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I've never seen any add on the website. I have the app, and I can't complain about it. Everything works okay. It was strange only for a couple of days until I got used to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/22 04:09 PM
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I think they explained it pretty well in the podcast. It took a huge portion of their day to just delete all the nasty messages and comments from scrotes. Even dickpics... I mean I wouldn't want to moderate the subreddit... Must be real pain in the ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/22 10:17 PM
61

I think this happened to me years ago. Me and my friend were cool girls, well especially her, and my parents were on vacation. She wanted to have porn on TV as a background noise just for fun. I think I fried some part of my brain during that week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 04:43 PM
13

I have a friend, and her husband and her dad always fight who's gonna pay. And it was always like that, even before they got married. I definitely think it's also cultural. It's not really common here in Central Europe, that a guy won't pay, especially if he invited you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 12:40 PM
23

I live with my parents at the moment. I lived alone before, and liked it better than living with roommates which I hated with passion. But I felt lonely very often. I like the idea of someone else in their room just being there and not bothering me. I'm moving to the another part of the house with my own entrance and bathroom, and I'll have my privacy and also I won't be completely on my own. Can't wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 09:49 AM
30

These men in their early 20s are going crazy right now. I never knew they were attracted to women in their 30s or older. At least that's what I was made to believe.Well, they're probably pornsick, but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 08:09 PM
27

Yes, I really don't like metro and metro stations overall and I hate going on my own. I was sexually assaulted in there, and I have these flashbacks all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 04:23 PM
128

Hahaha. Savage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 02:11 PM
127

My mom told me they've done it to her in 90's and that all of her friends have it as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/22 05:35 PM
19

I always did and I regret it. It can cloud your judgement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 08:13 PM
22

He didn't turn HVM, but he lost some of his LVM qualities as he got older. My dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 04:30 AM
125

Also remember that many disturbing stories found on reddit are fake. That's the part of the male depravity. They get off on our disgusted reactions, so they make this stuff up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:39 PM
106

Reminds me of when I orgasmed with my ex for the first and the last time, and he accused me of faking it. Interesting that he didn't notice the other hundred times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 08:06 AM
75

Exactly. I told my exes multiple times, but they didn't care a single bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 08:03 AM
17

We were special to them. Special enough that they cannot replace us with anyone. Anyone naive like we were.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 08:48 AM
5

It's so weird that he had one child with his ex, and seven with his current wife...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 09:17 PM
18

Except it's him who's built like that, but less hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 02:54 PM
34

Is she trying to say that only "racialized" men cat call?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 02:47 PM
15

I sometimes have dreams about people (coworkers, famous people) and when I wake up, I feel like I have a crush on them. It can't be helped. I simply enjoy the feeling and I'm aware that it is what it is. Just a dream. And it fades quickly. u/wrice05 summed it up perfectly. It's probably just some survival mechanism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 02:13 PM
70

If they stopped wanking, yelling at me, or trying to touch me, that would be nice too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 02:08 PM
16

Yes, this is my workplace right now. We have male owner and we are mostly female team. Luckily, he ignores me, because I'm not a pickme, but he's very weird towards the others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 02:02 PM
107

I was that girl when I was a teen. The guy I liked had crush on another girl. Beware of the guy too. Once he "got" her, he kept complaining about her to me. Everyone sucked here, except this poor girl. Now, decade later, I wouldn't interact with him at all. Ignore the girl, and vet the boy is my advice. Avoid the drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 08:17 AM
118

I say: "I already knew that", but they pretend they didn't listen and they keep talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 08:09 AM
21

Grace probably doesn't even exist. Like 80% of the stuff that men write here are lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 03:58 PM
7

Lol, mentioning her name in every second sentence doesn't make her any more real. Oh, those redditors and their creative writing attempts always make me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 03:57 PM
61

Yeah, the same old "I love her, because she does stuff for me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 06:22 PM
8

Absolutely not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:57 PM
1

I don't even know what are thirst traps, but it sounds like I wouldn't like this behavior lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 04:25 PM
16

10 years later, I'm still not okay. At least, I finally acknowleged that I have a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:16 PM
6

Especially those posts that are obviously fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 08:01 PM
17

The racist, the agist, the misogynist. Did I miss anything else?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 06:13 PM
2

I barely watch anything else besides jdramas. Okay, I watch other shows too, but I judge everyone lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 08:35 PM
11

The way I knew who exactly you were describing. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 08:32 PM
53

Yeah, honestly, I've never met one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:27 PM
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It's definitely some scrote's "kink". Those aren't real. It's actually so easy to tell apart real and fake stories. As you said, ladies here should know it's a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 12:01 PM
37

Omg, yes. The summer version of my ex was unsufferable. He would just lay on the sofa, complaining how hot it is. I liked his fall/winter persona the best lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 08:26 AM
27

Either this, or he would completely ignore her existence. They act like crazy until they get what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 07:16 AM
145

Isn't it kinda normal to be broke at the age of 18?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 10:21 PM
24

But...but...what about BiOLogY?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:36 PM
20

I literally agree with everything. It's almost weird, but they just speak up about things I've believed in for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:16 PM
36

I'm not trying to save anyone anymore. When we talk about their issues/relationship problems I express my opinions clearly, but I make sure they know it's their responsibility to deal with their problems. If they don't like my opinions/advices, we stop talking about it. But they feel seen and validated by me, so I end up playing their their therapists way too often. I realized I don't really like it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:43 AM
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They wouldn't talk to their bros like that, would they? Of course not, because they are misogynistic pos, and women, in their book, are never right. It seems like you know your worth, so I'm not sure why do you tolerate disrespect from your current bf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:25 PM
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I'm glad there's this movement because when I was a teen back in 2005 I would rather die than show people my real breast shape. We used to hide it at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 10:56 PM
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They're projecting. My ex used to talk about how I should find my life purpose that I should be passionate about, even though he knew I already had. He was basically talking to himself, but somehow decided that projecting his insecurities was a better strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:46 PM
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The longer I'm on reddit the more I realize half of the stuff I read here is just some scrote's pornsick fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:32 PM
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Japanese women wouldn't date men who are broke. And it's not taboo to mention it in Japan. Men know this, that's why there are so many incels in Japan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 03:30 PM
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Or when they call girls women. Like the other day on TV about Epstein, they said: Underaged woman. Do you mean a girl?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:48 PM
10

I kept googling questions that no one asked, but FDS ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:40 PM
35

"I almost died, lol."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:33 PM
47

Also discussing children within a month of dating is a huge red flag. Every single one of my exes started to talk about having kids early on. Suprise surprise they were future faking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:15 PM
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Haha, yeah. My exes always went from 10 to 0 when they shaved. I always begged them to keep it. I don't really like beards, but the clean shaven look suits only to really handsome or feminine looking guys like kpop stars or Ville Valo etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 10:55 AM
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I have two brothers. You'd be surprised that men don't really brush their teeth as frequently as us. If ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:21 PM
10

Has he like...seen men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 07:03 PM
20

I seriously think there should be guards on planes. They are on overnight trains sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:49 PM
6

Angus, thongs and perfect snogging - I love seeing this refference. Georgia really had her standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:26 PM
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I used to work 13 hours a day, commuting for another 2, I had to wash feet of 100 people per day, my hands were literally bleeding, all of that for riddiculous money, yet I never let my terrible working conditions negatively affect my relationships. What does he do?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:12 PM
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If I could erase one concept out of this world, it would be the bs about "feminine" and "masculine" energy. Can't we just be a decent human beings without these damn labels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:34 AM
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Haha, yes! When Jason Momoa and Lisa announced their split, people kept saying it's because of the age gap. She's twelve years his senior. Keanu and his girflriend have the similiar age gap, she's younger but people keep saying she looks like his mom! Amal Clooney is also almost two decades younger than Clooney but people praise him for not having 25 years old partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 07:23 AM
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You aren't his girlfriend. You can date other people, because you're just friends at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 10:17 PM
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I wonder if a person typing this was young. Sounds more like some middle aged scrote changing the narrative about rape. I sometimes check on young influencers in my country. They sexualize themselves a lot, have only fans accounts, etc. but what I noticed they're extremely disgusted by catcalling, thirsty old men etc. They even run popular iG accounts where they share and shame rape/sexual assaults/ped0s. I mean, they're not absolutely lost cases.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:10 AM
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Blocked and deleted my bff of 25 years. It's easier than people think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:03 PM
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But if she asked him if he wanna have sex with her, he probably would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:18 PM
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Exactly. They act like they idolize white women, but white women are often told they age horribly compared to other ethnicities. Honestly, fuck men. Who cares what they like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:09 PM
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Here where I am it's only illegal to use it in court. And you're right that I need to get out of there asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:33 PM
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Yeah. Unfortunatelly I learned it a little too late, but I never needed to do such things in my previous workplaces. But in my current job it's absolutely necessary. Good learning opportunity I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:29 PM
18

True. I'm seriously considering it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:42 AM
67

This is happening at my work. When I do a mistake because I followed instructions from my superior, they deny that they ever said that. When I oppose, that they, in fact, said that and tell them the details about the moment they told me, they back off and change the narrative somehow. But they sound so convincing that I really do question my memories sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:14 AM
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When he tells you you're the only reason why he hasn't killed himself yet, while treating you like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:08 AM
10

My ex had like a million things that he used to say just to annoy me. Including baby talk. She really does make him taste scrote's medicine lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:05 AM
35

I sometimes wonder why men desperately want more kids. Like what's their reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 08:01 AM
119

Her insult wasn't personal either. She just insulted his wallet. Hahahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:21 AM
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Why they don't mention posts like these when they gossip about us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:00 PM
8

When I was 12 I imagined my future husband. He cooked for me. Unfortunatelly, I forgot about my dream and cooked for and with my exes. But I remembered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:12 PM
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If he married his ex instead, he would be crying about his current wife who would have "gotten away". Scrotes gonna scrote. He's doing this for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 03:23 PM
8

Imagine how many weirdos are stalking/being obsessed with famous women. What does it say about those women? Absolutely nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 10:27 PM
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True. I actually thought there's something wrong with me because my personality is nothing like those on screen character's. Then I looked around and realized that my friends aren't like this either. And you made a great point about men struggling to see us real people, not just the extention of males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:11 PM
10

Omg, are you me? I have the same person in my office and I react the exact same way to her passive-agressive responses. I just act like I didn't notice, stay on point and I'm generally nice to her like I am to everyone else. I love the fact she wants me to notice that she's being an asshole to me, but I keep ignoring it no matter what she does. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:07 PM
12

Oh, I understand. I just knew people who would react like: "What do you mean by "okay"?!! Don't you have anything to say?!!" But they were probably an extreme level of agressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:02 PM
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Wouldn't he think she's being sarcastic with the "okays"? I'm asking because people are either mistaking grey rocking for a silent treatment or communicate in a way that may infuriate the narc even more. It's so hard to grey rock a real narc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:37 AM
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Have you noticed that female characters in male centered movies have zero personality? They are either happy, sad, or worried, and... and that's pretty much it. Basically Mary Sues who are occasionally crying. I can't stand it. Those female characters created by men don't feel like real people at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 12:54 PM
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If I am completely honest with myself, I rarely really wanted sex in my past relationships. I was the one who would initiate very often. But my reasons? I was scared becase I thought we would break up if we didn't have sex for longer period of time. I was craving intimacy because he wouldn't kiss me weren't it for sex. We were in LDR so I thought we need to have sex in a short short while we actually could be together. It was rarely for sexual pleasure. And I wonder how many women who say they l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:53 AM
10

Lol, I love how he was caught lying, but asked her: "Are you serious?" like if she was supposed to know about his weird shoes since the beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 12:19 PM
9

Alcohol helps me to feel better, doesn't mean it's good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:19 PM
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And don't forget about the squirtting thing hahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:31 AM
3

Yeah, what I meant is - it's nothing unheard of. Even if it's a marketing campaign (let's be honest, like so many others), it's something people normally do. I don't know why do men act shocked when they're supposed to do something their fathers did no problem. But they also refuse to pay for dinner now so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:32 PM
8

How is that expensive for an American? I heard that an engagement ring should be worth of three monthly salaries, at least here in Eastern Europe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:49 PM
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Every single one of his exes orgasmed, except this one. Yeah, right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:46 PM
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Puberty was living hell. Honestly, I may have developed some trauma, because it was so mentally and physically uncomfortable, thanks to adults. They don't make it easier. My mom yelled out loud when she noticed I have the first pubic hair, in front of my dad and brother, and my father made fun of me that my first bra is so small. My brother said that I had period in front of our male friends. I feel like these experiences ruined my sexuality, like it was something abnormal that it had to be poin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:38 PM
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The example above is what women said about me. I'm not flirty, I'm just friendly/polite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 09:01 PM
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Omg, this is exactly what I do. My boss had a talk with me, because she heard from my coworker that I was drunk and flirting with men at teambuilding event. I started to laugh, and I told her: "I don't even remember, I was drunk. What a good memory, I had so much fun. Oh, and did she tell you she locked me in a room like a prisoner"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 05:00 PM
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I definitely experienced this from both, men and women. I was accused of flirting with men, even when I really wasn't, but of course I began to self-police myself. It's awful. Don't let anyone manipulate you like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 04:55 PM
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Of course it's a shock when she's your bangmaid and always does everything for you. If men were more independent, they wouldn't even notice they were "replaced by baby". They would cook, clean, go to work, talk to their therapist, as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:28 AM
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Not even in a "playful" way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:19 PM
25

Happened to me. He was staring at me like that, trying to hypnose me. A few moments later, he started to rub himself. We just know something is wrong with a person right away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:12 AM
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The honesty is his kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 04:51 PM
12

I didn't like that part as well, just couldn't tell why. You explained what I knew subconsciously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:30 PM
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In my case, it was the fact I got chlamydia from the second hook up I've ever experienced. I did use condom of course. Well, it didn't matter in the end. Then I never did it again, and I don't plan to change it. It's just too risky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:32 AM
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They are pickmes. But they want to be picked by their sons. Women should unlearn their pickme behavior before having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:42 PM
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Reading this type of posts make me realize over and over, that my ex was fucking horrible person. Like, who would do this to someone? That's some vile shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:42 PM
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True. My 20 years old brother and his peers do this, and I don't know what to think about it. It's almost like they don't have feelings at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:30 PM
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Well, who cares what they think? I block them for me, so they wouldn't be able to reach me and stalk me, not for them. I'm not "teaching them lesson", neither I play it cool. I simply don't care, and want them out of my life. And it works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:27 PM
14

Exactly. OP, keep vetting ruthlessly! I'm not saying he's LVM, but...really, keep vetting. Also, what he does, when he's bummed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 05:36 PM
9

Yeah, but still, if you compare those two scenes, why they had to change it for the show? It's still weird, even without the rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:09 PM
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My opinion of him changed after he starred in Aquaman. He got weird vibes since then, I don't know why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 04:07 PM
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The last time I've seen my ex, I developed catathrenia, which is similiar to snoring, but sounds more like heavy breathing/moaning in my case. It started immediately when I spend my first night with him after longer period of not seeing each other. He moved to different room, and he couldn't stop bitching about it in the morning. He sounded really angry and annoyed. It continued for week we spent together, then I went home. And it dissapeared and never returned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:32 PM
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Shoveling is so damn hard. More physically demanding than it seems. It also takes forever. He's sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:34 PM
143

Well, that wouldn't have happened if he at least paid for a hotel room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:32 PM
114

Damn, he was projecting so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 10:31 PM
8

And it doesn't help that he reminds me of the guy who killed his wife and young daughter, here in my country.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 12:30 PM
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Absolutely. And he replies using his multiply alt accounts. Scrotes are pathetic enough to actually do this, so I wouldn't be surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 09:27 PM
43

My ex was such a LEM, that I was sleepy just by looking at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:03 AM
41

"Maybe one day when I look back, I'll be so grateful that I didn't give up on him." Haha. Hahaha. Hahahahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 04:52 PM
8

I had a friend like this, and she always hooked up with men who had beautiful girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 08:54 PM
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He should protect his daughter instead and not act like a teenager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 10:21 PM
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No, they never do because a. they're blocked, b. they are scared I'd ignore them, which I would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 06:53 PM
15

I was travelling with my ex a lot, and we almost never had sex during our travels, despite being in tropical paradise, and other super atmospheric places. As you said, what a waste. I often thought, what a waste of my young and pretty body, and all those amazing places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 11:52 AM
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I have a married friend and I visited her and her husband the other day. He got fat since they got married and developed a beer belly despite the fact he's only 32? He makes fun of his stomach, like if it's a cute thing. So he was laying on a couch, slapping his stomach, and making fun of it. I looked at him pitifully and said: "Such a shame."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 09:33 AM
14

Why do you think it's better to make it seem like you're less wealthy than you really are? I personally think the same. I noticed that my superiors at work treat my coworkers with financial problems differently. Like if they could do anything they want with them, because they assume those people really need the job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 12:32 PM
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I blocked and deleted my ex best friend. She was mean in a "It was just a joke" way for years Sometimes openly hostile. She didn't like it and tried to message me from different accounts until she gave up. Today I met a friend who told me that she keeps harassing our other friends in the exact same way. I'm so glad she's out of my life. I never regretted it, not even for a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 10:55 PM
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I'm the only unmarried/childless person in my office and in my former friend circle. The weird thing I noticed is, that they kinda resent me, kinda vent to me, especially when they're drunk, talking about what if... They regret some of their decisions a lot. But they wouldn't confess to their other married friends with kids... Well, no thank you. I used to play their therapists, but it's getting old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 09:59 PM
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Exactly. Men are simple. If he isn't a psychopath or a manipulative narc, it's so easy to spot his true colors if you stay over regularly. If he is those things I mentioned, you'll learn about it after the wedding, not before anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 07:51 AM
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A guy around 60 randomly kissed my friend at pub when she was around 18-19, she immediately vomited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 09:37 PM
13

Happened to me, but vice versa. He seemed to have a big dick, but ended up having small.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:46 AM
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But of course there's no problem with talking about vagina being smelly and gross, as in the recent post on askscrotes. And it's on front page too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:41 AM
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Same. When I was a teen, I dreamed about having sex all the time. Then I was raped by my first bf (I kept saying no and I tried to push him away but he wouldn't stop) and since then I'm not like I used to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 07:10 PM
5

I was told I was asexual by my friends too. I don't think I am, but...oh, I don't know anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 07:00 PM
42

Sounds like a troll. Especially when he mentioned his mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 06:15 PM
34

If they rape her, and her country forbids abortion, and she isn't legally able to work, or even go somewhere without men, what choice does she really have?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:20 AM
40

My IG feed is filled with them, I block one after another, but they keep showing up for some reason, I hate this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 10:12 AM
14

Wasn't it her who filled for divorce?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 05:34 AM
3

I had. They were either gays, or childhood friends, or cousins. We're not friends anymore now, when I'm an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 05:58 PM
74

My ex started overeating as well. Like he had never enough. He ate everything he touched. And when we started dating he was fit and he loved sports.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:20 AM
107

That's why LVM prey on young women. They are not experienced enough to know better. YET.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 06:15 AM
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I absolutely agree with her. Throw the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:44 PM
9

evEryOne KnOWs....is he 8?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:32 PM
11

Yeah, I know what you mean. It's like some people act goofy so they appear "younger"? You know what I mean, the "hello, fellow teenagers" situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:32 PM
25

By knowing the whole thing is just an illusion. That person you wish for probably doesn't wash his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 08:19 PM
21

It's like a pickme and a "cool girl" mixed together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 06:14 PM
38

And these two are obviously raising children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 11:54 PM
4

I'm not sure. I'm 30 and good men around my age are usually already married (because there are so rare). I don't know if I should date younger men, or divorced men, or men who are around my age, but single (it's really suspicious if they're single considering how many pickmes are out there).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:12 PM
15

Dump him yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:34 PM
21

It's just so sad and creepy. Her parents should protect her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:31 AM
34

Also, what kind of father let his 15 year old daughter to sexualize herself on IG since she was like 12.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 12:13 AM
134

They look unwell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:14 PM
37

I was so shocked and he got a new nickname after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 06:29 PM
109

Porn is porn. It's not sex. That's why they call it porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:45 PM
40

And I'm sure his character in the movie had something to do with it. If he was an asshole, he wouldn't be viewed as cute back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:37 PM
90

My parents had a friend who knew me since I was like 7, and he was hitting on me when I was around 25 and he was 40.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 04:34 PM
17

Exactly. There's a difference between trauma dumping and sharing between friends. If it's healthy, both sides feel better because they're bonding. If it's trauma dumping, both sides, but usually it's a receiver, feel like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 12:06 PM
123

Guys aren't always douchebags while describing a perfect douchebag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:27 AM
390

Trauma dumping. I thought it was soo cute he was vulnerable with me!! Not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:10 PM
77

They are so scared nobody will want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:03 PM
3

I absolutely hate what he's done to Malcolm, and I hope there will be a plotwist in the 3rd book, but the fact he fell in love with her is so creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:52 PM
4

You have solid points and I mostly agree, even thought in my opinion Lyra's helplessness is caused by the TGC's ending. Like she cannot trust her intuition and decisions anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:48 PM
2

Yes, I have, and I feel the same. I really hope the third book will be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:48 AM
17

He thinks she's obsessed with her towel, while it's him, who's obsessed with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:07 AM
7

Why would you have been happier if he never showed up? Just curious. I personally like his character, especially the way he cares about his mom. A male carer isn't very common trope, so it's refreshing. Oh, the hair color thing is really confusing. I'm reading TGC at the moment, and she's described as having dark and then blonde hair, and it's in the same book! Thank you for the recommendation, I will look at it. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:55 AM
16

Absolutely! Honestly, I think Mrs Coulter in the show is even better than her book version. I like how they portrayed her academical struggles in the patriarchal world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:49 AM
108

That's why I love His Dark Materials, finally some fantasy book series that are centered around women, Mrs Coulter/Mary Malone/Lyra are shockingly well written characters considering they are written by a man. But I completely agree with your post. Men just don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:26 AM
59

Have you seen yesterday's post about how long are men willing to wait for sex? It's not long. FDS absolutely makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 12:11 PM
32

I wrote comments in my old diary entries about my ex, and it helped me to see what was wrong with the whole rotten relationship. I cringed so hard when I was reading it. I gaslighted myself so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 05:30 PM
49

Yeah, like who are all those people? Who visits their coworkers every couple of days? Don't they have a life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 10:27 AM
48

Trust your gut feeling. And read the handbook. From my point of view, your vetting isn't obsessive, it's healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:34 PM
14

I was on the working holiday visa in a tropical paradise. I had plenty of time besides working and I could enjoy the place all I wanted. My bf back then went to the beach once, then complained when I begged him to come again. What was he doing instead? Laying on a bed, sleeping and eating. He would ask me to take a picture of him for his travel blog from time to time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:32 PM
27

So try to relax around them and stop vetting - what do you think is gonna happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 01:25 PM
6

Well, his head looks like it's upside down, he's not the one to talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:56 PM
18

I'm 30 now, so max 3-4 years I guess. But I can imagine later in life I would date younger men. Because men my age already look like they're 5-10 years older than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:47 PM
16

Now I've officially seen everything. What's wrong with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:28 PM
56

The last comment. She hasn't solved the problem. I bet she thinks about the girl every single day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:51 PM
96

There was a guy who had a crush on me, who trashed my favourite band everytime he had a chance. I made it clear that I'm not interested, and he started to date my friend. She liked the same band, and he made her stop listening to their music. We have another friend and her husband literally drives her to their lives in another countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:43 PM
68

Ah, I loved the guy since I was 12, I'm 30 now. It's unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 01:03 PM
2

No, what I meant was, they don't sit close to their SO. Always sitting with someone else pretending they don't know you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:43 PM
22

I wasn't like other girls, too. And how did I find out? They told me everytime they had a chance. Until then I thought I'm a perfectly normal girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:24 PM
64

It could be, but sometimes "cool girls" are bullied and excluded by other girls for whatever reason. I sure as hell was, and being "a cool girl" was a cope that helped me to survive my school days without any serious mental health issues. We're adults now but kids sometimes can't do better. If adult woman still preaches being "less drama", that's weird af, ofc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 12:15 PM
53

A young promising actress converted/is in the process of converting to judaism recently, because her bf, 10 years her senior is Jewish. She never showed a sign of being religious. Like at all. They aren't married, but she gave birth to his kid this year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:03 AM
8

I'm born and raised Catholic. I was just a little girl when I realized for the first time that this religion hates me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 10:58 AM
15

The spiritual movement is huge. So many women believe they have to radiate "the feminine energy" in order to attract a man with "the masculine energy", whatever both mean. It's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 01:07 PM
75

That was so kind of you, but oh, the emotional labor. Instead of focusing on your project, you had to focus on the project AND the other stuff. But I'm 100% sure you avoided a lot of drama this way. Which would be even more exhausting long term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:58 PM
25

I was talking to a male coworker at overnight teambuilding event, who is married, but getting divorced, and dating another coworker already (nobody knows that yet), and I was slut shamed by other female coworker of mine. She said that I shouldn't talk to him, because he's married. Yes, it's not worth it. But I have a huge problem to not be friendly towards coworkers, especially in the company where it's highly encouraged ("we're family here"). When I started to work there in May, I was friendly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:50 PM
125

I think if celebrity doesn't rush to get married, it's actually a HV move. Those celebs who get married after a month of dating, only to end up divorced in six months are riddiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:41 PM
5

Any advice for women who are from countries where they make $12000/year at very best?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 12:37 PM
34

I was stalked too, more than once, and the creepiest thing that happened to me was randomly looking out of my window in the middle of a night, and he was just standing there, looking at my window. That really teaches you to not trust stranger men, and to fear them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 11:07 AM
52

I was approached by a guy once, when I was still a college student. I was walking the street and he came from back (was he following me?! how long did he follow me?) He asked me if he can invite me to a coffee date. I said, no, I don't drink coffee with strangers, and I was totally allarmed about the fact he came out of nowhere. He seemed sad but I continued walking. Then I met the guy again, and he tried to apologize, I said it's okay and walked away. Then a couple of months later I met him wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:49 AM
49

They always sit somewhere else when there are more people around, did you notice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:38 AM
38

The way how people praise Lisa Bonet for having relationships with Lenny and then Jason Momoa, like it's some kind of luck... well, that's normal? She's a drop dead gorgeous woman, of course she wants a good looking man besides her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 10:28 AM
3

Surrogacy is banned in my country, and many others. It's not a norm outside of the US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 10:00 AM
0

Go no contact for a while, and see how he reacts. I would try to learn from this lesson and reread the handbook. You are probably young, we all fucked up at some point but try to not repeat your mistakes. I personally would dump him though. Because you already had sex and your perception of him is blurred.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 08:15 AM
3

"And then I cum. Hard..." How pathetic. And embarassing. When he dies, literally no one will think about him. Not even his dog. That's how meaningless this person is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:51 AM
13

Makesl sure you won't talk to him ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:16 AM
1

But then again, what's Western? Is Eastern Europe considered Western or not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 08:28 PM
0

I love beer and I'm a redhead, yeah, I think I'm the witch. 😁🍺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:24 PM
10

Yes, it is. I don't like agressive kissers who can't read body language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:19 PM
11

Hahaha, this sounds exactly like my ex. He's a Pisces and he forbid me to feel any negative emotions, because he, as Pisces, is very sensitive to moods and it makes him feel bad. Like, fuck those people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 06:12 PM
113

Or he will be like my ex who was into every single spiritual thing you could ever imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 10:30 PM
54

But all these people dropped JKR like a hot potato. Apparently, being cannibal is more acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 11:26 AM
78

He was obsessed first with meerkats, then with orangutans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:33 PM
24

When I was a teen, my mom explicitely told me I can't marry an ugly man, because I can't "do this to the kids" lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 04:39 PM
272

This guy right here is "not all men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 06:38 PM
12

Do they really believe this? It sounds like a fanfic about me and some celebrities that I used to write when I was 14.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:00 AM
50

Omg he sounds like he's a book character who everyone hates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 04:59 PM
69

He was acting tough in front of other people, with good posture, deeper voice, very charismatic, but with me, he turned into different person. He was always making weird faces and sounds. Like he literally turned into Mr. Bean or Ace Ventura when we were alone. And one more thing - he was always sleepy or sleeping, nothing in between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 04:52 PM
23

How could I forget 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 05:33 PM
58

Yeah, exactly. But more women = even more fighters, right? That's the confusing part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 02:35 PM
346

You know what is the weirdest thing? That they treat women like garbage, yet it's women who give birth to their, oh so valuable, sons. It doesn't make any sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 12:52 PM
22

Don't crush over boys, your time is more valuable than that. Don't idolize them. If you have brothers, your crush probably acts the same when he's at home (including bad hygiene, yikes). Don't be a cool girl just so he likes you, don't imitate them. Be yourself. Do your own thing. Learn about "negging" and other RP techniques, so you are prepared and recognize it immediately. Ignore the peer pressure to settle. Oh, and one more thing, when you think about romance and love and soulmates, the only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:10 AM
95

The same thing happened to me last week. A female coworker said that she can see even from far that I have one gray hair. The office was quite crowded, and she said it in front of everyone. I used to be pretty insecure about it because I started graying when I was around 27. I made my peace with it now when I'm 30 but it felt super awkward, because everyone went quiet and waited what I'm gonna say. I said I actually have many gray hair. Then she said she didn't mean to offend me. I said I'm not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:11 PM
52

I had. Ended up with STD and many regrets. Don't!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 06:42 PM
76

Reminds me of something that happened many years ago. I was around 17, and I was at local pub with a friend. There was a scrote who was hitting on me. I knew he was married and had young kids. He lured me outside and asked me if he could kiss me. I reminded him that he had wife and kids and I pointed at their names that he had tattooed on his forearm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:05 PM
34

The older I am the more they look like children. I don't believe they can't see that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 08:16 AM
92

I wouldn't say I'm not Lisa. I would think he is calling someone else, but has a lazy eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:44 AM
46

My cousin married when he was 40 after LTR with his forever gf ex. He met new woman and married. His ex is an alcoholic now. He kinda ruined her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:20 AM
7

China acts like a jealous scrote, I can't.😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:51 PM
10

Men lie to themselves a lot, and this is just another lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:46 PM
59

I had but it was riddiculously good looking Keanu Reeves lol. He was hanging there right next to the boys from Tokio Hotel 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:26 PM
49

I think one of the reason is, they don't think looking hot is "gay". They want to be handsome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/21 03:23 PM
36

I would love to make more posts in order to stop being "newbie", but I feel like I can't express myself very well with my level of English. But I comment a lot, and basically my whole karma is from here, haha. But I'm patient or course, and working on my vocabulary in a meanwhile. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 07:40 PM
15

You being scared that he may watch porn is already a red flag. You're too invested at this point. When you're too invested you start to give a benefit of doubt for basically anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 06:06 AM
47

Yeah, not expressing emotions in a relationship isn't great at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 07:35 AM
712

He calls her judgemental more than once, it sounds like his habit. Which means she isn't allowed to express other than positive emotions, that's a red flag. She sounds like someone who is used to holding stuff inside, but she can't hold it anymore due to hormones/fatigue/pain/stress etc. He "changed" because she isn't his "sweet wifey" anymore. I think good vetting strategy in this case would be having your own opinions, and expressing it whenever you feel like it. I don't think baby is the trig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 09:45 PM
361

Honestly, what he was trying to do was evil. But the sad thing is, there are pickmes who would "open up".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 07:47 PM
51

I have no idea, but every single man over 25 is balding, here in my area. While men well into 60s have full head of hair. And I agree it's due to bad habits in young age. Those older men may have shitty diet now, but they were eating healthier when young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 08:51 AM
74

Every single one of my exes started balding premmaturely and it was so sad. I even convinced myself that I don't mind. My 22 years old niece is dating a guy of the same age who is completely bald. She looks very young, like 16, and he looks like her father when they're together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 07:35 AM
4

Omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:19 PM
82

"Single is the default" 👏👏👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/21 06:50 PM
11

Whenever I needed a man, he was super annoyed by the fact I needed him. I wonder what they really mean when they say this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:06 PM
16

There isn't anything, literally anything she could possibly do to deserve such fate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:01 PM
17

He is super quirky, whatever that means. He does whatever makes you feel like you're the main character of some indie movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:34 AM
10

This happened to me the other day for the first time. I was commenting something on a sub about book series, then this guy was being rude towards me for no reason, so I defended myself, and the other guy pointed out I'm from FDS, and then of course one of them reported me for suicide prevention (their classic move). It was funny because it never happened to me, but I heard it a lot from other queens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 07:41 PM
60

Then he would be like: "Yay, we are so lucky, now all you have to expect from me is being spontaneous and lucky. Who needs a schedule anyway? Who needs planning?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:15 PM
29

I was close to his mom, but he never met my parents during those 6 years I lost to him. His reasoning? He's afraid of my dad (whom he never met) and they live far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 04:46 PM
20

Because lOvE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 11:54 AM
18

Always. I didn't know the reason behind it though. I always had to sit next to some boys. I thought it was a form of punishment as teachers didn't really like me. I was quiet and unimpressed child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 07:51 AM
73

So she just expressed her feelings of uneasiness, and he already hates her for that. I bet she always has to hide her emotions from him, or else he throws a tantrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 09:10 PM
682

My ex used to do that! He negged me, than complimented me. When we were together I thought he taught me to love myself. What a bs. And some real sociopathic shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:15 AM
78

This type of men have a special place in hell. Why won't he simply dump her? I know why. He would miss his bangmaid. But the moment he has her next bangmaid lined up, he's gonna break up with this "love of his life".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 07:59 AM
49

I don't like passive men for many reasons, but one of the most significant is that your normal, reasonable self is viewed as agressive by them. I had to tiptoe around him so I wouldn't upset him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 07:53 AM
3

My friend's husband always hated cats, a few years later, they got a ... cat. He likes to chilll with it on a couch, but other than that he always yells at it, for "misbehaving". The cat is obviously very stressed. I had a lot of cats in my life time but any of my cats would hiss at me, scratch me, and bite me out of nowhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 07:46 AM
69

I remember when I was a child and saw a porn magazine for the first time, and there was a picture of two women giving a blowjob to two men. I thought those women were paid at least one million in order to put it in their mouth lol. I was absolutely disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:37 PM
59

Even not having sex is liberating if that's what I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 03:32 PM
2

How they always twist everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 06:09 PM
12

My ex was proud of the fact he never bought me a bouquet. Whenever we passed the flower shop, he said he isn't buying anything. He thought he was so quirky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 08:02 AM
211

They are even worse. They look like 40 when they are 30, and they develop beer guts and bald spots by the age of 25. Not to mention their personality, or should I say, lack of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:50 PM
51

Why would I willingly do the hard stuff? You really won't get an award for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 09:40 PM
23

Cooking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 10:05 AM
23

If I had to choose 5 years older or younger guy, I'd go for younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 11:04 PM
13

I knew a guy who cheated on his girlfriend with a prostitute and was boasting about it. When I asked him if his gf cheating would be fine, he said he would "cut her head off" if she ever cheated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 05:16 PM
4

Same. I even stopped masturbating altogether. It reminds me too much of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 06:35 PM
6

My exes never cheated on me, but I used to be too trusting and naive, so yeah, they probably cheated, and I never noticed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 09:59 PM
12

Having a boyfriend/husband is so fucking dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 12:40 PM
15

I wouldn't mind if he could give birth to a child. And I would just come home from work, having my food prepared, and I would do nothing for the rest of a day, like they often do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:52 AM
31

I have a fairly new job, with frequent teambuilding sessions, and I pretend I don't drink. Some of my coworkers think I'm boring, but that's what I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:22 PM
3

I'm not attracted to manly men due to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 12:12 PM
3

I can't imagine being called something else. It's just so weird idea to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 03:18 PM
10

He probably still lives with his mommy who does everything for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 08:15 AM
60

"I think I'm a porn addict". "I don't see anything wrong with prostitution." "I wanna have kids when I'm 40" (we were both around 27 and in a relationship for 5 years). "I want you to provide for both of us." "I wanna travel around the world." "I'm scared I'm gonna regret that I had only two women."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 02:24 PM
5

Same. I was attracted to him at first, but he really let himself go by being lazy. I tried to fool myself, that he looked the same, but when I compared photos of him when we started dating and right before the break up, the change was signifficant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:42 PM
37

The main problem with LVM is their inconsistency. They can be exceptional one moment, and absolutely vile in next. They aren't always terrible. If they were we wouldn't have stayed with them for so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 10:01 PM
8

This is something my ex would do. Thanks god he kept his sperm for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 06:45 PM
14

Why are chihuahuas always so angry? Because they're closer to hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 02:43 PM
4

I read it like: "I need intestine therapy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:01 PM
10

He just proved our point. He obviously is a very proud scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 07:53 PM
28

Yet they jerk off to celebrities who are usually 30 or older. For example Victoria Secret's model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:59 AM
4

It's not trivial, it's rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:55 AM
26

They are privileged, that's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 08:39 PM
6

Honestly. It's like pretending you're dating a famous person. That person just isn't there and that's what matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 07:08 PM
63

I was in LDR twice, and it was living hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:53 PM
39

Back then in days when my parents were young, there was this rule, you knock her up, you marry her, no questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 08:43 AM
22

Here on FDS a coffee date is a big no. You set a standard with the first date. He learns what are you willing to accept from now on, which is coffee dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:59 AM
41

Yes!! I also noticed. He had good traits of Ron but he was much more confident, hard-working and respectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:19 AM
14

I hated that movie back in 2014 when I was a massive pickme. It's just awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:15 AM
9

I think a good example of a enemies-to-lovers plot is Professor and Inspector Murillo from Money Heist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:13 AM
35

I strangely liked Ross paired with Phoebe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:11 AM
120

Team Viktor Krum all the way. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 08:08 AM
28

Emotional labor! You put it into words I couldn't find, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:43 PM
15

I was into these things a few years ago, and I was trying hard to channel my "womanhood". I only ended up feeling unhappy and unnatural. I personally don't like masculine vs. feminine labels. I think I'm perfectly feminine even though some would say what I do is 'masculine', like being independent, assertive, courageus etc. Edit: It was back in my pickmeisha days, when I didn't like what my LVX was doing, and I thought if I was more feminine, he would act differently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:38 PM
14

I recently developed a mild crush after ten years of not being interested in anyone besides my LVX of 6 years. It's like the universe was testing me. I know for sure I wouldn't date that person, because I literally don't know anything about him except the fact he's always late. I don't like this feeling, but I keep myself busy by leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 03:31 PM
8

This would be my brother if he lived alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:55 PM
39

I've always reacted very cold towards love bombing, even as a kid. I thought I was weird and distant, now I know I just listened to my intuition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:33 PM
47

My ex never gave me his wifi password when I visited him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:22 AM
9

I watch neverending telenovelas lately, or should I say I listen to it, when I'm painting. It helps me to focus on what I do at the moment and clear my mind after stressful work day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 07:31 PM
55

The term for male Karen would be "a man".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 10:34 AM
13

I've seen an interview with her a few moments before she was executed. It was heart-breaking. This society failed her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:03 PM
15

All my exes are terrible to their gfs, if they were lucky to get one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:37 AM
4

All my friends have husbands with age gaps 5-15 years. It's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 05:35 AM
99

I randomly saw some scrotes bitching about us in another sub (the main topic wasn't about us at all, but they just had to talk about FDS), you know the usual stuff, that we are toxic femcels, old, fat, bitter and whatever, you can imagine. And bunch of lies about our handbook and principles, none of that was true. But the funny thing was, there were also people who said that they checked the sub, because they were curious, and that they don't see anything wrong, toxic or hateful about it. And th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:39 PM
27

I'm so sooo proud of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:26 PM
1

I know right. He thought it was childish to know names of my favourite band's members. 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:04 PM
2

My ex didn't listen to music and was proud of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:29 PM
2

My ex didn't listen to music and was proud of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:19 PM
9

My ex didn't listen to music and was proud of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:18 PM
73

Sis, next time when you find out that he lives in a dumpster next him immediately. You ignored huge red flags, but I'm sure you know better now. I would block and delete right away, free Netflix isn't worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:17 PM
12

This. They don't seek help because it takes too much effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 04:06 PM
22

Off topic, but I like how our user names kinda match, haha. I know what you mean, sometimes it's worth it to make them do a surprised Pikachu face😀. Especially when they are rude, and they don't even realize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:58 PM
77

I did it with my former classmate, he said: you look older now, I replied: so do you, but I would still loved it more, if I just left right there and then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 10:29 AM
79

Whenever I shared my trauma from the past, it somehow turned against me. They have this special talent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:09 PM
6

Next. All the green flags you mentioned was just talking, talking and talking some more, and no actions. You deserve better. He yelled at you, sis. Would you encourage your best friend into dating a guy who yells at her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:53 PM
64

Is this the guy they keep praising for aging backwards? Oh, okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:59 PM
10

I definitely prefer gentle men over macho types. Both can be scrotes though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 10:16 PM
249

I've never heard of hiking dates in my country (Central Europe). Is that the American thing? People go hiking as a couple if they both love hiking and it's their hobby, but it's not as casual as I keep seeing here on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:45 AM
8

The funniest thing was, she refused to talk to me at all, and talked to my mom instead, even though I was the paying customer and my mom was buying nothing lol. I bought my mattress elsewhere where they respected me as they should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 10:18 PM
21

Former doormat here. I needed to buy a new mattress so I went shopping today and my mom wanted to join and hang out with me. Here's the thing. So, my language has the so called T-V distinction, which uses different pronouns depending on the level of politeness you wanna use. You talk to children, adults, strangers, coworkers etc. differently. And there was this shop assistant (lady in her 50s) who kept talking to me like I was a child. She used the pronouns you would use when you talk to a child…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 07:49 PM
37

I read the other day that this influencer I know talked about how she let her bf wait for so long before they had sex. He had to wait three weeks. 21 days. And he kept bothering her everyday because of it of course. She's 30, a succesful business woman. He's 40 years old unemployed surfer who wants to become a shaman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:40 PM
20

That's exactly why we don't go around and talk about it. Literally no one knows my deepest and most painful secrets, because I don't trust anyone in this world enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:33 PM
5

Exactly! I hate what they did to the original red pill meaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:28 PM
4

Exactly. Some are openly spiteful about the idea of their wives and me going somewhere without them, and are super controlling, or passive-agressive when she returns home, some are more sofisticated and they try to be friends with me as well, so it's only logical they'd be invited too. Because we are "friends" now. I haven't talked to one of my friends for years without her husband being around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:14 PM
64

Scrotes usually want to join in, and their gfs are enablers. I thought that's women who want their bf to come, but I noticed lately, that men always find a way and reason to hang around with us, so we wouldn't talk about them I guess? They don't like the idea of two women freely talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:18 PM
67

I thought he was chopping wood 😂 And was like, yeah, girl, good for you!, and then I realized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:56 PM
29

I'm starting to understand Mona Lisa's feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:55 AM
10

Why they keep blaming everyone around. Why they just don't level up like we do. Many of us were abused, raped, and constantly thrown under the bus by the society just because we're born women, yet we want to better our lives, we have hope, we don't waste our time attacking or even killing people around us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 08:35 AM
38

I was growing up with two younger gamer brothers and their friends. It's something animalistic about it that I despised. They ignored their physical needs when they played. Kinda like addicts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 11:10 PM
63

It sounds like the same guy who demanded bobs and vagene wrote it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:01 PM
180

Serial killers are bad. Wow, you're so judgemental.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:09 AM
233

Exactly, to reverse the roles, I never met a kid saying that one of their parents is attractive. Kids don't see it that way, because it's...parents. I always thought it's the same with adults. Damn, this is so sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 05:30 PM
5

I read somewhere here on Reddit, that if people ask you for something they could easily do themselves, it's probably no that important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:59 PM
65

I wonder if he also says: Not all tigers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:58 AM
6

I was in a relationship with a man who had social anxiety. I as well, had anxiety, but I just wasn't aware what was going on because I had to take care of everything for him. I felt like my mental health wasn't important. I was too busy with helping him with every little task. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:00 PM
12

Oi, another man being butthurt because a woman ain't performing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:54 PM
28

How she isn't scared of him? He's literally a rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:02 PM
4

Textbook case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:45 PM
3

I met an old friend friend from high school. I met him randomly, and he started to neg me immediately. I was thinking about hanging out prior to that, but I made my decision right there and then, I'm not gonna meet him ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 03:44 PM
6

How amazing is this, plus the friend hiding in the bushes is a chef's kiss haha. Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:21 PM
13

Ikr. Not a single soul heard about FDS from me, and I'm the type who overshares a lot. It's my precious little secret. People know about my views, though. But that's it. As other comment says, it's strategic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:34 PM
5

I have an excellent role model, my mom, she's a fair redhead in her 50s, she never wears any make up, not even a moisturiser (or very rarely) or even suncreen, and she looks great, no wrinkles or anything. I kind of believe if you don't touch your skin at all, you can look as good as people who spend a lot of money on products, or even better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:21 PM
21

Men are excellent in hiding their insecurities, I knew a lot of men who were "fake it till you make it" types. They aren't even that smart often times. I know a couple, he's got his PhD, but his wife without any degree is so smart, she literally knows everything. But of course he acts like know-it-all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:17 PM
16

I made a list of stuff I wanted to buy when I was broke a year ago, now I don't want any of it, but I was so happy when I dreamed about it. And I'm also glad I lost interest in it, because now I don't posses things I don't really need. Win-win situation, haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:08 PM
41

Men badmouth other men in order to get rid of their competition all the time. I was shocked when I learned how gossipy they really are, because I also believed that men are less drama when I was a teenager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:02 PM
14

Yeah, and pandemics don't make it any easier...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 07:59 PM
79

Yoko also abandoned her daughter, who lived with her father. Yoko and John were made for each other in a way, both LVM, but John a little bit more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:33 PM
15

I read a book about John's and Yoko's relationship, really eye opening about what kind of person John really was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:24 PM
29

Porn didn't ruin men, just their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 07:05 AM
13

Me too. I even stopped masturbating since I broke up with my LVM. I don't miss it at all since then. Never happened in my life before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 10:57 AM
3

An elder couple next door I knew is a good example of an abusive relationship.The man is abused by his wife. He's clearly not okay (probably dementia) and she yells at him and cuss him all day long. But it's so rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 09:43 AM
29

Everybody decides boundaries for themselves - that's the beautiful thing about boundaries. I am like you, but OP is different. If she doesn't like it enough that she made a post about it, then she should drop the guy. Maybe he is a good person, but for someone else with the different set of boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 03:01 PM
19

When you start to get into the twin flames stuff, it's a sign from heavens to dump his ass immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 11:49 AM
46

My doc sometimes check my boobs for lumps, but so half assedly, that yeah, I feel like I flashed him for nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 08:24 AM
22

I fucking hate when they crack jokes. I wish they would stop. It's inappropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 08:22 AM
13

When I told my father I completed my masters degree, his reply was: "So when are you getting PhD." Then I went to celebrate with my now former bff, and she chose to entertain some scrote instead, while I was sitting next to them quietly. Everyone was pretty unimpressed, except me. I kept laughing and smiling. Honestly, screw them. Celebrate on your own, if you have to, and celebrate big.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 09:50 PM
13

It's like if they claimed they don't know where your belly button is. It's looking at you, scrote! Of course we know you lie about it because you are lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 02:29 PM
27

Off topic, but I'm surprised that in the society obsessed with appearance, so many women are okay with being slapped and chocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:59 AM
15

Who's gonna tell the king that he killed his dick for good?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 11:52 AM
30

Stand up comedy. That way you will learn at what kind of jokes does he laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 04:28 PM
28

If he carried around super glue in case of his gf's broken nail, that would be some HVM shit right there haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 03:19 PM
17

It's so sad that one of the grossest things I've ever seen is some poor woman's engagement ring. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 02:24 PM
19

Omg, is it anyone you know? Please ask them what it is, we are curious😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:43 PM
2

You know who's got your back? It's you, alwas has been, always will. Cliche as it sounds, but it's the only universal truth. And it's not so scary as it seems, quite the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:40 PM
31

I was ok with orgasmless too, when I had useless boyfriends. They would never touch me in nonsexual way, so I agreed with having sex almost every time they asked for it. And I tried to rationalize it, like this poor women. I'm so glad I'm wiser now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 08:02 AM
72

Always makes fun of everything? Bad in bad. He's the type who would crack a joke when he sees you're enjoying yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:21 AM
35

Thank you sis, I'm great now, and luckily, I have no idea how he's doing, hopefully won't hear of him ever again. But most probably he is rotting away somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 09:30 PM
192

Yeah, reminds me of my ex who broke up with me after I was sexually assaulted. He broke up with me because apparently I cheated on him. The worst thing about this whole situation? I thought I really did cheat just because I knew the person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:49 PM
102

Honestly, are they doing this on purpose? It's so annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 02:24 PM
13

Remember - no man will ever respect you if you play wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:56 AM
21

My ex used to ghost me, then when I finally called him, he would say something like: "I was going to call you today." or "I was on my way over, when you called me." I often felt bad, because I felt eager and only if I waited for a little longer, he would contact me first." Now I know it was all lies and some PUA tactics. He was never gonna call me or visiting me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 08:33 AM
12

They're saying to build him up, then when shit happens, they will blame you that you could have expected and prevent it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:23 PM
16

He looked at me, like if he was expecting I'm gonna tell him to pick it up. He probably even thought about his smart ass reply. But you made me laugh sis, hahaha. Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:19 PM
18

My brother dropped a piece of corn when we were eating pizza, then he dropped it again. I told him he dropped the stuff, he was like, I know, and looked at me daringly. I bet it's still there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 10:07 PM
39

It's so true that they will learn to disrespect her. I'm a living example. It's so hard to get rid of that, when I never heard my mom say a word, when he kept telling her she was stupid. When I was a teenager, I believed him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 09:59 PM
11

"Do you like pleasure, or do you enjoy feeling nothing?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 03:35 PM
46

Yeah, because who controls the narrative and put labels on everything? It's men. The type of sexual behavior he doesn't like in woman ? - asexual, frigid. Being asexual? - awkward, embarassing. They know what they do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:43 AM
9

I feel like you, and I accepted that it may or may not change in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 09:21 PM
36

Ouch. Those pictures are the opposite of sexy. They literally makes me to not want to have sex ever again lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 02:43 PM
45

I know a guy like that. He eventually sold his place and stayed at home for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 09:53 AM
268

It reminds me of so called hikikomoris in Japan. There are around million young people not leaving their house, like ever. It's a huge problem. And around 90% of all cases are men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 09:23 PM
19

Amazing women often date broke uggos, while believing they're in the same league. That's why pickmeishism is so wide spread. We think that men are better than they really are and we believe we are worse than we really are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:55 PM
26

I always laugh on the narrative that women are serial cheaters and promiscuous. They're projecting like there's no tomorrow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:11 PM
16

It's not gonna get better. It's gonna be worse. Imagine your life in a year. You will be even more repulsed by everything you don't like about him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:18 PM
20

Exactly. He looks like young Alan Harper. They say it's because he's funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:42 AM
74

It's illegal in my country, and I completely understand why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 10:23 AM
8

Exactly. They just repeat stuff they heard somewhere. Or is a movie reference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:35 AM
25

I was in LDR, and I remember my coworkers found out, and they were absolutely shocked that I didn't follow him, and that I should. I said, why would I, I finally got a good job and I'm back in school, why would I throw it away?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:30 AM
14

I did flirt with a 23 years old man by mistake (because I didn't understand what he was saying, and my reply ended up being flirty) and I felt so weird and guilty afterwards. I'm 30 too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 08:15 AM
189

And smile while showering his junk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 01:25 PM
99

Nothing, but the truth right here. Why does the nature hate us. At least we aren't balding in our 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:09 AM
60

My ex paid for the half of groceries when I cooked, but he just ate so much more than me. Like honestly, they eat a lot. Why nobody talks about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:50 PM
222

Porn always been funny looking and gross to me. All those weird angles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:15 AM
149

I said sOrRy, while explaining on Reddit, that I'm not sorry at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 07:06 PM
6

Exactly. Even though we do nothing wrong, as the other person said. I have a lot of younger male coworkers and it's just so weird talking to them. I don't know why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 06:40 PM
12

Exactly. I've been around for a year, and I never came across any post saying we should wear make-up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:28 PM
24

Omg, the dude is mad because she obviously dumped his ass. So he spreads rumours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:12 PM
48

Then there's me who feel bad if I talk to 25 year old man, while I'm 29.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:08 PM
15

Omg, this is exactly the thing I'm dealing with right now. I have a male coworker and he's very nice to me, but something feels incredibly off. I cannot put my finger on it, but I'm gonna trust my gut feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:21 PM
6

And they had allies in the form of pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:54 PM
14

I told my female boss today, that my male coworker was "upset" and "emotional" not "angry". Because that's what he really was. Even though men think being "angry" is more badass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:36 PM
6

It's not like I "grew out of it" completely, I sometimes feel like a crazy teen about something or someone I like, but the main difference is, it lasts like two days maximum. I don't know why, probably because I'm more experienced now, but I feel like there isn't anything to obsess about. Unless I have known someone for a long time, I don't assume they're perfect, and I focus on me instead, me, who I know the best and love the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:31 PM
11

The question is - what's feminine? We know what they mean by it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 06:18 AM
37

Embarassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:17 PM
27

I bet Victor is bald.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:12 PM
8

I know what you mean. It's like I was reborn. And I'm learning everything all over again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:04 PM
337

For all the male lurkers, this is what you are supposed to do if you claim: "Not all men".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:58 PM
37

Absolutely agree. If mother isn't relaxed and happy, neither kids are. That's why mental health problems are so common. A child is growing up with overworked mom, and absent father. What good can come from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:49 AM
7

I think it's different now, when they are older. Kids usually ignore stuff like that, but young teenagers may start to feel uncomfortable, especially if they have friends staying over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:32 AM
36

This happened to me. We were in the desert in a foreign country hiking, and we got lost. I wanted to go back, but he wanted to continue 21 miles long trail. We had no water and it was getting dark. Only when I started to cry he seemed to wake up and agreed to go back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 08:16 AM
39

It's crazy that these people would claim that we're mad because what they said is true, when we deal with their disrespect and mean shit. I remember I acted like I was cool with their negs and I insulted them back "in funny way" because I didn't want them to think they have the power to hurt me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:59 AM
54

He crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:33 PM
34

I think all my friends shared my personal life's details with their bfs/husbands so far. Their reasoning is, they have no secrets with their partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 12:25 PM
30

This, so much this. I wonder if they know women are not honest with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:55 AM
10

I feel like I'm being myself for the first time in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:25 AM
14

Omg, finally someone I approve!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:30 PM
7

That's why I always felt like I'm not a proper girl, when I was younger, because I always compared myself to the MPDG.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 06:08 PM
3

LVM really can sniff the insecurity from miles away, can't they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:28 PM
4

Just a little note, some of us are getting around 10k and less, as we are not Americans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:15 PM
12

If she broke up with bf, and had her dream job, that would be the perfect ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:54 PM
14

Of course he's adjusting his sleeve on his profile pic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:47 PM
119

He literally told me that I cannot expect that the honeymoon phase would last forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 04:13 PM
26

And they have the audacity to claim their partners are perfectionist and nothing is good enough for them, on top of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:27 AM
15

And they have the audacity to claim their partners are perfectionist and nothing is good enough for them, on top of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:27 AM
89

And they have the audacity to claim their partners are perfectionist and nothing is good enough for them, on top of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:27 AM
96

Exactly. I thought I hated being in a relationship, when in fact I just hate being somebody's servant. I had this mindset: "Well, I have to cook and clean anyway, so I'll do it even thought he's clearly benefiting from it.", which was so unhealthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:23 AM
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They do this to prove their point. They're scared if they cooked once, they would be expected to cook again in the future. That's why they act like they're incompetent and hopeless. It's mind blowing how they scheme everything, instead of living like adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:20 AM
26

Lol, so definition of girly men is having hair, well, in that case I adore girly men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 07:21 PM
89

hashtag feminism/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 12:56 PM
71

Lol, and did you notice how they do their best to change to the narrative that bald men are more desirable by women (they always give examples such as Vin Diesel and The Rock)? Hell, no. My ex was balding since 25 and he was really unhappy about it. I felt sorry for him but I wasn't attracted to him anymore. I think it was his insecurity that repulsed me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:50 AM
9

If anything, having multiple husbands should be a thing. What's good of one man having two or more wives, except impregnating them both at the same time? Most of men can't even take care of one woman, what would they do with two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:40 AM
5

True. We parted our ways due to FDS, because she was that kind of pickmeisha, that could be even dangerous. But I hope she'll eventually understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:33 PM
15

I wonder if men do this naturally. Because I'm sure most of men in my country never heard of PUA, but still do shit like this on daily basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:01 PM
25

The sad thing is, it often works. My former friend said: "I don't care if he's faking it, I just need the validation for once."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:57 PM
12

Happened to me as well, except he turned to me after a while and asked: "And you are...?" Not "What's your name", but "And you are...?" It was right after I found FDS so I knew immediately it was some weird neg. My friend enjoyed his compliments and thought I was jealous when I pointed out he was doing some triangulation stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:38 PM
5

"Turn off". Most men are turn off, but we still had sex with them and sometimes even enjoyed it. Or do they really think we love their beer guts and hairy backs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:24 PM
50

Mine as well. I'm shocked how accurate it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 02:35 PM
12

Oh, in your dreams...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:13 PM
4

My ex was a LVM, except driving. He was very good and calm driver, which I admired and was one of a few red flags. I don't like men that act like you described. Total red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:16 PM
7

So true! I walked out of an interview, and got a dream job a week after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:43 PM
120

Omg, I have my middle toe shorter than others, it's not bothering me, it's just funny, but when I told my ex, he would totally neg me. I did it without knowing what I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:36 PM
11

Think about it like this, even though it's painful, I know: You won't live happily ever after. This relationship is broken and you know it. If you give in now, and take him back, you'll eventually break up again and again. There isn't any other option, except...doing it now and saving your tears and time. I'm talking from the experience - I was trying to break up with him, then changed my mind, then broke up for good. The only thing I regret now is, that I should do so earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:53 PM
102

And he also got drinking problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:41 PM
35

Exactly. My ex said: "Wow, I want you to be my wife." because I said something he liked. We weren't even dating back then, but I fell for it. Of course he future faked, because we were together for 6 years, and when I started to talk about marriage, he said he will definitely marry me "one day".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:46 PM
32

It definitely should be an option and alternative, not the necessity. I wish the next generation of young women would have enough examples of CF ladies who are doing great in their lives. I also hope the stereotype of lonely crazy cat lady would die out finally. My mom always pitied single and childless women, so I was growing up being scared that if I don't have kids, everyone's gonna pity me and point fingers at me. It shouldn't be the end of the world and a huge disaster if women, for whateve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:21 PM
9

I would swear I've seen a post from one of the mods, that FDS is against OLD, it was recent, but I can't find it. I agree that it needs to be addressed in the handbook, as it focus mainly on OLD, in terms of dating strategies. I agree that commenting on various chapters from the handbook would help to keep it updated and to find out what is our current stance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:01 AM
41

I was thinking and thinking it all over again, and I get it now, even though I was kinda puzzled by the post at first. I feel there was a lot of misunderstanding on both sides. I definitely agree with your post. But I wish those who feel unwelcomed would rethink and stay (while respecting the rules). We all love this community, no doubt about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:07 PM
128

They have the audacity to claim that women and immigrants are stealing their jobs. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 03:55 PM
9

You know what's the worst type? Spiritual men with expensive tastes. They want to travel, go to ashrams etc., not willing to work for it, so they leech on relatives and girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:52 AM
28

I dated my exes because they were amazing in the beginning. I thought they were real nice guys. It's not like I wanted them or expected them to abuse me? They changed over time once they felt "comfortable with me". What are they even thinking, to victim blame us like that? Yeah, I would be at fault if I was sending letters to mass killers to jail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:45 AM
8

Exactly! The three days not shaven is my maximum. Why would I date someone whose face I cannot fully see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:39 AM
303

Haha, if he thinks the beard made him 1000 times hotter, imagine how ugly he must be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:19 PM
10

Great advices. My ex of 6 years ghosted me, and when I asked why he wouldn't talk to me for two weeks, he said that I didn't either. And asked me why I ghosted him?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 05:39 AM
16

This was my mom when I complained about my exes. She would give the benefit of doubt to literally everyone. I'm so glad I called her out on that, cause she stopped - and I thought that was impossible, but she did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:52 PM
10

Also, I think about pickmes in "recovery", and what we can do to help them, and how can they unlearn their beliefs that they are somehow inferior compared to their bfs or ex bfs, or their future bfs. Wouldn't it be for FDS and the male depravity posts, I would probably still be with my LVX and I would scream "not all men". Yes, for us, who have been active in FDS for quite some time, male depravity posts can be repetitive and "old news". But for new members, it's something that is very eye openi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:44 PM
14

It's really sad, and it happens all the time. It just shows why the patriarchy is still going strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:09 AM
29

From what I understood, it's basically because we are still dating, they believe there's no such a man as HVM. They found us pathetic because we're still willing to be involved with men. They also banned terms like pick me, LVM and other FDS terms. If anyone mentions FDS there or comes from FDS, they are banned. I followed them a few months ago but left because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:25 PM
102

I'm definitely not ready to date yet, and I don't know if I ever be. But FDS feels more welcoming compared to WGTOW, which is kinda hostile towards FDS. I feel at home here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 02:45 PM
28

Eastern European here, and I feel you. You know what's the worst thing? That my mom's priority was and always will be my dad. Who treats her like an inferior. But she would hang out with me only if my dad's busy. She always picks him over us kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:22 PM
5

Exactly. I don't like people who are always late. I'm never late. What does it say about me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:02 PM
8

"Never make assumptions." Yeah, okay, I will ignore my intuition and gaslight myself. Thank you!! for writing this post. This is super important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:55 PM
16

They want 'traditional wives', then complain about gold diggers. They are rational sex you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:49 PM
16

He wants to trap her because pp broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:41 PM
2

It bothers me why they always have to be older. Like at least one or two-three years older. It seems like it's either this, or a huge age gap. Never same age or a bit younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 09:06 PM
73

Work + hobbies + pets and refusing to deal with other people's bs. I love my solitude. It's underrated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:24 PM
35

I liked a band as well, and random scrotes I knew wouldn't shut up about it. I met my former classmate, guess what, he asked me about the band, in sarcastic way. The band I still like but lowkey forgot about, because it was long time ago. They're obsessed. They hated the fact I liked that band.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:54 PM
90

I have no idea what bad sex even means to men. They have guaranteed orgasm. What are they complainint about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 06:38 PM
29

It reminds me of those shitty customs from ancient times when everyone watched the bride and the groom having their first sex. Or some other rich guy had sex with her before her husband did. Or someone checked the bed sheets for blood marks to confirm she was a virgin, then showed everyone. It kills me how we weren't allowed to have privacy. They did everything they could, so women would feel nothing but shame from the whole idea of sex, then shamed us for feeling ashamed (calling us prude, upti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:35 AM
9

"I'm not ready to be a mom. Mom of a grown ass man."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:28 AM
3

How are you still single? Why do I have a job, and hobbies I have? Because I want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:26 AM
5

I got a new job and we go to our first team building trip. Alcohol will be involved. I'm already mentally preparing for this type of questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:24 AM
38

They probably read those articles that say you'll magically become infertile as you hit the age of 26. I remember how scared I was when I was with my LVM. I thought if I don't hurry up and make babies, I'll end up childless and unhappy. I thought that was my last chance. Guess what, now I'm almost 30 and childfree. The dread dissapeared from my life the moment I realized I don't really want children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:04 AM
8

Talk to other immigrant women from your country. You need a sense of community, you'll think more clearly and they may have great suggestions. Also please keep us updated. I know it's overwhelming, but you need to focus on the next step, one each time. So the first step would be talking to a lawyer, then you can move to the next step (which will be whatever they advice you to do).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 09:05 AM
42

Exactly. Who wouldn't love it? I would love it...if I had zero morals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:49 AM
2

From my personal experience, they don't give a flying fuck about being desired. They just wanna do stuff they seen in porn. Passion and desire isn't one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:32 PM
6

The age of consent is fluid, if you're a woman, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:16 PM
1

Imagine telling women their husbands won't have sex with them once they see them giving birth, then gaslighting them into believing they're the bad guy if they want to avoid it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:11 PM
9

Thank you so much.❤️ I hope I'll find a therapist like that someday. Especially as I was raped and sexually harassed prior and after the event I described. It's crazy how much I was able to ignore and/or forgive, but no longer. But it's so hard, as triggers are literally everywhere I go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 06:18 PM
38

I saw a man masturbating right in front of me on the subway. He covered himself from a side, so no one else would see his dick, but me. I was paralyzed and got off the train immediately. Wish I could erase that memory, but I can't, and I think I have a PTSD from it. I moved out from that quite a big city, because I can't use the subway without fear it would happen again. I go back to that day and think about what could I have done differently. I hate him so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:49 PM
7

My teenage brother's friends speak in vocal fry all the time. I thought it's just some kind of rap thing, like that's the way teenagers talk nowadays lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:36 PM
7

Imagine sleeping with 18 y.o. I would feel horrible. They look so young, child-like, both boys and girls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:49 PM
3

I sometimes wonder if the reason why I don't have any hope in men is because I was growing up with two brothers, so I know how nasty they can be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 02:44 PM
16

If you feel hesitant now, think about this - they will probably drop you like a hot potato once they get married and have babies. Save yourself time and find better friends that you deserve sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:54 PM
-2

He probably did forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:43 PM
19

I developed so called catathrenia (sleep-related groaning, causes you to groan vocally while you sleep). I kinda "sighed"? when I was about to fall asleep, I don't know why. I thought I might have had sleep apnoe or something. Guess what, the first night without my ex, it stopped like a charm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:19 PM
14

What's their point? That we should have sex with bisexual men? Or that we should be quiet about not wanting to have sex with them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:14 PM
26

Are they stupid? Why are boys more favorable when it's women who are pregnant. It doesn't make any sense. Especially historically. Ancient scrotes wanted as many children as possible - more girls - even more babies. They really don't think about future consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:57 PM
26

Omg, it reminds me of my ex asking me if I fell asleep everytime I took "too long" to reply. He was so passive agressive about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 07:26 PM
10

Can confirm. My rapist accordingly slept with 100+ women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:11 AM
129

Why do they even need us for it? They got their death grip and beloved porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:22 PM
28

To be honest, the same as there is a lot of LVMs out there, the same goes for pickmes. That's why I'm friendly to people, but I'm not craving "deep meaningful friendships" anymore. Most of my friends dropped me after they started dating and eventually married. They have this mindset that a new guy is a priority over a friend who you known for a lifetime. And that's fine, but no, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:40 AM
6

Another example of how being spiritual is turned against you by a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:30 AM
12

When I joined FDS during last year's summer, we were half the size we are today (around 80k members). It makes me so happy! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:59 AM
4

I knew my ex would never leave me even though he didn't want to be in a relationship, because he was fucking lazy to find somebody new.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:24 PM
2

Omg, I loved that movie and I remember relating to that scene very well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 08:28 PM
84

Did they forget it was women who did literally everything when men went to war, including extremely physically demanding jobs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:35 PM
50

Exactly. Japanese men are known for giving all of their salaries to their wives, only to spend their allowances for alcohol and prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:15 PM
42

You described my ex, word to word. I was so naive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:31 PM
123

It feels like a power play. They know they can seriously hurt and frighten women with their dicks, so they don't waste any opportunity to mention it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 11:46 AM
22

What did he want to do with the photos anyway. Is she really okay with her husband jerking off to her sister?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 09:48 PM
30

Same! Being 22 and feeling, oh so old, because scrotes kept telling me I was past my prime. lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 04:25 PM
8

I don't know where such men live, because I never met a man who was more attractive in his 30s than his 20s. But I think they always think of Holywood actors when they talk like that, not average men. Holywood actors aren't a norm, but scrotes obviously think of themselves as Brad Pitts, they're delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:46 PM
115

Like...we live around 80 years. In most countries, women are considered underage below 18 years old. Are they trying to say, we are "good" only for like two years between 18-20, and next 78 years we're useless? How they don't feel ashamed. Don't answer, I know why - cause scrotes gonna scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 01:33 PM
28

Embarassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:01 AM
2

I don't believe she's sexually attracted to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:43 PM
23

Omg. That's my ex. I thought he reads news or plays games or something. Was I naive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:19 AM
60

Women may only like jerks because 99% of men are jerks. That's the reason haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:13 PM
7

Omg, the similiar thing happened to me. He said my teeth were yellow and his were gorgeous, well, a few years later he got them broken during an ice hockey match.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 03:05 PM
8

Omg, I hate this. I have a lot of interesting things to say, but scrotes are immediately insecure about basically anything, and I had to act like nothing ever happened to me, so I wouldn't upset them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:58 PM
5

People who say my degree is 'useless' because I'm not making six figures or I'm not a polititian or CEO or something, braging about making more money than me, even though they don't have a "useless degree". I don't really talk about my degrees at all. So I just say:"Good for you", and change the topic and ideally, leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:53 PM
13

And they have the audacity to claim that we never did anything, and men built the history. I wonder whyyyy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:27 PM
22

I find the new age perception of femininity vs. masculinity very problematic. I noticed women who are into spirituality are suffering because they think femininity leads to happiness. They believe that the reason why they aren't satisfied in life and relationships is their lack of femininity. We, FDS ladies would be branded as "masculine" in a heartbeat by those people. I think the whole dichotomy is so forced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:35 PM
345

As usual, apparently we're the "female version" of this and that. That only proves how deeply rooted patriarchy really is. We're the others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:29 PM
37

A polititian from my country has 11 kids with 10 women. He never married any of his baby mamas and he fathered children while cheating on his girlfriends. He has a history of sexting with 15 years old girl. But still people keep voting his party which is ironically called: 'We are family'. And they are forgiving because he's rich and "can support his kids financially". Imagine if roles were reversed. Just imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:33 AM
3

And I was wondering who he reminds me of. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:36 AM
15

Well, when a man walks behind me it's like I walk through a war zone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:26 AM
59

Duffy's story is absolutely crazy. I hope she's doing better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:33 PM
9

Damn. Especially the fifth photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:27 PM
37

I don't know if I ever faked it, but I definitely acted more aroused than I really was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:59 PM
3

When he entered the room wearing his leather pants and black shirt...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:08 PM
12

They don't give a shit about men's issues. We know very well, if they wanted to, they would. They have voices. They can use it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:07 PM
22

Yeah! Alec Baldwin is, I think in his 60s?, and has a new baby every year...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:02 PM
146

Oh, yet another scrote scared of the concept of women having voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:53 PM
19

I would stay NC definitely with your brother, and your father - well, at least for a while in order to see if that works for you. Only you decide what's good for you. Hang in there sis. You're overwhelmed, you gotta be kind to yourself. Your kid needs a happy mama.💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:57 PM
183

If he touches these...he does the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 03:51 PM
5

What they basically say is, we're too picky and our standards are too high, so apparently we are intimidating, haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:16 PM
18

When I was a kid I often thought: "What she sees in him?" when seeing married couples, and I dreaded the moment when I'll start liking ugly dudes, because I seriously thought, that once you're an adult, you'll suddenly become attracted to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:50 AM
7

Yes! I was like, cool, they talk about this placement like it's a curse of being forever alone, and now I'm like, hell no, it's the FDS energy, and I'm a Queen of vetting! 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:42 AM
17

Think about it as he could be totally different person tomorrow. Shit happens all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:27 AM
9

I have Venus in Virgo, they say it's very unfortunate, but I see it as my advantage now, because Virgos are critical, and I really am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:25 AM
16

Practice makes perfect. I sure as hell will practice if there's some man in my life ever again, haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:22 AM
157

They are calling vaginas 'a roastbeef', scrotes laugh about it, while pickmeishas say stuff like: "Thanks god mine doesn't look like that, tehee. " It's so normalized. We aren't half as cruel as they are, so fuck off scrotes. You started it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:09 AM
50

Just like the unpaid domestic and emotional labour, people would notice only if the humanities dissapeared one day. They don't understand how they are connected with everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:44 AM
22

Haha, I know! George Clooney, yeah, maybe 30 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:38 AM
12

Please do! Love them kpop guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:37 AM
10

Pornsick. He thinks he can have a different woman every day. Thin, thick, whatever he feels like that day. I was expecting him to recommend a boob job in the end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:33 AM
19

They think of woman as weak and they take an advantage of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:31 AM
33

They're closer to hell, that's why.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:26 AM
28

I listened to this podcast where a host talked about her husband who drinked with friends three times a week after their baby was born, and she blamed herself that she couldn't communicate it so he would understand it's not appropriate. But she was very happy because her therapist taught her how to communicate her needs. I was like, sis, noooooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:13 AM
25

My ma used to say:"Don't marry an ugly man, think about your future children."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:51 PM
19

I would scream of happiness if I saw it irl lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:25 PM
6

Niiice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 12:04 PM
26

I love toned arms, especially those that look like from manual work. Why most of men don't have it! I wish they had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:21 AM
4

I had a friend like this, but she still acts like I was a bad guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:32 AM
13

I'm so proud of you. Nasty scrote. I hate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:50 AM
9

I'm so sorry. I can't even count how many drunks, junkies, hobos, or just regular scrotes thought they could talk, or even yell at me, or show me their nasty body parts. That's how I developed terrible anxiety and moved back home from a big city.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:24 PM
517

Yeah, tell that to trafficked women who unfortunately have to suck dicks for free as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:45 AM
21

I envy you, that in America you give two weeks notice. In my country we give two months notice and it's mandatory. It makes things so complicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:24 AM
19

Lol, look at them being all emotional. I bet they couldn't stop thinking about it, knowing she was right and way more rational than them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:17 AM
60

As a person who was love bombed one day, and forgotten the next day, I can confirm. It's quite sad, though. Hard to give up on a fantasy of mutual romantic love. But it's better than feed illusions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:45 AM
16

I sometimes wonder if men post those, then give advices that benefits the man in hope that pickmes will read this and respect themselves even less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:04 PM
48

The worst thing is we're used to it. For us, it's normal to live in a constant state of fear and dread. You never know when you're somewhere alone, if they will hurt, rape or even kill you. Yet the powerful keep ignoring our voices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:00 PM
94

I think what FDS mean by saying that actions speak louder than words is, words are meaningles if they aren't backed up by actions. But I agree that saying 'I love you' is absolutely necessary. I don't trust men who are unable to say the words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:55 PM
45

Honestly, don't majority of people think that people with such kinks are weird? It can't be just us. I'm sure that only 0.01% of people in my country would say this is kinkshaming. The rest would say that he isn't of sound mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:37 PM
244

There isn't more terrifying thing than a group of men. It gives me severe anxiety when I see more than two men hanging out. Especially if they're loud or have huge body movements, or if I notice they're looking at me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 03:23 PM
52

Yes. Please pretty please, avoid us. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:25 AM
263

Now I know why I felt weird about my ex when he was clean shaven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:43 PM
15

Same. I've been assaulted many times, even raped, and as you said, it takes a while until we're ready to look at it. I finally am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:01 PM
57

Ikr. It's crazy that I realized I was actually sexually assaulted only when I found FDS. And the story is from 7 years ago. I was gaslighted into believing I was a cheater.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:58 AM
23

I can be patient and calm if I just sit and do nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:40 AM
21

Yeah, I also stopped wearing it regularly when I started to feel like I was naked without it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:15 AM
118

I begged him to not break up with me by sending him The Beatles songs until he took me back. The reason why he wanted to break up with me, was because I told him my male friend took advantage of me when I was drunk, and asked me to give him a hand job, I refused, but when I passed out drunk he did it anyway. I thought that was cheating on my side. The ex said that his friends told him I was asking for it, so he's breaking up with me, because he loved me too much, therefore can't forgive me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:03 AM
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Yeah, some boys are physically maturing a little bit later than some girls when in puberty, but they decided to build a whole narrative on it, that "justifies" their pornsickness and manipulative behavior. Well done. And uninformed people keep believing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:56 AM
84

I'll say that again, imagine being almost 50, trying to hit on 19 years old boy. I don't wanna imagine what would happen. Yet, other way around is totally fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:48 AM
62

I'm so glad these scrotes tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:38 AM
4

It's like she tries to be obnoxious on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:38 AM
57

This is how they create false narratives. They just say something, entitled as usual, their mates repeat it, of course without any reference, then it becomes reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:24 AM
2

I know what you mean, I stopped wearing it, even though it means I've been unemployed for a while. I don't wanna give up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:43 AM
13

Jackie was very questionable character - half pick me, half ruthless queen haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:23 PM
61

I shit you not, some women do this. But they present it like something very quirky, then say something similiar about themselves, like, he did that, but I did this! Look how fun couple we are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:07 AM
17

Omg, yes!!! 1000x yes. I never know if I should facepalm, or feel sorry for them. Even in my worst pickme days, I never felt like my boyfriend is "putting up with me" and I even felt bad that there is something wrong with me. I thought that if they say their boyfriends are putting up with them, it means they love them no matter what. And I questioned my relationships, whether it's real if he's not putting up with me. I felt like I'm not bitchy or moody, or whatever, enough. This narrative is ver…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:05 AM
3

I don't know if that helps, but I'm from Eastern Europe, so it's little different here. While it's not officially required to wear make up, we have to attach our photos to CVs, and if they don't like our appearance, we simply won't hear from them again unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:07 AM
52

I was about to write: "Wooow, how were you doing that? I'm so weak." Then I remembered I used to work 13 hours a day, commuted for two hours. Of course I did everything else like cooking, cleaning, all of this, while I was studying for uni entrance exams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:28 PM
55

I stopped wearing make up, even to job interviews. It irritates my eyes, and I generally feel very uncomfortable wearing make up, especially during a day. When I feel uncomfortable, I'm very anxious. If I'm anxious, my performance is very poor. I sometimes envy men, because they just put clothes on and go. I'm fine with make up if it it's for party, concert or any evening/night event. I hate that we have to wear make up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:03 PM
17

Yes, men are true Karens. It's a projection, as always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:27 AM
6

Same here! I love androgynous men a lot. But I love deep voices, and how they walk and move in manly way, have abs and generally toned body. I like when men are comfortable to be a bit feminine. Idk why but that's super manly to me. Like their masculinity isn't so fragile. Men like let's say, Chris Hemsworth do nothing to me, even though I can admit they're good looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:47 PM
2

Omg, I suspect I have ADHD, and exactly this! I can't stay focused! I thought it's just me, and never heard of anyone whom I could relate to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:36 PM
4

Yeah, you're right. It's been a while since I met him for the last time (it was before I discovered FDS), and I don't plan to entertain him from now on. So he's basically cut off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:08 PM
6

I'm not suprised. It eventually happens to every young female artists. It's like they decided when she debuted, that once she turns 18, it's gonna be about her body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:30 PM
8

If I were you, I would definitely focus on myself. I was a person who when discovered something great, like a job opportunity, an interesting idea, scholarships or different ways to level up, I'd immediately shared with my friends, because I wanted to help. It's like I wanted to level up their lives instead of mine. I stopped doing that, and I feel much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:11 AM
6

Yes, exactly, and alot of women believe it as well, and they even apologize for "being crazy" and riddicule their very serious issues. Another great example of women being gaslighted for their mental and physical symptoms. Anpd I'm glad you pointed it out. I'm sure you'll fing amazing HVW while you level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:21 AM
10

This!!! She was there when I was down, but refused to level up with me, and didn't want me to level up by myself. I noticed when I was writing my diploma thesis, and I warned her I'll be unavailable for a month or so, but she wanted to binge drink with me and would keep nagging, that I'll write after we drink. She thought my thesis wasn't really important. Just because they're with you when you are hurting, doesn't mean they're any different from people who drop you once you're not doing so grea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:18 AM
13

Just a little note about PMS - I'm glad you're not blaming it for making you "emotional". I believe PMS is part of our intuition or subconscious screaming at us. It tells us what we have been ignoring for a whole month and we can't ignore anymore. Did you noticed it's usually about the same issues? We need to deal with it. If you're hurt by your friends, especially during PMS, you really should drop them otherwise it won't stop. PMS is a great tool for discovering our subconscious feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:12 AM
13

When I meet a hot guy, his personality can be a huge turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:06 AM
28

Lol, of course, sexual attraction is about character and values. /s We love people for their character and values, but we aren't sexually attracted because of that, I guess. We wanna hug and cuddle because of their character, but it's not sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:02 AM
32

Same, but they branded me as an asexual. Sorry girls, that I don't lie to myself lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:59 AM
12

Sometimes I wish they would put make up on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:58 AM
14

And that's only people who have an internet access.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:56 AM
124

I once did a little experiment with my male friend who idolized me. He was fascinated by someone who wasn't me. Just some weird fantasy of his. So, back to my experiment. When we were hanging out with other friends, I decided I won't agree with him on anything. Like, when he said he loved some movie, I said, I didn't enjoy it. Stuff like that. By the end of the evening, he treated me like shit. We're still friendly when we meet somewhere, but he negs me all the time, and his fascination by me is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:16 PM
145

I used to be a "desirable" one, and my friend was very assertive, enjoyed being called fat, so she could fight them back. I once physically attacked a guy when he insulted her in front of me, while he was actively flirting with me. They think it's a normal thing to do, but the worst thing is, it kinda works with pickmes. The "hot" one is flattered, and the other one starts to hate the "hot" one. Because she feels like the reason why she's being picked on is her friend. Even though the real villa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:10 PM
12

I don't know but I used to react like that because I learned it from my father when I was a kid. It has something to so with feeling ashamed, at least in my case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:00 PM
7

Why they put abusers before their kids, I'll never know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:59 PM
36

Like for real. Especially influencers. Don't they realize that young girls are learning that it's okay to call yourself crazy everytime you're being honest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:09 AM
29

Their logic and reasoning is basically a list of reasons why you shouldn't feel like that because it's annoying him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:07 AM
13

It's one of the rules we shouldn't comment before reading the handbook. Take your time. And you're welcome. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:50 AM
10

I don't know if you read the handbook and the sub rules, but that would probably answer your question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:45 AM
39

He sounds like he met someone else, now he's trying to justify divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:37 AM
36

I hate it with passion. My ex used to do that just to piss me off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:23 PM
90

Do you think they are really attracted to them? I can't imagine being turned on if he looked like that. I don't get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:48 PM
5

I'm very confused about my dad. He can be very good and very bad as well. I definitely have a lot of issues because of my family's dynamics. About your mom - I hate when they act like they don't have any power over their lives. Besides, why would you ask such a thing, especially if it's your own child you're asking?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:49 PM
277

I can't count how many times men wanted to laugh at my jokes, but forced themselves not to laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 12:35 PM
23

I know! And in many cultures a woman had to move into his household where she was isolated and wasn't even allowed to see her parents, or even send them letters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:57 AM
31

It's so sad when your own mom will always prioritize your dad over you no matter what. For example, the other day, I was after a tooth extraction surgery, very difficult one. I told my mom who accompanied me there, if she could call my brother who was cooking, and tell him to not make the lunch spicy, because I can't eat spicy right now. She called him, and told him to not make it spicy, becauce my dad, who is on a post surgery diet too, can't eat spicy food. Those are just little things, but it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:53 AM
23

I agree and have a question. What if they ask if I'm seeing someone besides them? Or ask to be exclusive like one week in? What if the guys in rotation know each other? Or someone in my social circle knows them both? This can happen especially if you live in a smaller city, or you're dating people from your niche. For example, I'm from Eastern Europe, and if somebody found out I'm dating two or more people, they would call me a slut. I wish the system here would be more like in the US, where I b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:44 AM
2

I forgave someone once because he tried to apologize for years, and I was persuaded by our mutual friends. Guess what happened. Once I forgave him, they started to make fun of what happened, like if it was some funny story. My ex pick me friend even started to question if it really happened. I shouldn't be surprised as she thought our other friend lied about being raped. Glad I'm not friends with any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:26 PM
36

Do you see how often they infantilize themselves? They secretly know men have pedo tendencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:50 AM
12

When I read stuff like this, I start to realize I never was a pickme I thought I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:40 AM
42

Or people who say - forgive them, you'll feel better (even in cases when someone fucking raped you). No, thank you. I'm a person who forgives too easily, I gotta hate them. It's necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:12 PM
132

I usually ask them to repeat themselves, that I didn't hear them, but a repeated joke isn't a joke, so they are kinda akward lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:51 PM
71

I googled pictures. Damn. I shouldn't have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:48 PM
184

Ikr? A red flag doesn't need a general consensus in order to be considered a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:20 AM
22

She sounds like a "cool girl" combined with a New Age believer. I know you say you love her, but it sounds to me like a type of situation when once you stop seeing her, only then you'll fully realize how awful she was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:30 AM
42

It's not legal in many countries, including mine, so it speaks for itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:14 AM
20

My friend once invited me to stay over, and I noticed weird holes in every door they had. I asked her sister what it is, and she told me it was her sister's boyfriend, who punched door and walls during fights with his girfriend. They laughted it off and I was like: "Wtf." Now I see it's even a thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:23 AM
4

Okay, then it was a misunderstanding on my side, because I obviously agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:40 PM
10

Well, I don't wanna get married for love, but I don't wanna be married to a person I don't love. I'd be rather single, than spend the rest of my life with someone I "kinda tolerate".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:47 PM
88

I had a friend who would be late constantly. Everytime I had to meet her somewhere, she would show up at least 15 minutes late. Then she would make a bunch of excuses blaming other people. I tolerated it for years, because I had no boundaries, but it started to really piss me off lately. I told her, that she could at least call me that she's late. She never did. The funniest thing is, they have the audacity to say, that you never said anything, and you're being dramatic all of a sudden. So even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:14 AM
8

Jesus, what a creep. This is even lower than your typical LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 09:59 AM
64

Pickmes be like: "But I was the only one who knew when it's his real birthday!!!1"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:08 PM
20

Yeah, exactly. I also noticed that if a younger man pursues an older woman he's usually super serious about it. Which is quite shocking when you think about all those scrotes in their 40s who want to get married and have kids "someday".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:27 PM
31

Exactly this. I gotta admit, I'm in my late 20s, and I don't feel like dating much younger men, but they're definitely more respectful, and as you said, physically look age appropriate for me. While men around my age look 5-10 years older than me, and they're usually sexist pigs, not interested in anything. They already gave up on life. I know FDS say we shoud date around our age, but people around my age are like 10 years older than me, physically and mentally, and it sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 11:41 AM
102

Then they are surprised when they're getting divorced. Well, it was a transaction from the very start, so why are you so shocked, scrotey?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:31 AM
40

Yeah, it reminds me when I asked my parents when will my little brother start to commute to school alone without parents. My father asked me if I want him to get killed like this girl from the news. I don't remember what I answered but he started to yell at me, so I left the room and he continued yelling at me, asking why am I always running away. Then he gave me a silent treatment for a month. I'm scared even today to ask questions in fear someone could be furious. But it helped me to notice wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:48 AM
38

Lose 11 pounds I don't remember when I cried the last time (versus crying every other day while I was with him) Don't have cold sores anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:54 PM
36

Fantastic post. Saved. My ex had like 1.5 of C's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:44 PM
27

Cause we finally caaaaan. Hell yeah! 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:35 PM
42

I always thought that Americans are very serious, because they aren't using emojis...Then I learned it's a reddit thing. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:31 PM
8

What I think about your mentality, I think it's very stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:00 PM
5

Yeah, that's what I'm worried about, hopefully she won't end up getting pregnant before she graduates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:42 PM
6

He seems to be very happy, scrotes would probably call him a "simp", and I don't know about her. But she's still studying, so at least he hasn't stopped her in terms of her education and career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:17 PM
24

I'm 29, and I can't imagine having a relationship with 19 y.o. Can you imagine what would people talk about me? They would burn me like a witch. Then there's this 48 year old scrote who doesn't give a single fuck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:40 AM
10

She has two older siblings in his age, and they were very against their relationship, but... "she's very mature for her age, unlike my ex wife who was older yet so immature." and usual crap pedos say that helped him to get her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:26 AM
27

I had the same problem. And honestly, the less I talk the better. I often found myself in the middle of another speech of mine, expressing my fears, emotions, thoughts...for free. I tried my best and even though I did, others never reacted the way I was expecting. I wanted them to try to understand me more, to ask me more questions. I opened up, and I hoped them understanding me will be my reward for that, because opening up can be very scary. Well, what they usually did was arguing with me, tel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:59 PM
40

Same with my cousin. He married unenthusiastically his gf of 5 years, got divorced within a year, then he started dating 17 y.o. girl (he was 26), and remarried when she graduated from high school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:03 PM
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We started dating when we were 22, had been dating for six years, he said early on that we're gonna get married and have kids, I'm the one, the best girl ever blah blah. Then I found myself in LDR at age of 28, realizing it's not gonna happen. I broke up with him over email. You know what he replied? "Yeah, I kinda expected it's gonna happen soon, I know I wasn't a good boyfriend, I hope you'll remember me in a good way though, with love yours.....". The audacity of this POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:00 PM
34

I have flashbacks of some scrotes from Uni. They would argue with our professors, too. Especially if the professor was female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:47 PM
11

Yes, or: even though you piss me off like 30 times a day... even though you leave dirty socks everywhere....what on Earth is this?? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:30 AM
16

Actually little boys are often more mentally mature than men. It's before they fry their brains with porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:27 AM
15

The worst types are those who left ages ago, but psysically are still there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:26 AM
1

Little does she know, that we unfortunately did everything she just described.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:24 AM
11

Wow, this was unnecessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:10 PM
44

Wow, now I realized that people who said I was bad for standing up for myself were pushovers. (or narcissists)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 07:55 AM
9

My mom never talked about it with me, she just gave me a book about puberty. So I read everything I needed to know, but I felt very weird about the whole situation. When I had my first period, I told her that I'm bleeding and asked her if she thinks it's a period. She gave me pads and that was it. I think she sometimes tried to talk about it, but I was annoyed a and stopped her everytime. I didn't like talking about it with her. Maybe because it was too late and I felt uncomfortable. I was very …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:16 PM
22

This is very true. Both groups of women can be very sad, but from my experience, I was longing for love more when I was in a relationship, than now when I'm single. Now I have hope at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:50 PM
11

I'm not sad that I'm single, but because I realized there aren't any decent guys out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:48 PM
25

Just another scrote under impression that we are interested in what he has to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:25 AM
8

Omg, what a manipulative POS he was! I'm happy you respect yourself more, sis, as you deserve. Especially after such horrible experiences. Your comment gave me flashbacks as well - I was also in LDR and when I would come to visit him, we didn't have sex at all sometimes. Now I know it was because he was pornsick, but I kept thinking why he won't have sex with me, what's wrong with us? He never kissed me besides sex, or hugged me. Then, when he finally initiated a quickie, I was already so starve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:37 AM
29

The same thing happened to me once, I wasn't feeling like it, but gave in, and once he was done, he asked what was wrong, that it felt like he was raping me... Jesus, he wanted to rape you quick, to spare you...this is how I picture self proclaimed nice guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:09 PM
5

That I tasted down there like "nothing" which was apparently "a compliment". According to him, his exes were "sour".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:17 PM
14

I wonder if they're even aware of that. I stopped pity laughing and noticed I almost don't laugh when men say a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:49 AM
7

Yeah, you're right, they can be unpredictable. My father hated when I ignored him, but I'm sure he would even hit me if I talked back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:05 AM
21

They can control people who argue back, but they have no idea what to do with people who won't. If you don't argue back, they cannot twist your words, use it against you, or gaslight you. I ghosted a friend after a very ugly fight, she sent me a pretty offensive message six months after that, in hope she'd finally provoke me to some harsh reaction she could use against me later. I said nothing, and she stopped. Grey rock technique definitely works with these people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:34 AM
29

Or when they say some joke I don't find funny. Women learned to laugh politely everytime when a man says something which is probably meant to be a joke. I'm quiet now, and if the joke is especially stupid, I just look at them pitifuly. If they call me "uptight" or "boring" I just keep looking at them, or say "what?", then leave. Hahaha. Once a guy left the party because of this. He couldn't even say the reason why he was mad, because I literally didn't do anything to him. I just didn't laugh at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:29 AM
21

I never liked "alphas", so I went for sensitive types. Oh, was I wrong. Both suck in a different way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:53 PM
123

I use silence as a form of communication now, and it's driving them nuts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:46 PM
4

If I wanted to keep it, then he would be happy as well and proposed. If I decided to have an abortion, he would be there for me and he would respect my decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:33 PM
3

Yes, this is an important question. Why does he have 30k to spare?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:53 PM
5

The question is, why would he just give you so much money? It stinks. He has some shady plan, no doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:39 PM
122

I hate when women share such memes, and they are like: "I love him, cause he always deals with my moody ass", and other women reply: "Yeah, men are the best!". Once I read stories on IG, where women shared what "irrational" things they done when they were PMSing or on period. I've never cringed more in my life. Some of it was obvious signs of abuse. Like, she cried cause he called her fat and stuff like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:44 PM
17

Yes, sure! My absolute favourite is Kimi wa petto (the original version from 2003), not the remake from 2017, which I hated, and Long Vacation from 1997. They are older but the writing is amazing, much better than recent jdramas which follow cliche stories. Both screenwriters are women. And female leads, especially in Kimi wa petto are very well written characters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:18 PM
5

That's great!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:52 AM
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I watch j-dramas and my personal favourites are with an older independent female lead. If I watch something really outstanding, I check who's the screenwriter, and of course in 99% of cases, it's a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:45 AM
39

Exactly. The funniest thing is, that my own parents, who insisted I would get a proper education, talk shit about people with degrees like there's no tomorrow. My dad's personal favourite is that people working in the office "do nothing". At first I was like 'Hello, I graduated just a few months ago? And I can hear you?" Now I just ignore them. But that's a general consensus on educated people in my country and it makes me sad. I worked in service and did manual labor as well, and I appreciate t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:08 PM
19

So basically, in order to "save" a relationship, a person, especially a woman, has to ignore whatever bothers her, because if she doesn't, then it means she is unloving and bad person. JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:54 PM
13

It's crazy how so many people choose to ignore it when someone is obviously hurting. Not to mention scrotes who not only ignore, but use the person. I hope you're better. We are here for you. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:02 PM
4

How he got her underwear? I'm not a native speaker and I'm confused here. Why are they so fucking disgusting though. I can't imagine a woman talking like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:34 PM
17

Thanks god she's leaving this POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:22 PM
28

Wow, definitely 5, 6, 7, especially 6. Porn sex isn't sensual at all. That's why I always hated it. It's not sexy at all, and all these people copy it, at least people I was involved with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:21 PM
74

I remember I hated feminism when I was younger because of this. I thought "damn equality", if it wasn't for equality, I'd be a housewife, and I was puzzled why feminists wanted to work, in addition to childcare, housework etc. etc. The "wait a minute" moment came much much later. My mom works full time as a nurse but it's her who cooks, does the housework, paperwork, plan everything, makes appointments for everyone. When I ask her whyyy, her answer is that she likes to be busy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:57 PM
31

Okay: get a shower, brush your teeth, get a job, don't be lazy, be kind, don't watch porn, don't be a misogynistic. Yeah, they "totally take" advices from us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:52 PM
19

Yeah, it hurts more hearing that from a female friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:42 PM
9

My 19 y.o. brother does this and it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:02 PM
48

The sadest thing was when two very good girl friends of mine called me "asexual" and "prude" just because I was "vanilla".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:27 PM
1

Honestly, I don't know. I was involved only with pornsick men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 01:30 PM
3

It isn't long. It's much shorter than a typical book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:13 AM
114

The gf who watched too many romcoms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:33 PM
5

I don't get it, but he's cringy af. You know like when someone thinks they look cool but then accidentaly trips over something? That feeling of second hand embarassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:52 PM
15

I thought that the music was Nickleback at first, and I thought: "How fitting" lol. This lady looks sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:47 PM
6

It used to be, but I'm not friends with them anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:54 AM
40

My mom was a cool girl. She met my dad when she was 16, he was 21. She was a part of a male group of his friends, now mutuals, and some other girls who were "dramatic". She used to say that men are better friends compared to women, and I felt inferior because I had a large group of female friends. Though, this group was "not like other girls". It's like the group consisted of different girls who were bullied by other girls (I was bullied too), who created this "cool girl" persona, because we wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:44 AM
7

Sex without orgasms is like if he fucked my armpit. Laughable? Yes. Fun? Nooooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:30 AM
29

It's like they ignored the fact that he was a crazy murderer and saw only his looks and fame. They acted, including him, like he was some kind of a rockstar. Pickmes prefer fantasies over facts, and this is the twisted result. They probably thought of him as a naughty badboy who would love them and only them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:26 AM
172

This is the real sexual liberation. Not the crap they feed us with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 09:35 PM
13

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 07:58 PM
271

It's ongoing process. If I could, I gladly would drop everything bad I learned during my 28 years on Earth. I'll turn 30 this year, and I was a huge pickme just a year ago. Since I've discovered FDS, I made a huge progress. I myself am surprised how far have I gone. And how easy it was, to change. Just a small complaint I have - I just wish new members would read the handbook first. They often post and then admit they haven't read it yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:24 PM
60

It's really like I returned home. No exagerration. Just knowing you're out there ladies helps me so much.<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 05:01 PM
477

How I hate these know-it-all types with their fake-concerned mansplaining smug faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:02 PM
60

It's recent, you're right! Even in my country there're so many new movements helping women, I'm so proud and pleasingly surprised. I thought it was non existent just a few months ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:19 PM
107

I knew a woman who confirmed that she doesn't care if they take an advantage of her, she just likes how it feels when they pay attention to her. She didn't care if they give her fake compliments, then laugh behind her back, as long as she's given a compliment, that's all she cares about. That discussion was an eye-opening experience, because I thought everyone hates fake compliments and fake people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:29 PM
11

I would date him 1 year max if he doesn't even ask me what I think about marriage and max 18 months without being proposed to. Engaged for 6-12 months. Married between year 2-3. Tbh, I don't even know if I'd say yes, but it's important for me that he wants to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:47 PM
14

Also if he hasn't met your family in year 1-1.5 - I met my ex bf's parents pretty early on, but he refused to meet mine, always had some excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:41 PM
204

I think Viktor Krum was better for her. He respected her and adored her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:26 PM
8

If he isn't dressed up like Tommy Shelby, there isn't anything about male outfit to compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:23 PM
36

But we have to tolerate unwashed men who sleep in nests and brushed their teeth in high school for the last time. Because we aren't visual creatures./s And he can't stand a pregnant wife who is obviously sick and very uncomfortable. JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:09 AM
24

True. I was in a such relationship for six years. Now when it's over I know I was single the whole time. It honestly feels like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:57 AM
22

And those who kill their parents are usually men too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:43 AM
59

And family money will be gone like 'poof'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:06 PM
335

If you don't want to, don't. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:01 PM
140

In that case it's okay, it's just some woman you know. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:57 AM
18

We need some updating. I would get rid of Four Agreements which basically taught me to cOmMuniCate and to completely ignore my gut feelings and intuition when I was young adult. It's super hard to unlearn that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:18 AM
2

What about the wedding vows? Don't they say something about loving each other in sickness, or when they're old? And this woman thinks of herself as selfish. JFC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:12 AM
6

What a psycho. I'm so glad you walked out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:04 AM
53

It's crazy when you start thinking about it. And most people won't even notice there's something terribly wrong with it. This is the world we live in. Women and their lives are secondary, and LVM and pickmes are like: tHat's BiOLoGy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:38 PM
33

I sometimes feel like people are scared of bad luck if they spoke of dead in honest way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:05 PM
27

Yeah, he had a racing type of a car, and wanted to put a sticker thingy on it, which he requested I would design. He had seen it on other race cars, so it's probably common in that world. Also, it was extremely sexualized version of his SO, with huge boobs, and butt, and visible panties. I though it was fun back then, because I liked drawing anime, but today I would never. As for a man requesting a drawing of his SO, that's completely okay and lovely thing to ask for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:48 AM
10

"Carefree, youthful style of dating". You aren't a high schooler anymore, scrotey. He just woke up from coma or what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:39 AM
35

I once did an art comission for the exactly same thing. He requested anime version of his girlfriend. It was super cringy. Fortunately, he never used it. Btw, he was a rich programmer and kept buying his gf expensive stuff. Another example of having money not equals to being HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:04 AM
28

Yeah, she's very proud but would totally go back to this Scrotey. Dream on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:57 AM
11

I bet he fucks her dry too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:44 AM
14

I wish it was a norm to talk to their exes... Somehow the exes are always fine with the fucked up shit their ex boyfriends used to do...But somehow they're exes too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:37 AM
23

I had nasty fight with my ex best friend. I told her that my mom was sexually assaulted as a teenager and she victim blamed her. That was the last straw and I told her I don't want to see her ever again. Pretty dramatic, but it was just one thing out of too many. I realized she isn't an ally and she was toxic. I don't have any friends in this city, but I talk to some friends online (I'm vetting them though, because I've changed, but they have similiar values as I have, so far so good). At first …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:26 PM
92

And they have multiple photos where he's crying and she's concerned. He's using her for free therapy. He says stuff like "she saved me" and you know what that means. He's unstable and should be single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:13 PM
17

That's why men hated that movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:57 PM
13

Ideally, you shouldn't date but focus on yourself, but if you want to date, then you should learn how to vet ruthlessly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:07 AM
7

Lol, it reminds me of my ex, who loved his maid mom, but absolutely despised his aunt and female cousins for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:56 AM
4

My ex was momma's boy, he even said he was, but treated her like a maid. At the same time he talked about her like she was a saint. He praised her for how much she is doing for him, and that one day he'll pay back everything. Conclusion? He just talked talked talked, never did anything for me, nor his mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:54 AM
69

He sounds like he was possessed by the Devil. Like, I have no words. I don't understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 08:17 PM
68

Eugenics? Do they even know what it is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:31 PM
96

Totally anecdotal but I noticed that those who had high pitched voices usually were on smaller side. But men with deep voices can have small penises too. Just I've never met a man with high pitched voice and big penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 03:08 PM
88

My ex used to do that on a phone, I sometimes even put a phone next to me and he went on and on and never noticed. I heard his voice enough that I would say: oh, that sucks, when he paused, but I didn't hear what exactly is he saying. It was so exhausting. I tried to help him many times, but it just made him angrier, as my advices were obviously very bad (his words). When I tried to interrupt him, it was impossible. I had to yell loud: heeeeeeyyyyyy, in order to say something. How I was able to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 07:30 AM
75

Lol, they really twist everything to their advantage, don't they? 80% of black woman fill for divorce but, it's somehow their fault, not their scrote husband's? Why would anybody leave happy marriage? But wimenz baaaaad, no matter what we do, so.... who cares what they think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:09 PM
20

His voice sounds like his body looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:26 PM
41

This is why I'm scared to see a psychologist. I'm scared that I'll meet someone with this mindset, which is very likely in this shitty country I live in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 09:15 PM
3

I'm reading the comments here and I'm in tears. 😂 You ladies are so funny and could star in your own stand up comedy shows anytime you want. Or write hilarious FDS books. I'd love that. Kinda reminds me of the book series from Louise Rennison, the heroine always roasted old scrotes who acted like teenagers, and I laughed and laughed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:37 PM
25

And his face is probably very red.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:08 PM
13

I ghosted my ex best friend 6 months ago, and recently got a similiar message from her. They haaaaate radio silence. They insult us, so we would give up and give them attention they're craving, but not getting. So pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 07:03 PM
38

We do it for future generations of women too, and we may even not be around to see positive changes, but it's totally worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:09 PM
47

His doctor could have given him a proper diagnose, which is "pornsicklimpdick".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:00 PM
105

What surprising results? That he can't get it up no matter what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:11 PM
2

Hahahah, this is the right answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:08 PM
13

Fucking psychos. Crazy to think that they once were innocent kids. What the hell happens to men when they get older. Why they turn into disgusting villains?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:57 PM
16

Why I was stupid enough to read posts over there. I'm so disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:01 PM
46

Today I learned. Honestly, I didn't know that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:19 PM
350

This is THE wholesome content. Lovely. Now they would call him a simp. So sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:52 PM
23

My ex was always so nervous. He had social anxiety, and I played the role of his therapist for years. He was okay only when we Netflix and chilled. I was suffering extreme anxiety in a meanwhile and he had no clue, because I was hurting alone. I though my mental problems were nothing compared to his, as he was complaining every single day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:44 AM
18

This 1000000 times. Yeah, you wanna look like a sass queen, and I get it. Totally. But he just doesn't deserve an inch of your sass. As other queen said in my recent post, "information diet" is important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:54 AM
12

I always felt bad that I only liked men I...actually liked? My friends never dated good looking guys...they even admitted that "he isn't good looking, but I don't care" and told me that I'm always after hottest guys. I thought I was superficial, and I kinda was tbh. Because I ignored their character flaws if they were cute. But now it's looks + character for me. I want both because I have both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:56 AM
18

Yes, this! I would gladly talk if they ever came to me and said sorry or if they wanted to talk it over. I think your point is essential difference between silence and silent treatment. People who use silent treatment as a tool of manipulation want to stay silent even if you come to them. They wanna punish their victim. When a person stay silent, it's not in order to punish someone, but to protect themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:05 PM
17

Is he skilled though? That's the important question. We women are used to blame ourselves first, even if it's not our fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:36 AM
10

I used to think 'yes', but now it's 'no' from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:33 AM
36

It's because they always play the game. They can't be genuine for a second. Why? Because they're ugly inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:31 AM
28

Okay, I felt stupid for a moment, in the "today I learned" way😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:24 PM
48

Does it really reach their pancreas haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:56 PM
12

Beautifully said, especially the last part, I'm taking mental notes, because it's true. I felt alone in my vulnerable moments too many times and I'm scared to be vulnerable in front of someone now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:34 PM
82

That's why many times I cOmMunIcAtEd I ended up sobbing. Because it was so humilitating. And my poor self thought it's because I don't know how to communicate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:20 PM
54

The awards make the post super cringy. Without it, it's just cringy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:46 PM
10

I was asked by an old scrote around 50 if I was my friend's mom (we're the same age of 29), then a few days later when I was buying a beer, a cashier asked if I was 18 already, and she wanted to see my ID to prove it. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:44 AM
11

He's jealous because he probably looks like shit, haha. I'm 29 and if somebody told me that, I'd say I don't understand what he's trying to say? Because I truly don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:39 AM
9

I follow a very talented artist and traveler on IG, but once she had her first kid, she changed her bio to: mom of _, wife of _, and only then "an artist".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:18 AM
12

Your safety first, sis. I hope he'll stay away from you. I know you wanna help your friend, but you're too valuable to put yourself at risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:30 PM
34

When I tried to talk some senses into my girl friends, it always backfired. Be careful, because it can easily happen that this man's gonna harass you and accuse you of "ruining their beautiful relationship".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:12 PM
2

It hurts, and she won't leave me alone, because me having boundaries for the first time in my life "shocked and dissapointed" her, so she wants me to know how much she hates me. But seriously, I feel so much better. It really is like a bad break up with LVM, but so worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 08:46 AM
12

That's why I'd like to date a younger man. Because they actually look my age. If I dated a guy three years older than me, he'd look like he's 10 years older than me or even more. Unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:08 PM
4

I don't know any woman with boyfriend or husband who wouldn't be older than her at least 5+ years. Like wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:05 PM
51

If someone told us in 2010 what's gonna be normalized in 2021, we wouldn't believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:54 PM
73

I don't fart in front of anyone, why should men be the exception?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:25 PM
33

I wonder if it had something to do with his dysfunctional peepee. Also, fuck that noise. They ruin their lives and relationships, then have the audacity to paint themselves as lonely sad saints.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:06 PM
46

Every single one of my exes told on themselves. Very soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:01 PM
3

They eat and eat and are so lazy to move. Majority of men over 25 in my country are at least chubby, if not overweight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:53 PM
32

Yes, I do. And I noticed that many women actually agree with things I say. Not everyone though, that's how I lost my best friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:32 PM
21

She has the "elementary school bully" vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:07 PM
4

I read the same thing, the closer the better. I wonder if it's true. And don't worry, you certainly aren't alone sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:48 PM
10

I do. It's hard to focus on my body if I think about something. But maybe I'm one of a kind, haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:58 PM
14

If he wanted to, he would. Sadly, no one can help him or motivate him, but himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 07:52 PM
20

Making fun of your moans? What a moron.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:58 PM
6

They unfortunately lie a lot, because they feel ashamed (nothing to be ashamed of, it's pretty common).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:48 PM
13

My first bf told me that BS, like he could make any girl cum within a few minutes, and I must be somehow broken, I told him: "They probably faked it" and he wasn't amused lol. Damn, I was a virgin before I met him, he was 10 years older than me, more experienced, and he had the audacity to blame me. Then my second bf said the same shit, so probably men just say this to every woman they have sex with, to save their face. Just to clarify, they both hated foreplay, never went down on me, so I wonde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:45 PM
45

They don't even care about her vagina. All they care about is their penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:56 AM
66

That's a good question. I never understood why they're so unimpressed when they finally get to see and touch a naked woman. Now I know the answer is porn sickness. It's all about fantasies for them. They even say they like women wearing lingerie more than naked women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:40 AM
11

I want them to continue what's working at the moment. I don't get it why they have to change it last minute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:37 AM
47

I fucking hate this position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:34 AM
36

Exactly! I didn't even know about this until I was notified to sign a petition against this law. I was truly horified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:28 AM
85

In my country (Central Europe) it's not even considered a crime if there isn't violence. Even if she walks home and random man rapes her, she literally has to be beaten, she has to scream and fight him in order to say she was raped. Otherwise they consider it like she gave her consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:58 AM
30

My ex was cute when we started dating, but five years later he turned into a doppelgänger of a murderer who is very well known in my country. The visual transition was like Leo DiCaprio in Titanic vs. DiCaprio now. Character wise, he was a pick up artist, lazy whiny pseudo spiritual soft boi with social phobia (the one that is triggered only when he had to do something for me).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:13 PM
8

He really thought he did something, huh? So funny scrotey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 09:53 PM
5

Not sure why are you being downvoted, though. I also would like to know which country raise men to be decent human beings...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:53 PM
4

I agree with you. Every nation has LVM, and they're slightly different from each other, because of their cultural background, but the thing is, there isn't a country without them. I would expect that American men are HV, and Reddit showed me that's just not the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:48 PM
61

They don't. They're just there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:40 PM
103

Not sleeping with a guy on first date: baaaaaad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 04:54 PM
17

I think HVM sometimes can have childhood friends who are LV, but I noticed they treat them more like acquaintances. They would say "Hi, how are" when they see them randomly, and that's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:43 PM
174

That's it. They don't think we are people. We're like a pair of jeans, stitch here and there, no big deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 11:36 PM
18

A bitter old woman is goals now lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:57 PM
22

That's her gut feeling telling her we're right, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:54 PM
8

Well, thank you. I hope many curious girls and women will come, and see for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:53 PM
19

Exactly. These red pill scrotes are especially dangerous to good, kind people, because if you're good and kind, young and inexperienced, you believe everyone is like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:20 PM
133

Simp - not being abussive towards a person you supposedly love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:55 PM
12

I used to be bothered by such remarks, but since I've known the reality of being in a relationship with LVM, I pity them instead. It's worse than living hell. Now if they asked me why I'm single, I'd just look at them confused, as if I don't understand the question. Because honestly, I don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:45 PM
10

'Hello fellow womenz..." and receiving awards from the "fellow womenz". Reddit in a nutshell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:30 PM
7

I also was very sad after breaking up with my first, but now, ten years later, I see him for what he is - my first scrote/LVM. Your real first one is yet to come! First person that's gonna love you for who you are and who's gonna respect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:31 PM
10

It's the sentence "if you want" for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:25 PM
34

You'll break up sooner or later, because you won't tolerate his porn addiction. Do you want it to be later rather than sooner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:38 PM
78

But one universal thing we all should keep in mind is, our well-being is our top priority. That way, even if the issue isn't covered in the handbook, we know what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:14 PM
19

The Cryptkeeper. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:07 PM
9

Also, if there is a group of pre-selected guys, let's say 10 men, you'd pick just one as the hottest, right? You can't like 10 people the most. You can like 10 people a lot, but one the most. So how does it work? Yes, it makes no fucking sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:05 PM
2

Would you elaborate what do you mean by complicated in your case?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:57 PM
25

I was googling questions about relationships, or random questions I was interested in, and FDS kept coming back as the result. Multiple times. When I started to follow the sub, and read the handbook, I turned into that meme with DiCaprio pointing at TV lol - I was extremely aligned with FDS views from the very start, but I know I would be upset like you were, maybe two years before I had discovered FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:23 PM
57

The problem is, that many pickmes act like top class bangmaids, and yet they're cheated on. LVM just want different women, that's it. Porn sickness it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:15 PM
7

Drinking game, drink everytime he types: "I". How self obsessed one can be? In case of scrotes - very.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:32 PM
104

Don't men often say that when they are cheating, it's just for sex? So what exactly is this responsibility woman has to accept? That she isn't turning into another person everyday, in order to keep things "interesting"? Her fault is being her 'same ol' "boring" self'? Pinch me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:21 PM
45

My dad often quotes my mom and acts like he came up with it originally. And that's just a little thing. Men have been stealing ideas from women for ages now. Even guys who "pay attention" to what we are saying do so, only because they may use it later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:14 PM
71

That would only make scrotes happy to be honest. They want us to be quiet and invisible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:21 AM
8

Imagine living in the world where all you gotta do is go to work and come back home. Yeah, that's the life of scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:49 PM
79

It's her birthday, but of course, he has to be the center of attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:46 PM
9

I was scared of getting older when I was only 22 or so. Just because I thought I will be worthless past the age of 25. Because everyone around me, including media kept saying so. I'm 29 now, and I couldn't care less about my age. I just wish I enjoyed myself more, when I was younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:11 PM
26

The government in my country is just a bunch of sexist pigs. The minister of education posted a "joke" on his Facebook page, that he and his wife complement each other, because she cooks, he eats, he takes of his clothes, she does the laundry, he wakes up, she makes the bed... and that's just one example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 11:37 PM
300

I know how you feel, but believe me, six months after the break up, the only thing you gonna regret is why you didn't do it earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:13 PM
4

Wow, that's me! lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:15 PM
3

Definitely get to know yourself. What do you like, don't like, what are your values, goals and dreams. I started to think like that too late, when I was around 28, until then I had been going with the flow. I wish I had known earlier. But on the other hand, I know too many people who never realized who they are, they don't even care about such things. So it's never too late I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:13 PM
7

They use it as a substitute for antidepressants, or at least it seems so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:52 PM
84

They should rate them 1 to 10, and only 7 and more would be allowed lol. Just joking. 8.5+.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:44 PM
20

It's crazy how women won't talk about this, even though it's so common. But they think it's only them, and they choose silence, because they believe they're somehow "broken". So many women even lie about having orgasm, when they talk to their girl friends. I wish women realized their men are shitty, rather than there's something wrong with their bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:51 PM
13

If I felt like I don't wanna have sex, I wouldn't have sex. Why do people force themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:44 PM
42

Same, girl, same. But we had no one to talk some sense into us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:06 AM
16

I remember seeing porno magazine for the first time when I was a kid, and I was wondering how much did they pay those women to put penises in their mouth? I thought maybe million dollars? It only shows how repulsed I was. I couldn't imagine how could someone do it for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:32 AM
4

For me, porn is "vanilla", so boring, and cold and rehearsed. No passion, no lust, no joy, nada.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:29 AM
90

Because it worked in the past (probably someone out of their league gave them a chance), and now they think they're hot shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:22 AM
12

I'm so so sorry. When I was a teenager, there was a drunk girl who spit in my face once, and my friends did nothing. I felt so humiliated, and cried myself to sleep that night. I was so shocked and I couldn't do anything, I just left the place. It was awful. Some people are just the lowest of the low, I won't even call them animals, because even animals are more civilized. I wish this memory of yours would dissapear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:06 PM
26

Yeah, I noticed a few people who are coming back, asking the same questions over and over again, and keep ignoring advices they get there...I don't understand why they do this, when they are clearly not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:57 PM
30

Exactly. I was shocked when someone there defended FWB situation or gaming addiction, then someone else explained what are FDS views on it, and that person was severely downvoted. Even though what she said was perfectly aligned with FDS values. The first person even said something like: "I know what are FDS views on this, but I think under some circumstances it can be nice...". This person literally admited that she doesn't agree with FDS on this, was upvoted, while other person opposing her, wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 10:55 PM
19

Omg, that's why! I actually get these very often, I've been wondering what's happening and why their comment was removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:05 PM
131

I noticed some advices on AskFDS were super shady too. Like if those people never read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:01 PM
18

Yes, I know. I was smiling at first, when reading, because I loved seeing someone was being supportive, then I continued reading and almost fainted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:01 PM
129

I read that if you wanna support Asian community, you gotta be pro sex work. I was like, wtf, what kind of misogyny is this? It's like saying, that Asian women are nothing but prostitutes, therefore we should support sex work. And the post had thousands of likes and shares. I thought that I misread it at first, but no. They were serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:35 PM
5

My problem is, I like pretty things. When I see someone I like, I wanna look at them, I wanna touch them, I wanna "pet" them, like a beautiful art. It feels good. I know it's unhealthy, but I can't put my finger on it - what's my motivation? It's kinda like an addiction to sugar. I've been like this since I remember. I don't do that anymore, since I have known FDS, but the desperation is still there, I just don't act on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:30 PM
19

And these very same people would say: islam bad. Really?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:21 PM
152

I swear to God, FDS values are spreading lately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:12 PM
92

Jesus, this man hated you. How do I know? Because you're me, and this mf is like my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:52 AM
5

Yeah, men are like this. In your wet dreams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:23 AM
7

Because that's why I got two stalkers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:17 AM
4

I realize this stuff every day, it's been so long after all. It's like poison we are cleaning our bodies from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:26 AM
34

My dream guy is the one who doesn't give a damn about what his friends think of him. This is the definition of confident man. Honestly, those macho men are sooo boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:37 PM
78

Omg, yes! I can already see the tribe of smart and strong women in their 50s and older, living peacefully in the beautiful nature, like from Disney movies.😁 But the reality is, men would start whining: why won't you let us iiiiiiin, MiSanDrY!!! Even though, you know, it's them who would force the ladies to leave lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 03:08 PM
157

Scrotes: Don't you dare to have a career and money. Also scrotes: Women are gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:48 PM
239

Then she should probably move to the mountains, desert, or forest, and get lost there and die in shame, that she had the audacity to get older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:46 PM
49

My male coworker run into closed doors and almost broke his nose because he didn't notice they were closed. And that was only a cherry on the top of his overall performance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:19 PM
50

She's not like other girls, you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:43 AM
4

I don't need his emotional support. I need him to have his shit together, so he doesn't need mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:14 PM
44

Lmao, this literally happened to me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:08 PM
1

You said that men never cared about being attractive, I said that I disagree with that, because they do care a lot, at least when they're young and single, and want to impress women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:41 PM
16

I have seen too many young men giving up on themselves, once they trapped their bangmaid. Yes, you're right, they don't wear heels and usually don't dye their hair, but young men often at least work out, shave, want to smell nice... I know too many men in their late 20s, who look hideous now, who once looked great because they wanted to be attractive for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:49 PM
83

Women should be allowed to carry weapons, because, as they love to remind us, men are physically stronger than us, and have an advantage over us. I hope laws over there are gonna change, considering what's happening in the UK right now. I'm living in the shithole of a country but at least I can carry pepper spray alright. That's crazy you're not allowed to protect yourself as a woman in the UK?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:34 PM
30

How was that one guy different from others, may I ask? Were you crazy attracted to him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:59 PM
13

This, and especially if people "being canceled" are men. The closest to being canceled I can think of is probably JKR. There are plenty and plenty of nasty people who were forgiven, like all these pedo rock stars, and nobody gives a shit today. Or Polanski who was supported by so many famous people. If he doesn't deserve to be canceled, then I don't know who is. But he's still unbothered and working to this day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:42 PM
170

I just can't drink, that's it. When I do, I'm out of control and forget my principles, unfortunately. If you're like me, then the only way how to beat it is to stay sober.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:23 PM
7

I agree with every single word you said, I just think it has nothing to do with the post, unless you do know the lady and her history of being extreme libfem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 12:10 PM
53

Mine would say: "A condom" in a tone like he was a little excited mentally challenged boy. I wonder if I'm asexual now, or if it's just a trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:55 AM
27

He asked me to check on his translation, to correct mistakes, grammar etc., I did, then he gave me a silent treatment for three days, because "I looked like I didn't enjoy helping him". That was after I came to visit him (we were LDR), driving 10 hours over there, only to learn that he's working on some personal project, and ignoring me for a few hours a day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:53 AM
10

I'm the eldest out of three, and my parents talk to me the way they talk to my brothers - they're rather cold, never said they loved me, or that they're proud of me, especially my father. I'm living at home again, and everytime I look at my father, he'd say: "Why do you look at me", in "joking way". They treat me like I am the oldest son, basically. They don't pay an attention to my feelings at all, they act like I was a guy. So except the fact they treat me like a man, I have extra responsibili…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:44 AM
19

I think it's because it sounds a bit like if people weren't allowed to have "minor" issues. Both are important, major and minor. But of course, due to living in the patriarchal society, women's problems are overlooked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:19 AM
86

Our generation normalized those things and the next generation gonna hate us for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:06 AM
1

Yes, I understand your concerns, totally, but I heard too many horror stories of failed marriages after 5, 7, 10, 15+ years, so the only thing one can do, is vet vet vet mercilessly. And even then, one have to be ready to leave any minute. We just never know. But being forever girlfriend 5+ years is a very sad place. Especially if 3 years pass and he doesn't even seem to be planning to propose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:39 PM
17

The irony is I watched the movie back in 2018 when I was the greatest pickmeisha ever, and even I realized he was horrible lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:19 PM
4

If I don't know by then, in that case I'd probably break up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 04:36 PM
7

I'd ask those tarrots readers, shouldn't we treat ourselves with kindness and respect before everyone else? By interacting with shitty people, I'm very disrespectful and unkind to myself. But as you said, spiritual gurus are all about gaslighting and enabling narcissists. I'm so happy I'm out. That asshole over there, is mirroring my actions? No thank you - the only thing he's mirroring is - stop being a doormat, that's how I interepret the message now, haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:05 PM
10

The problem is, in most cases, oral sex is absolutely needed in order to make a woman orgasm. It's not so much about preferences, as about necesity. Women don't have clitoris for nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:55 PM
9

Trust me, 5 years is really bad. Even three years is already too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:47 PM
23

I was a forever girlfriend, and was so offended when people asked me this. They were right though. I just wish they would say:"You deserve better", instead of: "Poor you, he wouldn't even marry you, he's probably cheating".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:45 PM
5

Wow, you're right. Can they stop. It's so weird and pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:41 PM
13

I have never heard someone telling young boys, that they shouldn't hurt girls, but you bet I heard: "Be careful" a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:36 PM
11

Yes I had. I read many books about love, and spirituality, when I was younger, like Osho, or Four Agreements which taught me nothing but how to put up with scrotes "in loving way".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:02 PM
26

Omg, the poor woman even tried to sleep with him in the nest...I just can't. We women really do have a heart of gold, damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 12:04 AM
12

Hate group my ass. It's more like that famous photo of a girl giving flowers to soldiers who are pointing guns at her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:50 PM
8

It's called The Human Chair, author is Edogawa Ranpo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 11:29 PM
10

Omg, it reminds me of this book, the plot twist was about man living inside of lady's couch, and she realized he was in, when she received a letter from him, saying he's in the couch. She read the letter while sitting on the said couch. The End. Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:44 PM
11

Ok, why not? But in that case, stop getting married, lying you'll be faithful and fuck off somewhere finally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:02 PM
8

He looks like older cousin of Billy from Stranger Things who taught him how to pick up girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:12 PM
16

They mention Red Pillers only when they claim FDS is female Red Pill. It's similiar to men who start talking about male issues only when women share their bad experiences. How typical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:09 PM
21

There was a mandatory military service in my country many years ago. It lasted for two years, and it was basically about doing household chores, staying fit, exercising, cooking, washing and folding their clothes, stuff like that. Young men around 18-20 were forced to go, yeah, they hated it of course, but for example, my dad's generation is overall very self sufficient and clean and fit. The experience had such a huge impact on them, that they would be so ashamed displaying laziness like younge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 04:07 PM
3

Good point. I wonder too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:45 AM
5

Oh my god, what a backstabbing liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:43 AM
22

It's the choice of a word 'perhaps' for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:09 AM
14

Calling abused women misandrists. Way to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:30 AM
19

I was under the impression that everybody, except Harry, hates her. Edit: I personally don't hate her and I think it's a lovely example of internalized misogyny, because you don't see often, that people hate Harry the way they hate Meghan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 04:35 PM
38

They keep ignoring these less fortunate women, and I wanna scream on the top of my lungs: WHY?!?! Why do you act like the only sex workers on this planet are white western women making loads of money?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:33 PM
48

Okay, so men are just a bunch of criminals, I get it. What happened to not all men though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:26 PM
7

Yes, it's work, but similiar to for example painting. You gotta paint in order to make art. I wonder why exactly are they complaining. Don't you want to be with me? Just say it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:03 AM
36

I realized only now when I'm single how much I love my freedom. I couldn't put my finger on it, but I knew I felt very uncomfortable for some reason. Part of it was caused by being with a shitty person, but the most important thing was this horrible process of losing my own identity. Every day I lost some part of myself only to absorb something from him. It happened every single time and I couldn't stop it. Is it inavitable? I hate who I become when I'm influenced by another person. My own ident…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 09:43 AM
3

What do you think about weed? I probably don't know any man in his early 20s who doesn't smoke weed regularly. I hate it to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:37 AM
21

From my point of view, it's because men always knew women have strong intuition, and were scared of it. Even today they think a woman is devil's luring. She knew what's good for both of them, therefore she offered him the apple, and he followed her. Actually it feels a bit like matriarchy, isn't it? Even as a kid I didn't understand why she had to be punished? I thought that was only logical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:35 AM
8

So many young men do drugs, that it makes super easy to spot LVM now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 08:25 AM
4

Yeah, it's more like living with an elementary school bully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:19 PM
24

He can trick himself all he wants, but deep inside he knows she rejected him. I hope he's thinking about it every night before sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 08:18 PM
20

There should be a new horror genre for women about gamer husbands who are lazy as fuck. This story seriously frightened me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:44 PM
11

They honestly do forget.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:35 PM
17

So many women hate other women, it's so sad. Altough I also think this is a man. Men don't speak up? Where? They complain all the time, about literally everything. Omg, are they entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:35 PM
82

This doesn't sound like a family. More like two strangers living together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:20 AM
14

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:50 AM
11

A stand alone post would be great! I think so many of us have or had the same problem. Women often feel guilty to dump men or even friends who have mental health or health problems. It should be discussed more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 04:56 PM
31

My ex had a bad back and depression. Wish I realized the things you said earlier. He had nothing, but problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:40 AM
33

Eeew, I hope it was old water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:37 AM
10

Dine and dash? I thought they were doing cheap dates for free sex. Now I'm confused, do they want a free food only?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:36 AM
29

There are many countries where if you're not a pick me, you die. Literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:07 PM
16

How exactly would he deal with it in the future? He would have to pick a few animals, otherwise he's not eating that day? I kinda like the idea haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 05:04 PM
7

I'm a redhead and that's just so sad. Why the world hates us lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 12:24 PM
4

I love the scene when the boy confesses and Darla is like: Oh no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:58 AM
6

I'm gonna throw up. I'm throwing up. Eeeeeewwww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:33 PM
23

It's because she thought I was dissapointed in her that she was being racist. Kinda cultural thing I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:36 PM
58

Jesus Christ. When I was in Japan, my host family had a guest house, and once two black girls arrived. Usually my host dad would talk to guests, but he wasn't around then, so my host mom had to do it instead, but she freaked out, she even hide herself in her room. I went to find her, and I told her, no way, you can't do that, you gotta talk to them, they're your guests. She was embarassed, but she put herself together, and talked to them, then she was sooo dissapointed in herself, and kept apolo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:53 PM
27

If he was interested in you, he would have already asked you out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 01:10 PM
174

I stopped talking about men's ego, because they think "ego" is something badass, but now I think of them as being sensitive, needy and insecure instead. Notice that people mention ego when they talk about men, but emotions when they talk about women. It's literally the same thing, but narrative is different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:28 PM
62

Not all men. Sure, there are two groups, the psychos and nice guys enablers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:57 PM
15

Children probably do that, because they are immature and want to make money fast, to buy clothes and make up to impress their peers. So maybe girls from poor families? Just guessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 02:19 PM
2

He was an ice hockey coach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:54 AM
8

I would like to have my partner in the house, but he doesn't have to be with me all the time. Just in the house, somewhere doing something. I like hard working men and I like to be alone often. But I also love the security of someone being home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:57 PM
7

Either he is with me, or not. I have this painful experience and never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:51 PM
38

Damn, this isn't going to end up well, if they don't do something to help this poor woman...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:54 PM
8

They act like 3 months is 350 years without sex. It only shows that they hate our presence so much, that they wouldn't even spend 3 months getting to know us. Don't they see they're telling on themselves? Of course we aren't interested, why we would be interested in a person who hates us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:28 PM
29

I couldn't even watch the whole thing. Him shaking head in disbelief, like he was above everything. While he's just another gaslighter and manipulative scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:23 PM
61

It only proves that reddit is misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:04 PM
21

Lol, the projection is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:04 PM
81

I was in relationship with a guy for 6 long years and I realized he was indeed a pick up artist in the beginning, or at least had read about their tricks, and I knew only once the relationship was over. Biggest scam of my life. I was so so sooo naive, I didn't know about pick up art at all. He would do many weird things, like he gave me his stuff asking me to hold it for a bit, and then casually walked away, then I had to chase him to give it back, and when I reached him, I was obviously very ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:23 PM
1

I wish to be upgraded already. I'm definitely no longer a newbie haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:39 AM
7

Only scrotes are "I have to use a ladder to climb up my bed, and I sleep in sleeping bag, cause I don't wanna make my bed" level of lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:24 PM
62

Lmao them scrotes won't let you talk about interesting things, because they feel insecure when you know stuff they don't, then have the audacity to complain that you're dumb. My ex used to call me "know it all" just because I was educated and curious and interested in many things. Like, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:14 PM
51

This is so accurate it's actually scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:05 PM
16

I'm not sure I wanna cohabitate with a guy ever again. Even travelling together was pain in the ass tbh. I wish separate hotel rooms would be normalized and single beds weren't overly expensive. I can't stand them not picking up their trash and throwing their stuff and dirty clothes wherever they feel like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:59 PM
4

I have two brothers. I know how and where they live. My biggest mistake was believing that other men are somehow different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:16 PM
96

This, and it's also easier to watch you from the outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:28 PM
91

So true. When I lived alone in a big city, I was constantly expecting danger from men. My anxiety was so extreme I had to move back home. Men would always talk to me when I walked alone, especially drunks, junkies and homelesses, and I was so scared they're gonna hurt me. It happened so many times. A man was wanking in front of me in a bus. Even now, when I walk alone and am about to pass a man, I automatically wanna cross the street. And if it's a group of men I feel like I'm gonna have a panic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:26 PM
43

Omg, are they projecting... we wouldn't do things they've been doing to us for centuries, and they know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:03 PM
2

Omg lmao. It fits Yesterday's tune so nicely hahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:42 AM
13

Why would anyone wanted to date discount Kevin Sorbo, let alone 21 year old woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:41 AM
18

I'm so glad we don't even have a word for "kink" in my country's language yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:01 PM
13

I noticed once you feel like you need to "communicate", the relationship is usually over. Or another favourite saying of scrotes "I'm not a mind reader", well, couples who are going strong actually are mind readers. They can communicate without words because they pay a huge attention to each other every single day. Or friends. I had many friends, but I'm still friends only with people who simply "get" me, because our values are aligned. To whom I don't have to explain my words and actions, and v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:50 PM
45

I bet he thinks he's a nice guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:27 PM
3

Yeah, it's anti (liberal) feminist. Seriously though, why do they act like there's just one type of feminism?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:59 PM
18

Ikr. Like what's so good about choking anyway. It just hurts and feels weird, and they all act like it's something sent from heavens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:51 PM
4

My question exactly. I wonder whoooo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:40 AM
10

It makes them indifferent to violence. They see it a few hours a day every day, so it's only natural it becomes a part of their lives in a way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:39 AM
14

JFC, what a joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:36 AM
64

To be honest, thanks to posts like this one I stopped fearing my 30th birthday. Many women still believe that "the wall" actually do exist. I did too. Those of us, who already know the wall doesn't exist may find the post cringy, but we gotta think about new members too, who have been lied to for their whole lives, and who still believe those lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:32 PM
3

But he himself was extremely negative person. I was the one not allowed to say negative things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:32 AM
82

But WE are manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:30 PM
62

Especially if they don't know a thing about evolution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:29 PM
8

Yeah... it's like if you become their mother, and only then, they will hate you...less?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:24 PM
56

It's like they forgot their mama is a woman too. I noticed they hate women, except their mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:02 PM
29

I love this answer. I hate that so common objectification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:24 AM
36

This. I kept things bottled up, then was having a crying tantrums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:18 AM
11

My ex claimed he was hypersensitive, and everything even slightly negative I said, even something like: "I'm sad because I don't get to see you lately", was apparently incredibly hurting him. Also he was "Pisces" and they're known for being empathetic, so even my a bit frowned eyebrows were bothering him, and making him sad. So I learned to not talk about how I feel, only positive things were allowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:16 AM
11

👏👏👏👏Queen right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:22 PM
54

I think my dad is jealous lately, because my mom laughs at my jokes, but not his...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:14 PM
11

Omg, 14 year old? JFC. And I also remember him talking about exclusively dating very young girls...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:44 AM
11

Me too! But things like these are instant turn off for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:40 AM
62

I'd call it "ancient love".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:20 AM
52

His band mate is another pedo. Edit: Kiedis dated 18 years old when he was 41, they even have a kid together. He wrote a song "She's only 18" about her. So gross. Then he had 19 years old gf when he was 50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:19 AM
14

Same, but I also noticed that their personality wasn't that great even if they were attractive. I used to ignore personality flaws of guys I liked, because I was blinded by their looks. I wouldn't tolerate them if they weren't attractive. So my standards are even highter now - he must be a good person to charm me (besides anything else).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:52 AM
6

Yeah, them scrotes ruined it for me lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:35 PM
8

He would send a dick pic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:27 PM
78

Slovakia: Peaky Blinders hair cut and beer belly. Won't even smile if woman said something funny. Will try to say something funnier. Is expert on everything. Thank you, sorry and please isn't in his vocabulary. Extremely huge ego is easily hurt. Proud that he can't cook. Never in his life washed the dishes. "Western" feminists ruined everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:09 PM
33

Lol, when I was a teenager, I used to burn old scrotes all the time. Me and my girl friends were a mean gang and we would laugh behind their backs, or in their faces too. If scrotes knew what teenage girls talk about them, they would cry. We would complain about stuff. It's only years after, I dropped my standards and stopped complaining, because my exes sucked the life out of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:49 AM
3

Yes definitely, I agree with the list, just wanted to add some things I noticed myself as well. And thank you! It was a valuable learning lesson and thanks to FDS ladies and even the lists like you posted, it's much easier to spot gaslighters now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:12 AM
10

Actually, "it didn't happen" or "I didn't say it" was my usual answer to a gaslighter I knew. She would made up stuff I "said", or "did" that I didn't remember saying at all, to the point I thought I was crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:18 AM
41

And if she did everything you said, they'd be like: "Wow, she really hates men, she's frigid, something is wrong with her, she's overreacting, not all men...etc."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:25 AM
7

That's unfortunately a true story I read here haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:08 AM
48

Meanwhile: Her: Could you please wash your booty, pretty please? Him: Fucking misandry!!! Femcel!!!! Them double standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:36 PM
234

First of all, please don't buy the house unless you're married. You aren't even engaged yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:51 PM
24

Omg, I so hate this narrative. Or when they say: "He's just mirroring what you don't like about yourself." Ugh. It's a part of the New Age BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:39 PM
10

In a year of NC, you'll think of him differently. Trust me. I cut it of with a friend of 25 years, and I thought she was amazing, except this little thing. I then realized it wasn't just a little thing, it was a damn avalanche. Time will help you to put his past behavior into a more accurate perspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:50 AM
6

My grandma broke up with a guy over his dirty shirt once. Be like my grandma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:41 AM
13

Wow, people in love are apparently simping. So sad. Made up narrative by jealous boys, ruining happiness of their friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:35 AM
50

Why men keep pretending being women, I will never know... Is that their kink? So sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:29 PM
8

I don't know about the US, but this situation is very common in my country, both men and women are underemployed. But interesting question, I'll think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:38 PM
46

Of course she is. This is some weird gaslighting, cause women have been treating completely useless scrotes like some kings for thousands of years already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:34 PM
-2

Aaron Taylor Johnson and Sam Taylor Johnson. Despite the age gap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:40 PM
1

I think it's called "survivor bias", I might be wrong though. But people really should pay more attention to a person's cultural background, it's not black and white. In some countries young people live with parents much much longer, like in Finland people leave home at around 18 or so, but in countries like Slovakia, Czechia, Poland or Hungary majority of people stay at home until they're in late 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:24 PM
4

And yet here we are, shaming perfectly healthy 35 y.o. women for having babies "too late".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:18 PM
7

What's up with women negging themselves, then adding something like: I feel so sorry for our boyfriends and husbands sometimes, that they have to put up with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:14 PM
31

Oh, he's jealous he can't date all those trolls, we could date if we wanted to. So sad story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:33 PM
22

True. Then they say you're the one who falsely accused someone, which isn't even true. Now you're not only raped, but they labelled you as a criminal due to the "false accusation" and the rapist is still free and can hurt someone else. It's fucked up big time. I as well was raped by my ex, but even my friends wouldn't believe me because "he was your bf back then". And how many women are raped every day because they wanna keep "peace" at home? Rape is especially evil, because it robs you of somet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:24 PM
62

Yes, these are so called "false reports". They're simply false charges for "false reports".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:12 AM
112

I remember 20 old me dating 10 years older traveler, he wanted me to join him, go to Australia to do some seasonal jobs, like picking fruits. He knew I was finally accepted to my dream University and was about to start, and he still had the audacity to persuade me, telling me why his idea was better. I'm so proud I said no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:00 AM
21

Considering how men are, they would get jealous of our beautiful planet and they would attack it at some point, for no reason, just to mess things up, like they always do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:09 PM
8

That is a cultural thing in some cases. I (Eastern European) was volunteering in Japan a few years ago, and a sister of my host mom visited and her first question was: "How old are you?" I said my age, and I asked her, how old are you? She said: Well, what do you think? I said: 43 (I said that because I knew from her sister), and she looked so hurt and she was like: But everyone says I look 18. It was a dick move from me, I know, but I was so pissed because literally everyone's first question wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:13 PM
107

And you know what's the best about FDS? Once you start living it, it's impossible to go back. I had been looking for solutions for my problems for years, reading self-help books, spiritual books, religion... It helped for a few days, then I went back to my old ways. I was so upset, that I couldn't follow "amazing" advices in those books. I thought if I just acted accordingly, I would be happy. But it was impossible because my learned thought patterns were so strong. FDS is so great because it's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:38 PM
8

If it works for them, good. But I can see it actually doesn't, because why else he felt the urge to attack other women with different standards?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:23 AM
15

Even worst than that is women telling on themselves, sharing"funny" stories about how "crazy" they are during PMS, e.g. : "My bf jokingly told me I'm chubby, and I cried like a baby, lmao, those hormones, I don't understand how men put up with us lol. He's so sweet because he laughed and hugged me and he told me I'm acting so silly." It makes me so fucking sad. Women should realize that crying during PMS is always about some deeper issues which they have been ignoring for a whole month. Another …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:32 PM
5

What's up with all the down votes? I noticed it happens everytime someone posts "cute" video (I said "cute" only because everybody has different standards about cute things), and commenters who don't think it's cute are automatically being down voted. It actually makes me quite sad. Or are we being brigaded?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:18 PM
1

I was with my LVM for 6 years and I started growing grey hair at 25. My mom and dad in their 50s still mostly have their original hair color.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:26 AM
24

Many models or actresses are over 30 and nobody talks about their age at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:25 AM
21

I know what you mean. Typical case of our intuition warning us, but we were taught by society to ignore it by overthinking and giving benefit of doubts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:14 PM
26

Omg, that's so fucking scary, I'm so sorry. I'm glad he is your ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:50 PM
59

How can you tell whether a man is really being a cannibal, or he just has a fetish? Just because he says so? He could be lying you know. He could lie and trick you, you'd think it's just a play, then he would eat you. Why this woman don't see anything problematic about it? Actually many cannibals lied to their victims, even befriended them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:48 PM
41

And Brittany. She's Britney.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:12 PM
6

I have a question: what older generations of Americans think about these things? Do they think "kinks" are acceptable or they just think that "young people are weird and bored"? Do they understand the concept of "kinkshaming"? Because generation of my parents (I'm from Europe), would be so weirded out by this article, the similiar way as we are. Basically what I'm trying to say is, is it general consensus that "kinkshaming" is not okay, or is it only the young people who push the narrative? What…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:22 AM
20

We have this saying in my country, that the world's turning into a butt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:15 AM
40

It's 15 almost everywhere around Europe, including the place I live in, and it makes me sick. It should be 18. Why you should give consent to sex at 15, but when you want a tattoo, your parents have to sign the paperwork if you're younger than 18? It doesn't make any sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:54 AM
25

Ikr? Like they don't wanna touch "something" other man has touched? Are they so disgusted by themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:57 AM
12

Who cares what scrotes say lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:55 AM
26

I wish he was a spider not just pretending to be one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:40 PM
2

What kind of person is he? Does he have a history of being psycho? If he's relatively sane, then I would say: What Sunday, I don't know what you mean. Maybe he would explain that it was some misunderstanding? If he's unstable, keep ignoring him, and I would also advice the same thing from the Gift of Fear as somebody has already mentioned. This is hard because we don't know him. Some of them would go away if you just ignored them (I had three Stalkers in the past and it helped), but some could b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:28 PM
2

Yes, and yes. Absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:59 PM
1

I think it was because she wanted to help him, and I wanted to help her. Edit: I just wanted to add, that we're Eastern Europeans, and for some reason women often won't sit down when someone needs help, especially men. We're taught we should help if we can. Of course I wouldn't do any of this now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:21 PM
6

The funny thing is, male lurkers will read your comment, then gossip about our evil plans in other subs, completely ignoring the sarcasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:16 PM
7

Lol, all they see in woman is a pair of boobs, then they cry because they "accidentaly" married a person they know nothing about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:13 PM
1

Me and my friend were invited to our fellow classmate's wedding, and we were having fun and all, talking, eating and drinking with the guests, and can you believe what he asked her to do? He had the audacity to ask her to help washing the dishes, because he knew she'd been working in the kitchen at that time, and he was short of staff. He didn't ask anyone, but her. I just had to help her, because she agreed to do that, even thought she wasn't super happy about it. So me and her, all dolled up, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:36 PM
18

He should have CoMmuNicAtEd why her words hurt him. Or does cOmMunIcAtIOn apply only to women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:33 PM
33

They're acting like they're very wise, but they seem very stupid instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:29 PM
75

And from now on she'll learn to be careful about her words...then actions...then thoughts. Those people telling her it's partly her fault... Such an evil bunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:28 PM
46

That's what happens when LVM take pickme-ism for granted - scrotes think they can keep talking to women without any respect and they have the nerve to expect women to be like: "oh, that's okay, let me undress". Nah, scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:25 PM
35

lmao so accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:58 PM
212

Also it sounds like: Idk why I think that (because obviously there is nothing special about you), but I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:51 PM
77

Ikr? He's obviously impotent now. I think the most reasonable thing he could do is to be a celibate over longer period of time, maybe forever. But nooo, he just "has to" use another human being for his "kinks".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:53 PM
2

Self esteem issues maybe? He "complimented" you by touching you, so you were craving for more? We're programmed to give sex as a reward, so maybe what you really wanted is to be just hugged and validated by someone of opposite sex, and you believed that you'll get all of that, if you slept with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:41 AM
2

Then I'm broken because touching coming from a man I'm feeling cold about makes me run as a wind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:34 AM
6

When someone says man and female in one sentence, it's especially weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:58 AM
12

If she is smart and beautiful, they feel so incredibly tiny and insecure compared to her, that they just need to make her smaller.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:02 AM
30

Projection. Because they can't do more than type in Hello World. This is common joke among people who start programming, ironically, people who actually understand programming won't make these "jokes", simply because they don't have a time for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:01 AM
24

Oh, so when he jerks off to porn, is he also complimenting hard work of actors too? Pinch me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:45 AM
38

Yes, like...why? Is it testosterone thing? Or what exactly is it? Or is it something they learned?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:42 AM
14

Same sis! Almost 30 years as well haha. People, or let's say, men, don't respect kindness. For them kindness=weakness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:36 PM
18

I think both explanation are 100% correct. It's another male thing worth further examination. My mom is extremely nice person, when my dad is PMSing, the nicer she is the grumpier he becomes. I think that's how I actually realized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:34 PM
9

Unfortunately, it's my father and brothers I live with, if it's just friends, then yeah, I ditch those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:08 PM
8

Exactly. I don't like it either, but what can you do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:25 PM
71

This applies to family members too. When I'm nice to them, they are all grumpy, and they wouldn't even look at me, but when I'm my normal self, even if I'm being mean a bit, they smile, make jokes etc. It's quite sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:52 PM
12

She explained what's wrong with him, now he's going to use it against her whenever he can. I have flashbacks of me realizing my ex had a social anxiety, then he wouldn't shut up about his social anxiety he wasn't aware of for 25 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:22 PM
311

His daughter isn't even born yet, but he already thinks about her like that? So sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:55 PM
35

Lol, but when woman gets raped, it's her fault because she was too trusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:16 PM
57

I mean...he himself sounds agressive and scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:14 PM
18

Only shitty tattoo artist would agree to do this so yeah...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:41 PM
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