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| 1 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Stop parroting made-up stereotypes you've read online. You've clearly never met a woman or listened when one speaks. Just admit you hate women and blame them for men raping them. I've been assaulted by 2 bland, middle aged, middle class white men. All kinds of men assault. BECAUSE THEY CHOOSE TO. The softbois are the most likely to assault when a woman is incapacitated (drunk, asleep) because of their fear of rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?An average needs to exist no it's a binary. hot or not. the majority of men I see day to day are objectively unattractive. men have had free choice over who they mate with for thousands of years. women have been oppressed and needed to marry ugly men to survive. men have gotten to choose attractive women. marriage is affirmative action for ugly men's genes which, if we had free choice and our own income/bank accounts (as we do now, hello increasing sexlessness in males) we're declining to give s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Men using "mathematical calculations" to drive down women's standardsIf .0001% of men are worth fucking, it's a sad commentary about the state of men today.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | How To Be More Safe Online & How To Protect Your DevicesDon't use the same photos on an OLD account as on your facebook/insta etc. When you deactivate the OLD apps, delete every photo individually then delete your account, then delete the app. Have a password login on your desktop/laptop. Learn how to quickly lock it and get in the habit every time you get up. (Windows key + L) That one time you invite a man over and forget, he'll be all up in your passwords if he's nefarious. Never save a login for banking. Type your account number and password ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/22 01:11 AM |
| 1 | An Ode to Living AloneTurns out everyone hated living with our exes, them included lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | An Ode to Living AloneI've been browsing snuggies. But I'm afraid of what the back is. Is it just gaping like a hospital robe showing my bare ass? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | An Ode to Living AloneGood god the thermostat tyrants. Sir, every other building, workplace and form of public transport on the planet is set to 'freezing' to deal with hairy, sweaty balls. I want ONE place where I can be warm and comfortable. The final straw was this fucking guy opening my door to let the aircon in. The entire rest of my house was freezing to suit this yeti, but his abusive ass just had to go and fuck with me, knowing my mother had abused me as a child by keeping my room freezing every winter until … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.Well spotted. Throw-away line about how good she looks = man bragging he can cheat on a beautiful woman. Most women mention that because they're getting frequent attention from other men, so they're upset about why their husband isn't loyal. Either 'she' has such bad PTSD she sounds dead with a flat affect, does nothing all day, doesn't go to work, lets the nanny take care of the mystery kids.. Or 'he' doesn't know how a woman would feel and can't attach any emotions to anything. Most women say … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.In what future is he going to be able to afford this lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.lol true.. gas money... and money to get my hair and nails done.. cos that's all we do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.orrr we could have higher standards for ourselves and fellow women and have zero tolerance for the use and abuse of women as sex objects for male gratification. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.If they're habituated to acting like poor people while earning a lot.. Or he's financially abusing her / gets a kick out of treating her like a prostitute by leaving cash on the nightstand. If their habit was for him to control all the money before she had her own businesses he might have left her grocery money when he went away, now he leaves her more 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Would you guys be okay with this? It's sounds crazy to me.He picks up girls who "look clean" 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | The Bar Is In Hell. The Audacity Is Sky High. I'm Scared For My Generation.Did we date the same guy? He sent me a huge email about how he felt used lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 04:55 AM |
| 8 | Red Flag???Nervous nellies, low confidence men who 'don't know what to do' make me sick. We got enough on our plate to deal with as women, constantly being on guard. Our partner is meant to be a strong, protective presence in our lives, not another timid dependent we have to expend brainpower on. We call those "our children". If he can't solve this incredibly simple problem on his own or think about how one of TWO options would make you feel and choose the best one, he's imo, useless. He may well love you,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How to spot a Deadbeat DadThey even encourage each other to get shared custody simply to reduce child support payments to 'the greedy ex wife'. Spiting their children's food and clothing needs. Awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Women Never Hit the Wall: A Field StudyExactly. The only things holding us back is ourselves, not men's attention or bs definitions. With consistent diet, exercise and sleep, women are healthy enough to carry to term well into our 40's. The best way to remain healthy is to be scrote-free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Women Never Hit the Wall: A Field StudySome guy was telling me about the days of dial-up and said "it was before your time". My dude, I was researching some college papers on dial-up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | What Are The Signs Of Porn-Sick Men?Before you even have sex there are a lot of signs. Mostly not treating you like a human, not believing you have human rights, and absent-mindedly violating your rights. eg spying on you in the shower. Sitting on your bed to watch you get dressed and getting angry when you get angry and kick him out. Groping you for his gratification while you're washing the dishes. Putting his hand on your vulva or straight down your pants at inappropriate times. Feeling entitled to use you like an object for hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 12:47 AM |
| 14 | The story of my stupid pick-me friend and why you should trust rape victimshttp://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2012/06/missing-stair.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 12:07 AM |
| 8 | The story of my stupid pick-me friend and why you should trust rape victimshttp://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2012/06/missing-stair.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 12:07 AM |
| 54 | The story of my stupid pick-me friend and why you should trust rape victimsBecause we know damn well the courage and therapy it took for ONE to come forward, we know there's 27 other victims behind her, just wait. Men are completely silent about that. Or they claim they're all on the bandwagon and want money and fame. Sure Dad. That's how I intend to earn a living. Being smeared on the front pages as either a rape victim or a liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 12:05 AM |
| 16 | Playing the cool girl won't get you pickedFrom the sounds of his swiping frenzy, he has nothing and can't maintain one relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 11:53 PM |
| 74 | Playing the cool girl won't get you pickedMother's voices eventually become their conscience. Keep saying it, they'll hear it eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 11:51 PM |
| 102 | Incels and the Great Fakecel RealizationMen get vanilla sex once a week and write a novella on deadbedrooms about how his life is a ruinous nightmare and he deserves so much more excitement and endless opportunities to explore his (depraved) sexuality on willing nymphos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:33 AM |
| 28 | Incels and the Great Fakecel RealizationMost of them are having no sex and writing fanfic about the 3 plates they're spinning lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:32 AM |
| 38 | Incels and the Great Fakecel RealizationAbuse woman, treat her like garbage, she finally snaps, breaks up with him, starts dating someone kind 3 months later -> omg women are so nasty, they're all the same, she ran off and cheated on me with chad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:31 AM |
| 25 | Incels and the Great Fakecel RealizationSo true. They want to re-enact all their childhood wounds and feel special and clever every day. Only it doesn't cure them. They just keep abusing you and feeling good every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:29 AM |
| 41 | Incels and the Great Fakecel RealizationAnd the cognitive dissonance. My ex kept saying I was his dream girl, he felt like I was made for him. But then he treated me like trash. Made no sense. If you love me, why are you doing things that make me hate you? Why are you just sitting there ignoring me all day? Do you think I deserve this garbage treatment? Wouldn't like to see how he treats someone he does hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:28 AM |
| 52 | Incels and the Great Fakecel RealizationTheir fuses and mask-drops are getting shorter and shorter. Used to take a year before the abuse starts. Then 3 months, then 3 dates, now the first date, and even the first messages before you even meet! Angry, possessive, controlling, entitled and grossly sexually charged. Completely inappropriate, shocking, disturbing. Yet they go on and on to abuse women daily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:25 AM |
| 28 | Incels and the Great Fakecel RealizationIt's why they marry the next woman who'll take them after being with a 10 year forever girlfriend. She's not his dream girl, he's not putting more effort in, he doesn't love her more or respect her. He doesn't care for marriage. He realised it's the cost to keep one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:23 AM |
| 110 | Incels and the Great Fakecel RealizationAnd one of their catch-phrases is that women are snakes lmaoooo Every tenet of the red pill is projection. Men are hypergamous, men are the oldest teenager in the house, men use manipulative tears, men believe their cock-twitching is like a dowsing rod for reality, men are gold diggers, men want to sleep around through college then settle with a woman who will provide babies and household labor so he can live a lazy lifestyle.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Feelings of loneliness is realI don't think it's society, it's men. We're at peak, almost comical levels of being forced to accept LGBTQLMNOP * yet some odd lezphobia. Men have pornified and almost branded lesbian as a porn category, and women have internalized that and don't want to be seen "that way". I frequently see groups of women, clearly best friends, out shopping or having a coffee together. Very relaxed, laughing with their heads thrown back, yet they reach out to touch each other and stop 1cm short. Before the pand… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 12:10 AM |
| 21 | Dating “inequality” “data analysis”-🤣Right. At 18 I was struggling to eat with a $25 food and transport budget at uni, not on a yacht eating strawberries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 02:27 AM |
| 38 | Dating “inequality” “data analysis”-🤣Porn addled male writes nonsensical dribble based on one flawed piece of data - it's SINGLE men on dating apps being rated for attractiveness, and yes, 80%+ of men that other women have thrown back are undesirable. The barely tolerable or adequate looking men are paired up. To then extrapolate these unfuckable leftovers as "all of society" then write a wankifesto about it.. someone should take his mechanical keyboard away. Guys, if you're facially malnourished, go yell at your dad for impregnati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 10:50 PM |
| 34 | Dating “inequality” “data analysis”-🤣He lost me at "nd those with more attractiveness can access more and better romantic experiences" No, beautiful women, hell, the majority of women do not get better romantic experiences. If his definition of "better experience" is just being in the presence of, or getting to fuck, someone attractive, he's all the way smoothbrain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 10:46 PM |
| 45 | Dating “inequality” “data analysis”-🤣Relying on social conditioning of women like we should care. Oh he's explained it with stats and logic, let me rush out and bag a sad uggo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 10:40 PM |
| 36 | Dating “inequality” “data analysis”-🤣MY DICK IS HERE LADIES. COME GET A CHANCE AT MY COCK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 10:39 PM |
| 36 | Dating “inequality” “data analysis”-🤣So many "I'll fill this out later" or "I'll write something if the app works" If the app works, you got a match for zero effort, why would you then fill it out. Way to announce you're a lazy bum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 10:38 PM |
| 30 | Dating “inequality” “data analysis”-🤣drag us into banging ugly NV scrotes Why would we create more ugly, loveless scrotes? That just seems cruel, and I'm too nice for that :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 10:36 PM |
| 71 | Men resent women who help themYep. Don't do shit for men unless he's literally a cripple and you're a paid caregiver. Don't date men who aren't your equal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.Hypothetical husbands (what would your future partner want? he might want kids! I won't tie your tubes) and an embryo in a fallopian tube have more rights than women :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 12:30 AM |
| 52 | Be aware of giving your number into a whatsapp group with men in it — Even if it's friendly.Because entitled scrotes have no shame and no impulse control. To a normal person, 'they blocked me' = guess they don't want to talk. To a scrote, it means "find another way to harass and chase her down, get what you want, fuck what she thinks". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 12:26 AM |
| 55 | Be aware of giving your number into a whatsapp group with men in it — Even if it's friendly.Tech bros are making bank from these extra apps like google voice and ring central because scrotes play these little games called "violating our boundaries" and "harassment" because no-one is telling them to stop being entitled, intrusive pricks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/22 12:23 AM |
| 60 | What options are there for kicking out a LVM who refuses to leave?Get her to use local women's shelter's webpages and helpline or chat service. They'll know all her legal rights and the correct process to evict him safely and legally with minimal damage to property &herself, while not doing "the wrong" thing, which he can use to sue her or whatever these scrotes want to do for revenge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 12:08 AM |
| 28 | When is too long to move in together?Financial incompatibility is a complete dealbreaker. He needs therapy for his issues around his parents hoarding. He's taking it out on you in a controlling fashion. Men don't get to "work through their issues" by abusing, controlling and causing anxiety in women. No matter what you do and how minimalist you become, his underlying issues are still there and it will never end. You're out of his league already regarding finances, he's in the negatives yet still trying to control you lol. He's 6 ye… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 05:22 AM |
| 19 | No fault divorce is now available in England and WalesIt's a tragedy to have lonely, unmarried men roaming the streets. Society (men) need women to absorb LVM's rape and beating tendencies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Let’s translate “he’s bad at texting”He doesn't want receipts, he'd rather gaslight you in person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 05:25 AM |
| 32 | I want your honest opinion (even if I know it already)Sounds like you're both a little bit avoidant. He doesn't like making mistakes which may cause you to leave, so he "does nothing" until you "calm down" and approach him again and let him know it's all clear. Could try asking him to check in, comfort and support you. You also seem fearful avoidant, not wanting to chase, sad that you're with a guy who doesn't 'get' you. He has the tendency to blurt things that I find insensitive Sounds like low EQ very smart but he fails to connect the dot habitua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 09:53 AM |
| 22 | Lazy/useless men & the 'Why should I? It's my time' mentality.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AfIOBLr1NDU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | "policing of emotions"?Every single one. It's like they turn into triggered toddlers clutching at mummy's skirt, overwhelmed by the fear of abandonment and starvation if mummy is having an emotion. I found some extremely distressing news while in the car and this fucker pulled right off the freeway from 100km/h to scream at me "what's wrong, tell me what's wrong!!!". I had to soothe HIM while I was having my own meltdown. Comfort me NOW, articulately explain your emotions NOW, soothe my anxiety NOW lol who gives a fuc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | "policing of emotions"?My ex used yelling because volume was the only debate strategy he had lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Hot Take: Marvel/DC Superhero culture is doing to men and boys what Disney did to women and girlsooh I realised he liked paddington because he identified with "be a weird fuckup as long as you have good intentions and people will forgive you" except he didn't have good intentions he just lied a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Hot Take: Marvel/DC Superhero culture is doing to men and boys what Disney did to women and girlsExcept IQ's are dropping and movie makers can't fit all the HVM lessons in. Movies have become so bland and trite, alternating with ridiculous OTT action so the audience 'gets' it and can pay attention for 90 mins. Boys aren't studying it for the interpersonal scenes. They learn might=right, winning, dominance, power, control = respect. Hulk smash. Get muscles get girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Hot Take: Marvel/DC Superhero culture is doing to men and boys what Disney did to women and girlsAnd they can't follow the plot of anything with emotions or something that takes a bit of thinking to really 'get'. My ex liked actions movies.. and Paddington :( He even paused during an action movie because there was some body language he didn't understand and I had to explain. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Hot Take: Marvel/DC Superhero culture is doing to men and boys what Disney did to women and girlsBecause the men in power are the real villains (govts starting wars, paying themselves and their cronies at Boeing and Lockheed billions) and there is no real hero for people to look up to. Literally every male prime minister right now is a clown I can't respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Hot Take: Marvel/DC Superhero culture is doing to men and boys what Disney did to women and girlsExactly. These superhero women are stick thin but ✨magic✨ Women in Arrow doing hand to hand is absurd. Jessica drinks constantly, is promiscuous, wakes up in yesterday's clothes, stomps around being rude, but she's hot so it's cool. Leading boys to think they can be like her.. and even worse, leading girls to think they can throw a punch and be ok like her. Terrible role model. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Living With MenMommy Bangmaid is cancelled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 03:40 AM |
| 145 | Subtle signs a man is going to be a terrible fatherthe ones who have no skills, talents or hobbies that they're eager to teach their kids bother me. It's all about using the kids as his entertainment. He'll just watch his son be an awesome footballer. Or take credit for his daughter's ballet recital. Plans out having a daughter first so she can 'help' his real kids, the sons. Wants the status of 'family man' or get invited to his bro's cookouts and fit in. Make sure he speaks about how he's actually going to parent, raise, interact with and teac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 03:38 AM |
| 53 | Subtle signs a man is going to be a terrible fatherAsk him what he'll do if no woman wants to have his kid and watch his head explode. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 03:34 AM |
| 80 | Subtle signs a man is going to be a terrible fatherThe mommy-defiance instinct aargh. Drank from a carton as a dirty child, got yelled at by mom, triggered a "fuck you" response now it's all an ingrained, spiteful habit he will NOT break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 03:33 AM |
| 156 | Subtle signs a man is going to be a terrible fatherAssumes his kid will be *cough* a genius like him and get a scholarship, and mom will do the paperwork. Kids are free when you force other people to pay because you sit on your ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | BE ALERT: Men on TikTok are fantasizing about ways to hurt women on imaginary dates.Except there's 5/6 bullets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 01:14 AM |
| 147 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?I even saw one saying "they caught onto xyz manipulation strategy, we need a workaround for that" instead of recognizing that the strategy was emotional abuse! So sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:34 AM |
| 12 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?ooh that explains some posts I've seen of the 'vibe' completely changing in certain USA cities lately. these hopeless men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:32 AM |
| 29 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?Not only told what they do is fine, but that women don't have opinions. Now we're saying sorry lads, being complete losers isn't acceptable. You don't get to roll out of bed and get your dream girl and have a child by snapping your fingers. The pre-emptive rejection from a pool of women they assumed they had unquestioned access to hurts their feelies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:29 AM |
| 23 | Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?I just imagine that grunting huuuuurgh noise people make when doing something that takes a lot of effort. Only they make that noise when typing out a huge troll message because they don't eat vegetables, get sunlight, or walk upstairs to the kitchen very often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:25 AM |
| 35 | HVM prefer monogamous relationshipsAgreed. The one HVM I knew viewed dating as "wife or nothing" and didn't use anyone to gratify any urges he may have had. He wanted a whole relationship or he never even asked the woman out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:20 AM |
| 55 | HVM prefer monogamous relationshipsIt's great when a couple likes all the same activities and really clicks. Any time a partner is discontent and starts having a wandering eye and posting mopey "what do I dooo" on relationship forums, it's because they're with a partner who doesn't even share their major hobby or passion! "I love my girlfriend buuuuut she never wants to go fishing, hiking, camping or 4WD with me which is basically my personality. I've met someone who is really into all these things and I'm torn" 🤦♀️ All these ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:18 AM |
| 27 | HVM prefer monogamous relationshipsWomen's empowerment : living a life not dependent on men and having the right to say No to unwanted sex Scrotes : not like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:14 AM |
| 21 | HVM prefer monogamous relationshipsCars fit 5 people :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you sometimes think whether you come across a single and compatible HVM who likes you back is beyond your control more than anything else in life?He's South African 😂 Shaped like a keg on legs. Can't win em all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Do you sometimes think whether you come across a single and compatible HVM who likes you back is beyond your control more than anything else in life?Agreed. I met a man the other day. Completely physically not my type. But amazing to chat to. High empathy, could follow the conversation, wasn't creepy, no red flags. And I'm sad that we can have no relationship of any kind because he'd eventually want sex, and I don't, so he'd leave in a huff, because penis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 11:50 PM |
| 159 | The audacityThe entitlement is a big no for me. If he leans his moist lips in with that expectation that he deserves something after paying for dinner, I'm outtie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do men pretend women don't go for looks?Those lacking personality, looks and the ability to read social cues also believe they're brilliant and misunderstood. And they believe all men are smarter than all women. These ugly, insufferable dullards are a triple ick. They're also too stupid to grasp why they're being rejected over and over so they just try harder to impress us with their towering intellect because we obviously just don't understand yet. So many men have kept scratching around to find something they're superior to me at, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:06 PM |
| 11 | Need support blocking and deletingImagine he falls asleep while watching your child and 'forgot' to feed her. Then casually mentions a new truck he's been looking at (instead of colleges for your teenager) and just wanted you to know. This is the kind of future you get when you don't block stoner losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 09:16 AM |
| 52 | "Not all men" and intentional trauma triggersoof :( and the men who say "why are you reacting like that? You're just projecting <your ex> onto me and that makes me feel bad!" No dude, I'm observing with my own eyes that you're acting like <ex>. it's pattern recognition! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 03:59 AM |
| 24 | If you need to ask for it, just leave - You want PROACTIVE, not compliant!Yes! The ones who react to everything with defiance are stuck as a 6 year old flexing his independence and separateness from Mommy. Instant ick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 03:31 AM |
| 11 | Such a refreshing example of how a HVM would respond to his wife’s fear of laboreeeeh they had me until the surrogate. He's ok not risking his wife's body because he has no right to genetic children. But he's ok using someone else as an incubator. Either you respect all women or you respect none. There are a couple million orphan and refugee children right now, go adopt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.Someone called me intimidating. I was like, fuck off. Intimidating is a verb. Men have actively intimidated me and used their anger and body size to make me afraid, comply and bend to their will. If I'm just existing and these men are quivering in their boots, there's something very wrong with them. Huge levels of insecurity and some kind of emotional stunting where they feel something so they blame the woman, then expect her to do the emotional labor to soothe his anxiety. A gross frightened ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:50 AM |
| 78 | Have a nice day!I'm a fan of trusting our instincts. If her gut told her to leave it was a survival move. She saw plenty of precursors. This wasn't a man who would suddenly obey social norms because she said please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:44 AM |
| 30 | MiSaNdRy Only Exist When Women Are Able To Control A Misogynic Narrativemisandreeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:37 AM |
| 72 | "Not all men" and intentional trauma triggersIt's projection. Men use crocodile tears to get out of trouble from like, age 5. They rely on our empathy and think we're using the same trick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:32 AM |
| 108 | "Not all men" and intentional trauma triggersIn the book "Why does he do that" these abusive men have a definition of 'abuser' that's handily above what they're doing, so they can continue abusing and get away with it. eg I never punched her, but punches walls. So he's 'not an abuser' I only punched her, never stabbed her. etc etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:30 AM |
| 45 | If you need to ask for it, just leave - You want PROACTIVE, not compliant!These guys don't understand that by sitting around 'doing nothing' they're going into the negatives and making us frustrated and angry. An ex would whine and ask why I'm angry, he didn't do anything. Neglecting us, being thoughtless, selfish and inconsiderate, expecting us to clean up their mess while they 'relax' is just a neutral act to them. So when they comply, they feel like they're in the positives, and deserve a reward to even it out! Being a lazy shitter is -1000, finally acting normal i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:25 AM |
| 32 | If you need to ask for it, just leave - You want PROACTIVE, not compliant!Don't give girlfriend benefits to a man who treats you like a bootycall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:19 AM |
| 33 | If you need to ask for it, just leave - You want PROACTIVE, not compliant!Right. They do the bare minimum in the moment to get mean mommy off their back. They don't view it as a life lesson and constant expectation to keep us in the relationship, then have a pikachu and feel 'blindsided' when we pack up and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:17 AM |
| 36 | If you need to ask for it, just leave - You want PROACTIVE, not compliant!They expect the mommy bangmaid treatment because they just exist as 'nice guys'. When we don't cater to their every whim, they complain we're "not being very nice" without a shred of self-awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:15 AM |
| 68 | If you need to ask for it, just leave - You want PROACTIVE, not compliant!The only time men 'want' to give a massage is when they're in a dead bedroom, and they whine that they 'hoped for more' and got nothing and get sulky. They can't even give selflessly. Then seem baffled when we fall out of love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:12 AM |
| 21 | What if a HV man broke up with me because I was acting stupid/LV?I put the app itself in the category of 'dopamine wreckers', like tiktok, gaming, porn, fb, insta. Photo based, scores and upvotes to keep you competing, the streak thing which makes you return daily. The notifications that give you a shot of dopamine, the time-wasting. And the messages/photos time out and delete themselves. (I haven't used it myself, I'm sure someone can elaborate). The people who use it may start out normal, but over time it sucks you in and changes your brain and makes you be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:01 AM |
| 19 | "It's hard to make a woman come"... as ifUnrelated but you reminded me. Someone commented on a video that Canadians have to read body language through heavy layers of clothing so they get quite good at it. Maybe that's why they're a bit nicer. Fascinating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 11:52 PM |
| 229 | Men saying that women go on dates for free food is them admitting that they have nothing else to offer.If I wanted free food and a man bought me dinner, I'd keep targeting him, duh If he's so god awful I can barely choke down my meal, I won't see him again. If these LVM keep thinking they're being scammed and can't puzzle out why women won't see them again... it's probably for the best they stop dating anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 10:44 AM |
| 556 | Men saying that women go on dates for free food is them admitting that they have nothing else to offer."How can I go on the cheapest date possible??" 2 minutes later "Why won't anyone date me, why don't women want a second date??" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 10:41 AM |
| 146 | Chronicles of the Modern Day “Gold Digger”: It’s more than just the moneyGold-diggers are after millionaires, even billionaires because millions just don't cut it lately. And they're worth every penny. Great genetics, style, grace, charm, and willing to have 2-3 of his children. And probably overlook his philandering or late nights at the office. Gold-diggers aren't trailer-park Tammy wanting more than gas-station flowers. Scrotes making $15 an hour don't get to change definitions to shame women into opening our legs for free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 06:26 AM |
| 22 | If he wanted to he wouldThis guy sounds malicious, not clueless, and with no empathy. Utterly selfish and self-centred, and misogynistic. Unless OP was OTT sugar coating with "no it's ok, it's fine, don't worry, no big deal", this asshole was happy to continue putting OP on a shelf and not thinking any more of it. She showed she'd be on the shelf, available for his whim, whenever he felt like it. Until he pushed her too far and got consequences from his previously laid-back doll. If she had accepted his midnight BS it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:15 PM |
| 49 | If he wanted to he wouldSame. Grew up with just land-line phones for communication and a newspaper to check movie times. If you said you were going to be there, you showed up! If you weren't interested, you told the truth because you knew how much you'd be jerking people around and you'd catch hell at school the next day. People seem to have lost their theory of mind and don't realise they're talking and texting real humans who exist in the world. Dismissing people with a weak text and feeling no shame is a huge loss t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:07 PM |
| 29 | Mini-tip for vetting (OLD)eh it's mostly manipulation, psychological abuse (telling us our intent as if they can read minds, and then arguing with what they just made up) and back-footing. "Oh, I guess you're not serious then" "You can't be too interested if you won't..." "You mustn't like me very much" Puts the woman on the back foot and she has to scramble to prove she is serious. Now he's got the upper hand and he defines words and she agrees. For HVW, we define words, meanings, and our definition of 'serious' and we … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:58 PM |
| 27 | Mini-tip for vetting (OLD)It's the digital version of chatting you up in a bar and then walking you out the back entrance. These numbnuts can't comprehend we're in two places at once. We're still chatting in the bar. Hence the toddler rage. You 'agreed' to go out the back with meeeee. You're miiiine. How dare you cheat on me? I won you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:51 PM |
| 27 | Mini-tip for vetting (OLD)And they can assault your eyes with dickpics and demand nudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:48 PM |
| 27 | Mini-tip for vetting (OLD)They see you us prey needing to be split from the herd and overpowered. Not as equals with free will and the acceptable right to decide who she spends time with. Something to be maneuvered and taken away from her friends, competition and witnesses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:47 PM |
| 35 | Mini-tip for vetting (OLD)oh. Incapacitate, isolate and escalate is what rapists and murderers do too... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Man attempts to low-ball his date after getting horrendous advice from Reddit. Queen blocks and deletes in responseDude still has a 2012 income and price expectations lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 12:40 PM |
| 47 | Social media potential flag - should I block/delete?Pass. He's highly misogynistic, chauvinistic and objectifies women. This isn't something men grow out of. The only HVM I know was never interested in those sorts of things. Even if he had a ton of hot friends, he wouldn't follow them all out of respect for his future wife, because he was marriage minded. (How could he actually be 'friends' with that many women? He's not, he's perving). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 10:24 AM |
| 5 | Escort only moaned because he paid her. Hope he gets the therapy he needs, but I rly hope his wife will leave his toxic ass too. Many comments are advising him on how to hide his fucked up secret or justifying his infidelity & saying the marriage can be saved. Received ‘the wholesome award’? WtfBecause he's hoping his passive aggressive punishment will get her to act right. Wife appliance is briefly malfunctioning and he'll go to jail if he slaps it like a tv. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 11:02 PM |
| 86 | A decent strategy guide to land a man /sTell him his happiness isn't your responsibility! Never do anything to make him happy. If your man isn't cheerful 24/7, dump him! He's clearly just a negative person who likes drama. Tell him you're still not over your highschool sweetheart so he'll try harder and comfort you with sex when you're having a bad day. Just expect him to do everything around the house and when he doesn't read your mind and act like a servant, passive-aggressively post memes about 'husband material' and 'women love me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:58 PM |
| 36 | A decent strategy guide to land a man /sFind the one thing he said he hates and match with him to tell him he'll never find a wife if he doesn't lower his standards. Then expect him to date you immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:52 PM |
| 44 | A decent strategy guide to land a man /s"You remind me of my cousin, he was a bit of a late bloomer too!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:50 PM |
| 2 | 50/50 Cautionary Tales Part 1 : "Something feels weird here"Men have been adamant they love me. They love what I do for them and how I make them feel. And expect me to just feel loved out of thin air. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:31 PM |
| 2 | 50/50 Cautionary Tales Part 1 : "Something feels weird here"If he's being supported by mom and dad....... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | 50/50 Cautionary Tales Part 1 : "Something feels weird here"I just saw a discussion on this lol Women are smaller because men have been stealing our food for centuries. This is straight facts. Of course all the mentally challenged scrotes in the comments say "what about all the women who steal fries off my plate waaaaaaaaaaah" Ok sir, she eats 3 fries, you ate 40 fries. Are you dumb. Of course their pea-brains can only think of one literal way to steal food. The hundred other ways men make sure women eat less? They can't even imagine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:27 PM |
| 92 | Update on my most recent post. Digging into OP’s comment history only confirmed to me what I already thought; he isn’t a good partner to her & she deserves better. I seriously doubt she doesn’t fake cum with him because she sounds v turned off. He asked some1 what a clitoris is. Is this April fools?A 300lb man wrapping me like a boa and melting into me reminds me of an ex's extremely soft couch with too many cushions that I regularly struggled to get out of. It was not fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 08:09 AM |
| 108 | Update on my most recent post. Digging into OP’s comment history only confirmed to me what I already thought; he isn’t a good partner to her & she deserves better. I seriously doubt she doesn’t fake cum with him because she sounds v turned off. He asked some1 what a clitoris is. Is this April fools?he wants to crush her to death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 08:06 AM |
| 17 | He lied to her for two decadesWonderScrote powers... activate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 02:42 AM |
| 7 | Love bombing/narcissist?Red flag to him for violating your boundaries by touching you and keeping you at his house (isolate and escalate) I'm giving you a yellow card for not defending your boundaries (You stated it, he violated it, there were no consequences), not keeping track of time, and not having a secondary method of transportation. You relied on HIM to keep you safe instead of yourself. Foolish. You're ready to date again when you have a concrete plan to address all these problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 56 | The truthWhen our glorious PM is trending on twitter every other day with inspiring hastags such as calltheelectiondickhead and scottythecompletepsycho and scottythemisogynist what chance do the blokes have to be normal. VoteThemOut2022 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:10 AM |
| 196 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.Imagine if she was single and got PAID to be a house-cleaner instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:05 AM |
| 88 | Why you should NEVER accept a 50/50 relationship: THIS. Imagine how life is if she just stay single and work on her business alone.He doesn't even like her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:04 AM |
| 259 | TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔Lockdowns and unmonitored screen times have been horrific for girls trapped with their pornsick relatives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 12:00 AM |
| 145 | TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔can't be in charge of the planet.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are two-faced & will say one thing to you & a whole other thing about youFirst shit-test was "I'm not going to shower or change to see you, you're not worth it" disguised as "I'm so excited to nut see you I'm rushing straight from work" and giving an order (compliance test) "You'll have to accept it. Sweaty balls or nothing, sweetheart" and she accepted him showing up like a slob ❌ dropping down to his level and being CoolGirl ❌ while also approval seeking by letting him know she has a decent job ❌ and that she's understanding and gives him the benefit of the doubt a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:56 PM |
| 30 | This was on my LinkedIn feed with hundreds of likes and positive comments about how clever and hilarious it was.Got him on Limewire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:39 PM |
| 20 | This was on my LinkedIn feed with hundreds of likes and positive comments about how clever and hilarious it was.And the solution is to do more for the man who does less. Nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:39 PM |
| 56 | My morning tea- How can men be so oblivious?I don't even like her, made no contingency plans, had no food but i miss her vagina | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 73 | My morning tea- How can men be so oblivious?It's exactly because they're complete losers with no introspection that they need a woman to take care of everything. And if she's taking care of everything, she can take care of the kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:32 PM |
| 38 | I have no words...Sis is brainwashed deep. Accepting his disgusting habit. Enabling him like he's a toddler bringing spare undies. Covering for him by coming up with the lie. Missing out on her sister's wedding. Being isolated from family. Comforting this asshole because he's so sad he doesn't get to ruin the wedding by being mister pissypants for attention. Doing the mental gymnastics to explain that he's too ashamed to wear diapers but not ashamed enough to sit in his piss and shut up, he has to stand up and an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/22 11:29 PM |
| 277 | Half the comments have sense, the other half are… highkey horrifyingSo is she trying to out the abuser in a safe place or still in the stockholm and trying to work out a gotcha to get him to 'see' what he did, if he can't explain to his family.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Genuine question: how can a woman maintain the hope that there really are good men out there?It's not your job to convince yourself that what your eyes are seeing isn't true. It's a decent man's job to prove to you he's a good man worthy of your time and attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | & that’s on porn addiction… SMHStop marrying serial killers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 05:02 AM |
| 16 | I need support, I think I need to break up with himGirl. The only problems in a relationship should be external problems, ones you solve together. If the man is the problem, dump him. Tell him to leave your keys on his kitchen counter. Return his things and keys, get your stuff. If he refuses, ask him if he needs the police to assist him. He's a chickenshit, he'll give your keys back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:49 AM |
| 23 | Bill Maher: Men are selfish pussies because feminist women made them that way!!!!!They've cast about for the next thing that "makes them a man" - getting laid. PUA has entered the chat. If they can't get a job, they spend 20 hours a day stalking women like maniacs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 23 | Is there even a bar anymore?ohh damn do these smoothbrains think it's a compliment? You made my dick hard, LOOK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:41 AM |
| 60 | Is there even a bar anymore?Right, women are apologizing for 1% mild inconvenience that anyone with emotional regulation wouldn't be annoyed by. Men are sitting at my dining table, flicking through Tinder and saying "I know this is bad etiquette but..." Then stop it, dickhead. Get out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 20 | Where do men go to find the audacity? What kind of good man is this? Is this the standard? Because if so, then sorry to this man. 33 and childish with his priorities out of order. What an embarrassment. Feel sorry for that baby.They feel entitled to do bad shit. It counts as a zero on the balance sheet. So he's actually in the + column :) Hence the pikachu after we experience hundreds of instances of -100 and get sick of their shit and dump them. They thought it was going well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:25 AM |
| 95 | Where do men go to find the audacity? What kind of good man is this? Is this the standard? Because if so, then sorry to this man. 33 and childish with his priorities out of order. What an embarrassment. Feel sorry for that baby."Forget about the past so you don't notice the pattern" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:23 AM |
| 7 | My 3 Year Old Son's bus driver this morning was disgustingly inappropriate with me . .oh my god I hate it when they're musing into thin air, talking about you, not to you. How awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:22 AM |
| 36 | Let's Talk About "Cool Girls"/"Strong Women"They don't like strong women as an entity unto themselves. They like how it makes them feel every time they "win". They constantly try to top from the bottom. They don't want a strong woman to learn from, debate articulately with, have interesting conversations with. Every time you make a correct or logical statement, they won't back down and cede, they'll do the most to top again. You'll never win. They'll never let you be acknowledged or satisfied. They want a woman who keeps engaging. Who kee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 12:19 AM |
| 14 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️"I couldn't get laid on demand, I had to bring her a heatpack, my life is a nightmare" "My husband has dementia and I'm his physical, emotional and mental support 24/7, in my 50's"... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 11:57 PM |
| 7 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️It also required them to take on additional support tasks and roles... As in, they had to care for her AT ALL, the horror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 199 | Jesus Christ, is she in the Pick-Me Olympics? Did not see 1 tiktok encouraging men 2 give their woman oral sex. Her feed is just pandering to male pleasure constantly. Women get enough pressure from porn fried society to give head. It’s men who need a reminder to eat a woman out and make her orgasm.And this is why dirty old men in care homes grope the nurses. Thanks, lady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:50 AM |
| 8 | Recently posted to Will's Official FB. Thoughts on a man who does what he did then apologizes publicy about his actions?Commercial landlords are cryyyyying 😂 They could have converted those prime offices into apartments and been making $$ this whole time, but then that might ruin the rental market boohoo. Dumbasses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 01:48 AM |
| 43 | Recently posted to Will's Official FB. Thoughts on a man who does what he did then apologizes publicy about his actions?"No-one was watching the Oscars but I'm glad we're back on track focusing on what's important, rich, out-of-touch actors and their squabbles while people eat 2 minute noodles". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 12:45 AM |
| 29 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discussThey do this on the first date. Craning their neck to peer at my ears and shit, like they're inspecting cattle. Any flaw they find, they nod to themselves, like I'm damaged goods and can be had for a discount. "Well your left earlobe is one millimeter lower than your right, therefore I will not be providing full husband benefits. Also you have one too many moles on your forearm, I won't be taking you to dinner over $100. Is that a stretch mark? ew. I've downgraded you to bootycall." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:33 PM |
| 13 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discussI was so angry at that guy. he had like madonna/whore but it was mother/athlete once she had a kid he couldn't get it up for her obviously motherly body and wanted her to go back to "woman who works out insane hours, doesn't focus on a baby, and doesn't look like she created life" Sir, go build a time machine. Accept that YOUR SPERM changed her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:30 PM |
| 16 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discussAnd then they cry about the mysterious feminization of men and women are too masculine, then demand this 5% bodyfat shit and athletic women loool They want to be us so bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:26 PM |
| 28 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discussBy crazy he means "gets up at 5am for a jog and *gasp* ignores him and his pp" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:24 PM |
| 117 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discusshaving a dude sitting on the couch making little comments that "he thought you were going for a jog today" will ruin your mental health | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:22 PM |
| 2 | getting closer to true 50/50 so he can also take a pill, men wanted 50/50 sosure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Another Way Women Are Not Aware They Are ShrinkingSeems women are the only ones to give generational warnings. Men aren't as good at making observations for survival lol Even after 2008 boys are still living like it's gold chain and cocaine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:18 PM |
| 10 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreI'm white and been screeched at by dozens of white men, dafuq she on about. Now I await the cries of "it's such a bad time to be a white man waaah" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:15 PM |
| 21 | My male coworker is being a jerk. Need advice on how to proceed aka: Can you notStart documenting. Next time he does it tell him this is now workplace harassment and he needs to stop. E-mail HR or your manager and cc your home email. Use the phrases "sexual harassment" and "hostile work environment" and "extremely uncomfortable, persistent behaviour" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:39 AM |
| 14 | getting closer to true 50/50 so he can also take a pill, men wanted 50/50 somicroplastics, glycophates (round-up weedkiller / pesticides) and something i can't mention or i'll get banned lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:04 AM |
| 43 | Abstinence is one of the most powerful weapons against scrotes.HVM are excited and grateful to be with you. The only thing he'll be disappointed about is that he doesn't get to pleasure you. But they're not coom-brained perverts so they can think about other ways to build a loving relationship and they're ok waiting for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:22 AM |
| 16 | getting closer to true 50/50 so he can also take a pill, men wanted 50/50 soIt's probably to cover up all the other things making us infertile lately.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Another Way Women Are Not Aware They Are ShrinkingThat's when the economy was on the upswing and they thought the good times would roll forever. Being lavish, spendy, splashy show-offs impressed other men at the time. Now it's on the downturn they're clueless but women are fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 11:34 PM |
| 30 | The tinder swindler 2.0There was just a Law&Order SVU about this. A frat house gets the girls to leave their purses on the bus, then plays hidey with it to get you to go into a bedroom. They know we're leashed to our purses, we'll follow it to stupid places to get it back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 11:23 PM |
| 9 | The tinder swindler 2.0Exactly. When a scrote is way too lavish, either it's not his money, he knows he'll get it back, or he doesn't even have it and he's lying. Men are attached to the money they honestly earned with their labor and time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 11:21 PM |
| 35 | OnlyFans ... OnlyFakeI need to learn their secrets lol This guy's awesome https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bJFMuSKgZCw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 09:27 AM |
| 187 | Know your worth ladies! Don’t offer to pay for a first date you were invited to attend. And never offer to drive a stranger home. Boy, bye.I GRACED YOU WITH MY PRESENCE YOU FUCKING BIIIIIITCH GIVE ME A RIDE HOOOOOME I DESERVE A BLOWIE IN YOUR CAR AT MY DOORSTEP BECAUSE I GAVE YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO DRIVE ME HOME, GOD I'M TELLING MOM HOW AWFUL YOU WERE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 09:23 AM |
| 15 | New low, disabled men demanding prostitutes under "disability rights"disgusting :( not surprised, parliament house is a frat party with rapes, harassment and men jerking off over desks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:45 AM |
| 473 | Why are men often so short sighted they sabotage themselves?They're so used to instant gratification from porn, they've lost the ability to keep their cool if they don't get what they want the same day. Imagine if the internet went back to dial-up speeds lmao men would lose their minds and trash the entire house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:28 AM |
| 52 | I was scrolling through IG and the amount of married/gf men following or commenting on naked women is absolutely insane!I just had a loser follow me on Poshmark! He's following 161k accounts. fuck is wrong with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:24 AM |
| 90 | Stay. Away. From. These. Bum. Ass. “Estranged”. Single. Dads. (P.S - baby mama? Baby mama?….You mean the woman whom he impregnated and to whom he had two children? Girllll i-) the tomfooleryIt could also lead to a push to live with you so he can get out from under his ex. She's absolutely done with his shit but he earnestly believed that knocking her up was the golden ticket to her vagina for eternity. He still wants to bang her but the shop's closed. I've unmatched about 20 deadbeats who were still living with their wife/gf who were looking to use me as an escape hatch. They didn't want me, they would have latched onto anyone. Any time they went radio silent I assume they were pre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:22 AM |
| 22 | Beauty pageants - for the male gaze? For the women gaze?Watch "Drop Dead Gorgeous (1999)" it's hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:17 AM |
| 38 | Beauty pageants - for the male gaze? For the women gaze?They're called body-building competitions because men can't be well-rounded :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 12:15 AM |
| 14 | New low, disabled men demanding prostitutes under "disability rights""She didn't even open her legs on the first date so I never spoke to her again!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 11:31 PM |
| 16 | New low, disabled men demanding prostitutes under "disability rights"I ring that doorbell every night! But then I yell Oh God :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 11:28 PM |
| 47 | New low, disabled men demanding prostitutes under "disability rights"Men have become so infantilized they stamp their feet and feeeel it really really is a neeeeeed give it to meeeeeee or I'm going on a toddler rampage!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 11:26 PM |
| 21 | New low, disabled men demanding prostitutes under "disability rights"They saw Bezos and his cotton fields amazon warehouses and thought "I deserve that too" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 11:23 PM |
| 116 | I cringe. Why are women not allowed to care about the way a man present themselves? Why does he act like men don’t treat women they find unattractive like shit all the time? Also women are not that simple minded, a good looking scrote is still low value. Being HV is not based on mere looks & income.Men approach women based on her looks, she can't reject him for the same or else she's shallow 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 263 | "Men are visual creatures"Not at all. Don't pathologize yourself or talk yourself out of what you're actually sensing because men don't like our instincts. I can feel the air change when the door downstairs is opened. We have sensitive skin for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 12:55 AM |
| 452 | "Men are visual creatures""Then you should be able to see there's still food on this dish. Wash it again" Women also have wider peripheral vision. We can stare straight ahead and watch the men snap their necks to ogle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 12:47 AM |
| 123 | Solid breakdown of the Madonna Whore Complex. HVM don’t separate women into categories for sexual use or for true love. They respect us as individuals & they are able to connect their sexual desire 2 the woman they choose 2 commit to and cherish. LVM label us and hate both women in different ways.And then they cry for years on deadbedrooms that their wifey won't turn into a whore on the end of his magical penis. But he won't leave or cheat because muh vows muh kids. So he keeps her terrorized over being made homeless if she won't put out and become more enthusiastic :) Even though he rewarded her with a ring, house, car and stability for being demure and chaste :) And keeps triangulating her with his wild ex-girlfriend and stories of how amazing the sex was :) But he dumped her :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 12:25 AM |
| 211 | Stop dumpster diving through other women’s garbageI'm not sure they grow apart. More like the woman actually matures and can adapt to her new role as wife and mother, but the LVM posing as a HVM was enthusiastic about having kids, but then wouldn't grow up or stop being a bachelor. A lot of men only like the honeymoon fun phase. They get easily frustrated by life's normal challenges, monotony and need for discipline. They want to be the fun weekend dad and won't set rules, boundaries and routine. They won't parent. They don't want to be "the ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 94 | Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to sayYep the misogyny filter between their ears. If a woman says something his misogyny whispers "this bitch is wrong" and he springs into action to correct her. If a male voice says the exact same thing, he nods at the wisdom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:34 PM |
| 80 | Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to sayYep I had a quiet crazymaker too. He'd smile while mindfucking me. They're truly sick types. A compulsion to be contrary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:32 PM |
| 25 | All of my commitment-phobic exes…"I'm relying on the woman murdering the baby so I don't have to deal with the guilt. My nuts are precious GOD" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:23 PM |
| 14 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.Exactly. If there's no baseline of natural woman anymore, it's harder to tell the difference. And easier to prey in camouflage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:18 PM |
| 16 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.Anyone who claims they 'feel like a woman' and then goes on to flash his genitals in the locker room, rape women in prison, steal scholarships and medals, demoralize, terrorize and humiliate women, is clearly fucking lying about knowing how it feels to be a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:16 PM |
| 14 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.And men won't believe you're intelligent in the end anyway. If men don't understand something I say, they think it's because I'm the stupid one.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:07 PM |
| 35 | Why does being hyper feminine translate into bimbo for some of tiktok? I don’t understand this trend and the point. I love pink, purple, dresses, typically “girly” things. However, I don’t see how degrading ourselves with a misogynistic term that has no positive meaning would ‘take back our power’.It's not even sex anymore. Nothing close to sex. It's assault with his penis as a weapon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:40 PM |
| 400 | I don’t even know what to say 🤦🏼♀️I like having this one for free, she's not going anywhere. Oh, it turns out marriage is what it costs to keep chicks. I didn't want to give the last one the satisfaction, she might think she won. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 07:01 AM |
| 51 | I call BS on his “Parental Instincts”, and am I the only one who thinks this? I think he abused his powers towards minor girls.Anything out of a man's mouth after abuse is a lie. Even "I'm sorry". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 06:01 AM |
| 26 | Need advice on my hvmHe's already proving you're not a priority. His job, his money, and the things he's decided he wants to buy are more important. And he's willing to lie to you to 'keep the peace' aka keep the pussy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 12:09 AM |
| 3 | This loser called GodChosen890 or something is screenshotting our postsIt's good to have a hobby :) At least he's not leaving the house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 5 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.right! "You made me have feelings, you need to fix that" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 28 | What in the apron strings?!Her time, labor and expertise are MINE to control and spend and take credit for! How dare people gush over her talent as if it's something she did! I'm going to hide in my room until everyone sorts themself out to match MY bizarre reality and comes crawling in to apologize and coddle me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:46 PM |
| 7 | Woman’s husband brings her the biggest knife to open a toy next to a toddler… the amount of people saying she needed to explain to a nearly 40 yo man why she needed a small knife is just painful.or maybe like she said, she's exhausted from looking after 3 toddlers, has ADHD and is in pain. and in an abusive relationship which affects your cognition even more. I'm trying to check myself and not blame the victims, or ask why they're "stupid". They're not :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:41 PM |
| 64 | Has any1 else noticed the Playboy label being plastered all over “trendy” clothing brands… it makes me so uncomfortable this is being marketed in an already porn saturated generation. Both PacSun and Urban Outfitters proudly promote these products despite historical misogyny. It gives me the ‘ick’.Fuck this brand. Fuck the industry. Fuck the magazines. Boys are so easily addicted. Millions of men started their porn addiction in the 80's and 90's and it went out of control as soon as the internet came out. These pornsick losers would sit at their computers like braindead chimps, drooling over the pixels slowly being downloaded by a dial-up modem. Just like the beetles that were dying out because they were humping beer bottles, these men are now getting an erection when they look at their l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | But sex work is work, amirite?"She didn't tell you, she's removing your agency and informed consent to the relationship" "babe I didn't tell you about all the things I do which are your dealbreakers because I knew you wouldn't date me!" These 👏mother 👏fuckers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:28 PM |
| 29 | Men stating they fear “Marrying the wrong woman” is a mind game and power play.Absolutely. Men who keep dating legit disordered women have to work hard to seek them out. It's completely different to women who keep meeting abusive men. They're everywhere. I side-eye any man who says his past 3 relationships were extremely rocky. Why did he stay? it's so easy for men to walk out. Does he have some saviour complex, does he have low self-esteem and confidence and thinks badly of himself? Weird. Does he have no self-preservation? How will he be strong enough to protect me or no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:19 PM |
| 36 | Men stating they fear “Marrying the wrong woman” is a mind game and power play.One who won't let him violate her. The horror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:13 PM |
| 31 | Men stating they fear “Marrying the wrong woman” is a mind game and power play.They're telling on themselves. "You're only acting right until you get the ring" = "I know men only act right until we get sex, then we slack off" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:12 PM |
| 3 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.She needs to make 3 meals and shut up. They're never happy unless your spirit is crushed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:06 PM |
| 2 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.We "get to be" his warm bath 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.Yep if he does nothing and she resumes giving him everything, that's the cycle of abuse.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 10:57 PM |
| 3 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.Just hoping she "gets over it" on her own and resumes being a good wife and sucking his dick. He warned her not to be a bad wife right? That should have been sufficient threat to get her to act right /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 10:55 PM |
| 5 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.They can't stand one second of discomfort. Poo their diaper and scream and mommy comes and takes care of it. Cry until external forces make them feel better. Little boys are strong and destructive and people rush to coddle them instead of letting them cry it out to self-soothe and learn emotional regulation internally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 10:52 PM |
| 14 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.Yep. ex-fiance fucked up big time and the rose coloured glasses fell all the way off. He felt it. He shit his pants. He cried that "the magic was gone". No shit asshole, you just destroyed the relationship. The magic was me. Dudes really think they can do nothing, do shitty things, and we'll still be magic pixie fairy fun times? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 10:43 PM |
| 26 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.I did a ton of shit when I was on autopilot after a betrayal trauma. Hung out this fucker's washing after seeing his massive porn stash... If he "yelled" like he said, assume it was 10x worse and he was red in the face with rage. She's terrified and in fawn mode to not set him off and die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 10:27 PM |
| 30 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.oh my god they can't just be normal can they? If we're straight-faced, they order us to smile, cheer up, what's got you in a mood, fix your attitude. If we're smiling, what are you smiling about? If we're chatty, shut up. My brother asked if I was on crack and a DOCTOR asked if I was high. Sir, maybe you guys are just such miserable pricks you've never seen a cheerful woman. Sadists just love making us feel like shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 10:23 PM |
| 35 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.exactly. he doesn't want to own up, apologize, care about her or make it right. He wants to do the bare minimum to reactivate the bangmaid. If something this egregious can be fixed by flowers, he's started the cycle of abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 10:19 PM |
| 117 | Ted Bundy and the power of pornEven if they don't physically escalate to violence or depravity, it makes them dead inside. Men with no empathy can commit atrocities. They just don't give a shit when they psychologically, verbally and emotionally abuse someone while swearing they do love you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 09:51 AM |
| 27 | How do HVM behave during conflict?HVM listen with the intent to understand you and glean the problem. So he can solve it, and apologize if need be. If he doesn't understand the problem, he owns up to that as well and asks for more info. Way too many LVM I've dated are immediately shitting bricks, getting defensive and using 900 tactics to get out of trouble so you don't dump them. Or stringing you along by blaming you for their inability to understand / refusal to understand and take the blame. Making you think you need to expla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 09:47 AM |
| 159 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder?Nope. They all presented themselves as "good guys" and over half were divorced, meaning someone had married then dumped their asses. But they were all single for a reason. Looking for a free escort and to have casual sex like they were teenagers again, because they couldn't sustain a loving relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 11:10 PM |
| 15 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.Gotta medicate this harpy instead of solving the problem eh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 11:02 PM |
| 7 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.aah my BPD mom is the middle child too. Her life consisted of gossiping on the phone to her sisters to compete in the "who can get their husband to buy stuff" olympics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 11:00 PM |
| 22 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.Sounds like he's doing those things out of fear / a transaction, not because he wants to, truly gets it, or believes it's his job because he lives there too. Thinks he's "doing her a favor" and "damn why are you still angry". He has no internal motivation or pride in the work and she knows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 10:59 PM |
| 39 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.Right! I highly doubt the kids have disappointed her in the same way an unreliable adult partner can. He's infantilizing himself and views her as "mean mommy" coming home and telling him to turn the playstation off and bring the groceries in. She's fully got the ick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 10:57 PM |
| 40 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.lol I'm so naive, I thought he meant he had packed lunches for the kids, or made her a burrito bowl or something hahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 10:53 PM |
| 80 | I don’t approve of low value behavior from any one, including a woman. However the FDS in me is suspicious as to what her side of the story is. She sounds miserable, burnt out, and exhausted. I can’t help but wonder how evenly the work load is shared in the house. For both of them, it appears toxic.Men's definition of "fair" is "that doesn't benefit me, I don't want to, I shouldn't have to". If he has to do anything in the house, that's not fair! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 10:51 PM |
| 53 | I'm really interested in how society in your country/culture 'discourages interactions in social spaces'!Frame 8: she's on her therapist's couch looking jittery because this bullshit happened again after well-meaning pickmes told her to "put herself out there" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 10:42 PM |
| 107 | Twelve Everyday Sexist and Misogynistic Things That Men Need to Stop Doing Right NowThey need to recognize their own privilege and stop saying fucktard things like "equal rights, equal lefts hurr durr get the draft and die in a war" when we point out that women still haven't achieved equality. Men have the right to be heard the first time they say no, women want that too. Men have the right to walk around at 11pm unmolested, women want that too. Men have the right to get up and walk out if the sex, relationship, job, whatever, is unsatisfactory, with no repercussions, women wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 06:26 AM |
| 14 | Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people".He had his narc-facade of "such a good guy" on right till the very end. Even though I'd been highlighting entire chapters of "Why Does He Do That" while sitting next to him. He had his own definition of "abusive" and he wasn't one. But a rando off the street might hit me, so that guy was abusive! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 01:56 AM |
| 47 | Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people".The only way they get to play dumb is because they've never dated men, they've never been in an abusive relationship with a man stronger and taller, and they've never been in the same room, alone, with a man who was intent on having sex with them, So they need to shut the fuck up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 11:12 PM |
| 44 | Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people".omg my sociopath ex, after I kicked him out and he took his shit, texted me some bullshit about how he was soo concerned he might have left my front door wedged open. I was like, you dickhead. I'm safe now you're gone. You were the one harming me. I bet a rando off the street who walked in would harm me less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 11:10 PM |
| 13 | Me giving FDS dating advice to my girls: 🥬🥬🥬Jared Jay Jerry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 11:04 PM |
| 30 | Being vulnerable to help build intimacy in relationships.Yep, they can only do 2 things, empathize with men, and project themselves onto you. They can't empathize with rapists/pedos (I hope) so they get stuck on a loop of "why would he do that" and stops listening to you. They project their boundaries, confidence, life experiences and strength onto you and get stuck on "well why didn't you get up and walk out, why didn't you cut him off?" and think badly of you, instead of blaming the man. Once they think badly of you they don't respect you. The shitt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 10:59 PM |
| 13 | There was a man masturbating and watching porn at a coffee shop I like to go to, have they no pride or dignity?That's what the brain damage from porn does to men... makes them think this shit is ok. Impairs their risk assessment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 10:55 PM |
| 67 | Can you be a HVW and date (reasonably) older men?If he's not mature by 30, he never will be. I've dated plenty of men in their 30's, 40's and 50's and they're still stupid, juvenile and stuck in their ways, stemming from misogyny and their firm belief they're superior and don't need to change. They especially don't have to do what a woman suggests. With that mindset they will never grow up. Why would you want a man who took another 10 years than you to mature? Why would you want a man who has to date 10 years down to find his equal? Why isn't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 10:49 PM |
| 198 | Ok what is up with this man and sleeping hats?Literal gaslighting. Who wants to bet she's a WOC and he's a racist who doesn't like the 'slave bonnet' because it reminds him how racist he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 10:46 PM |
| 86 | Foreplay is a chore? Nah babe, this man is a chore!Pornsick, walking dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 10:43 PM |
| 8 | Women should be financially independent.Check out Catherine Fitts Austin. The pensions are gone. Plundered by greedy old men who printed more money to cover it up. Then with all this new money, they say "ooh, money, is for me?" and start a war to pay themselves and their buddies most of that money. They've done this over and over for decades. Centuries. The current boomers have no pensions, benefits or even medicare. Hence the state we're in.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 09:22 PM |
| 110 | Mom gives “Husbands in Training” course to her sonsI'm holding onto the hope that he's not porn-fried, and the porn quiz was too much, eg asking about anal, BDSM etc The world def needs more community centres where decent men hold classes for boys, but, surprising no-one, men just sit around crying that no-one (women) don't care about men. More men's groups where they get told the truth that their shitty behaviour and laziness is causing their dead bedrooms. Other men giving them holistic approaches to why their entire life sucks so much and why… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 02:42 AM |
| 17 | Mom gives “Husbands in Training” course to her sonshttps://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tech-support/201407/what-porn-can-do-intimacy https://emmalindsay.medium.com/porn-makes-men-terrible-in-bed-6e4df5f73200 Could probably try to get them to grasp these concepts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 02:35 AM |
| 193 | Continuing from recent post by another Queen. Absolute trash book.I ain't got time to fix training wheels to men, Bruce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 08:04 AM |
| 34 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??Then went in to collect all her things so he couldn't pawn them.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | War on Women vs War on MenGentleman wants to go to random war to get a war bride fucking yiiiiiikes Bet he has a full size poster of The Kiss without knowing it wasn't consensual and thinks this is how wars go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 03:05 AM |
| 56 | What do y’all think? I personally love it.I hate the clout-chasing fuckbois smirking on the red carpet, hand more on her hip and ass than on her waist. He's not there for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 01:34 AM |
| 180 | A man wrote a book for women on how to text men to get them to not be absolute trash. I just… what?I'd rather learn braille and read a cactus than read that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 01:31 AM |
| 39 | The Scrotation PlaylistThat makes even less sense. Kids broke his heart? yikes. his previous kid was a disappointment? You'll come out of nowhere into my life. ermm All's fair in love and war dafuq Shitty lyricist, pedo, or romcom incel? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 01:21 AM |
| 50 | why it's harder to date as an older woman (follow up to the "easier" post)So true. it's like the goggles have faded away and my vision is clear. Could be the B12 tablets I've been taking too lol. I used to walk around seeing everything as an opportunity. Now I'm weary and wonder what fresh fuckery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:25 PM |
| 119 | The Scrotation Playlist"Just haven't met you yet" by Michael Bubble. Peak incel "I just need to get a girlfriend and all my problems will disappear and my life will be awesome and not the trainwreck of undesirability it is now". Sitting on his bum daydreaming and fantasizing about the woman who will inspire him to change and improve but singing it to the female audience to suck them into his fantasy that she can be the one to be this loser's redemption arc. A ballad of narcissistic abuse where you have to believe his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 11:22 PM |
| 53 | Anyone else feel like there is A LOT missing from this story??Yeha I think "ill" is code for dopesick, he was out tryna find drugs to "get well". Selling records? pawning things? why if he makes so much money? oh yeah. drugs are expensive... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 10:15 PM |
| 651 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24She's not allowed to his parties until she learns to be a friend. Cover up his scumbaggery like all the other bros. Maybe even start bringing him girls like a gilane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 03:35 AM |
| 180 | epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ringThey want us to go back to the 1950's, where we choose to endure one man (shitty cohabit situations) or endure many (OF) in order to survive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:23 PM |
| 36 | Opinion | Consent is not enough. We need a new sexual ethic.They justify their unsolicited dickpic assaults with this illogic as well. "I can harm women as long as I eventually get what I want" is pathalogical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:10 PM |
| 49 | I’m so sick of women having to question whether they are crazy for getting upset over things that are completely normal to get upset over!!!!Not only do they cause our depression and breakdowns, they want to hop on the bandwagon and claim they're depressed they're not the centre of attention for what.. 2-3 days? Selfish assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 09:54 PM |
| 41 | Women and IG vs Internet Pornbecause they go hand in hand. IG harms girl's self-esteem with ridiculous photoshopped impossibilities, which makes them vulnerable, brainwashed easy prey for porn addled scrotes. Of course the men in charge aren't going to clean up either of these issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 09:54 PM |
| 26 | Vetting strategy – women's periodsI just learned from Station 19 that our cycle changes every 5 years :o That kind of change I could possibly write up to stress or the lifespan change. The alarming menstrual problems are excessive bleeding, eg 1 week+ of very heavy periods in women who previously had medium flow. Large clots. Periods every 14 days. Extreme cramping. Pre-pubescent and post-menopausal women bleeding. Skipped periods for no reason. Irregular where it was previously stable. And ultimately, the 300% increase in misca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:32 AM |
| 23 | Vetting strategy – women's periodsThe same tactics to scatter us and dismiss us are being used for those issues and those communities as well. "oh it's just anecdotes" "oh it's just you" "because it's just anecdotes, there's no need to do a study:)" Then a pikachu right up until "wait, why don't you want babies with us... why can't you have babies...why didn't you tell us sooner" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 06:01 AM |
| 64 | spotting low effort convos and copypasteshas an empty profile so you can't see he's full of shit "Hey there it looks like we have so much in common, I'd love to get to know you better over drinks" "I'm not on here much (bullshit) here's my phone number, let me know if you want to catch up" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 05:27 AM |
| 175 | Ginger Dean @lovingmeafterwe on Instagram is an absolute queen. Following her page on healing from narcissistic abuse and codependency saved my life. This post of hers reminding everyone why she makes woc/female specific content and honestly resonates to why I think FDS also is a female only sub. 💜👑Amen. People who use guilt, shame, ostracism or cancelling to force you to censor yourself or change everything about yourself in order to make yourself more palatable or accommodating for people who can't control their own emotions or reactions to reality, are abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 03:00 AM |
| 419 | Yes, you are. 💋She might be depressed so I nagged my arm candy to put in loads of work to look good for me, using social pressure expectations, guilt and obligation, by saying we were going out somewhere with lots of people who would critique her. Am I a clown? I don't know what a carrot is, I went straight for the stick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 02:19 AM |
| 75 | Vetting strategy – women's periodsExactly. "Well my ex was always horny on her period hurr durr" "Know what helps cramps? Orgasms hurrr" "Menstrual Pest" needs to become a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 02:08 AM |
| 148 | In.ce.ls and Their Link to Violence Against the StateThis shit has been going on for decades. My high-school boyfriend became unhinged and I tried to get a restraining order. The female judge waved me off and said he was a young man in love. No lady, he was abusing me with coercive control, tried strangling me to death, stalked and harassed me. If that's the definition of "young man in love" that's terrifying. The police serve the government and protect government property. The legal system does not serve you. Look at all the protests. The police … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 01:42 AM |
| 617 | Nah sis.I'm not gonna pay a man to look after his own offspring lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 12:53 AM |
| 51 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯I matched with an insanely handsome and well-built man on a dating app but after less than an hour it was obvious he was a moron who had ruined his own marriage. Did I uncontrollably keep going because my genitals said so, or I did I decide not to bother because it's not worth the hassle and I actually want a full relationship and deep connection with another human on my level? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 09:56 PM |
| 45 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯Probably circle-jerking and affirming that all hot women are crazy and stupid. Such is life lol! Oh well, these are my preferences! Gotta sacrifice for the peen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 09:52 PM |
| 46 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯I was seriously considering starting drinking to numb myself from the psychological abuse from the last asshole who never listened when I spoke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 09:51 PM |
| 68 | Do these shallow men expect us to feel bad for them? I certainly don’t ¯\_(ツ)_/¯gah this explains a lot. I meet so many men who come in all puffed up sincerely believing all beautiful women are functionally retarded and we can't be both brains and beauty. So they're ready from day 1 to dismiss, belittle, condescend and brush off everything we say. If we say something intelligent they won't believe it's true. "Well this came from a fucken moron lol it can't be a fact". I've been interrogated for hours and had to bring receipts and 4 different search results because these stu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 09:50 PM |
| 10 | The difference between being a famous man and a famous woman…They truly think she's a succubus and the K family are a coven of witches, and she's turned poor kanye and pete mad. Its the only logical explanation! It's not that abused women keep dating abusers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 09:34 PM |
| 23 | What is negotiable when it comes to "investing" for a partner?The definition of compromise (for LVM) is usually "the woman sacrifices". Who benefits, who loses a lot in your hypothetical move? You lose a lot, moving is arduous and expensive. He gains a lot. Where's the compromise? What does he lose? What do you gain that he's giving you? What was the alternative going to be? If your current situation is "he drives a lot".. good! He should be driving to see you, he gains a lot by doing so. You should not be driving to see him. "You move closer" isn't a comp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 10:50 PM |
| 552 | Water boarding couldn’t have gotten this confession out of me 😭😭I'd rather put my feet in a bucket of piranhas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 12:22 PM |
| 192 | Just noI'd rather rip a hangnail up to my armpit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 11:33 AM |
| 71 | In group outings, what should we look for in how men treat women and other men?Trust your gut. HVM with a healthy interest in getting to know you for who you are will respect your right to decide. They'll give you the info you need to make an informed decision. They'll seem bright, clear, present, safe and warm. LVM with the intent to possess, control, mate-guard or trophy you won't consider your rights, feelings, wants or needs. They'll withhold information and be shady and deceitful so that you won't reject them. They'll seem oily, shifty, possessive as if they already o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 03:18 AM |
| 38 | It’s been 2 years since Brenna Taylor was killed. As an Asian woman, I cannot speak for Black women. Watching and reading comments with of Black women dealing with the challenges of misogynoir (sexism & racism) makes me really empathize and want to amplify their voices though. She deserves justice.Not to mention black women are given pain meds less often and at smaller doses because of the horrifically racist notion that they can take it, or don't feel pain like white women do. And the black woman mortality rate during and after childbirth needs a criminal investigation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 09:52 PM |
| 128 | Here's some love and encouragement for women leaving or thinking about leaving their LVMsI'm following a couple of economists and they're all saying the same thing. The increasing fuel and wheat prices are going to make things get worse before they get better. Globally. If you have a net negative man in your life (time, money, effort, labor) get rid of him now. If you have a useless couch creature with no real-world skills, expertise or knowledge, get rid of him. If he can't fix machinery, grow vegetables, dress a wound, cook basic food, handle a gun or make it to the grocery store … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 09:32 AM |
| 22 | A joke eh?Equality means being more open about how much men hate women... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 03:16 AM |
| 260 | The whole unmitigated audacity of this scrote. 🤢 I am so glad sis leveled up, adjusted her crown and LEFT.Some men build the Taj Mahal, some men put effort into this clown fuckery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 03:13 AM |
| 91 | Let's Talk About Woke Bros and Negginghaha same with woke feminist bros "I just recently found out about the struggles of women, let me tell you all about it. wow why aren't you grateful and giving me headpats I'm so much more mature than every other 30 year old, appreciate me" <presses finger to your lips to shh you> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 07:04 AM |
| 22 | How can you tell if "My ex was controlling, abusive, crazy..." etc is the truth from a guy?Every one of my abusive exes claimed their exes were abusive. They couldn't give details. They couldn't give examples. I wasn't confrontational, I was genuinely asking so I wouldn't do that. Who would want to abuse an abuse victim, right? Turns out "saying no" or setting a boundary is abusive :) Not being enthusiastic enough during sex. Being too enthusiastic. Needing their help for the tiniest thing. Not wanting them to break their necks ogling women in public is "controlling". Asking them to d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 10:36 PM |
| 11 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?It does! Every time I ask a man to do something, you can see the cogs turning in his little transaction brain. "What do I get out of this? How can I weasel something out of her later? Can I take a grope as payment while I do this thing that only benefits her?" They're disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 10:20 PM |
| 339 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?We need to stop believing men are reliable narrators. His exes aren't big meanyhead shrews being mean for no reason and we don't need to coo and coddle him and touch his pp to cheer him up. Either he has trashdick, his personality is repugnant, or he was a weaponized incompetence manchild who gave her the ick. believe women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 11:20 PM |
| 647 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?He just divorced because of a dead bedroom, and he's never felt such sexual chemistry from texting before. (I was being dry and bland af. Literally nothing was going on. ???) But he wanted nudes. My guy, if your own wife doesn't want to fuck you.. why would I? Dead bedrooms are like a 1 star rating from the ex-wife lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 09:53 PM |
| 75 | Pickme’s thrive off of The Bachelor (referring to the bottom tweet)I was glad to see #gaslighting trending on twitter and people calling that scumbag out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 09:46 PM |
| 47 | Rape caseI think they crave the headpats from the higher-ups for doing a good job and reducing the workload so they can get on with 'real' prosecutions. A loser at an electronics store was practically getting a boner while denying me a return and refund, as if he was going to be recognized as employee of the year or some shit. Oh and they just hate women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 09:36 PM |
| 274 | Man Wonders If Leaving His Urgently Ill Girlfriend At The ER Was, Like, Rude Or Whatever.The type to dump her for "drama" so he can go back to sitting on the couch and being dead inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 09:50 AM |
| 22 | How would you feel if your partner said they were open to a threesome?oh my love. things were going great so you asked a question to test him, then triggered your own anxious attachment. Did something happen in your childhood, where being an anxious mess is a preferable state for you to be in? Like why, why would you do that? In some ways I don’t feel deserving of the love and care I receive from him. First of all, you do deserve love and care. That's the bare minimum men need to offer in order to keep us in a relationship with them. Second of all, men ain't shit.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 07:05 AM |
| 557 | Very yikes. They actually do think that not being a monster entitles them to everything.I COULD RAPE YOU WHY DON'T YOU LOVE ME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 06:41 AM |
| 5 | Happy Exploitation DaySo many colleges. Suspect it's all male headmasters with a harem of low paid women... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 10:18 PM |
| 37 | Brooklyn 99In the end, you find out Jake had a crappy childhood and is riddled with insecurities about being a bad husband and father. Yet like all scrotes he wants to be lauded for that smidge of introspection, he does nothing with it and just throws it out there as if he's absolved and can remain immature. Good thing Amy's a supermommy with enough drive and organizational skills to overfunction for his juvenile ass. It's another Adam Sandler stereotype. The only way they can have some lols about how hard… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:36 AM |
| 27 | Uh, Still Not Dating & Never Going Back on the Dating Apps . . .Who thought that :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 05:40 AM |
| 103 | When men in professional settings treat you like sh*t when you don't wear makeup. I'm sorry, was this supposed to be a date?!Such a huge neg. "You're so brave for going out ugly" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 05:39 AM |
| 41 | What do we do with LVM with podcastsLet them spread their dumfuk ideas and flame out with women 🤷♀️ they get outed eventually as losers IRL who pay women to touch them, or they fade away and cry in their basement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | I hope I’m not the only one who raised my eyebrows with a bit of concern at the age gap here. I hope for her sake he is HV, but FDS has taught me to be wary and some of the commentary made me sick…What happens when she ages out (sounds like a fetishistic relationship, she's tiny/childlike?) or he retires and the money dries up? Good on her, get the bag for now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Men finding "love" with AI chatbots - Horrifying Black Mirror episode, good alternative to sex workers, or both? - 'I fell in love with my AI girlfriend - and it saved my marriage'Fingers crossed we get a Matrix, Brave New World and Soylent Green crossover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 4 | The Struggle Is Real...Right, it's a guide for countries and large populations. obv not on a muscly army or anyone who knows they're a body builder. It's safe to say, after using my own eyes, men who don't have a dangerous amount of body-fat crushing their internal organs are rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 09:36 PM |
| 12 | The Struggle Is Real...I think the decades of being told bread is good for you, and the high fructose corn sugar in everything has messed up a lot of generations in america. HFCS disrupts vitamin D levels which has a lot of bad side effects (muscle retention, mood, hormones, immune strength) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 09:47 AM |
| 111 | Asshole tells his wife to lose weight or consent to being cheated on"I'm going to open up the marriage until he earns more money" 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 01:30 AM |
| 18 | The Struggle Is Real...Right, I easily match and discard over 100 a year and go on 50 dates when I'm trying. So much trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 10:39 PM |
| 21 | The Struggle Is Real...Obesity BMI 30+ Age-adjusted External link percentage of US adults with overweight, obesity, and severe obesity by sex, 2017–2018 NHANES Data2 Men Women Overweight 34.1% 27.5% Obesity (including severe obesity) 43.0% 41.9% Probably more now, people in the usa gained an average of 28 pounds over the past 2 years :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 10:36 PM |
| 99 | The Struggle Is Real...They probably math wrong because they're morons. Like the chance of over 6'2 is 5% The chance of healthy weight is 10% So they do 10% of 5% instead of using their brains and accepting that there could be an overlap and it's still 5% AND it's more likely that 6'2 and slim men get high paying jobs because penis, so it's still 5% but they're probably all married. If they're not, there's a good reason. "Not a sociopath" should be on the list, bringing it down to 0% anyway ha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 10:31 PM |
| 63 | The comments are sad 😔It's as if all my exes were honest in one clip.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 07:24 AM |
| 14 | Scrote “jokes” about beating his gf up"Give us our shit back" me : oh he's going to protect and provide "no I'm going to drive this conversation off a cliff" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 09:34 PM |
| 49 | This is just another incredibly powerful reason why female only spaces are critical and why I love FDS"Stand up if you get enthusiastic consent every time" ooohhhhhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 12:04 AM |
| 50 | This is just another incredibly powerful reason why female only spaces are critical and why I love FDSBut what about the men who lie and say they didn't rape... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 12:03 AM |
| 93 | Man OK with 50/50 relationship as long as it's to his advantage. But as soon as it barely compensates the woman, it's transactional and gross. Notice, they're "spiritually" married 🙄Here's someone who's familiar with men's future-faking, empty promise bullshit and wants it all in writing lol good on her. "She's asking me to pay?? My plan was to make her and only her suffer!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Women&Children and Whose Life is ValuedExactly. Or as a certain country is finding out, if you murder all the female babies, there will be 30 million leftover males who will never have children. They goofed big time. Bill Gates' depraved vaccine experiments ends up sterilizing black girls. What a mystery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 02:42 AM |
| 99 | Insecure Men and their Allegations of Cheating"The Batterer: A Psychological Profile by Donald G. Dutton" Unresolved mommy issues, fear of abandonment. They're basically squirming with rage in their own diaper and there's nothing we can do about it. It has nothing to do with us. They have feels, they blame woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 07:40 AM |
| 79 | Family annihilators and how to spot one quickly when dating. Long-ish post. TW [murder, suicide]I can believe that. LVM are so cranky and easily snap in hot weather. They should get a summer curfew so women can enjoy warm weather 😂 Weren't most serial killers active in summer? Son of Sam, Ted Bundy, Ramirez.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 04:55 AM |
| 144 | Family annihilators and how to spot one quickly when dating. Long-ish post. TW [murder, suicide]Very interesting regarding August. End of summer? School holidays? We need more women researchers so we can get holistic answers. Seasons and lunar cycles affect us more than men will allow us to talk about because woo-woo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 02:09 AM |
| 297 | “I Am Just A Simple Man”He is a LAZY man. Mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually. No curiosity, empathy, consideration or effort. Ends any kind of discussion he doesn't like with "hmm, I've never thought about that" and returns his dull eyes and slack jaw back to watching men throw a ball up and down the same field. Flick him with holy water and leave 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 01:59 AM |
| 30 | What's the FDS view on "reading" porn?yeah they all say that about porn. Whatever time they spend on it, multiply it by 10. My ex claimed 'every now and then' and his terrabyte porn drive showed daily binges of 10+ hours.... If this has been a long term hobby, he's pornsick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:34 PM |
| 69 | A daily reminder to protect your womb from LVM scrotes. Apparently once you have a kid, you are no longer allowed to have standards.She must get pregnant at the exact time it's convenient to him. She must pay for all her pre-natal vitamins etc herself. She must never be sick or needy while growing the human. She must drive herself to all her appointments and never inconvenience him. She must 'glow' and allow all his friends and family and coworkers to touch her belly his child. She must continue to want sex how he likes for the duration, including blowjobs. She mustn't get 'too fat'. The birth must be quick and pleasant for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:29 PM |
| 120 | You won't give your wife the assurance/insurance she needs to know that she will not financially suffer for having a child with you but you will still TaKe CaRe Of YoUr ChILd. The audacity. 🤡But I wanted a whole human being to make my child for freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:08 PM |
| 14 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerLunatics hate Joffrey so much he quit acting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:03 PM |
| 35 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerRight. There's no way Obama would have been President with a 19 year old bimbo on his arm and no kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 10:01 PM |
| 35 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerAnd the bit where he's a eugenicist, experimenting on black children. He's not even a doctor, scientist or virologist, why's he obsessed with sticking needles in kids? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 09:58 PM |
| 73 | We need to talk about exit strategies for those of us with LVM.If he's in IT, run a virus scanner on your laptop for keylogging malware and any sharing or syncing. Go to a public library and set up a new email account and memorise the password. Set up 2FA and delete the text every time. Use an incognito window to check the email. Use that email for things like your new PO Box, strat talk with your friends and family, renting the storage locker, U-Haul, new lease, comms with your new landlord, getting elec/gas/internet etc. Get all your paper bills turned in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 10:17 PM |
| 212 | "I appreciate modesty in a woman" - says the man who watches porn.Half the deadbedrooms are like this, regarding sex. "My ex gf was super sexual, but I'm a dickhead and married a wifey prude, now she wont turn into whore??? why??? I know women can be sexual, my ex was?? Women are all play-dough???" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 10:01 PM |
| 18 | If you could write your ex's Tinder profile😂 Anonymous needs to get onto hacking tinder to tell the truth instead of whatever they're doing to russia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 09:20 AM |
| 279 | If you could write your ex's Tinder profile6'2. Good on paper. That's it. That's all I have going for me. You'll figure out I'm a sociopath in 2 years <finger guns> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 04:48 AM |
| 47 | She did that! A woman can’t even run a business without a scrote having the audacity. She cleared his ass and I know his ego was deflated.Get wrecked Charles 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 04:45 AM |
| 46 | Abusers wait to reveal his true colours until you’re baby trapped. Vet ruthlessly by enforcing your boundaries during courtship.There are a ton of american narc mothers on justnomil... could be anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 04:41 AM |
| 196 | Abusers wait to reveal his true colours until you’re baby trapped. Vet ruthlessly by enforcing your boundaries during courtship.The reward they get for denying mom the child is better than the punishment of the sound. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 04:40 AM |
| 37 | 'Mums Unite To Make Porn They Are Happy For Kids To Watch' | This is just soooo embarrassingAbout the beer? yeah gotta get them young, like zuck and insta for kids... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 01:06 AM |
| 296 | 'Mums Unite To Make Porn They Are Happy For Kids To Watch' | This is just soooo embarrassingWe didn't want our kids trying cocaine so we made some kiddy crack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:26 PM |
| 0 | On Pornhub blocking russian users. A strategic move and some history lessons.Or it's a move to get them to start raping ukranian women... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 10:19 PM |
| 261 | Therapy lines that are used for manipulationNot giving me sex is emotional abuse Making me contribute to bills instead of letting me mooch at your place every weekend is financial abuse When I psychologically abuse you for hours until you're exhausted and you run away from me to get space and peace, that's giving me the silent treatment, and abuse Not letting me shower with you and watch you get dressed every day is withholding intimacy and affection, and abuse (I shit you not, a dude made a whole post whining about this, and said he was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:18 PM |
| 499 | Vetting Vetting, imagine being with a man for 30 yrs plus and he doesn’t love you, only as a best friend…. This is sad.Tries to temper how much of an asshole he is by being all wistful at the end 😂 Are you staring out the window at the rain with a mug of tea in two hands mate Our lives and what they steal from us is hypothetical to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 11:34 AM |
| 82 | Can an LVM turn into a HVM later in life?He ghosts. I've been ghosted a few times for this ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 09:37 AM |
| 145 | Can an LVM turn into a HVM later in life?porn addiction has more benefits to the man than downsides he can see. The longer he does it, the more misogynistic, callous and brain damaged they become. Soon they won't see any point in quitting. If they claim they have, it's for external reasons - they heard women don't like it. They don't truly want to stop, most are resentful about it. Same with cheating. They love it, why would they stop? If they can get away with it, they'll do it to their dream girl, they truly don't care. Just get anot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 08:50 AM |
| 152 | Friends with Men?Stop living in the fantasy land where you can project your desires, wishes, morals and good-faith intentions into men. How on earth are men "good friends". Will he give you a ride home and expect nothing in return? Will he be part of the squad to plan a surprise birthday party for you? Why would you not make friends with women? He "knows you're not dating" which means he has no competition, you have no protection, he views you as a spare vagina which you're selfishly keeping from him. LVM don't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:09 AM |
| 221 | LVM Love To Spread the Myth That Women Should Settle Lower Than What We're Attracted To But Mistreat the Women Out of their League Who Give Them A Chance Regardless - SO don't settle and don't make this mistake!Deception is a mating strategy for undesirable men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 11:59 PM |
| 27 | it's the phrasing that mattersAnd their insane double standards and binds. They want a hot girl on their arm, but they're terrified a man will steal you. They act like nutjobs every time you're out. They want a slim girl but eating clean is too much work for them. They'll never prepare food for you. They don't want a clingy girl who wants their attention, but when you get up to go to the gym they shit their pants and beg you to stay. And what, stare at them while they play cod4. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 08:14 AM |
| 228 | New vetting strategy with all this third world war subjectImagine announcing you're so undesirable that's the only way you can get a woman 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 08:07 AM |
| 307 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..I'm rolling on the floor at the image of this turd burglar retrieving his precious poo from the trash to safely tuck away. DSM-6, pandemic edition. These men have truly lost their minds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 05:37 AM |
| 226 | TW: nasty as hell. I don’t even have words..curdled turds had me I'm glad she's witty, she'll be ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 05:33 AM |
| 20 | when men have nothing else they have the audacityI mean it's not even women on the apps. It's 3 nerds in shipping containers triangulating their position :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 04:46 AM |
| 14 | when men have nothing else they have the audacityNot available in my area :( no-one ever invades Australia 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 01:09 AM |
| 50 | There’s no such thing as a yellow flag, it’s either a misunderstanding that can be resolved with a quick conversation, or it’s a red flag in disguise. Don’t wait around for the second one.Why is it hot when he puts his hand behind my headrest to reverse tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 11:12 PM |
| 46 | when men have nothing else they have the audacityDo these men know nothing about opsec? It's probably the army tracking troop movements lmao "Alright, they're 3 miles away, shell em" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Exactly. The mass rapists spend maybe a few months getting into their pool - gymnastics, Boy Scouts, new school, church, and then years separating and raping everyone, making each victim believe they’re the only one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 06:12 PM |
| 132 | Financially abusive Scrote strings along his 4.5 year live-in girlfriend, finally "gets engaged", yet cries when he finds out that he wasn't entitled to ALL of her money after all, etc. Next, he pitches it to the audience about whether he should take the money, then dump her any way.This is exactly what happens when men feel entitled to everything from women. Our time, housekeeping, cooking, child rearing, and now our earnings. When we keep OUR things to ourselves, they feel attacked, betrayed, resentful and as if we stole it from them. He hates her now and is going to run and not feel bad in the slightest. He’ll feel he got what he was owed. Sis thought she was buying his love, but she’s starting over from scratch now. Very foolish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 05:54 PM |
| 152 | it's the phrasing that mattersThey passive aggressively ask how much I work out and it always has 2 endings. My dedication contrasts their laziness and makes them feel insecure so they want me to stop and sit on the couch with them. They want a free personal trainer, cheerleader and perky motivator even though they have zero internal desire and weak routines or discipline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 05:42 PM |
| 290 | Falling off of the maskHe thought you were travelling there just to visit his dick lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 09:04 AM |
| 158 | Male highly driven predatory sexual appetite & drive VS women’s easily controlled, & sometimes non existent drive. Is this nature or nurture? Is there any coming back from generationally being hunted for sex from childhood?Grab your emotional support labrador and watch this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G1y38N4LQiU I think there's a huge difference between pedos who lIkE fErTiLe yOuNg wOmEn because they're sexually aroused by women who at least look like they've gone through puberty - disgusting mindset, still abhorrent and men who are quite frankly, serial killers of babies, who use their penis as the weapon. They're aroused not by the child, but by the knowledge that they're about to physically and mentally de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 07:15 AM |
| 153 | Why is "do literally anything other than a coffee or walk date" so hard for so many men to handle?Every single man I’ve matched with thinks he’s unique, special, and reality doesn’t apply. HIS dick will be the magic ONE to give me an orgasm! HE is the super single dad I want to date! He’s the 50th unemployed I mean early retired middle aged slob with a genius idea to opt out and relax 24/7 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 01:22 AM |
| 114 | Woman quits job to breastfeed boyfriend "full time", what in pickme hell?I'd rather put my feet on the dash and drive into a pole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 04:24 AM |
| 78 | LVM are out there thinking men don't treat women like shit. Drew's response is on point as always 👑Indian women would like a word. Marital rape is still legal :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:12 PM |
| 311 | Never go backShe died the first day she went back to him. I feel like any of us could be a homicide detective at this stage.. We all minority reported Brian Laundrie's ass while Gabby was still alive.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:18 AM |
| 81 | scrotey man can masturbste ‘for hours’ but can’t hold an erection with his girlfriend. sex columnist advice ‘oh don’t feel ashamed, just communicaaaaate’these logical men can't put two and two together.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 07:50 AM |
| 62 | What is a yellow/orange flag?Red means unacceptable in all circumstances, cannot be misinterpreted, no benefit of the doubt, leave immediately. Yellow/orange means a one off, a personal trigger that no reasonable person would suspect is bad, a true misunderstanding (language, culture, dialect) or circumstances beyond his control that no-one could have foreseen. A cluster of orange flags is a pattern, not coincidence, and turns into a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:45 PM |
| 142 | Is Leaving Early the New Coming Home Late for ZVM Who Buy S*x Workers?Data was released from I think fitbit or some other smartwatch tracker that since lockdowns we're all naturally sleeping later. I never liked this 9-5 or early morning school/classes anyway, a lot of us are nightowls. My sleep tracker says I consistently get into a deep sleep at 4am. Waking up at 6am wrecks me. So yeah I think the world is settling into our natural circadian rhythms, which is to sleep later. We all know how much teenage boys sleep. Husbands with newborns sleep through feedings a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 11:39 PM |
| 50 | Game show ideaHand them a hessian sack marked "Tinder" and it has 9 king browns in it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 09:00 PM |
| 22 | What counts as toxic femininity in 2022That's an unhealthy reaction to the extremely misogynoir comments that black women are masculine :( So they exaggerate their 'feminine' markers such as make-up, hair and nails :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 08:55 PM |
| 135 | Ladies, what have been your experiences with dating men that have unresolved and untreated intergenerational trauma?The more you help them, walk on eggshells and coddle them, the safer they feel to regress so that you can re-parent them. Which could take years. And you're not a licensed therapist and you never consented or realised that's what you're doing. And it doesn't work because they don't want to grow up and take on scary, difficult adult responsibilities and accountabilities. At the first sign of a man acting childish to get you to act maternal, nope the hell out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:17 AM |
| 203 | Women leaving the dating appsBecause it's just another app in a long line of things that men have associated with penis gratification. They create a parasocial emotional relationship on OF They have a fantasy sexual relationship with pornhub, often for decades, which lasts longer than, and is permanently in the background of their relationships with women They browse 'girlfriend material' photoshopped instabaddies which inflates their massive entitlements to unrealistic proportions They then use OLD to order a free hooker. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:13 AM |
| 116 | Why didn’t her husband just clean the house shirtlesshaha demeaning others makes me feel good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 12:40 AM |
| 63 | Divorcee's and DatingHow long did you tolerate the abuse for, so I know how long I can do you dirty How long ago was a dick in you, ewww if it was last week that's nasty, if it was a year ago, your vajeen has healed sufficiently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 10:03 PM |
| 62 | Only 19 years old 😭 she shouldn’t tolerate thisControlling People, by Patricia Evans :( https://nomoreverbalabuse.blogspot.com/2008/07/teddy-check.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:58 PM |
| 213 | Someone trolled the tony stark wannabe$5 an hour to be his full time maid, EA and dick sucker 😂😂😂😂😂😂 And he moves in with her... Hoboscams getting elaborate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 05:13 AM |
| 80 | FDS lingo is catching on!If they wanted to prosecute rapists, they would 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 09:04 PM |
| 234 | Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected?Oh you read books? Name them all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 02:47 AM |
| 190 | Comparing the Assault of Stealthing to lying about being on Birth Control | An attempt at a Tasteless 'Gotcha' by menStealthing is rape. It has a traumatic effect, knowing he betrayed you for his own selfish gratification. Then there's the panic of either needing to get plan B which messes up your cycle and can lead to nausea and days off work, or the anxiety until you get your regular period. If that doesn't work, or you didn't know he did it, and you become pregnant, better hope you're in a state where you still have your human rights and can schedule an abortion, again taking time off work, not to mention t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 04:38 AM |
| 75 | Signs of Cheating: How to spot them?Always late and comes loaded with wild excuses. Breezing in the door with tales about an accident and bad traffic. But it's ok, he's here now and he missed you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 09:30 PM |
| 32 | Proud Of A little Bit Of Progress, I'm Learning How To Say NoStart asking "is this person caring about how they're making ME feel? Do they care they're making me uncomfortable? Do they care they're being intrusive and demanding?" Then you don't have to feel guilty about asserting your rights and boundaries:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 09:13 PM |
| 19 | Question about property after breakupYou don't owe him shit. Sounds like petty revenge for finally moving on and being out of his reach. Have friends and family around and your phone handy to record on the days you move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 09:10 PM |
| 78 | If he can't plan a date, he isn't worth going out with in the first place.males on okcupid have the nerve to write "I can't see likes, you'll have to message me first" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 09:04 PM |
| 300 | What is up with men saying they want someone who is passionate about something?I've noticed porn addicts are extremely dull and have shallow, empty, uninspiring lives. They have no motivation and no internal drive or passions of their own, besides spending 4 hours looking for the perfect rape clip to spark their pp. They hope a woman chattering excitedly about something will spark something in them but they're so dead inside it doesn't work, so they run through women leaving carnage and heartbreak behind them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 04:42 AM |
| 20 | Why you can’t take men seriously…I mean, he's technically correct. Most men aren't capable of love sooooo self own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 12:22 AM |
| 30 | It’s that time of the month, ladies! I mean when men on PPD try to justify creeping on 18 year olds, of course.He means men's disgust at LGB.. gay men are 'disgusting' because one of them is taking penis like a woman. Lesbians are 'disgusting' because neither of them want his pp. And our disgust at pedophiles is natural. But we should squash that down so males can impregnate underaged girls and ki ll them in childbirth 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 12:17 AM |
| 56 | Rant on modern dating/men in generalwithout the /s this is literally what the manosphere believes... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 12:04 AM |
| 276 | 👏 Never 👏 Stop 👏 Vetting 👏Well SOMEone's moving house.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:33 AM |
| 135 | I wouldn't know how to treat an HVMA HVM would go out and get it done. He'd feel the ick if you started mothering him. He'd appreciate your presence and would want you to act like it was business as usual. They'd probably not even tell you until the solution was in progress because they don't want to worry you. (as opposed to an LVM hiding the problem because they're shady liars covering up their failures) You won't even feel the need to do something around a HVM. They're trustworthy and reliable. Only LVM make you start pre-plan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 07:08 AM |
| 137 | Some of the most telling screenshots from men from that front page post about 🌽⭐️s needing to face the ‘consequences of their actions’. Men don’t think coercion exists on ‘big name’ websites and think sex work = any other industry, ignoring that exploitation is a key feature, not a bug, of pornright lol "no, they're so ethical, there's so much paperwork" "they scrubbed 75% because it wasn't ethical" not by choice, because visa and mastercard didn't want to be associated with CSAM. They're junkies and their dealer can do no wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:37 AM |
| 443 | Textbook Terrible V-Day"I love this woman more than anyone else I've ever been with" jesus, how does he treat his enemies... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 01:48 AM |
| 29 | “She doesn’t bother to pretend she’s not being raped and that makes my pp sad”More like give tips for how to have sex in 110F in a FEMA tent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:45 PM |
| 392 | Male depravity makes it to the front page.Lying to women to trick them into conversation because we're more pleasant to talk to than males.. and I mean it's not like we've got anything else going on in our lives teehee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:22 AM |
| 76 | Thoughts? How would you debate that? Seems like it's from a male perspective?!Yikes from both perspectives. Women who don't love themselves will be abused into the grave by an LVM. Men who don't love themselves trying to convince a woman to stick around for the struggle? no ty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:20 AM |
| 95 | Shyness or Fooling Around?If you're confused, it's a no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:06 AM |
| 97 | Ladies please be careful about who you have children with. She is pregnant but he is trying to dictate how she gives birth… also he doesn’t know about the umbilical cord? 🥴These are the exact ignoramuses who take away our rights to bodily autonomy in court because they think there’s only one reason women have abortions. (Punitive contraception) Men need to stfu regarding anything and everything to do with women’s bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:14 AM |
| 281 | I'd leave. Straight up would not make it down that aisle if my man was dressed like thisHer eyes are dead already. His face says "what's this bitch gonna do lol" How did we get here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:58 PM |
| 36 | Spring Breakup Season Is Coming!haha look at everyone bailing before halloween, thanksgiving, christmas and new years. then crying about not wanting to spend x alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:41 PM |
| 16 | Heartbreaking. Wife wants to spend time with lv hubby v-day weekend, gets ignored. He admits he’s trash but doesn’t want her with another manAnd she has to negotiate herself down to get him to agree?? "I promise I won't have sex" Girl. If he doesn't want your vagina, find someone who does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:34 PM |
| 48 | Heartbreaking. Wife wants to spend time with lv hubby v-day weekend, gets ignored. He admits he’s trash but doesn’t want her with another manLeft his phone at moms... Valentines dinner with his side chick. And straight to sleep cos he's already busted a nut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:32 PM |
| 26 | Heartbreaking. Wife wants to spend time with lv hubby v-day weekend, gets ignored. He admits he’s trash but doesn’t want her with another manok technically she's not listening. we do this to ourselves :( these scrotes are communicating loud and clear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:29 PM |
| 18 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!Yeah he was "just about" to call 911. Sure lol. And he "freaked out" and "he's never doing it again" because he cares about HER so much. mmhmm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 08:47 PM |
| 23 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!True. maybe controversial but HVM don't start dating depressed/anxious wrecks. Why would they? Being HVM doesn't mean he's obligated to struggle or be a prince charming, just as HVW aren't obligated to date struggling men. If he's been married for years, sure, he'll stick around while she recovers. But imo only LVM prey on weakened women, then make them worse. I've seen too many relationship posts starting out "he helps me with my x y z so much" and ends with a list of ways he's abusing her, tak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 08:36 PM |
| 157 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!I’d have generalised anxiety IF I SLEPT NEXT TO A MAN WHO LIKED STRANGLING ME All you ladies know what I mean - how our mystery ailments cleared right up when we got away from men who didn’t care if we died. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:02 PM |
| 72 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!Need to be jailed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:53 PM |
| 103 | Scrote refuses to marry forever gf because of “dead bedroom” and has been stringing her along for 3 years. Can you count the red flags in this post?"once a week and she starfishes 😢" is the definition :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 06:25 AM |
| 64 | Trigger warning for exes of porn addictsSo he's still a porn addict and he spends his sexual energy into a sock, but it's ok because it's pics of her? I'd swoon if a guy came out of the bathroom smiling that he just jerked off.. to pics of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:48 AM |
| 348 | Scrote refuses to marry forever gf because of “dead bedroom” and has been stringing her along for 3 years. Can you count the red flags in this post?I've seen this exact story about 100 times now. Get together in their teens. Life is carefree and they have no responsibilities. Boy is horny and knows nothing about sex. Is thrilled and 'falls in love' because he's constantly busting a nut. She's sick of being used as a cum rag. She's actually matured, gone to college I assume, or working a 'grown-up' job, and wants to progress in life, which means secure housing and a secure relationship - marriage. While mister stunted teenager here is humpin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:43 AM |
| 7 | When you move in with a man that doesn't even respect youand they don't tolerate 1% of the shit they dish out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:49 AM |
| 138 | Imagine being so mentally weak that your entire mood depends on over-identifying with men who throw a ball around.Yes, the 'team' ruined his life and his party. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 02:31 AM |
| 92 | Can long distance relationships work?LDR isn't a relationship if you "met" on OLD and have never met in person. It's a fantasy, it's some safe pretend nonsense for people with some kind of problem - anxiety, no social skills, trauma, porn sickness, avoidance, inability to meet people in real life. 999/1000 the man benefits from your attention, affection, therapy, nudes, sexting, camming and the security and ego boost of knowing he has a woman on a shelf. It costs him nothing but a few "wyd" texts. He opens and closes you like a bro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:10 AM |
| 28 | Lies Men Tell: Women Can't PairbondWhen my 6'3 ex toddled towards me like a baby wanting cuddles I almost vomited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 11:21 PM |
| 109 | Introspection- when you aren't sure ask yourself would you do the same to him?Great way to become more objective! If you have low self-esteem, or no protective instinct for yourself, or you had it punished out of you by abusive parents, another question is "Would I be happy if a man treated my daughter this way?" and that usually wakes up a mama bear feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 10:01 PM |
| 83 | Incel saying the quiet part out loud: we’re not people to them.They're parasites and a life support system for their dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 20 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Him: so these are my reason to break up, what do you think, do you think otherwise? "So are you going to twist yourself into a pretzel for me? Change all these things about yourself to prove your love for me? Then I know I have the upper hand and you're desperate" Queen response! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:55 PM |
| 13 | Men who give you a number/large number of children they want before discussing commitment just want to use your body.I think it's a very important up-front dealbreaker question. A few relationship posts have been "I've been dating this guy 6 months and just found out he doesn't want kids!" oh honey. It doesn't have to be in depth, and if he takes it there that's weird. "Do you want kids, yes no?" Great, we can discuss it more later, or move on now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 73 | Men who give you a number/large number of children they want before discussing commitment just want to use your body.I was watching a documentary about men in India. 3 men past middle age sitting in couches smoking hookah while their elderly mother squats on the floor cooking for them all. "Why do you want a wife and kids?" "I need an heir for my legacy" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:44 PM |
| 17 | A reminder that being a high value woman will be uncomfortableHe can't pair bond 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:42 PM |
| 15 | A reminder that being a high value woman will be uncomfortableMen are pimps for other men. He empathized with your antagonist, not you. ew :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:40 PM |
| 33 | Men are so inconsiderate.Yess it's animalistic hooting and hollering, claiming the land as men's. Any space with a man in it becomes a man space. Had a tradesman fixing a tap making non-stop clicking, chu chu, whistling and loud sighing noises my GOD get out asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:38 PM |
| 55 | Lies Men Tell: Women Can't PairbondAlways be bigger than she is. Stronger, taller and more mature. This will have her seeking your approval all the time, but in the best ways, because you'll be a man she looks up to, just like her father. Oh nooooooooooooooooooo. Tell me you're an incestuous pedo in 280 chars... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:33 PM |
| 40 | Lies Men Tell: Women Can't PairbondThis from the men who hate women forever because their sixth grade crush smiled at Chad one time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:31 PM |
| 23 | Lies Men Tell: Women Can't PairbondThe manosphere is the world's greatest psyop to set losers up to fail and create an angry army of incels. Outsourcing violence against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:29 PM |
| 30 | Lies Men Tell: Women Can't PairbondChildhood neglect gives them actual brain damage where they get used to chaos and feel bored and irritated when nothing is happening. Their brain also over-reacts to high-pitched noises such as... babies crying and women finally raising their voices in frustration. LVM are angry but they blame it on everyone but themselves and refuse to go to therapy or think deeply. Bitches are just shrill and deserve to be punched I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 09:27 PM |
| 8 | When you move in with a man that doesn't even respect youAbusers want power and control. They’re not big on thinking it through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 03:34 PM |
| 62 | Valentine’s Day Gifts if you’re in a relationship ?If he plans a nice date, probably a card and a small box of chocolates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 11:28 AM |
| 16 | Is anyone else slowly getting there with FDS boundaries?yeah lol "Sorry, someone actually planned a date, busy now!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 01:15 AM |
| 59 | When you move in with a man that doesn't even respect youThey don't even make sense. An ex hid my college textbooks before an exam. Ok, so I fail, don't graduate, don't get a job, then what? Am I going to sit at home all day and he'll support us both on his income? Am I not meant to eat food because he doesn't make enough money? These men are truly insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 10:40 PM |
| 60 | When you move in with a man that doesn't even respect youIt's considered torture by the geneva convention. Women will never get justice though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 10:37 PM |
| 85 | When you move in with a man that doesn't even respect youI got an ex to use nose strips because I'm quite homicidal after sleep deprivation. Then he unilaterally decided to stop using it because "his nose dried out". So his 1% discomfort was more important than my 24 hours straight anger and usually joint pain. Men are truly sociopathic in terms of their selfishness and inconsideration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 10:36 PM |
| 172 | Men asking for Instagram or WhatsApp prior to meetingThese type want to add you to their digital harem, a catalogue of women they imagine they own. They're more than satisfied with this arrangement, they won't ever date anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 10:28 PM |
| 68 | Why we shouldn’t have men as friends….a sequel.Exactly. Men want 'casual' but their idea of casual is they still get 100% girlfriend benefits. They're shocked at a taste of their own medicine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 37 | Is anyone else slowly getting there with FDS boundaries?The questions "are we still on?" (for nothing, they haven't planned a date!) and "are you still keen to meet" are now red flags to me. They're always asked by no-effort men who have no interest in planning a date. They used up all their effort checking if I was still entertaining their bullshit texts. They get enough reward from knowing you're still excited to meet their loser asses and don't actually need to go on a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 10:06 PM |
| 10 | Why do so many men have bad breath?Combo of never dusting their homes so they breathe in a ton of dirt. Their noses make snot to trap it. They don't wash their faces at night and blow out all the gunk blocking their airway. Then they breathe open mouthed all night which dries their teeth out and bacteria has a field day. Then they eat food instead of drinking water and cram more dead food between their teeth. Seriously seen men with visible yellow chunks near their gums on first (and last) date. One guy tried kissing me with such… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 09:58 PM |
| 52 | Don't trust your male friends.Being that short is perfect for the height/mass differential for throws. She'd rock at judo. Women should be encouraged to at least take some lessons to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 09:33 PM |
| 208 | She found out her husband was cheating at 70 and kicked him out! Found love again are 73. Never stop vetting ladies! Do not settle for less.The wall is down to 18 now, apparently 12 year olds are washed up supersluts... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 05:00 AM |
| 15 | What's your phone numberSettings, Phone, Show my caller ID, block it :) When you text or call him it says blocked or unknown or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 12:28 AM |
| 3 | epiphany: men who neg strong womenloool "Go overboard with walking on eggshells and emotional labor so you don't set him off because they can't control themselves and he might murder you within 0.2 seconds" Kind of like.. what girls are told about boys since we're born really... And then when we start clocking the bullshit we get gaslit. "No, if he's angry you can simply talk to him calmly and he'll stop! If he doesn't, you didn't do it right! It's ALL your fault, at all times!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:03 PM |
| 497 | Mistakes were made, let us count the ways…Ladies, when the circus rolls into town, you don't join them when they leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 10:54 PM |
| 181 | Discussing future financesAny man who buys 'investment properties' is landlord scum, sorry. We're in this mess because greedy men want to put every aspect of our lives on a monthly lease. Why sell something once when you can rent it out for 80 years? Housing is a need, not a commodity. I'd ditch him for that alone. Buy and own your own home and don't ever let anyone take it away from you. Housing insecurity targeted towards women has been the biggest tool of our manipulation and oppression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 10:50 PM |
| 94 | What's your phone numberLVM are so entitled to such a personal and direct level of access which is completely unearned. They brag about getting many women's numbers in a day because it's supposed to be a challenge but pickmes give it out like candy. If you're on the dating app, that level of access is completely fine and safe for you and they hate it. LVM can't send dickpics, they can't say nasty things and not get reported to the app. If they're cheating or using the app on saturdays int he bathroom, it means they hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 09:16 PM |
| 76 | It wouldn't have anything to do with that hateful, repulsive personality. Nah, must be the cheekbones. B*tches so picky 🙄baby canon 😂 I just had the image of ping pong balls shooting out a vag and I deeply regret googling it to find a SFW gif It was in a cheesy movie right? Like Animal House or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 10:39 AM |
| 24 | Anyone wants to partner with a Scrote? I’m sure he’s 100% sincereWhoops he doesn't have an OF and the camera isn't on. Just fuck me for months for free haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 09:02 PM |
| 389 | Even on Airplanes in business class we are not safe.He's been released lol. It happened in an enclosed space. What exact conditions do they need before they'll actually serve justice to rapists? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:21 AM |
| 16 | Disgusting Vday Gifts"pay to work here" 😂😂😂😂 zero benefits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:17 AM |
| 81 | Woman finds son watching porn. Asks other women advice for more "ethical" options. 🤦🏼♀️"The slut making false accusations has an OnlyFans, how can I destroy her life, reddit" we laugh like this isn't actually happening... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:11 AM |
| 23 | Disgusting Vday GiftsLooking for a real go-getter who can hit the ground running. Work hard, play hard. Salary $0 but a signing bonus of a $5 coffee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 06:07 AM |
| 88 | Woman finds son watching porn. Asks other women advice for more "ethical" options. 🤦🏼♀️Jesus Christ libfem has brainwashed these mothers so bad I can't even. Safeguard your child you stupid bitch. Yeah I said it. Ask how can you block porn sites. Which pornblockers are the best that he can't remove. Which groupchats has he been using where his own friends groomed him into being a deviant pervert. What kinds of tantrumming, raging, bargaining and aggression are you going to have to deal with if you take away his devices every weekend to attempt to restore normal brain function? Whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 04:38 AM |
| 120 | Woman finds son watching porn. Asks other women advice for more "ethical" options. 🤦🏼♀️How can I help him destroy his brain so bad he can't get into college safely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 04:31 AM |
| 77 | Precautions for POC women while seeing/dating white mensee how women from his own race think of him! yesss. There's a cross-racial blindness if you've grown up around people similar to you. The saying "all x look the same" means "I don't have enough experience or time around people of that race to notice the differences in their facial structure to easily tell them apart". I've been surrounded by white people and acknowledge I have a lot of trouble telling people of other races apart and I'm trying to fix that by watching a lot of youtubes of many d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 04:28 AM |
| 41 | "wait to have sex" labeled as "bad dating advice"...and all of the people in the comments applauding...The misinformation will continue until the brainwashing is complete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Next time he says women are “gold diggers” for wanting a stable guyhttps://edition.cnn.com/videos/great-big-story/2020/08/03/great-big-story-india-trees-girl-born-gbs.great-big-story/video/playlists/great-big-story-vod/ 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:44 PM |
| 77 | Disgusting Vday GiftsThey manage to turn everything into a porn site or dating app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:42 PM |
| 20 | Update for my friend creating a "fake" profile with my photos on her match-making sitehttps://interestingengineering.com/an-ai-robot-nanny-will-care-for-human-embryos-in-artificial-wombs Scientists in China created an AI robot system that cares for human embryos growing in artificial wombs 🍿🍿🍿🍿 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:12 PM |
| 188 | epiphany: men who neg strong womenI had a guy legitimately tell me that his friend was passed over for a promotion by a woman, thus it was a quota hire, and evidence of misandry 😂 These boys reaching hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 567 | epiphany: men who neg strong womenI think it's just ego death. Imagine being told from birth you're God's gift, amazing, superior, intelligent, strong, powerful, a natural leader, born to inherit, a prince, emotionally stable, logical, rational, just all around better, the world is made for you, designed for you, caters to you, medicine is developed just for you, you're the default - just because you have a bit of skin dangling between your legs. And then you meet a woman. The half of the population you firmly believe to be weak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 12:06 AM |
| 29 | Thoughts on a particular sort of female-perpetuated misogynyHe's the perfect doormat, spineless man that narcissistic women seem to end up with. Usually had an equally narc mother who would alternate rages with making him earn her approval, so he's well trained in what to stay out of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:46 PM |
| 42 | Thoughts on a particular sort of female-perpetuated misogynyMy abusive exes put the most effort into lying, manipulating, mindfucking, pretending to understand me, pretending to not understand me, withholding, abusing, and calculating what they'd get before lifting a finger for me. If only they put 10% of that effort into being a normal person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:45 PM |
| 49 | Man After Breakup: A StudyThey don't. They keep using her for sex but just start cheating, or become so insufferably shitty she drops him. That is them "ending the relationship" and she's the dumb one for "not getting the hint". They don't care. They don't mind switching off and continuing to fuck women they don't like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:28 AM |
| 22 | Man After Breakup: A StudyI don't know any men who have dropped their exes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:01 AM |
| 91 | Man After Breakup: A StudyI was on a date with a guy and he was musing to me about a woman who hadn't gotten back to him for a week. Legit brain damage. I said "good luck with her then", got up and left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:01 AM |
| 6 | "Are you a feminist?" How do you answer this?"Oh my gosh yes, there's just so much work left to do in order for women to be recognized as human and regain our human rights, which have been unjustly taken away by the patriarchy full of men who hate women. How about you? Are you doing anything to restore women's human rights? :)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:50 PM |
| 15 | Let’s hear your clever responses to “How are you still single?!”"Why would I date men?" and watch them struggle to give an answer that doesn't imply I'm mean for withholding slave services from a deserving, struggling manchild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:45 PM |
| 30 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.The whole UN Peacekeepers are merrily trafficking in whatever country they go to. No consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:00 PM |
| 46 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesAnd it's fat around their organs, leading to liver and kidney problems. Cardiovascular. Heart attacks. Women don't find dad bods sexy because it's an indicator of premature death. Why would we want to breed with a man who can't stick around? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:45 PM |
| 44 | The unique relationship dynamics of baby boomers and how they shaped today's twentysomething LVMPorn addiction makes men irritable and impulsive. I'm on edge around most men under 40 these days, that never used to be the case in the 80's and 90's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:24 PM |
| 64 | The unique relationship dynamics of baby boomers and how they shaped today's twentysomething LVMThey just expect it. It was all invisible. They'd go to school and come home to a clean house, clean clothes, hot dinner, fresh breakfast and packed lunch. They thought nothing of it. An entire generation of men had no thought, no imagination, no concept of the physical actions required to do all this. It was just ✨magic ✨ They never saw their dad do it, they never watched their mom do it. She cleaned their bedrooms while he was out playing. They didn't appreciate it, they didn't value it, they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:20 PM |
| 287 | The unique relationship dynamics of baby boomers and how they shaped today's twentysomething LVMI watched my parents (75 yo now) and all my friend's parents live comfortably on the husband's single income when I was a child in the 80's. Every child in my class lived in a nice 4-5 bedroom home in the suburbs, even if there were only 2 children. Then in highschool we were all made to go to career day and look through job guides and women from various occupations came in to tell us the joys of joining the Army. The boys ATE IT UP. I could practically see the dollar signs in their eyes as they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:19 AM |
| 384 | Her cancer diagnosis causes HIM anxiety so he leaves - now she’s considering stopping life-saving treatment to coax him back home.Keep getting treatment and get rid of that cancer 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:00 AM |
| 29 | this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣Me raising my voice 2db to make sure he hears me - omg you're so shrill I can't listen Me keeping volume and tone perfectly neutral - omg I didn't think you were serious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:29 AM |
| 13 | this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣That's me going 50/50 and putting out on the first date 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:27 AM |
| 26 | this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣Men need to latch onto women to survive! We stop them from doing dumb, deadly activities and sniff the milk before we pour 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:26 AM |
| 38 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Lol exact words used by 1st porn addict ex in 2001. Their shit doesn't change. If he had to put in 2 minutes effort to make sex good enough for me to want it, he wouldn't bother. It was "be his masturbation sleeve or else". (he'd go jerk off, it's easier). Last porn addict ex in 2018 - his idea of good sex was him receiving all the pleasure and me doing all the work. I said "what about my pleasure?" He looked at me blankly. Like, it had not even occurred to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:45 AM |
| 230 | Classic Reddit"Lightly touched her ass to gauge her reaction" - holy shit predator behaviour - go ahead and do what I like and wait for consequences because fuck consent amirite. Groped her for a few minutes. Jesus christ she was probably frozen in fear. Do women sleep through things like this? "No-one got hurt" - woman shaped object was asleep so it's all good "She probably laughs to herself" - have to imagine a favorable narrative because the cognitive dissonance of realising I'm a predatory piece of shit w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:38 AM |
| 464 | this woman is a “love coach” she’s literally paid to say shit like this and scrotes are all over this shit 🤣Me waiting for men to be masculine so I can dial it down and stop doing everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:22 AM |
| 191 | A FDS sister isn’t going to be on a coffee date, tho… 😂Is falling down the stairs a hint 😮 Planned parenthood ads getting wild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:24 PM |
| 109 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”Porn addict exes were exactly like this in bed and in life 🤷♀️ Complete inability to give a shit about anyone but themselves, to a pathological level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:23 PM |
| 199 | Talk of wealth is a redflagMan : spends 30 years accumulating wealth to attract women Also man : no gold-diggers tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:21 PM |
| 95 | About dating multiple men simultaneously : the etiquette?Men don't feel a shred of guilt when they actively and repeatedly harm us, why would you feel guilty about not harming him? We've been socialized to put men's feelings, comfort, wants and needs above our own and it's got to stop. Is it guilt or are you afraid of losing him, or afraid of his potential anger? Healthy men enjoying knowing there's competition and they're winning. LVM feel insecure, possessive, jealous or rageful. They want an unfair advantage by demanding you knock out the competiti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:18 PM |
| 97 | Are most high value women “doomed”?It's like opening the fridge over and over. Nothing good is in there. The lettuce is getting soggier and I'm not desperate enough to eat it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 09:51 PM |
| 66 | A Baby Cannot Trap a Man. A Baby Cannot Trap a Man.Such a huge disconnect in their immature brains. "I wanted to do the thing, knowing it would hurt you. I didn't mean to hurt you". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 09:25 PM |
| 86 | TW: r*pe very triggering, I almost logged off of the internet after reading this but I decided to post here so we can all seeDoubt. He'll wallow in it and whine that no-one cares about men's mental health. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 02:28 AM |
| 8 | depressed by misogyny todayYet when we're high earning CEO's thy cry we need to turn off the boss babe masculinity and be all snuggly and feminine when we get home. Tell me you're insecure in your masculinity and need to stand on women's necks... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 02:25 AM |
| 83 | Ladies, what are your experiences with a covert narcissistic ex after breakup?Ignored my wishes for no contact, of course, even saying "I know you said never to contact you again BUT" lol Attempted several hoover techniques. Said he was "just about ready to apologize", then went on a long-winded word salad that I barely remember. He waited for me to respond then he sent part 2, which was also not an apology, just more reminiscing and wishes for our relationship to resume (holding the apology hostage, he wanted the relationship back before he'd apologize, good luck bro) He… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 10:32 AM |
| 3 | What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder?🤷♀️ I dumped him. He was crazy-making. He's probably sitting at home, still 'confused', because he really does believe those things. That's what a personality disorder does. The only reality is the one in his head. Abusers minimize then justify what they do as "not that bad", and diminish the victims reactions. We're called "overreacting" all the time.. because they believe their abuse is minor. That what we're asking for is too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 09:35 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, I'm in desperate need for some advice. Please help!!!he got mad, denied it, blamed it on me because one time i saw an ass on his screen and said something about it, then he left the room and went to the gym without me. We made up later that day, I said, it's ok if you look at that stuff you don't have to hide it. This whole interaction is problematic. Please read the handbook and most of the recommended books in the wiki before you date again, so like, Christmas. Getting busted and then leaving for the gym is a red pill tactic. They encourage each… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 09:54 PM |
| 544 | Stop fucking falling in love with "potential"!Ladies, assume any man you meet is already doing his best. Hear hear! When he messages you "hey", that's his best. When he asks you for a cheap walk and $5 coffee, that's his best. When he shows up in wrinkled sweats and bad breath, that's his best. If he can't find your clit, if he wrinkles his nose at your request to go down, that's the best sex you're going to get from him. If you walk into his house and it's filthy, he hasn't washed his sheets this decade, hasn't opened a window since he mov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 10:50 AM |
| 77 | What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder?Blames her for everything. For picking a short or ugly man to be his father. For picking a deadbeat who left, for driving dad off by being such a demanding shrew, for being a nag for wanting him to do basic chores, being controlling for wanting him to get a job or stop drinking. Triangulating. Being such a wonderful mother who looked after 4 kids and had 2 jobs, so why can't you? For not giving him enough love and attention so now he's 100% clingy and needy and you're the worst if you ever rejec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 08:12 AM |
| 84 | What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder?Conflicts / arguments that go in circles and last for hours and sometimes days Yessss. They're not arguing to understand, but to just mess with you. They don't care about the outcome or want to resolve or learn anything. Exhaustion is the point. Sadism. Joy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:50 AM |
| 338 | What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder?unable to take constructive feedback (heck, might be unable to accept objective truth even) Top sign. You can't even have a conversation that makes sense because they say the opposite to things you say. Either they believe this untrue version, just because it's in their head and they don't want what you're saying to be true, or they don't think you're a real person with eyes, experiencing reality, and you'll believe whatever bs they say. If you find yourself staring at a guy because your brain j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:02 AM |
| 48 | Cosby Documentary: "Sex Therapist" Sonalee Rashatwar Claims "Sex Negativity" Caused Cosby's RapesThe stigma to the poor child rapists is worse than the trauma to the kids!!!!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:11 AM |
| 283 | Woman levels up, LVM ex is vengeful and escalating. She's trying to co-parent for their daughter but it's entirely one sided.It's proof they were the problem. He needs proof he's not the problem, he needs her to be struggling and suffering and weeping without him, begging for him back because she can't cope alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:43 PM |
| 9 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄They couldn't find the wiki 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 10:44 AM |
| 138 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!Aww the poor babies abused the report function to get it removed. I SAID IF THAT WERE ME I'D HOPE IT WAS A GUILLOTINE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:12 AM |
| 373 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!If that were me I'd hope it was a guillotine. I already have redditcare blocked, don't bother guys :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 03:48 AM |
| 210 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!Is that duct tape up his arm like he's fishing around inside a pregnant cow? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 03:47 AM |
| 19 | Testosterone does NOT cause aggression-men have no excuseIt's a huge compound activity, and cardio, because once you chop, you can't stop 😂 It's quite a lot of force needed on the downswing, plus bracing your entire body, plus picking up the blocks from the ground, plus getting new blocks to chop. Check out the physiques of men doing woodchopping competitions. Real strength. Old man strength 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 02:30 AM |
| 24 | Testosterone does NOT cause aggression-men have no excuseCompound lifts, now that we all live in cities instead of rural. The best exercises to build testosterone, are multi-joint exercises that utilize the body’s largest muscle groups: squat deadlift bench press row pullup/chinup overhead press pushup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 02:22 AM |
| 202 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬Pay nothing but your dignity and mental health. Your next home will be the psych ward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 12:29 AM |
| 72 | A good vetting strategy is to share a FAKE pet peeveThey jump to the conclusion that other men have treated you badly by being late and disrespectful, so they think "game on" and start getting a piece of that pie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:32 PM |
| 64 | A good vetting strategy is to share a FAKE pet peeveExactly! They latch on to whatever you say and it sticks in their brain. But then they magically forget the things you said you liked.. hmmm... it's almost as if they hate us and feel joy when they harm us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:30 PM |
| 158 | A good vetting strategy is to share a FAKE pet peeveSome men have faked me out. They heard me say I hate xyz, so they start to do the thing, then make a big display of correcting themselves and proudly announcing "oh that's right, you dislike xyz haha, I REMEMBER :)" Like, they do into the negatives and piss me off, then want good boy points for doing the right thing? and end up still in the negatives because I know they were deliberately an asshole? Why not just do the right thing and end up in the positives. Men are insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:29 PM |
| 33 | Testosterone does NOT cause aggression-men have no excuseAnd they don't do any activities which increase it. Woodchopping is one of the most naturally T raising exercises. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:26 PM |
| 21 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Exactly. I've treated all my asshole exes extremely well, while they treated me with neglect, contempt and eventually hatred because they knew I was out of their league in all aspects. But now they think they deserve to be treated well while they do nothing, so they keep searching for women who will treat them well, which is an extremely small number of women, because apparently most women clock that they're assholes and avoid them like the plague. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:20 PM |
| 32 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Exactly. When horny teenagers get a taste of easily accessible sex, they get obsessed with staying in that moment. Adolescent sex is cheap and easy, young women have no standards, no-one's asking for an engagement ring before putting out, she hasn't dealt with 10 years of his slobby habits and shirking housework so she's probably good to go any time. He's pining to go back to a time where a woman will service his dick on demand and he has no responsibilities. He's a stunted juvenile. The ex who … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:13 PM |
| 11 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Men are wired to become addicted to gambling, to keep returning to the place that worked one time. They really do think they have a shot with ALL the women on dating apps, and there are just enough bots and catfish to keep them gambling. Reality and facts don't matter to men when they're emotionally heightened and hunting for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:09 PM |
| 14 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!He didn't actually like her. She was the perfect punching bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:07 PM |
| 17 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!They keep telling us to stop dating abusive chads and settle for the nice guys we've been overlooking! They just don't want to be the guy we settle for. Absolute toddlers, stamping their feet, not knowing what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:04 PM |
| 32 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!They really do. There's something fucked up in the male brain where the more they ruminate the more the memory gets etched as reality. Way too many men are solipsistic and narcissistic. If they have a thought, it's reality. And the woman they're talking to isn't real so she won't catch on because she's not experiencing reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:00 PM |
| 21 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!The relationship is the price they pay to access sex. Hell, their half of the relationship is usually burdensome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:58 PM |
| 3 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!How about pedos who get caught. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:57 PM |
| 22 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Or murder suicide because they don't want another man touching their slave. Then they don't want to go to jail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:53 PM |
| 61 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!I had a guy literally say that lol. "It all happened so fast, she didn't give me a chance to fix things" Turns out she was miserable for years, explained everything clearly, he did nothing for 6 months so she filed for divorce. And he articulated all this to me. HE KNEW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:52 PM |
| 39 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Yeah our grand plan in life is to birth a scrote's kids then live life on easy street with divorce rape, alimony and child support. /s It pays about as much as their crypto/investing.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:51 PM |
| 99 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Exactly. Whine about the one that got away to make the new woman jump through hoops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:46 PM |
| 53 | When every situation has to be about himHoly shit savage. "Now the galaxy has more room" fr i was at an ex's christmas dinner and his SIL had just miscarried. His sister said "you can eat more, you have more room" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:43 PM |
| 3 | What's the difference between harmless dirty talk and objectification?It's ok because it's a cartoon, and it's ok because OP is over 18 🤮 ofc he's treating her super nice and trying to lock her down, he's snagged a perma-child, she's not going to age out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:23 AM |
| 2 | What's the difference between harmless dirty talk and objectification?And what about when he decides that anal sex pleases you. Because pedos are convinced there are more nerve endings in the butt and they're pornsick. Does infantilizing you please you? Does him making you say those things please you? Are you having a good time? is he following through on what he claims... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 10:21 AM |
| 23 | What's the difference between harmless dirty talk and objectification?He's a pedo grooming you. Check his phone for hentai. Goofy nerdy aren't harmless they're the biggest, depraved softbois. Not every predator looks scary. Also LDR isn't real. What was his last LDR? Over texts and cam? Soooo like, grooming? What's your LDR going to be? A lot of sexting? Like one would text a 14 year old? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 09:43 AM |
| 906 | I wonder why he wants to date someone 10 years younger than him…When you realise he's not talking to you but the underage overlay he's imagining on you so he can cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 07:21 AM |
| 134 | My friend says "I don't like men that are kind to me, they're boring, I like my men a little bit toxic" how to respond to her? She keeps ending up with trashy men, and when they use and discard her I'm the first person she comes running to and I'm sick of it😩Self-harm like this ends one of two ways. You realise it's not working for you and you stop and figure out what's wrong with you. You die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:47 AM |
| 49 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄Right. If the bank forecloses on her mom's house, is she going to drop her off at a crack den and tell her "sex work is work"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:38 AM |
| 84 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄There is no culture to spoil them like there is women. 😂 Disabled, unemployed, traumatized, depressed and anxious women are the most likely to be retraumatized again by men. Homeless women get snatched up and trafficked within minutes of being on the streets. There is a lot expected of [men] what, grow up and be an adult at 25 like women are by 15? put down the porn, get out of mommy's basement and off her teat and they might have the energy to accomplish something. I can't even with these pissb… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:35 AM |
| 24 | I caught my father watching porn. How should I address this?It's not about being into you.. it's a power and control dynamic where pathetic men need to punch down to feel good for a minute. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/jan/13/2021-was-worst-year-on-record-for-online-child-sex-abuse-says-iwf https://www.coe.int/en/web/portal/covid-19-one-in-five-children-suffers-one-or-another-form-of-sexual-abuse-or-victimisation-during-their-childhood Child sexual abuse went unreported during lockdown, fathers started abusing to make money, calls to child ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 05:48 AM |
| 207 | Pinnacle of being a privileged liberal feminist 🙄Wow just lost all respect for Tara. Being told that because I don't agree with the concept that men can buy consent from women, means I hate victims of paid rape? That we can't possibly shut down all forms of paid rape because the women would lose their "jobs". oh ok, let it continue then. Too hard basket. BDSM isn't abuse, but if you're being abused in bed that's bad? Yes, that's what we said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:57 AM |
| 42 | Reaching out to make amends for former pick-me waysBased on new info, I don't think you need to apologize to them. The predator was triangulating all 3 of you and they probably thought you were his "main/favourite" which is what groomers do, and to them it may have sounded like you were bragging or rubbing it in their faces, or stealing what was theirs (more time and attention and the desire to do more sexual acts). You were all young, inexperienced and being abused. The only villain here is the married predator. I hope you're getting some kind … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 02:32 AM |
| 16 | This scrote was apprehended by police in my city this morning. A reminder of why we vet and pay attention to red flags: men’s minds can get very, very dark. Didn’t take long to find misogynistic garbage in his “manifesto.” I’m tired from spending a whole day scared, please help me roast this scrote!😂😂😂 omg that's the funniest thing I've ever read. He needs a hidden underground bunker with heat-signature masking, except everyone's dead? bruh why. No-one's coming to steal your shit. You don't even own socks. I love the woman police chief announcing his capture 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:38 AM |
| 119 | Reaching out to make amends for former pick-me waysI'd love a true apology from the people who were harmful. Except they give fauxpologies and self-serving ramblings, pity parties and expectations of forgiveness to make them feel better. A real apology has several parts. Admit what you did without excuses or justifications - don't say you were in a bad place or didn't know. Acknowledge the harm you caused them - don't ever mention your feelings. Sincerely apologize for your actions. Show contrition or remorse for your actions, not regret at the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 10:28 PM |
| 73 | This guy telling women we don’t know how beautiful we are and then blesses us with shirtless “clarity”. The bar is in HELL. 🙄ok bro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 10:13 PM |
| 30 | Men and PowerIt's still external motivation. They're not good on the inside, they just don't want to go to hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 10:01 PM |
| 110 | Beware of men who repeatedly turn conversations sexualThat's a redpill/PUA tactic - "help us solve this argument" pickup line. Approach you in public, use the false time constraint and pretend you have a burning question you neeeeed her input on. "Hey, quick question, my friend thinks vanilla ice cream is the best, but chocolate is, right?" He really doesn't give a shit, and the question isn't quick. Horrifying to learn they've started doing this in packs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 07:43 AM |
| 3 | The slow normalization of pedophiliaoh damn :( I knew boy's homes were pedo fishing pools. These rapists are gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 119 | Men will literally p1ss anywhere in public and are less demonised than women breastfeeding in public.Men can excel in their career and have a family because they barely lift a finger maintaining the family. He gets promotions and bonuses and is seen as more responsible, a stable family man, the breadwinner, he needs more money and more opportunities. Women can excel in one or the other. Mothers in the workplace are liabilities, they need to take time off to give birth and we have to pay her, 😩, she can't work late, she has to take time off to take them to appointments, she has to organize their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:29 PM |
| 198 | Let’s talk safety tips all women should know (even the obvious ones)Don't 👏 drink 👏 alcohol. Even telling a man you don't drink alcohol before you meet will weed out alcoholics, low confidence losers who need to get buzzed to talk to women, and LVM who need to get you drunk so they can molest you. They know you wouldn't agree to things while sober. They know it's harder for you to defend yourself. Or they straight up want you blacked out. They want to lower your inhibitions. They want to incapacitate you. They intend to rape you. Even saying the words "I don't d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 101 | The slow normalization of pedophiliaWe're already up to "radfems being told we're bitter and jealous by the sexualization of minors" and "minors sexualizing themselves and/or being groomed into inappropriate sexual behaviour by child rapists online" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 5 | The slow normalization of pedophiliahttps://yac.news/blogs/defend/the-truth-about-the-paedophile-information-exchange | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 09:03 PM |
| 10 | The slow normalization of pedophiliaLet me tell you about the catholic church and the boy scouts.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 09:02 PM |
| 80 | The slow normalization of pedophiliaGroomers tell their victims not to tell anyone because it could ruin his life 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 217 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.And is your landlord and can kick you out if you don't want sex, or whatever other whim. He wants a younger woman. Not even your housing is secure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 12:14 PM |
| 681 | NEVER EVER FINANCIALLY RELY ON A MAN! Naive young women on TikTok are idealising the stay at home wife/mum lifestyle and literally cursing our hard-earnt right to work.She's in for a shock when she realises working for a scrote sucks more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Staying safe on OLDHe was so fixated on me he didn't notice where we were. After about 10 seconds he caught on and screeched out of there lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Staying safe on OLDPossible. It's a common tactic to get your number in return. "Call me anytime" sounds so generous. I blocked my number from my iPhone ;) They let it ring out, then text me "was that you? I don't answer unknown numbers!" ok fucker, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 10:47 AM |
| 2 | Staying safe on OLDThe idiot was in a red hatchback up my ass 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 10:40 AM |
| 4 | He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!!They forget we're sentient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 10:13 AM |
| 17 | He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!!They're obsessed with how little gold they have, and this was all of his budget to lock her down and get sex, which is why he was so frantic :o Now he has to start again on someone else and hope they put out on the first date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 10:11 AM |
| 22 | He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!!The kind who'd cry he has a dead bedroom if they have sex once a week, and how he feels so unloved, unwanted, undesired and unattractive 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 09:56 AM |
| 72 | He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!!"I'll know when I see it :)" ham up that female whimsical energy ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 09:50 AM |
| 110 | Why are women hated so much by men?If we'd rather scoop cat poo than live with a man... 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 07:01 AM |
| 308 | Why are women hated so much by men?Most girls have a very clear demarcation of the end of childhood and the... flowering into womanhood, even if it's a ridiculous age, like 11-12 years old. We blossom by ourselves. We need no-one and nothing to step into our womanhood and become (possible) creators of life. Western countries have stopped ceremonies for boys.. if they even had any? Would fathers take their 15 year old sons camping and tell them the facts of life? Give them a sip of beer? Teach them how to drive a stick shift? Seni… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 07:00 AM |
| 70 | Valentine’s Day approaching, what are you ladies doing to celebrate?Watching Legally Blonde with a friend. She's making a vegetarian main and I'm making a blueberry cheesecake! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:13 AM |
| 198 | Learn from me (and looking for some moral support after my breakup)If you gotta build a man and send him to therapy and struggle before the relationship can even start ... 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:08 AM |
| 148 | reported naked images of women taken via a hidden cam and this is what reddit responds! i'm so enraged! is there anything we can do against such subs to stop them from circulating images that nvms fap to?We've investigated our porn site and found we've done nothing wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:06 AM |
| 24 | Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards.Facts : 4 billion women want him to go his own way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:05 AM |
| 51 | Don't let any entitled male tell you that you need to be desperate for male attention. This mess is Exhibit A for what they want women to believe about their chances of meeting a man. Don't lower your standards.Yeah but is it 5 million women between 20 and 40, who are single, who want a scrote for a husband? Silly me. Let's not introduce facts into his rantifesto. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 04:03 AM |
| 110 | He accused me of being a “gold digger” and threatened to end the relationship after me not wanting to put out on date #5. It backfired. How grey rocking can protect you!!!Exactly. "Oh, she's only having sex with me to get my money" Once a man has dropped his misogyny façade it's over. Anything after that is manipulation and it's a descent into abuse and subjugation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 11:57 PM |
| 120 | Men who give unsolicited feedback during dating?Negging and manipulation. Also a type of verbal abuse. Check out "The Verbally Abusive Relationship" by Patricia Evans. making statements that attempt to define their partners’ inner world for them. That is, characterizing their partner’s motives, needs, feelings, and even very natures in their own terms. For example: “You’re trying to start a fight.” (motive) “You just want to be right.” (want) “You don’t feel that way.” (feeling) “You’re too sensitive.” (nature) Abusers make these statements a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 11:35 PM |
| 34 | In the Spirit of Valentine's Day..Projection. When women make LVM feel good, they get a confidence and ego boost and start thinking they can do better, and start plotting to leave their stupid wife. So they think we'll do the same. They loathe complimenting us and making us feel good and cherished because we'll start plotting to leave them, they know they ain't shit. Whereas the opposite is true. I start my exit when a man is shit to me, I love being around men who make me feel good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 11:19 PM |
| 15 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!Disregarding the manipulative context... the gravitas of Giancarlo Esposito 😍 amazing actor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 11:09 PM |
| 11 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorOr manipulative tears after being told he's abusive, in a pathetic attempt to get out of trouble and not let mommy leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:55 PM |
| 59 | Getting to see men's true colors after some pictures of me were used in an advertising campaign.Gymshark pisses me the hell off. They use fitfluencers as free models for their clothing, their feed is entirely the lucky top 10% of women pimping themselves out for some free crop tops and leggings. Men use the feed as wank material. Endless scrolling of absurdly photoshopped and unnaturally low bodyfat women. If a normal woman doesn't know the rules and posts a normal picture of herself, and Gymshark tried to be inclusive because they were getting hate for only having the influencers, the men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 15 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorAny time a man tries to gotcha - "I just can't control myself, it's my xyz diagnosis" say "oh, you can't control yourself? You'll never change, and will continue this abuse and disrespect? Get out of my life then". (They're lying btw, they can control themselves, they're choosing to abuse you, you're the designated punching bag. Dump them). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 20 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorThey're all "don't stick your dick in crazy. I mean, do but don't lol. Best sex you'll ever have, but don't wife her up lol" Then all "woe is me, no-one cares about men's mental health" when a mentally ill man isn't fun and sexy, he's either a manbaby who needs a fulltime carer, or our future murderer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:42 PM |
| 11 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorMy ex tried to use this as a gotcha to keep abusing me. He just can't help it, can't control himself, it's all the ADHD, his abuse and disrespectful behaviours are because he's impulsive, it's all a coincidence. He owned himself. I said if he can't control himself, he'll never change or improve, and never stop abusing me, so he best get the fuck out of my life. His pikachu face was epic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:40 PM |
| 7 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorMy ex tried to pull this shit. That I was evil for dumping him for 'something he can't control'. Nah son, it was the abuse. The daily abuse he would never own up to. If he only had ADHD I'd have been thrilled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:37 PM |
| 12 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorSperm bank. Get top quality, tall, handsome, intelligent sperm without the burden of the male, or being shackled to him for 18+ years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 17 | As a psychologist, I think something we need to do is stop using men’s mental health as an excuse for their asshole/disrespectful behaviorWe're not foster homes for loser men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 15 | Staying safe on OLDUpgrade them slowly. OLD has ruined the natural courtship process and men expect sex from strangers after 1 hour. It's broken them so badly, they use dating apps as if it's craigslist to order a free hooker. We used to 'know' men for 3 months minimum in the workplace, friend of a friend, at a sports club, hobby, or see them around town at a place you frequent. And then they'd gather the courage to ask you on a real date. So they go from stranger to acquaintance over 3 months. You knew 'of' them,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:25 PM |
| 8 | Staying safe on OLDIf you unmatch them on the app, they're done, can't get to you. If they get your phone number and it's linked to all sorts of other things, they can find your facebook, insta, twitter, snapchat. they can see who you follow, go through your entire history and "get to know you" without letting you know they know. Then they can pretend to be who you want to be. You posted a pic of your favourite flowers 5 years ago? Surprise, he got them for your birthday, what a gentleman! Or they can make fake nu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:11 PM |
| 18 | Staying safe on OLDA guy agreed to meet at a place, he 'didn't show' so I drove home. And he followed me. So I drove to the police station. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 10:05 PM |
| 8 | In your face misogyny is terrible, but subtle sexism is just as bad: A look into celebrated mediaCo-operating with someone, especially a woman, means submitting, obeying and following someone else's lead. ewies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 09:57 PM |
| 4 | In your face misogyny is terrible, but subtle sexism is just as bad: A look into celebrated mediaDidn't kings and small area lords insist on raping new brides to get first crack at impregnating her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 09:54 PM |
| 13 | Men literally have no empathy for women: A case study on prostitution and pornNurses gonna have PTSD from this. Good luck getting healthcare over the next 5 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 09:50 PM |
| 16 | Men literally have no empathy for women: A case study on prostitution and pornmale workplace deaths are due to toxic masculinity-induced risky behaviour and disregard for safety procedures, Absolutely. And stingy male management who won't heed OSHA guidelines and pay for repairs, proper safety equipment, guardrails, machinery wear and tear etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 09:36 PM |
| 206 | Why do men think their sudden, unplanned, SpOnTaNeOuS trips are a positive?The obliviousness of the sheer privilege to do it and not be raped or murdered. The constant state of hyper-vigilance women are in to make it to the shops and back without being street-harassed or snatched for sex trafficking is exhausting. And if we do, we're blamed for it, and we blame ourselves for it for not thinking of that possibility or an escape plan. Yet these bros can just waltz around carefree, have amazing adventures, other people clean up their messes, and strangers help them withou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthAnd then go into a roid rage about why women aren't falling on their dicks. or roid rage because women only fall on their dicks now that they're hot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:37 AM |
| 37 | You've heard of men with podcasts: meet the ladies with a podcast (today's episode: balding)Exactly! Women out here shoving silicone into our chests, getting the fat sucked out of our thighs and jabbed back into our asses, sometimes causing fat clots and death, but men can't slap some rogaine on or get hair transplants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 10:12 PM |
| 35 | You've heard of men with podcasts: meet the ladies with a podcast (today's episode: balding)But they're so dumb they don't get it 😂 They think we're being horrendously MEEEAN and it's further fuel for their hatred. They don't stop and reflect that this is what they're dishing at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 10:10 PM |
| 44 | STOP BENDING OVER BACKWARDS FOR ABUSERS WHO BEND YOU FORWARD AND SCREW YOU. She is so fortunate not to end up like Gabby Petito, yet she still wants to be accommodating to her hobosexual ex who ousted her from a van in another state.It's not about the watch. This is a hoovering technique. He would have been just as difficult in manipulating her to come to him so he could punish her more, if it were a pair of socks. If a man is shutting down every one of your reasonable solutions, and the only possible solution is for you to do what he wants, he's up to some fuckery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 10:06 PM |
| 76 | Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving him"Don't rub the small slice of cake in my face as we're feeding each other" "Grab you by the neck and smash your entire face into the cake, ruining everything, got it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 10:01 PM |
| 29 | This is why you never settle for LVM:The Woman Who Fought For Her Life: The Susan Kuhnhausen StoryHalf of "The First 48" is about a murder over $5 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 35 | If he doesn’t lovingly and passionately kiss you during sex, he does NOT love you.Noticed when we first got together he would finish quickly, over time took much longer and sometimes not at all. Yesss. Porn addict ex would edge himself so he'd last longer and make piv painful for me, but he had a great orgasm. One weekend he was away from wifi for too long and he couldn't edge, he started coming after 5 strokes, then tried to say it was because I'm so hot. Sure guy. Porn ruins so much more than just the guy. I hope you're doing better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthWe're so catty and full of drama. Unlike men who are catty roast each other 24/7 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 17 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthDaddy issues, doing it for attention, manipulative tears, having a sad day, must be on her period, probably BPD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:40 PM |
| 13 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healththey have toxic friends who keep them spiraling down into redpill rhetoric and hate. They meet a woman, realise she's human and being with her is kinda nice and his friends were douches who couldn't hold a nice conversation so he drops them all and smothers the girl. She breaks up with him and he has new material to complain to his friends about, who are eager to conform that all women are like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:38 PM |
| 19 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthSome comments here made it to Facepalm and I have been diagnosed with "daddy issues" 🙃 Apparently if I had said "not all men" they would have agreed with me more, but because of that one tiny mistake, all my points are null and void. 10 awards, 600 upvotes and 2 new followers. The men are truly doing the goddess's work 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 23 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthThe stripclubs were closed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:32 PM |
| 35 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthOnly talk to attractive women -> try to stick his dick in -> being her friend is offensive so he ghosts -> cry that no-one cares about men's mental health | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 09:30 PM |
| 61 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthThey call it to jerk off to a woman’s voice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:42 PM |
| 4 | Not accepting text conversations is THE BEST!I'd love to catch pedos. They need to go to jail, like, a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 11:10 AM |
| 186 | Your male friends WILL masturbate to you, and it’s not their fault. Here you have it Queens, If you are friends with men, they will masturbate to you, because they can, and because it’s private, and none of your business.Oh sweety, they don't stop jerking it when they get a girlfriend. He's throwing so much chaff out - It's common! It's normal! He does it so much, it must be ok, right? He wouldn't do something terrible every day, surely. He's faithful! He only does it when he's single laugh So she has nothing to worry about! You can't control who he masturbates to! If he didn't have the pics, he would use his memory, and you can't control his thoughts! They're not nudes so it's ok! He's not that much of a perver… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 11:06 AM |
| 182 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthToo busy fleecing them for $5,000 Street Harassment Bootcamp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 07:41 AM |
| 738 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthThey mean women don't care. That women are so exhausted from doing it all and living with men who hate us, we've started opting out of being their on-call therapist for endless coddle sessions. Men have made it so terrifying to walk down the street, we don't have the energy or the will to give them a smile. Men have made online dating apps such a cesspit of harassment, deceit and manipulation that they can't even squeeze 10 lines of chat and some nudes to wank over from us anymore. Men have been… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | How does this serve my interests?Excellent point. They don't care about how your preferences and boundaries exclude them. Their little brains start plotting. Well she seems picky and has high standards Which means she's not dating any old chump Which means she has a lot of spare time (men know how needy and time-absorbing other men are!) Which means I can slip my sausage in there while she keeps looking for Mr Right! :) Also blah blah loophole I'm not technically like the guy she's trying to exclude, so I'm practically not lyyy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 03:01 AM |
| 62 | And she has no plan on divorcing him. Just wants to protect her cash. 🎪"I hoped that he would realize what a terrible idea spending my money with no consequences is" Sis. Why would he. You're rewarding him every time he fucks up. Stop it. ISTG these men have gone from compulsive hoarders to compulsively pissing everything away and ruining their (wives) lives. In the olden days, we called it anally retentive and anally expulsive. Why can't they just be normal! And stop calling it investing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 59 | He lied to this woman (and pretty much everyone else) for TWO YEARS and, of course, she's the problem.We're not shallow. We're vetting for evolutionary excellence. We don't want short children. We know damn well short kids are bullied, have less romantic success and earn less in their lifetime. They hate their own mothers for mating with short fathers, but then deceive women in order to mate?? She should have picked better, but also pick me! I'm special and you're shallow. Fuck outa the gene pool mate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 01:22 AM |
| 10 | Need advice…also learn from my mistake!Tell him. "You're not what I'm looking for, goodbye". And when he contacts you again, he's proven he's a man who violates your boundaries, if that's the "proof" you need to block his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:33 AM |
| 23 | Dating someone I like a lot but starting to feel insecureStart asking yourself if you like him. If he's objectively decent, trust his judgement and that he likes you 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:29 AM |
| 36 | Negatively branding FDS in forums leads other women wary of joining and checking it out.Reminiscing about our first date with an ex. He said he was glad I looked like my pictures. I was glad he didn't rape me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:27 AM |
| 380 | Nothing Good Happens After 10pmGood sleep hygiene is underrated. It helps regulate hormones, burn fat, repair muscle, digestion, skin turnover, solidifying memories, cortisol and melatonin, and widens your fasting window. Constant sleep deprivation by being with a scrote who snores and doesn't do his fair share looking after the kids in the evening and morning ages you and leads to early death. They keep you exhausted so you can't think straight and plan to leave them. They know what they're doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:14 AM |
| 108 | Nothing Good Happens After 10pmThey lie within the lie too. "Sorry got busy, can we push it back to 11?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:10 AM |
| 57 | Don’t ever let a man make you think you need him for ANYTHING. Women everywhere are raising their standards and LVM are getting desperate. This one in particular is trying to use fear and coercion to find himself a lower income wifeI'd rather sell both my kidneys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:08 AM |
| 34 | Don’t ever let a man make you think you need him for ANYTHING. Women everywhere are raising their standards and LVM are getting desperate. This one in particular is trying to use fear and coercion to find himself a lower income wifeAnd the top 10 men own more wealth than the other 8 billion of us... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:08 AM |
| 41 | women's reaction to male sexual depravity and our aversion towards it is proof men are not "wired" that wayoh I should be with women when they are minors coz fertility That one's completely untrue! So much for male logic. Underage girls are the least fertile. They're too small to carry to term and one or the other is going to die in childbirth, if the baby doesn't decide to come out premature. The most fertile is a woman in her mid-20's who has had a proven live birth. So, single moms lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:06 AM |
| 7 | what do you all think about familiarities? I DESPISE them!I hate it. LVM see all women as interchangeable appliances and he can just call one over to do his bidding. But it's ok because he was "nice". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 25 | Not accepting text conversations is THE BEST!Oh my god, groomers do this! That's literally the type of brainless crap that 30 year old men send to underage girls. I strongly suspect they're very low IQ and have no theory of mind and can't imagine what a woman is up to, and can't remember her daily schedule and take a reasonable guess. She only exists when she texts him back and updates him on her whereabouts. Otherwise she's gone and he lost her and he panics. Like a computer pinging a server lol If they're the batterer type, he starts ima… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:44 PM |
| 11 | Pays 40K for his gambling addiction or his incompetence (dunno which is worse)Right, that wasn't "investing in his business" that was pissing money away to a gambling addict. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Not accepting text conversations is THE BEST!Oh my god, groomers do this! That's literally the type of brainless crap that 30 year old men send to underage girls. I strongly suspect they're very low IQ and have no theory of mind and can't imagine what a woman is up to, and can't remember her daily schedule and take a reasonable guess. She only exists when she texts him back and updates him on her whereabouts. Otherwise she's gone and he lost her and he panics. Like a computer pinging a server lol If they're the batterer type, he starts ima… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Not accepting text conversations is THE BEST!Oh my god, groomers do this! That's literally the type of brainless crap that 30 year old men send to underage girls. I strongly suspect they're very low IQ and have no theory of mind and can't imagine what a woman is up to, and can't remember her daily schedule and take a reasonable guess. She only exists when she texts him back and updates him on her whereabouts. Otherwise she's gone and he lost her and he panics. Like a computer pinging a server lol If they're the batterer type, he starts ima… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:43 PM |
| 16 | Not accepting text conversations is THE BEST!Yeah imo the gen x women are mid 40's now and we're done with this shit. we clowned ourselves in the 90's being cool but porn has gone off the rails. Middle aged women aren't bitter, we're horrified canaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:37 PM |
| 10 | Men’s “goofiness” and “clumsiness” is usually just laziness and lack of considerationPockets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:31 PM |
| 12 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.Much more likely that mentally and physically disabled women are preyed on and exploited and used for sex work by the patriarchy, instead of being cared for and cared about. "You're already broken and useless, get to work" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:22 PM |
| 12 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.Because they hate our friendship. The friendzone is an insult. Not wanting to let them stick their dick in is a hurtful rejection, you're making it WORSE for these poor lads! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 11:20 PM |
| 116 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.See, men do know how to clean /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:44 PM |
| 3 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪men like the results of healthy eating in women So much this. I basically have porcelain skin because of my careful diet, but a few slices of pizza, a milkshake, a sub with marinara sauce or a burger with BBQ sauce and I have a red rash on my face for a week. These assholes don't care because they got a win by forcing me to betray myself. There's something deeply disturbing about men who feel joy by causing us distress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 10 | If you wanna see a man's true character break up with himThey're literally everywhere, there is no type, no country, no profession that doesn't have abusers and murderers. They do it because they're male and they feel entitled to retaining access to a woman once they've talked to her one time. A man in sales, a boat mechanic, a man in IT, an engineer, a prison guard, a guy in advertising, a truck driver - they were all misogynistic and various degrees of abusive. I'm Australian. It's all men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 5 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪An ex revealed that he's inconsiderate by default, and it's a struggle to do something kind or thoughtful. So he'd do nothing, then only move his ass when I blew up. LVM are lazy, greedy and selfish by default. Such a wild difference to how girls are socialized to be thoughtful of everyone but themselves, at all times. I'm now on his long list of 'crazy' ex-girlfriends who blow up out of nowhere :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 6 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪As far as I can tell, it's subconscious and FAST. The misogyny filter whispers "fuck that bitch" and the knee-jerk defiant toddler in them has a compulsion to smash that boundary, wipe that smile off your face, say something hurtful, test how much shit you'll eat, see what he can get away with, prove you're 'lying' about a strict diet or allergy, control you and get you back in line. Being told of a boundary feels like being given an order by misogynistic men, and respecting a boundary feels lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:14 PM |
| 3 | If you wanna see a man's true character break up with himI didn't mind, I know it's not my fault. 🤷♀️ Crazy men are everywhere and they flip out when you cut them off, as evidenced by this entire thread. I've never met an angry man or one who raised his hands to me, but I'd also never say that straight to someone who has, maybe leave that part out, sounds like you doubt murderers exist at all.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 10:02 PM |
| 21 | Pays 40K for his gambling addiction or his incompetence (dunno which is worse)These fools simping for daddy elon don't even realise he fleeced the lot of them and made billions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 09:43 PM |
| 27 | If you wanna see a man's true character break up with himHigh school boyfriend turned psycho and two men who insisted they were such good guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:45 PM |
| 63 | If you wanna see a man's true character break up with himTwo tried to murder me and one broke in my window but I was out all day. 🤞🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪“You’re being controlling” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 04:14 PM |
| 133 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.Or yoga, journaling, gardening. “The only thing that brings me joy is buying compliance from a woman 😭😭😭😭” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 12:40 PM |
| 554 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.It's fallacious to say "women's holes are the only source of joy for these poor, pitiable men, and if you deny them, you're the monster" They can go skydiving. They can eat ice-cream. They can watch funny movies. And they can go fuck themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 09:05 AM |
| 53 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪She's just on a health-kick :) EAT IT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 06:21 AM |
| 17 | The male visceral reaction to women not wanting “struggle love”.We get our childhood cut short as we're berated for not doing chores as soon as we're tall enough. Even before then, girls are given a step-stool to work in the kitchen to feed her siblings and wash dishes. Males get to laze about and be little boys having fun forever, well into their 30's lately. We grow into adults before we're ready, and these stunted weaklings, lagging behind in every metric, want us not only to turn around and give them a hand up, but PAY for it? I'd rather clear land-mines… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 06:20 AM |
| 36 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪He heard alright, he did it as a "fuck you". "If you liked me enough you'd eat it, and I don't believe you're as strict as you say you are, I bet you'll eat it" <smug smirk> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 05:40 AM |
| 115 | Y'all, they're talking about us again 😂In the rest, he says he took her to meet his mother and he was super sad because he was serious about this one. OK bro did you tell your mom you made the love of your life pay for her own meal? lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:22 AM |
| 735 | I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪Ah the old "women's boundaries are porous if you push hard enough and she likes you well enough" plus "women's preferences are temporary and whimsical" leads to "wow I didn't think you were serious" equals "the burden is on you to make it crystal clear what your boundaries and preferences are, but at the exact right volume and the exact right tone, or things like this happen and you make me feel bad". It is a big deal and you have every right to feel disrespected and uncared for on your Birthday… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | On "Roasting"It's all fun and games until I send them to the burn ward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 02:32 AM |
| 245 | This made me so sad. This woman has to watch her mother be abused by an LVM. 🥲Quick math, Mom gave birth at 19 with a 27 year old, grooming, controlling scrote and has had a shit life ever since 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 01:00 AM |
| 124 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .Better than that. Delete the porn. All of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 11:14 PM |
| 17 | Ladies who have taken back an ex, did he change and what made you take him back?He promised to change and make "significant progress" on a project he had done nothing about but kept lying and saying he would. He did not make significant progress. As soon as he got me back, he settled back into his cushy role of never lifting a finger and expecting to be served. He got a few more months out of me and had a pikachu when I kicked him out. He threw excuses and blame like chaff as he ran for the hills when he realised I was determined to get him to stick to his word. They say "t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 11:12 PM |
| 11 | Which book impacted you the most and would be your first pick as a gift to someone?Not a long book, but Everyday Chauvinism is so handy for spotting the constant disrespect we deal with simply for being born female. https://www.stop-ferfieroszak.hu/sites/default/files/dokumentumok/everyday_male_chauvinism_pdf_46753.pdf The book "How he gets into her head" explained so much about abusers. https://cryingoutforjustice.blog/2018/02/12/how-the-male-intimate-abuser-selects-sets-up-and-grooms-a-target-woman/ again, this seems like everyday behavior from LVM. They want unquestioned se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 10:39 PM |
| 20 | The bar is in hell.It's a trick, it's all sugar and no daddying. They want to manipulate naive women into being free prostitutes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 10:17 PM |
| 13 | You will KNOW when a man wants you as his everything. Because HE KNOWS right away.I was a sociopath's dream girl :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 10:39 AM |
| 145 | Women who dated covert narcissists, did their narcissism get "worse" over time?The more relationships they ruin with their self-absorbed, self-victimization, blame-shifting and refusal to introspect, the more "injustices" they collect and the more neuroses they develop. You'll get to reassure them for trivial slights since the day they were born. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 08:51 AM |
| 28 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizesSome women just do keep having one sex. I know 2 women who had 6 sons each. Depends on a lot of things. Time of the month they have sex - male sperm swim fast, female sperm lay in wait. Some women's bodies reject male fetus and they don't even know they miscarried. There's some genetic stuff too - men with lots of sisters tend to have daughters. So maybe the new wife's mom or dad had a lot of brothers. Like my friend who had 6 sons, she had 4 with a man who's side of the family had a lot of boys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 01:27 AM |
| 86 | You will KNOW when a man wants you as his everything. Because HE KNOWS right away.Love-bombing is generic - flowers of any kind, dinners and movies. Things he likes to give women, calls you ungrateful if it's not to your taste, doesn't notice you're hesitant about xyz tickets to event etc. Or you find out he's bombed other women the exact same way. If you're the one he's not self-centred anymore, he gives you what you like, even if it's modest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:24 PM |
| 133 | No second date, so he wants moneyMuch like when a toddler falls over, it's the worst thing in the world because that's the most hardship he's experienced. Being "used" for dinner is the worst thing most males will experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:17 PM |
| 48 | Why I’m against strip clubsHaving to slink past a man who knows he's depraved is too scawy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 13 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityThe stereotypical single mom has custody full-time and does 100% of the caretaking and emotional labor, discipline, homework checking, parenting, raising, instilling morals and boundaries, struggles to get them to eat vegetables/shower/sleep etc. She has no time to date, she's frazzled, she can't focus on the new man's wants 24/7, her kids are little cockblockers, she has to pay for a babysitter, she sucks basically. The stereotypical single dad is fun and fancyfree. He has the kids for sleepove… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 14 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityExactly. If she starts dating someone else they lose their shit. "If she wants sex she should come to ME I have a perfectly good dick!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 23 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityIt takes a LOT for women to leave when they have kids together. The man has to be SO BAD she would rather go it alone. LVM hate everyone knowing what a deadbeat they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 09:41 PM |
| 39 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityExactly, Single moms suck because they have the kid all the time and the new man can't access her vagina on a whim. Single dads are cool because those pesky kids are gone 12 days out of 14 and he's a bachelor again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 09:39 PM |
| 34 | Eve doesn't date single fathers, or: cultural misogyny in a nutshell, or: the audacityLVM claim a woman who doesn't want kids is unnatural and broken. Yet men who don't want to provide are perfectly fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 09:37 PM |
| 201 | Warning ⚠️ Some red-pill guys have started adopting FDS lingoThose 2 in particular are the laughing stock of the manosphere. One's a rage addict who ends up screaming at the camera most episodes, the other one has an instagram profile that's tailored to appeal to men. The rager got busted having a sugar-daddy profile, offering to pay for women. He's the epitome of low value. He also invited a lovely woman to collab, then attempted to extort sex, by saying he only collabs with women he's in a relationship with. So he's fucked/coerced all the bimbos they br… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 06:02 AM |
| 23 | Pretend you can't cookFrom the looks and smell of them, too much bread, fast food, meat and cheese. And beer. So many ET looking skinny-fats waddling around now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 02:21 AM |
| 182 | Man Sues Woman After She Refused To Have Sex😂Sorry you old scrote, you were just in the "getting to know you phase", not a relationship :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 11:12 PM |
| 65 | Pretend you can't cookThey had 2 years to learn how to cook, instead they doubled down on manipulating us and stealing our time, effort, energy and labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 11:07 PM |
| 60 | Who else make money from all OF except the women involvedThey put so much time and energy into being pieces of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:59 PM |
| 61 | Guy I dated thinks a woman should design and furnish his new apartment. Proudly establishes he WANTS to be a project.He knows people value what they invest in. He wants you to invest in this project and then value.... the empty space he so kindly provided for you lmao His mating strategy is "make her stick around with sunk cost fallacy". Also he's a cheap, braindead shit who wants you to do all the mental labor, thinking, planning, organising and doing. He's a vampire. Under the guise of doing you a favor hahaha. What next, women love the project of washing his skid-marked undies? We simply shrivel up and die … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 47 | Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.FDS : LVM just want to use us for sex. LVM : all women want to use us for free dinners and that is a WAR CRIME they need to be sent straight to the Hague. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:42 PM |
| 59 | Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.And they truly believe they'll "promote" her and start treating her better with more boyfriend perks. Lies. If they're getting all the girlfriend perks from her while he reciprocates the bare minimum, what extra effort would he put in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:40 PM |
| 56 | Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.Men : I've been abused before, woe is me, never trigger me with any of that, walk on eggshells, coddle me, love me, heal me with unquestioned access to your vagina Also men : oh, you've been abused before? Let me get in on that action, you're my new punching bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:38 PM |
| 92 | Same dudes who have/want to have casual sex will look down on YOU for having a history of it. The hypocrisy. Yet another reason to stay away from casual sex AND slutty guys, they're hypocrites with insane Madonna-whore complexes and STDs/STIs who think they're a prize to be won.THESE FUCKING BITCHES WHO ARE ONLY GOOD FOR FUCKING NEED TO BE NICE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 26 | What do *you* think a pick-me is, and why do you think you used to be one?Wanting men to like you and treat you well, against all evidence. Thinking that if you just act right, he'll start being kind. It's self-betrayal. Doing things you don't want to do, dropping protective boundaries to keep him, knowing you're not getting anything in return and that he'd never betray himself like that to keep you. Most of us acted like normal girlfriends with LVM who were dedicated to treating us like booty calls, so we refer to "our pickme days" as those - when we had no standards… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 38 | Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him powerSee how they act when they don't have power too. There has been a huge increase in death and rape threats by anonymous DM's from powerless little losers. The erosion of women's rights, championed by pathetic men who feeeeel as if they're losing out somehow, but they have a crap life because they're lazy porn addicts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:23 PM |
| 55 | Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him powerTurns out they all want to join a pedo ring, or rape their interns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 56 | Porn ruins menMan writes a 3 page diatribe about how he's depressed, demotivated, unenthusiastic, floppy, useless, pushy, entitled, whiny, has no desire to act like a normal adult, partner and father, and can't cope. Completely unironically, whines about his wife being unenthusiastic. These asshats truly believe that with the power of our pussy, they'll magically spring into action and be the most involved, energetic, amazing, loving, respectful, connected husband and father ever, if they just got to stick it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 93 | Porn ruins menIn other comments, apparently she can orgasm with a vibrator but he's such a pissbaby it hurts his feelings and he won't let her! So he's withholding her orgasms, is a terrible partner, and he wants to up the ante to even more unsatisfactory anal? He's a complete moron. I get what you mean by the aversion! I went from being excited and looking forward to sex, to dreading it and expecting disappointment. I took longer and longer to orgasm because I was so anxious, waiting for him to fumble and me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 5 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?And that abuse is always bullshit. Wants him to clean his room, go to sleep before midnight, have a shower, stop drinking and smoking pot, get a job. So cOnTrOlLiNg. Always on my back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 09:28 PM |
| 31 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?It's exactly abuse. Subspace = survival instinct kicking in, dissociation. Subdrop = betrayal trauma, you're kind of realising he abused you and you betrayed your own boundaries and safety Aftercare = "thanks for letting me abuse you", reward, honeymoon phase in the cycle of abuse, conditioning her to take abuse in order to get affection. You're "building trust". She trusts him not to murder her, he trusts she won't go to the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 09:23 PM |
| 114 | Are they getting off on knowing that we know they are larping at this point? All this BS and the scrotes still won’t quit…someone mentioned females??? Let me regale you with my masturbatory manifesto!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:59 AM |
| 35 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/gender/the-eight-step-road-map-to-murder-that-might-save-women-s-lives-20190911-p52qfs.html I want to say the pre-step to stalking is that he must be a boundary violator - he doesn't view women as people who can enforce their boundaries, have the right to say no, the right to privacy, dignity, autonomy or self-determination. Women don't have the right to reject him, stop talking, stop listening to him, stop paying attention, or remove themselves from his presence… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:48 AM |
| 103 | How to approach multi-dating?Just say you're busy. If he hasn't planned a proper date for Saturday, he doesn't get to know anything about your time. If he wants to see you or wants your time and attention, he needs to take you on a date. Turn your phone to Do Not Disturb while you're on a date and be present with the current guy. If they're dating other women (and sleeping with them) wish them well and cut them off. If they're spending on other women, they're not too invested with you, cut them off. If he's having coffee an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 02:01 AM |
| 54 | Validation that we're on the right path. Too bad what used to be common sense is no longer common. Also, violent fantasies create violent crimes. Only serial killers and rapists used to get off on depravity.Primary school girls are already experiencing this. Being slapped and spit on, choked, bj gagging, attempted anal, gang-raped, before they even get a normal kiss, because the boys are so messed up from porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 01:10 AM |
| 17 | Backfooting: the Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You to Know AboutRight? Most of these are possessive Batterers itching you strangle you for 'cheating'. Backfooting is sneakily getting you to prove you're a good cook, a cool girl, have no needs, not a gold-digger, not high-maintenance, not an insta-thot etc. Not this psycho, controlling, "prove you're not cheating" from rage addicts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 01:07 AM |
| 25 | Pickmes really need to shape up and get a clue 🤢It's absolutely in his control, he keeps choosing to be a porn addict. Shame away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 10:17 PM |
| 97 | 🤮🤮🤮🤮don’t do this!!! Have some self respect. No thank you.It's absolutely not empathy. They've trained themselves to get hard from seeing women in pain from videos of women being raped. https://emmalindsay.medium.com/porn-makes-men-terrible-in-bed-6e4df5f73200 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 10:11 PM |
| 28 | Where to go about communication as a HVW with someone you won't see in person for a while?Is he out there writing 3 paragraphs om a support sub asking how he can court you? No. "don't leave me opened respond! I want to see your face you're so pretty!" Manipulative groomer, fuck him off. Get rid of the Cyrano de Bergerac meddling 'friend' too, enabling LV bullshit and wasting your time. My time and attention is precious and I do not want to waste it. Then act like it and stop this nonsense much sooner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 72 | Petulant vulnerability. A newly coined term, it seems, to describe the behaviour of emotionally manipulative men.They can't even act normal. They swing from one extreme to the other and blame women for our correct reactions to such behaviour. "I showed emotion to my girlfriend and she broke up with me! They hate vulnerability!" He had a gallon of snot and a complete nervous breakdown in the kitchen for 2 hours over not getting a hardcopy of the latest game he wanted. A couple of tears and blow your nose during the sad part of a movie to indicate you understood what you were watching is fine dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 09:51 PM |
| 124 | Petulant vulnerability. A newly coined term, it seems, to describe the behaviour of emotionally manipulative men.And they truly believe they're entitled to violate our boundaries and their actions aren't harmful. So when we're "upset" we're just trying to "control them" and .. not let them do whatever they want to us. The horror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 09:34 PM |
| 10 | Backfooting: the Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You to Know AboutI squealed at that Shamalamayan ending. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 09:15 PM |
| 33 | Backfooting: the Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You to Know About"I like women strong enough to endure my abuse, and also bend over backwards to help me and my fake demons" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 09:14 PM |
| 14 | 'The audacity': TikToker calls out man for requesting $4 via Apple Pay after saying he'd pay for their coffee date. She’s a Queen 👑! I’m Glad She Called Him Out. The Only Person Playing Games Was Him! $4 Coffee Dates Don’t Equate To Sex! He’s Just Upset, He Didn’t Get What He Wanted.😂More like UnHinged | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 01:52 AM |
| 58 | Are men seriously trying to normalize erectile dysfunction now??? 😬😬https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tech-support/201407/what-porn-can-do-intimacy https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/mar/11/young-men-porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction https://emmalindsay.medium.com/porn-makes-men-terrible-in-bed-6e4df5f73200 https://theconversation.com/watching-pornography-rewires-the-brain-to-a-more-juvenile-state-127306 Pornsick, limpdick, braindead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:20 PM |
| 96 | Are men seriously trying to normalize erectile dysfunction now??? 😬😬Agreed. Men under 40 are all ruined. Women are being robbed of a satisfying, respectful sex life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:17 PM |
| 91 | Are men seriously trying to normalize erectile dysfunction now??? 😬😬And they switch one objectification/addiction for another. They quit the porn only so they can get a girlfriend and wank into her instead, so they can convince themselves they're not a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 226 | Are men seriously trying to normalize erectile dysfunction now??? 😬😬They cling to "performance anxiety" like it's a life-raft in the Pacific. "I just get so nervous around a human woman and can't get it up, but I can get it up to strangle my dick for porn" my guy, put two and two together. You've habituated your brain to porn, it's PIED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 135 | Are men seriously trying to normalize erectile dysfunction now??? 😬😬Their dicks need popsicle stick splints and their sperm needs tugboats to get to the egg. Utterly useless. Can't protect, can't provide and can't fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 09:49 PM |
| 128 | ‘Men rarely get compliments, women do’, ‘Men have no emotional support unlike women’ 🤡🤡Because their emotional support needs are a black hole. LVM never get over their insecurities. They never heal from the crushing rejection from Jenny in 6th grade. They never get off their ass and start the first steps to their goal, so they always feel useless and unaccomplished. They never get therapy. They never read a book. They never join support subs. They never read blogs of people in the same position as them, or articles about their specific problem. They never look in the mirror and th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:08 AM |
| 113 | What did she do to him?They say it all the time. In dating subs, all over the manosphere. "Most guys are looking for a relationship!" "Myself and all my friends are such good guys" "Well, <local known creeper who terrifies all the women in the group> isn't that bad, he's just awkward!" "I don't know any abusers or rapists". They don't date men. They don't know. They've never been alone on the couch while their buddy intends to have sex with them. They don't believe women. They discount and scoff at everything we repor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 10:27 AM |
| 44 | Gradually dropping a male orbiterCompletely stop responding. It will take some self-control. He'll try an extinction burst (spamming you with provocative messages to get you to respond), but if you do, he'll learn that it takes 300 nasty messages and he'll do it again. Please read "The Gift of Fear". Hopefully he'll fade away in about a month of being ignored, but I doubt it. Is there any way to set his messages to silent, or block him without letting him know he's blocked? You don't need to read his shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 08:24 AM |
| 277 | What did she do to him?Every man on the planet thinks he's a good guy. They can only empathize with other men, whom they also believe are good guys. Seeing as they're all such good guys, it's unfathomable that there are men who just.. abuse, rape, murder, coerce and touch kids because they want to. Because they like it. Because it benefits them. Because abusing and screaming and punching feels good. Because they snap one day in a paranoid, unfounded, jealous rage. But no, she must have done something to provoke this c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 08:19 AM |
| 24 | Someone in the comments said stories like this are why FDS exists 😂And you know they'll tromp over and shit it up, leaving the mess for her to clean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 07:57 AM |
| 136 | Studying for a psych test. Thought you would appreciate this tidbit- postpartum depression in men is related to feeling “replaced by baby” 😭😭😭"She found a new baby, I hate it" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 07:54 AM |
| 99 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??I don't even think they know what it feels like to be naturally aroused. They get bored, stressed, angry, sleepy and look up rape material solely to get an orgasm as a self-soothe. It's not even about being horny and wanting sexual material - it's a shortcut to dopamine to stop any icky feelings they have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 06:41 AM |
| 330 | Studying for a psych test. Thought you would appreciate this tidbit- postpartum depression in men is related to feeling “replaced by baby” 😭😭😭Maybe they'd feel better if they stopped being a parasite on the woman and started contributing more to their wife and infant that relies on adults or it dies. Men like being needed, or so they keep claiming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:12 AM |
| 223 | If you needed another reason to avoid hiking with men. This older man was posting looking for a "female hiking partner," but at first seemed well-mannered and talked about mutual hobbies. Then this happened... I am assuming he's a predator luring women into the woods.The kind of guy to build a shrine to your corpse in the forest and visit it.. a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:09 AM |
| 33 | Men are threatened by EVERYTHING. Why??Because they murder us if we don't smile :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:52 AM |
| 45 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??make me wet, daddy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:47 AM |
| 96 | The unsustainable level of the human population on Earth is a direct result of enslaving the natural gatekeepers of reproduction: women.So many leftover men who will never marry or have children. Boohoo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:18 AM |
| 265 | I asked my boyfriend what he would do if I decided to keep the baby - was his answer a red flag?It's absolutely wild that girls are thrust into the potential of creating human life and it's on our mind fairly constantly from the day we get our first periods. Yet males can create life from the first day they jizz and they think nothing of it. Just wander around trying to nut raw 24/7. It's a sign of an extremely irresponsible, immature, thoughtless, inconsiderate male who has never thought "what would I do, how would I react if I got a woman pregnant?". Your dude sucks, sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 01:45 AM |
| 465 | How are men so obsessed with sex and yet still SO BAD at it??Because they expect enthusiasm from the woman (thrilled to pleasure him, or be his cum receptacle, prop up his fragile ego, smile away his incompetence and have all the sympathy for his floppy knob, and orgasm easily from the barest touches and fumblings, tell him he's great no matter what he does) They loathe women enjoying themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 01:31 AM |
| 95 | Scrote abuses and manipulates wife into thinking she is ugly and blames herself for his cheating and abuse.He’s been abusing her so long she’s taken on his words and excuses though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:40 PM |
| 327 | The unsustainable level of the human population on Earth is a direct result of enslaving the natural gatekeepers of reproduction: women.And now that most countries are below replacement level, the menfolk are losing their minds, scrambling to do everything except treat us well and make us want to have children and a family that includes males. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:06 PM |
| 164 | Male attention is inherently low-value.It's less than that. They feel good putting us down and don't even think about our half of the experience. If you stick around and take the abuse, he "likes you". Which is how they can treat you like shit and say they love you with a straight face. They love punching bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:05 PM |
| 286 | Scrote abuses and manipulates wife into thinking she is ugly and blames herself for his cheating and abuse."He's not saying it to be mean, he's not a mean person" - Lists 50 things that prove he's a mean person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:01 PM |
| 47 | Ladies please don’t do this. You deserve your dream ring!Sit back and enjoy crumbs. He knows you're completely invested and not going to leave, why would he put MORE effort in? You're doing just fine with the no effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 75 | Men are threatened by EVERYTHING. Why??Why reward their tantrums? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 214 | Men are threatened by EVERYTHING. Why??They don't let women go to space because.. we bleed.. and we'll "distract the men" and make them fight like chimps over a mate. Men are truly the source of every problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 9 | What is it about South Asian/Desi culture that makes the men so depraved?https://fiftyshadesofindianpatriarchy.com/2019/11/11/spectrum-of-the-indian-man-child/amp/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 286 | Should we avoid dating men of certain occupations if we don't want kids?Men's lives don't change after the woman gives birth lol Even a man who doesn't want kids can still have kids and go right back to work as usual. I'd say a man who says he doesn't want kids is telling the truth. I'd be more worried about a man who says he does want kids - is he actually going to be a father to them? Ask them before you even meet if he wants kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:06 AM |
| 24 | Irritating mannerisms are a red flag and your intuition telling you that something is off!Food guarding and fast eating to not get shanked. Making sure you get some food before your 4 siblings eat it all. Or military even. Meal time is short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 07:06 AM |
| 29 | Hmmm, Am I Crazy or Are Women Wising Up?I noticed just how incompetent these "highly achieving" men are. We've seen behind the curtain regarding the male politician's utter uselessness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 05:49 AM |
| 39 | Irritating mannerisms are a red flag and your intuition telling you that something is off!Yes! Some weirdo did this to me on a train. He must have been doing it for so long without me noticing he alarmed the woman next to him. Like he had been trying to use telekinesis to get me to turn my head for half an hour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 05:41 AM |
| 26 | Irritating mannerisms are a red flag and your intuition telling you that something is off!He also always ate hunched over. Sounds like ex-con, or food insecurity childhood.. "Being gross" is also a defensive cope to keep people away while eating. Anyone without the self-awareness to know they're being weird and off-putting is a pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 05:39 AM |
| 134 | Scrote is trying to take his date to a storage unit to make her clean it!I've seen this episode of Hoarders.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 05:24 AM |
| 21 | What are your thoughts about this?And when we disappear they congratulate themselves and confirm they were right. Like a dog barking at the postman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 05:10 AM |
| 337 | Work is only okay when I (the man) benefit from seeing woman naked and abused. I’m sorry what???? Sex work is abusive towards women.Sorry for making your boner sad by bringing up the women who are being trafficked, coerced, drugged, drunk or otherwise don't consent to the paid rape, which you don't want to know about because you firmly believe women are out here with a job guide and a red pen pondering this as a legitimate career. You poor thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 04:18 AM |
| 25 | PIED confirmedgrug using a charred stick to draw titties on a cave wall so he can hunch over jerking off like a loser makes me cackle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 03:10 AM |
| 29 | PIED confirmedLVM : omg no-one cares about men's mental health Also LVM : so your best bet is to find a previously abused woman and then trigger her so you can do whatever you want. or find a confident woman and use these tactics to crush her self-esteem and erode her boundaries so you can do whatever you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 03:09 AM |
| 75 | Irritating mannerisms are a red flag and your intuition telling you that something is off!"You just had so much money in the cash register I couldn't control myself" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 11:10 PM |
| 128 | Irritating mannerisms are a red flag and your intuition telling you that something is off!Two men who SA'd me on the first dates were both incredibly shifty. I realise now they were constantly flicking their eyes around for witnesses. When they were sure they had me isolated they blitz attacked. Not sure what they got out of it. Rough groping. Then they escaped and lied for days. I'm just so beautiful they couldn't control themselves. Oh? Explain the 20 minutes of surveillance before this uncontrollable moment... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 10:03 PM |
| 282 | Hmmm, Am I Crazy or Are Women Wising Up?Women kept up our connections, social circles, long term plans and a dozen activities that are good for mental health. Men devolved into gaming, porn, streaming dreams, alcohol and radicalizing themselves. The gap between the sexes is huge and it's not looking good for men of any age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:58 PM |
| 194 | Hmmm, Am I Crazy or Are Women Wising Up?We went to clubs and they immediately started injecting us with drugs... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 88 | Mary Berry reveals she two-timed her future husband when they first metSowing his seeds! Gaining experience so he can please his future wife! Whereas the woman is always assumed to be the irresponsible one doing it without birth control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:45 PM |
| 71 | What are your thoughts about this?Ians are not nice, not undercover cute, and not excited to go on a date 😂 They'd been shooting out of their league and matching (unattractive) women they believe they 'didn't deserve', and catfish/scammers/bots for so long they were angry and bitter. I've been accused of being a bot, asked repeatedly where I lived like they were trying to break my algorithm, asked where I was born for a green-card-digger check, had pics immediately demanded to prove I'm not a bot, and just bubbling hostility and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:39 PM |
| 102 | Another reason why we don’t do coffee datesA pre-date phonecall and a facetime should weed out most icky men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:28 PM |
| 35 | PIED confirmedOf course he feels great, tricking himself into thinking he's getting laid. Opting out of real life for 30 minutes and zooming in on vaginas he'll never see IRL. Men feel great cooming. More at 11. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 09:23 PM |
| 103 | What could be better than this? India Plans to Criminalize Marital Rape, So Some Men Are Boycotting Marriage - VICEThey’re being testerical | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 04:04 PM |
| 384 | What could be better than this? India Plans to Criminalize Marital Rape, So Some Men Are Boycotting Marriage - VICE“Already as of now in India, it is a crime for a man to get married. If a man gets married and if he is accused [of rape], there is no way for him to defend himself. He has no protection,” Oh no. Poor lambies. Oh wait. What about the women who are actually being raped and have no way to defend themselves and no protection. Because it's not illegal right now. Men are all yeehar rapin'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Men Who Block For No Reason?Every time 😩 Long term porn use causes hypofrontality, or reduction in the grey matter in the pre-frontal cortex, which damages executive functioning. It does have the same symptoms as ADHD (read anything on the front page of nofap, they describe it themselves), so porn addict men, in a relationship, gleefully diagnose themselves and use it to justify and excuse their misogyny. I am in no way associating women with ADHD with men who use porn. I'm not talking about women with ADHD, at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 04:11 AM |
| 8 | Men Who Block For No Reason?DSM-5 Criteria for ADHD People with ADHD show a persistent pattern of inattention and/or hyperactivity–impulsivity that interferes with functioning or development: Inattention: Six or more symptoms of inattention for children up to age 16 years, or five or more for adolescents age 17 years and older and adults; symptoms of inattention have been present for at least 6 months, and they are inappropriate for developmental level: Often fails to give close attention to details or makes careless mista… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 03:27 AM |
| 21 | Men Who Block For No Reason?Exactly. They self-diagnose and blame everything on it, but it's not ADHD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 03:08 AM |
| 128 | Purposefully doing things to drive up his gf’s utility bill…I thought I read it all 🤦🏼♀️ (repost!)What an immature little pissbaby being defiant and sulky to mommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 59 | Has a man ever lied to you about potential opportunities/working on common goals to spend more time with you? *discussion*Yep it's called stringing you along, wasting your time, future faking, dangling a carrot, the thrill of deceit, getting one over on you. A game you don't know you're playing. Men will do the most to spend one more day in the company of a woman. Everything except put in real effort. LVM love a win-lose. Putting in real effort and giving you what you want is, in their minds, a lose for them and a win for you. Stringing you along with this convoluted shit is a win for them and a lose for you. Insan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:13 AM |
| 26 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteFingers crossed she's not real but a pedo-hunter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 12:56 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.aw that's sweet :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:34 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.Interesting! Has he managed to explain why? When do children learn object permanence? Does he think they're gone forever? (Or does it mean play-time is over.) Would a clear plastic tub so he can still see them, or open shelves, help? :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:46 PM |
| 134 | Men Who Block For No Reason?I suspect heavy porn use gives men the same symptoms as ADHD / dementia. Brain fog, low motivation, unable to focus or plan long term, poor memory, no theory of mind, no empathy, unable to care. They just can't be bothered to go on a date. It feels like too much effort. Too many moving parts. No energy to get up and chase when they can just open their laptop and jerk off. Blocking you is like closing a browser tab they don't want to read anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Men Who Block For No Reason?I suspect heavy porn use gives men the same symptoms as ADHD / dementia. Brain fog, low motivation, unable to focus or plan long term, poor memory. They just can't be bothered to go on a date. It feels like too much effort. Too many moving parts. No energy to get up and chase when they can just open their laptop and jerk off. Blocking you is like closing a browser tab they don't want to read anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:28 PM |
| 78 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.The girls are the scapegoats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 10:09 PM |
| 88 | Indian scrotes threatening to boycott marriage if marital rape is criminalized in IndiaRight? They can finish school and have good lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Of course we already know these two are dysfunctional, but still had to share. This is disgustingHope he got a matching cock-ring :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 09:51 AM |
| 80 | Indian scrotes threatening to boycott marriage if marital rape is criminalized in IndiaNot even a tornado would take him 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 09:50 AM |
| 42 | “AITA For Buying My Fiancée A Lab-Grown Diamond And Refusing To Exchange It For A Natural Stone?” What does FDS think? Disclaimer: Article is pretty old, but found it on my feed. Comments are saying that he should leave her…😩oh lord. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 03:35 AM |
| 293 | “AITA For Buying My Fiancée A Lab-Grown Diamond And Refusing To Exchange It For A Natural Stone?” What does FDS think? Disclaimer: Article is pretty old, but found it on my feed. Comments are saying that he should leave her…😩eeeh tough call. Some people place (imo ridiculous) value on nAtUraL, and if that's what she wants, without it being a conflict diamond, she's free to have that standard. They should have discussed it beforehand instead of him placing his ethics on her. I'm all for ethical lab-grown. If it retains it's value and I can pawn it after a break-up, which is the point of having $20k on your finger, I'd accept. I don't think this is break-up worthy. Two dumbasses forgot to check in before something as … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 03:31 AM |
| 37 | How to avoid a situationship?If he doesn't bring it up it wasn't on his mind, next him. If he doesn't want to lock you down he didn't care that much for you as a person anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 21 | We have to stop putting up with this shit 🤡More like he's abusive and she tried to leave. He made it complicated by harassing her and trying non-stop to get her back until SHE blocked him and went no contact. If she feels confident she can move past this, their conflict resolution is "he gaslights me until I'm exhausted". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 65 | The things I had to freaking hear.The misogyny filter was on and he can't hear anything other than "cook, clean, suck dick and have your babies 😍" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 10:28 PM |
| 82 | On “hard to get & hard to keep” what men value & respect & men courting prestigious organizations. Men’s effort for men’s love and respect / lack there of for women’sThey're even willing to have blackmail material held over their heads in order to get into pedo rings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 06:56 AM |
| 298 | On “hard to get & hard to keep” what men value & respect & men courting prestigious organizations. Men’s effort for men’s love and respect / lack there of for women’sDudes will stay 3 hours late at work if the boss frowns one time and is still in his office. Men are the biggest simps for other men. Haze me daddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 06:53 AM |
| 41 | Be careful of this new generation of “SAHD”, who won’t do any chores, won’t take care of the kids, doesn’t contribute to earning money but will lie and cheatStreaming Dream is my new meme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 06:50 AM |
| 104 | This is what we mean when we say don't go 50/50. You'll be doing 100% of the childrearing while he's at work and he will expect you to give up your savings as well.In some countries :) The govt : so yeah we treated you like second class citizens for thousands of years, then committed some femicide for a few decades, but forget all that and have 3 kids. We will be providing and enforcing zero benefits for you kgo. The women (Society burning, not babies lmao) In western countries they're clearly doubling down on their gaslighting, manipulation and intimidation tactics on the street. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:06 AM |
| 121 | Texting AdviceHe's faded you, move on. If everything was alright, he'd have texted you. If you text him, you let him know you'll CHASE him after being ignored for so long, and that's some bs. He's stopped to eat, he's stopped to shit, he's had time to shoot you a quick text. LVM feel that if they're not getting goodies, why bother. Investing in building a relationship over facetime until you can resume seeing each other in person doesn't give him what he feels entitled to. Watch him swing back around to meet … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:48 AM |
| 349 | You can date a man for ten months, think you're his girlfriend and he will still say you're "casual" and go behind your back and find a whole new girlfriend.This queen must have sensed something was off with him (he was seeing other women) and didn't sleep with him."How do I keep wasting her time, how do I keep being a parasite in her life, how do I protect my precious feefees from any anger she will rightly feel once I expose my fuckery, how do I keep her from moving on to be with a man who isn't a piece of shit like me?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 01:13 AM |
| 512 | This is what we mean when we say don't go 50/50. You'll be doing 100% of the childrearing while he's at work and he will expect you to give up your savings as well.Men's narcissism and societal gaslighting has become insane. They have the delusions that modern women can work 8 hours then come home and pull another 8 hours out of thin air to do 100% of the housework and childrearing, then 2 hours to be a porn star, then actually get refreshing sleep. Not to mention time for self-care to be a supermodel trophy wife, plus commute to work, plus grocery shopping, keeping up friendships so hubby can just swan along to birthdays, dinners and BBQ's like King Dick.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 01:08 AM |
| 75 | Being disrespected at workMen are shocked when the sentient punching bag snaps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 17 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Also guys who claimed that "men and women can't be friends" Yep. He had no boundaries and massive disrespect for women. Expects all women to be available as sex objects or therapists for his use, and platonic friendship is a blow to his entitlement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 11:11 PM |
| 49 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Yes! Insecure in his self and masculinity and freaks out when he doesn't have a feminine example to shit on and make him feel manly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 11:09 PM |
| 51 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Any kind of watching other people live their lives. Watching other people fuck. Watching other people fish (???). Watching an avatar shoot guns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:27 PM |
| 93 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?he’s fact checking everything I say, he goes out of his way to do it, he doubts my intelligence That little smirk, raised eyebrow and "oh?" pisses me the fuck off immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:26 PM |
| 26 | There are plenty more fish in the bucket.Indeed, LVM should stay in their natural habitat, 3000 feet below sea level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:20 PM |
| 5 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersBest way to find doormats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 6 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersMore like brags he has 3 plates on the go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 17 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersWhy doesn't he start an onlyfans or sell his ass? 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:17 PM |
| 53 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersThey're legit devolving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:16 PM |
| 29 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersEverything's a dating app if you're brave enough. Craigslist, LinkedIn, a flyer for a lost cat.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:14 PM |
| 33 | They always tell on themselves, sometimes sooner than othersI thought he was 'fixing' kink-sized bed ha ha haaaaa loools | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 10 | How to not get anxious before dates?Do you have complex-ptsd, fawn type? Where you feel you have to be on your best behaviour and impress people so they'll like you? That if you're not helpful and compliant, they'll abandon you? That men are doing the choosing and you have to be good enough? That regular men who don't want a relationship with you are fine, but once he's "potential husband" you get nervous and seek his approval? http://www.pete-walker.com/codependencyFawnResponse.htm Fawn types seek safety by merging with the wishe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:11 PM |
| 45 | Man wants to bring his young daughter on a first dateThey've upgraded their demands from free sex on first date to free babysitter lmao. Times are tough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:56 PM |
| 6 | An Ode to FDSRight. They're enraged we're 'taking something away' they legitimately thought they were entitled to and were definitely going to have someday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:54 PM |
| 25 | We don't do that no moreTo be fair, society has been fucked up for so long that most men haven't seen the 8 types of love and have nothing to model. Eros, erotic love is passionate, sexual and fertile. The honeymoon stage where we want to make babies and can't keep our hands off our lover. Where we both consent, agree, desire and long for each other. It's been perverted into date rapes where men won't control themselves and blame the women for being so sexy. The "give sex by x date" rule, where men don't want the match… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:52 PM |
| 64 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?Apparently being sexually responsible is simping, and they believe getting the snip is like castration. LVM want the option to knock a woman up on their terms, and via their mighty ejaculation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:13 PM |
| 20 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?If this happens so often you'd think he'd carry around that bright yellow plastic tub they use to dispose sharps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:10 PM |
| 45 | Can we talk about Drake’s hot sauce condom incident?First time in history men want to stay on topic and not sWiTcH tHe sExeS and not all men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:08 PM |
| 41 | On dating married menAnd actually moved out! So many monkey-branching liars still living with their wives but 'separated'. Snap it off, dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:59 AM |
| 124 | The average LVM posing as HVWith the way these dudes are binge-gaming, it's entirely possible 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:04 AM |
| 48 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?And then he agreed with himself that they're slept on lmao We're not even real to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:51 AM |
| 60 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?Jumping to incorrect conclusions then shitting on you for it. When I went to the USA I was on auto-pilot and headed to the (aussie) passenger side door of the car. Scroteus says "ooh look at you, thinking you're going to drive hahah!" I deadpan said "no this is the passenger side in Australia. You're wrong". Turns out dudes hate being wrong. At least the drive was nice and quiet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 09:48 AM |
| 378 | The average LVM posing as HVSits on the couch screaming into his headset, ignoring the hungry kids and full diaper. At least he doesn't hit his girlfriend 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 06:52 AM |
| 77 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?This shit emboldens them. He felt like he won and he showed that bitch who's boss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 05:11 AM |
| 131 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?5 minutes into the lesson they start correcting us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 05:10 AM |
| 67 | UPDATE: on 46 y/o coworker claiming to be 34."I knew you'd overreact, so I lied, ensuring you'd overreact" 🤔 Surprised he's not breaking out in hives with how allergic to shame he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:35 PM |
| 70 | UPDATE: on 46 y/o coworker claiming to be 34.If he's that deluded he's fishing lower. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:32 PM |
| 646 | She Needed FDS a Long Time AgoClassic :( Baby trap, exhaustion, back-to-back pregnancies, not married, isolation from support and looming massive purchase. He neatly avoided following through on anything by being a scumbag. No wedding, no house, no splitting assets. Her mom sucks too. Terrible emotional support. E: oh it's his mom. Explains everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:31 PM |
| 59 | This man is 24. His “best friend” was 14 while he was a 20 year old man waiting for her to be legal to call his GF. This man is a pedophile.Thank you for all you give me 🙃 "Love you forever" or until you age out. So probably 3 more years, then I'll start "working late". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:25 PM |
| 27 | Comments are ROASTING him for his age-gap preference - very happily surprised! Based Reddit.Man with nothing desirable about him, and nothing appreciating but the forest of hair in his ears, doesn't even give a shit about her safety or well-being in the snow, and wants her to pay for her own subjugation with a bottle of wine... only brings money to the table... and doesn't want to pay. So logical. So rational. No emotions here. Hope he posted on choosingbeggars 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 206 | Comments are ROASTING him for his age-gap preference - very happily surprised! Based Reddit."I'm using her for sex and her youthful energy, but I don't want to pay :(" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:20 PM |
| 55 | Comments are ROASTING him for his age-gap preference - very happily surprised! Based Reddit.Worse than that. They take our generational wealth. They've corrupted the natural matrilineal tracking, accumulation and caretaking of the planet, ended our names, disrupted our lines and broken the backbone of society. The X from mother to daughter has been displaced by their rapidly deteriorating y. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:19 PM |
| 43 | DAE have a visceral negative reaction to Hinge’s social media ads? Who are these meant to market to? It can’t be women.I was casually using one app and going on a date every week. A dude chimped out on the date with me and said he had 2 phones and 15 apps, then started swiping for more in front of me. The apps are working as intended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:04 PM |
| 26 | Violence against women on the front page of reddit... check the upvotes and realize how many LVM are on reddit and how much they hate women... this is why vetting is so importantDo they mean equal with the white men on top? "World's 10 richest men double their wealth in pandemic" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:59 PM |
| 21 | Case Study of Dating Mr. Sensitive, Part I: Weaponized TraumaWhen they give their dumbass excuses I just stare. "Oh, you had a shitty childhood. Fair enough, continue abusing me then!" whack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:53 PM |
| 39 | Case Study of Dating Mr. Sensitive, Part I: Weaponized TraumaGetting worked up about hypotheticals and torturing you for 3 months about it is insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 16 | Case Study of Dating Mr. Sensitive, Part I: Weaponized TraumaExactly. They think if they can just re-enact their "trauma" but with a different ending this time, where they get to win, they'll feel all better. They don't, so they do it again and again. An ex took it a step further and re-enacted mine on me to feel special. Didn't work. Had to keep upping the ante. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:49 PM |
| 9 | An Open Letter to Woman Considering AA.https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2015/04/the-irrationality-of-alcoholics-anonymous/386255/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 23 | An Open Letter to Woman Considering AA.He abuses you because you let him. He drinks because you let him. A good woman would have a calming presence and straighten a man out, don't you know. fuck this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 21 | An Open Letter to Woman Considering AA.Way too many men use their drinking as the cover for the abuse. They're 99% abuser, 1% drunk to have a handy excuse and something else to keep her fixated on. If she can just get him to stop drinking, he'll stop abusing 🙃 He only abuses because he's drunk 🙃 let's focus on running ourselves ragged in this maze of cutting him off from alcohol and living in dread when he's late home from work. A lot of men use it as a cover for raping their wife. He comes home in "a drunken rage" and starts frighte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 10:27 PM |
| 111 | I’m still confused as to why some guys still expect us to put out on the first date or do casual hookups. This is why we don’t. Shit like this isn’t fun for usHe has a prostate, I thought he'd like it! All my exes loved it :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:37 AM |
| 45 | I’m still confused as to why some guys still expect us to put out on the first date or do casual hookups. This is why we don’t. Shit like this isn’t fun for usMy new form of communication is a rape whistle 1 inch from his ear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | We have a fragile one.Because all women come standard as mommy bangmaids. When men do anything besides breathing, it's ✨extra✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 08:45 AM |
| 52 | Please, for your own sake: Find out if he was a loser before.I love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 201 | Please, for your own sake: Find out if he was a loser before.The amount of shit I ate, had to reassure him about, insecurities I tolerated, weird behaviour because one woman did it one time, jesus christ. Never again. If a man is so traumatized he needs to take it out on you, send him straight to therapy and blocksville. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:25 PM |
| 19 | I only read female-dominated subreddits nowAnd the beautiful woman of the week is a prop for his miniscule character development. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 70 | Saw this elsewhere and yupWhen the filth and hot-pocket wrappers pile up and all his friends think he's a loser he realizes he devalued everything she brought to the table. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 20 | Is He Negging You? 10 Signs He’s Trying To Secretly Destroy Your ConfidenceI waved my hand in a direction and my ex got out his fucking compass app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 21 | Is He Negging You? 10 Signs He’s Trying To Secretly Destroy Your ConfidenceIt is. Disbelief because women are the less intelligent of the species is baked in misogyny. They all know how to do it. This is the one least likely to change and it's fucking us everywhere. eg. rape disclosures. Even police disbelieve us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 09:43 PM |
| 61 | Why is there so many "crazy" mother-in-laws? (Let's discuss from the perspective of FDS)Men are so sensitive. They view the wife’s mother (who is rightly protecting her daughter’s womb from scrotes) as a cockblocking dragon and set out to demonize her in all media. Yet another gaslighting, socializing, bullying “give my peepee what it wants” message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 05:12 PM |
| 56 | Average "Dating" Time Before Engagement in the Early 1900s: Two WeeksDamn, is that why Val was so dreamy in Tombstone. Gotta snatch him up before he pops off to tuberculosis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 12:56 PM |
| 250 | Some of the creatures lurking on online dating sites"What's your blood type, I need a new liver" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 12:34 PM |
| 578 | Weaponised incompetence is a manipulation tactic. It is not a cute “quirk” that men do and it’s also not funny to actively KNOW that they do this and defend it. Pick me’s are just so delusional.I cleaned an ex's house because it was so filthy. He grinned and said "you missed a spot". I said seeing as he could see the dirt better than me, he could clean from now on. Smirk fell off his face as he realised how he had fucked up. Well, I guess I realised I had fucked up at the same time. Haven't cleaned a man's house since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:35 AM |
| 92 | Weaponised incompetence is a manipulation tactic. It is not a cute “quirk” that men do and it’s also not funny to actively KNOW that they do this and defend it. Pick me’s are just so delusional.Like having house parties twice a week at 10 Downing Street... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 11:32 AM |
| 215 | Weaponised incompetence is a manipulation tactic. It is not a cute “quirk” that men do and it’s also not funny to actively KNOW that they do this and defend it. Pick me’s are just so delusional.I get the vibe they're all sitting around like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:43 AM |
| 122 | Pickme rewards her husband with a blowjob after he's been sexually absent and mainly being intimate IN HIS DREAMS 😔Yeah is this a sly "one neat trick to get blowjobs" post directed at LVM? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:39 AM |
| 92 | How to tell if you are you building a man or building the relationshipDisabled and unemployed women are the most abused. They feel the need to make up for it by 'earning their keep' around the house, which a scrote gladly accepts, running her ragged. Letting her know no-one else would have her and she should appreciate him. Yet LVM use their 'depression' as an excuse to do nothing and never seek treatment, again, running a woman ragged... and using her as a therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:36 AM |
| 25 | A Comprehensive (and heinous) History of Pickup Artistry | hint: it only got worse 🤢I want to go back to the time when Mike offers me coke... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 08:00 AM |
| 8 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockRight. Their notion of boundaries is all messed up. They can't enforce their own and want to control how other people enforce theirs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 03:53 AM |
| 40 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockIt is always the privilege of the master to enter the slave’s hut. The slave who decides to exclude the master from her hut is declaring herself not a slave. Women think that being invited into the man's big house is empowering, but she's still a slave in it. Empowerment is having our own house, and never being a man's slave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 03:47 AM |
| 136 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleSame 😂 I said I prefer to meet in public and he unmatched me. Guess he wanted me unable to escape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 02:53 AM |
| 217 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleSee where the evening takes us? To Blocksville, population 1 million and counting 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 01:57 AM |
| 8 | We have a fragile one.You hurt men's feelings and that's the biggest crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 11:22 PM |
| 7 | We have a fragile one."You tell women how to spot red flags and that lowers my chances of ever getting laid 😢😢😢" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 11:22 PM |
| 16 | A cautionary tale on why you shouldn't settle for less. Break up at the first sign.Ah, this weird tactic of dangling half a carrot. She asks for what she wants and he says "I can't possibly, how about half of what you want". No-one should fucking beg and then negotiate for half. He got off on denying and squashing her. Humiliation, and then extra humiliation by involving the daughter. Making OOP apologize for her own shitty birthday!?!?!? "Pointing out that we ruined your birthday hurts our feelings" what a shithole father. HVM find a way to give you all of what you want and d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 11:21 PM |
| 65 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockYet another push to stifle women's anger. "You can't let him know you got under his skin". Yes the fuck I can. Much like puppies, abusive men need this smack on their nose. They need to know when their nipping was incorrect. They probably won't learn but I'm not going to let them keep nipping me. They get a reward by getting through to me, encouraging the behaviour. Another push to prevent us from having boundaries. "I don't tolerate verbal abuse, manipulation or gaslighting" and I enforce that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 11:12 PM |
| 162 | Let’s talk about choosing not to blockNo! Keep stomping in shit and have the emotional fortitude to not let it bother you! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 11:04 PM |
| 26 | Why Casual Sex is a heck no! UK men admit they only disclose chronic STD’s to women they aren’t just using for sex.Sex offender registry as well. These shitters need consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:52 PM |
| 47 | Why Casual Sex is a heck no! UK men admit they only disclose chronic STD’s to women they aren’t just using for sex.Everyone gives "the boyfriend" immediate trusted status, even though men known to us are the biggest threats for cheating, rape and murder. If we want the police there asap, we have to say a stranger is trying to break in. I said "the condom broke with a new partner" and got all the tests. Obviously, a boyfriend of 2 years is practically an unblemished saint. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 52 | Why Casual Sex is a heck no! UK men admit they only disclose chronic STD’s to women they aren’t just using for sex.Men see our boundaries, standards and human rights as a major barrier to them getting their dick wet so they lie and fail to disclose everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:47 PM |
| 75 | Why Casual Sex is a heck no! UK men admit they only disclose chronic STD’s to women they aren’t just using for sex.Dying because of the man in my house is the worst option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 346 | Your anger is a divine blessingWomen are angry at being violated. Men are angry when they don’t get to violate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 98 | "I just fell asleep" Men that won't say goodnight or just dip from convosHe's unemployed and his gf comes home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:54 AM |
| 134 | When Talk Show Hosts Make Celebrities Uncomfortable (how gross. it's of course mostly women)Women have to eat so much shit with a smile to promote their movies and music. Or get branded "difficult to work with". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:28 AM |
| 307 | "I just fell asleep" Men that won't say goodnight or just dip from convosYep women are just porn tabs they can close when they want us to shut up. Men who can't say goodnight properly don't have theory of mind and don't care how their actions affect you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 08:45 AM |
| 175 | We are living in a clown world 🤡You have substituted your idea of happiness for hers. Isn't that what healthy, loving parents do? Instill morals, ethics and normalcy? Let them know when they're making fucked up choices? Warn them about predators? Permissiveness, affirming and "no kink shaming" has gone too far. "ok sweetie :) If dating a bottom of the barrel man makes you hApPy. We'll reward this clownishness". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 05:19 AM |
| 97 | Just need some supportWhat an asshole :( LVM do this a lot. Gobble up your effort and care, then when it's their turn, nothing but crumbs and take-out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 04:00 AM |
| 812 | We are living in a clown world 🤡Pay for this loser's vacay 😂😂😂😂 I'd rather barefoot dash 100 yards on lego and upturned bottlecaps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 03:42 AM |
| 181 | "I'm the Prize" vs "I'm Priceless" MindsetIgnore men and achieve self-actualization. Blossom into your passion, do what really makes you feel alive. Don't shape yourself for the male gaze or male interests. A lot of men will want to destroy your light but they'll feel slimy and gross in their intent. Entertain the man who looks at you like this 😍. He's interested in you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 03:33 AM |
| 138 | I want your stories: Have you ever dated a guy who really looked up to guys like Elon Musk or Bill Gates & What was your experience?An ex loved Bill Gates and thought Melinda was holding him back, just a stupid quota woman in tech who took his money. Never mind she birthed his kids and propped him up in public, keeping his shit together because he's so socially awkward. Guess who minimized all the social benefits I brought him (even though he preened about how much better he was being treated in public while next to me, what a mystery), amplified his own negligible contributions and treated me like a gold-digger for asking h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 03:28 AM |
| 7 | REMINDER: Playing devil's advocate is a social fauxpas, and men who do it are LVSo many men think I keep their company because I need their opinion and input. I was at a jewelers getting a watch repaired and they said it was too damaged. I could either get a gift voucher or get it replaced with a new watch. He elbowed me and said "get a gift voucher". pardon tf? I replaced my watch, and him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 14 | REMINDER: Playing devil's advocate is a social fauxpas, and men who do it are LVI don't even care if they agree. I'm so sick of them being unable to acknowledge what I said and let it go. I'm sick of their knee-jerk disagreeing just because a woman said something. Psychological invalidation is exhausting. Their constant need to challenge everything, turn simple comments into a fight so they can win, dominate, feel manly and powerful is so pathetic. They feel good in the moment, crushing, winning and strutting. Then have a massive pikachu when the abused woman just leaves hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 11:18 PM |
| 13 | REMINDER: Playing devil's advocate is a social fauxpas, and men who do it are LVRight. Our lives are hypothetical to them. Of course they can sip champagne and twirl their moustaches while conversationally masturbating about women's rights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 11:15 PM |
| 29 | To all the women doing the hard work of healing: give yourselves creditIt's why they're obsessed with dying alone. oh well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 39 | #everywoman #isthisok #notallmen #endrapeculture #womendeservebetterI'd lOvE tO gEt cOmpLliMenTs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 56 | A perfect example of how casual the violence against women is in the gaming communityThey think we're NPCs in their game to assist with their character arc and provide lifetime support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 9 | Creating a new feminist theoryThe irony of having to make yourself smaller and censor/juggle your words before they're given to a man who has the power to advance or destroy your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:44 PM |
| 17 | REMINDER: Those "small signs" that you let slide at the beginning of the relationship? Those aren't "nothing" - they are 3-seconds teaser to what's coming.I love asking "Are you mister right, now?" haha. I deserve someone who is a full grown adult and competent partner right now. No more training wheels or struggle bus for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 18 | REMINDER: Those "small signs" that you let slide at the beginning of the relationship? Those aren't "nothing" - they are 3-seconds teaser to what's coming.That's why I love Don Hennessy's book "How he gets into her head". Women are abused because a man targets her for abuse. And the workbook for "How to spot a dangerous man" to figure out why we stay with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 30 | REMINDER: Those "small signs" that you let slide at the beginning of the relationship? Those aren't "nothing" - they are 3-seconds teaser to what's coming.Did we date the same guy? He was useless across the board. Deliberate neglect and withholding to watch me blow up. Punishment for being competent in life and having had more previous relationships than him. We (haha, we) would struggle to get one area of life acceptable (bare minimum, yay) and I'd be like phew. The next week, another area would be so infuriatingly neglected I'd blow up. He'd let the first thing slide and throw me crumbs on issue #2. Next week he'd start being a prick about issue… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 34 | REMINDER: Those "small signs" that you let slide at the beginning of the relationship? Those aren't "nothing" - they are 3-seconds teaser to what's coming.I was always caught up in the drama du jour Exactly. Abusers keep you fixated on these little bits of chum so you don't realise he's in the boat cackling and opening a beer. "If we just fix THIS problem, our relationship will be good" "Whoopsie, I fucked up in a very similar, but plausibly deniable way, my bad:)" "OK, the rule I made last time about not doing that, it covers this form of violation as well" "Oh, ok, thanks for clearing that up, you're so patient with me :)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 38 | REMINDER: Those "small signs" that you let slide at the beginning of the relationship? Those aren't "nothing" - they are 3-seconds teaser to what's coming.Also, people can have a bad day. They don't get to take it out on women. We're not punching bags for the "hardworking menfolk". "You can be angry, you can't be mean". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:19 PM |
| 84 | REMINDER: Those "small signs" that you let slide at the beginning of the relationship? Those aren't "nothing" - they are 3-seconds teaser to what's coming.Not her but I made one on the date lmao I said I was cold and tired at the end of dinner, this asshole picks up his phone and starts browsing for nearby pool halls or bowling alleys to keep me out longer. Old me would have let this massive disregard for my well-being slide and gone along being extremely physically uncomfortable for another 2+ hours just to kEeP a mAn and give him a cHaNcE. New me got up to bounce. He scrambled up to body-block me and imposed a hug on me. Took what he could befor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 10:16 PM |
| 15 | When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each dayThat’s how psychological abuse works. She thinks she just hasn’t found the right combo of words to motivate him and see how much he’s hurting her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:03 PM |
| 154 | REMINDER: Playing devil's advocate is a social fauxpas, and men who do it are LVMen whose entire podcast is dedicated to having "a fair and balanced view" and "let's hear both sides" and giving a platform to devil's advocates for things that do not need advocating, they just want to get away with being sexist, racist, white supremacists or pedophiles, are LVM too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 11:41 AM |
| 294 | girl whatBut he'd be punching himself in the nuts. He lost his golden goose. So illogical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:13 AM |
| 74 | girl whatYeah he does not see her as human. I worry he's got a life insurance out on her for the impending narc rage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Redpill/PUA tactic: breaking the touch barrierhaha escalate to buying me a ring, a house and a car? no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Redpill/PUA tactic: breaking the touch barrieryeah they don't want consent or rejection though.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Redpill/PUA tactic: breaking the touch barrierTrapping me in a booth makes me stabby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:04 AM |
| 6 | Redpill/PUA tactic: breaking the touch barrierYep. All their coercion tactics "work" on abuse victims who freeze or fawn. They're literally activating our survival response by violating us. "You didn't say no" smirked a man who had already shoved his hand between my legs without warning or consent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:01 AM |
| 5 | "I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage"Fingers crossed she's a pedo-hunter collecting evidence for prosecution :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:57 AM |
| 4 | "I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage"Ask yourself "Would I have done that to someone I liked?" "Would I be happy if someone did this to my daughter?" "Would I want my son turning out like this man?" "Would I feel safe leaving our daughter with this man over a weekend?" "Is he doing anything on his own time to address his issues? Am I working harder on this problem than he is?" Going into third person, being objective, and tapping into our protective-for-other instincts really clears up any confusion and benefit of the doubt going o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:56 AM |
| 5 | "I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage"A tactic that's working really well for me is "would I have done that to someone I liked?" and the answer is always Hell No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:51 AM |
| 5 | "I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage"Men will use you, abuse you, and LAUGH AT YOU for letting them/not “choosing a better man” I got DM's and angry comments about my empathy test post from LVM 😂 We're not allowed to choose better men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:38 AM |
| 733 | girl whatIt's unnatural that a woman makes more than a man, she should have been his broodmare on his magical pissed away small salary. I love seeing men get snapped back to reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 05:12 AM |
| 159 | Current guy I’m talking to lied about his height on dating appNo rewards for bad behaviour. Start as you mean to go on. You are now a woman who tolerates lies and by staying with him, he believes you consent to being lied to. "She stayed, being lied to can't be a big deal to her. As long as I 'come clean' she'll forgive all sorts of shit". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 01:18 AM |
| 183 | Always be ruthless, Always be vetting: a reminderBecause they've brainwashed themselves into only being able to get their dick up to photoshopped, filtered, smoothed mannequins on instagram. They have no clue what either sex is supposed to look like at any age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 6 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careThey work once then nothing. Panadol, tramadol, oxycodone, mersyndol, barely took 1 pt off the pain for one day then nothing but nausea and constipation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 31 | Ibu-f*ckin-profen - the difference in male and female medical careMy GP told me to lie and "ham it up" to get proper treatment. I was like, the fuck, I AM in pain, there's nothing to ham up. Why do I need to go above and beyond to get the treatment I should be receiving? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 132 | When men make fun of women who get unwanted attention- like “I’d kill to have a woman hit on me”More like Neg her to lower her self-esteem so she seeks your approval Crowd her to block her in so she can't escape Split her from her friends and keep her isolated Get her drunk so she's incapacitated Increase the sexual touching, harassment and coercion until you complete the rape Pat yourself on the back for your success and boast about it to the men who taught you how to rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:42 PM |
| 85 | What’s with men not giving a damn about birth controlMen have tried to go raw and said "You look clean" as if it's a compliment. Like he trusts me so I should relax. OK so your eyeballs are so technologically advanced you can scan a woman and tell if she has an STD in her blood. How is such a delusional half of the species in charge. (And of course, if they contract an STD, it's all "That fucking bitch") | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 72 | I know there are creative types here. Shall we use this as a writing prompt?He quickly got dressed, pulling his jeans on both legs at once and doing the little jump. After gathering up the children, he paused in the doorway, seeking my approval and praise. "Just taking the kids to the park!" "Ok, thanks, such a good Dad..." He beamed like a golden retriever. I rolled over and texted the pool boy. He was getting his Masters in Astrophysics and could at least string a sentence together while giving me a full body massage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:29 PM |
| 44 | Non-fatal strangulation is an important risk factor for homicide of womenThe venn diagram of "things men like" and "things that 1 woman in 1000 said she might be interested in" is a convenient circle which convinces them it's ok to randomly do to every woman, without asking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:15 PM |
| 34 | Insecure Men Will Destroy RelationshipsRight? They clearly hated me and insisted they loved me. When I pointed out the difference in our treatment of each other and asked if they felt loved, then asked if they thought I felt loved, their brains shut down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:08 PM |
| 42 | Insecure Men Will Destroy RelationshipsOf course they still want a bangmaid So true. My ex was seething all the time about all the women who rejected him, ghosted him, wouldn't "give him a chance", wouldn't acknowledge him in public. Then he also hated me for giving him a chance. Which is it buddy. Do you want women who dislike you to NOT exercise their autonomy by walking away, or do you want a woman to NOT lower her standards and date your ass. Oh right, neither. He wanted all women to desire him so he could do the rejecting. And n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 10:06 PM |
| 22 | What I hate most about reddit.Excuse me. I read a pre-print done by students on an obscure website regarding their non-randomised, non-double-blind study on a group of 13 men who volunteered to have their reddit history analyzed, and it discovered that men are very fucking funny. You need to do your own research. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 32 | What I hate most about reddit.They hate laughing at funny women's jokes and try to stifle themselves. I made an ex laugh so hard he snorted then he immediately stopped, looked horrified and turned red. Like, come on. We were alone in the house. Misogyny is preventing them from living fully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:49 PM |
| 14 | Rules of misogyny: the default is always maleThere are 2 slides, all the men in the comments refer to the baby as 'he'. The OOP made a video game joke where you play the game once, reload and know what to do so you 'run'. They always have to make lame analogies back to their vapid interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:42 PM |
| 11 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"And they're stuck at the 6-year old stage of defying mommy. Flexing their autonomy. If a woman speaks, they feel a surge of disobedience and need to pipe up. Re-assert their separateness, difference and superiority. They don't do it to men. It's yet another form of constant, exhausting chauvinism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 09:33 PM |
| 27 | REMINDER: STAY MADhttps://www.newsweek.com/researchers-say-20-minutes-daily-exercise-can-help-increased-anxiety-due-covid-1668627 Being anxious for long periods is bad for your body. Please care for your self with some nice walks and good sleep :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 07:59 AM |
| 6 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"Yeah that's pretty weak. Dads should be going nuts with excessive enthusiasm for their daughter's accomplishments. I'm sorry he dismissed you like that. It's painful. I suspect a lot of our Dads have C-PTSD or straight up PTSD from Vietnam (my dad's a boomer) https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/12/why-some-people-respond-to-stress-by-falling-asleep/282422/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 07:31 AM |
| 31 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"Like all red flags, it's a good sign he's LVM if they're in a cluster. If he's already acknowledged the incident was annoying and the man's fault and let you wind down on your own, then told you some good news, that's great. If he did it to cut your feelings short and tried to change them for his own benefit, that's LVM. LVM are panicky babies who can't stand mommy being angry with them (or near them). They spiral into a fear of abandonment and need mommy to cheer up immediately to soothe themse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 07:07 AM |
| 36 | How to navigate questions about my family (when No Contact) while dating?Anyone asking about your childhood so soon is an armchair psychologist LVM. Anyone fishing about the strength of your parent's marriage is probably redpilled and they believe in stupid absolutes like "women with divorced or abusive parents are unmarrigable" Yes, you're a family person, you'll be a good mother and spouse in your own family. The first 3 months of dating should be fun and stress free while YOU decide if he's going to be a good husband or father for your children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:53 AM |
| 129 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?"she didn't think of herself as a victim; she was a strong, independent woman who was helping a troubled man" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V1yW5IsnSjo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 01:26 AM |
| 14 | Update to previous post ladies!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VElJhZmoBww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 01:11 AM |
| 207 | Men who are hot/cold and don’t expect you to bail when they go cold...?These types view women as objects they can put on a shelf, or books they can pick up and resume reading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 12:35 AM |
| 285 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"omg yes and the blank stare, shrug, "I don't know what you want me to say" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 134 | What do members of FDS think of the idea of love at first sight?It's pretty safe for men to love at first sight because we're not violent, predatory psychos. Women have a 90/10 chance of falling for an abuser if we don't vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 66 | Foolproof vetting strategy : tell him "a man did something to you"😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:14 PM |
| 52 | I'm tired of hearing about women who take scrotes backIf she loves him, she needs to let him go to fully explore his "curiosity". Wouldn't want to hold him back 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 40 | "I am afraid I will be conned by a psycho man that only reveal his true face after years of marriage"I'm still stunned how women type out 10 red flags and then ask what to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 10:10 PM |
| 33 | OLD and vettingmost men say they want a "good communicator". Most men have a misogyny filter. If a woman is speaking they don't listen. Then they're "blindsided" when she leaves and they blame her for 'not communicating'. They have the delusion that if only she'd communicated well enough, articulately enough, got his attention properly, spoke slowly, but not too condescendingly, if she'd been "serious enough" but not "too emotional", helped him understand basic english and interpersonal concepts, double checke… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 08:52 PM |
| 200 | Do men understand the difference between flirting and being friendly?How are you not packing a bag? His behaviour is terrifying and not normal. This isn't the time to ponder semantics. He's a dangerous, unhinged psycho working himself up to seriously injure you and feel justified about it. Don't be around him and start carrying some easily accessible form of defence like mace or a boxcutter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 09:16 AM |
| 122 | Text: I have a few minutes, Do you want to talk on phone?he’s starting to put less effort already How can he even be putting in LESS effort, his weak ass can't plan a date. Why would you want to keep entertaining him for free? He's a fuckup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 07:21 AM |
| 74 | Text: I have a few minutes, Do you want to talk on phone?Block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 06:59 AM |
| 11 | Been seeing this guy for a few weeks and he does meet a lot of my requirements however he watches porn, a few times a month he says he can get it to zero if i don't like it, it does make me uncomfortable though. Idk should i still give him a chance or find someone who didn't watch to begin with?without being physically aroused - to masturbate, and then go on a journey to find something appealing online, triggering arousal This is so true! They use it like a past-time. When they're stressed or bored. Any slight discomfit to soothe themselves. They view women and orgasming as pacifiers, not an expression of love and intimacy. So many deadbedrooms are created by men who get bored and reach for their wife to soothe themselves, on auto-pilot, trying to jam their dick into her asap before th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 06:31 AM |
| 8 | Been seeing this guy for a few weeks and he does meet a lot of my requirements however he watches porn, a few times a month he says he can get it to zero if i don't like it, it does make me uncomfortable though. Idk should i still give him a chance or find someone who didn't watch to begin with?I will give up only if you have sex with me enough And you'll never know what "enough" means. Every time he asks, probably. Can't ever decline or he's going straight to the porn. 2am boner? Put out or I'm firing up Pornhub. Not really horny but he feels like yanking your leash so you need to slob on his softie for 20 minutes or he's conspicuously taking his phone to the bathroom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 05:34 AM |
| 5 | Facts Dont Care About Feelings: Study reveals men and men alone are worse off when theyre alone or suffer from divorce/breakups. Women are unaffectedWhen men get sick, everyone knows his wife will take care of him. When they get sick and depressed they just expect the wife to drop everything and look after him, they don't even ask. "Why should I pay a therapist, I have you to talk to!" My single friend was diagnosed with an auto-immune disorder and literally no-one suggested she get a man to look after her. Most women with long term illnesses need to break up in order to recover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 05:30 AM |
| 7 | Facts Dont Care About Feelings: Study reveals men and men alone are worse off when theyre alone or suffer from divorce/breakups. Women are unaffectedThey vastly overestimate their contribution around the house and dismiss all the intangibles women bring. Until they're wallowing in filth with scarlet fever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 05:27 AM |
| 50 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meOf course he's willing to pay these tiny, insignificant amounts. He's a gambler. He has a pattern of gambling with his entrepreneurial businesses hoping to win big. But he's failed so much he only knows how to fail. Then because gambling is an addiction, he goes right back to doing the same thing over and over. Even with you. He expects to use this losing strategy (small payments, no real plan, no long-term goal, no real sacrifice, effort or dedication, bail when he fails) and hit the jackpot an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 01:46 AM |
| 66 | Is there a cure for pornsickness?Or older boys will show younger kids. Way too much of this. Teens exposing and grooming pre-teens for coolboy points is abhorrent and criminal. They need to be charged with corrupting a minor the same way pedophiles are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 01:23 AM |
| 377 | Been seeing this guy for a few weeks and he does meet a lot of my requirements however he watches porn, a few times a month he says he can get it to zero if i don't like it, it does make me uncomfortable though. Idk should i still give him a chance or find someone who didn't watch to begin with?Porn use is a deal-breaker. Men lie about how much they use. Multiply anything they say by ten. And no, they can't stop using even when they get regular sex. They over-estimate their willpower and their ability to quit an addiction. They just start crying about how you're controlling their sexuality. Porn is men's first love. HVM choose not to use on their own. They don't negotiate or put conditions on them quitting. "Ok I'll stop if you don't like it" will be held over your head later as someth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 12:21 AM |
| 89 | Is there a cure for pornsickness?Exactly. There are some women who are designated dirty and fuckable, and some who are clean and pure and worthy of respect and love. And they're convinced they can love and respect this magical second category. Right up until they attempt to treat her with love and respect and don't know how. Because they've trained themselves to treat "the ones with vaginas" as sex objects. They "love" this new, shiny, amazing Madonna. But now they want to have sex with her. Uh oh. They don't know how to make l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 22 | Is there a cure for pornsickness?Porn is working as intended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 12:01 AM |
| 144 | Is there a cure for pornsickness?If they used porn while their brains were still growing and their pre-frontal cortex was maturing, I don't believe so. They can never fully become HVM because they won't put in the 100% abstinence and extra effort required to fix the brain damage and unhealthy, objectifying mindset that comes with viewing material where sex+violence gave them massive amounts of pleasure, while poisoning their brains. And most boys do use it when they're at their most horny and curious, teen or pre-teen. So even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 11:28 PM |
| 43 | scrote tried to neg me online, I used his words on himTrolls are sadists. They feel good making other people feel bad. You made a man feel good and I'm against that haha. Keep your energy and keep your power by walking away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 11:02 PM |
| 21 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meHe's a gold-digger. With a dreamy mindset about all the things he's gonna do, but voila, you've come along as his nice, secure safety net so he can fail and bumblefuck as much as he pleases because he knows you're desperate and on a clock. He knows you'll cave and keep eating his shit because you want a baby. You'll keep paying for his mistakes. Probably let him be a SAHD and end up on breakingmom. You've showed your hand and given him too much of the benefit of the doubt, sorry. Next time, prio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 52 | This is what people on reddit consider "heartwarming"-women doing all the emotional and physical labor for men while they have breakdownsSo many posts from women asking how they can help their man with this and that. I'm like. What's he doing? What books is he reading? What's he discussing with his friends, what forums is he asking for help on? Or is he sitting on the couch blissfully awaiting the solution from wifey on a silver platter, which he has the authority to reject as "too hard". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 10:08 PM |
| 47 | Men discuss heartache on Reddit’s relationship forum more than women, study finds… but we’re the ones who are missing out. Suuuure.Doubt. Reddit is so heavily moderated to remove anything that displays the pattern of bad behaviour from men, and amplifies 'evil' women. Women's posts detailing abuse are removed a lot. Probably because she gets the very good advice to involve the police. Can't have other readers getting ideas. And women delete their own posts out of shame at how duped they've been, or straight up terror that their abusive partner will find it because he's monitoring her. Men's heartache : she won't tell me why… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 10:03 PM |
| 323 | Have you noticed there are more snoring men than women?Every guy I've dated snores like an avalanche. They also insist they don't snore and are shocked by the video I provide on my way out. Fuck that noise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Men Double Textinghaha I entertained a douche like this for one day too many. I said "we're not compatible" and he was shook. "You're not even going to give me a chance????" Sir. I gave you a chance, you blew it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Men Double Textingomg if he really thought you fell asleep why would he make your phone ping to wake you up? What an asshole. Waking me up is justifiable homicide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 09:27 AM |
| 4 | Men Double TextingExactly. I double text random shit. Men's follow-ups are passive aggressive punishments and belligerence. They're so emotional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Men Double TextingIf he can't even give someone the benefit of the doubt, then that's his problem. When he's away, he's super busy and we need to chill, and trust him. When we're away, apparently we're whoring up a storm all over town and they have the right to feel betrayed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 09:23 AM |
| 117 | Dude needs therapyExactly. When a man fixates on something, he's on high alert and he'll accuse you of it no matter what. Be aware of what they type, ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 07:31 AM |
| 28 | Interpreting a scrote's sad taleLike, did it not occur to him that she might want to USE her degree? Right? So dismissive and condescending. Like "fine, get your silly little degree" like it's in Quickbooks or Pottery, just a phase, a whim, and then she can get back to her important life's work, spawning his legacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 06:17 AM |
| 43 | This 4chan story is fake AF, but if there’s even a grain of truth in it, good on the ex-gf on leveling up!How good's free advertising. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 06:09 AM |
| 69 | why YOU have a belly, but influencers DON'T (feel like women need to hear this more often. were expected to have certain kind of body when biologically our bodies are not made to be that way)we come to see that as “the norm” when nothing else is represented with any frequency. Gymshark is the WORST. They use one type of woman as free advertising for their brand and only feature them on their feed. Anyone with a normal body who buys their clothing and begins working out gets decimated by men who had been using the photos of the skinny influencers as "technically not porn" fap material. Men who are now disgusted to see a normal body. And women who are discouraged from working out. Why… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 06:07 AM |
| 45 | Have your first impressions of men been accurate?Oh yeah he was a long term, chronic porn addict. As are a lot of middle-aged men. They've had plenty of time to rot their souls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 12:52 AM |
| 18 | Looking the same after babiesExactly! 14 year olds are terrible for fertility. One or the other is going to die, or it will be premature to fit out of her undeveloped body. Single moms over 25 are perfect. Proven birth, fully grown and not married 😂 Men are illogical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 12:51 AM |
| 371 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!Those are all redpill/PUA rape tactics. Thank god he was a clumsy buffoon. FDS saving lives. I explained that I had to move once because an ex knew where I lived and kept stalking me. No need to explain. If a man pushes for your address, hold your hand up and say STOP. Telling a man what someone else has done to you paints you as "someone who gets stalked" and they think "game on". You did wonderfully to clock him and protect yourself. I'm proud of you for staying sober and sticking to your boun… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:38 PM |
| 68 | Have your first impressions of men been accurate?People's feet turn towards what they like. If another woman walks up to you both and his foot turns to her.... If you find your feet pointing to the exit.. or your posture hunched, or your hands over your abdomen guarding yourself... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 87 | Have your first impressions of men been accurate?I know what you mean! Extroverts and attention seeking men are so loud. At first I liked my ex because he was so quiet and imperceptible. Then I came to realise he has no soul. He wasn't there at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:31 PM |
| 33 | Victims of domestic abuse find no haven in family courts (Men are not victims in family court. any male saying this nonsense is not someone you want to be with. Basic standard should be alimony for women and child support for children is good thing. )The only time I agree "men need more shelters" is so abusive men can be promptly removed from the home and the woman and children have a safe, comfortable place to live. He can still go to work to start paying child support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:24 PM |
| 60 | Stupid rant about Kim & KanyeShe won't take him back so he bought the house across the street. Unhinged stalker who needs to be locked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | "When can I do 50/50 with a man?" - How about NEVER?When they actually make crash test dummies of women. When they make tools and phones so women can hold them. When they make stab and bullet vests for women. on and on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:15 PM |
| 23 | Looking the same after babiesWe totally need retreats for new mothers where they can actually relax and bond and walk around with no shirt on while they heal and learn to breastfeed in a loving environment. Need some ideas for names! Womb with a view The Placentre Lactation Station Post-partum Vacation The Fourth Trimester Sequester Post Incubation Lactation Education Relaxation Vacation. PILERV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:10 PM |
| 7 | Looking the same after babieshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Azp5KT-KnrE Stephanie Lange blasts a ton of myths and the pressures on women, I love her. Celebrities usually have the same body type - long torso - which holds the baby better and causes less changes. Or they straight up fake the whole pregnancy and get a surrogate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 31 | Looking the same after babiesSo well said. It's why abusers ramp up during pregnancy and post-partum. They lose her full attention and they know they're not our superiors. We create life. They exist nearby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 09:54 PM |
| 25 | Hearing about scrotes everywhere I goI want to guess child abuse, poverty or neglect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 09:58 AM |
| 113 | Men Double TextingLOL wow. And it's not even real introspection or thinking about what they did wrong with "did I say something?" It's "get back here and read my message and tell me I didn't do anything wrong, and apologize for ignoring me". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 03:24 AM |
| 394 | Men Double TextingI've experienced so much of this pure selfishness when texting. I have to respond immediately during the hour they have free to text, but I have to shut the fuck up when they're busy. Some dude was double and triple texting me my name as I was typing my response on an app where it has "..." for a person typing. So frantic and bizarre. Then he went off to take a phone call so I kept doing my thing. Then when he came back he spammed up a storm. Hello?? I'm back. Are you there?? I haven't lost you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 02:59 AM |
| 22 | Dating 'travellers' and the VisaIt's an anti-inbreeding drive to want "men from another village". If she won't listen, I guess sit back and watch the train-wreck unfold as she makes a baby with him and he scoots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:53 AM |
| 176 | This ZV Canadian politician put his ineptitude on blast for the entire world to see.She was probably hoping to have a heart attack out there to get away from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:23 PM |
| 212 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayRight? 10 relationshits in a row for me, and countless wankers on OLD apps. But not all men. It's me and my picker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 125 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayHe consented lol. Now he's crying morning-after regret. He doesn't want everyone to know he's a slut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:20 PM |
| 51 | Trigger warning!!Please protect your private information ladies! This scrote ordered a hit on a woman be met online!!!He agreed to pay the detective $100 for gas money and $2,000 once the rape was completed. On January 5, Mann sent the detective $75 through Zelle for “miscellaneous” expenses. Sorry but this had me cracking up. They balk at buying dinner but send their bros a rape allowance.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 09:58 PM |
| -2 | R*pe by deception is seen as normal by men in the comments.pretend you’re just looking for sex That's the deceit. That's not informed consent. If she said nothing and he stealthed her or whinged until he went raw, that's on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:19 AM |
| 68 | The absolute audacity of some of these men. Could you imagine telling your partner that you are taking a three month break from being a spouse and a parent?Men never grow out of that "this is the worst thing to happen to me" phase that children go through. Every minor discomfort feels like the end of the world and he needs instant external coddling and soothing or he simply can't think straight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 09:24 PM |
| 93 | To the men and Libfems who think we've reached the point where 50/50 is fair....Like men being unable to get into college or graduate. Suddenly they're not in fact too stupid to succeed, they're brilliant! College is too expensive and pointless anyway! The future is college-less! We're post-college! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 09:19 PM |
| 27 | Stay at home dads vs stay at home mumsI'm not taking baby-making tips from a virgin 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 09:12 PM |
| 35 | Stay at home dads vs stay at home mumsThey know how to clean after they murder their wives... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 09:10 PM |
| 47 | Stay at home dads vs stay at home mumsOr that asshole who taught his kid to say his mother's first name to get her attention because he couldn't handle being a parent for 3 days and made her shut down her entire business and fire every one of her employees. I would have fired the husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 09:09 PM |
| 66 | Stay at home dads vs stay at home mumsThat's exactly what they do. Give the kids whatever they want to make them "happy" and revel in the excited squeals, then claim they're doing a good job. When mom says no, takes a device away, sets a boundary or attempts to discipline, the kid has a meltdown, and Smuggy McFucko can beam and say "they're never like that with me:)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Stay at home dads vs stay at home mumsIf the men are actually 100% the full time carer and mom never does anything at all, I guarantee those kids are coming out emotionally immature and probably with scurvy. But they're not, so we know mom does more than half of the actual child-rearing. SAHDs just mind the shop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 10:36 AM |
| 54 | FDS haikus for your entertainment and viewing pleasureDrained my energy Parasite, freeloader, leech Go eat some veggies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 12:49 AM |
| 50 | R*pe by deception is seen as normal by men in the comments.That's just as deceitful, he didn't consent to making a human, come on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 62 | How to tell the difference between love bombing and a man being into youLove-bombing can't be sustained. If it's always fabulous, grandiose, overwhelming and too much, and you can't see yourself doing this for a year straight, it's bombing. It quickly twists into future-faking. He's 'proven' he can do grandiose things, so you believe all the wonderful things he promises and you get the same brain reaction as if he had done them, because you believe him and trust him. You'll be sitting on his couch while he just talks and talks about all the amazing things you're goi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 10:04 PM |
| 43 | More Women Should Snoop. : "Ex-wife found out husband had secret life when he was arrested for fiancee's murder"Letting her be free means actually caring about her feelings. Also they don't want to pay alimony. They want the money to spend on the next vagina. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 09:39 PM |
| 28 | "Daddy issues"Any male who's ever used the term AMOG has daddy issues lol. They all want daddy's approval so bad. Toxic men love women with deadbeat dads if she turns out promiscuous or seeks male validation over self-protection. No-one likes males with daddy issues, they're a threat to society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 09:37 PM |
| 28 | I prefer men to have the emotional strength to call out their fellow men, thanks"I would totally protect us from a gang of thieves about to mug us" knowing that would never happen and he's safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 09:23 PM |
| 17 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮The men would set up martial law to stop it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 09:19 PM |
| 33 | Red Flag: Men with feminine voices.I dated a guy with a moderately deep voice but when he laughed it was a shrill cackle and nasally at the same time. I was so startled he took one look at my expression and straight up left the cafe. I can't be with a man with a terrible laugh because I'm so hilarious 🤷♀️ It wouldn't work out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 09:03 PM |
| 160 | A guy in a FB video who may or may not be a doctor just said that one of the 3 main signs a girl has autism is that she doesn't want hugs and kisses and-We're being called Karen. Whereas a man who screams and loses his shit on a customer service rep is called Sir. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 11:18 AM |
| 48 | Reminder: Take Up Space! Use Your Voice!https://nypost.com/2021/12/07/covid-19-spread-more-by-men-loud-talkers-study/ I'd laugh but.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 05:17 AM |
| 84 | Does anyone else want a long-term partner, but also doesn’t want to live with them?I keep finding men who want to sleep with a leg on top of me like I'm a waifu pillow. They get so sad when I'm upfront about needing to sleep alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 11:26 PM |
| 31 | Does anyone else want a long-term partner, but also doesn’t want to live with them?Yes! I saw a great W shaped house with 2 bedrooms with adjoining home offices, and the kitchen/lounge/fireplace was in the middle. Glorious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 11:24 PM |
| 448 | Never stop vetting! Even after being faithful to your partner for 8 years, he could still think that he can do better and want to bang other women. Scrotes like this just want to get their dick wet and are never satisfied no matter how spectacular their gf is.God I hope he tries dating apps 😂 and sis finds someone who likes her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 08:36 AM |
| 160 | Ex-boyfriend won't stop texting me 2+ years after breakupYes. Text him "This relationship is over. Do not contact me again. Any further messages will be considered harassment and I will involve the police" and then leave him unblocked but turn notifications off to collect the ensuing death threats for the restraining order. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 02:18 AM |
| 136 | Count the red flags! What happens when you set boundaries with a narcissistHe feels drained by doing basic household chores.. taking the trash out, moving the lawn... and acts as if it's a favor to you and counts as relationship building acts of love? Giving you footrubs (let me guess, greedy physical attention, not energizing touch?) And he's exhausted by this less than bare minimum! This explains so much hahaha. They think it's so much and you're so ungrateful and it's... 2 minutes of work and not even displaying love. WOOOW. "I'm not an angry guy 😡😡😡😡" "At the end o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 11:04 PM |
| 61 | Tired of the men obsessed with women “reciprocating”And if you try to pull that mid-relationship with a parasite, he has the nerve to say "well if I'm not going to get what I want, I'm going to move on" So that's my motto now :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 10:33 PM |
| 139 | Tired of the men obsessed with women “reciprocating”90% of the act is Love. The fact you made him food makes him feel cared for. It's not about the food at all. Which is why when it's the man's turn to cook and he gives us fast food instead, we get upset. Then they get defensive and sulky because technically they got us food, right? But they didn't care for us. They don't care about us. They didn't spend time and effort and love creating the food for us. When men say they love us, they mean they feel loved from all we do for them. They don't love… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 10:30 PM |
| 141 | The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasyExactly! "I'm not ready to settle down yet, I'm sowing my wild oats" says mister irresponsible horndog from 20-30 And then it's "well you ladies should have settled down in your prime at 20, you didn't want me at your best, you don't get me at my financial best" OK who is this pool of promiscuous women you wanted to fuck around with? Do they really expect 20 year olds to commit to dried up community dick 30 year olds? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 10:21 PM |
| 8 | Men wonder why they aren't able to be included in our discussionsLiterally everything, to our detriment! https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/feb/23/truth-world-built-for-men-car-crashes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Dating FDS tipsIf you're dumping LVM that's great :) I found myself in a series of 3 month short-term relationships, that's about the time it takes to get to know if a man is a decent person and competent boyfriend. It's why I agree with dating or preferably getting to know men in a neutral setting for 3 months before dating/having sex. I found them all to be seriously unlikeable with zero relationship skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 09:33 PM |
| 295 | "Women 32% more likely to die after operation by male surgeon, study reveals" I am lost for words...The Royal College of Surgeons of England said the findings were “interesting. Much more detailed research is required looking at communication, trust and doctor-patient relationships.” lol coMmuNiCate, just trust him. Or teach men not to be misogynistic, and sanction doctors with shitty patient outcomes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 09:23 PM |
| 86 | Is this turning into a texting situationship?Ignore downvotes, scrotes mad. I think it's in the book "Not your mother's rules" which adds more tips for advanced technology like cell phones and fax machines in the modern day 😄 Go about your life. Get your phone out of your hand. Don't be available. Don't reply immediately. He's got you tethered and he's being constantly rewarded because you reply. He knows you're tucked up safe and responding to him. He doesn't have to wonder where you are or who you're seeing. He's not getting a shot of do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 40 | They’re “not in a relationship” but “exclusive” after 6 months of dating 🚩🤡and it turns out he’s a creep and a liarThe state of middle aged men these days is a crime. Some can be so leathery and melted they look +10. Some can actually eat clean and use sunblock for more than 1 day and look -5 I have no idea what a man is meant to look like at each age anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 08:45 PM |
| 56 | Dating FDS tipsAll the info in the categories on dating apps should be clearly viewable and up-front. Age, height, weight (or clear, recent photo of body), marital status, what he's looking for, does he have kids, does he want kids. Smoker, drinker, weed, diet. Education, employment, religion. Current residential location (at least the city/county/state he's in). If he hasn't filled any of these out, either he knows he's undesirable, or he's ready to lie to catch any woman he can once he finds out what she wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:11 AM |
| 37 | Pretty Privilege is Real, But False and Fleeting.Men make women responsible for their behavior! So much. Steve Harvey confidently mansplained to Gail King that women have ALLOWED him to behave badly. So she confidently crushed him and asked why he's a jerk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 01:58 AM |
| 57 | I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchy"Let's look to my childhood for a good EXCUSE as to why I abuse, so I can keep doing it:)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 66 | I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchyThat they’re literally looking for a mommy replacement. Wild how they all blame single mothers. The parent who stayed and nurtured them. It's the deadbeat dad's fault for not teaching them how to grow into a full adult human and get off mommy's teat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 10:44 PM |
| 101 | Pretty Privilege is Real, But False and Fleeting.when you’re doing something for their dicks you have value to them so they treat you like a human. This isn't true at all. Beautiful women with no boundaries or standards get treated the absolute worst by abusive scrotes. I don't believe men treat women as human. I believe they all try some shit to start, but the women with boundaries make it known they won't tolerate it, so the men learn to act right because of the consequences. They still don't respect women. It just looks like that because th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 10:39 PM |
| 60 | Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags.Don't save drowning men. They'll stand on your head then both of you die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:55 PM |
| 266 | Men's reactions to having their lies exposed"But you wouldn't have dated me if you knew I was a chronic, long-term porn addict" EXACTLY I have the right to reject you for that. You don't have the right to violate my boundaries and disregard my wishes. You don't get to prevent me from being with a man I do want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:51 PM |
| 161 | My sister is dating a guy who lied about having kids, thoughts?It means he's ok denying the existence of humans he created, he's a giant piece of shit. She's "ok" with it because she has no standards doesn't know how to set or enforce a boundary (no liars) settled for some other reason - this is the best she can get and now that he knows she'll eat shit, he'll feed her more shit. Men have zero respect for women who fall for their lies (even though they lie specifically to get a woman to fall for it 😩) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 172 | Age Gap Gross OutI was out for a late walk a few years ago and a group of young men were approaching. I braced for aggressive cat-calling but they were sweet and polite, jostling to get off the path for me. I realised they were high-schoolers and all my thoughts were "where are their parents, why are they out so late on a school night?" not "aw yis which one of these young hotties is a sexual opportunity for me? Which tactic should I use to extract a phone number? They all exist to make my night better, give us … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:07 PM |
| 36 | Being polite to a faultSo true. Having the bare minimum of empathy and social skills makes them light up. "She really gets me!". No sir, I can read facial expressions on everyone... it's a human skill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:00 PM |
| 73 | Why she doesn't care for him during sex...It looks like a thousand other posts on that sub. All have the same format. Man vastly over-exaggerates his contributions, minimizes his shit behaviour, blames it all on the woman and her mysterious low libido, who is now labelled a sex-denying harpy, but he won't leave someone so clearly incompatible, that he doesn't even like, but he's still trying to fix this 'broken appliance that won't give sex'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:53 PM |
| 14 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerI'm up north and it's summer (and every summer) and they're pasty! Just.. how. I go beige walking to the shops one time. I doubt they're using sunblock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:19 AM |
| 100 | 8 Signs of a Low Value ManThe rich and famous men are the worst predators lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 12:18 AM |
| 19 | Criticism & MenLVM only know how to escalate and dominate to re-establish themselves as the top of the hierarchy to soothe their bruised ego. If you 'attack' them, they need to lash out to get back on top. Hence, the majority of cops being rubbish and needing to be fired and replaced with people who don't flip their shit when they're not immediately obeyed. If you're with a man who has displeased you or fucked up and you make a direct statement, eg. "I don't like that, don't do it again" or "You did this, I'd … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 09:47 PM |
| 40 | Early warning signs to spot "avoidants" and... avoid them?It's the out of control inconsistency. Being consistently reserved and wary is fine. Avoidants have a childhood wound that makes them feel smothered when they get too close. Usually an absent or unreliable parent that put them through the hope-abandonment-hope cycle. They become walled off to protect themselves. Hoping hurts. They're alone for a while, feel the normal need for connection, start up some shit with a woman, go overboard with love-bombing because they don't know how to grow a relati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 09:05 PM |
| 53 | This should be how women approach sex. If he can’t make you orgasm he can’t get access. 💅🏾👑It's usually the man causing the anxiety and depression. The meds won't work while the source is still there. Of course she can't orgasm with him while she's not relaxed. It's not the meds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 08:57 PM |
| 61 | Man tries to challenge my standards when I say walks are not datesBecause then she can stare at his face and realise what an awkward pornsick loser who can't make eye-contact with women he is. Walking dates are side by side and he can hide his face. These men don't want to know us or get to be known. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 08:47 PM |
| 200 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.During a pandemic? Dude's a serial super-spreader. Pun not intended. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 06:46 AM |
| 115 | [deleted by user]He's so weak I thought he was going to snap his back picking her up. This is not your sign guys. Don't go for the girl. Just stop. Go to the gym. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 10:46 PM |
| 35 | Having a relationship start from a hook up is not the flex you think it isI had a match confess he just wanted sex with an attractive woman to make himself feel better after his break-up. He forgot he was speaking to a person. The person he had just been lying to about wanting a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Men that are still parenting step-kids after their divorce?Not being a deadbeat is fine. He has an emotional support harem though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 09:48 PM |
| 41 | OLD profiles and effortThis! These "so, entertain me!!!" openers are greedy and lazy af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 02:29 AM |
| 14 | So he’s too “busy” to date, but not too busy to use you for sex? 🤔Keep an eye on his schedule and availability. If he's out the gate with excuses and "too busy", he's too busy to date, he's too busy to have a relationship with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:05 PM |
| 14 | How should a man act with female co workers?Is it about personal or emotional topics that he's not sharing with you? - emotional affair material. Would he blow up if you started behaving with a male co-worker like that? They should respect each other's boundaries and home lives and not message 'off the clock'. If he's giggling at texts over family dinner wtf. 'Work related gossip' absolutely not. If it's regarding a project and everyone's ok with them discussing ideas as they think of them, sure. Maybe, maaaaybe, if my husband was a polic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 05:38 AM |
| 34 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Man with unhinged ranting, devaluing of women and threats to replace us with robots wonders why birth rates are falling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:59 PM |
| 47 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Laying on my back receiving oral is exactly how I orgasm, why wouldn't I starfish? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:57 PM |
| 77 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Bu then he lists exactly what it takes to make women enthusiastic 🤯 It's the stuff WE LIKE duh. Why would we be enthusiastic about painful, degrading and pointless things that only pleasure a pornsick male? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:54 PM |
| 95 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭Men enjoy competition. He's so incapable of empathy he doesn't even know women don't like competing. If a robot is taking the nasty jobs for us we don't care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:51 PM |
| 14 | Look, he'll have breakfast with you if you cook him dinner!6' active cancer. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:35 PM |
| 45 | Check your male relatives; they might not support you in your time of needThey mean "men first". To them, it's outrageous to cut a man off from the supply of sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 11:19 PM |
| 165 | Stalking storiesWhen men are stalking, the (male) audience is rooting for him to get the girl, and yelling at the woman to stop being dumb and get better at avoiding him, or do the 'right' thing to keep herself safe and make him go away, let him down gently, be firmer in her multiple "no" messages. When a woman is stalking, suddenly everyone knows what consent, autonomy, boundaries and unwanted attention is, and are yelling at the woman to take a hint and leave him alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:24 AM |
| 417 | If you found yourself starting to NAG your man - LEAVE.I don't remind men. I replace them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:02 AM |
| 50 | Do older ( 40+ ) HVM exist? And how do I find them?They all seem to be divorced (for good reason) with kids under 20. Or long-term playas with no relationship skills. Or long term professionals with minimal relationship skills. I'm childfree, I don't want to raise a 40 year old man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:19 PM |
| 21 | AITA cringe age-gap but the comments are telling her to wake up, dump him, grow upI read it as "so this is why dad's been keeping her from me, she's a child". How do you keep a straight face while feeling immense disgust for your father and not wanting to let the anger leak out towards the woman and scare her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:12 PM |
| 75 | Dating Downhttps://i.imgur.com/WESViKz.jpg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 10:07 PM |
| 99 | Paying on dates, are we discouraged to go 50/50 on just the first date or first few dates?If you like him, let him pay. HVM love it. If he leans back and lets you pay for both, he's LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 11:33 AM |
| 13 | Should I be expecting more from him..?Why isn't he on the internet asking how he can sort out these logistics. Your head is in the clouds. Focus on your schooling and stop letting this nonsense distract you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 08:16 AM |
| 145 | How soon is too soon to go to a man's homeYou may not intend to, but he will. Only go to a man's house on the day you want sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 08:12 AM |
| 8 | Are there red flags in this conversation? Are there signs of a potential LVM here or is this a candidate for HVM?he's been working on his "exit" for quite a while. If he wanted to, he would. Dude needs to go to LinkedIn, and she needs to be single for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 07:11 AM |
| 21 | Are there red flags in this conversation? Are there signs of a potential LVM here or is this a candidate for HVM?If you're planning to start an intimate relationship and lure someone into a business venture and plan on world domination with headquarters in 3 countries, wouldn't you have specific plans and be able to give direct answers? You're asking someone to upend their entire life and rely on the success of the business for survival. Money = food and shelter. He's blasé and lacks concern for her future well-being. He has no concrete plans, it's all childish daydreaming. I just hate evasive non-answers … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 06:59 AM |
| 36 | Are there red flags in this conversation? Are there signs of a potential LVM here or is this a candidate for HVM?yeah oof. he's that old and still wishy washy about his career, about to quit his job and do non-specific stuff with no business plan or skills? Neither of them are stable. Neither of them should be dating. She needs to find a new method of improving her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 06:38 AM |
| 36 | Are there red flags in this conversation? Are there signs of a potential LVM here or is this a candidate for HVM?Vague things : corporate career pursue my own business business empire exploring a few industries networking and learning where I can exit into conduct my market research full time access to industry accrue capital and influence to empower others maximize the positive impact passion to drive change for good his vices are non specific like.. how exactly are any of those bad, what impact do they have on his life people should change as life re-prioritizes itself behaviours may change to reflect th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 06:29 AM |
| 22 | How does gift-giving go when you are a plus one to a wedding?If I've been with a guy for less than 6 months and no-one believes / it's not known we're an established couple, then I wouldn't sign. Things could go bad and everyone's like "who is this". And he has a new girlfriend a week later. If I've been with a guy longer than that and have met and become friends with the baby shower/wedding couple in question then I'd sign and pay half and it would be from both of us. Sounds like you're a companion to the event so far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:58 AM |
| 49 | Are there red flags in this conversation? Are there signs of a potential LVM here or is this a candidate for HVM?Added more detail. He's definitely seeing how bad her life is, how much shit she's eating, and how much shit she'll eat from him and his empty promises. He's a fuckboi about to pump and dump her, or dive straight into the abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:52 AM |
| 84 | How does gift-giving go when you are a plus one to a wedding?If he's the guest and the friend, then he should pay. Lmao imagine asking a woman to subsidize the gift to his friends. You just show up. You don't know them do you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:31 AM |
| 68 | Are there red flags in this conversation? Are there signs of a potential LVM here or is this a candidate for HVM?NVM, liar, future-faker, grandiose delusions, love-bombing, shit-testing, and collecting trauma ammo and her low standards. He opened with a cheesy "take my hand", together we can conquer the world, already forced teaming (see Gift of Fear). "pivoted" 🤮 "cure for covid" delusions, this douche is in econ and sales, not microbiology or virology. "so WE can get you out for OUR first date" more teaming. She complains, he digs for trauma - why don't you like it there, what are people doing to you, wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:29 AM |
| 45 | Is it a red flag if he makes a comment about the Uber being expensive?Yes he's cheap and gross and wanted a free escort delivered to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:23 AM |
| 176 | I'm shocked that I'm not alone in this. (TW, sexual coercion)They can have a high libido for sitting still and either jerking themselves, or being masturbated by a live sex doll. None of them have a high libido for giving women 5 massages and oral sex every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:38 PM |
| 50 | I'm shocked that I'm not alone in this. (TW, sexual coercion)It's a porn category. Teenage fantasy of being woken up by a hot woman who can't get enough of his gross dick. Basically a wet dream come to life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:37 PM |
| 44 | Can we hear your LVM break up stories?They get told since they're little boys to dream big, men are the ones who make things happen, don't let anything stop you, you can do anything, you can have any life you want. So they start believing that any plan in their head is actually going to happen. "I've had the idea so I'm 90% done!" Then their thoughts get turned into memories or some weird shit. They really think it happened and it counts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:23 PM |
| 11 | The Porn MachineThere's an alarming number of 3 year old girls going missing in America this past month... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:14 PM |
| 40 | Man in a hetero relationship doesn't do housework -> solution = "get a cleaner!!!!"Men's leisure time is built on the backs of women's labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:11 PM |
| 53 | Man in a hetero relationship doesn't do housework -> solution = "get a cleaner!!!!"Right. It fires up his competition and incompetence. Watching a woman sparks nothing but status quo, superiority and dominance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:08 PM |
| 11 | Beware of 'moody' menI don't get their 'logic' either. They're currently IN a relationship and getting sex. So they destroy it so they can be single and .. not get sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:02 PM |
| 7 | Beware of 'moody' menI could have raised an actual child and they'd be in college by now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 11:00 PM |
| 13 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysThese types want a clone of themsevles, with a vagina. Turns out he can go fuck himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:55 PM |
| 69 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysdoesn’t take life seriously "Doesn't plan, doesn't anticipate accidents, doesn't check the weather, doesn't pack enough equipment, fucks up the day and expects the woman to save him then crows how it all turned out all right, falls of a cliff and needs to get basket-lifted by the SES" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:54 PM |
| 19 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysWe're heading hard towards a population demographic of an inverted triangle. Their old asses will be crying for attentive nurses in the dementia ward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:52 PM |
| 4 | It’s just me or you also find man cave a bull$hit ?They were popular when 4 bedroom homes were the norm, but people started having 2 kids, so he'd take the 3rd bedroom. Anything built from say, the 50's to 2008. Around mid 90's as electronics and staying inside boomed, house shapes seemed to switch to these sprawling open plan things with living, lounge, dining, media, study and "parent's retreat". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:44 PM |
| 129 | I just walked out of my dad's houseDon't apologize. He'll take it and not reciprocate. He'll take it as proof that he was right and you're hysterical. You leaving was a consequence of his shitty actions. There's nothing to be sorry for and it's not rude to stand up for yourself against his low effort, careless treatment. Demand that his apology be as loud as his disrespect was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 09:53 AM |
| 17 | Men are incapable of being honest even for the purposes of peeingMerry Christmas :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:31 AM |
| 81 | Men are incapable of being honest even for the purposes of peeingThere are thousands of micropeens on reddit, hopefully someone will thrust themselves 1cm into my DMs to explain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:27 AM |
| 108 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himI'm just imagining him up at a whiteboard easel writing down ideas being shouted by people at a conference table, but he's crossing each of them out for ridiculous reasons. "Wash dishes? Can't do that. Next!" Like an episode of House but they're doing a differential diagnosis on the death of his marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:25 AM |
| 245 | Men that push for 50/50 still don’t realize that dating has become a ladies’ market in 2021, with Tinder being 78% male / 22% female and Bumble & Hinge being 65% male / 35% female. Men outnumber women 4-to-1 on Tinder and 3-to-1 on Bumble/Hinge.Sir, you get one match a month. Be grateful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:19 AM |
| 64 | Men are incapable of being honest even for the purposes of peeingsize of my thumb 😩 dudes aren't pissing with a boner though. I can't imagine the toilette logistics with a button mushroom. Like, does one tilt one's hips forward? Put his hand up to deflect the piss back down? Straddle the seat backwards? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:18 AM |
| 114 | Men are incapable of being honest even for the purposes of peeingomg I dated a guy with a micropenis. It was basically an acorn when flaccid. TWICE he spent about 30 minutes in the men's room because I guess he needs to sit to pee and can't use the urinal. Also doesn't want to get looked at I suppose. He comes out all huffing and clearly lying about the huuuge long queue, sorry it took so long. Here's me looking around the completely empty restaurant we were at where I had seen maybe one man walking anywhere near the men's room... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:11 AM |
| 55 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himI'm cracking up at the image of him on his back on the kitchen tiles with his wife holding a jar of peanut butter for the pill, and she's pinching his nose shut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 05:21 AM |
| 36 | Things like this are becoming more and more common. Squeeze in the wrong area of the neck and she easily could have gotten real brain damage (from the lack of oxygen). Be careful out there ladies.Let me tell you about this guy... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 04:03 AM |
| 1120 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himHi guys. My wife has told me exactly what she needed for years and I won't do it. I know exactly what my kids need, but I won't do it. I want to keep my wife on a short leash so she can't leave me so I want to drag her to counselling with me, even though I'm the only one who needs it hahah. But I probably won't do what the counsellor says. Now it's your turn guys! Let's spitball some more ideas for things I won't do! Then in January when the natural consequences for my actions bite me in the ass… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 01:25 AM |
| 66 | and another thing on not ever dating single fathersThey mean they're not going to pay for another man's kids. The only way they'll (begrudgingly) shell out cash is if they got into a woman's vagina first and were the ones to impregnate her, only then will they give a shit about the resulting human beings. They hate the idea of being 'cucked'. They hate the idea of being the beta-bucks for her first choice, the alpha-fucks she actually had sexual desire for. The idea of raising humans to be decent, moral, kind, strong and resilient adults isn't e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 11:00 PM |
| 14 | This Woman's Date Sent Her Home In An Uber — He Was "Too Embarrassed To Be Seen With Me" In The Outfit I Was Wearing... At least she broke up with him immediately!Nikki knew the relationship was over for her because he had tried to dictate her appearance before. "For a couple of weeks, he had been making small comments about my clothing and makeup, which eventually turned into suggestions. Seemingly genuine compliments of 'you look so much prettier without makeup' turned into 'I like you better without makeup' and then those turned into 'you don’t need to put on makeup tonight.'" Escalating coercive control yoooooo. He wasn't "too embarrassed to be seen w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 44 | Anyone else getting these Peyronie's ads? Hope every man who's body shamed women gets a body positivity "My curves don't define me" ad. 😂I've seen way more comments in the manosphere about their delusional belief that women have desensitized their clits with high-speed vibrators and that's why men can no longer get them off. giggle. ok guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:41 PM |
| 25 | Anyone else getting these Peyronie's ads? Hope every man who's body shamed women gets a body positivity "My curves don't define me" ad. 😂Slowly washing the dishes, staring out the window, waiting for the kid's bus to bring them the 50 miles home from school because her husband isolated her on this farm so he could stay in his apartment in town all week with his mistress and cocaine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:39 PM |
| 97 | The OP was a man bragging about six babymamas and not paying child supportYeah I'm going to pass on "doing 100 different things that harm me" just to get more 'life experience'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:34 PM |
| 28 | ever been shamed? a case for being shameless/shame-less... it is, after all, externally imposedMen have repeatedly used shame on me to excise anything about my personality they don't like, such as being very chatty and passionate about whatever I'm talking about. Or to stop me doing whatever it is that's making them feel ashamed of being incompetent, lazy, stupid and worthless. They want me to be happy and perky, but only about their dumbshit interests like sports. They want me to clean, but not too fast or efficiently to make them feel bad. Doesn't work, my guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:33 PM |
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