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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 58 | Run run run far away girl 😱This is so gross and possessive. Lurking pickmes, this is NOT it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 04:28 PM |
| 443 | STD testing before intimacyYou just tell him. You’re not prepared to be intimate with him unless he can show you he’s been tested and is clean. You’re sexual health is the most important priority. If he can’t prove to you he’s clean, ditch him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 08:50 PM |
| 190 | Found out in the wildLmao. Fuck OFF. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 08:12 PM |
| 228 | The Bar Is In Hell. The Audacity Is Sky High. I'm Scared For My Generation.I fucking hate this shit. All of it. 🤷🏼♀️😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 07:19 PM |
| 180 | Feelings of loneliness is realWhenever I feel this way, I just think about all the times men or old “friends” have hurt me or let me down. It soon snaps me out of that feeling of loneliness. I don’t want to be around bad/toxic people, I’d rather continue working on myself and to keep looking forward alone; than be around those that used to drag me down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Yeet any man with weird food hangupsI can almost guarantee it was on purpose. There’s been posts on here before about men trying to sneak things into woman’s foods they don’t like, often things they’re highly allergic to because they want to see if she’s being truthful about having the allergy etc.. Not to mention the slug dude who If I recall was keeping jars of slugs, and putting them in his partners food and making her really sick. Fucking bastards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 07:10 PM |
| 352 | Let’s not fund research of a HIGHLY underdiagnosed and treated disease, but how it effects their male partners because sex is too painful 🤦🏼♀️I suffer from endometriosis and it’s fucking crippling..this post reminds of all the times my ex pressured and coerced me into having sex, when I was literally in tears and doubled over in pain from endo and all he cared about was his dick. His responses would include: “what about my needs” “I NEED sex, you’re using it as an excuse not to give it to me” “The pain can’t be that bad, you’re making it up” “Relationships are all about compromise” “Stop fucking crying, I can’t finish” “You’re making … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 02:39 PM |
| 80 | Blocked & DeletedI think you still did great tbh. Like most of us here, you have years of conditioning to undo and that takes time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:12 PM |
| 76 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.Next. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 10:26 PM |
| 8 | OnlyFans ... OnlyFakeOfft damn, haha😬😂thank you for responding! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 07:02 PM |
| 57 | love thisYes, omg this 🥲😂😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:46 PM |
| 8 | OnlyFans ... OnlyFakeI don’t use Tiktok what’s the link about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 03:01 PM |
| 328 | Can we do away with the phrase “she gave him a baby”?“My legacy” really irks me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 04:23 PM |
| 10 | Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to sayOo I love these responses! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 01:49 PM |
| 67 | sea-lioning, and how to push back hardExactly. Turn PMs off or just don’t respond. Any response to these messages is still giving men attention they crave and a waste of your energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 20 | This loser called GodChosen890 or something is screenshotting our postsScrotes do this all the time. There’s subs dedicated to ripping into us, it’s nothing new. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 11:20 PM |
| 177 | What in the apron strings?!Haha, I love this. YTA dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 09:18 PM |
| 91 | But sex work is work, amirite?Well said. Personally If I found out my mum chose to be a sex worker/ OF “content creator” just for male attention/validation and because of Lib fem brain washing I’d be mortified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:16 PM |
| 15 | If it’s one thing men are good at, it’s low blows.This has been happening a lot recently. Read the damn sub rules before posting people, please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 06:10 PM |
| 10 | I had a shower thought…It’s a good idea. But it’s so fucking sad that we’d even have to do this, incase something was to happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/22 12:27 AM |
| 32 | Something positive for onceThank you so much for sharing🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 09:08 PM |
| 20 | Y’all they want to be applauded for not cheating nowOP please black out the name of the sub in this screen shot.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 01:04 PM |
| 30 | Me giving FDS dating advice to my girls: 🥬🥬🥬😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/22 04:52 PM |
| 20 | Even the comments are clocking onto his weaponised incompetenceOP please black out the sub names on all these screen shots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 10:09 PM |
| 58 | High Value Behavior Field ReportLovely!😊 see it’s really not hard to be thoughtful and considerate, lurking scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 06:42 PM |
| 55 | 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩No. Just, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 09:14 PM |
| 40 | Porn sickness is a slippery slope, this woman needs to take her daughter and LEAVEOP can you send me the link to the original post please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 04:53 PM |
| 55 | I’m 23 today sisters and had to thank you all.I was in a similar age gap relationship when I was a couple of years younger than you 🙄 If I could give my younger self any advise it would be- girl don’t even look at men right now. Focus on building and maintaining your friendships with your girlfriends.. Find rewarding hobbies you enjoy!. And definitely work out what you want to do with your life, and don’t let anyone try to influence your choices! Wishing you a very happy birthday sweetie 🤍🥳🤍🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?I’m sure there was a post about this on here awhile ago! This is terrifying 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 06:52 PM |
| 177 | epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ringGreat post. I honestly see no benefit of living with a man.. A few of my pickme friends (since FDS I’ve been distancing myself from) have fallen into this trap, and they’re basically trapped now with a man child. Fulfilling these scrotes live in bang maid fantasy, and these women are fucking miserable. Their mental health is in the gutter, and they’re in even worse of a financial position than they were before. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 08:33 PM |
| 199 | Spotted one in the wild.Yeahh.. no thanks 😂 FDS women don’t jump through hoops to prove ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 07:55 PM |
| 54 | HVM Two years and still impressing me.What show was it? I love green flag posts, thanks for sharing 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 12 | Tips on how to protect yourself in every day life?I’d never heard of Nightcap until now. I’ve just had a look at their website, and I’m definitely going to buy a few for myself and my close friends! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Nah sis.Girl why. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 03:13 PM |
| 36 | Nightmare Fuel. My heart is broken for this mother and her daughter.Ooft this post ☹️ my heart goes out to this woman, it truly does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 05:14 PM |
| 11 | FDS Speaks: A Guide for Men On How To Save Your Relationship From The Brinku/Zurflu 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/22 12:50 PM |
| 35 | The whole unmitigated audacity of this scrote. 🤢 I am so glad sis leveled up, adjusted her crown and LEFT.This scrote is going to be SO disappointed when he realises he can’t get any new women to sleep with him. Mwhahah😂🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:57 PM |
| 106 | Poor woman terrified of her own husband. 💔This is so upsetting to read. Please reach out this woman asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 03:47 PM |
| 85 | I’m the girl who exposed him to his long term girlfriend. I believe he has more victims.This person is an abusive predator, and you need to cut him off. Block and delete him everywhere. This piece of shit has shown you exactly what he is. You KNOW what kind of a person you’re dealing with, so now you need to take responsibility and put yourself first.. and cut him off like the tumour he is. Please continue with therapy. Keep a list of all the horrible things he’s done/how it’s made you; so it you ever feel weak or start to reminisce about those times he faked being nice to you, you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 06:01 PM |
| 1249 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidThe more posts I see like this, where LVM open up and confess about how they truly view women, the more disgusted and grossed out I feel about them in general. More women need to see this stuff. They need to know that whilst they’re dreaming of romance, love and “the one” ..that same guy literally just views her as one of multiple fleshlights that he might entertain if he can’t pull someone hotter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 01:47 PM |
| 14 | Husband tries to get his wife to sign papers blindfolded then berates her for not trusting him. So shady!! I hope she runs!!Yes, please spill the tea ☕️🫖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 12:55 PM |
| 249 | Man Wonders If Leaving His Urgently Ill Girlfriend At The ER Was, Like, Rude Or Whatever.He sounds like he really doesn’t like her 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 12:14 PM |
| 52 | If men in a war zone can manage this, your pathetic ex has no excuse…I feel like this about most men in the UK after seeing how these Ukrainian men are. Got full on ick right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 11:16 AM |
| 83 | Every year on International Women’s Day, Google searches for International Men’s Day spike…Self absorbed assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:35 PM |
| 3 | This is one of the most horrific stories I have ever seen on Reddit. Thank god she is getting out. How is there not protections for young women like this.Can you pm me the link please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 259 | Asshole tells his wife to lose weight or consent to being cheated on“Is this normal?” 😩NO. How have we got to this point where we’re even fucking asking this.. You just know he looks like a shrivelled up thumb, yet has the audacity to say this. Poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 12:59 AM |
| 13 | A page I follow on Facebook just posted this. Can we not encourage this, please?Lmao. Sis, where is your self respect 🤡🤡🤷🏼♀️ damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | D.L Hughley on Kanye West stalking Kim KardashianOut of curiosity, what did this comment say, it’s been removed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 10:16 PM |
| 49 | Man OK with 50/50 relationship as long as it's to his advantage. But as soon as it barely compensates the woman, it's transactional and gross. Notice, they're "spiritually" married 🙄Spiritually married. HA 🥲😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 09:13 PM |
| 6 | How does FDS feel about women who watch porn for self pressure?Wtf. The FDS stance on porn gets covered a lot here. Read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 08:10 PM |
| 30 | Wholesome post❤️ i’ll be doing the sameOP you might want to black out the name of the sub ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 06:21 PM |
| 18 | "I just can't believe someone hasn't put a baby in you already!"Lmao. Ugh, I fucking hate this. Especially when you’re child free🙄🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 482 | Middle aged men who “don’t know yet” on dating appsIn my opinion, they know damn well that a lot of women won’t want to engage with them at all, especially if those women themselves want children at some point in the future.. So to me it always feels like they were just dangling the carrot 🥕and leading women on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 12:15 PM |
| 118 | Abusers wait to reveal his true colours until you’re baby trapped. Vet ruthlessly by enforcing your boundaries during courtship.I hope that poor woman actually takes on the advise that’s being given. She’s not safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 02:31 AM |
| 35 | If he wanted to he wouldOofttt😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 12:36 AM |
| 760 | Fucking idiot 🤡This sounds so fake. Lmao, just no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 09:01 PM |
| 29 | It is up to MEN to prove they are feminists, NOT womenI agree with this. I honestly don’t believe they can be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 10:02 PM |
| 127 | when men have nothing else they have the audacityAbsolutely disgusting.. Yet I’m really not surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 06:31 PM |
| 47 | How do you respond to men who ask you to teach them something as an OLD opener?Unmatch!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:14 AM |
| 159 | Hopefully Sis finds her way to our sideUgh thinking back I can completely relate to this. The age gap, the lack of experience, lack of orgasms🙄 how did I move forward? I left him, lmao. There is no other option here for her. There’s no point trying to cOmMuNiCaTe with him. He’s happily used her as a fleshlight for 5 years, he won’t want to suddenly start having to put in effort, and put her needs ahead of his own 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 11:39 PM |
| 123 | (TW) Her husband PEED IN HERI feel so grossed out reading this🤢 this sounds like assault, that poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Shitty Scrote Bus DriverI don’t think this is petty. Do what you need to do! I hope this gets resolved and you’re able to draw a line under it🤞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:47 AM |
| 446 | Never go backFuck. He killed her. I’d bet money that wasn’t her sister replying by text after she got home.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 10:31 AM |
| 117 | My third grade French teacher hit on me at the gym todayFucking predatory🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 08:52 PM |
| 178 | Dating has no second chances. Stop giving them!Yes! I’ve had a lot of people tell me I’m immature for cutting men completely off after a break up. But you know what? My emotional and mental health is so much better for it, and I’m happy. Yet female friends who have “stayed in touch” or are now supposedly “good friends” with their ex partners are the ones who’re repeatedly being lead on/stressed out and used by these scrotes. Men use women’s emotions and the nostalgic feeling women often have about the relationship against them, and they don’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 12:11 PM |
| 43 | Midlife crisis is reconciling your youth and impending death…another one bites the dust 🙄Lmao and they say that men age life fine wine 🥲 Yuck, he looks like a creepy uncle who can’t keep his hands to himself 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 12:02 PM |
| 65 | Scrolling Reddit is downright depressing: women with no dignity or self-respectI feel this post in my very soul. Every single word of it. For my own mental health I’ve restricted what I look at one here, because it’s just so infuriating and distressing. I do however reach out a few times a week via pm to any women who I think are still able to be helped with just a gentle invite over here, without any heavy pressure.. Then it’s up to them to make a choice. Put themselves first, or continue as they are. We can’t save them all, but I’ve had quite a few women responds back to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 01:24 PM |
| 105 | Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻♀️🎪🤡Oh honey, no🤡🎪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 02:51 AM |
| 5 | Men Who Are Bored/ Claim You’re BoringThis is such a great post, and so fucking accurate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Signs of Cheating: How to spot them?I’m sorry, please don’t be too hard on yourself. So many of us are in the same boat. You’re here now though, that’s what’s important! 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 05:37 PM |
| 33 | What is this the FDS take on “free the nipple” movement?This comment right here ☝️☝️☝️☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 10:02 PM |
| 411 | From a FB group: male rando on OLD sends woman low-effort opener asking for personal information, woman states boundary, pickmes are upset she didn’t coddle him enough.“Yikes! Your hateful” <~~ fuck off lmao. Pickmes STOP coddling and pandering to these low life scrotes. ✋🛑🖕🏼🖕🏼🖕🏼🖕🏼🖕🏼🖕🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 09:42 PM |
| 23 | Polyamorous PickMe comes *so* close to getting it... but doesn't 🤡It’s a shame you can’t cut this woman off.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 09:37 PM |
| 389 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.I’m outraged at the family members that have turned against her though. WTF?! she’s done nothing wrong, and yet they’ve turned on her. 🤯🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:07 PM |
| 320 | For the laughs, ladies! Now men are calling us "entitled" for wanting the bare minimum!Well, at least she ditched him 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:36 PM |
| 612 | 21yo woman and her 30yo 🚩 homeless boyfriend 🚩 has moved in to her home 🚩within 2 months 🚩Ok wtf. I’m sure I’ve been seeing an increase in posts where mothers are just tossing their young daughters into the clutches of predatory scrotes. My mum would have gone ballistic if this were me.. He’s almost a decade older than her!!. She’s still college. What about her education? What about her personal growth?😩🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 06:49 PM |
| 199 | The occupation of men on OLDOr work at “self employed” but didn’t state what they actually do, or anything else at all about their work in their profile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 12:22 PM |
| 23 | What is up with men saying they want someone who is passionate about something?I was also scrolling for this comment 😂💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 11:53 AM |
| 77 | Male Scrote tried to silence meWhat was your response to him when he said that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 10:14 AM |
| 103 | Valentine’s Day cringeYou’re absolutely not wrong for thinking this. I’m sick of seeing it too. You just know those same low effort, unwashed scrotes would be the first to complain and judge those women if they matched their energy and just stopped making effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 01:13 AM |
| 4 | Textbook Terrible V-DayLmao, hE nEvEr SaW iT cOmInG 🤡🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 09:47 PM |
| 84 | When a man blatantly says he's the jealous type, you better believe he's a toxic, controlling and manipulative man.Offt. I hope you’ve blocked and deleted him everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:33 PM |
| 346 | Zero Effort Valentine’s DayYou already know what to do. I’m not being rude, but this sounds like a post from one of the relationship subs.. If he wanted to he would. He KNEW what day it was. He chose to ignore it, and to neglect/let you down. You then rushed around trying to make reservations 🤷🏼♀️ Next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 02:16 PM |
| 64 | This kinda chaos is what happens when people believe to live in a dream-world where sex means nothing and men don't cheat (emotionally or sexually)I just can’t feel sorry for this one, nope 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 12:29 PM |
| 41 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯I’ve just checked the comment section again, and he’s so whiny and throwing himself a pity party in every response.. Thankfully people are calling him out on his bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:12 PM |
| 68 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯Oh my goodness 😂 They can’t bare the fact women actually move on from them.. Also potential access to sex (in their minds) being taken off the table? It feels like once they’ve “had you” they will always feel entitled to our bodies and minds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 07:44 PM |
| 328 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯I also found that part unsettling 😐 Why would you admit to being a predator that groomed someone so very young, and inexperienced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:24 PM |
| 174 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯Good for her, I love to see it. I’m sure that ex is still incredibly bitter about your friends accomplishments and levelling up to this day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:18 PM |
| 140 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯Exactly, she’s found happiness.. leave her alone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:06 PM |
| 102 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯Right!? He just can’t bare the idea of her moving on, and actually finding happiness with someone who doesn’t see her a fall back option 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 94 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯Absolutely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:05 PM |
| 234 | Heartbreaking…long con revenge plan by scroteThat poor woman, how traumatising. I’m absolutely fuming reading this🤬😤.. This is why we don’t “make peace” or give scrotes closure. They’ll use any opportunity they can to fuck you over. I’d advise cutting your losses if it’s just clothes or easily replaceable items, you just never know what they might do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:31 PM |
| 22 | Racist male depravity and the women who enable it smfhReading that comment made me feel physically sick 🤢.. I wonder if that’s actually her posting, or if her pictures been stolen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 10:35 AM |
| 150 | Holy shit this is genius 😂😂😂🤣🤣😂Block and delete as you caught him in a lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:39 PM |
| 211 | When the guy you're dating doesn't even send you a message on valentines....Good for you. He’s not bothered to message you for two days anyway, time to block and delete!. There’s just no excuse. It takes all of 20 seconds to fire off a quick “I’m busy with work/commitments, so I’ll message/call you later/tomorrow when I’m free to catch up ”🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 08:57 PM |
| 169 | He showed up at my door last nightYikes. He sounds absolutely unhinged. Fuck off scrote with that “there was nO cLoSuRe” bullshit. What a clown 🤡. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 08:48 PM |
| 73 | Hansel-and-Greteling my way out of a toxic relationshipThank you for posting this, I’ve just screen shot your post and am going to send it to someone who I believe would truly benefit from reading about your experience. I hope you and your cat are doing well now!🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 07:18 PM |
| 30 | Half time showHe has a wife!? 😭🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:25 PM |
| 8 | An example of a LV Valentine's day gift. The bar is so low, that she's so excited about receiving this "gift" 🤮😳Did a man write this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:20 PM |
| 123 | Porn sick scrote almost killed his girlfriend performing kink. THIS IS DANGEROUS!They would have asked him what happened to have caused this.. Then he’d have to explain that he was strangling her in a hot tube till she lost consciousness 🤡 He cares about the consequences of what would happen to him above her welfare. What a prick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:11 PM |
| 200 | This poor girl needs saving. Porn sick, limp dick... and abusive.She doesn’t need to figure anything out, she’s just needs to leave that porn sick loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 12:44 AM |
| 33 | So I got left a day before VDay but I am not the sad victim -- thanks to FDS!Exactly this. Why are you waiting for him to contact you again. There’s no good reason to drag this out. Just block and delete him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 06:56 PM |
| 88 | A reminder that being a high value woman will be uncomfortableDon’t know why this comment is getting downvoted? You’re right, it’s SO dangerous getting into a car with a man you’ve only know for three weeks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 03:52 PM |
| 272 | Why we shouldn’t have men as friends….a sequel.Lmao. He apologised saying he said what he did because of alcohol, but deep down she knows it must be true. So, actually HE still believes it’s true and his “apology” meant fuck all. What a judgmental twat. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Mistakes were made, let us count the ways…How many more edits did she make, can you share them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 01:37 PM |
| 40 | I don’t understand why men are so cruel. Rant.OP I’ve just seen your other post and some of those comments are brutal and disgusting.. Look, Reddit is NOT the place for you to be posting/asking for advice; except for this sub sis. Fuck those horrible bastards on your other post. Fuck them all. 🖕🏼🖕🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 11:34 PM |
| 44 | Juxtaposition, Screencapped by me, Digital, 2022Spot on, lmao 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 279 | Scrote wants to "adopt" a 20 year old "adult daughter"....a homeless pregnant woman from Austria who lost her father at a young agrThat was SO painful to watch. He’s absolutely a predator and will prey on that girl.. So of course I do feel bad for the wife, you can tell she was on the brink of tears throughout that. But, at the same time she should have put her foot down and said no to it all. She knows he wants to sleep with his new “daughter” and she’s allowed this sick fantasy to actually happen. I can’t see this ending well at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 05:12 PM |
| 17 | This scrote just followed me. Can’t decide if it’s a fake or if he’s married.Married. Delete! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 02:56 PM |
| 71 | Instead of matching their energy, give them less.Yes I agree. They’re not going to suddenly change their behaviour with you, lmao. Why play games. Just block and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | The audacity! Time to abandon or murder your pet, as all good women doThank god. SO happy to hear that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Men have no empathy smh I feel so bad for her😢😡 why do so many men do this?Isn’t this the third time this has been posted in the last two days? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of "The Tinder Swindler"?Don’t know why you’re getting down voted for saying this 😂 I’m sick of seeing posts about it as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:19 PM |
| 26 | which podcast is it that talks about men deliberately trying to break down a confident woman?I think it comes up a few times during several episodes. I’ve recently listened to Episode 48 and it was touched on there too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:47 PM |
| 127 | Husband “face fucks” pregnant wife for 45 minutes, gets verbally abusive when she wants an orgasm too; OP thinks it’s her fault for “not communicating”What’s attractive to them is the literal pain, disgust and sadness they see in the woman’s eyes as they degrade her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 10:24 PM |
| 242 | Barb the Builder: don't do unpaid labour for a manOoft. Now I wonder why his previous secretary quit🤔 ..Honestly I don’t know who’s worse here, him or his damn family. NTA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 04:20 PM |
| 415 | Are most high value women “doomed”?I think yes some will, but we’re genuinely ok with that. Standards are standards and I’m not prepared to lower them or make exceptions.. Lots of us already have very fulfilling lives/ are working towards that, and once you accept that yes maybe I won’t meet someone who meets my requirements it’s actually quite freeing. I personally feel so relieved and less stressed now than ever before. It’s like a weight has been lifted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:49 PM |
| 247 | New Rule: His kitchen appliances cannot be older than the women he datesI’ve yet to date a guy who even owned proper kitchen appliances. Damn where’s that bar 🔥😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 02:07 PM |
| 19 | The darker underside of the “cool girl”Umm 😦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 04:22 AM |
| 3 | When is the last time you had 5 star sex ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐?Never 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 02:24 AM |
| 1 | He wants her to…kill her horse for him? Did I get that right???This was already posted here yesterday :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 09:36 PM |
| 94 | Canadian Teen Killed by British Man She Flew to Meet After Falling for Him on Dating AppAgreed. I feel like her smile looks quite forced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 06:37 PM |
| 46 | FDS Rules save the day again!This is amazing! She’s lucky to have you both ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 06:14 PM |
| 246 | Women are interchangeable (seen on IG)Well that definitely didn’t happen 😂Wtf scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 05:27 PM |
| 47 | Observe on how he treats you when you're sick or in a bad situationDamn, he really didn’t deserve you.. Congratulations on getting your life back now though 🤍✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 08:12 PM |
| 221 | Just saw this posted at another community… 🤮So fucking predatory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 07:34 PM |
| 193 | The audacity! Time to abandon or murder your pet, as all good women doAs a fellow horse owner and animal lover this made my fucking stomach turn.. So, I’ve always prioritised my animals over any guy I’ve been with, and it’s caused me problems too. Guys have given me ultimatums and tried to get me to “pick them” over animals that I absolutely adore and love. I’ve ended relationships due to this, even as a pickme. NO CHANCE scrotes. OP are there any updates?!☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 07:24 PM |
| 26 | this is why we need to vet!Dear god 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 01:35 AM |
| 701 | Men share their stories of when they treated women the worst.Ugh, I honestly couldn’t read all of these☹️.. As each day passes my attraction to men withers more and more. Bastards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 08:21 PM |
| 19 | I know somebody already posted about this but I just want to show how many people think that this kind of nastiness is okay! Sorry if it's not okay to post this again. 🤢🤢🤢Damn they really do, don’t they 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 85 | Promise rings are a fucking joke.100%. It’s just another way for them to lead women on. It’s honestly embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 06:35 PM |
| 34 | Does anybody else get tired of fake women's posts undoubtedly written by men?I did this once too back in the day. Similar reaction, as if I’d given him gift wrapped shit. They were gorgeous, and there was no way I’d let them just wilt and die in his musty bedroom so I took them home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 05:30 PM |
| 85 | LVM manipulation tactic: slandering HVM friendsLmao so true. LVM are the biggest gossips and absolute shit stirrers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:06 AM |
| 488 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!The second hand embarrassment is strong with this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:00 AM |
| 31 | Lurkers Stay Mad: Reported For Posting Violent ContentCan confirm these side effects are absolutely horrible to live with. I’ve got to be on a particular type of birth control to manage a health condition, and it’s pretty damn concerning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 12:56 AM |
| 69 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!Ugh. OP what are the comments saying on that post… 🤔please tell me people aren’t trying to somehow blame her or advising her to “communicate and work through it” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 03:06 PM |
| 9 | Found on another sub. I was grossed out by how many people thought this was so cute and #couplegoals material 🤢Every other one but FDS. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 12:28 PM |
| 20 | I think he told on himselfThis is such a brilliant comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 04:56 PM |
| 463 | A guy brought up porn half a minute after matchingI mean, I’m not even surprised🤷🏼♀️ Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 01:58 PM |
| 227 | reported naked images of women taken via a hidden cam and this is what reddit responds! i'm so enraged! is there anything we can do against such subs to stop them from circulating images that nvms fap to?I truly feel your frustration and disgust. But Reddit supports absolutely brutal porn subs and women posting OF links/content, so I don’t think there is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 01:40 AM |
| 551 | One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run!I’m fuming. I see her edit, and I’m glad her mum can see its unacceptable. But, is she going to leave him permanently 🤷🏼♀️I hope so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:21 PM |
| 30 | 10 year age gapWomen his own age aren’t dating him for a good reason. He’s a predator going after you as he thinks he can easily manipulate you.. Please reread the handbook. Trust your gut instincts, we have them for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 05:16 PM |
| 166 | RIP Lauren. 💔 Shame on the Bridgeport PD for not taking this seriously. PLEASE be safe with dates you met through OLD, ladies.Wtf are they playing at?! What an absolute shit show. That poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 03:27 AM |
| 42 | One of Y'all's 50/50 Boyfriends Is Posting About FDS lolThis looks familiar.. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 02:46 AM |
| 48 | STOP BENDING OVER BACKWARDS FOR ABUSERS WHO BEND YOU FORWARD AND SCREW YOU. She is so fortunate not to end up like Gabby Petito, yet she still wants to be accommodating to her hobosexual ex who ousted her from a van in another state.My thoughts exactly. I bet he doesn’t actually care for the watch that much, he just wants to make her jump through hoops and majorly inconvenience her out of spite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 06:38 PM |
| 107 | If he doesn’t lovingly and passionately kiss you during sex, he does NOT love you.😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 02:19 PM |
| 109 | Your male friends WILL masturbate to you, and it’s not their fault. Here you have it Queens, If you are friends with men, they will masturbate to you, because they can, and because it’s private, and none of your business.Gross. This is why I don’t have social media. Posts like this are a reminder that I made the right decision lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 11:35 AM |
| 126 | Men are crying out that no one cares about their mental healthThese are the same men who when asked have they seen their GP for advise/referral or made any positive lifestyle changes, they’ll tell you that’s not manly or they can’t be bothered.. 🤷🏼♀️ So I don’t care anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 07:05 AM |
| 11 | Purposefully doing things to drive up the utility bill his gf pays….just when I thought I’ve read it all 🤦🏼♀️OP you need to cover up the name of the sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:47 PM |
| 326 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scrote“Even if he comes up with an explanation for this” 🤔🤯 there is NO acceptable explanation for a grown man to be sexting a child. She needs to leave and report that predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Man pretends to be doctor, lawyer and council official to control his girlfriend. Story in the comments:Agreed. Haven’t ALL of us here at some point been manipulated and emotionally abused, often whilst we’ve been struggling with our mental health. We’ve all been fooled. Believed things that in hindsight may seem off, but whilst it’s happening we couldn’t spot it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 06:10 PM |
| 6 | You can date a man for ten months, think you're his girlfriend and he will still say you're "casual" and go behind your back and find a whole new girlfriend.This queen must have sensed something was off with him (he was seeing other women) and didn't sleep with him.100% this 👆👆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:30 PM |
| 8 | Casual Sex ConfusionFrom the way you’ve described this, I get the impression you need help/advise from a professional instead of us here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:25 PM |
| 102 | ✨How to piss off a guy with an inflated ego 101. Works like a charm every time✨Spot on, lmao 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:17 PM |
| 82 | A disussion about men's heights and lies thereof with my HV fatherI’m 5’10” and I remember when I was online dating and meeting men it was extremely obvious when I’d meet them and they were clearly lying. I had one guy try to argue with me in a public restaurant/bar, and he kept insisting I take off my shoes and stand back to back to prove that I was the one lying lmao. People around us were stopping to look and whispering, as he was almost shouting at me at one point and his face was dark red with rage. It was incredibly embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 01:21 PM |
| 201 | Strangest icks and dealbreaker?Men who refer to women as FeMaLeS 😶 Also men who won’t accept that they have a health issue (often serious) that’s affecting them and usually their partner as well, but they refuse to see a GP because of their “pride” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each dayJust wanted to say as someone who’s also dealt with ruptured cysts and endometriosis I fu*king feel your pain/fear and I’m SO sorry he treated you like that. Absolutely disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 08:40 PM |
| 23 | There are plenty more fish in the bucket.Lmao, perfect🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Some of the creatures lurking on online dating sitesGross 😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 01:57 PM |
| 22 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?✋ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 10:38 AM |
| 249 | “Ask her out, but you dont need to pay”“Ask her out for a walk” - 🐶🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 06:43 PM |
| 11 | I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.Brilliant haha!. But first you’ll actually have to find a hottie..I can’t remember the last time I saw an attractive man ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:34 PM |
| 5 | I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.😂💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:29 PM |
| 20 | I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.Haha what, lmao. I don’t even want to know how this came up in conversation 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:28 PM |
| 70 | I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.You’ve summed it up perfectly👌.. Reasonable boundaries? What the hell are those?! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 08:29 PM |
| 84 | I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.She sounds insecure to me, so perhaps thinks he is the best that she can get? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 08:14 PM |
| 182 | I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.Exactly you’re right, absolutely useless. I’m going to pm the OP and invite her over. Wish I’d found this sub at her age! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 07:40 PM |
| 141 | I’ve been in this woman’s position before finding FDS, and it’s exactly why I will not tolerate porn in relationships now.Right? It makes me feel so sad that more and more young women are having to deal with guys like this.. Something tells me he’ll use the “bucket list” thing as a way to pressure her into it, and she’ll go along with it so she doesn’t lose him :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 07:18 PM |
| 830 | Thank you thank you FDSHe really thought you’d still be interested after telling you all that, lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 03:28 PM |
| 10 | Have your first impressions of men been accurate?Absolutely, every single time. Yet I felt pressured by society to give them the benefit of the doubt, and it’s ALWAYS been a huge mistake. Trust your gut instincts ladies, it’s not wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 03:01 PM |
| 18 | Interpreting a scrote's sad taleI get the impression he’d constantly be holding the fact that he paid for her degree over her head☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 12:55 PM |
| 9 | This 4chan story is fake AF, but if there’s even a grain of truth in it, good on the ex-gf on leveling up!Righhttt, lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 12:10 PM |
| 72 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!I love posts like this, and damn he sounds like a creepy piece of sh*t. Don’t know how you stuck it honestly, I would have been done much earlier on and left! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 140 | Stupid rant about Kim & KanyeI never liked Kanye, ever. Glad Kim is now seeing her worth and not taking his sh*t anymore.. As others have said she’s the only stable parental figure those children have, and it’s obvious she dotes on them. The media are always going to paint the woman in these situations as the monster. But she and the people that matter to her know the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 08:05 PM |
| 51 | No thanks man child. Take your 43 y/o unemployed, no car having, gaslighting self elsewhere.No need to even respond, wether it’s good or bad he still got some of your attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 07:59 PM |
| 530 | Looking the same after babiesIt makes me feel so sad when I see that women feel under SO much pressure to “bounce back” after having a baby ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 04:14 PM |
| 805 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same wayHahah 😂Sucks to be used doesn’t it fellas🖕🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 08:16 PM |
| 491 | A “predictable response” from a redditor. My concern about men preying on young girls is definitely just jealousy 🙄“YoU’rE jUsT jEaLoUs” Nothing you said in your response sounds remotely jealous🙄.. Just admit you’re a predator buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 07:29 PM |
| 15 | I prefer men to have the emotional strength to call out their fellow men, thanksNo you’re not 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 08:50 PM |
| 67 | I prefer men to have the emotional strength to call out their fellow men, thanksLMAO fuc*ing this. You can allegedly fight off a bear, but you can’t do the washing, or put the dishwasher on.. 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 08:48 PM |
| 18 | Watch "This Changes Everything" on NetflixLooks like this post has really triggered scrotes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 08:44 PM |
| 259 | Why can’t they support women like women support their partners?Can confirm from my own experience when I was diagnosed with a serious life long health condition and needed an invasive operation, my ex completely checked out and didn’t want to know. He didn’t care at all. I was SO stressed/anxious and he shrugged it off, and tried to make out it wasn’t a big deal when in fact it’s sadly been life changing for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 09:06 AM |
| 151 | This made me throw up in my mouth just a littleGross.. And scrotes will still insist that they age like fine wine, lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 02:19 AM |
| 169 | A mother is concerned when her daughter comes home from her boyfriend's house with clear slap marks on her cheek. Pornsick Redditors tell her its sexually empowering, and she agrees. This is the state of women in 2022.Ugh yes, PLEASE be scrote fan fiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 17 | THANK-YOU!I love posts like this 🙂🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:47 PM |
| 165 | Men wonder why they aren't able to be included in our discussions“As A m@N …” 🙄🛑🖕🏼🚷🚧FDS🚷🙅🏼♀️✋🖕🏼🚫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 06:27 PM |
| 29 | Did any exes hit you up for New Years 2022.☝🏼☝🏼My thoughts exactly..Why not just block them, as it’s still entertaining them to a certain extent by showing them their messages are being read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 99 | I Met My Friend's LVM During The HolidaysThat sounds awful and must have been incredibly disappointing for you having to cut a new friendship short.. But, it was definitely the right thing to do and has no doubt saved you a lot of stress in the long run. Women who can’t uphold boundaries with men are almost always an emotional drain on their friends, and you deserve better 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:42 AM |
| 10 | Just got banned from relationship advice for my comment asking her to join us hereAs others have said, don’t publicly link to this sub like that, please send a DM instead.. Otherwise It encourages extra negative attention and brigading from scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:02 AM |
| 205 | He didn’t really ask, but I’ll answer (scrotes, pay attention!)Ha bloody hell, I hope you picked up a bottle of scrote repellent whilst you were there😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 06:17 PM |
| 31 | looking men in the eye, and being receptive vs naturally feeling defensive -- how do you navigate this?Thank you for sharing that thread it’s been an interesting read! It’s nice to see I’m not the only one who feels suspicious and uneasy when men say hello.. Almost every single time a man has said hello in public it’s been said in a tone of voice which sounds sleazy, and has almost always been followed by them aggressively saying something inappropriate, getting angry that I’ve not responded and/or trying to get into my personal space. I’ve not had these experiences with women In public spaces. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 06:07 PM |
| 110 | REMINDER: BDSM is more than a kink. It’s indicative of a man who gets off from abusing women. This poor woman found gore p*rn on her bf’s laptop and the comments are saying it’s just a harmless kink and that she’s overreacting for thinking he’ll harm her. I weep for this generation.OP in that post KNOWS this is fuc*ed up but, still questions herself and has to ask if she’s wrong for being rightfully concerned😭 Also that condescending “oh honey” in that response irritates me so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 03:19 PM |
| 17 | Was wondering if any FDS ladies on here have lost interest in dating after finding a job with a healthy environment and/ making more money?Absolutely! My career and my hobbies are so fulfilling and rewarding that I feel absolutely NO desire to date, and potentially upset what I’ve got going on right now 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 02:23 PM |
| 16 | Make independent self-centered choices all 2022Love this mindset 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 02:19 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else experiencing the desperation going on in OLD right now?Desperate clowns, all of them🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 02:18 PM |
| 4 | FDS angers Reddit at large, and that's how you know it works.Some of us keep DM’s open so we can reach out to other members or vulnerable women in other subs that we think might benefit from FDS. But yeah otherwise I just block and delete messages from scrotes😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 08:14 PM |
| 998 | This should be how women approach sex. If he can’t make you orgasm he can’t get access. 💅🏾👑🙄Ugh. Look how he tries to shift the blame onto her, instead of actually listening to his gf’s advice and being gentle. He probably watches porn and thinks that ramming his fingers inside her and jabbing her randomly will get her off. Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 02:55 PM |
| 87 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.Exactly! So gross. Something tells me that with this attitude he isn’t the type to get tested or checked out regularly either 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 12:03 PM |
| 38 | Levelling up man freeCongratulations!🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 11:04 AM |
| 12 | I keep blaming myself.So sorry to hear that you’re feeling so down right now. I haven’t really got much advise apart from if you can please block him and anyone else on socials who may cause you to emotionally relapse.. Take the time you need for self care, and try not to be so hard on yourself. You were with an abuser for a long time, It’ll take time to recover from all this. Small steps, keep setting yourself attainable life goals to keep yourself focused, and please remember you were never ever the problem 🤍🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 08:01 PM |
| 82 | PickMes be like: “It’s OUR nest!”Lmao🤣 oh my god, the nest 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:20 PM |
| 289 | Perfect example of men having issues with your pets being a red flag! And this queen response!!!He sounds like an absolute twat, I can’t stand men who behave this way around animals.. She’s well rid of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:35 PM |
| 215 | Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope.☹️This is truly shocking, can’t even imagine the physical and emotional pain she must be living with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 12:24 PM |
| 70 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.Fair enough, still sounds off to me😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:31 PM |
| 230 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.That original post doesn’t seem right, somethings off.. Sounds like a dude larping as a woman to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:28 PM |
| 55 | Advice for Moving In with a BoyfriendThis☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 09:07 PM |
| 96 | Going for a man you think is below you, only to have it backfire. Has anyone else dealt with this?I used to do this and the same thing would happen. The over inflated ego and suddenly thinking that they’re “better than me” ..Lesson learned, eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 06:08 PM |
| 15 | Trust him, he’s worth itHe sounds abusive, honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 05:38 PM |
| 70 | Your partner should never ask you for a gift wish list.I used to buy my ex gifts months in advance, as and when I saw something I knew he either wanted or would be super thoughtful etc. I’d lovingly wrap them, with a heartfelt card 🤡 I later found out he waited literally to the last minute and would panic buy mine, with absolutely NO thought. He wouldn’t even wrap them. 😶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 03:56 PM |
| 26 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭HAHAH🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 09:18 PM |
| 294 | Have any of you ever known a man who initiated a split with his partner WITHOUT getting into a new relationship right away?None. They’ve always had another woman lined up straight away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 06:14 PM |
| 208 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsBecause they’re pickmes desperate for head pats and male approval🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 05:47 PM |
| 11 | Vetting LVM guy friends...I know this topic has been mentioned a lot recently but WOW cant stress enough!!!I agree with you 100% ..Men are NOT out friends. They do not view us as humans or equal. They are incapable in my opinion of maintaining a genuine friendship with a woman without at some point trying to turn things sexual, disrespecting us, or manipulating us into doing something that benefits them and their dick. 🤢 Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 12:18 PM |
| 16 | My FDS post gets shared across another sub, and now my inbox is flooded. HELP.Turn off your messages, and delete this post afterwards.. You don’t want them to see it’s gotten to you. I’d suggest you have an alt account just for FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 12:11 PM |
| 120 | 'Body count': Do people count and what even matters?All the scrotes are furiously down voting this post and comments, lmao 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 02:14 PM |
| 39 | 'Body count': Do people count and what even matters?Haha same 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 02:12 PM |
| 3 | I don't know why anyone would date a single fatherVery weird indeed. I 100% agree with your post, have my upvote 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 01:54 PM |
| 16 | Story TimeSimilar thing has happened to me before, the gift thing in particular is so manipulative. Glad you ended things with him, and try not to be too hard on yourself. Becoming a HVW is a journey and doesn’t happen over night.🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:56 AM |
| 16 | OP asked for advice and naturally everyone gaslit her into thinking she was at faultI’m worried for OP ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:42 AM |
| 637 | I just waited around to protect my lash technician from a creepy client.My lash tech now only allows female clients due to men behaving this way in the past!. She’s had some very creepy experiences, whilst she’s literally just been trying to do her job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 05:25 PM |
| 27 | Friends that make questionable relationship decisions like this are LV. I don’t understand how the entire friend group KNOWS it’s disgusting and yet…no one steps up to call him out. Gross.OP you need to black out the sub name in that first screenshot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Just because a guy doesn't have some negative traits doesn't mean he is HVThank you for saying this! I’ve seen a few members calling men “medium value” recently in other posts.. It just feels like they’re still trying to justify less obvious shitty behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 02:28 PM |
| 9 | Men really have no shame - serial philanderer candidly admits his “escapades” during first dateLmao 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 02:26 PM |
| 13 | If you have trouble thinking about continuously vetting after finding a man - try the "Wing Mindset".This is brilliant! 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:16 AM |
| 70 | Wife’s message to husband on TinderYikes honey no. Also, where’s his damn chin in that photo😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Putting myself first 😌Well done☺️ I love to see posts like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 01:00 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]These are amazing🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 12:48 AM |
| 100 | Thousands of comments of women's experiences giving birth with shitty partners under a meme about a dude Shushing his wife giving birth. This one in particular got me. THANK GOD I am never pro creating with a man.This doesn’t even surprise me. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Need advice to level up a guy.We don’t build men up or try to change them. Please read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | VET VET VET your male friends to the same standards you would a potential partner!Strangle. Not choke, he tried to strangle OP. Absolutely terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 74 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.What a vile creature. She deserves better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:43 PM |
| 62 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyFemales 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Two weeks into breakup.. ex who?Great post! 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 03:45 PM |
| 16 | This guy asked me to call him. This is his social media profile picture.Eiw no 😭🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 01:48 AM |
| 372 | Poor PickMe did a dang photoshoot 🤦♀️This is just embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:40 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-InHe’s reaching out for attention to feed his ego and to see if he can potentially lure you back in so he can keep you on the back burner for when he wants to cheat in his current relationship. You’re worth so much more than this. I know it’s easier said than done, but try not to let him have any more of your attention. Keep blocking him when he reaches out. X | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:02 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-InUgh gross, so disrespectful. Is he blocked now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:56 PM |
| 320 | They always come back for a temp checkDamn they’re desperate. Thanks, I needed a laugh 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:32 PM |
| 378 | I'm done with men shorter than meGirl same. Small, bitter, jealous insecure man syndrome is a real thing. I’m the same height as you. I’ve dated men shorter than me (because of societal pressure to gIvE tHeM a ChAnCe) and each and every one of them was SO insecure and tried to make me feel bad for my height 😅 I love being tall and I’m not insecure at all and they hated that. I’ll never ever date a guy shorter than 6ft again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:53 PM |
| 71 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.This😂 At least women are hygienic and actually clean themselves. Scrotes don’t even wipe because they think it’s gay 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:37 PM |
| 90 | POS is posting graphic cartoon p@rn on Reddit pages geared towards children. The users are begging their mods to remove the content. This is Reddit's response to my report on the user.I’m not surprised honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:56 AM |
| 17 | Father playing devils advocate when it comes to sexual child abuse, but wife’s not sure what to do?! Raising daughters is terrifying.OP I’m curious to know what the responses to this woman’s post were like?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:47 AM |
| 17 | Men just have to ruin their chances, don't they?😭😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:34 PM |
| 22 | What in the FUCK did I just readPoor woman. Her husband is disgusting. I hope the comments weren’t trying to somehow blame her for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:31 PM |
| 18 | What are your thoughts?Exactly this. This post is NOT the wholesome content it was meant to be, for me anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:46 AM |
| 22 | What are your thoughts?Those precious internet points and head pats though!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:45 AM |
| 178 | Pickme story timeLmao. But aT lEaSt sHe HaS a MaN 🤡🤡🎪🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:44 PM |
| 5 | Mutual friend asked me to ask him out!👆👆👆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 07:28 PM |
| 21 | if a pacarana can lather his butt, pits, and balls then so can your bfThis is just too adorable🥺😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:48 PM |
| 604 | The simple, foolproof way to get your partner to contribute his fair share to chores, cooking, and household management.I’ve lived with two of my partners in the past and this was honestly one of the biggest things that put me off them, aside from their other LV behaviour. But this really made me resent them and even lose attraction to them both emotionally and physically. This is also one of the reasons that I’m very wary of ever living with a guy again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:34 PM |
| 14 | That’s all women are good for, porn genreA hate group, terrori/ts, femc/ls, the list goes on 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 09:05 PM |
| 419 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesHe also shouldn’t list what you do for him. The old “you make me want to be a better person” line comes to mind 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 08:03 PM |
| 16 | Yes, that’s EXACTLY what I’m saying, and I won’t stop saying it.Ugh of course. Same, there are SO many things women have to fear (some on a daily basis) and I’ve never heard a man ever say they fear those same things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 04:19 PM |
| 56 | Yes, that’s EXACTLY what I’m saying, and I won’t stop saying it.I’m waiting for the nOt AlL mEn comments from lurking scrotes.. I 100% agree with this post. We should be wary of them, our damn lives depend on it. Fuck society trying to force us to ignore our natural instincts and sense of self preservation. Men aren’t “harmless” or “oUr FrIeNds”🤡 they are our abusers and rapists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Queens, we have angered the redditors again...😂OP you’ll need to black out the sub and users name :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:33 PM |
| 4 | Everyone in the comments is congratulating him. I'm so confusedYeah I’d delete it, edit the screen shot, there should be a “mark up” option where you can choose a coloured marker tool and then repost :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:22 PM |
| 4 | Everyone in the comments is congratulating him. I'm so confusedAnd what?? So you do the bare minimum and now you want head pats for being a parent🤔 OP you need to black out the sub name and user names :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:13 PM |
| 3 | I turn 24 today.Happy birthday!!🎂🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 09:31 AM |
| 73 | Daily reminder: IF HE WANTED, HE WOULDWow 😯🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:37 AM |
| 128 | Seeing too much bad things. Sharing my favorite TikTok couple. (They’ve met in 1992). Get yourself a man who is excited to take you out.So sweet 🥰🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:10 AM |
| 66 | When are women ready to admit LTR don't mean shit? It's not soft marriage.Rule no.6 no brigading or personally identifiable information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 01:17 AM |
| 56 | When are women ready to admit LTR don't mean shit? It's not soft marriage.OP you need to black out the sub name and user names. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:58 AM |
| 41 | Repeat after me: WE DO NOT DATE MEN WITH FEMALE BESTIESDamn there are SO many women I want to tag here that need to read this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:47 AM |
| 47 | It’s a no from me.Girl no😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 44 | Scrote is a disrespectful jerk on OLD. Gets praised and awarded for lowering the bar by other scrotesGlad to see I’m not the only one who thought that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 24 | If he wanted to he wouldHow lovely! If he wanted to, he would!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:10 PM |
| 89 | 6 days on NC.. broke it on the 7th day today.Honestly try not to focus on finding closure, it doesn’t exist. Ok so you looked.. but you didn’t actually react out and message him! You’ve acknowledged what you did, and been honest here too. This is just a blip. Today is a new day sis, and you are going to get through this 🤍🤍🤍🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:18 PM |
| 338 | "I know it's not actually 'cheating' per say" uum excuse me what 😀You just know that all Reddit scrotes will focus on here is the fact that she looked at his phone, not the fact that he wants to fuck his wifes mother and has edited porn to look like her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | For anyone who’s lurking and still on the fence about wether they should try to CoMmUnIcAtE and work things out.. ✨Ha! These are great :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:31 PM |
| 295 | Today I had to ask what is wrong with some of these men?This is a thought that I think every FDS member has on a daily basis.. 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 10:20 PM |
| 30 | This is horrifying, despicable and incredibly frightening.Sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:24 PM |
| 169 | Saw this on the Book of Faces. Hard. Pass.Ugh, I always feel secondhand embarrassment whenever I see women post things like that 😭🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 04:50 PM |
| 41 | I am SO pissed right now, I can't even see straightOne more wrong thing? Lmao what. He’s thrown up multiple red flags here and you’re still giving this freak your time and energy😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:35 PM |
| 38 | The entire pole is a red flagLmao 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:46 AM |
| 44 | Personal achievementEarth angel 🤮LMAO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Stay safe, my UK sistersVery interesting article, thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 01:28 PM |
| 27 | 3 days, a whole 72 hours on NC .. Spent the weekend distracting myself with my family; had a lot of first times: bowling, mini golf, laser tag ✨ saw the city at night after what feels like a decade 🌃, then drank until I cried - but DIDN'T stalk him. Thanks so much for being patient with me 🙏🏽Really appreciate seeing your updates, what a fun weekend! You’re doing so well! 😌🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:07 PM |
| 45 | This meme is insulting to sharks🥲A few more come to mind: • Narcissist • Emotional/financial abuser • Porn addict • Dude with a harem • Compulsive liar • Still secretly married • Mr split the bill • Send nudes🤪🍆 • Basement dweller • Drug addict • Sexist/racist/homophobe • RPiller • Has secret kids • Fu*k boy • Gaming addict • Gaslighter • OF/cam girl addict • Shrimp dick🤏🏼 • Claims to be a Dom • Lovebomber • Raging misogynist • Texts at 2am “wyd” • Personal hygiene who? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:52 AM |
| 59 | Treat relationships with men like they are temporarySame! It’s nice to be able to say I’m CF here and not be told I’m “mentally ill for not wanting to be a parent” like in other subs🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:21 AM |
| 88 | Very weird pre-date invite condition/terms given. Thoughts? Anyone else come across this before?🤡🤡Mental and physical connections. Fu*k off with that shit. He’s looking to get laid and just dressing this up so you don’t automatically pick up on him saying “physical connections” Block and delete him. 🚩🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 10:13 AM |
| 5 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperwork🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:26 PM |
| 92 | This is why even a low value man like Gaston doesn’t like pickme behavior 😂😂I watched this for the first time last week, and couldn’t help but see the whole film through the FDS lense 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | It’s crazy that everyone in the comments thinks that porn is required to masturbateOP you might want to black out that sub name :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:48 PM |
| 20 | Two things are going on here. 1. He can’t grow up 2. He probably has, or will at some point, have an affair with someone from back home. Making this a normal routine sets up a guaranteed 3 days a week that he can do whatever while not being checked in on. C’mon sis!He has a side piece. HOW can she not see this, god damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:22 PM |
| 18 | 1 DAY OF NO CONTACT!Just take it one day at a time!😌 each day really is an achievement, keep focusing on yourself and remember your worth 🤍✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:17 PM |
| 29 | 1 DAY OF NO CONTACT!Congratulations sis👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:14 PM |
| 60 | Cringeworthy :/Eiww gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:04 PM |
| 95 | Scrote threatens me on FB, but *I* get banned on messenger!What the hell?!😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...I’d say get a gynaecological referral from her GP or if she’s able to go to a gynaecologist directly even better - as referrals can take months and months to process. Make sure she’s super prepared for the appointment. I keep a diary and log every episode and the kind of pain/symptoms I’m experiencing. Keep a record of if there’s anything physically that may set her episodes off. Heavy lifting/ exercise even. Keep a record of how it affects her daily quality of life and how it’s affecting her em… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:49 PM |
| 3 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...No a lapascopic operation is the only 100% way to diagnose and remove.. GPs/gynaecologists can speculate if you give enough symptoms. But again, a lot of these symptoms are often misdiagnosed as other things. An ultrasound can sometimes show ovarian cysts but they can’t know for sure about endo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:01 PM |
| 110 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.So they’ve got the time, money and resources to do this, but things like cancer and life changing health conditions are just put on the back burner because, MuH lEgAcY 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:05 AM |
| 338 | Offered dating advice: now banned permanently from a popular subreddit because I follow FDSI was banned from a woman’s advise/health type sub ages ago.. all because I participate here 🥲 by a male mod 🤏🏼🤏🏼😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 09:48 PM |
| 37 | Hahaha what. #hobosexualWTF 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Feels like women might be waking up to what this sub has been preaching…OP you’ll need to cover up the name of the sub in that screen shot :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:02 PM |
| 11 | When your period pains slowly get worse and start happening outside your period, and people tell you it's all in your head...I have endometriosis and ovarian cysts so can empathise with the physical and mental pain this is causing you. It took me over 8 years to get a diagnosis, sis.. I was told it was just heavy periods, “some women just have bad luck” and my other symptoms “can’t be as bad as you’re making out” 😐 both by doctors and people in my life who I thought cared about me. It was only after going for an MRI for my back that something unusual was picked up on that, and then I went for a lap operation that I wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:57 PM |
| 11 | 27 year old scrote with ED and porn sickness 🤢 and she’s the one who’s insecure and worrying about what she’s doing wrong! 🤦🏻♀️OP did you reach out to this woman? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:04 PM |
| 101 | I just remembered something my Nex said at the beginningIf these are people you can cut ties with, then for your own mental health and sanity please do. He’ll play the victim, lie and manipulate these people, there’s nothing you can do about it at this point. Give yourself a break here, start fresh without any links to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 08:12 PM |
| 27 | Block & Delete but….Can you give some examples of these more subtle red flags? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:58 AM |
| 493 | This is a new low…Oh my goodness, how embarrassing 😭😟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:42 AM |
| 2 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Haha eiww, yeah that’s a real turn off🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:14 AM |
| 33 | If he cares, he CARESIt’s so refreshing to see a post like this, and congratulations on your engagement!🤍✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 11:17 PM |
| 45 | Oh shit here’s another one😆 Scrotes big mad about this sub and my activity on it. See my last 2 posts in this sub for more context.OP this belongs on the super fans sub😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 10:22 PM |
| 447 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueBoundaries, all about breaking down those boundaries. How dare a woman want to use the bathroom in peace and have some god damn privacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:28 PM |
| 21 | Hiking aloneI think he did know, and he enjoyed making OP feel anxious/frustrated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 5 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Wtf 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 01:15 PM |
| 12 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..That’s seriously messed up.. Yes this counts 🤢😟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 11:19 AM |
| 5 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Now thats horrible, poor girl. HOW do they not work out that they are the issue 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 11:17 AM |
| 4 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Ooft. What a train wreck 😂🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 11:00 AM |
| 3 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Ohh my god haha💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 10:42 AM |
| 15 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Hahah 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:40 PM |
| 63 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..100% agree with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:36 PM |
| 128 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Now this is a recurring thing I’ve noticed with abusive/controlling scrotes, especially narcs, they can’t stand women having normal relationships with their pet cats. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:24 PM |
| 170 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Sickening. Bloody hell😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 07:20 PM |
| 43 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Omg no 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 89 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Omg noo 😟Ok, what is it with men and not keeping up with even the most basic dental hygiene?! 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 134 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Thats just really pathetic, honestly. When men behave that way it makes me think they’re clearly lacking or very insecure either about themselves, or some other aspect of their life. At least you’re not with him now, that’s what matters! 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 154 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Wtf. Just walking incubators now are we 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:43 PM |
| 168 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Yikes. That’s just plain spiteful. Where do these men come from?!😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:30 PM |
| 133 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Omg. That sounds like some dark web kinda sh*t.. Thank goodness you left, I wouldn’t feel safe at all!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:19 PM |
| 55 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..😣Wow. At least you walked away from him and didn’t “try to fix him”.. People like that can’t be saved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:16 PM |
| 281 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..That’s terrifying 😟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:12 PM |
| 81 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Ooft. I had an ex who said something similar, my clown ass thought I was the exception too🤡 This seems to be a very common thing though, thinking hE wOnT dO iT tO mE😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 163 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Wow that’s awful. It’s scary to think there are sympathisers like that walking among us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:07 PM |
| 7 | Sisters, the vetting NEVER stops. Once you accept this, you will feel more confident and less insecure in your relationships with menOoft yes, that last paragraph! Thank you for sharing your experience with us 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:10 PM |
| 23 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?Got to agree. This topic has been raked over more times than I can count. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 08:29 PM |
| 13 | The novelty variant of the "Blood in the water" test: "Nobody has ever done ... to me"Another brilliant post saved 🙏🏼✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 10:05 AM |
| 137 | He locks her out of the house, because men are literally the worst.Seriously fu*k that guy. What a petty, childish piece of shit. Then on top it all of everyone else is telling her that SHE’S out of line, and to apologise to him?!? 🚩🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 08:21 PM |
| 152 | They’re telling her it’s “just a game”Yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:04 PM |
| 429 | They’re telling her it’s “just a game”Have you reached out to the OP?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 06:16 PM |
| 22 | A Man and Sexual Harassment (?), + I'm not crazy right?I’ve just woken up and this is the first post I read .. 😭😂 He’s a fuc*ing pervert and was trying to test her boundaries. As always, I can guarantee he’s left some vital details out of his post as well. I hope he stays blocked 🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 07:25 AM |
| 62 | It's peak PUA season. Be on alert at all times!Ok, so I’ve been seeing similar posts recently.. What IS it with men jumping out at women from behind shrubbery, trash cans, almost mowing us down with cars to get our attention or literally chasing us down the damn street 🤔🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 09:52 PM |
| 6 | Are British men as trashy as they look?Brit here. Can confirm British men are generally awful. Rude, depraved, physically unhealthy, porn sick, sexist, racist, misogynistic assholes. Not all….but most. I’d stay well clear, they’re nothing special and don’t be fooled by that “cute British accent” bullsh*t 😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 09:33 PM |
| 67 | What was your moment of clarity?Omg 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 05:37 PM |
| 145 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.Exactly!! I knew a few women who did the casual sex thing a few years ago, and they’d always complain that they never orgasmed.. yet still carried on with that lifestyle?!? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:05 PM |
| 209 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.Yeah honestly casual sex just isn’t worth the risk. Men who have casual sex really don’t care about your sexual health or welfare at all. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:02 PM |
| 264 | Looks are so important100% agree with this!!. I will never again settle for a man I’m not fully attracted to and lusting over. Looks and taking care of yourself matter. For the lurkers this doesn’t just mean being “physically fit”, it means keeping yourself well groomed, being on top of personal hygiene, dressing to suit your physique and smelling good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:11 AM |
| 39 | Thank you, ladies of FDSNow this made me smile 😊I love posts like this!. Wishing you all the best on your levelling up journey 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 04:16 PM |
| 584 | "All ages considered!"Um I’m sorry, who’s image is he using in this advertisement? Edit: word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 02:31 PM |
| 203 | 'When my husband told me to shush during labour I knew our marriage was over'This doesn’t even shock me tbh. Glad she knows that she deserves better though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 12:16 AM |
| 38 | Over 70 women 'marry' trees to prevent them from being cut down. That’s what I call a high value marriage.Why did I laugh at “silent” hahah🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 10:28 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Check-inApparently the maximum group size for the chat has been reached ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 06:00 PM |
| 43 | Weekly FDS Check-inYes, whenever I see “ We’re talking on …….. dating app, haven’t actually met him yet but he seems so HV” 😖 I just can’t deal with those posts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-inAre your direct messages/dms set to off? I just tried to invite you but couldn’t find you 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 06:42 PM |
| 110 | Weekly FDS Check-inThank you for saying this! There’s been too many “male depravity” posts which are emotionally draining, and kind of puts me coming here some days.. I understand it’s good for new members to see what men can be like, but I’d like to see more positive posts and strategy posts please!! 👍🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 04:12 PM |
| 146 | Weekly FDS Check-in“Female terrorist subreddit” 🥲 I’ll never get over the absolutely INSANE ways men and pickmes refer to this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:48 PM |
| 19 | This scrote changed his height on a dating app to get more matches. When he inevitably got more matches he became upset and blamed the dating app for being ‘unfair’ for short men 🌚Had a guy turn up to a date claiming to be 6’1” .. he was SO much shorter than me, then tried to argue with me in public and claim I was the liar and that I can’t be 5’10” <<<< which I definitely am 🙄😭 the fu*k!!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 10:44 PM |
| 84 | Set your account to not allow followersUgh. I just loath that Reddit like most other types of social media is made to benefit men, and certainly doesn’t do enough to protect women and vulnerable people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:58 PM |
| 7 | What to do when you see a Pickmeisha receiving terrible advice on other dating subsI do this regularly! I usually get a positive response and a follow up message after they’ve checked the sub out, which is really nice 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 12:13 PM |
| 39 | What did I just read? Glad she kind of wised up, sad she did it way too late. A forever girlfriend with his baby, self admitted mommy #2, he's an "entrepreneur". Basically a walking pickme & NVM stereotype all in one post.He must have a microscopic dick 🤏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:39 AM |
| 125 | What are some red flags about men’s cleanliness?It’s a red flag and dealbreaker If they can’t clean their dicks properly, or are scared to wipe their ass because they think it’s not manly. 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | FDS Going Private For Monthly Cleanup - Sept 1st and 2ndI believe (although I’m not 100% sure) it’ll only be mods and anyone they actually invite whilst they are working on getting through all the backlogs and requests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 04:03 PM |
| 3 | FDS Going Private For Monthly Cleanup - Sept 1st and 2ndYou appear to have a flare :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 01:44 PM |
| 120 | Times you need confort are good for vetting...Major red flag. Someone you love dearly passing is something he should have definitely paid serious attention to and tried to gage what level of comforting you needed. As you say he didn’t even ask for basic information about what happened. He’s shown major detachment from emotions and made what little communication you had all about him being tired. This is the kind of person who will go radio silent at the first sign of anything inconvenient happening or won’t want to talk anything out if you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 12:15 PM |
| 21 | 35 year old scrote gets offended that 16 y/o kid he groomed insults his music tasteWtf. Where are the parents or guardians here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 09:43 AM |
| 107 | Cheating isn't okay butttttt FIANCE of 11 years? Bro you basically asked her to leave. Court marriages are still valid & cheap. There's no excuse for this.Oooft. Cheating is obviously very wrong, but the relationship can’t be that great or healthy if he’s been leading her on for 11 years. I’m guessing there’s lot of context he’s left out of this post! I don’t particularly have sympathy for either of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 09:35 AM |
| 30 | My experience with Female Vets vs Male VetsHonestly I agree, and I’m so sorry to hear you’ve had to deal with someone like that. I find male vets suffer from the same superiority complex as male doctors.. I’ve had pets my whole life so am no stranger to the vets. I now specifically ask for certain female veterinarians, as whenever I’ve seen a man they’ve always been condescending, judgmental, dismissive of my own extensive knowledge and rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 01:27 PM |
| 31 | I want to burn my eyes 🧍🏽♀️This. How’s she going to explain this to her parents? Especially if they intend to get married?! Or worse have kids 😑🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 08:15 PM |
| 91 | Never doubt your intuition!Glad to hear you trusted your gut enough to do some digging, that would have been an absolute sh*t show if you’d stuck it out and ignored your intuition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Care to share examples of HV behaviour from the men in your life?Thank you to those who’s shared their stories. I think the amount of upsetting Information/experiences that are posted online and in the media every single day sometimes becomes overwhelming, so it’s reassuring to know there are indeed HV men out there! 🥲🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Can’t believe people are giving advise as if the marriage isn’t already dead. Smh!Omg. What are the responses to this post?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:22 PM |
| 34 | Block, block, block!😂Love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:33 AM |
| 652 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingThis is so typical. He was probably expecting her to “snap back” like most celebrities/ influencers supposedly do (personally I think they edit the sh*t out of their pictures/videos and get surgery) so this is a very unrealistic expectation. The fact that he’s made this all about his dick, instead of prioritising his child and his wife’s general health/wellbeing speaks volumes. Edit: and who the fu*k is awarding his post 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:01 AM |
| 6 | I’d wife me 💍Love this energy 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 10:35 PM |
| 132 | Another reversalI wonder how many reports of “targeted harassment” this post gets 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:47 PM |
| 49 | Imagine a LVM giving this to you as a gift…..I feel bad for the girl that received this… Can we not encourage this behaviour?!Gross 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | It is amazing how far some people will go to justify manipulation!OP you may want to cover up the sub name/other redditors names on that screen shot :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 07:22 PM |
| 37 | I’d wife me 💍Yes! And will be doing so for the foreseeable future 🥰🤍✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:08 PM |
| 62 | Why do some men still pretend they don't know the difference between mutual interest and creepy stalking?Nah I wouldn’t like it even if I found him attractive. If he didn’t have the guts to ask me at a party then that tells me he’s not got much self confidence, and clearly wasn’t that into me. Men who stalk women through social media desperately trying to find their contact information are creepy and weird. No thank you. Edit: word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 43 | Why do so many pick mes discard close female friendships once they get into a relationship? How do we not internalize getting discarded by them?I’ve had this done to me in the past and it hurts. On the flip side I’ve done it in two relationships myself, with men who were extremely abusive narcs. I see it now, but at the time I was already very much under their thumb and being manipulated that I couldn’t see it was wrong. In hindsight It was, and I wish I’d been stronger and seen the signs. I wish I’d listened to friends who saw some early red flags. I wish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 10:20 PM |
| 44 | OLD strat: what's yours?I know you just want to test the waters after a long break, but honestly don’t. I’ve never regretted meeting a man more, than those I met through online dating. The last two literally scarred me emotionally/mentally and one even physically assaulted me. It’s a cesspool of all the men who can not properly function in real life around women or are sleazy fu*k boys 😑 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:54 PM |
| 72 | It's not him being turned off, it's meSoo how to dumb yourself down for a scrote basically🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:31 PM |
| 11 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.How much does he weigh? How TALL is this AlPhA mAlE 🤔😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 10:31 AM |
| 262 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!They’re literally terrified of us at this point. Terrified they’re losing access to vulnerable women they can manipulate and abuse.. Keep up the smear campaign fellas, it only brings more women to us each day🥰😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Ways to HVM ;)Reading this really made me smile OP🙂 I’d like to hear more HVM experiences on here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 04:32 PM |
| 5 | A Pickme's Life🙄Is this meant to be funny or cute? How.. pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 4 | Attention Male Lurkers: You need to SHUT THE FUCK up about your online dating problemsThis post 👌🏼😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 02:59 PM |
| 15 | Man 36m lies about divorce to 29f gf. Input girls?He lied to her, broke her trust and she had to find this out herself!?. She deserves better than this. I don’t care how sorry he is, he should have been honest from the start. Not salvageable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:26 PM |
| 184 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorThis scrote can spend a small fortune on his aquarium, but can’t even put clean sheets on his mattress 🥲😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:53 PM |
| 56 | Pick me free day?Yes please! It can be a tad emotionally draining for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Guy that I went to high school with (I'm 31 now) still trying to sleep with me till this day. He's freshly married with a toddler. Mind you, these "talks" consisted of him saying pervy stuff while I tried to get away.Send this to his wife, then block him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:22 PM |
| 90 | Pickmes will blame other women even when it has nothing to do with them. Classy.This is just embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 05:21 PM |
| 14 | I can’t believe what I just found on Facebook! Most of the comments seem to agree with her. 🤡🤮“He is my god” 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:58 PM |
| 6 | Perfect example of groomer/perv soliciting "emotional support nudes"More women need to see videos like this that break down and explain these behaviours. What a fuc*ing predatory piece of shit. 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 09:53 PM |
| 31 | Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvmAhh what a shame 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:44 PM |
| 28 | Can somebody please save her from a life of misery with an old lvmDid you reach out to her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 06:39 PM |
| 65 | Dating men with depression: proceed at your own riskYep, women with depression or mental health issues generally do want to help themselves too, wether that be with therapy, life changes like healthy exercise/diet, medication or a combination. I’ve dated two guys with depression and neither wanted to get off their arse and help themselves. They put it on me to “fix them” and they milked it for all they could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 02:35 PM |
| 59 | Dating coworkers in an FDS-friendly wayIt’s not worth risking making for an awkward work environment when it inevitably doesn’t work out and you find out he’s LV. I’ve seen several of my friends do it and the regret they feel has always been huge.. One vile scrote even went out his way to bully and harass one friend in very sneaky/mind fuc*ing ways to the point she basically had an emotional break down. It’s not worth the risk, don’t do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:07 PM |
| 149 | Can I just leave this here? 🤣🤢 I’ve always hated it when guys say that they’ll stretch you out. Your dicks the size of my little finger, check yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 10:26 PM |
| 81 | The "I have a boyfriend" lie and my personal issue with itI support and respect what you’ve said here. If you’re in an environment where you know you’re safe and have people around you who’ll have your back, then absolutely just say “no I’m not interested” .. Men need to learn that women can and will reject them simply because we have no interest in them and for no other reason or excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 10:03 PM |
| 145 | Woman tells her Scrote boyfriend about a bad sexual experience she had; he is upset because that means "He had a big enough dick to hurt you, and I don't. :("He’s jealous and angry because he thought another man caused that poor woman pain sexually and he can’t compete😡😵💫Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:15 PM |
| 31 | 24 year old scrote shows up to hospital PROUD of getting a 12 year old pregnant and watching her give birth.Oh my god, what a disgusting predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 06:48 PM |
| 28 | FDS are female incels 🙄My thoughts exactly 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 207 | The nerve of this disgusting LVM to comment on his gf’s choice of clothing when his underwear looks like that… and she thinks it’s funny/quirky?! Yikes. 🤢Eiww noo, how can she put that biohazard so close to her face ☣️🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 04:09 PM |
| 12 | The vindication of the prudeI’d proudly wear one 😂👍🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 04:05 PM |
| 180 | Sex work is not empowering. It’s exploitation and the men know it. Sorted comments via controversial and got all of these replies.OF women are only good to have sex with/sub to and yet they will put real life relationships with REAL women in jeopardy in order to keep subscribing to OF women’s content?!?!?🤨😡 Edit: word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:10 PM |
| 58 | What in the pick me depths of hell?I always just thought she was botched.Interesting. I never realised that’s why she’d ended up this way..Please never have plastic surgery for a man 😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 07:24 PM |
| 28 | Keep The Same EnergySpeak up, why are you stuttering 😂👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 10:49 AM |
| 55 | Friendly reminder: Mixed Signals = Hell No 🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️🙅🏽♀️Thanks for sharing! I think posts like this are always really useful and interesting. Also eiww gross, nothing worse than a sloppy kisser 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:55 AM |
| 261 | Confused and at loss for wordsIt is not unreasonable for you to feel uncomfortable in this situation, and NO you are not “crazy” either.. I’ll just say this, she’s always going to be FaMiLy to him 🤨and he’ll use that as an excuse every single time to not draw clear boundaries, or show you the respect you deserve as his current partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 12:40 AM |
| 536 | Learned the reality of male friends the hard way todaySo disgusting and disrespectful. I hope you no longer see him as a friend, block his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 09:56 PM |
| 201 | Found in another sub, imagine thinking this is funny.This is just embarrassing, girl no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:44 PM |
| 79 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑My thoughts exactly! Ha, I needed a good laugh 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 05:09 PM |
| 24 | That's a nice way of asking if I want to drive half an hour for a coffee date.Probably, how convenient 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 08:08 PM |
| 24 | Violent deranged men be like...I just don’t getttt it- why do women stay away from me 😢Our primal instincts & creep radar goes off for solid reasonsOoft 😶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:51 PM |
| 9 | Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?)We declined 💀😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 11:15 AM |
| 33 | “Sexual harassment should be normalized!” and other wtf scrote quotes from dates.Given that I know damn well that most men are indeed LV these responses still has me gasping in shock and disgust 😧😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 03:08 PM |
| 51 | SNOOPING 101Omg this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 01:33 PM |
| 64 | “…he’s choked me unconscious before. I didn’t really mind…” UM WHAT.I’m SO sick of seeing the word “choking” or “breath play” being used in these posts. He’s STRANGLING you. He’s depriving you of oxygen, and has admitted to thinking about killing you to make his dick feel good. Girl LEAVE 🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:52 AM |
| 25 | SNOOPING 101Brilliant post, saved this for later! 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:39 AM |
| 268 | Of all the pick-me BS! Is this empowering?This is what having no self respect looks like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 11:23 AM |
| 34 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.Eiww no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Never trust dudes who have the female “best friend” in adulthood. Normally this woman is someone they strung along for years as a back up hook-up. 90% chance he is already sleeping with her.This was honestly exhausting to read, I’m so glad to hear you’re out of that mess. Never look back, onwards and upwards from here! 🤍🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 168 | I did it, thanks to FDSTears in his eyes..The fu*king audacity. Congratulations, sis 🤍👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 10:03 PM |
| 88 | Woman Refuses To Coddle Man-child on a Date, Comments Are Full Of Man Babies Saying She Has No Empathy for Mental HealthYes exactly! Women are NOT free rehabilitation centres, we are not free bangmaids/therapists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 224 | Woman Refuses To Coddle Man-child on a Date, Comments Are Full Of Man Babies Saying She Has No Empathy for Mental HealthI’m SO sick of this. I honestly think some men are just claiming they have “mental health issues” to excuse their shitty behaviour. Maybe they genuinely do struggle,.. but I’m seeing SO many posts claiming “mens mental health issues” and based on other behaviour they have exhibited, I have serious doubts.. It’s fu*ked up if they are falsely claiming to be ill in order to manipulate women. As someone who’s struggled with anxiety/depression it makes my blood boil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:11 PM |
| 163 | Too broke to dateUm what. Dude if you’re broke you have no business trying to date. Wtf, he really expected you to pay?! Block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:03 PM |
| 16 | Some men just come right out and tell you that they would make your life miserable...So you’re controlling and probably abusive then 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 51 | When Asks her husband to go Shopping, this is what requires *facepalm*Ugh, the secondhand embarrassment 🤦🏼♀️🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:46 PM |
| 57 | Lately I feel disgusted when men approach meUgh so creepy. Need to get yourself a nice ring now!🥲😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:37 AM |
| 70 | Regretting meeting and old male "friend"Eiw yuck. Never reconnect with “old male friends” they’re almost always looking to fu*k you, because you wouldn’t sleep with them when you were younger🤢😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:29 AM |
| 39 | I love having pro-FDS friends IRL.I love seeing FDS success out in the wild 🤍👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:59 AM |
| 20 | Thank you!!Wow that must have been terrifying OP. I hope you don’t mind me asking this, was this out in public?! Did people witness this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 10:17 PM |
| 30 | Am I the only woman tired of men acting like the entire world around them is a 24/7 offline dating service?Just been on Etsy looking at these after reading your comment. Firstly amazing recommendation! Secondly, damn you I’ve been trying to stay off Etsy recently😂🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 03:33 PM |
| 25 | Revenge porn and anxietySorry to hear you’re dealing with this horrible anxiety OP, but I’d be hesitant to believe he has deleted them. As already mentioned please keep a screen shot of this recent exchange as evidence.. I can relate to a certain degree, an old match randomly reach out to me several years after online dating 🤡 I asked them to confirm who they were as I’d deleted their number, he said my name is …….. and we met on such and such dating site. They then proceeded to send ME several pictures of myself that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 5 | Mere MINUTES after a particular toxic male subreddit was banned, scrotes in another male subreddit are planning to infiltrate and brigade FDS 🤡No 😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:50 PM |
| 46 | Older women aren’t cock-blocking you. It’s the younger women that just don’t want you.I don’t see an issue as long as it’s only a few years difference.. I personally feel that women aren’t out to use and abuse them, unlike men in age gap relationships. I wouldn’t want to manipulate and control another person. I wouldn’t want to use someone purely to boost my ego, or try to “relive my youth” like men do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:10 PM |
| 117 | Public Displays of DisrespectThey behave like that so we will look like the bad person if we decide that we no longer want to be with them/ deal with their shitty behaviour. They can play the wounded party and try gain sympathy from pickmes and their bros. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:20 PM |
| 125 | Public Displays of DisrespectUgh. That’ll be some pathetic scrote 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 01:18 PM |
| 246 | 🚩 Don't get suckered into "protecting/respecting" the guy you're dating by keeping his dirty deeds a secret from your longtime trusted family/friends100% agree. I’m sick of the whole keep quiet and don’t tell anyone your literally being abused emotionally/mentally/physically because it’ll hurt some scrotes fee fees, and people won’t like him anymore 🥺 .. 🤨🤨🧐🤨🧐.. Your (vetted) friends and family love you, will look out for you and only want what’s best for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 07:26 PM |
| 42 | No, just no…No. Just no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 11:52 PM |
| 13 | Hilarious Ex-Scrote StoryOmg hahah💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 09:20 PM |
| 37 | After listening to an episode of the podcast, I made a FDS-inspired comic. Here it is!Hahah I love it OP!🥲.. a field 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:40 PM |
| 19 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from peopleYeah the more I think about it.. of course it’s about her level of attractiveness and his di*k. This is the same type of scrote that’ll be demanding sex two weeks after she’s given birth, and how she’s denying him what’s rightfully his 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:08 PM |
| 527 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from peopleUgh. Men policing what pregnant women can and can not eat. They truly are control freaks. I’d like to see him go through all the bodily changes, morning sickness, fluctuating hormones, health risks etc in order to birth a child, and then be told he can’t eat that kitkat he was craving. 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 01:38 PM |
| 24 | Ladies, it is NOT "rude" to call men out when your boundaries are being violatedLove this energy. Good for you 🤍🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 08:52 PM |
| 26 | Men using lots of emojis is a RED FLAGYes! The biggest manipulator I’ve ever met used lots of them, and you’re right it’s to creat a false intimacy and to come across as a harmless NiCe GuY who could be trusted 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 04:09 PM |
| 59 | 💡Don’t have penetrative sex with a man unless he can bring you to orgasm with his hands and/or mouth first.💡Shhhhh fleshlight 💀💀 omg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?Yes I did, for his nasty toenails which he would outright refuse to trim 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 07:12 PM |
| 9 | Another example of OLD as a meat marketActually yes now you’ve said it, the very thought of that does make me uncomfortable 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 03:39 PM |
| 6 | Quit my LV job todayCongratulations! You sound super confident about what you want from life, and I’m sure you’re going to go on to do great things 🤍🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 194 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?Eiwww. I had an ex who’d leave similar marks on my lovely pillow cases. I think it’s bodily oils/grease leaching out of their pores/hair maybe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 12:01 PM |
| 58 | Am I overreacting?You shouldn’t have to repeatedly explain yourself. You made it clear you’re extremely unwell and can’t message. He’s testing you. Testing to see if you’ll make him the exception to your boundary. Block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:53 PM |
| 599 | I am dying, girls.“Am I picky”🥲🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 07:21 PM |
| 70 | Clearly an FDS lady in the wild, with a sparkly blue penHaha brilliant 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 02:39 PM |
| 96 | Yes I’m sure he “deleted” the video 🤡Guaranteed this video is up on a porn site. What the actual fu*k. I’m SO sick of it.. The social conditioning to be meak and forgiving and giving men the benefit of the doubt. I’m actually furious after reading this. Don’t ever send nudes. Don’t do sex tapes, don’t let any scrote put you in this kind of position. You can’t trust them. They do NOT have your back. They will throw you under the bus and walk away. It’ll be your reputation in tatters and they’ll move onto someone new without any kind… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 08:32 PM |
| 73 | In sickness and health.What a wonderful husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 81 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?Another reason why we shouldn’t disclose too much/or at all about sexual experiences, as they always pull the “you did it with your ex, why not me” card. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:25 PM |
| 244 | Hello is this X? No, I don't know him 💀Loving the attitude/confidence in your post and the emojis 😉 Damn, he was really reaching for any opportunity to get to you. Honestly, good for you for seeing him for what he is! 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 09:14 AM |
| 58 | Why waiting makes senseNah, there’s still a fair percentage of scrotes who definitely can carry on faking it past the three month stage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:37 PM |
| 13 | I wanted to share what I just found outComments from other FDS members?? 🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:33 PM |
| 18 | How to Prepare to LeaveAnother brilliant post, saved! 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 3 | It’s always a breath of fresh air seeing Queen Shit in the wilds of Reddit 👑👑Right ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:28 PM |
| 12 | It’s always a breath of fresh air seeing Queen Shit in the wilds of Reddit 👑👑I was referring to her response after his so called accident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:21 PM |
| 58 | It’s always a breath of fresh air seeing Queen Shit in the wilds of Reddit 👑👑Cold as ice. Love to see it 👑❄️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 06:04 PM |
| 27 | When I was with my NV Ex husband I used to have to come home and clean after work while pregnant! My now boyfriend does my yard work and cleans while I’m working… we don’t even live together 🥳Now this is so nice to see, very wholesome🙂🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 09:10 AM |
| 28 | Well there you have it ladies. His toy is broken, and he might have to wait 4 months or more!Take note ladies. These men will drop you at the first hint of illness or difficulty. This man child can’t cope now he’s having to actually step up and support/take care of his WIFE. 😤 In sickness and in health?? Nah. This only counts when it’s HIM who’s sick. When it’s HIM who’s struggling emotionally. 🚩🚩🚩 Edit: word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 09:05 AM |
| 64 | My colleague (27M) fasts almost all day so he doesn't have to cookPathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 08:12 AM |
| 55 | When your ex texts you happy birthday...Exactly this. Don’t let him have ANY access to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 08:17 PM |
| 185 | Acts of kindness on Reddit: When trying to have another girls back, it’s disappointing when they turn on you.Sorry you’re having to deal with this now after only having pure and decent intentions!.. Just a thought, I see you’ve posted a picture of yourself on another sub. If this man is fixated on posting/harassing you it may be worth removing that image. We all know the lengths scrotes go to when it comes to revenge, or trying to get even. Just a thought anyway 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 11:18 AM |
| 3 | This guy has convinced himself that his girlfriend is the problem, despite his explosive anger toward her...OP don’t forget to blackout the posters name and sub name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 06:21 PM |
| 14 | Pedophiles in the comments are telling on themselves.OP you might want to hide the sub name as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:11 PM |
| 262 | Spotted sneaky red flags in my old messages when I was still learning and analyzing them through FDS lensesI like posts like these, to be able to actually see real examples of manipulation tactics being used by men “in the wild” as your post shows they can be a bit more subtle/sneaky; and the less experienced of us here may not pick up on it like you have! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 12:18 PM |
| 46 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …Honestly it’s not creepy that you did that. Your gut was telling you something off, you followed through and were right all along!! Good for you and fu*k anyone who tries to shame you for looking out for yourself. 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 11:35 AM |
| 46 | There’s a new girl gang in town 😏Hahah brilliant 👑😎👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 01:19 AM |
| 73 | This is an actual “settlement” proposed by the pro se defendant in a divorce case. Unbelievable.What the actual fu*k 😳😂🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 11:34 PM |
| 19 | Dating Apps For WLWHER is apparently very good 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 08:04 PM |
| 128 | Return of the city scrotesI find that walking with purpose/confidence, looking straight ahead and not making eye contact works for me. Men literally step and dive out my way when they see me coming, or else I’ll just plow right into them. Oh and I don’t apologise to men in public, ever. We’re programmed by society as women to be so forgiving and meek 🤔 not me, not anymore. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 07:06 PM |
| 234 | Ageism on a dating appThey’re looking for someone that’s easier to manipulate and abuse. Someone more vulnerable, who’s had less experience with manipulative, narcissist predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:03 PM |
| 354 | Always be vetting: Scrotes will make you their forever girlfriend, message other women while you pay the bills, then dump youProbably still using her for sex too for the last three years, even though he doesn’t love her and can’t stand to be around her most the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 02:02 PM |
| 100 | A Facebook employee hunted down a woman he went on ONE date with who stopped responding to him. Yet another reason to stay off social media.This kind of behaviour doesn’t even surprise me at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 11:12 PM |
| 11 | Be the strong HVW you were meant to be! 👸I think I’ve been called all of these by men at some point. Good, I’m on the right path! 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:24 PM |
| 62 | I don’t know if you’ve guys have seen this account. But it’s literally just the husband “simping” over his wife even after 24 years of marriage. And I’m down for it, it’s so bloody cute.This is so sweet 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 01:07 PM |
| 14 | Beware of the over-helperLove cures all - 🤢 No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 10:22 PM |
| 29 | Sis, just break up with him already!I’m SO glad to see more women are adopting this mentality!! Great post 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 01:25 AM |
| 7 | My ex-LVM friend sent me a handwritten letter and I tore it up and threw it away without reading itGood for you! I love this attitude 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 11:21 PM |
| 31 | Legalize pepper spray in UK (Petition).Signed!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:39 PM |
| 719 | So the LVM in my city are pulling this now. Thoughts on how to respond ladies? It was that “let me get the first you get the second” line. She declined a 2d date and got this in reply.This isn’t how dating works, and he’s just trying his luck. How to respond? I’d block 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 12:25 PM |
| 703 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”HAHAH omg what. “Good luck finding another man like me” 😂🤏🏼🤔😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 08:40 PM |
| 38 | When he wants to be the only priority in your life. Run, sis.So, as someone who ended up not going to the university I wanted to, because of a boyfriend a few years back and gave up on that particular career choice because he couldn’t handle me being so far away, and was afraid I would be the one to cheat and not prioritise him 🤡🤦🏼♀️🤡.. pleassseee tell me people encouraged her to go anyway and dump him. Edit: word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 05:33 PM |
| 16 | Someone who treats you like this doesn’t care about you AT ALL. Why can’t she see that?!Oh god another age gap relationship 🙄..“Cultural significance” my arse. No. This scrote just didn’t care. Football with the boys was his main priority and not his young, vulnerable gf who’s just had surgery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 515 | men are self-aware, when they truly want to help, they give FDS type of advice. HVM agree with FDS, only the misogynists whose tricks are exposed by this sub slander it.Interesting response from that guy on the second page. In fact it’s brutally honest, and exactly what the OP needs to hear- apart from the last sentence telling her to ask her partner to elaborate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 11:10 AM |
| 19 | Share your LVM experiences.This was very distressing to read. SO glad you’re out of there and now divorced 🤍🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 05:15 PM |
| 34 | Ex-LVM (37M) won’t stop stalking me (29F) 4 months later, all the way to FDS. He MUST be perceived as the victim.So he’s admitted he actively preys on young women then, gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 01:04 PM |
| 7 | One Year Later NVM ReportTruly inspiring! Congratulations on your fresh start, wishing you all the best 🤍🌸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 05:53 PM |
| 264 | This is what breeding with a LVM will do to youI really don’t like to see other women vulnerable and in emotional pain/distress. But, she’s spent seven years with him and the mask has obviously fallen off wayyyy before now.. and yet she STILL with him, and now pregnant ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 15 | Man, I cringe! But you learn and you glow ✨Omg hahah 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 07:20 PM |
| 88 | Cry me a river.I hate that. They think if they can grown a few scraggly beard hairs that they can claim to be part Viking?! 😂🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 11:14 AM |
| 7 | I finished my bachelors degree with First class honours and I would like to give a shout out to FDSThis is amazing 🤩 Congratulations!! 🥳✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:23 PM |
| 55 | I know most of us know the pitfalls of pursuing age gap relationship, but would you pursue a friendship with someone in an age gap relationship?“They will erode your boundaries because they have none themselves and can’t understand yours” << This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:17 PM |
| 130 | Truly embarrassingI too would like to unread this. 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:08 PM |
| 111 | Truly embarrassing😑Oh my god, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Instincts/gut feeling - we have them for a reason!Ohh that’s a really lovely idea! I’m quite similar in that respect, so I’ve started putting up little FDS quotes on stickie notes around my mirror 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 12:38 PM |
| 5 | Instincts/gut feeling - we have them for a reason!Yes exactly. Now that I can see it for what it is, I notice it everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 11:59 AM |
| 57 | And then everyone clapped! Do they seriously spend time and energy roleplaying and making accounts so they make us look bad?? 😂This is a serious larping fail. None of us would waste our time or energy doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 05:13 PM |
| 6 | Scrote wants to cheat the system and buy a fake degree to take a job he isn't qualified for. He and wife were irresponsible and bought a home they cannot afford. This job could go to someone who put in hard work to deserve it and his first instinct is to lie about his qualifications.This makes my blood boil🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 70 | Ladies NEVER ignore your instincts or dealbreakers. Here’s yet another scrote having broken a woman’s heart after stringing her along for a year.Damn these were so hard to read, each one just got worse 😔Posts like this make me realise how beneficial the FDS mindset is, and how it’s literally saving women’s lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 14 | And they wonder why we don’t even want to acknowledge them in public 🤦🏼♀️Yes! I do this as well. They don’t deserve it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 09:05 PM |
| 19 | And they wonder why we don’t even want to acknowledge them in public 🤦🏼♀️I love this comment 🤍😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 08:44 PM |
| 37 | “Keeping the peace” just passes the problems onto another woman to handle. Stop the bullshit dead in its tracks when you can.Thank you for making this post. Glad to see I’m not the only one who’s seen this and actually wants to stop this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 08:16 PM |
| 60 | LVM has no emotion or respect.That’s absolutely disgusting. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:13 PM |
| 28 | Finally met my HVM 🥰I had heart palpitations reading this until a few lines in 😂😭Damnnnnnn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 08:37 PM |
| 147 | Seen in the wild on a 'listicle' about why older men date young women. Also included gems like "women my age are so bitter" "younger women need the guidance and nurturing of an older man" 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮Eiww. No old scrotes date younger women so they can manipulate, control and emotionally abuse them into thinking the bare minimum is ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:52 AM |
| 53 | Found this gem on TwitterCF and proud! 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:50 AM |
| 37 | Just started talking to this guy on Hinge (28M) and he's already tryna make me (22F) his motherYuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:49 AM |
| 201 | Distancing myself from my boyfriend. How to keep that strength when you love him?How to keep that strength when you love him?? Remind yourself that you love yourself more. YOU are more important, your emotional and mental health is more Important. Your dignity and self worth is more important that a low life who has bullied and pressured you into sex, drained you emotionally and has made you feel like a shell of your former self. Stay strong, you’re doing the right thing by keeping busy. Keep him blocked everywhere and delete his number. Write out a list of all the things th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:43 AM |
| 34 | Porn causes mental healthy issues in men and violence against women. We need to speak up, and not just onlineWhat did I just read 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:59 PM |
| 29 | 166,619 Queens and counting.. 🤍✨HA! Now that’s what I like to hear 💀.. You absolute Queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 08:11 PM |
| 21 | 166,619 Queens and counting.. 🤍✨And thank you for being here and being so amazing🙂..You’re so right! It’s lovely being able to come here and discuss/vent/laugh with all the lovely ladies who you know just get it. They empathise with your pain and lift you up when you most need it 🤍🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:50 PM |
| 155 | What the hell is with all of these men who don't respect a woman's dietary restrictions???This is another reason why I think dating women is nicer and literally safer than men. We don’t try to poison our dates or deliberately make them feel uncomfortable 😭🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:07 PM |
| 52 | 166,619 Queens and counting.. 🤍✨So do I! Edit: I believe it’s this ladies work: georgina louise illustrates https://www.georginalouiseillustrates.co.uk << it’s definitely her work ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 6 | I made the move: broke up with him first.So glad to hear you’ve got rid of him! You deserve so much better 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:05 PM |
| 9 | So many stories like this are popping up. I'm glad she's divorcing him.So glad to see she’s divorcing him! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:03 PM |
| 6 | Men: all FeMaLeS are liars, they’re so fake. Damn, they want a guy who’s honest and respects them?!? Wow FeMaLeS are so entitled😤… and then they themselves do this..🤔Oh my god, noo 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:34 PM |
| 60 | "HURR DURR I FEEL CONFIDENT IN MY APPERANCE I ACCEPT MYSELF" a tale of mediocre life copingThese bridge troll scrotes won’t even shower or wipe their ass, yet they expect us to be super model beautiful 24/7 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:10 PM |
| 76 | Men: all FeMaLeS are liars, they’re so fake. Damn, they want a guy who’s honest and respects them?!? Wow FeMaLeS are so entitled😤… and then they themselves do this..🤔Yeah it was a mix of responses. The usual men crying, pickme’s jumping in with “NoT aLL MeN” and lots of other women sharing their own awful OLD experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:28 PM |
| 56 | Men: all FeMaLeS are liars, they’re so fake. Damn, they want a guy who’s honest and respects them?!? Wow FeMaLeS are so entitled😤… and then they themselves do this..🤔I know right? I wasn’t even surprised to see she made it though tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 11:05 AM |
| 69 | Men: all FeMaLeS are liars, they’re so fake. Damn, they want a guy who’s honest and respects them?!? Wow FeMaLeS are so entitled😤… and then they themselves do this..🤔Oh my god, yuck! 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:04 AM |
| 52 | So I wanted to share this artists work with you ladies- Stop Telling Women to Smile is an art series by Tatyana Fazlalizadeh. Her work attempts to address gender based street harassment.“Stop Telling Women to Smile is a street art project that addresses gender based street harassment. The project consists of a series of portraits of women - women who I have sat talked with about their experiences with harassment. The portraits are designed into posters, including text that is inspired by the subject's experiences. And then I wheat paste. STWTS started in Brooklyn in the fall of 2012. It is an on-going, traveling series and will gradually include many cities and many women parti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:20 AM |
| 75 | "They're like brother and sister"Exactly. It’s just an excuse for men to emotionally (and probably physically) cheat, flirt and get attention under the guise of “wE’rE jUSt FrIeNdS” .. They lose their sh*t if you even look in the direction of another guy though 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:40 PM |
| 6 | This guy starts following a certain toxic sub, and is then surprised when his gf has enough and leaves him 🤔🤡Same, so glad she got out. I only hope she’s not too traumatised from the experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:14 PM |
| 10 | This guy starts following a certain toxic sub, and is then surprised when his gf has enough and leaves him 🤔🤡That’s what I thought too.. but let’s be honest there are guys like this out there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:09 PM |
| 19 | This 👇🏼Thank you for sharing this link btw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 07:11 PM |
| 124 | This 👇🏼True, but let’s not forget nothing gets a guy off more than when he’s able to humiliate, degrade and abuse a living, breathing woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Will I ever be over Lee Jeno?Those thighs 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 6 | Not sure what's going on here but I'm here for it! 🔥🤤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:50 PM |
| 73 | How do you dress at home when living with an SO? Do you feel pressured to dress for his “male gaze.” Does he complain or suggest things? Y’alls experience?With my ex, I ended wearing layered clothes that covered as much of me as possible. He was always looking for an excuse to make ANY situation sexual and his attitude/behaviour repulsed me.. I know now he got off on making me feel that way. Like I wasn’t a person, just a sexual object😟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 06:25 PM |
| 48 | This guy gets it.I really enjoyed this video 😏Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 10 | When a reddit scrote gets triggered !! lmao (remove if not allowed mods)Haha, keep projecting your own insecurities dude 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Oded Fehr (The Mummy era). One of the few men who can actually be considered a Silver Fox 😩Omg yes! He’s gorgeous!😍😭✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 03:37 PM |
| 26 | Liar, LiarSo sorry to hear he lied and treated you this way, but we’re so happy to have you here with us now 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:28 PM |
| 54 | The random man I locked eyes with the other week shopping for cool ranch doritos and mountain dew 🥰🥰Omg noo😭💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 01:10 PM |
| 43 | Caught Red-Handed (Literally)This is so gross 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:27 AM |
| 3 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂All the imaginary money this deluded fool thinks he’s going to be making 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 12:12 AM |
| 4 | Because disappointing one woman at a time is not enough...This comment, haha😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:42 PM |
| 8 | Because disappointing one woman at a time is not enough...Omg💀😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:36 PM |
| 10 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂Oh for sure! Men like this can’t sustain healthy, functioning relationships with women; they can’t let go of the resentment and bitterness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:44 PM |
| 7 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂Basically yes😂..How dare those girls from high school, who he never actually spoke to reject him. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 8 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂My pleasure 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:07 PM |
| 44 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂This always gets me, how they still obsess years later over women who rejected them.. Such a fragile ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:23 PM |
| 37 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂But can’t you tell, he’s such a prize! /s😂 Agreed, the alpha/beta thing drives me nuts. As soon as men mention that, my eyes start rolling 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:40 PM |
| 24 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂Exactly. If they put as much effort into bettering themselves as they do being vile and spiteful; then they could potentially make some positive changes in their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:28 PM |
| 46 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂I cackled at this, such a gross image😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:24 PM |
| 46 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂Exactly. If he’s this angry and bitter now, there’s no hope for him down the line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:23 PM |
| 83 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂A mad kissless virgin 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:17 PM |
| 175 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂When he turned 16 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:15 PM |
| 50 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂Haha, exactly! Single, rich and carefree all the way🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:10 PM |
| 166 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂Wow, I just looked! He goes on and on 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:05 PM |
| 336 | I hope she gets picked !It always makes me cringe when I see these women desperately trying to convince themselves and others that this behaviour is ok🤨🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 09:50 AM |
| 11 | Thought this belonged here. Do you know the difference, lurkers? 🙃100% with you on this, never again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 08:06 PM |
| 81 | Thought this belonged here. Do you know the difference, lurkers? 🙃Not many, I assume. It’s sad and distressing to know that “porn sex” is what the majority of young people will think IS normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:05 PM |
| 33 | Thought this belonged here. Do you know the difference, lurkers? 🙃So almost every guy.. Or at least the men I’ve had relationships with in the past. I’m embarrassed/ashamed to admit that despite my own views on sex, I’ve been pressured, bullied and coerced into sex too many times because of men having this very thought process. Edit: Since finding FDS I see their behaviour for what it is, but back then I was bending over backwards to be a good gf 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 10 | Thought this belonged here. Do you know the difference, lurkers? 🙃Yes I do see your point! Agreed, and the healthy points are definitely how I have always viewed sex. You just get so much more from the healthy side, and I still can’t understand how that doesn’t appeal to most men. Edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:12 PM |
| 144 | 50/50 relationships will never be equalIsn’t that a horrible thought. When they do start having sex again it’s incredibly painful; and it’s only when they’ve gone for Pap smears/examinations that other medical professionals are questioning who stitched them up, and then informing the women about what’s actually happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:42 PM |
| 197 | 50/50 relationships will never be equalA husband stitch is an extra stitch or two given during the repair process after a vaginal birth, to tighten the vagina for increased pleasure of a male sexual partner 😑 Edit: And women don’t know that it’s happened to them, guys are asking for it to be done without the woman’s knowledge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 09:52 PM |
| 207 | 50/50 relationships will never be equalAh yes, the husband stitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 09:42 PM |
| 34 | ONE YEAR WITHOUT SEX!!!!! Here's what I've learned!!!!I love seeing posts like this, very inspiring!🥰💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 19 | It's ALL men.This gave me chills 🤍👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:34 PM |
| 31 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.Any updates?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:21 PM |
| 19 | TIL anything about a woman can be sexualized, even her periodOh good!🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:33 PM |
| 38 | TIL anything about a woman can be sexualized, even her periodWhy is she still with him!?😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:19 PM |
| 20 | The woman my LVex cheated on me with told me "You have to trust your man" when I was catching onto themYour “best friend” you’ve mentioned in this post.. doesn’t sound like a friend at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 30 | To all the dudes who call us incels, shameless, gold diggers, sexist.. don't be mad you can't pull us even if you tried. I know you're mad you can't get access to every woman's body and we don't listen to you. I know you're mad. What you are defending directly oppresses women. Sit yo ass down 💅🏽🥰Spot on. Prepare for the downvotes and angry messages.. literally proving you right, haha😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Ooft yes please ❤️🔥✨So lucky, aha🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:50 PM |
| 57 | Most men have bad taste. Don't lose yourself or your uniqueness trying to conform to it Chances are, the male gaze is not your aesthetic.This is a really interesting post, and you’re right complimenting and receiving compliments/support from other women means SO much more. I’ve seen many of my girlfriends behave as you’ve described and it’s always made me feel really uncomfortable.. Even when I gently mentioned that they don’t seem like themselves, they’d become really defensive and tell me I’d should be more open to what men like 🤡 In my previous relationships, I’d actually gone the opposite way and held onto my own style and ac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:00 PM |
| 94 | I saw this going around on Facebook with women swooning, I need a break from it 🤢So this is basically sexual coercion on a jar. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:46 PM |
| 15 | Not sure if this was hoovering but regardless, I failed yesterday.We all have setbacks from time to time, it’s ok. For your own sanity and mental health block him everywhere 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:44 PM |
| 28 | lol 💀💀Or wipe their asses properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:07 PM |
| 14 | Dude really pulled up to his own wedding in a see-through shirt, jean shorts and slides😂😂😂 the scrotacity & pick me levels are through the ROOF. 💀His eyes look dead and empty in each picture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:50 PM |
| 51 | Porn culture and Only Fans promotes the dehumanization of women everywhere.This right here☝🏼☝🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 08:55 PM |
| 66 | Podcast feedback from men: "hate fan mail"HA, pathetic. Men think we’re the abusive monsters? They need to look in the fu*king mirror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 05:37 PM |
| 266 | When their lame man-brags are deeply unimpressiveShe couldn’t be less interested. That’s a FDS queen for sure 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 12:53 PM |
| 132 | "My Ex accused me of rape"Block him right now. 🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | A little treat for myself after a hard week 🤍✨Thank you ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:08 PM |
| 124 | Embarrassing reflection from my clueless dating days.“He took down his man bun and leaned down towards my face to kiss me” 😭🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:21 PM |
| 84 | We hit over 160k! Thanks for driving traffic here, scrotes.Now this makes me happy! Welcome to all the lovely new members 🤩🤍✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:06 PM |
| 142 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.You’ve literally described my sex life. Always a big performance so some scrotes fragile fuc*ing ego wasn’t hurt. Ugh. It makes me sick just thinking about it. Omg, all the hidden comments on this post from angry scrotes 😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:05 PM |
| 20 | Reminder: never reduce yourself to the kind of woman that has to go through their partner's phone100% agree with this. This was me in several relationships, and each time my gut instinct was proven right. Those scrotes were cheating and making a fool of me. Always trust your gut ladies, it’s a natural instinct that’s still with us for a reason. Never doubt yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:00 PM |
| 13 | Just saw this ad when browsing in incognito mode. They really have to bribe LVMs just to clean their bodies, huh?Shea butter and essential oils😂Who are they kidding? They’re going to need something that’s industrial strength to clean their dirty asses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:46 PM |
| 14 | Hello can you tell me I can find ‘the wall’? I turned 43 yesterday I’m told that it applies to me 🤣🤣🤣🤣Girl, you look amazing 🤍🤩I’d just be wary of posting your picture on here though, because of lurking scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:31 PM |
| 8 | A little treat for myself after a hard week 🤍✨Oh you definitely should! 🙂I think so too! Always feel so much more relaxed around plants and flowers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 05:57 PM |
| 46 | I hate everything about thisThis made me physically recoil in disgust 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 03:00 PM |
| 22 | A realization that shouldn't have startled me100% behind this 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 11:48 PM |
| 3 | This isn’t the flex you think it is…Same 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Thank you☺️This is so great to hear! Sending a virtual hug 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 13 | Every damn time..What’s happening to this world, seriously. I came off social media about 4 years ago, so am a bit out the loop in regards to how bad things are getting online! 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:52 PM |
| 20 | Every damn time..Honestly that’s disgusting, how they get away with that I don’t know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:46 PM |
| 8 | Every damn time..Sobbing into their disgusting stained, paper thin pillow they’ve never washed 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:42 PM |
| 12 | Every damn time..They just can’t help themselves. The amount of them that have tried to respond to this post today is ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:37 PM |
| 28 | A lot to unpack here....why on earth do some women deal with this absolute bullshit??Same ☹️I wonder if OP can reach out to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:36 PM |
| 20 | Every damn time..Oh yes totally, complete double standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 05:12 PM |
| 70 | Every damn time..Ugh. It’s always us women stepping in to protect others, and you’re absolutely right. They enjoy it, of course they do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:57 PM |
| 269 | A lot to unpack here....why on earth do some women deal with this absolute bullshit??“I know he’s subscribed to other girls only fans”..uhh she just casually mentions that like it’s ok🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:20 PM |
| 365 | Scrotes briefly got this video removed for “adult nudity and sexual activity” but it showed up on my FYP anyways. We should all approach OLD profiles with this attitude, it’s hilarious“Um, are you ok?”😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Awful memory...He sounds adorable 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 02:11 PM |
| 5 | Awful memory...Awh that’s good you can regularly visit her!🙂and yeah you’re right, they do need more specialised care. I have a cheeky Hermanns tortoise, such interesting little creatures😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:35 PM |
| 14 | Awful memory...Are you able to take your cat with you?. I personally wouldn’t trust your dad with it if you’re away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:25 PM |
| 35 | Every damn time..Very well said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:12 PM |
| 25 | Auntie Pinkie VIDEOHahaha amazing🤣❤️🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:35 AM |
| 296 | And this is why you demand more for yourself and set clear boundaries and expectationsIf he wanted to, he would. He’s known for at least 10 of those 11 years that he never had any intention of actually marrying her. She’s bent over backwards being low maintenance, and he’s been given everything he wanted on a plate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 05:16 PM |
| 37 | GUYS!! his girlfriend found FDS and left him‼️ 👑 😎Hahahaaha 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:21 PM |
| 4 | You’ve got to bring something to the tableThis one always makes me laugh 😭🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:06 PM |
| 183 | This was posted in a subreddit (which I can't name as to not break FDS rules) where users share "cringe" content. I fail to see what's "cringe" about a woman having standards? This is why males on Reddit are singleThey wouldn’t touch her with a ten foot pole😂..GOOD because a beautiful, strong woman like that wouldn’t want to be anywhere near any of those Reddit scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:19 PM |
| 198 | Nobody actually *needs* men 😎 🤷🏻♀️Literally doing all of this, and I’ve never been happier/healthier emotionally, mentally and physically☺️✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 12:53 AM |
| 114 | Nah sis 🤢🤢I’m feeling second hand embarrassment for her. Damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 10 | Found him on tinder 😛😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:43 AM |
| 5 | The Bar is...nonexistent.OP you need to block out the sub title or crop it out of the screen shot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 03:40 PM |
| 74 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Of course NoT aLl MeN🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:52 PM |
| 159 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.That poor woman. I’d like to see scrotes try and defend this psychotic behaviour 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 12:49 PM |
| 10 | Scrote's GF can't meet the same standards as his anime sex dollAnd pay those bills 💵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:48 PM |
| 46 | Something for the scrotesThis is very appropriate in my opinion 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:22 PM |
| 47 | mEn ArE mOmS tOo...☝🏼☝🏼This. They literally can’t bare us having one damn day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:30 PM |
| 60 | Multiple red flags in the original post, but this follow up though..and they say we are the emotional ones 🤔My thoughts exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:54 PM |
| 198 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.Oh my god. Vile creatures🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:58 PM |
| 34 | I'm newly divorced, and today is my wedding anniversary. I just want to share my thoughts.Here’s to you and a happier LVM free future! 🤍🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:29 PM |
| 297 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)Men feel entitled to women with perfectly sculpted, flawless bodies and then expect us to settle for dad bods 🤢.. Uhh no😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | I feel like too many of us here have experienced this and been left feeling crushed and confused after being discarded - The psychopathic relationship cycle. Knowledge is power 🤍Same!😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:48 PM |
| 8 | I feel like too many of us here have experienced this and been left feeling crushed and confused after being discarded - The psychopathic relationship cycle. Knowledge is power 🤍That really sucks that he’s turned out that way. At least you’ve been able to recognise that behaviour and been able to distance yourself. You’re right it’s what they deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:34 PM |
| 7 | I feel like too many of us here have experienced this and been left feeling crushed and confused after being discarded - The psychopathic relationship cycle. Knowledge is power 🤍So sorry to hear that you had to deal with that!. It can be so difficult to prove in the workplace, narcissists are very good at covering their tracks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:30 PM |
| 133 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳They truly are disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 12:10 PM |
| 227 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateHonestly I felt sick when you said you let him come into your home this soon. I don’t care how nice he seems, or how much of a gentleman he claims to be. 🚩🚩 This is an act that predators and rapists perfect. This could have ended SO badly. Your safety is more important than anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:23 PM |
| 858 | We appeared in public again today. Mods did their job, thank you <3“I failed at lurking” of course you did. You just couldn’t help but comment in a women only space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 36 | Don’t call him a HVM too soon. Someone who says/does the right things can also be a wolf in sheep’s skin. TW: sexual assaultI agree with you tbh. I think it’s just continuous vetting and not being afraid to walk away and put yourself first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:49 PM |
| 198 | Don’t call him a HVM too soon. Someone who says/does the right things can also be a wolf in sheep’s skin. TW: sexual assaultGreat point. I’ve seen a few people comment claiming their mans “high value” after only a few months or dates.. No, he’s really not. He doesn’t deserve that label that soon, keep vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:12 PM |
| 4 | I accepted a full-time job offer in my fieldCongratulations!! 🥳👑✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:44 AM |
| 32 | Scrote wants pity for getting dumped after stringing ex along for 10 years.Bullsh*t. NO way was he aBoUt To PrOpOsE 😂🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 11:52 PM |
| 10 | All the proof we need that scrotes are lurking this sub 24/7 in massive proportions 😂Oh my god 💀😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 05:30 PM |
| 46 | Mood for life ✨I love this ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Was disappointed to see standard-shaming from a sub that encourages never settlingYes! That’s what hurts when I see posts like this. It’s a serious betrayal and I can’t get over it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Was disappointed to see standard-shaming from a sub that encourages never settlingThe women who responded/talked down to her like that should be fu*king ashamed of themselves 😠 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 17 | To those who refer to FDS members as “femcels/female incels”... 🤣This energy!☝🏼👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:14 PM |
| 12 | Half of women 'have suffered sexual assault by a partner while asleep'I’m so sorry to hear that happened to you. 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 02:41 PM |
| 123 | What did he expect when he told her he wanted to sleep with another woman ?Good for her!. Glad to see more women standing up for themselves and not staying in relationships like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:34 PM |
| 151 | Ads on Reddit targeting poor women and girls for prostitution. Absolutely disgusting.This makes me so sad. It’s sickening they can so brazenly post this sh*t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:39 PM |
| 94 | Reddit be likeOh my god 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 09:08 PM |
| 70 | *Cries in spinster.*Hahah living the dream 💀😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:56 PM |
| 24 | OLD Red Flag Words & PhrasesHA 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 10:52 PM |
| 49 | Stop normalizing men’s immaturityOooft 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 10:51 PM |
| 23 | Realizing I Was a PickmeGlad to hear you’ve got out of that relationship. It’s also great that you’ve realised this, and aren’t trying to blame yourself or think that you’re the problem, because you’re not 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:41 AM |
| 6 | This woman has clearly been manipulated by a LVM who convinced her that his porn habits are to be blamed on her.Something about that video feels so off. Who does she think she is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 16 | I always wondered why the rest of reddit demonized this subredditWelcome!!🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 9 | Scrotes Are Mad 🗣😂Haha brilliant 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 262 | Scrotes Are Mad 🗣😂You just know lurking men are going to report this post as “hate” hahah 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 66 | Don't give him a chance, you can not force chemistry! You will get the ick.Oh my god 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 31 | That time I told a potential bf about my endometriosis (and that I might be unable to get pregnant).Fellow endo sufferer here. Never tell these men about any health issue until you’re sure you’ve vetted him enough..and even then I’m not sure I’d want to :/ My ex behaved in a similar way, thought it meant he was entitled to unprotected sex because of the damage endo has caused.. He also didn’t give a fu*k about the crippling pain and damage it’s causing in my body. It was all about his shrimp dick and what he could get out of the situation. These scrotes WILL use our pain and vulnerability agai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:59 PM |
| 57 | All very trueHaha that third picture 😂too accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 26 | You can assertively tell them no once, then it’s time to get mean.You don’t need to tell them that you’re going to block and delete them. You don’t need to explain yourself In anyway. Just block! 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:58 PM |
| 68 | It’s pointless to tiptoe around an insecure man’s feelings, because he’ll trash you regardlessAbsolutely right. Don’t give them the opportunity to meet up in person and try to talk you out of it/make you feel uncomfortable or threatened into staying.. Don’t pander to their “feelings” because they certainly wouldn’t do it if it was the other way around. Like OP has said, the majority of them will bad mouth you to anyone who will listen. For so long we’ve been conditioned into putting men’s feelings ahead of our own, even ahead of our own safety. Time to change that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:44 PM |
| 31 | I design and made this - self love strategy.So where do I place my order?! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 06:12 PM |
| 22 | Ran into LVM exHahah like you even care about his new supply 😂I bet he was raging at that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 10 | Hypocrisy of men: Women are not allowed to kink-shame, but they are allowed to boundary shame women?!Eiww. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 08:56 PM |
| 107 | (Xpost) "Today this gentleman brought me a flower... He wow’s me every day" I just wanna get myself a gentleman like him...Cats are amazing 😻.. he’s literally more high value than most men we’ve dealt with 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 08:36 PM |
| 30 | 'When a man in our culture days no, it's the end of the discussion. When a woman in our culture says no, it's the beginning of a negotiation.' Just bought the gift of fear and was giving praises just 3 pages in.Been meaning to get this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 11:32 PM |
| 37 | Blocked and deleted“They’re all red if they aren’t green” — Yes! 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 107 | I don't have words for thisAnd yet.. I’m not even surprised by that response. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:02 PM |
| 44 | Men understand consent only when it’s about themExactly this. They just don’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:38 PM |
| 39 | I'm sorry.Welcome back 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:36 PM |
| 118 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womenThis is so gross and disgusting. I’m bi and this is EXACTLY why I haven’t told anyone about my sexuality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 05:26 PM |
| 13 | Social Media - How to protect yourself and other womenBrilliant post, this should be pinned! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 13 | Not only is this lady attacked by a male, the other guys standing around watching her get beat do nothing... THEN CLOSE THE DOOR ON HER!This honestly doesn’t surprise me at all. I’ve seen a similar incident myself and it was us women who stepped in to help, the men just stood there awkwardly trying not to make eye contact with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 01:31 PM |
| 24 | Oh no, men’s porn addiction is our fault apparentlyUgh. We DO NOT owe you our bodies. This is serious incel or “NiceGuy” energy 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 01:21 AM |
| 10 | how many women were in this situation?Block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 11:03 PM |
| 6 | I really feel so sorry for this generation of women.Same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:37 PM |
| 19 | I really feel so sorry for this generation of women.I will! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:20 PM |
| 47 | I really feel so sorry for this generation of women.You’re right, It really is heartbreaking. It’s also one of the reasons I don’t want children either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Recognizing a predator’s behavior: how older men will initially try to trick into age gaps relationships/hook ups.Brilliant post. Definitely saving this to refer back to! ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 06:43 PM |
| 18 | The difference between ‘just dating’ and ‘in a relationship’. Do you act different?This, they know around the one month mark. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | If you removed the context from this post, you'd think it was a mother writing about her toddler son. Why do pickmeishas coddle these manchildren like this? Sis let him cook for himself!My thoughts exactly 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 09:45 PM |
| 18 | Female self-defense protip: style your hair using tiny knives so that you always have an easily accessible self-defense tool on your person. It's time we BRING 👏 BACK 👏 HATPIN 👏 HYSTERIA 👏That’s a very good point! Hair tutorial videos here I come 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Isn’t it funny...Hahah 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 33 | Female self-defense protip: style your hair using tiny knives so that you always have an easily accessible self-defense tool on your person. It's time we BRING 👏 BACK 👏 HATPIN 👏 HYSTERIA 👏Great idea 😂..Shame we can’t carry anything like that in the UK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 04:41 PM |
| 18 | I would absolutely leave if a man did this. LVM behaviorPerhaps she felt pressured to go ahead with the date or she couldn’t change her mind Incase he took it badly?.. Which is really sad, we’re conditioned to put a mans feelings/ego ahead of our own comfort😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 03:56 PM |
| 241 | Why are MRA & MGTOW keeping silent when all media is raging with the violence of men against women?Because this is what they do. They don’t care. I’ve seen a couple of violent attacks against women in person, and it was other women who without hesitation stepped in to assist the women being attacked- the men just stood around awkwardly watching and avoiding eye contact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 11:12 AM |
| 270 | I would absolutely leave if a man did this. LVM behaviorWhy did she even get in the car 🤦🏼♀️I bet he held the front door open for the dog too.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 11:05 PM |
| 4 | “Nice guys” love to say women only like bad boys, therefore they don’t get treated right but what they don’t understand is...Omg this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 3 | I simultaneously want to laugh and throw up. He wrote a whole ass love letter to his fav porn star (who makes herself look like a child, btw). Red = pornstar’s nameWhy are men like this. 🤮🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | I think it was a emotionally abusive relationship“I’m sorry you felt that way” <<< 🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 5 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?Omg 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:56 PM |
| 9 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?I’d say keep your interactions minimal and as neutral/cool as possible. Don’t entertain “jokes” or weird pervy behaviour. I hate to be “that person” but a lot of men really do hide behind mental illness or “health issues” because most people are too afraid to challenge it and come off looking “harsh”.. which isn’t the case- you have every damn right not to be harassed/made to feel uncomfortable in the workplace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 29 | Men harassing me and my dog?Entitlement. They feel entitled to approach and pet her just like they do with women. You can get harnesses that warn people not to touch/approach, hopefully that will deter most of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 39 | Don’t let your guard down for a single second ladies... Exhibit A as seen on AskTRPThey really do hate women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:47 AM |
| 62 | Came across this today I have no wordsSomething tells me they don’t clean them🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 22 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.Bisexual here, definitely not a fake account 😂 💗💜💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:03 AM |
| 17 | I'm finally (becoming) one of you !!Posts like this are so inspiring ☺️💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:00 PM |
| 8 | Why men fail to understand emotions of others? TW eating disorders, abuse etcI’m so sorry to hear you had to deal with that OP. It’s good to hear that you’ve cut him off and are doing better 💕💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:49 PM |
| 8 | It’s ironic how charming their exteriors can be while being such harbingers of deceit and pain.Ahh my ex in a nutshell 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:45 PM |
| 4 | It’s heartbreaking to see young women/teenage girls being preyed on like this.Sure. Edit: might be worth removing this request though from the thread now, just incase. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:22 AM |
| 13 | It’s heartbreaking to see young women/teenage girls being preyed on like this.I’ve pm’d you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:32 PM |
| 49 | It’s heartbreaking to see young women/teenage girls being preyed on like this.I’m not sure she is tbh, and it doesn’t seem like she has a support system I think he’s isolated her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 08:25 PM |
| 155 | It’s heartbreaking to see young women/teenage girls being preyed on like this.Oh yeah 100%. Did you read the second slide..It gets worse 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:45 PM |
| 172 | Gamers, porn addicts, misogynists, and ugly people are not legally protected classes 😑🤦♀️Let us know how many reports this post gets 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:36 PM |
| 22 | “Where’s the 8pack baby?!”Hahaa amazing 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 01:50 AM |
| 72 | 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮Ugh of course 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:55 AM |
| 232 | 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮I bet she was the one who chose it and paid for it too.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 12:52 AM |
| 29 | I just took out the trashGood for you, it must feel like a huge weight has been lifted off your shoulders. Onwards and upwards from here! 🌷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 3 | What is something a man did that he thought was cute and romantic but was gross and insulting?I’m so sorry to hear that happened to you, I hope you’re in a better place now 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:19 PM |
| 2 | What is something a man did that he thought was cute and romantic but was gross and insulting?Oh my god 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Tired of men getting “father of the year” for parenting their own childYeah, I’m so sick of seeing men being praised for doing the absolute bare minimum when it comes to raising their own damn children 🤦🏼♀️I usually skip over those posts tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 07:33 PM |
| 27 | She’s not better than you.Thank you for this reminder 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | So glad to see women actually standing up for themselves. No means no.Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 11:47 AM |
| 97 | So glad to see women actually standing up for themselves. No means no.I think he wanted a blow job specifically because she’s just had that procedure done.. He’s pressured her into sex acts before when she didn’t want it, and he wanted to see her in pain. ☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:40 AM |
| 53 | If he's not interested in your pleasure, don't stick around.Any advice? Dump his lazy, selfish ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:17 PM |
| 52 | The delusion. The scrotacity lolEiwwww 🤢too accurate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:53 AM |
| 13 | FDS just hit 121k followers in time for 2021! Happy New Year's FDSers! 🎉🥂🍾🥳Happy new year ladies!! 💜🎄🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:16 PM |
| 16 | He forbade his sex doll bride from instaWhat the hell did I just read 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 104 | Do you need more proof that porn makes men sick? Only pornsick men worry about their dick size this much. (Red flags galore)So many red flags!. Also, as a bisexual woman I HATE when men try and put the blame back on us about our sexuality, just because they’re SO pathetic and insecure in themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:42 PM |
| 32 | What are our thoughts on social media?I think it shatters young girls and older women’s self esteem personally. It’s just another opportunity for men to cheat and stalk women online.. The fact that lots of guys religiously follow Insta hoes and basically porn pages, but won’t even acknowledge their own partner online says a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 16 | My heart sank when I read this, poor woman 🙅🏼♀️Yes same! Ahh yes he was, and I was expected to measure up to those women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 4 | My heart sank when I read this, poor woman 🙅🏼♀️Ah I even hadn’t thought about a burner phone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:13 AM |
| 51 | My heart sank when I read this, poor woman 🙅🏼♀️I agree 100%. This post in particular stood out to me as when I was around her age I experienced something surprising similar with a absolute scrote, just like her bf. It left me with a lot of scars, and I just wish I knew then what I know now about men and human nature in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 3 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.I was thinking that too. So gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:59 PM |
| 4 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.Agreed! Well thankfully from what I can see nobody has responded, yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 08:22 PM |
| 3 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.I think you’ve summed him up perfectly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:37 PM |
| 7 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.This 👆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:48 PM |
| 93 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.Haha yep run for the hills!.. • Age gap • Gamer • Military • Fantasy shoe business 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:17 PM |
| 65 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.He probably thinks naming the type of console he has makes him sound “hip and with it” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:39 PM |
| 286 | To me this screams predatory older man looking for a younger inexperienced woman/teen to manipulate.What exactly is a 35 year old man going to have in common with an 18 year old “FEMALE” 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:26 PM |
| 91 | Just saw this on a list of Christmas gag gifts, most of which were genuinely amusing and then followed by an actual gift. But this one I had to share.Boyfriend of 10 years ..Yikes!🤡☹️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:40 AM |
| 18 | Another porn addict scrote with unrealistic FantasiesHere we go.. and what are the comments saying? “You’re being unreasonable, don’t kink shame him, you need to communicate!?” 🙄 Edit: I hope there is at least one reasonable response there that doesn’t blame her and tells her to leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 11:55 PM |
| 87 | KiNkS dOnT HurT aNyone!!1 🤡I wonder how many people in the comments are accusing her of breaching his privacy by following her gut feeling and looking at his phone..and completely ignoring the fact that he’s a cheating pig🤦🏼♀️🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Now it’s time to heal and find yourself again 💜🌷Good for you. Of course it’ll hurt for awhile, but once you’ve had some time and space you’ll see it was definitely the right decision 🌷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Now it’s time to heal and find yourself again 💜🌷I feel this, especially some of the friendships. Some people just aren’t good enough/good people for you though and you’re better off without that negativity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 01:58 PM |
| 25 | I really hope this isn’t real but it wouldn’t surprise me 🚨🚨🚨Oh my god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 12:47 AM |
| 258 | I understand she's happy but damn, what kind of loser husband does she have who doesn't care whether she climaxes or not?? As long as he gets his, all is well 🤬This is really, really quite sad. So basically it was a Sex toy, not actually him that did it for her in the end..🤨 Also him saying “ Say you do orgasm. Then what? You’ll just expect it to happen every time” comes across as a bit bitter? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Why is it that kissing and making out are now automatically assumed to lead to sex right afterwards? And men complaining about being "led on" and "blue balls"? What happened to just wanting to snuggle and be intimate?This ☝🏼☝🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 04:04 PM |
| 71 | If ThE gEndERs WeRe REveRsEdSucks to be you Jack 😂💁🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 04:36 PM |
| 61 | From Facebook, #3 is making me soooo madPoint no. 3 Translated: she’s gotten so fed up, bored and sore that she fakes an orgasm just to get you off her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:41 PM |
| 86 | Men are so troubled.You’re a whore and “belong to the streets” if you do or you’re labelled and shamed as a prude If you don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:30 PM |
| 49 | Confronted my (27F) husband (34M) about his porn use today... This is how it went.He sounds like a teenager 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:28 PM |
| 89 | Don’t you DARE kink shame him 🤡He enjoyed her being in pain, got off to it and is a rapist... but she still LoVeS hIm 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:00 PM |
| 81 | PICKME gives women a piece of her mind.Females 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | So I’m sharing this as I feel there may be some women here just like me, who need to be reminded of this.That’s really awful behaviour on his part, but not surprising. Glad to hear you’re no longer involved with him! You deserve better 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:31 PM |
| 2 | So I’m sharing this as I feel there may be some women here just like me, who need to be reminded of this.One year out is a real achievement! You’ve got this 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 27 | "My bf doesn't do foreplay so I cOmmUnicated, countless times, but he won't change... why?!"Please tell me there was an update to this post,. And she left him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:43 PM |
| 33 | If I say No I'm a bisPlease don’t ever cave into them pressuring you. Sorry to say but your brother sounds very low value himself, and he certainly shouldn’t be trying to set his younger sister up with fellow LVM. Serious yikes 😕🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:19 AM |
| 630 | How You End Up A Forever GF, Or A Reluctant FWB...STRAIGHT From The ANIMALS Mouth...Low quality women in his eyes = a woman having too much ambition 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 10:20 PM |
| 182 | Men sending you pornI think they do it to test your boundaries and see how far they can push you.. It’s disgusting and pathetic; but at least it shows you what kind of person they are! Block and delete 👍🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 09:56 PM |
| 62 | No words.This can’t be real 😡Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Reminder 💜👑That’s so sweet of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:42 PM |
| 15 | This is what I imagine who most of you ladies here have to deal with. "The sex" lolIn some cases yes, and It could also be a scammer you’re absolutely right!. But I think women from all over do get messages from “real” thirsty men through their social media especially. I’ve received gross/inappropriate messages from men I actually know in real life and from random weirdos who stalk women online too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:38 PM |
| 38 | This is what I imagine who most of you ladies here have to deal with. "The sex" lolYes, can confirm we all receive messages like this🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:26 PM |
| 81 | Why do older men think they’re just as attractive or more attractive than younger men? Why do they they think they can pull 20 year olds forever?Hmm.. self centred delusion? Edit: and porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:19 PM |
| 9 | Such.. bitterness.I’m really sorry to hear that happened to you- it’s just so pathetic and cruel! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:21 PM |
| 8 | Such.. bitterness.You’re absolutely right. The double standards, entitlement and audacity 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:36 PM |
| 17 | Such.. bitterness.This 👆👆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:50 PM |
| 37 | Such.. bitterness.You’re probably right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:59 PM |
| 77 | Such.. bitterness.My thoughts exactly.. Also the way he’s written this post comes across really badly, he sounds very bitter and negative. No wonder he’s struggling if this is his attitude and frame of mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 07:46 PM |
| 30 | Aww poor baby is insecureGod he’s pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Woman writes post about panties and tells men she "always wears panties" (why?) and then men proceed to make these disgusting vile objectifying comments about women like we exist for their pleasure and like they have the right to us 😫Disgusting 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:29 PM |
| 469 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words.Soo her appendix burst, she’s in agony... and the majority of this post is still about him and how he felt. Fu*king typical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 12:17 AM |
| 7 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️100% agree with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 10:38 AM |
| 13 | If men were written like women:😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:18 PM |
| 41 | But if I say "respect me and don't watch porn" my standards are too high 🙄🙄He sounds like a controlling, selfish, potentially violent child predator😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 133 | Scrote only has sex if it means his wife is pegging him while watching the kind of porn he likes. She does so begrudgingly. And he refuses to clean up the poop afterward.What the hell did I just read 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 05:49 PM |
| 51 | 🙄 also, why do men insist on calling us “females” tfFemales 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Someone’s feelings got hurt.Wow. He doesn’t sound bitter or butthurt at all. No value female 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Never forget 👑Haha I see what you mean! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 08:32 AM |
| 225 | What is with Snapchat?Nudes. He’ll be sending his gross unsolicited nudes, requesting them from you; and it’s easy to hide his activities from the girlfriend he probably already has! Block! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:22 PM |
| 45 | I know this is 7 years old, but I looked up “push pull relationship” online and found this. He actually stated this behaviour makes him seem like a HVM? I bet people still use these horrible tactics! I wouldn’t label this “seductive” either, more like ABUSIVEIf a guy treated me like this, I’d be out the door and wouldn’t look back.. SO manipulate and abusive. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 09:39 AM |
| 23 | Dinner Date ConvertYeah I can totally see why you thought that, and I see what you mean about him thinking anyone can be replaced easily. It’s so sad when a much loved pet dies, but it’s really nice that you’re able to give another animal in need a safe and loving home💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:38 PM |
| 75 | Dinner Date ConvertI’m really sorry to hear about your cat btw, his lack of empathy or concern to how upset you were about this was concerning.. I general find men who don’t like animals; especially cats (as they can’t be controlled like dogs) usually aren’t nice people. My ex was a perfect example of this. So I think you did the right thing 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:26 PM |
| 33 | So thrilled for Theresa from r/DivorcedBirds (hope ok to share here!)All I can say is thank goodness this is a photo and not a video clip. Shoebills are brutal hunters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 10:20 PM |
| 27 | This 46M from Bumble asked me (35F) on a date and we locked down tomorrow. This morning he sent this message...I think it’s ridiculous he asked if I wanted something “more elaborate”...should I just block/delete, or see what else he has to offer?Coffee dates are a no no. He’s trying to make you feel guilty if you did suggest anything “more elaborate” than just coffee. block and delete. Edit: the age gap 🙅🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:55 PM |
| 230 | Bi-women don’t want a threesome, you porn-sick loser.This often seems to be the first thing that falls out of men’s mouths when they find out- “Are you up for a threesome” .. it’s another thing bi women have to vet for, as I’ll drop a man if he asks this or tries to fetishise this about me. It’s so insulting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | ladies, it's our job to teach these men because they can't be bothered to you know, learn about our bodies or ask us what we like. do the work like always or don't complain!!Oh look another post in r/unpopularopinion blaming women...We do speak out? Lots of us do tell them what we like, they just either don’t listen or don’t actually care as long as they get off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:49 AM |
| 14 | This is why I don’t like male teachers ...Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:01 PM |
| 83 | Men using LinkedIn to pick upThis is very inappropriate behaviour, but unfortunately yes men are using it to try and get dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:06 PM |
| 38 | r/GayBrosGoneMild is a reminder that straight men could be doing better physically but they choose not to. I mean look at all these guys who look like they drink water and moisturize.😍That was such a pleasant browsing experience. Gaybros do it better than straight men for sure 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:41 AM |
| 306 | Every man I’ve asked to get tested, whined about it.They take serious offence to being asked if they’ve been tested, seems to be a huge deal to them .. But for us it’s a good way to weed out LVM. Especially if up until that point he’s portrayed himself to be a man of HV. The mask soon slips. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:38 PM |
| 31 | are British men actually gentlemen?No I wouldn’t say they are any better here in the UK. The players, fu*k boys, “nice guys” and sleazy creeps are here too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | When blindly dating an LVM... Been there, done that.😅Ohhh dear 😬This looks familiar! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:30 AM |
| 15 | I love you all💖💗💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:31 PM |
| 54 | Scrotes will be all up for 50/50 in the name of ‘feminism’ until we demand REAL gender equalityI always find it alarming when almost always the first thing thing they bring up about equality is their right to beat the sh*t out of women 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:39 PM |
| 20 | Excuse me, what the actual f*ck?Came to say this ☝🏼😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:08 PM |
| 138 | LVM husband reacts to wife's rape story with anger and physical abuse. She leaves quickly and notifies him about divorce. LVM cries crocodile tears but this QUEEN is not having it!How awful. There was a link to her original post in the comments too.. It saddens me to say, but I can believe he did that. It doesn’t even surprise me any more when I see men react with violence to women, when that woman opens up about something painful/traumatic from her past. SO pleased to see she’s got her family’s support, got her tooth fixed and will be divorcing that scumbag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:55 PM |
| 9 | This is beyond creepy and concerningYou’re right I think that seems to be how lots of younger people are meeting potential partners/flirting now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:15 PM |
| 81 | This is beyond creepy and concerningThat’s very concerning 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:31 PM |
| 4 | No career no personality no respect for women no decent pics only sad dickI couldn’t agree more!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:43 AM |
| 265 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.Ugh. Look how he’s twisted this- blaming her and making himself out to be a victim 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:42 PM |
| 40 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Oh my god 😂haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:37 AM |
| 23 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Ha brilliant 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:36 AM |
| 339 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.It’s always the gross overweight men that feel the need to criticise our bodies. No. That OP is not overreacting at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:50 AM |
| 172 | When guys post shit like this on their feed I just laugh. I just find it so cringey😆 Am I the only one who notices this influx of men comparing themselves to animals?I get second hand embarrassment when I see it 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:10 AM |
| 11 | Washed up LVM/ZVM logic as to why they prefer to marry women in their 20’s when they are pushing 40. It is truly mind boggling. As a woman in my early 20’s who has been approached by these type of old men, I find this vomit inducing. 🤮Soft half cooked noodle 💀😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:15 AM |
| 25 | Twitter been killing me with these memes 💀Eiww no! 🙅🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:09 AM |
| 30 | Just when you think you've seen enough? Gold digger man locked out his GF out of THEIR hotel room that SHE paid for to score brownie points in front of buddies 🙄That was a long read, but worth it for the ending! That poor woman; her ex boyfriend is an actual piece of sh*t. I really hope she’s moved on and met someone worthy of her🤞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:22 AM |
| 9 | Reminder that you have inherent valueSo true 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 19 | When men mean when they “tease” you about being “boring” and not “adventurous” enough: car sexExactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:51 PM |
| 43 | When men mean when they “tease” you about being “boring” and not “adventurous” enough: car sexI’ve just had a male lurker direct message me about this, in reference to my first comment, saying “no it does not, it means just be really direct about what you want to do (aka have sex)” ... seems like he can’t handle the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:17 PM |
| 52 | When men mean when they “tease” you about being “boring” and not “adventurous” enough: car sexThank you for the clarification, wow that’s sickening and very scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:42 AM |
| 355 | When men mean when they “tease” you about being “boring” and not “adventurous” enough: car sex“Go straight cave man on her” sounds like assault or possible rape? Im assuming he means forcing himself on her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:17 AM |
| 7 | For anyone who’s struggling or feeling vulnerable after leaving a guy just remember..I’m really sorry to hear you’re struggling right now. If you ever wanted a little private chat PM me. Even if it’s just to vent💜☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:12 PM |
| 16 | Recently got banned from r/unpopularopinion because “misandry is just as bad as misogyny”Yes! That’s always the first thing they bring up, violence 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:57 PM |
| 73 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.This is really sad, I’m so sorry this happened to you! Sadly it’s a pretty accurate example of male behaviour. From my own experiences as well men rarely step in if another man is out of line or making a woman uncomfortable. I’ve had to step in and help my girl friends in the past, while “big burley, manly men” stand by staring awkwardly or just completely ignoring women in distress. It’s sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:17 PM |
| 5 | Just saw this on IG and this is so sad. I still can't belive it how horrible some men are.I’ve been saying this for years! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:10 PM |
| 10 | "Sure! I'll go hiking with You on our first date!" "I'll meet you at your place for our first date"... (why women act like we are all rapists, cried the men, while teaching their daughters how to use a gun for personal safety)My heart breaks for her. Seeing things like this is a brutal reminder to be so cautious around men, all men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 09:58 PM |
| 65 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!A laundry mat🙄ohhh boy. Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 09:51 PM |
| 21 | Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheatOh brilliant! Well fingers crossed for her 🤞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:47 PM |
| 10 | Scrote sickness galore!Sorry you’ve had to deal with someone like that. He’s shown such immaturity and disrespect towards you, thank goodness you’ve put an end to this. It’s all about his ego and trying to control you, trying to get a reaction. You’ve done the best thing, block on everything, don’t acknowledge him at all. Don’t ever unblock him, as he’ll be waiting for sure. Even if it’s a couple years down the line and he’s moved onto someone else- he won’t be able to help himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:21 PM |
| 164 | Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheatMy heart sank reading this. She’s working her ass off to basically fund their affair. Sickening. What real advise are people giving her!? Better not be tO cOmMuNiCaTe 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:11 PM |
| 246 | Always trying to hide shit.God they really are pathetic and deceitful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:05 PM |
| 3 | LVM who get themselves blockedOh yeah very weird! Coming from a complete stranger on tinder, that’s too much interest in them too soon 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 01:46 PM |
| 10 | If women wrote a list of dating demands like angry men doThis is brilliant 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:03 PM |
| 8 | Always Be Ready To LeaveReally brilliant post, will be bookmarking this for future reference! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:58 PM |
| 7 | They are hitting rock bottom soon (OC)Hahaha amazing 🤩😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:46 PM |
| 17 | What is with this special breed of fuckboys?Exactly this. ☝🏼☝🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 113 | Male in r/ sex admits to looking for actual rape videos to jerk off to and EVERY SINGLE COMMENT tells him that it's normal.“Embrace it” what an absolutely vile person. I feel sick🤢😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:22 PM |
| 211 | when the wife & husband are both shallow 😄 (23F/31M)The age gap. What was he expecting to happen 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:03 PM |
| 20 | Is this seriously the standard for “better than most”?Oh my god, really😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:37 PM |
| 6 | LVM who get themselves blockedOhh I hadn’t even thought of that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:20 PM |
| 18 | Standing up to LVM everywhereDamn, you take no prisoners!😂Amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 02:24 PM |
| 39 | LVM who get themselves blockedExactly! It’s really makes me wonder how many men are preying on women from online dating; to get access to potentially vulnerable children. So sad that we live in a world where that’s a real possibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:20 PM |
| 6 | something to send your pickme friendsIt should work for you, I’ve posted from my phone before! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:02 PM |
| 98 | LVM who get themselves blockedAsking for pictures of your children 😐 that’s seriously inappropriate. He must know how weird (predatory in my opinion) that sounds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:41 PM |
| 3 | He’s been “seeing someone” but they’re “not dating”Broccoli play 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 11:14 AM |
| 45 | That's how LVM treat women for hookupsHahah, the park was his version 😂🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 10:57 AM |
| 662 | That's how LVM treat women for hookups“But I got another idea. There was a park close by” “I found an alley behind some garage” .. “was it really such a bad thing I did?” What the hell did I just read. Yes you treated her like a hooker. The fact that he’s trying to down play his behaviour as if what he’s done wasn’t a big deal makes my blood boil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Forever mindset wether it be dating or life goals 💕Sorry to hear you’ve been treated that way in the past; one of the many positives about FDS is you’re amongst women who’s shared similar experiences and can support you!. It’s good to hear that you’re making positive changes and building up your confidence again now 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:21 AM |
| 244 | To love & to obey? Nah, sisHahah “obey who?!”🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:51 PM |
| 13 | This poor woman 😭I think, in the long run it’s worth dealing with it sooner. Whatever you decide though I wish you all the best☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 38 | This poor woman 😭I have severe endometriosis which is most likely what’s caused mine (only recently diagnosed by a gynaecologist after years of being told “you’ve just got heavy periods, there’s nothing wrong with you by my GP”) the larger they are the more likely they’ll burst. I’m also a landscaper so I’m super active which can also be a greater risk of causing them to rupture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:26 PM |
| 46 | How do you progress in online dating in this climate?A decent man wouldn’t want to be meeting up and putting you and himself at risk during a pandemic. Personally I wouldn’t even be looking at OLD right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:16 PM |
| 139 | This poor woman 😭As someone who suffers with ovarian cysts and have had them rupture, I can assure you it’s the most painful and frightening experience, and she’s totally justified in feeling abandoned/hurt here. He’s shown her what he really is. He’s not someone that can be relied upon, and I’d guarantee if she ever had an bad accident or was diagnosed with a serious illness he would not be there to support her. She needs to dump his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Just don't need any more BS from 2020Love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 08:02 PM |
| 72 | This is how you should treat a guy who cancels just two hours before and treats you as a second option for a first date 👋🏼😊Great response! That food looks amazing too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 11 | I was feeling lonely... So I got out and got me some flowers.Stunning! You deserve them 💕🌸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:43 PM |
| 31 | This has to be a joke, can’t believe this is real 😂😂😂Thank god for that 😂🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 15 | Pick-me Sh*tshowExactly. I’m the same I have high quality, realism pieces which I spent a lot of money on. I successfully run my own business and own my own home.. There are lots of high value women who have some ink. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:07 PM |
| 68 | Not even forever gf but forever tenant 10 years and she gets this, can someone explain to her she needs to leave ?!Forever tenant 🤡I bet he’ll be expecting her to be the maid for the whole house too. Will he be paying her for her maid services though?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:59 PM |
| 45 | Has anyone else ever tried to warn their ex’s new partner?Many women are just blind to their faults and see your genuine warning as a threat; or you must be jealous as he no doubt will have spun a load of bullsh*t about you. Calling you crazy and jealous etc. Sadly some women just have to learn the hard way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Apparently FDS is delusional and a cope. This OP thinks he is the prize 🤔Haha I cackled at this 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:54 PM |
| 121 | In an ask men post, I came across hundreds of comments in a thread talking shit about FDS, saying no one here has a boyfriend or has ever been near a man, and that women here have only baby daddies and have no jobs. What the heck?LVM are scared that us women are coming together and actually talking, comparing experiences, supporting each other and are levelling up together. We have a new mindset that puts us in control, setting firm boundaries and putting ourselves first. It really scares them that there are less women willing to put up with their abuse and won’t be degraded, bullied and manipulated! It’s scares LVM that we are calling out those men for their bad behaviour and that we are only looking for HVM. No more ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Just saying 👏🏼I feel this 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Just saying 👏🏼Good for you! 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:22 AM |
| 59 | Make him work for sex, not just before you have sex the first time after commitment, but all through the relationship!100% agree with this, we don’t owe men access to our bodies regardless of what stage the relationship is at!. Ahh I can only imagine the responses this post will get from lurking scrotes, haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:29 PM |
| 33 | Learning to ask "and what is he bringing to the table?"Think we all dated this guy 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 15 | Of course they only want this (and a bangmaid) 🙄“A flattened yellow pillow”. They ALL have one of those 🤢😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 6 | 2 weeks post breakup with LVM, would love your encouragement !He sounds horrible. Absolutely vile! Hang in there, you’re doing so well and things will only get better from here for you. 💕👑🌷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:18 PM |
| 23 | When he says “You will never do better than me.”This post actually made me smile at the end, good for you 😊Good for all of us that know our worth!💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:15 PM |
| 38 | EVERY guy I talk to on tinder will not stop talking about himselfFellow bisexual here. Agree with this 100%.. But this isn’t really a new thing, I’ve found most men are obsessed with themselves. They struggle to keep a conversation going or bring it back around to themselves again, if it isn’t in some way related to them. Or their penis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:14 PM |
| 137 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkLook at him trying to justify his attraction to children. I feel sick 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Common lies on OLDHA! Same 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:03 PM |
| 9 | Where men think the bar is vs. where it actually isOh look, a field 😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:38 AM |
| 40 | Pickme helps scrote husband have a career, he ends up raping 16-year-old girl bc "he can't help it"This hurt to read. LVM men prove time and time again that they will almost always throw the support and sacrifices you’ve made for him back in your face. My heart goes out to that poor woman and her daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:36 AM |
| 44 | Scrote forces wife to fire wonderful doula because he can’t be around an attractive woman due to his pornsick brainThat comment about the husband mentioning that he wanted to open up the marriage to include the doula?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:58 AM |
| 58 | Always do your researchThank you for sharing this. Damn though. Good for you for following your instincts and digging further, am SO glad you aren’t going to meet this lying creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 143 | My experience as a 33 old woman on Tinder - The wall is a lie“The wall at 30” is just another way for men to try and manipulate us. Another way for them to try and pressure strong, beautiful successful women into settling for ugly low value men; who know damn well those woman can do SO much better. Thirty is still very, very young! Women don’t just automatically age and turn to dust when they turn thirty. We need to stop listening to mens opinions as they honesty don’t hold value or truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:29 PM |
| 31 | Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her.Cringing from second hand embarrassment. What is she doing 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:15 PM |
| 35 | This poor woman’s boyfriend spends all day jerking off to deep fakes of her own friends and using VR and a pocket pussy for hours so naturally she asks Reddit for their quality adviceUgh, welcome to red flag central! What a vile porn sick creep. Every day I honestly feel more and more disgusted by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:03 AM |
| 31 | ATTN Lurking Scrotes, LVMs, and NVMs: We are almost at 100k subscribers!Amazing! 👑💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 10:51 PM |
| 44 | Why are so many women interested in abusive relationships?Because they are all being brainwashed from as early as possible to view that as what a real relationship should be like. It’s disgusting and degrading, yet they’re being told that they need to please men in order to get validation. Vulnerable girls are practically groomed by older predatory men to view bdsm and abuse as normal and expected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:25 PM |
| 36 | Gomez Addams knows how to be HV..Same! Definitely not alone haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 35 | Was I too harsh to block him so quickly? He didn’t even ask me how I was and couldn’t fathom why I couldn’t instantly see him... also telling me how “fit” I am 3 times in our 2 minute conversation just comes across as desperate and creepy...He’s only into your looks, and tries to guilt you about how you’ve already got plans 🚩Block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:33 AM |
| 11 | What is it with guys these days?That’s awful. I’m so sorry you and your friends had to deal with that kind of behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | 'You're different then other girls/women'Yess 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 7 | 'You're different then other girls/women'Oh it’s a sipping tea type meme 😅spill the tea/gossip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 7 | 'You're different then other girls/women'Agreed! I also appreciate the Kermit reference 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Would diseases be a standard for y’all?I think yes to a certain degree. If you want children then you would naturally want to at pass on as many healthy genes as possible. You wouldn’t want to knowingly pass on something dodgy which they then have no choice but to try and live with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 14 | I needed FDS ten years agoGlad to hear you’re putting yourself first now.💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 11:37 AM |
| 4 | Don’t know that I would have asked for sushi (or changed it once we had a set plan) but the comments are... wow.Coffee dates are a no no. “Dates” in a field are a no no. Not wanting to commit to making any real effort, is a no no 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 13 | My ex read my diary after I left and got pissed because he violated boundaries.Damn. 😦SO glad you’ve got yourself away from him!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 12 | In appreciation for all the fans who show up in our DMs 😂Hahah 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Incels new chart about women.They make all these damn charts judging us, and yet cry when ANY of those women reject them or choose a HVM over them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 06:49 PM |
| 36 | I bet it's a man pretending to be a woman.Sorry BRO but we know you’re a fake 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:34 PM |
| 36 | Wow. Bullet completely dodged for this lucky womanBullet dodged! Wonder what the comments were saying.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:03 AM |
| 150 | The ”Dogpill”, AKA They think we reject them to fuck dogs.What the hell did I just read. Hadn’t heard of this until now and ..🤦🏼♀️Scrotes are really reaching for anything at this point aren’t they. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:00 AM |
| 9 | Why is there a rumor circling around that FDS women are ugly?They say it out of projection and pure bitterness 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 12 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.LARPing sword in hand 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:45 PM |
| 6 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesI think you’ve summed that up perfectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:31 PM |
| 11 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesThat line got me too 😤🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:21 PM |
| 17 | I did a post on MY personal penis preferences and dudes on Reddit were ready to rope themselves over it. I don’t ever want to hear EVER again how women are “insecure” and “crazy” ones for being NOT OK with Porn.This ☝️☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:07 PM |
| 16 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:Let’s go our separate ways then! 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:33 PM |
| 9 | I know they are expensive, but this shouldn’t be a thing 😂Hahah too accurate 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:23 PM |
| 84 | One more reason to never 👏🏼send 👏🏼nudes👏🏼 There is literally no photo he could take that would be an even trade. You’re beautiful, soft, can pose like a goddess. He’s most likely dirty, unkept, and using flash.Well no you’re right they wouldn’t 👍🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:51 PM |
| 177 | One more reason to never 👏🏼send 👏🏼nudes👏🏼 There is literally no photo he could take that would be an even trade. You’re beautiful, soft, can pose like a goddess. He’s most likely dirty, unkept, and using flash.I honestly still can’t believe women think this won’t backfire on them when they send nudes 🤦🏼♀️Even if you think you’ve got a HVM - don’t do it. You can never really be sure of what’ll happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:46 PM |
| 10 | NooooEiww. Shame about your face, that chest hair, and you desperately flexing trying to look like “a sick cu*t” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 67 | My comment on an r/sex post about a woman who's male "friend" tried to guilt her into having sex with him because she's had sex with other people and these are the responses. The post was locked before I could respond but why even bother 🤣🤣No definitely not and it’s not encouraged in FDS. Men WILL use that against you in any way they can. It’s happened to many members here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:48 PM |
| 195 | My comment on an r/sex post about a woman who's male "friend" tried to guilt her into having sex with him because she's had sex with other people and these are the responses. The post was locked before I could respond but why even bother 🤣🤣This is exactly why you shouldn’t discuss your sexual past with men. He thinks he’s entitled to her body and she owes him basically.. That mentality is so dangerous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 13 | Madagascar had it right😊Ohh Melman 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:35 PM |
| 8 | Herpes + poly = 🤮Yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 06:16 PM |
| 52 | Herpes + poly = 🤮LVM positive 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:30 PM |
| 19 | More proof men just see us as warm flesh lights. He expects her to warm herself up, give herself her own orgasm and be satisfied with just pleasing him??? I’m disgustedHow is he a “gentleman”🤦🏼♀️ What advise apart from leave his porn sick selfish ass does she expect to get!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 205 | If men are 'more visual', why are they ugly?Haha ugh visual. According to them we’ve got to look like perfect sex dolls; and they can get away with looking like bridge trolls - we should be grateful for their attention though /s 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:47 PM |
| 12 | Grrr ArrrgYuck. I occasionally have a browse there, and always regret it afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 19 | 🤢🤢 Imagine playing along with literal pedophilia.... “But besides that he’s great!”That’s disgusting. She wants to know if she should ask him to “tone it down” I’m sorry, what?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 25 | Lots of girls supporting girls on this thread. Love it.Men literally can’t help themselves can they. I don’t know any woman who gets her nails done for male approval anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 08:10 PM |
| 6 | The bar is in the ninth circle of hell.28.9k likes 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 40 | If your man won’t let you look through his phone, he has something to hideI definitely think if you have a gut feeling something is wrong or he’s starting to act differently/distant and being weird about his phone or hiding it, then at that point I’d check it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:47 PM |
| 7 | Anyone ever had to deal with an ex at work?I admire your attitude and growth despite having to deal with these awful people! Please keep us updated on how this plays out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:57 AM |
| 105 | Aaand we need to stop saying hi to men... I can't believe they wonder why don't we act friendly.Why are people giving him awards for being an absolute creep 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:51 AM |
| 27 | Wait....like what the actual F?? Facebook ad I just had to share. Holy hell, stay strong 👸❤️Eye rolls 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 33 | Normalize turning your phone off before 9pmThis made me cringe, never ever again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:43 PM |
| 7 | Why to never let a LVM back into your lifeYou deserve so much better than this, thank god you’ve cut him off for good now though! 🌷💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 122 | The thought of having a son terrifies me. Dating in the future will be dreadful for the new generation.This is one of several reasons why I shall be remaining child free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Guy harasses, makes false accusation, shows threatening behaviour and then still expects me to be interested?Showed his true colours for sure!! 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:48 PM |
| 91 | The story and my reply... Why are people so oblivious. A man having a middle life crisis is ready to abondon everything and let his gf do everything and people don't see this as an issue?Yikes that person who responded to you needs to calm down. That age gap is a big deal and definitely relevant to the topic 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:12 PM |
| 5 | First date in 4 years with a guy. How do I be more assertive in what I want?I think men are pushing for in person dates a lot quicker now as they’ve been “so starved of female attention due to COVID”🙄.. do what makes you comfortable, check he’s legit with a FaceTime “date” and see how it feels first. If he doesn’t like it, then you know what to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 119 | This is by far the most repulsive LV behavior a man can have.. wanting a woman to woo him. 🤮 That’s so effeminate. Hobbies include video games and makes 50k a year. Any takers? Nah passA 15 minute “coffee date” at a cafe near his office; so his date can buy her own drink and jump through hoops trying to impress him on his coffee break 😕😂It’s a no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:25 AM |
| 10 | A perfect example of LVM behaviour.I honestly wish someone had told me this when I was younger! Thank goodness for FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:34 AM |
| 9 | A perfect example of LVM behaviour.So do I! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 229 | Is it just me or do ugly men just generally treat you horribly or worse?Yep. I’ve always given less good looking men a chance as I was always lead to believe they’d treat me better.. Turns out they don’t! Some seem to have a lot of built up resentment and insecurities which they use to break strong women down. Others once they’ve pulled a beautiful woman gradually become very arrogant and full of themselves; treating said woman as an object and something they can brag about to their friends. Either way they are toxic as hell and I now avoid like the plague. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:15 PM |
| 72 | This 24 year old dude who casually announced to me that he has a girlfriend in another country and pressured me into things. It’s a lot to read, sorry, but I had to share with somebody. I’m appalled. Blocked.Bloody hell. So much bullsh*t, obvious manipulation, guilt tripping and not so subtle attempts at trying to push his disgusting lifestyle onto you. I’m so sorry you found yourself in that situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 78 | This is something to bear in mind. The devil doesn’t always come with horns and a pointy tail. Sometimes, he can come in the form of everything you’ve ever wanted.Can confirm, always been the good or “nice guys” that have ended up being the worst of them all. Then they have the audacity to claim women don’t give them a chance! There’s a bloody good reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 8 | 3 Weeks Post Dump: LVM is in my emailI’m sorry, what the fu*k?! 🤔The audacity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:48 PM |
| 52 | Misogyny is learned behaviorThis is infuriating. It also doesn’t help that a large majority of parents now are scared of their kids; and actually trying to educate, enforce boundaries or challenge children’s bad behaviour is seen as “child abuse” these days. My mum was a childminder while I was growing up, and I’ve witnessed first hand how parenting has changed for the worse. Not all parents obviously. But a lot of them now live in fear, and then wonder why some of their kids grow up to be the way they are now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:57 AM |
| 12 | When some loser from the past tries hitting you up and you show your girls so you can all make fun of him togetherHahah too accurate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:46 PM |
| 10 | Assume Every Man You Meet is a NarcissistThank you for posting this. I’ve saved it to refer back to in the future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:52 PM |
| 29 | The FDS Mod Team When Only Two Men Show Up for the Anti-FDS Brigade Reddit Tried to OrganizeDamn they are so pathetic!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:50 PM |
| 125 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesThank you for posting about this, it’s really interesting hearing everyone’s opinions! 😁 ..Men of reddit are going to have a melt down over this post 😂hahah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:42 PM |
| 10 | Leveling Up, Need to Keep No ContactWell done for ending this “situationship” and thank you got sharing a break down of what was going on. You’ve done the right thing, I’d advise to help you move forward that you cut contact completely; block/delete his number aswell as on all social media platforms. Things may feel hard for awhile yet, but you will get through this! 🌷💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:06 PM |
| 20 | The only appropriate response, reallyDaniel nobody in their right mind will be showing you their vagina. So stop stressing over something you’ll never even see 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:25 PM |
| 90 | Woman wonders why FWB doesn’t care about foreplay. She’s so close to getting it, as well. 🤦🏾♀️Ugh, what did I just read 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:37 PM |
| 11 | Putting down fellow women for male validationSo glad you don’t have these toxic women in your life anymore!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 21 | So many scrotes are so dirty and unhygienic that they have come up with their own term for why their nether regions smell like shit sometimes. dear scrotes... if you shower regularly, you shouldn’t stink so bad after a sweaty day (explication in the comments)Oh my god no🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:04 PM |
| 92 | This is why I don’t date short men.This “close female friend” (who he’s not doubt imagined fu*king at some point or another) is in the wrong too; if she agrees to go ahead with this in my opinion 😬yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Problems with fiance making comments and gaslightingPlease really, really pay attention to this comment!! ☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:40 PM |
| 12 | In need of solid advice ladiesSorry but this feels really off, troll? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:15 PM |
| 31 | Realizations from taking a break on datingIt’s amazing what some men free time can do for you. I’m the same, emotionally, mentally and physically am in the best place I’ve ever been, and it’s due to not engaging in any kind of contact with men 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:12 PM |
| 15 | Share your stories of men and how they deal with our periods! HVM, LVM, NVM, advice and anything!!!I had a horrible LVM ex when I was about 19 who I was supposed to be staying the weekend with. My period came on earlier than expected and when my ex found out (I was bleeding badly, in a lot of pain and refused sex) he said I was disgusting.. He then said I wasn’t allowed to sleep in the bed and had to sleep on the floor 😶 It was really late at this point, but I left and went home feeling absolutely awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 56 | Gosh! No thank you, I'm intolerant this bsWho else sighed and rolled their eyes reading this 🙄😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 07:31 PM |
| 48 | Peak LVM right hereUgh. This poor woman. Her edit at the end made it so much worse 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 45 | Thought I found a HVM, then I told him no to hanging out on weekend, explained I’m only comfortable socializing about three times a week to keep my social battery happy...Bye-bye Mickeyy👋🏼👋🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:11 PM |
| 11 | FDS Queens 👑✨Yes exactly! That’s why I love this sub so much 💜✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:52 PM |
| 6 | Throwaway because my boyfriend has my main account. How do I ask to be taken to a nice place for sex?This comment here! 👆👆👆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 12:50 PM |
| 10 | Am I being gaslighted/guilt tripped?He is trying to guilt trip and manipulate you. I know it may be hard, but please don’t let anyone regardless of any disability try to manipulate you like this. Men will use any excuse or tactic to get what they want, even when you’ve made it perfectly clear that being with them is not what you want anymore. You don’t owe this dude anything. I’d cut contact or all he’ll do is blow up your phone and stress you out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 10:01 PM |
| 25 | Did I do the right thing by calling this guy out?Please read the handbook, he sees you as a booty call, is lying to you and you are kind of excusing this behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:27 PM |
| 7 | Ladies- block and delete- use these functions liberally.Good for you, well done! Do whatever you need to do to help yourself move forward and level up 💜🌷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 630 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?It boggles my mind how they can’t handle us having one safe place for women, when they’ve literally infiltrated every other platform. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 12 | I want out. But I don’t trust myself to stay gone. Narcissistic abusive asshole.You might find r/NarcissisticAbuse useful. I’m recovering from a relationship with a narc and I’ve found that sub helpful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 26 | I’m moving out on Saturday.Well done for seeing all this so early on, acknowledging that you deserve better and actually acting on it! You’ve done the right thing, and life can only get better from here 💜🌷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:28 PM |
| 12 | Does anyone else find that they’re at their best when a man is not in their life?So glad to hear you’re feeling in a better place and peaceful 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 89 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."This guys entitled “submit to me” attitude is disgusting, but your responses are pure gold. When it comes down to it Is that really all he can bring to the table, his dick 🤨🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:20 AM |
| 19 | Being a Tall womanI’m 5’10 and I won’t date anyone shorter than me due to several bad experiences in the past, when I have given shorter men a chance. They ooze insecurity and aggression, taking any opportunity once a relationship was established to try and put me down and make me feel insecure; hence me swiftly dumping them 🙂 I love my height and I deserve someone who’s not going to project their insecurities onto me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:05 AM |
| 17 | Oh my god, pressured into sex at 14?! Fuuuuuck I hate this world.That poor girl. Thank god she’s seen sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:10 AM |
| 92 | All the comments were a variation of “WeLl HoLd On, iT’s NoT nEcEsSaRiLy FeTiShIsAtIon” - the bar truly is in hellYuck. Just yuck. She doesn’t want to “shame his kink” yet it’s perfectly ok for him to fetishise her 🤦🏼♀️🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:00 AM |
| 217 | For real thoughThat’s a pretty generous number 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Mr "Feminist_Murderer" over here is cranky because we prioritise women's safety & wellbeing over male feelingsSome are asking how they can go about reporting FDS now😂🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Some Scrote Really Tried to Neg A Woman Who Looks Like This lmaooooGet rid of what exactly, her organs? She looks amazing 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:05 PM |
| 29 | A scrote thought he could dictate how a 👸queen should eat 🤣🤣🤣 #KickHimOut2020Exactly what I thought when reading this! 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:41 PM |
| 63 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeSounds like he’s set this situation up deliberately.. He’s manipulated and pressured you into this, please don’t blame yourself. You’re worth so much more than this, I’d suggest you leave him and cut contact. 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 5 | Women I don’t know have little to no reasons to have a hidden agendaYou’re already making up for it by actually acknowledging that behaviour and wanting to be better! Just try to remember that a compliment from a man usually has a motive behind it, and one from a woman is genuine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 19 | Lesbians and Bisexual Women, do you feel bisexuality is being used as a marketing gimmick for female music artists? How can you tell who really is interested in women and who is a faker?As a bisexual woman, I’m glad you’ve posted this. I feel personally that it’s mainly for the “male gaze”🙄.. I’m not saying some of them aren’t genuine, but I feel a lot of them sexualise bisexuality purely for the attention and money 💰which hurts. We already have enough problems with men sexualising us, and biphobia from outside and within the LGBT community as we aren’t take seriously because of these people faking who they are. It just draws a lot of unwanted/negative attention I feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 50 | Need some advice: met a gentleman who turned out to be a pervert. Not sure if I’m handling this right.Walk away from this right now. You’ve done your digging and this is probably only scratching the surface. So many red flags and deal breakers here already, in my opinion. Trust your gut instinct here, there’s a reason he’s single. He doesn’t respect women, he’s portrayed himself to be someone he’s not, he’s no doubt a porn addict and probably subscribed to “onlyfans” and other disgusting sites. Cut contact, delete, block do what you need to do girl 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpYey! 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:38 AM |
| 10 | Guy that I don’t like or find attractive has asked me now two times to go on a socially distanced walk. I don’t know how to say no because I suck at boundaries . Please helpYes block his ass!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:34 AM |
| 5 | Do you hear the PickMe's yet? 'I don't care if he doesn't get me a ring, I don't care if my proposal is shit; it's the thought that matters! Expectations make you a golddigger' 🤡Oh my god😬👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 10:30 AM |
| 7 | Hi ladies. Whenever I tell someone I blocked my ex after an ‘amicable’ breakup they tell me I’m over the top and rudeCutting them out and going no contact is in my opinion the best way. I’ve been judged by friends and work colleagues in the past about doing this, but it’s what has helped ME move on. I know I can’t deal with the possibility of them reaching out/leading me on again or “trying to stay friends” so I do what’s best for me. I struggle otherwise and I’m not ashamed to admit that. I don’t explain myself to these people now though. I’m done trying to justify myself to them.. So you do what ever you nee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 133 | Came across this old post. Sadly, it’s not satire. There’s just so much wrong here.What did I just read 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 01:07 AM |
| 26 | I’m in shockHahah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:00 AM |
| 10 | Girl please don'tSeriously brainwashed. I’m embarrassed for her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 06:16 PM |
| 39 | She says her relationship is fine other than the fact that he never showers, she has to baby him 24/7, he stinks up the whole house and still expects sex.That poor cat 🙁But seriously she needs to get a grip and stop tiptoeing around him. Mental health is a serious thing, but it’s not an excuse to hide behind. I wouldn’t accept this, he’d have to shower and keep up basic hygiene or find somewhere else to go. She’s let him into her home and this is how he repays her, by literally becoming a health hazard 🤨. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:30 AM |
| 20 | I have no words.I saw this posted on another sub and all these bdsm scrotes were saying it’s a common thing they give out to women and this was given to a girl on her second date with the guy 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:52 PM |
| 88 | *long, exaggerated, justifiable sigh*Yeah it’s really sad. She’s unwell, obviously just needs rest and space and all he cares about is himself. As usual.🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:34 PM |
| 243 | *long, exaggerated, justifiable sigh*Another example of just how disgusting men can be.. I really hope she leaves him for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 03:08 PM |
| 41 | Man: wants to hang out. Me: suspiciousPlease listen to your gut instinct here. You are not reading too much into this, this dude wants to hook up. He’s already made his intentions clear and is just trying to lure you in to see if he can take advantage or wear you down. Keep your wits about you, he is not a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:58 AM |
| 192 | What is going on with men these days? Rant, will probably delete but damn.I’m mid twenties and honestly don’t see myself finding a HVM amongst all these porn sick creeps. I’m happy with my life and working on achieving my own goals, but sharing it with a guy really doesn’t seem likely anymore. But that’s ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:30 AM |
| 34 | Woman staying with her pedophile boyfriend, still hasn’t gone to the police.It’s sad you can feel from this that she knows the truth but desperately wants it to be not true. Before confronting him she should have got copies/photos/screenshots of all of this as her approach has now helped him cover this up, even if she didn’t mean to 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 06:52 PM |
| 8 | Finally stood up for myself against a LVMYou definitely did the right thing! Thank you for sharing this too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Just a reminder ✨Hahah isn’t that the truth 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?COVID dad bod 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:57 PM |
| 50 | We block and level up!This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:55 PM |
| 6 | LVM WILL RUIN EVERYTHINGOffft. That really looks like he purposely threw that towards the ocean and not the dude proposing 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 137 | We all know why.HA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Yikes! Predator exposed 😐But it’s a MeRcEdEs 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 04:22 PM |
| 12 | I (24F) am being emotionally blackmailedBlock everywhere and delete him. As long as you’ve not sent him any nudes then I doubt there’s much he can accomplish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend of three years still refuses to give me his passcode to his phone. Is this a red flag?Red flag. If he has nothing to hide then what’s the issue. Why give him yours if he won’t reciprocate? 🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 08:54 AM |
| 19 | Please tell me this is not real - whyyy would anyone EVER take that man back?The Pickmeshians 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:19 PM |
| 10 | Yikes! Predator exposed 😐So gross!!🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 33 | Yikes! Predator exposed 😐I wonder how old this ex was when they started their relationship though.. And even before that when he was laying the ground work to groom her?! 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:24 PM |
| 16 | Yikes! Predator exposed 😐I think it was probably flash for him back in the day 😂and he’s still desperately clinging onto that.. while trying to groom young women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:22 PM |
| 9 | Yikes! Predator exposed 😐Same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:21 PM |
| 51 | Yikes! Predator exposed 😐Yes. They always think a decent car somehow cancels out their own disgustingness 🤦🏼♀️ I agree. Yet they’re always obsessed with saying that’s when they’re in “their prime” 😬.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:26 PM |
| 154 | Yikes! Predator exposed 😐This. “My ex was 19” made me feel physically ill. The fact he thinks that saying that will sway her opinion, after already spewing out SO many red flags is beyond me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 05:17 PM |
| 163 | Look at the edit, men are idiots 🙄It’s angry men of reddit who can’t handle that we’ve got a positive women’s only sub - they can’t control and manipulate us here. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:46 PM |
| 58 | Guy spends days talking about plans Sunday to go for an early run and then brunch. Saturday he stops responding to my inquiries about time and place at 1:30pm. Sunday morning expects me to jump to fulfil non-plans. Thoughts?He wants you to be okay with jumping through hoops when he wants you to. To be “chill and available” at the click of his fingers.. “Figure our the rest together” means for you to make all the effort/plan activities and then he’ll still complain about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 3 | He just wants someone he can abuse (Original post from another sub)This is one of his earlier lists btw, he’s on list 5 now 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:50 PM |
| 59 | When men pull up other men for their irresponsibility. Mod message to r/AskMen.It’s bizarre that it seems men are more desperate than ever to suddenly “put themselves out there” just when a pandemic hits us all.. why! They really don’t care about anyone’s safety and compromising the safely of vulnerable people especially 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 12:56 PM |
| 63 | If I could slap my past pick me self...I think she’s choking on sea water, or sand.. or rereading those old messages 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Wanting to be a SAHM is apparently immature now lmao. Can’t believe people are upvoting this.“When the female..” sorry but this is a serious pet peeve of mine when people refer to women like that. It’s almost always used in a comment where a man is putting a woman down or degrading her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:42 PM |
| 17 | Best friends boyfriend cheated on her while she was battling for her lifeThis is so upsetting to read, and I’m sure many of us can empathise with your pain and frustration. You can’t do anything to change things and you feel powerless.. That dude sounds like the ultimate lowlife scrote, but she needs to learn that on her own. All you can do is be there when things fall apart, that’s if you have the emotional energy yourself to do so that is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 35 | disgusting incels make fun of domestic violenceThis is disgusting, can you report their post? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:18 PM |
| 34 | Of course it’s always on women to figure out why men are being deadbeats 🤦🏻♀️Every damn time, sick of seeing it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 4 | It makes me sad that women feel like they have to cater to pornsick men to get a date 😖She wants to win those all important porn star princess points from LVM 😬👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 111 | Of course it’s always on women to figure out why men are being deadbeats 🤦🏻♀️Is He DePreSsEd 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:04 PM |
| 82 | An open-relationship is an excuse to cheatThis guy is in the wrong here definitely, they’re married now and expecting a baby, but she’s allowed boundaries to be crossed in the beginning- so I’m not surprised he still thinks he can behave this way and has this entitled attitude. I highly doubt he was planning to tell her about this either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:38 PM |
| 49 | Guy raped his ex-girlfriend "as his prize" and doesn't feel it's wrong.I can’t believe she’s even asking what she should do .. 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:18 PM |
| 27 | Still no mention of leaving him?I wonder how many people commented saying she deserves it and betrayed him by looking at his phone, even though he was acting suspiciously and has previous 🤨🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:24 PM |
| 37 | Why do people think that FDS means that we hate men?This is what, one of the only “female only spaces” on Reddit. So of course LVM are angry and think we hate them; they can’t oppress, control and manipulate us here. 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:05 PM |
| 10 | THIS article is the best thing I have ever read- EVER!- on the ENTIRE internets, post break-up. I cannot even explain. TOTAL MINDSHIFT.This article is a must read for all FDS ladies. As someone who’s still recovering from a relationship with a classic narc, I needed this. Thank you 💜🌷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:02 PM |
| 107 | Men will marry any woman who says yes even if he isn’t attracted to her. Note he is overweight, but wishes his wife were a “petite athletic woman”.Yuck he sounds like such a unhealthy, porn sick loser. Why is she still making excuses for him. She saw the red flags and still married him.. where is her sense of pride and self worth! It hurts to read these sometimes. 🤦🏼♀️👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:38 AM |
| 28 | Found this gem floating around Facebook.Seen different versions of this list floating around reddit. This dude basically wants to date a fuc*ing man. All those extreme bodybuilder type physical traits he describes and then PECKS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:15 PM |
| 37 | Before and after FDSI don’t think it’s a bad thing that you’re able to see the issues and red flags.. Don’t look at it in a negative way, just remind yourself that your on your path to levelling up and be glad that you can see through other mens bullsh*t! As you move forward with your life, achieving your goals etc just be grateful that you are able to do so without sacrificing that for a man, unlike those other women who are blind to men’s faults and have pickmisha tendencies. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:34 PM |
| 7 | An incel DMed me after I posted something on r/twoxchromosomes, calling me a man hater and radical feminist. I really hope he sees this lolFDS = “self admittedly a radical feminist subreddit for women who hate men” ... 🤔 hmmmm 😂👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 9 | I used to cry over pickmeisha friendsWell done for cutting her off! I had a very similar experience with my ex best friend of over a decade. I was her personal therapist, and once she got her bf she only made effort when it suited her, or she was having a crisis. I consistently made so much effort and got fu*k all back. I cut ties without even telling her, she literally never answered my last attempt at contact so that was it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:50 PM |
| 22 | DeadBedrooms Man Marries, Has Kids With A Woman He Is Not Remotely Attracted To.That friends advise 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:42 PM |
| 14 | I believe this belongs hereThose comments better not be supporting this 🤦🏼♀️.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 34 | LVM are all opportunistic narcissists.Damn this is spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 8 | I’m lost for words at this point 🤦🏼♀️Yeah his friends definitely did not having the best intentions! Yes exactly! The fact that he left her over this too is so bizarre 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 12:23 AM |
| 15 | I’m lost for words at this point 🤦🏼♀️Yes agree 100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:30 PM |
| 43 | I’m lost for words at this point 🤦🏼♀️Honesty, men think we own them sex and unlimited access to our bodies, yet a huge percentage of them have NO idea how we work! 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:30 PM |
| 12 | I’m lost for words at this point 🤦🏼♀️Haha yes!😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 10:29 PM |
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