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Playing with legos? Mad mommy won’t play with legos with him?! I’m really confused why the OP is presenting all this information like it’s normal and not abnormal. Like what’s the explanation for a 20 year old playing with a teen five years younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:08 PM
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It’s so scary and disgusting how this psycho wasn’t even that old. We’re always taught the older creeps are more dangerous but creeps of all ages are awful. I always like to believe that at 27 the men younger than me aren’t as bad as the ones older but I know that’s not the case. Stay safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:38 PM
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I hope she learned how scary and unpredictable men can be and doesn’t go back to this loser’s house. He sounds really sketch. She seemed to be asking if she was in the wrong in the situation though so I read it as she somehow thinks she should be ashamed about the incident. I hope it raises red flags for her and she blocks him. But looking to Reddit for validation that she wasn’t wrong makes me worried she is truly embarrassed and worried this incident makes her look bad (if this is a real story…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:27 AM
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My moms current husband always did this to her. My whole family is convinced he’s just really really dumb. And don’t get me wrong he is an idiot but he’s not that dumb. He’s just a great manipulator. I fell for the same thing naturally as a young woman. My dad is very similar so I just assumed that men were truly dumb and it would be irrational to get mad at them or express my emotions outside of a “mature talk”. Turns out none of my exes or father figures are or were that dumb. They just know h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:53 PM
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This is such a missed opportunity to call out a scrote for being a garbage sniffer and I’m really disappointed. I think that’s what shocks me about stories like this. Not the mans stupidity and illogical bs I expect that. It’s the way pickmes accept it and roll with it. Patriarchy is one hell of a drug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:48 PM
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My favorite part is how women in 2021 are expected to work at least part time and child rear and do all housework. Men in 2021 are expected to provide a paycheck sometimes but it’s totally fine for them to be lower earners (not saying it’s a bad thing in itself but they’ll be the ones working less half the time and surprise surprise the women still is doing the housework too). Then you have house husbands which try to be quirky and cute but they literally just wallow at home while the woman work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:45 PM
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Oh but to point that out is a crime that is punishable by death literally so shhh. Men so pathetic lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:38 PM
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They do want a mom and they don’t even see their moms as fully human either. Every woman needs to bend and break for them cuz the world revolves around them because they’re a man and they have gods greatest gift to humanity: a penis. 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:55 PM
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A lot of people think ST is just shady men in alleyways who snatch you up outside a gas station at night. But the majority of the time it is like this and someone you know gets you involved. Also, ST isn’t very far removed from the “empowering sex work” that libfems love to boast about. I think the fear mongering and telling women it’s only going to be some weird white van in a back alley is on purpose. It’s like stranger danger in the nineties. They want women to be confused and ignore true sig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:49 PM
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It really upsets me because I think of all the women who finally got their abuser to go to therapy with them, only to have a professional who they told their partner could solve their issues make a fool out of them. Therapist always seem to take the mans side and I can only imagine what happens next after a narc gets the “told you so” validation from a professional they were forced to see. Imagine how hurt and stupid the woman must feel after that. She probably won’t seek out help again and will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 03:45 PM
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I’ve had both male and female therapist tell me I’m “unreasonable” when it comes to men and try to gaslit me into believing I’m expecting too much out of men. Been called “insecure” and often been told that my traumatic childhood has lead to trust issues I must get over. As a teen I tried hard to follow the advice, only to get assaulted and taken advantage of every time I lowered my supposedly “toxic” walls and went against my gut reaction. It still pains me that I allowed myself to follow that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 04:24 AM
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I hope so they all seem to love everything about their lives aside from the men in them. To me it seems easy, drop the scrote, but they’ve been with these men for so long and being single is like a death sentence to them. I hope one day they realize their scrote men need them not the other way around and they can leave whenever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:06 PM
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I feel really sorry for gen x women because all of the ones I’ve met in real life (my moms friends mostly) are very stuck in the cycle of always giving men the benefit of a doubt. In their fifties they’re all still regularly giving men slack and doing things someone of my age would freak out at (the whole don’t wear make up thing really stuck out to me as absolutely awful, but my moms friends always cater their looks to their scrote hubbies or bfs). My father, a pretty big scrote is always const…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:30 PM
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Ok the spraying perfume on the shirt got me. I forget people live their lives like this because even as a pickme I was the “crazy” vengeful one who burned t shirts after being screwed over one too many times. Poor woman. The societal conditioning really has women out here chasing men who don’t want them and asking the internet how to get them back. When you can so clearly see the leash he’s keeping her on you want to cut it so badly but ofc you can’t so you just gotta shake your head. Lessons li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:16 PM
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I 100% agree with the comments on how times have changed and you don’t have to be guilty. You’re the victim here! Nobody is going to try to ruin your life over this photos and if they do, you turn the tables back on them. Here’s my example. Ex has nudes of me and reveals that he’s now seeing someone else and doesn’t want anything to do with me. I agree and simply ask he sends me proof of him deleting my nudes. Now of course deleting them could be faked but I have screen shots of proof that I ask…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:40 PM
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Men will always, unprovoked, feel like we want and are entitled to their shit commentary on our bodies. I have had old ass scrote strangers in public tell me I’m ugly or I don’t dress right (I wear extremely alternative fashion). The worse is actually the other extreme we’re they shout about wanting to sleep with me. We’re just little objects in their world that they can do anything to and say anything about. But men? Men are such sensitive, misunderstood creatures and to mock them is a seriousl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:21 PM
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Exactly men obsessed with preaching equality in relationships never believe in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:12 PM
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While on a family vacation as a child, there was a incident where my step father sat on a hotel towel and it left a giant skid mark. My sister pointed it out and I shrieked in horror about how disgusting it was and how upset I was about it. Step dad went off on me about how disrespectful I was and muttered cusses at me as my pickme mom tried to smooth over my disrespect. I’ve never respected men since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:00 PM
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The dressing up one reminds me of how in high school I’d dress like Andy in Pretty in Pink and just about every girl who talked to me would make a point to say “how can you dress up like this everyday!? It’s so much effort?”. They’d instantly claim to love it and tell me to keep doing me which would lead me to take it as a compliment, but then, at the end, they’d make the conversation about what a nlog they were compared to me. They’d go “I just could never put that much effort into my looks, lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 04:45 AM
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Exactly! They want to flip it so you chase them under the presumption they will eventually give you attention again and you just have to let him play through his “commitment issues”. It’s a blessing. Block, delete. Nobody has time to date someone whose “unsure” if they can date again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:21 AM
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I did this for years as a teen because I was so scared of being humiliated by my family for getting out of a relationship, by trusting the guy, or just because his actions truly embarrassed me. Never again. It’s never worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 02:17 AM
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Don’t forget they will drag on a woman’s appearance any and every chance they get and think nothing of it. And if a woman acts offended it’s her fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:09 AM
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Idk why so many therapist are legit pickmes but this has happened with two different ones. If you go to talk about a relationship you’re unsure about to get a second side of advice they always make it out like the man can do no wrong and you’re not “communicating” properly. And ofc young women who don’t know better believe them because it’s a professional saying so and you’re taught to go to a professional for a final verdict in our culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 06:04 PM
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I still haven’t gotten into a fight or major disagreement with my partner of 9 months and everyone in my life is like “just wait”. It’s the first HVP I’ve ever been in a relationship with however, and it made me realize how people in my life normalized my terrible, negging relationships in the past as “that’s just how men are, that’s what people do” etc etc. For the longest time I was waiting for my current partner to slip up and was expecting some kind of big blow up fight like in my last relat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 01:37 PM
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Don’t forget it’s really really gross on several levels for the friend. Imagine finding out your girlfriends man is literally saving photos of you and jacking off? The way the post was written it seems like the friend doesn’t know about the photos (I could be wrong and if I am then both the boyfriend and girlfriend need to be dumped ASAP). It’s a breach of privacy, respect, and is just such awkward scrote behavior. I doubt she’ll tell her friend about the incident because it’s so rare for the in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:05 PM
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Men have this really weird fear/obsession with penetration. Something about it is both their obsession but on the flip side they’re also repulsed and scared of it. Straight men are terrified of being treated like women in bed and they automatically look down on anyone who has been which is pure irony because the first thing they want to do when they see some woman or often times girl (let’s be honest about these predatory scrotes) is fuck her. Which both ruins her in their messed up heads but al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 04:35 PM
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This is what happens when young girls are taught their whole value comes from hubby and the bubbas they make with him. Saw it happen to several classmates after I graduated, all sheltered choir girl church types with low self esteem who spent high school looking for a cute boy and ended up with a 25 year old scrote who ofc proposed as soon as he legally could. The fantasy of this being a Disney movie with cute lil babies and a grumpy older but well meaning hubby who loves them all is obviously n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 02:22 PM
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Thank you for this comment. My mother has been in an abusive relationship for years and it really ruined our relationship because I couldn’t handle it and I’d get so frustrated that she wouldn’t just leave him. The closest she ever comes to is when I tell her that she’s strong and beautiful and kind and deserves to be treated with kindness. I doubt she’ll ever leave but from now on I’ll build her self esteem instead of lashing out at her abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:38 AM
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I’m curious as to what channel it was as there are a lot of channels with this theme and all have these edgy men who claim to want to take down predators and often they gave me a bad feeling but I couldn’t understand why. It’s probably because the guys were like this deep down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:35 AM
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There’s a huge trucking shortage and trucking companies prefer women drivers as it’s rare and looks good on papers. There’s sexism like there is at any job but as op says it isn’t as dangerous as promoting sex work to teenagers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:49 AM
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This. I’ve never seen a man decide to go full super sad mode just because they have a baby. I’ve seen women do it every time they have one, a man never. Men never step up to the plate, in fact they withdraw from it. I have seen men cheat and leave their spouse after their is a baby because “she’s not the same”. I’ve seen men pout and throw tantrums because mommy’s new baby is taking up all her attention before I’ve seen them step up. I’ve seen men glued to a video game or mobile phone while thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:19 PM
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Yep but they always make up some fake trauma so they’re never held accountable for their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:34 PM
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That was the part that really got me. It’s so disturbing. I have the sinking feeling this little girl was already told she’ll have babies and a man will help her have them which is just...very upsetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:34 PM
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I always think of the “When Harry Met Sally” quote whenever a woman tells me she’s only friends with men or has a male friend because it’s always true. Men and women can’t be friends because men don’t see us as equals. They see us as potential toys. Nothing more. It’s really sad but I’ve never had a guy friend who has been an actual friend they were always waiting. The only guy friend I had was a mutual of another girlfriend of mine and he clearly has sexual interest in both of us. She tells me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:32 PM
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I think playing video games is a fine hobby. Hobby. As in not something you do to an obsessive extent but as a way to fill boredom. Like how occasionally browsing through Reddit is a hobby. The term gaming is annoying because it makes it seem like a lifestyle when it’s not. It simply implies an unhealthy addiction to a hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:42 PM
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This is actually what my first boyfriend insisted after calling me a 4 in high school which flew me further into a eating disorder. He said I should be happy he was honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:28 PM
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Yeah the ratings are bs and meaningless and any man who used them is a immediate 0 with no room to talk. That shit is beyond disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:25 PM
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You can tell she’s very nervous about the mental health thing because she doesn’t want to be seen as the bad guy for making an apparently very mentally ill person feel like he owes her anything. And I’m sure she probably got roasted in the comments for wanting to have sex with a man whose mental health is so down he doesn’t have a libido. Which tbh I’m just trying to be fair here: I get because when I was on medication for my mental health issue I had a low libido and the man I was with constant…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:23 PM
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He 100% did. And when we don’t they go into a rage of pure toddler proportions. Not only do they think they’re a prize to be chased and pandered to they also think we’re dumb and they’ll lower our esteem or make us apologize and submit to them with comments about what they want and like. Please 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:14 PM
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I’ve always found this so weird because as a little girl when my parents were together my dad did the dishes and cooked for us. My mom hated cooking and my dad loved it and he also has diagnosed OCD and is very very particular about where stuff gets put so he wouldn’t let any of us touch the dishes. I was so shocked when I’d go to a friends house and their moms did everything from the cooking to the cleaning. My parents were gen x and it was a rare ass set up because surprise surprise, my step d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:12 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with you you’re just finally seeing things in the realistic lens of the world instead of the “well I guess he’s not horrible because society told me my whole life to give men chances because I need one” lens that were forced into before we know better. The real lens is a much better place to be and through it you have the key to find true happiness in yourself. Trust me a few days from now you’ll probably delete tinder all together realizing the men on there are all way ben…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:53 PM
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Men these days really think they’re some sort of prize with their low effort 50/50 dates, awful personalities and lack of skills bedroom and elsewhere. Society lied to them over and over again and now they have an inflated ego about their worth. They’re not worth shit. But yet this scrote typed that shit out and thought he was doing something. Idiot thinks he’s a king just because he exists on this planet. Their audacity is off the charts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:49 PM
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I read it as she not only cooks for him but splits the grocery bill or buys the groceries which omg what a loser he is I’m getting secondhand embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:44 PM
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I will add tho sometimes marriage changes a man in the wrong way. I’ve seen it where women get trapped into marrying someone they thought was high value only to have that person become abusive or lazy or in some way flip up on them once they’re married. Many men see marriage as a safety net. They can do whatever they want from never touching dishes or diapers to straight up cheating and assume they’ll get away with it because now the woman is stuck with them and won’t want to leave the mental “s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:49 PM
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I’m not sure but I’ve definitely heard elderly women say similar stuff. Living with a man child gets suffocating very quickly. And many elderly women have done it for decade after decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:39 PM
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Nlog=not like other girls. Most girls I’ve seen into gaming really make a point to be not like other girls about it. My current best friend used to be like that and “one of the bros” kind of girl until we became friends and she realized she was doing that not cuz she was being herself but because of other people (men usually). But yeah happy to hear of another casual game enthusiast! I do love to play some video games but like you said I stay out of the culture around it because it’s toxic. Ever…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:43 PM
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The issue with gaming is that men made it a personality instead of what it is or what it should be: a hobby. It shouldn’t be a lifestyle but the whole term “gamer”and how men get all high and mighty about gaming has shifted it into one in a societal sense. To where now it’s 100% socially acceptable to be a man whose only hobby and personality is gaming in every spare moment. It shouldn’t be. Any hobby can get out of hand if it starts consuming your life. Personally I casually play games as a fun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:02 PM
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I think they just all start out useless and remain that way until they die. I’m sure men in their 70s are out here doing the same scrotey lifestyle, in fact I know it because I used to work around elderly couples and without their wives these men were literally helpless by choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:50 PM
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One of my closest friends would do this at any party or male event we went too because all the men had to find her hotter than me and be into her to the point of not seeing me. Some weird low self esteem thing but it really pissed me off and I ended up going off on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:43 PM
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All the supreme humor from men that I’ve heard is low blows at the appearance of women. It’s totally done for them to feel like a big man and isn’t actually humorous in the slightest even amongst the sexist who act like it’s the worlds greatest joke. They don’t really find it funny either. It’s similar how when men insult us all they can do is say the same cuss words over and over again. Meanwhile we call them smelly ass, shrek teeth, rectal breath scrotes and they don’t know how to react to all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:11 PM
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Crazy how so many older men take up these exact shitty takes right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:33 AM
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I will say though some men tend to realize their own misogyny and get made about misogyny only after having a daughter. When I got cat called at 7 in a local grocery store I was very scared but what sticks out to me is my dad making a scene and getting in this guys face about how “she’s a child for gods sake”. Then he bought me a huge oversized hoodie and made me wear it the rest of the day which sorta shows that even fathers think they can fix the behavior by changing the appearance of the daug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:10 PM
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I never thought about the physical abuse claims but the only man who physically abused me (dislodged my wrist while trying to restrain me) claimed to have been physically abused himself by various exes at the start of our relationship. Probably because they knocked him over the head in attempts to get freed like I did. I will be passing this on to my gfs I feel like none of this is ever taught anywhere and it could potentially save lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:33 PM
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Thank you so much. Honestly I didn’t really realize that it had a major effect on me but it really did. I started hating and being disgusted by my body as a girl (about 8 years old) because it looked so different from the other girls and then I just continued that toxic thought line. Luckily I’ve been healing and getting better about being mad at my body lately which is honestly so freeing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:31 PM
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Hit puberty ridiculously young and thought I was dying (that typical story). My mom was in one of the phases where she really didn’t like dealing with children and she was big into her month long boyfriend (who would shortly become my LV stepfather) so she sighed, said she’d have to buy me some pads she “guessed” and briefly showed me how to put an always pad she had on hand for herself on. Then acted like I was an embarrassment and should know everything. I clearly remember her saying “I’m neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:39 PM
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I will never forget when I was talking to a co worker about how friends with benefits was bs and I didn’t think it worked. I was 16 at the time. Co worker was in her twenties. She claimed I was wrong cuz she met her boyfriend through a one night stand and went on about how it happens all happy like and basically I was just a judgmental little kid. Well. Next day she never showed up to work. And the next day. And after that. Turns out that very night he threw her out and she was homeless and forc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:21 PM
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I’m mostly mad at how well it works. Society has groomed us soooo hard to fear being crazy above following our own logic and instinct. No wonder we always feel stupid. We’re manipulated into playing the games of “yeah this girl who is clearly sleeping with the same guy as me isn’t because the guy we’re sleeping with said so. I’m so crazy for assuming otherwise oops lemme be more cool about it”. The op knows he’s cheating just like we all do. She just has to stay in the world of delusional wishfu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:07 PM
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Yep I agree the op of the post is the other woman but thinks she’s the main woman. I’ve been there before a lot in my teens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:01 PM
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Men expect to be able to reek, dress in decades old Walmart clothes, not shave their neck beard, and be obese with a shit diet and somehow get women fawning over them when they should really be amazed when every female and child in the area doesn’t throw up at the sight of them. I’ve had so many disgusting men like that be forced on me by mutual friends only for them to act nice then when I say I don’t think it will work out (I don’t friend zone I’m not going to even pretend to be a loser way ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:58 PM
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I feel bad for millennials because they tried to make it out like traditional sexism was somehow woke and great. Which trapped a whole generation of women into thinking things like begging your bf to become hubby was normal and actually funny and cute . There’s a line where I’m trying to make the sexes “equal” the women get the worst of both worlds and that’s where that’s generations ideology lies. For example in my Nana’s youth during mid century college girls were courted and men were usually …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:45 PM
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To be fair, when we were boy crazy as children it wasn’t in a self deprecating way. Ken dolls are an accessory to Barbie dolls: not her whole collection. And tbh when preteens are boy crazy they’re ogling celebrity boys in a similar but non sexual objectifying way. They aren’t real men who hurt us, they’re just figments of the female gaze. So even being boy crazy as a kid it wasn’t the same as the male worship society subtly plays on us as we develop to the point where we think that a man is all…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:05 PM
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I mean true maybe it feels less bad now because at least the men I pass now tend to be more attractive than the majority of men in the Midwest but their personalities are all the same garbage tier self serving shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:28 PM
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So essentially if you have standards either settle with a ugly guy (implying lack of standards) or don’t have standards. Because this brilliant scrote said so because he couldn’t wait 3 months therefore it’s science that it’s insane and cruel for women to have standards. He’s trying to manipulate you with fear. Fear of being single (lol) or only with ugly ass men. Why? Because having standards and following FDS works. And that frightens these useless males because if enough women where to act li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:16 PM
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This sub being woman only makes me wish all my social media and work world was woman only tbh. It feels so much safer and nicer tbh even in a shitty site like Reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:12 PM
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Used to live in the Midwest: men like this exactly are the norm and everyone feels sorry for their pathetic asses too. It’s similar where I’m from now but not to the extent of the Midwest. They’re all really fat and ugly and follow 13 year olds around in big box stores i have no sympathy for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:05 PM
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Tbh my mother never let me read cosmo and people in my family would occasionally crack jokes about it and I had no idea what connotations it was besides it being a magazine and “feminist” someone said. I do however remember at 11 years old I picked up a glamour magazine and it had hand job advice in it and I questioned if I would ever be into men. Maybe that counts because wtf was that doing there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:10 AM
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I really really hate normie millennial culture where the whole trope of husbands and wives hating each other has gotten one step worse into “lol he didn’t want to marry me lol so quirky”. You look at that part of social media and it’s the same place you’ll find women dropping towels to get their LVM to stop playing video games (usually to just get the towel thrown in the face and told to put some clothes on) or any of the other “quirky pranks” that are basically just men humiliating and degradin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:02 AM
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While society hyped us up as little girls with these fantasy ideas about princes and happy ever afters I will say that when we were little girls we didn’t care about men. We lived for ourselves and for our own needs and wants. Society tried to stomp that out of us as soon as possible (notice men are aloud to live that way forever but girls are pressured to grow up as soon as possible). I saw a tiktok where it went something like “womanhood is reverting back to the girl you were before the world …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:34 AM
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I was in a relationship with a TA as a 19 year old sophomore. Well it was a situationship but I thought it was a relationship because I was a little teenage pickme. I don’t trust any men but ones in power like this always seem to be depraved and are always defended for some reason. There seems to be a lot of male professors and TA’s who go after students surprisingly you really don’t see it go the other way with female professors going after college boys. I think they love the taboo of it tbh if…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:54 PM
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I feel like you’re just as likely to find a good relationship on OLD as with matchmaking. That is the likelihood is slim but maybe you’ll get lucky. At least with tinder tho you haven’t wasted physical money just emotional energy. Anything that makes you spend money for the possibility of male attention is suspicious and stupid imo because as has been said dick is so low value. Never pay for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:50 PM
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This is why I’ve never understood the myth that college girls just wanna have fun and casual sex and it’s just “soooooo fun girlie”. Like this is some patriarchal LIE because men are so gross in hook up culture that just kissing one could give you a host of infections and diseases let alone having intercourse with one. I still get anxious about men touching me luckily my current partner is very understanding but I’ve had so many nasty experiences in the past. Shit isn’t fun. I remember a guy kis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:44 PM
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He’s just his biological hole so it should be no big deal to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:09 PM
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I think the most important step that is hard for us to do is to stop making our lives revolve around men. Be it finding men, having a good man or whatever tf. The male focus is the problem. I’m not blaming any of us. We’ve been conditioned our entire lives to think this way. But the reality is until we replace this male focus with a self focus we will never get out of the pickme rut we want to leave behind. You don’t need a him. Ever. Ever. You can live fine without a man, most likely better tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:54 PM
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Women of this age somehow think they can magically get a boyfriend by giving in and sleeping with a guy enough times and being the kinky good and sex chill girl and are sooo sooo confused when they get discarded like a used condom. That’s all these low value anti relationship dicks will see woman as. They’re disgusting like that. That’s why vetting and not sleeping with a man until you get the relationship (ideally after many many months) is so important. But the common theme of everyone I knew …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:37 PM
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I agreed with everything you said but pugs (and pigs) are much cuter than these scrotes. When I was on dating sites I once let my dad see the men I was getting the chance to swipe on: he was disgusted and asked me what my ages were set to because none of those men could possibly be in their young twenties. I’m sure several weren’t but I know so many guys my age who look busted and 58 already at 21. And yet my gorgeous best friend is worried she’s going to age and be ugly in a few years I can’t..…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:32 PM
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I used to go through college going to events and looking for men, it was cringe pickme behavior and I regret thinking it was better than being on OLD. I found a HVM by chance when I left college due to the pandemic and my job shorting me hours to go back to living with my parents. Years ago I would’ve called it luck, but I was confidently choosing to leave behind things that no longer worked for me and in the mix of it all, I really found myself. If you have that outlook even when you find a HVM…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:31 PM
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If a man likes you he’ll make it obvious. It’s the one thing my mother told me that is true when it comes to men. Never chase a man in life, you’ll only hurt yourself. A man can come into your life at any moment if you’re wanting that type of thing, best way to manifest it is to do your own thing and thrive by yourself. The most attractive thing a woman can do is unapologetically live for herself but it’s so rare that we do that or are taught that. I’m sorry you had to learn the hard way that ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:20 PM
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From what I can tell when women watch porn it’s either for their partner or it’s extremely passionate vanilla stuff that is clearly as consensual as you’ll get from the sex industry. I find it interesting how with males it’s usually how depraved they can be and how much they can abuse women. Funny how one sex is concerned with passion and the other is concerned with brutalizing the other sex. One day dreams about a passionate, loving, fun experience and the other day dreams about torturing women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:31 AM
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If you give him a chance his ego will be inflated and he will likely cheat or try to. Billie Eylish has a famous quote on this which is actually spot on I believe. They try to convince you that you’re the one whose lucky to be with them when it’s the other way around because they know they’re a dusty thumb and are insecure with how much you glow compared to them. Literally thought I was ugly for years because I’d give the nice flabby guy a chance and he cheated or treated me like I was below his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:50 PM
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Reminds me of a TikTok where a guy was saying he just wanted to impress this pretty girl watching him but he messed up his little long board kick and started throwing a massive tantrum. The girl looked super uncomfortable and worried and I know why because I’ve been her too many times because I’ve believed the “sensitive man” trope. Good news: all the comments were talking about how him tripping wasn’t embarrassing but his tantrum and anger were a huge turn off and gross. Love to see low value m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:44 PM
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Yup and surprise surprise it comes from the same type of “feminism”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:50 PM
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The amount of young twenties feeling swory or men is slowly slimming out I feel (probably just because we get abused and burnt out a lot earlier) but I agree that when I was in my late teens a lot of the early twenties (late millennials) would be talking about how unfair the world is for men and basically making it the main topic whenever I complained about men. Like insinuating if you disliked men you couldn’t be a feminist. Libfems tore up the millennials so bad tho I see more and more gen z c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:48 PM
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This is why I hated bumble beyond it being the same 29 scrotes everyday. They made it out like it was somehow empowering to be forced to claim interest first. In today’s dating world I knew that was bs and I hated being forced to be the vulnerable one because it was somehow “safer”. I rationalized that well the men must not see it as clingy if they’re on the freaking app they know we have to make the first move. Nope. Anytime you make the first move it’s a giant ego boost for them and I almost a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:23 PM
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Exactly this. A journalist at my school was doing an article ranking OLD sites and downloaded them for the first time and I straight up told her hinge was for the neck beards who didn’t get any matches on the other apps. A week after her experience she agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:50 PM
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Not every woman wants to get married as has been said the guidelines for marriage are for women who really want it and are there to avoid being one of those cringy forever girlfriends making “jokes” about how long it’s been without a proposal after ten years of wasting her life on someone unable to provide what she wants. Personally I love my maiden name and don’t care much about marriage at all (literally weddings make me miserable for some reason). I’ve never told a man I was dating this thoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:40 PM
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I really don’t recommend birth control unless you really want to be in control of your cycle and birth control. I am extremely paranoid of becoming pregnant (though I’ve been celibate a while) so I always like to have bc just in case, though I’ve always insisted on condoms and bc in the past. I was very emotionally unstable and miserable on the pill so I switched to the patch a year in. Funnily enough I always knew I wanted to be on the patch from the beginning but my doctor insisted that they s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 06:05 AM
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I mean they’re expensive but vasectomies can be reversed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:55 AM
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My take on the love thing is that the idea of love that is engrained in us women from the time we are born is that it’s not real love. It’s a fake kind of love. Notice society values “”romantic love”” over any other type of love. To the extent that love between friends is often romanticized and sexualized by society for no reason. Any form of love that isn’t sexual isn’t valued in society. And guess what, sexual love isn’t actual love it’s literally just lust. The word love is misused and thrown…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:28 AM
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Honestly when I dated nvm I was always worried to tell people how awful they are because deep down I was embarrassed by their behavior. I feel like if it’s so bad you go to Reddit then it’s pretty bad they get defensive because they’re embarrassed, ashamed but they don’t think they’re strong enough to solve the issue and leave. Which breaks my heart cuz leaving would 100% solve these disgusting relationship issues they have with LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:00 AM
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Imagine thinking a woman can’t afford her own diner casual food or coffee and would waste her time and risk her life just to get a McDonald’s tier meal. Like they must legit think we’re improvised or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:23 PM
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When I was 15 my first boyfriend who looked like a literal toenail told me I was a 4. It almost ended me as I was a eating disordered, suicidal girl. I truly thought well if this toenail I’m having sexual relations with thinks I’m a 4 then I guess I’ll be stuck with ugly ass men forever and I must be really ugly which I had been taught was the worst possible thing a woman could be. Fuck rating women. It’s ALWAYS a tactic to lower our self worth and try to manipulate our standards downward. If me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:01 PM
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I agree all the super mom bs is a little crumb the patriarchy puts out to make women feel empowered and important in their submission and mistreatment. Very similar to the man child men are big dummies trope that makes women feel smart and good about themselves but allows men to play dumb, use excuse after excuse to manipulate them and pretend it’s cuz “I’m just not as smart about housework as you babe”. Wake up ladies, they really think we’re dumb as bricks for falling for this. Men will always…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:51 PM
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I always used Snapchat to talk to my friends (all our group chats would be in snap so we could save plans without them being buried). I never thought about how men would use it until way too late. At the same time during OLD I refused to give out my number until I trusted the person, which would only occur after seeing them several months so I would use SC. You can figure out so much just by a snap score. If it was massive, the texts were dry and only ever insinuating it was a quick block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:00 PM
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I had an ex who purposely showed me his nude folder of every women he’d ever done anything with. He didn’t let me see it because that would be “violating consent” and clearly he was a “gentleman”. I asked if these girls knew about it and he assured me he had all their consent to keep all those videos and pictures (doubt). I was a teenager he was 25 and so I didn’t take the red flags and run. Now sometimes I want to throw up thinking about the pictures of me in that folder getting sent to who kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:54 PM
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I always felt bad when they explained abstinence to us before digging into birth control because I felt like such a weirdo for thinking that rejecting male advances and sticking to myself was powerful. I didn’t want to be lumped in with the save it for a low value husband types either. Something about the idea just felt powerful. I’ve been celibate for 2 years now and the self love and happiness I feel is immense. I’m so much happier and calmer now: I guess my gut instinct all those years ago wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:21 PM
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I don’t think women would ever take over say transformers and start making porn and sex toys created over their new love of this little boy show to the point where little boys weren’t safe looking up the term or enjoying the toys. But that’s exactly what bronies did and victimized themselves after the fact. I was 13 and in the collector community which prior to them was just older women collecting ponies they loved for fun and getting judged for it. A ton of scrotes from 4 chan came in starting …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:12 AM
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Difference between the one HVM I dated and one who I stupidly wanted to make high value as a teen was that the true HVM never asked me if I came he just asked me how I felt. He obviously wanted me to orgasm but he didn’t make it about him or a pressure thing so I actually did. Other guy asked every five seconds if I came, got me so nervous and freaked out because he wasn’t that good and it made everything so awkward that I would fake along so he could strike his ego and proclaim to more people h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:56 PM
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It’s women who truly hate other women that I really have to force myself not to hate as much as men. I just really cannot stand the secondhand embarrassment of women who proudly live their lives shitty on women for male clout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:49 PM
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What sticks out to me is how much nicer lvm are to hvm as opposed to women. It’s telling how much more respect they give the message if it’s a man criticizing them not a female. Can you imagine the nasty response if it was a female checking him!? The fear of being disliked by other men is so strong in men that they’ll argue and backpedal and try to get the man to see them in a good light, instead of simply resulting to slurs like they do when a woman points out they’re being pigs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:42 PM
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I’ve legit never met a gen x man who isn’t lvm or nvm. I pity the women of my moms gen so badly, but at least a lot of them ended up divorced, single and happy. Not my mom, she couldn’t take being all alone and now has a man who can’t even wipe his ass or go a day without insulting her. Not me. Not us. I’m glad some of my fellow gen Z girls get it. I get really sad for my little sister though, she’s following her moms footsteps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:25 PM
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This also works for the “pity me” kinda of narcs. I had an ex who would always go on about his issues and how awful he was (to get girls to kiss his ass and “reassure” him he wasn’t awful). They are the only ones allowed to be upset in the relationship though and will dismiss any issue you have because they’re narcs and it’s all about them no matter how harmless and sad they try to act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:14 PM
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All women are inferior to them and they hate women like legit hate them and think they deserve abuse to some level. They hype up and emotional manipulate ones they want to sleep with to gain trust and get the end to their means. Once that dries up and you try to be yourself around them they “lose respect for you” which is bs because they never respected you in the first place. They just wanted to use you. Once they “don’t respect you” they feel the need to point out they hate you just as much as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:16 PM
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Former cool girl here, had a guy turn me into a kinkmeshia because he didn’t respect “vanilla people”. Men literally use the respect word to abuse us I really haven’t had it thrown at me from a man in a context where he wasn’t manipulating me. Also as everyone here already knows: don’t ever be a cool girl or a chill one, you’ll get stds because you can never raise your voice or call out one sided poly “situationships” or else you’ll be a “bitch”. And you’ll feel isolated from everyone else becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 04:14 PM
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This goes back to a comment I made on another thread a while ago but the reason why as a society superhero movies are hyped up like they’re art instead of the childish male ego fantasy they are is because men are the only ones allowed to be 3 dimensional and thus are the ONLY ones allowed to enjoy things they loved as children as adults. If a woman went on about how the latest My Little Pony movie was cinematic art she’d be treated as insane because women aren’t allowed to be girls very long or …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:32 PM
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I think op meant when like since or that’s how I read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:24 PM
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A true hvm won’t see it as an “eye for an eye” exchange. A high value man will love pleasing you so much he wouldn’t refuse to touch you because you wouldn’t touch him, that’s boyish low value shit. A man should find your pleasure both satisfying in itself and want to please you. He should care about your sexual needs. It shouldn’t be something you bargain for. Unless you don’t like getting head, I wouldn’t cheat yourself of it just because you don’t give it. I’m a long time “pillow princess” an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:13 AM
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I was guilty as a underclassmen in college and as a teen of being very specific on what I posted on social media: specifically I was worried I’d look too fat or ugly in photos and men I was talking to would lose interest or at the least judge. Yeah that was bs and stressful and guess what I looked nice in all the photos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:22 PM
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Same to all of this I never have faked anything but because I’m loud every guy has assumed they accomplished something. I like being loud tho and I once pointed out that I didn’t orgasm to which my older boyfriends would say “nah did you hear yourself”. I was scared to bring it up tho, they were the same guy who assumed I must like it “rough” in their own words and almost suffocated me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:56 PM
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If he’s online dating he’s dating a lot of girls not just you EVEN if he asks you to a dinner date more likely than not. My own father goes out on dinner dates with multiple women every few weeks or so. Never let yourself be impressed by a man early on. Getting asked on a real date like dinner is a nice step and weeds out some LVM but you always have to be cautious with online dating. Just wanted to put it out there that being asked on a nice date is a good sign but it doesn’t necessarily mean h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 05:52 PM
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I only share it when a woman in my life is being mistreated by a man...which is pretty common. When I was dating I never went out and stated my beliefs because I didn’t want someone attempting to trick me by acting like they agreed just to get closer to me. My mother and sister are both in shitty relationships with a nvm and lvm respectively and they won’t talk to me about their relationship—it turns into them shouting at me defending their deadbeat men. Which is how I know somehow it’s working.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:11 PM
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I think the most shocking thing is how when they have inflated egos it’s part of being a “man” a real man like the “Normandy beach” men. Ofc there’s the obvious irony that they hate confident women. But the most important inference for me is that this “true man”mindset is this: that “real” men abuse women and like to find the easiest targets. And I think deep down nearly all of them think like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:48 PM
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My best friend and I are constantly going out in public in matching outfits and we both are short and look very young for 21 year olds. We are constantly harassed, stalked, shouted at and just treated awful by random men in public. Worse was when we were at a mall store with a male friend and other female friend. A random old man (who as it turns out didn’t even work there) came up to me and my best friend, grabbed a shoulder on us each firmly and ran his hands down our backs and over our asses …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:04 PM
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So many female artist come off as pickmes in their lyrics. It’s across all genres too. A lot of indie songs are either framed that the relationship is quirky because the sad boi man cheats often or are comparing themselves to other girls in a way that seems to be trying to not be nlog but is. The song “last girl” by soccer mommy comes to mind. I think it’s because of the sheer relatability of it. Most women can highly identify with being treated like ass by men and feeling inferior to other wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:32 PM
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Yeah I find the mail satisfying. I’ve had scrotes call me every name in the book regarding post here from a gold digger to much less sfw things. Everytime it makes me feel weirdly powerful: just that they’re so bothered and threatened by an unapologetic woman. It encourages me in a interesting way. I love pissing off worthless men. If the message is gross is only further proves my points here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:10 PM
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They were probably sending the cops information about community members the cops might’ve known and liked. Online predators get barely a slap on the wrist even when caught dramatically because “oh well it wasn’t a real kid”. Also, most men deep down think it’s natural and there’s nothing wrong with being attracted to a 13 year old girl. It’s really sick but I’ve literally had a man I knew through mutual friends try to explain how it’s biologically natural for men to want to seek out the youngest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:06 PM
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I’m just going to put it out there: though it’s a hard pill to swallow nothing is ever the same or alright after you’ve been cheated on. I’ve tried to continue relationships in my teen years all the time after it but that lingering feeling of hurt, distrust and just an almost flutter of you’ll be fine but randomly remember that and feel like shit doesn’t go away unless you cut the cheater from your life. It’s super hard but I’m proud of you to make the choice to move on in life. I promise you yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:01 PM
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I’ve long suspected these sex articles that are the first thing that would pop up if a teenager sought some online advice aren’t actually written by women like they claim. They might put a woman’s name behind them but the content is all man driven and you can tell by the tone it’s all for them. It’s kinda like how abusers get women to trust other women who then are the ones to kidnap them. Women are used to make male depravity more normalized and widespread, especially when it comes to this kink…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:51 AM
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I’m glad someone else can relate because your situation sounds extremely similar to mine and I felt guilty about it for a whole year truly believing I assaulted him in some way. Recently though, I’ve realized it was likely a form of manipulation on his part as I think he wanted to make me suffer the way he felt he suffered when I denied him consent. The only times I did that were when I refused bjs on my period, but I think that was enough to set him off. He was a super “woke” feminist guy too s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:00 PM
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Dont kinkshame bro 🙃 yeah no the amounts of times other women will tell each other this shit. It’s why by 19 I thought I had to have anal sex or at least try it because even articles by women online would be like “instead of judging his kink why not give it a try? You might love it and it might become your next favorite thing and bring you closer girl!” Thank god for this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:54 PM
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The interesting thing is is that when men are roofied and raped at parties it’s by other men. But they never want to talk about that. And you can’t even say that these days because then you’re not a true “libfem” unless you also tote about the awful females going around assaulting males on a regular daily basis. Doesn’t matter if one scenario is very rare and the other is commonplace and constantly invalidated by the problem: men. Men prey on the fact that women have empathy and will stick up fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:41 PM
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Actually once when I was high with my lvm ex he kissed me aggressively and when I kissed him back he freaked out threw me off him and was like “I didn’t consent to that wtf” but was also giggling and making fun of how horny I was....he seemed to be trying to do some psychological revenge thing but I was so high at the time I just freaked out and cried for forgiveness until he forgave me. Next morning I awoke to a while speech on consent and how males don’t get asked but here’s the kicker; when m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:20 PM
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Literally had an ED I opened up to a guy about once. His response was as follows: yeah I had issues with excuses and staying honest with myself too but it’s really just a calorie deficit and there really isn’t an excuse. You could totally be that weight again healthily just gotta put the work in. He was fat and like 5’8”. I was a short girl (not that it matters since he never should’ve said shit but short women and women in general lose weight differently from men or taller people)I was livid. E…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:29 PM
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Never forget how my first bf watched this one porn obsessively and then told me in detail how he wanted to tie me up to this beam in his basement while I was unconscious and well you can guess the rest. It was the plot of his favorite porn he later explained and wanted to watch it with me so I knew my role better. (I shit you not I was 15) I remember feeling sick reading all those texts but I assumed that was just how relationships were for everyone else so I entertained the idea but luckily he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:23 PM
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Honestly the amount of “nice guys” who will hover in the friend zone trying to buy their way out of it is gross. A girlfriend of mine experienced this all throughout high school. Men would become her friends, and when they did nice stuff she assumed it was because they enjoy her friendship and surprise surprise they’d randomly try to make a move and she’d reject it and she was called a monkey brancher and a h*e and basically torn to shreds reputation wise by both sexes because she made the mista…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:16 PM
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Reminds me of how an ex incel friend of a friend would get mad at one of my girlfriends for getting in game gifts from random men online: it wasn’t like she could help it she was just gaming and other men would give her stuff and she accepted it. I never understood the big issue he had with it but he was totally like “it’s unfair women privilege mehhhhh”. He didn’t like seeing her getting anything because how dare someone randomly be nice to a woman. I mean yeah they could’ve been doing it just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:11 PM
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I resent any man who thinks his marvel movies and Star Wars are still high quality content, but my childhood classic “the last unicorn” is beneath him and he cannot watch it and it’s selfish for me to want him too. Which is why I invited everyone to watch the masterpiece of the last unicorn with me while I was online dating to vet. It started because I literally had an ex go off on me for wanting to watch The Last Unicorn with him and I was about to go “but it’s not just a stupid little girl thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:28 AM
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I really hate the cultural standard that we’re so woke and beyond misogyny but then some dead beat makes stupid little “comedy” bits like this are peak “culture” and “humor”. The fact that everyone is just like teehee so funny really bothers me; and ofc we’re just the bitter “crazy” ones that can’t take a joke 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:47 PM
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Humor and what people find funny is very telling of a person. I have a darker sense of humor but one of my exs took that to mean I would enjoy r*pe jokes like him. Ran so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:43 PM
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Humor and what people find funny is very telling of a person. I have a darker sense of humor but one of my exs took that to mean I would enjoy r*pe jokes like him. Ran so fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:43 PM
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Exactly! This way of adopting men’s behaviors to succeed is what leaded to the nlogs and “one of the guys” type of pickmes in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:30 PM
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This is also why a man going on about how insane and awful his ex was is a red flag. It’s a preview that you’re about to become the crazy ex he hates so much. And you will if you stay with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:09 PM
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Lvm and nvm are cruel to their wives and often purposely make their wives insecure after having children. I agree I think that’s the only reason mothers look down on childfree women. Men made them insecure. It’s pretty sad but it has nothing to do with the childfree woman and everything to do with the nvm/lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:04 PM
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Hippie sex concepts aren’t FDS. They were made for men who had no issues profiting off sexism but trying to make it look liberated. Women in communes were treated so poorly (expected to have multiple relations, children and do all the work while the men got high) that it was a key part of the women’s sexual revolution which was more equality and independent based than “free sex” like the media tried to frame it. The free sex concept is a male concept and it benefits men only. Sorry I wanted to g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:59 PM
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Any guy who calls himself nice isn’t. Niceness is something you show through actions not by proclaiming. It’s like how men who say not like other men are exactly like other men. I’ve never met a truly nice person whose told me they’re nice, only manipulative narcs trying to guilt trip me have gone on about how “nice” they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:36 PM
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When I was 15 my first boyfriend had never shampooed his own hair. I’d touch it and years of grease and smelly smells would rub off on my hair, thick residue of like funk. I asked him about it and offered to help him use shampoo but he was anti it because it wasn’t natural and “what’s the difference?”He also called me “m’lady”. I think I was depressed to the point of being brain dead because I literally was cheated on by him and crawled back. After which he was real proud of himself for buying s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 06:49 AM
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First of all men can’t ever stand not having a seat at the table. That’s why they try to play into the empathy women were raised to have from birth by making themselves the victims and steering the conversation away from the issue. They do this with anything so it’s natural they do it with stuff like this. And libfems find themselves back peddling and crying out for men’s rights and assault cases which ofc are a issue but it’s a different one and we aren’t on that topic. Men create a culture wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:38 AM
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Adding if he’s healthy and you’re not it won’t work. Will never forget when a man almost punched me for drinking Pepsi in front of him. (He was an extreme vegan odd he was so caring for animals allegedly but so mean to women).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:31 PM
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Any time a sex article is written I roll my eyes. Especially if it’s by a woman who is clearly shilling the libfem pickme for life male catering agenda. Doesn’t shock me anymore but does make me chuckle at the absurdity. This makes me angry, very angry. Because its for teenage girls who are already vulnerable and taken advantage of in society. Some of my generation is beginning to grow wise to it but not enough. I see young kids go through grooming and straight up assault (my sister is 18 and he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:32 PM
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This exactly I’ve been told this by men themselves. They don’t think of us as humans in the same way they are. Send their unsolicited nude to their boss or mother and suddenly they’re bothered with consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:35 PM
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A possible HVM I was talking to told me he once dated a woman who would randomly send him nudes without him asking during regular conversation and when he asked her not to because he felt uncomfortable she took it as he hated her and didn’t like her. When he didn’t ask or want to fuck on the first date she was also turned off and thought it meant she was ugly and he hated her. Later she ended up getting with his co worker who would constantly ask him about his past with this girl which he was ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:32 PM
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What is this money they always speak of? Every man I’ve meant who is so concerned about a woman using him for money is broke af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:34 PM
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“Maybe something more later on if you wow me”. This is very important beyond all the hundreds of red flags on this joke of a profile. Here is a man who thinks he’ll give up the “relationship card” if “you’re lucky”. Meaning he really thinks he’s somehow a prize and he’s the one who needs to be won over...not you. He just expects you to be around waiting for the relationship star because??? Most men on OLD have this mentality and I don’t understand how it works so well on this generation of women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:28 PM
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Reminds me of a TikTok my friend showed me where the woman went to shower and left her baby with her boyfriend for life. The baby is screaming and crying and the man won’t even look up from his video game to address it.....why reproduce with these things. Pregnancy and children really make me uncomfortable but even I teared up at the video because it was literally watching neglect. The pickme mom had it presented as a joke not a call for help and got all upset when all the zoomers freaked out. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:20 PM
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Don’t forget they expect a woman who’s of “value” to know how to cook and clean but if you dare state you want a man who can fix things suddenly they’re libfems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:32 PM
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This reminds me of how my dad (while showing me how to fix a water heater) complained about how men these days don’t know anything and are as useless as chicks. Super sexist on his part especially since I was literally talking to him but it got me thinking that modern men really don’t even know how to do stereotypical “man” things like changing a tire or fixing some household appliances that even I know how to fix. Probably why they have to put down women every chance they get. I know in my fath…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:48 AM
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Love this attitude. It’s been mine for a few months now and my own mother is calling me a “radical feminist” and warning my sister not to take dating advice for me (her man is LV at best). When you really think about it, women only crave commitment because they’re trained by society to. Meanwhile men live their entire lives learning the world is all about them and what they want. So ofc they’re choosy about who they want to give the wifey card to. Even though in nearly every relationship the man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:46 PM
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I’ve seen grown ass women have panic attacks when I suggest they ask their “man” where he plans on going with the relationship to make sure they’re on the same page. They’re so scared he’s going to say they’re just friends even though they’re practically living together. What bs. It really is the new way of abusing women and keeping them in their “place” and society welcomes it as much as those housekeeping tutorials in the 1950s welcomed their version of oppression. It disgusts me that we’re su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:41 PM
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It was finals week and my ex wanted to hang out with me at his place (aka he wanted sex). I was exhausted but a mentally ill pickme who legitimately did want to see him so I just asked that he pick me up some fast food on the way as I was quiet hungry after yanno finals. He went nuts in the liberal man non aggressive passive aggressive way about how entitled I was, how disappointed he was in me for asking such a thing and proceeded to not let it go. I was humiliated because he did it in front of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:24 AM
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Kid you not I’ve had at least two dates where a man has insisted on peeing behind a building or bush while we’re out it’s a instant cue for me to gtfo ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 05:57 AM
1

I ended up dumping him later this week because I really wasn’t feeling the whole lack of communication though I was impressed he was nicer than most of the men I’ve talked to this year. Still crappy though and still feel much better now. I have been talking to other people the whole time so I’ll just have to be extra careful the next guy I decide to actually see. Thank you all for this advice though! I come from a family of pick mes and I always second guess myself on being too bitchy or mean wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:55 PM
1

Yeah all the lvm stuff came to light on the date and after which is why I was so pissed. I try to be insanely selective with who gets my time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:59 PM
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Thanks for the responses. The real kicker and the reason I was embarrassed is this Lvm had no degree, no job, no direction and no money. I was trying to be non judgy and nice by accepting the date even tho I’m about to finish school with 3 degrees. Stupid scum didn’t even compliment me once. I guess yesterday my pride was a little bruised but he’s still the loser lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:01 PM
2

I am so happy my pick me days ended in my late teens. My first three “relationships” involved me being cheated on and treated like shit and for a while I thought why me I’m so unlucky. Two years ago I would’ve cried to anyone who’d listen about why me and how I was just born to be the other woman. But now I’m so grateful that I learned the realities of men so young and got fed up with it. I don’t trust them or need them at all anymore and it really has put me several steps ahead of my other girl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:59 PM
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