SecretAgentDarling Archive

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20	BDSM Community Outraged By Domestic Violence Laws I remember a while back there was a (fairly well known)comedian that did a skit about porn/money shots, and how he convinced his girlfriend to let him cum on her face. He was joking all along about how she hated it. How it was weird when it finally happened, and he didn't feel like a porn star. All to say, men are literally so porn sick these days, that they will re-enact what they see in porn; even if they/their partners aren't enthusiastically into it. He was able to wear her down to accept a …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/23 02:50 AM
29	BDSM Community Outraged By Domestic Violence Laws It's not kinky to be abusive to women, it's the norm and has been for centuries. I always thought that fetishes and kinks were typically things that were, "taboo" or "weird" by societal standards. Imagine a dominatrix, a dominant woman, which subverts our cultural norms. Or people who need to wear socks during sex or wear clown make up. Not as much representation for these types. Most of the kink scene to me is just sugar-coated/repackaged misogyny and not worth engaging with at all, tbh. Why ar…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/23 02:34 AM
21	PSA: A high value man will not be into BDSM. I've heard that same porn sick response time and time again, "He's lying to you, every man does. It's a known secret" etc. Bunch of crusty hopeless losers needing to bond with the boys over objectifying women. They need to bond with other men over depravity more than it ever has had to do with their interests in women/sexuality. That's why they're shocked that men wouldn't. A man that doesn't watch porn must be "pussy whipped"/have a controlling wife, otherwise his fingers would be scrambling wa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/22 12:22 AM
91	Another reason why you shouldn’t use dating apps: your photos can be used without your consent. A long time ago now, ,when I was in high school, I had a pickme friend that told me she used to take our classmates FB photos (teen girls) and show them to strangers online. She confided in me that she used to send photos of girls she hated, pretending to be them, and loved when people on omegle/chat sites would tell her they were ugly. She was one of the founding reasons I didn't carry on with social media as we grew up. I was always afraid of what vindictive LV/NV women would do. Pick-me-ism i…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/04/22 09:05 AM
72	Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick me In her mind, profiting off men's lust is empowering. (Taking money from men for being sexy is sticking it to big patriarchy). She wanted to brag about how much she gets these "losers" to spend on her. While she keeps this NVM boyfriend for a curated image and pretends to live an incredibly rich, sexy, and glamorous life; forever getting that bag. Classic pickmeisha shit. Look at how much all these men wanna bang me, and pay me less than a dinner date/month to watch me pull beads out of my ass. Y…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 01:03 PM
55	50/50 Cautionary Tales Part 1 : "Something feels weird here" I agree. HVM will also use their skills and experiences to make your life easier. I dated a young man once who would do a lot of auto repairs/maintenance on my car to save me money. While my car was in the shop, I could use his. He always made sure the tank was full before giving me the keys. He also knew I loved tomatoes and grew a whole bunch of them one summer even though it wasn't something he liked/grew before. Even when he wasn't spending money on me, he was always happy to help/show up in…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 11:59 AM
171	Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick me Some women are competing to show men which of us can wear our chains with the most pride and joy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 11:47 AM
141	Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick me Unlikely he would. He sure as shit wouldn't brag about it/post on socials either because it's not gonna get him clout with the boiiiis.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 11:45 AM
153	Saw this on Twitter and I’m ANGRY, dumb pick me I once had a pick me friend that would vent to me about her NVM and I told her I was tired of hearing about it. This man went to her place every single weekend was served like royalty. She gave him all the anal/hardcore sex he wanted, took sexy pictures of them together to put on social media to show how hot and cool she is/how lucky he is. She would throw him elaborate birthday parties, book them hotels for getaways (her dime). Everything to celebrate her "king". She'd even pack him a homemade …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 11:42 AM
23	TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔 Men will also want to be diapered and mommied so desperately that they will pay dominatrixes A LOT of money to carry them around, put them in giant cribs, feed them, and put diapers on them. The whole thing. They'd rather pay a domme hundreds and thousands of dollars than go to therapy, lol. Sex workers often say they feel like men's therapists and how men are "truly" more vulnerable (disgusting) with them. The kink community is ripe with groomers, predators and mental health deniers that have…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 01:09 PM
12	TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔 We're growing up, and waking up. I'm nearing my 30s. When the girls (us) play a round of roast a scrote at work, the younger women (early 20s) love it and join in sometimes. And the older women (50+) love a good joke at the expense of a man. When appropriate and if we have rapport, we counsel a little and nudge in the right direction. But we too must take care of ourselves. Not all women are/will be allies, but we can signal one another to safer spaces even if we can't always be that for each ot…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 12:58 PM
12	TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔 This is the first time I've seen someone use "kinkmeisha" and I love it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 12:48 PM
45	TW for sexual abuse survivors. Disgusting scrotes use prostitutes to act out their incestuous nightmare. Pick-me women who enable predator kinks are also a danger to all women and children. Mass grooming has only gotten more accessible with the internet . I first came across violent porn at age 6. 💔 Unfortunately, some mothers are such hardcore "ride or die" pickmes that see their own daughters are seen as a threat. So the mother will need to prove she's better. Men know this and begin grooming what's essentially a willing target. He'll be planning this, and the mother will allow it a sort of necessary sacrifice because it'll "keep her man". For some women, recovering from NNM/LVM (and/or LV/NV families) is akin to addiction recovery. Some keep going back off/on even if they promise it's "f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 12:39 PM
66	Learn how to RUTHLESSLY black & delete, no one has time for men who have communication issues. (in friendships and relationships) I had a friend break up recently. I considered us close friends for over a year. We would often make plans that were followed through. The odd time either of us would cancel on the other was allowed and I didn't think anything of it. However, one time we made weekend plans and he completely ghosted out of the blue. Days later proceeded to text me as if nothing ever happened. When I confronted him, he just apologized like any other man does and I was so disgusted I told him not to talk to me unti…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 11:05 AM