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I want to believe you, that there are guys who don’t watch porn…but like, who? I’m not being sarcastic. Watching porn is a fucking badge of honor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:30 AM
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I think it’s a fun activity to do together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:39 AM
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Most feminists don’t agree because current feminism has an overwhelming libfem slant. I myself believed in a lot of its tenets until recently. I’m grateful for FDS because even though it seemed extreme at first, it is right on the money in a ton of ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:49 PM
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Whenever I read posts like that from young women, I am often sure that the guy must be incredibly attractive, because he has literally nothing else to offer. I think that as those early 20s women grow up, they realize there is more to life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 07:46 PM
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Seconding the other comments that said LVM will throw spaghetti at the wall to see what sticks. One of the great things about FDS is that it teaches you not to even give one second of attention to those men, and hold out for someone right for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:13 PM
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Haha, I tell my HVM partner the same thing - if we should ever break up, I’m never dating men again and will probably go live in a commune of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 04:11 PM
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They just like to hurt women. If they get her to agree to anal sex, no one will bat an eye. It’s not the same result if he gets her to agree to let him punch her in the face, since society frowns on that. Still gets to cause her pain though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:20 AM
3

The hilarious part of this is that if men would get over their stupid insecurity and use a vibrator on their lady while having sex, she would probably actually orgasm (and not fake it for once!) and it would make her want to have more sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:16 AM
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Yeah, porn lies to men and they get so angry when it’s pointed out. And then they go on to give horrible sex to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:11 AM
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Actually most of them called him on his bullshit. Sometimes Reddit surprises me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:11 PM
68

This is a great comment. I never thought about it before but you’re right. Kinky or weird sex positions are basically always uncomfortable for the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:10 PM
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Women don’t want anal because anal hurts. Any man who is sad about not getting anal from his female partner is a horrible human being. Let alone pressures her for it or demands it. These pornsick scrotes watch female pornstars crying, screaming in horrible pain from receiving anal and turn around and say, “oh hey, woman who I reportedly love and would do anything for, I want this too. I want YOU crying and miserable as I pound your ass with my dick just so I can feel like a big man too”. FUCK. M…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 06:06 PM
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What a joke. Men don’t deserve women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 02:33 PM
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Are we sure this was even written by a woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:49 PM
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Lol wow, that first guy…I am dating an awesome man and if we ever break up, that first guy has convinced me to never date anyone ever again. $17?? Are you f*kn serious? And he chose to air this for others to see? What an embarrassment he is to all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:11 PM
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Reminds me of the Black Mirror episode where the woman didn’t make the cut as a singer but the judge pressured her into being a porn star instead. The message of that episode was overwhelmingly negative but scrotes and libfems on Reddit will still argue that it’s empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 11:16 AM
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My point is that men know it’s degrading and painful. Men don’t want to do it to other men because other men fight back against it. They are fine forcing women into it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 05:55 PM
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I thought that under the pederasty tradition, penetrative sex on the younger man was actually seen as degrading and frowned upon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 03:46 PM
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And even then, I’ve read that many gay men choose not to do anal because it hurts (another commenter mentioned Stephen Fry as one of them). Prostate or no prostate, the act of stretching out one’s asshole for minutes or hours to accommodate some scrote’s dick is inherently painful and bad for your health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:19 PM
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Just google “gay men of Reddit who have slept with women, what was your experience”. It was from February 2017.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:54 PM
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I never understood why they call us incels. Incel means involuntary celibate. We wouldn’t have a need for this sub if we couldn’t get men to go on dates with us, and subsequently treat us like shit, try to pressure us into anal, and stalk us when we dump their asses. We get way more offers than we want and too many come from shitty men that nobody wants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 08:08 PM
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This is why we need FDS. This is a great post, but if you post this anywhere else on Reddit, you get tons of angry scrotes and a handful of “women” (likely just men) who scream about how anal is super enjoyable if done right, women everywhere love it, etc. Hey lurkers - WOMEN DON’T ENJOY ANAL. Stay the fuck away from our anuses. Or maybe let us put something in your ass and jackhammer you for some education on what it’s actually like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:51 PM
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It’s so true! I read a post a while back asking gay men who had slept with women what their experience was. Many comments said that vaginas feel better than assholes and it’s a shame that they just aren’t into women 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:47 PM
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Can you believe the amount of men who tell women that anal is not painful? Why can’t men just STFU and listen for once?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:45 PM
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I’m so sick of men thinking that women who refuse to do anal are less-than. Why the fuck do so many men think their right to anal is more important than her right to pain-free sex? Why can’t they understand that they are acting like monsters? They can’t separate porn from reality and poor women like this pay the price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:43 PM
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Women who defend this kind of behavior from men probably allow it from their own men, and they have had to force themselves into believing that accepting it is The Way. That, or they are male redditors pretending to be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:41 PM
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Yes, good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:29 PM
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If a guy said they were settling for me, I wouldn’t forget it either and I probably wouldn’t want to marry them if they eventually came crawling back. I actually don’t think he’s wrong here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 11:27 PM
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Totally agree. Good men don’t want to watch women being abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 09:29 PM
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Something about this reads like a fake post. He talks about how wonderful she was when he was injured and he STILL doesn’t think she’s worth a diamond ring? Seems fishy, meant to garner outrage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:00 PM
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I just exist, and they line up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:42 PM
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I think that gets you shadowbanned, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 02:38 AM
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Yep. The thought process of these Texas baboons is exactly the same thought process that allowed the Taliban to take Afghanistan back without a fight. Tons of men are actually completely on board with taking away women’s rights and, in the process, getting unfettered access to sex, progeny, maid services, and other forms of slavery. It’s just in this country, men can’t outright say that - they can just take away the rights to our own uteruses while secretly securing abortions for their mistresse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:51 PM
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It’s always been about controlling us. The Supreme Court is so weak and cowardly for not having voted on this bullshit law. This is exactly why no matter your politics, the court needs to be liberal. Conservative courts just slowly take away rights. It’s fine for conservatives to not want their tax dollars to go towards things they don’t agree with - that is covered in Congress and the White House. But to actually take away rights (and always of women or minorities - never of white men) in the n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:45 PM
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Yes! Why do they do this? Why do they agree that they should pay more but STILL don’t take out their wallet when the bill comes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 05:56 PM
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This is such a great point. 99% of men who have approached me, asked me out, or complimented me in public are really, really not attractive and probably not anyone’s type. Meanwhile I have girl friends who are just so desperate for a hot guy that they will chase him and put up with total shit behavior for just the chance of a relationship. Hot guys rarely approach and don’t have to do shit to land pretty girls - so no, scrotes, women are not lucky to get attention from bottom feeders in public. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:01 PM
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There’s something about the prospect of saving even more money that makes some high earners cheap as hell. And if he extends that philosophy to dates with you, it is going to be an uphill battle to get him to change. It’s not impossible, but you need to have energy for a really big challenge, and it’s usually just not worth it. It’s not worth feeling like a gold digger over some wealthy scrote who won’t pay $15 for your meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:52 PM
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I as a woman don’t expect a man to buy me shoes. And I certainly don’t want a relationship where he buys me shoes and then tells me to do anal and I have to because he is Dominant. In what world does he think women want to sign up for that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:45 PM
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Great point. If women are so terrible, why are men so obsessed with us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:38 PM
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It goes hand in hand. Usually decent men who are good providers are the same men who serve themselves dinner. HVM are HV all the way through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:56 AM
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Me! I will be your first citizen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:52 PM
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Same, I can’t read them anymore. The responses are always devoid of logic now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:34 PM
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Great point. Men enjoying the abuse of women is just expected now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:33 PM
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Liberal feminism is indeed a scourge. It tells women we should all consent to painful sex acts so that men can feel awesome to have gotten us to do such things. Of course we are against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 02:41 AM
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Totally agree. Women will only be free from the patriarchy’s expectations once society understands that women aren’t ruined or otherwise made less valuable through having sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 05:46 AM
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Same. Her post leaves a bad taste in my mouth. It does seem like she’s retaliating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 07:45 PM
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Well if she’s mean, then she probably still isn’t fun to be around. Just saying, maybe she shouldn’t be your (or our) role model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 01:27 AM
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Why the fuck get married if you’re going to have separate finances? I understand keeping a personal checking account each, but beyond that, it makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 06:17 PM
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Right. Just like how anal sex is really painful to most women, but there are a not-small number of pickmes who pretend to love it solely for male pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:49 PM
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I have so little respect for men who want to play the passive role in the relationship. So you’re saying I get to ruin my body in childbirth, do all of the childcare, do all of the chores - and now I also have to do all of the driving, all of the planning, and all of the confrontation when things get hard in life? Oh, and I get to be the breadwinner and pay for you too?? No. Thanks. Wtf do men even offer these days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 05:20 AM
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Right. Communication is well and good, but if he needs to be told to be a decent human being, he is not worth your time. The reality is that most redditors in the relationship subs are socially deficient men and they don’t actually have any answers. That’s why all you see is “communicate” and “dump them” rather than useful advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:44 PM
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How desperate are men to believe this crap? If a guy is 6 ft, he is enjoying it and going on way more dates than the short guys. He’s not out crusading for midget rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:49 PM
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😂 This is like 15 years old since it talks about AIM. Probably the guy was making a bad joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 09:13 PM
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Next step is to make a guy appreciate your pleasure like you deserve!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:00 AM
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Disgusting. I really doubt it’s real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:35 AM
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I’m gonna get downvoted for this and I wanna be clear that I love this sub. But if we were to reverse the genders, everyone here, myself included, would be up in arms about how she is unappreciated and being exploited. I posted something to that effect recently here, saying that a man who massively out-earns his female partner but still wants her to chip in disproportionately is showing a character flaw. How is this different? Genuine question. It seems to me that she is profiting off of him in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:37 AM
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I would roll my eyes so hard. Sounds like he just wants to sound cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:10 PM
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Yes. It’s not selfish to expect them to adjust for an extremely different income gap in their favor. At the end of the day, if a loaded guy wants 50/50, he is showing you a very serious character flaw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 05:03 AM
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I know!! Same with feet pics! PSA to ladies - you don’t make any money doing this, and certainly not enough to offset the downsides!! You just ruin your life, close off job opportunities, make your family hate you, and make guys think they are too good to date you! Edit: For the record, I wish that we lived in a world where women could show their bodies and not face consequences for it. Alas, we do not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 09:24 PM
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Yes. And if you approach first? You run the risk of a guy not actually being that interested in you, but just doing it because it’s easy. It won’t be good for you down the road.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 03:53 PM
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I love this! It’s so applicable to so many situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 05:33 PM
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Yeah I don’t like this one. If the guy is so obsessed with having paid $85 to get this perk, but his lady is stuck behind because she either doesn’t have the money or didn’t get it yet…isn’t that a bit of a red flag? Mr. Moneybags is showing where his priorities are. Unless of course he actually does intend to get them some benefit together through getting through sooner, or one of them is starving, or he needs the restroom. Otherwise, isn’t it kinder to stay behind and hang out with your girlfr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 03:11 PM
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I laugh at all his jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 04:34 PM
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How incredibly rude of him! He was indeed just trying to take you down a peg. Probably he loves The Game and all that PUA nonsense. Bullet dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:24 AM
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Yep. Size matters. I feel bad for men that have small dicks, because they can’t change it. At the same time, my vagina isn’t a charity and I want to actually feel something when I have sex with someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:46 PM
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Yes! I have been in this before and I tell myself now, I’m glad it happened and I had fun with that person, but he simply wasn’t the right person for me. And that’s okay! I am just happy to not be wasting even more time on the wrong person. In my case, the guy was really, really hot and it hurt that we didn’t work out. But I wouldn’t feel entitled to an actual model or actor, so why should I feel entitled to that guy? It helped me get over it and find someone new who I feel is the right person f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 08:38 PM
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The joke is never funny. It’s just veiled meanness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:14 AM
9

Wow. I’d be outta there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 04:40 PM
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Ha, this just came up in another sub today. Some men are beyond immature. How about YOU walk around in lingerie, Mike? See how it feels to do that every day. Women aren’t objects sent here to pleasure men. We are people too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 10:23 PM
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Don’t stay with someone just because they love you and want to be better. Sometimes he’s just not the right one for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:00 PM
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Guys always massively overestimate their dick size. I went out with a guy maybe 4 inches, who promised me it was 6.5. He was also shorter than me, but swore he was the same height. The delusion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:54 AM
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They know it. They get off on convincing a woman to hurt herself for nothing more than their pleasure. It’s actually sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:24 PM
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Ugh why does any woman put up with this??? Gluttonous trash husband. Bye!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:05 AM
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Ugh I hate the sjw thing where they try to make EVERYTHING about them and their experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:38 PM
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Was that asshole my ex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:19 PM
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I really want to bring back “get bent”. Let’s make it happen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:18 PM
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I would add that most newcomers to OnlyFans do not make enough money to offset the reputational damage they incur once people find out they are on it. It just ain’t worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:56 PM
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Exactly! Most of these men get a normal career, and don’t make the big bucks, and they’re still ugly. Not to mention they still hate women. Then suddenly they are 28 year old incels who still can’t get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:31 PM
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A god among men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:27 PM
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Exactly! They offer us nothing. They want to split the bills, sit on their ass and watch us do all the chores, sit on their ass and watch us do all the childcare, and they can’t even fix or build shit around the house or car. And now it’s too much to ask that they not spend all their time watching degrading and painful porn acts and haranguing us for them constantly? Men are just so useless! Marriage rates are at an all time low in the western world because women do not need men at ALL. We are j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:02 PM
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Listen up ladies! We’ve gotta all do anal and choking if we want our guys to stop watching porn. You heard it here first! He has a NEED to see women being defiled and in pain! And if you can just suck it up, that could be YOU, instead of a random porn actress. Woo boy, now I’m excited! Sign me up! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:59 PM
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This was my take too. He isn’t evil, just close minded and criminally stupid to the point that he WILL accidentally kill her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:48 AM
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I’m so confused about the politics of having a guy open a jar for me. My boyfriend and I make it a joke, I ask him to open jars for me and he flexes and looks super proud of himself. Lol it doesn’t have to be so political.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:10 AM
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If they don’t want him now, what makes him think they are going to want him later? Lol you can’t fix ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:09 AM
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To me, this is about my ex best friend. Horrible person but fun to be around on the surface.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:29 AM
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I hate it! Fuck porn, seriously. Men think it’s real because they are all morons. No woman can come within two seconds of a guy sticking his dick inside her!! Edit: to the scrote who said that’s why I am single, I am happily partnered with a guy who knows porn is not real 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:20 PM
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Whaaaa. Most men don’t want us to bleed...right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 07:10 PM
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I completely agree! If a man walks up to me and punches me in the face, these scrotes would say it’s my fault for not communicating that I don’t want that! It’s almost crossing over into victim blaming when you put the onus on communicating about everything, even things that are clearly awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:01 PM
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Isn’t oral sex a sin anyway? Lol make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:59 PM
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I also read a post on the Christian marriage sub in which the female OP hated anal but her husband demanded it of her every day anyway. The commenters were surprisingly sane, and said that “God doesn’t want you to suffer in marriage, and you should leave if you will continue to suffer.” I had no idea this book was written by a priest and refuted that. Wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:58 PM
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All men think physical touch is their love language. This book made them think it’s okay to climb on us with no foreplay, because it’s their “love language” and if their female partner prefers compliments or nice dates, that’s HER problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 07:55 PM
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EXACTLY. He’s definitely asking for something unpleasant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:53 PM
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He’s totally talking about blow jobs, anal, or other things unpleasant to his female partner, but hE hAs nEeDs 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:52 PM
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In the update, she dumped him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:05 AM
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Totally this. A guy I know got offended recently when I shared that a study found that women are better pilots. It’s like they are built to try and keep us down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:53 PM
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I totally agree with your point about balding. I love this sub but a receding hairline does not factor into my judgment of a man’s looks. They can’t do anything about it and it makes us look like jerks, IMHO. Scrotes then say that we think men who go bald are LV when that’s not what we are saying at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:17 AM
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Women never do this shit! Never. Every day, this sub brings me closer to lesbianism. I’m not into women, I’m just more and more repulsed by male behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:07 AM
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Really well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:05 AM
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My ex did that to me too! It was always about how I wore boring clothes and glasses at home, but I was objectively much more attractive than him and after we got married, I lost weight and got way more fit and even better looking. He was unattractive and wore nothing but t shirts and cargo shorts. I should have divorced him a lot sooner than I did. Fuck double standards and men thinking they deserve to harangue their girl about looking hot ALL the time, when they put in zero effort themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:45 PM
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Ha this movie drove me nuts. She is absolutely stunning and a presidential candidate and for Seth Rogen to land her...it’s pure fantasy. He’s not even rich. He doesn’t even have social connections. But chubby young men watch this and think it’s real. Edit: lol I’m getting a lot of hidden comments from angry scrotes. Seems like I struck a nerve. Someone tried to compare SATC to this movie, but none of those women are in any way equivalent to Seth Rogen lol. Shall I get started on Knocked Up? Just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:42 PM
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Hahahah I love the rage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:42 AM
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Why are her legs broken lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:57 PM
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Who is saying that about child brides?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:17 PM
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I have thought the same thing! How can you tell other women not to care about their looks and to demand good treatment regardless, while still wearing more makeup than a Kardashian? Do as I say, not as I do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:55 PM
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I only wear makeup a few times a year, and my skin is much healthier than my counterparts that wear it daily. Even beyond buying into the patriarchy, heavy makeup use is not good for you and should be reduced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:52 PM
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Right! Women are just incubators to them. And those hypocritical male fucks are always the ones who object to their taxes going to welfare payments for poor women with lots of children that they didn't want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:18 PM
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Excellent point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:15 PM
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I hate people who are anti-abortion. Such hypocrites. Men don't have to go through the horrors of pregnancy and therefore MORALLY cannot force a woman to. I hate that it's still an issue in our society. I hate that WOMEN fight to have abortion rights taken away from their fellow sisters. That side is all morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:13 PM
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Yes. But FaceTime doesn’t solve everything. For example. Multiple times I’ve been burned and a guy is way shorter than he stated (shorter than me) and I cannot tell that over video. I don’t want to date a short man and I don’t want to sit through dinner with a guy who lied about it, because height matters to me and I don’t want to waste my time. Plus, there’s the chance that he will want to split the bill after a very lackluster date when I’m already pissed off that he lied about his height. Ask…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:16 AM
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I’m interested in y’all’s thoughts on this - I don’t want to do dinner on the first date with someone I haven’t met before. I prefer a walk date because I can usually tell in the first five minutes whether I’m interested, and if not I don’t have to suffer through a date. Anyone else?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:37 AM
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Yes. RIP Christina Grimmie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:27 AM
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Wow I had no idea that even existed. What kind of woman agrees to OPP?? It doesn’t benefit her at all. She’s probably pretending to be bi just to excite him anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 11:22 PM
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Right? She is objectively really hot, even with all that black smeared around her eyes. There’s no way he measures up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:25 PM
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Yep! Nobody here wants a mail-order groom, I can promise you that. They hate that they are obsessed with us and we couldn’t care less about them. That’s our crime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:04 PM
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Yes. I think many women have done this to some degree (myself included) because we are so socialized to always put men’s needs and feelings before our own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:03 PM
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I agree! This sub is by women, for women. I don’t see the harm in appreciating some good-looking men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:01 PM
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Preach! This sub is the guidebook on how to treat a woman right, how to appreciate a woman, how to not take advantage of a woman. But instead of learning, 99% of male lurkers just deny our principles because they’re too lazy to put in any effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:59 PM
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Wtf? All because you didn’t respond for two hours? Is there more context here besides this convo or is he just a fucking weirdo?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:38 AM
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I hate weak men. ‘Pay for me, give me gifts, do all the chores, take care of the kids, rub my feet, tell me I’m perfect, tell the server she brought me the wrong dish, pay for someone to fix the sink’ - like wtf are YOU offering, scrote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:16 PM
61

They also think they all deserve to impart painful sex acts on women way out of their league due to porn. Fuck porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:11 PM
15

This was unbelievably well-said. Let the men troll and scream. The ones who don’t like this reality can go back to watching porn and wishing it was the Stone Age or the 50’s. Useless shitheads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 03:53 PM
6

I’ve always done this. It does indeed help keep you safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:51 AM
6

I would think that someone who posts that about her husband is fundamentally unhappy. She feels the need to justify her unhappy relationship to the world because hey, at least she will be a little bit happier if she gets a ton of likes on TikTok and a ton of guys agreeing that they would pick her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:53 PM
6

This guy is definitely unattractive hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:24 PM
51

It’s because they are male-dominated. They don’t want to admit they are privileged not to be women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:44 PM
26

Yes! Normalize the husband pulling his own weight. Men who don’t do grueling manual labor (read: the average male redditor) can damn well take over their fair share of the domestic duties. Holy hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:42 PM
2

I just let them know that my kink is kink-shaming! :p
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:07 PM
3

Yes, what is up with men asking for anal the first time they hook up with you? The entitlement is out of this world. Like any woman wants to let some idiot scrote tear up her asshole, let alone someone who she JUST MET.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:05 PM
13

It’s because many redditors are special-snowflake socially awkward mid-20s men. Women don’t want them and they think it’s women’s fault because they cannot handle that they themselves aren’t desirable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:33 PM
6

I agree with this but men can’t do anything about bald spots. I feel bad for those who go bald early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:47 PM
3

Most women don’t want gargantuan penises, but a thin penis is definitely a no-go for most. Nothing worse than not being able to feel it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:53 PM
57

I’ve always found her really fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:53 AM
65

Sounds like he thinks you were cute when he could take you down a peg and see you sad and vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:09 AM
68

You should report him for that last part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:08 AM
51

Gross. How depraved of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:07 AM
29

I think you make a great point about women being much more than the sex they provide men. It sounds obvious, but a lot of men can’t wrap their heads around women being anything other than sex providers. I do believe there are some women that enjoy casual sex, but I think many of the women that say they do are just engaging in it because they think it makes them liberated or woke for saying it, rather than actually feeling it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:08 PM
9

It is completely against nature. That's what drives me nuts about the women who say they like anal. (I'm still not convinced anyone really does, and that 99% of those who say they do are pickmeishas.) These women need to stop trying to get other women to do it - it's like trying to get people involved in smoking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:15 AM
6

I lol'd. Please can we have this disclaimer in porn? Pretty please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:13 AM
8

Ugh. The second one gives me terrible flashbacks to sex with my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:11 AM
4

Women also lead healthier lives than men. By and large, women take care of their skin, their diets, and their exercise routines in a way that men just can't be bothered. So when cohabitating, women benefit men with their habits while getting dragged into men's shittier habits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:39 PM
4

Yes. Totally their fault. The culture is fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:32 PM
3

Right. The other variant seems way too extreme, but I could be wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:32 PM
6

It's time to wake up. Marriage is generally bad for women and good for men. Something about the institution itself needs to change to make it fair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:24 PM
19

I wonder that too. How did the idiots in power not understand that there would be a huge sex imbalance? The daughter would always go to live with her husband's family traditionally, and the lack of social/financial safety net meant that any family with one daughter and no sons wouldn't have any kind of funding or help later in life after she got married. The Chinese did this to themselves, and women naturally pay the price.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 03:48 PM
90

You are so right about the way they treat women, too. The son's wife is never considered a true part of the family. She is just a slave that births sons to carry on the family name. She is maid to the parents, her husband, and ultimately her grown male children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:08 AM
148

I dated a Chinese man a while ago and I was shocked at what his very traditional parents expected. For instance, they wanted us to pay THEM an allowance once we moved in together and got jobs. They were rich, too. They thought of their son as an annuity. Pretty gross. Edit since someone asked: we were both 26 and he was from Hong Kong. This attitude is extremely common in southern China and Hong Kong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:56 AM
69

I firmly believe if you intend to have a baby with a man, you should be married to him. At least in my country, that affords you legal protections and ensures that if he leaves, you aren't left with nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:52 AM
58

Exactly! They want to only pay 50% of bills. They don’t want to provide financially, or do household chores or childcare. Most of them aren’t even handy anymore either, and won’t protect a woman for fear of being labeled a simp. Men today bring nothing to the table but more work for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:33 PM
18

What is their plan exactly? Say some dude can’t find a woman who wants to have a child with him, and there are no surrogates available or affordable. Do they kidnap a woman and force her to bear children? What about HER rights? Men just can’t accept that if no woman wants to have sex with them, it’s because they are repugnant in some way and THOSE MEN need to either better themselves or lower their standards. Women aren’t responsible for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:16 PM
37

Wait I thought FDS is only made up of bitter black women? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:04 PM
25

Ahhh. Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:18 PM
38

Jeez where do you live?? Such backward responses from these guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:47 PM
5

Please be fake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:20 PM
2

I’m with you there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:43 PM
2

It's because they're garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 11:33 PM
11

Men are mad that they can’t enslave single women, and married women are mad that they can’t get rid of their shit husbands and live life like a single woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:45 PM
24

Didn’t you know we don’t own our own vaginas? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:51 PM
34

Wow. This is so true and really hits home for me. I hate most lead women characters in romantic comedies. They are so shallow, marriage-obsessed, and vapid. Most women I know aren’t like that at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:18 PM
293

This tweet is pretty obviously satire, I’m surprised it’s confusing people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:27 PM
93

I am 5’8 and slim and I often have hands the size of my male partner’s. I just have long skinny fingers. Some of them have problems with it lol. I can’t imagine why, seems pretty minor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:05 PM
116

Or he owns very few clothes, some of which are cargo shorts, but expects his female partner to always look good, never wear glasses, etc. He thinks he’s allowed to be comfortable, but her responsibility is to always be hot for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:52 PM
26

Very well said. Bravo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:04 PM
3

I had a similar awakening when I started using FDS. I've been fortunate to date generally good guys - but the reality is that my experience is not the norm, and if I could go back in time, those men had behaviors that I should have quashed immediately. Like my first long-term relationship, where he was a student and so expected me to pay for everything and also do all the chores. Or my next relationship with a pornsick guy who required me to do all the work in bed, and couldn't come from anythin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:58 PM
3

Beautiful!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:10 PM
10

This has gotta be fake, not least because it’s made the rounds before, but I wish it was real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:01 PM
3

So much this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:28 AM
5

I completely agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:47 PM
1

Yep, my ex-husband was one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:38 PM
2

I lol'd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:27 PM
10

Further, women who do enjoy it can also STFU because they are intentionally doing harm to their bodies in the name of alleged "pleasure". It's like smoking. They need to stop encouraging other women to hurt themselves and acting like it's normal and so much fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:59 PM
13

All women who claim to like anal should really just STFU. Men latch onto that ONE anecdote and pressure all other women into it forever, even though it’s super painful for 99% of women. Why can’t the 4 women in the world who actually like it just enjoy it quietly and help the rest of us out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:29 PM
4

They open jars. That’s it, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:13 PM
2

There are tons of guys who try to act like Big from Sex and the City. It’s such a turn off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:55 PM
8

'Christian so only anal until we get married??' Is this common?? If it is, I am so incredibly lucky to have never come across it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:16 AM
8

You just blew my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 07:48 PM
3

I've never interacted with a person with an anime dp who isn't a complete fucking weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:50 PM
5

And they all know it hurts, too. Any man who pressures you, or says he needs it to feel loved, needs to get kicked to the curb immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:46 PM
12

I used to date a sex addict, who would whine and complain until I finally gave in and had sex with him 5+ times a day. This was after he tore my vagina, making sex really painful for a while. He just didn’t give a fuck. I’m thankfully healthy now, and resolved to never put up with such bullshit from a man again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:14 PM
10

While that’s true, it’s unlikely to come from a day-old account that is personally insulting me. This sub is super honest about anal, which I love, and most of its members find it very hard to believe any material percentage of women can orgasm from anal at all, let alone “only” from anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:40 PM
145

TwoX banned me for posting about how painful anal is and responding rudely to a comment from a day-old account, obviously written by a man, telling me I was wrong and it was the only way “she” could orgasm. My whole post got brigaded with tons of comments personally attacking me, but the mods didn’t care about those. Not exactly a woman-safe space. It’s one reason I’m so happy to have found this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 06:12 AM
1

I'm sure they don't all think women get off on it. My boyfriend even said that women doing anal scenes in porn almost never look like they are enjoying it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:16 PM
3

Thank you for sharing. I wish the post hadn't been deleted. Her inbox must have been flooded by reddit scrotes threatening her, because god forbid they start feeling bad about causing lasting damage to women in the name of porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:04 PM
1

He is disgusting! Leave if you can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:56 PM
1

I am so curious about this. In your experience, do they not even want to try it at all with you? Or do they just try it once and never again? Do they say no to you? It's so disgusting that they only want it if it causes the woman pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:55 PM
2

I am currently in a committed relationship with a good guy who has never asked me for anal. A small part of me is disappointed that I currently have no scrotes in my life who I can say this to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:53 PM
2

Agreed! I dated a guy who had never asked a woman for anal since he was respectful and a nice person. He told me that one reason was because whenever he would watch porn, and anal would come up, the woman would almost never look like she was enjoying it. His reaction was correct - why would he want to do that to a woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:52 PM
1

Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:48 PM
3

I totally agree. It reminds me of the popular relationship subreddits where the top-voted advice is all-too-often "just leave!". I've seen this in cases where the wife wants her husband to do more chores, but hasn't communicated that to him, and they've been married for 10 years and have three kids. While clearly he needs to do his fair share (and probably should be doing even more chores than her if he's anything like the guys we talk about here on this sub), does "just leave" really make sense…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:46 PM
1

I have found the way to get them to leave me alone about it. I say that I had an ex ram it into my ass during vaginal sex (true story - super painful and I shit blood for days) and that I hated it so much that I refuse to ever do it again. I've never had a man push me for it after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:40 PM
4

Further, it was disingenuous of her to include the example where the woman who got banned said that "you can't have it both ways" with regard to being self-sufficient and wanting the man to pay for the first date. To me, a central message of FDS is that a lot of men are all-too-happy to take advantage of their female partner and this results in a net drain on the female's life and happiness. Stating that the man should pay for the first date is a symbol that he isn't going to be a user and that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:04 PM
3

Maybe the guys are funny. That would make up for being ugly.
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