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| 8 | Hello to all of you ladies. I want to ask you a question, but I want all women who see this to at least give an answer. And be honest, no one has the right to judge you for your choices.go out and listen to what women think of short men. You do not understand me. This is exactly what you are doing here and the results are clear and aren't what you expected. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 06:59 PM |
| 15 | Hello to all of you ladies. I want to ask you a question, but I want all women who see this to at least give an answer. And be honest, no one has the right to judge you for your choices.I am 6ft tall and prefer dating shorter men, with 5'8 being the sweet spot. 5'3 - 5'8 is acceptable, 5'0 - 5'3 it starts to matter but can be worked around. Less is a dealbreaker, as is 6'2 and above. One thing that might help you, Bruno Mars is one of the sexiest guys and he falls in that height range. He has an exquisite sense of fashion and feels very easy-going and nice to be around. One of the things I like about shorter guys is how they aren't trying to make me feel intimidated and I prefe… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Seduction Subreddit?And I think people don't emphasize enough the "what kind of partner do you really want?". Sensitive, introverted guys adopting the "alpha male" posture might find partners, but it will be short-lived as they are aiming for partners that like qualities they don't have. As soon as the mask slips and the real person shows, it's over. While there are skills I'd consider "universal" in dating, I have never seen people focusing on how an introverted can be confident in a way that still feels introvert… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you be an asshole without being an asshole?Put in your head that it's better to be alone than to be with someone who think your opinions are dealbreakers. There is no problem in admitting you might be wrong and following the logic of the person, but don't hide your core ideas. Taking the lead is more about being confident in what you are saying than in yourself. When programming dates, don't be afraid of suggesting a place where you think you might have fun. She might turn it down and still take the lead, but you are showing her that you… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Seduction Subreddit?When I look at the posts, I feel like advice is usually geared towards making people fit into a mold to attract right away a specific kind of partner that is not what they really want. While there are situations where it might be great (specially when you are already close to the mold and are searching for the specific type of women that appreciate it), overall I don't appreciate it. I haven't seen many posts about women seducing men there, but my experience with it is that it just boils down to… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 02:47 PM |
| 10 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?.... kinda. If this was the biggest cause, ugly girls would have as many interested guys (if not more due to hobbies shared with men) but this isn't what I've seen. I am not denying the affection struggles men face and I'm not implying that the friendship is any less real because there is interest. I just want to compliment that, at least from my experience, this basic kindness must come from someone the guy think would never treat him like a human being for it to evolve in the way you are descr… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 10:22 AM |
| 39 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?I will reframe your question as "why men find more people in their circle attractive than women ?". My personal bet would be on the fact that (at least in my experience) men select their female friends based on attractiveness more than vice-versa. You often see men advising others to try to befriend the girl they want before making moves. Women going for the same route is less common, with attractiveness being completely irrelevant for me when making friendships. Another thing that might factor,… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 09:23 PM |
| 6 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?I really like your approach to the subject. The origin part is important. I have helped guys out of the manosphere and it was always on the base of understanding how they got there. Some were trying to impress his friends, others had bad experiences with women. The key point in my experience, though, is that the approaches to deal with it were completely different. With this in mind, as much as it's important for us to target the source, it's also important that the posts contain detailed inform… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 03:42 PM |
| 7 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?I know it's not perfect, but MensLib is a sub I like to check sometimes. It fits the general idea of being against patriarchy and toxic masculinity but by a male perspective. It has helped me a lot empathising with men's issues. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 03:04 PM |
| 10 | Open Thread: What would you change about this Sub to make it betterI see that here we have men in different stages of leaving TRP and we should account for that with threads only for men to talk among themselves for those who still aren't comfortable in mixed environments. A weekly "ask women" thread could also be useful, with the corollary that every question should be assumed as if asked in good faith no matter how absurd it sounds. It should help us be better allies here. I think the rules should include a "no generalizations about the opposite sex". This sh… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 02:47 PM |
| 24 | Do women have it easier than men?I have some disagreements: Your description of the top 20% of women doesn't reflect reality. You are essentially describing someone who can live off her beauty alone and it's a very big stretch to say that 1 in 5 women can do that. This is top 1%, not 20%. Following this logic, your description of the average woman fits better the top 20% and the unnatractive fits better the average. The really unnatractive women don't get attention at all unless they are willing to be degraded by sadists. Belie… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about boring?Yes, seriously. You can even argue that "my partner is only with me because I have a big dick" are as common as "my big dick hurts my girlfriend". It doesn't change the fact that there are zero people complaining about partners hurt on sdp. Again, "not hurting your partner" might not be the quality you want, but it's what you have, learn how to use it for your favor. What you are seeing is confirmation bias. There are many guys with average dicks who are being complimented by their sexual prowes… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about boring?I took a quick glimpse at these subs. Smalldick was just a self-pity echo chambers. Not having "big dick" was seen as a problem for them. Big dick had more discussions about hurting partners in sex and how to hide the bulge. The positive trait and innate value here is not hurting your partner. I know you'd like to have this problem, but in life we can't choose. Learn how to play for your strong points. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about boring?I didn't say women don't care, I said men care more about having a big one. You admitted yourself, some women will prefer big, others will find average to be more comfortable (and I am not implying anything about myself here). I mentioned my friend specifically for a reason. He still complained about size because it didn't measure up to the porn he used to watch. The problem with competing in size is that no matter how big you are, there are bigger. Also, if you have problems with it, why are yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about boring?I've met guys with a good size that were constantly teased in their teenage years for "small dick energy". It doesn't make a big difference for women and also don't give this confidence boost you imagine. You would just find another thing to complain (like my friend). And I must reinforce, men care way more about penis size than women. Bigger doesn't always mean better. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 06:53 PM |
| 9 | Can we talk about boring?From your post history, it looks like professional help would make a bigger difference than a relationship right now. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 05:12 PM |
| 12 | I’m surprised to find mostly women here. And frankly some hateful postsWhen I try to interact here, I do my best to be empathetic while still speaking the truth. I'm sorry your experience with women here have been negative and I apologize if I ever was a part of them. One thing I try to show here is how women's standards aren't as uniform as some guys think. I want an attractive partner, but the things I find attractive don't always match the masculine stereotype TRP tries to sell and I am not the only woman who think that. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Men are Just as Bad as Third Wave Feminist WomenDesconsidering all your misunderstandings about feminism (this was explained in other comments), I think you are missing the point. Every ideology has the potential of being extremist. When you talk about radical feminism (I think this is what you are meaning), radical means "root" as in "root of our opression", not extremism. But it's important to identify that our bias makes our perception of these movements worse than it actually is. It's easier to hate a group when you equate their ideology … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/22 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Why can’t women admit that dating is easier for them?Bad, unpleasant sex with men is available to everyone (man or woman) willing to put up with it. Being heterosexual doesn't mean having sex with a man I have zero attraction towards is any better than a heterosexual man doing the same. Might be even worse if what I hear straight men talking has any value. If what you want is attention, a gay bar will give you plenty. Most people want attention from people they would be willing to have sex with given the right circumstances. I agree that even if y… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/22 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Masculine men.My physical preference is closer to the "softboi" stereotype. Smaller (I am 6 ft tall) and more passive (to balance with my aggressive personality). No preference for penis, as long as I can feel it and it doesn't hurt. There is a "too small" (both for height and genitalia), but I am more strict with the "too big". Most women I know have dated way off their type with good enough guys. Preferences in the end are just that, preferences. Also, there are misconceptions around, like "soft boys can't … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/22 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion(?The only thing a relationship will always provide you is the notion that you can be loved and are good enough for (at least) one woman. This is worth even less than what it seems, as people with a terrible self-steem will always question if it's because she doesn't have options or if she will leave him when she meets the "real him". My brother had a similar story of how finding his first girlfriend freed him from many of these thoughts and he became a better person because of that. What he doesn… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/22 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?If genetics had half the influence you are talking about, identical twins would be virtually the same person. The reality couldn't be more different. Life is not as deterministic as you think it is. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else have suicidal thoughts increase due to Redpill/Blackpill content?Every bad behavior that can be learned can be unlearned. There are many stories of people who manage to leave cults after being totally imersed. The blackpill/redpill community is very extreme on the definitions of behavior that could get you laid. They are unanimously against just being a nice person to the women you are interested into, labeling it "beta behavior". The reality is, many women actually like this; instead of unlearning the desire to be a nice person, just fine-tune your behavior … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 01:54 PM |
| 4 | why does it always feel too soon?What you should look for is to have known her enough to be interested in her (and not a fantasy you made) and that she has the ways to avoid you in case she finds it uncomfortable. And of course, remember that "no" is a complete sentence and requires no justification. If you have to work together, I'd wait until the end of semester; it's fine if it's easy to do with other classes. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/22 03:39 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop feeling jealous of my more romantically and sexually succesful peers?If no girl wants to have anything with you, you should look at what you are doing wrong. This could be something with you or even just the girls you look for. It's hard to give a good opinion without knowing anything about you. But if you want to drop any story to get suggestions of what you could've done differently, feel free. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/22 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Is cold approach success a myth?One thing you must remember from these stories, if the girl wants you, you must make a real effort for things to go wrong. Success stories about cold approach are probably true, what they hide is the fact that any approach would get the same result. We should focus on the approaches that changed a "maybe" to "yes". The biggest problem to cold approach is that it's a big gamble. If she isn't attracted to you it's a sure fail. If she is attracted to you, you are betting on she wanting someone like… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling jealous of my more romantically and sexually succesful peers?It's a simplification I made due to context. I know that people who are dying of famine or are living in war zones won't get their time, but the context isn't about someone who fits in these scenarios. For the people with reasonable life conditions that still didn't get their time, I had had they covered in "as long as you are able to learn and grow with your mistakes". Every single person I've seen in their late 20s who still hadn't gotten their time were either asexual or still making juvenile… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop feeling jealous of my more romantically and sexually succesful peers?I know this sound cliche, but everyone has their time. One thing the early 20's have taught me is that teenage years are overrated. Many people are having sex around, but often it's bad and dangerous sex (this become specially true when you live in a region where abortion is illegal). I understand your points, specially the social development part. Being able to attract a partner is a skill that people develop through trial and error. Some people find it easier (like with any other skill), but a… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Dworkin nailed itThe thing is, the supply vs demand debate and the "men want sex and women don't" are points based on different premises and you are treating them as being the same. One relates to desire to have sex with people. The other is about how many people are they willing to have sex with it. The idea of men wanting more sex than women is absurd and is a claim I can't accept without further evidence. I can agree if you say that both sexes have an equal desire for pleasurable sex and for men virtually any… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/22 10:10 PM |
| 13 | Waiting for Sex: Not a Zero Sum GameWhen dealing about liberal men, always ask yourself "what does he gain as a man from this position?" and then vet accordingly. For pro-choice men, for example, they gain the ability to never face the responsibility for his own lack of contraception, so it's very important to vet for how he sees women who decided to keep the pregnancy despite adverse conditions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Dworkin nailed itYou are reading what you want to read from this. You cannot simplify it as "men want sex and women don't". Her point of the perceived power can be noticed on incels. They aren't mad because they don't have sex, they are mad because women have the power to choose who has access to it. If the problem was the sexual act itself, an incel would stop being an incel if he manages to pay for sex (illegal in some countries, not in others), but the sex worker is perceived as someone who had willingly sacr… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Being only 5ft pushes me into the dark corridors of Blackpill.I cannot talk specifically about PTSD, but I've seen people with DID (what happens when your childhood trauma is too big for your brain to handle) with partners. It's not easy, but it's doable. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 12:27 PM |
| 38 | Women who implement FDS are "groomed, hot, successful, with standards", says FDS-hating manRPW is a sub ran by men that focus on grooming women to be the perfect partners to RP men. RedPillWives is the actual RP sub run by and for women. When people say "FDS is feminine redpill" I like to point to that sub. The difference is very clear, FDS never incentivizes embracing financial dependancy even the man seems to be a HVM. Quite the opposite, we often see stories of men letting their mask slip after decades to remember us to never stop vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 12:09 PM |
| 34 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂The ironic part is that most ethically non monogamous men stop being so ethical the moment they notice their partner has an easier time finding partners than him. In the end, most of these "ethical" contracts have a clause of "I am allowed to make you feel terrible if you become more succesful than me". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:27 PM |
| 193 | What counts as toxic femininity in 2022Toxic femininity is the part where we are taught that male attention is one of the most relevant aspects in our lives and we should do anything to get it, even throw other women under the bus. It's ironic to see FDS being mentioned as an example of toxic femininity because one of our core principles is centering our lives around ourselves, never around men. Pick-mes calling us "evil" to cather to men who wants to get women with no effort is actually by itself one example of toxic feminity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 04:16 PM |
| 71 | Pickmes in the media and the perpetuation of misogynyStrangely, the same women that say "you are at fault for being cheated, you didn't choose a good enough male for you" will also criticize you when you start using FDS principles and discarding LVM on the first red flag. Seems like a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 10:49 AM |
| 5 | 🤡Men these days don't have to do literally nothing to get most things in life as daddy and mommy will do everything for them. Many are even proud to be NEET. If there is one thing their parents can't buy for them is a girlfriend. They have to find one by themselves and it requires effort. As you see, the guy isn't even complaining about how expensive it is. Just that it requires effort. He has to risk rejection, has to make an effort to impress and might fail at the only thing they aren't (yet) e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 07:53 PM |
| 49 | The occupation of men on OLDI feel this is a natural consequence of how OLD works for them. Failed men spend a lot of time there because they have no life and are betting on the one in a million chance a woman will give them a chance. They have nothing to lose as they lack ambition to use their time more efficiently. Succesful men in life are usually succesful in OLD too (not because of any actual high value traits, but due to the amount of pick-me's looking for them). Their job is already stablished, they fulfilled their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 11:17 AM |
| 6 | In Australia one step back. This timeline is need fudged…There are many articles showing how women are outperforming men in study and careers. This seems like their way to balance things, incentivize girls to pursue careers that not only will put their lives at risk, will compromise their future in an irreversible way if she ever gets out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:20 PM |
| 42 | Men being labor and emotional diggers is real problem not the so-called gold diggers who is only doing what is biologically naturalReal gold diggers would go for men who make at least 7 digits per year, which is far from what the scrotes offer. HVM will never complain about gold diggers because their money isn't what's attracting people. Instead, it's the HV traits he possesses that is bringing him both the success in love and the success in his professional life. Hard work, dedication, good communcation, good emotional intelligence, empathy and passion are some examples of traits that are extremely valued in professional a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 11:50 AM |
| 10 | Next time he says women are “gold diggers” for wanting a stable guyWhen a man tells this he is admitting that he's broke, so I just go with the passive-aggressive route of "at least you have been lucky enough to be born in an era where broke man actually have a chance of getting married". Remember, the men that say they'd love to have a conservative, stay-at-home wife, are the ones who don't have the funds to support one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:28 PM |
| 3 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.There is also a good chance he is just flat out lying about how tall, athletic and handsome he is. He is probably just slightly better than his socially inept friends. Must be too ugly even for the average pickme 🤣. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 10:27 AM |
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