't find time that I'm wasting on multiple dating apps and low effort first dates that go nowhere. (Recently went on a first date where the guy said let's share it after we got 2 drinks each and no dinner) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 09:59 PM |
| 61 | Pickme dates. He brought to the gym and for a walk? How romantic… Thoughts? 😂Exactly, she took one for the team! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 08:15 PM |
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