I'm not good at dealing with people who can't communicate. That might seem harsh, but no, I won't show them how to be decent humans lmao.

You are a queen, you deserve respect and, the person waiting days to respond isn't giving you respect. The people who can't talk about who they really are, are not worthy of your sharing who you are. They're seeing how far they can go disrespecting you. In friendships and relationships, be brutal in your discernment. The HV people who come into your life will show you that they are HV, you won't need to dig for that. Stop accepting excuses like being "busy" and "not remembering". They are absolute lies, excuses for pride and ego to take hold in the relationship, and even if he didn't remember... lmao, that's what reminders are for, plus, if a person cares for you, they won't need reminders.

Last, but not least: if he wanted to, he would. For that matter, if ANYONE wants to, they will.

Now go get that life you want, queen!