Great youtube from a HVM showing how gross child predators are. Gets very graphic as he reads out the texts men have sent him as he poses as an underage child. He's been dealing with predators for years so if you find his laughter weird, it's the coping mechanism for the utterly gross things he has to deal with.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gxjYqzOWDM
Got me thinking how pedos/predators are all the same, use the same grooming tactics, same phrases, and don't give a shit about hurting the victim. They're repeat offenders. You're not the first and you won't be the last until he's stopped. They care about “getting in trouble” but no fucks given about the damage that raping young girls or using/abusing women will do. They don't want the consequences for what they know is illegal or traumatizing. mindblowing.
I'm seeing the same tactics from men on OLD apps as he's describing and witnessing from predators (he reads out their texts in several other videos, they're horrific when you remember the predators believe they're talking to underage girls).
Tactic - thrusting sexual content to see how you react
Unsolicited dick pics. Grown men acknowledge this tactic, they're looking for women it “works on”. Never mind they're traumatizing the girls/women it doesn't work on.
Tactic – vagueness for plausible deniability and boundary pushing
Pedo – starts out with things like 'naughty' and 'we should hang out' to see how it lands. “Naughty” is code for “sexually active child” and “hang out” is “meet for sex with a child”.
OLD – netflix and chill, hang out, cuddle, fun = SEX
IRL – talked to a guy who said he was sick and about to go to bed with a box of tissues. I said What? He said because he had a runny nose. Blocked and deleted because EVERY other time this happens, the fuckboi gets all fuckboyee and says “wow you have a dirty mind”.
Tactic – experience check
Pedo – do you have a boyfriend, have you given a blowjob, do you touch yourself (are you a virgin)
OLD – asking about exes (are you a sl-ut)
IRL – whining that “you did it for an ex, now I'm entitled” / pushing for anal / I want to be your first.
Tactic - isolation check
HUGEST PREDATOR RED FLAG. BLOCK IMMEDIATELY.
Pedo - are you alone, are you in bed right now, are your parents home, who do you live with, got any siblings, do your parents work, are your parents out of town, how long, when will they be back.
OLD - Do you live alone.
IRL - your place, my place, no-one's home, in my car, somewhere quiet, booked a hotel. Y'all KNOW they want no witnesses. Run.
Tactic – blame shifting
“You're so sexy, you're turning me on”
Pedo – to a 14 year old girl who has done nothing to advance the conversation sexually. Bet little girls are thinking about school work or unicorns, not how to please an old grandpa
OLD – to their victims matches. No sir, I'm in my pyjamas with a clay mask on and a wet mani responding “k”, I'm not doing shit.
IRL – in the dark, full flannel pyjamas, under the covers. No sir, I'm about to fall asleep and I'm not responsible for your erection, nor am I responsible for your release. Don't guilt trip me with blue balls.
*Tactic - push, push, backdown.
Nudes? Nudes? We won't do anything you don't want to:) Nudes? Nudes?
He can convince himself and attempt to cover his ass later that "she sent them because she wanted to". Not because of the ceaseless pressure, of course.
Tactic – sleep deprivation
Late night chats, keeping you up. You're susceptible to manipulation before sleep, when you're tired. Combined with making you feel guilty for not talking to them. Flattering you and linking it with sleep related activities – stayed up thinking of you, dreamed of you, can't sleep because I'm thinking of you, thinking about falling asleep with you in my arms. Makes you associate warm feelings / getting their attention at night time. Again blaming you. He can't sleep because of you. His sleep deprivation is because of you and you need to solve it by relieving him.
One message from a pedo that made me heave: "Your life will be fine. Mine will be ruined". Fuck you. Fuck you, you selfish, sex-obsessed, life-ruining piece of shit.
Some of the videos are rough to watch but they're informative and show what to look out for regarding predation behaviour. Please inform your daughters. Document ANY instance of soliciting nudes from children and report them.
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