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REMINDER 👑everythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 10:51 PM
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QUEEN SH*Teverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:38 PM
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QUEEN SH*Teverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:47 PM
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LEVEL UPeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:13 PM
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How-To High Valueeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:05 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 02:55 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 05:20 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 03:36 AM
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REMINDER 👑everythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:10 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:00 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 04:09 PM
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QUEEN SH*Teverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:14 PM
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DISCUSSIONeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 04:57 AM
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PODCAST DISCUSSIONeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:16 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!everythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 12:37 AM
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NAH, SISeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:53 PM
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REMINDER 👑everythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:48 AM
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LVM LOGICeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:28 AM
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everythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:08 AM
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NAH, SISeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 12:53 AM
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DISCUSSIONeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:37 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:30 PM
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LEVEL UPeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:16 PM
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DISCUSSIONeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:46 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:36 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:26 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:03 PM
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LEVEL UPeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:32 AM
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NAH, SISeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:51 PM
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SCROTES MADeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:18 AM
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LVM LOGICeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:26 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:29 PM
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PICKME CULTUREeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:13 PM
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NAH, SISeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:11 AM
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NAH, SISeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:16 PM
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NAH, SISeverythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:16 PM
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REMINDER 👑everythingandlove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:59 PM
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I'm restarting at University soon And I'm curious what your thoughts are. What cities are more close to newcomers? Would you have any advice for a woman in her 20s?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 08:21 PM
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Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 08:06 PM
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Umm, repost? Sheesh. Owen has a TON of posters it seems. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:20 PM
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It's like the only reason he wants her to be confident and strong about what she wants is so that he can "dominate" her aka rape her. It's really sad and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 04:56 AM
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He'll use their shittiness to excuse his own, and so the cycle of abuse continues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 02:37 PM
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Oh, 100%, it's definitely a spectrum of LV. I hope someone makes a post about that, or I might in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:09 PM
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I guess it's a little different but I feel like it's a similar premise, plus, he's literally putting the girl he likes in danger by being involved with her.idk. that seems unfair to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 01:53 PM
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I can't believe I forgot this LVM favorite 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/22 04:53 AM
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I didn't pick up on that at first, so sad and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:51 PM
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They really should 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 03:48 PM
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Exactly! The parents sound cool, too bad there son is a peice of crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 11:26 PM
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I was going to say this. God, I almost started sobbing while reading this. Nothing is beyond some men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 04:57 PM
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Smh, so true 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 01:35 AM
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This is why I run in the other direction from people who think that I need to "get drunk" to say I'm an adult.. it's an experience thing I guess? But yeah, no, I don't want to get raped, or even worse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 02:09 PM
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'Go be your own best friend because you wouldn't let your own best friend "settle down"' hit hard. THANK YOU. I think my real next step is to keep finding myself and stay away from my pickme "friends". Their happiness isn't mine and I have to stay true to what my heart really want: that is, to make my life an amazing, rich adventure FOR ME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 01:56 PM
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Yes, thank you!! Money > love ❤️ Don't stop vetting, ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:44 PM
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Same here! This post is really reassuring. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:08 PM
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Yes! Like gosh, you rejected her and now surprise suprise she decided that she deserves more and is engaged. Congrats to her!! If he had any value he wouldn't have been messing around with that age gap, let alone with someone who had no experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 08:05 PM
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What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:21 AM
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We are here for you always!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:32 PM
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I'm not sure how to edit my post, but I need to say this: you don't need a partner. If you are a hvw, then you already will probably be a better parent than most pickmes. Is that a bad comparison? I honestly don't think so. Any child would be so lucky to learn from you; I would've killed to have decent parents growing up, so please don't think that it's too late. Whether it's finding a sperm donor, adopting or any other option.. you should do what makes you happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 07:12 PM
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May I ask? What is the name of the sequel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:07 PM
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100%!! I love that about it, and I've watched several videos where people dive into whether ges imaging Iliza comes back or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:06 PM
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Crap, that girl needs a LOT of therapy. Poor op, that's horrible. shivers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:33 PM
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I hope so too. 🥰 Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:21 PM
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I understand that 100%, it's just that my mom's circumstance is a little different. It's a long story, but to recap: I have a disabled sister who she takes care of, my mom hasn't worked for 20+ years and my parents are not in any good financial position where a divorce would be profitable in a significant way. The more I think about, the more I see what you say is true. But even if she did wish to leave, my mom emotionally relies on a religion that primarily teaches that marriage is for life. Al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 06:06 PM
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❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:34 AM
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Best comment EVER 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:26 AM
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Ugh, that last one is so disgusting.. imagine doing anything with some obese, homeless scrote. God help me. So gross!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:57 PM
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Thank you for saying this! So disgusting imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:15 PM
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GET A LAWYER, NOW. Collect info, details, and whatever else. PLEASE OP, any of those men could be (probably are) predatory and could potentially wreck havoc on and caree/personal life. PLEASE, don't take this lightly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:14 PM
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Personally, I would collect info and get a lawyer involved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:01 PM
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I'm literally almost crying. THANK YOU 😊🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 09:44 PM
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I LOVE this so, so, so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:23 AM
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Holy crap, omg, this is crazy! What a sad, hilarious story. His ex-wife must be such an amazing woman, I would just cut him off entirely lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 01:06 AM
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"If you think about it in aggregate, men could probably be curing cancer and winning Candy Crush at the same time if we didn't spend so much time watching XXX videos. But best not to think about it." No, I am going to think about it. Men who watch porn, no matter what state in life they are, are disgusting, low value and a plague to anything good in this world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 05:07 PM
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For anyone who is interested, this is the full video: https://youtu.be/T_lh5fR4DMA I honestly think it is super fascinating. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:48 AM
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Oh God, I want to puke. 🤢 Lol, these guys tho, it's gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:31 PM
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Gosh, this brought such hope to me. Thank you for sharing ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 05:53 PM
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She has been a huge inspiration to me as well. ❤ This thread just reminded me of that dream. Who knows what's possible, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:19 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:56 AM
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They will try to "hook" you early on by being very open and invested in the relationship then slowly pull back, knowing that you have that initial interaction you will always believe them capable of. Another thing! SOB STORIES. If a man complains of how he's been treated by a woman now I just next him. Lol (this is also linked to the first thing I listed). Men who are in any way successful usually will not be extremely revealing of their attachment/emotions, at first and when they are it feels o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 08:23 AM
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The whole video should be entitled, "gross looking, desperate man makes queen laugh as she awes the world with her education, knowledge, standards and grace"... he would make a better jester than anything else, no? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:23 PM
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Hahaha, I so relate to this. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 08:03 PM
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Yes. That movie is so gross. Also, the extremely forgettable guy who likes her is constantly belittling her and sounds like a guy who'd watch degrading porn. The whole things is honestly a huge mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 12:17 PM
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Wow, that is disturbing. Stay safe out there, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 03:41 PM
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I honestly sort of feel the same. It's sad, but idk if it's worth getting upset over. I just feel gross seeing things like this get 500k likes and most everyone cheering this as so romantic. Ummmm, okay 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 11:06 AM
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Yep, it breaks my heart that she sees this and thinks it mean so much. You are the root of all my happiness sweetheart ❤️Can’t wait to make them a real one So sad:( Even some of the guys in the comments were saying how they were disappointed there wasn't a real ring in the video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 01:07 AM
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Ewwwww, don't make me puke. That "thing" standing next to the beautiful lady, hasn't changed since the 90s. I can't look at it 🤢🤢 He looks like the guy who would sell you crappy insurance. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:29 PM
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Most important, is that you're safe. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 01:24 PM
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I could not watch her for two minutes, and I'm not saying I'm perfect but people who use this kind of "humor" are trash. This is so disgusting... how can you degrade yourself this much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 02:08 PM
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This one always made me laugh.... because of how scarily true it is 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:22 PM
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😂😎 And then, we women can show people just how far we can take this world when shit men aren't involved. Honestly, lvms shouldn't be allowed to procreate.. lol, like jerking off to porn so much? You can do just that for the rest of your lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:18 PM
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I wouldn't be surprised if it's more than that! A wife and children maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:13 PM
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It's like saying he is just partly a piece of shit. 😂 Sorry for the language, but that was so satisfying to type. 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:04 PM
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Wow, that was such a read. ❤ She is amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:01 PM
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He should stay there lol, and take all of his adoring nvm fans with him. Lol, don't let the door hit you on the way out 😗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:00 PM
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I guess I forgot the "dirtbag" part for a second, but honestly, he sounds like he just is out for himself and everyone is expected to dance to his tune. Gross af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:58 PM
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His "reasons" are probably the same as any other abusive father's is: he wants to feel powerful by controlling those around him, and neglect is definitely a controlling behavior, even if it isn't an outright form of it. Elon Musk is such a spoiled baby lololol. That's not to say I don't have sympathy for losing a child, but it's obvious that all he is doing is reacting and not dealing with it and growing as a person. He's literally a billionaire, can he not afford therapy? What about time alone …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 09:15 PM
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He has SEVEN children?? Lol, what a nvm. Money definitely cannot buy much in his case 🤣 I hope women stay away from him, or if they do get near him lol, they take him to the cleaners. Super rich men are mostly all the same: nvms or lvms are liked because of their money. Lol, I just don't have the patience for these babies. Not even for just being a gross nvm, but for soo many other reasons: Elon Musk is an unethical, disgusting person who puts a new spin on the definition of an execrable peice o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:50 PM
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ItS a Scam!! Ummmm, no, lvm.. it's something caring, amazing, and satisfying, but you'll never have it because it starts with "caring", which is only something you've ever felt for yourself. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:37 PM
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He also sounds very, very angry and honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if he snaps someday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 12:46 PM
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Oh God, this is sad. And with a miscarriage too, I'm curious if she had the miscarraige after he told her? Stress can be really harmful and she might be going through much more than she let's on. Especially with the distance: can't he just be there for her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:52 AM
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Ummm...the audacity. This is a joke, right???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:57 AM
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I would add: ANY porn use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:33 PM
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Ewww, nope, I wouldn't wish the men I've had in my life on any woman. But hey lol, I'm not keeping him so have at it. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Enjoy!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:44 PM
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Hell yes!!!! #impotenceisgodswill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:42 PM
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It's honestly just Stockholm syndrome but without the literal captivity. Woman are made to attach themselves to figures that gives them only a shred of love, but when that is all they have it becomes everything. Even if the next person is so, so amazing, the abusive lvm they are with will make it seem like they're the best they can do by manipulation and Isolation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 01:38 PM
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Your post is really interesting, thank you for linking it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:24 PM
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Oh God, 100%, it's so bloody sad. The audacity is so sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:22 PM
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Omg, now I feel like I shouldn't go into psychology because as a therapist, I would not work well with lvm. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:43 PM
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The people in the comments are saying how awesome she is and that she's "wifey material", but you can just hear in his voice that he doesn't appreciate her. Makes me want to throw up: so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 01:37 PM
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Ewww, I had to stop reading that, "his" grammar is horrible. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:50 PM
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At least it'd be mine, right? Lol, this ad should read "be my live in for a few years, be dependent on me, then when I'm done with you, leave without a fuss". I wonder what happened to the first wife lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:46 PM
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Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:43 PM
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Must be tiny, or at least smaller than my 5'7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:43 PM
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God, this made me cry. Ladies, stay safe!! You all are literally saving lives, please don't forget that. I love you all: don't give up, queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 08:01 PM
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I couldn't listen to that lol.. nice recipe tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 01:18 PM
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Thank you! I'll check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:39 PM
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Thank you for your hard work, mods. Even for a couple of days, this sub will be missed. Love you all, queens!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:32 PM
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What book is this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:27 PM
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Ummmm, wow. Ffs, so gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 10:13 PM
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This is so scary. Be safe out there, ladies!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:17 PM
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God, this gave me such an adrenaline rash. Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 06:12 PM
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Or phrases like: "I'm not interested".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 07:42 PM
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Yes, I completely agree with your points, especially the second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:08 PM
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What about a divorced/widowed man with a young child? I know that it is most often a situation where any woman would be used for free childcare, etc. but if the man makes sure that the woman does not carry any burden with the child, can there be an exception?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 09:50 PM
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Exactly my thoughts, poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 04:55 PM
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God, yeah, I've thought about that too. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:43 AM
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Alright, here’s a good one! A longtime “friend” of mine once said that women are less analytical than men and the we are more easily controlled by emotions. Yeah, guess who I’m not talking to anymore?? 😂 He was lvm and there were other reasons too. I am a recovering pickme and having him in my life was a way to validate myself. RIP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:58 PM
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Any suggestions for where to go/what kind of taser to get?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:30 PM
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I just started carrying pepper spray and it makes me feel very safe. Even at the gym, I have a keychain with a small spray container on it and I love knowing that I can protect myself and creeps know it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 10:29 PM
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Oh God.... this is so scary. Do either of them understand what that does to a young child’s brain? The majority of gamers don’t make money from it... it’s literally an addiction. (From someone who played 8+ hrs a day at one point) This is disgusting and sad. Most games also subject kids to violence and misogyny. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 12:53 AM
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Omg, I never knew I needed this!! Thanks for the suggestion. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:41 AM
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Oh my God! How low is the bar when a woman invites a man over to have sex and get “slapped around a bit”? We have been abused so much as women, to the point where this is normal. I’m almost crying, poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:40 PM
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Okay, yes, thank you: I felt bad talking about how he looks, but has he actually been in a closet masturbating to bdsm porn since the 80s??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:14 PM
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So.. what he’s saying is that 2% - 36% of kink/bdsm porn is essentially rape? Makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 07:11 PM
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Wow! Do these men have no lives?? To be so concerned and bothered by some women who have standards, that takes another level of depravity. Why do they even care? They prove our every point, it’s hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 06:14 PM
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Me too! I just listened to a bit of one at the gym.. idk, it put me in an amazing mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 03:22 AM
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Thank you!! It sounds awesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:20 PM
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Y’all are pretty amazing. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:51 PM
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Thank you for the reassurance, they really mean a lot to me. Seriously... tbh I’m tearing up a little. ❤️❤️🥰❤️ I’m so happy for you, Queen! I hope you have all the happiness in the world. ❤️ God Bless you both!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:43 PM
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Are used to be subscribed to a few sex podcasts, but they make me sick now, thank you so much for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:34 PM
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This is so beautiful! sigh I am honestly a little at a loss for what to say. It’s amazing to know that openness and honesty can still be cherished in relationships. So many sighs, wtf. ❤️❤️ Sometimes I really want that togetherness, but if this sub has taught me anything, it’s that I’m far from being ready for that. The pickme in me used to worry about living my life and not “having someone”. I regret having that attitude, but more so, I’m happy that it’s changing now. ❤️ This and your other com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:21 PM
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Omg, yes! I wanted to say, I absolutely love the “guidance”! sigh The romantic in me loves “when we first met” stories.. I hope it’s not too inquisitive, but when did you know? Then I’ll stop lol, my apologies 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:43 PM
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It’s really sweet that you wanted your fiancé to pick out the ring. This post definitely gave me the feels. ❤️ #relationshipgoals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:27 PM
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I’m so sorry, this is terrifying to even read. I’m glad you got out safely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 06:11 PM
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Oh my gosh! So.. I just found my new favorite type of diamond. 🤩 You have amazing taste!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:22 PM
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That’s so wonderful! Imo the light blue is perfect 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:26 PM
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Congratulations! Your ring is so beautiful. ❤️ These kind of posts always give me hope that actually good men are out there. I’m very happy for you. :) Also, I love the photo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:57 PM
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I only could find “Dear Sugars”, is that it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:46 PM
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Omg, thank you! I will definitely check these out. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:43 PM
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Oh my God, this is scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:53 AM
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I guess I just worry about the small chance that it isn’t. Thank you so much though, I really needed the positivity. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 04:57 AM
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Beautiful. sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:04 AM
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Oh my God, this is so heartbreaking and disgusting. I honestly could cry.. such a betrayal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:48 PM
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I was wondering why his video had so many views, this is hilarious. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:16 PM
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I watched that a few times. 🥺 It just makes me feel wonderful seeing that and even though I might never have it, there are women out there that do and it really makes me have a little faith in humanity again. I’m not saying it won’t ever happen though, a girl can still dream. #goals I hope we all have that someday! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:07 PM
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I hate seeing posts like this and never knowing what happens, I almost cried when I read the update. Bravo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 05:20 AM
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Kit and Felicity were always my favorites! Samantha too ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:35 PM
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I’m a virgin, and yes it freaks me out. Especially because I can’t even experiment with most men without catching something! 🤢 I just really dislike the whole situation. The more I think about it, the more I dislike the idea of ever having sex with a “man”.it might be pleasurable but is it really worth the shit they put us all through? No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 04:15 PM
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Me too! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:50 AM
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defensive douchery is actually a thing. It’s sad and sort of crazy that vulnerability is this horrible thing to men. This is one of the reasons why most men are undateable: honesty and vulnerability.. with themselves and others. Be honest with yourself when you realize that porn is destroying your life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:42 AM
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Nope lol, l/nvm know we don’t want it but they don’t care. Men aren’t stupid (usually?), horrible yes, but not (always) stupid... but then, that’s what makes it worse, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 11:33 AM
3

💝 Thanks xo 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:46 PM
8

Ugh, so true. I sort of cringe when I think how much of one I used to be. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:30 PM
3

I understand that my comment was a out of place for the conversation. I am not an apologist for Catholicism, indeed I’m not really Catholic anymore. I understand there’s two sides to every coin and I have witnessed both firsthand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:30 PM
7

I’m so sorry. I was very fortunate to not have dealt with that kind of abuse. I honestly don’t debate that the clergy are protected class, but at the same time, I know that not all Priests are predatory. Indeed, it was having good Priests in my life growing up that really gave me some sense of what a man should be. It hurts though, because my father always put on a front for who he actually was around them even. One Priest that I especially remember was a professor of Philosophy who often played…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:39 PM
20

This honestly made me think of something that happened when I was probably 15 or 16. I was going to a short weekend camp at a Catholic retreat house. A place where I felt comfortable and safe. I remember this one man there, he was in his mid to late 30s, who I “got along with”, he was very attentive and a little too sweet. The reason I allowed him to borderline flirt with me was really because I’ve never had a father figure. It was disgusting. This particular retreat house allows people to be in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:25 AM
4

I’m learning French right now and would love the recommendations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:18 AM
33

Lol a dog is a good comparison. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 01:25 PM
8

My dad is in AA, whatever else, I respect his rule when he started that he could never date any females who were recovering. (it was actually my great uncle who made him promise not to tho and he was a Priest) 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:04 PM
5

Yep, exactly this. It is extremely rare to find a man under 40 who doesn’t game. I’m honestly not sure how I feel about the whole situation because I used to game and I know what it can do to you. (I refuse to even consider men with addictions of any kind and I think gaming is rarely anything other than an addiction) As a 21 yo, I look forward to being very single. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:10 PM
102

I was going to say this, OP seems like he has potential. Imo his brother is literal shit. (Language)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:49 AM
64

Don’t get me started with hair.. the hell is wrong with people actually?? Women cannot live without being objectified. I was raised Catholic, and it’s frightening, you can’t even be a nun without being objectified by nvms/lvms. Sometimes it feels hopeless, especially as a very ambitious woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:45 AM
1

Who is she? I’ve seen her in another video posted here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:48 PM
1

I didn’t think I’d listen to the whole thing, but I’m so happy I did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:33 PM
2

I’m starting to think the same thing. My family is not rich in anyway, so I always thought when I have a stable career I would pay for the majority of my wedding but what the heck, yeah: I am changing my mindset. Lol I actually told my sisters that it if I ever get married my husband will have to pay for the wedding and they looked at me like I’m crazy, I was joking at the time, but I’m not anymore. Love you FDS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:32 PM
11

So typical that a man leaves before the wedding. 🤢 God forbid he should commit when she obviously did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:17 AM
6

Reading this post made me feel so wonderful, you cannot imagine. I wish you all of the luck in the world! (Lol though you probably don’t need it) Prayers and love ❤️ Also, the wedding sounds like Heaven, congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:00 AM
16

I have a lot of past trauma that keeps me interested in bdsm even though I hate it. I just wanted to say that you for writing this, it made me cry tbh. I hope I can have that someday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:25 PM
58

I think it’s a problem with most men. It’s really disgusting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:27 PM
5

Omg I love this song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:25 PM
131

I’m starting to think the same way about a lot of men. Are they even capable of love? Especially some men who are well off and not perhaps the most handsome, etc. would they even care if it weren’t for their pride? It’s just sad imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:21 PM
12

Oh yuck... I was just heading there 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:55 PM
9

I can’t even read this, his writing is disgusting. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:54 PM
8

When I was younger, I freaking loved this movie… Recently though, as watching it with my mom and realized how horrible some of the relationships in it are. Just makes me sad now. 😕 Say this though… The older couple Who own the store are the sweetest ever… I love them! For anyone curious, this movie is called Moonstruck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:50 PM
14

God, 100% this.. it is so sad. I honestly wonder if there are any decent guys out there anymore. Porn is so horrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 04:56 PM
18

Yeah, nothing against op, but I’m freaking out right now. A mother taking a girl to a salon when her hair is “almost matted”.. God, there are so many things wrong with that. Please, please be aware of things like this. I’m not even joking at all, it doesn’t take too much to write down a name and call someone. I went through something like this as a kid.. you could be saving a life. Saying something is amazing and I thank you for doing that, but doing something is priceless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 04:36 PM
5

Wow 🤭 this is so beautiful, I have no way to put into words how tender this seems to me. What a wonderful expression of love!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:35 AM
16

This is so depressing! I feel so sad for her, it’s freaking heartbreaking. Like, your significant other should want to be with you and have children if that’s something you’re both interested in. This is just sad.. Plus, he looks 🤮 lol if this is real, I pray she doesn’t end up having a kind and being stuck with him as the father
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:20 AM
35

I’m so heartbroken for her, that must be terrible! Fucking dump his ass! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 02:04 AM
22

Wow. So powerful, so beautiful! It brings joy to my heart knowing that women are standing up to this evil. Stand up and stand strong! Let’s hold our society accountable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:54 AM
11

Congratulations, queen!!! The ring is so beautiful and the flowers are too. Even though I’m just one person: wishing you countless years of happiness and joy! Xo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:48 PM
2

Lord above, I was not ready to read that! 😝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 07:42 PM
190

Men would be like: “omg, it has a pretty face!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:49 PM
5

I want to message you but for me, there isn’t an option to on your profile? I so appreciate your offer xo And, I’m starting therapy soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:06 PM
4

I just don’t know where to start working through those internal problems.. I know what he did to me was wrong... my dad was really abusive to my mom and us kids when I was growing up, and I’m not sure if I haven’t normalize that in my head, so that there isn’t love without tearing someone apart. Where do I start with undoing what I grew up with??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:26 PM
0

That is true, and I hope no one ever gets hurt so badly, but I’m honestly still in love with him so... I don’t know, maybe it’s just me attaching to the only person who ever told me they believed in me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:15 PM
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He was 36 to my then 20 (21 now)..... he absolutely shattered my heart, and taunted me with my circumstances. He was a manipulative, abusive person who honestly was made for politics lol, and I wish him nothing but the best because I ACTUALLY am an empathetic person. Freaking narcissistic prick Yeah, so I don’t like men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:10 PM
119

Exactly this. I don’t care how much of a “nice guy” someone is, no person can hurt someone like that, walk away smiling, and not have something be horribly wrong with them. No joke.. I’m sick of making excuses for people who can destroy others, because they’re not “just going through something”. THEY WANTED TO HURT YOU... don’t make the mistake of giving someone every chance you can for them to be what YOU want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:34 AM
1

Thank you so much for this post.. my last experience with a guy was really my only experience, and he was really cruel and abusive. I needed this post so much xo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 12:11 AM
21

For some reason, a lot of the trash guys have pets?? True, and I honestly don’t get it. Maybe they do it to cover up how undesirable they are? Op, this cover is amazing… you’re so talented! I’m saving this, it’s just so much fun to look at.😍😍😍😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:25 PM
47

Oh, I love this!! And the music.. chef’s kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:38 PM
60

The choking part was really gross, like how do you rationalize that? It’s just that any man who agrees to that out right, you know that there’s likely more to the story. Also, don’t ask questions about sex so early. If height and age are so important, ask those questions first. Then ask about openness to kids next, etc.🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:40 PM
3

Thanks!! I hadn’t even realized it tbh.. xo take care ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:55 AM
145

Honestly, I’m starting to enjoy being with myself.. 😊 Hvm can find me if he dares lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:57 PM
3

Oh my goodness!! I had no idea she made a video about this.. I so love it! Thank you so, so much for sharing ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:52 PM
14

It’s about how our society is supposedly supporting effeminacy in men, and does not care for “authentic” masculinity anymore. (That is what I get from it, not my opinion) As far as the Vogue picture goes, I honestly don’t see the problem, and I think it makes conservatives look really stupid. Like, men have worn dresses before. Personally tho, I love seeing a handsome guy in a suit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:36 PM
6

Yes please!!! 🤩😍😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:47 PM
42

I totally advocate this, but if you’re in a situation where you don’t know you’ll get back up, be careful. In that crowd, she had a lot off witnesses.. but be aware of what kind of situation you’re retaliating in. Stay safe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:45 PM
19

flips hair in lvm’s face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:41 PM
20

I could correct this pathetic thing for grammar, and punctuation, but it’s not worth it because it’d still be trash. (Albight, with beautiful grammar!) 😂😂🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:26 AM
45

100% lesson learned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:12 PM
143

Yeah he didn’t even spell too correctly 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:11 PM
25

You know him too?? 😂 I always thought I was with a special asshole... I should’ve told him he’s normal af, ohh and disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:09 PM
3

This defines it perfectly, especially the second part! I’ve always been wrong about men; no matter how much they talk about being pursued, there’s just something in them that won’t allow it, and the truth is that they have to choose you themselves. Only the unattainable is worth it. It’s so hard though, because I have a part of myself that is so full of love, I just want to give it to someone, and at last I think I found that person: me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:13 PM
12

Oh gosh.. ew. Damn, that’s horrible. Honestly, I wouldn’t be so pissed except that this guy seemed like a pretty amazing person, and then he just goes off on a tangent about how he slept with all these women and his sex life was amazing when he was younger. I’m like... excuse me? So.. how am I (a virgin) supposed to take that?? NO THANK YOU, I’m not interested in being one of lord knows how many. Someone else can be the next notch in your pole, because I am not going to put myself through your i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:47 PM
6

Oh my gosh, thank you so much for this. I’m really an empath type too, and it hurts so, so much when you see so much beauty in someone that they just can’t see. But.. I can’t convince someone he’s worth loving.. And no matter how much I try to guilt myself into it, it’s not my job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:27 PM
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Yeah.. he was completely my type, it just didn’t sit well at all what he said about his sexual past. Wealthy too lol, but honestly, he turned out to be horribly jaded and cruel... no matter how much I fell in love with him, it wouldn’t have been enough.. I’m sooo happy that I never slept with him.. even still though, he hurt me so much. I think he broke my heart
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:26 PM
15

Oh my gosh, congratulations! The hard work you’ve put in is amazing.. that is honestly my dream. Queen, you are amazing. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ You’re going to do so well too! Good luck, yet tbh I don’t think you need it 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:43 PM
37

Exactly. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:26 PM
13

Emotionally jaded.. that one hurts a lot too. Lol and it’s hard not to want to change that 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:12 PM
64

“Sleeps around” is way, way more common than I thought.. and honestly, it’s sort of scary to me. This guy I liked mentioned that he had a LOT of experience, and that he’s slept with a few virgins too.. but he loves pleasing women sexually (🤢)... I’m over here being inexperienced af and thinking.. ohhh great, so I should be falling for this I guess? Hard freaking pass. One thing I’ve learned from fds is that men shouldn’t be praised for doing the bare minimum... also, to me, it just seems wrong t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:04 PM
18

Men are so disgusting imo 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:55 PM
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Oh, but they “love” that about you.. you’re so good with words... it’s funny though, they just aren’t. You’re so mature too, because you UNDERSTAND their ineptitude..you just keep pouring so much love onto them thinking it’ll change, and they just laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:53 PM
7

Yep, this is it exactly! No man is worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 02:44 PM
1

It was just strange to see with no context, I meant nothing personal. Cheers, and Happy Thanksgiving!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:19 PM
74

Standards are in hell 😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:07 PM
1

Okay... so, should women just have sex with anyone? Is that the mood now, that it doesn’t matter if he’s nowhere near our standards? NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:43 PM
3

I’m sorry ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:39 PM
19

I’m feel this too... I honestly cannot deal with men right now, and honestly, don’t know if I’ll ever be able to. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 02:20 PM
45

This is it exactly ❤️ I LOVE sea animals, and men don’t have any excuses to be animals, or to look like them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 12:30 AM
43

I know.. it just makes me sad, plus she probably didn’t even take any advice because he controls her... Abusive relationships are horrible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:31 PM
14

I think it might have been deleted 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:01 PM
6

Thank God I’m really starting to embrace this, it took forever to understand tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:49 PM
7

Yep, that’s what I was thinking when I read this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 05:14 PM
8

Make sure to make a post!!! 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 11:34 AM
7

Congratulations! I hope the delivery goes well, love <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 04:11 PM
9

This is so disgusting, and honestly just cruel. I keep imagining myself in that position.. it's so heartbreaking because this stuff happens all of the time. Stay safe, fellow college queens!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:58 PM
11

Oh my gosh, this is disgusting... and so sad too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:19 PM
17

Haha, yes please! 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:26 PM
12

Lol, how about rental?? That sounds more like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:22 PM
17

This group has honestly saved me 100%, and I really don’t know what I’d do without it. Everything gets better eventually, even though it’s hard. Where there is hurt, there will be strength after this. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:14 PM
12

For me, he was this person that I had always aspired to.. sort of an incarnation of many of my dreams: handsome (Polish like me), very educated, ambitious... he’d worked in politics (which is a goal of mine), works in finance (a passion of mine), he always seemed to be empathetic and kind too.. he talked about wearing his heart on his sleeve, and I just let myself go with how much I cared for him. Tbh, I’ve always had this hope that someone would come along like that, and essentially believe in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:39 PM
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It makes me feel so pathetic because, not only was I laying everything in my heart out, but I was also BEGGING him to not hurt me.. I feel so disgusted with myself because in the end, he couldn’t have cared less.. It’s been weeks and I’m still hurting horribly. How do I get over this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:39 PM
46

This really hits home for me... I’ve learned to guard my vulnerability, because no man deserves that Remember that, Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:56 AM
9

I think consistency is the key word here... ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:39 PM
6

I wish someone had told me this when I was a young girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:08 AM
3

It’s honestly not even that I don’t want any of those things, because I love a few of them, and enjoy being feminine.. it’s just that, I really found it rude of him to say that.. you’re allowed your preference, but saying something like that when you just met someone, it almost makes them feel like you want them to become this version of themselves they’re not. It makes me feel like I’m not good enough, and I totally am… They’re just not good enough for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:14 PM
8

That was how I found this sub too! I was new to Reddit at the time, but I kept finding a hate everywhere, and it really intrigued me. I love you all, ladies!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:33 PM
10

I recently went through something like that, but I’m just so sorry that you had to go through that shit. I keep wondering at the deflection.. honestly! I’m so sick of “men” who don’t know who they are or what they want, because that makes me feel like I’ve done something wrong and that I’m a shitty person for not being able to read their every wish. Yeah, it honestly got to the point where I was handling this person with kid gloves, because I was worried that my wanting some honesty would scare …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:24 PM
18

Exactly.. this drives me insane. What are you doing dating then??? Get yourself together omg 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:41 PM
23

I really want an explanation of the long hair one! I got that from a “nice” guy and I was a little bit shocked.. why would you say that?? Honestly, my hair is curly af, and I’m active 24/7.. I don’t think men understand how hard it is to take care of really long wavy hair without it looking like trash. Thank you, but I don’t want to have to brush my hair for an hour every night while I have school to do! don’t mind it long and I’ve had it that most of my life, but I’m just chilling right now, an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:37 PM
2

Yeah, honestly I’m starting to think that too.. who knew the Colonel could be tempting 😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:06 AM
10

Don’t get me started lol... I keep forgetting what a dating horror show women live in 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:58 PM
21

This is so disgusting and horrifying. The fact that some young women are still raised with this kind of attitude absolutely repulses me. How can these mothers do that to their daughters? 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:18 PM
18

Oh, but that kfc would not help my fitness goals 😭 I didn’t notice the castle until just now though, so maybe it’s worth a shot 🤷‍♀️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:16 PM
6

This is disgusting on so many levels.. how could she marry him after that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:30 PM
2

Oh lord, this really hits home 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:22 PM
2

❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:48 PM
35

OH MY GOODNESS........ she is GOALS!!!! (To be and maybe to date..) Beautiful, witty, intelligent.. I would love to ask her out to a gorgeous restaurant, and show her an entertaining night. After all, I’m a lady 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:54 AM
3

Holy shit, I hooted at this... worse, my cats a better gentleman 🤭🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:23 PM
23

Oh my gosh, yes! Anna and Bates are great together but, she could’ve done so much better. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 07:41 PM
15

Oh my gosh, this is scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:02 PM
3

Yes, I so needed to read this today. 💐🙏😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:24 PM
2

IKR 👀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:32 AM
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That is actually so true! And honestly, as long as the man is kind, HVM and sweet, I love taller/ larger men who can pick me up. Like fit, but still idk 😛 #goals I am absolutely in love with this couple!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:34 PM
7

My sister works in the medical field and being smart about social distancing and general interactions is crucial for her. These people actually have to be really safe so I don’t know if this is completely bad. 🤷‍♀️ Single at 42 though.. 😂 I wouldn’t touch that with a ten foot pole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:44 PM
7

This is so true and it breaks my heart. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:07 AM
7

Good lord.. umm, can I take you to dinner?? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:52 PM
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So take the opportunity of pregnancy away and actually teach boys in schools about what happens when you’re irresponsible. I think that in the end, sex sells and responsibility does not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:50 PM
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When you say that banning abortions will not change the mentality of “boys will be boys”, are you assenting that this is a cultural issue then rather than a moral issue? Because if so, that changes the whole narrative. If banning abortion means changing the culture, then I don’t think we should be afraid of that. I appreciate your comment though because I am speaking in a purely American view. I do a lot of research but have not traveled to countries where abortion is illegal and would very much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:48 PM
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I am not saying that the woman should be carrying the pregnancy to full-term, I’m saying that that should not have to be a choice and that there should not be that pregnancy in the first place. I stick to my belief; abortion allows men to abuse women more. Instead of teaching men the responsibility that comes with being “young and wild”, we teach them that it is OK to do whatever they want and we’ve allowed that to become the reality. Abortion has consequences and we don’t teach that to men or t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:25 PM
3

I’m confused, what is your definition of a “crazy religious cult lady”?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:48 PM
29

RBG opened many doors, some of which can never be closed, no matter who takes her seat. Our society has changed in such a way that it would never be possible. But don’t get me started on the whole idea of term limits for the judicial branch that would only FURTHER its politicization, perhaps we should look how the new nominee would interpret the constitution rather than anything else. I really do hate politics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:49 AM
6

Omg, yeah it’s sooo gross, some guy started calling me that and I was so creeped out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:02 PM
2

My apologies for messing up the grammar in my title!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:00 PM
4

Happy Cake Day! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:44 PM
55

I love your comment.. I hope that if I ever get married and have any sons that they’ll all be little HVMs. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:39 PM
3

Yep 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:36 PM
2

Oh my gosh, the power from this is electric. Queen, live. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:46 PM
1

I’m so sorry for your loss. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:00 PM
12

I guess I am too then.. my father is an alcoholic too, is really short and only thinks of himself. He’s changed some over the years, but how he acted towards us children when I was a young girl always stays with me and stops me from getting close to him. (Mom always suspected that he had bipolar disease.) I’m drawn to a more caring, gentle person. As strange as it sounds, someone who wants to protect me.. I’m not sure if that’s just carryover from my childhood and me trying to compensate for wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:17 AM
7

Oh my gosh, this post makes me feel sick and really sad.. my dad used to do this to my mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:02 PM
4

I posted it! ☺️ I’m so happy that it inspired someone.. keep being the beautiful queen you are! 💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:46 AM
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She always stole the show for me.. no bs and sharp as a whip. Rip ❤️ Her last scene in GoT was magnificent.. so proud and beautiful, just like a rose She will be missed (Like someone else said.. what a dame.❤️)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:31 AM
1

I saw this before! That’d be really cool thing to start doing. 💐👸🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:14 AM
5

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:00 PM
26

Ohhh my gosh, that is so true. “You’re after me for my money”, umm what money? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:12 AM
8

I accidentally hit the accept one but blocked then. 🤢🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:12 PM
27

Oh my gosh, those are so couple goals. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:53 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/iitq4r/interesting_dialogue/g39g296/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf If you want more recommendations, feel free to message me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:33 PM
1

Posted!❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:29 PM
-4

Oh my gosh, I know! That part is so funny. She could’ve done better though, I’m just saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:47 PM
4

Personally, I watched both and I think that they definitely miss-cast the 1995’ one. It all depends what your preference is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:46 PM
11

The list: Now Voyager, Roman Holiday, Breakfast at Tiffany’s, To Catch a Thief, Rear Window, Bluebeards Eighth Wife, The Philadelphia Story, Bringing Up Baby (So.. I like Cary Grant 🤷‍♀️😂) Top Hat, Some Like It Hot, An Affair To Remember, Casablanca, The Lady Eve, Historical: A Man For All Seasons, Gone With The Wind Musicals: Golddiggers of 1933’, Gentlemen Prefer Blondes, Funny Face, Easter Parade, Singing in the Rain, That is literally barely scratching the surface. Just to make sure you don’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:42 PM
3

Ohh heck yeah, I love that movie so much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:09 PM
23

No she didn’t. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:09 PM
3

Oh my gosh, definitely! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:07 PM
2

I would search it online, at best you would be able to find out that it was auctioned at some point and maybe find measurements for remaking it. Most things worn by Marilyn Monroe have been documented because she was this amazing, beautiful actress. Honestly, you can probably find something on it if you look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:06 PM
7

Here’s the thing about strong female leads in classic Hollywood, there weren’t a lot and even if there were, there was definitely a stigma around letting them have full freedom in the sense that it would usually end with them going back to “their man”, etc. I don’t know if I would want to post a list unless I could give reasoning to why I enjoyed each movie, because I feel like that part of me that enjoys those kind of movies, it is not so accepted? Not just because of the fact that strong femal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 05:01 PM
1

OK… I need some terminology! Please update me on what is things are. 😂😅 What is OLD??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:12 PM
11

My jaw dropped when I read those lyrics. 🤢😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:05 PM
21

I love Audrey Hepburn for her style and her elegance, definitely! Katherine Hepburn though, she was so snarky and has so much strength and a seriousness about her that vibrated. It’s amazing when you watch separate interviews from both of them, they’re really opposites and yet there is this commonality of strength, beauty and pride in themselves that is so electric. I definitely love watching the movies but my thing is also, watching their interviews when they’re in their 60s and 70s.And you see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:01 PM
36

Yes, it is! I was sort of obsessed with old movies during high school. 😂 Some of the leading ladies from that time period, they’re so fascinating and teach some amazing lessons. I could talk for hours on them. ❤️ Fashion too. It’s probably the thing that will always keep me single, I am a bit of an old soul. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:35 PM
6

But.... wouldn’t it be “are”, I’m a little confused right now. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:14 PM
54

I LOVE her character in this movie! Knowing what you want is a huge part of getting what you want.. don’t be apologetic for being you. Also, it’s been a while since I’ve watched this movie, what happens during the three minutes? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:11 PM
5

🤢 Good fucking gosh.. What the hell am I looking at?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:09 AM
36

FUCKING NO. I’ve done that, but I’m over it. Why should I waste my youth fixing someone? Ladies, if you spend too much time fixing someone else, you will look back in your life and realize that you never had time to work on yourself. Stay strong, Queen. 🌺😎👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:34 PM
11

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:31 PM
19

I want that dog!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:35 PM
6

OH MY GOD..... 👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸👸 God afuckingbove, this woman is AMAZING. ❤️ Like, I’m not even overestimating this… I am just in awe and in love honestly. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:48 AM
23

God, yes. 👸👸👸👸 There is so much power in words and ideas, she laid his nasty ass out. Proud of you, Queen. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:32 PM
14

Wait, so which book is this? Because I sort of need to read it. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:25 PM
38

YES 🤦‍♀️ The double standards are so absurd! Be attractive, but not TOO attractive... be fit but not TOO fit. (And my biggest laugh!) Be smart but not TOO smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:13 PM
14

r/(relationshipadvice) I saw post on here a few days ago about how we shouldn’t mention it so often and honestly, even before I found this sub, I came across a lot of animosity towards it on Reddit and I just don’t want to foster that by getting anyone angry. 🤷‍♀️ Like, I can laugh at LVMs from afar, they are not worth my time when it comes to arguing, etc. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:28 AM
5

Me too, it’s definitely a problem... or is it? I’m not saying that all HVM have perfect grammar, no one does, but usually you can pick up on when someone puts in the effort. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:50 AM
40

My gosh, I want to puke reading that. 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:44 AM
5

Haha, I love this comment! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:22 AM
5

Saving this, reading this everyday and probably putting it in a frame at some point. Don’t forget this, ever. 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:14 AM
3

Yep 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:39 AM
6

OMG, yess sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:58 PM
3

Yeah, the thing is that I knew that too and told him if it’s a “no” then, he should just tell me or I would hold out hope and when he never followed through I would get resentful. Maybe I should’ve told him that? But I know myself! I know how this works and I think he knew too and wouldn’t give me a straight “no” on purpose. He said he didn’t want to hurt me again. 🥺🙄 It’s his loss though, we got on really well and if he had just been honest, I think that maybe I wouldn’t have a “lover”.. but ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 11:25 PM
3

❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:14 PM
5

I really needed to hear this, thank you so much. My education is the most important thing right now. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:13 PM
8

Thank you so much for that. yeah, I’ve definitely fallen into that and I’ve heard all the flowery words before. I’m not a present, something you can just unwrap and get bored of; I’m the whole package and if a man wants me, he will have to work for me. Just because I’m a virgin, doesn’t mean that I have to be stupid or amateur at the games they play, it means I have to have my guard up and I have to show them I’m a prize no matter if I’m a virgin or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:12 PM
12

I struggle with the whole “until marriage” but honestly, you’re so right; if a man doesn’t respect me enough to wait then, does he respect me at all? I am a really sexual person but I am afraid of opening that door in my life until I am sure of what I have and what I want. What I want (romantically) is pretty clear to me, I don’t have it and that’s OK right now. Furthermore, I don’t need that right now and that’s okay too. 😊 Being single is amazing. 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:05 PM
5

Thanks for this reply! A lot of times I struggle with being raised really conservatively and not knowing what path to follow exactly, so many guys my age are immature and honestly just not ready for anything except to get their asses kicked in life. I think the decision is pretty clear. I’m starting college this fall! Wish me luck, love. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:02 PM
30

🤢 Thanks but no, I don’t want to be your mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:44 PM
9

Reading this makes me so sad because I’ve definitely been spiteful with my sisters before and I’m really feeling bad about that now. How do I make up for always wanting guys attention and putting my fellow queens down?? 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:33 PM
4

Agreed ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:25 PM
2

So true, thank you for this post. You are amazing and don’t believe otherwise ever. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:26 AM
2

Idk I think it’s a little sweet (sometimes), not as a date maybe but to get to know each other. I’m just more comfortable in the open outside. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:09 AM
2

❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:43 PM
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