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I would not rely on this method. They may test for a few and not for others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 12:23 AM
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They often lie about the hookers, but I knew one guy who didn't hesitate to speak of it after a couple of dates. This is the info that one night stands miss out on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 12:20 AM
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He hid the fact that he was a bisexual man. I'm believing there were/are other things that he did not confide as well and honesty was something that could not be expected from him. He literally did not give you a choice to decide if you wanted to pursue a relationship with that level of heightened risk. I'm so happy for your journey from there to here. Keep going sis! Thank you for the great advice as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:07 PM
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Can I PM you on how your relocation experience? Mine is coming up this summer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 03:39 AM
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Came to pick your brain about the community part. Could you add more details around this? I'm relocating and am concerned about finding a new community of like minded women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 03:37 AM
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I've been to the friendship funerals of my pickme and lvw baby showers, engagement parties, etc. where the woman is faux celebrating, her inevitability of practically raising a child on her own with a fiancee'/husband or being engaged and in love but carrying most of the weight of the relationship on her shoulders and just smiled and was happy for them despite... But. the same women, when I celebrated my bday in a smoking 5 star well-appointed suite chose not to attend for various reasons i.e., …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 03:36 AM
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So, I would say this type of female empowerment mentality began being advertised via commercials in the late 1960s early 1970s. For instance, in 1972, P&G advertising for Secret began using the tag line: “Strong enough for a man, but made for a woman.” Other commercials followed suit becoming more and more skewed in defining feminism over time. A casual acquaintance was just telling me that her daughters dated like men and didn't seem to have a problem with one night stands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/22 07:00 AM
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Women have so much control. Vote these idiots out! It's not dem vs rep it's about voting for the party that upholds women's rights. But, TBH all politicians say anything to get in office and then cater to corporations. And/or hit men where it hurts, decline sex with no condoms (as we should be) but take it a step further. "Honey you know that right now in our state women do not have access to abortion. I would hate to force either of us to deal with an unwanted pregnancy for the rest of our live…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 10:57 PM
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I hope the crew got involved. It really, really, bothered me. He did not want her to leave the unit and physically obstructed her. The fact that he is stronger than her and was not listening to her when she told him to "get off "her, while off camera deeply concerned me. I hope they broke up and she moved on. She and Jake seemed like a possibility except I'm not sure that Jake had a job? Correct me if I'm wrong.... Here's what Glamour had to report, " Rae told Insider that she “punched” Zay afte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 11:20 AM
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"Idk why they are fighting so hard to marry these useless men." Because these garbage guys are their mirror images. Once you look past the exterior ( many of the boyfriends mentioned being in love with their girlfriends because of their looks but not because of their character) beyond their cosmetics, these women on the show (except Shanqiue) have no depth and lack maturity. Low self-esteem women attract lvm or nvm. Which is one of the reasons level up is so important!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 12:11 AM
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I took one look at Zay and knew he was a whole 0. He gave me physical aggression vibes. Rae like many of the others has pretty low self-esteem. She later tells Zay they should take marriage off the table, he then stays out all night without returning her calls, when he returns she punches him and then he gets physical with her and she is heard saying get off of me off camera while they are in the bedroom. Dumpster fword fire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 12:02 AM
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Yes, that is the same woman who told her boyfriend that she was not interested in having children! That guy jedi-mind tricked her into thinking it would be soooo different with him when he was saying the same thing using different words. Quite a few women on the show were very weak-minded and I'm afraid for any children they were considering having because they were so shallow, selfish, and entitled (meaning--->I want a child, cause I want one! ) They've also demonstrated a low level understandi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 11:57 PM
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This was so super creepy rapist weirdo guy. Who the eff raised him? WHERE IS HIS DAD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 05:28 AM
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He honestly did you a favor by showing you who he really was, instead of leading you on allowing you to become further interested while he pretended to be a possible match. I was supposed to video chat with a guy and he stood me up. Of course, I did my hair and make-up and can't get that time back but I'm glad he did. I had a feeling about him and our gut instincts are never wrong. We will move forward and find other possibilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:26 AM
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For men over 40 yrs old, 65% of them NEED a hairline transplant or hair club for men. They can transplant from those gross father time/santa claus beards they've grown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 05:53 AM
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I am saddened for Marilyn in that aspect as well. She recognized most of her own power but because of her upbringing probably needed so much support and all the things that are missing when you grow up in foster care. Pretty women are often coddled to the point where they are unable to develop some of the attributes that some women who do not have pretty privilege learn as well as their resilience which in turn they learn to base their happiness on who they are; character, intelligence, tenacity…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 03:15 AM
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If they were smart, they played the game to the best of their ability. Some played until they achieved wealth through marriage and than a different game may have ensured. Others inherited money and lived their lives how they wanted within the dictates of the world when they were outside but inside of their homes were the queen. Two things will never fail and those are intelligence and street smarts. Women get side tracked not by only men, but other women (women from other generations, pickmes, e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/22 03:08 AM
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Women like Cardi B (and others) set the bar so low but people won't acknowledge this fact. Hood culture has made her millions. What's even sadder is that popular culture consumes hood culture as cool and cutting edge. Hood culture is poor black people flossing immoral behavior, crime, misogyny, consumerism, and ignorance. Music producers allow it because it fits into the larger plan of promoting ignorance over intelligence and anything goes. Now we have serious issues in younger generations and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 04:37 AM
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LOL. Male friend and I worked together and would frequent a restaurant often. He went with another woman and he said they were rude to him. They were extra sweet to me. The waitstaff were all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/22 07:08 AM
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Dr. Dre assaulted women with impunity. The black community did nothing about the assault of black women. Dre assaulted his past wife Michel'le, she says she was “just a quiet girlfriend who got beat on and told to sit down and shut up,” According to Dee Barnes former television show host, he picked her up by her hair and "began slamming her head and the right side of her body repeatedly against a brick wall near the stairway" as his bodyguard held off the crowd with a gun. She says she was also …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:16 PM
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He cheats on her rampantly. She threatened to leave per her Twitter account but of course she didn't. She accepted this lifestyle because she was indoctrinated as alot of African American women are - the community excuses the poor behavior and lack of consideration of women and reduces them to bitches, hoes, and body parts. It's why I'm not a fan of current rap music, that is...since the late 90s. I'm also not a fan of Minaj, DojaCat, Megan the Stallion nor Cardi B (stripper rap). It's all degra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:03 PM
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Check which school they received their Masters from that they have a license, LCSW or LCPC and the other therapies they offer CBT, etc. They should have earned graduate certificates in these areas. Vett anyone that touches your body, mind and or spirit like you'd vett a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 03:18 AM
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Smol PP is a crime against womanity. The tiny things I've seen. Shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 06:07 AM
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Breaking -mom is an actual thread on here. It is a cautionary tale.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:52 AM
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Throw some age on that lv/nv and you have an old, fat and ugly man living with you for years. This. I have a friend that married a guy because she wanted children and he had a 70K+ job. He played interested suitor but he was nothing to behold. After marriage and children, he lost his job and has very little interest in truly being a father. She has to try to coerce him to take the children anywhere or spend time with them. But, he has a cozy situation, she is the bread winner, he moved into the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 05:49 AM
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Oh be careful of the pick me relatives of these LVM. Recently encountered a situation in which a woman wanted to be friends, but never really had a moment to set a time, let alone call. I would hear from her when she covertly needed something. You know, a "hey how are you, sorry I haven't called more, I've been busy, but want to apologize how are you?" and towards the end of the conversation..."do you happen to know xyz or could you do me a quick favor?" Said woman introduced me to a relative wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 06:07 PM
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Kim is finding her way back to white america, one relationship at a time. She's removed quite a bit of a her implants etc. Hollywood is about money and fame not talent and the quickest way to a paycheck was Kanye. Now that she has secured her bag with children and marriage she's done with the likes of Kanye. I can't imagine she ever married for sensibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 07:20 PM
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Men are visual creatures. This also tells them what to anticipate. Friends of mine have said, they've always met men with no makeup, sweatpants, t-shirt, and messy hair but have a harder time meeting men when well-dressed. Sure they did, it was a low to lower middle income area at the time; the men were looking for pickmes, 50/50 women and baby mommas. We didn't have (FDS), and so many women believed the guy saw the "real them" and was attracted to them just as they were. And, that this was TRUE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:59 PM
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LVM loveee a woman who is plain. They know it's not necessary to buy her gifts, jewelry, purses, lovely outings and trips outside camping etc or 2-3 star travel. They literally stare at you, wanting to approach but know they cannot afford your maintenance because they do nothing more than shower and brush their teeth and wear the uniform of the masses of men that are lv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 04:13 PM
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Last time I bumped into a guy a friend...his skin has yellow patches and raised rashes, beard is scraggly, lips seem to have tiny sores...WHAT are the yellow patches!!!???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:41 AM
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And, they take that for granted! In addition, will also expect all women to treat them as a coddled child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:35 AM
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Sounds like some level of sociopathy. He knew what he was doing. And, he didn't care. Because he never did and never will. It's obvious he doesn't give one care about her or her feelings nor what anyone else thinks. He's been drunk before in the past 6 yrs, I'm sure and never revealed his true feelings. But THIS was the time? He's finished playing now. He seems to loathe her...she's a function in his life. Just imagine all the low or no effort shes had to endure, how many times he cheated, when …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:25 PM
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Careful with Sheraseven. In a video she spoke about and condoned 18yr old women selling their virginity to the highest bidder. She often speaks with a sub human coldness about her relationships with her much older husband, who she admits she married simply for his money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 03:42 PM
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I can believe it. I met a guy who smirked about the pain his wife endured because her epidural do not go completely as planned. A total WTF! So I can definitely see them going this far.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 06:22 AM
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That's not what "struggle love" is...struggle love is when you are dating a broke man and are in situations that are poverty stricken, such as going 50/50 with a man only to have the lights cut off, and having to ask your parents for money or food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:02 AM
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Keep in mind all of the characters at that time profited from enslaved people, so none of them are "good people". What I will say is that Rhett treated the enslaved workers of the household as people, Mammy even liked him, one of the best scenes is when Mammy blushes from the slip that Rhett bought her. Rhett loved Scarlett even though she was conniving, deceitful, self-centered, and mean-spirited. She pined after her sisters husband for goodness sake even when her sister was on her death bed an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:58 AM
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Doesn't it make you feel like you are in the Twilight Zone? I had a guy send me a similar video. I felt angry and degraded. I later had to block him because he obviously hated me, I say that because every chance he got, he tried to neg me and the video was the final straw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:21 AM
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The basement floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:34 AM
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Glad you are doing well now. Sending hugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:36 AM
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I'm sorry he did that to you. I'm happy you were unharmed. I was at a party and the guy that was trying to get my number was faltering, I said are you o.k.? He scrunched up his face in my face with the nastiest tone ever, yeah I"m fucking o.k. don't ask me if I"m alright! I looked at him hard, looked at his friends who were silent and walked the fuck away. Jekyll and Hyde. Side note, please stay away from thug life men. I do not know why pop culture glorifies ghetto culture but it's in their "co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:09 PM
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This is in no way to be argumentative; you may be outside of the audience and therefore it hits different. I don't have reference of her generational pain, which most women carry especially Black women nor being co-dependently attached. If she has described herself as co-dependent I applaud her self-awareness and acknowledgment of the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:43 PM
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She slays no doubt. From her career in the music industry without damage to her psyche like many other childhood celebrities(she achieved fame in her late teens) was singing by the age of 9, I think on Star Search. She legitimately earned her coin. Beyonce can sing and dance her butt off. She didn't sex tape her career to billionaire status she earned it . She achieved her goals for her career and motherhood and produces other female groups. As far as her husband, if she decided to leave she cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:10 PM
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Ugh. Steal the dog? What is this world coming to? Well, I'm going to stay in past 9p.m. too. My dad was always concerned when we would party in our 20s out at late hours. And, my ex would always tell me not to go to the 24hr stores alone or with another woman. I understand now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:10 AM
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Sis, I hope you are o.k.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:55 AM
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Yep. I think the game is played differently at that level. But we only know what they allow us to see for the most part. Bey is not slow or stupid by a long shot, we have no idea how that marriage is really being run. She doesn't have to let the public know her hand or when she plays it. People slept on Jada thinking Will was the only one having his fun. Jada had her a little entanglement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:27 AM
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it's a role reversal. Bey is saying a whole lot more than what you've perceived. I'll break it down. She's saying exactly what dumb men say about their pickmes he took them to a cheap restaurant that they think is high post, but only if you are a pick me. Remember pickmes must fall in line (formation) to get attention and "good" treatment. So basically, he's her bitch and she's in the position of power doling out the treats. But, it all hinges on him pleasing her ( when he f-k me good) so he bet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:20 AM
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mycoplasma and ureaplasma Girl, thanks for educating us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:03 AM
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There's no single test for detecting oral HPV or HPV-positive throat cancer early. Your doctor might notice signs of throat cancer or oral HPV during a routine exam. In some cases, signs of throat cancer are detected during a dental appointment. Usually, the cancer is diagnosed after a person has symptoms. https://www.healthline.com/health/hpv-throat-cancer Oral HPV can be difficult to detect in the early stages. This is because of the lack of noticeable symptoms. In addition, not all cases of o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:56 AM
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Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, HPV (warts of the mouth and throat), Syphilis, HSV 1, HSV 2, HIV can be passed through oral sex, but the risk for spreading or acquiring HIV through oral sex is extremely low. https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/oral-stds#hiv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:46 AM
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As much as men like to talk about women smelling like fish, I've never smelled anything worse than a man's unclean body. Men can have smegma building up in the uncircumcised area on the head of the penis. They also can have a very odorous scent underneath the scrotum which I've heard referred to as "cheeseballs". Putrid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:35 AM
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I went to the breakingmom sub. I left after reading the highlights of 3 posts in less than 3 minutes. Noped my ass right outta there. Too much drama, my husband this... my husband that...NO thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:17 AM
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I just can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:36 PM
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Obviously not posting for GlancingWillow. I have never contemplated my mother's childhood before and the impact of society upon her. I love and respect her because she is my mother, it disturbs me to think of someone harming her as a child. I am not excusing or condoning her behavior but I sympathize for the little girl she once was picking cotton in a field, who saw her father raise another family ( a few miles away) while still married to her mother with several children, had to accept the phy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 07:22 PM
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Brittany Spears..oops I did it again video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 02:14 PM
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You can also hire people to clean when the movers get everything out. Since it was his place too the money in the account can be used for movers and cleaners, etc. Then split the difference. You don't need to ask or tell him, I mean he brought this on himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 01:53 PM
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You are also correct - these women were trapped in a society of which millennial women could never understand. There was no internet, books, movements. Dead silence. These women were indoctrinated within a society for which they were nothing more than wife to a husband or a mother. There was no room for the woman as an individual. So I'm kind of upset with people posting here who can only see the value system of the current generation. This is how feminism went wrong; creating an ALL WOMEN shoul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:51 PM
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most men's beards have fecal bacteria in them Here's another study: Men with beards carry more germs than dogs, according to a new study. Researchers at the Hirslanden Clinic in Switzerland tested the facial hair of men along with dog fur from various breeds. "Researchers from the Hirslanden Clinic in Switzerland took swabs from the facial fuzz of 18 men and the necks of 30 dogs, across a range of breeds - that's the dogs, not the men, by the way - and compared the results between the two. The r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:19 PM
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I was so mind fcked, brain-washed, bamboozled, and emotionally rp*d on so many levels. Coming to the surface of reality was the most painful thing I've experienced, I almost had a nervous breakdown. There was nothing that was "real", my family was a toxic garbage dump, my boyfriend of over a decade was truly a sociopath. His therapist told him he was dangerous. He came from a family of Socios and narcissists. And, my "friends" were the nicest toxic people you ever could meet. How do you purposel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:21 PM
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Lol. I hope your mom is happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:12 PM
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I hope your dad treats your mo well and realizes she deserves the very best from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:40 AM
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Yup. He couldn't conquer her sexually. Having sex with him did not make her feel less than. I hope she had an amazing orgasm or enjoyed herself so much that he couldn't stand it. Anyways, he thought he would try to talk her "down" which just got him eliminated. He's probably still mad. I hope so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 02:34 AM
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I agree with you. I think child abuse or growing up in an abusive family of origin plays a big part of the reason why many women settle. So many women have been abused as children. These girls turn into women who may have not had that empty space filled and at the moment whatever dude they are settling for happens to make them happy 5% or 30% of the time even though the odds are pretty bad. No matter how much therapy I got, I couldn't let go of the shit relationship I had. It was the best relati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:21 AM
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The job situation is so dismal...the high flying female bosses are female narc behind closed doors and will do anything to keep their position. The male bosses - well you already know and the whole place toxic. Not a real opinion, lick of creativity, think outside the box to be found. Everyone is scared and docile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:44 AM
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Yup. I just had this conversation with daughter (22) earlier in the week. It's like a light bulb went off in my head. When I encounter men who do not have a degree, I wonder why? They've had every opportunity to earn a degree. If they have a trade o.k. cool, I still need to know more, but I need to understand the "why". Because men typically are not a single parent or a wife, so what was their excuse? Lazy. Disinterested. Hell, most women hand hold their boyfriends and husbands hand through univ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:12 PM
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I'm so angry. I am reaching out to check on men and women who were important to me, having had a friend die recently and the men are acting like I want them or their used up nasty p*nis. When will people become adults? I mean these men have adult children in their 20s, some are grandfathers and think I want that old peen. I just care about people, like a normal human being. ​ I
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:53 PM
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i hope you are o.k., I'm sorry this happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:57 AM
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Thank you. I'm not alone in the world - for seeing it exactly how you wrote it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:35 AM
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Oh sorry, I've been spacey lately; his comment made me feel silly, because I was a single mom and less than because my worth according to him and men like him was in having a perfect, blemish free body. Men contradict themselves when they don't want to be put on the spot but in their minds don't change. This guy and his friends were a bunch of negative value men who were placing expectations on women to be perfect when he and his crew seldomly had jobs and went out of their way to prey on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:27 AM
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A guy once told me, it's in the best interest of a woman to ensure she marries the father of her child because he will be more apt to overlook the changes of her body (weight gain, stretch marks, etc.) than another man. And, that the father would see it as a sacrifice and be more respectful in that regard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:33 PM
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I actually had a friend tell me that education isn't everything and these type of men need love too. I'm thinking of slowly moving away from the friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 05:39 AM
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No. People who VicTIm shame others (that would be you), have their perspective and I have mine and I'm standing on it. You see failure as a person I see it as they both need to expand their perspectives. This is how women get caught in a cycle of weak thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:05 AM
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ad hominem ---> in a way that is directed against a person rather than the position they are maintaining. The ring was an ice chip ring. Material objects are often used to pacify women. I.E. most married women have a ring or token of marriage but men still cheat. So her flashing her ring, in my opinion (which I have a right to have btw) is trash. Ice chips. She then uses this token of marriage to do what I am describing below---> The first woman's stance was ludicrous. The second woman's stance …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 08:35 PM
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It may lead to that assumption but they are intrigued and will work to that smile or laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:13 PM
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When they see nothing changes and this is who you are they either run because they can't afford you or stay because they appreciate an elegant lady.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:12 PM
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No both sexes can be extra as is popular today but her delivery was very unoriginal and just extra. I think women who believe they control or are the air their husbands breathe are delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:01 PM
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Both of them need counseling. Girl #1, what are you talking about????? Girl #2, The ring she flashed was trash. Why is she in a laundry room being dramatic? Her antics = the level of anxiety she has over what girl #1 said. She is using faulty logic and a symbol (wedding ring) to substantiate her claims of how she has her man locked on her. Many women that believe that they have their husbands in the palm of their hand are devastated to find that their husbands are free agents and married when co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:57 PM
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Agreed. Agreed. And, hell yes. And, the "yellow" bone chick is a complete idiot. LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:48 AM
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In my humble opinion, books and life --- I've read that some bi-racial black women have internal crisis surrounding identity. I can't speak to it myself as as an American Black woman. Doja Cat identifies as such, "I’m a black woman. Half of my family is black from South Africa and I’m very proud of where I come from." Her mother is Jewish American.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:43 PM
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"All our income goes into one chequing account, and he distributes it to savings, investments, properties, bills, etc." Do you have a separate account for yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:25 PM
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Hold on there about Doja Cat. Allegedly she is a pickme of racist white men, literally found in racist chat rooms stripping for them. These men use a racial slur translated to "didn't do nothings" to describe black men targeted by racist cops. She solidified her allegiance of racist dogma, in her song entitled " Dindu Nuffin" ( term used to disparage black victims of police brutality). ​ Here's the article: https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-52805974 Pop star Doja Cat has denied taking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 02:26 PM
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I have chronic illness too. When you can financially try to buy a condo it will always be cheaper than rent and will provide you with security and you will not have to worry about upkeep so much. If you marry you can rent it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:32 PM
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It's the best post I've read. The length is fine, it's such an enjoyable read. Btw, doctors tried to get me to abort my daughter because they said she would be deformed. My spirit was adamant she was staying with me. She was the most beautiful baby, right from birth. She received a proposal for marriage in 1st grade (lol), strangers always tell her how beautiful she is and she has an amazing boyfriend that gives her the world. This is the child who cheerfully does anything for mom (I have invisi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:36 PM
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That's what I thought. Then my Ex and my son had to break into my townhouse from the garage 2x because we were locked out. No one came to check on anything. No one. We have pretty thin walls. I can hear my neighbors take a pee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:55 PM
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I think it's odd that men ask any questions about how a woman carries herself. Asking people they do not know personal questions is just plain rude besides long hair is an attribute found in ALL races. Sometimes people are complete idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:33 AM
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O.k. this isn't going to be nice but it's the truth. Kanye did not want a queen. He wanted a porn star fantasy. He saw Kim's sex tape like most men and wanted the fantasy. He was NOT looking for a woman with standards because he's troubled. Because Kim seeks attention and follows the money/fame hence a perfect match. They both got what they wanted. With all of their wealth and fame which men are of other races are knocking down their doors? No one except loser bum rappers seemingly with 8th grad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:52 AM
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Because you are doing the ALL thing. That's dismissive AF. You do not understand the degrees of difference and this IS race exclusive because it is the experience of Black women and Black men. Our culture, society, and history is different and is not reflective of what ALL women deal with because of our culture. And despite having had your own experience which I can sympathize with, it is not the same for the reasons I described above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:43 AM
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LVM/NVM want control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:54 AM
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Hello Love, Purchase (online/instore) Feminine Wipes, Body wipes, Feminine Spray - you'll always smell and stay fresh and this is not to say you do not, but I myself enjoy the fresh feeling this provides and I am also fresh longer. I'm a bit older than alot of ladies here, but this is advice I give my adult daughter as well. You must give yourself time everyday to take care of you because you are worth that and you are you're biggest fan and asset in your life. Create a space to tend to your nee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:34 PM
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What is happening with people and hygiene? I'm going to need a body condom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:51 AM
2

Add me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:51 PM
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Been there too. We live, we learn. We WILL win at this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:28 AM
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Soooo an ex would brush his teeth before bed but his dick/ball combination one time was horrific...you never know whats lurking in those dad jeans, and uncircumcised to boot...I caught a whiff of those jeans 1x or 2x and thought hmm these must be his around the house jeans, but didn't smell anything on him until the aforementioned moment above. He was beyond 10 yrs older than me! And owned a fully functioning washer/dryer. I'm still feeling victimized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:26 AM
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Men are so gross. Watch out for the older ones, never in my life encountered this kind of crap before until I dated an older guy. Just nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:17 AM
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And making money off of women who purchase his trash. I'm like why do people need to order the books ---- when you dont accept garbage anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:16 AM
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I feel the same way about now and the fake feminism of I can parade my body and sleep with everyone but I deserve respect. The world doesn't work that way but in the 90s and 2k that was the time of it and the music reflects that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:53 PM
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No the music isn't the issue. White people adopt black culture, by using our speech, wearing style of clothing, and using mannerisms typical of black culture. It's highly inauthentic and derogatory. Especially because Black people are demeaned for authentically and genuinely being themselves. Then white culture sells on cups, t-shirts, etc. Black culture and profit from it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 03:51 PM
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While I appreciate her sentiments, I"m tired of non-Black women capitalizing off of the attitudes, language, and personalities of Black women. We are shamed for speaking Ebonics but people who do not live in urban areas and/or experience urban culture are quick to mimic how we speak and our culture and monetize it. Everything Black culture writes or speaks from Facebook, Tik Tok, Instagram is imitated as like a 2 year old learning the word "see" or "look". Black women are not your spirit animals…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:25 AM
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Really? I was around 8 or 9 years old...I only remember the numbers. I did check out the lyrics. I couldn't agree more. It's like when my ex said, the lyrics to Blondie's song, One way or another was creepy as all get it out and he was right too. Her song gets really batshit towards the end. Hey it was the 80s and absolutely a different time. It had a different spirit about it and people often sung about strange shit. Google Everybody Wang Chung Tonight. You had to be there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:53 AM
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Your Dad is amazing. God bless him and you're family. Wish I'd grown up in your family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:46 AM
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Yeah because she'lll have an infection eventually. I'm so sure he isn't cleaning his dick most of the time either. Men think if they don't smell they are clean. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:30 AM
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What about that awful smell they can have behind their balls. WTF IS that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:27 AM
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I have really important things to spend my time doing. I bet people don't consider this a fetish, but it kinda is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:25 AM
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Yes, please be aware that some Black American men do this as well ----> degrading women of their own culture. Many think they can have a piece of White America by marrying White women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:53 PM
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Old PP sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:48 PM
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We generally fuck up alot of things. Common sense literally disappeared into thin air. It saddens me that most of my daughter's generation don't know much about womanhood other than false feminism. My father told me that my generation of women were making it easier for men to do less and less. And that the men are now the women; making demands and acting like they are the prize. He said this in 1990s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:41 PM
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I hear what you are saying but everyone will not be at the top at the same time. Only in a perfect world. If those children have the opportunity to play with other children, enjoy themselves, eat well, etc. then it is still an opportunity. For moments a day they get a reprieve and are making connections mentally and personally. I often read stories that people exposed to a better environment set out to create it. Giving people wealth or opportunities often causes resentment and continued relianc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:29 PM
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i loved that song. It had a touch of what would be called later alternative/ grunge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:20 PM
5

I love your comment! I totally, laughed out loud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:01 PM
6

I bet she has been to hell and back a few times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:55 PM
3

And a response like this is what these idiots will use to justify the response they want from us to settle for 0.01 cents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:52 PM
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My ex mentioned that the last woman he proposed to, her ring was over 3k. I love jewelry and nice things. So when I bought a new right hand ring it was about 3.2K and it is a beauty. He knew he had to come with his highest offer. We didn't work out thankfully. I think he's still underemployed/unemployed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:50 PM
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Glad you are doing well sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:52 AM
5

Not really. Boomers are over 60 or 65 years old. Millenials are younger than 26 right? So there parents are Gen Xers I would think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 04:12 AM
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I can't stand the blackfishing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:55 PM
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Yes, you are not alone I totally get it. You are 100% correct. I"m glad you were finally able to break free. These things can take decades of a woman's life. My LVX found a LVW with a drug problem to play with. He told me all about her life; her mother was a drug addict who had multiple children with multiple men, she has a drug addiction, she is unable to have children and it bothers her, he told me how her ex used to abuse her and that she isn't used to being treated well. He said, it's much e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:26 PM
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Yes. Narcs and Sociopaths will ruin you with it. When I was younger, mine made a post about my childhood trauma on Facebook to his hundreds of friends. I managed to move past that and him and am a very private person. I don't trust men to not get turned on by these things or use it as emotional or mental chains.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:17 PM
1

I agree with you we have to support other women if possible not tear them down. Some of these chickies, I can't help. It's like fighting against the tide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:51 PM
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I met them at outdoor or acceptable socially distancing venues. Never going to someone's home first. It's important that we do background checks on these guys, get to know them, about their habits, family life, go on a few dates over a period of time before going to anyone's home. No matter if it's a new female friend or a guy you are dating. I've heard some strange things about women being predators too, working in the hub of sex trafficking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:42 PM
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They find younger women with issues who feel validated by the older man trope. Except he's stingy, dick doesn't work, wants her to do all the work because he loses an erection trying to perform in most positions because of ED or other medical problems. Is bald or balding and has regrets. Deep ones. He has very little to give emotionally. Who wants to be around for his sunset?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 01:35 PM
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No, not shame on your mom. She was raised in a different time in society and had to survive this bullshit with all the pro-man propaganda. Just like some women are waking up now while others were schooled early on, her generation may not have had that level of support from their moms and friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:42 PM
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Hoping a LVW will become HVW is like dating a man for his potential. How much garbage do you have to wade through to get anything meaningful?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:04 PM
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"Almost every man is capable of stringing you along for however long he decides to, faking emotions along the way." Yes. They will pretend week after week until you reach relationship status and then slowly drop the mask. Now here's where it's important for women to acknowledge what's happening. We must pull back as they pull back. He is slowly turning up the heat in the pot. Don't be the frog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:09 AM
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Good question. I mean what could you possibly do to get a crusty towel? I'm going to go with what type of substance was left in the towel. Because water alone doesn't cause that and neither does soap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:42 PM
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My partner (new) tried it and he's well over 50. Sadly, I don't think their preference for "raw" sex with their partners OR random women will ever end. Men have the privilege of having to not consider too much of anything. For us, being the gate keeper is a tireless job but man when we slip, (who hasn't !) the repercussions range from emotional to physical. I'd been abstinent for a few years and yeah it's good to have an orgasm with a man, truth be told the aftermath is still the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:24 PM
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You are a high level strategist. Drinks on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:09 PM
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Exactly. They'll do a number 2 and put it back into their pants and later on expect a blowjob.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:03 PM
12

Can someone tell me why men want to be gynecologists so badly? They work to diagnose and treat anatomy they don't have and have the nerve to dismiss the patient's feelings? On what basis? I'd love to tell a man, no your erectile dysfunction is all in your head. I just saw a MD who believed I was somatic because I complain of pain all over my body (RA/Fibro). They discovered a previous doctor's medical notes (male) in the group, who for the 15 minutes I was in his company said he didn't think I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 12:13 AM
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Me too. I just love how feminine JMalone Scents are. #Nectarine #Cardamom & Mimosa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 06:19 AM
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To clean the body removing "deep skin" is unnecessary. Each to it's own. My comment is that it is important to wash the skin and not simply rinse it. I hope that I've answered your question. You seem to be in your feelings and also seem to be judgmental yourself. I'll leave you to resolve those issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:46 AM
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I can't stop laughing. Then we'll pollute the air. Guess we are wearing masks anyway right now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 05:42 AM
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Yes, women like this tend to age faster and spin on their hamster wills because of the internal drama of that piss poor description of a relationship they've settled for. My ex's wife looked like she was in her 50s when she was only 40. She married him, knowing he was a horrible father. She took care of him and their children, while he rode her coat tails and she had to pay my child support at one time. She finds ways to make it all work but just think where she would be without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:57 PM
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You could also donate it. Puts a positive spin on a negative situation, unless his stuff deserves the garbage heap!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:40 PM
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As an African American woman, I heard low value AA men say this in my 20s and they continue to say this. If you'll watch past and current episodes of entertainment court shows with AA lvm, that is where it went mainstream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:37 PM
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Women are women despite how they clean themselves. But there is a difference in a lady and a woman. And being offended, does not make my statement wrong. Put your big girl panties on. Good hygiene and cleanliness goes beyond a simple scrub with the hand. Women have external genital organs the mons pubis, labia majora, labia minora, Bartholin glands, and clitoris. So you'll clean the mons pubis, labia majoria, labia minora with just your hand or 1x a week? During and after your menstrual cycle, b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:36 PM
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Yes. I agree. I have heard men mention prostitutes and let me tell you the stories, these women have been every where and will do any and every thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:11 AM
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I doubt it. That's why waiting 3 month or more is so important. I goofed and was a month short. When I found out he had poor hygiene I wanted to kick myself down a flight of stairs. I put the kabosh on sex. From what I'm reading on here not only do men sleep with anything, I mean anything! but people in general have poor hygiene. This is toooo much work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:05 AM
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It's not scrubbing a washcloth is a soft piece of cotton. You massage it over the body to remove dirt, grime, sweat bacteria. Please be a man....women have to use a washcloth to clean themselves daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:01 AM
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How does a man clean his penis and scrotum without a wash cloth? After a bowel movement and just for overall cleanliness a wash cloth is necessary. That is an area where wet hands just won't do the bacteria has just been massaged not actually removed from the area. Additionally moisture causes bacteria and yeast to grow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:59 AM
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Yes, my thoughts exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:55 AM
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Men have poor hygiene. Many brush their teeth for less than 1 minute. And....I think dick is dirty. Men touch everything and use the washroom without washing their hands first. So after an entire day he's touched his penis how many times after touching how many surfaces? Too many men whip their peen out for a woman to go down on them touting cleanliness but have the practices I named above, wear their underwear several days of the week (ass stinks) and do not bathe daily. Many that do bathe dail…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:36 PM
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You can do as you please but for me, I won't work my ass off. I'm choosing to work smart and also choosing to save my energy for other things and that is what works for me. My definition of femininity is indeed innate. I'm describing femininity as it pertains to the circle that I am a part of; I have be described as such and am comfortable with that. Femininity vs feminist is what I am hearing you describe. I am not a feminist. I used to be. I took all the classes and lived the life and preached…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 04:19 AM
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I mean damn is there no creativity? Black people should trademark and copyright our culture, ebonics, attitude, etc. Surely they can find another phrase. It's fuckin disrespectful to Sandra Bland, Breyonna Taylor and other women who died because of racism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:03 AM
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I don't think a man will save me, but I certainly do expect for him to provide for me. I am innately a very feminine woman. Each to their own but if I'm in a relationship I'm going to allow him to pursue and provide. I have my own money and manage a small business. I do not work hard at all. It's not because I'm lazy it's because I refuse to be stressed out, haggard, and ran down. My health is very important and I prefer to age well and so having the proper balance according to my needs is my ow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 04:33 AM
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As a single female homeowner, I do a few of these, but I will do more. You have a very well thought out and thorough list of suggestions. Thank you. :) These men have run the gamut from outright disrespectful ( asking was I really the homeowner because he can't do the work for a renter), shady (trying to cheat me out of money by being friendly), flirtatious and expectant, reluctant and petulant (about putting on booties). I always need them to put on booties because men traipse everywhere anyway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:10 AM
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I needed this additional explanation of the guidelines today. Thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:44 AM
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Special place in hell of these pick me people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:15 PM
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I Just CoMuniCated to my boyfriend I'd like more conversation beyond the 1x a day check in. His response indicated that he felt I was getting the conversation I needed. WTF? I explained what I needed again. Once, I realized he was being 1000% asshole man I switched gears. I stopped taking his calls. Upgraded my online dating account and chatted with a few new prospects. Just. Like. That. My options will low key remain open. You'll f up your life if you settle for even a sec for their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:10 PM
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Long live the clit. I have so much respect for my female parts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:59 PM
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I admire you. I am getting fit and have leveled up and will continue to do so. I tell my adult daughter never let yourself go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:37 PM
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I cannot stop laughing....old baseball glove. Yes, they do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:23 PM
5

Just experienced that. Lied about his age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:22 PM
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I mean no disrespect. She is a bbw. And, yes she is fat. Saying she is a whale is hurtful though. If she asked him, he should respectfully tell her the truth and not be hurtful. If she didn't ask, and he's presenting his opinion, he should find someone in the size he desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:17 PM
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Yep me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:17 AM
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I've been out of my narc relationship a year. I never, ever, thought I could do this. Here are the videos that helped me sis: Dr. Carmen Bryant (psychological help): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_qHK2Zae4S37XHKQzTuq7Q Helen Sadler/ Destiny Helper (spiritual help) : https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=helen+saddler+destiny+helper Dr. Ramani (pyschological help): https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=dr.+ramani ​ You must not ever, I mean ever leave a trail that you are watchi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 07:06 PM
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You are right. My ex dummy said he hated being alone. He always groomed a runner-up in case I left. I did leave. He proceeded to triangulate me and the other woman. He secretly hated and resented me, especially because I was making power moves and he was unemployed. Months later he finally left me and made her his fall back and continued grooming women, now behind her back. On his way out the door he told me that he ALWAYS cheated on me. Why ladies? Because he could. His words not mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:38 PM
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