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DISCUSSIONCarneliancat/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 11:37 PM
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Wow, this man has no respect for you at all. Why are you okay with this? The world is full of men. The one you have now can easily be replaced, and with one who doesn't expect his girlfriend to pay his way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:15 PM
2

Really? Why are you positioning yourself to be his sucker? Has this place taught you nothing? You don't let this leech move in. How is this even a question?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 06:02 PM
21

Clean, crisp sheets unmarred by man-grease and stale beer farts. My bed is a clean and cozy snore-free utopia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 05:05 PM
18

In that cheap, ill-fitting jacket? Oh no he did not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 04:53 PM
26

Nah, I'm not interested in common dick. Dick is everywhere, attached to really substandard men. The only dick that interests me is the dick of someone I love, who loves me back, ardently. I'm also not going to ACT like anything--I'm going to BE myself, and accept the pleasure that I actually enjoy. I'm not going to play into any poisonous societal messaging and go for the Academy Award. No role playing, no p*rn drag costuming, and no weird kInKs. If men don't like my stance, then they can fuck e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 10:30 PM
108

Just say you're a creepy and opportunistic sexual predator and go, Owen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:24 PM
89

Fucking a woman young enough to be his daughter--how very Chaplinesque of him. Why is he making children with his dusty sperm? He looks positively freeze-dried at this point. Young women need to realize that old sperm is faulty sperm. You are not giving your child the best start in life by procreating with a man with three decades on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:23 PM
5

Yes! Natural fibers only in bed--skin's gotta breathe. Otherwise I get too damned hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:15 PM
168

If a man wants to give me a massage, he better mean a gift certificate for a nice spa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:15 AM
67

Sure, buy me lingerie. But the only lingerie I wear are 100% plain silk slip-style nightgowns that hit at the knee or lower, and they are expensive. Keep your cheap flammable porn drag for yourself, scrote. If you show up with this type of "gift", you can wear the frilly scratchy lace panties and I will laugh at you, which will be fun for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:14 AM
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Exactly. It isn't the job of feminism to be the water-carrier for every other movement out there. I don't notice any other movement helping feminists with our movement. Real feminism has, and will always be, about elevating WOMEN. Nothing more. Which is how it should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 07:30 PM
43

I'm done with the blowjobs. Men have ruined them for women. As for oral on me, it's how I orgasm. It's on the table, or that is where the relationship ends. He needs to make me come before I will allow him to penetrate me. Men come through penetration just fine, so taking blowjobs off the table takes nothing away from them but a way to degrade you. Get yours first, before he gets his, ladies. Always. If he won't make that happen, then next him. Vibrators are fabulous for non-stop orgasms without…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 07:47 PM
48

Oh god, how embarrassing for him. If he was a flavour of ice cream, he would be Sour Grapes Loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 12:02 AM
39

If I'm reaching for my purse after a meal, it's to get a mint. If course I will also offer one to my date. It's only polite!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:35 PM
73

This. A man being seen with a beautiful woman has raised his social currency. They know it, too. He can pay for the dates, or not see me at all. Either way is fine with me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 11:31 PM
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All I got out of that is: " I know I fail embarrassingly at reaching a self-respecting woman's standards, and I am ANGRY at being faced with my own inadequacies and deficiencies. So I am going to take it out on you, as opposed to taking a good long look in the mirror." Edit: Cool! Thanks for the reward, lovey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 01:52 PM
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You brought up sex way too early. A LVM will see it as a green light to push for sex, and a HVM would honestly lose some interest, because now he knows he won't have to work too hard to get it, since you've already brought it up. Never deprive a man of the chase--they need it. Men only value those things they need to work hard for and invest in, and that includes relationships. A bit of mystery is a good thing. Sexual compatibility is quite easy to create with a HVM, because he will actually car…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 12:34 AM
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Exactly! A good rule to absolutely uphold--never do for men that which you know they would not do for or put up with from a woman. This pretty much cuts off putting up with any of their fuckery, and makes it so easy to block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 02:23 PM
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The FUCK???? I have concerns both for his daughter and the contents of his hard drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 04:46 PM
137

Yss, so true. And I'll just say it--I've never seen an attractive man involved in a pOlYaMouRoUs RelAtIOnsHiP. Just the fugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 04:31 PM
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Oh, pay no mind! It's the equivalent of the naughty schoolboy dipping the pigtail of the girl he likes into the inkwell. Except with more scrote. Just a bunch of lonely fools eating their hearts out over women they will never be able to have. They sure do find us fascinating, though. Must see something they like, to lurk here so often!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 04:26 PM
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YES! Entitlement dies hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:18 PM
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Oh, I think they know. LVM definitely know we don't need them, and it pisses them off. I think they're just in the long temper tantrum phase of the program, where they try to circumvent the actual reality and try to tell themselves that everything is FINE, and that NO, THEY are the prize, not women. They are essentially acting like children, crossing their arms and sticking out their bottom lips in ineffectual defiance. Hence all the abundant PUA and Red Pilled nonsense that losers flock to now.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 10:28 PM
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Sex needs to start with your orgasm. If a man can't make you come first, then that is where sex ends. If I don't get to come, then neither does he. Better luck next time, my dude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:37 PM
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When the losers of Reddit have nothing, at least they have the report button to misuse. A peewee power trip, the only kind they can get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:35 PM
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A man needs to be able "lift it, fix it, build it, and pay for it." And that's just the starting point. Words told to me by a friend, and she is right. If they can't do all of these things, then they are not worth the trouble to any woman. For all that we bring to men's lives, they can certainly hold up their end of the bargain and make our lives better. If not--then there is no point in dealing with them. Who wants to bother with a deficient man? Either enrich and enhance my life or just keep w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:20 PM
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Clowned himself out of a date with an attractive woman because he is a cheapskate who feels the need to take the advice of other losers. Wow, he sure showed her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:08 PM
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Total queen, telling the hard truths. That gormless idiot looks like he spits when he talks. What does he have to offer a woman except a stunned expression and complete lack of self-awareness? No sir.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 05:08 AM
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Yeah, this is a man who WILL end up killing her one day if she doesn't leave him now. Nothing here to salvage, he is dangerous garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 02:44 PM
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The Prince of Tides was also a steaming garbage pile of a movie along this vein.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 08:05 PM
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Wow, that is QUITE quick-thinking attempt at a save on his part! And you bought that? No, he wasn't thinking that at all. He thought it was funny as hell, and only said that to placate you because you indicated you were offended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:51 PM
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This right here. This truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:46 PM
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It doesn't matter if you're excusing his behaviour or not. You're accepting it, and making yourself look like a sucker to him. He tested your boundaries and gaslit you. He showed you he is a LVM who enjoys LV humor, and doesn't care about your feelings. He doesn't need to give you total honesty, because he thinks you will happily settle for less, since you are still with him after this incident. He showed you what he thinks about you, and then backpeddled and gaslit you. And in response, you're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:45 PM
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If you have to spend this much time trying to figure it out, there is your answer. Your boyfriend sounds like gaslighting garbage who could not care less about your feelings, to be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 07:28 PM
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How would this improve ratings for a one-off live show already in progress?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 08:54 PM
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And not only that-- the laughter looked sardonic, not mirthful. Nervous laughter does not mean the person is enjoying the joke. And seeing his wife's face fall and the look of weariness and anger on her face probably pushed him to stand up for her in that moment. He felt her pain and humiliation, and he went and slapped some sense into the idiot on the stage, who chose to come for a woman battling an auto-immune disease. That's a good man in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:25 PM
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This. Chris Rock got the short sharp shock last night, deservedly so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:12 PM
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Goddamned straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:10 PM
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Personally, I thought Will Smith showed remarkable restraint by only slapping Chris Rock with an open hand, and only once, considering that Chris Rock has made Jada the butt of his tasteless jokes before. I don't even begin to assume I know what Will and Jada have been dealing with, between public speculation and ridicule about their marriage for years, and her health issues. Chris Rock getting slapped for mouthing off one too many times is not something I feel concern over. I certainly don't ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 06:06 PM
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I appreciate your point of view on this. I'm a white woman, but I respected what Will Smith did last night. I guess people here are also forgetting that Chris Rock took a nasty dig at Jada a few years ago when she chose to boycott the Oscars. At that time, he made a crude joke comparing the situation to him gaining access into Rhianna's panties--both not invited. He's a dirty misogynistic fool who seems to have a real hate-on for Jada Smith. Will Smith stood up for his wife last night, and I'm n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:57 PM
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Nah, sometimes violence is the answer when it comes to defending our mate. Chris Rock made some other pretty unkind and gross jokes about Jada during one of his other comedy routines when she chose to boycott the Oscars a few years back. So, he has humiliated her on the world stage before. There was previous beef, and Will settled it last night. Jada has alopeica, which is a heart-breaking condition for a woman to have, given how our hair is so tied to our beauty in this culture. The fact that s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:30 PM
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People seem to forget that alcohol is also a drug, and is a highly addictive substance that also ruins lives. A person using soft drugs such as weed on occasion would not be a red flag to me, no more than their having a drink on occasion would be. Hard drugs are a different story, though. Sure, some can be used responsibly in certain contexts, but do I really want to be with a man who wants to do party drugs like cocaine and ecstasy past the age of 30? No, I do not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:38 PM
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Wow. Pick meeeeeeeeeeeee! Pick MEEEEEEEEEEEEE! Please, please pick meeeeeeee!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:22 PM
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This is beyond revolting and distasteful, especially in light of the fact that we are now learning so much more about the rapey violence that Hugh Hefner and his guests perpetuated upon the women at the Playboy mansion. The series "Secrets of Playboy" has been a huge eye-opener, to say the very least. The Playboy brand is synonymous with rape, sexual abuse, underaged girls, drugging women, violence toward women, the calculated gaslighting of women's lived experiences, and the ruination of women'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:07 PM
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Most definitely. As for "the number", if a man even asks that question, he is LV. A HVM assumes that a woman he is interested is more than likely to have engaged in sex in her previous relationships, and considers it normal and hardly a topic of conversation. HVM are not interested in a woman's previous sexual relationships, because he knows that they have nothing to do with him and are not his business. As for my number, I only count those men who have given me an orgasm. It shaves off quite a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 08:00 PM
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I don't care WHAT kind of day a man is having. The moment he lashes out at me, his partner, is when it is over. End of discussion. A man who dumps his stress on his partner is an abuser who has no respect for his wife/girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 07:02 PM
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So much truth. We live in a society where women are frowned upon if their "number" of sexual partners is deemed too high. A woman who engages in sex work will forever be regarded as a wh*re, despite the happy horseshit libfem handmaidens try to make women swallow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:38 PM
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Nothing to see here, just your typical LVM hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:36 PM
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They also hate the fact that some men can well afford the high maintenance gold diggers, and it's not them. Also, that these men don't mind that the women are attracted to their money, because money is a source of power. A woman being drawn to a wealthy man for his cash is a source of validation for him, and he also enjoys the social perks of being able to have a beautiful high-maintenance girlfriend. The long and short of it is, whiny scrotes wish they were these guys who are able to pull in th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 11:21 PM
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No, shan't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 11:12 PM
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Condoms for life. I never wanted kids, but I still don't want some dude's jizz inside me, no matter who he is. That stuff is gross. Stay mad, scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 12:53 PM
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I love watching their faces fall when I say "LOL. No. I'm not a sweet girl. At all."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 12:32 PM
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Oh for fuck's sake. Who scribbled this steaming horseshit pile of a comic? Let me assure any hopeful lurking scrotes, NO WOMAN who is alone on a bus is just waiting to strike up a conversation with the lone creepy dude. PSA: Just because a woman is giving you happy dink feelings does not mean that you have a right to invade upon her personal and mental space and demand her attention. Really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 12:24 PM
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Pretty much this. A man who needs a woman's money is a loser. End of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 01:29 PM
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This is the energy, right here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 12:51 PM
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It's beautifully simple, really. The moment a man makes you feel confused, frustrated, sad, embarrassed, angry, or clingy---out he goes. Why? Because a man who TRULY cares about you is also a man who has TRULY gotten to know you. He won't want to upset you. He will be aware of your triggers, and not be careless with your feelings. He will always treat you with respect, even during conflicts. He will make his love known, and you won't be left to wonder how he feels about you, ever. This cOmMuniCa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 12:47 PM
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If a man did that to me, he would be buying me new makeup. A whole new makeup wardrobe, in fact. And then I would dump his useless ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 11:03 PM
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Liar. I'm willing to bet this piece of shit is not Ukrainian. Also, who is going to let him in on the fact that truly decent men have no problem finding girlfriends and wives? We leave the creepy angry ones like him alone. It's not womens' fault he is so naturally revolting and repelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 02:15 PM
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Nope. I'm not dancing around like a dog with a ruffle around its neck at the circus in an attempt to snare and entertain some scrote, and inject some sparkle into his colorless life. I don't lift a finger to get picked. When it comes to men, the worse you treat them, the better they seem to like it. Be the girl who doesn't text back. That will get and keep a man's attention like nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 01:49 PM
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Does this poor addled fool even know what he's trying to say here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 08:02 PM
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He worked hard for those delicate hairs, no question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 07:58 PM
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I can appreciate the kitschy aesthetics of a good 70s pornstache. This is a very bad approximation of a 70s pornstache. Psoriasis would be sexier than this damp and sparse horror. I looks like it's glued on with wallpaper paste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 04:28 PM
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His scraggly moustache looks as if it smells of dampness and mouse poop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:55 PM
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When hasn't our misery been entertainment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:21 PM
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Nothing is more unpredictable and dangerous to a woman than a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 02:03 PM
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34 countries in the same t-shirt, no doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:49 PM
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Or Thailand pics. Anytime a guy is a solo traveler who raves about Thailand, I immediately assume he's there for the sex tourism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:35 PM
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Also, the presumptive "Just ask me!" on an otherwise blank profile. No, I don't believe I will, brosephina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:31 PM
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Aww, the look on his face when she sees her friends! Her joy is also his joy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:29 PM
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Sometimes you gotta love your kids enough not to have them in the first place. That's what I did. No regrets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:22 PM
23

Serial killers in the making, and TikToK is encouraging it as a fun little trend. Burn it. Burn it all down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:18 PM
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If a man makes you feel personally irritated by what he has said, it's a neg. Cut him off. Walk away from the conversation. Turn your back to him. Block, delete. They know what they're doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 05:14 PM
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Block and delete. If the nudes pop up again, say they are deep fakes of child porn. Then the question to everyone else becomes, why does he have child porn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 04:35 PM
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A normal guy gets hard from making out. If I need to perform some sort of inspirational skit to get his dick up, I am 1000% not interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 02:25 PM
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Nah, horseshit. Under the age of 50-55, erectile dysfunction is NOT common, and IS the mark of a pornsick man, bAbE. Leave him where you found him, don't coddle and coo at the broken pervert like he's a timid first grader on the first day of school. And certainly don't gaslight yourself into thinking it's because you're just that hot that you make a man's dick wilt. Like, how does that even make sense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:04 AM
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These men have to make the hot women one-dimensional idiots, in their addled pea-brained minds. Because they know they have nothing of substance to offer a gorgeous and smart woman, and will rightfully get rejected at some point, if they even get in the door in the first place. They do it to protect their flaccid egos from the blow that is coming. It's alllllll about insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 09:52 PM
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No question. It's men who created the whole " a woman can be pretty or smart" nonsense in the first place. Let's not forget that! They can't let in the fact that ACTUALLY, most of us are both. And then some! They do it to protect their egos. That way they have an out when we reject them. We get: "She's pretty, but an idiot. Good for fucking, and that's it." "She's smart, but homely, so I don't want to fuck her." Notice that in both scenarios, he tries to create shortcomings for her that most ver…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 09:48 PM
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Aw, thank YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 09:39 PM
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What a filthy barnacle of a human being. He actively participated in his child's death, then wanted a payout. Testicular cancer would be too good for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:25 PM
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Here's a man who wants to climb to success on the shoulders of a woman. He's assuming she is going to go 50/50. If he can't make a success of himself without using a woman's cash, then he is just a loserrrrrr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:11 PM
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This. They don't just want to fuck us. They want to hurt us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 06:08 PM
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All this tells me is that these men could not be bothered to find the humanity in their pretty wives. They married their wives for her looks, while completely ignoring everything else that was there beneath the surface. Just because he treated her like all that she had to her was her looks does not make it so. All this tells me is that they were so wrapped up in dick feelings, that is all they WANTED to feel. I'd like to know what these wives' experiences were like, and how they felt knowing tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:19 PM
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She's dumb as a box of hammers. I said what I said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:04 PM
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Wow, she's really going there? Comparing the restaurant industry with the porn industry? Hate to tell you honey, but I can't remember the last time the waiter forced me to eat his d*ck before serving me my linguine con cozze. So. The barely veiled sad resentment in her eyes speak quite a different story as to her real feelings. She's trying to gaslight herself. Desperately. Also, she looks like she has a raging fever with that ridiculous makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 03:03 PM
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Unless the person in need is a family member that you deeply love, just NO to being spare parts for men. Like hell I would compromise my own health for a man who is statistically highly likely to end up being a huge disappointment. A kidney is a vital organ. Hugely vital. Operating on one kidney is far from ideal. If her remaining one gets injured or diseased, then she is soundly fucked. And for what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 02:54 PM
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Oh, fuck your Y chromosome. Truths will be told, spare no feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 12:39 AM
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It will get her homeless, is where. Because I really don't see her ex coming to her aid like this if she ever needed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:31 PM
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First dates? Men can pay for all the dates if they want to date me. Otherwise, why would I bother? I don't want to be in a relationship with a cheapskate. Scrotes can stay mad about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:41 PM
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Only one word for her---SUCKER. How low do you have to be in your own estimation to do such a foolish thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:35 PM
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She says sweetheart, I say sucker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 02:16 PM
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With friends like this, who needs enemies? She sounds like a shitty person in general, who needs to make everything about her. You lost nothing of value here, and now you are free to be open to friendships that will actually be healthy and supportive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:51 PM
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Not a good trade. At all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 04:42 PM
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I didn't even do laundry for my husband when I was married. He didn't suddenly get to acquire a personal laundress just because we were living together. He washed his own damned clothes like he did when he was single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 12:02 AM
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.....and she's f*cking that creature? In her bed? And sleeping beside it? Good god. Thus is what happens when we have zero standards, ladies. We soon start to think it's normal that a man should be able to ooze clots of his grease all over our nice clean sheets. Could never be me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:35 PM
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I don't care if he's an asshole, or has autism, Asperger's, or a bad cold--if he makes me uncomfortable and doesn't treat me well, out he goes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:30 PM
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Encourage a conversation? No. We don't drag, push, or pull men into being who we want them to be. If they don't come correct, then that is the end of it. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 01:45 PM
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Any man who thinks he is such a dOm is a loser. Plain and simple. He is a loser who has had few successes in his life, due to his own laziness and inadequacy. Leave the losers where you find them. They have nothing to offer any woman but abuse and disappointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 01:41 PM
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Seriously, it feels like a coat of armor. A strong red lip is like a warning signal. It declares the wearer as bold. Gotta be a good strong and bright red though, meticulously applied. Example: Catherine Deneuve in "The Hunger". Google images will show you exactly what I mean!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 01:07 PM
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The first thing to accept is that men don't change. If they come to you full of drama and make your life complicated and unhappy, it never gets better than that. He is a LVM. HVM don't behave like this, and never would, no matter what circumstances arose in their lives. A simple concept, but huge when you start viewing the men you encounter through this lens. This man is trash, and a liar. The kindest thing you can do for yourself in your healing process is block him from every platform. Continu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:31 PM
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What about your respect? Do you not have any for yourself? I mean, it's clear he has none for you, but what about you? Because if you have any for yourself, you will leave this garbage man where he is and cut off contact. Also, read the HANDBOOK. This relationship is hot garbage, and only has potential for more drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:56 PM
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Whether it's the truth or not is irrelevant. A man who trashes his ex and calls her crazy has outed himself as a LMV. A HVM doesn't talk about problematic exes this way, if he even mentions them at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 06:48 PM
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My makeup routine has been slimmed down to a bit of under-eye concealer, a bit of brow gel, and a good red lipstick. I love a good red power lip. It makes men uneasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 06:45 PM
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I totally get it. And listen--you DESERVE to be free from obsessive thoughts, and the horrible scars of trauma bonding. The power is within YOU, even if it doesn't feel like it right now. I know right now you feel devastated, out of control, emotionally broken, and angry. Completely understandable--you've been on an emotional rollercoaster, and probably even have some PTSD from it. Emotional abuse takes a heavy toll. No one disputes that. Healing won't be easy. It will take time. But you are WOR…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 06:37 PM
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Correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 03:34 PM
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She's right though. You don't have a right to post when you're just here to fight with people who are giving you solid advice. That is what this member is clearly taking issue with , and she's not the only one. Please don't gaslight another woman here about why she is so "angry" when she just explained her frustration to you in detail. And she is right. You don't appear to be here to learn or get support and advice--you just seem to want an audience so you can keep talking about this loser, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 03:29 PM
13

The pain will stop once you let it. You're keeping it alive by keeping a door open for this creep. Stop focusing on what he did to you, because you can't change the past. But you can learn from it. So much. Learn from this horrible pain, and use it to galvanize yourself into becoming a new person, one who will never again fall for such flagrant fuckery. You cannot change what happened. It's done. But you CAN change what happens next. That is completely in your control, so take that control and u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 10:15 PM
33

The hard truth is, you lined up to be his sucker. MORE THAN TWICE. Don't be surprised when LVM act low value. Best change that helpless, flailing anger you're feeling right now to righteous anger, which will actually do you some good, and block and delete this fucker right out of your life. There will be no closure here, and closure is a lie anyhow, and one that women tell ourselves when the truth is, we don't want to let go. To continue to engage with this scenario is going to keep eating piece…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 09:57 PM
77

What woman who actually loves herself just wants to be a flavour in some scrote's pussy buffet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 09:40 PM
65

Succinct and accurate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:01 PM
42

Who is going to tell him that if his thoughts are this black and twisted, he isn't actually kind? No, he's actually a full-fledged sociopath, barely hanging on to the outer edges of polite society. Yet another "nice guy" who thinks that his kindness coins should easily dispense sex from the woman vending machine. Women are right to stay the fuck away from him--they can smell the crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:00 PM
30

Anytime, sugar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:13 AM
94

A man who wants to suck a woman into doing 50/50 is a cheap and bitter loser who does not deserve a partner. A woman who buys into that nonsense is a woman with no self-respect. Ignore those salty men, pity those women who choose to settle for losers, and save your attention for the men who understand the value you add to their lives. A HVM would be embarrassed to even suggest 50/50. The scrotes who whine and rage are just telling on themselves. Their strange little opinions about relationships …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 04:11 AM
231

This is it. It's here. The moment you need to stand up and guard your future happiness has arrived. You know in your heart that marrying this man will be the wrong thing to do--don't try to talk yourself out of it over a few thousand dollars in lost deposits. Your happiness is worth a million times that, at least. This will be some hard medicine to swallow. Break-ups suck at the best of times, and there will be bitterness. But it is temporary. Your future will be wide open once more, to curate a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:56 AM
26

THAT'S the spirit! A marriage should be like a fun hobby for a woman. If it isn't, what's the point? The days of women giving their soul and lifeblood to keep a scrote happy need to end. It's not a woman's lot in life to be consumed in service to a man. Marriage as the be-all, end-all to a woman's existence is a filthy lie. If she chooses marriage, it needs to work for HER, and not strip her to the bone for mere crumbs. The lie is simply not enough anymore. It never really was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 01:16 AM
27

What a horribly sad story. Yet another strong example about how we should never accept the tiniest disrespect from a man, ever. It is truly the thin edge of the wedge for the majority of men--they try it small, and pretty soon it just looks like normal life with them. Never, ever give the benefit of the doubt to low value behaviour from anyone, especially men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 11:53 PM
100

See, the thing is this: in any relationship, there are two people, having different relationships. A man who is typically married is having a grand old time! To him, marriage is great. But a woman, in a marriage with that same man is typically NOT having a grand old time. And since men can never see a point of view beyond their own, of course this gentleman can't quite wrap his head around the concept that a woman would not want marriage. It's like my ex-husband. "I don't want to get divorced!",…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 08:59 PM
169

Look, here's the truth and hard facts, ladies-- unless a man is wealthy, positively adores and highly respects you, AND lives to make you happy, marriage won't be much fun, and it certainly won't bring you much happiness--and you won't walk away with much in the event of a divorce, but COULD lose pretty much all that you have, including your sanity. Marriage is worth it to a woman ONLY if it will enhance and enrich her life. If it's kids you want, there is always the sperm donor route. Don't thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 07:23 PM
12

This woman has no self-respect for herself, and it's sad to see. Imagine doing a kindergarten craft project so your useless husband can go and buy food. Imagine even STAYING with such a useless clod, once he has revealed such utter incompetence to you. And then imagine telling the world about it for clout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:20 PM
133

The reason these LVM are so obsessed with their wilted dicks is because no one else is. They realize, deep down, that they are repugnant, and that no woman of worth would ever want to touch them or their sad deflated dicks. Since they center so much of their lackluster personalities on their floppy dicks, it's all they have to talk about and occupy their limited thoughts with. Basically, LVM are men who have never grown up and developed true emotional maturity. So it's DICK DICK DICK all the tim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 02:03 PM
52

What would I do? I wouldn't waste another moment of my precious time trying to figure out a man who follows Insta models. That is LV behaviour, and a man who engages in LV behaviour is a LVM. No need to make it complicated or get insecure whatsoever. When a man behaves in a way that leaves you confused, insecure, unhappy, or frustrated, that shows you that he does not care about your feelings. There is no benefit to staying with a man who does not care about your feelings. Believe what a man sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 11:38 PM
34

This red-faced beefy dolt actually thinks he's funny? Wow! Someone's mommy made too much of a fuss over him growing up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 05:16 PM
25

Lollllllllll. And yet. And YET. All the crybaby scrotes are still absolutely desperate for a relationship. They want so very bad the thing they claim to hate. They turn their self-hatred onto us, because they know that the very type of woman they want is not even going to give him even a sniff of her knickers, let alone sex and a relationship. Instead of leveling up, they stubbornly dig in and guard their lacklustre personalities, "dad" bods, filthy homes, and cheapness as if they are rare. This…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:58 PM
31

THIS right here. Pure wisdom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:32 PM
140

That's code for "feed me, fuck me, wipe my bum, and never bother me with any of your needs because I have no willingness to fulfill them."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:24 PM
15

Yep. she may as well used a bullhorn at an incel convention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:39 AM
59

The "free meal" rage will never not be highly amusing. Women can buy our own meals. We can also buy our friend's meals. We don't waste our time going out with men we aren't interested in so that we can eat, lol! HVM want to buy meals for their dates, in order to let her know that he is wanting to impress her, and create a romantic atmosphere. They understand the dance of dating and romance. LVM, the men we would not even waste our time with , totally know this too. But their self-hatred at their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:35 AM
29

Right? It's the subtleties like this clown's body language that tend to stand out the most, especially when juxtaposed to the group he is in. I'm not surprised so many of us thought the same thing. Instincts are a valuable tool for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 01:25 AM
122

I had the same thought. His energy looks defensive. I think he's assaulted at least one woman, given the energy he's putting off. Either way, you know it's a full-out lie that he's never even heard of one woman in his life being sexually assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:37 PM
207

The fact he even SAYS it proves it was on his mind to indeed fuck/rape you. He chose to word the statement this way, as opposed to "You are safe with me", which even so, should not make a difference to being alone with a strange man--that's always a bad idea. They really don't know how obvious they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:30 PM
165

They think they're soooo clever. Like bro, I can guarantee I'm a far better cook than you, and have no interest in barely warm Ragu served with undercooked spaghetti on a questionably clean plate, eaten in your dim little hovel. Such a tacky little ploy to rush a woman into bed with minimal effort. A man who even offers the at-home dinner date is not HV. A HVM wants to impress you and treat you to a nice evening out. This is not it, not to mention how unsafe it is to go to a strange man's apartm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:26 PM
252

A woman being amused at being treated like a fleshlight. How embarrassing to advertise your lack of self-worth like this. "He pooped on my head then rubbed my nose in it! Oh what a scamp! >:D "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:18 PM
99

Looking forward to the day when women en masse rediscover dignity. Because when you have it and value it, you don't get caught up in nonsense like this. So glad that FDS is here, teaching women what it looks like to actually value yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:46 PM
488

Nah, don't fall for this line, ladies. Never be with a man who is still climbing. He will use all that you have to give, and then when he makes it, he will dump you and go after the women he thinks he now deserves and can attract. Working together to build has not been the reality in relationships between men and women for decades now. Build for yourself, by yourself, and only get with men who have already succeeded. Never be a man's stepping stone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:42 PM
52

It's probably more of disgust for the thought of putting his dick where shit comes out of. Everyone has an asshole. Sexually healthy men don't want to put their dick in feces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:09 PM
69

And THIS is why I will never let another man into my life again unless he is going to enhance and enrich it well beyond what it already is now--and it's pretty great right now, to be honest. Makes zero difference to me if I stay single for the rest of my life! A 50/50 man offers absolutely nothing to a woman. 50/50? That's just her paying to be with him, and why should she do that? Women bring much more than men do to relationships, AND MEN KNOW IT. Don't fall for the gaslighting, ladies. Only g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 09:03 PM
10

Yep. Centering our lives around a man as the proper way of being has been the biggest lie sold to women. It's time we woke up and started doing only the things that are of benefit to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 01:31 AM
10

He says "simple", I hear "simple-minded". Zero interest for me. I'm not simple, so why would I want a man who is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:27 PM
65

The more I learn about the harm men do to women the more I'm convinced that women should be forming family units and buying homes with their best female friends, and raising their sperm bank babies together. It would be a much safer option for the women and their children, with much more support within the family unit, and without the very real harms that men cause to their families. Do men even deserve families at this point? It's time to stop centering the model of traditional families as idea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:16 PM
15

Exactly this. Until I can observe for myself that you are actively part of the solution, I will still consider you to be part of the problem. Bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:52 PM
215

It's always the bitter losers who know they can't meet a woman's standards who get so pressed. I'm reminded of the saying "those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter." HVM who know they have much to offer a woman aren't the ones having conniptions about it. This dude just announced that he is a loser. To everyone. That type of self-own will never stop being amusing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:08 PM
40

No straight man who actually knows how to give his partner fulfilling sex complete with orgasms wants to do anal. The vagina provides much more pleasure for a man who has a healthy sexuality. No sane man enjoys the thought of his penis being put where a woman shits from. Anal is for losers who are bad at sex and who have broken porn dicks, end of. Leave these pathetic and broken men where you find them. They have nothing to offer you but bad sex, and a flaccid dick that will always smell of shit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:50 PM
45

Nope. I will not do for men what they refuse to do for women. This is what gets the scrotes riled. They think they are entitled to our emotional labour to help them evolve. No, they are not. And since men really don't take counseling seriously anyhow, and just use it as a tool to gaslight the women in their lives further, women are far better off leaving the maladjusted ones alone. It isn't worth it. A man who is truly serious about getting help will do it on his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:35 PM
276

A man who whines about how cold or hard to get to know you are is a man who has just announced that he has put you in the "fuck only" category. Because let's not kid ourselves here, it IS about not being able to have immediate access to your body. A HVM who is truly wanting to know you and be with you isn't going to whine about not having immediate access to your pussy. HVM get it. They understand. And they would never have the audacity to put a woman on the defensive about her boundaries. They …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:23 PM
20

Just as it should be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:49 AM
81

$8000 sounds like a damned bargain to get this scrote out of her life for good, frankly. And yes, porn is cheating. A man in a monogamous relationship who is using the bodies of other women to get off to is a cheater. He is directing his sexual energy elsewhere. Porn actresses are real people, despite the gaslighting the pornified and flabby scrotes try to lay on us about this. It isn't about the masturbation. Masturbation is not the issue. Masturbating while using the bodies of other women IS t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:40 AM
35

Just say you have no dignity or self-respect and go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:27 AM
280

Rule to live by, and you'll never have a man break your heart again: As soon as he hurts your feelings, or makes your stomach drop, or leaves you confused--leave him. He is showing you plainly that he does not care about your feelings. A man who loves and respects a woman won't ever make her feel like crap, over anything. A man who does not care about how he makes you feel with his word or deeds does not love you. See it, believe it, end it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:57 PM
309

You know how sometimes, in the Fall, when all the other apples have been picked, and there are still those dwarfed apples up on the branches, getting all withered, frostbitten, and rotten? The ones that were never picked, because they never ripened properly, or were full of worms? Those men are like these apples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:53 PM
227

Feigned incompetence. I'm pretty sure that when he was on his own, he was able to navigate a grocery store just fine. Divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:47 PM
18

I'm going to take a different view of this. Romantic love is highly overrated, and it is basically a chemical soup that your brain is getting high on. Put romantic love last. Put your interests first. If it's a relationship you're after, go for a man you're attracted to and who adores you, a man who has your best interests truly at heart. Fall in love with being truly respected, seen, and cherished. Fall in love with how he treats you. Actions can't lie, over the long run, and this is why you ke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:42 PM
18

My god, men are stupid. Imagine buying a fart!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:12 AM
3

I'm thinking this poor deranged and delusional soul doesn't actually know where the clit is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:07 AM
45

Omg, FARTS???? Lollllllcrying forever! Men are apparently desperate for just a literal whiff of yesterday's groceries, and here is this clown acting as if he is the prize and bitching about "Average pussy"? Oh, my sides! I CANNOT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 11:58 PM
15

This is men. Which is why I am incredibly grateful to be single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:24 PM
29

Best argument for going the sperm bank route I've ever seen. Who wants to deal with a newborn and a big baby at the same time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 03:03 PM
110

Yes, he should, actually. Women bring enough to relationships. Much more than enough, actually. And since I own my home and have zero plans to ever let a man move in with me and won't require his help with bills, he can very well fund every moment of our relationship and the activities we do together. It costs women enough to be in a relationship with a man. He can put up the coins. If he complains, then let him keep walking. There are men out there who are happy to treat their partners well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 02:05 PM
56

Her body isn't useless, her husband is. She needs to divorce his ass and go find a man who wants kids and doesn't want to fuck her sister. If that isn't an option, then go the sperm bank route. Because a man who isn't even trying to hide the fact he wants to fuck her sister, and GUILTING his wife about her distaste and reluctance, is not a man she wants to be raising children with anyhow. GROSS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:05 PM
68

Wow, WHAT a SUCKER! She should have charged him a 22k$ tantrum tax for his audacity, not give him HER savings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 06:01 PM
15

I like where your head is at. If women starting standing up coffee, drink and walk dates en masse, then maybe men would shape up and stop offering such paltry options. Our time is valuable. Waste theirs. Men only learn through consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 02:30 PM
16

It'S mY KinK!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 01:52 PM
9

Having experienced unwashed English foreskins before, I can corroborate this statement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 10:29 PM
116

Yep. If he wants to put his dick up my ass, he has to let me put a traffic cone up his first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 10:12 PM
3

Entitled little bore, he is. He should work on developing a personality and own hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 10:02 PM
12

I just completely ignored the question, when I used to do OLD. I think it's a stupid opener for sure, but I never really took it as a serious request. If he presses and IS actually serious, then unmatch, because he is clearly a graceless ham-fisted clod who thinks it's a woman's job to provide him with amusement and help him evolve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:35 PM
118

"What are you looking for in a partner?" "Character and integrity". Two things that cannot be faked for long, and they know it. If he presses, then he gets "I'll know it when I see it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:24 PM
40

A man with a healthy dick and brain should be able to get hard just from making out with you. Don't waste your time on men who need a bunch of tricks, bells and whistles to keep their dick hard while fucking you. These men are broken and pornified, and will not be worth your time or energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:37 PM
19

EW. Time to divorce this twisted loser. What a sicko. He violated her on purpose because he hates her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:23 PM
79

Condoms always. Even if he has a vasectomy. It's not about pregnancy. I don't want semen inside my body. It's nasty, and upsets the pH of my vagina. No glove, no love, end of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 05:21 PM
2

Precisely. She would probably be much further ahead with her mental health if he wasn't there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 06:11 PM
11

Me too, sis. Pretty much my 20s and 30s were taken up with LVM. When I think of all the energy I wasted that could have been put to much better use in service to myself, I could cry. Thankfully, going forward, we learn to do right by ourselves, thanks to FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 11:19 PM
147

I'm divorced. I have no problem saying so. Everyone, LVM and HVM men included, know that a woman does not throw out a good man. If he knows I'm divorced, then that is as good as stating outright that I don't accept shit treatment and will leave if he doesn't hold up his end and treat me as I deserve to be treated. It's a privilege to be able to get a divorce. So, so many women in our past have had no ability to leave the terrible marriages that took everything from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 09:03 PM
5

To be fair, we don't really know the ins and outs of these relationships. I will say that Beyonce's sister attacking J in the elevator was not a good look, especially once the cheating was made known. Wasn't Beyonce's whole album "Lemonade" about being cheated on by her husband? There has also been a lot of speculation that Beyonce was groomed by J, and older man, when she was a teenager. There has been no evidence of William cheating on Kate that I'm aware of, other than planted rumors in the p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:54 PM
3

Thank you. I agree that it is always more helpful to have a discussion, as opposed to childish sniping amongst ourselves. High-profile women are certainly not above criticism, but I was confused as to why suddenly we were attacking Kate, who wasn't even part of the discussion. I appreciate the dialogue!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:44 PM
11

I'd love to hear what his wife has to say about all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:39 PM
124

PREACH! What's more, by not knowing his full story, the scrote you cut loose today will not be able to take up more real estate in your brain, and not waste any more of your time or mental energy. We don't have to make a full psychological study of every creep who crosses our path. I don't care what his "story" is. Ours ends here! You don't need to finish every book you pick up, ladies. And really--isn't the cultural gaslighting that women get, to overthink in the first place, really just men en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:18 PM
20

YES! Being "in love" is just our own brains tricking us, awash in a chemical soup of feel-good hormones. Love as a verb, as acts of service to the beloved--THAT is the real deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:56 PM
0

What's bizarre is your need to launch a personal attack toward a woman you don't even know on a post that wasn't even about her, and your need to be so aggressively confrontational with me. As for Kate being a pickme, I also have seen no evidence of that, given that she appears to be in a very successful and loving marriage after a long friendship and courtship--appropriate, given how young she and William were when they met-- and always looks quite content and radiant in all the photos that I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:49 PM
19

All I can see here is a raging man ranting about how he turned his wife into a zombified husk of who she used to be. Gosh, I wonder how that happened? He is clearly suchhhhhhh a compassionate and engaged and loving partner./s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:30 PM
230

Absolutely. Take it out of the bed, put your clothes on, and take it into the living room. How sExy and eMpOweRINg is it now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:09 PM
193

It's beyond sad that young women have been gaslighted into denying their own pleasure in favor of injury, stroke, and brain-damage, just so that some LVM can get off. All this abusive shit is because the LVM army is eroding their collective brain with violent pOrN. And people still like to try to tell us that pOrN isn't decimating our society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:08 PM
104

How many young women need to end up dead or brain-damaged before they stop volunteering to be human toilets for LVM? This is revolting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 07:04 PM
75

These men are failures, as most men today seem to be. Failures always need to blame their lack of success on anyone but themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:57 PM
6

I'm not really for or against the royal family, to be honest. I admire the queen's dedication to her life of service to her people, if that means anything. I'm not tone policing you about the unsavory actions regarding Prince Andrew or Prince Harry, as I'm given to understand them by reading the press. I'm just stating that suddenly reading a mean-spirited attack on Kate, who has not shamed the family in any way from what I can see, was a bit jarring, and out of place here, and had nothing to do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:49 PM
4

True, but this isn't about pop culture. The royal family is not pop culture. They are a family of public servants who have been thrust into the media as of late, due to the very unsavory behaviour of a few of its members. Ranting against Kate, which has nothing to do with the original post, is a bit bizarre. It was jarring to see it. I'm all for discussing pop culture, but when we are launching deeply personal attacks against other women who haven't done anything to deserve them, out of nowhere,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 06:39 PM
6

No one hates herself more than a pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:51 PM
5

The idea that women go out with men just so the man will pay for them is a lie that needs to die. I don't know any woman that would put up with odious company and waste her time and evening just for a meal. Not a single one. The truth of the matter has been obscured and deliberately twisted, and this is what we are left with. The truth is, women go out with the men that they have interest in, in order to see if a romantic relationship is possible. We don't waste our time on men we know we aren't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 04:45 PM
31

"I live with three other ladies." I call my cats "ladies".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:46 PM
-5

What an odd post to make. This isn't really the place to rip on the royal family. There are plenty of other places on reddit to do so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:31 PM
97

Oh god, that was so cringe. I was so embarrassed for her. Embarrassed that she wasted her time on her ridiculous little kindergarten craft project, and filmed it for clout. Embarrassed that she would choose to stay with such a childish idiot, and mostly embarrassed that she announced to the world that she is still fucking a man who is, at heart, an incompetent child who had no respect for her. Could never be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:23 PM
61

TRUTH. Out of all the things it takes to make a successful and fulfilling adult relationship, love is pretty much near the bottom of the list. Romantic love is a lovely ethereal concept, and it is exhilarating and fun, but it won't take you far in a relationship if that is all there is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:19 PM
95

The collective gaslighting message that women are fed is: Men must be catered to. In everything. This also leads to the erroneous message that: men must be given the benefit of the doubt, in everything. That is how we now have a social climate where men run around like rabid perverted chimpanzees while women are expected to give up their whole humanity in order to stay in relationships with them. That is how we ended up in shit up to our kneecaps. FDS is a social revolution for women, long overd…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:15 PM
19

This man is an abusive creep. If you value your time and safety, leave him now, before he gets violent. The way he talks, that is definitely on its way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 08:11 PM
30

Oh honey. Not all of us have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:11 AM
36

Well, here is a sterling example of what life will be like with this selfish scrote for the long-term. When she is at her worst, he will abandon her for his own selfish pleasure. What's he going to do if she gets cancer, if this is how he is treating her after her tonsillectomy? Oh, wait, I know! He will simply leave her, after probably cheating for awhile as she recovers from chemo! Wotta catch HE is! Let's hope this is the final indignity he gets to inflict on her and she gets the strength and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:23 PM
3

I DO! I loved that show. But Russell was a LVM on a whole other level! Horrid greasy little mite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:14 PM
12

Thank you, lovely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 02:12 PM
9

How is he not embarrassed to be this deeply stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:21 AM
90

The bottom line is this: A man in a relationship who is using other women's bodies, in any way, to get a sexual buzz--is cheating. End of. Men, partnered or not, who constantly have to have a naked woman in front of their faces, are sad little losers who are shrinking their brains. They are emotionally stunted creeps, who need to constantly feel a sexual buzz. They are slaves to their dicks, which is pathetic. They also view women as nothing but providers for their sexual buzz. That tells you ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:14 AM
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Nah. I respect my nipples, and my body. They aren't there for public consumption. I choose who gets the gift of seeing them, and only those who treat them with the reverence and respect they deserve shall get to do so. The last thing I'm going to do is give a free show to any creep who wants an ogle. It has nothing to do with shame, or prudery, or any such nonsense. It's about valuing myself and keeping healthy boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 04:03 AM
36

Let's call it "Fiendbook".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:12 PM
67

"What if" and stupid hope are the worst things our society gaslights women with. It keeps us with men who don't even deserve to be looked at, let alone be given our best. "What if" is a big fat lie, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 02:01 PM
60

Good visual. Casual sex with a man is like allowing yourself to be used like a human toilet. He gets to relieve himself, and you get about the same level of his emotional involvement the toilet gets. Never worth the loss of your dignity and humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:59 PM
174

I'd go one step further and not tell ANY guy that you're pregnant if your plan is to terminate. Even a man you love and think you know well could go full psycho control freak if he finds out you're carrying his fetus. Your body, your choice. A woman's pregnancy is not a man's business until/unless she wants it to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:52 PM
297

Kudos to this woman for getting right in and doing what needed to be done after such a horrifying discovery. Her mother does not love her, at all, and is a queen pickme. She is farrrrr better off without having such a sorry excuse for a mother, and her mother's self-induced problems are not hers to concern herself with. Her mother fucked around and found out, literally. I'm glad this woman has her father's support, as well as some of her family. As for the rest of the family that are blaming her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 01:45 PM
10

Anytime, sunshine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 11:43 PM
29

I got another "Bitch!" in response. To which I replied "That's QUEEN bitch to you!" I was much younger and drunker, mind you. Now I would just ignore and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 10:11 PM
68

I'll play! "Ugly stuck-up bitch." "Okay, sure. And even a stuck-up ugly bitch doesn't want you, so what does that say about YOU? *look of pity*"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 08:36 PM
103

Wow. A highly celebrated brilliant gymnast and she puts her little fiance's handle right up there as the first thing in her biography like he's part of her CV. Was he going to pitch a tantrum if she didn't? Either way, embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:07 PM
35

HA HA NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 07:01 PM
73

Dollars to donuts she at least sucked his dick to "thank" him for the shopping spree, probably wearing her flammable cheap new panties from Vicky's, too. These two are more than just "friends". What embarrassingly LV behaviour from them both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 06:21 PM
39

Losers, users, Pigpens*, psychos and hobos. That's what's on OLD. A veritable shit buffet! Don't ever be so hungry that a shit buffet looks good to you. *Pigpen, the little boy in the Charlie Brown cartoons who didn't wash and always arrived in a cloud of dirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 05:48 PM
278

Sharing your boyfriend is a pretty clear way to broadcast that you don't think you're enough. Utter nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 12:46 PM
60

This poor girl. Let's learn from her horrifying experience. Never leave a goddamned thing at your boyfriend's house, not even a hair pin. And don't let him leave a thing at your place, either. What he brings with him, he leaves with each time. Same goes for you. No exceptions. If you aren't living together, keep your belongings where they belong. And if you are living together, take your belongings with you at the same time you move out. That will avoid these unnecessary task or reclaiming your …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 05:28 PM
19

I once had a man launch himself headfirst into a wall, naked, from jumping off the bed, when we had an argument after having sex. It was horrifying, hilarious, and ridiculous all at once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:35 PM
25

Definitely written by a man. Notice it's all about him. Not a word about loving or healing another! It's all about expecting a woman's emotional labour to heal his little broken fee-fees. More cultural gaslighting of women. Ladies, leave the emotionally stunted where you find them. It isn't your job to be used up and spat out just so a man can evolve. If he isn't making YOU feel truly loved, leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 01:23 PM
385

Do NOT. ANSWER. The DOOR. At NIGHT. Please! Not unless it is an expected guest. And certainly never open it to an ex. Safety first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 09:14 PM
39

Men could not care less about cOmMuniCaTioN. They only understand consequences. Never waste your time communicating with a man who has hurt or annoyed you. He knows, he just doesn't care, and thinks you will stick around for more of his shit. Don't communicate--just leave. A man who truly cares about a woman actually LIKES her. He will have paid attention to her and gotten to know her during courtship, because he has cared to listen and observe and learn about her. He will know when he has fucke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:37 PM
108

Any man who would ever want to do this to his girlfriend is irredeemable garbage. Every. single. One. There is nothing sexually healthy about any of this. Women are being gaslit en masse with this nonsense. Don't fall for it, ladies. A man who wants to choke you is a dangerous freak you need to stay far away from, and also someone who is unable to have healthy and mutually gratifying sex. This woman is clearly marinating in her own self-hatred, and this is what it leads to. Level up up UP and al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:28 PM
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This ridiculous little mantrum is a perfect example of "misery loves company". He knows he has nothing to offer women, and they rightfully stay away from him due to his creepy seething anger vibes. He wants to infect other men with his poison. Fuck outta here with your sour little vibes, you chinless wonder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:42 PM
2

It's horrifying, really. Especially because poor oral health can lead to other serious health issues. LVM are a public menace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:37 PM
75

Is that supposed to be "snack"? :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:50 PM
3

Indeed! Not only will a LVM make your life worse, he will also give you tooth decay! Too bad that can't be on a poster in your office!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:39 PM
2

Agree! My teeth get whiter as well, which is a nice side benefit. Especially because that means I can avoid those harsh whitening toothpastes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:38 PM
2

Happy to hear he is your ex! You deserve all that love and more, ESPECIALLY on your birthday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:34 PM
136

A man in a shitty relationship is still getting his needs met. He is still getting taken care of by his wife or girlfriend. Women? Not so much. In a shitty relationship, none of our needs are getting met. This is why men choose to tune us out when we try to cOmMunIcATe. It really doesn't affect them, either way, whether you're happy or not. Don't fall for it, ladies. If a relationship is not meeting your needs and making you happy, then leave it. End of. He has nothing to offer you. Don't commun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:31 PM
79

Also, swishing a teaspoon of coconut oil around your mouth for about 10-15 minutes until you build up a lot of saliva before spitting it all out is great for oral hygiene. Something about the coconut oil mixing with the enzymes in your saliva creates a type of saponification process. It kills any lurking bacteria in your mouth, in those hard to reach places. Some people call it oil pulling and claim it has other benefits, but i do it for the oral hygiene aspect. Your mouth will be sparkling clea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:17 PM
44

Because they are disgusting. Also, never kiss a man who has a filthy mouth. Only kiss men who brush and floss regularly. You don't want their filthy mouth bacteria taking up home in yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:10 PM
90

The majority of men are bad. It is rare to find a man with true decent character. The sooner all women realize this, the better off we will all be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:07 PM
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Agree. It was my own little bit of research, just to see how far a scrote goes if you match his low energy. Turns out, not far! But yes, I would never give a chance to a grown man who texts like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 09:36 PM
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Oh, it's a thing, all right, especially among LVM and their grateful pickmes. LVM expect to be compensated for pretending to give a shit about their girlfriends one day a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 12:39 PM
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Pathetic state of affairs. The overwhelming majority of men have zero sense of romance. The ones who DO grudgingly observe Valentine's Day just to shut her up are also the ones who decided that "sTeAk aNd BloWjOb dAy" is a holiday they are owed the day after Valentine's. Because GOD FORBID a man ever do something just to make his partner feel happy and appreciated, without expecting anything in return. The colossal audacity. Also, in what world does a gift of a cheap drugstore heart-shaped box o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:16 PM
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I used to do this with messaging when I did OLD, prior to FDS. scrote: hey me: hi scrote: how r u me: good u After that, they usually stopped messaging. Move it along, pal. I'm not your little circus monkey, and I'm not going to entertain you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:26 PM
20

Just goes to show that a man can have the physical attributes and life experiences that women are looking for, but his repugnant personality will ruin it for him every time. What a fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 01:12 PM
14

Imagine being this much of a loser that this is the only way to get a woman's attention. Do these men not know how tragically vile and pathetic they look?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 09:09 PM
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Exactly, which they don't. Being a girlfriend means you have chosen this dude to be exclusive with, and he should consider himself lucky that he has her undivided romantic attention. It doesn't mean automatic sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:52 PM
22

Wonderful! This is the way it should be. A woman should never feel rushed. Men need to understand that the first thing a woman needs to feel is SAFE before she engages in sex. Safe on so many levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 01:50 PM
38

What a dick-brained little hypocrite he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:56 PM
23

I work hard at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:53 PM
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Exactly. Also, when they ask your deal-breakers--the same thing applies. Don't tell them, ever. "I know them when I see them". This way, he can't edit his behaviour in an attempt to look like your ideal man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:46 PM
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This seems like a good time to remind women that just because a man has decided that you are now his girlfriend does not mean that you must now have sex with him. Just because you have decided to be exclusive does not mean that you must now immediately jump into bed. A new relationship is a NEW relationship--which means that it must continue to evolve into becoming sexual, and that takes time and more vetting. Being someone's girlfriend does not mean that he has immediate sexual access to you--i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:40 PM
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That is absolutely untrue. We are not fertile almost all the time. Hormones are a thing, and our bodies are not always fertile. We are only fertile for a few days each month. https://www.yourfertility.org.au/everyone/timing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:40 PM
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This is what happens when society collectively gaslights women and denies us our righteous anger. Instead of grovelling, she would have been able to throw his shit out on the lawn and lock the door behind him. I hope she is able to eventually find her way through the emotional fog and feel her anger. It is a galvanizing and healing force, despite what society tells us. Anger is your humanity asserting itself. It says "what you just did to me is not okay". It says "I do not deserve this treatment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:51 PM
2

Precisely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 04:12 PM
70

Jealous?? Oh YES, SO very jealous we all are! #poopyloveisthebestlove #playwithhisdirtybum #dirtydick #sleepdeprivation No fools, this is what repulsion looks like. No one is jealous of this mess, trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 09:04 PM
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Never have I been more grateful that I only share my bed with my cats, and that my crisp white sheets smell fresh and clean, and not of rancid man ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:52 PM
66

Nothing in this post even suggests that you have read the handbook here. Start there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:40 PM
127

Pets before men, always. Always. Like, in pretty much every situation. A pet is nothing but love. Men are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:28 PM
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Best said over text, prior to blocking!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:19 PM
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This lady is garbage, and I seriously doubt she even has legitimate academic qualifications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:44 AM
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Aw, thank you for the award, to the one who sent it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:51 PM
16

Let them think we have "this mentality". I certainly do. I mean, I don't expect to be paid to go on dates, but I do expect a man who has invited me to treat me to a lovely date experience. It costs me money to get ready to go on a date. My time is not free, and a man raises his social capital by just being seen with a beautiful woman. They know this, too. They know exactly what we offer, and they want it. If I have given up a parcel of my time to spend time with a man and allow him the chance to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:44 PM
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Not even close to true! My two besties are Chinese women, and my parents have wealthy Chinese friends. Nowhere in the culture is it considered fine for a woman to settle for a man who is not actively working to give her and their future children everything. My parent's friends even low-grade shamed ME for going out with a dusty when I was younger. Wish I had listened to them then! Lesson learned. Always listen to your Chinese Aunties and Uncles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:26 PM
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Hard agree here. Sometimes it's the thin edge of the wedge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:39 PM
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I had a guy try to "YaH, yOu liKE tHat, dOn't you, wHoRe!!1!" when I was going down on him. I promptly removed myself from his company and left him holding his dick in his hand. I cannot with this nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:38 PM
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Exquisitely said! The culture of patriarchy has stolen much from men, who in turn, steal from women. But I'm happy to see women thriving and leveling up, in spite of the shit that we are served on a silver platter by the current social climate. Women are strength.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:36 PM
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Accurate! Why are men afraid to be sexy? Straight to smut these days. What a lost opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:32 PM
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Agree! Too much talk takes me out of the moment. Sexy murmurs here and there during the act can be lovely, and not too distracting. But once the action gets going I would prefer if we just get lost in the sensations and put words aside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:48 AM
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You're right! Lovemaking IS a form of art, as is seduction. How sad that the majority of men these days are denying themselves the true pleasure of sensual connection with another human being, and the intoxicating energy exchange that happens when two people are truly there for each other's genuine affection and pleasure. It's MAGICAL, getting lost in your partner, and feeling the electricity of a true soul connection. And denying themselves this for what? Denying women's humanity for what? Just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:37 AM
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For sure, and those are good examples of sexy intimate phrases that are often used between couples. I don't think of that as dirty talk, and there is certainly a difference between sexy feedback and the porn-scripted filth that so many men feel comfortable unloading on unsuspecting partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 04:16 AM
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I think a HVM would also not have a porn-fried brain, so anything sexy he would say to his partner would probably sound quite different from the porn scripts that LVM are running in their brains. A HVM will also be present with his partner, and not just be using her as a device to further his depraved little fantasy. Amazing what a difference there is when a man sees his woman as an actual human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:53 AM
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Yep. Porn ruins yet another thing for women. Sexy and appreciative comments between a man and women in bed can certainly enhance intimacy, but that seems to have been largely replaced by scripts that are taken right out of a porn film.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:45 AM
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Yeah, that kind of talk can be sexy, I think. Sexy talk just feels different than dirty talk. When a man talks sexy to me in bed, I feel appreciated and beautiful. I feel that we are being present for each other together. When he talks to me like he is running a porn script in his head and is not really present with ME, then that is the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:30 AM
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And that's indeed the difference--when a woman is with a man who knows her preferences, then the sky is the limit if that is how she likes it! A man who listens to her preferences is also a man who is going to make her feel safe and care about her pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:26 AM
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Okay, now that is a cute side story. Sisters watching out for sisters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 12:22 AM
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It's almost like it's a deliberate strategy to make the woman feel slightly disgusted, to take away her feelings of connection in that moment, and take her pleasure down a few notches. How can a woman not feel distracted by being called, for instance, a "little whore" during an act where she is at her most vulnerable? Talk about a buzzkill! Unless a woman has specifically requested filthy talk in bed, just shut the fuck up, men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 10:50 PM
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Right? She should be thanking the gods of high-fructose corn syrup that her embarrassment of a boyfriend showed her his entire ass over some children's fruit gummies, so that she could leave him where she found him. Instead, she thinks it's endearing and is flexing about it like it's somehow a valid couple's goal. I'm truly embarrassed for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:03 PM
2

Better put them on your shopping list then, mommy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:49 PM
4

Men with dainty eyebrows are one of my biggest pet peeves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:38 PM
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YES. Nothing grosses me out more than dirty talk. If he needs to get himself aroused by whispering filth at me, as opposed to just being with me in the moment and truly experiencing passion and connection, then he is low value as far as I am concerned. Like, just shut up with the filthy play-by-play and just feel your feelings, dude. Don't distract me when I'm riding the wave. A few sexy murmurings to acknowledge the magic are great, but being obscene is absolutely not okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 06:18 PM
5

"Correct. This relationship is not meeting my needs. So I'm going to leave it and go find my happiness once more. BYE!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:25 PM
3

Right? What is he going to suggest next? That she "let go" and learn to enjoy anal? It's the thin edge of the wedge with these boundary-pushing types, and they always want a woman to loosen her boundaries for their benefit, not hers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 08:29 PM
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You did right. Here is a man who lacks thoughfulness, is also cheap, lazy, hostile and not open to hearing you at ALL, AND trying to bring you down to his low level of standards. A cookie gift is not what you give a woman you've been seeing for six months. He could have just as easily gotten you a lovely and thoughtful gift based upon when he SHOULD know about your tastes by now. Even a large bouquet of flowers from a quality florist would have been preferable and a more classic choice, and much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 05:11 PM
13

How sad that she conflates "joy" with using a woman like toilet paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:45 PM
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How a woman can stay sexually attracted to such an idiot is beyond me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 04:01 PM
231

In the vast majority of cases, the man you break up with is not the man you entered a relationship with. He will look like an entirely different creature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:51 PM
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I think it's bullshit, but let's pretend for a second that it's real: If he wasn't a scrote at heart, he wouldn't be pressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:48 PM
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Indeed. They talk about this very thing in the first episodes of the series.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:17 PM
7

I clapped when I heard the news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:14 PM
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It's truly revolting, the things that are being revealed so far. The teenager who he tried to fuck looked in on some of the girl's rooms after a party, and saw girls on the ground on all fours with collars around their necks, while the men above them held leashes and laughed at them. Some of his filthy friends and pickme's are still trying to gaslight the girls about how, If tHey dIDn'T wANt tO Be thERe, ThEY cOuLd hAVe WaLKed ouT tHe dOor!!1! Holly Madison gets a large segment, and says quite p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:11 PM
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Two episodes so far! New episodes on Monday, I believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 06:05 PM
14

A woman's dating grooming routine is far more expensive than their "shower, shit, and shave" pre-date prep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:40 PM
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Imagine trying to get a woman to show up to a date date while not actually providing a date experience for her, which this fool and his peevish little attitude is attempting to do. If you don't want to take me on a date, then I guess you can tag along with me while I run my errands on a Saturday afternoon. Oh, but don't expect "date" me to show up. No, you'll be getting "me running around doing my errands" me--not a lick of makeup or perfume, hair up on top of my head in a messy bun, jeans, snea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 04:55 PM
79

Yup. Good luck coming up against a squirt of my vintage Chanel No 19, cheap embarrassing man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 11:08 PM
244

There is a great series starting on A&E right now called Secrets of Playboy. Revolting and enlightening at once. The can of worms is open, and women are telling their stories. Hefner was a depraved fucker, and so were his friends. There was nothing liberating about this shark-eyed pornographer where women were concerned. He turned the women around him into free prostitutes for him and his friends. He even tried to engage the underaged teenaged daughter of his best friend, who was his doctor, int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:58 PM
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He'd be getting an itemized bill for my time, gas, and products used to get ready for the date in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 07:55 PM
143

The only response needed to "not all men" is "But most."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 02:11 PM
10

THAT'S the spirit! My female friends are always so appreciative. Much better company at the dinner table, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 01:57 PM
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I'm a brilliant cook, who has wasted far too many beautiful meals on unworthy and undeserving men. Going forth, he will be treated to dinners of bagged salad, popcorn, or store-bought items you just have to throw in the oven, and will only get a meal made by me on very special occasions once he has proven his worth in my life. It will be rare, and thus very appreciated and make him feel special, especially since it will look like I took oh so much effort to learn to make a lovely dish, when in f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:44 PM
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Depends on the context, but generally, no. Pickmes can be an outright danger to other women. The woman in this example got her LV attack dog in on it, and that could very well pose a danger to you and your friend. An anonymous message from here to a woman in need is one thing, but as for getting directly involved with a pickme's business with her LVM, no. When she is ready she will seek. I will stay safe and lead by example, but I don't go out of my way for a pickme who could put my safety at ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:04 PM
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Convo ended after HER last reply, loser. She was done with you at that point. The rest was just you having a butt-hurt hysterical little mantrum all by yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:20 AM
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I absolutely cannot stand either of him. She clearly had an agenda to abscond with the idiot back to California and use her title for financial gain, and is an outright liar and narcissist. HE, on the other hand, proved very much to be a useful idiot, who is happy to tear down his family because they had the audacity to tell these two idiots NO about being half-in, half out royals who wanted all the perks but none of the actual work. HE is the one who keeps dragging his dead mother out of her to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 05:14 PM
4

No-frills kink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 05:49 PM
16

What a way to announce to the world that he can't afford to pay a dominatrix to demean him, so he has to go the budget route by looking at a thread on the internet that isn't even about him. I'm not mad, just embarrassed for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 03:45 PM
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Sadly, LVM aren't rare! He was 50ish but acted like an absolute child. I'm pretty sure he was also a porn addict, given how floppy his dick was during sex, and the fact he always had to spend a long time in the bathroom for no legitimate reason. A good learning experience to never undervalue myself like that again, by giving such an complete troll access to me. Onward!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 02:38 PM
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Truth. I also used to get allergy shots as a kid, and they did nothing. My kitties are allowed in my room, but I also use a sticky roller on the bed to remove any pet hair each day. I also find that using air purifiers throughout the house also cuts down on any dusting I need to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:34 PM
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I'm so sorry you experienced this. It's truly revolting. The dirty-dicked English dude I had the misfortune to experience also thought it was charming to, during a lovely walk through the countryside, take my hand he was holding, place it under his bum, and fart on it. This was high humor to him. This is a man who was in his 50s. I'm sure that not every Englishman is a feral creature who enjoys the smell of his own filth, but I'm truly curious how many, if any, blowjobs Englishwomen are handing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 01:28 PM
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Honestly, they make a huge difference. Just be sure to change out the filters and pre-filters regularly, and you'll get the full benefit. It's amazing to see the crap they take out of the air.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:42 PM
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It was a horrific experience, especially because he was also the worst kisser and the worst in bed I'd ever had. My whole psyche felt violated. A man not washing a body part that he pisses through, yanks on with dirty hands, AND which shares a pair of shorts with his doubtlessly unwashed asshole is utterly vile. It goes beyond a lack to self-respect to absolute ferality. A woman could never.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:21 PM
40

Penis. Cancer. From unwashed dick. To be so lazy and filthy that your dick rots off. I can't with these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 11:14 PM
45

Here's the thing about allergies. Air purifiers help. I am allergic to cats, and I have three, including a long-haired one. I also have three air purifiers throughout the house, quietly running in the background and cleaning the allergens out of the air that I breathe. I haven't had an issue with allergies in years. Seriously, for anyone who loves pets but can't have them due to allergies, air purifiers are a game-changer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:59 PM
21

I had a bad experience with English dick. He also had the audacity to bump his naked dick into my vagina prior to putting on the condom, resulting in an itchy vulva for me that required treatment with a yeast cream. The FILTH! Going downtown on him the one time was like getting a whiff of knackery dumpster on a hot day. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:41 PM
70

Foreskin. Had one too many unpleasant surprises with a horrid odor, since most men are filth at cleaning their genitals properly in the first place. If he is uncut, I'm out. He can stay lonely with his smegma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:32 PM
38

I wouldn't make that assumption. That librarian could be a charming beauty with a high intellect and interesting hobbies. She could be a wonderful conversationalist who makes everyone laugh when she tells her stories so brilliantly. Maybe they come from the same town, or have the same interests in charitable endeavors. Maybe they both have a fondness for scotch whiskey and 80's new wave music. You never know. A HVM who is a millionaire is not looking for the woman who matches his wealth--he is l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:31 PM
47

Money is just money. It buys experiences and comfort. It does not make a person better than you, and it certainly doesn't mean that a man won't be drawn to you simply because you don't have as much as him. Men are attracted to women for their charm, attractiveness, and the way a woman makes a man feel by being in her presence. A HVM is not going to be judging a woman for not being as wealthy as he is, and in fact a HVM is happy to take on a provider role for those he cares about. In the meantime…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 03:23 PM
16

I never saw him as sexy, ever. He just looked like a big shaggy lummox who probably clogged the toilet every time he took a shit and found it funny. Never saw the appeal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:00 PM
8

I suspect it was actually a dingleberry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:34 PM
10

It has effectively killed my appetite. Possibly until next week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:32 PM
45

Perhaps he is trying to create his very own loofah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:30 PM
14

Are you sure it was ass hair and not something else he mined out of his crack? A large dingleberry, perhaps? #poopsoap has trumped #nest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:28 PM
53

The moment a man makes you feel confused, into the trash he goes. Don't waste mental energy on this. Erase it from your life. Life is too short for riddles like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:27 PM
10

Well, there's a man advertising his inferiority right out in the open. It's refreshing to see. No mystery with Andrew the Unlucky!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:01 PM
5

Oh, honey. Not all of us have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:41 PM
9

Here he thought he could put on a stealth brag for other low-value men about how hard his wife-appliance works, but instead people came to throw rotten tomatoes at his bald little head and call out his laziness. Play stupid games win stupid prizes applies here, I believe,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:40 PM
6

Has anyone seen the UK show Naked Attraction? Kind of the same concept, but without clothes, both for the women aan the men. So much uncircumcised dick on display. So much. I scream-laugh with a mix of horror and amusement whenever I catch in on the telly when I am in the UK. It's unfathomable to me how people are willing to appear naked on prime time television.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 06:37 PM
9

Age Gap Relationships: For the discerning gentleman who has absolutely nothing of substance to offer a woman his own age in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:42 PM
3

Lol, WHEN are they going to realize that we don't want them either? No one is fighting over creepy older dudes who try to go for younger inexperienced women, NO ONE. We SEE you, Roland.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 05:38 PM
11

Omg, LOLcrying forever at this comment!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/22 03:57 PM
177

Porn isn't sex. Porn is the rape of women and children on camera so brain-damaged men with no souls can feel alive for 6 seconds. Porn will never be sex. That is what these fools don't understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 04:47 PM
1

It's almost as if their dicks are like the proboscis of an invasive type of bug, invading and sucking the life force out of you like a weevil sucks it out of a plant, leaving you and the plant withered and faded. It's actually very helpful to see it this way, I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/22 05:45 PM
115

Women give far more than men do in relationships, and they know this. We give far more emotional labour, we create a lovely atmosphere in our cozy and clean homes that men benefit from, do more housework, maintain the social calendar, and provide regular sex within the relationship. So no, I'm not going to reCiPRoCatE. He would get homemade cookies on his birthday and perhaps a nice designer scarf or wallet at Christmas, and that is all he would get outside of everything else he would already be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:24 PM
20

If you keep a paper trail and evidence about his stalking, send it to his family , friends, and employer. The only thing that is effective with stealthy fuckers like this is shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 03:36 PM
24

him: "I'm feeling bLaMEd" you: "....Which is an appropriate response when you are at fault and have been called out."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:44 PM
24

Libfeminism is the pimp of the patriarchy. It was never meant to protect us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:09 AM
39

Love it. "If it don't apply, let it fly". Or, alternatively for the angry scrotes, "Sex with me is bad, so I get mad." They may as well just admit that this is why they get so pissed about facts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:04 AM
34

Hand-held shower head is the best, as is running water in general. Stick your hips under the bathtub faucet ladies, and you'll never need Pete Davidson again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 02:00 AM
27

Make it a rule of thumb--if a man needs counseling, the relationship is already over. Leave it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 01:56 AM
3

I thought it rang true. Miranda is unhappy. As horrid as I think the Che character is, Che sparks joy and excitement in Miranda who has not felt that in a long time. Miranda was drunk and a bit reckless, and Che clearly does not have good boundaries either, but it looked spontaneous and a bit messy, as these moments in these emotional circumstances tend to be. Also, slightly distasteful because of the presence of Carrie, not because of what the two women were doing in the kitchen. Miranda feelin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:21 PM
3

Pajamas, horror movies, facetiming with friends, wine, cats, and seafood au gratin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 06:12 PM
24

He's broken and defective. Throw the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:51 PM
89

Men killed their natural and wholesome sexual response eons ago, thanks to porn. They have cut themselves off from feeling genuine pleasure and a soul connection to their partner, and have denied themselves a true energy connection. Porn has taught them that women aren't human, and are only good for violation. At this point, they deserve to feel the empty void that is the wind whistling through what is left of their souls after they ejaculate and leave. Women survive, we thrive, and we are learn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:26 PM
10

Wonderful! Thank you for the information. Off to Amazon I go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:24 PM
29

Bragging about disappointing this many women is not the flex he thinks it is. How is he not embarrassed? Women are laughing at him, because we know. He's very bad in bed, guaranteed, and it's not even a question. Sad silly little creature. He could have spent that time reading a book and learning something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 03:04 PM
19

I'm curious about that book. Do you recommend it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:54 PM
46

God yes, she is a total pick-me! How many pictures have we seen of her clutching at and draping herself across Jeffrey Epstein, and he with a smug grin on his freakishly long face? She was clearly in love with the creep, he knew it, and she was willing to do anything to keep him happy, even if it meant violating young girls with him. She's just another Karla Homolka. Pick-me's are utterly dangerous to women. The thin edge of the wedge can lead to this, and it is just a matter of degrees. Stay sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:43 PM
125

There is no benefit to women when it comes to tiptoeing around men's feelings in a relationship when we are speaking about our needs. A HVM will take criticism thoughtfully, and change what you feel is an issue, because he values you and your feelings and wants you to be happy. A LVM will not. Tell him ONCE, and tell him directly. For example: "What you did is unacceptable to me", as opposed to "I think what you did was unacceptable." Leave no room for arguments or gaslighting. Put his behaviour…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:31 PM
121

She needs to kick this sponging loser out yesterday. He feels he is entitled to live with her so he can save for himself, which does not benefit her in any way. Meanwhile, he is living under her roof, enjoying her elevated lifestyle, and taking far more than he is giving. Plus, he feels he can have an opinion about how she spends HER OWN money? Nope, nope, nope. She is better off without him, and needs to find a man on her own level. She can pay for the "services" and "repairs" he thinks he is d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 02:20 PM
64

Sooooo, what? Her husband needs the validation of other men to find his wife, whom he waited nearly a decade to marry, attractive? And then got her to double up on the dessert to what, exactly? Encourage the over-eating of sweets so she starts gaining weight so the hot guy loses attraction and stops flirting with her? Is he hoping for a threesome with his wife and hot guy because HE is the one who wants to fuck hot guy himself and needs his wife as bait? So many possibilities in this WHAT the ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 08:07 PM
12

Whatever, honey. Enjoy your contact dermatitis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:58 PM
194

Romantic love is a scam sold to us by the patriarchy. Love is a nice concept, but when it comes to loving men, it just is not enough to make a successful relationship. It doesn't offer a good enough return on a woman's investment. I'd much rather be with a successful man who adores me and is generous, as long as he also has integrity, loyalty, emotional intelligence, and a great sense of humour. A man with nothing to offer but his "love" is not a draw. Love is cheap and quite fickle when coming …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:57 PM
4

Smart. You deserve someone who can give you an entire relationship, not leftover scraps of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:45 PM
28

100%. A woman who uses the gifts she is "allowed" to have by the patriarchy in order to get ahead is damned smart. Charm and/or beauty are currency in our society, and a woman gaming the system is a triumph. I say, get while the getting is good, ladies. Get it how you can. God knows that is how men see their interactions with us. If you want that big diamond engagement ring flashing on your finger, then you get it from the man who wants you and is willing to show you how much he values you. You …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:43 PM
3

Thank you, lovey!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:30 PM
3

*blows kiss*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:24 PM
24

Excellent point. Also, so-called "daddy issues"--where is the father's failure in THAT conversation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:19 PM
18

I just refuse to call prostitution "sex work". The word "prostitute" pretty much tells the truth about the dynamic of the situation--a woman or girl needing to sell herself in order to survive in this world, or being sold and exploited by a pimp for his monetary gain . It isn't "work"--it's the denial of a woman's humanity and the victimization of women and girls by men in order to facilitate their sad little orgasms. "Work" implies agency, and consent. "Work" implies a valid and necessary task.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 04:17 PM
69

What a little, little man. She is well rid of such a pathetic, insecure, and controlling creature. Always choose your pets. Always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:50 PM
51

It's funny how people get their underwear in a knot about diamond engagement rings, but not so much other things that are ethically suspect that they incorporate into their lives, such as their cheap clothing produced by child labor in countries with no worker rights. Gee, I wonder why that is? Oh wait, no I don't--it's because a diamond ring is a gift that is traditionally given to a woman upon her engagement, as a sign that her husband-to-be values what she will be bringing to his life as his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:44 PM
2

Trust your instincts. Seeing the stepkids on a semi-regular basis and doing some fun activities to maintain the relationship is one thing, but he does not need to be involved in their parenting anymore, especially since the mother has moved on with a new man. It sounds like he is using the kids as an excuse to see the mother, and he could be hoping for another chance with her. This is not acceptable, especially since this is making you uncomfortable. Leave him where you found him. He does not so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 03:31 PM
32

Truths. Hard truths. Men are just no longer in fashion, and women are moving on. Men are not what they used to be, and women are realizing they will have much more fulfilled lives without dragging dead weight behind them. We didn't create this situation, but we have adapted to it. Quite well, I might add!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 07:52 PM
37

Bull in a china shop--he is going to break a lot of things he can't pay for and leave you with a mess to clean up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 02:42 PM
9

A man who wants aNaL is a man who is either power-tripping, or stuck in the Freudian anal stage of childhood development, or both. As far as I'm concerned, he's one pout-tantrum away from finger-painting the wall with feces. Stay away from these deviant men, ladies. They don't know how to sex you up properly and give you an orgasm, anyhow. Also, what do we say about compelled blowjobs? That's right. USE TEETH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:06 PM
42

Ooh, she's going to be FIRM with him. Well, that should show him and clear this little misunderstanding completely! And I'm sure he's going to take her completely seriously! Phew! Crisis averted! Oh my god, this poor sucker. She is trying desperately to believe her own gaslighting. It's like she's in a leaky paddle boat on a lake. She's paddling furiously, but the boat is filling with water. Paddling, paddling, paddling, going nowhere while the water creeps up to her neck. Tragic is about the ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 01:20 PM
80

The moment a man makes you feel frustrated, confused, disrespected, or upset, LEAVE. A man who truly cares about a woman is respectful and caring toward her at all times, no matter the situation. He pays attention to her feelings, and actually values her as a human being. He won't be thoughtless, inconsiderate, or careless with her. He won't gaslight her, or treat her like a joke he does not have to take seriously. When a man makes you feel any of these negative emotions, leave. Leave well befor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:53 AM
38

Your happy isn't broken. No goddamned way. He wasn't strong enough to do that to you. Your happy went on a self-preserving hiatus, to preserve the little bright flicker of your sparkle, soul gratitude, and joy. It kept itself safe. It hasn't forgotten you. It's waking back up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:23 PM
9

You could play basketball with that head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:45 PM
36

Since when is biting a woman's tit considered professional behaviour while on camera with your peers? What an absolutely revolting and immature creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:50 PM
25

No gifts until in a committed relationship and he is your actual boyfriend, and even then, gift rarely and don't spend much money on them when you do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 05:46 PM
58

And then cry and pout and refuse to continue sex when he tries to tell you how he likes it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:23 AM
267

How disgusting. This was clearly about his little powertrip disguised at tRaDItIoN, and I'm sorry this happened to you. Ladies, boycott blowjobs unless you are with a HVM whom you decide richly deserves one on occasion, and ONLY IF you enjoy giving them. Men do not need a blowjob to orgasm, and so don't listen to the reCiPrOcItY gaslighting that women are subjected to. Alternately, get really bad at giving them. Use teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:54 PM
137

Good for her. She avoided passing on his inferior genes AND freed herself from a lifetime of being attached to a LVM. She will now be able to have children with a man who is worthy of her and the future kids. She is the one with the womb, and gets to decide who she will allow to gestate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:52 PM
106

Plus they all have assholes, which seem to be the only holes that interests them these days anyhow, what with their zombie-like fixation on getting their girlfriends to do aNaL. Have at it, fellas! Right up the poop chute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:44 PM
23

Do NOT apologize. You are his daughter, and deserved much better than what he gave you that evening. Instead of Christmas, you got Shitmas! Men respond to consequences, even dads. If you apologize, he learns nothing. If anything, he learned that you have self-respect and expect an effort from him going forward. Leave it where it is. It is not your job to eat disappointment and shoddy treatment simply because he is family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:33 PM
76

It's a conga line of failures!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:23 PM
13

It's horrifying to think a man in his damned 20s can't make his dick work properly because he has assaulted himself so often. And that is pretty much what it is. These men are assaulting themselves out of their natural sexual response and ability to connect with another. Peyronie's Disease is their milestone of depravity. The curve of shame!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:06 PM
11

Not to mention all the videos shot without the woman's knowledge or consent. Being a woman in today's society pretty much means having to protect yourself from violations from men on the daily, from one end of the spectrum to the other. One way or another, they wank over us. It's a positively diseased mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:01 PM
6

She is adorable, her outfit is totally cute, and she is way too good for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:45 PM
130

When I start farting in front of my man, he may as well pack his bags because I am definitely done with him by that point. My poor couch cushions prior to my divorce, that's all I'm gonna say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:24 PM
3

And that's the thing--it ISN'T that hard. Women, in general, manage to be loving and perceptive partners to men. All it takes is actually giving a damn and having an actual interest in getting to know your partner. Your husband sounds like a gem. He is treating you the way you deserve to be treated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 10:12 PM
5

100%. They can't read minds, but they aren't required to. Reading social and physical cues, which ARE a form of communication and which they CAN, is all that is needed. They just choose to ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:30 PM
39

Inflicting on girlfriends--exactly this! Now, women are gaslit into pArTiCiPatIng with his porn sickness, in every sad and sick way. They have turned what should be shame into glory, and it is fucking society as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:27 PM
12

Thank you, lovely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:23 PM
12

Thank you! Men always know when they've fucked up, or treated a woman carelessly and disrespectfully. I'm not going to further his enjoyment by allowing him to see me upset and trying to tie myself into a pretzel to make him "realize". And don't fall for the "I'm Not A mINDrEaDeR!" bullshit, either. Funny how they are perfectly capable of understanding the impact and consequences of their choices and behaviours at work and with their friends, isn't it? Yet they seem to lose this ability when dea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:00 PM
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Oh, without question! It's a game I refuse to play. I never reveal my age to man immediately, either. Age is also a very personal bit of information, and I don't feel I owe this to someone unless they are actually part of my life in a meaningful way. Men get really frustrated when they are denied the things that allow them to easily slot you into a category. Once they show their ass, I show them the door. Women deserve to embrace the right to privacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:49 PM
70

Agree. I don't share my number. A man asking about a "count" is attempting to violate a woman's privacy. Her sexual relationships before him are absolutely none of his business whatsoever. A man who presses this question is not owed the truth, let alone being worthy of a relationship. The only answer he's getting from me is "Wow, what an inappropriate question."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:25 PM
25

Fuck communication. I'm not telling a grown man how to treat me or how to value his relationship with me. Either he does, and will show me, or he doesn't, and will attempt to gaslight me into thinking he does in the absence of evidence that he actually does. Which will be my cue to leave him where I found him. So, fuck talking. Talk is cheap, and so are most men. Action is where it's at. Men know. And if they wanted to, they would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:38 AM
55

As porn eats his brain, perhaps his skull is shrinking along with it. I'm thinking his head will look like a billiard ball in about five years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:07 AM
37

For an alpha, he certainly is a pinhead. And he can't seem to grow facial hair effectively, given that patchy mess of a beard. I guess alpha doesn't mean what it used to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 03:00 AM
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I'm old enough to remember when guys who actually used porn on the regular were considered creepy and defective. It was thought that there was something wrong with them that they had to turn to magazines and videos, instead of having an actual relationship with a woman. As far as I'm concerned guys who use porn are still creepy and defective--they just have the current social climate on their side, doing the dirty work of gaslighting women into thinking this is somehow acceptable. It isn't. It's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 02:07 AM
40

Apparently your ex thinks that sex only means being serviced by his partner, with no connection or reciprocation. How pathologically selfish! That isn't vanilla flavor, that is gas station urinal cake flavour. I'm glad he's your ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:00 PM
19

Each ring should really come with a complimentary tube of hydrocortisone ointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:19 PM
39

Now THAT'S the SPIRIT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:05 PM
121

Oh, I'm PROUDDDDLY vanilla. Vanilla is a gorgeous and rich complex flavour that is highly prized, and is expensive as hell when it's the real deal. Vanilla sex is also the most emotionally present. Hard to connect with your partner on an emotional and authentic level when you're dressed up in a Bugs Bunny costume and pooping on her head while a chicken pecks at your bum, isn't it Karl? Men who are into KiNk are just bad at sex, pure and simple. That is why they need all the distractions, so the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:58 PM
15

And when you hold it under a bright light just like this at this angle, it kind of sparkles!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:31 PM
33

So accurate! If anything, a Pandora ring should be the clue for what she's setting herself up for if she wants a life with a cheap unwashed clown. Years of simmering resentment is just the tip of the iceberg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:30 PM
20

LOL! Oh my, yes! LVM have REALLY brought the Pandora brand down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:26 PM
71

Or, gold-plated at the very least. And that chip is a real diamond!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:08 AM
48

These mental gymnastics are Olympic-worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:39 AM
330

Pandora ad campaigns: Say It Like You Barely Mean It. Say it With Pandora. Pandora--When Good Enough Will Do. Pandora--Helping LVM Vaguely Satisfy Their Long-Suffering But Strangely Grateful Girlfriends since 1982. Pandora--Just To Shut Her Up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:36 AM
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When your self-respect is cheaper and worth less to you than a Pandora ring, it's time for a come-to-Jesus moment with your self-esteem. What a tragic embarrassment this story is for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:26 AM
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Use it in good health!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:36 PM
6

Hideous ads, hideous garments. I wouldn't wear those to a dog fight, let alone to a place where I was actually trying to look nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:28 PM
8

Tell him you have diarrhea. Unless he has a scat fetish, that should do the trick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:16 PM
14

I don't like Che either. The writers have made her seem very far up her own ass with her snowflakery. It's self-centered and obnoxious as hell, and her lack of concern for the comfort level of Carrie regarding the raunchy sex talk felt more than a bit predatory. It almost felt like she was grooming Carrie to be more accepting of something sexual that made Carrie very uncomfortable. Also, her stand-up sucked. I very much dislike this character so far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:56 PM
13

I enjoyed the original series. I liked the friendship between the women, and enjoyed the fashion and luxury escapism aspect of the show. This series so far seems to be ham-fisted hyper-woke garbage, with a side message of encouraging young people to engage in sexual situations far beyond their maturity levels. Brady is portrayed as a disrespectful, selfish horny little creep with only fucking on his mind, and his girlfriend doesn't seem to have given much of a personality by the writers beyond v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:47 PM
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This man looks like a barely sentient hotdog wearing glasses. He is clearly panicking at the idea that some young women might come to their senses and realize the major con that Onlyfans actually is, thus threatening the supply of wank material for his pedophilic fantasies. Calm down, Oscar Meyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:28 PM
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This illustrates beautifully the deliberate games these LVM play with women. It will be very helpful for women who may not have much experience with this, or who have given "the benefit of the doubt" too many times. Clearly, you were in a headspace where he could not get to you. Had you not been, and been emotionally vulnerable, leaving him blocked would have been the best thing to do. Thanks for taking one for the team and creating this helpful post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:18 PM
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The concept of "dream girl" is a false notion. Men do not radically change their behaviour. A "dream girl" to a man who treated his ex poorly ex is just the woman who is now taking all the bullshit the ex wouldn't put up with. Which, I suppose, is the dream of LVM everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:12 PM
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Holiday, shmoliday. Women deserve their own holiday, and I think we should call it "Putting Me First Day". I also think we should celebrate it every day. So remember, today is "Putting Me First Day", so do so. You don't owe him jack shit. If he has failed you and failed the relationship, it was because neither meant all that much to him. And if he simply wasn't meeting the bar of your standards, it is because he isn't capable. Either way--this is where you part company. Remember-- if it was HIM …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 05:01 PM
12

Also, if there is next time with another man, and he tries to split the bill, simply smile and say "Certainly. There's a first and last time for everything, I guess!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 10:17 PM
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Or, how big the head looks in relation to the shoulders and biceps. Teeny men like Tom Cruise look like lollipops because of this. When I saw him shirtless in Eyes Wide Shut, I remember thinking "His head is huge!" Then I clued in that it was because of his short stature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:07 AM
3

And this is why men are not owed the truth about our sexual histories. They lie all the time to women. I have no problem whatsoever lying to their faces about things that are not their business in the first place. The only men I count as having had sex with are those who gave me an orgasm. It has whittled down the number considerably, as you can well imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:54 AM
5

He went to the bathroom to whack off to porn on his phone, I'm thinking. Or, to text his actual girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:50 AM
11

What an entitled, sniveling manipulator he is. The fact that he, or ANY man, thinks that a woman has to turn herself into a human trampoline because a man took her out on dates is revolting. News flash, you clod--being graced by a woman's company and having her make YOU look good by her mere presence is how YOU benefit from dates with women. Yes, being seen with a lovely woman raises your social currency, and you KNOW IT. She has already "paid you back" for whatever money you have spent on her d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:34 AM
13

Intentions are absolutely irrelevant in pretty much every situation, and used as some sort of get-out-of-jail-free card by gaslighting LVM. Actions equal consequences is where it's at. Be brutal about enforcing this, always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 07:50 PM
20

GOOD. The utter FILTH of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 10:23 PM
78

Porn is for men who are emotionally dead inside. Dead men who cannot connect to another human being during an act that requires a genuine exchange of energy can't f*ck worth a damn. Facts! Leave them where you find them. Let them stare into the abyss of their own isolated hopelessness and emotional desolation, for they have richly earned it, with their pathological selfishness and lack of concern for the humanity of the women and children who are abused so they can get their flaccid little wank …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:16 PM
13

I think it's perfectly okay to tell anyone, who has the audacity to ask, that your finances are something you prefer to discuss only with those involved in them. Then change the subject. If they persist, just coolly stare at them without saying anything more about the matter. Conversations take two, and if you aren't sharing details, then it goes no further. If he makes assumptions and acts like an entitled mooch, which this guy seems to be showing the possibility of doing, turf him immediately.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 05:00 PM
41

Exactly. Love is nice, but it isn't nearly enough to make a successful and happy relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 04:46 PM
64

Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen. That is basically how men work. Really, nothing else has the same success rate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 03:27 PM
61

"Nope. I'm a realist." (hair flip)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:36 PM
25

Oh, the poor fellow! I DO hope some neighbour lady was kind enough to bring him several evening's worth of meals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:46 PM
22

Excellent! It's nice to get the inside peek once in awhile and see that things are right on track! Monitoring the health and honestly of your relationship via checking his internet activities is smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:14 PM
86

Ignorance is not bliss, and is a slower kind of torture where we are gaslighting ourselves. Even if someone isn't ready to make the break, getting the information that will bolster them to move toward ending things is still forward progress toward the end game. More knowledge is always helpful, especially when dealing with gaslighting LVMs. Men will lie, but the facts won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 04:22 PM
270

Ladies, let's establish this one thing as absolute fact: snooping is a good thing. In fact, it's something every smart woman should do on the regular in her relationship. Never let a man tell you otherwise. Given how most men are happy to lie to our faces, we are well within our rights to uncover information that will allow us to make INFORMED CHOICES about our relationships. That said, this loser is a gaslighting, abusive, and porn-addicted fapping chimpanzee who has the emotional depth of a mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:40 PM
24

Thanks, I hate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:59 PM
45

Dancing is a sensual pleasure. If he can enjoy letting himself truly open up in this way through connecting to the music, and finding rhythm with another body, he will be as sensual in bed. It's true sensuality that makes sex fabulous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:48 PM
60

Also, how he kisses! If kissing him is like kissing a damp cardboard box, the sex will be horrendous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 05:45 PM
8

Oh, without question! Let them have it at this point, really, if they need it so goddamned bad. Women are learning that life with an addicted and dishonest man is not worth the glorious freedom and beauty of a life she can carefully curate for herself and those whom deserve her love and attention. With their erectile dysfunction issues on the rise, these types of peanut-brained men are fapping themselves right out of the gene pool, which is also a great thing for humankind. Meanwhile, women are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:58 PM
23

All those showers, yet I'll bet that not once has his ass crack ever known soap and water.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:49 PM
9

Sad little poppet just can't accept the fact that he is deeply, deeply unlikable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:44 PM
28

A chimpanzee, to its credit, actually has far more restraint. And far more social awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 09:40 PM
164

What a fapping chimpanzee. Excessive masturbation, the last solace for those who disappoint everyone who crosses their path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:35 PM
135

It's also the mark of a weakling with an adolescent mind. If your dick is leading your life, then your brain must be the size of a peanut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:07 PM
72

Truth. And unfortunately, young men and women are taking it as depictions of what sex actually IS or should be. Porn is an obscene parody of sex, but to those who use it and get off to it and are training and perverting their natural sexual response with it, it IS like sex. Hence, the mess we're in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:05 PM
18

I'd say a guy who has been through 3 previous relationships without going downtown is the very definition of a selfish douchebag. My blowjob days are over. If he wants to come via intercourse, he must make me come first through oral, and that is just the way it is going to be going forward. Otherwise, my vibrator will do just fine, without the hassle of dealing with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:17 PM
16

Oh, for sure it is! But I mean if I am dating a man, and he does this, then he is out. If a stranger did this to me, it wouldn't even irritate me, because it's such a transparent tactic and makes him look like a game-playing child. When a man I am involved with ignores me in group conversation, I consider it colossally rude, and it is indeed an offense worthy of block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 03:09 PM
8

From your lips to God's ears, pal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:51 PM
111

Oh god, I hate this. Also, the not looking at you at all while talking to others in your group and telling stories. As in, you're out for dinner with another couple or two, and he never turns his head to make eye contact with you as well while he speaks. That is so goddamned rude. If a man I'm dating does not make eye contact with me in a group as he speaks, even though he is making eye contact with others, I'm out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:27 PM
69

Looking forward to the influx of new members!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:55 PM
2

Threatened by a TOWEL. What an absolute embarrassment this loser is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 03:01 PM
41

Stop this downward spiral this instant. Look with clarity, not emotion, just for a minute: If he was happy, he would not feel the need to tug at you for attention and perform like a circus monkey in front of you in order to "prove" to you how OH SO VERY happy he is now. He knows very well it was the shitshow that is him that destroyed the relationship. He knows it. He just wants you to stay hung up on him, so you avoid moving forward with your life. That is how pathologically selfish he is. That…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:56 PM
151

The moment a man makes you feel confused, that is your cue to block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:14 PM
122

Because men are weak. Women are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 01:51 AM
3

So, he was on the verge of orgasming and had to go to the bathroom? So he walked through the restaurant with his hard-on sticking up like a tent pole in his pants? Sure, Jan. file this under Sad Little Man All Alone With Nothing To Do But Share His Sad Fantasies On Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 03:29 PM
2

A cool stare, followed by "Are you truly this insecure?" before turning your back on him and ignoring completely is also effective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 02:51 PM
9

Um, SHE is gorgeous with a dazzling smile. HE, on the other hand should be clued in to the fact that growing a large pubic hair forest on your weak jawline does NOT make a man more attractive, nor does it make up for the glare bouncing off his bald head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:02 PM
34

Oh, well sure! According to men, seX Is lIKe pIzZa! EveN wHen iT's bAd, it'S gOoD! For women, it's like a pizza too--but our bad pizza is made with an old tire, vomit, and cigarette butts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 10:35 PM
22

Oh, that rude little trick. That is when you just sit down, and take you coat off. Get good and comfy, and just sit there. Let him feel foolish as you sit there with no drink in front of you. If he asks "Aren't you getting a drink?", just say "Oh, I'd love a cappuccino, thank you!" Stay seated. Let it get awkward. If he can't even be bothered to get up and get you a coffee, then that is when you say "Well, it's been so lovely to meet you, but I must dash off! Ta!" Or, if he has grudgingly gotten…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 03:03 PM
2

The only lingerie I will wear is a nice silk robe or a long silk slip nightgown with spaghetti straps. If you like p*rn drag so much Karl, then YOU can wear the flammable nylon scratchy lace crotchless panties, mmmkayyyy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 01:34 AM
4

I don't even consider sex with uncircumcised men anymore for this reason. I've had more than one nasty shock in that department, and I am done with it. You've never smelled stench until you've gotten a whiff of "smegma surprise" with a side of stale urine. Filthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 05:50 PM
10

Lol, seriously? In the first photo, what his chin lacks, his nose more than makes up for. Add in his receding hairline and crazy yet dead-eyed porn stare, and I'd rather cauterize myself than even have a drink with him. What makes this man think he deserves standards?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 01:38 AM
29

It's a "I have no dignity or standards" kinda thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:21 PM
9

Classic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:57 AM
14

I mean, it's either that or his face is shrinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:54 AM
174

His head keeps growing. At this rate, it will be pumpkin-sized by the time he is 60.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:43 PM
441

It's passive hostility, pure and simple. Men who do this hate their wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:42 PM
311

She should be serving those toenails back to him in his dinner. I certainly would if I had a husband this arrogant and entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 07:39 PM
3

Me too! I could NOT believe my eyes. A grown man, eating his own boogers, like a 3 year old child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:17 AM
32

He sounds like he's just killing time with you, and you're making it very easy for him to do so. A man who is truly invested would not dream of treating a woman so casually. At two months in, a man who was truly into you would be trying to impress you. This isn't that. You're paying money to deliver yourself to him like pizza, while he just sits there and puts in minimal effort. Couch dates at only two months in? Not a good sign regarding his future efforts, especially since you're demonstrating…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:13 AM
12

Imagine THAT LVM, lol! It would be far more pleasant to remove my own gall bladder with an oyster fork than be with a man with so many of these "charming" qualities all at once!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:03 AM
17

Effective! Doubly so!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 09:42 PM
28

Nice one. I love a subtle and underhanded comment. They always sting so effectively!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 09:41 PM
20

Those were each separate men! A miserable chapter for each, lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 09:40 PM
90

Let's see.... He had gay tendencies, a hairy ass, still lived in a filthy house with his abusive French chain-smoking mother, wore really garishly colored track suits his grandparents sent him from France, cried every time his feelings were hurt, slept in a child's sized bed, and his balls stank. He had flabby earlobes and a red face from alcoholism, snored when he slept, and had to have a child's Fisher-Price fan blowing on his face as he slept, drove a ridiculous Golf car and called it a "sexy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 04:26 PM
332

"Why are you sending me pictures of a diseased penis? Was this meant to be sent to your doctor?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 04:15 PM
6

I absolutely love horror films, and have since I was a kid and first saw "Friday the 13th" (the original) but I am very choosy about what I watch. I won't watch films that are basically just teenaged bouncing boobs and torture, as those are pointless and without real character development or story. So much horror out there is basically just a glimpse into the disturbed mind of the woman-hating director, and obviously those films meant to be "snuff lite" for woman-hating scrotes. I won't support …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 03:02 PM
3

"ObviOUsLy i ThANkeD HeR!" Wow, very sacrifice, such giving, how generosity. She should have left him in the broken heap she found him in. If you want a nice ring and he's trying to perform Olympic-level mental gymnastics as to convince you why you don't deserve one when he can easily afford one, then treat him to not one minute more of your presence. This type of man is controlling, cheap, and is not madly in love with you. Not the kind you want to set up the rest of your life with!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:37 PM
3

Number one, this man does not know the definitions of "magnanimous" or "grandeur". Number two, why would you leave yourself open as an option for this flaccid fellow? "If you change your mind, I'll be here." Whatever for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:29 AM
46

What they want to come off as a warning sounds far more like an endorsement to me. Intelligence is protection against men, is what I see in these headlines, and I can't seem to find an issue with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 05:07 PM
54

The sad thing is, in the 70s, it really was a great magazine for women, especially since the 70s was when the second wave of feminism was in full swing. It was a nice thick magazine full of interesting articles, interviews, fiction, home decor, travel, fashion--with a "cosmopolitan" and "urban sophisticate" bent, presented for grown-up and truly liberated women. There was some sexy stuff too, and some ridiculous diets as this was the 70s after all, but it wasn't the gaudy d*ck-eating trash pamph…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:53 PM
7

"Then I guess you shouldn't have left it unattended", is the best response to that nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 02:29 PM
57

What a crashing bore he must be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 11:35 PM
53

Yup. Give a guy who has broken your heart your emotions, and he will steal your dignity. After a breakup, the first thing we should be concerned with is the preservation of our dignity, because that is something we have total control over. This means saving the tears for our closest girlfriends, our journals, or our therapists. A low value dude sees any sign of heartbreak and desperation as a victory, so rob him of it. No emotions, no paragraphs, and leave him on "read" before blocking and delet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 07:16 PM
126

You can't do anything about the nudes now, and that is the hard truth. Aside from that, why were you begging him for anything? Why are you internalizing his poor behaviour toward you? Time to read the handbook. You weren't trying to say goodbye, you were hoping that he would change his mind about the relationship. "Closure" is a big fat lie. The only closure we can ever get is what we give to ourselves. But as far as the nudes go, if he shows them around, call them "deep fakes". "Not me!" And le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:47 PM
2

Glad to see everyone back! Women helping women lifts us all up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 04:28 PM
166

The dead-eyed p*rn stare is also charming, as is the peanutty shape of his head. How are women not clawing over each other to reach this prize?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:20 PM
20

Does this shabby creature really think he can order women online just like he orders the cheezy garlic fingers that make his breath smell the way it does?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:17 PM
262

Just call me Alfredo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:59 AM
39

What he fails to realize is that those other things all reap rewards, and are worth fighting for. Can't say the same about men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:58 AM
49

How much worse does this have to get than men literally f*cking the sh*t out of women, before we collectively decide that porn is a scourge upon society?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:08 AM
7

Bea-UUUUUUUUUUUU-tifulllllll! This comment deserves its own religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:09 PM
353

Well, the first thing would to not use passive language. Instead of "three women a day are killed in this county..", it should be "Three men a day are murdering women in this country through domestic violence..." Let's articulate the actual problem. It's men murdering women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:27 AM
95

I see both opted for the popular "receding hairline, scrubby beard, fake affability mask, and smug grimace" starter pack for narcissistic abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 11:53 PM
19

This reminds me of the scandal surrounding Bikram Choudhury. There was a documentary on Netflix about him awhile ago, and it was very illuminating about his sleazy and sex-predator ways. The man is a total charlatan, like all these male new-age gurus seem to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:14 PM
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