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| 9 | This is a new low. The bf is a doctor and social media famous and yet she is buying him a house 🤡Ok so I checked some of her TikTok out. If this kind of bland pickme content appeals to that many people, the bar of entertainment quality and lifestyle choices people have must be so damn low. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 12:05 PM |
| 5 | This is a new low. The bf is a doctor and social media famous and yet she is buying him a house 🤡I’d like to check her tiktoks out, can you DM me the handle please? Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 11:52 PM |
| 312 | The red flags, the entitlement, the audacity 🤡🤯What did a 26 year old have in common with an 18 year old fresh out of high school (or still in high school? damn, that’d be even more disturbing), wide eyed about life and not knowing anything about sex… Man, just to think of how she was a clean and blank page before meeting this awful groomer. Of course sex with her was amazing because you were everything she knew at that time and she must’ve been pleasuring you to the best that she could. You shaped her first experiences and worldview too, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 05:12 PM |
| 11 | Journey into the oblivion! The angry scrotes in the comments are a nice touch 😂Actually the flying girl does put the “On a noble quest” caption herself on this reel on tiktok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 03:21 PM |
| 120 | Journey into the oblivion! The angry scrotes in the comments are a nice touch 😂I just laughed at a scrote’s face and watched him die inside today. Highly recommended hobby lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 02:27 PM |
| 389 | Journey into the oblivion! The angry scrotes in the comments are a nice touch 😂I will let you ladies in on a secret: you’ll never find the source because the audacity knows no bounds. They are coddled by the society to get away with the disrespect and callousness towards women since they were boys 🤡 They never get called out on that so when it’s your turn to deal with scrotes, you laugh at their faces and clear them out of your life the moment the audacity appears 😌👋🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Into the oblivion and never found the source of audacity 😂I will let you in on a secret: you’ll never find the source because the audacity knows no bounds. They are coddled by the society to get away with the disrespect and callousness towards women since they were boys. They never get called out on that so when it’s your turn to deal with scrotes, you laugh at their faces and clear them out of your life the moment the audacity appears 😌👋🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 01:46 PM |
| 16 | On the term 'old wives' tales' in the English language and its cultural relevanceIn Japanese, the word 主人(read: shujin, literal meaning: “main person” or “master”) refers to the husband. The word 奥さん (read: okusan, literal meaning: “person at the back”) refers to the wife. These words must have been formed a long time ago to indicate the role of each person in the marriage. No surprise, the social conditioning in Japan and many Asian countries nowadays is still rather traditional and much more blatantly patriarchal than the west. Quite interesting when you break the characte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 10:38 AM |
| 12 | I walked away when my needs weren't metThe thing is "someone better' aka the dream girl/ the magical unicorn does not exist. Give a scrote the most beautiful and well-put-together woman he can get his hands on and he will still think not enough and he can "do better". Do better with what, with your misogynistic attitude and your selfishness? Scrotes don't deserve good women to start with. There are a lot of cautionary tales on FDS how men treat their "dream girls". Never put the onus on yourself that you are not "good enough". Repeat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 02:27 PM |
| 298 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteWell this post is not on relationship subs so the commenters may have at least some common sense. What I fear is if the girl were 18 (barely legal), the narrative could very well be legitimized and steered towards “He has the RiGhT to be attracted to young women! If it’s not illegal then we shouldn’t judge” by other scrotes! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:55 PM |
| 733 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteThe good thing is the top comments are telling her to get a lawyer, call the police and get a divorce instead of making excuses for the scrote. It’s not your fault for your husband to behave this way. He chooses to engage in this immoral and illegal behavior. You only have the option of protecting yourself while removing him out of your life and making sure he faces consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 11:34 PM |
| 20 | We have to stop putting up with this shit 🤡So many scrotes with the audacity of sleeping with their exes while being in a new relationship. Disgusting as hell. This is why as an ex, you cut off all contact with your loser scrote when you break up 🙅🏻♀️✊🏼You cannot be high value yourself while you are still hanging onto the ghost of your lame ass ex. If you are a new girl, you break up with him right away. Also cut him off completely. Don’t be a pickme whether you are the old woman or the new woman in this triangular love. Break the cycle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 03:34 AM |
| 42 | “Most men are garbage.” What a jam! Does this queen follow FDS or what?✌🏼The lyrics work so well with her raspy voice! Queen is beautiful inside out. The FDS spirit I live for is here 👩🏽🦱 “Most men are garbage/ Don't understand what love is/ Girl, you better cut that player out/ Throw that man right into the trash” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 02:25 AM |
| 79 | Just another day in the mind of a LVM. Men shouldn’t be allowed to date, they’re evolving from walks to wanting to run errands on dates for their own benefitNot an okay behavior for an attractive guy, let alone ugly scrotes. Andrew is not only not hot, but also eager to spit out stupid words 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 12:52 PM |
| 10 | How quickly widowers move on from their wives shows that they don't see women as people, just bangmaidsThis is so painful to read. So disrespectful and worthy of every possible condemnation. I can only wish in a million lives that I’d never have to marry this kind of men and my children would never have this sort of fucked up father 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 08:22 AM |
| 391 | He just cannot meet your standards. You are not asking for too much. 💜Haven’t all women felt guilty because of this? From the dating phase, becoming exclusive, engagement to marriage, you always feel you’re too much over the entire romantic journey. Some examples can be, asking your man you’d want to see him at least once a week, asking him to find and book a restaurant for your date, to get something for you on his grocery run, to do the laundry, make a meal, mow the lawn or watch the kids. Do you feel like you have to browbeat him into doing it? Does he not do i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 04:46 AM |
| 37 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.I'm in my 20s so I belong to the "trendy young kids" generation out there and I still find words like "vibe" or "bruh" cringy as hell 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 02:07 PM |
| 28 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.I used to feel both intimidated and tempted at the same time by men's aggressive behavior to get sex at all costs. A lot of women must've also succumbed to pressure and given in. It's hard! Especially when the scrote looks physically attractive and you're cornered. But now I just think it's so pathetic and hilarious of them to try THAT hard to become manipulative to get laid. 🤣 I don't even find these LVMs attractive anymore, hence no desire to sleep with them. As a FDS sister once said, my vagi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:59 PM |
| 39 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.Exactly what I was thinking! Since when is having a normal conversation and confirming the logistics of the date considered some God-tier seduction magic? lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:52 PM |
| 27 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.Question, if we don't advocate giving out numbers to strangers to avoid being doxxed/ harrassed, nor giving out social media handles, what are some safe ways to communicate with new men we are getting to know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:49 PM |
| 81 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.We don't even have time to let them exploit our vulnerabilities! Because we laugh at their face at the idea of drink dates so fast haha May FDS continue to bless more women and cast the light on pickmeishas for forever to come. I used to be pickme too, and I'm so grateful to be here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 01:48 PM |
| 503 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.Ladies, you can easily dodge dumb and delusional LVMs like this with the following steps to counter his every single dick move. ✔️ No using dating apps — it’s a cesspool full of LVMs ✔️ No being impressed by a cookie-cutter line — thanks I like my vibes, no need for your validation lmao ✔️ No accepting drink dates — bring that dinner game here or screw off right now ✔️ No showing Instagram/Facebook stories to new men — better yet, not feeling the need to post stories at all, or using texting app… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 10:44 AM |
| 103 | So he’s too “busy” to date, but not too busy to use you for sex? 🤔She’s been letting this go on for 5 months! Should’ve vetted aggressively and cut it off in less than 5 weeks 🤧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:56 PM |
| 153 | So he’s too “busy” to date, but not too busy to use you for sex? 🤔YES! “You may not always have time for me but I love the idea you’re all mine” Nononono it’s almost 2022, time to quit romanticizing this bullshit treatment you’re getting sis 😭✨😭✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:54 PM |
| 625 | So he’s too “busy” to date, but not too busy to use you for sex? 🤔A reminder for all of us to GET OUT the moment he leaves you feeling confused (“I’m scared to get rejected”), let alone when he says he doesn’t want anything serious! Busyness is NEVER a legit excuse when he feels like he really can’t do without you. He just doesn’t want to! But don’t blame yourself for not being his “dream girl” either, he is very likely to half ass with every girl he meets. Get out before you get attached to someone who obviously treats you second-tier like this. 🙅🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:31 PM |
| 5 | My response when LVM try to triangulate with other women:Well I didn’t state the obvious — of course telling him to fuck off = quitting him 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 12:51 AM |
| 36 | My response when LVM try to triangulate with other women:Same way when a LVM compares you to an ex! You just laugh at their face and tell them “ok if she’s that amazing, go back to your ex then” Why can’t he return to his ex? It’s likely because she’s already fed up with his ass, or he chose to dump her for fresh new pickmes to manipulate. Whichever case it is, you tell the LVM to fuck off with his manic pixie dream girl triangulation and quit his bullshit with you ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 02:47 PM |
| 26 | Why do they keep normalizing this gross behaviour????Actually, if you read the article, that's his 12 yo daughter with the "younger woman". He's 73 and his wife is 40. But yes, it's still a huge age gap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:40 PM |
| 9 | Examples of green flags in my boyfriend’s fatherThis is a refreshing read! Wondering why he took on her family name, as well as the sons consequently? Genuine question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 09:35 AM |
| 19 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.Well, you can tell that this woman is in distress and she is not emotionally capable of sharing this trauma. It hasn’t been a year since she lost her previous boyfriend and she’s still grieving. In this case, the grief of losing someone who mattered a lot to you is not a done deal. Some days it might feel like you’re already OK again, some days your grief can resurface and cause you pain while you don’t even anticipate it. Therefore, it’s good practice not to share your personal trauma with a ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 04:10 PM |
| 79 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.Never share your trauma with a man. Especially THAT early! They don’t understand your feelings, they will make you feel so hurt because of their callous reaction, and they will use it against you and call you crazy now and in the future! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:16 PM |
| 22 | I experienced a switcheroo by a soft boy who ended up extorting my emotional investmentI did journal a lot and discuss with friends I trusted to keep the progress in check. But I just had only good signs to believe so I still took him more seriously than I should have. A less bad LVM than LVMs I've seen in the past, but still not the level I want yet. The overnight trips were expected if we got serious (maybe still too soon that we brought them up?). I didn't and wouldn't have gone overnight with him before exclusivity. Thank you for the reminder though! I do maintain that rule. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:28 PM |
| 64 | I experienced a switcheroo by a soft boy who ended up extorting my emotional investmentYes, that's why I think a FDS rule is to cut a LVM off the moment they don't treat us as a priority. No matter what the excuse is. "My career goals are very important. My community means a lot to me so I want to contribute to the people." So noble /s, but ultimately actually selfish 🤡 I don't recall any community expecting you to string a girl along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:15 PM |
| 66 | Taylor Swift’s “All Too Well”This feels so sad. When you are that young, you really believe in love and all the sweet doting behavior someone does for you. Then your dreams get shattered because it’s all fake. You feel like something was lost and you find it so hard to trust. I’m glad that Taylor seems to be much happier now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:45 AM |
| 111 | Taylor Swift’s “All Too Well”That's so disgusting! I'm so glad that you're no longer with him and his predatory behavior. "A bit old for his taste" sounds like she's literally just an aging piece of meat to him and about to be tossed away when passed the expiry date 😖 Ironically, currently Jake Gyllenhaal, 40 is dating Jeanne Cadieu, a 25yo French model. It's a pattern! These men will never change and just get grosser! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 10:49 AM |
| 3 | Don't waste your time giving emotional support to a man who hasn't proved he wants something serious with you.Thank you so much sis for this. I really needed to hear this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 01:34 AM |
| 4 | He (27M) revealed he was a virgin…Just messaged you OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 03:10 PM |
| 20 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditActually that’s a very good point you mentioned! Reddit would shade single moms so much for being on dating apps, yet saying that they can fuck around as much as they want (on OP’s thread). Where does this dissonance come from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:39 PM |
| 15 | I’d highly recommend literally laughing at a scrote’s face and seeing him die inside in person when you say no to first date sex. I deleted this dude after this text.Some context: He asked me out (not from a dating app. He sent me a social media friend request because we used to go to the same college). I thought to myself, well hopefully better than apps because we had something legit in common. We met for the first time in person. He asked for sex after dinner. I said no and laughed at his face. He texted me after I got home and I told him the above. Asked for sex then had the audacity to deny his intention of a hookup. Then he even negged me that I was “j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:15 PM |
| 160 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditI had to post to FDS the moment I finished reading this post. This is for me to purify my soul after seeing too much bs. 💆🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:01 PM |
| 25 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditYour comment is the epitome of “why waste time say lot word when few word do trick” 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:59 PM |
| 123 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditOne of his comments has -273 downvotes as the most downvotes. He says he hates to see single mothers being miserable like his wife once was so he felt like he should advise the girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:55 PM |
| 35 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditMy thought exactly. Wrong, wrong pool to go for 😩 He would be so welcome here as a FDS ally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:49 PM |
| 47 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditWait until you check out my comment on this thread as I quoted a blindsided pickme who wrote a whole essay to give ultra trash advice to OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:27 PM |
| 32 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditEspecially this pickme who really took her time writing this comment to diss OP. How low did you have to go with your self esteem, and how much mental gymnastics did you have to do to write this up? Very elaborate, very thoughtful comment that FDS will never understand! Because we are too stuck-up to understand the beauty of hookup culture /s 🤡 Sorry FDS sisters. Long scroll, yet this essay makes no fucking sense. Others have pointed this out, but I want to reiterate: you never experienced thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:25 PM |
| 286 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditThis is a textbook case of the HV behavior that FDS lives for, versus the screwed-up “her body her choice” libfem logic of scrotes and pickmes. I feel so bad for OP as he really doesn’t deserve to hear all of this hate. Back in my pickme days, I already knew that something didn’t sit well with this libfem logic. It all made so much sense when I learned about FDS: what these scrotes and pickmes advocate for never serves my best interests but only feeds into my misery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 01:58 PM |
| 2 | FDS is BACK!I missed FDS so much in the meantime! It’s the sole reason that my reddit existence revolves around 😭💜 I just pray for the long existence of the sub, as I always live in perennial fear of what if the sub would be wiped out or cracked down on one day. If I missed it so much for a short while, I’d be so void without FDS as a true safe space for women on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 03:56 PM |
| 28 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.The example is even more damaging than the definition itself 🤣👌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 06:20 AM |
| 6 | Level up advice: How do I become more cultured?While I agree with u/raphaellastorm that self-esteem is critical, I think your question of how to become more sophisticated and cultured is still unanswered. What if "being yourself" is actually the same thing as intrinsically wanting to become cultured and striving to be as such? To start off, I think your drive and self-awareness to improve yourself are truly laudable. Your sibling might've been a bit too harsh to go so far as calling you a duntz. You deserve much, much more credit than you th… | /r/askFDS | 04/08/21 03:34 PM |
| 100 | God the pickmes are REALLY TRYING to hand out p*ssy to their LVM friendsYour coworkers are either malicious or blatantly blind into fucking oblivion 😭🤣 your last sentence omg yes queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 03:41 PM |
| 28 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣I swear I got irrationally irritated by this dude and so jealous of these young ladies’ dream lives at the same time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:12 PM |
| 48 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣This applies to military men to a T as well! These dudes really think they are so desirable because of their fitness and their macho culture. What we can do as women is to shame this sort of fuckboy (read: loser) attitude. Also for the love of god, we gotta stop fawning over worthless men like this who think they are the shit. A waste for badass women to go after them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:08 PM |
| 93 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣From the article: “He spoke briefly in a phone interview on the condition his name not be used. “I really don’t want anything to do with them anymore,” he said of the three women. The women also asked his name not be published, saying it was not their goal to shame him publicly or harm his reputation. Rather, they said, they wanted the focus to be on their bond instead of his betrayal.” This guy is a fucking clown when he got busted 🤡 These women are much better than him to not give a second dam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:03 PM |
| 19 | Rejection is redirectionI’ve spent so many hours in the past pining for, crying about and questioning myself for guys who obviously didn’t like me but still strung me along. I wish I could hold my past self by the collar and shrug that pickme demon off of her lol It’s come to a point that the moment a guy isn’t romantically invested in me but wants to fuck around, I just don’t deal with it anymore. I’d think “lol a waste of my fucking time” and tell him to get lost and cut him off when he tries to propose a situationsh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 40 | Yes! Finally my taste for FDS content got picked up by Instagram algorithm 😂The good thing is I started to see this type of content more, the bad thing is the ratio of Pickme content to FDS content is still mostly 9:1 haha (sad cry) But I sooo do hope that women are getting to become sharper and wiser and realize their value so we won’t succumb to the suckassness of scrotes anymore! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 2 | FDS rules totally apply to all relationships and not just dating & What I learned from ending a friendship with an LVM friend.Yes I’m so disgusted and nauseous when I think about his behavior now. Not sure why I was even able to tolerate it even just for a few months of hanging out with him. I’m so glad I ditched him. So much love to you and everyone here! And kudos to you for realizing the ultimate LV behavior these creepy older guys tried to pull on you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 11:29 PM |
| 12 | FDS rules totally apply to all relationships and not just dating & What I learned from ending a friendship with an LVM friend.I think it's to keep doors open as he wishes. We started to know each other in freshman year, then I stopped hanging out with him also because of his excessive joking manner and pushy attitude, but it wasn't this NSFW. Fast forward 4 years later, this year, we ran into each other again at a college reunion event. He apologized for what happened and he wanted to hang out again. As we were both so young back then, I gave him a second chance to re-enter my life as a friend 🤡 Now he came to think he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | FDS rules totally apply to all relationships and not just dating & What I learned from ending a friendship with an LVM friend.We're both 23, and we were in the same graduation class at college! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:22 PM |
| 16 | FDS rules totally apply to all relationships and not just dating & What I learned from ending a friendship with an LVM friend.A more disgusting thing is he already has a gf and he saves her name like this on his phone "🤰 Rachel 🤰 " (fake name). She's not pregnant nor do they plan to marry anytime soon. This dude has no qualms pushing his fetish onto women around him, from his gf to me as a platonic female friend. When he showed me something on his phone's Safari, the Pornhub logo appears as one of his most visited sites, and all the history of pregnancy and armpit porn was visible. He didn't even bother deleting the hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:20 PM |
| 11 | Why age gap relationships ain’t no good 😀👎🏼Why did this genuine question (which I also have) make me laugh harder than I should 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:01 PM |
| 29 | What are some ways LVM will try to manipulate you into having sex with them? How do I combat these advances, especially when I receive pushback?I’m most prone to falling for this as I like to have beautiful daydreams in my head but the reality is the LV guy cannot live up to what he promises | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 09:22 AM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Check-inI went on a first date with a guy last weekend. He was smart and really funny to talk to, but sometimes I felt like he was negging and low key dissing me. I told him how I hope to see fewer snarky comments from him then he didn’t text me back for a day. So I texted him today and immediately cringed 😬 he’s been online but he hasn’t responded Damn that’s embarrassing to text first and wait on male attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-In 17 May 2021If there's any mod who can answer why my post was removed? Thanks! https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/nedu5i/why\_are\_relationshipseeking\_attractive\_men\_on\_old/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:03 PM |
| 20 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several DatesHow can a woman use no birth control and no condoms whatsoever with randoms? Like how can they do that with peace of mind? 😳The risks of STIs and pregnancy are so high that I just cannot fathom even in my worst pickme days | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 12:40 AM |
| 22 | Why are relationship-seeking attractive men on OLD single? What’s the catch?Reading all the comments from this post I’m getting depressed 😂 the bar must be on the ground with the men around me that I got excited if a guy has a fit body and a good job lol Thanks everyone for a good wake up call. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:37 PM |
| 14 | Why are relationship-seeking attractive men on OLD single? What’s the catch?Or when he claims to want a relationship but his photos are of him and one attractive girl, or him and his friends in an aggressive party bro style I want to believe in the existence of HVMs that are actually as great on paper. Going on OLD with ~seemingly great guys~ is like sucking a lollipop with hidden poison ☹️🍭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:28 PM |
| 59 | Why are relationship-seeking attractive men on OLD single? What’s the catch?Okay now that sounds really accurate. I can relate to it better now. It’s also been my experience with so-called white collar city fuckboys in a big city outside of the US. The same scheme of dinner at a very beautiful restaurant, a crisp and well-dressed guy wearing nice cologne, gorgeous evening walks and city lights, a high end apartment conveniently not too far away. Things still always end with me being gaslit into feeling so guilty, because I’m “prudish like one of those Catholic girls” (I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:08 PM |
| 69 | Why are relationship-seeking attractive men on OLD single? What’s the catch?Damn have they all figured out that claiming to want a relationship is actually a faster way to get hookups? Like not just one or two guys but so many guys using the same tactic! That sounds like some elaborate effort to lead women on. I don’t feel safe on OLD anymore with all those lies 🥶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:32 PM |
| 24 | Why are relationship-seeking attractive men on OLD single? What’s the catch?Why would putting “relationship” make more girls interested in a guy? One guy from DC once told me “this area is a center for new graduates and young people and a lot of girls are after attention / validation or something casual”. Not sure if what he said is true. If the scene resembles anything like he said, won’t that be what LVMs want - casual sex, hence no need to lie about wanting a relationship? ETA: Not sure why I’m getting downvoted. I’m just asking genuine questions. 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Brilliant QuestionOh what do you think? That he’ll be honest with his answer? 😂Those LVMs will smoothly lie to your face with no scruples. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:56 AM |
| 46 | STOP normalizing polyamory while we still live in a patriarchy. Tired of these “wax poetical” think pieces about the obvious.😴🤮I wanted relationships and I was gamed by these men plenty of times and it’s still taking me time to shrug off the bad memories 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 12:02 AM |
| 37 | STOP normalizing polyamory while we still live in a patriarchy. Tired of these “wax poetical” think pieces about the obvious.😴🤮A guy I met on a dating app once told me how he found polyamory “ridiculous”. Meanwhile he was cheating on his girlfriend by consistently talking to me online (I wrote a recent post about this guy). What a hypocrite. I told the gf, and apparently she still didn’t break up with him. If he had the opportunity I can imagine he’d try pulling that poly shit off by leading other girls on while gaslighting the main girl to oblivion to accept “This is normal! Don’t be so sensitive” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:59 PM |
| 61 | STOP normalizing polyamory while we still live in a patriarchy. Tired of these “wax poetical” think pieces about the obvious.😴🤮“My mind could rationalize polyamory, but my heart rebelled” oh yes sis of course your poor confused heart is trying its best to catch up with the clown level mental gymnastics your mind is trying to pull off 😭🤡 How much have you been gaslit and negged to this ultra low of the low? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:54 PM |
| 21 | A Totally Innocent Not At All Sexual in Any Way Papaya Eating Contest at 5:105:27 omgggg his tongue and him commenting “My strategy is to be delicate” 😛🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 5 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.But in the case he thought he was attractive enough to one up her by getting girls online, would he really put up with her “plain looks” just for sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 4 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.Well I already got suspicious but I couldn’t find a way to discover his real name. But he made a stupid slip one time about a business conference he attended, which I talked about in another comment. Then I figured the rest of his cheating out lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:31 PM |
| 17 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.What do these scrotes who are taken/married get out of flirting online which goes nowhere? 😕 genuine question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:27 PM |
| 11 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.I was thinking of all the mental gymnastics and his gaslighting her to oblivion and claiming innocence because “we were just texting and calling online! I didn’t do anything” I don’t want to make judgements on people when I don’t know them well. But on paper, from what I can gather online he appears to be out of her league and outshine her in everything in terms of looks, career, achievements, popularity. She’s also the one behind the scenes and taking a bunch of cool-looking photos for him when… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:18 PM |
| 21 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.I get carried away easily by the dreams of an exciting story where I meet someone brand new and things look upward... From experience when things look too good to be true, they aren't real. I'm trying to quit the apps and not get into the addictive cycle of getting my hopes up after every dose of male attention, and I want to learn how to level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 31 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.Yeah but I still felt so annoyed lol. Pickmes are what fuel scrotes to keep existing. But it's ok, I've moved on. My job is to get off the apps and live my life, not to run around policing scrotes and snitching to their girlfriends... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:11 PM |
| 36 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.I also discovered the scrote's real name in a stupid way. He told me about this virtual business conference where he'd be a speaker, which was real. During one of our calls, I looked up the speaker list and said "strange, I don't see your name here". He abruptly ended the call and then embarrassedly admitted to me via text later that he was using a fake name all along. He said he was just "testing the waters" on the app and "not so sure" who he'd meet in my city hence no need to use the real nam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:04 PM |
| 57 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.She knew it now but it seems highly likely from the way she talked, she won't break up with him. But at least I did something morally right by telling her right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:57 PM |
| 55 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.Why do you have to make me and my PickMe naivety feel called out like this 😭🤡 lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:51 PM |
| 26 | I discovered I was an online side chick. Told the girlfriend, got a half-assed sorry text from the scrote, blocked him in no time.Men on dating apps in my city suck so much that he seemed like such a breeze. A very premium™ guy, attractive, smart, interesting. Not your garden-variety LVM! /s Everyone, please use my story as a tale of caution. I’m just here, lamenting for moments when I briefly turned back to be a pickme and wasted my time. Even more embarrassingly, for an online scrote I'd never met. 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 12:35 PM |
| 17 | 🚩 RED FLAG ❗️🚩 making you live up to the “cool girl” personaI made a recent comment on another FDS thread that I read a red pill post for educational purposes to understand the tactics precisely to avoid them. But the tactics were so evil that it made me shudder 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 10:10 AM |
| 114 | I don’t even know what to title this one... 🤡I made the mistake of reading this scrote's detailed comment on the thread, describing his "plates" in very degrading terms and taking pride in his so-called alpha male life and super meticulous tactics of using women. That fucking pickup artist content is so disrespectful that it's seriously NSFL (not safe for life) to read. This alone is traumatizing me 😖 I'm fearful for my own well-being if I happen to encounter and get used by a vile person like this in real life. Even if he lies everything … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 09:46 AM |
| 6 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!I thought the video was already painful to watch but the caption proved me wrong again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:03 AM |
| 187 | Liberal feminism has turned women into doormatskicking me out of our bed, making me sleep on the couch so his friend could sleep in it with him This is already sufficient to induce a resounding "what the fuck" from me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:34 PM |
| 5 | TimeThis is the mindset I live for when joining FDS! I have a genuine question. When men tell lies like this, what is the point of them doing so? What do they gain from going out of their way to flatter us and promise to do this and that but never follow up? Why do we see this as wasting our time, but these men don't see it as wasting their own time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Blocking and deleting gets easier the more you do it.Reading your testimony, I don't know if I should feel relieved that it wasn't because my taste was bad in particular; or if I should feel disheartened that LVMs are rampant from online to real life. From my experience, if you don't have mutual connections with a man i.e met him on a dating app, he can easily cut you off by ghosting or blocking with no social repercussions. I must be lucky for never having had my name ruined by men with mutual connections. Did they really do you that dirty?! 😧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 13 | Blocking and deleting gets easier the more you do it.Up to now, I've been questioning my taste in men because I met the majority of those I was dating via apps. Today I learned LV ghosting behavior isn't only limited to online dating. Different settings, same scrotes. Thanks for pointing it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:45 AM |
| 28 | Blocking and deleting gets easier the more you do it.Disappointing but not surprising. It's important to realize that he didn't ~magically~ ghost you out of nowhere -- he's always been faking interest and attention all along during isolation due to too much time on his hands. Then now with the vaccine being out he could hop back on his LVM behavior and drop you like nothing ever happened. In the past, I would feel pretty jealous to see a guy I was talking to just dropped me and pursued other girls when it was convenient for him. My pickme level wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:38 AM |
| 16 | My abusive ex sent me a cashiers check (via my mother) for 30,000 dollars. What do I do? (Besides cash it)Oh my god, this is horrific! You said in the title he was abusive, but I didn't expect that things happened to this extent. I'm so glad that you've got away from him. 😰 Did all of this happen a long time ago...? Are you at a much better place now? Please do your due diligence and consult with your attorney before you proceed with this cheque. I'm wishing you all safety and peace! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 49 | My abusive ex sent me a cashiers check (via my mother) for 30,000 dollars. What do I do? (Besides cash it)Way too flowery and verbose for an abusive manipulator who learns no remorse. This is it, we don't need to look any further -- the king of all manipulative tricks. This is beyond the paygrade of all the guys who have ever used their words to woo me and fool me in the past. I never fail to be amazed and repelled by the utter pretense men like this put on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 27 | Even men themselves laugh at the low bar of pickmeishas 😭🤡Thank you for the kind and assuring reminder that it wasn't my fault. I have been kinder to myself and abhorred by society at the same time once I realized the default socialization is so wrong yet so default. It takes a tremendous collective effort such as FDS to go against the current, revert the widely but falsely held disillusion, and discern the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 117 | Even men themselves laugh at the low bar of pickmeishas 😭🤡Ouch. The fact that men recognize the low standards, point that out and laugh just stings when we look at our pickme past. I definitely used to buy into the disillusion that the nicer I was to men and the less I took from them, they would be moved by it and appreciated me more for my sweetness and ~easygoing~ attitude. It certainly didn't work that way and it ended up nowhere with those guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:41 PM |
| 16 | Even men themselves laugh at the low bar of pickmeishas 😭🤡It’s honestly so sad. Nothing bad about being pretty at all. Yet it’s proof that prettiness (and all the male attention it entails) doesn’t save you from pickmeishaism, but self-awareness and self-respect do... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 36 | Even men themselves laugh at the low bar of pickmeishas 😭🤡Imagine having a bar so low that a man not asking for your nudes is “LITERALLY SO ATTRACTIVE” 😭 I really hope sis is being sarcastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:18 PM |
| 67 | Even men themselves laugh at the low bar of pickmeishas 😭🤡Snapchat is considered one of the most low-effort and sleazy texting apps. It automatically deletes your texts by default, and only allows you to view the snaps once, which makes it a notorious app for sexting and sending nudes. So in this case, a guy asking for your number is viewed as a more “traditional” way to ask for someone’s contact, which makes it seem a little “better” than if he straight-up asks for Snapchat i.e nudes. But yes like you said, a real phone number can give you worse conse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:11 PM |
| 16 | I ditched my fuckbuddy when she caught feelings because she's "drama", now I'm too sick to fuck other women. She's got a bf now, I want her back. Help, please :(“I’m too sick to fuck other women” I swear the first thing that came to my mind when I read was that he’s a sickening/disguting scrote for his shitty behavior. Then I read the post and realized he was physically sick - gave the post another new level of entitlement! Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Elon Musk PAID to have the interview of ex-wife number 1 REMOVED from the internet bc she described his abuse towards her!I'm thinking people only read the first line of your post and didn't read the rest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 11:44 AM |
| 29 | Don't live with a LVM or this is your reality.I’m really sorry you’re going through this. By FDS rules it’s a no-brainer that you should work towards leaving this toxic situation. Please don’t feel discouraged from being downvoted as we just don’t think it’s the FDS mindset that you’re currently in. It can be tough love and a tough pill to swallow right now but we’re concerned about you. I hope you will be able to get stronger, healthier, better and eventually leave him and your past behind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:17 PM |
| 17 | Don't live with a LVM or this is your reality.Didn’t I just give out a sigh of relief! A shitty vacuum cleaner was the perfect fit to a shitty man 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:10 PM |
| 6 | Elon Musk PAID to have the interview of ex-wife number 1 REMOVED from the internet bc she described his abuse towards her!There is certainly at least some sensible observation in your comment and I'm flabbergasted by the downvotes you're getting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:07 PM |
| 25 | Don't live with a LVM or this is your reality.Back in pickme days we would truly buy into it and think "yeah he makes sense, of course it's on me so obviously I gotta pay for it". Isn't it mind-blowing how we actually internalized and assumed it was our responsibility? Like I could totally see the conversation in the comic happen between a couple somewhere irl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 50 | Don't live with a LVM or this is your reality.If it's still your husband in the present tense... are you two doing ok? Asking out of genuine concern 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 02:59 PM |
| 23 | Don't live with a LVM or this is your reality.I would still carry my vacuum cleaner with me. Not only because of its worth, but also because I doubt he'd put it into use 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 16 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?Not an ex, just a hookup, but this Aussie guy tried dirty talk to me by saying "How does this Australian dick taste to you?" And then he also fetishized me by saying "You're such a hot [my nationality] babe". This wasn't the only Australian guy who took so much pride in his dick that I've ever encountered in bed... 😭 (I'm sorry Aussie ladies out there, I just don't understand.) No more hookups, stupid proud dicks, or pickme days! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:57 AM |
| 3 | What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wroteCan I get an invite to Ovarit too? Thank you! ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:31 PM |
| 25 | From HV to NV, a short story.This is abhorrent. I would’ve died on some of the first nights without pain killers. Wouldn’t have been able to fall asleep from the pain! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:29 PM |
| 172 | From HV to NV, a short story.It would be truly scary if she were married to him and lived in a city where she didn’t have family or friends around, and had to rely on him completely... I shuddered just to think of dire situations when you are vulnerable around someone who doesn’t bother to act in your best interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:23 PM |
| 51 | From HV to NV, a short story.I had a broken leg that just healed recently, and I understand the literal physical pain and the discouraged feeling that come with the temporary immobility. It’s really a time that you feel pretty (if not very) down and need the support and help of loved ones around you just to do simple everyday things. This guy truly failed to be the source of support for her. I would also dump him in a heartbeat if I were her when I figured he couldn’t be trusted in difficult times that I had to go through. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:17 PM |
| 2 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?Debunking male reasoning & Why casual sex is totally not worth it https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/lqauyq/debunking_male_reasoning_why_casual_sex_is/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 6 | Debunking male reasoning & Why casual sex is totally not worth itThank you for pointing out the blatant contradiction! I've added #7 and credited you! ✌️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:43 AM |
| 5 | Debunking male reasoning & Why casual sex is totally not worth itThanks for the amazing and thoroughly articulated #5! 🥰 I have added to the post and credited you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:37 AM |
| 6 | Debunking male reasoning & Why casual sex is totally not worth itIt’s because I’m in my early 20s and the guys I conversed with are also in their 20s. I just quoted their wording and tone verbatim. But I understand how in my post it might not sound as comprehensive as using “women”, as there are ladies of all ages in FDS. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 02:33 PM |
| 22 | Debunking male reasoning & Why casual sex is totally not worth itThank you so much! I'm so touched that my post speaks to you. I had to write it down to teach myself again every time a guy tries to pull this reasoning to prude-shame me and say I'm "not sex-positive enough". We've all wasted so much time on texting LVMs, explaining, crying, searching frantically online for an answer, pursuing dead-end situationships our entire lives by believing in these lines. I really wish I could take all of that time back...! There is so much to unlearn, and if my post hel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:41 AM |
| 5 | ENM & lvmYeah! I'm like, dude if lots of girls wanted to do it, you bring this lame deal up to them then. lol | /r/askFDS | 23/02/21 06:20 AM |
| 6 | ENM & lvmHim claiming and posing as being “honest (about what he wants)” might have lured you into even considering it. But it still irks me as it shows he isn’t afraid of possible ramifications of his suggestion to you. He isn’t afraid of losing you if you don’t agree to this. Worse off, he even pulled the rug under your feet for posing as if he’d wanted monogamy. Now he just shamelessly switched completely and gave his own words and actions to you in the past a slap in the face. I assume you want monog… | /r/askFDS | 22/02/21 11:52 PM |
| 61 | Saw this screenshot on facebook with the caption "When will women understand" and then, a lot of LVM tagging their gfs. Worst part? The girl in this post is a professional voice actor, really pretty, really positive and talented person in other ways :(Reminds me of a meme that says: it’s like doing the job of a prostitute but without the money compensation. Sis really takes it a step further by even paying for it 😭🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:43 AM |
| 26 | Saw this screenshot on facebook with the caption "When will women understand" and then, a lot of LVM tagging their gfs. Worst part? The girl in this post is a professional voice actor, really pretty, really positive and talented person in other ways :(Your last sentence hit the nail right on the head and the sad “lol” made me wail 😭 lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:36 AM |
| 15 | Oh really? Hmm.. you don’t say?I used to give men some leeway about height being genetic, and why did they always have to neg me "you're cute but have you ever been conscious of your small boobs?" 😐 Ok no more leeway unless you are at least 5ft10 get out. ETA: of course 5ft10 and above doesn't mean they'll stop negging in which case they will still have to get out, but you get what I'm saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Found close friend’s bf on tinder, lies presumeDo all of these men share the same humorous "friend" lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 11:48 AM |
| 5 | These are the men who want you to be honoured they let you be in their presence.No it was definitely not you. You were not foolish, you just got royally gaslit into thinking it was your problem. The psycho behavior in these guys is so sublime that they do not see the disrespect AT ALL. The only solution is to kick these guys to the curb and out of our lives. They are totally lost causes with absolutely no way to fix. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Vetting men while on a date: he should dress like he wants to be there and value you enough to be on time.Totally agree as a general rule! The effort has to be maintained for several months ladies 👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Vetting men while on a date: he should dress like he wants to be there and value you enough to be on time.I swooned so hard reading your description that I wanted to date someone like your boyfriend too 😍What an amazing start on a first date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 03:27 AM |
| 48 | These are the men who want you to be honoured they let you be in their presence.He refused to take down his ex’s “awww I love you” comments on old photos of them he posted on social media | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 05:34 PM |
| 152 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!Your roasting game is strong I almost choked as I was reading this comment while drinking🤣💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:13 AM |
| 73 | Dude said I needed to be “vetted” before he could buy me dinner because he’d “been used by women in the past”......For the record, I make ~6X his salary. Anyway, I’ve moved on, and now he’s back begging for sex. Love to see it!I would even block right after “I’m trying to see if you’re worth a dinner” 😭 OP was way too nice with such lengthy responses 🙅🏻♀️ no sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Diguising anger and frustration with humor...Can someone enlighten me on why this couple's account has many followers? Who is the audience? Who enjoys this kind of sad reality dubbed as "humor"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 04:14 AM |
| 9 | Absolutely heartbreaking. This needs to stop.The entitlement was subtle yet amazing. We were not even dating yet. I've got over my Pickme phase long ago so I could already react "excuse you but what the fuck?". I stopped seeing him super fast. My 1-month long romance died just like that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:52 AM |
| 88 | Absolutely heartbreaking. This needs to stop.Not an ex but someone I was only in the seeing phase. He scoffed at me for looking up the Rotten Tomatoes score before I picked a movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:07 AM |
| 4 | I still feel humiliated as if I was a joke from LVM behaviorI know how he treated me in conversations was unacceptable, but I miss all the warm cuddles in bed and the lovey-dovey hand-holding so much 😭 I wish the physical touch had come with real emotional intentions... I feel like I could've fallen into a crappy relationship just because I miss the "in love" feeling from these physical actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:05 AM |
| 4 | I still feel humiliated as if I was a joke from LVM behavior"I definitely don't mind dating someone living a few hours away like you and I can certainly keep my job to be here [followed by xyz things he'd do to make things work]. You seem like such a great girl." a few moments of no sex later... "My life is too unsteady now, I have to prioritize my job, and you don't seem long-term material to me". Erm, guess who just gave himself a slap in the face for the blatant contradiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 12:56 AM |
| 4 | I still feel humiliated as if I was a joke from LVM behaviorI think he was already annoyed with me having a backbone and opinions. But he might've thought he could tolerate me for the meantime with the hope of getting some sex. I have to admit, I had to resist myself too because he was attractive and we were already making out. I told him I thought he was really cute, it's not that I rejected him, but I'd be ready down the line. After a few times of me (gently) turning down his suggestion for sex, and the sexual tension got too much for him, he showed hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 12:52 AM |
| 2 | I still feel humiliated as if I was a joke from LVM behaviorI like reading and watching thought-provoking books and movies. I told him I usually go for movies with a high rating because they tend to be quality movies. Also, I think that books are also written in different tones and complexity of lexicon and ideas. Some books are easily digestible to be read on the subway or at the beach, while some require you to sit down and concentrate, even to reread sometimes (which I tend to read more). I made it clear that it's only my preference for complex works.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 12:43 AM |
| 16 | Reminder: You are allowed to reject a man for any reason you chooseReading your comment literally gave me chills. I was scared. I have a soft spot for men with education and careers like this too and this brought me lots of trouble for overlooking their personality and behavior in the past. Men like these could seem glistening and perfect from the first few interactions. But there's just something so sinister about them that makes you physically feel unwell. I'm so sorry you experienced this, I also just went through something similar in my last post, but I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:13 AM |
| 62 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe Left"Up for some fun and adventures 😏" No Jimmy, going over to have sex on your couch over some cheap beer is not an ~adventure~ and I'm not your ~cool girl~. I genuinely want wholesome fun activities and literal outdoors adventures but why do these terms always must mean casual sex on OLD :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 07:29 AM |
| 23 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftSmug smile in this emoji form "😏" is no good either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:49 AM |
| 64 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe LeftBonus points if he has a bathroom selfie with a toilet visible in the background 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:47 AM |
| 3 | The world we live in has sadly turned into this. In FDS we don't give up on love. But we don't tolerate porn and cheap sex.I don't blame those women for existing. I hate the blatantly accessible presence they have on a public platform. It shows how soft porn on social media is normalized and prevalent in plain sight. Interesting to see how you are also contributing to victim-blaming me here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 11 | The world we live in has sadly turned into this. In FDS we don't give up on love. But we don't tolerate porn and cheap sex.I did quantify initially, sure, but I’m not necessarily obliged to quantify to you personally. How about this, I don’t have the obligation to justify my quantification to you. Let me repeat that it’s only my personal stance. I said “I hated Instagram soft porn more” and didn’t say “we should all hate Instagram soft porn more and disregard all the issues with hardcore porn”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:22 PM |
| 38 | The world we live in has sadly turned into this. In FDS we don't give up on love. But we don't tolerate porn and cheap sex.First off, I hate both hardcore porn and instagram soft porn. I’m aware of all the porn issues you mentioned and I’m in no way pro porn. I don’t have the obligation to quantify my hate to you. If I said I hate instagram soft porn “just as much”, would you be satisfied or would you still say “no you have to hate hardcore porn more”? Second, I know for myself that the issue with Instagram soft porn has done more damage on my personal relationships than with hardcore porn. It’s not “marginal effect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:58 PM |
| 90 | The world we live in has sadly turned into this. In FDS we don't give up on love. But we don't tolerate porn and cheap sex.You know what I hate more? Lewd and almost naked Instagram models. What’s worse? This soft porn cancer is accessible on a daily feed right in plain sight on a public platform. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:36 PM |
| 58 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Resist resist resist the urge to respond!!! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:22 PM |
| 47 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Yes so much yes. If it worked well ones wouldn’t have broken up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:22 PM |
| 99 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Keep up the streak past New Year’s Eve as well and turn it into a no-go in 2021 ladies! Stay strong and don’t compromise 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:17 PM |
| 6 | LVM are very sneaky- be awareOmg reading this alone is so painful 😩😩😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Point the judgment in the right direction please....They shame us for having consensual sex (a nymphomaniac), for having non-consensual sex (a cry baby playing victim), for not having sex with them (a picky bitch who doesn't want to sleep with average Joe), and for not having sex with anyone at all (a prude). WTF Ladies, no matter what you do, you will be slut-shamed, victim-shamed, or prude-shamed. So ditch these LVM and what they say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:29 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Aw thank you for reading my comment in the sea of comments here and encouraging me!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 11:21 AM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020I just sent a text to a recent ex who's waiting for his flight back home "I was wondering if you could make it this weekend despite the slim odds". It was a breakup purely due to circumstances with residual feelings so we aren't going NC, but I felt like my text was so pickme the moment right after I sent it. It showed how much I wanted to set my own birthday weekend plans aside to see him. Well the text itself was no harm as we wouldn't see each other again in the near future, but still, I crin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:13 AM |
| 6 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesthe real life pro tip omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Behind the song of Ashe, the songwriter-singer: “I wrote it to dismantle the marriage I was in and with hopes of dismantling other people’s toxic relationships. There’s such a better life on the other side, that unhealthy shit is not how it’s supposed to go.”Thank you 😢❤️that’s very kind and supportive of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 03:26 PM |
| 7 | Behind the song of Ashe, the songwriter-singer: “I wrote it to dismantle the marriage I was in and with hopes of dismantling other people’s toxic relationships. There’s such a better life on the other side, that unhealthy shit is not how it’s supposed to go.”Different situation but I’ve been listening to her Moral of the Story on repeat to come to terms with an amicable breakup I had 2 days ago. I’m still very sad. 😭 He was no LVM at all, just circumstances weren’t right. Ashe’s voice is indeed so soothing to let me fully grieve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:41 PM |
| 7 | Behind the song of Ashe, the songwriter-singer: “I wrote it to dismantle the marriage I was in and with hopes of dismantling other people’s toxic relationships. There’s such a better life on the other side, that unhealthy shit is not how it’s supposed to go.”I’m glad it helps 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 07:37 AM |
| 25 | Props to this girl !I’m right about her age so your comment made me feel so empowered! I started to realize these bullshit signs very clearly since joining FDS. I feel so satisfied reading her post and I’m so glad there’s so much hope for me and girls my age. 💪🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 6 | How do you stop feelings from developing?I screenshot your comment and literally check back on it a couple of times a day. It works wonders and keeps my mind in perfect check. Really helps rewire my brain and build a habit of staying calm and productive in early dating days. Honestly thank you so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:47 PM |
| 72 | And you can customize the skin color. 😉There’s just something delightfully wicked about this emoji I love it 😩🤏🏼❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:24 PM |
| 10 | Full of FDS lyrics: "I'm not asking for too much I'm asking the wrong motherfucker. Just 'cause we're in love Doesn't mean that we're right for each other... I stay alone, protect my energies"Honestly I love how most of her songs are aesthetic but not pickme! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:45 AM |
| 36 | The 🎇a u d a c i t y🎇Makes it so much more sarcastic, roasts the LVM right 😂❤️ The "hyave" and "hyade" really got me too haha. Wondering what accent that is? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:12 AM |
| 70 | Dude is embarrassed because his wife carried his child 🙄What’s the meaning of that engagement anyways when marriage isn’t on the table | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 11:11 PM |
| 208 | Never let anyone tell you how much you worth!!Women are not pairs of shoes. Having sex with men doesn't mean those men "owned" me. There's always an inelastic demand for women among straight men. You are not willing to pay as you can't afford it, but my value doesn't decrease and others are still willing to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:18 AM |
| 83 | This ain't prose..it's a cry for help.. Don't write that book sis.This is self-sabotage 😟🥀not even aesthetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Super grateful for learning how not to beg from FDS. He kissed me Sunday and told me he chose another girl over me on Thursday. Bye.Thanks but no thanks on becoming a cuckqueen. Why be the back-up yourself when you can pick another guy to be your main date 😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Super grateful for learning how not to beg from FDS. He kissed me Sunday and told me he chose another girl over me on Thursday. Bye.I wrote in another comment that last Sunday was our first date. Now he claimed there’s another girl AFTER we’d decided on the date and location for our second date (supposedly this Saturday). He was flirting hardcore with me, which couldn’t have been earnest in retrospect. So it’s malicious to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:54 AM |
| 4 | Super grateful for learning how not to beg from FDS. He kissed me Sunday and told me he chose another girl over me on Thursday. Bye.Damn I didn’t realize this likely possibility! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:11 AM |
| 8 | Super grateful for learning how not to beg from FDS. He kissed me Sunday and told me he chose another girl over me on Thursday. Bye.Stunned at how he could turn his back on me so fast after a great first date last Sunday. And he kissed me first. If there’s actually another girl, he must’ve gone on more than 1 date with her and already knew he’d pick her when he met me. Yikes. I almost gave in to his “let’s be friends” offer out of loneliness just to have someone to go out with. But gosh so glad I shut it down as I realized “FDS sisters wouldn’t agree to this shit”. Your comment really reinforced it! 🙏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:10 AM |
| 9 | Super grateful for learning how not to beg from FDS. He kissed me Sunday and told me he chose another girl over me on Thursday. Bye.I know right... The audacity to write the whole paragraph to try to comfort me after friend zoning me. I needed it so much for my little ego 😍 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 08:59 AM |
| 36 | What is the worst suggestion for a date you have ever had?This line is too charming and risky *fanning myself* can't turn down /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 09:29 AM |
| 1 | No career no personality no respect for women no decent pics only sad dickAmazing how you dissected this, big kudos to you! Helped me understand the ulterior motive of these men even more clearly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:34 PM |
| 8 | Reality checkI feel you. But even if scrotes don't read this, I think this post is an excellent reminder for us women on what behavior we won't tolerate. We just don't care about the lame-o scrotes anymore. We just ditch them. 👌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:49 AM |
| 2 | "Let them slide once, and they'll start figure skating"My queen, reading your comment about the flips is hilarious 🤣 so worth paying for my Internet bills lolol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:34 PM |
| 56 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?This post is really pure gold. I was very impressionable and super obsessed with this kind of guys in my college years, who made me feel extremely insecure about all of their “success” and “merits”. I was always chasing them for their flashy jobs and alma mater and beautiful apartments while feeling shitty about myself as they wouldn’t choose me to date but boast about sleeping around with girls instead. Now I realized how emotionally unattached and pathetic they are to the core. This write up i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 12 | It’s worse than I could ever imagine out there with dating men. Have a look at this depressing thread. Women of all ages just giving up on the prospect of dating / settling down, and who could blame them?I’m wondering why they ban crossposting, if you can explain for me please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:45 PM |
| 15 | Trend on tiktok: 'Call "feminist" urgency numbers and ask for the man in charge'. In a pandemic where abuse skyrocketed.🦆ing LVM/NVM have NO LIFE AT ALL.What kind of a sick fuck it is to make prank calls on hotlines for domestic abuse victims like this. My blood boils. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:26 AM |
| 7 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"Yes, I also share the exact same question as you. I have never had a FWB, but I did have flings and hookups. I was always questioning myself what their ex girlfriends have that I don’t. Looks, intelligence, personality? I put the blame on myself constantly and it was really bad on my self-esteem. I learned later on that it wasn’t on me as I became more confident, but I still wonder how a guy determines which girl to put into the girlfriend category and which one in the casual category. Posts in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Guys remember, after quarantine girls are going to be extra hornyomg yes this, truer words haven't been said, I'm a girl and I want to smh | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 03:22 PM |
| 19 | Why you self sabotageThis is an amazing post I needed to read! Thank you for writing it up. :) Do you have concrete ideas on specific things to do to realize your own nature and "start thinking for yourself"? | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 01:15 AM |
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