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| 1 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.I never pay for anything and I am definitely not using anyone when they offer to cover everything. The vast majority of women will split bills it’s just that the men who are complaining about paying don’t want them specifically. These guys want the women who want more. Why would they choose you over someone else who can offer the same and more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 08:56 PM |
| 6 | Do older men 35+ have trouble dating woman in their mid 20’s?I’m 26 dating a 36 year old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:06 PM |
| 0 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingWhy does it matter? I’m 26, 127 lbs and have black hair. I’ve had one long term relationship when I was 20 and just stayed celibate after bc I didn’t have a boyfriend until now. In my culture, hooking up and casual relationships aren’t common. I think most guys WOULD provide for their dream girl but some guys are just naturally generous with everyone. I’m about a 5 (some people find me more attractive and others might think I’m less attractive) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingNever had a fuck boy phase. 1 long term bf and stayed single until I met my current one (in my culture celibacy is pretty normal unless you’re married or in a long term relationship) I’m not a Victoria secret model (at most a 5) but I take care of myself and appearance. there’s not a man on planet earth who is physically hot enough to have me sleep with him quickly. Not offering to pay on dates is unattractive to most attractive women. I’m not even that attractive but I doubt a women twice as be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingThis is hilarious. No man on EARTH is hot enough to me to risk sex on the first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingI don’t think I’m physically attracted to any man based on his looks so I think I worded it wrong. I mean he wasn’t conventionally attractive like people say is important. I wasn’t physically attracted to the “attractive one” either but was pointing out he was more conventionally attractive (challenging the idea that hot men are the most successful) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:34 PM |
| 0 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingYeah I’m not trying to be condescending by describing their looks. I’m trying to paint a picture of what a lot of people seem to care about like height and looks. I find the guy I’m with very attractive physically now. Also I don’t think generosity is always measured by how well off you are. Some of the wealthiest people I know are extremely cheap. He doesn’t spend money on extravagant gifts or anything. Just takes care of necessities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingYeah that makes sense. I would say I’m attracted to his personality since he took things slow with me (didn’t escalate or push me to do anything) and was very gentlemen like (kissing my hand and opening doors etc) I admire his intelligence but I find it a bit intimidating since we are so different intellectually and he’s much smarter than me. Luckily he doesn’t talk about his work with me otherwise I might have a hard time understanding and staying engaged in the convo (you’re right) I think I s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:55 AM |
| -1 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingWhat’s your opinion on my physical preferences changing after being provided for? I’m not sure how to word that…what I mean is that I really do find him attractive physically now but that’s after spending time with him and feeling cared for. He wasn’t ugly by any means but just not conventionally attractive. I love his look now and his “nerdyness” and kinda see the second “conventionally attractive guy” as someone I’d never date. I don’t want my date to be prettier than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:26 AM |
| 1 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingI don’t understand the pay off for a woman to have sex with a “hot guy” maybe bc I am so worried about my own appearance it feels like competition to me. Like attractive men make me insecure. Even if they were providers I think I’d still be uncomfortable. Like why would I want someone with Abs when I’m plushy myself?? I think some women do sleep with guys based on their looks but they’re usually pretty young and immature or very old and don’t care about being provided for (they want to feel youn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:54 AM |
| -1 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingAt this point, I do love him so I wouldn’t just leave if he couldn’t provide. Since I’m a low earner myself I don’t think I would be attracted to a man who made me pay for things since it would add a lot of stress on my life. I wouldn’t mind helping him but I wouldn’t feel cared for if I had to pay for both of us. I’d feel uncomfortable. I guess maybe the equivalent to that could be me gaining a bunch of weight and not caring about myself and expecting him to feel attracted to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:33 AM |
| 2 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingIf he was getting by but still trying to be a provider then I would still feel cared for. He’s not rich by any means and doesn’t spoil or anything but he takes care of necessities. If I needed to supliment that temporarily I wouldn’t mind at all. I guess what I want to emphasize is that at worst I wouldn’t have been AS attracted right off the bat if he asked me to pay but I definitely wouldn’t sleep with the attractive guy based on his looks. Not saying women don’t just sleep with men they find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 09:54 AM |
| -1 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingIs he though? He’s dated a lot and has never really been single for more than a year. I kinda believe him based on his personality (been with him for almost a year) I wouldn’t have had sex with the “attractive man” since good looking men make me feel insecure. I went out with the attractive man mainly bc he was more insistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 09:44 AM |
| 1 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingMaybe? I don’t like gifts and material possessions so much as I like feeling cared for. If guy number two bought me a gift I wouldn’t have felt more attracted to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 09:38 AM |
| 1 | How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women?6’1 is still tall in my opinion, but I agree with height making a big difference. My guy has a big gut but he has a generous and gentle personality so I’ve come to adore it lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:44 AM |
| 3 | How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women?I’m dating a bigger guy (obese but 6’3 and he looks great to me) a lot of his friends are bigger as well and are married to thin, attractive women from what I can tell. I don’t think weight has much to do with things as long as the guy is financially better off and is on the taller side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 08:33 PM |
| 88 | It's always the "men aged like wine, women aged like cheese" narrative with these scrotes 🙄Yeah it’s his ultimate fantasy of being in a position where he can choose between two women. Most men can’t even find ONE woman who’s interested, good luck finding several to pick and choose from lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 01:11 AM |
| 80 | It's always the "men aged like wine, women aged like cheese" narrative with these scrotes 🙄I can’t wait to turn 30 and have men leave me alone! Oh wait men would crawl for a crumb of attention from a woman at any age lol. He can say whatever he wants, but his reality is far more tragic. Thankfully he and nearly all men will never be in a position to choose between the two. Even men with status can’t just pick and choose who they want. Women still do the choosing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 01:08 AM |
| 8 | Make Photographers Are Usually PervertsI worked alongside a photographer as a stylist since we had became good friends after my photo shoot. In less than a year he would start escalating his predatory behaviour and was super handsy. As I was leaving his apartment one day after helping him choose client photos, he tried to kiss me. I immediately hurried myself out the door after making an excuse to be home quick. We went out drinking one night with a group of his clients and he was adamant I stay at his place since I couldn’t drive ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 01:46 AM |
| 67 | Why you shouldn't have a FWBI’m against having a fwb since it rarely ever benefits the women in the arrangement. When I was younger and more naive, I had a fwb that was more of an ideal scenario. He paid for everything when we went out and would take me out on some fun domestic trips. Sex wasn’t common (like once a month and on my terms) and It was more about me than what he could get for the least amount of effort possible, which is definitely NOT the norm or what most men are looking for in terms of “casual dating.” I’d … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 11:22 PM |
| 52 | What’s the FDS-flavoured tea on cold approaches? Advice appreciated.Cold approaches are a NO from me. If a man is approaching you for your looks alone he’s too shallow and immature in my opinion. Someone striking conversation with you as your both waiting in line or at a bar, conference, sharing a table is different. Of course attraction is important and a driving force, but a stranger going out of his way to cold approach me in public will always be shut down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:20 AM |
| 59 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseNot to sound harsh but in what world is 50-70$ expensive to make an impression with a beautiful woman? Ive spent $70 on a girls night out and have that saved up for occasions when we all get together. Unless this guy is going on several dates a week it’s really pathetic that he can’t afford to wine and dine a woman. I don’t understand why anyone would date someone cheap. It’s one thing to be good with money but how the hell will you be able to afford children if you can’t shell out under $100 fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 08:11 PM |
| 92 | This Is Why You Should Never Give An Ugly Man A Chance. It's The Audacity For Me. Hell No!No but really they have so much audacity it’s crazy. Have you seen the type of men on OLD explicitly looking for casual relationships or one night stands ? Of course they all look like moldy bread and could never land a woman to date much less have casual sex with!!! It makes me laugh and I wish I could have the level of confidence these uggos have | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 07:51 PM |
| 73 | Blocked & DeletedI’m convinced most men don’t vet for compatibility and are only concerned with looks. I’m someone who doesn’t like texting so someone texting me throughout the day would be a turn off. I’ve had to drop guys bc they couldn’t stand me not answering them right away. If he actually cared about compatibility he wouldn’t have wasted your time. Good on you for walking away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:00 AM |
| 128 | Yes, you are. 💋Who in the fresh hell dresses up at home? Waxing and shaving is a pain in the ass but if he’s so uptight about his preferences why not offer to pay for a full package of laser treatments $$$ and see if she was interested in that? Oh and spa treatments? Mani / pedis and full body massages. Why not get her a $500 gift card to Sephora and see if she’s interested in that? If she’s not interested leave her alone. Sounds like she hasn’t changed at all but opted out of wasting time, energy resources an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 02:42 AM |
| 19 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youThis is so terrifying and I’m sorry for his incompetence. The he said / she said bs is especially ridiculous. Who hears something traumatic and devastating like that and says to themselves “well, it’s her word against his” ~) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 05:13 AM |
| 229 | Don't cry, beg or show emotion or over communicate. State what you want then leave when it's not met. Men enjoy the begging, crying and emotional outbursts because they know this means you're wrapped around their finger and will stay. It is a massive ego boost for them to have that power over youSecond this. Had a cop tell me I would be ruining a man’s life if I came out with my sexual assault. That he completely “understood” what I was feeling since he had a wife and daughter. Uhhh sir…would you have had the same response to the situation if it was one of them and not me? I’m convinced male law enforcement don’t have a shred of empathy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:03 PM |
| 457 | Women are always held to a morally higher standard than men. Men can coerce women into sex by paying for dates or even guilt trip them on 50/50 dates but God forbid women "use" men for a free mealMen like to pretend women use them for free food as a way to cope for being rejected after the first date. Imagine getting ready, spending another hour or longer with a stranger you don’t even like for a free meal. Worst gold digger ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 151 | Absence is your best, most declarative weapon against men’s misogyny.Women are conditioned to empathize and forgive so it’s not your fault. You can definitely learn to be ruthless you just need to avoid second guessing yourself. Men do not feel grateful when you give them second chances. They take it as a sign that they can get away with anything. Always remember this! It took me a while but It has helped me tremendously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 02:13 AM |
| 175 | Absence is your best, most declarative weapon against men’s misogyny.100% this. Men do not think like women. The only time I have ever had my point taken seriously is when I gave them radio silence. No paragraph or level of discussion will make a difference. LVM don’t do better the second time around, they don’t rise up to a challenge or make up for their mistakes. They lose any respect for you once they know you won’t leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 02:09 AM |
| 747 | Absence is your best, most declarative weapon against men’s misogyny.I wish more women understood the sheer power they hold by leaving men after the first sign of disrespect. It’s hard especially when you’ve invested time and shared positive experiences with them, but you are always better off walking away. Never argue or waste more time on someone who disrespects you. Men lose respect for women who stick around and put up with abuse anyways. Don’t be that girl. Walk away or block / delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 10:15 PM |
| 22 | Man OK with 50/50 relationship as long as it's to his advantage. But as soon as it barely compensates the woman, it's transactional and gross. Notice, they're "spiritually" married 🙄The thing is, she’s not even asking for anything other than what she’s actually losing at work. She’s not asking for enough honestly, and how does he expect to go 50/50 with childbirth? One of the most painful and dangerous experiences a woman can go through. Where is his contribution here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 09:36 PM |
| 204 | Waiting for Sex: Not a Zero Sum GameI get turned off very easily and really can’t imagine a man blindsiding me after 3 months of knowing him. I know that some are very good at it and will, but it’s why I’m glad we encourage every woman to be ruthless in our vetting process 1) Don’t ignore icks and yellow - red flags 2) Pay attention to the way he talks about women and women’s issues. Women who aren’t personal to his life and women that he’s not attracted to. 3) Can he handle boundaries or is he pushy and short tempered in other ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 06:03 AM |
| 179 | 🤡They are coping hard since these are the same losers who end up falling for escorts and act shocked when those feelings are not reciprocated lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:53 PM |
| 32 | 🤡What they forget is that women are single by choice. Men seem to always want to pursue wether it be casually or seriously. Women have droves of options but it’s always a choice when you see any of us single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:49 PM |
| 83 | 🤡If you left women alone they’d be a whole lot happier and probably wouldn’t even entertain men after the fact. Their absence won’t be missed lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 06:56 PM |
| 55 | Somehow this is worse than those room rentals on CraigslistMust be some stellar weed he’s smoking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 02:55 AM |
| 73 | I am just so... disappointedThank you for pointing this out. He’s only sorry that it ruined his performance. He’s not sorry for the likely abused women he’s beating off to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 12:11 AM |
| 47 | Comparing the Assault of Stealthing to lying about being on Birth Control | An attempt at a Tasteless 'Gotcha' by menI’ve heard men argue that lying about being on birth control is a form of rape but these same men think paying for consent and visiting escorts is totally fine and a non issue. Suddenly informed consent, free from coercion, doesn’t count when referring to women’s bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 07:11 AM |
| 81 | Comparing the Assault of Stealthing to lying about being on Birth Control | An attempt at a Tasteless 'Gotcha' by menIf men are this terrified of being “baby trapped” they can always get a vasectomy while always using condoms as backup. The chances of you being baby trapped after 1) communicating before sex, 2) Having a vasectomy AND wearing a condom is so non existent it’s slim to none. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 07:04 AM |
| 56 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄He thinks it’s his looks that keep him single but the same women who rejected him would 100% do the same after the surgeries. Seriously, when has a woman ever looked at a painfully average man and thought to herself, “if only he had bigger cheekbones :(“ Stop listening to the manosphere and start listening to what women want. Their goal is to attract women, right? Going for your looksmatch and treating women with respect would move mountains for you. I roll my eyes whenever I hear men complainin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 02:38 PM |
| 67 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.Exactly. Despite popular belief, women who go after money have standards and are choosy too. Men really believe once they bring in a decent income they can buy themselves a personality or the woman of their dreams. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:48 PM |
| 450 | He’s picky af! 7-8ths are only for banging not love.Tall, attractive and successful but can’t attract women? Clearly he’s the problem here and he’s leaving out a lot. Also laughing my ass off at men who think being tall and bringing in a decent income is allllll you need for attractive women to be throwing themselves at you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 06:02 AM |
| 225 | Why am I doing things to make myself more attractive when at the end of the day, men are still going to look at other women anyway?Male validation really means nothing so “beautifying” yourself for it is pointless and a waste of time / resources. Like makeup? Try investing more into skincare and keeping your skin feeling healthy and fresh. Workout so you can feel strong and feel more comfortable in the clothes you like. I look better than I ever did but have no plans on finding a man. I love looking good for myself and setting a good impression with other women. Men will literally stare at children so any attention from the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 12:10 AM |
| 63 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.Men get laughed at one time in middle school and spend their entire lives hating women. This shit happens to us and we move forward treating men as individuals. It’s getting extremely hard for me to find men attractive at all due to the abuse I’ve suffered, but you don’t see me trying to hurt any of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 08:53 AM |
| 54 | A good vetting strategy is to share a FAKE pet peeveHonestly there’s no need to fake one, I’m sure we all have plenty of Icks, pet peeves and of course opinions that can be used to vet the way he thinks. The second I bring up women’s issues and he dismisses or trivializes things, I’m GONE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 11:34 PM |
| 38 | Love it when a friend reminds me how much OLD sucks. I appreciate that he showed himself so quickly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 03:55 AM |
| 63 | 19 yr old kidnapped by boyfriend, captured on CCTV, he got 7.5 years in prison - she had life changing injuries and needs 24/7 care.This is so disturbing and what’s even more depressing is his light sentence. Are you kidding me???! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 6 | Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge:I think the issue is that people have what they think is the bare minimum and what should naturally exceed that as high value. My bare minimum IS high value through and through. Being a great partner who goes above and beyond is high value but also the bare minimum every woman deserves. Keanu could easily be having yacht parties on his holidays, but from what we can see, a lot of people admire how he treats women since he was a teenager. We only know what we find out but there’s high value behav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 03:45 PM |
| 9 | Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge:Being high value is the bare minimum for anyone bringing children into this world. Can you name a single man who you believe deserves children of his own? What those traits look like and why it would make him exceptional and not the bare minimum for a pregnant woman? Men need to be vetted their entire lives and can change the second they’re on their death bed. All of his positive hv traits are bare minimum but are very valuable to me. And yes, as someone who is tokophobic, his traits are the bar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge:HVM will meet and surpass the bare minimum. Not everyone on this sub is in their early teens and twenties and I’m not sure why you’re bringing up his looks, the man is old and has been for a long time. And my comment was referring to MY preferences in men who deserve children of their own. That’s one high profile example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:42 PM |
| 32 | Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge:He doesn’t “brag” he shuts down comments and adores his wife. He has status but doesn’t abuse / leverage it to pursue a rotation of women. He financially supports her and provides her a comfortable lavish life. Similar to Keanu he’s just a really great example of what a man should be like. Do we know him personally? Obviously not, but he’s HV in a lot of ways. Admiring good behaviour is fine I don’t care if he’s a celeb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:25 PM |
| 270 | Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge:Someone in the child free subreddit said she believed “no man deserved a gift of that magnitude” from herself and I feel the same way. Unless you’re like Pierce Brosnan, (seriously, the man adores and values his wife despite the changes she’s faced) you’re not getting a child from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 02:25 AM |
| 61 | Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards.I commend him for being so outright disgusting that no woman in her right mind would give him a pity chance. Die mad ugly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 03:21 AM |
| 228 | He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!!100% I was just going to say this. Never explain what your standards are. A lot of men can and will put on a facade to get what they want from you. Also While I’m super proud of the OP please never give back any gifts. He waisted your time and you are not being the bigger person by returning whatever minimum effort he put out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 11:35 PM |
| 52 | "I claim that rape exists any time sexual intercourse occurs when it has not been initiated by the woman, out of her own genuine affection and desire." - Robin Morgan, 1974These are the same guys who spend their lives terrified about being baby trapped when it’s entirely avoidable. Get a vasectomy, wear a condom or both Avoid random hookups with strangers and where inhibitions are down Communicate beforehand But no no no it takes all the excitement away. It wouldn’t be the same if they actually had to ask for consent or communicate their desires. Gotta manipulate women and play games in order to get their dicks wet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:29 AM |
| 144 | "I claim that rape exists any time sexual intercourse occurs when it has not been initiated by the woman, out of her own genuine affection and desire." - Robin Morgan, 1974Women don’t have to be initiators but there ALWAYS needs to be Enthusiastic consent. Always. The rest rings true though. People refuse to believe any situation that isn’t the “scary stranger in the bushes” as far as what is and isn’t classified as rape. If men actually avoided situations where consent wasn’t clear, they wouldn’t have to worry about “false rape accusations.” Every time I read a thread about it, there’s always droves of men mocking enthusiastic consent like it’s some sort of contr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:09 AM |
| 23 | You've heard of men with podcasts: meet the ladies with a podcast (today's episode: balding)Yep and maybe if they avoided sketchy clinics in turkey to save $$$ some of those follicles would actually take lol. Women die from bbls, suffer through breast implant illness, spend thousands on their appearances, but these guys can’t even pick up some discounted rogain at Costco? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 71 | You've heard of men with podcasts: meet the ladies with a podcast (today's episode: balding)Something I hear a lot: “You don’t get it, baldness is GENETIC…, you can at least lose the weight but I can’t grow my hair back” Uhm preventative measures are a thing, minoxidil is a thing, wigs/toppers are a thing, hair transplants are a thing….oh and if that hair transplant doesn’t work the first time you can always go for round 2…or 3 or 4. Women have been getting breast implants since forever and they need revisions, replacements and routine checkups. They really think that appearances don’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 07:06 PM |
| 139 | The Fantasy vs The Reality ✨Yep they really think the only person standing between them and a harem of models is their wives or girlfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 01:04 AM |
| 357 | The Fantasy vs The Reality ✨It’s funny when women are often the ones worrying about finding new partners but the reality is far different. Men on the other hand are CONVINCED that they’re missing out and have an abundance of options once they leave their wives. News flash it’s crickets | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 37 | What is it about South Asian/Desi culture that makes the men so depraved?Yes it’s rare and then they cry about dating being stacked against them….I wonder why? It’s a combination of a lot of things but excessive coddling from their mothers, entitlement and as someone else mentioned, they are guaranteed an arranged wife if they can’t find their “trophy” by themselves. They want someone who won’t leave and has no standards. This is coming from a South Asian woman who was born in Canada. I grew up thinking I was definitely going to look for a brown man to date but after… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Casual Sex ConfusionAt the end of the day you can do whatever you want but I read a great comment on here awhile back that I screenshotted about casual sex and why it truly doesn’t benefit us. I agree with it 100% and if I could find the author I’d give them an award. casual and why it doesn’t work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:24 AM |
| 39 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than others“You can use one of my old cars sometimes if you want to split rent and have sex with me. You also get FULL access to my smart TV for all your viewing pleasure” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 05:54 PM |
| 130 | Demand more from men! Evolution demands itThis is how I see things currently Men are not finding intimate relationships with women because a lot more us don’t need to rely on them anymore. A lot of these guys who are not finding anyone turn to male dominated spaces and get awful advice. They get more entitled and want the most but offer absolutely nothing. This is why you see a lot “why is it expected to pay for dates??” Or “what do women bring to the table?” Questions popping up. As if a woman choosing you out of thousands of readily a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 08:00 AM |
| 13 | Never stop vetting! Even after being faithful to your partner for 8 years, he could still think that he can do better and want to bang other women. Scrotes like this just want to get their dick wet and are never satisfied no matter how spectacular their gf is.It’s very bold for anyone to assume he’d even find a woman to have sex with. It’s just a fantasy for him. Once he’s single and free he’s gonna try and if he’s VERY lucky, he might find one who will pity him. I’m guessing this guy can’t even go a week without intimacy if he’s complaining about his girlfriend being away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 08:12 PM |
| 67 | Typical emotional abuse- bodyshaming tactics & using feigned ignorance regarding his fiancée's health needsThis reminds me of my first bf who loved to neg on my looks. Any negativity towards my body or physical appearance is an instant block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 07:49 AM |
| 81 | [deleted by user]“Gold diggers” don’t do much chasing so if you’re a man who’s terrified of running into one (generous of you to think someone of that stature would even choose you to rinse) then you can rest easy knowing that you’re not their target demographic. They are more often than not, the ones being approached by wealthy men. Seriously. Look at Miranda Kerr for example. At one point she had 7 billionaires interested in her and she chose one who she connected with over a formal dinner. Not even being a bi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:12 PM |
| 43 | Trust him, he’s worth itHe should put his dick down before writing his profile. Same dude who would complain about never getting matches. I wonder why??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 08:37 PM |
| 31 | Rejecting men is harder on women than menWhen rejection and being laughed at is the worst outcome for a guy but you’re worried about getting assaulted for saying no….must be nice to have that privilege. Women get rejected alll the time, and laughed at, embarrassed too. We just don’t let it take our whole existence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:59 AM |
| 42 | Rejecting men is harder on women than men100% yes. They will ALWAYS over inflate their own attractiveness and then think they have a shot with a woman who is above them in every way. It’s delusional, and they don’t see women in their own caliber as even options worth pursuing (without tremendous resentment that they could do better) Do they ever think that the women they like have standards too? Do you honestly think that an attractive woman who has her life together really pictures a deadbeat neck beard as their dream man? Get a grip … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Paying on dates, are we discouraged to go 50/50 on just the first date or first few dates?He always pays for dinner and I start paying in other ways (planning things, buying him something he likes on a special occasion) I’ve done this with male “friends” in the past and it was a great routine. I never pay for dining out but I slowly start investing in other ways when he’s proven himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 183 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.They are so tone deaf it’s laughable. They see retouched photos of their celebrity crush and think it’s just a matter of “working out more” Everytime I read posts like that there’s always comments about “giving it more time”…..well lot of the scars don’t ever go away and neither does loose crepey skin and stretch marks. A lot of women even drop to below their pre-baby weight and still have all these permanent changes. Too many men are having sex knowing jack shit about women’s bodies. Not unders… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:09 AM |
| 471 | Careful who you breed with. Man Repulsed by pregnant body. Will continue to be repulsed until it returns to “normal” This mentality is so common.A lot of grown men think pregnancy is just wearing an extra 10-15lbs that women can just take off postpartum. For a lot of women, it’s permanent physical changes like extra skin, scarring, tearing etc. My biggest fear is carrying a lvm’s child (who doesn’t understand basic anatomy or empathy) Posts like these remind me why I’m child free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:34 AM |
| 104 | It’s the weekend!! Let’s have some fun. Thought I’d share some of the recent DM’s (I never respond) I’ve received.The difference is that, as a woman, being single is a choice 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 07:07 PM |
| 501 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?Walking too far ahead of you and not keeping the same pace. Apparently this guy really liked me and was shocked when I told him it really turned me off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:32 PM |
| 61 | How often do you go on a date?Once every 5 months or so. I can’t roster date because I find it so draining to talk to multiple men at once. I also don’t give most men a chance and when I do I get turned off quickly which stops me from “getting back” into the dating sphere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 12:08 AM |
| 13 | Older does not mean wiser and they always use the "she's such an old soul" bsI met a 40 year old man once who didn’t know the word “misogyny” Like he asked me twice as if I was speaking in tongues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 06:11 PM |
| 54 | Quick test for misogyny while vetting: compliment a woman and watch for his reaction!This. Also I had a guy I thought was worth talking to, park far away from a restaurant bc he, and I quote, liked women who were fit and liked the exercise. He said this while showering me with compliments over my physique. I blocked him after that. As if alluding that you hate fat women while simultaneously complimenting me is gonna be flattering… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 05:42 AM |
| 26 | Went on a Tinder date and guy just said Let’s talk more and didn’t ask for my phone number…His brain cells are on 2%. Next him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 08:56 PM |
| 45 | Disappointed by my date todayMe experience exactly??? I figured older men would have some level of maturity and class that younger men lacked, but it’s definitely not true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 07:51 PM |
| 58 | Disappointed by my date todayI’ve also heard them say things like: “You have to get her thinking about sex and flatter her but NOT TOO MUCH…Then ESCALATE ESCALATE. ESCALATE. If she shows hesitation pause and change the subject quick!!!! Then go back and try again 😊 she will be begging for you to touch her” Are these guys stupid as fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 07:47 PM |
| 20 | Disappointed by my date todayNailed it and It put me in such an uncomfortable situation? I wasn’t even insecure but he was assuring me as if I was?? I was clenching my jaw and was clearly quivering the entire time. Im usually very vivacious and animated so I gave him a very dry laugh and changed the subject quickly so he could drop me back home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 06:40 PM |
| 35 | Disappointed by my date todayTotally agree and wish I met him sooner so I didn’t waist my time. I find it hard to gauge someone over text? I like first impressions made in person or can usually have a better idea by a phone call. I’m not skinny and this guy was commenting about how “athletic” I was. I know how to dress myself well to accentuate curves. I just knew he’d be the type of dude to notice cellulite and have a problem with it. What if I wasn’t in shape and he saw my plushier skin underneath the clothes ? NEXT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 06:36 PM |
| 32 | Famous HMV?I can only think of Keanu Reeves and Pierce Brosnan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 10:05 PM |
| 28 | Religion is by men, for menThey definitely pose as moral providers over women to reel potential converts in. “You never have to work a day in your life…” except I will be in every other possible way. How dehumanizing is it to ask your husband permission to leave the home? Or for pocket money because I have no means to support myself? Consent doesn’t matter and it’s a woman’s duty to serve her husband or be cursed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:37 PM |
| 37 | Religion is by men, for menI’m so glad to hear you found yourself out of the religion. It is very misogynistic at its core and only perpetuates violence towards women. Men are entitled to sex, it’s their “right” over us. Child brides are justified if theres consent from the father. Speaking of consent, there is no such thing. Silence is accepted and victim blaming is rife. Women are seen as infants who can’t do anything for themselves and then there’s the whole 72 virgins in the afterlife none sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:31 PM |
| 389 | Religion is by men, for menFunny thing, I had a Muslim boy pursue me in hopes I would convert over several months but….after doing my own research I decided that Islam was not as peaceful as it is portrayed in secular countries. Everything revolves around sex and it nurtures purity culture. The biggest issue I had was that the concept of marital rape did not exist. It is your “duty” and “obligation” to have sex with your husband and if you don’t - you’re cursed until morning. The concept of rape itself is also very skewed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 04:40 AM |
| 100 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorMen of colour tend to have some degree of internalized colorism going on. They usually always end up with someone from their own background, because they know it’s what they are most compatible with. (Most brown men know that white women don’t find living with their parents attractive let’s be real) so they settle down with a girl from their own culture when the parade is over. Watch how they treat women from their own race. Also watch how they compliment you if there’s traces of colorism in tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 01:18 AM |
| 195 | Anyone had a scrote try this on them?I wish guys knew how lame this actually is…. They literally just want a bit of attention no matter what it is. Even if it’s just confusion lol. How about growing some balls and actually striking up an interesting conversation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 08:39 PM |
| 182 | Dating outside of your raceIt’s fine but there’s an extra layer of vetting involved that you have to be aware of. If he mentions he likes “petite” or “submissive” women you RUN. If he stereotypes you into a box then you also RUN. Another good tip is see how he treats women who are not like you. Men of colour tend to all have internalized colorism to some degree or another. White men who only date women from Asian cultures are a red flag as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 05:07 PM |
| 8 | Please don’t idealise men from other culturesHonestly I would just stay away from them as much as possible. I haven’t met a single one, even the “nice ones” here still fetishize white women. They will act high value until they find someone new or when they’re ready to settle down and act lukewarm towards a woman from their own culture. I’m glad you’re away from that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 04:07 PM |
| 16 | Doesn’t it seem like men only value women who they think are out of their league?They don’t value them. They want what they can’t have, when they get it they automatically switch to “She likes me so that means I can do even better” ….they also treat them like trash once they feel that they “conquered” her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 04:08 AM |
| 9 | Gathered from the redpill sub, which is filled with posts like this. These men are literally advocating for sexual assault and somehow people still have the nerve to say FDS is the same, when it teaches us how to stay away precisely from men like this and vet for the sake of our own safety.They are circle jerking each other off. Meanwhile in the real world, I’m sure they’re just walking past women with their heads down mumbling like socially awkward idiots. Then they go home and fantasize all this crap lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 04:01 AM |
| 7 | Gathered from the redpill sub, which is filled with posts like this. These men are literally advocating for sexual assault and somehow people still have the nerve to say FDS is the same, when it teaches us how to stay away precisely from men like this and vet for the sake of our own safety.Oh yeah these guys totally get women. Let them pretend they get women and then let them fantasize even harder that they’re in a position to reject hundreds 👍🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:59 AM |
| 49 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Every time I try online dating Im reminded of how UGLY most men are….like seriously. They need to learn how to take flattering photos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 11:21 PM |
| 24 | Please don’t idealise men from other culturesYep they see them as play things. I wish this wasn’t common but i have yet to see otherwise even with the guys here in the west! Some are just more apparent with it than others | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 06:02 PM |
| 184 | Please don’t idealise men from other culturesBrown men will salivate and fetishize over any blonde no matter what she looks like. It’s more apparent with guys from India but it’s still very obvious with the guys born in the west too…. Dark skinned men tend to have a lot of internalized racism that comes out when they are around WOC….a lot of them see light skinned women as trophies. It’s pretty sad for both ends honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 07:18 AM |
| 30 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?Oh it definitely is. As for the guy you’re seeing, it could be just performance anxiety. He could be completely comfortable and into it but could easily be overthinking without you noticing. If you mention how you like this and that and he doesn’t make an effort the next time you’re in an intimate setting, then it’s a dealbreaker. The worst sex I ever had was with my ex bf who body shamed me during it. It was my first time, I was naive to not end things right there, and I was horrified! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 05:19 AM |
| 57 | He (27M) revealed he was a virgin…If he is a virgin by choice then that’s an entirely different thing. Some men do want to wait for something more serious. On the flip side (if he’s been substituting with porn) I’ve heard so many accounts of guys who were previously virgins resent their now girlfriends because they want to “experience” more sexual encounters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 12:05 AM |
| 3 | The IckMy ick list includes Not understanding basic female anatomy (if you’re planning on having sex with someone, don’t be an idiot and read a book or two about what is normal. No porn doesn’t count. Men who posture a lot and are overly concerned what their guy friends think Any inclination that a man wants to be chased/pursued in any way (go put on a skirt and heels if you want to be chased so bad) Not listening. Cutting you off mid sentence. Unable to remember important details about your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 11:07 PM |
| 121 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.Negging is like wearing a sign around your neck that you’re insecure and know it. That no woman could ever be interested in you without being in a state of confusion and self doubt. She has to be in a confused and insecure state in order to engage with you. They keep telling on themselves. Ya wanna know the real secret in getting girls??? Be attractive, put in effort, have something going for you….but nah these losers don’t want to level up. They want to knock her down instead lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 04:07 AM |
| 265 | How to you feel about the idea that "most men don't marry the woman they love the most. They marry the woman that’s around when they’re ready to marry."It’s very true and I’ve had men admit this to me as if it’s not an embarrassing thing to share…. This is how it usually goes ….. When they get older and their hairline goes south, they realize they can’t manipulate naive women anymore. They start looking for anyone willing to put up with their bs. They get married and act resentful about “what could have been…” with someone else (But they don’t leave to go look for it bc they know deep down they ain’t shit) They want a bang maid, house keeper an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:46 PM |
| 262 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupIs he trying to make her look bad? Because it’s not working and he sounds like a brat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?Isn’t it common sense though? Women have more options and are usually more selective when they are getting hundreds of potential options a week. How does a guy even get his foot through the door if he’s offering a low effort date that he expects her to pay for? There are so many women out there that don’t have these expectations but many guys do not want THOSE women. They want the woman who’s more attractive and high value. If a guy was flooded with potential matches wouldn’t he select the most … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 08:20 PM |
| 97 | Brian Laundrie’s remains found…I definitely don’t feel bad for his family and had they called authorities early on, they would likely still have a son. I’m glad that he won’t ever have the opportunity to hurt any woman ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:13 AM |
| 41 | Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a jobHe should have thought about that before deciding to have kids Women make sacrifices all the damn time and rarely complain about it. I’m sure she could have been focusing on her own career but he wants her to balance her work with raising their children as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 10:28 PM |
| 7 | Having standards is not a hate crimeI’ve seen this and it’s so embarrassing on their part lol. Like sir? You have to be likeable first to even expect some sort of genuine chase. Even before FDS I would never respond to negging. It’s just rude and the hot / cold treatment is so juvenile and unattractive. Instant next. Who wants to date someone who can’t regulate their emotions and acts like an adult child? No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:13 AM |
| 61 | Having standards is not a hate crimeGirl I hear you. I’ve been on a total of 5 dates in 2 years bc of how picky I’ve gotten. I don’t have the energy to entertain someone unless I’m already very interested in the first place. My socials are flooded with endless requests but I’m not entertaining any of that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 06:15 AM |
| 63 | Having standards is not a hate crimeThe ones that resort to manipulation are basically wearing a big ol’ sign around their necks that say “look, Im not very attractive” which is why they feel the need to pull tricks. Most guys who subscribe to the concept of picking up vulnerable women aren’t having much sex in the first place. It’s more of a game to them. They fantasize, watch videos, pay other losers for “tips” and then catch a case bc they mess with the wrong woman who was too drunk too consent. Men can literally avoid all this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 06:09 AM |
| 76 | Even The Onion knows open relationships are BS 🤣Which one of you write for the onion ✍🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:08 AM |
| 122 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.This doesn’t make me insecure, it makes me laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:43 AM |
| 297 | Having standards is not a hate crime100% this If for some odd reason I did a terrible job at vetting someone before a date and he refused to cover the bill, I would just pay my share and leave. No contact after that. There would be no manipulation or attempt at trying to get a man to act right for me. He didn’t offer? Great, I won’t be seeing him again. End of story. This has never happened to me before and men rarely ever have issues whatsoever paying for dates with women they see potential with. It’s never about the money for th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:04 AM |
| 138 | Having standards is not a hate crimeI’m sure if he had an endless amount of options he would choose the most attractive woman that was interested. Why can’t we do the same? Would they also expect to get hired for a high level position with no credentials with nothing to offer or show for besides heart and worth ethic? Same logic. We can afford to be picky because it’s in our best interests and safety to do so. I don’t know what’s so hard for them to understand lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:40 AM |
| 150 | Cause of death: the audacity 😉 Share a story of a time a scrote either mansplained something you’re an expert in or made a hilarious statement like below. I’ll go first in comments!Every guy who’s taken an intro level psych class is an EXPERT on human behaviour, especially women and why they do the things they do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:01 PM |
| 24 | The lack of attractive men out there is so dishearteningThen I would avoid OLD as much as possible as the profiles on there, regardless of where you are in the world, aren’t going to be pretty. Some men are awful at taking photos and highlight their “ugly” even if they’re O K …. I’ve only been physically attracted to about one guy in 5 years. It’s not common and it’s ok to have preferences. I like tall, dark curly hair and nice bone structure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:40 PM |
| 10 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.I want to believe this is fake but I’ve seen similar profiles like this with my own eyes and they do exist 🤮 He is delusional, even the dumbest conservative pickme would find his profile laughable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:35 PM |
| 96 | If he wants an*l sex from you, chances are that he has the potential to be, or is, abusiveThis is true with most men in my experience. It can start off as trying to convince you about changing your mind over something, not accepting your no for an answer, and then it can progress into the bedroom and become even more abusive. What’s scary is that these are everyday guys that get turned on when they see an opportunity to cross a woman’s boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:31 PM |
| 228 | FDS Works. It's best just to ghost men with no explanation when they do something shitty particularly in the early stages of dating. See link for why.Yes never give paragraphs or look for closure. It stings but if he’s willing to put you through pain then he doesn’t care about your emotional response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 11:21 PM |
| 61 | As requested: Discussion about professions to avoid dating summarized into relevant conclusionsI know a practicing psychologist that was pretty sound and great (cultural differences made things hard to pursue forward) but he was one of the few I actually liked. Definitely an exception for me. Absolutely will never go near a cop with a ten foot pole. Can’t imagine the fragile ego + power trips women endure behind close doors. That and the domestic violence that we hear so much about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:05 PM |
| 280 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysI tried dating a neurosurgeon but I was so off put by how immature he was. You’d think a man in his late 30s wouldn’t text like a teenager but oh lord you’d be wrong lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 07:07 PM |
| 79 | TEA ☕️: If a guy has a small dick, he WILL very likely (try) to cheat.It’s gross and I can confirm this. Also with guys who can’t get hard, have PIED and want to sleep with as many women as possible…like sir?? Are you not embarrassed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 05:42 AM |
| 42 | How about noLove that 50/50! He can also do the cooking and cleaning while I water the cactus in the living room 💪🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 364 | Do not date recovering porn addicts, this post is another example of the misery and pain dealing with a pornsick man. So many scrotes defending him in the comments🤢Imagine choosing porn over a real life woman standing in front of you…I’m in awe. Even before FDS I would just leave and give no ultimatum or chances. Masterbation isn’t really the problem, it’s pornography and how he feels like it’s something he just “can’t give up” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:40 PM |
| 90 | How about noHe can carry the baby and do the laundry while I mow the lawn once a month 😊 I like that idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 09:31 PM |
| 31 | Newly-separated Scrote creeps on female FB friends, throws mantrum when they don't respondThey always say never to listen to women for dating advice and wonder why they’re still single… Because I’m sure a successful high value man is spending time “teaching” losers how to get women. Real men understand that women are not a monolith to conquer and that we are individuals…PEOPLE with different wants and needs. Losers on those subreddits just want as much casual sex as possible and can’t see why women don’t want them…lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 08:16 PM |
| 28 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodMen will always compliment me on how I look but don’t realize how much it takes to look that way. But then again, most guys think girls just wake with balayage blowouts, perfect brows and natural makeup lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 02:49 AM |
| 10 | Stop Giving a F: Quit “Paragraphing” For Men IRL, Too.Learned this the hard way after having to repeat myself multiple times. They read it the first time and didn’t care and then you end up looking silly for exhausting your efforts on a loser. LESSON LEARNED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 10:49 PM |
| 295 | Another series of men projecting Ep. 124842: Women using men for free foodAnyone getting dolled up and taking time to risk seeing a stranger they may or may not like, isn’t going to waste their resources, much less put themselves at risk for 15 bucks lmao! They just can’t bear the idea that maybe… she just wasn’t into you! My blowouts cost $50…. my Herve leger dress is $500….and let’s not get into makeup. But yeah, I’m gonna waste product, time, money for a $15 return and a risk of a date going wrong.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:10 PM |
| 94 | Men acting shocked at the mistreatment of women is LV behaviorThe kicker is that their lives are never “ruined” There are high profile celebrities who abuse and rape but are doing just fine despite all allegations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 183 | Men acting shocked at the mistreatment of women is LV behaviorReminds me of when an old male friend told me that “men don’t ruin lives” with a straight face. We’re no longer friends after that tirade lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 12:09 AM |
| 22 | For women of color/ minorities, be extra careful of fetishization or familial racismI was called a “Persian princess” on a date before. I’m not even Persian LOL! Yeah it’s creepy and I cringe every time I see it. Brown men have so much internalized colorism that they fetishize anyone with a lighter skin tone and blonde hair ✅ What’s even creepier is the old white dudes who have yellow fever and look for Asian women to be their submissive, petite bangmaids. If a guy ever gives me a race preference I RUN the fuck outta there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:36 PM |
| 175 | Men who have no talking gameI stopped using euphemisms for them and started calling them socially awkward. They lose it every time. It wouldn’t be so embarrassing if they didn’t blame women for every shortcoming they have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:48 PM |
| 18 | I caught my husband watching porn and kicked him outGood on you OP! If you start feeling emotions come up remember that women never regret leaving a bad situation but always regret staying and giving numerous chances. I resonate with you and I’m glad you made the RIGHT decision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 04:25 AM |
| 144 | Aileen Wuornos is often compared to Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer in terms of the heinous nature of their crimes. That’s because of cultural misogyny, victim-blaming, and legitimate hatred of women.Definitely a public service. Anytime her name comes up there are droves of men sympathizing with the johns as if they weren’t rapists. It’s not like she went out and committed a mass shooting in some park. These were guys who wanted to pay to rape. There was an interview where the reporter was doubting that she could even encounter so many dangerous men within one year….LOL. As if a working prostitute isn’t in fear for her life EVERY-TIME she gets into a car with a guy who’s paying to rape…but s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:09 AM |
| 241 | Aileen Wuornos is often compared to Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer in terms of the heinous nature of their crimes. That’s because of cultural misogyny, victim-blaming, and legitimate hatred of women.She killed johns who were looking for cheap sex, some were violent with her and she did what she needed to do in order to survive and prevent being raped or “fulfilling services” /yuck My heart goes out to her. I can’t imagine going though what she did as a child and how miserable her life was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:06 AM |
| 190 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingThey can afford nannies 5 days a week, body contouring procedures and personal trainers + chefs. When it’s your job to look good and you have all the money in the world, it’s a lot easier to “snap back” Now compare that to the average mom who can’t afford a nanny 5 days a week, cooks, cleans and keeps the house running. Men have no common sense when they compare their wives to celebs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:18 PM |
| 33 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingWhat a big fucking baby and I hate it even more with the constant “I’m so horrible…!” Imagine putting your body through childbirth only to read this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:15 PM |
| 158 | Gen Z sees prostitution as wholesome. Comments defending the video saying it's "consensual" and "enthusiastic" so what's the problem?I hate the “everyone pays for it anyway” or “giving it up for free” bullshit For starters, sex isn’t something you GIVE. It’s a shared mutual experience. Hate to break it to men out there that dinner or how much money you spend isn’t going to “get you” sex. No she didn’t decide to sleep with you bc you bought her dinner, she felt attracted to you and decided to move forward with her feelings. Sex workers feel violated and call it rape if a John just decides to leave without compensating them, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 05:47 PM |
| 142 | Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problemsBingo. Literally read a post about a dude whining about not getting “attractive” matches….like what? If you’re swiping on conventionally attractive women with endless options, why should she give your dusty ass a chance if you won’t with other women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 12:43 AM |
| 43 | They don't know him like you do.100 times YES When I was badly hurt by a male friend I had pickmes victim blame me left and right. One girl met him for no longer than 2 hrs and apparently could NEVER imagine him hurting a woman….give me a fucking break lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:47 AM |
| 26 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)Men are confusing. How can you hate women so much but claim that you’re only purpose and meaning to life is having one? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:49 AM |
| 17 | Always Google Your DatesNo kidding. I was so excited to meet this doctor who lived in a nearby city and seemed very professional and gentlemanly. I googled his name just for fun and apparently he lost his license for helping a woman try to commit suicide (knowingly prescribed her lethal doses of medication) and faced charges for it. I cancelled the date but holy shit….always always google search first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:16 PM |
| 40 | Anyone who is actually high libido who is now low libido because of disapppointing experiences with men... that thinking about having to deal with their BS in order to have sex is just too unappealing?Yes 🙌🏼 once I discovered edibles I’ve never looked back lol. Sex with LVM will always lead to disappointment and frustration, no thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 07:53 AM |
| 13 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"Definitely. I would say the majority of them are LVM/NVM and it’s strongly perpetuated in the culture. So long as he’s not physically abusive or consumed by substance abuse issues, he’s pretty much a “catch” and is entitled to THE BEST. When they finally decide to settle down after being humbled by the women here, they have the most lukewarm attitude towards their wives. These women will do everything for them, love them unconditionally, never leave them and be treated subhuman as a reward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 08:09 PM |
| 128 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"So I’m East Indian, born and raised in Western Canada. Personally, I haven’t seen it happen much with women per say, but rather the men who look for women back home after years of trying to find someone here. From my experience, the men date around and when they need to settle down they get their mamas to find them someone from back in India. I’ve literally heard my male acquaintances say how much they hate “feminism” and want to find someone who will essentially be a caregiver/bang-maid who wil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 03:27 AM |
| 180 | Repeat after me: Statistically casual sex for straight women does NOT include orgasms!No women in hookup culture are sleeping with men for orgasms. A lot of it is just self harming behaviours and they know it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:20 AM |
| 34 | A common DM I get from scrotes - “you’ll be forever alone”. Let’s discuss this..Grown men don’t know what projection is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:22 AM |
| 35 | The difference between true HVM vs a HV acting performance 🎭All this! Also if he thinks he’s amazing for doing the bare minimum. Does he think taking care of you is going above and beyond or is it something he would do in a heartbeat bc he genuinely cares | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:26 AM |
| 2 | what if you have next to no pretty privilege? are basic? not girly? how to start over?First of all, you sound amazing and congrats on your weight loss! You can definitely be stylish and comfortable at the same time. It’s all about fit and material. I’m not skinny and have sensitive skin so I avoid denim and boxy fits that aren’t as flattering. Finding more form fitting (not tight) flattering pieces is always good. My personal fave is a blouse tucked in to some black pants. I love high heels but if they’re not for you, opt for nice loafers or flats. How’s your skin? Over the years… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 12:11 AM |
| 47 | The difference between true HVM vs a HV acting performance 🎭Same. I can’t seem to think of any fool proof way to figure this out, besides vetting ruthlessly early on. Watching how he deals with conflict, problem solving and issues that come up. Maybe even going on a trip and see how he deals with planning. How does he talk about family and children? Is it a woman’s responsibility to keep the home running smoothly? Instant next. What’s his responsibilities as a partner? My older sister didn’t have much dating experience. It was a high-school sweetheart si… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 11:15 PM |
| 14 | On the “Stay In Your League” post…I took it more as a levelling up and aiming high by have similar standards / strong compatibility. (I want an attractive fit man, so I’m also physically active sort of thing) I’ve personally never met a woman who demanded a guy who looked like Sean O Pry and didn’t take care of herself in some way. It’s usually guys who looks like thumbs that inherently believe they deserve a VS angel by default. Women on all levels humble themselves to some degree. Models in the industry compare each other ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 53 | Unpopular Opinion: Why you should date in your own leagueDating outside of your league is definitely something LVM/NVM do regularly, it’s their goal and they pride themselves for “doing better” while simultaneously looking like a thumb. I think women are more self aware as far as physical appearances, but may not understand that it’s more than that. You may be absolutely stunning but that doesn’t mean you’re going to attract a HVM. Having hobbies, passions, a good job and all, is way more important. Are you complete without a man? And what can a man a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 04:08 PM |
| 16 | What do you ladies think about gaming? (Video gaming, phone gaming, computer gaming, etc)It’s Big turn off for me, no thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 07:22 AM |
| 48 | Anyone watch Indian Matchmaking on Netflix?I love her. She’s so entertaining and doesn’t mess around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Scrotes tell on themselves when asked “What are you addicted to that is legal”. Porn, drugs and procrastination.How is this not embarrassing. Here’s the translation: “I’m actually not attractive enough to have sex in person so I i watch other men do it instead 😋” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 12:33 AM |
| 10 | Again with the height thing....The garden gnome who scripted this was barely tall enough to reach the keyboard, bless his heart ♥️ Also side note: all this post does is affirm that women are attracted to tall men and gives short men fuel to hate women for their preferences from the get-go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 04:11 AM |
| 121 | Don’t be settled forJust saw a post with 2k+ upvotes in a dating sub about a professor who told his students that “you don’t always get what you want in life” and went on to say that his current wife was his second choice and that it was OK…. NVM / LVM will die trying to get the women of their dreams and do everything besides change themselves and level up. When they realize that the hot high value woman doesn’t want them, they will “settle” with a bangmaid who doubles as a caretaker. They totally resent her for li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 03:33 AM |
| 618 | Again with the height thing....This has the same energy of those dudes who fantasize about becoming rich and turning down women that rejected them. It’s just fantasy and these stories are definitely fake lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 09:58 PM |
| 13 | The more assertive I am, the happier I am! Be assertive and walk with prowessHonestly I think I was just fed up with feeling miserable and was slowly becoming more outspoken then usual out of frustration. Every time I was a little more assertive, the more positive the interaction would be which only encouraged me further. I only started lifting myself up after hitting rock bottom so the only way out was up ⬆️ I would encourage women not to wait for that moment in their lives and just start as soon as possible. If you’re passive and shy, take baby steps. Say no more often… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 06:31 PM |
| 11 | Why I don't feel empathy for unattractive menlol that reminds me of a post on Reddit where this uggo was complaining how easy women have it on dating apps. That the only matches he had were with “ugly women” and he thought he deserved waaay better…. No you don’t deserve shit. If you have a shit personality, are physically unattractive, and have nothing to offer, why would ANYONE want to date that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 04:14 PM |
| 18 | Report and block… report and block… must remember talking back just stokes their egoNever argue with stupid. They want attention in any form, I ain’t givin them any | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 45 | have you ever done something sexual you didn’t enjoy? too bad! you now owe it to all future partners /sWhat a loser. This is how a lot of men view sex, as something to DO to women, not with. Also I know that sub, and what they talk about is downright predatory. Literally saw a post the other day from a “Pick up expert” about how sex hungry women are and to just keep going and ignoring her boundaries bc deep down she wants it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 10:17 PM |
| 50 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.🕵️♀️🕵️♀️🕵️♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 01:27 AM |
| 325 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.What value does he even add to her life? This poor girl needs to leave him before she ends up in an even deeper hole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:14 AM |
| 160 | Let’s suppose this is true, this type of “encouragement” harms so many women around the world. This is a dangerous pickmeA man definitely wrote that post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 09:01 AM |
| 3 | PUA shit tactics: LMR does not respect consent, it's practically coercion through eroding resistanceExactly and they are telling on themselves. I hear the “morning after regret” bs all the time…No one is regretting consensual sex. When you’re coerced, pressured, rushed and manipulated you are definitely gonna regret that!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 06:22 AM |
| 5 | PUA shit tactics: LMR does not respect consent, it's practically coercion through eroding resistanceDon’t these guys feel super embarrassed having to resort to xyz tactics in order to get what they want? Like how repulsive and unattractive do you have to be to resort to manipulation…just be attractive and likeable guys it’s not THAT hard… When a guy listens to pick up artists for advice on women he’s literally wearing a sign that he’s a loser who has no attractive qualities or respect for himself and others | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 06:10 AM |
| 16 | On a post about a divorce lawyer telling his client to lie about her ex husband in order to get custody of her kids, I find this and other gems. what in the actual fuck…hope she got picked.We are clearly living in different worlds here. I wish words were enough to throw your rapist in prison, but even with evidence that doesn’t happen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 06:06 AM |
| 54 | We all know Lvm can manipulate you by faking HV traits. But some hv qualities are hard to fake and make much better vetting criteria. Here's some of mine:How a man reacts to rejection and disagreements is a huge one for me. I’ve had guys who seemed HV until we disagreed about something. LVM can’t stand being rejected or disagreed with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 02:21 PM |
| 114 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.I haven’t seen any hostile comments on the thread just genuine concerns and opinions from people who were confused. Thank you to the mods who have kept this place clean and safe from male lurkers. I will be following the other sub as it aligns more with my current state of affairs, so thank you for clarifying and making that distinction! I think if the goal is to make this sub more about strategies and vetting, having flairs like male depravity is just inviting more users to vent and showcase LV… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 01:08 PM |
| 14 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.I agree. I don’t see anything wrong with encouraging women to think more critically about these things. This can pertain to dating since men have skewed ideas of what is real and what isn’t. Shaming is one thing, but being challenged about what is normalized (full on invasive face and body modification) can’t really be a bad thing….as someone who has done plenty of procedures I advocate against it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 08:00 AM |
| 53 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.I am new but figured FDS was a safe place for women who are interested in dating (tips, vetting strategies) as well as for those content with being single for the time being. My choice in staying single isn’t a forever thing or maybe it could be I’ll never know for sure. I feel that this is a great place for both sides of the coin and learning to be comfortable with the idea that you don’t need to date or find a HVM in order to happy (considering how rare they are this day and age..) Other subs … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 11:56 PM |
| 23 | Women drink alcohol to tolerate low frequency men.They’re the first to offer to buy you a drink, offer drugs, but then throw a tantrum when it’s to cover dinner. Speaking from experience, this happens a lot more than people want to realize | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:06 PM |
| 96 | Women drink alcohol to tolerate low frequency men.No wonder losers try to push alcohol and substances on women. Even they know how unbearable they are as people and the only way a woman would give them company is if their under influence of some kind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:23 PM |
| 17 | How long did it take you to stop randomly cringing during the day while remembering past pickme behavior?I see old me as a completely separate entity. Like WHO was THAT?? Took me a few years to realize that being a people pleaser will only make you feel miserable inside. I always regret saying yes to a man but have yet to find one time I regret saying no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 05:59 AM |
| 105 | I feel like I saw my Past Pickme self standing in front of me in line today... Thank God for FDSI try to block out my old “pickme” self since it’s just so cringey and makes my stomach turn at what I put up with for a LVM. I was in college and barely making ends meet and was out 2,000 in less than one year of supporting him. He did not care when I ended things but came crying back when he realized nobody wanted his ass lol. Thank god I grew up and found better and know better. Men are tripping over themselves to get a date with me and I actually prefer being single and leveling up. Unless s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:40 AM |
| 35 | Dear scrotes, this was a discussion about how women in their early 20s DON’T want you, stop approaching us or this will be your future. Raise your hand if you’re in your early 20s and have NEVER been attracted to an old scrote, I’ll go first 🙋🏻♀️Had a guy in his late 40s just confess his love for me and how “different” I am than other girls….this guy has a wife and I was merely being polite and doing my job lol. The delusional never stops. They don’t get smarter, more self aware over the years, they get worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 07:10 AM |
| 6 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWIt can be lonely but finding this sub and tuning into the podcast has given me a safe haven of sorts. I have always been comfortable with my own company so it doesn’t bother me as much. People are so draining and listening to men talk can be brain numbing lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 07:09 AM |
| 26 | Sadly trueI am so sorry for what you had to deal with and the “well he was good to ME” comment is the most hurtful and common in these situations. In many instances, people are uncomfortable with the reality of things and would actually prefer to A) stay ignorant (pls don’t tell me! He would never…” ) or B) avoid responsibility and create their own narrative to avoid losing “friendships” barf. My friend was a pick me who I’ve known for years. She met my abuser once for less than 2 hrs and guess who she de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 05:24 AM |
| 63 | To the guys lurking - stop shaming women with high standards.They have to be kids or dumb as all hell to spend their free time going after women on the internet. I don’t go out of my way to talk to men LOL but they just can’t help themselves to know some woman in the internet wouldn’t date them and they HAVE to let you know it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:19 AM |
| 177 | Sadly trueAlmost feels worse when women don’t believe you. Dealt with it and it hurt more than anything he did. Hope they got their brownie points and were picked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 09:50 PM |
| 48 | Sadly trueAnd then when women come out with their experiences they cry about us reaching and being extreme (telling on themselves) Like how hard is it to get enthusiastic sober consent? LVM/NVM are so undesirable that instead of becoming better people they find ways around it to satisfy themselves (losers) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 09:42 PM |
| 148 | Sadly trueSorry for posting this and bringing up any painful memories for anyone, not my intention! Humour is how I’m coping after several years and just recently seeing this man advocate for supporting / believing women when he hurt me and gaslit me into thinking I deserved to be assaulted. I hate performative activism and I’m trying to stay calm after seeing so much of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 09:26 PM |
| 125 | Even women who want to uplift men and boys gets called a sl*t. Don't be a pickme y'all. 🤡Being kind to men only brought on hurt and pain. Don’t do it, they don’t give af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:13 AM |
| 128 | Imposed ideas of femininity harm and oppress women - Change my mind. 🥰This is extremely normalized in my culture (East Indian) for guys to fuck around with girls in the west, while simultaneously looking for a bride in their home country (bc they want a traditional woman who will basically be a second mother to them) They want someone who has no standards, will do EVERYTHING for them and never leave/divorce no matter what (unless it’s on the man’s terms…) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:11 AM |
| 89 | Field report - how LVM masquerade as HVMExactly and it makes me sick to my stomach. The same guy who sexually assaulted me acts like a total saint in front of women he finds attractive. How a man treats women he’s not attracted to is sooo important and underrated. For them, unless we’re attractive, we’re not even considered human beings in their eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:07 AM |
| 111 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexThey are literally wearing a sign around their necks that might as well read “I’m so unpleasant I have to coerce someone to bear me” lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 08:11 AM |
| 209 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexSo disturbing yet laughable that they giggle and brag as if it’s something to be proud of? Dude, you just paid someone to see them naked what’s there to be proud of? Guys who pay for sex are losers anyways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:53 AM |
| 37 | Scrotes will neg and try to knock beautiful women down a peg, alwaysYeah my first boyfriend (now ex) would ALWAYS have something to say about my appearance. My shoulders were too broad, I shouldn’t wear cropped shirts, and i was too flat. I internalized it and I still deal with bits of self doubt even today. Guess what he looked like? Short, scrawny, rude and had no sense of style. Once I left the relationship I realized how many guys would trip over backwards to get a date with me lol. I always put effort in my appearance and walk with confidence. These losers … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:02 AM |
| 226 | "Why won't women date me? I'm a NICE guy!"They are laughably delusional. I’ve never met a single woman THAT entitled. A lot of women grow up thinking they’re never enough, told by media that we’re not good enough, skinny enough, perfect enough, and it becomes internalized. The ugliest, fattest, meanest guys with no ambition or goals have the HIGHEST standards. Ask a guy what his dream woman is like and then ask him if that woman pictures him as her dream man. Watch their worlds shatter lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:28 AM |
| 5 | Red pilled men break their own rules for attractive HV women. Don’t be fooled by their bullshit claims online- most are doing the MOST in a bid to tie one down- which proves nothing.In my experience they just don’t care and their end goal of banging hot women is all that matters to them. Men praise themselves for finding ways to manipulate, cheat and lie to women in order to sleep with them because their personalities are literal dog sh!t and no one wants to associate with a loser who won’t work on himself. I’ve told guys off about how pathetic they are and they literally don’t care if they get what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:44 AM |
| 6 | Because disappointing one woman at a time is not enough...Most guys nowadays have PIED anyways, I guess they like the idea but they should focus on making 1 woman finish at a time :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:59 PM |
| 17 | NVM who think they can buy consent and free willI agree with this. Money works as a silencer, not a way to buy consent. The girls can’t complain if they’re being silenced and that doesn’t seem like free will to me!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:25 PM |
| 83 | NVM who think they can buy consent and free willIt shocked me when I realized how common these types of guys are.... They’re not even shameful about it lol, they admit it proudly and it doesn’t damper their self inflated ego one bit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:45 AM |
| 114 | Women Of The World UniteMen would have to act right to even get close to a woman’s body. They would have to WORK and PROVE themselves worthy to access us. Scrotes are gonna think this is toxic as if having standards before being intimate is a bad thing??? No one can “withhold” or weaponize sex, it’s not something that can be given. It’s a MUTUAL experience you’re not owed shit for being born a male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:50 AM |
| 9 | Sex work is soooo empowering 🤨It’s never empowering. Also men do not care if they are literally paying for consent. It’s abuse and nothing less. I used to be friends with a guy who hired escorts and before I cut the friendship off I asked him why he would sleep with someone who didn’t want to sleep with him in the first place (ie, buying escorts) he just shrugged and said it’s no big deal. They genuinely just don’t care and have the biggest egos on top of it. I’m so glad I don’t talk to him anymore 🙂 imagine paying for conse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:19 AM |
| 16 | Why you should NEVER go 50/50 on a date: Breaking down the most common arguments (Part. 2)I used to pay for dates and go 50 / 50 NEVER AGAIN 🤮 The amount of time it takes me to get ready, look good, make sure I have a nice outfit to wear...The least he could do is pay for a meal? Looking beautiful takes time and money, I’m not wasting my time on someone who expects 50/50 when I’m already doing way more than him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | “It’s not realistic for men to stop watching porn! It doesn’t hurt anyone! You’re just a prude!” Meanwhile this girl’s bf gets off on necrophilia 🤢So gross omg. Never give a porn sick deadbeat a chance. If he tries to argue about how normal it is, drop his ass. Men who watch porn don’t know how to engage in normal intimacy and need to continue pushing their limits with more depraved shit in order to get off. I would rather be single and happy then ever date someone with PIED and sick fetishes in his 20s lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Nothing surprising here given that videogames are a breeding ground for LVMGrown men who play video games are a major Ick for me but that aside - A friend of mine worked at a game store in town and she always felt uncomfortable working there. She complained to the manager and he clearly didn’t see a big deal so she quit. Guess who hit up her phone and asked her for a date after she quit? That’s right, the manager LOL. What a degenerate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 02:59 AM |
| 143 | Most men don’t ever think about if they are enough for you. They just assume so because you’re with them.That’s why they feel so confident when you end things but come running back crying after a month when they realize no one wants their ass 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 28 | The effort a scrote puts in before and afterTruth! My sister in law is an amazing high value woman and her husband played all his cards on her. Got a house, leveled up on his education, and now that they’re married with kids, never puts in the work to help her out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 07:18 PM |
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