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15

How did you put up with it? I admire your strength lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 10:38 PM
18

See! To many stories ike these.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 10:37 PM
339

Right. Like I make my own money,cook and clean for myself and I can't imagine doing that for 2+ people on the daily basis. It's draining. Like I'm one of those people who need to be alone more. It's too much for me to even be around someone in my personal space.Every.Single. Day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:10 AM
1

I've never been in an relationship, relationship,but I will say that the middle part would be more on the left..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 04:00 PM
8

Right.Probably saying what he's saying to justify it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 05:20 AM
4

This is what I was trying to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 12:34 AM
50

They suppress most of their emotions(the negative emotions )until they can't. Then when they have no choice but to face their emotions they feel everything times a hundred...the emotions hit harder than what they ought to. This is what makes them more emotional imo. Edit:words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:44 PM
57

I feel like men are the same,but worse because of porn and video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:18 AM
3

If I enter a seriouss relationship there will be a deposit they'd have to pay... I don't want kids so in case that I need to fly somewhere to a clinic I'll have that deposit ready.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 10:35 AM
7

I mean I'm sure he knew what culture he was getting into before agreeing to marry so... It would be dumb to get married to a person and not be familiar with the culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 10:20 AM
1

I usually don't read these...but I ended up reading it since I didn't know any better,thinking the story would have more depth and because one of my favorite vocalists from one of my favorite band wrote it. It consisted of "parties" constantly being held at an abandoned church and explicitdetaiks of what went on. I was really disappointed. Like in every chapter thats all there was in every chapter. Lacked lots of depth. It was exactly that. Male centric and no foreplay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 06:42 AM
104

In his mind he thought he already had her.lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:41 AM
2

Yup and you know if they were able to comment that's all they'd be saying besides "WoMEn Do iT tOo"... when we aren't even talking about men experiences. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:30 AM
17

And then the ones that know (being willfully ignorant) would disagree with you and not see that most men are problematic. Also truth be told those are the same ones who are also problematic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:12 AM
26

My bad..I didn't know what that last phrase was,so I looked it up. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 08:00 AM
81

Right, its nice not having to worry about someone making a joke completely irrelevant to the conversation. Like at least make it a worthy segue..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:32 AM
22

The mask will drop sooner if he doesn't know your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:10 AM
12

I want one too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:07 AM
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To add, its really nice to have a women's only space because we know we're more attentive than men. Like everyone here actually reads everything a person has posted, not cherry picking/ leaving out details in a sentence. It's nice to feel heard. Edit:spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:55 AM
15

Damn. Checkmate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:04 AM
2

I'm mentally detached if that makes sense. Like everytime I have even an inch of attraction, it quickly goes away when I think about what problems said guy might have,or all the past experiences I've had with "dating". Or all the horror stories that I read here, and know that someone actually went through that with a guy. All of that "attraction" goes out of the window. Knowing that more disasters awaits if I even think about it. Not to mention I don't find many attractive.. Probably only find l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 08:02 PM
34

Maybe? I mean he's always talking about "winning" and nft and stuff like bitcoin is the future...lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:25 PM
69

Oh wow you're right with that "missing out on fun" part. He really did mention that quite a bit now that you pointed that out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:27 PM
32

I'm just so disappointed man.. I guess I'll unfollow his Facebook now..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 11:50 AM
103

I wouldn't be surprised if she helped tremendously. That's interesting too because he always implied how self made he is with his business..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 10:48 AM
4

I used to lurk on the subs and they still failed because they would talk about paying for escorts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:36 AM
6

I'm already a year in,way ahead of them.. lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 08:05 AM
22

Absolutely, they think because its legal its okay.Just because its legal doesn't make it moral. Just because you can doesn't mean you should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:50 AM
111

Awe man..not Gary Vee :\ Welp can't say I'm surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:42 AM
16

And these generations of "men " they won't change it because it benefits them and because they are afraid of other men to even make complaints about the parts they don't like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:29 AM
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This. I didn't really beg for attention but I was the one to pursue the first person I actually "liked". My situation was a bit more complicated. Since this person claimed to be "gender fluid" but they went by she something and they were poly and had mental health issues,claiming to have multiple personalities. Oh they were also into Bdsm stuff and they were poly... yeah. It was so much. I stayed talking to them longer than I should because it was the first time I actually felt something for som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 05:08 AM
16

Yup,because if he gotten her,then he thinks he can do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:50 AM
22

Exactly, to add I think its a side effect of being gaslighted for so long. Like in the back of our minds we know something is wrong and we're trying to figure it out. Over and over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:38 AM
10

Why did he mention wearing black eyeliner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:28 AM
2

Lucky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:41 AM
2

Mental gymnastics. I think they think its a "hate group" because we are putting our wants/needs first,also we often share our unfortunate experiences that we have with men..maybe this is it? I know,I know. I shouldn't be trying to rationalize the irrational,but maybe this it ? Whatever is the case why they think this. It's far from the truth, especially if we're still talking about dating them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 05:40 AM
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As I look back at all the male "friends " I had. I've realized that they all made a move in some way...even if it was in a "joking"way to avoid rejection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 04:13 AM
5

It's ALWAYS the ones skipping leg day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 12:28 PM
14

Wtf!? Guys literally have lots of testosterone (which is literally like a cheat code) to be able gain muscle! Like, you know its bad when you have A natural advantage at something and don't take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 12:26 PM
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True,well put! I'm not ready to go dumpster diving again anytime soon, but I'm glad fds can be used in all relationships in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:53 AM
1

Sounds like Runescape. God knows I miss that game,its not what it used to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:37 AM
12

Exactly! They'll look up cheat codes, how to use a character's combos (fighting games).. you name it. But they can't look up how to cook or clean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 06:16 AM
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It's like this. Every.Single.Time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:30 AM
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Whoa..you must have made him feel like major crap,sounds like a super neg!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:26 AM
176

Right,they are only looking for if the woman benefits them. To add they forget outliers,like the fact that she will still get attention for being waay more attractive,which in turn will make him more insecure (than he already is.) Which would mean his plan to use her as an ego boost would just backfire. They really don't think about the other side of the coin, so it seems. Only how they expect their fantasies to go. Until they realize it doesn't coexist with reality...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 05:23 AM
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Exactly! Someone's said it! People know within the first few minutes if they're interested in someone...not a year(s) later..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:17 AM
9

Right? They are the types to read word for word out of a text book, with no paraphrasing. I've found people(usually men)being this way to are the ones trying to come off as really smart when all they're doing is spewing word salad..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 10:25 AM
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I dated someone like this...then they would kind of laugh afterwards after it happened so many times... I also knew I was dating down. I went for the "nerdy" type and I think they mistake being mean for being cool... ugh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 10:21 AM
10

Yes,everytime...they're so immature. Its like they never left high school mentally..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:50 AM
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What a combo made with so little.. Edit:word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 05:45 AM
3

That's right! Queen Elizabeth I vibes!! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:50 AM
8

Exactly, where I live they just aren't that many that are attractive to me. I feel like I shouldn't tell though. I've dated,but haven't been in a relationship. I'd just say "it didn't work out" and leave it at that. Then if they pry I'll know to next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:09 PM
10

Thats true. I wasn't sure,but this confirms my thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 10:34 AM
7

Also, you know why I think some will textwhile not making an effort? I think they are trying to check if you're still on their "rotation" until all of their choices that they may have run out,then they want to circle back to you when they have no other options left. I hate this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 08:39 AM
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I am waiting for this. FDS artists where you at?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:46 AM
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"BuT At LeAsT YoU HaVe OpTioNs" 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:45 AM
23

I have another thought, likee what if you've never been in an actual relationship? Should you tell him? I feel like this also applies because on one hand he could take advantage of that and groom you for abuse if he's Lv, and on the other maybe not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:34 AM
5

I have a cousin that didn't brush his teeth on weekends....yeah..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:55 AM
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Yup. I remember getting a tattoo from the same tattoo artist. He shaved his beard. I didn't recognize who he was until he told me. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 03:50 AM
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First person to find a male being told to "LoWer YoUr sTaNdArDs" gets an award. Besides that, I'm sorry OP, they're cruel because they're playing follow the leader within their group, because it benefits them to try and keep us down.( Patriarchy). Notice how they said(Read your post)."lower your standards " they want women to do so,because they always want women giving them a chance when they don't deserve one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:25 AM
7

This needs to be upvoted more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:00 AM
17

Yes,just one word hiding behind the other. Ha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 05:14 AM
39

Can confirm. One tried to school me on how to write rap music...lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:32 AM
92

Yes,they're really out here without a thought and mindset of their own. Like I can't count how many times I've seen guys say the same things,in the exact same phrases. It really is like they are reading from the same book or something... or is it some sort of unspoken "brohood" that they go by and conversing in the same fashion as a part of it? Idk.. Edit: Comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 08:12 AM
42

Well put. 🏆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 07:43 AM
48

Ok. Most of these things only work in movies and for teenagers...and maybe for people in a well established relationship, who've already and still do high effort dates in the mix. Otherwise I'd say maybe its too much make believe that some women would settle for these to be first dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:38 AM
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Right. You also can't have feminine energy thrive in a world where its always, in every way, shape, and form sexualized. I wouldn't mind showing that side of me,but this world isn't ideal for that. I'd only get harassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:15 AM
18

Can confirm! I blocked and deleted a guy from my phone and he came back trying to talk to me from 3 different numbers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:13 AM
20

For me,this is why I have no interest in dating significantly taller guys,or guys who are in any "protective " services. Yikes. Edit:spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 05:20 AM
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Its funny how this scrote didn't project like most do. You know darn well if a neckbeard ended up a bodybuilder somehow, his confidence would automatically catch up with his brain. 🙄 Like why would there not be a parallel with a heavyset woman getting into shape?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 01:14 AM
1

Pick up artist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:43 PM
1

But its so immature for them to do that. When they could have ended things so both parties can move on quicker. Seems like a manipulation tactic to still use your time and energy in small increments before they actually discard you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 07:36 PM
16

In that case, "Geee I can't stand a lot of money! I hate it when I spend money and still have soooo much left of it!" 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:51 AM
8

This! They fixate on saying the right things,but don't make sure their body language and other actions match. Easy giveaway!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:30 PM
12

I mean, I worked at a fast food place and a guy was throwing a mantrum because he had to wait for the apple pie to finish frying...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:56 AM
49

Its to keep you from reacting the way you ought to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:49 PM
3

Sometimes they ARE the demons..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:46 AM
3

I got sad but then started seeing red..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:08 AM
5

I've actually seen one that looked like that..it was really strange.😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:45 AM
3

I've picked up on this too. Nowadays I am more likely to say that I don't care,or its not about what they want me to do. Reminds me of when people say "Do you know what I want you to?" Especially when its a decision you have to make for yourself and that's all about you. I just find it so repulsive, especially if I just started talking to this person. Like you don't know me from a hole in the ground. I remember when i was doing OLD and was talking to this guy about why I stopped talking to the p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 06:13 AM
21

Oh for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:30 AM
91

Intermittent reinforcement?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:51 AM
24

Or they cherry pick post on here that doesn't represent the sub the best and go from there..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 03:21 AM
16

Right? I was so focused and hoping for the part where she got away. Thank God!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 01:50 AM
13

I figured. Is this also why hug around the next instead of waist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 01:08 AM
10

Their only remedy is mostly to dress better and hit the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 10:51 PM
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I've been waiting to say this: They don't care about their own mental health to do anything/much about it,(More than likely relying on outside factors only to improve this). They are literally the members of the group who shape society and they won't complain to their fellow male members to change anything,instead they rather complain to women about their feelings because its easier, because we do all the other things they don't wanna do.(cook,clean,watch kids,book appointments..) They.. rather …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:22 AM
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Just like when women have bad experiences with men they wanna say "stop choosing the wrong ones" and victim blame.I mean,in that case theres a heck of a lot of bad ones..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:13 AM
18

This! Quality of life is always there to be found.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:04 AM
54

Eh, I'd rather work 2 jobs again no problem!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:26 AM
33

I just came to the realization that men will use anything to weaponize... Even something as simply as one word,like "thank you". To shut you up and dismiss what you say for example... I could go on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 01:02 AM
13

This was frustrating to read,I would have block mid conversation. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 12:55 PM
18

ME TOO! You're not alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:07 AM
10

Can confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 12:16 PM
5

Ah,okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:49 AM
9

Why woukd someone want to keep people away while eating? Let alone eat hunched over?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 07:04 AM
12

I hope our numbers turn the tide..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:56 AM
16

Imagine if every LVM was called out like this as a collective...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 06:27 AM
16

I noticed this too, but I also noticed this when its a women playing around with a man. Not when it's another man playing around with another man. I remembered when there was a post where a friend was making a rap,like a "diss track" kind of thing, and a friend of a friend seemed to start to take what I putin my "rap" seriously once i jumped in.When it was supposed to be just for fun. He started lecturing me on cadence and how what i was saying was cliche..(like who cares it was just for fun). L…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 09:33 AM
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Life is getting better and better as I get older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:13 AM
27

Even before fds I knew to ask myself at least half of these questions. But deep down I knew the answer and was afraid to actually exercise those questions. I was afraid of that answer. So didn't put asking those questions into practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 04:50 AM
10

Ah,this is probably why one would begin to have resentment for the other person! Betraying ones boundaries while being mentally abused by the other person. Double whammy. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:41 AM
9

This! I had this happened to me to! It was like something I said to entertain the thought,you know like you're saying something for the sake of conversation,something hypothetical because the topic was interesting. Well he didn't understand why I said, what I said,and he kept making a big deal out of it. So when he kept bringing it up fixating on it, it turned into argument somehow, then I was scrambling irrationally come up with an answer so he could stop frantically trying to argue about it. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 12:36 AM
11

No lies were spoken!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 11:29 AM
25

Been there..dated a guy that was a virgin at 25. Dated him for two weeks slept with him too soon,(pre fds,I was in a bad place mentally and thought I could "inspire" him). Oh and I also fell for those OLD "success stories" about how they slept with a guy after a few dates and been with them for years and married. 🙄😬 Also I knew he was loser even before fds and thought before he was just an "underdog ". Bad mistake.. he was talking about how he was salty towards women(i dont know how this is rele…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:36 AM
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Yeah I like the nerdy type too. Definitely hard to find some to date who worked through their past..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:16 AM
22

Yup,yup. This is how I felt after watching some videos on topics about incels. Like I literally needed a break from it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 12:13 AM
2

If the shoes fit, lace them up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 11:08 PM
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This!! A thousand times this. Also why i hate it when people say "you're never ready to have kids" but then when I say "you can be financially ready though" That shuts them right up because you know most aren't that type of ready when they could be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:53 PM
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"Should have had 3 kids by now" = "I should have baby trapped you from leveling up " 😒🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:01 AM
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You know what I thought about to add to this? I have an inkling that they'll lie to other people about how long you two have been together to save face...Like if you were only dating for two weeks,they'll probably say a month or more.. Edit:spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:59 AM
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Right. I even gotten "you should be nicer" pre FDS.And I know for sure that boys weren't ever told that. Female conditioning is one hell of a drug. Then even when I was "nice" I still felt like I was doing myself a disservice.(I was)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:38 PM
4

Exactly...since the percentage of men who watch porn is so high,I'd just go into assuming that they do.Saves me from lots of anxiety and other mental work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 06:43 AM
9

Google the statistics...you'll probably be devastated like I was...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:30 AM
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And I'd like my money up front too.Ha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 04:23 AM
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All I see is red.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:35 AM
3

Yes. I learned my lesson that day 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:47 AM
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Every.Freaking.Time. Good thing too.haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:44 AM
21

Never again right? Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 12:43 AM
21

I would try to avoid questions that could be answered with just a "yes" or"no". Like have questions they'd have to explain in detail for starters..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 11:01 PM
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Thats it! OLD has always been lukewarm, I'm just so done with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:50 AM
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True. But even then,if they're still obsessed with you,all they'd have to do would be make another account and message you.(If they're able) I am done with OLD to say the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:38 AM
21

(Also for the sake of conversation) He was the typical jock kinda guy. I wasn't really interested in him to begin with,I was just wonering aimlessly on OLD.(pre-FDS of course) Glad I wasn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 08:34 AM
1

But we all know the body building and physically participating in sports usually don't last with many..Those are "the glory days "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 07:39 AM
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Reminds me of the time I was talking to a guy for 3 days and evey time we'd plan to talk on the phone,he'd push it back to the next day. So on the last day of me talking to him, I was preoccupied with other things and it waa about shy of 30 mins of the planned time we agreed on. So I told him that I could talk now that I am available and I suggest we talk now that I am able to,before to gets too late,andhe told me I was giving him a stipulation.. (whatever that means). So I blocked him and here …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 04:22 AM
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Classy..(yuck)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:38 AM
2

Even though I didn't initially believe the loser I was "dating" said it still hurt. Like it wasn't solicited advice it was pure projection and of course wasn't in good faith. So in a way being vulnerable with said person and getting hurt made me end up almost believing what was said. Hope this made sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:39 AM
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I've been saying something along the lines of this in my head for the longest,and you've put it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 08:13 AM
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Sounds so familiar. Also,many men will get with any woman and think they can neg their way into making you who they want you to be. :\
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 07:32 AM
2

Its because its pizza,doritos and mac n cheese. Oh and hamburgers. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:57 AM
2

Pretty much me.. haven't spent much time on online dating or actual dating period. Never had an actual relationship..I guess its why I fell victim to the obvious red flags,also just for the sake of "catching a high " or wanting to be "exclusive ". It was so not worth it. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 06:44 AM
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Exactly my question. They wouldn't be able to say much given that we've heard all of what they've had to say since forever. Also they aren't women and wouldn't be able to relate to many experiences that comes with being a women. There's nothing new for them to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:53 PM
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Well put! I am curious to see the difference. I have compared a few men only Subs and I notice how attentive and consistent women are in discussion compared to how men are. I noticed that men tend to joke around in the discussion and get off topic.Then for every comment,I'd say about out of five comments only one or maybe two would be relevant to the discussion itself. Edit:words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 06:25 PM
45

Bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:43 PM
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You have said it better than I ever could. One more time for the people in the back!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:40 PM
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Pffft, Meanwhile I bet that guy couldn't decorate his own place to save his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:35 AM
8

When I read what you put,the first thing I thought of was the saying. "Success is a lonely road" I don't know if that helps,but also I think that it may not seem like it right now but things will get better. Especially when you're on the right track. Also,can I ask what instances made you connect the dots when finding out about being diagnosed with autism? I feel I may have it too and was wondering if I could relate.. Edit:spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 07:29 PM
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Sorry..I had to look up what does any of this have to do with a Greek god.. But anyway, nobody should change the way they look for a bunch of parasites anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:24 PM
10

Darn,this reminds me of the time I gave a loser a chance. (A very short lived one at that.) Had a similar experience of exchanges where everytime I'd talk to him I'd always feel bad,never left feeling good. Not to mention the time he tried to tell me that I had to work on my social skills he was like "Looks like you have a lot of social development ahead of you " Mind you HE was the one diagnosed with autism... If that's not projection..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:46 PM
28

This is why I say, men and their ego stick together like white on rice..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:36 PM
18

🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔 Bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:51 PM
43

Reminds me of a guy who only had interest in BDSM. Then when I tried to change the topic he barely reciprocated in any of those topics. Talk about being one dimensional. Edit :spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 01:13 PM
28

And they know since girls are starved of real affection from males,men know they'll accept the breadcrumbs and think that it's the best thing ever. The bar is really low..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:15 PM
5

Been there, done that. It doesn't work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 12:33 PM
10

Yeah like a camerawoman or editor (which I have actual experience in) hehe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 08:40 AM
14

Ooh if FDS ever does I want in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 07:31 AM
23

I've had so many moments of alooking- out-of-a- window moment,where it was also my wtf moments.Almost every.Single."Date" I've been on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:44 AM
29

Don't forget, they have to go through us get to "The legacy "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:38 AM
10

Exactly! They're looking to gamify. If its not a competition or challenge it isn't appealing. Especially if the women is willing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 04:26 PM
3

Don't forget about how they hog up the upper body workout machines and dumbells. Like I wanna be stuck doing cardio the whole time. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:37 AM
3

I think too many think dating is like a movie or sitcom. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:27 AM
9

I'm really curious how this actually played out in a sentence. My brain hurts. Haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:19 AM
97

My thought was that more men probably get off on getting a women pregnant when shes not expecting to, or when its r*pe. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 09:13 AM
3

Yes and protect those rights at all costs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 08:13 AM
28

Im so glad romantic relationships aren't a must!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 09:17 PM
15

Good. I'm tired of dealing with a limp noodle. Tbh,I don't think I've ever really experienced a guy get hard. Even if it was "hard" it still felt limp.🤮 Please stop the porn use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 07:18 AM
1

I know this is late,but thanks for the gold!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 07:21 PM
12

I would've circled the block and delete in red. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 03:25 PM
12

They don't. Do you also want to know what they do instead? (Maybe y'all already know and have experienced this) Stare at you from afar, then walk in your personal space but don't say anything. So annoying...like what happened to complements? Then again they know they better not "shoot their shot" because they know they aren't getting crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 01:30 PM
44

I had one have the audacity to show me a saved picture of the "one" he wanted an actual relationship with from a dating app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 01:25 PM
144

Yes. I've realized this year that a women automatically brings value to a mans life by default. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 01:07 PM
19

Never give the benefit of the doubt. It has never benefited the one giving it. Ask me how I know...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 09:34 PM
10

Plot twist..(maybe) a properly diagnosed neurodivergent who IS shitty towards women..... I dated one,unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:06 AM
7

Right? Like I only have so much imagination before I run out. Then don't get me started on sex with them..its painful because I cannot get aroused.. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:02 AM
3

This is about 85%-90% percent for me... these days I see it as a blessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:58 AM
5

Don't threaten us with a good time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:54 AM
26

This reminds me of the people at work who don't like you for something,and they want to use something work related to express that . On a side note, I like the wording you used to describe/suspect the real reason behind the towel. I have to remember now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:40 AM
21

Right? Like give me an ounce of his confidence and audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:58 AM
65

$500? This isn't the 1800s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 01:56 AM
8

No. Run. Ask me how I know you should..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 02:00 PM
11

(Not related to the convo...but) I recently found out I'm a descendant of the Yoruba people in Nigeria. Aye!! ✋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 04:54 AM
6

I threw the whole man away. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:51 AM
22

The logical sex strikes again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 12:49 PM
37

I usually see men eyeing them, and it pisses me off just like it did when it happened more with me. But if there was a scote to try talking to a girl two times younger, my protective instincts would definitely kick in as well... Its like I get this laser like focus, with this tunnel vision all of a sudden, when I'm in that mode.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:06 AM
71

If anything,I get second hand anxiety when I see a young girl,in what looks like a situation that I've been in with creeps around their age.😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 02:47 AM
20

Contempt. Contempt, Contempt,Contempt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:28 AM
13

Right? I've watched it ever since it first aired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 01:26 AM
29

I've never had seen such contempt in my life..until then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 08:17 PM
59

Especially the ones that finally are given a chance, that didn't get one when they were in school. So,when they finally do,I think they take all their frustrations out on their "firsts" and mistreat them for "revenge".🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 07:06 PM
206

Yup so true! I remembered so-called dating this loser who would put down everything that I liked. I remember watching spongebob at his place and he was looking at me with so much contempt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 04:40 PM
26

They think we're NPC's and we'll believe that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:12 PM
13

The part you mention where men start to finally iron their clothes, shower, etc. Reminds me of the meme where it shows a rotten apple on the inside, with the golden coating. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:41 PM
31

Not only that, but more than likely the average also watches porn,sports and plays video games way too much... I looked at the statistics of how many men watches porn and I am disappointed. :\
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:32 PM
130

Don't forget: -Nerdy guy gets popular girl Classic..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 04:39 PM
1

Right because someone had to watch kids while they worked on whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 03:20 PM
14

Are you sure you were r*ped? I bet they'd go this far with the disbelief,since it doesnt seem too far fetched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 06:22 AM
1

Please don't tell me its Ontario.. ( I dont live here of course, I know not to disclose super personal stuff).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:51 AM
1

But hey, this is a good response for the ones who usually won't take no for an answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:49 AM
5

Yup,like how can we have life on "easy mode" with getting sex,but then also be an incel. Which one is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 01:47 AM
2

Check out Equilibrium!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:52 PM
1

Thanks..those were some trying times.lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:37 PM
1

I also listen to metal.😄 I feel the same, I'm actually happier as an adult.lol Some of my favorite metal bands is a band called Crossfaith .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 06:35 PM
13

Right. Like I thought that music's universal what happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 01:51 PM
44

I remembered being in school wearing my AFI shirt walking through the hall. Then I overheard some boy say " What does a black girl know about AFI?" I didn't say anything, just kept walking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 01:29 PM
29

Someone said the same thing on the fds YouTube channel and their response was that it was made by men,so they have a right to be invasive. 🙄😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:43 AM
109

It's funny because they say the same about us being the same. But they aren't? Like I bet money the vast majority use video games and sports to help define their personality. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 02:02 PM
35

Ooh I'm glad someone brought this up. Yeah I've always called them "College Bros" idk if this is a term already, but basically they're called this because they haven't left their fratboy college days or mentality..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/21 10:32 PM
7

Or everytime you CoMunIcAte you're always told "that's not good enough " or "that's not a solution ". Meanwhile they aren't doing anything but making those comments, complaining like the man-child he is Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:48 AM
11

I think a good example of this is when, in the heat of the moment in the middle of an argument they want to ask. " When was I wrong?" Or " Tell me how am I wrong?" Because they know if they were to ask that at the beginning of the so-called discussion, you would be quick to answer that when your thoughts are clearer,and you know they are wrong about something(intuition doesn't lie)even if you couldn't think about it at that time in the heat of the moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:17 PM
4

I'm so tired of the lEgAcY, like it should be more than leaving a child behind long after you're gone, and barely contributed to taking care of anyway.lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:05 AM
20

I don't get why they are willing to mix their DNA with women, but refuse to marry them...not to mention having kids is waayy more irreversible than marriage. 🙄 Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 03:59 PM
52

This comment is everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:43 AM
2

Or "Sorry you feel that way"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 11:31 PM
64

Yup. Also they can't even clean up after themselves.lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:18 PM
24

Even though there aren't women only services you can favorite a driver and have them for a scheduled ride at least,if they are in the area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:55 AM
8

And this🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:48 AM
7

I don't know it this is relevant to the post..but I am a vocalist and bassist for my solo project, and one time a guy from another band after I was finished with my set asked "Did I do anything else othe than vocals? " ...But they know darn well when its a male vocalist they don't ask this. *cue in the eyeroll *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:52 AM
9

This twenty something is also rolling on the floor from laughing too. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:44 AM
59

I guess this is also why they won't give out compliments anymore..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:56 PM
47

I had a guy text me from 3 different phone numbers pissed because I stopped messaging him. I was only talking to him for about 3 days.. We never met in person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 11:50 PM
40

Or when they fact check you for everything as if you couldn't possibly be right about anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 09:25 PM
12

Never had a job in his life,doesn't know how to cook anything except hamburger helper,pizza and mac n cheese,played video games all day,his mom still booked his doc appointments for him... I almost forgot he was 25 and not 15... yuck. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 09:23 PM
37

Can we get an update on what they said about the questions? So curious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:40 AM
130

No matter how attractive you are or even if you are their "type", you can still be used as a placeholder because they think they can always do better once they get what they want. Almost everything most men do is a power game,(a game in general), manipulative, and most tend to operate on ego..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 09:28 PM
12

I've worked 100 hours before,within the same pay period,gotten some chores done outside of work too and their point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 10:42 AM
10

Same. I feel very indifferent about my experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 11:43 PM
17

Ah-ha! This is probably also why they always have this unnecessary amount of "confidence/arrogance " even if they are actually in the wrong. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 04:24 PM
46

Make her a ruthless strategist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 03:14 PM
130

Most men don't even have a skincare routine... and they think they're going to age well? 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 11:30 AM
4

Ah I remember him he started out on warped tour playing nothing but covers.🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 05:46 AM
8

Side note: I've always wondered why so many males have an unnecessary amount of confidence despite being lv. But its this, its because they know that they'll have other men cheering them on, hyping them up, and pickmes giving them the benefit of the doubt. Even if they're in the wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:51 AM
2

Let me guess...so the ones agreeing are the ones also likely to do this themselves? I'm gonna assume yes...yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:45 AM
64

Whenever there's people I find that supports polyamory,I always ask "why would I pay the price of a full loaf of bread for a half loaf of bread?" I say this because why would I invest fully into someone that's only giving me half if not less? Especially if (hypothetically) I'm the side piece and they're the ones getting all the benefits.(usually its the man with multiple women) Edit:details and if you still don't get it or agree that's fine.Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:43 AM
17

Hey does this count as a neg? (to me it does) I was in a band with two guys, and every time the other would play the same instrument as me whenever we would go to the music store, the other one would be like " I bet Antique fortune is jealous" when I was not even. Edit: spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 02:41 AM
9

"I'm sorry you feel that way" wow I heard this exact line. Oh and he never could just say "I'm sorry " or ever admit he was wrong,but then again that would be taking accountability. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:56 AM
122

I concur ! I once told a guy where I worked once and he commented "oh noo" 🙄 I mean even if the job wasn't a glamorous one (which it wasn't ) doesn't give one the right to insult it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:02 AM
87

Its even worse when you don't find that many men attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 12:17 AM
30

I actually thought of a phrase something like this. Instead its " Men get to shop,women have to dumpster dive."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 06:00 AM
18

Then they try to justify it by saying its BiOLoGy. I remember reading an article saying they stay childish longer because of the how their brain circuits or some crap. I call bs and they can miss me with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 11:58 PM
2

Seems like a common thing for guys to want to come off as "geniuses" or something ,because of their wording with things...like no one speaks like that in real life. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 07:09 PM
35

Thats also what I come to think too. Especially learning about fds. It seems to me like they want women to settle for less..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 01:01 PM
14

Yup,for me something like this has been happening a few times ever since the height of covid. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 05:02 PM
61

Oh I came up with an answer.. " It's because I don't want to go dumpster diving " hehe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 12:47 PM
12

Like I said on another post,this is also translation for "I can dish it out,but can't take it." I find the ones who are "honest" or "brutally honest " are this too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:16 AM
6

Jokes on you,I've never been in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 07:23 PM
38

Same.I gotten some candy and a stuffed animal 😬 ... It was the first time I actually gotten something from a guy so of course it felt special at the time..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:41 PM
9

Yup from about 12 to 19 for me....then all that died down drastically. What a relief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:29 AM
7

Life has just started for me at about 22 or 23, I've felt like I actually started my " glow up" last year at 25 and I can only assume that its only going to get better as I get older. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:26 AM
237

I've seen a documentary on this situation (years ago,forgot the name) and they actually kidnap other men's wives,or go to nearby countries and pay for like a mail order bride..something like that. Its sad. Lots of human trafficking instead of them leveling up and finding someone who actually wants them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:57 PM
14

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:42 PM
55

I actually had a man-child tell me "I'm not going to grow up and you can't make me" 🤮 ...Oh and this was outof the blue too. Wasn't even relevant to the conversation. He made quite a few statements similar or say things as if I were attacking him when I was just reiterating what he said...weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:38 PM
22

Handbook material!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:18 AM
65

I'm using this next time. Good stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:15 AM
59

And don't forget that sandpaper stubble when he tries make out with you. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 05:24 PM
44

Same with them trying to be your "friend".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:51 PM
80

Most men watch porn. I'll never see men the same...good thing I find most unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 08:44 PM
16

I think I'm asexual now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 01:56 PM
50

Maybe they think, by then the women would have the case of the sunken cost syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:01 PM
11

Also especially if you hadn't openly express interest to your parents and never had an relationship...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 02:53 AM
35

Don't forget this one : Goes straight to questioning your sexuality 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:20 AM
3

This is interesting because I find when a guy calls themselves interested they always want to to talk about myself more...and even then that makes me uncomfortable because it makes me think they're hiding something,always putting the spotlight back on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:11 PM
2

Yeah true. I thought so but wasn't too sure since it seemed like a very round about way of not paying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:41 PM
4

I had spent money getting to his place( uber.) so we could go out to eat. I guess he felt bad that I spent money to get to him? But we still had a spit bill,despite him giving me the money. I won't be dishing out money to go "date" someone like how I have needless to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 10:51 AM
8

I always wanted to ask... what if he gave you money,then had you spend it on the meal you ate? Does this count as lv behavior? I had this happen before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 05:02 AM
60

And they're supposed to be the protectors.. 🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 10:15 PM
29

Too many " Wtf am I doing here" moments. Like the thought always came and I'd look out of a window or something with what I'd think to be this dumb look on my face after they said something in particular. After constantly dating below my league because I fell for the idea that the "nerdy" types would treat me better.Never been in an actual relationship. I'm retired. (From dating) for now.lol Fds is still beneficial...so..there's that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 11:26 PM
6

Oh so THAT'S why I'm not approached as much as I was when I was 18-22 ! Its like they can sniff you out when you're those ages... But it could also ve because I wear my hair short and look like like a soft butch or something. I don't know,just glad I'm pursued less by them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 02:54 AM
16

Please say psych. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:31 PM
26

I was thinking of making a post about this,but I don't know if someone already has. Glad to see that someone has mentioned it, because it does really hit home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:35 PM
22

I wasted about 2 weeks to a month on a loser and I still beat myself over it. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 03:22 PM
12

That's a better way to put it. Idk if this is relevant, but even pre fds I found myself realizing that everything men do has some sort of power play to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 09:33 PM
2

Ah,I see. It was just my first thought when it came to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:38 PM
11

Which is strange since they're the ones obsessed with it... you'd figure more would be better at it. 😶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:26 PM
17

Get the hell outta Texas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 10:45 PM
13

Garen.lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:16 AM
18

Intermittent reinforcement? Seen this phrase somewhere else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:33 PM
3

"Beware of gimmicky martial art studios" I'd like to add to add to this and say also beware of martial art studios that seem like they're teaching you to fight,when really its just really basic things without learning the technique, incorporated onto basic workouts you can do at home. Most people who aren't familar with how material art classes should be fall victim to this....even I did despite it having the word "fitness" in it. Also beware of martial art studios that only want to actually tea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 07:44 AM
14

Mhm exactly. Then having wishful thinking,thinking things will turn out better..never again. It's funny how I found fds literally RIGHT AFTER I gave up OLD... I swear it was a sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:08 AM
18

Yup.Even before arriving to the "date" I already felt wrong about the whole experience. I don't know... all those times I just felt weird. Then in the end,yes..disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:42 AM
117

Also to add, theres a difference between him just mentioning "oh I have a girlfriend" and leaving it at that. Than saying " I have a girlfriend who does this,this and that." Like is he mentioning you as your own person he's with,or is he mentioning you as a thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 05:45 AM
20

Yup,no one wants to be with a guy that only knows how to make mac n' cheese,pizza and hamburger helper who still stays with his parents at 25(and not because they've fallen on hard times)who hasnt worked a day in their lives....ask me how I know.. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:50 AM
22

Same ones who claim they like certain "jokes" or when they say something really efft up and be like" just kidding" ... It makes my blood boil.😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:23 PM
67

I can't stand those types. I'm convinced that anyone who puts emphasis on "being brutally honest" are the ones who can dish it out, but can't take it. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:15 PM
25

Oh noooo not the "J" name! I even mentioned that under another post. Omg..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 05:51 AM
1

😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:29 PM
2

Looks like a job for Scooby and the gang.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 12:06 AM
12

Why do I feel like this happens more often than not? Reminds me of a time that I "dated" a guy and left because basically he was taking a toll on my mental health, and he told me his ex left also left for mental health reasons...I wonder why.🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:05 AM
6

Same...and we don't get treated any better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 10:16 PM
11

I am black too, I definitely get what ok neighborhood is saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:38 AM
13

That's badass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 05:36 AM
14

Ooh what martial arts are you into!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 11:53 PM
63

Like I seen somewhere else..I think they put it " The lights were one but no one was home" I've seen this look too for the first time and its scary and also sad since I know the reason why now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:06 PM
15

To me this also sounds like a person who has never had a serious relationship and somehow landed one, then blew it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:03 PM
41

This reminds me of the time when I heard a guy say "im SurPriZEd yOu'Re STiLL HeRe" ...In hindsight..me too. There's a reason for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:58 PM
2

Mhm. Unfortunately there are more like that than not. It sucks. I noticed that too men are more into it than women I guess its because it benefits them more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 05:37 AM
4

Yeah,like even if God is important in your life you need other humans in it too,since we're still social beings.We still need people we can talk to in person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:15 AM
2

Because nothing is better than my solitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:47 AM
12

"All the King's horses and all the King's men couldn't put Humpty together again"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 11:47 PM
9

The nerds are pretty much the whole bottom half..sighs in estrogen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:35 AM
30

"You're crazy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 07:50 AM
9

They were probably the byproduct of the times when women didn't have a choice who they married,so those genes never went away unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:52 AM
3

Sooo glad I took up muay thai..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 10:36 AM
8

For the first one: Not just any kind of hug,but around the waist? I always hated it when guys hug women around their neck..like why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:41 PM
1

That's awesome!! I bet it was nice!! On a side note now I'm lucky to be able to go to a local gym and I'm lucky to have a female instructor!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 03:23 PM
3

Ooh yeah I was wondering about thailand and going as a solo traveler as well.I just got into muay thai and wanted to go to one of their gyms someday. I'm hoping its safe too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 01:11 PM
10

I moved out of my moms apartment and gotten my own. Also got off public housing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:28 PM
31

Oh they use their hands alright...for video games and jacking off to porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:05 PM
7

I recently dated a man-child that has negged me since day one. First I brushed it off, because he knew what I looked like before deciding to date me, just thought the comment was odd. First it was my hair "I usually dont date girls with short hair,but yours is fine". Then my voice because I showed him my music(I am an artist) and he said my voice sounded like a man. So I called him to confirm I was indeed not...still he negged and was like "ArE yOu SuRe youRE NoT A Man?" Then told me my music wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:45 PM
1

Perspective 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 07:25 PM
80

No dating anyone with the name similar to, or deriving from James. This includes Jameson and Jamie. My mom "dated" a James and he was horrible. I "dated" a Jameson he was horrible. 😒 Also I don't play smash bros or watch horror movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 01:05 PM
26

Buuuurrrn. Lol Thats what he gets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:55 PM
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