The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯

elainejay82 · 2022-02-15T17:04:07+00:00

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Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-02-15T17:32:34+00:00

glad someone did the math.

she was 18 when she got with him. he kept her as a fwb.

now that there's competition, he realizes he "loves" her.

jerk!

BlueSkiesOverLondon · 2022-02-15T17:52:39+00:00

Ugh, of course he makes sure to mention he was her first partner, even though it’s not at all relevant to his question…

ImpressiveCharge2619 · 2022-02-15T17:08:55+00:00

This one sounds as sharp as a marble. Completely hopeless and can’t leave well enough alone.

BasieSkanks · 2022-02-15T17:10:24+00:00

Basically, he tried to play the field and thought he could find better but came up empty, so he’s trying to slither back. This man doesn’t care about his ex, he just doesn’t have anyone else and he’s realising that he’s run out of options. Shame, scrote.

spinsterchachkies · 2022-02-15T17:08:49+00:00

Deep breath

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Loser

lskfjd743 · 2022-02-15T17:19:27+00:00

They expect women whom they offer little to (other than their little peepee) to remain on tap/in a state of deep freeze for them at their convenience. Heaven forbid we should have own dreams and pursue them...

This is similar to a situation that a friend in grad school found herself in. Her BF of 2 years wanted a "break". She went ahead and gave him a permanent one by breaking up with him. He thought she wasn't serious and went ahead and f-ed anything wearing a skirt in a 5 mile distance, with the intention that once he had "had his fill" he could find her waiting with open arms, grateful that he came back. In the meantime, she leveled up on her academics and her job search and applied for a job in the Clandestine Service of the CIA. She got in and the asshole, just as she was about to start training, came crawling back EXPECTING that she would give up on this exciting opportunity just for his shrivelled dick. She laughed and told him to f*ck off. She is living in a European capital city, happily married with two kids to a fellow officer.

DioriteDiorite · 2022-02-15T16:49:47+00:00

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MysteriousLife7 · 2022-02-15T17:12:37+00:00

What did a 26 year old have in common with an 18 year old fresh out of high school (or still in high school? damn, that’d be even more disturbing), wide eyed about life and not knowing anything about sex…

Man, just to think of how she was a clean and blank page before meeting this awful groomer. Of course sex with her was amazing because you were everything she knew at that time and she must’ve been pleasuring you to the best that she could. You shaped her first experiences and worldview too, then went on to hurt her feelings in a true scrote fashion.

Come on, you know you were just using her and now regret that the source of free sex, attention, youth and real genuine affection from her to you was gone. You never feel the actual remorse of hurting her and breaking her heart.

Good luck with pining for her as “the one that got away” but honestly deep down you never even loved her that much, if at all. You don’t even mention how she felt and what she thinks now in your post. Because to you, your selfish emotions matter while her past feelings for you and her current engagement decision do not.

You rejected her once “temporarily” and she ultimately rejected you back — for a lifetime, with that ring on her finger. Move the fuck on.

rightsun__ · 2022-02-15T16:39:25+00:00

She’s 23 and he’s been seeing her for 5 years.... when she was 18..... tell this old man to leave this young lady alone!!!!

saragc92 · 2022-02-15T17:00:02+00:00

In the end it’s the scrotes who play themselves

levelitradically · 2022-02-15T16:40:59+00:00

Glad to see some clarity in the comments for once! He needs to move on.

Thestral-glow6 · 2022-02-15T17:20:18+00:00

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BaffledBazaar · 2022-02-15T19:19:13+00:00

Why do men try to confess after a woman is engaged? My friend got three 'I've been in luv wit u for years' confessions within 24 hrs of her announcing her engagement. When I announced I was happy in a new relationship, the ex who broke up with me, who had been LOUD about how he was playing the field, came out of nowhere crying about I was the one who got away. Literally crying.

queenofswordsxxx · 2022-02-15T18:35:18+00:00

The age gap though 🤮

SupremeDearLeader · 2022-02-15T19:04:12+00:00

Truth Time ⏲

He still doesn't want her, he just hates that one of his break glass incase of emergency tools is now taken by the competition.

yoursultana · 2022-02-15T17:01:17+00:00

Another example of a male letting the one he “loves” get away. What do you bet he’ll pedestal her now and none of his future partners will be able to live up to the “one who got away.” Man…seeing the way men really are has been a real eye opener for me. I can never go back now

throwaway-fds · 2022-02-15T17:40:34+00:00

Scrote grooms 18 year old at 26 and then cries because his walking fleshlight found someone else? I feel bad for the young woman, I hope she realizes what a predator he is. I'm very happy she found someone, hopefully around her age.

Davina33 · 2022-02-15T18:18:18+00:00

The scrote misses his fuck puppet! He doesn't want her but doesn't want anyone else to have her, it's a tale as old as time.

dating-adventures · 2022-02-15T18:47:07+00:00

It always works like this, doesn’t it

Dumper or dumped, men regret it after they make their rounds on the dating apps

aclick1999 · 2022-02-15T19:42:13+00:00

In the year or so I was engaged I had 3 exes directly reach out (no clue how they found out) to COMPLAIN. How it was unfair for them but they 'hoped I'd be happy'. WTF. I couldn't even figure out contextually who they were - not saved contacts obvs.

My then finance and I also ran into one of my more serious exes at a bar too. He was very nice, congratulatory, and then sent me what I can only assume was a drunken soliloquy on LINKEDIN!

Got him and his self owned business removed from the platform.

dating-adventures · 2022-02-15T17:57:09+00:00

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seashellsupplier · 2022-02-15T19:34:40+00:00

I could not imagine dating someone who is 18 years at old at 26. I remember being 23 at a freshman party and thinking of the people there as children and needing my protection, and that feeling has only gotten stronger with age. Men who date women so much younger than them are disgusting.

Thestral-glow6 · 2022-02-15T20:12:51+00:00

I’ve just checked the comment section again, and he’s so whiny and throwing himself a pity party in every response.. Thankfully people are calling him out on his bullshit.

KetoKittenAround · 2022-02-15T16:54:02+00:00

🤡 🤡 🤡

I swear women always win.

she'll get a good laugh out of it if he texts

enticedflowers · 2022-02-15T16:53:23+00:00

She wanted something serious however he preferred to sleep around so he rejected her, but when she finds someone better NOW he’s heartbroken? Sounds like a bruised ego ngl he had his chance despite his hopes she didn’t run back to him, and the cherry on top is that he didn’t have enough self awareness to realise how much of a clown he’d sound like making that post 🤡

yoursultana · 2022-02-15T17:06:17+00:00

Another 'the one who got away' sobbing story here. And scrotes always wonder why they can't be happy and have anything good in life. It must be because of feminism.😤

AnniaT · 2022-02-15T20:18:54+00:00

As if she's going to dump her fiancé who actually wants to be with her for a man that in 5 years never wanted to commit. And what is he expecting? That him saying feelings for her, yet still no guarantees of commitment will weight more than her engagement with someone who actually wants to be with her? The delusion.

Winesday_addams · 2022-02-15T19:42:54+00:00

He absolutely will not marry her. He will keep stringing her along if she dumps her fiance for him

Donttellmehow2feel · 2022-02-15T21:00:48+00:00

He has the audacity in the comments to claim that maybe she's marrying the other guy just because she couldn't have him and "he might be her only option" (she's a 23 year old girl and I bet he's balding) The AUDACITY! I was going to go with another immature selfish LVM, but he revealed himself as a total scrote.

frostedgemstone · 2022-02-15T22:12:55+00:00

The way scrotes are always contradicting themselves. I thought only women under 25 are ‘suitable’ enough to be considered to marry or be serious with but then you have so many of them treating young women as nothing more than a hookup solely bc of their age

xfelugirlx · 2022-02-15T20:08:13+00:00

Now that other person wants the thing i want it back, men in a nutshell

Specific-Composer300 · 2022-02-15T21:07:16+00:00

Age gap, what a suprise.

Thereismorethanthis · 2022-02-15T20:17:12+00:00

I hope he does so she can laugh in his face

aquietsword · 2022-02-15T20:50:05+00:00

This scrote is really thinking through being a homewrecking piece of shit? Wow.

seraphinelysion · 2022-02-16T01:18:09+00:00

He didn't want her when she was available.

He only wants her when she's no longer available.

He doesn't love her. He loves the access he used to have with her, and now that's being taken away from him.

Anyone else notice the language he used?

Someone else has her heart

I want to tell her how I feel about her just in case her feelings for me are still there

Sounds like he took a hit to his ego and trying to get an ego boost by seeing if she still wants him.

karabnp · 2022-02-15T23:08:32+00:00

I put money on the other lady that he was interested in, turning him down or she rightfully dumped his ass, and he’s NOW miffed he lost his “best backup/insurance plan”.🙄

capresesalad1985 · 2022-02-16T00:57:51+00:00

He was counting on her always being back up and now that she’s not his ego is hurt.

Absolutely f*ck this guy if he goes and says something to her. Utter selfishness.

Mimosa_usagi · 2022-02-16T01:34:22+00:00

I'm so happy that the people in that comment section were decent enough to tell him to fuck off.

capresesalad1985 · 2022-02-16T01:00:29+00:00

Also anyone wanna talk about the fact that she was 18 and he was 26 when they started hooking up?

2022-02-15T23:23:26+00:00

Run, girl, run!

2022-02-16T00:33:27+00:00

Yes. He is selfish. Incredibly so.

OvarianSynthesizer · 2022-02-16T05:01:23+00:00

I just realized that the age gap is the same as that of my (long ago divorced) parents and now I’m a bit uncomfortable.

More proof my biological father is a NVM.

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-02-16T17:20:59+00:00

"Sex with her had always been amazing...not for HER I think, but I had a great time"

Eugh...this d00d. She was practically a CHILD when he got together with her. I wouldn't be surprised if she's with someone closer to her age...good for her!

I hope she has a chance to heal from what I think was a horrible/disappointing experience.

Title	The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯
Author	Thestral-glow6
Upvotes	1460
Comments	119
Date	February 15, 2022 4:33 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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